What if you could live in harmony with your ability to go and your ability to flow? What if you could learn how to create pleasure within your body, feel sovereign in your choices, embrace your shadow sides, feel your feelings and rule your personal queendom with more ease? All of this is not only possible, but it’s already here. And the path to even more harmony between your Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine isn’t about doing more, learning more or taking more courses, but rather to pause, sit still and simply be. Fortunately, you can do just that while listening in to a juicy podcast! In this show, you will learn how to create more love in your relationships, polarity in your romantic life, harmony in your Divine Feminine and Masculine dynamic, embodiment in your body, sensuality in your skin, joy in your being and acceptance of your feelings. Grab a cup of cacao, put on your favourite vintage frock and slide in your headphones. I can’t wait to take you deeper into your already pleasure-filled feminine self.
The Genesis of Sacred Union with Chelsey Jo Huntsman
Episode 349: We sit down with the radiant and inspiring Chelsey Jo Huntsman — Mentor. Transformational Artist. Writer. Somatic Facilitator in service to ecstatic love, eros, and expression. Together, we explore profound themes of divine intimacy, love, artistry, and how these energies shape personal relationships and creative expression.Key Topics:- Chelsey shares her personal journey of healing, finding her relationship with God, and how her self-love practices became an act of communion with the divine. - Chelsey tells the story of meeting her beloved partner, Oren, for the first time and how they artfully revealed layers to each other until they realized, this is it!- The couple's relationship as a space of co-creation and artistry, and how Oren supported in opening Chelsey's artistic channel starting with poetry.- A playful but insightful discussion on how women express powerfully vs. the societal conditioning around being "cute" or "infant-like" in relationships.- How Chelsey incorporates creativity into her business, writing, and life—whether through poetry, dance, or deep storytelling.Connect with Chelsey:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chelseyjohuntsman/Connect with Madelyn:Follow Madelyn on Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoonWebsite: https://maddymoon.com/50 Ways to be Creative in Love (Free) List - https://maddymoon.myflodesk.com/creative-in-love-pdfApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1QRkDbXYd5SXZm3b95iT56?si=fe8d4c2968404eebAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
10/24/2024 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 8 seconds
Containing Your Chaos
Episode 348: In this episode , we explore the essence of true embodiment, moving beyond surface expressions to fully embody our authentic selves. We learn to reconnect with our bodies, free ourselves societal norms and past traumas, and emphasize the power of full-body expression to unlock suppressed emotions and enhance self-awareness.Chapters:00:00 Intro0:05 The Power of Embodiment15:44 Unveiling Hidden Power25:44 Shapeshifting for Power28:08 Crossing Sacred Thresholds33:39 Free Through Full Expression44:18 Partnerships and ExpansionConnect with Madelyn Apply for Unbound (limited spots available!): http://maddymoon.com/unboundWebsite: https://maddymoon.com/Manifest Your King Waitlist: https://maddymoon.myflodesk.com/myk-waitlistInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1QRkDbXYd5SXZm3b95iT56?si=fe8d4c2968404eebAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/13/2024 • 47 minutes, 58 seconds
Forgiveness After Betrayal, Mothering Your Partner & More Q&As
Episode 347: In this, we explore the intricacies of forgiveness in relationships after betrayal. We discuss the importance of expanding and choosing forgiveness, highlighting the time it takes for deep forgiveness to develop. We also delves into the concept of kingmakers who support growth and the pitfalls of mothering one's partner, emphasizing the need to embody desired qualities rather than change the other person. Throughout the episode, topics such as victim-villain dynamics, communication rituals, and embodying queen energy are explored to encourage trust, respect, and growth in relationships. This episode's insights offer guidance on self-reflection, clear communication, and nurturing trust and respect to navigate the complexities of romantic relationships.Chapters0:00 Intro0:03 Choosing Forgiveness after Betrayal2:23 Becoming a Kingmaker22:10 Holding Pain and Responsibility33:45 Ending the Mothering Dynamic40:18 Embodying the Kingmaker Energy44:37 Avoiding Frog Farming in RelationshipsConnect with Madelyn Join the May Community Call here (Theme has shifted to KINGMAKER): https://maddymoon.myflodesk.com/n1jg67xxtkWebsite: https://maddymoon.com/Manifest Your King Waitlist: https://maddymoon.myflodesk.com/myk-waitlistInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1QRkDbXYd5SXZm3b95iT56?si=fe8d4c2968404eebAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/9/2024 • 47 minutes, 55 seconds
Courting the Creative Muses with James McRae
Episode 346: We welcome poet, author, and creativity teacher James McRae and dive into the essence of creativity and spirituality, drawing from his personal experiences of growing up, working in advertising, and delving back into writing. Topics include the importance of creating space for the muse through practice and experimentation and highlighting the intertwining relationship between creativity and intuition. Our discussion also delves into the complexities of relationships, the balance between doing and being, and integrating feminine and masculine energies in creative pursuits. James shares insights on navigating life's challenges, maintaining creativity in a fast-paced world, self-publishing, and the significance of community and love in creative expression.Chapters0:00 Intro0:05 The Spirit Within4:38 Channeling Intuition8:22 Embracing Chaos16:01 Nurturing Creativity18:53 Finding Purpose21:09 Balancing Act24:27 Publishing Journey27:17 Editing Process32:05 Ego vs. Intuition37:34 Trusting Collaboration40:45 Mastering TransitionsConnect with Madelyn Website: https://maddymoon.com/Manifest Your King Waitlist: https://maddymoon.myflodesk.com/myk-waitlistInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1QRkDbXYd5SXZm3b95iT56?si=fe8d4c2968404eebConnect with James:https://www.instagram.com/wordsarevibrationshttps://www.jamesmccrae.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/11/2024 • 1 hour, 23 minutes, 37 seconds
Kink, Karma and Repairing Love with John Wineland
Episode 345: We welcome John Wineland to share the evolution of our relationship, from its inception to the present, marked by love, growth, and challenges that have profoundly shaped our bond. Beginning with raw vulnerability and understanding of each other's backgrounds, our connection has matured through shared experiences, leading to significant transformations as we navigate the complexities with honesty and vulnerability.Reflecting on our journey, we explore dynamics of pedestals, power, and victimhood, embracing personal growth within our relationship. We emphasize the importance of energetic nourishment, reparation after challenges, and deep introspection for continued growth. Addressing family dynamics' impact, we highlight communication, emotional awareness, and creating secure environments for personal and relational development.Chapters:0:00:00 Our Origins0:02:10 The Story of How We Met0:09:16 The First Experience Together0:39:37 Archetypes and Matches0:42:16 Lifestyle Alignment0:51:00 Repair Process0:54:30 Spacious Journeys0:57:13 Repair Conversation1:18:37 Luteal Phase1:22:23 Manifest Your KingMadelyn’s first episode with John: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6PbYmwHa2bxF03WRtlEbAd?si=b059d0a717dd4414Connect with Madelyn Website: https://maddymoon.com/Manifest Your King Waitlist: https://maddymoon.myflodesk.com/myk-waitlistInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1QRkDbXYd5SXZm3b95iT56?si=fe8d4c2968404eebConnect with John:Website: https://www.johnwineland.com/The Embodied Relationship Experience - https://theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comJohn's new book, From The Core: https://www.johnwineland.com/book-from-the-coreAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/14/2024 • 1 hour, 23 minutes, 43 seconds
Compassion, Wisdom and Kundalini Yoga with Jai Dev Singh
Episode 344: In this episode, we engage in a profound conversation with Jai Dev Singh, a renowned yoga teacher and mystic. We explore self-awareness, inner growth, and finding happiness. Through personal anecdotes and insights, we emphasize the importance of nurturing our inner world, harnessing our life force, and cultivating compassion. We also discuss the significance of self-care and the transformative power of practices like Kundalini Yoga and meditation. Don't miss this enlightening exploration of self-discovery and personal transformation.0:05:47 Kundalini Practice: A Love Affair with Work and Procrastination0:26:08 Compassion and Setting Boundaries with Narcissistic Relationships0:33:13 Discovering the Dalai Lama and Kundalini Yoga0:37:40 Learning Ayurveda and Teaching with a Humble Heart0:49:31 Compassion Fatigue and the Importance of Self-Compassion0:56:51 Feeling Helpless in the Face of Terrible Events1:08:58 Embracing Love and Compassion1:12:22 Overcoming Fears and Feeling Safe1:18:41 The Power of Kundalini Yoga and Inner TransformationConnect with Madelyn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1QRkDbXYd5SXZm3b95iT56?si=fe8d4c2968404eebFree quiz: http://maddymoon.com/quizConnect with Jai Dev Singhhttp://www.jaidevsingh.com/https://instagram.com/jaidev108/
2/15/2024 • 1 hour, 21 minutes, 9 seconds
Loving Older Men with Angie Lee
Episode 343: In this conversation, Angie Lee discusses her journey as an entrepreneur and emphasizes the importance of joy and openness in relationships. We also discuss the reality of loving older men and the need for personal happiness in order to create fulfilling relationships. Overall, our conversation encourages everyone listening to prioritize their own joy and approach relationships with honesty and vulnerability.Chapters0:00:03 Angie Lee’s journey from rebellion to entrepreneurship0:05:07 Angie's unique and humorous brand persona0:12:30 The resilience of the body and the toll of extreme dieting.0:16:04 Finding a healthy, energetic shape and body shape.0:20:26 The Desirability of Embracing Pleasure in Relationships0:35:32 The Illusion of Love on Social Media0:36:14 The Reality of Relationships for Single Women0:40:11 Age Difference and Choosing Love over Logic0:45:59 Surrendering to the reality of having an older partner0:58:17 Parenting, Inner Work, and Breaking Molds1:01:39 Embracing Joy and Focusing on Personal Happiness1:15:00 Embracing the Queen Energy1:20:04 The Power of Holding the Posture of the QueenConnect with Madelyn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1QRkDbXYd5SXZm3b95iT56?si=fe8d4c2968404eebFree quiz: http://maddymoon.com/quizConnect with Angie Lee:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/angieleeshowWebsite: https://www.angielee.com
1/18/2024 • 1 hour, 23 minutes, 36 seconds
HAVING LOVERS WHILE CALLING IN THE ONE WITH JOLIE DAWN
Episode 342: We welcome Jolie Dawn to discuss holding the vision of the dream partner while exploring other connections, plus the journey of preparing to become a mother and embracing the essence of life and family. We also explore the true meaning of success and the value of going through experiences together. We share about our personal lives and beliefs, creating generational wealth, and much more. Connect with Madelyn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1QRkDbXYd5SXZm3b95iT56?si=fe8d4c2968404eebFree quiz: http://maddymoon.com/quizFind Jolie at: https://thedaretoprosperchallenge.comChapters0:00:03 Intro0:00:49 How an Unexpected Friendship Blossoms0:03:59 Mutual Inspiration and Deepening Connection0:08:19 Childhood Experiences: Love, Trauma, and Independence0:12:54 Mental Health Collapse and Caretaking Responsibilities0:19:59 Trying to change parents and finding grief in relationships0:25:01 Holding the vision of the dream partner while exploring other connections0:35:02 The struggle with a clear "no" in the relationship0:44:25 Personal and sultry audio messages for a unique dating experience0:53:15 Evoking Leadership and Scheduling with Spice0:56:56 The Specifics of Living Together1:00:18 Trusting Divine Timing for Motherhood1:06:15 Balancing work and motherhood: What is the ideal situation?1:06:54 Desire for Financial Security and Identity Shift1:19:46 Embracing the Archetype of Fully Expressed Theater Girl1:26:42 Immersive Events for Change and Growth
1/4/2024 • 1 hour, 29 minutes, 40 seconds
CHANGING LIMITING BELIEFS IN LOVE ON A BODY, SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL LEVEL
Episode 341: In this episode, Madelyn explores the concept of energy and spirit in relation to your limiting beliefs in love. She discusses how bodies reflect upper limits in relationships and the importance of challenging their habitual nature. Our beliefs deeply impact our interactions with others and shape our perspectives. By softening and taking responsibility, we can cultivate deeper connections and attract high-quality partners. Ultimately, our beliefs shape who enters our lives.Chapters:0:00:00 Intro0:00:48 Reemerging with a new video format for the podcast0:05:08 Exploring the shapes of limiting beliefs in relationships0:13:12 Recognizing the Energetic Presence of Others0:20:26 The Power of Beliefs and Body Language0:32:03 The Impact of Becoming Smaller in a Relationship0:40:04 Fear of expressing true feelings can cause damage in relationships.0:43:24 Limiting beliefs can attract experiences that reinforce those beliefs.0:50:16 Taking Responsibility for Our Relationship Culture0:51:45 Embracing the Spirit of Nature1:06:03 Strengthening your capacity and being penetrable by masculine energyConnect with Madelyn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1QRkDbXYd5SXZm3b95iT56?si=fe8d4c2968404eebFree quiz: http://maddymoon.com/quizAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/21/2023 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 6 seconds
"IF HE WANTED TO REACH OUT, HE WOULD..." & OTHER RELATIONAL TRAPS
Episode 340: In this episode, Madelyn delves into the vital connection between the heart and body in relationships, emphasizing how it's crucial to break free from the social norms that dictate who you should be and how love should work. Madelyn explores the relational traps created by these societal expectations, shedding light on how they can hinder our relationships and true self-expression in love. She discusses the dynamics of desire, longing, and the essence of creativity in love. Madelyn gives her insights on reigniting the part of yourself that's linked to something greater than you, while urging you to let go of the illusions of love perpetuated by fairytales. It's time to cast aside the games and shadows in relationships and allow love to flow with no restraints.CREATIVITY IN LOVE https://maddymoon.com/creativity-in-loveShow notes: Evolution of podcasting: Madelyn is stoked about soon bringing video to her podcast and sharing formal conversations with her audience.The last intensive of Madelyn’s mastermind group, Innovatrix, is coming up in Sedona, AZ. Creativity & Love will begin October 19, 2023. If you are inspired to join, send a DM or reach out via email: [email protected] for men’s possible trauma and emotional kinks. A woman in desire should not stop the conversation where there is a spark of wanting. Discover the feminine connection between the heart and body and enact your own expression.Feeling the contrasting feelings of desire, wanting, and being creative in love to enhance romance.Ignite the part of you that is connected to something beyond you. You have the innate ability to shock, delight, shapeshift, and eliminate those moments of blockages.Learning to acknowledge and hang on to your feelings. And let go of egotistical desires to free yourself to make the necessary artistic gestures, designing the woman you are meant to be.Madelyn’s book, Artist of Love, is available for purchase.Let go of all the mind games, strategies, and shadows of the feminine and allow a flow of love.Women: make the commitment to open first.Accept feedback of how your emotions are impacting consciousness all around you.“If you’re going to be a woman who is in devotion to artistic truth, you’ve got to be aware of these little mindsets, stories, that get in the way of you and your gestures. We all should have a life of these gestures.”Connect with Madelyn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/Artist of Love Quiz: https://maddymoon.com/quizBuy Artist of Love the book: https://maddymoon.com/book-offerRead more and apply for Creativity in Love: https://maddymoon.com/creativity-in-loveAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/12/2023 • 58 minutes, 27 seconds
THE RE-EMERGENCE EPISODE: HEARTBREAK, LOVE AND A PHD IN NUANCE
Episode 339: Welcome back! After two years, Madelyn Moon reemerges into the land of podcasts to bring you The Madelyn Moon Show, formerly known as ‘Mind Body Musings.’ In this episode, Madelyn shares her recent journey from buying her first home to understanding the power of up-leveling & embracing expansion through heartbreak. Listen and get caught up to speed on Madelyn’s life, beloved partner, personal growth, and newly released book ‘Artist of Love.'CREATIVITY IN LOVE: Learn more https://maddymoon.com/creativity-in-loveFREE UPCOMING COMMUNITY CALL: Join here https://maddy-moon.ck.page/f537f6785dARTIST OF LOVE: Get the book https://maddymoon.com/book-offerShow notes: Welcome back! This show was formerly called Mind Body Musings and has been reinvented as The Madelyn Moon Show.Through buying her first home, Madelyn learned that upleveling requires letting go, and embracing the expansion of your capacity.Understand the idea that women go through a primal shape shifting process during a separation from a prominent masculine being.Introducing Artist of Love, Madelyn’s new best selling book that is available to you now! https://maddymoon.com/book-offerFeeling the dismembering, being devoured by grief, and reflecting upon the ancient theme of the sacred and the psychosis. Contrasting emotions in the body, such as destruction and rage vs. calm and collectedness is our greatest capacity expanding experience. Be the crazy bitch, and be witnessed in it. Own your archetypes and create art out of it. Enjoy this example of Madelyn’s crazy girl: https://www.dropbox.com/s/q3gbfmjqbdgmhjd/Your%20Fcking%20Nightmare.mp4?dl=0Learning to love beyond all preferences, conditions, and through the textures of karma leads to truly letting go of resentment and feeling whole again. If the person you are in partnership with doesn't have spaciousness to grow alongside you, that leaves very little room for actual intimacy. Check out Madelyn’s masterclass Preparing for Union: Available here https://maddymoon.com/preparing-for-unionInnovatrix is Madelyn’s exclusive high ticket offering that shows what is possible when you are devoted to creating art from your underbelly.Madelyn’s signature program is now enrolling, Creativity in Love, and you can apply here: https://maddymoon.com/creativity-in-loveAs always, one-one-coaching is available as well: maddymoon.com/coachingConnect with Madelyn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/Artist of Love Quiz: https://maddymoon.com/quizBuy Artist of Love the book: https://maddymoon.com/book-offerRead more and apply for Creativity in Love: https://maddymoon.com/creativity-in-loveAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/14/2023 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 36 seconds
Reclaiming the UNcivilized Man with Traver Boehm
Episode 338: Traver Boehm – https://www.manuncivilized.com – knows men. How they think, what’s behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement, the fastest growing men’s movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men’s coach and podcaster.Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional body-guarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master’s Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men’s mental health and relationship difficulties.In the last episode, I had the opportunity to be interviewed by Traver Boehm, and for this one, we have changed spots. In this episode, Traver is here to talk to us about The UNcivilized Man Reclaim. You will hear and learn about primitivity, relationships, safety, and much more!Don't miss this episode and start to become the UNcivilized man this world needs.CREATIVITY IN LOVE: Discover more at https://maddy-moon.lpages.co/creativity-in-love/ SISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spirit Show notes:Opinions like "I will rather be a sacred slut than an empire-building girl boss" can make women angry, thinking that we are against each other when it is not.As women, we are used to fighting for acceptance, which is exhausting. But -- we have nothing to prove to them.The inspiration behind The Uncivilized Man Movement is the primitive man dealing with unexpressed emotions and pain.One of Traver's passions is to help men connect their emotions and feelings to something bigger than themselves so that they can be a better person.Traver wants to thank every woman who's bought his book and spread his message.With power comes great responsibility, and being in a man's body does bring great power. In other words, don't apologize for being born as a man. Do something good with it.The Uncivilized Man Movement's mantra is to let others feel safe as you walk among them.Biology exists, and it needs to be recognized. For that reason, no matter how many books we read and how much money we make, our biology has to be tended to.What can we do for men? Encourage, celebrate and support them.All men have a green light and a red light inside of them.A couple fighting to be in the alpha role will cause harm to the relationship. As a result, it is going to be a power struggle and a pissing contest.For Traver, the depth of the word "safety" is something he had to learn by himself. Now, he helps men to comprise and create it.Traver Boehm is perplexed by the state of our culture. Right now, he feels people are digging their heels against the pendulum — a kind of middle ground unto itself."The women are the message spreaders of the world."Traver feels that as the dominant in the room, men are responsible for the women. That is to say, men must take care of them. Connect with Traver: Website: manuncivilized.comBuy Traver's book: https://www.manuncivilized.com/thebookInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAoPi5PeZKBcBb07yqdeOwQAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/14/2021 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 9 seconds
Artistry and Generosity in Modern-Day Relationships
Episode 337: Traver Boehm - https://www.manuncivilized.com - knows men. How they think, what’s behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement, the fastest growing men’s movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men’s coach and podcaster. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master’s Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men’s mental health and relationship difficulties.In this episode, originally recorded as a live-class episode of Traver's podcast. Raw and unfiltered, Madelyn and Traver discuss artistry and generosity, purity culture, sensuality, how to make art in triggered moments, polarity, devotion, and healing the wounds that are keeping us at a distance from those we want to love and love well.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Traver will also appear on Mind Body Musings soon.Speaking to an audience who may be unfamiliar with her, Madelyn discusses her study in yogic intimacy and her upbringing in purity culture.Purity culture is essentially slut-shaming at its core, wholesale denial of feminine sexuality.An extension of this is also the way that women speak of each other and their gender. "I'm not like most girls," or, "Don't worry; I'm not crazy."During her time in bodybuilding, Madelyn found that having been raised to believe and assume that men are "better" than women was contributing to her building physical armor around her emotional truth.Being unable to cope with the "curvature of life" manifested as OCD; living through an eating disorder manifested because of being unable to cope with the curvature of body.A woman revealing to her partner the part of her that is "lost," she is letting go of everything her body has been taught/forced/compelled to do.Being able to be sharp and then go into softness is part of the privilege of being a man.Richard Rudd - The Gene Keys - the highest form of love is to arrive just as you are, beyond the things you're into, beyond what you're practicing. "I don't need you to do anything." More Richard Rudd here: maddymoon.com/richard-rudd/Madelyn explores the concept of approaching dating as a practice - holding your body to transmit, "I'm open. I'm present."One of the primary masculine challenges - there's tremendous anger toward the feminine in the masculine."Entitlement is a big piece of what men need to work through."Three Stages of CommunicationBased on The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida – https://amzn.to/3i2REUUFirst Stage: Reactive, the way most people are interacting.When one feels triggered, repressive reaction, silent treatment, withholding love, punishing, spiritual bypassing.Second Stage: Everyone needs more of this - talk therapy, clear, "When you did X, I felt Y, and I desire ..."This is formatted and structured - very much in the masculine domain.Third Stage: revealing truth as a gift to our partner.Instead of an accusatory, "You always do this to me," transformed into a statement in the name of love, with love.Madelyn has worked on connecting to the part of her that's heartbroken. The heartbroken part is the same part that wants to be an offering."There's no part of heartbroken-ness that wants distance.The first step of elevating relationship into artistry: Recognize your complaint in the relationship.Madelyn is incubating the idea of some sort of show related to her work - polarity dating show? Let us know if you have any producer contacts!Connect with Madelyn: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunesDownload my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegiftAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/3/2021 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 45 seconds
Yogic Intimacy and Tantra
Episode 336: Yogic intimacy and Tantra are spiritual embodiment practices that both encompass and extend beyond sex. Madelyn has been focusing on Tantra to complement the Yogic intimacy work she's been engaged with for years. Learning just basic physical intimacy is a challenge for many of us, let alone exploring and enhancing by engaging the physical with the spiritual, and the masculine with the feminine. Madelyn has been focused more on her TikTok and Instagram these days, as she's been using visual components to teach these concepts. In this episode Madelyn catches up on what she's been up to and explores some tools and practices available to bring art to our intimacy.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Madelyn's intention is to now release one podcast episode per month.The podcast is no longer at the forefront of her prerogatives as a teacher.Follow Madelyn on Instagram and TikTok, where she's taking her polarity teaching with a visual component. This will be her focus for her time.Madelyn welcomes your feedback on the new plan!Artistic Intimacy Workshop: maddymoon.com/artisticThis is a two-hour workshop on how to bring art into your intimate life.Madelyn has been doing a Tantra course, supplementing the Yogic intimacy she's been studying and teaching.Men often deplete their chi or lifeforce through ejaculation - women 'get' energy and are energized via sex and orgasm.One of the prime quests of the male's journey to living a Tantric lifestyle is to prolong or delay ejaculation, orgasm without ejaculation.In Tantra you are vitalized by multiple orgasms, but physical ejaculation is depleting.Much of Madelyn's work to date has approached from the more spiritual, less physical side of intimacy.This is largely due to the purity culture in which she was raised.When she was young, Madelyn wore a ring symbolizing her marriage with God.While that was part of a negative purity culture, she has adapted the concept and considers herself married to a personal god, and connects with this through the sensual.Sisu Society has changed and evolved. No longer a group coaching program, now a course with tons of practices: maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFeminine Spirit School is a foundational, but still deep, study of feminine/masculine: maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAs always, one-one-coaching is available as well. maddymoon.com/coachingConnect with Madelyn: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunesDownload my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegiftPhoto credit: Lisandra Vazquez PhotographyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/12/2021 • 27 minutes, 18 seconds
The Golden Key to Abundance with Brandon Beachum
Episode 335: Brandon Beachum is an entrepreneur, thought leader, author, and host of The Positive Head Podcast, as well as the late-night style talk show, Optimystic. Brandon has been a serial entrepreneur since childhood, and in 2011 while living on a friend’s couch he co-founded what is present- day ResortShare. Today, Brandon’s primary focus is on helping people shift their perspectives to innerstand the “ultimate nature of reality’’ and create more of what they want to see in their world!In an effort to do so, Brandon released his first book in January 2021, The Golden Key: Modern Alchemy to Unlock Infinite Abundance. In it Brandon shares the 8 keys of abundance, which he has unlocked over 25 years of experience and deep exploration. He is gifting these keys to the world via the book to help others unlock their own divine potential.He is also inviting readers to participate in a unique abundance manifestation game that entails them making an energetic contribution for the book after reading it, and then doing three abundance manifestation exercises for 88 days designed to flow abundance back in their direction. In an effort to practice what he preaches, he will also be sharing 50% of the revenue generated from listeners with any podcasts he discusses the book on.You can download The Golden Key: Modern Alchemy to Unlock Infinite Abundance audio or eBook at GoldenKey.Gift with the code MOON.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Madelyn has been focusing her attention on her free videos on Instagram and TikTok.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoonTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@madelynvictoriamoonAs the number of podcast episodes has decreased, now is a great time to like, comment, and subscribe on podcast episodes. Mind Body Musings needs your help to move up in the rankings and reach as many people as possible!Brandon had just started shooting his show Optimystic when the COVID lockdown started.The show was put on hold, but now that things are opening back up, things are moving on it again.Brandon has experienced staggering synchronicity around the date of July 28th.25 years ago Brandon experienced a spiritual awakening or epiphany of understanding the nature of reality, that we're all connected.He had a strong impulse to share it with the world, which led to his podcast and everything after.He wanted to distill this awareness down to a book to reach as many people as possible.There are eight Abundance Secrets outlined in The Golden Key:See the OnenessKnow the IllusionFocus Your FlowAlign Your IntentionsBe, Be, BeTrust the MysteryLove What ComesMaster the YoUniverse, the Golden Key that ties all together.Remember to get your audio or eBook copy of The Golden Key by using code MOON at GoldenKey.Gift.Madelyn and Brandon discussed Focus Your Flow more in depth as a tie-in to her masculine/feminine work.Subtitle of the book is 'Modern Alchemy to Unlock Infinite Abundance'.When Mario Andretti was asked about what advice he gives to new drivers, "Whatever you do, don't look at the wall."Where attention goes, energy flows, so you're going to hit the wall.Finding the fine line between identifying a problem and championing it.When Mother Teresa was asked if she would join a march against the war, she said she would not march against it, but should there be a march for peace, she would be there.Identifying an issue on its own isn't enough - you have to identify it so you can avoid it, not move energetically toward it.If you see something that's bad or awful, you want to give a lot of attention to fight it. Instead, take its power away by redirecting your attention and energy.Evolution is a spiral, and we circle back on things we think we've processed.Book: Oneness by Rasha - Brandon refers to it as a "handbook for ascension" - https://amzn.to/3rzXVvsBrandon and Madelyn discuss Richard Rudd's The Gene Keys: Unlocking the Higher Purpose Hidden in Your DNA – https://amzn.to/30HLJyv"Turning drama into dharma."Our challenges are opportunities for us to find and refine our place in the world and in relation to others, responding versus reacting.Connect with Brandon:Get your Golden Key book - https://goldenkey.gift/Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/0ptimystic/Podcast - https://www.positivehead.com/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/31/2021 • 49 minutes, 30 seconds
How the Bold Masculine Captivates the Feminine
Episode 334: As more and more of us as individuals and as a society become aware of our own feminine/masculine and engaging in conscious embodiment, the path to equilibrium in a relationship can sometimes feel like it's become more and more difficult. The "bold masculine" impulse to operate by mandates, to organize and structure, can conflict with the more important and valuabe acts of simply being present.In this episode, originally recorded for The Rising Man podcast, Madelyn and host Jeddy Azuma discuss boundaries, the bold masculine, and the intersection of embodiment and intimacy.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Madelyn participated in this conversation on Jeddy Azuma's The Rising Man podcast - https://maddymoon.com/rising-manThere's a workshop next week - Artistic Intimacy - maddymoon.com/artisticIf you're interested in using feminine (energy) and masculine (consciousness) energetics in your day-to-day life, know that there's a playful way to handle conflict in your relationship, and are fed up with closed-hearted "lol okay" statements but don't know how to escape that space, this workshop is for you.What is the difference between a boy and a man?A boy has energy of either tiptoeing or stomping on eggshells.A man is more even-keel eggshell walking, more confident, more present in himself, more breath in the way he'll live his life.His presence allows her to be more at ease.Madelyn had to reprogram her constructs from upbringing - that certain emotions were "wrong."When she started on her embodiment path, she learned to use her physical body to reveal anger, reveal grief.This led to her presenting herself in relationships more in real time, avoiding language that leans on shame and blame.The masculine can be characterized as consciousness, depth, nothingness - the container.The feminine can be characterized as energy, motion, chaos - what fills the container.Women often get caught off guard when a man finally arrives at being in touch with his emotions, which can lead to defensiveness from both.Whoever is more consumed and focused on more love in the relationship, is the one in the feminine.You cannot be penetrated by life when you're constantly setting up boundaries - think of a sandbox instead.Setting boundaries is not about trying to create separation and walls.Men can feel dry and boring after too much focus on providing the stability they perceive as being asked of them, and deprioritizing adventure.Women want your truth - don't say yes if you mean no.Feeling the "no" within a "yes" is damaging to trust in a relationship.Be authentically present through eye contact, aftercare, awareness, not necessarily analyzing and structuring.Sometimes the more valuable work is done by not "working" on it, but being present for it.Connect with Madelyn: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunesDownload my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegiftAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/17/2021 • 59 minutes, 2 seconds
From Homeless Ballerina to Erotic Dominatrix with Genevieve
Episode 333: Genevieve is your go-to expert on the Erotic. She is a Sexual Expansion Speaker and Guide who has been influencing the Erotic Arts for the past 15 years. Genevieve is a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ Coach and Erotic Blueprint™ Master Trainer (under Jaiya, sexologist for Tony Robbins, Julianne Hough, and other major leaders, and creator of The Erotic Blueprints™ which have been mentioned on The View, The Talk, Oprah Magazine, People Magazine, and more), Former Professional Dominatrix and Certified in Accelerated Evolution Psychospiritual Methodologies under Satyen Raja (trainer for T Harv Eker, Colin Sprake, and Gabor Maté, to name a few). Genevieve is also certified in Somatic-Based Chakra Therapy by Anodea Judith, author of Eastern Body, Western Mind and Wheels of Life and has a background in psychotherapy, graduating Magna Cum Laude from Marymount Manhattan College in NYC. Through her transformational online group events and workshops and 1:1 sexual mastery mentorships, Genevieve guides you in freeing your sexual conditioning so that you can show up FULLY and rediscover your sexy, wild, passionate, liberated self.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Trigger warning: Today's episode covers deep (and often explicit) facets of sexuality, including reclamation of sexuality post-trauma. Wear headphones!Genevieve has a workshop on Your Erotic Blueprints in Sisu Society: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyEvery morning, Genevieve starts her day alone in her own space, and claims the day with three hours of orgasms - no computer or phone until 11:00 AM.When she was a teenager, Genevieve would spend nights at punk shows, but go home early enough to get to ballet class the next morning.At first she felt there was a dichotomy between these two activities, but she came to realize they were both an expression of the same thing.Genevieve knew even as a young child that she was meant to change the world.She didn't know in which path she'd make this impact, so she did as many different things as possible.Genevieve didn't grow up familiar with the concept of "safety" and was molested and raped multiple times.She only knew sex as violence and pain until later in life.There was no relationship of her body beyond a tool to be used.Genevieve was homeless briefly at age 16. A girlfriend at 18 suggested she explore becoming a dominatrix.At this point is when she stepped into her own sexual power. "Oh, my sex isn't for other people."Previously sex had largely been transactional, not done for enjoyment.Now she was able to use people's kinks (often expression of pain and trauma as a filter to experience pleasure through) to bring them through their trauma and into healing.Genevieve was raped at age 13, but didn't consciously acknowledge it as such until later in life.She was later able reclaim it through work with a partner.When people who are not experiencing pleasure due to trauma are able to reclaim it, they invariably realize that it was because they were terrified of the power of their pleasure. They were protecting themselves from pleasure.She had to learn how to be intimate and gentle with herself.Many of Genevieve's mentors are much older, and the death of one of these friends and guides became a regular and frequent reality for her.Genevieve has been non-monogamous (Shapeshifter Erotic Blueprint) for as long as she can remember - her lovers are like family or best friends.Her partner was new to even the concept, so it has been a process of communication, acknowledging triggers will occur and utilize them to confront their fears together.Genevieve's book: Fuck Yourself Open has more detail on Genevieve's 20+ years of erotic exploration through her lived experience and gifts you the simple, effective tools to reclaim your body and its innate wisdom, once and for all - https://amzn.to/2NTfnNDYour pleasure is your responsibility!Connect with Genevieve:Join The Pleasure Circle here: http://genevievepleasure.com/free/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/3/2021 • 57 minutes, 15 seconds
Islam and Eroticism with Rotana
Episode 332: Rotana is a Saudi Arabian performance artist, singer and songwriter. Born and raised in Saudi Arabia, she moved to Los Angeles five years ago to pursue music after quitting her job at Saudi Aramco, the largest oil company in the world. She is currently working on her one woman show/musical, Alien of Extraordinary Ability (named after her immigration status), and her debut album which just released her latest singles Sin Again and Stuck in America.Rotana describes herself as an initiator, an erotic being, and a liberator. As an artist that reckons daily with the experience of “other”, she is determined to give movement, sound, beauty and witness to that experience. After premiering her one woman show at FORM, a world renowned festival featuring artists and poets like Aja Monet and Florence and The Machine, she received the attention of publications like GQ noting that Rotana “delivered one of the most spine-tingling performances of the entire FORM festival.” She has also collaborated with brands including Fendi, Miu Miu, Lucky Brand, and more. Rotana has been named one of BBC’s 100 most powerful women and covered by GQ, LA Weekly, Huffington Post, Vice Arabia, Vogue Arabia, NPR, and AJ+. Her performances have spanned cities globally including Paris, Abu Dhabi, Los Angeles, New York, and at the Sundance Music Festival. Straddling a profound love for her home and the determination to be free, Rotana’s music speaks to the journey of self realization in the face of Saudi tradition, God, sexuality, family and the immigrant experience.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Try Care/Of! For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to TakeCareOf.com and enter code moon50Book: Divine Names: The 99 Healing Names of the One Love - https://amzn.to/3rYLkmmMuch of the mysticism around Islam is centered around Sufism, and numerology plays a big part in the background of the practice.Rotana has been drawn to a sensual aspect of prayer and chanting, which has been a challenge when contrasted with her more orthodox upbringing.Madelyn discusses her interface with this same concept via the Book of Solomon in the Bible.Ijtihad: to be a warrior within yourself - "doing the sometimes impossible work of sitting with your intuition and owning what that means for you."Rotana believes part of her mission on Earth is to bring back holiness to our first and second chakras.Rotana grew up in a gated community in Saudi Arabia nicknamed "Little America," a town built for employees of oil company Saudi Aramco.Just outside of the community, society was much more restricted and conservative.Rotana was initially more drawn to the traditional community, but as time went on she felt the pull of inner sensuality, creating a dissonance between the two domains of her life.After college, Rotana returned to Saudi Arabia to work at Saudi Aramco - the dissonance was taking its toll, causing panic attacks and anxiety.She traveled to India to take part in what was effectively a rehab experience.Rotana realized she needed to rebuild herself, undo everything, and came to America as a musician and creator.In 2019 she performed at FORM festival. and read scripture from the Quran.Her performance was captured on video, and it went viral.Her juxtaposition of the Quran with herself as a woman, with sexuality, with religious freedom, was intensely controversial and offended many back at her home, resulting in her effectively losing her family.Book: Pleasure Activism by Adrienne Maree Brown - https://amzn.to/2LTH0W3Pleasure needs to be reframed as, instead of being selfish and frivolous, to something that is necessary for our vitality, well-being, and sustainability as a species.Madelyn asks Rotana who God is to her, and because of her background and what she's gone through, it triggers a deep emotional response in Rotana. Her answer is amazing and a bullet in show notes wouldn't do it justice. Be sure to listen to the episode to hear it in her own words!Connect with Rotana:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamrotana/Music Video - Sin Again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOVgUgm0CLoMusic Video - Stuck in America: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmEyyNQ-4VYAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/17/2021 • 1 hour, 29 seconds
The Heroine's Journey
Episode 331: Most of us know about the Hero's Journey, the narrative template wherein the "hero" undergoes a series of patterns by which he actually becomes the hero. But what about the heroine? The feminine Heroine's Journey obviously doesn't follow the same pattern and has its own nuance and particulars. In special episode, Madelyn presents one of her full sessions from Sisu Society, outlining how to consider your own truth and story through the lens of the Heroine's Journey as described by authors Maureen Murdock and Camy Tang.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:This episode is a special full class from Sisu Society.Purchase the Sisu Society for 10% off using code MINDBODYMUSINGS: maddymoon.com/sisu-societyThis is about being brilliantly resilient in your feminine.Come back to your most pure, original, effortless state, which is being loved and being open.You have probably been living The Heroine's Journey unconsciously your entire life.The Hero's Journey is about what a man will endure through his life to become his own hero.Joseph Campbell said The Hero's Journey takes men to the place that women have been all along.Author Maureen Murdock disagrees with this somewhat and believes there's more to it. Get the book The Heroine's Journey here - https://amzn.to/2YZPXA7The Hero's Journey is about "things that happen," while The Heroine's Journey is more about transformation, disembodying and associating.Women's leadership and women's sexuality are two prominent fronts in the modern Heroine's Journey.Write or consider your own story as fiction.This allows you to get distance from it, as well as explore concepts and areas you might avoid or not give yourself permission to explore in nonfictional consideration, such as memoir.Madelyn then walks through Camy Tang's Heroine's Journey worksheet - available here: maddymoon.com/camy-tang-worksheetNumber one: the illusion of the perfect world.Think of a time before a big change - what was something you needed, that you didn't know at the time?What archetype were you inhabiting at the time?Number two: separation from the feminine, something that "jarringly separates you from the voice in your womb."Not necessarily traumatic or bad, but something that changed your path - the call to adventure.What is the thing that happened to you? And how did you lose what you cared about, what you thought you needed to have?Don't judge yourself - this isn't about guilt or correction. Focus on what it's bringing up for you.Number three: the point of no return, and the preparation of the journey.The identification of the masculine.When did you separate from the feminine and how did you identify with the masculine?Number four: the descent - the journey into the underworld.This is the part where you'll experience the most trials.Number five: the illusion of success.Life is full of exquisite expansion and contraction, and going into contraction isn't failure or a less important part than the expansion or success.Number six: death.All is lost, the black moment.All is taken, the ultimate bathroom-floor breakdown, divine opening.This is the moment where you are face-to-face with the ultimate fork in the road or inflection point.Number seven: surrender.You've surrendered, and your "spiritual team" rallies around you, and you come back into the feminine.Number eight: healing with the mother, rebirth, and healing with the wounded masculine.Now coming into the space of conscious masculinity in rhythm with the feminine.Now it's about coming back into the world.Number nine: return to the perfect world, master of two worlds, freedom to live, final reward, integration.Think about your relationship with the feminine at different stages compared to it now.Be present even in the chaos.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/10/2021 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 22 seconds
Wild Mercy with Mirabai Starr
Episode 330: Mirabai Starr is an award-winning author of creative non-fiction and contemporary translations of sacred literature. She taught Philosophy and World Religions at the University of New Mexico-Taos for 20 years and now teaches and speaks internationally on contemplative practice and inter-spiritual dialog. A certified bereavement counselor, Mirabai helps mourners harness the transformational power of loss. Her latest book is WILD MERCY: Living the Fierce & Tender Wisdom of the Women Mystics. Mirabai is on the 2020 Watkins List of the “100 Most Spiritually Influential Living People of the World.” She lives with her extended family in the mountains of northern New Mexico.Madelyn's conversation with Mirabai Starr covers longing, feminine mysticism, religion, white privilege, spiritual heritage, and vast mysteries vs. specificity in spiritual practice.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Reading Mirabai's book Wild Mercy is "like drinking a very tall glass of water after being in the desert for a very long time."Madelyn's Feminine Spirit School - 8-week 7-module course, is 75% off - maddymoon.com/feminineMirabai doesn't "avoid others' voices" when writing or creating.There's only one of each and every one of us and yet we're all connected, so there's nothing to protect, in a way.Some of Mirabai's favorite books:Eve Ensler - In the Body of the World - https://amzn.to/2YhwXg1Anne Lamott - Traveling Mercies - https://amzn.to/3iJ4HfGAnne Lamott - Bird by Bird - https://amzn.to/3pkX7dxMirabai is writing a new book about her mother and has been recording (social-distanced) conversations with her.Regardless of what happens with the book, she'll always have these moments now documented.Mirabai is focused lately on considering privilege, white or otherwise, and its interface with spiritual study and navigating it in such a way without appropriation.As we reach different stages of our lives, we're temperamentally varied and crave different things in our spiritual yearnings and practice."Individual liberation is a meaningless concept to the feminine" - the specificity isn't always as desirable because of the vast mystery in spiritual traditions.Mirabai was given her name by Ram Dass, after the 16th century Hindu ecstatic poet and devotee of Lord Krishna.Her relationship with the divine has "taken the pressure off" of her grounded earthly relationship with her husband.Longing has been vilified in a way, and Mirabai's mantra lately has been, "Let's reclaim longing." Longing is also holy.Teresa of Avila is the patron saint of the book Wild Mercy.Mirabai translated St. Teresa's The Interior Castle - https://amzn.to/3cc605x - and St. John of the Cross's Dark Night of the Soul - https://amzn.to/36cSjQ9Audiobook of Wild Mercy just released, narrated by Mirabai herself. To receive Mirabai's book Wild Mercy as an audiobook, sign up for Audible using our affiliate link and get your first book free: https://audibletrial.com/mindbodymusingsTry Care/Of! For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to TakeCareOf.com and enter code moon50Connect with Mirabai:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mirabai.starr.author/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mirabaistarr/Website: https://www.mirabaistarr.com/]Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/27/2021 • 57 minutes, 54 seconds
Stop Waiting for a "Conscious Man" to Open You
Episode 329: If you're on a self-aware and overt path of energy and relationship work, it can be both a challenge to grow if your partner isn't a "conscious man" on the same path, hasn't read the same books, attended the same workshops, and cultivated the same awareness of intimacy dynamics. However, there's also a great opportunity there, since if both partners are doing the same work very consciously, it can lead to a stilted sense of rigidity and overwhelming self-consciousness. It's okay if you carry these ideas more consciously than your partner!In this episode Madelyn explores this concept, covers the trouble spots as well as the benefits, and how to align your sensibilities to enhance your intimacy and stop waiting for the perfect conscious man.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:This episode's topic is "withholding."For an introduction to the topic, see Madelyn's Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CJ32l27nOF8/There's a misconception that both partners must have the knowledge of spirituality/sexuality in order for the couple to work in that sphere.Book: Blue Truth by David Deida: https://amzn.to/2XzltnKIt only takes one person to be conscious and understanding of things like "eye contact during sex deepens intimacy."It's important to break the barrier of fear of looking or feeling stupid in order to evoke your spiritual intimacy and sexuality together.Intimacy with someone who is aware of these dynamics is different than intimacy with someone who is not.Both partners being very aware of this can make the process feel too predefined and static, or transform it into a performance.On the other hand, it can be a challenge if you or your partner is not aware.Taboos are the way that we sexualize our shame, which can be very positive.It's showing you a place that deeply desires to be nourished and loved.If your partner is not aware of the work, those darker places might challenge their identity.If you are waiting for someone to check off all of these boxes, you are withholding, and you're the one suffering.The deeper you go into your own practice, the more you will evoke it in your partner.This process can open you up to falling in love with more and more different "types" of people.Instagram and other platforms have a lot of strange censorship going on - make sure you're on the email list as a backup! maddymoon.com/feminineConnect with Madelyn: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunesDownload my Four Favorite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegiftAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/13/2021 • 29 minutes, 53 seconds
Instagram Cleansing
Episode 328: We are all creators - whether we're creating a podcast, a beautiful meal, music, a drawing, or our living spaces. The pressures of content creation and consumption on social media can leave us feeling disconnected with the pure joy of creation and enjoying content. At the end of 2020, Madelyn took a step back from social media and content creation and did a bit of Instagram cleansing, which then led to a reevaluation of her own time and energy, and a break from the podcast as well.In this episode Madelyn discusses this break, how to use the stresses of 2020 as an opportunity for change in 2021, rapture, and the joy of naps.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Madelyn was light on podcasts in December.This stressful time is not so much like "being put through the wringer" as "being put through the portal."Break started with Instagram break in November - deleted from phone, installed to make a post and taken offMadelyn was struggling with the constant pressure of social media - "Instagram hamster wheel."There's a difference between being a "creator" and having to "create content."When the creations are used to make a living, they become something different.Madelyn had lost sight of the actual spirit of creation in the pressure create content.Every creation comes with a to-do list.Part of our evolution as a society is also reflective of changes like this, moving to what's important.She's been cocooning since moving, creating her new space.Madelyn's word for the year: RaptureMadelyn wrote a book during this time, in addition to the novel she's been working on.Social media can be like an infant that needs constant care - even just the stress of keeping up and commenting that takes your focus away from the joy of creating for creation's sake.Look to how you can bring in more help for yourself this year.One spot for one-on-one coaching is opening up in January!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/6/2021 • 42 minutes, 37 seconds
The Female Provision Wound with Sarah Poet
Episode 327: Sarah Poet is an alchemical life coach, healer & teacher who activates modern women on a soul path of fully reclaiming her energetic, spiritual, and financial sovereignty by transmuting her feminine and masculine trauma and standing in the full & unified truth of who she is. She is the host of the Sacred Remembering podcast for modern women waking up to the truth of who they are. You can watch her TEDx on reclaiming the feminine and masculine within each human as well as read her blog and more at www.sarahpoet.com.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:There is a wound carried in all feminine creatures - The Female Provision Wound.Sarah took her name ("claimed the name of her soul") by engaging a self-baptism activity at a retreat.The significance of names was discussed in Episode 273 with Gahl Sasson - maddymoon.com/gahl-sasson/Sarah was raised in a small-town religious context.She became pregnant relatively young. After returning home, there was a sense of, "Now I'm going to try to be good," but also a sense of, "No matter what you do, you won't be worthy."Going through something like a divorce can particularly activate the Provision Wound - "But I'm in your house."It's important to evaluate where you are in victim consciousness, especially if you balk at the idea of "being a victim."If you think of habits and behaviors that are expressing wounds and getting in the way of growth, think of that conditioning like software, and evaluate where and when that software was "installed."It's okay to have needs in a relationship - not every need is a codependency.Connect with Sarah:Website: www.sarahpoet.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/sarahpoetembodiedbreathInstagram: www.instagram.com/embodiedbreathAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/9/2020 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 12 seconds
Burn the Dating Checklist & Learn to Love Anyone
Episode 326: Ready to burn the dating checklist? Madelyn's program, The Sisu Society, is full of content and interaction beyond the podcast episodes. This special episode of the podcast is from a Facebook Live in the private Sisu Society group. Inspired by the recent episode featuring Eva Clay, Madelyn candidly discusses some of her dating history and experiences, how it is we make the wrong kinds of "lists" when seeking dating partners, and how to burn the dating checklist and teach ourselves to be open to loving anyone.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Sisu Society features group coaching, interacting with members, and typically two calls - sometimes embodiment practices, teachings, sharing circles, guests.There are also spontaneous Facebook Live videos with candid and intimate musings directly from Madelyn - this episode is one of those videos.This episode is a follow-up/sister of the recent Eva Clay episode: maddymoon.com/eva-clay/Remember to be a kingmaker - don't look for your perfect king. You're going to make him your perfect king (and by making him the king, you become the queen).In the last two weeks Madelyn has been on her first break from Instagram since she joined the site.When Madelyn was dating in apps, her standards and expectations were in the wrong domains.If you base you relationships in openness, honesty, and momentous living, every relationship is a gift.You can still honor and respect the body's urgency while having an open permission people for people to exist as they are.This episode on Maddy Moon's website: https://maddymoon.com/burn-the-dating-checklist/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/2/2020 • 49 minutes, 20 seconds
Polyamory, Throuples, and Bisexuality with Amanda Katherine Loy
Episode 325: Amanda Katherine Loy (she/her) — also known on Instagram as that Bisexual Body Positive BRCA babe — is on a mission to help you face your fears, speak your truth and get you one step closer to living your f*ck yes life. She this does in multiple facets, through her work as an actor, a body confidence & mindset coach, podcast host, writer and speaker. Amanda Katherine Loy has a long history of operating solely from a place of shoulds — unconsciously dimming her light and keeping herself small in hopes that it would keep her safe, seen and accepted through a myriad of ways: eating disorder cycles, over exercising, work-aholism, toxic relationships and beyond. Through her own unique journey to liberation, she’s become wildly passionate about arming her fuck yes community with the tools to help them step into their fullest and most authentic selves, so that they can live every day feeling unapologetic AF in their own skin and truly come home to themselves. In 2018, she launched her top charting weekly podcast, Live Your F*ck Yes Life — the space to be for conscious conversations and candid shares around shit nobody really f*cking talks about. And in 2019, she courageously shared her journey of navigating a preventative double mastectomy at the age of 27 in her self published book, I Chopped Off My Tits. She spends most of her time sharing her musings every week over on Instagram and her podcast, so come on over and join in on the magic that is all things living YOUR fuck yes life.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Sisu will be changing platforms in the near future - announcement soon in the newsletter.Amanda's book, I Chopped Off My Tits, details her first experience with being bullied and how these experiences affect us into adulthood. - amandakatherineloy.com/bookAmanda was married for eight years before they opened their relationship to polyamory.She came out as bisexual two years ago on her podcast.Polygamy - religious practice, usually one man with multiple wives. Polyamory - ethical nonmonagamy, a perspective on how we love.Central to this is the idea that you can choose your best relationship, whether that's polyamory or monogamy.If you're a couple exploring polyamory, it's very important to communicate and treat the "third" with a lot of care.Many people use polyamory as a "loophole" to manipulate and effectively cheat.Polyamory can be like a flashlight on your deepest wounds and insecurities.If you're doing feminine/masculine work, it doesn't necessarily mean your partner needs to be working in that domain.For those thinking of love and relationships in any capacity, ask yourself, "Am I showing up consciously?"Connect with Amanda:Instagram: instagram.com/amandakatherineloy/Podcast: bit.ly/LYFYLpodBook: amandakatherineloy.com/bookWork with Amanda 1:1 - amandakatherineloy.com/mindsetcoachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/25/2020 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 28 seconds
A Sparkly Approach to Dating While the Biological Clock is Ticking with Tantrika Eva Clay
Episode 324: In this episode Madelyn and sexologist Eva Clay discuss modern dating while eternally conscious of the pressures of the biological clock, connection, enchantresses, and keeping your embodiment practice in the fore while seeking a life mate. Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist and psychotherapist whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. She's helped thousands of people unlock their innate potential for pleasure, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. Her work is an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful, and has been a practitioner of sexual tantra for over a decade. She’s been featured as an expert in major media appearances, is a regular guest on Channel Q and has appeared as a keynote speaker at the Wanderlust yoga festivals.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:How to be present on dates when the biological clock is ticking?Women learning about their physiology is incredibly empowering and puts them in mastery."Ditch the Frame" - Replace, "Could he be the one?" with sensual questions of, "What is the tenor or tone of our exchange? How much pleasure do I experience when sharing space with him?"The "frame" creates contraction and anxiety in the body and dims your radiant light.Men do not want to be interviewed as the "baby daddy."Think of a cervix as you embody your openness and desire in your dress, body language, and communication.When setting up dating profiles, rather than the hard edges of, "I don't want this," or, "I don't like this," instead effusively express that which you love, and he will be magnetized to you.Discernment is okay too - evaluate integrity, frequency and vibration, how you feel when you're around them.Study the great enchantresses like Cleopatra to better practice your energetic gifts in the domain of dating.Books: Keys to the Kingdom by Alison Armstrong - https://amzn.to/38NbIsIConnect with Eva:Website: EvaClay.comInstagram: instagram.com/evaclayFacebook: facebook.com/evaclayAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/18/2020 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 39 seconds
What is a Feminine 'Oracle?'
