Do you ever feel like you're blind to your own actions? Or maybe you're caught in a pattern of self-blame and denial in your relationships. I had the privilege of sitting down with Dr. Jane Greer, renowned author of "Am I Lying to Myself? How to Overcome Denial and See the Truth," to discuss these very issues. Together, we shed light on denial as a defense mechanism, how it can distort our reality and ultimately lead to betrayal in relationships. Dr. Greer's expertise helped us explore the intricate dynamics of setting boundaries, dealing with demanders, and navigating the challenging path of overcoming betrayal.We offered insights on navigating these difficult issues and moving towards a healing path. So, take a seat, open your mind, and join us on this journey of overcoming denial and betrayal in relationships. Let's dive in!Dr. Jane Greer's bio:"I am a Marriage and Family Therapist, Psychotherapist, Author, a

Ever wondered how to turn a heated argument into a productive discussion? This episode promises to decode the art of communication with our special guest, Jefferson Fisher, a lawyer, acclaimed for his practical advice on effective communication. From his journey transitioning from law to social media, we uncover the power of dialogue, insightful phrases, and strategies to navigate conversations with not just colleagues, but also children and spouses. Dive into the world of conflict management, guided by the experiences of our guest, raised amidst a family of attorneys. Discover how a calm demeanor and a lower voice can de-escalate tense situations. The emphasis here is on how communication positively impacts relationships and conflict resolution. As we shift gears, we plunge into the realms of AI, the responsibility of voicing opinions in the social media space, and the art of parenting with effective communication principles. Each chapter of this conversation is

Do you ever wonder how much our mindset influences our health goals? We’ve been doing some thinking about it too, and today, we bring you an enlightening chat with Nate Palmer, a renowned coach, best-selling author, and speaker. Sharing his remarkable journey from overcoming childhood trauma to becoming an authority in the health and wellness world, Nate highlights the transformative power of shifting from a fear-based mentality to a positive-based one. We promise you a deep dive into the world of goal setting and language's powerful role in our approach to achieving these goals. Nate shares golden nuggets from his book, "The Million Dollar Body Method," and gives us a peek into the seven daily investments pivotal in reaching your health goals. But that's not all, we also have a candid conversation about nutrition, the pros and cons of intermittent fasting, and the significance of a high-protein, fat breakfast to maintain steady blood sugar levels throu

Ready to power up your waking hours? I've got you covered. This episode is an exploration of morning routines and their transformative effect on productivity and creativity. I'll share my personal journey and how this simple yet powerful habit has drastically reduced stress levels. I'll guide you on how to carve out a routine that fits your lifestyle, emphasizing the need to pre-decide morning activities. Plus, discover the profound benefits of keystone habits and why hitting the pause button on email, Instagram, and the news first thing in the morning can be a game-changer.Stepping into the spiritual realm, I discuss the invaluable practice of decision-making in advance and adherence to it. I'll touch upon how it can skyrocket your success rate. Drawing inspiration from the tale of King David, I underline the perils of depending too heavily on personal strength and neglecting faith. Trust me, this can be a real eye-opener!Transitioning into t

Wondering how to break free from your financial struggles and take control of your money? Join me as I sit down with Dan Ockey, co-founder of Centsei, a financial coaching company that helps people escape bad money habits and build wealth. In our candid conversation, we draw from his personal journey from a debt-ridden past to financial freedom, revealing strategies that could help you face your own financial challenges no matter your current situation.From discussing the financial challenges faced by different types of individuals and couples, to unraveling the concept of free cash flow and its role in financial advancement, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom. We also explore the power of identifying and questioning your money scripts, a crucial step in realigning your beliefs about money and self-worth. Whether you're a single parent striving for financial stability, a big earner struggling to save, or a couple aiming at joint financial goals, you'll ga

Picture this: You're standing at the crossroads of your marriage, feeling all alone because your spouse seems uninterested in making things work. How do you navigate these turbulent times to rescue your marriage? It's a question many of us have had to grapple with. This week, on It Starts With Attraction, we delve into the misconceptions surrounding marriage counseling, emphasizing the importance of early intervention and looking beyond the symptoms of marital discord to address the root cause.Kimberly graciously shares her personal journey through a rough patch in her own marriage, offering invaluable advice based on her experience and professional expertise. Through the course of the episode, we unveil the first three steps to save a marriage - calming down, getting clarity, and stop pushes and start pulls. We also explore real-life scenarios where understanding the true source of conflicts not only improved the marriage but also drew the reluctant spouse close

Feeling drained? Let's break down the surprising factors behind chronic fatigue and share rejuvenating strategies to get your energy back on track. Picture this: You're in the best shape of your life, at the peak of your health and fitness, but suddenly, you're feeling perpetually exhausted. Sounds absurd, right? But that’s precisely the perplexing predicament I found myself in due to my obsessive workout routine, dietary habits, and the relentless pressures of daily living. This episode unfolds my personal journey of grappling with fatigue and the road to recovery. I share intimate details of how my own lifestyle led to chronic exhaustion and how I gradually overcame it.Imagine your body releasing a hormone, cortisol, each time you experience stress, getting you ready for a fight or flight response. Did you know that these stressors can be anything from being chased by a bear to stress about your next promotion? I found myself in a similar

Do you know what the 3 fruits of a healthy relationship are? Have you ever heard that your relationships can only be as healthy as you are as an individual? Hear renowned psychologists and authors Drs Les and Leslie Parrott speak about what people hunger for when seeking healthy relationships and where to start to engage in a healthy, long-term relationship.  According to Dr. Parrott, “If you try to build intimacy with another person before you’ve done the difficult work of getting whole or healthy on your own, all your relationships become an attempt to complete yourself and they will fall flat”.  Moreover, when you’re searching for a person to be in relationship with, “it’s not about finding the right person, it’s about becoming the right person”. Learn how to begin a new relationship with awareness of positive and negative self talk, as well as the 3 major areas of any relationship to consider on today’s episode! Today’s Guests - Drs. Les and Leslie P

When was the last time you really paid attention to your body language? Chandra Jarrett, a seasoned executive coach, and former engineer, opens our eyes to the silent yet powerful messages we send through our gestures and postures. She challenges us to examine our daily interactions, urging us to set personal standards that reflect our values and positively influence our surroundings. This conversation is an invitation to embark on a journey of self-leadership, in a world desperate for genuine, value-based leadership.Life will often hit us with unexpected blows, and Chandra is no stranger to these. She unearths her personal journey of learning forgiveness, a road that has led her to find peace with her past and grow from these experiences. Chandra's account of caring for her mother and dealing with hurtful workplace comments, coupled with her perspective on offering grace and not letting negativity define our relationships, is an inspiring narrative that prompts us to

What does it mean to balance identity and parenthood? As a parent, we often find ourselves struggling to keep our individuality while catering to the never-ending demands of our tiny humans. In this enlightening episode, my chat with Catherine O'Brien, founder of happywithbaby.com, and a licensed marriage and family therapist, leads us down a path where we examine this challenge and more.The journey of parenthood is a rollercoaster ride - it's exciting, it's exhausting, and it's definitely transformative. Catherine walks us through her own journey from a family of two to four, and how that affected their relationship. We discuss the importance of self-care, sleep deprivation, and dealing with the added stress that comes with parenthood. Catherine also lays bare the obstacles that often prevent modern parents from reaching out for help. We talk about the pressure of being present with our children all the time and how it can lead to feeling isolated. Wit

Ever wondered about the science behind addiction and how our brains are wired to seek pleasure? We promise you're in for an enlightening journey as we navigate the complexities of dopamine and its role in addictive behaviors. Joining us is none other than Dr. Anna Lembke, a distinguished psychiatrist, Stanford professor, and author of the bestselling book 'Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence.' Together with Dr. Lembke, we unravel the modern epidemic of excess dopamine-driven behaviors, scrutinizing everything from substance addictions to the impact of digital media on our mental health. We then shift our lens towards the often misunderstood realm of sex addiction, which according to Dr. Lembke, is less about sex and more about maladaptive coping strategies. The power of dopamine fasting, the benefits of mindfulness meditation, and the significant steps towards recovery are all explored in-depth.Lastly, we consider the importan

Are you ready to shed old habits and transform into a more attractive version of yourself? Join me as we embark on a journey of personal growth, focusing on physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual aspects. We'll talk about the power of intentional planning and how it can lead us to the finish line of our goals. Forget wishful thinking, it's time to roll up your sleeves and dive into the trenches of transformation. Over the next 12 weeks, let's break down monumental ambitions into manageable daily actions and weekly habits. We'll tackle the importance of realistic goal-setting, especially in physical terms - because self-care isn't just a trend, it's a necessity. Discover the impact of keystone habits like sleep, nutrition and movement can have on your day-to-day decision making. We’ll also share insights on how to align your plans with your personality and the value of regular progress checks. So gear up and get ready to revolutionize

Are you ready to unlock your brain's full potential? Join us as we explore the fascinating intersection of learning and cognitive psychology with Dr. Dan Willingham, a distinguished professor at the University of Virginia and author of 'Outsmart Your Brain.' Our conversation isn't only for academics - it's for anyone with a thirst for knowledge and an eagerness to become the best version of themselves.We discuss how to navigate the significance of mentors, learning technologies, and high-quality feedback in shaping our learning experiences. With Dr. Willingham's guidance, we explore how to modify our daily routines to maximize learning potential, and the importance of staying motivated and focused. But it's not all work, we also touch on the psychological impacts of procrastination, planning, and distractions, offering practical advice on managing anxiety triggers and breaking the procrastination cycle.As we wrap up, our focus s

Are your connections feeling shallow or uninspiring? On today's episode, Dr. Jessica Higgins talks about the power of emotional attunement and how it can transform your relationships. Dr. Higgins, renowned for her work in the field, shares the secrets of truly understanding and communicating our real feelings, taking us beyond just surface-level complaints. Embrace the opportunity to delve into her fascinating journey and valuable findings from her PhD research on couples' therapy.Step inside the world of attachment theory and secure functioning in relationships. Together, we decode the complexities of these constructs, concentrating on the two main insecure attachment patterns - anxious and avoidant. Through the lens of Susan Johnson's research, we illuminate how deep-seated attachment needs, longings, and fears often trigger conflicts in relationships. You'll learn the art of setting boundaries that protect, rather than jeopardize, the security of att

Ever felt stuck in a toxic cycle of pursuit and withdrawal with your partner, leaving you feeling unheard, unwanted, or disconnected? This stirring conversation with esteemed sex therapist and licensed marriage & family therapist, Dr Laurie Watson will offer a refreshing perspective and actionable advice to help you navigate these rough patches. We unpack this complex dynamic that many relationships fall prey to, and discuss how it impacts both emotional and sexual connection. We uncover how this pattern, often present in both romantic and sexual relationships, can lead to feelings of embarrassment, vulnerability, and shame. Our exploration into this cycle illuminates how it can affect women desiring more emotional connection while their partner tends to withdraw, leading to a disconnect that often seeps into their sexual relationship. We also shed light on the triggers that initiate this cycle and the profound impact it has on couples, making it difficult to identify

Imagine shaping your future with better decision-making today. What would that look like? This captivating episode features Dr. Hal Hershfield, a professor of marketing, behavioral decision making and psychology at UCLA's Anderson School of Management, who takes us on a journey into the psychology of long-term decision-making. We dive deep into the intriguing concept of our 'future self', investigating how our perceptions of ourselves in the future impact the choices we make, particularly in finance, health, and ethics.Navigating the road to our future selves can be a balancing act between present satisfaction and future aspirations. We explore this delicate equilibrium, discussing the role of personality in shaping these decisions and the potential for personal growth and change. Are you prepared to embrace change in your journey? We delve into the aspects that can be navigated, and those that require a more reactionary approach, offering an enlightening pe

Has there ever been a person or circumstance in your life that you have had difficulty moving on from? Has there been someone who hurt you? Has something happened that you can't seem to move past no matter how much you want to? No matter how much you have tried? If you feel stuck, then this episode is for you. A few years ago I was able to speak with Al and Lisa Robertson about this very topic. We've known the Robertsons for a long time and recently my dad, Dr. Joe Beam, was on an episode of the Unashamed Podcast with Phil, Al, and Jase which you can watch here: https://bit.ly/3DNiFbOIn today's episode, I'm speaking with Al and Lisa, who are sharing their story of desperate forgiveness. You will hear about how they have used forgiveness to free them, heal them, and restore their marriage. Today’s Guests - Al and Lisa RobertsonAlan Robertson is the oldest son of the Duck Commander,

Welcome to another episode of It Starts with Attraction. Today, we have a truly inspiring guest, Leila Hormozi. If you haven't heard of her before, you're in for a treat. Leila is an incredible woman who, seven years ago, took a leap of faith and started her first business with no prior experience. Fast forward to today, and she has scaled not just one but eight-figure businesses, including well-known ventures like GymLaunch and Acquisition.com.But Leila's journey is not just about money and success. In this captivating conversation, we explore how she managed to stay grounded despite amassing a net worth of $100 million with her husband, Alex Hormozi. We delve into the question of tying self-worth to wealth and how she has navigated this aspect of her life with grace and humility.What's truly remarkable is that Leila never focuses on the monetary achievements in our discussion. She embodies the essence of success without ever boasting about h

I recently shared a story on my Instagram that sparked a ton of questions and feedback. It got me thinking, why not explore this topic further in today's bite-sized episode of It Starts with Attraction? So, in this episode, I'll be delving into the intriguing realm of self-esteem – from the highs to the lows – giving you more insights than you probably bargained for! Although I'll do my best to fit it all into the next 15 minutes, be prepared to learn all about self-esteem. Let's dive in!Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the bes

It seems like every week now there's a new weight loss social media trend. Whether it's completely cutting out a food category or taking medication not intended for weight loss, these trends usually tend to be unhealthy for you. We talk about that and so much more on today's episode. Let's dive in!Today's Guest: Cristina CastagniniFrom a young age, Cristina Castagnini knew that she wanted to help people. In high school, she landed a gig as a teen advice columnist after a family friend suggested that she apply for the position. This early experience helped her to realize that she had a talent for helping people with their problems. In college, she initially planned on going to medical school to become a psychiatrist, but after taking a number of psychology courses, she realized that her true passion was clinical psychology. She earned her BA in Psychology from the University of California Santa Cruz, her MA in Clinical Psychology fr

Recently I asked the It Starts With Attraction podcast audience what were some topics that you would like for me to cover in upcoming episodes. Well today we are going to be covering one of those topics and that is how to work on your PIES, and more specifically, the things that I do to work on my PIES. Let&apos;s dive in!Click here to listen to my episode with Amanda Nighbert:https://www.buzzsprout.com/979168/11223323Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.<

