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Kill Your Inner Loser

English, Personal health, 1 season, 661 episodes, 6 days, 14 hours, 45 minutes
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Want to have 3somes, learn BDSM, and build an elite sex life? Hell yeah! Join Andy & Imogen on a 365-day-challenge to help you build the best life you possibly can and bring out your inner winner, from someone who was suicidal, obese, and turned it all around. You'll learn killer self-improvement advice, how to get dates, improve your sex life, build strong relationships, start your own business & get into content creation, improve your mental health and explore a little philosophy along the way. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.​
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My Original 4 Clients are Still With Me! (LIFE UPDATE)

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/25/202428 minutes, 5 seconds
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3 Ways BDSM Changed my Sex Life!

Our Tinder Profile + Messaging Guide: https://youtu.be/cgjVA5NPJrkInterview with 19yo OnlyFans Cosplay Girl: https://youtu.be/OIREJIbCBucInterview with Bronwyn (1.5 Years Together): https://youtu.be/3JfkSK0L09o▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/24/202420 minutes, 53 seconds
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THIS is why YOUR LIFE SUCKS

Watch this episode as a video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jr0jS6cg7FAA little more blunt than my usual speaking style; I hope it comes across that I have so much love for all of you . I want you to live the lives you've been wanting to live - but YOU are the one who needs to make it happen. Once-off $200 coaching calls with me (1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls12 WEEK HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM (payment plans available) - https://kyil-extra.com/coachingPlay to Win video course: https://playtowinmindset.comAnd after you've watched the video - go outside and take some action. Take the tiniest, smallest, baby step you possibly can. I really do mean it when I say anything is more than zero. Then post a comment below telling all of us what action you've taken, so we can help you celebrate.  I promise no matter how big or small the action, we WILL give you a massive pat on the back.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/23/202433 minutes, 24 seconds
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"And That's Ok" - a statement to change your life.

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/22/202417 minutes, 51 seconds
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How to Feel More GRATITUDE in Your Life (featuring Immy!)

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/17/202424 minutes, 14 seconds
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Do You Regret the Past & Worry About the Future? (Rumination)

Coaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/15/202410 minutes, 20 seconds
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Self-Love is an Ideal You Work Towards

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/11/202412 minutes, 46 seconds
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The 61yo Farmer Who Didn't Give a Fuck About Limiting Beliefs (Cliff Young)

I Broke All the Rules: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6qjYK4dx4Js▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/10/202413 minutes, 4 seconds
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Play the Numbers Game (Talk to More Women)

Coaching program: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 1-time coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/9/202428 minutes, 9 seconds
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We're Grateful for This Girl

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/8/202434 minutes, 58 seconds
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Your Problems Aren't the Problem

Coaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/7/202421 minutes, 33 seconds
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48 Laws of Power (I Don't Recommend this Book!)

Other books we recommend instead:Extreme Ownership by Jocko WillinkHow I Found Freedom in an Unfree World by Harry Browne▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/6/202444 minutes, 46 seconds
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GO TAKE ACTION RIGHT NOW

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/5/20241 minute, 57 seconds
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You Don't Have to Look Perfect to Have Lots of Sex!

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/4/202410 minutes, 49 seconds
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Elite Social Life: Coaching Made Him a SOCIAL BUTTERFLY!

Watch this episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/R3wkOIWtYmc▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/3/202426 minutes, 35 seconds
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You Don’t Have to be all that Interesting to Get Laid

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/2/202427 minutes, 12 seconds
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Approaching Women - It's Ok to be a Bit Awkward

The original tweet: https://twitter.com/dantethepanda/status/1807795764988698836▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
7/1/202414 minutes, 54 seconds
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He Lost His Virginity & Got a Girlfriend!

Watch the full video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/a6n0JUbEpag▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
6/30/202431 minutes, 20 seconds
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My FOURTH 365 Day Project! [Day 1]

Watch this video on Youtube so you can see the photos/etc I'm referring to: https://youtu.be/kvFMoFQg0Eg▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans are available! Book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
6/29/20249 minutes, 5 seconds
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Getting Girls to Write 'I Am Beautiful' on Their Bodies

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
6/22/202410 minutes, 18 seconds
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What I've Been up to Lately (Life Update)

I'm super grateful to all of you.Coaching program: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
6/20/202437 minutes, 7 seconds
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How to Stop Being NEEDY & be OUTCOME INDEPENDENT. (+ my own past neediness w you guys)

Yeah, I've been very needy with you in a lot of different ways.Timestamps:00:00 Intro01:01 Why you might be needy11:34 How I (Andy) am needy with my audience (you guys!)13:13 I needed you to like me30:07 I needed you to think I'm smart/wise39:02 I needed people to think I'm a kind/good person43:37 I needed people to subscribe/engage with the channel44:22 I needed people to watch my videos45:25 I needed money from you51:40 I needed you to take action & change your life55:19 How to overcome neediness59:14 Taylor being a really chill dude▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
6/5/20241 hour, 5 minutes, 6 seconds
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Is Your Obsession with 'Balance' Ruining Your Happiness

5/29/202428 minutes, 33 seconds
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Are you living your life "correctly"?

5/22/202412 minutes, 49 seconds
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Most People's Opinions are Useless (Including this One)

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
5/15/202450 minutes, 29 seconds
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What to Do if You Have RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS (It's ok to dislike your partner sometimes)

'Happy Wife, Happy Life' Doesn't Resonate with Me. Here's Why: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14489930▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
5/8/202436 minutes, 10 seconds
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I Focus on the INPUT, more than the Output

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
5/1/20248 minutes, 58 seconds
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GIVING VALUE in Dating & Business is LIFECHANGING (For YOU)

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
4/29/202445 minutes, 28 seconds
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You Won't Always Like the Other Person (Sex/Relationships)

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
4/26/202411 minutes, 18 seconds
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You Can Get to My Level in 1/10th the Time!

Aka how to kick my butt when it comes to your goals.The video course I mentioned (Play to Win): https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
4/25/202431 minutes, 34 seconds
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If I Can Do It, You Sure as Hell Can Too.

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
4/23/202413 minutes, 46 seconds
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Why I'm not afraid of Competition

Giving truly is receiving.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
4/21/202425 minutes, 33 seconds
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Doubts are Normal. They're Like an Old Friend.

Doubts have come with me my entire life; and that's a beautiful thing.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
4/17/202415 minutes, 36 seconds
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Giving is receiving

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
4/10/202413 minutes, 9 seconds
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How to be a Great Listener (& Improve Your Empathy)

$200 coaching calls: https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
4/8/202419 minutes, 23 seconds
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Help! I'm obsessed with a girl!

Aka "I've been imagining my entire life with this girl I barely know. What should I do?"▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
4/3/202424 minutes, 59 seconds
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Every stressful thought comes from expectations

Thinking "They/it/I should be different" is the root of all suffering.Books mentioned: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/My video course mentioned: https://playtowinmindset.com/▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
3/27/20247 minutes, 45 seconds
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What happens if you literally say: "I want to have sex with you"

Short answer: Yes. Tune in for HOW you can say it.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
3/20/202416 minutes, 26 seconds
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Are you moving the goalposts? (Self-reflection, mindfulness & gratitude)

Grab the course here (pay whatever you can afford - even if that's literally just $1): https://playtowinmindset.comGratitude has been such a life-changing thing for me. If you'd like to, try out a little gratitude in your own life & see what happens.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
3/13/202414 minutes, 9 seconds
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How to Overcome Procrastination & TAKE ACTION

1. Give yourself permission to suck; &2. Take a BABY STEP towards your goals.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
3/6/202421 minutes, 16 seconds
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Go Outside & Hit on a Woman RIGHT NOW (Motivation)

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
3/4/20241 minute, 22 seconds
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Having, Doing, Being: The 3 Stages of Success

And how to level up your self-improvement game.$200 coaching calls with me: https://kyil-extra.com/callsApproach anxiety program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/approach-anxiety-program/▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/27/202425 minutes, 26 seconds
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How to breakup / end things amicably

The original article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-breakup/▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/25/202416 minutes, 42 seconds
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'Happy Wife, Happy Life' Doesn't Resonate with Me. Here's Why.

Normie sayings often lead to the exact opposite results of what people intend...$200 coaching calls: https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/23/202424 minutes, 42 seconds
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Whenever I fail, I do this:

Here's another free chapter from my video course, "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset".Grab the course here (pay whatever you can afford - even if that's literally just $1):  https://playtowinmindset.comI promise you, even if it feels like life is kicking your ass, you're capable of building your resilience over time, and becoming more stoic. I started out depressed, suicidal, and I'd never even heard of the concept of "stoicism". If I can get to this point, you sure as hell can too.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/21/202420 minutes, 52 seconds
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How I Kiss Girls on Dates

And what my dates generally look like - what I do on most dates.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/18/202418 minutes, 38 seconds
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Questions to ask after sex (Afterglow)

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/16/202424 minutes, 4 seconds
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Abundance mentality vs scarcity mindset (It's not what you think it is)

Abundance mindset isn't necessarily about having ABUNDANCE - it's kinda the opposite.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/14/202417 minutes, 39 seconds
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How to Do MORE Cold Approaches (By Having FUN!)

Approach Anxiety Program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/approach-anxiety-program Bumble BFF Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround Coaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coachingPlay to Win (video course): https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy ($200 - limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/12/202425 minutes, 34 seconds
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Just hang in there. Keep showing up.

In other words, just don't quit.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/11/20242 minutes, 48 seconds
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Depressed? It might be a "lack of..."

My thoughts on depression/hopelessness, & how to start breaking free of it.Depression resources (and how I beat my own depression): https://killyourinnerloser.com/depression▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/8/20249 minutes, 14 seconds
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Short? Worried no woman will give you a chance?

I understand your insecurities... I've had plenty of my own.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/7/202434 minutes, 52 seconds
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Peace does not mean being passive.

When I talk about acceptance in my content, I am NOT talking about "giving up" or "not doing anything to change your circumstance". In fact, acceptance is the FIRST STEP to changing your circumstances and working towards your goals.The video course I mentioned: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/6/20247 minutes, 31 seconds
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Are YOU Helping Others, or Just Taking?

Want to help others in your life (or maybe even start your own content creation) - friends, family, people you're dating, etc - but have no idea how to start?I got you.Coaching - let's build something epic, together: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/4/202443 minutes, 5 seconds
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MY JOURNEY: How I've Levelled Up My Content Over the Years

Coaching - jump on a free call with me:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/apply-for-coaching/▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/3/202422 minutes, 46 seconds
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Immy Got a Killer Job without Formal Qualifications! Here's How.

Aka why you'll never live an elite life if you always do what everybody else tells you to do.I Broke All the Rules & it Made Me a Success (Pt 1): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6qjYK4dx4JsPt 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7KAmFX2YMw Pt 3: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C9twD_UrHFM Coaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
2/1/202433 minutes, 33 seconds
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Stop Doing Dumb Shit!!

How to clean up your life and reduce the activities that are sabotaging your life and holding you back from success.Coaching (payment plans available): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/30/202434 minutes, 26 seconds
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You deserve an amazing sex life.

The question is, are you going to put in the steps required?▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/29/20246 minutes, 3 seconds
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Oneitis: Don't get hung up on 1 particular woman.

Aka, how to be a strong independent man who don't need no woman ;)I Need Your Love: Is That True?  https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#i-need-your-love-is-that-true-by-byron-katieThe Play to Win video course I mentioned: https://playtowinmindset.com/▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/28/202451 minutes, 4 seconds
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A motivational speech for you in your time of need.

You got this; I promise.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/25/20245 minutes, 46 seconds
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Are you ignoring your own progress & success?

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/24/202414 minutes, 7 seconds
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What are my 3somes like?

How to Have 3somes Guide: https://www.fatfreecartpro.com/ecom/gb.php?&i=1742737&cl=387411&c=cart&ejc=2&custom=card&amount=-1▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/23/202440 minutes, 10 seconds
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How I treat you guys well (my audience + clients)

Laz interview (the client who went from $20k to $45k / month): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rpynaXV0SBE▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/22/202458 minutes, 3 seconds
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I choose to believe POSITIVE stories

The video course I mentioned (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.comCoaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/21/202418 minutes, 47 seconds
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I only do daytime dates now

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/20/20248 minutes, 5 seconds
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Empathy: How I became more empathetic

Empathy is just a skill like any other - here's how to level it up.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/19/202419 minutes, 24 seconds
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Can you be 1% of your idols?

The 3some Guide I mentioned: https://www.fatfreecartpro.com/ecom/gb.php?&i=1742737&cl=387411&c=cart&ejc=2&custom=card&amount=-1Coaching (jump on a free call with me to discuss): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/18/202418 minutes, 46 seconds
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Can't enjoy life because you're not having sex?

Wish you had people to talk to about your lack of sexual experience and how it's affecting you? This podcast will help.Get Laid in 6 Weeks (Even If You're a Virgin/Inexperienced): https://www.fatfreecartpro.com/i/12ig0How to make friends guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/Relax, You'll Eventually Get Laid: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pG4Pp2mgL7QPrevious episodes in this series:Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14029818Part 2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030235Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030726Part 4: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14032871Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14033466▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/17/202416 minutes, 7 seconds
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Nervous to talk about sex?

Covering some more "pain points" and struggles I've seen inexperienced guys go through.How to Get Laid in 6 Weeks (Even if You're a Virgin/Inexperienced): https://www.fatfreecartpro.com/i/12ig0CONSENT: The Simplest Guide You'll Ever Read: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Q6NeQ7E1GAPrevious episodes in this series:Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14029818Part 2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030235Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030726Part 4: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14032871Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14033466▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/16/202436 minutes, 46 seconds
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The Meaning of Life / What does helping others feel like?

Let's talk about the 3 levels of Self:1. The Basic (emotional) Self2. The Conscious (rational) Self3. The Higher (integrated/enlightened) SelfThe video course I mentioned (Play to Win): https://playtowinmindset.com/▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/14/202437 minutes, 20 seconds
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I thought I had the best relationship ever. I was wrong.

Some thoughts on how we've improved our relationship over the years - and how I used to have the biggest ego ever when it came to our relationship.My YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@KillYourInnerLoser▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/13/202459 minutes, 25 seconds
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The Alpha Fraud: I used to be so god damn obsessed with being an Alpha Male

Another video talking about this concept: Sense of Entitlement: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6MJXgOmSmU▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/12/202432 minutes, 44 seconds
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Less sex = you're less of a man?

How to deal with feelings of "not being man enough" if you're inexperienced or a virgin.How to Get Laid in 6 Weeks (Even If You're a Virgin/Inexperienced): https://www.fatfreecartpro.com/i/12ig0Previous episodes in this series:Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14029818Part 2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030235Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030726Part 4: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14032871Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14033466▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/10/202424 minutes, 48 seconds
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"What do I talk about on dates?"

aka "How do I be perfect on dates?"▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/6/202415 minutes, 25 seconds
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Is a lack of sex ruining your life?

How to deal with performance anxiety, what to do if you're worried about sex being "creepy" or you're scared of "using women", and how to deal with rejection.The Play to Win video course I mentioned: https://playtowinmindset.comHow to Get Laid in 6 Weeks (Even If You're a Virgin/Inexperienced): https://www.fatfreecartpro.com/i/12ig0Previous episodes in this series:Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14029818Part 2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030235Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030726Part 4: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14032871Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14033466▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
1/3/202426 minutes, 24 seconds
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Unhappy with your sex life?

I address feelings of low-self esteem due to lack of sexual success, lack of confidence, comparing yourself to others who have more sex than you, and feeling unsatisfied with the actual sexual experiences themselves.The Play to Win video course I mentioned: https://playtowinmindset.comHow to Get Laid in 6 Weeks (Even If You're a Virgin/Inexperienced): https://www.fatfreecartpro.com/i/12ig0Previous episodes in this series:Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14029818Part 2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030235Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14030726Part 4: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14032871Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14033466▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
12/27/202329 minutes, 6 seconds
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I didn't eat for 5.5 days (sorta...)

I did a fast (sorta) over the last 6 days - it was a hell of a lot of fun.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
12/20/202316 minutes, 47 seconds
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Andy's Approach Anxiety Program: How to Start COLD APPROACHING ('Daygame')

Full explanation of the program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/approach-anxiety-program/This is a simple approach anxiety program that ANYONE can complete.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
12/18/202318 minutes, 2 seconds
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Want Confidence? Fail MORE, Not Less

The cheatcode to being more confident is running towards "failure/mistakes".▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
12/13/202311 minutes, 12 seconds
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OTHER PEOPLE Made Me a Success

My thoughts on the coaches that have helped me the most.Keith (my spiritual coach): https://www.instagram.com/kj.coaching/Josh (my bodybuilding/fitness coach): https://www.theproteam.com.au/coach-joshDan Henry: https://www.instagram.com/danhenry▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
12/6/202326 minutes, 21 seconds
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Why Women CRY (We Don't Have to FIX Women's Emotions)

Aka "Women cry a lot more than men".▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
11/29/202313 minutes, 55 seconds
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Thankyou. (Thanksgiving Gratitude for You).

My journey from starting my website to getting to this point - and my thoughts on the future of Kill Your Inner Loser.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
11/23/202341 minutes, 16 seconds
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Full of FEAR, DOUBT & LIMITING BELIEFS? Watch this.

Grab the course here (pay whatever you can afford - even if that's literally just $1):  https://playtowinmindset.comAnd no matter what limiting beliefs, doubts, insecurities or fears you're going through, I promise you're ok, and everything is going to be ok - even if it really doesn't feel like it right now.▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
11/22/202323 minutes, 41 seconds
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Your APPEARANCE is Your RESUME (Put in Some Effort)

▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
11/22/202310 minutes, 24 seconds
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Immy & I Sleep in Separate Beds??

My article - Sleep is Paramount: https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/ Matthew Walker's book - Why We Sleep: https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/#the-book-why-we-sleep-by-matthew-walker▬ Start Here! ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬😊 Here's EVERYTHING I learned going from depressed & suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. It's all yours for only $1: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ COACHING ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM (book a FREE call with Andy to discuss if you're a good fit for the program) - https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤵 $200 one-time call with Andy (limited to just 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls▬ YouTube ▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
11/17/20239 minutes, 36 seconds
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Storytime: How I Went Out to Bars/Clubs ALONE at Night

A really fun, adventurous period of my life._____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/16/202318 minutes, 36 seconds
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Can You Be HAPPY If You FAIL to Reach Your Goals?!?

How to find generate outcome-independence and feel that abundance mentality._____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/15/202318 minutes, 49 seconds
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I Did 365 Pieces of Content in 365 Days!

Full spreadsheet showing all the content I uploaded: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing_____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/14/202314 minutes, 44 seconds
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OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE: My Goal is For You to Not Need Me

The question that remains when you have true abundance mentality is: "What do I want?"_____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/13/202339 minutes, 51 seconds
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"I Have No Expectations, Only Curiousity."

The wisest thing my friend ever told me._____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/12/20237 minutes, 45 seconds
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SUFFERING Comes From "IGNORANCE"

_____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/11/202314 minutes, 44 seconds
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Life Doesn't Give a F!@# About Your Plans (& That's Beautiful)

"The best laid plans of mice and men, sometimes go astray."_____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/10/202334 minutes, 38 seconds
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Grateful for Trauma?

_____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/9/202322 minutes, 12 seconds
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Even 'Beta Males' Get Laid

_____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/8/202313 minutes, 22 seconds
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Eventually, Everybody Lets You Down (Buddhism)

If we let go of expectations, we can never again be disappointed._____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/7/202328 minutes, 14 seconds
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Ghosting vs Honesty (The Benefits of Being Kind)

Here's the text I send: "Hey, I really enjoyed meeting you but I'm not super feeling the chemistry and don't want to continue. It was really nice meeting you - I hope you find what you're looking for."_____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/6/202334 minutes
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Being Grateful for Right Now ("What if My Body was the Only Body on Earth?")

 _____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/5/202311 minutes, 10 seconds
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Reducing Social Media has Brought Me Peace

In other words, moving towards what I DO want, rather than getting caught up in what I don't want._____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/4/202322 minutes, 24 seconds
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My Magnum Opus is Now $1 [How I Built a Winners Mindset]

Everything I've learned over the last 10 years, put into a video course.Grab it here (pay whatever you want - even if that's literally just $1):  https://playtowinmindset.com_____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/2/202354 minutes, 49 seconds
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How I Sell Without Selling

How I've embraced being more upfront and honest when it come to making money._____________________________________😊 My "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset" video course (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.com 🤵 1-on-1 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🏆 OUR COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser❤️ Donate to us (much appreciated!): https://kyil-extra.com/donateor Bitcoin: 355HzhfmVTcomTgAfnZsWEJuWSW7cN2kHX
11/1/202325 minutes, 25 seconds
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My Biggest Mission Right Now (& How You Can be a Part of It)

I was a bit ramble-y in the podcast, so to be clear: If you'd like some sort of higher-tier coaching than the usual group coaching (eg you'd like 1-on-1 coaching/to have me mentor you 1-on-1) - hit me up & we can discuss what you'd like, how I can help you, discuss a price, etc.You can send me an enquiry/discuss things with me:https://kyil-extra.com/contactOur group coaching program: https://kyil-extra.com/coachingAnd if you have no interest in coaching, hey that's beautiful. Keep living your life, I'll keep making videos. Let's make this world an even more awesome place.-Andy ----------------------              $200 coaching calls with Andy: https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
10/27/20234 minutes, 20 seconds
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Are You Confusing SUFFERING with PROGRESS?

Do you find yourself caught in the belief that suffering is the only path to success? $200 coaching calls with Andy: https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
10/26/202314 minutes, 49 seconds
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Confidence/Competence/Efficiency is Something you EARN

You don't have to beat yourself up if you're not immediately confident when working on a new goal; that's completely normal.$200 coaching calls with Andy: https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
10/17/202325 minutes, 5 seconds
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A 3some, Not Seeking Validation, Embracing Self-Love! [Client Interview]

One of my coaching clients, Avi, joins me to talk about all he's achieved so far in the coaching program:  He had a 3some, started his own business and published 34 videos, had a cold-approach lay, has 3 girls he's seeing at the same time, learned to give himself love, went balls-deep with honesty, vulnerability and authenticity with the women he's dating, made a bunch of accountability partners who'll push him for life, started believing he actually is attractive and worthy, and so much more!00:00 Avi's accomplishments01:07 The 3some!19:17 Appreciating your own sexuality & removing sexual shame/guilt28:33 Non-attachment / abundance mentality42:48 Removing the pressure to have sex on 1st dates48:04 Self-love / self-respect58:08:04256Would you be ok if you didn't achieve your big goals?01:04:06 Not seeking validation from women01:10:38 Does Andy ever struggle with non-neediness?01:17:08 You might think you know Andy, but...01:24:31 Are your thoughts actually YOUR thoughts?01:32:07 How to overcome limiting beliefs01:35:50 Starting his own business01:39:15 How accountability has changed his life01:45:16 Where would he be if he hadn't done coaching?$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
10/10/20231 hour, 48 minutes, 4 seconds
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29yo Virgin Has Sex 2 Weeks Before Turning 30! [Client Interview]

A member of our coaching program's journey with losing his virginity, cold approaching more and showing himself that everything is ok, and everything will be ok.$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
10/5/202357 minutes, 58 seconds
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34 Dates, $500, Self-Love & Authenticity! [Client Interview]

Marcus talks about his accomplishments: 34 dates, a new business started, earning his first $500, opened up with women & embraced deep honesty, lost 3.5kg, told his conservative mother he was having casual sex with multiple partners, did NoFap for more than 60 days in a row, started cold approaching, worked through some sexual trauma, found inner peace, and much more.🏆 COACHING PROGRAM: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching________________________00:00 His Achievements03:00 34 dates in 12 weeks06:52 Enjoying dates without expectations11:09 Embracing "autistic honesty"18:31 $500 in 30 days (starting a new business)30:49 Being honest about just looking for something casual (dating)32:06 Sleeping with 7 women, 3 of them in a 4-day span34:11 E.D. / Performance Anxiety38:47 Sex/dating is allowed to be simple & easy43:16 Autism, bein on the spectrum53:15 Taking pressure off to have sex on every date59:36 Sexual trauma, opening up to the group01:10:23 Breakdowns and breakthrough moments01:19:36 Honesty & vulnerability with women01:28:01 Telling his conservative mother he's having casual sex with multiple partners01:35:25 Losing 10kg01:37:48 Nofap01:40:33 Cold approaching01:47:51 Self-love & being ok with where he is right now01:56:29 What do I want?01:59:34 Andy would rewrite the Tinder guide with this 1 big change...02:03:34 How to love yourself more02:06:43 Where does he think he'd be if he hadn't done coaching?02:09:53 What's next for Marcus?$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/30/20232 hours, 13 minutes, 23 seconds
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Feeling Like You Don't Belong in this Community?

I promise you belong here.$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/25/202312 minutes, 12 seconds
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Nobody Can Disappoint You (You Disappoint YOURSELF)

$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/20/202340 minutes, 21 seconds
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The Reason Women Aren't Opening Up to You

$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/13/202335 minutes, 23 seconds
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Why You're STUCK - The Juice (Payoff) is Stopping You from Growing (It's Serving a Purpose)

The "excuses" and "limiting beliefs" you have are GETTING you something - they're SERVING A PURPOSE. That's why you hang on to them.Here's what to do instead.Also, today's the LAST DAY to grab my coaching deal - pay in full and get 18 weeks instead of the usual 12! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/9/202329 minutes, 9 seconds
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Sex in Porn/Movies/TV, vs Real Life (Don't Be Smooth)

1 DAY LEFT to grab my coaching deal - pay in full and get 18 weeks instead of the usual 12: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/8/202345 minutes, 44 seconds
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How to MOVE in Order to Prioritise Your Goals (Moving Guide)

2 DAYS LEFT to grab my coaching deal - pay in full and get 18 weeks instead of the usual 12: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching----$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/7/202351 minutes, 35 seconds
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Accept Where You Currently Are, Then Improve It (The Map Analogy)

3 DAYS LEFT - Grab the 18 week coaching deal now!https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/6/202331 minutes, 35 seconds
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You'd Be UNHAPPY if Everyone Did What You Wanted (Unintended Consequences/Arguing with Reality)

4 DAYS LEFT - grab the coaching deal here:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/5/202359 minutes, 36 seconds
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If You Don't Feel MASCULINE Enough... (You Were NOT Masculine as a Child)

5 DAYS LEFT!Grab the 18 week deal, but only when you pay in full in the next 5 days:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-------------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/4/20235 minutes, 44 seconds
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Is it Time for You to BREAK UP?

COACHING DEAL: https://kyil-extra.com/coachingThe original breakup article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-breakup/By the way - the advice Cam gives in this video (and my original article) absolutely applies to women breaking up with guys too. The advice is pretty universal - try and be as kind as you can when you're breaking up, but remind yourself you're not a bad person for wanting to go separate ways. Sometimes people just aren't a great match, and that's ok.*** COACHING ***Grab the 18 week deal, but only when you pay in full in the next 6 days:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-------------------      $200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/3/202315 minutes, 34 seconds
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Resisting the Urge to SETTLE in Sex/Dating/Love

Cam shares his thoughts on why most people (including his past self) settle in relationships/dating.** COACHING **Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up NOW and pay in full. The next 7 days only. Don't miss out: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching ------------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/2/202316 minutes, 8 seconds
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A Modern Man's Guide to Assertiveness, Courage, & Respect

Let's hear what the politically-correct opinion is on masculinity; and I'll give my personal take on it.Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up NOW and pay in full in the next 8 days. Don't miss out: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching ----------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
9/1/202339 minutes, 18 seconds
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Exploring Self-Discovery, Dating, & Relationships: A Roller-Coaster Ride with Paw

*** COACHING ***Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up NOW and pay in full in the next 9 days. Don't miss out:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-----------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/31/202324 minutes, 9 seconds
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My Client Had Wild Sexcapades in Columbia!

** COACHING **Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up NOW and pay in full in the next 10 days. Don't miss out:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching--------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/30/202323 minutes, 2 seconds
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The Approaches that Scare You the Most

*** COACHING ***Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up NOW and pay in full in the next 11 days. Don't miss out:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching --------------- $200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/30/202314 minutes, 49 seconds
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Oh No, You've Angered the Gods!

** COACHING **Grab the 18 week coaching deal - it's only for the next 12 days and only when you pay in full:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching------------------     $200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/29/202315 minutes, 11 seconds
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How to Stop Sending Butthurt Texts

Ever sent a text in a moment of anger or rejection and instantly regretted it? We've all been there. Let's tackle this issue head-on, discussing how to manage expectations, handle anger, and navigate the rocky path of communication.Coaching (currently 18 weeks instead of the usual 12, when you pay in full): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfw$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/25/202341 minutes, 3 seconds
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Break the Norm! (Did School Force You to Be "Socially Acceptable"?)

We're about to turn everything you've been taught on its head. The structures of school and society, despite their many strengths, have not been designed to foster the enlightenment, happiness, peace, and love that every human being craves. COACHING DEAL: Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up in the next 3 weeks and pay in full. Don't miss out:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-----------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/20/202331 minutes, 53 seconds
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This Guy Found SOLUTIONS Instead of Obsessing About His Problems

Have you ever felt fear or self-doubt sabotaging your path to success?COACHING DEAL: Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up in the next 3 weeks and pay in full. Don't miss out:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/18/20239 minutes, 6 seconds
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I Have Failed More Times than You Have Even Tried

What does the journey to success look like? Brace yourself, as it is littered with failures, pitfalls, and rejections.  COACHING DEAL: Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up in the next 3 weeks and pay in full. Don't miss out:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/18/20235 minutes, 35 seconds
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Meditation is NOT About Having an Empty Mind...