Episode 323: All of us are both masculine and feminine beings. Most of us are primarily masculine or primarily feminine, but it's important that we consciously work on balancing the two in ways that work for us. The feminine oracle is a component of a primarily feminine consciousness and body that is aware of and responds to our environments - our intuition. In this episode, originally aired on the High Vibin' It podcast, Madelyn discusses the feminine oracle, our inner compass, the Heroine's Journey, and so much more.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:The masculine is the necessary "containers" and structure we create psychologically.The feminine is what's in the "containers."Sometimes we have to consciously ground the feminine or bring softness to the masculine.Expanding your feminine awareness includes looking at when you're telling yourself the same story to "prove it's right."A lot of our responses that we assume are mental/emotional actually do exist in the nervous system.It's important to include the body in spiritual work.A primarily feminine body has a "compass" - the oracle.This is the hyper-aware (but often not consciously expressed) part of us that responds to discord in our environments.This response is all-encompassing, even physical.In the Heroine's Journey there's a rejection of the feminine that has to happen, and some don't come out of it.A practice to ground: place your hand on your chest when you're speaking and feel the vibration of your words - connects the "two nervous systems."Book: The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida - https://amzn.to/36lxNvTBook: The Awakened Woman's Guide to Everlasting Love - Londin Angel Winters & Justin Patrick Pierce - https://amzn.to/32xsBE9Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/11/2020 • 57 minutes, 11 seconds
Maybe She's Empathic...or Maybe it's Narcissism
Episode 322: Empath and narcissist - such profoundly relevant terms in today's world. Regardless of personal beliefs on the existence of empaths (those with a paranormal ability to apprehend the mental and emotional state of another person) it can be dangerous to one's own emotional state to assume feelings experienced are the result of being an empath, versus one's own emotions. In this episode Madelyn explores the overlap of empath and narcissist, with a deep case study of The Bachelorette for good measure.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Madelyn's life has been a bit transient since her last personal update.The uncertainty of her ungrounded situated also resulted in some physical manifestations/health consequences.Reviewing the podcast on various platforms is the best way to support and get the podcast higher on the listings:iTunes: https://maddymoon.com/itunesSpotify: https://maddymoon.com/spotifyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/MaddyMoonTVEmpath definition: "A person with the paranormal ability to apprehend the mental or emotional state of another person."Ascribing your deep feelings to a self-identity as an empath may be an exhibition of poor mental self-care.Externalizing the root cause of emotions may be deflecting real self-actualization that has to happen.Madelyn walks through an extensive breakdown of The Bachelorette and the expression of these interactions, and projecting your own feelings onto others and label it being an "empath."True empathy is not about making others' experiences about you being able to feel what they feel.Madelyn has experience with someone she was raised with who considered themselves to be an empath.Red flags are using emotions to control others: "You made me feel this way." "You don't really care about me."Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/4/2020 • 56 minutes, 22 seconds
Deepen Love & Dispel Closed-Hearted Programming Using the Gene Keys 'Venus Sequence' with Richard Rudd
Episode 321: A teacher, mystic and poet, Richard Rudd attended Edinburgh University where he gained a Master’s degree in literature and metaphysics. A born explorer, he has studied with great teachers in the East, traveled through the Himalayas, the Pacific, the Americas and the Arctic. He worked in the film industry in Australia, trained as a teacher of Chi Kung and meditation in Thailand, and sailed across the Atlantic Ocean on a small yacht.Throughout his adventures Richard Rudd has explored his love of writing and in 2006 he won the FISH international poetry award in Ireland. Richard's mystical journey began early in life as he experienced strange energies rushing throughout his body. This catalysed his spiritual search. All his studies became synthesised in 2002 when he began to write and receive the Gene Keys - a vast synthesis exploring the miraculous possibilities inherent in human DNA. It took 7 years to write the book and understand its teachings and applications. Today Richard continues to study and teach the profound lessons contained in the Gene Keys.In this episode Madelyn and Richard discuss relationship polarity, the Gene Keys, and the new Venus Sequence retreat event.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Richard's Venus Sequence: maddymoon.com/venusThis is a six-month immersion - 10% off code for MBM listeners: MoonVenus10pcSign up for The Golden Path Sequence: maddymoon.com/genekeysLink to his ecstatic series: maddymoon.com/genekeys-ecstaticsLink to get free gene key profile: maddymoon.com/genekeys-profilePalm mudras: maddymoon.com/genekeys-palmmudrasBook: The Gene Keys: Unlocking the Higher Purpose Hidden in Your DNA by Richard Rudd - https://amzn.to/30HLJyvBook: The Art of Contemplation by Richard Rudd - https://amzn.to/2PDVgQTVenus sequence is about how to be the love.It requires courage, as it requires you to consider your own patterns of wounding.The ideas that there's a perfect kind of relationship/person is a myth.The Law of Unseen Grace: We always get the exact relationship that we need, exactly the one that's in front of us.Everything about our evolution happens in sequences.You attract people to you through frequencies.Some of the loneliest people on the planet are in relationships.Over time and relationships, we're essentially learning to parent ourselves, learning to take care of our own hearts.Every relationship has its teaching for us.Romantic-centric relationships thrive on separation and distance, and the chemistry often doesn't work with proximity.The Divine Venus Deep Dive "retreat" will have a weekly theme.Around two hours a week, perhaps 20 minutes at a time.It's over such an extended period of time because they are many small steps that take time to process.This may be the last time Richard personally runs the Venus Sequence himself, as there's other subjects he has to cover as well.Connect with Richard:Website: https://genekeys.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/genekeyschannel/The Golden Path Sequence: maddymoon.com/genekeysAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/21/2020 • 1 hour, 27 minutes, 25 seconds
Dating a ‘More Feminine' Man, Revealing Instead of Complaining & What to do About Mister Nice Guy with Dominick Quartuccio
Episode 320: Dominick Quartuccio is the co-host of The Great Man Within Podcast, a show for high-performing men exploring the realms of Purpose, Masculinity and Sex. He leads two online men's communities, The Great Man Mastermind & The Great Man Within Facebook Group (links below the show notes). He is also an international speaker and two-time author of Design Your Future and On Purpose Leadership. His mission is to lead 10 million men to live their potential over the next 10 years.Dominick is a favorite repeat guest on Mind Body Musings, and it's easy to see why when you hear him speak. He advocates a thoughtful masculinity and, like Madelyn, is dedicating to helping people achieve masculine/feminine balance, both as an individual and in interactions with partners. In this special Q&A episode Madelyn and Dominick answer your submitted questions, particularly focused on ways to evaluate and handle when masculine/feminine may be out of sync with expectations in a relationship.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:On Sunday, October 18, 2020 at 5:00 PM Pacific, Dominick and Madelyn will be doing a group practice in Sisu Society.Dominick's books:Design Your Future - https://amzn.to/33VQNRyOn Purpose Leadership - https://amzn.to/2Fv4RYUPrevious Mind Body Musings appearances:Five Ways That Men Lose Credibility with Women - maddymoon.com/ways-men-lose-credibility/Making Your Love Darker and Your Goals Lighter - maddymoon.com/dominick-quartuccio/If you're in a relationship with a feminine man and you want him to be more masculine, evaluate why you're in that relationship.There can be a sense of shame around being "too nice" or being emasculated.You can channel your enthusiasm to evoke masculine leadership in your partner. This allows you both to "lead."Relationships can evolve, and the masculine/feminine dynamic and balance can shift over time.When you make statements like, "Be a man," you have basically told him that he's not one, and when he's not one, he feels emasculated and shameful.An analogue to, "Be a man," might be a man telling a woman she's crazy or too sensitive.Connect with Dominick:Website: https://www.dominickq.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dominickq/The Great Man Mastermind: https://www.doinnerwork.com/The Great Man Within Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheGreatManWithinAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/14/2020 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 46 seconds
Strengthen Your Inner Masculine to Soothe Anxiety & Protect Your Heart
Episode 319: All too often we frame our work with masculine/feminine in the context of conflict, suggesting that one has to "win" to achieve peace. The reality is that it's absolutely necessary to strengthen your inner masculine, in order to support your feminine and move forward as a whole integrated being.In this episode, Madelyn discusses ways to strengthen your inner masculine, why it's important, the symbiotic roles masculine and feminine play in our growth and challenges, and some of the root causes of conflict between them. This originally aired as an episode of Georgie Collinson's Anxiety Reset Podcast.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:The feminine/masculine discussion that's happening on social media is often missing the mark.It's not about glorifying softness, surrender, going with the flow.It's about embracing wild chaotic energies.Both men and women have both been raised in this wounded masculine society, and it's damaged men and women (and their respective feminine/masculine) differently.David Deida is a strong foundation of Madelyn's masculine/feminine work:The Way of the Superior Man - https://amzn.to/2SASai9Blue Truth - https://amzn.to/36BaujnDear Lover - https://amzn.to/3jF9H4rWild Nights - https://amzn.to/2GNYHmIThe masculine is the part that doesn't and hasn't changed. It's the riverbed that the river of the feminine flows through.The masculine drive for peace wants to be free of burden.The feminine drive for peace is self-acceptance.It's crucial to put our masculine to the forefront even when working with the feminine: "Warriors with a strong spine and a soft heart."The Heroine's Journey by Maureen Murdock - https://amzn.to/3d5FokZWomen's arc or journey includes shoving away the feminine, "rejecting their mother."Therefore she gravitates to the father, and so the father determines a lot of how she evaluates her success as she gets older.Connect with Georgie:Website: https://georgiecollinson.com/Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/anxiety-reset-podcast/id1496338848?i=1000492296128Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/7/2020 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 33 seconds
Being with Feminine Longing + Revelations on Plant Medicine
Episode 318: Through the endless striving for a balanced and healthy physical and spiritual life, the greatest challenge for women to identify, embrace, and work with their feminine yearning to be filled, recognizing the divine calling of that yearning, while acknowledging and honoring the more prosaic day-to-day "neediness" without belittling ourselves for it. Everything exists on a spectrum, and physical or lower-vibration anxious feminine longing is simply a different part of a continuum that includes and is encompassed by divine, archetypal feminine longing. In this episode Madelyn details a recent intense plant medicine experience that brought her in touch with the full spectrum of that yearning, its resolution, and recovery in its aftermath.COACHING: Discover more at http://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Feminine longing is the deepest state that the feminine knows - the state of wanting.There is a difference between the actions of flow (practical, logistical flexibility) and the embodiment of flow (true psychic acuity).Book: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk, MD - https://amzn.to/2FCb98QTuning into the nervous systems of those around you can help open you to the impact you have on others."It's not your coach's job to please you; it's their job to serve you."This means that sometimes their job may be to convey something to you that doesn't "land" or resonate.Madelyn had a threshold plant medicine experience recently that brought her further into her feminine than she's ever been.The experience moved through feral, animal, even feminine with a visit from the Magdalena archetype.There was an intense comedown the next day - she felt she had not properly prepared her body.Even the female body is the physical embodiment of a drive to be filled.Feminine longing can sometimes be dark, because you miss people, connection, comfort.Filling your yearning is your responsibility, your dharma.Madelyn recently led a practice to work with this longing.The intent is not to circumvent the longing, but move through it and into a divine sphere with it - divine longing.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/16/2020 • 46 minutes, 48 seconds
How to Road Trip From New York to Los Angeles
Episode 317: A big life change is the perfect time for a road trip, either solo or with the right companion. Even if spend a lot of non-directed time and aren't focused on the destination, the act of the trip itself is a birthing journey into the next phase of your life. In this episode Madelyn reviews the spiritual, psychological, and logistical details of her trip, reviews how to road trip effectively, and following the universe's invitation to find yourself in the unknown. Show Notes: Madelyn ended her recent relationship and knew that it was time to head to Los Angeles. Episode 318 covers working through the actual decision of the move. maddymoon.com/paralyzed-by-decision/ If your body continually questions, "Can I make this work?" it's a good cue that it isn't naturally working. "Staying past that point was dismissing my body's 'no.'" Always solicit and listen to feedback from your support network - remember that you aren't "crazy" when you have a dozen different perspectives from a dozen different people. Madelyn details the logistics of the trip - how long she'd drive at a stretch, caring for her dog, food, etc. The photo from episode 318 was taken at The Cross of the Martyrs in Santa Fe. - maddymoon.com/paralyzed-by-decision/ She visited The Ark bookstore in Santa Fe - https://www.arkbooks.com/ While in Santa Fe she practiced following her instincts while still being open to unpredictable paths and opportunities. Madelyn's favorite memoir audio books: Favorite: A Life in Parts by Bryan Cranston - https://amzn.to/3jWlk78 Bossypants by Tina Fey - https://amzn.to/3jSdaMJ This Will Only Hurt a Little by Busy Phillipps - https://amzn.to/3lYaUpm Gene Keys - maddymoon.com/genekeys Madelyn doesn't feel "done" with Sedona - the people are beautiful and friendly, and it's a magical place. Rather than doing her usual "lock it down immediately" pattern, Madelyn is instead staying in Airbnbs and living more fluid. Sisu Society price is going up after this week. - maddymoon.com/sisu-society COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/9/2020 • 49 minutes, 42 seconds
Are You Paralyzed by Making the 'Wrong' Decision?
Episode 316: From coronavirus to politics and civil unrest and the fight for social justice, this year is proving to be a challenging time of change and transition for everyone, Madelyn included. If you find yourself paralyzed by decision in trying to determine the path you're meant to be on, it's important to be aware of what your body is telling you. In this episode Madelyn uses the closure of her relationship as a context to explore these choices, how to avoid being paralyzed by decision, and how each big choice is really a decision on what you're willing to sacrifice. Show Notes: Madelyn has left her recent partnership. One of biggest fears people have when faced with important decisions is, "Will I regret this?" Remember a past difficult decision, and consider whether you regret the decision you've made. Her living situation had forced her to surrender autonomy. Relationship was two Omegas together, two emotional beings. Identifying when we're given trials we're meant to walk through, versus trials where we're meant to pivot. The decision point was around surrendering much of what Maddy wanted, versus honoring the relationship and moving on to what's next. When considering the idea of staying, she could feel her body contract, and she knew it wasn't right to surrender to that. The experience has refined Madelyn's clarity on what she wants out of a relationship. John Wineland: "Madelyn, I want you to be dating either only men who scare you with their integrity or inspire you with their purpose." - maddymoon.com/john-wineland/ Try on the different hats of big life-changing decisions, try to live in each scenario for a while, and observe your body's responses. Do the "Ben Franklin" pro/con list. New perk to Sisu Society - 20% of any coaching - maddymoon.com/sisu-society Richard Rudd's Gene Keys Activation Sequence - maddymoon.com/genekeys Richard Rudd's episode here - maddymoon.com/richard-rudd/ Venus Deep Dive coming in the fall. COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/2/2020 • 46 minutes, 33 seconds
Contemplating the Mystical Intelligence of the Gene Keys with Richard Rudd
Episode 315: A teacher, mystic and poet, Richard Rudd attended Edinburgh University where he gained a Master’s degree in literature and metaphysics. A born explorer, he has studied with great teachers in the East, traveled through the Himalayas, the Pacific, the Americas and the Arctic. He worked in the film industry in Australia, trained as a teacher of Chi Kung and meditation in Thailand and sailed across the Atlantic Ocean on a small yacht. Throughout his adventures Richard Rudd has explored his love of writing and in 2006 he won the FISH international poetry award in Ireland. Richard's mystical journey began early in life as he experienced strange energies rushing throughout his body. This catalyzed his spiritual search. All his studies became synthesized in 2002 when he began to write and receive the Gene Keys - a vast synthesis exploring the miraculous possibilities inherent in human DNA. It took 7 years to write the book and understand its teachings and applications. Today Richard continues to study and teach the profound lessons contained in the Gene Keys. Show Notes: Sign up for The Golden Path Sequence: maddymoon.com/genekeys Link to his ecstatic series: maddymoon.com/genekeys-ecstatics Link to get free gene key profile: maddymoon.com/genekeys-profile Palm mudras: maddymoon.com/genekeys-palmmudras Book: The Gene Keys: Unlocking the Higher Purpose Hidden in Your DNA by Richard Rudd - https://amzn.to/30HLJyv Book: The Art of Contemplation by Richard Rudd - https://amzn.to/2PDVgQT Richard had a three-day experience of a higher consciousness. It brought him in touch with an awareness of his destiny. Richard took years to understand and integrate the experience he had, eventually resulting in the Gene Keys!. "Humanity has built itself on the higher truths, without realizing." "To really access deep veins of truth, you cannot rush. You've got to be loving. You've got to be gentle. You've got to romance wisdom. A Gene Key represents an encyclopedia of an aspect of consciousness, encoded in all things. "Each Gene Key gives us the opportunity to rephrase the language of a life." As long as you've found yourself with someone who is essentially kind at their core, allow yourself to "dig your well" deeply with that person. "Two people coming together is an alchemical cauldron." "Someone who provokes you is a really wonderful gift." "The divine isn't cruel. The divine wants you to see the fruits of your labor." Many spiritually minded people operate with the assumption/wish that this is their "last life," but often that's more reflective of the fact that they're not particularly enjoying this life. Philosophically one's "last life" would be incredibly ecstatic and joyful, so the challenge is to see the opportunity and identify what's left to be done. "There's a perfection in every moment." Richard believes that the next epoch of humanity will not be based in suffering, but bliss. It's important to do the work to understand suffering (shadow). Richard believes we may retain memory between births in the next phase of our evolution. Béla Hamvas: "Drink, and the wine will take care of the rest." Meaning to drink of life - or can be taken literally. The sun takes six days to go through a Gene Key, through all 64. Maddy's recommended book: The Reincarnation Blues by Michael Poore - https://amzn.to/2XO70oy Connect with Richard: Website: https://genekeys.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/genekeyschannel/ COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/12/2020 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 24 seconds
How Psychological Abuse Affects Romantic Relationships & Having the “What Are We” Talk
Episode 314: Emotional and psychological abuse from our past can manifest in insidious ways throughout our lives, frequently in the form of consciously or unconsciously perpetuating that psychological abuse in our current relationships. In this episodes Madelyn explores how trauma from her upbringing has impacted how she approaches relationships today, whether her own, or through her relationship work that she practices with others. Show Notes: Relationships are Madelyn's "playground." It's important to define relationships through communication. It is not "needy" to have a desire for this identification. A lot of men have lost touch with the communication and check-in type of leadership. You can leverage the feminine to guide into conversations about relationship state or definition. Lead not with the complaint, but with the desire. One of the most dangerous places we get ourselves into is when we say we're okay with something, but then more passively punishing our partners for it. This punishment, such as withholding love, is actually abusive. In October Madelyn's parents had an argument resulting in a quick divorce. Madelyn is still working on how to appropriately share her story about her relationship and experiences with her parents. Madelyn's sense of emotions and love was very distorted growing up. These interactions caused Madelyn's interest in and dedication to relationships. Book: Attached by Amir Levine - https://amzn.to/3hYEBUg Madelyn's attachment style tends to adjust itself depending on the attachment style of her partner. The living situation with the Airstream was mirroring the lack of agency and control from her childhood. Recently Madelyn and her partner have taken steps to restore her sense of sovereignty. You do not need anything outside of you to have sovereignty. Inner Child work is about actually going into your Inner Child trauma, letting it arise, and being there for it. Book: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida - https://amzn.to/3i2REUU Your man is not going to be inspired to learn about his masculine by you telling him what it means to be masculine. COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/5/2020 • 41 minutes, 29 seconds
5 Ways Men Lose Credibility with Women
Episode 313: It can be difficult to navigate the delicate nuance of balancing conscious masculine energy with thoughtfulness and consideration for your partner's (and your own) feminine energy. Men lose credibility with women often through not be present to the needs of their partners. Join Madelyn as she discusses the ways men lose credibility with the women in their lives, as a guest on Dominick Quartuccio's & Bryan Stacy's The Great Man Within Podcast. Show Notes: The Great Man Within Podcast can be found here: https://www.doinnerwork.com/podcast Bryan & Dominick focus on spiritualizing healthy divine masculinity in proper balance with the feminine. This episode about things men can do to make women feel safe was in their top five of all podcast episodes. Dominic was on the podcast, Episode 283: Making Your Love Darker and Your Goals Lighter - maddymoon.com/dominick-quartuccio A free companion PDF to this episode is available - maddymoon.com/freegift The five ways men lose credibility: Hesitation, a man who wants to lead and is a little bit afraid. If her belief is that she can't trust the masculine, to prove her wrong, do it with fervor. Don't ignore her concerns - listen and hear. Lead strongly and with conviction. Lack of integrity on what you can and cannot handle. Make the space for yourself and your needs, so that you can fulfill those needs and be present when you're with your partner. Not following through. If you have wounds about someone not being there when you needed it are so easily reopened by not being available when you are needed, but conversely can also be healed by simply being present. Respect both your time and the time of your partner. Failing to go unconscious in transitions. The moment your bodies are no longer connected after sex, can your keep your spiritual connection? Defending yourself rather than listening to her. The feminine has been shushed, poked, prodded, limited, beaten, sold, raped, separated, mutilated, and silenced since the beginning of humankind. When you listen to her and start to change the paradigm of how these interactions go, you are healing the feminine." When you partner is presenting you with a complaint, search for where they are right. Three-part series mentioned in this episode: What is the Divine Feminine? maddymoon.com/divine-feminine What is the Divine Masculine? maddymoon.com/divine-masculine-2 Divine Polarity in Relationships maddymoon.com/divine-polarity Connect with Dominick, Bryan, and Madelyn: The Great Man Within Podcast: https://www.doinnerwork.com/podcast Dominick's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dominickq/ Mind Body Musings Podcast: maddymoon.com/podcasts/ Madelyn's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/ COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/29/2020 • 57 minutes, 26 seconds
Why Lightworkers Need a Life Purpose Declaration with George Lizos
Episode 312: George Lizos is a spiritual teacher, intuitive, author of Be the Guru and the #1 bestselling Lightworkers Gotta Work, co-creator of Elemental Healing™ and host of The Lit Up Lightworker podcast. He helps lightworkers to find their life purpose and work their light in real, palpable ways that create positive change in the world. Show Notes: Watch this episode on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/maddymoontv It can be difficult to avoid feelings of persecution in environments like the current pandemic. Ask, “What does my inner child need? What am I responsible for to get out of this situation and get my autonomy back?” George wears a crown as a touchpoint to step into his feminine energy. His default is acting from masculine energy, always pushing forward. The crowns can be a way of signaling and setting intention. His book Lightworkers Gotta Work - https://georgelizos.com/lightwork Purpose is to help lightworkers to balance their masculine and feminine energies. George was raised in Cyprus a very religious Christian environment. He struggled with the big questions of life from a young age, convinced something was wrong with him, and tried to gain acceptance by trying to match himself to people’s expectations. Homosexuality was still taboo when he realized he was gay at age 13. He responded by trying to “become” straight, hyper-aware of his behaviors. He contemplated suicide, including writing a note to his parents. As soon as he made the decision to do so and “let go,” the solution became clear: Learn to love yourself exactly as you are. "Something magical happens when you declare to the universe that you want to change: the universe comes in to support you." Through spirituality George learned self-love, eventually leading to writing his first book. This led to a busy, pushed, masculine lifestyle that was causing mental and physical distress. He did a past-life regression and discovered he had been a prostitute that was murdered by a client, causing him to suppress his feminine energy in future lives. Masculine and feminine energies are two sides of the same coin, so focusing completely on one abuses/ignores the other. Sex, Gender, Sexuality, and Energy Sex is biological; gender is social; sexuality is biological; energy flow within all these domains. Women tend have more feminine energy than men, and men tend to have more masculine energy than women, but it’s really aspects of the same thing that runs through all of us. Same-sex relationships can be challenging with this energy balance. Connecting with nature can help us rebalance our own energy that’s confounded by social/psychological issues. Nature emulates masculine and feminine without social labels through the energy of the seasons. “Bathing under cosmic light” to balance masculine/feminine. Light from sun, moon, and stars is a reflection of our own inner light. The moon’s essence itself feminine energy; sun is masculine. Moonlight is the balance of the two - the combination of the surface of the moon and light from the sun. Coaching and creating coaches should be difficult and focused on improving the world, not creating a sales downstream. Many coaches don’t have a clear sense on their “why,” their purpose. George reviews his life purpose, which he has written and posted so he sees it every single day (the who, what, how, why). The universe will support you, but there is work for us to put in, and it all starts with understanding our purpose. George’s books: Be the Guru - https://amzn.to/30r30uC Lightworkers Gotta Work - https://georgelizos.com/lightwork Connect with George: Website: https://georgelizos.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgelizos/ COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/22/2020 • 48 minutes, 59 seconds
Reverting to the "Old You" with Triggering Family
Episode 311: The global pandemic has resulted in many of us having to share our spaces with difficult triggering family members who may be activating the “old you” within us - aspects of ourselves or collections of behaviors that we associate with past trauma, or that we feel are holding us back. In this solo episode Madelyn explores the deep spiritual and psychological implications surrounding this dynamic, and offers tools and perspectives to reframe these interactions in the context of acceptance (both of ourselves and others) and how to use them to create and grow. Show Notes: Gene Keys by Richard Rudd - https://amzn.to/2VRzs7R World is embodying Gene Key 55 at this moment. All Gene Keys have "Shadow" (dark side) and "City" (light side/gift). Gene Key 55: Victimhood/Freedom This Gene Key also relates to the current White fragility The idea that anytime you are in the shadow, you are playing the role of victimhood is not always accurate. How to keep a high vibe with a low-vibe family? How to cope with a close relative who treats you like the "old version"? There is no old version of the self - false duality. There are aspects of ourselves that we shift between, and sometimes they will be ones that were more prevalent in the past. “We go into victimhood to prove that we're existing." We can acknowledge our traumas and experiences without them becoming self-defining. Sovereignty, agency, and self-determination is important - i.e. having your own place, domain. The benefits are exponential - the space creates more time to create, which creates more opportunity to pay for the space. Start with the question, "How is this affecting me?" We all have people in our lives that will reveal old versions of ourselves. Most important: You cannot control these triggering people and how they view you. You can only control your reaction. Disconnect from needing validation from those people. Being more aware and curious about what your "old you" is asking for or needing in those moments, and seek to provide it. "You do not have to hold everyone who is biological family as energetic family." COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spirit Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/8/2020 • 42 minutes, 36 seconds
Magdalen Rose-Womb Consciousness with Jedaya Barboza
Episode 309: Jedaya Barboza is a Tantric Shemite ROSE WOMB PRIESTESS OF THE DIVINE FEMININE. She empowers women to reclaim their birthrights of divinity, love, pleasure, harmony, sensuality, magnetism, and sovereignty through the ancient codes of the Magdalen Rose Womb Consciousness. Jedaya provides 1:1 mentorship, online and live retreats + facilitate workshops, trainings and courses. Show Notes: Madelyn will be posting videos of interviews to YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/maddymoontv Struggled with sharing YouTube channel because of old videos, asked her teacher if she should take them down. It's okay to not always resonate with your past selves, don't suppress or repress parts of yourself. It's Pussy Awareness Week! Connecting with Divine Feminine Energy is very potent during these times. Jedaya grew up with a very empowered woman, but she was also very religious. Felt Christinity was a cover for her deep inner witch embodiment, like a veil. Sex magick is largely being in the energy, not just penetration or actual literal sex. Everyone comes into the world through the energy of sexuality. No outside force or entity has the power to depress me, suppress me, oppress me. Jedaya works to help people transmute their stories and their trauma into empowerment. Sessions with Jedaya are about feeling seen, being heard, connecting with our true origins of self. When you suppress the feminine energy, you suppress life. Magdalene is an energy that any feminine or masculine soul can embody. There's been a "war on the womb" for centuries. More and more women are waking up and honoring their own states, being priestesses. Jedaya's path brought her to so many places in the world with so much beauty, and also so much abuse. Being a priestess is sacred responsibility. You have to meet that name by respecting it. Connect with Jedaya: Website: https://www.priestessjedaya.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jedayabarboza/ COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/4/2020 • 43 minutes, 44 seconds
Cancel Culture
Episode 310: In many ways the Internet has democratized the spread of ideas and given everyone a platform and a voice. Inevitably there will be times when we won't agree with these voices and opinions, and when that disagreement is shared publicly by others, "cancel culture" can easily develop, where large groups of people collectively pull support, usually centered around a controversial statement, pattern of behavior, or things in the past. In this episode Madelyn explores the distinction between standing up for our values, and the Ego-driven need for separation. Show Notes: Spotify and here on the website are the most reliable places to get the newest episodes of the Mind Body Musings Podcast - iTunes not always as reliable. Free will, trauma, judgement, greed, natural shortcomings interfere with our creative drive to create "heaven on Earth." Cancel culture: something happens that causes one to completely shut out a public figure they once respected. Cancel culture can be a way we skip over the hard work of compassion. Madelyn frequently gets contacted by followers communicating expectations that she has more of a social responsibility to use her platform in certain ways to spread awareness/calls to action. When you're in the public eye, when you're wrong, it's publicly wrong. Participation in cancel culture may be rooted not in altruism or enlightenment, but Ego, which thrives on separation. What is one moment in your life that learned something that you didn't know before that made you realize you needed to change your ways? What if that moment of yours was public? Evaluating whether your convictions are really coming from yourself, or absorbed via someone else's opinion in a comment. None of these ideas are intended to dismiss anyone's personal feelings, but an ask for broader awareness and gentleness. Ask permission before engaging in a dialogue, even with friends - when people say yes to something, they are no longer on the defense. Richard Rudd - The Gene Keys - https://amzn.to/2VFUAy3 In every Gene Key there is a light and a dark. Gene Key 30: Light is humility; darkness is arrogance. In the Bible Judas is known as the betrayer. What if that was his role and was so devoted to God that he was willing to embrace the role? COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/4/2020 • 47 minutes, 39 seconds
Letting Your Future Unfold Without a Plan
Episode 308: It can be extremely challenging to let go of control (in a healthy way) and the need for everything to be according to a strict plan. It's even more challenging to let the future unfold in these uncertain and turbulent times. The feminine/masculine spheres of control and surrender are not as simple as "feminine yielding" and "masculine control" - there is feminine control and masculine control, just as there is masculine yielding and feminine yielding. Show Notes: As an introvert, is finding it healthier to be in nature vs. in Brooklyn. It took trust to be led into a new living situation without a plan. If you struggle with being led, this is an invitation to notice how often you feel your heartspace tighten around a plan. What if you viewed your life as it time didn't exist? Let go of the idea of anything being final and live on a moment-to-moment basis. "When we start making promises about the future, we severely tighten the corset on life." What could be around the corner could be better. The masculine within you is the part that says, "I trust myself so deeply to get myself out of any mess, so I can say yes without diving deeper." Disempowered feminine: "I can't make plans. Plans are too hard for me. Can you make the plans for me?" or "I have to make all the plans. I can't trust anyone to do it." It's important to be both spiritual and relatable - balance of masculine-grounded/feminine-ethereal. Teachers who are both spiritual and relatable: Kendra Cunov - maddymoon.com/kendra-cunov/ Marya Stark - maddymoon.com/marya-stark/ Krishna Das - https://amzn.to/30J3Y71 Artists and creatives can be great teachers - ethereal from art, grounded if they can teach. You can practice with smaller things, like plans with friends, dates, etc. Eventually the practice will extend to bigger-picture events and decisions. A love that's truly meant for you and authentic will not need to come with white-knuckled promises to "Please stay." Every beginning comes with the promise of an ending. COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/17/2020 • 43 minutes, 40 seconds
Mary Magdalene: The Apostle to the Apostles, Not the Prostitute
Episode 307: Mary Magdalene, one of the most important individuals in Christianity, is also one of the most misunderstood. Her powerful femininity and significance in Jesus's stories and teachings have been undermined for over a thousand years. Join Madelyn as she explores the teachings of Mary Magdalene, the Apostle to the Apostles, not the prostitute, in the context of today's feminist reawakening and her own Christian upbringing. Show notes: Madelyn was named after Mary Magdalene. She had an oppressive/repressive patriarchal upbringing experience. Moving From Religion to Spirituality episode for a look at upbringing - https://maddymoon.com/religion-spirituality/ The Sex Episode - discussing the confluence of her upbringing and her sexuality - https://maddymoon.com/sex/ In 2015 denounced "Christian" title. Too much of Christianity didn't feel right. Traveled to Israel, experience spoke to her. Church should be a celebration, not a punishment. Recommended Reading: Mary Magdalene Revealed by Megan Watterson - https://amzn.to/2zR4gOn Gospel of Mary of Magdala by Karen King - https://amzn.to/2AvvObO The Meaning of Mary Magdalene by Cynthia Bourgeault - https://amzn.to/3gA2DoR The Magdalen Manuscript - Tom Kenyon - https://amzn.to/2Aufvfn Six key areas for context: Mary was not a prostitute Book of Mary omitted from Bible Six pages missing, four pages in the middle missing Seven powers she highlights - egoic parts of human nature We are inherently good. Jesus was both fully divine and fully human Not a prostitute - declaration that she was came from Pope Gregory to undermine her teaching, and undermined women's capacity to be leaders. In 1969 the Catholic Church apologized for the fabrication. The path that Mary carves for us is that every single human being has the voice of the angels, and the voice of God, the voice of the Divine within themselves. The books omitted from the Bible focus on a personal connection with God not requiring an intermediary. It's our journey to believe in our truths. It's not our job to force other people to believe in these truths. Allow others to disagree with you. Seven powers that must be attained to ascend: darkness, craving, ignorance, longing for death, compulsion of range, enslavement to physical body, and the false peace of the flesh. These powers are not meant to be destroyed or obliterated. The path of love is that we're devoted to having this ascension within ourselves, which is actually a descent into the heart. What made Jesus who he was, was the fact that he we fully human and fully divine. Jesus honored his sex as a potent life force. Peter doubts Mary, that she was given teachings they were not. COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/10/2020 • 49 minutes, 40 seconds
The Time I Found Out My Boyfriend Had a Wife and Three Kids
Episode 306: Relationships are complicated even when the partners are open and honest with each other - let alone if there is emotional abuse, manipulation, and secrets - like finding out your boyfriend had a wife and three kids. This episode is an intimate and revealing conversation Madelyn had on Julie Day's podcast, I Woke Up Like This. Together they explore Madelyn's experience of discovering a former boyfriend had a wife and kids - while they were dating. Come for the dramatic story - leave with the insights on love, trust, communication, and the transformative power of trauma. Show notes: Interview on I Woke Up Like This Podcast - Julie Day - thejulieday.com/i-woke-up-like-this.html The first Sisu Society call has happened - a big success! - maddymoon.com/sisu-society The Prerequisites to Ecstasy - amazon.com/Prerequisites-Ecstasy-No-Nonsense-Really-Create At the time this happened, Maddy wasn't questioning and second guessing quite as much. Was completely in masculine side, but disembodied, dissociated from feelings. Everything was a "checklist." Maddy and this person met on a dating app. Relationship was turbulent from the start. Coping with manipulative gaslighting behaviors with self-doubt and needs avoidance. Found out about wife and kids accidentally via Facebook. "If you had not found out the truth, you would have had the relationship you wanted." Marriage - wanting to feel safe and have needs met. Marriage is commoditized, particularly in America. "This is something for me to learn how to love." All knowledge of attachment styles was born in this relationship Book: "Attached" - https://amzn.to/2oyre0R When you break a bone, you can go to the doctor, but there aren't necessarily such tools easily apparent in traumatic breakups. We only learn to navigate attachment trauma with tenderness towards ourselves with experience. Any future similar situation can now be informed by this. Goal for all human beings, especially women, is this idea and lifestyle of sovereignty. When we say yes to love, we also say yes to heartbreak. From victimhood to empowerment. If you're always a victim every time darkness happens, you're not going to be able to get to that place of new life. The relationship wasn't love; it was addiction. The experience helped Maddy discover key components of her core self. Every single feeling is sacred. Every single emotion is a teacher. Be unconditionally friendly to even the parts of yourself that are uncomfortable. COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/27/2020 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 19 seconds
From Sex, Drugs and Rock n’ Roll to Plant Medicine with Mike Johnson
Episode 305: Mike Johnson is from Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada where he started a career at a young age as a recording and touring musician with his band Shyne Factory and later Shelter with Thieves. He worked in festival and stage management, video and music production and he owned and operated a music studio. Mike suffered from severe depression starting in his early teens and his "rock-star" lifestyle easily led him to alcohol abuse and eventually a very serious drug addiction . In 2013 Mike hit a rock bottom and decided enough is enough. He admitted himself to a 1 year intake addiction treatment program in Edmonton Canada called “Our House” where he dedicated his life to healing and learning everything about addiction and concurrent diseases. After losing his best friend to an overdose, Mike saw how insufficient the western treatments alone are, and became laser focused on finding more effective ways to help himself and other addicts truly heal. In his research, he came across Dr. Gabor Mates' work treating addiction patients with Ayahuasca. In 2015 Mike packed his bags and headed to Peru for 3 months to work with Ayahuasca and began dieting master plants in the Shipibo tradition. He continued working with Ayahuasca in Canada and Peru and in January 2017 his path led him to the Ayahuasca Foundation 10 week curandero initiation course where he found his place and his life purpose as a healer. Today, Mike Johnson can be found facilitating plant medicine ceremonies, offering pre-ceremony intention sessions as well as post-ceremony integration. He continues to be a creative being by writing music, connecting with nature and helping people find their healing path. Show notes: This is a special episode with Madelyn's partner Mike Johnson. Turn your pain into your passion. Turn your mess into your message. New monthly membership program - Sisu Society - maddymoon.com/sisu-society Two lessons per month exclusively on FB Live for members & access to community and connection. Feminine grit is required to be a feminine being. "Be a broken record for love." Mike's most consistent muse in life is music. Focused on recording and touring with a successful band, but a part of him was unhappy and lifestyle led into addiction. Mike finally sought help and went to a treatment center. Mike needed more than medications prescribed as an easy "fix" to addiction. After his friend passed away in treatment, Mike discovered plant medicine and Dr. Gabor Mates's work bringing patients to Peru to work with Ayahuasca. Every plant has a spirit. Every plant has light, and every plant has dark. Plant diets establish a relationship with these plants. "No one is flawed. It's just part of your journey to figure out these things you need to get through." Ayahuasca is a diagnostic tool and requires guidance and participation - cleaning the body. Experiences are so different from person to person. Anything worthwhile in life that has light, comes with shadow. Madelyn's relationship with Ayahuasca wasn't able to develop until she had an experience of darkness with it. You can hear Madelyn further discuss her Ayahuasca experience with Will Siu: maddymoon.com/will-siu/ Challenges and difficulties performing with bands on stage were like training for the ceremony space. When considering Ayahuasca ceremony, Madelyn discovered it was important to be heart-centered and have help in integration sessions to truly process the healing. Mike offers integration sessions for those interested (email below). Mike's book: The Untethered Soul: https://amzn.to/34QQLsR Connect with Mike: Email: [email protected] COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/20/2020 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 37 seconds
Devotional Lover, Lioness and Seductress Embodiment Practice
Episode 304: The time feels right to do an embodiment practice on the podcast. Life has been unpredictable and chaotic, leaving many of us with all with potentially a lot of time with ourselves. But these circumstances aren't always enabling us to actually engage with ourselves in meaningful and healthy ways. This "Choose Your Own Pleasure Adventure" guides just enough to help you get back in touch with yourself via the Devotional Lover, Lioness, and Seductress Archetypes. This practice aims to help connect to the sensual part of us that is purely devoted to love, opening to gentle, sweet pleasure. Can't we all do with more pleasure in our lives these days? Show notes: Second meditation practice Madelyn has done - listen to the other one here: maddymoon.com/pleasure/ Many people, particularly women, struggle with allowing the part of them that is sex, the feminine, creativity, to be a pathway to God. The practice of sex as an act of devotion to God. Madelyn's Spotify Playlist for this practice - open.spotify.com/playlist/7rvKhIdbrXc9t9XF8EnNTp?si=XNKkTTOmRuaJI8A0RhzLjg Coaching and one-on-one guided practices are available - maddymoon.com/coaching Create a sensation that feels good. First archetype: Devotional Lover If emotion starts to come up, let it. Second archetype: Lion Different archetypes require different movements and sounds. Third archetype: Seductress Tell yourself, "Thank you. I love you." COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month options available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/13/2020 • 33 minutes, 15 seconds
Breaking Bad Star RJ Mitte on Creating Characters and "Finding Your Something"
Episode 303: Best known for his portrayal of Walter "Flynn" White for five riveting seasons of AMC'S Emmy Award and Golden Globe Award winning dramatic thriller "Breaking Bad," RJ Mitte is an actor, advocate and philanthropist who has carved out his niche in Hollywood by breaking down stereotypes and changing people's mindsets with his easy going demeanor and positive outlook on life while coping with cerebral palsy. He will be seen next starring alongside Terrence Howard as a high school wrestler overcoming all odds to be seen as "normal," in TRIUMPH; premiering in mid 2020. Show notes: Allowing space for change arriving as a result of the coronavirus COVID-19 crisis. We can now make an impact in a small area, that affects a large group of people, in a way we haven't been able to before. RJ moved to Texas to focus on his foundation - www.mittefoundation.org/ Sign up for background acting if you're trying to break into the industry. RJ's pre-Breaking Bad background/extra work included appearances on Hannah Montana, Weeds, 7th Heaven. Acting as creating entities or alter egos as a form of therapy. Recently completed Inclusion Films' Carol of the Bells with Inclusion Films - inclusionfilms.com/carol-of-the-bells/ 70% disabled cast and crew, goal to be a platform for encouraging hiring of people with disabilities. "Our job as actors is not to be us; it's to be a completely different person that we create for that world." People with the right skill-sets don't always get the jobs, while people without the skill-sets might get the jobs for various reasons. On combating discrimination: thinking in terms of tearing down walls, but using walls as leverage. Find where you belong and where you want to be. "Right now there's a lot of people at home that don't want to be at home, but they don't know where they want to be. They know they want to be somewhere, but they don't know where. They don't know how they're going to get there, but they know when this is done, they're going to go do that." Using this time to hone who you are and hone what you want to do. "Find the target you want to hit now - when everyone is so wound up, everyone's going to fly. Just make sure you're pointing in the right direction." What exactly are we in a rush to "get back" to? Creating healthy habits - isolation is a struggle. Right now people aren't doing things that have been keeping them sane. Cooking, swimming, video games, working - but maintaining positive settings - are some of RJ's healthy habits. Everyone is born a leader - but you're taught to not follow internal instincts. Connect with RJ: Twitter: twitter.com/RjMitte COACHING: receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! If you’ve been wanting to embody the feminine but feel stuck on the how, this program will take you through the entire realm from start to (well…we’re never really finished, are we?). Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here: http://maddymoon.com/feminine-spirit EMBODIED ARCHETYPE RETREAT: unlock parts of yourself that you've been shaming, blaming or hiding for too long. Learn how to integrate your "shadow sides" so that they not only feel welcomed in your life but they also create more love, peace and feminine/masculine harmony. Apply: http://maddymoon.com/eventsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/6/2020 • 55 minutes, 39 seconds
Decoding Your Dreams with Diana Magick
Episode 302: Diana Magick is a mentor, dream worker, facilitator and modern day mystic. Using a blend of ancient and modern practices, Diana helps to bring to life the forgotten gift of divine power that resides within every human. Through her courses, retreats and personal mentorship, Diana aims to assist in reconnecting you with your inner power, intuitive wisdom and magick essence to manifest what you truly desire and deserve. Working within the dream realm and the waking world, Diana takes you on powerful journey inwards and teaches you how to stand in your true power and awaken from within as you explore and experience life to your full capacity as a human being. Teaching breath-work, dream symbology, meditation, ceremonial practices and ancient wisdom, her desire is to bring light into the shadows. Giving you access to the true gifts of living a heart centered life as you become an empowered empath and intuitive human. Show notes: The Quarantine Cocoon - a stay-at-home resource guide: maddymoon.com/cocoon To inquire about private coaching sessions: [email protected] or maddymoon.com/coaching Where do our dreams come from? Why do we have dreams? The true reasons why we dream. If we don’t deal with our past, we’re going to keep dreaming certain things. Why we inherit what our ancestors dreamt about. How we can manifest what we want in our life by dreaming? "In order to change your life, you have to change your dreams." What it means when animals bite us in our dreams. Why Diana believes you can heal instantly overnight with your dreams. How to master your lucid dreaming and have control over your dreams. The simple rituals to do before you go to bed that will impact your dreams. Why you aren’t remembering your dreams. How the music that you listen to before bed affects your dreams. A lot of the dreams that we classify as “bad” are actually very healing and not bad at all. Why she suggests dream journaling for 20 days. What the more common dreams mean - flying, houses, animals, dying, nightmares. "Life is actually created in your dreams." Is daydreaming as important? Must-read book: The Big Leap https://amzn.to/3bG1hpN If you don’t use your mind, it will use you. Diana's dream course: https://www.moonandmagick.com/courses-workshops How to cancel the dreams that you don’t want Must-read book: The Toltech Secret https://amzn.to/2zvWkkZ Connect with Diana: Website: https://www.moonandmagick.com/ Instagram: www.Instagram.com/diana_magick YouTube: www.youtube.com/lifeasdiana Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/29/2020 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 56 seconds
Water, Air, Earth and Fire: Harmonizing Your Energy Through Elements
Episode 301: In this episode, Madelyn talks about an amazing book, The Missing Element, that she just received from a previous podcast guest, Astrologer - Debra Silverman. This book discusses the four elements — air, earth, water, and fire and how they affect your inner world. Many of us are on a quest to learn more about ourselves and others, and perhaps now more than ever — when we're deep into the Coronavirus quarantine, it's a great time to go within and learn more about how you function as an individual. The Missing Element was written for all of us who have ever felt that something was “wrong” with us, that we are odd and outside the norm. This book helps you to see beyond your perceived flaws to find your 'true' self, your gifts and your place in this world. You don't have to have an extensive Astrology background to understand these profound teachings. This is a fun playground to explore so you can learn more about yourself and others. Show notes: Madelyn's Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/B-w4gLHHkYF/ How can you nurture yourself while you don’t have your current “medicine”? Do you need more nurturing or discipline? Debra Silverman podcast episode https://maddymoon.com/debra-silverman/ Debra's book: The Missing Element https://amzn.to/2RSGLtZ The four elements: water, fire, earth, air How to determine your natural element. The observer vs the ego. The ego’s main mission is to separate and it does this because it wants to keep you safe. Must-read book: The New Earth by Eckhart Tolle https://amzn.to/2wShl8x Must-read book: The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer https://amzn.to/34QQLsR Harnessing the power of the observer. Shame would not exist without society. Ego would not lead to shame without society. Water: the first state that we’re born into. Emotional, very intuitive, more empath, love the spiritual side of life, want to numb out because your feelings are so strong, personal space is very important, great healer, overly guarded sometimes, very important to get to know your moods/periods/moon cycles, take showers/baths. Fire: can be very destructive, very transformative energy, the life of the party, likes to figure it out as they go along - not a lot of structure, judged a lot, helpful to find forms of movement that create heat in your body, impulsive, it’s okay to slow down, they love to love and to be adored, learn how to listen if you’re a fire sign, very competitive, impatient, enjoys traveling. Earth: loves stability, rituals are very important, safety/security is a top priority, have a hard time investing in themselves, great with their hands - get the job done, plant the metaphorical seed, dependable, they can sometimes lack fire/spontaneity, never give themselves a pat on the back. Air: more inclined to see us all as one, they love information and learning, very curious, auditory, co-dependent, flirtatious, must be balanced with earth, they talk super fast, do more earth grounding work, work on your voice, stimulating conversations, not great listeners - cut people off. Embodying the elements Qigong practice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_6Y8QSVyYhM The Quarantine Cocoon - a stay-at-home resource guide: maddymoon.com/cocoon Connect with Maddy: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/ Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegift Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/22/2020 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 4 seconds
The Sex Episode: a Timeline of Sexuality, Exploration and Intimacy Milestones
Episode 300: For Madelyn's 300th podcast episode, she wanted to do something special for y'all, so enter "the sex episode" — her sexual memoir episode. We know that the episodes that always hit home the most for you are when Madelyn gives herself a permission slip to expose her rawest self. Well, here you go... this is her deepest, rawest, most vulnerable episode she's ever done. It's an intimate sexual timeline of 28 years. She takes you on her sexual journey over the years which touches on the sexual shame she's endured; the Christian household that was driven by emotional manipulation and abuse; her sexual toys and deepest sexual desires; and her relationship where she had the best sex of her life. Oooh, you're gonna love this one. Show notes: The Quarantine Cocoon - a stay-at-home resource guide: maddymoon.com/cocoon Human Design 101: https://maddymoon.com/human-design/ Unpacking Sexual Shame: https://maddymoon.com/unpacking-sexual-shame/ The relatable story that Madelyn shares from her childhood. “Our womb space is intimately connected to our heart space.” Madelyn’s Christian upbringing was driven by tactics of emotional manipulation and abuse. Madelyn gets emotional when she thinks about what her parents used to tell her about boys. Madelyn’s first kiss and first make-out session. The traumatic car ride experience with her mom after her first kiss. Her first juicy memory of ever being turned on. Madelyn’s love of boob hickeys and the meaning behind them for her. Why she likes combining pain with pleasure (when it’s done with love). Her sexual experiences in college. Losing her virginity with her twin flame in college. Her first experience with a vibrator and pornography. Her insecurities with her body and her journey into bodybuilding. What to do when you feel stuck in your pleasure. Her 3 essential tools to get out of your mind space and into your body. Her favorite thing to experience during sex. Charles Muir and tantric sexual exploration Grieving “What Could Have Been” and Understanding Emotional Abuse https://maddymoon.com/emotional-abuse/ Her perfectionism with her “lady landscape” and her painful journey with folliculitis Must-read books: She Comes First https://amzn.to/3aWb7Dz Pussy: A Reclamation https://amzn.to/2yIGVgJ Come as You Are https://amzn.to/2yIGVgJ The Red Tent https://amzn.to/2y5djtz City of Girls https://amzn.to/2y7q3Qr Dear Lover https://amzn.to/2xjjPNn Sex at Dawn https://amzn.to/3b8t5CZ Guided Pleasure Practice for Women Episode: https://maddymoon.com/pleasure/ Sex is the ultimate creator - it’s our connection with the Divine. How she treats her sexuality as sacred. Connect with Maddy: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/ Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegift Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/15/2020 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 33 seconds
Abundance for Artists & Performers with Joe Towne
