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Order of Man

English, Finance, 1 season, 1251 episodes, 1 day, 16 minutes
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We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Lessons in Responsibility and Resilience | ASK ME ANYTHING

What happens when a chaotic Monday meets groundbreaking political news? In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp dive deep into the potential fallout of Kamala Harris stepping in, the disappointment of Biden’s 14 million voters, and the legal mess that might follow. Plus, check out Ryan's latest gear: a Sig Sauer P365X Macro pistol and Ryan's rugged hike in Capitol Reef and why he switched from Glock to Sig. Ryan and Kipp also tackle the crucial role of community and moral responsibility, especially in California's shifting legislative landscape. They lay out a solid case for teaching personal responsibility and resilience in strong, engaged communities, particularly for kids who lack stable home environments. Their conversation delves into managing a busy household, financial pressures, and the emotional regulation needed to lead a family effectively.  Finally, discover how to build sustainable habits and forge strong relationships with actionable advice from Ryan and Kipp. From crushing fitness goals to building meaningful connections through trust and vulnerability, they've got you covered. This episode is packed with insights to help you stay balanced, overcome personal challenges, and strengthen family bonds. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (00:43) New Toys - Firearms and Knives - (12:10) Community Responsibility and Mentorship - (17:24) Emotional Regulation and Parental Responsibility - (25:47) Mindfulness and Emotional Regulation - (36:21) Sustainable Rewards and Achievements - (42:25) Effective Relationship Building Strategies - (48:55) Letting Go - (57:43) Building Trust Through Vulnerability Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/24/20241 hour, 14 minutes, 21 seconds
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TREVOR FARNES | How to Conquer Challenges, Setbacks, and Life

With all the world has to throw at you and me, it would be easy to allow life to get the better of us. Hell, in many circles, it’s expected and tolerated, if not encouraged. That isn’t how any of us here in Order of Man choose to live our lives. Instead, we choose to step up to the challenges we face and conquer them in spite of tremendous odds. My guest, good friend and founder of MTNOPS, Trevor Farnes, is a man who knows how to do exactly that. Today, we talk about his very humble beginnings, how he built MTNOPS into a globally recognized supplement company when his goal at the time was to serve his ailing father, why he doesn’t believe in compartmentalizing his life, how to have abundance even in scarcity, and why the most powerful place to serve is to the person you once were. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (04:50) Conquer More (15:31) Morning Scripture Routine for 27 Years (19:43) Daily Family Scripture Study and Fitness (22:60) Prioritizing Core Values for Decision-Making (28:40) Abundance in Sacrifice (38:31) Faith, Consistency, and Abundance (50:08) Building Financial Success Through Partnership (01:01:26) Emotional Connection in Book Writing   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready  
7/23/20241 hour, 6 minutes, 7 seconds
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Security is the Skeleton Key to Her Heart, Mind, and Body | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Reflecting on Ryan's journey from emotional turbulence to stability, this episode unpacks how making a woman feel safe and secure can transform a relationship. Ryan recounts his own battles with emotional volatility, particularly exacerbated by alcohol misuse, and the pivotal role of becoming a consistent, reliable partner. By grounding the relationship in emotional stability, the potential for deeper connections, shared joy, and adventurous experiences is unlocked. The episode also touches on the interplay between emotional and financial stability, showing how these two elements are essential for a secure relationship. Emotional steadiness allows for open, honest communication, while financial security reduces stress and opens doors for future planning. Ryan dives into practical tips, like managing finances with disciplined strategies and cultivating marketable skills, to minimize financial strains and focus on what truly matters—your connection with your partner. Finally, the episode explores actionable steps to build strength in a relationship from both a financial and personal standpoint. Using methods like Dave Ramsey's debt snowball, investing in personal development, and ensuring physical and emotional protection are key. Ryan discusses the importance of fitness, situational awareness, and even self-defense training to become your partner's rock. Join him as he maps out a path to becoming the partner you aspire to be, offering insights and strategies that are both practical and transformative. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:50) - Building Emotional Stability in Relationships   (04:27) - Emotional Stability and Financial Security   (10:55) - Building Strength in Relationships   (18:36) - Creating Safety and Security in Relationships Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/19/202419 minutes, 41 seconds
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Political Turmoil to Personal Resilience | ASK ME ANYTHING

The attempted assassination of former President Trump ignites a firestorm of reactions and exposes the deeply entrenched polarization within American politics. Join Ryan and Kipp as they dissect this dark weekend and its aftermath, questioning the fragile notion of unity in a nation increasingly divided. Can they foster civil discourse amidst a culture of demonizing opposing viewpoints, or are we too far gone? Their discussion underscores the urgent need for awareness and preparation for potentially dangerous times ahead. High-stress situations call for precise decision-making, especially when influenced by the inflammatory language of powerful figures. Drawing from personal military experiences, Ryan and Kipp scrutinize the complexities surrounding such events and the importance of articulating disagreements to fuel personal growth. They weigh the tough decisions between action and hesitation when assessing threats, emphasizing the role of structured planning and replicable systems in achieving consistent results—whether in personal goals or community contributions. Personal connections and learning together without ego are crucial, especially in an age of digital distractions. Ryan and Kipp explore the significance of maintaining in-person relationships, setting boundaries for focus, and inviting friends into more social, real-world activities. Through shared experiences, like hands-on learning between fathers and their children, they emphasize the value of bonding and imparting practical skills. Additionally, they address how to navigate grief and loss, embracing difficult emotions to honor loved ones and foster deeper, more meaningful connections. Join them for an episode packed with critical insights and practical advice for navigating these challenging times. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Political Polarization and Civil Discourse (15:46) - Security Detail and Response Evaluation (27:01) - Creating Replicatable Results Through Planning (40:46) - Setting Boundaries for Focus and Relationships (53:20) - Learning Together Without Ego (58:17) - Navigating Grief and Loss Together Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/17/20241 hour, 9 minutes, 28 seconds
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CLINT EMERSON | Trump’s Assassination Attempt and Preparing for the Worst

With the recent assassination attempt of former President, Donald Trump, it’s easy to see how political tensions continue to racket up. And, it’s becoming increasingly obvious that we, as men, must be prepared to protect ourselves and others at a moment’s notice. My guest today, former Navy SEAL, Clint Emerson, has made a career of developing personal readiness in himself and others. Today, we talk about the missteps and conspiracy theories around Trump’s recent assassination attempt, how DEI initiatives endanger us all, when discrimination can be useful, why time equals opportunity and why opportunity equals survivability in these situations, the “run, hide, fight,” mentality, and how the Chinese could potentially start an American civil war without getting their hands dirty. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (04:54) - Security Protocols and Armchair Quarterbacking   (15:43) - Security Measures and Gender Roles   (24:43) - Security Protocol and Crisis Response   (38:41) - Tactical Decision Making and Civil Unrest   (49:22) - Foreign Invasion and Border Security   (59:26) - Personal Preparedness and Responsibility Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/16/20241 hour, 3 minutes, 32 seconds
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Be Strong in a Weak World | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

It's time to reclaim your strength and resilience. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the urgent need for men to prepare for life's inevitable challenges—whether it's a divorce, job loss, or medical emergency. He discusses the pitfalls of taking the easy way out and the crucial role of mental, physical, and emotional resilience in safeguarding loved ones and thriving amid adversity. Enough with the complaints! This episode is a wake-up call to adopt a solution-oriented mindset. Ryan explores how constant whining only reinforces weaknesses and stalls progress. He argues for the necessity of surrounding yourself with strong, positive individuals and receiving balanced advice that includes assertive male role models. It’s not about dismissing feminized perspectives but about creating a healthier, more robust masculine identity.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Building Mental, Physical, & Emotional Resilience   (09:06) - Overcoming Weakness and Seeking Masculinity   (14:30) - Developing Masculine Strength Through Discomfort   (25:59) - Building Masculine Resilience and Fortitude   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/12/202427 minutes, 58 seconds
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Secrets to Thriving Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp explore emotions and communication through thought-provoking discussions. They kick off with a recent weekend of tubing and chores, highlighting their energetic nature. They discuss vulnerability in male relationships, emphasizing solutions over problems and urging men to reflect before reacting to emotional topics. They then tackle men's mental health and communication empowerment, discussing male depression and suicide. They underscore the importance of purpose, meaning, and camaraderie, advocating for action plans to combat a victim mindset and reframe challenges for growth. Ryan and Kipp also explore embracing differences in relationships, overcoming victimhood, and the importance of consistent communication. They discuss rebuilding oneself through better habits and navigating tribal mentality, ultimately emphasizing the balance of personal interests with family responsibilities. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Exploring Emotions and Communication (14:51) - Men's Mental Health and Communication Empowerment (26:26) - Embracing Differences in Relationships (32:33) - Accepting Ownership and Overcoming Victimhood (41:16) - Navigating Tribal Mentality and Individuality (45:08) - Labeling and Empowerment in Personal Development (54:32) - Finding Fulfillment and Truth (01:00:43) - Letting Go of Past Baggage Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/10/20241 hour, 13 minutes, 52 seconds
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KYLE THOMPSON | Control the Controllable

With so much going on in culture and society, it’s easy to drown yourself in the sea of relevant issues that need to be addressed. Unfortunately, so much of what we see and hear is largely outside of our control. But you can control yourself. And, that’s the good news. Today, I’m joined by Kyle Thompson with Undaunted Life to talk about how to do just that. We discuss ignorance and initiative, why diversity alone doesn’t really mean much, what Kyle has dubbed, “the 11th Commandment,” why compromise isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, and how to be the man your people need you to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (03:48) - Credit Card Controversy and Free Speech (12:54) - Stand for Beliefs, Don't Compromise (21:45) - Navigating Love and Judgment in Relationships (27:15) - Individual Preparedness and Societal Standards (36:19) - Call to Political Involvement and Awareness (41:08) - Local Involvement and Taking Initiative (52:56) - Setting Standards Over Goals (56:46) - Podcasting Persistence and Passion (60:45) - Supporting Content Creators in Need Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/9/20241 hour, 4 minutes, 51 seconds
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You are Meant to Live Free | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Discover how to truly safeguard your freedoms and honor the legacy of our founding fathers. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler promises to transform your understanding of Independence Day from mere celebration to a profound contemplation of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Ryan sheds light on the often overlooked responsibilities that accompany these cherished rights, emphasizing that they are not entitlements but opportunities demanding vigilance and effort. By focusing on the pivotal role of men as protectors, providers, and leaders, Ryan underscores the essential virtues of personal responsibility, self-improvement, and community service. He reflects on historical vulnerabilities and acknowledges deficiencies to ensure continuous progress and protection of our freedoms. Is the American dream alive and well, or is it under threat? Ryan delves into the current state of social security, Medicare, and Medicaid, outlining the urgent need for self-reliance over dependency on government aid. From getting in shape to getting out of debt and acquiring marketable skills, he discusses practical steps to reclaim control of your future. Ryan highlights the importance of community involvement, whether it’s helping a neighbor or running for local office. By taking these actions, you help safeguard the rights and responsibilities that our forebears fought so hard to secure. As you enjoy your freedoms this weekend, remember to remain vigilant and proactive in preserving them. Join Ryan next week as he continues this essential conversation on restoring and maintaining the American dream. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:55) - The Responsibilities of Freedom (11:19) - Taking Responsibility for Freedom (16:58) - Restoring the American Dream Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready  
7/5/202418 minutes, 18 seconds
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Daring Drops, Debates & Discipline | ASK ME ANYTHING

Can balancing debt repayment with a social life actually lead to personal growth? Discover the nuances of juggling financial responsibilities and social engagements as Ryan and Kipp share practical tips and personal anecdotes. The episode includes a story about Ryan's recent skydiving adventure in Southern Utah, complete with the exhilaration of free-falling at 120 miles per hour and the twist that Ryan's girlfriend couldn’t join due to unpredictable winds. This segment is filled with humor and poignant reflections on facing fears and embracing unexpected twists. Switching gears, Ryan and Kipp dissect the political landscape with a focus on Joe Biden's latest debate performance and the strategies that might shape the future of the Democratic Party. From discussing potential new candidates like Michelle Obama and Gavin Newsom to analyzing Donald Trump's surprising composure, they offer a blend of humor and serious analysis. This chapter provides an engaging reflection on the key players in the current political scene, keeping listeners informed and entertained. They also explore the delicate balance of maintaining consistency in podcasting, tackling debt while preserving a social life, and the growth that comes from courageously facing life's challenges. Listeners will gain insights into managing fitness routines alongside personal development, handling stress-induced illnesses, and achieving closure in past relationships. Plus, listener questions bring thoughtful advice on becoming one's best self. Join Ryan and Kipp for an episode packed with valuable content, practical tips, and heartfelt personal stories. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:41) Skydiving Mishap and Presidential Debate (07:14) Political Debate and Church Activities (21:16) Consistency in Podcasting (27:36) Balancing Debt Repayment and Social Life (40:20) Anticipating Life's Challenges With Discipline (54:10) Seeking Closure for Past Relationships (57:43) Embracing Courage for Growth (01:07:03) Balancing Fitness and Personal Growth (01:19:56) Take Action and Become Your Best   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/3/20241 hour, 19 minutes, 43 seconds
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LARRY HAGNER | Spirit of Fatherhood

Being a father is hard work but it’s also one of the most rewarding journeys a man can take in his life. With all the demands of life, it can feel like we, as fathers, as simply flailing around trying to figure out the best way to raise our children. With 4 of my own, just when I think I have it figured out, I’m thrown another curveball. My guest today, Larry Hagner, has spent the last 10 years coaching men who want to become the best fathers they can and, possibly, the fathers they never had themselves. Today, we talk about the spirit of fatherhood, what to plan for before your first child, a powerful tool Larry has built called the “Family Score,” to assess your performance as a father, building unbreakable bonds with your kids, how best to have tough conversations. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Fatherhood and Male Friendships (05:48) - Fatherhood Challenges and Growth (16:15) - Family Score and Feedback Perception (21:59) - Parental Communication and Emotional Regulation (29:47) - Personal Reform and Family Reconnection (33:59) - Men's Health and Personal Accountability (44:39) - Supporting Friends in Times of Struggle (51:45) - Empowering Through Curious Questions (55:33) - Bullying Advice and Fatherhood Support (59:11) - Exciting Event Coming Up Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/2/20241 hour, 5 minutes, 49 seconds
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How to Communicate Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unlocks the secrets to mastering respectful and effective conversations. Learn the "10 Commandments of Healthy Conversation" and understand how to navigate complex topics like the transgender movement and COVID-19 without falling prey to the allure of popular opinions. Through real-world examples, Ryan highlights how critical thinking can safeguard your discussions from resentment and animosity. Ryan tackles the nuanced concept of the burden of proof, addressing its significance in debates on contentious issues such as transgenderism and healthcare. Discover why those making bold claims must back them up with solid evidence and how this principle applies to political and scientific conversations. Personal anecdotes and notable examples, including reflections on Dr. Fauci, serve to illustrate the dangers of arguing from ignorance and the importance of informed debate. Finally, Ryan offers practical advice on avoiding logical fallacies in both decision-making and debate. From understanding false dichotomies to steering clear of straw man arguments, this episode equips you with the tools you need for intelligent, honest discourse. Join us to enhance your communication skills, build credibility, and engage in more meaningful, respectful dialogues. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (02:18) - The 10 Commandments of Healthy Conversation (12:40) - Burden of Proof and Ignorance (21:26) - Avoiding Logical Fallacies in Decision Making (33:14) - Avoiding Logical Fallacies in Debate (38:32) - Communicating Like a Logical Man (43:22) - Enhancing Communication for Success Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/28/202443 minutes, 32 seconds
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Mastering Fatherhood & Leadership Secrets | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week's Ask Me Anything episode, Kipp and Shawn delve into the complexities of balancing fatherhood, leadership, and personal growth. They share vivid stories of summer backpacking adventures, highlighting the importance of resilience and structured activities for children. The discussion transitions to workplace dynamics, offering practical advice on leadership and effective communication. They explore relationship dynamics, self-awareness, and societal perceptions of parenting. Personal anecdotes underscore the value of hope, self-love, and positive self-talk. Tune in for insightful strategies on becoming the best version of yourself in both family and professional life. (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Summer Chaos and Fatherhood Reflections (13:43) - Navigating Workplace Interactions and Leadership (28:49) - Marriage (32:44) - Self-Confidence and Relationship Dynamics (39:40) - Navigating Relationship Values and Father Strength (51:48) - Finding Hope and Overcoming Anxiety (01:00:54) - Positive Self-Talk and Self-Nurturing (01:11:36) - Empowering Self-Talk and Business Growth (01:24:46) - Truck Advocacy and Business Strategy (01:30:59) - Join Iron Council and Adventure Opportunities Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/26/20241 hour, 32 minutes, 51 seconds
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JACKSON HIGHTOWER | Understanding Sexual Dynamics Between Men and Women

The sexual dynamics between the sexes aren’t something we address as often as we should. It’s something that impacts men and women on a daily basis, but we’re simply expected to know how to speak to the opposite sex in terms of sexual attraction and intimacy. This often leads to frustration in the bedroom and beyond. My guest today is Jackson Hightower, and he is a sexual mastery expert who works closely with men in building intimacy and sexual connection between man and woman. Today, we talk about what women find sexual attractive and irresistible, why men struggle to communicate their sexual wants, needs, and desires, what is causing an increase in erectile dysfunction and lowering testosterone rates, how a man can improve his performance under the sheets, and learning to satisfy both your woman and have your own needs met. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (03:50) - Understanding Sexual Mastery and Communication (10:30) - Catering Love Language for Partners (14:23) - Exploring Sexual Growth and Communication (18:14) - Effective Communication in Sexual Relationships (22:38) - Seeking Feedback in Sexual Relationships (26:11) - Navigating Sexual Partnerships and Exploration (38:05) - Navigating Sexual Desire and Masturbation (41:30) - Negative Effects of Porn in Men (51:59) - Embracing Sexual Authenticity and Communication Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/25/20241 hour, 1 minute, 47 seconds
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10 Harsh Truths for Every Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler unlocks the key to a confident and fulfilling life, where hard-hitting truths every man must embrace are confronted. Discover why men aren't inherently entitled to anything and the critical importance of continuously proving worth through performance and value. Learn how to build more meaningful relationships and endeavors by making significant contributions that truly count. Find out how true strength lies in humility and honesty as conventional ideas of vulnerability are challenged. Ryan delves into the power of openly addressing struggles without falling into victimhood. Understand the crucial value of presenting solutions and maintaining control over circumstances to foster stronger personal relationships and an unshakeable sense of self-worth. Embrace the liberating power of focusing on what can be controlled and letting go of what can't. Discover practical advice on personal growth, skill enhancement, and nurturing meaningful relationships to lead a more adaptable and resilient life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:40) - 10 Harsh Truths Every Man Needs - (12:24) - The Power of Humility and Honesty - (24:22) - Letting Go and Accepting Life's Realities - (38:21) - Join IronCouncil   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready  
6/21/202438 minutes, 43 seconds
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Handling Increased Responsibility, Advice for New Fathers & Starting From Nothing | ASK ME ANYTHING

Reflecting on their contrasting Father's Day experiences, Ryan and Kipp kick off this week's Ask Me Anything with a personal touch. They then dive into a critical discussion around the House's recent defense bill. They explore the multifaceted implications of this decision, including the establishment of a drone force and the nuanced considerations of gender identity within these regulations. Switching gears, Ryan and Kipp dissect a thought-provoking interview with Joe Missoula, head coach for the Boston Celtics. Missoula's emphasis on his Christian faith over racial identity in sports challenges prevailing narratives and offers a fresh lens on leadership and diversity.  They delve into heartfelt discussions on personal growth and parenting. For first-time fathers, Ryan offers invaluable tips on supporting partners and fostering bonds with newborns. He champions the idea of gradually introducing children to life's challenges, preparing them for independence. The episode concludes with insights on effective networking, the balance of parenting styles, and the perpetual journey of self-improvement. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Father’s Day, Draft Bill and Headlines (14:34) - Faith-Based Coach Discusses NBA Diversity (19:14) - Building Influence With Team Leaders (26:02) - Building Meaningful Connections Through Leadership (36:58) - Parenting Advice for First-Time Fathers (46:14) - Effective Networking and Personal Growth (53:25) - Navigating Communication Challenges in the Workplace (01:03:54) - The Power of Self-Development and Leadership (01:14:51) - Friendship and Appreciation in Leadership   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/19/20241 hour, 16 minutes, 9 seconds
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MARK DRISCOLL | Act Like a Man

If you’re paying attention even in the slightest, you know there is a clear and deliberate agenda to undermine and de-value men and the role they play in society. It’s crucial that we, as men, remain vigilant in the knowledge of that and, more importantly, continue to show up powerfully for those we wish to lead and serve. My guest today, Mark Driscoll, has been doing this for decades specifically through his ministry of Christ. We talk about whether or not men are the problem in society, the balance between fearless courage and loving kindness, why submitting to proper authority does not make us weaker men, the key archetypes of masculinity, Christian weakness, and why curiosity will you put you on a path to becoming a better man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:42) - Men, Masculinity, and Convictions (07:23) - The Nature of God and Humanity (19:16) - Navigating Faith, Authority, and Hope (25:52) - Discussion on Faith and Humanity (34:50) - Exploring Fatherhood and Authority in Society (49:07) - Erosion of Masculinity in Society (01:00:26) - Encouraging Courage in Men (01:07:00) - Masculinity, Motives, and Mentorship   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready  
6/18/20241 hour, 15 minutes, 38 seconds
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The Trifecta of Men’s Health | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler dives headfirst into the trifecta of health—mental, emotional, and physical. He reveals practical advice for optimizing physical health through the right diet and exercise, using an unforgettable analogy between vehicle maintenance and body care to underscore the importance of holistic well-being. Listeners will master the art of balancing all three aspects of health and become the best version of themselves. Prepare to build an unshakeable mental fortitude by embracing and conquering life's toughest challenges. Avoiding difficult tasks and conversations might feel easier, but it stunts growth and hampers productivity. This episode encourages you to face these hurdles head-on—whether it's a grueling workout, public speaking engagement, or deep self-reflection. Discover how pushing beyond your comfort zone and being brutally honest about your weaknesses can unlock your true potential and create an indomitable mental toughness. Our actionable steps will guide you toward courageous and honest self-assessment. Lastly, Ryan dives into the critical aspects of emotional well-being and personal growth. Learn why addressing procrastinated tasks and setting clear physical goals can help stabilize your emotional health.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  - (00:00) - Episode Intro  - (00:40) - Improving Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health  - (12:29) - Building Mental Fortitude Through Challenges  - (16:59) - Emotional Wellbeing and Personal Growth  - (29:32) - The Iron Council Opens Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready  
6/14/202430 minutes, 58 seconds
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Self-Fulfilling Prophesy, Men Lack Confidence, and the Benjamin Franklin Effect | ASK ME ANYTHING

Returning from a grueling hunting trip in Hawaii left Ryan and Kipp physically exhausted but mentally invigorated. They introduce Revitalized Womanhood, a women's community led by Gina Trimmer, and discussed off-grid self-reliance skills, emphasizing the value of this knowledge. They discuss the importance of thinking on one's feet and emotional resilience. Resourcefulness and adaptability were key themes, stressing the importance of physical, mental, and emotional health in overcoming challenges. Practical tips on building assertiveness and courage were shared, along with an invitation to join the Iron Council for a supportive community. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode intro (01:00) - Scrambling to Balance Work and Vacation (05:47) - Developing Critical Thinking and Emotional Resilience (18:05) - Embrace Your Circumstances, Create Connections (29:50) - Maintaining Focus and Building Relationships (42:14) - Men's Fear and Assertiveness (53:47) - The Iron Council Opens   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/12/202455 minutes, 38 seconds
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KIPP SORENSEN | Lessons Learned on a First Hunt

Hunting has become such an integral part of my life and I can’t help but want to talk about all the stories and memories I’ve made and what hunting has done in my own life with other people. Many of you who listen to the podcast, know my co-host, Kipp Sorensen. When I had the opportunity to take him on his first archery hunt in Hawaii last week, I could not wait for it. Today, I share our conversation from the porch in Hawaii about his first archery experience. We talk about looking for and creating opportunities, the power of curiosity and inquisitiveness, how to get into hunting for the first time, being coachable and teachable and what that will do for your life, some of the lessons he’s learned, and whether or not he was able to get his first kill. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  - (00:00) - Episode Intro  - (01:13) - Guest Intro  - (03:26) - Primitive Archery Hunt on Molokai  - (15:40) - Navigating Challenges in Skill Development  - (18:44) - Finding Joy in the Process  - (21:51) - Learning Archery  - (28:10) - Importance of Presence in Hunting  - (35:09) - Leveraging Solitude for Growth  - (38:05) - Focused Mindset in Challenging Situations  - (48:17) - Hunting Strategies and Value Exchange  - (57:37) - The Power of Curiosity and Communication  - (60:20) - Understanding Appreciation in Relationships   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/11/20241 hour, 9 minutes, 7 seconds
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When No One is Looking, Do the Right Thing | FIRDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explores the crucial topic of addressing mistakes with integrity and confidence. Failure is an inevitable part of life, but how we handle our missteps truly defines our character. Ryan shares personal anecdotes, including an archery practice mishap that led to damaging a neighbor's trailer tire. Through this seemingly minor incident, he illustrates a powerful three-part formula for addressing mistakes: acknowledging the error, making a deliberate attempt to fix it, and maintaining integrity. By owning up to our failures, we build the character necessary to face more significant challenges. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  - (00:00) - Episode Intro  - (00:42) - Addressing Mistakes With Integrity and Confidence  - (07:31) - Take Responsibility, Learn, Improve  - (16:24) - Men of Integrity   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/7/202417 minutes, 41 seconds
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Dealing with Divorce, Boost Testosterone Naturally, and Normalizing Self-Doubt | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this episode of ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into the critical impact of government spending on inflation and economic stability. By dissecting the inefficiencies in state-funded systems like a medical program in Boston, they underscore the urgent need for fiscal responsibility and accountability. Their discussion is packed with real-world examples and a light-hearted t-shirt recommendation, giving listeners a no-nonsense look at the current state of the nation. They also stress the importance of accountability and personal growth in overcoming life's challenges. From naturally boosting testosterone and navigating legal issues to tackling major depressive disorder and moving past divorce, they provide actionable insights and practical steps. They introduce the Iron Council, a robust network designed to support men through common struggles, and urge listeners to join their community for continuous support and resources. This episode is essential for any man looking to tackle life's obstacles and achieve personal growth.   Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:42) - Debate Over Modern Society (09:40) - Debt, Government Spending, and Economic Impact (17:09) - The Importance of Accountability and Growth (31:40) - Boosting Testosterone and Legal Issues (37:32) - Exploring Depression and Insightful Solutions (48:45) - Navigating Divorce and Finding Growth (53:48) - Iron Council Enrollment Announcement (57:33) - Take Action to Become Your Best
6/5/202458 minutes, 34 seconds
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Own Your Shit | DAVE FIELDING

If you’re like me, when you were a young boy, you had dreams of growing up to be an American hero and/or a spy like James Bond. But what does that actually mean in real life and, what does it take? My guest today is a man who has done just that. His name is Dave Fielding, Green Beret turned American Spy. And, today, he shares some of his insight into the world of US intelligence including what we can do to protect ourselves and maintain our rights. We talk about how arrogance hurts you but also how it might be able to help, how the common citizen deciphers between false and accurate information, the importance of owning your shit, the power of asking yourself, “why” in all things, and how self-awareness leads to a fulfilled life.   Show Highlights (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Embracing Growth Through Seeking Help (03:49) - Personal Growth in Intelligence Operations (20:07) - Concerns About National Security (25:18) - Building Trust in Three Letter Agencies (33:26) - Assassination Involvement and Counterterrorism Strategy (46:49) - Unpacking Emotional Healing and Growth (60:13) - Redemption and Improvement Through Darkness   Battle Planners:  Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/4/20241 hour, 8 minutes, 14 seconds
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Navigating a New Divorce | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler his journey through the emotional upheaval of divorce and offers actionable advice for others facing similar challenges. Ryan emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, accountability, and personal development across mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and financial dimensions. With a candid approach, Ryan discusses the dangers of repeating destructive patterns, the need for strong parenting during separation, and strategies for fostering resilience and growth post-divorce. Practical steps for managing financial challenges and maintaining a positive trajectory are also covered. This episode serves as a beacon of hope and guidance for men striving to rebuild their lives and emerge stronger after the pain of marital breakup. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  - (00:00) - Episode Intro  - (00:52) - Navigating the Challenges of Divorce  - (12:58) - Navigating Divorce  - (17:24) - Personal Growth After Divorce  - (26:26) - Navigating Divorce  - (36:39) - Navigating Life After Divorce Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready  
5/31/202439 minutes, 18 seconds
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Leading with Honor The Ethical Authority Debate | ASK ME ANYTHING

Join us in this week ASK ME ANYTHING as we share our exciting preparations for an upcoming axis deer archery hunt in Hawaii. Listen in as we detail the rigorous daily archery practice sessions and the vital adjustments needed for pinpoint accuracy – reminiscent of zeroing in a rifle. We'll explore the delicate balance between high expectations and the humility that comes with such an immersive outdoor experience, emphasizing the need for adaptability, not just in hunting, but in all walks of life. Power and leadership come with immense responsibility, a theme we tackle head-on as we discuss the contentious ideas put forth by Erik Prince and the ethical implications they carry. We scrutinize the thin line between the beneficial use and potential abuse of power, drawing insights from religious texts and philosophical musings on the human condition. In a similar vein, we navigate the intersection of personal faith and secular professional life, advocating for the integration of Christian principles in a way that respects diverse beliefs while avoiding logical fallacies in reasoning. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Intro 00:40 - Preparing for Archery Hunt in Hawaii 07:43 - Power and Responsibility in Leadership 15:58 - Biblical Principles in Secular Environments 28:43 - Effective Networking and Increasing Earning Potential 33:22 - Navigating Relationships and Self-Improvement 46:55 - Letting Go and Moving On 52:46 - Complimenting Ryan's Resemblance   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/29/202453 minutes, 55 seconds
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HARRISON SCHENCK | Save Your Sons

If we have any hope of saving this great nation, we’re going to have to learn to turn to the generation behind us and equip them with the mindset of truth, righteousness, and individual responsibility. Unfortunately, much of society (including the halls of academia where they spend most of their time) are hellbent on instilling the mindset of relativism, degeneracy, and victimhood. Today, I’m joined by Harrison Schenck of Save Your Sons to talk about what it’s going to take to turn the tide of culture for our boys who we’ll eventually call on to lead. We talk about the participation trophy generation, the warped conception of what a man is, overcoming the neediness of boys and men, when comparison can serve us, the dangers of “white knighting,” and saving our sons for and from society.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  (00:00) Episode Intro  (00:50) Navigating Authenticity in Online Presence  (08:00) Understanding Masculinity in Modern Society  (18:25) Understanding Masculinity and Modern Relationships  (29:14) Pre-Grieving and Voluntary Hardship  (40:10) Maximizing Potential Through Comparison  (43:11) Importance of Caring What Others Think  (46:11) Legacy, Truth, and Setting Examples  (50:41) Gender Roles and Response Max Rule  (57:24) Men and Women  (01:03:42) Collaboration for Positive Impact   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/28/20241 hour, 10 minutes, 32 seconds
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Man Vs. Bear | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the dance between male and female dynamics, revealing how both genders offer distinct yet complementary strengths. He shares insights into the power of personal growth, encouraging men to forge ahead in their journey of self-improvement. From physical fitness to the mental grit informed by stoicism, he lays out a blueprint for men to stand as pillars of reliability and emotional intelligence. Listen in for strategies that challenge and change antiquated notions, paving the way for healthier, more meaningful connections. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:21) - Man vs Bear Debate Amongst Women (03:54) - Building Strong Masculine Identity (16:13) - Enlist Other Men in Battle (21:47) - Iron Council Enrollment for 2024 Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready  
5/24/202423 minutes, 37 seconds
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Defeat Your Inner Critic, the Paradox of Choice, and Beating Bitterness

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro  (00:42) Political Turmoil and Health Concerns (07:32) Frustration With Politics and Personal Growth (16:51) Overcoming Impostor Syndrome and Judgments (26:13) Realistic Expectations Through Mentorship (30:46) Navigating Life Transitions and Family Dynamics (44:08) Learning Empathy and Letting Go (48:10) Overcoming Challenges and Staying Focused (54:43) Finding a Partner (01:02:54) The Paradox of Choice in Relationships (01:14:57) Upcoming Interviews and Resources   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto\ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/22/20241 hour, 17 minutes, 38 seconds
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GS YOUNGBLOOD | The Crucial Difference Between Men and Women in Relationships

We know we’d like to step more fully into our masculinity in relationships. We, as men, inherently know that it makes for a much more rewarding and fulfilling partnership with the fairer sex. But what does it look like in practicality and application? My guest today is author and men’s coach, GS Youngblood. Today, we talk about why masculine leadership is a gift, how to evoke women to relax into their femininity, why a man’s job is to provide structure to a relationship and how to do it, how men should handle their emotions, and why, in relationships, it can be a good idea to address feelings first and facts later.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:52) Masculine Leadership in Relationships (10:59) Masculine Blueprint for Relationship Success (24:16) Navigating Masculine Leadership in Relationships (33:52) Navigating Selfishness and Assertiveness in Relationships (43:16) Embodying Presence in Relationships (53:15) Men's Bootcamp Program Discussion   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/21/20241 hour, 2 minutes, 13 seconds
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Men, Be More Assertive | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explores the pivotal role of assertiveness in men's lives, discussing how embracing this quality can lead to a more fulfilling and commanding existence. He addresses the spectrum of communication styles – passive, aggressive, and passive-aggressive – and unpack why assertiveness stands out as the most effective approach. Ryan also introduces five transformative daily exercises designed to steer men away from less effective communication habits and towards a more confident and direct way of expressing their desires. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  - (00:50) - Episode Intro  - (00:50) - Becoming More Assertive  - (06:27) - Steps to Assertiveness in Communication  - (12:58) - Developing Assertiveness in Communication  - (18:38) - Learning to Be Assertive and Honest  - (28:06) - Be Assertive and Honest Always   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/17/202429 minutes, 4 seconds
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Men’s Impact on Boy Scouts, Personal Growth, and Achieving Balance | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Men's Impact in Boy Scouts (05:43) Impact of Values on Organizational Change (18:00) Navigating Publishing and Mental Health (23:50) Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth (35:53) Choosing and Addressing Life's Challenges (42:35) Balancing Work, Family, and Goals (58:16) Moving Past Resentment and Focusing Forward (01:04:17) 30 Days to Battle Ready   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/15/20241 hour, 6 minutes, 26 seconds
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NICK FREITAS | Are You Good at Being a Man?

You want to be a better man than you currently are. If that wasn’t the case, you wouldn’t even be listening to this podcast. Regardless of where you are on your path and how you feel about how you show up in life as a father, husband, business owner, and/or community leader there is room left on the table for all of us to step up even more. My guest today, Nick Freitas, shares with us some insight onto how to do just that. Today, we talk about what “bad guys” get right, why, “happy wife, happy life,” is garbage, the role of women and men in family and society, harnessing masculinity for good purposes, addressing and dealing with your insecurities, and the difference between being a “good man,” and being, “good at being a man.”   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  (00:00) Episode Intro  (00:50) Defining Masculinity and Family Role  (09:18) Navigating Relationships and Divorce Challenges  (18:38) Test of Loyalty in Marriage  (26:36) Navigating Decisions and Communication in Marriage  (32:26) Exploring the Bad Boy Archetype  (38:46) Understanding Men's Emotional Maturity  (44:25) The Roles of Men and Women  (49:58) Traditional Gender Roles and Mental Health  (53:53) Traditional Gender Roles in Marriage   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/14/20241 hour, 8 minutes, 11 seconds
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In All Things, Be Intentional | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down how we can live the life we desire by being intentional. He uncovers how to identify what truly matters, reduce the noise of modern distractions, and live with deliberate action to better serve ourselves and those we care for. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  - (00:00) - Episode Intro  - (00:40) - The Importance of Being Intentional  - (12:24) - Articulate Your Goals and Enlist Support  - (20:59) - The Importance of Alignment and Boundaries  - (28:27) - Being Intentional in Becoming a Man   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/10/202430 minutes, 17 seconds
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Impactful Challenges for Men, Achieving and Maintaining Excellence, and Making Hard Choices | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions LIVE from the Order of Man Uprising event. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  (00:00) Episode Intro  (00:50) Men's Impactful Challenges and Growth  (10:26) Achieving and Maintaining Excellence  (15:37) Choices and Integrity  (26:02) Achieving Balance in Alpha Relationships  (33:08) Navigating Growth and Burnout in Community  (44:37) Event Schedule and Team Appreciation   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/8/202445 minutes, 42 seconds
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RICK TRIMMER | Build a Life You’re Excited About

You want a life you’re excited to live. That’s a given. But why does it continue to be so elusive? That’s a question my guest and good friend, Rick Trimmer, has spent the last 20 years of his life trying to answer. From building 12 highly-successful businesses to traveling the world with his family for the past decade, he knows a thing or two about what makes a person a success and how to make it so for the average man. Today, Rick and I talk about getting over what other people think of you, creating integration between professional and personal pursuits, how to identify what types of businesses to start, the ability to let the non-issues slide, the power of consistency and persistency, and, ultimately, how to build the life you desire.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  (00:00) Episode Intro  (00:52) Overcoming Failure and Taking Action  (08:28) Mindset and Expectations in Business  (13:20) Letting Things Slide for Better Relationships  (20:32) Lessons From Growth and Resilience  (31:34) Navigating Modern Challenges With Scarcity Mindset  (35:56) Life Changes and Travel Adventures  (44:24) Embrace Life's Adventures and Experiences  (53:49) Travel, Family, and Business Tips  (01:03:27) Adventure Education and Experience Retreat  (01:07:39) Outdoor Adventure Event Planning and Vision   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/7/20241 hour, 17 minutes, 24 seconds
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Stress-Reduction Strategies | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses several different stress reduction strategies, and how to manage anxiety effectively. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (01:14) Men's Stress Management Strategies for Success (04:40) Managing Stress Through the Five W's (17:05) Managing Stress Through Various Techniques (20:42) Managing Stress and Anxiety Effectively (31:26) Maintaining Stress Management Strategies   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/3/202432 minutes, 40 seconds
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Do Not Misrepresent Your Failures, Moving on From Hardship, and Identifying Truth and Lies

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:52) Misattributing Failure (10:34) Self-Awareness and Perspective (16:54) Navigating Challenges in Modern America (20:27) The Importance of Developing Marketable Skills (33:20) Improving Relationships Through Understanding & Communication (40:28) Navigating Relationships With Intention and Acceptance (52:21) Navigating Failure, Accountability, and Overcoming Lust (01:01:02) Understanding and Overcoming Relationship Blockages (01:08:53) YouTube Channel Growth and Reflection   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/1/20241 hour, 10 minutes, 14 seconds
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UFC LEGEND JIM MILLER | Life as a Fighter

Most men have never been in a fight in their life (or, at most, a handful). So, what does it take to enter the Octogon and make a 16-year career (and counting) of administering and receiving the brunt end of physical violence. It’s something my guest today, UFC legend, Jim Miller, has done. And, he’s brought us so many incredible moments in the world of professional MMA. Today, Jim and I talk about what it takes to fight for a living and why he believes he was built to fight. We cover some of the highs and lows of his career including his debilitating battle with Lyme disease and his recovery, how he shapes his training atmosphere for maximum results, how to win and lose with class and grace, ensuring he never puts himself into the victim role, and his immense respect for men who step into the cage with him.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00)Episode Intro (04:18)Fighter Nicknames and Future Fights (11:42)The Path to Success in MMA (24:46)Navigating Public Opinion and Personal Standards (30:46)Parenting and Fighting (42:02)Lyme Disease and Its Impact (56:01)The Lifestyle of Hunting and Fighting   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/30/20241 hour, 7 minutes, 36 seconds
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Purpose, Passion, and a Plan | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Have you ever felt that undeniable spark when you're doing something you genuinely love, something that lights you up inside? That's what we're chasing in this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES episode, as Ryan Michler dissects the essence of purpose, passion, and planning. He'll look at the stark reality that so many of us are disconnected from our work, and lays out the challenge to break free from that norm and find pride in our daily grind. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  - (00:00) Episode Intro  - (00:50) - Purpose and Passion, and Fulfillment Formula  - (13:17) - Planning for Fulfillment   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
4/26/202421 minutes, 9 seconds
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Ownership over Victimhood, Handling Aggression, and Letting Go

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Racism in Employment and Crime Rates (10:28) Addressing Social Issues and Consequences (21:36) Navigating Life's Challenges and Adapting (36:39) Letting Go and Moving On (45:10) Handling Aggression With Grace and Empowerment (52:10) Letting Go and Finding Forgiveness (01:03:11) Impact of Relationships and Vulnerability   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.  
4/24/20241 hour, 13 minutes, 44 seconds
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DUSTIN DIEFENDERFER | Are You Tough Enough?

“Tough” is an adjective we often associate with our perception of manliness. But in the relative ease of modernity, men are becoming increasingly soft and pathetic. Being tough is no longer amatter of survival but a matter of choice. And, why wouldn’t you choose to be tough? It’s rhetorical but why are so many men weak? My guest today, founder of MTNTOUGH, Dustin Diefenderfer is a man who knows what it means to be tough. He’s also training thousands of men to do the same though physical fitness that matters in the mountains and in everyday life. Today, we talk about the importance of brotherhood, the reason every man needs a purpose, passion, and plan, taking “tests” to quantify your progress, what he calls, “the 10-year rule,” the “Spartan Effect,” and so much more.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What does it mean to be tough? The importance of brotherhood Why every man needs a purpose, passion, and plan Taking "tests" to quantify your progress The "10 year rule" The Spartan Effect   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/23/20241 hour, 7 minutes, 18 seconds
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Communication is King | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler tackles the often-unspoken side of communication—the receiver's role. He unpacks the concept of a 100-100 approach, where both parties carry equal weight in ensuring the success of a conversation. He explores how being aware of the intended outcome can shape our understanding and responses, and why it's crucial to set personal and time boundaries for a respectful and fruitful dialogue. As he dissects these responsibilities, he also addresses the need to actively strive for comprehension rather than feign ignorance, shedding light on how these practices contribute to more meaningful interactions.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (01:50) The Responsibility of Effective Communication (09:54) Effective Communication and Logical Fallacies (13:28) Building Stronger Relationships and Communication   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
4/19/202416 minutes, 12 seconds
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OJ Simpson, Faith in Your Course of Action, and Taking on Other People’s Issues

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, the news of OJ Simpson's passing hit the headlines, it set off a whirlwind of emotions and retrospection about the impact of celebrity and the justice system on society. Our latest discussion is an unflinching look at how we remember those who've led tumultuous lives, and the struggle to honor the departed while acknowledging their controversial legacies. Kipp and I delve into societal expectations when it comes to paying tribute to such individuals, weighing the scales of public opinion against legal outcomes, and sharing our personal reflections on the matter. Stoicism offers a beacon in the fog when personal integrity seems at odds with external pressures. It's a philosophy that Kipp and I summon as we navigate the maze of life's decisions, from the verdicts handed down by juries to the practices of parenting amidst societal shifts. This episode is an open invitation to our listeners to consider the influence of conscience over fear. We share stories from our own lives, from blending families to supporting friends through personal struggles, which illustrate the profound impact of our choices and actions in shaping our path to authenticity.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Controversy Over OJ Simpson's Death (14:08) Essence of Integrity and Legacy (23:19) Prove Yourself and Earn More (34:51) Circle Inclusion and Impactful Influence (44:05) Respecting Tradition and Honoring Culture (54:41) Navigating Introducing Significant Others to Kids (01:01:08) Supporting a Friend With Alcohol Struggles (01:12:34) Taking Responsibility and Taking Action   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/17/20241 hour, 14 minutes, 11 seconds
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MATT GUTMAN | When Anxiety Attacks

If you’ve never experienced an anxiety attack, it’s hard to articulate the sense of fear and dread one can elicit. It wasn’t until earlier this year when I experienced an anxiety attack, did I fully realize how difficult it can be to understand and process. My guest today is ABC News’ chief national correspondent, Matt Gutman, and author of No Time to Panic: How I Curbed My Anxiety and Conquered a Lifetime of Panic Attacks. We talk about destigmatizing men’s mental health issues, what anxiety truly is and how to curb it when it sneaks up, powerful mindfulness techniques to keep you present in the moment, SSRI’s for the use of anxiety and stress, and riding yourself of the shame that can be a primary driver of anxiety.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:51) Understanding Panic Attacks vs Anxiety (13:04) Dealing With Panic Attacks (26:52) Overcoming Panic Attacks in Broadcasting (32:19) Healing Through Psychedelics and Emotional Expression (36:33) Ketamine Therapy Experiences and Benefits (42:40) Breaking the Stigma on Mental Health (47:36) Online Outreach for Mental Health Support   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/16/202455 minutes, 5 seconds
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Forgive Yourself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Ever wrestle with the specter of past mistakes? In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler guides you to breaking free from guilt and embracing a future of self-growth. He delves into the transformative act of self-forgiveness, laying out a roadmap for freeing oneself from the chains of regret. Through heartfelt discussion, he unpacks the power of acknowledging our missteps and the impact they've had on others, as well as the subtle art of making amends. Learn five actionable strategies to forgive yourself, and discover how to offer sincere apologies without falling into the trap of manipulation or over-apologizing.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:47 - 01:28) Learning to Forgive Yourself (07:17 - 08:16) Moving on Without Acceptance of Apology (17:32 - 18:38) Recognizing Personal Growth   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
4/12/202425 minutes, 48 seconds
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Do Not validate Mental Derangement, Men are NOT worthless, and Gi or No-Gi BJJ in a Street Fight

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, join me as Kipp and I navigate the complexities of social dynamics and personal responsibility, covering everything from the art of making plans to the nuances of gender roles. We ponder the paradox women face when preferring men to initiate contact, as well as the thorny issue of toxic feminism and its impact on society. We dissect the idea of body identity integrity disorder (BIID), delve into the psychological ramifications of affirming unrealistic beliefs, and the significance of men and women in our communities.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Issue of Transgender Medicine Controversy (14:57) Toxic Feminism and Misandry Implementation (20:57) Taking Action to Manage Anxiety (32:59) Building Strong Partnerships in Life (40:30) Effective Use of T-Shirts and Jiu-Jitsu (49:35) Self-Defense and Jiu Jitsu Training Tips (55:58) Balancing Responsibilities in Life (01:07:31) Online Business via Social Media (01:12:59) Tools for Becoming a Better Man   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/10/20241 hour, 14 minutes, 19 seconds
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BEDROS KEUILIAN | Adversity Introduces a Man to Himself

Most men live soft, sedated lifestyles. Then, they expect themselves to perform at the highest possible standard when life gets real. At best, they wonder why they can’t seem to get ahead in their personal and professional lives and, often, chalk it up to luck or poor external circumstances. My guest today, Bedros Keuilian, makes the case that only in adversity is a man revealed to himself and why it’s so crucial every man learns to develop the mental fortitude required to succeed in life. We also discuss the how the work we do in private shows itself in public, how to avoid the destructive drift of life, where vulnerability fits into the equation with men, what one question every man is attempting to answer for himself, Bedros’ idea of the “Karmic Bank Account,” and why the “covenant of the blood is greater than the water of the womb."   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (01:10) Men's Personal Development Program Misunderstood (09:53) Healing and Bonding Through Adversity (22:41) Men's Accountability and Emotional Vulnerability (33:26) Overcoming Victim Mentality and Identity Labels (39:46) Breaking the Cycle (48:47) Discovering Self Through Stillness (59:39) Connecting With Bedros Koulian on Projects   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.  
4/9/20241 hour, 6 minutes, 37 seconds
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When All Of Society is Lost, Create Your Own | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler delves into the heart of reclaiming masculinity and fortifying communities. Unpack personal growth strategies, from fitness to meditation, and learn how to enhance family bonds and societal ties. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  - (00:00) Episode Intro  - (01:01) Threats to Cultural Traditions   - (05:39) Improving Health Through Daily Exercise   - (11:00) Building Skills for Personal Growth  - (17:07) Building Strong Community Connections  - (21:14) Impactful Men Serving Those Closest   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
4/5/202424 minutes, 55 seconds
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Manipulative Media, The Power of the Human Spirit, and Affording Yourself Some Grace | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode Intro (21:12) In a relationship, when is it time to decide that enough is enough? (24:05) What is your full hunting setup, and lessons learned on this journey? (27:55) What’s the best advice you can give a man after having an awkward interaction with an ex? (31:56) What are your methods for developing patience? (37:10) Recovery update (39:05) What would you say to a man who hasn’t hit rock bottom yet, but avoided it in a way? (47:56) What is the hardest quadrant to remain consistent in for you on the battle plan, and what tactics can we deploy to shift out of that mindset? (50:35) What are some strategies on being calm when doing something new? (55:40) What are some practical ideas or resources to move past the fear of losing security and becoming more of a sovereign man?   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/3/20241 hour, 6 minutes, 31 seconds
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JOSHUA BROOME | The Lies That Will Ruin a Man's Life

With so many false narratives, it’s easy to get caught up in deceit, deception, and destruction. We don’t intentionally go out seeking these thoughts, ideas, and concepts that will do damage, but they have a way of creeping into our lives all the same. That’s why it’s crucial that we remain diligent and steadfast in seeking the truth about the way we operate as men. Today, I’m joined by former pornstar turned preacher, Joshua Broome to talk about these lies and, most importantly, how to protect ourselves and our loved ones against them. We talk about the dangers in objectifying others, learning to be comfortable in our own skin, why money and fame won’t satisfy your soul, getting over the false approval of others, and why only you can be you (and, why that’s a huge advantage). SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode intro (4:00) The destructive role that pornography plays in men’s lives (7:30) The danger in objectifying others (9:30) Why money and fame won’t satisfy your soul (17:10) Getting over the false approval of others (43:32) Why only you can be you, and why that’s a huge advantage Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/2/202451 minutes, 9 seconds
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Men Aren’t Meant to Go At It Alone | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 4 different reasons why every man needs men in his corner. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 4 Reasons why a man needs other men in his corner (2:52) You need a sounding board (5:04) You need some accountability (7:17) Look for opportunities from other men (8:42) Friendship and fellowship   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
3/29/202416 minutes, 32 seconds
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Don’t Rescue People, What is “Wokeism,” and Imperfection is Relateable.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode Intro (11:20) What is a leadership trait you admire? (24:35) What do each of your children say about you when you’re not in the room? (31:14) Best piece of advice for someone going through divorce, and what is the hardest part about going through a divorce? (43:24) What is the most memorable conversation you’ve had with a guest on the show? (46:58) Any suggestions on dealing with the loss of a family member? (58:16) What was the most important lesson learned during the order of man journey? (1:04:07) Should you let your kids come to you in a situation where you’re not currently seeing them, or do you chalk it up as a loss?   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/27/20241 hour, 11 minutes, 31 seconds
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JEFF KARP | Energize Your Brain

Do you feel like you’re not reaching your full potential? So many men know there is more to life and more to what they’re capable of doing. But, at times, we all fail to realize what we know, deep down within us, that we can accomplish. So, what then do we lack if we know what we want but fail to obtain it. I believe the answer is systems to ensure that we’re on the path to success. My guest believes that as well. His name is Jeff Karp. He is a biomedical engineer at Harvard Medical School and MIT and the author of his latest book, LIT (Life Ignition Tools). Today we talk about the power of questions and curiosity, what true diversity looks like and how only it can lead to strength, how neurodiversity and plasticity will change the way we look at problems and solutions, the power of pressing pause, and finding new ways to develop conscious thinking. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode intro (8:30) How neurodiversity and plasticity will change the way we look at problems and solutions (11:32) The power of questions and curiosity (14:25) Tapping into your flow state (21:31) The power of pressing pause (32:45) You don’t need to solve all problems, just the ones you’re bothered by (36:08) Stay proximate to the problem (50:00) What true diversity looks like and it can only lead to strength (54:15) Finding new ways to develop conscious thinking Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/26/20241 hour, 5 minutes, 56 seconds
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Why Every Man Should Dress Well | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses dressing for success, common misconceptions about this concept, and how to elevate how you look and present yourself. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode intro (10:30) Looking like a slob will deter someone from reaching out and trying to further engage with you (11:28) Make sure what you are wearing is in alignment with who you want to be (12:58) Investing in your appearance WILL make a difference, and is worth the time put forth (13:51) Price vs cost (15:58) Considering and communicating your why (17:15) When your office lacks a dress code, it’s easy to drift (19:40) The advantages of having a standard uniform (26:10) Caring about what the right people think of you   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
3/22/202432 minutes, 28 seconds
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Victimhood Culture, Time Management Vs Task Management, and Modern Dating Tips | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode Intro (18:49) Is there a happy middle ground in planning your day, and tips to improve on day to day organization? (25:33) Have you felt frustration in your kids bushing your boundaries, and how do you combat it? (31:35) Best way to find a new partner after getting out of a long term relationship? (39:43) Why is there a large amount of men conversing in the OOM Facebook group about broken relationships? (46:47) When was the last time you lost your temper, and what did you learn upon reflection? (55:12) How do you establish boundaries early on in relationships? (59:12) What advice would you give to someone who knows what needs to get done, but is procrastinating doing it?   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/20/20241 hour, 6 minutes, 43 seconds
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Growing Excellence in Yourself and Others | RYAN HAWK & BROOK CUPPS

Men are called to lead. But too many men lack the skillset to do it effectively. That’s the badnews. The good news is that much of the skillset required to lead can be learned, developed,and harnessed to serve the people you care about. It’s just a matter of whether or not mendecide to invest in the tools available to better their lives and the lives of the people around them. My guests today, Ryan Hawkand Brook Cupps, know a lot about the tools required as they areboth extremely successful in leading others in their own right. Today, we talk about the threemost powerful ways to build trust (laughing, crying, and suffering), the difference andimportance between being trustworthy and trust-giving, why it’s crucial to deflect praise andembrace criticism, how curiosity serves your most important relationships, and the differencebetween intuitive and analytical leading. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (11:30) How do you know you’re on the right path? (18:50) The difference between intuitive and and analytical leading (38:08) The three most powerful ways to build trust (39:55) The difference and importance between being trustworthy and trust willing (45:32) We’re all role players (51:22) Why it’s crucial to deflect praise and embrace criticism How curiosity serves your most important relationships   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/19/202459 minutes, 35 seconds
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What to Do to Fix Relationships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SIX Key things you can incorporate into your life to get you back on track when you screw up. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS You must realize that you can’t undo the past—own the mistake Begin to make amends Ask for expectations when it is appropriate Changing your behavior Have check ins Having your own personal after action review   Battle Planners:  Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
3/15/202430 minutes, 48 seconds
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Repairing Damage to Others, Keeping Training Playful, and Red-Lining When it Counts | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode Intro (20:54) What are the differences between the periods of pushing hard towards your goals to the point of overextending oneself and experiencing mental burnout? (36:48) If someone had started listening to the OOM pod years ago but stopped, should they pick back up where they left off, or start with the most recent episode? (39:46) What is the process you’d recommend to someone choosing their team on The Iron Council? (42:38) When do you know when it’s time to let go of a friend? (49:00) Am I sending my kids the wrong impression about physical presentation when I’m less careful about it at home? (54:15) How do we begin to repair and own up to the mistakes and repercussions of them that we might have made in regards to our family?   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/13/20241 hour, 6 minutes, 35 seconds
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RICKY SCHRODER | Correcting the Degeneracy in Hollywood

Hollywood is at the forefront of the sexualization of society. Unfortunately, many in the entertainment industry just aren’t willing to speak up and against what is taking place and working to combat that sexualization and the increasing pornography epidemic. But it’s not only that, much of the way we see culture is shaped through the lens of what Hollywood wants to promote, not necessarily what we want to see.   My guest today has been inside since he was just a boy. His name is Ricky Schroder and he’s made it his life’s mission to bring moral, heroic stories to the silver screen and to fight against the rampant pornography industry. Today, we talk about how Hollywood is a reflection of society, what he refers to as “counter programming,” whether or not 1st amendment rights actually do cover pornography, how pedophilia is being pushed as a “sexual orientation,” and how to course-correct the degeneracy in Hollywood.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (2:12) The life and upbringing of a childhood actor (8:16) How Hollywood propaganda impacts our nation and its counter programming (16:00) Hollywood is a reflection of our society (24:45) Whether or not our first amendment rights cover pornography (20:03) How pedophilia is being pushed as a sexual orientation (32:30) How to course correct the degeneracy in Hollywood (40:57) How AI and robotics can infiltrate the porn industry   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/12/202449 minutes, 39 seconds
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Pick a Fight | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the SIX key things that you can do to find your battle to fight, and why it’s important to have a battle. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   SIX key things that you can do to find your battle: Questions to ask yourself to find your fight (see below) Creating your plan What’s your next first step? Continue to make yourself more capable Enlist other men into your battle Look at this as a process of evolution   Questions to ask yourself in order to find your FIGHT: What am I doing when time moves the fastest? What are you doing that people are continuously asking your advice for? What would you do, if money were of no concern? What injustices do you see in the world?   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
3/8/202431 minutes, 3 seconds
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Moral Capitalism, Dealing with Exes, and Don’t Try to Change People | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (17:54) Do you ever feel yourself feeling cynical about the world, and how do you overcome that feeling? (25:06) What are some strategies around building self worth outside of what’s going on at work? (29:35) At what age do you take a boy from being provided for, to teaching him to be providing. (35:42) What do you keep in your vehicles, and is it actually what you need for emergent situations and unexpected overnight stays? (41:04) Tips on coparenting, and parenting alongside an ex partner’s new spouse, or parenting a new partner’s children. (46:13) Rationalization can be either a cue to know when something is wrong, or the carefully planning of effective tactics; what are some indicators for you that identify the differences between the two?   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
3/6/20241 hour, 1 minute, 56 seconds
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JASON KHALIPA | Train, Protect, Provide

You know as well as I do the world needs more capable men. Inherently, we all want to do right by the people we love and care about, but the question is, are we doing anything about it? It can be a challenge to take care of ourselves with all the demands of life but the demands of life require that we operate at our fullest potential. My guest today, Jason Khalipa, is a man who knows all too well what it takes to succeed at the highest level and be there for our people. He is a Crossfit Games Champion, Jiu-Jitsu Brown Belt, and an incredibly successful entrepreneur. Today, we talk about balancing professional and personal pursuits, how and why to prioritize fitness, changing culture in your home, work, and community, the power of shared suffering with other men, and why every man needs to train, protect, and provide.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Creating the fittest community locally How training hard can translate mentally and into real life circumstances All men should be able to train, protect, and provide An in depth explanation of EMOM and AMRAP The benefits of CrossFit and strength training   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/5/20241 hour, 8 minutes, 40 seconds
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How a Man Builds Sovereignty | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler talks about the concept of sovereignty and the four realms of our lives that it encompasses. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 4 realms of sovereignty in our lives Faith: Is it your sovereignty, or God’s sovereignty? Friends and family: Having integrity in yourself Fitness: Are you exactly where you want to be? Finances: Getting yourself out of debt   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/1/202425 minutes, 36 seconds
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When to Limit Transparency, False Summits, and Toxic Work Environments | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (10:34) What are the top three things to be prepared for when things go awry? (19:54) What is your soul crushing MMA move? (22:14) Have you ever pressure tapped (MMA)? (25:16) What kind of filters do you use in the decision making process, if any? (39:02) Is there a limit to how transparent you are to those you lead? (43:25) Do you think men only join brotherhoods when they’re encouraged to do so because of nature or nurture? (48:04) How to stop feeling lonely and insecure because of lack of dating experience? (58:00) What do you consider signs of a toxic work environment, and when do you know when it’s time to leave? (1:04:00) What are some important lessons that fathers can teach their daughters?   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
2/28/20241 hour, 12 minutes, 38 seconds
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Saving the West Through Culture, Entertainment, and Sports | JAKE & BLAIN CRAIN & DAVID CONE

Our conversation today is a great follow-up to the conversation we had with Hollywood actor and producer, Kevin Sorbo, last week. We have to fight the issues where they are and, right now, entertainment and sports are at the front of the battleground to capture, and re-define what manliness looks like in the west today. I’m not interested in letting that happen and neither are my guests, Jake Crain, Blain Crain, and David Cone. They are the hosts of Crain & Company where they discuss cultural commentary through the world of sports. Today, we talk about the dangers of censorship in sports and culture, why so many people stand on money when they should be standing on what is right, how sports shapes much of our views on men, masculinity, and society, why we as a culture tend to mistakenly prioritize tolerance and acceptance, how sports is a powerful answer to the fatherlessness epidemic, and how to shift the Overton Window back from where it’s trending.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The dangers of censorship in sports and culture Why so many people stand on money when they should be standing on what is right How sports shapes much of our view on men, masculinity, and society Why we as a culture tend to mistakingly prioritize tolerance and acceptance How sports is a powerful answer to the fatherless epidemic   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/27/20241 hour, 3 minutes, 9 seconds
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5 Obstacles and Answers to Starting a Business | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses what it takes to succeed as an entrepreneur. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 5 Things to be aware of when starting a business It’s going to take a lot of time and energy up front, and become more efficient overtime. Additional costs continue to accrue. You’re going to make mistakes along the way. Learning how to communicate with all sorts of different people. There’s a challenge in making sure you’re continually growing. 5 Solutions you can consider when starting your own business Recognize that you’re in a season when working on the startup. Plan ahead for those additional costs that build up. Work with coaches and building entrepreneurial friendships to combat the mistakes you will make along the way. Recognize that all people are not like you. Knowing that what got you here, might not get you to the next point.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
2/23/202430 minutes, 47 seconds
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Hazing for Men, Why Systems are Crucial, and Building Financial Sovereignty | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Steve Baumgartner take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode Intro (8:09) How important is hazing, and how do you know that it’s gone too far? (14:36) How do you make habits that contribute to having discipline and consistency. (24:17) When you’ve taken on a lot of responsibilities and start to feel like you are stretched too thin, how do you decide which things to keep and which to discard? (37:56) What are the critical questions you ask yourself when evaluating your leadership and building a successful team? (43:01) How do you keep up with your battle plan when things get busy at work and home? (52:42) Where do you draw the line between do it yourself and hire out? (59:05) What is your best advice when considering a career switch? (1:05:55) How do we get to a place where covert contracts and establishing hidden expectations of our significant other no longer exist?   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
2/21/20241 hour, 14 minutes, 52 seconds
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KEVIN SORBO | The Cultural Battleground For Masculinity

It’s no great surprise that many of our cultural institutions are actively rallying against masculinity and the virtues that made this country great. Nowhere is that truer and more accurate than with the Hollywood elites who shape much of the cultural ideology that is so pervasive in society today. Today, I am joined by actor, Kevin Sorbo, to talk about what it looks like from the inside and how he (and others) are working to shift the cultural and societal conversation happening there. Today, we talk about the overt emasculation of men, the hijacking of Hollywood, the battle of ideologies taking place in the entertainment industry, and also hot cultural buttons like transgenderism, unvetted illegal immigrants, the dangers of the World Economic Forum, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The overt emasculation of men The hijacking of Hollywood The battle of ideologies taking place in the entertainment industry Hot cultural buttons including: Transgenderism, unvetted illegal immigrants, the dangers of the world economic forum, and more!   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/20/202445 minutes, 57 seconds
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Courage > Confidence

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the concept of not settling. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   5 Ways You Can Develop Your Courage Look at life as a game Making more courageous decisions today Surround yourself with courageous individuals Practice being courageous We can hedge the risk in our lives by operating in abundance and developing sovereignty   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀
2/16/202423 minutes, 29 seconds
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Moments of Self-Betrayal, Winning Where You Are, and Letting Go of the Man You Were | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of actually doing the work and not just planning and thinking about it. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (2:16) What do you think stops men from deciding to make improvements today? (22:14) How long have Kipp and Ryan known each other? (30:31) Talk about forgiveness of yourself and others and the impact that it has on the work around us. (45:46) What are the three most powerful lessons that you’ve learned with your belief in Christ, your marriage, and your legacy? (49:35) How to set boundaries while also cultivating creativity with your kids’ interests? (57:00) How do you manage to identify which areas to tackle first and systems to implement for your Jiu Jitsu journey? (1:05:45) Any tips and suggestions for starting a podcast?     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
2/14/20241 hour, 11 minutes, 50 seconds
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CHE | From Prison to Patriarch

My guest today is a man who spent 15 years behind bars trying to figure out how to get out of the destructive patterns and habits he had acquired growing up with violence, gangs, and drugs. And, although not all of us have been convicted and segregated from society, I think each and every one of us can relate with what it takes to overcome adversity and setback. He goes by the name of Che and, today, we talk about emotional control, learning to forgive yourself for past wrongdoings, in what ways prison (and the military) can simplify life and make things easier, harnessing your desires to healthy outlets, the perversion of modern masculinity, and overcoming the path of no purpose.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Emotional control Learning to forgive yourself for past wrongdoings In what ways prison and the military can simplify life Harnessing your desires for healthy outlets and healthy outcomes The perversion of modern masculinity Overcoming the path of no purpose Adapting to life after prison   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/13/202452 minutes, 17 seconds
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Don't Settle | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the concept of not settling. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   5 mindsets you can incorporate to ensure that you aren’t settling Believe that you are worth more than you think you are No one owes us anything ou’re either growing or dying in life You already have everything you need to succeed in life Some people will want you to succeed and others will not Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
2/9/202419 minutes, 23 seconds
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Planning Your Personal Life Like Your Professional Life, Do's and Don't of Creating a Brand, and Learning to Delegate Effectively | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Alan Placer take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (4:02) What advice can you give to men trying to start their own business, and the first steps to venturing into self-employment? (12:00) What are the first three things you would do if you were to start a brand new business without using any of your current funding and contacts? (20:06) What are the key components to creating, foraging, and fostering your brand? (30:15) What advice do you have for transitioning from working in the business to working on the business? (39:03) What are your favorite ways of getting comfortable with getting uncomfortable? Do you have any recommendations for how we can recognize and create those controlled environments for ourselves? (48:42) How to be productive working from home with kids?   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/7/20241 hour, 2 minutes, 3 seconds
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VICTOR MARX | The Burden and Blessing of Masculinity

My guest today is a man who is not only comfortable with violence, but he’s also comfortable with empathy, compassion, and forgiveness. And, I think that is EXACTLY what makes us men – the ability to administer violence and the capacity to restrain ourselves and harness it for good. His name is Victor Marx, a high-risk humanitarian. And, today he is here to talk about what is really going to down in Israel, the risk it poses to the United States, the fight of good and evil in society today, surrounding yourself with the right people, how to make important decisions based in love, and the burden and blessing of masculinity.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What’s really happening in Israel and the risks that it possesses to the U.S. The fight of good and evil in society today Surrounding yourself with the right people How to make important decisions based in love The burden and blessing of masculinity The power of God against evil   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/6/202457 minutes, 22 seconds
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What Would the Man I Want to Be Do? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler asks one simple question: What would the man I want to be do? Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   How to become the man that you want to be: You must identify who that man is Ask yourself what you notice about other men that you respect. Detach yourself from the result   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
2/2/202414 minutes, 4 seconds
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Unnecessary Intellectualism, Perfection Paralysis, and Imposter Syndrome | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (8:33) What are some of the best ways to strengthen and improve consistency? (19:02) How do you recover from burnout, and what are some ways to combat imposter syndrome when taking on a moonshot goal? (32:43) Who are your top 3-5 bucket list guests? (42:08) How do you deal with peoples’ previous impressions of you as you are evolving and bettering yourself? (50:56) Is the media blowing things out of proportion in the U.S.? (56:05) What are some lessons you’ve learned in marketing?   Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/31/20241 hour, 1 minute, 41 seconds
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NOAH KAGAN - How to Build a Million-Dollar Business

So many men aspire to build a thriving, rewarding business. They’re dissatisfied with their work and know there is something more to both their personal and professional lives. But very few men know how to do it. My guest today, Noah Kagan, is a man who does as he has a track-record of creating multiple million-dollar organizations. And, he’s here to peel back the curtain and show us how in his newest book, The Million Dollar Weekend: The Surprisingly Simple Way to Launch a 7-Figure Business in 48 Hours. Today, we talk about the need to believe you can create a great life and doing the work to have it, why your future results start with today’s actions, the often-overlooked reason the slow and steady pace is best for building businesses, the power of rejection, why offering your product or service is so much more than a sale – it’s a duty, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Peeling back the curtain on how to create a million dollar organization The surprisingly simple way to launch a 7 figure business The need to believe you can create a great life and doing the work to have it Why your future results start with today’s actions The often overlooked reason why the slow and steady pace is best for building businesses The power of rejection Why offering your product or service is so much more than a sale, it’s a duty.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/30/202457 minutes, 31 seconds
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The Art of the Ask | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why it’s so important that you learn to ask for what you want in life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS FIVE key things that you can incorporate in order to ask for what you want Know what you want. Know what you offer. Avoid attaching your worth to rejection. Ask for feedback. Experiment with asking for things in low consequence environments.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/26/202421 minutes, 31 seconds
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Why You Should Hunt, Eliminate Expectations, and Focus on Skills Over Tools | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode Intro (2:06) What are the nutrient dense and high protein items you utilize for your diet? (15:14) When did you both realize that you had a desire to make a difference in the lives of men? (32:34) Is there any way to get the word out there to the women in our lives that want to grow alongside of us that there is also a group for women? (38:44) How do you realize when you have a good idea for business and what strategies do you recommend for a younger man looking to get into entrepreneurship? (51:43) What is the one daily habit that has stood out that has helped move the needle in your life in the direction that you’re crafted in your vision? (59:08) What is the significance of being a peacemaker versus a peacekeeper? (1:03:34) How would you explain the Iron Council to significant others who lack a complete understanding of the movement? (1:08:52) Any news on the next Order of Man legacy event?   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/24/20241 hour, 11 minutes, 12 seconds
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GEORGE KAMEL | Don't Be Broke

I don’t really believe there is an excuse to be broke in today’s society. But there are factors that contribute to both the mindset and the behaviors that keep many men from financial prosperity. But once you become a man, I think your excuses expire. You, after all, are responsible for your own financial abundance and prosperity. In fact, it’s one of the core tenants of manliness – to provide. Today, I’m joined by Dave Ramsay Personality, George Kamel, to talk about what keeps us from achieving the ultimate wealth and prosperity we desire. We talk about some common, pervasive myths about money, what exactly is the ‘money matrix,’ and how to break free from it, the importance of ‘relational equity’ in the wealth-building process, the three emotions keeping you from financial prosperity, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What keeps us from achieving the ultimate wealth and prosperity that we desire. Common pervasive myths about money What is the “money matrix” and how to break free from it The importance of relational equity in the wealth building process The three emotions keeping you from financial prosperity Cash flowing assets versus depreciating assets   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/23/20241 hour, 4 minutes, 20 seconds
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The Truth Shall Set You Free | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses telling yourself the truth, why it’s important, and how you can incorporate the truth into your life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   FIVE tactics to becoming more honest You have to make a commitment to the truth regardless of any pain involved. Quantify your results. Surround yourself with truth tellers. Do not let your emotions sabotage you. Tell the truth to other people.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/19/202429 minutes, 57 seconds
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Accepting Grief of Failed Relationships, Training People How to Communicate With You, and Doing the Right Things for Right Reasons | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (3:00) Can you give specific examples on how the Iron Council has impacted your life and helped you reach certain goals? (15:42) How do we, as men, accept grief that follows us after a woman we love leaves us (23:50) What are some tactics in trying to heal a marriage you feel irritated in? (39:49) How do you move forward from feeling burnt out, and how do you give yourself self love? (46:54) What worked and didn’t work for you after using Keith Yackey’s 5 Dial program (53:11) Advice on getting out of a rut and back on your feet after a separation?    Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/17/20241 hour, 4 minutes, 24 seconds
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BRUCE FLEMING | Saving Our Service Academies

The state of our U.S service academies is in continual decline which tracks considering every branch of the military has and will continue to struggle to meet its recruiting and retention goals. But how can it be the premier fighting force in the world is finding it so difficult to appeal to the millions of young men it has historically recruited? My guest today has been a professor at the U.S. Naval Academy since 1987. His name is Bruce Fleming and today we talk about the dangers of the Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) agenda infused into our service institutions, why many young men are turned away from the direction of the U.S. military, what service academy attendees expect to find vs. what they actually find on campuses, and why academia and politics is ruining the future of our military fighting force. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The dangers of The Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion Agenda Why many young men are turned away from the direction and messaging of the U.S. military What service academy attendees expect to find when they join versus what they actually find on campuses Why academia and politics is ruining the future of our military fighting force Joining the military is not what it used to be The warped definition of sexual assault   Read the full article https://www.orderofman.com/brucefleming   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-plann...   Join the Iron Council brotherhood: https://orderofman.link/iron-council   Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-m...   Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan   Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group  
1/16/20241 hour, 15 minutes, 54 seconds
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How a Man Finds Purpose in Life | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how men find their purpose in life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   FIVE key points on how to find purpose Go all in with where you are Explore all of your hobbies and interests What problems do you see with the world? What have you personally gone through and overcome that will help other people’s problems in a similar situation? Tap into a higher power   THREE Questions to ask yourself in order to see what you have an aptitude for What would you be doing if money was no concern? What advice are people asking your for? What am I doing when time goes the fastest?   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/12/202427 minutes
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Structured Time with Men, Hobby vs. Career, and the Ritualization of Manhood | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode Intro (2:46) What are the best ways to combat a man’s urge to isolate himself, even if he’s got a band of brothers. (9:05) How do you balance finding a hobby/passion and choosing to pursue it as a career or business idea; what usually separates the two in your mind? (21:46) What are some strategies to help you to stop being resentful and/or bitter?     (30:22) Will there be another season of Order of Man on the Warrior Poet Society Network? (31:17) What would be an example of something that young men should do and implement to get initiated into becoming a man or what should a father do in order to initiate his son into manhood? (36:44) What is the best way to grow a coaching business? (41:18) Where to draw the line on engaging with your children and letting them learn to occupy themselves?   JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/10/202448 minutes, 50 seconds
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MATT BEAUDREAU | The Broken Public School System

The public school system is broken. Most of us know that and even if we do, it's hard to see a viable alternative to what so many have adopted as the way to educate our children. But the public school system is not conducive to the way children learn and what they'll be exposed to once they graduate. But even with this knowledge, only a few people are doing something about it. And my guest today, Matt Beaudreau, is one of them. Today, we'll uncover what he's doing to solve the problem of the educational system. We talk about how and why the education system is simply a behavioral management program for a large group of people, why we've decided to outsource our education, how public school has become the largest religion in the country, why we decided to lower the standards for our children and how to fix that, and how to develop and find specific aptitudes for our children.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The problem with the education system and how it’s being solved Why the education system is simply a behavioral management program for a large group of people Why we have decided to outsource our education Why public school has become the largest religion in our country Why we decided to lower the standards for our children and how to fix it How to develop and find specific aptitudes for our children What Apogee Education is and entails   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/9/202456 minutes, 38 seconds
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Handle Adversity Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses adversity and shares 5 different mindsets you can incorporate in order to combat and overcome this year’s inevitable challenges and hardships like a man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   FIVE tips to help overcome adversity Our energy is infectious Adversity comes and goes Adversity is opportunity Realizing our triggers and where they come from Emotions are a factor, not the only factor   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/5/202435 minutes, 51 seconds
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Properly Evaluate Your Capabilities, Manage Your Energy Effectively, and Overcome an Alcohol Addiction | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode Intro (2:05) How to deal with critics that aren’t supportive of your goals and dreams? (12:42) How do you navigate a situation where a family member needs to move out of your house? 18:30) What 2024 look like for the Iron Council? (26:46) How do you evaluate and strategize your goals and tasks in relation or consideration to your capacity? (33:34) Three questions you can ask yourself on energy management (36:18) How would you mentally prepare for a court hearing that is holding a family member in contempt of court? (42:49) Do you have any tips for a marriage proposal, and then steps to take following an engagement? (44:50) Advice on setting a long term goal on how to cut alcohol out of your life. (52:32) What is one key area you found most impactful as a new husband that you wish you had prioritized or focused on? (59:47)What is the most valuable lesson you’ve learned in 2023?       JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/3/20241 hour, 6 minutes, 49 seconds
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ADAM LANE SMITH | Are You Anxious, Avoidant, or Secure?

I’ve spent a lot of time over the past 18 months looking into the various attachment styles of men – anxious, avoidant, and secure. I think we all intuitively know that “secure” is the best place to be, but the question is, “How do we get there?” It’s especially difficult considering our engrained attachment style drives so much of our decision-making process – much of which is subconscious. My guest today is licensed psychotherapist and attachment specialist, Adam Lane Smith. Today, Adam and I discuss building secure, sustainable relationships, why responsibility breeds security and why we subconsciously avoid it, how the chemicals, Oxytocin and Vasopressin, drive our emotional and problem-solving connections, and why every man needs to work on building his “male solution network.”   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Building secure and sustainable relationships Why responsibility breeds security, and why we subconsciously avoid it How the chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin drive our emotional and problem solving connections Why ever man needs to work on building his male solution network The different attachment styles seen in men Modern day dating The 5 clusters that are relied on to create healthy and secure attachment Modern femininity versus masculinity Building emotional intimacy   JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
1/2/20241 hour, 56 seconds
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When Discipline Falls Flat | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses what happens when discipline falls flat and provides 5 questions you can ask yourself to help you get back on the path. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   FIVE questions you can ask yourself to help you get back on the path What is your plan? Where did that plan fail? What and who are your resources? What information do you not have? What is your system and how can your current systems be improved?   JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/29/202321 minutes, 38 seconds
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Hope vs. Despair, Restoring Integrity, and The Value of Pure Intent | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (0:00) Episode Intro (7:22) What are some goals that both of you have set for next year? (14:19) What skills do you use to overcome anxiety? (24:22) Do the hard times we experience in life draw us towards or away from God? (30:20) What advice do you have towards continuing to grow and enter new territory in regards to that growth? (35:17) How do you view annual planning? (39:14) What goals should I be making in order to connect more effectively with my wife?   JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/27/202350 minutes, 37 seconds
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MICHAEL GERVAIS | Get Over What Others Think of You

Fear keeps most men from pursuing meaningful and fulfilling opportunities in life – whether romantic, a business start-up, having a hard conversation, asking for a promotion or the sale, etc. But it really isn’t what we think it is – the fear of failure. More often than not, it’s the fear of what others may think about us that keeps us from going after what we desire. My guest is Dr. Michael Gervais, a psychologist who studies mastery and what keeps us from obtaining it. In fact, he has worked with Super Bowl Champions, Olympic Gold Medalists, and some of the most elite performers in the world. Today, we discuss FOPO (fear of people’s opinions), the first rule of mastery, why we care so much about what others think, how we over-index approval as a necessary part of tribe building, and the dangers in being a one-dimensional man.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What keeps us from obtaining mastery Fear of people’s opinions The first rule of mastery Why we care so much about what others think The dangers in being a one dimensional man Single focused mindfulness and contemplative mindfulness How to be present   JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/26/20231 hour, 1 minute, 16 seconds
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Make the Most of 2024 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses key things you can do to actually make 2024 your year. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS FIVE key things you can do to make 2024 your year Make a plan Invest in yourself Prune the tree Commit to mastery Rework the plan JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/22/202328 minutes, 4 seconds
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The Importance of a Tribe, How a Man Shows Up, and Confronting Toxic Employees | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.    EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode Intro (12:15) What advice would you give men going into 2024 trying to execute their main goal? (19:03) What is your strategy for creating a successful time block schedule (26:44) Is it appropriate to keep the same vision for an undetermined amount of time if it is still applicable? (38:31) In a work environment, what advice can you offer in ways of managing older men? (45:42) Why are most men so quick to put others down and criticize those who spend time creating? (55:46) What is your opinion on the idea that at some fundamental level, certain aspects of people are just who or how they are?   JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/20/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 58 seconds
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LEX ROBINSON | Producing Peak Performance

All of us know there’s gas left in the tank of our own personal performance. And, yet, with all the tasks and responsibilities we bear, the distractions to overcome, and our own ability to deceive ourselves, it’s challenging to meet the bare minimum at times let alone go above and beyond. So then, how exactly do we excel and produce the lives we desire for ourselves and our families. My guest today has the answers. His name is Lex Robinson and he is a peak performance coach and mentor. Today, we talk about the concepts of “calendar worship,” “power down process,” and “religious unitasking.” We also discuss the benefits of learning how to communicate directly, removing unimportant distractions from our lives, getting clarity on what we desire, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Understanding a person’s tone and demeanor Communicating directly with others Getting clarity on what we truly desire Getting comfortable with discomfort Giving credit where credit is due Recognizing others’ value Overcoming distractions Excelling and producing the lives that we desire   JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/19/20231 hour, 7 minutes, 58 seconds
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Stop Procrastination For Good | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses five key strategies that you can employ in your life to reduce, eliminate, and eradicate procrastination. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS You must link the effort to the result Identifying the lowest common denominator Collapse your timeframe and use Parkinson’s Law to your advantage Make lists Building a carrot and a stick   JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/15/202327 minutes, 24 seconds
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How to Overcome Fear, Identifying Deeply-Seeded Non-Negotiables, and How to Receive Compliments | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (6:00) what does leading your family spiritually and “in faith” mean to you? (15:30) Why are religious men so condescending toward non-believers? (29:00) What are several non-negotiable that you have and how have you integrated those into your battle plan? (40:30) When you fall short of achieving a standard that you hav been working toward, what changes need to be made in order to get yourself and your mindset back on track? (47:00) Whats another word for “The Manosphere”? (50:20) Do you think it’s disrespectful to not respond with “thank you” when receiving a compliment? (54:30) Can you provide some insights for how to effectively navigate a situation when a woman I have been seeing may no longer be interested? (62:00) How do you deal with fear?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/13/20231 hour, 8 minutes, 13 seconds
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LARRY HAGNER | How to Build a Movement of Men

For many of you, this is the first Order of Man podcast you’ve ever listened to. For many of you, you’ve listened to all 1,100+ shows we’ve done. Regardless, what you may not know is that we’ve been at this mission – reclaim and restore masculinity – for almost 9 years. And, I can’t think of a better way than to wind this year down as we ramp up for 2024 with a man, friend, and mentor who has been in the same game just as long as we have. His name is Larry Hagner, Founder of The Dad Edge, and, today, we talk about turning a passion into a profession, how we can best learn from our past, the key of forgiveness and what it unlocks in ourselves and others, how to raise each of our unique children, and how to create a men’s movement that matters.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Turning a passion into a profession How we can best learn from our past The key of forgiveness and what it unlocks both in ourselves and others How to raise each of our unique children How to create a men’s movement that matters The growth of men’s podcasting Behind DadEdge The differences in raising boys versus girls What playing sports growing up is actually for Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.  
12/12/20231 hour, 12 minutes, 57 seconds
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Goal Setting That Actually Works | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the FIVE components of goal setting that actually works. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   5 components of goal setting that actually works Have a vision for where you’re going Our objectives in the four key areas of goal setting (mental, physical, emotional and spiritual) Everyday tactics Have checkpoints along the way After action review Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/8/202321 minutes, 44 seconds
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The Limits of Personal Rights, Confronting Fear, and Wrestling with God's Will | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (5:35) What does it mean to be a man? (10:15) Why is it important to be surrounded by other men who hold you accountable? (10:40) What are your thoughts on the goal of counting calories vs. eating clean. Do you value one method when it comes to weight loss? (17:00) What tips do you have for taking written and verbal advice? (29:20) How do you discern between holiday traditions that are valuable, expected, or just busy-work? (35:40) When dating at this stage of your life, what constitutes a woman of value for you? (44:50) Do you believe individual rights or personal freedoms have any boundaries or limitations? (51:00) What are your best books of the year? (52:30) How do you change an ingrained negative attitude toward the business held by the employees? (59:10) How do you deal with fear?   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/6/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 23 seconds
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The Limits of Personal Rights, Confronting Fear, and Wrestling with God's Will | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (5:35) What does it mean to be a man? (10:15) Why is it important to be surrounded by other men who hold you accountable? (10:40) What are your thoughts on the goal of counting calories vs. eating clean. Do you value one method when it comes to weight loss? (17:00) What tips do you have for taking written and verbal advice? (29:20) How do you discern between holiday traditions that are valuable, expected, or just busy-work? (35:40) When dating at this stage of your life, what constitutes a woman of value for you? (44:50) Do you believe individual rights or personal freedoms have any boundaries or limitations? (51:00) What are your best books of the year? (52:30) How do you change an ingrained negative attitude toward the business held by the employees? (59:10) How do you deal with fear?   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/6/20230
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BERT SORIN | Why Delusionally Passionate Men Win

Passion and delusion aren’t two terms we often think of working in harmony but my good friend and guest today, Bert Sorin, makes the case that some of the most successful people in the world are not only the most passionate but often believe (with no valid reason to) that they have what it takes to succeed. Today, we talk about the ebbs and flows of life and improving the average between the two points, creating intentionality behind our actions, why EQ is oftentimes more important than IQ, holding back in life when we shouldn’t, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The ebbs and flows of life and improving the average between the two points Creating intentionality behind our actions Why EQ is often more important than IQ Holding back in life when we shouldn’t Thinking in advance Rather than thinking “what can this give me today”, think “what can it give when I’m gone”. Putting in the effort Where you start doesn’t matter   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/5/202359 minutes, 53 seconds
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Are You Quitting for the Right Or Wrong Reason? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the concept of quitting, and prompting FIVE unique questions to ask yourself in order to determine whether or not it’s right to leave what you’re deciding to quit. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   5 questions to ask yourself before you quit Is my feeling towards this thing temporary or sustained? What does my gut, heart, soul, and/or instinct tell me? Is there something that I can do to make this situation better? What is it that I really don’t like about the circumstances, and can I search deeper? Is the grass truly greener on the other side?   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
12/1/202322 minutes, 56 seconds
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Make Your Life a Masterpiece, The Value in Failure, and How to Inspire Your Children | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (10:30) What is the biggest reason that you believe men leave the Iron Council? (18:20) How do you act like your life has no limits or act like today is your last? (30:00) How can we as men be confident that we are right about what we believe in? (42:30) How do you overcome limiting beliefs and imposter syndrome with starting a new business? (51:20) How do you push through on the days where you don’t feel like putting in the work? (54:00) What was the most important first step oof your business and how did you manage the stress of supporting your family while taking the leap? (1:02:20) How do you motivate and encourage your kids?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/29/20231 hour, 9 minutes, 43 seconds
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MIKE MASSIMINO, NASA Astronaut | Achieve the Impossible

Life is full of hard-learned lessons. We all know that. But it’s been said that, “A smart man learns from his mistakes, a wise man learns from the mistakes of others.” That’s why this podcast is so powerful – because we get to hear from incredible men doing incredible things who can teach us things that would be painful, delayed, and expensive to find out ourselves. And, I can think of few men as qualified to do so as former NASA Astronaut, Mike Massimino. Today, Mike and I talk about some of his best lessons learned in the NASA program and in space including, “no one leaves the pool until everyone passes the test,” learning to adjust to life and your goals along the way, what was different about NASA astronaut candidates that made them successful, knowing when to pivot and break a few rules, and how to achieve the seemingly impossible.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Mike Massimino’s books Moonshot and Spaceman What it takes to be an astronaut Space isn’t always glamorous Passion and dedication Military culture If you really understand something, you should be able to communicate it to anybody. No one leaves the pool until everyone passes the test Hubble space telescope missions Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/28/20231 hour, 10 minutes, 34 seconds
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A Pragmatic Guide to Gratitude | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses a pragmatic guide to gratitude, giving five reasons why we should be grateful, and five practical steps you can implement in order to have more gratitude in your life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 5 reasons to be grateful Being grateful makes you a more likable person. Being grateful makes you more trustworthy. Being grateful makes you happier. Being grateful makes you less desperate. Being grateful creates more opportunities for you. 5 ways to implement gratitude Say thank you, be kind, be polite. Give compliments. Take advantage of your blessings. When things go wrong, look for the good. Use your resources to help others.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/24/202333 minutes, 22 seconds
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Bad Habits or Destructive Tendencies, Why Work Life is Easier Than Home Life, and That Which is Measured Improves | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (12:00) Even though I have worked very hard to get on a good path, I still feel desires to fall back into old patterns of destructive behavior. Will these desires ever go away? (19:00) How should I find a new path of work to move toward if I know that I will be unable to perform my current job forever? (28:00) What are your Thanksgiving traditions? (31:20) What have you learned through your hunting experiences? (39:30) Why is it easier to perform at work than it is at home?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/22/202355 minutes, 31 seconds
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BRIAN JOHNSON | Theory, Practice, Mastery

We all know there is a formula for success in any venture. We’ve all heard things like, “success leaves clues,” and seen certain people replicate success over and over and over again. And, yet, so many men struggle to create and maintain success on the professional and personal front of their lives. That’s why it’s so important we learn what protocols are required to achieve the results we desire. Today, I’m joined by philosopher and CEO, Brian Johnson to talk about his theory of Arete and why success on any level is so simple yet so elusive. We talk about what confidence in others actually is and how to develop it, how talent won’t get you all the way to your goals, why intrinsic motivation must be your pursuit, and the Stockdale Paradox and how to use it to your advantage.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Brian’s upcoming book Areté: Activate Your Heroic Potential Maintaining trust and integrity gaps What were you doing when you were at your best? Creating micromoments Being grateful for the little things The meaning behind the word “hero” Ancient wisdom, modern science, and practical tools Training heroes   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/21/20231 hour, 3 minutes, 59 seconds
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The Only Thing That Matters is What You Actually Do | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of actually doing the work and not just planning and thinking about it. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Stop thinking, stop planning, start doing the work People don’t care about what you say, they care about what you do Life is too short to NOT take action     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/17/202324 minutes, 58 seconds
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How to Get Yourself Out of a Rut, Doing the Work of Your Shadow, and Re-Establishing Trust With Your Wife | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (1:45) What   What are some things you’ve done to embrace your shadow and reclaim pieces of yourself that were within it? (15:10) How do I scale my business when I only have one technician to do the work? (26:30) What are ways and tips to overcome mental ruts as quickly as possible? (34:10) How do I get my wife to understand that just because I work from home doesn’t mean that my job isn’t demanding as well? (51:40) What do you suggest someone do to begin preparing for the deterioration we are seeing in the world?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/15/20231 hour, 3 minutes, 49 seconds
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JIM KWIK | Upgrade Your Brain

Men, our minds are nearly limitless and yet we spend an inordinate amount of time reading, running, working out, practicing hobbies, talking with other people, performing as best we can across various mediums and take so little time developing the power of our brains and minds. Of the nearly 500 guests I’ve had on this podcast, all of them believe their thing is the most important thing and, yet, it’s the mind that makes everything else possible. That’s why I wanted to have repeat guest, Jim Kwik back on the podcast to discuss how to leverage the gray matter between our ears. We talk about everything from learning to learn faster, the 6 thinking hats for decision making, 4 cognitive types (Cheetah, Owl, Dolphin, and Elephant) and how to use this information, and becoming the pilot of our minds, not just the passengers.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The faster you can learn the faster you can earn The choices we make every day give us the brain that we deserve All behavior is belief driven You need curiosity to know yourself and courage to be yourself Strategies for recognizing your brain/animal type Using AI to enhance your human intelligence Technology is neither good nor bad Master the ability to adapt We are flexing our “distraction” muscle all the time Nootropics and supplements   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/14/20231 hour, 4 minutes, 35 seconds
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The Immense Power of Brotherhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SIX things to look for when building a brotherhood to support your success and SIX strategies for finding your brotherhood. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   What to look for in your Band of Brothers Someone you can trust Someone you are comfortable talking with Someone you can be accountable to Someone you can serve Someone who can push you Someone who can serve you   Where to find your Band of Brothers Go where the good guys are Never do alone what you could do with someone else Organize events Express gratitude Have a plan for consistent communication Focus on the activity, not the “relationship-building”   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/10/202335 minutes, 3 seconds
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Ending a Toxic Relationship, Helping a Daughter with Self-Image Issues, and Creating Financial Sovereignty | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (2:00) What would the conversation look like to let go of someone you love and have planned a life with, who is not supporting and fostering your growth? (5:30) How do you know when you sneed to stand by your commitment in a relationship and when you need to realize it’s toxic and no longer serving you or them? (8:00) Why is it so difficult to just pull the trigger and finally do “the thing?” (11:10) Have you ever considered drinking ayahuasca, mushrooms, or other ancient medicines to improve issues in your life? (12:40) What is your take on contentment and gratitude? (16:00) How can I be financially sovereign as a student? (19:20) With the nation and world in shambles, how can we begin to make a difference? (22:40) What advice would you give me for helping my daughter who is struggling with self-image? (26:50) What book recommendations would you recommend for a new couple with the goal of strengthening the foundation of the relationship? (28:40) How can I make sure I don’t end up as mentally controlling and abusive when that is the type of environment that I grew up in?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/8/202331 minutes, 43 seconds
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ANDREW KLAVAN | Your Life is a Work of Art

Every single man listening to this podcast sees issues with the current culture. And, yet, far too many men are unwilling to do anything about it. Whether it’s a disdain for current culture commentary or a bad case of apathy, ignoring what we see going on around us isn’t going to lead to anywhere positive. My guest today, author and podcast host, Andrew Klavan, is a man who is and has been for decades actively engaged in dealing with the decline of our current culture through writing, producing films, and podcast commentary. Today, we talk about rationalization and justification for doing the wrong things, why so many people tap-dance around biological reality, why we’re losing this country through the movies, changing culture through art, when and when not to compromise, and viewing your own life as a work of art. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS ⁃ Anti-American movies and media after 9/11 ⁃ Behind The Daily Wire ⁃ The Andrew Klavan Show ⁃ What is a woman? ⁃ Comedy needs to be protected ⁃ The ostracization of Hollywood ⁃ Israel and Hamas ⁃ Conservative artists ⁃ The House of Love and Death by Andrew Klavan   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/7/20231 hour, 2 minutes, 30 seconds
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You've Hit Rock Bottom. Now What? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses his own struggles over the past year, lessons he has learned along the way, and how men can implements those lessons in their own lives. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Sharing your struggles gives people permission to do the same We know the right thing to do, its just hard to do it When you slip up, you have to ask “what am I going to do now?” Not everyone who praises you is your ally and not everyone who criticizes you is your enemy Red flags to let you know you are losing your sovereignty: Arrogance Isolation Stagnation Burning out A loss of meaning and significance Solutions to maintain your sovereignty: Having a vision for yourself Execute Evaluate your assets and resources Conduct after action review   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/3/202340 minutes, 2 seconds
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Showing Love in a Blended Family, Being Prepared for Challenges, and Scheduling Date Nights | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (3:00) Do you have some suggestions for what to search for to intentionally get their kids around other mentors and peers that enjoy fitness, outside of the team sports environment? (10:00) Was there any point that you felt that having a blended family didn't work? Do you feel that the attention you give to step children takes away from your biological children? (26:40) When life becomes challenging, as a leader, what are some things that you guys do to stay calibrated for life’s tougher challenges? (39:20) In hiring for my business, I have noticed that many applicants will apply, accept an interview, and then not show up for the interview. What does this say about young men in our society? (46:50) Do you guys have a dedicated date night? (52:00) What are some strategies for dealing with life’s stressors?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
11/1/202357 minutes, 14 seconds
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ZUBY | Overcoming Our Crisis of Meaning

Am I the only one who isn’t crazy?! Sometimes it feels that way in the insane world we live in but there are millions of men who feel the same as we look around at what’s going on in society from gender ideology, to skirmishes and wars in distant countries, to domestic civil unrest, and everywhere in between. Today, I’m joined by repeat guest, Zuby, as he’s one of those men speaking sanity into culture today. We talk about everything from finding life’s mission and purpose, to the dangers of AI, how the “crisis of meaning,” is a very dangerous threat, the pitfalls of “credentialism,” why learning to promote yourself is a virtuous endeavor, and walking the line between caring what some people think, but not everyone.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Reaching 10 million people Reaching a younger demographic Most people are at least trying to be good Concerns about losing jobs to AI Faking anything with AI Need for personal interaction Kids falling behind during COVID Finding new ways to reach people Overcoming the aversion to promoting yourself Be intentional about who’s opinion you care about     Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/31/202356 minutes, 10 seconds
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The Treachery of Self-Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE tips to help ensure that you are not betraying yourself and honoring your commitment to others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Signs of Self-Betrayal If you are never completing projects that you committed to If you recognize a lack of trust from other people Having feelings of inferiority, anxiety, and depression Lack of fulfillment, satisfaction, and pride in your life   Tips Know what you want and what you don’t want Set healthy boundaries  Don’t overcommit Learn to say no with tact When you go, go all in   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
10/27/202324 minutes, 13 seconds
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Eliminate Emotional Reaction, Testosterone Replacement Pros and Cons, and Proving Your Worth | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order  of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (1:40) How can you be tactically courageous? (4:35) How do you keep emotions out of the equation when making important decisions? (10:10) Do either of you use Testosterone Replacement Therapy? Where should someone begin? (20:20) How do you grow a small side business from $10K to $50K? (34:50) How do you use Facebook analytics to help grow your business? (41:10) How do you get over the mindset of always trying to prove yourself to those around you?   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
10/25/202352 minutes, 35 seconds
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RUDY REYES | The Power of Deep Pursuit

There is so much to get distracted by these days. With all of our duties, responsibilities, and obligations, it’s easy to get lost in trivial and meaningless activities and pursuits. But when we learn to eliminate and remove the distractions, we free ourselves to find something truly meaningful to obtain. My guest today is a master at doing just that. His name is Rudy Reyes. He is a former Marine Recon, author of his book, Hero Living, and host of the FOX hit show, Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test. Today, we talk about the power of a mission, developing the “executive” mindset, the strength of the inner story you tell yourself, how, when, and why to compartmentalize emotion, and going deep on pursuits that matter.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Staying on course when everything and everyone is trying to pull you off Bodyweight workouts Behind the scenes of Special Forces: Worlds Toughest Test Our country needs to be reminded of patriotism and old world values Military values that can apply to the civilian world The expeditionary approach to life From military to living on your own terms God’s role in the journey God granting empowerment Making a comeback   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/24/20231 hour, 1 minute, 27 seconds
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Anxiously Engaged in the Fight of Your Life | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE steps to help to help men attack the challenges that may be holding us back from reaching our goals in life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Have a “do it right” mindset Maximize effort, maximize efficiency Anchor your activity to your vision Prioritize effective effort over immediate results Don’t backslide   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
10/20/202323 minutes, 50 seconds
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Don't Start a Mutiny You Can't Finish, Broaden Your Impact, and Never Underestimate Your Influence | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (3:00) What does the future vision of yourself look like when you are happy with who you are today? (12:20) What is an unexpected IC-related moment that really stands out to you? (21:30) What defines a leader? If a man is showing up as he should at home and work, is it possible for him to not be a leader? (27:30) Can you provide some tips on how we can play the long game but still live in the moment? (37:40) Is good enough ever good enough? (44:30) When is it appropriate bring concerns about a boss to a higher-level leader in the organization?   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
10/18/202352 minutes, 3 seconds
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JIM SHOCKEY | Live a Life of Meaning and Significance

All of us are interested in finding meaning, purpose, and significance in our lives. And, yet, that all seems to be so elusive for so many. Why is it that some men seem to find their passions early on in life while others seemingly struggle for decades (if not their entire lives) to find the satisfaction they so desperately crave? My guest today, Jim Shockey, is a man who knows the answer. For decades, he’s followed his passions from journalism, becoming a world-class athlete, building an empire as the “First-Family of Hunting,” and now best-selling novelist. Today, Jim and I talk about dealing with events outside of our control, why a man must have a vision he’s working towards, the concept of self-worth and earned respect, the humility and strength of dealing with loss, and the true meaning of legacy…and how to create it.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Getting started in hunting content creation Recognition should be a byproduct, not the goal It doesn’t matter what you accomplish, it maters what people remember your for Be patient and find your soulmate Sticking with a long term vision Live your life, then write a book Bringing two worlds together     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/17/20231 hour, 17 minutes, 42 seconds
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Be Clear. Be Precise. Be Bold. | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses strategies for becoming more clear, precise, and bold - and ultimately more effective - in your communication. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Be precise with your goals Be precise with the things you would like other people to do Ask for feedback Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
10/13/202320 minutes, 21 seconds
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Defining Moments, Avoiding Anger, and Reframing Wrongdoing of Others | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (1:05) What transitions have you faced in your personal leadership or failures that could be seen as a defining moment? In leadership you have choices coming into transition, how do you use your past experiences to create defining moments? (10:40) What are some methods that we as men can utilize when trying to avoid anger in situations where anger is not the best emotion to bring to the table? (22:20) All four quadrants of the Battle Plan are important, but is there one that you feel that has a greater impact on all 4?  One that when executed extremely well helps define yourself and how you attack the rest? (26:20) How can I embrace these the more masculine ways of being when they weren’t modeled well for me as a child? What strategies and tactics can I use to awaken the king and warrior in me? (33:40) What tactics do you use when you must make a decision for your family that not all members may be happy with (e.g., moving)? (37:00) What are some ways that you have overcome fear in the past and or some fears you are facing today? (43:00) When considering someone who has wronged me in the past, how do I get to the point where I can hear their name or see them somewhere and not (even briefly) think something negative? Or even hope the best for them and pray they changed for the better?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
10/11/202344 minutes, 34 seconds
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MICHAEL EASTER | Conquer Your Scarcity Brain

So many of us, as men, are operating from a position of scarcity. We’ve wired our brains over decades to constantly crave newer, better, more. Ironically, “more” doesn’t always enhance and enrich our lives. In fact, there is plenty of evidence to suggest that the quest for better actually makes us less happy and less fulfilled. My guest today is Michael Easter, author of The Comfort Crisis and his latest book, Scarcity Brain. Today, Michael and I cover why we constantly crave more, the dangers inherent in social media, parameters to consider when looking for abundance in our lives, how to strike the balance between contentment with ambition, and how to finally conquer our scarcity brains.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Balancing contentment and ambition Recognizing and avoiding overindulgence Ways to make your phone less stimulating Buy gear, not stuff Too much clutter impacts productivity Finding gratification in the process Leaning into a higher purpose Learning from hard times   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/10/20231 hour, 1 minute, 18 seconds
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WILLIE ROBERTSON | Digging Out of the Depths of Despair

Every single one of us has a story. We all have a past. And, too many of us live in what we’ve done in the past rather than use it as fuel to propel us into the future. One of the great comeback stories that you may be somewhat familiar with is Phil Robertson’s (from Duck Dynasty) story of perseverance, overcoming extreme hardship, and the path to redemption. His son and co-star of Duck Dynasty, Willie Robertson, is here to talk with me today about his father’s story of redemption, their new movie, The Blind, why it’s never too late to write the next chapter of your life, digging out of the depths of despair, and overcoming the guilt of past behavior.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/6/202320 minutes, 29 seconds
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Breaking Bad Habits, Renewing the Mind, and Dealing with Narcissists | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (2:00) When breaking a bad habit/addiction, what is better? To focus on eliminating the bad habit for work to replace it with something positive. (5:00) What are some of the best objectives and tactics that everyone could benefit from implementing, at least once? (9:00) What are some innovations are taking place inside of the Iron Council to better serve the members? (12:00) Do you have a daily “mind renewal” practice? (14:40) If you had a physically crippling condition, how would you continue to contribute to those around you and how would your leadership style change? (17:20) What is the most pivotal moment in moving on from a divorce? Any advice to shake the lingering regret? (24:15) How can you work with a narcissist? (29:00) What did you do that you found helpful in processing through the grief of losing a loved one? (35:00) How do I help a friend who is struggling, but doesn’t recognize that there is problem? (39:20) With are the defining moments of your BJJ journey, and how can you implement those lessons in other areas in your life? (45:25) What are the best books you have read this year?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
10/4/202345 minutes, 57 seconds
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DR. JOHN DELONY | Annihilate Anxiousness

Anxiousness, depression, suicide. These are all growing trends with men. And, it’s unfortunate because, with all we know about men’s health (physical, mental, and emotional), why is it that so many of us seem to be struggling now more than ever? Isolation, loneliness, loss of ambition, lack of clarity and goals all contribute to the epidemic that seems to be plaguing so many men. It doesn’t have to be this way. And, my good friend and author of Building a Non-Anxious Life, John Delony, is here today to tell us how to make it so. We talk about burnout, stress, and numbing behavior, unpacking what value you truly add to the people you care about, how to apply these principles in reality (and practically), why we don’t have “maps” for every situation we encounter and what to do about it, and overcoming a past of extreme guilt and shame for past behavior.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Life is meant to have ups and downs Defining anxiety Do you need a chip on your shoulder to be successful? Sometimes you need to slow down Drawbacks of using achievement as a drug Uncovering hidden value Find your purpose by showing up Curiosity is underrated Knowing the right map to follow in life Your body is always looking for red flags   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/3/20231 hour, 6 minutes, 53 seconds
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Take Control of Your Financial Destiny | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 secrets to building entrepreneurial wealth. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   You have to track everything Plug the holes Invest in yourself Invest in new equipment You’re not in business until you sell something Develop relationship with wealthy friends Build your social media presence today Invest abundantly Whatever you do, you are a marketer Hire, outsource, and partner   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
9/29/202338 minutes, 26 seconds
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Discovering a Man's Purpose, How He Gains Traction, and How He Shows Love | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (2:50) Do you have a “bug out” bag and what is in it? (4:30) What does real ”romantic love” feel like? (10:40) How can I be a good, present father, when I am deployed or on long term assignment? (14:30) How can you tell wen you are gaining traction in your life? (21:00) How do I create congruency between multiple brands that I operate? (24:00) How do you say “no” to loved ones when you have to take time for self-care? (28:50) How do I find a purpose? How do I know when I am pursuing the wrong thing?   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
9/27/202334 minutes, 32 seconds
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BRADLEY RICHARDSON | Becoming a Secure, Confident Man

With the thousands of men I’ve talked with over the years, it’s evident that building and developing confidence is a huge issue for so many men. And, yet, so many men still struggle with the mindsets and activities required to build that confidence in themselves. Many of them believe you’re either born with it or you won’t ever develop it. That just isn’t true. And, my guest today, Bradley Richardson, is here to talk about why that is and what to do about it. Today we talk about why men hang on to unimportant, irrelevant issues way too long, how to deal and cope with a loss of control, knowing what you want and never settling, why many men settle for broken women, avoiding becoming a chameleon to others, and how to regain your sense of clarity and confidence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Guys tend to get stuck in the past relationships are not just a quid pro quo We need to communicate our expectations and standards What you want may not be what you need What people really want is a connection The bar is so low for men in relationships Control the things you can control Some men use their family as an excuse We kill ourselves with overthinking   Join the Iron Council brotherhood. Membership open for a limited time. Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/26/20231 hour, 3 minutes, 57 seconds
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10 Rules for Single Fatherhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 tips to help men overcome the challenges of single fatherhood. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Do not neglect yourself Learn to stack time Discipline and consistency trumps everything else Speak well of their mother Grease the grooves Learn to keep things lighthearted Shine as an example Tell your kids the truth, but don’t burden them When your kids are not with you, you should still be with them Eat dinner with your kids   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
9/22/202334 minutes
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The Confidence/Competence Loop, Approaching Women, and Motivating Others | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (3:10) What are some strategies around implementing the confidence/competence loop? (13:40) How do you balance out your alone time in a relationship or marriage? (18:30) What are some strategies for managing a new wife and step kids? (21:50) How do you approach the topic of death with someone who's health is extremely poor? (36:00) How should I approach women at the gym who I’m interested in? (39:00) How do you motivate others to be invested in their work? (47:40) How do we validate feelings that others have that we don’t agree with?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
9/20/202355 minutes, 21 seconds
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MAX BORDERS | Will a New Revolution Cure What Ails Us?

