Winamp Logo
The Coffee Breakup Cover
The Coffee Breakup Profile

The Coffee Breakup

English, Social, 7 seasons, 195 episodes, 12 hours, 14 minutes
The good, the bad, the ugly, but always the TRUTH. Join Chris and Marvin as they grind down the meanings and misconceptions of dating and relationships in today's world. Support this podcast:
Episode Artwork

Walk Away From Relationships That No Longer Serve You - Ep. 144

In this video we are talking about the oftentimes invertible part of a relationship that we all dread; the ending. Not all relationships make it, many simply run its course and all we can do is walk away from relationships that no longer serve us. If you're struggling with the end of a relationship, or if you're wondering how to walk away from someone you perhaps even now, very much love, then this episode is for you! This episode is based on our ⁠⁠new book: Starting From Within' The Secret to a Healthy Relationship. --- Support this podcast:
10/23/202322 minutes, 42 seconds
Episode Artwork

If You Allow This in Your Relationship, it Will Fail! (Break this Cycle) - Ep. 141

If you want to be in a healthy relationship and marriage, you cannot allow this to happen! Comfort is the death of a relationship. Becoming too comfortable in your relationship means you stop trying to win your partner over. You stop trying to impress him or her. You stop buying flowers, open the door for her or go out on date nights. You gain weight and become complacent. Relationships cannot succeed this way! #viral #relationship #marriage --- Support this podcast:
9/25/202316 minutes, 9 seconds
Episode Artwork

Woman Continues to Care for ex-Husband Following Traumatic Brain Injury along with New Husband

In 2008, Kristen Armstrong received a terrifying phone call: Her husband, Brandon Smith, had been involved in a car accident — and it was bad. Smith was 23 at the time of his accident, and Armstrong was 24. She dreamed of having children. When it became clear that Smith would never recover, Armstrong made the “heart-wrenching” decision to file for divorce. Now she's married with another man with children, and she still cares for her ex-husband! What are your thoughts on this crazy story? --- Support this podcast:
8/1/202323 minutes, 8 seconds
Episode Artwork

How To Know If You're Ready To Move In Together? (Natural Progression of a Relationship) -Bonus Ep.

We are asking others on Miami Beach when is the right time to move in with your partner, should you be engaged first? What's the natural progression of a relationship? Tune in and let us know in the comments below! #viral #relationship #dating #miami --- Support this podcast:
7/17/20235 minutes, 37 seconds
Episode Artwork

What to do if Your Partner Gains Weight in Your Relationship? (VIDEO)

In this video, we are going over what you should do if your partner gains weight in a relationship. And what it means for them to let themselves go not just physically, but also mentally and spiritually.   Watch the full episode on Patreon: --- Support this podcast:
12/19/202211 minutes, 48 seconds
Episode Artwork

Becoming a Better Man | A Guide for a Better Future | Ft. Pooh & Mike - BONUS EPISODE (AUDIO ONLY)

 We have on two amazing entrepreneurs who shared with us what it takes to  become a better man, not just for themselves, but also for their  partners.     Alex aka 'Pooh' and Mike joined us this week and they shared with us  what it's like to work in the night life industry, the bad rep it gets  and what it's really like.   Mike is married and he shared with us how marriage has made him become a  better man. This is an audio-only exclusive.  We take mental health extremely seriously. At some point in our   lives we are  all in need of a little help. Having someone to talk to   is vital. Whether it's about romantic relationships, friends, or  family.   We   all need to care for our mental health. That is why we  are happy  that we are sponsored by Better Help. The world's largest  online therapy  platform. Find  your own therapist online today! Sign up  with us and get  10% OFF your first month. --- Support this podcast:
6/24/20221 hour, 26 minutes, 16 seconds
Episode Artwork

Patreon Exclusive - Letting Go: How To Know It's Time To Let Go Of A Relationship (Dating a Drug Addict)

We've done a special segments with one of our Patreon premium members! She asked for help about dating someone with a severe drug addiction and how to best go on about the situation. Learning how to let go of a toxic relationship can be extremely difficult. Especially when drugs are involved. A terrible position to be in, but you have to put yourself first! You cannot go help anyone who doesn't want to be helped. Put yourself first, even if it feels wrong. Because your happiness matters. Want to get tailored 1 on 1 advice? Subscribe to our Patreon for more exclusive content, full access to us, and amazing advice. --- Support this podcast:
6/21/202228 minutes, 45 seconds
Episode Artwork