Today we are talking about a topic that&apos;s become very popular over the past several years on social media and in pop psychology. We are talking all about narcissism in today&apos;s episode, but specifically what the research says and how researchers interpret it. Let&apos;s dive in!Today&apos;s Guest: Dr. Virgil Zeigler-HillDr. Virgil Zeigler-Hill is a Distinguished Professor and the Director of Graduate Training in the Department of Psychology at Oakland University. He is a social-personality psychologist with primary research interests in three interrelated areas: (1) personality structures and processes (e.g., narcissism, psychopathy, spitefulness), (2) self-esteem, and (3) interpersonal relationships. He has published more than 250 journal articles, book chapters, and books. His work has been covered by various media outlets including The New York Times and National Public Radio.Links:Website: <a href='http://zeigler-hill.com/

We spend a lot of time on this podcast talking about different ways to be healthy, what foods to eat, how to get the best sleep, how to make connections with people... but today I want to talk about something a little different. This subject has been on my heart this week, and I want to spend some time today talking about an important part of attraction. Let&apos;s take an in depth look at spiritual attraction.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.Website: www.kimberlybea

Today&apos;s episode is exciting and jam packed with info. I talked with author and expert Karla McLaren about emotions, boundaries, trauma, how people respond to trauma, and so much more. You will gain an insight on how emotions relate to yourself and your relationships. Let&apos;s dive in!Today&apos;s Guest: Karla McLarenKarla McLaren. Karla is an acclaimed author and expert on emotions, renowned for her groundbreaking book, &quot;The Language of Emotions: What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You.&quot; In this best-selling work, she offers valuable insights into understanding and working with our emotions in a healthy and empowering way. Karla, thank you so much for joining us today.Website https://karlamclaren.com/Online learning site: https://empathyacademy.org/Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Im

Is life overwhelming you right now? Do you feel drained? Well, me too... And in today&apos;s episode I&apos;m going to be giving to be giving you the motivation that I need to hear right now. This episode is going to be packed full of tips so that we can develop a better mindset together. Let&apos;s dive in!Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.Website: www.kimberlybeamholmes.comThanks for listening!Connect on Instagram: @kimberlybeamholmesBe sure to SUBSCRIBE to the podcast a

Self honesty and self deception are not terms that we may use in every day life, but they are things that we will encounter from a day to day basis, even when we don&apos;t realize it. In my conversation with Dr. Courtney Warren, we break down what self deception is, how to recognize it, and how to be honest to ourselves about things we might not want to be honest about. Let&apos;s dive in!Article Referenced:https://apple.news/AIOTHgQNqSUus596O7slOqQConnect with Dr. Warren:https://drcortney.com/https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/naked-truthhttps://www.tiktok.com/@drcortneywarren?lang=enhttps://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLQGXD7Ms5o

I&apos;m joined again this week with Jamie Gagnon. Jamie has her expertise and experience in working with kids and adolescents in cognitive behavioral therapies. We started in the first episode of this of this two part series last week as she covered what it looks like to use cognitive behavioral therapies and techniques in depression and in anxiety. This week, we cover trauma. Let&apos;s dive in!Today&apos;s Guest: Jamie GagnonJamie Gagnon is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Washington State. She obtained her Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from Northwest University in 2007. She worked as a Child, Adolescent and Family Therapist in a Community Mental Health Setting and then as a Clinical Supervisor for a school based mental health program. She is CBT+ (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) certified through Harborview Abuse and Trauma Center. She has also had training in Substance Use Disorders, Trauma, and DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy)

If you&apos;ve ever struggled with your thoughts and feeling like your thoughts aren&apos;t super helpful to helping you become the kind of person you want to be or achieve the things that you want to achieve, then you don&apos;t want to miss this episode.Today&apos;s Guest: Jamie GagnonJamie Gagnon is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Washington State. She obtained her Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from Northwest University in 2007. She worked as a Child, Adolescent and Family Therapist in a Community Mental Health Setting and then as a Clinical Supervisor for a school based mental health program. She is CBT+ (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) certified through Harborview Abuse and Trauma Center. She has also had training in Substance Use Disorders, Trauma, and DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy). Jamie is currently a Marriage Helper Certified Coach and Workshop Breakout Leader.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self

Whether you realize it or not, there is a reason that you fall in love with someone. It doesn&apos;t have anything to do with stars aligning or reading your horoscope, but it has EVERYTHING to do with a process we like to call the LovePath™. In this episode, I explain what the LovePath™ is, why it&apos;s important, and how it ALL starts with attraction.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.Website: www.kimberlybeamholmes.comThanks for listening!Connect on Instagram: @kimberlybeamholmes<br

In this episode of it starts with attraction, we are going to be talking about a topic that I covered the opposite side of in a previous episode. And in this episode, we&apos;re going to cover the other side of it. And that is body image. So recently I did an episode where I talked about my personal struggle with body image. And a little bit alluded to how body image is something that many women struggle with. But in that episode, I also talked very vaguely about the fact that my husband has also recently been through a journey where he has changed the way that he views his body as well. And so in this episode, I wanted us to dive a little bit deeper into talking with my husband about his experience of how he took what he used to be looking at when he was looking at his body and the things that he would look out at to kind of see where his quote unquote worth was coming from. Through his journey that he&apos;s been through, and where he is now. Let&apos;s dive into today&apos;s epis

Does the number on the scale actually mean as much as we sometimes make it out to be? In all reality, no, and when we focus too much on the number itself, it can actually lead to some really unhealthy behaviors. In this episode, I am going to walk you through some more important things to focus on other than the number on the scale and how it can lead to a healthier image of yourself.Click here to watch listen to episode 117, Why Dieting Almost Always Fails with Amanda Nighberthttps://www.buzzsprout.com/979168/11223323Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and b

Have you ever been in a conversation where you find yourself becoming more and more frustrated?There are a lot of conversations, or talking back and forth to each other, going on in the world right now. A lot of people are talking and responding, but is a conversation actually happening? This communication is ultimately leading to confusion, anger, and division in relationships-- even relationships we hold nearest and dearest.In today&apos;s episode, find out how to change the conversation to be meaningful. Learn how to talk so that others understand you and to listen so that others feel heard. After listening to this podcast, you will understand how to have a conversation that brings confidence, connection, and compassion.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage He

On today&apos;s episode, we&apos;re going to be talking about stress reduction techniques. I&apos;m going to share with you the specific things that I&apos;ve been doing over the past year that I believe has made a big difference in managing my own stress levels. I will talk with you about how I found out what my stress levels really were in my body, things that I&apos;ve done to decrease those stress levels, evidence based techniques and tools is what I will be talking about. But specifically, I will be sharing the anecdotal data from my own experience with what it was like to implement these and how it has subjectively impacted me and my stress levels. I hope that you get some takeaways from this as well as things that you can do and implement in your own life that will help decrease your stress levels as well. Let&apos;s dive into today&apos;s episode.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam

What do you do when your self worth is completely tied into what you do or how you perform? If you&apos;re struggling with this, then today&apos;s episode will hopefully be helpful and cathartic for you. Because you&apos;re in good company, I&apos;m going to share with you a recent experience that I had with a very frustrating situation that actually led me to really question my worth my, my identity, and a lot of things, I&apos;m gonna be pretty open and candid with you, hopefully, it&apos;ll bless you, hopefully, you&apos;ll find some hope, in your situation, based on some things that I learned from mine.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, an

In this episode, Dallas shares his personal experiences with success and the expectations that come with it. He talks about the difference between expectations and expectations of success, the duality between multiplication and multiplication, and the importance of focusing on the work at hand. Dallas emphasizes the support of loved ones during times of stress and pressure and the satisfaction he gets from doing what he loves. He reflects on personal growth and the challenges of portraying the supernatural. Finally, Dallas encourages viewers to reflect on their own passions and how they can use them to make a positive impact on the world. Don&apos;t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more content like this!WATCH SEASON 3 OF THE CHOSEN HERE: https://watch.thechosen.tv/Today&apos;s Guest: Dallas JenkinsDallas Jenkins is the son of celebrated Left Behind author Jerry Jenkins and

This podcast covers various topics such as addiction, the power of one individual to make a difference, masculinity, spiritual leadership in families, and confession. Listeners can expect to hear inspiring stories and practical advice on how to embody positive traits, overcome shortcomings, and become better spiritual leaders. The podcast aims to provoke thought and inspire listeners to engage in meaningful discussions.Today&apos;s Guest: Dr. Joe MartinDr. Joe Martin is an award-winning international speaker, author, educator, and certified builder of men. He&apos;s authored or co-authored nine books, including Are You the Man: 201 Lessons I Wish My Dad Would Have Taught Me; Man Accomplished: 50 Challenges to Help You Be the Man God Made You to Be; and Gifts &amp; Handkerchiefs: A Lesson in Servant Leadership. Dr. Martin has spoken for more than 750 businesses, organizations, churches, colleges &amp; universities, and K-12 schools/districts, and

Join Sonia, a certified coach, as she shares her journey to becoming a coach and her insights on managing the weight of other&apos;s burdens. In this episode, you&apos;ll learn about the process of falling in love, what God wants you to do about your marriage, and how to reframe questions and answers. Sonia also talks about the hardest part of being a coach, the common thread in goals, and how to identify and manage your emotional state. She also shares her tips on dealing with a funk with grace and why longevity is more important than comparing yourself to others.Today&apos;s Guest: Sonia ThalmanOur guest, Sonia, has an incredible story of personal growth and overcoming challenges in her marriage. She shares her journey of struggling with an emotional affair, depression, and wanting out of her marriage, but ultimately finding the strength and resources to reconcile and build a stronger relationship with her husband. Sonia is not only a resource for those

Do you struggle with emotional eating? You&apos;re not alone. In this episode, we dive deep into the personality types that struggle the most with disordered eating and how to work with emotional eating. We also explore the difference between binge eating and compulsive eating and how shame plays into binge eating.Our guest expert shares the four energies of emotional eating and how Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can help break the cycle. Learn how long it typically takes to work with clients and the definition of trigger hunger.Most importantly, we discuss the importance of forgiving yourself quickly and how to break the cycle of shame around food. Whether you&apos;re looking for ways to manage your own emotional eating or to help others, this episode is a must-listen. Join us and let&apos;s start breaking the cycle together.Today&apos;s Guest: Emma MurphyEmma is a highly experienced Eating Disorders Specialist who has spent over 11 year

Welcome to this episode of It Starts With Attraction where we’ll be discussing the process of picking up the pieces after a divorce. Our guest, Julie Beckerman, will share her personal journey through the pain and struggles of divorce and how she found the courage to take matters into her own hands.We’ll dive deep into the impact of divorce on children, specifically her daughter, and how she navigated the challenging terrain of setting boundaries and co-parenting. Our guest will offer valuable insights into the biggest pain points that people have during and after a divorce and share tools for setting boundaries and creating a support system to help you through the tough times.We’ll explore the nuances of co-parenting and when it’s the right time to discuss it. Our guest will share her experiences with navigating this process and offer advice on how to make it as smooth as possible.We’ll also discuss the importance of putting children first during a divorce and

When you get married, all of your attention is on your spouse. Then, once you have kids, all of that attention goes to your children. Often times this leads to a loss of intimacy with your spouse, but in this episode, we talk about how to keep that from happening as well as bringing intimacy back into the marriage.Today&apos;s Guest: Heather MacFaydenHeather MacFadyen wrote online before Facebook existed. After years of blog entries, in 2013 she launched a trailblazing podcast called God Centered Mom. In 2018, the show rebranded to the Don’t Mom Alone podcast. With over eighteen million downloads, Heather’s weekly interviews have been listened to at least once in every country on the planet. When she’s not recording conversations in her messy closet, she’s driving in Dallas traffic, feeding four growing boy-men, or walking around the “hood” with her entrepreneurial husband, Bruce. Her first book, Don’t Mom Alone was released nationwide October 12, 2021.</p

Physical attraction is not just about working out and being healthy. Although that is a big part of it, one of the more underutilized aspects of physical attraction is the way that your physical appearance is perceived and how it evokes different emotions in those around you. That is what we talk about on today&apos;s episode with Toi Sweeney.Today&apos;s Guest: Toi SweeneyThe Well Dressed Brand is the brainchild of Founder and Chief Style Officer Toi Sweeney, an award-winning fashion stylist,  brand image strategist, TEDX speaker, entrepreneur,  host of The Well Dressed Brand TV Show ,  certified Fascination Advantage™ coach, and best-selling  author of Secrets of a Well Dressed Brand.From founding her own design firm, Her Majesty the Queen, to managing the image of almost 30 TV personalities at the leading home shopping network, she uses her background to tell original stories through fashion.Toi’s passion and talent has earned her a variet

On this episode, Kimberly is joined by Dave Delaney to discuss some of best workplace communication strategies and how they can also help build better communication in your marriage.Today&apos;s Guest: Dave DelaneyDave Delaney is the founder of Futureforth.com. He is an author, corporate trainer, executive consultant, host of the Nice Podcast, and keynote speaker known as a communication connoisseur.Dave is the creator of the NICE Method. He helps companies reach their people through comprehensive communication workshops and presentations. Delaney works with brands like Google, FedEx, LinkedIn, and UPS.Delaney is an American Marketing Association award winner in Nashville. He has appeared in USA Today, Entrepreneur, Inc, Fortune, and Billboa

On today&apos;s episode, Kimberly sits down with Dr. Wiebke Bleidorn to discuss what personality is, where they originate from, and &quot;The Big Five.&quot; You don&apos;t want to miss this informative discussion.Today&apos;s Guest: Dr. Wiebke BleidornWiebke Bleidorn is a personality psychologist. She is a professor at the University of Zurich.[1] in the department of psychology.[2] She is the president of Association for Research in Personality (ARP) until 2023.[3] She received the American Psychological Association&apos;s Award for Distinguished Scientific Early Career Contributions to Psychology in 2019Links:Twitter: @WiebkeBleidornTAKE THE QUIZ!!Article on Changing Personalities Over Time.<

What do you do when you find yourself in the midst of regret, hurt, and fear? That&apos;s what we talk about on today&apos;s episode with Pastor Scott Sauls.Today&apos;s Guest: Pastor Scott SaulsScott Sauls is senior pastor of Christ Presbyterian Church in Nashville, Tennessee, and author of Jesus Outside the Lines, Befriend, From Weakness to Strength, Irresistible Faith, and A Gentle Answer. Scott also served at New York City&apos;s Redeemer Presbyterian Church as a lead and preaching pastor and planted two churches in the Midwest. His work has been featured in publications including Christianity Today, Relevant, Qideas, Propel Women, He Reads Truth, Leadership Magazine, The Gospel Coalition, Table Talk, and Made to Flourish. Links:Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/scott.sauls.7Twitter : https://twitter.com/scottsauls Inst