All of us agree that the currently political system isn’t working, regardless of where we sit on the political divide. With the federal government consolidating and amassing power, it’s increasingly difficult to see how they’re serving the people instead of the beast it’s become. But what is the answer? Is there a solution that moves us closer to what America’s founding fathers had envisioned nearly 250 years ago. My guest today, Max Borders, joins us to talk about the concepts in his newest book, Underthrow: How Jefferson’s Dangerous Ideas Will Spark a New Revolution. We talk about what it truly means to be free, the idea of a “national divorce,” where socialized services work and where they go too far, the power of decentralization, how innovation is act of subversion, and the difference between and overthrow and an underthrow to change the world.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Community governance Constitution of Consent Downsides to dissolution of the United States A “national divorce” done wrong Why would a new constitution be any different Overthrow is violent, “underthrow” is peaceful Understanding the origin of rights The current system no longer serves us Subversive innovation   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/19/202358 minutes, 47 seconds
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Where Humility Goes Wrong | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 3 steps to help you leverage your strengths to achieve more and serve others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Identify what you are good at: Ask other people what they value in you What are people asking your advice for? What are you doing when time moves the fastest? Invest in your strengths Never be ashamed to share your talents and gifts with the world   Join the Iron Council brotherhood. Membership open for a limited time. Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
9/15/202316 minutes, 28 seconds
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How to Overcome Loneliness, How to Get Buy-In From Others, and Working Through and Emotional Affair | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos are together “in-person” for a rare occasion to take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (4:00) What things would you recommend men do when they are feeling lonely? (11:30) How has 9/11 impacted you and how do you think it has impacted the country? (16:50) As men, should we share our most intimate struggles with our significant others? (22:50) Do either of you experience a shame spiral? (26:00) How can I start a fundraising operation without taking time away from my work or other obligations? (30:00) I am curious about your opinion on how to get people to buy into a mission? (34:50) When you started OOM, how long was it until you created a steady revenue stream? (39:30) What can I do to help gain trust back after my wife engaged in an emotional affair?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
9/13/202343 minutes, 34 seconds
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GARY JOHN BISHOP | Become the Father Your Kids Deserve

If you’re a father (or plan to be one), I know how it is to feel completely inadequate to be the type of dad your children need you to be. Self-doubt, challenging life circumstances, and past emotional trauma all combine to create the perfect storm of insecurity in raising your sons and daughters right. My guest today is New York Times Bestselling Author, Gary John Bishop and today he joins me to talk about his latest book, Grow Up: Becoming the Parent Your Kids Deserve. We cover such a wide array of topics in this conversation including why you should question your past and how to heal from it, the value of “empathetic intelligence” and how to use it effectively with your kids, how responsibility supersedes truthfulness, overcoming shame and guilt from parenting mistakes, and what it means to truly forgive someone.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Parenting is rewarding - and frustrating We’re not always going to get it right Challenges of parenting after divorce Your kids are always observing you Your kids will come to their own determinations Kids are “traumatized” by different things Kids assign their own meaning to events We need to be clear with our kids about why we are doing what we are doing Don’t box your kids in Teaching your kids to be truthful is key Self-punishment is a way to distract You can’t get to forgiveness and hang onto blame   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/12/20231 hour, 4 minutes
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How Your Future Self Can Guide You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR ways in which we can benefit from being guided by our futures selves. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   We have to have some level of vision Use a journal Ask yourself: What would the future “you” do? Begin to manipulate your environment   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
9/8/202321 minutes, 44 seconds
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What is Love?, Maintaining Your Vision, and Memento Mori | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos are together “in-person” for a rare occasion to take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (7:00) What is love and love connection? (24:00) Do you bring any small items hunting with you that you would recommend others consider including? (28:50) What principles and methods have been most helpful in healing from a tough experience or event in life? (37:00) When scaling your business, how did you avoid becoming too focused on the details and losing your overall vision? (45:10) What is the most exotic food you’ve ever eaten? (48:00) What does your morning and evening routine look like and how did they come about? (52:40) Do you incorporate the concept of Memento Mori into your life? (59:20) How can I help my wife understand my point of view as the lone financial provider in our household when she doesn’t seem to appreciate what I do? (1:08:40) How do you keep the fire burning for work when requirements of work conflict with family time?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
9/6/20231 hour, 20 minutes, 50 seconds
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AXEL KAISER | How the West Was Lost

We all know how the west was won – rugged individualism, a bold and daring approach to the new frontier, and a fierce belief in personal liberty and independence. But that does not describe the west or, more specifically, America any longer. We’ve traded individualism for collectivism, risk-taking for easy handouts, and liberty for big brother. My guest today, Axel Kaiser, makes the case against leftist ideology, why America is the last glimmer of hope in the world, and how a basic understanding of economics could free us all. Today, we talk about public debt and entitlement, whether the leftist ideology that permeates our culture is based in ignorance, stupidity, or malice, why the meritocracy isn’t a representation of power hierarchies, and how, if we continue down this path, we may see a new age of darkness.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Defining socialism True capitalism vs. crony capitalism The future of America and identity politics What would civil war look like in the US Is our way of life sustainable? If we lose the US we lose the whole world There is objective reality What happens when you get rid of objective truth? The impact of “losing the universities”   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/5/20231 hour, 10 minutes
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Never Out of the Fight | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 5 key strategies you can employ in your lifeline when dealing with setbacks. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Know the battle that you’re fighting Win the small battles Enlist reinforcements Understand that there will be setbacks Dig in - get ready for a long campaign   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
9/1/202324 minutes, 32 seconds
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The Art of Delegation, Direct Conversation, and Deleting the "I've Made it Mentality" | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (10:00) My wife allowed her family to schedule their family reunion on my birthday for several years in a row. How can I express that this makes me unhappy and I feel hurt by it? (19:40) What is one thing you do to stay grounded when life is throwing a lot at you? (29:00) What is your advice on whether I should take a great new opportunity after recently starting a new job that I also enjoy? (32:40) What are some tactics that you have implemented  to be more introspective when dealing with internal battles? (41:10) How do you recommend that men who have “made it” continue to find motivation to strive for more in life?       Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
8/30/202343 minutes, 19 seconds
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GREG HARDEN | Create Sanity in an Insane World

It’s no surprise that there is an increasing amount of insanity in the world today, most of it outside of our control. But there is also an immense amount of insanity taking place in the space 6” between our ears – our brains. Fortunately, that’s the realm we can control and, once we learn to do just that, we can achieve sanity in the otherwise chaotic experience of life. My guest today is mindset coach to some of the greatest athletes to play like Tom Brady, Desmond Howard, and Michael Phelps, to name a few. His name is Greg Harden and he makes the case for creating sanity out of our lives. We talk about becoming an expert on one subject, the narcissistic tinge of “self-love” and a better alternative, why you must learn to grow through adversity, not merely go through it, four basic needs every man desires and how he can fulfill those for himself, and learning to know yourself and embrace complete acceptance of who you are.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Control what you can control Become an expert on yourself Three levels of fitness: physical, mental, spiritual Grow through it, don’t just goo through it Having fun is up to you People treat you then way you treat yourself If you hate me, that’s on you Be hungry and humble Stop looking for love in all the wrong places Embrace the here and now   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/29/20231 hour, 7 minutes, 32 seconds
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You Are What You Do | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 5 principles that men can adopt to help overcome imposter syndrome and give themselves a better outlook on life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Your action dictates who you are Be willing to look like a novice Identify and eliminate excuses What you say about yourself matters The proximity principle counts: the people you surround yourself with with rub off on you   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
8/25/202324 minutes, 42 seconds
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Prepared or Paranoid, Master Task Lists, and Neighborhood Fathering | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (07:50) What is better to do first, build good habits or break bad ones? (18:00) How do you differentiate between emergency preparedness vs extremes prepping? (23:40) In business, how do you decide which revenue stream to go “all in” on? (35:00) In a healthy household, is there an age and time limit for when kids should move out? (41:20) What precautions have you taken to keep your vehicle equipped for emergencies? (45:40) Would “Trail Life” be a good alternative to Boy Scouts? (50:30) What are some tips for finding time for yourself when you are busy taking care of your wife and kids?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
8/23/202355 minutes, 27 seconds
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JAMIE KILSTEIN | Allow Yourself to Evolve

So many of us are so trapped in our current ways of thinking that we do not allow ourselves to take in new information and apply it in a way that may threaten our current reality or identity. Combine that need we have to be congruent in our own lives with the desire others have for us to remain in the status quo and it becomes extremely difficult for us to evolve into new ways of thinking and behaving. My guest today is a man who has had to continually look at the way he is showing up and incorporate a new set of beliefs and values to drive his life forward. His name is Jamie Kilstein and, today, we talk about individual sovereignty, spirituality vs. the institution of religion, why “grifting” is a concept designed to keep the status quo, caution in becoming overly apathetic, why you should get comfortable with changing your mind, and how to allow yourself to evolve.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Being honest and humble gives your more credibility  Leaving room for God to do his thing We know what the “right work” is As Christians, we should be the least self-righteous Surround yourself with people who will help you avoid traps and pitfalls Investigates your beliefs Obsession vs. apathy regarding politics Its ok to change your mind     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/22/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 22 seconds
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Make Your Presence Known | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 4 reasons men should work to make their presence known and how we can make it happen. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Have some level of performance Your presentation Consider our physical form Improve our physique   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
8/18/202321 minutes, 42 seconds
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Restarting After Stumbling, Not my Responsibility, and What to Do When Your Wife Makes More | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (01:00) How do you back on track after an “off” week? (08:40) How do you handle the loss of a pet with children? (15:15) Do you plan to add anything to the Iron Council to enhance the experience for high achievers who may think it gets stale after a while? (25:40) How do I decide if I want to go college, trade school, or another form of education? (36:00) How do you get rid of the mindset that you are responsible for the behavior and choices of other adults? (43:00) When you fall out of your routine, how do you get back on track? (45:50) How can I help my  son work through a traumatic experience? (49:00) What are some good tips tot start a business? (56:00) Can you talk about at the power dynamic when my wife makes more than me?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
8/16/20231 hour, 1 minute, 26 seconds
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JON ACUFF | Ditch Regret and Tap Into Potential

Regret is often used to self-sabotage and retreat into sorrow and victimization. But it doesn’t have to be that way. In fact, regret can be leveraged as a powerful tool to accomplish your most challenging objectives moving forward. Unfortunately, too many men wallow in regret and defeat instead of learning how to tap into their massive and almost unlimited potential. Today, I am joined by threepeat guest, Jon Acuff, to talk about regret, potential, goal planning, and success. We discuss pursuing small versus large goals, the power of becoming what Jon calls a, “handle maker,” using discernment with regards to the self-development information we consume, the proper response to the, “must-be-nice,” crowd, why you should avoid calling your problems, your problems, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Writing content that will resonate in multiple spaces Focusing on your “best moments” instead of your worst We naturally gravitate toward accomplishments, experiences, relationships, or objects Navigating the overwhelming amount of self-improvement advice and content  Easy goals vs. hard goals vs. guaranteed goals Set up tactics or easy goals along the path to your big goals The best response to “it must be nice” The hills pay the bills Unless you are keeping score, you have no idea where you are on the path     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/15/202357 minutes, 36 seconds
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The Dichotomy Between Contentment and Ambition | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE steps to help men understand the differences between contentment and ambition and how both can exist simultaneously in our lives. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Understand that two ideas can exist simultaneously Exercise two different complementary ideas: gratitude and Understand that life is just a process Measure, embrace, and celebrate incremental improvement Be aggressively patient   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
8/11/202318 minutes, 41 seconds
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Getting Married Too Young?, When do You Become a Man, and Building Muscle Mass | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (4:00) How do I know when to start looking for the right woman to settle down with? (11:00) When does a man truly know that he is a man? (13:40) What does it mean to “rest well?” (19:00) How can I minimize the negative consequences on my children as a result of divorce? (31:20) How important is weightlifting to your health compared to other areas of fitness? (37:00) What is the Iron Council’s 5-year vision? (40:00) How do you both stay accountable to your vision and battle plan without being part of a battle team? (51:20) How do you get in the mindset of accepting where you are in life? (59:20) What are some good marketing skills I could learn to increase my value to the company?       Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
8/9/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 54 seconds
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SETH AND MELANIE STUDLEY | The Anatomy of Marriage

Some of the most common questions we receive (and this has been consistent over the past 8 years) is how to make a marriage work. And, with the breakdown of my own marriage over the past year, it’s clear to me more than ever how hard the union between two people can be. But that doesn’t mean it’s impossible and it doesn’t mean it isn’t worth pursuing. The benefits of marriage are plenty including the shared responsibilities, the fulfillment found in service to another, and the growth that must take place in order for a marriage to work. Today, I’m joined by Seth and Melanie Studley who focus on helping couples work through their marital challenges and create a thriving relationship. We talk getting back to the basics, the growth vs. fixed mindset, why men must cast vision, common mistakes in marriage, how to recognize the tests of women, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Marriage therapy vs. marriage coaching Women unconsciously (and consciously) test men Actually getting on a better path instead of just manipulating Taking extreme ownership in your marriage Erecting appropriate boundaries Creating a shared vision for your marriage You have to be willing to fight Making changes for the right reasons You need to clearly communicate what you want We need affirmation   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/8/20231 hour, 7 minutes, 2 seconds
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How a Man Builds Boundaries | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 factors to consider when establishing other boundaries with others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Prove your worth (to yourself) Examine your values Discard the outcome Grow your balls (have some courage) Be firm but FAIR Build your sovereignty Add weight to your words Don’t give an inch, they will take a mile Enlist reinforcements Respect other people’s boundaries   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
8/4/202326 minutes, 33 seconds
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Watch What People Hide, Apathy Vs Emotional Availability, and The Power of Verbalization | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (5:30) What do so many men seem to have problems with women? (12:40) Where do you recommend keeping firearms in the house? (20:30) Why didn’t Kipp call you out for your excessive drinking? (29:20) How do you, as a man, balance apathy and emotional availability? (49:30) What provisions have you put in place for your family in case you were to meet an untimely end? (59:30) What are some tips on leading in the workplace? (1:08:30) What are some strategies for dealing with a narcissist in the workplace?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
8/2/20231 hour, 11 minutes, 50 seconds
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AJ RICHARDS | Fixing Our Broken Food Supply Chain

With roughly 97% of the population eating meat, it’s mind-blowing that 85% of the American meat supply chain is in the hands of four corporations, two of which are foreign. What’s also disturbing is the deliberate manipulation of beef prices, the rise in food intellectual property (IP) in the form of GMO food solutions and fake meat products grown in a lab, and the regulatory constraints placed on small cattle ranches trying to make our food supply chain more robust and secure. My guest today, AJ Richards, is leading the charge when it comes to a new way to deliver beef to the American consumer directly from the ranches themselves in order to cut out the excess cost, regulation, manipulation, and build out a stronger, more diverse supply of food. Today, we talk about the crumbling food supply chain, our import to export dilemma, overcoming the monopolies of food producers, why homesteading in America is once again growing, and so much more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: City slicker turned rancher Losing farms is national security issue Beef supply chain is controlled by 4 major companies Creating an Uber or AirBnb for meat Inspiring the next generation of ranchers Keeping the family engaged and interested Meat distribution should be regional, rather than national Let the local economy dictate the price The dangers of opposing the establishment Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/1/20231 hour, 8 minutes, 23 seconds
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How to Move on After Losing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 6 steps to help us come back after a loss. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Accept that we’ve lost something Sit with and process it Extract the lessons that can be learned from it Apply those lessons in a measurable way Have selective memory Accept the wins   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/28/202322 minutes, 39 seconds
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Relationship with a New Step-Daughter, Leadership Standards vs. Principles, and Overcoming the Lone Wolf Mentality | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (2.55) Do you guys “every day carry?” And if so, what do you carry? (8:40) What is your go-to tactic to switch from work mode to dad mode? (18:40) How should I approach my relationship with a new step daughter (toddler) who spends every other weekend with her father? (29:30) In leadership, are you guided to lead by standards or principles? Do you guys think one is better to use as a baseline over the other? (42:20) What is the best training to do on days that I cant attend a BJJ class? (47:20) Do you have any tips for someone who struggles to get along with other men and tends to get prideful and become a lone wolf? (1:02:30) Do you have any tips for keeping a stoic mindset when it feels like you can’t catch a break?     Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/26/20231 hour, 10 minutes, 16 seconds
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MATT ZEMON | A Beginner's Guide to Psychedelics

It’s clear by now the stigma that once surrounded psychedelics has lost some of its power. With the use of psychedelics like Psilocybin, Ayahuasca, and even LSD becoming much more mainstream through personalities like Joe Rogan and all we hear about “plant-medicine,” from some of the most influential people today, it’s time we all start taking a closer look at the ins and outs, pros and cons, and features and setbacks of the world of psychedelics. Today I am joined by Matt Zemon, a Master in Medical Science in both psychology and neuroscience, and author of his latest book, Psychedelics for Everyone. I am naturally a bit of a skeptic so I took that approach on a topic I admittedly don’t know a whole lot about. We discuss why the stigma around psychedelics and how did that come to be, the use of psychedelics to treat shame, blame, and guilt and other symptoms of “treatment resistant PTSD,” how psychedelics have been used to help people overcome crippling alcohol and drug addiction, the spiritual journey one may discover on his exploration into these medicines, side effects to consider, and how many men are using psychedelics to expand their consciousness.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Psychedelics is a technology The psychedelic journey is often a top 5 experience Is there a benefit to shame, blame, and guilt Defining PTSD Psychedelics are not for everyone There’s more to it than just “trust the science” What is a psychedelic? Psychedelics should not be seen as a “cure” Using psychedelics to get off other drugs Side effects of psychedelics   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/25/20231 hour, 6 minutes, 37 seconds
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The Plight of Leadership Eclipsing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the concept of “leadership eclipsing” and breaks down why we need to and how we can avoid this. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Why to avoid eclipsing: Your team members cannot grow if you are sucking up all of the resources If you are sucking everything up and your team cant grow, you can’t grow either Your mission can’t expand   How to avoid eclipsing your people The leader is NOT the center of the universe If other people win, you win Leaders create leaders Leaders deflect light and absorb darkness Exercise humility   Tactics to empower others: Give responsibility to others Don’t solve people’s problems Communicate effectively Praise and critique   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/21/202332 minutes, 4 seconds
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Selfishness Leads to Selflessness, Fundamental Attribution Error, and Working with an Aggressive 3-Year-Old | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen, joining live from France, take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (8:00) Is there a specific book that you revisit every year because of the enjoyment that it brings? (12:40) How can I determine when setting boundaries is being selfish? (26:20) How can a man lead a loved one through their anger and anxiety issues? (35:20) What do you feel are the hallmark traits of an effective leader? (47:40) How can I help support a buddy who is in a toxic relationship with his girlfriend and her family? (54:20) Considering the increasing confusion around gender roles, what are some future potential challenges you see for masculine men? (57:20) How do you know when you are following God’s will? (1:03:30) What strategies have you found to discourage young kids from being aggressive? (1:07:20) What are your thoughts on online dating vs. meeting people face to face?   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/19/20231 hour, 17 minutes, 6 seconds
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VIC KELLER | Instinct, Intentionality, and Innovation

The most powerful benefit of this podcast is that each and every week, we get to listen to ultra-successful men, learn what makes them tick, hear which pitfalls to avoid, and simply apply those beneficial lessons into our own lives. And, my guest today is someone imminently qualified to impart his hard-fought wisdom on both the professional and personal front. He is serial entrepreneur, Vic Keller. And, today, we talk about the power of utilizing our instinct (and how it can be developed), intentionality, and innovation to create long-lasting results in our lives. We also cover the difference between gurus and guides (and how to spot each), a simple formula for how the human operating system works, why you should strongly consider hiring mentors, how to decide what defines you, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Starting with a side hustle Creating teams Hiring talent leads to margin in your life Build up others, not just yourself The business can be all about you Guru vs. guide Understanding discernment The importance of intentionality The Chick-fil-A talent model Instinct can be learned We have incredible access to coaching   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/18/20231 hour, 10 minutes, 15 seconds
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The Case for Intelligent Disobedience | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why it’s important to break the rules occasionally and provides SEVEN factors to consider when deciding whether its time to break the rules. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Understand your motive Look at ethical, moral, legal implications Consider why the rule is in place Look at commander’s intent Are they general guidelines rather than specific rules Are you willing to deal with the consequences Consider the fallout   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/14/202320 minutes, 52 seconds
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Dealing With Toxic In-laws, Avoiding Burnout Fatigue, and Staying Together for the Kids | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen, joining live from France, take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (12:20) How do I deal with my wife making decisions behind my back and becoming irritated when I bring it up to her? (23:00) Are there resources available to help a teenager get ton the path? (25:00) What is your take on “staying together for the  kids?” (36:00) How do you flip the switch between “I want to get my wife back” and “I’m ready to start dating again?” (45:00) How do I deal with cutting toxic in-laws loose from interacting with your children? (59:00) How do you guard against burnout and fatigue as you are working to become the man you are meant to be? (1:06:00) Any recommended reading on emotional intelligence?     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/12/20231 hour, 6 minutes, 56 seconds
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JOHN LOVELL | A Guide to Living Free and Dying Well

We’re all familiar with the Warrior Archetype. Many men listening to this podcast embody what it means to be a warrior. But if we are exclusively warriors in our approach to life, we can easily overlook the more gentle, meeker virtues that make us well-rounded men. My guest today is a man intimately familiar with the balance between the lion and the lamb, the warrior and the poet. His name is John Lovell and he is the author of The Warrior Poet Way: A Guide to Living Free and Dying Well. Today, John and I talk about striking the balance between both, how we’re neither exclusively warrior or exclusively poet, how to become not just dangerous in the physical realm but also dangerous in our virtue, how humility heals everything, overcoming a crisis of identity, and why if there is nothing to protect there is no need for men, and the proper time and place for displaying vulnerability.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The concept of the warrior poet We are lacking both warriors and poets in society Jesus is the eternal warrior and poet Evil people pulling the political strings Everything has become a “political” issue Being influenced by Artificial Intelligence Pride poisons everything, humility heals everything Humility is a source of strength Building strength through suffering Truth is narrow and exclusive   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/11/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 46 seconds
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Navigating Uncharted Territory | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 8 strategies to help us navigate challenging and uncertain times in life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Look at life as an adventure Recognize that there will be setbacks Build in contingency plans Look at life with a long term perspective Detach from the situation Have trusted advisors around you Evaluate our choices Draw from your past experiences   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/7/202327 minutes, 52 seconds
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Overcoming the Emotion of Separation & Divorce, Finding Joy in Life, and Establishing Personal Sovereignty | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen, joining live from France, take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (4:30) How can I lead my family in terms of “vibe,” mood, or energy? (11:50) How do you reconcile having your individual sovereignty being a man without coming off as selfish? (19:00) Since writing the book “Sovereignty,” how has your view of the concept changed? (29:40) what are some strategies to help lead our wives through a hard miscarriage, while having the sovereignty to address our own issues? (36:20) How has the time with your children been since separating from your wife? (44:00) How have you dealt with burnout and continued to push through to reach your objectives?   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
7/5/202350 minutes, 50 seconds
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REMI ADELEKE | Whatever You Do, Do it Right

We’re all tempted, at times, to cut corners, to take the path of least resistance, and to do work less than we’re capable of doing. It’s easy to do in this easily distracted, overly-stimulated environment we all operate in. My guest today, former Navy SEAL, Remi Adeleke is a prime example of doing work right despite our desire to take the easy route. Author of his latest book, Chameleon, Hollywood director and consultant, and TV reality show star, Remi knows what he wants, what he doesn’t, and how to pursue everything with an eye towards exceptionalism and mastery. Today, we talk about not becoming a “one-note guy,” getting over Fear of Missing Out when declining opportunities, why writing is one of the best ways to articulate your thoughts, why it’s a mistake to write off the success of others, and timeless advice he learned from his mom like the mantra, “Whatever you do, do it right.”   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Doing it all Make yourself indispensable Creating a fantasy world from your own real world experience Coming to America from Nigeria Don’t live in the past and play the victim Lessons learned from the Bronx Do things right the first time Chat GPT and AI making people stupid Bringing your work to life on the screen   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/4/20231 hour, 14 minutes, 47 seconds
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Re-Write Your Fatherhood Story | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR strategies to help men become better fathers and shed the baggage handed down by our own fathers. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Recognize that our dads are not superhuman Be realistic about what elements you want to take from your own father Review the work that we are doing Think about what your kids need   Membership in the Iron Council is currently open for a limited time. Get more info here. Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/30/202316 minutes, 23 seconds
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Overcoming the Fear of Failure, Goal-Pivoting (When and Why), and Building On Previous Success | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (2:50) Is there a point where you decide that your objective is not working and it should be adjusted or is that an individual decision? (6:20) Can you share your thoughts on building and following through on a first-time Battle Plan? (8:20) Is there a difference between doing the Battle Plan on the app or in the journal vs. just keeping track in a journal? (12:00) Is it best to build your objectives on the previous quarter, or should you bounce around, as long as it moves you toward your vision? (15:00) What does your battle plan look like for Q3? (19:00) How can I incorporate a side hustle into my battle plan, while having a full time career? (21:00) Any advice for a new Iron Council member? (23:00) Can “nutrition” alone be an objective for the condition quadrant? (27:40) How do you reconcile with a fear of failure? (33:20) Do you have any tips on going after multiple goals at once? (37:40) Why is it hard to see your dad, who was once a strong and able-bodied man, deteriorate? (42:00) How is your BJJ journey going now that you are back in Utah? (43:10) How much do you involved your girlfriend in discussing your own goals and plans for the future?     Membership in the Iron Council is currently open for a limited time. Get more info here.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/28/202346 minutes, 10 seconds
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LT. COLONEL BRIAN SLADE | Triumph Over Trauma

Every one of us has experienced trauma of some sort in our lives. Some more challenging scenarios than others. But it does no good to compare our own circumstances with others, only what those who seem to be able to manage and work past the difficulties of life can teach us. Combat Rescue Helicopter Pilot, Lt. Colonel Brian Slade joins me on today to talk about strategies he’s learned and developed for overcoming some of the worst scenarios he and others have overcome in their lives. We discuss the concept of “chair flying” as a method for anticipating and preparing for traumatic events, the difference between those who adapt to challenge and those who don’t, why we as men need to wrap our heads around “operating in the ugly,” overcoming festering emotional wounds, and how to triumph over trauma.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   “Just get over it” its not great advice Stress inoculation and “chair flying” Gratitude and perspective Don’t mistake the gunfight (finite) for the mountains (infinite) Perspective creates your reality Always have an honorable mission The only way out is through   Membership in the Iron Council is currently open for a limited time. Get more info here.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/27/20231 hour, 2 minutes, 40 seconds
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Life Can Get Better If… | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SEVEN areas that, if approached with intentionality and consistency, will drastically improve your life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Eat right Move your body Self reflect (Journaling) Connecting with a purpose Serve other people Be smart with your money Find joy   Membership in the Iron Council is currently open for a limited time. Get more info here. Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/23/202318 minutes
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Projecting Expectations on Others, Strengthening the Father-Daughter Relationship, and Overcoming Influence from an Abusive Father | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (11:50) As a father whom has lost 4 children to miscarriage since 2015, is it acceptable to be bothered by people not including me into fathers day thoughts? Or is that just projecting as I can't expect them to remember as my kids are not standing next to me? (26:00) I’m a step dad to a 14-year-old daughter. I’ve been in her life for 8 years, but still haven’t found that connection. What are your thoughts on helping to build that bond? (34:40) What can I do to repair the relationship with my older children? (43:20) How do you balance or navigate being a new business owner and your family? (47:30) How do you navigate being a father that is present in your kids life’s while spending the time necessary to grow a business, volunteer, be there for them men in your battle team, and all the things we need to do to be good men? (57:00) I can’t get the voice of my abusive father out of my head and I’m afraid that I am showing signs of behaving in a similar way toward my own children. What advice would you offer to help me and guys like me in similar circumstances?     Membership in the Iron Council is currently open for a limited time. Get more info here.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/21/20231 hour, 2 minutes, 49 seconds
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TIM BALLARD | Eradicating Child Sex Trafficking

Child sex trafficking literally permeates every corner of the globe. It’s despicable, it’s nasty, and it’s a growing trend, even in 2023. Where most men recognize problems in this world, few are willing to put their own careers and lives on the line to create solutions. My guest today is built different. His name is Tim Ballard and he is the founder of Operation Underground Railroad which exists to rescue children from dangerous and despicable sex rings. Today, we talk about what a truly compassionate border policy would look like, the hyper-sexualization of the world and the degeneracy it leads to, how unintended policy incentives often make problems worse, why evil lurks behind the concept of tolerance, and his latest film uncovering the underground child sex trade, Sound of Freedom.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The U.S. is one of the top consumers of child sexual material Open borders are contributing to the problem Its not easy to profile child sexual predators Pornography is a gateway Sex work is the antithesis of feminism When is government intervention appropriate Media standing in the way of fighting child trafficking The process of finding traffickers The Sound of Freedom   Membership in the Iron Council is currently open through the end of June. Sign up today!   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/20/202340 minutes, 33 seconds
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Your Ideas Become Reality | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler provides a 5-step framework to help you ensure that the way you are thinking and the steps you are taking are going to foster and bolster success in your life, and not hinder it. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Take inventory of where you are in life Foster and empower positive thoughts and eradicate negatives thoughts Go where producers are Be vigilant of the input going into your mind Gratitude and service     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/16/202327 minutes, 25 seconds
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Preparing Kids for a Move, Crafting a Compelling Vision, and How to Build a Movement | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (7:05) How do I encourage my son to overcome apprehension about moving to a new town and even embrace the move? (17:30) Can you provide some help with crafting my vision? (32:00) How did you grow the Iron Council from 20 men to 100? (41:00) What advice can you provide on balancing time with my fiancé and child and my own personal growth and fitness after recently having our first child? (45:30) What have you learned from the process of building a home and how can you apply this to your life in the future? (54:50) Any tips on public speaking? (1:06:00) When are you reopening the Iron Council again?   Membership in the Iron Council opens up on Thursday, June 15, for a limited time. Get more info here.   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/14/20231 hour, 8 minutes, 18 seconds
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DR. HENRY CLOUD | How to Earn and Restore Trust

Trust is something all of us know we need to build in order to have influence with those we love and whom we’re called to lead. But it’s also incredibly difficult to build and even harder to repair once you’ve undermined it. And, unfortunately, as challenging as it is to build, it’s incredibly easy to tear apart never to be seen again. My guest today is Dr. Henry Cloud, author of his latest book, Trust: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken. We talk about trust being a learned skill, the process for repairing trust, 5 factors that drive the trust system, trust as a long game vs. a short game, and how trust fuels every single aspect of life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The importance of having in-person conversations Creating a safe environment for those around us Five steps to building trust We need to know that people have our back The way we say things matters We need to become good at something Behave your way back into trust Breaking down trust barriers Building trust can take longer than we want it to Life is giving us a 360 review all the time…if we’re listening Be intentional with the patterns we develop Membership in the Iron Council opens up on Thursday, June 15, for a limited time. Get more info here. Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/13/20231 hour, 7 minutes, 11 seconds
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Create Your Life's Battle Rhythm | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why you need to create a battle rhythm in your life and FIVE key strategies to design and implement this Battle Rhythm. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   You have to live YOUR life Develop and create systems for everything that you repeatedly do Establish and communicate boundaries Have some margin in the middle Anticipate changes     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/9/202326 minutes, 49 seconds
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Dealing with Anger, Why We Get Angry, and Not Betraying Yourself | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (4:10) How do you control anger before it becomes rage? (15:30) With all that is going on in the world today, why are people not talking about generational riptide? (21:50) How do I deal with my wife after giving birth when she is mad at me for losing weight but isn’t making the best choices around fitness and nutrition for herself? (30:30) Does taking a family vacation stress you out? (33:30) How do you handle people who want to take your place in a leadership position, but they are not as capable as you are? (40:00) What can one do to develop a stronger self-worth and self-esteem? (46:20) How do I help my wife and children through the trauma of being in a major car accident? (51:20) What practical things do you start doing every day to move you closer to the person that you want to be? (55:00) How do you deal with the negative people who constantly tell you that you cant do what you need to do? (58:30) What did you learn from a recent failure?     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/7/20231 hour, 1 minute, 56 seconds
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MIKE GLOVER | How to Survive Worst-Case Scenarios

Many of us have been in some horrible circumstances. Between war, rioting, home invasion, active-shooter situations, natural disasters, civil unrest, and more, it’s becoming increasingly common to find ourselves in life and death struggles. We must not be unprepared for when that day arrives. My guest today, Mike Glover, formerly in the Special Forces and CIA contractor, joins me today to talk about ensuring we are prepared should we encounter one of these moments. We discuss his latest book, Prepared, increasing risk tolerance, fortifying your home and equipping your vehicle, the importance of self-discipline, paranoia and the Law of Diminishing Returns, peacocking for safety, policing each other, and surviving worst case scenarios.
6/6/20231 hour, 9 minutes, 26 seconds
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Lead By Example | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of leading by example and provides SIX strategies to help garner influence with others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS We have to be humble Must accept the weight of leadership Evaluate your own performance Leadership requires an “us” mentality Continual improvement Effective communication     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
6/2/202330 minutes, 21 seconds
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Early Days of Sobriety, Building a Community with Dissenting Voices, and Managing Grief | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from Instagram. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (3:20) When you have a lot on your plate, how do you keep your sanity and your family in tact? (8:20) Will I ever see you again on the mats in Maine? (9:20) Is there a book you would recommend, along with the Bible, to help with your walk as a Christian? (10:25) How is sobriety and how can I support your journey? (13:30) How do you think people build community when people tend to keep opposing views as far away as possible? (19:00) How do you start a t-shirt printing business without using amazon or bulk ordering? (23:40) How are you dealing with losing your marriage at this early stage? (32:50) How do I allow myself grace when trying to start something new? (40:00) Do you ever find it hard to find motivation? Do you ever want to quit doing your podcast? (42:00) How did you get your son into lifting? (46:00) How do you cope with the “I’m to old to start over” thoughts?     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/31/202348 minutes, 16 seconds
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NATE FEATHERS | Dads Don't Babysit

“I’m babysitting my kids,” is likely something a lot of you fathers have used as an excuse or reason not to do something else. I know I certainly have. But we don’t really babysit, do we. Babysitting our children implies they aren’t our inherent responsibility and that, obviously, is not the case. My guest today, Nate Feathers, makes the case against “babysitting our children,” and, instead, shows fathers a better way to approach the relationship between father and son or daughter. Today, we talk about kids mimicking our behavior, the changes in culture with regards to fatherhood, how to bond effectively with newborns, toddlers, and teens, learning to let go of your children, how to keep the relationship (and sex life) with your wife thriving, and why it’s not accurate to assume that you’re ever “babysitting” your children.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Fathers can be disciplined AND kind The biological connection between mothers and children How fathers can bond with newborn babies Skin to skin contact with your kids Women take what we give them and make it better Enjoying your kids through the years Most guys should provide less structure, not more Focus on the moment, with your kids and with your wife Advice for single fathers Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/30/20231 hour, 8 minutes, 1 second
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Presence is Powerful | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how the key to finding joy and happiness is being present in the moment and offers FIVE strategies to put this into action. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Learn to be as efficient and effective as possible in other areas of life Learn how to set boundaries Eliminate distractions Don’t let thoughts bounce around in your head (write it down) Pruning and weeding our lives   Bonus tip: Let go of the hidden agenda     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/26/202322 minutes, 24 seconds
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It's Okay to Feel Like Shit, How to Get Over an Ex, and How Presence Cures Anxiety | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Instagram. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (10:40) How do you get through letting the woman you love and the mother of your children go? (25:15) Would you say God is in favor of divorce? And if not, how did you feel, getting a divorce, knowing that it was going against God’s wishes? (32:10) Is it normal to feel guilty when trying to level up and reach for your dreams? (40:40) how do you help a loved one who feels like they are letting you down, when you feel like they are doing the best they can in the grand scheme of things? (42:20) How do you handle when your beset isn’t good enough? (47:30) How would you deal with an overbearing mother-in-law, particularly regarding the kids? (51:40) How, as a man, do you deal with feeling inadequate? (54:50) How do you get involved with a new community when moving to a new city and you don’t know anyone? (57:00) In what places is stoicism necessary and in what places should men be more open? (1:05:20) How can young sons with weak, tyrant fathers reconcile that relationship? (1:08:10) How can you filter out what we read and watch?     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/24/20231 hour, 11 minutes, 16 seconds
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GREG SCHEINMAN | Navigating the Midlife Crisis

The mid-life crisis. It’s something we’ve all heard about. Many men have likely experienced it. Typically, the midlife crisis is associated with driving around a sports car from your childhood and trying to land women 10-15 years your younger. But the midlife crisis is a bit more nuanced than that and doesn’t require looking or acting like a d-bag to navigate it. In fact, if handled correctly, men’s middle years can be some of the most powerful and transformative years of his life. Today, I’m joined by Greg Scheinman to talk about how to make that happen. We talk about overcoming trauma and victimization, what he calls “over-indexing” in certain aspects of your life, six “f’s” of life to focus on, the power of purpose, process, and payoff, and how to successfully navigate the midlife crisis.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Is the word “trauma” overused? Determine what you need to be doing The 6 F’s: Family, fitness, finance, food, fashion, fun Causes of the midlife crisis What can you do to turn things around? You have to have an action plan We need to schedule our fun Lead your family by example Defining the line of what is acceptable in society “Authenticity” is not an excuse to be a jerk Finding the positive in the midlife “crisis”     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/23/20231 hour, 10 minutes, 56 seconds
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That Which is Measured Improves | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of actually measuring your progress toward goals. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Achieving success without using systems and measurement is non-duplicatable Progress toward some goals is hard to track, but we can still design metrics Men are delusional: we think we are better and more productive than we are - If we are not tracking, we will continue to delude ourselves     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/19/202312 minutes, 48 seconds
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Hope Vs. Despair, Motivation Vs. Discipline, and Caring Vs. Carrying | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (10:30) Is it important to understand what hope is and where it comes from? What is your source of hope? (18:00) What steps would you take when entering a step-father role for an 8-year-old girl? (26:00) How do you balance being disciplined with your Battle Plan when you are on a trip for the holidays? (33:30) How can we understand the difference between motivation and discipline? (36:40) How do I deal with regrets of lost time? I feel like I have wasted my 20s. (43:20) Is self-respect internal or a learned trait? (51:50) What is your advice for when we need to choose between two difficult decisions in life? (54:20) How can I help my wife when she is feeling disconnected and stressed? (1:01:30) How do I lead up the chain of command when my superior seems clueless and disinterested in what is going on in my area of responsibility? (1:05:00) I feel like I am doing all the right things but my heart is still broken. How do I begin to find joy and happiness?     Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/17/20231 hour, 15 minutes, 16 seconds
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STEVE CHOU | How to Lead Your Business and Your Family

Running a business and leading a family can be such a challenging aspect of life. Both require so much time and attention and although similar in a lot of ways, the way you lead professionally is not always translatable into leading personally. My guest today is Steve Chou, the author of The Family First Entrepreneur. Today, Steve and I talk about not being a stranger to your kids, practical strategies for avoiding burnout and unnecessary stress, whether you should stay at your current employment or “burn the boats” when starting a side business, and how side-hustles boost confidence! A lot of these things I wish I would have learned a whole lot sooner.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The line between helping your kids and making them figure things out Building a business while not sacrificing the relationship with loved ones Being driven by ego vs being driven by service Knowing your purpose Ignorance contributing to Asian hate Everyone should have a side hustle Staying focused on one thing at a time Different approaches to outsourcing Weighing business opportunities against family time Getting your kids involved with the business Opportunities and drawbacks with AI   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/16/20231 hour, 2 minutes, 55 seconds
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Why Are Men So Lonely? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses three factors that contribute to the isolation  that many men feel and offers five strategies that will help you overcome this loneliness. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Factors that contribute to isolation as men The myth of the “lone wolf” The world has become overly feminized People believe there is a lack of other high caliber men   Strategies to help men overcome loneliness Be an initiator Do the right activities Always save one spot Always be in the networking mindset Be hyper consistent   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/12/202325 minutes, 44 seconds
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Learning to Let Go, When to Offer Advice and When NOT to, and the Power of Therapy | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Instagram. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode kick-off⠀ (13:45) How can I encourage my wife to be more intentional and strategic with her actions when dealing with a challenging situation at work? (25:30) Do you have any experience with or have you interviewed anyone regarding mindfulness meditations? (26:50) Are you and Brecken going to continue recording the Man in the Making podcast? (29:50) What do you do when a group outgrows its weakest member? (38:00) If you could pay for three skills, what would they be and why? (49:00) Would you recommend getting married and why? (51:40) How do I deal with emotions or opinions that I cant understand or pinpoint? (1:05:50) How impactful do you feel that therapy has been?   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/10/20231 hour, 9 minutes, 44 seconds
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MATTHEW VINCENT | You're Not Dead Yet

All of us have heard from men who wonder if it’s too late to start in life. Many of them believe they may have missed the one shot they had to make something of themselves, or they’ve “wasted” too much of their lives. My guest today, Founder of Not Dead Yet, Matthew Vincent, makes the case that it’s never too late to start as long as there is air in your lungs and blood pumping through your heart. Today, we have an extremely fascinating discussion on so many different topics including several we don’t see eye to eye on. Specifically, we talk about the scarcity vs. abundant mindset, the value of hate and love, the dangers in the “hedonic treadmill,” connecting with others as a powerful motive for overcoming destructive behavior, and the immense liberty found in becoming completely aware of yourself. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Hating yourself vs. loving yourself We don’t pick our starting point Pleasure vs. fulfillment and the hedonic treadmill Appreciating the ability to choose our passions People are the solution and the problem Shared responsibility in understanding communication Using and understanding psychedelics Knowing how to use substances as tools to serve you Need to program time to relax Body dysmorphia and transgenderism We need to be able to question things We are responsible for what we expose ourselves to We need to be intentional with how we spend our energy Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.  
5/9/20231 hour, 14 minutes, 59 seconds
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You Don't Need Confidence, You Need Courage | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men should be seeking courage rather than confidence and how the pursuit of courage will lead to confidence when going after our goals.  Ryan also offers five steps men can implement to become more courageous. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Make a plan Make a bigger deal out of things that you should Don’t tie your worth to the outcome of your actions Surround yourself with courageous people Practice being courageous   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀
5/5/202321 minutes, 54 seconds
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How to Get Over Resentment Towards an Ex, Faith's Role in Fatherhood, and Aligning Your Actions with Your Worth | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Instagram. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (8:00) What is your advice to men top finally take that first step toward conquering the thing that challenges them most? (20:20) How do I deal with the regrets of wasted time? (25:00) Do you think the Order of Man and Iron Council is the best way for men to interact and learn from each other? (30:20) How did you manage working long hours when you were building your side business, while not neglecting fitness and your family? (38:00) Do you plan to address the specific problems that led to your divorce? (47:00) Why does nothing I ever do seem like enough? (53:30) How do you stay consistent with your vision? (56:20) What should I consider when preparing for a potential strike at my company? (58:40) What is your current belt color in Jiu-Jitsu? (59:00) What role do you think religion and faith have in raising children? (1:01:20) What is the relationship between God’s sovereignty and a man’s responsibility? (1:06:00) How has going through a divorce changed the way you view other areas in your life? (1:10:40) How do you not let feelings of resentment and betrayal influence your communication with your ex-wife? (1:16:40) How are you dealing with the grief of losing your marriage during this time? (1:18:50) what advice would you give someone who is struggling with self-confidence and what others’ perception of him is?   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
5/3/20231 hour, 21 minutes, 28 seconds
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DAVID MEESSEN | Dating Advice for Men in the Modern Era

I think we can all agree that dating isn’t what it used to be even 20 years ago. With the rise of hook-up culture, extreme feminism, woke ideology, and a general increase in degeneracy today, it can feel impossible at times to find the right woman, let alone start a relationship with her. My guest today is David Meessen, a dating coach for men, who has helped hundreds of men overcome confidence issues, improve communication, and attract high-value women. Today, David and I talk about the rise in resentment towards women (and how that doesn’t help your cause), why your intent is more important than your tactics when approaching women, how to become verbally agile, showing proof of who you are over your promises, why needs not being met is the single greatest factor in emotional insecurity, and whether it’s better to win over her brain or her heart.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Why dating has gotten MORE difficult Why are many guys afraid to approach beautiful women? Most men care too much and hinder their own self-expression You can’t just talk to the best looking women Dating advice for introverts The scientific difference between introverts and extroverts We need to be diligent and patient when choosing our partner You have to be able to disagree with attractive women The importance of finding someone who is aligned with your most important values Knowing when it is better to separate Some women want a kiss on the first date Men need to communicate their personality effectively on the first date Determine incompatibility as quickly as possible Dating is not a “negotiation”   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/2/20231 hour, 15 minutes, 3 seconds
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Why Every Man Should Start a Business | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE reasons why every man should consider starting a business and some things you should consider when deciding what kind of business to start.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Hedge against risk with current career Make more money Tax benefits Fulfilment Skill development Things to consider when looking to start a business: Look to your strengths: If someone is asking for your advice at something, it’s probably a strength What are you doing when time goes the fastest (Zone of Genius) What would you be doing if money weren’t a concern? Talk to people about what they are doing for a business You have to sell something Implement the feedback   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/28/202333 minutes, 45 seconds
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Using Parkin's Law to Your Advantage, Why Morning Routines Don't Always Cut It, and How Curiosity Wins in Communication | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (6:50) Do you have any insights and tips for speaking more smoothly and naturally when podcasting? (13:20) What practical ways do you find balance, when you are planning, to make sure responsibilities and self growth steps are accounted for while still finding enough buffer time for yourself to avoid burn out? (16:00) When is leisure/relaxation acceptable? (33:25) Is there anything you gentleman do that helps you in the morning to stick on task to your schedule or challenge yourself? (46:15) How do you start to objectively judge and correct your flaws when your inability to do so in the past is the reason it's an issue that hasn't improved? (56:40) What tips or thoughts would you have on smoothing things out and creating more consistency when my ex-wife and I have different approaches to raising our children?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/26/20231 hour, 11 minutes, 39 seconds
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GEORGE FOREMAN | Making the Most of Second Chances

Failure, setbacks, f-ups, and mess ups are all part of life. It’s just part of the human condition. When most people fail, they choose to stay there. But in failure, there is a redemption story in the works…if you’re willing to make it happen. My guest today is intimately familiar with failing and getting back in the fight – both literally and figuratively. His name is George Foreman and everyone is likely familiar with him from being heavyweight champion of the world (twice) to his infamous George Foreman Grill. You may not know the rest of the story. Today, George and I talk about the comeback story, his near-death experience and how it changed him, serving in your community and giving others hope, and making the most of second chances. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Feeling empty despite success Finding contentment by finding God A change of identity Just be present From street fighter to Olympic boxer Overcoming anger Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/25/202324 minutes, 34 seconds
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Satan Wants Men Miserable | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why Satan wants us to be miserable and FIVE strategies men can implement to prepare for this opposition and overcome it.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Realize what’s happening Replace negative activities Surround yourself with men who stand against it Evaluate your day Try again Have a plan   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/21/202325 minutes, 37 seconds
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Delay Your Gratification, How to Involve Yourself in a Public Altercation, and Moving Forward in the Face of Fear | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (6:25) What are some ways to practice delayed gratifications? (20:20) What keeps you going from day to day when your routine toward improvement becomes monotonous? (27:10) Is it ever appropriate to call someone else out in public for being rude to others? (36:00) What experience do you have with fasting? What benefits have you noticed? (42:00) What is the best way to deliver unsolicited feedback in the work setting? (48:40) How do I deal with coworkers having difficult or unruly conversations over chat? (51:00) What are ways to overcome the fear of failure or the unknown after you get over the initial excitement of getting started? (59:30) What are some tools lot maintain calm or composure when your children or spouse wife say or do something that irritates you? (1:04:10) What are some steps to finding homeschool-friendly states with lots of freedom?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/19/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 15 seconds
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BRADY PESOLA | Stoicism and Christianity?

We’ve all heard of Stoicism. But do we really know what it means, how to implement in our lives, and whether or not it conflicts with other doctrine we may ascribe to – mainly Christianity. My guest today, Brady Pesola, and I strive to answer those questions as we discuss the four cardinal virtues of Stoicism – wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance. We also unpack what Stoicism really means (and, contrary to popular belief, it is not the suppression of emotions), how philosophy is the “love of wisdom,” why anxiety is not inherently bad, the power in knowing that others are allowed to feel the way they do, and, ultimately, going to bed a better man than you woke up.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The concept of accountability Accountability with your spouse Anxious vs. avoidant Doing the right thing Stoicism and christianity Put your mind in “reason” Intellectual intent Sometimes we misread situations The importance of context Reason and faith Overcoming the dumb things we say Stoicism and the Bible Listening to the philosophy of others   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/18/20231 hour, 15 minutes, 35 seconds
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Don’t Poison the Well | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of being intentional with the sources of influence we allow into our lives and how allowing the wrong things to “poison the well” can have long-lasting, negative consequences.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Don’t get wrapped up in the noise and nonsense Turn off sources of negativity There is a difference between your emotions and your behavior   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/14/202321 minutes, 37 seconds
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How to Show Yourself Grace, Conflict Between Stoicism and Christianity, and Helping Your Children Overcome Unrealistic Expectations | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (5:30) How do you overcome complacency? (18:30) What are some techniques to gain new client who currently uses a competitor to provide a service? (28:20) Do you believe psychology plays a big role in economics? (38:40) How does one show themself grace? (49:20) How do I have better focus on a task or goal and not overthink? (55:20) How can I best support my son when his mother (my ex-wife) is not being supportive of his activities and interests? (1:07:00) How do you explain to people stoicism and being religious simultaneously?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/12/20231 hour, 17 minutes, 17 seconds
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NICKY BILLOU & WAYNE ALLYN ROOT | The Case for Parallel Economies

With the proliferation of political and cultural ideologies increasingly permeating many of our favorite companies and brands, it’s becoming difficult to justify spending our hard-earned dollars on companies that do not align with our values and actively work against them. But you know as well as I do, boycotting only goes so far and, as soon as the excitement and fervor against these companies wear off, most people go back to spending their money on Budweiser, Disney, Gillette, and Netflix to name a few. My guests today, Nicky Billou and Wayne Allyn Root make the case that not only should people boycott these organizations but create alternatives to compete with these companies and hit them where it hurts – their wallet. Today, we talk about racism and the flawed idea of “reverse racism,” something they call, the “Freedom Scale,” for evaluating organizations that align with conservative values, the line between liberalism and leftism, and the power of parallel economies.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   “Reverse racism” is just “racism” We can no longer not stand up Are we just preaching to the choir Understanding the concept of a “national divorce” Liberal democrat cities are falling apart Building a parallel economy Chinese interference in elections Breaking down the “Freedom Scale” Companies caving to liberal pressure   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/11/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 25 seconds
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Weather the Storm | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses five strategies for overcoming challenging situations and shares how he is currently implementing this system to work through his own challenges.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Accept reality Don’t become immersed in the situation Lengthen the time horizon Surround yourself with people who offer grace and guidance Understand emotions, but don’t let them control you   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/7/202332 minutes, 10 seconds
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Rise of the "Peter Pans," Overcoming Insurmountable Challenges, and How to Comfort Others Correctly | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (3:40) What can we do to combat the rise of “Peter Pans” (i.e., men who are acting like boys and don’t want to grow up) (19:30) How do I reconcile maintaining the relationship with my mentor and not necessarily taking all of their advice? (33:40)) How are you dealing with the “here and now?” What methods are you using on the daily basis to stay on the path? (44:10) How do you draw the line between comforting a loved one after a loss or setback and rewarding less than ideal results? (51:30 Do you have any advice or direction for guys looking for intentional/professional help - therapy or life coach? (1:00:40) What is the best way to handle ultimatums in relationships?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/5/20231 hour, 6 minutes, 14 seconds
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BEN NEWMAN | Elevate Your Standard

We all have standards but for most of us, our standards aren’t where they should be and/or they’re not the type of standards that will lead us toward becoming the type of men we have desire to be. And, yet, each and every day, we operate by these standards most of which is subconscious.   My guest today is an incredible performance coach and while that term gets tossed around a lot these days, Ben Newman is the real deal. In fact, he coaches many Fortune 500 companies, is one of the top 50 public speakers in the world, and has helped lead many college and professional athletes to multiple championships. Today, Ben and I talk about why it’s important you know you’re setting an example to people, how to find what he calls, your “burn,” grabbing your future and bringing it into today, why “your why” is not enough, how to avoid being seduced by success, and, ultimately, how to elevate your standard.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why do we make excuses? We tend to overlook the simple things Be your best one day at a time The importance of coaching You have to do the work if you want to see change The way you do one thing is the way you do everything Be prepared to attack the process Don’t be seduced by success Identifying the right standards Become disciplined, even when you cheat   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/4/20231 hour, 6 minutes, 33 seconds
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What is the Iron Council? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses what the Iron Council is all about and what men should look for when building or finding a band of brothers.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Systems Like-minded men Be around men of courage   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/31/202323 minutes, 25 seconds
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Talking With Your Kids About Suicide, What to do When Things Fall Apart, and Reconciliation With Your Father | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off (8:00) How do you get back on your feet after being betrayed by your ex-wife? (17:30) How do you talk to your kids about suicide? (25:00) Do you have any recommendations for father-son experiences before my son gets married? (27:00) How do you stay motivated when it feels like everything around you is falling apart? (32:00) How do you handle being burned by your church? (40:00) How do you keep the faith and stay the course that God intends for us when it feels like the deck is stacked against us? (42:58) What are some tips on how to find your way and add clarity to your vision? (49:15) How do you repair the relationship with your father when you are the one who wants to repair the relationship but he isn’t willing to?   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/29/20231 hour, 3 minutes, 40 seconds
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OZAN VAROL | Unlock Your Genius

Every single one of us has genius inside of us – some lying dormant for years and even decades. And, with our greatest potential trapped deep beneath the surface of our day-to-day lives, we live as Thoreau famously said, “quiet lives of desperation.” I know from personal experience how difficult and deflating that can be. My guest today, former rocket scientist and law professor, Ozan Varol, is on the podcast today to talk about how to unlock and awaken the genius buried deep within ourselves. We also talk about the power of going what he refers to as “off-menu,” finding more awe in our lives, the death or our former selves and the birth of a new man, why we all need to exercise a bit more skeptical curiosity, and how to become extraordinary men.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Leaving a tenured position in academia If you don’t like the available options, create a new one Know when its time to change course Most people don’t know what they want What served us well in the past won’t necessarily serve us well in the future Don’t get stuck in the self-reflection process Learning from failures Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s end The importance of your inner journey Identifying what makes you unique   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/28/20231 hour, 9 minutes, 3 seconds
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Resilience is the Mark of a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of resilience, in all circumstances, and provides FOUR steps to help men become more resilient.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Accept our role and calling as men (to protect, provide, and preside) Realize that people are watching us “Respond” instead of “react” Recognize that “struggle” is subjective     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/24/202327 minutes, 37 seconds
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Nice Guys and the Friendzone, Teaching Others How to Treat You, and Calling Brothers Out | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (10:40) How can I stop “friending” women because its my comfort zone (16:00) In seasons of challenge, what mindset shifts have happened for you? (27:40) I am talking to a girl and I found out that she masturbates. Should I continue to pursue her? (35:50) How can I help someone with an addiction like alcohol, drugs, or pornography without just telling them that “it’s going to be ok?” (43:10) What is your advice for a kid’s educational pursuits in light of the recent AI revolution? (48:38) What are some ideas to get parents and students interested in competing in martial arts competitions? (57:30) What is the difference between calling a friend forward to be “better” or just minding your own business?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/22/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 10 seconds
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DAVID NURSE | The Life-Changing Power of Taking Action

You already know everything you need to know to achieve your wildest dreams, or at least get on the path to making them a reality. The only question that remains is whether or not you’ll do it. And, that’s a question that has been plaguing millions of men for a very long time – “Will I do what is required to achieve my desires?” My guest today, former NBA player and current NBA mindset coach, David Nurse, has made a life out of teaching elite-level athletes, execs, and high-achievers how to move from knowing to doing. Today, David and I talk about hidden roadblocks that keep us from success, the 9 different action archetypes and how to move past what keeps you back, the formula for your own success mission, finding intrinsic value in the work you do, why he considers, “the masses to be the asses,” how to use negative thoughts to your advantage, and the life-changing power of taking action.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Where to start on the path to taking action We live in an excuse laden society Uncertainty is an opportunity Find your niche to stand out Focus on the process, not the result How does one become “driven” Being content AND ambitious Alignment with God We take care of the things we value Being comfortable in your own skin   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/21/20231 hour, 13 minutes, 4 seconds
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What it Means to Be a Real Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the definition of a “real man” and discusses the 3 key areas where men should focus.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Definition of a man: A real man is an adult male who who is on the path to effectively protect, provide, and preside.   To Protect: A man protects his family, his possessions, and his community Be on the path to health Be on the path to defend   To Provide: Provide for basic needs, but also to provide emotional support and be emotionally stable Be on the path to building skill sets Keep emotions in check   To Preside: Have a vision and communicate that vision Lead by example Get back on the path when you falter   The IRON COUNCIL is now open for a limited time. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/17/202326 minutes, 12 seconds
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Solve Your Own Problems, Sobriety and Ego, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (12:10) How has your relationship with your own ego changed in sobriety? (17:10) Have you ever thought of creating a similar program to the IC for businesses to implement to increase employee satisfaction and productivity? (26:15) When someone close to you is being negatively impacted by their own ego, what’s the best way to get them back on track? (33:20) Have either one of you got dizzy after a intense day of BJJ? (37:40) I see building trust and rapport like a house of cards. When one simple slip seems to crash the whole thing. How do you get the will to start building that house again rather than walking away from the table? (44:18) What are your daily non-negotiables and how do you handle being flexible with them when outside circumstances are impacting your ability to execute on them? (48:20) How would you recommend someone keep moving forward in all areas of their life when one quadrant of life has seasons which require 90 - 100% of their attention? (51:50) What is the most powerful shift in mindset you guys have experienced/embraced in your lives and how has that played out in your lives? Can you offer recommendations on how others could implement these mindsets? (56:50) What is your take on 3 banks folding in the past week?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   The Iron Council is now OPEN, for a limited time: For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/15/20231 hour, 2 minutes, 26 seconds
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DEWAYNE NOEL | Timeless Wisdom in Disturbing Times

It’s been said that there isn’t a whole lot of new information under the sun, just new ways of saying it. I don’t know if that’s necessarily true but one thing I know is that my guest today shares some of the most practical and life-transforming messages out there. And, he does it in a way that cuts through the noise and nonsense of modern times. His name is Dewayne Noel and he is the founder of Dry Creek Wrangler School. Today, Dewayne and I talk about the power of genuineness, building yourself into a person you like, not hate, why the “right to be wrong” is so powerful and liberating, dealing with insecurities, operating in reality, the concept of “cowboy energy,” and other timeless wisdom in disturbing times.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Why a simple, timeless message resonates so strongly Sometimes you have to change how you are sharing the message in order to be effective Change starts with us We have to get to the point where we like ourselves Cost/benefit analysis of relationships in our life Loyalty is not a one-way street Staying loyal to the “idea” of a relationship can be destructive The market determines what is valuable Rodeo energy vs. cowboy energy   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/14/20231 hour, 2 minutes, 59 seconds
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Emotional Intelligence 101 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 strategies that we can use, as men, to recognize and processes our emotions in a healthy and effective way.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Don’t stifle your emotions Understand your emotions by externalizing them (e.g., journalling, talking to people) Express yourself in a healthy way Allow your emotions to serve you Ask how your emotions are serving you   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/10/202321 minutes, 58 seconds
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Gratitude vs. Grinding, Caring for a Sick Spouse, and Dealing with a Narcissistic Father | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man, and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (7:50) Can you provide some time on how to deal with my wife getting too invested in her friends? (14:20) How do you make a judgment call between stability and gratitude for what you have vs the concern you're settling or playing small? (25:40) Do you have any advice for someone who has become a caretaker for their spouse due to cancer? (33:10) What would you personally recommend in dealing with a narcissist father? (40:40) I am torn between having a “man to man” conversation with my new pastor or biting my tongue, out of respect, after he said some insulting things about our church and congregation, where my family has deep roots. (46:00) How do you deal with fighting and picking and bickering between your kids? (55:50) What is/was your stance with the whole mask thing in churches during Covid? (1:04:20) How do we tackle cognitive dissonance?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/8/20231 hour, 12 minutes, 12 seconds
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CHRIS ELISE | Is The American Dream Alive or Dead?

Is the American Dream alive or dead? It’s a question that begs asking but more importantly, how can we each, individually carve out our own piece of it if possible? These are all questions my guest today, Chris Elise, and I address. Chris was born in France and has since become an American citizen following his dreams as a young boy. Today, we talk about channeling anger for productive outcomes, how to develop a personal renewal of faith, why you need to be cautious of betraying yourself, not getting yourself stuck in a bubble, investing in brotherhood, and pursuing your version of the American Dream.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   What is the American Dream? The media pushing a racist narrative across the country We are more similar than different Being involved in change, but not getting caught up in it Walking away from on argument Finding healthy outlets The importance and power of brotherhood Transitioning from photographing the NBA to the PBR Differences between NBA and PBR culture Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/7/20231 hour, 12 minutes, 44 seconds
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Mind Your Tongue | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 tips to help you be more intentional with the words you use to become a more effective communicator.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Know what our intent is with our language (and know our audience) Think about the information you consume Slow down your pace Take inventory of your previous communication Expand your vocabulary   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/3/202322 minutes, 42 seconds
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Finding the Third Alternative, When to Pop the Question, and Establishing Work 2 Home Boundaries | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (5:00) I am currently working in the family business but I do not enjoy it or see a future there. Should I switch industries for an uncertain job and possibly have to move in with my wife’s parents, or should I look for another company and start something on the side where I can use my skills? (11:00) What questions should you ask yourself to determine if you are ready to propose to your girlfriend and move toward marriage? (16:40) How important is it for you to have a partner that challenges you? (25:00) How to encourage our wives to work on their mindset around anxiety and depression without giving the impression that we think there is something wrong with them? (41:00) How do you assess how you are performing in certain areas that are hard to measure? (49:20) I was looking for a woman who is career oriented but found a great girl who has different goals. Am I sacrificing my standard by going out with this girl or is it ok to compromise on this? (54:20) Do you have any book recommendations for a season of transition that isn’t to “heavy” reading? (58:00) Any recommendations for setting boundaries when working from home and trying to be an engaged and involved father? (1:01:40) Is there a happy medium for sacrificing current comfort for future satisfaction? (1:07:20) How should I deal with rumors in the workplace that aren’t true?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/1/20231 hour, 22 minutes, 36 seconds
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IAN WENDT | Become a Man of Conviction

As men, we’re hardwired to look for problems we see with the environment around us. Unfortunately, too few of us are willing to take the next step and do something about the issues we identify. My guest today is not that kind of man. His name is Ian Wendt and he’s taking a stand against some of the most polarizing social issues of the day. Today, Ian and I talk about overcoming the opinions of others, when to compromise and when not to, how excellence is the ultimate rebellion, how a man ought to show up in his community, and, ultimately, becoming a man of conviction.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Why talk about cultural and societal issues Who is trying to divide us? The ultimate agenda of evil is to take away freedom I’ll respect your freedom, you respect mine Have we compromised too much? Many people feel the same way but are afraid to speak up Our abundance is our challenge Don’t give people power over you How men can influence culture Stack little wins every day   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/28/20231 hour, 10 minutes, 9 seconds
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Treat Your Family Like Your Business | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men tend to have an easier time focusing on success in business rather than family and how we can implement some of these “business” systems into our family routine.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Mission statement Meetings Goals Dedicated time Delegation and roles   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/24/202319 minutes, 4 seconds
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Reclaiming Power in Marriage, How to Journal Effectively, and Measuring Productivity | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (10:40) Is there a way to retain information from podcasts and audio books when I do most of my listening while I am driving and cannot take notes in the moment? Or should I just accept it as entertainment? (18:00) How do you track how you spend your time, what you are eating, etc.? (23:40) When my girlfriend informed me that she was pregnant, I reacted poorly. After calming down, I tried to discuss the plan for moving forward but she had already decided to move on from the relationship. I was open to continuing the relationship, but at a minimum want to have a relationship with my son and she is making it very difficult. What is the best way to proceed? (35:00) What key components have you identified to begin a business? What should you do to be successful? (43:20) Are you still attending the Baptist church and what difference have you noticed between the Baptist and Mormon church? (49:20) How much does your faith influence your everyday life and has it grown stronger since you’ve given up alcohol? (52:40) How do you lead your family spiritually? (1:01:40) What are some good questions we can ask ourselves to be more effective with journaling? (1:07:00) After your wife has lost respect for you, can you get it back and how?    
2/22/20231 hour, 15 minutes, 55 seconds
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JOSHUA BROOME | From Pornstar to Patriarch

Pornography is something that negatively impacts millions of men on a daily basis. And, yet, so few of us know what really goes on behind the scenes of the adult entertainment industry. We hear whisperings of the shadiness and degeneracy, but it continues to permeate just about every fabric of society. My guest today is Joshua Broome. He is a former adult film star and even named porn star of the year. He spent 6 years in the industry, before fleeing to find himself, warn others about the dangers of pornography, and the message of Christ. Today, we talk about the manipulation that takes place in the porn industry, overcoming the tremendous guilt from poor decisions, how obedience and discipline create freedom, owning your past, lust versus love, and eliminating “contaminants” from our lives.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   People are realizing how destructive pornography is Lack of appropriate consent in the porn industry Racism and hypocrisy among those who protect the porn industry There is always another choice Push away people who provide accountability Most mens first exposure to porn is accidental How to approach conversations about porn with your kids How to put a porn addiction in the past Strategies for overcoming struggles We need to lead someone, and be led by someone   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/21/20231 hour, 22 minutes, 46 seconds
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This is How I Got Sober | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares the 8 steps that he followed on the path to sobriety.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   The pain must be so great that you feel the need to change You have to confess (with discretion) Accountability Create friction and flow Fill the void Do deep work on yourself to get to the root of the behavior Plan for relapse Celebrate and attach wins to healthy behavior   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/17/202330 minutes, 47 seconds
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Don't Be a Flaccid Jellyfish, Learning to Validate Yourself, and Minding Your Tongue | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (10:40) How can I talk to others about my own struggles with alcohol without referring to myself as an alcoholic and wrapping my identity around that label? (15:00) How do we maintain our masculine frame with our wives, while still being humble and kind? (33:30) Do you have advice for starting over in a career and being the best I can be? As well as advice for moving my family across the country? (39:00) Are there things you would advocate not sharing with your spouse or partner? (45:20) Describe the difference between today’s Ryan and the Ryan from 6 months ago. (51:00) What do you do when your managers don’t communicate with you until there is a problem and every idea that you pitch them is always answered with a no? (1:00:00) What are some ways to come up with a business name? (1:04:40) How do you not take things personally? For example, when an employee leaves my company. And how can I make sure that more employees don’t leave? (1:12:30) A lot of times guys are looking for a woman who is “like a bro.” Is this a sign of immaturity and what are those men missing out on?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/15/20231 hour, 18 minutes, 5 seconds
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STEVEN PRESSFIELD | Put Your Ass Where Your Heart Wants to Be

All of us have dreams and ambitions but too few of us are willing to act towards those desires. And, even if we are, it’s easy to get derailed, distracted, and side-tracked. My guest today is one of my favorite authors on the planet. His name is Steven Pressfield. He’s the author of The War of Art, Gates of Fire, The Legend of Bagger Vance, and his newest book, a memoir about his life filled with ups and downs, Govt Cheese. Today, we talk about infusing soul into our work (including a rebuke of AI technology, ChatGPT), the drive to “make the kill,” good versus bad shame, noble obstacles, why being stuck is often a good sign, and putting your ass where your heart wants to be.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Other people resonate when we share our own stories Is ChatGPT and Artificial Intelligence evil? Pushing through challenges Writing provides peace of mind and satisfaction Reverence for the writing process Receiving inspiration from another force God vs. the Muse vs. the Universe We need to develop the “skills of the instrument” Developing the skill to finish what you start Harnessing shame to achieve results How to overcome “feeling stuck” The answer is always action   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/14/20231 hour, 11 minutes, 51 seconds
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Vulnerability is Pointless Without This... | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares SIX steps to ensure that you are being “vulnerable” in an appropriate and effective way, through taking ACTION.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Evaluate two things before you share a vulnerability: a) who are you telling and b) why are you telling them   Be objective in identifying your weaknesses Get to the root of the issue Have an emotionally charged reason for improvement Talk with people who have gone through the same issues Build in systems and support Have a recovery strategy   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/10/202332 minutes, 25 seconds
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Seeking Support from Your Tribe, Dealing with Insecurities, and Getting Over a Breakup | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (3:40) What are your thoughts on overcoming the shame cycle that you can experience when struggling with a habit you want to kick or a limiting belief you hold? (15:30) Not a question but a best practice that has been impactful for bring my wife closer to me: If your spouse is a 'Words of Affirmation' partner (5 Love Languages), buy some small cards & write notes about why you love and appreciate them & hide them around the house for her to find at a later time. This has been a wonderful way for me to express my love to my wife and a nice surprise for her when she stumbles upon them. (19:30) How do you get support and feedback from your tribe of men on deep private issues in your relationship while respecting the privacy of your girlfriend/wife and not exposing her personal stuff? (28:00) I've read extreme ownership and the follow up book is on my book list, but what are some leadership courses or programs that you would recommend? (33:30) How do you maintain your frame with your spouse, but at the same time, being humble and patient and kind. (45:40) If you choose to put a man in your circle and he makes a mistake, is it your responsibility to hear him out? (52:00) What would you say is your biggest insecurity or insecurities that you’re working on? (58:50) How do you get over a breakup where you sacrificed everything for that person?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/8/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 29 seconds
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CONNOR BEATON | Acquainted with Our Anger

Anger issues are something a lot of us, as men, deal with – more than would like to admit. And, while most of us are pretty good at disguising our anger, frustration, and resentment, all too often, it’s lying just under the surface ready to expose itself to some unexpecting victim – usually the ones we love most. I’m joined by my friend, Connor Beaton, author of his newest book Men’s Work: A Practical Guide to Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, and Find Freedom. Today, we discuss what he calls “dysregulated” or erratic behavior and how to reign it in, overcoming the shadow of our fathers, the danger of self-abusive relationships, and why and how we need to become acquainted with our anger.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   How to get the most out of yourself We are often the ones standing in our own way Understanding your anger Its ok to take care of yourself We don’t need to try to solve people’s problems Building a healthy relationship with Anger What is hidden in the father will be revealed in the son You can’t be a rock when you are searching for the approval of others Men must develop the skill of self-validation The role of God and faith Four steps for working through anger   Get Conner’s book, Men’s Work, at the link below: Mantalks.com/book   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/7/20231 hour, 16 minutes, 34 seconds
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Your Father’s Secrets Speak in You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares three simple steps to ensure that the legacy we pass on to our sons and daughters is a legacy that we desire and can be proud of.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Work on the relationship you have with your father Work on yourself Work with your children   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/3/202320 minutes, 47 seconds
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Action Does Not Equal Prudence, Integrating The Heart and Mind, and Knowing Your Shadow | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group and Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Episode Intro (13:00) How do we save our young men and can you paint the picture of the world we live in if we don’t? (27:20) How do you sift through the huge pile of self help for men and dial in what works best for you? (32:00) What are some ways to stay motivated and maintain discipline? (37:50) what tactics do you use to maintain a healthy mindset? (41:00) Name something from your youth that is not well known but still affects you today. How does it play into your daily life? (42:40) what is the best way to be a leader when starting at a new company? (50:00) How do you define good income in today’s economy? (55:40) How important is it to have men in your corner when you are going through hardship? (59:20) How can I bring what I teach to my school health classes to more kids? (1:03:40) How do you convince your family to create a plan for when things get bad? (1:08:20) How do you get your heart to catch up to your head? (1:12:00) How do you reconcile the dichotomy of having people you look up to and seeing them deal with their own struggles?      Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/1/20231 hour, 22 minutes, 24 seconds
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MICHAEL HYATT | Success Starts with Your Thinking

Our mind is the most powerful thing we can control. And, yet, if you’re anything like me, you don’t spend nearly enough time training the mind to produce the results you desire. In fact, if things don’t seem to be working well in my life, I tend to be a man who just goes even harder hoping I can drive right through the problems I’m dealing with. Instead, my guest today, Michael Hyatt, makes the case that the stories and narratives (often subconscious) in our minds actually dictate much of the results we experience. So, today, we dive deep into how to retrain the mind to draft stories that serve us rather than hurt us, the value of listening to the “narrator” of your life, why we should all really listen to the language we’re using, how to interrogate the stories of your life, and create a new, fundamental sense of identity.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The story we tell ourselves impacts the results we achieve Separating facts from the meaning we assign How to determine if your stories are serving you Understanding the “narrator” in your head Correlation doesn’t equal causation Mindset can change your physiological response Lead ourselves well before we can lead others well The impact of labeling ourselves Strategies for changing your thinking   Pick up Michal Hyatt’s book here: mindyourmindsetbook.com   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/31/20231 hour, 5 minutes, 33 seconds
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Discipline is Overrated | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a five-part framework for how you can implement systems and processes to supplement discipline and motivation to help you produce the results you desire.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Get crystal clear about what you want (Spiritual, mental, emotional health; Relationships; Physical health; Financial) Reverse engineer the process Flow and friction Reward your behavior, not the result Critique your performance and track everything Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/27/202332 minutes, 29 seconds
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Check Your Hormones, Where 'Red Pill' Goes Wrong, and How to Attract Women | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (4:30) How can we have standards but no expectations?   (12:40) What kind of rights of passage can I do with my daughters?    (17:30) I work out 5-6 times a week, drink plenty of water throughout the day, and am very intentional about what I eat. Additionally I get about 7 hours of sleep a night on average. Caffeine intake isn’t insanely high, but I do drink a cup of coffee in the morning and in the afternoon after lunch. That said, I still tend to get pretty tired throughout the day. Any tips on maintaining better energy levels? Maybe some things that work well for you?   (20:40) I have had mentors for most of my life, but occasionally I unplug and get off track a bit. How can I stay plugged in and on the right path?   (30:00) Between Jiu-Jitsu, weight training, and cardio, I am always sore. Will this pain every go away or is this just the cost of trying to get/stay in shape?   (36:00) What is the one thing, or several things, that have surprised you most about your sobriety?   (42:40) Have you seen or heard of some other sources around the internet that promote to help young men?   (52:00) As a single man 28 years old man with no kids and never married what would be your advice on how to prepare for a family and the right woman?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/25/202357 minutes, 57 seconds
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BRETT BARTHOLOMEW | Leading Through Chess, Not Checkers

We all want to lead. But not all of us can do so. Not right now but that doesn’t mean we aren’t capable of  becoming the leader we desire to be. My guest today is Brett Bartholomew, a word-class performance coach and he is going to share exactly how we can begin to lead in our families, businesses, and communities more effectively. Today, we talk about six driving factors of individuals, the four main communication styles and how to use the effectively, how power, influence, and manipulation can be wielded for good, the use of “referent power,” and how leaders play chess, not checkers. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Commitment and compliance Tailoring your communication and messaging Building teams with different personality types The baseline of communication is misunderstanding Some people are just interested in making you the enemy Impression management is a form of communication Messages have to be repeated Selective and strategic self-disclosure   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/24/20231 hour, 1 minute, 57 seconds
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Goal Planning That Actually Works | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a four-part framework to help you establish, monitor, and achieve your goals.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Don’t start with goals - start with your vision Start looking at your objectives (focus on four key areas: calibration, connections, condition, contribution) Establish your daily tactics Set your checkpoints   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/20/202323 minutes, 42 seconds
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Overcoming Perfectionism, Tips for Building Habits, and Advice for a Young Dad | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (1:00) I have perfectionist tendencies. Even as I write this I have erased it three times and 30 times in my head. I know what I need to do but if the circumstances are not perfect I don’t do it. Any suggestions on how to change this? (19:20) What is the best tip or tool you have for building good habits? (24:40) For training jiu jitsu, would you recommend doing barbell training or kettlebell training? (29:00) What tactics do you both use and suggest other men use to discern between truth from error in your life? (44:00) Do you agree with the statement “your wife is the CEO of your household and you’re the CFO”? (49:00) How can you maintain forward momentum in a family unit when your spouse refuses to focus on the family and put her career above us? (1:00:50) How do I start finding a dream/goal when I’m having a really hard time finding a purpose? (1:11:00) What are a few things that you wish you would have known as a young father AND what advice would you give a younger version of yourself as a young dad?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/18/20231 hour, 15 minutes, 40 seconds
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DANNY BOLTON | Tapping Back Into Our Primal Nature

As young boys, the world is quite literally our playground. It seems so full of questions waiting to be answered and mysterious places to discover and explore. It’s in our nature to run, jump, play and unlock the secrets that call to us. Then, as we become men, we lose a lot of the natural curiosity and desire to traverse the world around us. The world around us often become more like a jail cell than the playground we remember of our youth. My guest today is a man who has not lost a bit of the curiosity and excitement of his youth. If anything, he has cultivated it. His name is Danny Bolton. Today, you’re going to hear how to recapture that magic. We talk about how hesitation hurts us, a man’s need to play, creating an enemy to fight against, the analogy of the wolf, sheep, and sheep herder, the power of being ready for anything, and how to tap back into our primal nature.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Taking the life of an animal in the most humane and efficient way possible Letting out your “animal” side How to get started expressing your wild side Some stress is great, but we stress about too much Do we need to have some type of “enemy” to confront We tend to choose the path of least resistance Considering risk in the decision making process Underestimating risk in the moment Pressure of performing/shooting around other people   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/17/20231 hour, 12 minutes, 10 seconds
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Work/Life Balance Vs. Work/Life Integration | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SIX keys to effectively navigating work/life integration.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   There is no change of “hats” Get your family involved in business - Be involved with your family Explain what you are doing at work on a daily basis Create healthy boundaries Stick to your commitments Build a business (create a side hustle)   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/13/202325 minutes, 36 seconds
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Setting Faith-Based Goals, Competing with Yourself vs. Others, and Dating Challenges | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on the hottest questions of the week. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (5:40) Do you have a faith based goal for 2023? If so how are you choosing to measure this in order to manage it and show progress in an area that sometimes is based more off of feeling or, when tangibly measured, can seem like action without faith?   (19:05) What are your thoughts on compassion fatigue, and what to do to revitalize my passion for mentoring others?   (32:38) I have been seeing someone for 3 months now and we've said we want to be official but she has some bad bf history that is keeping her from doing so (her words). We've had a conversation about it and she has communicated that she's still concerned that i may have some red flags she hasn't seen yet and wont take the next step. It seems the longer she doesn't find something the more certain she is they exist. Most of what she has said she wants seem like what you develop over a year or more relationship.  I have been patient as I have dealt with similar stuff myself but I am struggling to not feel the consistent "no not yet" as a form of rejection. its getting to the point that Im losing interest despite her being a wonderful woman with great communication. What can I/we do to work through this before I completely walk away?   (41:10) How do y’all balance the mindsets of competing with yesterday’s version of yourself and competing with others? Do y’all think that these mindsets are at odds with one another or complimentary?   (50:00) How do you disengage from all social media, when most of your friends and family live out of state, and you buy and sell things on FB marketplace all the time?   (55:15) I’m dating a girl, she told me there is another guy she has been dating longer she is might be getting serious with. I told her I didn't really care about her and what other guys are doing - that I am going to keep asking her out as long as I'm single, interested, and she is available. What's your suggestion for keeping my mind off the competition and focused on us?   (1:03:05) I would like to hear more on raising daughters. My oldest is a girl, nearly 11, and my wife and I struggle with how to handle her exposure to things that she isn’t ready for yet. We homeschool her and she is very bright but we’ve caught her on websites that she shouldn’t be on and she has been calling things sexist etc. she doesn’t fully grasp what some of these things mean but I am starting to have deeper conversations with her and my wife on a regular basis. Any other tips would be great!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/11/20231 hour, 16 minutes, 36 seconds
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SETEMA GALI | Set the Standard

Every single day, we’re faced with choices that will either help or hinder us and move us closer to our goals and desires or further away. What we decide in those moments will determine our ultimate results. And, if we’re not satisfied with our current reality, it’s safe to assume that we made choices that did not serve us well. Today I’m joined by former NFL Super Bowl Champion and Results Coach, Setema Gali to talk about these choices. We also cover the power of decisiveness, making certain that our priorities don’t merely get the leftovers, the level of commitment required to thrive and win, the positive benefits of guilt and shame, the dangers of false humility, and the trap of self-martyrdom and victimization.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Setting the standard for your kids Need to balance discipline with letting your kids be kids The importance of establishing clear agreements with your family Family values Building champs instead of chumps We can experience emotion without it becoming our identity What we focus on most is who we become Conflicting thoughts about money and morals Our commitment alters everything We’re not victims, we get to choose Empower yourself by taking responsibility   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/10/20231 hour, 7 minutes, 7 seconds
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What 5 Months of Sobriety Has Taught Me | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares the challenges he faced through his struggle with alcoholism and lessons he has learned during last five months of sobriety.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   You reach rock bottom when you stop digging I have a lot of emotions inside that I was not aware of I was really good at hiding it I realize that I am pretty incredible (what could I do with an extra 3 or 4 hours in a day?) Alcohol does not make me a better person, or a better anything People appreciate transparent leadership Trust is easy to destroy and much harder to rebuild Your course of action will change when the pain of the current reality that you put yourself in is greater than the struggle of change I’ve allowed the spirit of God back in my life   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/6/202328 minutes, 7 seconds
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Overcoming Alcoholism, Regaining Control of Emotions, and Manipulative Communication | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (7:00) What is your greatest achievement of 2022 and what did you fail to achieve? (26:00) Do you believe that perfection is unattainable as a martial artist? (33:20) What advice would you give for someone trying to rebuild financially after a rough year in 2022? (38:20) What is one thing that guys should be paying attention to in 2023, but are most likely not? (40:00) Do you have any advice on when to say no versus when to enjoy the moment with loved ones? (45:50) What are you going to do to make the Iron Council better in 2023? (47:30) Were there any moments in 2022 where you were reactive and wish you had been proactive? What lessons did you learn from the experience? (53:50) As the OOM has grown, has it become what you had envisioned or has that vision evolved?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/4/20231 hour, 45 seconds
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JOHNNY LORETI | Fitness as the Foundation of Success

Let’s kick off the New Year with a discussion on physical health. It seems like such a popular subject around this time of year with New Year’s Resolutions so hopefully we can get you pointed in the right direction and keep on the path for the entirety of 2023. Today, I’m joined by my personal fitness coach, Johnny Loreti to talk about the myth of over-training, key metrics to track in developing strength and overall health, the power of resistance training and progressive overload, differences between simply “working out” and “training,” and fitness as the foundation of success.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   It’s ok to “auto regulate” but don’t use it as an excuse to be lazy How to incorporate progressive overload Finding enjoyment in the gym It’s ok to be motivated by something silly, if it works The differences and training goals Sometimes hard work can compensate for inefficiency How to get started with fitness in the new year The importance of the aesthetic side effect of fitness The difference between “working out” and “training”   Join the Iron Council brotherhood   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/3/20231 hour, 11 minutes, 7 seconds
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5 Biggest Lessons Learned in 2022 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE of the top lessons learned in 2022.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Remain vigilant in all things I have an addictive personality Have a heart of service Get better at enlisting the health of other people Work on processing deep emotional baggage   Join the Iron Council brotherhood   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/30/202224 minutes, 34 seconds
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Target Fixation, Why Finding Purpose Doesn't Work, and Love Through Service and Sacrifice | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (7:20) Can you provide tips for transitioning from a peer to a supervisor/foreman in a construction job? (13:20) Can you share some insights for how to keep men accountable as we move into the new year? (31:40) How long does the Iron Council “Forge” approval process take? (32:50) How do we keep a positive mindset in the world that we currently live in? (40:00) How do you hold on to your faith in God when horrible things happen in your life? (54:00) What is your favorite move in jiu-jitsu and what are you working on right now? (1:01:20) What are some ways to teach your kids that Christmas is about more than just the presents? (1:04:00) How do I start having a dream or goal?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/28/20221 hour, 14 minutes, 8 seconds
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SHAWN RYAN | Do Something About It

It’s easy to get caught up in complaining without moving into the next logical step – solutions. Let’s be honest, there is a lot to complain about in today’s cultural and political climate. But unless we’re willing to do something about the injustices we see in society, complaining is nothing more than empty gestures and platitudes. It was Plato who said, “The price good men pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men.” Today, I’m joined by former Navy SEAL and cultural podcast host, Shawn Ryan. We talk about why politics and entertainment seem to be more about creating controversy than anything else, the hypocrisy in elected officials on both sides of the aisle, the impending danger of an open US border and Chinese globalization, raising kids in positivity, and why instead of simply complaining, we must be willing and able to do something about it.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Outrage culture Hypocrisy coming out of the conservative side Switching party as a publicity stunt The race to win artificial intelligence Contributing to the solution The biggest problem our country is facing The country needs someone to bring it together The possibility of getting involved in politics People need to take responsibility for raising their own kids Don’t just complain, do something     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/27/20221 hour, 10 minutes, 13 seconds
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The Path to Emotional Sovereignty | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE keys to recapturing control of your emotions and why that is so important.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Realize that you have inherent worth because you are a human You are responsible for your own emotions Confidence is earned Begin to objectify your emotions Dial in your physical health   Join the Iron Council brotherhood   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/23/202233 minutes, 17 seconds
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Happiness Vs. Fulfillment, Preserving Traditions, and Redirecting Anxiety Effectively | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (8:30) What is your favorite Christmas tradition? Why is it valuable to have traditions in your life? (16:00) What are your plans and projections for 2023? (18:20) What do you teach your son when he comes home with his first busted lip? (22:00) Do you ever get inspired for a podcast topic from a comment that is made in the Facebook group? (24:00) How do we rectify philosophy and rational thought with the new age idea of fulfillment? (32:00) Any tips on how to keep myself from stressing out too much when dealing with medical uncertainties regarding my son? (39:30) After being hurt by previous social/church groups, who disbanded during COVID, I no longer want to participate in these types of groups. We have moved to a new location and my wife wants me to get involved in or start new groups.  How should I deal with this? (49:00) How do I create resilience in my 3-year-old daughter? (56:00) Did you battle imposter syndrome on your journey to success? (1:08:50) What advice should I give my son when he only seems to care about working, drinking and camping? Should I care or just let him take care of his own life?   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/21/20221 hour, 15 minutes, 39 seconds
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NICK BARE | Forward Thinking, Backward Planning

Men, as you’re thinking about your New Year’s Resolutions, it’s easy to become trapped in day-dreaming . So many men look forward to what they want to accomplish but rarely do they calculate the plan to achieve their objectives and, most importantly, take the actions necessary. Today, I am joined by former Army Ranger and founder of Bare Performance Nutrition, Nick Bare. We discuss removing ego from the equation, looking at life as a series of “sprints,” managing expectations with important people in your life, keeping yourself from becoming resentful and callused towards others, and the power of “forward thinking and backward planning.”   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Men bond over working hard Getting started now The importance of having a vision for your business, family, and life The importance of delegation in a growing business Finding your identity outside of your business Backward planning your legacy Getting buy-in from your wife when you are “sprinting” in the business Why fitness is non-negotiable Considering how your goals can impact others Building mass and running Is there a time when enough is enough   Join the Iron Council brotherhood   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/20/20221 hour, 10 minutes, 29 seconds
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Where to Start on Your Self-Development Journey | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE tactics that you can implement right now to start down the path toward self improvement.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Exercise Find a hobby Journal Organization Have other men in your corner   Join the Iron Council brotherhood   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/16/202227 minutes, 14 seconds
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Steadfast in the Faith, Is Your Wife Worthy of You, and Battling Demons | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement - and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (3:00) What are your thoughts on men using emojis? (5:20) Can you speak about why some men are seeing marriage as a less attractive lifestyle option? (10:20) How has homeschooling changed for your son, Brecken, as he has entered his teenage years? (12:50) What are some milestones and “rite of passage” moments men can implement for teenage boys? (18:00) What practical tactics do you use to fight demons that you may face? (22:30) Have you competed in a BJJ tournament or do you plan to compete at some point? (23:15) How do you maintain a religious practice when most people in my life are not believers and ridicule my Catholic faith? (29:30) How does one communicate about a problematic action that is directly affecting the person and oneself? (36:50) What are your thoughts on “spiritual bypassing?” (42:00) What are your thoughts on hiring friends and family?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/14/202252 minutes, 46 seconds
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NICK KOUMALATSOS | Become a Warrior in the Garden

I think it’s safe to assume that if you’re listening to this podcast, you’re a man who is interested in becoming a more capable man. Unfortunately, the men who have come before us have, in a lot of ways, made it possible for us not to have to step up the way we as men ought to – as “savage servants.”   Today, I am joined by Nick Koumalatsos – a former member of Marine Reconnaissance – to talk about what it means to be a “Savage Servant.” We also discuss physical fitness as the foundation of what it means to be a man, why we must fabricate struggle, positive programming, and personal growth through humility.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   We don’t have to make the mistakes of our parents Gaining vision for your life at a young age Balance between a giving your kids a better life and fabricating challenges Sons generally look like their father Positive programming with your sons We need to put effort into our kids Moving past judgment of others Humility is being a savage servant If you prepare, you are less likely to need it Our foundational anchor is physical fitness and health   The Iron Council opens up for new members December 15.  Sign up here.   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/13/20221 hour, 9 minutes, 20 seconds
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What to Do When Things Don’t Go Your Way | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler takes on topics from the Order of Man Facebook Group, including handling failure and responding when things don’t go your way.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   How to build a workout habit when working a job with varying hours How to deal with family during the holidays How to handle failure and when things don’t go your way Manage expectations - life is going to throw you curveballs Get your mind right Get around people that live the life that you’re after Understand that it will take time     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/9/202222 minutes, 53 seconds
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Overcoming Alcoholism, the Relationship Between Time Management and Stress, and Responsibility as a Tool for Growth | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to the top questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (9:00) How present does a father need to be in order to be impactful? (18:30) How do I balance stress of being a father, working a very time-consuming job, and pursing my passion of getting into politics? (22:00) Can you recommend some resources to help me grow in self-confidence? (25:20) What have you learned about how stress management and time management correlate in business and life? (32:00) How do I know I am making the right move for my family when I am making a decision that will improve the situation for my immediate family, but will also distance my wife from her extended family, which is very important to her? (44:30) What was the biggest challenge, outside of alcohol, to get you to 4 months of sobriety? (52:40) How do we help friends and family in their struggles with alcohol or sobriety? (1:05:00) Do you find it difficult to give yourself grace?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/7/20221 hour, 20 minutes, 18 seconds
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GRANGER SMITH | Finding Faith and Hope in God

Finding our sense of worth as men can be an extremely daunting task. We’re often led to believe that if we say just the right things, do all the things we should be doing, and achieve the success society has deemed appropriate, we’ll find what we’re looking for.   Unfortunately, many of us are left with a sense of emptiness in spite of our worldly success. My guest today is my good friend Granger Smith. Today, we tackle a conversation we really haven’t had on the podcast as we talk about self-worth, the danger in the “love yourself” message, why cultural Christianity doesn’t cut it, feeling like a fraud, and ultimately finding faith and hope in God.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Do things that are intrinsically meaningful Determining when enough is enough How to take the power away from critics The problem with superficial, cultural Christianity We are only worthy through God Why does suffering exist? We need challenges and hardship to refine us Sometimes “self-help” isn’t enough Always moving forward We need to stop thinking about ourselves first     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/6/20221 hour, 11 minutes
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Kill Self-Sabotage | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR strategies to help you overcome the tendency to self-sabotage.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Why do we self-sabotage? We tend to choose the path of least resistance We have a lot of insecurities as men   How do we self-sabotage? We rest on our laurels We consciously or subconsciously undermine our efforts   How do we KILL self-sabotage? We have to make mindset shifts Use goal planning as a starting point Sometimes you just have to throw a wrench in the system Spend time around people and programs that get you to think about life differently     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/2/202227 minutes, 51 seconds
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Bloom Where You're Planted Before You Take on the World, Principled-Based Living, and The Criteria for Finding a Church | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to the top questions of the week. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (1:30) Bloom where you’ve been planted or go forth and change the world? (8:00) Do you have any thoughts on finding and retaining good team members for my construction business? (14:20) What are you guys focusing on in Jiu Jitsu right now? (23:40) Do you think you still start putting on a father-daughter event? (23:30) How important is it to have a morning and nightly routine? Would you share what you do for your routines? (30:00) What criteria do you have for getting involved with a church? (33:00) What can we do to start making tough people as soon as possible? (37:00) What are some ideas for a side hustle while I am a full-time seminary student? (41:52) How can you take time to relax and focus on family in between the grinds of work and life? (45:40) Do you have any tips for me and my daughter as we prepare to start a podcast together? (48:20) How do you deal with having one son who has chosen an activity that you are also interested in, while another son has not shown interest in anything yet, without showing favoritism? (52:20) My family does a monthly call to stay in touch but it is growing stale.  How do I start trying to change it so that it can be more valuable than it is now?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/30/202256 minutes, 10 seconds
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KEITH YACKEY | The 5 Dials to a Powerful Marriage

Marriage is one of the most challenging yet rewarding pursuits for a man. Unfortunately, very few of us have ever been taught how to successfully navigate the dynamics between men and women. And, all too often, it leads to headache, heartbreak, and divorce. Today, I’m joined by marriage expert Keith Yackey to talk about these dynamics and how to successfully build a long and thriving marriage. We talk about the ROI (return of intimacy) in marriage, how a man gains his power back after giving it away, the “mommy matrix,” why seeking her validation will backfire, and the 5 dials of a powerhouse marriage.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Thriving in business vs thriving in marriage Five dials that help men measure effectiveness Women want you to be a good parent Women want you to be her partner Women want you to be a producer Women want you to have fun Women want you to do what you say you’re going to do, when you say you’re going to do it Become the guy that any woman would be thrilled to be with   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/29/20221 hour, 11 minutes, 59 seconds
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How to Build Male Friendships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE strategies to build and strengthen your friendships with other men.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Know what you want Improve yourself Go where these men are Add value to other men Continue to nurture the relationship   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/25/202218 minutes, 56 seconds
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Progress Over Perfection, Replacing a Full-Time Job, and Humility Over Arrogance | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (3:15) When everything feels like it's falling apart and you feel like giving up, how do you push through it? (13:30) How can you build confidence in yourself after taking a major blow, such as an unwanted divorce? (18:00) After shooting the biggest whitetail buck of my life, how do I maintain my sense of pride and stay modest about what I’ve accomplished and not let the jealously of people make me feel guilty? (22:00) Why don’t more men share mental health struggles and provide support for each other versus leaving each to fight a battle on their own? (26:10) How do you overcome complacency? (27:40) Is there a pathway you or Kipp recommend for working toward quitting my job? What some considerations, other than money, that I should be aware of? (32:30) In your opinion, is journaling worth it?  (37:00) How are you helping your children to be gritty when their lives are actually significantly more comfortable than your life was growing up? (40:20) How do we balance striving for excellence without being crippled by the ideal or perfect? Any tips for overcoming the obstacle of perfection so we can improve? Or is this a false dichotomy? Is there a way to pursue perfection without falling into inaction? (50:20) How to combat intense social anxiety?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/23/202253 minutes, 18 seconds
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EDDIE PENNEY | Kill the Fear, Live Life Unafraid

Fear is something that all of us have to deal with. Yet, too many men allow their fears to cripple them from what otherwise could be an incredibly meaningful life. Today, I’m joined by former Navy SEAL, Eddie Penney to talk about why fear drives too many of our life decisions. We discuss hitting rock bottom and crawling out, the compound effect of small and simple tasks that lead to big results, the distinction between “fault” and “responsibility,” the power of therapy, overcoming means of sedation, and living life unafraid.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Cutting out alcohol Exploring the “value” in vulnerability Therapy as a proactive measure Accepting and coping with PTSD Letting your kids see your weaknesses Its ok to change your mind and your opinion The journey to faith Everyone could do their small part Hitting rock bottom   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/22/20221 hour, 5 minutes, 54 seconds
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Overcome Your Anger | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses a 3-part framework that men can use to overcome anger.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   1. Get to the root of why we are angry (who, what, when, where, why, how) Who are you angry with? What is happening when you are angry? What time of day is it happening? What is my environment like? How do you express your anger? 2. Learn to deal with anger in healthy ways Journal Margin (take a breather) Exercise 3. Learn to express yourself in a healthy way   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/18/202224 minutes, 44 seconds
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Being Amicable with Your Ex, How Proactivity Sets You up for Success, and How You Know You're Following God’s Path | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (4:00) What is your opinion on the use of crossbows during archery season? (8:20) What are some activities I can give a group of boys to scratch the primal itch without being destructive or dangerous? (13:30) Where do I draw the line between extreme ownership and letting go, as management has continued to add responsibilities to my plate with the departure of other staff? (22:30) In your separation with the wife, did you encounter a lot of negative comments and lack of support from your friends? (27:00) In a difficult circumstance, how do you prepare to be uncomfortable but not struggling? (37:10) With today’s economy and interest rates, what are your thoughts on buying a house right now and refinancing after rates go down or waiting for things to turn around? (40:20) How do you build in margin in a service-based business? 5050 From a faith perspective, when at a crossroads or facing a tough decision, ow do you know you are acting out God’s plan? (1:00:24) What are some strategies for dealing with groups or activities that brought you joy in the past but now you are finding them monotonous or less engaging?   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/16/20221 hour, 4 minutes, 47 seconds
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SATHIYA SAM | Breaking Pornography Addiction for Good

Serious pornography addiction is something millions and millions of men are currently dealing with. Many of these men know their addiction has gotten out of hand and yet they cannot seem to find a way to break the shackles of pornography. My guest today has worked with thousands of men over the last 4 years to finally overcome their destructive addiction once and for all. His name is Sathiya Sam and today we talk about the three greatest obstacles to overcoming addiction, how viewing pornography is often a symptom of a deeper problem, why safety, intimacy, and significance lie at the root of this addiction, why traditional methods of overcoming pornography don’t work, and 3 pillars every man needs to establish if he hopes to finally free himself from porn.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The barrier to entry to watch porn is much lower today Behavior changes that indicate an addiction How unmet needs can lead to viewing pornography Usually the side effects of masturbation are more negative than positive Negatively rewiring the brain through watching porn The downside of counting streaks Ability to focus and sit in silence is a super power in todays society The importance of having a trusted person Using journaling and reflection to understand your thoughts and feelings Confession to yourself and others is an important step   Grab your FREE copy of The Last Relapse   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/15/20221 hour, 3 minutes, 19 seconds
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Mindsets of Masculine Leadership | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR mindsets that will help men lead more effectively.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Overcome the ease of modernity Don’t be a superhero Lead before the title Render yourself obsolete   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/11/202218 minutes, 23 seconds
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TIM TEBOW | Overcoming Shame and Finding Your Significance

Joining me back on the podcast today for this bonus episodes and one of my favorite guests of all-time is Tim Tebow. We talk a lot about what plagues so many men and keeps them from progressing – guilt, shame, and remorse for past actions. We also cover how healthy competition drives productive performance, not losing focus of the mission in pursuit of the mission, what responsibility really means and how to exercise it, and finding your own sense of worth, value, and significance.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Channeling your competitive drive Reconciling between making money and helping others Responsibility means “able to respond” How to find your sense of worth The importance of having purpose in your life The power of “interruptible” moments Encouraging others with small acts and words   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Order Tim's new book, Mission Possible One-Year Devotional.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/10/202241 minutes, 47 seconds
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Big Vision and Small Actions, Boundaries for Infidelity, and Being a Lighthouse Versus a Tugboat | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group and Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (5:45) When starting your business, how big was your vision for how large it would become? Were you immediately focused on the big picture (office’s all over the country) or more focused on creating an excellent single office with processes that were scalable? (16:40) As a leader, what is the best way to tell an employee that they need to get their shit together? (23:00 What boundaries do you suggest a spouse should put in place after infidelity? (31:00) With the holidays approaching, what should realistic expectations be for spending time with family? What is a healthy amount of time to give to others? (39:40) What are some recommendations for how a city boy can become proficient in archery and get out and hunt? (51:30) My girlfriend just left me…should I have a vision that is more focused on myself or should I keep my vision focused on family and others? (56:26) What is your best way to confront your competition in a challenge when you notice that they are competing out of integrity? (1:02:30) What is your position on self-awareness assessments, such as the Clifton Strengths assessment?     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/9/20221 hour, 9 minutes, 52 seconds
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LARRY HAGNER | Creating Psychological Safety

Psychological safety. It’s not something that we think a whole lot about even though we talk a lot about a man’s innate desire to protect those he’s closest to. But when it comes to the mental and emotional security of our loved ones, we often fall short. My guest today is my good friend Larry Hagner who is the founder of the Dad Edge and Dad Edge Podcast. Today, Larry and I talk about powerful communication strategies with our wife and kids, how crucial climate is when it comes to communicating effectively, how curiosity serves as a powerful lubricant for improving our conversations, and how to effectively create psychological safety for our loved ones to open up to us.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Men know what we need to do, but need to learn the tactics to do it 80% of men want to create a better marriage Developing emotional maturity in the home How do you know how you are coming across to your kids? Different kids, different personalities The power of genuine curiosity Receiving feedback from your wife does not make you a doormat   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/8/202257 minutes, 14 seconds
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Effort Without Expectation | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explains why it is important to put forth effort without expectations getting in the way, and provides four steps to help you stay on track and avoid these faulty expectations.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Why it is important: There are unforeseen events in life Other people have a say in the matter Often we have faulty timelines   How to keep yourself in the game: Lengthen out the timeline for the things you want to achieve Focus on the process, not the objective Take a look at the past (see how far you’ve come) Invest in yourself (hire coaches and mentors)     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/4/202217 minutes, 40 seconds
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Focus for 2023, Identifying Manly Virtues, and Balancing Self with Family | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (10:00) As we near the end of 2022, what is your theme going into 2023 that you will base your Battle Plans off of? What is one big goal you have for next year that everything will work towards? (25:30) What are some important manly virtues? (40:00) What's YOUR biggest takeaway from Fight Club? (47:00) What’s the biggest thing you’ve let go of that significantly improved your life? (59:00) Can you provide some tips on balancing children/family schedules with your own routines and “self care” or health schedules.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/2/20221 hour, 8 minutes, 46 seconds
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RICK TRIMMER | One Foot in Front of the Other

Failures, victories, challenges, setbacks, ups and downs, and everything in between. They’re all part of life. It’s how we frame the rollercoaster of events and what we do about them that make us men. Today, I’m joined by longtime friend, serial entrepreneur, hunter, husband, and father, Rick Trimmer to talk about some of his biggest challenges and how he’s learned to overcome the adversity to create an incredible life for himself and family. We cover the path of least resistance and the path of most resistance, overcoming failure and losing everything, doing the right thing because it’s the right thing to do, and putting one foot in front of the other every day.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Why men have trouble going deep into relationships The power of genuine curiosity You need to keep pushing through challenging times Achieving your goals doesn’t happen overnight Getting through life minute by minute Sometimes its appropriate to feel ashamed Helping other men learn from your mistakes Finding purpose in the absence of religion Being a “stay at home dad” Showing gratitude to those who support you   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/1/20221 hour, 22 minutes, 32 seconds
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Fail on Your Feet | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a FIVE part framework to help men respond to failure and quickly get back in the game.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   When things go wrong, stop the behavior and stop flailing around Orient yourself toward what you want Change your priorities and adapt your behaviors Enlist the resources you need Take calculated, precise, consistent action     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/28/202212 minutes, 48 seconds
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Building Authority and Influence, Leading Through Adversity, and Overcoming Anger | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions live from the 3rd annual Order of Man Maine Event, held earlier this month. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:00) How much passion do you need in your quarterly battle plan vision? (6:12) How does a man build authority and influence as an employee, with no formal leadership position? (12:44) How do you get your parents to “want” to be the type of grandparents who are engaged with your kids? (18:46) How do I transition from the fast-paced activities of my business each day to a mode that is appropriate for family time at home in the evening? (29:40) What is the vision for Order of Man for the next few years? (38:10) When do you know that you’ve put enough effort in to helping someone and you now need to step back and let them figure things out themselves? (44:20) How do I execute my duties as a son, with a mother dealing with dementia, without letting it impact my ability to show up for my wife and daughter? (54:00) What are some practical ways that men can work to initiate our sons and boys in the community to become real men? (58:40) How do you know how far to step and what doors to go through when multiple opportunities are presented? (1:07:20) What is your advice for men who feel they have no substance underneath their superficial traits or titles? (1:15:00) What are some strategies for overcoming anger issues? Specifically when it is directed at family members?   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/26/20221 hour, 24 minutes, 41 seconds
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JONATHAN GILLIAM | Sheep No More

With as much craziness and violence we see in public these days, it’s crucial that we as men learn how to effectively protect and defend ourselves and those we love. Fortunately, with a little intentionality and planning it’s not all that difficult to keep ourselves and others safe. Today, I’m joined by Former Navy SEAL, FBI Agent, and Federal Air Marshall, Jonathan Gilliam to talk about how to do just that. We cover the concept of preparation versus paranoia, the default of awareness, when to get involved in situations and when not to, the “crawl, walk, run” theory, and recognizing and neutralizing threats before they occur.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The difference between paranoia and preparation The danger of complacency Know God before you can achieve anything Groupthink is rampant and out of control Evil thoughts are often emotional and not logical   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/25/202252 minutes, 17 seconds
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Develop the "Let's Find Out" Mentality | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES [REPLAY]

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from October 2021, Ryan Michler discusses why men should move from a “What If?” mindset to a “Let’s Find Out” mindset.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   What opportunities have you already missed by playing safe? Your situation is no different than the people you see as successful The worse case scenario is usually not as bad as you fear Don’t just play ‘not to lose’         Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/21/202218 minutes, 7 seconds
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Reconciling after Separation, Knowing When to Move On, and How to Coach Mindset Change in Others | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement.  Tune in NEXT WEEK for a special Ask Me Anything that was recorded during this year’s Maine Event. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:30) What are some things that you did or wish you have done to prepare yourself for fatherhood? (4:50) What books do you recommend for a man going through a separation with his wife, but both are hoping to reconcile? (14:50) Can you share some thoughts on how to get through a loss of a family member? (19:40) What are your top ways to invest in your company to generate more cash flow? (23:00) Do you have any recommendations to help me get through the initial shock of realizing that I have a long way to go, on the path to personal improvement, so I can continue doing what I know I need to do? (27:00) What are some markers that you use to know when it is time to part ways with an organization? (32:30) What are your thoughts on how the Maine Event and your recent moose hunt went? (34:00) What do you do to stay organized in business and in life? (36:30) What is your plan to beat your kids next year at Tug of War? What does that workout plan look like? Are you ok emotionally after that loss? (39:00) What is the best way to increase net worth? (41:50) How do I coach team members to change their mindset and embrace a culture of adaptability? (46:00) Have you ever considered creating or selling a challenge coin for the Order of Man or Iron Council?     For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/19/202249 minutes, 34 seconds
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BRECKEN MICHLER | The Adventure of a Lifetime (Our Moose Hunting Story)

Hunting is not only something that provides a challenge and sustains life for many of us, as it has for countless generations.  But it also provides unique and powerful opportunities to build bonds between those with whom we share these experiences.  Last week, I had the opportunity to share such an experience with my son, Brecken, as we set out on a moose hunt in the wilderness of northern Maine.   On today’s episode, Brecken and I share the story of how we harvested a beautiful bull moose in an epic hunt, filled with disappointments, missed shots, but ultimately success…and how the greatest success of all had nothing to do with hunting.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Drawing the lucky moose tag Getting settled into camp The moose habitat in Maine Early opportunities in the hunt Success on the last day Team effort to bring down the beast The highlight of the trip had nothing to do with hunting   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/18/202245 minutes, 46 seconds
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Become a Force Multiplier | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE steps that men can implement to break away from the lone wolf mentality and use resources and relationships to become a force multiplier.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Drop your ego Empower others Render yourself obsolete Observe people’s strengths Create systems in your life   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/14/202217 minutes, 12 seconds
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Writing Your Vision, Roles in Your Marriage, and Open Dialogue in Organizations | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (3:10) What advice do you have for people writing their first vision statement/ battle planner? How do we tap into that inner version of ourselves to find out what our true motivators are? (20:00) How should you structure the responsibilities between husband and wife?  (32:00) What is the best way to recruit new members for the Iron Council? (37:30) What is the best way to organize a local meet up? (39:10) Can you share your thoughts on both the Legacy and Maine Event? (54:30) Is it important for leadership to have open and timely dialogue with team members? What's an effective way to do this when your team is 100+ members?     For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/12/20221 hour, 4 minutes, 18 seconds
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BRIAN KILMEADE | An Overdose of Information

With as much information available to us this day and age, it’s hard to decipher which information to consume and which we should be listening to in the first place. Everywhere we turn, we’re inundated with sensational headlines designed to capture our eyeballs, not necessarily keep us informed. Today, I’m joined by TV and Radio host and political commentator on Fox News, Brian Kilmeade. We cover a wide range of topics including the shifting of the Overton Window in media, the course correction America needs, how to determine which information is worth pursuing, what role the American citizen plays in this, the overdose of information we’re all dealing with.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Predictions for who is running in the next presidential election The evolving role of a newscaster The shifting Overton window regarding gender issues The United States is a self-correcting country Deciding what issues to address Building a team and establishing loyalty Gathering information from diverse sources Balancing independence and tradition with your kids   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/11/202242 minutes, 48 seconds
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The Masculinity Manifesto | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the key themes of his new book, The Masculinity Manifesto, and discusses why these concepts are so important to all of us as men.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   What makes a man a man? Mindsets of masculine leadership Harnessing masculinity for productive outcomes Living like a man   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/7/202214 minutes, 40 seconds
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Work Life Integration, Balance is a Verb, and Parenting Step-Children | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:30) Are there plans to translate the podcast to other languages? (5:40) How do my wife and I get on the same page with parenting techniques? (14:20) What are your thoughts on purchasing and financing a vehicle? (21:00) For battle planning, what quadrant do you focus on to build your business and career? (33:30) Besides marriage and kids, what were the most meaningful moments of your life? (37:00) Are your thoughts on daycare the same as public school?   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/5/202239 minutes, 40 seconds
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ELI CRANE | Power vs. Principle

It seems like it’s political month around here but with the mid-terms coming up, I think it’s important that we discuss some of these crucial political topics that impact us, our families, and our communities so much. I’m joined today by former Navy SEAL and Congressional Candidate, Eli Crane, to talk about why it's crucial men have at least some interest in politics, how courage in you breeds courage in others, the collapse of some of our most predominant social institutions, the concept of ideological subversion, and the need for principle over power in our elected officials.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Responding to the needs of the nation How much can one person do? Motivated by principle vs. motivated by power The importance of staying engaged The military becoming a social experiment Complacency in voting The power vacuum will always be filled Every one of us can do something   Join the Iron Council.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/4/202256 minutes, 21 seconds
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Find Your Outlet | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of finding a healthy outlet and FOUR factors we should consider when choosing the best option.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Must be stimulating to you Should be physical Should be convenient Needs to be challenging   Order Ryan’s new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Join the Iron Council.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/30/202213 minutes, 50 seconds
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You Keep What You Defend, Boundaries for Work-Life Balance, and Getting Out of Your Box | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (6:00) What’s your thoughts on the current FBI raids on conservative/Christian men? (7:40) How do you know when you should leave a steady pay check for your own business? (12:00) What would be some tactics we could use to expand or move beyond this box (constructed of our previous experiences) if the current situation that we find ourselves in, while not ideal, has put us in a better position than anything we have yet to experience? (25:00) How can I help my kids overcome new fears, which have surfaced after separating from my wife? (30:40) How do you build a group of men around you that goes deeper than surface level? (36:00) What, if any, resources do you suggest for talking to son about sex? (41:00) Have you considered expanding the Order of Man into any other areas? E.g. OoM shooting ranges, OoM BJJ Academies, OoM Hunting Classes, or anything else along those lines. (44:50) How do I balance being a present father, fiancé and working, while also trying to take care of myself in order to take better care of my family? (48:40) How does this quote from John, relate to what you offered those who attended the Legacy event? Eldredge says “Boyhood Above all else, is a time of being the beloved son, the apple of your father’s eye. A time of affirmation. For though I maintain my premise laid out in Wild at Heart—that every man shares the same core Question, which is “Do I have what it takes?”— Before and beneath that Question in a man’s search for validation lies a deeper need—to know that he is prized, delighted in, that he is the beloved son.”   Join the Iron Council.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/28/202253 minutes, 10 seconds
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DAN CRENSHAW | Politics vs. Policy

Anytime you mention the word, “politics,” you know you’re in for a charged and polarizing conversation but it’s crucial we talk more about politics and the policy that comes with it because it impacts every facet of our lives.   My guest today, Congressman Dan Crenshaw, joins me to talk about the key issues impacting culture and society today including a healthy approach to reaching across the aisle, why it’s important for conservatives to have a voice in what we typically view as liberal issues, not only the far left but the far right – something he calls, “woke conservatism,” the importance of humility and open-mindedness, and distinguishing between politics and policy.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Prioritizing in politics The downside of rank contrarianism Pursuing rational environmentalism Red flag laws and gun control Men’s tendency to gravitate toward negative information Lack of critical thinking and humility in America Negative consequences of playing around with politics We don’t need another AOC Victimhood is seen as an attribute in society   Join the Iron Council.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/27/202245 minutes, 26 seconds
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Rebuild and Remake Yourself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES [REPLAY]

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from September 2021, Ryan Michler discusses how to find opportunity through hardship.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Start thinking about the long term - what/who are you going to create? What do you need in order to make it a reality - who do you need to become? Start formulating plan - what is your strategy for getting there? Get to work.    Join the Iron Council.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/23/202216 minutes, 5 seconds
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Should You Share Your Goals, Avoiding Burnout, and Christianity and Masculinity | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (1:30) Is there a balance between sharing your goals and telling everyone your business? (6:30) Do you see a greater demand for Christians to be emboldened and stand for Christian values? (16:00) How can I combat burnout as a new dad, going to school and working overnight? (34:00) What martial art would you recommend for someone with vertigo? (37:00) What are some business lessons you wish you could tell your “year one” self? (44:40) What challenges have you seen once you’ve found success?   Join the Iron Council.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/21/202250 minutes, 48 seconds
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ED MYLETT | The Power of One More

All of us want to be happy and successful and, yet, for many of us it seems so far away or so hard, if not impossible, to obtain. But my guest today, the one and only Ed Mylett, makes the case in his newest book, The Power of One More, that what we ultimately desire is not all that far away at all but perhaps just one more decision, step, conversation, or action away. Today, Ed and I talk about how to develop that mindset, why being “rich” does not necessarily equal having money, the difference between confidence and arrogance, why it’s crucial we identify our value systems, the power of equanimity, pursuing progress, and taking inventory of our lives.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Its easy for men to get discouraged Arrogance vs healthy confidence Don’t attach your identify to the external Knowing the line between serving others and serving yourself Can anger serve us? Learning how to channel your emotions An awareness of a challenge helps it lose its power over you The ultimate confirmation does not come from a human being Pursuing progress, not perfection Reframe what it means to miss things with your kids Sometimes you need to be “creatively present”   Join the Iron Council.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/20/20221 hour, 6 minutes, 31 seconds
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Do You Have Men in Your Corner? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive men and what to look for when forming these relationships.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   They should be successful (in the areas where you want to be successful) They need to have a shared value or belief system They must be open to discussing these ideas There has to be some process or system in place They must be willing to be honest and bold with you   Join the Iron Council.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/16/202224 minutes, 7 seconds
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Tactical Communication, Advice for First-Time Fathers, and Why You Should Stop Talking About Yourself | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (1:50) How do you have a serious conversation with someone who has a tendency to run from them? (12:50) What advice and insight would you give to a soon-to-be father? Is there anything you would have done differently? (18:10) How do you regulate how much time you spend in conversation with others? (24:20) What advice do you have for guiding teens through social media when they have pressure from their friends? (29:30) Do you have any tips for how I can navigate my first year in a new job with a new company that lacks structure and systems? (42:00) What can I do to have an impact on the young men in my family?   Join the Iron Council   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/14/202246 minutes, 11 seconds
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ERIC THOMAS | Ignite Your Power and Purpose

I think most of us believe there is a reason we’re here on this planet. But I personally know how hard it can be to uncover and discover the reason that is. It seems daunting considering how easily we can become consumed with trivial matters and the distractions of modern culture and society. But my guest today, Eric Thomas (AKA, The Hip Hop Preacher), has been helping millions of people around the world ignite their power and purpose. Today, ET and I talk about overcoming the “passive boy,” becoming more of who you are – not a clone of someone else, why you don’t need the world to approve to succeed, the battle between the “two you’s,” and finding immense opportunity in crisis.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Criticism often reflects one’s own insecurity Getting what we want isn’t necessarily getting what we need Learning from others rather than being them Know what self-actualization means to you Having a relationship with God You need both God and money Taking personal responsibility for your life   Join the Iron Council   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/13/202258 minutes, 58 seconds
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How Much Do You Believe in Yourself? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES [REPLAY]

Belief in oneself is a powerful component but often neglected. In today’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from May 2021, Ryan Michler explains where belief comes from, how to develop belief, the importance of believing in yourself, why men are needed, and more.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - Where belief comes from - How to develop belief  - Believing in yourself - Why men are needed   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/9/202222 minutes, 3 seconds
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The Power of Conviction, Handling Conflict, and Struggling with Communication | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Drew Kachurak take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (5:30) What state were you in when you started in the Iron Council and where are you now? (12:00) What would you do regain the passion for something you’ve lost due to your own greed, selfishness or laziness? (20:30) What factor have you seen that makes the difference between someone succeeding with their goals, battle plan, etc. and them failing? (29:30) What strategies do you use when you feel overwhelmed with more to do than you have time? (32:20) My friend has been thinking about starting a business idea for a few years. This business is like a second side to the business that I run right now. Would it be inappropriate if I begin doing this business because I have the funds and time to do it, while he doesn’t? Or would I be stepping on his toes and negatively affecting our friendship by doing this? (36:30) What are some ways to make the most of being a stay-at-home dad and overcoming the stigma that goes with it? (39:00) What do you do if you are struggling to move on from a crisis, even after the danger has passed? (45:00) If you could only have one piece of equipment to work out with, what would it be? (45:50) How do you safely handle conflict at work, online, or at home? (50:00) While working to expand my business/brand, I can’t always be there holding hands. What is your first move with creating an environment to have employees that generate revenue when you or one of your managers is not around to keep that momentum and that expectation high? (58:50) How do you talk about Toxic Masculinity when other people believe it’s a real thing? (1:08:30) How do you deal with a mother-in-law who is very opinionated about everything in your wife’s life? Do you set boundaries or do you let your wife set the boundaries? (1:10:00) What is the resolution for raising a child who has been spoiled? (1:14:30) How can I better communicate my feelings, ideas, wants, and information?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/7/20221 hour, 22 minutes, 56 seconds
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JONATHAN ISAAC | Becoming Bold as Lions

Most of us would like to believe that in a moment we are called to make a stand on our principles, we would do it without hesitation. But can we say for certain we would act in accordance with what we believe when confronted with the risk of social alienation, ostracization from our friends and family, potential loss of a job, and the financial insecurity that comes with it?   That’s exactly what my guest, NBA star Jonathan Isaac, had to deal with when he decided to stand for the National Anthem when all of his teammates took a knee during the height of the Black Lives Matter movement and the George Floyd case. Today, we talk about his decision to do so, why people place labels on and attempt to dehumanize others, facing your fears by walking with Christ, the power of social media and group think, and becoming bold as lions.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Choosing to make a stand Loving each other the way that God loves us Highly emotional situations require restraint Hypocrisy in the faith Racism is cured by a change in someones heart The message often gets lost in a protest When God’s plan doesn’t align with our plan Staying in your lane while being authentic to yourself   Membership in the Iron Council will be opening soon.  Join the waitlist here.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/6/20221 hour, 47 seconds
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Learn to Let Go | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the important of recognizing when we need to let go…and some techniques for making it happen.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Recognize that we don’t have as much control as we think we do Often the need to control is rooted in lack of self-worth and self-confidence Remember to check in on your brothers   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/2/202218 minutes, 54 seconds
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Battling Mediocrity, Making a Career Change, and The Biggest Issue in this Country | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:00) What is the meaning of life? (4:30) When does the “Order of Woman” start up? (5:00) What techniques or advice do you have to let things go and not be so stressed about little things? (11:30) What part does corporate ecology play in restructuring one's life toward better goals? What is the most essential underlying principle in building that ecology? (16:00) For men on the fence about joining the Iron Council, would you give them a breakdown? Would you not want us sharing anything in particular prior to a man taking action and joining? (18:30) What are some things you might consider when looking at a career change into public service, such as becoming a fire fighter or police officer? (21:00) I’d like to know your experience with battling mediocrity when you are on an upward trajectory and those you love around you are content being average despite your outstanding example. When it’s not easy to walk away because it’s someone that you love and want the best for. (29:20) Can you provide some tips or suggestions on how to make yourself more valuable in the marketplace so you can level up and make more money when your don’t have much skills or education to lean back on, nor any money to pay for a course or guru to learn something new? (33:00) What do you think is the biggest problem our country is facing? (38:05) Can you please provide some techniques you use to project a positive energy (especially when you are cranking on tasks around the house)? How do you catch yourself if you are projecting frustration/stress?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.  
8/31/202243 minutes
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JP DINNELL | Pray and Work with Intent

Last week, at Origin Immersion Camp, I had the opportunity to sit down with my good friend, former Navy SEAL, and director of experiential leadership training programs for Echelon Front, JP Dinnell. We didn’t have a lot of time but we got into some subjects that him and I have never discussed before and I know you’re going to get a ton of value from We talk about the relationship between trust and influence, allowing the people you lead to come up with solutions to their own problems, why you need to avoid creating dependency from others and how to do that, the concept of working, “up and out,” teaching how to think vs. what to think, and how to pray and work with intent.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Leading others means giving them ownership Teaching people how to think, not what to think Rendering yourself obsolete Submitting yourself fully to God Using discipline to overcome problems   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/30/202244 minutes, 35 seconds
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Check In on Your Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of checking in on the men in your life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Take an inventory of the important people in your life. Ask how things are going. Don’t accept “ok” for an answer if you know that’s not true.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/26/20228 minutes, 27 seconds
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Self-Discipline vs. Self-Sabotage, Is Jiu-Jitsu or Muay Thai Better, and Dealing with Young Children and No Money | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (8:20) When should I consider expanding beyond BJJ into Muay Thai or Boxing? And which would be the best to start with? (11:40) What two questions would you ask to get the most information about who a person is? (20:20) If you could interview any person, dead or alive, who would it be? (21:30) From a financial perspective, is it better to buy a home now or rent in the current economy? (24:00) Can you talk about the financial considerations to be aware of when raising kids? (28:50) What principles and concepts can be applied to improve at BJJ? (38:40) What are some examples of tactics for connection and calibration? How are they measured? (45:00) I am really into Muay Thai, what am I missing by not training BJJ? (50:00) How do you get back into BJJ after an injury has kept you away for months? (56:20) How do I balance between self-discipline and being too hard on myself when I don’t follow through on my expectations? (1:06:00) Have you seen people be successful raising kids from a second marriage when both parents have kids from a previous marriage?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/24/20221 hour, 17 minutes, 55 seconds
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JOHN KIM | Solid Self vs. Pseudo Self

I’ve spent a ton of time over the past several weeks really contemplating my performance and how I’m showing up both personally and professionally for my family, friends, and those of you who tune into what we’re doing here with Order of Man. It’s been a lot of time of self-reflection and, as challenging as it can be and has been in the past, it’s been therapeutic and helped me get back on the path I want to travel. And, speaking of therapeutic, my guest today is John Kim, AKA The Angry Therapist. Today, we talk about the differences between liking and loving yourself and which is better to strive for, why we have to be careful of stamping ourselves as failures, how to uncover false beliefs burned in our subconscious, the power of identifying our value systems, and how to move away from the “pseudo self” to the “solid self.”   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Men respond, boys react The value in believing in something greater than yourself Relationships require a lot of work Differing perspectives on “my truth” How we can keep from hitting rock bottom Being authentic vs. being a jerk Defining the meaning of success Outlining common “false beliefs” about ourselves Defining your sense of worth   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/23/20221 hour, 9 minutes, 44 seconds
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Balance is a Verb | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the actions men should take on a daily basis to balance what is important.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Know your objective and priority Evaluate (Ask yourself, “Does this feel right?”)   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/19/202217 minutes, 41 seconds
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When to Call BS, Overcoming Discouragement, and Staying Effective Despite Trauma | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (3:00) When is the appropriate time to call someone out on their bullshit? (15:30) What is the best way to help and encourage the wife into healthy eating habits and consistently working out? (23:40) How do you overcome discouragement? (36:30) How do you take notes when listening to something without losing track of what's being said/presented? (44:30) When trying to set specific goals in the battle planning process, what is a good example for when there's not something quantifiable about the goal like improving your relationship with your wife or God? (55:00) How do you implement new priorities in your life? What is the best way to evaluate progress in these areas? (1:03:00) How do you overcome the discouragement that has dominated your life for decades? (1:04:20) How do men show up as strong fathers when battling with their own childhood trauma and/or Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder? (1:18:00) Is it worth pursing an MBA for financial/career gains when my goal is to start my own business and be out of the corporate world in the next 10 years? (1:21:00) What are your thoughts on Krav Maga?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/17/20221 hour, 23 minutes, 3 seconds
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FRANK SCHWARTZ | Dangerous, Dirty, and Difficult

One of the greatest challenges we face as men is finding a like-minded band of brothers we can rely on when needed and we can serve as they need us. In the ease of modernity, we’ve been led to believe we can and have to go at life alone. That just isn’t the case. My guest today is the President of F3 Nation, whom a lot of you are familiar with. His name is Frank Schwartz and he goes by the nickname, “Dark Helmet.” Today, Frank and I talk about the power of fitness, fellowship, and faith in a man’s life, overcoming the feeling of dissatisfaction, becoming a high-impact man, our desperation for love and recognition (yes, even in men), and the positive benefits of engaging in dangerous, dirty, and difficult pursuits.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Helping men find their mission Providing structure to men through fitness Strengthening the relationship with yourself, others, and your creator What the church is supposed to feel like Leading in a decentralized organization The importance of strong yet simple culture What our world presents as true is often wrong   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/16/20221 hour, 1 minute, 42 seconds
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The Power of Internal Validation | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SIX strategies to help men move away from seeking validation from others and focusing on pursuing validation internally.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Carve out time and recognize your flaws Formulate a detailed plan Just do it - execute the plan Congratulate yourself Commit to consistency Serve other people   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/12/202224 minutes, 2 seconds
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Developing Emotional Intelligence, Rebuilding Intimacy, and Serving People Effectively | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:33) How much more than the “cost of living per year” should a family strive to earn? (12:15) How do you define emotional intelligence and how would you increase it? (19:00) How do I encourage my wife to have a hard conversation with her family without stepping in and creating unwanted tension between myself and her parents? (23:30) What things do you think people are overspending on and what are some things that people should cut out of their life to save money? (26:20) When will you guys attend one of Tim Kennedy’s Sheepdog Response courses? (29:00) How much should a man enable the influence of other men over his children without relinquishing sovereignty? (36:30) What does intimacy mean to you? (42:00) What would you do as a high-performer when family and friends around you aren’t performing to their potential? (50:00) What is the best way to deal with lying from our kids? (59:00) Have either of you dealt with the “falling out of love” phase in a marriage? How have you handled it?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/10/20221 hour, 2 minutes, 2 seconds
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KIRK CAMERON | Becoming Men of Faith and Character

You know as well as I do all the cultural dangers ourselves, families, and communities are presented with. And, as much as we’d like to pin it on some politician or outside factor beyond our control, the bigger issue is that the greatest threat is ourselves and our unwillingness to face the challenges that we see. My guest today is Kirk Cameron. He is an actor and is most well-known for his character, Mike Seaver on the 80’s hit sitcom, Growing Pains. Today, Kirk and I talk about what he dubs the “moral meat grinder,” why direction is more important that perfection, the power of divine intervention and guidance, the deconstruction of society, and how to become a man of faith and character.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Being an anomaly in Hollywood Finding God and taking a different path We have good reason to have great faith in God Selecting the right projects Moving from defense to offense in culture One person partnered with God can change history Embracing the unknown risk We need to be conduits that bring heaven to earth We are listening to messages from people who shouldn’t matter to us Leaning into your purpose   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/9/202256 minutes, 54 seconds
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If You’re Going Through Hell | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from May 2021, Ryan Michler shares 7 strategies to help when life has you down. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.     SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Strategy #1: Get your ass out of bed Strategy #2: Put the right information in your mind Strategy #3: Get around good people Strategy #4: Get exercise your body Strategy #5: Make yourself the project Strategy #6: Commit to a cause Strategy #7: Serve other people   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/5/202224 minutes, 35 seconds
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Staying on the Path After Loss, Overcoming Procrastination, and Pushing Past Complacency | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (3:00) How do I evaluate if my church denomination is teaching the truth? If I disagree with some tenets, should I keep looking until I find the “right” church? (11:20) When dealing with loss that has taken me off the path, how do I get some traction again when all I want to do is self medicate with food? (30:20) With regard to Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, do you find your game and skill develops faster if you’re focusing on a particular aspect of your training (be it a particular position, or submission) for the session? Or do you find a more broad, “lets just roll & see what happens” approach to work better for you? (40:40) Is it possible to be the husband and father I want to be while being absent often because of my military service? (44:00) Can you provide some advice to help people accept where they are right now? How can they find the next step? (49:00) How have you personally observed learning about Jesus can help you grow in manliness? (52:00) How can I overcome being a procrastinator? When do you know when it’s time to say “enough” when (59:30) it comes to personal goals and success?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/3/20221 hour, 14 minutes, 3 seconds
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PETE ROBERTS | Unlocking American Potential

We’ve all begun to see the writing on the wall as it pertains to the loss in American manufacturing and the damage to the American supply chain. Continually, we have experienced losing jobs, harder to find items from toilet paper and baby formula to increasing concerns over Taiwan’s domination over the semiconductor market, and increasing costs for everyday goods and services.   My guest today is a man who is doing something about it. His name is Pete Roberts and he is the founder of OriginUSA which has dedicated itself to making all of their goods and products in America by Americans. Today, we talk about ever-changing market dynamics and how to stay ahead of the curve, why it’s crucial we honor our past manufacturing heritage, building what Pete calls, a “blockchain of manufacturing,” the power of the “blue collar mindset,” and fully unlocking American Potential.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Understanding market dynamics People are realizing that they need to harden up Dealing with overwhelm and distraction Building up block chain manufacturing We need to be prepared for China We have to be savage about bringing back manufacturing and knowledge Predicting the non-tangibles in the market Scraping the good from the past and applying it to the future Doing things for internal validation   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/2/20221 hour, 15 minutes, 28 seconds
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Dust Yourself Off, Get Back on the Path | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE strategies to help men get back on the path when the inevitable challenges arise.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Acknowledge that something is wrong Get better at saying no Protect your time and your schedule Have systems in place and get better at delegation Take care of your sleep, nutrition, and exercise   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/29/202229 minutes, 22 seconds
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Creating a Unified Front, Finding a Calling Greater than Ourselves, and Building Men’s Groups in the Church | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from across the internet.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (32:20) Can you provide more information on the concept of undermining your wife? (40:40) What is the best way that we can create a space for open communication with our family, wife, business, etc? How do you help someone who struggles with communication? (50:40) What would be your approach to a church men’s group that isn’t working out? (59:30) What is the best way to deal with toxic people? How do you tell the difference between someone who is joking and someone who is being disrespectful?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/27/20221 hour, 10 minutes, 45 seconds
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DR. WARREN FARRELL | The Dangers of Dad-Deprivation

I think whether you’re willing to acknowledge it or not, we are most definitely facing a crisis of our young men. From incarceration and suicide rates, to substance abuse issues, to failing and lagging societal metrics, it’s safe (and, extremely tragic) to say that our boys are fighting an uphill battle. My guest today is Dr. Warren Farrell, the author of The Boy Crisis and many other books written to explore society from the lens of both women and men. Today, we talk about the dangers of lacking structure and purpose, how the “dad-style” vs. the “mom-style” of parenting actually creates awareness and empathy, how dopamine secretion and other physiological responses assist boys and men in doing the right thing, and the dangers and destructive results of “dad-deprivation.”   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Having the skillsets to be able to confront and to be compassionate Discussing the best way to measure success Teaching children to be empathetic Why social skills are so important for boys Fathers are critical in teaching postponed gratification How boys benefit from a mother’s involvement Is it possible to “have it all” in career and parenting success How single moms can get male involvement   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/26/20221 hour, 17 minutes, 34 seconds
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How to Father Our Daughters | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE strategies to help fathers more effectively parent our daughters.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   We have to exemplify manliness Surround her with feminine women Teach her self-defense and situational awareness Help her to be independent Show her that she has value   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/22/202227 minutes, 24 seconds
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The Proximity Principle, Freedom and Human Worth, and Balance is a Verb | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on this week’s top questions from Instagram.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (12:30) How do you continue to find the motivation to be the man you need to be after setbacks? (27:00) As you go about your day, when you are encountering God, are there moments that you are overcome with love and gratitude for the life that you are living thanks to Him? (34:00) What has been the biggest struggle you have encountered in fatherhood? (38:40) What is the most painful thing that you hear parents complaining about regarding their children? (42:10) How do we address the issue of nihilism that we run into while searching for meaning? (53:30) Do you have any injury prevention tips for training jiu-jitsu for the first time? (59:00) What are your thoughts on the mechanics (i.e., structure) of accountability?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/20/20221 hour, 9 minutes, 10 seconds
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KING RANDALL | Character Makes the Man

So many of us talk a big game when it comes to helping future generations of boys become the men their families, friends, and communities need them to be. And, yet, so few are willing to do much about it other than cleverly-crafted platitudes.   My guest today is different. His name is King Randall and he is a man that is actually doing something about leading in his community and helping the young men who don’t have the same opportunities that many of us did. Today, we talk about what it takes to build a prep school for boys, the motto and mission of, “Let us Make Men,” how he got over asking for money and what it looks like to build a 501c3 organization, the pros and cons of being young, and how it’s character that makes the man.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Focusing on consistency and transparency Receiving pushback from the start Advantages and disadvantages of building an organization at a young age Teaching kids how to use social media as a business tool, not entertainment Private funding vs. government funding Training boys in non-traditional skills and sports   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/19/20221 hour, 7 minutes, 34 seconds
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Close Your Integrity Gap | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how being out of integrity is keeping you from reaching your goals and provides FIVE keys to help you close the integrity gap.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Consistency is key Have people in your corner Celebrate incremental wins Start serving other people Evolve   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/15/202229 minutes, 50 seconds
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Why You Need to Be Different, The True Meaning of Vulnerability, and Finding the Courage to Live Fully | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from Instagram.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (25:00) What are you both most excited about? (Not including the Order of Man) (28:10) How did you manage your time and tasks when your kids were younger? (33:30) Should I quit my full time job to start farming with my family and do something I really enjoy, or take the safe and easy road with an 8-hour a day job and good benefits? How do I find the courage to take the leap? (42:30) How do I show my ex that I want “us” and I am better in a way that is confident and aggressive, but respectful and not needy? (51:00) How do you think the modern church is failing as it pertains to serving the needs of men? (55:20) In the context of marriage, how do you deal with “false ownership” from your wife? (1:00:00) How do you get better at listening to your own intuition?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/13/20221 hour, 7 minutes, 37 seconds
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ANDY FRISELLA | Get Better Until You Die

As men, we all look around and see the problems that exist in society. But very few of us are willing to objectively look at what’s going on in our culture relative to the lesson we should have learned from examples throughout history. Couple that with our inability and/or lack of desire to improve our own situations and circumstances and it makes a recipe for disaster. My guest today is my close personal friend, Andy Frisella, and today we talk about his shift away from the MFCEO podcast to the RealAF podcast, why we need to be cognizant of the convenience vs. efficiency, learning to push the envelope, the obligation to evolve, and how you can adopt the “get better until you die,” mentality.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Building efficiencies in your life Keep your struggles and challenges in context Balancing quality of life with making more money We are being indoctrinated to settle for less Shifting from MFCEO to the Real AF podcast We are starting to outsmart the false media narratives America is designed to be a free society We can change the culture in one year   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/12/20221 hour, 10 minutes, 11 seconds
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Hearts of the Fathers to the Children, Hearts of the Children to Their Fathers | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of the father/son relationship and breaks down four characteristics that men should focus on the strengthen this relationship.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Sanctity Service Sacrifice Solidarity   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/8/202241 minutes, 42 seconds
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How to Develop the “It” Factor, Building Generational Wealth, and Asserting Yourself with Others | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (4:30) How do you deal with toxic or overbearing grandparents when dealing with your kids? (19:40) What traits does a man need to develop in order for the people he encounters to feel like he has the “it” factor? (36:00) Do you suggest I journal to improve in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu? (49:00) How do you build generational wealth? (1:05:00) What tips do you have for sticking to a healthy diet?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/6/20221 hour, 15 minutes, 11 seconds
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DARREN WOODSON | If You Want It, Earn It

I think most of us would agree that society is increasingly moving toward towards the “entitled mentality.” Everywhere we turn people gripe about what they want, why they’re entitled to it, and why, “life isn’t fair.” My guest today takes exception with that mentality and, has proven throughout his life that, despite his challenges, is willing to purse and earn what he desires. His name is Darren Woodson. He’s a former NFL football player, ESPN Analyst, and successful real estate investor. Today, Darren and I talk about establishing a healthy identity, re-inventing yourself, resisting the victimhood mentality, the joy found in giving, hubris and humility, and a whole lot more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Keeping yourself moving Making the most of the time you have Hard transition from playing football to ESPN Becoming resilient and avoiding the victim role Seeing identity in a positive light We need critical people on our side Applying lessons from the football field to life and business Finding accountability outside of the NFL Passing lessons to the next generation Get your kids involved in making a difference   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/5/20221 hour, 4 minutes, 51 seconds
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Reinvent Yourself Now | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler provides FIVE practices that you can take right now and every day to reinvent yourself.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Try to become that man that you needed in the past Be the kind of man that others need you to be Look for the guys in your life who are doing these things already Do what these men do Critique yourself   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/1/202231 minutes, 23 seconds
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What it Means to be Wealthy, Having Conversations around Charged Topics, and Evolving as a Man | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on questions from the Iron Council and across social media.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (11:40) What steps have you taken to ensure that true men would be available to demonstrate the values you want your children to see and learn from if you were to pass away? (18:50) How would you respond if a man showed up to father/son event at your property with a transgender “son”? (22:00) How can men have productive conversations around difficult and polarizing topics, such as the recent “Roe vs. Wade” decision? (34:00) How do I show up in my relationship, where we have been separated for six months, when my wife is cold and distant? (41:00) What are three ways to make money while from a podcast? (44:40) What is the next big issue that you’d like the Supreme Court to address? (52:40) What is the hardest part about Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu training? (59:50) How do I get over social anxiety when starting at a new church and wanting to connect with people? (1:02:30) What criteria has to be met before you consider yourself wealthy?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/29/20221 hour, 11 minutes, 7 seconds
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RAY “CASH” CARE | How to Become a Savage Servant

Most of what we see and hear about on the socials regarding being a man is being a savage, a lion, a killer, etc. And, while I don’t dismiss the importance of embodying those traits and characteristics, equally important is how to lead with value and serve others.   My guest today, former Navy SEAL and CIA Operative, Ray “Cash” Care and I talk about how to embody both the savage and the servant. We cover overcoming past pain and trauma, outward explosions vs. inward implosions, the difference between problem makers and problem solvers, getting past self-sabotage, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Creating a society of stronger men Growing in spite of past adversity Dealing with the haters You can’t save those who don’t want to be saved Protecting your family is an act of service Investing in yourself and your family   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/28/20221 hour, 9 minutes, 49 seconds
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5 Lessons Learned Hunting in Hawaii | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares FIVE lessons learned from his recent hunting trip in Hawaii and explains how you can apply them in both hunting and life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   You have to carve out time for yourself Surround yourself with like-minded, value-driven men Manage expectations Check your equipment You must be persistent   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/24/202227 minutes, 32 seconds
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Repairing Your Reputation, Dealing with Criticism from Your Spouse, and Handling a Strong-Willed Teen | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Drew Kachurak take on questions from the Iron Council and across social media.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (4:00) How do you support your wife in times when she is depressed or overwhelmed by life? (7:30) Is all the development we do in the Iron Council really just us choosing our own resistance and turning pro in the 4 quadrants? (12:00) How do I get my wife and kids on board with living a more minimalist lifestyle? (18:00) In what order should “preparedness” be conducted? (23:00) As a man, when your wife/significant other criticizes you or a decision you’ve made, how do you determine when you should push back and explain or defend yourself or just accept it and move on? (29:00) How do you identify your unique selling proposition? (33:00) How do you handle a strong willed teenager that pushes the limits and seems to have no regard for your authority? (39:40) What advice do you have for someone who wants to be able to defend his family and is interested in purchasing a handgun, but his wife is not on board? (44:00) What is a good way to repair your reputation in an industry that you left and want to go back to?  (51:40) At what point do I (as “big brother") have a conversation with a guy who is clearly taking advantage of a family member? (57:20) Do you find yourself often forgetting BJJ techniques that you learn? (59:20) What are some tips for helping someone deal with grief?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/22/20221 hour, 5 minutes, 41 seconds
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MATT BEAUDREAU | The Clear Path to Alternative Education

You know that I’ve been a long-time outspoken advocate for pulling your kids from government education to home-based education but I also understand how many barriers are in place to doing so. From mindsets, skillsets, and financial resources, it can be daunting to even consider educating your kids within the walls of your home. Today, my guest Matt Beaudreau, and I talk about how to make it a reality. We cover the resources you need to homeschool your children, alternative paths outside of government and home-based education, common myths to pulling your kids from school, the difference between being educated and being schooled, the game of college, school-choice for parents, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Difference between being “educated” and being “schooled” Destroying the homeschool “socialization” myth Lack of nuance in the public school system Most public school teachers have good intentions How do you get out of the public school system? Are we qualified to teach our own kids? The origins of compulsory schooling Exploring the alternatives to public scoring   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/21/20221 hour, 26 minutes, 27 seconds
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10 Rules for Respectful Discussion | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down 10 tactics you should employ to engage in respectful and worthwhile discussions.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Maintain a humble attitude Keep your biases in check Me mindful of how your emotions affect you Be just with offing views Stay on topic Be civil Help your discussion partner save face Do away with rhetorical attacks Demand that the other person civil as well Be understanding Dont fold Be willing to walk away   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/17/202224 minutes, 12 seconds
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Getting the Country Back on Track, Dealing with Negativity, and Inspiring Your Wife to Get on The Path | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on questions from the Iron Council and across social media.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (4:40) What more can we do to help get this country back where it needs to be? (15:40) How do you deal with people who are negative and dragging you down? (26:00) When you get to the point in your life that you have exceeded every goal you have set currently, what’s next? What is the best way to set the next level? What steps in planning your next BP would you suggest? (43:40) Information is thrown at us from thousands of sources, how do you vet the source to gauge its credibility? (55:30) What is your every day carry? (56:00) What advice can you give to those who feel powerless to change their life for the better despite searching faith and temporal solutions? (1:04:00) Over the last year I've been on a journey of personal development, part of which has led me to the Order of Man. I can see some of the same stresses I was facing in my wife now, how can I help inspire her to start on that journey for herself?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/15/20221 hour, 21 minutes, 19 seconds
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MISS TRISH | The Woman Behind Order of Man