Have you ever tried to meditate, only to be frustrated by the incessant chatter in your mind? You’re not alone. I’ve been there too, wrestling with thoughts and feelings, trying to clear my mind and failing miserably. But what if we've been approaching meditation all wrong? What if the goal isn’t to banish thoughts from our minds, but rather to observe them without attachment? DON'T MISS OUT: Right now I've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up in the next 3 weeks and pay in full. Don't miss out: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/16/20237 minutes, 51 seconds
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Supercharge Your Life: Now's the Right Time! (Insane Coaching Deal)

Are you ready to step up and experience the transformational power of intensive coaching? What if you could turbocharge your life in just 18 weeks? Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up in the next 3 weeks and pay in full. Don't miss out: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching---------------------$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM - it's time to change your life! https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser
8/15/20236 minutes, 56 seconds
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Invite Girls Back - They Like to Feel Wanted!

Ever been tongue-tied or anxious about inviting a date back to your place? This episode is for you.$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
8/10/20236 minutes, 6 seconds
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Be AMBITIOUS without the STRUGGLE

Ever feel pressured to be perfect or fall into despair when you don't see the progress you crave? You're not alone. $200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
8/8/202339 minutes, 2 seconds
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Should You Change for Women? (Approaching)

Are you putting too much pressure on yourself when dating? This episode, I unpack the art of engaging with different personalities to ease that pressure. From the bratty to the party types, understanding how to calibrate your words and behavior to match their personalities is crucial. But remember, when someone likes you, they're too caught up in their feelings to notice your imperfections.$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
8/3/202326 minutes, 24 seconds
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You're SO CLOSE to a Breakthrough Moment (Not Every Rejection is the Same)

You likely have no idea just how close you are to making it. Just don't quit.$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
7/31/20234 minutes, 44 seconds
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WHY Gratitude is So Life-Changing (How Gratitude Works)

Ever wondered why some people seem to reach their goals effortlessly while others struggle and strain? What's the secret to their success? The answer is simpler than you might think - gratitude.$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
7/27/202337 minutes, 8 seconds
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How This Guy Changed his Life.

Previous video on this topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JUoMsWSSmlk$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
7/24/202346 minutes, 58 seconds
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ABUNDANCE MENTALITY: "What If I Didn't Need Anything from this Person?"

What if you could unlock a cheat code to living a more abundant and fulfilling life? I Need Your Love: Is That True? by Byron Katie: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#i-need-your-love-is-that-true-by-byron-katie$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
7/18/20238 minutes, 53 seconds
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Feel Like a FRAUD when Starting Self-Improvement?

Ever felt the gnawing fear of judgement, of standing out, when you're at the cusp of personal growth? What if it's this fear that's stifling your potential? This episode is an expedition into the heart of such self-doubt, dissecting how we, in our pursuit of comfort and safety, allow our self-worth to be governed by external factors and how this hampers our journey towards personal change.  $200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
7/12/202318 minutes, 11 seconds
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You Already Know the Answer (The SOLUTION is Within You)

Feeling overwhelmed by life's problems and not sure how to turn things around? Listen as I share the importance of shifting our focus from problems to solutions and how taking action can make a world of difference.  $200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
7/10/20239 minutes, 58 seconds
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Why I DON'T Hookup at Night (Sober Daytime Dates are a Cheatcode)

Tired of the same old bar scene for dates? Discover how breaking free from the traditional nighttime bar dates and opting for daytime alternatives can lead to more meaningful connections and even a healthier sleep routine. Learn about fun activities like playing pool, going for a walk, geocaching, or people watching, which allow you to truly get to know someone without the mask of alcohol! Dates While Sober: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PvuZZkPGYXQGeocaching Guide: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fLT6wDLupkU$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
7/3/202313 minutes, 24 seconds
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"How Can I Stop Imagining My Entire Life with This Girl?"

Q: "How can I stop imagining my entire life with a girl I know online? My ex girlfriend introduced her to me and we've only been interacting on social media"$200, once-off coaching calls (1 per person): https://killyourinnerloser.com/30-min-calls/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING PROGRAM (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/30/202335 minutes, 54 seconds
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Why I'm Grateful to You (I Didn't Want to Be Here Today)

Ever had one of those days where you feel like giving up on your self-improvement journey? Listen to this.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/26/202326 minutes
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This Collection of Molecules is in the Wrong Place

Our frustrations often fall into three variables - position, time, and intention (direction). Let's talk about that.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/24/20237 minutes, 17 seconds
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There's No Such Thing as "Bad"

It's all about the stories we tell about our own lives.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy 📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/21/202324 minutes, 8 seconds
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STOP ARGUING (When You Defend, You Lose)

Are you tired of getting caught up in arguments that only bring suffering and pain into your life? Here's how to find common ground, even with people you disagree with.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/19/202345 minutes, 35 seconds
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Society WANTS You to Be a Loser (Being a LOSER is Socially Acceptable)

F*ck being average.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy 📧 Signup for my free email newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/14/202310 minutes, 37 seconds
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Why Most People Quit Self-Improvement (COMFORTABLY UNCOMFORTABLE)

Are you caught in the trap of comfort, feeling unsatisfied yet unsure how to break free? What if we told you that pushing past your comfort zone could lead to greatness and happiness?  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/13/20238 minutes, 19 seconds
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Just TAKE ACTION. Don't Worry About Your Vices.

Does achieving success mean you have to eliminate all your vices?What if I told you that you can still reach your goals without giving up everything you enjoy? In this eye-opening episode, I share my personal experiences with porn addiction, alcoholism, and how I managed to achieve incredible success while slowly reducing these vices over time. Join me as I reveal the importance of taking action and moving towards your goals, regardless of whether you're "perfect" or not. Understand how prioritizing success, running towards your fears, and focusing on action over vices will help you achieve the life you've always dreamt of. Don't let your vices hold you back; instead, learn to embrace them and use them as motivation to push forward and crush your goals.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/12/202317 minutes, 29 seconds
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100 Days of Boldness: Go Hit on Women Right Now!

I challenge you, my fearless listeners, to take immediate action and face your fears when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships. I know firsthand how easy it is to get trapped in the cycle of reading self-improvement advice without actually implementing any of it, and I don't want that for you. Listen closely as I share my personal challenge to go outside and talk to a woman, no matter how messy or clumsy the conversation may be. Remember, the action matters more than the outcome, and you deserve greatness in your life. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/9/20234 minutes, 6 seconds
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Scared You'll Fall Back into Old Habits? (There's no Going Back)

You can't untake the red pill.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy 📧 Signup for my free email newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/7/202316 minutes, 42 seconds
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This Guy Had an INSTADATE!

Have you ever let fear hold you back from approaching someone you were attracted to?In this inspiring episode, I share an incredible story of a guy in my coaching program who overcame his fear of approaching women and ended up having an instadate with a stunning older woman at an airport. By taking action, even when we've failed many times before, we can find the courage to step out of our comfort zone and make amazing things happen.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
6/5/202325 minutes
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How to Stop Moving the Goalposts (& Be GRATEFUL)

Gratitude is a cheat code to achieving more - and enjoying the damn process along the way.---------------🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching---------------📜 My list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy 📧 Signup for my email newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser📧 Signup for my free email newsletter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing
5/31/202330 minutes
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Don't be Selfish. Hit on Girls! (You'll Make them Happy)

COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching---------------My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-prefaceMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Signup for my email newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/ Support the show
5/24/20236 minutes, 34 seconds
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This Asian Guy Completely Changed His Life!

If you're an Asian dude who worries women won't like you, you need to listen to this episode.COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching---------------My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-prefaceMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy  Support the show
5/18/202334 minutes, 18 seconds
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Feeling Like a LOSER? (Insecurity is Your Best Friend)

You feel insecure, you compare yourself to others that are ahead of you, and you always feel like you're not good enough. Listen to this podcast.COACHING: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfw---------------My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-prefaceMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
5/16/202322 minutes, 30 seconds
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A BICYCLE & a TREE Know More About Success than You Do.

How to focus on what you WANT, rather than obsessing about what you DON'T want.The Winners Club:Want to smash your goals? Sign up for my coaching program and get direct help from me in any area you want. Also, get on demand help from my fellow-coach Cam (Radical), and additionally, get access to private content I make ONLY for my coaching clients.We've gone above and beyond to make sure you succeed no matter what. You're chasing girls, money, health, fitness, happiness; an elite life. Stop wishing for it and start DOING it. Sign up for the Winners Club here:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfwMy massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-prefaceMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
5/11/20238 minutes, 48 seconds
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Life Update & The Future of My Content

The direction of my channel(s) and the future of Kill Your Inner Loser.---------------🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching---------------📜 Updated list of 365 Day Project uploads: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=sharing👩‍❤️‍👨 My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-preface▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser🐤 Follow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy 📧 Signup for my free email newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/Support the show
5/8/202342 minutes, 15 seconds
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How to ACTUALLY Stick to Your Goddamn Plans!

The cheatcode to actually following through on the promises you make yourself.COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coachingSignup for my email newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter/-------------------My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-prefaceMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
5/4/202331 minutes, 8 seconds
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Cut the NPC Crap: Stop Telling Yourself "I Can't"  

You are more powerful than you think you are.COACHING - free enquiry call with me: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfw---------------My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-prefaceMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER:https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy  Support the show
5/2/20236 minutes, 47 seconds
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Exclusive Inside Look: My Coaching Program Revealed!

Click here for Coaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfw00:00 Intro00:24 What are the guys in the program like?02:01 What does the group experience feel like?03:58 "Now's not the right time"06:45 What are the calls like?08:02 How we built the program (screening)09:32 Ongoing support FOR LIFE (Discord group)11:00 Who we accept into the program12:29 What traits do winners have?13:31 MINDSET is the reason you're not currently succeeding16:15 What specific areas do we coach people?17:55 Moving or changing your environment19:00 Money19:13 Figuring out what business to start20:41 Happiness & peace22:47 Starting content creation24:15 Figuring out your purpose24:35 Access to experts in style, fitness & more25:36 Honesty in dating25:56 Sex & other things26:38 How to applyClick here for Coaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
4/27/202327 minutes, 23 seconds
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AI is Coming & May Wipe Us All Out. Here's How to Make Peace with it. (Chat GPT 4)

My thoughts on using stoicism and self-improvement to steel yourself against your fear of death - and fear of the death of humanity.COACHING:Want to smash your goals? Sign up for my coaching program and get direct help from me in any area you want. Also, get on demand help from my fellow-coach Cam (Radical), and additionally, get access to private content I make ONLY for my coaching clients.We've gone above and beyond to make sure you succeed no matter what. You're chasing girls, money, health, fitness, happiness; an elite life. Stop wishing for it and start DOING it.Sign up for the Winners Club here:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfwMy massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-prefaceSupport the show
4/24/202354 minutes, 5 seconds
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You're UNSTOPPABLE - Stop Caring if They Leave You (The Train Analogy)

The train analogy will stop others from impacting your success. The Winners Club:Want to smash your goals? Sign up for my coaching program and get direct help from me in any area you want. Also, get on demand help from my fellow-coach Cam (Radical), and additionally, get access to private content I make ONLY for my coaching clients.We've gone above and beyond to make sure you succeed no matter what. You're chasing girls, money, health, fitness, happiness; an elite life. Stop wishing for it and start DOING it. Sign up for the Winners Club here:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfwMy massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://kyil-extra.com/tinder-guide-prefaceMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
4/18/202312 minutes, 50 seconds
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The "Brick" Metaphor will Bring You Limitless Success

The brick metaphor has helped me so much when it comes to being PATIENT with my journey. The Winners Club:Want to smash your goals? Sign up for my coaching program and get direct help from me in any area you want. Also, get on demand help from my fellow-coach Cam (Radical), and additionally, get access to private content I make ONLY for my coaching clients.We've gone above and beyond to make sure you succeed no matter what. You're chasing girls, money, health, fitness, happiness; an elite life. Stop wishing for it and start DOING it. Sign up for the Winners Club here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
4/12/202316 minutes, 45 seconds
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NO EXCUSES: I'll Change Your Life for $200.

Yep - $200, 30min coaching calls.Contact me for the calls here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactWhat the calls entail:$200 USD, 30 minsAny topics you likeLimited time onlyOnly a certain number per weekOnly one per personFirst come, first servedNew people only, not available to anyone who's done coaching beforeI am going to pitch you the coaching at the end of the callContact me for the calls here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactSupport the show
4/10/20232 minutes, 42 seconds
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Drop Your Ego! Your Limiting Beliefs Are Holding You Back

Want to smash your goals? Sign up for my coaching program and get direct help from me in any area you want. Also, get on demand help from my fellow-coach Cam (Radical), and additionally, get access to private content I make ONLY for my coaching clients.We've gone above and beyond to make sure you succeed no matter what. You're chasing girls, money, health, fitness, happiness; an elite life. Stop wishing for it and start DOING it.Sign up for the Winners Club here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
4/6/202321 minutes, 53 seconds
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Women are Just Humans with a Pussy [Dating/Relationships]

Sign up for The Winners Club here - it's essentially PAY TO WIN:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw--------------HONESTY: A Girl We’re Dating Gives Her Perspective: https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-girls-pov/Immy's Thoughts on being Alpha: https://killyourinnerloser.com/on-being-alpha/Immy's Thoughts on What Honesty is Like from a Girl's Perspective: https://killyourinnerloser.com/what-honesty-looks-like-in-a-relationship/Support the show
4/3/202355 minutes, 52 seconds
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Spending Time with Friends is a Waste of Time?

COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared of spending money): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
3/30/202327 minutes, 24 seconds
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I'm Getting OLDER: Is Dating Getting HARDER? [Sex/Dating]

COACHING: You've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared of spending money): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
3/29/202321 minutes, 17 seconds
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Nobody Supports You? Let's Fix That.

COACHING:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwHow to Make Friends: https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/Support the show
3/28/202326 minutes, 46 seconds
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My Coaching Client is Married with Kids?!? (Advice for Fatherhood)

COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared of spending money): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy relationship content on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3Y4HSBEVry6Ceg5dHkI6J3IxiAkVrj8JSupport the show
3/27/20234 minutes, 55 seconds
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I Cut Out all Negative Social Media. Here's What Happened.

COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared of spending money): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
3/25/202321 minutes, 31 seconds
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YOU Need to Pull the Trigger (I Can't Do it For You) [General]

"If it is to be, it's up to me."COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared of spending money): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
3/24/202315 minutes, 38 seconds
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Normal People Aren't as Driven as You (You're Doing Great) [General]

If you're frustrated that you're not making enough progress, listen to this episode.Relax, You’re Making Progress: https://killyourinnerloser.com/progress/COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared of spending money): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
3/24/202315 minutes, 55 seconds
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The 3 Components of Success

The Slight Edge: https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared of spending money):  https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
3/16/202310 minutes, 47 seconds
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365 Day Projects are AMAZING! (Day 104 Update)

Doing something every day is a cheat code for becoming elite.COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
3/13/202313 minutes, 45 seconds
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Guilt for Not Using Your Time Productively (Spending Time with Friends is PRODUCTIVE) [Friends/Social]

I talk about that feeling of "I can't relax/I can't take time off, I'm running out of time in my life to achieve my goals!" In other words, feeling guilty about not making the most of every single second of your life.-----------------HARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
3/9/202329 minutes, 13 seconds
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When You're On Your Deathbed, What Do You Want to Have Achieved [General]

HARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
3/7/202320 minutes, 23 seconds
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This Guy DOUBLED His Lay Count in 2 Weeks!

Plus a big discussion about giving yourself permission to go what you want - even if other people think your goals are "stupid".COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
3/1/202353 minutes, 20 seconds
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"28 Years Old & Never Had a Relationship" [Dating/Sex]

It's more  common than you think.Tinder (and retention, and self-improvement) Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw/I Am Always Full of Doubt: https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubt/How I Beat Depression: https://killyourinnerloser.com/depression/COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw-------My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
2/28/202332 minutes, 22 seconds
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This Guy Made Money, Found Peace & Happiness, Had Sex & Started a Coaching Business! [Client Story]

COACHING - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwOne of my clients, Dmitry, joins me to talk about the complete mental overhaul he did in his 12 weeks of coaching with me. It's an incredibly awesome transformation.He also opened up about his previous self-harm, and how he overcame it. Really appreciate him being so vulnerable and open with us.Dmitry's Blog (Mindset Ark): https://mindsetark.com/Dmitry's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UCpM47L5kCJTZzqymL5kf7GgSupport the show
2/26/20231 hour, 48 minutes, 24 seconds
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Worried You'll Fail & Go Back to Your Old Complacent Life [General]

You're not capable of going back, so don't worry so much.---------------HARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwFor one-off coaching calls with Andy (1hr for $1,000 USD), message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
2/25/20238 minutes, 33 seconds
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"I Just Want to Be Happy & Free..." [Peace/Happiness]

And how to make your goals more TANGIBLE and ACHIEVEABLE by starting small, then building up to greatness.How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story): https://killyourinnerloser.com/depression/What to do When You Feel Hopeless and Helpless: https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/-------------------My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwFor one-off coaching calls with Andy (1hr for $1,000 USD), message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
2/18/202329 minutes, 32 seconds
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Why Rejection is Your Best Friend: How It Can Help You Build Unshakable Self-Confidence [Sex/Dating]

This advice applies to both men AND women.---------$1000 1hr coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactMy Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
2/17/202318 minutes, 53 seconds
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Cheatcode: "I Just Don't Have a Lot to Give Today" [Relationships]

The cheat code to avoiding resentment and having healthy boundaries with yourself - and others around you.Books I recommended in this episode: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/----------------$1000 1hr coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactMy Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_Andy Support the show
2/13/202310 minutes, 52 seconds
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"I Have Cancer" - How to See Cancer as a GOOD Thing.

You can't afford the luxury of a negative thought.All the books I recommended in this episode: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/------------My Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_AndyI tweet motivational stuff, self-improvement advice, epiphanies I have as I go about my day, some vids here and there. It's all super positive, aiming to GIVE VALUE to your life.Support the show
2/9/20231 hour, 7 minutes, 55 seconds
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Sometimes, Showing Up is All That Matters. [General]

Most days in your self-improvement journey won't be glamourous or sexy. That's completely ok.----------$1000 1hr coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactMy Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_AndyI tweet motivational stuff, self-improvement advice, epiphanies I have as I go about my day, some vids here and there. It's all super positive, aiming to GIVE VALUE to your life.Support the show
2/3/202310 minutes, 7 seconds
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Will a Woman Make me LESS Productive? [Relationships]

And why clinging tightly to your money might be the OPPOSITE of financial abundance.All the books I recommended in this episode: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations---------------The Best Tinder Guide on the Internet™: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw$500 1hr coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_AndyI tweet motivational stuff, self-improvement advice, epiphanies I have as I go about my day, some vids here and there. It's all super positive, aiming to GIVE VALUE to your life.Support the show
1/22/20231 hour, 14 minutes, 16 seconds
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Rejected by Women in Nightclubs?? [Sex/Dating]

If women are mean to you in a nightclub... remember they're literally on drugs (alcohol).$250 30min coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserThe best Tinder guide on the internet:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/Support the show
1/18/202332 minutes, 28 seconds
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More Prison Stories [Part 2/2]

Watch this episode on YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Ox2tmPEg7qE Part 1 was here: https://youtu.be/K-N7JV3BtFcIf any of you have anything you'd like to share (please don't feel obliged) - you're welcome to email me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact---------------$250 30min coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactMy Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_AndyI tweet motivational stuff, self-improvement advice, epiphanies I have as I go about my day, some vids here and there. It's all super positive, aiming to GIVE VALUE to your life.Support the show
1/8/20232 hours, 29 minutes, 29 seconds
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That Time I Went to Prison when I Was Young (21). [Part 1/2]

Watch this episode on YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/K-N7JV3BtFcPart 2 is here: https://youtu.be/Ox2tmPEg7qEIf any of you have anything you'd like to share (please don't feel obliged) - you're welcome to email me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact---------------$250 30min coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactMy Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserFollow me on TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KYIL_AndyI tweet motivational stuff, self-improvement advice, epiphanies I have as I go about my day, some vids here and there. It's all super positive, aiming to GIVE VALUE to your life.Support the show
1/7/20231 hour, 35 minutes, 20 seconds
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This is All Just a Big Experiment Redux [General]

Original article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/this-is-all-just-a-big-experiment/ $250 30min coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
12/22/202227 minutes, 38 seconds
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Game vs Raw Honesty - Why Game is Superstitious Nonsense (How Do I GET What I Want?) [Sex/Dating]

Game is great.... but have you ever tried just directly stating what you want and then playing the numbers game?Oh No, You’ve Angered the Gods! (article about superstitions):  https://killyourinnerloser.com/youve-angered-the-gods/Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards: https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/$250 30min coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
12/16/202252 minutes, 29 seconds
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Ask Women What they Mean (They're On Your Team) [Sex/Dating/Relationships]

It's "you and me", not "you vs me".$150 30min coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
12/6/202223 minutes, 59 seconds
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How Can I Make EVERY Woman Orgasm? [Sex/Dating]

Hint: Maybe you can't. But making a woman orgasm was never even the main goal. Here's what's actually important.Doxy Magic Wand Vibrator: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfw/ $150 USD 30min coaching calls, contact me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
12/3/202221 minutes, 30 seconds
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How to Handle Confrontations (Assume Everyone is a Good Person) [General]

Everybody's just trying to do their best.COACHING with me - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw I Need Your Love: Is That True: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#i-need-your-love-is-that-true-by-byron-katieLoving What Is: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#loving-what-is-by-byron-katieLoving What Is by Byron Katie: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#loving-what-is-by-byron-katieI Need Your Love: Is That True? by Byron Katie: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#i-need-your-love-is-that-true-by-byron-katieSupport the show
12/2/202240 minutes, 7 seconds
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"What Is My Purpose?" (Your Personal Vision for Your Life) [General]

Loving What Is by Byron Katie: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#loving-what-is-by-byron-katie 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#jordan-petersonThe 5 Minute Meditator: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#5-minute-meditatorLetting Go by David Hawkins: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#letting-go-love-is-letting-go-of-fear-letting-go-of-nothing$150 30min coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
12/1/202225 minutes, 20 seconds
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Opening Up Will Make People LOSE RESPECT For You? [Sex/Dating/General]

$150 30min coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/30/202240 minutes, 53 seconds
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Stop Worrying About Regressing into Old Habits [Happiness/Inner Peace]

The past is gone; you can't untake the red pill.COACHING with me - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/28/202210 minutes, 42 seconds
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Happiness is a Skill You Can Improve [Happiness/Inner Peace]

The entire reason you're working on your goals is to be happy, right? So why not skip the middleman and be happy NOW.COACHING with me - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwYou Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryI Need Your Love: Is That True: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#i-need-your-love-is-that-true-by-byron-katieLoving What Is: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#loving-what-is-by-byron-katieMeditations by Marcus Aurelius: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d5E2AQKuCyU Support the show
11/26/202227 minutes, 8 seconds
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Patience. Humility. [General]

Self-improvement can take time, so you may as well relax and enjoy the ride.Original interview with Ed: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUcLtSztIgU Part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2arAXIw3MXgRelax. You'll Eventually Get Laid: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pG4Pp2mgL7QSupport the show
11/25/202225 minutes, 49 seconds
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God Will Reward You, But He Won't Do it For Free (365 Day Project: Day 2)

Yep, I've started another 365 day project. Let's fucking go baby!!!Day 1 (on my YT): https://youtu.be/DteCxruyN30My articles: https://killyourinnerloser.com/My instagram: https://www.instagram.com/killyourinnerloser/ My forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums$150 30min coaching calls, message me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactHARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
11/24/202217 minutes, 11 seconds
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You Don't Need to be Desperate for Lays (She'll Just Sleep with You on the Next Date) [Sex/Dating]

Relax. You'll eventually get laid. I promise.COACHING with me, let's build you an epic life! (Payment plans are available if money is an issue):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwThe BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/22/202242 minutes, 12 seconds
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Don't ARGUE if You're a Newbie [General]

Why humility is a cheat-code that'll bring you more success, faster, and with less messing around.COACHING with me, let's build you an epic life! (Payment plans are available if money is an issue):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/18/202236 minutes
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POSITIVE Pressure vs NEGATIVE Pressure [General]

Forgot to mention it in the episode, but one book that REALLY helps with being more positive: You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations#luxuryCoaching with me (right now I'm offering 15 weeks for the price of 12, if you mention this offer when you email me): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw/Support the show
11/15/202225 minutes, 44 seconds
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Make Girls the BACKUP Plan [Sex/Dating]

Put yourself first and have your own life going on - women are a nice BONUS to an already great life.COACHING with me, let's build you an epic life! (Payment plans are available if money is an issue):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
11/10/202218 minutes, 5 seconds
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Be GRATEFUL & REFLECT After Each Goal [General]

COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life full of abundance? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
11/7/20229 minutes, 49 seconds
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Just Show Up. [General]

You don't have to be a complete badass to achieve great things; just be humble enough to take 1 baby step every single day.Here's your first baby step: sign up for coaching with me and I'll help you build the life you've always dreamt of.  (Payment plans are available if money is an issue):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
11/4/202211 minutes, 49 seconds
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Stop Seeking the Right Answer (Shut Up and GET STARTED) [General]

Life's too short to sit around trying to come up with the "perfect" plan.15 week coaching packages: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw For the 30min $150 coaching calls, shoot me an email here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/1/202249 minutes, 28 seconds
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I Want You to Click on this Podcast. [General]

I've got something I want you to hear.COACHING with me, let's build you an epic life! (Payment plans are available if money is an issue):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
10/24/202226 minutes, 26 seconds
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Is $150 Coaching Something You Guys Want?

Would love to hear your feedback - email me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactSupport the show
10/18/20225 minutes, 54 seconds
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Nervous to Approach? TELL Her. [Sex/Dating]

Why just admitting you're nervous is the cheat code to hitting on more women.COACHING BONUS: I'm currently offering a bonus 3 weeks when you sign up for coaching (so 15 weeks instead of 12) - all you have to do is mention this offer. Payment plans are available, so don't let money be an excuse - hit me up using the coaching link in the description about, and let's build you an amazing life. GO GO GO!https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwThe BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
10/15/202221 minutes, 37 seconds
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BRAINWASH Yourself into SUCCESS [General]

Let's get you out of your negative thinking patterns and build you the life you deserve.My book recommendations:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations Coaching (bonus 3 weeks if you mention this offer, and payment plans available):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw/ My YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGNkzPENUQNwkg Support the show
10/13/202236 minutes, 23 seconds
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You Tell Yourself the Story that I'm Better than You

There's a reason my website's banner image is: "If I can do it, you sure as hell can too".COACHING with me (currently offering 15 weeks for the price of 12 - just mention this offer when you apply):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
10/10/20226 minutes, 25 seconds
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I'm Grateful for You Guys.

I'm glad you guys exist, I really am.Youtube vid "I'm Feeling Depressed": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXfKHniP79oIf you're struggling yourself and want some coaching, I'm here for you (Payment plans are available if money is an issue):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
10/8/202211 minutes, 44 seconds
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Back with the Ex and Into BDSM [Sex/Dating]

One of the guys from our community shares some of his recent wins.Doxy Magic Wand Vibrator: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfw/How to Have a 3some: https://howtohavea3some.com/COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
10/6/202227 minutes, 39 seconds
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Tinder is Like Fishing (Sometimes the Fish Aren't Biting) [Sex/Dating]

What to do if Tinder/online dating isn't getting you the results you want.COACHING with me (mention the bonus offer for 14 weeks for the price of 12):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw "Relax. You'll Eventually Get Laid" vid: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pG4Pp2mgL7QThe BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
10/5/202225 minutes, 19 seconds
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Is University Worth It? [General]

The definitive guide on whether or not you should go to college.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go!https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
10/3/202244 minutes, 23 seconds
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If You Want 10x the Wins, Just 10x Your Rejections [General]​

The secret to success is not avoiding rejection - it's running TOWARDS rejection.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go!https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
9/27/202215 minutes, 13 seconds
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Live Your Own Life (Top 5 Regrets of the Dying) [General]

How to avoid a life of regret & instead do whatever the fuck YOU want to do.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go!https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
9/24/202256 minutes, 31 seconds
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How to Be PRODUCTIVE when You're Not at Your Best (Suffering is OPTIONAL) [General]

Why you can have an epic, productive day/life even if you're sick, tired, suffering from erectile dysfunction, short, or any other limiting belief.Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwByron Katie - Loving What Is: https://www.booktopia.com.au/loving-what-is-byron-katie/book/9780593234518.htmlDoxy Magic Wand Vibrator I use: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
9/13/202247 minutes, 17 seconds
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Nervous to Approach? Tell Her. [Sex/Dating]

A huge cheat code to hitting on women when you're really nervous - use "Nervous Guy Game".COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go!https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwThe BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
9/5/20229 minutes, 31 seconds
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PRAISE Your Partner! [Relationships]

How you can encourage your partner to grow and become the person you really want them to be.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life full of abundance? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/22/202248 minutes, 19 seconds
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Monogamy vs Non-Monogamy (Different Relationship Dynamics) [Relationships]

You're allowed to have whatever type of relationship you want; there's no "right" way to do relationships.How to have a 3some: https://howtohavea3some.comCOACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life full of abundance? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/15/202247 minutes
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Let Go of Your BULLSHIT EXPECTATIONS & STORIES

Why arguing with reality and being a victim just leads to your own suffering - and makes you LESS LIKELY to hit your goals.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go!https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/8/20221 hour, 17 minutes, 23 seconds
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Handling JEALOUSY in Open (and Monogamous) Relationships [Relationships]

And why I recommend you don't get into a (serious) relationship until AT LEAST 6 months of seeing/sleeping with each other.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go! https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwThe BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
8/1/202254 minutes, 53 seconds
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I Was TERRIFIED to Get Serious with a Woman (Don't Have EXPECTATIONS) [Relationships]

The CHEAT CODES to building an elite relationship - take things one step at a time, and don't have any expectations.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go! https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
7/25/202234 minutes, 40 seconds
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Relationships Shouldn't be Work (if You Water Your Plants) [Relationships]

The "honeymoon period" never has to end, and relationships never have to be "work", if you use gratitude as a cheat code in your relationship.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go! https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
7/18/202227 minutes, 53 seconds
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Honesty, Abundance, Money [General]

Why being honest is the shortcut to true abundance.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go! https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
7/11/202241 minutes, 4 seconds
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SCREEN for Whatever You Want [Sex/Dating]

Whatever type of woman you want, you're allowed to have - but you have to actually MAKE IT HAPPEN, instead of sitting around like a knob.COACHING - let me give you that push to build an epic life for yourself. You deserve it, god dammit. https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/4/202214 minutes, 44 seconds
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Girls Don't Care How LONG You Last in Bed [Sex/Dating]

 But here's what they DO care about and how you can blow their socks off... Magic Wand Vibrator I use: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfwCOACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go! https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
6/27/202217 minutes, 29 seconds
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How We Made $50,000 in 30 Days [Money]

And more importantly - how you can too.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/a3w_5p01OmQCOACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life full of abundance? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/17/202257 minutes, 43 seconds
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How to Tell a Girl She's Overweight [General]

A huge podcast on how to get girls (and friends/family/etc) into self-improvement, how to tackle the delicate topic of being overweight, how to manage egos and defensiveness, and whether you should even try to change anyone at all.Coaching (mention the discount when you apply!): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
6/13/202241 minutes, 42 seconds
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Depression is a LACK OF...

