English, Personal health, 1 seasons, 319 episodes, 5 days 12 hours 41 minutes
The BTR.ORG Podcast - Betrayal Trauma Recovery
English, Personal health, 1 seasons, 319 episodes, 5 days 12 hours 41 minutes
btr.org (https://www.btr.org) - btr.org has daily, online group and individual coaching sessions for victims of emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion. For women experiencing pain, chaos, and isolation due to their husband’s abuse: lying, gaslighting, manipulation, porn use, cheating, infidelity, emotional abuse, and narcissistic abuse. We recognize that labeling a woman as codependent is a form of victim blaming. Pornography addiction / sex addiction are a domestic abuse issue. Narcissistic abuse is not a communication issue. We help women who are in a relationship, separated, or divorced navigate to recover and heal by establishing safety through boundaries. If you suspect your husband is a narcissist, a pornography addict, or emotionally abusive, this podcast is for you. We care about your mental health. Every woman on our team has experienced abuse and betrayal trauma first hand. To learn more about Betrayal Trauma Recovery, visit BTR.ORG
Is My Husband Enmeshed With His Mother?
Enmeshment is a concept that can be difficult to understand, especially in the context of betrayal trauma and abuse. Paige is discussing enmeshment.
28/11/2023 • 29 minutes 12 seconds
The Dangers of Armchair Pathology
What is "Armchair Pathology" and how is it harming betrayal trauma victims? Paige is on The BTR.ORG Podcast. Tune in to find out.
21/11/2023 • 28 minutes 45 seconds
Are You Ready to Experience Post-Traumatic Growth?
Simona studied post-traumatic growth in victims of betrayal trauma - her findings may surprise and inspire you on your journey to healing.
14/11/2023 • 29 minutes 35 seconds
My Husband Lies About Small Things – I’m Worried
Does your husband lie about small things? That behavior can be a HUGE red flag. Virginia is on the podcast with Anne, diving into psychological abuse.
07/11/2023 • 25 minutes 45 seconds
What You Need to Know About Emotional Abuse
Is your marriage just hard, as marriage can sometimes be? Or are you experiencing emotional abuse? Virginia is on the podcast with Anne.
31/10/2023 • 22 minutes 12 seconds
How To Say No, And When To Say Yes
Anne's daughter Penny is on the podcast, sharing her philosophy on how to say no and when to say yes.
24/10/2023 • 26 minutes 22 seconds
Can I Be a Peacemaker if My Husband is Abusive?
Creating peace in an abusive dynamic is often tasked to victims. Anne talks about strategies women can use in the short-term to experience respite from chaos.
17/10/2023 • 10 minutes 35 seconds
BTR is Pro-Safety (And Abusers HATE That)
BTR is pro-safety - and sometimes that means divorce. And abusers? They hate that. Anne is going over some negative reviews from abusive men. Tune in.
10/10/2023 • 20 minutes 53 seconds
If Something Feels Off, It Probably Is Off
Angela Craig and Tausha Haight were victims of abusive husbands. Anne sheds light on psychological and emotional abuse.
Anne uses the Bible to share her feelings regarding how people in positions of authority should help ease the suffering victims of betrayal and abuse.
26/09/2023 • 33 minutes 12 seconds
3 Empowering Mantras For Abuse & Betrayal Victims
Ready to practice radical self-compassion? Dr. Stephanie Powell is back on the podcast sharing professional experience and empowering sentiments.
19/09/2023 • 26 minutes 14 seconds
What Sex Trafficking Really Looks Like
Are you a victim of sex trafficking? Dr. Stephanie Powell from NCOSE is on the BTR.ORG Podcast defining sex trafficking - listen now.
12/09/2023 • 21 minutes 46 seconds
3 Subtle Ways Misogyny Creeps Into Our Minds
Misogyny thrives in societies where it's allowed to be hidden and covert. And we all know that misogyny fuels abuse. Dr. Jessica Taylor is back on the podcast.
05/09/2023 • 26 minutes 47 seconds
Why is My Abusive Ex Fighting So Hard in Court?
Why do abusive men fight so hard in the family court systems? Especially when they were never really all that interested before? Dr. Jessica Taylor is back.
29/08/2023 • 20 minutes 35 seconds
How Do Abusers Gaslight Victims (& Advocates)?
Gaslighting can be obvious, gaslighting can be subtle. Dr. Jessica Taylor, author of Why Women Are Blamed For Everything is on the BTR.ORG Podcast.
22/08/2023 • 21 minutes 18 seconds
Why Do I Feel CRAZY in My Relationship?
Jane Gilmore is back, explaining how the media is doing a major disservice to abuse victims by misrepresenting what abuse often looks like.
15/08/2023 • 28 minutes 33 seconds
Is it My Fault That My Husband is Angry?
Jane Gilmore is back, explaining with logic and powerful stories & examples, why your husband's feelings and behavior are NOT your responsibility or your fault.
08/08/2023 • 19 minutes 1 second
How Do I Know if I’m Really Giving My Consent?
Jane Gilmore is on the podcast discussing sexual grooming and consent - and how you can know if your sexual experiences are truly consensual.
01/08/2023 • 19 minutes 35 seconds
Is My Husband Manipulating Me Into Having Sex?
Consent is more than giving or getting a yes. Jane Gilmore is back on the BTR.ORG podcast discussing consent and sexual coercion.
25/07/2023 • 19 minutes 55 seconds
I Said Yes to Sex, But Felt Dead Inside
Consent is NOT simply giving a "yes" - Jane Gilmore is on the podcast giving a crystal clear definition of consent to help you on your journey to safety.
18/07/2023 • 19 minutes 21 seconds
How Trauma Has Affected My Sexuality
Anne's crush on Indiana Jones may be revealing that trauma has affected her sexuality. She tells all in this short episode.
11/07/2023 • 13 minutes 5 seconds
Stop Telling Victims to Forgive Their Abuser!
Have you been counseled to forgive the abuser in your life? Learn why the concept of forgiveness can be harmful to victims.
04/07/2023 • 25 minutes 3 seconds
Faith Triumphs Over Satanic Ritual Sexual Abuse
TW: Anna M. Jonathan developed a new relationship with her Higher Power after surviving satanic ritual sex abuse as a child.
27/06/2023 • 23 minutes 23 seconds
Seeking Divorce Without Familial Support
Anna M. Jonathan sought safety from her abusive husband without familial support - if you're in a similar situation, learn more.
20/06/2023 • 28 minutes 1 second
Here’s the Truth About Reunification Camps
Reunification camps are traumatizing children and ruining lives. Tina Swithin is back on the BTR.ORG podcast shedding light on this lucrative, abusive industry.
13/06/2023 • 22 minutes 23 seconds
What You Need to Know About Reunification Therapy
Tina Swithin, author, blogger, and children's rights advocate, is on the podcast telling you what you need to know about reunification therapy.
06/06/2023 • 25 minutes 36 seconds
Is It Okay To Divorce If I’m Not Sure It’s Abuse?
You do not need definitive proof or physical violence to justify ending your marriage. Women can trust THEMSELVES on the journey to safety.
30/05/2023 • 24 minutes 58 seconds
When Your Husband Doesn’t Help With Housework
When your husband doesn't help with housework, takes a backseat to parenting, and controls the finances, you may be experiencing coercive control.
23/05/2023 • 27 minutes 36 seconds
How Does Psychological Abuse Affect You?
It's not JUST gaslighting and manipulation - it's a serious form of harm. So how does psychological abuse affect you? Christina's on the podcast.
16/05/2023 • 29 minutes 38 seconds
How To Help Your Teen Avoid Abusive Relationships
Teens can be victims of emotional abuse - and Lucy is on the podcast to share how she identifies red flags in potential dating partners. Tune in for more.
09/05/2023 • 27 minutes 23 seconds
What Does Post-Separation Abuse Look Like?
Post-Separation is all-too common. Laurel is on the podcast sharing her experience and answering the question: What Does Post-Separation Abuse Look Like?
02/05/2023 • 20 minutes 56 seconds
How Do Abusers Gaslight You? REAL LIFE Examples!
What does gaslighting actually look like in a marriage? Laurel's on the podcast this week - tune in for some real-life examples of gaslighting.