Episode 299: Joe Towne is an award-winning writer and director who got his degree in Acting from the University of Southern California. He’s been a coach for the past 19 years for both businesses and performers – some of whom are selling that product you just bought or starring in that movie you Netflixed last night. This work compelled him to write a book about how our inner reality affects our outer experience, which led him to be a guest on the Dr. Oz show. As an actor, Joe Towne has worked with people like Jennifer Love Hewitt and Hillary Swank and you can see him opposite Rebel Wilson in Isn’t It Romantic, which premiered in February of 2019 and is now available on iTunes. Joe Towne is also an acting coach at one of the top studios in Hollywood where he co-created their audition technique program. He works with professional actors and athletes, as they transition from their sport into the entertainment industry. He also works with corporations bringing Mindset into practice in the workplace. Last summer Joe helped coached up the top 24 high school quarterbacks in the country at the Elite 11 weekend in Los Angeles. The Actors Mindset program has been in Los Angeles (both independently and at The Aquila School), at USC, UCLA and most recently at the Vancouver Film School. To learn more about Mindset check out this interview on THAT ONE AUDITION podcast. Show notes: Why artists need boredom. Why you are an artist. Grab Madelyn's Free Gifts: maddymoon.com/freegift Being an artist doesn't mean being in deprivation and scarcity. The alarming financial statistics with being an actor. Madelyn's struggles with feeling scarcity while exploring the artist's world. "The myth of the tortured artist" The old model that there isn't enough for me unless I suffer. "Nothing abundant comes from burnout. When you're not embodying abundance, you're not going to attract it." The reason why we can't speak generally about abundance. If you're wanting to be a full-time actor, how do you not get into burnout? The principle of sustainability. "Take your rest as seriously as your hustle." How Feng Shui and your environment ties into an abundant mindset. Your environment reflects you whether it's seen or in a drawer — everything creates this constellation of energy that affects what's coming up. "That is which is closest to you has the greatest impact on you." Our entire home is marketing to us all day long and our home is a vision board. The stages of a Feng Shui makeover. The pitfalls of Feng Shui. Every culture has their own version of Feng Shui. "Joy is the vehicle that you travel your life with." The "flow state" or "runners high" - the optimal state of being. Must-read book: The Alchemist https://amzn.to/2RtX2FN ; Peak Performance https://amzn.to/34aASxk Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/8/2020 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 33 seconds
Why the Quarantine May Be the Worst Time for Productivity
Episode 298: This is Madelyn's second episode where she discusses the Coronavirus and the stay-in-place quarantine. It feels silly to talk about anything else during these vulnerable times. Today, she's coming at you with applicable thoughts for your life outside of the quarantine. She dives right in on how the masculine and feminine containers are being affected, not only for us individually, but for the planet. It's not a secret that our world is lacking grounding and footing and it's impacting us all. In this episode, you'll learn how you can show up and give yourself the structure that you're craving. You'll also learn Madelyn's tangible advice for the quarantine and what her daily routine consists of. You'll also hear why it's okay to not feel super productive right now and how to give yourself a break. One thing's for sure — we're all in this together. We're feeling the same things — the ups, the downs, and the 'all-arounds'. We've never had as much emotional polarity in our lives, right? It's true that not much is constant right now and this episode helps us to be okay with that. Show notes: "When our world is lacking grounding and footing, it’s really challenging to go as deep as we'd like in other areas (business, relationships, etc)." When there’s no grounding, it’s hard to fly. Why our nervous systems do not feel safe right now. In order for the feminine to feel emotionally and creatively expressed, she has to know that the alpha (masculine) has got her. We don’t have harmony right now. How to create your safe, grounded container. Why it will help you look for the masculine wherever you can right now. Any time you have discipline showing up in your life, that’s your masculine. You are your best teacher - act like it right now. Why women struggle with feeling mad. 'Gaslighting' and how it applies to the quarantine. This is a time that people are feeling two different emotional polarities at the same time. i.e., secure vs terrified Madelyn's tangible list of things to do to help you throughout this time. Alomoves https://www.alomoves.com/ Masterclass.com https://www.masterclass.com/ Netflix shows that Madelyn is watching. Julie Day podcast episode: https://maddymoon.com/julie-day If you need more 1:1 emotional support, reach out to Maddy for her 1:1 coaching sessions here: [email protected] Connect with Maddy: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/ Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegift Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/1/2020 • 34 minutes, 28 seconds
Practical and Mystical Support During Coronavirus with Julie Day
Episode 297: Julie Day is a Spiritual Counselor and Teacher, Astrologer, and Podcast Creator/Host. Julie is fascinated by the process of waking up while living inside a human suit. She graduated from the Agape International Spiritual Center where she was licensed as a Spiritual Practitioner in 2010. She spent 9 years immersed in the study and practice of modern mysticism and the evolution of consciousness, learning how to access mind-blowing mystical truths…while simultaneously having to deal with and eventually embrace her clumsy, messy human. Finding the holiness within her humanness became her greatest teacher, healer and muse. In 2019, Julie created her podcast, I Woke Up Like This, where she interviews fellow seekers on their biggest awakening experience, and all the light they found through that journey. Whether through private sessions, virtual courses, or her podcast, Julie's most sincere offering is always to help others learn how to love their human and trust that whatever is in front of them can be their sacred portal to knowing more of love, joy and freedom. Show notes: Madelyn has opened up 1:1 coaching spots: maddymoon.com/coaching Must-read book: Mists of Avalon by Marion Zimmer Bradley https://amzn.to/39au2sn Madelyn and Julie’s personal insight and experience with Coronavirus. How Madelyn is healing her relationship with time. Madelyn’s Ayahuasca experience recently and what she learned. What the South node and North node are teaching us about the Coronavirus. The insight Julie was given earlier this year about cleansing her body and repairing her gut health. Goose symbolism and meaning. "The gift in this is that so many every day things are being taken away from us so we don't miss the opportunity to truly live our bliss." “God knows how to get God to God.” What astrology tells us about this critical time. Why Julie believes that this will all shift in a few months based upon the north node. How leaning into pleasure and your breath can ease your anxiety. What does it look like to love and care for your human? “The fullness of God is right where you are.” Julie’s beautiful journaling practice to help us release fear and step into the highest possible truth. Love your human and plug into something higher. We were born for this. It is here for us. When all this is stripped away, we’re going to discover how safe we really are. Must-read book: Be Here Now by Ram Daas https://amzn.to/33EzqTJ and Love Without Conditions by Paul Ferrini https://amzn.to/2UGkkJl Julie’s delicious “quarantine smoothie” Connect with Julie: Website: https://www.thejulieday.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/julieelizabethday Instagram: instagram.com/julieelizabethday Podcast: http://iwokeuplikethis.libsyn.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/25/2020 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 23 seconds
Changing the Script on Emotions for Your Fathers, Sons and Husbands with Dan Doty
Episode 296: Dan Doty is a visionary entrepreneur, speaker, consultant, and the co-founder and voice of EVRYMAN. Dan is the host of the EVRYMAN podcast, and the former director of cult hit tv show MeatEater. He has been a 3-time guest on the Joe Rogan Experience, and twice on the Today Show. His role with EVRYMAN has been featured in the NYT, Men's Health, GQ, and many more national and international publications. Dan is a man’s man with a well-developed tender side. Dan Doty embodies the ability for men to be exactly who they are, and is sharing that message that there are as many definitions of manhood as there are men on the planet. Show notes: Blending "Work You" with "Real You": Episode here: https://maddymoon.com/blending/ Why we all need to forget the need to be “good”. Doing the things that make you come alive, is what makes more of you available for love and life. Fear is your thermometer for how close you’re getting to the thing you need to do in your life. My invitation to you is to dare to fail. So often we don’t do the thing we want to do because we don’t want to feel the feeling underneath that. Why Dan Doty doesn’t use the phrase “men’s work.” How to bring this energy into our family dynamics so that we don't push them away. How Dan Doty got to the place where he no longer blames his father. Distinguishing between fault vs responsibility. One of the most powerful ways to get to a man is by being an example of someone they respect. "Men are fragile." How Dan navigates being the protector to being open with his feelings/emotionally available. Reevaluating why we need protection from men — why are we putting pressure on men to protect us? What mothers and fathers need to be aware of for their little boys. How can we as parents slow down enough and unhook our agendas and allow our kids to have their own truth to come through? How to show the full spectrum of healthy emotions. "Partners use each other way too much as therapists - you need to have your own space to do your deep work." "Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden" article: https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a27259689/toxic-masculinity-male-friendships-emotional-labor-men-rely-on-women/ Repression of emotions and isolation are pandemics in our society. It’s truly terrifying to express our emotions as men. Must-read book: Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse https://amzn.to/3aLYdHB The Embodied Archetype Retreat, June 15-17: Apply: http://maddymoon.com/events Connect with Dan: Instagram (Dan Doty): https://www.instagram.com/danieldoty/ Instagram (EVRYMAN): https://www.instagram.com/_evryman_/ Website: https://evryman.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/18/2020 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 32 seconds
Psychedelics as Medicine with Will Siu
Episode 295: Will Siu, MD, DPhil, completed medical and graduate school at UCLA and Oxford University, respectively, before training as a psychiatrist at Harvard Medical School. He was on the faculty at Harvard for two years prior to moving to New York City to further pursue his interest in psychedelic medicine as a practitioner and public advocate through speaking, writing, and social media. Dr. Siu has been trained by MAPS to provide MDMA-assisted therapy and has a private practice in LOS Angeles where he provides individual psychotherapy and ketamine-facilitated psychotherapy. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go to http://audibletrial.com/mindbodymusings Madelyn's must-read books: The Big Leap https://amzn.to/2TCvFJL The Red Tent https://amzn.to/38kSHdz The Wild Woman's Way https://amzn.to/38uKOSY How psychedelics were Will's gateway into healing/spirituality. What it means to be a "psychonaut.” The main difference between psychedelics vs recreational/party drugs. Will's definition of a psychedelic drug. Why everyone’s experience is different when taking these drugs. Will discusses what MDA and ketamine drugs are. How he facilitates these drugs into his private practice. “Psychedelics are neither necessary nor sufficient for healing, but they’re the most powerful tool we have when used with the right support.” The preparation for doing these psychedelic drugs, as well as the aftercare. Why most people that see Will have never done any previous psychedelics. Madelyn’s experience with Ayahuasca. The way that healers did Ayahuasca in the very beginning is very different from how it's performed now. Ayahuasca Retreat Center in Costa Rica https://soltara.co/ Must read books: Eastern Body Western Mind https://amzn.to/39q7MvG The Alchemist https://amzn.to/2IkOewP, Conversations With God https://amzn.to/3cyIBcn Connect with Will: Website: https://www.willsiumd.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/will.siu.md/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/11/2020 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 7 seconds
Blending "Work You" with "Real You"
Episode 294: Do you have a hard time owning and blending all of the parts and pieces that make up you? If so, you're not alone. Many of us shut down the parts of us that we don't think are appropriate for the current situation we're in. We feel uncomfortable wearing red lipstick to the office. We feel shameful for having pics of our gurus on our desk for fear if someone sees them and thinks we're a weirdo. We hide our truest self, every single day. Here's the thing — doing the thing and being seen doing it, liberates you. And more importantly, it makes you more available to love and to be loved. More of you is available. By connecting to all of the parts and pieces that make you, you... you soften something in your body that simply becomes magnetic. Blending the feminine and masculine energies of who you truly are makes you electric. Because at the end of the day, it's YOU who thinks you're too snobbish. It's YOU who thinks too loud. It's YOU who thinks you're too intelligent. It's YOU who thinks you're the black sheep. The moment you realize those truths, you can't turn back. You all a sudden know that if you think that, then it is up to YOU to make a choice to change it. All a sudden you're responsible and everything is in your hands. This is where healing gets done — when you reveal a part of you that you've been hiding for all of these years. This episode will teach you how to own who you are and the importance of blending the "work" you with the "real" you. Show notes: Madelyn’s juicy, seductive ritual of letting pleasure lead her for 24 hours. Madelyn's favorite toy - her cervix wand: https://bit.ly/2SK5a5X Blending your energies — how can I be a feminine embodied creature while also running a masculine business? Why Madelyn is over the traditional business hustle and the discouraging feeling of overwhelm. “It’s up to me to allow myself to step back.” “Let your feminine heart - your yearning to let go, to run the show for a bit.” How to start training your masculine with meditation and breathwork. How to create harmony where you have a choice in what energy (masculine/feminine) you lead with. The reframe with feeling judged and how to release those stories that we tell ourselves. How to create more ownership to make a different, more empowering choice. Fun fact: Egypt is the #1 feminine country. The sobering thought that you are going to pass and how Madelyn uses it as the biggest motivating factor. “Any outward focus is you’re really trying to numb the inward experience.” More of you is available to love and be loved when you’re taking ownership of your desires. When you connect your heart to your yoni lips something softens in your body that is magnetic. How to become more available and open yourself to all the versions of you. “You can’t truly love all that life provides if you can’t love all that you provide.” “Everything is a reflection — start taking ownership of that reflection.” The Embodied Retreat with Jamie Wollrab: maddymoon.com/events Connect with Maddy: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/ Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegift Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/4/2020 • 36 minutes, 30 seconds
Fantasy, Taboo and Being Generous in Love with John Wineland
Episode 293: John Wineland, a Los Angeles based relationship coach, speaker and teacher has been guiding both men and women in the realms of life purpose, relational communication, sexual intimacy and embodiment for over a decade. John's clients include entrepreneurs, leading thinkers in the world of personal development and entertainment, Ted speakers and creative leaders in Hollywood. John brings a multi-faceted approach, which is both energetic and highly practical, to his workshops and experiential coaching sessions. John's embodiment-driven teaching draws from not only over 30 years experience of his own Buddhist meditative practice, but from 10 years intensive study and practice with renowned Yogic Intimacy teacher, David Deida. Show notes: B-School, the online business school for modern entrepreneurs, is here! Watch Marie Forleo's FREE 3-part business training series to learn more: http://maddymoon.com/join-bschool Ready to directly sign up for B-School? Go here before the cart closes February 28, 2020: http://share.marieforleobschool.com/LpD8g Madelyn's B-School Bonuses: Signature Feminine Spirit School course (valued at $1500) and private access to her Feminine Spirit School community. 3 free bonus audios include: How to Attract Your Ideal Clients, Podcasting 101 and How to Host an Event Madelyn's B-School Podcast Episode: https://maddymoon.com/marie-forleo-3 What John Wineland is currently musing about. How he avoids writer's block. How he keeps his nervous system clean so he can be a vessel. An example of being embodied while being scared of abandonment. "Yogic revealing" How does it feed the masculine to see the range of the feminine? Why would I show a man my ditsy, fun side when I’m supposed to be strong - what if I look dumb? Why being in your head and being analytical is not being embodied. “Embodiment at its core is really a journey into who you are. That’s why people are craving it.” Taboo definition - the dark sexual energy and examples - dirty talk, cutting, defilement, bondage. We all have some dark sexual energy - it’s been repressed in most of us. The gifts that our taboos can teach us. Madelyn reveals her taboo. “Defiling with love” “Sex is the deepest yoga.” "When you activate and open your heart, you then practice into the darker realms and a clearing will take place." How do we know when it’s time to leave a relationship? John's stance on dating and dating apps. The big mistake people make is that they don’t spend time alone and develop their gifts and their capacity to be with themself. "When you become full and radiant with your feminine expression, you don't need a dating app." "If you can’t be alone, then you can’t be in a relationship." Connect with John: Website: https://www.johnwineland.com/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/john_wineland Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JohnWineland1/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTif0aTpBjQ27lRC5q6vJLw 5-Day Intensive Retreat with David Deida: https://www.johnwineland.com/5-day-advanced-intensive-with-david-deida-2020 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/26/2020 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 21 seconds
5 Ego-Busting Tools for Confrontation
Episode 292: Madelyn Moon plants her feet and deepens her breath for this episode on embodied confrontation with your loved ones. She starts this episode by expressing how to access the Universe's bank account and that there's absolutely no limit to the amount of money or love that you can have in your life unless YOU are creating an upper limit for yourself. And if you think that you are, she shares some resources to bust through your self-imposed limits. She talks about how to allow love outside of marriage and why the "choose-no-man" masculine cleanse she did led her to a deeper understanding of deep intimacy — an intimacy with those she doesn't even personally know. She's playing with how much love she can let in, as well as the many different types of love there is. She invites you to do the same. How much more love can you let in? She discusses her top 5 ego-busting tools for embodied confrontation. Being disembodied is what leads to explosions, resentments, passive-aggressiveness and fear. Things get messy when we're not in our bodies. We make up stories in our heads about what something does or doesn't mean and our ego revs up. These tips are sure to help you handle conflict with more ease and grace moving forward. Show notes: B-School, the online business school for modern entrepreneurs, is here! Watch Marie Forleo's FREE 3-part business training series to learn more: https://maddymoon.com/bschool Ready to directly sign up for B-School? Go here before the cart closes February 28, 2020: http://share.marieforleobschool.com/LpD8g Madelyn's B-School Bonuses: Signature Feminine Spirit School course (valued at $1500) and private access to her Feminine Spirit School community. 3 free bonus audios include: How to Attract Your Ideal Clients, Podcasting 101 and How to Host an Event Update on Madelyn’s life. Why she's noticing a revolt around social media posting. “God has no cap. God has an abundant storage of time, energy, love money, and energy to give people and is simply waiting to give it to people who want it. She’s looking for wanting and belief.” Must-read book: The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron https://amzn.to/39FW7IL How Acting is just like embodiment work. Must-read book: The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks https://amzn.to/2uJ6bSH Free Audible Trial: audibletrial.com/mindbodymusings How to consciously deconstruct your upper limit habit. How to create deep intimacy with someone you don't even know. The “no man” diet - a masculine cleanse. Before you respond to anyone, just slow down - wait 24 hours, wait 24 minutes. Wait and breathe. Without judgment. The importance of physical and emotional check-ins. "Being disembodied is what leads to explosions, resentments, passive-aggressiveness and fear. We fight when we're not in our bodies." When someone shares something with you, begin to ask yourself, "where is this true?" This dissolves your ego stance. “I’m making up a story that…" Most of the time people are not taking ownership of their frustration. When someone is sharing with you, simply say, "tell me more." The Embodied Archetype Retreat, June 5 - 7. Learn more here: https://maddymoon.com/events/ Connect with B-School and Maddy Moon: Join B-School HERE >> https://maddymoon.com/bschool Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/ Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegift Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/19/2020 • 48 minutes, 4 seconds
Three-Part Masculine Blueprint with GS Youngblood
Episode 291: GS Youngblood is a coach for men in relationship, former Silicon Valley executive, founder of a tech company that he eventually sold, and the author of two books (including the recently published “The Masculine in Relationship”). His teachings are based on 12 years as a student and creator in the realm of the Masculine-Feminine dynamic, as well as principles he pulls from a variety of fields: psychology, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM. Show notes: B-School cart is open! View Marie's 3-part business training series here: https://maddymoon.com/bschool Madelyn's B-School Bonuses: Signature Feminine Spirit School course (valued at $1500) and private access to her Feminine Spirit School community. 3 free bonus audios include: How to Attract Your Ideal Clients, Podcasting 101, How to Host an Event How should feminine beings get their masculine partners to pay attention to this work. Why women call out men. The pain from his divorce and how it fueled this work for him. The 3-part blueprint for men Respond vs react Provide structure Create safety What does the “nice guy” do for the feminine nervous system. Must-read book: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover https://amzn.to/31Eomoy The “asshole” archetype. Why men have to have the “dark energy” as well to sustain a woman. The “male apologist” archetype. The daily actions that men can take to calm their nervous system and provide more framework in their relationship. The power of checking in and saying “What is it that I want?” Why most men don’t know what they desire and how to change that. JS’s perspective on men making decisions and why that’s a gift for feminine beings. Decision making is a masculine energy. What to say to women who don’t feel empowered with the masculine making decisions. How to bring structure without telling your woman what to do. “Your masculine offering is to simplify the world’s complexity for her, to reduce the confusion and stress that are inherent in life.” The guilt that women might feel with putting the burden of decision making on men. “Your (masculine) pleasure is created from her pleasure.” How men can create structure when women are better at something Connect with GS Youngblood: The Masculine in Relationship Book: https://amzn.to/2vizD1C Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gsyoungblood1/ Website: https://www.gsyoungblood.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/12/2020 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 21 seconds
Choose B-School for Six-Figure Success with Marie Forleo
Episode 290: A born-and-raised Jersey girl with nothing more than passion, a laptop, and a dream, Marie Forleo has created a socially conscious digital empire that inspires millions across the globe. Named by Oprah as a thought leader for the next generation, she’s the star of the award-winning show MarieTV, with over 52 million views, and host of The Marie Forleo Podcast, with more than eleven million downloads. Marie has taught entrepreneurs, artists, and multipassionate go-getters from all walks of life how to dream big and back it up with daily action to create results. She runs the acclaimed business training program, B-School and the writing program, The Copy Cure. Her new book, Everything is Figureoutable is an instant #1 New York Times bestseller and available now. Show notes: Marie’s 3-part training series with a simple roadmap to help you launch your online business: https://maddymoon.com/bschool What B-School taught Madelyn and how it helped her launch her online business. How B-School helped Madelyn with her branding. What really matters in an online business. "Why I love B-School is that it takes care of a huge chunk of the pie so that you can put your attention on the magical parts of your business." The important foundational pieces of creating a business. "Those who are certain of the outcome can afford to wait, and wait without anxiety." - A Course of Miracles "The universe wants to bring you success but there are certain action steps you have to take in order to get there." What if you don’t know what kind of business you want to have? Why Madelyn suggests that you start now for B-School Bonus: Madelyn’s signature Feminine Spirit School course (valued at $1500) and private access to her Feminine Spirit School community. 3 free bonus audios include: How to Attract Your Ideal Clients, Podcasting 101, How to Host an Event Why B-school is particularly helpful for those aspiring to be a life coach 2 previous podcast episodes with Marie Forleo: https://maddymoon.com/marie-forleo/ and https://maddymoon.com/marie-forleo-2 How do know if you’re ready for B-school? The difference between customer-centered and self-centered. How do you organize all of your different interests with you're multi-passionate? The biggest story people have to get rid of in being able to move forward. What lights Marie Forleo up about online businesses. Connect with B-School and Marie Forleo: Join B-School HERE >> https://maddymoon.com/bschool Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/6/2020 • 56 minutes, 25 seconds
The #1 Way to Book Your Dream Role at Any Age Joseph Pearlman
Episode 289: A graduate of New York University's Tisch School of the Arts, Joseph Pearlman is an acting and performance coach for Hollywood celebrities, musicians, and comedians—he helps his clients launch their careers and reach Oscar potential on set. Joseph also coaches presenters for all the major award ceremonies, including the Oscars, Emmys, Grammys, Golden Globes, and Independent Spirit Awards. Some of his clients include Zooey Deschanel (New Girl), Amy Adams, HBO, AMC, TED Talks, Ridley Scott (Scott Free Productions), Sian Clifford (Emmy nominated for Fleabag), Iliza Shlesinger, Eugene Simon (Game of Thrones), Skylar Grey (five-time Grammy nominee), Sherri Shepherd (The View), Alex MacNicoll (Transparent, 13 Reasons Why), Leon Logothetis (The Kindness Diaries), Michael Welch (The Twilight Saga), Julian Sands (The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo), Cameron Douglas, and many others. In addition to his work with performers, Joseph helps world leaders, entrepreneurs, politicians, executives, and other industry leaders develop charismatic confidence, within seconds, for maximum impact on their audiences. Joseph had the pleasure of coaching Dr. Joanne Liu throughout her campaign to be the first person to win two terms as International President of Doctors Without Borders (MSF). Joanne has been on the front lines of epidemics like the Ebola crisis in West Africa. Joseph Pearlman is also a contributor at USC’S Annenberg School for Communication and Journalism, Doctors Without Borders (MSF), McGill University’s International Masters for Health Leadership (IMHL) executive program, TED, United Nations, World Health Organization (WHO), and New York University’s Tisch School of the Arts. Joseph is a regular contributor to Inc. Magazine and Backstage Magazine. Joseph Pearlman Acting Academy was voted “Best Acting Studio” in Los Angeles by Backstage Magazine’s Readers’ Choice Awards. Joseph’s work with actors was also recently recognized by The Huffington Post’s national cinema, theatre, and art critic James Scarborough, and he was named one of the industry’s “Top Ten Acting Gurus.” Show notes: How acting is so much similar to embodiment work. You don’t have to sacrifice everything to be an actor. How to determine what will set you apart as a coach or an actor. Am I too old to be an actor? "You are so much more powerful at creating your path of an actor than what you think." The limiting beliefs and stories that actors tell themselves “If it feels good, do it.” The fear-based herd mentality actor info that’s prevalent. Personality is 90% of the performance. “Show people what they didn’t know what they wanted yet.” Acting is you under the influence of the character. The mistake actors make is, "how am I supposed to play this character?" No character or scene description is something you ever have to obey. The markers of "good" acting: If it’s not fun, it’s not working It's effortless Creating Impact You feel like you Joseph Pearlman's thoughts about having managers/representation. Why Madelyn felt the burden of scarcity in the actor world. Must-read book: You're on an Airplane by Parker Posey https://amzn.to/2vqid37 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/29/2020 • 1 hour, 26 minutes, 41 seconds
How to Stop Withholding What Hurts You
Episode 288: Madelyn Moon reveals how to stop withholding and instead tenderly share your truth and heart with someone so that it is meant with love and understanding. Often times when we have something to share that hurts us, we clam up and withhold the information because we don't want to hurt the other person. If we do decide to express our truth, we often become defensive and quickly blame the other for causing us pain. However, there is another way — a much more tender, self-expressing, beautiful way that will get our point across much more gently for both parties involved. Madelyn explains how a recent situation in her life allowed her to exercise this unfoldment with more love and truth than ever before. Show notes: Why Madelyn is making investments in her creativity. "Money is a currency—it is a current. When you spend it, you open up a door for it to come back." How to believe that the universe wants you to succeed. Your “belief leaps.” Joy is something you can experience at any time....even through heartbreak. How to stop withholding your truth. What does “withholding” mean? Madelyn’s personal example with withholding information from her partner. What is the line between expressing something for the betterment of the relationship and hurting the relationship? "There is a way to share your heart that is not blaming/shaming someone, but revealing the truth of your heart." 3 Stages of Communication Podcast Episode Here: https://maddymoon.com/david-deida/ Revealing is a gift to your masculine partner. If you feel hurt by something he’s doing unconsciously and you refuse to tell him, you will continue to be hurt and the world will hurt as well. We train people how to treat us. Your oracle is a gift so stop withholding. Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg https://amzn.to/2FLvTaS The specific phrase to let someone know how they hurt your heart. How to take responsibility for not revealing this before. A woman who can deeply trust is a woman who is in her feminine. A woman who is in her feminine is a woman who is bringing deep pleasure and joy to the world. Connect with Maddy: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/ Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegift Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/22/2020 • 35 minutes, 1 second
Womanifesting, Applied Astrology and the YumYum Factor with Debra Silverman
Episode 287: Debra Silverman is part astrologer, part psychologist, part comedian, and ALL REAL. She helps people turn on their own inner observer, to see the things they say and do in a totally objective way. Debra has been in private practice for over 40 years. She uses astrology and her own system called the The 4 Elements (or 4E for short) as tools to help people step into their power. Debra’s mothering approach to understanding and empowering people from all walks of life has earned her international fame and admiration. She has written a book, magazine columns, hosted a radio show and has a YouTube channel with over 7 million views. She is dedicated to creating community and working for the children. Debra believes the future is arriving and none of us can do it alone. She is an expert in embracing the feminine, and her ultimate dream is to revolutionize therapy by teaching therapists how to provide custom treatment to their clients. Debra believes in the power of listening. When we are silent - both with ourselves and each other - the messages that are trying to come through us can be given a voice, and we can all start walking our authentic and powerful path. She splits her time between Kauai and Boulder, Colorado where she enjoys talking to the beautiful flowers, daily swims and spending time with friends and family. Show notes: Astrology is 5,000 years old. “You don’t have to believe in astrology; it believes in you. It doesn’t matter if you believe in it." What pisses Debra off about astrology. “There’s no divorce in heaven. You are stuck with you across all time.” The interesting and quirky part of Debra’s chart and her personality. The history of astrology and how it helped men make major decisions back in the day. The interesting aspects of Madelyn’s chart. Debra’s online school - Meet the Planets: http://maddymoon.com/appliedastrology Debra's specific prayer that she uses daily for “womanifesting.” How Debra finds pleasure in her body daily. How to keep astrology simple and the most important planet to look for. The “YumYum factor” as medicine and why the vibrancy of life is so important for her. Ask yourself: “where’s pleasure leading me to today?” The Piscean Age vs the Aquarius Age and what it means for us today. How to get the joy factor back in your life. “Everything changes when you start putting consciousness on the smallest thing that gives you pleasure.” Why Debra resonates with being a spoiled brat and why she's okay with that. The Missing Element: https://amzn.to/2sSQoQi Must-read book: The Afterlight of Billy Fingers by Annie Kagan https://amzn.to/2sYL25X The Star Community: https://www.thestarcommunity.com/ Connect with Debra: Website: www.debrasilvermanastrology.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/debrasilvermanastrology Instagram: www.instagram.com/debrasilverman_astrology Sign up for Debra's FREE 3-part video training series called Meet the Planets: http://maddymoon.com/appliedastrology Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/15/2020 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 19 seconds
Womb Wisdom, Feminine Lineage and Stay-At-Home Retreats with Marya Stark
Episode 286: Marya Stark is an award-winning vocalist, composer, producer, performer, and multi-instrumentalist. She is a storyteller, bard, poet, and muse. When she is not on stage or deep in her craft, Marya offers her medicine as a Musical Midwife, supporting the Archetypal Embodiment Journey of her students. Marya Stark is a mentor in the art of voice and songwriting, working with those passionate about refining their unique sound and bringing it to life. Steeped in the alchemical arts of womb clearing, she currently leads her 'Voice Of My Womb' vocal enrichment workshop series globally and online. Marya Stark is a chaser of waterfalls, and rememberer of the songs of the Sapphire. Show notes: Why we’re feeling blocked from our creative outlet and what to do about it. 2020 as a year of creativity. What is music therapy? “When we’re involved in a musical process, our entire brain comes online. When we’re engaged in the creative music process, all of us is turned on. We’re designed to process music in a way that puts us all together.” - Marya Stark What do you think we’re healing when we’re doing ancestral work and womb wisdom clearing? The importance of connecting to the song of our female bodies. The deep polarization with the masculine and feminine. How as women do we call forth the masculine to be guided and led? “The great work that women get to do is deeply steep in this womb clearing because that’s what clears our energetic signature of resentments, misalignments around our own voice and boundaries.” - Marya Stark How does one do the womb clearing if they don’t know what happened in their feminine lineage? How she creates personal, creative space for herself. The power behind her stay-at-home retreats — how she conducts these retreats and the significance of resetting her body. How to create a psychic, spiritual, psychological boundary. The commonalities within our menstrual cycles and hormones. The Optimized Woman https://amzn.to/2ZMMTXv by Miranda Gray. The more we rest during the time that we bleed, the more we set ourselves up for success for the month to come.” Must-read book: The Smell of Rain on Dust https://amzn.to/2szAv13 by Martín Prechtel. Connect with Marya: Website: www.marya-stark.com Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/2lntMaVHOro0wJYMYHco9d?si=4LT0hSR7S3mOeCC-w3mopg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maryastark/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/maryastarkmusic Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/8/2020 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 4 seconds
Lessons from Years of Polyamory with Mikaal Bates
Episode 285: Mikaal Bates’ mission is the evolution of Masculine Consciousness across the Planet in our lifetime. He loves helping Men, Women and everyone in between find creative and lasting ways to cut through Resistance to find True Purpose & Deepest Love. He travels the world in partnership as a Transformational Coach, Leader of Men’s Work, Workshop & Rites of Passage Facilitator, Ritual Creator, and Curator of Ecstatic Experience. Show notes: What is Mikaal Bates currently musing about? How do men listen to their intuition more? How Mikaal keeps meditation from feeling overwhelming. Energetic agility with Justin Patrick Pierce: http://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/ The gift of the feminine is it keeps things fresh—it keeps things from being robotic. In the moment, the feminine always wants more." Polyamory vs monogamy. Why Mikaal decided to explore polyamorous relationships. The difference between Polyamory and open relationships. Why he doesn’t identify with the term 'polyamorous.' "Honesty and real time is the medicine for a nurturing, valuable relationship with a real chance of longevity." The gifts and lessons that came from his polyamorous relationships. "Compersion" - the opposite of jealousy. What are some boundaries that people often cross in polygamy? "Sex is not just for pleasure—it’s a vehicle for enlightenment. The body of the female is a tool for enlightenment." Madelyn’s current relationship and the status that she’s most comfortable with. "We always attract our reciprocal." Why Mikaal has decided to be monogamous for now. Londin Angel Winters' podcast: https://maddymoon.com/londin-angel-winters/ Must-read books: The Way of the Superior Man https://amzn.to/2PWFUI4 by David Deida; Iron John https://amzn.to/2ZrF9tQ by Robert Bly, 12 Rules for Life https://amzn.to/2smd8rt by Jordan Peterson, The Awakened Women's Guide to Everlasting Love https://amzn.to/2t3EvGV by Londin Angel Winters, Stealing Fire https://amzn.to/2sd8g8c by Steven Kotler & Jamie Wheal. Connect with Mikaal: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mikaal.bates Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mikaal_bates/ Website: https://www.mikaalbates.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/1/2020 • 1 hour, 21 minutes, 24 seconds
Guided Pleasure Practice for Women
Episode 284: In this episode, Madelyn Moon leads you through a sacred embodiment practice for deep pleasure and release. Many of us are walking around all day completely disconnected—chest tight or caved, poor posture, drifting off into space, completely in our head. This embodiment practice will help you connect to Mama Earth, to yourself, to your pleasure. Madelyn’s pleasurable embodiment practice is as simple as getting on your mat for a few minutes each day. It’s through this exact pleasure practice that Madelyn is able to feel the most and to heal the most. Her daily healing practice was more helpful for her than therapy, so she’s delighted to share it with you today. Show notes: This episode is a taste of the Feminine Spirit School. You can sign up HERE. “Because I go so deep into the darkness, so much space is created for the light. The deeper you go, the freer you are with the thing that’s been repressed." Why doing work with your Feminine will bring you more abundance. Sometimes the best phase to say is: “I’m sorry. I'm scared. I care for you.” When you combine all the sounds (moaning, crying, wailing, screaming, lion’s breath) - you clear out the channel to be able to communicate. Going into the angrier pieces of your life allows space for the loving things to be said. Why Madelyn doesn’t believe in spiritual bypassing. What can you tighten in order to get into a state of relaxation? How to set up the container for your embodiment practice Madelyn's beloved Spotify playlist - "Soft Love" HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6X9kntjp5dsa3LTp5gnFOd?si=USxN6uQqTYaaIy_DkpFEAA Connect with Maddy: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moonfitness/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelynmoon/ Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-body-musings-podcast/id866031519?mt=2 Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegift Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/26/2019 • 40 minutes, 41 seconds
Making Your Love Darker and Your Goals Lighter with Dominick Quartuccio
Episode 283: Dominick Quartuccio is an international speaker, executive coach to high-performing men and women in burnout-rich environments. Dominick is an outspoken leader of men doing inner work and co-hosts The Great Man Within Podcast, a high-performing man’s guide to personal development…which ironically has an audience 50% comprised of women. His live event series, The Discerning Dick: Sexual Wisdom for the Modern Man https://www.doinnerwork.com/discerning-dick also attracts an audience of 50% women…who want to support men doing inner work in their sexual lives. He is the author of Design Your Future, 3 Steps to Stop Drifting and Take Command of Your Life http://geni.us/designyourfuture. Dominick Quartuccio runs both men’s retreats https://www.doinnerwork.com/retreats and women’s retreats https://vimeo.com/368040703/23c528b2aa for those looking to intentionally design the next decade of their lives. Dominick’s work has been featured in the NY Times, NPR’s All Things Considered and on the TEDx stage https://www.ted.com/talks/dominick_quartuccio_the_bold_journey_women_want_men_to_take. Show notes: We don’t want to close our hearts. We don’t want to nag. We don’t want to complain. We don’t thrive in states of chronic closure. Madelyn's Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/B5qH9UbnRhA/ “If a man cannot stand up to her, he cannot stand up for her—and she will feel that.” - Dominick Quartuccio “I believe that women are so entirely equal in all value that nothing is taken from us if we choose to surrender to man—not by someone who is unconscious, or in an unsafe container, but by the chosen man.” Why Dominick's romantic partners have been calling for his “dark side.” "Women want to feel your open heart, but they don’t want a soft man. When you just open your heart and not become the conscious warrior, then she loses respect for you— maybe she still loves you, she just doesn’t want to fuck you." The trend with women stepping into more of their feelings. Who Dominick works with: men who are “publicly decorated and privately confused” and women who are successful in male-dominated businesses. The Feminine spirit school is open now - early bird is still available: https://maddymoon.teachable.com/p/feminine-spirit-school Ways that women create their mental toughness and how to surrender. 5 practices to make you a mentally tougher man podcast episode HERE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/5-practices-to-make-you-mentally-tougher-man-dominick/id986223478?i=1000456418279 When to know when you’re at one end of the extreme with your masculine/feminine energy. To bring the balance back, really feel into what is and just listen. How to know the difference between intuition and resistance of doing the work. Any time we set a goal, it’s the feeling that we’re after. If you’re not clear on your feeling with what you’re going after, the very thing that you’re going after may leave you feeling empty. “Success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure.” (Masculine without the Feminine is the failure.) Domicki’s 1-week experiment. Men’s survey - the things that drive men crazy. The importance of revealing pleasure without any words. Connect with Dominick: Website: https://www.doinnerwork.com/ Podcast: https://www.doinnerwork.com/podcast https://www.instagram.com/dominickq/Instagram: Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/18/2019 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 11 seconds
Revealing Your Feminine in a Way He Can Metabolize
Episode 282: Madelyn Moon discusses how to gently reveal the feminine so you can create and embody all the juicy relationships that you desire. Madelyn discloses how to do this using humor, tenderness, and her favorite, sexuality. The feminine must learn how to reveal her energy and emotions in a way that’s connected to her heart. Revealing your feminine and embodying more heartfelt energy allows the masculine to go deeper, leading to the polarized relationship that so many yearn for. This episode also discusses the power of setting ground rules and boundaries. It’s important during this busy time of year to have your practices to help you move through the chaotic energy and just chill the f*ck out. Madelyn reminds you to sit with your thoughts, energy and emotions, and become comfortable with the ebb and flow of this time of year. Show notes: “Revealing your feminine is having an outward and inward demonstration of your emotional current moment to moment.” Feel it in your body first if you want to feel more of your feminine. Touch your yoni; touch your breasts to create more femininity. The most powerful movements that will help to reveal the feminine. Why do we want to reveal our feminine? “If you turn off your grief, you also turn off our joy.” Stop robbing people from their own joy of doing something for you. Your ability to feel things is of service to the masculine in the world. The deeper you go into your feminine, the more he’ll go into his masculine. “Husband” your feminine. “The feminine must learn how to reveal her energy/emotions in a way that’s connected to her heart.” Rather than complaining and using words, use embodiment—use sounds. 3 stages of communication with David Deida episode HERE. Revealing your feminine involves humor, tenderness, sexuality. "If you want to be in a polarized relationship, be willing to do something out of the box, out of the name of love." Be the one to open first when you really want to close. Use less words. We can get more of what we want without using words. Giving what we so desperately want is the best way for him to give you what you want. Why Madelyn no longer uses sarcasm. Remain unattached completely. Reveal your feminine joy. There’s no glory in being a martyr. Notice if you set him up to fail before you give him a chance Notice how he shows up as a reflection of you - “out feminine him” Hold the pose - do it more and more and more. Connect with Maddy: Facebook Instagram Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Download my Four Favorite Feminine Embodiment Practices Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/11/2019 • 55 minutes, 39 seconds
Jillian Richardson: 5 Ways to Create Deep AF Friendships
Episode 281: Jillian Richardson is committed to creating connection and community by organizing places where people feel seen, heard, and valued. As a professional community builder, public speaker, and writer, Jillian is most known for being the founder of The Joy List, a weekly newsletter with the mission of reducing loneliness in New York City and eventually the world. She's been sending it out every Monday morning for three years, helping thousands of people build connection to both place and each other. In addition to her successful career in community consulting and event design, Jillian Richardson has just released her first book and #1 Amazon new release, Unlonely Planet. Show notes: Feminine Spirit School - Create Your Own Feminine Flow, Fire and Freedom HERE How did the Joy List get started? The impact that Donald Trump getting elected had on the Joy List. The average American has 1 close friend. 75% of Americans are not satisfied with their friends that they do have. “I think we don’t have the skills anymore to have deep relationships. We lack the skills it takes to form deep relationships.” Most people are hungry for a deep connection. Why we normally give more emphasis to our romantic relationships than friendships. Soul friend - “Anam Cara” We treat friendships as our secondary values when really they need to be first. Friendships can be just as triggering as our romantic relationships. The signs of a really special relationship. “Hair and nail” friends “When you’re not doing the inner work, the friendship (container) isn’t clear.” Way #1: Let people publically know what you’re looking for. Way #2: Let people know if you want to be in a deep relationship with them. “Consistency is key when it comes to deepening friendships and that requires vulnerability for asking for consistency in the first place.” How do you approach someone who you’re interested in being friends with? Way #3: Volunteer Way #4: find spaces where you can share with strangers. The balance between authenticity and protecting your energy. Way #5: enter generational spaces Jillian’s ideal 4-hour event. What Jillian wants more of in life. Must-read book: Death Over Dinner by Michael Hebb and Anam Cara by John Donahue Connect with Jillian: Website Unlonely Planet: How Healthy Congregations Can Change the World Facebook Instagram - Joy List Instagram - Jillian Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/4/2019 • 1 hour, 16 minutes, 2 seconds
Deciphering Between Intuition and Fear
Episode 280: Do you often resist masculine structure and leadership? Is your body screaming that it isn’t a good fit for you, or is it your fear/ego coming up to keep you safe from going outside your comfort zone? Do you often question whether it’s fear that’s holding you back or your intuition? It can be tricky to navigate structure and leadership with our flow and creativity. It can be difficult to distinguish between a hard “no” and what fear is telling us we should do to keep us safe. It can be challenging to know if it’s our intuition or our laziness that’s keeping us from going on the date, attending the networking event, starting our own business, etc. If you’ve been trying to navigate these waters, listen to this podcast episode as Madelyn explains how she checks in with herself to know whether it’s intuition or fear. She gives you several examples, as well as offers her best tools, so you can easily move forward with processing your decisions with ease. Show notes: We see our own resistance to structure reflected in others. The main reason why we refuse to have someone lead. Why we often reject the masculine container. How to go inward to see how to create your own boundaries. Why your ego is simply trying to keep you safe. The difference between intuition and laziness. We’re often trying to validate not wanting to go to the event we signed up, so we call it "intuition". “Intuition is more instantaneous—it’s not a slow roll.” Madelyn's example of intuition leading. Guidelines on how to go deeper to questioning your fear and getting curious on the why. "We're moving from discipline fatigue to decision fatigue and the balance is to find a middle ground." The necessary barrier around social media. When we don't go to the event you signed up for, you're really saying: “I don’t want to feel uncomfortable so I’m just going to stay home." How to summon in your masculine energy. Purpose-driven (masculine) vs feeling-driven (feminine). Why commitment is hard for feminine beings. "3 circles of commitment” tool. The importance of having a structured detox. “You can have structure around your lack of structure.” Creating structure with a daily practice of giving yourself 30 days off or 30 days on. Feminine Spirit School (your one-stop-shop for all things feminine and masculine energy) begins in January. Learn more HERE. Connect with Maddy: Facebook Instagram Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/27/2019 • 33 minutes, 56 seconds
Courtney Davis: Crystal Wands and Tantric Exploration
Episode 279: Courtney Davis is an entrepreneur and a guide for women on the path of sexual & spiritual awakening. She is the founder of The Empowered Woman, an online platform providing education & high-quality products to support women to heal from sexual shame, trauma, & conditioning while awakening their pleasure & power. Courtney Davis believes in radical self-permission and her highest joy is guiding others to live their full potential by first guiding them home to themselves. She is known for guiding women into reconnection with their emotional body rather than bypassing it, and believes this to be a major key to women’s sexual empowerment. Show notes: Feminine spirit school starting soon Wands that have properties toward sexual healing. Her experience with S-Factor and why she moved to New York City. The foundation of her work and why she got started. The creation of her crystal pleasure wands and how they promote sexual healing. Madelyn’s favorite: the cervix serpent. Madelyn’s deep surrender practice with the serpent wand. Courtney’s experience with receiving a yoni massage from a mentor. How to know who you can trust your body with. Her six-month tantric experience. What is the “trauma vortex?” Courtney's core qualities and why she resonates now with femininity than masculinity. “Anything that is truly uncomfortable, is masculine.” “The whole tantric world is not all bliss.” The self-beliefs that she’s been on a mission to heal and shatter. Why she may move out of the sexual healing space eventually. Her preference for monogamy. “Commitment can create a lot of safety.” “Getting in touch with the deep feminine longing while we wait for our masculine is really beautiful. You meet more of yourself by being present to that.” “It’s a beautiful practice to not have what you really want.” Sensitize yourself to the fact that you don’t have it—allow yourself to be sad and angry. Do not desensitize yourself to that. “The irony is we meet all the uncomfortable parts of us without needing to solve them, the more deeply we can meet another because that capacity is there.” Wands HERE Enter: MADDYMOON for 10% Off Viva La Vagina Course HERE Enter: MADDYMOON for 10% Off Connect with Courtney: Website Instagram Facebook Women-Only Facebook Group: Yoni Pleasure & Awakening Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/20/2019 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 11 seconds
Why Everyone Needs a Coach
Episode 278: Do you want help in going after your dreams—the ones that you feel are totally unobtainable, but keep burning within you? Do you want to get better at the work you do? Do you want to finally take that plunge and move across the world? Whatever your big desire is, hiring a coach can help you obtain in. In this episode, Madelyn Moon discusses why everyone needs a coach to obtain the life you truly desire. Coaches are the reason why people are taking their dreams seriously. When we put down our money to hire a coach and declare to the Universe that we're ready, a beautiful, transformative journey begins. The Universe meets you halfway with your desire and helps you bring your dream to fruition. If you've got a dream—a vision, a burning desire, this podcast episode is for you. Show notes: "Finding expanders in life" - a coined term by Lacy Phillips Madelyn’s journey with her first coach. How Madelyn was able to afford a coach that was out of her price range at the time. Why she coached 20 people for free. “I trust that when things are not perfect—that's the way they're supposed to be.” “Every time I have made an eternal leap, the universe has rewarded me.” Currency is the root word of 'current' - currency is supposed to be flowing. Energetically, when you clamp on your money, you’re clamping on the flow. Money is like germs—you just wash it off and it comes right back. The missing part in manifestation is the action. Sometimes spending money is meeting the universe halfway. The online courses that Madelyn created. Why she finally felt confident to do retreats. Coaches are the reason why people are taking their dreams seriously. “When we’re about to make a change, we’re hyper-aware of the loss.” It’s not about the time that we’re spending with a coach—it's about the impact, which can take place in less than a minute. Must-read: You Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero Must-read: Time Warrior by Steven Chandler Must-read: Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert The art of calendar blocking and how it's changing her workflow. “Because you pay the money, you take the coaching more seriously.” Why Madelyn will forever have a coach and an investment in her life. Email me - [email protected] When you spend an amount that’s larger than what you might normally do, look at all of the reasons why that investment is deeper than the physical amount. Connect with Maddy: Facebook Instagram Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/13/2019 • 48 minutes, 49 seconds
Three Stages of Communication from David Deida
Episode 277: In this podcast episode, Madelyn Moon helps you to understand the three stages of communication introduced by David Deida. According to David Deida, an international teacher and author, there are 3 stages of relating. These stages govern how we share our desires and feelings in this world with the most important people in our life. Madelyn has been living her life by these stages of communication for the past two years. She's becoming more empowered and embodied by this work, leading to deeper, fulfilling relationships, as well as more fun and a playful nature. She's never taught this information before as she wanted to fully become immersed it in well enough to articulate it, but it's time she passes this juicy information on to you to transform and heal your current relationships. Through this brief introduction and the several examples that she gives, you'll understand how to love deeper, express yourself fully and give your greatest gifts in your relationships. Show notes: Stage 1: Archetype - The 1960's submissive housewife and the macho breadwinner. This stage is what we experience most of the time in this world. It's our old wounds/trauma being reenacted over and over. "Repressed, shut-down archetype" — we're given a role and we have to stick with it. “Withholding is not how we create loving, deep partnership.” How to share your truth so that the person is magnetized by you. Stage 2: Archetype - The working girl and the sensitive boy. “I” statements—speaking from your perspective. "When this happened, I felt..." Very communicative… you feel a trigger and you’re upfront about it. Stage 3: Archetype - the radiant goddess and the warrior of love. You bring your gift of creativity and embodiment to your partner— you take the focus off of you. This is where polarity comes from. Masculine’s nervous system is really thick because they’ve had years of being desensitized. Example: wanting your partner to help you clean. Feminine: there’s never enough love. Masculine: there’s always so many burdens. “Give the thing that you would like to receive.” How to make people-pleasing light and fun: “I’m a very bad girl.” Masculine Haka dance HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook Instagram Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/6/2019 • 33 minutes, 53 seconds
Death As An Ally to Love with Dr. Jordana Jacobs
Episode 276: Dr. Jordana Jacobs is a clinical psychologist in private practice in New York City. Her approach is integrative, combining psychodynamic and existential therapy into her treatment of patients. Dr. Jacobs’ training at Memorial Sloan Kettering working with terminally ill cancer patients, her studies in Northern India, and her Vipassana meditation practice inspired her research on the complex relationship between death awareness and love. Her dissertation, entitled “Till Death do us Part: The Effect of Mortality Salience on Satisfaction in Long-term Romantic Relationships” specifically explored the ways in which priming for death has the potential to increase intimacy in partnerships. In addition to seeing patients, Dr. Jordana Jacobs now gives talks and leads meditations aimed towards helping people accept inevitable mortality so that they are able to live and love more fully. Show notes:Must-read book: On life After Death by Elizabeth Kubler-RossEmbodied Archetype Retreat: Unlock parts of yourself that you've been shaming, blaming or hiding for too long. Apply here.Feminine Spirit School - the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! HEREDr. Jordana Jacob’s background that led her to this impactful work.The destructive narratives that we tell ourselves about death.Why thinking we might go to hell is still preferable to many people rather than the unknown.The incredible story of her great aunt who survived the holocaust with false papers who was in love with a German officer. Why death was incredibly helpful to think about when she was going through heartbreak.“Death is an anchor.”Death is really about surrender and lack of control.Esther Perel - “Fire meets air.”Buddhist parable: real flowers vs plastic flowers.“The more you try to stop it, the more it will come.”“Anything we cling to is a form of attachment.”What Dr. Jordana Jacob says to people who have a tremendous fear of death.“Fear and love can’t live in the same house.” Bobby Klein Two questions to ask at the end of your life: Am I love and did I love?The pure, unconditional love we have for animals and how to process their deaths.What Dr. Jordana Jacob thinks happens when we die.The importance of “death reminders.”“You have to think about death 5 times a day in order to live fully.”Death reminder app HEREHer written exercise to put death into perspective.“We live 2 lives, and the second one begins when we realize we only have one.” - Confucius If you act out of fear, you speed up your life.“Presence is where we access love.”“Dating: We’re doing it wrong” article HEREMust read: Let's Talk About Death Over Dinner by Michael Hebb and The 5 Invitations by Frank Ostaseski Connect with Dr. Jordana Jacobs:InstagramWebsiteAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/30/2019 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 21 seconds
Disappearing in the Name of Self-Love is Bullsh*t!