Feeling like you're depressed or in a rut? Here's the EASIEST way of overcoming it and starting to feel a bit of happiness.Depression counselling/coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwDepression resources/help: https://killyourinnerloser.com/depressionSupport the show
6/11/202229 minutes, 25 seconds
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Negative Headspace is the Enemy (Always Be POSITIVE!) [General]

Why babies are DUMB BITCHES, and how you can use positive thinking to CRUSH YOUR DAMN GOALS.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go! https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwYou Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought (book): https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryThe BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
6/11/202220 minutes, 35 seconds
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Be Goddamn GRATEFUL! [General]

Are you grateful, or are you taking shit for granted, you little fuck? Let's fix that.Coaching - don't fuck around, let me fix your damn life starting right now: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/6/202253 minutes, 21 seconds
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4 Guys who Get Laid & Make Money (Roundtable) [Self-Improvement]

4 guys and I sit down to discuss the importance of building a tribe, how to get laid a TONNE, making $$$$ and building an epic life for yourself - even when you don't believe it's possible.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life - let's fucking go! https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/1/20222 hours, 14 minutes
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I'm 35 Now, and I'm Just Getting Started [General]

Why it's never "too late" for you to get your life together. If I can do it, why not you?COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
5/30/202218 minutes, 16 seconds
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This Guy Broke a 2 YEAR Dry Spell in 2 DAYS! [Sex-Dating]

Super impressive story from a guy who broke his dry spell within 2 days of actually trying - and went on to sleep with 10 girls in 12 weeks. Oh, and the kicker? He's not even remotely maxxed out, he's not super confident, and his head was full of doubts when he started.Want COACHING with me like this guy? Let's build you an amazing dating, business, fitness, social and spiritual life:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
5/26/202226 minutes, 35 seconds
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Be Vulnerable, but Don't be WEAK [General]

Why "being real" and being authentic is a cheat code to life, and how to do it in a MASCULINE, confident way people will respect you for.How to Have 3somes (Even If You Don't Feel Ready): http://howtohave3somes.com/No More Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyWhen I Say No, I Feel Guilty: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guiltySupport the show
5/23/202215 minutes, 29 seconds
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12 Lays in 12 Weeks + a 3some in His 2nd Week! [Sex/Dating]

Rene joins me to talk about going from having only had sex with 2 women in his life, to sleeping with 12 girls in 12 weeks (including 5 girls in 1 week!), having a 3some, coaching others and mentoring girls, and having a girl write him a love letter and a song.COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwThe BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
5/20/20221 hour, 35 minutes, 1 second
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Tired? Close Your Eyes (without Sleeping) [General]

A killer technique for dealing with those tired days.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
5/19/20226 minutes, 12 seconds
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"The Law of Attraction is BULLSHIT"?

Why "the law of attraction" is INCREDIBLY useful at making you 100000x more productive... If you just REDEFINE it first.3some Guide: https://howtohave3somes.comLetting Go by David Hawkins: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#letting-go-love-is-letting-go-of-fear-letting-go-of-nothing Coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
5/17/202222 minutes, 18 seconds
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Train Yourself to Enjoy Things You Hate (Pavlov's Dog) [Habits]

A killer technique for getting over the initial hump of building a new habit. All you've got to do is treat yourself like a dog (hear me out...)Coaching with me - let's kick your damn ass into gear: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw  My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwSupport the show
5/15/202211 minutes, 38 seconds
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Be Hard on Yourself in a CONSTRUCTIVE Way, not a DESTRUCTIVE Way [General]

How being hard on yourself can be a cheat code for easy success - as long as you do it in a LOVING way to yourself.You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryStop Being a Cunt to Yourself: https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-be-a-cunt-to-yourself/Coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
5/13/202218 minutes, 33 seconds
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Growing Up in a Small Town (My Experiences) [General]

Live in a city of less than 100,000 people? MOVE!COACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwHow to Have a 3some (Even If You Don't Feel Ready): https://howtohave3somes.comThe BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
5/11/202217 minutes, 38 seconds
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You Will NOT Get Everything Done Before You Die [General]

How to handle the stress of "I have so much I need to do, I'm overwhelmed!"How to Have a 3some (Even If You Don't Feel Ready): https://howtohave3somes.comCOACHING with me: legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
5/9/202241 minutes, 43 seconds
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Dating Younger Women as Equals [Sex/Dating]

Want to date more independent, less "needy" girls - whilst still sticking in the 18-25yo bracket? Here's how.My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
5/4/202238 minutes, 59 seconds
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I Have No Fucking Idea What I'm Doing. [General]

And why winging it, throwing yourself in the deep end and JUST GETTING STARTED is the shortcut to success.Support the show
4/27/202213 minutes, 22 seconds
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Girls Who Want to Sleep with You Will Make it Easy for You [Sex/Dating]

And why it's just not as much fun sleeping with a woman who makes you jump through a bunch of hoops first.Fuck Yes or No: https://markmanson.net/fuck-yesRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
4/20/20227 minutes, 21 seconds
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Your Struggle is Valid no Matter How Many People Have it Worse than You [General]

Why comparing yourself to others doesn't actually help you - or them.You Don't Have to SUFFER to Reach Your Goals: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SByn2coX8wMMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
4/13/202212 minutes, 46 seconds
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Why I Say Go Talk to More Girls [Sex/Dating]

aka "Why I Don't Care That I Didn't Bang This Pregnant Chick"...Want COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
4/6/202225 minutes, 52 seconds
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My Grandfather Taught Me a Lot About Life [General]

And I'm hoping he can teach you some important life lessons too.Depression article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/depressionRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/30/202221 minutes, 22 seconds
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How I Quit Caffeine & Boosted My Productivity [General]

And a little challenge for you: Try going without caffeine, just for a couple of days, and see what happens.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/30/202210 minutes, 24 seconds
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Be Ok with Your Woman Crying Sometimes [Relationships]

How to remain stoic and masculine when your woman is emotional.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/23/202220 minutes, 4 seconds
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Get Off Your PHONE (Disconnect, Bitch) [General]

Welcome to the real world, Neo.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/16/202217 minutes, 13 seconds
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You Don't Have to Consume ALL My Content [Self-Improvement]

In fact, I'd prefer you didn't; there's too much there. Here's my entire philosophy boiled down: give yourself permission to suck. Take a few small baby steps every day. Don't quit.That's it. Now go out there and build something epic.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/9/202213 minutes, 38 seconds
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How to Borrow Dogs [General]

Dogs are cool. Here's how to get more dogness in your life.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/3/20227 minutes, 59 seconds
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Before You Met Her, You Were Just Fine. [Sex/Dating]

The world will keep on turning.My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
2/24/20222 minutes, 40 seconds
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You're Allowed to Stop Seeing Someone [Sex/Dating]

Nobody's twisting your arm and making you date people you don't want to date.My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
2/17/20227 minutes, 45 seconds
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Look What Happens When You Take Your Shot [Sex/Dating]

You absolutely don't need to be perfect when it comes to starting out with your goals - just do what this guy did and put some goddamn skin in the goddamn game.My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
2/10/202212 minutes, 22 seconds
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Be Patient on Weekends. Girls Are Often Busy. [Sex/Dating]

Don't stress if they sometimes take a day (or several days) to reply to your texts. It's normal, it happens to me too, it's just part of the game.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
2/3/202220 minutes, 58 seconds
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Women Are Just Humans with a Pussy [Sex/Dating]

They're not unknowable, you don't have to be intimidated by them, you don't have to try and read their minds, they're not your enemy; they're just people who happen to have a vagina.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw Want COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser Support the show
1/27/202223 minutes, 38 seconds
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Be Grateful for Approach Anxiety [Sex/Dating]

Anxiety is your best friend - it's trying to tell you something. Listen to it.Read this episode in article form: https://killyourinnerloser.com/be-grateful-for-approach-anxiety/My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating, business, fitness & spiritual life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
1/20/20227 minutes, 38 seconds
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During Hard Times, TRY HARDER. [General]

Stop being a victim, and just play to win.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/17/20226 minutes, 33 seconds
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Comparing Yourself to Others

A big epiphany I had recently about beating ourselves up and why it makes you LESS likely to hit your goals.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/13/202222 minutes, 44 seconds
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This Guy Had Sex within 5 MINUTES of Meeting a Girl!

A killer podcast episode with a client of mine who's been CRUSHING it over the last 3 or 4 months - and some tips on how you can replicate his success.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/tTHAXI3kcHoRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here):https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/6/20221 hour, 34 minutes, 10 seconds
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"I Can't" Really Means "I Won't" (Limiting Beliefs)

Some wisdom from the book "Letting Go" by David Hawkins.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
12/28/202118 minutes, 31 seconds
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Always Keep an Open Mind

A recent lay report, a message for all of you who are lonely during Christmas time, and why keeping an open mind with girls is a gamechanger.Always keep an open mind article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/always-keep-an-open-mind/ You're Not Obligated to Have Sex with Someone: https://killyourinnerloser.com/not-obligated/ The Doxy magic wand I mentioned: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfw -----------Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw Want COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloser Support the show
12/23/202139 minutes, 33 seconds
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Play to Win

Put some skin in the game, don't hold back, run towards your fears, and make shit happen.Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw/My YouTube channel (with additional content not released here): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGNkzPENUQNwkgSupport the show
12/21/202126 minutes, 12 seconds
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You are Enough Right Now

You're stuck here with your current self. You may as well learn to like yourself.Self-Improvement Requires Sacrifices & Takes Time: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/9158346Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw/ Support the show
12/18/202115 minutes, 25 seconds
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I'll Never Max Myself Out & I'll Never Be Perfect (and Neither Will You)

And that's ok.Support the show
12/13/202127 minutes, 17 seconds
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This Guy Lost his Virginity by Taking Action!

Alternative title: "A Token of Thanks".Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy Blog: http://killyourinnerloser.com/My YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/KillYourInnerLoserSupport the show
12/7/202115 minutes, 39 seconds
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How I Banged 3 Girls in 10 Hours

And how it fits in to building an elite life where you leave the world better than you found it.Want COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwNot sure how to start getting laid? Start here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/Support the show
11/30/202123 minutes, 32 seconds
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I Want to be a Lazy Piece of Shit, But I settled for Self-Improvement

My dream goal is to sit around eating Doritos, drinking whiskey, playing video games and watching porn, never leaving the house, being a total lazy sack of shit. But I'll settle for self-improvement.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/c/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/28/202116 minutes, 10 seconds
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7 Flakes in a Row - Why It Doesn't Fucking Matter (Even Elite Guys Get Flaked On)

What to do - or rather, what NOT to do - when you get flaked on.My Mate Cucked Some Guy and Fucked His Wife: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uOqHCh9JcQRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
11/25/20216 minutes, 25 seconds
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How I Banged 4 Girls in 5 Days

Let's take a trip down memory lane - back to Jan 2019 when I stuck my pork sausage in 4 buns in 5 days.Want me to yell at you some more? Hit me up for coaching and I won't let you keep making bullshit excuses:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwSupport the show
11/23/202120 minutes, 48 seconds
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Can't Get Laid Because You're Short? Nah, You're Just a Little BITCH.

No more excuses. Stop blaming your height/age/baldness/race/country/starsign for your lack of results with women. Start taking control of your life and actually TRY to get laid.Want me to yell at you some more? Hit me up for coaching and I won't let you keep making bullshit excuses:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwNot sure how to start getting laid? Start here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/Support the show
11/16/20212 minutes, 54 seconds
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I'm Leaving Society. Good Riddance. (Vax Passports)

Any of you who've been struggling with the authoritarianism over the last 2 years, I'm here to give you some hope.Support the show
11/12/202131 minutes, 11 seconds
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Passive-Submissive, Assertive-Submissive, Passive-Dominant, Assertive-Dominant... (The 4 Types of Women)

Let's get nerdy about dominance and submission.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
11/9/20216 minutes, 41 seconds
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Being in Your Own Head DOESN'T MATTER.

But here's what does...Just STAY OUT on the Front Lines! (Cold Approach): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYgGA7ucw00Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
11/2/202110 minutes, 48 seconds
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Greatness Awaits You.

And all you have to do is just never fucking quit.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
10/26/20217 minutes, 9 seconds
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Caleb Jones the Black Dragon

I sat down with the legendary BlackDragon (Caleb Jones) to talk why most people completely screw up relationships, why monogamy doesn't work for 99% of men, what he and I disagree on, and how his content changed my life for the better. Caleb has had a huge impact on my own life, particularly with avoiding drama and building an awesome sex life - so being able to interview him here really, really, really meant a lot to me.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/pzvpdcgQskUCaleb's blog: https://calebjones.com/blog/Caleb's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA5YSMWjnHKRIRdZa0_-l4g/videosRead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
10/21/20211 hour, 32 minutes, 51 seconds
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No Porn, No Alcohol, No Video Games, No Caffeine for 1 Year

Giving up my vices for the next 365 days.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5YR5WR7PMJARead the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
10/20/20216 minutes, 39 seconds
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Men Need to Be Honest, Women Need to Leave Shit Relationships (Affection - Jess Day)

Why honesty and just saying what you want like a fucking adult leads to less drama - and why you're a total dipshit if you stay in a bad relationship & act like a victim.Listen to the song (Affection by Jess Day): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tgInq22i9QHonesty is An Ideal You Work Towards: https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/It's "You & Me", not "You vs Me": https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/Why I Advocate Honesty (Why the TRUTH Matters): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QOFkkauXoTUWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
10/18/202128 minutes, 35 seconds
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Normalise Getting Laid by Having Friends who do it too

Make this whole process easier on yourself by not being Mr Lone Wolf.How to Make Friends (including on Bumble): https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
10/14/20219 minutes, 40 seconds
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Money Can't Buy Happiness? (Yes it Can)

Why money absolutely can buy you happiness - IF you spend it on the right things. What are the right things? Listen to the episode to find out.Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw/ Support the show
10/11/202110 minutes, 53 seconds
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We FINGERBLASTED a Tomboy

Imogen and I recently started seeing a total cutie who's an absolute she-demon in bed. Here's how our first rendezvous went.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
10/9/202142 minutes, 37 seconds
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Can REGULAR Guys Have a 3some?

Or, "Why you're a fucking coward pussy bitch if you want a 3some but aren't currently making it happen".Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
10/7/202113 minutes, 38 seconds
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Steel Yourself Against Normie Opinions (FUCK Being Average)

Let's be honest; the average person's opinion isn't worth diddly squat. Here's how to stop being bothered by what normies have to say.How to Make Friends: https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/My Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
10/4/202123 minutes, 27 seconds
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Guy 100 Approaches in a Day, Bangs 5 Girls in 12 Weeks

And now I want you guys to do the same.Read the BEST Tinder guide on the internet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? Let's fucking go:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw  Support the show
10/2/20218 minutes, 46 seconds
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Master Masters His Life

Master joins me again to talk about how much has changed in the last few months since we last saw him - including having sex with another 9 girls, finding a girlfriend, finally feeling happy, becoming a more confident and well-rounded human being, and going for his dream job working at Activision. This man is a beast.Previous episode with Master: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sWUXXIUuSyAHaving 3somes with Girls Your Girlfriend Meets on Tinder: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/89/Greg Doucette: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLqH-U2TXzj1h7lyYQZLNQQRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw Want COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
9/29/20211 hour, 5 minutes, 46 seconds
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Ayahuasca & Tripping Balls in the Jungle

The episode was quite a trip ;)Follow George on Insta: https://www.instagram.com/georgeintothejungle/Go check out George's travel diaries too: https://www.latinamericabackpacking.com/start-here/ Want COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
9/26/20211 hour, 14 minutes, 8 seconds
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Self-Improvement Requires Sacrifices & Takes Time

Something a lot of you need to hear: Reaching any lofty goals requires you to PRIORITIZE, say no to some of the fun stuff in life, and knuckle down for a while and GRIND GRIND GRIND. But holy cow, is it worth it.Want COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw Support the show
9/19/202119 minutes, 53 seconds
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Take Your Shot (Don't Be Perfect)

Why you need to stop asking me to "sign off" on everything, and give yourself permission to make some mistakes.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
9/16/202110 minutes, 5 seconds
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This 65yo Woman is Kicking Ass!

An email I got from a 65yo woman who's made some massive changes including losing 80lbs, changing careers, improving her fashion and exploring BDSM.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
9/11/202111 minutes, 23 seconds
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Guy Gets 10 Lays in 12 Weeks, Plus a Whole Lot More

George is absolutely crushing it, and he's got advice on how you can crush it too.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
9/10/20211 hour, 53 seconds
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How I was Nagged into Becoming an Entrepreneur

I didn't want to start a website, become a coach, start a podcast, or build my forums - thank god you guys nagged me into it.Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw/Support the show
8/23/202112 minutes, 58 seconds
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Day 365: The End. (You're All Awesome)

It's done. Finished. Over. Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/15/20211 hour, 11 minutes, 6 seconds
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Day 364: Most People are Passive in Relationships

And most people seek out complacency and laziness.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/14/202138 minutes, 42 seconds
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Day 363: Three Episodes Left.

Almost done.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/13/202110 minutes, 18 seconds
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Day 362: What I've Learned from Doing Something Every Day

And how you can start your own one-a-day project.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/12/202124 minutes, 50 seconds
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Day 361: I Needed this Email Today.

An absolutely awesome email from a guy with an awesome self-improvement story.Oh No, You've Angered the Gods: https://killyourinnerloser.com/youve-angered-the-gods/ Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/11/202144 minutes, 59 seconds
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Day 360: The One Question That Will Change Your Life

"What Can I Do Right Now?"Look for SOLUTIONS Not Problems: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/47/Take Baby Steps (The Slight Edge): https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edgeWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwSupport the show
8/10/20219 minutes, 41 seconds
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Day 359: Make Your Partner Someone You Can Respect

A philosophy I put together from Jordan Peterson + Mark Manson.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/9/202134 minutes, 17 seconds
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Day 358: Cold Approach - We Answer Your Questions!

Andy's joined by 3 other guys who've gotten laid from cold approach to answer a bunch of your questions!Oh No, You've Angered the Gods: https://killyourinnerloser.com/youve-angered-the-gods/Just Stay Out on the Front Lines: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYgGA7ucw00Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwSupport the show
8/8/20211 hour, 35 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 357: "What Would Andy Do?"

The absolute cheatcode to having more balls and making more moves, and eliminating hesitation.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/7/20217 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 356: What to Expect From Your 1st 3some

How to find 2 girls who are interested, how to start the 3some, what to do during it, and how to deal with possible performance anxiety. Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/6/202118 minutes, 32 seconds
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Day 355: Leave Girls Better than You Found Them

How to improve the lives of girls you date - including casual relationships.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
8/5/202123 minutes, 57 seconds
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Day 354: When I Thought I'd Become Homeless, You Guys Were There For Me

I'm very grateful to: Crisis_Overcomer, Playtimeisover, Gravytrain, Paige, Dan Henry, Joe, George, Ed, RogerRoger and many others.Paige Interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0eHyprjubTERead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/4/202118 minutes, 30 seconds
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Day 353: We All Owe RADICAL a Huge Thanks

The forums wouldn't exist without him.Radical's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCASD1CjHj6-o_3uuOv9K5Ig Interview with Radical about his own self-improvement journey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ktgPx9MSOM My forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/3/202113 minutes, 3 seconds
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Day 352: Shit Day/Week? Rewrite the Story!

Just because the day or week started out bad, doesn't mean you can't turn it into a victory.Imogen's Artwork: https://artwithimmy.com/Ed's interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUcLtSztIgURead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/2/202114 minutes, 7 seconds
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Day 351: Imogen Has Changed My Life

Some thoughts on how having a good woman in your corner can absolutely supercharge your self-improvement.Free Easy Sex Delivered Straight to Your Couch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sy-Q-Uv3HjURead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
8/1/202126 minutes, 51 seconds
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Day 350: 5ft7 Bald Guy Gets Laid & Loses 40lbs in 4 Months?

One of the wildest transformations I've shown so far!Watch the video to see his before/after photos:  https://youtu.be/sWUXXIUuSyAHow to Obsess Over Your Goals: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdsUICC0YXERead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/31/20211 hour, 14 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 349: I Am GRATEFUL to (Almost) All of You

You've had a far greater impact on my life than you could ever imagine.Post your comments about 1 positive change you've made here: https://youtu.be/LO6La7BZ2MgYou Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought: Tinder guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/30/202122 minutes, 22 seconds
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Day 348: Keto/Low Carb Diets MADE EASY

How to easily lose weight and make it through the 1-2 week adjustment period when starting a keto/low-carb diet.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/29/20219 minutes, 53 seconds
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Day 347: My Mate Cucked Some Guy & Fucked His Wife

One of the craziest stories anyone's told on my show.CarnivoreSapien on Twitter: https://twitter.com/carnivoresapienRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/28/202134 minutes, 33 seconds
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Day 346: Are You Afraid of Death?

Why that isn't necessarily a bad thing.How I Overcame My Depression: https://killyourinnerloser.com/depression/Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/27/20219 minutes, 30 seconds
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Day 345: Why You Need to Start Cold Approaching/Daygame

Let's be honest, hitting on girls in person is a helluvalottafun.Tinder Burnout: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rgs-X6lHytsJust Stay out on the Front Lines: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYgGA7ucw00How I Beat My Approach Anxiety: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/26/202119 minutes, 38 seconds
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Day 344: PUAs vs GLL vs TheRedPill vs Andy - Who is Right?

And why the question itself doesn't even matter.This is All Just a Big Experiment: https://killyourinnerloser.com/this-is-all-just-a-big-experiment/Oh No, You've Angered the Gods! https://killyourinnerloser.com/youve-angered-the-gods/Other People Have a Different Rulebook to You: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0XBOVTOrLvIRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/25/202116 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 343: How to Make $600 in a Day FROM SCRATCH (David/GravyTrain)

One man, no phone, no wallet, no tools, and a mission to make $500 in a single day. Let's fucking go.David's RagsToRiches Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7F4zzw02dX0David's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fromthegutter157/ FANTASISE About Your Goals (to Make You Believe They're Possible): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdsUICC0YXEIf You Feel Hopeless and Helpless: https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/-------------Want COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/24/20211 hour, 1 minute, 18 seconds
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Day 342: FAIL = First Attempt In Learning

Failure and mistakes are an INEVITABLE part of self-improvement. Here's why that's a GOOD thing.Give Yourself Permission to Suck: https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/23/20218 minutes, 50 seconds
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Day 341: Having Sex = Problem Solving

How you can overcome a lot of the hurdles that come up when you're trying to bang a girl.Focus on SOLUTIONS, Not Problems: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/47/ It's You and Me, Not You vs Me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/ Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/22/202131 minutes, 32 seconds
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Day 340: Not Everybody Wants Your Mentoring

With each person you try to help, take a step back and ask yourself: "Does this person actually want my help?"Other People Have a Different Rulebook to You: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0XBOVTOrLvIYou Can't Save Everybody:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHZwwijLoac&t=1sWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/21/202113 minutes, 25 seconds
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Day 339: A Radical Transformation (Success Story)

Radical's transformation from guy-with-holes-in-his-shirt to sex god who dresses like someone worth knowing.Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRadical's style guide: https://thehatfish.com/Radical's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCASD1CjHj6-o_3uuOv9K5IgSupport the show
7/20/202129 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 338: Afraid of Putting Your Face Out There?

Why "But muh privacy!" is you just trying to rationalise your own fears.Radical's video on the same topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NFpo0AZUdNMStop Being Ashamed of Your Masculinity: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vc8oCRVQM0cCoaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwSupport the show
7/19/202124 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 337: Stop Being Ashamed of Your Fucking MASCULINITY

Start taking some pride in the fact that you have a cock and balls, you have a sex drive, and you want to get laid.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/18/20217 minutes, 58 seconds
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Day 336: You Don't Have to SUFFER to Reach Your Goals

How I've been making myself suffer - for YEARS - because I wanted validation from you guys.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
7/17/202113 minutes, 28 seconds
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Day 335: 30 Days Until I'm DONE!

My one-podcast-a-day project is almost finished. What direction am I taking the content after that?Radical Improvements: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCASD1CjHj6-o_3uuOv9K5Ig/videosJoe's channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/PassionUnchained/videosRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/16/202111 minutes, 29 seconds
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Day 334: How to Improve Your Looks

And why working on your appearance is absolutely MANDATORY if you want an awesome sex life.How to improve your looks (part of my Tinder guide): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/15/202121 minutes, 9 seconds
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Day 333: Your Tinder Photos SUCK

But here's how you can fix them.Why Your Tinder Photos Suck: https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-your-tinder-pictures-suck/Tinder Photos Inspiration: https://killyourinnerloser.com/inspiration/Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/14/202137 minutes, 21 seconds
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Day 332: Make a Sacrifice for Your Future Self

Future you will thank you.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/13/20215 minutes, 58 seconds
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Day 331: Stop Focusing On Rejection (A Rejection of Your OFFER is Not a Rejection of YOU)

And why you're going to make yourself quit if you keep track of your rejections.GoodLookingLoser articles on why women turn down your offer:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/screening/sexually-unavailable-for-unknown-reasonshttps://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/picking-up-women/a-hardcore-lesson-in-sexual-availabilityRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/12/20219 minutes, 51 seconds
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Day 330: You Will Never Feel Ready

So you've just gotta dive in and do it anyway.Joe's vid: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apms0QFt98wLet's Destroy All Your Limiting Beliefs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCNx7QFxOjQGive Yourself Permission to Suck: https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/My First Tattoo: https://killyourinnerloser.com/andy-gets-a-tattoo/ Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/11/202120 minutes, 46 seconds
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Day 329: You Have Unlimited Tries (Approaching)

Why it doesn't matter whether you pussy out 1 time, 10 times, 100 times or 1,000 times - as long as you just never quit.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/10/20217 minutes, 46 seconds
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Day 328: Easy Free Sex Delivered Straight to Your Couch!

