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Love Strategies: Dating and Relationship Advice for Successful Women

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Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski. For more, visit
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6 Psychological Biases That Are Keeping You Single

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your chances at love? Listen to our latest podcast as we uncover the hidden psychological biases that might be keeping you single.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year:
10/12/202343 minutes 24 seconds
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He's Pulling Away Because of "Bad Logistics"?

This week, we're thrilled to introduce a FRESH new podcast format! Dr. Gary and I will be diving into YOUR burning love questions.  Have you ever wondered why men sometimes pull away after a first date? Interested in learning how to maintain your feminine energy even when he's not feeling well? If so, you'll enjoy today's episode.Do you want to ask us a question for a future episode? go to STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year:
02/12/202350 minutes 44 seconds
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6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Massively Attractive

Are you ready to dive into the minds of men and discover what truly captures our attention? If so, check out today's podcast: 6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Massively Attractive.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year:
26/11/202329 minutes 9 seconds
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Why Your Relationships Only Last 3 Months: The Friendship Phenomenon

This podcast isn't just another "what's wrong with them" rant. Instead, we offer a fresh perspective that encourages personal growth and proactive strategies for fostering lasting relationships.Get ready to discover:Why the dating phase is crucial for long-term happiness.The power of pacing—why rushing can ruin potential.Strategies for building a resilient connection that endures the ups and downs.So, before you blame fate or your last date, take a moment to listen to today's podcast. It might be the breakthrough you need to navigate the dating world with renewed confidence and strategic savvy.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year:
19/11/202345 minutes 8 seconds
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Sick of Guys Ghosting? Here are 3 Reasons Why It Keeps Happening

Have you ever wondered why that seemingly perfect date ended with radio silence?You're not alone.So, in today's podcast, we're diving deep into three reasons why men ghost.Remember, knowledge is power. Equip yourself with the insights you need to navigate the dating maze with confidence.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year:
05/11/202340 minutes 35 seconds
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7 Things Affluent Men Deeply Desire in a Woman

Are you curious to discover the hidden desires of affluent men? Today's podcast unveils the 7 things affluent men deeply desire in a woman.It's not just about the basics – these affluent men have unique preferences that go beyond the ordinary.Get ready to explore the intricacies of what sets them apart in dating and relationships.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year:
24/10/202328 minutes 11 seconds
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The Attraction Myth That's Ruining Your Relationships

Have you ever wondered why some relationships seem like a match made in heaven while others crash and burn?In our newest podcast episode, we're diving deep into "The Attraction Myth That's Ruining Your Relationships."Join us as we debunk the age-old belief that opposites attract and uncover the real truth behind what makes a connection sizzle or fizzle
19/10/202331 minutes 2 seconds
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10 Relationship Truths Every Woman NEEDS to Hear

In today’s podcast, Dr. Gary Lewandowski opens up with a personal letter to his daughter, who’s now starting to date. Although she’s quite a bit younger than our audience, these are fundamental principles that will lead any woman to relationship success.This one gets a little personal, but you’ll enjoy it.
15/10/202332 minutes 52 seconds
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4 Traits Linked to Career Success but Relationship Heartbreak

Ever felt like the very traits fueling your career are the ones putting the brakes on your love life? You’re not alone!In today’s podcast, we discuss the paradox of how the ladder to professional heights can sometimes lead to personal lows in a relationship.
07/10/202337 minutes 4 seconds
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#1 Way to Make a Guy Like You INSTANTLY

Tired of those awkward first date silences? We've got the ultimate trick that promises to make any conversation sizzle. Uncover the simple yet powerful art of mirroring in today’s brand new podcast.
30/09/202330 minutes 29 seconds
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Title: Are You Sabotaging Your Search for Love? 3 Things that Secretly Hold You Back

In the quest for love, we often have a mental checklist of qualities we desire in a partner. However, could it be that these very qualities are hindering our chances of finding true and lasting love? Let's delve into the three secret qualities many women seek in a partner that might be sabotaging their love lives – and discover how to break free from these patterns.
23/09/202334 minutes 18 seconds
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How to Believe in Love Again: The Surprisingly Simple Strategy