Learn how to set goals that will help you avoid going through the motions. This podcast will explore the importance of setting meaningful goals and how it can lead you to a more fulfilling life with our guest, Roald Gerber.Today&apos;s Guest: Roald GerberRoald comes from a background of coaching, counseling, physical training, and church planting. Both he and his wife had been divorced when they were younger and brought a lot of their past into their future. Throw in life struggles, kids, jobs that kept them busy, and loss, including the death of his wife’s brother, and they found themselves on a slippery slope. When they found Marriage Helper, Roald and his wife learned principles that changed their marriage and every other relationship around them. Roald hopes to bring you the same hope that he and his wife received, no matter what situation you find yourself in.Book a Marriage Helper coaching sessio

What is the story you&apos;re telling yourself that isn&apos;t serving you? That&apos;s the question Kimberly challenges us this week as we talk about love addictions with Sherry Gaba.Today&apos;s Guest: Sherry GabaSherry Gaba, LCSW, is a licensed psychotherapist and life coach who helps people cope with codependency, love addiction, toxic relationships, and mental health issues. Sherry is a single mother and once her daughter was old enough, Sherry returned to school to receive her Master of Social Work from the University of Southern California. As a leading expert on addiction and recovery, Sherry’s TV appearances include: VH1’s Celebrity Rehab, CNN, Inside Edition, the Robert Irvine Show and Access Live, E! News, among others. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s World, the LA Times, Thrive Global, the New York Post, Marriage.com, and Psychology Today. She has also g

Have you ever related your actions to your worth? You might be combatting imposter syndrome, a term that has recently been found all over TikTok and the rest of the internet. Today we talk about what imposter syndrome is and how to truly combat your inner critic.Today&apos;s Guest: Dr. Tara HallidayDr. Tara Halliday is an expert on imposter Syndrome, who helps executives break through the core limiting belief that causes imposter syndrome. She has coached leaders across a range of different fields over 22 years and she is the author of the Amazon #1 best-selling book “Unmasking: The Coach&apos;s Guide To Impost

If you don&apos;t manage your time... then your time will manage you.In today&apos;s episode we&apos;re talking all about routines. How do you create them? How do you sustain them? We will tell you how!Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.Website: www.kimberlybeamholmes.comTake the Attraction AssessmentThanks for liste

&quot;You won&apos;t get to where you want to go if you stay where you are.&quot;Do you feel like you make resolutions each year but never achieve your goals?In today&apos;s episode, I share how you can begin to look forward make your plans and goals, make a change in your daily habits and daily schedule, and know exactly where to focus in order to grow and become the best you that you can be.Whether you are making goals for the next month, year, or decade, this implementable framework will provide a way for you to visualize your goals and create a path to get there.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcas

We&apos;ve had an incredible year on It Starts With Attraction and we have loved every second of it! Because this year has flown by, we wanted to give you a recap of some of our favorite moments of the year.Thank you for coming on this journey with us in 2022, we can&apos;t wait for another year filled with great guests! Until then, stay strong. Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.Website: www.kimberlybeamholmes.com</

On today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction, Kimberly chats with Marriage Helper Certified Coach Priscilla Gray about how working on her PIES transformed her life and the people around her as well.Today&apos;s Guest: Priscilla GrayPriscilla’s husband found Marriage Helper after she confessed to him that she was in a limerent affair in 2017. After they attended the workshop, there wasn’t an immediate turnaround. They actually continued with a divorce. However, after putting Marriage Helper principles into action, they were drawn back together. They have been married since 2004, but now enjoy a more authentic, secure, and fun relationship than ever before. Priscilla will be able to help you find hope, no matter what situation you are in. She will guide you to positive thought processes and forming healthier habits so that you can be a better you. She says, “Even as the former wayward spouse, I know that the principles we teach will be life-changing!” Pri

It&apos;s important to know how to speak confidently, because when you speak confidently, people listen. That&apos;s what we talk about on today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction with Karen Laos.Today&apos;s Guest: Karen LaosMany women miss opportunities because they don’t speak up. Karen Laos, Communication Expert and Confidence Cultivator, is on a mission to change that. She’s fiercely committed to eradicating self-doubt in 10 million women by giving them practical strategies to ask for what they want in the boardroom and beyond. Coached by her father, Karen first recognized the power of confident communication when she successfully negotiated her first flea market purchase at just six years old.  She now guides women to transform self-doubt into self-confidence resulting in more clients, job promotions, and negotiation wins.With 25 years serving as C-Suite advisor and commanding the most coveted stages aro

Did you know 771 million people around the world don&apos;t have access to clean drinking water? On today&apos;s episode, Kimberly sits down with CEO of Charity Water, Scott Harrison, to discuss his story, the goal of Charity Water, and how you can help make a difference.CLICK HERE TO DONATEToday&apos;s Guest: Scott Harrison, CEO of Charity WaterScott Harrison was born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and grew up in Hunterdon County, New Jersey. Harrison began working as a nightclub and party promoter in Manhattan. He spent the next 10 years organizing parties for the likes of MTV, VH1, Bacardi and Elle. In August 2004, after a mysterious illness, he declared spiritual, moral and emotional bankruptcy.  He quit his job and volunteered as a photojournalist for the Christian charity Mercy Ships, which operates a fleet of hospital ships offering free healthcare, being inspired by his father’s gift of A

In this episode we talk with Dr. Rex Jung about the differences in creativity and intelligence and how you can work your brain to be more creative!Today&apos;s Guest: Dr. Rex JungRex Jung is an adjunct professor of psychology at the University of New Mexico, a research scientist at the Mind Research Network, and a practicing clinical neuropsychologist in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He studies both brain disease and what the brain does well—a field of research known as &quot;positive neuroscience.&quot;His research is designed to relate behavioral measures, including intelligence, personality, and creativity, to brain function and structure in healthy, neurological, and psychiatric subjects. He has published research articles across a wide range of disciplines, including traumatic brain injury, lupus, schizophrenia, intelligence, and creativity.Rex was the President (2019-2021) of the<a href='https

Today&apos;s episode is all about how to live an alcohol free life and all of the benefits that come along with it!Today&apos;s Guest: Karolina RzadkowolskaKarolina Rzadkowolska is a certified alcohol-free life coach who helps intuitive women ditch alcohol and discover their greater purpose. She’s worked with thousands of clients through her online courses and coaching to change their drinking habit and unleash a new level of health, happiness, and potential to go after their biggest dreams. Her book Euphoric: Ditch Alcohol and Gain a Happier, More Confident You (HarperCollins) came out on bookshelves on January 4th. She’s the host of Euphoric the Podcast, founder of Euphoric AF, and her work has been featured in the Huffington Post, The Sunday Post, Popsugar, Real Simple, Elite Daily and multiple TV shows. Karolina’s passionate about helping you discover what really makes you happy outside of a beverage and designing a life you love. She would love to hea

What do you do when you say yes to God and then He stops speaking? In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly talks in depth about what it was like for her and her husband to go through the adoption process.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.Website: www.kimberlybeamholmes.comTake the Attraction AssessmentThanks for listening!<br/

What are the 6 components of Wisdom? Why is wisdom important for relationships? We answer all these and more on today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction!Today&apos;s Guest: Dilip Jeste, M.D.Dilip V. Jeste, M.D. is Former Senior Associate Dean for Healthy Aging and Senior Care and Distinguished Professor of Psychiatry and Neurosciences at University of California San Diego. He obtained his medical education in Pune, and psychiatry training in Mumbai, India. In the US, he completed psychiatry residency at Cornell, and Neurology residency at George Washington University. He was a research fellow, and later, Chief of the Units on Movement Disorders and Dementias at the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) before joining UC San Diego where he retired in July 2022.He started a Geriatric Psychiatry program from scratch at UC San Diego; it became one of the largest Geriatric Psychiatry Divisions in the world. Dr. Jeste has been Principal Inve

Sleep, spirituality, nutrition, breath-work and movement; These are the five pillars of self-care, but which one is the most important? Find out on today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction!Today&apos;s Guest: Dr. Gregory Scott BrownDr. Gregory Scott Brown, M.D., is a board-certified psychiatrist, mental health writer, and author. He is an affiliate faculty member at the University of Texas Dell Medical School. He believes we can work together to fight mental health stigma by having open and honest conversations about mental health. Dr. Brown is an advocate for evidence-based integrative care that includes incorporating exercise, mindfulness, meditation, and nutrition with standard of care treatments for mental illness.Dr. Brown is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology. He completed a fellowship in integrative medicine at the Academy of Integrative Health and Medicine, specialty training in general psychiatry at the U

In today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction, we talk all about how important sexual mindfulness is, how to practice it, and how it can increase intimacy between you and your spouse.Today&apos;s Guest: Dr. Chelom LeavittDr. Chelom Eastwood Leavitt grew up in Yakima, Washington with seven sisters and one brother. She attended BYU as an undergraduate in Economics and then went to J. Reuben Clark Law School. One the first day of law school Chelom met David Leavitt and they married after their first year of law school. Chelom practiced family and estate law for years and then returned to get her Master’s degree in Marriage, Family, and Human Development. In 2010 Chelom was invited to be a Fulbright Fellow in Ukraine and teach in Schevshenko University in Kyiv. She also ran a research study in Ukraine on how religious and secular traditions were associated with couple and parent-child relationship well-being.Chelom Leavitt received her PhD from Penn S

&quot;You are not powerless against anxiety. And you are not alone.&quot;This is what we talk about in today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction with our guest Jon Seidl. For the last decade, Jonathon M. Seidl (Jon) has been telling stories. In fact he’s written over 6,000 of them, first after helping start a top-50 news site, then as the editor-in-chief of the popular non-profit I Am Second, and most recently as the head of a special digital media product for actor Kirk Cameron. He now runs his own digital media consulting and content creation firm called The Veritas Creative. Jon has seen how the power of storytelling can transform people, businesses, and culture, especially after sharing his own story of battling anxiety and OCD. His passion is to help people with mental health struggles, while also sharing what he’s learned telling stories for — and working with — some of media’s biggest names and organizations, including Glenn Beck, Kirk Camer

Being in a waiting season can be difficult. But what if it’s not your turn for breakthrough?On today’s episode of It Starts With Attraction, Dr. Heather Thompson Day answers that question and explains the importance of knowing that even if your breakthrough doesn’t come soon, YOU are enough.GET DR. HEATHER THOMPSON DAY&apos;S NEW BOOK!I&apos;ll See You Tomorrow - AVAILABLE NOW! Today&apos;s Guest: Dr. Heather Thompson DayDr. Heather Thompson Day is an interdenominational speaker, an ECPA bestseller, and has been a contributor for Religion News Service, <e

Why is spiritual attraction so important? Because it is the CORE of who we are. In this week&apos;s episode, Kimberly answers YOUR questions about all things spiritual attraction, and why working on yourself is so important.PIES stands for physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual attraction, and this week is the last week of the four week PIES webinar series.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review, we love hearing from you!Click here to join the Your Best Self Collection!Click here to join <a href='https://marriagehelper.com/the-foundations-course/?utm_source=podcast&amp;utm_medium=organic&amp;utm_campaign=tfc&amp;utm_term=mktg&amp;utm_content=answering-your-questions-about-i

In this week&apos;s episode, Kimberly answers YOUR questions about all things emotional attraction, and why working on yourself is so important.PIES stands for physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual attraction, and this week is week two of the four week PIES webinar series.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review, we love hearing from you!Click here to join the Your Best Self Collection!Click here to join The Foundations Course!

In this week&apos;s episode, Kimberly answers YOUR questions about setting goals, building habits, and intellectual attraction. PIES stands for physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual attraction, and this week is week two of the four week PIES webinar series.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review, we love hearing from you!Click here to join the Your Best Self Collection!Click here to join The Foundations Course!

Have you ever heard us use the term &quot;PIES?&quot; PIES stands for physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual attraction, and in this week&apos;s episode, Kimberly goes in depth on what physical attraction is all about and even answers some of your questions!This episode is taken directly from a webinar series on the PIES, and for the next 4 weeks, Kimberly will be breaking down each area of attraction, as well as answering questions.Be sure to subscribe to the It Starts With Attraction podcast and leave a review!Click here to join the Your Best Self Collection!Visit marriagehelper.com to learn more about <a href='https://marriagehelper.com/the-foundations-course/?utm_source=podcast&amp;utm

Do your diets and lifestyle choices almost always fail? Between work, relationships, and parenting, it becomes more difficult to reach your healthy eating goals.In today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction, Amanda Nighbert joins Kimberly Beam Holmes to share how to achieve long-term success and increase your physical attraction with the 80/20 approach.Learn how to ditch the &quot;all or nothing&quot; mindset, maintain consistency, and feel better overall.Join the LEAN Program and use code &quot;PIES&quot; at checkout for $10 off!Visit Amanda&apos;s website for all the resources mentioned in this episode!Today&apos;s Speaker: Amanda Nighbert, R.D.Amanda Nighbert is a registered dietitian specializing in weight loss nutrition. Her passion and purpose is to empower others to break the all or nothing mindset and find sustai

&quot;If eternal water is real, I want a keg of it.&quot;In today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction, Kimberly Beam Holmes has an authentic conversation with Katie Bulmer about how we do not have to have everything together in order to approach Jesus and ask for him to meet our needs.Whether you are newly-married, parenting teens, or trying to become the best version of yourself, there are some key insights in this episode you do not want to miss.Today&apos;s Speaker: Katie BulmerKatie, her husband and two daughters live in Chattanooga, TN. Katie is the host of the Truth for Your Twenties Podcast with the mission behind everything she does to be who she needed when she was younger. She is an author and keynote speaker to over 60 colleges nationwide, TikTok creator, and a big fan of guacamole. Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and Relationships</b

Do you feel like your life is not what you want it to be?While we can&apos;t always change our circumstances, we CAN change the way we think about ourselves and the decisions we make moving forward.In today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction, Amber Joy Daniel joins Kimberly Beam Holmes to discuss a four pillar framework to take the first steps to achieving your destiny.Today&apos;s Speaker: Amber Joy DanielAmber Joy Daniel is a Destiny Strategist. She is passionate about people seizing their destiny rather than accepting the fate life has handed to them. In 2020, she started on a journey to serve professionals who wanted more but felt stuck. These were achievers with accolades to their names but knew they weren’t living up to their fullest potential. They excelled in one or two areas but struggled in their personal lives, not knowing how to get from where they were to where they knew they were meant to be. Working on int