The Person You Really Need to Marry Pt. 2│Ft. Thalia aka XOTHAL (Book Release) Ep. 61 Part 2

We take mental health extremely serious. At some point in our lives  we  are  all in need of a little help. Having someone to talk to is  vital.  Whether its about romantic relationships, friends, or family. We  all  need to care for our mental health. That is why we are happy that we've  been sponsored by Better Help. The worlds largest online therapy  platform. Find your own  therapist online today! Sign up with us and get  10% OFF your first  month. Dating again after a toxic relationship can be difficult. Especially  when you don't know what a healthy relationship looks like. In this part  2 interview with Thalia, we further discuss how to heal after a breakup  and what you can do to ensure that you end up with the right person.   Thalia also announced the publication of her first poetry book called  'Too Much'.  Her very first book is officially out. 'Too Much' a poetry book with an  incredible amount of emotions.   Get your copy here:  Her Instagram: @xothal --- Support this podcast:
1/17/202245 minutes, 23 seconds
Episode Artwork

Valentine's Day Special - Episode 36

What are some ideas for a successful and pleasing Valentine's Day? Well let's start off by saying that you should appreciate the people you love good no matter what day of the year it is. Don't just wait for February 14 to show your partner how much you appreciate them. Tune in now to get some Valentine's Day ideas. --- Support this podcast:
2/5/202146 minutes, 31 seconds
Episode Artwork

Green Flags in a Relationship - Episode 35

A few week ago, we touched on an important subject called 'red flags in relationships'. We wanted to give you guys the opposite side of red flags: GREEN FLAGS. This week we're talking about healthy indicators for a relationship. Tune in Now. --- Support this podcast:
1/22/202157 minutes, 46 seconds
Episode Artwork

Having a Child Young Feat: Luch aka InTheMoodPhotography - Episode 34

This week we sat down with luch to talk about what it's like being a father at such a young age. Making a relationship work when there's a child involved. The intricacies of raising a family and being a provider. Gender roles, and so much more. Tune in Now. --- Support this podcast:
1/8/202141 minutes, 31 seconds
Episode Artwork

Red Flags in a Relationship - Episode 33

This week we got another great episode for you all. Something everyone who ever dates will most certainly come across at one point or another. RED FLAGS! They are real and more often than not, they are easily spotted, if you know what you're looking for that is. We wanted to sit down and go over some bigger red flags when it comes to dating in order to void ending up in relationships that aren't healthy for us. Tune in now. --- Support this podcast:
12/18/202056 minutes, 32 seconds
Episode Artwork

The Truth About Romance: Keys to a Successful Relationship Feat. Dr. Samuel Heastie - Episode 32

We are incredibly excited for this week's episode as we sat down with Dr. Sam Heastie and talked about 'relationships'. Dr. Heastie who has a PhD in philosophy and teaches psychology at Miami-Dade College brought an incredible wealth of knowledge to the show. We talked about what unconditional love truly means for us humans, how to foster and channel it, and most importantly: how to love without conditions. Why relationships are so frequently destined to fail, what successful marriages all have in common and so so much more. This truly was a tremendous episode --- Support this podcast:
12/4/20201 hour, 33 minutes, 1 second
Episode Artwork

Why Dating as a Millennial is so Screwed up - Episode 31

Happy Friday everyone! Tune in now for a brand-new episode of The Coffee Breakup. This week we're talking about why dating as a millennial is so screwed up. If you're under 38 years old, you'll be able to relate. Tune in now. --- Support this podcast:
11/13/202045 minutes, 22 seconds
Episode Artwork

We Broke Up, Now What? - Episode 30

Breakups, we all go through them at some point in our life's. They're never fun to go through, but you can use them as a critical learning experience in your life. We get a lot of messages on a regular basis concerning breakups. "She broke up with me, what do I do?" "He left me; how can I get him back?" "She called it quits after I cheated on her again. How can I fix this?" The list goes on and on. This week we wanted to address some of these messages and where we find the root issue with them. Because there is one giant observation that we keep come across. Tune in NOW if you've ever been at the end of a relationship and found yourself desperately wondering: "Now What?" --- Support this podcast:
10/30/202019 minutes, 58 seconds
Episode Artwork

Dating in Your Mid-20's in Miami Feat. Kat & Jessica Sendin - Episode 29

Happy Friday everyone. Tune in now for a brand-new episode with the Sendin sisters. This week you will have the great pleasure to hear from 4 people. This is our first time where we have 2 guests. Bear with us, all we're doing is getting better! --- Support this podcast:
10/16/20201 hour, 18 minutes, 3 seconds
Episode Artwork