Episode 275: Self-love memes can have quite an impact on us—both positively and negatively. This podcast episode is all about debunking popular "inspirational" self-love memes that float around the interwebs. We normally think of memes as relatively harmless, but they're often used to propagate ideas and influence thoughts in our culture, which can be dangerous when you don't take the time to truly pay attention to what's behind the words. Madelyn Moon is stepping on her soapbox to talk about one self-love meme in particular that got her attention recently. The meme states, "If I disappear on you, it's out of self-love." She discusses why this meme is incredibly toxic to our psyche. She explains why popular memes such as this can cause dissonance, wounds, and even trauma for people. Show notes: 8-week Feminine Spirit School Course gets started January 6th: Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up HERE. Embodied Archetype Retreat with Jamie Wollrab HERE How to identify when a commitment is something you should let go of. "The 3 questions to ask yourself for fierce self-honesty" episode HERE Why we shouldn't give so much power to our feelings. Why Madelyn doesn’t agree with a lot of self-love memes and why they’re harmful. An explanation of the 3 different attachment styles. Saying that you’re going to disappear is actually saying: “I have no idea how I feel and I'm completely uncomfortable with my desires in this relationship." Anyone who is disappearing on someone is coming from a place of not knowing how to articulate their feelings—not wanting to feel uncomfortable with that conversation and show their true vulnerability. Why we’re confusing what boundaries are in our society. Madelyn’s anxious attachment style. “Many people are saying no to things that have the deepest possibility for growth, in the name of self-love—they're canceling friendships, relationships, plans.” Sefl-love and self-care is a way we hide. “If you emotionally withdrawal, you are not serving anyone.” The actual vulnerability is not disappearing; it’s speaking your needs. The right person for you is going to feel like the wrong person at some point. The crucial importance of speaking what you need in your relationships. Disappearing is not an act of self-love, outside of the realm of abuse. What real, vulnerable communication is. If the world had more closure, there would be a lot less trauma. The process and Madelyn's example of creating closure. Connect with Maddy: Facebook Instagram Subscribe on Apple Podcast Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/23/2019 • 38 minutes, 35 seconds
King, Warrior, Magician, Lover with Amir Khalighi
Episode 274: Amir Khalighi has been working with men for past 25 years. He is the founder of EmbodiedMasculine.com, a movement dedicated to training and empowering men to live purpose-driven lives. He is a men’s coach, speaker, teacher and artist. He is also the founder of BelovedPoetry.com, an online space dedicated to sharing the works of such masters of love as Rumi, Hafez, Kabir, Neruda and others. Show notes:Feminine Spirit School - Early bird pricing is open now! Click HEREA few spots remain for the Embodied Archetype Retreat with Jamie Wollrab Apply HEREAmir’s latest musing.Why it’s incredibly healing for the masculine to go into nature.Masculine is on this quest constantly to get things done and all he wants is his burdens to go away.If you're in the business of teaching or spiritual evolution, you have to be in touch with Her (nature.)When men are faced with women, you are both in awe and fear.“Fear of the Feminine and the Amazon Fires” Elephant Journal article HEREThe disconnect and destruction that the masculine consumes.Psychologist Robert Moore took the concept of Jung’s archetypes and used it to create a framework that explained the development of mature and integral masculinity in men. Amir discusses the 4 masculine archetypes (King, Warrior, Magician and Lover) and their shadow counterparts.Armir explains what an archetype is and how every man has these fibers within him. He either fully expresses them or they become shadows.The King is the seat of the power The King is the masculine equivalent of the Great Mother. The Warrior is decisive and acts with authority in serving his king or higher self.The Magician is associated with mystery, alchemy and transformation. The Magician is a thinker; an intuitive. The Lover embodiment is artist and brings humanity to the other archetypes.Your air is something you take in every single day, every moment, so why not have it be the purest possible? For 10% off your first air purifier order, go to molekule.com and enter code MADDYMOON at check out!Embodying Archetypes with Jamie Wollrab HERE“I’m a queen looking for a king.” - Madelyn MoonFor someone who wants a king, what does a person need to expect and know?How Amir and his wife create a beautiful, harmonious relationship and the ways she holds space for him.What happens when the warrior goes into his shadow“If it’s not connected to the heart, it’s abuse.”His experience with being an actor and the similarities with embodiment work.“Everything serves our journey forward.” Connect with Amir:WebsiteInstagramFacebook Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/16/2019 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 30 seconds
The Significance of Your Name with Gahl Sasson
Episode 273: Gahl Sasson is an established author and has been teaching workshops on Storytelling, Kabbalah, Astrology, and Mysticism around the globe for over 20 years. His first book, A Wish Can Change Your Life, has been translated into over eight languages and is endorsed by HH the 14th Dalai Lama. His second work, Cosmic Navigator, is the essential reference guide to understanding your astrological makeup. He recently published a book on the astrology of 2018 and 2019. He is a contributor to the Huffington Post, and Astrology.com, and has been named “Los Angeles’ Best Astrologer” by W Magazine. He is a guest lecturer at USC, Tel Aviv University, and teaches at Esalen, Omega Institute, University of Judaism, and the Open Center in NYC. He has appeared on CNN, ABC News, KTLA-TV Los Angeles to name a few. In 2017 his academic article, Symbolic Meaning of Names in the Bible was published by the Journal of Storytelling, Self, & Society. He currently resides in Los Angeles but gives seminars and workshops regularly in over 13 countries. His web site is www.CosmicNavigator.com Show notes: Candor is a company fiercely devoted to being radically honest. Madelyn’s go-to morning beverage is their nootropic Matcha Coconut drink: it warms up her spirit and provides sustainable energy throughout her entire workday. Go to www.choosecandor.com/maddy and use code “MADDY10” for 10% off your next order.Embodied Archetype Retreat: Learn how to integrate your “shadow sides” so that they not only feel welcomed in your life but they also create more love, peace and feminine/masculine harmony. Apply here.Feminine Spirit School: this school is the one-stop-shop for all things feminine energy! Learn about the feminine/masculine, shadow sides, ancestral healing, boundary setting, empowerment, sensuality and sexuality, sovereignty and so much more. Sign up here.The significance of Gahl's name.The significant impact that Gahl's name has had in his life. In America, roughly 50% of the most popular names are from the Bible.Different spellings of your names have different energies, but they all carry the same story.When debating what to do in life, it’s important to ask: what would your name do?Your name is cross-cultural. When things are repeated amongst cultures, we need to pay attention.What lies behind your name contains all of your DNA. What do you do if you’re named after someone you don’t like?Your name is the most important word in your life and is what creates the most emotion for you.What do nicknames do to our souls?People who don’t like their names normally have a problem with themselves — there is a part of themselves that they're denying. How Gahl feels about people changing their names. Transgender and changing your name.Gahl's story of how he almost had a different name.Does Gahl believe in coincidences?Having a strong connection to naming your children a particular name.The significance of the Lord of the Rings’ names.Are last names as important as first names?Must-read book: Circe by Madeline Miller Connect with Gahl:New York City EventNewsletter SignupWebsite Facebook Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 9 seconds
Not Belonging, Feeling 'Safe' and Softening Edges
Episode 272: Madelyn Moon was recently interviewed by Sam Asser of the Inner Experience Podcast. Madelyn enjoyed this episode so much that we wanted to share it with all of you. Madelyn and Sam discuss what it means to feel safe to be in your feminine essence as a modern-day woman. They discuss why receiving help can be so hard and how mainstream society plays a huge part in this struggle. They also talk about how to let go of perfection and soften your edges physically (and energetically) to begin to create change and a deeper connection to yourself. It's a juicy episode that they both enjoyed so much that they kinda forgot they were recording. Show notes: Candor is a company fiercely devoted to being radically honest. Madelyn's go-to morning beverage is their nootropic Matcha Coconut drink: it warms up her spirit and provides sustainable energy throughout her entire workday. Go to www.choosecandor.com/maddy and use code "MADDY10" for 10% off your next order. Masculine and feminine polarity work and intimacy offers you the depth of relationships and friendships that is possible. “To really feel safe in your feminine, you have to be really close to your masculine.” How to set goals that are nourishing and feminine. Madelyn was raised to be aggressive and driven and why she’s grateful for that. "It is such a gift to be seen as weak." The damage that comes from “doing it all.” Madelyn’s disconnection from her feminine and how she reclaimed it. Her need for perfection, wanting to be "one of the guys," and her toxic masculinity. How to energetically and physically soften your edges. “When we embody softness in our body, we energetically begin to embody softness.” How she creates art out of things that upset her. How do you find the blend between expressing form your heart and show/performance? How Madelyn moved out of perfection. What it means to be in your ‘messy’ feminine. Why Madelyn is really bad at friendships and is learning to be okay with that. How to feel a trigger and also feel pleasure in your body. Connect with Maddy: Facebook Instagram Subscribe to podcast on iTunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/2/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 52 seconds
Dishing Out the Science of Sexual Fantasies with Dr. Justin Lehmiller
Episode 271: Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life.Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 40 academic works to date, including a textbook entitled The Psychology of Human Sexuality (now in its second edition) that is used in college classrooms around the world. His research focuses on topics including casual sex, sexual fantasy, sexual health, and friends with benefits. His studies have appeared in all of the leading journals on human sexuality, including the Journal of Sex Research, Archives of Sexual Behavior, and The Journal of Sexual Medicine.Show notes: Candor is a company fiercely devoted to being radically honest. Madelyn's go-to morning beverage is their nootropic Matcha Coconut drink: it warms up her spirit and provides sustainable energy throughout her entire workday. Go to www.choosecandor.com/maddy and use code "MADDY10" for 10% off your next order.Dr. Justin Lehmiller led the largest sexual fantasy study in the United States with 4,000 people.What led him to do this research?What are paraphilias? Where does sexual fantasy shame originate from?What is allowing for sexual openness in more recent times?Dr. Justin Lehmiller's religious thoughts and background.2-3% of people don’t have any sexual fantasies.The way we perceive ourselves in our own fantasies and why we change ourselves.Women typically don’t put as much emphasis on the other people in their fantasies, whereas men do.Women see themselves as the object of desire, whereas men see themselves as acting on their desire.Women often don’t see a specific person in their fantasies—women just want to be desired.Heterosexual women often have fantasies about being with other women.The research around threesomes and why they’re the most popular sexual fantasy. Sexual fantasy vs. sexual desire How to determine when we want to act upon a sexual fantasy.Common sexual fantasies—including sex in public places, fetishes, the rap fantasy. How do you navigate the rape fantasy situation when you’re actually a victim of rape?Generally, people enjoy sexual submission more than sexual dominance.Defining: “consensual non-consent”Most people are fantasizing about the same things.People who share their fantasies generally are happier and healthier in their relationships.Connect with Justin:WebsiteTwitterFacebook Book: Tell Me What You WantAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/25/2019 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 22 seconds
The 3 Questions to Ask Yourself for Fierce Self-Honesty
Fierce self-honesty is a huge part of our personal growth and critical to living life as a sovereign being. It's essential to check in with ourselves often to see if we're operating as an empowered being, or if we're trying to manipulate and control others to get what we want. Madelyn Moon discusses the three fierce burning questions that you should ask yourself moment-to-moment in life and love. These powerful questions will help you to determine whether you're coming from a place of sovereignty or if you're coming from a conditional place. Let these three questions be your guiding light as to how to proceed with the special moments in your life. Show notes: Question 1: Is this going to bring me closer or further from being a vessel? Question 2: If I don’t get the response from them that I want or expect, will I still be glad I did it or asked? Question 3 (part 1): Suppose her complaint about her lack of attention never ends, what would you need to do to be okay with that? Question 3 (part 2): Suppose his attention or feeling of burden never ends, what would you need to do in order to be okay with that? Bonus question: What would a queen (or insert another archetype) do? The masculine and feminine perspective from David Deida Must-read book: Dear Lover by David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida, and Calling in the One Masculine feels burdened by life. Feminine doesn’t feel enough love. Her convo with model, Ali Tate-Cutler, about being bitchy. 3-part Polarity Podcast Episodes: Part 1, Part 2, Part 3 Free Gift: Four 10-Minute Practices for Feminine Embodiment HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook Instagram Subscribe to podcast on iTunes Download my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/18/2019 • 35 minutes, 13 seconds
Corinna Rosella: White Privilege, Manifestation and Casually Saying Tribe
Episode 269: Corinna Rosella is a writer, herbalist and tarot reading practitioner based in Joshua Tree, CA. Born in rural Humboldt County, California, some of her earliest childhood memories were of making friends with the flowers and trees growing in the vacant lots behind her house, and sitting in her dad’s vegetable garden. Most of Corinna’s adult life was spent working in social services and community-based non-profits, with gardening and cannabis jobs on the side. In her mid-twenties, she picked up her first tarot deck and started learning by reading for others and herself. Corinna also spent more than 3 years in Latin America, including more than 2 years living in Oaxaca city working as an ESL teacher, and lived a short while in Barcelona studying Global Health at the University. In 2015 she ended up back in Humboldt County, working in the health care system and attained her master’s degree in Applied Anthropology, all the while cultivating more than 30 medicinal plants in her backyard- prompting her to start making herbal medicine to give to friends and community members In early 2018, Corinna Rosella made rise up! good witch her full-time job. Her background in community organizing, social work, health education and research greatly informs the work she does with herbalism, tarot, her writing and the rise up! good witch podcast. Show notes: Corinna Rosella’s relationship with making healing plant medicine. Our responsibility for acknowledging our history, especially in the spiritual community. “We are all in a deep learning process of how to be better.” The reality of having “the racial conversation” in order to grow. The meme background that Corinna created: “Maybe you manifested it, or maybe it’s white privilege.” “It is important that we all understand that pretty much none of us are self-made.” Corinna Rosella’s stance on manifestation. Being able to let go of the ownership of something and knowing that all ideas pass through us. Why it's okay to feel uncomfortable talking about white privilege. How to educate ourselves on the current news, but not get wrapped into the negativity. “In general, if something doesn't affect us, that's our privilege. We have the privilege to ignore it. And if we want to see systemic change, if we want to see collective healing, what we have to do is open our eyes.” Corinna’s recommendations: Good Ancestor Podcast with Layla Saad Sharon Holmes Rachel Rickets - Spiritual Activism 101: Anti-Racism Webinar Marisa de la Pena When to speak up and when to listen. Making sure that the full moon circles in practices are not contributing harm to communities of color or indigenous cultures. The importance of using plants from our own lineage. White sage and palo santo are being overharvested. The word “tribe, gypsy, spirit animal” should not be used by white people—it’s not respectful. Corinna’s recommendations to get in touch with your ancestry. If Woman Rose Rooted by Sharon Blackie “It's only through discomfort that we have room to grow and change.” Must-read book: Killing the Black Body by Dorothy Roberts Connect with Corinna Rosella: Website Instagram Podcast Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/11/2019 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 22 seconds
Embodying Archetypes Through Voice
Episode 268: Every human has shadow sides that can rule their reality if they aren’t accepted and integrated into their life. In this powerful episode, Embodiment teachers Madelyn Moon and Jamie Wollrab discuss real examples of how embodying shadows will change your life— as well as your family, your business, your trauma and how you feel about yourself. Madelyn and Jamie offer their profound insight into the work they've done to heal their shadows/trauma by embracing the part of themselves that they didn't want others to see. "Whatever is touched and experienced fully, dissolves." Once we fully feel into our shadows—the bitch, the slut, the bully, etc, they break apart and dissolve. Madelyn and Jamie explain the process they'll be leading at the retreat in November to embody your shadows to unlock greater freedom, self-expression, love and empowerment. Through chakra clearing, vocal work, embodiment and polarity work, you'll leave the event forever beautifully changed. Show notes: “Until we bring the unconscious mind into the conscious mind, it will rule our lives and we will call it fate.” The process and power of giving our inner critic a voice so it doesn’t run/ruin our lives. Jamie's acting student who had a rich embodiment experience with her shadow. The thing we want to hide from everyone is what will restore us. We are only as light as we are dark. When we embrace our flaws, it actually augments the light side of us. What is actually the shadow? The metaphor of the shadow and a castle to help you understand this work. The bitch and slut archetypes and why they aren't bad. Reclaiming your inner bitch and slut. “We are all wounded healers.” The embodiment process of embracing parts of you that you don’t want others to see. It's okay to be a teacher and to say "I don't know." Let Rooted Lyfe help you create your own at-home oasis using their tinctures, topicals, bath bombs, and their newly launched Cellulose Sheet mask. Save 10% off your purchase by using coupon code MADDY10 at rootedlyfe.com. Rooted Lyfe Podcast Episode with Danielle Smith HERE Channeling Joan of Arc and Kali. Whatever is touched fully, dissolves—once we fully feel it, it breaks apart. Jamie's issues with his father and how he processed through his shadow. The art of dissonance. The Embodied Archetype Retreat: Giving a Voice to the Hidden Shadow, November 15-17, 2019. Apply HERE. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/4/2019 • 44 minutes, 20 seconds
Get Your Period Back by Healing Judgments Towards the Feminine
Episode 267: Has your period ever gone missing for months at a time? Did you jump for joy for a second? Not having to deal with cramps, tampons and all the other period nonsense can be nice... for a bit... until it causes panic, frustration and utter confusion wondering where exactly 'it' went. And you might be doing all the right things—eating the right food, getting plenty of sleep, upping your calories, moderately exercising, etc. and yet you're still struggling with not receiving your monthly cycle. So, what gives? In this podcast episode, Madelyn discusses the link between getting your period back and your feminine essence. Madelyn believes that you can do all the right things, but until you're content with being a feminine creature, your period will be aloof. This connection is so important that it's been Madelyn's experience that you won't get your period back until you focus on connecting to your feminine core. Show notes: LOLA is a female-founded company offering a line of organic cotton tampons, pads, liners and all-natural cleansing wipes. For 40% off your first-month subscription, visit mylola.com and enter MADDYMOON when you subscribe! How different cultures, religion, and family treat having your period. The impact of how you’re treated at the very moment you get your period. “It’s because of this beautiful system {having a monthly cycle}, that allows every human being you see to exist.” The beautiful ways that we’re starting to celebrate this experience. The important connection towards getting your period back and your feminine essence. Maddy’s experience of losing her cycle 5-6 times. The additional factors that can cause missing your period: overexercising, undereating, stressed, etc. The badge of honor that Maddy felt with losing her period. Understanding the power within your cycle. Maddy’s intense healing when she lost her period for a year. "How I Got My Period Back by Eating a Sandwich" podcast HERE “The feminine is wisdom. Wisdom lives in the body. The masculine is knowledge. Knowledge lives in the mind.” Creativity comes from your root chakra—the portal of birth. When your yoni/cervix is in a good space, you’re going to be creative and you’re listening to your body more. Your period wants to be honored in her fullness—she wants to know you’ll always be there for her. The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron The Wild Women’s Way by Michaela Boehm If you shun your wound space, how is she ever going to want to open, to release? The shift of being grateful for your period and the cleansing experience of it. How Madelyn now views her period. Speak kindly to your yoni—use your body to show how you feel and your body will feel it. You have the power to evoke your period simply by saying she’s safe to arrive. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/28/2019 • 43 minutes, 59 seconds
The Difference Between Twin Flames and Soul Mates with Cheryl Muir
Episode 266: Cheryl Muir is a catalyst for twin flame healing and ascension. After meeting her twin in 2017 and navigating her own Dark Night of the Soul, Cheryl noticed the lack of practical and helpful information out there on navigating the twin flame journey. Fusing the traditional with the spiritual, Cheryl's healing modalities include coaching, guided meditations, intuitive chanelled messages as well as her own twin flame teachings. Cheryl has been featured by the BBC, The Huffington Post, Elephant Journal and Tiny Buddha, as well as the Plenty of Fish and Go Dates blogs. To find out more about Cheryl's work and how she can help you, visit www.cherylmuir.com.Show notes:To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HEREHow Cheryl met her twin flame, the journey they embarked on, and the intense triggers that continued for 18 months.How Cheryl knew he was her twin flame.What is a twin flame and why are they here?An explanation of the “dark night of the soul” and what this means if you’re going through it.Deciphering between soul mates and twin flames.Cheryl’s thoughts on getting married to your twin flame.“Twin flames are here for lessons and soul mates are here for blessings.”You only have one twin flame. They're your mirror and your biggest trigger.“Heal what hurts.”The bubble analogy (her download depiction) of a twin flame.Maddy’s experience with her twin flame.“We heal through connection; we don’t heal through isolation.”Problems arise when we start to put hierarchy above the other types of relationships.Not everyone has a twin flame and not everyone meets their twin flames in this lifetime.For some people, it’s not necessary for them to meet their twin flame.We shouldn’t expect a certain behavior based on the relationship label we put on them.“It’s so dangerous to think that there's one person to complete you.”Twin flames are not here to make you feel terrible—twin flames should still make you feel emotionally safe.Connect with Cheryl:WebsiteFacebookTwitterInstagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/14/2019 • 58 minutes, 46 seconds
Body Image and Exercise Five Years Post-Bodybuilding
Episode 265: It's not a secret that Madelyn Moon suffered from disordered eating and body dysmorphia for years. Her story has been featured in many podcasts and mainstream publications—just Google search "Madelyn Moon and binge eating" and a whole host of options appear. However, how she currently feels about her body/food/exercise is not something she's openly discussed for a bit, so this episode is an inside glimpse into where she's at on her healing journey. She doesn't just tiptoe around this body image topic in this episode either—she lets you know exactly what her workouts and food choices look like now. She answers your burning questions, including—do you still struggle with disordered eating? Are your workouts planned? How is your diet structured? How do you go into the real world and date? Even though this is an old topic for her and something she's discussed a million times, this episode is a fresh take on where she's at now and is not to be missed if you've struggled with a poor body image. Show notes: Four 10-Minute Practices for Feminine Embodiment HERE Madelyn's background with fitness and her body image. She built a physical armor by body-building to convince herself she was a guy as she saw nothing special about being a woman. The "bad" body image days that she still experiences. Her "creature of habit" daily diet. Why she still knows around how many calories she eats. “I’m all about sugar. I am not someone at all that limits it.” The extreme hunger that she experienced when she was recovering. Podcast episodes around binge eating HERE Her junk food love and waffle sandwiches The current relationship that she has with her body. Her tip about ab checks. Why she hardly ever weighs herself. Why she thinks there’s too much focus put on intuitive eating and what she thinks is more important. “Intuition is important. It’s not everything.” “I have released resistance around food because I have released resistance around me.” By accepting the shadow, food becomes nothing. Modcloth Offer - only valid for a limited time. To get 15% off your purchase of $100 or more INCLUDING all sale items, go HERE and enter code MADDYMOON at checkout. Hurry to get an extra 15% off on all sale items through the end of August. Madelyn's exercise - how often she exercises and what kind of exercise. Why food is more important to her than workouts. This particular practice she has been doing for the last 2 years. How she deals with weight gain. If you’re taking something out, you want to fill it in with something. How to embody more feminine energy with your movement. Her current struggles with disordered eating. Panic moments with eating out. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/7/2019 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 15 seconds
Messy Love, Sovereign Sexuality and Healing in All Relationships with Alexandra Roxo
Episode 264: Alexandra Roxo is a transformational mentor, healer, writer, and artist who is extremely passionate about empowering women. Her writing on personal growth and female empowerment, the divine feminine resurgence, moon ritual, and modern spirituality can be read on Girl Boss.com, Teen Vogue, Mind Body Green, and Playboy. She has been featured in many publications for her deep, sensual, and raw approach to healing and transformation, and has also been named a "modern spiritual leader" by Well + Good.Her 15 years of meditation practice and moon ritual is what inspired her to create Moon Club as a place to gather for deep sharing and deep practice relating to the internal spiritual journey. She is working on her first book with the publisher Sounds True, out in early 2020 and will be leading retreats in 2019 at 1440 Multiversity, Kripalu Center, and Maha Rose Mexico and enjoying life between NYC and LA!Show notes:3 spots left! Sign up for Maddy's 4-week women's coaching group to explore sacred feelings, shadow sides, feminine and masculine embodiment and archetypes. To register, send tuition to 'maddymoon' on Venmo.What happens when we clench our jaw and how it’s connected to our emotions.How Alexandra's body feels before she hosts a ceremonial retreat and her grounding rituals.How to be a transmutation chamber for other people’s shit.“I definitely don’t recommend everyone being a healer or practitioner of energy without really deeply knowing yourself and without knowing your own wounds.” Why it took her 15 years of doing plant medicine and holistic healing before she taught it publicly.The 4-year-old hiatus that she took from relationships to heal her own wounds.A new perspective on having a relationship “work out."Changing the old paradigm of having it all together in relationships.The liberation of being a “messy lover” and clearing and healing yourself.If you're a teacher in the world, you cannot hold back the dark parts. Previous podcast episode with Laya Martin HERE.It’s a lie that once you meet “your person” that everything is great.Maddy’s block with not being able to be physical with a man when she's not in a relationship.Maddy’s tantric experience and going to a play party."Sex energy is the highest magic."Why Alexandra no longer enters into the space of playing with sex magic if she’s not in a relationship.Whatever wounds you have come out in the sex energy field.“If you’re interested in having a beautiful sexual experience, have them with yourself.”You have to be in a great relationship with your body or your pussy and heart will close.Must-read book: Dear Lover by David Deida Alexandra's Sex Life Season: Voyeuristic documentary series about titillating sexual and erotic experiences HERE A free month of Moon Club HEREConnect with Alexandra: Alexandra Roxo's InstagramWe Are Moon Club InstagramAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/31/2019 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 27 seconds
Everything Human Design with Karen Curry Parker
Episode 263: Karen Curry Parker is a best-selling author of multiple books, creator of the Human Design for Everyone Training System(TM), and the Quantum Alignment System. She has been speaking, coaching, training and podcasting on these topics for almost 30 years, touching close to 10,000 lives around the world. Her core mission is to help people live the life they were designed to live by discovering who we are, what we are here to do and how to activate our potential and our life path.With degrees in both nursing and journalism, Karen began her work as a midwife and also launched her own publishing company. Upon the birth of her own children, she focused on coaching and educating parents. She then studied advanced energy psychology techniques such as EFT and Belief Point Energy Re-Patterning and Human Design.She blended her nursing training with her training in Human Design and Energy Psychology techniques to create a leading-edge coach training program called the Quantum Alignment System. She is currently pursuing her PhD in Integrative Health and working on her new book, "Quantum Creativity".Karen’s work has been featured on Fox News, Bloomberg Businessweek, CBS, ABC, and various radio shows and tele-summits.Show notes:For 25% off your first Care/of order, go to TakeCareOf.com and enter the code MADDYMOON at checkout!What is human design and why is it relevant to today?Each personal chart contains the code for every human story living on the planet right now. Our Human Design chart is not a predictive tool and it's not particularly spiritual—it’s an energy map. Human Design can tell you how you sleep, how you work, what’s important for you to have healthy relationships, who you are, what your purpose is, who you be, what you’re here to give back and so much more.There are 5 different energy types: Manifestor, Manifesting Generator, Generator, Reflector, Projector. Each energy type comes with different challenges and a different role that they play."We’re not trained to do what feels right and we don’t often follow the path that is right for our individual selves."Why reflectors are often sad about being a reflector.Maddy is a Projector and it shows in her chart that she’s definitely here to be different.What is an incarnation cross and how does it show your life story?"When you’re being the fullest expression of who you are, you are here to transform the way people perceive themselves."What is a G-center?The crucial art of pacing yourself in this fast-paced world. What Maddy’s chart says about food and exercise.Why hydration is important for Maddy.Why habits, consistency, and rhythm aren’t necessarily good for everyone.Previous Human Design episode HERE Sign up for my 4-week women's coaching group (10 queens, give or take) to explore sacred feelings, shadow sides, feminine and masculine embodiment and archetypes. To register, send tuition to 'maddymoon' on Venmo.Connect with Karen:FacebookInstagramYouTubeGet Your Self-Discovery KitGet Your Free Human Design Chart - FREEAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/24/2019 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 40 seconds
Embarrassment for Being a Black Sheep
Episode 262: Feeling like a "black sheep" in your circle of friends and/or with your family can feel incredibly painful. Maybe you dress differently than your family members; maybe you talk or sound differently; maybe you don't think as conservatively as your family; maybe your life choices have simply gone against the grain from others around you. Whatever your situation may be, it can be very painful to feel like an outcast from those around you. In this episode, Madelyn offers us a fresh perspective on feeling like a "black sheep." She discusses her experience with feeling different from those in her family unit and how to shift your perspective to see this as a gift to your soul and to the world. You will learn how to best handle this experience so you can feel empowered and confident with those around you. Show notes: Madelyn addresses a listener's question about embodiment and embarrassment. Feminine Spirit School Waitlist HERE What does it mean to be the "black sheep" of the family? Madelyn’s experience with being personally bullied and attacked growing up. Fear of being embarrassed holds us back — learn how to release its hold. “The emotions that come up with feeling embarrassment are the emotions that you want to move through.” Our stories from the past have created the shadows we have today. How we have learned from society what we should be embarrassed about. "If you feel that you’re different from the rest of your family, trust that your soul knew what it was doing when it reincarnated into your family." Why Madelyn often attracts people who don’t feel understood. Learning to love yourself for being the black sheep and how to unconditionally love those people that don’t understand you. "We need to understand that when we go down a different path than what our family is going through, they’re going through their own experience." How to stay in our own lane and not make anyone else wrong for not understanding us. Remaining committed to your why will keep you in your own lane. Madelyn’s experience with going to Asia and her family disapproving. We are our own source of approval. Let that be enough. Getting stuck in our heads is the exact opposite of embodiment. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/17/2019 • 39 minutes, 21 seconds
Embodiment for the Modern Woman
Episode 261: Madelyn Moon shares exactly what embodiment is and how it can help us reclaim our authentic power. By cultivating a daily embodiment practice, we're able to release old trauma from the body and begin a healing journey back to ourselves. In this episode, Madelyn explains why embodiment is the foundation of her coaching practice, as well as her daily life. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE Create 1-3 goals that you’d like to see come into fruition around friendships/community, career, financial self-care and adventure. Why Madelyn will be doing more solo podcast episodes. A definition of embodiment and Madelyn's example of stepping into the energy of a queen. Having awareness is a form of embodiment. How to summon your power and stop playing small. The discomfort that a feminine being feels from masculine energy. "Embodiment is about how to get back into the body when we’ve been taught to be in our head." The gift of embodiment and what it provides for us. How trauma is stored in the body over time and how to heal it. Must-read book: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D. Madelyn's gets emotional when she connects into the pain that we as humans feel daily. How to find where in your body your heartbreak is stored. "Too often we think our way into embodiment." A big key to embodiment is trusting. How embodiment goes hand in hand with feminine and masculine energy. How to use embodiment to access the shadow side of yourself. Reclaiming the “sacred slut, oracle, queen” archetypes and using embodiment as a tool to access different parts of ourselves. The range of healing that embodiment provides. Using embodiment to create sexual polarity. Accessing Courtney Love’s energy as a healthy shadow side. Archetypes can be anything — it's safe and okay to do your day to day activities as anything you wish. The Embodied Archetype: Giving a Voice to the Hidden Shadow with Jamie Wollrab and Madelyn Moon HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/10/2019 • 46 minutes, 22 seconds
Hooking Up As a Sovereign and Spiritual Woman
Episode 260: Madelyn Moon answers your deepest questions regarding hooking up and remain a sovereign woman who is fiercely devoted to her spiritual practice. How open should you be with your significant other? How do you engage in just a physical relationship safely when you're in a healing space? How do you stay true to your spiritual growth while being open to love? Madelyn also opens up about where she is currently in her personal life and how she navigates polarity and sexual friction. Show notes: The Embodied Archetype: Giving a Voice to the Hidden Shadow Workshop with Jamie Wollrab more info HERE Why embodying new characters/roles/actors, helps us to heal old wounds. Where Madelyn is at in her personal life with sovereign relationships. Her sacred and structured dating app cleanse. Her craving for a divine masculine figure in her life. The truthful lovebomb that Madelyn's friend gave her that provided insight into her love life. Madelyn addresses: How open should you be with your significant other? An example of how to talk to your significant other when you’re feeling vulnerable. A good question to ask yourself: “How open are you with you?” How to keep polarity and sexual friction alive. Madelyn addresses: How do I engage in just physical relationship safely when I'm in a healing space? A relationship can’t just be physical. There are going to be emotions and it’s important to make that okay. “Get really clear on what you are a yes to and what you are a no to. Every time you are being sexually intimate and penetrated by another person, their consciousness is penetrating you. What man is in so much integrity that he gets the honor to lead you? Does his integrity inspire and scare you? Your healing process is always completely is 100% about your ability to love. Madelyn addresses: How do I stay true to my spiritual growth while being open to love? Love is the deepest spiritual practice. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/3/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 4 seconds
Getting Sober Curious with Ruby Warrington
Episode 259: Ruby Warrington is a British lifestyle writer and former features editor of the Sunday Times Style supplement. She is the creator of The Numinous, an online magazine that bridges the gap between the mystical and the mainstream, and the cofounder of “sober curious” event series Club SÖDA NYC, and Moon Club, an online mentoring program for spiritual activists. She lives in Brooklyn, New York, with her husband, Simon.Show notes:Maddy’s complicated relationship with alcohol and previous abuse in college and with her eating disorder.Why our culture is revolving more around alcohol.'Sober curious' — why Ruby created that term and how she defines it. What is Club Soda NYC?“Anyone who drinks just a little bit, is probably, kinda, just a little bit addicted.”Why she believes it’s more difficult to not become addicted to alcohol. The 3 things that create addiction. How to notice and appreciate the uncomfortable “sober firsts”.Ruby's personal journey with alcohol and why she is so interested in helping others.The careers that have the highest addiction rates."When you're alcohol-free, you're forced to determine if the people around you are really in alignment." Why her connections are deeper with people now without alcohol, especially with her husband.Her steps to gain back control of your life without using alcohol.The scarcity mindset and how we use alcohol to overcome it. How to trust that if something is really made for you, it won’t pass through you. Creating boundaries around social media to help with addictions.Her favorite Harney & Sons tea HERE https://www.harney.com/collections/japanese-green-tea/products/japanese-senchaRuby's book: Sober Curious: The Blissful Sleep, Greater Focus, Limitless Presence, and Deep Connection Awaiting Us All on the Other Side of AlcoholConnect with Ruby: FacebookFacebook - The Numinous MagazineFacebook - Club Soda NYCTwitterInstagramAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/26/2019 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 33 seconds
Natalie Miles: An Intimate Conversation Between Spirit Guides
Episode 258: Natalie Miles is a Spiritual Mentor, Psychic Medium and host of the top 5 spiritual podcast on iTunes “So You Think You’re Intuitive”. However, Natalie is not the typical psychic medium. It is her life’s mission and soul calling to inspire people across the globe to connect with their own intuition, so they can feel more connected and help themselves, each and every day. She believes that everyone is born intuitive, but most people have forgotten how to use their natural gifts. Natalie has been guided by Spirit to be “the door opener” and reactivate people with their intuition so they can live their most authentic life. Natalie speaks at live events internationally and hosts online workshops/events channelling messages from Spirit and connecting people to their gifts. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE The Wild Woman's Way: Unlock Your Full Potential for Pleasure, Power, and Fulfillment by Michaela Boehm Why Natalie and Maddy are both moving away from 1:1 private coaching. How Natalie's conducts her readings and what you can expect. Why your adrenals are connected to your self-worth. “You can’t be everything for everyone.” How to reclaim your space, your time and your power — the importance of setting boundaries. "People will still love you when you say no." "Whenever you’re saying yes to something, you’re saying no to something else." The important art of giving feedback. What is a Starseed? The importance of language, communication and words. Must-read book: The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho Connect with Natalie: Instagram Facebook Website So You Think You're Intuitive Podcast Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/19/2019 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 57 seconds
The HUGE Need for More Conscious, Emotional Eating Coaches with Samantha Skelly
Episode 257: Samantha Skelly is a 7-figure entrepreneur, sought after international speaker, best-selling author, and wellness coaching expert. She founded both Hungry for Happiness, a movement that helps people experience true transformation and happiness through trained certified coaches who utilize emotional and energetic coaching techniques, and PAUSE Breathwork, which has a mission to unite humanity by helping people breathe, feel, and thrive. Samantha has revolutionized the weight loss and self-help industries by examining the individual and underlying causes of food, body, and self-love issues. She has shared her mission on an international platform, with appearances on Global TV, Shaw, NBC, CBC, and BBC, and she’s also been featured in various publications, such as Forbes, The Huffington Post, The Elephant Journal, and The Prevail Project. Samantha continues to spread her message and transform the lives of tens of thousands of people through her programs, worldwide international retreats, motivational speaking engagements, the popular Hungry for Happiness podcast, and her best-selling Hay House book, Hungry For Happiness.Show notes:To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HEREKettlebell Kitchen: Weekly menus and meal plans. Get $25 off HERE Why Samantha's body is craving for her to slow down and how she’s honoring that.“If the journey doesn’t feel like the destination, I’m doing something wrong.”Her mantra: “you’re safe to go slow.”Meeting her emotional needs through “walkie talkies.”How she teaches her nervous system that she’s safe to exist in the stillness.The toxic dependency that the wellness industry has created and how she’s changing that.“Physical weight is the manifestation of the emotional weight.”Why dieting is not sustainable and what you should do instead.Ask yourself: “Where is my heaviness coming from?”How to create a sustainable physical transformation.The important deets for her powerful certification program: Hungry for Happiness Her “diet-depression” days where she was on 50 diets in 4 years.Her simplified process in making money in the wellness industry.Why she believes many wellness coaches are doing the industry a disservice.What your triggers mean and how they are divine teachers.An introduction into her second company: PAUSE Breathwork.How to cultivate the practice of doing breathwork.Why breathwork is easier for Samantha than meditation.The power of vedic meditation. Podcast HEREMust-read book: When Things Fall Apart by Pema ChodronHer social media strategy that has helped her regain time in her day.Listen to the previous episodes with Samantha HERE and HEREApply to her certification program: Hungry for Happiness >>>> HEREConnect with Samantha:Apply to her certification program: Hungry for Happiness >>>> HEREAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/12/2019 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 5 seconds
Devotion Within Quitting and Committing
Episode 256: Madelyn Moon discusses her fierce devotion to being on the highest path of divine love. She invites you to look at what you're fiercely devoted to in your own life and if that commitment is serving you. This powerful devotion will stand true regardless of your life circumstances — if you're single or married, or a world traveler or grounded homebody. There is a way to be consistently devoted to one big thing above all and Madelyn discusses how this commitment can be beautifully played out in your life. She also discusses how to release your personal devotion if it's no longer serving your highest good. Show notes: To get a list of Madelyn's top 100 favorite books FOR FREE, go HERE To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE How Madelyn started her business years ago without having things perfectly figured out. Her process for when inspiration hits. Madelyn's lack of fear with feeling like the coaching world is oversaturated. "The parts of you that don’t feel perfect, are the parts that will bring people closer to you." Madelyn's word of the year. The light and the dark shadow of devotion over the generations. “Can you hold the pose when your heart feels like closing?” Madelyn's encouragement to connect to what you're deeply devoted to above all else. Madelyn's fierce devotion to the highest path of divine love. “When you’re so devoted to the divine and the deepest expression of love, you’re not going to settle, so you may date around.” “Quitting is a form of devotion.” Exploring how quitting can be a form of love. “Sometimes exactly what you need is exactly what you have.” How to release the shame of letting something go. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/5/2019 • 48 minutes, 12 seconds
Stasia Savasuk: Change Your Style, Change Your Life
Episode 255: Stasia Savasuk is a Vermont-based personal stylist, teacher, and body-positivity advocate who ushers women from feelings of insignificance, body shame and a perpetual state of why-bother, into radically embracing who they are, what they want, and how they show up in the world. She is the founder and creator of Stasia’s Style School, an online empowerment program that has helped hundreds of women reconnect with their soul-fire and live a life of courage, confidence, and congruency. Stasia believes that true style cannot be dictated by role, income, size, age or gender, but instead must be a reflection of who you are on the inside. She believes that style - how you show up in the world - matters. She should know. It’s changed her life, and it’s changed the life of her 12-year-old daughter. In fact, it was her daughter that taught her about Inside-Out Congruency, a concept that has since changed the lives of thousands of women. Stasia loves traveling, hiking, camping, and exploring… usually in a dress, lipstick and big earrings. Show notes: To get a list of my top 100 favorite books FOR FREE, go HERE To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE Why Stasia doesn’t follow any of the punctuation rules when she writes. What sparked her desire to go to a surf camp. Why Maddy doesn’t feel connected to her clothing and the changes she plans to make to feel connected again. Stasia’s TedX Talk Her tips in finding your own personal “style box.” The beautiful life-altering style lessons that her daughter, Raisa, who has physical visible differences taught her. “The only place that you can figure out your own style is going inside, doing the work and finding the clothes that match that.” Getting dressed is a spiritual practice because you’re saying who you are and how you show up in the world. Styling our bodies to go outside in the world versus styling our bodies for ourselves. Because getting dressed is something we do every day, we might as well do it intentionally. What does it mean if you wear the same things all the time? When you get dressed, connect to that place that’s never been wounded, aka - your soul fire. Why Stasia has a very minimalist closet with only 2 pairs of jeans. If your clothes don’t feel good, you shouldn’t own them. You can find clothes that feel cozy and connect you to your inner vixen. Indulgent clothing leads you to an indulgent lifestyle. Why she chooses to get dressed every morning even though she works from home. How to be creative financially with your style with thrift stores. It’s rare that Stasia's outfit costs more than $25. The article of clothing that she chooses to spend her money on. "A thrifted wardrobe is the best wardrobe because you’re not attached to the cost of it." Must-read book: Essentialism by Greg Mckeown The True Cost Documentary Connect with Stasia: Instagram Facebook Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/29/2019 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 7 seconds
Jamie Wollrab: Vocal Chords Are Pathways to Power
Episode 254: Jamie Wollrab is a jack of trades in the voice and movement arena. He has worked extensively at New York’s Actors Movement Studio under the guide of Lloyd Williamson. He also studied the Michael Chekov Technique for two years with Lenard Petit, and the Linklater Technique for four years with Nancy Mayans and Peggy Loft. He has recently been mentored by Master Voice Teacher Stewart Pearce for 7 years. Jamie has an MFA from Mason Gross School of the Arts, Rutgers University with William Esper. He has also studied extensive embodiment training with John Wineland for the past 5 years. He is currently working on hit television shows and films as a dialect and vocal coach. He has taught voice and embodiment workshops for the RAMA Institute, Sheila Kelly's S Factor and many others. He is the Artistic Director of Triptych Theatre and a member of IAMA Theatre based in LA. Show notes: Feminine Spirit School - Registration closes on Sunday, May 26th All of our work is combining the power of our intention (masculine) and the quality of my energy (feminine) — you can’t have one without the other. The “quality of our energy” defined. A beautiful question to ask yourself: “What does this moment need?” “Whatever comes up in life, make room for it.” Why the sound of our voice is important for non-actors. The importance of the 5th chakra for the sound of our voice. When we’re not connected to our voice, we can be disempowered and not authentic. The voice is the one thing that connects the inner world to the outer world. What happens to the body when the throat chakra is shut down. What Jamie has learned from his female clients and why he trains them to have a relaxed face. “You don’t have to smile for me.” The bridge between the heart and the face is the throat, which is the sound. When the head and the heart are disconnected, it’s normally because the throat chakra is out. How to be more conscious of the instant response of smiling. What it looks like to smile with your whole being. Our ultimate goal is to become grounded and open. Summoning our inner queen energy and loosening our jaw. Stewart Pearce's work How to follow through with our words (i.e. our intention) Graduate vs. divorce; breakup vs. evolution — How one exchange of a word can shift everything. Your choice of words can be inclusive and restorative, or they can push someone away. If our voice comes from our heart, it will enter our partner’s heart. Hearing the difference between when we’re in our head vs. our heart. Men crave vocal variety. Sound can create instant attraction. “I don't have to guess what you’re feeling, I know it from a sound. With sound, we don’t need words.” Must-read book: Dear Lover by David Deida Connect with Jamie: Website Twitter Instagram Facebook [Tweet "Feeling disconnected from your heart? Learn how sound can help connect you again. #mindbodymusings"] {FEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL} 8 deep weeks focusing on: the Feminine and Masculine energies, sensuality, sexuality, surrendering, opening, shadow work, nature, healing family wounds, boundary setting, breathwork, creative writing, movement practices, connecting with Mother Earth and above all, discovering your truth. Create Your Own Feminine Flow, Fire and Freedom. Learn more HERE. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/23/2019 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 24 seconds
Brittany Joy: Validating Anger to Dissolve Mommy Guilt
Bio: Brittany Joy is a mother of 2 toddlers, a writer, a serial coffee drinker, and a passionate self- acceptance advocate. She lives in a small rural town with her outdoorsy husband and their kids. She has been blogging at Bodacious Brittany for two years on topics including self-acceptance, recovering from diet culture, marriage, and motherhood. She is many things, but most importantly she is herself - and is passionate about helping women be bodaciously themselves too. Show notes: Calm your nervous system, set boundaries, heal your inner child, discover the wounds that are still holding you back, explore your sensuality and so much more with Maddy's Feminine Spirit School. Early bird closes on May 21 at 11:59 pm EST. Sign up HERE. Brittany is a unique combination of Earth momma while boldly speaking her truth. Motherhood is a very tribal thing — we emulate other women so it often can lead to doing things how everyone else does them. Why she doesn’t believe you need to put yourself in the box as a "stay at home mom" or a "working mom" (father’s don’t identify with this) and why she prefers the term, "primary caregiver." Her traditional roots and not so traditional roots as she grew up in foster care with a dad in prison. Her painful early childhood trauma and why doesn't have a lot of memories before the age of 8. Attachment style and how this looked for her. Her book recommendations by Dr. Daniel Siegel: The Whole-Brain Child, No Drama Discipline, Parenting From the Inside Out “You will unconsciously press your own childhood trauma onto your children if you don’t work through your own pain.” Why she had a very anxious attachment to her mother and then to her husband and how she healed it. The science between experiencing trauma in the womb and how it's lasting impact. “In marriage, we do the work that we didn’t do in childhood.” Brittany's guest article: Do Good Moms Get Angry? The 4-month postpartum hormonal time when you often think you have postpartum depression. Her intense anger with potty-training her daughter. Cognitive behavioral therapy and how it's helped her anger/anxiety. "We all have to do the work to heal the wound that we're not a good enough mother." Things that have helped her with her anger: Finding friends who you can trust to talk to, walking — something physical after her kids go to bed, validating anger and exploring anger, saying out loud: "I feel so angry about this." 2 questions to ask: What did my mom do that made her a good mom? What did my mom do that made her a bad mom? “It does actually take a lot to be a bad mom.” What makes you a bad mom in her opinion. "Really, parents are just doing the best that they can." The importance of presence and how to know when it’s good to step away. “It’s not disloyal to realize that your parents weren’t perfect.” - Terri Cole What removing social media from her life has created for her. Connect with Brittany: Instagram Website Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/15/2019 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 14 seconds
What to Do When You’re Changing (and nervous about it)
Episode 252: Many people are constantly seeking approval and permission to let go and be their own kind of freak, rebel, sexy minx, spiritual guide — aka, just themselves. Madelyn Moon discusses how to experience a new kind of freedom when you no longer care about the popular societal opinion. She provides the blueprint on how to evolve into the grander version of yourself, regardless of what society tells you how it should look. Show notes: Why Madelyn no longer cares what society thinks of her. Her updated bio quote and why she is a "walking permission slip." The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*CK with Mark Manson Episode HERE The Happiness Project with Gretchen Rubin HERE 100 Days of Rejection Therapy with Jia Jang HERE Musings of the week: How do you connect to your pleasure while still remaining safe? The most powerful question to ask yourself: “Anytime you’re feeling stuck, what would a queen do?” You can always feel the pleasure in your body, but you don’t have to always reveal it. The pleasure (the pulse) is always there. We have duality in our life with most things. We’re constantly checking in with the rest of the world to see if what we're doing is wrong. IT’S OKAY. It’s okay to change and move on. It’s okay to want a new job. It’s okay to want a new friendship. It’s okay to say no. It’s okay to date again. It’s okay to not have kids. It’s okay to be gay. YOU ARE AN INFINITE SPIRIT. Shadow work is about claiming ALL of the parts of you — the parts that you don't want people to see, that essentially control your life. When you look to people for permission, you’re basically asking society how can I be more like you? Do we really want to be more like society? Do we really want to fit in? How to know if you're just afraid to play bigger. Life on earth is all about evolution — it’s all about moving forward. When something new is being born, something else may be dying, and that’s okay. There’s beauty in it all. How you know when to make a major decision. The beauty in the uncomfortable space of not knowing. Your body connects you to your inner knowing. Make sure when you ask someone for permission that they are a trusted source and you look up to them. The period moving from constriction to expansion is incredibly important. Feminine Spirit School: early bird special of $250 discount if you sign up by May 21st at 11:59pm EST Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/8/2019 • 58 minutes, 7 seconds
Stefanos Sifandos: Creating a NEW Sacred Union Between Men and Women
Episode 251: Stefanos Sifandos facilitates transformational growth through neuro-empowerment practices, an integration of spiritual praxis and western psychology to improve and enhance the quality of your relationships. Show notes: How he defines sacred union and conscious relationships. The painful hardships that he and his fiance have gone through. “It is so deeply revealing, healing and freeing when a woman meets a man with non-judgment and compassion.” The work that men need to do is realize how to receive, which is very difficult for most men. Receiving is feminine energy. “Being “good men” comes from leading with our hearts.” Healthy masculinity is all about leadership. Healthy femininity is concerned with love; healthy masculinity is concerned with purpose. The deeper the masculine heals, the better he can lead; the deeper the feminine heals, the better she can be a loving light. What a healthy relationship really is and what it isn’t. What it looks like for women to take responsibility for their emotions. “We have to stop “wrong-ing” people for their needs.” The perspective of a man and woman’s view when a man leaves quickly after sex. Two key questions to ask yourself the next time you are feeling like a victim. Why women yearn for deeper intimacy. The sisterhood wound of jealousy and what it teaches us. Why Stefanos was unfaithful many times in his relationships. Stefano’s view on monogamy. How he and his fiance have developed clear and open communication. “It’s healthy to be attracted to a multiple of human beings.” Connect with Stefanos: Instagram Facebook Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/1/2019 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 10 seconds
What Heartbreak and Betrayal Can Teach You About Sovereignty
Episode 250: Madelyn Moon discusses the beautiful, bountiful relationship lessons that heartbreak and betrayal have taught her in her life. She shares how to remain empowered and sovereign in your relationships, regardless of the painful circumstances that you may be going through. This episode will teach you how to remove yourself as a victim of your relationship experiences and how to fully embrace a delicious, freeing sovereign position. Show notes: What Madelyn is currently musing on: her new Feminine Spirit School course HERE A quick recap of last week's podcast episode and why manifestation isn't her favorite subject. Madelyn's unhealthy blind spots and patterns in her romantic relationships. "The work that we’re doing in this world is learning how you can be your greatest lover." The experiences that left her feeling so much shame in her relationships. What sovereignty means to her. “Sovereignty is saying I am opening my heart for myself regardless of how this unfolds because I would rather have an open heart than a closed heart.” Her experience dating a man who lied to her and later finding out that he had three children. The violating and humiliating experience of her boyfriend creating a fake marriage proposal. Why she has issues with getting married before living with someone. How she is able to feel empowered by her love life experiences instead of feeling like a victim. “When you surrender to love, you are not handing anything over, you are holding it deep within yourself.” “Feel what you feel, but don't get caught up into the story." Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/24/2019 • 57 minutes, 14 seconds
Taylor Simpson: Rewire Your Brain to Let Money Flow
Episode 249: Taylor Simpson is a Mindset and Online Business Coach, the host of the Podcast A Taylored Adventure to Happiness and Motivational Speaker. She is passionate about helping women break through their blocks, dissolve limiting beliefs so they can begin creating the life and/or online business they desire – fearlessly! As someone who once dealt with severe social anxiety due to deep-rooted insecurities and let perfectionism hold her back, she’s determined to make sure other women see their true potential and begin to shine bright, unapologetically. As the Founder of The Money Mindset Masterclass and The Online Business Building Tribe, she’s helped hundreds of women transform their Mindsets and Lives. Show notes: Taylor’s fear of being disliked by other people and how she's shifted this over the years. Her powerful way of working through her triggers. Maddy’s love/hate relationship with manifestation lately. Taylor's thoughts on manifestation being a white privilege concept. “Manifestation is just physics — it’s just energy.” Why does nothing happen when you really want to manifest something? How our subconscious mind works and compares our present to our past. The importance of “I am in the process of…” vs. “I am...” How she reframes positive affirmations. The manifesting tools that she uses daily that really work. What you must do before you start manifesting anything. "Being resentful blocks us what we want, so it’s important to get rid of the resistance." How to embody your future self. The “Drala Principle” — how do you want the world to respond to you? Why Taylor believes that there are zero times for victimhood. “Sitting in victimhood never gets you far.” Why she does not believe in serendipity. How to not let your external circumstances control your world. Taylor's Powerful Money Mindset Transforming Tools HERE The Ultimate Online Business Must-Have Check-List HERE Must- read book: The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle Connect with Taylor: Website Her Money Freebie Instagram Facebook Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/17/2019 • 1 hour, 16 minutes, 26 seconds
The Five Human Design Types
Episode 248: Madelyn Moon discusses the Human Design system, an incredibly powerful tool for deeper human understanding. With Human Design you discover what makes you different from everyone else and how to use these differences to your advantage. It offers profound insights into who you are, as well as how to navigate life's challenges. With this valuable insight, you're able to lead a life with more ease and fulfillment. Show notes: An introduction into Human Design — how, when and why it was developed. This is something we've all known since birth, but have never really validated it. Human Design: a blueprint with how you use your own energy; a decision-making tool. Determine your type HERE Madelyn discusses her Human Design type and how it's changed her business. Generator - 37% of the population; wait to respond to life's decisions; consistent energy; amazing worker; sound is what ignites your ability to know if something is a yes or a no; everything in your life is guided by what lights you up and what doesn’t. Manifestor - 8% of population; here to initiate and start things; do not have to wait for anything; anger theme; informing before you act; take lots of breaks; second guess all the time; their biggest challenge is self-doubt; they struggle to ask for help. Manifesting Generator - 33% of population; primarily a Generator with some Manifestor qualities; wait to respond and then envision; loves to do everything; go to bed sleepy - use up all the energy; they are fast beings; have a pen and paper with you everywhere you go; they love to do a lot of things — queen of all trades. Projector - 20% of population; be careful of how much work you do; the ability to see what others don’t see; not consistent energy for work; they need to rest more; bitterness theme; dying for people to recognize our brilliance; wait for the invitation; important to read about what lights you up; go to bed before you’re tired; sleep alone. Reflectors - less than 1% of the population; they magnify and reflect the world around us; completely 100% open; important to clear your aura space; 29 moon based day cycle to make a decision on the major decisions in life; their health is a reflection of your environment; get familiar with the phases of the moon; processing emotions is going to take much longer. Course in Miracles quote that changed Madelyn’s life. The importance of sleeping alone if you have an open sacral Lunar Cycle with Ezzie Spencer Podcast Episode HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/10/2019 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 58 seconds
Stephanie Bellinger: Manifest by (First) Being What You Want
Episode 247: Stephanie is a mindset expert and success coach specializing in helping women shift into the version of themselves who *already* has it all — the success, the income, the confidence, the thriving business of their dreams. She is passionate about showing other healers, light workers, and service-based entrepreneurs how to become their best selves through her online courses and coaching programs. Show notes: The Feminine Surrender Retreat — learn more HERE Stephanie's six-year abusive relationship that left her feeling like a prisoner. Why she declared to make the worst years of her life the best years of her life. Why she became obsessed with realizing that you can create your own reality. How she communicates with angels. The one thing that no one talks about with manifestation. A clear definition of manifestation. Why people struggle with manifesting a life they want. Why she believes that you can have negative thoughts and still manifest a life you want. “Most people struggle because they think too much.” “You can’t have what you are not.” “You don’t get what you need, you get what you are.” The simplicity of her daily gratitude practice. How she manifested her partner within 24 hours. Her personal motto: "be, do, have." How to get into the energy of manifesting quicker. Must-read book: The Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Mastering the Inner Game of Wealth by T. Harv Eker Connect with Stephanie: Website Facebook Group Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/3/2019 • 48 minutes, 7 seconds
Part Three: Divine Polarity in Relationships
Episode 246: In Part One and Part Two we dove deep into the Feminine and Masculine energies individually. In today's episode, we're going to be looking at how these two energies interact with each other in a Divine Union...or in other words, a spicy, romantic, sexually-charged relationship. Maddy Moon will gives examples of what polarity looks like between a man and women physically, as well as how it takes shape emotionally. She will dive deeper into the blocks that often come up for women who want to be in the Feminine pole, she'll speak on energetic agility and how to move from Alpha to Omega on the spot, and she'll share examples of her own relationship dynamics with others. If you're wanting to experience both more sexual charge and safety in your relationship, while also staying grounded in your love, this is a MUST listen. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE Feminine Surrender Retreat — connect and share your soul with new sisters. Feminine is energy; masculine is what where the feminine can be held in. Divine Feminine and Masculine Recap: Part One and Part Two What it looks like and feels like with divine polarity. “There’s no safety in a lead and follow dynamic.” The lead is still; the follow is providing the energy. What divine polarity looks like in practical terms. Feminine is focused on love; Masculine is focused on purpose. Recommended Reading: Dear Lover, The Way of the Superior Man and Wild Nights by David Deida “Most feminine beings are craving a masculine counterpart.” Much of the world has told you to turn off your feminine cravings. “You want a man that can handle all of you.” In order to find this man, you have to become all of who you are. “You don’t just get what you want, you get what you are.” Divine sexual fulfillment between feminine and masculine essence. Why the masculine isn’t devoted to the feminine love energy as much. Why it’s so important that you are being selective with the men you let into your life. Juicy, beautiful read: The Awakened Woman’s Guide to Everlasting Love by Londin Angel Winters Madelyn’s two different dating examples. How to practice energetic agility. You have to decide if you want to be in divine union or are you more devoted to being the decision maker? Waking up to the ways that you play the victim and not taking ownership. If you want to be more in the feminine pole, go deeper into your pleasure. Start to reveal your energy. How to find opportunities to reveal your feminine essence. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/27/2019 • 52 minutes, 11 seconds
Alyson Charles: Shamanism, Shadow Work and Sacred Sexuality
Episode 245: Internationally renowned Television Host, Speaker and Spiritual Teacher, Alyson Charles aka RockStar Shaman went from being a national champion athlete, #1-rated radio host and national daytime television talk show host to aligning with her calling as a mystic and shamanic practitioner after a traumatic moment provided her awakening. Alyson is a resident guru for "Best Health Site" Well and Good, where she provides a monthly energy forecast, she shares guidance and journeys on Amazon's award-winning technology, Alexa and Google Home and through her work as a keynote speaker, TV and radio host, she’s brought meditation and sacred ritual to the mainstream in a powerfully creative way. Alyson has shaken loose from self-imposed limitations, shares her mastery of the art of playing big in full authentic glory and her story of going from suffering to surrender to service. Her on-going commitment to continued master studies, rites of passage and immersions in shamanism and mysticism, courageously exploring the ever-evolving highest potential and assisting countless people in reconnecting to their power has landed her as a leading global voice. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favorite books FOR FREE, go HERE How she balances her own personal darkness while holding the space for other people. “We’re here for evolution and we’re here for our emotions.” Her biggest piece of advice when you want your life to change and shift. “The more we do the internal work directly correlates to how powerful we are.” What she really cares about the most is how much you have gone inside of yourself. The importance and magic of going inward. “We really can’t be of greatest service if there’s spiritual bypassing.” How to be sensual and celibate. Her separation from her fiancé and the lessons she learned. How she chooses to share her time, energy and body with as a shaman. "There doesn’t need to be a separation between sensuality and sex." Why she hid her voluptuous body for years and how she finally became comfortable with it. Her viewpoint on the patriarchy and how's it impacted her soul's work. The two most important words to her right now. “We must feel safe, appreciated, seen and honored.” Madelyn’s vulnerability and emotions with her breakup. The significance of sovereignty in a relationship. “Truth is a pathless land.” The more conscious, awake, share express your truth is so important The Ultimate Spirit Animal Guide HERE Must-read book: The Magdalen Manuscript: The Alchemies of Horus & the Sex Magic of Isis Connect with Alyson: Instagram Website Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/20/2019 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 5 seconds
Greg Woodhill: Root Causes of Porn Addiction and Healing with Real Intimacy
Episode 244: Greg Woodhill, MFT, CSAT is a licensed psychotherapist who has spent thousands of hours directly helping sex and porn addicts recover from their addictions. He strongly believes that true psychological and emotional growth can only occur in a safe environment, which he provides for his clients through long-term therapeutic work. He holds a Master's Degree from the University of Santa Monica, where he developed his personal therapeutic style of empathic listening, exploring early childhood trauma, and encouraging personal responsibility. He is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and spent 5 years working at the Center For Healthy Sex in Los Angeles under the mentorship of Alexandra Katehakis. He is passionate about the topic of addiction in all shapes and sizes, and he loves working with addicts to help them recover their passion and strength, so that they can create true intimacy in their lives. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE The Feminine Surrender Retreat - learn more HERE on how best friends are formed. How Greg got into this line of work and why he became interested in the profound effects that pornography has on men. The freedom that opens up for men once they start talking about this. Staggering pornography statistics. "It's hard to find a man that doesn't watch porn." Maddy's first experience watching porn. “I take no moral, ethical or religious perspective with porn. I don’t think it’s good or bad.” Porn is made for men by men in general. “I don’t think anyone needs to stop watching porn unless they believe it’s causing problems in their lives.” What it means when Greg says, "The porn is choosing them and they’re sexualizing their pain.” The upsides to porn — how it builds confidence, reduces shame and education, exciting, make you feel, soothing, sexy, fun. The dark side to porn and how it affects our unresolved emotional issues. Why you choose the type of porn that you do? “People gravitate to porn when they’re trying to work through unemotional material from the past.” A question Greg only asks during his therapy sessions: "If we could remove the sexual arousal from this experience, what experiences would you be experiencing?" "They’re porn watching to feel adequate." “Healing is the application of love to the places inside that hurt.” Why do they sexualize this pain instead of using drugs/alcohol for example? The false assumptions around pornography. Most of the time, the partner of a porn addict that doesn’t know that they’re with a porn addict. Erectile dysfunction and low libido are often accompanying effects with porn addicts. What do you do as a partner who is in a relationship with a porn addict? “The partner of a porn addict needs their own hope and healing.” Resources for pornography/sex-related addiction: sexandrelationshiphealing.com pornaddicthubby.com iitap.com The important structure, boundaries, and guidelines you need as a partner of a porn addict. The importance of weekly check-in sobriety meetings. A reminder: you can set boundaries with love. A Brave New Man Podcast Must-read book: Pornland - How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality by Gail Dines One of Greg's best purchases ever: There is a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem by Wayne Dyer Connect with Greg: Website Twitter Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/13/2019 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 17 seconds
Kari Azuma: Motherhood as a Rite of Passage
Episode 243: Since 2010, Kari Azuma has been blessed to coach board members of influential companies, entrepreneurs, coaches, and leaders in the health and wellness sectors. It wasn’t until suffering from post-partum depression and a full-blown identity crisis after the birth of her son in 2015, that she decided to dedicate her life’s work to coaching mothers on leadership development and overcoming stress and overwhelm through powerful self-realization. She works with mothers through social media, private sessions, and her elite group-coaching model, Empowered Mothers Alliance. Her latest love endeavor, Threshold, is a retreat that was born from her roots in rites of passage work. This immersive, in-person experience allows mothers to powerfully reclaim their identity through releasing shame, expectations and lineage patterns, freeing themselves to design the lives of their choosing as women and mothers. Through Kari’s work with mothers and expectant mothers, she hopes to fulfill her mission to create a legacy of empowered mothers, leading the next 7 generations. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE Maddy's three must-read books currently: Red Tent, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*uck, and Essentialism Motherhood is a portal from moving from the masculine energy to feminine energy. The magical, mystical feeling and things that come through during pregnancy. How trust is challenging her in her life right now. Her experience with not surrendering and opening up during giving birth the first time. Why the allowance of grief is important and how our culture doesn’t have any grief rituals. “Should’s” are killers because they don’t allow what needs to be present, to be present.” What she craved that people would say to her when she was postpartum. Rite of passage: a constant marking of great change. How long does this rite of passage occur and what should new mothers do to make it more like a ceremony. “Motherhood is the biggest growth and development program you can join for free.” The respect she has for women who have decided not to have children. Viewing motherhood as a soul contract and realizing there is no way out of it. The resistance that women have in asking for help when they're pregnant. “There is an identity shift that I couldn’t predict before I had the baby.” Her most beautiful feminine gift of becoming a mother was efficiency and alignment. Why our ego doesn’t allow us to accept help. You’re creating life and asking yourself to create more than that (programs, etc), can be too much. The game of comparison and the addiction to busyness that damages mothers. Asking herself: "What am I grieving today and how can I let this go" has been the biggest help in shifting her postpartum depression. Her perspective on anger and getting mad/feeling hateful at your kids. The sister to grief is self-forgiveness. “There’s no safe place for mothers to say they’re pissed and angry.” Forgiving yourself is a decision. Remember that your child is also human. If you are frequently yelling at your kids, check in to see if your needs are being met. The power of doing nothing for 10 minutes a day. The key insight to take away for this episode is to honor who you’ve been and who you’ve become. One of Kari's role models is Alexis Panos. Listen to the episode HERE. Connect with Kari: Facebook Facebook Page Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/6/2019 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 5 seconds
Part Two: What is the Divine Masculine?