Becoming the best version of ourselves requires opening ourselves up to learn and understand different perspectives.In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes sits down with Windy Shotlow Hatchell to unpack diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging &amp; how it should impact our day to day lives.Tune in to gain insight about becoming a better listener, showing others they are valued, and cultivating a growth mindset.Today&apos;s Speaker: Windy Shotlow HatchellWindy Shotlow-Hatchell is a personal and executive coach along with her husband who founded Over The Top Coaching. Windy’s coaching focuses on mental transition, overcoming limiting beliefs and on helping individuals break through barriers to achieve more. Through facilitating and training along with her husband she has helped individuals and organizations gain clarity on what’s often right before them. Her coaching allo

Every person longs for purpose.If you&apos;re seeking fulfillment and contentment in your life, this episode is for you.Tune in to learn how to set goals to move you forward towards your calling while enhancing your self-esteem and overall well-being.Stop letting fear tell you you&apos;re not capable. Let motivation set you on the path to follow your purpose.Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that they can be.  Website: www.PIESUniversity.comGet the

Do you have trouble connecting with your children? Like every day is a battle you can’t win?In today’s episode of It Starts With Attraction, Kimberly speaks with Renaye Thornborrow to provide you with the best tips for developing connection and supporting your children through their own struggles.Learn how to train your mindset and increase your children’s self-esteem, confidence, and happiness.Today&apos;s Speaker: Renaye ThornborrowRenaye Thornborrow is leading a worldwide movement to bring life coaching, personal development, and mindset skills to children through her certified WISDOM Coaches and parent resources. Renaye is the founder and CEO of Adventures in Wisdom and author of The Adventures in Wisdom Life Coaching Program for Kids Curriculum™ - a powerful curriculum that uses coaching stories and activities to help children develop mindset skills for resilience, self-esteem, confidence, self-leadership, achievement, happin

Do you feel like you&apos;re never good enough?Everywhere you look, you&apos;re  bombarded by messages that tell you, &quot;If you only have this, then you&apos;ll be lovable&quot; to the point where you begin question why you even try.If you&apos;ve begun to resent physical attraction, this episode is for you.Tune in for my tips about ditching the comparison game, shifting your physical attraction motives, increasing your self-esteem, and knowing that you ARE enough.Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that they

A huge part of becoming the most attractive you can be has to do with how you show up in your relationships. When life&apos;s obstacles get in the way, it gets challenging to be your best self.In this episode, Casey O&apos;Roarty shares her tips for how to show up and be present for those who mean the most to you. If you&apos;re ready to learn how to be joyfully courageous through whatever you&apos;re facing, tune into today&apos;s episode.Today&apos;s Speaker: Casey O&apos;RoartyCasey O’Roarty, Med, is a facilitator of personal growth and development.  Her work encourages parents to discover the purpose of their journey, while also providing them with tools and a shift of mindset that allows them to deepen their relationships with themselves and their families. As a Positive Discipline Trainer since 2007 and certified coach, Casey has led countless groups through workshops and classes that have left them feeling empowered and ex

Kimberly Beam Holmes walks you through her morning routine and discusses why it’s essential to plan your day in this episode of It Starts With Attraction. Failing to plan for your day allows for interruptions that control your day. When your day starts more frantic and hectic, it&apos;s harder to get it back on track throughout the rest of the day. Beginning your day with fulfilling activities specific to your needs like reading, Bible time, or working out allows you to start the day on track and energized. Having a morning routine is one less decision you have to make during the day because you already have it set. Read about Kimberly’s entire morning routine, along with some other routines from people at  Marriage Helper, and then make a list to determine what best fulfills you in the mornings.Follow Marriage Helper on Instagram!Marriage Helper on Instagram

David Mathews, the founder of Spark of Life, joins Kimberly Beam Holmes on this week’s episode of It Stars With Attraction. At Spark of Life, David helps people who have been through divorce deal with their grief. People have a sense of regret when they feel they could have done something different to save their marriage and tend to let self-doubt creep in. The other feeling they might have is resentment if they feel the situation was their spouse’s fault.If you go to marriagehelper.com/livingforward, you can get information about a free class where we dive into how you can start living forward after divorce. You’ll also find information there about the divorce recovery workshop that Marriage Helper is partnering with Spark of Life to offer. The first step to living forward is to start small and focus on the good things. Find one good thing that has happened in the past 24 hours that you’re thankful for, and email or text a friend to show your appreciation. This o

Zach Brittle is a couples therapist from Seattle and the author of The Relationship Alphabet and The Marriage Therapy Journal. He joins Kimberly Beam Holmes to discuss his work, his training at the Gottman Institute, and how game theory works in a relationship. Gottman believes that every relationship that is struggling is struggling because of betrayal. And while affairs might be the obvious betrayal, every time you lie to your spouse or don’t do something you promised, it’s also a betrayal.They also discuss negative sentiment override, which happens when you no longer remember the positive parts of your relationship but always see the negative in everything. So how can you work to bring those feelings back to neutral before making them positive again? Find out these answers and more in this episode of It Starts With Attraction.Consider sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a review, and until next week, stay strong.Episode Mentions:<b

Plenty of research talks about how a parent&apos;s interaction with their child will affect that child&apos;s future. It&apos;s called attachment theory, which boils down to the consistency and the quality of a parent&apos;s interaction with their child. The research shows there are four primary outcomes in attachment theory, but the only positive one is secure attachment. Secure attachment means that the child will believe that mom and dad will always be there when they need them.There are seven characteristics of strong families, the most important being quantity of time, not quality. The question is, what is most important to you? Financial stability is vital for any family, but is there a way to balance your work and family life? 

Yasmine Williams Woods became a mother at the age of 14. After being a single mother for years, it was a difficult adjustment to blend her life with another’s when she got married. Now a mother of four, she is on a mission to help women lead lives that prove that love conquers all. She talks about the importance of intentionally making time for God in her busy life. It’s not always feasible to start your day by spending time reading scripture but prioritize beginning your day with Him and worshiping when you can. How can we be doing more courageous acts of love for the people we have in our lives?How are you making it intentional to spend time with Jesus?What does it look like to live in total submission to God&apos;s way, His will, and His purpose for your life?Mentions:Yasmine&apos;s website: https://yasminewilliamswoods.com/Facebook: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/yasminewilliamsw

How can you stay calm when everything around you honestly just sucks?Does it feel like all hell is breaking loose around you? In this episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes shares tips for how to stay calm during chaos.Until next week, stay strong.

Sex is one of the ways we stay attracted to each other in a marriage. Dr. Corey Allan found in a study that the higher your level of religious dogma, the less sexually satisfied you are because of the shame and guilt associated with it. This early discovery led him to be a voice that helps couples discuss and frame conversations around sex and marriage. He believes if you can&apos;t talk about what you want to do or about sex with the person you wish to have it with, you&apos;re not ready to have it yet.Dr. Allan joins Kimberly Beam Holmes to discuss how you can walk beside your child, helping them create their own informed decision about sex based on your family’s morality. They talk about the effects of porn on a relationship, the introduction of sex robots, and how social media and tech have led to a digitized life to protect oneself from rejection in this week’s episode of It Starts With Attraction.PIES Takeaways:Ask yourself &

Did you know that I was once ADDICTED to Crossfit?It&apos;s true. And I ran myself into the ground. I hurt myself physically, to the point that I still have lasting effects from that time in my life. There are great, impactful, and life-changing ways to work on your PIES but they also have to be mindful, careful, and life-giving ways. Today I&apos;m offering some advice on some different ways you can work on your PIES without overdoing it or sacrificing the long-term goal of a lifetime of attractiveness for short-term gain.

This week I was joined by Christa Hardin. Christa is the host of the Enneagram + Marriage podcast, and I am so happy to talk to her when I have the chance.Christa gives us a brief rundown of each of the enneagram types and then we got into a discussion about how interactions play out with different groupings. It&apos;s SO fascinating to think about all the ways we interact with each other in these archetypal ways.It&apos;s important to remember that, while they aren&apos;t the final word, we can use tools like the enneagram to have a better understanding of ourselves and our spouse.PIES Takeaways:It&apos;s important to understand ourselvesEvery pairing has its strengthsYou are who you are today because someone has lifted you up and formed youEnneagram institute - https://w

Ben Higgins, of The Bachelorette and The Bachelor fame, joins us on our 100th episode of It Starts With Attraction! Ben discusses why he joined the reality TV shows and how he was looking to shake up what he felt was a boring and uninteresting life. He talks about his battles with addiction, feeling lonely and unseen, and how difficult it is to stand for your values when questioned about why you believe them. Finally, Ben reminds us that we&apos;ve all experienced pain and have a story worth sharing.What can you do to surround yourself with a community of people who will support and encourage you to do what you should do with your life?In what ways do you work on physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual attraction?When you have a belief and value that is different from the world, society, and the people you&apos;re with, are you going to stand firm on it?Mentions:Generous Coffee</

Couples don&apos;t have great conversations about sex. We all know we want to do it but very few of us know how to talk about it. Adam and Karissa from the Young Married Couples podcast lets us know how to begin talking about it and some pitfalls we might see along the way.Website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.comSocial links:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYivgxbFI_VKkA4milNsr5A/featuredFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/dearyoungmarriedcoupleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearyoungmarriedcouple/?hl=enLink to Sexpectations card deck on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3M

This week Kimberly chats with Laura Heck from Marriage Therapy Radio. Laura is a Gottman Certified therapist in Washington State. Of course, they talk about communication but also self-care, the top issues Laura sees as a marriage and family therapist, how to work on yourself, conflict...all the things!Laura sees a lot of couples living as &quot;roommates&quot; and having a lack of intimacy, and how to add more to your marriage. Intimacy fades with time because it&apos;s the assumption that you know your spouse already.They also talk about the Gottman 5-1 ratio. For every 1 negative thing, there should be 5 positive things to counteract them. Having emotional intelligence and understanding when your spouse took what you may have said or done negatively, and correcting it, is vital to a healthy marriage.Everyone has blind spots and Laura suggests asking the people closest to you that aren&apos;t your spouse to help you find them. And because yo

This week I sat down with my husband Rob to talk about spiritual attraction.We get into how we met, what attracted us to each other, and how to have discourse with friends and family that may not agree with you 100%. We believe people who model what they say and it&apos;s up to us to make sure that we&apos;re living in line with our beliefs and values.Don&apos;t weaponize your beliefs and valuesDon&apos;t judge othersLean into your curiosityAssess your own valuesFind people to hold you accountable

In today&apos;s episode of It Starts With Attraction, I&apos;m just going to share some things from my life with you. What spiritual attraction means to me, how it has helped me, and continues to shape me into the person I&apos;m becoming.Spiritual attraction, at its core, is all about living in line with the beliefs and value system that you have. We find it attractive when there are people who have strong beliefs and values and stand up for them. Spiritual attraction is important. I would say it&apos;s more important than physical attraction for a long-term relationship. And it&apos;s right up there with emotional attraction because it is the core of who we are — our spiritual attraction, beliefs, and values form our character, integrity, and purpose. Until next week, stay strong.

What does it mean to be on the same page spiritually as a couple? How can you work towards becoming and staying spiritually attracted to each other as you move through your marriage?For couples who share a christian faith, how can you work together to stay spiritually connected to each other and God?Even if you’re not a Christian, this episode is still valuable and has important truth that you can apply to your own life to see amazing change. Join Kimberly and Dr. Kimberling as they discuss spiritual attraction and specific ways you can use it to strengthen your marriage to make it the best it can be.Today’s Speaker: Dr. Kim KimberlingDr. Kim Kimberling is a Christian counselor that’s been working with couples for over 35 years. He holds a Ph.D. and a Doctor of Ministry in Christian Counseling. Dr. Kim is President and co-founder of Awesome Marriage. Awesome Marriage helps thousands of couples build an awesome marriage. <a href='

Grief is defined as the conflicting feelings caused by the change or end of a pattern of behavior.  The past 2 years have left a lot of us in a state of languishing. We&apos;re stuck in a middle place between grief and normalcy. The pandemic in many ways remains a grief situation and we need to treat it as such. There are so many areas of grief that sometimes we don&apos;t label it grief. And we need to be aware of the myth of closure and ambiguous loss in times of change. Join Kimberly and David Mathews as they talk about how to work out the grief we all share and climb out of the pits most of us have been in.

Although we wish every marriage could be saved, we know that it&apos;s not the reality for some people. Divorce is hard and no one should go through it alone. Today&apos;s episode is with Julie Beckerman,  a High Conflict Relationship Coach. She chats about how hard divorce can be difficult, especially with children involved. Julie provides insight on how we can communicate better with our spouse when conflict is high and emotions are strong when going through a divorce.  Please share this episode with anyone struggling with communication with their ex-spouse or, anyone that has kids going through a difficult divorce. Today&apos;s Speaker: Julie Beckerman, High Conflict Relationship CoachDivorce isn’t easy, and mine was certainly no exception. In 2014, after 10 years of marriage, with the decision to get divorced, I began the most difficult, scary, confusing, angering, and liberating journeys of my life:I navigated the waters of

Mindfulness is the ability to be fully present and aware of where you are and what you are doing. It&apos;s so easy to get distracted and overwhelmed with the chaos around us but practicing mindfulness may just be the hidden gem to happiness!In this podcast, you will learn the research behind mindfulness and gain an understanding of how mindfulness can benefit you in four key areas- Mind, Brain, Body, and Behaviors.Listen to today&apos;s episode to learn ways to apply mindfulness to your everyday life, start dealing with your emotions, be present, and disconnect from distractions.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following r

What does it mean to live a life of gratitude?  Gratitude is a state of being.  It isn&apos;t more money, fame, or success. It&apos;s not a perfect body, the best Instagram pictures, or the most followers on any social platform. It&apos;s none of the things that we go crazy trying to achieve on a day-to-day basis.  What really can make us happier in our lives, is how grateful we are for what we have. To bring it a little closer to home, it&apos;s how grateful you are in your life with the things that you have that can ultimately make you happier. Gratitude is one of the best things that people can begin to focus on in order to become unshackled from toxic emotions.In today&apos;s episode, we are going to talk about how to be grateful and express gratitude.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, a

Relationships are so important—especially the relationship we have with ourselves. In this episode, Kimberly speaks with Veronica Grant, a Love and Life Coach specializing in helping people do deep work to create deep love in relationships. Veronica shares her story of struggling with self-image and feeling like her worth was within other people rather than herself. We can all relate to this episode, especially in the current social-media-obsessed culture we live in. Veronica shares tips on showing up in relationships and ensuring you don&apos;t go backward with finding validation within your partner, spouse, or friends. If you lack confidence or struggle with self-worth, you are going to love this episode. Veronica dives in deeper to help you understand where certain feelings or thoughts are coming from and things you can do to uncover the emotions. Today&apos;s Speaker: Veronica Grant, Love and Life CoachVeronica is a Love + Life Coach,