Finding Yourself and Finding Love Feat. Caposins - Episode 28

Happy Friday, everyone. Tune in now for our brand new episode ft. @caposins. It was a great pleasure to have him on and have an honest conversation about what loving someone truly means. What to look for in a partner and what being a single guy in Miami is really like. --- Support this podcast:
10/2/20201 hour, 27 minutes, 4 seconds
Episode Artwork

How to Last Longer, Find the G Spot, and Everything Sex Feat. Miami Love Doctor - Episode 27

Happy Friday everyone. This week we got a very special episode for you all. Please welcome Miami Love Doctor. It's always great to hear different opinions from different people. But for this episode we wanted to hear from an actual expert in his field. Dr. David Hernandez is a sexual health specialist and educator who has an incredible wealth of knowledge when it comes to sexual health. Tune in now! --- Support this podcast:
9/18/20201 hour, 12 minutes, 8 seconds
Episode Artwork

Dating Struggles under 25 Feat. Lexi Marie V - Episode 26

Another week, another guest. This week we got the charming Lexi Marie V on our show! Another great episode. We sat down, talked cheating, toxic people, learning how to be alone, how one could possibly be single for so many years, and so so much more. Tune in now! --- Support this podcast:
9/4/202050 minutes, 26 seconds
Episode Artwork

How Important is Energy in a Relationship Feat. Ciera Delgado - Episode 25

Happy Friday, everyone! Another week with a special guest. This week we got the one and only Ciera Delgado with us on our show. We, of course, have known Ciera for some time now, but having her on our show gave us plenty of time to ask her some tough questions and learn about her, in a way we previously haven't been able to do. - Tune in now for a brand new episode. Find out all about Monat queen Ciera. --- Support this podcast:
8/21/20201 hour, 19 minutes, 25 seconds
Episode Artwork

The 5 Love Languages - Episode 24

Happy Friday, everyone. We are LIVE with another episode of the Coffee Breakup. Tune in now to learn what the five love languages are, how to identify them, and how to learn your partners love language. If you're already in a relationship, this episode is for you. If you're single, then this episode is also for you. Tune in NOW! --- Support this podcast:
8/7/202035 minutes, 50 seconds
Episode Artwork

Long Term Dating Leading Nowhere Feat. NathalieCFit - Episode 23

Happy Friday, everyone! We got another great episode today. For the very first time, do we have a woman on our show!! Finally, the moment you've all been waiting for. It is our greatest pleasure to welcome Nathalie C Fit on our show! - Tune in now to get a woman's perspective on a lot of issues we've talked about in the past, who pays, how to approach women, having an OnlyFans, dealing with commitment issues, how to heal from a past relationship, and so so much more. It was our uttermost pleasure to have her on our show. Tune in now. --- Support this podcast:
7/24/20201 hour, 15 minutes, 53 seconds
Episode Artwork

Dating in the Nightlife Industry Feat. Richie Garcia - Episode 22

Happy Friday, everyone! This week we got a very special episode. For the first time ever, do we have a guest with us on our show. Please welcome Richard Garcia. Promoter, business owner and entrepreneur. One of Miami's most known promoters. He's great at what he does-a longtime friend of ours and great mind. Tune in now! Part I: Richie's Background 4:30 Part II: Relationships: 18:48 Part II Questions: 30:20 --- Support this podcast:
7/10/20201 hour, 20 seconds
Episode Artwork

The Coffee BreakUpdate

Happy Friday everyone! This week we wanted to give you guys some news, and also a little reflection on who we are, and how we became The Coffee Breakup! Tune in for a Coffee BreakUpdate! --- Support this podcast:
7/3/202014 minutes, 20 seconds
Episode Artwork

Why Men Suck At Sex

Today is Friday, so that means another episode of The Coffee Breakup is LIVE. Today we got a great topic for you all: "Why Men Suck at Sex." Sex takes two people to work. Both share an equal amount of responsibility to ensure that the experience truly is enjoyable for both parties. It's not a competition and not an individual sport, but rather a team effort. If you've ever wondered how to be better at sex, as a men OR women, then you'll want to tune in right now. --- Support this podcast:
6/26/202029 minutes, 48 seconds
Episode Artwork