In this podcast, Dr. Lewandowski and I will share the game-changer: the "3 P's" - Potential, Process, and Progress. These concepts can make dating clearer and brighter for you.And here's a tip: the word "YET." This tiny word can change how you view everything, emphasizing growth and change.So, don't give up on love just yet. Join us as we delve into this easy but powerful approach. Remember, you're still learning and growing, and that's truly wonderful!
13/09/202335 minutes 5 seconds
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13 Dating Rules that Simplify Your Love Life

In the complex world of dating and relationships, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lost at times. That's why we've compiled a list of 13 dating rules that can simplify your love life and help you navigate the often confusing waters of dating and relationships. Whether you're new to dating or a seasoned pro, these rules offer valuable insights and strategies to improve your dating experience.In our latest podcast, Dr. Lewandowski and I reveal the 13 most effective strategic/mindset dating rules all in one place. Yes, this is a big one. Tune in to benefit from the most impactful approaches to the most common challenges that decades of coaching and scientific research have found.Don't let the complexities hold you back any longer. Use these guidelines to empower yourself in finding the right lifelong partner, all while enjoying the journey to get there.
10/09/202343 minutes 45 seconds
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5 Biggest Mistakes Successful Women Make When Looking for Love

Are you a successful woman who's achieved greatness in all areas of your life but still finds it challenging to attract a meaningful romantic connection? If so, today's podcast is for you...In today's conversation, our Love Coach, Maureen, and I bring awareness to these common mistakes and discuss the proactive steps to overcome them. Embracing openness and patience with a supportive social circle can lead to a more enjoyable romantic journey and pave the way for a deep and lasting connection with the right partner.
03/09/202329 minutes 48 seconds
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The #1 Way to Find the “Perfect Man”

Dr. Lewandowski and I dissect the often-overlooked aspect of dating that might be holding you back from discovering genuine, lasting love. We'll introduce you to two real-life clients, Nancy and Sydney, and their experiences in the world of modern dating. Nancy is dating lots of men, while Sydney can't find any guys. While most would think they have two completely separate issues, they both have the same problem.We'll guide you through two essential strategic components: Mindset and Actionable steps. Join us as we explore the concept of Self-Concept Clarity, dismantle the barriers that might be holding you back, and unveil the truth that your journey toward true love needs to begin within.
27/08/202339 minutes 10 seconds
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How to Turn On a Guy INSTANTLY (with Your Eyes)

In a digital age dominated by screens, genuine eye contact has become a rarity. But did you know that it holds the key to enhancing memory, emotional closeness, and immediate attraction? Dr. Lewandowski and I explore the science behind eye contact and offer practical insights to help you master this timeless art.Discover the 50/70 Rule that perfects eye contact balance and empowers you to engage meaningfully. Learn how to cultivate "soft eyes" to convey curiosity and warmth, making your interactions truly unforgettable. Plus, break free from distractions that hinder genuine connections and set the stage for deeper, more impactful conversations.
24/08/202326 minutes 31 seconds
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Are Men Really Turned Off By Successful Women? The Harsh Truth

Have you ever found yourself wondering why your professional success doesn't seem to translate into success in your relationships? It's a confusing and frustrating scenario, leaving you questioning why you seem to excel in one area of life while feeling lost in the other. The truth might not be as simple as it seems, and it's time to unpack the factors that could be at play.
19/08/202344 minutes 37 seconds
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#1 Strategy to Attract More Authentic Men (Hint: It's NOT What You Think)

Dr. Lewandowski and Adam uncover the importance of authenticity and how being provocative can lead you to the right match. Learn why your quirks are actually your advantage in the dating world and how embracing your uniqueness is your ultimate superpower. Get ready to change your dating game and waste less time as you find the love you deserve.
13/08/202330 minutes 52 seconds
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Are You Emotionally Unavailable? 2 Subconscious Signs You're Pushing Men Away