What is social media doing to our brains? It may be affecting your life more than you realize. In this episode, Kimberly talks with Chris Martin about social media, how it started, where it&apos;s going, and what you can expect about the Metaverse. Chris Martin is the author of Terms Of Service: The Real Cost of Social Media. What problem does Instagram, Facebook, TikTok solve in our lives? Chris shares how social media is affecting our brains and everyday life. You&apos;ll learn why social media is taking us further apart instead of closer together and why you might have an unhealthy relationship with the social internet. This episode is packed with a lot of information and one that you&apos;ll want to save and listen to again. So please share this episode with your family and friends and talk to your kids about it. Today&apos;s Speaker: Chris Martin, Author of Terms of Service: The Cost of Social Media Chris Martin is a content marketing editor a

Kimberly is joined by a very special guest, her husband, Rob! This is the second time Rob has joined the podcast so if you missed the first episode, make sure you go back and listen to the episode about Introverts vs. Extroverts. In this episode, they both discuss what intellectually attracted them to each other when they first met. You will hear Rob and Kimberly answer questions from the listeners about working on intellectual attraction with your spouse when you have no interest in the same hobbies or likes. This is a fun episode with lots of laughs and great perspectives from both spouses on being more intellectually attractive. Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO

We are continuing with our PIES series, and this month we are talking all about Intellectual Attraction. In this episode, Kimberly shares what intellectual attraction is and provides ideas of what you can do to become more intellectually attractive. You are going to learn: - how to become a fascinating person- how to focus your curiosity on bettering yourself- why you should continue to be curious about your spouse and genuinely interested in the things that they enjoy - what kind of things you can do to help you learn and grow as a personPlease don&apos;t forget to rate the podcast and leave a review. Also, please share this with your friends! Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wif

*Note - this episode is all about sex so pop in your headphones especially if you have small children around.  In this final episode of our physical attraction series, we talk about sexual intimacy with your spouse and how to strengthen your relationship inside and outside the bedroom. Kimberly speaks with Victoria Sotelo, a marriage and family therapist specializing in sex therapy. Victoria talks about experiencing the senses to have pleasures and connecting with the essence of who you are. You will learn what you can do to shift the mindset and carve out a space for curiosity, newness, and intrigue to show up in your life in a place where you don&apos;t think it can exist. This is an important episode if you feel disconnected from your spouse and feel like you want to get that spark back. You&apos;ll want to take notes and save this episode for later. Today&apos;s Speaker: Victoria Sotelo, Marriage and Family TherapistVictoria So

This episode is the third episode in our physical attraction series. It&apos;s an insightful and powerful show that you&apos;ll want to save and listen to again. You are going to learn about adverse childhood experiences, how you may have been affected before the age of 17, and how it relates to your health and physical well-being. Our guest today is Dani Williamson, a family nurse practitioner specializing in functional medicine. You are going to learn so much about childhood trauma, food sensitivity, and how the gut affects everything that is going on in your life. Share this episode with your family and friends and don&apos;t forget to take notes. Check the show notes at the bottom of this page for links to Dani&apos;s book as well as the ACE questionnaire.Today&apos;s Speaker: Dani Williamson, MSN, FNP Integrative Healthcare Nurse PractitionerA graduate of Vanderbilt University School of Nursing Nurse-Midwifery and Family Nurse Practitio

This is part two of the sleep series in this month&apos;s topic of physical attraction. If you missed part one, go back and listen to last week&apos;s episode to catch the first six sleep tips. In part two, Kimberly shares the last four tips to help you get better sleep. If you are looking to feel rested, have better nighttime and morning routines, and feel better overall, you will want to listen to this episode and take notes. You will learn why sleep is so important and what you need to do to prepare your body for excellent rest. Please make sure to hit the share button, so your friends can start the new year off with great sleep too.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master&apos;s degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching h

We&apos;re kicking off the new year with all things PIES. We&apos;ll be doing a PIES series in the next four months where we bring you topics that help you focus on physical, intellectual, and emotional attraction. In this first episode of 2022, we start with physical attraction and provide you with tips on why sleep is so important. This is a 2 part episode, so make sure you tune in for the remaining tips next week. You will learn why sleep is so important and things you can start implementing into your nightly routine to wake up refreshed and renewed. Grab a notepad and get ready to take notes. Please make sure to hit the share button, so your friends can start the new year off with great sleep too. Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES Univer

In the last episode of 2021 and our personality series, Kimberly talks with Dr. Joe Beam about the DiSC profile. Dr. Beam explains each quadrant of DiSC and how you can use your profile to understand others better and have better relationships.You will learn the importance of understanding your spouse&apos;s DiSC personality so you can speak their language and vice versa. When you know about your spouse and know how they are wired, it helps make the marriage or relationship stronger.Dr. Beam says it doesn&apos;t mean you give up who you are. It just means if you want success in a relationship, whether it&apos;s romantic, parental work, anything, you learn how to speak people&apos;s language. Share this episode with your friends and family and stay tuned to what&apos;s coming for 2022! Today&apos;s Speaker: Dr. Joe Beam Dr. Beam is an internationally known and respected sexologist and authority on love, marriage, and sex. He

The Importance of Focusing on Your Strengths with Austin SuellentropThis week we are back with another exciting episode about personality styles. Today, Kimberly talks with Austin Suellentrop, CliftonStrengths Portfolio Manager for Gallup. (Also known as StrengthsFinder)You will learn why people learn differently and how to have conversations about each other&apos;s strengths to create better relationships. You&apos;ll also gain insight into when people are aware of their strengths, how it helps them identify and stick to their values.After you hear this episode, you will want to find out where you land with the StrengthsFinder assessment and share this episode with your friends and your spouse. Today&apos;s Speaker: Austin Suellentrop, CliftonStrengths Portfolio ManagerAustin Suellentrop, CliftonStrengths Portfolio Manager, leads Gallup’s organizational strategy for growing CliftonStrengths worldwide. Through close partnership with o

We are all wired a bit differently, and this week we are continuing our series of personality test types. Last week Kimberly covered the Enneagram with Michael Norton, and today, she speaks with Dr. Tim Atkinson, a Myers-Briggs expert. Personality tests are ways to understand yourself and others better. Dr. Tim Atkinson covers Myers-Briggs and the dichotomy of the four letters. Dr. Tim describes the personality test as a great conversation starter that provides a window into who and how each person operates. The Myers-Briggs assessment allows people to explore further their personalities, including their likes, dislikes, strengths, weaknesses, possible career preferences, and compatibility with other people. Grab your headphones, go on a walk and enjoy the episode!  Today&apos;s Speaker: Dr. Tim Atkinson, Myers-Briggs ExpertDr. Tim Atkinson is Director, Research and Sponsored Programs at Austin Peay State University.  He currently l

There is so much more to the Enneagram than you may think. Or, maybe you&apos;ve never heard of it and want to learn what all the hype is about.  In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly talks with Micheal Norton, an Enneagram teacher, and coach.  Michael shares so much insight and goes deeper into the origin of the Enneagram, each of the nine types, and the passion each number represents. You will learn so much about the Enneagram and yourself in this episode. Grab your headphones, go for a walk and enjoy the enneagram journey! Today&apos;s Speaker: Michael Norton, Enneagram Teacher and Coach at Enneagram. is Michael Burditt Norton is an Enneagram teacher, artist, and coach based in London. He has been working in the arts and creative industries for over 15 years. He works with individuals and teams, accessing the Enneagram as a tool for creativity and collaboration. Through his teaching and coaching, he focuses on supporting people as they brin

Have you ever been stopped in your tracks and been forced to rest? In this episode, you will hear Kimberly&apos;s story of perseverance and how an injury forced her to sit with God, listen, and rest. We are all wired to do and be what God has called us to do, and that is perfectly awesome. But sometimes, we need time to reflect to focus on our strengths rather than our weaknesses. You&apos;ll hear Kimberly&apos;s confession on how she struggled with her PIES and how she surrendered to rest. You are going to want to share this episode with a friend. So make sure you hit the share button, and please leave a review. Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction

In this episode, Kimberly speaks at a MUMLife event and shares how to fix a relationship with SMART Communication. There are two things you can do today to change your relationship. The first one is knowing that the only person you can control is yourself. The second thing you can do is improve relationships is change the way you communicate. Stop fighting and start listening.  SMART Communication is an acronym for:Stop PushingManaging ExpectationsApproach KindlyRemember to ListenTackle as a TeamA great marriage occurs when you start doing things to build love and stop doing things that destroy love. This episode covers a lot of great tips that you can begin implementing immediately to help fix your relationships. Don&apos;t forget to click the links below to get your free resources!  Free Resources: https://marriagehelper.com/hello/Today’s Speaker: Kimberly

In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly speaks with world-renowned marriage and divorce researcher Dr. John Gottman! Kimberly and Dr. Gottman pack a lot into this exciting episode. They discuss various topics like commitment, what makes sex great in a relationship, how to be more intentional with your spouse, constructive conflict, dating your spouse, and so much more! Kimberly and Dr. Gottman cover ALL THE THINGS we contemplate most in our relationships, so grab a notebook and a pen to discover more about commitment, what makes a great marriage, and how to make a marriage last.You are going to want to share this episode with your friends and family. So make sure you hit the share button in your podcast player and text it to everyone you think would find value from this fantastic conversation with Dr. John Gottman.Today’s Speaker: Dr. John Gottman, Ph.D. World-renowned marriage and divorce researcher.World-renowned for his work on marita

Creating habits on top of your existing habits can sound overwhelming, but in today&apos;s episode, Kimberly shares practical tips on how to increase productivity with PIES Stacking. Think about your good daily habits that already exist and consider something that you can add to it. For example, if you are a coffee drinker and it&apos;s part of your morning routine, rather than doom scrolling, read or journal while you enjoy your cup of caffeine. Say affirmations to yourself while you brush your teeth to help set the tone and mood for the day. Grab your headphones and dive into this quick and practical episode to help create habits that stick. Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways t

Are you ready to Make Some Noise? In this episode, Kimberly chats with personal development coach, author, and speaker, Andrea Owen. Andrea talks about her new book Make Some Noise and shares how to navigate challenging conversations, set boundaries (and when it&apos;s appropriate), communicate better, and set expectations when speaking with loved ones. This episode is filled with vulnerability, transparency, and powerful tools you can use to show up as your best self! You&apos;ll leave this episode feeling empowered to show up for yourself so you can create your best life! Today’s Speaker: Andrea Owen, Global Speak, Author, and Certified Life CoachAndrea Owen is an author, global speaker, and professional certified life coach who helps high-achieving women maximize unshakeable confidence, and master resilience. She has taught hundreds of thousands of women tools and strategies to be able to empower themselves to live their most

Are you getting enough rest, and are you getting the right kind of rest? In this week&apos;s episode, Pastor Ian Simkins talks about the importance of rest and how rest is much more than sitting on the couch after a long day at work; it&apos;s about how you spend your time when you aren&apos;t resting. You&apos;ll learn what God says about rest and why you need time for Sabbath. This episode aligns so well with the PIES of Attraction and becoming the best version of you that you can be. What you do in life is important but who you are becoming is more important. Ian provides a great perspective on rest and how it resets the posture of who we are and understanding our identity, especially our identity in Christ.Pop in your headphones, go for a walk, breathe in the fresh air and enjoy the episode! Today’s Speaker: Ian Simkins, Lead Pastor of Teaching at The Bridge Church in Spring Hill, TNIan is the Lead Pastor of Teaching and Vision at T

Do you practice mental wellness and self-love?In this episode, Kimberly chats with Dr. Shainna Ali about mental wellness and how we talk to ourselves. You are going to learn what you can start doing to take better care of your mental well-being. Dr. Shainna also shares what self-love is and how we can intentionally love ourselves with the seven components of self-love. Dr. Shainna created the Self-Love workbook that helps boost self-esteem, so you can recognize your worth and find genuine happiness. So grab your headphones, go for a walk and enjoy the episode! Today’s Speaker: Dr. Shainna Ali, Mental health clinician, educator, &amp; advocateDr. Shainna is dedicated to helping others understand the important role of mental health in fostering happiness, fulfillment, and overall wellness. She is a licensed mental health counselor (MH15290), a nationally certified counselor (717226), and an approved clinical supervisor (ACS 3047). Beyond credentials,

Are you a leader? If you answered no, you may be surprised to learn that you are wrong. In this episode, Kimberly chats with her friend, Alex Judd. Alex is the founder of Path for Growth and he believes that everybody wins when a leader DECIDES to intentionally grow every single day. You&apos;ll learn the difference between self-improvement vs. selfish improvement and how to release the baggage that you carry around for yourself and everyone else. You&apos;ll also hear Alex coach Kimberly as he puts her in the hot seat about prioritizing expectations rather than priorities. Grab a pen and paper, and get ready to take a lot of notes. If you&apos;re listening to this in the car, save the episode because it&apos;s so good that you&apos;ll want to listen to it again! Today’s Speaker: Alex Judd, Founder of Path For GrowthAlex Judd founded Path for Growth out of the belief that everybody wins when a leader DECIDES to intentionally grow every singl

Do you ever feel like you need to slow down? How aware are you of your body, your mind, and your emotions?  In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly shares techniques that you can do to help you become more grounded and centered. If you are new to mindfulness and meditation, we encourage you to go back and listen to episode 10, where Kimberly talks about the science and research behind it. You will learn breathing techniques and the importance of being intentional with your breath and what it does to your body. You&apos;ll also know what it means to be centered and grounded with your body. If you have never practiced mindfulness or meditation, this episode is perfect for you. Kimberly ends with a 10 minute guided meditation that you can do at your desk, on a walk, or lying down.Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, find a comfortable spot and enjoy the episode!  Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and Relationships

Do you have a relationship that is struggling over a disagreement? With everything going on in the world and our society, there is a lot of fighting and division happening all around us.In this episode, Kimberly shares five things you can do when a disagreement challenges you. Many of us have encountered conversations about politics, and we&apos;re quick to stand our ground, believe what we believe, and disagree with the other side. But, you&apos;ll learn how to have a respectful conversation when you disagree and come out of it with more love and appreciation for the other person once you seek to understand.Our psychological default is to fight to get our way and not be wrong. But we have to fight against that if we want to have a better society, if we&apos;re going to have better relationships and want to be the best version of ourselves. Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Ho