The easiest girl I've ever picked up, and how you can build your own life of easy, free sex.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
7/9/20219 minutes, 48 seconds
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Day 327: Chase Amante from Girls Chase

Chase Amante from GirlsChase/SkillSeducer Forums joins me to talk about why "getting laid" and pickup sites have died over the last 5 years, how he started his website, and how you can make girls chase you.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nsZHxFiEuAgCan't Stop Thinking About Her, Here's Why You Need to Talk to More Girls: https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girlsHow to Get Girls - The Last Post You'll Ever Need:  https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-girls-last-post-youll-ever-needPickup and the Game of Asymmetric Returns: https://www.girlschase.com/content/picking-girls-and-game-asymmetric-returnsChase's forums - SkilledSeducer Forums: https://www.skilledseducer.com/Newbie Assignment (for beating approach anxiety): https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/GirlsChase Quiz: https://girlschase.com/quiz/GirlsChase 1 Date: https://www.girlschase.com/onedateSupport the show
7/8/20211 hour, 2 minutes, 55 seconds
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Day 326: Your Desires are Fucking Sacred (Haley Helveston)

And why you should know your worth, then add tax.Haley's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCU49NnKO6nEAO226_Z2kdIQ/videosMy interview with Haley: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NpgGbboJ3s  PlaytimeIsOver Interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2MpSjd90KzYNo More Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyWhen I Say No, I Feel Guilty: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guiltySupport the show
7/7/202130 minutes
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Day 325: There is Always SOMETHING You Can Do

Why making excuses and being passive doesn't get you anywhere - and how to break out of hopelessness.What to do When You Feel Hopeless and Helpless: https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/Previous episode covering the same topic: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/171/Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/6/202121 minutes, 59 seconds
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Day 324: The Stripper/Entrepreneur Who Made Me Rich (Paige Cole)

Stripper, Entrepreneur, coach, author, and all-round badass human being. Oh, and she's got the booty to match.Paige's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.paige.cole/Paige's coaching: https://msha.ke/the.paige.cole/Her favourite 2 podcast episodes: The Game: Stripping | The Rules: The 12 Laws Of The Universe: https://thepaigecoleshow.libsyn.com/56-the-game-stripping-the-rules-the-12-laws-of-the-universeBig Dick Energy: https://thepaigecoleshow.libsyn.com/51-big-dick-energyThe podcast episode that changed my own views on money: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sCzVZXJA_MSupport the show
7/5/202150 minutes, 27 seconds
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Day 323: Learn to Receive (Haley Helveston)

And why you need to start saying NO to things.Haley's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCU49NnKO6nEAO226_Z2kdIQ/videosMy interview with Haley: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NpgGbboJ3s  This is All Just a Big Experiment: https://killyourinnerloser.com/this-is-all-just-a-big-experiment/You Should Be Better Than Your Idols: https://killyourinnerloser.com/idols/Talk About What You HAVE Done: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/32/No More Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyWhen I Say No, I Feel Guilty: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guiltySupport the show
7/4/202123 minutes, 46 seconds
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Day 322: Your Life is a Reflection of Your Beliefs (Haley Helveston)

As well as why you're allowed to have everything you want.Haley's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCU49NnKO6nEAO226_Z2kdIQ/videosMy interview with Haley: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NpgGbboJ3sIf You Don't Take Yourself Seriously: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/126/No More Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyWhen I Say No, I Feel Guilty: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guiltyYou Get What You Subconsciously Believe: https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-get-what-you-subconsciously-believe/Interview with Ed (5ft6 guy who gets laid): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUcLtSztIgUSelf-Sabotage/Self-Fulfilling Prophecies: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/133/Support the show
7/3/202120 minutes, 12 seconds
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Day 321: SeniorPeppers Wants You to GET LAID

I ask a guy who's had 100+ lays about his epic fat loss journey, how he overcame his fears and learned to hit on girls, and what advice he has for those of you who want to follow in his footsteps.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r27OC9P4jkoRedShirt Year: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/shut-your-mouth-rookie-redshirt-yearRelax, You'll Eventually Get Pussy: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/picking-up-women/relax-youll-eventually-get-pussyMy alpha male parody article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/keno-and-escalation-during-the-corona-crisis/Interview with ThePhoenix (the blind guy): https://theinnerwinnershow.com/79/Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/2/20211 hour, 17 minutes, 20 seconds
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Day 320: How I Discovered Sex & Porn

Anyone else use to fantasise over the stripper chicks in Duke Nukem 3D, or was that just me?Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
7/1/202114 minutes, 21 seconds
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Day 319: How to Talk Dirty During Sex

And why it's weird as hell that nobody talks in porn...Haley from Your Guide to Love: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NpgGbboJ3sRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/30/202111 minutes, 45 seconds
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Day 318: How I Lost My Virginity

The horrorshow of my first time - and Imogen's first time wasn't much better.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/29/202111 minutes, 55 seconds
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Day 317: Blindfolds & Sensory Deprivation

Why blindfolds are the cheat code if you suffer from performance anxiety/ED.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, legendary results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/28/20219 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 316: Just Stay Out on the Front Lines (Cold Approach)

As long as you go outside with the intent to talk to girls - and stay out for as long as you can each day - that's a win.My coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwSupport the show
6/27/20215 minutes, 32 seconds
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Day 315: Andy's Guide to Tattoos

Everything you could ever want to know about tattoos, from how to pick a design, choosing an artist, how to ensure you'll get a tattoo you'll love forever, how to make sure your tattoo is meaningful, and the most-asked question of all: Does it hurt?Watch this episode on YouTube so you can see my tattoos: https://youtu.be/ZpE-beX6ZacInterview with GravyTrain about tattoos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_p7-H0jgZkRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? I offer group coaching, and more hardcore 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/26/202134 minutes, 16 seconds
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Day 314: My Most Cringeworthy Date Story

Yeah, this was kinda bad.Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/25/202114 minutes, 42 seconds
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Day 313: Approach Anxiety comes in Many Forms

Approach anxiety can be like a hydra at times - cut one head off, and another grows back in its place...PlaytimeIsOver Infield Approach Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2MpSjd90KzYRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/24/202112 minutes, 16 seconds
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Day 312: Fat Acceptance & Enjoy the Decline

Are women becoming undateable and is society falling apart at the seams?You’re not Obligated to Have Sex with Someone: https://killyourinnerloser.com/not-obligated/Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/23/202113 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 311: Lowering Your Standards Means Lowering the FLOOR, Not the Ceiling

Keeping a more open mind and dating "average"-looking girls doesn't mean you can't also hit on superhotties.The Ebb and Flow of Your Standards: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/152/Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/22/20214 minutes, 2 seconds
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Day 310: Insecurity as an Older Guy

Worried younger women won't like you, or that you'll be creepy for dating them? Listen to this.Worried About Missing Out on your 20's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCK165qOC5Q7 Reasons to Date Younger Women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFD0AeDytRYRead my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/21/202122 minutes, 59 seconds
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Day 309: Longterm Relationship Just Ended? Here's What to Do.

How to move on and find happiness again when a serious relationship ends.How to be Happy (The Meaning of Life): https://theinnerwinnershow.com/38/My Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/The Slight Edge: https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Read my epic 5-part Get Laid on Tinder series (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/20/202117 minutes, 1 second
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Day 308: Advice I'd Give My Dipshit Younger Self

Let's be honest - all of us were dipshits when we were younger. Here's what I wish I'd known back then.Meetup.com (where I made most of my friends): https://meetup.com Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/19/202137 minutes, 51 seconds
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Day 307: "YOU are a Dealbreaker"

One of the dumbest dates I've ever had...My YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/RygJdPQHRoIRead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/18/20217 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 306: Insecure About Having 3somes?

Most guys are - I certainly was.Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/17/202122 minutes, 6 seconds
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Day 305: The Only 4 Questions that Matter for ALL Relationships

Are you happy? Is the other person happy? Are they a net positive on your life; and are you a net positive on theirs?Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/16/202110 minutes, 13 seconds
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Day 304: Why is Imogen with ANDY?

And other miscellaneous questions science has yet to answer.Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards: https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/Weekly Accountability Check-ins: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/40/Imogen's Art: https://artwithimmy.com/Want COACHING with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? 2 options:1) Group coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) 1-on-1 coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/15/202133 minutes, 8 seconds
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Day 303: Why We're Not POLYAMOROUS

Why we don't use labels like "non-monogamy", "polyamory", etc.My Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserRead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life?2 options:1) Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/14/202116 minutes, 54 seconds
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Day 302: Immy Gets Her Face Abused (& Answers Your Questions)

And what a wonderful job I did.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6QeWlFs69qwRead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life?2 options:1) Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/13/202131 minutes, 27 seconds
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Day 301: Answering Your Dumbass Questions Whilst Getting My Dumbass Face Painted

A bunch of you asked me some silly/not-so-silly questions, so I answered them while my girlfriend painted my face.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHC7xW0dy7ERead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life?2 options:1) Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/12/20211 hour, 1 minute, 30 seconds
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Day 300: 29yo Virgin Loses it by Seeing an Escort?

"It'll take my 7 months to lose my virginity" turns into "Holy shit, I did it in 4 days". But is using an escort "cheating"?Want coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life? Apply here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Interview with Ed, the 31yo virgin who lost it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUcLtSztIgU&list=PL3Y4HSBEVry7c3mVx6iBLZlrAJ3cVkv-w&index=2I Am Always Full of Doubt: https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubt/You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryI'll Crush Your Limiting Beliefs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCNx7QFxOjQEscort Georgie Wolf Interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKZw8hW-QDsMy epic Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwSupport the show
6/11/20211 hour, 14 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 299: We Had Sex with a LESBIAN Virgin

And it took about 15 seconds to have her on the edge of orgasm.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2JIlXY7ZLQwRead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life?2 options:1) Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/10/202128 minutes, 15 seconds
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Day 298: This Guy Tried Being HONEST with a Woman...

Guess how she responded...Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life?2 options:1) Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/9/202130 minutes, 10 seconds
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Day 297: The Plight of the Aimless Waiter

What are you waiting for? What are you so afraid of?Radical's original video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Caqf5_o9YUsThe Plight of the Lonesome Bodybuilder: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/plight-of-the-lonesome-bodybuilder-part-1Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life?2 options:1) Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/2) Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/8/20215 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 296: "Now's Not the Right Time, I'll do it Later"

Why waiting until you've "taken a bit more action" before taking the help you need is you holding yourself back & delaying your own success.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iDtOTenerDwWant coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life?2 options:1) Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/ 2) Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
6/7/202119 minutes, 6 seconds
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Day 295: Infield: PlaytimeIsOver Hits on 27 Girls

NOTE: I really REALLY recommend you watch the video for this episode, and NOT just listen to the audio: https://youtu.be/2MpSjd90KzY"It's going to take me 5 to 9 months to start hitting on girls" turns to "Holy shit I just hit on 27 girls and got a couple of dates in just a few days". Here's how we made it happen.Want coaching like PlaytimeIsOver had with me?2 options:Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwHow I beat my own approach anxiety & learned to hit on girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/Support the show
6/6/202133 minutes, 4 seconds
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Day 294: Approaching with a WINGMAN (Is it Cheating?)

Why playing on nightmare mode is retarded, & why taking a mate out with you to talk to girls can make all this a LOT easier (and a lot more FUN).Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching & a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwTopics covered:About 40 or so percent of my approaches were with a friend, just walking around talking to girls casually if we saw anyone we likedPeople worry about it being a crutchWhen you build an awesome sex life, or find a kickass girlfriend, do you really think you'll give a shit that you had to use some "crutches"?I care about RESULTS, about you becoming the person you want to be. I don't give a shit how you get there (as long as you're not hurting anyone or hurting yourself, obviously)Stop obsessing about the METHOD, & start obsessing about the GOAL or the END RESULTApproaching with a friend or wingman makes this stuff 100 times easier.It's more social - you feel a little less weird being by yourself walking aroundYou can push each other, especially if one of you is lacking motivation.You can tell your friend beforehand what you need from him - eg I'd often say "Today can you make me talk to 5 girls" & my mates would make me do it.When you're feeling the anxiety, the nervousness, you have your mate there to make you do it & talk you into it.Fun things to do:10 min stopwatch, both gotta talk to a girl eachCan't talk til both talk to a girlBoth walk around,just have a chill day talking to each other, occasionally talk to girlsTake turns talking to girls - you talk to one, then your mate, then you again, then your mate, etcGo out with a group of guys, & just go off talking to girls individuallyYou can also talk to girls TOGETHER (as in, 2 of you talk to a pair of girls).You can point out girls you know the other person will like (over time you'll learn each other's "type")You can then hit on EACH OTHER's type (you hit on his type of girl, he hits on yours). That makes you a lot more open minded, hitting on girls you wouldn't normally talk to.You can try each other's styles - it's likely you'll both have different styles of talking to girls, you'll probably say different things, etc. Do each other's styles.One of my mates always walked up & just said "Hey, you single?" So I did that for a while.I liked to walk up to girls & say "Hey!" with a HUGE smile on my face, & just grin at them for like 10 seconds until they started grinning back, then I'd say "What are you smiling at? Why are you so happy?" & they'd laugh. My mate did that for a while to try it.Give each other challenges, like silly things to say to girls, etc.Yes to some extent you want to remember that you're HITTING ON GIRLS not just saying silly things to make them laugh - but you can do BOTH. A bit of humour thrown in there makes this fun, it makes girls laugh, & reminds you this is all meant to be fun.Just make sure you still ask for phone numbers & tell the girl she's cute/hot/attractive/sexy/pretty whatever you want to say. Make it clear you're HITTING ON HER, not just maSupport the show
6/5/202125 minutes, 52 seconds
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Day 293: But What If She Gets FEELINGS For Me? (Casual Relationships)

How to be honest and upfront about what you want from a casual relationship, so the scary question of "What if she gets too attached to me??" doesn't even come up.Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/4/202138 minutes, 17 seconds
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Day 292: COMPLACENCY: The Reason Your Relationship is Failing

Why you and your girl both need to build your OWN separate lives if you want a successful relationship.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/j_xXaORGFVERead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/ Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw Support the show
6/3/202133 minutes, 2 seconds
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Day 291: This Guy Hit on His First Girl Ever

Super proud of one of my coaching clients who put himself out there and hit on his first girl ever. Also, I got a tattoo.Watch this ep on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ltx-iXRAOugRead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
6/2/202133 minutes, 17 seconds
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Day 290: It's My Birthday, So Let's DESTROY All Your Limiting Beliefs

You will almost NEVER feel like you can achieve something, until you're halfway to victory. Here's how to not let your limiting beliefs stop you from getting started.Group coaching + daily access to me to ask me questions and get support with your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/1-on-1 coaching with me, let's kick some serious ass together: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwSupport the show
6/1/202129 minutes, 38 seconds
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Day 289: I Just Got Stood Up :(

Yep, getting stood up happens to us all. The answer? Have a backup plan.Group coaching + daily access to me to ask me questions and get support with your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/1-on-1 coaching with me, let's kick some serious ass together: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwSupport the show
5/31/20219 minutes, 3 seconds
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Day 288: Send a Goddamn Confirmation Text!

The best way to cut down on flakes and being stood up.Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
5/30/20219 minutes, 43 seconds
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Day 287: Do Girls HATE When You have Other Girls on Your Tinder Profile?

And why you should never ask a fish how to catch a fish.Read my FREE 130,000 word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/   Support the show
5/29/20216 minutes, 39 seconds
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Day 286: Rejection Fucking SUCKS. (How to Deal with Rejection)

Rejection hurts, I'm not going to tell you it doesn't. Here's what to do about it.Read my FREE 130,000 word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
5/28/202114 minutes, 8 seconds
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Day 285: Insta/Snapchat in a Girl's Tinder Bio - Dealbreaker?

Is it possible to have sex with girls who spam their Instagram/Snapchat in their Tinder bio, or are they just timewasters?Read my FREE 130,000 word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
5/27/20216 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 284: I Never Thought I'd Meet Women After Going Bald.

If you've been struggling with your own hair loss - or fear of potential hair loss - listen to this episode.Read my FREE 130,000 word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwRadical's video on his own hair loss journey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVhGGk601ugBald Cafe: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwBM95HF8Wjnf36i86w3ZQgMy Group Coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwMy Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Support the show
5/26/202126 minutes, 2 seconds
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Day 283: Get the Most out of Your Mentors & Stop Half-Assing Everything.

Why it's not up to your coach to change your life - it's up to YOU to be a good student. My group coaching - the Become a Winner Coaching Program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/ My 1-on-1 coaching (only if you're 100% serious & ready to go all-in): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRadical Improvements: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCASD1CjHj6-o_3uuOv9K5IgSupport the show
5/25/202127 minutes, 36 seconds
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Day 282: Girls Who SHUT THEIR MOUTH are HOT AS HELL ;)

My god that's a clickbait title. And you fucking love it.Read my FREE 130,000 word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
5/24/20214 minutes, 2 seconds
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Day 281: How to Have Sex on the FIRST Date

3 tips on banging cute chickies the first time you meet them.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2nv6THkxy0gWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/ Support the show
5/23/202110 minutes, 33 seconds
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Day 280: Making (MALE) Friends on Bumble?

A hack for making friends and building an awesome social circle.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7GgcctWxns0Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/ Support the show
5/22/20217 minutes, 10 seconds
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Day 279: Go Get a Massage and Be a Self Indulgent Twat

Here's one thing we guys absolutely SUCK at: Doing something truly self-indulgent once in a while. Let's change that.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/IvmFWd8DJuEWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/ Support the show
5/21/202111 minutes, 6 seconds
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Day 278: Feel Like You Missed Out on Your 20s?

Here's a topic that's extremely close to my heart - guys in their late 20's or 30's feeling like it's "too late" for them, feeling like they'll never get laid, feeling like that ship has sailed. You're gonna want to hear this one.Watch this episode on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCK165qOC5Q Coaching with me: Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - The Winners Club:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
5/20/202118 minutes, 16 seconds
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Day 277: Short Guys Will NEVER Get Girls???

A must-listen for those of you who are shorter, this is the most comprehensive answer I've ever given to the complaint, "I can't get laid because I'm short".Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/0e0qwPftuCMHeight-increasing shoes: https://kyil-extra.com/increase-your-height/How Ed Gets Lost his Virginity as a Shorter Guy Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUcLtSztIgUPart 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2arAXIw3MXgA 5ft1 Guy Who Gets Laid More than You: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/fundamentals/looks-and-style/short-guy-gets-laidWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - The Winners Club:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
5/19/202130 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 276: STOP Suppressing Your Emotions! They're Trying to TELL You Something.

I see too many of you thinking you're a giant pussy if you ever feel too angry, or get down, or have a week where you're sad, or get butthurt over a girl rejecting you. Here's what to do instead.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6DOYtSGMMkMWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - The Winners Club:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Want my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in and are ready to invest in yourself? Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
5/18/202121 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 275: Want SERIOUS Weight Loss Motivation? WATCH THIS. (Joe's Weightloss)

Some EPIC weight loss motivation from the legendary Joe!Watch this on YouTube (this episode won't make sense unless you watch it on YouTube): https://youtu.be/42hOWqZW1VkJoe's YouTube - Passion Unchained: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCF6ZPFyk4I70gqtfff5kHLQ/videosMy Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/AWorkoutRoutine.com's beginner workout routine: https://www.aworkoutroutine.com/the-beginner-weight-training-workout-routine/Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - The Winners Club:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
5/17/202117 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 274: How to Hit on Girls at the Gym

It's nowhere near as scary as some of you think it is, I promise.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/aY7Bgxt4uWE Oh, what's that? You want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - The Winners Club. Join us here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/If you want more intense coaching (1-on-1 with me) and are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in and are ready to invest in yourself, apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwSupport the show
5/16/202124 minutes, 50 seconds
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Day 273: Having a BAD Day? 80% is Still Good Enough.

Your life is never going to be 100% perfect, and you can't sit around waiting for "the right moment" to work on your goals. Here's what to do instead.Watch this on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/e3zfwFCe_8MOh, so you want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - The Winners Club. Join us here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
5/15/202122 minutes, 10 seconds
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Day 272: I'm All-in Now.

I'm upgrading my life. Let's fucking go.Upgrade yours too - message me for coaching and I'll get you the life you want, no fucking around: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactSupport the show
5/14/202112 minutes, 43 seconds
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Day 271: My Listeners Are INSANE!

An absolutely crazy story from one of my listeners, Ivan, who came on to talk about a *very* bad trip he had while taking way too many magic mushrooms and then walking down the middle of a busy road...Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/05RNa_mhPb4Ivan's Twitch (go check him out!) https://www.twitch.tv/dizaaltWant ongoing accountability and motivation from me, as well as daily access to my coaching? Come join The Winners Club: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
5/13/202155 minutes, 28 seconds
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Day 270: REAL Sex Isn't Always Smooth

How to get out of your own head and stop STRESSING about whether or not you're doing a good job in the bedroom - as well as why porn is weird as hell and nothing like actual sex.Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/3av55ojaMqcCoaching calls: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact Interview with Ed about framing sexual inexperience as a POSITIVE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUcLtSztIgU&list=PL3Y4HSBEVry7c3mVx6iBLZlrAJ3cVkv-w&index=1 Support the show
5/12/202128 minutes, 47 seconds
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Day 269: I Don't Feel Great, Guys.

I've been feeling a bit down the last few days - long story. But I sat down to do a podcast anyway, and what resulted was me pouring out a lot of stuff I've been through over the last few years, my story in building up this site/my coaching, and how fucking grateful I am to all of you for giving a shit about me & what I have to say.My forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactThe Winners Club: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/And again, I'm really grateful for you.-AndySupport the show
5/11/202119 minutes, 47 seconds
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Day 268: Women Are Not. Fucking. Mysterious.

And perpetuating this myth leads to you only ending up with low-quality women.Watch this episode on YouTubes: https://youtu.be/st7NP5tLYaU How to Have Rollercoaster Sex: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/168/Support the show
5/10/202121 minutes
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Day 267: My Approach Anxiety is Toast!

A killer interview with Devin - who goes by the name Toast on my forums - who recently completed the Approach Anxiety Program. We talk about how it changed his life, and more importantly, how you can get started with talking to girls yourself.Watch this episode on the YouTubes: Devin's Etsy store (go check his stuff out, it's pretty cool): https://www.etsy.com/shop/BeheritMiniaturesApproach Anxiety Program: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1Fantasise about your goals to make them think they're possible: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdsUICC0YXEInterview with Brandon who also finished the Approach Anxiety Program: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sipj01DTWw4Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactSupport the show
5/9/20211 hour, 26 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 266: DON'T Punish Girls for Bad Behaviour

And why it only leads to resentment - for you and for her.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/87Zn_xfMmdEThe Meaning of Life and How to Be Happy: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/38/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
5/8/202125 minutes, 3 seconds
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Day 265: STOP APOLOGISING for Your Desires as a Man!

You have a cock and balls hanging between your legs. Stop trying to hide them.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3E3WwjbCBssThere is No Such Thing as Alpha: https://killyourinnerloser.com/alpha/Support the show
5/7/202124 minutes, 35 seconds
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Day 264: The Girl Who Made Me Stop Hating Women

Despite my best efforts, I couldn't keep hating women forever... especially not with a girl like this in my life.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/m059BPpwq30Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactApproach anxiety program: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1Support the show
5/6/202127 minutes, 56 seconds
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Day 263: My First Ever Cold Approach Lays

Reminiscing about the first 3 girls I met through cold approach, and how each of them improved my life (and my confidence).Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactSupport the show
5/5/202131 minutes, 17 seconds
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Day 262: You've Gotta Love Yourself (Haley Helveston)

The legendary Haley Helveston from Your Guide to Love joins me to talk about sex, self-improvement, why sacrifice doesn't automatically entitle you to a pat on the back and why having sex with yourself is fun as hell.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/0NpgGbboJ3sHayley's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haley.helveston/A few episodes of hers I highly recommend:  1. Are Men Really Sexually Selfish? https://youtu.be/7o2kTb_grYY 2. Power of Semen Retention: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ChITnj0r99I3. Connection Between Sex and Money: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sCzVZXJA_M4. How to Have a Cervical Orgasm: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K1NqzfYyAw0Haley's post about losing weight and quitting her corporate job: https://www.instagram.com/p/CHgCvjbn3In/Two websites which have "normal" pornography (I can't link directly to them on YouTube/Spotify/etc):- Make Love Not Porn- Abby WintersThe legendary Haley Helveston from Your Guide to Love joins me to talk about sex, self-improvement, why sacrifice doesn't automatically entitle you to a pat on the back and why having sex with yourself is fun as hell.Hayley's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haley.helveston/A few episodes of hers I highly recommend:  1. Are Men Really Sexually Selfish? https://youtu.be/7o2kTb_grYY 2. Power of Semen Retention: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ChITnj0r99I3. Connection Between Sex and Money: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sCzVZXJA_M4. How to Have a Cervical Orgasm: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K1NqzfYyAw0Haley's post about losing weight and quitting her corporate job: https://www.instagram.com/p/CHgCvjbn3In/Two websites which have "normal" pornography (I can't link directly to them on YouTube/Spotify/etc): - Make Love Not Porn - Abby WintersSupport the show
5/4/20211 hour, 13 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 261: You Can't Save Everybody.

As much as your ego hates to hear this, some people just aren't ready to be helped.Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHZwwijLoacCoaching with me (only if you're serious about kicking ass):  https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactThe Winners Club (Facebook group for access to me): https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
5/3/202117 minutes, 47 seconds
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Day 260: Frustrated By No Results? (Tinder Burnout)

Feeling frustrated and annoyed by your lack of results on Tinder? Don't stress, I've got the solution.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Rgs-X6lHytsApproach Anxiety Program: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactSupport the show
5/2/202121 minutes, 56 seconds
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Day 259: Just Because I Give You Permission to Suck, Doesn't Mean You Have to Take Me Up on it

Yes, it's ok to suck at the start. But you're also allowed to push yourself not to suck.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_MoBhJ9CbKkTake MASSIVE Action: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/67/If You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to? https://theinnerwinnershow.com/126/Give Yourself Permission to Suck: http://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suckSupport the show
5/1/20214 minutes, 27 seconds
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Day 258: Dates While Sober???

I'm gonna blow your mind here: Yes, it's ok to have dates without drinking, and yes, it's ok to go on dates during the daytime.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PvuZZkPGYXQPatreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
4/30/20219 minutes, 25 seconds
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Day 257: The EASIEST Approach Technique Ever

"Hey, you're cute. I'm Andy. I'm in a rush, but lemme get your number and we'll grab a drink".Easy.Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dfXBzM0CkhsPatreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
4/29/20215 minutes, 22 seconds
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Day 256: I Hit My Goal 9 MONTHS EARLY.. Now What?

What to do when you achieve a goal much earlier than you thought you would.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Gos6OGwrNhkWant ongoing accountability and daily coaching from me, a support network of like-minded guys and daily feedback on your self-improvement journey? Join my private group The Winners Club for all this and more - I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and make you successful:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
4/28/202118 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 255: 31yo LOSES VIRGINITY & Beats ED (Ed's Story) [Part 2/2]

Part 2 of the legendary Ed interview. This time we tackle how he conquered his performance anxiety and finally lost his virginity, some tricks you can use too if you're nervous in the bedroom, and why giving up on his penis led to freedom.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2arAXIw3MXgPart 1 was here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/8339692If you want me to help you too, hit me up for coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactThe Magic Wand vibrator we both referred to: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfw17 Reasons to Date Younger Women: https://killyourinnerloser.com/reasons-date-younger-women/Support the show
4/27/202148 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 254: 31yo LOSES VIRGINITY & Beats ED (Ed's Story) [Part 1/2]

You're going to love this MUST LISTEN success story from one of my long-time clients, Ed, who went from being a 31 year depressed virgin to an ass-kicking machine who's slept with 12 women so far, overcome his approach anxiety and even started taking photos with models for his Tinder photos.And for all those guys out there who complain about, "I'm short, so it's impossible for me to get laid" - Ed is 5ft6. He's the definition of "No more excuses".Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/BUcLtSztIgUIf you want me to help you too, hit me up for coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactThe Magic Wand vibrator we both referred to: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfw17 Reasons to Date Younger Women: https://killyourinnerloser.com/reasons-date-younger-women/Support the show
4/26/202142 minutes, 39 seconds
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Day 253: ESCORT Georgie Wolf Tells All

The much-anticipated proper interview with escort, sex educator and podcaster Georgie Wolf! We talk about what she loves about being an escort, her wildest stories (including an 80 year old who, and I quote, "Fucked my brains out"), some misconceptions about sex workers and why Andy is a big pussy who's scared of choking girls.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/HKZw8hW-QDs Her podcast episode titled "Why I Love Guys Who Can't Get it Up": https://www.artofthehookup.com/podcast-episode-24-why-i-love-guys-who-cant-get-it-up/Ask Georgie your escort questions: www.aboutescorts.infoGeorgie's book: https://www.artofthehookup.com/about-the-book/Georgie's articles: https://www.artofthehookup.com/blog/The previous podcast I did with Georgie: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/8280704Support the show
4/25/20211 hour, 28 minutes, 20 seconds
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Day 252: "I Cheated on My Girlfriend - How Do I Tell Her?"

A pretty deep discussion with a listener about cheating, coming clean, ethics and morality, philosophy and whether you can be ok with keeping a huge secret for the rest of your life.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/1Po5bD_QFS0 Why I Advocate Honesty (Why the Truth Matters): https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-i-advocate-honesty-why-the-truth-matters/Support the show
4/24/20211 hour, 51 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 251: This Email Made My Day.

An inspiring interview I did with a guy named Andy from Finland about all the changes he's made in his life. It stemmed from a 6-page letter he sent me, on a day when I really wasn't feeling so great myself...Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/GVjGt8szZukTalk About What You HAVE Done (Not What You Will Do): https://theinnerwinnershow.com/32/Why Obsession is MANDATORY: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/54/How You Can Motivate Others, Even as a Newbie: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/151/Message me if you need coaching/counselling: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactSupport the show
4/23/20211 hour, 48 minutes, 53 seconds
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Day 250: Joe & Andy Don't Wanna Be Fuckboys

A kickass chat with Joe from Passion Unchained about dealing with childhood trauma, not getting attached to girls too quickly, and not being so much of a fuckboy.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jXHh9A5Ui7QJoe's channel Passion Unchained: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCF6ZPFyk4I70gqtfff5kHLQ/videosHow to Not Send Butthurt Texts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOolQpb4o7UThe Winners Club: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Where you can buy the stupid shirt: https://www.redbubble.com/i/t-shirt/This-Guy-Fucks-v2-by-stephenfagg1991/53549372.IJ6L0.XYZSupport the show
4/22/20211 hour, 6 minutes, 14 seconds
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Day 249: Georgie Wolf & Andy on GETTING LAID

A quick chat that was never meant to be a podcast, but was too good not to share.I'm doing a proper interview with Georgie in a week, so stay tuned.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hP_HaR1kfOwIn the meantime, check out her podcast The Art of the Hook Up here: https://www.artofthehookup.com/podcast/Support the show
4/21/202132 minutes, 4 seconds
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Day 248: "APPROACHING GIRLS Changed My Life!"

Brandon from my forums joins me to talk about how the AA Program changed both our lives, the wildest (and funniest) memories we made along the way, and advice for people thinking of doing it themselves.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Sipj01DTWw4Approach Anxiety Program: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1Brandon's log kept during the program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=42&t=40My own journal I kept during the program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/Brandon is in The Winners Club, club say hi to him and I and the other guys (daily access to me + ongoing accountability): https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Banana Girl: https://killyourinnerloser.com/offbeat-the-girl-who-knew-nothing-about-sex/Support the show
4/20/20211 hour, 46 minutes
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Day 247: Don't Accept Other People's Rules

Why you'll be infinitely happier - and more sovereign - when you do what YOU want to do, and not what others try to manipulate you into doing.Message me if you need coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingHow I Found Freedom in an Unfree World: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#how-i-found-freedom-in-an-unfree-world-a-handbook-for-personal-liberty Jocko Willink - Extreme Ownership: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#jocko-willinkOther People Have a Different Rulebook to You: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0XBOVTOrLvISupport the show
4/19/202128 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 246: Guys, We All Need to Stop Raping.