In today's video, Dr. Lewandowski and I dive into the signs that you may be unknowingly self-sabotaging. Learn to identify and clear the emotional clutter that consumes your limited emotional bandwidth. Understand the concept of relationship opportunity cost to win back your emotional availability and pave a clear path towards that fulfilling long-term relationship.
09/08/202323 minutes 6 seconds
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How to Know When a Relationship Is Over (2 Key Lessons)

Love is a beautiful and powerful emotion that can sometimes cloud our judgment. We've all been there, holding onto hope that a struggling relationship will miraculously improve. But what if we told you there are two key relationship lessons that can help you determine if it's time to move on? In this podcast, we're discussing how to know when the relationship is over.
30/07/202321 minutes 39 seconds
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10 Dangerous Relationship Red Flags Most Women Ignore

Today's podcast delves into the overlooked warning signs that could indicate potential problems in your romantic connections. From excessive compliments to controlling behavior and everything in between, we'll guide you through these potential pitfalls that many women tend to ignore.But that's not all! We also introduce you to the intriguing concept of "beige flags," those quirky behaviors that may not be good or bad, but should give you pause and spark further investigation.Don't let these dangerous red flags slip through the cracks and sabotage your happiness. It's time to shed light on these overlooked red flags and make informed choices for your heart's sake.
23/07/202345 minutes 29 seconds
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Is He Relationship Material? 3 Simple Questions to Ask Your Guy

When trying to find the right partner, it can be challenging to determine if someone is truly relationship material. However, three simple questions can provide valuable insights into a person's intentions, emotional availability, and compatibility. Forget about trying to read signs or bombarding them with countless inquiries. Instead, focus on open communication and asking the right questions to make an informed decision. Let's dive into the three subtle questions that can help you assess whether he's the one.
16/07/202330 minutes 29 seconds
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Why 'The Notebook' Sets You Up for Relationship Failure

When it comes to romantic movies, "The Notebook" is often hailed as a classic. It has captivated the hearts of audiences worldwide with its tale of passionate love and undying devotion. However, beneath the surface of this seemingly heartwarming story lies a dangerous set of relationship myths and toxic behaviors. This podcast will explore why "The Notebook" can lead to relationship failure and the importance of approaching romance with a more realistic mindset.
05/07/202345 minutes 46 seconds
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Keep Attracting Narcissists? Here's Why

Are you tired of falling into the same pattern of dating charismatic but toxic partners? The allure of a confident and charming individual can be hard to resist, but it often leads to a rollercoaster ride of power plays and blame games. So, why do some people seem more prone to attracting these time bomb personalities? In this podcast, we'll delve into the reasons behind this pattern and provide a simple strategy to help you avoid this trap.
27/06/202340 minutes 16 seconds
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Where Are All the Good Men?

In this episode, Adam and Dr. Lewandowski discuss the best places to find high-value men. Remember, it's about self-discovery and finding the right person who appreciates you.
23/06/202332 minutes 3 seconds
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He's Pulling Away...Now What?

Relationships can be a rollercoaster ride, with ups and downs that can leave us feeling uncertain and anxious. One common concern that arises is when your partner starts to pull away. In this podcast, we'll explore the various reasons why this might happen and discuss strategies to navigate this challenging situation.
18/06/202333 minutes 55 seconds
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Money Matters for Couples: To Combine or Not to Combine

In this episode, Adam and Dr. Lewandowski address some of the most pressing questions that couples have when it comes to money matters. They start by discussing when it's appropriate to bring up finances when dating, and provide insights into how to approach sensitive topics like debt and income.They also explore how couples can navigate income disparities and manage their finances when one partner makes significantly more than the other. They share practical tips and strategies for how to communicate openly and honestly about money, and discuss the benefits and drawbacks of different financial arrangements.Adam and Dr. Lewandowski also discuss the pros and cons of buying a house together before getting married, and whether couples should combine finances before tying the knot. Whether you're just starting out in a relationship or you've been together for years, this episode offers valuable insights into how to manage money matters as a couple.If
23/05/202336 minutes 35 seconds
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7 Biggest Turnoffs for Men