There are two things in life that we are never taught to do, parenting and marriage.In this episode, Kimberly speaks with parenting expert Kimball Lewis. You are going to learn how not to take your child’s disrespectful behavior personally and how to find common ground between you and your spouse when it comes to parenting. If you want your child to behave a certain way, you have to model those behaviors you want them to exhibit.Parenting is hard, and this episode provides so much information and tips you can implement immediately. So grab a pen and get ready to take notes!Today’s Speaker: Kimball Lewis, CEO, Empowering ParentsKimball Lewis is the CEO of EmpoweringParents.com. In addition to his leadership and management roles, he contributes as an editor, a homeschooling expert, and a parent coach. He resides in Orlando, Florida, with his wife and two teenage sons. Managing child behavior problems is a skill that can be learned. And the too

For us to be individuals who are more emotionally attractive, it&apos;s essential to understand our emotions. In this episode, Kimberly talks with Dr. Laurel Mellin about Emotional Brain Training. You will learn how to understand your emotions and what to do with your emotions to help you move towards a state of happiness and joy. You don’t want to miss the exercise Dr. Mellin walks Kimberly through. Kimberly gets real and raw about feelings and thoughts she has about herself, and she learns how those emotions don’t have to hold you back or dictate your future. Pop in your headphones, grab a notepad to take notes, and get ready to dive into this very insightful episode!Today’s Speaker: Dr. Laurel Mellin, Ph.D., Founder of Emotional Brain TrainingDr. Mellin is a health psychologist who founded and developed emotional brain training. She is an associate clinical professor of family and community medicine and pediatrics at the Univers

How well are you taking care of your skin? Skin health is essential for everyone, and good skincare should start early. Today, Kimberly is speaking with Lauren Vance, Lead Medical Aesthetician at a premier medical spa. Lauren shares the importance of diet, hydration, good SPF, vitamin C, and why you shouldn’t use towels to dry your face! You don’t want to miss this episode because you may think you are doing everything right in skincare, but you’ll be surprised! Men and women, this episode is for you!Today’s Speaker: Lauren Vance, Lead Medical AestheticianLauren Vance is the lead medical aesthetician at a brand new premier medical spa in Franklin,TN called Face It. Lauren has a background in early childhood education but decided to follow her passion in the beauty industry. Lauren has been an aesthetician for several years and continues to enhance her practice by pursuing additional classes to learn everything there

Do you have a relationship in your life that is troubled? In today’s episode, you are going to hear from Stanford Professor Dr. David Bradford. David is well known for his course on Interpersonal Dynamics, or what the students call the “touchy-feely” class. David has his students build relationships by sharing personal feelings and creating interactions that help them grow and learn from each other.  You will learn how to improve your troubled relationships by applying Dr. Bradford’s techniques and tools. He shares when it’s good to be defensive vs. when it’s not and shares how to have respectful, honest, and trustworthy conversations that will strengthen your relationship. There is so much to unpack in this episode so grab your headphones and paper to takes notes. Enjoy the show!Today’s Speaker: Dr. David Bradford Ph.D., Senior Lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of BusinessDavid is the Eugene O’Kelly II Senior Lecturer Emeritus

Are you interested in learning how to become more aware of yourself and your surroundings? In this episode, Scott shares how he became the VP of Mindfulness and Compassion at LinkedIn and why he took a chance to advocate and create the position. You will learn how mindfulness allows you to be more aware and therefore have more compassion for others. When we focus on small things to show compassion, you let others know that you care about them. Scott talks about micro compassions and what you can start doing today to take positive actions to be more compassionate. There is so much to learn in this episode that falls in line with the PIES. Pop in your headphones, go for a walk, and enjoy the episode! Today’s Speaker: Scott Shute, LinkedIn VP Head of Mindfulness &amp; CompassionScott Shute is at the heart of LinkedIn‘s quest to create a culture of compassionate leadership, serving as VP of Global Customer Operations and Head of Mindfu

We&apos;re kicking off the season with a wonderful testimonial from Adele Bester. You are going to love her story, and you&apos;ll leave the podcast feeling inspired and informed on how to start working on your PIES. Adele shares how she learned to let go and trust God. This story is a continuation of an incredible journey and the importance of hard work and self-love. You can hear more of Adele and Ren&apos;s story on the Relationship Radio podcast. Pop in your headphones, go for a walk, and enjoy the episode! Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement &amp; RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becom

Season 2 is back! We&apos;ve got a new look and a super exciting second season for you!  We are delighted to give you amazing interviews, new topics, and a theme for each month!We are kicking off August, covering various topics on relationships, from workplace relationships to parenting. In addition, you&apos;ll hear from a LinkedIn VP share tips on mindfulness and self-care in the workplace, and you&apos;ll also hear how Dr. Mellin works through emotional brain training with Kimberly.Get ready for an all-new season next Tuesday, August 10th.    

We’re wrapping up the first season of It Starts With Attraction! It’s been a wonderful first season with great guests, researched-based topics, and awesome questions from our listeners. Be sure to go back and listen to previous episodes to get tips to help you work on your PIES.A few of our favorites:  The Most Important Part of Attraction with Dr. Joe BeamWhy You Should Stop Focusing On Your RelationshipSMART Communication in Your Relationships: Part 1Overcoming Trauma with Dr. Karol DarsaWe would love to hear from you so if there i

Do you ever feel like you just aren&apos;t in the mood and want to sleep? Today&apos;s Ask Me Anything questions comes from Muna and she says &quot;I often have no interest in sex and just want to sleep. How can I change to be in the mood more often?&quot; In this episode, Kimberly helps answer this question by uncovering what could be the root cause. Has something in your life recently changed that is causing you stress? Are you not getting enough sleep because you are overwhelmed throughout the day? Pop your headphones in and get ready to learn how to get in the mood! Always consult with a medical professional first to get help. Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and

In today&apos;s episode of our Ask Me Anything series, Ann asks &quot; How can I become more physically attractive for my husband? He says he was never physically attracted to me. Can attraction change over time? Kimberly shares the most important areas of the PIES and the parts of physical attraction that can be changed, and the ones that can&apos;t. You are going to learn a few tips to becoming physically attractive and how to appreciate the body God gave you. Pop in your headphones and settle into this episode to learn how to focus on the areas of attraction so you can grow and become the best version of yourself that you can be. Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that a

Do you often feel anxious or have fears that seem to take over your life? Did you know that 40 million people in the United States experience anxiety? In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly is sharing her own personal experience with anxiety and, ways to overcome it based on research. Today&apos;s Ask Me Anything question comes from Emily. And she says, &quot;How do I work to get past my general fears and anxieties, I have health anxiety because many of the people closest to me have or have had cancer. And I&apos;m realizing that my husband feels drained as a result of me dragging him into this fear-based world of mine, I feel it makes him not want to be around me at all.&quot;You&apos;ll want to dive into this episode to understand the neuroscience behind anxiety and what you can do to help overcome emotions. Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’

Are you feeling unmotivated? Do you feel like there is so much to do in a day that you don&apos;t have time to work on yourself? In this episode of Ask Me Anything, we hear from Sheetal who says  &quot;I don&apos;t have time to work on my PIES with everything I have going on in my life. Where do I start?&quot; The first thing to know is that it&apos;s okay to feel this way. What&apos;s important is that you recognize it. It&apos;s normal to have stages in our lives where you might feel stuck and totally unmotivated. You may be dealing with depression which is also normal.  In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly shares tips on how to get back on track by taking small steps to get you motivated again. Our Ask Me Anything series will continue for several weeks. We would love to hear from you! Please submit your question by clicking the link below. Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied

Are you the type of person that wants to hide in a corner instead of facing conflict? Or, are you the person that is ready to face conflict head-on? In this episode, you&apos;ll learn how to resolve conflict without getting defensive, yelling, or criticizing the other person. Conflict and disagreements are actually healthy if handled properly. When people have a conflict or disagree about something, and they can talk about it and resolve it without attacking, that means that they are secure enough in the relationship to voice their opinions. Tune in to gain insight on how to have healthy disagreements, address conflict by listening, and by getting to the core issue. Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction af

Are you wondering how to know if you are healthy?Over the next few weeks, I&apos;ll be answering questions from the podcast listeners and subscribers in my Ask Me Anything series.  This week&apos;s question comes from Josh.  Josh asks: &quot;How do I know that I am a healthy single dad raising two daughters successfully?&quot;In this episode, Kimberly shares the areas of your life to focus on so you are striving to be the healthiest you can be. She talks about the importance of sleep and why you need more than you think you do. Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are

Wondering how to stay attracted to your significant other? Over the next few weeks, I&apos;ll be answering questions from the podcast listeners and subscribers in my Ask Me Anything series.  This week&apos;s question comes from Sheila.  Sheila asks: “How can I maintain or sustain the attraction that I have to my partner?&quot;In this episode, Kimberly unpacks how attraction really works and how attraction changes over time. Tune into this episode to hear how to keep that attraction alive and what you can do to stay attractive and stay attracted to your spouse. Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,

In the next few episodes, we will be switching things up! Starting today, I will be answering your questions about attraction. In this episode, I share my answers to Phil&apos;s question about physical attraction:&quot;I&apos;ve always been very active, and my wife and I used to run together and work out together quite a bit. I&apos;m currently in a season of life where I feel I honestly have zero time I can spend working out without either completely neglecting my family or never getting enough sleep. There are so many get fit quick schemes out there that I don&apos;t know what to believe. What would be the least number of days I can work out that would still provide physical benefit. And what would you recommend as a good full body but short on time required workout?&quot;If you also feel like time has slipped away and you don&apos;t have time to work on physical attraction, tune into this episode to hear key tips to working out when you&apos;re short

Have you ever struggled with not feeling good enough?Most times when we&apos;re doing something of importance - pursuing a dream, starting a new job, becoming a parent - we feel so unqualified at the outset. Rather than trying to fight off the feeling, Ella Lucas-Averett shares how to embrace that feeling and use it to accomplish the most daunting of tasks.If you&apos;re feeling fearful about starting something, this episode is for you. Learn how to lean into those feelings of not being good enough and the key to overcoming it. Today’s Speaker - Ella Lucas-AverettElla is a professional speaker and host of the On Air with Ella podcast. She is Managing Partner of a strategic consulting firm she co-founded in 2003, entrepreneur, part-time triathlete, and a caffeine enthusiast.Her true passion, though, lies in helping people build their best lives as they define it. Ella wants to live better ever

When times get difficult, have you found it challenging to have courage?In this episode, Margie Warrell shares what to do when things are difficult and you&apos;re scared. Tune in to hear practical things to do to move forward and have courage in your lives even when life is feeling uncertain.Learn how to start changing your mental state to increase your courage to  live a courageous life. Gain insight on how to tell yourself you ARE capable of achieving the things you wish for yourself. Don&apos;t let another day pass by being scared of pursuing your dreams. Start today.Today’s Speaker - Margie WarrellMargie Warrel is an author – keynote speaker – media commentator – certified coach – podcast host – Forbes columnist – board member – women’s advocate – leadership facilitator – adventure traveller – amateur barista – ball juggling/dropping mother of four… you get the drift.Twenty-five years of living around the world coupled w

Have you ever tried to encourage those in your life to work on becoming the best they can be only to come across like you don&apos;t accept them for exactly who they are right now? In this episode, I share how to motivate those you love without seeming pushy or forceful. I&apos;ll share what I have found most helpful in getting the people in your life to work on themselves. Learn how to ultimately get to a place where you and those around you are becoming the most attractive and best that you can be. Learn how to connect with those around you through working on PIES.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a mon

Has something ever caused you to feel triggered into a fearful or angry state? Do you feel like you have a hard time understanding what emotions you feel or how to respond to them?In this episode, we are continuing our discussion of polyvagal theory - which is essentially the science of how people connect and respond to danger. Polyvagal theory affects us every moment of every day. It helps us understand why we feel the way we feel and react the way we react.If you are wanting to have a better understanding of how to self regulate and co-regulate with your family members, this episode is for you. Learn simple ways to reach a safe and social state for yourself and your loved ones. Today’s Speaker - Justin Sunseri, LMFTJustin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who teaches about trauma and mental health. From East Side San Jose to the Mission District of San Francisco.  In Stockton or even the more affluent Palo Alto. Trauma

Has something ever caused you to feel triggered into a fearful or angry state? Do you feel like you have a hard time understanding what emotions you feel or how to respond to them?In this episode, we are taking a deep dive into polyvagal theory - which is essentially the science of how people connect and respond to danger. Polyvagal theory affects us every moment of every day. It helps us understand why we feel the way we feel and react the way we react.If you are wanting to have a better understanding of how to self regulate and co-regulate with your family members, this episode is for you. Learn simple ways to reach a safe and social state for yourself and your loved ones. Today’s Speaker - Justin Sunseri, LMFTJustin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who teaches about trauma and mental health. From East Side San Jose to the Mission District of San Francisco.  In Stockton or even the more affluent Palo Alto. Trauma has b

What is trauma? How can you overcome it?Trauma comes in many different forms such as relational, emotional, societal, environmental, and more. Whether you have experienced trauma or not, it is important for all of us to understand. In this episode, Dr. Karol Darsa shares how to interact and show empathy with those who are struggling with traumatic experiences.If you  are trying to overcome trauma in your life or if you would like to understand trauma more, this episode is for you. Dr. Karol Darsa explains what trauma is, how to identify it, and how to heal from it. You do not want to miss today&apos;s episode. Today’s Speaker - Dr. Karol DarsaDr. Darsa is a licensed psychologist, an author and founder of Reconnect. She has more than 20 years of clinical and administrative experience in trauma and mental health disorders. Dr. Darsa began her career in 1998 as a foster care social worker and continued her work with abused children and

Today we are talking all about relationships and mental health. Being successful, having successful relationships, and loving relationships all begins with being seen. In this episode, Jadell Lee and I discuss key ways to be seen and improve your mental health.Jadell Lee shares his struggles with mental health, how he overcame those struggle, and key tips to where leadership begins. If you are yearning to feel seen and find a fulfilled purpose in life, this episode is for you.Today’s Speaker - Jadell LeePreparing dancers for the center stage of life, Mental Health Advocate Jadell Lee is a professional dance educator, touring adjudicator, published author, and speaker who brings a fresh perspective of life to audiences across the country.  He is represented by Go 2 Talent Agency, Assistant Director of CRU Dance Competition, touring faculty with Thrive Dance Experience, and guest master instructor for Abby Lee Dance Company. He is the author of Yo