Quote: "The aim of '10 Top Tips' was to reverse the popular trend of focusing rape prevention messages on women and instead transfer these towards more appropriate recipients - potential perpetrators."Read the ridiculous article I mentioned (on this page, click "posters")https://www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk/resources/rcstoptenposta4fin.pdfMore info on the campaign:https://www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk/campaigns-top-tips/The Winners Club (daily access to me as your mentor + weekly livestream Q&As):https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
4/18/202143 minutes, 13 seconds
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Day 245: How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story)

*** Resources Mentioned: https://killyourinnerloser.com/depression(All the resources mentioned are listed in that article)00:00 Intro00:25 Chapter 1 - Despair35:27 Chapter 2 - Optimism59:35 Chapter 3 - Hope1:02:01 Start Small1:05:58 You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought1:07:19 My Other Resources1:09:43 Focus on the Positive / Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT)1:12:01 Making Friends/Having a Support Network1:14:36 Medication1:15:50 Counselling1:18:51 Final ThoughtsIf you feel like you'd benefit from my counselling/coaching, contact me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactThe Winners Club (my support group I mentioned): https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-clubMy Forums (the guys on there are INCREDIBLY supportive and will help you pull yourself out of your depression): https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsSupport the show
4/17/20211 hour, 19 minutes, 57 seconds
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Day 244: Find Girls at YOUR Experience Level

Wanna find out how much sexual experience a girl has had? Here's how.Want to ask me questions and have me record an entire podcast episode just for you? Join my Patreon and get exclusive content, early access to all my podcasts WEEKS before anyone else, and much more: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
4/16/202149 minutes, 14 seconds
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Day 243: Stop Being NEEDY (Andy Reacts)

Alternative title: Why Leaving Girls Better than You Found Them Benefits YOU.Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HV2wmIxC2EU Previous reacts episode: http://theinnerwinnershow.com/242How to Develop a Sense of Humour: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/72/How to Give Her Rollercoaster Sex: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/168/Fantasise About Your Goals (to Make You Believe They’re Possible): https://theinnerwinnershow.com/209/Nice Guy episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/8170190Take MASSIVE Action: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/67/The Slight Edge (how I achieved all my goals): https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Support the show
4/15/202129 minutes
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Day 242: Some Women Will Give You a Blowjob, but Won't Kiss You (Andy Reacts)

Alternative title: The Hotter She is, the More Mentally Fucked Up She'll Be?Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/HV2wmIxC2EU It's Not About the Nail: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg Previous episode: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/234Support the show
4/14/202126 minutes, 56 seconds
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Day 241: Andy Has Nice Guy Syndrome?

Well, actually I have "Decent Guy Syndrome", so let's talk about why that's better than being a Nice Guy™.No More Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyWhen I Say No, I Feel Guilty: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guiltySupport the show
4/13/202128 minutes, 30 seconds
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Day 240: What Do YOU Have to Offer?

A fun exercise to figure out what you're bringing to the table, and what will keep girls coming back for more.Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/qaAhcBnZxoYSupport the show
4/12/202128 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 239: How to be Vulnerable But MASCULINE

Yep, you can be honest and open, whilst still retaining your masculinity and having women (and men) respect you. Here's how.Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/I-5ida1NfVs The Winners Club: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/There is No Such Thing as Alpha: https://killyourinnerloser.com/alpha/Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards: https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/Support the show
4/11/202125 minutes, 57 seconds
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Day 238: 5 Reasons You Can't Improve

The 5 biggest mistakes guys make with getting girls & self-improvement in general.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Zr0Vzjfl3CYHow I Beat My Approach Anxiety: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/If you need help, message me for coaching or counselling: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactJoin The Winners Club (daily support from me + a group of like minded guys): https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
4/10/202123 minutes, 50 seconds
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Day 237: Interview with a UNICORN (3somes) [Part 3/3]

The finale of our 3-part epic saga with a unicorn. Who will emerge victorious? Who will reign supreme? Find out on the next episode of UNICORN HUNTER. [Part 3 of 3].Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/kG9d_b70pNE Part 2 was here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/8168718Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
4/9/202127 minutes, 35 seconds
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Day 236: Interview with a UNICORN (3somes) [Part 2/3]

Round 2 of our interview with one of the girls we're seeing. We cover the big questions - does erectile dysfunction matter, and do girls care if you don't shoot a lot of cum? [Part 2 of 3].Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JsiFqEShknU Part 1 was here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/8163639Looking for coaching to get your dating life on track? Contact me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactSupport the show
4/8/202127 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 235: Interview with a UNICORN (3somes) [Part 1/3]

Andy and Imogen interview a girl they're sleeping with about 3somes, BDSM, what it's like dating a couple and who's better in bed - men or women? [Part 1/3]Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/f2rSl8ILk6YSupport the show
4/7/202125 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 234: DO NOT Be Her Reason to Live (Andy Reacts)

And why training makes you "good"...Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SHdo4tMsxasPrevious reacts video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-PGe5jP968oSupport me on Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
4/6/202129 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 233: Lockdowns are Over... Time to GET LAID.

You've been a pussy during lockdowns, and you've made excuses. Let's fix that, starting right now.Watch this on Youtube: https://youtu.be/Q-0tY0kTxXoContact me for coaching if you need help getting back on track (I promise I'll be a lot nicer to you than I was in this podcast): https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact124 Approaches in a Day: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/75/My own lockdown depression and feeling suicidal: https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-covid-depression/Why SOMETHING is Better than Nothing: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7230091Support the show
4/5/202114 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 232: DON'T Make Girls Happy (Andy Reacts)

And why you don't need to be Mr Social Butterfly in order to get laid.Watch this on Youtube: https://youtu.be/-PGe5jP968oPrevious episode covering the same Instagram account: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2O_iJa8XGEApproach Anxiety Program: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1How I Beat My Approach Anxiety: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/Support the show
4/4/202128 minutes, 12 seconds
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Day 231: Andy & Immy REACT to their 1st Podcast

Yeah, our first few episodes were pretty cringe.Watch this on Youtube: https://youtu.be/uIjVZY-JhzsOur previous reacts video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hcPmUJsQgvcEpisode 1 of the podcast: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/1Episode 2: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/2Give Yourself Permission to Suck: https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suckSupport the show
4/3/202128 minutes, 52 seconds
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Day 230: What are OUR 3somes Like?

And why you should keep an open mind and experiment with new things.Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
4/2/202134 minutes, 57 seconds
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Day 229: How to Sleep with Any Girl Who Has a Boyfriend

Happy April, guys.Support the show
4/1/202112 minutes, 52 seconds
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Day 228: How to Get Laid as a Woman

With one simple trick!Rulebook podcast: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/197/Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/31/202128 minutes, 57 seconds
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Day 227: Does Your AMOUNT of Cum Matter? (Ejaculation)

Short answer: probably not. Here's why.Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/30/202129 minutes, 30 seconds
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Day 226: Andy Reacts - You Will NOT Be Confident

Why "Just Be Confident!" is the most braindead dating advice anyone could ever give you.Give Yourself Permission to Suck: https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/Run TOWARDS Fear: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/6/Patreon (I really appreciate you supporting the show): https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/29/202133 minutes, 59 seconds
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Day 225: Why I Advocate Honesty (Why the Truth Matters)

Spoiler: It's not because "it's the right thing to do"...Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards (how to be honest): https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/Support the show
3/28/202129 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 224: How to Pick a Girl Up DURING Sex

The most fun you can have with her vertical smile whilst being vertical yourself.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5cTlmINLbqsBDSM Starter Kit (comes with a collar and leash): https://www.pjtra.com/t/TEFNS0xNQUZGR0ZEREFFREtLTEc?sid=support&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.adameve.com%2Fadult-sex-toys%2Fkinky-bondage%2Fbondage-kits%2Fsp-ouch-intermediate-bondage-kit-107331.aspxHow I Got Strong: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-get-strong/Patreon: https://killyourinnerloser.com/patreonA Workout Routine: https://www.aworkoutroutine.com/the-beginner-weight-training-workout-routine/Support the show
3/27/202120 minutes, 38 seconds
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Day 223: Mutual Orgasms - How to Orgasm at the Same Time as Your Girl

And why it's the hottest thing since yo momma's crack.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KELdWeAbd6gMagic Wand Vibrator:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfwPatreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserHow to use the magic wand (my guide on YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-uB7TBWYLASupport the show
3/26/202128 minutes
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Day 222: Pain and Pleasure

Why spanking and other forms of pain are a hell of a lot of fun - for her, and for you.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/NLKOzkTOGKgBDSM Starter Kit we recommend (it has a paddle and other fun stuff): https://www.pjtra.com/t/TEFNS0xNQUZGR0ZEREFFREtLTEc?sid=support&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.adameve.com%2Fadult-sex-toys%2Fkinky-bondage%2Fbondage-kits%2Fsp-ouch-intermediate-bondage-kit-107331.aspxHow to Give Girls Rollercoaster Sex: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/168/Want ongoing accountability and daily coaching from me, a support network of like-minded guys and daily feedback on your self-improvement journey? Join my private group The Winners Club for all this and more - I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and make you successful:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserAwesome Stuff I Recommend: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsSupport the show
3/25/202132 minutes, 52 seconds
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Day 221: But What If You Could See Her Naked?

One of my favourite tricks to overcome approach anxiety/general nervousness with women.SHOWNOTES:Watch this on my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGNkzPENUQNwkg/videosPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
3/24/20218 minutes, 39 seconds
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Day 220: I Have to be Real with You Guys...

Where my head's been at the last few months, and how 2 emails affected me deeply.SHOWNOTES:My Patreon: https://killyourinnerloser.com/patreonSupport the show
3/23/202114 minutes, 14 seconds
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Day 219: My Client's First 3some! (Success Story)

One of the guys in my mentorship group - The Winners Club - recently had his first ever 3some. What a legend.SHOWNOTES:Sign up for the Winners club for DAILY support from me and the other guys in the group: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/The Magic Wand I mentioned: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfwMy Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Support the show
3/22/202125 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 218: I Don't Want to Be Here (But I Showed Up Anyway)

You won't always feel like taking action, but you should in spite of how you feel.Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/nfopwCGfcj0Want ongoing accountability and daily coaching from me, a support network of like-minded guys and daily feedback on your self-improvement journey? Join my private group The Winners Club for all this and more - I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and make you successful:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserAwesome Stuff I Recommend: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsSupport the show
3/21/20217 minutes, 50 seconds
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Day 217: Petplay (What the Hell is that?)

What is petplay, why is it hot as hell, and why should you try it? (Bonus 3some story!)SHOWNOTES:Collar and Leash kit we recommend: https://www.pjtra.com/t/TEFNS0xNQUZGR0ZEREFFREtLTEc?sid=support&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.adameve.com%2Fadult-sex-toys%2Fkinky-bondage%2Fbondage-kits%2Fsp-ouch-intermediate-bondage-kit-107331.aspxMagic Wand vibrator we used: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfwHow to Have Rollercoaster Sex: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/168/Patreon: https://killyourinnerloser.com/patreonSupport the show
3/20/202138 minutes, 29 seconds
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Day 216: I Disagree with BlackDragon About Lying to Women

Why being upfront and honest about what you're looking for makes things a billion times easier, and why lying is a dick move.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/CvQVa93j0P0SHOWNOTES:How I Handle "What Are We?": https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-handle-what-are-we/It's You and Me (On the Same Team): http://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-meOther People Have a Different Rulebook to You: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7689247Are STDs as Scary as People Make Out?: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/149/Support the show
3/19/202133 minutes, 24 seconds
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Day 215: How to Have Anal Sex

The definitive guide on exploring her dirt track.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/AHn5u9shZe0Support the show
3/18/202137 minutes, 58 seconds
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Day 214: Why We Don't Use a Safeword (BDSM)

And what we do instead to make girls feel comfortable when exploring kinky, rough sex.SHOWNOTES:How to Have Rough Sex: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/184/How to Get Started with BDSM (Part 1): https://theinnerwinnershow.com/73/How to Get Started with BDSM (Part 2): https://theinnerwinnershow.com/74/Support the show
3/17/202122 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 213: Top Sex Techniques & Why Our Past Selves Were Arrogant Dicks

Alternative title: Why Cuddling is Not a Sex Technique.SHOWNOTES:Join The Winners Club: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Magic Wand:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand-sfwSupport the show
3/16/202129 minutes, 14 seconds
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Day 212: Being in Love in an Open Relationship [Part 2 of 2]

How many times I've been in love, how it was different each time, whether I've been in love with more than one girl at the same time & how love fits in with an open relationship. (Part 2)Watch this episode on my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGNkzPENUQNwkg/videosSHOWNOTES:Mark Manson article about relationship advice from 1500 couples: https://markmanson.net/relationship-adviceWant ongoing accountability and daily coaching from me, a support network of like-minded guys and daily feedback on your self-improvement journey? Join my private group The Winners Club for all this and more - I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and make you successful: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
3/15/202113 minutes
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Day 211: Being in Love in an Open Relationship [Part 1 of 2]

How many times I've been in love, how it was different each time, whether I've been in love with more than one girl at the same time & how love fits in with an open relationship.Watch this episode on my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGNkzPENUQNwkg/videosSHOWNOTES: Mark Manson article about relationship advice from 1500 couples: https://markmanson.net/relationship-adviceWant ongoing accountability and daily coaching from me, a support network of like-minded guys and daily feedback on your self-improvement journey? Join my private group The Winners Club for all this and more - I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and make you successful: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
3/14/202128 minutes, 35 seconds
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Day 210: Distil People Down into 1 Sentence

...in order to assess whether they're adding to your life, or taking away from it.Watch this episode on my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGNkzPENUQNwkgSHOWNOTES:My new Bathmate channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjlS47CH73p6qAstpO_91HwOther People Have a Different Rulebook to You: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7689247Support the show
3/13/202129 minutes, 24 seconds
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Day 209: Fantasise About Your Goals (to Make You Believe They're Possible)

How to trick your brain into BELIEVING your goals are achievable.Watch this as a video on my youtube channel: https://youtu.be/KdsUICC0YXESHOWNOTES:Message me for coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwWant ongoing accountability and daily coaching from me, a support network of like-minded guys and daily feedback on your self-improvement journey? Join my private group The Winners Club for all this and more - I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and make you successful:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
3/12/202117 minutes, 16 seconds
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Day 208: Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEM

Why asking girls for dating advice is a lose-lose for both of you. SHOWNOTES:No more Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyMy website: https://killyourinnerloser.comMy Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsCoaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingThe Winners Club (my mentorship/accountability group): https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
3/11/202123 minutes, 42 seconds
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Day 207: 5 Struggles My Coaching Clients Have

5 of the biggest struggles my clients - and guys on my forums - have with dating/getting laid.Watch this on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGNkzPENUQNwkg/videosSHOWNOTES:Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactDon't Be a Cunt to Yourself:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-be-a-cunt-to-yourself/Don't Worry, You're Making Progress: https://killyourinnerloser.com/progress/Alpha: https://killyourinnerloser.com/alpha/Support the show
3/10/202127 minutes, 47 seconds
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Day 206: What the School System Could Be

Andy and Imogen talk about the complete and utter failures of the modern education system, and how it could be ten billion times less dogshit.Support the show
3/9/202146 minutes, 14 seconds
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Day 205: What Questions Would I Ask Chris from GoodLookingLoser?

If I could go back in time, what questions would I have asked my mentor Chris when I was at my newbie stage?Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Wm0Aekswqpg SHOWNOTES:I Can't Get Laid Because: https://killyourinnerloser.com/i-cant-get-laid/I Am Always Full of Doubt: https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubt/This Process Will Strip You Down & Force You to Confront Your Real Issues: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/this-process-will-strip-you-down-and-force-you-to-confront-your-demonsSupport the show
3/8/202129 minutes, 36 seconds
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Day 204: How to Avoid Sexual Incompatibility

How do you screen for sexual compatibility, and what do you do if the chemistry just isn't there?Support the show
3/7/202134 minutes, 43 seconds
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Day 203: How to Meditate & Relax (The 5-Minute Meditator Review)

Some techniques on relaxation and meditation from the awesome book, The 5-Minute Meditator.SHOWNOTES:Buy The 5-Minute Meditator Here: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#5-minute-meditatorInterview with Dennis Mortensen (the CEO of x.ai, talking about walking/meditation):https://theinnerwinnershow.com/60/Support the show
3/6/202127 minutes, 16 seconds
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Day 202: How to Kiss a Shy or Virgin Girl

Andy and Imogen discuss how to kiss girls who are super shy or turn you down for a kiss.Support the show
3/5/202148 minutes, 48 seconds
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Day 201: Sigma and Andy Talk Money

A kickass chat with Sigma about making money and becoming a digital nomad, whether to prioritise your sex life or making money, how you can help others and how to leave girls better than you found them.SHOWNOTES:Previous calls with Sigma: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/24/How Getting Laid Makes You a Better Man: https://killyourinnerloser.com/getting-laid-makes-you-a-better-manFeeling Guilty for Prioritizing Your Sex Life:  https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/fundamentals/confidence/how-to-stop-feeling-guilty-for-prioritizing-your-sex-life-when-you-think-you-should-be-doing-other-thingsSupport the show
3/4/20211 hour, 26 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 200: How to See Multiple Girls at the Same Time

Whether to be honest about seeing multiple girls, how to handle the logistics, how often you should see them, and more.SHOWNOTES:Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards: https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/Want ongoing accountability and daily coaching from me, a support network of like-minded guys and daily feedback on your self-improvement journey? Join my private group The Winners Club for all this and more - I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and make you successful: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
3/3/202123 minutes, 38 seconds
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Day 199: Are You Trying to Have Sex, or Trying to get Validation?

Validation should never be your ONLY focus, and here's why.SHOWNOTES:Getting Laid for Ego Validation is Perfectly Ok: https://killyourinnerloser.com/getting-laid-for-ego/Support the show
3/2/202120 minutes, 35 seconds
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Day 198: Everything in Life is a Numbers Game

The numbers game applies to making friends, getting a job, making content, overcoming mental hurdles, and so much more.SHOWNOTES:Read the full article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/its-all-a-numbers-game/Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jHS9xtgIEb4Support the show
3/1/202114 minutes, 31 seconds
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Day 197: Other People Have a Different Rulebook to You (Empathy)

Why people aren't always going to do what you want them to do... and how to deal with the frustration that comes from that.SHOWNOTES:Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards Who Don't Actually Want to Get Laid: https://killyourinnerloser.com/pickup-artists-are-theatrical-wizards/Support the show
2/28/202134 minutes, 31 seconds
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Day 196: Sexual Homework Tasks to Give Girls

Some fun, kinky ideas to give to girls you're seeing.SHOWNOTES:BDSM Test: https://bdsmtest.org/select-modeThe Winner's Club (my private accountability + coaching group): https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Sexual Bucketlist: https://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlist/Support the show
2/27/202124 minutes, 9 seconds
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Day 195: Analysis Paralysis

Why sitting around reading/planning is not going to get you the life you want to live.SHOWNOTES:Take MASSIVE Action: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/67/Run TOWARDS Fear: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/6/Support the show
2/26/202110 minutes, 57 seconds
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Day 194: Ramblings from 2 Psychos in a Park

Andy and Imogen talk about Andy's future goals, money, the direction of his website, why politics are gay and how to have that "Fuck it, I'm going all-in" moment.SHOWNOTES:Want ongoing accountability and daily coaching from me, a support network of like-minded guys and daily feedback on your self-improvement journey? Join my private group The Winners Club for all this and more - I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and make you successful.https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Support the show
2/25/202133 minutes, 52 seconds
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Day 193: David (GravyTrain) on Tattoos, Money and PMW

The legendary David (GravyTrain) is back for a second interview! Good times.Watch this as a video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q_p7-H0jgZkSHOWNOTES:David's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gravytalesDavid's Home Page: https://www.homeservicebizmastermind.comMy Own Facebook Group for accountability/ongoing coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-clubSupport the show
2/24/20211 hour, 9 minutes, 40 seconds
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Day 192: You Should Create Something

Why you don't need to be an "expert" in order to start a blog/YouTube channel/podcast/artwork/etc.Support the show
2/23/202125 minutes, 53 seconds
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Day 191: Imogen Hates Girls, Radical is a Thief & Andy Has Clickbait Titles Now?

And even his fucking description is vague and non-descript? He's jumped the fucking shark.SHOWNOTES:Watch this on my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPSGW8bl1MGNkzPENUQNwkg/videosSteal Like an Artist: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13099738-steal-like-an-artistRadical's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCASD1CjHj6-o_3uuOv9K5Ig/videos Support the show
2/22/202113 minutes, 44 seconds
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Day 190: Radical Ideas: Do 1 Goal at a Time

Why doing multiple big goals at once is a recipe for disaster.SHOWNOTES:YouTube version of this episode: https://youtu.be/SHaHO6mRm_oRadical's video on 1 goal at a time: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFQqcf5V49wHow I plan and achieve all of my goals (The Slight Edge): https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edgeSupport the show
2/21/202116 minutes, 31 seconds
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Day 189: Does Andy Disagree with BlackDragon Blog? [Part 2]

The answer is yes, and also no. How deliberately vague...  ;) (Part 2)SHOWNOTES:Previous Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7511719Black Dragon Blog: https://calebjones.com/blogSupport the show
2/20/202143 minutes, 13 seconds
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Day 188: Does Andy Disagree with BlackDragon Blog? [Part 1]

The answer is yes, and also no. How deliberately vague...  ;)SHOWNOTES:Black Dragon Blog: https://calebjones.com/blogThis is All Just a Big Experiment: https://killyourinnerloser.com/this-is-all-just-a-big-experiment/Don't Have Long Conversations: https://killyourinnerloser.com/talking-with-girls-isnt-making-progress/How to Give Girls Mindblowing Orgasms (Magic Wand): https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/How to Give Her Rollercoaster Sex: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7170841How to Explore a Sexual Bucketlist: https://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlist/Honesty:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/How to Handle "What Are We/Where is This Going?": https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-handle-what-are-we/Support the show
2/19/202138 minutes, 24 seconds
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Day 187: How to Be Vulnerable Whilst Still Being Masculine (plus We Went on the AskWomen Podcast!)

Imogen and I talk about a recent podcast interview we did, what it was like being guests instead of hosts (it's weird), and how you can be open and honest with women, without being a giant pussy.Listen to the AskWomen episode we were on here: https://anchor.fm/AskWomen/episodes/Ep--375-How-To-Date-and-Sleep-with-Multiple-Women--Navigate-An-Open-Relationship-ep6labSupport the show
2/18/202133 minutes, 2 seconds
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Day 186: "I'm a Bisexual Guy and I'm Ashamed of it"

Should you be ashamed of your own kinks/desires, especially if people give you shit for it?Support the show
2/17/202120 minutes, 45 seconds
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Day 185: How to Lick Pussy

How to pleasure her muff, how to make sure she's clean, how to transition from making out to sex, and why it's ok to suck at the start.SHOWNOTES:The Solution to All Your Problems (Be with More Girls): https://killyourinnerloser.com/go-talk-to-more-girls/Support the show
2/16/202114 minutes, 59 seconds
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Day 184: How to Have Rough Sex

How to ramp things up and give her a wild ride she'll brag about to her friends.SHOWNOTES:How to Write a Sexual Bucketlist: https://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlistHow to Get Started with BDSM Part 1: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/73Part 2: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/74Shibari Rope Patterns: https://killyourinnerloser.com/rope-dress-star-chest-harnessBDSM Starter Kit I recommend: http://theinnerwinnershow.com/supportHow to use a blindfold: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-blindfold-girlsHow to have Anal Sex: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-anal-sexSupport the show
2/15/202112 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 183: Can You Make a Girl Cum with Only Your Penis?

Is your meat-rod enough to quench her quivering quim & make her quake?SHOWNOTES:How to Last Longer in Bed: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7363558Bathmate penis pump Sigma is mentioning: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate4some story: http://killyourinnerloser.com/4someMy Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsMagic wand vibrator: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wandSupport the show
2/14/202115 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 182: When a Girl Says No...

When blue balls are on the menu, what's a man to do?SHOWNOTES:Make Girls Say Yes to Sex: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7341700It's "You and Me": https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards: https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/Stories of girls who weren't 100% sure:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7341700https://killyourinnerloser.com/ginger-goddess-and-alleyway-girlSupport the show
2/13/202118 minutes, 25 seconds
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Day 181: How to Last Longer in Bed

My non-mainstream advice on lasting longer in bed - this isn't the usual bullshit advice you hear from the normies.SHOWNOTES:Magic Wand Vibrator: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/Foreplay Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#32-the-foreplayHow to Get Started with BDSM: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/73/Part 2: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/74/How to Have Rollercoaster Sex: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7170841Support the show
2/12/202121 minutes, 6 seconds
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Day 180: Make Girls Say "Yes" to Sex with You

Or "why sex is 80 billion times wilder, kinkier and filthier the more honest and real you are with girls."SHOWNOTES:Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards: https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/How to Improve Your Appearance: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/#chapter-2-improving-your-looksMy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
2/11/202115 minutes, 25 seconds
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Day 179: What Do You Want, vs What Do You Think You Deserve?

Is there a disconnect between your goals and what you think is actually possible?SHOWNOTES:The Slight Edge: https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/When You Feel Hopeless and Helpless: https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/You Deserve to Be Here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7300288I am Always Full of Doubt: https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubt/My Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Coaching with Me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching/Support the show
2/10/20216 minutes, 12 seconds
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Day 178: My Audience's Goals (And How to Achieve Them) [Part 2 of 2]

Spreadsheet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/GoalsStated.pngRadical's Vid: youtu.be/S7FXObJVFJcForums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsReading:The Slight Edge: https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryOther Books I Recommend: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendationsWriting a Book:Discipline and Willpower Don't Matter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/discipline-willpower-dont-matter/Penis Enhancement:Bathmate: https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmateED/Performance Anxiety:My article on beating performance anxiety/ED: https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/Hairloss:Radical's hat fashion blog: https://thehatfish.com/How to Shave Your Head Bald: https://kyil-extra.com/how-to-shave-your-head/Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching/If you'd like to join the private FB group for ongoing accountability, motivation throughout the week and to ask me questions, email me:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact/Support the show
2/9/202131 minutes, 52 seconds
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Day 177: My Audience's Goals (And How to Achieve Them) [Part 1 of 2]

Spreadsheet: https://killyourinnerloser.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/GoalsStated.pngRadical's Vid: youtu.be/S7FXObJVFJcForums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsGetting Laid:Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide Diet/Lose Weight: How I Lost Weight: https://kyil-extra.com/how-i-lost-weight ACalorieCounter.com Get Big/Strong:How I Got Strong: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-get-strongStrength Coach: https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-should-get-a-strength-coach Making Money:14 Ways to Make Money Online: https://killyourinnerloser.com/ways-to-make-money-online SmartPassiveIncome.comBeat Approach Anxiety/Learn to Cold Approach/Daygame:How I Beat My Approach Anxiety: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety Improving Style/Fashion:Improving Your Looks: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/#chapter-2-improving-your-looksMaking Friends:How to Make Friends:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-peopleMental Health Goals: If You Feel Hopeless and Helpless: https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless Don't Kill Yourself: https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-kill-yourself You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryMy Transformation: https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-transformation  Photography: Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/#chapter-3-photos Why Your Tinder Photos Suck (And How to Fix Them): https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-your-tinder-pictures-suck/  3some:How to Have 3somes: https://killyourinnerloser.com/3some-guide  Tattoo:My Tattoo: https://killyourinnerloser.com/andy-gets-a-tattoo  BDSM/Get Better at Sex:How to Get Started with BDSM: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/73and https://theinnerwinnershow.com/74  Improve General Health:How to Fix Your Sleep: https://kyil-extra.com/sleep  NoFap:Nofap.comOvercoming Porn: theinnerwinneSupport the show
2/8/202140 minutes, 42 seconds
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Day 176: You Deserve to Be Here.

Hey you. Listen to this. It's something you need to hear.SHOWNOTES:I Am Always Full of Doubt:https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubt/Imposter Syndrome:https://killyourinnerloser.com/imposter-syndrome/My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/My Patreon (I appreciate you supporting me & the show):https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
2/7/20219 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 175: Why Gratitude is a Cheat Code to Instant Happiness

How to use gratitude to overcome even the sourest and most hopeless of moods.SHOWNOTES:You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxurySupport the show
2/6/202113 minutes, 35 seconds
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Day 174: How to Tell if You're Being Ignored on Tinder

This is mandatory listening for most of you guys, especially if you've been feeling down about how many girls stop replying to you on Tinder.SHOWNOTES:Relax. You'll Eventually Get Pussy:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/picking-up-women/relax-youll-eventually-get-pussySupport the show
2/5/20219 minutes, 4 seconds
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Day 173: The Bridge is Green So We'll Have a 3some

A 3some with an inexperienced, shy, but very very sexy fitness chick.Support the show
2/4/202130 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 172: 5 Things Guys Need to Do to Get Laid (According to a Girl)

Imogen spits straight fire with her 5 things every guy needs to do to be knee-deep in wet gash.Support the show
2/3/202117 minutes, 59 seconds
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Day 171: Locking Down Over ONE New Case, & Why Something is Better than Nothing

My city locks down because of one new COVID case, and what I'm doing to not get depressed again.Support the show
2/2/20216 minutes, 33 seconds
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Day 170: "I'm Freaking Out About an Upcoming Date!"