In this episode of the podcast, hosts Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski dive deep into the 7 biggest turnoffs for men. The problem they address is that many women believe that turnoffs have to do with physical attributes, but the reality is that when a man is in the market for a serious relationship and looking for a high-value partner, turnoffs become emotional.Through their own personal experiences and expert insights, Adam and Gary explore the turnoffs that both men and women can relate to. They start with the idea of trying to control the uncontrollable and how it can be a major turnoff for men when women talk about the future or lean into their masculine side. They also touch on the idea of unearned affection and how it can be off-putting when a woman gives too much before a man has done anything to earn it.Other turnoffs that they discuss include a lack of interest, perceived promiscuity, the double O effect (obvious and ordinary), a negative attitude toward
07/05/202343 minutes 1 second
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If You Invest in Relationships Too Quickly, Here’s 5 Ways to STOP

Have you ever gone on a first date, clicked with someone, and started planning your future together before you even finished dessert? If so, you're not alone. Many women overinvest in a man before seeing if he's worth it. Unfortunately, this can lead to heartbreak and disappointment when things don't work out. However, there are ways to break this cycle and find lasting love.
24/04/20238 minutes 58 seconds
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The Feminine Charm Code: 7 Proven Ways to Be a Magnetic First Date

Are you tired of feeling cursed when it comes to first dates? Does it seem like no matter what you do, you just can't seem to make a connection with someone new? It's a common feeling, but the good news is that there are proven ways to be a charming first date, and have men begging for that second date, and many more.Many people believe that charm is something you either have or don't have, but that's not true. Charm can be learned and developed, just like any other skill. With a little bit of effort and practice, you can become a master of first dates and leave a lasting impression on every person you meet.Here are seven proven ways to be a charming first date:
19/04/20238 minutes 38 seconds
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What Men Find Attractive in a Woman

So what do men REALLY find attractive in a woman? Is it her physical appearance, or are there other more important attributes that matter? In this week's podcast, Gary and Adam discuss what men find attractive in a woman, and it has very little to do with age, hair, or makeup. 
17/01/202342 minutes 46 seconds
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Love Languages: Do they even matter?

In this special episode (only released by podcast), Adam LoDolce and Dr. L discuss the value of Love Languages. Are they based on science, or are they pop dating advice? Ready to learn how to attract love with a strategy, head on over to
15/01/202325 minutes 29 seconds
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Signs You’re Dating a Narcissist

In this video, we will discuss the signs that you may be dating a narcissist. Narcissism is a personality disorder characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance and a lack of empathy for others. If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, you may find that they are charming and charismatic at first, but as time goes on, you may start to notice that they only care about themselves and their own needs. They may be manipulative, make you feel like you are never good enough, and belittle your accomplishments. It is important to recognize the signs of a narcissistic partner and seek help if you are in an unhealthy or abusive relationship. This video will provide valuable information and resources to help you identify and address the signs of narcissistic behavior in your relationship.
11/01/202322 minutes 59 seconds
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11 Lessons I’ve Learned Coaching 44,732 Women on How to Attract Love

I've coached a ton of women (44,732 and counting) and helped them get out there and attract the man and relationship they've always dreamed of. At this point, I've seen and heard it all. Here are some of the memorable lessons I've learned along the way.
08/01/20239 minutes 37 seconds
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New Year, New Love: Simple Relationship Resolutions for 2023

Are you ready to make 2023 your year for love? In this week's podcast, Adam LoDolce and head Relationship Coach at Love Strategies, Dr. Lewandowski, discuss how to prioritize your love this year and create the love life you deserve.
01/01/202334 minutes 22 seconds
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How to Turn a Breakup Into a Positive Experience

If you're facing a breakup or have just recently gone through one, your life starts to feel like it's falling apart. But the research shows that many times, our breakups can be an incredibly positive experience. In today's podcast, Gary and Adam discuss the science of breakups and how to turn a breakup into a positive experience.
28/12/202241 minutes 18 seconds
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4 Strange Ways to Turn a Guy On Emotionally