25/04/2023 • 29 minutes 16 seconds
Pornography Addiction Recovery Groups
Do pornography addiction recovery groups help abusive men stop harming women and children? Short answer - uh, no. Laurel is back on the BTR.ORG podcast.
18/04/2023 • 23 minutes 46 seconds
3 Ways to Know He’s Love Bombing You
Is your husband or boyfriend love bombing you? Laurel is on the podcast, discussing love bombing, also known as "grooming". Tune in!
11/04/2023 • 23 minutes 41 seconds
Why Do I Want To Fix My Abusive Husband?
When your husband is abusive, you may desperately want to fix his behavior to save your marriage; Dr. Natalie Jones is back on the podcast.
04/04/2023 • 20 minutes 54 seconds
My Husband Says He’s Not Attracted To Me
Narcissistic abusers pick on physical features. Dr. Natalie Jones is on the podcast sharing her expertise in narcissistic abuse in the BIPOC community.
28/03/2023 • 22 minutes 10 seconds
After Betrayal Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
Instead of asking, "Should I Stay or Should I Go", ask THESE questions, that can help you determine your husband's level of safety.
21/03/2023 • 22 minutes 55 seconds
Do’s & Don’ts When Confronting Your Abusive Husband
You've identified abuse - and confronting your husband may seem like the logical next step, but the truth is that he'll use your confrontation to harm you.
14/03/2023 • 27 minutes 12 seconds
How Do I Know If My Abusive Husband’s Changing?
Your husband says he wants to change and you believe him. Learn how to safely observe if he's truly changing or if it's just more grooming and gaslighting.
07/03/2023 • 23 minutes 54 seconds
Are You Married to a Covert Narcissist?
Covert narcissistic abuse is difficult to identify and even harder to escape - learn from Claire's journey and take steps to get yourself to safety.
28/02/2023 • 25 minutes 14 seconds
My Abusive Ex Keeps Texting Me – What Should I Do?
Do you get a pit in your stomach when your phone dings? Learn more about strategic communication as Anne interviews two fathers of victims.
21/02/2023 • 39 minutes 11 seconds
3 Ways to Help Your Abused Daughter
Is your daughter a victim of betrayal and abuse? Please be the parent that she deserves - learn more on the BTR.ORG podcast.
14/02/2023 • 25 minutes 28 seconds
3 Things Manipulative Men Say To Keep You Stuck
Trying to discern if you're being manipulated by your husband? An abuser emailed Anne - an her response may help you identify manipulation.
07/02/2023 • 20 minutes 34 seconds
Find Support For Emotional Abuse
If you're a victim of betrayal trauma and emotional abuse, you need support. Come find the community you deserve today.
31/01/2023 • 17 minutes 30 seconds
Patriarchy Harms Women: Here’s How
Have you been raised in a high-control religion, or other system that enables abuse? Learn about how patriarchy has harmed you and begin seeking safety.
24/01/2023 • 29 minutes 26 seconds
How Fundamentalism & Patriarchy Fuel Abuse
When women are treated as "less than," no matter how subtle the treatment may be, abuse thrives. Fundamentalist religious groups are notoriously misogynistic.
17/01/2023 • 29 minutes 5 seconds
Mind-Blowing Truth: Good Men Exist! 🤯
If you're wondering whether or not good men ACTUALLY exist, then you're in the right place. Gretchen Baskerville is back on the BTR.ORG podcast.
10/01/2023 • 25 minutes 21 seconds
A Glimpse Into Single Life Post-Divorce
Are you reluctant to pursue a life-saving divorce because of the harmful myths that inundate us regarding divorce and the single-life?
03/01/2023 • 24 minutes 43 seconds
Does “God Hate Divorce”?
Letting go of deeply ingrained, toxic religious teachings can be difficult - but BTR.ORG is here for you. Emily is on the podcast.
27/12/2022 • 34 minutes 19 seconds
I Think My Husband’s Lying To Me
Things aren't adding up... There's a feeling that something is "off"... and that blank stare on his face - is your husband lying to you? Emily's on the podcast
20/12/2022 • 25 minutes 3 seconds
Do I Tell My Husband He’s Abusing Me?
When you know it's abuse, should you tell your husband? Leslie is back on the BTR podcast and we're taking a deep dive into your next steps.
13/12/2022 • 25 minutes 9 seconds
The Truth About “Reactive Abuse”
"Reactive Abuse" isn't real - what IS real? Abusers pushing and pushing until victims reach their limit and respond with Protective Action.
06/12/2022 • 19 minutes 57 seconds
What Do Abuse Victims Look Like?
Abuse victims come in all shapes, sizes, religions, and economic demographics - Leslie is a successful doctor sharing her story.
29/11/2022 • 31 minutes 25 seconds
Did You Know This Is Sexual Abuse?
Image-Based Sexual Abuse, formerly known as "revenge porn" has affected many women in our community. Christen Price from NCOSE is back on the BTR.ORG podcast.
22/11/2022 • 21 minutes 55 seconds
This Is Why Porn Is Abuse
Christen Price from NCOSE is on the BTR.ORG Podcast, taking a deep dive into the topic of Image-Based Sexual Abuse. Learn more.
15/11/2022 • 27 minutes 6 seconds
The Secret to Healthy Marriage
Many victims of abuse want a healthy, loving relationship. Nora's sharing the ending of her story - which includes the 👉🏽 secret of healthy relationships 👈🏽
08/11/2022 • 26 minutes 15 seconds
When Your Husband Uses CSAM
👉🏽 Did your ex use Child Sex Abuse Material? Nora is sharing her story. Trauma for her ex's CSAM use has affected the whole family. Read more. 👈🏽
01/11/2022 • 28 minutes 23 seconds
This Is Why Your Husband Shows No Empathy 💔
💔 Is it autism? Addiction? Pornography? Mental illness? Or is it a choice to be abusive and devoid of empathy? Nora is on the podcast with Anne.
25/10/2022 • 22 minutes 46 seconds
Is Healthy Marriage a Myth?
Are you, like many women in our community, wondering if healthy marriage is a myth? Chandra's here to tell you about her own experience.
18/10/2022 • 26 minutes 15 seconds
Abusive Second Marriage? You’re Not Alone
Have you experienced an abusive second marriage? Chandra is on the BTR.ORG Podcast to share her own experiencing marrying an abuser a second time.
11/10/2022 • 24 minutes 27 seconds
Abandonment: What You Need to Know
Many women in the BTR.ORG community face the trauma of abandonment. Chandra is on the BTR.ORG podcast sharing her story.
04/10/2022 • 29 minutes 20 seconds
This is How Abusers Control the Narrative
When the abuser controls the narrative it's terrifying - we worry that no one will believe us. Sometimes we don't even believe ourselves.
27/09/2022 • 26 minutes 49 seconds
5 Red Flags You Need To Know
Ayla and Anne on the BTR.ORG podcast discussing the subtle (and not-so-subtle) red flags of abuse that you need to know TODAY.
20/09/2022 • 31 minutes 53 seconds
Am I Being Spiritually Abused?
Are you asking the question, "Am I Being Spiritually Abused?" This interview is for you. Anne and Abby take a deep dive into deliverance from spiritual abuse.
13/09/2022 • 35 minutes 39 seconds
Is Marriage Meant To Be This Hard?
When everyone tells women that marriage is supposed to be hard, it can be much more difficult for victims to seek safety.
06/09/2022 • 27 minutes 42 seconds
3 Attacks to Anticipate When Leaving Abuse
Are you just about ready to leave the abuser? Read up on 3 common attacks abusers employ to keep up the power-over dynamic.
30/08/2022 • 32 minutes 29 seconds
What Consent Actually Looks Like
Let's talk about what consent IS, and what consent is NOT. Elizabeth is on the podcast sharing her story publicly for the very first time.
23/08/2022 • 33 minutes 29 seconds
The Truth About Divorce
Organizations like Focus on the Family want you to believe that divorce is going to ruin everything. Let's learn the truth about divorce.
16/08/2022 • 23 minutes 46 seconds
Busting 3 Divorce Myths Now
Three pervasive divorce myths are harming victims. Let's bust those myths with Gretchen Baskerville, author of Life-Saving Divorce.
09/08/2022 • 28 minutes 11 seconds
You Deserve Safety. Now.
Identifying abuse is difficult for victims - seeking safety is the next step and BTR.ORG is here for you as you begin your journey to healing.