Self-sabotage, having a winner's mindset, how to be confident on dates and what to do when you're freaking out about a date...SHOWNOTES:My Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserLoser's Mindset vs Winner's Mindset:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/100The Solution to All Your Problems: Go Talk to More Girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/go-talk-to-more-girlsPerformance Anxiety guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxietySupport the show
2/1/202133 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 169: Cute Little Fuckers! (Guest Interview with Step)

I interview entrepreneur Step from Cute Little Fuckers about doing whatever it takes to be successful, overcoming hurdles and rejections life throws at you, how debilitating pain led to humility and gratitude, and why people are so damn squeamish about banging. SHOWNOTES:Cute Little Fuckers (Step's Sex Toys):https://cutelittlefuckers.comThe Kickstarter page:https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/stranovich/cute-little-fuckersMy Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/31/202151 minutes, 41 seconds
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Day 168: How to Give Her Rollercoaster Sex

Give her the ride of a lifetime, and have her BEGGING you to come back for more.SHOWNOTES:My Patreon to listen to podcasts a month before everyone else:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserHow to Blindfold Girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-blindfold-girls/Magic Wand vibrator (how-to give her mindblowing orgasms):https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/Restraints I recommend:https://www.pjatr.com/t/TEFNS0xNQUZGR0ZEREFFREtLTEc?sid=support&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.adameve.com%2Fadult-sex-toys%2Fkinky-bondage%2Fbondage-kits%2Fsp-ouch-intermediate-bondage-kit-107331.aspxSpotify Playlist of type of music I have sex to:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1E4taTWL8P3K2P?si=hTS8z7FlRcm5ofk3S93DxQSupport the show
1/30/202125 minutes, 39 seconds
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Day 167: Equality is Bullshit (A Relationship Should Never Be Equal)

Why equality is the absolute root of all evil, and what you should strive for in a relationship instead.SHOWNOTES:My Patreon:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserGet coaching with me like Joe here has:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingJoe's Youtube (Passion Unchained D.I.Y.):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjTzYLxLxrKcV3LWZrvQKBQ/videos Previous episode on double standards:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7140658Care.com:https://www.care.comTask Rabbit:https://www.taskrabbit.comSupport the show
1/29/202128 minutes, 58 seconds
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Day 166: Is it a Double-Standard to Sleep with Other Girls, While Wanting a Monogamous Girlfriend?

I get asked this question from time to time - "Is there anything wrong with me wanting to sleep with lots of girls, but preferring them to only want to sleep with me?"SHOWNOTES:Bathmate pump (use my link for free shipping, plus you support me):http://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmatePrevious two articles/podcasts talking about this topic of one-sided-open-relationships:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/5/https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/#non-monogamy-double-standards-and-open-relationshipsSupport the show
1/28/202135 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 165: Elite Guys who are Dissatisfied with Their Sex Lives? (Patreon Question)

Is Andy unhappy with the number of truly hot girls he getes?SHOWNOTES:My Patreon:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserThe Solution to All Your Problems: Go Talk to More Girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/go-talk-to-more-girlsRelax. You'll Eventually Get Pussy:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/picking-up-women/relax-youll-eventually-get-pussyHow to Retain Girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-5Previous episode Ed was referring to (episode 91):http://theinnerwinnershow.com/91Coaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
1/27/202122 minutes, 4 seconds
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Day 164: Lying is Easier in the Moment, but Harder in the Longterm

Why lying leads to drama, and why honesty leads to easy, carefree, kickass sex.SHOWNOTES:Check out my Patreon for early access to all episodes, ask me questions I'll answer on podcasts for you, and even a free monthly coaching call at the higher tiers:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserHow to Be Honest:https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/You and Me (On the Same Team):https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/Support the show
1/26/20215 minutes, 8 seconds
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Day 163: Do an Annual Reflection & Give Yourself Some Damn Credit!

Some of us (including me) absolutely suck at looking back and giving ourselves credit for how far we've come... So let's fix that.SHOWNOTES:Patreon for early access to all my content!https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/25/202111 minutes, 7 seconds
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Day 162: Always be Working on Something if You Don't want to Become Depressed

Having goals you're working towards is the antidote to depression and misery.SHOWNOTES:The Meaning Of Life & How to Be Happy:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/38/Sick of feeling like a loser? I'll kick your ass into gear:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
1/24/20216 minutes, 43 seconds
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Day 161: Getting Over Your Anger Phase, Religion Serves a Purpose, and Why Men & Women are Great

Andy and Imogen have a deep and meaningful about life, religion, men and women, and how to get over your anger phase towards girls.Check out my Patreon for early access to all episodes, ask me questions I'll answer on podcasts for you, and even a free monthly coaching call at the higher tiers!https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser Support the show
1/23/202147 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 160: Don't Make Excuses (Stick to the Fucking Plan)

Why it's important you do what you said you were going to do, even when you really don't feel like it.SHOWNOTES:Support me on Patreon + get a tonne of bonus goodies:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/22/202112 minutes, 6 seconds
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Day 159: Sharing Resentment/Anger/Frustration, Whilst Still Being on the Same Team

Why you shouldn't bottle up resentment or other negative feelings - and how to express them in a healthy, helpful manner.SHOWNOTES:Coaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingYou and Me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/Support the show
1/21/20215 minutes, 30 seconds
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Day 158: My Top 5 Strengths

Carrying on from yesterday's exercise, we're going to list our top 5 strengths.SHOWNOTES:Previous podcast (My Top 5 Flaws):https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7044313My patreon (early access to episodes, ask me questions I'll answer on podcasts, even a monthly coaching call!):https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/20/202120 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 157: Does "Building Comfort" Matter? (Patreon Question)

Do you need to "build comfort" with girls before having sex with them? (Hint: no, but not for the reason you think).Ed's question was:Why is “building comfort” considered such an important part of mainstream PUA philosophy, but it’s hardly discussed at all within KYILor GLLAccording to mainstream advice, women need to have spent time and connect emotionally with a man before they are willing to have sex with him. Is there something missing from this view of sex and female attraction? If building comfort is important, why do women have casual sex when they “barely know” a guy?Hint -- I think I know part of the answer: lust and physical attractiveness is driving the attraction in these casual sex relationships. Excitement, risk, and “moving fast” is an attraction in itself.  No one questions a roller coaster ride by asking “aren’t you afraid?” The response is simply “duh, it’s supposed to be a little scary and exciting, that’s why it’s fun!”SHOWNOTES:My Patreon:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserAttraction vs Lust:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/108/Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid:https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/Support the show
1/19/202123 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 156: Radical Ideas: My Top 5 Flaws

I'm a bit of a fuckup, like we all are. Here's my top 5 flaws.SHOWNOTES:Radical's Video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3iQ8nhCBh8Bathmate:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateDiscipline and Willpower Don't Fucking Matter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/discipline-willpower-dont-matterWeekly Accountability Check-ins:http://theinnerwinnershow.com/40My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsSelf-Sabotage podcast:http://theinnerwinnershow.com/133No More Mr Nice Guy:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyWhen I Say No, I Feel Guilty:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guiltySupport the show
1/18/202125 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 155: 3 Ways to Live with a Woman and Still Be Productive

My top 3 techniques for making sure you - and she - absolutely crush your goals without distracting each other when you live together.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate (free shipping with my link, plus you directly support me - cheers):https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmateSleep is Paramount:https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/Blue-light-blocking Glasses:https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/#blue-light-blocking-glassesWeekly Check-ins:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/40/Support the show
1/17/202111 minutes, 28 seconds
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Day 154: Winner's Mindset vs Loser's Mindset (Female Listener)

Do you have to be perfect in order to have True Love™ ? Is The Red Pill correct that every woman will eventually leave you? Can women find happy monogamy in an age of casual sex?SHOWNOTES:Previous podcast answering a woman's questions:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/100Why You are NOT Meant to Live My Lifestyle Forever:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/11Eventually You'll End Up Settling Down:https://killyourinnerloser.com/settling/There is No Such Thing as Alpha:http://killyourinnerloser.com/alphaMy Patreon (early access to episodes, I answer your questions, and even free monthly coaching calls with me):https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/16/202130 minutes, 13 seconds
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Day 153: Radical Ideas: Go Outside More

Turn off my podcast, get off my website, turn off your computer and go outside. SHOWNOTES:Radical's YouTube video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7gTjIJ7V7kQBathmate (use my link for free shipping + you're supporting my work):https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateMy Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsTalk about what you HAVE done, not what you WILL do:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/32Most Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards:https://killyourinnerloser.com/pickup-artists-are-theatrical-wizardsHow I Beat My Approach Anxiety:https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxietyMy Patreon (early access to all these episodes, plus heaps more bonuses):https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/15/20218 minutes, 25 seconds
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Day 152: When Should I Lower or Raise My Standards? (The Ebb & Flow of Standards)

Andy answers the age-old question, as to when you should raise or lower your standards when it comes to girls.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateYou're Not Obligated to Have Sex with Someone:https://killyourinnerloser.com/not-obligatedAlways Keep an Open Mind:https://killyourinnerloser.com/always-keep-an-open-mindSupport the show
1/14/202111 minutes, 46 seconds
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Day 151: How You Can Encourage Others (Even If You're a Total Newbie)

How sharing a little bit of encouragement helps you retain girls, build an awesome life for yourself and make the world a better place.SHOWNOTES:Coaching I Offer (I guarantee I'll absolutely change your damn life):https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingWhy I Write for This Site:https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-i-write-for-this-siteMy Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsSupport the show
1/13/202132 minutes, 33 seconds
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Day 150: How to Take the Lead Without Being Controlling

How do you differentiate between taking the lead/being masculine... vs being too controlling?SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:How I Use the Bathmate (Guide)No More Mr Nice Guy:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyWhen I Say No, I Feel Guilty:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guiltySupport the show
1/12/20219 minutes, 56 seconds
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Day 149: How to Avoid STDs (Are They as Scary as People Make Out?)

Are STDs something to freak out over - or are the risks overblown?SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateHonest Guide to STDs (by Mark Manson):https://markmanson.net/std-guideEverybody is Lying to You, All The Time:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/51/Support the show
1/11/202122 minutes, 28 seconds
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Day 148: What Counter-Strike Can Teach Us About Self-Improvement [Part 3]

Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 3]Want to check out Counter Strike but have no idea where to start? These two are a good starting place:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLecFQCsHi8https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e46rLEW5KUISHOWNOTES:My Patreon:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserThorin's Thoughts - s1mple's Hidden Insights (CS:GO):https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=MXetDuIjxUQIf You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else To?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/126/Interview with Jason Lake: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t5El0_6FavUDuncan's Open Letter to K0nfig:https://t.co/bGIUtWnEAB?amp=1Demystifying Your Successes:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBYcdfBmeBUWhat is Honour? - The Riddle of Ned Stark's Honour - Thorin's Side (Philosophy):https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9Bjhq-GuywThorin (Duncan):https://www.youtube.com/user/ThooorinRichard Lewis:https://www.youtube.com/user/RLewisReportsSupport the show
1/10/202125 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 147: What Counter-Strike Can Teach Us About Self-Improvement [Part 2]

Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 2]Want to check out Counter Strike but have no idea where to start? These two are a good starting place:https://youtu.be/fNqY5KGAcU4?t=497https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e46rLEW5KUISHOWNOTES:My Patreon:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserDemystifying Your Successes:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBYcdfBmeBUWhat is Honour? - The Riddle of Ned Stark's Honour - Thorin's Side (Philosophy):https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9Bjhq-GuywThorin (Duncan):https://www.youtube.com/user/ThooorinRichard Lewis:https://www.youtube.com/user/RLewisReportsSupport the show
1/9/202124 minutes, 12 seconds
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Day 146: What Counter-Strike Can Teach Us About Self-Improvement [Part 1]

Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 1]Want to check out Counter Strike but have no idea where to start? These two are a good starting place:https://youtu.be/fNqY5KGAcU4?t=497https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e46rLEW5KUISHOWNOTES:My Patreon:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/8/202120 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 145: Even More Ways to Make Cold Approaches FUN

My final summary on how to have fun with your approaches.SHOWNOTES:Ask for a number when you run out of things to say:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/6980455Smile During Approaches:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/6908693Cold Approach/Daygame Should be FUN:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5446105Support the show
1/7/202117 minutes, 24 seconds
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Day 144: Use an Online Notebook to Jot Down Ideas & Inspiration

Write ideas down so you can let them go and remain focused on your main mission.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate pump (use my link to support the show):https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate/Online Notebook I use (Evernote):https://evernote.com/Support the show
1/6/20219 minutes, 15 seconds
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Day 143: Don't Be Average - Don't Accept Society's Blueprint For Your Life

Don't fall into the trap of mindlessly doing what everybody else is doing - go your own way.SHOWNOTES:Article version of this podcast (includes pictures + more):https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-be-average/Questions to Ask Yourself:https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourselfBathmate pump:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateSociety is Lying to You About Everything:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/51/Support the show
1/5/202118 minutes, 49 seconds
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Day 142: Radical Ideas: Change Your Environment

When you hate where you are or the people around you, do something to fix it.SHOWNOTES:Radical's Original Video/YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USNQAh6mhokBathmate Pump (you'll also be supporting the show - thanks!)https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateMy story of my depression and abusive relationships:https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-transformation/Work/Life Balance Means You Hate Your Job:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/129/Podcast talking about COVID lockdowns I was living under:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/8/Take MASSIVE Action:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/67/Meetup (for making friends):https://meetup.comMy Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsSupport the show
1/4/202119 minutes, 58 seconds
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Introducing, The Winner’s Club! (Weekly accountability & support)

Want ongoing weekly accountability, direct access to me for advice/motivation/questions, and a community of like-minded guys on the path to kicking ass? Let's fucking go.Entry requirements:Contact me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact and put "I want to be in The Winner's Club!" as the subject line.Reply with how long you can commit to the group (eg how many months minimum you'd plan on being part of the group). This isn't a "show up for just 2 or 3 weeks" kind of thing - the point is ongoing accountability over a longer period of time. I only want guys who are fucking serious and can COMMIT - not half-assers who think 1 week of accountability will magically fix all their problems. I don't want to waste my time on you if you're only here for a holiday.What your goals are. What you WANT from life - your "dream big" goals, even if you aren't sure you could ever actually achieve them.How badly you want those goals on a scale of 1-10, and how much you're willing to work your ass off to get them.What you're hoping to get out of the FB group + weekly livestream coaching Q&A.As I said, limited spots only - don't miss out.-AndySupport the show
1/4/20214 minutes, 1 second
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Day 141: Should I Cold Approach or Use Tinder?

Should you focus on getting laid in person, or via online dating?SHOWNOTES:Bathmate Pump:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate/How to Get Laid on Tinder (My Guide):https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/How I Beat My Approach Anxiety (Fear of Hitting on Girls):https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/There is No Such Thing as "Alpha":https://killyourinnerloser.com/alpha/Support the show
1/3/202120 minutes, 17 seconds
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Day 140: You Are Allowed to Walk Away (Cold Approach)

If you find yourself starting to hate a lot of the conversations you're having during your cold approaches, I have the antidote.Want coaching with me? I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and FORCE you to build a successful like like I have:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
1/2/202110 minutes, 47 seconds
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Day 139: Ask EVERY Girl for a Phone Number (Cold Approach)

Yep, you should be asking 100% of the girls you hit on for their phone number; even if the conversation goes horribly.SHOWNOTES:How I Beat My Approach Anxiety:https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/Good Looking Loser Approach Anxiety Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-11 Approach a Day:https://killyourinnerloser.com/1-approach-a-day/My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/My Patreon:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
1/1/202116 minutes, 17 seconds
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Day 138: Even More Questions to Ask Yourself [Part 3/3]

Final round of questions to ask yourself if you want to lead an epic, amazing life.Full article with all the questions written out:https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/Do I deserve happiness?What does happiness mean to me?What do I want?What do I value?Do I deserve?Am I important?Are my needs more important than other people? Do I have the right to ask for what I want?What am I scared of? Is there anything I’m avoiding/putting off?(If you're depressed) Is my depression serving me some purpose?What makes me happy?Is there something I’ve never dealt with?What am I grateful for?Is it ok if I'm not perfect? Is it ok if I'll never be perfect?If I could change one thing about my life, what would it be?What's stopping me from making that change right now? What's holding me back?If I fail or run into some roadblocks, am I a failure?Am I honest with people? Could I be more open and real?What do I like about myself?What do I dislike about myself? If I could change anything, what would I change first?I most likely will never complete my todo list before I die (there’ll always be more to do). Am I ok with this? Am I ok with never getting everything done?Do I have a fear of death?Do I let my fear of death dictate my actions? Do I let my fear of death rule me and make me procrastinate working on my goals?What am I so afraid of?(If you're depressed) Do I need my depression or can I let it go?Who are the people that are most important to me? Have I told people I'm grateful for them?(If you had a rough childhood or some past trauma) Did I deserve the bad things that happened to me? Did I “earn” those things or was it just random bad luck?What is the meaning of life?What is happiness?Why do we want things?What is existence?How did I come to be?Why am I here?Why does achieving a goal make me feel so good?Will we ever have everything we want? If not, is that still a satisfying/successful life?SHOWNOTES:My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Coaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
12/31/202012 minutes, 12 seconds
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Day 137: More Questions to Ask Yourself [Part 2/3]

Full article with all the questions written out:https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/Even more questions to ask yourself:What are your goals? Not what do you deserve, but what do you want? Dream big, even if you think it's stuff you'll never actually have.What are your main blockages? What's holding you back? Are you just asking me for permission to go all-in and make getting laid your number 1 goal? Do you have a fear that girls won't like you if they see the real, vulnerable you? Do you worry if you have sex with too many girls, the girls will think you're a bad person/not like you?Do you worry about what other people will think of you?Do you worry you're not good enough to get laid; you're not really a player, you're not equal to Chris/Scotty/me/anyone else?Do you worry that having a tonne of sex will ultimately be meaningless - you'll achieve all you want to achieve with girls but will still be unhappy at the end of it?Do you worry having too much sex is "disrespectful" to the girls you bang; do you worry about using them for sex? (That doesn't have to be the case - it isn't for me).Do you resent women? Are you jealous of them, or think they have it easier than guys, or hate that they get to be the choosers - they can reject you for any reason they want? What places are you scared to hit on girls? (Supermarket will give different anxiety vs train station vs a girl sitting down vs a girl walking fast, etc)Anything else you worry about, or any fears or "sticking points"?Want to support the show? Join my Patreon for exclusive content not seen anywhere else: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
12/30/202040 minutes, 57 seconds
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Day 136: Questions to Ask Yourself [Part 1/3]

Full article with all the questions written out:https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/Questions to ask yourself:Why does Andy (and other successful players) deserve to get laid a lot, but not me? Why am I special?Andy was a total loser at the start, so if he can get laid a lot, why can’t I?Am I just putting up bullshit excuses like these ones?Why does Andy deserve to overcome his depression, but not me?Why wouldn’t girls like me? Is there really something wrong with me? Can I improve that or work around it?Do I want to feel helpless and hopeless? Does my hopelessness help or protect me in some way – am I getting something out of it? (Watch this podcast, it covers this topic in great detail and will blow your mind).Do my flaws really mean no women will ever like me? Can I make up for my flaws by having some really strong, awesome strengths?What attributes would a player have, that I don’t?Can I work on getting those attributes?Do I deserve to be miserable and unhappy? Why? Why do other people deserve to be happy, but not me?Am I destined to be a failure for life, or can I change that?Did the universe/God/whatever preordain me to be a failure? Does that have to be the case, or can I rise up and change the course of my own life?The guys that are players – not all of them were players at the start [I – Andy – am a good example of this]. So they literally learned how to get laid a lot, learned how to improve themselves, learned how to lose fat, learned how to make friends, learned how to beat depression, learned how to overcome their negative thoughts… Can’t I just learn all those skills too, one by one?SHOWNOTES:If You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/126/The Only Thing that Matters: Just Don't Ever Fucking Quit:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/71/Hopeless and Helpless:https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/Support the show
12/29/202038 minutes, 54 seconds
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Day 135: Why Am I Getting Shit Tested?

Hint: If you're getting shit-tested a tonne, it's because you look like absolute trash. No stress; just improve your appearance and keep working on your own self-improvement.SHOWNOTES:Shit Tests Article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/shit-tests/How to Improve Your Appearance:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/#chapter-2-improving-your-looksMy Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Support the show
12/28/202022 minutes, 8 seconds
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Day 134: Stop "Shoulding" Yourself.

Why you should stop saying should. Or not. Do whatever you WANT, not what you think you "should" do.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate pump:https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmateSupport the show
12/27/20209 minutes, 49 seconds
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Day 133: Self-Sabotage and Self-fulfilling Prophecies

YOU are most likely the only thing standing in the way of your own success. So stop fucking it up.SHOWNOTES:You Get What You Subconsciously Believe:https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-get-what-you-subconsciously-believe/If You Feel Hopeless and Helpless:https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/Coaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
12/26/202039 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 132: Have Fun During Your Approaches

Some easy ways to make approaching/daygame a little more fun, and a little less of a chore.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate/How to Develop a Sense of Humour:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/72/Support the show
12/25/202021 minutes, 40 seconds
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Day 131: Merry Christmas, Plans for My Website/Podcast, a Look Back at 2020

A retrospective look back at 2020, as well as my plans for my site and podcast going forward. Exciting things to come!SHOWNOTES:Work/Life Balance is Bullshit:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/6906074Patreon (early access to all the episodes I record, usually weeks before everyone else gets them):https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserWeekly Accountability Checkins:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/40/Bathmate Pump:http://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmateSupport the show
12/24/202044 minutes, 28 seconds
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Day 130: Couples Shouldn't Blindly Jump into a 3some

Why it's imperative you take a little extra time before getting into a 3some, if you're in a longterm relationship with a committed partner.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate pump:http://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmateCoaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingHow to Beat Performance Anxiety:https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/Why newbies should NOT get into open relationships:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/115/Support the show
12/23/202029 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 129: "Work/Life Balance" Means You Hate Your Job

Why sticking at a job you hate makes you a total piece of shit.SHOWNOTES:If you want coaching from me, I'll kick your ass into gear and force you to be successful. Coaching:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSociety is Lying to You About Everything:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/51/Support the show
12/22/202017 minutes, 7 seconds
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Day 128: Not Drinking on a Date? (Patreon Question)

Andy answers one of his Patreon's questions about how to have a date while on a diet (no alcohol, caffeine or food).SHOWNOTES:Join my Patreon to ask me questions I'll answer for you on podcast episodes:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserVirgin Girl who didn't drink:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/122What is Geocaching?https://www.geocaching.com/guideSupport the show
12/21/202013 minutes, 40 seconds
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Day 127: Screening Early vs Screening Later

Should you be really upfront and show girls you want something sexual, or hold back a bit?Want help with screening earlier, or anything else you're struggling with? If you're serious about improving your life, hit me up for one of my coaching packages and I'll kick your ass into gear: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSHOWNOTES:Read the full article (including pictures) here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/screening-early-vs-screening-laterMadonna-Whore Complex:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna%E2%80%93whore_complexThe Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards:https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/Support the show
12/20/202016 minutes, 14 seconds
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Day 126: If You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to?

One of the biggest predictors of success is whether or not you take yourself - and your self-improvement - seriously.And if you're ready to take yourself seriously and want a plan of action to actually get it done, advice on overcoming your mental hurdles and homework tasks and follow-up calls to keep you accountable, hit me up for coaching so I can fast-track your success and save you months or years of struggles and wasted time:My Coaching Packages: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSHOWNOTES:Good Looking Loser article: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/fundamentals/confidence/how-to-not-give-a-fuck-what-people-think-a-different-perspective-to-not-caring-anymoreYou Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryMy Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Run Towards Fear:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/6/My Tinder Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/Support the show
12/19/202017 minutes, 52 seconds
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Day 125: Getting Flaked on is Normal

Don't get too hung up on flaking - it's a normal part of the dating game.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate pump:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateThe Solution to All Your Problems: Go Talk to More Girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/go-talk-to-more-girlsHit me up for coaching and I'll kick your ass into gear and MAKE you achieve your goals:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
12/18/202013 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 124: Dates Aren't Just for Sex - They're for Being More Social

Why you don't have to be "Mr Social Butterfly" before you can go on dates and get laid.SHOWNOTES:Want coaching and for me to kick your ass into turbo gear? Here's the coaching packages I currently offer:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingGive Yourself Permission to Suck:https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/Support the show
12/17/202012 minutes, 22 seconds
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Day 123: Part 2 of the Latest Virgin Saga

Following on from yesterday's episode, Andy and Imogen see the virgin girl a second time for more shenanigans.SHOWNOTES:Magic Wand Vibrator:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wandWant coaching and for me to kick your ass into turbo gear? Here's the coaching packages I currently offer:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
12/16/202034 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 122: Andy & Imogen Don't Pressure a Virgin

Andy and Immy meet a very hot, but very shy virgin girl - and wax lyrical about why "pushing through LMR" is a shitty idea.SHOWNOTES:Magic Wand Vibrator I recommend:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wandSupport the show
12/15/202039 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 121: Radical & Andy on Self-Awareness

Andy shares how completely un-selfaware and emotional he was before his self-improvement journey.SHOWNOTES:Radical's fashion/self-improvement blog:http://thehatfish.comRadical's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCASD1CjHj6-o_3uuOv9K5IgPrevious podcast with Radical:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/6810274My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsCoaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingYou Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxurySupport the show
12/14/20201 hour, 6 minutes, 50 seconds
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Day 120: Radical & Andy on Simping

Is "simping" an effective strategy? Is there a better way? Radical joins Andy to shoot the shit once again.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSHOWNOTES:Radical's fashion/self-improvement blog:http://thehatfish.com/ Radical's YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCASD1CjHj6-o_3uuOv9K5IgPrevious podcast with Radical:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/30/Support the show
12/13/202018 minutes, 29 seconds
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Day 119: My Life Isn't Always Flashy

Why you should be sceptical of pretty much everything you see online.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSHOWNOTES: Proof article mentioned:https://killyourinnerloser.com/proofI am Always Full of Doubt:https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubt/How to Have a 3some:https://killyourinnerloser.com/3some-guide/Support the show
12/12/202027 minutes, 38 seconds
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Day 118: It's a Numbers Game, Not a Stats Game

Why counting you "lay ratios" or "date ratios" is doing more harm than good.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
12/11/202016 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 117: 5 Mistakes Guys Make with Getting Laid

Been making these mistakes yourself? Don't worry, Andy offers a cure too.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSHOWNOTES:Podcast on why losing fat matters:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/108/Support the show
12/10/202023 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 116: Stop Being Scared of Getting Banned on Tinder

Why some of you need to man the fuck up.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
12/9/202011 minutes, 22 seconds
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Day 115: Why I DON'T Recommend Open Relationships to Newbies

Andy gives his thoughts on why open serious relationships aren't recommended if you're not already VERY experienced - and why open CASUAL relationships are much better.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
12/8/202039 minutes, 53 seconds
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Day 114: My Audience's Most Helpful Purchases

Andy covers some of the purchases that have helped his readers/listeners.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSHOWNOTES:Bathmate:https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate/Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thoughthttps://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryHow to Sleep Better:https://kyil-extra.com/sleepMy Top 5 Most Helpful Purchases:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/107/Support the show
12/7/202024 minutes, 51 seconds
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Day 113: 12 Facts About Andy You've Never Heard

I don't drive, I don't eat eggs, I'm in love with Zelda & I think guys who like ass are gay. And that's just the tip of the iceberg.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
12/6/202031 minutes, 16 seconds
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Day 112: The Time a Crazy Japanese Mistress Tried to Use My Cum for Evil

A wild story about a crazy bipolar nutcase.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSHOWNOTES:The Craziest Story of My Entire Life:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/23/https://theinnerwinnershow.com/25/Support the show
12/5/202024 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 111: How to Find Dominant Women

Can you find dominant women out in the wild... or is there a better way?SHOWNOTES:Coaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSex Toys I Recommend:http://theinnerwinnershow.com/support/Support the show
12/4/202032 minutes, 4 seconds
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Day 110: Pussy is Overrated, Let's Go Get Some Dick

Why women have easy access to an ever-flowing on-tap dick supply, why men suck at understanding the female perspective, and why women are horrible at making decisions.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSHOWNOTES:No More Mr Nice Guy:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guySupport the show
12/3/202034 minutes, 25 seconds
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Day 109: How to Make An Honest Woman

Can women have as much raw honesty and integrity as men?Want me to kick your ass into gear and make damn sure you crush your goals? Hit me up for a coaching package: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
12/2/202042 minutes, 29 seconds
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Day 108: There are 2 Levels of Attraction (Attraction vs Lust)

If you've never had a girl visibly lust over you and masturbate over you, you're doing self-improvement wrong.Join my Patreon for all sorts of kick-ass bonuses, early access to podcast episodes, and even a free monthly coaching call with me! https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid:https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/The Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Support the show
12/1/202028 minutes, 20 seconds
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Day 107: My Top 5 Most Helpful Purchases

The purchases that have helped Andy the most.WH-1000XM4 Noise-Cancelling Headphones:http://kyil-extra.com/recommendations#headphonesMagic Wand Vibrator:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/Orange (Light-blocking Glasses):https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/#blue-light-blocking-glassesBeard Trimmer:https://kyil-extra.com/beard-trimmer/The time I cut my hand shaving:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/media/kunena/attachments/15624/IMG-20180703-WA0019.jpegMy Vasectomy [Storytime with Andy]:https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-vasectomy/Support the show
11/30/202024 minutes, 49 seconds
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Day 106: Try Not Having Sex, and Focus on ONLY Foreplay

Andy's got a killer challenge for you - you are NOT allowed to have sex.SHOWNOTES:Toys I Recommend:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/support/#recommendationsMagic Wand Vibrator:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wandMy "How to Beat Performance Anxiety" Article:https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/Support the show
11/29/202015 minutes, 21 seconds
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Day 105: Imogen's Getting Laid/Self-Improvement Journey [Part 2]

Andy and Imogen continue answering a Patreon's questions about getting laid - from Imogen's perspective.Want to ask me questions yourself? Join my Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/28/202040 minutes, 51 seconds
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Day 104: Imogen's Getting Laid/Self-Improvement Journey [Part 1]

Andy and Imogen answer a Patreon's questions about getting laid - from Imogen's perspective.Want to ask me questions yourself? Join my Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/27/202033 minutes, 20 seconds
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Day 103: How Long Should You Have a Date for?

Should you have a 1 hour date, or a 5 hour date? Should you bounce a girl between multiple venues? What about the 2nd and 3rd date?SHOWNOTESTake MASSIVE Action:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/67/Tinder Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#21-1st-datesSupport the show
11/26/20209 minutes, 55 seconds
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Day 102: Do You Need to Touch Girls on a Date?