Episode 242: Madelyn Moon speaks a great deal about the Divine Feminine and Masculine energies...but what do these two energies truly represent? And more specifically, what is the masculine? There are so many misconceptions out there about what the Divine Masculine looks and feels like. Madelyn explains why the Divine Masculine is not about obsessive hustle and aggression in this episode. In this podcast series, Maddy Moon will be diving into the Divine Feminine, Divine Masculine and Polarity in Relationships, one podcast at a time. If you've been yearning to learn how to tap into this Yin/Yang, Moon/Sun, Alpha/Omega and Shiva/Shakti energy... this is the perfect series to tune into. Let us know your key takeaways by commenting below! Show notes: Get the strategies and tools you need to bring your dream business to life. Join B-School HERE An update with her relationship with Matt. January had feminine energy and February had masculine energy for Maddy. One of the top priorities in our lives is foundation/stability. What is the toxic masculine and the pure masculine? Water (feminine) needs something to be able to be contained. The container represents the masculine energy so the feminine can flow. River analogy to explain feminine and masculine energy. Masculine is presence and depth. It’s the part of you that’s never changed. The beautiful bright light that is in the center of your chest. This light is always there - it does not change. It’s like God - it’s so deep. Masculine is the lack of movement — it’s meditation; logic; structure. Why people get confused with masculine energy. “The pure masculine is not obsessive hustle.” Why we're confusing men with the masculine. “We need to do this work to realize that the masculine energy is not scary.” Whoever in the partnership who is in the masculine space needs to be able to hold the feminine energy. Whoever is feeling the most is in the feminine and whoever is in the depth is in the masculine. Direction on how to come together with these energies and how you can harness this energy for yourself. Sometimes when we’re raised by harsh fathers, we confuse the masculine for being harsh. How we can heal our masculine views. Our masculine is responsible for showing us what we need. How meditation, acro yoga and breathing can help heal our masculine. Feminine Surrender Retreat: May 17 - 19 A list of books to go deeper into these energies HERE. To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE Connect with Maddy: Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/27/2019 • 54 minutes, 24 seconds
Marie Forleo: Turn Your Idea into a Business Dream Come True
Episode 241: Named by Oprah as a thought leader for the next generation, Marie's mission is to help you realize your greatest potential and use your gifts to change the world. She’s the creator of the award-winning online show MarieTV with over 42 million views and an audience in 195 countries. Her next book, Everything Is Figureoutable, will be available in September 2019. Show notes: Marie's 3-part training series with a simple roadmap to help you launch your online business. Marie's background as a hip-hop dancer and working on Wall Street. Marie explains how she created her dream job when she had never even heard of life coaching (it was the early 90s, y'all). Her solid business intuition and what it feels like when her body is giving her a "no." Modern marketing and why you should learn about it now. What B-School is and isn't and who's best suited for the online program. “When you follow that small voice in your heart, it leads you to greatness.” “You’re not going to live in a place of regret with taking B-School.” How B-School gets you in a place of action and learning how to trust yourself. What to do when you feel paralyzed with creating a target, niche market. "You must create a target market so you learn who you can serve and who you can’t." “When you’re talking to everybody, you’re talking to nobody.” Learn how to get focused, gain momentum and build a profitable business that makes a difference. HERE “Don’t be afraid to turn people away.” Marie's best career advice tips Want to join B-School? If you sign up on my team and use THIS link, you will receive exclusive bonuses from me, including: 30-minute call with me + 3 free audios 3 free bonus audios include: How to Attract Your Ideal Clients, Podcasting 101, How to Host an Event Receive $100 off from a Feminine Surrender Retreat within the next year Continue the conversation about B-School in the Mind Body Musings Facebook Group Connect with B-School and Marie Forleo: Join B-School HERE >> http://maddymoon.com/bschool Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/7/2019 • 42 minutes, 46 seconds
Kelli Tennant: Finding Vibrant Health and Empowerment After a Disease Misdiagnosis
Episode 240: Kelli Tennant is the host of The Platform Podcast, focused on merging Functional Medicine, Ayurveda and spirituality in service of women's healing journeys. As an autoimmune warrior, Kelli hosts private courses and events to teach others how to live intentionally, eliminate inflammation and detox every aspect of their lives. Show notes: How Kelli learned to be herself and why she's okay being an introvert. Two books that helped her on her journey to understanding herself more: The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine Aron and Dodging Energy Vampires by Dr. Christiane Northrup M.D. JOMO vs FOMO Her background as a star volleyball athlete at the University of Southern California. Kelli’s painful health journey and being misdiagnosed with Fibromyalgia. How a functional medicine doctor in Los Angeles finally correctly diagnosed her with Epstein Barr, leaky gut and SIBO. How to be your own health advocate and navigating conflicting advice. Her brave decision to leave her broadcasting career so she could put her health first. The difficulty of going through the depths of illness while being in a relationship. “You have to teach your loved ones how you need to be supported.” How to allow yourself to receive help. Must-read book: Choose Wonder Over Worry by Amber Rae To get a list of my top 100 favorite books FOR FREE, go HERE To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE Learn more about how to connect to this sacred goddess energy at one of my retreats HERE Connect with Kelli: Website Instagram Podcast Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/30/2019 • 53 minutes, 13 seconds
Part One: What is the Divine Feminine?
Episode 239: Madelyn Moon explains what Divine Feminine energy is, as well as what it is not, and why it even matters. Madelyn explains how to re-connect into our feminine goddess energy and why she believes it's essential to do so. You will learn how to embrace your femininity and re-connect to the sacredness inside of you. Show notes: What the feminine is and what it is not. The feminine is energy — the flow; the movement. Water as an analogy for feminine energy. The toxic versions of feminine energy: victimhood, powerless, weak, manipulative, needy, withholding, overly emotional, co-dependent, jealous. Why you should “show your heart” and what this means. Underneath the toxic femininity is normally a longing and processing grief. “The feminine is chaos.” Some people are born with a masculine body, but with more feminine energy and vice versa. Why Madelyn thinks that you most likely do not have as much masculine energy as you think you do, but rather because you’re raised in a world with masculine energy. Why we want to be in our femininity energy. “Use your body to move slower.” To get a list of my top 100 favorite books FOR FREE, go HERE To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE Learn more about how to connect to this sacred goddess energy at one of my retreats HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/23/2019 • 40 minutes, 58 seconds
How This Retreat Showed Two Strangers They Were Soul Mates
Episode 238: In this podcast episode, Maddy Moon shares the story of how Rachael Drouin and Rachel Basgil met at an 8-person retreat years ago and had their lives forever changed.At the first retreat Maddy hosted, Rachael and Rachel met and quickly bonded over their shared experience of recently leaving long-term relationships as well as their journeys recovering from eating disorders. From there, they further talked about their visions and dreams in life which seemed to overlap in more ways than one.Listen to this podcast episode to hear about the drastic transformation these two women experienced by meeting each other and what has unfolded since. Show notes:Sisterhood is waiting for you and it's so important. To learn more about my retreats, click HERE.How the ending of their long-term relationships left them both craving connection and direction.The eating disorders that kept them both feeling isolated and numb.Why they listened to the voice that said to take a leap and join this retreat.Why as a feminine being, it's important to move more into feeling instead of thinking.“If you stay in your head, your brain will always find a way not to do something.”The anxiety they both felt signing up for the retreat and why they decided to push through the fear.Their favorite memories from the retreat and how they still stay in touch with the other girls.The uneasiness of solo travel.Their major takeaways from attending Maddy's retreat and how it helped their control issues.“Growth happens when we are in our lowest places. You can’t have growth unless you have something that tests you.”“At your retreat, we opened ourselves up more than ever before.”Must-read book: Spirit Junkie by Gabrielle Bernstein and The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown.Are you craving more connection? This weekend is going to be a magical experience for 10 women who want to leave behind their perfectionistic ways and come home to a simpler, more loving, way of life. Learn more HERE.Connect with Rachael and Rachel:Follow Rachael Drouin on Instagram HEREFollow Rachael Basgil on Instagram HEREAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/16/2019 • 58 minutes, 48 seconds
Lindsey Hall: The Long Road of ‘Flexible Recovery’ and Exploring Sobriety
Episode 237: Lindsey Hall is an award-winning eating disorder + addiction speaker and writer, focusing on what she refers to as "the topics that need to be talked about, but many are scared to admit." Having struggled with the eating disorder cycle for many years, Lindsey has actively been in her coined "flexible recovery" since 2014 and is the author behind "I Haven't Shaved in Six Weeks," a blog written to humanize the stigmas of eating disorders and treatment. Through her published writing, she has had the privilege of speaking around the world on nuanced topics such as Body Dysmorphic Disorder, Drunkorexia, Exercise Addiction, Orthorexia and other eating disorder behaviors, and has been featured in publications including TODAY Show, CBS, Cosmopolitan, Women's Health, TheFix.com, SheKnows, Project Heal, NEDA, SHAPE Magazine, Bustle, Refinery29, New York Post, and more. Her future plans in recovery advocacy are currently focused on owning and converting a van to take it on the road, so she can report on treatment centers and eating disorder resources around the country in a dream she's envisioned as "Recovery on the Road." Show notes: Learn more about Madelyn's upcoming retreat with sound healing, AcroYoga, Thai massage, and more HERE How to give yourself space when you’re not feeling inspired. The purpose of staying in your own lane. Valley View Hot Springs HERE Maddy and Lindsey’s connection and their story of meeting at the University of Arkansas. How going to rehab created Lindsey’s blog, I Haven’t Shaved in Six Weeks: All the Truths About Eating Disorders. How her best friend dying shaped her entire life. Her crucial moment of getting a DWI and bingeing on two boxes of cereal. “Drunkorexia” — what it means and how it sent her to rehab at 24. How college life and sororities enable us to write off eating disorders and alcohol abuse. “Black and white mentalities are the fastest way to go into shame.” The importance of creating healthy boundaries with your parents. Her current relationship with her parents and how they have handled her disordered eating. The emotional breakdown she had 3 months ago over being completely dissatisfied in her life. How she handles stagnant energy and questioning her purpose. Why she’s been drinking way too much wine lately. ‘Flexible sobriety’ and how she notices her feelings and discomfort. The drinking pressures we feel from our significant others. Why we need to stop glorifying alcohol. How to handle feeling like an outcast when you don’t drink alcohol. How Lindsey had compassion for herself throughout this journey. “It takes a really long time to forgive yourself.” Must read book: The Bright Light: A Memoir of Living and Dying by Nina Riggs Lindsey’s role model and sobriety coach, Holly Whitaker. Connect with Lindsey: Instagram Twitter Facebook Blog Website Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/9/2019 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 19 seconds
Moving from Religion to Spirituality
Episode 236: In this podcast, Madelyn Moon discusses her healing journey from a strict black-and-white conservative Baptist upbringing to a more expansive connection to spirituality. Madelyn explains why she never felt accepted and connected to her religious roots and why she started to explore spirituality. She shares her thoughts on the Bible, Jesus, heaven/hell, daily confessions and so much more in this vulnerable episode. Show notes: Religion is black and white. Spirituality is many colors. There was no clarity in religion so she was constantly exploring and asking questions. Madelyn believes that God created us all divinely and that this divine energy is pure love. Madelyn thinks the Universe wants everyone to feel closer than love and is not okay with hate. The Universe isn't black and white. The Universe is every color, every shape — it’s everything good. It’s pleasure. The divine is nothing but light and goodness. Her background with a strict Baptist upbringing and how everything always went back to God. Her obsession with confessing her sins and the anxiety that created. The immense fear that the idea of the Rapture created for her. How does nature not make it into religion? You are 110% in control of your life. You don’t need anyone’s permission to change your beliefs. The Yoga Barn in Bali is where she felt Spirit enter her being. “Seeing the world has wildly served me in my spiritual life.” The beef she had with Jesus and how a trip to Israel healed her issues. All people are flawed. All people are deep down in their core the same, and we are love. We are human beings craving connection and Jesus was all about that. How she views the Bible as a metaphor of living her life. Her thoughts on heaven/hell and why she doesn’t believe in it. Chandresh Bhardwaj Episode HERE "My real work on Earth is to be as conscious as possible; to be a light; to do the best I can on Earth and then who knows what happens." Must-read book: Reincarnation Blues by Michael Poore How she connects to the divine today. How she deals with guilt. How her family has responded and why these topics are off the table. How she deals with the judgments from the religious community. Her love for Vedic Meditation HERE Interested in attending a retreat in 2019? More info HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/2/2019 • 1 hour, 3 seconds
Ali Tate Cutler: Being a Body Positive Plus Sized Model and Taking a Stand for Forgiveness
Episode 235: Ali Tate Cutler is a Californian native who has been a hard-working model for 6 years. In that time, she has cultivated a voice advocating body positivity and love for the environment, as well as being a leader in the health and wellness movement. She is also a certified yoga teacher. Ali has developed a unique voice in the curve industry as a healthy body advocate and an eco-warrior. She has created her own plus size clothing line with sustainable fashion powerhouse called Reformation, which sold out. Ali also has a podcast on iTunes called ‘The Love You Give’ where she interviews inspiring people at the top of their fields in health and wellness. She also hosts women’s circles in New York City for women to connect with others and facilitate deep release. In her modeling career, she has worked for clients like Mango, Ralph Lauren, Vanity Fair, Target, Lucky Brand, Marina Rinaldi, Target, J Crew, Madewell, Express, Nordstrom and many more. Show notes: To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE Maddy suggests creating a Word of the Year for 2019 as your North Star. Maddy's 2019 focus is on hosting retreats HERE Ali's experience with the meditation retreat center, The Tree of Life, and Gabriel Cousens. Ali's juice fast regimen and how it helps connect her to her body and spirituality. Must-read book: The Pleasure Trap by Douglas J. Lisle. Why coffee enemas are crucial for your health and how to do them. How she became a plus-size model. How modeling has helped her to create a 'positive-body' brain, although she is rejected all the time. Why she wore padding on her hips and breasts. Why classifications as a plus-sized model is a good thing. Important to ask yourself: Who is profiting off of me thinking I'm not good enough? "Loving myself for all that it is is an act of rebellion." “Simply being alive every single day is a traumatic experience.” Must-read book: A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. Why women have so much anger and hate within them. Her most memorable experience during a photo shoot. Why she loves nude photo shoots and why she now feels wilder than any other time. Her ultimate modeling goal. “Our real juiciness is in the soul work.” “You can’t go into the deeper levels if you can’t get past how many calories you just ate.” When you’re creating a connection with spirit, you’re going to be so happy that you have a body. Light bath photography sessions Her life-changing Kundalini awakening during her first juice fast. How she meshes the fashion world with the spiritual world. Must-read book: Material World Mystical Girl by Ruby Warrington. How the ancient Hawaiian practice Ho'oponopono has helped her forgive. Connect with Ali: Instagram Podcast Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/26/2018 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 2 seconds
Dr. Lynn Marie Morski: How to Quit Things All the Time -- And Refuse to Let Debt Hold You Back
Episode 234: Dr. Lynn Marie Morski is a Quitting Evangelist. She helps people to and through their quits through her book, Quitting by Design, and her podcast, Quit Happens, along with speaking and coaching. She is also a board-certified physician in family medicine and sports medicine, currently working at the Veterans Administration. In addition, she is an attorney and former adjunct law professor at Thomas Jefferson School of Law. When not doctoring, lawyering, or preaching the gospel of strategic quitting, Lynn Marie can be found doing yoga, playing multiple musical instruments and dancing like everyone's watching. Show notes: To become your best self, heal your trauma, have powerful conversations with other women, embrace who you are and be inspired for what's next, learn more about Maddy's Retreat Experiences HERE Her incredible journey story of becoming a sports medicine doctor, a lawyer, spending $250k on education and hating it all. How she strategically had the guts to quit things in order to carve out space for things that she enjoyed. The money mindset she embodies to be okay with having $400k debt. Why loans are a theme in her life and why she's made peace with that. Why our society glories permanence and hanging on to things that no longer serve us. "We’re all quitters. We’ve all had many things that we've quit. Society is fine with it as long as it’s an upgrade. Don’t let society tell you what you should quit and what you should not." A lot of us are still asking our parents for advice. “Don’t go to the hardware store for milk.” "Parents are projecting or protecting, neither of which is your concern." Why she believes it's better to inform your parents about what you're doing, rather than consult with them. Her solid advice on how to quit relationships with family members instead of trying to change them. How to know if you’re going through the right quitting path Why she quit Capoeira (Brazilian Martial Arts) after practicing it for 7 years and why she knew it was the right decision. "Most of the things you quit, you can still be at heart." "Quitters win all the time…if you aren’t quitting you aren’t evolving. You shouldn’t be proud of never quitting. Free yourself." Must-read book: You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero Make Quit Happen LIVE: A 2-Day Strategic Quitting Workshop HERE Quitting by Design: A six-week course to help you through YOUR strategic quit! HERE Connect with Dr. Lynn Marie Morski: Facebook Quitopia (private Facebook group) Instagram Twitter LinkedIn Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/19/2018 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 48 seconds
How to Not Abandon Yourself in a Relationship or When Dating
Episode 233: In this podcast, Madelyn Moon discusses how to not abandon yourself in your loving relationships so you can remain true to yourself and feel connected to who you really are. Each day you have a divine opportunity and responsibility to not abandon yourself and it makes all the difference in your relationships. By connecting to and fulfilling your daily needs and desires, you eliminate resentment, blame, and shame with the people you love the most. Madelyn takes us on a beautiful deep dive into why and how we abandon ourselves and the essential steps we can take to fix this. Show notes: Nadia Munla episode: Getting Into Your Heart and Out of Your Head Through Dance, Sensuality and Body Wisdom The interview series with men that Maddy is currently musing on. An update with living in NYC — the lessons she’s learning and how the energy of the city is affecting her. Maddy’s thoughts on first dates and the essential thing you need to do. How she handles who pays for the bill on a first date. “On a macro level, when you abandon all of the opportunities to remain true to yourself you start to feel disconnected to yourself." #1 How we abandon ourselves: we assume what the other person wants. #2 How we abandon ourselves: we make what they want more important than what we want. Own the fact that you are making that choice; don’t become a victim of your choice. Why sovereignty is the most important thing to embody when faced with a choice. Don’t say yes when you want to say no. Consent ripples into all areas of our lives. #3 How we abandon ourselves: we forget the little things that bring us joy. How to combine your needs when you’re dating someone. #4 How we abandon ourselves: we use the relationship as an excuse to not go for what we want. Singlehood is where we really learn who we are. It makes it easier to find out things about yourself because there is no one else to take into consideration. There’s much more time for you. “Everyday you have the opportunity to abandon yourself or not to.” Singlehood solidifies the truth. Relationships strengthen your ability to stand in your truth. Put an outing on your calendar - don’t plan anything with your partner; stick to your plan. Find one thing you miss about being single and bring her into your relationship. Speak your fears out loud - do not hold them in. Notice where you withhold. Withholding is not love. Know that sometimes it’s okay to do what you need to do. Maddy’s disclaimer: When there is emotional, physical, verbal abuse present, none of this applies. This is when you leave. No soul needs to go through abuse. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/12/2018 • 50 minutes, 25 seconds
Chandresh Bhardwaj: A Modern-Age Spiritual Healer's Take on Religion, Fear and Gurus
Episode 232: Chandresh Bhardwaj is a seventh generation spiritual advisor, speaker, and the author of the bestselling book, Break the Norms: Questioning Everything You Think You Know About God and Truth, Life and Death, Love and Sex. Currently based in L.A., Chandresh quit his Wall Street job to launch the nonprofit Break the Norms Movement with the intention of awakening the human awareness from its conditioned self. He is a world traveler who frequently speaks about spirituality across the globe, from Europe to Asia and the Americas. Chandresh hails from a line of spiritual healers in India that spans over seven generations, and his teachings combine ancient wisdom with a modern approach to spirituality. Chandresh is a disciple of his father, His Holiness Shri Chamunda Swami, a universally recognized authority in spiritual healing. Chandresh is revered as a credible teacher of eastern tantra traditions; the incredible healing powers of mantra, tantra, and meditation have long fascinated him. He designed his easy-to-access meditations and lessons to help students realize the truth from within. “Spirituality is a borrowed knowledge,” says Chandresh. “We must meditate to experience our own version of it.” Show notes: Why he is currently musing on human potential, rising above current circumstances and meditation. “Life gets so much better when we respond to craziness instead of just reacting.” His recount of a very normal childhood where his spiritual healer father never told him to meditate. Chandresh began meditating because he loved the strength that it gave his parents. His sister’s untimely death had him question death and God and why he began wondering if divinity exists? The deep unhappiness he felt while studying business/finance in NYC. What he did to begin to shift the unhappiness in his life. The differences in raising children between eastern and western cultures. “Don’t try to teach your kids anything; learn from them.” “The only thing we know is nothing.” Spiritual misconceptions: spiritual bling and veganism. Why he believes spirituality has become fashionable. “PDA” = Public Display of Awareness; we all want to show everyone how spiritually aware we are. “You need a spiritual guru to constantly puncture your ego. Without that, you will be a spiritual circus that you will not be able to control.” “We need to get off the bling train and get on the inner journey and path.” The main difference between a coach and a guru. A Guru is one that shows the light in you and helps you to awaken to your inner strength. The “right” guru makes you spiritually independent; you don’t depend on them. How and where to find a guru? Gurus are not self-proclaimed. They are relaxed, joyful within and extremely humble. His deep, provoking thoughts on heaven and hell. The last time he was angry and how he handled it. Why he has meditated daily for the last twenty years on Goddess Kali. Must-read book: The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran Chandresh’s book: Break the Norms: Questioning Everything You Think You Know About God and Truth, Life and Death, Love and Sex Connect with Chandresh: Facebook Instagram Twitter YouTube Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/5/2018 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 43 seconds
The "No BS" Rule with Quest Nutrition Co-Founder Lisa Bilyeu
Episode 231: Before co-founding Impact Theory, Lisa Bilyeu co-founded the billion-dollar brand, Quest Nutrition, 8 years ago with her husband Tom Bilyeu. Her career influenced a significant life transformation from housewife to entrepreneur and evolved her business focus from health and nutrition to entertainment media. While struggling with major gut health issues for the past three years, Lisa has expanded her growth mindset to strengthen a mind/body harmony making her unstoppable in her work. She recently launched and hosts the show and podcast, "Women of Impact," that centers on female empowerment interviewing significant guests who make an impact in various fields ranging from health and wellness to pop culture. She also hosts another show, "Relationship Theory" with her husband and business partner, Tom Bilyeu, in which they discuss relationships, business, and how to manage both. She is building her brand with an emphasis on overcoming self-doubt to pursue your passion, cultivating a growth mindset, and being your own superhero!Show notes:How Lisa is currently musing about the impact she's having on women. Her transformation from housewife to entrepreneur and finding Quest Nutrition.Her background with living in Los Angeles and filmmaking.How creating 100% honesty from the very beginning with her husband has saved their marriage.“You only have so many decisions you can make in a day.” - Steve JobsHow to best monetize your time.The many businesses that she created that failed — photography, domain, website, real estate.How she embraces failure and why she is not triggered by it.The question she asks herself frequently: How will I feel if my goal never comes true?Why her financial goal became detrimental to her marriage and how she knew she had to make changes.How she started Quest Nutrition from her living room floor and going from 2,000 bars to 1.5 million bars a day.The major mindset shifts she had to make to become a confident career woman.How she looks at resistance and roadblocks: there are 2 options — stop or figure it out.How her and her husband balance the hustle of building a business.“The most elite people in the world are failing so I have to be able to allow myself to fail as well.”Their no BS rule that helped them to determine whether they wanted children.Her “dust settling” theory.When building a business, solve a problem that we all face.How her mother’s eating issues helped her create Quest Nutrition.The impact of leveraging customer’s behavior instead of changing their behavior.How to use fear as fuel to propel you forward.How connecting people emotionally, as well as storytelling can help build your brand and community.Impact Theory -- Really her mission: to impact people how? We talk to people, overcome depression, failures, speak their wisdom.Why she created Women of Impact and the 16-year olds specifically that she wants to help.How she is creating superheroes with her brand.Must-read book: The Female Brain by Louann BrizendineConnect with Lisa:InstagramWebsite Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/28/2018 • 1 hour, 3 minutes
Danielle Smith: The Endless Benefits of CBD for Anxiety, Depression and Health Ailments
Episode 230: After working for 14 years in Human Resources management, Danielle knew she needed to make a drastic decision for her mental health. She took a leap of faith and left her job to find her place in the cannabis industry after the plant helped both her and her loved ones find relief from a variety of ailments, and she made it her mission to educate her community and destigmatize this powerful plant. Danielle's involvement in the cannabis industry includes Maine Medical Marijuana Caregiving services where she worked directly with patients to identify the best methods of consumption and appropriate dosage levels based on the individual. Working with CBD derived from hemp plants allowed her to expand her mission nationally and provide assistance to many more people experiencing physical or mental pain looking for a safe, natural alternative to traditional medications and are unsure of what methods of consumption are available. Most importantly, she wanted to provide high quality, tested products knowing that this can be one of the biggest challenges for consumers. When she is not working, she can be found having epic dance parties in the kitchen with her three-year-old daughter, living in the moment with her family and friends, and traveling to explore new places and cultures. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Her passion for CBD oil and why she got started in this business. Her earliest memory with debilitating anxiety and dread in pre-school. Her emotional breakdown in January 2017 that had her re-evaluating her career. Why she was skeptical of CBD oil for her anxiety and the experience trying it before an anxiety provoking tradeshow. How she figured out what product to take, the dosage, and at what time of day. The differences between CDB and marijuana. CBD doesn’t have a psychoactive component; it will not create a “high” feeling. The two types of CBD products and the one that you want to ensure you get. How CBD oil effects drug testing. The subtle changes that you’ll notice so you know it’s making an impact. Danielle sums up taking CBD oil by feeling, “unapologetically me.” Danielle’s journaling recommendation to jot down your symptoms to determine if it’s working. The effects of taking too much CBD oil. How to enhance the amount that you’re already taking. Why it’s good to take CBD oil sublingually. Maddy’s experience with CBD oil and marijuana. Danielle’s specific CBD products and the numerous ailments that they help. An overview of THC and why it causes a high. Upcoming CBD spray to enhance sexual pleasure; excellent for trauma, dryness, pain. CBD oil is tied to every major organ in your system. It’s a powerful antioxidant that can prevent Dementia and Alzheimers. It's also anti-depressant, anti-diabetic, anti-psychotic, anti-cancer, anti-convulsant. View the products HERE; coupon code for 10% off: MADDYMOON Must-read book: The 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins Connect with Danielle: Facebook Instagram Business Instagram LinkedIn Business LinkedIn Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/21/2018 • 52 minutes, 11 seconds
3 Ways to Keep Body Insecurities from Ruining Your Day
Episode 229: In this podcast, Madelyn Moon discusses three powerful ways that body insecurities can be transformed and healed so that they do not continue to wreak havoc on your day. If you struggle with body shame, exercise addiction, body dysmorphia, and/or disordered eating, you are not alone and it is certainly not your fault. Madelyn discusses the emotionally abusive relationship that the media has created that directly affects our body image and how you can take your power back. Madelyn reminds us that we are so much more than our bodies and it's time to free ourselves of this immense pain that tortures so many of us. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE The tests that Maddy has recently had with traveling and how it’s and bringing up body image insecurities. Why the ego loves separation. A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose by Eckhart Tolle The routine eating process and the forms of exercise that brings Maddy back into her body. People can help with body insecurities IF you give them clear instruction on what you need. Be grateful if people are caring enough to help. Why the feminine struggles with receiving help. Be selective about who you go to in your vulnerable state when dealing with insecurities. The different perspective on bodies that straight women have. Maddy’s long journey and shame with folliculitis. The incredible insight that Maddy's boyfriend was able to give her about women's bodies. How the media is emotionally abusing women's bodies daily and the important perspective to have. Having body insecurities is a forever journey. Do not become frustrated. When insecurities come up, look at it as an opportunity to love yourself even bigger. Vedic Meditation 101 Episode with Yashoda Devi Ma If you learn to live past your thoughts, you will be able to have painful thoughts without them ruining your entire day. If you’re going to make any change in your life, get into meditation. The question that Maddy always asks herself when she has painful body insecurity thoughts. Whenever we’re struggling with body image issues, it’s always something deeper than what we’re thinking. When you’re creating something, you’re getting back in touch with your feminine. Never underestimate the power of creating. The huge list of body issues that you think no one else has. We are not exposed to different types of bodies, which is why we’re not celebrating the different types of bodies. The media only shows us the same women over and over.The importance of meditation when you're feeling insecure. Why creating something can shift everything. How to be vulnerable with people you trust. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/14/2018 • 48 minutes, 49 seconds
Christian Minson: Transformational Breathwork and Rythmia Life Advancement Center
Episode 228: Christian Minson is currently the resident Director of the Breathwork Program at Rythmia Life Advancement Center in Guanacaste, Costa Rica. His credentials include: International Speaker, Best-Selling Contributing Author, Trainer, Coach and Founder of Breathflow Wellness, a transformational holistic health business. Christian also spent 10 years as a monk, meditating and serving in search of the deeper meaning of life. Now he helps others achieve greater spiritual and emotional intelligence by integrating trauma, releasing limiting habits, managing emotions, and teaching others to find meaning in their own lives and work. Christian delivers inspiration and practical real-world tools that result in lower levels of stress, greater emotional awareness, and higher levels of fulfillment and performance. Christian shares his message and techniques through speaking engagements, 1-on-1 sessions, and public seminars. He has reached thousands of people across the globe, including Europe, Mexico, Canada, Costa Rica, and all over the USA. He has presented at conferences, universities, churches, retreat centers, and the Chopra Center. Visit his website at www.breathflow.com. Show notes: Christian’s favorite thing to muse about. His background and journey that led him to breathwork. “Our evolution, our ascension, is the primary purpose that we’re here for and meditation and breathwork are the best tools for attaining that.” Awake: The Life of Yogananda. How he become a monk. How he practices and believes in “ahimsa” — the principle of nonviolence towards all living things. His deep inner-calling to deal with things he hadn’t been interfacing with, such as getting a 'real job' and how society runs. What is transformative breathwork and how it is different from other techniques? “Oxygen is really where prana is present the most.” “When we start to bring in more prana into our life, we start to align with that lifeforce energy. Our consciousness starts to operate on a deeper, intuitive level and we feel more connected to life itself.” Christian provides a sample breath to hear what it sounds like. 3 F’s: full, free, flow (full inhale, relaxed and free exhale, continuous movement). Maddy shares one of her powerful flashbacks while she was doing the breathwork. “What’s coming is going.” Whatever comes up is on it’s way out of your consciousness. Powerful visualizations and how they appear during breathwork. Breath releases DMT, a chemical that opens us up in our consciousness to deeper understandings. How the chakras come into play during breathwork. “How we engage with the breath reflects how we engage with life.” When we hold our breath, we’re disengaged from life and our truth. Focus on the fluidity of your breath until the truth bubbles up. Christian's advice on how to do solo breathwork. Align Expand and Succeed: Shifting the paradigm of entrepreneurial success by Christine Kloser (Christian's Chaper: "Shift Happens") Christian's powerful teachers and mentors. Must-read books: God Talks with Arjuna: The Bhagavad Gita by Paramahansa Yogananda and Auto-Biography of a Yogi by Paramahansa Yogananda Connect with Christian: Book your trip to Rythmia with $150 OFF HERE or call (866) 207-3930 Facebook Instagram YouTube Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/7/2018 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 47 seconds
Phil Good: Twin Flames vs. Soul Mates, Awakening Your Kundalini and Healing the Collective
Episode 227: Phil was born and raised in Montreal, Canada. In 2006, he came to the U.S. to pursue his dreams as a singer in the music industry. Shortly after moving, a series of events led him and others to believe that he was bipolar. After years of being hospitalized, he had given up hope as nothing seemed to be improving. In 2011, he decided to try meditation. Within 5 minutes, he had a spontaneous kundalini awakening. He spent years ‘in the desert’ fostering his psychic abilities. In 2013, he was equipped to start assisting others with their ascension process. Today, with the use of Instagram (@philgoodlife), he is able to reach a wide audience and works with people at a global scale. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching to create a life filled with more abundance, flow and ease HERE How to recognize if you are a Starseed. Phil’s incredible Kundalini experience at age 22 and how he ended up in a mental institution. How Kundalini opens up your third eye and starts to link you to the higher celestial planes and archangels. His powerful stance on integrity and free will that shapes his experience as a quantum being. “We are multidimensional, quantum beings. We’ve forgotten that we’re this, but we all are psychic beings; it's just a matter of reconnecting to them.” The most important thing is to be aligned in mind, body and soul and to be aligned with your highest self. The stress that you feel when you can’t get to the gym, or you eat the wrong thing, isn’t stress. It’s a higher energy that is trying to merge with you. You keep denying it, which is denying your own inner light. When you have a day off from the gym or eat something bad, these are just guilt programs that you’re running. These programs are like malware; a virus that doesn’t want to be extracted, so it’s going to fight you. When you’re willing to oppose negative energy, then you’re beaming out love and light to everyone who proceeded you. Multi-dimensional = every potential has already happened to us. The importance of not making things right or wrong/good or bad. How Phil specifically finds his own personal groundedness and expands his consciousness. “You’re perfect as you are. You’re just upgrading yourself.” Our physical bodies are currently expanding and going through so much reconfiguration. We’re able to hold more perspective and less judgment than ever before. Phil’s love life and his experience with romantic partnerships. “Everything you see here is an illusion; nothing is real.” The wildly misconceptions about twin flames. Your twin flame is an internal flame. You can always tell when someone didn’t learn the lesson in a previous relationship — they’re still walking around complaining about it. “Twin flames are the highest personification of who you are; it’s our highest potential.” The reason why twin flames can’t come together physically right away. Your true twin flame transcends time and space. Even if you’re not with your twin flame, you’re still connected to them in your current relationship. Must read book: The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield Connect with Phil: Instagram YouTube Vimeo (purchasable webinars) Facebook Website Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/31/2018 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 39 seconds
Aileen Xu: Moving from Structure to Flow in the Creative Process
Episode 226: Aileen Xu is a lifestyle blogger, Youtuber, podcast host, and creator of the Artist of Life Workbook. Through her blog Lavendaire and podcast The Lavendaire Lifestyle, Aileen empowers people around the globe to embrace their true potential and create their dream life. Show notes: Aileen’s current muse and what she’s most inspired by. The current tarot deck that she’s working with. What she’s currently reading: Everyday Tarot by Brigit Esselmont Her journey to creating a life she's wildly obsessed with. Her top tips on figuring out what to do with your life. Must-read book: Caught Between a Dream and a Job by Delatorro McNeal II How she frugally lived without having a typical 9-5 job and how you can too. Why she started her brand, Lavendaire, and the meaning behind the name. How she shifts her thoughts when her passion feels stressful and unfulfilling. How to make the creation process more fun. The importance of checking in with yourself and reframing your perspective when you’re overwhelmed. Aileen's Clean video The tool that keeps her inspired with her YouTube channel. Her favorite form of journaling that keeps her connected to herself. Artist of Life Workbook: A Guide to Creating Your Most Inspiring & Successful Year. Her latest limiting belief that has caused her frustration and holding back. How to “stay in your own lane” and resist comparing yourself to others. “A flower doesn’t compete with the flower next to it. It just blooms.” Must-read book: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz Connect with Aileen: Website Instagram YouTube Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/24/2018 • 49 minutes, 42 seconds
Sarah Jenks: Waking up to Cultural Brainwashing, Sex after Giving Birth and Being One with the Moon
Episode 225: Sarah Jenks is the founder of Whole Woman, a monthly online membership for women seeking the answers to “Who am I? And why am I here?” and Live More Weigh Less™, the most popular online emotional eating program. Between her online programs and as proprietress of Hawthorn Farm, her 23-acre retreat center in Medfield, Massachusetts, Sarah holds sacred space to empower women and support them in finding their magic and rediscovering their most authentic selves. Since 2009, Sarah’s community of women seeking a fuller, more meaningful life has grown to almost 100K members. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching to create a life filled with more abundance, flow and ease HERE Embracing the curves of her body was a stepping stone to embracing more of the curves of life. How accepting her body was a real act of revolution. The lies that we tell ourselves that cause guilt and resentment: you need to be thin and pretty to be order to be love and accepted; you need to always be a peacemaker; always try to fit in; all you need is a partner, a cute house and a couple of kids and you’ll be happy. Sarah's journey with hating her body and joining Weight Watchers at age 10. The biggest lie that women are told in our society and how to transform it. Her life-changing moment where she realized that she could never go on another diet. "Food is a replacement for happiness; food is pleasure." "The major reason we overeat is because we are so tired of being something we aren’t." What triggered her spiritual journey and awakening. "There are so many reasons to take care of our bodies, none of which have to do with what we look like." The interesting fact about a women’s libido after having a baby. Must-read book: The Fourth Trimester by Kimberly Ann Johnson How our culture brainwashes women about their health and hormones. The other ways we can connect with our partner and be sensual as a women other than having sex. How to make sex feel sacred instead of just making it about physical attraction. How to ask for what you want sexually and not have resentment for having to ask. The importance of understanding how men and women are wired differently. We’ve been raised to think that we all need to be doing things the same way, but the reality is we’re all so different and the individual ways we do things is going to be unique. How to give yourself ultimate permission to only do what is right for you. If women are connected to the moon, we can see that we’re supposed to change every few days. The monthly lows that Sarah feels right before a new and full moon. "We’ve been taught as women that we’re unpredictable. We aren’t. We’re actually very predictable by the moon." A man’s hormonal cycle resets every 24 hours; a woman’s hormonal cycle resets every 28 days. Why as women we feel that we’re so bad at follow through and why we can’t stick to anything. It’s so important to understand the creative cycle that is built into life on earth: creating, connecting, releasing, resting cycle. How Sarah handles burn out. The importance of resting when you’re bleeding for your business. Magic Week: Sarah's free week-long course on practical magic The practices that Sarah uses for self-forgiveness Must-read book: Everyday Tarot by Brigit Esselmont Connect with Sarah: Website Facebook Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/17/2018 • 59 minutes, 26 seconds
8 Habits That Are Blocking Your Wild Feminine
Episode 224: In this podcast, Madelyn Moon dives into the realm of femininity to help you understand where you might be blocking the Feminine you already have access to. If you want to stop muting or numbing out your feels, you must begin to accept the emotions that are trying to move through your body. This means no more judgment or shaming yourself for feeling certain ways-- it's your emotion that is going to be the very thing to bring you back in touch with your Feminine! Take a listen to this episode to find out the 8 habits you may be partaking in daily which are ultimately watering down your incredibly powerful connection to your creative, open, sensual, slow, vulnerable, powerful, nourishing, feminine self. Let's open up our hearts, shall we? Show notes: How we are in our body is how we are in our emotional state. You can only open up as far as you open in your body. Be aware of how you position your body. For example, do you cross your arms often? Being in your body is being in the feminine. A simple technique you can do with your body to tap into your feminine. The power of opening yoga stretches: hip openers, half pigeon pose. Hips hold our trauma; stretch them regularly. Physically and emotionally going outward when we really want to go inward. Sun: outward; moon: inward. Honor your desire to be alone. FOMO isn’t really a thing. FOMO is a choice. Sometimes we are just too vulnerable to be around other people. We need to feel our feelings and we need to feel them alone. What is projection? Second-guessing yourself and back-pedaling on our lives. The power of “fake it til you make it.” Not honoring your yes and your no. The more you shut down your ability to say yes and no, the less you’re going to know what a yes and a no is. Eating in the Light of the Moon by Anita Johnston Rushing too quickly is a way we trample over our feminine. We hold back our energy (emotion/expression) to blend in and because our judgment is too much to bear. Jenna Cooper, The Bachelor HERE Not mothering yourself; telling yourself to get over it. We cannot nurture others if we cannot nurture ourselves. Not making time for dance; not making time to get into your physical body. My favorite dance ritual to get into my physical body. Holding onto the story that you’re still one of the guys. Choose to change your story. Say: I love women. I support women. I am a woman. We are all the same. Your beauty is my beauty. Women are not inherently dramatic; we are energy. Consistently send out an aura to the Universe that you are one of the girls. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/10/2018 • 59 minutes, 26 seconds
Dr. Kelly Brogan: Depression, the Food-Mood Connection and Quitting Numbing Out
Episode 223: Kelly Brogan, M.D. is a Manhattan-based holistic women’s health psychiatrist, author of the International and NY Times bestselling book, A Mind of Your Own, and co-editor of the landmark textbook, Integrative Therapies for Depression . She completed her psychiatric training and fellowship at NYU Medical Center after graduating from Cornell University Medical College, and has a B.S. from MIT in Systems Neuroscience. She is board certified in psychiatry, psychosomatic medicine, and integrative holistic medicine, and is specialized in a root-cause resolution approach to psychiatric syndromes and symptoms. She is on the board of GreenMedInfo, Functional Medicine University, Pathways to Family Wellness, NYS Perinatal Association, Price-Pottenger Nutrition Foundation, Mindd Foundation, the peer-reviewed, and indexed journal Alternative Therapies in Health and Medicine. She is Medical Director for Fearless Parent and a founding member of Health Freedom Action. She is a mother of two. Show notes: To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE How being diagnosed with an autoimmune disease made her seek out a naturopath. Her main reason for shifting away from the pill-based model. Anatomy of an Epidemic: Magic Bullets, Psychiatric Drugs, and the Astonishing Rise of Mental Illness in America by Robert Whitaker Why she hasn't prescribed medication to a patient in years. How to know if you’re in a state of depression. Why she believes we need to stop looking at depression as a disease. Why you can't have total wholeness through the medication model. The power of nutrition and why it works so well. Her no-excuses 3-minute meditation. Coffee enema: Dr. Nicholas Gonzalez "The foundation of mindset and belief is the single most non-negotiable element of healing." The contributing factor that she believes has led the world to depression. Children are taught to believe that their feelings are a problem. The first thing to do when someone is suicidal. Why it’s important to make room for a breakdown. When people are having an emotional day, don’t say, “I’m sorry.” Let them feel their feelings. Free tool: The Symptom Checker Connect with Dr. Kelly: Website Sign up for her FREE course, "Calm Body, Clear Mind" HERE Take her FREE Symptom Checker Quiz HERE Facebook Facebook Group Twitter Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/26/2018 • 39 minutes, 4 seconds
Why You Should Be "Too Emotional"
Episode 222: Growing up, I was often told that I was overly sensitive, way too emotional and that I needed to calm down. I heard these statements mainly from male figures in my life. Maybe you can relate. How often were you told growing up that you need to just chill out and stop making such a big deal out of things? These phrases haunted me for years — thinking there must be something inherently wrong with me. I've done some incredible healing work around this and now realize that feeling your feelings is a really beautiful thing. Connecting into my emotions is what shapes my life — they are my guiding truth; my connection to my intuition. Learning how to connect to my heart's truth is my superpower; not something I wish to ever shove down and hide from. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE The most uncomfortable thing I do each day. Why your emotions move you deeper into the divine feminine. “Your relationship to your emotions is your relationship to knowing who you are and what you want.” Where “too emotional” comes from. How our nervous system is affected when sometimes tells us we’re “too emotional.” An explanation of the first stage masculine - very unconscious. Netflix Trailer: Hannah Gadsby Nanette The two most popular complaints that I hear. “When you cut off your emotions because of these negative stories and limiting beliefs, you cut off your intuition.” Your emotions and your intuition are both related to your heart space and your gut. Why we complicate everything when we don’t allow ourselves to feel. The masculine is essentially consciousness — the constant. The feminine is essentially energy — the flow. Why we risk more when we’re younger. How trauma is created and how it can be released. What do you do when people around you don’t like your emotions? Why it’s important to look at how you show your emotions. Why the masculine feels that the feminine can’t be trusted. Why the feminine feels that the masculine can’t handle us. The importance of revealing how you feel and how this makes you more trustable to the masculine. "We reveal how we feel to people who we feel safe with." "The more we help each other feel safe, the more we feel safe." One of the most important questions to ask your partner. “If you’re not connected to your heart, it is abuse.” “Sharing and revealing is the healing.” Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/19/2018 • 51 minutes, 40 seconds
Sahara Rose: Connect with Your Highest Self Using Ancient Ayurveda
Episode 221: Sahara Rose is the best-selling author of the Idiot's Guide to Ayurveda (Penguin Random House) and has been called “a leading voice for the millennial generation into the new paradigm shift” by Deepak Chopra. She is a 27-year-old Certified Ayurvedic, Holistic and Sports Nutritionist, wellness blogger and host of the Highest Self Podcast. Sahara's mission is to awaken people of their innate potential so they can share their gifts and fulfill their purpose on this planet. Show notes: Sahara's personal story on spirituality and why she hid from it for years. How yoga opened up a whole new world for her. What being infertile and going through menopause at age 21 taught her. What is Ayurveda? The brutal digestive process she went through after she starting eating better. “Once you’ve healed your body, you realize you’re so much more than your body.” “Health is just the predecessor to be able to do the things I want to do in life. My life is not focused about being healthy. I hope I don’t even have to think about that so I can live my life and fulfill my darma.” According to Ayurveda, there is not one diet or herb that works for everyone. “Food is ⅕ of your overall health.” What is a dosha? The 3 Ayurvedic doshas: Vata (air), Pitta (fire), Kapha (earth). How to determine your specific dosha. The physical and mental characteristics of each type, as well as your body type and what you should eat. Vata: means “to move,” can be a little spacey if not in balance, are creative and free-flowing. Pitta: the most sensitive of all of the doshas, known for getting things done, should avoid spicy foods. Kapha: stable like the earth, the most likely dosha to become depressed, needs to know how to speak up and adapt to change. If you have excess Vata, take out raw foods. If you have excess Pitta, decrease spicy foods. If you have excess Kapha, decrease dairy and carbs. There are 6 tastes in Ayurveda: pungent, sweet, salty, sour, bitter, astringent. Sweet Foods: sweet potatoes, avocados, butternut squash, quinoa. Sour Foods: lemon, vinegar. Salty Foods : celery, sea vegetables, sea salt. Sour foods: leafy greens. Pungent Foods: turmeric, ginger, garlic. Astringent Foods: beans, lentils, cranberries, pomegranates. An example of what Sahara eats for lunch every day. Her favorite sweetener: liquid monkfruit Why you should remove sweeteners, including Stevia, from your diet. “You’re not given a dream if you don’t have the capacity to make it happen.” Must read books: Shit Your Ego Says by James McCrae, Shantaram by David Gregory Roberts, Break the Norms by Chandresh Bhwardwaj Must attend festival: http://zorbathebuddha.org/festivals/ Connect with Sahara: Website Order her {new!} book Eat Feel Fresh: A Contemporary, Plant-Based Ayurvedic Cookbook Instagram Facebook YouTube Podcast Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/12/2018 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 30 seconds
The Triple Goddess Explained: Maiden, Mother and Crone
Episode 220: If you want to create and cultivate more wisdom in your life, you must allow yourself to enter new phases of life. There are many ways to explore the changing stages of a woman’s life. In this episode, we explore the cycles of a woman’s life reflected in the three stages of the Triple Goddess: The Maiden, the Mother and the Crone. Understanding these three phases or archetypes of life has given me a deep appreciation for being a woman and I hope it does the same for you. Show notes: Apply for my 1:1 coaching to further explore the Triple Goddess archetypes HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE The article I reference to go deeper into these archetypes HERE The Maiden, the Mother and the Crone are each present within you. The archetype that is the most misunderstood. The archetype that makes me emotional. The Maiden represents: enchantment, inception, growth, expansion, new beginnings, youthfulness, playfulness, carefree, virgin energy. The Maiden’s job: to come to know her own thoughts, ideas, values, and purpose, and to dream and generate vision for her life. The Maiden: spring season/waxing moon. The Maiden's shadow side: caught up in taking chances without the wisdom to go along with it, dangerous in risk taking, refuse to take on insights from others and needs approval from others. The Mother represents: giving and compassion, a fullness, flourishing, rich/colorful, ripeness, fulfillment, stability, power. The Mother's shadow side: controlling, critical, over giving of who you are, abandon your own individuality. The Mother: summer season/full moon. “If we want to have a healthy mother, we have to be very in touch with our maiden.” The Mother’s job: to actualize the dreams of the Maiden and to become in touch with who she really is. The Crone represents: a sense of letting go, returning to your roots, represents wisdom, energy of surrender, no longer needing to prove anything to anyone, a fullness of wisdom, trustable, reliable, honest. The Crone’s job: to share her knowledge with others. The Crone's shadow side: can be resentful and bitter if she has regrets. The Crone: winter/autumn/ waning moon “Whenever you are in the Crone archetype, you’re closer to the fullness of God that is love.” Society and the media knows that the more they pressure us to stay in the archetype of the maiden, the more we will spend. “We are pressured to have the maiden body, life and mindset, but we’re not fulfilling our duties here to be the divine feminine if we don’t go through all of the stages.” My invitation to you is do not go back to who you were. All of life is forward motion. You are not meant to be the maiden forever. You are meant to change and grow. “If you want to create and cultivate more wisdom in your life, you must allow yourself to enter new phases of life.” Honor the changing phases and know that you have a maiden, mother, crone within you at all times. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/5/2018 • 43 minutes, 5 seconds
Brigit Esselmont: How Tarot Can Bring You Closer to Intuition and God
Episode 219: Brigit Esselmont is the author of the #1 Amazon best-selling books the Ultimate Guide to Tarot Card Meanings and the Biddy Tarot Planner, and the brand new book and Tarot deck, Everyday Tarot. A professional Tarot reader for more than 20 years, Brigit founded Biddy Tarot (www.biddytarot.com) in 1999, where each year more than 4.5 million people are inspired to live more mindful and enlightened lives, using the Tarot as a guide. A self-confessed Tarot lover, Brigit can’t help but spread the love to other Tarot enthusiasts. She teaches aspiring Tarot readers how to read Tarot with confidence and spiritual professionals on how to build their own business empires that are aligned with their soul’s purpose. Brigit believes anyone can read Tarot. She doesn’t own a crystal ball nor a crushed velvet dress. She’s simply a down-to-earth, practical Taurus who likes to use the Tarot cards in everyday life. When she’s not reading Tarot, Brigit loves spending time with her two daughters and husband on the Sunshine Coast, Australia. Show notes: Apply for my 1:1 coaching to create a life filled with more abundance, flow and ease HERE Is it possible to combine a religious practice with Tarot? How Brigit's first Tarot reading came true and the importance of it in her life. The specific thing she did to feel more in flow with her readings. Why do people think Tarot is evil? When you should not use tarot cards and when you should. “Tarot is a tool that allows us to open up to insights already inside us. It's a mirror into our lives." How to determine if a tarot reading is right for you. How tarot can bring you closer to God. The history of Tarot — how it got started and what the cards were used for. Using Tarot to understand ourselves and connect to our highest selves. Definitions of the most common tarot terms. The particular card that she pulled that scared her. “Every card has light and shade — just like everything else in our lives.” What is a spread? How to use tarot cards during the moon cycles. The difference between oracle cards and Tarot cards. What are reversals and are they legit? What to do when you pull a card you don’t like. Book: Everyday Tarot Pre-order HERE Must read book: The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks Favorite oracle deck: The Sacred Rebel Deck Favorite travel tarot deck: Everyday Tarot Deck Connect with Brigit: Website Facebook Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/29/2018 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 41 seconds