02/08/2022 • 22 minutes 36 seconds
Has Your Church Harmed You?
Have you sought help from clergy only to be blamed or counseled to stay in an abusive situation? You are not alone. Learn more here.
26/07/2022 • 20 minutes 44 seconds
Here’s The Truth About Couple’s Therapy
If you're considering couple's therapy as a way to save your marriage, then this is for you. Couple's therapy is notoriously harmful in an abuse scenario.
19/07/2022 • 23 minutes 58 seconds
Live In Reality (How To Heal)
Is healing from betrayal and abuse even possible? Yes! Andrea Hipps is back on the BTR podcast sharing how living in reality is key.
12/07/2022 • 18 minutes 44 seconds
Your New Life Post-Divorce
Divorce can feel daunting, but Andrea Hipps brings a fresh perspective - your new life is waiting for you! Andrea Hipps and Anne on the BTR Podcast.
05/07/2022 • 24 minutes 40 seconds
3 Ways They Blame Abuse Victims
Kate is back on the BTR podcast discussing victim blaming modalities with Anne. 3 Ways they blame abuse victims, including Stockholm syndrome & codependency.
28/06/2022 • 24 minutes 32 seconds
The Ways They Victim Blame You
Kate and Anne are on the podcast discussing victim blaming modalities. Take a deep dive with them into the ways abusers & enablers victim blame you.
21/06/2022 • 20 minutes 5 seconds
Shame Didn’t Make Him Do It
He may blame his porn use and other abusive behaviors on "shame", but Kate and Anne break it down on the BTR podcast. Shame didn't make him do it.
14/06/2022 • 22 minutes 58 seconds
The Sex Addiction Myth Exposed
Kate and Anne take a deep dive into the myth of sex addiction - and explain why every victim needs to understand the truth about the sex addiction model.
07/06/2022 • 18 minutes 40 seconds
3 Common Triggers For Victims
Too many victims experience horrible triggers when friends, families, and others say insensitive, harmful, and/or abusive things. Kate and Anne on the podcast.
31/05/2022 • 28 minutes 24 seconds
This Is Why They Say We’re Crazy
Calling women crazy is keeping abusive men in power. It's been working for centuries and it's still working now. Kate Moore is on the BTR podcast.
24/05/2022 • 21 minutes 4 seconds
Men Need to Stop Calling Us Crazy
When men call women crazy, there are serious ramifications. Kate Moore is on the BTR podcast sharing Elizabeth Packard's story.
17/05/2022 • 28 minutes 14 seconds
3 Ways Narcissists Groom Victims
Narcissistic abusers will do whatever they can develop and maintain a power-over dynamic. Learn the 3 ways that narcissistic abusers groom victims.
10/05/2022 • 0
What Are BTR Group Sessions?
Many victims spend years, even decades, struggling to identify the abuse in their relationships. BTR Group Sessions can help you on your journey to healing.
03/05/2022 • 26 minutes 54 seconds
How To Set Boundaries Around Sex
Abusers condition victims to believe that setting sexual boundaries is selfish -but you deserve sexual and emotional safety. Sheila Gregoire on the BTR podcast.
26/04/2022 • 22 minutes 50 seconds
How To Make Sex Great For You!
Betrayal and abuse can make sex traumatizing. But great sex doesn't have to be permanently off the table. Sheila Gregoire is back on the BTR podcast.
19/04/2022 • 30 minutes 44 seconds
The Truth About “Porn Addiction”
Faith communities, therapists, and others treat porn use like an addiction issue. The reality is that abusive men often use porn.
12/04/2022 • 21 minutes 36 seconds
When Churches Harm Abuse Victims
Your faith community should be a place of respite and support. But too many victims find clergy ignorant, harmful, and tragically, abusive. Learn more.
05/04/2022 • 24 minutes 53 seconds
Should I Separate From My Husband?
The decision to separate can be daunting for victims of abuse. Lorelai joins Anne on the BTR podcast to discuss her own separation
29/03/2022 • 20 minutes 6 seconds
How Do I Know If It’s Abuse?
Abusers condition victims to struggle with discerning reality. If you're here, you are trying to figure out if you are being abused. We can help.
22/03/2022 • 26 minutes 4 seconds
How To Find Confidence Post-Abuse
If you're like other victims of abuse, then you may feel like you've lost your self-confidence. Learn how to begin finding it again.
15/03/2022 • 20 minutes 40 seconds
Parenting When Your Ex is Abusive
Parenting is hard enough, but when your ex is abusive? Navigating the world of parenting can feel downright overwhelming. Michelle Donnelly on the BTR podcast.
08/03/2022 • 19 minutes 44 seconds
Post-Separation Abuse: The Truth
If only abuse stopped after divorce... but abusers still seek power and control over victims. Learn the truth about post-separation abuse.
01/03/2022 • 23 minutes 57 seconds
Is Biblical Submission Abuse?
More and more women have described this term being used to perpetuate a pervasive type of abuse that all too often goes unnoticed. Perhaps one can ask, is the term 'biblical submission' synonymous with spiritual abuse?
22/02/2022 • 23 minutes 53 seconds
The Reality Of Spiritual Abuse
Spiritual abuse doesn't only affect religious women. Your beliefs about justice, hope, and karma may come crashing around you after spiritual abuse.
15/02/2022 • 21 minutes 10 seconds
3 Reasons to Learn About Abuse
Feel overwhelmed at the thought of learning more about abuse? Here are three reasons it's a good idea to begin delving into your abuse education.
08/02/2022 • 22 minutes 43 seconds
BTRG Is Your Safe Space: Join Us
Looking for a safe space to process your trauma and begin your journey to healing? Then BTRG is the place for you. Coach Christina on the BTR podcast.
01/02/2022 • 27 minutes 36 seconds
Misogyny in Faith Communities
Misogyny harms everyone: men, women, and children. Valerie Hudson and Anne Blythe take a deep dive into misogyny in faith communities.
25/01/2022 • 22 minutes 20 seconds
Loving Your Abuser: Three Myths
Have you been counseled to "love your enemies"? Take a deep dive into what this actually means with Valerie Hudson.
18/01/2022 • 25 minutes 46 seconds
The Truth About Forgiving Abuse
Everything we thought we knew about forgiveness blamed victims and enabled abuse. Valerie Hudson joins Anne on the BTR podcast.
11/01/2022 • 26 minutes 57 seconds
Justice For Pornhub Victims
Pornhub is abusive and exploitative. Is justice available to victims of sexual exploitation? Dani Pinter joins Anne on the free BTR Podcast.
04/01/2022 • 22 minutes 7 seconds
Heal The Trauma In your Body
The trauma from sexual coercion, betrayal, emotional abuse, and gaslighting can wreck havoc in your body. Coach Denalee shares how to begin finding healing.
28/12/2021 • 20 minutes 6 seconds
How To Heal The Chaos of Abuse
Healing from the chaos of abuse may feel impossible, but with the right tools, you can do it. Coach Denalee shares simple steps you can take to begin healing.
21/12/2021 • 21 minutes 45 seconds
The Abusive Scripts That Harm Us
What unconscious beliefs and scripts have been harming victims for centuries? Dr. Omar Minwalla takes a deep dive with Anne.
14/12/2021 • 22 minutes 48 seconds
Betrayal is Abuse, Here’s Why
Betrayal isn't a marriage issue - it's an abuse issue. Dr. Omar Minwalla joins Anne on the free BTR podcast to explain and empower.
07/12/2021 • 47 minutes 30 seconds
The Secret Sexual Basement
A deep dive into the truth about why sexual betrayal is an domestic abuse with Dr. Omar MInwall and Anne Blythe on the BTR podcast.
30/11/2021 • 37 minutes 4 seconds
How Does Infidelity Harm Victims?
Intimate betrayal can affect a victim and her children long after the abuser has left the picture. Learn more about the affects of infidelity.
23/11/2021 • 17 minutes 57 seconds
Trauma Victims Deserve THIS Love
Betrayal trauma and abuse can condition victims to believe that they are not worthy of love. Learn what kind of love YOU deserve.
16/11/2021 • 21 minutes 56 seconds
The Truth About Spiritual Abuse
Spiritual abuse is often more subtle and overlooked than we realize. Learn the truth about spiritual abuse and how to begin healing here.