Do you need to "kino" and "escalate" on a girl in public, or can you wait until you're back at your place?SHOWNOTES:What to Do on Dates (How to Escalate Towards Sex):https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#26-touchingmaking-a-move-in-publicSupport the show
11/25/20208 minutes, 46 seconds
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Day 101: "I'm Worried About Erectile Dysfunction..."

Andy answers a patron's questions about his insecurity around getting it up in the bedroom.Want to ask me your own questions and have me answer them on the show? Join my Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Andy's Guide to Beating Performance Anxiety:https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/How to Overcome Porn Addiction:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/13/The Pinnacle of Man on NoFap, Porn Addiction:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/49/You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxurySupport the show
11/24/202017 minutes, 44 seconds
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Day 100: "I'm Worried About Being Thought of as a Slut" (Winner's Mindset vs Loser's Mindset) (Female Listener)

Andy answers a female listener's questions about insecurity and nervousness around sex, how to be better in the bedroom, whether you should hold onto baggage and bad experiences from the past.SHOWNOTES:Previous episode from a female listener:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/48/You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryHow to Write a Sexual Bucketlist:https://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlist/Magic Wand Vibrator:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/If You Feel Hopeless and Helpless:https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/Stop Being a Cunt to Yourself:https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-be-a-cunt-to-yourself/Support the show
11/23/202047 minutes, 2 seconds
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Day 99: "Is it necessary to Develop an Attractive Lifestyle if I want to be Successful at Having Sex with Women?"

Do you need to be a cool, social, outgoing, extroverted guy in order to get laid?Wanna ask me questions and have me answer them on podcasts? Come join my Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Support the show
11/22/202010 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 98: Can you Have Sex with Girls who Say "Looking for a relationship" in their Tinder Bio?

A question for the ages.Want to support the show? https://theinnerwinnershow.com/supportSupport the show
11/21/20208 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 97: How Do I Be More Outcome-Independent?

This question comes up all the damn time. Don't stress; Andy's got you covered.SHOWNOTES:The Solution to All Your Problems: Go Talk to More Girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/go-talk-to-more-girls/Support the show
11/20/20205 minutes, 27 seconds
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Day 96: A Typical Day in the Life of a Guy Who Gets Laid

Andy talks about a typical day/week in his life, as well as what life was like for him just 3 years ago.Wanna ask me questions just like Ed did here? Come join my Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/19/202016 minutes, 49 seconds
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Day 95: What Tricks/Shortcuts Have Helped Me Get Laid More?

Andy discusses some of the "cheats" he's used to build a kickass sex life.Wanna ask me questions just like Ed did here? Come join my Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Discipline and Willpower Don't Fucking Matter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/discipline-willpower-dont-matter/The Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/How to Fix Your Sleep:https://kyil-extra.com/sleepMagic Wand Vibrator:http://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wandSupport the show
11/18/202020 minutes, 44 seconds
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Day 94: Does Andy Disagree with Good Looking Loser? (Yes).

Andy discusses a couple of the issues he has with some of Good Looking Loser's advice.Wanna ask me questions just like Ed did here? Come join my Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:How to Handle "What Are We?":https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-handle-what-are-weThis is all just a big experiment:https://killyourinnerloser.com/this-is-all-just-a-big-experiment/3some guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/3some-guideSupport the show
11/17/202034 minutes, 35 seconds
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Day 93: 4th 3some in 3 Weeks

Andy and Imogen have some fun with a very small, very adorable Asian girl. Audio quality was a bit echoey towards the last half of this episode; next time we won't record in such a small room.SHOWNOTES:Magic Wand Vibrator I recommend:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/Support the show
11/16/202033 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 92: What Kind of Girls do I Like?

Andy continues part 3 of the epic saga of answering all of Ed's questions.Want to ask me your own questions and have me answer them in a podcast? Join my Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/15/202032 minutes, 40 seconds
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Day 91: My Biggest Challenges with Getting Laid

Carrying on from yesterday's podcast, Andy talks about his biggest challenges with getting laid in the beginning.Sign up to my Patreon to ask me questions just like Ed did here. https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:How to Write a Sexual Bucketlist:https://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlist/Going All-in with Getting Laid, and the Bang in a Public Toilet [Storytime with Andy]https://killyourinnerloser.com/not-getting-laid-bang-toilet-public/Always Keep an Open Mind:https://killyourinnerloser.com/always-keep-an-open-mind/You're Not Obligated to Have Sex with Someone:https://killyourinnerloser.com/not-obligated/Support the show
11/14/202045 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 90: Did Andy Ever Feel Like Giving Up?

Andy answers a bunch of questions about his biggest struggles and lowest points in his getting laid journey.Sign up for my Patreon to ask me questions like Ed did and have me answer them: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Weekly Accountability Checkins:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/40Approach Anxiety Program:https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxietyI Am Always Full of Doubt:https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubtThe Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edgeSupport the show
11/13/202039 minutes
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Day 89: How to Have 3somes with your Girlfriend & Girls SHE Meets from Tinder

Andy and Imogen discuss how you can get your girlfriend (or friends-with-benefits) to set up her Tinder profile and find girls for you two to play with together, as well as mistakes guys usually make when finding 3somes...Join my Patreon for exclusive content, BONUS shit you only get on Patreon, as well as coaching calls with me once a month! https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:My 3somes Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/3some-guideSupport the show
11/12/202035 minutes, 39 seconds
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Day 88: Unplanned, Unscripted and Full of Gratitude

A completely unscripted episode about my self-improvement journey and how I got into coaching (and how I started my blog + this podcast).Support the show
11/11/202019 minutes, 2 seconds
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Day 87: Andy's Nightmarish Experience Trying Weed (Trip to the Hospital)

The horror story of my first time trying pot, and ending up in the fucking hospital.Patreon, for kickass extra goodies, early access to episodes and ask me questions and I'll coach you: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/10/202032 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 86: Tristan Nigro talks Getting Laid & Long-term Relationships

Tristan Nigro's back for a second round, to discuss his getting laid journey, life with his girlfriend, and going all-in with your goals.Join my Patreon to listen to these episodes weeks in advance before everybody else, exclusive content, ask me questions and even a free monthly Zoom coaching call! https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Tristan's YouTube channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ4LgRbDm-IN8FlmACurnmgPrevious podcast episode with Tristan:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/27/Good Looking Loser Approach Anxiety Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1Support the show
11/9/20201 hour, 8 minutes, 35 seconds
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Day 85: How to Have Sex with Younger Girls (18-21)

Want to date younger women, but have no idea where to start? Andy's got you covered.17 Reasons to Date Younger Women:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZ_Jed5_X6wBuy the Magic Wand vibrator to "cheat" and be a sex god:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/Set your age to 25 on Tinder:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-2/#14-if-youre-over-30-but-want-younger-girlsWhy Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid:https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/Support the show
11/8/202017 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 84: How to Be Happier as a Younger Man [PART 2/2]

Part 2 of how to be happier in your 20's. (Part 1 was here).Patreon, for kickass extra goodies, early access to episodes and ask me questions and I'll coach you: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:A Happier Man (Hans' Website):https://www.ahappierman.com/happier-young-man.htmlGood Looking Loser Going Out Alone Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-to-go-out-alone-to-bars-part-1Support the show
11/7/202028 minutes, 3 seconds
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Day 83: How to Be Happier as a Younger Man [PART 1/2]

Andy gives his thoughts on a recent article by A Happier Man, on how to be happier in your 20's. (Part 2 is here).Patreon, for kickass extra goodies, early access to episodes and ask me questions and I'll coach you: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:A Happier Man (Hans' Website):https://www.ahappierman.com/happier-young-man.htmlHow to Get Better Sleep:https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramountSupport the show
11/6/202029 minutes, 26 seconds
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Day 82: How Often Should I See Girls I'm Dating?

Andy answers one of his Patron's questions about how many times a week you should see the girls you date.Watch this episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/pd_dBaUxQLQIf you want to ask me questions and have me answer them on the podcast, join my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Do Whatever the Fuck You Want:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h1o3IkZwPrY&feature=emb_title&ab_channel=GoodLookingLoserSupport the show
11/5/202017 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 81: What's it Like Being a Woman?

Andy asks Imogen the tough question: What the hell is it like being a female?Sign up for my Patreon and mention you joined specifically through this episode, and I'll give you something KICKASS as a present: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/4/202030 minutes, 31 seconds
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Day 80: Another 3some with a Virgin & Andy Supports the Gays

Imogen and Andy talk about their latest escapades with a virgin girl, and why people who virtue signal are actually the most bigoted people of all.Join my Patreon to listen to all these podcasts weeks before anyone else, as well as bonus content and even free 1-on-1 Zoom calls with me for coaching! https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserWant to support the show? Go here: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/supportSupport the show
11/3/202033 minutes, 33 seconds
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Day 79: Getting Laid Whilst Blind & Not Seeing a Way Out of Hopelessness

...Yes, of course that pun was intentional. Andy is joined by ThePhoenix to talk getting laid as a blind dude, overcoming doubt and hopelessness, COVID stupidity and why The Red Pill are a bunch of nerds.Sign up for my Patreon to ask me questions, be a guest on my podcast, and even monthly Zoom calls where you can ask me any questions you like and get coaching: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsGame Maker's Toolkit videos about people with low vision:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xrqdU4cZaLw&ab_channel=GameMaker%27sToolkitGive yourself permission to get laid:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/picking-up-women/claim-that-pussySupport the show
11/2/20201 hour, 32 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 78: Going to a Girl's Place vs Her Coming to Yours

Andy answers one of his Patron's questions about dating logistics, and whether you should kick a girl out if she's not up for doing the horizontal tango with you.Join my Patreon to be able to ask me any questions, and even a free monthly Zoom call with me: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
11/1/202032 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 77: A 3some, A New Lease on Life & An Update

Andy and Imogen discuss their latest 3some and finally being free.Join my Patreon for kickass exclusives, including coaching calls with me:https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
10/31/202027 minutes, 16 seconds
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Day 76: How Do I Trust My Girlfriend?

Andy answers a listener's questions about struggling to trust his girlfriend, being too suspicious and insecure, and how to learn to open up and be real.SHOWNOTES:You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations#luxuryIt's You and Me (you're both on the same team):https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards:https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty-is-an-ideal/Immy's Thoughts on Honesty:https://killyourinnerloser.com/what-honesty-looks-like-in-a-relationship/Hit me up for coaching if you're struggling yourself:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSupport the show
10/30/202032 minutes, 25 seconds
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Day 75: RogerRoger on Hitting on 124 Girls in 10 Hours

Andy interviews one of his coaching clients - RogerRoger - who recently hit on 124 girls in a single day!Want to do what RogerRoger did, but have no idea where to start? Hit me up for coaching and I'll kick your ass into gear, give you a plan for improving your looks and your self-confidence, and get you out there talking to women and getting laid right now. Contact me and let's dominate your goals, starting now.SHOWNOTES:My blogpost about RogerRoger's 124 approaches:https://killyourinnerloser.com/124-approaches-in-1-dayCoaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingCoolGuy's Previous Record (122 girls in a day):https://www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/how-to-pick-up-girls/143635-how-to-approach-100-girls-in-a-day-detailed-guideMy Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsSupport the show
10/29/20201 hour, 11 minutes, 12 seconds
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Day 74: How to Get Started with BDSM [Part 2]

Andy and Imogen cover the basics of BDSM for the absolute newbie, including how to get started without spending any money. (Part 1 is here).SHOWNOTES:Magic Wand we talked about:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/How to Write a Sexual Bucketlist:https://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlist/Sex Toys we mentioned:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/support/#sexSupport the show
10/28/202034 minutes, 17 seconds
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Day 73: How to Get Started with BDSM [Part 1]

Andy and Imogen cover the basics of BDSM for the absolute newbie, including how to get started without spending any money. (Part 2 is here).SHOWNOTES:Magic Wand we mentioned:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/Sex Toys we talked about:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/support/#sexSupport the show
10/27/202047 minutes, 12 seconds
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Day 72: How to Develop a Sense of Humour

Andy teaches you EXACTLY how to be a motherfucking funny cunt.SHOWNOTES:Podcast with Joe:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=99gaRkOnJ3kMy Patreon - kickass exclusive content and early access to all episodes:https://killyourinnerloser.com/patreonSupport the show
10/26/202013 minutes, 52 seconds
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Day 71: The Only Thing that Matters: Just Don't Ever Fucking Quit

Is there a cheat-code to success? Why do some people achieve greatness, and others fail miserably?SHOWNOTES:Imposter Syndrome:https://killyourinnerloser.com/imposter-syndromeWhat to Do When You’re In a Rut:https://killyourinnerloser.com/when-youre-in-a-rutDon’t Worry, You’re Making Progress (Bad Days are Ok):https://killyourinnerloser.com/progressAiming High Means Falling Far:https://killyourinnerloser.com/aiming-high-means-falling-farPatreon:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/patreonSupport the show
10/25/20208 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 70: Having Sex in Public When I Didn't Have Good Logistics

Some fun stories from Andy's past escapades.SHOWNOTES:The Craziest Story of My Entire Life:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/23Patreon:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/patreonSupport the show
10/24/202035 minutes, 58 seconds
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Day 69: Should You Put Aside Getting Laid During COVID?

Andy answers a listener's questions about whether you should fix your sex/dating life right now, or focus on making money.SHOWNOTES:I Can't Do Anything During COVID Lockdowns:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e1zWvR9FALoMeetup:https://meetup.comHow I Beat My Approach Anxiety:https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/Patreon:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/patreonTinder Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guideSupport the show
10/23/202018 minutes, 49 seconds
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Day 68: You've Gotta Stop Being Perfect

Why do we so insist on being perfect and never making mistakes? Is there any way out of this quest for perfection?SHOWNOTES:No More Mr Nice Guy:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyChris from Good Looking Loser:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/Patreon:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/patreonSupport the show
10/22/20208 minutes, 56 seconds
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Day 67: Take Massive Action

Andy's got the cure for complacency: Take action IMMEDIATELY.SHOWNOTES: Podcast episode on taking action:http://theinnerwinnershow.com/32Picture of me recording these on the floor of the bathroom:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/broomFloor-scaled.jpgPatreon:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/patreonSupport the show
10/21/202029 minutes, 50 seconds
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Day 66: Don't be Sexually-Crass; Innuendo is an Artform

Andy makes the case for being a little more... subtle... when it comes to matters of penis-in-vagina.Sign up for Patreon for all the kickass exclusives and access to me as your mentor: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Previous episode talking about the hotel quarantine:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5834836Support the show
10/20/202029 minutes, 30 seconds
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Day 65: You Have a Fear of Rejection, but Most Girls are Sweethearts

Scared of rejection? Truth is, bad reactions are so damn rare you shouldn't even think about them.SHOWNOTES:Coaching - I'll absolutely improve your looks and get you better results with girls, literally guaranteed:https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactSupport the show
10/19/202014 minutes, 39 seconds
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Day 64: Do You NEED to Make Girls Orgasm?

Andy and Imogen discuss whether or not you need to make girls orgasm, and give a bunch of cheatcodes for fast, easy (lazy) orgasms.Magic Wand we both recommend (ships everywhere in the world):https://doxymassager.com/collections/doxy-die-cast-1?aff=79How to give girls orgasms using the Magic Wand (how-to guide):https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/Satisfyer Vibrator (the more gentle vibrator):http://shrsl.com/2ji8sOur 4some Story (with vids and pics):https://killyourinnerloser.com/4some/Check out my Patreon for exclusive kickass content I don't publish anywhere else - don't miss out! https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
10/18/202057 minutes, 48 seconds
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Day 63: Did Andy Get Laid at College/University?

Andy answers a listener's questions about getting laid in college.This episode is also available as a Youtube Video: https://youtu.be/tTcpkT5eEkAJoin my Patreon for exclusive content I don't post anywhere else: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Good Looking Loser Approach Anxiety Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1Support the show
10/17/202015 minutes, 46 seconds
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Day 62: Open Relationships as a Newbie, Calling vs Texting

Answering listener questions about whether you should get into an open relationship if you don't have much experience, if calling is better than texting, and some kickass book recommendations.Sign up for my Patreon for a tonne of extra content and ask me any questions about anything at all: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:The Slight Edge (book):https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edgeAll the other books we mentioned:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendationsSupport the show
10/16/202045 minutes, 18 seconds
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Day 61: Quarantining in Brisbane & My Patreon

Andy and Immy talk about escaping to Brisbane, and the cool shit Andy wants to do on his new Patreon page.Check out my Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSupport the show
10/15/202036 minutes, 15 seconds
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Day 60: AI, Venture Capital & Walking with CEO Dennis Mortensen

Andy's joined by x.ai CEO Dennis Mortensen to talk the future of AI, starting your own business and whether that entrepreneurial spirit will ever fade. Oh, and walking too.Please support me so I can keep creating kickass content! https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:x.ai (Dennis' kickass meeting software):http://x.ai/NVidia Noise Removal:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-mETIjcIV0Two Minute Papers:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbfYPyITQ-7l4upoX8nvctgAI Safety Videos (Robert Miles):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLB7AzTwc6VFZrBsO2ucBMgNVideo Background Removal:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-mETIjcIV0AngelList (Venture Capital):https://angel.co/CodeAcademy:https://www.codecademy.com/Self-Improvement is a Lifelong Endeavour:https://killyourinnerloser.com/self-improvement-is-a-lifelong-endeavour/Support the show
10/14/20201 hour, 22 minutes, 29 seconds
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Day 59: I Need to Pay My Bills, & Moving to a New City

Andy and Imogen discuss Andy finally going all-in with being able to pay his bills from this podcast/his site/his coaching, as well as their move to Brisbane, Australia.Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Please support Andy here:http://theinnerwinnershow.com/supportEpisode talking about the fascist insanity of the Melbourne lockdowns:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/8Support the show
10/13/202047 minutes, 40 seconds
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Day 58: LostCause on Hiring a Prostitute to Lose Your Virginity

Andy is joined by LostCause from his forums to discuss losing his virginity with a prostitute, how he got into photography, and how amazing hot Polish women are.Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Send LostCause a private message on my forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=40&t=93My Recommended Camera (Canon EOS RP):https://kyil-extra.com/dslr-camera-guideRun Towards Fear:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/6Good Looking Loser forums:https://goodlookingloser.com/forumsPodcast with Crisis_Overcomer:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5598511Support the show
10/12/202053 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 57: How We Met!

Andy and Imogen tell the wild and wacky tale of their first encounter. It's a saucy one...Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserGot sex/self-improvement/relationship questions you'd like to ask us, or are you a female listener who'd like to ask Imogen some questions? Fire away - ask us here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contactSHOWNOTES:Previous episode talking about women self-improving:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/48Support the show
10/11/202035 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 56: Crazy LSD Stories with Joe

Andy is joined by Joe from The Spot of Joe Show to discuss LSD, losing your mind, and using psychedelic drugs for self-development.Watch this episode on YouTube (with video): https://youtu.be/99gaRkOnJ3kProducts that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Joe's YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCF6ZPFyk4I70gqtfff5kHLQ/videosMy YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxqSbTtRlqz3hTWFlis1_bA?view_as=subscriberSuperJelly (Joe's musician friend):https://www.superjelly.us/https://soundcloud.com/superjellyworldSupport the show
10/10/20201 hour, 22 minutes, 22 seconds
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Day 55: Answering Your 3some & BDSM Questions

Andy & Imogen tackle a few of your BDSM and 3some questions.Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:How Can Women Get into Self-Improvement?https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/54955033some Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/3some-guide/17 Reasons to Date Younger Women:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFD0AeDytRYSupport the show
10/9/202041 minutes, 2 seconds
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Day 54: Why Obsession is Mandatory

Girls, goals, the meaning of life, COVID and how fucking delicious Southern food is.Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:"Southern Sausage Gravy" meal I cooked after this call:https://imgur.com/lu4nEl9Good Looking Loser:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/App to stop you distracting yourself:https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.stayfocused&hl=en_AUJim Sterling:https://www.youtube.com/user/JimSterlingWhat is the Meaning of Life Podcast Episode:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/38/GravyTrain Interview:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPrS18XzXcoGood Looking Loser "Going Out Alone at Night" (Free Program):https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-to-go-out-alone-to-bars-part-1This is All Just a Big Experiment:https://killyourinnerloser.com/this-is-all-just-a-big-experiment/Support the show
10/8/20201 hour, 50 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 53: Crisis_Overcomer on Fitness, Girls, Making Money & Adding to the World

Andy is joined by Crisis_Overcomer from his forums to talk about girls, fitness, and Andy's struggles with asking other people for money.Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Crisis_Overcomer's Fitness Advice:https://grecianfitness.eu/andyHis book on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B082PT6FG6/ref=as_sl_pc_tf_til?tag=&linkCode=w00&linkId=&creativeASIN=B082PT6FG6Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid:https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/The Millionaire Fastlane (not an affiliate link):https://www.amazon.com/Millionaire-Fastlane-Crack-Wealth-Lifetime/dp/B0146TGBZ8/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=The+Millionaire+Fastlane&qid=1601022722&sr=8-1Good Looking Loser:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/David (GravyTrain) Interview about making money:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPrS18XzXcoMy Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Stop Being a C*** to Yourself:https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-be-a-cunt-to-yourself/Support the show
10/7/20201 hour, 33 minutes, 44 seconds
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Day 52: Art, Girls, Cancel Culture & Fitness with Sid

Forum member Sid joins Andy to talk about "cancel culture", girls, fitness and art - and shares a crazy story of 3 men carrying an unconscious girl past a security guard and putting her in the back of their car...Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Sid's art Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/siddcole/The Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/It's "You and Me":https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/Give Yourself Permission to Suck:https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/Run Towards Fear (podcast):https://theinnerwinnershow.com/6/Good Looking Loser - Approach Anxiety Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1Support the show
10/6/20201 hour, 13 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 51: Should You take Steroids? And Why Society is Lying to You About Everything

Turns out society is full of shit, most of the time. Here's how to separate myth from fact, and how to do your own research and make your own decisions like an adult.Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:More Plates More Dates:https://moreplatesmoredates.com/your-first-sarms-cycle-dos-and-donts/List of Common Misconceptions:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_common_misconceptionsList of cognitive biases (thinking errors people make):https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_cognitive_biasesGood Looking Loser Approach Anxiety Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Support the show
10/5/202036 minutes, 47 seconds
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Day 50: Sex Tips + Cosmo Bashing

Andy and Imogen give some of their best sex tips... Plus a little bashing of Cosmopolitan Magazine.Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserGot sex/self-improvement/relationship questions you'd like to ask us, or are you a female listener who'd like to ask Imogen some questions? Fire away - ask us here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contactSupport the show
10/4/202047 minutes, 44 seconds
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Day 49: The Pinnacle of Man on NoFap, Porn Addiction, Making Money & Dodging Haters

Andy is joined by Josh from Pinnacle of Man to talk nofap and overcoming porn addiction, making money, crazy hater stories and why a girl sitting on your lap is generally a pretty decent sign she might be into you....Please support me so I can keep creating kickass content! https://theinnerwinnershow.com/supportPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserSHOWNOTES:Josh's NoFap YouTube channel "Pinnacle of Man":https://www.youtube.com/user/PinnacleOfManMy previous podcast about my own porn addiction:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/13Good Looking Loser (Chris):https://goodlookingloser.comWhat to Do When You Feel Hopeless and Helpless:https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations#luxuryJocko Willink (Extreme Ownership):https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#jocko-willinkI Am Always Full of Doubt:http://killyourinnerloser.com/doubtSupport the show
10/4/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 48: How Can Women Get into Self-Improvement?

A female listener asks a bunch of questions for Imogen to answer - how can women flirt with another woman, how to find a solid group of female friends & whether men or women make better creatives!Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserGot your own relationship questions you'd like to ask us, or are you a female listener who'd like to ask Imogen some questions? Fire away - ask us here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contactSHOWNOTES:Imogen and my first 3some (story) :https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-first-3some/Love languages:https://www.5lovelanguages.com/Support the show
10/2/20201 hour, 5 minutes, 1 second
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Day 47: Look for SOLUTIONS, not Problems

There's almost nothing in life you "can't" do, as long as you hold this as your philosophy: "I'll stop focusing on my problems and start looking for solutions."Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserWant to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:Fiverr:https://fiverr.comUpwork:https://www.upwork.com/My forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/GoodLookingLoser forums:http://goodlookingloser.com/forumsMy girlfriend's art Fiverr page:https://www.fiverr.com/immydraws?up_rollout=trueSupport the show
10/1/202040 minutes, 58 seconds
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Day 46: How to Double-book Dates

Should you schedule dates with 2 different women for the same day - and how do you go about setting that up?Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserGot sex/self-improvement/relationship questions you'd like to ask us, or are you a female listener who'd like to ask Imogen some questions? Fire away - ask us here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contactSHOWNOTES:Interview with Sigma:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5258731Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/30/202024 minutes, 19 seconds
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Day 45: "I'm Losing My Will to Change"

Andy & Imogen answer a listener's questions about feeling like change is "impossible" for him.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7FydNtklQr0Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserWant to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:My Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxqSbTtRlqz3hTWFlis1_bAYou Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought BOOK:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#you-cant-afford-the-luxury-of-a-negative-thoughtMy Podcast Episode talking about the book:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/51176565 Minute Meditatorhttps://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#5-minute-meditatorMark Manson Fuck Your Feelings:https://markmanson.net/fuck-your-feelingsHow to have fun with approaching:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5446105Hopeless and Hopeless:http://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helplessWant to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/29/202051 minutes, 16 seconds
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Day 44: Choosing Between Getting Laid or Making Money?

Andy and Immy answer a friend's questions about whether you should pursue sex and having fun - or going all-in with money/career/finances.Products that'll change your fucking life: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/recommendationsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloserWant to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:Eventually You'll End Up Settling Down:https://killyourinnerloser.com/settling/Should you get back with an ex? https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-breakup/#lets-just-be-friends%E2%84%A2Support the show
9/28/202056 minutes, 4 seconds
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Day 43: Cold Approach/Daygame Should be FUN

Andy's got two awesome tips for making your approaches far more fun.Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:Be coached by me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching/Support the show
9/27/202019 minutes, 6 seconds
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Day 42: Can You Neglect Your Looks, if Your Game is Good?

Should you focus on improving your looks as a priority - or can you neglect that and learn "game"/routines/social skills?Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:Podcast episode with Will:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5428537Proof:https://killyourinnerloser.com/proofWhy Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Getting Laid:https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/#why-losing-fat-matters-mostSupport the show
9/26/202059 minutes, 31 seconds
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Day 41: Sex is Likes Sales, The Red Pill Sucks, & The Apocalypse Opener.

Andy is joined by Will from his forums to discuss how sex is exactly like sales, shortcomings and positives of The Red Pill, and how to go out to bars alone. Oh, and why BPD girls are nuts.Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/The Red Pill Reddit:https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/This is All Just a Big Experiment:https://killyourinnerloser.com/this-is-all-just-a-big-experiment/Oh No, You've Angered the Gods:https://killyourinnerloser.com/youve-angered-the-gods/There is No Such Thing as Alpha:https://killyourinnerloser.com/alpha/Going Out Alone Program (free):https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-to-go-out-alone-to-bars-part-1How to Make Friends:https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/Support the show
9/25/20201 hour, 16 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 40: Weekly Accountability Check-ins

Struggling to keep yourself accountable with your goals? Do what Andy and Imogen do - use a weekly check-in to keep yourself on-task.The questions Imogen and I ask each other every Sunday:Questions to ask Andy:Look at where I'm at with money/my site/coachingWhat can Imogen do to help me on my mission?Talk about what I'm going to do to make progress in the following week.Talk about my future goal (eg pay all my bills from my coaching).Talk about how we get closer to that goal.Do I have a hopelessness and am I self sabotaging by thinking I can't reach that goal?Am I holding back and not going all in ( eg. Enquiry emails I haven't replied to, client work I haven't done, taking too long?)Is there more I can do to go all in (marketing, posting on forums, writing next big content series rather than easy articles, etc).When was the last time I posted article on reddit to share them? (Needs to be at least once a week).What can I do to support Imogen this week with her goals?Questions to ask Imogen:Have I been nice to myself this week? Talk about the positive / negative self talk that has come up this week.Have I practiced challenging my negative thoughts this week? How is my weight loss going? Is there a little change that I can make as the next step towards weight loss? Or am I making progress now? How did I feel about my art this week? What can I do next week to enjoy my art? What have been my successes this week? And for all of my goals what am I working towards next week? SHOWNOTES:Interview with David:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPrS18XzXcoWant to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/24/202037 minutes, 46 seconds
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Day 39: "What is the Difference Between a Dealbreaker and a Flaw?"

Andy answers a listener's question: "How do you differentiate between deal breakers and flaws?"Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:Timewasters (Red Flags to Look Out For):https://killyourinnerloser.com/timewasters/Support the show
9/23/202038 minutes, 11 seconds
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Day 38: The Meaning Of Life & How to Be Happy

Struggling to get over an ex, and want to know the meaning of life and how to be happy? Tune in!Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:Coaching Call with one of my clients:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A8p995lHaV4My Tinder Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guideYou Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:http://kyil-extra.com/recommendations#luxurySupport the show
9/22/202036 minutes, 13 seconds
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Day 37: "I'm a Virgin & I Don't Feel Any Urgency to Lose It"

Is there a way you can force yourself out of complacency and generate some motivation? Andy's got you covered.Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:My "Get Laid a Tonne on Tinder" Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guideGood Looking Loser's article on complacency:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/the-comfortable-life-of-the-undersexed-maleThe Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Discipline and Willpower Don't Fucking Matter:https://killyourinnerloser.com/discipline-willpower-dont-matter/Podcast episode on "I'm afraid of being alone":https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5393119Don't Worry, You're Making Progress:https://killyourinnerloser.com/progress/Episode with David about accountability partners:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPrS18XzXcoSupport the show
9/21/202045 minutes, 54 seconds
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Day 36: "What should I say to girls?"