Gemma Danielle: Cacao Ceremonies, Reiki Healing and Connecting with Spirit through the Womb
Episode 218: Gemma Danielle is an artist and certified Reiki Master instructor. She has studied traditional Usui Reiki for over a decade and combines shamanic journeying, plant medicine ceremonies, akashic record reading and sound healing in her private practice. She seeks by contemplation and self-surrender to obtain unity with the absolute, and pursues universal truths that are beyond the intellect and the individual. Inspired by a personal healing journey, her work points beyond the illusion of separation, to express the ineffable mystical experience of transpersonal consciousness. Her fine art began as a medium for the healing energies of Reiki, and she often references the ancient meditation tool of the mandala as a conductor and generator of this energy. She repeats silent prayers, or mantras, with each line drawn in her intricate webs, and labors over the precise straight lines without the aide of a ruler, attempting to mimic the technical precision of a computer by embracing the powerful capabilities of the human hand. She claims these works exist in multiple dimensions and can elicit an involuntary emotional response. She believes that art can serve as an antidote to the spiritual apathy of contemporary culture, beyond the fashionable expression of ego, to bring profound personal transformation and catalyze global spiritual evolution. Show notes: Kinetic Queens: Group Coaching Program for the Forward-Moving Feminine Apply HERE The tremendous amount of pain Gemma’s been through in her life. Finding a sense of home again. Her intense experience with being misdiagnosed as schizophrenic during her spiritual awakening. What it took for her to get aligned with her spirit. The simplest definition of the healing energy work, Reiki. “Everybody has the power of Reiki within them.” “In the realm of healing, there is no room for ego.” Healing sexual shame with reiki. Anything that is showing up for you in your physical, mental, emotional space has a correlation to your spirit. The true culprit around any physical issue you’re experiencing. What painful periods and ovarian cysts can mean. A new radical way of thinking about our eggs and ovaries. The daily/monthly rituals that help you to connect to the energy of your womb. How to connect to the beautiful gift of having a period. The ‘aha’ moment of why there is war in the world. Why Gemma doesn’t wear tampons/cups, etc. What is a cacao ceremony? The ceremony experience that helped her heal an abortion and made her realize that she wanted to birth children. How your Saturn Return will profoundly change the course of your life. “The Universe wants you to thrive. Even in the harshest of conditions, plants will still grow.” Connect with Gemma: Website Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/22/2018 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 13 seconds
5 Reasons Why This Popular Fear Around Becoming a Coach is Total BS
Episode 217: If you'd like to become a coach, but haven't quite made the leap yet, I'm guessing this popular reason is holding you back and creating most, if not all, of your resistance. Trust me, I get it...there are lots of ways our Inner Critic likes to convince us that we need to play it safe. Here is my question: is that your true voice? Is that really the voice that has your best interest at heart? Do you feel it's been leading you closer to your truth all your life...or further? In this episode, I'll explain why this one popular fear is total BS and how you can triumph over it to become the coach you desire, and were born, to be. Show notes: Apply for my 1:1 coaching to overcome your deepest fears HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE My life update and current periods of transition. Encouraging thoughts to your path of healing. “Express your joy at the same time that you feel the rawness of your heart.” Find the one thing that you do know and then let the rest of it unfold on its own. Are you going to play small for the sake of holding on to control, or are you going to play big and step into the uncertain space in front of you? The importance and difference between having a physical team and a spiritual team. “Be open to the next step coming to you.” Why so many feel overwhelmed with picking a life coach. Top book recommendation: You Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero It’s okay if what you love doesn’t land with other people. Everyone might be saying the same thing in the coaching world, but the way YOU say it might make all the difference to someone. “We’re looking for ourselves in other people.” The reason why we resonate the most with certain people and not so much others. Coming up with your own point of view is what sets you apart. Even though it may feel like there’s so many coaches, there’s really not. Nothing is original. We’re ALL recycling the same stuff and that’s okay. Coaching tip: If you’re starting out in coaching, get specific on the one thing that you feel the most comfortable with. The honest truth is there’s never going to be enough coaches and healers in the world. You being a healer does not threaten me being a healer. The ego’s role in keeping you safe and what to do about it. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/15/2018 • 44 minutes, 48 seconds
Emily Roberts: Calming the Nervous System During Moments of Fear, Anxiety and Overwhelm
Episode 216: Emily Roberts is a Psychotherapist, Parenting Consultant, Educational Speaker and Author of the book Express Yourself: A Teen Girls Guide to Speaking Up and Becoming Who You Are. The Guidance Girl is a concept created by Emily Roberts an innovative, powerful approach to help you achieve goals and feel your best by redefining traditional therapy for the girls and women of today. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching to create a life that you're searching for HERE How Emily splits her time between New York City and Austin, Texas. “We all have an adolescent person inside of us. We all have a bully in our brain.” How parents project their own issues that haven’t been healed onto their children. Why you should feel whatever is coming up for you. The biggest anxiety that Emily experiences. How to let go and release the Type A personality. Emily’s motto: “If I’m forcing it, it’s not going to work.” Why being emotional is a very good thing. How to realize when you’re being triggered by other's emotions. “There’s a function to every feeling.” How emotions are handled by our nervous system. Simple coping mechanisms for when you feel overwhelmed. Why giving yourself compassion is the key to calming down your nervous system. How traumas (any kind of stress) take a toll on our bodies. A simple breathing tool to help you release stress and anxiety. The importance of the vagus nerve and your breath. Specific steps to follow if you desire more flow in your life. The power of the pause. Emily’s “Return of Saturn” and how it often turns out better than expected. Why your own handwriting can help you discover solutions when you’re feeling lost. How to honor what your body is trying to communicate. The most important question to ask yourself to reframe your story. What self-care really is and what it isn’t. The ripple effect of being authentic and vulnerable. Must-read book: A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson Connect with Emily: Website Facebook Instagram YouTube Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/8/2018 • 57 minutes, 26 seconds
Moving Through Periods of Uncertainty and Feeling Lost
Episode 215: Most of us have been raised to have everything under control and within our power. Get job...find the love of your life...have the perfect body...know who you are. When this is the case, what do you do when it feels like everything's out of your immediate control? When you have no plan at all and no sense of direction on where to go next, it can be an incredibly lonely and scary time. However, there is also a beautiful gift in the chaos. This episode is for those who are currently feeling "plan-less" and are at a standstill with what is next. I offer you my guidance, support and tips on how to navigate the uncertainty. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching to create a life that you're searching for HERE The beautiful gift in not having a plan. A few tools to stay grounded during periods of transition. "While it might sound nice, you would literally go insane if everything always stayed the same." Our core needs for certainty and uncertainty. "Let your desire be your north star." Why asking yourself this key question can shift things quickly. Two things you can do to immediately feel better about your current lost state. "Understanding and Cultivating Your Intuition" by Kendra Cunov “Sometimes we label a situation as lost when it’s actually just a real refusal of our desire.” Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/1/2018 • 37 minutes, 59 seconds
Matt Kahn: Everything Is Here to Help You
Episode 214: Matt Kahn is the author of the best-selling book Whatever Arises, Love That. He is a spiritual teacher, and highly attuned empathic healer who has become a YouTube sensation with his healing and often humorous videos. His ten million True Divine Nature YouTube channel viewers are finding the support they seek to feel more loved, awakened, and opened to the greatest possibilities in life through the invitation to join the “Love Revolution That Begins with You.” Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching to embrace your femininity, find your flow and uplevel your life HERE Previous episode with Chloe Elgar HERE Matt’s journey into being an empathic child A deep dive into fear and how to handle it when it arises. “Fear is a product of the darkness. Darkness is actually the light, but it doesn’t know it’s the light yet.” “We’ve come to this planet to rescue the darkness as the light that has not yet become aware of itself.” “Darkness is so afraid of dying that it’s afraid to come to the light.” How to look at fear from a powerful perspective The real reason why you can’t reconcile fear. A new perspective on handling difficult family dynamics. “When you’re around people who can’t give you what they need, it’s because they haven’t been taught how to give it to themselves.” How to ground yourself into the earth plane so you have more time for the things that matter to you. Soul contracts and Twin Flames YouTube video HERE “Whenever there is any abusive dynamics, that’s a sign from the Universe that the soul contract is complete.” Why Matt will not discuss his job or spirituality unless he’s asked “When we lead with being interested in other people, other people are interested in us.” Connect with Matt: Website Facebook YouTube Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/25/2018 • 1 hour, 14 minutes
Ezzie Spencer: Tracking Moon Cycles for Self-Awareness and Soul Evolution
Episode 213: Dr. Ezzie Spencer wants people to flourish. She is a published author, and creator of Lunar Abundance®. She is the host of an iTunes podcast, and the author of the book, LUNAR ABUNDANCE, CULTIVATING JOY, PEACE AND PURPOSE USING THE PHASES OF THE MOON. Ezzie started out as a lawyer and academic researcher. She holds a PhD in therapeutic jurisprudence and women's wellbeing. Together with tracking the moon cycle, this was her entry into the importance of the emotional realm, which she continues to explore through her work today. As the creator of Lunar Abundance® – a lunar-inspired, holistic self-care practice — Ezzie helps tens of thousands of women around the world cultivate self-worth, creativity and confidence in a playful way. Show notes: To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching and read testimonies of my previous clients HERE How the moon cycles helped her to work less. How to schedule your life around the phases of the moon. Why the Lunar abundance cycle is not designed to be a rigid ritual. The difference between the “doing” and the “being” phases. How to know when you need to be a “yes girl” and a “no girl” to plans. What to do when you have a moment of resistance with something in your life. “The moon is always a reflection; it’s always reflecting us back to ourselves.” Meditation as Medicine: by Guru Dharma Singh Khalsa and Cameron Stauth Previous episode with Ezzie Spencer HERE Connect with Ezzie: Website Instagram Buy her book Lunar Abundance HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/18/2018 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 18 seconds
Sierra Brashear: The Ancient Wisdom of Yoni Steaming
Episode 212: Sierra Brashear, MA, is an Ayurvedic Practitioner, doula and founder of Vibrant Souls. Driven by the belief that a vibrant woman radiates potential for personal and planetary transformation, Vibrant Souls makes organic yoni steaming herbs and unique tea blends available to women around the world. Rooted in the ancient wisdom of the Vedas, Sierra's Ayurvedic wellness coaching focuses on nutrition and lifestyle choices that align her clients with the rhythms and elements of nature. With a focus on women's unique needs, she sees clients virtually and in Boulder, Colorado through her joint practice, Cultivate Balance. Show notes: Go to fitt.co/moon to discover your new favourite restaurant, outdoor activity and/or health-conscious event in your city. To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching and read testimonies of my previous clients HERE When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times by Pema Chodron The difference between a midwife and a doula. How to train to become a doula. Sierra’s opinion about a home birth vs a hospital. “For most women, giving birth at home is the traditional and quite safe way to give birth.” The dangers of Pitocin. The Red Tent by Anita Diamant Why it's not natural for women to give birth on their backs and why hands, knees, and on your side are preferred positions. Yoni Steaming: What it is, what it helps with and why it works “Yoni steaming provides access to feminine energy that gives rise to our vibrant radiance and creative potential.” The emotional and creativity benefits of yoni steaming. Vagina: a New Biography by Naomi Wolf Yoni is a sanskrit word which encompasses all of the reproductive system. The process of the yoni steam ritual and the herbs that are used. How to make a yoni steam at home. Sierra’s daily rituals to connect her with her cycle. Herbs to help align with your internal natural rhythms and the lunar cycle. Connect with Sierra: Website Instagram Facebook Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/11/2018 • 49 minutes, 56 seconds
Kelsey Grant: Making Self-Loyalty a Priority Regardless of Relationship Status
Episode 211: Kelsey Grant is passionate about living in a world where people feel inspired, fulfilled, balanced and happy within the expansiveness of their intimate relationships. As a Love and Relationship Educator rooted in Radical Self Love Methodology, she writes, speaks and teaches, men and women the art of accessing greater alignment with themselves, one another and the essence of true love. Her love and relationship education platform, The Legendary Love Academy, produces live events, online self-study programs, online group classes, local and international retreats, all designed to teach the art of uncrossing the wires of understanding between men and women, expanding self-awareness and leveling up relational development, so legendary love, healthy relationships and sustainable partnership become possible again in this disconnected digital age. In addition to her commitment to love and relationship education, her passion for producing epic high level events runs deep. She is the producer and event director for MOTU Summit and her flagship day training Get the Love Worth Having. Her previous producing credits include Awesomeness Fest and Mantalks. Show notes: Go to fitt.co/moon to discover your new favourite restaurant, outdoor activity and/or health-conscious event in your city. To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching and read testimonies of my previous clients HERE Must-read book Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix Ph.D. An introduction to numerology and how to easily calculate your personal numerology cycle year. Kelsey’s journey from feeling restless and being pulled into something bigger nine years ago. “We can’t learn how to be great with another person until we’re able to be great with ourselves.” The difference between how the feminine and the masculine energy handle arguments. The importance of weekly check-ins for relationships. “There isn’t any dating situation that is a waste of time if we’re learning.” How to determine your "baseline criteria" and non-negotiables for incredible alignment in a relationship “The whole point of the dating phase, which generally lasts 3 months, is clarity.” It's here that you access how much alignment is in a relationship. Why it's key to keep an abundant mindset about men and how to do that. "It's not possible to regress…relationships build upon one another." The critical self-work you need to do before the dating phase. Favorite playful song to dance to: "Make It Happen" by John Splithoff Favorite sexy song to dance to: “Nevermind” by Dennis Lloyd Connect with Kelsey: Website Facebook Instagram Twitter Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/4/2018 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 51 seconds
Drew Gerald: The Process of Unraveling Ego and Personal Identity
Episode 210: Drew Gerald is a coach, entrepreneur, and author. One of his notable works, “Holistic Sex”, has been published alongside spiritual leaders such as Eckhart Tolle, Abraham-Hicks, David Deida, Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, and Bob Proctor. Previously, at 18 he founded and ran a high end software company for over 7 years - creating solutions used by Fortune 500 clients such as Disney, Samsung, Sony Pictures, Whole Foods, Walmart, and over 30,000 others. His current work, "The Process", is a transformational video series for awakening entrepreneurs and artists, supporting them in the mysteries of the modern day hero's journey. Show notes: Go to fitt.co/moon to discover your new favourite restaurant, outdoor activity and/or health-conscious event in your city. To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching and read testimonies of my previous clients HERE Must-read book Course in Miracles by Helen Schucman Must-read book When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chödrön Why it’s perfectly okay to not have a crisp vision of who you are Women want to feel penetrated; not just from the penis, but from presence How Drew painfully played the victim in his childhood and how that has shaped his journey. How to handle life when you’re feeling like a fraud. You can have everything, but you’re still not above the shit. Drew’s definition of the “shadow” “Protector Killer” Archetype - a violent and angry aspect of Drew that he saw growing up Why women shut their femininity and vibrancy down in business. Why it’s so important for women to harmonize control and feel pleasure. The power of embodying the energy of the “sensual slut”-- a teaching I learned from my mentors Kendra Cunov and John Wineland You’re not serving yourself if you’re not sharing your pleasure with others. A situation that made Drew stop smiling and how that connected to his masculine judgment. Where to start when your shadow side is coming up. Why “giving yourself permission” is everything. Drew’s course: The Process, a free video masterclass series where you receive 30 days of videos and written insights, guiding you through the remarkable process of awakening as an entrepreneur or artist. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/27/2018 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 52 seconds
Alexandra Jamieson: Rebuilding Trust When it’s Been Painfully Broken
Episode 209: As the best-selling author of Women, Food & Desire, co-creator and co-star of the Oscar-nominated documentary Super Size Me, and highly-sought-after wellness expert for thousands, Alexandra Jamieson has made it her mission to empower women to create epic lives–by honoring their cravings and kicking body shame to the curb. Alex is the creator of Her Rules Radio, a #1 rated podcast on iTunes where listeners from around the world are educated and captivated by thought-provoking interviews on wellness, cravings, sexuality, and more. Her work has been praised and adored by Oprah, The Today Show, Dr. Oz, Goop, Martha Stewart Living, the New York Times, CNN, Fox News, Elle, Marie Claire, USA Today, People, and the American Heart Association amongst many others. As a life-long learner, her wellness expertise has grown out of a decade of experience, as well as her education at the Natural Gourmet Institute, the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, and a certification in Applied Positive Psychology. Show notes: Go to fitt.co/moon to discover your new favourite restaurant, outdoor activity and/or health-conscious event in your city To get a list of my top 100 favourite books FOR FREE, go HERE To get a free 30-day trial of Audible + 1 free book, go HERE Apply for my 1:1 coaching and read testimonies of my previous clients HERE An experiment Alexandra did with her son to show him the power of language (see the original Instagram post I refer to HERE) Ways you can teach your child consent Why Alexandra does not tickle her child or make him hug anyone he doesn't want to huge (even those in the family) A few memories I have where consent boundaries were crossed as a child in my family (being forced to ride rollercoasters that terrified me, being sat on when I had eyedrops put in my eyes, tickling) Setting boundaries with your family and not getting lost in the cycle of guilt Soul Friends by Stephen Cope Acknowledging that relationships will uncover new layers of yourself for your entire life How to know the difference between when you need to set boundaries with someone and when you need to take a hatchet to the relationship The question to ask yourself: "How much more pain are you willing to endure?" Insight into Alexandra's previous marriage with famous director Morgan Spurlock and the infidelity she experienced in that marriage Why complaining about your partner/ex-partner to your child is one of the most damaging things your child can experience When you talk negatively about your spouse, you are talking negatively about your child. Children associate their parents as them. They are 50% their mom and 50% their dad. So when you speak negatively about a parent, you are speaking negatively about the child-- except it's even worse because they can't change that thing about them that you're hating on. They can't fix it because it's not literally a problem within them...it's within their parent and that is out of their control. When Morgan Spurlock came out about his contribution to an unsafe, sexist work environment after the #MeToo movement picked up speed How Alexandra was able to rebuild trust in both female friendships and romantic relationships How Alexandra's current partner was completely honest with her from date number one because he both respected her and he respected himself. Bob, her husband, was far from perfect on paper but he provided for her many trustable qualities she desired in a future partner. This was a huge step for her healing process and her ability to trust a partner again. Compersion: the opposite of jealousy, finding joy in another person's joy. Getting to Hell Yes: the book Alexandra and Bob are writing together on the four step process to having a high-stakes emotional conversation (Intention, Concerns, Boundaries, Desires) Must-read book: Dodging Energy Vampires by Dr. Christiane Northrup Janelle Monae's Dirty Computer Album (watch the motion picture here) Connect with Alexandra: Website Facebook Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/20/2018 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 15 seconds
Chloe Elgar: Everything We Do Has Purpose, Detaching From Our Own Mind Games and Being Psychic
Episode 208: Chloe Elgar is an Intuitive Healer, Psychic, Holistic Nutritionist, Author & Speaker and the founder of Chloe‘s Countertop, a platform to support women and men around the world who are ready to step into their light and connect to their higher selves. Chloe's focus ranges from issues with disordered eating, body image and relationship to body- to our connection to purpose and a deeper exploration with spirit. Chloe’s universal mission is to change our relationship to pain and discomfort- and to create space for vulnerability, connection and truth. Show notes: Find a fitness studio, healthy place to eat, outdoor adventure, or upcoming event near you by heading over to fitt.co/moon and exploring your city! Also follow along on their Instagram @fittcity. Listen to the first episode I did with Chloe Elgar HERE Listen to old episodes of the Mind Body Musings on the archives page HERE The importance of having friends who can put on their friend hat rather than be "on" as a coach all the time Chloe's passion for being a very specific type of coach rather than what we see a lot of in the coaching world today Some of the people Chloe really relates to in the spiritual teacher realm Matt Kahn and his new book Everything is Here to Help You Ego spirituality vs. being present to what we are actually being given in life Why some teachers will appeal to you at specific times in your life depending on what you are ready for How we can know when we are out of alignment with ourselves based on what kind of media we are consuming Chloe's obsession with Chris Brown when she steps into a place of self-sabotage My love/hate relationship with TV and all the dating shows I spend time watching Understanding nothing is bad, wrong or a waste of time Chloe and her husband's recent struggle and how she shifted her perspective on it How made-up stories get planted in our heads and how we subconsciously look for every reason why our story is true "We spend too much time looking for the perfect love rather than creating it." -Tom Robbins How Chloe has come to fully own her psychic gift and also learn how to "turn it off" so to say Same Soul, Many Bodies by Brian L Weiss M.D. Listen to the Soul on Fire Podcast interview on past lives with Jeroen De Wit Read the book Chloe mentions about Jeroen's past life memories titled The Boy Who Knew Too Much Must-read book: Return to Love and Choose Wonder Over Worry Connect with Chloe: Website Instagram Facebook Vibrate Light Mentorship Readings Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/13/2018 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 27 seconds
How to Stop Feeling Responsible for the Thoughts and Actions of Others
Episode 207: Would you say that you're someone who struggles when you don't feel liked? Would you say that you typically sensor your sentences to ensure they don't offend anyone? And if they do, you apologize profusely and obsess over it for a week? Okay, let me ask you this one: ever avoided eye contact, wearing something "too sexy" or shooting a loving smile over to a man out of fear he will get the wrong idea (and that it will obviously be your fault)? Many of us have been taught, since birth, that it is our responsibility to: Not cause a man to stumble Make sure everyone feels comfortable Make sure you are liked Not piss anyone off Fit in Cover up your body (or else you are "asking" for it) Please your family members by being who they want you to be Any many more examples. Many women have been taught that it is our responsibility to be liked by everyone, to play the role of the sweet/kind friend and to not step on any toes. If this kind of programming is not healed, it has the power to lead us straight into a whirlwind of anxiety every single time we feel someone is mad at us. It keeps us quiet whenever we've been taken advantage of. We may feel we are unloveable. Feeling responsible for the actions of others is one of the most dreadful experiences ever...simply because you're trying to control something you will never and can never control. If you relate to any of this above, pull up a chair and get ready to take some notes. Show notes: Find a fitness studio, healthy place to eat, outdoor adventure, or upcoming event near you by heading over to fitt.co/moon and exploring your city! Also follow along on their Instagram @fittcity. The conversation I had with my client that opened up the doors to this conversation. Why it is not your fault if a man is attracted to you (and why you shouldn't try to avoid that either). The Instagram post where I wrote about causing a man to stumble. Showing the world your Love Light fully and openly. Releasing the idea that you are responsible for what others are experiencing How the subconscious belief that you are responsible for the happiness of others could be sabotaging your own choices even as an adult. An example of how the body image industry often presented an opportunity for me to sit with not pleasing everyone with my work. Don't intentionally hurt anyone emotionally or physically-- otherwise, speak your truth and allow others to have their own experience with whatever your truth is. It's not your job to keep people from being triggered (in fact, it's often really helpful when you give them that experience) Triggers show us where we are not yet healed and where we still have work to do. Without triggers, we are not growing. How to set emotional boundaries Using triggers to deepen your relationships (with an open heart) rather than fight, disconnect and close your heart. You are responsible for what you say, not what others hear. Examples of the Masculine to follow: Josh Trent, John Wineland, David Deida, Justin Baldoni, Justin Patrick Pierce, Kyle Lipton, Drew Gerald, Jay Shetty and Lewis Howes. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> Maddy's 100+ Favourite Books List HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/6/2018 • 51 minutes, 37 seconds
Christine Gutierrez: Exploring Spirituality Outside of How You Were Raised (Without an Identity Crisis)
Episode 206: Christine Gutierrez, LMHC is a leading Latina psychotherapist with a Masters in Human Behavior and Development focusing on prevention and community from City College of New York. In addition, she is an advice columnist, speaker, author, poet, and founder of christineg.tv, an online hub that features psychologically-savvy and soulful advice, articles, videos, private consultations, workshops, retreats (both live+virtual), radio appearances, and television projects. Show notes: FABFITFUN is a seasonal box, with full-size beauty, fitness and lifestyle products. Check out www.FABFITFUN.com and use the code “MINDYBODY” to save $10 off your first box, making it only $39.99 (yet every box is worth $200 in product!) >> don’t miss their unique Summer box! How Christine was raised Catholic but always had a deep connection to spirituality, the human connection, suffering, love and all rituals around connecting with the Divine. How people can authentically explore spirituality outside of religion. There is no path to spirituality that is "better" or "worse" than another. How leaving a religion can result in an identity crisis if it's done without guidance and/or support. The beauty of having a spiritual guide or therapist during this transition. My journey of moving from black-and-white conservative religion to a more open spiritual practice (and how I found a new baseline). All of the spiritual teacher before us have been spreading a similar message of love yourself + love each other. It's okay if your spiritual practice looks completely different from another's. An internal block Christine has been navigating and revealing recently. A situation that happened online where Christine was suggested as a "next level teacher" but was immediately dismissed by the coach. The Facebook Live Christine did to share her experience around this. How we all pre-maturely judge people from time to time whether it's because of their name, color or amount of social media followers-- and what we can do about it. What love addiction is. Must-read book: Women Who Run with Wolves (get a free audiobook using my special podcast link HERE) Connect with Christine: Website Instagram Facebook Twitter Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/30/2018 • 57 minutes, 24 seconds
How to Speak With More Confidence and Power (By Cutting Out These Useless Words)
Episode 205: As women especially, our auto-pilot language tends to air on the side of caution. We don't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. We don't want to walk on any toes. We don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. While this comes from good intentions, the language that we use in order to protect everyone around us typically hurts ourselves-- the most important person in our lives. Have you ever been hurt by someone and kept it bottled up? Have you ever shared your pain with another, but added that you're probably being overly sensitive or emotional? Have you ever reached out to someone you looked up to and put them on a pedestal by lowering your own value (possibly without even realizing it)? We use words such as "just, sorry, kind of, actually" and many more, as a way to decrease the assertion of our speech. We want to ensure what we say comes across as sweet and pretty, because our programming tells us that if we don't, we are not going to be liked. We are going to be seen as a biatch. What is happening deep within is an internal belief that we are not worthy of being upset. When you speak in this way, you begin to believe that your emotions or time is not as valuable as someone else's. You begin to think that your voice is not as important. It's not going to be a fast transformation, but it's time we begin to slow down with our speech to be more intentional with our words. It's time we reclaim our feelings, presence, statements and truth. Are you ready to fully step into your power? Desire a clearing of the throat chakra? Want to take care of yourself first and foremost, at last? If so, this podcast is for you. Show notes: FABFITFUN is a seasonal box, with full-size beauty, fitness and lifestyle products. Check out www.FABFITFUN.com and use the code “MINDYBODY” to save $10 off your first box, making it only $39.99 (yet every box is worth $200 in product!) >> don’t miss their unique Summer box! Why we feel the need to over-compensate our truth with smiley faces, exclamation points and filler words to ensure the receiver feels comfortable with what we are saying. Most of us have been raised to believe we are "pretty and sweet" our entire lives. If this is our subconscious programming, we are going to make sure everything we say is also "pretty and sweet." We are caught between saying something powerfully and holding ourselves back. We are stepping into our truth and then backpedaling right out of it. Here is a recent Instagram post I wrote around this topic. Our speech becomes our thoughts. Our thoughts become our emotions. Our emotions become our beliefs. What we say and think is so important and should never be underestimated. (this is where the Law of Attraction all begins) Differentiating the Social Self vs. Professional Self (By Steve Chandler) Some useless words to begin releasing from your speech and emails, including: "sorry, just, like, kinda of, actually, does that make sense?" A few tips on how to clean up and strengthen your emails / texts. Why you should put your laptop or phone away in moments you feel anxious or reactive. How to present yourself to someone you are making a request of or sharing something deep with. (Hint: don't water down your speech...it makes it less likely they will listen to you and you are subconsciously programming yourself to believe you are not worthy of speaking powerfully!) What to do when you begin noticing yourself using these phrases and words moving forward. Playing Big by Tara Mohr My podcast episode with Tara Mohr Just Not Sorry Gmail plugin Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> 5 Divinely Feminine Tools for Decreasing Stress and Anxiety HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/23/2018 • 51 minutes, 43 seconds
Kendra Cunov: How to Let Him Lead You {Badly}
Episode 204: Founder of Fierce Grace: Practices of Embodied Wholeness for Women, Kendra Cunov has been studying, facilitating, and (most importantly) practicing Authentic Relating, Embodiment Practices & Deep Intimacy Work for the last fifteen years. Kendra has worked with thousands of men, women & couples in the areas of embodiment, intimacy, communication & full self-expression. She co-founded Authentic World, as well as The Embodied Relationship & Intimacy Training Salon, and pioneered some of the most cutting edge relation work on the planet. Kendra has consulted for companies such as Genentech & is currently on staff for 4PC, an elite mastermind for the top 4% of coaches in the world. She works with organizations & leaders, as well as men, women & couples, who know that presence, truth, connection & integrity are our truest access points to success - in business & in love. Show notes: FABFITFUN is a seasonal box, with full-size beauty, fitness and lifestyle products. Check out www.FABFITFUN.com and use the code "MINDYBODY" to save $10 off your first box, making it only $39.99 (yet every box is worth $200 in product!) >> don't miss their unique Summer box! Why Kendra lived at a Buddhist Monastery for a period of time and how it eventually led her to leave the monastery to lead relational dynamics with her now ex husband Two of her teachers: Sofia Diaz and David Deida Authentic relating: the practice of hiding nothing (not to be confused with share everything) How making assumptions about what people can and cannot handle from you can lead you to limiting yourself (all from just an assumption, too!)-- this is why we often show our full spectrum of emotions to some people, but not all people. How Kendra has learned what works for her when she feels jealous in her relationship (and how she communicates it with her partner) Letting your emotions flare How to be generous and patient while you learn to let your man lead (sometimes badly) How to not be defensive when your partner is doing his best to be honest and vulnerable Let {Him} Lead You Badly (video) Going three layers deeper so you move past the surface level complaint and get to the real desire An example of how we often sabotage our partner from taking the role of leader My fear of going deep into this woo-woo relationship realm and how it may disconnect me from the "mainstream" men I have available to date (and what Kendra has to say about that) The Myth of Being Met in Relationship You can be exactly who you are whether you are in a relationship or not: you never have to change your ways or your behavior (unless you decide to) How the masculine creates the structure and the feminine is the energy that fills it Why using a word like "energy" might feel better than a word like surrender Must-read book: The Art of Asking by Amanda Palmer Diptyque Rose Candles Connect with Kendra: Website Facebook Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/16/2018 • 1 hour, 7 seconds
5 Reasons to Get Started With That Idea ASAP
Episode 203: Do you have a blog you've been waiting to launch? Have a podcast you've been wanting to put into action? Have an Instagram account you've been thinking about starting? Maybe it's not something you want to create, but rather a risk you want to take. Is there a person you've been waiting to show interest in? Is there a city you've been dreaming of living in? A house you've been wanting to buy? Too often, I hop on a 1:1 coaching call and ask my client, "What are you wanting to create? What are you wanting to see happen in your life?" and receive a crystal clear picture of their vision but yet no action steps have been taken. "I'm waiting until I fully know who my target market is." "I'm waiting until my photographer's calendar frees up so I can get some professional headshots." "I'll start once I have ten blog posts ready to go up." "I haven't found the time yet." These sneaky little tasks are sometimes valid, but more often than not, they are merely tactics we use to stay stuck, small and in our personal bubble of perfectionism. In today's podcast I'm going to be deep diving into 5 reasons why you should get started with that idea asap. Show notes: FABFITFUN is a seasonal box, with full-size beauty, fitness and lifestyle products. Check out www.FABFITFUN.com and use the code "MINDYBODY" to save $10 off your first box, making it only $39.99 (yet every box is worth $200 in product!) >> don't miss their unique Spring box! Thank you to everyone who sent in comments about the recent podcast episode I released called Unpacking Sexual Shame. If you are wanting more insight into this topic, email me and let me know how I can best support you. A mini course? A FB community? Let me know. Some insight into my recent trip to Israel and all of the beautiful experiences I had (and how I'm dealing with being home now) Whatever business you are desiring to create WILL take time. There is no need to make your business idea perfect before launching it because no matter what, it will take organic growth for people to trust you and continue to return to your work. Trust is built over time. Whatever you’re creating will evolve and change. Don’t try to make it perfect from the start. Don't try to make your business fit into a box because when you do that, you will also start to shove your life into a box. The best way to create something is with baby steps. Getting started asap could simply mean getting started with one small thing today. The Domino Effect-- getting started with that thing you keep thinking about will give you the courage to get started with something else you’ve been thinking about (writing that book, asking out that guy, applying for that job, moving to that city) Your fears are usually BS from your inner critic. Sometimes you have to do the dang thing to realize it. Looking to take the next step with that idea? Contact me about coaching. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> 5 Divinely Feminine Tools for Decreasing Stress and Anxiety HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/9/2018 • 37 minutes, 50 seconds
Annabelle Blythe: Sovereignty Before Unity
Episode 202: Annabelle Blythe is a transformational poet and life coach from Toronto, Canada. She inspires men and women around the world to access their future potential in the present moment through embodying their most authentic expression. Her words offer up a new way of being where we embrace all of our lived experience - no matter how light, or dark. Show notes: Get 30 days FREE on Audible (and one free audiobook) by using the show's unique link HERE. How Annabelle is nourishing her desire to slow down by vacationing in Costa Rica. How to it can be challenging to totally "turn off" as an online business owner even when you are traveling. The dark period Annabelle experienced during her teen years that eventually led her to seek out therapy, mentorship and life coaching. How she initially gained permission to be herself through others until she learned how to give it to herself (and why this is totally okay!). Why coaching is like an experience of looking into a still pond and seeing your own reflection. “The idea of the mastery is in coming back, not in being there all the time." The shadow side that she's currently learning how to embody. Why so many of us fear that our love is "too much". The importance of not abandoning yourself in a relationship to make the other person happy. Sovereignty is the ability to stand in your own power while still opening up yourself to create something in another. Learning how to truly be like "two peas in a pod". Recognizing how we contribute to the tension in our relationships. Esther Parel: Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs Esther Parel's podcast HERE The Masculine holds the space and the Feminine fills it. Must-read book: Attached by Amir Levine Connect with Annabelle: Website Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/2/2018 • 57 minutes, 59 seconds
Kate Swoboda: Creating Courageous Habits
Episode 201: Kate Swoboda is creator of YourCourageousLife.com, Director of the Courageous Living Coach Certification at TribeCLCC.com and author of The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life. She helps individuals, teams, and companies see where old, fear-based habits have kept people stuck or started to limit what’s possible for an organization, and then start creating more courageous lives by getting into “the courage habit,” a four-part process for behavioral and organizational change. Kate has appeared in MindBodyGreen, Entrepreneur, USA Today, Forbes, Lifetime Moms, The Intelligent Optimist, Business Insider, and more, and her website Your Courageous Life was named a top-50 blog for happiness by Greatist. She’s spoken at conferences and seminars on the topic of courage as it relates to personal development, releasing overwhelm, business and marketing, money mindset, wellness, increasing emotional resilience, and healthy goal-setting using habit-formation techniques. Show notes: Want to support the podcast? Leave a review on the iTunes show HERE or send your favourite episode to a friend! Kate's past of perfectionism and chronic exhaustion in her first salary-based job even when she had a promotion around the corner How she tried to avoid feeling her feelings when she first realized how unhappy she was in her career Some of the signs she experienced that told her the job was not right for her How Kate brings attention to her need for yin energy when she is in a period of productivity and yang energy How the "grass is always greener on the other side" mentality can be subtle but yet so dangerous if you don't have it looked at early on in life The four different fear-based patterns we adopt to stay in our comfort zone and listen to our fear voice. An example of how I have to watch out for moments I'm not intuitively adapting to a new phase in life The importance of protecting your glow by using your voice and setting boundaries "If outside of the comfort zone is the ability to set boundaries, we will stay inside of the comfort zone of being where we are and with the patterns that we know" The three predominant ways that we deal with fear: avoid/ignore, please/placate and attack The goal isn't to be fearless, the goal is to change your relationship with fear. The cue-routine-reward-system Reframing your "stuckness" when you're in a limiting story Must-read book: When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron Connect with Kate: Website Facebook Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/25/2018 • 52 minutes, 2 seconds
Unpacking Sexual Shame
Episode 200: It's evident in our society that women have been exposed to two extremes with their sexuality, both which lead to sexual shame: exploitation and repression. The media has been exploiting women's sexuality for decades as a way to diminish and demean its true power down to a crisp. As a result: men have treated unmet desires with violence and ownership, women have used their bodies as a form of manipulation to get what they want/don't want, and sex has been involved in the marketing of just about everything from cars to perfumes to food. We have been constantly reminded in commercials, movies and ads what a woman's sexuality should look like...but absolutely nothing about what it feels like. On the other hand, many of us across the world have had our sexuality repressed from a lineage of unhealthy relationships with sexuality or through religion. In many religions, a woman's sexuality is her most prized possession and once it's "taken" it cannot be replenished. Again, there is too much focus on what sex should look like (in this case, within the context of marriage), but not enough on what it feels like. When young girls learn at an early age that men only want them for their bodies and they must hide away their sexuality to stay safe, they grow up with trust issues not only with others but certainly with themselves. They want to hide away their sexuality, avoid eye contact, use body manipulation (binge eating or starving) as tactics to feel in control, and they lose their ability to stay present with another human, especially when being intimate. Most importantly, they lose touch with what a "yes" really feels like and what a "no" really feels like...within the bedroom and the real world. I believe it's time we dive deep into these topics on the Mind Body Musings Podcast. Show notes: Why it's so important we collectively decide to promote not only body positivity in our families, but also sex positivity. “Do not cause a man to stumble.” Growing up in a conservative Christian household, I was told this biblical verse a lot. Unfortunately, the only context in which I remember it is in regards to my feminine body. Some examples of how my negative relationship with sexuality were reinforced growing up, including: having signed contracts in my closet and bedroom, the massive pile of Christian dating books blocking my doorway and the True Love Waits Program. One of the reasons why many women have held back from speaking about their experience with sexual abuse is because of their inner thoughts like "I asked for it" and for feeling responsible for what was done to them. When you are taught as a young girl that you are in control of a man "stumbling" (and it's your responsibility to ensure he doesn't) you begin to think that it's truly your fault when you experience advances. Backpedaling: speaking your truth and then taking it back out of fear. My first real relationship was with a man who was insecure with his body and constantly projected his own unhealthy sexuality onto me. The story of my first kiss when I was 13 year olds and how it ended with me bawling in the garage out of shame and fear. We are doing sexual healing for hundreds of generations-- not just ourselves. This is why this work is so big. Sexuality is directly linked to creativity. When you stifle one, you stifle the other. Why it's time to come together as men and women to build something together (listen to the episode I did with Josh Trent about this HERE) "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" >> Why this kind of language is so detrimental to everyone's ability to trust. Body manipulation / disordered eating is directly related to your relationship with your sexuality. A few things you can begin to do to heal your sexual shame. Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> 5 Divinely Feminine Tools for Decreasing Stress and Anxiety HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/18/2018 • 54 minutes, 54 seconds
Josh Trent: Honoring the Masculine/Feminine Polarity to Keep Desire, Curiosity and Leadership Alive
Episode 199: Josh Trent is the founder of Wellness Force & Wellness Force Media, a wellness industry influencer, and consultant specializing in health technology. As a top-ranked iTunes podcast host of Wellness Force Radio podcast, with over 14 years in the health and wellness industry, Josh leads the Wellness Force community in discovering physical and emotional intelligence to help men and women live life well. His work has been featured in major health and wellness publications such as WellnessFX, NASM, a 2017 host of the Fitness + Technology Podcast, and is a speaker for FitTech CES. As the host of Wellness Force Radio, Josh interviews world-class experts in the fields of physical and emotional intelligence, mindset, behavior change, supplementation, nutrition, health, wellness, fitness, and technology that empower the WFR audience with actionable steps for the wellness journey. Show notes: How food used to be Josh's drug of choice when he felt unsafe in his childhood; how it provided for him a sense of comfort and safety. How Josh reclaimed his life when he was 21 and realized he didn't like his relationship, job or body (and what he did about it) Being in the space where one layer of purpose is burned off and you're waiting for the second one to show itself Weapons of Mass Distraction: a few of the ways Josh (and millions of other men) use distractions to fill the deep, inner desire to give/receive love How men are learning to trust themselves again as they connect more to the heart rather than being completely in the head How men can find balance and a middle ground so that they don't swing completely to the opposite side where they don't have ambition, drive and strength My experience with dating S.N.A.G(s) Why we need to respect both the beast and spirit within each one of us "We don't have to be a black belt in order to teach a white belt." Why we sometimes get the same bleh experience over and over again: it's not because we haven't truly healed our wounds or limiting beliefs, but it's the Universe testing us to see if we continue to say no to it in our lives (basically, the Universe is saying, "How serious are you about this change?") Allowing yourself to evolve and grow naturally-- it's okay to change from who you once were. The Shadow Side to #MeToo How we are losing "the dance" between man and woman (and how to get it back) "In order to feel desired, one has to let go of control of the capsule of which they are going to be desired in." >> YES. The work for men: being intuitive about whether or not it's time to go in for the kiss. Men know when she is feeling uncomfortable or not into it-- and that's when it's a no. The work for women: staying connected to your truth, step into your power and give your man signals that you're trusting him and longing for him to come in for the kiss (or whatever it may be). This requires you to be present-- you cannot truly step into your power if you are thinking about something else. Secondarily, it's also your job to tell him no if it's a no. Curiousity is fuel for all of life...but especially when it comes to letting him lead in the relationship. The Feminine is the reason why the Masculine leads (if it wasn't for women, men would live in a cardboard box) "Women, YOU are our leader." HERE is the study on loneliness being the deadliest disease Why it's so important to have a mindset of #WeToo with men and women Must-read book: The Way of the Superior Man and Vibe Music he will be jamming out to: anything by Tycho Connect with Josh: Website Facebook Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/11/2018 • 58 minutes, 27 seconds
Dr. Anita Johnston: Eating in the Light of the Moon
Episode 198: Anita Johnston, Ph.D., is a Depth Psychologist and author of Eating in the Light of the Moon, which has been published in six languages. She is the co-creator of the online course, Light of the Moon Café, which is an interactive “workbook” and women’s support circle for Eating in the Light of the Moon. She has been working in the field of women’s issues, feminine spirituality, and disordered eating for over 35 years and is a thought leader in understanding the Feminine as it relates to struggles with eating and body image. She is currently the Clinical Director of ‘Ai Pono** Eating Disorder Programs in Hawaii, including a residential treatment program in Maui. Dr. Johnston provides individual consultations online, conducts Soul Hunger workshops and women’s circles, as well as professional trainings, around the world. She is best known for her use of metaphor and the ancient wisdom found in storytelling, along with her training as a clinical psychologist, to address the struggles of women, their bodies and relationships. Show notes: The first time I found Eating in the Light of the Moon (and how I had sooo much resistence to picking it up) "If you could think your way out of your eating disorder, you would have done it a long time ago." Why recovery is more of a labyrinth than a maze Recovery is not about finding your way in and out-- it's about reaching the center Using archetypes (by Carl Jung) to heal your disordered eating and relationship with your body How the Mother Archetype can provide for you the love that you crave within: for people who struggle with eating disorders, what they are really desiring is mothering The reason why people reach for food when they are deeply craving mothering is because food is comfort Ways you can get mothering energy outside of your mom The difference between belonging and fitting in The Masculine part of ourselves desires to check things off, get things done and do things the correct way The Feminine part of ourselves is the emotional, intuitive, relational side of ourselves Considering that our society prioritizes the Masculine energy, you can see how the Masculine body is also prioritized (hardness, six-pack, buns of steel) How we have been brainwashed into thinking that fat = bad (and the history behind it) When people feel bad as adults, they immediately latch onto thinking that the root of the pain is because of their body The story of the King and his dog-- and how it's a perfect metaphor for how we treat our own bodies every day The story of the letting go of a log when you are deep in water--- and how it's a metaphor for recovery Speaking your truth is not about getting exactly what it is that you want The link between feeling sexy/free in the bedroom and disordered eating How a women's Full Moon Circle is a brilliant way to feel your sexuality without incorporating sex Must-read book: Crones Don't Whine and Goddesses in Older Women Connect with Anita: FREE GIFT, The Food and Metaphor Guide: LightofTheMoonCafe.com/mbm Facebook Instagram Twitter Grab her book HERE Contact: [email protected] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/4/2018 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 28 seconds
How to Stop Feeling Guilty for Being Happy
Episode 197: Last week, I had a friend come up to me and share that he had been experiencing guilt for his happy childhood after he experienced his first sharing circle where he listened to everyone's traumatic stories... but yet he had nothing "deep" to contribute on his own. He felt guilty for speaking up when it was his turn, so instead of saying the truth ("well, I had an amazing childhood"), he searched for something that would fit in better with everyone else's story-- even if it wasn't 100% true. I've had several clients share with me that they don't know how to handle their recent fortune in life, whether they are referring to their amazing new boyfriend, an easy move across the country or a recent paycheck that's blown their mind. I've had friends share that they are feeling guilty for living a life of such abundance and joy while others surrounding them are in the depths of addiction, depression, fear, anxiety and/or other downers. I get it-- when the world is full of so much pain, it can make it challenging for those of us feeling truly happy to totally own the experience, let go of the guilt for not "doing enough", and to embrace the goodness we are experiencing. Have you found yourself feeling guilty for your happiness? Do you feel helpless in a room full of people who aren't in the same state of abundance as you are? Do you feel like you're not "doing enough" to help those less fortunate, even though you're doing what you can in those small moments to brighten the day of another? If any of this is resonating, this might be the reminder you need. Show notes: The difference between the Dark Shadow and the Light Shadow (and which one is typically harder to "own") Dark Shadow: the side of yourself that you rather not see come out Light Shadow: your brilliance, beauty, gifts, love and light Why you can sometimes trigger people when you own your brilliance and Light Shadow An example of a friend who struggled with sharing his happy past in a roomful of people who were sharing their trauma and wounds (and the feelings of guilt that came up) The best question you can ask yourself when you feel guilty for having abundance and happiness A couple of ways that angels speak to us Why feeling guilty for your happiness is giving the Universe mixed signals (and decreases your chances of keeping that abundance) The ego is always looking for ways to feel important which is why even in ease, the ego may be looking for a reason to fear and stand out Woundaraderie: camaraderie with wounds "We don't only surrender in the darkness, we also surrender in the light." Another example of how we feel shame with our health and body image even when it's in good standing Why it's so important for people who want to do GOOD to have the money and power, rather than the people who are currently running the show and digging our environment's grave "I can receive this" >> something to put on a sticky note in your bathroom! Why you don't need to constantly prove to the Universe that you're deserving of your happiness The importance of allowing yourself to retreat inward Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Get your free gift >> 5 Divinely Feminine Tools for Decreasing Stress and Anxiety HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/28/2018 • 37 minutes, 23 seconds
Amy Baglan: Bringing Your Core Values into Your Dating Life with Meet Mindful
Episode 196: Amy Baglan is the Founder and CEO of MeetMindful, where she’s on a mission to evolve the online dating world. MeetMindful is one of the fastest growing dating and networking platforms in the world, and is connecting the 36 million singles interested in mindful living, meditation, health and wellness, sustainability, spirituality, and personal growth. Amy started her own journey of mindful living after years of growing early stage startups in New York. She wanted to put that same ambition and drive inward towards herself so she quit her job, sold all her possessions, and bought a one-way ticket to travel through India, Thailand, Bali, and Cambodia for an entire year. She discovered the love of learning and finding new ways to expand her mind, body and spirit. After returning to the US and having a difficult time finding other like-minded people, Amy launched MeetMindful in 2014 to help mindful singles meet people in their “tribe”, find true love, and offer an alternative to the superficial nature of today’s popular swipe dating apps. Show notes: When I saw Amy Baglan's photo on the wall at Techstars in Boulder this past month Amy's history of interning with startups and working in sales, customer service and business development How Amy found herself in love with building something from nothing How her initial desire to connect with something greater led her to a Gabby Bernstein lecture where she met a sober runner named Courtney. ("and the rest was history!" so they say) Finding meditation, a nutrition program, yoga and mindful friends Tim Ferriss's 4-Hour Work Week (and the profound impact it has on so many people) When she sold all of her belongings and headed off to India/Asia with the goal of "self-exploration" Yoga Dates- a Meetup group Amy started in order to change the separateness of yoga and transform it into a dating experience Yoga and AcroYoga isn't only about the practice-- it's about the connection you create during the practice (both with yourself but also with others) The true pillar of Meet Mindful is bringing people together who have a deep value they can bring into a relationship How the pattern of breaking up with someone because "they don't have this one super important passion" (fill in the blank: is a yogi, rock climbs, has a bigger family, etc) can often be an excuse for not wanting to be vulnerable and loved by another-- and having a way out of it. How the abundance of dating options can influence us to bounce from one relationship to the next Qualities you want in your partner should not be surface level things-- they are deep but yet still allow room for different forms of expression. "There's always going to be work to do no matter who you're with. It's up to you do decide who you're going to do the work with." How to know when you're "enjoying" doing the work in a relationship (rather than being addicted to the relationship and being hooked on doing the work) The three types of attachment styles and how you know when you're in a secure relationship Must-read book: The Alchemist and Come as You Are Connect with Amy: MeetMindful Website Twitter Instagram Facebook Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/21/2018 • 56 minutes, 20 seconds