09/11/2021 • 31 minutes 8 seconds
Is BTRG Right For Me?
Wondering if the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group (BTRG) is a good fit for your healing journey? Learn more about how BTRG can help you.
02/11/2021 • 24 minutes 5 seconds
You Are Not Your Husband’s Object
Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta's book, Married Sex, is traumatizing victims of sexual coercion and marital rape. Learn more.
28/10/2021 • 27 minutes 34 seconds
PornHub Is Simply Abuse Videos
Laila MIckelwait exposes PornHub for what it really is - a cesspool of abuse videos. Learn how you can help take it down today.
26/10/2021 • 30 minutes 49 seconds
Facing Your Divorce Fears
Face your fears about divorce and find the support you need from the BTR.ORG community. Anne discusses common fears and available support.
19/10/2021 • 32 minutes 37 seconds
Why Is God Ignoring Me?
Women of faith communities may feel abandoned by God when they experience abuse and betrayal. Support is necessary and BTR is here for you.
12/10/2021 • 28 minutes 53 seconds
Become Fearless, Free, and Uncontrollable
You deserve safety - become fearless, free, and uncontrollable as you seek support here in the BTR.ORG community. We love you. We believe you.
05/10/2021 • 28 minutes 51 seconds
3 Power Phrases You Need Today
Finding safety from abuse takes courage, determination, and incredible strength. You can choose now to stop complying with abuse.
28/09/2021 • 29 minutes 42 seconds
Help Prevent Human Trafficking
Anne Basham, human rights activist, joins Anne on the BTR podcast to teach listeners how to prevent human trafficking. Go to BTR.org for more.
21/09/2021 • 25 minutes 31 seconds
Human Trafficking & Abusive Men
A deep dive into the correlations between human trafficking, pornography, and domestic abuse. Anne Basham joins Anne on the BTR podcast.
14/09/2021 • 29 minutes 36 seconds
When He Uses The Kids To Hurt You
Victims can seek deliverance from the family court system, abusive clergy, and abusive partners even when these systems and individuals continue to harm them.
07/09/2021 • 32 minutes 37 seconds
The Manufactured Relational Tether
What is "The Manufactured Emotional Tether"? It's a tool abusers use to keep you stuck in an abusive situation, believing that there is no way out. Learn more.
31/08/2021 • 40 minutes 48 seconds
3 Signs of An Abusive Therapist
Have you felt uncomfortable, exploited, or abused by your therapist? Dee joins Anne to share her story of finding safety from her abusive therapist.
24/08/2021 • 42 minutes 35 seconds
What Is Brain Defense?
Kristen Jensen empowers children and teens to protect themselves from the dangers of the internet, including pornography, with the new curriculum: Brain Defense.
17/08/2021 • 24 minutes 12 seconds
How To Find Safety From Abuse
Leslie Vernick joins Anne to shed light on how victims of betrayal and abuse can seek safety and peace from abusive relationships. 3 steps you can take today.
10/08/2021 • 30 minutes 45 seconds
What Does God Say About Abuse?
Leslie Vernick shares the Biblical Christian view of abuse, betrayal, and healing.
03/08/2021 • 28 minutes 9 seconds
How To Support Betrayal Victims
To family and friends of the victims of betrayal and emotional abuse: learn how to support and validate them as they process their trauma. BTR can help.
27/07/2021 • 18 minutes 32 seconds
Betrayed? You Are Not Alone
Are you feeling isolated and alone in your feelings of fear, shame, anxiety, and depression? Betrayal Trauma Recovery is here for you. Don't suffer in silence.
20/07/2021 • 20 minutes 27 seconds
BTR Is Your Resource For Support
No matter where you are on your journey to healing, BTR is here for you. Read on to know how BTR can support you as you work toward the life that you deserve.
13/07/2021 • 24 minutes 52 seconds
Divorcing An Abuser 101
Are you ready to break the cycle of abuse in your life? Divorce may be the answer for you. Learn the basics of divorcing an abuser with Wendy Hernandez.
06/07/2021 • 21 minutes 42 seconds
Avoiding Chaos in the Courtroom
Experiencing abuse, lies, and betrayal can leave you feeling in a fog. It can feel overwhelming.
May be you are thinking: Can I stay? Am I going to take the step toward separation? What about divorce? What is going to happen?
Regardless of what ends up happening, you can takes steps to ensure safety, preparation, and peace in the process as much as possible.
Emotional Abuse Can Escalate During Separation
Wendy Hernandez, creator of Command the Courtroom, says that women in situations of emotional abuse can and should begin to prepare early for various possibilities that can happen along the journey.
"Often times the emotional abuse is in the form of legal abuse, once the divorce has gotten started. It can turn into a scorched earth type of litigation that goes on not only for months, but years. It can be destructive. Whoever is going through this, must do what makes sense for them. It can be a balance." -Wendy Hernandez, Command the Courtroom
What is Post-Separatio
29/06/2021 • 23 minutes 42 seconds
Will I Ever Trust Again?
Abused and betrayed women wonder if they will ever recover their desire and ability to have trusting relationships. Dr. Deb Silber offers insight and advice.
22/06/2021 • 17 minutes 46 seconds
From Betrayal To Breakthrough
How can betrayal victims begin thriving and finding themselves after betrayal? Dr. Debi Silber shares the five stages from betrayal to breakthrough.
15/06/2021 • 26 minutes 31 seconds
Porn Is Abuse: Here’s Why
When your husband participates in a secret sexual life, whether it's over the internet, with another person, or in his own thoughts, he is abusing you.
09/06/2021 • 18 minutes 22 seconds
The Truth About Betrayal Trauma
Knowing the truth about betrayal trauma is the first step to finding healing, peace, and hope. Betrayal trauma is the result of abuse. BTR can help. Read more.
01/06/2021 • 22 minutes 48 seconds
Clean Browsing Helps Your Kids
You are not powerless against pornography. Clean Browsing empowers mothers to protect their children from the harms of pornography. Learn more.
25/05/2021 • 18 minutes 21 seconds
I Saw Porn On My Husband’s Phone
You just found porn on your husband's device. Now what?
18/05/2021 • 28 minutes 11 seconds
3 Toxic Sex Myths That Harm Women
Sheila Gregoire, author of The Great Sex Rescue, deconstructs toxic sex myths to empower women in their journeys to safety.
11/05/2021 • 23 minutes
Sexuality 101 For Betrayed Women
Abusive men condition women to view sexuality through a lens of pain, confusion, and fear. Sheila Gregoire guides victims to understand the truth about sex.
04/05/2021 • 24 minutes 4 seconds
Fighting A Narcissist For Custody
Wondering how to fight for your children as you divorce your narcissistic abuser? Tina Swithin shares powerful insights.
27/04/2021 • 26 minutes 20 seconds
3 Ways To Prepare To Divorce your Narcissist
It's never too early or too late to begin preparing to divorce your narcissistic abuser. Here are 3 tips from Tina Swithin to help you on your journey to healing.
20/04/2021 • 26 minutes 5 seconds
How Does Prayer Help Abuse Victims?
Do you feel afraid? Overwhelmed? Alone? Prayer can help you as you navigate your journey to healing.
13/04/2021 • 38 minutes 55 seconds
3 Values We Can Expect From Men
When you've only known abuse and betrayal, what can you really expect from men? Learn 3 values that you can expect, and what to do when men choose to abuse.
06/04/2021 • 34 minutes 32 seconds
My Husband Calls Me Abusive
Grounding yourself in truth and safety when your husband calls you abusive.
30/03/2021 • 33 minutes 29 seconds
Your Husband Is Devaluing You
Do you feel confused? Alone? Afraid? Your husband may be devaluing you. Learn more.
23/03/2021 • 30 minutes 6 seconds
Is Your Husband Grooming You?
He says he's changed. He's made serious promises. But how do you know it's real? Is your husband grooming you? Find out here.
16/03/2021 • 18 minutes 41 seconds
When Your Husband Is Clergy
Is your abuser also your spiritual or religious leader? Learn what you can do to keep yourself safe.
09/03/2021 • 22 minutes 44 seconds
You Can’t Fix Your Abuser
You can't cause, control, or cure the abuser: you can't fix your abuser. You can only set boundaries and seek safety for yourself. BTR can help.
02/03/2021 • 39 minutes 49 seconds
BTR.ORG Group Sessions Are For YOU!