Andy tell you exactly what t say to girls you hit on, and gives you some tips on what to do when you run out of thing to say. Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES: Don't Kill Yourself:https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-kill-yourself/ If You Feel Hopeless and Helpless:https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryHow to Get Good Sleephttps://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/ My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Podcast episode with Radical:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5362129Support the show
9/20/202049 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 35: Interview with David (GravyTrain)

Watch this interview on YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/PPrS18XzXcoYou guys asked for it - here's an interview with the legendary David (GravyTrain)! We go balls-deep into how David overcame his debts, started his own home services business and now makes over $1000 a day.Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:Photos of David's Whiteboard:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/DavidWhiteboard.jpgDavid's Home Page:https://www.homeservicebizmastermind.com/David's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/gravytales/My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/The Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Book "The One Thing":https://www.the1thing.com/Support the show
9/19/20201 hour, 17 minutes, 59 seconds
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Day 34: My Most Cringeworthy Girl Story

Andy meets a girl who gives him the world's most obvious signals, and he still doesn't realise she's into him...Email me and tell me your most CRINGEWORTHY dating story!https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/18/202024 minutes, 20 seconds
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Day 33: Why Insecurity & Impatience are Actually Superpowers!

Is insecurity even a bad thing? Hell no, it's a SUPERPOWER!Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on the podcast?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/SHOWNOTES:Give yourself permission to suck:https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/I Am Always Full of Doubt:https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubtThe Myth of the Lonely Old Man:https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/12/the-myth-of-the-lonely-old-man/Willpower and Discipline Don't Fucking Matter:https://medium.com/@killyourinnerloser/discipline-willpower-dont-fucking-matter-c1f7bcdba4d5The Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Support the show
9/17/202044 minutes, 17 seconds
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Day 32: Talk About what You HAVE Done, Not What You WILL Do

Andy waxes lyrical about his years of depression and how he overcame it by taking action - not by sitting around talking about what he "would" do.SHOWNOTES:My forums (start your own progress log there):https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Radical interview:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5362129Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#jordan-petersonThe Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Support the show
9/16/202018 minutes, 23 seconds
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Day 31: "I Can't Do Anything During COVID Lockdowns"

Andy goes ham on a listener who feels like he can't make any progress during this pandemic. Is he just making excuses?SHOWNOTES:Watch this vid on YouTube:https://youtu.be/e1zWvR9FALoMy Depression:https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-covid-depression/If you're depressed yourself:https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/Are You Using This Time Productively?https://killyourinnerloser.com/are-you-using-this-time-productively/My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Podcast with SIGMA:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5258731My Podcast:https://theinnerwinnershow.comSupport the show
9/15/202023 minutes
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Day 30: Success Story: Radical

Andy is joined by a coaching client and veteran of his forums, Radical, dishing out plenty of dating, relationship and travel advice to newbies and experts alike.SHOWNOTES:Radical's Youtube "Impulsive Improvements":https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCASD1CjHj6-o_3uuOv9K5IgBe Coached by Me:http://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingMy own crazy girl story:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5240242My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/My Tinder Guide:http://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guideGood Looking Loser/"Chris"/GLL (where we both started):http://goodlookingloser.com/forumsRadical's Hostel Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-meet-girls-in-hostels/Approach Anxiety Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1Black Dragon Blog:https://blackdragonblog.com/My Full Log on GoodLookingLoser:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/lay-reports/139680Support the show
9/14/20201 hour, 37 minutes, 20 seconds
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Day 29: Is Being Short a Dealbreaker for Girls?

Andy and Imogen answer a listener's questions and give him a bit of general feedback.This was also done as a YouTube video! View it here:https://youtu.be/2sWC63FOIHQSHOWNOTES:Why Losing Fat Matters Above All Else for Dating:https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-elseHeight-Increasing Insoles:https://kyil-extra.com/increase-your-heightCoaching call I referenced:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A8p995lHaV4Support the show
9/13/202028 minutes, 44 seconds
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Day 28: One of My Best Coaching Calls Ever

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/A8p995lHaV4Ever wondered what my coaching calls are like? Here's a full, raw 2hr coaching call I had recently. We covered everything from the meaning of life to finding satisfaction in relationships, as well as how to be honest with the opposite sex. Oh, and a couple crazy stories about getting off over your own image in the mirror, ala American Psycho...Shownotes by Slickbackhair:12:06 = Human beings vs human doings. What Andy believes makes a man attractive to women.16:04 = The best time to get on Tinder to see girls at their most horniest. If you have problems seeing chicks sexually or yourself as a sexual person, this is definitely something you should listen to and try.21:34 = If you feel mentally fucked upside down because of lockdown, here's Andy's #1 recommendation to start becoming social again. Good news, it's FREE. Anyone can take advantage of this.23:32 = The #1 answer to almost every problem you have. Seriously, any problem you have this one thing is literally the only reason Andy slept with over 100 chicks and I've made over $3.5 million in sales this year.25:02 = How to use "nervousness/awkwardness/anxiety" to your advantage whenever meeting new chicks.29:41 = For context, once I wrote a million dollar sales letter, I didn't feel as satisfied as I thought I would. I was just like, "it's another day in the life." Here Andy shows me why that's happening and gives me a different view into overall life satisfaction. If you're crushing it in life but dissatisfied with yourself, the next 10 minutes is for you.42:20 = Hate breaking a chick's heart? Me too. That's why I asked him. "How do you be honest with girls about the fact you only want casual relationships?" His answer is clear and simple. You won't want to miss that.46:00 = Continued... How to be honest once you're out in the world.Real examples from Andy in what it looks like in practice.50:00 = One of the best games to play on the first date to make sure the rest of your relationship goes smoothly. [Or which could end up saving you LOADS OF HEADACHES by filtering out the wrong games.]54:00 = "I've been in back to back to back long term relationships. Is that something you bring up to new chicks? Or do you not? Or does it even matter?" His answer here is easily my #1 nugget from this 2 hour convo.60:00 = How honesty makes you standout in her mind compared to most other guys she'll EVER meet.67:00 = A sexual experience you can give to your girl right now that she'll never forget.For twenty minutes after this, Andy and I sound like fucking hyneas on LSD. If you want to laugh, enjoy how a piece of bread turns Andy into God. Honestly, this laugh alone was worth $200 for me.88:00 = One question to ask yourself every morning to guarantee you're living a FULL LIFE you're satisfied with.-------After the call, he posted on the Good Looking Loser forums:"Had one of the best conversations of my life with Andy.I highly recommend getting a coaching call with Killyourinnerloser. It gets your head right.And there's nothing like having an outside perspective - especially from someone not in close proximity to you - taking a close look at what your struggles/concerns are."SHOWNOTES:Be coached by me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching/My YouTube channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxqSbTtRlqz3hTWFlis1_bAPodcast about the Crazy Girl Story:Support the show
9/12/20201 hour, 40 minutes, 33 seconds
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Day 27: Fitness & Youtube with Guest Tristan Nigro

Andy is joined by the buffest Canadian you'll ever meet - Tristan Nigro - to talk fitness, getting started on Youtube, content creation, and that one time he got naked in a Planet Fitness.SHOWNOTES:Tristan Nigro's Youtube channel (go subscribe to him, show him a bit of love!):https://www.youtube.com/c/TristanNigro1/videosWearing a Speedo in Planet Fitness:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuoGuV7iAPk&t=214sTristan's Epic 5-Year Transformation:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GO-VRgSjPIoCardio Does Not Increase Weight Loss:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QB-ULMwsLkoGood Looking Loser Approach Anxiety Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1How I (Andy) beat my own approach anxiety (using the same program):https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/Good Looking Loser Forums:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/forumsJoe Rogan interview with Ronny Coleman:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mi5OlUE3BLcSupport the show
9/11/20201 hour, 26 minutes, 51 seconds
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Day 26: Anxiety Around Disappointing Your Partner

Andy and Imogen go balls-deep on topics of anxiety, arguing/fighting with your partner, when to apologise, whether you should try and fix things - or whether you should just let them be mad for awhile.SHOWNOTES:1000 people respond with relationship advice:https://markmanson.net/relationship-adviceNo More Mr Nice Guy:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guyYou Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryHow to Make Friends:https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forumsSupport the show
9/10/20201 hour, 14 minutes, 37 seconds
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Day 25: The Craziest Story of My Entire Life (Part 2)

A story I've been hinting at for years - a girl who absolutely lost her mind and called the police + fire department + ambulance on me.Previous episode is here: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/23SHOWNOTES:Previous episode:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/23Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/9/202014 minutes, 49 seconds
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Day 24: Guest Episode with Sigma

Andy's joined by a guest from his forums - Sigma!SHOWNOTES:My Transformation (from fat loser to winner):https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-transformationHow to Quit Porn (podcast):https://theinnerwinnershow.com/13What to Do When You Feel Hopeless and Helpless:https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/8/20201 hour, 11 minutes, 5 seconds
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Day 23: The Craziest Story of My Entire Life (Part 1)

A story I've been hinting at for years - a girl who absolutely lost her mind and called the police + fire department + ambulance on me.Hit on her in grocery store.Asked what done on weekend. "I went on a date with this guy". How I said "Sounds like he was really boring".Slightly weird first date. Wanted me to buy her a drink. Was so weird about it.I wasn't that into her, was starting to call the date off.How I texted my mate while she was in the toilet and we realised we'd both dated same girl.Remember I'd literally insulted my mate during the approach and said he must have been a boring guy!Talked to mate, he said I had to fuck her just for the story alone.Ended up having sex.Things were normal for a while.At some point she sees my facebook page and sees my buddy. She's like "how the hell do you know him?"Had an LSD trip. I ask EVERY girl if they've had any issues with mental illness or any adverse reactions.Was with my parents, she texted me and called me like 30 timesStarted saying weird shit like that I was God and she was willing to die for me(READ OUT SOME OF THE TEXTS)She acted fucking psychoHow she had borrowed my camera and I knew I needed to get it backHow she screamed "I THOUGHT YOU WERE DEAD!" and feotal positionI stopped responding. Best thing with a crazy person is to NEVER respondKnocked on my door for hours and hours and hoursNeighbours started saying shitPolice and fire department wanting to smash down the door"I will only open the door if you take her away".I got sent the bill for the calloutShe was taken to a mental institutionShe started stalking me again, knocking on door again. At this point I'm freaking out like mad.SHOWNOTES:The stick that was in her foot (it was twice as long as this before they broke it off):https://theinnerwinnershow.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/IMG_20170417_233920-scaled.jpgWant a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/7/202057 minutes
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Day 22: OMG, Andy Doesn't Know Everything!

Inspired by a coaching call, Andy explains what he means when he says, "This is all just a big experiment."TOPICS COVERED:My sites/podcasts are what has worked for ME.It's up to you to run your own experiments.I never give "rules" - I'm not here to tell you what to do.Different techniques will get you similar results. One guy might do the complete opposite of me and still reach his goals.You should be better than me.Take bits of my advice, bits of someone else's advice - mix and match and carve your own path.I'm not perfect, my advice isn't perfect, and I don't have all the answers.Staying humble is important - otherwise you'll be closed off to new opinions, new information, etc.We are all always a work in progress.SHOWNOTES:Does Penis Size Matter? (Podcast episode):https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/episodes/5059463This is All Just a Big Experiment:https://killyourinnerloser.com/this-is-all-just-a-big-experiment/Oh No, You've Angered the Gods!https://killyourinnerloser.com/youve-angered-the-gods/You Can't Force Somebody to Like You:https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-cant-force-someone-to-like-you/You Should be Better than Your Idols:https://killyourinnerloser.com/idols/Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/6/202050 minutes, 52 seconds
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Day 21: Last Minute Resistance & Girls who Have a Boyfriend

Andy and Immy answer a listener's questions about sex, dating, and whether or not you should have sex with a girl who has a boyfriend.TOPICS COVERED:Lots of these questions you'll figure out yourself by talking to more girls and getting more experience."Last Minute Resistance" often just means you weren't clear enough and upfront enough that you wanted to have sex.If a girl is hesitant to have sex, just chill and back off a bit. Often she'll warm up once she sees you're not pushy.Empathise with her - ask her what her concerns are and work through them.Remember, if she's half-naked in your bed, she wants to have sex with you. She's just nervous/hesitant/worried/etc. It's your job to help her have sex with you. You're both working towards sex together.Making girls want you mostly comes from making yourself more attractive. Hit the gym, lose some fat, dress better, get a new haircut, wear a nice watch/necklace/rings/etc.Foreplay helps too - use my foreplay guide in the shownotes."Same day lays" - Tinder, or bars, or parties are the easiest.Otherwise, try hitting on a girl in the morning. Grab a coffee with her, then hangout all day - spend the day together. Have a drink in the evening then invite her back to yours.Or go out on a Friday and Sat night and hit on girls on the street - find one who's willing to grab a drink with you and then afterwards, invite her back to yours.SHOWNOTES:Run Towards Fear (it's episode 6, not 3!!!!!!!!!):https://theinnerwinnershow.com/6/The Solution to All Your Problems: Go Talk to More Girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/go-talk-to-more-girls/My Foreplay Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#32-the-foreplayMy Tinder Guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guideWhy Losing Fat Matters Above All Else:https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/5/202055 minutes, 27 seconds
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Day 20: Do Andy & Imogen Want Kids? [Part 2]

Does Andy want kids? Does Imogen? What about when she "hits the wall" and her biological clock kicks in? (Part 2 of 2). TOPICS COVERED:Pros of having kids.Cons of having kids.Pros of not having kids.Cons of not having kids.SHOWNOTES:Previous episode:http://theinnerwinnershow.com/19The Jake and Amir joke I stole:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJGiNoIamdgChildfree Subreddit:https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/The Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Self-improvement is a lifelong endeavour:https://killyourinnerloser.com/self-improvement-is-a-lifelong-endeavour/Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/4/20201 hour, 6 minutes, 1 second
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Day 19: Do Andy & Imogen Want Kids? [Part 1]

Does Andy want kids? Does Imogen? What about when she "hits the wall" and her biological clock kicks in? (Part 1 of 2)TOPICS COVERED:Dealing wtih ruts/lack of motivation;Just START.Use self-medication/rewards to motivate yourself.Build small daily habits using "The Slight Edge" book.Lower the barrier to entry - use the "1 Pushup Challenge" method).Having kids:Does Imogen want kids?Is she just being naive because she's only 20?"Hitting the wall" - what about when she's closer to 30? Will her "biological clock" make her regret her decisions?Always be working on a mission - life is a process of achieving a mission then starting on a new one.Kids are a form of "self-improvement project"; you have them so you can have a mission/responsibility.What about when everyone else is having kids - would you feel pressured?Debating, playing "Devil's Advocate", and my friend's views on this.Mission: Hold a BabyGetting that "mentor/mothering" itch scratch.Opening one door means closing another door. It's a choice - don't have kids and get to travel the world, be free, not be tied down, etc. Or have a family. Both have pros and cons.SHOWNOTES:The Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/1 Pushup a Day:https://stephenguise.com/take-the-one-push-up-challenge/Open Relationships Podcast:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/5/Self-improvement is a lifelong endeavour:https://killyourinnerloser.com/self-improvement-is-a-lifelong-endeavour/Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/3/202059 minutes, 9 seconds
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Day 18: Q&A with Imogen: What's it Like Being Andy's Girlfriend? [Part 2]

Andy asks Imogen a bunch of your questions (part 2 of 2).Shownotes:Pink Toy (Imogen's favourite vibrator):https://shrsl.com/2gqk9(That's an affiliate link).Previous podcast talking about porn and abusive sex:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/episodes/5167201Story of Our First 3some:https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-first-3some/Topics Covered:What type of girls do we both prefer?Different types of BDSM dynamics?- She's submissive- inexperienced- She's our toy- We're a couple dating or having sex with another girl- etcConfident girls - do we/does she like them?Telling her mother we're in an open relationship where we see other girls?What's our plan for the future - what are our goals?Being a power couple?Will we ever invite the girls we date to come on the podcast?If you have questions you want to hear a girl's perspective on, ask away. Anything at all. I'll ask her more questions like this in upcoming episodes, we'll do another Q&A. Email me:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/2/202039 minutes, 1 second
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Day 17: Q&A with Imogen: What's it Like Being Andy's Girlfriend? [Part 1]

Andy asks Imogen a bunch of your questions (part 1 of 2).Shownotes:Pink Toy (Imogen's favourite vibrator):https://shrsl.com/2gqk9(That's an affiliate link).Previous podcast talking about porn and abusive sex:https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5167201Story of Our First 3some:https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-first-3some/Topics Covered:These are questions people have asked me to ask Imogen. And some of them are my own questions I've thrown in there too.What's your favourite thing in the bedroom?How'd you get into BDSM?What does it feel like being submissive/being dominated?What does it feel like for Andy, being dominant? What does the power feel like?What was our first 3some like?The story of being ok with me posting our stuff on the internet for people to see, how you overcame shyness.Conversations we had about it, me making sure you were ok with it, taking your feelings into consideration.Is it weird dating a guy who puts his stuff out there on the net?When did I first tell you about my website, and what was your reaction?Others have asked: What do you (Imogen) think of my forums and guys coming together to improve themselves, have sex, find girlfriends, etc?What type of girls do we both prefer?If you have questions you want to hear a girl's perspective on, ask away. Anything at all. I'll ask her more questions like this in upcoming episodes, we'll do another Q&A. Email me:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
9/1/20201 hour, 1 minute, 29 seconds
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Day 16: First Guest John - Getting Laid, Making Friends

Andy has his first guest (well, other than Imogen...) join him to talk about making friends, being productive, and travelling across the entire country to go all-in on getting laid.John had never been on a podcast before - I think he did a pretty awesome job. What do you think?Want to be on the podcast yourself? Email me here: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Shownotes:Good Looking Loser Going Out To Bars Alone Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-to-go-out-alone-to-bars-part-1You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:http://kyil-extra.com/recommendations#luxuryGLL Approach Anxiety Program:https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1My Forums:https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/"I Give You Permission":https://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/claim-that-pussy/Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
8/31/20201 hour, 19 minutes, 50 seconds
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Day 15: Dealing with a Lack of Motivation?

Super quick one - Andy answers the question "How do you deal with a lack of motivation" on a day when he's seriously lacking motivation. How meta!Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
8/30/20206 minutes, 14 seconds
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Day 14: The Red Pill is a Bit Crazy Sometimes...

Andy and Imogen have a bit of fun pointing out some of the inconsistencies of The Red Pill.Shownotes:The 4some:https://killyourinnerloser.com/4some/Oh No You've Angered the Gods:https://killyourinnerloser.com/youve-angered-the-gods/"All Women Are Like That":https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-write-off-all-women/The Takeaway:Don't write off all women just because a few weren't great.Women are absolutely capable of loyalty; it's up to you to find the loyal ones, and to expect loyalty from them.Stop obsessing about "beta" vs "alpha". Instead just focus on living the life you want to live. Make self-improvement your mission; not "Is this alpha? Is this beta?"What are you experiences of the red pill - has it helped you? Hindered you? Let me know:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
8/29/202047 minutes, 33 seconds
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Day 13: Overcoming Porn Addiction & Not Using Women

Andy dives in to his own past struggles with porn addiction, as well as how to have sex that makes you feel good about yourself - and her too.Shownotes:NoFap.com:https://nofap.com/You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryMy How to Get Laid on Tinder Guide (also applies to relationships, and meeting girls in person):https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/The Takeaway:Don't just focus on "I will stop watching porn". Make sure you also have something to work towards - something to replace the porn with.Focusing 100% and going all-in on your goals (especially your dating/sex goals) will give you something to focus on that isn't porn.I struggled for years with a very bad porn addiction; focusing on fixing my sex life was the cure for me.Don't use women to just fulfill a porn fantasy; instead, share that fantasy with them and make it a fun thing you do together.During sex, you can frame things as "I will aim to turn her on like crazy and make her go wild" - rather than "I'm using her to fulfill my porn fantasy".Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
8/28/20201 hour, 14 minutes, 46 seconds
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Day 12: Age Gaps, Mentoring Women & Not Being Controlling

Andy and Imogen answer a listener's questions about the boundaries between mentoring girls vs being too controlling.SHOWNOTES:Imogen's Artwork (Fiverr):https://www.fiverr.com/immydraws?up_rollout=trueJocko Willink Podcast:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdTMDpizis8The Red Quest on Modelling behaviour you want to see from girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-red-quest-on-modelling-behaviour/Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
8/27/202050 minutes, 17 seconds
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Day 11: You Are NOT Meant to Live My Lifestyle Forever, & Why Traditional Relationships are "Normal"

Day 11 of 365: The best episode yet, covering topics of serious relationships, whether you can (or should) be a player forever, and whether girls should be judged for having a lot of sex.The Takeaway:My only goal with my site/coaching/podcast is for you to achieve YOUR goals and for you to be HAPPY. My goal isn't to make you a copy-paste clone of me.On that note, I am very rare for wanting lots and lots of sex and non-monogamy. The vast majority of men want monogamy (eventually) and marriage/kids (eventually). If you want these things too, awesome! Embrace the fact you want them, and work really fucking hard to achieve them. Go all-in.You may want to have a casual sex/open relationship phase for a while - awesome! Treat it like a chapter in your life and go 100% all-in, and make it the best phase of your life. (If you want open relationships forever, that's very achievable too - I'm proof of that. Again, do whatever YOU want to do, not what you think you "should" do. Don't compare yourself to others.)I show you mostly the "highlight reels" of my life. I'm not a cool, super-awesome guy; I'm just above-average. I don't go to parties or clubs or raves, etc. Most of my weekends are boring. You don't have to be a super cool dude in order to get laid a lot (though if you are, great!) If you get caught up in thinking girls are "sluts" for having a lot of sex, that's something to work on. A girl who has a lot of sex isn't a bad person. In the same way you wouldn't go to Disneyland and say "Man, a lot of people have been on this ride, that's disgusting, I'm not riding it" - don't do the same thing with girls who've explored their sexuality. Just have a bit of fun with them, see them for as long as you're both happy to see each other, and let go of your judgemental mindset/insecurity/jealousy.Concepts like "All Women Are Like That" are incredibly myopic and downright wrong. You can't judge people based on their POTENTIAL behaviour; nor can you judge the entire gender by their worst possible aspects. If we accept "all women will cheat on you and leave you", then it's just as valid to say "all men will rape you". Poor attitudes like this only serve to make you bitter, angry, resentful and miserable. You're setting yourself up for failure; if you believe women suck, it'll become a self-fulfilling prophecy.You don't need "fuckboi" attributes in order to get laid a lot. Physical attractiveness is important, as is good style/fashion/dress-sense. Those things will help you in every aspect of your life.You also don't need to be a "BDSM god". Just write a sexual bucketlist and get girls to write their own, and explore those things together.Shownotes:OBSESS about your goals:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/#25-1-or-2-main-goals-you-obsess-aboutHow to Write a Sexual Bucketlist:https://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlist/Magic Wand Vibrator:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand/Andy's counter-argument to "All Women Are Like that (AWALT)":https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-write-off-all-women/Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
8/26/20201 hour, 18 minutes, 20 seconds
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Day 10: 5 People Have Signed Up for the 365 Project!

Day 10 of 365: 5 more people join me on the 365 day challenge.Imogen's 1-art-a-day:https://www.instagram.com/art.with.immy/Bad Idea Bear's 1-guitar-lick-a-day:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe6A9DJ8CXGN1VjezJppCkw/videosCrisis_Overcomer's books:https://www.amazon.com/Fotis-Chatzinicolaou/e/B00LW9I9HY/ref=dp_byline_cont_ebooks_11 Pushup a Day Challenge:https://stephenguise.com/take-the-one-push-up-challenge/Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
8/25/202047 minutes, 34 seconds
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Day 9: You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought

Day 9 of 365: Andy dives into his own mental health and walks you through some exercises to battle negative thought patterns.Shownotes:You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxuryMy "No Photo Today" photo:https://www.flickr.com/photos/amwbonfire/10485083785/in/photolist-nRNKex-gYwN7DWant a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
8/24/20201 hour, 7 minutes, 49 seconds
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Day 8: Fascist Dictatorships in Melbourne, Australia

Day 8 of 365: A much more free-flowing episode with no script, discussing 365 projects and police states. Good fun.Shownotes:Melbourne Police State (Datasheet):http://melbournepolicestate.com/Rollo & Slappy Show:https://www.mcfloogle.com/212Imogen's Artwork:https://www.fiverr.com/immydrawsMy COVID Depression:https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-covid-depression/My Photography 365 project:https://handyandypandy.com/365The Magic Wand I'm always talking about:https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wandWant a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/Support the show
8/23/20201 hour, 45 minutes, 43 seconds
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Day 7: 365 Day Challenge

Day 7 of 365: Andy commits to 365 days in a row of podcasts. Join me!The Takeaway:If I can do this, you sure as hell can too. Some ideas:1 approach a day (talk to one girl a day).1 piece of content a day (art, Youtube video, write something, record a song or piece of music, draw something, do a podcast).Workout every single day (mix the workouts up so you don't fatigue any one particular muscle group).Email one celeb/influencer/famous YouTuber/Instagrammer a day and ask them if you can work for them or contribute a project for them.Tell 1 person a day how grateful you are for them.Email one person you respect or look up to every single day to thank them for their work, or ask them a question like "What's one thing you wished you knew when you first started?" etcGive 1 stranger a compliment every single day for a year.Take 1 photo a day.Do 1 volunteer community project a day.Write 1 poem a day.Anything else you've always wanted to get good at or practice; doing something for 365 days will absolutely make you an expert on that subject.Shownotes:My 365 Photography Project:http://handyandypandy.com/365Support the show
8/22/202015 minutes, 56 seconds
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Day 6: Run TOWARDS Fear

Day 6 of 365: Andy & his guest Imogen tackle fear the best way they know how; head-on.The Takeaway:Run towards fear - don't avoid it.The more you practice embracing fear, the easier it'll become.Exposure therapy is pretty much the only way to overcome fear. You can do this gradually one step at a time, or jump straight into the deep end.Running towards fear sucks in the moment; but future you will thank you.When you feel the fear talking; yell out STOP. Then use the "3 2 1 GO" technique. Stop overthinking and just jump in there and do it.Shownotes:My First Tattoo Story:https://killyourinnerloser.com/andy-gets-a-tattoo/My Vasectomy Story:https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-vasectomy/ Aiming High Means Falling Far:https://killyourinnerloser.com/aiming-high-means-falling-far/Elon Musk on Fear:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YH1txRfa0oYGive Yourself Permission to Suck (my first article):https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/How I Beat my Approach Anxiety:https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/ I Am Always Full of Doubt:https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubt/Comments by "Will" throwing himself into the fear:https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/#comment-64Support the show
8/21/20201 hour, 5 minutes, 13 seconds
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Day 5: Open Relationships & Boundaries

Day 5 of 365: Andy and Imogen talk about their open relationships, seeing other girls together, setting boundaries and being on the same team in a relationship.This podcast comes from a listener question: "I would like to know your thoughts on open relationships. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I want to meddle with your lives, but I would like to know how your opinion on open relationships, and how you deal with boundaries, jealousy, and the stuff that comes with it. (In my case, the thought of my LTR sleeping with other men would be really annoying, but on the other hand, I want to sleep with every woman I find attractive)."Shownotes:How to Breakup Amicably:https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-breakup/Support the show
8/20/20201 hour, 23 minutes, 12 seconds
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Day 3: How to Pleasure Women, Does Penis Size Matter & Orgasms [Part 1]

Day 3 of 365: Andy and Imogen cover matters of size (Part 1).Magic Wand vibrator for crazy orgasms (affiliate link):https://doxymassager.com/collections/originals?aff=79Bathmate dick pump:https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate/Foreplay guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#32-the-foreplaySex guide/talking dirty guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#33-the-sexPerformance anxiety guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/#solution-1-give-yourself-permission-to-not-have-sexIt's "You and Me", not "You vs Me":https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-meHow to write Sexual Bucketlists:http://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlistBuilding things with girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-5/#12-build-something-togetherBDSM guides:https://killyourinnerloser.com/category/sex-dating/bdsm/Immy's Thoughts on Being Alpha:https://killyourinnerloser.com/on-being-alpha/Support the show
8/19/20201 hour, 2 minutes, 3 seconds
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Day 4: How to Pleasure Women, Whether Penis Size Matters & Orgasms [Part 2]

Day 4 of 365: Andy and Imogen cover matters of size (Part 2).Magic Wand vibrator for crazy orgasms (affiliate link):https://doxymassager.com/collections/originals?aff=79Bathmate dick pump:https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate/Foreplay guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#32-the-foreplaySex guide/talking dirty guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#33-the-sexPerformance anxiety guide:https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/#solution-1-give-yourself-permission-to-not-have-sexIt's "You and Me", not "You vs Me":https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-meHow to write Sexual Bucketlists:http://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlistBuilding things with girls:https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-5/#12-build-something-togetherBDSM guides:https://killyourinnerloser.com/category/sex-dating/bdsm/Immy's Thoughts on Being Alpha:https://killyourinnerloser.com/on-being-alpha/Support the show
8/19/202052 minutes, 3 seconds
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Day 2: Give Yourself Permission To Suck (Redux)

Day 2 of 365: The second time I've talked about my favourite concept - accepting you're going to be terrible when you first start a new goal, and throwing yourself in the deep end anyway.00:28 What I've been up to02:00 What I want this show to become04:04 If you'd like to be on the show yourself...04:57 30 days of podcasting05:48 Nerves, and giving yourself permission to suck09:00 If you have questions you'd like answered10:18 The next podcast11:00 The TakeawayShownotes:Libertarian podcast I was on:https://www.mcfloogle.com/212My coverage of Melbourne's police state:https://kyil-extra.com/melbourne-police-state/Give Yourself Permission to Suck:https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/The Slight Edge:https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/Contact me if you have questions or would like to be on the show:https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact/Support the show
8/18/202013 minutes, 28 seconds
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Day 1: And So It Begins...

Day 1 of 365: Andy kicks off the How to Kill Your Inner Loser Podcast with special guest - his girlfriend Imogen. With no real plan in mind, will our two eccentric hosts pull it off?Support the show
8/14/202053 minutes, 16 seconds