Back by popular demand, my wife Miss Trish, joins me on the podcast to chop it up and answer some of your most pressing questions. Today, we talk about homeschool challenges, the benefit of husbands and wives taking time for themselves, overcoming guilt for self-development, being cautious in undermining each other, dating losers, how to best get to sex, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Making sacrifices for homeschooling What to do when your wife steps out How do you manage kid responsibilities at home with Dad having an “actual” job and Mom handling the other responsibilities Strategies for reaching consensus when there is a disagreement When should a woman walk away from a boyfriend who won’t grow up Surviving a two year old Whats it like being married to an amazing wife? Tips to keep intimacy alive Intimacy and a man “taking what he wants”   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/14/20221 hour, 3 minutes, 14 seconds
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How a Man Builds Influence, Credibility, and Authority | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how men can establish influence, credibility, and authority in every important area of life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Influence: Your ability to modify people’s thought patterns, beliefs, or actions Credibility: Established through mastery and consistency Authority: Only comes after you have influence and credibility and you must be in the appropriate position.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/10/202220 minutes, 50 seconds
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Apprehension to Getting Married, Men and “The Church,” and Feeling Trapped at Work | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from Instagram.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (3:00) Are you looking for people to read advance copies of your book? (4:00) What homeschooling curriculum does your family use? (11:30) How do I take the next step to get engaged to my girlfriend? (20:40) How do you go about prospecting for new business clients and how do you go about closing a sale? (35:00) How have you dealt with anger issues in the past and what resources would you recommend? (47:20) Do you see a lack of strong men in the church? How should the church address this issue? (55:40) How does one navigate a relationship with his father, who has not lived up to what it means to be a man but is trying to change? (1:04:00) How do you stay in a job that you don’t enjoy, without letting it impact your mental health, until you are able to move into a different job or business?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/8/20221 hour, 12 minutes, 48 seconds
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TIM KENNEDY | Earn Your Stripes

What does it mean to earn your stripes? It means that you have to go through the fire of challenge and adversity to thrive and win. That’s exactly what my guest, Tim Kennedy, has done all of his life. From serving as an Army Ranger to fighting in the UFC, and running multiple incredibly successful businesses, it’s fair to say that Tim Kennedy has officially earn his stripes but all the scars that come with it. Today, Tim and I talk about a broad array of topics in a short amount of time. We talk about time management, identifying and living out your priorities, dealing with foul-ups, comparing yourself to other people, and his latest book, Scars and Stripes.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   You are the problem, time is not the problem Managing a busy schedule with wife and children Influencing your kids while you still can Our country needs school choice The government wants everyone to be dependent on them Big tech in bed with government People are starving for “real”   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.  
6/7/202238 minutes, 41 seconds
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10 Surefire Ways to Turn Boys into Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down TEN steps and actions men can take to contribute to the growth of boys into strong men.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Be an example first Be present Use firm but fair communication Be humble Be proud of the right things Get involved in the schools Coach youth sports Get involved in community programs Get involved in your church Run for elected office   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/3/202227 minutes, 57 seconds
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Boosting Testosterone Naturally, Overcoming Temptation, and Making the Most of Reading a Book | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle questions from the Order of Man’s exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (13:30) How do you perform AARs on reading a book? (17:00) Who has influenced you the most? And do they still? (29:30) What are your thoughts on the podcast with Cam Hanes? Specifically his thoughts on not knowing what’s next. (40:00) I’d like to be more involved in my community. Where is a good place to start? (44:00) What is the most common temptation that causes men to break integrity? How do you get back on track? (59:00) Would it help your marriage if you were more intentional about listening to your wife even when it seems like she is trying to start an argument? (1:04:40) What is a good testosterone booster to keep the libido going?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/1/20221 hour, 9 minutes, 58 seconds
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CLINT EMERSON | Self-Reliance and the Value of the Rugged Life

The rugged life isn’t something most of us are accustomed to. In fact, most men around the world would shatter at the slightest sign of inconvenience, let alone going without power for a week, not having access to food for 24 hours, or fuel prices rising to historic and unprecedented prices. So, how do we, as men, ensure we’ll be able to care of ourselves and others? By embracing the Rugged Life my guest, former Navy SEAL and New York Times Bestselling Author, Clint Emerson, and I discuss. Today, we talk about the threat of a Russian or (more likely) Chinese invasion, how our entire lives hinge on the factor of personal responsibility, the power of incremental improvement, and how to harness and embrace the rugged lifestyle.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   We need to have a back up plan Insulate yourself with skills and preparation Options give you time, time gives you options Being healthy is a great way to thrive things things go bad We need to become less dependent on China The root of our problems is lack of personal responsibility.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/31/20221 hour, 11 minutes, 15 seconds
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Is Capitalism Manly? Short Answer, Yes. Here’s Why... | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how capitalism, at its core, is a very manly societal construct.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Capitalism promotes the idea of rights and responsibilities Capitalism promotes innovation Capitalism operates on merit Capitalism promotes ownership of personal property   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/27/202223 minutes, 17 seconds
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Is Capitalism Manly?, Conquer Your Biases, and Skepticism vs. Pessimism | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (8:40) How can we conquer our own biases and other people’s biases at the same time? (15:30) What are the most important principles for choosing where to live? (20:20) Is your idea of masculinity defined by capitalism and should it be? (27:00) How do you find the balance between listening to other people who may know more than you and maintaining your convictions with what you know to be true? (34:30) Should the church do more to support home education over public schooling? (37:00) How do you figure out your path when you feel like you’ve lost your way? (46:40) How do you deal with an unsupportive Mother in Law? (49:00) How can I maintain a positive environment for my kids when their mom feels like being a part-time parent? (56:10) What is a good tactic to teach kids to be aggressive in sports? How do you teach kids to not be afraid of the ball?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/25/20221 hour, 10 minutes, 46 seconds
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CAM HANES | Train Hard, Hunt Easy

Life is suffering. At least, it’s full of suffering. Unfortunately, too many men avoid voluntary suffering and, instead, choose the path of least resistance. But that path leads to a life of complacency and mediocrity. My guest today is a man who runs (literally) towards suffering and hardship, not to make life harder than it needs to be but to prepare himself for what will inevitably come. His name is Cam Hanes. He’s a bowhunter first, an ultra-endurance athlete, and an incredibly motivating human being. Today, we talk about the purpose of suffering, making the decision to make yourself into something more, why working harder than others will always produces results, finding mentorship and friendship, dealing with negativity from others, his new book Endure, and why every man ought to embrace the mantra, “Train Hard, Hunt Easy.”   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Learning to navigate time on your own Being motivated to “find your limit” Dealing with doubts despite success Creating bonds through hardship Using your strengths to inspire people and gain credibility The easy path never leads to anything great Determining which opportunities to pursue Why stay at a “normal job” when you don’t have to Running shoe companies becoming too “woke” Finding motivation by having a chip on your shoulder Providing an American-made option for hunting gear with Origin   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/24/20221 hour, 7 minutes, 19 seconds
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Harness the Power of Incremental Improvements | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down how focusing on small steps can lead to big results.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Take one or two steps each day toward your objective Measure success by hitting small targets, not by looking at the overall objective When you hit the small targets, the ultimate objective will take care of itself Don’t compare yourself to others   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/20/202217 minutes, 38 seconds
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Overcome the Resistance, Dealing with Negative Momentum, and Creating Your Own Demand | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen answer the hottest questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (19:30) What are your biggest takeaways from the Man Uncaged event? (31:40) As a single man, what kinds of things can you do to fill your time without spending too much money? (36:00) What are a few ways that you’ve been able to add value to other professionals that has allowed you to gain access to their network? (48:10)  How do you handle the emotions of missing your kids’ activities in order to do things for yourself?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/18/202254 minutes, 34 seconds
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JACK CARR | In the Blood

My guests today is friend, former Navy SEAL, and New York Times Bestselling author, Jack Carr. We take so many difference routes in this conversation and all of them worthy of discussion. Of course, we cover his latest book in the James Reece Saga, In the Blood, but we also get into how to eliminate distractions and maintain focus, how to keep yourself from getting tripped up with obstacles on your path to success, leading properly through effective communication, how writing daily can serve as a therapeutic practice, and how to find the perfect flow for projects and life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Dealing with distractions Lessons from the writing process that relate to life Life will hit you hard, but keep things in perspective Turning mistakes into opportunities Challenges to the First Amendment There is a reason laws are written so broadly The financial side of writing The future of the James Reece series Ghost writing in fiction vs. non-fiction Terminal List coming to TV Its good to be forgiving of mistakes   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/17/20221 hour, 15 minutes, 8 seconds
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4-Step Formula to Fix Your Fu*k-Ups | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler provides FOUR simple strategies for how you can rebound and regain your honor after you screw up.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Admit the fact that you screwed up Apologize to the person/people you hurt Adjust your behavior Accept the outcome   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/13/202222 minutes, 19 seconds
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The Dichotomy Between Satisfaction and Ambition, Working Out at Home, and Prioritizing Jiu-Jitsu and Strength Training | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos discuss Shawn’s Mexican heritage and tackle your questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (17:20) When releasing a book, how do you decide between looking for a publishing company vs. self-publishing? (32:50) How do you balance weight training with Jiu-Jitsu? (40:00) If you were unable to go to the gym and had to work out at home, with limited time, what areas would you focus on? (52:20) What are your favorite vacation spots? (57:40) How do you define ‘what is enough for you’?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/11/20221 hour, 20 minutes, 58 seconds
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JOSH SMITH | Non-Linear Path to Success

Life never presents us with a linear path to success. Often, the journey is marred with failures, obstacles, setbacks, challenges, and detours. It’s what we do in the face of the inevitable that determines the level of satisfaction and fulfillment in our lives. My guest today is a Master Bladesmith (in fact, he was able to achieve that status younger than anyone else in history), and the founder of Josh Smith Knives and Montana Knife Company. Today, Josh and I talk about his personal journey from forging knives in his teens, to working as lineman thinking he was making the right move for his family, then back to where it all started as we works to build the next great knife company from the ground up. We cover paying attention to the little things, the mixed emotions of starting a company, developing a powerful team culture, and finding confidence when you don’t have any experience.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Knife making as a kid A little bit of early luck Its good to have influence from a variety of men Transitioning from hand made to “production” knives Pivoting to keep providing for the family Business can skyrocket when you go all in Factors for fast growth and success You have to act or you lose credibility Its great to be able to give back Being responsible when pursuing your dream A lot of men lack a vision for the future Support at home is extremely important You have to have confidence in yourself   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/10/20221 hour, 31 minutes, 16 seconds
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Homeschooling Myths Busted | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR common myths about homeschool and why you should not let them stand in you way.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   You as a parent aren’t qualified to teach The kids won’t be socialized They won’t be exposed to new ideas We don’t have the time or money to homeschool   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/6/202239 minutes, 1 second
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What is a Masculine Life, How to Handle a Wife Making More Than You, and Helping Kids with a Difficult Move | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into the week’s top questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (21:00) How did your kids handle the move to Maine? Do you have any thoughts and recommendations for someone making a similar move? (29:00) What is a short story or poem that resonates with you? (35:30) What are some tips for finding contentment or fulfillment in a job that doesn’t challenge you or push you, but pays the bills? (45:40) How do you balance a masculine life with a spouse who makes 10x what I make? (58:00) How does a father balance a career where he’s gone from home half the month? Is it better to find a job closer to home, or stick with the dream job?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/4/20221 hour, 9 minutes, 9 seconds
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ETHAN SUPLEE | Unpacking and Uncovering Truth

Back to visit again is repeat guest and friend, Ethan Suplee. He is an extraordinary actor. You’ve seen him in Remember the Titans, American History X,  Without a Paddle, and, of course, My Name is Earl. But he’s also an extraordinary man and has a ton of valuable wisdom to share as it relates to life, success, overcoming adversity, losing weight, getting in shape, and disciplining your life.   Today, we talk about all sorts of topics like masks and COVID, public school, making it in Hollywood and film, the value of hard work and value-driven decisions, mental and emotional health, the ease of modernity, and uncovering and unpacking the Truth.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Acting in movies vs. TV shows Examining truth in science Dishonesty in politics and the media Finding an acceptable level of risk When your choices affect others Nature vs nurture in raising kids Challenges in writing a memoir Living life on the edge vs playing it safe Finding satisfaction through hard work Where does self-identification stop The mob cannot determine what is best for everyone We need to have the right to “opt out” Selective outrage among Americans You benefit from the work you put in The deterioration of San Francisco and LA   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/3/20221 hour, 13 minutes, 4 seconds
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Improve Your Sex Life Now | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares FIVE actions you can take today to take your sex life to the next level.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Lose weight and get in shape Stop watching porn Learn to communicate with her Assert yourself Continue to court her   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/29/202220 minutes, 37 seconds
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What it Means to be a Man, Over-Medication of Our Youth, and Your Wife’s Self-Development Journey | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into the week’s top questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (8:20) What does it mean to be a man? (38:40) What is the difference between “performative” masculinity and being a good man? (45:20) Once I have paid off all debt except the mortgage, should I start putting more money toward my mortgage or invest that money elsewhere? (1:00:20) Do you think Oppositional Defiance Disorder is an appropriate diagnosis for my child or is she just being disrespectful and defiant? (1:10:00) How do you lead your wife who seems perfectly content with how things are and has no desire to improve herself?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/27/20221 hour, 23 minutes, 26 seconds
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TERRY CREWS | The Path to True Masculine Power

Terry Crews joins me on the podcast today to talk about some very powerful topics focused on developing masculine power. I believe that you’d all agree that Terry embodies what we typically think of when we think about masculinity. But today we dive deep into his true sense of power, his struggles with past anger issues and pornography, how to not only be physically strong but build mental and emotional strength, avoiding being baited in uncontrollable situations, what it means to “misuse masculinity,” and overcoming shame, insecurity, and fear.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Forgiveness is needed for true reconciliation You can either have success or revenge True power is the ability to control your own emotions Using motivation as revenge leaves scars You have to challenge your own thinking Hollywood doesn’t care if you lose your family Loving your family vs. controlling them Traits of masculinity Toxic masculinity is really just abuse of power Masculinity is about being a servant and providing Intimacy is more satisfying than just sex Being the “bigger man” vs. being a little bitch Power is exercising restraint An effective movement must start with reconciliation We are more alike than different   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/26/20221 hour, 13 minutes, 31 seconds
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4 Great Lies About Femininity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the FOUR great lies about femininity that pervade society today.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Women have to be more like men in order to be strong women Femininity is weak Femininity is just about bringing children into the world Femininity is no longer needed in society   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/22/202219 minutes, 7 seconds
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Maintaining Focus Amidst Distractions, Handling Haters, and Being Authentic vs. Oversharing | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond to your top questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (8:30) As a social person, I often allow conversations to pull me off task. What are your strategies for staying focused on the task at hand to ensure my “to-do” list gets completed? (15:40) I just got engaged yesterday! Tell us your proposal stories. (23:00) What is your answer when someone says this movement, Order of Man, is all about toxic masculinity and nothing about family? (30:30) How do I handle people who enjoy pointing out my flaws? (33:00) Where does a man draw the line between sharing relevant personal mental health struggles and oversharing?  (41:40) Do you have any advice for a husband and wife who are simultaneously starting their dream jobs and also maintaining our relationship with both ourselves and our four kids? (50:40) What are some strategies to introduce the concept of ownership to people in my organization who desire to succeed, but are having trouble embracing this concept?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/20/202259 minutes, 32 seconds
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VIC BLENDS | Turning Your Struggles Into Strengths

You guys have heard me talk a lot about our role as protectors, providers, and presiders not only within the walls of our home but in our communities as well. Not only do we have the opportunity to give back to those in need, we have a moral obligation to do so, especially if we have the means to do it. My guest today is a man who is doing exactly that. His name is Victor Fontanez (you may know him as Vic Blends) and he has made a name for himself through offering practical life advice for the young men he gives haircuts to as he serves his community in Atlanta. Vic is 22 years old but you’re going to hear so much incredible wisdom come from him. I was honestly taken back by how much this man inspired me to do and be better myself.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Don’t take your blessings for granted Do what you believe in and everything else will handle itself What to look for in people in your inner circle Always practice gratitude Differentiating between your plan and God’s plan Find your part and play it well Learning lessons in the barber shop Education and reform in the prison system The importance of having conversations to change perspective Being able to communicate your message effectively   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/19/20221 hour, 6 minutes, 44 seconds
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4 Great Lies About Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the FOUR great lies about masculinity that pervade society today.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Masculinity is toxic Masculinity is virtuous Masculinity is earned Masculinity is no longer needed in society   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/15/202220 minutes, 52 seconds
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How to Best Secure a Promotion, Find and Hire a Mentor, and Prioritize Your Objectives | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen are back together to respond to the week’s top questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (8:00) What is your battle plan this quarter? (18:30) How do you go about finding the right coach/mentor? (26:00) Do you have any advice for someone transitioning to a new position at work focused on training and development? (44:00) How do you choose or prioritize your goals and objectives? (49:40) How do you communicate to your spouse that you want to be more successful in your life and business, when your wife expresses that she is perfectly content with how things are? (57:40) How do I take full ownership of something when it’s not clear that it was ever supposed to be my responsibility?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/13/20221 hour, 19 minutes, 53 seconds
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DAVE RUBIN | Thriving in Our Woke Dystopia

We live in the single greatest time in the history of the human species but that’s not to say we’re without our fair share of challenges and struggles. It seems to me that the path we’re on is leading us to a path of destruction and the pace of our demise seems to be rapidly increasing. My guest, Dave Rubin, would agree and, although we don’t see eye to eye on everything we discuss today, I think it will serve as a reminder that we can – and should – learn to have these crucial conversations before it’s too late. Today, we talk about the seeming futility of trying create positive change in the world, what “wokeism” is and how to root it out of our society, big tech and how it’s working in overdrive to subjugate us, capitalism vs. socialism, homosexuality and transgenderism, and, ultimately, how to thrive in our ever-increasing woke dystopia.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   We had largely “solved” racism before bad policy brought it back The “woke” revolution is eating its own Humor is a great release valve The strength of liberalism is also it’s weakness Having feminine characteristics doesn’t make someone a woman We all live outside of our ideals and values at times How do you reason with unreasonable people? Go to school to learn things that matter   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/12/20221 hour, 7 minutes, 25 seconds
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How to Develop the “X-Factor” | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler outlines a FIVE-part framework for developing the “X-factor” in your own life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   You have to know what you want Start formulating a plan Execute the plan Don’t deviate from the path Analyze your performance and repeat the process   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/8/202228 minutes, 16 seconds
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Tough Conversations with Your Kids, Advice for a Happy Divorce, and Connecting with Male Role Models | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler is flying solo and tackling the top questions of the week.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:10) Why aren’t friends great choices to hold you accountable? (6:10) How do you deal with wanting more for your kids than they want for themselves? (10:00) Do you have any advice for a happy divorce? (13:30) How do you establish healthy boundaries with a narcissistic mother? (18:10) Can you try to get Tim Ballard on the podcast? (19:30) How do you guide sons through difficult conversations about sex? (26:10) What do you do on days when you don’t feel the motivation to perform at a high level? (28:30) What would you suggest doing to gain better access to men of purpose who are worthy of being role models? (33:20) When do you apply discipline vs. compassion and empathy as a single parent? (38:20) What does the average “just getting by” man waste the most money on that the successful man does not? (40:55) What steps could I take to help my wife in the event that I die suddenly?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/6/202243 minutes, 38 seconds
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MICHAEL SAYLOR | A Primer on Bitcoin

No doubt, you’ve heard of Bitcoin and Crypto but with the increasing popularity of digital currency, you may still have a lot of questions and skepticism about the validity of what exactly it is and if it’s worth paying attention to. My guest today is Bitcoin expert and a duel degree MIT graduate, Michael Saylor. Today, him and I discuss what Bitcoin is and whether or not it’s a valid form of currency for the future. We also get into some higher-level discussions about what is the nature of money, value, and our individual property rights. We cover the concerns of inflation, government risk, whether or not digital currency is “real,” and the incorruptible nature of Bitcoin.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   An overview of property ownership Real estate doesn’t solve the problem for everyone Owning digital property Monetizing a utility The risk of crypto currency vs. traditional investments Legal and ethical limitations Bitcoin is the dominant digital property network The stability and security of Crypto and Bitcoin The risk of Crypto and Bitcoin How to get started with Crypto     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/5/20221 hour, 12 minutes, 38 seconds
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Unshackle Yourself, 5 Keys to Personal Freedom | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler outlines FIVE points that will help you achieve ultimate freedom in your life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Faith Finances Fitness Family & Friends Future   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
4/1/202234 minutes, 46 seconds
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Building Confidence in Social Settings, Discovering Your Why, and Dealing with Doubt | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen is flying solo and takes on the week’s top questions from Instagram.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (1:30) Should I buy a house as a young single guy, or rent until I am married? (3:00) Do you have any advice for working in a dysfunctional workplace? (5:40) What are some signs that you should marry the person you are dating? (7:30) What are some topics or agendas you try to hit every day in your family meetings? (8:40) What is your best dad joke? (11:15) Who do you look to for advice regarding how to press on? Do you have a mantra, scripture, or saying that you recite in times of weakness? (14:40) How do I continue to work on building a strong relationship with my wife after we have our first child? (17:30) How does a young man handle getting over a girl the right way when we have mutual friends? (19:40) How do I improve my confidence in social settings? (24:50) How do you quit drinking and what are some ways to deal with triggers? (29:40) In what ways do you treat your daughter different than your son? (33:00) What is a good way to start discovering your WHY? (38:40) How much fear did you have before launching the podcast? (40:25) How do I get up early so I have more time to be productive? (42:20) What is your morning routine? (45:00) What is your go-to BJJ take down for a larger opponent of equal skill? (57:20) In a digital world, how does a man meet a woman? (49:00) What are the most important things to focus on when raising a daughter? (49:40) Is it better to play the long game and stay with a company that rewards tenure, or jump companies often in an effort to build income quicker? (52:00) How do you escape side control? (53:30) What are the best ways to learn new information? (55:20) How can I improve with communicating with my wife and guiding her to be more receptive? (1:00:25) What hardships have you faced in entrepreneurship and how have you overcome them? (1:06:20) How can I be involved in the Order of Man movement? (1:07:40) How can I build mental toughness in my 4-year-old son?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/30/20221 hour, 15 minutes, 12 seconds
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KEN COLEMAN | Move From Day Job to Dream Job

If you’re anything like me, you know that deep down inside you’re meant to do something great in this life. It’s unfortunate, however, that so many men settle especially when it comes to a career they’re likely going to spend the overwhelming majority of their waking hours in.   That’s why I wanted to invite back Ken Coleman, author of From Paycheck to Purpose. Today, Ken and I talk about the concept of “stealing time from yourself” to launch a purpose project, tactical discipline during the pursuit, the 3 types of fear that keep men from going after meaningful work, and how to take yourself from day job to dream job.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Culture has made it seem silly for us to pursue our passion Pursue your talent, passion and mission You have to steal time from yourself Don’t sacrifice the “now” for the “next” Instead of hearing no, hear not here, not yet… Experiencing fear and doubt is a good sign You’ve got to filter failure Understanding three major sources of fear There is no success without suck Much of our strength comes from the struggle Surround yourself with the right people     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/29/20221 hour, 9 minutes, 53 seconds
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Lead Your Wife Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down FIVE tips to help you lead your wife and family more effectively.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Lead yourself more effectively Communicate and uphold boundaries and expectations Hear and understand your spouse Serve her Cast your vision for the future   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/25/202228 minutes, 24 seconds
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Mind the Opportunity Gaps, What Makes a Powerful Question, and What Every Man is Searching For | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your top questions from the Order of Man Facebook group - and shares some tips for how to ask better questions.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (4:50) What are your thoughts on a father’s role in addressing his teenage child’s depression? (14:15) What is your take on helping a family member who is addicted to drugs and a criminal? (26:20) What are your thoughts on building your children’s credit rating before they turn 18? (34:20) What is your advice on scaling a small seasonal business? (51:50) How often do you train firearms and what style of training do you prefer? (54:40) What are your thoughts on plant medicine? (1:05:40) What are your thoughts on “active rest” versus “rest?”   The Iron Council is now open - FOR A LIMITED TIME.  Sign up here.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/23/20221 hour, 23 minutes, 39 seconds
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JOHN DELONY | Own Your Past

Every single one of us has past baggage and trauma. What separates us is the ability to internalize, learn from, and move past what may have previously hindered us. Embracing the past (and the lessons learned) is the only way to move forward productively and effectively.   My guest today, is Dr. John Delony. He is a bestselling author and has two PhD’s with over two decades of experience in counseling and crisis response. Today, we talk about dealing with past trauma in all its forms, working with incentive structures that produce positive results, overcoming stress, addiction, and loneliness, fighting against the east of modernity, and how to own your past.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Don’t let fear hold you back Having conversations is crucial Being wrong can help you win Big “T” Trauma vs. little “t” trauma Trauma happened, now what? You need other people in your life to maintain positive change Vulnerability is not “whining and complaining” When is it appropriate to apologize   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/22/20221 hour, 15 minutes, 13 seconds
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Optimize Your Day, Optimize Your Life | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SIX specific steps you can take to optimize your day, which can help you optimize your life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Start your day the night before Have a morning routine/ritual Don’t negotiate with your calendar Learn to delegate Learn to say no Close down your day   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/18/202222 minutes, 4 seconds
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Raising Daughters, Living with Your Choices, and How to Crush it in Sales | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (9:30) What are your strategies around raising daughters? (16:10) How does someone apply a lot of the business and wealth principals that you talk about in a service business? (24:20) Are you encouraging your kids to explore higher education or are you more in favor of a skills-based (trade) path? (34:40) How does a man who never asks for anything from others ask for a sponsorship to participate in a once in a lifetime opportunity? (44:30) Why are men always more willing to make up and forgive each other?   The Iron Council is now open - FOR A LIMITED TIME.  Sign up here.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/16/202254 minutes, 37 seconds
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TIM TEBOW | Create a Life That Counts

My guest today is the one and only, Tim Tebow. I had the opportunity to sit down with him in New York last week and, without a doubt, he’s one of the most genuine human beings that I’ve ever met. You could feel that from him from the moment he walked into our studio (which happened to be a hotel room in Manhattan). I’ve always wondered if the men we see online are the same men in person and I can unequivocally say, “yes,” with Tebow. Today, we talk about where Tebow’s convictions come from, the powerful relationship he has with his father and his coaches along the way, why his work with those who have special needs is so crucial in the absence of manliness, the dichotomy between God’s sovereignty and our own, creating an edge in your life, stacking up the small wins, and, at the foundation of it all, how to create a life that counts.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Masculinity is lacking around the world Love is a choice that we make Kids see everything that parents do Managing the expectations of others Some people just don’t want to like you Being respected is more important than being liked The relationship between serving God and living your own life Sharing the Gospel through our actions God provides when we need it most We should both rely on God and work hard   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/15/20221 hour, 7 minutes, 15 seconds
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5 Strategies for Killer Communication | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE key strategies for communicating effectively with other people.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Know what your objective is Seek to understand THEIR objective Always ask GOOD questions (specific, relevant, honest) Tailor your communication Evaluate the response Bonus. Be patient   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/11/202224 minutes, 56 seconds
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Attracting Women by Power and Proximity, Taking on Too Much, and the Line Between Hungry and Complacent | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (7:00) At what point do you know that you have taken on too much? (18:00) What are some times that you have had to pivot and totally reinvent your systems to be successful? (22:00) Who was your most influential boss when you were younger and what did he or she do differently than others? (38:50) As I am getting older, how do I keep the faith that I will find the right women? (44:30) How do you stay hungry but also celebrate what you’ve been blessed with? (53:40) When you fall off the wagon of exercise and diet, how do you find the discipline to get back on track? (58:00) What are your thoughts on the “13th payment of the year” for your mortgage? (1:04:00) How do you differentiate between someone being entitled to their opinion and thinking that their opinion is wrong? (1:13:00) How do you separate being a good leader, taking ownership, and leading by example for your kids vs. forcing their decision due to their immature, young, and unfavorable choices?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/9/20221 hour, 23 minutes, 39 seconds
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KYLE “THE CAPTAIN” CREEK | Become the Captain of Your Life

Men, this one is like a conversation with an old friend. Kyle “The Captain” Creek and I initially connected only several months ago but we picked up this conversation like we’ve been friends for decades. And, I think you’re going to feel the same. Kyle offers so much practical wisdom and is extremely relatable as he is unpacking all the same issues that you and I are as fathers and men in general. Today, we talk about his book, Speech Therapy: 52 Pick-Me-Ups to Get You Through Many of Life’s What-The-Fucks. We also talk about what it takes to be a successful writer and marketer, the difference between awareness and obsessiveness, how to deal with daily criticism, why people suck at delivery, cancel culture, grace, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The origin of “The Captain” Embracing openness and transparency Dealing with negativity and criticism Affording grace to negative people online You need someone in your life who is going to mess things up Becoming a parent changes things for the better The role of men to protect the things they value Crafting familiar concepts in a way that will connect with people Trusting your own instinct   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/8/20221 hour, 25 minutes, 36 seconds
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How to Build a Power Digital Brand | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the NINE+ strategies used to build the Order of Man movement and how you can use them to build your own brand.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Niche down your audience Have something unique to say Become a master networker Pick one social media platform as your primary focus and use the others as ancillary Not everybody is a podcaster Follow your interests, not the dollars Be hyper consistent Look for trends from your audience Ask for the sale   Bonus 1: Offer a variety of products and services Bonus 2: Don’t be afraid to fail and screw up   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/4/202231 minutes, 8 seconds
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Striking the Balance Between Performance and Service, Constant Personal Communication, and Time Blocking in the Buffers | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:20) What is the most physically demanding thing you have done in your life? (9:30) How do you balance wanting to win at all costs with slowing down to bring others up around you? (22:10) Do you check your phone often? Do you use notifications? What is your phone management strategy? (33:30) Can you provide thoughts and suggestions on having a tough conversation with my wife and daughter? (42:00) How do you strike a balance between really pushing yourself and setting goals that are unattainable and getting discouraged for failing? (52:30) What are some action steps you take when your wife goes away to ensure you can stay on top of you battle plan while handling the additional responsibilities? (58:00) What are the things that we as men should be doing to prepare in this increasingly unpredictable world? (1:04:00) What is the best bang for your buck hunting trip? (1:07:40) What practical tactics or general rules do you use to keep fear at bay?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/2/20221 hour, 18 minutes, 1 second
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ROB O’NEILL and DAKOTA MEYER | Master Life’s Toughest Battles

As a man, you are asked to shoulder not only your own burdens but often times the weight of others’ (wife, children, friends and family, and neighbors). It can be a daunting task but worth making yourself capable enough to do it with honor. Today, I’m joined by two of the most decorated and recognized US military veterans, Rob O’Neill and Dakota Meyer to talk about what it takes to master your toughest battles. We talk about harnessing the gift of our strengths, why there can be no accountability in your life without conflict, what it means to have true integrity, the de-humanization of war and what it’s like to deal with the aftermath, and how to build a lasting legacy.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   People do stuff that’s special all the time Living life on your own terms Don’t confuse “speaking your mind” with “being an asshole” If everything is racist, nothing is racist Social media is a Trojan horse for cowards Humanizing the enemy The dichotomy between wanting to serve and wanting to be left alone Defining your lasting legacy A lot more grace needs to be afforded in society Military members running for office   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
3/1/20221 hour, 11 minutes, 2 seconds
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Tell the Truth | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of telling the truth in difficult situations and the pitfalls that may be holding you back  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Start paying attention to how you feel in the environment around you Speak the truth to others…but don’t offer unsolicited feedback Speak the truth to yourself   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/25/202225 minutes, 7 seconds
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Creating Contingency Plans, Determining Malice or Stupidity, and Changing the Narrative Around Masculinity | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on the top questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (9:00) Where do you see the Order of Man movement going? Do you have a goal for membership numbers? (19:00) How does someone heal from years of mental and emotional gaslighting? (26:40) What tips do you have for bringing stability back into your life when a lot has changed lately and there are many competing priorities? (30:00) What are each of your morning and evening routines and how have they contributed to your success? (33:00) How do you discuss how service and faith in God should play a role in our daily lives? (41:00) What do you think about your post getting pulled from Instagram? And what do men need to do to change the narrative of masculinity? (53:00) What are the best ways of dealing with a toxic co-parent? (59:00) What are some tips and tricks for branding different products and services under one idea and direction?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/23/20221 hour, 5 minutes, 52 seconds
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PHIL ROBERTSON | How to Become Uncanceled

It’s easy to be on edge these days. With so much nonsense going on in the world from political protests, government overreach, cancel culture, everyone being offended by everything, and a myriad of other issues that aren’t really all that important in the grand scheme of things, it’s hard to find a sense of peace that I think most of us would really like to have in our lives. Today, I’m joined by a man that has seemed to not only find it but is so uniquely comfortable and sure of who he is that you can’t help but be intrigued and fascinated about how he’s done it. His name is Phil Robertson (you may know him from Duck Dynasty). Today, we talk about the power of love, justice and mercy, the power of hope, finding confidence in who you are, discovering the true nature of people, and so much more (he even does some bird calling for me with his signature calls). And, we also get into why Phil was canceled and how he’s taking it all in stride.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Finding answers in the Bible Difference between child of God and child of the devil Loving your enemies Finding meaning in peace Finding Jesus is the smartest move I’ve ever made Hate WHAT is evil, not WHO is evil How to not alienate non-believers Why is the Gospel so threatening Standing by your convictions   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/22/20221 hour, 10 minutes, 55 seconds
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The 5 Greatest Threats to Your Own Well-Being | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down FIVE controllable factors that threaten your own well-being and provides tips for how to mitigate them.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Your own ego Complacency Conformity Inability to communicate Lack of boundaries   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/18/202224 minutes, 16 seconds
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Dealing with a Culture of Mediocrity, Avoiding Job Burnout, and How to Approach Life in a New Industry | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos tackle your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (10:50) How do you stay the course and perform when you are in a culture where it’s typical to do “just enough” to complete a job? (16:30) What can I do to make sure a new mens group gets off on the right foot? (27:20) How do you deal with job burnout? (43:40) How does one get back into a sport after sitting out for months with an injury? (47:50) Do you have any advice for networking with other men in an industry that I am relatively new to and still dealing with imposter syndrome? (58:20) Should I finish reading a book that I am just not connecting with or should I move on to the next one on the list? (1:02:20) Where should I start and what should I say when having a “birds and bees” conversation with my daughter? (1:09:40) Can spouses reconcile if only one person in the relationship is choosing to take extreme ownership of their faults? (1:19:20) How much importance do you put on Valentine’s Day and other “hallmark” created holidays?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/16/20221 hour, 27 minutes, 15 seconds
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JUSTIN WREN | Fight for the Forgotten

Everyone out there is searching for a fulfilled and meaningful life, especially if you’re listening to this podcast. But too many men attempt to find that meaning and purpose in some self-absorbed pursuit. In my experience (and all the guests I’ve talked with on the podcast), the most meaningful experiences are found in serving others. My guest today, Justin Wren, is no exception as he has found his life’s working in serving the Pygmy People in Africa. Today, we talk about the power of purpose, creating opportunities, when attempting to help people actually hurts them, the American bubble of prosperity, stacking reasons to win, and always remembering who you’re fighting for and why you’re fighting.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Fighters live in the extremes Sometimes you need to experience to understand Understanding the Pigmy culture The impacts of modern slavery The importance of finding purpose when struggling with addiction Finding the forgotten Handling loss when your purpose is serving others Loving yourself like your life depends on it     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/15/20221 hour, 18 minutes, 2 seconds
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Don’t Ever Feel Guilty for Taking Care of Yourself. Here’s How… | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of taking care of yourself and shares THREE tips to help you not feel guilty while doing it.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Do it in moderation Express your thoughts about the importance and value of what you are doing Balance your activities with the activities you do with others (Bonus) Use “task-stacking”   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/11/202220 minutes, 7 seconds
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Pros and Cons of Tribalism, The Cost of Doing Good Work, and How and Why to Journal | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen field your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (3:00) Any news on the Spartan Death Race opportunity? (7:15) Is liming yourself to a small circle of acquaintances limiting your growth? (16:25) How close are you to recording with Joe Rogan? (31:20) If you were to start a new business venture and completely indulge in it, what would you do? (36:40) How do I help my three teenage girls who were previously abused by their mother, while not “fixing” everything for them? (44:00) Do you have any tips or techniques for avoiding beard loss during jiu-jitsu? (46:30) If Brazilian jiu-jitsu didn’t exist, what martial art would you do? (51:00) Do you have any tips for journaling? (58:15) What is your process and preparation for upcoming podcast interviews? (1:01:30) Do you have any tips on playing the game in order to enhance yourself in the eyes of others? (1:10:20) What would you do to lead in a situation like the Trucker’s Convoy in Canada.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/9/20221 hour, 13 minutes, 58 seconds
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MAT FRASER | Hard Work Pays Off

The path to personal progress and growth can be a frustrating road. Change is often incremental or barely noticeable and, because so, many men choose to throw in the towel way too soon before they give themselves a fighting chance to change the trajectory of their lives.   Today, I’m joined by 5-Time Fittest Man on Earth, Mat Fraser, to talk about the path of hard work. We cover tiny progressions along the way, looking for and being ready to capitalize on opportunities, the dangers in tying your identity to performance, the pros and cons of self-criticism, what he refers to as the “Rubber Band Theory,” and other psychological strategies he employed on his way to becoming the most dominant CrossFit Athlete in its history.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Hanging out with the Black Rifle team Do dangerous things, carefully Don’t build your entire identify on what you are doing currently Pay attention to the little things Gaining the psychological advantage against competitors Don’t let your ego undermine your strategy Always find the silver lining When is it appropriate to engage with haters Using resentment as a motivator Using small goals to reach larger ones Get obsessive over the right things   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/8/20221 hour, 22 minutes, 35 seconds
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Have Some Self-Respect! | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down FIVE tactics to help you increase your level of self-respect.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Fill your cup first Do not become a punching bag Don’t be desperate Learn to communicate and uphold the boundaries Don’t become egotistical or arrogant   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/4/202233 minutes, 19 seconds
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Making Decisions as a Man, Fault Versus Responsibility, and Casting Visions When All is Dark | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on the top questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (6:00) Can you elaborate on any experiences you had with friends and family who were unsupportive of your move from Utah to Maine? (8:00) What are the key elements and experiences that are most effective and consistent in the transformational development from the state of immature masculine to mature masculine? (11:20) What are the biggest challenges when adding another child to the family? And how do you navigate those challenges? (19:20) What podcasts and books are you currently listening to/reading? (22:20) How do you know when it’s the right time to start dating after a divorce? (29:40) Will there be ever be additional standards to maintain membership in the Iron Council as a way to make room for new members? (35:40) How do you determine what your future vision looks like when you are going through a separation? (41:50) Have you come across any techniques, other than BJJ and cold water immersion, to increase discomfort and enhance mental toughness? (45:00) How do I deal with a friend whose actions are not always consistent with what he says he values? (52:30) How do I control feeling like I am better than almost every person I come into contact with? (1:01:00) How do I overcome a lack of confidence to build new and meaningful friendships and relationships?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/2/20221 hour, 8 minutes, 21 seconds
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BRYAN CALLEN | Moral Relativism, Personal Responsibility, and the Dangers of Academia

Today, I’ve got a man on who needs no introduction, the hilarious, talented, and extremely intelligent, Bryan Callen. Today, we talk about all kinds of topics including the importance of personal responsibility, what the proper role of academia is, Critical Race Theory, what the government does that most of us don’t realize, morality and whether or not is objective or subjective, dealing with inconvenient truths, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Shoutout to western medicine The left refuses to recognize the importance of personal responsibility An academics job is to teach you how to think From an scholarly standpoint, critical race theory has its merits The government does more than most of us realize Is morality absolute? Never underestimate the power of story We have to accept and deal with the inconvenient truths There is an intellectual renaissance going on the Black community The dangers of manipulating language   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
2/1/20221 hour, 8 minutes, 46 seconds
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100% or 0%, No In-Between | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a 3-part framework to help you be fully present and give 100% in every area of life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Take inventory of your life Think about what you want out of life Start making your moves   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/28/202221 minutes, 53 seconds
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Speaking Truth, Helping a Spouse with Sexual Abuse History, and Focusing on Your Circle of Control | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (7:40) Are there any guests that you have had on the podcast who you feel have moved the needle in an exceptional way? (21:00) How do you develop the mentality to stay in employment that may not have advancement opportunities? (26:34) Should a husband know the details of his wife’s past sexual abuse? (32:00) What are some tips to help people remember who you are while networking? (36:00) How would you propose Order fo Man concepts, or even the podcast, to anyone who lacks the core principles of masculinity? (39:40) Getting ready to start a new business, how do you counter reoccurring doom and gloom feelings about the state of the world? (1:00:00) How do you steer your kids away from porn in this digital age? (1:03:00) When did you decide to go to work on yourself, both in fitness and weight loss, and take responsibility for your life and thought process?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/26/20221 hour, 8 minutes, 58 seconds
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ADAM CAROLLA | Truth Yeller

The truth is something a lot of people aren’t interested in hearing these days. Increasingly, we’ve let how we feel about current events become the primary factor for our responses to them. But there are a handful of vocal individuals fighting back and sharing the truth in spite of how it may hurt some people’s feelings and threaten their dangerous ideologies.   My guest is one of those individuals. His name is Adam Carolla and I know a lot of you are already familiar with the great work he’s doing in comedy and podcasting. Today, Adam and I talk about the attack on comedy, what he refers to as “chick think,” why not all opinions carry the same weight, and how to get over what other people think of us.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Consequences of reckless forward “progress” “Chick think” vs. “dude think” Not all opinions are created equal Responding to people’s reactions by adjusting the pitch, not the design We are wired for narcissism Creating a bigger chasm in society There’s been a general attack on “work” Kids cannot defend their minds against propaganda presented in the schools Developing the entrepreneurial spirit   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/25/202253 minutes, 11 seconds
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Write Your Own Story | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares FIVE steps to help you break free from the narrative that others have created for you and take control of your own story.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Decide what kind of story you want it to be Choose your set of characters Close a chapter Decide what your character would do Write your story every single day   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/21/202221 minutes, 50 seconds
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Staying Connected with Your Daughter, Moving On From a Relationship, Floating Through Life | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos field your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group and with the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (7:40) As active duty military, the future is uncertain since I have decided not to get the vaccine. Should I start reaching out to potential future employers in case I get discharged? (14:00) How soon should high school boys and young men be taught the truth about our family court system, to protect them and prepare them? (20:50) What do you attribute to the LDS faith that has such a strong focus on "manhood" verses other protestant faiths? (26:00) I’m 30 years old married and have four kids, but I feel like I’m floating through life right now without a destination in sight.  Where do I start when I don’t have any dreams or ambitions left in me? (32:20) What approach would you find appropriate to get through to someone who “asks for advice” yet is really only looking to validate the decisions they’ve already made? (34:20) How do you stay on track with the Battle Plan during vacation - Is it merely adapting the tactics so that they fit into the day? Or are there other tips and tricks one could apply? (39:20) What are the best strategies to use to stay connected and keep open communication with your daughter as she enters her teen years? (44:30) As a first time dad, what/where should I be focusing my time and energy in order to be prepared and continually lead my new family as effectively as possible? (46:40) How can I channel my son’s destructive nature and boundary issues into something positive? (52:40) How do you assess whether a long term relationship (not yet a marriage) is worth continuing when it hasn’t been going well? (57:30) If somebody wants to make a change in their life, but doesn't believe in themselves to succeed, how can you inspire them to have faith in the process? (1:06:20) Do you think with the exemplary leadership and change, California can be a place of more neutrality and sanity again, or do you think it’s too far gone and we will need to leave to get a suitable environment for our family? (1:10:10) What are some helpful tools to channel focus at times when you can’t focus on the task at hand, especially one that you know needs to be completed?  What are some keys to developing into a person who consistently put themselves in the best position to win? (1:16:20) What do you think of an in-house Order of Man/ Iron Council tournament or Battle Team BJJ tag team matches? Maybe at an OoM jiujitsu camp? or Origin Camp?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/19/20221 hour, 18 minutes, 52 seconds
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TOM DEBLASS | How You Bear It

Life is tough for everyone, some more than others. It’s not a question of whether or not we have or will face adversity but a matter of how we bear it that counts. Whether you grew up in an abusive home, without a father or mother in your life, overcome depression, addiction, and/or suicidal thoughts, every single one of us struggles.   And, my guest today, world champion Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Black Belt, Tom DeBlass, is no exception to that. Today, Tom and I talk about his new book, How You Bear It. We also talk about the importance of doing things the right way versus chasing wins, how to keep yourself centered in the midst of chaos, why and how purpose can be found in service to others, how to keep ourselves from self-sabotaging, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Allow yourself to be a student Trying to stay positive in the face of adversity Moving away from living passively Having the “capability” to administer violence allows you the freedom to be compassionate Doing things out of fear rather than out of confidence Benefitting from physical pain Feeling worthy of success You have to be strategic to make changes   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/18/20221 hour, 6 minutes, 5 seconds
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Why Your Goals are Breaking Down | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE reasons why you may be off track in the pursuit of your goals…and what you can do to get back on the path.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   You don’t have any confidence You have no structure You have no support There’s no emotional investment in your planning You don’t have any faith   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/14/202222 minutes, 5 seconds
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Reconciling with Your Integrity, Breaking and Keeping Promises, and Overcoming Self-Help Exhaustion | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to your hottest questions of the week.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (12:40) How do you practice believing in yourself? (28:40) Do you have tools or practices that help with reducing the clutter of life that can distract you? (33:00) How do I work through the self-help lethargy? (36:30) What’s a good step to break paralysis by analysis? (39:30) Do you have any advice regarding writing (46:50) Any recommendations on how to stay on track after short bursts of success? (56:20) Do you have any insights, tips, or advice for someone who feels like he has tried everything to save a marriage but is close to giving up? (1:06:30) Can we have an in-house BJJ tournament at the next Order of Man event?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/12/20221 hour, 8 minutes, 39 seconds
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DAVE RAMSEY | Step by Step Guide to Building Your Way to Wealth

The topic of money is always a charged one. That’s because everyone wants to build wealth in their lives but don’t always know exactly how or have their own internal dialogues keeping them from doing so. But done the right way, money and wealth can be powerful tools for good in your own life and in the world.   Today, I am joined by one of the most notable people in the world when it comes to the topic of building wealth, Dave Ramsey. And, whether you love or hate him, there is no denying that his message of financial empowerment has reached hundreds of millions of people. Today, Dave and I discuss how money magnifies who you are – good or bad, how to best get a hesitant wife on board with tightening up the finances, where building businesses falls into the wealth equation, how cultural perspectives shape our money decisions, and the step-by-step guide to building your way to wealth.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The point of wealth Vilifying success and blaming others Common sense and building wealth Are you anger-based or fear-based Building a business Behavior is the most important element of personal finance Addressing finances as a couple There is a reason that its unusual for people to be wealthy Mistakes that people make on their way to wealth You need a bigger why than “more stuff”   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/11/202257 minutes, 32 seconds
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Excellence is a Habit | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down five habits that will help you achieve excellence.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Perfection is a myth You cannot be the best unless you’re willing to be the worst Consistency wins Practice does not make perfect How you feel about doing something (that you’ve already committed to) is irrelevant   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/7/202226 minutes, 43 seconds
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Tackling Objectives in 2022, Advice for Building Confidence, and Addressing Your Inner Rage | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond this week’s top questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (6:30) What is one big objective you are hoping to accomplish from your Battle Plan this year? (12:50) What is your best advice for building confidence in sharing what you know? (37:50) What do you do to address an inner rage that you just can’t seem to get control of? (40:00) How do you share and pursue your own vision, and support your wife to do the same, as part of your marriage? And how do you maintain focus as a couple? (45:15) What are you investing in 2022? Any new investments any continued investments? Any advice on creating more streams of income for one’s self and family?  (50:40) How can I teach my teenage nephews valuable lessons that are difficult to consider until after you have life lessons? (54:00) Are the character qualities and virtues of a good follower (employee, subordinate) the same as a good leader? (55:00) Besides time-blocking or task-stacking, do either of you have any specific strategies you use to increase your efficiency while working? (59:20) How do you gain a level of tolerance with coworkers when it's hard to see past laziness and a contempt for idle chit chat? (1:03:00) What can I do to find my purpose? (1:10:40) Do you recommend BJJ as good cross-training with boxing? (1:15:00) How do you ensure that over time you can measure accountability?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/5/20221 hour, 24 minutes, 6 seconds
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RYAN HAWK | Uncommon Behaviors of Productive Achievers

We’re all focused right now on producing maximum results. And, while most men will likely bow out of their resolutions in the next 30 days, it still makes a ton of sense to consider what new habits and actions you can implement on your path to change your life.   That’s why I wanted to have my good friend and fellow podcaster, Ryan Hawk back on the podcast. He’s got a new book coming out that I highly recommend: The Pursuit of Excellence: Uncommon Behaviors of the World’s Most Productive Achievers. Today, Ryan and I cover why we should focus on long-term results over short-term gains, privilege and nepotism and how to tip the odds in your favor, the difference between being liked and being respected, how to find meaning and joy in the climb, and how to achieve excellence in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Most people are not willing to put in the consistent work to be successful What keeps people from deviating from the path? Creating your own education How to build relationships if you feel like you have nothing to add Following your passions vs. finding passion for what you’re doing People with a track record of success will find a way to be successful in most areas Letting go of people from your past who are on a different path There are plenty of opportunities for everyone Building momentum in the writing process Taking criticism and feedback from people whose motives are aligned with yours The importance of delivering the hard truth   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
1/4/20221 hour, 23 minutes, 35 seconds
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The 5 Greatest Lessons I Learned in 2021 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares the biggest lessons he has learned in 2021 and discusses how you can put them into action today.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Be consistent Your network is crucial Question everything Intuition is underrated Plan every single morning and every single night Bonus: marketing is important   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/31/202126 minutes, 31 seconds
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Healthy vs. Unhealthy Ambition, The World vs. The Gospel, and Being an Engaged Man | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (7:10) What are your recommendations for dealing with the loss of a parent? (12:00) How would you adapt your planning to a style of work where the day-to-day priorities shift often? (18:30) What are your thoughts on moving forward after suffering emotional trauma or PTSD? (23:20) What does the Bible say about being a man vs. what the world says? (28:50) How do you define having enough without getting complacent? (45:20) How do you know when its time to step past your fears into a new venture? (52:40) How can men show up for their family with more conviction and confidence? (1:02:00) What has been your biggest life takeaway lately? (1:07:00) What are your tips for leading better when starting a family?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/29/20211 hour, 15 minutes, 53 seconds
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MIKE RITLAND | How to Unf*ck America

Look, anywhere you turn, you’re going to see the challenges we face as Americans. Some, just designed to stir up infighting and eyeballs on media outlets. Others, genuine threats to our way of life. It’s hard to know which is which but it’s imperative we start having some real discussions about the real issues.   My guest today is Mike Ritland, former Navy SEAL, New York Times Bestselling Author, and author of his latest book, Unf*ck America: A Respectful Open-Minded Conversation. Today, Mike and I don’t see eye to eye on everything but we have a powerful conversation about emotion, religion and bias in politics, whether or not inequalities exists in America, what hate speech is and isn’t, money in politics and the dangers of lobbying, the eroding checks and balances in American politics, and ultimately, how to Unfu*k America.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The double edged sword of social media Understand that you might be wrong Politicians: influencers or policy makers? Lobbying is essentially bribery Eliminating the political hurdles to get the right people in office Inequalities in the country Inaccuracies in the media narrative People create things to be pissed about Blaming others to excuse your own failure Hate speech vs. being a dick Evolution of the English language as it relates to gender Voting with your wallet   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/28/20211 hour, 17 minutes, 46 seconds
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Man in the Making | Friday Field Notes

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan and Brecken Michler share the debut episode of Brecken’s new podcast “Man in the Making.”  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Transforming your body Goals for 2021 Myth of Santa Claus   To get notified about when the first “Man in the Making” podcast drops on December 31st, head to www.maninthemaking.com/update.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/24/202144 minutes, 31 seconds
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When Prepping Goes Too Far, Best Single Piece of Advice, and Contentment vs. Complacency | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond to your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (8:00) What are your thoughts on prepping and self-sustainability? How do you find the line between being reasonably prepared and unreasonably paranoid? (19:10) What is the best single piece of advice you have ever received? (24:50) What are your thoughts on Facebook’s “metaverse” project? (35:26) What are some questions to ask when starting a new business? (40:20) What emergency training should everyone have? (45:00) How do you find the difference between contentment and complacency? (53:50) What do you think the world will be like in 40 years? (59:20) What is it about the LDS religion that keeps you involved?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/22/20211 hour, 13 minutes, 25 seconds
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JOE DE SENA | Rules for Resilience

Life is hard. We’re all dealt with hands we don’t particularly appreciate. But that’s no reason to crumble and shirk our responsibilities. In the wake of difficulty, however, it can be challenging to drive on and power through. My guest today, Joe De Sena, the founder of Spartan has made a life of doing just that and helping millions of people do the same for themselves. Today, Joe and I talk about what “true resilience” looks like, how discipline breeds responsibility, when it’s okay to quit based on priorities, why you should make things harder, and rules for resilience for yourself and your family.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Pushing and motivating your kids Being intentional with challenging your kids Humans are motivated by the avoidance of discomfort Why the four-day workweek is a bad idea Combating the influence of mediocrity Working hard is a competitive advantage Discipline breeds responsibility Becoming disciplined Creating your own consequences There are times when you should quit You have to pressure test yourself   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/21/202147 minutes, 52 seconds
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Keys to Crush 2022 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler lays out a 5-step formula that will help you crush 2022.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Know exactly what you want Know your deficiencies Start building your team Plan for execution and communication Have a system for review   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/17/202118 minutes, 13 seconds
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Detaching from Emotions, Becoming More Efficient, and Communicating Boundaries to a Boss | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen return from Mexico to answer your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (6:30) What are the best books for a soon-to-be father? (11:16) What should I do as an individual when I feel like church leadership is losing the courage of their convictions? (21:00) What actions and steps should men take now to have security for their businesses and families with respect to the 6.8% inflation that is expected to only increase? (25:30) How do I make a career move when I’ve maxed out my potential in my current profession? (32:50) What advice do you have for someone moving across country for work with his spouse? (36:10) How do you communicate work-life balance to an employer? (43:14) What are some useful tips for staying efficient in life? (47:30) What is a healthy balance of helping others grow while we work on our own growth? (56:00) What is the best way to communicate with the ex-wife who cares nothing about you and makes a jab at you any chance she gets, but you share three kids?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/15/20211 hour, 10 minutes, 4 seconds
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TANNER GUZY | The Power of Presence

I think everyone knows that that we are all judged, to some degree, by our appearance and how we present ourselves. You don’t have to like it and you don’t have to think it’s fair but it’s the truth. And, yet, so many of us (myself included) overlook the importance our physical aesthetic when it comes to presenting ourselves well. My guest today is long-time friend, repeat guest, and men’s style coach, Tanner Guzy. Today, Tanner and I talk about utilizing clothing as an extension of you, the Aesthetic Overton Window and how it impacts what we wear, why you need to avoid being one-dimensional in the way you present yourself, why dressing well isn’t at all about suits and skinny jeans, and, ultimately, how you can garner influence by improving your presence.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The portrayal of style and fashion in pop culture We have made heroes out of the court jesters Social conditioning has influenced men’s attitude toward fashion Appearance matters when leading others You can be both the warrior and the intellectual Make small tweaks instead of taking it to the extreme Your appearance should mirror your capabilities Don’t let your appearance undermine your credibility How to start making changes Find a style and brand that works and stick with it How do you know when you look good? “Getting away with” dressing inappropriately The aesthetic Overton window   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/14/20211 hour, 8 minutes, 22 seconds
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How to Stop School Shootings | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses what we, as men, need to do to bring an end to school shootings.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Teach proper firearm safety Watch your kids (and other kids) Teach situational awareness to your children Get training for school teachers Get involved in your community   The Iron Council is officially open for a limited time only, join today.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/10/202121 minutes, 29 seconds
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Leading Through Loss, When to Leave Employment, and Fixing Yourself First | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:50) What are the steps to initiate and continue building relationships with a group of people that I want to be around on both personal and professional levels, while still supporting my family? (11:00) How do you deal with social media fame? (16:00) How do you lead your family through the loss of your dog? (23:30) My employer is telling me that I cannot move into a management position because I am too valuable in my current position. When should that answer no longer be acceptable? (36:00) How did you know when to leave your job? (44:00) How do you find work/life balance when you are in the start-up phase of a business? (48:30) What are your thoughts on mental health? Particularly regarding men who go to therapy? (54:00) What are the steps to take to win over the love of your life after she has filed for divorce? (55:50) What can I do, personally, when I feel like my church, globally, is losing the courage of its convictions? (1:02:24) What is the best way to start sparring in Jiu Jitsu?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/8/20211 hour, 10 minutes, 13 seconds
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LUCAS BOTKIN | Building a Firearms Empire

I’ve got an incredible guest today. His name is Lucas Botkin and he is the founder of T. Rex Arms, a firearm accessory manufacturing company. But this conversation took an early turn away from firearms and more into how to build a thriving business using the power of social media. But don’t worry, we still talk about firearms stuff – night vision, optics, body armor, training, etc. But even if you’re not into firearms, we have some topics for you including the power of money, how to manage people correctly, human psychology, making a stand for something, building customer relationships, and how to build a firearms (or any other type) of empire.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   You don’t have to have everything figured out by age 20 You can do what you enjoy AND make a lot of money Shifting focus from the product to the people Working with coaches and mentors Building trust through social media presence Why companies have public relations issues An effective strategy to build brand loyalty Making time for personal development Trends of the firearms community in 2022 Protecting businesses during “peaceful” protests Maintaining professionalism in appearance and behavior Being an ambassador for the gun ownership community Demonstrating competence to new gun owners   The Iron Council is officially open, gents. And, if you’re not familiar with what the Iron Council is, consider it your band of brothers.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/7/20211 hour, 13 minutes, 33 seconds
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Building Your Band of Brothers | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of being part of a band of brothers, like the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Critical considerations for building a band of brothers: You need to be able to qualify the individuals in your circle You need people who are going to be “real”   Join our exclusive band of brothers today.  Membership in the Iron Council is now open for a LIMITED TIME ONLY.  For more information or to join us, visit orderofman.com/ironcouncil   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/3/202127 minutes, 35 seconds
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Mission First, Intuitive vs. Intentional, and the Repentance | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss “matching shirts” and tackle your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (33:20) How did you choose a denomination within Christianity? (40:30) How do you forgive yourself? (43:00) How do you stay focused and determined when you are in the middle of a financial rough patch? (51:16) Will you be having any events for dads and daughters up in Maine? (52:14) Do you have any tips on how to start enjoying your wife again when you don’t enjoy her currently? (57:00) Why do you no longer conclude your podcast with the question “what is the definition of a man?” (59:10) When you start to feel yourself straying from the path, how do you realign?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
12/1/20211 hour, 9 minutes, 16 seconds
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BRANDON TATUM | Two Sides to Every Story

Most of us, when formulating an opinion or perspective about a cultural issue tend to look at one side of the story – myself included. But if we have any chance of making societal and cultural changes that actually improve our way of life, it’s crucial that we look at what we see from all sides.   That’s what my guest today, Brandon Tatum, and I talk about – seeing problems from all angles and waiting for all the information before formulating opinions. We cover the Kyle Rittenhouse and Ahmaud Arbery cases, the dangers of the “Defund the Police” movement and what, if any reform in policing is needed, whether or not systemic racism actually exists, our emotions and our responses to them, use of force laws, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Online vs. offline conversations Context is often lacking, or overlooked, in online posts There are ALWAYS two sides to every story Young men must learn to harness their masculinity People have had to die so that we can have conversations about equality You WANT to face adversity, so that you can become better You choose how you view any situation Double standards in race and politics Pressures of being a black police officer We’re in a police depression Room for improvement in law enforcement If something sounds crazy…do more research Never make a decision after hearing only one side of an argument   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/30/20211 hour, 21 minutes, 36 seconds
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Render Yourself Obsolete | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of rendering yourself obsolete and how to do it.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Know your role as a leader Develop a culture Decentralize command Offer feedback Balance involvement with indifference   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/26/202116 minutes, 35 seconds
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When Guilt Can Serve You, Cultivating Coincidence, and Strategic Stress Relief | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (5:20) How do you get out of the lone wolf mentality due to not wanting to disappoint your battle team? (11:50) How did you take advantage of opportunities to speak and present when others did not? (21:00) What are your marketing tips for a business that challenges the norms? (27:46) What is your favorite: Gi or no Gi? (31:44) Do you have any advice for someone who is confident about their ideas and the topic that they want speak about, but is afraid of public speaking? (38:56) Should I change the date that I am going to propose to my girlfriend if she found out my plans ahead of time? (39:44) What manly values do you want to instill in young athletes? (46:20) When working long hours with a long commute, how can I make the most of my short time at home throughout the week and with my wife on the weekends to stay motivated and happy? (51:10) What are your biggest questions for which you would love to have an answer from God? (54:16) What techniques can a man use when in difficult situations to keep calm, pull himself together, and not let emotions take over? (58:30) How do you use a public restroom while using a IWB (inside waist band) holster? (1:02:14) What are your go-to de-stressing techniques? (1:08:00) What is the difference between being nice and being kind? (1:11:40) How does Ryan’s recent tweet about “the left” help political discourse in the country?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/24/20211 hour, 21 minutes, 18 seconds
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GAD SAAD | How Infectious Ideas Kill Common Sense

We all know how dangerous ideology can be and, yet, some of the most destructive ideas tend to be the most pervasive in society. Why is that? And, how do these parasitic ideas spread so effectively?   My guest today is evolutionary psychologist and author of The Parasitic Mind: How infectious Ideas are Killing Common Sense, Gad Saad. Today, Gad and I discuss his guiding principles: truth and freedom, what he refers to as the “Holy Trinity of Bullshit,” the dangers of post-modernism, the other deadly sin most people don’t talk about, the woke mob’s desire to eliminate culture and history, and how to use your voice against these dangerous ideologies.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The importance of telling the hard truth Postmodernism is a form of intellectual terrorism The idea pathogen of social constructivism Life is about tradeoffs The distinction between feeling and thinking Using the lexicographic rule in politics Sifting through all of the information we have available Don’t set out to offend, but be willing to offend The more things change, the more they stay the same Choosing what is worth pursuing The attacks on truth are relentless Most people lack the courage to use their voice Walk through life like a honey badger   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/23/20211 hour, 13 minutes, 48 seconds
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10 Green Flags to Look For in a Woman | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down 10 positive traits that every man should look for in a woman.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Look for a woman who:   Has a great relationship with her parents Honors femininity and masculinity Has friends who are good for her Has her own hobbies and interests Is independent Despises drama and gossip Has goals that are aligned with yours Is politically and spiritually aligned with you Honors herself Is financially responsible   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/19/202130 minutes, 3 seconds
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Intentionality in All Things, The Spectrum of Nice Guy vs. Asshole, and How to Move From Ordinary to Extraordinary | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen field questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (3:30) Which of the four quadrants has changed your life the most? (10:50) What is the best way to motivate and keep employees in these strange COVID times? (21:30) When looking to change career paths from “8-5” to self-employed small business owner, what are the metrics you suggest tracking and quantifying to prepare? (29:30) What practices do you suggest for marketing when starting a new business? (42:40) What tips or practices do you recommend for “task switching?” (50:00) Do you have any plans to bring on to the podcast successful men from the Iron Council or other non-famous men? (57:00) What are a few “connection” objectives you have used in the past that you have found to be rewarding? (1:00:46) What is the number one relationship in your life calling for your attention right now? (1:01:20) How do you put the right boundaries in place with people that you interact or do business with? (1:12:00) What are some ways that we can keep our pride in check? (1:15:00) What does it take to get to the next level with personal finances? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/17/20211 hour, 22 minutes, 28 seconds
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GREG ELLIS | Fatherhood in the Crosshairs, Part 2

It’s no surprise that the family court system is stacked against men. Millions of men are, quite literally, fighting for their rights and the rights of their children. But I don’t think most men, unless you’ve fallen prey to the courts, know just how deep and deceitful it is.   Today, I am once again joined by Greg Ellis, the author of The Respondent: Exposing the Cartel of Family Law. He shares with me his story of how, after 20 years of marriage, he found himself incarcerated based on false accusations from his ex-wife, how he has been fighting for his children, the deep corruption inside Family Law, how fatherhood is in the crosshairs of culture, and what he’s been doing to expose the truth.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The joy is in the journey, not the destination Corruption in the family court system Both men and women can be good and evil The solution is being truthful Are you adding to the noise by listening to it? Judiciary involved in child trafficking Greatest threat to western civilization is the breakdown of the family The burden of living grief Moral hypocrisy   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/16/20211 hour, 21 minutes, 28 seconds
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Lead in the Absence of Leadership | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down a 3 part framework for being and becoming a leader.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Look to identify problems Step into the solutions Make the connections Bonus: Have your pulse on what’s going on   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/12/202120 minutes, 26 seconds
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How to Sharpen the Ax, What to Ask a Potential Wife, and How to Deal with a Co-worker You Don’t Like | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the importance of sticking to your commitments and take on the week’s top questions.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (7:40) What do you do to sharpen the ax on a regular basis? (13:00) What question(s) should you ask your girlfriend before you propose? (22:50) Given the current state of our military, what are your thoughts on your sons joining? (28:00) What are your thoughts on addiction and recovery? (37:20) What are some skill sets to push past disdain for a co-worker, whom you genuinely believe to be a bad person? (45:50) Can you be a non-religious person and still follow lessons from the Bible? (53:40) What are some good strategies and tactics to deal with bad leadership? (59:00) How do I love and guide my pre-teen daughter when she is being difficult and treating people poorly? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/10/20211 hour, 12 minutes, 21 seconds
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DOUG MARCAIDA | Tempering Violence Through Skill and Familiarity

Extreme violence is something not all of us are likely to face, and that’s a good thing. But that doesn’t mean it can’t happen at the drop of a hat. And, in that moment, it is significantly better to be prepared and aware of what could happen than to be ignorant to it completely. And, that is where my guest today, Doug Marcaida, comes in. He is a martial artist, edge-weapons specialist, and knife designer. And, he is one of the judges on the extremely popular History Channel show, Forged in Fire. Today we talk about creating a home as a safe environment for your family, the culture of violence, martial arts and their efficacy, curbing the beast inside of us all, the concept of “verbal judo,” and ultimately how to temper violence though skill and familiarity.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Making home the safe place for your kids You don’t have to be like your parents Finding comfort in the practice of martial arts The predators are always armed Make your fear your strength We are armed all the time You should not take martial arts to become violent Using martial marts to transition from the military We have to weigh our principles  Deescalate by using humor   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/9/20211 hour, 5 minutes, 15 seconds
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5 Strategies to Save Your Marriage | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down 5 strategies you can implement immediately to improve the quality of your marriage.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Commit Drop the ego Offer grace Play with her Learn how to be a man without her   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/5/202123 minutes, 27 seconds
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Burning Boats vs. Burning Bridges, God’s Sovereignty vs. individual Sovereignty, When to Speak vs. When to Shut Up | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to the top questions from the Order of Man Facebook group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (5:50) How do I balance chasing my dreams vs. providing for my kids? (13:30) When you have made the choice to go all in, what is the best method to keep the doubt at bay to allow you to stay the course? (22:00) For believers, where is the line between faith and sovereignty? (32:40) What is your favorite dish to make with venison or any game? (35:40) When should I speak and when should I hold my tongue? (44:10) Do you feel that 18 years old is a good age to let your kids fail? (52:00) what is the best way to support the emotional health of my mother, who has breast cancer, while taking care of my own emotional health? (58:00) If my job as a truck driver requires me to be gone for two weeks at a time, what are some ideas for how I can maintain my relationship with my wife and kids? (1:00:00) How do I mange the estate of my grandmother when other family members are trying to take advantage of the situation? (1:04:40) What should I do when my employer is requiring me to get the COVID vaccine in order to keep my job? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/3/20211 hour, 10 minutes, 24 seconds
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PETE ROBERTS | The Pursuit

My guest today is my good friend and incredible entrepreneur and visionary behind Origin USA, Pete Roberts. You know I’ve been talking about Origin for years and if you don’t know who Pete is and what he’s doing to reclaim American Manufacturing, this is going to be the podcast conversation for you. Today, we talk about dealing with uncertainty, how to determine what to move towards in the face of so many choices, developing the “let’s find out” mentality, what it takes to win and thrive, the dichotomy between risk and reward, and ultimately, the pursuit of not only changing yourself but the world.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The bank is your partner, not your enemy Being an “actionable dreamer” Articulating your vision for those around you Squatters, renters, and owners There can be no egos if we’re going to win Support your best employees You can’t only care about people when it benefits you You are not in control Live every day like it’s your last day Failure is not “final” If you’re not replaceable, you’re not promotable The pursuit of a lifetime   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
11/2/20211 hour, 29 minutes, 43 seconds
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The Plague of Overconsumption | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down how overconsumption is plaguing men and how we can overcome it.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Move from consumer to producer Focus on being a good person and serving others Add value to others…ultimately you will receive value in return   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/29/202116 minutes, 23 seconds
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Building Fortitude in Your Son, Reclaiming Masculinity, and the Power of Telling the Truth Relentlessly | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler is joined by Shawn Villalovos as they take on the week’s top questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (5:00) How does someone get into hunting if they don’t have the experience or friends to help them? (13:16) How do you find ways to connect with a child who doesn’t share your interests? (26:00) What activities will be included in the Order of Man Father/Daughter event? (31:40) What activities will help cultivate more mental toughness and fortitude in my son? (45:00) At what point do we need to recognize that society is trying to redefine what it means to be a man? (53:30) What are the first steps for building trust from the bottom up after you lose someone’s trust? (59:30) What are your thoughts on investing in assets because of where inflation is headed? If you agree, where would you start? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/27/20211 hour, 9 minutes, 8 seconds
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CHRIS WILLIAMSON | Ageless Wisdom for Modern Times

There is so much wisdom to be found all around us and, yet, so many of us are so consumed with the minutiae of life that we never take any amount of time to pause, reflect, and consider the ageless wisdom that could drastically alter the course of our lives.   But it’s the ability to stop, ponder, and critically think about the situations we find ourselves in that will get you on the path you have a desire to walk. And, today, I am joined by the host of the Modern Wisdom Podcast, Chris Williamson, to discuss things like the power of curiosity, how to graduate from your current friends, how mental masturbation is holding you back, why you need to find ways to break up the monotony of your life, and so much more.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Overcoming the “adult infant” Recognizing worth outside of your accomplishments The problem with insecurity and fear as a motivator Having faith and confidence in your future self The importance of how we frame a situation in our minds Goals and process are both important to success Motivation is not a bad thing Developing “confident competence” Starting small Consistency is key Don’t over-complicate things Vindicating past suffering by helping others Building a complimentary team Never multiply anything by “0” The downside is rarely a bad as it seems Opportunity cost vs. anxiety cost   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/26/20211 hour, 17 minutes, 33 seconds
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Develop the “Let’s Find Out” Mentality | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler returns from a successful hunt to discuss why men should move from a “What If?” mindset to a “Let’s Find Out” mindset.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   What opportunities have you already missed by playing safe? Your situation is no different than the people you see as successful The worse case scenario is usually not as bad as you fear Don’t just play ‘not to lose’    Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/22/202118 minutes, 7 seconds
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Overcoming Pride, the Proper Role of Leadership, and Advice for Starting a Business| ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen takes on the top questions from members of the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (1:25) When moving to a new town or city, where would you start looking for like-minded men besides the Iron Council?  What would attract you to join a men’s group in your area? (4:42) How do you harmonize the concept of ‘serving your spouse without feeling like a servant’ with the Christian man’s duty to be a ‘servant leader?’ (9:00) What methods have you found successful for recovery after intense physical training? (9:30) What experiences can you share with overcoming pride? (14:00) When starting your own brand or business, what is the biggest tuition payment you’ve made in the area of social media? (16:46) Is there value in directly intervening when a friend is experiencing relationship challenges with his spouse? (23:30) Can you share your current battle plan and do you typically share it with those outside of the Iron Council? (27:30) How do I know if I should spend less time on personal growth and fitness and more time working and increasing income for the family? (31:40) What are your top three pieces of advice for starting your own business? (37:40) What is the single most important issue at this moment in time? Why? (39:14) What does the Order of Man ‘War Eagle’ mean to you? (41:40) Does your wife train Brazilian jiu-jitsu? (46:40) What is your number one lesson to teach your boys? (52:00) How do you maintain order and cleanliness in your home? How do you teach this to your children? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/20/202158 minutes, 23 seconds
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MIKE GLOVER | American Contingency

There is no question that America is in turmoil right now. Between nationwide shortages of supplies, the unpopularity of our current President, the reaction and subsequent fallout of COVID, and the extreme polarity among so many of us, it’s clear that we’re likely to face some challenging times ahead. The questions that remain are, “Are you ready?” and, “Will you be able to protect, provide, and preside over you and yours?” That’s exactly why I’ve been looking forward to the conversation with my guest, Mike Glover with Fieldcraft Survival and American Contingency. Today, we talk about building the next generation of warriors, the importance of service to community, the degradation and destruction of the family unit, “endless wars,” the turmoil in Afghanistan (which most of us have already forgotten), and how to be a man in and for your community.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   What is being done in Afghanistan The degradation of Christian values The origins of Fieldcraft Survival Behind the curtains of the CIA Central government versus the people It is our role to assist the world Extreme incompetence or extreme intentionality Shipping troubles and Chinese involvement Developing a community of assets Become the solution to your own problem     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/19/20211 hour, 25 minutes, 35 seconds
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A Complacent Man vs. A Content Man, and What’s the Difference | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how you can know whether you are being complacent or content in life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Stagnant vs. evolving Scarcity mindset vs. abundance mindset Oblivious vs. peaceful Passive vs. assertive Contentious vs. gracious   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/15/202126 minutes, 21 seconds
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How Jiu-Jitsu Makes You a Better Man, the Difference Between Content and Complacent, and Strategies for Controlling Emotions | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to LIVE questions from this past weekend’s Maine Event.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 10:20 - What is a strategy for success when making a big move? 18:20 - How do you respond when you invest in a relationship and then it fails? 29:00 - How do you see individuals helping YOU achieve your vision? 36:00 - Have you discovered new strengths or weaknesses or are they just new versions of the ones you’ve always had? 43:32 - What advice do you have for military members considering separating due to vaccine mandates? 51:30 - How do you make the distinction between being satisfied with where you are and slipping into complacency? 59:40 - How do I make sure that I continue to show up as a father after divorce? 1:08:00 - What are some strategies to not let your emotions cloud your judgment? 1:15:20 - What advice can you give someone to drag them away from toxic news or media? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/13/20211 hour, 20 minutes, 26 seconds
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JOHN BARKLOW | A Primer on Hunting

Hunting has started to gain some serious traction over the past several years. With notable influencers like Joe Rogan, Cameron Hanes, and John Dudley all advocating for the benefits of connecting with your food source, it’s easy to see why so many have become interested in the process. In fact, I only started hunting 4 years ago and, in that time, I have been introduced to some amazing people in the community like my guest today, John Barklow, who is a big game product manager for the premier camouflage on the market, SITKA Gear. Today, John and I talk about how social media has both been helping and hurting the cause of hunting, why there is such a surge in the hunting space, why – if you want to get into hunting yourself – you need to take initiative, the beautiful responsibility outdoorsmen have, and the proficiencies men need to develop to become successful in harvesting wild game.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The rising popularity of hunting Instagram hunting vs. reality Finding common ground with vegans and vegetarians Building the best outdoor gear you can get How to get started in hunting Starting with the right equipment and clothing Putting in the reps before you go for the big trophy The trophy is a reminder of the memories and hard work Stop making excuses and get out there Getting experience even if you don’t have a tag Training SEALs Understand the limitations of what you wear     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/12/20211 hour, 22 minutes, 58 seconds
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How Men Change the Tide of Culture | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down four steps men can take right now to change culture for the better.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Fix yourself first (spiritual health, emotional health, mental health, physical health) Lead your family well Serve your community Teach other men how to do it   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/8/202122 minutes, 27 seconds
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Developing a Competitive Mindset, Achieving Excellence, and Managing Fear | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen break down the top questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 5:50 - What are the first three things you would focus on if you had to start marketing Order of Man all over again? 12:30 - If you fail to reach an objective on your Battle Plan, should you double down on that objective in the following quarter or reevaluate? 15:00 - How would you prioritize liabilities and costs? 27:16 - Do you have any nutrition plans that you recommend? 32:40 - What major lessons did you learn about life as a child? Have they remained true to you as you’ve grown up? 49:20 - What can big companies learn from small companies about the benefits of producing domestic products over outsourcing? 51:45 - What keeps you going in the darkest of times? 1:00:00 - How do you get deeper into a competitive mindset? 1:09:45 - What are your recommendations for someone who is stuck in limbo? 1:14:10 - What are some tips and suggestions for managing the fear that comes with making a change? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/6/20211 hour, 21 minutes, 56 seconds
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JESSE ITZLER| Living a Life Optimized

Work/life balance is a term that gets thrown around all the time. And, although I believe it’s a bit of a misnomer, there is no question that finding the proper allocation of time, attention, and resources towards professional and personal pursuits is on plenty of men’s minds.   That’s why I’m stoked to finally be sitting down with my friend, Jesse Itzler. Jesse is someone who, in spite of his tremendous professional success, has managed to become an incredibly committed and devoted husband and father. Today, we talk about why that is and how he has been able to make that happen using very specific strategies and system (which he shares during our conversation), pursuing unique and interesting ventures, finding one challenging adventure to take part in each and every year, and how to live a life optimized.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Kids are on their own journey How do we hold ourselves accountable as parents Embracing challenge and building your “life resume” As you evolve, your life system evolves Importance of morning and evening routines Jesse’s system for life optimization Speeding up the process Living like a monk Dealing with disappointment Don’t give up what you have for what you want     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/5/20211 hour, 15 minutes, 51 seconds
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Successful Amateur or Novice Professional | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 5 critical steps in making the switch from amateur to professional.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   An amateur dabbles, a professional is committed An amateur does things for fun, a professional makes money An amateur relies on organic growth, a professional is strategic with growth An amateur desires minimal investment, a professional seeks maximum investment An amateur's interests are self serving, a professional seeks to serve others   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
10/1/202127 minutes, 29 seconds
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What is Freedom, The Finite Game vs the Infinite Game, and Defining Your Legacy | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen field the week’s top questions from inside the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 4:10 - Are you free? What does freedom look like to you? 16:40 - Do you do Wim Hof breathing and do you notice benefits? 35:06 - How long did it take for you to trust that everything would get done? 48:40 - How do you reconcile Romans 13 with your decision not to get the COVID vaccine? 56:10 -  What is the difference between doing your best and going above and beyond? 1:00:20 - How do you keep moving on when the high after Legacy, or similar events, wears off? 1:03:00 - How do you know you are living God’s will for your life? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/29/20211 hour, 14 minutes, 53 seconds
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BEN SHAPIRO | The Authoritarian Moment

My guest today needs no introduction. His name is Ben Shapiro and he is likely one of the most polarizing guests that I’ve had on since we started podcasting 6 years ago. But regardless of what you may think about him and his stances on the world’s most pressing concerns, these are exactly the types of challenging conversations we should be having. Today, we cover a lot of ground including Ben’s new book, The Authoritarian Moment: How the Left Weaponized America’s Institutions Against Dissent. We also discuss the shifting Overton Window in politics, using logic over feelings to create solutions, why many people are “too nice” and losing the cultural battle, and where one needs to draw the line on government overreach.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Most Americans don’t feel comfortable saying what they want to say Most corporations want to avoid controversy People in the middle tend to cave to the louder side The left has overshot their mark Social media rewards the most radical The problem with broadly defining problems We have to play by the rules we have agreed upon The Federal government has grown beyond its intended size Potential inciting incidents that could lead to permanent fragmentation How do we shift the tides in culture and society     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/28/20211 hour, 50 seconds
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Developing a Healthy Relationship with Failure | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler outlines a three-part framework to help you develop a better relationship with failure.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Accept that sometimes you fall short. Analyze where you failed. ACT.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/24/202123 minutes, 53 seconds
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How to Add Value When You Have No Value to Add, How to Control Your Anger Issues, and What Will Be Your Legacy | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler is back, as he and Kipp Sorensen take on this weeks top questions from Facebook.   Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 3:00 Regarding homeschooling… Is there a plan to send the kids to college or trade school? What if they want to go back to public school? 7:00 What do your weekly family meetings look like? 10:20 How would you confront a cheating brother in law? 34:40 Can you share some tips, tricks, and strategies for networking with high performers?  44:50 What guests are you working on lining up for the podcast? 48:00 Do you have your sons take hunter’s safety? Why? 50:30 How did you find a publisher for your “fabulous” book? 56:00 How do you process grief? 1:06:00 What is Ryan’s desired legacy? And what is the most important lessons you teach your kids to help define and support that legacy? 1:09:40 Do you have any tips and resources for controlling anger and letting go while in the moment? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/22/20211 hour, 26 minutes, 24 seconds
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JASON WILSON | Embracing the Lion and the Lamb

The world (and our social media accounts) are flooded with a false sense of bravado, machismo, and the “alpha” mentality from men who, when you peel back the layers, are dealing with some very difficult and challenging experiences and struggles. Unfortunately, many of them have never learned to deal with these experiences head on and end up doing a lot of mental and emotional damage to themselves and others along the way. My guest today, is Jason Wilson, the author of Battle Cry: Waging and Winning the War Within. Today, Jason and I discuss why men have a hard time addressing and dealing with these wounds, the difference between being worried and being concerned, his own experiences with unhealed trauma, what it means to be a comprehensive man, a four-part framework for mastering your emotions, and how you can and should embrace in your inner lion and lamb.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   The world needs the lion and the lamb No such thing as negative emotions Mastering your emotions It’s ok for men to release through tears Worrying is different than concern The importance of staying in the moment The difference between being assertive and being aggressive Admiring the strength of women Ruling your own emotions allows you to communicate better   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/21/20211 hour, 20 minutes, 47 seconds
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Predator or Prey? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down five questions you can ask yourself to determine if you are living like a predator or living like prey.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Do you kill or do you graze? Are you reactive or are you responsive? Are you focused or are you easily distracted? Do you run towards hardship or do you run away? Do you play to win or do you play not to lose?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/17/202123 minutes, 56 seconds
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Life-Defining Moments, Should You Quit Over Mandates, and Improving the Quality of Your Life | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and guest co-host Shawn Villalovos tackle the week’s hottest questions.   Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 2:40  What training outside of Jiu-Jitsu do you recommend? 4:40  What was your most life-defining moment? 19:00 If a vaccinated or unvaccinated person can still get and transmit the virus, what difference does it make if you are vaccinated or not?  31:00  Where’s a good place to purchase survival food for emergencies? 32:30  How do you improve your quality of life as fast as you can? 41:00  When asked to do something you don’t agree with at work (specifically related to Biden’s latest mandate), do you resign? 45:40  How do I best explain to my wife how beneficial the Iron Council can be for us? 50:50  What's the barrier between wanting to be happy, knowing what it takes, and actually being willing to do those things? 58:00  Why do you think so many people prefer the negative outlook on life? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/15/20211 hour, 8 minutes, 31 seconds
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DAN CRENSHAW | Ignorance and Outrage are the Enemy

Needless to say, there has been a tremendous amount of turmoil and division in America over the past several years. This isn’t new in the history of the United States but it seems to me that we, as citizens, are more divided than we’ve ever been on a myriad of issues from foreign policy, to COVID restrictions and mandates, to gun legislation and healthcare, and everywhere in between. And, my guest today has a lot to say about these issues and more. And, not ironically, I’m sure people will be very divided on this conversation as well. His name is Representative Dan Crenshaw, a former Navy SEAL and Representative for the state of Texas. Today, we discuss the new COVID measures announced by President Biden last week, foreign affairs and the threat of terrorism (including everything happening in Afghanistan right now), why our emotional responses to these issues are getting us into trouble and putting us in danger, and why we all need to be more informed rather than ignorant on the most pressing issues of today.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Discussing the government response to COVID Balancing being empathetic with being rational Why get into politics and how does it change people Thoughts on leaving Afghanistan - what is an acceptable cost? Most people have not known war for 20 years, they have known peace Biden got lucky that the Taliban took over so quickly The proper way to look at healthcare We need more confidence in our arguments   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/14/202157 minutes, 37 seconds
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Rebuild and Remake Yourself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how to find opportunity through hardship.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Start thinking about the long term - what/who are you going to create? What do you need in order to make it a reality - who do you need to become? Start formulating plan - what is your strategy for getting there? Get to work.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/10/202116 minutes, 6 seconds
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Breaking the Hold of Pornography, Taking Life Too Seriously, and Becoming More Resilient | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler is flying solo and answering the week’s top questions from Order of Man’s exclusive brotherhood.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 3:26 How do you be present and honest with yourself? 8:30 Do you ever wonder if you are taking everything too seriously? 15:00 What tips can you provide for uprooting the family to a new state? 18:12 How would you recommend turning a daily objective into a tangible task that you know you’re making progress in? 24:00 Are there any activities or exercises you practice in order to become more resilient in preparation for future challenges? 26:10 What are your strategies for instilling self-confidence in your kids? 32:16 Within the household, do men need to lead in every scenario or are there some areas where women should lead? 38:50 How do you know when your Battle Plan or goals are pushing you hard enough versus pushing too hard in one area? 45:30 Did your wife always work out and take care of herself? 51:00 For men who are trying to break free from pornography, why is it important for them to actively be part of an accountability group and report successes and failures? 57:14 What Jiu-jitsu Gi do you wear and what do you recommend for beginners? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/8/202158 minutes, 59 seconds
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ZUBY | Common Sense in Uncommon Times

Increasingly, it seems to be that we’re losing much of the common sense that we, collectively, once possessed. Common sense has been replaced with quick sounds bites, “clapbacks” on social media, and manufactured outraged designed to drive clicks and capture eyeballs and attention.   But my guest today is using his voice, social media, and any other platform available to share his common sense, rational approach to some of the world’s most pressing concerns. His name is Zuby and I know many of you are already very familiar with his work. Today, we talk about the dangers of tribalism, the motives and intentions of our government overlords and elites, how to have real conversations that actually drive change, why empathy is crucial in dialogue, and how to recapture common sense in uncommon times.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   You can only do so much thinking by yourself There are three ways to solve any conflict Effective communication is a super power We’re all susceptible to group think What it means to live in a free society Fear and anxiety shuts down rational thinking The importance of understanding the perspectives of other people Focus the conversation on where we agree, rather than disagree Don’t fall for media propaganda The bias is often hidden in what people “don’t” say Being wrong is different than lying Everybody is a moral monster to someone else   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/7/20211 hour, 23 minutes, 57 seconds
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When Vision Becomes Reality | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses three steps to help you turn your vision into reality.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Dream big but work small Focused variety Honor the journey   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/3/202118 minutes, 54 seconds
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Developing Self-Accountability, the Need for Moral Sacrifice, and Broaching Difficult Conversations with Kids | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss Kipp’s newly-awarded black belt and dig into your questions.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 11:24 Do you address topics, such as transgenderism, feminism, etc., with your children? If so, how? 19:24 How have you found success with creating your schedule and sticking to it when you are the only person holding yourself accountable? 25:14 How do you maintain discipline and consistency when working on self-improvement? 38:14 For someone who is recently divorced with children, what advice do you have for dating women and finding the right partner? 46:10 How does one battle moral beliefs with work mandates? Is it different if your employer is the military? 51:40 What are some good forms of discipline for children? 1:00:44 How do I deal with disapproval (or “hatred”) from the parents of the girl I am dating? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
9/1/20211 hour, 8 minutes, 15 seconds
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MICHAEL CHANDLER | Family Man and Fighter

Gentlemen, I cannot tell you how stoked I am to have my guest on today, Mr. Michael Chandler. If you’re not already familiar with who he is, Chandler is a three-time Bellator MMA Champion who only recently made his debut in the UFC after long-time speculation of him making the switch to UFC. On top of all of that, Michael is a devoted family man and we spent about half of our conversation talking about what it means for him to be a husband and father. We also cover overcoming a very public loss, why every man ought to bet on himself, three traps to avoid when on the losing side of the equation, Chandler’s upcoming fight in November, and the conflicting aspirations of being a family man and fighter.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Being selfish in training so you can be selfless with your family Grinding until we’re 50 Anticipating and avoiding regret The importance of making your partner the best person they can be In relationships, it all comes down to communication Taking chances on yourself What do you do when you fall short Be your authentic self Praying for wisdom and discernment Success not perfection We follow people because they are willing to take chances Fighting for a living, while living a Christian life The importance of having a long term perspective Embracing the process should be the goal   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/31/20211 hour, 16 minutes, 34 seconds
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Make Better Decisions | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how the OODA loop can help us make better decisions. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   The OODA Loop and decision making   Observe - Where are you currently and what exactly do you want? Orient - What are the steps that it will take to get me there? Decide - Make a decision. Act - Put it into action…then start back at “Observe”   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/27/202123 minutes, 35 seconds
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Tips for Starting Jiu-Jitsu, the Link Between Assertiveness and Confidence, and Turning Flaws into Advantages | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen sit down together at Origin’s Jiu-Jitsu Immersion Camp to tackle the hottest questions of the week.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 6:00 What’s going on with Ryan’s belt? 7:12 Gi or no Gi? 16:00 Do you have any advice for men just starting out in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu? 12:45 How long has Kip been cycling? How does this benefit you, mentally or physically, compared to Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu? 36:00 What is the relationship between assertiveness and confidence, and tips to grow both? 42:00 Before going into a business partnership with a friend, what are some things you should agree on or should you avoid it altogether? 48:00 Who are your heroes? 55:30 Do you think that the “multiverse” argument is lazy? 59:00 What is your favorite podcast interview you’ve ever done and why? 1:03:00 How can we be present with our flaws and how can we turn them into advantages? 1:04:45 What can I do to help save siblings from having a victimhood mindset? 1:10:06 What is your advice on getting over being quiet and reserved in public? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/25/20211 hour, 23 minutes, 29 seconds
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GREG ELLIS | Fatherhood in the Crosshairs, Part I

Frankly, gents, I don’t even know what to say about this conversation. It was a powerful discussion from a man who has been through hell and back to fight for not only who he is as a man but as a father of his children. His name is Greg Ellis and, although you may not recognize his name, you have definitely seen him on the Silver Screen. Today we talk about the true purpose of vulnerability, why social media should be called “anti-social media,” the crisis of meaning that modern society is facing, and why fatherhood is in the crosshairs.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Using social media as a tool Appreciating art, literature, and sports We are not entitled to success Drawing inspiration from challenge Society devaluing the “male” The importance of an earned merit system Competition versus cooperation The most influential person gets to establish and enforce the rules Don’t count your victory while the game is still being played We have to let kids deal with their own hardship Boys raised with a dad tend to be more purpose driven The value of “empowerment feminism” The inequality of the equality movement We need to challenge moral hypocrisy Getting set for part 2 of the conversation   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/24/20211 hour, 25 minutes, 40 seconds
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The Single Greatest Factor that Determines Your Success | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the five steps to being present and how presence will help you achieve maximum success in every area of your life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Five key elements of being present in the moment and how it can serve you effectively:   Focus Curiosity Humility Mastery Objectivity   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/20/202123 minutes, 57 seconds
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The Single Greatest Factor to Success, Separating Emotion and Response, 3 Ways to Develop Personal Responsibility in Kids | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss Ryan’s take on Afghanistan and tackle your hottest questions from the week.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 10:20 What are healthy ways that men can process sadness without feeling weak? 14:40 What areas should men focus on to render themselves obsolete and prepare children to leave the house? 28:10 What is the next step for Order of Man as a whole? 38:40 What is the number one indicator of guys being successful within the Iron Council (and life)? 45:55 How do you realign your goals, halfway through the year, to finish the year strong? 50:20 How do you find a healthy balance between “me time” and “family time?” 52:20 What does “transition” mean when transitioning from military to civilian or from one career to another? 59:50 How can you gauge if you are a “warrior” if your mettle has never been tested? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/18/20211 hour, 4 minutes, 54 seconds
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SAL DI STEFANO | How Resistance Training Improves Strength and Makes You a Better Man

Every one of us intuitively knows that getting stronger is the right thing to do. It quite literally improves every facet of our lives from the influence we can develop with others, to the energy needed to build a business, and the stamina and mental fortitude needed to raise and lead a family. Why, then, do so many men slack in this department?   My guest, Sal Di Stefano, and I talk about that today. He is an expert in strength training and the author of The Resistance Training Revolution. We discuss the chronic health issues of today’s modern man, cardio vs. strength training, developing testosterone naturally, the traits of admirable men, and how to burn fat and get stronger.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Why men are not doing what they know they should be doing What resistance training is…and IS NOT Understanding calories and how our bodies adapt Why it makes sense to “get jacked” You have to enjoy or at least value the process All forms of activity, if applied appropriately, have value Longevity and resistance training Resistance training and increasing testosterone The “alphas” are the ones who could lay the smack down but don’t The effect of resistance training on political views   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/17/20211 hour, 13 minutes, 26 seconds
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The DO’s and DO NOT’s of Separation and Divorce | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down what to do and what not to do when going through a separation or divorce. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   DO’s Train your body Learn a new skill Develop a new hobby Start a side business Build new male friendships Participate in a physical challenge Get your financial affairs in order Get involved in a charity   DO NOT’s Do not drink your sorrows away Do not get lost in pornography Do not stalk her Do not sleep with a bunch of women Do not seek vengeance Do not end your life   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/13/202133 minutes, 37 seconds
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Strategy is Downstream From Mindset, How Pastors and Therapists are Failing Men, and Holding Elected Officials Accountable | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take your questions from Facebook and discuss why every man should consider himself “awesome.”  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 11:20 What do you think is the source of apprehension in men surrounding counseling? 20:40 How do I develop more influence over my daughter, who is in college? 24:20 What have you learned from starting and leading the Order of Man movement? 40:40 What are some ways we can hold elected officials accountable? 44:30 How do you get through to kids who have decided that they are “trans” or non-binary? 56:20 What is your opinion on leading entry-level workers? 01:03:00 What is the number one indicator of success with guys in the Iron Council? 01:10:40 When you F up, what are your tactics for continuing on and making amends; specifically, how to deal with feelings of failure? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/11/20211 hour, 21 minutes, 17 seconds
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MADISON CAWTHORN | Men, America, and Politics

I had the opportunity to visit with Representative Madison Cawthorn with my family in DC last week and, let me tell you, it did not disappoint. We got a chance to tour the Capitol Building and get a small glimpse inside the world of politics and DC. But we also had the chance to sit down in his office and throw down the podcast you’re about to listen to.   We talk about the world of politics, why, while politics is fast-paced, very little seems to get accomplished on the Hill, how we as men can be informed without immersing ourselves in the political arena and theater that comes with it, the world of outrage, and, at the end of the day, what we as men need to do to keep this country on track.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Most politicians come to DC with noble intentions Its important (and fun) to play the political game Term limits on congress Values-based rather than issue-based representation How to avoid corruption while being surrounded by it Don’t be defined by your challenges Working with people you don’t like The balance between speaking in a bold way and avoiding extremism Using a lack of a filter as strategy The benefits of surrounding yourself with people who will call you out Disappointment is the most challenging thing about being in DC What is the political leadership doing right? Time for the silent majority to wake up A term limit bill that actually has a chance Eliminating federal income tax   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/10/20211 hour, 13 minutes, 56 seconds
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Innoculate Yourself Against Employer Mandates | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the four things men should do to become less dependent on their employer. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Become a master networker Have ZERO debt Create multiple income streams Produce more than you consume   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/6/202133 minutes, 14 seconds
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Acting Vs. Being Acted Upon, Feminism's Negative Effect on Society, and A Simple Question for Radical Self-Improvement | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen celebrate Ryan being freed from Instagram jail (for now), answering your hottest questions from the week.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 7:12  Who is your current dream guest? 9:40 Do you think political views within a relationship need to be similar for the relationship to work? 16:50 Do you have advice for husbands whose wife is struggling with postpartum depression? 23:30 What are your thoughts on the man who gained an elected position in prison?  Is this the sign of a healthy or failed justice system? Healthy or failed democracy? 29:00 What are a few things (and the most important thing) that you’ve done to improve your relationship with your wife? 33:40 Do you think I should get off social media? 37:50 Is there a tipping point in our country’s slide toward socialism when you would consider leaving? If so, where would you go? 40:00 Do you feel there is a direct connection between feminism and the divorce rate in the US? 52:20 In a world of men who are afraid to make mistakes or fail, what are some quantifiable ramifications of passivity and being quiet to avoid confrontation? 59:55 What is one good strategy to deal with overcoming distractions? 1:07:40 When you’ve felt like a failure or if you’ve dealt with depression, how did you handle that mentally and use it as a tool to motivate you and not depress you even more? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/4/20211 hour, 16 minutes, 21 seconds
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MICHAEL EASTER | Seek and Embrace Discomfort

Our innate pursuit of comfort is the enemy of achievement and, yet, we’ve failed collectively to keep our biological hardwiring to seek the path of least resistance in check. Why is that? Why is it that we know we should seek discomfort yet find it so difficult to do?   That’s the topic of my conversation today with Michael Easter, the author of The Comfort Crisis. Today, Michael and I discuss the damage of helicopter and “snow plow” parenting, the psychological programming that keeps us from achievement, the concept of Mysogi and embracing annual challenges, how a healthy relationship with death keeps people fulfilled, and ultimately what you can do to overcome the Comfort Crisis that permeates every fabric of society.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Life really isn’t that hard Parents seeking guidance from, rather thank giving guidance to, their kids Snow plow parenting Measuring happiness The value in considering your own death Challenges are required for true happiness Finding the balance between seeking comfort and challenging ourselves Why do we need to exercise How do we push ourselves mentally and emotionally The benefits and drawbacks of routine Finding value in boredom Put your ego aside: try to suck at something   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
8/3/20211 hour, 6 minutes, 30 seconds
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Small Wins, Big Results | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men need to stop swinging for the fence and just try to get on base. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Men constantly swing for the fence, trying to get the results without putting in the work. Wins should not be defined by the outcome, they should be defined by the process - the results will take care of themselves. Write down small wins, experience big results.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/30/202113 minutes, 53 seconds
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Making Simple (But Not Easy) Choices, Addressing Red Flags Early and Often, and Overcoming Distraction Once and For All | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen battle through technical issues and travel fatigue to tackle some of Instagram’s hottest questions.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 6:10 Do you think its a duty for men to train our minds and bodies to protect the people we hold dear? 7:20 How can you make sure you are investing enough time in family? 10:00 What are some ideas for ‘rights of passage’ for becoming a man? 11:30 Any tips for maintaining a consistent workout routine after having a baby? 14:00 What is one skill you wish you had but you do not? 17:00 What are some recommendations for a beginner archery hunting bow? 21:40 Have you ever thought of competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu? 23:30 What are some book recommendations for my ten-year-old son? 24:45 Who would you recommend to follow on Instagram? 26:15 When starting a business, do you prefer to take out a small business loan or find an investor? 31:00 Are there certain liberal values you wish the right would adopt? 32:50 Do you ever make the mindset shift to depend more on God and release high self expectations? 36:25 What do you do when your profession no longer aligns with your values? 40:14 Do you have any thoughts on bad selfishness and how to stop thinking about myself above other people’s needs? 43:50 What is one good strategy to overcome and deal with distractions? 47:12 What metrics do you use to personally track your success? 53:35 Are there any good podcasts that speak more to the mom’s role on raising a boy into a man? 58:20 How do you strive to maintain balance in your life on a daily basis as stressors grow and kids/family/work are introduced? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/28/20211 hour, 2 minutes, 11 seconds
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LES STROUD | Become a Survivorman

My guest today needs no introduction. Most of you might know him as Survivorman. His name is Les Stroud and he is a legend in the nature, wildlife, and survival communities (for good reason).   Now, I thought we’d be talking all about survival strategies and techniques today but we immediately took the conversation deeper and covered everything from our disagreements on the Boys Scouts new rules allowing girls, why women tend to be better survivalists and what gets in men’s way, our responsibility to contribute to society and the 3 ways we can, what the “joy of completion” means and how to harness it, and how to become our own survivorman in every facet of life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Why women tend to perform better in certain survival situations How ego gets in a mans way in a survival situation Value of women being included in Boy Scouts The importance of adult male mentorship to young males How to overcome the lack of early mentorship as a young man The benefits and drawbacks of having a chip on your shoulder How canoeing lead Les to what he is doing today The importance of the “joy of completion” The benefits of connecting with nature The joy of teaching kids Why failure is a great teacher The importance of giving your kids realistic expectations   If you want to learn how to better communicate with your peers, wife, kids, friends, neighbors, and strangers, join us inside the Iron Council this month. ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/27/20211 hour, 12 minutes, 37 seconds
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Manufacture Hardship | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses facilitating personal growth by creating environments where you can suffer - physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually.   Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   In light of life being relatively easy, we must deliberately and intentionally create hardship for ourselves in controlled environments Manufacturing hardship is not about playing the victim card In your training, choose the path of MOST resistance Distinguish between sources of fear: “is this going to kill me” or “is this just going to make me uncomfortable”   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/23/202128 minutes, 42 seconds
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The Power of Proximity, BJJ in the Real World, and the 3-Part Formula for Effective Boundaries | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss how single men can positively impact fatherless boys, how to hold the line after past failures, and so much more. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ 5:20 What made you choose Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu over any other martial art? Can someone get the same lessons elsewhere? 12:32 Have you ever used BJJ outside of the gym in a real world situation? 22:30 How can a single man can effectively invest in the lives of fatherless boys? 25:40 How do you identify the shit test from your wife and kids and what are some ways to start laying a line without being an ass? 36:40 What investment books do you recommend? 42:00 How do you draw a distinction between the desire to advance and grow in your work and career and the biblical mandate to be content with where you are? 52:20 What are your opinions on the effects of the housing shortage on millennials? 59:45 Do you have a recommendation for a book or a podcast on setting boundaries? ⠀ Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/21/20211 hour, 6 minutes, 55 seconds
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RICKSON GRACIE | Jiu-Jitsu and a Life in Flow

My guest today is none other than Rickson Gracie, the son of Helio Gracie (the man who developed Brazilin Jiu-Jitsu). Rickson is a 9th degree red belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and a mixed martial artist.   He was widely considered to be the best fighter of the Gracie clan and one of the toughest individuals in the world. He’s been training since he was six, received his black belt by 18, and subsequently went on to be undefeated in his professional fight career.   He is also the author of his upcoming book, Breathe: A Life in Flow, the subject of the documentary, Choke, and the upcoming Netflix Documentary called Dead or Alive.   Needless to say, this man knows as much about Jiu-Jitsu (if not more than) as any other as any other man on the planet and I’m honored to have him here today.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Jiu-Jitsu is more mental than physical How does warrior mindset in Jiu-Jitsu translate to improving in other areas of life Respect for the Gracie name and art of Jiu-Jitsu Finding value from external pressure Responding to critics and those who challenge the effectiveness of the art Learning about ourselves through challenges Successful men don’t dabble Code of honor Finding your purpose through service Gentleness versus violence in the art   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready.   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. 
7/20/20211 hour, 1 minute, 11 seconds
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7 Relationship Pitfalls Every Man Should Avoid | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the seven pitfalls to avoid if you want to find more fulfillment and satisfaction in your relationship.   Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   #1 Ditching your friends, hobbies, or activities for her #2 Clamming up #3 Failing to establish boundaries #4 Not showing interest in her interests #5 Stop courting your wife #6 Undermining your own credibility #7 Improving yourself for the wrong reasons   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready.   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week.
7/16/202132 minutes, 48 seconds
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Why You Can’t Save People, Properly Handling Stress and Response, and Prioritizing and Executing | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen are finally back together.  In the midst of increasing censorship, we hope this episode makes it to you, as Ryan and Kipp tackle some of this week’s most thought provoking questions.   Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.     SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   3:57 - What are your thoughts on UFC 264? 10:00 - Do you have any tips on how to get a clear mind and prioritize things? Is there a process you use to do this? 17:00 - How do you battle plan for a day when you are on vacation? 23:00 - Do you have any tricks for not getting exhausted or burnt out while working a job and trying to build a business? 27:46 - When starting a new job or working to build a stronger network, is it wise to allow new friendships to begin or focus on getting rid of those I don’t want in my circle first? 31:40 - What is your favorite wild game recipe? 34:40 - How do I prepare my 6-year-old for football? 37:10 - When should we build our new home? 40:42 - What is your favorite way to drink coffee? 42:08 - What techniques do you use to compartmentalize stress? 48:46 - How does pornography affect marriage? 56:00 - How can I help a friend who won’t help himself?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready.   Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. 
7/14/20211 hour, 5 minutes, 58 seconds
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BRANDON TATUM on White Privilege, Toxic Masculinity, and America’s Role in the World

Brandon Tatum is a former All-American football player, police officer, and now, political commentator. He is also the author of the upcoming book, Beaten Black and Blue which chronicles his time as a police officer and the tensions between police officers and the public. Today, we talk about why the terms “white privilege” and “toxic masculinity” don’t paint an accurate picture of what’s going on in society, America’s place and position on the world stage, the power and undermining of the nuclear family, the modern male’s role in society, the truth behind Marxist movements (including BLM). SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Creating unnecessary division Using words to trigger emotion The proliferation of porn and sex Using language to manipulate The privilege of having a father Being an All-American athlete Growing up around violence Taking life in a new direction Creating your own reality The never-ending lie of racism  Contributing everything to God Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/13/20211 hour, 11 minutes, 5 seconds
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Maintain Your Frame as a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares seven points to help maintain your frame as a man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS #1 People will work against you #2 Evaluate other people’s motives #3 Establish, communicate, and uphold boundaries #4 Disengage or defend your position #5 Stop unnecessary emotion #6 Maintain the long-term perspective #7 Eliminate your ego Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/9/202135 minutes, 6 seconds
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Rekindling the Sexual Fire, Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother-In-Law, and Reframing Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING

ASK ME ANYTHING is a weekly show dedicated to helping men step fully into their role as protector, provider, and presider. In this week's episode, Ryan Michler discusses rekindling the sexual fire, dealing with a narcissistic mother-in-law, and so much more. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 1:53 What are the best strategies to pay down debt? 6:15 Can science help develop us as men? 7:30 Can you reframe a relationship and the dynamic between a man and woman? 13:00 How can I create a rite of passage for my children? 15:00 How do you help others take responsibility for their own lives? 18:05 How do you deal with a narcissist mother-in-law? 21:47 How do I rekindle the sexual fire after kids? 25:25 Why have you stopped asking what it means to be a man? 28:59 Can you do too much self-development and neglect other areas in your life? 34:55 How do explain to your kids about the true meaning of the 4th of July?  37:33 What point would you give up a relationship after you’re the one to always make the effort with no reciprocity? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/7/202143 minutes, 39 seconds
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SURESH MADHAVEN | The Role of Men in a Fatherless Society

If you turn on the news or any social media apps, you’re likely to be met with a myriad of fantastic headlines, the latest political scandal, racial tensions, violence, or any number of issues these outlets use to get our attention. Of course, most of this is exaggerated to get us worked up without providing any real solutions to some of the issues that actually exist. My guest today, Suresh Madhaven, and I begin to break down some of these issues and work towards unpacking and discussing solutions rather than focus on the outrage that is used against us. We talk about the importance of men’s rites of passages, breaking down the concept of systemic racism, crying wolf on the real issues, movements against masculinity, and the role of men in a fatherless society. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS A boy’s coming-of-age Defining systemic racism The term “white privilege” The real victims of racism The greatest lie being told The lack of police training Steps to avoid the police Framework to live your life Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/6/20211 hour, 21 minutes, 9 seconds
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The Origin of Order of Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares the origin of Order of Man and four lessons he learned along the way. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS #1 Humble Yourself #2 Pursue Your Interests #3 Don’t Burn The Boat #4 Minimum Viable Product Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
7/2/202133 minutes, 32 seconds
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How to Stay Vigilant, Keeping Your Ego In Check, and Accepting the Uncontrollable | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen is flying solo and shares his insight into man's most pressing questions. Follow Order of Man on Instagram at @orderofman and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 2:50 What has it been like to work with Ryan and Order of Man? 7:40 How can a man stay vigilant and protect his family when out in public? 10:15 Is there a problem with overthinking things? 16:40 How can I as a nephew help my uncle who’s battling with depression?  19:46 Why do most men prefer to drink beer than get out in nature? 21:15 How can I get my autistic children more active and away from video games? 25:15 What are some steps to put ego in check? 31:03 Can you recommend a book other than the ones you guys always recommend? 33:30 How do you help people take responsibility for their lives? 35:50 What should I consider before joining the Iron Council? 39:02 What is the best way to build on a victory? 40:50 Do you focus on a promotion or side hustle? 43:50 How can one keep intentions pure when we have so many desires? 49:50 Can you touch on radical acceptance of things we cannot control? 52:06 Is there such a thing as too much honesty? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.  
6/30/202156 minutes, 59 seconds
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JAMES ALTUCHER | How to Skip the Line and Get Ahead Faster

We’ve all heard people say, “You’ve got to pay your dues” or the concept of the 10,000-hour rule. But what if it didn’t have to be that way? What if you could skip the line, so to speak, and accelerate the results of your life while everyone else stands in line simply waiting for their turn. That’s what my guest today, the one and only James Altucher, and I discuss – how to use the concept of 10,000 experiments, not 10,000 hours. We talk about why “stay in your lane” is bad advice, how to become the top 1% in your field much more efficiently, how to become an idea-generating machine, harnessing the power of “idea sex,” and how to creatively add value to others so you can win faster. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The importance of good storytelling Why you should NOT stay in your lane Caring what the right people think The Concept of 10,000 hours The upside of experimenting  Dividing your skills into micro-skills How to generate new ideas Finding and creating new opportunities How to never run out of ideas Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/29/20211 hour, 14 minutes, 30 seconds
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Navigating the Challenging Evolution of Marriage | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares five tips to help you navigate the challenging evolution of marriage. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS #1 Establish realistic expectations #2 Be vigilant in your marriage #3 Continue to foster growth #4 Be effective in your communication #5 Keep the spark alive Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/25/202124 minutes, 56 seconds
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Analyzing Risk Vs. Reward, What it Means to Be a Man, and Going All-In on a Course of Action | ASK ME ANYTHING

Ryan Michler is back with your weekly ASK ME ANYTHING, a show dedicated to helping men step fully into their role as protector, provider, and presider. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 1:25 How do you look at risk vs. reward? 5:44 What is a rite of passage example? 9:25 Have you ever considered doing a father/daughter Legacy event? 12:37 What does it mean to be a man? 20:05 What’s the greatest challenge to building a band of brothers? 24:40 Any advice for stepdads? 26:33 How do you know when to pivot into something different? 30:28 What would you say as a speaker at a high school graduation? 33:45 Is there a protocol to follow when you have too many options? 36:33 Are meat bags for hunting nothing more than extra strong trash bags? 37:49 Is being told to “suck it up” good advice for a man? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/23/202144 minutes, 13 seconds
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DR. BRIAN RAY | A Primer on Homeschooling

Today, I am joined by Dr. Brian Ray, one of the world’s foremost authorities on home-based education and the founder of the National Home Education Research Institute. We cover a broad range of topics here including the stigmas around “homeschooling,” common misconceptions like lack of socialization and parents being unqualified to educate, where and why the world started to move away from schooling at home, the threats to homeschooling, and ultimately why all families, at a minimum, should consider home-based education. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Throwing out the word “homeschooling" Giving children too much authority Using your wisdom to lead children Common homeschool objections Treating children like cattle Conflict management and kids Empowering kids to have a voice A father’s moral obligation The practical application to life The pitfalls to avoid in homeschooling Living a life without social media Getting on board with home education Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app
6/22/20211 hour, 18 minutes, 52 seconds
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Don’t be So Consumed With What You Want That You Forget About What You Have | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares personal insight into one of his greatest challenges when it comes to ambition and success. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/18/202116 minutes, 49 seconds
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A Man’s Role as Leader in His Home, Strategies for Implementing What You Read, and Looking for the Third Alternative | ASK ME ANYTHING

Ryan Michler is running solo again in this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, a show dedicated to helping men step fully into their role as protector, provider, and presider. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 2:06 Why is there so much controversy when speaking about men presiding in the home? 5:00 Advice on pursuing a passion career or a career that pays well? 7:18 When do you allow your son to go off on his own at an early age? 9:50 How do you implement information read from books? 12:48 What is the greatest learned from doing a podcast? 15:10 What’s the best way to give my wife a break with a newborn? 17:12 Where did you get the plans for your canoe? 18:55 Have you ever been on vacation in Florida? 22:19 Where do you see the legal institution of marriage? 25:06 Is it a good idea to get tested from Low T at a young age? 26:29 Tips for a young man looking to be a homeowner. 29:47 How can I get my wife on board with overhauling our finance? 32:40 How can I build mental toughness and resilience? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/16/202137 minutes, 4 seconds
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MATTHEW MCCONAUGHEY | Greenlights

Most of you are probably aware of Matthew McConaughey and his new book, Greenlights. I’ll admit, I was a bit hesitant to read the book myself (I explain why to Matthew in this podcast), but after hearing from enough people that I had to read it, I decided to pick up a copy and, let me tell you, it did not disappoint. So, when I had the opportunity to have Matthew join me on the podcast, I jumped at the chance. We talk about many important topics in this conversation and really hit on fatherhood as we’re approaching Father’s Day. We also discuss the power of being the underdog, reinventing yourself, the value of sacrifice, taking our fathers off pedestals they don’t belong, and the concept and benefit of greenlights. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Gambling and investing in yourself Having the choice to be a victim Putting your father on a pedestal Rituals and initiations with your child Living in complacency and comfort Why American needs a civics class The value of playing the long game Course correcting your children Realizing that you’re immortal  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.  
6/15/20211 hour, 4 minutes, 42 seconds
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5 Lessons Learned Building Our Canoe | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares practical lessons he and his son (Brecken Michler) learned while building a canoe. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS #1 You don’t need to know it all #2 Move slow and methodical #3 Some things still suck #4 Afford yourself some grace #5 Let the future fuel you Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/11/202122 minutes, 37 seconds
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Diversity is Not Necessarily Strength, Overcoming Childhood Trauma, and Managing Your Own Expectations | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen are back to their usual shenanigans. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 7:15 How do you come up with ideas for Friday Field Notes? 14:07 How did you handle imposter syndrome when starting out? 20:35 What’s the best way to get out of a slump? 32:46 How do you overcome childhood trauma? 35:23 Why do people complain about life? 40:24 Is it important for men to be dangerous? 45:48 What are your thoughts on the recent UFO sighting released by the government? 48:43 What personal development resources exist for children? 1:03:24 What is the best book for rebuilding yourself? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.  
6/9/20211 hour, 7 minutes, 7 seconds
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CLINT EMERSON | Combat Skills for Good, Not Evil

Personal combat isn’t something that most of us are likely to engage in any time soon but with seemingly increasing threats such as rioting, looting, home invasions, and active shooter situations, your ability to administer violence might just save your life and the lives of the people you care about. That’s why I really enjoy my conversations with my guest today, Clint Emerson. He has made a career and life out of understanding violence and how to use it effectively. And, in his new book, 100 Deadly Skills: Combat Edition, he breaks down basic combat skills every man ought to learn and become proficient in. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Learning to fight from a book Training from all directions  Turning on the violence Life or death scenarios  Setting yourself up for the win Where confidence derives from The perishable skills of fighting Mastering the fundamentals Forcing yourself to get better How to keep yourself functioning  Human performance centers Training for the gaps in your fitness Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
6/8/20211 hour, 20 minutes, 21 seconds
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Boys Break, Men Build | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler addresses the greatest threat to civilization, a lack of engaged, capable, and righteous fathers. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Let the fire off the leash  Curiosity is a virtue  Exhaust your boys Reward the action  Connect the dots  Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
6/4/202139 minutes, 36 seconds
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The Steady Decline of Society, Cultivating Aggressive Patience, and Dealing With Disrespect | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler attempts to answer your questions and solve society’s most pressing issues (Without Kipp Sorensen). Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How do you become more focused on tasks when you’re so busy? All men are created equal vs. social equity? How did you learn to start a business? What are your sales numbers for your mercy store per month? Are you familiar with the work of Dr. Moore? What was the pivotal movement where things started to go downhill with society? What is your favorite clean eating snack for health and fitness? Do you have any hints for cultivating patience? Aggressive Patience  How would you deal with being disrespected by a coach as an athlete? How do you inspire the younger generation to be all they can be? What are your non-negotiable? How do you win back an ex when she claims to have moved on? How can a foreigner join the U.S. Army? How can one gauge a successful outcome when relocating out of state for new opportunities? How do you encourage kids to follow in the family business? Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
6/2/20211 hour, 5 minutes, 18 seconds
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CODY JINKS | I’m Not the Devil

Most of you guys know that I don’t listen to a ton of music but if there’s one music artist you’ll catch me listening to more than anyone else, it’s my guest today, Cody Jinks. He’s got such an interesting style but, more than that, he’s a fascinating man and it was an honor to have the chance to talk with him. Today, we talk about where his style comes from, bucking the trends of pop culture, his transition back to work in the wake of the COVID response, what it’s like to perform in front of thousands, overcoming nervousness, and striking the balance between inspiration and responsibility. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Balancing family and life Giving everything you’ve got Getting burned out Growing up in a small town Leaving behind a legacy Dealing with anxiety Working with creative people Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review  
6/1/20211 hour, 9 minutes, 58 seconds
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If You’re Going Through Hell… | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 7 tips, strategies to help when life has you down. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Strategy #1: Get your ass out of bed Strategy #2: Put the right information in your mind Strategy #3: Get around good people Strategy #4: Get exercise your body Strategy #5: Make yourself the project Strategy #6: Commit to a cause Strategy #7: Serve other people Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
5/28/202125 minutes, 13 seconds
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Choosing a Career, Combating “Woke” Culture, and Advice for First-Time Fathers | ASK ME ANYTHING

Join Ryan Michler for another ASK ME ANYTHING, a show dedicated to helping men step fully into their role as protector, provider, and presider. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What’s one piece of advice for a first-time father that I won’t hear anywhere else? What are three non-negotiable rules for building a successful podcast? What are your thoughts on building a business with little to no money? What will the world look like in 20 years? How does one choose a career or business to get into? If Order of Man didn’t exist today, what would you be doing? What have you done to motivate yourself when you hit rock bottom? How can one prepare for a career change when there’s so many unknowns? Do you have a current coach or mentor that you regularly meet? What advice would you give to a teenage boy? How do you get on the same page as your spouse? How do you combat the growing woke culture in a blue collar economy? Do you have scientific resources that suggest you should or should not take the vaccine? How can I be more a capable man when protecting my family and dealing with an illness? How can I get others to see that I’m working on myself? When speaking with a woke liberal, what subject could be common ground? Do you think the technology that we utilize is good or a hindrance? Militare or college? What’s your favorite pizza topping? What do you use to motivate yourself when you wake up feeling like crap? How can you encourage kids to follow in the family business? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.
5/26/202156 minutes, 6 seconds
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KYLE CARPENTER | Live Worthy of Our Fallen

Men, I wanted to do something special today as next Monday is Memorial day and, after serving time in the military myself, I know how crucial it is that we remember our fallen warriors and honor the ultimate sacrifice they made to protect and preserve our way of life.