If a man asks you out and is pursuing you, there's a high chance he is already physically turned on by you. But how do you build that all-important emotional connection?Hint: you don't need to head to the bedroom!Here are some strange (but proven) ways to turn a guy on emotionally.
27/12/202210 minutes 38 seconds
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How to Make a Man Miss You

How do you build desire and make a man miss you? Create scarcity without playing games. In this week's podcast, we discuss (debate) the power of making a man miss you through the dating process. 
18/12/202237 minutes 48 seconds
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4 Psychological Signs He's Falling in Love With You

Have you ever wondered how to know if a guy is falling in love with you?The biggest sign is if he tells you he loves you, but what if he's holding out on those three words as I did?I waited five months before I first said "I love you" to Jessica. It wasn't because I didn't love her sooner; it was because I said it way too fast in my previous relationship, only to break up with that woman a week later (sorry!). So I wanted to wait and make sure my feelings were real this time.The moral of my story?He might love you but not have told you yet. So, here are four signs that he is falling hard.
11/12/20228 minutes 18 seconds
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6 Ways to Be a High-Value Woman Men Desire

Have you ever really liked a guy, but he never appreciated you or saw you in a romantic way?Here are 6 ways to position yourself as a high-value woman that men desire.
03/12/202215 minutes 43 seconds
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Why So Many Celebrities Cheat on Their Wives

Have you ever wondered why there are so many cheating scandals with celebrities? Believe it or not, there's some hidden psychology causing them to be unfaithful and some learning lessons you can use in your own relationship to avoid infidelity.
15/11/202230 minutes 13 seconds
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Are Men and Women Really THAT Different in Relationships?

Are men really from Mars and women from Venus? The research tells us a different story. In this special podcast, Adam and Gary discuss whether or not men and women date differently. 
08/11/202237 minutes 11 seconds
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What a Man is REALLY Telling You if He's Afraid of Commitment

Is he telling you he's "not ready for a relationship" right now? There may be something deeper under the surface. Discover what it means when a man is telling you he's afraid of commitment. 
01/11/202230 minutes 9 seconds
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How Attachment Styles Impact Your Romantic Relationships (Based on Science)

Do you pull away when he leans in? Do you get anxious when you don't hear from him? In this episode, Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski discuss how attachment styles impact romantic relationships. Attachment theory is the foundation of relationship science, and it can have a major impact on how you give and receive love. Want to learn how to transform your love life and attract the man and relationship you deserve? Register for this free workshop:
17/10/202233 minutes 13 seconds
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How to REALLY Know If a Man is Falling in Love With You

So how do you know if a man is falling in love with you? Here's the real deal: it has very little to do with his words and much more about his behavior. In this week's episode, Dr. Lewandowski and Adam LoDolce reveal the true signs that a man is falling in love.Want to learn how to transform your love life and attract the man and relationship you deserve? Register for this free workshop:
17/10/202234 minutes 33 seconds
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Are Men Intimidated by Successful Women? EXPLAINED

Have you ever felt that men were intimidated by your success? Is it that you're attracting the wrong men, or is it that ALL men have insecurities about dating a successful woman? In our first-ever podcast, we discuss the power of leaning into your feminine energy while still being proud of your success. Want to learn how to transform your love life and attract the man and relationship you deserve? Register for this free training:
17/10/202231 minutes 13 seconds
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What Attracts a Man Vs. What Keeps a Man for Life

Does physical attraction really matter for long-term love? In this episode, Dr. Gary Lewandowski and Adam LoDolce discuss the qualities that keep a couple together for a lifelong partnership.Want to learn how to transform your love life and attract the man and relationship you deserve? Register for this free training:
17/10/202238 minutes 49 seconds
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The Love Strategies Podcast (Trailer)

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and improve their relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a new relationship, we’re here to help you dive deep into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else - backed by science, psychology, and personal experiences. Your hosts are Adam LoDolce, a professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship instructor at Love Strategies.
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