Today, I am talking with Christa Biegler about fasting. It seems everyone is talking about fasting recently - intermittent fasting, multiple day fasting, bone broth fasting, etc. Today we are going back to the basics about fasting. Tune in to learn why people should fast, if everybody should fast, and how to fast in a healthy way. *The NEW PIES University Course is finally here, Your Best Self: A 30 Day Guide To Becoming The Most Attractive You Can Be. In this course, I go through a day-to-day regimen, teaching you the best things you can do to work on your PIES, and sharing implementable takeaways based on what you learn. This course not only tells you how to get started on your PIES, but also how to dig deep and get crystal-clear clarity on what you should be doing, what to do, how to do it, and how to implement it in your daily life. You can join this course by going to www.piesuniveristy.com and clicking &quot;Join&quot

More songs, movies, and books have been written about this one thing more than anything else in the world... and that thing is love. Love is what drives us. However, when you ask people, &quot;What is love?&quot; most people wouldn&apos;t know how to describe it. We all know there are different types of love. How can you actually quantify it? In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam and I are getting into the real data of what love actually is and how to show it to the people who matter most to you.Today’s Speaker - Dr. Joe BeamAn internationally known and respected sexologist and authority on love, marriage and sex. He received his PhD from the University of Sydney. He is the founder and chair of Marriage Helper based in Tennessee, just south of Nashville.He has designed and developed courses, workshops and seminars to help troubled marriages for over two decades. He has been

If you don&apos;t manage your time... then your time will manage you.Now more than ever, it is important for us  to have routines that help us set our intentions of what we want to be focused on every day in our life. That might sound overwhelming, but I&apos;m going to break down my routine to serve as a blueprint for how routine setting works. Listen to today&apos;s episode to gain insight to what routines can look like and how you can use them to most benefit you in creating the life that you will love to live.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that t

Today, we are talking all about women&apos;s health. If you are a woman or someone who has a woman in your life, this podcast will give you insight into better understanding women&apos;s hormonal cycles. It is really important for men and women to understand what goes on in women&apos;s bodies when their cycle is occurring.Dr. Beth Westie has spent years working with women helping them to better understand their hormones, how to eat, how to sleep, and how to be more in line with their bodies&apos; needs.In this episode, Dr. Beth Westie shares how to become more empowered as a woman through understanding your hormones and tips for feeling better during your cycle.Today’s Speaker - Dr. Beth WestieAfter struggling to find a solution to ovarian cysts and bouncing from doctor to doctor, being told she would need to go on birth control to fix the issue, Dr. Beth Westie leaned into her eastern medicine training and started researching ways to fix

Have you ever felt like our culture&apos;s view of health can actually lead people to be the most sick they have ever been?In today&apos;s episode, hear Brad Davidson share his personal story about rethinking the way we view metabolism and health.We are going to break down health and fitness in a way that is different than you have heard from industry professionals. Learn how health and fitness should matter to us in our day to day lives.Today’s Speaker - Brad DavidsonA born-and-raised small town guy from McMinnville, Oregon, Brad Davidson first moved to California in 1998 to pursue my passion for health and fitness.His humble beginnings were nothing more than a gym he based out of his garage and a desire to help people become the best athletes they could possibly be.That small garage gym quickly turned into an 8,000 sqft facility – a complete health and training business that focused on efficiency, complete health audits,

Introverts versus extroverts... Which one is better? We all know there is not one that is better or worse. Although, most of the time in relationships, we act like one is. In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly Holmes and her husband Rob Holmes discuss how personality types affect relationships. Listen to this episode to learn different tools to better understand people in relationships.Today&apos;s Speakers: Kimberly and Rob HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that they can be.  Website: www.PIESUniversity.comYou’

Long gone are the days where getting less sleep was seen as a badge of honor. Research has shown us that sleep is vital for recovering and rejuvenating us. In this episode, Mollie McGlocklin is going to break down how you can get a better night&apos;s sleep, some of the key things you need to do, and why you don&apos;t need to wait. Now is the time to begin sleeping better. Today’s Speaker - Mollie McGlocklinMollie is the creator of Sleep Is A Skill, a company that optimizes people’s sleep through a unique blend of technology, accountability, and behavioral change. The company was born from “scratching her own itch” after a lifetime of poor sleep habits culminated into a mega-challenging bout of insomnia for months without end. With a background in psychology &amp; human behavior, she went down the rabbit hole to solve her sleep disturbances without sleeping aids. She became fascinated with chronob

&quot;You won&apos;t get to where you want to go if you stay where you are.&quot;Do you feel like you make resolutions each year but never achieve your goals? In today&apos;s episode, I share how you can begin to look forward make your plans and goals, make a change in your daily habits and daily schedule, and know exactly where to focus in order to grow and become the best you that you can be. Whether you are making goals for the next month, year, or decade, this implementable framework will provide a way for you to visualize your goals and create a path to get there. Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reache

2020 is finally coming to a close, and you know what?... We made it! What a year it has been. In today&apos;s episode, we are looking back at the five best podcast moments of 2020 from It Starts With Attraction. I&apos;m also going to be sharing some behind the scenes takes with you. Listen to this episode to hear the top tips offered from this year&apos;s podcast. Let&apos;s dive in!Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that they can be.  Website: www.PIESUniversity.com<b

What can make you happier in life? It isn&apos;t more money, fame, or success. It&apos;s not a perfect body, the best Instagram pictures, or the most followers on any social platform. It&apos;s none of the things that we go crazy trying to achieve on a day to day basis. What really can make us happier in our lives, is how grateful we are for what we have. To bring it a little closer to home, it&apos;s how grateful you are in your life with the things that you have that can ultimately make you happier. In today&apos;s episode, we are going to talk about how to be grateful and express gratitude.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and

Stress isn&apos;t just a feeling you feel like you might feel sad or happy. Stress is actually the result of a hormonal change that occurs in your body, especially from cortisol. In today&apos;s episode, I am speaking with Christa Biegler, an award-winning dietitian nutritionist. Tune into this episode to gain insight into things you need to start changing immediately in order to decrease your stress, decrease the cortisol in your body, and decrease your inflammation in order to better your health.Today’s Speaker - Christa Biegler, RDN, CLTChrista Biegler is an award-winning dietitian nutritionist, online educator, and host of The Less Stressed Life podcast. She specializes in helping health-conscious high-performance women overcome bloating, fatigue and food reactions. She is also the owner of Eczemanutritionist.com and author of The Eczema Relief Diet &amp; Cookbook. She helps listeners and

How do you actually take the concept of working on your PIES into stride and start doing it? Today, I am interviewing Kelly, a member of one of my PIES University classes. Kelly has had a year and a half journey of working on her PIES. In this episode, Kelly shares with us what finding out about PIES meant to her, how she started working on her pies, and the difference it has made in her life to actually implement the PIES principles. Listen to hear what &quot;working on your PIES&quot; looked like for Kelly, how she has done it, and the amazing changes she has seen in herself and the changes others have seen in her.Today’s Speaker - Kelly FlintI am 48 years old from upstate New York (Western upstate actually to be more specific). I am a wife, a mom, an aunt, and the oldest of two brothers and a sister. I have raised two children that my husband and I adopted in 2005 they are now 19 and 21. I have been married for 28 years. I also love dogs they are

I used to think rest was for the lazy. What I ended up experiencing was burnout, adrenal fatigue, complete demotivation, and depression because I had overworked myself.Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith has identified 7 different types of rest of which we should be aware. In this PIEScast, she shares how rest in each of those areas works. As I was having this conversation with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, I had many &quot;Aha&quot; moments and started immediately making changes to how I was interacting with things in my daily life. Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith shares her new book Sacred Rest and her key tips to recover your life, renew your energy, and restore your sanity. Take a listen to today&apos;s episode as I uncover some amazing things for you to know about rest in this conversation with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith.Today’s Speaker - Dr. Saundra Dalton-SmithDr. Saundra Dalton-Smith is a Board-Certified internal medicine physician, speaker, and author. S

How would you describe a perfect day?What you think is a perfect day now and a perfect day 20 years from now probably have a lot of similarities. Both of them probably come down to the fact that you want more free time, more joy, less stress, and you want to be doing more of what you love doing and less of what you really don&apos;t enjoy doing.Right now you may be sacrificing your ideal day in order to obtain your ideal day 20 years from now. But what if you could have both now? In this episode, I am going to be talking about work-life balance, and how to get the life that you want 20 years from now today. Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos

Are you feeling unhappy with your life? If you feel unmotivated or disheartened, this episode is for you. In today&apos;s podcast, learn the four key elements to creating a happier and healthier life.  Learn how to shape your actions and perspectives to align with your goals. Sometimes all that is needed is a change of perspective. Listen to this podcast to hear Dr. Pamela Hays share wisdom about cultivating a happy life.Today’s Speaker - Dr. Pamela HaysPamela Hays holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the University of Hawaii, and served as a National Institute of Mental Health fellow at the University of Rochester School of Medicine, followed by 11 years on the graduate faculty of Antioch University Seattle. Her research has included work with Muslim women in North Africa, and Vietnamese, Lao, and Cambodian people in the U.S.  In 2000, she returned to her home community on the Kenai Peninsula of Alaska, where she lives in a to

How do you sleep the night before you are about to meet your children for the first time?The answer is... You don&apos;t.  We couldn&apos;t sleep because we knew our lives were about to fundamentally change. When we started our process of adoption, we had no idea the trials and tribulations we would face and the patience we would learn. It literally changed my life. Going through something your heart desperately wants and you have no control over is something that changed who I am now as a person. If you are in a season of waiting for something to happen that your heart is yearning for, and you can&apos;t see the light at the end of the tunnel, then this podcast is for you.I&apos;m going to share my story of adoption, what my season of waiting looked like,  how I saw answers to my prayers, and how I grew into a better person through the grueling and treacherous process of waiting.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes<

Lust kills love. Porn and sex addiction can wreak havoc in an intimate relationship and it can affect someone personally when they are entrenched in the addiction. In our culture, it can be easier to chase after lust than to find real love. In this podcast, Nate Larkin shares how he overcame his twenty-year struggle with sexual addiction. Even if you are not struggling with sex addiction, this podcast can help you know how to run free from feelings of guilt and shame.Today’s Speaker – Nate LarkinNate Larkin knows the pressure to live up to a public persona. He knows what it&apos;s like to have a secret that can destroy a career. He knows what it&apos;s like to quit. And He knows what it&apos;s like to find healing, deep friendships, and hope. Nate has a story that unfortunately too many people can relate with. He was the perfect role model growing up. Everything looked great on the outside. But inside Nate, a battle was raging. H

There are smart and not so smart ways that you can communicate with the people in your life. Unfortunately, the majority of us end up defaulting to a type of communication style that only causes frustration, anger in relationships, and disillusion. These types of communication do not seek to clearly communicate and listen to identify core issues and move forward in the best way possible.Instead, learn how to communicate with people in your lives in a smart way. The principles of SMART Communication should be implemented in the important relationships in our lives in order for the best, most efficient communication possible. With SMART Communication, learn how to communicate clearly and effectively while strengthening your relationships. Join me today to learn about part 2 of smart communication.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of M

You have probably seen many people communicate with others in a way that you thought, &quot;Oh my goodness. This is a disaster.&quot;There are smart and not so smart ways that you can communicate with the people in your life. Unfortunately, the majority of us end up defaulting to a type of communication style that only causes frustration, anger in relationships, and disillusion. These types of communication do not seek to clearly communicate and listen to identify core issues and move forward in the best way possible.Instead, learn how to communicate with people in your lives in a smart way. The principles of SMART Communication should be implemented in the important relationships in our lives in order for the best, most efficient communication possible. With SMART Communication, learn how to communicate clearly and effectively while strengthening your relationships.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holm

Have you ever been frustrated in your life? Maybe you have felt frustrated on a monthly, weekly, or even daily basis. If you are wondering where these feelings of frustration come from and how to lower your frustration, then this podcast is for you! In today&apos;s episode, you will gain an understanding of how to deal with a situation rather than reacting to it.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that they can be.  Website: www.PIESUniversity.comYou’ll LearnWhere frus

Do you need help dealing with addiction either for yourself or a loved one?  If your loved one loved you back, would he or she be able to stop the hurtful behavior? Today’s guest, David Mathews, explains the definition of addiction and talks about several ways addiction affects the brain, explaining how “natural dopamine production in the body is like whispering in your ear. When you have artificial drugs coming in, it’s like someone shouting with a megaphone in your ear.”David Mathews goes into detail about how some personalities are more susceptible to addiction, how an addict’s brain gets reprogrammed, and what to do when supporting a loved one who suffers from addiction.  Mathew’s greatest advice is “There’s always, always, always hope. Until there is no hope”. Don’t miss today’s informative show!Today’s Speaker – David MathewsIn 2008, David and Debbie Mathews founded Spark of Life, a non-profit organization, following the loss of their grandson.  Sin

Are you wanting to know how to get past the guilt you are feeling? If you are feeling guilty or know someone who is overwhelmed with guilt, this podcast is for you. In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam breaks down his own story of getting past guilt and shares how to accept forgiveness. Dr. Joe Beam shares why initially feeling guilt is a good thing. After listening to this podcast, you will understand what to do about guilt, how to move past it, accept forgiveness, and talk to someone who is overwhelmed with guilt. Today’s Speaker - Dr. Joe BeamAn internationally known and respected sexologist and authority on love, marriage and sex. He received his PhD from the University of Sydney. He is the founder and chair of Marriage Helper based in Tennessee, just south of Nashville.He has designed and developed courses, workshops and seminars to help troubled marriages for ove

If you have ever heard the term Macro Dieting and thought, &quot;That&apos;s WAY too much math&quot; then this episode is for you. Today, I am talking to Registered Dietitian, Emily Field who has been working in the field of macro dieting. In today&apos;s episode, we will be sharing what macros are, how to eat for your macros, and how macros affect your body.*Be sure to download the attraction assessment by opting in to emails at itstartswithattraction.com.Today’s Speaker - Emily Field, RDEmily Field is not your average Dietitian.She uses her expertise to empower her clients to embrace a macro-based, balanced eating pattern that protects their metabolism, supports lean muscle gains, and leads to stress-free, fat loss.She eats the yolks, adds heavy cream to her coffee and tops with guacamole whenever possible. Straight talk and tough love is what you’ll get from her.She bel

How many times do you say things about yourself or to yourself (mentally or even out loud!) that are hurtful to you, degrading to you, and tearing down your own self-esteem?This negative self-talk can come up so sneakily in ways that you don&apos;t even realize it&apos;s happening unless you are aware and conscious about it. In today&apos;s episode, you will learn all about identifying and stopping negative self-talk. I&apos;m going to give you 5 things you can do to help you switch the way you are speaking to yourself. You can go from negative to being conscious of being more positive in the things that you say and the ways that you think about yourself.I&apos;m the first to say that I clearly do not have this nailed down. I am struggling through this just like you, but these are things I have been using and implementing over the past several months. While I haven&apos;t conquered my negative self-talk yet, these things have helped me identify it, stop it