 So, I invited my friend and the youngest living Medal of Honor Recipient, Kyle Carpenter, back on the podcast to talk about his military service, transitioning from the military, and ultimately living a life worthy of the sacrifices of so many. If you don’t know Kyle’s story, he was as close to death as one person could be after jumping on a live grenade in Afghanistan to save his fellow Marines. All I ask is that you have a listen and stop sometime this week to think about how you are living your life and the millions of men and women who have died so that you can. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/330 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
5/25/20211 hour, 57 minutes, 16 seconds
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How to Create an Inspiring and Profitable Men’s Movement | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares five tips, strategies to help you create your own inspiring and profitable movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Tip #1 Just get started Tip #2 Don’t knock off others Tip #3 Know your lines  Tip #4 Don’t quit Tip #5 Experiment  Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
5/21/202136 minutes, 9 seconds
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Presiding Without Support, Become More Disciplined, and Deescalating Arguments | ASK ME ANYTHING

Kipp Sorensen is running solo without Ryan Michler this week for another ASK ME ANYTHING to answer man’s most pressing questions. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Do you think we could recruit capable men into the armed forces with masculinity diminishing in society? What are your suggestions to de-escalate a public altercation? Are there any organizations an expecting father can seek out to help raise the child in a proper way? How do you bring up the conversation of children with a significant other who is not ready? Will you ever have a woman on the podcast that agrees with the Order of Man movement? How do you step back into the role of presider when you’ve failed your wife in the past? Who would win in Jiu-Jitsu between Ryan and Kipp? How do you choose the right business to open? How do you live a life worth living? How can I get my wife to see that I won’t leave her one day? How do you become more disciplined in every way? How can Make the most of my time training Jiu-Jitsu even with limited time/ How do I tackle a full schedule of responsibility as a young man? Tips for newly married couples? Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
5/19/20211 hour, 2 minutes
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TIM GROVER | Winning Requires ALL of You

What does it mean to win in life and, more importantly, what does it take to do so? These are questions, my guest, today, Tim Grover has been exploring and succeeding with for decades as coach to both Kobe Bryant and Michael Jordan (among many other incredible athletes). Tim and I explore how to differentiate between allies and friends, taking what you want out of life, the sprint vs marathon of winning, and why winning requires all of you. Get Tim's latest book here.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why “showing up” is NOT half the battle Holding everyone to the same standards How you can learn to be successful Developing the skills to thrive Stop losing your ability to think The language of winning Overcoming the mindset of “satisfied” Why winning requires you to take from others Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
5/18/20211 hour, 14 minutes, 39 seconds
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Inoculate Yourself Against the Doctrine of Popular Culture | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Society wants you to conform to their rules and standards. Big government seeks to consolidate power over you. In today’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 strategies to fight against the doctrine of popular culture and protect yourself against those who want control. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Be in control of your health Work on your provisions Stick to your principles Explore free-thought Build your won tribe Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
5/14/202139 minutes, 42 seconds
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Combating Burnout, When Enough is Enough, and Finding Your Next Mission | ASK ME ANYTHING

Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen deliver another ASK ME ANYTHING with episode 144 and continue answering questions from Instagram. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 1:31 When will people think enough is enough with the mob rules mentality that we currently live in? 6:12 Favorite UFC fighter? 10:40 How can you develop a cadence under a hectic and unpredictable schedule? 24:45 How do you feel about someone knocking off Order of Man? 32:58 How can I help motivate my wife to level up? 41:26 Is join paint a normal thing in jiujitsu? 47:10 How do I get in control and feel drive again after accomplishing all my goals? 52:20 How do you overcome feeling burnt out? 57:35 What do you look for in a business partner? 1:00:15 How long will it take to shift the tide back to a moral ground? 1:08:24 As a 25-year-old father of two should I get involved with my community or only focus on my family? Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
5/12/20211 hour, 18 minutes, 36 seconds
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CHADD WRIGHT | Seeing it Through to the End

My guest today is the one and only, Chadd Wright, a former Navy SEAL, an ultra-endurance athlete, and one hell of a human being. Today, we talk about integrity and honor, personal therapy through the writing process, sizing others up, and how to see things through to the end in spite of extreme challenges and setbacks. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Upholding your standards Setting faulty expectations Enlisting in the SEALs Never giving up on your dreams Being deliberate with your actions Perpetuating a victim mindset Going off the grid Scaling a new business Creating a sustainable life Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review  
5/11/20211 hour, 33 minutes, 6 seconds
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How Much Do You Believe in Yourself? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Belief in oneself is a powerful component but often neglected. In today’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explains where belief comes from, how to develop belief, the importance of believing in yourself, why men are needed, and more.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Where belief comes from How to develop belief  Believing in yourself Why men are needed Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review
5/7/202122 minutes, 3 seconds
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Make Better Decisions, Restore Your Integrity, and Knowing if She’s the “One” | ASK ME ANYTHING

Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen exchange friendly banter in your weekly ASK ME ANYTHING and field questions from Instagram. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 7:18 What’s one piece of advice you’d give to a young man just starting? 13:46 What would you advise a man to help find his passion or fulfillment in life? 22:38 Do you drink alcohol? 31:38 Should a marriage end if you have different goals? 41:01 Is the justice system salvageable?  44:50 What’s the difference between being a company man and a doormat? 52:19 How do I decide between two great career paths in life? 1:03:25 What advice would you give for someone who wants to join the military but doesn’t want to leave his family? RELATED LINKS Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store
5/5/20211 hour, 10 minutes, 11 seconds
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JOHN ELDREDGE | Embrace Your Battle Like a Man

Gentlemen, my guest today is the one and only John Eldredge, the author of Wild at Heart and a truly incredible human being. And, if you don’t already know, his book and work have had a huge impact on the work we’ve been doing here with Order of Man over the past 6 years. John is not only an author but he’s a mentor, counselor, and advocate for millions of men across the planet and I could not be more honored to have a conversation with someone who has been so impactful in my life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Men's mental health crisis Picking your battles Discipline through love Finding a healthy rhythm for life The power of fathers What question all men are trying to answer How to develop more courage Fostering the warrior within Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter. Please leave us a rating and review.
5/4/20211 hour, 8 minutes, 55 seconds
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“That’s Easier Said Than Done” | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, Ryan Michler addresses weak excuses men make rather than doing the hard work it takes to excel in life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store
4/30/202118 minutes, 53 seconds
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The Dangerous Path of America, Trusting the Science, Falling In/Out of Love | ASK ME ANYTHING

Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the dangerous path of America, trusting the science, falling in/out of love, and so much more. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 7:48 Have you ever felt like less of a man because you didn’t know how to do something? 8:10 Tactics for being an asset to your wife after having a newborn? 8:43 How can I help my son adjust to me becoming a better man? 10:36 Why should I continue to be with a woman that I no longer love? 16:09 How do you show your significant other the values you want to instill in your family? 20:55 What’s your biggest fear? 22:39 What advice do you have for a man who wants to follow in your fit steps to help other men? 27:14 Do you have plans to get Joe Rogan on the podcast? 30:42 If you only had one book to study other than the Bible, what would it be? 32:23 How did you interpret the book Man in the Arena? 33:45 How often do you spend on social media each day? 34:47 What does the future look like for America? 46:10 What are your thoughts on Boston’s “be a man” guy? 47:22 What’s the best company for a weapon holster? 48:15 How do you feel about the whole April 24th bullshit? 51:56 Would ever consider carving a spoon? 52:38 What books are you currently reading and what belt are you in Jiu-Jitsu? 54:33 Where do you draw the line when being hard on your sons? 59:15 How can I find someone to help lead my company? 1:04:59 When is the next father & son event? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store  
4/28/20211 hour, 8 minutes, 37 seconds
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TRENT PRESZLER | Little and Often Soon Becomes Great

As many of you know, in January of this year, my oldest son and I started building a canoe. As we embarked upon this project, many of you introduced me on Instagram to a professional boat builder named @trentpreszler. Fortunately, Trent and I built a relationship as he shared with me some of his own successes and failures. And, when I found out he had a new book coming out called, Little and Often, I knew that I needed to have him on the podcast. Today, Trent and I talk about why he decided to build a canoe with the tools his dad left him, what the canoe symbolizes and how important it has been throughout the history of the world, why we place our fathers on pedestals they don’t belong, becoming your own man, why our scars are important, and how little and often soon becomes great. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Taking pride in building a boat Being part of a long history A symbol of self-reliance Feeling a sense of value Leading to extraordinary  On the road to freedom Finding purpose in your life Getting back to the adventure Knowing where you came from The pedestal of fatherhood Having empathy toward your father Plowing through uncertainty  Feeling a sense of belonging Adding up to a man Forging your own identity  Becoming more than a side hustle TRENT PRESZLER My guest today is a man I was introduced to by many of you when I began our canoe-building project in January of this year. His name is @trentpreszler and he is a professional boat builder. Many of you have probably seen his works of art (I call them that because they’re absolutely beautiful) which are actually tools that men have been utilizing for thousands of years to improve their station in life. Trent is the CEO of Bedell Cellars, a winery in Long Island, New York but in 2014 he began a new path as he built his first canoe with his rancher father’s tools. Since then, Trent has been building beautiful luxury canoes which, admittedly, is not a path he thought he would find himself on. Trent has become a friend of mine and someone who is extremely insightful. And, as strange as it may sound, I believe we were destined in a way to connect. BATTLE PLANNING APP Many of you are familiar with our Battle Planner which I developed nearly 5 years ago and have been refining since then. But what you may not be familiar with is the new Battle Planning App that we just released that has turned in our written planner into something that you can carry with you wherever you go in the palm of your hand. The Battle Planning App will walk you through everything you need to do to make more of the next 12 weeks than most people do all year and, with a daily non-negotiable and daily task section, it will become your one-stop planning, organizing, and strategizing tool. If you’re interested, you can check out the free version of the app at www.12weekbattleplanner.com and see how it will improve every facet of your life. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/326 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store  
4/27/20211 hour, 20 minutes, 24 seconds
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Embracing Violence | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men, are you capable of being violent when necessary? Today, I share my thoughts on the unpopular topic of violence. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 4:30 Don’t over-estimate your abilities 8:01 Place yourself in confrontation  11:20 Be a man of substance 16:31 Learn how to defend yourself 21:08 Get punched in the face Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store
4/23/202126 minutes, 9 seconds
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Life is Short, The Cost of Following Dreams, and Why Homeschool is Better | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and Ryan Michler discuss how life is short, the cost of following your dreams, why homeschool is better, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 10:33 What was your biggest takeaway from your service and was there one specific individual who had an impact? 26:31 Why are your kids homeschooled and have they ever been in public school? 40:05 How do I make a side income or what type of business to get into? 50:08 How do you avoid getting cauliflower ear when practicing jiu-jitsu? 59:31 What is your opinion on starting a side business in a down economy? How would you market yourself in a flooded market? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store
4/21/20211 hour, 10 minutes, 12 seconds
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JACK CARR | The Devil’s Hand

One of my favorite podcast guests and friends is back on the podcast today. His name is Jack Carr, former Navy SEAL and the author of the James Reece series with his latest book just released called The Devil’s Hand. Today, Jack and I talk about the differences between a calling and a career, dealing with discouragement from others, the conditioning that takes place in society and how to overcome it, Joseph Campbell’s, The Hero’s Journey, and how to utilize it in your own life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Prioritizing opportunity Creating powerful relationships Career versus profession Preparing to be an author Making things possible Working with Chris Pratt Your next calling in life Getting into character  The power of social media Getting the job done Dealing with internet trolls JACK CARR As I mentioned previously, my guest today is the one and only Jack Carr. I met Jack years ago when we had a podcast during the release of his first book after retiring as a Navy SEAL. I could tell you a bunch about his books and how successful he is but what you may not know is he’s one of the most genuine men you’ll meet. He invited me into his home, introduced me to his beautiful family, and broke bread with me like we were old friends. And, since then, we have become friends and it’s been incredible to see him become so successful as an author with one of his books being filmed right now with Chris Pratt playing the role of James Reece (which we talk a bit about in this podcast). PREPARING FOR DESTRUCTION It’s no surprise to you that the last 12 months or so have been…eventful, to say the least. That’s why with as many variables that we, as men, are likely to face, it’s crucial that we be prepared for whatever may come. After all, David Gilmore said, “The real man gains renown by standing between his family and destruction absorbing the blows of fate with equanimity.” And, that’s exactly what we’re talking about in the Iron Council this month. We’re learning, discussing, and challenging each other to become more prepared for emergencies, natural disasters, violent encounters, and anything else we may potentially run against. If you want to learn more about being prepared and banding with men who will teach you and hold you accountable for doing so, join us in our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council by going to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/325 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store  
4/20/20211 hour, 4 minutes, 50 seconds
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Dominate Your Day | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share ten unconventional and often overlooked ways to dominate your day. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 2:25 Plan out every single day 4:40 Go read a book 6:40 Call someone in your network 8:50 Learn to say no and yes 13:00 Try something new 15:22 Develop a valuable skillset 18:03 Ask powerful questions 22:26 Help someone in need 24:44 Create abundance 27:35 Recap the end of your day Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store
4/16/202135 minutes, 9 seconds
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The Power of Competition, Dealing with Temptation, and Why Responsibility is Empowering | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and Ryan Michler discuss the power of competition, dealing with temptation, why responsibility is empowering, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 2:25 How can I deal with disrespectful in-laws without causing more drama? 9:10 How do you see the results of the current culture war going in the next 5 years? 13:31 Do you attend church and what are your thoughts on organized religion? 19:06 How can I get my child offline and into the woods? 22:07 How can we combat the growing statistics of male suicide, incarceration, fatherless homes, etc? 27:55 How can I be more present as a father even though my profession requires me to travel? 30:44 How can I create my own path to climbing the ladder at work? 39:33 How can I support my son going into basic training? 42:12 How can I convince my wife that homeschooling is beneficial for our children? 46:47 What is your essential daily ritual? 50:30 Why is competition essential to your theory? 58:19 Why can a man be motivated to change certain areas of life but not others? 1:09:10 What advice do you have for someone transitioning careers with an apprehensive wife?  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store
4/14/20211 hour, 18 minutes, 47 seconds
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JACK DONOVAN | Men and Gods

My guest today is the one and only Jack Donovan. I’ve been honored to get to know him over the past several years and much of what he has shared regarding men and masculinity has shaped my own personal perspective of how we are to show up as fathers, husbands, and leaders in our business and community. Today, we talk about his latest book, Fire in the Dark. We also do a deep dive into the roles of masculinity, individual responsibility, the heroic ideal, and why we as men look to the Gods and what we can learn from them. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Writing about men’s issues Adding value to others Different voices for different ears What defines masculinity  The eternal truths Biological constructs Rational division of labor Gender theory studies  The slippery-slope fallacy  Taking over a culture Learning to be technical Identifying weakness Settling for mediocrity Self-imposed shackles  The collapse of Moral consensus  Forming a responsible opinion JACK DONOVAN As I said earlier, my guest today is none other than Jack Donovan. Fortunately, I’ve gotten to know Jack over the past several years and we’ve spent a lot of time talking about masculinity and what it means to be a man. I was introduced to his work years ago when I read, The Way of Men, and since then, I’ve been fascinated with his interesting and unique perspectives, and his willingness to share what have only increasingly become polarizing thoughts and ideas. Jack is an extremely fascinated man and has caused me to take a hard look at what I perceive as the responsibilities of men, what it means to be a man, and how we can and should show up in the world. You guys are really going to enjoy this one. PREPARING FOR A DISASTER I think most of us pride ourselves on being prepared to deal with what life has to offer us. After all, it was Douglas Wilson who said, “The real man gains renown by standing between his family and destruction, absorbing the blows of fate with equanimity.” But the question remains, “Are you really prepared for what may come your way?” That’s the question we’re working to answer this month in our exclusive brotherhood, The Iron Council. We’ll be discussing and challenging each other to focus on the priorities of preparedness, shoring up our weaknesses, and holding each other accountable to put ourselves and our families in a better position should disaster strike. And, on top of all that, you’ll get the accountability, guidance, and direction when you band with us inside the Iron Council. To get prepared for whatever life may throw at you and to unlock access to the accountability needed to thrive, learn more and join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/324 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store    
4/13/20211 hour, 17 minutes, 11 seconds
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Life Lessons Learned at 40 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share five valuable lessons that I’ve learned over the last several years. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 5:30 #1 Plan out every single day 10:00 #2 Learn from the best 15:13 #3 Find a cause greater than yourself 19:50 #4 Set your bullshit meter to sensitive 24:00 #5 Become comfortable in your own skin Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store
4/9/202132 minutes, 56 seconds
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Leading Your Wife Effectively, The Modern Feminist Movement, and Masculine Creativity | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and Ryan Michler field questions about leading your wife effectively, the modern feminist movement, masculine creativity, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 5:19 What are the biggest hurdles in your online merchandise store? 11:20 What are your thoughts on the red pill movement in masculinity? 15:17 Why is it important for a man to suppress creativity?  24:14 How many men does it take to create a tribe and can it include family members? 28:00 Do you think the modern feminist movement has gone too far? 39:25 How can I utilize time to be more effective? 46:19 How do you resist the temptation of things in your life? 51:42 How do you prioritize home responsibilities from everything else in your life? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store
4/7/20211 hour, 5 minutes, 1 second
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RENER GRACIE | Comfort in Chaos

As many of you know, several years ago, I immersed myself in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and, frankly, it’s been one of the best things I’ve done for myself in my entire life. And, today, I am joined by a man who has done a tremendous job in getting the art to the masses by codifying a system of learning Jiu-Jitsu that has trained and developed tens of thousands of martial artists. His name is @renergracie, a 4th-degree black belt, the grandson of Helio Gracie, and the founder and chief instructor of Gracie University. We talk about the system he and his brother created, the differences between sport BJJ and combat BJJ, building legacies, training our police force to handle themselves, and how to develop a level of comfort in chaos. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The starting point of Jiu-Jitsu Becoming the exception  Knowing when to strike Doing things the right way The only fight that matters A product of savagery  Cracking the code The art of violence The Police Disappointment Gap Spreading the word The Bully-Proof program Enforcing boundaries Expressing dissatisfaction  Understanding the consequences RENER GRACIE My guest today is Rener Gracie. He is the grandson of the man who brought Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu to America, Helio Gracie. He is a 4th-degree black belt and is the founder and lead instructor of Gracie University where he has instructed thousands of men, women, and children in the art of BJJ. He’s also extremely innovative and forward-thinking and has created programs specifically designed for law enforcement, women, and children (through their Gracie Bullyproof program). In addition, he trains many top-level fighters including UFC’s Brian Ortega. Needless to say, the man knows what he’s doing and he comes from a long line of very capable and proficient tacticians.  ACCOUNTABILITY Most of the men who join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, do so to gain some level of accountability. In fact, that is one of the main reasons I started the organization. But with as many men who are looking for some level of accountability from the programs, masterminds, and brotherhoods, they participate in, few offer as much accountability as we have built into the Iron Council. When you band with us, not only will you get access to the 820+ men who belong to the Iron Council but you’ll also have the opportunity to join a Battle Team of 15 men who will hold your feet to the fire. And, with the addition of our new Battle Planning App (included in membership), you’ll have the metrics and data needed to achieve at every aspect of your life. If you’re looking for added accountability in your life and you want the tools and systems needed to thrive, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/323 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Connect with Ryan on Instagram and Twitter Join the Order of Man Facebook group Please leave us a rating and review Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise in our store
4/6/20211 hour, 18 minutes, 58 seconds
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Men, Tend Your Field | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss what it means to tend your field and five strategies to get what you want out of life. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 8:55 Tip #1: Create a workable space 10:46 Tip #2 Remove the weeds 13:02 Tip #3 Continual maintenance  15:15 Tip #4 Prune the good for the great 18:30 Tip #5 Harvest but don’t destroy Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/2/202126 minutes, 58 seconds
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Increasing Testosterone, Making Allies and Adversaries, and Coming Back From Divorce | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and Ryan Michler discuss increasing testosterone, making allies and adversaries, coming back from divorce, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 6:42 What are your thoughts on a COVID passport for domestic travel? 15:50 What would you tell kids being bullied in public schools? 24:33 How does a 24-year-old recover from divorce? 32:56 How can I maintain respect as a younger man in authority over those who are old? 37:37 Is it possible to be intimate with a woman as you become older? 48:08 How would you lead with a life-altering disability?  54:32 What’s the best way to find motivation? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/31/20211 hour, 9 minutes, 43 seconds
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ETHAN SUPLEE | American Glutton

My guest today is Ethan Suplee. You may know him from his acting roles on Remember the Titans, American History X, and Without a Paddle. But if you saw him today, you likely wouldn’t recognize him. That’s because he’s transformed not only his physical appearance but every element of his life. Today, we talk about his journey to lose over 250 pounds, what it’s like to be severely obese in Hollywood and how many people had a vested interest in him being unhealthy, why who you listen to is so crucial on your self-development journey, adding meaning to challenging self-work, and overcoming a sense of complete powerlessness. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Choosing your perspective Being seen as the “fat guy” Avoiding the attention Living an active lifestyle Admitting powerlessness Going to the extreme Confronting your bad habits Finding moderation  Crawling out of a hole Living with intention  Experimenting with new things ETHAN SUPLEE My guest today is none other than Hollywood Actor, husband, father, and host of the American Glutton Podcast, Ethan Suplee. Many of you have seen Ethan in Remember the Titans, Butterfly Effect, American History X, Without a Paddle, and so many more movies but, more recently, he’s gained a lot of visibility and attention by embarking on his own health journey by losing over 250 pounds and, frankly, getting jacked. I really enjoyed this podcast because Ethan is such a humble person and he’s taken his years and years of struggle and not only used it as fuel for his own life but fuel for helping others transform themselves primarily through his podcast, American Glutton. THE POWER OF BROTHERHOOD Obviously, we’re talking today about making radical changes in our lives and, personally, what I’ve found to be one of the greatest tools in doing that is having strong, capable, successful men in your corner. And, that’s exactly what you’re going to get when you band with us in the Iron Council. You’re going to immediately connect with over 800 men who want to win, want you to win, and are actually doing something about it. I’ll admit that when you join us, it’s a bit like drinking from a firehose but we’ve got everything you need to help you improve your health, rekindle relationships, build a business, grow your wealth, and anything/everything else you may want to accomplish. Join us in the Iron Council. Band with like-minded men. Get on the path. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/322 Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/30/20211 hour, 12 minutes, 16 seconds
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Males. Masculinity. Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I break down the biological male, masculinity, and what it means to be a man. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 7:50 Defining the biological male 12:40 Defining masculinity 18:43 Defining manliness Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/26/202131 minutes, 18 seconds
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Adding Value to Your Tribe, Pillars to Teach Children, and Motivating Change in Others | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen discusses the importance of adding value to your tribe, pillars to teach children, motivating change in others, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 3:00 How can I build value and lift up the men in my tribe? 6:05 What will it take for the collective of men to wake up? 8:50 What are the pillars of life you teach your children? 13:13 What was your first takeaway from jiu-jitsu? 18:21 What are two morning routines that have made the most impact? 24:00 What is the best way to motivate someone to lead? 31:46 How can I motivate long-distance friends to workout? 32:50 How do I navigate boundary issues with a divorced woman? 40:27 How can I make sure my younger brothers can grow into men? 49:16 How do you navigate a new marriage when you’ve both been married? 50:50 What are the benefits of the Iron Council? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/24/202159 minutes, 52 seconds
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MADISON CAWTHORN | Uncompromising Values and Service

Today I am joined by an incredible man who just so happens to be the youngest U.S Congressman. His name is Madison Cawthorn and he’s gained a ton of attention over the past several months for, first, his powerful speech at the Republican National Convention and, more recently, his floor speech on 2nd Amendment Rights. Today, Congressman Cawthorn and I talk about how he views his disability (he is partially paralyzed from a crash he was in years ago) and his masculinity, what he feels is our civic duty to get involved in politics and important topics, the power of words and using them effectively to create change and hope, the danger of the fatherless home crisis we’re in, uncompromising values, and so much more… SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Determining what’s worthy of attention  Getting involved in office Connecting issues to daily life Overcoming discouragement  Pushing for term limits Speaking to the American ethos What it means to be a man Supporting good policy The belief in yourself  Feeling completely useless  Taking care of your family  Having a network of guys Dropping out of college Proving your competence  Getting rid of the nuclear family   Equity Vs. Equality MADISON CAWTHORN Gentlemen, my guest today is a man that likely needs no introduction for many of you. At 25, he is currently the youngest U.S. Congressman but, as we talk about in this conversation, he does not let that keep him from throwing himself into some of the most important (and polarizing) discussions in politics today. What’s even more impressive is that in 2014, his life plans came to a halt as he found himself a survivor of a car accident that left him partially paralyzed. After scrapping his plans to attend the Naval Academy, he found his way into politics as a way to serve in spite of not being able to join the military. Gentlemen, this was a very powerful conversation with a man who had a lot of reason to quit in life but has, instead, decided to make the most of his circumstances and become a force to be reckoned with. IRON COUNCIL By now, you’ve heard all about our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. One thing that you may not know is that each and every month, we focus on a topic to better equip ourselves as men with the tools and resources we need to succeed and thrive. And, for the month of April, we’re going to be talking all about being prepared. In the wake of Texas’ power outages, the COVID fallout, and any number of additional events we’re bound to face, it’s crucial that we, as men, get ourselves prepared for what life may throw our way. If this is something that has been on your mind, join us inside the Iron Council as we all work to better equip and inoculate ourselves against tragic, difficult, and unfortunate life events. You’ll also gain access to all of the resources available and the brotherhood of men who will help you get the most out of your life. Join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/321 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
3/23/20211 hour, 2 minutes, 47 seconds
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Get Strong. Get Smart. Get Rich. | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share my thoughts on why you should get strong, get smart, get rich, and five books you should read. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 9:00 #1 Get Strong 16:50 #2 Get Smart 23:40 5 books you should read 27:40 #3 Get Rich Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/19/202143 minutes, 53 seconds
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Dangerous Freedom, Unrighteous Dominion, and the Power to Create | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss dangerous freedom, unrighteous dominion, the power to create, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 11:08 What are key ways to avoid temptation in the heat of the moment with the opposite sex? 17:06 How can more men help support the Order of Man mission? 23:30 How do you identify imposter syndrome and deal with feelings of inferiority? 27:52 Will society ever swing back to the norm and will freedom prevail?  40:17 What character trials to do look for in other men to stand side by side? 44:30 Do you meditate? If so, any advice on finding a routine? 51:20 What are your thoughts on The Rock running for president? 56:47 How long did it take you to feel comfortable with jiu-jitsu? 1:13:24 Where is the line drawn between confidence and arrogance? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/17/20211 hour, 21 minutes, 10 seconds
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GRANGER SMITH | Leading and Living Well in the Face of Extreme Adversity

Gentlemen, there is so much negativity, hostility, and vitriol in the world today. It’s unfortunate because even in the most difficult of circumstances there is so much to be positive about and grateful for. And, as we look for and embrace those factors, life becomes so much more rewarding and fulfilling. Today, I am joined by country music artist, Granger Smith (we also talk about his alter-ego, Earl Dibbles, Jr.) to talk gratitude, juggling all of our duties and responsibilities, and attaching the right (and empowering) meaning to events. We also talk about the tragic loss of Granger’s son and how he continues to lead his family through one of the most difficult situations imaginable – losing a child. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Granger’s new upcoming video Benefiting from hard work Overcoming negativity  Developing a successful career Managing at a larger level Getting asked the right question Harnessing social media Having a grateful attitude  Living in the moment How to juggle life Balancing grief and loss The support of a community Assigning meaning to your work  Not taking life too seriously  GRANGER SMITH Gents, my guest today is an absolutely incredible man. His name is Granger Smith. He is an extremely successful country music artist, host of the Granger Smith podcast, and co-creator of his alter-ego, Earl Dibbles, Jr., the spokesman for his clothing apparel company Yee Yee Apparel. I’ve been following Granger for years now and I had always been impressed with his positivity and outlook on life and, after our conversation today, I am even more so. We talk about so much today. His positivity, energy, and excitement for life is infectious and it makes me want to be a better man myself. I think it will for you too. IRON COUNCIL Having men in your corner cannot be overstated. Too many men have decided to walk through life alone and, oftentimes, they’re left feeling frustrated and overwhelmed with all they have to deal with. But banding with other men doesn’t make you weak or inferior. If anything, it gives you access to the tools and accountability needed to make you stronger. And, with over 800 men inside our exclusive brotherhood, The Iron Council, you are going to find the type of men you need to thrive inside the walls or your home, business, and in your community. I know a lot of you have been sitting on the fence on the Iron Council so get off the fence and give it a try. Worst case scenario, you don’t find any value and you leave. But I think you’ll find that when you band with us, every facet of your life is going to improve and you’ll only be asking why you didn’t join us sooner. If you’re interested, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
3/16/202159 minutes, 2 seconds
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Be the Anchor | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men, if you can’t be an anchor, you’ll drift through life along with those you love. Today, I share two components to help you set the hook. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 2:00 The doctrine of popular culture 4:20 Setting the hook of an anchor 5:30 The importance of grounding yourself 6:19 #1: Build a solid tribe 10:58 #2 Feed your mind 16:00 Banding men together 17:48 Turning the tide Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/12/202118 minutes, 53 seconds
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What it Means to be a Man, Finding What Drives You, and Getting Out of a Funk | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss what it means to be a man, finding what drives you, getting out of a funk, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 6:00 How do you define failure? 10:10 What drives you each day? 14:55 How do you get out of a funk? 24:19 How do you continue to keep the fire alive with the Order of Man mission? 33:25 Do you have any projects lined up next with your son? 37:39 How do you handle different political opinions among the family? 49:00 How do you overcome social anxiety? 60:00 How do you deal with someone who talks shit about you and it not be true? 54:45 How can you speak with someone about masculinity who identifies with another sex? 1:07:10 How do you discuss with young men how to be sovereign?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/10/20211 hour, 15 minutes, 46 seconds
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STEVEN PRESSFIELD | A Man at Arms

Gents, today, I am joined by my friend and repeat guest, Mr. Steven Pressfield. We talk about his new novel, A Man at Arms, but we also get into so much more including overcoming imposter syndrome, getting past your fears, dealing with procrastination, handling disappointment effectively, and why it’s important to make your concerns real and tangible. My first podcast with Steven was so popular that I knew we needed to have him back on and this one certainly did not disappoint. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Overcoming resistance and frustration The voice of resistance  Dealing with imposter syndrome Walking the right path   Recreating adversity  A life of ease and comfort  Preparing your mindset Speaking directly to men Listening to your inner voice The mark of a true artist Giving yourself permission Doing what you want to do Believing you offer value Writing A Man at Arms Accessing the sub-conscience The process of writing something Existing on multiple levels Life lessons in fictional work The highest form of communication What makes a bad book Following your gift  Making batter decisions Systems to reading fiction STEVEN PRESSFIELD My guest today is the one and only Steven Pressfield. He was on with us several months ago and since I enjoyed the conversation so much and we received so much positive feedback, I knew that we needed to have him back on to talk about his latest release, A Man at Arms, and the value, challenges, and rewards of putting your work, whatever it is, out into the world. He is a New York Times Bestselling Author and has personally been extremely influential in the work that we’re doing here with Order of Man and I could not be more grateful to him and proud to give you round two of our discussion. THE ART OF IMPOSSIBLE Gents, inside the Iron Council for the month of February, we’re talking about how to craft your day but for the month of March, we’ll be covering “The Art of Impossible” and uncover how you can turn your dreams, ideas, and ambitions into reality. We’re going to be discussing and challenging each other how to learn more effectively, how to enter your best work in a “flow state,” and how to harness creativity for maximum results. If this sounds like something you’d be interested in and you want the powerful accountability that comes from banding with other men, join us inside the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store      
3/9/20211 hour, 15 minutes, 33 seconds
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The 1˚ Difference | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share the importance of incremental change and how one degree compounded over time will produce massive results in life. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 0:00 Compounding tasks over time 3:15 Small incremental adjustments 4:05 Stop swinging for the fence 5:40 Rewiring your brain 6:45 Wake up on time 7:50 Build in a routine 9:00 Map out your day 10:30 Keep a clean space 11:30 Decompress from the day 13:00 Producing consistent results 16:00 Learning the basics 17:40 A winner vs. a loser Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/5/202120 minutes, 58 seconds
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Bend Don’t Break, the Path to Mastery, and Understanding the Intentions of Others | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I field questions about bend don’t break, the path to mastery, understanding the intentions of others, and so much more.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What suggestions do you have for someone going through big career changes? How do you balance self-improvement with a newborn child? Do you plan to participate in a jiu jitsu tournament? How can I help my recently disabled step father find purpose? What books do you recommend for self-improvement?  What is a tactful way to dismiss yourself from a conversation? What financial advice can you give to a father trying to save for his kids? Would you consider having a Freemason on as a podcast guest? How have you approached men in your circle to follow you in your mission? Are there specific requirements to being a man? What do you carry in your EDC and truck? Am I a real man if I can’t grow a beard? Any advice for someone who’s uncomfortable being in front of a camera? What’s a good resource or book to help be a better communicator?  What are good questions to ask someone arguing against absolute truth? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/3/20211 hour, 17 minutes, 47 seconds
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ROBERT GREENE | The Laws of Power and Human Nature

If only more of us, as men, learned more about the laws of power and the dynamics of human nature, we’d be able to lead others more effectively. Unfortunately, many men believe that even exploring these concepts is an immoral pursuit. And, although they can be used to hurt others, they can also be used to fulfill our responsibilities to protect, provide, and preside. Today, I am joined by multiple New York Times Bestselling Author, Robert Greene to talk about the negative stigma that comes with power and human nature dynamics. We also cover embracing weirdness, what he refers to as “power games,” how life isn’t always a win-win, why so many people have incorporated whining as a tactic for power, and why manipulation isn’t inherently wrong. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The “Crisis Generation” Finding middle ground Dealing with Woke Culture  Painful opportunities and lessons Why parents have become so afraid How resistance makes you tougher Influencing people Not taking things personally  The Manipulative Side of humans  Getting what you want Changing other opinions Virtue signaling as a strategy The human desire for power  Gain at the expense of another Becoming more enlightened  Asymmetric warfare  Operating outside a moral code ROBERT GREENE My guest today is the one and only Robert Greene. Needless to say, his writings and teaching have inspired much discussion and controversy about the laws of human nature and how to harness them effectively. He is the author of many books including The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, Mastery, and The Laws of Human Nature. And, for over 25 years, he’s been researching, studying, and sharing lessons about how people behave and why they do what they do. This one was a very enlightening discussion and gave me some tremendous insight into not only how Robert’s mind works, but other humans as well. IRON COUNCIL Gents, obviously, we’ve been talking a lot about how humans behave and, along those same lines, I’ve found that one of the things we, as men, crave most is other men who are willing and able to walk shoulder to shoulder with us in life. Of course, there is the camaraderie of brotherhood but the accountability that comes from surrounding yourself with successful men cannot be overstated. That’s why the Iron Council, our exclusive brotherhood, is so powerful. Inside the Iron Council, you’ll unlock access to the network of men you can count on to push, teach, mentor, and band with you. And, you’ll also find the framework needed to thrive in a world that continues to grow more complex and competitive by the day. If you’re ready to band with a solid group of men, join us inside the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/318 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store    
3/2/20211 hour, 12 minutes, 10 seconds
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Avoid Burnout in Your Business and Relationships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share five tips you can use to avoid burnout in your life and relationships. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Tip #1: Don’t burn all of your fuel at once Tip #2: Mix things up and avoid boredom  Tip #3: Set real expectations Tip #4: Delegate and share responsibility  Tip #5: Find a healthy outlet Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/26/202128 minutes, 20 seconds
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Winning the Cultural War for Masculinity, Overcoming the Need for Approval, and Knowledge Vs. Wisdom | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss winning the cultural war for masculinity, overcoming the need for approval, knowledge vs. wisdom, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What are some tips to stay consistent in the gym? What’s the best formula or strategy for writing a personal mission and vision statement? What are your thoughts on learning how to skateboard as a skill? How did having a second and third kid impact the relationship with your wife? How can a boy who’s a student become a man in an environment where becoming a man is looked down upon? What’s your favorite Jocko MULK flavor at Origin? What’s your interest level in raising livestock and living off the land? How does one in a close personal relationship deal with that person not fully supporting you? How can a man deal with information overload when trying to better himself? How can I create a stronger connection with people in my network? What advice would you give to a first-time homebuyer? What advice for someone starting out in life and a new career path? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/24/20211 hour, 15 minutes, 26 seconds
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EDDIE PENNEY | Living Unafraid

We live in some interesting times, to say the least. Coronavirus, the reaction to Coronavirus, political unrest, freezing temperatures across the country, riots, and so much more. And, unfortunately, rather than meeting these challenges on our feet like men, many have allowed fear to dictate their course of action. Today, I am joined by former Navy SEAL, Eddie Penney to talk about living life unafraid. We talk about dealing with death, addressing and overcoming the victimhood mentality, equality vs. equity, where morals and values are derived from, and how to live fully in spite of the fear that surrounds us. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The things that people are afraid to talk about The silent majority The trend of a degenerate society Believing in the sanctity of human life Getting on your knees and kissing ass Treating everyone equally The best person for the job Difficult conversations with friends Believing you’re entitled to things Feeling excluded and left out Teaching your children about motivation and drive The discomfort in being selfless There’s no consequence to laziness Standing on your own two feet Socially adjusted kids The “unafraid” movement Addressing the elephant in the room Leading with a mature response Feeling blessed with your circumstances Proving something to yourself Turning things around Fighting for what is right The threat of losing freedom Being manipulated and controlled EDDIE PENNEY My guest today is Eddie Penney. He spent 20 years in the military as a Marine initially then a Navy SEAL assigned to Navy Special Warfare Development Group (DEVGRU), better known as SEAL Team Six. He’s an absolutely incredible human being and has proven himself to be a tremendous asset in the military, to his children, and in later founding the Contingent Group which is an organization designed to provide safety and security needs for people and organizations domestically and internationally. THE IRON COUNCIL I ask every new member of our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, why they decided to band with us, and, overwhelmingly, it boils down to accountability. Accountability just isn’t something many men seem to be getting in any other capacity of life. But inside of the Iron Council, we have developed the systems and strategies for maximum accountability to other high-achieving men and, more importantly, accountability to yourself. And, we’ve found that when a man learns how to harness the power of accountability, he is able to be much more productive, effective, and fulfilled in every other area of his life. Accountability fills the void that many men experience in their lives. So, if you’re looking to harness the power of accountability in your life, we invite you to join us in the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/317 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
2/23/20211 hour, 15 minutes, 13 seconds
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The Pursuit of Mastery | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

In order to become masterful in a particular thing, you must constantly work towards developing the appropriate skill set. Today, I cover why the pursuit of mastery is a moving target and how it's not something you simply check off a list. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Show announcements and promotional opportunity 1:35 Why some are successful and others are not 3:15 Becoming more valuable to yourself and those around you 5:00 Forms of justification for not becoming masterful 6:18 What it takes to achieve success  8:30 The men who put forth the effort to become masterful 8:47 Being crushed by the weight of responsibility 9:30 Stop focusing on the outcome 10:08 Become a perpetual student and put in the work 11:20 It’s the extra 20% that makes the difference 12:20 The starting process to mastery 13:00 Freeing up your mental capacity  13:45 Compounding your efforts over time 14:08 What to consider in your pursuit of mastery Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
2/19/202121 minutes, 38 seconds
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Overcoming Anger Issues, Not Making Yourself a Victim, and How Stoicism Can Serve You | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss overcoming anger issues, not making yourself a victim, how stoicism can serve you, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   0:00 Technology, social issues, internet trolls, and the importance of difficult conversations 17:25 What are three to five books for solid financial advice? 21:00 Why do so many people in society act like a victim? 27:55 What is the single most important thing a man or woman should be teaching their kids about society? 31:54 What service provider do you recommend helping manage credit and debt? 36:52 What’s your next home project? 39:09 How do I lend money to family and then hold them accountable? 47:10 How do you respond to a coworker or subordinate who complains about everything? 58:00 As a man, how can I help and support my family through a recent death in the family? 1:01:08 What best practices exist to deal with anger issues? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/17/20211 hour, 15 minutes, 33 seconds
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RANDALL WALLACE | Becoming Braveheart

If you’ve been following me for any amount of time, you are well aware that my favorite movie of all-time is Braveheart. So, when I had the chance to have a conversation with the man who wrote the movie, Randall Wallace, I jumped on it. Today, Randall and I talk about the timeless messages for men found in the movie, how and what sacrifices must be made to achieve our goals, how to qualify other men who can serve as your band of brothers, discovering something that calls deeply to you, and ultimately, how we too can live our lives with the courage and bravery conveyed in the life of William Wallace and Braveheart. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 5:15 Taking risks with unpopular narratives 7:10 The importance of running towards fear 8:05 Stripping away the undertone of the Bible 9:15 The best part of being a writer  10:04 The right person at the right time 14:11 Looking for opportunities to be judged  17:40 Watching Braveheart as an audience member 19:35 Making a ripple in life 20:00 Dealing with those who don’t show appreciation 21:25 Telling someone you love them 22:40 The relevance of daily habits 24:00 How others perceive our work 25:00 Acquiring the movie rights to We Were Soldiers 28:33 Facing negative feedback 29:50 The message being sent to young people 32:00 The need to find respect for each other 33:05 What to look for in a brother and yourself 36:00 Earning a seat at the table 40:00 The worst thing you can do for kids 45:00 Receiving messages from God 48:00 Looking for validation as a man 51:05 Telling the legend of William Wallace 59:10 Tweaking the details to deliver a message 1:05:00 The reality of being courageous RANDALL WALLACE My guest today is the legendary Randall Wallace. You may not recognize his name but I guarantee you that you are deeply familiar with his work. Randall is a screenwriter, director, producer, New York Times Bestselling Author, and songwriter. He wrote Braveheart, Man in the Iron Mask, Pearl Harbor, and We Were Soldiers among many other incredible motion pictures, many of which he produced and directed and has won several Academy Awards. He is an insanely talented individual – far beyond what I knew when we agreed to do a podcast together – and he is deeply reflective and insightful around the subject of men and masculinity. You guys are going to really enjoy this conversation. It was incredibly powerful and inspiring for me. IRON COUNCIL Gentlemen, very quickly, I wanted to introduce you to the Iron Council if you’re not already familiar. Randall and I have talked a bit about in this conversation the power of brotherhood and finding other men who are qualified to be in your corner. Unfortunately, it seems to be increasingly difficult to find those types of men and develop powerful bonds that will help both of you succeed. That’s where the Iron Council comes into play. Inside the Iron Council, there are over 800 men who are all like-minded and working towards the same goals and objectives. These are incredibly motivated and ambitious men and they have not only the desire to succeed but to help all the men inside the Iron Council do the same. If you’re ready to band with us, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store    
2/16/20211 hour, 19 minutes, 59 seconds
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Federally Mandated Minimum Wage is a Bad Idea | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I give five reasons why a federally mandated minimum wage is a bad idea. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 4:00 Point #1: It doesn’t consider varying living expenses within states 6:19 Point #2: It sets the precedence that government can medal in individual affairs 9:27 Point #3: It disincentivizes growth, expansion, and career progression 14:40 Point #4: It prices young people out of work 19:23 Point #5: It puts millions of people out of work 24:11 Incurring $54 billion of debt 26:18 An increased cost of living and inflation 27:35 An increased spending for employment benefits 29:00 Your moral obligation to look after those under your care Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/12/202138 minutes, 13 seconds
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Family as the Fundamental Unit of Society, Affording Others Grace, and Dealing With Difficulties in Marriage | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I the importance of family as the fundamental unit of society, affording others grace, dealing with difficulties in a marriage, and so much more.  2:45 What skill set have you improved and blind spots you have addressed over the years? 8:02 How will you advise your children on higher education? 11:38 What shifts in perspective have you had since writing Sovereignty? 12:51 What are your thoughts on functional bodybuilding? 14:56 What are ways to build better relationships with the men in your life? 19:17 What books have you read in the past year that have had the most influence on you? 23:23 Do you find that your circle of friends becomes smaller the more influence you have? 27:35 What things should I have in order by my mid 20’s? 29:11 Most interesting take away from Sorinex’s WinterStrong event? 32:10 Did you finish 75 Hard? 32:42 What does your recording setup consist of for podcasting? 35:12 How do you find and create the right business for yourself? 44:28 How do you best deal with people who doubt you? 50:52 How do you and your wife navigate stressful times together? 54:59 What would you say to the men who’ve adopted the idea that women are bad? 58:50 How do you distribute income from your business? 1:00:00 Best advice for beginners who want to lift at the gym? 1:03:45 Any financial planning tips for someone who makes a modest income? 1:09:55 What are you currently struggling with and how are you facing it? 1:13:00 How do you eliminating resentment towards family? Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/10/20211 hour, 24 minutes, 3 seconds
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TIM KENNEDY | To Protect and Preserve Human Life

My guest today likely needs no introduction. His name is Tim Kennedy and he is one of the most interesting men on the planet. I had the opportunity to talk with Tim remotely years ago but to be able to sit down with him at his home was one of my favorite opportunities since I started podcasting over six years ago. We get into a lot during our discussion together including his plans to replace traditional education with something that will serve our sons and daughters much better, why he believes there are forms of “toxic masculinity” in society, his thoughts on some sort of “mandatory military service,” why his wife completely believes in him, and his personal mission to protect and preserve human life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Apogee Acadamy and Apogee Strong  Becoming an FBI profiler  The lies about masculinity Lowering the standard  Thoughts on mandatory service  Fostering culture and commitment To protect and preserve human life How failure impacts us physiologically Finding growth in physical pain A wife's undying support Stepping into the cage TIM KENNEDY As I said earlier, my guest today is the one and only Tim Kennedy and he is one of the baddest men on the planet. He is an Army Ranger Green Beret, a former UFC fighter, and, among so many other things, he is in the process of opening a school that will teach young men and women in ways that are much more conducive to their overall success. On top of all that, Tim is extremely thoughtful and insightful and has always provided me with a new and/or deeper way of looking at my role as a man. Men, you are really going to enjoy this conversation. I know that I did. CRAFTING THE PERFECT DAY It doesn’t matter what your goals are if you can’t craft a strategy for attacking the day that moves you systematically toward the completion of those goals. And, inside our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, we are talking about exactly this – crafting the perfect day – for the month of February. The truth is that I’ve spent years of my life floundering around wondering how I was going to make something of myself. To a degree, I believed that when it was meant to happen, it just would. It wasn’t until I was introduced to several mentors who explained to me the importance of a powerful morning routine, certain strategies, tactics, and tools to use throughout the day, and how to perfectly recap your day in order to carry the momentum over that I begin to realize what I set out to accomplish. If you’re interested in learning those exact strategies and formulas that I learned years ago, please join me in the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/315 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
2/9/20211 hour, 13 minutes, 31 seconds
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How a Man Communicates With His Wife | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men, how you communicate with your wife matters. The words, tone, inflection, and meaning directly impacts the dynamic of your relationship and what you’re able to accomplish. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/5/202116 minutes, 12 seconds
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Voluntary Discomfort, Balancing Ego and Humility, and Jeopardizing Your Morals | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss voluntary discomfort, balancing ego and humility, jeopardizing your morals, and so much more.  Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/3/202150 minutes, 1 second
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EVAN HAFER | A Conversation Amongst Men

You know, I’ve spent the last six years trying to formulate the perfect conversation and keep it within a certain topic. But the more I have conversations with incredible guests like mine today, the more I realize that a real conversation goes where it goes and isn’t confined to a particular topic. So, when I had the opportunity to sit down with Evan Hafer, founder of Black Rifle Coffee Company, I realized there was tremendous value in letting the conversation go where it wanted to go. We talked about archery, his recent controversy with both the right and left side of the political spectrum, how to lead and manage well, racism, pop culture, and just about everything in between. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Getting into archery Fist adaptive athlete archery shoot Struggling in business Trying not to focus on the negative Getting through trauma The ego-driven mentality Applying communication differently Dictators Vs. Leaders Being the “nice guys” Having productive arguments Communicating your brand Protecting free speech at all cost Big governments “one size fits all” solution The path of least resistance Adding value to other men Being the maximum version of yourself Flexing the creative muscles Earning confidence  Recalling the miserable times Improving things locally EVAN HAFER My guest today is the one and only Evan Hafer. Of course, you likely know that he is the founder and CEO of the leading Veteran-Owned coffee roastery, Black Rifle Coffee Company. But he’s also a former Green Beret and a hardened badass. I had the opportunity to sit down with Evan at his ranch in San Antonio and although I’m sure there are preconceived notions about who he is, this man is a marketing genius and has, in a period of six years grown his company from roasting coffee out of the back of a Humvee to an international brand that employs over 400 people - many of who are United States Combat Veterans. I think you gentlemen are going to dig this conversation that we, fortunately, got to do in-person on his ranch in Texas. I enjoyed the hell out of this conversation. You will too. CRAFTING THE PERFECT DAY Gentlemen, inside the Iron Council, for the month of February, we’re going to talking about and challenging each other to create and formulate our perfect day. Of course, “the perfect day,” is subjective but we’re going to be holding each other accountable for the entire month to testing and experimenting with systems, strategies, tools, and resources to maximize each day to its fullest – from the time we wake up, to the way we go about our duties, to the way we cap the day to carry momentum over to the next. The reality is that each of us can squeeze more productivity out of every hour that we have and it’s our goal inside the Iron Council to show you how to do exactly that through accountability, teaching, instruction, and brotherhood. You can learn more and join us inside the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/314 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
2/2/20212 hours, 2 minutes, 44 seconds
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How to Change Culture | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss the importance of culture and how to change it. Hit me up on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/ryanmichler/ and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/29/202127 minutes, 50 seconds
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The COVID Vaccine, Preparing for a New Son, and Overcoming Paralysis by Analysis | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I share my thoughts on the COVID vaccine, preparing for a new son, overcoming paralysis by analysis, and so much more. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/27/20211 hour, 10 minutes, 33 seconds
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BEDROS KEUILIAN | Be a Man, Be The Man

In popular culture, it’s increasingly frowned upon to utter the phrases, “man up,” or “be a man.” It’s easy to misconstrue what those terms mean and convenient to dismiss them as some sort of misguided sense of masculinity. Without context, anything can be painted as negative or “toxic.” With context, however, we can see how powerful those statements can be. My guest and friend, Bedros Keuilian, is back on the podcast to dissect what those phrases mean and teach us how we can incorporate solid principles in our lives and in the lives of the young men looking to us for an example. We talk about the value of harvesting your own provisions, why brutally honest feedback is crucial to your success, losing and regaining your sense of purpose, and our responsibility to the generations of men who will follow in our footsteps. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Fit Body Bootcamp Squire Program Multiple income streams Donating to the Shiners Seeking fulfillment  Feeling like an imposter Being crippled by convenience Valuing what you harvest The responsibility of parents How you show up matters Figuring out the needs of people Receiving brutally honest feedback Why consequences matter The lack of commitment  Turning off social media The “outraged” economy The loss of balance Losing your sense of purpose Becoming a role model BEDROS KEUILIAN Gentlemen, I have been looking forward to having Bedros Keuilian join us again on the podcast. I met Bedros years ago and I’m honored to call him a mentor and friend. I was fortunate enough to have him invite me to speak at one of his programs a couple of weeks ago and, although you may know him for founding and running one of the largest fitness franchises in the world, you may not know about his programs for men and for young men. These are transformation events and I’m honored to have played just a very small part in what this incredible man is doing in the lives of the men and young men who attend his events. Bedros is an author, entrepreneur, speaker, podcast host of Empire Podcast, and an absolutely incredible man, friend, and mentor. CRAFTING THE PERFECT DAY I’m a huge believer that the way you tee yourself up for the day will determine your results for the day. And, as you compound enough of those powerful days together, you will undoubtedly win. That said, there are a lot of men (you might be one of them) who don’t know how to craft the day from the minute they wake up to the minute their heads hit the pillow at night for maximum productivity and efficiency. That’s why, for the month of February, we’re talking about this exact topic inside our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. We’re going to be talking about starting the day right, tools and systems for eliminating distractions, recapping your day so you don’t lose momentum each night, and so much more. So, if you want the tools, systems, and accountability to make each day your best and, more importantly, create the success that follows, join us inside the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/313 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
1/26/20211 hour, 15 minutes, 29 seconds
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Are You a Liability or an Asset? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share ten comparisons to help identify whether you're an asset or liability. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Emotional vs. Rational  Selfish vs. Selfless Inpatient vs. Patient Broke vs. Wealthy Immoral vs. Moral Victim vs. Victor Ignorance vs. Knowledgable  Incapable vs. Capable  Weak vs. Physically Independent vs. Dependent  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/22/202130 minutes, 11 seconds
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Integrity and Self-Betrayal, Helping Others on the Path, and Rebelling Against Tyranny | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen discusses integrity and self-betrayal, helping others on a path, rebelling against tyranny, and so much more. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/20/20211 hour, 6 minutes, 26 seconds
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STEVEN KOTLER | Making the Impossible Possible

I know that you have lofty and ambitious goals. I do too. I also know that, sometimes, the objectives we desire may seem out of reach, if not impossible. There is a myriad of reasons we may feel this way but regardless of the reasons, they hinder our realized potential. Today, I am joined by a man who has not only studied making the impossible achievable, he’s spent his life immersed and surrounded by the men who are doing it. His name is Steven Kotler and he is the author of The Art of Impossible. Today we talk about why achievement is an art, not a science, how to develop and trigger your “flow state,” why everyone is wired for peak performance, the power of novelty, and how to create the impossible. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The peak performance mind Conducting your own experiment  Crawl, walk, run The flow source code Reframing pleasure Flow hacking Multi-tool solutions Keeping promises The Bannister Effect Quality matters Cognitive load Building routine Double motivation STEVEN KOTLER My guest today is Steven Kotler. I have literally been working on getting him to join us on the podcast for years and today, that becomes a reality. If you’re not familiar with Steven, he is the author of his latest book, The Art of Impossible, Stealing Fire, The Rise of Superman, and ten other books. He’s an award-winning journalist and the Executive Director of the Flow Research Collective. He’s been featured in the Wall Street Journal, TIME, and The Harvard Business Review. He’s an extremely fascinating individual and extremely intelligent. Gents, I think you’re going to enjoy this one. THE IRON COUNCIL Gentlemen, I don’t think it’s any surprise to you that we’ve started to see a huge crackdown of sorts by the technology giants on anyone who doesn’t toe the line with what is acceptable in the Doctrine of Popular Culture. And, if you’ve been following us for any amount of time, you know that we talk about – the restoration of masculinity – isn’t a favorite subject of theirs. With all that said, we’ve created a closed-frame brotherhood of like-minded men where not only can we have the real conversations that need to be had, but we can also challenge either other necessary to do the self-work required to lead ourselves and our families well. If you’re interested in banding with other men who believe the way you do and are actively working to make themselves better in all ways, join us inside the Iron Council. You can learn more and band with us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/312 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/19/20211 hour, 13 minutes, 29 seconds
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The 5-Step Process for Making Better Decisions | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share the 5-step process for making better decisions. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Create margin and space Know what you want and don’t want Find qualified friends and mentors Care less about what people think Evaluate your past decisions Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/15/202123 minutes, 42 seconds
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The Benefits of Fatherhood, Fostering Mutual Understanding, and The Power and Pitfalls of Singular Focus | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the benefits of fatherhood, fostering mutual understanding, the power and pitfalls of singular focus, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/13/20211 hour, 20 minutes, 48 seconds
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HUMBLE THE POET | Levelheadedness in Turbulent Times

As you’re well aware, we live in some very chaotic times of doubt, fear, uncertainty, speculation, and distrust. Unfortunately, times like these lead to irresponsible and overly-emotional reactions which often undermine our very goals and desires. Today, I am joined by a friend of mine, Humble the Poet to talk about how to keep calm, cool, and collected when faced with the uncertainties of life. We discuss how to self-regulate, the ability to communicate complex ideas simply, becoming a student of the game of life, affording others grace, why fear is unsustainable, and keeping yourself levelheaded in turbulent times. SHOW NOTES Constant criticism Social antidote Fringe arguments Cultural differences Seeds of distrust The value of life Picking our battle A silver lining Personal responsibility  Guilt and shame The exchange of ideas Don’t lose respect to gain attention.  The attention economy Structured belief Being creative Impacting your community Being exceptional  HUMBLE THE POET My guest today is the interesting and unique, Humble the Poet. I had the opportunity to meet Humble when our mutual friend, Steve Weatherford, invited us on a Wim Hof retreat and I was immediately drawn to his collected demeanor and fascinating way of looking at life. He is a former school teacher turned creative. He’s an author, hip-hop artist, speaker, designer, filmmaker, and a creative consultant for some incredible businesses and movements, including Apple, Warner Bros, and Nike. I think you guys are going to be drawn to Humble as I was. And, I was really grateful we had the opportunity to discuss these topics as he caused me to look at things in a way I hadn’t recognized before. IMPOSTER SYNDROME Imposter syndrome – the sense of feeling inferior, inadequate, and unworthy of a particular pursuit – is something that a lot of men deal with. In many ways, I personally dealt with Imposter Syndrome as I started this movement six years ago. This month, inside of our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, this is exactly what we’re talking about and working to overcome. We’ve been discussing the concept, strategies, and tactics for overcoming feeling like a fraud, and actively working on bridging the gap between who we currently are and who we have a desire to become. If this is something that you’ve dealt with, even to a small degree, I invite you to join the conversation, action, and accountability found inside the Iron Council so that you can overcome feeling like a fake and producing less in your life than you’re capable of. Head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and band with us. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/311 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
1/12/20211 hour, 23 minutes, 28 seconds
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Who’s Your “Battle Brother?” | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share a critical element to help on the path of your development and ask who's your "Battle Brother?” Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/8/202127 minutes, 18 seconds
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How to Be More Disciplined, 3 Steps for Creating Effective Boundaries, and How to Get Yourself Out of a Rut | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss how to be more disciplined, 3 steps for creating effective boundaries, how to get yourself out of a rut, and so much more.  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/6/20211 hour, 27 minutes, 3 seconds
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CHRIS HOGAN | Money Tips, Tricks, and Tactics for 2021

Money is such a crucial component of every man’s life and, yet, it is one of the most often overlooked and misunderstood factors to a man’s success. I’m not by any means suggesting that money is the only factor to his success but if we're being truthful, understanding the money game and playing it well gives a man more opportunity, freedom, and the potential for fulfillment. Today, I am joined by my friend and repeat guest, Chris Hogan to talk money moves as we roll into 2021. We cover everything from financial opportunities that will present themselves, the power and importance of building a financial team, getting yourself out of the rat race, why self-awareness is critical for financial success, and plenty of other tips, tricks, and tactics to get ahold of your money situation in 2021. CHRIS HOGAN My guest is back by popular demand. His name is Chris Hogan. And, if you didn’t listen to the first podcast we did together, Chris is a best-selling author, a personal finance expert, and one of America’s leading voices on retirement, investing and building wealth. His show, The Chris Hogan Show has been downloaded millions of times. Chris is also a regular contributor to the EntreLeadership Podcast and is a member of the Ramsey Solutions team. But more importantly that all of that, Chris has a tremendous ability to breakdown complex financial topics into easy-to-digest/apply practical information that will help you thrive. Enjoy. THE IRON COUNCIL Men, we’ve had a lot of men join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, over the past two weeks. This was to be expected as many of you are really focused on improving your life in 2021 and gaining access to the tools, frameworks, and accountability needed to thrive. If that sounds like something you’re after, I’d encourage you to look into what the Iron Council offers and how banding with nearly 800 other men will help you thrive in every facet of your life. I started the Iron Council years ago because I wanted a place where I could connect with high-caliber men and share ideas, strategies, and resources. And, frankly, I couldn’t find it locally – so, I created it. Now is the perfect time to band with us. We’re going to be shutting enrolment down in January and not sure when we’ll be opening it back up again so, get to it right now and set yourself up for the best year of your life. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/310 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/5/20211 hour, 6 minutes, 27 seconds
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Your 10-Point Plan to Dominate 2021 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share your 10-point plan to dominate 2021. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/1/202129 minutes, 50 seconds
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Solving Your Own Problems, Avoiding Distractions, and Learning to Like Yourself | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of solving your own problems, avoiding distractions, learning to like yourself, and so much more. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman  Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/30/20201 hour, 26 minutes, 37 seconds
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TRAVIS HOWZE | Creating Your Own Light

So many of us are looking to external circumstances to solve our problems. We blame all kinds of people, organizations, and outlets for our woes. Unfortunately, when we do that, we put ourselves at the mercy of factors outside of our control and are left feeling empty, hopeless, and powerless to improve our lives. My guest today, Travis Howze, makes the case for creating your own light and learning how to create positive results in your life in spite of tragic and unfortunate circumstances you may have experienced. We talk about the delicate balance of shouldering pain and learning to let it go, going to “dark places” and emerging victorious, learning to be proud of who you are without being arrogant, finding powerful outlets for difficulties of life, and how to overcome feeling like a fake, fraud, or imposter on your path to growth. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Taking responsibility The trifecta Losing interest Looking to be whole Becoming a comedian Taking a life The alpha male Putting others in danger Suck it up Hitting rock bottom Finding purpose Doing maintenance Imposter syndrome Figuring things out Experiencing hardship TRAVIS HOWZE My guest today is Travis Howze. Travis is a Marine Corps veteran, former police officer and firefighter, comedian, and international motivational speaker who has learned to harness his own difficulties of life to make himself a better man. He’s also the author of, Create Your Own Light, where he outlines and documents his tragic experiences in combat and duty, fighting through the PTSD that resulted, finding powerful outlets for improvement, and healing himself along the journey. Gents, I think you’re really going to enjoy this one, especially if you’ve got some past emotional, physical, or mental baggage you’re trying to let go of. Enjoy. 30 DAYS TO BATTLE READY It’s the 25th, guys. That means we have a week until the new year. So, what are you going to do about it? What are you going to do to ensure 2021 isn’t the same for you as 2020? We’ve all likely got some plans or ideas but do you have a specific strategy for ensuring that is the case? If not, I’d encourage you to sign up for our free Battle Ready course which is going to walk you through the exact same strategies I used to lift myself from desperation and obscurity to leading myself, my family, and the hundreds of thousands of men who are part of the Order. If you want the framework and you want to thrive in 2021, get signed up. It’s easy to sign up but it does require a commitment from you to put in the work. It’s simple, not easy. But it will transform your life. Get signed up now: www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/309 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
12/29/20201 hour, 13 minutes, 41 seconds
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Enlisting and Mobilizing an Army of Moral and Capable Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss the importance of enlisting and mobilizing an army of moral and capable men. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Got a Beard? Get on Board! I’ve partnered up with my good friends at Origin Maine to create, formulate and launch our own 100% made and sourced in America beard oil. That’s right. You asked and we’re delivering. This is a limited release. I can’t stress that enough. It's a very, very limited run and as anything Origin does, this has been done extremely well. So, head on over to originbeardoil.com and get signed up.  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/25/202029 minutes, 57 seconds
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The Power of the “Get Shit Done” Mindset, Why You Shouldn’t Read Into Things, and How Receptiveness to New Ideas Makes You Better | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the power of the “get shit done” mindset, why you shouldn’t read into things, how receptiveness to new things makes you better, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Got a Beard? Get on Board! I’ve partnered up with my good friends at Origin Maine to create, formulate and launch our own 100% made and sourced in America beard oil. That’s right. You asked and we’re delivering. This is a limited release. I can’t stress that enough. It's a very, very limited run and as anything Origin does, this has been done extremely well. So, head on over to originbeardoil.com and get signed up. Don’t miss this opportunity. Again, head on over to originbeardoil.com and get signed up.  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/23/20201 hour, 25 minutes, 39 seconds
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STEVEN RINELLA | MeatEater

Studies suggest that upwards of 95-98% of the world’s population eats meat. But increasingly, our connection with not only our food but the planet that provides it seems to be on the decline. Personally, it wasn’t until the last several years that I began to bridge the gap between the food on my plate and where it actually resides. Today, my guest is none other than Steven Rinella, AKA MeatEater. We talk about so much during our conversation from the importance of connecting with nature and wildlife, how to instill a sense of love and appreciation for both in our children, the almost unexplainable power of “venison diplomacy,” our interconnectedness with the earth, and what she provides, and our counterintuitive non-adversarial relationship to the animals that sustain our way of life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Generational hunting Appreciating nature The outdoor mindset Being self-sufficient Slaying dragons Preparing for adventure Hacking it out Broad-expertise Living the pipe dream A cascade of events Catching a break A sense of humanity Improving yourself STEVEN RINELLA My guest today is none other than Mr. Steven Rinella. Most of you are probably familiar with him via his Netflix show, MeatEater. But if you’re not, Steven is an outdoorsman, conservationist, writer, TV personality, and author of his latest New York Times Bestselling book, The MeatEater Guide to Wilderness Skills and Survival. Steven has arguably done more to connect people to the great outdoors than any other person on the planet. He got his start as a journalist writing about the joys and benefits of connecting with nature and has since become an extremely popular hunter and conservationist. Gents, I think you’re really going to enjoy this one and it’s my hope that it inspires you to get outside and share the love of nature with future generations. ORIGIN BEARD OIL Obviously, I’ve got a beard. And, obviously, it’s a glorious one. And, not surprisingly, I get a lot of questions about how I maintain such a luxurious beard. The answer is simple: as with anything else, I take care of it. And, because I do (and also, because I’m a control freak), I had to ensure that I take care of it my way. That’s why I’m stoked to tell you about my partnership with Origin Maine to bring you a 100% sourced and made in America Beard Oil that will ensure you look your best. We’re in the early stages of “pre-launch” right now and based on the demand and popularity, I think we’re going to run out of our initial run. So, if you’re even remotely interested in making sure your beard is on point, here is what I need you to do: sign up for an early notification at www.originbeardoil.com. That’s it for now. All I need you to do is sign up for notifications. If you do, we’re going to release it to you first, then (if we have any left), release it to the world. And, we’ve got a few surprises up our sleeve for those of you who sign up early. Again, get signed up early at www.originbeardoil.com. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/308 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
12/22/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 45 seconds
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The Loneliness of Leadership | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share four steps to help you overcome the loneliness of leadership. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. SHOW ANNOUNCEMENT As I mentioned, I've partnered up with my good friends at Origin Maine to create, formulate, and launch our own 100% made and sourced in America beard oil. This is a limited run, and as anything Origin does, this has been done extremely well. So, head on over to http://bit.ly/originbeardoil and get signed up. Don't miss this opportunity. Again, head on over to http://bit.ly/originbeardoil and get signed up. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/18/202029 minutes, 3 seconds
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Embracing Your Dark Side, When Pride Helps and Hinders, and Learning to Ground Yourself | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss embracing your dark side, when pride helps and hinders, learning to ground yourself, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/16/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 31 seconds
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Elevate Your Problems | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share a simple formula to help elevate your problems. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/11/202029 minutes, 30 seconds
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When to End Your Employment, How to Start Investing, and When to Look for a Coach | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss when to end your employment, how to start investing, when to look for a coach, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/9/20201 hour, 16 minutes, 17 seconds
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The Man in the Arena | EDDIE GALLAGHER

Most of the men listening to this podcast are familiar with Theodore Roosevelt’s speech “Man in the Arena,” and most of us know what it’s like to be mocked, criticized, and ridiculed for the way we live our lives. But very few of us have ever had to fight like my guest today, Eddie Gallagher, has in order to secure our freedom and lives. Accused of war crimes, Eddie Gallagher spent 9 months in prison facing a potential life sentence. Against insane odds and the deck being stacked against him, Eddie (along with his wife, brother, and the help of thousands of others) successfully secured his freedom and his status as a US Navy SEAL. This is part of his story… EDDIE GALLGHER Military spouses Protecting the institution Looking for the truth Article 32 hearing Dealing with death threats Staying vigilant Giving it over to God Maintaining a routine Coming back stronger Belonging to a side Responding to negativity Living the civilian life The support from patriots My guest today is someone a lot of you are extremely familiar with His name is Eddie Gallagher and he is a retired Navy SEAL and came under national attention when he was charged with war crimes while conducting operations in Iraq. He is also the author of his upcoming book, The Man in the Arena: From Fighting ISIS to Fighting for my Freedom where he documents his insane experience of being falsely accused of war crimes, how his family and the country fought for his freedom, and the truth about how President Trump helped his cause. This guy is extremely humble and down to earth and, as I talk about with him during the conversation, seems to be an incredible father and husband to his children and wife. I know you guys are going to enjoy this one. Make sure you pre-order his book at www.eddiegallagherbook.com because you’ll get a special pre-order package when you do. THE IRON COUNCIL Obviously, we’re talking about being in the arena today and I wanted to talk with you briefly about one often overlooked component of being in the arena – Battle Brothers. Yeah, sure, you can do life alone and hope that it all plays out for you (and maybe it will) but I can assure you that from personal experience, having a brother who has your back and will hold you accountable to maximizing your potential is a powerful factor. And, that’s exactly what you’re going to find inside the Iron Council. You’ll have the opportunity to band with “Battle Brothers” who will help ensure you stay the course and achieve all that you set out to achieve in 2021. If you want to learn more about Battle Brothers and all the Iron Council has to offer, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/306 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
12/8/20201 hour, 15 minutes, 24 seconds
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What’s Your Call on 4th and 10? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I pose a challenging question as we near the end of 2020. What’s your call on 4th and 10? Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/4/202025 minutes, 5 seconds
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The Dangers of “Zero F’s Given,” Finding Alignment in Life, and Business Tactics | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the dangers of “Zero F’s Given,” finding alignment in life, business tactics, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/2/20201 hour, 25 minutes, 41 seconds
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Chasing Down Your Fears | SHANE DORIAN

Each and every one of us deals with fear. And, most of us either consciously or subconsciously running away from what we fear most. That’s unfortunate considering that what lies beyond the fear that keeps us back is what we desire most – fulfillment, satisfaction, and purpose. Today, I am joined by big wave surfer, archer, and father, Shane Dorian to talk about how to manage fear and use it as fuel to do great things in our lives. We talk about the power of proximity, why mentorship (even if informal) is so crucial, the necessity of evolution, the concept of progressive exposure to the things that scare us, loving the challenge, and how to chase down our fears. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Competitive surfing Growing up with distractions Riding waves as a kid Surfing as a pro Finding mentorship Being the minority A mothers sacrifice Creating congruency Being a good father Developing an industry Surfing big wave Inflatable wetsuits Calculated decisions Progressive exposure Connecting with nature SHANE DORIAN My guest today is someone who is well known for his ability to ride huge waves but what he’s accomplished in his life goes so much deeper than that. I met Shane earlier this year while hunting in Arizona and I was immediately drawn to his calm, confident presence considering all that I knew about what he’s been able to accomplish. Shane is a family man first (we talk a lot about that on today’s podcast), a big wave surfer, an inventor, and is an avid bow hunter. And, he’s also an incredible human being who has faced life and death situations in the ocean, successfully built a career on the back of a surfboard, and a leader of his family as a devoted husband and father. CHRISTMAS SHOPPING Gents (and ladies if you’re wondering what to get for the man in your life), now is the perfect time to get your Christmas shopping done and I can think of no better place than the Order of Man store. We’ve got a ton of new inventory and a lot of new merchandise from our bestselling Battle Planner, to shirts and hats, and our first-ever fall/winter lineup with hoodies, windbreakers, and the new Order of Man beanie. If you want to look good and get your Christmas shopping done early, head to the Order of Man merchandise store and get yourself or your loved one hooked up. Not only is it a great way to support the mission to reclaim and restore masculinity, but you’ll look good in the process. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/305 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/1/20201 hour, 21 minutes, 43 seconds
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A Personal ‘Thank You’ and the Power of Gratitude | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share a personal thank you and the power of gratitude. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/27/202029 minutes, 2 seconds
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Intelligence Vs. Wisdom, the Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Staying Above the Noise During the Holidays| ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss intelligence vs. wisdom, the stories we tell ourselves, staying above the noise during the holidays, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/25/20201 hour, 23 minutes, 20 seconds
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The Battle for Masculinity | NICKY BILLOU

Masculinity is on the decline. I say that not just anecdotally but also statistically. If you look at testosterone levels, degrees of strength, and our increasing inability to delay gratification for the betterment of ourselves and others, it’s painfully obvious that men, generally, aren’t what we once were. There are a myriad of reasons for this and my guest today, Nicky Billou, and I talk about what those reasons are – from the changes we see in society (positive and negative), the increasing lack of fatherless homes, taking fault vs. assuming responsibility, the 3rd entity of the relationship with our wife, the undermining of the family unit and the man as the head of his household, and so much more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Toxic masculinity A changing world Iron sharpening iron Banding with other men Taking ownership Blaming others Taking responsibility Leading effectively Planting the right seed Leading each other Replacing the father Celebrating masculinity Freedom-loving men NICKY BILLOU My guest today is Nicky Billou. He and I have been friends for years and I’ve always been inspired by his ability to speak exactly what is on his mind and cut through all the clutter and BS that permeates much of our culture today. He is the author of Finish Line Thinking: How to Think and Win Like a Champion, a highly sought after public speaker and corporate trainer, and the host of the podcast, The Thought Leader Revolution. You’re going to hear exactly why I think so highly of Nicky in this podcast today and walk away with a ton of insight and clarity that you may not have had going into this conversation… 30 DAYS TO BATTLE READY Gentlemen, as we approach the end of the year, many of you are looking for ways to make the new year the best year you’d ever had – especially on the back of one of the most…interesting that you’ve ever had. The best place to get you started on the right track is with our free Battle Ready Program. Over the course of the next 30 days, we’ll walk you through the exact steps and strategies to reach maximum performance in every area of your life. And, if you start today, you’ll be in a prime position to absolutely crush 2021. You can sign up at www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/304 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/24/20201 hour, 1 minute, 44 seconds
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The COVID Agenda | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share my thoughts on the COVID agenda. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/20/202036 minutes, 35 seconds
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Initiation of Man, Motivating Your Wife, and Home Schooling Your Children | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I discuss the initiation of man, motivating your wife, home schooling your children, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/18/20201 hour, 6 minutes, 51 seconds
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Writing Your Redemption Story | TANK

We all mess up from time to time and occasionally lose our way. You might be in the midst of that right now. But if not, there’s likely a time in your life you felt lost, empty, and void of meaning, purpose, and fulfillment in your life. And, that’s exactly what my guest today, Tank, and I talk about. But more importantly that the feeling of despair and hopelessness, we talk about the path to redemption and how it is all within your control. We also cover how to best fight your demons, the shame of victimhood and how to overcome it, finding faith when you don’t have any in yourself, and rescuing yourself from drowning in this experience we call life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Finding the truth Getting off social media Rebuilding relationships The servant's heart Fighting the demons Overcoming your shame Chasing fame Finding balance in life Developing faith in yourself Starting a new chapter Accepting responsibility   BATTLE READY Gents, I’m stoked to introduce you to my friend and guest today, Tank. This podcast has been a long time in the works and, although Tank and I were going to do it years ago, he didn’t feel he was in the right space at the time but that’s okay because this podcast, now, is extremely powerful. Tank is a former Marine, “social media influencer” (we talk more about this in the podcast), and currently a police officer in Texas. But more importantly than that, Tank is someone who self-admittedly has messed up his life, burned bridges, and made some mistakes (as have we all) but is on the path to redemption Please listen to this episode all the way through because I know Tank’s story is going to resonate with you and help you immensely on your own journey. ORDER OF MAN STORE Many of you may not know that we have our very own merchandise store and we’ve stocked up for the winter and holidays with new hoodies, windbreakers, beanies, hats, and shirts. And, of course, we’ve got a new supply of our best-selling 12-Week Battle Planners. If you want to support what we’re doing here with Order of Man, let people know where you stand, look good in the process, and pick up some tools that will help you thrive in your life, please check out the Order of Man store at store.orderofman.com. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
11/17/20201 hour, 7 minutes, 32 seconds
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What Now?: Dealing With After-Election Scenarios | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share ten strategies to improve your capacity to lead. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Identify What You Value Ask Yourself the Right Questions Plan Every Single Day Be Ruthless With Your Plan Do An After Action Review Become Self-sufficient Move Out of Your City Run for office Homeschool your kids Build Your Reserves Lead Your Family Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/13/202038 minutes, 50 seconds
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Requesting a Promotion, Dealing with Revenge, and Helping people change | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen discusses how to request a promotion, dealing with revenge, helping people change and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/11/20201 hour, 4 minutes, 59 seconds
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A Masterclass in Marketing Yourself | HANS MOLENKAMP

The ability to market – not just your product, but yourself – is a crucial skillset if you have the desire to be successful. Unfortunately, most men equate “marketing” with simply “selling” then wonder why they lose trust, credibility, and authority with potential customers, partners, and other relationships. But if you want to succeed, you’re going to have to learn to build trust, credibility, and authority with those around you. And, I can think of few men as qualified to talk with us about that than Hans Molenkamp who has worked with brands like Osiris Shoes and Monster Energy, and men like Jocko Willink, Conor McGregor, Daniel Cormier, to name a few. Today we talk about the power of community, being passionate versus fanatical, offering value through creation, and how to brand and market yourself well. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Old school values Building a knife brand Increasing visibility Your brand profile Playing the long game Creative thinking Smart marketing Building your Credibility Cultivating relationships Increase your net worth Getting to the next level Leaving a legacy HANS MOLENKAMP Back again today is my friend, Hans Molenkamp. If you don’t know who this guy is, it might surprise you to know that he’s got his ideas and influence behind some of the biggest brands in the world like Monster Energy and some of the biggest names in the world like Jocko Willink, Conor McGregor, and Jorge Masvidal. And, on top of all that, he’s a knife maker, photographer, marketer, business owner, martial arts practitioner, and brand-maker. Gents, you are going to be inspired by the knowledge and the capacity this man runs at, especially if you’re entrepreneurial spirited and have the drive to create. Enjoy. 30 DAYS TO BATTLE READY Obviously, there is a lot of doubt and uncertainty in the world right now and on the heels of the US election, many people are angry, confused, and upset. But many of these people are also focused on issues beyond their control. No wonder they’re frustrated. There isn’t anything you can do about a lot of these issues people dwell on. Instead, I’d have you focus on the things entirely within your control. That’s where the 30 Days to Battle Ready program comes in. In this free course, you’ll identify a crystal clear vision for success, uncover four specific objectives that you’ll complete over 90 days, and create a roadmap for maximum production in the last quarter of 2020. So, guys, stop focusing on things you can’t control and, instead, focus on the things that you can. Sign up at www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/302 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/10/20201 hour, 12 minutes, 9 seconds
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Focus Wins | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share five points to help you focus on results. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/6/202027 minutes, 17 seconds
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The Trap of Distraction, When Empathy Goes Wrong, and the Wisdom of Cobra Kai | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the trap of distraction, when empathy goes wrong, the wisdom of Cobra Kai, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/4/20201 hour, 20 minutes, 30 seconds
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Raising a King | BRECKEN MICHLER

If you’ve been listening for any amount of time, you know what I think about modernity and masculinity. I’m often asked about my thoughts regarding raising children in times like these and, while I think my children’s generation has some serious and unique challenges, I’m hopeful for them and how they will rise up in the face of those challenges. Today, I am joined by my oldest son, Brecken, to talk a bit about our relationship, the challenges our youth face, and I ask him questions from our Facebook group members about his own personal fitness journey including motivation, accountability, and discipline. This is a great episode for any man who wants to tune in but I would highly suggest you tune in if you have children and want them to be more motivated and disciplined. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/3/202050 minutes, 18 seconds
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Do Not Cast Your Pearls Before Swine | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men, do not cast your pearls before swine. Instead, surround yourself with those who seek to see you achieve your dreams. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.  Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/30/202017 minutes, 8 seconds
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Having Effective Conversations, Why People Quit Jiu-Jitsu, Getting Your Wife on Board | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen discusses having effective conversations, why people quit Jiu-Jitsu, getting your wife on board, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/28/20201 hour, 2 minutes, 47 seconds
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Building Wealth through Real Estate | BRANDON TURNER

I’m going to say something to you that is going to sound a bit controversial and even rub some of you listening the wrong way. Being wealthy will help you become better at being a man. Sure, you can be a good man and be broke, but having wealth will help you become better at being a man. We’re going to get into why that is but for now suffice it to say that this show is dedicated to helping you build more wealth. And, I can think of no better guest to talk with us today about building wealth (specifically through real estate) than host of the extremely popular Building Bigger Pockets Podcast, Brandon Turner. Today, Brandon and I talk about creating money, creative finance strategies for buying real estate, 4 real estate benefits, why you should be building a “portfolio” over a “property,” and how to maximize your wealth through real estate. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Pursuing something venturous Reading Non-fiction The tipping point Taking real estate risks Living for free Flipping houses Creative Financing The “Deal Delta” Starting off slow Keeping emotion out Real Estate tax benefits The “Four Square Method” Exponential growth Guarding against greed Outsourcing the work Purchasing a property Real estate appreciation Return on equity BRANDON TURNER My guest today is my friend, and the co-host of the incredibly popular podcast, Bigger Pockets Podcast, Brandon Turner. Brandon is a real-estate investor (that’s a massive understatement) and has been investing in real estate in one form or the other since he was 21 years old. Now, he’s on a mission to teach others the behind-the-scenes secrets to successfully investing in real estate and avoiding a lot of the dumb mistakes that he made in the past. He contributes for Forbes, Entrepreneur, Fox, Money Magazine, and so much more and his podcast is consistently ranked the #1 business podcast in the world. ORDER OF MAN STORE Gents, one thing I don’t talk a whole lot about is our Order of Man Store. If you want to support this movement in a small way and want to look good in the process, please take a look at store.orderofman.com. The merchandise store started out as an ancillary business to the Order of Man, Iron Council, and the other products and services we offer but I’ve always had a goal to build an actual apparel brand and our store is in the beginning stages of that dream. So, you’re not going to find shirts, hats, and a bunch of other bullshit they’d give you for completing a 5K in your local area. We’ve created the best shirts, hats, hoodies, Battle Planners, wallets, etc. on the market and it’s all gear you’d be honored and proud to wear. Check it out at store.orderofman.com. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/300 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
10/27/20201 hour, 11 minutes, 16 seconds
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Creating a Powerful Family Culture | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share my thoughts on creating a powerful family culture and a four-step process you can implement now. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/23/202030 minutes, 55 seconds
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Strategies for Recovering “Nice Guys,” Why Fighting Can Make You a Better Man, and Pros and Cons of Affirmations | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss strategies for recovering “Nice Guys,” why fighting can make you a better man, the pros and cons of affirmations, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/21/20201 hour, 12 minutes, 53 seconds
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Our Rights and Responsibilities of Gun Ownership | JEFF GONZALES

Gun ownership is such a polarizing subject. And, with the increasing gun ownership in America combined with the tension and friction we’ve seen between people, it’s only going to become more so. That said, gun ownership is a fundamental right protected by the United States Constitution but that does not absolve us of the responsibility we, as gun owners, have to be safe and make ourselves proficient with our firearms. Today, I am joined by former Navy SEAL, Jeff Gonzales to talk about both our rights and responsibilities as gun owners. We also cover recommendations for new firearms owners, how much time needs to be dedicated towards training (including training without having access to a range), why the beginners' mindset will help you become a more proficient gun owner, and metrics for improving your accuracy and effectiveness should you need to use your firearm. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Agnostic towards gun Following safety rules Adjusting to gun ownership Unprecedented times Dry firing your gun Establishing the fundamentals Measuring progress Valuing the experience Push Yourself to Failure Always ask “Why” Improving the collective Repeatable processes Hardening your home Evaluating your living situation Good-natured people JEFF GONZALES Gentlemen, my guest today is former Navy SEAL and firearms expert, Jeff Gonzales. Jeff is one of the most qualified men I know to talk on the subject of responsible gun ownership. Not only is he a decorated and respected SEAL operator, but he is also the president of Trident Concepts, LLC, and is a member of the NRA’s Training and Education Committee. Over the past few years, he’s put a heavy emphasis on concealed carry and has used his years of combat experience and tactical instruction to help law enforcement, military, and armed citizens become more capable and effective of defending themselves and others with firearms. BATTLE READINESS Gents, today we’ve been talking about making yourself more battle-ready with the use of firearms and while that is one critical component of protecting yourself and others, there is another equally demanding battle – the one with your mind. After teaching men for years the systems and skills they need to know to thrive, I’ve come to the conclusion that many men simply don’t have a plan for life. In other words, they’re not even mentally prepared for the battle. That’s where the 30 Days to Battle Ready program comes in. In this free 30 day course, I’m going to equip you with the exact strategy I’ve created over years of research, testing, and real-world application for maximizing your readiness for whatever life has to throw at you and thrive in the face of it. If you’re ready to dive in and do more self-work over the next 30 days than you potentially have your entire life, join the 30 Days to Battle Ready program and get started immediately. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/299 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/20/20201 hour, 15 minutes, 38 seconds
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Counter-Intuitive But Powerful Advice for Fixing Your Relationship with Your Wife | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I give counter-intuitive but powerful advice for fixing your relationship with your wife. This episode was taken from a recent Facebook Live in the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/16/202028 minutes, 2 seconds
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Finding the Right Woman, Drowning out the Naysayers, and Maximizing Fortunate Circumstances | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss finding the right woman, drowning out the naysayers, maximizing fortunate circumstances, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/14/20201 hour, 10 minutes, 15 seconds
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Living Life on Your Terms | STEVE WEATHERFORD

Many of us are living for or through someone else and we don’t even know it. If left unchecked, not only does it lead to a life of emptiness but it can also lead to contempt, disdain, and distrust for those we care about most. Today, I am joined by my good friend, former Superbowl Champion, and one of the most real men I know, Steve Weatherford. We cover a lot of ground in this one and he gets real about why sports were such an important part of his life, his transition from professional football, the concept of “life mastery” vs. “life balance,” how results born from insecurity do not serve us, and how to ultimately live life on our own terms. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Family mantras Words of affirmation Post Superbowl  Checking the box Being an elite athlete Creating a blueprint Looking for an identity Sharpening other men The hamster wheel of life Chasing the results Spiritual fitness Talking about vision Overcoming disability The path of resistance STEVE WEATHERFORD My guest today is the one and only, Steve Weatherford. Steve and I met years ago when he invited me and my family to visit him and his family in California for the weekend. He and I immediately connected and became good friends. I know not everyone gets the chance to build a solid relationship with people they admire and respect but Steve is definitely one of those people for me. He is an incredible athlete and, of course, a Super Bowl Champion with the New York Giants. After leaving the NFL, Steve went onto broadcasting and has since started and grown an incredible fitness and supplement business, WeatherfordFit. He is also the host of his podcast, The Steve Weatherford Show. BATTLE READY Gents, obviously, we’ve been talking about living life on your terms today. And, along those same thread lines, I thought it would make sense for me to tell you about the 30 Days to Battle Ready Program. Over 10,000 men have gone through the course which is designed to give you the tools and roadmap you need to identify your objectives and create the perfect plan for making it a reality. This isn’t a program where I tell you how to do everything and what you should be working towards, but a program that helps you come up with your own plan and, essentially, start living life on your own terms. When you register (for free), you gain access to a series of emails over 30 days to help you get your life on track the way you’ve always wanted it to be. You can get registered at www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/298 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
10/13/20201 hour, 7 minutes, 13 seconds
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Modernity and the Demise of Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men, today I discuss modernity and the demise of masculinity. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/9/202035 minutes, 28 seconds
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The Imposter Syndrome, Narcissistic Relationships, Climbing the Corporate Ladder | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen discusses the imposter syndrome, narcissistic relationships, climbing the corporate ladder, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/7/20201 hour, 16 minutes, 37 seconds
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Is Society Making Men the Enemy? | CHARLIE KIRK

Men, if you’ve been following me for any amount of time, you know that I believe there is a real dismissal of men and masculinity in society today. I’m hesitant to use the term “war on masculinity” or “attack on masculinity” because I believe that words have meaning. That said, there are some very real threats not only to men and boys but the fabric of American culture and Western Civilization as a whole. And, today, I’m joined by a man who is working hard to fight against it. His name is Charlie Kirk and he is the founder of Turning Point USA and the New York Times Bestselling author of The MAGA Doctrine. Today, we discuss how men seem to have become the enemy in society, the sedation and feminization of males, emotional manipulation, and cultural issues such as the dismantling of the family unit, the power of free speech, how the deck is stacked against men, and, more importantly, what we do about it. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Loving what you do Integrating your life Discontinuing friendship A mission-driven thing Personal responsibility Over-sedating young man Hyper-feminization of boys Boys need a hero Abolishing male hierarchy Creating stronger men Saving the country Governing humans Transcending skin color Family is everything The silent majority CHARLIE KIRK Gents, my guest today is the one and only Charlie Kirk. He’s a very polarizing figure although, I think, if you really listen to his message and what he shares, I don’t think it’s that controversial at all. He is the founder and President of Turning Point USA, which is a movement dedicated to empowering young people to promote the principles of free markets and limited governments. He’s also the author of New York Times Best Selling Book, The MAGA Doctrine: The Only Ideas That Will Win the Future. Today, he is here to talk with us about his fight to save men and save America. ORDER OF MAN MERCHANDISE Men, we’ve done our best to restock our merchandise store with the gear you want to look good and send a message about your stance in reclaiming and restoring masculinity to its rightful place. We’ve got hats, shirts, Battle Planners, wallets, decals, and, by popular demand, our first-ever Order of Man hoodies and sweatshirts. But if you want to represent Order of Man and look good in the process, you better do it now because everything is selling out very, very quickly. Head to store.orderofman.com to support what we’re doing here and look your best while letting the world know what type of man you are. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/297 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/6/20201 hour, 6 minutes, 25 seconds
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Are You LARPing Your Way Through Life | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Are you meeting your obligations as a man or larping your way through life? Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/2/202021 minutes, 27 seconds
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Living with No Regrets, Re-Inventing Yourself, and Raising Boys with ADHD | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss living with no regrets, re-inventing yourself, raising boys with ADHD, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/30/20201 hour, 28 minutes, 14 seconds
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Building a Business, Building a Life | JASON MCCARTHY

So many of you listening have entrepreneurial aspirations. But if you’re anything like I have been in the past, you may be thinking to yourself, “Who am I to start a business?” Frankly, who are you not to? Each and every man listening to this has a set of skills, insights, perspectives, and value to add to the world. It wasn’t until I realized this that Order of Man really started to take off. I think my guest, Jason McCarthy, founder of GoRuck would likely agree. He didn’t know that, when he was building GoRuck, he’d also be building his life but that’s what he discovered. Today, we talk about ignorance and education, when to throw in the towel and when to drive on, respecting and honoring your roots, being present in the moment, and how to build a life by building a business. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Turning into cyborgs A world at odds Stop living online Flipping the switch Building a business Taking responsibility Traveling cross-country Living in ignorance A labor of love Throwing in the towel The most important part Building overseas JASON McCARTHY My guest today is former Army Special Forces Green Beret and the founder of GoRuck, Jason McCarthy. Jason is one of the realest and most down-to-earth men, especially considering he’s been wildly successful in both the military and as he’s grown GoRuck into an international business. He is also the author of his newest book, How Not to Start a Backpack Company, where he documents his own personal victories and struggles in both his professional and personal life and shares stories of personal hardships and relationship challenges on his quest to build a life he can be proud of. ORDER OF MAN MERCHANDISE Gentlemen, I’ve had a goal for years now to start my own apparel company and, although, we’re just getting started, what you’ll find in the Order of Man store is just the beginning of what will eventually become a globally recognized apparel company. I’d ask that you go support what we’re doing in the store right now because we have shirts, hats, flags, wallets, and, of course, our best-selling product, the Twelve-Week Battle Planner. Not only will you look good as you support the mission to reclaim and restore masculinity, but you’ll have the opportunity to say that you own one of the original Order of Man products when we reach that global status. And, it’s a great way to support the mission here: to reclaim and restore masculinity. Head to store.orderofman.com. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/296 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/29/20201 hour, 7 minutes, 45 seconds
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What to Look For in a Woman (And How to Foster it in Her if You Already Have One) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men, knowing what to look for and foster in a woman will impact the rest of your life. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/25/202037 minutes, 48 seconds
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Overcoming Lagging Results, Developing Intentionality with Your Wife, and Why Controlling Your Emotions Won’t Help | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss overcoming lagging results, developing intentionality with your wife, why controlling your emotions won’t help, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/23/20201 hour, 16 minutes, 24 seconds
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How Improved Style Improves Your Life | AARON MARINO

I know as I release this podcast, a lot of men are going to look at the title and immediately write it off. “A real man,” after all, “doesn’t care how he looks.” While it’s a phrase I hear quite often, it just isn’t true. Washington, Alexander the Great, Theodore Roosevelt and, more recently, Jordan Peterson (to name a few) are all men who knew the usefulness of their appearance. That, to me, is the power of being conscious of your style – not to peacock, but to perform. And, today, I’m joined by my friend and a man extremely qualified to talk about how to level up your style. His name is Aaron Marino of Alpha M and today, we talk about the functionality of style, how what you wear communicates to people who you are, how dressing well helps instill a sense of respect in yourself, and how improved style improves your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Being well-groomed A competitive world You’re personal brand Opportunity for improvement Taking the next step Dressing with purpose Identifying body type Stretching your budget Ask for assistance Assessing yourself Stay simple and classic Looking too young Decision fatigue Finding congruency Your best foot forward AARON MARINO My guest today is a longtime friend and supporter of Order of Man, Aaron Marino. I met Aaron years ago when I attended his men’s conference, StyleCon (which later became Menfluential) and have been able to get to know him, his background as a gym owner and, later, someone who would go on to help millions of men level up their style, appearance, and confidence. He’s got over 6,000,000 YouTube Subscribers and owns multiple businesses but it’s been a long road to get to this point. And, today we talk about that journey and why he knows style is a powerful tool in every man’s toolbelt. 30 DAYS TO BATTLE READY Gents, we now have nearly 10,000 men who have gone through the new (and free) Battle Ready program. I am literally getting dozens or more emails a day from those of you are going through the process or have completed and I’m stoked to know that it is making a difference in your life. Too many men have no idea what the hell they should be doing with their lives and how to ensure they’re on the right track. And, while this course, won’t do the work for you or guarantee your results, it will point you in the right direction and give you a track to run on regardless of what your goals are. If you want to learn more and register for this free course, head to www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/295 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/22/20201 hour, 16 minutes, 50 seconds
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Why “Following Your Passion” is Bad Advice | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss the misguided advice behind “follow your passion.” Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/18/202025 minutes, 22 seconds
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The Pros of Being Judgmental, Patience vs. Ambition, and Embracing the Total Victory Mindset | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the pros of being judgmental, patience vs. ambition, embracing the total victory mindset, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/16/20201 hour, 23 minutes, 4 seconds
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The Case for Eating More Meat | ROBB WOLF

I’d be willing to bet (without the supporting data) that 95%+ of you eat meat. Like me, it really hasn’t even crossed my mind not to. That said, there seems to be a growing trend of individuals who have made meat consumption the enemy and the scapegoat for a lot of what’s wrong with the world from greenhouse emissions to the growing obesity epidemic to the mistreatment and mismanagement of our animals and nature’s resources. That’s why I’m honored to bring on an expert in the field, Robb Wolf. He’s the author or of the New York Times Bestselling book, Wired to Eat, and co-author of Sacred Cow: The Case for (Better) Meat: Why Well-Raised Meat is Good for You and Good for the Planet. Today, we talk about the environmental, nutritional, and ethical impacts of meat consumption, the power of regenerative cattle ranching, why eating meat seems to be a political divide, how are bodies are evolutionarily hardwired to consume meat, and how veganism can negatively impact the environment. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Steak in moderation Evolutionary biology Personal accountability Decision fatigue Evolving over time A nutrient-rich diet Regenerative agriculture Finding meaningful work Destroying small business Unintended consequences Industrial food systems USDA Certified Food decentralization Consolidating power Raw milk access ROBB WOLF My guest today is Robb Wolf. He is a former research biochemist and the New York Times Bestselling author of The Paleo Solution and Wired to Eat. I imagine that will become a threepeat with his latest book Sacred Cow: The Case for (Better) Meat. Robb also served as a review editor for the Journal of Nutrition and Metabolism and as a consultant for the Naval Special Warfare Resiliency Program. Needless to say, his resume speaks for itself. He’s one of the foremost authorities on diet, nutrition, exercise, and healthy living. BATTLE READY Gents, I just looked at the statistics and over 6,000 men have now enrolled in the 30 Days to Battle Ready course. These are men just like you – they want to deepen the relationship they have with their spouse, stack a few more zeros in their bank account, secure that coveted promotion, launch the business they’ve been thinking about for years, and generally discover meaning and fulfillment in their lives. But you know as well as I do, it isn’t going to just happen. You need to plan for it and then work to make it a reality. While I can’t do the work for you, I can give you the roadmap and help you create the path for yourself. It’s the old adage, Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach him how to fish and feed him for a lifetime. If you want to learn how to fish, the 30 Days to Battle Ready Program will teach you exactly how. You can enroll at www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/294 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
9/15/20201 hour, 29 minutes, 16 seconds
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Front Toward Enemy | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I talk about the concept and idea of front toward enemy. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/11/202023 minutes, 46 seconds
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The Disparity between Males and Men, Using Regrets to Your Advantage, and How to Conquer Fear | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I discuss the disparity between males and men, using regret to your advantage, how to conquer fear, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/9/20201 hour, 10 minutes, 38 seconds
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One True Patriot | SEAN PARNELL

During any election cycle, it seems increasingly difficult to place any trust and faith in our elected officials – on both sides of the aisle. But it’s crucial that we find, elect, and support those men who exhibit leadership capabilities outside of the political circus. After all, much of our lives are impacted by those we elect. I’ve often wondered why any good man would get into the political arena and that’s why I wanted to have my friend and candidate for Congress, Sean Parnell, back on the podcast. He’s a man I highly respect for his friendship, his service to this country as an Army Ranger with the 10th Mountain Division, and his desire to do good for this county. Today, we talk about what true leadership looks and feels like, the external and internal threats this country faces, his take on career politicians, term limits (which might surprise you), and the power of story to influence others. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Representing the people Living a private sector life No honor in politics Servants of our community Career politicians Consolidating power Reaching across the aisle Standing with the workers Condemning the riots Fighting for your country The 1st Amendment The job of a leader Making bad decisions The two-tiered justice system Freedom can disappear Identifying the enemy   SEAN PARNELL Sean Parnell, candidate for Congress and former Army Ranger with the 10th Mountain Division is back by popular demand after just speaking at the RNC and with his campaign for Congress going really well. And, on top of his insane schedule right now, he just wrote a new fictional book titled, One True Patriot, on the heels of his New York Times Bestselling Book, Outlaw Platoon. Sean is a regular contributor on Fox as well as appearances on CNN, MSNBC, and many others. He is also the co-founder of the American Warrior Initiative and has since thrown his hat in the ring of politics and is running for Congress in Pennsylvania’s 17th Congressional District. 30 DAYS TO BATTLE READY Where do I get started? How do I get back on track? I want to improve my life; how do I begin? These are questions I receive every single day and although the answer is certainly not easy, it is simple. You start with a plan. And, I’ve made a planning tool available to you that will help you get on the path you know you should be on. It’s called 30 Days to Battle Ready and in this free email course, you’ll learn everything you need to know to make the end of this year an incredible success despite the kick in the balls you may have received from 2020. Only sign up if you’re serious and you’re willing to do the exercises and work to achieve the personal and professional results you’re after. Head to www.orderofman.com/battleready. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/8/20201 hour, 7 minutes, 28 seconds
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Brace for Impact | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share my eight-point plan to ensure you and the people you love thrive during civil unrest. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/4/202034 minutes, 22 seconds
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Set the Bar High, The Winner/Loser Spectrum, and Getting Your Wife on Board | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss setting the bar high, the winner/loser spectrum, getting your wife on board, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/2/20201 hour, 19 minutes, 11 seconds
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Adapt and Overcome | PETE ROBERTS

No doubt, 2020 has kicked you in the teeth. It has for everyone to some degree. What you do now is completely up to you. If you adapt quickly, you’ll win. If you don’t, well, good luck. Most men understand this. Few do it. That’s why I wanted to have my good friend, Jiu-Jitsu coach, and business mentor back on the podcast. He’s arguably one the best and quickest adaptors in the game. His name is Pete Roberts and he is the founder of Origin. Today, we talk about how to recognize evolving trends, how to get ahead of the curve in life, when to adjust, and what factors to look for and, we give a bit of cultural commentary, including some political predictions (which were proven wrong since the recording of this podcast). SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Dealing with ego Facing challenges In the trenches Building culture Learning to pivot Rebuilding supply lines Gaining perspective Fortunate events Changing the zeros Experiencing Jiu-Jitsu A country divided Uniting our country PETE ROBERTS Gents, my guest today is Pete Roberts and, as I said early, he is the founder of Origin Maine, an American manufacturing company based in Maine. It might sound familiar to you because you hear me talk about Origin every week and there’s a reason why (you’ll hear about it on the podcast). Besides being one of the best innovators I know when it comes to growing, building, and scaling a business, he’s been a great mentor and friend, and one of the primary reason for us making our move to Maine. I always enjoy my conversations with Pete and I always walk away with a new perspective I hadn’t considered before. You will too. BATTLE READY PROGRAM. Gentlemen, at this point over 4,000 men have gone through the Battle Ready Program. If you aren’t familiar with what that is, it’s a free email course designed to walk you through four critical phases of planning your life. Look, I know how much you want to accomplish. I know that most men (based on the responses I’ve heard) are struggling with discipline and consistency. I also know that you believe you are meant for something more. It isn’t going to fall into your lap, gents. You have to go out and take it. But rather than be reckless in your pursuit, let me show you how to be calculated and precise in identifying what you want then doing the work necessary to claim it. You can sign up at www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/292 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store    
9/1/20201 hour, 28 minutes, 43 seconds
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Men Know the Value of Their Time | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share five strategies to help maximize the value of your time. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/28/202035 minutes, 42 seconds
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Building a Code of Conduct, Operating in a Soft Culture, Dealing with Differences in Opinion | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss building a code of conduct, operating in a soft culture, dealing with differences in opinion, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/26/20201 hour, 13 minutes, 45 seconds
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How to Build a Powerful Personal Network | DR. IVAN MISNER

I don’t consider myself uniquely talented, gifted, or blessed. But there is one factor I excel at that has given me more opportunity than I could have ever imagined. And, the best news is that all of us, regardless of our inherent gifts and talents, can improve our capacity to excel in this factor. I’m talking about the ability to connect and network with other individuals. And, I can think of no better person to talk with us about how to develop that skill set than the founder of Business Network International, Dr. Ivan Misner. Today, we talk about farming vs. hunting in networking, how to connect with powerful people, why so many people struggle with making connections, the 3-part system for maximizing relationships, and how to build a powerful personal network. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The single greatest skillset Teaching leadership The V.C.B. process The Time Confidence Curve Networking isn’t hard You got to show up Getting more referrals The fear of public speaking Speak without speaking The 29% Solution Networking success Six degrees of separation The “Givers Gain” core value Serving others Premature solicitation Leading with curiosity The third-party testimonial Building a referral system DR. IVAN MISNER My guest is someone I have admired and respected for a very long time. His name is Dr. Ivan Misner and he is the founder of Business Network International (BNI) which has over 9,600 worldwide chapters and has over 250,000 members. Last year alone, BNI resulted in $16.7 billion dollars worth of business for its members. Dr. Misner is also a New York Times Bestselling author and has written 24 books including his latest, Who’s in Your Room? He’s been called the “Father of Modern Networking” by CNN and tapped as one of the “Top Networking Experts” by Forbes. He has also been honored as “Humanitarian of the Year” by the Red Cross and is the recipient of the John C. Maxwell Transformational Leadership Award. I could go on and on by sufficing it to say the man knows how to network, how to connect, and how to help you do the same. BATTLE PLANNER FOR KIDS Several months ago, my son suggested making a Battle Planner for children. He had seen the one that I created for myself and wanted to make something for himself. After a lot of work together and the investment in making it come to life, both he and I are proud to announce that the 90-Day Battle Planner for Kids is now available in the Order of Man merchandise store. If you have a child and want that child to have a leg up, the 90-Day Battle Planner for Kids is the tool you need to help them get on track, identify important priorities, and develop the discipline and consistency needed to thrive in life. Inside, you’ll find 90 Daily Trackers with daily non-negotiables and a section where they can identify important daily activities in each of six important facets of their life. But the most important thing is that you’ll personally have a framework to work alongside them in building confidence and getting important work done! Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/291 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/25/20201 hour, 13 minutes, 50 seconds
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Leadership is Not a Popularity Contest | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss how leadership is not a popularity contest. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/21/202032 minutes, 28 seconds
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Don’t Change for Others, Eliminate External Validation, and Building a Team of Men Around You | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss changing for others, eliminating external validation, building a team of men around you, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/19/20201 hour, 12 minutes, 25 seconds
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Optimization Through Discomfort | KIP FULKS

You wouldn’t be listening to this podcast if you didn’t want to improve your life to some degree. In fact, I’d argue that most of you are interested in optimizing every facet of your life. And, that’s exactly what my friend, avid bow hunter, co-founder of Under Armour, and founder of Big Truck Farms and Brewery, Kip Fulks talk about today. This is a fascinating discussion with an extremely fascinating man. We talk about manufacturing discomfort, becoming good stewards over all of our resources, developing undaunted courage, managing ourselves well, and optimizing our lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Made in America Working your ass off Problem-solving Loving the struggle Going around the wall A consumer society Big Truck Brewery Driven by beliefs Managing wildlife Making a sacrifice Experiencing doubt The common denominator Watching others rise Pushing past comfort Overcoming roadblocks KIP FULKS I met Kip Fulks years ago through Instagram. We spent some time hunting in Arizona and I’m always left fascinated and inspired by our conversations. He’s a very deep and probably one of the most interesting thinkers I know. Kip is an avid outdoorsman, played professional lacrosse for 10 years, is one of the original partners of Under Armour where he helped build the organization into a multi-billion dollar business, and now owns and operates Big Truck Farms and Brewery where he has learned from scratch how to craft beer without any prior knowledge or experience. I’ve been asking Kip to come on the podcast for years. You guys are going to enjoy this one. 30 DAYS TO BATTLE READY Gentlemen, whatever your battle is, you cannot possibly win unless you have a clear and effective strategy for securing victory. Most men go at life with a shotgun approach, shooting everything they see, and no real method or system for ensuring they hit the target they’re after. So, whether you’re trying to salvage your marriage, lead your wife and children well, lose that spare tire around the mid-section, compete in an Iron Man, start a new business, secure a promotion – or generally trying to improve yourself in some way, the 30 Days to Battle Ready program has you covered. Over the course of 30 days, you’ll work through 4 phases to develop your own Battle Plan so you can attack life in whatever way you see fit and actually produce the results you’re after. Thousands of men have gone through the free program. It’s time for you to go through it as well and make yourself Battle Ready. You can sign up at www.orderofman.com/battleready. Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/290 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/18/20201 hour, 25 minutes, 29 seconds
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Developing Post-Pandemic Discipline | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share my thoughts on developing post-pandemic discipline. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
8/14/202026 minutes, 6 seconds
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The Balance Between Respecting and Defying Authority, Knowing When to Quit, and Learning From Others' Mistakes | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I discuss the balance between respecting and defying authority, knowing when to quit, learning from others’ mistakes, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/12/20201 hour, 4 minutes, 9 seconds
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A Man of Conviction | IAN SMITH

Men, I’ve got a great one lined up for you today with a man who I was just recently introduced to. In the last several weeks, his business has been forcefully shut down, he and his business partner have been arrested, and they’re now facing a $15,000/day fine for operating their legitimate and licensed gym in New Jersey. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Living the American dream Respect for the American Institution Losing to COVID Stepping outside your box The moving goal post National media attention Being a political target David vs. Goliath Acting like a ruler Going 12 rounds Living a normal life Telling your story Supporting small business Look, I’m not asking you to agree with the premise of Ian Smith’s current situation and the fight he’s been thrust into (although I think many of you will) but I would have you consider the validity of the fight he’s engaged in, what it means to be a man of conviction, standing up to the government, and putting it all on the line for something you believe in. IAN SMITH As I mentioned earlier, my guest today is Ian Smith. He is the co-owner and founder of Atilis Gym in New Jersey. He’s recently been thrust into the national limelight and has been featured on Tucker Carlson, CNN’s Chris Cuomo, and Charlie Kirk for defying local business restrictions and refusing to close his gym. This isn’t a man who set out to defy the government, piss people off, or be reckless with people’s health and lives but he is a man who is willing to stand by what he believes in the face of threats of imprisonment and astronomical fines for what he believes to be unconstitutional infringements. Gent’s, you’re really going to enjoy this one and I, personally, was extremely impressed with Ian’s knowledge, his thoughtfulness, and, most importantly, his willingness to take a strong stand for what he believes in. BECOME BATTLE READY As you’re likely well aware by now, we just released our free Battle Ready course designed to walk you through 4 crucial planning stages so that you can accomplish more over the next 90-days than you have at any other point in your life. If you’re sick of living a life of default and mediocrity, I’m going to show you over a period of 30 days exactly how you can take control of your life once and for all and learn the systems to be able to predictably replicate results over and over and over again. Whether you’re trying to salvage your marriage, connect with your kids, lose weight, get strong, secure a promotion, start a new business, or simply develop more discipline and consistency in your life, I’ll help you take all of the guesswork out of the equation and show you exactly what you need to do to produce results. You can sign up at www.orderofman.com/battleready Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/289 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/11/202056 minutes, 44 seconds
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5 Rules for Self-Governance | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share five rules for self-governance. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/7/202028 minutes, 33 seconds
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Cancel Culture, Introduction to Firearms, and Stock Market Predictions | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss cancel culture, an introduction to firearms, stock market predictions, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/5/20201 hour, 23 minutes, 4 seconds
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The Power of Uncomfortable Truths, Part 2 | SEAN WHALEN

Back by popular demand is my good friend and long-time mentor, Sean Whalen. I had Sean join me several months ago and the feedback I received was so overwhelmingly positive that I knew I needed to have him back on the podcast. Although you may not agree with everything we talk about today, the social climate we live in demands those who are unabashedly unafraid of speaking their minds and giving us a glimpse into perspectives we may not otherwise consider. This is a powerful follow-up to our conversation several months ago about what is going on in culture today and what a man needs to do to navigate these interesting times. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Paying to play Survival of the fittest Helping other people Truth is truth The blame-game Doing shit differently Living an exceptional life COVID-19 fallout The true reality Being fat, dumb, and healthy Ensuring our safety Focusing on you Investing in relationships SEAN WHALEN Gents, today I have the honor of introducing you yet again to my friend, Sean Whalen. Although he and I don’t always agree, I genuinely admire his passion and enthusiasm for life, adventure, and new experiences. In fact, this conversation was recorded between him racing cars and qualifying for competitive racing. You’re going to get a lot of information from this one and, at the very least, you’ll be motivated and inspired to do more with your life. 30 DAYS TO BATTLE READY By now, you guys have heard me talk about our new Battle Ready program. Over, the past few weeks, I’ve been receiving hundreds of emails and DM’s with testimonials from men who are getting crystal clear on what they want out of life and formulating a plan to make it a reality. If you want to grab your life by the balls and get done more by the end of this year than you have at any other point in your life, join the free Battle Ready program at www.orderofman.com/battleready. When you do, you’ll get a series of emails over the course of 30 days that will walk you through four critical phases of planning and preparing your success on both the personal and professional front. Again, you can sign up at www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/288 Leave us a rating: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/order-of-man-protect-provide-preside/id979752171 Join the brotherhood: http://www.theironcouncil.com/ Support Order of Man by picking up some merchandise: http://bit.ly/orderofmanstore Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/ryanmichler https://www.facebook.com/orderofman/ https://twitter.com/ryanmichler  
8/4/202055 minutes, 52 seconds
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The Most Underrated and Underused Tool in Your Arsenal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss the most underrated and underused tool in your arsenal. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/31/202032 minutes, 34 seconds
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Taking On Extreme Ownership, Stopping Negative Self-talk, Finding Purpose in Your Work | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen discusses taking on extreme ownership, stopping negative self-talk, finding purpose your life, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/29/20201 hour, 8 minutes, 5 seconds
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Fixing America Through Uncomfortable Conversations | BYRON DAVIS

Civil discourse is a skillset that seems to be in increasingly rare supply but if we have any hope of solving our toughest challenges, it’s going to require men of all races, religious beliefs, and sides of the political aisle to come together to have these challenging discussions. And, that’s why I’ve really been looking forward to getting my conversation with Byron Davis to you guys. I knew that we wouldn’t agree on everything we discussed but I was pleasantly surprised that we were significantly closer than those who prey on the outraged would have the population believe. We talk about the importance of the crucial conversations, why and how our egos get in the way, what “dismantling the system” means, the “bait and switch” of the BLM organization’s messaging, cancel culture, and the proper role of government in our lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS A lack of maturity Challenging your ego Demanding more of yourself Police tactics Dysfunction in the system Cultivating a community Perpetuating a problem Investing financial resources Creating virtual fathers Impacting the world Moving the needle Counteracting the bad apples Calling out bad cops Globalizing our economy Addressing systemic issues Confusing the narrative Abdicating certain freedoms Stewarding your family Accumulating wealth Operating at your best Speaking truths BYRON DAVIS I’m honored to introduce you to my guest today. His name is Byron Davis and through his ministry, Legacy Men, his goal is to equip and empower men of all walks of life to be the difference within the world around them. Byron and I hadn’t ever had a conversation before this so I didn’t know a whole lot about him and his work prior to our conversation but I was so impressed with his knowledge, articulate thoughts on some of the most difficult topics we can discuss, and his genuine desire to lead from the front. He’s a former USA National Swim team member and American record holder. Now, he’s a speaker, author, and the founder of Authority Labs which helps leaders master their message and increase their influence. BATTLE READY Look, most men know they want to improve in some area of their life. And, generally, most of you know what it is you need to do. But let’s be honest, knowing what to do and actually doing it are separate issues. And, I know, if you’re anything like me, that developing the discipline to do the work required is extremely challenging. That’s why I created 30 Days to Battle Ready. It’s a free program designed to give you a 30 day track to run on which will equip you with the tools you need to develop discipline, maintain consistency, and finally achieve your goals – whatever they are (which we’ll help you identify if needed). If you want to tee the rest of your year up for success on the professional or personal front, sign up for the free Battle Ready program at www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/287 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/28/20201 hour, 33 minutes, 51 seconds
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The Importance and Power of Investing in Yourself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share the single most important message I’ve shared about success and investing in yourself. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/24/202025 minutes, 41 seconds
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Getting Hyper-Focused, Assessing Risk Properly, and Developing Your Intuition | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss getting hyper-focused, assessing risk properly, developing your intuition, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/22/20201 hour, 15 minutes, 32 seconds
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JOCKO WILLINK | Leading in Challenging and Uncertain Times

It’s easy to lead in comfortable times. In fact, I’m not even sure if we would call that leadership. It’s the times that are challenging that your true measurement as a leader comes into question. And, regardless of how you feel about the political landscape, COVID-19, and the civil unrest in society, I think we’d all agree that these are uncertain and challenging times. Today, I’m joined by my friend and 4-time guest, Jocko Willink, to talk about how to pivot effectively, overcoming the resistance to change in yourself and others, the differences between being reactive and proactive, how to take and inspire initiative, the dichotomy of caring for other people, and so much more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Going virtual Effective training tools Overcoming hurdles Resisting change Emotional decisions The false dichotomy Resolving conflict Stripping away humanity Being a reasonable human being Proving people right Exploiting opportunity JOCKO WILLINK Gents, I am honored to introduce (for the 4th time on this podcast) my friend, former Navy SEAL Commander, New York Times Bestselling Author, and founder of Echelon Front, Jocko Willink. I can honestly say that after having multiple conversations with and getting to know Jocko on a personal and professional level that there isn’t a single person more qualified to talk about leadership than him. And, these are certainly times that call for leadership. As you’re well aware, Jocko is the founder of the leadership organization, Echelon Front, has written multiple New York Times Bestselling books, and, in case you’ve been living under a rock, the host of the extremely popular podcast, Jocko Podcast. Our conversations get better each time and this one is no exception. BATTLE READY If you haven’t already heard, the free Battle Ready course is now available. In it, I’m going to send you a series of emails over 30 days designed to give you all the tools, resources, and information you need to make the next 90 days the most productive, profitable, and prosperous time in your life. I can say that with certainty because thousands of men have now gone through the program I’ll teach and they’re making more money, securing promotions, getting the girl, losing weight, getting strong, connecting with their kids, finding meaning and, like Pedro would say, “making their wildest dreams come true.” Of course, I can’t guarantee that but I can guarantee that if you implement the exact strategies I’ll teach you, you will accomplish more out of your life than you ever have in the past. Head to www.orderofman.com/battleready to get signed up. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/286 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/21/20201 hour, 17 minutes, 53 seconds
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10 Lessons Learned from my Visit to 1st Phorm | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you ten lessons from my visit to 1st Phorm. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/17/202047 minutes, 23 seconds
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Finding Joy in the Journey, Developing Empathy, and Rebuilding Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss finding joy in the journey, developing empathy, rebuilding relationships, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/15/20201 hour, 24 minutes, 53 seconds
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ANDY FRISELLA | Real AF

Gents, today I am joined by the one and only, Andy Frisella. I don’t say it lightly but this is hands-down one of the single best podcast conversations I’ve had since starting nearly five and a half years ago. We all know the world is in chaos and, frankly, it seems like so few of us are willing to have the tough and difficult conversations that we need to have in order to come up with some solutions to what ails us. Today, Andy and I address many of those concerns as we talk about societal issues, having difficult and important conversations, his life-changing 75Hard program, what the successful all have in common, and how you can take charge of your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Business strategy Social agendas Bowing to the pressure Making intelligent decisions Expressing your views Offering a different perspective Addressing real issues A painful history A level of ignorance Law and order Effective leadership The comparison trap Becoming an elite ANDY FRISELLA As I mentioned before, today I am joined by my good friend, Andy Frisella. I started listening to his podcast, MFCEO, roughly five years ago and I was immediately impressed with his ability to tell it like it is. He is the founder of the extremely successful supplement company, 1stPhorm, and the host of the number 1 podcast in the world, MFCEO. Since making that podcast so successful, he transitioned into talking about the real issues that seem to be plaguing society and launched his second podcast, REAL AF (which I believe is better than his first). I had the chance to spend the day with him at their new 200,000 sq. foot facility in St. Louis and was absolutely blown away with the facility and every single person in the 1st Phorm “phamily” that I met. 30 DAYS TO BATTLE READY Gents, if you’re not already aware, a couple of weeks ago, we launched our 30 Days to Battle Ready program which is designed to teach you the framework for success over the next 30 days. When you sign up (it’s free), you’ll get access to a series of emails which is not only going to outline the process but challenge you to complete a series of steps that will radically alter your life. This isn’t some cheap email course. This is the result of nearly six years of trial and error with me and thousands of men who have gone through the program. If you’re discontent with where you are in your relationship, finances, physical health, and/or any other area of your life, commit to implementing this program over the next 30 days, dive in head-first, and change your life. You can join us at www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/285 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
7/14/20201 hour, 35 minutes, 31 seconds
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How to Converse Like a Man, Not a Boy | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share five principles to help you converse like a man, not a boy. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/10/202031 minutes, 27 seconds
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The Current State of America, Homeschool Vs. Public School, and Lack of Leadership at the Top | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I field questions regarding the current state of America, homeschool vs. public school, the lack of leadership at the top, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/8/202059 minutes, 21 seconds
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How Dogs Can Make You a Better Man | MIKE RITLAND

I know on the surface the title of this podcast may seem a bit far-fetched but I can assure you that what my guest today, Mike Ritland, and I cover regarding dog handling and training can make you a better man if you apply it. I don’t want to make the comparison of humans and animals (clearly, there are huge differences) but there is a ton of psychology that goes into effectively training dogs that can be directly applied to our approach as men like developing patience, looking for feedback, adhering to first or foundational principles, how we can communicate effectively. We also get into some other topics regarding our current cultural crisis, politics, and our job as fathers. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Sheltering our youth Living with consequences Micromanagement Learning from your mistakes Training dogs through repetition Shaping behavior Rewarding your dog Socialization Training with "Dog Men" The Dog Warrior Foundation MIKE RITLAND My guest today is a former Navy SEAL and the founder of Team Dog Online Training, Mike Ritland. He’s also a New York Times Bestselling author of three books: Trident K9 Warriors, Navy SEAL Dogs, and TEAM Dog. In addition, he is the host of the wildly popular podcast, Mike Drop. Mike is a fascinating human being never at a loss of an opinion on the current culture, how to train dogs, and generally how to become a better, more capable human being. 30 Days to Battle Ready Let me introduce you to our newest 30-day course, called 30 Days to Battle Ready. When you sign up, you’ll immediately unlock access to a free course designed to equip you with the strategy for accomplishing the most out of your life and, most importantly, develop the discipline that is absolutely necessary to thrive as a father, husband, business owner, and community leader. Over 30 days, you’re going to be receiving emails from me walking you through the four phases you need to master to make yourself Battle Ready. And, make no mistake, life is a battle. A battle against yourself. A battle for your family. A battle for your career. A battle for society. Make yourself capable of engaging in the battle most effectively by heading to www.orderofman.com/battleready. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/284 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/7/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 46 seconds
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How to Harness Your Emotions | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share my thoughts on emotions and how you can harness them. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/3/202022 minutes, 54 seconds
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Recovering and Refocusing on Your Goals, Effectiveness in Parenting and Blended Families, Making Your Marriage a Priority | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen discusses recovering and refocusing on your goals, effectiveness in parenting and blended families, making your marriage a priority, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our 30 Days to Battle Ready course. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/1/20201 hour, 15 minutes, 31 seconds
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Forging Noble Manhood | STEPHEN MANSFIELD

If you didn’t believe in the inherent value of masculinity, you wouldn’t be here listening to this podcast. But you are so I know that you believe in the message to reclaim and restore masculinity in a world that has been constantly distorting what it means to be a man, undermining the value men bring to society, and signing masculinity off as a socially constructed and antiquated behavior of men. That’s why the conversation I have with repeat guest, Stephen Mansfield is so crucial. He has been championing noble manhood for years and I could not be more honored than to call him a friend. Today, we talk about the culture of men, the critical importance of a man’s legacy, the fire of heritage, rituals, a man’s warrior spirit, and why we must all fight to forge noble manhood. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Learning family heritage The traditional family Community obligations Informal mentorship The lore of manhood The fire of God Male authority Building woman up Searching for answers Taking on ridicule Virtues of a warrior The duplicity of life Stepping into manhood STEPHEN MANSFIELD My guest today is my good friend and repeat guest, Stephen Mansfield. As I said previously, he has been a champion of noble manhood for years and has been a huge support and advocate for what we’re doing here at Order of Man. In fact, he was gracious enough to write a powerful testimony for my book, Sovereignty: The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men. Stephen is a political commentator, founder of Greatmen.tv, and New York Times Bestselling author and has written many incredible books including, Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men, Building Your Band of Brothers, and his latest (which he is here to talk with us about today), Men on Fire. LEGACY Fathers, on September 3rd-6th we’re going to be hosting our first-ever Legacy experience in Maine. You and your son (between the ages of 8-15) are going to come to my property to be pushed to the max physically, mentally, and emotionally. And, all of it is designed to equip you and your boy with the tools needed to thrive in the crazy world in which we live. If you’re anything like me, ensuring your son becomes the man he is capable of becoming is what keeps you at night more than anything else. And, when you come to the Legacy experience on September 3rd-6th, you’re going to be working alongside me and my boys and 19 other fathers/sons to ensure you have everything you need to help your boy become a man. If you want to learn more and lock in your spot, go to www.orderofman.com/legacy. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/283 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store      
6/30/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 31 seconds
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30 Days to Battle Ready | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Men, our 30 Days to Battle Ready course is available. It’s your guide to building a battle plan for maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance. Go to orderofman.com to sign up. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/26/202013 minutes, 28 seconds
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STEVEN PRESSFIELD | The War of Art

The act of creation is something we have a desire to do but just because we desire to create doesn’t make it any easier. In fact, creating and putting your work into the world for others to judge is one of the most challenging things a human can do. There are a lot of reasons for this but ultimately it boils down to what my guest today calls, “resistance.” I’m honored to be joined by someone I’ve admired and respected for a very long time, Mr. Steven Pressfield, and today we talk about what “resistance” actually is and how it manifests itself differently in people’s lives. We also talk about the arrogance of planning, the culture of virtue, identifying the “soul’s code,” why work can be like war, and how to equip yourself for it. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The voices in your head Putting in the work Improving over time Making better mistakes Working the problem Defining professionalism The amateur mindset Going through a process Finding your calling Playing the long game The artists' journey Infallible wisdom A culture of virtue STEVEN PRESSFIELD My guest today is the one and only Steven Pressfield. Needless to say, many of you are already familiar with at least some of his work, including The War of Art, Do the Work, The Warrior Ethos, and Gates of Fire. But what a lot of you may not know is that Steven wrote for 27 years before his first novel, The Legend of Bagger Vance, was published. So, obviously, he knows a thing or two about putting in the work and overcoming resistance in all of its forms. Since then, he’s gone on to sell millions of copies of his books and has become one of the most influential figures in fighting through challenging times, paying your dues, and teaching others how to succeed as creators. Gents, this one is such a powerful conversation. I hope you enjoy it. MAINE EVENT Last week, I talked with you about the Legacy Event which is for fathers and sons but this week I wanted to share our next event, Maine Event, which will be held October 9th-11th with an exclusive Iron Council dinner the evening of the 8th. Over a period of two days, you’ll work alongside 100 other motivated, ambitious men to create a Battle Plan that will help you roll into 2021 in full stride and ready to seize all that the new year has to offer you. You’re going to get one-one coaching, group accountability, camaraderie, and the type of conversations and insights that most men just don’t get in their day-to-day activities. We only have six spots remaining so if you’re even remotely interested, please head to www.orderofman.com/maineevent as quickly as possible to lock in one of the last seats to this incredible experience. Again, head to www.orderofman.com/maineevent, to learn more and claim your seat. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/282 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/25/20201 hour, 15 minutes, 27 seconds
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Working with a Stubborn Child, Raising Daughters, and Creating Rites of Passage | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss working with stubborn children, raising daughters, creating rites of passage, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/24/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 30 seconds
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How to Build a Business and Become an Entrepreneur | RYAN MORAN

Building a business is something I think every man should look into and, while not every man is cut out for the entrepreneurial life, self-employment provides benefits that shouldn’t be overlooked – the flexibility of schedule, the pursuit of passion, and unlimited income potential. But with all that goes into successfully running a business, starting your own can seem like a daunting, if not impossible, endeavor. Today, I am joined by my friend and serial entrepreneur, Ryan Moran. He is the founder of Capitalism.com and the author of 12 Months to $1 Million. We talk about choosing a winning product, the mindset for building a business, how to stack the deck in your favor, aligning your interest with business growth, and the true purpose of money. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Opening a new chapter An expensive use of energy Growth is pain Improving in the present Creating a meaningful impact Diminishing returns Creating value for others Serving the right people The twelve-month roadmap Building your infrastructure Earning trust first Predictable growth How to get funding Conflicting values RYAN DANIEL MORAN My guest today is my good friend and serial entrepreneur, Ryan Moran. He is the founder of Capitalism.com and the author of 12 Months to $1,000,000. He is also an investor and owns multiple businesses that generate millions of dollars in revenue. And, he has personally helped create over 100 millionaires using the strategies he teaches. In fact, many of the strategies Ryan teaches are the strategies I’ve used to grow Order of Man into what it is today. Despite his tremendous success, Ryan is extremely down to earth and has a passion for helping other people realize their own dreams through free markets and building passionate, profitable businesses. LEGACY Coming off of Father’s Day weekend, I wanted to again let you know about our first-ever Legacy Experience in Maine. This is a 3 ½ father/son event designed to forge deeper bonds between you and your son, equip you both with the tools, frameworks, and resources you need to thrive, and build up the fortitude and resilience needed to succeed in an insane world. We’re going to be doing some airsoft, Jiu-Jitsu, hiking, firesides, planning sessions, and some other challenging surprises that you and your son will be talking about for the rest of your life. If you have a son, nephew, mentee, etc. between the ages of 8-15, I want to invite you to join us September 3rd-6th, 2020 on my property in Maine. You can learn more and register at www.ordeofman.com/legacy. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/281 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
6/23/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 35 seconds
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This One is For the Fathers | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I honor fathers and the silent victories that come along with this noble calling. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/19/202023 minutes, 12 seconds
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The Hidden Value of Jiu-Jitsu | NICK ALBIN "CHEWY"

It’s no secret that I’m a huge proponent of Jiu-Jitsu. In fact, I’m sure you guys get sick of me talking about it on the podcast so much. But I do because over the past year and a half, I’ve come to find immense value in the practice and seen the benefits (sometimes hidden) of what it offers. My guest today is someone who I’ve been following for quite some time. His name is Nick Albin “Chewy” and he’s a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu blackbelt. Today we discuss, the masochistic nature of Jiu-Jitsu, personal responsibility in training, dialing the intensity of your training both up and down, how Jiu-Jitsu can serve as a therapy session of sorts, and the hidden value of the discipline. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Getting into Jiu-Jitsu Dealing with pain Your worst enemy Good training partners Intentional training Prioritizing your routine Training too little Strengthening your body Being ultra-competitive Rolling with students How warriors train Going for the kill Seeing different sides Losing the fear Finding a good gym NICK ALBIN “CHEWY” My guest today is Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu blackbelt, Nick Albin (affectionately referred to as Chewy). I came across his work as I was studying, learning, and researching Jiu-Jitsu. He’s got an incredible YouTube channel (Chewjitsu) filled with ideas, strategies, insights, tactics, and mindsets for improving your game. And, he’s been indirectly instrumental in helping me improve my game as I dive deeper down the rabbit hole of something that has become a critical part of my week and life. LEGACY This message is for fathers with a son(s) between the ages of 8 -15. I know that Father’s Day is coming up this weekend and it’s likely that you’ll be getting an ugly tie and/or some homemade arts and crafts. That’s all fine and great but you know as a father that giving is better than getting. So, if you’re looking to give your son(s) an experience they’ll never forget, consider joining us at our first-ever Legacy Experience in Maine. This is a 3 ½ day event designed to forge tighter bonds with you and your boy and give both him and you the tools, resources, frameworks, and mindset to thrive, as men, in challenging and uncertain times. You’re both going to be pushed physically, mentally, and emotionally but you’re going to leave with a better relationship and the skills you need to usher your son into manhood. The event is going to be held September 3rd – 6th and we only have 5 spots remaining. Learn more and lock in your spot at www.orderofman.com/legacy. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/279 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
6/18/20201 hour, 1 minute, 1 second
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Teaching Daughters About Masculinity, Advice for New Fathers, and the Importance of Fatherly Intentionality | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss teaching daughters about masculinity, advice for new fathers, the importance of fatherly intentionality, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/17/202052 minutes
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Men in Politics | SEAN PARNELL