Have you been ignored, dismissed, minimized, vilified, and torn down by those who should have helped you? BTR.ORG Group Sessions are for YOU!
23/02/2021 • 17 minutes 30 seconds
4 Behaviors of Pornography Users
Do you suspect that your partner is using porn? Have you discovered pornographic material on his phone or computer? These 4 tell-tale behaviors of pornography users will validate you and help you understand how his behavior is harming you.
Tiffany Barnes join Anne Blythe on the free BTR podcast to share her insights and experience regarding the ways pornography users abuse women. Read the full transcript below and listen to the free BTR podcast for more.
Pornography Users Gaslight Victims
Gaslighting is a universal tool of abusers. By distorting the victim's reality, porn users can avoid accountability and shift blame onto the victim.
Gaslighting is also known as crazy-making.
When Tiffany would confront her abusive ex-partner about his pornography use, she was gaslit:
He just tried to make me feel like I was being crazy, and I did. I questioned it a few times; am Icrazy? Is this just me being ultra-paranoid or something?
Pornography Users Attempt To Normalize
16/02/2021 • 27 minutes 2 seconds
Emancipate Yourself From Emotional Abuse
You deserve safety, authentic love, and healing. Emancipate yourself from abuse today.
09/02/2021 • 26 minutes 6 seconds
3 Ways To Process Trauma With Art
Art can help victims of emotional abuse and betrayal process their trauma.
02/02/2021 • 25 minutes 16 seconds
3 Ways Your Husband Is “Meatloafing” You
Does your abuser make big promises but refuse or "forget" to follow through? Learn about "meatloafing".
26/01/2021 • 23 minutes 13 seconds
I’m a Victim of Narcissistic Abuse, But They’re Calling ME Crazy
Narcissistic abusers & their flying monkeys (enablers) accuse victims of being overly sensitive, cruel, and crazy. BTR can help you find safety and peace.
19/01/2021 • 34 minutes 3 seconds
3 Ways Your Abuser is Grooming You (& How To Get To Safety)
Does he say he's changing, but you still feel unheard and confused? Learn how your abuser is grooming you and how to find safety.
12/01/2021 • 19 minutes 42 seconds
Immeasurable Pain: When Husbands Sexually Abuse Their Wives
When men sexually abuse their wives, they are causing immeasurable harm. Women can seek healing and justice.
05/01/2021 • 23 minutes 38 seconds
3 Roadblocks That Keep Victims of Abuse & Sexual Coercion Stuck
Why victims of abuse and sexual coercion are afraid to leave their abusers and resources to help them leave.
29/12/2020 • 33 minutes
How To Protect Yourself From In-Law Abuse (Plus 12 Ways Enablers Harm Victims)
Are you a victim of in-law abuse? Learn more here.
22/12/2020 • 26 minutes 21 seconds
How Can I Start Implementing No Contact Today?
You CAN implement a no contact boundary, even if it feels impossible. Learn more here.
15/12/2020 • 29 minutes 9 seconds
3 Ironclad Steps To Safely Leave Your Abuser
Ready to leave your abusive partner? 3 must-know steps as you prepare to seek safety.
09/12/2020 • 35 minutes 37 seconds
3 Ways Healthy Womanhood Helps Victims Of Emotional Abuse
When victims of betrayal and abuse embrace healthy womanhood, they can begin the journey to healing.
01/12/2020 • 21 minutes 10 seconds
How Can Feminism Help Me Heal From Betrayal Trauma?
When victims of betrayal and abuse understand their worth as human beings, they can begin their journey to healing.
24/11/2020 • 22 minutes 57 seconds
Post-Traumatic Growth: Will I Ever Be Okay Again?
Victims of abuse and betrayal CAN heal and experience post-traumatic growth with safety and support.
17/11/2020 • 18 minutes 3 seconds
New Age Bypass Is Victim-Blaming
Victims of betrayal and abuse can learn to identify and reject New Age Bypass tactics as they begin healing. BTR can help.
10/11/2020 • 25 minutes 18 seconds
3 Tips To Protect You From Clergy Sexual Misconduct
No woman deserves to be victimized by the clergy she trusts. Dave Gemmel provides 3 tips to protect you today.
03/11/2020 • 22 minutes 42 seconds
The Truth About Clergy Sexual Misconduct
When clergy use their position of authority to take advantage of trust, they may be committing clergy sexual misconduct. Learn more.
27/10/2020 • 25 minutes 1 second
Dating After Betrayal: 3 Tips
Victims of betrayal and emotional abuse may be concerned about dating after an abusive relationship. Jessica Skybar offers empowering tips.
20/10/2020 • 22 minutes 40 seconds
“I Asked About Porn, & He Lied”
What to do when your husband lies to you about his pornography use.
13/10/2020 • 31 minutes 41 seconds
Lundy Bancroft: “You Are Crucial”
Lundy Bancroft shares how victims of abuse are betrayed by faith communities, court systems, and others. Women can triumph over trauma and regain their sense of self. BTR can help.
06/10/2020 • 23 minutes 51 seconds
Why Domestic Abuse is Child Abuse: Lundy Bancroft Tells All
Children are always affected by an abuser's behavior, even if they never see it. Victims are not powerless. Lundy Bancroft explains how mothers can protect and help their children process and heal from abuse.
29/09/2020 • 28 minutes 3 seconds
4 Things Emotional Abuse Victims Need to Know
Victims of emotional abuse are stronger, smarter, and more capable than their abusers want them to think. These 5 truths help women find strength and safety.
22/09/2020 • 17 minutes 30 seconds
7 Truths About Emotional Abuse
Myths about emotional abuse enable abusers to keep abusing victims. The 7 Powerful Truths About Emotional Abuse help victims find safety.
15/09/2020 • 18 minutes 38 seconds
Why Does Sex Hurt? (It’s Not What You Think)
Sexual abuse causes pelvic and sexual pain. Learn how to identify sexual abuse in your marriage and begin healing today.
08/09/2020 • 21 minutes 51 seconds
3 Tactics Emotional Abusers Use
When victims can identify abuse, they can make informed decisions about their safety and health. Learn 3 tactics abusers use, and why they are so powerful.
01/09/2020 • 36 minutes 24 seconds
You’re Not Crazy: Porn Is Abuse
Victims of abusive pornography users may wonder if they are overreacting, but they aren't: pornography use is abusive. Support, safety, and self-care can help women find healing.
25/08/2020 • 18 minutes 36 seconds
Is Porn A Public Health Crisis?
Pornography is a human rights issue, an abuse issue, and a public health crisis.
18/08/2020 • 21 minutes 45 seconds
Find Safety From Emotional Abuse
Victims of emotional abuse deserve safety: a guide to victims on seeking safety from an abusive relationship.
11/08/2020 • 27 minutes 56 seconds
Is Lying Emotionally Abusive?
Victims of emotional abuse say that lies and manipulation are one of the most damaging pieces of the abuse they endure.
04/08/2020 • 25 minutes 44 seconds
Is Emotional Abuse a Domestic Abuse Issue?
It's not "just emotional abuse": it's also domestic abuse and must be treated seriously.
28/07/2020 • 30 minutes 24 seconds
Covert Abuse? You’re In Danger
He may not hit you, yell at you, or seem like a mean, angry bully - but covert abuse is just as dangerous and harmful as physical battery. Learn more.
21/07/2020 • 41 minutes 49 seconds
BTRG Is Here For You
Many women have a difficult time finding the right support for betrayal trauma and emotional & psychological abuse. Nikki shares how BTR Group supports her when there's no support where she lives.
14/07/2020 • 28 minutes 3 seconds
Why Can’t I See Emotional Abuse?
Anne Blythe and Marni Bown, Shero and public speaker, talk about why so many women have difficulty recognizing the emotional and psychological abuse in their own relationships.
07/07/2020 • 36 minutes 24 seconds
Self-Care For Betrayal Victims
Betrayed women have a hard time learning to take care of themselves again. Trish White shares the 4 Essential Components of Great Self-Care for beginners.
16/06/2020 • 17 minutes 11 seconds
Self-Care & Betrayal Trauma
When a woman has been betrayed, self-care is the last thing on her mind, but it's the most important thing she can do for her own healing. Trish White explains why.