Are you struggling to understand what another person might be thinking or feeling?Did you know there are seven UNIVERSAL emotions? Hear Dr. David Matsumoto, a psychologist who has studied micro-expressions and human behaviors, explain what the seven universal emotions are and what drives them. If you are wanting to know how to combat the negative emotions in your relationships, this PIEScast is for you!This PIEScast is not only about noticing facial expressions and having better conversations with others. We are going to take a deep dive into the driving forces behind each of the seven universal emotions. Listen to this PIEScast to hear Dr. David Matsumoto share what matters MORE than science and research.Today’s Speaker - Dr. David MatsumotoDr. David Matsumoto, Director of Humintell, is a renowned expert in the field of microexpressions, facial expression, gesture, nonverbal b

Do you struggle with your own body image, your relationship with food so much that you suffer from disordered eating habits? If so, you are not alone. Hear Kimberly Beam Holmes share her story and how she broke free from the prison of her eating habits.  If you are constantly worried about what you are about to eat while secretly feeling guilty about what you just ate, this PIEScast is for you!Sometimes we don’t even realize how obsessive we’ve become in our habits, perceptions, negative thoughts about ourselves. Often, these perceptions are developed in childhood or early adolescence. So how can we change the lies we tell ourselves? When does the shame stop? What does the healing process look like from a real and honest perspective? Listen to a real story and a way THROUGH the struggle with Kimberly Beam Holmes in today’s episode!Today’s Speaker - Kimberly Beam Holmes Kimberly Holmes is passionate about saving marriages and strengthening families

When is the last time you focused on how you are breathing? Our breath is connected to life. Learn the importance of breath-- not just from a physiological standpoint-- but also on an emotional and spiritual level. In today&apos;s episode, Keleah Anderson is going to share with you all about breath, burnout, and going deeper with Jesus. Today’s Speaker- Keleah AndersonKeleah came to Yoga through two passions ~ cheerleading and gymnastics. The rhythm and movement of yoga was a beautiful extension of her two greatest childhood loves that had led her to a career in health &amp; fitness.   With an education background in physical therapy/anatomy and over 25 years of experience teaching and training, yoga quickly became another class she could offer her clients.   It was not until her personal journey with depression found new depths of healing through her practice that yoga became something completely different.  Keleah found movement that was sa

Have you ever been in a conversation where you find yourself becoming more and more frustrated?There are a lot of conversations, or talking back and forth to each other, going on in the world right now. A lot of people are talking and responding, but is a conversation actually happening? This communication is ultimately leading to confusion, anger, and division in relationships-- even relationships we hold nearest and dearest.In today&apos;s episode, find out how to change the conversation to be meaningful. Learn how to talk so that others understand you and to listen so that others feel heard. After listening to this podcast, you will understand how to have a conversation that brings confidence, connection, and compassion.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University,

Is there a relationship in your life that you are hyperfocused on? Is your relationship with your spouse not going well? Is your relationship with your child not as strong as you want it to be? Is your relationship with your family member or friend fractured because of a disagreement? In this episode, gain insight into why you need to stop focusing on your relationship, what you need to do instead to restore the relationship and give you the best possible future going forward.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that they can be.  Website:

How do you forgive even when you don&apos;t want to, don&apos;t feel like it, or have no idea how to? If you missed part one, be sure to go back and listen to that first! Today we are doing even deeper into forgiveness. We will be sharing why to forgive, the freedom on the other side of it, and how to move forward in forgiveness.In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly Holmes continues the conversation with Al and Lisa Robertson of Duck Dynasty, who are sharing their story of desperate forgiveness. You will hear about how they have used forgiveness to free them, heal them, and restore their marriage. Today’s Speakers - Al and Lisa RobertsonAlan Robertson is the oldest son of the Duck Commander, Phil Robertson and his wife, Miss Kay and Lisa calls herself “the original Robertson daughter-in-law”.  They appeared on the family’s hit television show, Duck Dynasty on A&amp;E, with the rest of the family where Al was known as the beardless brother. They pas

Has there ever been a person or circumstance in your life that you have had difficulty moving on from? Has there been someone who hurt you? Has something happened that you can&apos;t seem to move past no matter how much you want to? No matter how much you have tried? If you feel stuck, then this podcast episode is for you. In today&apos;s episode, Kimberly Holmes speaks with Al and Lisa Robertson of Duck Dynasty, who are sharing their story of desperate forgiveness. You will hear about how they have used forgiveness to free them, heal them, and restore their marriage. Today’s Speakers - Al and Lisa RobertsonAlan Robertson is the oldest son of the Duck Commander, Phil Robertson and his wife, Miss Kay and Lisa calls herself “the original Robertson daughter-in-law”.  They appeared on the family’s hit television show, Duck Dynasty on A&amp;E, with the rest of the family where Al was known as the beardless brother. They pastored for 22+ years at the White’s

Do you have the keys to health, nutrition, and finding a provider you trust? What difference can finding the RIGHT doctor for your family truly make? Dr. Theron Hutton is a well-traveled, experienced, compassionate, humble physician who is highly trained in diagnosing illnesses and conditions based on his finely tuned patient listening skills and medical training. He does not always prescribe the most expensive tests or treatments, but he strives to get to the bottom of whatever ailment his patients experience.  Dr. Hutton explains his philosophy on what to look for in a physician in today’s world, as well as how to use the plethora of information available on the internet to everyone.  In Dr. Hutton’s opinion, “ill health comes from broken relationships. These relationships can be with self, with nature, God, and others.”  Listen to his advice on how to repair your health – one relationship at a time.Today’s Speaker - Dr Theron Hutton As a Board Certifie

What are the signs of a quarter or mid life crisis?  David Mathews, renowned grief counselor, addresses this common question and what to do if you find yourself in the midst of a crisis.  Mathews defines a mid life crisis as becoming aware of your own mortality.  He describes some signs or steps that may show that you are in a crisis or have been in one. Mathews notes that usually a mid life crisis is associated with some loss, so people need to grieve. Mathews shares his philosophy of grief: “To give voice to my pain; give voice to my feelings; I’m not crazy. I’m not weak. I’m not weak in faith.”  After sharing about loss and grief, Mathews goes on to teach ways to move forward in these feelings, “no matter what you’re feeling—it’s normal. Give yourself permission to have those feelings.” If you have been wondering about a loss you may have suffered, don’t miss today’s episode to learn how to recognize a crisis, deal with your loss, and move forward with your life.<br

What exactly is so powerful about prayer? Have you wondered how or why you should build a healthy prayer life and what steps you should take to pray effectively and grow in your faith? Today’s guest, Leighann McCoy, provides wisdom about talking to God and letting Him meet you where you are in your faith. She offers reassurance about our current habits, tips on how to grow in our daily practice of faith, and resources on why we should pray at all.  When asked if we should even pray if God already knows the answers, she offers: “God is all about the BIG. But He will also be about all the minute details of our personal lives.” McCoy is often asked the greater purpose in prayer.  McCoy states, “The main purpose of prayer is for God to answer us.&quot; She goes on to discuss how we should discern the voice of God from the voice of our enemy, and how we can grow our prayers with others or alone just by following a few simple steps. You don’t want to miss this enlightening and enco

Do you ever wonder how to design an attractive environment? Do colors, smells, sounds, and shapes around us truly affect our moods? Do they control our behaviors? According to today’s guest, Dr. Sally Augustin, the answer is overwhelmingly yes! Dr. Augustin has spent years doing environmental psychology research, and she shares today how our moods and behavior are very much influenced by what we perceive in our surroundings. You won’t want to miss today’s fascinating discoveries about how to design each room in your home, office, or at the gym according to the purpose and desired outcomes in the space.  Dr. Augustin also shares which of the senses is most powerful and how to set up your space for success! Find out how in today’s episode!Today’s Speaker - Dr. Sally AugustinSally Augustin, PhD, is a practicing environmental/design psychologist and the principal at Design With Science. She has extensive experie

Could mindfulness be the hidden gem to being happy?What is mindfulness? In this podcast, you will learn the research behind mindfulness and gain an understanding of how mindfulness can benefit you in four key areas- Mind, Brain, Body, and Behaviors. Listen to today&apos;s episode to learn ways to apply mindfulness to your everyday life, start dealing with your emotions, be present, and disconnect from distractions.Today&apos;s Speaker: Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that they can be.  Website: <a href='http://piesuniversi

Do you know what the 3 fruits of a healthy relationship are? Have you ever heard that your relationships can only be as healthy as you are as an individual? Hear renowned psychologists and authors Drs Les and Leslie Parrott speak about what people hunger for when seeking healthy relationships and where to start to engage in a healthy, long-term relationship.  According to Dr. Parrott, “If you try to build intimacy with another person before you’ve done the difficult work of getting whole or healthy on your own, all your relationships become an attempt to complete yourself and they will fall flat”.  Moreover, when you’re searching for a person to be in relationship with, “it’s not about finding the right person, it’s about becoming the right person”. Learn how to begin a new relationship with awareness of positive and negative self talk, as well as the 3 major areas of any relationship to consider on today’s episode! Today’s Speakers - Drs. Les and Leslie

Do you know how to think about what you&apos;re thinking about? Do you struggle with controlling the direction of your thoughts? So many people want to have a positive attitude and form great habits, but we often ignore the most important part of developing any good habit: planning to maintain a positive mindset first.  Today’s speaker, Jim Pourteau, talks through ways to treat ourselves as we would a friend. He suggests we look for opportunities to release negative and overwhelming thoughts bouncing around in our heads, and break these patterns into a manageable process.  “The way we think sets up our reality. Be intentional. Give it time.” Listen to today’s episode to learn how to create positive thought patterns to direct your life! Today’s Speaker - Jim Pourteau Jim Pourteau has been developing leaders for almost 30 years.  He has served as the leader and culture creator in a number of major companies, a mentor in the world&apos;s largest coach

Doing a Whole30 is about so much more than food...it&apos;s about creating boundaries and finding food freedom. But most of the time, we turn to food to help us overcome or hide uncomfortable feelings. So many of us use food as a coping mechanism that food-related illnesses hit at an all time high. Recognizing this weakness, Melissa Urban created a Whole30 program that is designed to give its participants freedom from the bad habits and poor choices our diets have created, “I was looking for something and I was never going to find it in these foods”. The program is about much more than food! “It’s uncomfortable to deal with feelings.  Realizing that that discomfort is not going to kill you is really profoundly impactful”. Hear Melissa share in depth about the program, what it can teach you about yourself, and how you can learn to accept your feelings in today’s episode!Today’s Speaker: Melissa UrbanMelissa Urban is the

Here is the best exercise for you to do to see the biggest results in the least amount of time. When you know you need to get in shape but you’re not sure where to begin, the task can seem overwhelming. Fitness expert Jerred Moon breaks things down on an individual level based on a mental “sticking power” assessment he provides to all of his clients. Moon suggests only one new habit at a time is necessary to begin an effective fitness routine, and often this habit revolves around improving nutrition. Often, we strive to change too many aspects in our lives at once and end up injured or burned out, so we don’t continue to improve our fitness. Moon’s garage gym programs, developed inside his company, EO3, meet individuals who want to get in shape where they are currently and develop a program around their individual goals, equipment they have at home, and their exercise interests.  Pick an exercise routine that you enjoy, and work your training goals around that. Learn more abo

Do you want to know the real myths and truths about fat loss? This episode will reveal the secrets of healthy and sustainable fat loss...in a way that honors your body.Are you absolutely positive that you’re getting enough nutrition to sustain your body? If your recent attempts at fat loss have resulted in negative physical results, you may not understand exactly what your body truly needs. Over the past several decades, so much information about health has been short-sided and generalized to the point that our current common knowledge base on nutrition may actually be harming our bodies’ systems and prohibiting weight loss or healthy lifestyles.  According to today’s guest, Laura Schoenfeld, “one of the biggest challenges women face in any area of their life that they’re struggling [with] is mindset blocks that are preventing them from taking action in a way that would allow them to see results”.  Schoenfeld further explains that we have false beliefs

Want to know the most important part of attraction for a long-lasting relationship? It&apos;s simple...but it&apos;s not necessarily easy. In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam breaks down what he has seen work in thousands of couples to build emotional attraction and create strong, healthy relationships.When we examine emotional attraction in any established relationship, we think of this attraction in two types of actions: through things we stop doing, and by things we start doing.  Since we can’t build a relationship on what we’re not doing, it becomes more urgent to look at what we’re doing; how we’re providing for another person’s emotional needs. The golden rule, “Do to others as you’d like them to do to you” doesn’t always hold true in emotional attraction. We’re not made to need or want the same things. We are made to build others up according to their needs.It Starts With Attraction Ep. 003: Keys to Emotional Attraction w

Who doesn&apos;t want to feel sexier and have a better sex life?! I&apos;m sure everyone does...but it can be difficult to actually know how to go about doing that. We uncover how in today&apos;s episode with special guest and certified sex therapist Dr. Laurie Watson.Can you say you’re always honest with your sexual partner about the connection you share? According to Dr. Watson, something like “95% of couples having sex aren’t talking about their experiences in ways that add to their experiences in a meaningful way.” In this podcast episode, understand what you may be missing out in connecting with your spouse on a physical and emotional level.  Explore what physical and emotional intervention looks like. Couples can learn how to talk about what they like and don’t like both from an emotional and physical standpoint. Are you a pursuer or do you withdraw either sexually or emotionally? Understanding your needs and your reactions in situations is the

Want to know what causes inflammation and how you can fix it? 77% of inflammatory reactions are things that we have control over.  So why aren’t we able to easily control what causes our bodies to be unhealthy? Explore how Dr. Will Cole, functional medicine doctor, suggests how our bodies need to be healed using evidence-based alternative medicine techniques. His approach examines 7 systems of our bodies and holistically heals our bodies. As Dr. Cole says, “we can’t heal a body that we don’t love.” Our minds and emotions are so connected to our physical healing that we must first examine the ways that we treat ourselves, including the thoughts that we tell ourselves as our truth. Learn so many ways to heal in today’s episode!Dr. Will Cole Dr. Will Cole, leading functional-medicine expert, consults people around the world via webcam at www.drwillcole.com and loca

Want to know the secret to becoming your most attractive self? It&apos;s called the PIES.What is true attraction? You may be surprised by the true definition of attraction. You’ll learn the basic definition of attraction through the four key pillars of attraction – Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual. Gain an understanding of what healthy, strong, stable relationships all have in common: learning how to be the best version of yourself. All relationships in your life benefit from this understanding and practice, not just the romantic ones.Kimberly Beam HolmesKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper &amp; CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people