Politics is just something we don’t talk a whole lot about in the Order of Man movement. I think it’s clear why. Masculinity isn’t reserved for one side of the political aisle but I do believe there are some underlying principles of masculinity (and the betterment of society) that tend to be politicized. And, so, I’ve rejected the notion of talking about politics or being even remotely political but it’s clear to me that these are conversations that need to be had. And, I can think of no better person to talk with us about it today than Sean Parnell, an Army Ranger veteran, New York Times Bestselling Author, and candidate for Congress. Today we talk about servant leadership, the American Dream, trust, power grabs, and men in politics. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Being a warrior Learning lessons Servant leadership Finding the right answer Dirty politics Raising campaign money Voting in leaders When tribalism wins Cultural shifts Political systems Defending freedom Coming home from war Economic fallout Common sense thinking Personal responsibility Showing gratitude Delivering justice SEAN PARNELL My guest today is Sean Parnell. He served as an Army Ranger with the 10th Mountain Division. His platoon, nicknamed “Outlaw Platoon” killed over 350 enemy fighters in some of the biggest firefights in the Afghan war. Upon returning to the states and after serious injuries (including neurological injuries), Sean was medically discharged from the military. He went on to write his New York Times Bestselling book, Outlaw Platoon, and is now a regular contributor on Fox as well as appearances on CNN, MSNBC, and many others. He is also the co-founder of the American Warrior Initiative and has since thrown his hat in the ring of politics and is running for Congress in Pennsylvania’s 17th Congressional District. LEGACY and the MAINE EVENT Father/Son Legacy Event – September 3rd – 6th Maine Event – October 9th – 11th Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/279
6/16/20201 hour, 10 minutes, 19 seconds
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David Goggins on Racism

David Goggins shares the biggest challenge of discussing race in America. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/xR_CJA7-tEw Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/13/20208 minutes, 54 seconds
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Two Factors That Make a Male a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share the two factors that make a male a man. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/12/202021 minutes, 57 seconds
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The Path To Redemption | WES WATSON

All of us have fallen behind or gotten off track somewhere in our lives (some more than others). Only some decide to get back on track and take control of their lives – to redeem themselves if you will. And, who doesn’t respect the hell out of a man who has hit rock bottom and risen from the ashes? That’s why I wanted to invite Wes Watson on the podcast. He’s arguably one of the most influential men I’ve had the honor of talking with because of his no-BS, straight-talking approach to improving your life. Today we talked about Wes’ 10-year prison sentence, the power of gratitude in dire circumstances, overcoming regret and shame, developing a new stream of consciousness, and how to build your own redemption story. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Cognitive dissonance Running from pain Personal growth External distractions Levering emotional motivation Giving yourself away Bringing worth to life Creating daily systems Regret is your guideline Shifting your mindset Another chance at life Sharing your F*ck-ups Re-writing books Managing negative energy Positive mental attitude Elevating yourself Living out of an abundance WES WATSON My guest today is Wes Watson, strength and fitness coach, but he’s so much more than that. Wes simply uses health and fitness as a medium for transforming your mind and your life. Wes spent 10-years in prison and was quickly spiraling into a life of chaos and destruction but while serving his prison sentence, he began to transform his life through the power of his thoughts and daily actions. After being released from prison, Wes has become one of the most powerful voices in self-development, has built a massively successful business, and has inspired thousands of people to transform their own lives through his mentorship and coaching. You’re going to hear in this conversation why I wanted Wes to join us as the fire he brings can’t help but motivate and inspire you to get your life on track. IRON COUNCIL Gents, we’re rapidly approaching father’s day and, as we do, it was important to me that inside of the Iron Council we have a discussion about redeeming the relationship with our fathers. Regardless of your relationship with your father, it’s likely that some conversations have been left unsaid and there is a strain between you and him. And, regardless of your ability/desire to reconcile with your father, there are steps you can take to come to terms with the relationship that you have with him so you can drive on in your own life with clarity, focus, direction, and purpose as a man. These aren’t comfortable conversations, challenges, and discussions we’re having inside the Iron Council this month but they’re completely necessary if you want to break the chains that may have been holding you back from becoming the man you’re wanting to become – not the boy in his father’s shadow. If you’re ready to have these conversations, challenges, accountably, brotherhood, and more, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/278  
6/11/20201 hour, 14 minutes, 30 seconds
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Fragile Freedom, Trifecta of Productivity, and Fault Vs. Responsibility | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss fragile freedom, the trifecta of productivity, fault vs. responsibility, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
6/10/20201 hour, 25 minutes, 47 seconds
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MAT FRASER | Becoming the Fittest Man on Earth

Gentlemen, my guest today is 4-time CrossFit Games Champion, Mat Fraser. I’ve always been fascinated with what makes some of the most successful men on the planet tick. That fascination became the foundation for this podcast and I can’t tell you how honored I am to have this man, Mat Fraser, - someone I’ve admired and respected for years - join us to talk about his unusual and extraordinary effort and work ethic. We talk about his background in Olympic Weightlifting, building self-sufficiency, the need for sacrifice and singular focus, how to establish your core values and rules for life, the power of obsession, and ultimately, his path to becoming the Fittest Man on Earth. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Training at home Online competition Risks in CrossFit Hitting your goals An Olympic hopeful A level of sacrifice Putting in the work Keeping things simple Finding satisfaction Measuring success Daily motivation Chasing gratification Identifying values in life Living a simple life Establishing rule to life External pressure MAT FRASER My guest today is 4-time CrossFit Games Champion, Mat Fraser. In an ultra-competitive environment, he has found a way to apply himself and achieve insane amounts of work ethic and drive to become the best in his field – for years! He comes from an Olympic Weightlifting background had planned on going that route until he suffered a back injury in 2009 before shifting his focus to CrossFit. Most of you are probably familiar to some degree with Mat and I’ve been following him for years now but I was surprised at his level of humility. In fact, he’s probably one of the most down-to-earth men I’ve had on this podcast in spite of his tremendous level of success and accomplishment. I hope that you enjoy listening to our conversation as much as I enjoyed having it. IRON COUNCIL. Gentlemen, I know that last week I told you about this month’s topic inside the Iron Council but I thought I’d bring it up again because, after the first week of our discussions and challenges, it is apparent how important the relationship is between a man and his father. And, it’s apparent that many of us men have estranged relationships with our dad. This is unfortunate since most of us have learned (for better or worse) how to show up as a man from our fathers. When you band with us in the Iron Council, you’ll be able to join in on these powerful conversations and participate in the challenges designed to push you into the deep end of your past, your potential, and the narratives you consciously or subconsciously lived your life by. If you’re ready to make a change and step into the man you’re capable of becoming, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/277  
6/9/20201 hour, 20 minutes, 47 seconds
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The Power of Shared Principles | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss the power of shared principles. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/5/202026 minutes, 52 seconds
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MAT BEST | Forging Your Own Path

Guys, I’ve got a great one lined up with you today with the one and only, Mat Best with Black Rifle Coffee Company. We do things a little different as we answer some live YouTube questions but we cover everything from learning to focus on what’s important, building confidence through creation, overcoming introversion, finding something that drives you, dealing with rejection, the power of different perspectives, and learning to become your own man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Crushing your goals Staying focused Family time Being better than average Developing confidence Prioritizing family Going against the grain Investing in yourself Creating positivity Putting in the work Hating failure Keys to success Manufacturing hardship Embarrassing moments Figuring things out Planning out your day Creating your environment MAT BEST My guest today is Mat Best and he is the co-founder of Black Rifle Coffee Company. Every time I have the opportunity to talk with Mat, I walk away thinking how down to earth this guy is in the face of some incredible accomplishments. He is a former Army Ranger, successful entrepreneur, and New York Times Bestselling author of Thank You For My Service. And, he’s someone who has figured out what makes him happy, what he’s passionate about, and learned to go all-in on that pursuit. IRON COUNCIL This month, inside the Iron Council, has the potential to become the toughest, most engaging, challenging months we’ve had since we launched 5 years. The title of this month’s topic is “The Father/Son Atonement” and we’re going to be discussing and working towards bridging the gap between fathers and their sons. It’s clear to me that the lack of fatherhood is a real problem in modern culture and after having one of my YouTube videos go viral (over 1,300,000 views) on the subject of fatherhood, this is clearly a topic that needs to be addressed. If you decide to band with us this month, you’ll get access to the assignment, a Battle Team of 14 other men who will help hold you accountable to change and progress, and the challenges we issue that are going to push you further past your comfort zone then you’ve ever gone. But that’s where the real change takes place and this is exactly where you’re going to want to be if you’re ready to expand. Join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/276  
6/4/20201 hour, 22 minutes, 37 seconds
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Entertaining Conflicting Ideas, Knowing What You Stand For, and Putting the Mission First | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of entertaining conflicting ideas, knowing what you stand for, putting the mission first, and so much more. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/3/20201 hour, 20 minutes, 39 seconds
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How to Make Fear Your Ally | AKSHAY NANAVATI

Fear is something every single one of us deals with (probably on a daily basis). Unfortunately, too many men consciously or unconsciously allow fear to keep them from going after what they want most. So, how can you use fear to your advantage as opposed to a hindrance? That’s exactly what I talk about today with my guest Akshay Nanavati, the author of Fearvana: How to Turn Fear into Health, Wealth, and Happiness. We cover the critical importance of becoming aware and accepting fear, flawed mental health, the idea that there are no “bad” or “negative” emotions, why you need to learn to explore the edges of life, and how to make fear your ally. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Confronting the fear of stillness Breaking sobriety Staying in the fight Running marathons Serving the greater good Self-destructive behavior Seeking out suffering Reframe Your Experiences Researching neuroscience Taking it to the next level Self-fulfilling prophecy Norman human response Experiencing diversity It’s about the struggle Seek out new problems Owning your reality AKSHAY NANAVATI My guest today is a fascinating man. His name is Akshay Nanavati and he is a Marine veteran, speaker, entrepreneur, ultra-runner, and author of the book, Fearvana. He’s overcome so much including a drug addiction after his service, a blood disorder that doctors told him could kill him in boot camp, and combat where his job was to walk in front of vehicles to find IED’s. He’s dealt with PTSD, survivor’s guilt, alcoholism, and depression, and, after all of that, has somehow found the power to overcome all of it and live a life of fulfillment and adventure as a skydiver, mountain biker, scuba diver, and rock/ice climber. Men, you’re definitely going to enjoy this conversation and use what Akshay teaches as fuel to light your own fire. IRON COUNCIL. Men, the Iron Council continues to grow as more and more men are seeing the power of what we’re doing by banding with other men who are willing to hold each other accountable to accomplishing the most out of their lives. We just had Jack Donovan join us for one of our exclusive Iron Council sessions and we’re in the process of bringing on more incredible men to join us for our weekly calls. In addition to that, we’re going to give you the framework and network to transform your life from what you’ve always wanted to what you’re actually experiencing. And, that is our whole objective – to bridge the gap between what you know you should be doing and what you’re actually doing. If you want to learn more and lock in your spot, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/275      
6/2/20201 hour, 15 minutes, 45 seconds
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3 Daily Practices Every Man Should Incorporate | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share three daily practices every man should incorporate into his daily life. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/29/202027 minutes, 38 seconds
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GREG ANDERSON | Police Officer Calls into Question Enforcement of Unconstitutional Orders

There is no doubt that many of us have begun to call into question the enforcement of unconstitutional orders and Covid-19 restrictions, including my guest today, Police Officer with the Port of Seattle, Greg Anderson. Greg is currently on administrative leave pending an investigation which will likely lead to his termination for insubordination after posting a video on his personal Instagram page expressing his concerns with police officers enforcing unlawful and unconstitutional orders. It’s obviously a very touchy subject and situation but a conversation that needs to be had. Today, we talk about how we must unite as a country, the use of discretion by police officers, living in fear, the government’s power/control grab, and drawing a line in the sand, and standing by your convictions. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS It’s not about COVID-19 Violating social media policy Keeping it above the fray Operating in tribes Doing the right thing Inspiring officers Fighting for freedom The violent side of humanity Losing your mind Mitigating risk Living in fear Focus on the mission Reckless behavior Not picking sides Opening the floodgates Holding true to principles GREG ANDERSON My guest today is Greg Anderson and, although you may not know his name, it’s likely that you’ve seen his video in which he talked about his concerns, as a police officer for the Port of Seattle, of enforcing illegal and unconstitutional orders in the wake of Covid-19. In addition to serving his community as a law enforcement officer, he is an Army Ranger veteran serving multiple combat tours including one to Ramadi, Iraq in the most hostile and dangerous environments one can imagine. Greg is also a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu blackbelt and the owner of Electric North Jiu-Jitsu and has recently become an outspoken advocate for individual rights, liberty, and freedom. I think our conversation is likely to fire a lot of you up which is exactly what is needed in times like these. IRON COUNCIL Men, I’m going to hit the pause button on my conversation with Greg because I want to talk with you about our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. I’ve received several messages from Iron Council members over the past several months that have told me that the Iron Council has literally saved their life. And, although I won’t get into the specifics, it’s inspiring to me to know that the work we’re doing inside the brotherhood is getting men on the right track and back on the path to thriving and succeeding. There are a lot of ways we facilitate this but for the sake of time, I’ll tell you that the two biggest factors that go into what we do inside the Iron Council is the framework and the network – the framework point you in the right direction and make the right moves and the network to keep you on track and give you the occasional kick in the ass when you need it. If you want to learn more and band with us, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/274    
5/28/20201 hour, 18 minutes, 40 seconds
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Don’t be Desperate, Creating Family Rituals, and When to Quit | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of not being desperate, creating family rituals, when to quit, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/27/202058 minutes, 43 seconds
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How to Size People Up and Predict Their Behavior | ROBIN DREEKE

The ability to accurately size someone up could spell the difference between life and death, whether you or the other guy gets the promotion, if that prospect purchases from you, or if she decides to date/marry you. And, I can think of no better person to talk with us about predicting human behavior than Robin Dreeke, who spent more than two decades as a behavior analyst for the FBI. Today, we talk about being wary of trusting your gut, the difference between your gut and intuition, why if you’re betrayed by others you may have actually betrayed yourself, manipulation, judgment, how to predict human behavior, and why it matters. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Packaging human physiology Developing relationships Projecting blame Emotional hijacking It’s all about judging You can’t please everybody Positive manipulation Situational awareness Building muscle memory When to trust your gut Non-verbal body language Detecting deception Strategizing relationships Identifying non-tangibles motives Become a better leader ROBIN DREEKE My guest today is Robin Dreeke and he spent more than two decades as a behavior analyst for the FBI. He’s dealt with extremely complex situations from handling Russian spies to navigating the internal politics on the Bureau. He’s written three books, It’s Not All About Me, The Code of Trust, and his latest, Sizing People Up where he shares a six-step system he developed to predict anyone’s behavior based on their words, goals, action, and situation. This was such a fascinating discussion and one that if the lessons are applied, it will drastically improve every facet of your life. IRON COUNCIL Gentlemen, let me pause the conversation very quickly to talk with you about our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Membership in the Iron Council is up 15% over the past 2-3 weeks because men are beginning to see the value of banding with other strong, successful, like-minded men. And, that is exactly what you’re going to get when you band with us inside the Iron Council. First, we’re going to help you identify your track to run on – not ours, but yours. And, once you have identified that track, we’re going to give you the framework, tools, and accountability to ensure that you stay the course until completion. If you know there is more inside of you but don’t quite know how to unlock it, band with us, and we’ll show you exactly how to do it. You can learn more and lock in your spot at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/273  
5/26/20201 hour, 24 minutes, 20 seconds
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Retrain Your Brain to Dominate | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share four strategies to help you retrain your brain to dominate. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/22/202019 minutes, 48 seconds
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The Power of Uncomfortable Truths | SEAN WHALEN

The truth is often uncomfortable. And, frankly, most of us aren’t willing to take a deep, hard look into what we know to be true. We do this because we’re afraid. Afraid of what we might see. Afraid of what it may expose in ourselves. Afraid of what the truth may require us to do moving forward. My guest today is a friend and long-term mentor of mine. His name is Sean Whalen and one thing he’s been consistent about his desire to seek and share the truth. And, he’s revealed, for better and worse, some truths about myself that I was unwilling to acknowledge for a very long time. Today we talk about why some people despise the success of others, acknowledging what kind of men you need to become to achieve what you want, why most people are blissfully dissatisfied, and the power of embracing uncomfortable truths. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Producing results Tearing others down Identifying with pain Building a physique Addictive patterns Breaking social contracts Validating mediocrity Change your circle Habits & rituals Implanting your vision Loving yourself Becoming a machine   SEAN WHALEN My guest today is my good friend and long-term mentor, Sean Whalen. He has been instrumental in helping me build Order of Man into what it is but more importantly, me into who I am. I don’t always agree with or, to a degree, get along with him but I believe that is the power of a coach and mentor – someone who you can respect but challenges you to look at life in a way that is difficult and uncomfortable. And Sean certainly makes people feel uncomfortable. He says out loud what most people believe to be things you don’t say at all and, in the process, his videos and messages have been viewed hundreds of millions of times. Obviously, he’s a very polarizing man but he forces you to look at situations and events in new ways and has personally helped me achieve some incredible results in my life. IRON COUNCIL Gents, let me pause the conversation very quickly. I’ve seen a tremendous uptick in new members in the Iron Council and I can only imagine the reason is that in times of uncertainty, men look to bring stability and order to the chaos. And, that’s exactly what we’re doing inside the Iron Council – giving you the tools and framework to predictably and efficiently produce results in your life. If you’re trying to start a business, rekindle a romantic relationship, connect with your kids, lose that spare tire, build wealth, become more influential, or any other goal that you may be working on, the Iron Council, has what you need to make it a reality. When you join us, you’ll get the tools and framework you need to do what you’ve simply been daydreaming about for a very long time. If you’re ready to get to work, join us. We’re not going to do it for you but we do have a track for you to run on and the accountability that comes from a brotherhood of loyal, committed, successful men. Join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/272  
5/21/20201 hour, 25 minutes, 47 seconds
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How to Lead Yourself Well, The Origins of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, and the Necessity of Innovation | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss how to lead yourself well, the origins of Brazilian jiu-jitsu, the necessity of innovation, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/20/20201 hour, 13 minutes, 58 seconds
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Being Reasonable in an Age of Unreason | DAVE RUBIN

Reason seems to be in increasingly short supply, which is unfortunate considering some of the messes we’ve found ourselves in will only be solved through reasonable thought, ideas, and people. Also unfortunate is that those who are the loudest seem to be the most unreasonable and only wish to perpetuate the problems we have in modern society and culture. Today, I am joined by the one and only, Dave Rubin, New York Times Bestselling author of, Don’t Burn This Book: Thinking for Yourself in an Age of Unreason. What I like most about Dave and this conversation is that he’s willing to talk about the things you’re not “supposed” to talk about including the myth of the gender gap, why “hate speech” should be protected speech, why not everyone is a Nazi as perpetuated by what he calls, the “lefties,” and ultimately how to be reasonable in a world that seems to be anything but. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Moving towards equality Governmental control Consolidating power Empirical truths The human spirit Valuing individuality Protecting free speech Classic Liberalism Thinking for yourself The best path forward American privilege Be the vocal majority DAVE RUBIN As I said before, my guest today is Dave Rubin and I’m sure many of you are already familiar with him and have some preconceived notions about who he is and what he stands for. I’ve been following him for some time now and am fascinated with his journey from left-leaning progressive to a free-thinking classical liberal. He is the host of the Rubin Report and spent almost two years touring and opening for his friend and mentor, Jordan Peterson. His background is in standup comedy but he has become extremely well-known for his podcast where he’s interviewed Jordan Peterson, Sam Harris, Ben Shapiro, Larry King, Dan Crenshaw, Adam Carolla, and so many more. Today, he’s here to talk with us about thinking freely and openly about some of our culture’s most polarizing subjects. IRON COUNCIL Gentlemen, let me hit the pause button on the conversation and introduce you to the Iron Council. I am amazed by the growth we’ve been experiencing over the past several weeks and I believe it’s because men are beginning to see the value in banding with other men who have their back and want them to succeed. If you were to strip away everything from the Iron Council, that’s what it’s all about – a band of brothers who will support, encourage, and hold you accountable. And, if you’re like most men, that isn’t something that you have in your life. And, even if you do, the conversations stay on the surface and never get to the heart of what really matters and all that you’re trying to accomplish as a family man, business owner, and leader in your community. If you’re ready to forge a powerful bond with like-minded men and chart the path that will lead you to where you want to go, I invite you to join the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/271  
5/19/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 6 seconds
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America: Land of the Weak, Home of the Afraid? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I address the fallout we’re all experiencing in society and culture due to COVID-19. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/15/202023 minutes, 40 seconds
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Creating Opportunities out of Bad Situations, Building Local Men’s Groups, Difficult Conversations with Your Wife | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss creating opportunities out of bad situations, building local men’s groups, difficult conversations with your wife, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/13/20201 hour, 8 minutes, 53 seconds
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Everything is F*cked | MARK MANSON

Hope is something most of us believe is a necessity in order to progress. Without it, would you be driven to do anything meaningful in your life? It’s hope that convinces you of potential rewards on the other side of your efforts. But what if the way you’ve been looking at hope isn’t help you but hindering? And, if that’s the case, is there a more practical, pragmatic way for you to approach hopefulness in a way that will serve you best? That’s what today’s conversation is all about. I’m joined by New York Times Bestselling Author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Everything is F*cked, Mark Manson. We talk about the uncomfortable truth few people are willing to admit to themselves, the difference between Master Morality and Slave Morality, how everyone is driven by what he calls, “a God Value,” how pain is the universal constant, and why, in the midst of everything being horrible, you can still have hope. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Getting through it together The new normal A need for certainty Create a daily structure The thinking brain The process of maturity Social accountability Implementing habits Finding new behavior Shifting your perception The uncomfortable truth Gaining approval The need for meaning Sharing your story Instinctual morality Victimhood culture MARK MANSON My guest today is the one and only, Mark Manson, and it’s very likely that you are already very familiar with him, or at least, his last two books, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Everything is F*cked. He is a New York Times Bestselling Author and a self-described thinker and life enthusiast. Part of the reason for his tremendous success is his no BS approach to self-development. In fact, that’s the reason why I follow him and his words closely. In an environment and popular culture designed to make everyone feel good about themselves, Mark would rather bring to light the uncomfortable truths few are willing to deal with. Guys, I think you’re going to like this one as much as I enjoyed the conversation. So, sit back, take some notes, and listen to the way it really is. IRON COUNCIL Gents, our digital brotherhood, the Iron Council continues to grow in these uncertain times. I think that’s because it’s times like these that really cause us to reflect on the type of men we are and how we’re showing up. For a long time, I knew that I was capable of so much more but it was frustrating knowing that there was a huge gap between what I knew I was capable of and what I was actually doing. I started hiring mentors and surrounding myself with good and capable men and that’s when things really started to take a turn for the better. The problem for most men is that they don’t know where connect with the type of men I’m talking about. That’s what the Iron Council is for and, without beating a dead horse about it, if you want to thrive in all aspects of your life, band with other men. It really is that powerful. You can learn more and lock in your seat at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/270  
5/12/20201 hour, 21 minutes, 37 seconds
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Define Your Victory | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss how to define victory. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/8/202015 minutes, 46 seconds
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The Mindset of Discipline, Law of the Harvest, and Developing a Curious Mind | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the mindset of discipline, law of the harvest, developing a curious mind, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/6/20201 hour, 12 minutes, 16 seconds
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Courage Under Fire | OMAR “CRISPY” AVILA

What does it take to exhibit extreme courage under fire? I wish I could tell you there was an exact formula for performing well under life and death pressure but there isn’t. But what I can tell you is that my guest today, Omar ‘Crispy’ Avila is a man who has done just that. When in Iraq, his vehicle was hit by an IED sending it six feet in the air. I’m not going to ruin the story by telling you about the resulting fallout and how Crispy conducted himself but I will say you’re not going to want to miss it. We also talk about using humor as a way to calm a situation, overcoming survivor’s guilt, how to train properly for unknown events, and how every man can learn to develop courage under fire. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Serving your community Letting your guard down Making light of a situation Comedy as therapy Joining the infantry Moving forward in life Laying down fire Extended deployment Losing faith in God Keeping your composure The Green Zone Flying into Germany Focus under chaos Survivors guilt The recovery process Finding inner peace OMAR ‘CRISPY’ AVILA My guest today is Omar ‘Crispy’ Avila and he is a retired army combat veteran. But more than that he is someone who is extremely influential in the veteran community and has used his unfortunate circumstances to lift and inspire millions of people across the planet. He sustained catastrophic damage to his body when his vehicle was hit with an IED and survived over 75% of his body burned and been rendered nearly blind. I had the opportunity to meet him at SHOT Show several months ago and invited him to join us on the podcast because I have always been inspired by how he lives his life, uses humor with the Black Rifle Coffee Company team to inspire, and the kind of man he is. PRIORITIZE AND EXECUTE If you’re anything like me, it’s easy for you to fall into the trap of consumption. I mean, you’re listening to this podcast right now which can be beneficial but if you never apply any of what you learn, is it even useful? This is the trap of the self-development space – consumption without production. But in the Iron Council for the month of May, we’re talking about prioritizing the information you have and the objectives you’ve identified for yourself and putting them into action. It’s about unpacking what you want to accomplish in your health, relationships, business, and life, identifying the “order of operations,” and putting in the work required to make it happen. If you fall into “paralysis by analysis,” and often consume more than you produce, this is the month for you to band with 530 like-minded men who will help you accomplish more in the next 90 days than you ever have in a year. Head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and lock in your spot. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/5/20201 hour, 7 minutes, 4 seconds
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One Powerful Strategy to Build Influence with Others | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share one powerful strategy to build influence with others. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Leave us a rating: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/order-of-man-protect-provide-preside/id979752171 Join the brotherhood: http://www.theironcouncil.com/ Support Order of Man by picking up some merchandise: http://bit.ly/orderofmanstore Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/ryanmichler https://www.facebook.com/orderofman/ https://twitter.com/ryanmichler
5/1/202026 minutes, 41 seconds
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The Pros and Cons of Tribalism, The Meaning of Life, and Developing Grit in Your Children | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the pros and cons of tribalism, the meaning of life, developing grit in your children, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/29/20201 hour, 17 minutes, 4 seconds
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How to Rewire Your Mind and Body | SCOTT CARNEY

“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” Most of us have heard some variation of that quote accredited to Viktor Frankl but most of us don’t know how to manage that space effectively and condition our minds and bodies to respond properly. That’s why today’s conversation with New York Times Bestselling Author, Scott Carney, is crucial. During our discussion, we talk about the gap between stimulus and response, how to put ourselves into a highly-effective flow state, fight and flight chemistry, and how to rewire your mind and body for maximum results. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The placebo effect Western medicine Learning to be resilient Fight or flight responses Giving yourself stress Connecting to the environment The ultimate stress Walking your own path Unmitigated horror Reliving your emotional pass Living the status quo Overriding your response Throwing kettlebells Practicing trust and empathy A different point of reference Creating bandwidth SCOTT CARNEY My guest today is New York Times Bestselling, Scott Carney, author of What Doesn’t Kill Us, and his new book, The Wedge. He is an investigative journalist and anthropologist. He’s done work for Wired, Men’s Journal, Playboy, Discover, Outside, and Fast Company and he gained a lot of notoriety as he trained with Wim Hof. Originally, he intended on debunking a lot of Wim’s teachings but found the practices to be life-changing and a critical part of his life and work. Scott’s been a friend for several years since he talked with us about his book, What Doesn’t Kill Us and you’re going to hear how much excitement he has for life. Quite frankly, it’s infectious. IRON COUNCIL As we close out the month of April in the Iron Council, I wanted to give you the heads up and let you know that for the month of May, we’ll be covering the topic of Prioritize and Execute. Obviously, we’re living in some very interesting times and it’s becoming increasingly difficult for many men to navigate the uncertain waters. So, for the month of May, we’ll be doing a deep dive into effective strategies for organizing and prioritizing your life and, more important, taking massive action that will produce the biggest results. We’ll uncover variables that are keeping you back and distracting you from what you want to achieve and give you the opportunity to band with 500+ high-achieving men to hold you accountable and potentially give you the kick in the pants you need. Join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/268 Leave us a rating: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/order-of-man-protect-provide-preside/id979752171 Join the brotherhood: http://www.theironcouncil.com/ Support Order of Man by picking up some merchandise: http://bit.ly/orderofmanstore Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/ryanmichler https://www.facebook.com/orderofman/ https://twitter.com/ryanmichler  
4/28/20201 hour, 7 minutes, 41 seconds
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Tips, Strategies, and Protocols for Surviving These Trying Times | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share ten tips, strategies, and protocols for surviving these trying times. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/24/202034 minutes, 8 seconds
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Render Yourself Obsolete, Less Thinking and More Action, When a Boy Becomes a Man | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I discuss rendering yourself obsolete, less thinking and more action, when a boy becomes a man, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/22/202057 minutes, 46 seconds
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Putting our Nation’s Warriors to Work | MIKE SARRAILLE

I’m sure, by now, you’re aware of the powerful team an Echelon Front led by Navy SEAL Commander, Jocko Willink. At this point, I’ve had the majority of his team on the podcast including my guest today, Mike Sarraille. Today, Mike talks with us about the power of the veteran community in the civilian sector. We go into some topics that aren’t usually addressed regarding transitioning military members including biases against veterans, the bitterness and entitlement some veterans develop, translatable skills from military to civilian life, and, ultimately, how we put our nation’s toughest warriors to work. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Joining the Marines The demands of work What’s truly important Veteran suicide Marching on Washington Proving your worth Finding the best Producing value Finding your passion Entrepreneurship Process of alimentation Putting in your time Positive Intent Become irreplaceable The pursuit of excellence Feeling undervalued Translatable skills Focusing on soft skills After action review Transitioning soldiers out MIKE SARAILLE My guest today is Mike Sarraille. He is a retired Recon Marine and  Navy SEAL and, more recently the co-founder of EF Overwatch and leadership instructor/strategic advisor for Echelon Front. He served alongside Jocko Willink and Leif Babin with SEAL Team THREE and played a pivotal role in the Battle of Ramadi in 2006. He also served as the primary leadership instructor for all officers graduating from the SEAL training pipeline and worked in the Joint Special Operations Command where he completed multiple combat tours. Mike is a recipient of the Silver Star, six Bronze Stars, two Defense Meritorious Service Medals, and a Purple Heart. Today he is here to talk with us about his experience and how to put our nation’s warriors to work. IRON COUNCIL The Iron Council is growing. I think part of the reason for that is, during times of crisis, men know and have a desire to step into the positions that will best serve their families and communities. It’s built into our DNA to lead, especially in times of crisis. And, that’s exactly what we’re doing to equip the men who band with us inside our exclusive brotherhood, The Iron Council. When you join with us, we’re going to give you the foundation for growth, success, and effective leadership as a father, husband, business owner, and community leader. And, on top of that, you’re going to have a path to run on and a place where you can develop the camaraderie most men don’t get outside of military service or team sports. If you’re ready to step up and want the framework and the accountability to do so, join us in the Iron Council by going to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/267 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/21/20201 hour, 11 minutes, 56 seconds
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Combat the Government Overreach | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I breakdown eight strategies to combat the government overreach. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/17/202032 minutes, 49 seconds
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The Power of Hiring Mentors, Listening to Emotions Vs. Logic, and Building Delayed Gratification | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the power of hiring mentors, listening to emotions vs. logic, building delayed gratification, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/15/20201 hour, 8 minutes, 53 seconds
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Savage Son | JACK CARR

My repeat guest, friend, former Navy SEAL, and author of the James Reece series which includes Terminal List, True Believer, and his newest (released today), Savage Son. His name is Jack Carr and I take every opportunity I can to talk with him. And, if you’ve listened to any of our previous episodes, you’ll know exactly why. Jack is one of the most genuine men I know and I’ve always been fascinated with his transition from warrior to author. Today, we talk about putting yourself in the public eye, pursuing something you’ve always been interested in, how military combat compares to civilian life and the life of a writer and forging the path you’ve always wanted to walk. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Emerging opportunities Leveling the playing field Social media Providing value Those who sacrificed Wasted bandwidth The Cold War Who you follow An unassuming demeanor Being kind to people Flipping your switch What’s next The hero’s journey Dealing with bureaucracy  Adapting quickly Standard operating procedures JACK CARR My guest today is the one and only Jack Carr. He spent over 20 years in Naval Special Warfare as a SEAL Sniper, Troop Commander, and a Task Unit Commander leading a team in Iraq and Afghanistan. It’s probably a big reason his last three books are so extremely credible – he’s used his decades of combat experience as the foundation for the immense amount of research that goes into his works. Jack is also an avid hunter, a husband, and a father. He’s also a helluva guy as I’ve gotten to know him over the past several years and enjoyed our friendship. And an update since we originally recorded this episode at SHOT Show several months ago, Jack’s book, Terminal List will become a TV Series with Chris Pratt playing James Reece. I hope you enjoy the conversation as much as I did. IRON COUNCIL I’ve got to say that regardless of the issues you may be dealing with due to the fallout of Coronavirus, this time truly can be a blessing in disguise if you’re willing to look at it that way. I can’t think of a time where I’ve been more focused and distraction-free in my life than right now. Over the past four weeks, I’ve… Lost 11lbs and 2.5% body fat Increased revenue by 23% over last month Completed my gym build-out Completed my podcast studio renovation Read 6 books Completed the outline of my next book Secured 7 high-caliber podcast guests Appeared on 12 podcasts Reached over 100,000 YouTube subscribers I don’t tell you this to brag. I tell you this because there is a tremendous opportunity for you to crush your life right now. And, if you’re interested in how I and thousands of other men are doing it, consider joining us inside the Iron Council. I’ve told you enough about it by now but I’d strongly encourage you to get off the sidelines and into the game so you too can produce the results you’re after and squeeze the most out of every minute you have. Head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and lock in your spot. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/266 Leave us a rating: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/order-of-man-protect-provide-preside/id979752171 Join the brotherhood: http://www.theironcouncil.com/ Support Order of Man by picking up some merchandise: http://bit.ly/orderofmanstore Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/ryanmichler https://www.facebook.com/orderofman/ https://twitter.com/ryanmichler  
4/14/202056 minutes, 37 seconds
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Standing Between Your Family and Destruction | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I breakdown four main categories that will help when standing between your family and destruction. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/10/202033 minutes, 29 seconds
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Addressing the Rot in America, Holding Others to High Standards, and the Lies We Tell Ourselves | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I address the rot in America, holding others accountable, the lies we tell ourselves, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/8/20201 hour, 3 minutes, 36 seconds
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How to Think Like a Rocket Scientist | OZAN VAROL

We’ve all heard the term, “It’s not rocket science.” And, while that is true of most conversations, topics, and activities, there are benefits to thinking about problems the way a rocket scientist does. Today, I am joined by Ozan Varol, a rocket scientist who formerly worked with NASA. In today’s conversation, we talk about what it means to test as you fly and fly as you test, the difference between strategies and tactics and why it matters, why it’s important to give you mental space to play, and why thinking like a rocket scientist will help you make giant leaps in your personal and professional life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Thinking practically Conceiving ideas Questioning assumptions Breaking down systems Creating new markets Celebrating failure Learning from failure Doing things differently Surviving your own success Thinking you’re a failure Reframing questions Generating better answers Making better decisions The worst-case scenario Find your breaking point OZAN VAROL My guest today is Ozan Varol. He was born in Istanbul and, at the age of 17, he moved to the United States alone to study astrophysics. While he was there, he served on the operations team for the Mars Exploration Rovers. If that wasn’t enough, he then pivoted and graduated first in his class from law school and earned the highest grade point average in his law school’s history. He now teaches law as a professor and his works have been featured in the Wall Street Journal,  Newsweek, TIME, CNN, and the Washington Post. And, today, he is here to share some of his knowledge with us from his new book, Think Like a Rocket Scientist. IRON COUNCIL Alright guys, I know a bunch of you are stuck at home with the fallout from Corona Virus and, rather than binge watch tiger shows on Netflix, I know that you’d rather be doing something productive. That’s why I want to invite you to join us in our brotherhood, the Iron Council. I’ve seen a lot of online groups popping up over the past month or so but we’ve been working for the last 5 years to ensure that when you join us, you’ll have a proven track record of success to tap into. When you band with us, you’ll tap into the brotherhood and camaraderie that comes with it. You’ll unlock access to our planning system and the results it produces. And, most importantly, when this COVID-19 thing is all over, you’ll be among the relatively few who took this time as an opportunity to grow in all aspects of your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/265      
4/7/20201 hour, 5 minutes, 18 seconds
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Adjust Fire | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share three primary reasons you would miss a target in life and what to do to adjust fire. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/3/202023 minutes, 27 seconds
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Learning to Adjust Fire, Benefits of the COVID-19 Fallout, and Giving Credit Where Credit is Due | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss learning to adjust fire, benefits of the COVID-19 fallout, giving credit where credit is due, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/1/20201 hour, 12 minutes, 34 seconds
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The Power of Vision Driven Leadership | MICHAEL HYATT

When most of us think about leadership, we think about inspiring, motivating, and influencing others. But rarely do we think deeply about our vision for a business, organization, or family. Ironic considering vision is the foundation of inspiration, motivation, and influence. Today, I am privileged to be joined by a man who has been a tremendous leader to me on my path to build and lead the Order of Man movement. We cover so much in this conversion including the importance of a “vision grid,” how to effectively respond to resistance, four characteristics of great leadership, the difference between your “circle of concern” and your “circle of influence,” and the power of vision-driven leadership. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The science of different things The power of simplicity Distilling information Where all change begins Casting vision Hacking your belief system Delusional vs. believable The scope of possibilities Vision vs. strategy Adjusting your vision Fear of missing out Diagnosing your life 36:40 Finding inspiration Being able to sell it An inspirational-deficit world Think of the end from the beginning MICHAEL HYATT My guest today is Michael Hyatt. He is an author, podcaster, speaker, and former chairman of Thomas Nelson publishing. I came across Michael’s work years ago as I was launching the Order of Man podcast and for the last 5 years, I’ve been following his advice and implementing his strategies for growing and leading a movement, building effective organizational strategies, and taking charge of my business and personal life. So, when his team reached out requesting to have Michael on our podcast, I jumped at the opportunity to have a conversation with a man who has been extremely influential in my life. He is a New York Times Bestselling author and today, he is here to talk with us about his new book, The Vision Driven Leader. IRON COUNCIL This month (April 2020) in the Iron Council, we’re discussing and implementing strategies from our monthly conversation, A Life Examined. In the midst of all this Coronavirus stuff, it’s likely that you have a bit more time on your hands than normal and, rather than waste this valuable time, you ought to consider using it as an opportunity to learn and grow. And, that’s exactly where the Iron Council comes in. When you band with us, you’ll have access to our monthly assignments, challenges, accountability systems and tools, and brotherhood all designed to help you make the most of every day. And, this is a great time to contemplate the purpose of your life and formulate a plan for becoming the man you have a desire to become. Join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/264    
3/31/20201 hour, 6 minutes, 35 seconds
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The 4 Stages of Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss the four stages of manhood. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/27/202026 minutes, 53 seconds
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Winning the War with Coronavirus | DR. GREGORY POLAND

Obviously, the world is entering unprecedented and unchartered territory. Every day, we’re hearing new information about the Coronavirus – some credible and some not so credible. It’s times like these that we need to turn to the experts to look for answers and solutions to the problems we face. That’s why I’m honored to be joined by Dr. Gregory Poland, a professor of medicine at the Mayo Clinic and director of the Mayo Clinic’s Vaccine research group. Today, we talk about common misconceptions about the Coronavirus, the best approach to dealing with this threat, how vaccines are being developed, the eventuality of this disease, how this virus differs from others, and how we’ll win the war against Coronavirus. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Enforcing social distancing This virus is unique We don’t know the full extent Flue strain circulations Isolate vs. distance It’ll hurt us economically Shielding the most vulnerable This is a war Building up antibodies Developing vaccines How we’re reacting Taking unnecessary risk Sharing out of your plenty Mental and spiritual health Funding global health Countries taking responsibilities How to protect your family Proper handwashing Using the right-hand sanitizer DR. GREGORY POLAND Today, I am joined by Dr. Gregory Poland, Mary Lowell Leary professor of medicine at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. He is also the director of the Mayo Clinic’s Vaccine Research Group and editor-in-chief of the medical journal, Vaccine. In addition, he previously served as the president of the Health Defense Board and is the recipient of the Secretary of Defense Medal for Outstanding Public Service. With more than 30 years of work in the field of viruses and vaccines, his team is currently using immunological testing and other methods to develop a vaccine for COVID-19. IRON COUNCIL It’s likely that, in the wake of the Coronavirus fallout, you’ve been isolated to some degree. And, if that’s the case (even if it’s not), it’s crucial that you develop and maintain relationships with other men who are motivated and ambitious as you are. That’s where the Iron Council comes in. We’ve created a network of over 500 men, all with their own unique perspectives and objectives, who are willing and able to accomplish big things in their lives and help you do the same. And, although all of the men have differing goals, we’ve banded together in a common goal to become the most effective and capable men we can be (which, during these trying times, is crucial). We have a time and battle-tested system for helping you accomplish big things on the home, personal, and business front and all you have to do is tap into the framework and network, and do the work required. If you’re interested in learning more, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/263  
3/26/20201 hour, 4 minutes, 30 seconds
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The Value of Low Expectations, How to Find Purpose in Anything, and the Only Reason to Look to the Past and Future | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the value of low expectations, how to find purpose in anything, and the only reason to look to the past and future, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/25/20201 hour, 10 minutes, 10 seconds
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Redefining Yourself | TUCKER MAX

Most of you are familiar with Tucker Max. Regardless of what you think about him, there is no fence-sitting. You either love the guy or hate him. But that’s part of the reason I wanted to have a conversation with him – to find out what makes him so polarizing and how he feels about that. That said, the biggest reason I wanted to talk with him is to learn about his ability to redefine himself from college frat boy to successful entrepreneur, husband, and father. I think we can all relate messing some things up along the path and many of us have or are working on our redemption story. Today, Tucker and I talk about speaking the truth, overcoming judgment, the reality of the “zero f’s” mentality, and, ultimately, how to redefine yourself. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The pain of staying the same Fixing what’s inside Going through therapy Getting fired Getting rejected Writing a Best Seller Scribe Media Finding your personal truth Negotiating reality Tribal warfare Consumerism culture Plant medicine therapy The best version of yourself Separating from your ego Breaking down barriers Controlling the narrative Masculine movement of feminism How to uncover your story TUCKER MAX Most of you know my guest today, Tucker Max. If you’re like me, you ran across one of his New York Times Bestselling books in an airport or bookstore. That’s likely the case because he’s sold over 4,500,000 copies of them. He’s been credited with starting the literary genre, “fratire” where he detailed and documented his college-day exploits. And, although, that’s what made him famous, his ability to redefine himself from those days to who he is today is what really had me interested in talking with him. He’s now the founder of Scribe Media and is helping other people tell their own stories in their own unique way and give a voice to those who need it and for those who need to hear it. IRON COUNCIL Gents, you’ve heard about the Iron Council before but what I wanted to share with you today is something that we are working on starting next week. We call it the Twelve-Week Battle Plan and it’s a system we’ve developed over the past five years to help you accomplish more in a 90-day span than you potentially have in an entire year. In fact, when I wrote my book, Sovereignty, I completed it in a Battle Planning cycle using the same system the members of the Iron Council are using. Obviously, life has taken a very strange turn for most of you in 2020 but using the Battle Plan and the accountability found inside the Iron Council will ensure that you get back out ahead of things and make the most of a very strange situation. If you want to learn more and band with us, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and lock in your spot at the table. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/262  
3/24/20201 hour, 2 minutes, 32 seconds
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Marriage - What to Expect? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss what to expect in a marriage and ten strategies for a healthy thriving relationship. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/20/202035 minutes, 56 seconds
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Parenting Strategies During Quarantine | RYAN AND TRICIA MICHLER

Men, I recorded a bonus podcast episode with my favorite guest, Mrs. Michler. We’re covering parenting strategies during quarantine including homeschooling tips, establishing and maintaining boundaries, and keeping everything functioning smoothly. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/19/202046 minutes, 16 seconds
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Establishing Rules for the Game of Life, Dealing with Infidelity From a Spouse, and Handling a Lousy Boss | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss establishing rules for the game of life, dealing with infidelity from a spouse, handling a lousy boss, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/18/20201 hour, 2 minutes, 59 seconds
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Establishing the Mindsets for Victory | JASON GARDNER

In the midst of all the variables and uncertainties, it can be a real challenge to create victories for yourself on the home, business, or personal front. Fortunately, you have control over the one variable that makes the biggest difference – your mindset. My guest today is retired Navy SEAL Command Master Chief, Jason Gardner. We talk about the laws of combat, transitioning from successful warrior to successful homesteader, overcoming social anxiety and PTSD, and ultimately how to embrace and execute the mindsets for victory. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Organic farming Homesteading Business agility Transitioning from SEALS Finding your mission Striking-up conversation Fight or flight response PTSD A paradigm shift Coping with stress Combat deployment The Laws of Combat Mindsets for victory The disease of victory JASON GARDNER What a powerful conversation I have to share with you today with an absolutely incredible man. His name is Jason Gardner and he is a retired Navy SEAL Command Master Chief with over 30 years of military service under his belt with 9 deployments across the globe. He’s served at every level of leadership from SEAL sniper to lead instructor for Naval Special Warfare Group One Training Detachment to SEAL Team Five Command Master Chief. He is also the recipient of the Silver Star, two Bronze Stars, and a purple heart. He now serves as a leadership instructor, speaker, and strategic advisor at Echelon Front. Not only is he a badass on the battlefield but every other facet of life as well. LEGACY Men (specifically fathers), we are coming down to the wire on closing down registration for the LEGACY EXPERIENCE and I want you and your son to be there. Check your calendars because it’s going to be held June 11th-14th, 2020 on my property here in Maine. This is an experience unlike any other and it’s designed to be 3 ½ days of extensive physical and intellectual competition and camaraderie between you and 19 other fathers/sons. We’ve created an event that will quite literally transform the relationship that you and your boy have together and give you the tools, resources, and framework for you to usher your boy into manhood in a world that seems to be increasingly dismissive of it. If you’re even the least bit interested, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy to watch a quick video of our last event and learn more about what the weekend entails. But do it quickly as we only have 3 spots remaining. Again, www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/261    
3/17/20201 hour, 7 minutes, 15 seconds
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The Playbook to Destroy Society | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you seven strategies in the playbook to destroy society. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/13/202045 minutes, 33 seconds
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Correcting the Feminization of Society, the Value of Coachability, and Handling Disagreements with Your Wife | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss correcting the feminization of society, the value of coachability, and handling disagreements with your wife, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/11/20201 hour, 10 minutes
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A Primer on Biblical Masculinity | BISHOP ROBERT BARRON

Today, we tackle a conversation we’ve never had on this podcast – biblical masculinity. As you men are well aware, Order of Man is a non-religious movement but that doesn’t mean we can’t or shouldn’t look at all available paths to the type of men we have a desire to be. And, I can think of no better guest to have this type of conversation than Bishop Robert Barron, auxiliary bishop of the Archdiocese of Los Angeles. During our conversation, we talk about David as an example of biblical masculinity, individual sovereignty vs. God’s sovereignty, literal and figurative interpretations of the bible, Jesus Christ as a fighter, and choosing to live the commandments. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The great narratives How David emerges Lessons of humility A willingness to engage Man’s capability to protect Engaging through non-violence After the resurrection Listening to the Lord The sovereignty of God Governing your family Discerning your mission Twelve-year-old Jesus Finding true power Clinging to worldly power The discipline of the gym Respect for your freedom Choosing your character Building a moral wall Legitimate self-care Biblical literacy BISHOP ROBERT BARRON Gents, I’ve been looking forward to introducing my guest to you today. His name is Bishop Robert Barron. He currently serves as the auxiliary bishop to the Archdiocese of Los Angeles and is the founder of Word on Fire Catholic Ministries. He’s been asked to speak at Facebook, Google, and Amazon on the subject of religion, discussed and debated with Jordan Peterson and Ben Shapiro, and serves as a religious correspondent for NBC, Fox News, and CNN. In addition, he reaches nearly 2,000,000 people on his social media accounts and over 350,000 people receive his daily email reflections. Obviously, the man is very influential and, during our discussion today, I think you’ll hear why. LEGACY Men (specifically fathers), we are coming down to the wire on closing down registration for the LEGACY EXPERIENCE and I want you and your son to be there. Check your calendars because it’s going to be held June 11th-14th, 2020 on my property here in Maine. This is an experience unlike any other and it’s designed to be 3 ½ days of extensive physical and intellectual competition and camaraderie between you and 19 other fathers/sons. We’ve created an event that will quite literally transform the relationship that you and your boy have together and give you the tools, resources, and framework for you to usher your boy into manhood in a world that seems to be increasingly dismissive of it. If you’re even the least bit interested, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy to watch a quick video of our last event and learn more about what the weekend entails. But do it quickly as we only have 3 spots remaining. Again, www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/260  
3/10/202054 minutes, 38 seconds
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5 Powerful Strategies for Becoming a Man of Value | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you five powerful strategies for becoming a man of value. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/6/202026 minutes, 29 seconds
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Fighting Against Socialism, Preparing for Coronavirus, and What Work Life Balance Actually Means | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the fighting against socialism, preparing for coronavirus, and what work/life balance actually means, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/4/20201 hour, 4 minutes, 7 seconds
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Living Life by Your Own Rules | VINCENT “ROCCO” VARGAS

It’s easy to get distracted by everything that life has to offer us as men. Whether we’re attempting to live up to impossible standards, chasing other people’s dreams, or spinning around in circles being busy, but not productive, you’ve got to find a way to focus your attention and energy on the things that truly matter. My guest today is Vincent “Rocco” Vargas. I’ll get into all that he is doing in his life in a bit but for now, let’s just say that he’s found a way to identify and pursue what really matters to him. We talk about becoming a “Ride or Die, Dad,” what it means to operate from your “Power Base,” evolving your inner circle, learning to lead and follow, and how to become a confident, grounded man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS A renaissance man Identifying success Morals, values, and beliefs Importance of being fit Parallels to leadership Communicating fairly Maintaining respect Ride or die Fine-tuning mistakes Self-accountability Responding to failure Establishing your pawer-base Building future leaders Striving to be more Having the right motives Working with veterans The growth of an actor VINCENT “ROCCO” VARGAS My guest today is Vincent “Rocco” Vargas and if ever there was a Renaissance man, he is it. He is a former Army Ranger and Drill Sergeant, husband, father, barber, entrepreneur, coach, actor, producer, and writer. In the couple of years that I’ve gotten to know him, I can tell that not only is he someone who is willing to pursue his interests and dreams, he’s also someone who knows exactly what he wants outside of notoriety, popularity, and accolades – to be a great family man. Today, you’re going to hear what that looks like, how he found his path and the strategies he uses to pursue everything he wants. LEGACY Gents, we’re getting very close on closing up our 3rd inaugural Legacy Experience which is being held June 11th – 14th, 2020 on my property in Maine. I just had a contractor come out last week for a couple of buildouts we’re taking care of prior to our fathers and sons who will be attending. This is going to be an event unlike any other for you and your son between the ages of 8 – 15. The whole weekend is designed to be mentally, physically, and emotionally demanding so that you and your son will walk away with a new perspective on your relationship and a deeper bond between you two. I have seen incredible transformations in father/son relationships through this 3 ½ experience and I want you guys to experience that for yourself. If you’re interested, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy to watch a quick video and lock in one of the last 2 remaining spots. Again, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy to claim your seat. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes: https://www.orderofman.com/259  
3/3/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 48 seconds
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Effective Protocols for Home Defense | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you resources and effective protocols for home defense. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/28/202030 minutes, 44 seconds
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Masculinity vs. Society, Connecting with a Disinterested Wife, and Working with Close-Minded People | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I’m fielding questions from our Facebook group. I cover burnout, intolerance, time management, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/26/20201 hour, 27 minutes, 13 seconds
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Rational Thinking in an Irrational World | SAL DI STEFANO

Guys, you’re really going to enjoy today’s conversation with my friend and repeat guest Sal Di Stefano. You may know him from MindPump Media where they focus on physical and mental health primarily but Sal is so well-versed with trends in society that I really wanted to have the conversation we have today. We talk about logical fallacies, emotional hype, “cancel culture,” victimhood as a perceived virtue, why superman isn’t brave at all, and, ultimately, how to think rationally in an irrational world. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Effective communication Seeking smart people Having your mind changed The marketplace of ideas Collective truths Rolling the dice Understanding generality Long term behavior changes Self-growth Being a victim Marketing 101 The free market Rational Emotion SAL DI STEFANO As I mentioned earlier, my guest today is Sal Di Stefano. He is the co-founder and co-host of MindPump Media. The man is a natural intellect as you’ll hear during our conversation and has taken his passion for information and learning and applied it to the realm of physical fitness. He’s been through some ups and downs regarding his own path of health and fitness and has used his extensive research and knowledge to create their MAPS programming. Now he along with his co-hosts, Adam, Justin, and Doug, they host the MindPump Media Podcast which is reaching the masses and has been downloaded tens of millions of times. I hope you enjoy this one as much as I did. MAINE EVENT AND LEGACY EXPERIENCE Good news, gents. We’ve had a few spots open up for our Maine Event (May 29th – 31st, 2020) and our father/son event, Legacy Experience (June 11th – 14th, 2020). If you’re interested in joining with 100 other highly motivated and ambitious men in a weekend of camaraderie, competition, and collaboration, the Maine Event is for you. We’ll be spending 2 ½ days working together to get you the network and framework to make 2020 your most productive year ever. And, if you’ve got a son between the ages of 8-15, join us for the Legacy Experience for 3 ½ days with 19 other father/son combos. We’ll be engaging in physical, mentally, and emotionally demanding scenarios all designed to give both you and your son the tools and resources to usher your son into manhood. You can learn more and watch a quick video from each at www.orderofman.com/maineevent and www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes: https://www.orderofman.com/258    
2/25/20201 hour, 10 minutes, 13 seconds
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Advice I Would Give My 20-Year Old Self | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share the advice I would give my 20-year old self. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/21/202027 minutes, 26 seconds
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Confronting a Cheating Spouse, Life Lessons from Jiu-Jitsu, and Working with Emotional Children | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the comparison trap, destructive behavior, setting boundaries, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/19/20201 hour, 26 minutes, 19 seconds
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How to Become More Mindful and Present | DONNIE VINCENT

With as much as we are inundated within our daily lives, it’s becoming increasingly difficult to be completely present and mindful of the people and things that really matter. In fact (and in fairness to today’s conversation), this podcast could actually be distracting you from what it is you should be doing. Today, I’m joined by my friend Donnie Vincent. Many of you know him as an avid outdoorsman, hunter, and conservationist but we tackle a different (but equally important) conversation today – being present and mindful of who you are and what you’re after. We cover social media, finding work you love, dealing with a lack of confidence, taking care of yourself first, and ensuring you’re focused on just the right things. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Bridging the gap Sharing the experience Uncovering your path Capturing imagery Celebrating the wins Smoke and mirrors Collecting shiny things Discovering who you are Living a positive life Facing the pressure Moving your body Investing in yourself Fighting like hell The foundation of truth DONNIE VINCENT Many of you know my guest today, Donnie Vincent but I think you’ll see and hear a side of him that you haven’t heard before. Donnie is an explorer, a biologist, a conservationist, and a sportsman. And, I think after listening to our conversation, you’ll hear how thoughtful and intentional he is about how exactly he lives his life. Donnie is an incredible storyteller and through his media company, Sicmanta, he has a powerful gift in bringing people into his outdoor adventures and connecting them with his passion for the wild. After hearing him today, you’re going to understand what I mean and walk away inspired to lean into your life more fully. LEGACY My legacy is something that is very important to me. I’m sure it is for you too. Last week, I had the opportunity to spend 4 days with my two oldest boys and, as we laughed and joked, shared stories, and had an adventure, I couldn’t help but wonder if I am doing enough to prepare them for life as their father. In fact, it’s the thing that keeps me up and night more than anything else. I’m sure that, as a father, you feel very much the same way. For this reason, I launched the LEGACY EXPERIENCE  three years ago as a 3 ½ day event to bring together fathers and sons around a group of strong, competitive, competent men, lessons, and resources. I want to invite you to claim one of the last 2 spots remaining for our third installment in Maine on June 11-14, 2020. If you’re even remotely interested, please head to www.orderofman.com/leagacy to learn more and lock in one of those last remaining spots. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/18/20201 hour, 17 minutes, 48 seconds
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You are the Master of Your Domain | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I want to share six key areas that will help you become the master of your domain. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/14/202030 minutes
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A Father’s Legacy, Asking Better Questions, and Dealing with Negative Family Members | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of setting boundaries, edifying others, following your dreams, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/12/20201 hour, 16 minutes, 25 seconds
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Becoming a Warrior Poet | JOHN LOVELL

It seems to me that a lot of men have a hard time striking the balance between warrior and philosopher. For a long time, I was under the impression that men are either one or the other – the strong, rugged archetype or the smart, intellectual archetype. My guest today, John Lovell, founder of Warrior Poet Society, makes the case for why and how we, as men can be both. This has been a conversation a long time in the works and John has been requested by you guys countless times. We discuss what it means to be strong and smart, how to apply philosophy practically in our day to day lives, a basic introduction into firearms for everyday carry, and what it means and how to become a Warrior Poet. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Failure of men Qualified advice Evaluating feedback The pain of jealousy Being under authority First-world problems Appreciating food Beating yourself up Tools for training Force on force Mentorship Shoulder to shoulder The average gunfight Selecting guns JOHN LOVELL My guest today is someone who you guys have requested so many times and, fortunately, I had the opportunity to sit down with him at SHOT Show in Las Vegas a couple of weeks ago. Our conversation was bound to happen as his organization, Warrior Poet Society is so closely related to what we’re doing here with Order of Man. John is a special operations war veteran having served multiple combat tours to Iraq and Afghanistan. He’s also served as a Christian missionary to Central America – which is a testament to the duality of his Warrior Poet philosophy. And, on top of that, John teaches tactical pistol, rifle, and small unit tactics, and many other classes around the U.S. We had a lot of fun during our conversation and I can’t imagine it will be long before we do it again. Enjoy. LEGACY I made a post on Twitter the other day stating that, “A woman can teach a boy to be a good man but not how to be good at being a man – the distinction between morality and capability. Morality alone is not enough. A man must be capable. And, that is the responsibility of the elder men.” I believe so much in that statement that we created an experience to help put it into practice. It’s called the Legacy Experience and it’s designed to help you as a father usher your son into manhood by introducing him to the frameworks he’ll need to thrive. Our event is held June 11-14th in Maine and over the course of 3 ½ days, you and your son will be competing with other men, developing new skills, and forging deeper bonds together. If you want to learn more and lock in one of the last 5 remaining spots, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/256    
2/11/20201 hour, 11 minutes, 47 seconds
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The Antidote to Ego is Self-Awareness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Guys, I’ve got a great one lined up for you today about ego and self-awareness. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/7/202028 minutes, 24 seconds
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Using Negative Motivation, Avoiding Emotion Response, and How to Deal with you “Dying Inside” | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of taking action, protecting your way of life, fellowship, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
2/5/20201 hour, 13 minutes, 59 seconds
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The Right Kind of Crazy | CLINT EMERSON

We all know the world can be a dangerous place and if a man hasn’t prepared himself for all that may come up, frankly, he’s shirking his role and responsibility as a man. It’s in our nature, after all, to protect, provide, and preside and yet so many men seem utterly incapable of doing so. Today, I am joined by a friend, repeat guest, and former Navy SEAL, Clint Emerson. We talk about our nature as men, how society has seemed to go soft, why hazing in the right context is good for men and culture, keeping ourselves and others safe in dangerous environments, and our need to evolve as men. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Time in the Military The SEAL brand Making bad decisions SEAL culture Proving yourself What it’s really about The “new guy” mentality Fulfilling your mission Violence Situational awareness Following the herd Train your brain Simple preparedness Macro vs. micro-skills The ultimate equalizer The great good A creative outlet An exchange of value Crisis management CLINT EMERSON As I mentioned before, my guest today is former Navy SEAL, New York Times Best Selling Author, and security specialist, Clint Emerson. Clint has combined his more than 20 years of military service to provide some of the best personal and corporate safety and security services. He owns Escape the Wolf which provides corporate safety solutions and training and Violent Nomad which is focused on the “darker” side of keeping yourself and others safe. He is also the author of 100 Deadly Skills and his newest book, The Right Kind of Crazy: My Life as a Navy SEAL, Covert Operative, and Boy Scout from Hell. LEGACY You’ve heard me talking about the Legacy Experience over the past several months and I’m glad to tell you that we still have a few spots available for fathers and their sons between the ages of 8-15. I have quite a few people ask if I’m scared to raise boys in today’s society and I typically respond with something like, “With the type of boys society is currently raising, my sons are going to be kings.” I know you feel the same way although you may not feel like you have everything you need to ensure that’s the case. When you join us on June 11-14th, 2020, we’re going to equip you and your son with the tools, frameworks, and instruction to ensure your son becomes that man you have a desire for him to become. You’re raising a king. We want to help. Learn more and join us at www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/255  
2/4/20201 hour, 12 minutes
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How to Discuss Ideas Intelligently | FRIDAY FIELD NOTE

Today, I share with you my thoughts around discussing ideas intelligently. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/31/202035 minutes, 27 seconds
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The Power of Technology, Disciplining Children, and Safety vs. Growth | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of critical thinking, unplugging from social media, living a meaningful life, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/29/20201 hour, 14 minutes, 39 seconds
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The Power of Strategic Leadership | BRUCE PETTET

Whether you’re running a fortunate 500 company or working to lead more effectively in your home, your ability to rally the troops, inspire them to take action, and create the systems and process to allow your team (or family) to thrive is crucial. That’s why I’m extremely excited to introduce you to my guest today, Bruce Pettet, President, and CEO of Leupold Optics. Today, we talk about the challenges of running a 700 employee strong, 5th generation family-owned company. We cover strategic planning, working through differences of opinion, getting a team to buy into the vision, making tough calls, and the power of strategic leadership. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Fighting for our rights Woman hunters Guaranteed for life Life and death moments Building leadership Non-negotiable core values Three types of team leaders Generational value Thinking through your strategy Executing your plan Putting ego aside A critical part of growth Making the ultimate call Engaging team members Foundational work Defining dominance BRUCE PETTET As I said before, my guest today is Bruce Pettet and he is the President and CEO of Leupold Optics, one of the premier optic companies in the world. He has been named one of the “Marketing 100” and Sporting Goods Business named him and “industry pacesetter.” In addition to his involvement in the organization, he A member of Safari Club International, Rocky Mountain Elk Foundation, and the National Rifle Association, where he shares Leupold’s collective values of conservation and responsible hunting practices. LEGACY I know I’ve been talking about it for the last couple of months but if you are a father of a boy between the ages of 8-15, I want to invite you to our 3rd Legacy event on my property in Maine. The whole goal of the Legacy experience is to create a rite of passage of sorts and equip you, as your son’s father, with the tools, resources, and conversations he needs to thrive as a boy becoming a man. It’s no secret that the world is increasingly dismissive of men and masculinity and it’s my goal (along with our cadre) to help inoculate and prepare your son for what this world has to offer. I invite you to head to www.orderofman.com/legacy to watch a quick video and learn more about what this event entails and how it can be an integral component of ushering your son into manhood. Again, head to  www.orderofman.com/legacy to learn more and lock in your spot. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/254    
1/28/20201 hour, 1 minute, 32 seconds
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Stop Making Excuses for Missing Opportunities | FRIDAY FIELD NOTE

As opportunity presents itself in your life, don’t miss out by making excuses. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/24/202010 minutes, 22 seconds
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The Toxic Workplace, Executing on Your Dreams, and Developing Self-Discipline | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I’m fielding questions without Ryan as he is at ShotShow in Vegas. I discuss the importance of being positive, serving others, sobriety, and so much more. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/22/20201 hour, 11 minutes, 32 seconds
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Tapping Into Your Warrior Archetype | CHRIS ALBERT

Warrior is a term that gets thrown around a lot these days. Most men have the desire, to some degree to develop and hone their warrior spirit. And, despite the fact that many men have never considered themselves warriors or served in the military, it is possible and advantageous to approach your life in the very much the same way a warrior approaches his. Today, I am joined by Marine Corps veteran and entrepreneur, Chris Albert to discuss exactly what it means to be a warrior. We discuss how to lead yourself when no one is telling you what to do, what it means to “slay dragons” and make yourself capable of doing so, improving your internal dialogue, and how to tap into the warrior archetype. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Delivering veteran solutions Learning online business Teaching people how to be free Falling into tyranny Facing confrontation Slaying dragons Becoming passive Letting yourself go Deep family roots Getting started Absorb everything you can The epidemic of suicide Alienating yourself Harnessing your skills CHRIS ALBERT My guest today is Chris Albert and, as I said before he is a Marine Corps veteran and founder of Warrior Soul. After leaving the military, Chris went into bodybuilding eventually owning one of the most well-known gyms in the world – Metroflex Gym. In addition, he is a trained social scientist with expertise in conflict resolution and decision making. He’s taken his skills and experience and applied them in helping business owners and other individuals tap into the warrior spirit and produce incredible results in their life. LEGACY Gents, allow me to hit the pause button very quickly and tell you about our first-ever Maine Legacy Event. This experience will be held June 11-14th, 2020 on my property here in Maine and it’s a father/son event like no other. If you’re anything like me, ushering your son into manhood is one of your biggest concerns. It’s one of the few things that really keeps you up and night. Over the course of 3 days, we’ve designed an experience to push, test, and inspire both you and your son to do and be more. We’ll be shooting archery, participating in physical challenges, competing in Jiu-Jitsu, and learning the frameworks for success in life with the 20 other father/son combos that will be joining you. If you want to learn more and lock in your seat, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/253      
1/21/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 38 seconds
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The Single Greatest Strategy for Planning Out Your Year | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I give you the single greatest strategy for planning out your year. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/17/202032 minutes, 6 seconds
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Learning to Say “No,” First Impressions at a New Job, and Why Rest is Part of the Success Equation | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I’m fielding questions without Kipp Sorensen. I discuss the importance of asking powerful questions, learning to rest, building a tribe, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/15/20201 hour, 2 minutes, 42 seconds
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Me and the Mrs. on Marriage and Life | TRICIA MICHLER

Back by popular demand, my favorite guest joins me again on the podcast.  And, in case you don’t know who that it, it’s my wife. Look, the reality is that all the guests that I have had on have offered some tremendous insight and value but my thought is that if you can’t get things right with your wife, nothing else really matters that much. Today, we talk about the struggles we’ve had in our marriage, why she wants me to lead our family, what women look for in men, the “patriarchy,” kissing through the beard, getting your wife on board with your self-development journey, and a whole lot more. SHOW HIGHLIGHT Think before you speak Leading the family Fulfilling family roles Keeping the other in-check Internal dialogue Taking stock Letting your guard down Working things out Learning new tools Being her advocate Taking your last name Explaining the Iron Council What it means to be a woman Being the protector Maintaining a healthy balance Aspects of a good woman Advice for couples How you should treat a woman TRICIA MICHLER As I mentioned before, my guest today is my wife, Tricia Michler. We’ve been together for 17 years now and married for 15. We’ve had our ups and downs and have gone through a lot together and, after our previous episodes together (and the positive response), I figured it was time to bring her back on again. She’s my beautiful wife, mother to our four children, a stay-at-home mom/homemaker, and someone who adds a lot of love, laughter, and spontaneity to my life. Frankly, I’m not sure how I would do life without her in it. LEGACY Gents, we’ve talked a little about children in this episode and I hope you can see how important ours are to us. If you have children, I know you feel the same way about yours. But more and more, it seems the world is stacked against our children – specifically our young men. And, a couple of years ago, I wanted to throw my hat in the ring and do something about that. That is why we created the Legacy Experience – a father/son event being held June 11-14, 2020. The experience is designed to push you and your son physically, mentally, and emotionally and help forge and foster the bond between you and him. Essentially, we created this experience to help you as his father usher him into manhood. If you want to learn more and lock in one of the 8 remaining seats, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy to learn more. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/14/20201 hour, 44 minutes, 13 seconds
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Overcoming Guilt for Self-Improvement | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share my thoughts on overcoming guilt for self-improvement. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/10/202016 minutes, 15 seconds
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Battling for Individual Sovereignty, Leveling Up Skill Sets, and Connecting with Other High-Achieving Men | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss how to identify ego, develop male friendships, ask good questions, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/8/20201 hour, 23 minutes, 15 seconds
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How to Lead, Manage, and Coach More Effectively | RYAN HAWK

As you roll into 2020, a lot of you listening are likely interested in leading more effectively in your life. You also likely realize how fulfilling, rewarding, and profitable becoming a good leader can be. But frankly, there are so many traps on the path to leadership. That’s why I’ve been looking forward to talking with the Learning Leader himself, Ryan Hawk. Today we cover the distinctions between leading, managing, and coaching, the blessing and curse of ambition, when to lead and when to follow, and how to foster commitment in others over compliance. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The fear of judgment The responsibility of leadership Leading yourself first Being the most prepared Taking from the best Deconstructing success Living up to your values Outward leadership Building committed teams Stepping up when times are tough Never outshine the master Stepping into the unknown The mindset of progression Leadership vs Management RYAN HAWK Gentlemen, my guest today is Ryan Hawk, the host, and founder of the Learning Leader movement. Ryan is a keynote speaker, advisor, and most recently, the author of Welcome to Management: How to Grow From Top Performer to Excellent Leader. He’s taken his experience as a professional football player and sales executive, coupled with lessons learned from working with Fortune 500 companies and NFL and NBA teams, and distilled them into practical tips and strategies we can use to lead more effectively. I had him on the show as the 8th guest to ever join us and his growth over nearly five years has been incredible and a powerful testimony to the effectiveness of his leadership strategies. IRON COUNCIL Gentlemen, it’s not surprising that many of us thrive under pressure and seem to find a way to rise in the face of adversity and competition. That is why we wanted to take the element of competition and harness it for powerful growth inside of exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. When you band with us, not only will you get all the tools and resources you need to make 2020 your best year ever, you’ll also tap into our competitions happening this month all designed to push us further than we’ve gone before. If you’re ready to compete and level-up in every facet of your life, join with over 500 men all working to do the same inside the Iron Council. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/7/20201 hour, 20 minutes, 3 seconds
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Top 10 Lessons of 2019 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share my top ten lessons of 2019. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/3/202033 minutes, 12 seconds
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The Pros and Cons of Comparison, Weighing Risk, and the Virtues Needed to Thrive | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of taking action, making the ultimate effort, reinventing yourself, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
1/1/20201 hour, 21 minutes, 4 seconds
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Hunting is in Our Blood | ROBBIE KROGER

Whether you’ve never been hunting before, new to the pursuit, or a seasoned veteran, it’s hard to deny that hunting is in our blood. We, as a species have been hunting for hundreds of thousands of years and it hasn’t been until relatively recently that the art and science of hunting have come under so much scrutiny. That’s why I’m extremely excited to introduce you to my guest today, Robbie Kroger and his project, Blood Origins. We talk about the importance of hunting, its positive effects on the environment and conservation efforts, why there tends to be such a polarization around the topic of hunting, both Robbie and I journey into the world of hunting, and how, whether you like it or not, hunting is in our blood. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The heart of hunters Reaching non-hunters Everyone has a story How we got here today A new wave of hunters The rhetoric against hunting Connecting to a primal urge Hunting provides purpose Sharing your harvest Ending the pain quickly Elevating the narrative of hunting Celebrity mouthpieces Becoming a better man Managing ecosystems Telling more unique stories Reaching those who aren’t hunters ROBBIE KROGER My guest today is Dr. Robbie Kroger, a biologist who currently holds a position as the science coordinator for the Gulf Coast Ecosystem Restoration Council. He is also a professor at Mississippi State University in the Department of Wildlife, Fisheries, and Aquaculture. Outside of that, he founded a movement called Blood Origins which is aimed at sharing the “why” and “who” behind hunting. Where most hunting shows focus on the sport and the ultimate kill, Robbie set out to learn and understand who hunters are and why they do it. He’s got some absolutely incredible films that document these stories and are share a side of hunting you may have never seen. Enjoy the conversation. IRON COUNCIL As of the release of this podcast, it’s New Year’s Eve and you’re likely thinking about what you want to do differently in 2020. That’s noble. You should be thinking about what the new year will hold. But, unless you’re willing to do something about it and tap into a new way of thinking/operating, it’s likely that you’re going to fall into the same patterns as you always have. That is exactly why the Iron Council can be so powerful. Hundreds of men have banded with us and used the tools, framework, and accountability to lose weight, salvage relationships, get married, get strong, secure promotions, start a new business, and develop self-confidence through action. Whatever your objective is for the new year, we’ll help you codify the process of making it a reality. Join us inside the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/31/20191 hour, 16 minutes, 21 seconds
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7 Traps to Avoid in 2020 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share seven traps to avoid as we move into 2020. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/27/201927 minutes, 29 seconds
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Improving Your Inner Circle, Impressing Other people, and Developing an Evening Routine | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss character, building in margin, stoicism, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/25/20191 hour, 12 minutes, 21 seconds
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The Dangers of Political Correctness, Cancel Culture, and “Wokeness” | ZUBY

Political correctness, cancel culture, and “wokeness” is destroying our ability to have important discussions about some of our most complex problems. Ironically, the people that continually engage in this behavior say they’re trying to help but end up doing the exact opposite. That’s why I stoked to introduce you to my guest today, Zuby, to talk about these current issues and so much more. We discuss why people have such a difficult time engaging in intellectual dialogue, breaking the mold of people’s expectations, the future of humanity – both good and bad and why the “woke” are destroying civil and critical discourse. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Fitting into a mold Being multi-dimensional Diluting the power of words Uniting people A healthy dose of skepticism Humble expectations Personal responsibility Victimhood mentality Billionaire bashing Resentment & envy The zero-sum mindset Correcting our behavior  Creating your own morality A code of conduct Battling over ideology   ZUBY My guest today is unlike any other. His name is Zuby and he is a rapper, podcast host, public speaker, and entrepreneur and graduate from Oxford University. I started following him several months ago when I saw a video of him destroying the British Women’s deadlifting record in an attempt to bring some logic to the discussion that men and women are biologically different. He’s a man who is unafraid to share the way that he views the world and has been dubbed extremely controversial even though, he’s really not at all (we discuss this in the conversation). Gentlemen, please enjoy my fascinating discussion with the one and only Zuby. IRON COUNCIL Gents, by now you’ve heard all about the Iron Council. Many of you have banded with us. Many of you aren’t interested at all. And, many of you are on the fence about joining. If you are on the fence, I understand. When I started down this path to fixing myself, it was hard for me to acknowledge that having a little help, instruction, and direction on the path was worthwhile. I thought I could figure it all out on my own. And, maybe I could. But at what expense? Time and effort. That’s what it would have cost me. By banding with and learning from men who were further down the path than I was, I was able to accelerate the learning process and, therefore the results. I became a more connected husband, a more engaged father, a more successful businessman and more fulfilled in my life. And, if you’re looking to do the same in your life, band with us – the 500+ who are on the same path and know how to help you get from here to there. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/24/20191 hour, 16 minutes, 6 seconds
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Get Your Financial House in Order | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you general tips to help get your financial house in order. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/20/201929 minutes, 18 seconds
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Disciplining Your Children, Developing a Healthy Ego, and Getting What You Want | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I’m fielding questions without my co-host, Kipp Sorensen. I share my thoughts on forward thinking, masculine traits, identifying your own ego, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/18/201959 minutes, 38 seconds
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Building Atomic Habits | JAMES CLEAR

Every man knows that building effective and productive habits and systems is a crucial part of teeing him up for success. But, knowing and doing are two different things. And, it seems to me that most men fail to bridge the gap between the two because they don’t know how to build those habits into their lives. That’s why I’m stoked to bring you into the conversation that James Clear, the author of Atomic Habits, and I had about the subject. Today we discuss why you should focus more about systems and processes rather than goals, the power of changing your identity over changing your habits, an interesting take on discipline, will-power, and self-control you probably haven’t heard of, and focusing on the fundamental unit of progress and ultimate success. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Creating powerful results Working in harmony Eliminating failure A margin of safety The ultimate outcome Associating pain with progress Identity-based habits Your habits are the pathway Behaviors will lead the belief The 2-minute rule Mastering the art of “showing up” The four laws of behavior change Designing your own environment Preparing for battles Adjusting your systems JAMES CLEAR Gents, I’m stoked to introduce you to my guest today, Mr. James Clear. James has been covering the topic of habits, systems, goals, and processes for a very long time and, last year, he wrote a book titled Atomic Habits. Many of you have probably read it. At the time, we weren’t able to schedule a podcast but I’m honored that we were able to have him on now. He’s the creator of the Habits Academy, a weightlifter, photographer, and a New York Times Best Selling Author and he’s been focusing on biology, neuroscience, psychology, and philosophy to help men become more successful on their own individual paths. I know you’re really going to enjoy this one and get a ton of value from it. IRON COUNCIL Gent’s, I just need to interrupt very quickly because I want to let you know that inside our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, we’re doing a deep-dive into the subject of this conversation – habits. The 500+ men are uncovering the habits that are working for and against them, creating the systems to ensure they stick with the good habits and eliminate the bad, and holding each other accountable to staying on the path. In fact, many of the practices that James and I have been discussing in this podcast are the very practices and strategies we’re employing inside the Iron Council. To learn more and lock in your spot, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/17/20191 hour, 6 minutes, 4 seconds
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What I learned During My First Year of Jiu-Jitsu | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you what I learned during my first year of jiu-jitsu. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/13/201934 minutes, 24 seconds
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The Dangers of Faulty Expectations, Overcoming a Failed Marriage, and the Power of Reinvention | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of feeding your heart and soul, serving those you love, managing a budget, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/11/20191 hour, 11 minutes, 47 seconds
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Fight, F*ck, Feed, Feel | TRAVER BOEHM

In my work over the past 5 years, I’ve seen a disturbing trend in men of sedation, mediocrity, and lifelessness. It seems to me too many men have lost their appetite for adventure, excitement, and a life full of meaning and purpose. If you feel like that describes you (even to some degree), or you know someone it does, this is going to be a powerful podcast. My guest today is Traver Boehm and he joins me to talk about his new book, Man Uncivilized. We cover what it means to be a man, how and why we should become more “uncivilized,” overcoming playing the perpetual “nice guy,” and showing up fully in our lives and the lives of others. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS A risk to your ego Undermining masculinity Relative safety Uncivilized Methodology Finding common ground The standard pathway for me Tapping into your primal side Harnessing the divine How to access emotion Be dangerous but not a danger The X-factor Overcoming legitimate threats Creating an affirmative life Asking for a need to be met TRAVER BOEHM Gents, I’m stoked to introduce you to my friend, Traver Boehm. He is a strength and conditioning coach, a Crossfit gym owner, an MMA fighter, a bodyguard, a surfer, acupuncturist, and so much more. He’s got an incredible resume of interesting life experiences including sitting in complete isolation and pitch-black darkness for a month in Guatemala. It’s those types of experiences that give Traver perspectives that many of us haven’t considered before. Much of which is documented in his new book, Man Uncivilized, which is what we cover in our conversation today. I haven’t known Travis for long but I definitely admire his passion and excitement for life, what it means to be a man, and a willingness to help others on their own path of masculinity. IRON COUNCIL As I’m sure you know, habits make the man. We’ve all heard the quote, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act, but a habit.” That’s exactly what we’ve covering inside our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, this month – habits. We’re uncovering how to eliminate habits that don’t serve us, discovering ones that do, and implementing systems and processes to ensure that we incorporate the right habits into our lives. If you’re interested in banding with us and creating the frameworks that will ensure your success on the family and/or career front, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and lock in your spot along with 500+ other men who are on similar paths. In addition to that, we’ve got my conversation with James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, joining me on the podcast next month to do a deeper dive. Again, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more about the brotherhood and claim your seat at the table. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/10/20191 hour, 13 minutes, 4 seconds
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12 Tips for Protecting Yourself in Marriage | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share twelve tips for protecting yourself in marriage. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/6/201935 minutes
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Overcoming Past Regret, Thoughts on Income Inequality, and Is There Destiny | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss fatherhood, how to establish boundaries, asking better questions, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/4/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 44 seconds
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How Not to Think Like a Loser | SCOTT ADAMS

Social media is a powerful tool. If it weren’t for the good social media has done, you likely wouldn’t be tuned into this podcast right now. That said, it seems to me that the use of social media is making us dumber or, at least, encouraging us to behave that way. My guest today, Scott Adams, the creator of Dilbert, joins me to talk about exactly why that is and the type of thinking he refers to as “Loserthink.” It’s also the title of his new book subtitled, How Untrained Brains are Ruining America. Today, we talk about the fact that being right and being wrong feel the same, how to determine what battles to fight online, how shaming and mockery can be used positively, and ultimately how you can avoid thinking like a loser. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Augmenting your intelligence Wrestling with social media A “slippery slope” Linear thinking Predictable variables to success Influencing other people Enlightened selfishness Succeeding at systems Mental addiction Adding to your talent stack There’s always a deeper level Engaging in “loser think” Determining a stranger’s thoughts SCOTT ADAMS Gents, I am stoked to be able to introduce you to my guest today, Scott Adams. Before I do, I want to make sure I thank my friend, Jordan Harbinger, for introducing us. You may not know who Scott is right away but I’m sure you know Dilbert. Scott is the creator of Dilbert and the bestselling author of Win Bigly and his new book, Loserthink. Although Scott really started to gain attention and traction with Dilbert, his political commentary is, in my mind, just as, if not more, important. If you’re interested, you can check out what he has to say on Twitter (@scottadamssays). He’s never been afraid to ruffle a few feathers and I think that is why he has gained such a following – his ability to say what needs to be said and his ability to say it in a way that connects with so many of us. SYSTEMS AND PROCESSES Gentlemen, we’re all aware of how important systems and processes are on our path to success but how many men have not created those systems in every facet of their lives. These are the same men who often wonder why that cannot seem to get ahead. This month, inside the Iron Council, we’ll be exploring and deep-diving into the systems and processes I use and what the 500+ members are using to achieve maximum results. We’ll help you unpackage your systems, explore what’s working, remove what isn’t, and rebuild a strategy that will ensure your success. If you’d like to know more and build your blueprint for success, band with us inside the Iron Council. You’ll get the tools, challenges, assignments, camaraderie, and brotherhood needed to thrive. Again, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
12/3/20191 hour, 20 minutes, 43 seconds
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10 Strategies for Forging Mental Fortitude | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share ten strategies for forging mental fortitude to help face what life throws at you. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/29/201932 minutes, 4 seconds
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Instincts vs. Assumptions, Fulfillment vs. Happiness, and Being Your Own Boss | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of acknowledging your demons, making better decisions, recognizing individual motives, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/27/201956 minutes, 43 seconds
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Embracing Strength and Reinvention | CHRIS DUFFIN

Within each one of us, lies untapped potential waiting to be unleashed. Most men go to their graves without realizing that potential. My guest today, strong man, Chris Duffin, is not one of those men. And, he’s encouraging you how to unlock what has been dormant for so long in his book The Eagle and the Dragon. Today, we talk about what the eagle and the dragon signify in ourselves, stepping into fear and confrontation, how to differentiate between functional and dysfunctional relationships, the pursuit of purpose, and, embracing strength and reinvention. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Over-leveraging yourself Understanding your why Adapting to stress Creating space and margin Separating from your environment Purposeful action Counterproductive people Forming the world around you Pro-activity Reaching into the unknown Becoming a pillar of strength CHRIS DUFFIN My guest today is a man who, for many of you listening, needs no introduction. He’s been on the podcast before – roughly three years ago. But with his new book coming out, The Eagle and the Dragon, Chris and I thought it would be good to sit down for a revisit. He’s one of the strongest men on the planet but he’s also an incredible thinker and in his new book, he illustrates his, interesting childhood and how he raised himself from those conditions to be successful as a businessman, family man, and strong man. I can’t wait to share this one with you today. LEGACY A couple of years ago, I recognized a need to give men the tools and resources they needed to secure their legacy in their sons. With so much misinformation in the world about how to raise our boys, it’s critical that we, as fathers, do the best job possible for the challenges they’re likely to face. That’s why we started Legacy, a powerful 3 ½ day event for you and your son between the ages of 8 -15. During the course of this incredible experience, both you and your son will be tested physically, mentally, and emotionally. And you’ll both be equipped with the tools needed for your boy to transition to a self-sufficient man in a society that, frankly, doesn’t want him to. And, you’ll forge deeper bonds through a series of events and experiences unlike any other. If you want to learn more about what this experience holds and lock in one of the 11 remaining spots for our June 11th – 14th experience, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/26/20191 hour, 10 minutes, 32 seconds
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7 Books Every Man Should Read | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share seven books that even man should read for a newfound perspective in life. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/22/201923 minutes
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Dealing with Your Demons, Disagreements with Your Ex, and Negative Self-Talk | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss co-parenting children, displaying signs of respect, becoming worthy of fulfillment and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/20/20191 hour, 5 minutes, 19 seconds
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How to Crush Adversity | JASON REDMAN

Adversity is absolutely something all men deal with. So, what separates those who crumble in the face of it and those who rise up? That’s exactly what my guest, former Navy SEAL Jason Redman, is here to talk with me about today. In today’s conversation, we cover his incredible journey from being badly wounded from an enemy bullet through the face and arm to an incredibly successful business owner and public speaker. We also cover how to discover your purpose, build up mental fortitude and resilience, compete with the most successful people on the planet, and, ultimately, how to crush adversity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Developing mental scripts Getting ambushed in life The React Methodology Enduring discomfort Hitting rock bottom Playing the victim Living in denial Reflecting on mistakes Embracing hardships A better version of your new self Fighting for your life JASON REDMAN Gentlemen, I’m honored to introduce you to my guest today, former Navy SEAL and friend Jason Redman. He spent 11 years as a Navy SEAL and was badly wounded on the battlefield in Iraq where he earned the Bronze Star Medal with Valor, Navy Commendation Medal, and Purple Heart among other medals and acknowledgments. After retiring from the military in 2013 he went on to found a non-profit called Wounded Wear which provides tailored clothing for wounded warriors. And, in addition to that, he’s written several books about his experience in combat as a leader on the battlefield and is a New York Times Bestselling Author. Today, he is here to share his lessons from battle. LEGACY I’ve got to a point in my life (especially since I’m a father) that what will remain long after I’m gone has become important to me. And, I’m sure if you’re a father, you feel the same way. And, as a father, the lessons and experiences you share with your son are critically important to you. That is why we started the Legacy Experience. It’s a 3 ½ day event in Maine designed to give you the tools, framework, and guide to usher your son into manhood. In the face of society’s confusion about masculinity and manliness, it’s critical that we, as our son’s fathers, teach them the truth about the path from boy to man. Over the course of 3 days, you and your son will be tested physically, mentally, and emotionally and given the opportunity to forge deeper bonds between you and him. To lock in one of the ten spots remaining, head to www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/19/20191 hour, 36 minutes, 32 seconds
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Prepare or Die | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you five ways to be more prepared and avoid exposing yourself to vulnerable situations. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/15/201924 minutes, 22 seconds
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Porn and Masculinity, Financial Planning for New Fathers, and Serving in the Community | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of spontaneity with your spouse, upholding standards, overcoming life’s hurdles, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/13/201948 minutes, 58 seconds
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We Don’t Rise to the Level of our Expectations, We Fall to the Level of our Training | JAMES YEAGER

Keeping yourself and others safe and secure is a huge part of what it means to be a man. It falls under the “Protection” trifecta of our role and responsibilities as men. That’s the reason having conversations like I do today with James Yeager is so crucial.It seems to me too many men believe we’ll naturally rise to the situation when it is demanded from us. But without the proper training, we’re likely to find ourselves wanting and in dangerous situations and encounters. We’d all do well to remember that we don’t rise to the level of our expectations, we fall to the level of our training. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Planning for the unexpected A lack of motivation Walking with purpose Mastering the sword Yin & Yang of man Using guns to save How to avoid being “picked” Passing the smell test Natural point-of-aim Knowing what to look for Gear vs. Skill Dealing with intimidation Systems & procedures JAMES YEAGER Gentlemen, I’m so honored to be able to introduce you to James Yeager. This is a fascinating man and someone who is uniquely and extremely competent and qualified to talk about keeping yourself and others safe and secure. He is the CEO of Tactical Response, a tactical training company and his resume consists of two protective security details to Iraq, Chief of Police, K-9 handler, Deputy Sheriff, SWAT leader, Firearms instructor, and VP of a multi-million dollar tactical gear company.I could go on and on but suffice it to say that there aren’t many, if any, more qualified individuals to talk with us about turning ourselves into the protectors our families and communities need us to be. IRON COUNCIL Over the past 5 years, I’ve really considered what it is a lot of men are missing and what I’ve seen in a lot of men is a lack of brotherhood. Most men seem to be going at life alone. We’ve all head the idea of the lone wolf and while I can understand that a man has to learn to make it on his own, having men who have my back, call me on my B.S., and support me has proven to be some of the most valuable relationships I’ve created.But doing that can be difficult with a demanding schedule and a lack of men who want to grow and evolve the same way you do. And that is the exact reason we created the Iron Council. It’s a band of brothers (500+ of us) who have voluntarily decided that banding together is more powerful than going at it alone.Each week, we host calls and discussions, check-in for accountability, challenge ourselves to push outside of our comfort zones, call each other out, support, edify, and uplift.And, if you feel that might be of value to you in your life, we’d be honored to have you see if there is a fit for both us and you. Head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and claim your seat in the brotherhood. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/12/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 2 seconds
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How to Make Better Decisions Using the OODA Loop | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you how to make better decisions using the OODA Loop. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/8/201916 minutes, 46 seconds
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Solving Simple Problems First, Focusing on the Long-Game, and Overcoming “Superhero Syndrome” | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of elevating others, investing in yourself, taking personal ownership, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/6/20191 hour, 3 minutes, 4 seconds
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The Path from Navy SEAL to NASA Astronaut | MARIO ROMERO

If you’re anything like me, when you were a kid you had dreams of becoming an elite warrior or a NASA Astronaut – maybe both. My guest today is a man that took those dreams and is making them a reality.His name is Mario Romero. He’s a former Navy SEAL, NASA Diver, and aspiring NASA Astronaut and he’s here today to talk about what that path looks like, his struggles along the way, failures and setbacks, his path to redemption, and how he’s a man who is currently living out every boy’s dreams. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Going Beyond Pluto Every kid’s dream The frontier of space Spacewalking Dark matter detection Pursuing fulfillment Interrogating nature Discovering new information Science in America Growing up in poverty Leaving the SEAL teams A downward spiral Building relevancy Studying astronomy Predetermined destiny Being courageous Rewriting a new path in life Getting into NASA Returning to the moon MARIO ROMERO As I mentioned earlier, my guest today is Mario Romero. He spent over 8 years as a Navy SEAL and, upon leaving the Teams, he enrolled in college and achieved his Bachelor’s Degree in Pure Mathematics from Columbia University.And, to add to that, over the past year he has been working with NASA as a NASA Diver preparing both the technology and astronauts for the demands and rigors of space travel.He’s had a ton of ups and downs along his path and, despite his tremendous success in life, he’s one of the most humble individuals I’ve had the honor of sitting down with. IRON COUNCIL You’ve likely heard of the philosophy of Stoicism. You’ve probably even read Marcus Aurelius’ book, Meditations and/or Ryan Holiday’s The Obstacle is the Way, Ego is the Enemy, and Stillness is Key.And, if you’re interested in incorporating the teachings of the ancient Stoics in your life, I want to invite you to join the Iron Council as that is what we’ll be talking about for the entire month of November.We’ve got the tools and resources to help you take a concept/philosophy and actually implement it in your life for better results in your marriage and career. We don’t want to just talk about what it means to be a Stoic, we want to apply it for the betterment of ourselves and others. If you’re interested and want to learn more, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/5/20191 hour, 18 minutes, 15 seconds
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The Perfect Way to Start and End Your Day | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you the perfect way to start and end your day. I’ve provided an outline below for my daily morning and evening routine. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Morning Routine: 0530 - Wake Up Drink Water Stretch 0600 - Physical Training 0715 - Scripture Study/Family Meeting 0830 - Daily Planning 0900 - Take Action Evening Routine: 1700 - Recap Day 2130 - Read 2155 - Check Plan for Tomorrow 2200 - Bed No Caffeine 4 Hours Before No Electronics Before Dark, Cool, and Comfortable Sleeping Arrangements Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
11/1/201931 minutes, 40 seconds
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Strategies for Overcoming Burnout, What Your Style Says About You, and Attitudes that Kill Success | ASK ME ANYTHING

Men, I’m fielding questions today without Kipp Sorensen. I’ll be discussing the importance of physical intimacy, financial accountability, making prudent decisions, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/30/201958 minutes, 32 seconds
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Securing Our Nation’s Borders | JASON OWENS

A nation that has no borders ceases to be a nation. This is why it’s critical that we find realistic and effective solutions to secure this nation’s borders. And, while there are many polarizing thoughts on the subject, it’s also critical that we have discussions about this pressing issue. That’s why, when I had the opportunity to spend a couple of days with Jason Owens, Chief Patrol Agent of the Houlton Sector (all of Maine), and his team, I jumped at the chance to learn more about what these men and women do and clear up misconceptions about their role and responsibilities. Today, we talk about those misconceptions, the threats our nation faces, how best to go about securing the resources to protect against those threats, and the brave men and women who do the work of securing our nation’s borders. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The common denominator Becoming well-rounded Different ways of doing business Needing more resources The border crisis Protect your freedom Presenting the facts Relying on community Crisis on the border Finding a port of entry Exploiting loopholes The responsibility of public servants Presenting objective facts Subject Matter Expertise Leaving a legacy behind   JASON OWENS As I mentioned earlier, today I have the opportunity to sit down with the Chief Patrol Agent of the Houlton Sector (which is essentially all of Maine). He has over 20 years of experience under his belt and formerly served as Deputy Chief Patrol Agent of the Laredo Sector directing operation along the U.S/Mexico border. He has completed both the Border Patrol Tactical Unit Selection Course and Border Patrol Search, Trauma, and Rescue Team Selection Course. He’s served in Texas, D.C., Honduras, Columbia, Iraq, and the Dominican Republic among other operations. I cannot imagine a more qualified man to talk about the unique and challenging work of protecting this nation’s borders. MAINE EVENT Several months ago, we hosted the first-ever Order of Man event in Maine, appropriately called, the Maine Event.And, I’m glad to tell you that we have a few more spots for next year’s event (8 to be exact). It’s going to be held May 29th-31st 2020 and it is going to be an experience unlike any other. It’s all designed to give you the tools, resources, brotherhood, accountability, and camaraderie that can only be found when men stand shoulder-to-shoulder in a common cause. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store It’s a jam-packed event and we’ve got some powerful presenters coming to speak, some unique experiences I can’t completely share with you, and some incredible food. If you want to band with other men who are on the same path with you, claim one of the last spots remaining at www.orderofman.com/maineevent.  
10/29/20191 hour, 11 minutes, 36 seconds
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Elevate Your Problems | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you five strategies to help elevate your problems. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/25/201927 minutes, 33 seconds
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Finding Fulfillment in Any Job, The Power of Religion, and Dealing With Self-Doubt | ASK ME ANYTHING

Men, I’m solo today as Ryan is on a hunt with his son. I discuss the importance of being a lighthouse of guidance, overcoming struggles, removing ego, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @kippsorensen and share with me what’s working in your life.  Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/23/20191 hour, 13 minutes, 57 seconds
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The Art of Coaching | BRETT BARTHOLOMEW

Every one of us wants to be a more effective leader but there is a huge difference between being a boss/manager and being a leader, and, if you take it even further, a coach. A coach is someone who helps guide another individual to do and be more.Today, I am joined by a great coach, Brett Bartholomew, the author of Conscious Coaching, to talk about what makes a successful coach. We talk about the social skills needed to effectively coach others, the distinction between compliance and commitment, the nuances between influencing others and manipulating them, and ultimately how to coach others well. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Building a personal brand Transactional people Breeding complacency Overcoming perfectionism Managing risk Dealing with anxiety Tools for productivity Getting ahold of your demons Finding the right headspace The outcome of influence Navigating your own darkness Leading with value The three-stage framework   BRETT BARTHOLOMEW As I stated earlier, I am joined by my friend and an absolutely phenomenal coach, Brett Bartholomew. I only met Brett recently but I did watch him present some of the ideas that he’s going to share with you today at SummerStrong earlier in the year and I can tell you that without a doubt, Brett is extremely qualified and competent when it comes to human psychology and performance and how to optimize the body and brain for performance.He is a strength and conditioning coach, consultant, and the founder of the consulting company, The Bridge Human Performance. He’s worked with professional athletes, Olympians, members of Special Forces, Fortune 500 Companies, and so many more. And, I’m honored he’s joining us to share his in-depth knowledge of coaching others well. IRON COUNCIL Obviously, we’re talking about leadership and coaching today on this podcast and, ironically enough, we do a deep dive into this exact subject inside our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, this month.If you want to learn more about what it takes to lead and coach others effectively, consider joining us and tapping into the conversations, resources, tools, and accountability to help you become a more effective leader inside your business, your home, and community. With over 500 members inside the Iron Council, you’re going to get a broad range of perspectives on topics ranging from leadership and self-development to time management skills and stoicism.If you want to learn more and lock in your spot to this brotherhood, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/22/20191 hour, 22 minutes, 58 seconds
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How to Become a More Compelling Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss how you can become a more compelling man. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/18/201938 minutes, 33 seconds
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The Difference Between a Boy and a Man, Eliminating Friction for New Habits, and Dealing with Resentment | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of exercising mental toughness, the cost-benefit analysis, managing negativity, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.  Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/16/20191 hour, 13 minutes, 55 seconds
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True Believer | JACK CARR

Gents, today I am joined by my friend and repeat guest, Jack Carr. There are just certain people that when you meet them, there seems to be a connection like you’ve been friends for a very long time.I’m honored that Jack is joining me again to talk about the second installment of his thriller series, True Believer. But we talk about a whole lot more than just that. We dive into the pros and cons of social media, falling into comparison with others, learning to be a professional in all your endeavors, the trap of identifying with your occupation, and a whole lot more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Building a readership Defending the tribe The art of storytelling Finding your next mission in life Taking guys down-range Making micro adjustments Being professional The hero’s journey Overcoming adversity Trusting your instincts The importance of mentorship Resonating with revenge Weaving in authenticity JACK CARR As I mentioned earlier, my friend, Jack Carr is back for round two on the podcast.If you don’t know who Jack is, he spent 20 years in Navy Special Warfare as an enlisted SEAL sniper to a troop and eventually a unit commander with multiple combat deployments.Upon retiring from the Navy, Jack went on to establish a very successful writing career (something he always knew he wanted to do after service). In fact, his books are two of the very few fictional books I’ve ever read and I was not able to put them down.He draws upon his lessons from the military and his extensive training and research to create powerful stories that every man will enjoy reading. I hope you enjoy listening in on our conversation as much as I enjoyed having it.LEGACY I’ve got to bring your attention to something I haven’t talked about for a little while and that is our ORDER OF MAN LEGACY EXPERIENCE.We’ve just released the dates and registration for our next father/son experience which will talk place in Central Maine on June 11th-14th 2020. This is an experience designed to forge a deeper bond between you and your son and give you the tools and guidance you’ll need to usher your boy into manhood. We’ve only done two events of these in the past and this will be the first one held on our new property in Maine. After doing about a dozen different events, I can tell you that the LEGACY EXPERIENCE is, by far, my favorite event to host.Head to www.orderofman.com/legacy to get more information, watch a video recap from our last event, and get registered. Do it quickly because we only have 16 spots remaining. That is it! Again, www.orderofman.com/legacy. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/15/20191 hour, 20 minutes, 57 seconds
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8 Skill Sets Every Man Needs to Master | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you eight skill sets every man needs to master. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/11/201938 minutes, 41 seconds
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Embracing Discomfort, Overcoming Overwhelm, and Connecting Action and Reaction | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I field questions regarding personal relationships, when to be defiant, tactics for handling anger, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.  Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/9/20191 hour, 11 minutes, 57 seconds
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Above and Beyond the Call of Duty with Medal of Honor Recipient, KYLE CARPENTER

What causes one man to jump on a grenade to save a fellow Marine when most of us would run the other way? That’s exactly what my guest today, Kyle Carpenter, did when attacked by the Taliban in Afghanistan in 2010. Through his actions, he was awarded the Medal of Honor as the youngest living Medal of Honor recipient. Today, Kyle and I talk about the days leading up to his heroic action, what exactly happened, his injuries sustained, his road to recovery, and his evolution as a human being since. We also cover his new book, You Are Worth It: Building a Life Worth Fighting For. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Living life one day at a time Joining the Marines  Always looking for a challenge Searching for the right path Preparing for the unknown Valuing those around you Learning from others Life after boot camp  Helping the oppressed  Getting mission-ready Surrounded by Taliban  Accepting your fate  A level of detachment  Another day in Afganistan Going through rehabilitation  A life well lived Living a bonus round KYLE CARPENTER Gentlemen, today I have the honor of introducing you to my friend and the youngest ever living Medal of Honor recipient, Kyle Carpenter. Kyle joined the Marine Corps at 19 and not long after was deployed with the 1st Marine Division to Afghanistan where he threw himself on a grenade to save a fellow Marine.This man is one of the most humble people that I know and I’m inspired by his experience, his life, and who is he as a human being.Before we get into the conversation, I’m going to read you his Medal of Honor Citation: For conspicuous gallantry and intrepidity at the risk of his life above and beyond the call of duty while serving as an Automatic Rifleman with Company F, 2nd Battalion, 9th Marines, Regimental Combat Team 1, 1st Marine Division (Forward), I Marine Expeditionary Force (Forward), in Helmand Province, Afghanistan, in support of Operation Enduring Freedom on 21 November 2010. Lance Corporal Carpenter was a member of a platoon-sized coalition force, comprised of two reinforced Marine rifle squads partnered with an Afghan National Army squad. The platoon had established Patrol Base Dakota two days earlier in a small village in the Marjah District in order to disrupt enemy activity and provide security for the local Afghan population. Lance Corporal Carpenter and a fellow Marine were manning a rooftop security position on the perimeter of Patrol Base Dakota when the enemy initiated a daylight attack with hand grenades, one of which landed inside their sandbagged position. Without hesitation and with complete disregard for his own safety, Lance Corporal Carpenter moved toward the grenade in an attempt to shield his fellow Marine from the deadly blast. When the grenade detonated, his body absorbed the brunt of the blast, severely wounding him, but saving the life of his fellow Marine. By his undaunted courage, bold fighting spirit, and unwavering devotion to duty in the face of almost certain death, Lance Corporal Carpenter reflected great credit upon himself and upheld the highest traditions of the Marine Corps and the United States Naval Service. MAINE EVENT Many of you already know that a couple of months ago we held our first-ever Maine Event. It was such a huge success, that I wanted to open it up again as soon as possible. So, with plenty of notice, we marked our calendars for May 29-31, 2020. Those initial seats have been sold out but we feel like we can facilitate a few more men so we’ve opened up 20 more spots – that’s it. This is a 2 ½ day event designed to help you forge new bonds with men on the same path as you and give you the tools and framework to accomplish more in a 90-day period that you have potential in your entire life. If you want to lock in one of the 20 remaining spots, head to www.orderofman.com/maineevent today, watch the video recap of our last event, and get registered quickly. I hope to see you there. Again, go to www.orderofman.com/maineevent. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/8/20192 hours, 46 seconds
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Strategies for Vigilance | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I provide you with six strategies to help develop a vigilant mindset. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/4/201933 minutes, 10 seconds
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Doing Deep Work, Why Men Should Never Chase, and the Meaning of Emotions | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of finding positive role models, managing an emotional response, defusing tension and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/2/20191 hour, 8 minutes, 29 seconds
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Stillness is the Key | RYAN HOLIDAY

We live in a climate where we are inundated with messages, opportunities, and entertainment. We’ve demanded and created a culture where we are never bored, never quiet, and never satisfied. But what if that noise was one of the largest barriers to satisfaction and fulfillment in our lives? Today, I am joined by repeat guest, Ryan Holiday, to talk about his new book, Stillness is the Key. We cover why stillness is the key to mastery, freedom, happiness, and tranquility. We also do a deeper dive into the power of saying, “no,” how to conquer anger, finding confidence but avoiding ego, and how stillness truly is the key. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS A better way of living It’s all about the present  Needing stillness in your life The pre-occupied mind Getting into the zone Taking control of your environment  How to model stillness Misery in complete freedom Learning to say no Applying filters to life   Choosing meaningfulness Making conscience decisions Giving up destructive control Focusing on the controllable  How to conquer anger  RYAN HOLIDAY My guest today is Ryan Holiday. You’ve heard him on this podcast before and many of you likely already know who he is and have read his books, Ego is the Enemy, The Obstacle is the Way, and The Daily Stoic. He is someone I consider to be a great thinker and many of his ideas and works have helped me find the philosophy of Stoicism and discover more satisfaction and fulfillment in my life.I’m honored to have Ryan back on the podcast to talk about the concept of stillness. This is one area I really struggle with so reading his new book and, of course, having this conversation proved to be transformative for me. I know it will be for you too. MAINE EVENT Many of you already know that a couple of months ago we held our first-ever Maine Event. It was such a huge success, that I wanted to open it up again as soon as possible.So, with plenty of notice, we marked our calendars for May 29-31, 2020. Those initial seats have been sold out but we feel like we can facilitate a few more men so we’ve opened up 20 more spots – that’s it. This is a 2 ½ day event is designed to help you forge new bonds with men on the same path as you and give you the tools and framework to accomplish more in a 90-day period that you have potential in your entire life.If you want to lock in one of the 20 remaining spots, head to www.orderofman.com/maineevent today, watch the video recap of our last event, and get registered quickly. I hope to see you there. Again, go to www.orderofman.com/maineevent. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
10/1/20191 hour, 8 minutes, 26 seconds
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Tapping into the Confidence Loop | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you the framework broken into 4 key areas to help you develop confidence in your life. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/27/201932 minutes, 10 seconds
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Addressing Red Flags, Maintaining Targets, and Programming Discipline | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss casual dating, maintaining a strong faith, reconciling a marriage, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/25/20191 hour, 26 minutes, 2 seconds
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Animal Encounters | COYOTE PETERSON

I haven’t always been as appreciative of the wild, nature, and wildlife as I am now. With me getting involved in hunting over the past several years, I’ve been more intimately connected to the outdoors than I ever have.So, when Coyote Peterson’s team reached out, I knew it would make for an interesting discussion (And, if you have children, they’re really going to like this one). Today, we talk about nature, encouraging youth to get involved in the wild, the unintended consequences of excessive human interaction with nature, where Coyote and I disagree on hunting, and, ultimately, some of his craziest animal encounters. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Introducing animals to the digital space A lasting legacy  Learning about the world Differentiating yourself  Interacting with nature  Hunting for survival Conservation efforts Being in-tune with animals  Creating your own experiences  Encouraging kids to read The Sting Pain Index Inspiring future generations  COYOTE PETERSON Nathaniel “Coyote” Peterson is a wildlife educator and the host of the Brave Wilderness YouTube channel with nearly 15,000,000 subscribers. I was first introduced to Coyote by my two oldest sons while they were on YouTube and asked me to come watch this “crazy guy who intentionally gets stung and bit by animals.” He’s also the author of 4 books, the host of a new Animal Planet television show set to be aired early next year, and the recipient of an Emmy for one of his series’ called, Breaking Trail.This one is a little different than you might be used to on the Order of Man podcast but if you’re interested in hearing our intelligent disagreement/discussion about hunting and, if you have children, you’re definitely going to want to tune in.I hope you enjoy my podcast with the fascinating and interesting Coyote Peterson. IRON COUNCIL Leadership is something all of us believe is important. You wouldn’t be listening to this podcast if you didn’t have the desire to be a more effective leader in your home, your business, and your community.And, because this topic is so important, we in the Iron Council, have decided to dedicate the entire month of October to breaking down what it means to be a leader, what tools and skillsets every leader needs to develop, how to lead more efficiently and effectively, and how to win with a team.If you’re interested in this topic and want the framework to actually implement what you learn in order to succeed, join us inside the Iron Council. When you do, you’ll get access to the tools, resources, and accountability you need to thrive as the leader of your family, business, and community.You can learn more and join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/24/201953 minutes, 54 seconds
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8 Tips for Men Dealing with Depression | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with eight tips for men dealing with depression which seems to be an increasing issue in our society. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/20/201927 minutes, 36 seconds
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Course Correcting, Becoming a Sovereign Man, and Dealing with the Judgement of Others | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss how to become a more positive man, overcoming setbacks, dealing with imposter syndrome, and so much more… Subscribe on YouTube at www.youtube.com/orderofman Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/18/20191 hour, 11 minutes, 19 seconds
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An Introduction to Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu | ANDRE “DEDECO” ALMEIDA

As many of you know, I’ve immersed myself in training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu over the past 3-4 months and, although, I’m only getting started on this path, I can see how beneficial and valuable it is to train in martial arts. Today, I have the honor of talking with André Almeida (he simply goes by “Dedeco”), a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Blackbelt who has been practicing for over 30 years. We talk about his rocky past in Brazil, how Jiu-Jitsu saved his life, what to look for when getting started on your own path, and the mindset needed to be a successful Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu practitioner. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Watching from the sideline Experiencing variances in life Learning opportunities  Growing up in Rio de Janeiro Building self-confidence  First-class mentorship  Relocating to America  How to get involved in Jiu-jitsu Helping others grow The importance of lineage Basic starting points for beginners Learning through vulnerability  The power of a small arsenal  Developing your style ANDRE “DEDECO” ALMEIDA Today, I have the honor of introducing you to my friend, Dedeco. Dedeco and I met last year at Origin’s Immersion Camp and since then, he’s become a friend and a bit of a mentor (although mostly online via social media). And, with as many questions as I’ve received about me starting Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, I can’t think of anyone better to talk with that him. Dedeco has been practicing Jiu-Jitsu for more than 30 years and credits his life to being introduced to the art. He’s a Brazilian National Champion, 3x State Champion, and 2x Pan American medalist.On top of that, he’s one of the most sincere and genuine people that I know and I can’t wait for you to hear our conversation. I hope you enjoy, gentlemen.IRON COUNCIL Most of you know about the Iron Council by now. It’s our exclusive brotherhood designed to give you the tools, resources, and accountability you need to thrive and accomplish your biggest objectives.This month, we’re talking about being prepared for emergencies and potentially catastrophic events. But more than talking about these things, we’re actively working towards making ourselves more capable husbands, fathers, business owners, and community leaders. That’s why we issue challenges and assignments as tools to bridge the gap between what we know we should be doing and what we’re actually doing.If you want to band with us and take the leap from knowledge to action and accomplish more in the next 3 months than you potentially have all year, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe on YouTube at www.youtube.com/orderofman Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/17/20191 hour, 30 minutes, 5 seconds
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8 Differences Between Chasing a Woman and Pursuing Her | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you 8 differences between chasing a woman and pursuing her. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Subscribe on YouTube at www.youtube.com/orderofman Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/13/201935 minutes, 4 seconds
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Closing the “Integrity Gap” in Others, Dealing with Needy Employees, and Are “Transgender Men” Men | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of effectively communicating expectations, preparing for survival, professional autonomy, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/11/20191 hour, 12 minutes, 33 seconds
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Never Quit | JP DINNELL

Quitting has become all too common and all too popular. While I can certainly agree that there may be a point in time where it may be the right course of action, too many men throw in the towel too soon and limit themselves to minimal results in the process. Learning to stick with projects, tasks, and relationships longer than you may normally do opens up all sorts of opportunities reserved for those who show the most perseverance and grit. Today, I have the opportunity to sit down with former Navy SEAL, JP Dinnell, to talk about his “Never Quit” attitude, where he developed this mentality, qualifiers for staying and quitting, and ultimately how you too can develop the same “Never Quit” mentality. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS A lack of accountability Simulating detachment  Learning how to win Leading from high ground  Improving through self-awareness  Taking ownership isn’t enough Having hard conversations  Asking permission to lead  Detach and assess  Loyalty to the core  America’s Mighty Warriors Random acts of kindness  Emotion and empathy  JP DINNELL Gents, today I sit down with repeat guest, JP Dinnell.He is a former Navy SEAL and served with Task Unit Bruiser with Jocko Willink and Leif Babin. Under their command, he served as an elite SEAL sniper in one of the deadliest regions of Iraq in 2006. In fact, his counterpart was Navy SEAL, Chris Kyle.He also served as a training instructor at Naval Special Warfare Group where he developed special operations urban combat and close-quarter training to better prepare SEAL units for the battlefield.JP has become a friend, a mentor, and someone I’m motivated and inspired by daily.IRON COUNCIL Gents, I know we’re knee-deep in a great conversation but let me hit the pause button to tell you about a resource you’re really going to want to know about if you’re ready to take your life to the next level. It’s called the Iron Council and inside, you’ll band with 500+ like-minded, high-achieving men who will help you identify and complete your life’s biggest objectives. Another benefit that I haven’t talked about a whole lot is that there are hundreds of experts inside the Council that range from leadership development, fitness and strength, hunting and other hobbies, and emergency response and preparation, to name a few. If you’re ready to band with us and tap into these resources, learn more and join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/10/20191 hour, 17 minutes, 44 seconds
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Be Prepared in all Things | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you ten things to help open your mind and develop the skills needed for situations that may occur in life. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/6/201937 minutes, 44 seconds
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Humility and Pride, Finding Your “Generals," and Offering Hope to Your Community | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss getting outdoors, finding balance in life, opening up the line of communication, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
9/4/20191 hour, 16 minutes, 16 seconds
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JOCKO WILLINK | Leadership Strategy and Tactics

I don’t care in what capacity you’re showing up in life – you are a leader. And, whether you realize it or not, you are having an influence on those around you. Whether you’re trying to secure a job promotion, lead your team and co-workers to success, manage a home, or get their kids to do their chores, your ability to learn and implement the strategies Jocko and I share today are critical.Jocko Willink (a man who needs no introduction) and I sit down face to face to discuss what it means to be a leader, considerations when raising kids right, striking the balance between opposing leadership methods (dichotomies), and very specific leadership strategies and tactics. And, if all that isn’t enough, we talk a little bit about archery and beards. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Origin Emersion Camp Mental fortitude  Mechanical drills The evolution of Echelon Front Writing a best seller Leadership for kids  A first-class archery experience  A roll of the dice The best of the best  Feeling like an imposter  Overcoming weakness  Detaching from a bad plan How to handle ultimatums  Correcting bad behavior  The reality of leadership JOCKO WILLINK My guest today is a man who has now been on the podcast on four separate occasions and someone who does not, for most of you listening, need an introduction. His name is Jocko Willink and he served as the Navy SEAL Commander for the most highly-decorated special forces unit of the Iraq war. And, since leaving the military has gone on to lead on of the most recognizable and effective leadership companies in the world with his brother-in-arms, Leif Babin, Echelon Front. On top of all of that, he’s written 8 books with his most recent being Leadership Strategy and tactics Field Manual (which we’ll be discussing today). His other books include Extreme Ownership, Dichotomy of Leadership, and the Way of the Warrior Kid series, among others.I’m honored to call this man a friend and am proud to be able to share our conversation with you today. IRON COUNCIL Obviously, we’ve been talking all about leadership today on the podcast. I want to offer you an additional resource if you’re looking to up your leadership effectiveness.It’s called the Iron Council and it’s a brotherhood of men working together to achieve maximum results in our lives. And, a lot of what we discuss is centered around the third pillar of masculinity, Preside, which is synonymous with leadership.Most of the institutions that have served men and offered a place for them to band together have been on the decline and while all of that is going away, the Order of Man and the Iron Council is rising up instead. We’re dedicated to giving you the tools, resources, brotherhood, camaraderie, and accountability to step fully into that man you have a desire to become.If you want to learn more and band with us, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/233  
9/3/20191 hour, 27 minutes, 56 seconds
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Why We’re Homeschooling Our Children | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you five reasons why we’ve decided to homeschool our children. My hope is that it brings clarity to those facing similar decisions. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life.  Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/30/201924 minutes, 22 seconds
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Honoring the Fallen, the Dark Side of Self-Help, and Combating Negativity | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss measuring up to larger opponents, keeping up with the Joneses, being the best you can possibly be and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/28/20191 hour, 14 minutes, 27 seconds
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PAT MCNAMARA | Make Yourself a Sentinel

Too many men are reliant on others to save them when it all hits the fan. And, while there may be someone there to rescue you in your greatest time of need, it’s critical that we all learn to take care of and protect ourselves. That’s why I wanted to have Pat McNamara join me on the podcast. As a 22-year military veteran and someone who has dedicated his life to making himself more capable in the most dire times, he is uniquely qualified to talk about situational awareness, staying on the alert, being prepared but not paranoid, and making yourself a sentinel SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Using the internet as a tool Being moral and ethical  The benefits of curiosity  Being the protector The 45-degree syndrome Sunday Sentinel Sermon  Do your 5’s and 25’s  Utilizing your primal instincts   Leveraging body behavior  Preparing your spouse to be a sentinel Making incremental changes in life  PAT MCNAMARA My guest today is a man who needs no introduction. His name is Pat McNamara and he is one of the baddest men on the planet. As I mentioned earlier, he is a 22-year military veteran and has served in a myriad of special operations units. Through his military service, he began to develop his own training methodology combining safety, continuous critical thinking, and effectiveness. In addition to that, he is an author of Tactical Application and Practical Shooting and Sentinel. Today, he joins me to talk about making yourself a more capable protector. MAINE EVENT Gentlemen, we had such a huge success with the inaugural Order of Man Maine Event that we decided to get you the dates as soon as possible for the next one. It’s going to be held in Maine on May 29-31st, 2020. I know that’s a ways away but I wanted to give you plenty of notice to secure your spot to an event that has the ability to transform the way you look at your life as a man. The institutions we once used to band with other men are dwindling and being dismantled. And, that’s why it’s critical you find new and improved ways of banding with men who are on the same path as you. And, that’s exactly what you’re doing to get when you join us for 2 ½ days of brotherhood, camaraderie, and instruction.To learn more and lock in your seat, head to www.orderofman.com/maineevent Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store https://www.orderofman.com/232  
8/27/201955 minutes, 12 seconds
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Don’t Be Your Wife’s Child | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I breakdown five key areas to help you lead inside the walls of your home as a husband and to ensure you communicate effectively as a man. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/23/201927 minutes, 24 seconds
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Mental Jiu-Jitsu, the Domestication of Man, and Crafting Non-Negotiables | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the importance of a purpose-driven business, being a man of your word, enlisting accountability, edifying your spouse and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/21/20191 hour, 9 minutes, 28 seconds
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How to Become a High-Performing Father | ALEC LACE

Fatherhood is one of the noblest, exciting, and rewarding callings a man can step into. It’s also one of the absolute hardest. Unfortunately, there is no manual for becoming a great father, like you have a desire to be. Most of it is trial and error. But that doesn’t mean we can’t learn extremely effective tactics and strategies from men on the same path. My guest today is Alec Lace. He is the founder of First-class Fatherhood where he has interviewed the some of the highest performing fathers in the world: Tom Brady, Dion Sanders, Mike Ritland, Ed Mylett, and so many more. Today, we talk about managing your time more effectively, how to engage your children in more meaningful discussions, the viability of homeschooling, and how to become a high-performing father. HIGHLIGHTS The new-father mindset Struggles of being a father Tools to eliminate guilt Overcoming difficult times Shifting your mindset Hitting rock-bottom Taking ownership of your life Channeling your obsessions Maximum use of time Getting beyond your ego Being a single dad The never quit mentality ALEC LACE As I mentioned previously, my guest today is Alec Lace. He is the founder of First Class Fatherhood (I’m a previous guest on his podcast). He is an absolutely inspiring human being in that he’s overcome some tremendous odds and personal adversity to become the type of father a lot of us hope to become. He’s also interviewed some absolutely incredible fathers like Tom Brady, Dion Sanders, Kurt Warner, Dean Cain, Rob O’Neil, and so many more.Today, he’s here to talk with us about what makes for a powerful father, how we can step up our game with our kids, overcoming our own personal demons, and simply being a better father. IRON COUNCIL Gents, I invite you to take a look at what our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council has to offer. I talk with way too many men who are lost without direction, clarity, and purpose.I get it. It’s hard to find your way in the society in which we live. Many of you were fatherless growing up. Many of you are stuck in dead-end jobs you hate. Many of you are a shell of the man you once were or have the desire to become.I firmly believe that having a band of brothers to stand shoulder-to-shoulder with you on the path you’re meant to walk is one of the most powerful resources at your disposal. And, that’s exactly what you’ll find inside the Iron Council – men working together on themselves and holding each other accountable. It’s not flashy. Sometimes, it’s not all that exciting. But it gets the job done and that’s exactly why it’s so effective. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/20/201956 minutes, 2 seconds
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Return of the Patriarch | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you the four C’s to help lead as the patriarch in your home and community. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/16/201935 minutes, 11 seconds
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Live from the Maine Event | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, you’ll hear a live recording from our inaugural Order of Man Maine event. Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the war on boys, burning the candle at both ends, fostering leadership, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/14/20191 hour, 15 minutes, 56 seconds
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Forging Underground Strength | ZACH EVEN-ESH

Getting Strong is undoubtedly something the overwhelming majority of men want to do. But with so much information out there and with our days stacked to the brim, it’s hard to know what to do and how to find the time to do it.Today, I am joined by my friend and long-time strong man to talk about strength of the body and of the mind, both inside and outside the gym. We talk about forging mental resilience, having the right attitude to attack life, how and why we need to teach our children toughness, and how to forge your way to underground strength. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Growing up working as a kid Getting punched in the face A lack of hardship How to fall in love with hard work Going beyond the 9 to 5 Creating your new normal Building momentum Taking pride in your abilities Finding the right headspace Blending the mind and body Becoming less attached Doing more with less ZACH EVEN-ESHGents, I can’t tell you how excited I am to share my conversation with Zach Even-Esh.I was fortunate enough to have him at our home and spend some time training physically and showing him around Maine. If you don’t already know, Zach, he is a long-time strong man, a strength and conditioning coach, and the founder of The Underground Strength Gym. He has a passion for simplifying strength and conditioning and mentoring and preparing youth for life through the gym. We talk about a lot today and I think you’re going to enjoy this conversation as we get much deeper than simply getting strong.IRON COUNCIL Gentlemen, if you’re not already familiar, let me introduce you to the Iron Council. The Iron Council is a digital band of brothers.That sounds really good but what does that even mean? It means that when you band with us, you’ll be tapping into the power of 500+ other men who have high ambitions and are doing everything they can to become more effective husbands, fathers, business owners, and community leaders.Too many men go at it alone. It doesn’t make you weak to band with other men. It makes you stronger because you’ll be working with men who have your back and will ensure you step into the man you’re capable of becoming. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/13/20191 hour, 22 minutes, 11 seconds
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Evolve or Die | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I discuss four key areas to help you identify opportunities for growth and evolution. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/9/201922 minutes, 25 seconds
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Overcoming Paralysis By Analysis, Dealing with Your Anger, and Harnessing Past Regrets| ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss self-fulfilling prophecies, tying up loose ends, arrogant behavior, and so much more…  Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/7/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 5 seconds
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Drastically Improve Your Decision-Making | DAVID MELTZER

Each of us is faced with thousands of decisions on a daily basis. You’re ability to make the right decisions spell the difference between failure and success for you, your family, your clients, your business, and your community. Unfortunately, with all the variables to take into consideration, it’s hard to know which decisions are best.That’s why I’m looking forward to getting this conversation to you today. My guest is David Meltzer and he is the CEO of one of the world’s leading sports and entertainment marketing agencies. Today, we go to the root of making choices, why assumptions kill success, the power of harnessing fear, and how to improve your game-time decision making. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Rags to riches How critical decisions are made Fear-based consciousness   Ego-based consciousness   Making assumptions The pragmatic truth Having an attitude of faith Disciplining the sub-conscience  Doing things consistently  Choosing to be happy Living in the truth Shifting your energy  Accessing what you want How to substitute fear Coming from a place of love Truth consciousness Improving your vibration   DAVID MELTZER As I mentioned earlier, my guest is David Meltzer and he is the CEO of Sports 1 Marketing, a top 10 keynote speaker, an award-winning humanitarian, and a best-selling author. He has over 25 years of experience in the legal, technology, sports, and entertainment fields, and needless to say, is an expert in high-stakes, high-pressure decision-making situations. He is business partners with Hall of Fame Quarterback, Warren Moon, and inspired movies such as Jerry Maquire, Any Given Sunday, and For Love of the Game. And, as you’ll hear in our conversation today, he is an extremely deep thinker and I know you’ll enjoy how deep we go in this podcast on how to position yourself to make better choices and decisions. IRON COUNCIL With all that we’ve had going on over the past couple of months with the move and our upcoming event this weekend, you haven’t heard me talk about our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council for a bit.It seems to me most men have lost their ability to band with other like-minded men who are going to push, motivate, and inspire them to do and be more in their lives. And, that’s exactly what we’re all about inside the Iron Council.When you band with us, you’re going to get a monthly assignment (this month is hyper-focused on physical fitness), weekly challenges to push you along the way, access to the Foundry (our communication platform), and the camaraderie and accountability that comes when you band with other high-achieving men. To lock in your seat at the table, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/229
8/6/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 29 seconds
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Who’s Got Your Six? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I give you six tips to build a band of brothers and face life’s difficult circumstances, together. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
8/2/201932 minutes, 38 seconds
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Do Men Cry, Shifting Ineffective Tactics, and Raising Confident Boys | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss financial literacy, embracing the suck, implementing change and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/31/20191 hour, 21 minutes, 47 seconds
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Service Above Self | MAT BEST