Cheating & Second Chances

Happy Friday, everyone! We're LIVE with another episode of The Coffee Breakup. This weeks topic is "Cheating and Second Chances." A topic that very few people openly like to talk about: but if there's one thing that we've learned is that if there is a conversation you do not like to talk about, it's probably one worth having! We don't B.S. you guys. We give it to you straight. Some topics are easier for us to talk about than others. This one was not easy. Tune in now to watch the full episode-link --- Support this podcast:
6/19/202029 minutes, 40 seconds
Episode Artwork

Getting Back With an Ex

Getting back with an old flame can be a dangerous game. Is it possible to let bygone be bygone? Or do relationships end for a reason, and trying to rekindle with an old love will only leave you burned? A difficult decision. So why not break it down? Yours hosts Christian Viera and Marvin Scholz give you the facts and some personal experience. This may be just what you need to hear. Tune in and enjoy the show. Happy Friday. --- Support this podcast:
6/12/202032 minutes, 26 seconds
Episode Artwork

Taking a Break in a Relationship

Happy Friday, everyone. Today we're LIVE with another episode. This week we touched on a polarizing issue. Taking a break. For many, it's a no brainer, because, for them, breaks are a no-go. Other people, however, feel that taking a break during a relationship can actually be a good thing-two very opposite views. Naturally, we at the Coffee Breakup broke it down for you all. Enjoy the show. #TheCoffeeBreakup --- Support this podcast:
6/5/202029 minutes, 22 seconds
Episode Artwork

Why is Commitment so Difficult?

Commitment - a word that many people fear. But why? Why is it so hard for people to commit? Sure, both men and women can be accused of this, but it is much more common in men than women. This week we are talking about why that may be the case. We are dissecting all the layers and really focus on the issues that may cause this lack of commitment. We call it how we see it. This may hurt some people's feelings, but that is exactly the point. The truth can be uncomfortable. So buckle up and tune in --- Support this podcast:
5/29/202030 minutes, 7 seconds
Episode Artwork

Social Media & Dating

Happy Friday everyone. It is another beautiful Friday to talk about relationships. This week, the main topic is social media and how it affects our relationships. One cannot argue the impact social media has on relationships can be significant. However, this may not always be such a bad thing. Tune in now to watch/listen to the full episode. --- Support this podcast:
5/22/202027 minutes, 52 seconds
Episode Artwork

How to be Alone

Something many people struggle with is the ability be alone. And learning how to be alone is essential if we want to find inner peace and genuine happiness. How can we seek healthy and fulfilling relationships with others, if we can't even be happy alone? If you're one of those people who struggle with learning how to embrace solitude, then this episode is for you. This episode will be your wakeup call. --- Support this podcast:
5/15/202029 minutes, 1 second
Episode Artwork

Dating Your Friends Ex

This week we wanted to know if it's ever okay to date your friend's ex? Are there certain exceptions? Is it always a definite no, or can the line between yes and no can become blurry at times? The Coffee Breakup broke it down for you all. Happy Friday --- Support this podcast:
5/8/202021 minutes, 41 seconds
Episode Artwork

When Should One Get Married?

Few decisions in one's life will carry as much consequence as choosing the right person to marry. They're the person you do life with - In good and bad times. They have to be your best friend, the person you fall back to when all else fails. The person you first share all your good news, all your bad news. The wins, the losses, the triumphs, the failures. They'll be with you through it all. Clearly, finding the right person to marry is of uttermost importance. But when do you know that he or she is it and when do you pop the question? When do you say yes? Is there a specific timetable, or is it a case by case situation? Few questions are harder to answer. But we still found a way to answer them. Tune in to find out. --- Support this podcast:
5/1/202030 minutes, 33 seconds
Episode Artwork

Should Women Approach Men?

Have you thought approaching that one girl you've been eager to talk to but haven't found a way to approach her? Have you been contemplating talking to that one guy you've been eyeing for the past few weeks, but haven't figured out how to do it? Well, don't worry. We here at The Coffee Breakup got all the answers for you. Tune in now with a brand new episode about 'shooting your shot.' You don't want to miss this one. TUNE IN NOW. --- Support this podcast:
4/24/202030 minutes, 4 seconds
Episode Artwork

Jealousy in a Relationship

This week the topic of discussion is 'jealousy,' and how to cope with it if you're the jealous type. How to not let it negatively affect your relationship. We've all been that jealous person at some point or dated someone who was more insecure than the average person. Clearly, this is a common situation. But there are ways to fix this issue and not let it ruin a relationship. Tune in now to find out exactly how! --- Support this podcast:
4/17/202029 minutes, 20 seconds
Episode Artwork

Staying Loyal in the 'Talking Stage'

Another Friday means another episode of The Coffee Breakup. Today, we are talking about a subject that is very relevant to many, especially in this generation. We are, of course, talking about the 'talking stage.' Should you stay loyal while in it? How does it work? Is there a rule to abide by? Or does it all boil down to communication? We at The Coffee Breakup broke it down for you all. Tune in! --- Support this podcast:
4/10/202025 minutes, 48 seconds
Episode Artwork

Who Should Pay?