09/06/2020 • 23 minutes 21 seconds
5 Reasons You Should Attend a BTR Group Session
Finally learning that you aren't alone in your struggles is validating. Finding a support group and a coach that really gets your unique situation is priceless.
02/06/2020 • 19 minutes 10 seconds
‘Trauma Mama’ Empowers YOU!
Explaining the effects of emotional and psychological abuse to someone else is nearly impossible, especially when you're still trying to figure it out yourself! Anne Blythe presents Trauma Mama Husband Drama! Anne and Virginia talk about the process of writing the book and how it can help women get the help they need and heal.
26/05/2020 • 29 minutes 42 seconds
Healing Trauma From Hidden Abuse
Deep cuts, broken bones, broken hearts or hidden bruises, any of these can hurt again years after they've healed. Shannon Thomas talks about resurfacing trauma and what to do with it.
19/05/2020 • 21 minutes 25 seconds
The 6 Stages Of Healing
There are no physical bruises, scars, or blood, but the pain is real. Shannon Thomas talks about hidden abuses and the 6
Stages to Heal From Hidden Abuse.
12/05/2020 • 24 minutes 9 seconds
“Trauma Mama” Can Help You Today
Combined with beautiful illustrations by Cristalwolf Lobazul, Anne Blythe uses simple words and pictures to help explain the emotional and psychological abuse women experience as a result of their husband's pornography use.
05/05/2020 • 5 minutes 41 seconds
Divorcing An Emotional Abuser
Emotional abuse is abuse. Period. You can find safety and peace again after emotional abuse - learn more here.
28/04/2020 • 22 minutes 51 seconds
Preparing For Divorce While Hoping He Changes
Betrayal and abuse make preparing for divorce a necessity for victims. Even when you are hoping that he decides to change, educating yourself is key.
21/04/2020 • 39 minutes 49 seconds
How Do I Set Boundaries?
Feeling safe isn't just being free from physical harm, so what is it? Once you understand safety, you can set boundaries. What are boundaries? Anne Blythe introduces a simple, yet effective, way to think about boundaries that will leave you feeling like you can set boundaries so you can feel safe.
14/04/2020 • 28 minutes 51 seconds
3 Ways Abusers Can Work Toward A Healthy Marriage
Is a healthy marriage possible after emotional abuse? BTR believes it is. James is back with Anne to continue talking about how Center for Peace has given him hope and started him down the path.
07/04/2020 • 29 minutes 14 seconds
Center For Peace: 3 Steps Emotional Abusers Must Take To Change
3 important steps an abuser must take to change his ways and become safe.
01/04/2020 • 23 minutes 22 seconds
3 Boundaries You Can Set Today
3 helpful boundaries for women ready to find safety and healing after emotional abuse.
24/03/2020 • 20 minutes 59 seconds
4 Phrases That Enable Abuse
Abuse doesn't stop during a crisis, in fact, it escalates. BTR can help.
21/03/2020 • 4 minutes 17 seconds
3 Empowering Words For Victims
When emotional abuse leaves you feeling lost in the darkness, where do you turn for comfort and peace?
17/03/2020 • 30 minutes 1 second
Abusive Behaviors To Watch For During A Crisis
During a crisis, domestic abuse escalates. Women can minimize the effects of the abuse; BTR can help.
12/03/2020 • 7 minutes 31 seconds
Divorcing A Narcissist
What to expect when you are divorcing a narcissist.
10/03/2020 • 22 minutes 14 seconds
“My Clergy Betrayed Me”
When clergy turns on victims of narcissistic abuse, the secondary trauma can feel overwhelming. Hear June's story.
03/03/2020 • 25 minutes 48 seconds
Let’s Talk About Financial Abuse
Post-divorce abuse is real and devastating. BTR can help.
25/02/2020 • 34 minutes 21 seconds
Healing Without Closure
You may never receive an apology, the whole truth, or restitution. But you CAN find healing, no matter what your abuser chooses to do.
18/02/2020 • 15 minutes 29 seconds
Why Disclosures Are Harmful
Disclosures do not give victims the safety they deserve - even though it may seem like a good idea, usually victims are just more harmed. Learn why.
11/02/2020 • 37 minutes 53 seconds
How To Get Back To Yourself After Emotional Abuse
Victims of abuse and betrayal ask, "will I ever be myself again?" BTR can help women find safety and healing.
04/02/2020 • 22 minutes 51 seconds
“I Trusted The Lies”
Three ways women are traumatized by a partner's lies and betrayal.
28/01/2020 • 24 minutes 14 seconds
The Ugly Truth About Pornography
The pornography/sex trafficking industry is an insidious and dangerous reality for women.
21/01/2020 • 31 minutes 53 seconds
Can He Make Amends For Abuse?
Can abusers permanently change and make amends, becoming beacons of safety in their families?
14/01/2020 • 29 minutes 14 seconds
When Abusers Recognize Their Abuse
Can abusive men change? BTR believes they can.
07/01/2020 • 26 minutes 23 seconds
The Kill Zone: Kids & Porn
Victims of betrayal and abuse can teach their children the truth about pornography.
31/12/2019 • 21 minutes 57 seconds
When Abusers Use “Spiritual Bypass” To Fool You
Is he really in recovery? When abusers use spiritual bypass to circumvent true change.
24/12/2019 • 26 minutes 11 seconds
Spiritual Bypass Harms Victims
Victims of betrayal and abuse can choose 'healing' instead of 'coping'.
17/12/2019 • 23 minutes 8 seconds
5 Ways To Help The Child Of A Narcissist
Narcissistic fathers harm children, but victims can rise up and guide their children to safety and healing.
10/12/2019 • 30 minutes 14 seconds
How To Endure A Custody Battle With A Narcissist
3 must-know tips for victims preparing to divorce their narcissistic partner.
03/12/2019 • 30 minutes 7 seconds
Escaping The Fog Of Marital Rape
Victims of marital rape deserve safety and support.
26/11/2019 • 29 minutes 11 seconds
How To Survive A Narcissist When You Choose To Stay
When victims choose to stay with their narcissistic partner, how can they survive and thrive? BTR can help.
19/11/2019 • 17 minutes 35 seconds
5 Tips To Surviving The Holidays
5 Tips for victims of betrayal and abuse during the holiday season.
15/11/2019 • 2 minutes 55 seconds
Voicing The Agony of Trauma
Victims of abuse and betrayal begin their journey to healing when they find their voice.
05/11/2019 • 27 minutes 34 seconds
Surviving Narcissistic Abuse
Learning about narcissistic abuse can help victims find safety and begin healing.
29/10/2019 • 23 minutes 54 seconds
Susan Powell’s Story: Betrayal & Murder
Important lessons about abuse and safety from Susan Powell's story.
22/10/2019 • 31 minutes 24 seconds
Call It Abuse, Save Lives
Victims of abuse and betrayal deserve to be validated, supported, and guided to safety. Call it abuse and you may save her life.
15/10/2019 • 24 minutes 4 seconds
Honor Code Office Trauma
Institutional abuse re-traumatizes victims; when victims find their voices and share their stories, healing can begin.
08/10/2019 • 26 minutes 57 seconds
Self-Care: Surviving Abuse
Self-care tips for victims of betrayal and abuse.
01/10/2019 • 20 minutes 34 seconds
Why Pornography Is More Than Sex
Pornography users commit three major sins: lust, greed, and dishonesty. Learn more.
24/09/2019 • 30 minutes 8 seconds
The Abuse Vortex
When victims become empowered through trauma and abuse education, they can find safety and begin healing.
18/09/2019 • 35 minutes 57 seconds
Pornography Is An Abuse Issue
Pornography is abusive: here's why.
10/09/2019 • 32 minutes 10 seconds
“I Destroyed Her 15 Years”
Can abusive men change?
03/09/2019 • 28 minutes 26 seconds
“I Realized I Was Being Abused!”
Victims can learn to identify and protect themselves from abuse. BTR can help.
28/08/2019 • 21 minutes 21 seconds
Benchmarks Vs. Boundaries
Boundaries are YOUR job, benchmarks are HIS job.
20/08/2019 • 24 minutes 9 seconds
What Is In-Home Separation And How Can It Help Me?
What does an in-home separation entail, and does it actually work? BTR can help.
14/08/2019 • 27 minutes 9 seconds
Betrayal Trauma Resources
3 essential resources for victims of betrayal and abuse.