Today, I sit down with a fascinating man. His name is Mat Best and many of you know from his viral videos for Black Rifle Coffee Company. But what you may not know is how he views his military service as an Army Ranger with five combat tours. During our conversation, we talked about how he views his service, his continual support of military veterans, how he founded his mission after the military, where he stumbled along the way, and how he helped turn a simple coffee company into a household name. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS  Mission-oriented  Defining yourself Acts of heroism  Defusing threats  Controlled violence  How to out-grit people  Being uncomfortable  Developing core-competencies  Mission first Manageable disagreements  Creating a community  The land of opportunity  The need for meaningful conflict  Owning responsibility    MAT BEST As I stated earlier, my guest today is someone most of you are probably familiar with. His name is Mat Best and he is a former Army Ranger and the co-founder of Black Rifle Coffee company along with several other companies he founded since leaving the military. He and I had the opportunity to sit down at Total Archery Challenge a couple of weeks ago in Park City to talk about his military service, how to lead an incredible organization in Black Rifle Coffee Company, and his new book, Thank You For My Service. Gents, I think you’re going to enjoy this one as you might see a side of Mat you haven’t seen before. ORIGIN If you’re not familiar with Origin Maine, I encourage you to get familiar with them as soon as you can. Whether or not you’re into Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu or not is irrelevant as they do so much more than make gi’s and rashguards.Their goal is to restore American Manufacturing and with their new denim line, boot line, and Jocko Supplements, they are on the path to doing just that.I personally use their supplements, specifically, their Super Krill, Joint Warfare (for the aching joints since ramping up Jiu-Jitsu), Molk, and their new product, a cognitive enhancement called Discipline Go.If you’re looking to add some supplements to your nutritional and exercise lineup, check out Jocko’s products by Origin Maine and, when you do, use the code “order” at checkout to get a 10% discount. Head to www.originmaine.com and, again, use the code, “order” at checkout. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store https://www.orderofman.com/228  
7/30/20191 hour, 9 minutes, 31 seconds
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Without Vision, Nothing Else Matters | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I give you the framework to craft your own vision that will help you become the man you want to be and discuss why it’s so important. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/26/201931 minutes, 17 seconds
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Strength + Morality, What Historical Culture says it Means to be a Man | AK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I field questions regarding men who embody masculinity, cultural values, playing the long game and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/24/20191 hour, 6 minutes, 54 seconds
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How to Stand Out as a Man Among Men | BERT SORIN

It comes as no surprise that most men have a desire to stand out from the pack as a man of credibility and authority. I call it influence and, the more of it you have with others, the more effective and successful you will be in your life. Today, I am joined by my friend, Bert Sorin, to talk about how to stand out as the man. He’s a man I’ve respected immensely since I met him a little over a year ago and someone who stands out as the type of man I’m referring. We get into the “x-factor,” adding value in all of your interactions, matching your actions with your words, and how to stand out as a man among men. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Defining the X-Factor Finding relevance Adding value to your tribe Developing social skills Having the right motives Protecting your “magic”  Letting go of expectations  Watching the tide come in Scaling forward  Your value proposition  Dissociating from your activities  Building your fortress Playing to win  BERT SORIN Gents, today I am joined by repeat guest and friend, Bert Sorin.Bert is the President and CEO of Sorinex. I know you’ve been hearing me talk about them for some time now since I was introduced to him and Sorinex about this time last year.Bert is a former Division 1 Track and Field All-American and an Olympics Trial athlete. And, what he learned in sports, he has now translated to running this incredible leader in strength and exercise equipment.And, it’s not only about their equipment. I had the privilege of attending their annual event, SummerStrong, and I can tell you that the culture they’ve created within the organization and movement is a sight to behold. And, because of that, I thought Bert and I needed to sit down for round 2 to talk about standing out. Enjoy. MAINE EVENT One of the most frequently asked questions I receive is something along the lines of “How do I get my life back on track?” I wish there was an easy answer. There isn’t. But, there is a simple one. It’s called the Battle Plan and it’s a system I’ve been developing over 10 years to take control of my health, relationships, bank account, this movement, and my life in general. If you’ve been listening to the podcast over the past month, you’ve heard me talk about the Order of Man Maine event (held August 10th-11th). Among the like-minded men you’ll meet, the challenges we’ll participate in, and the activities we have planned, you’ll be working on your own Battle Plan to accomplish more in the next 90 days than you potentially have all year. If you know you’re meant for more but haven’t found the systems and tools to maximize your potential, join us August 10th-11th in Maine for an event designed to give you the network and framework to take complete sovereignty over your life. Head to www.orderofman.com/maineevent to lock in your seat. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store. Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/227
7/23/20191 hour, 28 minutes, 26 seconds
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Forgiving Your Father | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you a personal story of mine that was recorded at our “Legacy” graduation dinner. It’s a 3-day event where fathers and sons come together to create a framework for growth. I truly hope this serves you in some way. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/19/201911 minutes, 13 seconds
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The Carrot or the Stick, Being Intentional in Your Rhetoric, and Delayed Gratification | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss cultural norms, the importance of humility, digital minimalism and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/17/201953 minutes, 50 seconds
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Defeating the Odds | NICK SANTONASTASSO

All of us are dealt a hand, some harder than others. But as my guest today can attest, it’s not the hand we’re dealt that matters, it’s how we play it.Today’s conversation is with Nick Santonastasso (who many of you are already probably aware of). He is a bodybuilder, entrepreneur, adventurer, and highly-sought-after public speaker. And, he was born with a debilitating medical condition which left him legless and missing one arm. Today, we talk about overcoming the victim mentality, how to develop confidence, how to view difficult circumstances as a gift, and how to defeat the odds. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Being a man of action Giving without expectations  Putting your ego to the side Using the right vocabulary  Reframing a victim mentality  Filtering out the wrong people How to build confidence  Defining your own success Becoming the CEO of your life How to overcome limiting beliefs Facing objective reality  Progress within yourself  Surrendering your ego Reflecting on your wins Appreciating pain Growing through curiosity  NICK SANTONASTASSO As I mentioned earlier, my guest today is Nick Santonastasso. He has got to be one of the most inspiring people that I know and, if you’re familiar with him, I think you would likely agree.He was born with a rare medical condition (he’s only one of 12 people born with it and 8 of them are dead). It’s called Hanhart Syndrom and it kept him from developing his legs and one of his arms.But none of that has stopped him. In fact, if anything, it’s propelled him forward as he’s taken what would both literally and figuratively cripple most and turned it into something extremely empowering for him and the millions he inspires.He’s tried it all from bowling to wrestling to bodybuilding and now, he’s speaking up as one of the most sought-after public speakers in the world. And, once you listen to this podcast, I think you’ll know why.ORDER OF MAN MAINE EVENT One of the most frequently asked questions I receive is something along the lines of “How do I get my life back on track?” I wish there was an easy answer. There isn’t. But, there is a simple one.It’s called the Battle Plan and it’s a system I’ve been developing over 10 years to take control of my health, relationships, bank account, this movement, and my life in general.If you’ve been listening to the podcast over the past month, you’ve heard me talk about the Order of Man Maine event (held August 10th-11th). Among the like-minded men you’ll meet, the challenges we’ll participate in, and the activities we have planned, you’ll be working on your own Battle Plan to accomplish more in the next 90 days than you potentially have all year.If you know you’re meant for more but haven’t found the systems and tools to maximize your potential, join us August 10th-11th in Maine for an event designed to give you the network and framework to take complete sovereignty over your life.Head to www.orderofman.com/maineevent to lock in your seat. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store  
7/16/20191 hour, 6 minutes, 56 seconds
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The Rise of “Hollow Balls” | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I give you six strategies to naturally increase your testosterone levels and why a decrease is happening to the men in our society. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s been working for you. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/12/201934 minutes, 29 seconds
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Developing Presence, Improving the Quality of Life, and Establishing Work/Life Balance | AMA

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss living in an age of distraction, taking time to re-charge, following your gut instinct and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/10/20191 hour, 14 minutes, 25 seconds
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Creating a Generational Business | ADAM WEATHERBY

Many of us, as men, have ambitions to leave a legacy. What that legacy looks like varies from man to man but ultimately, we all have a desire to leave this world better than when we got here. And, legacy is something my guest, his father, and his father’s father know how to create.Today, I’m joined by the President and CEO of Weatherby (American Firearms Manufacturer), Adam Weatherby. He is the grandson of the founder, Roy Weatherby. And, he recently took up the mantle as head of this 70-year-old, third-generation business. Today, we talk about what it took to create, how things evolve over generations, the power of storytelling, and how to create a generational business and legacy.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The beginning of a legacy  Leveraging everything  A woman’s perspective  Manufacturing arms  Creating a prestigious brand  The value of marketing  Inspiring dreams  Balancing life  Taking on leadership  Cultural change  Respecting history  The future generation  Leaving the business behind  Developing the right skills  Owning your mistakes  Riding shotgun with dad  Delegating leadership  Mutual respect  Relocating the business   ADAM WEATHERBY Today,  I’m joined by my friend and the President of Weatherby, Adam Weatherby. I met Adam a couple of years ago through mutual friends at MTNOPS and, in getting to know him, and hearing more about the history of Weatherby and his vision for, I knew we needed to sit down for a conversation.Adam started working at Weatherby more than 20 years ago in tech. support, warranty service, and sales and marketing before leaving after four years to pursue his ambitions to become a pastor. He returned to Weatherby not too long ago and was named President in 2017.I’m inspired by his vision, direction, and leadership with his organization and I think you guys are going to get a glimpse into what it takes to lead a generational business. ORDER OF MAN MAINE EVENT Gents, let me hit the pause button real quick to tell you about our Order of Man Maine event. I hesitate to say, “Meet-Up,” because it is so much more than that but if you want to meet me, my co-host, Kipp Sorensen, and my partner in the Order of Man events, Legacy and Uprising, Matthew Arrington, get here August 10-11, 2019 (with an exclusive Iron Council dinner on the 9th).But not only are you going to meet us, you’re going to meet 75 other like-minded men who are accomplishing big things with regards to their relationships, wealth, health, and lives. You’ll be able to band with, compete with, and learn from these men in two days of instruction and activity designed to give you access to the network and framework for success.You can learn more and register at www.orderofman.com/maineevent Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/225  
7/9/20191 hour, 28 minutes, 33 seconds
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Men of Moral Conviction | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you four tips to help you live in accordance with your convictions and virtues. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s been working for you. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/5/201923 minutes, 41 seconds
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Overcoming Overwhelm, Marketing a New Business, and Making Difficult Decisions | ASK ME ANYTHING

My co-host Kipp Sorensen is still on a much-needed vacation and will return next week. I’m fielding questions about regrettable decisions, building small wins, finding significance, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
7/3/20191 hour, 3 minutes, 3 seconds
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Risk, Resilience, and Raising Kids | ANDY STUMPF

It seems to me the more that I have conversations on this podcast, the more questions I have rather than the answers I’ve been seeking. But it’s been said that the quality of your life will be determined by the quality of the questions you ask. So, when I have an opportunity to sit down with my friend, Andy Stumpf, to ask some of life’s challenging questions, it’s always a great discussion.Today, we talk about so many different topics like taking risks (which we’ve both done with moving our families), developing resilience in our lives, and the never-ending challenges that come with raising kids. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Managing uncertainty  Seeking adventure  Navigating risk Mental toughness Guiding your children   Voluntary hardships  Parental balance Toxic masculinity  Calibration   Frank conversation  Consequences of bad decisions  Corporate endorsements  The power of social media  Politics  Doing more with less  ANDY STUMPF My guest today is my friend, Andy Stumpf. I heard he was making a trip to Maine about a week after I got here so I reached out and scheduled a conversation on this podcast. We had a day of archery, Jiu-Jitsu, a podcast session, and finished it off with a lobster bake with our friends, Pete Roberts, and Brian Littlefield.If you don’t know who Andy Stumpf is, he is a retired Navy SEAL, avid bow hunter, and a base jumping, wingsuit flying mad man. But, in addition to that, he’s one of the most level-headed men that I know. I think a lot of that has been developed to even out his quest for adventure.You’re going to enjoy this one as it’s not so much of an interview but two men talking about the challenges and struggles that are part of life. MAINE EVENTI’m sure you’ve heard by now that we’ve got our Order of Man Maine event taking place on August 10-11, 2019, with an exclusive Iron Council dinner on the 9th.Our entire goal for the event is to teach you the framework for success in your health, wealth, relationships, and life and, of course, introduce you to a network of men who are all achieving big things in their lives.We’ve been making plans for the event on my property and to say that I’m extremely excited about what we’re putting together is a huge understatement. If you’re interested in learning more and locking in a seat at the table, head to www.orderofman.com/maineevent. Again, that’s www.orderofman.com/maineevent. But do it quickly as we only have 25 spots remaining. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/224  
7/2/20191 hour, 16 minutes, 49 seconds
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Live Vigilant | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you three strategies to help you live a more vigilant life as a man. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what’s been working for you. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/28/201925 minutes, 56 seconds
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Staying on the Path, Losing Everything and Starting Over, and Managing a Temper | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I’m running solo. My co-host Kipp Sorensen is on vacation. I’ll discuss how to make peace with your past, when to offer advice, identifying the ultimate objective, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/26/201959 minutes, 13 seconds
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Finding a Way to Forgive | ANDREW O'BRIEN

Someone in your life has likely wronged you in some way. Whether or not you’ve learned to forgive that individual is another question. I think we all know that learning to forgive others is a liberating practice, but that’s easier said than done. Today, I am joined by Andrew O’Brien to talk about his quest for forgiveness. I don’t want to ruin the conversation for you, but his mother made national news when she killed Andrew’s stepfather, asked him to cover it up, and attempted to pin it on his brother. We cover why forgiveness is crucial for men, how to take the first steps, elements to include on the “forgiveness journey,” and finally finding a way to forgive. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Walking to freedom Emotional trauma Anger and resentment Childhood memories A newfound appreciation Estranged brothers Holding on to animosity The ultimate objective Always pleasing others Finding happiness in the wrong places Public criticism Emotional abuse Bigger ambitions Growing up as a victim Re-engineering forgiveness ANDREW O’BRIEN Today I am joined by my friend, Andrew O’Brien. Andrew and I have been friends for a couple of years, but he recently told me about a journey to forgive that he has decided to take (In fact, he begins his official journey tomorrow as of the release of this podcast). Also, as he shared part of his story with me, I couldn’t help but think how powerful this would be for the men of the Order. I know forgiveness is an issue that many men in the Facebook Group and the Iron Council bring up. You don’t need to take notes or anything on this conversation, but please listen to Andrew’s incredible story about his mother and his path to forgiving her. I hope his discussion helps you in some way. MAINE EVENT Gents, I’m finally able to give you all the details you need to get up here for a meetup/event/experience on our new property in Maine. I’ve been thinking about this for the last six months (since I knew we were moving here) and I’m stoked to get you here. It’s going to be held August 10 – 11, 2019 (and an exclusive Iron Council dinner on the 9th) and over the course of two days, I’m going to give you access to the framework and network you need to thrive in your life. We’ll have activities designed to push and test you, presentations in each of the four quadrants we cover here in Order of Man, and opportunities to band with other like-minded men who want to achieve big things in their lives as well. We only have 30 spots remaining so, head to www.orderofman.com/maineevent to secure your spot. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes www.orderofman.com/223
6/25/20191 hour, 2 minutes, 5 seconds
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A Conversation with My Son | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I get into a great conversation with my eleven-year-old son, Brecken. We reminisce about our trip to Maine, the value of a location independent business, the impact of bad decisions, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and let me know what you thought about the conversation. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/21/201937 minutes, 41 seconds
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Finding Purpose, Resigning with Class, and Developing Self-Worth | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss how to avoid burning bridges, making yourself indispensable, redefining wins, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/19/20191 hour, 11 minutes, 55 seconds
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Live by a Code | BRADY “TOTANKA” CERVANTES

Whether he knows it or not, every man lives by a code. But without intentionality about what that code is, it’s easy to get lost in a world filled with chaos, clutter, and distraction. Unfortunately, it’s not always easy to identify the code you want to live by and consistently measure up to it. That’s why I wanted to have a conversation with my guest today, Brady “Totanka” Cervantes. He is a former Marine Corps sniper and, more recently a professional bull rider. Today, we talk about his experience as a sniper, how it translates to civilian life, the struggles of transitioning in life, how to clear your head in chaos, and how to establish and live by a code. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Learning perspective as a young boy Finding middle ground Seeking guidance from the right source The importance of parental guidance Living out of a truck Life in the Marine Corp. The impact of TBI Understanding the consequences Pushing past fear The mental game Becoming legendary A level of discipline One thing at a time Overcoming ego Dealing with your own battle BRADY “TOTANKA” CERVANTES My guest today is Brady “Totanka” Cervantes. He spent nearly 10 years in the Marine Corps and, as a Scout Sniper, had several deployments throughout the world, including two deployments to Iraq and two deployments to Afghanistan. After his military service, he began training as a lead instructor for several tactical training companies, starred in a survival TV show called Kicking & Screaming, and, more recently, riding bulls professionally with the PBR. I met Brady several months ago at Sorinex’s SummerStrong event and as I got to know him over a couple of days, I was extremely impressed with his clarity, confidence, and level of humility. All of which we talk about in our conversation. IRON COUNCIL If you’ve been listening to this podcast for any amount of time, you know a little bit about our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. This is a fraternity of men who are all working together to improve their lives, gain new perspectives, get accountability, and the motivation and tools they need to excel. This month inside the Iron Council we’re talking about forging and iron-clad mindset, and one of the things we do is bring in guest experts to cover the monthly topic, do some live Q & A with, and learn. On the 28th of this month, June 2019, Commander Mark Divine will be joining our live call to discuss the tools, strategies, and skill-sets of an iron-clad mindset. So, if you want to learn from the best and band with other men who will hold you to the highest possible standard, join us inside the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/222  
6/18/20191 hour, 23 minutes, 44 seconds
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Never Feel Guilty for Taking Care of Yourself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I share with you four strategies to implement in your life to overcome the stigma associated with taking care of yourself. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and let me know how well they’re working. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/14/201927 minutes, 10 seconds
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The Cost of Growth, Setting Standards and Expectations, and Overcoming Negative Self-Talk

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about the value in reciprocity, personal mantras, the Integrity Gap, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/12/20191 hour, 28 minutes, 27 seconds
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The Power of Thinking Big | PETE ROBERTS & BRIAN LITTLEFIELD

Today’s discussion is with Pete Roberts & Brian Littlefield from Origin Main. These are two men that I highly admire and respect. We talk about thinking big, how too many men seem to be playing it safe, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and let me know what you thought about the conversation. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Moving stone walls Life’s defining moments Decades of opportunity Taking risks Living without stuff Making a sacrifice Washing off the comfort When is it “big enough” Building emotional equity Earned confidence IRON COUNCIL It’s been said that the only thing constant is change. And, if you’re anything like me, change is not easy for you. Even if we know it will be good for us, it seems to me that most men resist change. But if it’s inevitable and, in a lot of ways, constructive, we need to understand how to deal with it and actually embrace change. That’s why inside of our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council, we’re talking all about change and how to harness it for a force of good in our lives and in those we have a responsibility for. We’re going to to be breaking it down weekly with understanding the nature of our relationship with change, how to take action when we are faced with an evolving set of circumstances, and how to effectively lead the people we care about through change. If you’re ready to learn how to embrace change in your life, have some powerful discussion about it, and be challenged to take deliberate and intentional action toward growing and evolving, I invite you to band with us inside the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes www.orderofman.com/221     www.orderofman.com/221
6/11/20191 hour, 8 minutes, 22 seconds
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Strategies for Success in a New Environment | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Your ability to navigate change will determine your success in any facet of life.  Here are seven strategies for making yourself successful in a new environment. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/7/201926 minutes, 4 seconds
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Going Beyond Yourself, Developing Optimal Strength, and Restoring Accountability | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I'm answering questions without Ryan as he is in transit to Maine. I’ll cover the impact of leadership, a code of conduct, bonding through activities, overcoming resentment, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
6/5/20191 hour, 19 minutes, 31 seconds
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Me, the Mrs., and Maine | TRICIA MICHLER

This week, I’m back with my favorite guest, my wife, Tricia. We’re fielding questions about our move to Maine, settling in, raising kids, leading a family, working through disagreements, and a whole lot more. You may want to have your wife listen in on this one too as we’re talking about things that will apply to both of you. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and let me know what you thought about the conversation. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Arriving in Maine Family meetings Getting your wife onboard Adjusting to change There’s no magic formula Yes, it snows Travel conditions Leadership in the home Pet peeves Road bumps along the way Saying goodbye Managing stress Effective communication Life as a single mom A willingness to forgive The journey vs. destination Preparing to settle in  IRON COUNCIL One of the biggest challenges men face on their journey to improve themselves is having to go at it alone. It can be done but there is something powerful to be found in banding together with other men. And, that’s where a brotherhood of like-minded men comes into play. We call it the Iron Council and through helping thousands of men like you tap into this powerful network, we’ve seen men salvage devastated marriages, reconnect with their children in powerful ways, lose weight, gain confidence, develop clarity, and generally make themselves into stronger, tougher, better, more capable men. We do this through our framework of communication and a proven system that is designed to push and test men in ways they may never have. If this sounds of interest to you and you want to learn more, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/220
6/4/20191 hour, 17 minutes, 26 seconds
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Your Redemption Story | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today’s podcast is a very important topic, which is your redemption story. There are a lot of men living in a perpetual state of discomfort and misery. No matter what’s going on in your life, you need the framework to produce results that will help to redeem yourself. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/31/201933 minutes, 12 seconds
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Fatherless Epidemic, Doing Work for the Right Reason, and Ending Unhealthy Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today is not your normal Ask Me Anything. Kipp Sorenson will not be joining us due to our move to Main. So, I’ll be answering questions regarding business opportunity, self-improvement, commitment, re-writing your excuses, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
5/29/201952 minutes, 59 seconds
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One Man Can Make a Difference| ANTHONY WAITE

I talk with a lot of men who don’t think they can make a difference. Yes, they have big aspirations for themselves and others, but they feel like the odds are stacked against them in achieving their goals. The reality is that just isn’t the case. And, today, I am joined by my good friend, Anthony Waite, to show you what is possible when one man puts his heart, mind, and hands into the work required to lifting others up. We talk about managing expectations, finding congruency with work and home life, avoiding burnout, and how one man can make a difference. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS A band of brothers Returning from deployment Managing expectations as a leader The importance of a father figure Cutting ties Finding truth in your current reality Self-reflection Physical and mental challenges The power in forgiveness Accepting responsibility Answering the question “why me?” How to be a R.E.A.L. success Saying yes to opportunity Taking one step at a time ANTHONY WAITE Gents, today I am joined by my good friend and someone who has been with us inside the Iron Council for the last three years. He is an officer in the Navy and, as you’ll hear in our conversation, a man who is extremely impactful not only in his career but in his community as well. I’ve been so impressed with this man’s growth over the past several years and as much as he’s learned from and been inspired by the Order of Man mission, I’ve been inspired and uplifted by him. This is the caliber of men we have in the Iron Council. I’m honored to be able to introduce him to you. IRON COUNCIL Needless to say, based on this conversation today, the Iron Council is a powerful tool and resource in the lives of Anthony and hundreds more. These are the types of men you can expect to find inside our exclusive brotherhood – men who don’t necessarily have everything figured out but men who are on the path to improving themselves in every capacity. And, as powerful as a transformation story as Anthony’s is, there are hundreds of other stories of self-improvement from men who are harnessing the power of a band of brothers inside the Iron Council.If you’re interested in hearing their stories and unlocking all the tools and resources we share, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/219  
5/28/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 47 seconds
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No Virtue in Victimhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

There’s a disturbing trend happening in society that promotes a victim mentality. When we step into this role, we undermine our ability to improve as men. Ultimately, it’s a race to the bottom. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/24/201927 minutes, 36 seconds
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Leading with Humility, When to Rest, and Dealing with Death | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about gun restrictions, honoring loved ones, stepping into the fight, a woman’s physiology, financial strategy, managing boundaries, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
5/22/20191 hour, 12 minutes, 33 seconds
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Become a Brand Builder | HANS MOLENKAMP

All of us are building a brand at any given point regardless of if we’re intentional about it or not. Whether you’re trying to convince your kids to do their chores, get that lady to go on a date with you, secure a promotion with your boss, or solicit clients to do business with you, your credibility and influence spell the difference between success and failure. Today I am joined by a man uniquely qualified to discuss this topic as he’s been a major player in Monster’s branding and marketing and eventually working closely with the UFC to sponsor fighters. His name is Hans Molenkamp and in this conversation, we talk about what it means to be influential, how to develop powerful relationships, the power of exploring many different areas of interest, and, ultimately, how to become a brand builder.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Representing combat sports and athletic teams A marketing gun for hire Monster Energy Drink Transitioning from action sports to MMA Triumph United becomes a global brand What it takes to build a brand Helping others develop their plan The importance of networking Creating synergy Developing content that works Identifying stardom Walking the line of friendship and business Positive mental attitude Overcoming monotony HANS MOLENKAMP Gents, today I am joined by a fascinating individual. His name is Hans Molenkamp and he’s a bit of a modern renaissance man in that he explores so many unique interest and activities from photography to skateboarding to surfing to marketing to mixed martial arts. He’s arguably one of the most influential people connected with the UFC and, if you follow his Instagram page, you’ll see he’s connected with guys like Rampage, Conor McGregor, and just about everyone in between. He initially got his start in marketing and branding in the mid-’90s with Osiris shoes then on to a key component of Monster’s marketing and branding division and eventually becoming a liaison of sorts between Monster, professional fighters, and the UFC. And, today, he’s here to share his story from humble beginnings to go on to work with some of the most elite athletes in the world. IRON COUNCIL As I was flying home from Sorinex’s SummerStrong event, the plane started to bob up and down. As we dealt with the turbulence, I could feel the pilot making corrections in altitude and direction to navigate us out of the clouds. And, as he did, I couldn’t help but think of his team on the ground directing him to safer, smoother paths. I share that with you because everywhere you look, you can see the value in having a powerful team to direct you throughout the course of your life. Yeah, you could go at it alone but why deal with all the turbulence of life if there is someone there to support you, back you up, and light the better path? That’s the power of the Iron Council, our exclusive brotherhood of men working together to chart their own paths and learn how to navigate the pressure and turbulence this life has to offer. If you’re ready to be part of a team, a band of brothers if you will, who are doing big things in their lives and want to help you do the same, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil.  Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review  Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/218 
5/21/20191 hour, 34 minutes, 41 seconds
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A Genuine Thank You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today I share with you the history of Order of Man and the future of our mission. Our success is a testament to the fact that men like you want this information. So, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for being on this journey with me. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/17/201915 minutes, 9 seconds
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Strategies for Success, Creating a Culture of Integrity, and Maximizing Personal Branding | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about the importance of innovation, teaching self-reliance, building in contingencies, meeting the standard, becoming capable of violence, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council.  Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
5/15/20191 hour, 6 minutes, 42 seconds
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The Power of Proximity | KEN COLEMAN

Everyone knows the adage, “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know.” And, as overly-simplistic as it may be, there is a lot of truth to that for a lot of different reasons.Today, I am joined by Ken Coleman, author of the Proximity Principle to talk about how true that statement is and to break it down for us even further We talk about finding the right people and being in the right places, overcoming the limiting beliefs fueled by pride and fear, building an expansive web of the right connections, and how to utilize the “Proximity Principle” to get ahead. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Our intrinsic need to provide Passion versus provision The emotional journey Bone-crushing doubt Weathering the storms of life The Discovery Process Applying the Proximity Effect Stepping into objectivity Silencing fear Finding the right people The value of humility The first bold step KEN COLEMAN Now, I’ll admit, I hadn’t been familiar with his work until Ramsey Solutions reached out to me about his new book, Proximity Principle, but after doing some research and learning more about him, I truly understand how well this guy knows his stuff and how powerful a resource he can be for any man who is trying to get ahead in his career and build something meaningful and significant in his life. Ken is an author, a career expert, and a member of Ramsey Solutions where he frequently co-hosts the Dave Ramsey Show. I really enjoyed this conversation and I have no doubt you will too. And, more importantly, I know you’ll get a ton out of it.   IRON COUNCIL Gents, let me talk with you about the “Wild Man” for a minute. The Wild Man is the man inside that we’ve either silenced or allowed society to silence for far too long. And, it’s the part of us that we need to learn to let out of the cage more often. He is our competitive, aggressive, dominant, and wild nature and, in the right circumstances and context can be used as a powerful force for growth and expansion in our lives. But, most of us have allowed ourselves to be domesticated for too long and have shut down the very elements that give us a competitive advantage. That’s why we’re talking about the Wild Man inside our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council this month. We’re discovering how to acknowledge, explore, and unlock him within ourselves and tap back into the masculine roots we’ve bound and chained at the systematic conditioning of society. And, on top of the discussions, we’re challenging ourselves (500 men) to push harder and further than we have for years with the goal of accomplishing huge things in our lives. If you want to join the discussion and the challenge, band with us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter   Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/217
5/14/20191 hour, 8 minutes, 9 seconds
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Make Yourself Dangerous | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Very rarely do we think about interpersonal communication and dynamic skills as being masculine. Today, I share with you 5 ‘soft skills’ to incorporate into your life to make yourself dangerous. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/10/201928 minutes
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What to Look For in a Wife, Tapping into the “Wild Man,” and the Greatest Threat to Men | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about planning for the future, the concept of crying, owning our behavior, self-reliant woman, Iron Council history, finding a mentor, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
5/8/20191 hour, 8 minutes, 50 seconds
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End Self-Sabotage | GARY JOHN BISHOP

I think it’s safe to assume all of us have ambitions for the future. You wouldn’t be listening to this podcast if that wasn’t the case. Unfortunately, we have a tendency of getting in our own way and sabotaging ourselves in the pursuit of those ambitions. Today, I am joined by New York Times Bestselling Author and repeat guest, Gary John Bishop, to talk about how hardwired into us the self-sabotage really is, what the three greatest saboteurs are, how to balance certainty and aspirations, the myth of truth, and how to finally end self-sabotage. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The misconception of “truth” Living life with intent Personal expansion Awareness versus knowledge Making a real change in your life How to become more aware Finding new paradigms in life Stepping back into self-sabotage Focusing on the right things Being a victim of life The chaotic world Lack of fulfillment Wanting certainty but desiring new Questioning everything you know Going beyond your own constraints GARY JOHN BISHOP Today, I am joined by New York Times Best Selling Author, Gary John Bishop for our second discussion regarding his second book, Stop Doing That Sh*t. Gary is a personal development expert and has received a lot of attention over the past several years for his unique approach to self-help and his ability to cut to the heart of matters without a lot of B.S. His first book, UnFu*k Yourself, has sold nearly 1,000,000 copies and is a testament to the fact that people are tired of the motivational, rah-rah, self-help space that has left people informed but not any further down the path to their objectives. Sit back, take notes, and enjoy this powerful conversation with Gary John Bishop. IRON COUNCIL Along the lines of self-help, I think many of us have seen where it falls short and how so many men who have a desire to improve themselves never really do.That’s why, when I founded the Order of Man, it was always my intention to bridge the gap between what we know and what we do. And, that is where our exclusive brotherhood of men comes into play. It’s really not enough to know you want to improve and then go at it alone. You need two things: a framework and a network. A framework to tap into a proven strategy that will help you become an optimized man and a network of men who are on the same path (and further down it) to assist along the way. You’ll find both inside the Iron Council and learn how valuable a framework and network can really be. To learn more, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store. Show notes: https://www.orderofman.com/216  
5/7/20191 hour, 3 minutes, 56 seconds
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The No Excuses Mentality | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Too often we look for someone else to rescue us from circumstances that should be our responsibility to solve for ourselves. Today, I give you 5 strategies to help overcome this mindset and adopt a “no-excuses” mentality. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
5/3/201922 minutes, 8 seconds
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Avoid Burnout, Passing on Your Family Name, and Balancing Family and Personal Priorities | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about managing chaos, getting out of a rut, experimenting with life, maintaining a growth mindset, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
5/1/201955 minutes, 17 seconds
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Survival, Bushcraft, and Emergency Preparedness | JOSH TYLER

Although the likelihood of us facing a life and death survival situation or natural disaster is lower than it has ever been, there is value in learning how to deal with these potentially devastating life events. Today, I am joined by my friend, MMA fighter and survivalist Josh Tyler to talk about his latest experience in a 21-day survival challenge, the skill sets we’ll need to survive, some of the biggest threats to our safety and security, and how to survive emergencies, natural disasters, and dangerous encounters. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Deploying the right skill set Common situations in the wild Framework for survival Priority of needs Doing things the hard way Fort versus shelter Front-end preparation Leveraging the mind for survival Experience as a frame of reference Redefining who we are Ultimate Ninja Challenge recap Becoming more efficient in life   Battling a quitters mindset Turning things over to a higher power Dealing with sleep deprivation The power of small wins Outdoor survival school Falling into the trap of comfort JOSH TYLER Today, I am joined by my friend Josh Tyler who I consider to be one of the most capable men I know. He’s an MMA fighter, a survivalist, and a man who knows a ton about how to keep himself alive in some of the most challenging and dangerous encounters we may face. He’s also been instrumental in the experiences we run with men and their boys and has personally helped me become more equipped to deal with some of life’s uncertainties. He’s also some who looks for difficult situations and thrusts himself into those environments willingly to make himself more capable and proficient as a man. Take notes today and enjoy my conversation with Josh Tyler IRON COUNCIL One of the biggest challenges men face on their journey to improve themselves is having to go at it alone. It can be done but there is something powerful to be found in banding together with other men. And, that’s where a brotherhood of like-minded men comes into play. We call it the Iron Council and through helping thousands of men like you tap into this powerful network, we’ve seen men salvage devastated marriages, reconnect with their children in powerful ways, lose weight, gain confidence, develop clarity, and generally make themselves into stronger, tougher, better, more capable men. We do this through our framework of communication and a proven system that is designed to push and test men in ways they may never have.If this sounds of interest to you and you want to learn more, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store. Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/215  
4/30/20191 hour, 23 minutes, 52 seconds
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The Castration of the Modern Male | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

The modern male is being systematically castrated by the school system, the government, the medical community, and society at large. Today, I talk about why that is and 10 strategies to ensure we maintain our sovereignty and our balls. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/26/201933 minutes, 42 seconds
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Finding Like-Minded Men, Shifting Your Mindset, and Motivating Others | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about setting boundaries in relationships, abundance through delayed gratification, managing your emotions, the after-action review process, stepping through the doors of opportunity, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
4/24/20191 hour, 11 minutes, 44 seconds
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Transform Your Life | REMI ADELEKE

Regardless of your station in life, I think it’s safe to assume that every single one of us has a desire to transform our lives in some way. There is a myriad of reasons why a lot of people aren’t able to make that transformation happen: lack of motivation, discipline, drive, etc. Today, I am joined by former Navy SEAL, Remi Adeleke to talk about how he went from a son of a wealthy and powerful man in Nigeria to growing up on the streets of the Bronx, to becoming a Navy Seal, and eventually a Hollywood actor and screenwriter, and ultimately, how he transformed his life. Show Highlights Writing a book to inspire Treating people appropriately Turning anger into positivity Doing the hard work Overcoming mental deficiencies Succeeding at all cost Appreciating fear The importance of your mind Searching out father figures The progression of a criminal life Transitioning into the military Never giving up on people Surviving Hell Week Completing BUD/S Stepping into fatherhood Life after the Seals REMI ADELEKE I had the opportunity to sit down with an incredible man last week. His name is Remi Adeleke. You may know of him as a former Navy SEAL and Hollywood actor but what you might not know is how this man was born to a chief of an African tribe in Nigeria, lost his father at age 5, ended up moving to the states with his mother, brother, and not a penny to their name, starting selling drugs and running scams to make some money, getting into the Navy under some questionable circumstances, and eventually becoming a Navy SEAL and Hollywood actor. Guys, you are going to be absolutely blown away with this human and his inspiring story. So, sit back, take some notes if you want, and be inspired to make more of your circumstances and transform your life. IRON COUNCIL When I say the term, “Wild Man,” I think we all have some ideas of what that individual may look like and how he might behave.  Most of us, as men, have been conditioned to silence the “Wild Man” within us and while there are times that certainly should be the case, there are other times where it may be required to let him out of his cage. That’s exactly why we’re going to be discussing this inside the Iron Council, our exclusive brotherhood, for the month of May. Civilized behavior serves its purpose but too many of us have locked away our wild nature and thrown away the key. This month will be all about rediscovering who we are as men and why it’s critically important to tapping into our primal roots. You’ll band with a Battle Team of 14 other men, be challenged to take on some new adventures and risks and be held to task in accomplishing worthy objectives in your life. If you want to learn more, join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
4/23/20191 hour, 22 minutes, 30 seconds
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Getting Over a Divorce or Break-Up | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Getting over a divorce or break-up is not an easy thing to do. If you've been with a woman for any amount of time, learning to let go and move on can pose some very real challenges. Today, I discuss three strategies to get over a divorce/break-up and make yourself a more capable man moving forward. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/19/201928 minutes, 53 seconds
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Unplugging from Work, Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, and Dealing with Incompetent People | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about leading from the front, communicating with co-workers, moving on from relationships, relocating to Maine, staying true to yourself, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
4/17/20191 hour, 12 minutes, 10 seconds
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Master Your Testosterone Levels | CHRISTOPHER WALKER

We all know that testosterone is one of the key hormones that drives much of our masculine behavior. What you may not know is that testosterone levels are trending downward for men of all ages. While those who see lower testosterone levels in themselves are racing towards testosterone replacement therapy, there are many natural ways to address T levels. Today, I am joined by Neuroscientist, Christopher Walker to talk about testosterone levels, the importance of micronutrients in your diet, the role of the thyroid and pituitary gland in regulating hormonal levels, training, supplementation, and how to master your testosterone levels. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How hormonal levels impact men The Law of Compensation Finding truth in the medical field Defining health Balancing fitness Indicators of health What to avoid when building testosterone Resources to test your micronutrients Balancing hormones Recovery Nutritional elements Carbohydrates Lifestyle elements CHRISTOPHER WALKER My guest today is Christopher Walker. He is a neuroscientist who has been independently studying health, fitness, and testosterone for over a decade. He is also the author of Master Your T which is the definitive guide to raising your testosterone levels naturally. He and I met years ago and I’ve been following his work and implementing his programs in my life ever since and I’ve seen drastic improvements in my health, fitness, and nutrition. He’s arguably one of the foremost authorities on how hormonal levels impact men and today he’s here to talk with us about exactly how that happens and how we can improve our T-levels naturally and safely. IRON COUNCIL Gents, let me hit the pause button here and introduce you to a resource that has proven to be one of the greatest tools men have incorporated in their lives to improve their health, relationships, business, and bank accounts. It’s called the Iron Council and it is a powerful tribe of 500 men all working together and holding each other accountable to audacious goals and powerful actions that have transformed their lives. The truth is, you could go at life alone but those men who find other men to band with go further, slip less, and accomplish more than those who don’t. So, if you’re ready to be pushed, challenged, held accountable, and accomplish more in every facet of your life, join us inside the Iron Council at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Show notes https://www.orderofman.com/212  
4/16/20191 hour, 16 minutes, 9 seconds
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Initiate the Boys or They'll Burn the Village Down | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

It’s extremely important that we initiate our boys into manhood. Today, I give you seven specific strategies and elements of an initiation that you can incorporate with the young men under your watch to help them develop into the man they’re meant to be. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
4/12/201937 minutes, 40 seconds
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Avoiding Burnout, Inspiring Yourself, and Balancing Satisfaction and Ambition | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about toxic relationships, encouraging curiosity in kids, mixing it up in the gym, motivating young athletes, creating healthy margin in life, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
4/10/20191 hour, 8 minutes, 32 seconds
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Make The Leap | TOMMY BAKER

Making a leap in any facet of your life whether it’s within a relationship, career, or anywhere in between is a challenging thing to do. The leaps, however, expose us to new growth and new opportunities that we do not open ourselves up to any other way. Today, I am joined by repeat guest, Tommy Baker, to talk about “the leap.” We discuss redefining risk, how to avoid overwhelm, strategies for giving yourself more clarity, eliminating noise, and tactics you can use for making the leap. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Making the leap in any area of life Seeking new opportunity How to overcome hurdles Why men struggle Taking the direct path The messy work of clarity Separating from toxic people Stepping into discomfort The common ingredients of growth The pain of “untapped potential” How to work toward making the leap Taking non-emotional inventory TOMMY BAKER Gentlemen, I am honored to introduce you to my friend and repeat guest, Tommy Baker. Tommy is one of the most positive people I know and when he sent me a copy of his latest book, The Leap of Your Life, I knew I wanted to get him back on the podcast for round two. He is a fitness and life coach and the founder of The Resist Average Academy podcast where he is teaching people across the planet to take control of their lives and overcome the hurdles and barriers that have been keeping them back. You’ll hear it in his voice that his positivity and energy is infectious and this conversation is packed with useful information, especially if you’re ready to make a big leap in your life that could lead to amazing results. IRON COUNCIL This morning as I was walking around in my yard, I noticed several weeds in my grass that actually looked like grass. But they weren’t, they were weeds attempting to infiltrate my yard. So, I did what any good steward over his yard would do. I picked them from the ground and threw them away. I share this with you because life is often very much the same way. And, like the weeds I picked this morning, it is critical we learn to recognize and remove any weeds from our life. But equally important is then replacing that void with what we actually want to grow. And, that’s where our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council comes in. We’ve created an environment designed to shape and grow men. We work collectively to hold each other to the highest possible standards and accomplish big things in our lives. And, when you band with us, you know that you are tapping into a band of brothers that will foster the powerful changes you want to see in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Show notes: https://www.orderofman.com/213  
4/9/20191 hour, 8 minutes, 43 seconds
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Adapt and Overcome | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

The battle to reclaim and restore masculinity is a battle within ourselves. To win, we must constantly navigate the world around us. Today, I talk with you about anticipating life’s changes and the framework to overcome the unexpected. Instagram Twitter Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Visit the Order of Man store In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review.
4/5/201924 minutes, 54 seconds
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Setting Your Own Standards, Broadening Your Perspective, and the Benefits of Responsibility | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about leveling the competitive playing field, holding yourself to the highest standards, the antithesis of manliness, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.
4/3/20191 hour, 19 minutes, 26 seconds
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Return to Masculinity | ELLIOTT HULSE

With regards to being a man, it seems to me that society has watered down and diluted the definition of masculinity. And, although we may not consciously realize it, the shift from "capable man" - strong, bold, courageous, and proficient - to something else entirely has impacted the way we show up in our lives. Today, I am joined by the one and only Elliott Hulse to talk about that societal shift and how they've influenced our thoughts and actions. We talk about why boys and men need to be initiated, the importance of the Patriarchy, how hierarchies serve men effectively, and why we need to return to masculinity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why boys and men must be initiated The critical component of any masculine initiation How to spot pseudo initiations How men work best together compared to women How to increase your sexual power Why your old self must die How men can "atone to their fathers" The importance of the Patriarchy in society How to destroy your inner beta The challenges of public education for boys and men Why a man needs to heal his "inner feminine" Developing patterns for success as a man How hierarchies serve men effectively How to develop the mature masculine Why men have inappropriate relationships with their women ELLIOTT HULSE Today I am joined by a man I know a lot of you follow, Mr. Elliot Hulse. I've been following Elliott for some time now and after dozens and dozens of requests to get him on the podcast, I reached out and made it happen. Elliott is a strength and conditioning coach and built up much of his reputation by teaching others how to develop physical strength. But his idea of strength goes so much deeper than that and covers not only physical but mental and emotional as well. Lately, he's been talking a lot about the demise of masculinity and how we, as men, can reclaim and become more masculine and how it would serve us well to do it. I knew this one would be interesting and unique to what we've done in the past. I think you're going to enjoy it and get a lot from our conversation which, based on how it went, will be one of many more conversations. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/211  Website: https://orderofman.com 
4/2/201959 minutes, 44 seconds
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Destroy Your "Money Demons" | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Each of us has our own scripts we tell ourselves about money. And, the scripts (both negative and positive) determine how we act with regard to our wealth. Today I talk about how to destroy the limiting beliefs about money that are keeping you back. Instagram Twitter Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Visit the Order of Man store In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review!
3/29/201922 minutes, 27 seconds
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Developing Patience, Pushing Outside Comfort Zones, and Embracing Change | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss how to develop more patience, push outside of our comfort zones, build frameworks for success, and embrace change... Join us in our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Enter to win a brand new Hoyt Helix bow Please leave us an iTunes rating and review
3/27/20191 hour, 16 minutes, 9 seconds
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Biohack Your Way to Health | BEN GREENFIELD

Making yourself healthy is one of the absolute best things that you can do for yourself and those you're working to serve. It's too bad that most of the information and the way we choose to live our lives is stacked against us. My guest today, the one and only Ben Greenfield, joins me for round two on the podcast to talk about how to take back control of our health and use it as fuel to excel in our lives. We cover the fundamentals but we also get into some fringe and not-so-common ideas like utilizing infrared therapy to reduce inflammation, the distinction between medicines and drugs, markers to improve circadian rhythm, and, ultimately, how to biohack your way to health. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Healthy travel hacks How infrared therapy improves testosterone and inflammation levels 3 markers to improve your circadian rhythm How the use of psychedelics can improve your health and performance The critical importance of sleep when traveling The concept of "unschooling" as a medium for raising children When biohacking isn't the right approach The benefits of intermittent fasting The difference between drugs and medicines Specific strategies that replicate the benefits of psychedelics The importance of introducing variables into your training Optimal lifting routines for developing muscle growth Introduction to the carnivore diet The effect on your health of timing your meals correctly BEN GREENFIELD Gentlemen, once again, I have the opportunity to introduce you to a friend of mine, Mr. Ben Greenfield. A lot of you do not need an introduction to who this man is but for those of you who may not be familiar with him, he is one of the world's leading experts on the subject of health, fitness, nutrition, and all things bio-hacking. And, he's probably one of the most fascinating people I've had the opportunity of getting to know over the past several years. He's got a master's degree in physiology and biomechanics and has lept into the fitness world, testing new medical and health theories and pushing himself as hard as just about any other human I've met. He's trained with Navy SEALs, professional sports teams, and completed some of the most elite obstacle course races in the world. And, today, he joins us to talk about the power of biohacking your way to health. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/210  Website: https://orderofman.com 
3/26/201957 minutes, 22 seconds
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Reject Mediocrity, Embrace Excellence | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Unfortunately, too many men have embraced mediocrity in every facet of their lives. Maybe you have too. Today, I talk with you about why we must learn to reject and despise mediocrity 5 steps to embracing excellence... I hope you found value in the podcast. Make sure to connect with me here: Instagram Twitter Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Visit the Order of Man store In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review!
3/22/201930 minutes, 35 seconds
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Overcoming Past Mistakes, the Power of Words, and Getting Your Wife on Board | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about how a man can overcome his past mistakes, the power of words and language, how to get his wife on board with new projects/business ventures, and so much more... Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/20/20191 hour, 14 minutes, 45 seconds
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How to Invest, the Right Way | DR. DANIEL CROSBY

If building wealth was simply about math, we'd all be independently wealthy because we all know how to add and subtract. Seeing as how we're not all independently wealthy, there must be something else at play. And, it might surprise you to know that it's you that has the potential to become your own worst enemy. Today, I'm joined by repeat guest, Dr. Daniel Crosby to talk about human psychology and why it hinders your ability to build the level of wealth you're after. We cover how your behavior dictates investing success, how our physiology and psychology work against us, how a "contrarian mindset" will help us succeed, and how to invest - the right way.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How behavior dictates investing success 3 traits all investment strategies must posses How a contrarian mindset could improve your investment portfolio How to balance logic and emotion in investing How financial markets help you keep score in your life Why overestimating our abilities hinders performance How good behavior can be expensive but necessary The power of a financial coach How "hedonic adaptation" keeps us from being happy with more money How "action bias" hurts our portfolios How our social nature has created incredible amounts of wealth How our physiology and psychology can work against us How noise and chaos is our enemy and how to tune it out The need to overcome arrogance and ego in investing Why "rule-based behavioral investing" is so powerful   DR. DANIEL CROSBY Today I am joined by repeat guest, Dr. Daniel Crosby. He is a trained psychologist, behavioral finance expert, and asset manager. Specifically, he studies market psychology to understand the nature of why we do what we do and how it impacts our ability to invest successfully in financial markets. He is a New York Times Bestselling Author and his ideas have made him a critical voice and expert in the financial community. As a former financial advisor myself, I've been connected with Dr. Crosby for years and have applied many of his ideas and teachings into my previous financial practice. He brings a unique and refreshing perspective to building wealth and one that has the potential to help you finally invest successfully.   Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/209  Website: https://orderofman.com 
3/19/20191 hour, 1 minute
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10 Tips to Crush Your Career | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Your ability to excel in your career lies at the core of what it means to be a man - a provider. And, yet, career excellence remains so elusive for so many men. Here are 10 tips for crushing your career... Know the expectations Communicate effectively Know your actual customer Help others win Stay out of the mud Elevate yourself Network effectively Know that loyalty has limits Solve problems Find meaning and significance Hope you found value in the podcast. Make sure to connect with me here: Instagram Twitter Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Visit the Order of Man store In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review!
3/15/201940 minutes, 3 seconds
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Fostering a Competitive Spirit, Fulfillment over Happiness, and Nightly Routines | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about the pursuit of meaning, fulfillment over happiness, nightly routines, fostering a competitive spirt, and so much more… Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/13/20191 hour, 22 minutes, 33 seconds
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Politically Incorrect | CHAD PRATHER

If you're anything like me, you're fed up with the noise and nonsense we see in mainstream and social media. It seems that everywhere we turn and with everything we say, people are looking for reasons to be upset and/or offended. My guest today does not allow that to back him down or dictate the conversations he wants to have on some very important subjects everyone else is too afraid to talk about, from sexual orientation, religion, masculinity, politics and just about every other topic we're "not supposed to talk about." His name is Chad Prather and, today, we talk about our responsibility to speak up, calling boys into manhood, the rise of the victim culture, and the power of being politically incorrect. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The power of political incorrectness Our responsibility to speak up How to become a more effective communicator The rise of the "victim culture" The delusion of social media Overcoming the vocal minority The danger of identity politics Calling boys into manhood Losing the ability to connect face-to-face Learning to be satisfied but not content The power of storytelling Re-orienting a generation of weak people Developing a vision Taking risks Fostering courage and confidence CHAD PRATHER My guest today is a man that won't need an introduction for a lot of you. His name is Chad Prather and you may know him as the political cowboy. But just in case you don't already know, Chad is a comedian and a political commentator willing to discuss (and have some fun with) some of the most polarizing topics in society today. He's been entertaining people on TV as early at 6 years old and hasn't let up since. He's been featured on Fox New, A&E, CNN, MSN, and The Blaze. In fact, he's everywhere. So much so that I can list all the things he's up to. That said, I'm excited to have had the chance to sit down and talk with someone who I admire for not only his perspective and his interesting approach to sharing it but his willingness to do so in an environment that seems to be increasingly wanting to shut down these types of conversations. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/208  Website: https://orderofman.com 
3/12/20191 hour, 2 minutes, 45 seconds
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Let Your Excuses Expire | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

As humans, we have an incredible ability to deflect and shift blame - sometimes relying on excuses that are decades old. Today, I talk about why, if you want to achieve what you're capable of, you have to let your excuses expire. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Visit the Order of Man store In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review!
3/8/201919 minutes, 38 seconds
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Exceeding the Call of Duty, Liberation from Social Media, and Difficult Conversations with Children| ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about how to exceed the call of duty, liberate yourself from social media, bringing up difficult conversations, what it means to love, and so much more... Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store
3/6/20191 hour, 12 minutes, 17 seconds
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Minimize Your Digital Use, Maximize Your Life | CAL NEWPORT

There is no question that we are increasingly committing ourselves to digital use. The fact is that our use of digital technology has presented us with some opportunities never before available in the history of mankind. But that doesn't mean it doesn't pose a very serious threat to our sanity and well-being. Today, I talk with repeat guest, Cal Newport, to talk about some of those threats and, more importantly, how we harness the power of digital technology while minimizing the risk that inherently comes with it. We talk about the philosophy of digital minimalism, why you ought to consider a "digital de-clutter," how to keep from losing control to technology, and how to minimize digital use while maximizing your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What is digital minimalism How to develop a philosophy of technology use How to incorporate a digital de-clutter Why you should place priority on long-term meaning over short-term satisfaction How we lose control to technology Why technology is not neutral Why clutter is costly How to develop a personal technology process How we're beginning to see mental health issues associated with technology use Strategies for overcoming digital addiction How tech. companies capitalize on the "attention economy" Why social approval is so compelling, even if we know the dangers Why real-world interaction is so much more powerful than digital interaction Why every man needs to strategize his free time How to utilize the idea of "slow media" in your life CAL NEWPORT Gentlemen, today I have the honor of introducing you to my friend and repeat guest, Mr. Cal Newport. Cal is an MIT graduate and a professor of computer science at Georgetown University and, in addition to that, he is extremely interested in the intersection of technology and society. I know many of you have read his books, including, So Good They Can't Ignore you, Deep Work, and his latest New York Times Bestseller, Digital Minimalism. I've been fascinated with his work since I first read, So Good They Can't Ignore you. In fact, many of his theories and ideas have been used in my life to build this movement, Order of Man. I'm not sure I would have had so much success with the organization without incorporating some of his ideas, including the ones he'll be sharing with us today. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/207  Website: https://orderofman.com 
3/5/20191 hour, 14 minutes
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Courage, Competence, Confidence | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Confidence is something a lot of men struggle with. Unfortunately, it's also something a lot of men believe you either have or you don't. That just isn't the case. As with any skill, it can be developed through intentional action. Here are ten steps to foster more confidence: Have a deep, emotionally charged vision for your life Be very specific on what you want to accomplish and why Tie that to small, actionable steps you can take daily Surround yourself with those who are achieving what you want to achieve Familiarize yourself with your fear in controlled environments Develop and build upon small wins Find people who will hold you accountable Don’t make excuses – call your fear for it for what it is Redefine Failure Weigh the Cost Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Visit the Order of Man store In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review!
3/1/201932 minutes, 19 seconds
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Building a Band of Brothers, Critical Survival Skills, and Fitness for a Busy Schedule | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss why you need to build a band of brothers, survival skills all men must know, maintaining fitness with a busy schedule, and so much more... Check out our latest course, Podcast Pro (we start on March 1st, 2018) Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Attend our next father/son experience, Legacy
2/27/20191 hour, 16 minutes, 12 seconds
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Pay Your Dues | SAL FRISELLA

Every single one of us has to start somewhere. When we look at the guys at the top, however, it's easy for us to jump to the conclusion that they've always been there. What we fail to see is the years of toil, effort, and struggle that those men at the top endured along the way. Today, I am joined by Sal Frisella, who does a little bit of everything at 1stPhorm from running the organization to sweeping the floors. Today, he's here to talk with us about where he started, how he had to restart along the way, playing the long-game, how to create a culture of winning, and why everyone needs to pay their dues. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why not everyone is designed to lead How to build people of character How to create an incredible culture How to enforce an organization's core values The importance of accountability at every level of an organization How to be more direct with people The power of "tough love" When it's okay to be selfish Focusing on the long-game over the short-game Why we all need to pay our dues How physical fitness makes you a more effective leader Getting better at saying, 'no' Fully stepping into our obligations Why everyone needs a dream How the mantra, "right foot, left foot" will help you win Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/206  Website: https://orderofman.com 
2/26/20191 hour, 9 minutes
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Bread and Circuses | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

It's so easy to be distracted with things that don't matter. Unfortunately, social media companies and media conglomerates are hoping that you are. And, not only that, they're banking on their ability keep you distracted with cheap thrills and tactics. This is how you combat it: Curate your content Unplug from distractions Prioritize and execute Wait 48 hours to respond Hear both sides of an argument Don't argue with idiots Pick your battles Understand motives Keep your eye on the prize Educate yourself Check out our latest course, Podcast Pro (we start on March 1st, 2018) Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Attend our next father/son experience, Legacy In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review!
2/22/201928 minutes, 53 seconds
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Rewrite Limiting Scripts, Become More Decisive, Time Management Strategies | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about how to rewrite limiting scripts, teaching children how to be deep thinkers, time management strategies, becoming more decisive, and so much more... Check out our latest course, Podcast Pro (we start on March 1st, 2018) Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Attend our next father/son experience, Legacy In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review!
2/20/20191 hour, 32 minutes, 34 seconds
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No Risk, No Reward | TREVOR THOMPSON

Risk is something everyone is exposed to whether you're simply driving to work or jumping out of airplanes and off rocks, like my guest, Trevor Thompson does. And, with as much exposure to risk and the inherent dangers that come with it we expose ourselves to, you'd think we'd spend more time considering the risks we're taking and how to mitigate more of it. Today, we talk about objectively evaluating readiness, learning to respect dangerous activities, how to increase and improve focus in risky situations, and how to limit risk and maximize reward. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What it means to be an "experience junkie" Why focus is crucial to your success How to face your fear when you're taking big risks How to into extreme sports How to mitigate risk but still enjoy risky activities Learning to respect dangerous activities How habituating decisions causes unforeseen risk How to objectively evaluate your readiness Why mentors and coaches are crucial How the concept of "time dilation" affects your performance What skills do and don't cross over into extreme activities Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/205  Website: https://orderofman.com 
2/19/201948 minutes, 8 seconds
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The Rules of Wealth | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

The rules of wealth are simple. They're not always easy to follow but they are simple. And, once you know what they are, you're much more likely to build massive amounts of wealth in your life. Today, I walk you through 12 of them. Know your "wealth purpose" Don't villainize money Track everything you make and spend Save/invest 20% of your income Don't get into debt Hire professionals/don't take advice from broke people Diversify your portfolio Hedge your bets and losses Invest in yourself Calculate the true cost of purchases Wait on impulse purchases Don't delegate the responsibility of your finances Check out our latest course, Podcast Pro (we start on March 1st, 2018) Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Attend our next father/son experience, Legacy In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review!
2/15/201943 minutes, 7 seconds
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Unscripted with the Mrs., Part II | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, I'm joined by my lovely wife for round two. We talk about effective communication, whether or not women like flowers, persevering through a separation, moving the family across the country, and respecting each other's boundaries. Check out our latest course, Podcast Pro (we start on March 1st, 2018) Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council Attend our next father/son experience, Legacy In the meantime, please leave us a rating and review!
2/13/20191 hour, 48 minutes, 11 seconds
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How to be Funny and Why You Should Care | KEITH YACKEY

No one ever accused me of being funny but that doesn't mean I don't see the value of humor and comedy in life and in society in general. Today, I'm joined by my good friend, Keith Yackey, who over the past couple of years has transitioned from the corporate stage to the comedy stage. Today we talk about why fear keeps us from doing great things, why we as a society need comedians, the power of instant feedback on our path to growth, and how to be funny and why you should care. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why fear keeps people from doing great things 5 key components to being great at presenting Why hiring a coach is critical to your success How to develop humor in your life even if you're not funny Why hope is the foundation of all progress How comedians are like scientists The power of recording your performances Why stand-up comedy is one of the hardest things on earth to do The incredible power of instant feedback Striking the balance between caring what people think and being yourself How to overcome the fear you experience in life How owning your mess-ups is the best approach to overcoming bombing Why we as a society allow comedians to cross PC lines Why we need to be careful not to fight for our excuses Why every man should incorporate humor into everyday life Decoding "likeability" KEITH YACKEY My guest today is my friend, Keith Yackey. He's been extremely successful in the corporate and event world, building an 8-figure investment firm in just two short years. But the reason I wanted to have him on the podcast is for his more recent endeavors, stand up comedy. It's something that has always been fascinating (and scary) to me so, to watching Keith go from, comedy newcomer to performing in some of the biggest comedy clubs in the world, has been incredible to watch. I hope you enjoy today's conversation with Keith as he shares with us how to become funnier and why it's so important. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/204  Website: https://orderofman.com 
2/12/20191 hour, 18 minutes, 4 seconds
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Raising Queens: 10 Strategies for Raising Daughters | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Raising daughters is no easy task. In part 2 of our "Raising" series, I share 10 strategies for raising them right. Teach them to be self-reliant Help them understand their self-worth is not tied to sex Model the ideal man Encourage kindness, compassion, and empathy Teach her to defend herself Help her use logic and reasoning in her decision-making process Encourage education Don't treat her like a victim Help her understand there is strength in femininity Teach her that life is not a fairytale and she is not a princess ORDER OF MAN LEGACY Please leave us an iTunes rating and review...  
2/8/201931 minutes, 50 seconds
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The Lost Art of Communication, Finding a Calling, The Meaning of Sports | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about the lost art of communication, how and why to find a calling, and the meaning and significance of sports. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
2/6/20191 hour, 26 minutes, 10 seconds
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Rise Above the Victim Mentality | TRAVIS MILLS

A couple months ago when I was out in Maine, I had the opportunity to sit down with an absolutely incredible man who went from lying nearly dead on the battlefield of Afghanistan to losing portions of both his arms and legs to now running an organization dedicated to serving and developing injured members of our military. His name is Travis Mills and today, he talks with us about choosing your attitude and approach towards life, maintaining composure in chaos, learning how to ask for and accept help, and how to rise above the victim mentality. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Choosing not to be a victim of your circumstances Choosing your attitude How to effectively lead from the front How to maintain composure in chaos How to keep from dwelling on the past Using your challenges to help others with theirs Learning to ask for and accept help Recognizing opportunities and big-picture thinking How to keep yourself and your ego in check Being able to adapt when life throws you a curveball Striking the balance between being satisfied and wanting to grow How to focus on the things you can control TRAVIS MILLS My guest today is an absolutely incredible and inspiring man. His name is Travis Mills and he is a retired United States Army Staff Sergeant with the 82nd Airborne Division. He's also one of only 5 quadruple amputees from the wars in Iraq in Afghanistan to survive his injuries. But more than simply survive, Travis is thriving in life with his beautiful family, multiple successful businesses, and the Travis Mills Foundation in Maine. He is a New York Times Bestselling author, a motivational speaker, an actor, and an advocate for both amputees and veterans. Today, he's here to talk with us about his life-changing injuries and how he's overcome extreme adversity to serve himself, his family, and those who have gone through similar experiences as him. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/203  Website: https://orderofman.com 
2/5/20191 hour, 13 minutes, 5 seconds
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Raising Kings: 10 Strategies for Shaping Boys Into Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

It's no surprise to you that our sons are slipping behind on just about every relevant metric available. Let me share with you 10 strategies for molding our boys into the men they're capable of becoming. ORDER OF MAN LEGACY Please leave us an iTunes rating and review...  
2/1/201931 minutes, 27 seconds
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Managing Expectations, Overcoming an Inferiority Complex, and Eliminating Cover Contracts | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp and I discuss why men need to manage expectations, how to overcome an inferiority complex, why we need to eliminate "cover contracts," and much more. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
1/30/20191 hour, 26 minutes, 14 seconds
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Become the Hunter | DONNIE VINCENT

As many of you know, I have begun to immerse myself more deeply in the world of hunting. I've always been fascinated with the life and mindset of a hunter but never grew up being too exposed to it. Now that I am, my mind has been opened to what it truly means to be not only a hunter but a conservationist as well. Today, I am joined by a man I have been watching for a long time, Mr. Donnie Vincent. He is a film-maker, a conservationist, a hunter, and one of the most trusted voices when it comes to the symbiotic relationship between the hunter and the hunted. We talk about we have not evolved out of hunting, how ignorance around hunting is hurting all of us, how to become better stewards over our resources, and how to become the hunter. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why we should pursue our passions How to become a good steward over our resources The problems with factory farming Why we have not evolved out of hunting Why we need to give back to nature The relationship between the hunter and the hunted The seriousness and gravity of the role of a hunter How ignorance around hunting is hurting all of us How to rectify the odds between hunting and conservation The symbiotic relationship between everything Why we owe it to the animal to become the best hunter possible Why we should not pick sides as a hunter or non-hunter How we can better self-regulate The power of asking serious questions about food sustainability Why education is the core of conversationism DONNIE VINCENT My guest today is Donnie Vincent and he is someone I deeply admire and respect regarding his work with the wilderness. This is a man who has truly immersed himself in the connection with nature and is one of the leading voices and champions of sustainable and ethical hunting. He is a biologist, hunter, explorer, conservationist, sportsman, and filmmaker. But one of his most powerful pursuits from my perspective is that of "storyteller." Donnie creates amazing films documenting his journey into the wilderness, his connection with nature, and the hunts he pursues. If you've ever considered hunting (or already are), following Donnie should be an absolute requirement. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/202  Website: https://orderofman.com 
1/29/20191 hour, 19 minutes, 9 seconds
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An Attack on Masculinity?

Is there an attack on masculinity? Today, I answer that question, address the notion of "toxic masculinity," explain the origins of the demise of masculinity, and share 10 strategies for re-introducing masculinity and manliness to a society that needs it now more than ever. ORDER OF MAN LEGACY Please leave us an iTunes rating and review...  
1/25/201943 minutes, 35 seconds
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5 Skills to Teach Young Men, Man's Search for Meaning, and Reclaiming Your Sovereignty | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp and I discuss 5 skills to teach young men, the book, Man's Search for Meaning, how to reclaim your sovereignty, and so much more. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
1/23/20191 hour, 4 minutes, 5 seconds
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DAVID GOGGINS | Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds

The mind is a powerful thing. It can be used as a tremendous source of good or a tremendous source of destruction in your life. The way you choose to train and use it could, quite literally, be the only thing keeping you from accomplishing your greatest ambitions. Today, I am joined by former Navy SEAL, ultrarunner, endurance athlete, wildland firefighter, and all-around badass, David Goggins. We talk about starring down adversity, using challenges as the fuel to propel yourself forward, the sacrifices you'll need to make to be successful, race issues and political correctness in America, and how you can master your mind and defy the odds. DAVID GOGGINS The man I have the privilege of introducing you to today, David Goggins, truly needs to no introduction. Suffice it to say, David is one of the most insane human beings on the planet and someone I have respected and extremely inspired by over the past couple of years. We've all watched his videos and most of us have read or listened to his latest book but having the opportunity to sit down face to face with him only increased my level of respect for what David has gone through, the odds he's overcome, and the incredible work he's been able to accomplish despite those odds being stacked against him. Gentlemen, set this one on repeat as David and I have one of the most powerful conversations I've ever been part of. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/201  Website: https://orderofman.com 
1/22/20191 hour, 37 minutes
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Plant Your Feet and Square Your Shoulders to the Enemy | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

"Be brave, my heart. Plant your feet and square your shoulders to the enemy. Meet him among the man-killing spears. Hold your ground. In victory, do not brag; in defeat, do not weep." Archilochus ORDER OF MAN LEGACY www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
1/18/201928 minutes, 55 seconds
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Strategy Vs. Execution, Dealing with a Bad Boss, and Not Making Yourself the Victim | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp and I talk about striking the balance between strategy and execution, dealing with a bad boss, not making yourself into a victim, transitioning battle plans, and so much more. Order of Man
1/16/20191 hour, 23 minutes, 11 seconds
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TJ DILLASHAW | The Fighter's Mindset

If you follow the UFC at all, you know exactly who my guest today is. His name is TJ Dillashaw and he is the current UFC Bantamweight Champion and is fighting this weekend for the UFC Flyweight Championship. Today, we talk about what it means to fight for a living, where loyalties should lie, how to optimize all factors of your health, and how to develop the fighter's mindset. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What it means to have the fighter's mindset How to develop and maintain discipline Where loyalties should lie How to develop deep relationships with coaches How to optimize health and fitness Striking balance between professional and personal matters How pride can help you thrive How to strike the balance between pride and arrogance How to deal with and overcome losses What it means to be a great coach and teacher What drives fighters to do what they do for a living How locking in your health maximized every aspect of your life How to live with extreme passion TJ DILLASHAW Gentlemen, I can't even begin to describe how excited I am to introduce my guest today, UFC Bantamweight Champion, TJ Dillashaw. I reached out to TJ a couple weeks ago and received a last-minute message from him while I was on a hunt that he had one day to have a conversation before he left for fight week leading up to his championship fight for the UFC Flyweight Belt this weekend. I've been following TJ for years and he's one of my favorite fighters because of the passion and level of discipline he possesses. Which, is likely why he's been so successful as a fighter. In fact, he's arguably one of the best pound-for-pound fighters in the UFC. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/200  Website: https://orderofman.com 
1/15/201949 minutes, 44 seconds
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How to Build a Profitable Online Business | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Building a profitable online business is likely something a lot of you have thought about. Frankly speaking, launching and growing Order of Man has been a very rewarding experience, mentally, emotionally, and financially. Today, I want to pull back the curtain on how you too can build a profitable online business you're proud of. We cover these 12 steps: Craft Your Message Identify Your Audience Solidify Your Conviction Know Your Tribe Go Where They Are Position Yourself as the Leader Expand Your Reach Connect with the Players Offer Solutions Build a Product Package the Sale Repeat the Process TRIBE BUILDER COURSE www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
1/11/201946 minutes, 18 seconds
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Books Every Man Should Read, Masculine Skill Sets, and Solving Your Own Problems | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen takes this one solo and talks about books every man should own in his library, masculine skill sets to pass on to children, and solving your own problems. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
1/9/20191 hour, 11 minutes, 43 seconds
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How to Become a Millionaire | CHRIS HOGAN

Finance isn't something a whole lot of people enjoy talking about but if you want to achieve success in your life and truly become the man you're capable of becoming, learning how to manage the little green pieces of paper we call money is crucial. Today, I am joined by personal finance expert, Chris Hogan, to talk about the principles he lays out in his new book, Everyday Millionaires. We cover some of the common myths about millionaires, ordinary tools you can use to build wealth, 5 key attributes wealthy people share, and how you too can become an everyday millionaire. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Common myths about millionaires How to achieve the American Dream Financial myths and formula for overcoming them Ordinary tools you can use to build wealth Why financial options equal power Why so many people have outsourced financial responsibility How to overcome destructive natural financial tendencies How to eliminate the victim mindset around money How to give yourself a "permission slip" to succeed How to develop great financial habits Setting up the right kind of financial goals 5 key attributes wealthy people share Specific strategies to set you on the path to financial abundance CHRIS HOGAN Gentlemen, I can't tell you how excited I am to introduce you to my guest, Chris Hogan. Many of you follow Dave Ramsey so you're already familiar with Chris as he works closely with Dave and as a regular contributor to the EntreLeadership podcast. He also hosts his own podcast, The Chris Hogan Show where he talks about the very financial principles and success strategies he's going to share with us today. He's a best-selling author, a personal finance expert, a former All-American football player. He uses all of that knowledge and experience to help families across the nation set themselves up right for retirement. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/199 Website: https://orderofman.com 
1/8/201957 minutes, 22 seconds
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The Triple Threat of Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

“The superior man is he who develops, in harmonious proportions, his moral, intellectual, and physical nature. This should be the end at which men of all classes should aim, and it is this only which constitutes real greatness.” - Douglas Jerrold. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
1/4/201921 minutes, 36 seconds
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Rebuilding Trust, Deep Networking, and Raising Boys and Girls | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about how to rebuild trust, how to build a deep network, and the differences and similarities between teaching boys and girls. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
1/2/20191 hour, 3 minutes, 34 seconds
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Lead Yourself Before Leading Others | LEIF BABIN

Most men are infatuated with leading others in some capacity. I get it, I believe the capacity and desire to lead is hardwired into our DNA. That said, too many men want to lead others without effectively leading themselves. Today, I am joined by former Navy SEAL and New York Times Bestselling Author, Leif Babin, to talk about recognizing excuses you craft for yourself, why brutally honest assessments are crucial, how to build "Leadership Capital" with others, and how to best lead yourself before leading others. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The power of expectations When leadership is taken too far Why leaders need to be aware of dichotomies The importance of detachment Where/how emotions come into play How those we lead are a reflection of ourselves Why having the team win is the most crucial element of leadership The value of the long game How faith plays a role in leadership Overcoming instant gratification How human nature may not be serving you Removing the urge to micro-manage How to best help your team to solve problems Why Failure is the best teacher How to recognize excuses you make for yourself Why brutally honest assessments are crucial How to develop leadership capital   LEIF BABIN My guest today is a man that likely needs no introduction, Leif Babin. Leif is a former Navy SEAL and platoon commander for Task Unit Bruiser. He is the recipient of the Silver Star, two Bronze Stars, and the Purple Heart. After retiring from the Navy after 13 years, he went on to co-found Echelon Front with Jocko Willink and became a Multi-New York Times Bestselling Author with his books, Extreme Ownership and, more recently, The Dichotomy of Leadership. He now serves as the President and Cheif Operating Officer for Echelon Front as they work to serve businesses around the globe and teach them how to more effectively lead from the front. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/198  Website: https://orderofman.com 
1/1/201948 minutes, 28 seconds
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Discipline is the Great Equalizer | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

You may not have been blessed with strength, smarts, good looks, wealth, or connections. But none of that matters. What matters is that you have 100% control over your level of discipline. And, discipline is the great equalizer. Please leave us a rating and review. Follow us on Instagram. www.orderofman.com
12/28/201829 minutes, 43 seconds
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Embracing Suffering, Free Masonry, and the Power of Rituals and Traditions | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about why it's critical we embrace suffering, our take on Free Masonry, the power of rituals and traditions, and how to overcome past regrets. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
12/26/20181 hour, 45 minutes, 16 seconds
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The Terminal List | JACK CARR

Gentlemen, I've got a bit of a different one lined up for you today as I have a conversation with the very first fictional author we've had on the podcast. His name is Jack Carr and he is the author of The Terminal List (which is an incredible book) and his upcoming book, True Believer. Jack is a former Navy SEAL turned fictional writer and today we discuss his transition from the military, the inspiration for his series of books, an inside look at the writing process, the amount of research goes into creating this type of work, and a whole lot more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Transitioning out of the military Why Jack left the SEALs Finding inspiration for writing An inside look at the writing process The level of research that goes into writing and how to do it How to network with those in the industry you're trying to break into Why Jack always wanted to be a writer How to effectively and profitably pursue a passion JACK CARR Guys, it's my pleasure to introduce you to a friend of mine, Jack Carr. You know how there are just certain people that you know when you meet them are going to be great friends? That's how I felt when Jack opened up his home to me and we had an incredibly powerful conversation (which you'll hear part of). He is a former task unit commander in the Navy SEALS with over 20 years of experience leading assault and sniper teams in Iraq and Afghanistan (that's part of the reason his book is so realistic). As I mentioned before, he left the SEALs and has since gone on to fulfill a second childhood dream, becoming an author. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/197  Website: https://orderofman.com 
12/24/20181 hour, 19 minutes, 22 seconds
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Craft and Execute the Perfect Battle Plan | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Most men are too consumed with the day-to-day minutiae to give themselves the margin needed to create a compelling vision and plan for the future. Today, I talk about how to create and execute a perfect plan for a better life moving forward. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
12/21/201834 minutes, 8 seconds
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No Apologies, "Task Stacking", and Being Friends with the Opposite Sex | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about offering fewer apologies to other people, how to incorporate the strategy of task stacking, whether or not men should be friends with the opposite sex, and so much more. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
12/19/20181 hour, 9 minutes, 20 seconds
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Archery 101 | JOHN DUDLEY

Over the past several months, it's likely that you've seen more archery and bow hunting pictures and topics from me. That's because, for the last year, I've really begun to immerse myself in becoming better bow hunter. That said, I've gotten so many requests and questions about archery that I thought it only made sense to bring the best person on I could think of to talk about it. His name is John Dudley and he is the founder of Nock On Archery. Today, we talk about what makes a natural archer, understanding the importance of eye dominance, why coaching is so critical, and the pros and cons of new technology. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Introduction to the School of Nock The pros and cons of social media Why humility in coaching is critical What Dudley means by "archery entertainment" Why every archer needs to learn to be more present How social media has opened up archery coaching Why Dudley has always wanted to coach, and why his team didn't always want him to What makes a natural archer Why every archer needs to work on physical fitness The importance of eye dominance in archery When technology takes away from the sport of archery How to create meaning and legacy through coaching How John's restraint is his strength JOHN DUDLEY My guest today is a repeat guest and someone who I know a lot of you are already familiar with. His name is John Dudley and he is the founder of Nock On Archery where he coaches archers and makes some of the best products on the market. He's coached guys like Joe Rogan, Andy Stumpf, Jocko Willink, and so many more, including me. Yes, this is a conversation centered around archery but I want you to listen closely because John and I go so much deeper than what type of bow you should buy and what your stance should look like. This is truly a podcast about not only becoming a better archer/bow hunter but a better man. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/196  Website: https://orderofman.com 
12/18/20181 hour, 18 minutes, 38 seconds
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When So-Called "Victims" Became the Victors | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

We've come to a very sad and quite pathetic point where the so-called "victims" dictate the tone of the conversation and direction of society. Today, I tell you why we all ought to reject the trend and what we, as men, should be doing instead. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
12/14/201839 minutes, 53 seconds
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A Father's Role, Appreciating the Grind, and Overcoming Past Regrets | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about the one thing every father must do, learning to appreciate the day-to-day grind, how to overcome past regrets, the power of "negative visualization," and so much more. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
12/12/20181 hour, 15 minutes, 47 seconds
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How Porn Erodes and Undermines Masculinity | J.K EMEZI

Pornography is something that all men have likely engaged in to some degree. What's fascinating is the debate that ensues whenever someone suggests that pornography is not good for men. My guest today, JK Emezi, makes the case for why we ought to engage in pornography and masturbating less, how to overcome the urge to participate in these activities, how the temptation is only likely to get work, and how porn erodes and undermines masculinity.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 3 reasons to quit porn How love, duty, and fear can help you quit watching porn How porn impacts sexual performance How to best overcome the urge to watch porn How the rise in robots and AI will only compound the problem How to develop new coping skills The biochemical imbalances of watching porn and masturbating The five-step process for overcoming pornography addiction Why self-imposed limitations are critical Testosterone's role in a man's life How to better utilize self-control How to achieve true sexual satisfaction Tips and activities for replacing the urge to engage in porn use The technology you can use to help overcome your addiction   J.K EMEZI My guest today is J.K Emezi. He is a Sex and Pornography Addiction Coach and has been for the last 9 years and he specializes in helping men overcome porn, masturbation, and other sexually compulsive disorders. This is a fascinating discussion with someone who is well qualified to address the sexual issues a lot of men deal with. He's written for our site before and one of his articles happens to be one of the most controversial of ours to date as he covers a topic that a lot of men aren't comfortable in discussing and one that remains very polarizing to a lot of men. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/195 Website: https://orderofman.com 
12/11/201856 minutes, 44 seconds
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Buy Windshield Wipers Before it Rains | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

David Gilmore said, "The real man gains renown by standing between his family and destruction, absorbing the blows of fate with equanimity." The question then remains, are you adequately prepared to stand in front of your family when the wolf comes knocking at the door? www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
12/7/201830 minutes, 47 seconds
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Dealing With a Negative Boss, Course Correcting Along the Way, Focusing on Strength and Weaknesses | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp and I talk about how to deal with a negative boss, getting back on track when you slip up, whether or not a man should focus on his strengths or weaknesses, and what it means to be a man. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
12/5/20181 hour, 6 minutes, 1 second
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Learning from the Great Ancients | SCOTT HAMBRICK

We all have access to the world's greatest minds, philosophies, experiments, and ideas. All it takes for us to tap into these is to crack open what my guest refers to as a Great Book, and unlock the lost thoughts, ideas, and secrets to a successful life. Today I am joined by Scott Hambrick, founder of Online Great Books, to talk about how best to tap into these great ancient works, how to extract the most value from them, where to start when learning about ancient literature and philosophy, the benefits of reading the classics, and what you can learn from the great ancients. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why we should all read the classics Harnessing technology to study the greats The depth of the western canon (Plato, Aristotle, Cicero, Socrates, etc.) The right way to study ancient literature The benefits of reading the classics The Socratic Method The correct way to hold a conversation around philosophy The three components of grammar: logic, rhetoric, and context Reading for comprehension Developing your B.S detector Who and what dictates a "great" book What is language The power of shared inquiry (AKA, curiosity) Understanding truth SCOTT HAMBRICK My guest today is Scott Hambrick, he is the founder of Online Great Books and a certified Starting Strength Coach. He's also an avid reader (which you'll hear from our conversation together) and a practitioner of the Socratic Method (which you'll hear him walk through with me during this conversation). Through his work with Online Great Books, Scott is working to reintroduce tens of thousands of men to the great books of the western world. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/194 Website: https://orderofman.com
12/4/201858 minutes, 15 seconds
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War on Weakness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

It's painfully obvious that men are becoming weaker both physically and mentally. A large part of it may have to do with the changing landscape of our day-to-day lives but that doesn't negate the need for strong men in an otherwise weak society. Today I talk about the ways we're becoming weaker, the antidote to weakness, and issue a challenge to join me in the War on Weakness. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
11/30/201829 minutes, 15 seconds
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What is Bravery, Can Ego be Positive, and How to Deal with a Bad Boss | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, we talk about what it means to be brave, how to keep going when you don't see the progress you'd like, whether or not ego can be used as a positive, overcoming the fear of success, and how to deal with a bad boss. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
11/28/20181 hour, 25 minutes, 9 seconds
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How to Build a Profitable Movement | BRIAN ROSE

I know a lot of men who listen to the podcast are interested in turning a simple idea into a movement much like we've created here at Order of Man. And, more than simply a movement, finding a way to turn that movement into a profitable career and source of income. My guest today, Brian Rose with London Real, has done exactly that by bringing together and discussing ideas with the most interesting people in the world. Today, Brian and I talk about crafting your own story, developing the "X-Factor," how to create a product ecosystem, and how to ultimately build a profitable movement. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to stop worrying about what other people say and think How to craft your own story How to adapt to change How to develop the x-factor How to overcome the fear that keeps most people back How to make maximum impact in the market How to find a mentor How to level up and evolve who you are How to effectively network to produce results How to monetize a message and market How to transform people How to develop a minimum viable product How to create a product ecosystem Why it's imperative you dissolve your ego Why you should be absolutely obsessed with constant improvement Why you need to change your relationship with money Learning to cope with physical and mental limitations BRIAN ROSE Gentlemen, I'm stoked to introduce you to my guest today, Mr. Brian Rose. He is the founder of London Real and a big source of inspiration and motivation for what we have created here with Order of Man. He is interviewing some of the most inspiring people on the planet like Jocko, Jordan Peterson, Grant Cardone, Dan Carlin, General McCrystal, and so many more. An MIT graduate and extremely successful in the banking and financial world, Brian left all that to pursue a dream of launching a global media company. And he's done just that. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/193 Website: https://orderofman.com
11/27/20181 hour, 12 minutes, 55 seconds
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My Gratitude For You and Vision for Order of Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

It would be remiss of me not to express my gratitude this weekend for you and the other blessings I've enjoyed this year. I also want to talk with you about some of the problems I see in society, who this movement is for, and my vision for the future of Order of Man. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
11/23/201841 minutes, 48 seconds
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The Power of Consistency, How to Create Your Own "Luck," and How to Improve Intimacy | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today we talk about how critical consistency is in achieving your goals, whether or not "luck exists and how to create more of it, and how to improve intimacy in your romantic relationships. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
11/21/20181 hour, 42 minutes, 49 seconds
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Man Up | BEDROS KEUILIAN

"Man up" is a term that is likely to trigger a lot of people in the world today. It's too bad because the term is so misunderstood by society and so powerful when there is a clear understanding of what it actually means. My guest today, Mr. Bedros Keuilian, talks with us about what that means and how to instill the meaning into our boys, how to lead yourself more effectively, assessing and analyzing risk, overcoming bad programming and each and every one of us can more effectively "man up" in our lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to lead yourself more effectively Understanding the power of your "why" How to heal yourself Why small commitments are more significant than the larger ones Why rites of passage are so important for young men The power of decisiveness How to develop clarity of vision How to build a high-performance team Making the "mind-muscle" connection Analyzing and assessing risks Overcoming bad programming Developing mental toughness The power of owning every situation Creating the blueprint for the type of man you want to be Becoming and raising a "Modern Day Knight" The difference between reasons and excuses BEDROS KEUILIAN Gentlemen, it is my pleasure to introduce you to our repeat guest, Bedros Keuilian. I was so blown away with his my first conversation with him and his story that I thought it only made sense to bring him back on considering he just released a new book called, Man Up: How to Cut the Bullshit and Kick Ass in Business (and in Life). Bedros is a serial entrepreneur, speaker, coach, and author and one of my favorite people to talk to because of his no-nonsense approach to life. I really think you're going to enjoy this episode because he tells it like it is and says the things most people are thinking but too afraid to say. Guys, get your notepads out and get ready to hear from a man who has come from nothing and turned his into an absolutely incredible life. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/192 Website: https://orderofman.com
11/20/201859 minutes, 33 seconds
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A Man and his Stewardship | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I talk about a man's responsibility to be a good steward over himself, his resources, and those he has an obligation for. Too many men today are living the antithesis of a good steward by shirking personal responsibility and accountability in their lives. I also break down 5 keys to being a great steward: - Produce More Than You Consume - Think Generationally - A Title is Not Necessary - Become a Sentinel - Operate From a Sense of Duty and Obligation www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
11/16/201828 minutes, 2 seconds
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Avoiding the Comparison Trap, Pushing Through Challenges, and Rebuilding Strained Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about keeping yourself out of the "comparison trap," pushing through change and challenges, and how to rebuild strained relationships. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
11/14/20181 hour, 18 minutes, 59 seconds
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Turning Tragedy into Triumph | SIDNEY SMITH

Every once in a while, you meet someone so special you know you need to connect more with that person. Today, I have the opportunity to share my conversation with one of those people, Sidney Smith. I met him briefly at a 5k then spent a couple hours hiking down a mountainside while shooting our bows at the Total Archery Challenge. That doesn't sound that special until you learn that Sid is a double amputee. and does his walking and running on prosthetic blades. We talk about overcoming fear, focusing on the positives of life, learning to appreciate what we have, getting used to pain, and turning tragedy into triumph. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to develop a growth mindset in the toughest circumstances The difference between being "disabled" and being "challenged" How to learn about who you really are Understanding that the greatest disability you could have is in your mind Overcoming the fear of uncertainty How to make extremely difficult decisions Learning to focus on the positives of life How not to take things in your life for granted The challenges that come with being a double amputee Overcoming how people treat those with disabilities The power of thinking big and giving yourself purpose Pushing past physical and mental pain Learning to cope with physical and mental limitations SIDNEY SMITH A couple of months ago, I had the opportunity to participate in the Total Archery Challenge in Northern Utah with my friends at MTN OPS. I met a lot of great people but I had the incredible opportunity to run the course with my guest today, Mr. Sidney Smith. I had only bumped into him one other time but as I spent 3 or so hours walking down a mountain with Sid, a double amputee, I was amazed and humbled at how this man shows up in his life. He's an avid bow hunter, a triathlete, and, as I mentioned before, he's a double amputee. But he doesn't let that keep him from living his life in a big way and inspiring others along the way to do the same. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/191 Website: https://orderofman.com
11/13/201842 minutes, 15 seconds
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Being a Good Man VS. Being Good at Being a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

There is a difference between simply being a good man and being good at being a man. Today, I talk about the differences and why it's critical we learn to embrace the performative excellence that comes with the active role of being good at being a man. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
11/9/201821 minutes, 26 seconds
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What is Honor, How to Get Noticed at Work, and Prioritizing Information with Application | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I answer questions regarding honor, character, and integrity, how to get noticed at work, instilling toughness in our children, how I am influenced by, and how to prioritize information with application These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!
11/7/20181 hour, 20 minutes, 1 second
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Max Out Your Life | ED MYLETT

10 years ago, I found myself listening to CDs from my guest while driving between financial advisory appointments. He had no idea how influential he would be in my life as I frustratingly attempted to build my first business. 10 years later, I have the privilege of having an incredibly powerful conversation with one of the most important people in my professional/business life, Mr. Ed Mylett. Today, we talk about over to overcome your greatest fears, the power of faith in your aspirations, how to unleash your greatest gifts and skills, and how to fully max out your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why it's critical you choose your words carefully How to overcome your greatest fears Why you need to know what's worth fighting for The power of faith in your aspirations How to "level up" your goals and objectives Developing a proper work/life balance Why your reputation with yourself is crucial How to develop unwavering self-esteem Finding the middle ground between giving and taking Differentiating between ego and pride How to tap into and unleash your unique gifts and skills How to attract high-profile people into your life The distinction between happiness and fulfillment How to walk the thin line between confidence and arrogance ED MYLETT Gentlemen, I can't even begin to describe how excited I am to be introducing you to my guest today, Mr. Ed Mylett. All of my conversations have been powerful but this one is a personal favorite of mine as Ed has had such a huge impact on my professional life. I started listening to him 10 years ago when I got back from Iraq and back then I had no idea I'd have the opportunity to talk with him on a podcast. Most of you know exactly who Ed is so I'll spare you the long introduction. But let's just say for now that Ed is an incredible entrepreneur, a powerful coach and mentor to some of the most successful people on the planet, and the host and founder of the Ed Mylett Podcast. Today, you're going to hear exactly why I look up to this man and why he's achieved the tremendous amount of success he has. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/190 Website: https://orderofman.com
11/6/201854 minutes, 35 seconds
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Become a Man of Value | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I talk about becoming a man of value, why it's critical we learn to add more than we take, and a three-step formula for making yourself more valuable to others. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
11/2/201824 minutes, 17 seconds
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Overcoming a Failed Relationship, Dismissing the term "Fragile Masculinity," and Reversing the Tide of Fatherless Homes | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about overcoming failed relationships, dismissing the term, "fragile masculinity," reversing the tide of fatherless homes, and so much more... These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com
10/31/20181 hour, 19 minutes, 15 seconds
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Stop Being So Nice | DR. AZIZ GAZIPURA

One of the most common challenges I see men face is their inability to overcome being too nice. Don't get me wrong, being nice is great but when it comes at the expense of your own well-being, it becomes a problem. Today, I am joined by psychologist, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, to talk about the pitfalls of being too nice. We cover the "guilt bubble" and how to get out of it, the costs of being overly nice, learning to speak up and develop healthy boundaries, and how to stop being so nice. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What does it mean to be "nice" How being overly nice is self-sabotaging What the "guilt bubble" is and how to get out of it The costs of being too nice How to liberate yourself How to establish healthy boundaries Learning to speak up Why being selfish is not always a bad thing How to choose and communicate your rules Strategies for improving your ability to say "no" How to care about others without jeopardizing yourself How to increase your discomfort tolerance How to "own your shadows" How to develop more assertiveness DR. AZIZ GAZIPURA Dr. Aziz is a clinical psychologist and one of the world's leading experts on social confidence. In 2011, Dr. Aziz started The Center For Social Confidence, which is dedicated to helping everyone break through their shyness and social anxiety. He has helped thousands of people all over the world increase their confidence. Through confidence coaching, audio and video programs, podcasts, a detailed blog, and intensive weekend workshops, Dr. Aziz lives out his mission: To help every person who is stuck in shyness liberate themselves to pursue the relationship, career, and life they have always dreamed of. Most recently, he wrote a book titled, Not Nice: Stop Pleasing People, Staying Silent, and Feeling Guilty, which is what he's here to talk with us about today. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/189 Website: https://orderofman.com
10/30/201852 minutes, 25 seconds
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Unscripted with the Mrs. | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, I'm joined by one of my favorite people on the planet, my wife, Mrs. Tricia Michler. Together we field questions from our Iron Council and Facebook members and cover everything from how we support each other, how to deal with the travel and demands of my business and raising a family, how to encourage your partner to improve themselves, managing finances, and so much more. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
10/26/20181 hour, 23 minutes
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The Myth of "Toxic Masculinity," Overcoming the Fear of Failure, and Addressing False Rape Accusations | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about some deeper and more serious issues than we've addressed in the past like the myth of "Toxic Masculinity," addressing false rape allegations, current trends in society that impact both men and women, and, on a not-so-serious note, whether Batman is a superhero or not. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com
10/24/20181 hour, 25 minutes, 53 seconds
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Hardening the Body and Mind | BOBBY MAXIMUS

Each and every one of us has a desire to strengthen our bodies and minds. Why is it then that so many men struggle when it comes to the training they know will improve every area of their lives? This is a question my guest, Bobby Maximus, has been answering for his training clients for years and helping them bridge the gap between where they are now and where they want to be. Today, we talk about the psychology of training, how to eliminate the excuses that creep in, why you should reframe "self-improvement" as "self-work," and how to harden the body and mind. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The psychology of training Developing a strong self-image Eliminate excuses How to train for life How to sift through the noise and garbage Reframing self-improvement as self-work How to build in accountability How to know if your why is strong enough Balancing internal and external growth How to eliminate your doubts What is "green dot therapy" 10 words that will ruin your life How to kill your self-governor Why you should document your progress BOBBY MAXIMUS I've been looking forward to introducing you to my guest, Bobby Maximus, for some time now. Bobby has been in the fitness and health industry for more than a decade and served as the General Manager, Training Director and Lead Seminar Instructor at Gym Jones. He was also named as Men's Health's 100 Fittest Men of All Time. In addition to that, he is a former police officer for the Toronto Police Service, a former UFC fighter, and holds a bachelor's degree in psychology, English, and education. Needless to say, this is a man who understands the body and mind in a way not many people do and I couldn't be more excited to talk with him about hardening and strengthening both. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/188 Website: https://orderofman.com
10/23/20181 hour, 1 minute
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Rise From the Ashes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Each and every one of us is likely to face catastrophic events and circumstances in our lives. We can retreat and wallow in our own self-pity or find a way to rise from the ashes. Here's a system for the latter. www.orderofman.com/FFN130 Please leave us a rating and review!
10/19/201819 minutes, 7 seconds
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Optimize Your Day, Develop Discipline, and Overcome Resistance | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about optimizing your day, developing and maintaining discipline, overcoming resistance, how to prioritize activities, and so much more. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com
10/17/20181 hour, 15 minutes, 48 seconds
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Living Life on Your Terms | JP Dinnell

It's not a surprise to you that there is so much noise and nonsense that attempts to engage our focus and keep us distracted from the things that truly matter. And, if you're one of the few men who has actually taken the time to identify what you really want, that doesn't necessarily make things any easier. Today, I am joined by former Navy SEAL and a lead instructor with Echelon Front, JP Dinnell. We talk about the importance of consistency towards your goals, why flexibility in training is critical, how to eliminate the things that keep your from meaning and significance, and living life on your terms. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The importance of consistency towards your goals Why discipline is a foundational principle of growth Why flexibility in training is critical How to own both problems and solutions How to drill down to the core reasoning of your work How to best honor the fallen and their sacrifices Transitioning out of the service 3 factors that break down a marriage Choosing to take the harder route How to overcome feelings of hate and hostility How to avoid making certain situations worse Why it's critical we model masculine behavior for our boys and girls JP DINNELL Guys, as you know, we've had just about the entire Echelon Front team on over the past month or so and I couldn't be more excited to introduce you to one of their lead instructors and my friend, JP Dinnell. He spent nearly a decade with the SEAL teams and served in three combat deployments, his most recent with Task Unit Bruiser in Ramadi under the command of Jocko Willink. There he served as point man, machine gunner and lead sniper for Delta Platoon opposite of Chris Kyle. Upon return from Iraq, helped rebuild and enhance the SEAL training programs into the highly effective programs they are today. Since then, he has become a lead instructor with Echelon Front helping leaders and communities enhance their organizations and companies. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/187 Website: https://orderofman.com
10/16/20181 hour, 5 minutes, 16 seconds
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Own Your Emotions, Do Not Allow Them To Own You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

It's likely in the not-so-distant-past you've allowed your emotions to get the better of you. It's easy to do so in the heat of the moment. We've all been there. Today, I share a very effective 5-step formula for owning your emotions more effectively. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!
10/12/201819 minutes, 12 seconds
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Making Amends for Past Wrongdoings, Should You Care What People Think of You, and the Importance of Friends | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about overcoming past wrongdoings, finding male friends, the difference between ego and pride, and whether or not we should care about what people think of us. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com
10/10/20181 hour, 17 minutes, 53 seconds
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Purpose, Passion, and Profit | EVAN HAFER

So many men believe that the terms purpose and profit are mutually exclusive - that for one to exist, the other can't. That just isn't the case. In fact, when you learn to align your purpose and passion with the ability to make a profit, you have a greater ability to impact the world in a positive way. Today, I am joined by the founder of Black Rifle Coffee Company, Evan Hafer, to talk about how he's managed to build such a successful business around what was simply a passion project. We talk about the power of utilizing new media for marketing, finding and speaking to your tribe, sacrificing ego on the altar of business, and how to align purpose, passion, and profit. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How Evan went from firearms to roasting How Black Rifle Coffee Company makes and utilizes viral videos Why interactive marketing is crucial to a business' success Evan's view on the competition Defining "great marketing" Discovering, developing, and speaking to your tribe Giving birth to a new you Identifying and letting go of false expectations Why you have to sacrifice your ego on the altar of business Why radical transparency is crucial How to effectively add people into your ecosystem Why businesses should be less concerned with political correctness How to recruit new employees effectively Why you need to differentiate between individuals and the company Finding and securing funding for your project EVAN HAFER My guest today is Evan Hafer and although you may not know his name, most of you listening are familiar with his company, Black Rifle Coffee Company. He is a former member of the Special Forces and between his multiple combat deployments, he spent time honing his firearm and roasting skills. When Evan left the service in 2015, he learned how to market and turn his second passion for roasting coffee into not only a fulltime business but a global coffee company that is recognized for their viral irreverent videos and marketing campaigns, and their incredible coffee. Now, I will be the first to tell you that I don't drink coffee myself but when given the chance to connect with Evan, I couldn't pass him up as he's clearly on to something when it comes to building a movement and working to employ our nation's veterans. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/186 Website: https://orderofman.com
10/9/201858 minutes, 10 seconds
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Live by a Code, or Die Without One

Every man should live by a code, an operating system by which we will live his life. Without one, it's easy to get lost in the moment and conduct ourselves in a way that's incongruent with the way we view who we are. Today, I talk about why a code is important, what should be included in your code, and how to write your own. www.orderofman.com/FFN128 Please leave us a rating and review!
10/5/201824 minutes, 25 seconds
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The Critical Difference Between Pride and Ego, Overcoming Toxic Relationships, and the Power of the Patriarch | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about how to leave a significant legacy, getting over toxic relationships, the law of attraction, the importance of a patriarch in a family, and our obligation to serve in the community. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com
10/3/20181 hour, 19 minutes, 23 seconds
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A More Complete Beast | JACK DONOVAN

What does it mean to be a complete beast? This is a question my guest, Jack Donovan, attempts to answer in his latest book, appropriately titled, A More Complete Beast. There is a reason the title is likely to resonate with you, as a man. Each of us understands that we are both man and beast. Today we cover so much about the subject of masculinity including why being a man has to be an intentional choice, the power of what he calls the "conquering eye," how to avoid becoming a victim of victims, and how each and every one of us can become a more complete beast. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What it means to become a more complete beast Why you have to make an intentional choice to be a man Why men are perceived as a threat to society Why you should challenge yourself as a man The four masculine tactical virtues - strength, courage, mastery, honor Why some people try to redefine words to fit their narrative The power of the "conquering eye" Why it's important to define an honor code for yourself Why you should care about some people's opinions Avoiding become the victims of the victims Sifting through the noise of others Why there is no honor in being a victim, only in overcoming it Why vulnerability is not as powerful as modern society would have you believe Why masculinity is not a mask JACK DONOVAN Gentlemen, my guest today is a man a lot of you are familiar with and someone I've had on the podcast before. His name is Jack Donovan and he is the author of several books on the subject of modernity and masculinity including The Way of Men, A Sky Without Eagles, Becoming a Barbarian, and his latest release, A More Complete Beast. As you may know, Jack is a fascinating man and probably one you wouldn't expect to hear on this podcast (in fact, I made a joke about Jack, a pagan, and myself, a Mormon, walking into an ax-throwing bar just after this interview). That said, his views on the subject of manliness and masculinity, although controversial, resonate with so many of us because they're spot on and refreshing in a time when more and more of society has a hard time even discussing what it means to be a man. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes   Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/185   Website: https://orderofman.com
10/2/20181 hour, 7 minutes, 17 seconds
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Leave Your Legacy | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Whether we realize it or not, every single one of us is leaving a legacy. We can do that by default or we can be intentional and deliberate about what we leave behind long after we're dead and gone. Today, I share a quick recap of our inaugural Legacy event, four strategies for leaving a stronger legacy, and three action items for you to complete in order for you to flush out the type of man you want to be remembered as. www.orderofman.com/FFN127 Please leave us a rating and review!
9/28/201826 minutes, 11 seconds
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Increasing Influence, Overcoming Overwhelm and Insecurity, and Filling Your Cup First | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and I talk influence and leadership, not wrapping up your identity in outside factors, overcoming overwhelm and insecurity, and so much more. These questions come from our Patreon Members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com
9/26/20181 hour, 9 minutes, 20 seconds
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Set Yourself Free | PETE ROBERTS

Everyone once in a while you have the opportunity to sit down and talk with someone like you've known them for years. Although me and my guest today, Pete Roberts, have only known each other for six months or so, we share some core values when it comes to the way we approach our life, our business, and our responsibilities as men. Today we talk about how arrogance is hurting men, how to instill discipline in your children, the importance of self-checking yourself, and how to set yourself free. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The real deal with being an introvert/extrovert How Jiu-Jitsu translates into life Why you aren't as good as you think you are How your arrogance is hurting you The cycle of hardship and how it creates stronger men The American Dream and how to bring it back How to instill discipline into your children Why brute strength isn't always your ally How to keep kids from going soft The power of "tribalism" and conformity How to create a powerful culture Delegating roles and responsibilities How to effectively use the Pareto principle to produce more How you can tell a lot about people through who associates with them How Decentralized Command can help you win in business in life How to remove your emotions from the equation The importance of self-checking yourself Why you need to get rid of stuff in your life PETE ROBERTS My guest today is friend and founder of Origin Maine, Pete Roberts. I was fortunate enough to join him at his Jiu-Jitsu Immersion Camp a couple weeks ago and, while there, had an opportunity to sit down with him for an off-the-cuff interview about family, business, and life. This is a man who I really admire and respect not only for his business acumen but the purpose and reasoning behind what he's doing for his family, his employees, and his community. You've heard me talk about Origin for months. Now you get to meet the man behind the vision and his talk on business and the world. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/184 Website: https://orderofman.com
9/25/20181 hour, 32 minutes, 35 seconds
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10 Ways to Win With Your Kids | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

I can think of very few things as important as the role of fatherhood. Unfortunately, too many men are way too willing to step down from the mantle of fatherhood and into the lower tier of "buddy" or "bro." Today, I share 10 strategies for ensuring you succeed as a father which ultimately means your kids succeed as adults. www.orderofman.com/FFN126 Please leave us a rating and review!
9/21/201824 minutes, 57 seconds
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Taking Risks, Bridging the Gap Between Science and Spirituality, and Instilling Discipline in Children| ASK ME ANYTHING

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about man's propensity to take risks, how to reconcile the gap between science and spirituality, and how to foster discipline in children without breaking their spirit. Patreon Members Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com
9/19/20181 hour, 19 minutes, 9 seconds
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Leadership Lessons Learned in Combat | Dave Berke

Becoming better leaders is something all of us are striving to become. And, there's no better place to learn how to be an effective leader than the battlefield of Ramadi, Iraq during one of the most dangerous times during the Iraq War. My guest today is Dave Berke, an instructor with Echelon Front and retired Marine Corps officer and fighter pilot. Today, we talk about taking those leadership lessons and applying them in civilian life, the importance of finding purposeful work, how to keep your children from going soft, delegating roles and responsibilities, and overcoming the obstacles of reality. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The importance of finding a purposeful mission Overcoming the obstacles of reality Understanding that there are no shortcuts in life How air combat differs from ground combat What is the "best of combat" How to combat loss How to create a meaningful life The purpose of warriors How to keep kids from going soft Why you should be careful of solving people's problems Setting realistic expectations for yourself and others Delegating roles and responsibilities When getting too close to your team hinders performance Why you need to understand that conflict is not a bad thing DAVE BERKE My guest today is Dave Berke. He is a retired Marine Corps officer, fighter pilot, and ground combat leader. He spent three years as an instructor at TOPGUN and later went on to support task unit bruiser on the ground in Ramadi. He's flown the F-16, F-18, F-22, and F-35 but gave that up to serve in multiple combat missions in some of the most dangerous cities in Iraq. He's since gone on to become a leadership instructor with Echelon Front on the subject of leadership, decision making, risk mitigation, and creating winning teams. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/183 Website: https://orderofman.com
9/18/20181 hour, 6 minutes, 6 seconds
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20 Tips to Winning With Your Wife | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

One of the most common challenges among men is the relationship with their wife. It's not really all that surprising. Anytime two people come together with their own set of experiences, perspectives, upbringing, cultures, and backgrounds, there's bound to struggle. Unfortunately, these differences lead to separation and divorce all too often. The union between a man and his wife is one of the most powerful relationships any man can strive to have which is why it must be fought for. Today, I share 20 strategies (plus 1 bonus strategy) for winning with your wife. www.orderofman.com/FFN125 Please leave us a rating and review!
9/14/201833 minutes, 58 seconds
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Creating a Rite of Passage, Becoming More Decisive, and Your One Objective as a Leader| ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, me and Kipp Sorensen cover how to become more decisive and still open ourselves up to new information, how to create effective rites of passages, establishing healthy boundaries, and your one key objective as a leader. Patreon Members Please leave us a rating and review! www.ordeorfman.com
9/12/20181 hour, 7 minutes, 32 seconds
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JOCKO WILLINK | The Dichotomy of Leadership

Extreme Ownership is a philosophy that has been coined by Navy SEALs, Jocko Willink and Leif Babin, and one that most of you listening are familiar with. But when does extreme ownership become too much? That's a question my guest, Jocko Willink, has answered in his new book, The Dichotomy of Leadership. Today, we explore that question, how to avoid taking things too far, how to overcome your own ego when you recognize it, how to strike the balance between caring for your team and placing the mission first, and so much more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to get into Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu How Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu translates into everyday life How to remove your ego from the equation When extreme ownership becomes a problem How to avoid taking things too far How and why you should allow your subordinates to lead The dichotomy of caring about your team but putting the mission first How to best honor the fallen The meaning of duty When to allow slack and when not to The importance of appearance in leadership Why you should make your boss look great When you should and shouldn't tell the truth to your team Why you should avoid "false cheerleading" Why making things fun for your children is critical towards their development How to use the practice of "flanking" in leadership How to overcome your own ego when you recognize it JOCKO WILLINK My guest today is a man who needs no introduction. His name is Jocko Willink and this is the third time I've been fortunate enough to interview him for this podcast. Today, we cover his new book, The Dichotomy of Leadership (which is sure to be a New York Times Bestseller), the follow-up to Extreme Ownership. As you are all well aware, Jocko is a Navy SEAL and was the commander of Task Unit Bruiser, the most highly-decorated special forces unit of the Iraq War. I was fortunate enough to spend some time with him a couple weeks ago at Origin's Immersion Camp and I can tell you that this is a man who lives what he preaches. I saw a perspective of him through his instruction and stories from his team that only solidifies my respect for who he is as a veteran, husband, father, and man. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/182 Website: https://orderofman.com
9/11/20181 hour, 15 minutes, 45 seconds
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No One Owes You a Thing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

It seems there's a growing trend of entitlement in society today. Everywhere you turn, people are demanding results they haven't earned - a minimum wage, job security, health insurance, happiness, a minimum standard of living, etc., etc., etc. Then, they have the audacity to complain when they don't get exactly what they want. It's sickening, to say the least. Today, I share 5 simple strategies for overcoming the entitlement mentality and how to get more out of life. www.orderofman.com/FFN124 Please leave us a rating and review!
9/7/201817 minutes, 33 seconds
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Violence as a Virtue, Overcoming a Victimhood Mentality, and Dealing with a Separation| ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, we field questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group on becoming more motivated, living in integrity, dealing with a separation, overcoming a victimhood mentality, violence as a virtue, and so much more. Please leave us a rating and review! www.ordeorfman.com
9/5/20181 hour, 12 minutes, 3 seconds
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The Boy Crisis | DR. WARREN FARRELL

There is no question, our boys are in trouble. Take a look at any metric and it becomes painfully obvious that our young men are falling behind - violence, grades, drug abuse, and suicide to name a few. The questions is not, "Is it happening?" but, "Why?" Today I am joined by Dr. Warren Farrell, a leader in understanding the issues our boys are facing. We talk about how men have fallen into a "purpose void," why boys need to be raised differently than girls, the rise of the Incels, and how to deal with the emerging boy crisis. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The many ways in which our boys are in trouble Why these problems were created by a solution How men have fallen into a "purpose void" The "hero paradox" and social bribes to men Why our boys need to be raised differently What happens to boy and girls when they're dad-deprived How fathering can become our purpose Causes of depression and suicide Addressing ADHD in our young men Does the "gender pay gap" really exist The rise of the Incels How the ability to delay gratification is a huge indicator of future success The key differences between heroic intelligence and health intelligence How boys respond to biological fathers versus step-fathers The importance of roughhousing DR. WARREN FARRELL My guest today is Dr. Warren Farrell. He is a leader in the movement to understand the myriad of issues our young men are facing. Previously, a feminist and the only man to ever be elected three times to the National Organization for Women, he has since seen what the feminist movement has become and it's negative impact on our boys. He's been selected as one of the world's top 100 thought leaders and has had numerous appearances on CNN, Lary King Live, Oprah, The Today Show, Good Morning America, New York Times, Forbes, and the Wall Street Journal. He's taught at all levels of education and is a frequent speaker at Fortune 500 companies, military branches, and even NASA. It was such an honor to talk to him and get so much incredible insight into his thoughts and boys and gender, in general. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/181 Website: https://orderofman.com
9/4/20181 hour, 2 minutes, 40 seconds
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A Primer on Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Today, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss Origin's Jiu-Jitsu Immersion Camp, the "x-factor," how to build more confidence, how to get started in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, and why every man should consider some sort of martial art. www.orderofman.com/ Please leave us a rating and review!
9/1/20181 hour, 2 minutes, 8 seconds
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Disciplining Children, Dealing with ADHD/PTSD, and Overcoming Addiction | ASK ME ANYTHING

This week, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen field questions from members of the Order of Man Facebook Group. They cover disciplining children, dealing with ADHD/PTSD, overcoming addiction, and so much more. Please leave us a rating and review!
8/29/20181 hour, 7 minutes, 33 seconds
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The Softer Side of Violence | IAN STRIMBECK

Violence isn't a word a lot of people believe should be attributed to men and his responsibilities. We know that isn't true because we believe that the ability to violence is not only within us, it can be harnessed to keep ourselves and others protected from those who wish to do violence to us. Today, I am joined by Marine Corps Veteran, Ian Strimbeck to talk about why every man should learn how to harness the darker side of masculinity. We cover so much in this podcast including harnessing effective verbalization skills, how to get better at predicting human behavior, the power of intuition and how to use it effectively, and how to develop and harness the softer side of violence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Developing the soft skills required to face adversity The difference between software and hardware when it comes to facing threats Why every man needs to wrap his head around potential violence How to avoid "target fixation" How to develop and harness effective verbalization skills How to get better at predicting human behavior How the skills for violence are translatable to everyday life Why we should learn to tap into our primal roots The importance of humility in keeping yourself and other safe Learning not to make yourself a target The power of intuition and how to use it effectively The four cues you should be aware of in others when looking for threats How "profiling" can keep you alive The correct priority of engagement How to use appearance as a deterrent Why establishing baseline behavior in others is so crucial IAN STRIMBECK My guest today is veteran of the United States Marine Corps, Ian Strimbeck. Ian reached out a couple months ago and, as I was preparing for this conversation, I was extremely impressed by his resume as a veteran and warrior in not only the military but in the executive protection space. He's taken what he has learned on the battlefield and now teaches those who want to be better protectors of themselves and the people they have a responsibility for. This was such a fascinating discussion with an extremely fascinating man and I think, not only are you going to enjoy our conversation, you're going to walk away with some information that could just save your life. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/180 Website: https://orderofman.com
8/28/20181 hour, 50 seconds
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Make Yourself Proud | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Too many men are searching for external validation from their friends, family, and colleagues. The problem with that is that it's beyond your control. The far superior path is to learn to make yourself proud. The rest will take care of itself. www.orderofman.com/FFN122 Please leave us a rating and review!
8/24/201823 minutes, 57 seconds
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Establishing Boundaries, Boosting Testosterone, and Every Day Carries | ASK ME ANYTHING

Today, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen field questions from members of the Order of Man Facebook Group. They cover how to establish effective boundaries, boosting testosterone naturally, and what should be included in an "Every Day Carry." Connect with us at www.ordeorfman.com
8/22/20181 hour, 6 minutes, 11 seconds
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179: How to Develop More Grit | Brian Call

We live in a culture of ultimate softness but there seems to be a resurgence of men who understand the value of being tough, resilient, and gritty. These are the men I aspire to be more like because I understand how crucial it is, as Theodore Roosevelt states, to "keep the barbarian virtues." Today, I am joined by my friend, Brian Call, AKA Gritty, to talk about how hunting and connecting with nature makes you tougher, why we need to learn from the men who have gone before, the role parents play in developing fortitude in their children, and how you can develop more grit. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to get started in bow hunting How hunting makes you tougher Developing discipline through hobbies The dangers of being disconnected from your food How the mass of our meat gets processed Why eating meat is not unethical How hunting creates a wide range of emotional sorrow and joy Why you need to learn from men who have gone before How to keep calm in a potentially dangerous situation The role parents play in developing grit in their children The danger of the "outrage society" in which we live Why it's not a good idea to search for "happiness" How to overcome fear and weakness through exposure How minimalism helps you become free BRIAN CALL Gentlemen, today I have the honor of introducing you to my friend, Brian Call. He is an avid bow hunter and the founder and host of the Gritty Podcast where he talks all things bowhunting and developing more grit. I've been following him and his work for quite some time now and I finally had the chance to connect with him in this candid interview. What really resonates with me about Brian is his willingness to share not only his victories but his setbacks and how he's managed to overcome them. I hope you enjoy this powerful conversation with a man I really admire and respect. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/179 Website: https://orderofman.com
8/21/20181 hour, 15 minutes, 30 seconds
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Patience is a Virtue, Passivity is Not | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

One of my biggest struggles is patience. I think the same holds true for any high-achieving man. We tend to want the results immediately. Unfortunately, it just doesn't work that way. That, however, does not mean we need to sit back and simply wait for our goals to come to fruition. Today, I share six strategies for exercising patience while assertively working towards our objectives. www.orderofman.com/FFN121 Please leave us a rating and review!
8/17/201824 minutes, 59 seconds
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AMA 001: Overcoming Guilt, Supporting Your Wife in Stress, and Changing the Future

In our first-ever "Ask Me Anything," Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen field questions from members of the Order of Man Facebook Group. They cover how one overcomes guilt and past mistakes, how to support a wife with a stressful job, how to change the future, and so much more. Please leave us a rating and review!
8/15/20181 hour, 42 seconds
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178: Free Markets, Finding Purpose, and Forging Fitness | Sal Di Stefano

There is so much to talk about in the world today but very few people who are capable of having an intelligent conversation about some sensitive subjects without completely losing their minds. Today, I am joined again by my friend, Sal Di Stefano to talk about a lot of these hot and polarizing topics including how technology is changing conversation, the moral implications of markets and governments, how important it is that fathers are in the home, the legalization of drugs, the shift towards nihilism, and everywhere in between. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The power of decentralization How technology is changing conversations The importance of embracing immerging technology The problems with formal higher education How free markets allocate resources effectively and efficiently Why policy needs to be enacted based on data, not feelings The moral implications of markets and governments How minimum wage requirements price out entry-level workers How the rejection of personal responsibility leads to nihilism How money fixed the problem found in voluntary trade The dangers inherently found in "equality of outcome" How market specialization creates more productive results The slippery slope of enacting laws to protect you from yourself The negative and positive impact of legalizing drugs How important it is that fathers are in the home How children become a powerful source of purpose and direction for fathers How and why every man needs to find purpose and direction in life How your self-help journey should start in the gym How intermittent fasting can benefit you in all aspects of your life The slippery slope of enacting laws to protect you from yourself The importance of nutrition in your health overhaul SAL DI STEFANO Sal Di Stefano is back for round two. He is someone that I've gotten to know over the past couple of years. We've been able to connect because we agree on a lot of the same issues and are extremely interested in having important and relevant dialogue on topics most people shy away from. Sal is the co-founder of MindPump Media. He's spent nearly 20 years as a fitness and personal trainer and focused science and truth to the fitness industry. Although we only talk about fitness and nutrition towards the end of this conversation, it's apparent that Sal is someone who strives to find objective truth in all facets of life and prides himself and sharing that truth with others. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/178  Website: https://orderofman.com
8/14/20182 hours, 5 minutes, 15 seconds
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FFN 120: Grow a Spine

Unfortunately, finding a man of character, conviction, and principle has become increasingly difficult. More and more, men are becoming wishy-washy, weak, cowardly, and otherwise pathetic. Today, I share 5 simple strategies every man can employ to grow a spine become a man of strength and character. www.orderofman.com/FFN120 Please leave us a rating and review!
8/10/201820 minutes, 59 seconds
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177: Building a Business of Meaning and Significance | Jordan Harbertson

Building a business is something on so many men's minds. I can't even begin to count how many men I hear from who are unsatisfied with where they are with regards to their professional life and career path. Today, I talk with my good friend, Jordan Harbertson, co-founder of MTNOPS, to uncover how he's been able to build a thriving business. We cover the importance of proximity to other powerful people, how to know when you're ready to take the entrepreneurial leap, striking the balance between giving and taking, and how every man can build a business of meaning and significance. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Our dependence on technology The importance of proximity to other powerful people How to tell a powerful story to connect with others How to build something special in your life How to identify and connect with the right people The first steps to discovering your purpose How to know if you're ready to take a leap into entrepreneurship How to get your wife on board with a new venture Addressing and overcoming obstacles How improving communication improves all areas of life How to strike the balance between giving and taking Why belief in what you're doing is so important How to become more influential by changing yourself JORDAN HARBERTSON Men, I am honored to introduce you to my friend, Jordan Harbertson. He and I met years ago as we both launched our businesses around the same time. I've been inspired watching him market his business and create something truly special for himself, his business partners, his community, and his family. I've watched him and his partners take MTN OPS from a simple idea to a powerhouse in the very crowded marketplace of supplemental nutrition. Jordan is one of the most real people I know. He takes about his struggles personally and professionally including his transformation with his fitness over the past several months and what it takes to succeed in business and life. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/177 Website: https://orderofman.com
8/7/20181 hour, 23 minutes
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FFN 119: How a Man Builds a Team

Most men know how critical it is to build a team around him but very few men invest the time, energy, and resources into building one. Today I talk about why a team is so important and share five strategies for building a powerful group of men who will help you succeed. www.orderofman.com/FFN119 Please leave us a rating and review!
8/3/201828 minutes, 34 seconds
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176: Be Legendary | Bert Sorin

Legendary is a term we hear often. But, when is the last time you actually thought about what it meant? Being legendary is about creating and living a life in which the principles and lessons you leave behind will last long after you're dead and gone. Today, I'm joined by the President of Sorinex, Bert Sorin. We cover the importance of creating the right culture, balancing family time with professional ambition, leading through vulnerability, and how a man becomes legendary. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The importance of the right culture Balancing family time with professional ambition The power of presence Why vision is so critical How to overcome going through the motions How to find more time for yourself How to deal with people clamoring for your attention Leading through vulnerability Why apologizing doesn't undermine your authority Finding the solutions to your own problems Improving human performance How to overcome stagnation Pros and cons of running a family business BERT SORIN My guest today is Bert Sorin, CEO of Sorinex. If you're not familiar with Sorinex, they are the leading innovator in American made strength and conditioning equipment. Bert grew up in the business his dad started nearly four decades ago and has since gone on to develop, refine, and innovate the business into what it is today. Bert is a former Division 1 Track and Field All-American and an Olympics trails athlete. Since then, he's gone on to build his family business and create a legacy that reaches far beyond what he and his father have built. He's become a friend over the past several months and I can't think of a better man to talk with me about leading ourselves, our businesses, and our families the best way we're capable of. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/176 Website: https://orderofman.com
7/31/20181 hour, 5 minutes, 35 seconds
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FFN 118: What is Masculinity?