The question, so many of you all have been asking yourselves. One of the most polarizing topics in the current dating scene. 'Who should pay on a date?" For some, it's a clear answer, for most, though, it isn't all black and white. Traditions disperse to make room for a progressive society, a new way of thinking. One where equality trumps customs. And we here at The Coffee Breakup don't shy away from controversial topics. So, who should pay on a date? Let's talk about it. --- Support this podcast:
4/3/202028 minutes, 16 seconds
Episode Artwork

Coronavirus & Love is Blind

We hope that this episode finds you all well. We are living in extraordinary times, and we all are feeling the impact the Coronavirus is causing. This week we took some time out of our regular schedule to reflect on current events. Speaking of recent events, most of you have come across a show called, 'Love is Blind.' A reality show where single people are seeking to find a livelong partner - without ever laying an eye on that person. The hope is that emotional connection is far more important than physical attraction. The question we all want to know is, is this actually true? Tune in to find out. Happy Friday, everyone. --- Support this podcast:
3/27/202029 minutes, 47 seconds
Episode Artwork

Long Distance Relationships

This week we'll be talking about 'long distance relationships.' For many those are three words that should never be used in the same sentence. But for others, the idea of loving someone who lives 1,200 miles away doesn't seem disconcerting at all. So what's the secret to making a long distance relationship work? Is it an extreme amount of discipline? Or do those relationships ultimately all succumb to human yearnings? Can you make it work or is it just wishful thinking? --- Support this podcast:
3/20/202029 minutes, 7 seconds
Episode Artwork

Dating Someone With an OnlyFans

Dating a girl with an OnlyFans. A big no, or something one can get behind. A controversial topic for many. Your hosts Christian Viara and Marvin Scholz break it down for you. --- Support this podcast:
3/13/202024 minutes, 13 seconds
Episode Artwork

Sex on the First Date

Sex on the first date is somehow considered a big no-no. Many will have you believing that nothing sustainable can come from it. If you have sex on the first date, they'll say it won't get much further than that. But is that really true? Let's talk about it. Your hosts Christian Viera and Marvin Scholz will break it down for you. Is sex on the first date really a death-sentence to any potential future the two of you may have? Let's find out. Happy Friday! --- Support this podcast:
3/6/202016 minutes, 17 seconds
Episode Artwork

Being Friends With an Ex

We all have one. The one that got away, the one where you two almost had it. The one that came into your life and changed everything. But things didn't quite workout. Something broke. The question many will ask; Can you pick up the pieces and still stay friends? Can you be civil and remain in each others life's? Or you just letting nostalgia get the better of you? Tune in and find out! Happy Friday! --- Support this podcast:
2/28/202028 minutes, 24 seconds
Episode Artwork

Dating Someone Who Has/ Wants Kids

This week we'll be diving into a heavy subject. 'Dating someone with kids.' Life happens. Things sometimes don't work out with your significant other. Even with kids. It's never easy. And for many, it's a touchy subject. The question is however, whether or not it's advisable to date someone who already has had kids with someone else. By doing so, are you setting yourself up for a long road of hardship. Or can something genuinely good come from it? The challenges, the compromises it'll take and when, if ever, it's okay to even ask the question:" do you have any kids?" Let's talk about it. Happy Friday everyone. --- Support this podcast:
2/21/202028 minutes, 35 seconds
Episode Artwork

Valentine's Day Special

Your hosts Marvin and Christian are thrilled to have you tune in to their debut podcast launch of 'The Coffee Breakup'. Today is a very special day for many people. For others, on the other hand, today is a day where they simply contemplate just how single they are. And then there are the people who view today as just another day. That day, of course, being: Friday, February 14. Also known as Valentine's Day. Hate it or love it, but Valentine's Day for many is a national holiday. So let's talk about it. What better topic to debut a podcast about relationships than with the most sacred day of them all, on the very day. Happy Valentine's Day people. --- Support this podcast:
2/13/202015 minutes, 10 seconds