06/08/2019 • 18 minutes 54 seconds
12-Step: What You Should Know
12 Step programs may be beneficial to victims of abuse and betrayal AFTER safety has been established.
31/07/2019 • 21 minutes 56 seconds
Weaponizing Codependency Language
Codependency language is a dangerous weapon in the hands of an abusive/unfaithful man.
24/07/2019 • 27 minutes 48 seconds
Is My Husband Grooming Me?
Grooming is a universal tool of abusers. Learn what it is, how to spot it, and how to find safety.
26/06/2019 • 21 minutes 43 seconds
Pornography: A Human Rights Issue
Pornography is a human rights issue. Learn more.
18/06/2019 • 35 minutes 28 seconds
Is Pornography A Feminist Issue?
Pornography is anti-woman and anti-feminist. Learn more.
12/06/2019 • 31 minutes 24 seconds
Protect Teens From Sexual Abuse
Empower teens to set boundaries to protect themselves from sexual coercion and abuse.
05/06/2019 • 31 minutes 31 seconds
End Sexual Exploitation
Pornography is sexual exploitation. Learn how you can join the fight for a porn-free world.
29/05/2019 • 17 minutes 10 seconds
Betrayal Trauma Checklist
What are your next steps to find safety and support after discovering betrayal? BTR can help.
21/05/2019 • 10 minutes 13 seconds
Is Pornography Sexual Coercion?
Sexual coercion takes on many forms, including the non-disclosure of secret sexual behaviors.
14/05/2019 • 32 minutes 29 seconds
They Blamed ME For The Abuse
Domestic abuse isn't only physical battering. Learn more.
30/04/2019 • 38 minutes 44 seconds
My Clergy Traumatized Me
Victims are often re-traumatized by religious leaders when they seek help for abuse and betrayal.
23/04/2019 • 29 minutes 43 seconds
Parenting Special Needs Children
Every victim of betrayal and abuse deserves support: especially mothers of special needs children. BTR can help.
16/04/2019 • 28 minutes 24 seconds
12-Step: What You Need To Know
12 Step programs teach self-improvement to women who actually need safety and validation.
09/04/2019 • 17 minutes 35 seconds
The Codependency Model Exposed
Betrayed women are not codependent, they are victims of abuse. BTR can help.
02/04/2019 • 31 minutes 18 seconds
Self-Care “How To”
When victims of betrayal and abuse practice simple forms of self-care, they can begin to find healing and peace. BTR can help.
26/03/2019 • 21 minutes 59 seconds
How To Recognize Victim Blaming
Victim-blaming is harmful and hurtful. BTR can help.
19/03/2019 • 34 minutes 3 seconds
Body Image Issues & Betrayal
Betrayal and abuse can cause severe body image issues in victims. Hope and healing are possible. BTR can help.
12/03/2019 • 24 minutes 39 seconds
How Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Saved My Life
After betrayal trauma, many women still feel unsafe, traumatized, and misunderstood. Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group can help empower women to heal and find hope. Our amazing clients share their testimonials of Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group and the services BTR provides.
05/03/2019 • 15 minutes 46 seconds
How To Handle Trauma Triggers
Triggers are a natural result of betrayal trauma. Learn how to use them to your benefit.
26/02/2019 • 15 minutes 50 seconds
Your Abusive Husband’s Therapist
Four necessary statements from your husband's therapist.
19/02/2019 • 31 minutes 39 seconds
Why Pornography Is Adultery
Porn use is adultery and abuse. BTR can help.
12/02/2019 • 10 minutes 20 seconds
Can Legitimate Anger Be Helpful?
Anger helps victims of betrayal and abuse identify abusive behavior and set boundaries.
05/02/2019 • 20 minutes 50 seconds
The Healing Power Of “Me-Too”
Saying "Me Too" can help victims begin the journey to healing. BTR can help.
29/01/2019 • 12 minutes 17 seconds
The Truth About Wife Rape
Join Anne as she interviews Wendy, survivor of marital rape. Listen to how this experience has impacted Wendy's life. Gain valuable information about wife rape and sexual assault within marriage. Learn why this is so damaging and harmful to victims.
22/01/2019 • 26 minutes 16 seconds
What About Recovery For Me?
Victims of betrayal and abuse CAN find healing, hope, and peace. BTR can help.
15/01/2019 • 15 minutes 29 seconds
Your CSAT Is Harming You
Betrayed women are not co-addicts: they are victims of trauma.
08/01/2019 • 41 minutes 36 seconds
Betrayal Hurts, But You CAN Heal
Betrayal trauma is devastating. Women CAN find healing and peace. BTR can help.
18/12/2018 • 12 minutes 41 seconds
How Friends & Family Can Help Abuse Victims
Family and friends can help or harm victims. Learn how to support victims of abuse.
11/12/2018 • 21 minutes 29 seconds
Connecting With Children After Betrayal Trauma
Betrayal trauma is overwhelming. Small steps can help mothers re-connect with their children.
04/12/2018 • 27 minutes 45 seconds
Transformation After Betrayal
Betrayal trauma doesn't have to ruin your life - you CAN heal and experience Post-Betrayal Transformation.
27/11/2018 • 24 minutes 13 seconds
What Is Clean Browsing?
Creating a porn-free environment is an absolute necessity for every family.
20/11/2018 • 18 minutes 21 seconds
Want a Porn-Free Home? Here’s How
Victims of betrayal trauma want porn-free homes. Here's how.
13/11/2018 • 32 minutes 11 seconds
What Are Women Saying About Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group?
Alone? Afraid? Join the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group today.
07/11/2018 • 8 minutes 42 seconds
Are Porn Users Abusive? Yes, Here’s Why.
It is a topic that is shrouded in controversy. Do porn users have abusive tendencies within relationships? Is there a link between porn use and abuse? What is the link between porn and aggression?
30/10/2018 • 20 minutes 48 seconds
Porn Use And Infidelity Are Abuse
Pornography use and affairs are abusive. Learn why.
16/10/2018 • 43 minutes 14 seconds
Are You A Victim of Narcissistic Abuse?
Narcissistic abuse is devastating. Learn to identify and heal from narcissistic abuse.
09/10/2018 • 21 minutes 10 seconds
Find Strength After Betrayal and Abuse
Women are strong, powerful, sacred, and resilient. BTR supports victims and help them rediscover their power.
02/10/2018 • 30 minutes 52 seconds
Dear Clergy: Stop Enabling Abuse
Victims of betrayal and abuse deserve support from clergy: not further traumatization when clergy enable abuse.
25/09/2018 • 28 minutes 53 seconds
When Couple’s Therapy Is Harmful
Couple's therapy can be harmful to victims of betrayal and emotional abuse.
18/09/2018 • 37 minutes 53 seconds
Betrayal Is Domestic Abuse
Intimate betrayal IS domestic abuse. BTR can help.
11/09/2018 • 47 minutes 30 seconds
Is My Husband Really in Recovery?
Wondering if your husband is in recovery? This will help.
04/09/2018 • 39 minutes 49 seconds
4 Must-Know Myths About Shame
Myths About The "Shame" Is Craze - How Actually To Stop The Harm Caused By Lies, Porn Use, Infidelity & Abuse. Why shame and attachment aren't the issues you need to concern yourself with.
28/08/2018 • 46 minutes 11 seconds
What Is Narcissistic Abuse And Why Is It So Damaging?
Narcissistic abuse is real and it is damaging. Read more about what narcissistic abuse is and why it so harmful to victims who experience it.
21/08/2018 • 21 minutes 10 seconds
“My Husband Betrayed Me With A Man”
When you've been betrayed, it hurts. But how does it feel when he betrays you with a man? One woman shares her story.
14/08/2018 • 24 minutes 24 seconds
Teaching Children Online Safety
Teaching children online safety is essential in today's world.
01/08/2018 • 12 minutes 22 seconds
How Do I Find My Voice?
Victims of abuse and betrayal are strong, valuable, and important. Finding your voice can help you heal.
24/07/2018 • 11 minutes 3 seconds
Institutional Sexual Abuse
Institutional sexual abuse is real and it's essential that individuals, organizations, and communities take steps to protect children.
17/07/2018 • 20 minutes 13 seconds
Heal The Trauma From Sexual Abuse
Healing the trauma from sexual abuse can be a difficult road, but it IS possible. Acceptance and self-compassion are key.