There's a lot of talk about "evolving the definition" of masculinity. What a shame since masculinity has driven much of the positive growth we enjoy in society today. Couple the desire to change what masculinity is with the confusion about what it is in the first place and it's easy to understand why there's so much misinformation about what masculinity is and, ultimately, what it means to be a man. www.orderofman.com/FFN118 Please leave us a rating and review!
7/27/201821 minutes, 23 seconds
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175: Overcoming Drug Addiction | Court McGee

Addiction is something a lot of men are facing. Whether it's an addiction to alcohol, pornography, or drugs, it is something that can be overcome. Today, I am joined by UFC fighter, Court McGee, to talk about his battle with addiction and his ability over the past decade to fight and win this never-ending battle. We talk about his positive upbringing, how he used fighting as an outlet, the disease of addiction, his downward spiral, and how he has overcome his drug addiction. This one is a bit different as I wanted to give Court the platform to share his story so I gave him the mic and let him run. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The disease of addiction The importance of meaning and significance How ego gets in the way and magnifies addiction Why people turn to self-medication How to avoid lying to yourself The importance of finding a team to surround yourself with Developing and fostering willpower The power of a support unit How martial arts and other activities can help in overcoming addiction How to use your pain as a catalyst for growth How to use your struggles to serve others COURT MCGEE I'm honored to introduce you to my guest, Mr. Court McGee. Court is a UFC fighter and the winner of the 11th season of the Ultimate Fighter. Despite his accomplishments in the ring, today, we focus on his personal life outside of it Court spent a lot of his life hooked on just about every drug imaginable and once overdosed on heroin where he was estimated to have spent 8 minutes without a heartbeat or pulse. There is no doubt that Court McGee is a man who knows how to fight but I am absolutely blown away with the story of his greatest battle in overcoming addiction, walking the path of long-term sobriety, how he handles adversity, and how he's taken his greatest challenge and turned himself into a force for good. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/175 Website: https://orderofman.com
7/24/20181 hour, 9 minutes
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FFN 117: How a Man Markets Himself

Learning to market yourself is such a critical skill to develop. Whether you're working to secure a promotion, get a date, pick up new clients, or enlist your children in getting the chores done, your ability to market yourself effectively will spell the difference between success and failure. Today, I break down seven key strategies for improving your ability to market yourself to whoever you may be trying to win over. www.orderofman.com/FFN117 Please leave us a rating and review!
7/20/201824 minutes, 8 seconds
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174: Yoga Fitness for Men | Dean Pohlman

Let's be honest, Yoga isn't a thought you'd immediately conjure up as manly. But, as I've recently discovered, participating in Yoga has significantly improved my performance, strength, and fitness all of which every man should be striving to improve. Today, I'm joined by repeat guest, Dean Pohlman, to talk about his new book. We cover why every man should consider incorporating Yoga in his fitness regimen, how flexibility improves strength, the unknown benefits for men of participating in Yoga, and how a man can learn to connect mind and spirit through the practice of Yoga. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What is Yoga The benefits for men of doing Yoga The difference between Yoga and simply stretching The spiritual component of practicing Yoga Why it's important to learn how to connect the body and spirit How to develop more "flow" How Yoga helps improve heart rate variability How flexibility improves strength Developing a personal philosophy for life Why Yoga pairs well with resistance training How often one should do Yoga 7 keys to Yoga success How to get started DEAN POHLMAN My guest today is my friend Dean Pohlman. Dean and I met years ago when he was first on my show. Since then, we've become friends and I've started incorporating some of what he's been teaching into my own life. He is the founder of Man Flow Yoga, which is an online platform designed to help men learn the fundamentals and foundation of Yoga, and how it can improve every aspect of their fitness. I was a little skeptical at first but I've been amazed and how much this guy knows about functional fitness, strength building, and men's health in general. Today, we talk about a lot of different elements of health and fitness including the message from his latest book, Yoga Fitness for Men. Please leave us a review at https://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/174 Website: https://orderofman.com
7/17/201847 minutes, 15 seconds
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FFN 116: How to Find a Hobby

Today, we talk about the importance of finding a hobby and 5 strategies for finding hobbies that engage your mind and soul. It's easy to dismiss the notion of carving out time for ourselves considering all our responsibilities but it's imperative if we have any hope of becoming the men we're capable of becoming. www.orderofman.com/FFN116 Please leave us a rating and review!
7/13/201819 minutes, 22 seconds
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173: The Man Diet | Chad Howse

There is no shortage of diet and nutrition advice out there. Most of it is hype, gimmicky, extremely biased, and untested/unfounded. It's no wonder though as most of us are after the quick fix to a lifetime of making bad food and exercise choices. Today, I am joined by Chad Howse, author of "The Man Diet," to talk about why these other diets fail and why a man's approach to what he eats should be relatively simple. We talk about the specific benefits of incorporating this style of nutrition in your life, why intermittent fasting works so well, keys to developing testosterone naturally and safely, society's emasculation of men, and why you should consider incorporating the "Man Diet" into your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why this has been dubbed the "man diet" The benefits of incorporating this diet into your life The power of intermittent fasting Common myths when it comes to diet and nutrition Keys to developing testosterone naturally and safely Why competition is critical in developing testosterone The chemical differences between men and women How to track macronutrients Why you should consider adopting the mantra, "excellence in all things" The damaging effects of cortisol levels and how to reduce them The danger of society's emasculation of men The "do's" and "don't's" of eating clean CHAD HOWSE My guest today is someone that I've been following and paying attention to for quite some time. We only recently connected with the release of his latest book, The Man Diet. He has been on a mission over the past several years of reclaiming what it means to be a man and his goals and objectives are very much in alignment with what we share here in the Order of Man. He is the founder of Chad Howse Fitness and Average 2 Alpha and today he is here to talk about the power of incorporating what he has dubbed, "the man diet." Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/173 Website: http://orderofman.com
7/10/201845 minutes, 15 seconds
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FFN 115: The Path of Most Resistence

The path of most resistance. It's a term you'll rarely hear. That's because we, as men, are hard-wired to look for the path of least resistance. And, while there's merit to being efficient and effective in the quickest, most convenient way possible, it's not always in our best interest to take the easy route. Today, I share why. www.orderofman.com/FFN115 Please leave us a rating and review!
7/6/201817 minutes, 21 seconds
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172: Work, Don't Whine | Brandon Lilly

Every man, at some point, will lose his way. It's not really a question of "if" but a question of "when." When that day comes, the way you decided to face that adversity will spell the difference in you overcoming or succumbing. My guest today, powerlifter Brandon Lilly, is a man who has faced his fair share of obstacles but refuses to quit and always charges forward. We talk about the power of saying "no," why nothing ends with a period, how to develop more confidence, overcoming the need to be seen, and why every man ought to consider adopting the mantra, "Work, Don't Whine." SHOW HIGHLIGHTS • Why working without whining is so powerful • How to say "no" • Why problems scale and how to avoid it • Why nothing ends with a "period" • Finding the middle ground and why it's so important • Why the way we do things matters • How to develop and build more confidence • Overcoming the need to be seen • How ego and arrogance are hurting you • The power of integrity and telling the truth BRANDON LILLY My guest today is my friend, Brandon Lilly. A lot of you know who this man is but if you don't, I'm not sure how you've missed him. He's one of the biggest men I know and certainly one of the strongest. He is ranked as one of the strongest powerlifters and consistently lifts more than 2,000lbs combined in the deadlift, squat and bench press. He's worked with and consulted SEAL Teams, University of Kentucky Football, the Bengals, and numerous other organizations and Crossfit gyms around the country. But on top of all that, he's a man who is extremely humble in failure and victory (you'll hear some of those stories today). Today he's going to be talking about overcoming some of his trials and why he's adopted "Work, Don't Whine" as his mantra. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/172 Website: http://orderofman.com
7/3/20181 hour, 8 minutes, 19 seconds
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FFN 114: Fixing Your Marriage by Fixing Yourself

There are a lot of men who want to fix their marriages. While it sounds counterintuitive, the best way to fix your marriage is to fix yourself. Because, when you improve who you are as a man and how you're showing up as a husband, you're naturally going to produce a better marriage. Sure, a strong marriage is the result of the things that both you and your wife are doing but there's nothing you can do about her. That's why it's best to focus on the one thing you can control - yourself. Here are 7 ways to do just that... www.orderofman.com/FFN114 Please leave us a rating and review!
6/29/201829 minutes, 56 seconds
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171: Leading From the Top | Lt. Col. Scott Mann

Every man will, at some point, be placed in a position of leadership, whether it's in the walls of his home, a new project at work, a promotion, ecclesiastical services, with friends, or simply leading himself. His ability to lead effectively will spell the difference between success and failure in any endeavor. Today, I am joined by retired Green Beret Lieutenant Colonel, Scott Mann to talk about how to be a strong leader. We talk about the importance of becoming a great storyteller, how to play your position well and allow others to do the same, why leaders need to learn to get out of the way, and how you can lead from the top. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why leaders need to become great storytellers The importance of becoming your own hero How great leaders learn to play their position Why leaders need to learn to get out of the way How leaders communicate across cultures How we locate ourselves through others' stories The power of writing your own story Why you need to meet people where they are How to solicit feedback from your team How to create win-win situations How to negotiate more effectively Why all great leaders have a service mindset LIEUTENANT COLONEL SCOTT MANN Today, I have the honor of introducing you to retired Green Beret Lieutenant Colonel, Scott Mann. He is a master at building relationships in high-stakes, competitive environments, as you might imagine. He spent 23 years in the United States Army (18 of which in were spent as a Green Beret) where he specialized in missions all over the world including Colombia, Iraq, and Afghanistan. He is also a regular contributor on CNN, Fox, and Bloomberg, and many others where he shares his insights and experience when it comes to leading teams effectively. Obviously, he's worked in some extremely hostile environments where he's been able to lead missions effectively through his ability to build trust and credibility where most of that had been destroyed.   Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/171 Website: http://orderofman.com  
6/26/201846 minutes, 41 seconds
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FFN 113: No Victims Here

So many men love to play the victim card. They believe everybody and everything is stacked against them. In reality, we know that's not true. Here's why people do it and 5 ways to avoid making yourself into a victim. www.orderofman.com/FFN113 Please leave us a rating and review!
6/22/201821 minutes, 46 seconds
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Becoming a Minimalist | Joshua Becker

Every time you turn around, you're bombarded with a thousand ads, a million choices, and an endless supply of options and "opportunities." It's becoming increasingly difficult to manage the landscape of the ever-growing decisions that need to be made. Add to that our desire to be seen and perceived a certain way by people we may not even know or like, and it's easy to see why the disease of wanting more is becoming a real problem. My guest today, Joshua Becker, makes the case for why more is less. He argues (and, I agree) that having less stuff in our life can truly unlock the key to a more meaningful and purpose-driven life. We talk about the benefits of owning less, why we have the desire to own more than we'll ever need or use, the burden extra possessions place on our lives, and how you can become a minimalist. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The positive benefits of owning less The first things you should get rid of Why living on less can be so challenging How our brains aren't able to handle maximum input The burden "stuff" places on our lives Three reasons we feel the need to own so much stuff How to build the habit of living off less How to decide what the keep and what to eliminate Why money does not equal happiness and security The power of being more generous with your money How to overcome the resistance to living minimally The very first steps to reducing your amount of possessions JOSHUA BECKER Gentlemen, I have the honor of introducing you to my guest today, Joshua Becker. He is the founder of Becoming Minimalist and the bestselling author of The More of Less. And, in the spirit of the message we'll be discussing today, I will keep this introduction short. We were introduced by a mutual friend who had taken much of what Joshua has been teaching and incorporating it into his own life. I did some initial research and immediately recognized a need to adopt the practice of "rational minimalism" into my own. I've already begun implementing some of his teachings and I can honestly say I've been able to free up more mental and physical capacity for more important pursuits in my life.   Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes   Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/170   Website: http://orderofman.com
6/19/201846 minutes, 41 seconds
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FFN 112: The Systematic Softening of Society

Society is becoming softer. Society is becoming weaker. This idea of softness is perpetuated by much of society, the school system, media, and entertainment and Hollywood. We do ourselves a huge disservice when we overlook the importance of being strong, tough, gritty, resilient, and all the things that we would traditionally think of when we think of how a man shows up in life. I'm not suggesting by any means that a man can't be loving, supportive, open, and vulnerable. Of course, he can be those things. There is a time and a place to be that way but to say that that's always the case, to say that we need to be softer at the expense of these other masculine virtues, is hurting society in general. There will come a point in time where those traditional masculine virtues are to be used in order to produce productive outcomes for ourselves, our loved ones, and the people we care about. Typically, this manifests itself in a negative situation, whether that's something in the family like a divorce, loss of a loved one, or being laid off from a job, but it also applies to natural disasters and emergencies. For example, Hurricane Harvey in Texas and the fires in California last year. During these times, we saw countless men, step up and do what it is that men do best. We also see why strength is important in the global arena as well when it comes to military conflict, for example. It's critical we never overlook the importance of harnessing the power of being tough, resilient, gritty, et cetera. Today, I want to talk with you about some of the consequences and symptoms of the softening of society. And, I also want to talk about why softness is spreading. I'm not a conspiracy theorist but I do think there are some factors at work here that are promoting this idea of clinging to these softer virtues at the expense of the harder virtues. We're going to talk about how we can become tougher, more resilient, and stronger because the last thing I want to do is complain, whine, or nag about a topic without providing any solutions. www.orderofman.com/FFN112 Please leave us a rating and review!
6/15/201826 minutes, 59 seconds
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The Disciplined Pursuit of Less | Greg McKeown

In a world where everyone and everything is clamoring for your attention, it is becomingly increasingly difficult to focus on the vital few as opposed to the trivial many. My guest today, Greg McKeown, the New York Times Bestselling Author of Essentialism, makes the case for why less can actually be more. We talk about how to eliminate distractions, the criteria for measuring what task you should actually focus on, how to establish proper boundaries, and why every man should take on the disciplined pursuit of less. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why focusing on less can be more How to ensure only the right things get done The difference between thinking broadly and deeply Establishing criteria to measure your decisions How to eliminate the things that don't matter How to effectively establish proper boundaries How to refine and hone your gut instinct Establishing practices for systematic execution Why small wins are vital How using the word 'no' is a liberating exercise Moving your thinking from "can't" to "don't" Focusing on the vital few rather than the trivial many How to create more space (physical and mental) in your life GREG MCKEOWN Gentlemen, I want to introduce you to my guest today, Mr. Greg McKeown. He is a man who needs no introduction for many of you. If you're familiar with his work at all, you've likely read the book, Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less. In this New York Times Bestselling book, Greg makes the case for why each of us should strive to focus on the few things that actually matter as opposed to the tasks and projects many of us get bogged down with. He's spoken all over the world at industry conferences, huge companies like Apple, Google, Facebook, and Twitter, and governments including a personal invitation from the Prince of Norway. Needless to say, this is a man who knows what he's talking about when it comes to doing less but producing more. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/169   Website: http://orderofman.com
6/12/201853 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 111: How to Command Respect

I see so many men who don't have any level of respect for themselves let alone being able to command any respect from others. I was noticing the other day as I was walking to the post office, that there were people who wouldn't even look me in the eye. And, not only would they not look me in the eye, they were working hard to ensure that they didn't have to look me in the eye. When I shake people's hand, I get these limp fish handshakes. Those are just two small examples of the manifestation of a lack of confidence. It's bad, guys. You know exactly what I'm talking about. You've seen this in co-workers, friends, kids, and maybe even yourself. And, if you're someone who is not commanding respect,  you are living a life less than you're capable of. I don't want that to be the case. I want you, as a man to step up, to be assertive, confident, to be able to ask for promotions, ask women on dates, and get out of this life what you should. And, part of that is being able to command the respect of other people. When I talk about commanding respect, one of the things that I'm really addressing here is the idea of the "X-factor." We've all seen it. We've all been to a meeting, conference or office setting when we just feel somebody walk into the room. We turn around and see this guy who has "it," whatever "it" is. We can't quite put our finger on it but we know that this is a guy that has something special; there's something unique about this individual. What a lot of men do is write that off and dismiss it as something that he was naturally gifted or naturally born with. Sure, there may be men who have a predisposition to be more like this but I'll tell you what, being able to develop what most people write off as the "X-factor" is something that can be developed. I know this because that's what I've been able to do. For a long time (especially when I was younger) I walked around very insecure, very complacent, and frankly just a little bit afraid and scared of life in general. I couldn't make eye contact with people. I couldn't hold a conversation. And not only that, I actually just tried to avoid people altogether. It wasn't up until relatively recently that I have been able to develop a level of confidence that allows me to look in another person's eyes. This newfound level of confidence allows me to ask and command exactly what I believe I deserve. I'm just telling you, from experience, it's a significantly better way to live. I made a post on Instagram two or three weeks ago about teaching others how to treat you. A lot of people agreed with me and said, "Yeah, you definitely teach other people how to treat you," and other people blew that off and dismissed it. I believe that you and I are constantly teaching other people how we will be treated. We do this through our actions and our words and the way we carry ourselves We teach our kids, spouses, colleagues, employers, and bosses to what level of respect we will be treated with. That's the last thing I want to see in men. I want men to walk around with their heads held high. I want them to have a level of confidence in what they're doing, who they are, and how they show up because I believe that this will, first, save their sanity and well-being and, second, determine much of their success. www.orderofman.com/FFN111 Please leave us a rating and review!
6/8/201823 minutes, 20 seconds
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Forging Mental Toughness | Ryan Lange

We all know that we need to be mentally tough. There's no question of that. Yet, forging mental toughness seems to be one of the most elusive pursuits. All of us know how to develop physical toughness but rarely do we have any practices in place that will help us develop mental toughness. My guest today, Ryan Lange, is one of the most mentally tough men I know. It's amazing considering he's only 21 years old. I won't get into all that he's accomplished just yet but please understand that the amount of physical strain he's put on his body is simply incredible. Today we talk about developing the capability to transcend pain, fostering the willingness to embrace hardship, why hard work is omnipotent, and how to forge more mental toughness. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Developing the capability to transcend pain Developing a willingness to embrace the hardship The critical importance of long-term focus How to break those long-term goals into micro goals The dangers of not developing mental toughness How to effectively train the mind Why hard work is omnipotent How to maintain focus in a world of distraction Our obligation as men to be mentally fit Keeping yourself from wasting experiences The power of linear progression RYAN LANGE Ryan Lange reached out a couple months ago and asked to come on the podcast. Honestly, at first thought, I wasn't going to have him on because so many people talk about mental toughness. It's a little like saying you want to talk about leadership. But then, I started looking into what this kid has done. And, I say kid because he's only 20 years old. Now, I realize he's a man (not a child) but I'm absolutely blown away with what he's done already. He's completed 50K's, 50 milers, 100 milers, and at the end of last year completed a 238 mile race in Moab, UT. To give you an idea of what that means, it took roughly 86 hours for him to complete. I'm incredibly inspired by Ryan and his approach to mental toughness. You will be too. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/168 Website: http://orderofman.com
6/5/201843 minutes, 22 seconds
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FFN 110: The Rise of the Peter Pans

We've all seen the movie, Peter Pan. It's fictional work but it seems that more and more it paints an eerily familiar picture with what we see in the boys who never want to grow up into men. I'll give you a prime example. Just the other day, there was a piece I read about a 30-year old man who had taken his parents to court because his parents were "evicting" him from their house. How pathetic is this? Maybe there's something wrong with this guy (obviously there's something wrong with this guy). But it's amazing that his thought process is to fight so hard to stay at home. I can't help, but there's something seriously wrong with him. But in addition to that, I can't help but think there's something wrong with the parents. How was this guy raised? How was he fathered? When I was done with high school, we went on our senior trip. The day I got home - the very next day - I moved out. It wasn't' because I had anything against my mother but because it was time. It was time to leave the nest. I see so many boys who are more concerned with staying at home than experiencing life. They're more concerned with not having bills and upholding their responsibilities. They're more concerned with Call of Duty or Fortnite (or whatever the game is that they're playing). They're shirking their responsibilities. They don't have jobs. And, their parents are enabling them to actually do this. And we question why we're having problems with our boys turning into men. This is the failure to launch syndrome - the rise of the Peter Pans. The good news is that there are some solutions to this. If you find yourself in a position where you're a boy or a male who wants to grow up but can't figure out how to do it, this article will provide the solution. I see so many men who use the excuse of not having a father figure in their life to justify their lack of performance as men. I can't believe that it needs to be addressed, but it certainly does. So, let's talk about this today. www.orderofman.com/FFN110 Please leave us a rating and review!
6/1/201824 minutes, 21 seconds
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Dreaming Big and Writing Your Own Story | Charlie Jabaley

All of us have a story. We all have a past. Our prior circumstances define who we are today but do not have to define who we will become moving forward. Too bad most of us never learn to rewrite the script. Today, I am joined by a friend and man who is impacting and influencing millions. His name is Charlie Jabaley and he's someone who walked away from a multi-million dollar business to rewrite his life, lose a massive amount of weight, become an endorsed Nike athlete, and bike across the USA. We talk about what inspired him to make a life-altering change and how he is using positivity to change the world. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to turn your struggles into fuel Why "war mode" isn't always the best mode How to realize your childhood dreams How to work smarter, not harder How to rally people around a cause How to use imperfection to inspire others The difference between eating "dead" and eating "alive" Overcoming a negative mindset What it means to train like an 8-year-old Using fun and play as the metric for success How to step away from something secure into the unknown CHARLIE JABALEY I met Charlie several months ago when he and I were podcasting in St. Louis with Andy Frisella on the MFCEO Podcast. He and I immediately hit it off and I was extremely inspired by him, his story, and the positive changes he is making in his life. This man is a Nike endorsed athlete although he doesn't look like your typical athlete. But, it's a testament to who he is, his infectious energy, and how powerful his past, present, and future are. Right now, he's biking across the USA in order to share his story and help others live the life they're meant to live. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/167 Website: http://orderofman.com
5/29/201857 minutes, 16 seconds
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FFN 109: How We Stop School Shootings

Every time we turn around it seems like there's yet another school shooting. And, from what I can see, we're addressing this from a very surface level perspective. This is not about gun control. This is not about gun regulation. In fact, I don't even believe it's fully a gun problem. I think it's a symptom of the problem but not the problem. Obviously, it has to do with the young men who are creating these situations. But more so, we ought to put the responsibility where it truly lies, which is on us as men. I'm going to explain what I mean by that. Bear with me, because I think you're going to agree at the end of this conversation that we've got a real problem with the way that we, as men, are showing up. And the symptom of that is school shootings and some of the other atrocities that we see in society today. Before I get into the details, I do want to say again, this is not meant to be a gun debate but there are a couple of surface level issues that I do want to address first and foremost before we get deeper into this. So, let's begin by addressing how we physically protect our kids when they're at school. There are some very simple solutions to this: www.orderofman.com/FFN109 Please leave us a rating and review!
5/25/201821 minutes, 42 seconds
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ITT 012: Overcoming the Grip of Depression and Suicide| John Gilliland

Today, I talk with John Gilliland about overcoming multiple suicide attempts, rising from the guilt and shame associated with it, using addiction in a positive way, and lifting yourself out of the bottom. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
5/23/201821 minutes, 32 seconds
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166: Why Men Should Compete | Jake Thompson

Competition is such a critical component of our journey to develop masculinity and manliness. Too bad it's often viewed as an unnecessary and antiquated way of operating by much of society. Heaven forbid we hold ourselves to a high standard and teach our children to keep score. My guest today, Jake Thompson, Founder of Compete Every Day, makes the case for utilizing healthy competition as a critical factor in improving our lives. Today, we talk about why competition is so important, why executing to failure is so powerful, why losing does not necessarily equal "loser", and why men should compete every day. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS • Why competition is important • How competition creates opportunities and builds capabilities • What separates those who grow with competition and those who self-destruct • How to compete at things that aren't a competition • Why executing to failure is so important • Why losing does not equal "loser" • How to separate yourself from the pack • How to find and develop value in yourself and others • How to teach our children to use healthy competition for growth • Why men are uniquely desirous to keep score and how to use that to our advantage JAKE THOMPSON My guest today is Jake Thompson. Jake and I met last year and an American Dream U event at Fort Sill, Oklahoma. I had the privilege of hearing him speak about the power and importance of competition and new that I wanted to have a deeper discussion with him about the concept. The word, competition, seems to have a negative connotation surrounding it but I think you know as well as I do how powerful competition can actually be. In a world that likes to take it easy and shy away from keeping score, Jake is encouraging more people to do it through his organization, Compete Every Day, and as a speaker, author, and coach. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/166 Website: http://orderofman.com
5/22/201846 minutes, 21 seconds
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FFN 108: Bridging the Integrity Gap

There is a gap in most men's lives and, in fact, I would argue in every man's life. This gap represents what we know we should be doing versus the things that we're actually doing. This is the integrity gap. The larger that gap is, the less fulfilled, the more unhappy, the more unpleasant, and depressed you will be. The smaller that gap, the more fulfillment, satisfaction, joy, contentment, happiness, wealth, and prosperity will come into your life. There was a time in my life roughly 10 years ago where I had a huge integrity gap in my life (again, the gap between what I knew I should be doing and what I was actually doing). Here's the reality: Everybody that reads this, including you, knows what you should be doing. If I were to ask anyone, "How do you lose weight?" 99.9% of people would say, "Well, I probably ought to eat a little bit better and exercise a little bit more." If I were to ask how to build more wealth in your life, everybody out there would say, "I need to find a way to make more money and/or spend less money." These are not secrets. This is not rocket science here. Everybody knows what they should be doing, yet when you look around in society you can plainly see that many individuals are not living up to their potential. That's the integrity gap. It's knowing what you should be doing, and not doing it. Living with this gap is the most unpleasant, unsatisfying, and miserable time in any person's life. But rather than just tell you that there's this big integrity gap and you need to figure out a way to bridge it (which you certainly do) I want to share with you a very simple formula that will help you bridge the gap. www.orderofman.com/FFN108 Please leave us a rating and review!
5/18/201818 minutes, 55 seconds
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ITT 011: Execution of Discipline | Cody Duffney

Today, I talk with Cody Duffney about the execution of discipline, the power of internal reflection, correcting mistakes quickly, and accepting points of weakness. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
5/16/201816 minutes, 48 seconds
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165: Boys Adrift | Dr. Leonard Sax

Continuing on the theme from last week (because I believe this is such a critical topic right now), today we talk about the fact that young boys seem to be going astray. The school system is stacked against them, society seems to be dismissing masculinity altogether, and being a man is something that actually has to be defended. My guest, Dr. Leonard Sax, joins me to talk about 5 factors driving an epidemic of unmotivated boys and underachieving young men, how the school system needs to be overhauled if we are to re-engage our boys, the dangers of endocrine disruptors in men's lives, and how boys are going adrift and, more importantly, how to get them back on track. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 5 factors driving unmotivated boys and underachieving young men How the school system is stacked against young men Why boys are struggling with academic achievement How the school system needs to be changed The dangers on endocrine disruptors The effect pornography has on young boys The value of consequences for young men How to help our boys find passion and purpose How to re-engage our boys DR. LEONARD SAX I was introduced to Dr. Leonard Sax's work through my wife as she picked up a couple books on her pursuit to more effectively raise our boys. She came across two books in particular: Boys Adrift and Why Gender Matters. After she got done reading them, she asked if I would. From the opening remarks, I knew this guy had some of the answers to the challenges we seem to be facing in raising young men. Dr. Sax is an MIT graduate, a physician, and a psychologist and has been practicing for nearly 30 years. He is well-versed (as you'll hear today) in gender issues and the crisis our young men and women seem to be facing today. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/165 Website: http://orderofman.com
5/15/201850 minutes, 31 seconds
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FFN 107: Crafting the Perfect Morning Routine

Today, I want to talk about such an important topic and one which is easy to overlook simply because we’ve all heard about it so often. That said, I believe establishing a healthy morning routine is one of the most important things you can do during your day as it really establishes the benchmark, the framework, and the foundation for the way the rest of your day will go. The reason that I think most people overlook (or can’t even stick to a morning routine) is because there’s so much advice about it already and we begin to believe that we have to pigeonhole ourselves into one way of doing it. Here’s what I’m here to tell you:  I’m going to share my morning routine. Now,  that doesn’t make it the morning routine. It simply means that it works for me. The most powerful thing if you can do with regards to your morning routine is to find something that works for you. This is a process of experimentation. So, again, I’m going to share with you what works for me. If you like it, adopt it. If you don’t like it, don’t adopt it. If you like parts of it, adopt part of it. You get the idea. www.orderofman.com/FFN107 Please leave us a rating and review!
5/11/201818 minutes, 50 seconds
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ITT 010: Training the Mind | Joshua Laycock

Today, I talk with Joshua Laycock about his awakening, why "good enough" is your enemy, the power of your potential, and how to train your mind. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
5/9/201822 minutes, 51 seconds
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164: A Man's Responsibility to Future Generations | Matt Labrum

This one is special to me. As most of you know, I grew up without a permanent father figure in my life. I've mentioned in the past that there was a select group of men who helped mold and shape me into the man that I am today. I'm not sure there is another man in my young life who was as influential as my guest today. His name is Matt Labrum and he was my high school football and baseball coach. Today, we talk about his influence in my life and thousands of other young men's lives, the power of allowing kids to fail (including some failures of my own), why competitive sports are so valuable in a young man's life, why he cut his entire team from the football program, and a man's responsibility to future generations.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The power of allowing kids to fail Why competition is critical for young men How winners continue to find a way to win The politics of raising children and coaching Pros and cons of coaching your own children Our obligation as men to give back to future generations How sports are about so much more than the game Why one high school football coach cut his entire team The difference between being a parent and being a defender How to raise boys through the power of competitive sports MATT LABRUM Men, I did this interview a little while ago and I've been anxiously waiting to release it to you. Every single one of us has some very influential people in our lives.

Today, I'm talking with probably the most influential man in mine, especially as a young boy learning to become a man. He is a high school educator. He has been teaching for more than two decades and, in addition to that, he is a high school baseball coach (when I was in school, he was the head football, basketball, and baseball coach). He gained some national attention several years ago after cutting his entire football team from the program for grade and attendance issues, and how his team was showing up in the community and at school. This is a man I admire and respect as he shaped a lot of who I was as a young man and who I am still becoming. He never took it easy on me. We talk about two experiences in particular during this conversation but I never doubted how much he cared about my progress and the progress of the boys under his care. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/164 Website: http://orderofman.com
5/8/201852 minutes, 55 seconds
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FFN 106: The Folly of "Zero Fu*ks Given"

You’ve likely heard of the phrase “zero fu*ks given.” While I can understand to a degree what anyone may be saying when they use that term, I can’t help but see the mistake in that line of thinking – especially for men. Your job is the exact opposite of that sentiment. Your job is to care about a lot, and be a man of value in the walls of your home, inside your business, and out in your community. But if you walk around with a chip on your shoulder and take the stance that everyone else should leave you alone and there’s nothing you should really care about, I’ve got to think you’re missing a big element of what it means to be a man. Not to mention, you’re limiting your potential and the potential of those around you. www.orderofman.com/FFN106 Please leave us a rating and review!
5/4/201814 minutes, 39 seconds
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ITT 009: From Complacency to Contentment | Doug Hershberger

Today, I talk with Doug Hershberger about losing massive weight, stoicism, learning to control what you can, being a steward over yourself, and moving from complacency to contentment. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
5/2/201815 minutes, 42 seconds
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163: The True Cost of Liberty | Braxton McCoy

Guys, if you listen to just one of my podcast, please make it be this one. Today, I am joined by my friend and fellow soldier, Braxton McCoy. He and I served in Iraq together in 2005-2006. One day we were playing softball together and the next day, I hear he's been hit by a suicide bomber with multiple fractures and life-threatening injuries to himself and others. I didn't fully realize the extent of his injuries until this interview. This one is raw, it's truthful, and it's extremely insightful when it comes to one soldier's perspective of war, responsibility, obligation, and liberty. We talk about the truths and fallacies of PTSD, overcoming the demons of war, how a near-death experience changes your perspective, and the true cost of liberty. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The true and great cost of liberty One soldier's story of surviving a suicide bomber The truths and fallacies of PTSD Overcoming the demons of war Finding new purpose in life Why heroic soldiers don't consider themselves heroes The power of writing down your thoughts and stories Living for yourself and others The after-effects of surviving a near-fatal suicide bomber The power of responsibility and obligation How near-death changes your perspective BRAXTON MCCOY As I mentioned before, I have my friend and fellow soldier, Braxton McCoy on the show today. We've lost touch over the past 10 years or so since we served together in Iraq but when I found out he had written a book about our experience and, more specifically, his experience in Iraq, I knew that this would make for a powerful conversation. After more than a decade of physical therapy and more surgeries than I care to think about, Braxton has regained most of his strength and rebounded emotionally from an extremely traumatic situation. He has twice served as National Advocate for the Army Wounded Warrior Program, and twice as Veterans’ Advocate for the Coalition of Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans in the District of Columbia. His four years as an advocate were focused on getting veterans back to work, as a meaningful way to outflank Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. In 2013, Braxton McCoy started Warrior Employment Project, a non-profit designed to connect veteran families-in-need with CEO’s and CIO’s leading to the veterans’ employment. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/163 Website: http://orderofman.com
5/1/20181 hour, 2 minutes, 21 seconds
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FFN 105: Leaders are Readers

Some of the greatest men the world has ever known are voracious readers. Teddy Roosevelt was said to read a book every morning. General James Mattis is said to have a library of over 600 books. Bill Gates reads a book a week. Mark Cuban reads for 3 hours every day. Elon Musk was once asked how he learned to build rockets, to which he replied, “I read books.” Now, I’m not suggesting that by simply reading books, you will achieve the types of results these men have achieved but, reading and acquiring new knowledge through the written word is something that seems to be a common thread line through most, if not all, successful people. Today, I’ll share with you why that is and I’ll also be issuing you a challenge we’re going to be holding over the next 30 days. www.orderofman.com/FFN105 Please leave us a rating and review!
4/27/201815 minutes, 51 seconds
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ITT 008: Turning Information Into Application | Pierre Azzam

Today, I talk with Pierre Azzam about overcoming introversion, the feeling of being lost and turning information into application. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
4/25/201824 minutes, 45 seconds
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162: Tapping Into Your Hidden Networks | David Burkus

There is no such thing as the self-made man. While I can certainly understand and even appreciate the gesture, the truth is that every successful man had some help along the way. That help usually comes in the form of others. My guest today is David Burkus. He is the author of Friend of a Friend: Understanding the Hidden Networks That Can Transform Your Life and Career. Today, we talk about the power of "weak ties," how to leverage "preferential attachment," how to become a super connector, and how to tap into your hidden networks. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to find your hidden networks The power of "weak ties" How to develop silos and clusters of networks How to become a super connector Why building teams are critical to your networking success How to leverage "preferential attachment" The difference between mixers and activities The science of networking Connecting over strange ties How to develop stronger social capital Why the adage, "who you know" isn't the whole story Overcoming and utilizing the "illusion of majority" The benefits of becoming a network broker DAVID BURKUS Today, I have the honor of introducing you to my friend, David Burkus. As you might imagine, I have the opportunity to talk with hundreds and hundreds of successful men but David is someone who stands out to me as one of the most intelligent, articulate, and well-researched guests we've had on. He is a best-selling author, a speaker, and associate professor at Oral Roberts University. In his new book (which I highly recommend), David offers readers a new perspective on how to grow their networks and build key connections—one based on the science of human behavior, not rote networking advice. He’s delivered keynotes to the leaders of Fortune 500 companies and the future leaders of the United States Naval Academy. His TED Talk has been viewed over 1.8 million times and he is a regular contributor to Harvard Business Review. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/162 Website: http://orderofman.com
4/24/201849 minutes, 50 seconds
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FFN 104: Building a Thriving Tribe

I want to talk with you about building a thriving tribe. Now, this may be a conversation geared towards those who are working to build their own business/social media tribes like we’ve done here but, really, it’s for any man who wants to lead. And, all men are leaders. So, whether you’re leading a tribe of hundreds of thousands that spans the entire planet (like we are here), or you’ve been tasked with leading a new project at work, or you’ve got a wife and children to protect, provide, and preside for, or you’re a coach or school teacher, or in the military, or going to school, we all have tribes to lead. Today, I’m going to walk you through a few key insights that have helped me build this tribe significantly larger and more significant than I ever could have imagined. www.orderofman.com/FFN104 Please leave us a rating and review!
4/20/201811 minutes, 44 seconds
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ITT 007: Taking Ownership in Divorce | Kipp Sorensen

Today, I talk with Kipp Sorensen about taking complete ownership in divorce, being more emotionally available in relationships, and living a life of integrity and authenticity. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
4/18/201822 minutes
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161: Saved From Success | Dale Partridge

Today, we talk about something we've never directly addressed on this podcast, God. Now, before you tune me out based on that word alone, I believe that regardless of what you believe, there is something to be learned in every conversation and every experience. That's why, when my friend, Dale Partridge reached out to talk about his new book, Saved From Success, I knew I needed to have him on. At the risk of losing a few listeners and receiving a few disapproving emails, I thought this was a conversation worth having. We talk about Dale's definition of success compared to much of society's, why men are hesitant to surrender to a higher power, how to develop a life of significance and meaning, and how all of us can be saved from success. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How Dale defines success versus much of society Why men are hesitant to "surrender" to a higher power Specific money rules all men should learn to follow What does it mean to be "mature" and how to develop it Why we've become a culture where our youth are worshipped How a man begins to believe in God Where morality comes from Why the fear of death can be both a positive and negative Overcoming the "Gap of Integrity" How to develop a life of significance and meaning Why society views children as nothing more than a hindrance Becoming more influential, the right way What it truly means to be free DALE PARTRIDGE Today, I have the honor of introducing you to my friend and repeat guest, Dale Partridge. I had him on the show in June of last year to talk about turning your passion into your profession. About a month or so ago, he reached out to me regarding his new book and I thought it would make for an interesting conversation. For those of you who may not know, Dale is an extremely successful entrepreneur and the founder of Startup Camp, which teaches aspiring entrepreneurs the ropes when it comes to building businesses. I've been following him and his message for a long time and we've managed to build a friendship through our mutual work in calling men to step up to be men in their homes, their communities, their business, and every other facet of their lives. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/161   Website: http://orderofman.com
4/17/201848 minutes, 19 seconds
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FFN 103: Building a Tribe, Developing Confidence, and the Drive for Bigger and Better

Today, I answer questions from Facebook about building a tribe, creating a network of connections, developing discipline and confidence, how to help sons with their anger, and improve the drive for bigger and better. www.orderofman.com/FFN103 Please leave us a rating and review!
4/13/201826 minutes, 21 seconds
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ITT 006: Overcoming an Alcohol Addiction | Scott Pinyard

Today, I talk with Scott Pinyard about overcoming an alcohol addiction, becoming a better role model for our children, and how to eliminate debt. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
4/11/201816 minutes, 53 seconds
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160: The Value Proposition | Tyler Harris

Adding value is a phrase we'll all heard. Like any word the marketers of the world get ahold of, it begins to lose some of it's meaning when it's overused. But that overuse doesn't make it any less valuable as a strategy for growth and success. My guest today, Tyler Harris, is using the idea of adding value to create a hugely successful social media business on top of his already existing success in the financial services industry. Today, we talk about how personal responsibility lies at the foundation of success, how and why every man should develop more presence, why people are starving for the truth, and how the value proposition is so powerful. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Striking a balance in life The power of consistency Determining what course of action is best for you Why you should lead with insane levels of value How personal responsibility is the foundation of achievement Why you should avoid playing not to lose Why the truth is so refreshing to people Using social media as an accountability tool How to avoid mismanaging your time Developing presence The qualities to look for in team members TYLER HARRIS Gentlemen, I have the honor of introducing you to someone I've been following for a little while now, Tyler Harris. I've been extremely impressed by his level of dedication and discipline when it comes to building a new business using the power of social media. I talk with a lot of people who want to build a movement using the social tools at our disposal but I talk with very few who are doing it in a way that actually moves the needle. And, as I got to know more about Tyler's story, I can see why. He's been hugely successful in establishing relationships and putting in a ton of work in order to thrive in the financial services industry (which is a very hard market to break into). Now, he's applying those same principles to his new endeavors and sharing them with us today. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/160 Website: http://orderofman.com
4/10/201844 minutes, 35 seconds
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FFN 102: Fuel to the Fire

I spend a lot of time talking to men on a daily basis. One thing I’m always intrigued by is the fire that I can see (or can’t see) simply by looking into their eyes. It’s been said that “the eyes are the window to the soul.” If that’s true, you can tell a lot about a man and his passion and enthusiasm through a quick glance and connection of the eyes. Unfortunately, all too often what I see when I look is lifelessness, soullessness, and a general complacency and signs of defeat. I can certainly understand and even relate to that feeling. For a lot of years, I felt the exact same way. I occasionally look at old pictures of myself and I recognize a defeated man when I see him. Let’s face it, life is tough. It gets challenging. It gets routine, boring, and monotonous at times. And, what I experience more often than not is men who allow those circumstances to defeat them. I think one of the biggest dangers in society today is a lack of men who are passionate, fired up, engaged in creating a meaningful life for themselves and those around them. If you’re one of these guys who has lost the passion for life, have hope. The fire is there, inside you. You just need to add a little fuel to it to get it stoked again. Here are several strategies for adding fuel to the fire: www.orderofman.com/FFN102 Please leave us a rating and review!
4/6/201815 minutes
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ITT 005: The Mental Fight Club| Reece Carter

Today, I talk with Reece Carter about the power of a mental fight club, why you need to stop lying to yourself, and how to harness healthy competition. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
4/4/201820 minutes, 13 seconds
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159: Embrace the Suffering | Rorke Denver

Suffering isn't typically something people like to attract in their lives but the reality is you cannot fully escape it. It's part of the human experience. So, rather than run from the unexpected suffering we're all likely to face, my guest, Navy SEAL Commander Rorke Denver suggests we run towards it and embrace it instead. Today, we talk about the power of identifying and living by a set of ethos, how to create an extremely powerful ecosystem for success, when you should follow the rules and when you should break them, and how you can embrace the suffering life is bound to present. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The power of living by a set of ethos Whether leadership is natural or developed How to create an incredible team culture Why suffering is crucial Developing a powerful ecosystem Why you should "subject yourself to something bigger" Establishing non-negotiables The three pillars of manhood When you should follow the rules and when you shouldn't The art and science of leadership The qualities to look for in team members RORKE DENVER I was at an event about a month ago and my guest's name was brought up to me three times in about ten minutes. I was intrigued so I looked him up and new I needed to connect with him. Every once in a while, you make a new connection that feels more like old friends than new acquaintances. And, that's how I felt when I started talking with Rorke Denver (this interview is the first time we've talked). This man is truly incredible. He's a Navy SEAL, Ranger qualified, New York Times Bestselling Author. And, on top of all that, he starred in the movie, Act of Valor, and has since gone on to create an amazing business focused on the idea of Ever Onward. He's taking all the lessons he's learned and sharing them with the world so they too can learn what it takes to lead their own lives. And, speaking of leadership, this man is an incredible leader (you'll hear that in the interview) and has since become a friend of mine. I believe in finding and connecting with high-quality men and Rorke is among the best. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/159 Website: http://orderofman.com
4/3/201854 minutes, 16 seconds
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FFN 101: Lord of the Flies

There seems to be this strange shift in society today where we, collectively, have begun to give more credit to children than they deserve. Historically, adults have made the decisions and been the influential party in the direction of relevant culture and policy. Now, in some sort of weird, reality version of Lord of the Flies, we’ve begun to allow our children to dictate the tone of the conversation and set the framework for some very serious issues all of us will be impacted by. Now, before I get into what I’m going to share with you today, allow me to explain a couple things, a disclaimer if you will. First, I do not believe children should make the rules or set the tone of adult conversations. This does not mean I don’t care about our kids or have empathy and/or compassion for their perspectives and experiences. Second, some of our children are very intelligent. There’s no denying that. Still, they lack the life experience required to fully understand the ramifications of their limited experience. Third, I am not of the mindset that children should be seen and not heard. I listen to my children (and the children in my community I have a responsibility for) every day. That said, I as the adult, make the decisions. www.orderofman.com/FFN101 Please leave us a rating and review!
3/30/201818 minutes
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ITT 004: Creating a Legacy | Justin Bailey

Today, I talk with Justin Bailey about creating a legacy our children will be proud of, the power of accountability, and why we should all be more intentional about our lives. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
3/28/201816 minutes, 49 seconds
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158: The 1% Rule | Tommy Baker

Most of us tend to focus on that one big, audacious goal we all have. The problem with that is it may be so far out there or so unrealistic that subconsciously we believe we can't ever achieve it. My guest and friend, Tommy Baker, makes the case for focusing more on the process than the result. In fact, in his new book, he teaches how to fall in love with the process and achieve our wildest dreams. Today, we talk about overcoming the law of diminishing returns, how to effectively set goals, the greatest myths of achievement, and how to harness the power of the 1% rule. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to fall in love with the process as opposed to the end result Overcoming the law of diminishing returns How to effectively set goals Why focusing on the "how" is critical Developing and exercising faith The myths of achievement The power of a why, vision, purpose, and mission The 3-step code for achieving more Why auditing your life and implementing "auto-deletion" is so powerful How focusing on death helps you live better The truth about massive expectations and unrealistic goals   TOMMY BAKER Gents, my guest today is return guest, Mr. Tommy Baker. He's been on the show once before but has since written a new book and I knew, based on feedback we got from our previous conversation, we needed to have him back on. If you haven't listened to the first episode, you'll soon hear why Tommy and I get along so well. His energy is second to none and his enthusiasm and engagement with life are infectious. He is the founder of the Resist Average Academy and podcast and has a passion for helping people achieve more in every single area of their lives. Originally, a fitness coach, he's since expanded his own capacity for growth and expansion and is more focused now on helping people get their mindset right. His first book is called Unresolution and the follow up is what you'll hear all about today, called The 1% Rule. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/158 Website: http://orderofman.com 
3/27/201850 minutes, 31 seconds
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FFN 100: The Demise of Responsibility

Take a look around and I think you’ll agree with me that there seems to be more and more men who are shirking their responsibilities as men. It’s easy to understand why. It’s always harder (at least initially) to accept responsibility. If you do, it means you’ll actually have to exert yourself. You’ll have to go into the office a little earlier. You’ll have to stay a little later. You’ll miss the latest season of Game of Thrones (or whatever series happens to be on right now). It means you’ll have to volunteer to help a neighbor in need. Or serve in your church or community. It means you’ll have to put your own hobby on hold and help your child with his or her homework. It means that the hunting trip will have to wait because your business or family needs your attention. Of course, when I put it that way, no sane human being would want to accept more responsibility. So, what do we do instead? We complain about rights and entitlements. It’s pathetic. “It’s my right to free health insurance.” “It’s my right to a good job.” “I’m entitled to my wife’s support.” “My boss owes me a promotion.” “That company has to serve me the way I want to be served.” It’s selfish. It’s weak. And, most importantly, it’s a detriment to yourself and society as a whole. What happens when the majority of people begin to demand “rights” without a willingness to accept responsibility for securing those rights? I think we all know the answer to that question. And, just in case you don’t, the answer is, “it collapses.” www.orderofman.com/FFN100 Please leave us a rating and review!
3/23/201817 minutes, 22 seconds
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ITT 003: Losing Weight and Paying Off Massive Debt | Bart Folse

Today, I talk with Bart Folse about losing over 100lbs and paying off over $100,000. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
3/21/201814 minutes, 50 seconds
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156: How Hunting Makes You a Better Man | Adam Greentree

I went on my first hunt just last year and I can tell you that it was one of the most rewarding experiences I've ever had. I have another trip planned in a couple weeks and I already know it's going to push me and expand me in new ways as a man. Although I wouldn't call myself a hunter just yet, I am learning and inspired by men like my friend and guest today, Adam Greentree. He's been hunting in Australia for most of his life and I really wanted to get his perspective because it's one we just don't hear a lot. Today, we talk about why adventure is so important in the lives of men, developing an open mind to new ideas and experiences, knowing what battles to fight and when to make a stand, and how hunting can make you a better man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS • How hunting makes you a better man • The value of hunting on the pursuit of mastery • How to overcome challenges, obstacles, hurdles • Why adventure is so important in the lives of men • Developing an open mind to new ideas and experiences • How hunting helped Adam create a "new awakening" for himself • Knowing what battles to fight and when to make a stand • The conservation efforts lead by hunters • The critical importance of providing for your family • How hunting can make you more passionate and appreciative of life • Dealing with hate and criticism ADAM GREENTREE Gentlemen, today I have the honor of introducing you to my friend, Mr. Adam Greentree. Adam is an avid bowhunter from Australia, he's the host of the Bowhunter's Life Podcast, and is someone I admire and respect for his dedication to his craft and his quest for mastery when it comes to all things bowhunting. I've learned so much from this guy in such a short period of time and he's inspired me to live a life of more adventure and to pick up a bow and see what the fuss is all about for myself. I'm also blown away with his hunting schedule. The amount of hunts this guy participates in is unreal. And, how he does it and the adventures he takes part of will definitely inspire you to tap back into your primal roots. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/157 Website: http://orderofman.com
3/20/201844 minutes, 12 seconds
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FFN 099: How to Write a Book

Today, I thought I’d pull back the curtain and share with you a little bit about the process of writing a book. I’ve received a lot of messages since we published, Sovereignty: The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men about what it took to write the book, the challenges, the victories, the things I did well, and the things I didn’t do so well in making this book available to you. Let’s face it, writing a book isn’t an easy process. It’s a painstakingly slow journey that really causes you to question your own sanity. Sometimes you run across days you feel 100% committed and, other days, you want to quit and throw in the towel. So, since I’ve received so many questions about the process, I figured I’d give you some insight and you can decide from there if writing a book is something you want to take part it. We’ll cover the reason you need a strong “why,” the actual process (including the tools I used), the timeline you should follow, what format to publish in, and whether you should find a publisher or self-publish. www.orderofman.com/FFN099 Please leave us a rating and review!
3/16/201824 minutes, 46 seconds
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In the Trenches 002 | Chris Gachko

Today on In the Trenches, I interview Chis Gachko about his challenges and victories in improving his marriage, starting a family, and launching a new business. Please leave us a rating and review: www.orderofman.com/itunes Visit us at www.orderofman.com
3/14/201818 minutes, 10 seconds
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156: Calling in Your Social Capital | Jordan Harbinger

One year ago, I had my good friend, Jordan Harbinger on the show to talk about building social capital. Today, he's back on the show to talk about calling in that social capital. Through a series of unfortunate events with his business, he's had to reach out to his network, connections, and friends and request help in building a new business from the ground up. Without his work in building a strong network in the past, Jordan admits he'd be in a much worse position today. In this episode, we talk about why keeping score in relationships is a bad idea, how to get over asking people for help, something Jordan calls "systematic network maintenance," and how to call in your social capital. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why keeping score in relationships is a bad idea
 How to build a network without the expectation of anything in return Why people choose to follow certain people
 How to maintain consistent contact with your network
 How to get over asking people for help
 Getting comfortable with helping others
 Getting comfortable with asking help from others 
The strategy of "opportunistic network maintenance"
 The strategy of "systematic network maintenance"
 How to use content management systems to enhance your social capital
 Specific strategies for building out and asking for help from your network   JORDAN HARBINGER Today, I have the privilege of introducing you to my friend, yet again, Jordan Harbinger. This is his third visit on the show and every single conversation with him has been packed with value and wisdom. Jordan reached out to me a month or so ago after having left his previous business, The Art of Charm, to inform me that he was striking out on his own. 

I know a lot of you are familiar with that company and probably follow it as well. You probably also know that Jordan had a falling out with the other founders and found himself needed to tap into his social capital, which he's been building for years.

 The thing that impresses me most about Jordan is that it is apparent he applies what he teaches and, as much as I wish we were having this conversation under different circumstances, in this conversation you'll hear exactly how he's going to crush his new business venture using the skills, tools, and strategies he's been teaching for more than a decade in the business. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/156 Website: http://orderofman.com
3/13/201846 minutes, 33 seconds
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FFN 098: Makers and Takers

There are two types of people in this world: makers and takers. The reality is that we’ve all been a bit of both in our lives. But I think more and more I’m seeing the pendulum switch in society from most of us being makers to most of us being takers. It’s not sustainable. It’s not healthy. And, frankly, it’s not manly. So today, I thought I’d share why being a maker is not only your job as a man but it’s much more profitable and fulfilling way to live. And, I’ll also share five very practical tips/mindsets for turning yourself into more of a maker. www.orderofman.com/FFN098 Please leave us a rating and review!
3/9/201815 minutes, 18 seconds
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In the Trenches 001 | Bubba Downs

This week, I interview Bubba Downs, our host of the new series, In the Trenches.
3/7/201817 minutes, 14 seconds
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155: Supporting Our Nation's Warriors | Phil Randazzo

I spent time in the military, including an active-duty tour to Iraq in 2005-2006. I know how hard it can be transition from service to civilian life. One of the most challenging things for me was to go from having a clear sense of direction and purpose to not knowing what my next battle was. I know a lot of our nation's warriors feel the same. Today I talk with my good friend, Phil Randazzo, about his 15-year mission to help our military members successfully transition into civilian life. I believe so much in what he and his organization are doing that I now sit on the board of advisors for American Dream U. Today we talk about why transitioning out of the military is so challenging, what our military members should be doing prior to leaving service, how they can find a new battle to fight, and how we can support our nation's warriors. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why transitioning out of the military is so challenging Why our veterans discount their experience from the military What obligations and responsibilities we have to take care of our warriors How building a new tribe is critical for veterans The best steps to take prior to transitioning from service How to develop a new sense of purpose beyond the military Why suicide rates are so high among veterans and what to do about it How to find a new battle to fight How to harness technology to launch a successful second career Business owners' perspectives on hiring military members What valuable translatable skills military members possess PHIL RANDAZZO Gentlemen, I can't even begin to describe how excited I am to introduce you to my friend Phil Randazzo. Him and I met about a year ago through some mutual acquaintances and since began working together with his organization, American Dream U. Phil is an extremely successful business owner working in the financial services industry but more important than that is his 15-year journey to help transition our nation's warriors. I can tell you that this is a man who has his heart in the right place and is genuinely concerned with helping our veterans. He's been invited to the White House, testified in front of Congress on the behalf of veterans, been given a key to the city of Las Vegas, and commissioned as a member of the Veterans Service Commission. So, needless to say, he's committed to the work and I couldn't be more proud to be part of his organization and call him a friend. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/155 Website: http://orderofman.com )________________________________  
3/6/201843 minutes, 44 seconds
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FFN 097: Boys Need Dads

I’m sure you’re well-aware of the drug abuse, suicide, and violent crime rates with regards to young men. It’s all over the headlines these days and, with the latest school shooting in Florida, it’s become impossible to ignore. There is a real problem here. And, while the rest of the world focuses on gun control and legislation in hopes of putting a bandaid over the problems that are becoming all too common, I’d encourage us here within the Order of Man to look at the root of the problem, which I believe is fatherless homes. Let’s take a look at some of the statistics: 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census). 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes (Center for Disease Control). 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes (National Principals Association Report). 70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988). 85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction). I could go on and on about this but I think you can see that there is a problem with fathers being absent in the home. I do want to be very clear here, this is not intended to put down women who are raising children on their own. My mom did for much of my early life and she did a terrific job. That said, the facts are the facts. And this is what the data is telling us. I know I could also talk with you about the impacts on girls when fathers are absent but for the sake of this discussion, I want to talk about boys exclusively because it’s boys who are perpetuating much of the problems we see in society. I believe the solution is homes where fathers are present and engaged. What I wanted to do today is connect the dots between boys and fathers and why this relationship is so critical for the well-being of our sons and society as a whole. Here are 5 reasons why dads are needed now more than ever. www.orderofman.com/FFN097 Please leave us a rating and review!
3/2/201816 minutes, 15 seconds
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154: Own the Day, Own Your Life | Aubrey Marcus

So many of us focus on the end result - some noble goal we wish to pursue. And, while there's value in knowing where you're going, my guest today makes the case for measuring your successes in the smallest unit of measurement possible. Most of you know Aubrey Marcus, founder of Onnit. He is back again to talk about how he has managed to build so much success in his life. Today, we talk about the key to starting your day off right, the benefits of unconventional training, napping, supplements, weird lunches, and how to own the day and own your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS • Why focusing on the smallest unit of measurement is critical • The key to starting the day correctly • The power of hydrating, breathing, and freezing • Where and how supplements come into play • Utilizing drive time to your advantage • How eating a weird lunch will serve you so wellHow to be more efficient through utilizing daily napping • The benefits of unconventional physical training • How to turn your life into an experimentation • Building a powerful environment to attract powerful people • How to own your life rather than it owning you AUBREY MARCUS I have a repeat guest for you today and one most of you know. Aubrey Marcus is the founder of Onnit, which specializes in food, supplements, equipment, and apparel. The more I get to know this guy, the more I'm intrigued about how he produces results in his life and the interesting and sometimes strange way in which he experiments with everything that he can. He's a multi-sport athlete, a philosopher, a podcaster, a business owner, and author, and somewhat of a scientist when it comes to achieving total human optimization in his own life and the millions of people he's working hard to inspire. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/154 Website: http://orderofman.com
2/27/201846 minutes, 56 seconds
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FFN 096: 10 Steps to Reclaim Masculinity

We’ve all heard the adage that you are the average of your five closest friends. I don’t take that too literally but I do know that when I surround myself with powerful people, life changes. There was a time in my life where I lacked any real intentionality about who I surrounded myself with and the results (or lack thereof) showed. Since those days, I’m made a deliberate and strategic decision to find people who are thriving in ways I want to thrive and put into action some strategies that have connected me with New York Times Bestselling Authors, elite warriors and athletes, multi-millionaire business owners, and, frankly, some of the most successful people on the planet. I think we can all agree that men and masculinity are on the defensive. There is a disturbing trend in society that says we are simply not needed. This could not be further from the truth. And, unfortunately, it will take something catastrophic happening before society, as a whole, realizes the value of strong and noble men. I’m not interested in waiting until that happens because I believe our job as men is to provide, even if it isn’t all that appreciated. Unfortunately, we’ll continue to see the ramifications of a lack of men and masculinity: suicide rates, drug use, violent crimes, school drop out rate, child abuse, etc. So, in an attempt to begin the dialogue around reversing the trend, I made a post on Instagram with ten steps to reclaiming masculinity. Here they are: www.orderofman.com/FFN096 Please leave us a rating and review!
2/23/201815 minutes, 11 seconds
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153: Developing Physical and Emotional Intelligence | Josh Trent

We all know health and wellness are important when it comes to stepping into our full potential but most of us tend to think it ends with eating right and exercising. While those elements are certainly important on our road to a healthy life, it goes well beyond lifting weights and eating salads. My guest today is Josh Trent. He is the founder of Wellness Force and is focused on helping people across the planet lead healthy lives. Today we talk about connecting the head and heart, how to identify which beliefs are serving you, how to harness both the beast and the spirit inside all men, and how to develop physical and emotional intelligence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What the term "wellness" actually means How to develop physical and emotional intelligence How to connect "head to the heart" How to identify what beliefs and actions are serving you The power of a technology fast How to develop more confidence How to reconcile ownership and kindness How to use the past for forward progression How to harness both the beast and the spirit Using the process of reflection for growth Why transforming the mind leads to a transformation everywhere else   JOSH TRENT My guest today is the founder of Wellness Force, Josh Trent. Josh and I met at the Spartan World Championship and since the minute I met him, I've been blown away with his energy and enthusiasm for life and the desire to live it well. Throughout his 14 years inside the health and wellness Josh has helped thousands of men understand and develop physical and emotional intelligence. His knowledge and expertise goes well beyond what every other "fitness guru" will tell you as he takes a more well-rounded approach to developing the body, mind, and soul. He's worked with and interview hundreds of the sharpest minds in the wellness industry and has been on his own personal journey and transformation which you'll hear more of in our interview. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/153 Website: http://orderofman.com
2/20/201845 minutes, 35 seconds
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FFN 095: Connecting with Powerful People

We’ve all heard the adage that you are the average of your five closest friends. I don’t take that too literally but I do know that when I surround myself with powerful people, life changes. There was a time in my life where I lacked any real intentionality about who I surrounded myself with and the results (or lack thereof) showed. Since those days, I’m made a deliberate and strategic decision to find people who are thriving in ways I want to thrive and put into action some strategies that have connected me with New York Times Bestselling Authors, elite warriors and athletes, multi-millionaire business owners, and, frankly, some of the most successful people on the planet. The reason I want you to listen very closely to this episode is that I’m not particularly anything special. There are a lot of men out there who believe that the reason I’ve been able to connect with these people is because I’m successful. Guys, that just isn’t true. I may be experiencing some success now but when I started Order of Man, I had absolutely no track record of success. I’ve simply figured some things out and executed relentlessly. So this isn’t something only extraordinary people can do. Whether you’re achieving huge levels of success of none at all, everyone can implement the five steps I’m going to share with you and do the same thing I’ve done. The first point I need to make is that all of these five steps have the foundational element of adding value. I want you to focus on serving others and enhancing their lives. That’s it. At it’s most basic level, that is how you succeed and position yourself in the company with the right people. But let’s break this down even further. www.orderofman.com/FFN095 Please leave us a rating and review!
2/16/201815 minutes, 8 seconds
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152: The Future of Higher Education | Adam Braun

Higher education seems to be quite the topic these days. With the rising costs of education and the debate as to whether or not students are learning applicable skills, it seems inevitable that we'll see a shift away from traditional higher education to something more practical and affordable. I've been an advocate for trade schools and apprenticeships programs for some time now but my guest today gives us yet another option to the challenges our young men and women face on the road to higher education. My guest today is the founder of MissionU, a one-year higher educational program that gives students the skills and experience to succeed after college. Today we talk about the rising cost of education and what can be done about it, how education institutions and students can and should work together towards solutions, bringing back the human element to schooling, and the future of higher education. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why traditional higher education is becoming less relevant
 The future of higher education
 Enhancing the human element to higher education
 The rising cost of college and how to reduce it
 How to create win-wins between educational institutions and potential employers
 Utilizing technology to make education more efficient
 The power of teaching "soft skills" in college 
How colleges have an obligation to teach applicable skills
 Where traditional education is falling short 
How educational institutions and students can work together for solutions
 The power of investing in student's education ADAM BRAUN My guest today is Adam Bruan. Adam is a New York Times Bestselling author, an entrepreneur, and a speaker. He is the founder of Pencils of Promise, a "for-purpose" organization dedicated to building schools around the world. In fact, they have now built over 400 schools. What's even more impressive is that he took $25 and turned it into this organization that has generated $30,000,000 of funds raised. Since then, he has turned his attention to the challenges surrounding higher education and has dedicated himself to creating solutions to some of the world's most challenging problems. You're going to hear the passion and excitement in his voice as Adam and I have a conversation everyone would agree needs to be had about where to go with our post-secondary education. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/152 Website: http://orderofman.com
2/13/201841 minutes, 24 seconds
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FFN 094: Solve Your Own Problems

It is amazing to me how quick we are to talk to other people about their issues and their problems yet we seem to be incapable of recognizing the problems in ourselves. It’s sad because we spend so much time and attention and energy on changing something that is completely outside of our control when the real power comes from changing the thing that is entirely within our control – ourselves. I get it. It’s easier to focus our attention elsewhere than it is on us. If we flip the mirror around and take a look at where we’re falling short, it leads to work and effort to do something about it. www.orderofman.com/FFN094 Please leave us a rating and review!
2/9/201813 minutes, 32 seconds
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151: Know Fear | Tony Blauer

Fear is something that every single one of us experiences but the reality is that most of us don't know how to adequately face it when it rears its ugly head. Your ability to understand your fear and how to use it to your advantage may be the difference between life and death. Today, I'm joined by Tony Blauer with Blauer Tactical System in a conversation every man needs to hear. We talk about handling confrontation effectively, when violence is the answer, how to become what Tony calls a "courageous bystander," and how you can become more powerful by knowing your fear.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How to handle confrontation How to improve your "respons-ability" How the brain learns What is the survival response system How the "startle-flinch response" helps you Why some people don't fight back When is violence the answer Four critical moves in dangerous circumstances How we overestimate our own abilities The three-step process for handling threats How to become a courageous bystander What to do when you're punched in the proverbial face Four steps to managing fear more effectively TONY BLAUER My guest today is Tony Blauer. Tony  is a self-defense expert and the creator of the SPEAR system which stands for Spontaneous Protection Enabling Accelerated Response.

I know that's a mouthful but what he's been able to learn, develop, and teach is how to harness the body's natural defense mechanisms to respond to a threat of violence effectively.

He's been training special forces and LEOs since the 80's and is one of the only experts who has successfully affected training across all the combat-related communities: self-defense, combat sports and the military & law enforcement sector.

Today, you're going to hear the passion in his voice as he talks with us about stepping into the role of protector for ourselves, our families, and our communities. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/151 Website: http://orderofman.com
2/6/201844 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 093: Men are Providers

  Men are providers. Period. And, there's more than one way for us to provide: Financial, Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual. Today, I share an excerpt from my new book, Sovereignty: The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men, regarding how we, as men, can step more fully into our calling to provide for ourselves, our families, and our communities. If you enjoy this excerpt, I ask that you consider picking up a copy of my new book, Sovereignty: The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men. And, if you already have, please leave us an Amazon review so we can get the message of masculine sovereignty out to the world. Enjoy the excerpt. www.orderofman.com/FFN093 Please leave us a rating and review!
2/2/201816 minutes, 40 seconds
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150: Own the Dash | Dakota Meyer

There are two days you have no control over - the day you're born and the day you die. Every other day in life represents an opportunity to choose how you decide to live it. My guest today, Dakota Meyer, calls this "Own the Dash." The dash is all the days between your date of birth and your date of death. Dakota Meyer is a retired Marine and the recipient of the highest military honor one could earn, the Medal of Honor. Today we talk about how he views the events that earned him that recognition, overcoming an attempted suicide, how he has redefined himself through living in service of others, and how he owns the dash. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What it means to "Own the Dash"
Turning adversity into opportunity
The value of service to others in overcoming struggle
How humility allows you to thrive
Not using PTSD as an excuse to self-destruct
Overcoming a suicide attempt
The power of owning your failures
How to make better decisions
How to find and connect with the right people
Implementing a team in your life
How legacy can drive you to do great things DAKOTA MEYER Wow guys, this has got be one of my favorite episodes to date. My guest, Dakota Meyer is a Marine, a Medal of Honor recipient, a New York Times Bestselling author, a business owner, and probably one of the most humble men I've had the privilege of meeting. In 2009, he and his squad were ambushed by Taliban insurgents where he learned some of  his team members were missing. He went back to find them and, in the process, rescued 12 wounded and provided cover for another 24 Marines and Soldiers. I was absolutely blown away with his perspective on those events (which was not what I expected) and the subsequent depression and failed suicide attempt that followed. Since then, Dakota has gone on to found a successful construction company and has now dedicated himself to serving others and allowing others to use his platform to share messages of inspiration across this nation. Sit back and buckle up. Dakota is one of the most real humans I've ever met as he shares some of his personal stories (good and bad) that have made him who he is today.   Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes   Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/150   Website: http://orderofman.com
1/30/201839 minutes, 10 seconds
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FFN 092: The Myth of "Toxic Masculinity"

There’s a term that’s being tossed around these days that’s really been bothering me the more I think about it. The term is “toxic masculinity.” The reason that term bothers me is because, frankly, it does not exist. It’s not real. And, to perpetuate the term is to do injustice to what it means to be a man in the first place – which is probably why it’s pushed with such a heavy hand. I think there’s a growing movement to undermine masculinity and the term, “toxic masculinity (and others like it)” is just one way to spread the propaganda that somehow masculinity is bad, or evil, or toxic. It just isn’t the case. Masculinity, by its very nature is good. It’s strong. It’s assertive. It’s productive. It’s caring. It’s compassion. It’s charitable. And, I’ve even go so far as to say it’s loving. www.orderofman.com/FFN092 Please leave us a rating and review!
1/26/201810 minutes, 9 seconds
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149: Purpose-Driven Entrepreneurship | Pete Roberts

Everyone these days wants to be an entrepreneur and while I applaud their desire to go out and create something from nothing, too many men are in it for the wrong reason. Today, I'm joined by my friend and founder of Origin USA to talk about the meaning of entrepreneurship. This one is unlike a lot of the podcast you see on entrepreneurship where you'll hear the ten tactics every entrepreneur needs to know. We go deep into why entrepreneurship is so important, why you should and shouldn't go into business for yourself, why vision is so critical, ethical responsibilities and obligations, and why creating a business without compromise is so critical.

 SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The value of entrepreneurship 
Why someone should become an entrepreneur
 Why someone should not become an entrepreneur
 Why striping away your ego is critical to your success
 Developing a belief in yourself
 How to develop more confidence
 How to use faith to take more calculated risks 
Our moral and ethical responsibilities as business owners 
The value of resourcefulness
 How to find new pathways
 How to revive old ways of doing things and "modernizing" them
 The value of a challenge and competition
 Why creating a business "without compromise" is a huge competitive edge
 How to connect with influential people using timing and value PETE ROBERTS Gentlemen, today I am joined my my friend, entrepreneur, and founder of Origin USA, Mr. Pete Roberts. I came across what Pete was doing through Jocko (who is Pete's partner) and was immediately inspired by his story and message behind him and his company, Origin. This man is not just an entrepreneur but someone who has meaning and significance about the work he's doing to bring manufacturing back to his hometown and create a product that is entirely made in the US, without compromise. More than anything, today you're going to hear why he does what he does, where his idea of vision, ingenuity, and discipline come from and how the notion of business ownership ties into our responsibility as men to protect, provide, and preside in our homes, our businesses, and our communities. Again, this isn't a checklist-type interview of everything an entrepreneur should know and do but a conversation about ideas, responsibility, and creativity. Listen to the stories and the message Pete has to share, implement it, and I guarantee you'll live a more fulfilled life and help those you come in contact with along the way do the same. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/149 Website: http://orderofman.com
1/23/201844 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 091: A Crash Course in Confidence

One topic I see talked about more than just about any other is that of building confidence. It seems that more and more men are lacking the confidence they desire in their lives. I think there’s a lot of reasons for this so today, I thought I’d share with you why we seem to be experiencing more of that, and give you some very quick and actionable tips in order to develop confidence and, of course, the results that stem from it. More than anything, you’ve got to understand that you are not entitle to confidence. I know you may think you know that but it’s amazing to me how many men seem to think confidence is something men are born with and that some men are just inherently confident. I think that has some truth to it. Some men are born with a predisposition to be more confident in their lives but I believe the bigger variable to building and developing confidence is the ability to take action despite fear. www.orderofman.com/FFN091 Please leave us a rating and review!
1/19/20189 minutes, 50 seconds
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148: True Transformation Through Exercise and Nutrition | Josiah Novak

It's that time of the year again when the masses begin their new year's resolutions. Fitness, exercise, and nutrition is always at the top of people's New Year's Resolutions but all too often people fail within the first couple of weeks or months to stick to their plans. Today, I am joined by my friend and fitness coach, Josiah Novak, to talk about nutrition and exercise and why people fall short of their objectives. We cover why they fail, how to create the right environment for success, how to get back on track when you fall off, and how to create a true transformation in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why people fail with their health resolutions Why we look for the magic pill Common health challenges to overcome How to create the right environment for success The basics of establishing healthy nutrition and exercise habits Why health is usually the first thing to go How to develop more discipline How to get back on track when you fall off Identifying your values to keep you on track Why you should focus on the process rather than the results How to find the correct motivators How to maintain consistency and focus Best tips for exercise and nutrition
   JOSIAH NOVAK Gentlemen, I'm stoked to introduce you to my guest today, Mr. Josiah Novak. I met Josiah through a mutual friend a little over a year ago and through getting to know him over the past year, I can tell you he is the real deal. I think it's easy for us to assume that these fitness guys have always had the perfect physique but what I admire about Josiah is that he has gone through his own transformation of losing over 80lbs and is now dedicated to helping men around the world do the same in their lives. You're going to hear that he's not all marketing and hype and another one of "those guys" but a real person who has learned to take a practical no-nonsense approach to the way we move, how we exercise, and what we eat.
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1/16/201845 minutes, 23 seconds
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FFN 090: A Code of Conduct

Most of you know by now that we have live meetup in Nashville coming up January 26th and 27th. It is going to be an absolutely killer event and I want you there with us. So today, I thought I’d pull back the curtain a little bit and share with you some of the details so you know what we’re up to. If you’ve been to one conference, you’ve been to all of them but what we wanted to do here is create something truly incredible because the last thing I want to do is sit in a hot, stuffy room for two days and be talked at. I can’t imagine you’d want to do that either. So, at the risk, of giving away all of our ideas on how to run an effective meetup for men (unlike a lot of these conferences), let me break down eight things about this event you’re going to want to a part of. www.orderofman.com/FFN090 Please leave us a rating and review!
1/12/20186 minutes, 41 seconds
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147: Self-Mastery through Bow Hunting | John "Dud" Dudley

Self-mastery is something I talk about a lot. There are a ton of external sources that seem to be fighting against us at any given time but, even worse than that, is that we seem to be our own worst enemy at times. The best way to combat that is to learn to master your natural tendency to do things you know you shouldn't. Today, I'm joined by my friend, John Dudley, to talk about archery which, at first glance, doesn't seem to have to do with self-mastery. But that couldn't be further from the truth. The amount of dedication and discipline this man has towards become a master of his craft is inspiring and something we can all learn from. We talk about becoming a more well-rounded man, the power that comes from honing a craft, why coach-ability is critical, becoming a lifelong learner, and how to master yourself through bow hunting. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Connecting with nature through bow hunting Becoming more a well-rounded man Taking ownership of your life The power that comes from honing a craft Why coach-ability is critical Ethical responsibilities we have The value of knowing where your food comes from Where training comes into play The relationship between want and waste Why repetition is so important Being a lifelong learner Holding yourself to a higher standard JOHN DUDLEY Guys, I'm stoked to bring you this conversation with one of the most qualified men to talk with you about mastery and discipline. I recently picked up archery and, in fact, I harvested my first deer earlier this year. I underestimated what it would take to make that hunt a success but a lot of what I learned, I learned from my guest, John Dudley. He's been involved in archery since he was 10 years old (he talks about his first hunt) and since went on to shoot professionally for 20 years with over 120 events worldwide including gold and silver medal with the US archery team. He's dedicated his life to archery and you're going to hear the passion in his voice as he is striving to become a master in his and show us how to master ours.   Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/147 Website: http://orderofman.com
1/9/201847 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 089: Meet me in Nashville

Most of you know by now that we have live meetup in Nashville coming up January 26th and 27th. It is going to be an absolutely killer event and I want you there with us. So today, I thought I’d pull back the curtain a little bit and share with you some of the details so you know what we’re up to. If you’ve been to one conference, you’ve been to all of them but what we wanted to do here is create something truly incredible because the last thing I want to do is sit in a hot, stuffy room for two days and be talked at. I can’t imagine you’d want to do that either. So, at the risk, of giving away all of our ideas on how to run an effective meetup for men (unlike a lot of these conferences), let me break down eight things about this event you’re going to want to a part of. www.orderofman.com/FFN089 Please leave us a rating and review!
1/5/201810 minutes, 54 seconds
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146: A Life of Adventure | Laval St. Germain

I want you to take a serious, truthful look at your life. When is the last time you went on an adventure? I'm not talking about a date with your wife, or trying a new restaurant, or you happened to take a new way to work. I'm talking about a real adventure that scared you, pushed you, and made you feel alive? Today I'm joined by adventure enthusiast, Laval St. Germain to talk about why it's critical we "step out, and shove off." Today we cover establishing new perspectives for life challenges, why most men are content with living vicariously through others, the danger of cognitive distortions, and how to live a life of adventure. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What calls a man to adventure Overcoming excuses Eliminating discomfort Weight risk vs. reward Creating a new perspective for life's challenges Why we have a desire to prove ourselves The concept of practicing misfortune Mental preparation The danger of cognitive distortions Rising to the level of our training Finding experts Why living vicariously through others is never enough Avoiding comparison What exactly is delayed activation LAVAL ST. GERMAIN Today, I'm joined by adventurer and explorer extraordinaire, Laval St. Germain. This man is so qualified to talk with us about living a life of adventure. His resume includes being the only Canadian to climb Everest without supplemental oxygen, climbing an skiing Iraq's highest peak, the fastest ever crossing North Atlantic solo row, climbing the highest peaks on 6 of the 7 continents among other amazing accomplishments. He spent 53 days rowing across the Atlantic, and lost three fingers to frostbite. He's a mountaineer, an endurance athlete, and a pilot. What more can I say about this guy? He's incredible and inspiring. I know you'll walk away inspired to live your own life of adventure. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/146 Website: http://orderofman.com
1/2/201844 minutes, 45 seconds
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FFN 088: The Best Investment You Can Make

I’m looking at a few of my investment accounts this morning and one of the things I’ve invested in this year is cryptocurrency. As of this recording, Bitcoin is over $17,000. But, what I want to talk with you about today has nothing to do with the financial markets. The only reason I bring that up is because I’m amazed at how often people are willing to speculate in something as volatile as Bitcoin and, yet, when you ask them how they’re investing in themselves, all you hear is crickets. Now, I don’t know where Bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies are going to be in the next 12 months and longer. Depending on when you’re listening to this, it could have skyrocketed even higher or completely crashed and burned. But, what I do know is that finding a way to invest in yourself this year will always prove to be a good investment. So, today, I thought I’d cover six ways you can and should invest in yourself. Again, this is not going to have anything to do with any financial markets. I am a financial advisor by trade but I don’t want to talk about that. I want to talk with you about the best asset you’ll ever have – yourself. And, if that’s truly the case, you’re going to want to invest more heavily in yourself than you have in the past. This year alone (2017), I will have invested roughly $30,000 in myself. Some of you may think that’s low and some of you will think that’s high. Either way, it’s all relative. The more you can invest in yourself the better. In fact, I recommend earmarking funds from your paycheck each month to invest in yourself – at least 10%. So let’s talk about 6 ways to invest in yourself. www.orderofman.com/FFN088 Please leave us a rating and review!
12/29/201711 minutes, 18 seconds
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145: Retire Early | Deacon Hayes

Finances is such a huge component of living your life to the fullest. But in my experience, it's often one of the most overlooked. Not because men don't believe it's not important but because it's often complex and challenging to get your money to work for you. One of the most commonly asked questions I get is, "What book would you recommend for personal finances?" Although there's a ton to choose from, there hasn't been one that I consistently feel good about recommending. That is until now. My friend, Deacon Hayes, the author of You Can Retire Early joins me to talk about developing a personal financial plan, how to sift through all the financial noise, three investment vehicles to consider (including a quick conversation on Cryptocurrency), and how you too can retire early. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What is "retirement" and how is it changing The importance of finding your why Knowing the right time to retire How to develop a personalized plan When and if to hire a financial advisor Three must-avoid pitfalls of financial planning Software available to help you build wealth Why Cryptocurrency should fall into your plan How to sift through all the noise The most effective way to pay off debt Three investment categories you should invest in The power of the right environment How to deal with financial setbacks Commonly held financial myths DEACON HAYES Today, my guest is personal finance blogger and author Deacon Hayes. I actually met Deacon years ago when I launched my first podcast many of you don't even know about. We've since had the opportunity to talk about blogging, podcasting, and of course money (which is something we're both passionate about). Deacon has been featured in Yahoo Finance, US News, Investopedia, CNN Money, and many more and has recently wrote a book, You Can Retire Early. You're going to hear in this conversation why Deacon is well-qualified to talk about money and finances and learn through his approach that the financial conversations and planning needed aren't really as complex as many institutions would have you believe. Get the note pads and your dusty old financial plans out and learn how you can retire early. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/145 Website: http://orderofman.com
12/26/201742 minutes, 23 seconds
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FFN 087: Overcoming Guilt

Whether it’s the argument that you got in with you wife, the way you treated your children, how you may have handled a situation at work, or with a client, there’s no doubt that all of us have faced guilt in our lives. This is natural and, actually, a productive emotion to experience. I know a lot of you, when I say that guilt is productive, are wondering what exactly I’m talking about but I firmly believe that the range of emotions we experience – even the negative emotions are helpful. Negative (as well as positive emotions) are simply indicators of our lives. They tell us what’s going well, what’s not going well and where we need to focus our attention and energy in order to produce new outcomes. It’s when we dwell on these emotions or allow them to cripple us from doing the work we know we should be doing that it becomes a problem. And, I see this time and time again with the men within The Order. They make a mistake they regret and, rather than learning from it, they wallow in their own self-pity and completely incapacitate themselves and their ability to move on and improve as a result of their mistake. Look, I get it. I’ve made mistakes that I haven’t been proud of but dwelling on the past does nothing to enhance your future and there certainly isn’t anything you can do about it other than you those mistakes as fuel to alter the course of your life moving forward. And, that’s what I want to talk with you about today. I want to talk with you about three very simple steps you can use to overcome the destructive power of unchecked emotions. Let me be clear though, I’m not talking about hiding emotions or just getting over it. I’m talking about using these powerful feelings we all experience to do the work of a man. See, there seems to be two sides of the fence on this. One side says, “Men don’t express emotions.” The other side says, “Men need to be vulnerable.” I don’t sit fully with either camp. I think there’s a time and place for everything. There’s a time I can and need to be vulnerable and a time, where I need to simply get over it and re-engage in the work that needs to be done. www.orderofman.com/FFN087 Please leave us a rating and review!
12/22/201710 minutes, 30 seconds
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144: Living Your Full Potential | Bedros Keuilian

When I talk about "reaching your full potential," it's a challenge because reaching your full potential is pretty difficult to define, and it's a moving target. Once you think you've reached it, you realize you've only scratched the surface on what you can do. Today, I talk with someone who is striving every day to do some amazing things in his life and helping you do the same. This is a powerful, powerful episode where we deep dive into some uncomfortable conversations about taking charge of your life and producing big. We cover the excuses we like to tell ourselves, learning how to take imperfect action, how to dominate and crush competition, and striving to reach your full potential. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What is the American Dream Overcoming your excuses Learning to take imperfect action How to dominate and crush the competition The difference between being broke versus being poor How to thrive on disadvantage Increasing ambition Finding your hidden genius The power of mentorship How to find and add more value Tapping into your fullest potential Developing self-confidence Building a proper relationship with money Becoming more decisive BEDROS KEUILIAN Men, I am so honored to introduce you to our guest today, Mr. Bedros Keuilian. He's a coach. He's a mentor. He's an author. But, more importantly he is an owner in several multi-million dollar business including the owner and founder of Fit Body Bootcamp which is one of the largest and most successful franchises in the world. 

You're going to hear the tremendous odds this man overcome including migrating to the US, eating out of dumpsters, having lice washed out of his hair by his mother with fuel, and so much more.

 He's been featured in Inc, Entrepreneur Magazine, Dr. Oz, Huffington Post, and so many more publications and today he's here to talk with us about reaching our full potential. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/144 Website: http://orderofman.com  
12/19/201741 minutes, 16 seconds
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FFN 086: 5 Books Every Man Should Read in 2018

It’s been said that, “The man who does not read has no advantage over the man who cannot read.” I believe that’s true. We have so much access to the world’s greatest minds and thinkers and all we have to do is tap into those minds through the power of their written words. I didn’t always think so highly of reading. In high school, I would do whatever I could to get out of reading and doing book reports. In fact, the only book I remember reading was The Old Man and the Sea which is, of course, a classic. But now, I read at least 50 books per year. I make it an objective of mine to read one per week. I get a lot of questions about how I’m able to do this and, although that’s not the subject of today’s podcast, I do want to tell you it’s very simple. I commit to reading for at least 30 minutes per day. Every single one of us have 30 extra minutes in the day and, if there’s one thing you can do to spend that time most effectively, it’s reading. Again, you’re tapping into the most powerful minds and ideas in the history of this planet. Incredible. So, with that said – and just in time for the holidays and last minute Christmas shopping – let me share with you five books that are an absolute must on that list of 50 I would suggest you read. Keep in mind that these are in no particular order. www.orderofman.com/books2018 Please leave us a rating and review!
12/15/20179 minutes, 27 seconds
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143: The Appearance of Power | Tanner Guzy

Every time I bring up a conversation about style as it relates to masculinity, I'm met with hesitation because, "real men don't care about what they wear." And, while that sounds good to say, it just isn't true. If it were, we'd all walk around naked or a baggy t-shirt and sweat pants everywhere we go. Besides, your style is a powerful tool in building influence, gaining confidence, and creating opportunities for yourself. My guest today is my good friend, Tanner Guzy with Masculine Style. I've learned more from him about what I wear, what it says about me, and how it's perceived by others in the last couple years than I have the rest of my life. And while it's hard to quantify the results dressing well produces, there's no doubt there's a connection between what I look like and my income, confidence, and influence.
 
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The difference between power and appeal How your clothing communicates to others Tactics vs. strategy in what you wear The 3 style archetypes 6 factors to choosing your style How to focus on meaning versus just looking good Where confidence stems from How to improve your style without having to wear a suit How to maintain practically and still look good How to overcome the need for validation in the way you look How to develop and maintain influence with others Why every man should focus on improving his style 
 TANNER GUZY Gentlemen, my guest today is my friend Tanner Guzy. Tanner and I met years ago. In fact, he was the second guest I ever had on the show. I used to balk at the idea of dressing well because I thought it was more about what's inside a man than what he's wearing. And, while there is validity to that, our style says a lot about who we are. Tanner is a deep thinker (which I appreciate) and goes well beyond how to wear a suit and what shoes go best with what pants. He delves deep into the why and the psychology of what we wear and how it produces results in our lives. And, that's what we're all about here - producing results. And, if I can take learn just one thing about what I wear that will help me in my life, you can bet that I'm going to do it. Tanner is going to show us how. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/143 Website: http://orderofman.com
12/12/201748 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 085: Activate the Hunt | Collin Cottrell

This one is a little different for you today. Normally, on Friday, you get to listen to me talk about some things that have been bouncing around in my brain but, today, you get to listen to an on-the-spot conversation between me and my friend Collin Cottrell. Collin and I went on a hunt together about a month ago. This was my very first hunt and I thought you’d enjoy hearing about it and the lessons that I learned along the way. So, I asked Collin (again, my friend and founder of Activate the Hunt) to interview me and, of course, I interview him about what goes into a successful hunt and why he does what he does. www.orderofman.com/FFN085 Please leave us a rating and review!
12/8/201731 minutes, 58 seconds
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142: Developing, Operating, and Expanding a Business | Cameron Herald

Running a business can be a challenge. I know, I own two of them. At times, things seem to be firing on all cylinders and at other times, it seems like I'm just barely hanging on. Regardless of where you are with your business (and even if you're an employee of a business), there is always something to be learned in how to run the operations more effectively. My guest today, Cameron Herald, grew 1-800-Got-Junk from $2,000,000 in revenue to over $106,000,000 in just six short years among other amazing business accomplishments. We talk about developing a board of advisors, attracting top-quality talent, creating work/life balance, the art of delegation, and how to develop, operate, and expand a business. SHOWNOTES How to inspire a team Developing a management style Scaling business operations Running team meetings effectively and efficiently Attracting top-quality talent Developing a board of advisors Finding work/life balance Starting the morning off right The power of delegation 4 rules for a powerful business meeting Creating a vivid vision Utilizing a Chain of Command CAMERON HERALD My guest today, Cameron Herald, is a speaker, author, and business coach working with Chief Executive Officers and Chief Operating Officers around the world. What I like most about Cameron is his no-B.S approach to building and scaling businesses. He has such an ability to cut the heart of the matter and eliminate anything that keeps businesses from growing. As you heard earlier, Cameron grew 1-800-Got-Junk from $2,000,000 in revenue to $106,000,000 and has led and operated multiple other $100,000,000 business. You'll see why that is as you hear Cameron and I talk about scaling businesses, the things that keep a business from thriving, and how to make the most of every single minute to maximize results within employees, officers, and the organization as a whole. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/142 Website: http://orderofman.com
12/5/201742 minutes, 23 seconds
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FFN 084: Be The Patriarch

The other day, I had made a comment in our Facebook Group about being a Patriarch. Someone suggested I put that phrase on a shirt but I thought it would be better to explain it here. Very simply, a Patriarch is the male leader of a family. It’s becoming painfully obvious that we are lacking male leadership in the home. Divorce rates are on the rise as they have been for some time and the amount of young boys and girls who are growing up without fathers is scary to even think about. And, I don’t even think we’ve begun to see the fallout from the leaderless homes. Already, we see young boys and girls confused about their gender, we see violence, addiction, and the fact that the sexual misconduct perpetuated by men is seemingly climbing. I can’t help but think that a lot of these problems could be addressed by worthy and honorable male leadership in the home. I don’t think all of this would go away but if more men would lead their families the way they’re meant to be led, much of the negativity we see in society today would dwindle. I want to be really clear here. I know there are situations in which the mother is responsible for leading the home. Maybe dad is out of the picture for whatever reason. But, regardless, a man’s influence in the home cannot be replicated. Men and women are different. Where women are great in certain areas, men fall short. And, where men are great in certain areas, women fall short. This is why it is so crucial that there be both a masculine and feminine presence in the home. Specifically, I want to talk about the masculine presence in the home because that’s where we as a society seem to be falling short. Look, if you’re a father and/or a husband, your job is to lead. Period. You are designed to lead. You were born to lead. And, what’s really fascinating is that the majority of women I talk with who tune into what we’re doing here are craving men who lead with honor, strength, and integrity. So today, of all the factors that make you and I the Patriarchs of the family we’ve been called to be, I want to talk with you about three specifically. www.orderofman.com/FFN084 Please leave us a rating and review!
12/1/20179 minutes, 51 seconds
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141: Live Life on Your Terms | Hunter McIntyre

There was a time in my life when I felt as if I was living for everyone else. I woke up to a marriage that was in shambles, a business that was failing, a bank account that seemed to be in the red more often than it was in the black, and a lifestyle I hated. That has all changed for me. My guest today, Hunter McIntyre, although taking a different path, was also living a life other than what he really wanted. That was until he found Obstacle Course Racing and the passion for life you'll hear in his voice. Today, we're going to talk about how that discovery changed his life, how to identify where you need to grow most, the power that comes in trying new things, and how to life life on your terms. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Identifying where you need to grow most The value of meditation and self-talk Developing story lines that serve you How to refine who you are The power of trying new things Why selfishness isn't always a bad thing How to shine your light for others Discovering what the world needs from you Learning to let go of things that no longer serve you Cultivating the right attitude for life How to keep the your fire burning
   HUNTER MCINTYRE Guys, today I have the privilege of introducing to you Hunter McIntyre. Hunter is a Professional Obstacle Course Racer, a two-time winner of Steve Austin's Broken Skull Challenge, and is one of the highest paid Obstacle Course Racers in the world. What's even more interesting is that what we might recognize in Hunter today was nowhere to be found when he was younger. Most of his younger years were spent doing drugs and getting drunk, run-ins with the law, and several rehab stays. Eventually, he found his way into modeling working with J. Crew and Abercrombie and Fitch. But, it wasn't until he found Obstacle Course Racing that he truly transformed his life. I just watched this guy compete in the Spartan World Championships in Tahoe. He is the real deal. He is loud. He's in your face. But, there is no doubt he thinks big and lives life on his terms. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/141 Website: http://orderofman.com
11/28/201741 minutes, 30 seconds
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FFN 083: The Power of Gratitude

I wasn’t going to talk with you about gratitude because everyone is going to be talking about it with Thanksgiving and it seems to be a little played out but that thought goes against what makes gratitude so powerful in the first place. I truly have so much to be grateful for and, regardless of your station in life right now, so do you. When, we overlook (like I was about to this year) all that we have to be thankful for, we forget that we already have so much in our lives and life is good. www.orderofman.com/FFN083 Please leave us a rating and review!
11/24/20179 minutes, 11 seconds
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140: Living the Fit Life | Drew Canole

4 years ago, I was fat, out of shape, and miserable. My relationships were suffering. My business was falling apart. And, I was at a complete loss on how to turn my life around. That was until I began to take better care of my body and focused on making the most of the machines that are my body and mind. Today,  I am joined by the founder of FitLifeTV, Drew Canole. We talk about his transformation as well as mine, the most powerful way a man can start his morning, how to embrace and learn from your mistakes, the power of a clear vision, and how you too can live the fit life.
 
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The best way to start your morning The role of creation vs. victim How to embrace your mistakes The law of attraction Building the structures and systems for a healthy life Mastering your mindset Why juicing is such a powerful way to get your nutrients Why we do the opposite of what we know we should What besides nutrition goes into living a fit life Finding congruency in your life To cheat or not on your meals The power of vision
   DREW CANOLE Gentlemen, I've been looking forward to introducing you to my guest and friend, Drew Canole for some time now. I've been following his work with FitLifeTV and Organifi for years and we when were able to finally connect and get him on the show, I jumped at the opportunity. You're going to hear this guys' excitement for life as we discuss all things health related (which goes well beyond exercise and nutrition). He is a bestselling author and, as I said before the Founder and CEO of FitLifeTV where he has reached millions of people across the planet on the topics of health, fitness, healing, and longevity. Get your notepad out as Drew and I have an incredible conversation on living the fit life. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/140  Website: http://orderofman.com 
11/21/201745 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 082: Every man a Marketer

Whether you’re trying to win the girl, get a job promotion, or get new clients, it’s critical that you wrap your head around the idea that you are a marketer. Today, I’m going to share with you why this mindset is so important, some of the pitfalls we should avoid, and some very simple strategies you can implement to help you get more in your life. I know there’s a lot of guys who think that they’re not marketers or that somehow this is a shady way of looking at things but I can assure you it’s not. If you have a product (whether it’s you or some service or offering you have), you have an obligation to bring it to the market and share it with the world. www.orderofman.com/FFN082 Please leave us a rating and review!
11/17/201711 minutes, 40 seconds
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139: Wild at Heart | John Eldredge

"Deep in his heart every man longs for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue." This is one of my favorite quotes about masculinity and, if you've been following us for long, you've heard it from me a thousand times. Today, I am honored and have the privilege of talking with the author of that quote and one of my top 5 most recommended books on masculinity (Wild at Heart), John Eldredge. We talk about the secret to a man's soul, the single question every man needs to have answered, society's attack on gender, how to embrace authentic masculinity, and why every man is wild at heart. SHOWNOTES The secret to a man's soul The single question EVERY man needs answered Society's attack on gender How to embrace authentic masculinity How masculinity is earned How to overcome being a poser Pornography and the disintegrating family's effect on men and society How to find out who you are Why rites of passage are so important How to focus more on your internal world than your external world The collapse of gender Permission to be men The masculine virtues JOHN ELDREDGE I am honored to introduce you to my guest today, Mr. John Eldredge. When I set out on this journey to become a better man, his book Wild at Heart was one of my go-to resources for an understanding of who I am as a man and how men show up in this world. At the time, I never thought I'd actually have the chance to have a conversation with him but after some back and forth and getting our schedules pinned down, we were finally able to lock something in. John is an author, a counselor, and a teacher. He's been working with men and teaching them how to transform their lives for more than two decades. It's interesting to see that the book, Wild at Heart still strikes a nerve with men across the world more than 15 years after he wrote it. This is a testament to John's understanding of what we, as men, are really after in our lives and how to become the men we are meant to be. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/139  Website: http://orderofman.com  
11/14/201742 minutes, 11 seconds
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FFN 081: Humility is Strength

A lot of men seem to believe that arrogance is what makes you strong. It's not true. An over-inflated ego opens up to all sorts of blindspots. Where arrogance makes you weak, humility makes you strong. www.orderofman.com/FFN081 Please leave us a rating and review!
11/10/201710 minutes, 51 seconds
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138: Political Correctness, Technology, and Capitalism | Sal, Adam, and Justin with MindPump

Gents, today is a different kind of podcast and it's unlike everything we've ever done before. Last month I had the opportunity to head to the Spartan World Championships in Tahoe and was able to sit down with my friends, Sal, Adam, and Justin from MindPump Media. They are a fitness company but we don't talk about anything fitness related as we sat down for an hour or so to talk about political correctness, the future of technology including planned communities and cryptocurrency, capitalism, and just about everything in between. Sit back, relax, and enjoy a conversation about everything and nothing with the guys. SHOW NOTES The plague of offense and political correctness Why we're wired to look for bad news The value of analyzing objective data Understanding reality vs. what others are trying to portray How capitalism creates harmony State of current affairs The future of planned communities and commerce Why listening to opposing views is critical for growth The advantages and disadvantages of modern technology The relationship between gun ownership and gun violence How to shut down bad ideas The pitfalls of the two-party system The future of cryptocurrency The negative effects of artificially raising minimum wage   SAL, ADAM, AND JUSTIN WITH MINDPUMP I've got three guests for you today, Sal Di Stefano, Adam Schafer, and Justin Andrews. They are the founders of MindPump Media which is a media company dedicated to giving accurate and entertaining information about the media industry, what works, what doesn't, and how you can get control of your health. These guys have a combined experience of over 40 years in the industry and, although we don't talk a thing about fitness today, you can tell but the depth of the conversation we do have, these guys are very intelligent and extremely well-informed. In a world that seems to regurgitate the same basic health information over and over again, Sal, Adam and Justin are extremely entertaining and bring a whole new perspective to the way we look at fitness, nutrition, and health. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes  Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/138  Website: http://orderofman.com 
11/7/20171 hour, 7 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 080: Embrace Discomfort

Take a look around society. We see a lot of weak people. Mentally, people allow the smallest of circumstances to get ahold of them and dictate their actions. Emotionally, they their emotions to get the better of them and, physically, people are unhealthy. If you have any hope of becoming the man you are meant to be, you are going to need to learn to develop strength in each of those areas. And, the only way to get physically, mentally, and emotionally, is to embrace discomfort. www.orderofman.com/FFN080 Please leave us a rating and review!
11/3/201710 minutes, 38 seconds
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137: The Fight Against Child Sex Trafficking | Tim Ballard

Today, I've got a different podcast for you today. My guest is Tim Ballard and he is the founder of Operation Under Ground Railroad, a non-profit organization designed to save children around the world from child sex trafficking. My wife initially introduced me to Tim's work and, after following him for sometime, I'm inspired by the good he's doing in the world in the wake of some horrific atrocities more men need to know about. Today, we talk about stories of his team's rescues, how these young children are being helped to recover, how to find a calling in life, how to avoid "the flinch" when undercover, and the fight against child sex trafficking. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The seriousness of child sex trafficking Stories of children rescues "Aftercare" and helping children recover How to find a calling in life How to avoid the "flinch" when undercover The men behind these rescues How meaningful work changes a man How to rally people around a cause Identification and extraction tactics and efforts How you can get involved TIM BALLARD My guest today is Tim Ballard, the founder of Operation Underground Railroad, a non-profit designed to rescue the victims of child sex trafficking. To date, Tim and his team have rescued 745 victims and assisted in the arrest of 365 traffickers around the world. Originally, Tim worked for 12 years as a Special Agent with the Department of Homeland Security but became frustrated with the red tape and inability he had to actually remove these children from the horrible situations he was responsible for investigating. In 2013, he left the department and founded Operation Underground Railroad. Today, we're going to talk about that process, the good he's now doing in the world, how to take action on the problems you see in the world, and how you can get involved in this fight. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes   Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/137   Website: http://orderofman.com 
10/31/201737 minutes, 51 seconds
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FFN 079: Your Life is Yours

The following podcast is an excerpt from our new book to be released February 2018. If you would like to be among the first to know when the book is available, register here. www.orderofman.com/FFN079 Please leave us a rating and review!
10/27/201713 minutes, 35 seconds
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136: Lewis Howes | The Mask of Masculinity

Recognizing that we, as men, wear masks might just be one of the most difficult self-evaluation processes we can go through. It's difficult because sometimes we've been wearing a mask for so long that it actually becomes part of who we are and how we define ourselves. My guest today, New York Times Bestselling Author Lewis Howes, joins me to talk about why men are failing so many benchmarks, how to recognize and confront what is holding you back, why the masks we wear hinder our personal growth, and the 9 masks of masculinity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What is the Mask of Masculinity Why men are underperforming in every benchmark The 9 masks we as men tend to wear How to recognize which mask you might be wearing The common thread between all the masks How to confront the things that hold you back How to stop defining yourself by the mask you wear How our masks hinder personal growth How to embrace discomfort and vulnerability How to avoid overcompensating for weaknesses How to better understand your emotions Which mask I tend to wear LEWIS HOWES My guest today is New York Times Bestselling Author, Mr Lewis Howes. I know a ton of you are already familiar with his work and what he's up to with his own company and podcast (which is listened to millions of times per month), The School of Greatness. We had Lewis on the show a while back but since then, he has released his newest book, The Mask of Masculinity. What I enjoyed a lot about this book is that Lewis really pulled back the curtain in his own life and you can tell by the way he's analyzed who he is and what makes him tick that this is a process he doesn't just talk about, this is a process that he's actually gone through and uncovered for himself. Lewis Howes had a lot of success as a professional athlete (which hints at the mask he was wearing) only to find himself injured and wondering how he could redefine himself and tap into who he really is. Gentlemen, gear up, prepare to challenge some thoughts about who you are, and let's unpack the idea of the mask of masculinity.   Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/136  Website: http://orderofman.com 
10/24/201750 minutes
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FFN 078: Every Man Needs a Battle to Fight

As a lot of you already know, I interviewed Navy SEAL and New York Times Bestselling author, Jocko Willink, earlier this week. One thing that he said that really stuck out to me was the difference between former military members who are able to maintain their discipline after the service and those who aren’t. I have personally seen both. I’ve seen veterans who make a seamless transition into civilian life and I see those that really flounder and I’ve often wondered what the difference was as well. What Jocko said is that the difference between the two is whether or not they’ve found a new mission. During my time in the military, the mission was always very clear to me. We were instructed on the objective, given our marching orders, then left to carry them out. But, when you transition out of the military, there’s no one to give you any marching orders and you’re left on your own to figure it all out. What’s interesting to me is that one of my favorite authors, John Eldredge (who, by the way, just agreed to come on the podcast) happens to be the author of one of my favorite quotes. He says, “Deep in his heart, every man longs for a battle to fight, and adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.” I want to focus the conversation today on the first component of that quote, a battle to fight. Men are warriors. Not all warriors have to be battle proven in war but I do believe it’s in our nature to look for problems, to be on the lookout for the enemy or, at a minimum, a threat to our livelihood and the people we have a responsibility for. I look around in society today and I see men who have no real sense of direction or purpose. I know you do to - maybe it’s you. You look into their eyes and you can see that all the enthusiasm and excitement they may have once had is all but gone. I would argue it’s because these men, as Jocko would say, have no mission or, as John Eldredge would say, they have no battle to fight. So today, I’m going to encourage you to pick a fight – to pick a battle. I don’t mean a literal fight with someone or a group of people. I mean that I want you to take a look around at society and engage in a cause worth fighting for. This could be a career calling, a fitness journey, the family you’re working to provide, protect, and preside for. I really don’t care what it is but I do want to give you four steps to engaging in the fight of your life. As I talk about these four steps, I’m going to give you a lot of questions as opposed to answers. I can’t decide what your battle is. You have to decide that for yourself and the best way for me to help you do that is to give you some questions to ponder and consider. IDENTIFY THE ENEMY The first step in picking a battle to fight is to talk a look around society and identify what you see as being wrong with the world. Write down everything that comes to mind. In a way, you’re identifying the enemy. Not a literal enemy but the thing you’re going to fight against. For men, 3 years ago, I saw that there was a real problem with the state of affairs for men. Like I mentioned before, I’ve seen too many men who have lost the spark of life and don’t know where to turn. Couple that with the fact that society in general doesn’t like or approve of masculinity (until they need men to do something) and it became painfully obvious that there was a problem. In many ways I set out to solve my own problems as I was one of the men to which I’m referring. What bothers you? What injustices do you see in the world? What problems do you have in your personal life? What could be better about this life? The answers to those questions will help you identify the battle you may have been born to fight. Remember, you’re not limiting yourself here. You’re just brainstorming. RECON Once, you’ve identified some problems with the world – the ones that are meaningful to you, you’re probably going to find a common theme between them. There are probably a few that overlap or stand out to you. If that’s the case, I’d recommend you start doing some reconnaissance. Who is already addressing this problem? What solutions are already available? How has this problem been addressed in the past? What gaps are there in the solution to this problem? When you start answering questions like these, you start giving yourself the power to do something about the problems you see with the world. BATTLE PLAN Once you’ve identified the enemy and you’ve done some recon regarding the battle already being wages and the gaps that need to be filled, you can start planning your battle. What solutions will you offer? How will you offer them? What assets do you need? What in your life do you need to improve in order to be the champion of this cause? Who do you need to know in order to bring the fight? Once you know the answers to these questions, you should then ask yourself, what is the next first step? ENGAGE You don’t have to have this all mapped out. You just need to know what the next step is because the next step in your battle is to engage. Maybe it’s to create a website or a podcast. Maybe you need to ask for a promotion at work or propose a project to your employer. Maybe you just need to start talking about some of this stuff on social media. I don’t know what this looks like for you but you’re going to feel if it’s right only when you start engaging in the fight. It does no good to do all this planning without actually taking the fight to the enemy. I see too many men plan and strategize and think about what they want and then never do anything about it. I want you to take the next first step. Once you’ve done that, I want you to take the next first step. Over and over again. When you find yourself getting off track, adjust and keep driving. You’re going to feel it. I know this isn’t easy, especially if you feel like your soul has been dead for some time now but I can promise you that when you follow these steps and choose your battle your soul will come alive for the first time in years. You’ll feel like you have a calling – a purpose again. You’ll walk around with your head held high knowing that you’re doing the work of a man. I know it’s certainly been true for me. www.orderofman.com/FFN078 Please leave us a rating and review!
10/20/201710 minutes, 30 seconds
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135: Jocko Willink | Discipline Equals Freedom

There is no shortage of motivational events, courses, seminars, quotes, and memes. Don't get me wrong, motivation has its purpose but discipline is a far greater asset on your path to accomplishing big things in your life. Where motivation falls short, discipline picks up the slack. Today, I'm joined by a man that needs no introduction, Jocko Willink, to talk about connecting future ambitions with present actions, why every man must find his mission, how to overcome fear and procrastination, and his mantra, "Discipline Equals Freedom." SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why discipline equals freedom Key military tactics that translate into civilian life Anticipating the delayed results of discipline The pros and cons of focusing on strengths vs. weaknesses Where Jocko's discipline comes from How to connect your future ambitions with your present actions The importance of defining your path How to develop mental strength Why every man needs a mission The role of accountability when it comes to being more disciplined How to overcome procrastination Rasing kids to be strong and disciplined How to overcome your fear Where to start: mental preparation or physical action JOCKO WILLINK Gentlemen, I am stoked to introduce you to my return guest, Jocko Willink. I'm sure that you know Jocko but in case you've been living under a rock the past 4-5 years or so, let me introduce you to him. He is a Former Navy SEAL and commander of Task Unit Bruiser (the most decorated special forces unit of the Iraqi War), a recipient of the Bronze and Silver Star, a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Blackbelt, a New York Times Bestselling author of three books, and arguably one of the most disciplined men on this planet. I, like you, have been following him ever since I ran across his book, Extreme Ownership, in Barnes & Noble and have been fortunate enough to develop a close enough relationship with him and his team that I when I heard he was coming out with a new book, Discipline Equals Freedom: Field Manual, I was able to get a message to him and get him back on the show. Gentlemen, strap in, get your notepads out, and get ready to tune into one of the most qualified men I know to talk about how discipline will give you the freedom you're after. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/135 Website: http://orderofman.com
10/17/201745 minutes, 53 seconds
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FFN 077: How to Fight a Grizzly Bear

In October of 2016, Todd Orr was hiking in the mountains of Montana when he spotted a grizzly bear. He made eye contact and the bear ran off with her cubs over a crest in the distance. Only a few minutes later, Todd turned around to find the bear charging towards him. He pulled out his bear spray, fired, then collapsed as he found himself in a life and death struggle against a grizzly bear. Not only did Todd survive, on his way back to his vehicle, he was attacked by the same bear again in a second life or death struggle. www.orderofman.com/FFN077 Please leave us a rating and review!
10/13/201727 minutes, 56 seconds
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134: Unfu*k Yourself | Gary John Bishop

At times, we tend to get into our own heads and become our own worst enemies. We often write off anyone who happens to disagree with us, puts us down in any way, and label them as "haters." But it's our natural tendency - especially as high achieving men - to be our harshest critics. It's valuable at times and drives us to do great things and, other times, it creates unnecessary barriers to our success. My guest today, Gary John Bishop, author of Unfu*ck Yourself joins me to talk about how to redefine yourself by becoming unrealistic, how to uncover the narratives we tell ourselves, the difference between knowing something and being aware of something, and how to get out of your head and into your life.
 
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 How to get out of your head How to develop a no-nonsense approach to life The critical difference between affirmations and personal assertions Why self-help is inferior to self-development and growth How to uncover the narratives you tell yourself Understanding the study of Oncology and how it applies to your growth The difference between being wrong and being inaccurate How to become more present in your life The power of telling yourself you're an asshole Why we should not concern ourselves with the past and the future The difference between knowing something and being aware of something How to redefine yourself by being unrealistic How to interrupt the notion of who you already are
 
 GARY JOHN BISHOP Gentlemen, my guest today is Gary John Bishop. He is a personal development expert and the author of Unfu*ck Yourself - which is a book I just picked up to read a couple weeks ago. In reading it, I can appreciate Gary's no-nonsense approach to human development, and high-powered mentoring. And, I knew right away I had to get him on the show. He's worked with top athletes and Fortune 500 executives in his personal development career. This guy is real. He's raw. He tells it like it is and pulls no punches which is exactly what we, as men, might just need in order to come to some realizations about our own lives, how to get out of our own heads, and out of our own way. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/134 Website: http://orderofman.com
10/10/201747 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 076: Motivation is B.S.

Everywhere you turn you’ll find another “motivational guru” attempting to inspire the masses to take action. If you’re like me, you’ve attended conferences, purchased courses, and poured over endless quotes and memes in a feeble attempt to get motivated enough to do what you already know you should be doing. Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing particularly wrong with motivation, other than it doesn’t last. We’ve all left that conference feeling inspired only to get back into the grind and lose the excitement within 24-48 hours. Like a drug-user hooked on cocaine, we’re constantly on the lookout for the next conference that promises to inspire, amaze, and motivate us yet again. We go. We spend the time, the energy, and the money. And, we even get motivated for another 24-48 hours, until our next fix is needed. And that’s the problem. We become dependent when we seek motivation from outside sources. And those that host these conferences know that and bank on the fact that you’ll have to come back next year. I’m not suggesting you don’t attend these motivational conferences. I’m encouraging you to dig deeper than the surface-level B.S. that seems to be so prevalent in today’s society. But rather than beat my chest and shout a catchy little tagline that “Motivation is B.S.”, let me share five strategies you can start using today to become your own source of inspiration and, more importantly, action. PLANT YOUR FLAG We live in a world where everything is promised immediately. Through Amazon, you can be reading a book I recommend in the next couple minutes. We’re promised immediate results from the latest fat-loss hack. Even podcast like this one allow us to listen to any subject on demand free from any need to wait for or on anyone. In most cases, this access to information, products, and services is a beautiful thing. The unintended consequence, however, is that our attention span and patience has been greatly diminished. That’s too bad considering that your success in any area of life requires an insane amount of consistency over long periods of time. If you’re looking for immediate results in your life, motivation might just cut it. But if you’re interested in maintaining a healthy, wealthy, and successful life, you’re going to have to wrap your head around taking action for a lifetime. BE A MAN OF YOUR WORD Planting your flag requires you to be a man of your word. If, for example, you’ve committed to working out 5 days a week, every day you miss makes you a liar – to put it bluntly. Sure, we can sugarcoat it and make excuses for why we missed our workouts but at the end of the day, you did not do what you said you would and that, by definition, makes you less than a man of your word. It’s a good thing then that the idea of doing what you say you will is a skill set that can be learned. All it takes is effort and consistency. Even the smallest of task and the smallest of promises count. If you tell your wife you’re going to take out the trash, take out the trash. If you tell your son you’re going to play catch with him after school, play catch with him after school. If you tell a neighbor you’ll be there to help him move, be there on time to help him move. Every time you fail to keep your word, a little piece of your soul dies. It’s no wonder then why so many men seem to be miserable. They can’t keep their promises to themselves, let alone to others. When you wake up early in the morning to work out, don’t question whether or not you should. Question whether or not you’re going to be a man of your word today. After all, the promises you make to yourself are the most important you can make. SYSTEMS AND PROCESSES Part of being a man of your word is about creating systems and processes to ensure you are. Let’s use the workout example again. If you tell yourself you’re going to work out in the morning, set your clothes out the night before, get your pre-workout drink ready, and know what your workout is going to be. These are three simple systems that will keep you on track when you don’t want to be on track. Calendars, daily rituals, evening routines, task lists, electronic reminders, Field Notes journals, coaching, and masterminds are all examples of systems and processed you can implement to get your work done. REVIEW YOUR PROGRESS Out of all the systems we could talk about, I want to focus on the idea of reviewing your progress. Most men don’t. We tend to identify the task, do it (or don’t), then move right to the next task. This process of reviewing your actions, conversations, projects, interactions, and day is a critical component of diving deeper than simply being motivated. I learned the after-action review in the military which is a series of five questions you can ask yourself to review your work and get you pointed in the right direction every day. For the sake of time, I’m not going to share the questions but if you’re interested, you can get a copy of the After-Action Review at www.orderofman.com/afteractionreview. DISCIPLINE TRUMPS MOTIVATION After all is said and done, the mantra that discipline trumps motivation has been a huge help for me. Motivation is external. Discipline is internal. We rely on outside sources when we seek after motivation. We depend on ourselves when we strive for discipline. This is what makes discipline so powerful. We simple decide that we’re going to be disciplined rather than wait for the perfect set of variables to motivate and inspire. When you’re struggling to get out of bed, or workout, or be consistent with the project at work or in school, remember and tell yourself, “discipline trumps motivation” or as Jocko would say, “Discipline equals freedom.” Internalize it, get a bracelet that says it, tattoo it on your forehead if you have to but whatever you do life your life by the words, “discipline trumps motivation.” This is not an overnight process, especially if you’ve been relying others to motivate you most of your life but remember to plant your flag, be a man of your word, develop systems and processes, review your progress, and live your life by the mantra, “discipline trumps motivation” and you’ll never want - or need - for motivation again. www.orderofman.com/FFN076 Please leave us a rating and review!
10/6/201712 minutes, 41 seconds
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133: The Fighter's Mindset | Chris Romulo

Every single one of has fallen a time or two in life. And, everyone of us knows a man who has failed to get back up from that fall. It's not an easy thing to overcome the wounds of failure, but if we want to thrive, it's a requirement. My guest today, Champion Muay Thai Fighter Chris Romulo, joins me to talk about finding the fight in us, the difference between ego and confidence, living by the mantra, "Fall seven times, stand up eight," and how to develop the fighter's mindset. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS • What is the "Champions Uprising" • The fight that changed everything for Chris • How to find your rhythm and flow in life • Why timing is critical • The importance of settling into life • How to change your mindset • How to find the fight in us • The difference between complacency and getting comfortable • How to overcome the pushback • How to develop of fighter's mindset • 7 factors of an uprising • The difference between ego and confidence • Living by the mantra, "Fall seven times, stand up eight"
 CHRIS ROMULO Gentlemen, I am stoked to be introducing you to my guest today, Chris Romulo. You're going to hear how impressive this man is in my interview today but you're also going to hear the humility that has turned Chris into a champion multiple times over.

 Chris is a 6-time Muay Thai champion, and the author of his new book, Champions Uprising.

He is also a fighting coach and the owner of CROM fitness where he teaches men and boys the how to fight, develop grit and determination, and the fighter's mindset both inside the ring and out. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/133 Website: http://orderofman.com
10/3/201742 minutes, 43 seconds
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FFN 075: Why Men Fail

I typically like to frame these discussions in a positive perspective but I do think it’s important that we occasionally look at the other side. Most people are more than willing to talk about what will make a man a success and, while I agree that’s an important subject to cover, just as important is the discussion of what is going to keep you from accomplishing what you want. So today, in an attempt to keep you from falling into some of the same traps this humble man has fallen into a time or two, I’ll share with you 6 reasons why men fail and, in doing so, help you find a new path to thriving in what we call the Quadrants (yourself, your relationships, your health, and your wealth). PRIDE COMES BEFORE THE FALL The number one reason most men fail, and the reason I fail from time to time is pride. I’ve talked about it before but we have been led to believe that if you don’t have the answer, you’re an idiot or less of a man. It’s unfortunate that’s the case because it drives us to go at it alone, to figure out things the hard way, and to struggle, when all we really have to do is reach out to someone who may know a few things more than we do. The solution is simple: recognize you don’t have it all figured out and ask for help from someone who does. Want to get in shape? Ask someone what you should do to get in shape. Want a promotion? Ask someone to help you with the project that will help you secure your promotion. Want to shore up the relationship with your wife? Ask someone who has a great relationship. The solution, again, is ask. Humble yourself and reach out YOU DON’T HAVE AN INFORMATION PROBLEM; YOU HAVE A DISCIPLINE PROBLEM When I started Order of Man in early 2015, I knew there wasn’t a lot of new information I could share with men. But what I recognized is that information isn’t really the problem. You have access to more information in the palm of your hand than the most educated minds had a hundred years ago. Information isn’t the problem. Action (or lack thereof) is. And, more specifically, sustained action. Motivation doesn’t cut it. Accountability doesn’t cut it. The only thing that will yield the results your after is consistent action towards your objective. When that alarm goes off in the wee hours of the morning, it’s time to fight. It’s time to engage. It’s time to battle. All you need is to DECIDE. FEAR IS YOUR ENEMY We’ve all heard the acronym F.E.A.R. (False Evidence Appearing Real). I disagree. Fear is real. It’s designed to keep you alive. Running from the things that scare you, or worse, pretending it doesn’t exist will not get you closer to your goal. Facing the enemy that is fear will. When you’re scared, acknowledge it. Recognize it for what it is and use the fear to equip and arm yourself with the tools, mindset, skill set, and resources to look it in the eye and drive on. It’s likely that the thing you fear the most won’t kill you. It’s simply going to make you feel a little uncomfortable. Be okay with that. Discomfort is your friend, fear is your enemy. ACTING FOR ACCEPTANCE In my experience, one of the biggest dangers we fall into is trying to be accepted by others. The way we run our marriages, our businesses, our workouts, and our lives is so centered around what other people think. I know personally there have been times in my life where I’ve wondered whose life am I living. The answer is someone else’s. We’re constantly bombarded by stimuli from magazines and books, to this podcast and mainstream media. And, we believe that the way one person does it is the way we should do it. Add to that the environment of political correctness in which we live and you’re likely to withhold the way you really feel or alter your message or actions based on the perceived criticism you’ll receive from others. If you truly want to thrive, you’ll work on overcoming what other people think about you. EXCUSES ARE LIES Regardless of how you choose to paint it, the excuses you craft are nothing more than cleverly disguised lies. And, what’s worse is you’ve been lying to yourself for so long that you’re actually starting to believe your own B.S. When something doesn’t go according to plan, I’d encourage you to say, “This didn’t go well because I did or didn’t ____________.” Sure, there may be other people that have a part to play in the failure of your objective but there’s nothing you can do about another human being – only yourself. SITTING THE SIDELINES The excuses you tell yourself lead into the last point I want to make with you today. Because you’ve been feeding yourself lies, it’s caused you to stop in your tracks. It’s caused you to question your ability to drive on and maybe even your desire to do so. The reason a lot of men fail is because they’re so concerned with all the other reasons I shared with you today at the expense of the very action that will help them succeed in the first place. If you want to thrive, you need to take action. You’re probably going to mess up. You’re probably going to fall short. People are probably going to mock you. So what? You can fail at your objective so no one sees you misstep or you can struggle for a little while until you’re able to achieve what it is you’re after. Let’s recap these again: pride comes before the fall, you don’t have an information problem; you have an action problem, fear is your enemy, acting for acceptance, excuses are lies, and sitting the sideline. I know these factors aren’t easy to overcome. I struggle against them every day. But the times when I’ve been the happiest, most successful, and most content in my life is when I’ve recognized what I’m against and overcome them anyways. www.orderofman.com/FFN075 Please leave us a rating and review!
9/29/201711 minutes, 36 seconds
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132: Decoding and Deciphering Human Behavior | Chase Hughes

Someone asked me several weeks ago, "If you could have one super power, what would it be?" To which I responded, "The ability to read people's minds." As it turns out one doesn't need to be a superhero in order to possess the ability to understand what other people are thinking and, to a degree, use that knowledge to produce desired outcomes. My guest today, the founder of Ellipsis Behavior Laboratories and the author of The Ellipses Manuel, joins me to talk about reading body language and thoughts, becoming a human lie detector, how to activate trust in others, and how to decode and decipher human behavior. CHASE HUGHES Chase Hughes (@thechasehughes) is a Navy veteran and an author and speaker on behavior analysis, body language and behavior engineering. He founded Ellipsis Behavior Laboratories in 2011 and has since developed the Behavioral Table of Elements which, after pouring over this, is probably the most extensive behavioral analysis tool I've ever seen. Chase is also the creator of other life-saving systems such as 'The Hostile Hospital' and 'Tactical Psychology'. And, if that's not enough, Chase is also in the process of developing new programs for the US Government. He volunteers his skills by training members of anti-human trafficking teams around the world and has published two books on human behavior and over 29 articles and papers on behavior and behavior analysis. Chase Hughes is here today to talk about the concepts from his new book, The Ellipsis Manual: Analysis and Engineering of Human Behavior. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/132 Website: http://orderofman.com
9/26/201743 minutes, 14 seconds
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FFN 074: Overcoming "The Drift"

What exactly is “The Drift?” The Drift is the natural tendency we have as men to coast, and in a way, take our hands off the steering wheel of life and allow ourselves to be controlled and put ourselves at the mercy of all that life offers. The fact is that there are forces at work against us that keep us from accomplishing what we truly want in life and, unless, we’re actively engaged in the process of intentionally living our lives, it’s very easy for us to get off course. Today, I’m going to share with you why this happens but, more importantly, 3 measures you can take to ensure you maintain the course you are meant to maintain. www.orderofman.com/FFN074 www.orderofman.com
9/22/201710 minutes, 46 seconds
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131: Living Life on the Edge | Navy SEAL Andy Stumpf

Everywhere you turn, you'll find men living what I call the sedated life. Like robots on an assembly line, these men wake up at the same time, eat the same food for breakfast, drive to work the same way every day, do the same menial tasks for 8-9 hours, drive home, kiss the wife and kids, eat dinner, watch some TV, go to bed, and do it all over again. My guest today, former Navy SEAL and wingsuit base-jumper Andy Stumpf is the exact opposite of that. And, while we can't all be Navy SEALs, jump of really high mountains and structures, and travel the distance of 18 miles in a wingsuit, we can all take some calculated risks that make us feel alive. Today we talk about finding something worth fighting for, eliminating emotions in the decision-making process, why people fail in the application of their goals, and how to live life on the edge.

 ANDY STUMPF Andy Stumpf (@andystumpf77) is a former Navy SEAL with SEAL Team Five and later joining the most elite counter-terrorism unit in the military, SEAL Team Six.
 He is also 5.11 and Black Rifle Coffee Company sponsored athlete, and has an affinity for jumping off really tall mountains and perfectly good airplanes. As impressive as that sounds, he refers to himself as a "professional gravity enthusiast" and rightfully so. He's completed wingsuit jumps lasting more that 18 miles at speeds of 161 mph. He is the recipient of 5 Bronze Star Medals (four with valor), the Purple Heart, the Joint Service Commendation Medal, the Navy and Marine Corp Commendation Medal with Valor, three Navy and Marine Corp Achievement Medals, and two Combat Action Ribbons. In other words, the man is a genuine Bad-A and today's he's here to talk about living life on the edge. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/131 Website: http://orderofman.com
9/19/201743 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 073: The Power of a Coach

I think it’s safe to assume by now that you probably - at least to some degree -  understand that having a coach is such a valuable strategy towards becoming great, whether that’s improving your golf swing, enhancing your public speaking skills, building a solid relationship with your wife, or growing your business. But, it amazes me how often men recognize the value of coaching in elite performers yet underestimate the power of having a coach even if you’re not at the elite level or competing on the global stage. Today I talk about why you should consider hiring a coach and what to look for. www.orderofman.com/FFN073 www.orderofman.com
9/15/201713 minutes, 13 seconds
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130: Finish What You Start | Jon Acuff

If you're anything like me, you are what I refer to as a "starter." I've never been at a loss for figuring out how to start things. Getting things done is a completely different story. Today I am joined by New York Times Bestselling author, Jon Acuff. If you have a problem with finishing what you start, this is the episode for you and, I'm not going to lie, I needed this one more than most. We talk about the developing a tolerance for imperfection, why "strategic incompetence" is a powerful tool, how to overcome what Jon calls "noble obstacles," a new spin on SMART goals, and how to finally finish what you started. Jon Acuff Guys, I am so stoked to be introducing you to my guest today, Mr. Jon Acuff. I've read all four of his books and I've been trying to get him on the show for two years. The time finally came with the release of his new book today (if you're listening to this the day it is being released), Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done. The other books I've read are Do Over, Start, and Quitter. All of which have been instrumental in helping me launch the podcast you're listening to right now. He's a New York Times Bestselling Author. He's worked with companies like Home Depot, Staples, and The Dave Ramsey Team. He's been featured on CNN, Fox News, and other major media outlets. This guy is intelligent, he's funny, and he's here to drop some serious knowledge on the art, science, and skill of finishing what you start. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/130 Website: http://orderofman.com
9/12/201742 minutes
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FFN 072: Lessons Learned from Hurricane Harvey

Today, I thought it would be a good idea to address something that has impacted millions of people over the last several weeks and that is the nightmare in Houston created by Hurricane Harvey. As I’ve thought about what those people must be experiencing and what we’ve seen online and on TV, I can’t help but think of a couple glaring lessons we should all look to when it comes to how we conduct ourselves as men. I see some areas of improvement and I see some areas that, from what I can tell are absolutely amazing to see in the wake of such a horrific situation. So, let’s get into these lessons today. www.orderofman.com/FFN072 www.orderofman.com
9/8/20179 minutes, 57 seconds
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129: Men and Politics | Sean Whalen

Politics - just the mention of the word infuriates most and has the ability to split up marriages and lifelong friendships alike. What a shame, since our political environment literally permeates every single element of our lives - taxes, defense, infrastructure, education, economics, and so much more. 
Today, I am joined by my good friend and mentor Sean Whalen. Sean is currently running for congress in the third congressional district in Utah. You're going to love some of what this man has to say and, I'm sure a lot of you are going to hate what he has to say. But, regardless, I encourage you to listen with an open mind so we can prove to the world that it is possible to hold a civil and intelligent political conversation. SEAN WHALEN Gentlemen, today I get to introduce you to one of my favorite repeat guests, Mr. Sean Whalen.
 Sean is a friend and mentor of mine and, although I don't agree with him on everything, I have always admired his candor and ability to hold true to his convictions. He has done everything from MMA fighting to real estate mogul to off-road truck driver. He's talked about it all from hitting rock bottom through a bankruptcy and nasty divorce to what has become an incredible movement with Lions Not Sheep. And, if that's not enough, he's adding Congressional Candidate to the never-ending resume that can only be Sean Whalen's. 

Gentlemen, buckle up, listen up, and let's talk about men and politics. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/129 Website: http://orderofman.com
9/5/201742 minutes, 43 seconds
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FFN 071: Memento Mori

You may have heard the Latin phrase, “Memento Mori” which quite literally means “remember that you have to die.” That phrase has also been used to describe an object that serves as a reminder of death, like a skull or any other object that has that connotation. Now, the reason I want to talk with you about this because, just prior to hitting record on this podcast, I booked a flight and hotel to go see my father who, just a couple days ago, had a heart attack. I don’t know whether he is going to live or die but, unfortunately, right now, things don’t look good. I’m sure by the time this podcast is released we’ll know if he has passed or if he’s in the clear. As I think about all that’s gone on for me physically, mentally, and emotionally over the past 48 hours, I can’t help but think about the prospect of my own death. www.orderofman.com/FFN071 www.orderofman.com
9/1/20178 minutes, 45 seconds
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128: Style as a Tool to Have More and Be More | Ryan Magin

So many men are afraid to even talk about style. In my experience, they believe that it's just not that important when it comes to being a man or they don't want to be viewed as anything less than manly. I get it. I used to be the same way. That was until I understood the power of dressing well and leveling up your presence. Dressing well isn't about a well-tailored suit, fancy shoes, and overpriced jeans. It's about being deliberate and intentional about sharing with the world who you really are. My friend, Ryan Magin joins me today to talk about what role style plays in masculinity, why men are afraid to elevate their style, something he calls "enclothed cognition" and the "halo effect," and how to use your style to have more and be more. RYAN MAGIN Gentlemen, my guest today is my good friend, Ryan Magin.

I met Ryan three years ago as I was launching Order of Man and the StyleCon conference. I'll admit, I'm not one who is very good when it comes to what I wear and how I look. But, I've learned a ton from Ryan about the way you look has proven to not only increase confidence in yourself but confidence from others too. Ryan dresses well, he looks good, and his game is on-point (although I will say his style is very different than mine). But, that's the point he makes today. Is that in order to look and feel good, you have to find a style that works for you. And, that's exactly what I've seen him do over the last three years for himself as I've watched what he's done for himself, his business, and his clients. Guys, take notes, listen to this with an open mind, and learn how to use your style as another tool to get what you want. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/128 Website: http://orderofman.com
8/29/201746 minutes, 15 seconds
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FFN 070: Should've, Could've, Would've

Most men seem to be living in the past. They live with guilt, remorse, sorrow, and regret. What a shame that is because if they’d only realize that their past experiences don’t define who they are, I think we’d see a lot more men stepping up to the responsibilities they have today. Today, I want to share with you four steps I’ve incorporated in my life so that I live in the present moment. Yes, I learn from my experiences and reflect on the past but, only as a means to get better today, not to sit around feeling sorry for myself. www.orderofman.com/FFN070 www.orderofman.com
8/25/201710 minutes, 42 seconds
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127: How to Market Yourself | Noah Kagan

Whether you own a business or you're working your way up the corporate ladder, learning how to more effectively market yourself is a critical. This one is a little different guys as you'll listen in on the conversation I have with my friend, Noah Kagan. We talk about business, side hustles, living from your purpose, and I even get into a small discussion about my religion. But, the underlying theme to the conversation we have today is how to more effectively market yourself.