Why You May Want to Get Out of Your Routine
Episode 195: When was the last time you decided it was time to get out of your routine and jump ship on your day-to-day rituals? Does it make you tense up to simply think about not having all of your creature comforts if you were to take a small trip or distance yourself from your daily activities? Just this past Monday I returned from a 10-day trip to Vancouver, British Columbia where I was completely out of my routine. The experience opened up my eyes to just how reliant I have been on my routine and rituals for feeling grounded lately. This surprised me. Though I am a Virgo Rising, which is all about routine/structure/order, I'm also a spontaneous Leo Sun, which is all about being playful and free. I typically consider myself to have a really grounded yet free-spirited personality, though there are times I can absolutely get a little too set in my routine. This is one of those instances where I was "woken up" to that and today on the podcast I'm going to share alllll of it with you. Show notes: Why I recently decided to take a trip to Vancouver, B.C Examples of the Light Shadow and Dark Shadow in being a very routine-oriented person Light Shadow: routine is what keeps me grounded, keeps me in a creative flow, helps me to stay consistent with recording podcasts, with my meditation practice and so much more. "Discipline creates freedom" -- the Masculine (structure) allows for the Feminine (creativity) to thrive. Dark Shadow: sometimes my routine can be too rigid and I won't allow flow into my life. I can miss out on fun get-togethers because I feel I need to be in bed by a certain time or I need to do more work. How I used to look down on my routine and structure (and even felt a little ashamed of it) How incredibly enlightening my three month solo trip around Southeast Asia was for my journey to letting go of routine, food rules and my comfort zone Why understanding my Virgo Rising helped me to reclaim this aspect of myself Having routine is great / what isn't great is being rigid and guarded How I really tapped into my ability to let go and surrender to the trip around day four (and why it took a few days) One of the best ways you can distance yourself from your routine for a bit Sign up for a call with me for the next Feminine Surrender HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook (and/or “follow” my profile HERE) Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Sign up for a call to speak with me about the next Feminine Surrender HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/14/2018 • 33 minutes, 28 seconds
Ryan Yokome: Exploring and Embracing Your Shadow Self
Episode 194: Ryan Yokome is an internationally recognized expert in the field of personal transformation. Over the past decade, Ryan has helped hundreds of spiritual seekers create a foundation for inner peace through releasing limiting stories, intuitive development, getting into vibrational alignment, and discovering their life purpose. Ryan’s works help you tap into your inner guru that will guide you home to feel more connected, wildly free, and abundantly wealthy in all areas of your life. Show notes: The next Feminine Surrender Retreat is right around the corner! Learn more + schedule a call with me HERE (4 spots are already filled after one week of sharing the dates!). A peak into Ryan Yokome's upbringing being very sensitive, empathic and intuitive. Why he would always get sore throats growing up because he was never sharing his personal truth (and as a result, his throat chakra was blocked!). Explaining the Dark Night of the Soul. "It's in our low points in life where we find out who we really are as people." The value of embracing the parts of yourself that you don't really like. How to know what your Shadow Self is: "The Shadow is the person that we rather not be" --Carl Jung The Light Shadow is your genius and brilliance. Many of us also have a difficult time accepting this side. Two instances in Ryan's life where he came face-to-face with his Shadow. How being poor was a catalyst for Ryan in learning how to get out of his head and into his body. How our Shadow Self is like an inflated beach ball being shoved underwater. Why you need to have both a spiritual team and a physical team. Money is a living, breathing, energy. If you want to know what your relationship with money is like, take note of the feeling you get when you open your bank account. The gift that can come from spending money even when you are in a state of fear around letting it go. Must-read book: The Dark Side of the Light Chasers and A Course in Miracles Connect with Ryan: Website Facebook Instagram Podcast Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
3/7/2018 • 50 minutes, 21 seconds
Healing the “Not Enough” Wound With These 5 Reframes
Episode 193: "Not enoughness" is an epidemic. Every single day, women and men hold themselves back from speaking up, taking risks, living out their truth and so much more because they don't feel like enough. A few common examples include... If only I had THIS (fill in the blank with something you believe you are lacking), then I would be able to date that kind of person. If only I looked like THAT (fill in the blank with some body standard), then I would be able to wear those outfits. If only I had HER level of success, then I would be able to say I've really "made" it. If only I had HIS ideas, I would be able to accomplish so much more in this lifetime. Many times our made-up beliefs around not being "enough" come from comparisons, but they also come from feelings of worthiness, our stories around failure/rejection and our fear of not being accepted into society if we show our true colors. Today on the Mind Body Musings Podcast I'm going to share some reframes around these beliefs. Show notes: The next Feminine Surrender Retreat is right around the corner! Learn more + schedule a call with me HERE (4 spots are already filled after one week of sharing the dates!) The cart for B-School is closing tomorrow at 6 PM MST. If you are interested in building your own profitable online business but you desire some accountability and clarity along the way, sign up for B-School and get started today HERE Check out the interview I did with B-School founder, Marie Forleo, HERE if you are desiring to learn more about the program first. Reframe #1: Moving from "rejection" to "ejection" Rejection is simply someone ejecting themselves from the realm of possibility in your life Reframe #2: Moving from the pressure to do something different (to feel important) to realizing the power of being different You are loved for who you are, not what you do. You will never feel enough by doing more because the bar will continue to raise. If adopting a hyper masculine attitude isn't working for you, try a different approach. Adopt the mentality that you don't have to prove your worthiness because you already embody it. Reframe #3: Moving from "How will they take this?" to "How can I create this?" It is not your job to tell people how they are supposed to interpret you Listen to THIS episode with JP Sears to learn more about this from a well-known youtube star Stop trying to make everyone comfortable around you. You are doing people a disservice if you never allow them to feel triggered in your presence. If people feel triggered around you it is because they are seeing something within you that they can't stand within themselves Reframe #4: Moving from "Will they accept me?" to "How can I accept them?" Reframe #5: Moving from "I hate XX about myself" to "XX is absolutely a part of me" What "the world is inside of you" really means Grab your FREE ebook "5 Divinely Feminine Tools for Decreasing Stress and Anxiety" HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching Sign up for a call to speak with me about the next Feminine Surrender HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/28/2018 • 45 minutes, 43 seconds
Marie Forleo: Building a Dream Business and Ideal Lifestyle with the Guidance of B-School
Episode 192: Named by Oprah as a thought leader for the next generation and one of Inc.’s 500 fastest growing companies, Marie Forleo's mission is to help you build a life you love and use your gifts to change the world. She’s the creator of the award-winning online show MarieTV with over 35 million views on YouTube with an audience in 195 countries. She’s the founder of B-School, an online business school for modern entrepreneurs. Through her Change Your Life, Change The World initiative, every product purchased helps support a person in need. Show notes: In 2015, I decided to quit my 9-5 job to pursue my coaching "hobby" as a full-time career-- this is when I discovered Marie Forleo. Two days before registration for B-school closed, I was recommended the course by a few of my biggest mentors and inspirations. I thought to myself, if this is what helped make them so successful, should I follow in their footsteps and take a similar course of action?? I went back and forth on thinking about signing up for the course until I realized 1. This was the perfect time and 2. I had nothing to lose. I took the leap and signed up. Marie Forleo's interesting background of graduating from a Catholic school, getting her first job on Wall Street and moving over to a fashion magazine. Her first time hearing about Life Coaching as a career (y'all remember, this is the early 90s) A few of the biggest issues she saw in the marketing world that she wanted to change. Marie Forleo went from career to career and it helped her get further in life, not behind, though she felt shame about it at the time. Marie had SIDE GIGS for seven years as she was building her business. Why trust in yourself + trust in something larger is so important when building your business. B-School is an online course for modern entrepreneurs who want to start and grow a meaningful, profitable business A few of the pillars of B-School: making a profit, attracting clients, building your dream website, creating content, marketing strategies, communication techniques and so much more. Once you are a B-Schooler, you are always a B-Schooler. You can take the course every year for free! One of the best aspects of B-School is the community. You will create friendships with all different types of people across the globe. You do not need to know what type of business you want to create in order to benefit from B-School It's important to take your time when you're building a business- there is no rush. The entire process will be a journey. Want to join B-School? If you sign up on my team and use THIS link, you will receive exclusive bonuses from me, including: One 1:1 coaching session Email support An exclusive training on creating your own podcast An exclusive training on putting on your first event An exclusive training on attracting your dream clients Connect with B-School and Marie Forleo: Join B-School HERE >> http://maddymoon.com/b-school Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/21/2018 • 49 minutes, 38 seconds
Dr. Mahdi Mason: What Is Earth Healing + How to Replenish Mother Nature
Episode 191: Dr. Mahdi Mason is a land healer, author and environmental consultant. She recently released her second book ‘Earth Healing: Healing the Earth to heal ourselves’ to critical acclaim. Her passion is helping people to understand the importance of reversing our environmental impacts, not just reducing them. Show notes: How Dr. Mahdi Mason became a doctor and eventually an environmentalist Why we must learn to nurture our home both in a physical sense and in a metaphysical sense What does Earth Healing mean? Why healing the earth is more than just reducing our environmental impact- it's also about replenishing it Where our educational system could do better in supporting kids (and adults) in understanding the importance of taking care of our planet A few ways you can reduce your environmental impact: not using single use products (straws, coffee cups), using reusable shopping bags and more. A few ways you can replenish Mother Earth: composting, recycling, putting crystals in your soil and more. Using palo santo to clear your home Little gifts and messages that Mother Nature will begin to send to you to thank you The correlation between The Divine Feminine and Mother Earth Both women and nature provide our world with the same two things: food and life Must-read book: I couldn't find the one she was referring to, so I'm going to provide Dr. Wayne Dyer's website link HERE for you to poke around and choose one of his many books! Connect with Mahdi: Website Facebook Instagram Order her book HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/14/2018 • 55 minutes, 32 seconds
Trevor Hall: Sending Love Outward, Sending Love Inward and Being One with Music
Episode 190: Raised on an island in South Carolina, singer/songwriter Trevor Hall realized at a young age that music was more than just a passion - it was, rather, his life’s art. At sixteen, he recorded his first album, soon after which he left South Carolina for Idyllwild Arts Academy in California. There he studied classical guitar and was also introduced to the practices of yoga and meditation, which would greatly influence his life and his music. Hall’s music, a blend of roots and folk music with hints of inspiration from India, has led him to a series of sold-out tours and collaborations with artists such as Steel Pulse, The Wailers, Jimmy Cliff, Matisyahu, Michael Franti, Xavier Rudd and Nahko & Medicine for the People. Trevor Hall’s Chapter of the Forest (2014) and KALA (2015), debuted at #3 and #2 on the iTunes singer/songwriter chart respectively. He is currently touring around the US and Australia. While on tour, Hall collects donations to support children’s education in India. Hall’s latest album, The Fruitful Darkness, became the #1 Kickstarter Music campaign of 2017 (#30 of all time out of 53,000 Music projects) and is being released in three song installments on specific lunar ☾ dates, culminating in a 14-song deluxe edition release,June 1st 2018. January 2018 will also see the debut of the single/video, “What I Know”. Show notes: How Trevor Hall grew up in an environment filled with music, creativity and instruments The beautiful encouragement (rather than pushing) he received from his parents when it came to music Trevor's philosophy with love in the world The gift of giving love to someone without expecting a certain something in return A powerful parable for setting boundaries with people in your life: saluting the tiger from a distance Saying yes to everything is a form of spiritual bypassing "Love goes outward and it also goes inward" "The Divine Mother has so many children and they all have different stomachs." > it's important to know that what one person does may not be the best for you Trevor's meditation practice Being able to keep some things to yourself as a way to make them even more sacred Music is Trevor's "I Am"; it is not an identity he's trying not to be attached to. It is inseparable from his being. Why he loves traveling to the spiritual city of Rishikesh, India Must-read book: By His Grace by Dada Mukerjee Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2/7/2018 • 54 minutes, 23 seconds
6 Ways to Connect with Anyone Quickly and Deeply
Episode 189: Many people think they are connecting with others in a conversation, but oftentimes we fill our time with stories about ourselves while crossing our arms, diverting eye contact and forgetting names. Are you craving real, deep connection? Are you waiting for someone else to do it for you? This is where you can start. This podcast is going to teach you how to begin to create authentic connection with ANYONE. You can create connection with the cashier at Target, the barista at Pete's Coffee or the person next to you on their yoga mat. I encourage you to stop waiting for "The One" in order to feel connected. Stop waiting for your soulmate BFF in order to feel intimacy in friendship. Creating connection with the world might be one of the most valuable skills you can ever learn. I definitely think this is an episode you'll want to take some notes on (and please, if you do the challenges I mention, let me know how they go!) Show Notes: Say their name back to them / remember their name The sound of their own name is the sweetest sound Even going to a restaurant, swap names from the start Learn their favored sense (How to make anyone like you in 90 seconds or less: http://amzn.to/2DN2Ot4) People are capable of filtering the world through one of three different senses: visual, auditory or kinesthetic If you struggle to know how to communicate with someone…just look at their eyes. By doing so, you’ll learn which sense they favor and will know how to speak their language. Ask thoughtful questions about what they are speaking about We think we are connecting to people when we say “me too!” and go on to share our own story, but what we’re really doing is disconnecting Show legitimate interest in their life / background story Don’t interrupt them Women are often interrupted / begin to show respect by allowing people to fully finish Acknowledge them on something that they probably aren’t often recognized for Rather than “you have a beautiful smile” say “you have a really warm energy" Rather than “you’re cute” say “you have a gift for making people feel really comfortable" Body language Don’t cross your arms Look in the eyes Face your heart towards them Must-Read book: How to Win Friends and Influence People Get a FREE book with Audible HERE Get a list of my top 100 favourite books HERE Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/31/2018 • 33 minutes, 33 seconds
What to Do When You Failed At Something You Cared About
Episode 188: I work with a great deal of exceptional women doing incredible things on this planet. They're dating, raising babies, starting online businesses, making new friends, moving across the country, being vulnerable and/or re-evaluating the course of their life (all of those things are equally brave and amazing). Even still, they find themselves falling into the comparison trap when they look at what their peers are up to. I speak with women every day who are brave enough to go after their biggest dreams...and are still met with debilitating, identity-shattering failure. What do you do when you find yourself "failing" at the projects, quests and dreams you've had your heart set on? What do you do when you find yourself paralyzed after comparing yourself to your peers and their great deal of accomplishments? This podcast goes out to all the perfectionists, dreamers and doers out there who want to come to peace with where they are in life and even learn how to enjoy the journey more. Show notes: What happens when you fail at something your identity is intertwined in “No experience is ever wasted if you learned something” How happiness is different from joy Diving deep into a question asked by a woman in my FB Tribe: "I failed my bar exams for the second time while I worked really hard to succeed. It made me feel so bad about myself like I can't achieve anything at all. I decided to pass it again. But my morale is very low. I can't stop comparing myself to others who in my eyes have already succeeded much more." When your identity is intertwined with your accomplishments, your life is essentially on pause until the accomplishment happens. (and then paused again until you've achieved your next desired accomplishment) "Have unshakeable grace"- Yashoda Why you never want to measure your life as a success by using a metric that is out of your own control Some amazing lessons on failure from Abe Lincoln here How to know if you're failing because you're meant for a different path...or you're failing but need to persevere on the same journey An example in my own career that presented a lot of trials/struggles but why I kept going on the same path Strengthen your rejection muscle with rejection therapy here Get your a list of my 100+ favourite self-care, body image, online business, financial abundance and Divine Feminine/Masculine books FOR FREE here Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/24/2018 • 38 minutes, 45 seconds
Danielle Paige: How to Use Astrology to Heal Personas and Clear Limiting Beliefs
Episode 187: Danielle Paige is a Healer, Guide and Intuitive who uses Astrology as a tool to help her client’s unblock, understand, and explain their karmic soul blueprint to them. She is a master at seeing through personas which are limited beliefs, and helping people clear them out energetically so that they can live a life with more purpose, clarity, passion and love! How does she do this? She uses your personal birth chart as a map of your soul and blends her astrological background with her psychic abilities for a practical approach to getting you the answers you need. She works with women all over the world and helps them come back home to their truth. Her work has been featured on The Numinous, London Standard, Purpose Fairy, JDate and many more. For more information and guidance on your path or to book a healing package you can visit her website or connect with her in her Facebook group, or on Instagram. Show notes: Download your freebie: My 100+ Top Favourite Books HERE How I first heard Danielle interviewed on Katie Dalebout's podcast three years ago Danielle's heartfelt story of being broken up with in Paris during her Saturn Return How she began to receive her intuitive/psychic abilities in her 30s How to know if someone is truly "psychic" or if they're just BSing Why she never tells people what the future is going to bring Using astrology as a tool for clearing limiting beliefs and healing false personas What it means to "clear" energy from your life so you can release and move forward An example of the shadow side in love from Danielle's chart Are you dating people who you feel you need to rescue? Or are you just dating people who are hitting a couple bumps in the road and they're totally great for you? A few questions to ask yourself if you're wondering this. Must-read book: Many Lives, Many Masters by Brian Weiss Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/17/2018 • 53 minutes, 16 seconds
Connection vs. Attachment (what's the difference?)
Episode 186: Have you ever found yourself attached to a person you were in a relationship with, even though you saw red flags and way too many warning signs? Ever felt attached to a particular job or a role in life that you felt recognized for? Have you ever been attached to a moment so much that you weren't even present during it? Attachment has the power to completely take us away from the present. It keeps us either in the past or the future, longing for things to be final or permanent. Connection, on the other hands, makes room for the unexpected. Connection is intimate, synced, vulnerable and present. While you may not know this, connection and attachment are reflections of your self-worth. If you're attached to everything, you may struggle with your valuing your own being, though if you allow room for connection and play, you feel your self-worth at a much higher level. What do I mean by this? Listen to today's podcast episode to get the inside scoop. If you really enjoy what you hear, download/print the free graphic on the show notes displaying the key differences between attachment and connection. Keep it in your journal for safe-keeping, or hang it up in your bathroom! Learning the difference between connection and attachment will drastically change your life-- I know it has for me.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/10/2018 • 47 minutes, 11 seconds
Jason Nemer: What AcroYoga Can Teach You About Play, Connection and Love
Episode 185: Jason Nemer is the co-founder of AcroYoga. He has been blessed to have many great teachers on his path. His family was always very supportive of his many passions. His younger brother brought him into gymnastics and from there he found acrobats playing at the gym and was hooked on both. During his teenage years he trained with some of the top Russian and Bulgarian acrobatic masters. Competing among the best acrobats in the world inspired his practice and taught him about humility. In 1991, after 4 years of dedicated practice at the age of 16, Jason represented the US at the World Championships of Sports Acrobatics in Beijing. In 1996, he performed acrobatics in the Opening Ceremonies at the Olympic games. Yoga came to him in his last semester of university in 2001. After that first class there was no looking back. Connection to the breath and the lifestyle philosophy of yoga filled him with so much joy and new ideas of how to bring his past passions into a new form. Currently he travels to teach, study and bring communities together. He believes this practice can be used as a tool to heal and connect people in a playful dance that can promote global peace.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
1/3/2018 • 58 minutes, 52 seconds
Lucie Fink: What it's Like to Drastically Change Your Lifestyle Five Days at a Time
Episode 184: Lucie Fink is a 25-year-old video producer, lifestyle host and stop motion artist. At Refinery29, she created and hosts the hit YouTube series "Try Living with Lucie" where she takes on social experiments for 5 days at a time, documenting her experience vlog-style. Throughout her time here, she's built a loyal YouTube fan-base that has helped her grow a personal following of over 100k on Instagram and over 300k across all social platforms. In addition to Try Living with Lucie, she has created a plethora of other video formats for Refinery29 that she hosts and produces - "Lucie for Hire" (where she tries doing another person's job for the day), "The Fink Tank" (exploring scientific and bodily phenomenons), and original pieces for Snapchat Discover, Facebook LIVE and more. On the side of her on-camera work, Lucie has been commissioned by brands to create stop motion videos for social media.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/27/2017 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 30 seconds
Why Focus Is The New Hustle
Episode 183: We are so fortunate to live in an era of information, mentorship, spirituality and technology. Our dreams are not only accessible but they are encouraged. With that said, we are surrounded by neighbors and friends doing incredible things too and we can easily get swept up in the desire to hustle more to achieve more. No matter what your goal is (relational, financial, emotional, physical), the best approach is going to be an approach that is focus-driven...not hustle-driven. When you are in a state of hustle, you are in a state of frenzy. You're almost panicked. Like, if you forget to check off one of your hundreds of to-do's, you are suddenly behind. This is a surefire way to never reach fulfillment in your goals and to run yourself dry. When you adopt a lifestyle of focus, not only are you more at ease with the relationship you have with your goals, but you are able to accomplish tasks at the same time as feeling energized and fulfilled. Life is not about doing everything and anything all at once. It is about nourishing your whole being- and sometimes that means focusing on one or two important things rather than many.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/21/2017 • 46 minutes, 1 second
Colin Wright: Living in a New Country Every 4 Months and Training Your Minimalism Muscle
Episode 182: Colin Wright is an author, speaker, and the host of the Let's Know Things podcast. He's also the blogger behind Exile Lifestyle and the co-founder of Asymmetrical Press. Colin has been traveling full-time since 2009. Show notes: Claim your free 30 day Audible trial here: http://audibletrial.com/mindbodymusings How Colin Wright came up with the idea to travel to a new country every four months and leave the destination up to his followers to decide What the equivalent to "blogging" is these days in a world that's saturated with media How Colin creates friendships when he's always traveling and on the road The three orbits of friendship Being connected, without being attached, to all people in your life How Colin is able to create romantic relationships, even during his travels, with the aid of strong communication and honesty Allowing yourself space to change your mind about your lifestyle whenever you want (and giving the same permission to others) How Colin plans a "check-in" with his romantic partners to see if the relationship is still making sense or if they need to speak up about something out of alignment How to train your minimalism muscle Minimalism is not about the amount of things you have- it's about your relationship to them. The country that made the biggest impact on Colin for being the most bizarre and impactful Must-read books: Sapiens and Homo Deus by Yuval Noah Harari Connect with Colin: Exile Lifestyle Let's Know Things Author page Twitter Instagram Facebook YouTube [Tweet "Minimalism is not about how many things you own. It's about your relationship to your things."] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Sign up to be notified of the next one HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Episode 181: Yashoda Devi Ma is a master teacher of Vedic Meditation and Sattva Yoga. She is the Co- Founder of, The Subtle Mind - Meditation + Conscious Living Center in Boulder, Co and Founder of Cosmic Women’s Tribe. For almost two decades she has studied under the guidance of her two Guru's in India. Yashoda studied Psychology/English at Western Oregon University. Later becoming a Fitness Expert and Lifestyle Consultant in Beverly Hills, Ca for 13 years. She worked with physical therapists, chiropractors, doctors, celebrities, etc. She is certified in STOTT Pilates, AFFA,ACSM, NASM, and EatWize. Her Meditation and Yoga training has been extensively in the Himalaya’s of India. She discovered through her work with body transformation that we as humans have a tremendous healing capability if we enter in through mind/thought, emotions. After a decade of working in the fitness industry she disappeared off the map to journey into the mind/consciousness. After 10 years of deep meditation, supreme knowledge, numerous travels to India, living with her meditation Guru and traveling the world observing the Vedic teachings she plunged back into life after becoming a mother to bring these effortless teachings from India to ‘Householders’ all over the world. She simply teaches her students how to have a direct experience beyond their own individual thinking. Yashoda is based in Boulder, CO and travels all over the world. She works privately mentoring individuals on how to enhance their creative intelligence, end personal suffering, activate full mental potential, identify irrelevant patterns (emotional, mental, physical) and align one with their truest nature/purpose. Show notes: Join the Mind Body Musings Facebook Group HERE Check out my Beautycounter website to learn about the importance of switching to safer skin products HERE What Yashoda was recently doing in India + the sacred tradition of "dropping your body" Yashoda's upbringing being an adopted child who struggled with fear of abandonment early on and had to make up stuff about her background to get a feel for where she was from Why she was always questioning her Catholic roots + exploring the world to find more answers in spirituality and religion How she serendipitously found Vedic Meditation at a time when she felt life was meaningless How your thoughts are allowed to effortlessly flow during Vedic Meditation, rather than be concentrated away The purpose of mantra in meditation We don't really have free will when we are constantly at the mercy of 60,000 recurring thoughts each day One of the biggest changes I've seen in my own life now that I've been doing Vedic Meditation for a few months How to "not be perfect" with your practice + why you should know your intention and greater "why" to doing meditation Insight Timer Must-Read book: Inner Engineering: A Yogi's Guide to Joy by Sadhguru Connect with Yashoda: The Subtle Mind Website Yashoda Devi Ma Website Facebook Subtle Mind Instagram Yashoda Instagram [Tweet "Struggle with emptying your mind when you meditate? Learn an EFFORTLESS way here. #mbmpodcast "] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Sign up to be notified of the next one HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
12/6/2017 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 38 seconds
Nadia Munla: Getting Into Your Heart and Out of Your Head Through Dance, Sensuality and Body Wisdom
Episode 180: Nadia Munla is a Health & Embodiment Coach who guides women to sensual nourishment and embodied power by helping them reconnect to their own body voice. She is immensely passionate about supporting women in their journey back to their embodied essence so they can feel vibrant, alive, feminine & free again. Through her one-on-one coaching, Embody dance classes & Embody teacher training Nadia has guided thousands of women across 5 continents on their journey back to themselves. You can find her at www.nadiamunla.com, embodydanceclass.com or join the conversation at The Embody Tribe FB group. Show notes: Get your FREE 30 day Audible Trial here: http://audibletrial.com/mindbodymusings How Nadia created an antagonistic relationship with her body early in age because it never truly felt like they were on the same side (her knees didn't allow her to do ballet, digestive issues, relationships with men). The "bandaids" that Nadia used to use in order to make her feel worthy, and how she let go of those one by one. Sometimes harmless habits are methods of masking deeper issues (social drinking, birth control, pain killers, coffee). How to choose your actions based on short-term pleasure and long-term pleasure. Getting more into your heart and out of your head. Breaking down limiting beliefs like: emotionality is weak, play is unproductive, our eroticism is dangerous and our body wisdom is a woo-woo concept. How to incorporate your feminine energy even when you have a masculine-driven career. "What makes you succeed in business can make you fail in love." When you find a partner you really love to be with, it's because you really love YOURSELF with them. You love the version of you that this person brings out. Even when you're choosing them, you're choosing you. Creating a harmony with your own Femininity/Masculinity so that you attract the type of partner you want. Example: stepping more into your own ability to surrender if you want someone who can easily be in control and take the "front seat" so to say. Creating and cultivating safety for yourself first before looking for it in another person; becoming your own mirror. The all-too-common fear of allowing yourself to get "too" happy and joy-filled for the fear it will be taken away Stepping more into the darkness so your relationship with darkness changes Using embodied dance to let emotion pass through your body physically (and what to do if you're always overthinking during dance) Must-read book: Written on the Body Connect with Nadia: Website Embodiment Starter Kit Embody Dance Classes (click HERE for home dance classes) Facebook: Embody with Nadia Munla or The Embody Tribe FB group Instagram [Tweet "Are you stuck in your head and disconnected from your heart? Reconnect with your body's wisdom HERE."] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Sign up to be notified of the next one HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/29/2017 • 56 minutes, 50 seconds
Fresh Ideas to Mix Up Your Spirituality Self-Care Toolbox
Episode 179: Have you been using the same tools in your self-care practice for years? Are you ready to try a few new things? I am a huge advocate of self-care, as it is a tool I use to practice my self-love. Self-care is self-love, but self-love is not only self-care. In today's podcast episode I'm going to give you a tremendous list of self-care practices I use in my life. Please note, I do not do all of these practices on a daily basis. I stick to 1-3 of these tools daily and in order to make sure I'm doing things that are truly fueling my energy for the day, I consistently let go of practices that no longer serve me. Always keep in mind: the best self-care ritual is one that you're going to do. It's no brainer that if your practice isn't fun or fulfilling, you won't want to do it, so make sure that everything you do is aligned with how you want to feel for the day. If it's not enjoyable, don't do it even if all the other self-help gurus in the world say it's the best practice everrrr! Create a self-care practice that makes you happy. Period. Show notes: Three important things to know before you jump into this episode An easy assignment to keep in mind as you soak up these new self-care practices One way I decide what I want to do (and if I want to do it at all) is to ask myself: does this make me contract or expand? The types of crystals I'm loving lately and how I use them Click HERE to check out the book I mention in the podcast, Crystal Muse, and to listen to the episode I did with the authors, Heather and Timmi, click HERE Palo santo: why I love it and how to use it (buy from Amazon HERE) The mindset that I have towards these woo-woo type tools How candles have the power to help you tap into your rest // relaxation and cozy-vibes Some documentaries I love that have helped me connect to my desire to make the world a better place Examples: The True Cost, What the Health (I'm not vegetarian by the way), The Human Experiment, I am Not Your Guru, The Masks we Wear Why I purchased a plant when I went through my last breakup (and how it continues to satisfy my yearning for nurturing love!) Goal-writing during the New Moon, Full Moon or beginning of the month Why massages are a consistent self-care gift I give myself (and it also satisfies my love language: physical touch) Other forms of body work: ROLFing, reiki, sensory deprivation tanks, saunas, chiropractic work Why I'm all about getting pedicures and manicures Vedic Meditation: what it is and how it's been changing my life for the better Some more self-care tools I mention in this episode (you must listen to the actual episode to understand why I include these!): coffee dates with girl friends, reading, tarot cards, movement, self-dates, free-flow gratitude writing, physical touch/connection) The non-negotiable self-care rituals I do every day...for now Want to get a free audiobook from Audible? Go here: http://audibletrial.com/mindbodymusings Get my workbook Freeing your Feminine Spirit HERE Get the free audioguide 4 Pillars of Femininity for Perfectionists HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook Twitter Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching [Tweet "When's the last time you mixed up your #selfcare routine? Get 17+ new ideas here! #MBMPodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Sign up to be notified of the next one HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/22/2017 • 58 minutes, 24 seconds
Londin Angel Winters: Being a Leader of Love, Messages from the Cervix and Remaining Open-Hearted in Relationship
Episode 178: Londin is an international spiritual intimacy teacher. She and her life partner, Justin Patrick Pierce, teach the Yoga of Intimacy, a body of work designed to help others create a life of unbridled loving and sacred relationship. As part of helping women and men to deepen in intimacy, Londin uses serpent medicine. She has raised four temple snakes and uses them in sacred ceremony to help others awaken to their sensual power. Londin also has a background as a fitness champion and certified exercise specialist, and brings that expertise to sacred intimacy by helping women reclaim feeling good in their bodies. Ultimately, everything she offers centers around helping others shine their light, open their hearts and most importantly, love like they've never been hurt. She offers public and private trainings to couples and singles around the world, as well as books, online courses and regular interaction through her FB group "Sacred Relationship." Show notes: Get your FREE Audible Trial by clicking HERE Londin's experience growing up in a conservative household, going to an all girl's catholic school and following a typical Midwestern upbringing until she realized she had a part of herself that was eager to finally be released. This is how she became a Spiritual Intimacy teacher. How she approached her new path to her parents with an open, soft heart- not defensive and closed. How to communicate with your parents in an honest way so you can strengthen communication between you two, rather than cover it up with sarcasm or passive aggression. Becoming the leader of love by showing up in your relationship as honesty and truth. You don't always have to explain why you're triggered....you just want to show. When you're arguing with someone, you may feel your body close (physically and emotionally). One of the most important things during these times is to "do the yoga" in the conversation, meaning opening your shoulders, breathing and remaining open. Allow the flow to pass through your body in all instances, even when your natural instinct is to stop the flow. When you close your energy outwardly and inwardly, that's when you become "invisible." The difference between trusting someone in general and trusting someone in every moment. The power of listening to the messages you receive from your cervix If you're making the decision to sleep with someone just for fun, and not for a relationship, these are a few things to keep in mind moving forward. If you have to reduce depth in your life, you're going to reduce the depth of what you attract. "You would be so much better off being a friend to your inner yearning." Connect with Lodin: Website Facebook [Tweet "Did you know that by tapping into how your cervix feels you can tell if a relationship if right?"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Sign up to be notified of the next one HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/15/2017 • 55 minutes, 58 seconds
Kyle Lipton: Healing Sexual Trauma, Jealousy in Relationships and Sharing Your Truth Vulnerably
Episode 177: Kyle Lipton is an Intuitive Transformation Coach who truly leads with love and is committed to transformation and evolving consciousness. With an interesting back story of living in basically 2 homeless shelters, dealing with sexual trauma early on in life, being in the world of personal development since age 15, working for mentors in this space who have reached millions and millions of people in the world combined, Kyle Lipton is a gifted intuitive who has supported many people in transforming their lives. Show notes: How Kyle tried to prove his significance through sports when he was really just craving the presence of his father (and in pursuit of validation fell into perfectionism/over-thinking) The sexual trauma Kyle experienced at age six and how he healed the trauma seven years later The importance of not resisting the thoughts you are having How people can appreciate sexual exploration even when they were raised in a conservative household that repressed it God is unconditional love- really let this set in. (UNCONDITIONAL, Y'ALL!) The power of sharing your story vulnerably for others The current "insecurity" that Kyle is feeling and moving through with his current partner Why Kyle has created a business that's not caught up in the hustle/bustle of website details, funnels and all the other marketing tools that don't resonate with him Not everyone is going to understand and want your Truth- and that's totally fine. Share it anyways. Let your next level be your NOW level. "Your capacity to love is your capacity to have your heart broken." -Rumi Must-read book: Gene Keys Connect with Kyle: Facebook Instagram [Tweet "His story of recovering from sexual trauma is inspiring to all. Listen in here...#podcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Sign up to be notified of the next one HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/8/2017 • 1 hour, 8 seconds
Boundaries: What it Means to Choose YOU
Episode 176: People-pleasing is a debilitating habit. It can keep powerful women from playing big, creating businesses, forming the relationships of their dreams, protecting their sacred space and so much more. One extremely important quality of the Divine Masculine is the ability to set boundaries. A Warrior does not spend his entire life people-pleasing, for he has major tasks to accomplish and goals to see through. In this podcast I'm going to teach you how to summon your own Warrior so that you can begin to protect your energy, time and body. Boundaries are not easy to create if you're not used to them, but over time it will become more fluid if you are consistently acknowledging your own worth and value in this world. Show notes: Sign up to be notified of the next Feminine Surrender HERE Get your free 30 Day Audible Trial here: http://audibletrial.com/mindbodymusings Your ability to set boundaries is rooted in your self-worth Setting and being firm in your boundaries is a part of your Divine Masculine // Inner Warrior The distinction between the Social Self and the Professional Self The Social Self was created by your parents from birth; your Professional Self is the version of you that you get to create How people-pleasing can keep you from being a power coach, leader or healer How I used to throw my own boundaries to the wayside at the beginning of my coaching practice The two sides of setting boundaries: 1. Making requests of others 2. Doing what's best for you regardless of what others do The importance of having standards/boundaries in dating Must-read book: Boundaries by Henry Cloud Connect with Maddy: Facebook Twitter Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching [Tweet "People-pleasing can be debilitating to a powerful woman on a mission. #podcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Sign up to be notified of the next one HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
11/1/2017 • 34 minutes, 51 seconds
Cassie Mendoza-Jones: Surrendering to the Fire of Failure
Episode 175: Cassie Mendoza-Jones is the bestselling author of You Are Enough and It’s All Good, and a kinesiologist, business alignment coach, naturopath, and speaker. She works with women, and with entrepreneurs, healers, coaches and creatives who are driven, devoted and honouring their dreams, and who want to become more powerfully aligned to their bigger vision, clear away perfectionism, procrastination and overwhelm, and create their own version of a beautiful and aligned business and life. Through her writing, books, online courses, workshops, meditations, private sessions and social media presence, she shows them how to work with their feminine energies to tune into ease and flow, raising their confidence, their self-worth and their energy. Meet Cassie and get ready to create more freedom and harmony in your life and business at www.cassiemendozajones.com. Show notes: Cassie's journey from university to being a makeup artist to naturopathy and business/life coaching. How to have a positive outlook in a job you don't love, while working on the side to create your own business. The benefits of finding a job that teach you skills you will need in your own business. Why it's important to at least like your full-time job as you work towards your bigger goal. "It's not art's job to make you money" - Big Magic How Cassie put over $30k into creating a course that needed a last minute rebrand (in order to not get sued) and went WAY different than her original plan. How she continues to learn how to surrender to life in new situations Why it's so important to have friendships that fulfill you; it's okay to let go of friendships from your past if they no longer serve you! Must-read book: Die Empty by Todd Henry Connect with Cassie: Website Facebook Instagram Get her new book It's All Good HERE {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Sign up to be notified of the next one HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/25/2017 • 53 minutes, 22 seconds
Samantha Skelly: Ignoring Calorie Burn in Exercise, Remembering the Inner Child and Creating New Beliefs in Dating
Episode 174: Samantha Skelly is an entrepreneur, motivational speaker, best-selling author, and emotional eating expert. As founder of Hungry for Happiness, a movement to empower women to overcome their disordered eating and body image issues, Samantha has revolutionized the weight loss industry by examining the individual and underlying causes of eating disorders. She has shared her mission on an international platform, with appearances on Global TV, Shaw, NBC, and, CBC. In 2013, Samantha was awarded “Top 24 under 24,” and in 2014, she was named a finalist for “Best Emerging Entrepreneur” by Small Business BC. Samantha continues to spread her message and transform the lives of thousands of people through her program, motivational speaking engagements, the Hungry for Happiness podcast, worldwide international retreats, and her best-selling book, Hungry for Happiness: One Woman’s Journey Guide From Fighting Food to Finding Freedom. Show notes: Listen to a previous episode Creating an Online Business with Integrity and Heart HERE and apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE Listen to the first episode I did with Samantha Skelly (episode 114) HERE How Samantha's mission has changed since we last spoke over a year ago How Acroyoga is one of the most beautiful forms of movement, but yet neither Samantha or I never would have let ourselves do it back in the day when we were calorie burn obsessed How dance is one of Samantha's most expressive forms of movement Her experience being a stunt double in Smallville Exploring / expressing repressed anger How to detach from the emotions you are experiencing so that you allow them to pass through whenever they want (anxiety, anger, fear- all of them!) Meddling is a clear indication that the inner child is not receiving support and love A simple exercise you can do to check in with your inner child on a daily basis The beauty of the inner child's curiousity and ability to do something "just because" Letting go of beliefs around the type of people you date so that you can have your own standards (not simply echo what your parents told you to want) Must-read book: The Four Agreements (listen to an episode I did on this HERE) Apply for her best-selling program Society >>>>> HERE Connect with Samantha: Website Instagram Apply for her best-selling program Society >>>>> HERE [Tweet "Are you listening to the needs of your Inner Child? Here's how you can start. #MBMpodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Sign up to be notified of the next one HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/18/2017 • 58 minutes, 36 seconds
On Perfectionism with Well + Weird
Episode 173: Today's podcast episode is going to be slightly different than normal as I'm re-sharing an interview I had on the Well + Weird Podcast with Holly Lowery. Holly's podcast is all about cooking up a healthier relationship with food, movement and your body by employing weird practices like Intuitive Eating, Anti-Dieting, meditation, journaling and other healing strategies. If you have experienced perfectionism in your own life, get ready for this episode. We are going to go DEEP into the roots of perfectionism and give you tools for recovering your own perfection mentality. Show notes: Click here to be redirected to Holly Lowery's podcast A bit on my history and upbringing with perfectionism, dieting and body image How I made the transition from being a fitness competitor to a body freedom advocate The support and resources that supported my new mindset shift with food and weight The importance of "protecting your chapter" Going back to enjoying the little things you used to love Unraveling the masculine from perfectionism The differentiating qualities between the masculine and the feminine Daily practices and tools I use to help harmonize these two energies How I am still learning so many things about yin and yang What's keeping me both well and weird right now Connect with Holly: Website Facebook Instagram [Tweet "Struggling to let go of control and simply live? Learn how to release perfectionism for good."] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Grab a slot to speak with me HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/11/2017 • 53 minutes, 44 seconds
The Divine Masculine: What It Is and What It Is Not
Episode 172: When you think of masculinity, what comes to mind? Really...think about it for a second. Whatever beliefs you hold around the masculine are going to come up in your goals, drive, ambitions and boundaries. If you think masculinity is rigidness and hardness, that's exactly how you're going to structure your life. If you think masculinity is brutish and rude, you're most likely never going to learn how to be assertive and create boundaries when you need them. It's just as important to come home to your masculine as it is to come home to your feminine. What you may not understand clearly is that the masculine is not perfectionism. It's not rigidity. It's not obsessive. The pure form of the Masculine is presence, knowledge and strength. It's the warrior. It's the protector. In today's podcast, we're going to dive deep into this topic so you can clearly see where your masculine energy needs more attention so that you can become your own warrior. Show notes: The Divine Masculine embodies your inner protector, warrior, Self, goal-orientation, strength, decisiveness and action-taking. It is the pushing out in life. It's the sun and your ability to hold knowledge. Many of us have the Masculine confused. We think the Masculine is our perfectionist side. It's not: perfectionism is the deranged, fear-based version of the Masculine. Many of us don’t know what it truly feels like to live with our Divine Masculine. The masculine and feminine are meant to complement and support each other. it’s the yin and yang. The Book of She What people often confuse with the divine masculine: Inner Patriarch It’s fear-based, “If I don’t do all of these things, then I won’t be worthy/seen/loved/accepted” The Inner Patriarch thinks feelings are weakness or emotions are “crazy” (obviously this stifles a lot of energy that needs to be felt) Matthew Hussey video Inner Pusher This energy shoves, drives and forces us to exert beyond our body’s instincts It runs over any potential creative energy we could have Inner Perfectionist This one tells us we are never enough; body image, work ethic, school, family life Sometimes we can’t even start something because we are so daunted by the process The distinction between “Hard” vs. Strong Examples of how you know your Divine Masculine is in shadow and examples of Him being in light Forgiving your own father Get a free trial with Audible HERE Suggested books: To Be a Man & The Way of the Superior Man Connect with Maddy: Facebook Twitter Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching [Tweet "The Masculine is your yang-- and it's necessary for a life of inner harmony. #DivineMasculine"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Grab a slot to speak with me HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
10/4/2017 • 41 minutes, 20 seconds
Kristin Lohr: Sharing What Makes Us the Feel the Most Vulnerable and Seen (Dating, Weight and Other Specific Things)
Episode 171: Kristin Lohr is a life coach, writer, and podcast host living in Chicago. Her Instagram, We Are Soul Sparks, provides daily inspiration for thousands by reminding us that we are worthy of a big, brave life. Through her 1-on-1 coaching, Kristin helps women who are fed up with their own bullshit get unstuck and out of their own way. She wholeheartedly believes that by letting go of what is no longer serving us, we can finally embrace our lovely, messy, humanness. Show notes: Get a FREE 30-day trial and audio book when you go to audibletrial.com/mindbodymusings! I highly recommend The Red Tent by Anita Diamant or The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer. How it feels to be vulnerable to the world and why vulnerability is subjective Why we sometimes feel uncomfortable/embarrassed when we are being comforted by our following The thing that makes both Kristin and I feel the most vulnerable to our audience How to accept the fact that not everything is long-lasting and final How to be open to things being different from what you expected The ups and downs of self-awareness Brief discussion about father-daughter complex When the good stuff outweighs the bad stuff Appreciate the wonderful list of things that you're doing in life Honor the times when you did things yourself and didn't defer to another person Life-changing book for Kristin: Daring Greatly by Brene Brown Connect with Kristin: Website Facebook Instagram Podcast [Tweet "Trouble accepting the fact that not everything last forever? Tune in to #MBMPodcast to find out how."] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/27/2017 • 57 minutes, 6 seconds
Mary Hyatt: Finding Feel-Good Movement That’s Unique to You
Episode 170: Mary Hyatt is on a quest to feel alive and to live a life full of gratitude, joy, authenticity, and abundance in body, mind and soul. Mary believes that every person has the ability to create the life that they love. She lives in the heart of Nashville and her days are spent juggling the rolls of holistic lifestyle advocate as a Presidential Diamond wellness advocate with doTERRA essential oils, and personal life and business coach. Mary helps her clients wake up, find their voice and become fully alive. You can join Mary every Wednesday at 1 PM CST on her Facebook LIVE show where she dives into raw topics and helps her audience fall back in love with themselves and believe in their potential. Show notes: Want a safer skincare? Check out Beautycounter and start shopping with me. You can also join my Beautycounter Facebook group by clicking HERE. Get a FREE audio book and 30-day trial when you go to audibletrial.com/mindbodymusings! How Mary struggled with anxiety/depression and lost a sense of who she was in her marriage She had great communication with her then-husband but lacked intimacy when it came to issues of the heart How she became passive and people-pleasing as she eventually lost her voice She schooled herself about self-discovery by buying all the books "If you are not connected with your true self then you can't intimately connect with another human being." How a marriage can serve a purpose and why divorce isn't all black and white Why it's best not to force gratitude when it's not yet time Four tips on how to reconnect with your body through movement How thoughts of punishment naturally fade away when you start to enjoy moving your body Why focusing on external results when working out disconnects the connection in your body Why moving your body is a lifestyle and how to choose what exercise feels good for you Grab your FREE gift: Four Pillars of Femininity for Perfectionists by clicking HERE Book that changed Mary's life: Daring Greatly by Brene Brown Connect with Mary: Website Facebook Instagram Twitter [Tweet "Is your workout routine not bringing you joy? Maybe it's time to change from exercise to movement."] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/20/2017 • 58 minutes, 9 seconds
Grieving “What Could Have Been” and Understanding Emotional Abuse
Episode 169: In today's episode of the Mind Body Musings Podcast, I'm going to dive into a topic that has yet to be shared on the show. I want to talk about the process of grief- and more specifically, grieving your idea of what could have been...not the reality. You see, many times we can go through traumatic experiences and cling on to what we thought we could have had "if only" this, this and this didn't happen. And it's these thoughts that lead us to feel guilty. "If only I didn't mess up in this way" or "If only I had known better." On the flip side, we may feel guilty not because we wish we would have worked harder, but we feel guilty for being "stupid" enough to fall into a bad relationship in the first place. Have you been in an emotionally abusive relationship in your past or possibly the present? If so, I'm guessing you know what I'm talking about. If you've been holding onto shame or guilt around this topic, this episode of the podcast is a must-listen. Show notes: Various emotions explained by @thefeminineshift Click HERE to listen to a previous episode I did with Suzanne Heyn where we talked about the secret messages of sadness, anger and anxiety Are you the runner or chaser in a relationship? Find out by listening to THIS episode I had with Mark Groves How thinking about free will differently can release you from feelings of guilt Why it's important to feel you pain/anger and not skip right over to gratitude if you are not yet ready How some of us put our nurturing ability first instead of our emotions Why being pushed and pulled in a relationship (feeling a roller coaster of emotion) isn't passion Why we tend to go back to the ones who hurt us Adult attachment styles discussed in THIS podcast episode "Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional" Living an insecurity-based life Why it is important to know what you're grieving about - is it the reality or is it an idea of what you wished you had? Trusting more, giving yourself grace and self-forgiveness Recommended books to read: Codependent No More by Melody Beattie Anatomy of the Spirit by Caroline Myss Sign up for my special Audible account HERE and get a FREE book & a 30-day trial (get one of the books above!) Schedule a one-hour discovery call for the Feminine Surrender, click HERE See me do Acroyoga, visit my Instagram HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook Twitter Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching [Tweet "Are you grieving what could have been or the actual reality of something? #MBMPodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Grab a slot to speak with me HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
9/13/2017 • 36 minutes, 3 seconds
Creating an Online Business with Integrity and Heart
Episode 168: Whether you're a mom, student, wife or you're already an entrepreneur, I believe everyone has a desire to create something. Creation is embedded into your soul. Creativity is constantly stirring- you just have to decide to give it an opportunity to grow. In today's episode of the Mind Body Musings Podcast I'm going to teach you how to create an online business with integrity and heart. There are so many coaches and "gurus" out there saying they hold the secrets to having a thriving business, and at times, all of this contradicting information can be frustrating. Facebook live? Marketing funnels? Affiliates? Free videos? Podcasts? Which is the "right" way? I have fallen prey to listening to other people's business ideas many times, but I've also discovered how to realize if something really is in alignment with me or not. I'll also share with you my own entrepreneurial venture in this podcast, so get ready for a bumpy ride! Show notes: My journey of wanting to be a poetry major and creating two poetry blogs to feel what it's like to get "out there" How I started to coach women with weight loss (yes, me!), where I also got involved with the wrong coach I realized I no longer wanted to do what I'm doing so I moved to Colorado, took a hiatus and went on a mission to dive into self-acceptance, self-love and eventually love for others Why my experiences (and yours) are enough to change the lives of others through coaching How one two-hour coaching session changed my life forever The time I flew to Hawaii after I quit my job because the Universe opened it up to me The first time my idea of money was really challenged (paying $1200 for a two day workshop that I had to fly to and also find my own accommodation for) Changing my money mindset from either/or to "and" Why you need to do a lot of trial and error in your business to discover what is aligned with you Why you should always feel like your heart is on fire when you want to try something new in your business Listen to this previous episode I had with Christian Sinclair How ego covers up inspiration when you start to appreciate another person's business Why being the best version of yourself benefits your business Click HERE if you want to get a FREE audio book and a 30-day trial with Audible Recommended books to read: You are a Badass by Jen Sincero The Purpose Principles by Jake Ducey Playing Big by Tara Mohr Discover your inner mentor by listening to THIS previous episode I did with Tara Mohr To apply for one of my Deep Coaching Sessions mentioned in the episode, go HERE Connect with Maddy: Facebook Twitter Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching [Tweet "Integrity + Heart: Two must-have ingredients for creating an online business #MBMPodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE {RETREAT} The Feminine Surrender: A Weekend Haven for Restoring Trust, Love and Expression is approaching. Grab a slot to speak with me HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/30/2017 • 51 minutes, 45 seconds