10/07/2018 • 27 minutes 17 seconds
Finding Inner Peace After Trauma
Ways to develop and cultivate inner peace during and after betrayal trauma and emotional abuse.
03/07/2018 • 16 minutes 42 seconds
How Can BTR Help Me?
Find out how you can grow stronger, progress in healing, and find hope after betrayal trauma with specialized recovery groups.
27/06/2018 • 7 minutes 34 seconds
Personal Empowerment & Healing
Self-Empowerment is essential is recovery from abuse. Learn about why and how to develop this as part of recovery.
19/06/2018 • 32 minutes 22 seconds
Intimate Deception: How To Heal
Learn why intimate deception is so hurtful and how to heal from the pain.
12/06/2018 • 39 minutes 35 seconds
If Your Husband Betrayed You With Men
Your husband is gay and you are devastated and blindsided. What do you do when you find out about your husband's secret gay life? Does watching gay porn mean your husband is gay? How to move forward after finding out your husband is gay?
05/06/2018 • 25 minutes 17 seconds
Hope & Healing From Abuse
Feeling discouraged? Remember to have faith, feel hope, and be proud of how far you have come.
29/05/2018 • 7 minutes 41 seconds
Boundaries With An Abusive Ex
Setting and holding healthy boundaries with your ex-husband can be difficult. Here are some ideas to help keep you safe.
22/05/2018 • 34 minutes 3 seconds
When They Say Forgive Your Abuser
Forgiveness is a personal decision that victims deserve to make on their own, without being pressured by others.
15/05/2018 • 6 minutes 50 seconds
Teaching Children About Porn
Victims of abuse and betrayal can use these tips to teach children about pornography and healthy sexuality.
09/05/2018 • 27 minutes 45 seconds
Betrayal Trauma Symptoms: Am I Crazy?
You are not crazy, you are suffering from betrayal trauma. BTR can help.
01/05/2018 • 22 minutes 23 seconds
Conquer Trauma With Art
Processing and expressing trauma from betrayal and abuse is difficult for victims. Art therapy can help.
01/05/2018 • 22 minutes 20 seconds
Betrayal & Your Porn Use
Betrayal Trauma can lead to uncharacteristic behaviors in victims: including fantasizing, pornography use, and emotional affairs. BTR can help.
24/04/2018 • 20 minutes 37 seconds
7 Dissociation Symptoms In Emotional Abuse Victims
Victims of betrayal and emotional abuse may use dissociation to cope with pain and fear. Know the symptoms and how to recover.
17/04/2018 • 24 minutes 48 seconds
How To Help Other Abuse Victims
Has BTR helped you? Help more women find BTR and begin their journeys to healing.
10/04/2018 • 23 minutes 14 seconds
Making The Decision To Divorce
Helpful tips for victims choosing to leave their abuser.
20/03/2018 • 28 minutes 49 seconds
Staying In Marriage Post-Betrayal
When women choose to stay in a marriage after emotional abuse and betrayal, support, self-care, and boundaries are essential for her safety.
13/03/2018 • 31 minutes 16 seconds
3 Reasons To Focus On Your Safety
Victims of abuse and betrayal seek safety in many ways: focusing on her own boundaries is the best way to find safety and healing.
06/03/2018 • 19 minutes 3 seconds
How To Rebuild Confidence In Your Marketable Skills
Many victims of emotional abuse and betrayal find themselves entering or re-entering the workforce. With support and empowerment, women can enjoy the process. BTR can help.
27/02/2018 • 24 minutes 39 seconds
40 Years Of Abuse And Trauma
Abuse and betrayal trauma can leave you feeling powerless, but you are not. Learn three things you can do today to begin finding safety.
20/02/2018 • 16 minutes 19 seconds
Will I Ever Be Okay?
Recovery from trauma and abuse can feel debilitating and hopeless at times. But you CAN do it. BTR can help.
09/01/2018 • 17 minutes 41 seconds
How To Teach Your Kids About Sex
Speaking with your children about the dangers of pornography is essential. Learn how to teach your kids about healthy boundaries and overall well-being when it comes to important matters of sexuality. This is an important topic for every parent.
19/12/2017 • 26 minutes 28 seconds
Self-Care Empowers You: Learn How
Victims of betrayal and emotional abuse wonder how to begin healing. Self-care is a great first step. BTR can help.
13/12/2017 • 19 minutes 2 seconds
Why 12 Step Harms Betrayal Victims
Finding empowering, empathetic, and knowledgable resources can be difficult for victims of betrayal and emotional abuse. BTR can help.
14/11/2017 • 17 minutes 2 seconds
Is My Husband Cheating?
Victims of emotional abuse and betrayal trauma can trust their intuition and begin healing from trauma. BTR can help.
25/10/2017 • 22 minutes 48 seconds
Rediscover Hope and Freedom After Betrayal Today
Is it possible to find hope and freedom when you have been betrayed and emotionally abused? Absolutely. BTR can help.
11/10/2017 • 17 minutes 36 seconds
Inoculate Kids From Porn Damage
Women want to protect their children from the damaging effects of pornography. BTR can help.
12/09/2017 • 19 minutes 2 seconds
Restoring Faith After Betrayal
When women of faith experience the effects of emotional abuse and betrayal trauma, they will often question their beliefs. This is normal, but difficult to process. BTR can help.
05/09/2017 • 35 minutes 23 seconds
4 Ways He’s Emotionally Abusive
Learn what emotional abuse looks like and how to find safety.
16/08/2017 • 17 minutes 37 seconds
My Porn-Addict Husband Won’t Stop
Women in betrayal trauma wonder why addiction treatment programs aren't working for their sexually addicted partners. BTR explains why.
08/08/2017 • 28 minutes 50 seconds
Healthy Sex After Betrayal?
Victims of betrayal trauma and emotional abuse wonder if they will ever enjoy sex again. Healing is possible; BTR can help.
26/07/2017 • 38 minutes 18 seconds
Establishing Sexual Safety
Victims of betrayal trauma and emotional abuse wonder how to navigate sexual intimacy after betrayal. BTR can help.
18/07/2017 • 35 minutes 40 seconds
3 Steps to Protect Our Children
Victims of emotional abuse can be effective parents in teaching their children how to set boundaries that will protect them from sexual abuse. BTR can help.
13/06/2017 • 17 minutes 49 seconds
Barbara Steffens on Victim Blaming
Dr. Barbara Steffens shares how to avoid treatment induced trauma.
23/05/2017 • 46 minutes 39 seconds
4 Ways He Gaslights You
Victims of gaslighting deserve safety: BTR can help.
11/04/2017 • 23 minutes 12 seconds
50 Things You Need To Know About Betrayal Trauma
New to Betrayal Trauma Recovery? Hearing unfamiliar terms? Here are 50 things you need to know about betrayal trauma and Betrayal Trauma Recovery.
04/04/2017 • 4 minutes 30 seconds
What Can BTRG Do For Me?
Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group offers support, community, and validation to victims of abuse.
17/01/2017 • 16 minutes 47 seconds
Protect Young Kids From Porn
A child exposed to pornography is a victim of sexual abuse. Learn how to protect children from exposure, and support traumatized children.
08/11/2016 • 13 minutes 56 seconds
Betrayal Trauma & Emotional Abuse
Emotional Abuse and Betrayal Trauma are real and serious: women deserve a voice and support.
06/09/2016 • 17 minutes 30 seconds
My Husband Lied To Me
One woman's story about discovering her husband's lies.
23/08/2016 • 5 minutes 44 seconds
My Abuser Says I’m “Controlling”
We can choose to face our fears and find peace along the way.
02/08/2016 • 28 minutes 51 seconds
7 Signs That You Are Being Abused
Recognizing abuse can help stop abuse.
26/07/2016 • 17 minutes 30 seconds
13 Signs Abusive Men Are Changing
Abusive men CAN change. Learn what real change looks like.
19/07/2016 • 22 minutes 12 seconds
When Your Partner Is Unfaithful
When a husband betrays our trust, we need boundaries. Boundaries give us safety and structure.
12/07/2016 • 20 minutes 20 seconds
How To Deal With Narcissism
Learning how to set boundaries to stay safe when your partner exhibits narcissistic traits.