 NOAH KAGAN Gentlemen, my guest today is Noah Kagan. Some of you will recognize the name, others will not. But, if you run a website in some form or another, I'm sure that you're already using the tools he created for your business. He is the founder of AppSumo and Sumo. He was employee #30 at Facebook and #4 at Mint (if you want to read some interesting stories, look into how he separated from each of those companies). In other words, the guy knows what he's doing, he knows how to market himself, and he knows how to do things on a large scale. Today, he's here to talk about marketing ourselves.
 Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/127 Website: http://orderofman.com
8/22/201745 minutes, 20 seconds
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FFN 069: Turning Darkness Into Light

This podcast is a replay of my presentation at The Meltdown in the Desert. In it I talk about the dark catalyst for change in my life and the rock-bottom foundation for my growth as a man. Without this darkness, you would not be listening to or be part of The Order of Man. www.orderofman.com/FFN069 www.orderofman.com
8/18/201723 minutes, 23 seconds
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126: 7 Principles of Total Focus | Navy SEAL Brandon Webb

We are constantly bombarded by stimulus and, more than any other time in history, the ability to focus is becoming increasingly difficult. Focus, however, sits at the top of a list of virtues and abilities every man needs to develop if he hopes to experience any level of success in his life. My guest today, Navy SEAL Brandon Webb, joins me to talk about how to make better decisions under pressure, the power of self-talk and visualization, how to become more effective at "violence of action," and the 7 principles for total focus.
 
BRANDON WEBB My guest today is Navy SEAL Sniper and New York Times Bestselling Author, Brandon Webb.
 I'm absolutely blown away by the caliber of man this guy is. He spent 13 years with the Navy SEALs and was instrumental in redesigning the Sniper SEAL Training program which trained members such as Chris Kyle and some of the deadliest snipers in US military history. Upon leaving, Brandon went on to found SOFREP.com and Hurricane Media which is one of the largest media organizations that focus on news and information for the special forces community. When he's not doing all of that, he is an experimental test pilot. As you can see, the man and his resume is impressive. And, you'll get the chance to hear exactly what I mean today in my conversation with Brandon Webb. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/126   Website: http://orderofman.com
8/15/201743 minutes, 30 seconds
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FFN 068: Improving Intuition

Intuition. It’s the ability to understand or recognize something about a situation or circumstance without having to analyze or break down the facts about that particular situation. It is so critical that we, as men, learn how to hone our sense of intuition and improve our ability to listen to this little voice – however you choose to define it. So today, as I was thinking about what I wanted to address, I thought it would be a good idea to talk about why it’s important we improve our intuition and a couple quick and easy steps each and every one of us can employ to make our intuition work better. www.orderofman.com/FFN068 www.orderofman.com
8/11/201710 minutes, 47 seconds
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125: Enhancing Your Mind | Jim Kwik

It all starts in the mind. Whether you're trying get into better shape, grow your bank account, start a business, become a better father, or a better man in general, growing and expanding your mind is the first step. But, it's often one of the most overlooked muscles we use. My guest today, Learning Expert Jim Kwik joins me to talk about how to turn on your superhero brain, avoid information overload, cut through he noise and become more focused, and how to enhance the most powerful muscle we have - the mind. 

JIM KWIK My guest today is Jim Kwik. He is an expert is speed-reading, memory improvement, brain performance, and accelerated learning.
 I came across his work a couple months ago and, after following him for the last couple months, and really digging into the results he is creating, I knew I needed to have him on the show. I talk about improving the mind a lot but I wanted to have an expert on to share some of his insights and secrets. The man is extremely qualified to talk about this (you'll hear that in our powerful conversation today) and, if you aren't convinced yet, please understand that Jim is hired by big, big companies like Virgin, Nike, Zappos, SpaceX, Fox Studios, and some of the most powerful people on the planet like Elon Musk, Richard Branson, Harrison Ford, Will Smith, and Steven Spielberg to name a few. Enjoy this one guys and take notes. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/125   Website: http://orderofman.com
8/8/201745 minutes, 16 seconds
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FFN 067: Dealing with Depression

Depression. It’s very real. It’s very common. It’s very destructive. We all know someone who is going through a bout with depression, and, we might even know someone who has contemplated or attempted suicide. Suicide rates are on the rise among men. In fact, as I was researching this morning, I found that some studies have shown that suicide rates among men are more than 3.5 times that of women. I don’t know why that it is and, unfortunately, I cannot get into all the causes that may lead to what a lot of men seem to be experiencing these days but, what I would like to do is give you five strategies I’ve personally used to overcome getting down on myself and falling into a bout with depression. www.orderofman.com/FFN067 www.orderofman.com
8/4/201710 minutes, 57 seconds
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124: Starting Strength | Matt Reynolds

There are a lot of tasks we're called to do as men. Among other things, your physical strength will make the difference between your ability to accomplish those tasks or not. My guest today is Matt Reynolds, the founder of Starting Strength Online Coaching and a man who has nearly 20 years of experience competing in strength sports and coaching barbell-based strength and conditioning. He has not only created one of the premier online coaching services on the planet, he is my personal coach.

 Today he's here to share why all men should consider adding barbell training to their routine, the core lifts we should work on improving, how strength training improves mental toughness, and how to get started on your journey to build more strength. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/124 Website: http://orderofman.com
8/1/201744 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 066: Building a Business

I want to talk with you about building a business and the power of entrepreneurship. I know that word is a buzz-word these days but that’s because there is so much good that comes from this capitalistic society in which we live and the ability that each and every one of us have to think of an idea and, more importantly, MAKE it come to life. www.orderofman.com/FFN066 www.orderofman.com
7/28/201710 minutes, 8 seconds
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123: Left of Bang | Patrick Van Horne

Gentlemen, we all know the world can be a dangerous place. Some would argue it's becoming safer and others would argue it's becoming more dangerous. Either way, the potential for you encountering a threat in your day-to-day life is a real possibility - and one that we, as men, should be prepared for. My guest today, Patrick Van Horne and the author of Left of Bang teaches us how to use non-verbal communication to assess threats, the common physical language all humans use, how to use "combat profiling" to keep yourself and others safe, and how the Marine Corps' Combat Hunter Program could safe your life. PATRICK VAN HORNE Men, I am stoked to introduce you to my guest today. His name is Patrick Van Horne. He is a former infantry Captain with the United States Marine Corps and has been instrumental in helping develop and teach the Marine Corps Combat Hunter Program to his fellow marines, military, law enforcement officers, and civilians.

 His book, Left of Bang, has been recommended to me over and over again and, a couple months ago, I finally picked up a copy. I think read it in two days - I could not put it down.

 Since it was one of the best books I've read this year, I decided to reach out and extend an invite to have Patrick on the show.

 Guys, let me tell you, he does not disappoint, as he talks about how he helped implement, develop, and train this course to his Marines during his two deployments to Iraq and, more recently his work with his behavioral analysis training company, The CP Journal. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/123   Website: http://orderofman.com
7/25/201744 minutes, 4 seconds
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FFN 065: Should I focus on Strengths or Weaknesses?

Today, I answer your questions. We talk about the most influential books I've read, my favorite quote, my personal strengths, whether or not it's better to focus on strengths and weaknesses, and a whole lot more. What is the most influential book you've read? [2:23] How do you avoid getting too frustrated with your kids when they're having a meltdown on vacation? [3:38] What are you better at than all of your friends? [5:17] Protect, provide, preside: is 2 out of 3 not bad or should I bring up where I'm lacking? [6:25] What is your favorite famous quote? [7:39] Is it better to focus on working to your stengths or shoring up your weaknesses? [9:31] Did you watch Game of Thrones and what did you think? [10:45] Whais the #1 key to being an entrepreneur? [11:37] www.orderofman.com/FFN065 www.orderofman.com
7/21/201716 minutes, 23 seconds
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122: View From the Top | Aaron Walker

We all know the best view is at the top but, the reality is that it's often the most difficult to get to. In other words, the view is earned. But, how often have we expected the view without the effort? My guest today - and his second time on our show - is Aaron Walker, the author of View From the Top. Today we talk about the struggles of life, how to life a significant life, establishing boundaries and creating margin, and how to get that view from the top. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/122 Website: http://orderofman.com
7/18/201741 minutes, 16 seconds
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FFN 064: The Power of Red Teaming

Opposition is so important that there’s an entire strategy designed to use opposition to your advantage. It’s called “Red Teaming," and the basic idea is that you build a team whose sole purpose is to challenge what it is you’re doing. Today, I talk about why we, as men, shouldn't run away from opposition but embrace it. www.orderofman.com/FFN064 www.orderofman.com/FFN064 www.orderofman.com
7/14/201710 minutes, 54 seconds
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121: No Excuses, No Barriers | Erik Weihenmayer

So many of us are so good at making excuses. We've been doing it for so long, it's hard for us to recognize what is truth and what stories we tell ourselves that keep us from having what we truly want. Today, my guest, Erik Weihenmayer, talks with me about climbing the seven tallest peaks on each of the seven continents and kayaking 277 miles down the Colorado River. Oh yeah, did I mention he's blind? Today, we talk about identifying barriers, attracting great people in your life, using the concept of alchemy as a powerful tool in your life, and how to crush your excuses once and for all. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/121 Website: http://orderofman.com
7/11/201742 minutes, 40 seconds
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FFN 063: Who's Got Your Six?

A Battle Buddy, for those of you who are not familiar, is a member of your unit who is there to cover your six. He’s there to ensure you’re doing the right things, training as hard as you can, and covering your blind spots so you don’t do anything dumb – like get yourself killed. It’s a concept we used on the battle field. It’s a concept used on the football field when you consider the blindside tackle whose job is to protect the quarterback at all costs. It’s a concept that is used in every facet of life. www.orderofman.com/FFN063 www.orderofman.com
7/7/201710 minutes
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120: Making Money Matter | Cole Hatter

Money is villainized by much of the media and society today. It's easy to see why. Only a select few have managed to build a sizable net worth and, the fact remains, that the majority of the population are living a life of anything but wealth and abundance. But, that doesn't have to be the case. In fact, much of what my guest, Cole Hatter, talks about today is the mindset and rules for more abundance in your life. We talk about living a life of significance, what money truly is, the value of capitalism, and, more importantly, how to make money matter in your life and the lives of those you care about.
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7/4/201743 minutes, 56 seconds
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FFN 062: Building a Rite of Passage

A Rite of Passage is a tradition that dates back as long as humans have walked this planet but it seems to be less and less common. And, unless a young man plays competitive sports, or participates in Scouting, or joins the military, he just isn’t going to be initiated into manhood. In fact, a lack of initiation into manhood has caused a lot of the problems we see with boys never leaving the nest. So, today, I want to share the ins and outs of the Rite of Passage I created for my son and the six key components of any Rite of Passage so you can re-create your own. www.orderofman.com/FFN062 www.orderofman.com
6/30/201711 minutes, 55 seconds
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119: Back From the Darkness | Navy SEAL Joost Janssen

There is no doubt that all of us have been through some difficult challenges in our lives - some more than others. Whether it's the loss of a loved one, disease or illness, bankruptcy, or divorce, your ability to adapt and overcome spells the difference between those who crumble and those who thrive. My guest today, Navy SEAL Joost Janssen, talks with us about enduring and even enjoying pain, the power of deciding early, how to harness tragedy and the negativity of others, how to come back from the darkness, and, more importantly, how to thrive through hardship. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/119    Website: http://orderofman.com
6/27/201741 minutes, 19 seconds
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FFN 061: The Moment of Truth

We refer to the “moment of truth” as the moment we actually find out if something is going to work or not. Today, I want to talk with you about the faulty premise in that line of thinking. I realize it’s just a phrase but I was having a conversation with my neighbor the other day about a project he was working on and he didn’t know if it was going to work until he got to the last step. I do know that sometimes, there’s just no way of knowing whether or not something is going to work out or not until we try it but I also know there are a lot of things we can, and should, know ahead of time. I mean, why invest huge amounts of time, energy, money, and other resources into something if you have no idea whether it’s going to work out or not? www.orderofman.com/FFN061 www.orderofman.com  
6/23/201710 minutes, 3 seconds
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118: Connecting With Your Kids | Jim Sheils

If you're anything like me, connecting with you kids can be a real challenge. You know it's important. You want to connect with them. But, the grind of everyday life and providing for your family and wearing all the "hats" we as men are required to wear can come at a cost. Today my guest, Jim Sheils, joins us to talk about why we succeed in business but fail in the family, the entrepreneurial lie, how to create moments with your children, implementing what he calls "rhythms" into your life, and how to finally connect with you kids. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/118   Website: http://orderofman.com
6/20/201742 minutes, 50 seconds
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FFN 060: 4 Domains of Manliness

Through thousands of hours of work, reading, and personal observation I've discoverd that there are four domains of manliness that I believe every single man must address in order to become the best possible version of himself. So, I thought it would be a good idea to break down those four domains a bit more and share with you some of what I’ve learned over the last two years. www.orderofman.com/FFN060 www.orderofman.com  
6/16/20179 minutes, 12 seconds
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117: Turning Your Passion Into Your Profession | Dale Partridge

I've never met a man who did not have a dream or, at a minimum, and idea for what his future holds. That said, I've met plenty of men who died with that dream still inside them. There's a lot of reason for this. And, whether it's fear or a lack of understanding what it will take to make your dream a reality, you owe it to yourself and the world to pursue it. My guest today, Dale Partridge, shares with us how to find that passion, how identify problems worth solving, a 3-part formula for creating workable solutions, and how to turn your passion into your profession. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/117   Website: http://orderofman.com
6/13/201740 minutes
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FFN 059: The King of Your Castle

There seems to be a lot of men these days that have either forgotten what it means to be a man in the home or never learned the skills to step up fully as the king of the castle. I look around and I see the pain in men’s eyes. And, if it’s not pain, it’s death. There are millions of men walking around like lifeless, soulless zombies. And, the repercussions of that is at best a meaningless life and, at worst, infidelity issues, addiction to drugs, alcohol, and pornography, and, in many case, verbal, emotional, and physical abuse. While everyone out there is trying to change the world, solve world hunger, bring about world peace, and doing it at a global scale, I’m here to tell you that the way we change the world by equipping men with the tools and skills to lead their own kingdoms. And that means we start by going into the most basic unit in society, the family. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN059 http://www.orderofman.com
6/9/201711 minutes, 5 seconds
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116: Building a Personal Brand | Kolby Kay

The term "personal brand" has become such a buzz word these days but, the fact remains, that the ability to accurate reflect who you are to the world has become more important than it ever has. Whether you're starting a new business, interviewing for a job, vying for a job promotion, or are in the dating scene, understanding personal branding will go a long way towards helping you get what you want. My guest, Kolby Kay, talks about setting yourself apart, the core elements to be aware of, where to start when it comes to building your platform, and how create a strong personal brand. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/116   Website: http://orderofman.com
6/6/201742 minutes, 25 seconds
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FFN 058: Keeping Field Notes

Whether you use official Field Notes or another journal, notepad, or an app, tracking and journaling your thoughts is a critical excercise for effectiveness and efficiency. Here's why it’s important you do and some tips for journaling your ideas. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN058 http://www.orderofman.com
6/2/201710 minutes, 20 seconds
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115: Keeping the Fire Alive | Sarah Jones

Let's face it, relationships tend to lose their luster after a while. But, that doesn't necessarily mean that has to be the case. In fact, most relationships and marriages can keep the spark alive for a lifetime, as my guest today points out. Sarah Jones is back by popular demand to teach us how to re-kindle that spark, keep things fresh, add variety into the relationship, how to encourage your partner to try new things, and how to keep the fire alive. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/115   Website: http://orderofman.com
5/30/201738 minutes
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FFN 057: Strikeout Swinging

There's only one thing worse than a strikeout - striking out looking. And yet, most of us continue to let opportunities pass us by without taking a hack at them because we're either unprepared or afraid. Never strikeout looking. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN057 http://www.orderofman.com
5/26/20179 minutes, 36 seconds
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114: The Ranger Way | Kris "Tanto" Paronto

As a member of the CIA annex security team that responded to the terrorist attack in Benghazi, Libya, September 11th, 2012, Kris "Tanto" Paronto (@krisparonto) assisted in saving over 20 lives while fighting off terrorists from the CIA Annex for over 13 hours. His story, along with his five surviving annex security team members, is told in the book “13 Hours” written by Mitchell Zuckoff. When you hear the words, "Benghazi, Libya" you might think of that book, and subsequent movie, 13 hours. You might think of the terrorist attack, the death of a US Ambassador Stevens, and the coverup that followed. Today Kris joins me to talk about what really happened that night, the importance of living your life to a code, how to incorporate "Battle Rhythms" into your life, why every man must choose the "hard right" over the "easy wrong", and how we can all live The Ranger Way. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/114   Website: http://orderofman.com
5/23/201743 minutes, 15 seconds
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FFN 056: How Bad Do You Want It?

You are a liar. I am a liar. Everytime we fabricate an excuse, we keep ourselves from doing the work required to succeed. And, if you aren't willing to tell yourself the truth, you don't want it bad enough. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN056 http://www.orderofman.com
5/19/201710 minutes, 33 seconds
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113: Ted Nugent | Freedom, Liberty, and Rugged Individualism

Ted Nugent (@tednugent) has been rocking America for more than 50 years. As a board member for the NRA and a conservative political activist, he has dedicated his life to teaching others and fighting for individual responsibility and personal liberty. As you'll hear today, more and more, individualism and personal liberty, are being frowned upon. It's as if somehow individuality is a threat to the system as a whole. That couldn't be further from the truth. The truth is that men who express their own individuality and personal liberty and responsibility are the men responsible for building their families, innovating new ideas in technology, medicine, and every area of life, and stepping up in their neighborhoods and communities.

 Today, I have the honor of sharing with you my conversation with the one and only Ted Nugent. We talk about the dangers of political correctness, how to improve your life and happiness through discipline, the deterioration of excellence, and the importance of freedom, liberty, and rugged individualism. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/113   Website: http://orderofman.com
5/16/201749 minutes, 50 seconds
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FFN 055: Feel the Fear

I heard the phrase earlier in the week, FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL. Well, I’m here to tell you that’s total B.S. Fear is real! And, in the next 8 minutes, I’m going to prove it to you and tell you why you should embrace fear rather than run from it. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN055 http://www.orderofman.com
5/12/201710 minutes, 8 seconds
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112: Brett McKay | Six Roles of the Modern Man

I have now asked over 100 men what it means to be a man. And, I've received over 100 answers. It seems that defining what it means to be a man is a difficult thing to do. But, regardless of what it might mean to be a man, I think it's safe to say that every man has certain roles he will fulfill throughout his lifetime. And, how he executes in each of these roles will define who he is as a man. My guest today, a man that needs no introduction, Brett McKay, joins me to talk about how masculinity has evolved over the past 50-100 years, the soft and hard skills every man should become proficient with, where our views of masculinity come from, and how you can master the six roles of the modern man. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/112   Website: http://orderofman.com  
5/9/201738 minutes
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FFN 054: Complexity Kills

I did a podcast a while back called, Complacency Kills but, when I say, “complexity kills,” I’m talking about the exact opposite of complacency and/or doing nothing. I’m talking about doing TOO MUCH. And, more specifically the mistake of pitfall of over-planning and over-complicating every element of your life. I look around and I see so many people offering crazy hacks, tips, tricks, fads, pills, strategies, etc., and most of them are too complex – so complex that no one even implements the strategy in the first place. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN054 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
5/5/20177 minutes, 28 seconds
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111: Upgrading Your Career | Kevin Kermes

Study after study has shown that most men are dissatisfied with their career in some form or another. And, yet finding new and more meaningful work seems to be more difficult than ever. My guest today, Kevin Kermes, talks with us about why that is, how you can make your current position more meaningful, make more money, stand out in a crowded marketplace, and how you can upgrade your career to one you love. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/111 Website: http://orderofman.com  
5/2/201738 minutes, 30 seconds
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FFN 053: Fix Yourself First

It seems that everywhere you look, you’ll find someone out there willing to tell you how to live your life. But, what I find fascinating is that not only is everyone out there attempting to dictate your life (probably because they’re working to sell you their wares, and gadgets, and gizmos, and whatever…), but I have to question how often we, as men and leaders in our families, our businesses, and our communities attempt to fix other people. Bu, do you truly want to change your life? You truly want to connect with your wife? You truly want your kids to listen to you? You truly want your boss to stop being such a jerk? Here’s how you do it: STOP FOCUSING ON THEM. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN053 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
4/28/201710 minutes, 34 seconds
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110: Your Wealth Can't Wait | David Osborn

The word "wealth" has such a stigma associated with it. And, it seems more and more, those who have managed to acquire any amount of it are demonized by the rest of the world. The reality is, as my guest David Osborn says, is that wealth simply magnifies who you already are. Some of the wealthiest men on the plant have also been the most charitable. And, if you hope to do any good in this world - for you or anyone else - wealth is a requirement. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/110   Website: http://orderofman.com  
4/25/201743 minutes, 44 seconds
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FFN 052: What if You're Wrong?

It's okay to be wrong. I'm wrong all the time. But, it's not okay to be wrong about the same thing over and over and over again. Here are three quick and easy steps you can use to evaluate whether you're wrong and use it to your advantage. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN052 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
4/21/20179 minutes, 16 seconds
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109: No More Mr. Nice Guy | Dr. Robert Glover

If you're anything like me, you're a recovering "nice guy", or maybe you still are a "nice guy." A lot of men may hear that and wonder what's wrong with being nice. There's nothing wrong with being nice until it comes at the expense of your own well-being. My guest today, author of the book No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dr. Robert Glover, joins me to talk about the myth of the nice guy, common negative symptoms the nice guy experiences, how to implement the "Healthy Male Rule," and how you can eliminate the nice guy once and for all. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/109   Website: http://orderofman.com  
4/18/201745 minutes, 45 seconds
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FFN 051: Consistency Trumps Talent

Consistency in all we do is critical to our success. Consistency trumps talent every time. I see a lot of men out there who I would consider "one-pump chumps." These are the guys that go in, swing for the fence, and, if they hit a homerun, they’ll stick around. If they strike out, they pull themselves from the game. It’s easy to be good for a minute. It’s easy to be on your game when the stars are aligned. It’s easy to slay it when you’re in the zone. But that’s not what matters. It doesn’t matter because EVERYONE can do it then. What matters is how you handle yourself in adversity. What matters is what you do when things aren’t going well. What matters is how you handle yourself when you don’t feel like doing it – whatever it is. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN051 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
4/14/20176 minutes, 9 seconds
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108: Boosting Testosterone Naturally | Nicholas Bayerle

I get a lot of requests and a lot of questions about the importance of healthy levels of testosterone in men. Unfortunately, we're beginning to see studies that show testosterone levels among men are at an all-time low and show no signs of improving anytime soon. My guest today, Nicholas Bayerle, joins me to talk about the role testosterone plays in men, why we're experiencing a decline in testosterone levels, the effects of low testosterone, and how to safely and naturally boost your testosterone levels. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/108 Website: http://orderofman.com
4/11/201741 minutes, 46 seconds
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FFN 050: At The Ready

Being "At The Ready" is about being prepared for whatever life may have to throw at you. It's about taking advantage of opportunities as they present themselves. It's about creating more opportunities because you are ready for those opportunities in every way, shape, and form. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN050 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
4/7/20179 minutes, 16 seconds
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107: The Art and Science of Giving Gifts | John Ruhlin

Every single one of us has received a gift in our lives that have made us feel like the most important person on this planet. Knowing that, it's easy to see how giving gifts to others will make the feel. But, how often do we tap into the power of gratitude, appreciation, and gift-giving. My guest today, Author of Giftology John Ruhlin, joins me to talk about how powerful gift giving can be, how to build credibility and influence through the power of appreciation, some important factors to consider when gift-giving, how to avoid it coming across as manipulation, and the art of science of giving gifts. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/107 Website: http://orderofman.com  
4/4/201744 minutes, 25 seconds
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FFN 049: Like Sheep to the Slaughter

Today, we discuss why and how we're led astray by society, the government, institutions, and those that might even be our "friends." We also cover some tactical strategies you can employ to avoid being led like sheep to the slaughter. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN049 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
3/31/201711 minutes, 20 seconds
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106: A Man's Best Friend | Navy SEAL Mike Ritland

There is no doubt that a dog is a man's best friend. They're loyal, hard working, and dedicated to the task at hand and the men who care for them. But, training a dog posses a set of unique challenges - I know, I have a new puppy myself. Today, Navy SEAL Mike Ritland, joins me to talk about how we can better connect with our dogs, the biggest challenges when training, the best way to communicate with them, learning patience, and why exactly dogs are a man's best friend. Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/106 Website: http://orderofman.com  
3/28/201740 minutes
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FFN 048: Personal Protocols

Establishing personal protocols gives you the ability to conserve your resources, reduce emotional mistakes, and operate at maximum effiiency. Here is why and how you can create your own personal protocols. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN048 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
3/24/20179 minutes, 48 seconds
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105: Creating Financial Independence | Jeff Rose

Money has always been a difficult topic. The reality is that this little green piece of paper we call money has a much greater impact than dollars and cents. It permeates every element of our lives including our sense of worth and all the other emotions money manifests. My guest today, Jeff Rose with Good Financial Cents, joins me to talk about the importance of learning about money from the right people, what to look for in a good financial advisor, how to talk with your kids about money, some basic principles of wealth building, and how you can create financial independence. Jeff Rose Men, I am so honored to introduce someone who, indirectly, has been so instrumental in launching Order of Man. I started following financial advisor, blogger, and author, Jeff Rose, when I started my financial planning practice. In fact, I actually reached out to him to help me launch my online financial business which eventually morphed and changed into what you're listening to now, The Order of Man. He's known for rallying thousands and thousands of people around his money movements including debt movement, life insurance movement, Roth IRA movement, and, most recently, the money uprising movement. Today Jeff gets real practical with us about how he learned about money and a few of his 12 principles/rules to building more wealth in your life. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/105 Website: http://www.orderofman.com  
3/21/201742 minutes, 25 seconds
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FFN 047: Building a Battle Plan

Whether you're planning out your next career project, your fitness goals, or your new business, having a battle plan is critical in the ultimate success of that endevour. Here's how to craft yours. Here's how to build yours... http://www.orderofman.com/FFN047 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
3/17/201710 minutes, 24 seconds
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104: Building Social Capital | Jordan Harbinger

Like it or not, your ability to connect with and relate to other people is such a critical component to your overall success in life. Dealing with your own life is hard enough as it is so adding another human being into the dimension makes it infinitely more challenging. Today my guest, Jordan Harbinger with the Art of Charm, joins me for the second time to talk about adding maximum value to your relationships, establishing boundaries to keep the relationship healthy, the power that comes from diversifying your connections, and how to build more social capital. Jordan Harbinger Jordan Harbinger is a man a lot of you already know. He is back to visit with us for a second time due to popular demand. I’ve managed to build a good relationship with Jordan over the past two years and, when we connected a couple weeks ago, I jumped at the opportunity to have him back on. He is the host of the top-ranked podcast, The Art of Charm, which again, a lot of you are familiar with and he’s someone I really respect when it comes to his craft and he’s been extremely influential both directly and indirectly in helping me deliver the message of Order of Man to you. I will tell you this one starts off a little unique because, as Jordan and I were having a conversation prior to “officially” starting the interview, I just hit record since what he was talking about provides a really good example of how not to build relationships. In a way, you’ll get to listen in on our conversation as friends. Enjoy it guys! Please leave us a review at http://orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://orderofman.com/104 Website: http://orderofman.com
3/14/201751 minutes, 11 seconds
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FFN 046: Adjust Fire

You’re not always going to hit your mark. You’re not always going to get it right. I mess up every single day and, without the ability for me to adjust fire along the way, the world would look a lot different. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN046 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
3/10/201710 minutes, 19 seconds
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103: A Practical Approach to Improving Your Health | Ben Greenfield

You're busy. I'm busy. We've got so much going on. And, if you're anything like me, it seems that taking care of my health is the easiest thing to get pushed to the back-burner. My guest today, New York Times Best Selling Author Ben Greenfield, shares with us how to carve out the time for our health, what key metrics we should be tracking, a powerful mindset each of us can implement, and how to take a more practical approach to controlling your health. Ben Greenfield Gentlemen, I'm stoked to introduce my guest to you today, Mr. Ben Greenfield. Ben is a beast when it comes to the physical events that he's participated in. I ran across him and his work as I've done my own obstacle course and endurance event and I can tell you that this is a man who puts his money where his mouth is. He is a New York Times Bestselling Author but, as you'll hear in this interview he's also someone who's willing to do as much as he talks about others doing. He considers himself to be a Guinea Pig when it comes to health, nutrition, sleep, and fitness - you'll hear about some of his experimentations in this conversation. And, he takes an extremely practical approach to staying on top of his health goals - in fact, he was walking on a treadmill while we held this conversation. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/103 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
3/7/201744 minutes, 15 seconds
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FFN 045: The Origins of Order of Man

This month marks the two year anniversary of Order of Man. In this episode I explain the orgin of The Order, how it's grown, and the biggest takeaways in growing a massive movement for men. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN045 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
3/3/201711 minutes, 16 seconds
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102: What Doesn't Kill Us | Scott Carney

In general, I think it would be safe to assume that we, as a people have become weak. The average man or woman seems more likely to face obesity, autoimmune disease, and an overall reduction in happiness and fulfillment. As we continue to seek a life of ease and comfort, it is becoming painfully obvious that our quest for perpetual comfort might be the very thing that will kill us. My guest today, New York Times Bestselling author, Scott Carney, share with us how to introduce environmental stressors, how to build up more resilience, and the strategies he uses for making himself a stronger human being. Scott Carney Men, I am honored to introduce you to my guest today, Scott Carney. I came across Scott's work while connecting with another podcast Alumni, Scott Keneally. He recently wrote a book titled, What Doesn't Kill Us, and, as I read the premise of the book which is how Scott used Wim Hof's methods to improve his level of health, I knew he was someone I needed to have on the show. What I like most about Scott's work is that he is an investigative journalist who set out to expose Wim Hof as a fraud. He talks about that and how, rather than exposing Wim Hof, he ended up reaping the benefits of his work to lose weight, and build up resiliency using environmental training. In the meantime, he climbed Mt. Kilimanjaro in shorts and completed the Tough Guy, one of the world's most difficult - and coldest - obstacle course races in the world. He's here to talk about how he did it. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/101 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
2/28/201742 minutes, 3 seconds
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FFN 044: Finding a Mentor

Finding a mentor has literally transformed my life in every way imaginable - my health, my wealth, and my relationships. Today I share why you should have one, and the three step process for connecting and learning from mentors. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN044 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
2/24/201711 minutes, 1 second
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101: Get Your Mind Right | Tom Bilyeu

It all starts with the mind. We’ve all heard the adage – it’s nothing new. But, the question remains, how do we do it. Most of us have constructed mental walls, barriers, and frames of reference that keep us thinking and behaving the way we always have. Today my guest, Tom Bilyeu co-founder or Quest Nutrition and founder of Impact Theory, shares with why it’s so difficult to change your mindset, how and why we should learn to cultivate our identity, how to crystalize our goals, and how to get our mindset primed for success. Tom Bilyeu My guest today is a man who probably doesn’t need a lot of introduction with most of you but I’m going to anyways because I think it’s important you know a little bit about the position of experience and success he comes from. His name is Tom Bilyeu and for those who may not know it, he co-founded Quest Nutrition which was, at one point, one of the fastest growing companies in the world. Since then he’s gone on to start multiple other business, one of which is Impact Theory which is how I stumbled across his work. He’s interviewed some incredible guests: Jason Silva, Tim Ferris, Shaun White, and Michael Strahan, among others. But, what really intrigued me about Tom’s work is his fascination with the mind and how getting the mind and body to work together is the key to success. We’ve talked a lot about mindset on the show but Tom is here to crystalize it a bit further for us and help us take the first steps towards getting this mindset piece right. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/101 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
2/21/201743 minutes, 12 seconds
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FFN 043: The Burden of Proof

We are not entitled to anyone's love, support, guidance, direction, time, money, and/or resources. It is on us to PROVE to others they should invest in us. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN043 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
2/17/20179 minutes, 20 seconds
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100: 100 Deadly Survival Skills | Clint Emerson

Unfortunately, in society today, your ability to survive has become more important than it ever has. Whether you're dealing with an active-shooter, a natural disaster, or a medical emergency, your likelihood of having to think on your feet will likely become a reality. And, as my guest, Navy SEAL Clint Emerson says, "the wrong place at the wrong time has now become any place at any time." Today he shares some common survival threats, the importance of self-rescue and self-reliance, the four D's of home defense, and how to develop your own threat personal protocol on this, our 100th interview episode. Clint Emerson Gentlemen, I am honored to be introducing you to my guest today, Navy SEAL and New York Times Bestselling author, Clint Emerson. This marks the second time Clint will be on our show and, since our first conversation was such a hit, I thought I'd invite Clint back on the show to talk about his latest book, 100 Deadly Survival Skills: Survival Edition. As a said before, Clint served as a Navy SEAL for twenty years including an attachment to SEAL Team Six and the NSA so you know he's qualified to talk about some of the information we get into today. Clint also runs his company, Escape the Wolf, which is geared towards helping businesses deal with crisis. In fact, he and his team also ran some security training and consulting for President Trump's inauguration. Guys, you're really going to enjoy what Clint has to share and walk away with some very actionable strategies you can use should you find yourself in a crisis situation. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/100 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
2/14/201742 minutes, 29 seconds
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FFN 042: Join or Die

If you can’t find a way to band and join with other men, you are going to die – maybe not literally but figuratively. I know there’s been times in my life where I’ve felt dead inside because I had no clear direction for my life and no one to tell me what needed to be said to get my ass pointed in the right direction. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN042 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
2/10/20179 minutes, 59 seconds
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099: Building a Business on the Side | Josh Bauerle

Entrepreneurship is such a hot topic right now. In fact, it's a buzz word that gets tossed around quite carelessly but it's something every man should, at least, consider. Not only does entrepreneurship provide opportunities for additional income, but there are tons of other benefits as well. Today, Josh Bauerle - the CPA on fire - joins me to talk about what those benefits are, the common pitfalls and mistakes young entrepreneurs make, where anyone considering launching a business should start, and why every man should consider building a business on the side. Josh Bauerle Gentlemen, I am honored to be introducing you to my friend and guest today, Mr. Josh Bauerle, the CPA on Fire. I'll be honest with you, I was a little hesitant to bring a CPA on the show because they're notorious for being a little dry to say the least. But you're going to hear in a minute that Josh is anything but dry and has a passion for helping entrepreneurs start, grow, and maximize their business through some very simple yet effective strategies. In fact, some of the strategies he shares in this interview allowed him to start his own busines in 2012 and team up with some podcasting powerhouses like John Lee Dumas with Entrepreneur on Fire. You're going to get a ton from this interview because we don't just talk theory and tax code, we talk about real tips, tactics, and tricks you can use to reap all the benefits of starting your own business. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/099 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
2/7/201743 minutes, 32 seconds
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FFN 041: Masculine Sovereignty, Part II

Sovereignty is the ability to govern one's self. If you’re going to be the man you want to be, you are going to have to latch on to and embrace this idea fully. In part 2 of 2 of Masculine Sovereignty, I cover the second six principles to live by in order to achive Masculine Sovereignty. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN041 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
2/3/201710 minutes, 19 seconds
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098: Trial by Fire | John Spera

Stress is something all of us, as men, deal with on a daily basis. And, unless you can find a way to manage the stress effectively, you just won't be able to show up in the way others are relying on you to do. Firefighter, John Spera with Fit to Fight Fire, joins me to talk about it takes to handle yourself in stressful situations, how to get better at adapting, something he calls belief filtering, and how to build up emotional, mental, and physical resiliency. John Spera I am so honored to by interview my friend and someone I've followed for a long time, firefighter John Spera. As I said, he's someone I've been following for some time now and I have been blown away by his work ethic and his ability to lead others especially under stressful situations. I know we have a lot of men here who listen to this show as firefighters, military members, and other first responders. I've got to say that I respect you and anyone who steps into the line of fire, literally in the case of my guest today. He is a firefighter and paramedic in Aurora, CO and his team was tasked with responding to the Aurora theater shooting in 2012. He's going to talk with us a little bit about that experience and the drive he has to be the best he can be - which you'll hear in his voice when he says, "The level of our training will make the difference between life and death for others."   Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/098 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
1/31/201742 minutes, 4 seconds
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FFN 040: Masculine Sovereignty, Part I

Over the past couple days, I’ve had the opportunity to meet with some men that I really admire for how they show up in this world and the level of success they’ve been able to reach in their perspective field. I had the chance to meet Cameron Hanes, an Under Armor athlete and avid bow hunter, Tony Sentmanat with Real World Tactical, Neal Curry with Ready Gunner, UFC Fighter, Donald “Cowboy” Cerrone. These guys are all masters of their craft and I can tell you the one thing that separates them from the rest of the pack – it’s the one thing that separates all successful men from the rest. That is the ability to take action. The ability to execute. The ability and desire even to get their hands dirty. And, I want to come straight out and ask you, are you willing to execute? Are you willing to get your hands dirty? Are you willing to step into the ring? http://www.orderofman.com/FFN040 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
1/27/201710 minutes, 9 seconds
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097: A Man of Style | Antonio Centeno

Style, although it is so often overlooked, really is a critical component of helping you become a better man. More often that not, the way you look and the way you show up says a lot to other people about who you are. My guest today, Antonio Centeno with Real Men, Real Style, shares with us how important style is, the benefits of improving the way you look, what core components you should consider when improving your wardrobe, and how you can become a man of style. Antonio Centeno I initially came across Antonio’s work with Real Men, Real Style as I was considering launching Order of Man in early 2015. And since then, I’ve been able to build a relationship and friendship with him. This man knows a ton about style and fashion – and not just clothing – but the psychology of increasing your style, body language, manners and mannerisms, and just about anything else that will help you increase your overall presence in the world. He is the founder of Real Men, Real Style, like I previously mentioned, and has over 1,000,000 subscribers on his YouTube channel. We talk about it a little in the show but he’s got over 700 vidoes there and literally thousands of articles, videos, and courses that will help you understand how clothing fits into the conversation of masculinity. He is also the co-founder of Men’s StyleCon along with Aaron Marino with I Am Alpha M. We do talk a little about that during the show but it is definitely something you should consider attending if you really want to become a man of style. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/097 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
1/24/201744 minutes, 25 seconds
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FFN 039: Execution: The Mark of a Man

Over the past couple days, I’ve had the opportunity to meet with some men that I really admire for how they show up in this world and the level of success they’ve been able to reach in their perspective field. I had the chance to meet Cameron Hanes, an Under Armor athlete and avid bow hunter, Tony Sentmanat with Real World Tactical, Neal Curry with Ready Gunner, UFC Fighter, Donald “Cowboy” Cerrone. These guys are all masters of their craft and I can tell you the one thing that separates them from the rest of the pack – it’s the one thing that separates all successful men from the rest. That is the ability to take action. The ability to execute. The ability and desire even to get their hands dirty. And, I want to come straight out and ask you, are you willing to execute? Are you willing to get your hands dirty? Are you willing to step into the ring? http://www.orderofman.com/FFN039 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
1/20/20179 minutes, 23 seconds
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096: Leadership: Vision, Influence, & Impact | David Burkus

As you men know by now, leadership lies at the core of what it means to be a man. We’ve all had great leaders. We’ve all had horrible leaders. My guest today, David Burkus, talks with us about what it means to be a leader, how to align your vision with others, how to be more influential, and how to make an impact in the lives of those who matter most. David Burkus David Burkus is a someone I came across as I was looking for successful men to come on the show and, you’re going to hear in the podcast today, that I connected with someone who is incredibly qualified to speak with us on the subject of leadership. He’s an author. He’s a podcaster. And, he’s also an associate professor of management at Oral Roberts University. He wrote a book I really enjoyed titled, Under New Management, where he challenges the traditional vision of business management and proves they’re outdated and just don’t work. He gets into that a little in the show today. He’s also a speaker. He’s worked Fortune 500 companies and the Naval Academy and contributes to Business Review and Inc. Today he’s here to talk with us about management, leadership, and how to cast your vision and make an impact. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/096 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
1/17/201742 minutes
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FFN 038: Regroup, Recalibrate, and Re-Engage

We’ve got a pretty thriving Facebook Community and one of the underlying themes I see quite a bit there is setbacks, struggles, trials, adversity, and obstacles. And, more importantly, questions about how to overcome these “expected unexpecteds” in life. This is going to be tough because, obviously, I cannot go through every scenario in which you find yourself on a daily basis in the next eight minutes but, what I can do, is give you a three-part formula that I’ve used in my time here on this spinning rock that has helped me overcome some major hurdles – hurdles that many of you have experiences or are in the middle of right now. I’ve been fat, I’ve been broke, I’ve been depressed, I’ve had failing businesses, I almost lost my marriage at one point and, I can tell you that this simple strategy, although it’s not easy, can help you overcome just about any challenge you may find yourself in. But, before I share the formula with you, I need you to understand something: you are responsible for what you do with your life. No one else – you! Yes, you can have friends. Yes, you can have mentors. Yes, you can have a support group or a team. But, at the end of the day and regardless of their effort and help and resources, it is up to you to build the life you want. And that means that, at times, you are going to have to face some things alone. You’re going to have to stare down whatever trial you have to and figure out a way to go around, over, under, and through that things that might have you pinned down. No one can or will do it for you. Now, that you know it is up to you, let’s talk about this. My formula for overcoming any setback is simply REGROUP, RECALIBRATE, AND RE-ENGAGE. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN038 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
1/13/201710 minutes, 7 seconds
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095: How to Be a Better Connector | John Corcoran

Somewhere, at some point, men began to believe that we are meant to go at it alone. The reality paints a different picture and illustrates how critical it is for each of us to learn to connect with others. Whether you're tyring to connect with people professionally or personally, my guest, John Corcoran, shares with us why meeting face-to-face is so critical, how to reach the people you admire most, the differences between networking professionally and personally, how to get out of your own head, and how you can become a better connector. John Corcoran Gentlemen, I am honored to introduce you to my guest today, John Corcoran.  John is someone I first learned about as I started Order of Man and, since then, I've had the opportunity to connect with him a bit more. When I initially reached out to John, he was unavailable for an interview but, he did introduce me to Michael Port with Heroic Public Speaking and Jordan Harbinger with the Art of Charm (both of whom I had interviews with) and I can tell you that this is a man who practices what he preaches when it comes to being a better connecter. In fact, through his skills and abilities as a networker and connecter, John landed a job as a writer in the Clinton Whitehouse and, of course, has gone on to do so much more. He is the founder of the Smart Business Revolution where he teaches business owners and entrepreneurs some of the same stratgies we're going to be talking about today and how each of us can and should become better connectors. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/095 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
1/10/201744 minutes, 46 seconds
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FFN 037: Engaging High-Value Targets

Focusing on high-value targets in your life is critical to your success this year. The reality is most of us don’t. Instead, we choose to focus on low-value targets – tactics, activities, projects, experiences, etc. that produce little to no results towards our most important objectives. A high-value target on the other hand is a tactic, an exercise, an activity, and engagement that you can complete that will produce and yield the highest return. This is exactly what we want – high returns on the way we spend our time, attention, focus, energy, and resources on. I’ve said it before but the most successful men on the planet know how to use the 24 hours each of us have in any given day to its maximum potential. And, that is what I want to address today. Now, obviously, the term, high-value target is a term used in the military to describe a person or asset that is critical for the completion of a mission. I’m using it in much the same way. A high-value target, when it comes to you spending your time most effectively, is a tactic you can use to achieve your ultimate objective. So, I want to talk with you about identifying these high-value targets, engaging them, eliminating distractions, and accomplishing big things in your life. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN037 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
1/6/20179 minutes, 9 seconds
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094: Tim Kennedy | Becoming the Sheepdog

There are three types of people in this world: the wolf, the sheep, and the sheepdog. The wolf is violent, the sheep is passive, and the sheepdog is there to protect one from the other. My guest today, Army Green Beret and UFC ranked middleweight fighter, Tim Kennedy, talks with us about how to overcome fear, how to get up and learn from losses, how to recognize strengths and weaknesses, and how to become the sheepdog. TIM KENNEDY Tim Kennedy is arguably one of the baddest men on the planet. He is a Army Green Beret and a UFC Middleweight MMA fighter and, he's one of only a few who fight professionally and serve in the armed forces simultaneously. He's been fighting professionaly for 16 years and serving as a Ranger qualified, Green Beret, Special Forces Sniper for 14 and has been awarded the Bronze Star for valor under fire. Tim also competed on the Ultimate Soldier Challenge as a Green Beret and was featured as a “Ranger” on the Spike TV series Deadliest Warrior. Tim has also competed in the grueling 3 day Modern Army Combatives tournament, and was one of only three men to be undefeated, as well as three time champion. He is one of the only three service members to be awarded a black belt in Modern Army Combatives. In addition to all that he stars on History Channel's hit show, Hunting Hitler, founded the Sheepdog Survival Fund, and trains law enforment officers, first responders, and civilians how to become sheepdogs through his company, Sheepdog Response.  Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/094 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
1/3/201742 minutes, 57 seconds
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FFN 036: Stay the Course

Everywhere you turn this time of year, you’ll see someone telling you how to set New Year’s Resolutions. And, while I think there is validity to setting up resolutions correctly, there just doesn’t seem to be a lot of new information. Everyone knows how to set goals. We’ve all heard of SMART goals (specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-sensitive – or some variation of that) but, is setting goals really the problem? Do you really have a hard time dreaming? Do you really have a hard time envisioning the future? Do you really have a hard time thinking about what you would like to do over the next twelve months? I would argue that most don’t have a problem with this. In fact, I don’t think most people have a problem even getting started. Most people can easily get fired up about something for a week or two or even a month. So, rather than tell you how to set New Year's Resolutions, I'm going to teach you how to KEEP THEM! http://www.orderofman.com/FFN036 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
12/30/201610 minutes, 24 seconds
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093: Andy Frisella | A Legacy of Success

We talk a lot about success on this show. In fact, the word gets tossed around so much that it's lost a lot of it's significance. My friend, and guest today, Andy Frisella, joins me to talk about what success is and isn't, the struggles motivated and ambitous men face, his new children's book, and our obligation to teach principles of success to our children as our legacy. ANDY FRISELLA Andy Frisella is an entrepreneur and innovator. At the age of 19, Andy and his business partner, started their first supplement store and his since grown it into a multi-million dollar business. Today their companies, Supplement Superstores, 1st Phorm International, Alpine Sports Products, Carbon Fire Nutrition, Paradise Distribution, and Frisella & Klein Enterprises, sell, manufacture, and distribute fitness, nutrition, and weight loss products exceeding sales in excess of $100 million per year. In 2014, he was awarded Entrepreneur of the Year by Secret Entourage Academy which is the world’s leading online community of entrepreneurs. His podcast, The MFCO, consistently ranks in the top 50 of all business podcasts and top 15 in the marketing and management category. His Periscope Channel is one of the Top 20 most popular accounts in the entire world. Ultimately, he is a world-class motivator. His goal is to help 1 billion people accomplish their goals and dreams.   Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/093 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
12/27/201642 minutes, 41 seconds
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FFN 035: Invictus, The Captain of My Soul

Today, we talk about Invictus. Most of society believes, or lives life, as if someone or something else is in control. Whether you call it fate or destiny or something else entirely, it's wrong. The problem with believing, or at least adhering to, the notion that you don’t have control over your life is that you give away any power you have in doing something about it. Today we talk about 5 excuses you'll need to eliminate from your life and the mindset required to do it. http://www.ordeofman.com/FFN035 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
12/23/20169 minutes, 56 seconds
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092: 50 Ironmans in 50 States in 50 Days | James Lawrence

50 Ironmans in 50 states in 50 days: This is what my guest, James "Iron Cowboy" set out to do. Everyone said it was impossible. Nobody thought it could be done. He disagreed. In 2015, James set out for the impossible and 50 days later completed what he set out to do in the face of overwhemling odds, physical damage, mental exhaustion, and obstacle after obstacle to overcome. Today he shares his journey. JAMES "IRON COWBOY" LAWRENCE James Lawrence is an endurance athlete and Ironman triathlete. He holds two Guinness World Records in 70.3 and 140.6 triathlon racing. In 2012, James shattered the World Record by over 10 races, winning 2 titles and placing 2nd in five others. After 2012, James "Iron Cowboy" Lawrence wanted to test the true limits of his mind and body and wanted people around the world to join him in an effort to raise money for childhood obesity and empower them to take control of their own lives. So, he set out for the unthinkable: 50 Full Distance Courses, 50 Consecutive days, through all 50 States.  He'd cover 140.6 miles each and every day, for 50 consecutive days.  A 2.4 mile swim, followed by a 112 mile bike ride and then finishing up by covering 26.2 more miles, which is the marathon.   In 2015, he completed what everyone else said was impossible. This is his story. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/092 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
12/20/201639 minutes, 12 seconds
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FFN 034: A Primer on Stoicism

Stocism is the philisophy of focusing on perception, action, and will. Most people have a misconception of what Stoicism actually is - that it ends with thought and contemplation. Stoicism however, is the ability to focus on what you can control and turning that into the action neccesary to propel your life and the lives of those you have an obligation and responsibility for. In this episode, we talk about the three keys to Stoicism and additional resources you'll need to delve into on your journey to become a Stoic Man. http://www.ordeofman.com/FFN034 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
12/16/201610 minutes, 2 seconds
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091: Why Men Fight | Jonathan Gottschall

Why do men like to fight and why do we like to watch? These are questions I’ve asked myself before and ones that we attempt to answer with my guest today Jonathan Gottschall, an English professor with some real-world experience in MMA. Today we talk about the nature of fighting, how fighting has evolved, the role honor plays in combat, and where the desire to make men more civilized comes from. JONATHAN GOTTSCHALL Jonathan Gottshcall is  a Distinguished Fellow in the English Department at Washington & Jefferson College. His research at the intersection of science and art has been covered in outlets like The New York Times, Scientific American, The New Yorker, The Atlantic, The Chronicle of Higher Education, Nature, and NPR. Jonathan is also the author of seven books, including The Storytelling Animal, which was a New York Times Editor's Choice Selection and a finalist for the LA Times Book Prize. When he was 39, a cage fighting gym opened across from the English Department. He asked myself, "What would Hemingway do?" The answer is in his latest book, The Professor in the Cage: Why Men Fight and Why We Like to Watch. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/091 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
12/13/201641 minutes, 24 seconds
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FFN 033: Be a Lighthouse

A lighthouse does not adapt, conform, or bend to the will of others or what society says about the way it should behave. A lighthouse is the rock others will look to. Are you acting like the rock – the lighthouse? http://www.ordeofman.com/FFN033 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
12/9/20169 minutes
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090: Negotiate Like a Professional | Chris Voss

Negotiation is a skill all of us, as men, can and should improve. Whether you're talking a criminal into releasing hostages (like my guest has done) or negotiation a pay raise or promotion, the art and science of negotiating is going to serve you well. Today my guest, former lead international kidnapping negotiator for the FBI, Chris Voss joins me to talk about the characteristics of a great negotiator, how powerful your words can actually be, why you should be going for a 'no' as opposed to a 'yes' and how to use what he calls tactical empathy to your benefit. CHRIS VOSS Chris Voss is the Founder and CEO of the Black Swan Group Ltd and author of Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It. He has used his years of experience in international crisis and high-stakes negotiations to develop a unique program and team that applies these globally proven techniques to the business world. Prior to 2008, Chris was the lead international kidnapping negotiator for the FBI, as well as the FBI’s hostage negotiation representative for the National Security Council’s Hostage Working Group. During his government career, he also represented the U.S. Government at two (2) international conferences sponsored by the G-8 as an expert in kidnapping. Chris also served as the lead Crisis Negotiator for the New York City Division of the FBI. Christopher was a member of the New York City Joint Terrorist Task Force for 14 years. He was trained in the art of negotiation by not only the FBI but Scotland Yard and Harvard Law School. He is also a recipient of the Attorney General’s Award for Excellence in Law Enforcement and the FBI Agents Association Award for Distinguished and Exemplary Service. Chris currently teaches business negotiation in the MBA program as an adjunct professor at University of Southern California’s Marshall School of Business and at Georgetown University’s McDonough School of Business. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/090 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
12/6/201644 minutes, 12 seconds
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FFN 032: Hold Fast

“Hold Fast” was used as a nautical term referring to the importance of securing a ship’s rigging especially in bad weather but it has implications in our every day life too. Here are 5 strategies you can use to "hold fast" when everything seems to be crumbling around you. http://www.ordeofman.com/FFN032 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
12/2/20169 minutes, 20 seconds
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089: A Navy SEALs Lessons in Teamwork with Chris Sajnog

Teamwork is something we hear a lot about but it’s not something that we typically delve into too much because we’re all expected to know what it means to be a team player. Teamwork is the fastest way to growth and success in just about any endeavor in life and my guest today, retired Navy SEAL Chris Sajnog, is here to tell us how Navy SEALs operate as a team, how to reach others in a constructive manner, how to recognize strengths in others, and how to help your team thrive. CHRIS SAJNOG Chris Sajnog is a retired Navy SEAL Master Firearms Instructor, Neural-Pathway Training Expert, Speaker and Disabled Veteran Small Business Owner. He is one of the most experienced and respected firearms trainers in the world, being hand-selected to develop the training program for the US Navy SEAL Snipers. As a Navy SEAL he was the senior sniper instructor, a certified Master Training Specialist (MTS), BUD/S and advanced training marksmanship instructor. After retiring from the SEAL Teams in 2009 to spend time with his family, Chris began training civilians and law enforcement officers. He is the founder of the New Rules of Marksmanship, a revolutionary approach to firearms training and has a passion for finding innovative ways to teach elite-level shooting skills online as rapidly as possible to his students. He is a federal and state certified firearms instructor and has trained DOD, DHS, FBI, CIA, Law Enforcement, and multiple foreign allies in all aspects of combat weapons handling, marksmanship, and tactics. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/089 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
11/29/201640 minutes, 30 seconds
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FFN 031: Gratitude

If you’re anything like me, you have a ton on your plate and want to make sure every minute of every day is being used as best it can. You guys know as well as I do that the most successful men in the world have the same amount of time in any given day but, the one thing they do better than others, is spend that time in the best possible way. They don’t squander it on meaningless or trivial matters – they make every second count. Today I share ten tips, tricks, and tactics to ensure you are maximizing your results. http://www.ordeofman.com/FFN031 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
11/25/20167 minutes, 49 seconds
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088: Work/Life Balance, Fact or Fiction? with Larry Hagner

Work/Life Balance, it’s a term that gets tossed around a lot but is it even possible to achieve? With all that we have going on as men, it seems impossible to manage at times. My guest today, Larry Hagner, with the Good Dad Project, shares with me about how to create more purposeful time, why it’s easier to be driven at home than at work, and what it means to life with work/life integration. LARRY HAGNER Larry Hagner is an author, speaker, coach, podcaster, and founder of the Good Dad Project. The Good Dad Project is dedicated to helping men become the best version of themselves so they can show up big for their kids. Larry grew up in a fatherless environment for most of his life and when he became a father himself 9 years ago he had no idea what to do. All he knew is that he didn’t want to fail. He dove into self improvement, he worked with coaches and mentors, and created the Good Dad Project to help other men with their struggles. Larry has recently published a book called “The Dad’s Edge: 9 Simple Ways to Unlimited Patience, Improved Relationships, and Positive Lasting Memories.” He has also created an online course called: “The Dad’s Edge: 6 Simple Strategies to Empowering your Journey as a Dad.” Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/088 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
11/22/201639 minutes, 26 seconds
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FFN 030: 10 Tips, Tricks, and Tactics for Maximum Productivity

If you’re anything like me, you have a ton on your plate and want to make sure every minute of every day is being used as best it can. You guys know as well as I do that the most successful men in the world have the same amount of time in any given day but, the one thing they do better than others, is spend that time in the best possible way. They don’t squander it on meaningless or trivial matters – they make every second count. Today I share ten tips, tricks, and tactics to ensure you are maximizing your results. http://www.ordeofman.com/FFN030 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
11/18/201610 minutes, 19 seconds
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087: Rise of the Sufferfests with Scott Keneally

No doubt by now you've either heard of obstacle course racing or have participated in one. Whether you take pleasure in submitting yourself to pain and discomfort or not, I can tell you that these types of races have helped me push beyond my perceived limitations. Today writer and director, Scott Keneally, joins me to talk about his documentary, Rise of the Sufferfests, the driving force behind the incredible growth of obstacle course racing, and what you can learn about yourself through participating in a race of your own. SCOTT KENEALLY Scott Keneally is the writer/director behind Rise of the Sufferfests, the first feature documentary about the global obstacle course racing phenomenon. The film explores the history of the sport, psychology behind it, personalities that drive it, and asks what it says about the world we’re living in. Specifically: why is everyone suddenly paying for pain? He is a self-proclaimed “beta male” and in 2011 he tackled his first Tough Mudder. His articles and interviews documenting his experiences have been featured on the cover of Outside Magazine,  60 Minutes Sports, and a speaking engagement at Stanford Business School. Scott is a treatment writer for some of the top directors in music videos and commercials. And, over the past 15 years, he has collaborated on videos for Rihanna, Madonna, Katy Perry and Miley Cyrus, as well as Paris Hilton. Today, he's here to talk about his documentary, Rise of the Sufferfests and why all of us should consider embracing the suffering. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/087 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
11/15/201636 minutes, 15 seconds
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FFN 029: Honored: A Veterans Day Tribute

If you are listening to this as one of my American brothers, this is a big day for us. It’s Veterans Day. It’s a day that we have the chance to honor the men and woman who sacrifice to serve this great nation, whether that’s here or abroad. Veterans, we honor you! http://www.ordeofman.com/FFN029 Please leave us a rating and review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes
11/11/201611 minutes, 1 second
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086: Rich Roll | Pursuing the Warrior Path

We all have path to travel in this life. Some of us have found it and others are still searching for it. I can tell you that the pursuit of that path is one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I know that my guest today, Rich Roll, would agree. We talk about the power that comes from stepping outside your comfort zone, how to keep driving in the face of adversity, what to expect when you break free of society’s norms, and how you can pursue your warrior path. RICH ROLL Rich Roll is a two-time top finisher at the Ultraman World Championship and first person to complete EPIC5 – 5 ironman-distance triathlons on 5 Hawaiian Islands in under a week. His inspirational memoir FINDING ULTRA: Rejecting Middle Age, Becoming One of the World’s Fittest Men, and Discovering Myself was an Amazon #1 best-seller and has inspired thousands across the world to embrace a plant-based diet. Rich is a frequent guest on CNN, was named one of the "25 Fittest Men in the World" by Men's Fitness and is the host of The Rich Roll Podcast topping charts on iTunes. He is also a graduate of Stanford University and Cornell Law School and he is an inspiring people worldwide as a transformative example of healthy living. Rich also wrote a cookbook and lifestyle guide, The Plantpower Way, and hosts a video Course, The Ultimate Guide To Plant-Based Nutrition and The Art of Living With Purpose. PODCAST SPONSOR: Sheath Underwear Men, let me tell you about my friends and podcast sponsor, Sheath Underwear. I’ve told you I was a little hesitant to have these guys sponsor the show but, I whole-heartedly endorse what these guys are doing and I personally use Sheath Underwear every time I work out. These underwear where designed by a two-time Iraqi Combat Veteran to help keep your boys in place when you’re working out or on the run. Bottom line, you’re going to get the comfort and flexibility you want, but also the ability to keep everything in check so you can worry about what really matters, not having to adjust yourself every five minutes. Essentially they’ve designed a pocket, aptly named the ‘zen pouch’ that gives you maximum support without the restrictions. Just go over to www.sheathunderwear.com and use the code “orderofman” at checkout for a 25% discount. Again, it’s www.sheathunderwear.com. You and your manhood can thank me later. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/086 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
11/8/201643 minutes, 14 seconds
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FFN 028: Complacency Kills

Complacency kills. Don’t ever let yourself get comfortable. There is no coasting, no middle ground, no default mode. You’re either pushing to new heights or falling behind. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN028 http://www.orderofman.com
11/4/20168 minutes, 31 seconds
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085: Aubrey Marcus | Go For Your Win

Every single one of us is looking for more out of life. If you're not, you probably need to get that figured out. That said, it's difficult to see beyond the reality you've set for yourself. My guest today, Aubrey Marcus, Founder and CEO of Onnit, joins me to talk about how you can uncover your mission, train the essential skills, overcome the resistance, and go for your win. AUBREY MARCUS Aubrey Marcus is the Founder and CEO of Onnit, a nutritional supplements brand based on a holistic health philosophy he calls Total Human Optimization. Since 2010 he has grown his business into an industry leader, with over 250 products ranging from peak performance supplements to foods, fitness equipment, and apparel. Aubrey has a degree in philosophy and classical civilization and has a background in brand development and eCommerce. Inspired by his lifelong experience as a multisport athlete — as well as his background in ancient philosophy — his goal was to create a company that empowered customers to achieve their fullest human potential. And, if that's not enough, he is also the host of two celebrated podcasts: Total Human Optimization and the Aubrey Marcus Podcast. PODCAST SPONSOR: Sheath Underwear Whether you’re reading books and building your mind or making sure everything is where it’s supposed to be when running or working out, having the right tools is critical. Enter Shealth Underwear. Sheath Underwear was founded and, more importantly, created by a two-time Iraqi Combat veteran so you they’ve addressed the issue with what happens to your manhood when you’re working out in the heat. Specifically, Sheath Underwear has a pouch designed to keep everything in place so you’re not adjusting when you should be focused on something else. I’m not going to explain it all because, frankly, you get the idea. Just go over to http://www.sheathunderwear.com and use the code “orderofman” at checkout for a 25% discount. You and your manhood can thank me later. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/085 Website: http://www.orderofman.com Podcast Sponsor: Sheath Underwear: http://www.sheathunderwear.com Use "orderofman" at checkout for a 25% discount.
11/1/201641 minutes, 54 seconds
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FFN 027: Peace Through Strength

"Peace Through Strength" is a concept dating back to the Roman Emperor Hadrian in AD 76. The idea is that military power can preserve peace. But, it's a concept that is worth considering in our daily lives as well. http://www.orderofman.com/FFN027 http://www.orderofman.com
10/28/20169 minutes, 51 seconds
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OoM 084: Living Life on the Front Row with Jon Vroman

Being present in the moment is something we talk a ton about here on the show. It seems there's too many men letting life pass them by because they just aren't engaged in life. My guest today, Jon Vroman, joins me to talk about how to find your 'why', how to overcome your fear when pursuing it, finding people to join you on your journey, and how you can live life on the front row. Jon Vroman Jon Vroman is first, a husband and father of two boys and a social entrepreneur who helps people live life in the front row. He has a passoin for speaking, coaching, running live events, and hosting his own podcast, The Front Row Factor. Jon is also the author of The Front Row Factor: Crush Your Fear, Create Epic Moments & Celebrate Now…Before It’s Too Late! In 2005, he co-founded Front Row Foundation to help create life-changing experiences for people in need. He has run 3 ultra-marathons, (I think it's because he's a little crazy) but mostly he does it to raise money for charity. He loves travelling, he's additcted to learning, and he has a passion to help people live fully alive. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/084 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
10/25/201640 minutes, 21 seconds
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FFN 026: The Man in the Arena

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat." Theodore Roosevelt Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN026 http://www.orderofman.com
10/21/20168 minutes, 3 seconds
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OoM 083: Curing Men's Cancer One Mustache at a Time with Adam Garone

No doubt you've heard of Movember but I bet you don't know the story behind it and the man who founded it, a former Austrailian Army Special Forces Commando. Adam Garone, joins me to talk about the current state of men's health, how Movember has raised over $730 million towards cancer and men's health research, and how you can help put an end to prostate cancer, testicular cancer, and men's mental health issues. Adam Garone Adam Garone is the founder of Movember and has turned it into one of the most innovative and impactful charities created this millennium, working to change the face of men's health. Behind the scenes, under Adam’s leadership, Movember is changing the way cancer research is done by requiring and facilitating collaboration not just at a national level but at a global level, something never before achieved in the cancer sector. In 2013, 2014, 2015 the Movember Foundation was named in the Top 100 Best NGOs in the world by the Global Journal out of over 1.5 million charities. Not only is Adam the founder of Movember, he also spent nine years of service as an officer in the Australian Army, where he was selected and served with the Commando Regiment in the special forces. To date, 6 million fundraisers and 18 million donors have joined the Movember movement, that together have raised over $730 million.  Movember has funded 1,000 men’s health programs in 21 countries, achieving significant breakthroughs in the way prostate and testicular cancer is diagnosed and treated.  This will lead us to a time when we have effectively cured these cancers and the side effects of treatment are minimized. In 2016 Movember was awarded Cult brand of the year, in 2013 Adam was awarded the GQ Australia Man of the Year, in 2009 the Melbourne Business School Outstanding Alumnus Award, and in 2008 Enrst & Young Australian Entrepreneur Of The Year. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/083 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
10/18/201637 minutes
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FFN 025: Putting Yourself First

While it’s important that we DO serve and give attention to others, it is impossible for us to give all that we’re capable of giving unless we find a way to take care of ourselves. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN025 http://www.orderofman.com
10/14/20167 minutes, 55 seconds
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OoM 082: Confronted with Violence with Lieutenant Colonel Dave Grossman

Men are needed today more than ever. We as a species are being confronted with more and more violence every day. My guest, Lieutenant Colonel Dave Grossman, a leading expert in the field of psychologoy and physiology of violence shares why homicides are skyrocketing, why the world needs more sheepdogs, what happens to our bodies when we're in combat, and how to handle yourself with confronted with violence. Lieutenant Colonel Dave Grossman Lieutenant Colonel Dave Grossman, is a retired Airborne Ranger infantry officer, and a prior-service sergeant and paratrooper, with a total of over 23 years experience in leading U.S. soldiers worldwide. He is also an internationally recognized scholar, author, soldier, and speaker who is one of the world’s foremost experts in the field of human aggression and the roots of violence and violent crime. Col. Grossman is a former West Point psychology professor, Professor of Military Science, and an Army Ranger who has combined his experiences to become the founder of a new field of scientific endeavor, which has been termed “killology.” He has made revolutionary new contributions to our understanding of killing in war, the psychological costs of war, the root causes of the current “virus” of violent crime that is raging around the world, and the process of healing the victims of violence, in war and peace. His books, On Killing and On Combat have been also placed on the U.S. Marine Corps Commandant’s Required Reading List. He has presented papers before the national conventions of the American Medical Association, the American Psychiatric Association, the American Psychological Association, and the American Academy of Pediatrics. Colonel Grossman has presented to over 100 different colleges and universities worldwide, and has trained educators and law enforcement professionals, in the field of school safety, at the state and regional level, in all 50 states and over a dozen foreign nations. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/082 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
10/11/201646 minutes, 7 seconds
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FFN 024: A Warrior in the Garden

As men, we should be warriors in a garden - warriors pursuing what we love and what we enjoy but prepared to go to battle on a moment’s notice and when the situation calls for it. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN024 http://www.orderofman.com
10/7/20168 minutes, 31 seconds
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OoM 081: Grant Cardone | Obsession is Your Ally

Obsession is often a word and thought process that's frowned upon by society today. My guest today, the one and only Grant Cardone tells us why obsession is absolutely critical to your success. We talk about society as your worst enemy, how to use your addictions to your benefit, the myth of balance, the key to thinking bigger, and obsession hacks each and every one of us can use. Grant Cardone Grant Cardone is an international sales expert, New York Timesbest-selling author, and radio show host of The Cardone Zone. He has founded three companies: Cardone Enterprises, Cardone Real Estate Holdings, and the Cardone Group. He has shared his sales and business expertise as a motivational speaker and author of  Sell to Survive, The Closers Survival Guide, If You’re Not First, You’re Last, The 10X Rule, Sell or Be Sold, and his latest, Be Obsessed or Be Average. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/081 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
10/4/201639 minutes, 50 seconds
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FFN 023: How to Win Your Wife Back

the women in our lives are looking for leaders. They’re looking for assertiveness. They’re looking for men with energy, passion, drive, and motivation. Odds are you have limited amounts of that left. The world may have beat you up with financial problems, health problems, divorce, job loss, illness and injury. You need to learn to stand on your own two feet. And, when you do, she will respond. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN023 http://www.orderofman.com
9/30/20169 minutes, 53 seconds
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OoM 080: The Responsibiliites and Fundamentals of Owning a Firearm with Neal Currey

Today we talk with former Army Ranger and the owner of Ready Gunner, Neal Currey, about firearms. We'll cover some of the myths surrounding the sale of firearms, the responsibilities gun owners carry, the fundamentals of shooting, open versus concealed carry, and why men should learn how to shoot. Neal Currey Neal Currey is a former Army Ranger with 2nd battalion 75 Ranger Regiment and the owner of Ready Gunner. After two tours in Iraq and one in Afghanistan with his unit, Neal left the Military and moved into the private sector and conducted an additional two tours in Iraq as a Personal Security Specialist. Between that time, Neal worked for a company called SRATS (Specialized Reconnaissance Assault Transport Systems) in Special Projects. He helped in the production of the SRATS A1, a vehicle designed for Special Operation units in Afghanistan. Since then, Neal has founded Ready Gunner, where he offers firearms, ammunition, tactical gear, and training to help those who serve this country, and other patriots to receive the training and equipment needed to achieve their goals, and, above all, stay safe. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/080 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
9/27/201640 minutes, 57 seconds
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FFN 022: Order of Man Uprising Recap

For those of you who don’t know, last weekend was our inaugural live retreat called the Uprising. We had 20 men fly in from all over the country to gain the skills, tools, and resources needed to step up fully as men in their lives – and in the lives of their families, businesses, and communities. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN022 http://www.orderofman.com
9/23/20168 minutes, 53 seconds
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OoM 079: Presence, Claim, and Penetration with Satyen Raja

Today, we talk about something we have not yet covered on the Order of Man Podcast: masculine and feminine energy and how men can balance the two. My guest, Satyen Raja, and I discuss using the understanding of energy to attract a spouse, raise your children, and live more fully with who you are. We also talk about presence, claim, and penetration and why every man needs to learn to master these skills. Satyen Raja  Satyen Raja is the founder of the WarriorSage Group of Companies - Ignite Passion Now, Harmony Integration Academy, The Find YourSelf Journey, The Unforgettable Challenge. Through these companies, Raja and his wife, Suzanne have travelled the world helping put a dent in the divorce rate by helping couples re-ignite their passion, find fulfillment and accomplishment, and improve their mental, emotional, physical, and spirtual well-being. His companies currently have over 10,000 successful grads and, as you'll hear in the interview, he's on his way to helping thousands more. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/079 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
9/20/201642 minutes, 24 seconds
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FFN 021: Adapt and Overcome

Today we talk about how to adapt and overcome. And, just like the phrase says you and I, as men, need to anticipate hurdles and learn how to better overcome the adversities we face in life. The more confident I become, the more clear I get, the better I am at adapting to all that life has to throw at me and come back stronger than before. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN021 http://www.orderofman.com
9/16/20169 minutes, 42 seconds
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OoM 078: Extreme Ownership with Leif Babin

Extreme Ownership is a concept that you've heard me talk a ton about on this podcast and in our conversations. Today, I wanted to invite my guest, co-author of the book, Extreme Ownership, Navy SEAL Leif Babin to talk about what extreme ownership means, the "default aggressive mentality," humility's role in all of this, and how to take ownership of every area of your life. Leif Babin  LEIF BABIN is a decorated former Navy SEAL officer, author ofExtreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win, and co-founder of Echelon Front, where he serves as leadership instructor, speaker, and executive coach. A graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy, Leif served thirteen years in the Navy, including nine as a Navy SEAL. As a SEAL platoon commander in SEAL Team Three’s Task Unit Bruiser, he planned and led major combat operations in the Battle of Ramadi that helped the “Ready First” Brigade of the US Army’s 1st Armored Division bring stability to the violent, war-torn city. Task Unit Bruiser became the most highly decorated special operations unit of the Iraq War. He is the recipient of the Silver Star, two Bronze Stars, and a Purple Heart. In 2011, Leif left active duty and co-founded Echelon Front, a leadership consulting company that helps others build their own high-performance winning teams. Leif speaks on leadership, U.S. military strategy, and foreign policy matters. His editorials have been published in the Wall Street Journal and he has appeared on a variety of national television news and radio programs. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/078 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
9/13/201646 minutes, 27 seconds
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FFN 020: Situational Awareness

Situational Awareness is about knowing what’s going on around you. It’s about recognizing any potential threats. It’s about recognizing the mood, attitudes, and behaviors of those closest to you and complete strangers. It seems like everywhere I look I see men and women in these zombie-like trances starring at these little electronic devices we call our phones. I see people driving who are completely oblivious to anything going on around them, and I see an inability for people to connect with other people who are literally sitting right next to them. So, let’s talk about this today. Let’s talk about situation awareness. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN020 http://www.orderofman.com
9/9/20168 minutes, 44 seconds
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OoM 077: Strength and Power in Kettlebell Training with Jon Mills

The kettlebell - you've heard of it. Perhaps you've even used it a little. But, I bet you have no idea how versatile these things can actually be. My guest today, Master Kettlebell Instructor, Jon Mills, talks with me about the good, the bad, and the ugly behind the big hunk of metal we can a kettlebell. We talk about the benefits, the movements, the pitfalls, and how you can use kettlebells to up your exercise regimen. Jon Mills Jon Mills is a strength and conditioning coach and master kettlebell instructor based in Canada. With a competitive swimming and soccer background, 10+ years coaching experience in the fitness industry, and a BS in Sports Science, Jon has helped hundreds of clients from all walks of life build stronger bodies and minds. At 37, Jon won his debut natural Men’s Physique competition and a pro card. He documented the contest prep process to dispel fitness myths and show what it takes to win without sacrificing your health which can be found at www.peakphysiquefilm.com Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/077 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
9/6/201639 minutes, 34 seconds
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FFN 019: Communication Solves Everything

Communication solves EVERYTHING: your relationship with your wife or girlfriend and/or your children, your business, your clients, your health, and your overall sanity and well-being. In order to reach your full potential, you'll have to learn to be a better communcator. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN018 http://www.orderofman.com
9/2/20168 minutes, 43 seconds
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OoM 076: Building Your Band of Brothers with Stephen Mansfield

Building a "Band of Brothers." It's something we hear a lot about but few of us, as men, actually take the time to do it. We all know no man is an island but, how do you actually enlist the help of the men around you? Today I talk with New York Times Bestselling Author, Stephen Mansfield about identifying men who will help you on your journey, how to approach them, some common pitfalls to avoid, and how you can be successful on your quest to build your Band of Brothers. Stephen Mansfield Stephen Mansfield is a New York Times bestselling author and a popular speaker who advises leaders worldwide. He is also a regular commentator on FOX News and CNN. He first rose to global attention with his groundbreaking book The Faith of George W. Bush, an enormous bestseller that Time magazine credited with helping to shape the 2004 U.S. presidential election. The book was also a source for Oliver Stone’s award-winning film “W“. Mansfield’s The Faith of Barack Obama was another international bestseller. He has written celebrated biographies of Booker T. Washington, George Whitefield, Winston Churchill, Pope Benedict XVI, and Abraham Lincoln, among others. Publishers Weeklydescribed his book, Killing Jesus, as “masterful.” Stephen’s humorous but fiery Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men has inspired men’s events around the world. His more recent The Miracle of the Kurds has been selected as “Book of the Year” by Rudaw, the leading Kurdish news service. As a result of this book, Mansfield has become a leading voice in support of the Kurds against the evils of ISIS in the Middle East. Stephen speaks widely about men, leadership, faith, the lessons of history, and the forces that shape modern culture. He is also a much in-demand leadership advisor whose firm, The Mansfield Group, is located in Washington DC. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/076 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
8/30/201640 minutes, 56 seconds
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FFN 018: Capitalism and Masculinity

It is critical you, as a man, wrap your head around the idea of capitalism. If you don’t, you won't have the ability to provide as much value as you should - value for yourself, your family, and the world. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN018 http://www.orderofman.co
8/26/20168 minutes, 23 seconds
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OoM 075: From Rock Bottom to Rock Star with Ryan Blair

Somewhere, at some point you’ve hit rock bottom. I know I certainly have. For me, it was 7 years ago when my wife and I decided to call it quits. Fortunately, I hit it hard enough and fast enough I was able to do something about it and save our marriage. Today, I talk with my friend and New York Times Best-Selling Author, Ryan Blair, about hitting rock bottom, how to dig yourself out of it, and become a rock star. Ryan Blair Ryan Blair is the co-founder and chief executive officer of ViSalus Sciences, a #1 New York Times Best-Selling Author, an serial entrepreneur who came from nothing to lose, and everything to gain.   At the age of 21, Blair had already founded his first business, 24/7 tech, and has since created and sold numerous other companies for hundreds of millions of dollars over the course of his carrer.   In 2011 he wrote a book titled Nothing to Lose, Everything to Gain: How I Went from Gang Member to Multimillionaire Entrepreneur which reached The New York Times Best Seller list. And, in 2012, Ernst & Young named Blair as Entrepreneur of the Year.   Today he's here to talk with us about his new book, Rock Bottom to Rock Star. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/075 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
8/23/201639 minutes
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FFN 017: Everyday Carry (EDC)

Everyday Carry (EDC): The practical tools and equipment you should be carrying every day to help you accomplish the tasks and situations you find yourself in on a daily basis. It's not about having everything but the kitchen sink - it’s about having a select few highly-efficient, highly practical tools at your disposal. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN016 http://www.orderofman.com
8/19/20168 minutes, 47 seconds
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OoM 074: Team-Building Strategies from the Special Forces and GoRuck with Jason McCarthy

Self-made man: it's a term that gets tossed around a lot. And, while there's certainly an exciting element to being a man who creates his own luck, the reality paints a different story. In fact, no man ever made it on his own. Today, I talk with Jason McCarthy, retired Green Beret and the founder of GoRuck about communication, building rapport, and team building strategies from the special forces and GoRuck. JASON MCCARTHY   My guest today is an Army Special Forces Soldier (AKA, Green Beret) and the founder of GoRuck, Jason McCarthy.   Jason enlisted in the Army after 9/11 and spent time serving our nation in Iraq. After leaving the military he founded the company GoRuck based on the lessons of team building, communication, and rapport he learned in training and in war. Along with his team of military members, GoRuck's goal is serve as a voice for good, employ more Veterans of Special Operations than any organization outside the US military, and build a bridge between the military and civilian worlds. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/074 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
8/16/201640 minutes, 14 seconds
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FFN 016: Forging Boundaries

Today I cover the topic of boundaries - why they're important, why "work/life balance" will never exist, and four simple strategies you can use to do more of the things YOU want to do. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN016 http://www.orderofman.com
8/12/20169 minutes, 35 seconds
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OoM 073: Lewis Howes | Your Path to Greatness

  I used to feel lost. I knew there was more to life but I just couldn't put my finger on it. And, even if I had, I wouldn't have known what path to take to get there. My guest today and a man that needs no introduction, Lewis Howes, talks with us about what it means to be great, the power of staying curious, how failure helps light the path, and how you can discover your own path to greatness. LEWIS HOWES Lewis Howes is a lifestyle entrepreneur, business coach, keynote speaker, and the New York Time Bestselling author of The School of Greatness. He is also a former professional football player, a two-sport All-American, world record holding athlete, and a current USA Men's National Handball Team athlete. In addition to all that, he hosts The School of Greatness podcast and was recognized by the White House as one of the top 100 entrepreneurs in the country under 30. You can see that Lewis has excelld at just about everything he's done. He's been featured in The New York Times, People, Men's Health, The Today Show and other major media outlets. And, today he's on the show to talk about creating your own path to greatness! Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/073 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
8/9/201638 minutes, 45 seconds
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FFN 015: Why Fitness Matters

Today we talk about my fitness journey: where I have succeeded, where I have failed, why this is critical to you becoming a better man, and how you can get started or break through the plateau you might find yourself on. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN015 http://www.orderofman.com
8/5/20168 minutes, 23 seconds
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OoM 072: Dominate in Any Environment with Niyi Sobo

Dominate anything. That’s what we’re going to talk about today. I’m sure you’ve felt, at times in your life, that you just weren’t operating to your full capacity. Whether that was a conscious decision or you just didn’t know how to break out to that next level, you just felt like you left something on the table. My guest today, former NFL runningback, Niyi Sobo teaches us how to create our ultimate vision, ask for and implement feedback, and dominate in ANY environment. Niyi Sobo is a former NFl running back for the New Orleans Saints and an All-America Oregon State Beaver. After his professional career, Niyi began his firefighting career and was accepted earned his position in just six months without any background or experience. In his spare time, he started working as a mindset and peak performance coach for athletes and top performers. He is a father of 5, the host of Sports Motivation Podcast and the founder of I’m Not You where he is dedicated to teaching athletes and other top performers the mindset and systems they need to dominate in any environment. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/072 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
8/2/201639 minutes, 15 seconds
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FFN 014: 10 Books Every Man Should Read

Successful people read. End of story. Today I share 10 books every man should read by the end of the year. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN014 http://www.orderofman.com
7/29/20169 minutes, 55 seconds
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OoM 071: Sleep Done Right with Ted Ryce

If you're anything like the way I used to be, you subscribe to the theory of, "I'll sleep when I'm dead." But, as I get older and I continue to focus on improving all aspects of my life, I can see and feel how critical the proper amount and quality of my sleep is. Today, I talk with Ted Ryce, the first repeat guest on the Order of Man Podcast, the importance of sleep, what it means to equip your "sleep cave," and three critial factors in getting the best sleep possible. Ted Ryce Ted Ryce is a personal trainer, peak performance coach and podcaster and has overcome a tremendous amount in his quest to live a legendary life. Ted has worked with Fortune 500 CEOs, busy professionals and celebrities, including Richard Branson, Ricky Martin and Robert Downey Jr. He helps his clients develop and stick with high-performance habits that help them manage stress and adversity and lead more successful lives. His philosophy is that being a high-performance person - one who chases and achieves their biggest goals -isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity to survive and thrive in the modern world. He has spent the last 16 years experimenting with exercise, nutrition, supplementation, and methods for what works and what doesn’t. A good friend of mine, I can tell you that Ted has a passion for helping men build muscle, lose fat, develop more confidence, and go after what they want in life. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/071 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
7/26/201639 minutes, 44 seconds
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FFN 013: Invest in Yourself

Every seems to want to invest in other people or other ideas but rarely take the time to invest in themselves. This week I talk about the power of putting your time, energy, resourses, and money where it really matters - yourself. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN013 http://www.orderofman.com
7/22/20169 minutes, 19 seconds
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OoM 070: The Power of a Perfect Morning Routine with Hal Elrod

I used to believe that I wasn't a morning person. And, for a long time, I let it effect the way I approached my day. I'd hit the snooze, roll out of bed with zero energy, and give myself just enough time to make it into work. And, of course, my morning routine - if you could call it that - impacted the rest of my day. My guest, the one and only Hal Elrod, joins me to talk about how you can become a morning person and how you can craft and execute a morning routine that will literally transform your entire life. Hal Elrod Guys, I'm excited to introduce Hal Elrod. He's a man who needs no introduction but I'll do it anyways because he is someone you definitely need to know. Hal the #1 best-selling author of what is being widely regarded as “one of the most lifechanging books ever written” (and, I agree) titled, The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed To Transform Your Life… Before 8AM. It is also one of the highest rated books on Amazon with over 1,300 five-star reviews. Now, if you don't already know, Hal actually died at age 20. He was hit head on by a drunk driver at 70 mph, broke 11 bones, died for 6 minutes, and spent 6 days in a coma only to wake up to face the news that he may never walk again. Not only did Hal re-learn to walk, he went on to run a 52-mile ultra marathon, become a hall of fame business achiever, an international keynote speaker, one of the world’s top success coaches, he’s a hip-hop recording artist, has been featured in the Chicken Soup for the Soul book series, writes for Entrepreneur.com, has appeared on radio and TV shows across the country, and the list just goes on and on. Robert Kiyosaki, author of the all-time bestselling book, Rich Dad Poor Dad, calls him a "genius" and that his book has been "magical" in transforming his life. Today, he's here to talk with me about that book and so much more! Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/070 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
7/19/201645 minutes, 31 seconds
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FFN 012: 10 Sure-Fire Ways to Fail at Life

Eliminating things you shouldn't be doing is just as important as implementing the things you should. Today I talk about 10 sure-fire ways to fail at life.. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN012 http://www.orderofman.com
7/15/20169 minutes, 44 seconds
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OoM 069: The Laws of Wealth with Dr. Daniel Crosby

Building wealth - that's what I want to talk with you about today. I know a lot of people are jaded with the whole process. Unscrupulous financial advisors, unnecessary fees, complex products, industry jargon, and a whole host of issues that keep you from building massive amounts of wealth in your life. My guest today, Dr. Daniel Crosby, is on a mission to help bring some of the clarity and control back into your life and finally help you start taking charge of your money! Dr. Daniel Crosby, a behavioral finance expert and sought after thought leader on market psychology, is the founder of Nocturne Capital. Dr. Crosby created the sentiment and valuation measures that serve as the overlay for Nocturne's tactical strategy. His ideas have appeared in the Huffington Post, Think Advisor, and Risk Management, as well as columns for WealthManagement.com and Investment News. Daniel was named one of Investment News "40 Under 40" and a “financial blogger you should be reading” by AARP. Daniel's second book, "Personal Benchmark", co-authored with Charles Widger of Brinker Capital, was a New York Times bestseller that outlines a highly personalized approach to investing that aligns intention with action while fostering an investment experience that is both enjoyable and rational. He's got a new book, The Laws of Wealth, which is what he's here to talk with us about today! Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/069 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
7/12/201641 minutes, 1 second
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FFN 011: Creating Work/Life Balance

  Work/life balance isn't an easy thing to create. If fact, it may not even be possible. Today I talk about 3 strategies (congruency, communication, and commitment) that will get you closer. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN011 http://www.orderofman.com
7/8/20169 minutes, 9 seconds
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OoM 068: Raising Men with Navy SEAL, Eric Davis

I don't know about you but I have spent many nights staying up contemplating the job I'm doing as my children's father. I’m constantly wondering if I’m doing the right thing- if I’m leading when I need to, allowing them to lead when it’s best, and teaching them the lessons they’ll need to be successful. My guest today, retired Navy SEAL, Eric Davis, helps me answer those questions and many more as he talks about his new book, Raising Men. Eric Davis served our country as a U.S. Navy SEAL and decorated veteran of the Global War on Terror. Eric has been recognized as one of the premier sniper instructors in the U.S. military and has served as a Master Training Specialist at the SEAL sniper school in Coronado, CA. In fact, he trained both Chris Kyle and Marcus Luttrell as snipers. He is an expert of technical and physical surveillance and was part of an elite group hand-selected to perform intelligence collection in denied areas around the world. Eric has spent years developing, writing and executing curriculum for the SEAL Teams. By leveraging his expertise in the development of systems, structures, processes and practices Eric was instrumental in significantly reducing the failure rate, of Naval Special Warfare’s internationally recognized Sniper course. Since departing from the SEAL teams, Eric has worked in corporate performance, sales and leadership training bringing an unprecedented amount of innovation, efficiency and structure to the domain of business and personal performance. Eric is also the author of "Raising Men: Lessons Navy SEALs learned from their training and taught to their sons" which he is here to talk with us about today. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/068 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
7/5/201643 minutes, 24 seconds
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FFN 010: Work the Plan

Planning your day isn't the sexiest thing in the world but your ability to work a plan is what separates the extremely successful from those that scrape by. Today I talk with you about the four steps to making a plan work! Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN010 http://www.orderofman.com
7/1/20168 minutes, 19 seconds
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OoM 067: Surviving a 60-Hour Endurance Event with Ryan Michler

30-mile mountain hikes under a 35-pound ruck, 60 hours of work with 4 hours of sleep, swimming with leaches, pushing hay bales through waist-high muddy swamps, eating worms, surviving in the wilderness, and so much more. Sounds like my kind of weekend! Today my good friend, Larry Hagner interview me and gets all the details of my 60-hour Spartan Agoge Event. Ryan Michler, a financial advisor by trade, started Order of Man with the goal of assisting men across the world become better leaders in their families, their businesses, and their communities. He now hosts a top-rated podcast and blog teaching men how to improve their relationships, their wealth, their health, and their lives. Ryan spent much of his early life without a permanent father figure and was left to learn how to be a man on his own. Through his experience in sports and his time in the military (including an active-duty tour in Iraq), he has been able to improve in every area of his life and is now on a mission to help other men do the same. He believes that most, if not all, of the world's biggest problems could be solved if males everywhere learned how to be better husbands, fathers, friends, and leaders. He's on a mission to help all men become the men they were meant to be. Please leave us a review at http://www.orderofman.com/itunes Shownotes: http://www.orderofman.com/067 Website: http://www.orderofman.com
6/28/201645 minutes, 54 seconds
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FFN 009: The Power of Appreciation

Everywhere I look I see negativity. Whether that’s Facebook, the news, the magazines I read, it’s everywhere. It's human nature to look for the problems in this world and, specifically, we, as men, tend to be more guilty of it than women. It’s wired into us because we are the ones supposed to be solving the problems and keeping everyone alive and thriving. Today I talk with you how to combat negativity with The Power of Appreciation. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN009 http://www.orderofman.com
6/24/20166 minutes, 13 seconds
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OoM 066: Overcoming Alcohol Addiction with James Swanwick

  Strength, energy, drive, motivation, relationships, health - these are all things we, as men, want in more and deeper quantities. It's difficult enough to improve in each of these areas. Adding alcohol addiction to the equation certainly doesn't help. My guest today, James Swanwick talks with us about breaking habits, changing your environment, choosing the people you surround yourself with, and how to kick alcohol for good. James Swanwick is a New York-based ESPN anchor on SportsCenter, author of ‘Insider Journalism Secrets’ and co-founder of international agency, Crocmedia. He's been a print or TV journalist for 20 years, writing for newspapers and magazines in the US, UK and Australia including Associated Press, Sky Sports, ESPN, WPLJ radio, Sydney Morning Herald, Sydney Daily Telegraph, The Sun, Sky Movie Channel, Q104FM, Loaded magazine, Woman’s Day, The Courier-Mail and many more. He now teaches aspiring journalists and graduates how to get a job in the fast-paced journalism industry through his course “How To Become A Journalist”. Order of Man 066 Order of Man
6/21/201640 minutes, 37 seconds
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FFN 008: The Age of Fragility

The Age of Fragility: You cannot turn around, watch the media, or have a conversation with anyone these days without running across the virus of fragility we are currently experiencing. Please leave us an iTunes rating and review: http://www.orderofman.com/iTunes http://www.orderofman.com/FFN008 http://www.orderofman.com
6/17/20167 minutes, 27 seconds
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OoM 065: Your Ego is the Enemy with Ryan Holiday

  Many of us, as men believe that we need to have it all figured out in order for us to be successful. It's the old adage, "Fake it 'til you make it." And, while confidence is certainly something you'll need to gain in order to have success, the fine line between it and ego has the ability to destroy it. My guest today, the one and only Ryan Holiday shares how confidence is earned while ego isn't, the dangers and pitfalls of an inflated ego, and how to get out of your own way. Ryan Holiday is a media strategist and prominent writer on strategy and business. After dropping out of college at nineteen to apprentice under Robert Greene, author of The 48 Laws of Power, he went on to advise many bestselling authors and multi-platinum musicians. He served as director of marketing at American Apparel for many years, where his campaigns have been used as case studies by Twitter, YouTube, and Google and written about in AdAge, the New York Times, and Fast Company. His first book, Trust Me I'm Lying—which the Financial Times called an “astonishing, disturbing book”—was a debut bestseller and is taught in colleges around the world. He is also the author of two other books that have been instrumental in heling me achieve success in my life, The Obstacle is the Way and his latest - which he is here to talk about with us today - Ego is the Enemy. Order of Man 065 Order of Man
6/14/201644 minutes, 12 seconds
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FFN 007: Living the Strenuous Life

In today's overly sensitive, comfortable, sedentary world, men need to, now more than ever return to what Theodore Roosevelt calls The Strenuous Life. If you like the show, be sure to leave us a review at www.orderofman.com/itunes Friday Field Notes, Episode 007 Order of Man
6/10/20169 minutes, 23 seconds
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OoM 064: Tactical Training for Real-World Scenarios with Tony Sentmanat

As you know by now, every man has three major responsibilities: to provide, to preside, and to protect. Today we shed some light on how you can be a better protector. In the wake, of escalating violence across the country, my guest today, Tony Sentmanat shares with us how to improve your situational awareness, the firsts place to start when working on your self-defense, and how to get in more tactical training for threats and emergencies. Tony Sentmanat is a Marine Corps Veteran and Law Enforcement SWAT Operator with over 18 years of Real World experience. He's also a life-long practitioner in Mixed Martial Arts with extensive experience as a Law Enforcement Combative's Trainer and has been a Firearms Instructor for over 16 years. Tony also has 15 years of experience as a functional strength and conditioning trainer specializing in functional fitness for combat athletes.  Upon finishing his military service he started his law enforcement career as a State Correctional Officer, and then quickly transferred to become a Law Enforcement Officer, where he still works today. Tony has spent most of his career in SWAT where he has been involved in over 550 real world missions through out his career. In addition to his work resume, Tony has received numerous awards including: Multiple Combat Cross Awards for Police involved shootings, Officer of the Year and Crime Suppression Officer of the Year Award, Dade Police Chiefs Officer of the Month Award, several Officer of the month and Officer of the Quarter Awards, and has received over 40 commendations through out his career for Meritorious Service. Order of Man 064 Order of Man
6/7/201638 minutes, 21 seconds
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FFN 006: Self-Discipline

  Self-Discipline is one of the biggest concerns I hear from the men I work with on a daily basis.  The reality is that if you can get self-discipline right, you have the power to change every element of your life from your relationships, to your health, to your wealth, and everywhere in between.   Friday Field Notes Order of Man
6/3/20168 minutes, 59 seconds
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OoM 063: Approaching Work Like a Craftsman with Cal Newport

If you're anything like me, there never seems to be enough time in the day. When looking back, you know you were busy but what did you actually get done?! My guest today, Cal Newport, author of Deep Work, makes the case that most of us are participating in what he calls "shallow work," which is why most of us are busy but not productive. We talk about the power of going deep in your work, why you should be approaching your work like a craftsman, and how to to live a more efficient, productive, and satisfying life. Cal Newport is an Assistant Professor of Computer Science at Georgetown University, who specializes in the theory of distributed algorithms. He previously earned his Ph.D. from MIT in 2009 and graduated from Dartmouth College in 2004. In addition to studying the theoretical foundations of our digital age as a professor, Newport also writes about the impact of these technologies on the world of work. This is what he is going to be talking with us about today. His most recent book, Deep Work, Cal argues that focus is the new I.Q. in the knowledge economy, and that individuals who cultivate their ability to concentrate without distraction will thrive. Cal Newport is also the author of three other books of unconventional advice for students: How to be a High School Superstar, How to be a Straight A Student, and How to Win at College. The How To student series has sold over well over 150,000 copies since its inception, and Newport has been invited to speak on these topics at some of the country’s top universities, including Harvard, Princeton, MIT, Dartmouth, Middlebury, Georgetown and Duke. Today he is here to talk about how to be more productive and efficient, and why incorporating the DEEP LIFE is paramount to your success. Order of Man 063 Order of Man
5/31/201643 minutes, 51 seconds
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FFN 005: Power of Choices

Our life is a series of choices. Every single day we have the opportunity to choose the course of our life or let it be dictated by other's choices. When you learn how to make more of your own choices each and every day , you gain the power it takes to be successful. Friday Field Notes Order of Man
5/27/20168 minutes, 55 seconds
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OoM 062: Deadly Skills Every Man Should Know with Clint Emerson

One of our primary responsibilities as men is to protect those we care about. Whether it's your family, your co-workers, or the citizens of your community, you may face a situation in which you will be called upon to keep people alive. Will you be ready. My guest today, retired Navy SEAL, Clint Emerson teaches us how to handle emergency threats, what it means to be a violent nomad, and how we can become proficient at the deadly skills we may be forced to use. Clint Emerson is a retired Navy SEAL and spent twenty years conducting special ops all over the world while attached to several SEAL Teams - including the elite, SEAL Team SIX as well as the National Security Agency (NSA). Utilizing an array of practical skills he developed to protect himself while at home and abroad, he created Violent Nomad—a personal, non-kinetic capture/kill program cataloguing the skills necessary to defend against any predator or crisis. On top of that, Clint owns and operates Escape the Wolf where he words with organizations to mitigate threats, decrease exposure to crisis, and increase survivability in crisis situations.  Clint is now a best-selling author of the book, 100 Deadly Skills and his soon to be released second book, 100 Deadly Skills, Survivor Edition. Order of Man 062 Order of Man
5/24/201645 minutes, 12 seconds
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FFN 004: Crushing Excuses

Today I talk about one of the most damaging factors in your quest for success: excuses. I'll share with you why we create excuses, why they'll kill you're chances of success, and how to eliminate them from your life. Friday Field Notes Order of Man
5/20/20168 minutes, 11 seconds
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OoM 061: Tapping into the Power of Your Mind with Len Wright

We all know the mind to be the most powerful computing system known to man but do we really know how to tap into it? My guest today sheds light on this amazing tool at our disposal, how we can tap into our subconscious, increase our focus, reduce overwhelm, and learn how to be fully present for every moment in our lives. Order of Man 061 Order of Man
5/17/201642 minutes, 33 seconds
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FFN 003: Building Your Confidence

Without confidence, we WILL NOT live up to our full potential. And, the reason that we won’t live up to our full potential is because, without confidence, we will not do the things done - to the measure they need to be done - to have success in our lives. Friday Field Notes Order of Man
5/13/20167 minutes, 10 seconds
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OoM 060: Jocko Willink on Leading Yourself and Men

Today I interview one of the baddest men on the planet, Retired Navy SEAL Commander, Jocko Willink. We talk about his new book Extreme Ownership, lessons learned from war, leading men, and how to eliminate excuses and take charge of your life. "Extreme ownership is an attitude of not making excuses for anything." Order of Man 060 Order of Man
5/10/201642 minutes, 6 seconds
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FFN002: Protect, Provide, and Preside

This week on your Friday Field Notes, I talk about a man's primary responsibility: Protect, Provide, and Preside   Friday Field Notes Order of Man
5/6/20167 minutes, 2 seconds
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OoM 059: An Insider's Look Into Approaching Women with Sarah Jones

Approaching anattractive woman. Some of us cringe at the thought of having to putourselves out there like that. But my guest today, and the veryfirst woman to join us on the Order of Man Podcast shares with ushow we can approach women naturally by being more ofourselves.She’s also going toshare some of her insider secrets, what women are truly looking forin a man, and how you can be comfortable around the oppositesex.Order of Man, Episode059Order of Man
5/3/201646 minutes, 37 seconds
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Friday Field Notes: Introduction and Keeping Score

Welcome the inaugural episode of Friday Field Notes. Each week I'll be sharing my rants, reviews, and recaps, of the week. This week, I talk about keeping score in your child's competitive sports. Friday Field Notes Order of Man
4/29/20168 minutes, 23 seconds
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OoM 058: How Men Can Resist Average with Tommy Baker

Boring, average, complacent, mediocre. These are all terms we'd like to think don't describe us but the reality is, most of us live our entire lives this way. We don't ever break out of the ordinary and, even if we wanted to, it's difficult to know how to do it. My friend and guest today, Mr. Tommy Baker shares with us to push the boundaries, make rapid and lasting changes in life, and resist the average that tries to take hold of us all. Order of Man Episode 58 Order of Man
4/26/201639 minutes, 16 seconds
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OoM 057: The Power of Self-Awareness with Pejman Ghadimi

The founder of Secret Entourage and I talk about manipulating your environments, predicting the behavior and actions of others, and how to take control of every element of your life by becoming more aware. Order of Man Episode 57 Order of Man
4/19/201642 minutes, 28 seconds
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OoM 056: Why Every Man Should Consider Yoga with Dean Pohlman

Yoga - it's not typically a word we associate with masculinity. That's about to change! My guest shares with us the stigma around men and yoga, how it will make you stronger, and why every man should consider implementing yoga into his fitness regiment. Order of Man Episode 56 Order of Man
4/12/201638 minutes, 27 seconds
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OoM 055: Finding the Work You Love with Dan Miller

Finding your passion. It’s a buzz word we hear all the time. But, it’s also something I know is on a lot of your minds. You want to find the work you love. In fact, I’m surprised at how many men feel trapped with the work their currently doing. I can tell you from experience that when you do start to follow work your excited about, it opens up a world of excitement and opportunity. But, how do you do it. My guest, Dan Miller, joins me to show us how! Order of Man Episode 55 Order of Man
4/5/201643 minutes, 17 seconds
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OoM 054: Lessons Learned From an MMA Fighter with Charlie "The Spaniard" Brenneman

Most of you have watched MMA fights. From the casual observer, it simply looks like two guys beating each other mercilessly. And, while violence is certainly and element to the fighting these guys participate in, there are so many lessons that can be extracted from fighting in the cage. My guest today, Charlie Brenneman, shares with us how to be more disciplined, how to develop a perfect day, and what separates the winners from the losers. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 54 Website: Order of Man
3/29/201640 minutes, 32 seconds
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OoM 053: Going From Fat to Fit with Drew Manning

If you are anything like the way I used to be, you are ready to get back into shape. You know that you want more out of life and, you know that living a healthy lifestyle is a huge component of that. That said, it's hard - not only physically, but mentally. My guest today, gained 75lbs in just 6 months to learn first-hand what his clients experienced as they started their journey towards a healthy life. Drew Manning shares with us his experience, what he learned and how you can finally go from fat to fit. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 53 Website: Order of Man
3/22/201636 minutes, 32 seconds
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OoM 052: Leveling Up Your Life By Embracing Your Inner Nerd with Steve Kamb

Life is hard. We all know that. We all have things we want to accomplish in our lives: deeper relationships, better fitness, starting the new business, and on and on. What makes it hard is that there are so many distractions, so many excuses, and our goals just never seem to become a reality. My guest today, Steve Kamb, founder of Nerd Fitness, shares how his love for video games and movies helps us overcome distractions, procrastination, and excuses, and become the hero of our own journey Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 52 Website: Order of Man
3/15/201641 minutes, 42 seconds
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OoM 051: Joe De Sena | Living the Spartan Way of Life

Everywhere you turn it seems we as a society are continuing to look for a life of ease and comfort. And, while there are certainly merits to finding more efficient ways of doing things, my guest today, Joe De Sena, Founder of Spartan Races, shares with us why a life of pushing, discomfort, and pain helps us become the men we are meant to be. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 51 Website: Order of Man
3/8/201638 minutes, 2 seconds
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OoM 050: How to Talk with Women with Tripp Lanier

Meeting and approaching women can be one of the most difficult things that a man can do. We get nervous, we don't know what to say or, worse, we say something stupid, and we just have a hard time being ourselves. My guest today, Tripp Kramer, with TrippAdvice.com teaches why talking to women is so hard, how we can overcome this fear, how to keep ourselves out of the "friend zone" and so much more. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 50 Website: Order of Man
3/1/201642 minutes, 58 seconds
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OoM 049: Building Your Memory Muscle with Anthony Metivier

We've all had the awkward experience where we needed to remember someone's name and couldn't. Or perhaps you've been prepping for a speech, interview, or presentation and you just can't remember that story you wanted to share. My guest today, Mr. Anthony Metivier teaches us the techniques and strategies for building better memories - a skill all of us can enhance to be more credible, effective, and influential in our lives. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 49 Website: Order of Man
2/23/201641 minutes, 2 seconds
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OoM 048: Martial Arts, Mindfulness, and Mastery with Rodney King

You know as well as I that protecting our loved ones is a key component of being a man. That’s what I thought we’d talk about when I started the conversation with my guest, Rodney King. The conversation quickly went another route as Rodney and I talked about how self-defense and martial arts can you become more mindful and achieve mastery in all areas of your life. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 48 Website: Order of Man
2/16/201644 minutes, 32 seconds
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OoM 047: The Dating Playbook for Men with Andrew Ferebee

Whether you're single, dating, or been married for years, dating and attracting women is a critical skill all of us need to develop. My guest today, Andrew Ferebee, shares with us how to develop strength and confidence in ourselves, approach women naturally, and how to improve your dating game. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 46 Website: Order of Man
2/9/201640 minutes, 37 seconds
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OoM 046: Building Physical, Mental, and Emotional Strength with Chris Duffin

When we think of strength, we think of being physically strong and, while there's certainly an element of physical strength, masculinity requires you to be strong physically, mentally, and emotionally. My guest today, former world-record holder for the back squat, Chris Duffin teaches us how building our physical strength will help us become strong in all areas of our lives. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 46 Website: Order of Man
2/2/201642 minutes, 38 seconds
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OoM 045: Connecting with Men and Building Your Tribe with Connor Beaton

Connecting with men. It sounds a little weird just to say it. But, whether you call it connecting, developing relationships, or building your tribe, finding a way to surround yourself with other successful guys is critical to your success. This week, Connor Beaton shares with us why and how you need to connect with men in your life, how to build more influence among those guys, and how you can stand out as a leader when building your tribe. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 45 Website: Order of Man
1/26/201636 minutes, 58 seconds
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OoM 044: Taking Ownership of Your Life Through Entrepreneurship with Tom Reber

So many men out there are unhappy with the direction or course of their life. But, I can tell you personally there has no greater move I could have made in my own life than to start my own businesses. The lessons I've learned, the progress I've made, and the life that I have created cannot have been duplicated living any other way. Today my guest, Tom Reber, shares with us the 5 most important reasons you should consider starting a business, the bare minimums you'll need to get started, and how you can take ownership of your life through entrepreneurship. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 44 Website: Order of Man
1/19/201641 minutes, 24 seconds
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OoM 043: Building Confidence Through Better Style with Aaron Marino

  Confidence is a tricky thing. It's the the age-old adage of what came first the chicken or the egg. What comes first, confidence or the daily actions to get you to the life you deserve? My guest today, Aaron Marino with IAmAlphaM helps us answer that question and teaches us how style, not just your clothes, but your grooming, your communication, and the way you show up will help you be the confident man you want to be.  Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 43 Website: Order of Man
1/12/201638 minutes, 47 seconds
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OoM 042: How to be Confident, Cool, and Collected with David De Las Morenas

When men let me know what they're struggling with most in life right now, the number one answer I receive comes down to being more confident. How do I build confidence in myself? How can I be more confident in my life? How can I build confidence with women? How can I be more confident in my career? My guest today, David De Las Morenas with How to Beast, shares how you can build your confidence, how do reduce stress and anxiety in your life, and how you can be the cool, calm, and collected man you've always wanted to be. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 42 Website: Order of Man
1/5/201642 minutes, 8 seconds
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OoM 041: How to Save 50% of Your Income with Joe Saul-Sehy

It's that time of year again where we start thinking about what we want to accomplish in 2016. Among others, I'm sure you've set some financial goals this year. My guest and friend, Mr. Joe Saul-Sehy talks with us about why you should consider saving 50% of your income.I know what you're thinking because I thought it was ridiculous too when I first heard it but Joe is going to teach us the systems we'll need, how to make more money, how to spend less, and how you can take control of your money this year. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 41 Website: Order of Man
12/29/201549 minutes, 25 seconds
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OoM 040: Become the CEO of Your Life with Andy Frisella

When we think of CEO, we think of big business but my guest today, Andy Frisella, shares with us why you need to learn to become the CEO of your life. Andy pulls no punches today as we talk about how to win and lose, the negatives scripts we tell ourselves, and how taking hard-line stances in your life will help you achieve on a bigger level in your business, your relationships, and your life. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 40 Website: Order of Man
12/22/201543 minutes, 29 seconds
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OoM 039: Living a Healthy Life with Shawn Stevenson

Many of you know the health journey I've been on over the past several years. There's been some highs and there's been some lows. My guest today, Shawn Stevenson, visits me to talk about how to get started on your journey towards a healthy life, how to break through your plateaus, and how to finally take control of your health and wellness. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 39 Website: Order of Man
12/15/201545 minutes, 27 seconds
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OoM 038: What Makes a Man "Manly" with Stephen Mansfield

What does it mean to be a man? It's a question I've asked all 38 podcast guest up to this point. And, it's a question that is difficult to answer. My guest today, Stephen Mansfield, breaks it down piece by piece as he talks about rites of passage, the need for excitement and adventure in men's lives, and how to build a band of brothers. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 37 Website: Order of Man
12/8/201544 minutes, 44 seconds
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OoM 037: Creating Freedom with Entrepreneurship with Ryan Moran

There's a natural desire in all men to provide. In fact, it's one of the primary functions of a man. My guest today, Ryan Moran, shares with us how to, not only use entrepreneurship to to provide a way of life, but to also create freedom for yourself and others. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 37 Website: Order of Man
12/1/201541 minutes, 53 seconds
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OoM 036: The Art of Pitching Presenting, and Performing with Michael Port

Whether you're pitching your latest idea to a group of investors, vying for a job promotion, or performing in front of a large crowd, learning to become a better public speaker is a skill all men should learn. My guest today, Michael Port, shares why every man needs to learn this skills now, how to deliver a killer presentation, and the most common mistakes you'll need to avoid in order to get people on your side. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 35 Website: Order of Man
11/24/201551 minutes, 32 seconds
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OoM 035: Live a life of Success, Happiness, and Fulfillment with Aaron Walker

We all want to improve. Understanding what needs to be done, planning a course of action, and executing that plan is a must. Aaron Walker talks with us about how to create and implement a plan so you can live a life of success, happiness, and fulfillment. Podcast Shownotes: Order of Man, Episode 35 Website: Order of Man
11/17/201540 minutes, 39 seconds
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OoM 034: Jordan Harbinger | The Power of Coaching, Networking and Building Relationships

Jordan Harbinger with the Art of Charm joins me to talk about finding coaches in your life to develop new skills, how to be better at networking, and why building relationships is the most valuable skill set you need to learn. Meet Jordan Harbinger Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for The post OoM 034: Jordan Harbinger | The Power of Coaching, Networking and Building Relationships appeared first on Order of Man.
11/10/201544 minutes, 18 seconds
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OoM 033: Why Men are Failing to Launch with Matthew Arrington

We all know a grown man who is stuck living on his  parent’s basement couch. Maybe it’s you or maybe it someone who know. The fact of the matter is that men are failing to launch more and more frequently. My guest today, Mr. Matthew Arrington, is here to talkThe post OoM 033: Why Men are Failing to Launch with Matthew Arrington appeared first on Order of Man.
11/3/201541 minutes, 13 seconds
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OoM 032: Becoming a Man Through 4 Tactical Virtues with Jack Donovan

Being a man is hard work. We all have so many roles and responsibilities (husband, father, business owner, community leader, and the list goes on and on). In addition to that the media, and the world are trying to tell you how you should behave and what it means to The post OoM 032: Becoming a Man Through 4 Tactical Virtues with Jack Donovan appeared first on Order of Man.
10/27/201532 minutes, 6 seconds
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OoM 031: Survival Skills for Every Scenario with Creek Stewart

You never know when you’ll be placed in a survival situation. Whether it’s a natural disaster, becoming lost in the wilderness, or surviving a bear attack (like we talk about on the show today) your knowledge of survival skills could literally spell the difference between life and death. At theThe post OoM 031: Survival Skills for Every Scenario with Creek Stewart appeared first on Order of Man.
10/20/201541 minutes, 54 seconds
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OoM 030: Becoming a Real Man and Helping Others do the Same with JuVan Langford

Men, myself included, have a tendency to focus outside of themselves. What do I have to get done? Who is relying on me? What do they need from me right now? And, while those are noble thoughts and ambitions, it’s very difficult to sustain for any measurable amount of timeThe post OoM 030: Becoming a Real Man and Helping Others do the Same with JuVan Langford appeared first on Order of Man.
10/13/201541 minutes, 28 seconds
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OoM 029: Hunting, Fishing, Wildgame Recipes, and Harvesting Nature with Justin Townsend

The earliest skill sets of man included the ability to hunt game and provide for the tribe. In fact, a man’s ability to survive, protect, and provide for his family and himself is still a primary mark of a man. This week I have a conversation with Justin Townsend about hunting, fishing, and harvesting nature to do just that. We’ll talk about using nature as a resource to provide, how to create lasting memories in the outdoors with your family, and everything you need to get started on your own hunting adventures. The post OoM 029: Hunting, Fishing, Wildgame Recipes, and Harvesting Nature with Justin Townsend appeared first on Order of Man.
10/1/201537 minutes, 53 seconds
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OoM 028: Life Lessons Learned from America's Pastime with Travis Chock

It's a fact, most men thrive on competition. Competitive sports are as old as time. They test our skills, our abilities, our strength, and so much more. But, more than that, sports are a metaphor for life. I can't think of another opportunity where you can learn how to win, how to lose, teamwork, discipline, commitment and every other trait that will help you thrive as a man. This week, I talk with Travis Chock, C0-Founder of Baseballism about America's Pastime, lessons learned from the baseball diamond, and how to turn a passion for the game into a thriving business. "We played head down baseball, done the right way with respect of the game and humility." Tweet That Meet Travis Chock Travis Chock is the Co-Founder of Baseballism, a clothing and accessories brand that focuses on turning a love for the game of baseball into a lifestyle filled with passion, commitment, and discipline. Started in 2006 as a Youth Baseball Camp, Baseballism has quickly grown into a recognizable brand that serves professional baseball players down to their core audience of youth and high school athletes. Travis has a degree in education studies and is a former college athlete but has since turned his love for the game into a full-time career with locations around the country and more stores opening soon. Baseballism has 372,000 Facebook Fans, 52,000 Twitter Followers, and 121,000 Instagram followers attesting to the fact that Travis knows how to create a huge and loyal following. "You want to go down swinging. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work but at least you gave it a shot." Tweet That What You'll Be Learning How 4 college buddies started a recognizable American Lifestyle Brand How to turn your passion into a business Why baseball is America's pastime The best life lessons we can learn from sports Why you shouldn't sideline coach your children's teams Why striking out is important "For all of us, baseball is a passion." Tweet That Connect with Travis Chock, Baseballism Website: www.baseballism.com Facebook: Baseballism Twitter: @baseballism Instagram: Baseballism "Baseballism means 'from baseball,' believing in what the game has to offer and the good in baseball." Tweet That
9/29/201530 minutes, 50 seconds
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OoM 027: Growing Up, Getting Unstuck, and Learning to Fail with Paul Angone

If I had a dime for every time someone told me “I feel stuck,” I’d be a rich man. It’s such a hot topic that I think all men have dealt with it at some point, myself included. The reality is that there isn’t much that separates those men whoThe post OoM 027: Growing Up, Getting Unstuck, and Learning to Fail with Paul Angone appeared first on Order of Man.
9/22/201544 minutes, 13 seconds
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OoM 026: Becoming a Self Made Man with Mike Dillard

A real man is a strong man, one who has identified his core values and has mastered himself. However, with the environment changing so fast around us, it’s hard to keep up let alone remain a beacon of stability and strength in the lives of those you love. This week,The post OoM 026: Becoming a Self Made Man with Mike Dillard appeared first on Order of Man.
9/15/201537 minutes, 48 seconds
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OoM 025: Becoming the Dad Your Kids Need You To Be With Larry Hagner

If you’re a father, being a good dad is something you strive to be. But, when reality hits, we, as men, find it more difficult that we thought it would be. You have clear and ambitious goals, for your business, your finances, and your health but can the same thingThe post OoM 025: Becoming the Dad Your Kids Need You To Be With Larry Hagner appeared first on Order of Man.
9/8/201541 minutes, 1 second
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OoM 024: Working Out AND Pigging Out with Chad Holtkamp

Your level of fitness is a cornerstone of your responsibilities and duties as a man. But, if you’re anything like me, it can be difficult to maintain consistency at the gym and with what you eat. This week, my guest and I and, talk about what you can do to buildThe post OoM 024: Working Out AND Pigging Out with Chad Holtkamp appeared first on Order of Man.
9/1/201535 minutes, 21 seconds
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OoM 023: Brett McKay | Perfecting the Art of Manliness

We all have men that we look up to. Today I’m excited to have a conversation with a man who has been a big motivating factor for me starting the Order of Man. Mr. Brett McKay with the Art of Manliness joins me to talk about how we, as men, canThe post OoM 023: Brett McKay | Perfecting the Art of Manliness appeared first on Order of Man.
8/25/201532 minutes, 49 seconds
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OoM 022: Overcoming Struggle and Achieving Greatness with Division I, All-American Wrestler, Jim Harshaw

As men, we’ve all had struggles and adversity. What separates the triumphant from those that get lost in the despair is an ability to overcome pain and suffering. My guest today, former Division 1, All-American wrestler, Jim Harshaw teaches us how we can do just that and achieve greatness inThe post OoM 022: Overcoming Struggle and Achieving Greatness with Division I, All-American Wrestler, Jim Harshaw appeared first on Order of Man.
8/18/201539 minutes, 45 seconds
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OoM 021: Masculinty in a Modern World with Ted Ryce

More and more, we are hearing that there is an attack or an assault on masculinity. While I don’t believe that’s necessarily true, my guest today, Ted Ryce, shares with us why modern society is not the environment where a masculine male thrives. We talk about what has changed in The post OoM 021: Masculinty in a Modern World with Ted Ryce appeared first on Order of Man.
8/11/201541 minutes, 55 seconds
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OoM 020: DIY Home Repair with Jeff Patterson

If you’re anything like me, you spend a lot of time fixing things up around the house. As frustrating as it can be at times, I love that I can start and complete a project with my own hands. It doesn’t always turn out the best but there is somethingThe post OoM 020: DIY Home Repair with Jeff Patterson appeared first on Order of Man.
8/4/201532 minutes, 46 seconds
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OoM 019: Get Your Mind Right, Stay Curious, and Take Action with Sean Whalen

The problem is that we’re filling our minds with trash. Negative information that is destroying our chance of success is everywhere-on your phone, TV, YouTube, Facebook, you name it. My guests today, Sean Whalen, teaches us how to get our heads on straight, explore and stay curious, and take action towards the life we The post OoM 019: Get Your Mind Right, Stay Curious, and Take Action with Sean Whalen appeared first on Order of Man.
7/28/201543 minutes, 31 seconds
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OoM 018: A UFC Heavyweight Champion’s Life Lessons from the Cage with Bas Rutten

Although many of us may never enter a mixed martial arts contest, there are so many life lessons that can be learned from stepping into a ring where another man literally wants to destroy you. How do you prepare? How do you succeed? How do get up when you getThe post OoM 018: A UFC Heavyweight Champion’s Life Lessons from the Cage with Bas Rutten appeared first on Order of Man.
7/21/201545 minutes, 39 seconds
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OoM 017: From Passion Project to New Career with Jake Nackos

I’ve never met a man who didn’t have his next million-dollar-idea. Ideas are a dime a dozen. What seems to be missing in the majority of scenarios is ACTION. My guest today, Jake Nackos, tells us how to find your passion project and, more importantly, what you need to doThe post OoM 017: From Passion Project to New Career with Jake Nackos appeared first on Order of Man.
7/14/201543 minutes, 14 seconds
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OoM 016: The Power of Silence, Meditation, and the Mind with Commander Mark Divine

Unless you can get crystal clear about what you want and how to create a plan to accomplish your goals, it will be difficult to realize any measure of success in your life. My guest today, Retired Navy SEAL, Commander Mark Divine makes the case for the power of silence,The post OoM 016: The Power of Silence, Meditation, and the Mind with Commander Mark Divine appeared first on Order of Man.
7/7/201547 minutes, 34 seconds
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OoM 015: How to Grill Like a Man with Scott Thomas

A man who knows his way around the grill is a man that can earn the respect of his buddies and the affection of the ladies. Now, whether it’s true or not, grilling and/or BBQing, is viewed as a staple in every guy’s toolbox of manly skills. Whether you’re an amateur,The post OoM 015: How to Grill Like a Man with Scott Thomas appeared first on Order of Man.
6/30/201549 minutes, 4 seconds
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OoM 014: Creating a R.I.C.H. Experience with Armando Cruz

It’s hard to create the type of life you deserve when you’re constantly in the ‘grind.’ Especially if that grind is in a field or line of work you don’t enjoy. Today my guest, Armando Cruz, and I talk about how to take a step back, figure out what youThe post OoM 014: Creating a R.I.C.H. Experience with Armando Cruz appeared first on Order of Man.
6/23/201541 minutes, 19 seconds
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OoM 013: How to Lead Your Family with Jackie Bledsoe

As a man, you will be called upon as a leader. In fact, it is one of the primary responsibilities of being a man. Most of the time we focus on how we can lead our team or business to success but my guest today, Jackie Bledsoe, makes the strongThe post OoM 013: How to Lead Your Family with Jackie Bledsoe appeared first on Order of Man.
6/16/201545 minutes, 33 seconds
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OoM 012: 8 Skill Sets Every Man Must Master

Since starting the Order of Man Project, I’ve had the chance to talk with some of the world’s most successful men. With the hundreds of conversations that I’ve had, I’ve heard some pretty wild ideas of what it means to be a man and I’ve heard some that are spot-on.The post OoM 012: 8 Skill Sets Every Man Must Master appeared first on Order of Man.
6/5/201529 minutes, 16 seconds
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OoM 011: How to Find, Work With, and Succeed With Mentors with Geoff Woods

The quality of your life will largely be determined by the quality of people you spend your time with. Jim Rohn has said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” The only question remaining is are you surrounded by the right people? It’sThe post OoM 011: How to Find, Work With, and Succeed With Mentors with Geoff Woods appeared first on Order of Man.
6/2/201541 minutes, 39 seconds
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OoM 010: How to Grow a Beard Like a Boss with Eric Bandholz

It seems like growing a beard has become the ultimate sign of manliness. Whether you have a beard or not, chances are that you respect a man who can grow a killer man-mane. If you’ve ever tried to grow a beard or have a desire to start, Eric Bandholz withThe post OoM 010: How to Grow a Beard Like a Boss with Eric Bandholz appeared first on Order of Man.
5/26/201544 minutes, 36 seconds
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OoM 009: How to Make the Relationship with Your Woman Work, Luis Congdon

If you’re anything like me, you could use some help in the relationship-with-your-spouse department. I try to be a good husband and companion but it’s easy for me to fall short in this area. When things are great with my wife, things are great in other areas but when I’mThe post OoM 009: How to Make the Relationship with Your Woman Work, Luis Congdon appeared first on Order of Man.
5/19/201543 minutes, 22 seconds
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OoM 008: How to Become a Better Leader with Ryan Hawk

There’s no doubt that you’ve had an experience with a horrible boss, manager, or employer. It seems the good leaders are few and far between. In this episode, I talk with Ryan Hawk of The Learning Leader Podcast about what it takes to be an effective leader, how you can improveThe post OoM 008: How to Become a Better Leader with Ryan Hawk appeared first on Order of Man.
5/12/201548 minutes, 55 seconds
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OoM 007: How to Make the Entrepreneurial Leap with Ever Gonazalez

As the statistic goes, up to 60-70% of employees are dissatisfied with their current employment. Is that you? Most men that I’ve met with have an idea. That’s never been the challenge. The challenge is turning that idea into your life’s work. My guest today is Ever Gonzalez, founder ofThe post OoM 007: How to Make the Entrepreneurial Leap with Ever Gonazalez appeared first on Order of Man.
5/5/201541 minutes, 14 seconds
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OoM 006: Increasing Your Level of Influence with Brad Harker

We all know that if we expect to achieve our goals, we’ll need some help along the way. Influence is the ability to enlist those around you to help make those goals a reality. My guest today is Brad Harker, an author, professional speaker, and leadership coach. He’ll share withThe post OoM 006: Increasing Your Level of Influence with Brad Harker appeared first on Order of Man.
4/28/201549 minutes, 18 seconds
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OoM 005: A Financial Plan in One Page with Carl Richards

As a man, one of your primary responsibilities is to provide. Now, if you’ve ever tried to create a financial plan or met with someone who did it for you, you understand what a confusing and frustrating process it can be. My guest today is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ andThe post OoM 005: A Financial Plan in One Page with Carl Richards appeared first on Order of Man.
4/21/201544 minutes, 19 seconds
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OoM 004: Finding your Core with Wesley Chapman

A real man is a strong man, one who walks with confidence and power. The only way to gain that confidence and control in your life is to find out your core or who you truly are and what you truly want. My guest today, Mr. Wesley Chapman is hereThe post OoM 004: Finding your Core with Wesley Chapman appeared first on Order of Man.
4/14/201547 minutes, 46 seconds
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OoM 003: Masculine Style with Tanner Guzy

Everywhere you look you can see men that look like they’ve got it together. We also notice men that absolutely look horrible. The way you do one thing is the way you do everything and it’s no different with fashion. My guest today is Tanner Guzy with Masculine Style and he’sThe post OoM 003: Masculine Style with Tanner Guzy appeared first on Order of Man.
4/7/201550 minutes, 18 seconds
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OoM 002: Master the Money Mindset with Austin Netzley

Why do some men seem to effortlessly build wealth while others struggle to make ends meet? I would suggest that a large part has to do with our mental programming around building and accumulating money. My guest, Austin Netzley, would agree. He is here to share the ins and outsThe post OoM 002: Master the Money Mindset with Austin Netzley appeared first on Order of Man.
3/30/201537 minutes, 43 seconds
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OoM 001: Introducing the Order of Man Podcast

Summary Links Items Mentioned in Podcast You Will Learn:The post OoM 001: Introducing the Order of Man Podcast appeared first on Order of Man.
3/24/201515 minutes, 15 seconds