Isabel Foxen Duke: Bringing to Light the Parallels Between Diet Culture, Fat Phobia and Sexism
Episode 167: Isabel Foxen Duke is the Creator of Stop Fighting Food — a free video training program for women who want to "stop feeling crazy around food." After years of trying to overcome emotional eating, binge-eating and chronic weight-cycling through "traditional" and alternative approaches, Isabel discovered some radical new ways to get women over their "food issues" once and for all — not just by shifting the mindsets of individuals, but by challenging the dominant diet culture as a whole. A fixture and thought-leader in the greater body-positive movement, Isabel has been featured in the Huffington Post, Elle Magazine, XOJane, and has been praised by Ricki Lake. Her writing and free guide, How To Not Eat Cake, can be found at www.isabelfoxenduke.com and you can watch her free video training series HERE. Show notes: New sponsor for today's show! Get a FREE audio book and 30-day trial when you go to audibletrial.com/mindbodymusings! I highly recommend The Untethered Soul, The Red Tent or The Circle. Shout out to my other lovely sponsor, Beautycounter, who makes skin care safer for us! Click this LINK if you wanna know more about why I love Beautycounter or if you want to join my FB group, you can do so by clicking HERE. Isabel shares how her parents and her doctor introduced her to dieting at the age of three and how it affected her as an adult The struggle of most people being in a pendulum swing between dietary restriction and binge-eating Impact of diet culture and how NOT to be a victim of it Why we tend to blame other people as a way to grasp for control How human compulsion is the root of our desire to understand How refusing to take responsibility and victim playing can prevent us from moving forward What body positivity ISN'T Why it's completely okay not to conform to sexism How shame and not accepting your femininity can fall into sexism patterns How to identify your own desires from brainwashed ones How emotions are heavily influenced by the culture around you More talk about Stop Fighting Food Listen to the previous episodes I had with Isabel: Overcoming Emotional Eating, Facing Your Fear With Weight & Defining Beauty The One Type of Food Deprivation Keeping You From Freedom Connect with Isabel: Website Stop Fighting Food Free Video Series [Tweet "Can't get out of the diet-binge cycle? Diet culture and fat phobia might be the culprit."] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/23/2017 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 50 seconds
Heather and Timmi: Demystifying the Crystal World with Energy Muse
Episode 166: Heather Askinosie is a leading influencer on the power of crystals, Feng Shui, and holistic healing. For over 25 years, she has had the privilege of studying with the best healers from all over the world, who have passed down ancient teachings on how to utilize energy technology. In 2000, Heather co-founded Energy Muse with business partner, Timmi Jandro. Energy Muse is a conscious lifestyle brand, providing tools of empowerment, inspiration, and hope in the tangible form of jewelry and crystals. Together, Heather and Timmi are helping people reconnect with the energy of the Earth to align with their highest self, realize their true calling, and tap into their own personal magnificence. You can visit them online at www.energymuse.com. Show notes: Putting a spotlight on my sponsor for today's show, Beautycounter! Wanna know why I love them? Click HERE. You may also join my Beautycounter Facebook group, Nourishing Your Feminine with Skincare Beauty. Be educated! Learn the dangers of untested chemicals in household products, watch The Human Experiment on Netflix. Heather uncovers the many uses of crystals as an earth tool to help us on our journey How the same crystal can react differently to different people depending on what the person is going through in their life Being attracted to a crystal - hold it and have it in your environment, let the feminine energy take over and trust yourself How a minimalist can get into the crystal world without overstepping from a minimalist's way of life Not getting attached to the crystal but rather experience, enjoy and share by passing it forward to a friend who needs it Stepping more into your feminine flow in order not to be trapped into being too logical with the uses of crystals The difference between raw crystals and pointed, shaped crystals The crystals' connection with astrology The importance of cleansing crystals and how to do it Must-read books: The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships by Neil Strauss Everyday Wisdom: A Spiritual Book of Days by Paul Ferrini Connect with Heather and Timmi: Website Instagram Twitter Facebook Get their new book Crystal Muse HERE [Tweet "Do crystals actually work? Why the big hoopla? Learn EVERYTHING you need to know about them here."] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/16/2017 • 53 minutes, 42 seconds
The Four Agreements
Episode 165: The Four Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz has been a North Star in my life. Not only that, but it's mandatory my clients pick up a copy at some point during the duration of our coaching. A few weeks ago I heard don Miguel Ruiz Jr. speak live in Boulder about living a life of the Four Agreements. It was this talk that truly took these agreements to an entirely new level of understanding. In today's podcast I'm going to share with you some of the most valuable pieces of wisdom shared from that talk. Before you dive in, I suggest you check out the Four Agreements HERE and Living a Life of Awareness HERE. Show notes: The Four Agreements is a transformational book, serving as a guide to once again treat yourself with unconditional self love. Ever heard of Beautycounter? It's changing the way we do safe skincare and beauty. Start exploring my BC website HERE Conditional love is the result of domestication; domestication is a system of reward and punishment. Domestication begins through others and carries on in life through ourselves (the inner dialogue between our head and heart). Domestication happens when someone tries to turn a no into a yes and ignores that person's free will. If we spend our entire lives believing love is conditional then conditional love is all we have to offer. The effects of domestication in our romantic relationships Say yes or no for yourself, not for others. The Four Agreements you can make with yourself: Be impeccable with your word: say only what you mean and be responsible for that alone. You are not responsible for what others hear. Don’t take anything personally: it's about them, not about you. Respect others people's no's and yes's. Don’t make assumptions. Always do your best. The key to enlightenment is effort. Forgive yourself for ever saying yes to believing in conditional love and choose to start saying no moving forward. Experience unconditional love within yourself first. Connect with Maddy: Facebook Twitter Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching [Tweet "Stop domesticating yourself and finally experience a love that's unconditional. #MBMPodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HEREAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/9/2017 • 35 minutes, 33 seconds
Dr. Steve Prentice: How to Un-Wreck Your Body, Lower Stress Levels and Quit Dogmatic “Health” Rules
Episode 164: Dr. Steve Prentice, practicing chiropractor and health contrarian since 1996, has spent his career questioning the status quo and challenging the accepted norms. His experience working with thousands of patients over 20 years led him to create what he termed “the stress-centered approach to health,” and he now leads his patients through the process of restoring their health and quality of life while rejecting many of the restrictive and obsessive health recommendations of the day. In his most current work, Wrecked, Dr. Prentice introduces these concepts to a wider audience for the first time. Show notes: Join us in this episode with Dr. Steve Prentice whose work reminds us of this show’s original message of loving one’s self as you are now Learn more about why I love Beautycounter HERE Join my Beautycounter Facebook page here: Nourishing your Feminine with Skincare and Beauty. Shop directly for your next favourite Beautycounter products HERE. My mentor, Matt Stone from Episode 2, recommended Dr. Steve Prentice’s book Wrecked and I'm so glad he did. Over the years, we’ve been wrecking our bodies in pursuit of perfection and it is worse than ever. Current health recommendations can be sadistic and abusive. Some people with ‘perfect’ bodies are still miserable and dealing with the exact same issues as those who don’t. There’s a reason to this. Your body size is largely determined by factors that are way beyond your control, like heredity and genetics. Diet and exercise are just outward manifestations of our inside problems. Don’t blame all your problems on poor lifestyle because there’s so much more that goes into it, including state of mind and stress. Media’s influence on how we deal with our struggles. Stress causes health to decline. It’s the real culprit. Most important question to ask yourself: Will this reduce my stress load or add to it? To be successful in making changes in your life, design a game that’s fun and enjoyable to you. Always love what you do. Must Read Book: Diet Recovery 2 by Matt Stone Connect with Dr. Steve Prentice: Get a FREE digital copy of his new book Wrecked HERE (available until August 7, 2017) [Tweet "Have you found yourself wrecking your health instead of improving it with your strict diet rules?"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HEREAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
8/2/2017 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 18 seconds
Ali and Michelle of Soul Camp: Having More Play in Your Spiritual Practice and Going to Sleepaway Camp as an Adult
Episode 163: Soul Camp co-founders Michelle Goldblum and Alison Leipzig united to bring all of the things they loved together to create a completely transformative experience for both themselves and their communities. Going to sleepaway camp together as children, and now, both entrepreneurs in the health & wellness space, they saw that there lacked large-scale community experiences that were not only deep and healing, but fun and playful as well. They believe in the power of joy to change the world. And it happens, one camper at a time. Show notes: Soul Camp, a beautiful sleepaway camp for adults, is far from being an ordinary retreat. Know more about it in this podcast with the founders themselves, Michelle Goldblum and Alison Leipzig! Shout out to my sponsor, Beautycounter! Not only do I love their products, I also love their mission. Learn more about them HERE or through the Facebook group Nourishing your Feminine with Skincare and Beauty and get involved! For their products, you may go to Beautycounter. How Michelle and Alison got to the place where play has been so important Ali’s struggle in coping with her perfectionist nature amidst life’s hustle/bustle. How she was introduced to Marianne Williamson’s work on spirituality and how she discovered her innermost self’s longing for play. Ali and Michelle went to camp together and didn’t know each other. They met again years after and instantly connected because of their same love for play. How Michelle’s success and eventual heartache brought her back to the spiritual community. How Soul Camp’s community aspect helps her discover her true self behind the false façade that she herself created through the years. Why I related to Soul Camp and why I am so called to look into it. How it so similarly reflects my own core. Soul camp is an introduction to alternative spirituality. We can build up our ability to love through pleasure, happiness, and joy --- and those all come from play. There’s no play in perfectionism. Try more play! Look for play! Create play! Go play! There’s a correlation between the lack of play and the ho-humness that adults feel in their life. Ali’s battle with food. There’s magic in darkness. It just takes courage, support and a willingness to go there. Michelle’s difficulty in dealing with other people’s feelings. You can only accept, appreciate or allow emotions in another person to the extent that you do that within yourself. Expect fear when you’re doing big things and creating something new. There are 2 Soul Camps coming up! To join the Soul Camp on August 23 – 27 in Warrensburg, New York or on October 24 – 28 in Sanger, California, click HERE. What you can expect when at Soul Camp Must read: The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael A. Singer A Woman’s Worth by Marianne Williamson Download your Free Audio Guide, 4 Pillars of Femininity for Perfectionist, HERE if you haven’t already or go to my Home page. Connect with Ali and Michelle: Website Instagram Facebook [Tweet "Ready to have the time of your life combining spirituality AND play? Come to Soul Camp. #MBMPodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we’ll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure, painting murals, planting gardens, teaching English, and playing games with the students. I N T E G R A T I O N Then, we will head to the jungles of Tepoztlan, Mexico: known as birthplace of the ancient Mayan God Quetzalcoatl. Here we’ll take two days to reflect and reconnect,Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/26/2017 • 53 minutes, 30 seconds
Jaimal Yogis: Learning How to Flow with the Waves of Life
Episode 162: Jaimal Yogis is a graduate of the Columbia Graduate School of Journalism, Jaimal Yogis is the author of Saltwater Buddha, a coming-of-age memoir about how surfing and the sea helped him transition back to the world after a year in a Zen monastery (now also a documentary film); and The Fear Project, which looks at the neuroscience of fear and courage, using science, mindfulness, and sports to reveal ways in which humans can live more fully. His new book, All Our Waves Are Water (July, Harper Wave) uses the sea as a metaphor to explore the true self. Jaimal's writing has appeared in ESPN Magazine, The Washington Post, The Chicago Tribune, and many others. He teaches meditation and creative writing at places like Spirit Rock, Kripalu, 1440 Multiversity, and the Writing Pad. Show notes: Read my post on why I decided to join Beautycounter HERE and join our FB group Nourishing your Feminine with Skincare and Beauty To learn more about today's show sponsor, you can go directly to Beautycounter and explore their many incredible products! How Jaimal’s troubled state got him into surfboarding and eventually to yoga and meditation Jaimal's realization of the connection between the waves of the water and one’s breath, with breath being similar to the wind of the ocean. Travel and novelty stretch our brain, our heart, and our comfort zone. We all long for happiness, truth, and love. We have our own ways of finding them. But though each path looks unique, all lead to somewhere very similar. The Tibetan Worldview, and how it affected Jaimal. Serenity is honoring one’s emotion, surviving the waves and letting them come through. The practice of Tibetan tradition is about getting used to different kinds of life’s waves and to be accepting of it. ANGER, ANXIETY, and SADNESS from a previous podcast with Suzanne Heyn are also kinds of waves. Feel them, sit in them, and let them run their course so they can pass through when ready. VULNERABILITY as my approach to connect with people. It is the most courageous thing that one can do. What is true courage and how does it differ from bravado? It’s not courage when you try to cover up an insecurity. Learn more about this from Jaimal’s book, The Fear Project. Our bodies are like layers of emotions that we hold in, and whether it’s meditation/yoga/therapy, there are ways to peel those back. There is not a difference between nervousness and excitement, it’s only the stories you tell around it. The benefit of fear and adrenaline. When you feel everything is becoming a routine, remind yourself: What is it that I love to do? What is it that I am passionate about? Must read: Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind by Shunryu Suzuki Connect with Jaimal: Website Facebook Instagram Twitter Get Jaimal's book HERE [Tweet "Life is like water. When you learn to ride the waves of life, you will find yourself to be okay."] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we’ll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure, painting murals, planting gardens, teaching English, and playing games with the students. I N T E G R A T I O N Then, we will head to the jungles of Tepoztlan, Mexico: known as birthplace of the ancient Mayan God Quetzalcoatl. Here we’ll take two days to reflect and reconnect, with a carefully-crafted agenda of meditation and yoga, Mayan Sweat Lodge ceremonies led by a local Shaman, chakra therapy pools and a walking labyrinth meditation, hikes into the hills and healthy meals shared onsite. I will be joining the trip as a facilitator,Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/19/2017 • 55 minutes, 58 seconds
How to Use Dating Apps, Getting Through a Breakup and When to Have Sex
Episode 161: “When is it okay to have sex with someone you really like?” “How do you stay broken up with someone you know isn’t good for you?” “How do you use dating apps without being superficial and going crazy?” When I polled my Instagram audience the other day to find out what they wanted to know the most about, these are the three questions I received repeatedly. So, today’s podcast episode of the Mind Body Musings show is going to be all about these three things. DISCLAIMER: None of the insight or advice you are about to receive are set in stone. Coach Maddy Moon has been fooled into going on dates with many a**holes throughout her years via dating apps, she has reached out to exes she knew she shouldn’t be with, and she has had sex before when she really could have gone without it. But, hey, I OWN these experiences totally and I wouldn’t take any of them back for anything. I owe a lot to the nights I ended back up in the arms of an ex because it’s those gross gut feelings that led me to ending things permanently. I owe a lot to giving myself to someone who wasn’t right because I realized how much of a treasure my body is and why I need to only share it with someone who really matters. I owe a lot to my insecure past. She taught me what strength really looks like. She taught me how to stick up for my values, worth and voice. I’ve had some really dark days when it comes to relationships (this year in particular was a doozy) but nonetheless I’ve remained open and vulnerable. I’m so proud of my romance battle scars because they’ve healed into something spectacular. I know myself, I know what I want, and I know what not to do. So, without further ado, are you ready to hear what I’ve learned about these three topics? Let's go! Show notes: Enjoy Four Sigmatic’s Mushroom Hot Cacao Mix and get a dose of its many health benefits! Enter the code ‘maddy’ in their website and get a 10% off your purchase. When using dating apps know yourself and be clear on what kind of person that you want to date. Go on ‘mini’ dates so that if it’s not working, you don’t feel locked in. When on a date, I let him pay if I feel we are a good fit and we are enjoying ourselves. If it’s not a good fit, I always pay half. Don’t overthink if a date goes really well. If you want to say hi the next day, do so. Know the type of person that you are and know the type of person that you are with. I am primarily a secure type of person, but secondarily anxious. I can get very attached to someone who is an ‘avoidant’, someone who does not respond and plays a little hard to get. Being an anxious person, I let go of people who are avoidant as they activate my attachment style MAJORLY. Listen to the podcast I did about the book Attached to learn more. Notice the pattern of communication after your date. Mentalities you can have when using dating apps: I’m doing this for dating. I’m doing this for entertainment / fun. I want to meet new people. Make new friends. If you want more insight about dating, Matthew Hussey has a book called ‘Get the Guy’ + a great YouTube channel. So why choose the middle path when on dating apps? To increase your pool of potential and possibilities. Know that an ‘attachment’ is created when you have sex with someone. Can you or your partner handle that? If you are an anxious person, an avoidant is already not good for you. Much so if you have sex with him/her as sex only multiplies your attachment. Consult with your heart and feel what’s best for you. Maybe talk to your partner first and see how you both feel about your relationship before you have sex. Giving yourself to someone only to watch the relationship quickly crumble is always painful, but learn what you can from the situation and stay in your softness and femininity. One of the reasons one stays in a relationship is comfort. But life is not just for comfort, my friends. To cope up with a break-up: TravelAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/12/2017 • 42 minutes, 48 seconds
Suzanne Heyn: The Secret Messages of Sadness, Anger and Anxiety
Episode 160: Suzanne Heyn is an award-winning writer and spiritual teacher who helps people heal their hearts and love who they are through transformational online courses and other digital trainings. She came to the spiritual path after a cancer diagnosis at 27 broke her heart open, forcing her to heal a lifetime of emotions that were repressed from earlier life traumas. Through sharing her life journey with authenticity and vulnerability, Suzanne's mission is to inspire people to love their darkness so they can live their greatness. She is living proof that you can heal any wound, transcend any pain and live whatever kind of life you want to. Show notes: It's not too late to join us at Mexico City! We'll be refurbishing a school, doing meditation, enjoying chakra therapy and having an amazing time with some life-changing workshops! Join HERE. A warm shout out to the show's sponsor Four Sigmatic for making the best products ever! These powerful packets have medicinal mushroom properties such as mental clarity, focus and even sex drive, baybay! If you want to try it out, you can use the code “maddy” for 10% off at foursigmatic.com Acceptance of where you are and who you are is one of the most powerful and underused catalysts for changing your life Must-read book: Start with Why How Suzanne developed unhealed depression and emotional trauma from cancer, the loss of her father and sister, and experiencing an emotionally absent mother How Suzanne experienced immense healing after beginning her meditation and Kundalini Yoga practice Must-read book: The Power of Now Suzanne lived in seven states in three years as a way to avoid the inner healing that needed to be felt Why you can take radical responsibility for your life without having to take the blame You are not your anxiety; you are a spirit that is having the human experience of anxiety You are not a one dimensional creature; stop attaching to any one single experience and start seeing the entire spectrum within yourself Anxiety is created out of repressed emotions. Anger is a call for boundaries; it is the feeling of powerlessness. When anger rises, ask yourself, how am I giving my power away? What boundaries am I being called to set? It's much more socially acceptable for a woman to experience sadness instead of anger, which is why so many women repress their anger whenever it arises. Doing things that are out of your alignment causes anxiety, sadness and anger Example: trying to be a pharmacist when you truly want to be a dancer! Feeling your feelings fully is how you turn your pain into passion // purpose What have you been repressing in your life? What emotions still need to be felt? Learn to love the process (and maybe even the pain) because that's what it means to come home to yourself Connect with Suzanne: Website Facebook Instagram YouTube [Tweet "Do you repress "unattractive" emotions like anxiety , sadness and anger? Here's why you shouldn't."] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we’ll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure, painting murals, planting gardens, teaching English, and playing games with the students. I N T E G R A T I O N Then, we will head to the jungles of Tepoztlan, Mexico: known as birthplace of the ancient Mayan God Quetzalcoatl. Here we’ll take two days to reflect and reconnect, with a carefully-crafted agenda of meditation and yoga, Mayan Sweat Lodge ceremonies led by a local Shaman, chakra therapy pools and a walking labyrinth meditation,Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
7/5/2017 • 53 minutes, 42 seconds
Hanna Bier: Accessing Your Inner Priestess and Remembering the Lady of Communion Within
Episode 159: Hanna Bier is a Soulful Success Coach for brilliant, heart-centered women who are ready to live beautiful lives while building soul-aligned businesses or careers that have a world-changing impact. She helps passionate souls discover their life's work, rock the divine mission they are here to lead and live the beautiful and rich lives they dream of! Hanna is a Mentor Masterclass certified Coach, Emotional Healing Expert and Priestess Of The Divine Feminine. Show notes: I am in Alabama! Every year we have a family reunion that happens for one week on a private beach. The cutest story about my grandparents and how they ended up being 5th car to pass the historic bridge to this beach Want to have a taste of the Four Sigmatic, the mushroom drink mix that is causing a lot of hubbub? Go to foursigmatic.com and use the code “maddy” to get 10% off your purchase. (The hot cacao mix, the Viking mix or the coffee mushroom mix is a must try! It is amazing with almond milk, butter, coconut oil or cinnamon!) Come to Mexico City with me August 3 – 8 to refurbish a primary school, workshop and play in the jungle in a Mayan temple! Put down your deposit HERE. (watch THIS video for more!) This the 2nd time we have Hanna on here. The 1st time was magic! Listen HERE. Hanna is my soul sister in a lot ways and thanks to the internet, we can be buddies and keep the connection through all the distance separating us. Hanna had to go through a difficult upbringing before she awakened the goddess within her. She was the product of a custody battle at a young age, a victim of rape at 7, developed eating disorder at 9, suicidal by 12 and on therapy by 14. She graduated, started fashion school and eventually found herself with an alcohol addiction. Hanna’s journey from simply existing but not really living and not being able to face the music to what she has become now has been very inspiring and relatable. Being told that you are worth it and that someone cares is different from realizing and accepting it yourself. How did Hanna learn the deeper meaning of life and spiritual healing? What was her life as a coach like? How did keeping connected to the pain help her growth? What are the goddess archetypes? Different flavors of goddesses, different lenses, and different flow states that exist. The source of energy through a feminine lens 13 faces of the goddess Hanna illustrates how to facilitate awakening of the Lady of Communion! Past family trauma is one of the things that can get in the way of accessing your inner goddess. Hanna teaches us how to let go. Doing things differently will lead to self discovery and self awareness around where you want to go // what you want to do in life Success looks different for everyone. Must-read book: Gaia Codex by Sarah Drew Connect with Hanna: Website Facebook Instagram Book your session HERE (use coupon code MADDY) [Tweet "Want to awaken the Inner Priestess within you? Listen to Hanna Bier's juicy wisdom to find out how!"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we’ll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure, painting murals, planting gardens, teaching English, and playing games with the students. I N T E G R A T I O N Then, we will head to the jungles of Tepoztlan, Mexico: known as the birthplace of the ancient Mayan God Quetzalcoatl. Here we’ll take two days to reflect and reconnect, with a carefully-crafted agenda of meditation and yoga, Mayan Sweat Lodge ceremonies led by a local Shaman,Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/28/2017 • 59 minutes, 7 seconds
Busy and Burnt Out: How to Rest in the Hustle Bustle
Episode 158: It's summertime, so that means we're in the midst of high-energy! The kids are out of school, there are projects to be done, BBQs to be had, camping to be experienced and much more. Generally, around this time of year, I get really overwhelmed with the hustle bustle going on around me. It's exciting, of course, but at times it can also be emotionally draining. With coaching, friends, retreats, podcasting, reading, dating and being a dog mom, there are tons of things that need to be done before the end of any given day. I can't even imagine what it must be like for those of you who have kids! So in this podcast, I want to teach you some ways to slow down and take care of yourself, even when you feel like you can't. Trust me, you can. Let's make it happen. Show notes: Want to have a taste of the Hot Cacao Mushroom mix and the Viking mix that I just can’t have enough of? Go to foursigmatic.com and use the code “maddy” to get 10% off your purchase. Come to Mexico City with me August 3 – 8 to refurbish a primary school, workshop and play in the jungle! Put down your deposit HERE. (watch THIS video for more!) I just went to Minneapolis to give a high school graduation speech (you can watch it here if you want!) An example of one of my previous clients who had tons of masculine energy as a lawyer and how she found her own rest and recovery in the hustle bustle The importance of handing over work to take off the amount on your plate Why there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you if you need periods of rest from your work (y'all, I usually take an entire SEASON off!) Why we as humans are not build for working massive amounts of hours a week + also doing everything else in our lives Another story of one of my friends who is also struggling to recover from burn out because she is over-working and under-charging How some religions might influence you to believe that charging money for your services is not as good as doing things for free Why it's actually selfish to not rest and recover because then, you're not showing up as your full self to those who DO matter in your life A third example of another one of my clients who was becoming burnt out because she was completely ignoring her nurturing, intuitive feminine self Why you should be taking as MUCH off your plate as possible, whether it's activities that drain you or beliefs that are subconsciously sabotaging you 10 things you needs to remember when it comes to resting in the hustle bustle: Understand rest is not indulgent Believe your highest value is when you are highly taken care of It’s selfish to deprive others from your fully rested self Do one thing really well instead of a ton of things just okay Outsource (cleaning house, a babysitter twice a week, grocery shopping service) Nap! Wake up earlier for “me time” Do things you enjoy more Do random acts of kindness Say no more! People will understand Connect with Maddy: Facebook Twitter Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching [Tweet "Feeling a little stressed out with the hustle bustle of life? Get 10 tips for slowing down here!"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we’ll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure, painting murals, planting gardens, teaching English, and playing games with the students. I N T E G R A T I O N Then, we will head to the jungles of Tepoztlan, Mexico: known as birthplace of the ancient Mayan God Quetzalcoatl. Here we’ll take two days to reflect and reconnect,Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/21/2017 • 32 minutes, 13 seconds
Christian Sinclair: Spiritual Bullying, Conscious Dating and Discovering Your Spiritual Archetype
Episode 157: Christian Sinclair is a spiritual author and teacher who has worked with hundreds of clients, assisting them in creating dynamic shifts in their consciousness, lives, health, relationships, and careers. With a brazen honesty and commitment to the deepest Truth, she has developed a modern voice with an ancient foundation that allows for profound insights and results to transpire. Christian has spent her life in the spiritual field surrounded by New Thought leaders and Spiritual New York Times Bestsellers such as: Dan Millman, Doreen Virtue, Jimmy Twyman, Gregg Braden, Don Miguel Ruiz, Donna Eden, Mary Morrissey, and Dee Wallace, as well as many others. Christian's work has been featured in: The Huffington Post, YFS, Revamped Magazine and Elite Daily. She is the author of ultimate manifestation and abundance book, The Sacred Laws of Prosperity and Providence, and is the creator of the life changing Spiritual Archetype guidebooks. Show notes: Want to have a taste of the Four Sigmatic, the mushroom drink mix that I just can’t have enough of? Go to foursigmatic.com and use the code “maddy” to get 10% off your purchase. Come to Mexico City with me August 3 - 8 to refurbish a primary school, workshop and play in the jungle! Put down your deposit HERE. (watch THIS video for more!) Christian created a Spiritual Archetype quiz that totally blew my mind with its accuracy. Find out your own archetype HERE. She was given a beautiful opportunity to see what really works for her in spirituality and what doesn't because her mother ran one of the biggest spiritual conferences and her father was a Course in Miracles teacher. The root of her business is helping people find the core of their problems and working on that, instead of simply "unblocking" limiting beliefs and others blocks Example: One thing she sees a lot of is people who think their entire life is in shambles because of their chakras being unaligned, and it's always so much deeper than that! If you think God hates you, no amount of "chakra alignment" is going to help you change your life Christian grew up around very strict Catholics so she does relate to feeling inferior, and even held the belief that God didn't love her for who she really was God created you exactly how you are, from your head to your belly to your heart. You are NOT an accident! Spiritual bullying: when somebody attacks a person or group in the name of being a "light-worker" If your "spirituality" is messing up your life, it's actually ego. Example: If you're a mean person and people say you're mean because you're just really religious- well, that doesn't make it okay! Finding out how much of your personality you want to portray in your business and how much you want to stick to doing God's work. How Christian started to take responsibility for attracting the type of partner she DID NOT want (and ended up not dating for 4 years in her 20s) How she met her husband accidentally and ended up getting married 3 weeks later (you're going to love this story) Some insight into her Spiritual Archetypes quiz and what that creation process looked like Must-read book: Lessons in Truth Connect with Christian: Website Facebook Twitter Instagram [Tweet "Learn all about spiritual bullying, conscious dating and archetype quizzes in today's #MBMPodcast "] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we’ll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure, painting murals, planting gardens, teaching English, and playing games with the students.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/14/2017 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 53 seconds
10 Tips for “Mastering” Your Intuitive Eating Journey
EPISODE 156: You may have noticed that in the past year, I haven't discussed intuitive eating or body image - the premise of this show for about two and a half years. That's because I made a conscious decision in mid-2016 to talk more about spirituality, mindset, abundance, fears, love, relationships and other things which I realized were underlying factors of most food and body issues. When our relationships are spinning out of control, we try to gain back control through our food choices. When we're in the middle of making a big decision and we're afraid of making the wrong one, we turn to our food and our body all over again to gain some sort of control. Once you start to get a better grasp of a sense of control when you can and surrender control when you cannot control things, the body image becomes more apparent to your life. Today, I'm going to share with you a chapter of the book I've worked on for two months. The title of the book is The Weight of Intuitive Eating (as of right now) and it contains TONSSSS of tips and principles that I collected through my personal intuitive eating journey. I hope you enjoy this episode- please do let me know your thoughts by commenting below! Show notes: Want to have a taste of the Hot Cacao Mushroom mix and the Viking mix that I just can't have enough of? Go to foursigmatic.com and use the code "maddy" to get 10% off your purchase. If you're tired from hustling and want to regain freedom and control over your life, listen to my podcast with Taylor Conroy. Intuitive Eating is the nutrition philosophy where one learns to make food choices based on their body's natural signals. Learn more about the definition of intuitive eating in the book Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Program that Works (Evelyn Tribole, Elyse Resch) Eating lunch at Whole Foods, I broke down as I stressed to my mom how guilty I felt over eating "too much" and consuming "too many" calories in just one meal. I was letting an uneducated comparison ruin a perfectly decent and beautiful meal. I had no information about the people sitting around me but I was obsessively comparing the meal I just ate to what they were eating. Food is just food. It's not life, not our identity! Do not compare your intuitive journey to others. The more you get away from technology during this process the better! Intuitive eating isn't a flawless process. There are at least 100 other examples from where that came from. Principle #1: Neutralize All Food. When you neutralize your food, you will no longer begin to see food as good or bad. Principle #2: Separate Morality From Food Choices. Our society is setting us up to think that our character relies on our dietary habits because of all the recent media focused on food morality. Principle #3: Let Go Of Intentions/Expectations. Instead of expecting to compensate for food by doing a workout or eating extra light, let go of these assumptions or intentions. Principle #4: Ask Yourself "What Sounds Good To Eat?" Intuition is based on a feeling, a desire, a sensation, a gut instinct. Your body knows way more than you think it does, and in order to learn from it, you must ask. The simple act of asking yourself what you want shows a great deal of respect for your intuition. Principle #5: Ask Yourself "How Do I Want To Feel After This Meal?" Don't ask yourself what is this going to do to me but instead ask what is this going to do for me? Principle #6: Accept Imperfections. One part of intuitive eating is listening to your hunger and fullness cues. Gain what you can from each eating experience but don't dwell on it. Principle #7: Eat When You're NOT Hungry. Chances are, you're going to be in a situation where you are offered something you want but you're not hungry. Don't stress about it and just eat what you want. Life happens so eat when you're not hungry but be mindful ...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
6/7/2017 • 45 minutes, 36 seconds
Virginia Rosenberg: Uncovering Secrets Behind Your Birth, Debunking Misconceptions about Intuitive Astrology and Harnessing Your Inner Healing Powers
Episode 155: Virginia Rosenberg is an Intuitive Astrologer and Sacred Movement Artist whose work spans the globe. Extensive inner and outer travels inform her perspective. Virginia’s main interest is natural healing of self and society. Her formal educational background is in post-colonial and women/gender studies. A lifelong devotee of movement alchemies: dance, yoga, and Taoist internal martial arts, she teaches workshops and retreats for healing, self-remembrance, and community connection. Visit her website and read monthly astrological forecasts at www.VirginiaRosenberg.com. Show notes: Claim your free 10-day customizable meal plan from PlateJoy. Don’t forget to use the code MADDY to get a $10 discount on your membership fee HERE. Even as a child, Virginia Rosenberg was already writing poems about the sky, researching eastern philosophy and different moods of thought. Virginia’s background as a dancer also cultivated her passion for self-expression. She considers what she is today to be a combination of her unique background in embodiment and astrology. A lot of us are interfacing with this Masculine Society - to be involved in a lot of work, a lot of projects. Virginia refers to this as the perfectionist lens. When your physical health is affected by your masculine setup, that’s when you need to cultivate the feminine and the intuition in order to come to a balance. Qigong is a simple term for energy work. Qi stands for life force energy and Gong means energy cultivation - a result of consistent effort. There are different types of energy within and without us that makes us feel alive! If you take the time to be still, be meditative and be present of the energy around you, it becomes food for the soul. The energy you intake creates a healing power that replenishes you from physical, emotional, mental and spiritual emptiness. Qigong is like slow movements linking your body, mind and breath awareness to the present moment. Virginia recalls calling her teacher into her life instead of the other way around. She had thought and prayed about it so she attracted the practice and the energy into her life. It’s not about the intention. It’s about your openness and that intuitive pull! Intuitive Astrology is a language, an art, and a symbolic science. It’s basically a perceptive lens in which we are able to experience ourselves and experience the world. Some of the biggest misconceptions in Astrology: Sun sign Astrology - What you see in the newspaper is like solving a problem with just one piece of the equation. When Virginia reads your birth chart, she looks at a map of the whole sky in relationship to exactly where you were on earth at the exact moment of your birth. Identical Twins Misconception - Even twins or people of the same birthday can be different. The chart is like a structure for a soul light and the soul light is unique. A rising sign is the zodiac constellation that was on the horizon line at the moment of your birth. Understanding intuitive astrology as a language and using this tool to help us know ourselves better will help us become more fulfilled individuals. Once you get a grasp on why things are happening a certain way, you will be able to deal with situations in a calm, peaceful and rational approach. Connect with Virginia: Website Facebook Instagram [Tweet "Do you have any idea how to read your birth chart? Dive into intuitive astrology on the #MBMPodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we’ll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure,Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/31/2017 • 59 minutes, 45 seconds
Taylor Conroy: Exchanging Seriousness for Fun, Upleveling from Bankruptcy and Making an Impact in Mexico City
Episode 154: Taylor Conroy is a meditating surfer obsessed with building businesses that make change. His first social enterprise, ‘Change Heroes’, mobilized 15,000 people from 80 countries around the world to fund hundreds of schools, water projects, libraries, girls scholarships, and more for 200,000 people and raised nearly 4 million dollars. He founded a social enterprise that has taught hundreds of children to be social entrepreneurs, a speakers bureau that solely represents speakers making change, and recently co-founded an impact travel company called ‘Journey333’ with the goal of transforming the world’s largest industry (travel) into a vehicle for sustainable impact and personal transformation. Taylor has lectured at Harvard, Princeton, NYU, Cornell, and the United Nations. He regularly presents for corporate clients like Disney, Pfizer, and Lululemon, at social good events with over 10,000 people, and at private dinners and galas. Taylor has studied with Zen monks in Japan, run with the bulls in Spain, explored every continent on earth including Antarctica, surfed the longest wave in the world in Peru, and filmed mini documentaries in Nicaragua, Cambodia, Kenya, and Uganda. He is currently writing his first book, titled ‘333’. Show notes: Get 10 days of meal plans for free from PlateJoy! Enter code MADDY to save $10 on your membership. Bodybuilding served as a wake-up call for Taylor as he put on his sparkly blue suit, searching for happiness in the wrong places Taylor's story of going from being a millionaire as a real estate agent to owning a multi-million dollar company, all to realize he was burnt out and unhappy Letting go of thinking that life needs to be serious all the time, and instead adopting a mindset of play and child-like wonder Even if you have tough experiences, those moments are valuable teachers- they give you feedback about who you are, what you like and what works for you How bankruptcy provided Taylor the biggest "uplevel" in life he could have asked for How would you define who you are as a person? It's best to let go of the labels, and allow yourself the freedom to be whoever it is you are on a moment to moment basis. The importance of setting boundaries between your work and personal life How inauthenticity in online businesses is getting icky and exhausting- you don't have to TRICK people into liking you! Advice for early 20-year-olds about finding out quickly what it is you love: Maddy's advice: Strip yourself from the limiting beliefs that have been passed onto your from your parents and childhood Taylor: Do things full out and don't take too long in making decisions (plus the best quote from The Alchemist) Living life to the fullest and not getting too attached to the idea of death, while still having a healthy understanding of your mortality What can you expect at the Journey to Mexico City? We'll share all about it! Connect with Taylor: Join our Journey to Mexico City HERE! TED Talk "How to Build a School in 3 Hours" Change Heroes Website Instagram [Tweet "Feeling burnt out in your job? Maybe it's time for more PLAY and fun in your life! #MBMPodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we'll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure, painting murals, planting gardens, teaching English, and playing games with the students. I N T E G R A T I O N Then, we will head to the jungles of Tepoztlan, Mexico: known as birthplace of the ancient Mayan God Quetzalcoatl. Here we'll take two days to reflect and reconnect,Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/24/2017 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 14 seconds
Thais Sky: Healing the Worthiness Wound, Unhooking from the Male Gaze and Redefining Leadership
Episode 153: Meet Thais Sky: Two parts sass, one part straight up truth talk. Thais is a motivational speaker, author, global women’s life coach, and the co-creator of The Amplify Collective, a community changing the way women connect, and the co-host of the Be Amplified podcast. A former anxiety prone, binge eating, atheist turned badass spiritual teacher, Thais supports women to step into their worth so they can rise up, own their spotlight and be unf*ckwithable. She received a prestigious first-class degree in Management and has studied spiritual psychology, yoga, and leadership for over 10 years. Washingtonian Magazine named her as one of the top “8 bloggers to know.” The Huffington Post calls her “an inspirational woman” and she was nominated for Forbes Magazine 30 under 30 award. You can find her at IamThaisSky.com and just about everywhere on social media, because #millennial at @IamThaisSky. Show notes: Get 10 days of meal plans for free from PlateJoy! Enter code MADDY to save $10 on your membership. Join me as I lead an incredible journey in Costa Rica in August! Let's refurbish a kindergarten, go surfing, do yoga and more! Click HERE to know more How much resistance we are to changing because of fear of what other people might think The process of finding our own flow, our own way of doing things and our own way of showing up that is different from the rest How the media perpetuates the idea that women's sole role is to appear through the eyes of men Reclaiming the feminine energy as a new way to step into leadership How to lean more into our feminine energy when we are in the state of retracting Recalibrating the sense of balance between the masculine and the feminine energy How to let go of what's not working for you even if the rest of the world is saying it's the best way to do it The difference between fear and scarcity marketing to love and abundance marketing Click HERE to know more about the Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand How to dismantle underlying assumptions How to heal the worthiness wound by tapping more into our femininity Must-read book: The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho Connect with Thais: Website Facebook Twitter Instagram [Tweet "Learn how you can preserve value in your business in today's episode with @IamThaisSky"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we'll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure, painting murals, planting gardens, teaching English, and playing games with the students. I N T E G R A T I O N Then, we will head to the jungles of Tepoztlan, Mexico: known as birthplace of the ancient Mayan God Quetzalcoatl. Here we'll take two days to reflect and reconnect, with a carefully-crafted agenda of meditation and yoga, Mayan Sweat Lodge ceremonies led by a local Shaman, chakra therapy pools and a walking labyrinth meditation, hikes into the hills and healthy meals shared onsite. I will be joining the trip as a facilitator, where I will be leading workshops on manifestation, making a difference in the world, playing bigger and so much more. B O O K N O W HERE!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/17/2017 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 30 seconds
Anxiety & Overthinking: Let Go With the Aid of Self-Compassion and Spirituality
Episode 152: Chances are, at some point or another you have experience anxiety, obsessiveness, overthinking and/or perfectionism. A theme in my life the past couple weeks in both my personal life and my coaching practice has been the theme of anxiety and overthinking. How do you stop? How do you give your mind a second to rest? What does it take to "stop" anxiety? I know for certain what won't work, and that's getting anxious about the anxiety. That only promotes more anxiety about the feeling of anxiety and so on (helloooo snowball effect). Before you know it, you're feeling full of shame and guilt for having anxiety and not being "fixed" enough. In today's podcast episode I'm going to get very truthful about how to heal your anxiety and overthinking tendency through the power of self-compassion and trust in spirituality. I'm going to share a bit about how I too have experienced pain this year by being vulnerable, and how I've been healing my heart through the process without overthinking any of it. Show notes: Get 10 days of meal plans for free from PlateJoy! Enter code MADDY to save $10 on your membership. Join me with my journey in Costa Rica! Let's refurbish a kindergarten and explore the country together! Click THIS link to know more! What anxiety feels like and why it's such a struggle to be vulnerable If you are always anxious and you overthink almost EVERY situation, do these: Accept yourself for who you are - acknowledge your anxiety, overthinking and/or depression Feel your feelings and be honest about them Must-read book: Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown How God intentionally made you who you are and the way you are How we are not in control of everything and why it's okay to let go and let God Looking at relationships as teachers Don't blame openness and vulnerability for any of the pain you experience Valuing yourself and putting an end to thinking something is wrong with you What my past relationships have taught me: Sex shame; it may take time to heal it, but the less thinking and more feeling you do the better! The beauty of having a partner who is both "in" his Masculine and his Feminine How to be more vulnerable, open and spoken from the beginning When you do an old behavior again (example: binge eating when you thought you were recovered), don't water-down all the beautiful progress you've made. Don't say "Oh I must not be recovered." You are! You're in a new chapter in life and happened to do an old behavior. It says nothing about you and your progress. The difference between learning and shaming Connect with Maddy: Facebook Twitter Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching [Tweet "Learn to let go of anxiety and overthinking by listening to today's episode of the #MBMPodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to join me in August for a LIFE-CHANGING trip to Mexico City? I M P A C T Join me, this August 3-8 2017 as I lead a group of men and women on a 6-day experience in impact work, reflection, and cultural immersion. First, we'll spend two days revitalizing a primary school by repairing damaged infrastructure, painting murals, planting gardens, teaching English, and playing games with the students. I N T E G R A T I O N Then, we will head to the jungles of Tepoztlan, Mexico: known as birthplace of the ancient Mayan God Quetzalcoatl. Here we'll take two days to reflect and reconnect, with a carefully-crafted agenda of meditation and yoga, Mayan Sweat Lodge ceremonies led by a local Shaman, chakra therapy pools and a walking labyrinth meditation, hikes into the hills and healthy meals shared onsite. I will be joining the trip as a facilitator, where I will be leading workshops on manifestation, making a difference in the world,Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/10/2017 • 42 minutes, 36 seconds
Davida Kugelmass: Creating Happiness Where You Are Now, Leading By Example and Keeping Your Integrity
Episode 151: Davida Kugelmass is the creator behind The Healthy Maven, a health and wellness website, YouTube channel and podcast dedicated to making healthy living easy and sustainable. Davida’s content is diverse, ranging from recipes, to travel, to fitness with a focus on how to live healthfully, rather than living for your health. When Davida isn’t in the kitchen, she is travelling, hiking with her puppy or going to endless lengths for the perfect cup of coffee. Show notes: Get 10 days of meal plans for free from PlateJoy! Enter code MADDY to save $10 on your membership. How Davida developed her identity as the "fit girl" and it eventually limited her Listen to THIS previous episode I did with Mansal Denton on How Going to Prison Made Me a Better Person How to work smarter and not harder to avoid the "hustle culture" Creating content out of fear can separate you from your business's mission Detaching yourself from what others may think about you How clinging on to too much discipline and structure can be dangerous Building a huge empire (business) coming from a place of passion and purpose How to maintain the integrity in your business and life Resonating with your audience by leading as an example Being happy with where you are right now Read more about Astrology with Susan Miller and Virginia Rosenberg Listen to THIS episode of Davida's podcast, That's So Maven, when she had me as a guest on her show Connect with Davida: Website Facebook Twitter Instagram [Tweet "Do you have integrity in your bizz? @TheHealthyMaven talks about what this looks like for her!"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to finally step into your FEMININE energy and learn how to trust, surrender and let go? Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to be “that girl” who has confidence RADIATING out of her everywhere she goes? Do you have a specific desire or goal that you so BADLY want to see come to fruition? Do you crave to wake up every morning knowing you’re not going to obsess over having the perfect body? The Confidence Revival is an intimate, all-inclusive gathering for a handful of women at a world-renown venue. Book now HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
5/3/2017 • 59 minutes, 52 seconds
Attached: Finding Love With Your Adult Attachment Style
Episode 150: One of the biggest epiphanies I've had in the dating world recently is that many of us have different attachment styles. Sometimes the reason why it doesn't work out with another person is both on a biological and an emotional level. We are made differently and we have different needs. If you've often felt "needy" in relationships, you need to hear this. If you've often felt distant in relationships, you need to hear this. If you've fallen prey to believing that you must avoid, at all costs, becoming "attached" or "dependent" on your partner, then you need to hear this. A misconception going around right now in the self-help world is that the only right way to be in a relationship is when it involves two self-sufficient, independent people coming together in mutual respect. It's said that you must never rely on another person to fill your needs, and you must become whatever it is that you would want from a partner. If you've found yourself believing this, I think you're going to enjoy a realistic breath of fresh air. On a biological stand-point, this belief is unrealistic because it is impossible. Dependency in a relationship is not optional. Enjoy listening in, and feel free to leave a comment below if you have any questions or insight! Show notes: Join the Plum Deluxe by May 1st + get a free bag of Self Care Tea in your first packet. Just put the words “Maddy Moon Insider” in the “how did you hear about us” box” when you signup, and your bonus will be added when your recurring subscription is processed. Get the book Attached HERE The different attachment styles Secure Anxious Avoidance How happiness comes from within and not from your partner, but your relationship with your partner certainly contributes to that level of happiness Listen to THIS previous episode I had with David Finch to learn more about finding happiness outside of just your relations Why dependency in a relationship isn't a bad thing (it gets a bad rep in the self-help world, and that just ain't right!) An in-depth review of what activates each attachment style Why "no roller coaster, no passion" isn't true- passion in a relationship comes from nourishing, loving security Compatibility of the different attachment styles (anxious with avoidant, secure with anxious, etc) Why there are many "avoidants" in the dating pool MANY people out there can make you happy- not just one person How to undo activated/deactivated attachment styles through effective communication Read THIS blog post on 10 Things to Do If You're Going Through a Breakup Connect with Maddy: Facebook Twitter Instagram Mind Body Musings Podcast Coaching [Tweet "Which adult attachment style are you? Find out on today's episode of the #MBMPodcast"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
4/26/2017 • 40 minutes, 24 seconds
David Finch: Changing Narratives Around Asperger Syndrome and Pursuing Self-Discovery in Serious Relationships
Episode 149: Dave Finch is a nationally sought-after speaker and mentor with Asperger syndrome, and he’s the author of the New York Times best-selling memoir, The Journal of Best Practices: A Memoir of Marriage, Asperger Syndrome, and One Man’s Quest to Be a Better Husband. As a speaker, Dave has shared the stage with Temple Grandin, John Elder Robison, Steve Silberman, and others. He has written for the New York Times, NBC Universal, Zoom Autism, Slate, and Huffington Post, and he writes a relationship blog for Psychology Today. He has appeared on ABC, NBC, CBS, CNN, and NPR’s All Things Considered and This American Life, and has been featured in O The Oprah Magazine, People, ELLE, Marie Claire, Scientific American, and even The Howard Stern Show. Dave is also the co-founder of the Denver-based Front Range Center for Neurodiversity, a revolutionary global center dedicated to transforming the world’s narrative around autism. When he’s not writing, speaking, or mountain biking, Dave works as a creative marketing and business development consultant for small businesses and Fortune 500 companies. But to his wife, he is just the bastard on the couch. Show notes: Rejuvenate your soul, join me and a handful of women to the Confidence Revival retreat. Book your spot HERE Checkout Plum Deluxe's organic tea by heading over to their website HERE. Join the monthly subscription or purchase before May 1st and you can get a free bag of self-care tea by putting in "Maddy Moon Insider" in the “how did you hear about us” box” when you signup, and your bonus will be added when your recurring subscription is processed! A mother who eventually lost herself from prioritizing the family all the time A husband may be unaware of what his wife is going through Why you need to be a little selfish in order to take care of the family better How David's wife encourages him to give time for himself Taking turns for a period of self-discovery Why most of us are terrified in wanting our partner to be happy from something that isn't us How a person with Asperger's has difficulty in taking the perspective of other people without being prompted to do so Why being manipulative puts your partner in a cage There are lots of people out there who can be your biggest fan Having a sense of personal responsibility in a relationship Empowering yourself Taking responsibility can instantly change your relationship Discussing autism and Asperger syndrome Many people feel like autism needs to be treated or fixed- why this is the wrong way to go about it Looking at autism as a scenario and not as a disability Collectively changing the narrative around autism Why most people feel guilty and shameful when they start to do what they love Must-read book: The Journal of Best Practices by David Finch Uniquely Human by Barry Prizant Connect with David: Website Facebook Twitter Instagram Buy his book HERE [Tweet "Listen as author David Flinch shares how we can change the narrative around #Autism and #Aspergers"] {COACHING} Ready to break limiting beliefs + Take your self-worth to the next level? Apply for my 1:1 coaching HERE. {RETREAT} Want to finally step into your FEMININE energy and learn how to trust, surrender and let go? Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to be “that girl” who has confidence RADIATING out of her everywhere she goes? Do you have a specific desire or goal that you so BADLY want to see come to fruition? Do you crave to wake up every morning knowing you’re not going to obsess over having the perfect body? The Confidence Revival is an intimate, all-inclusive gathering for a handful of women at a world-renown venue. Book now HERE.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy