Every couple I’ve encountered as a relationship therapist has been dealing with this specific issue, but they didn’t have a concept for it to describe or explain it.  This episode will help you do that. Before we jump into our episode I wanted to take a moment to speak to those of you who are looking for resources. Some of you are in therapy or coaching and you’re finding: Your therapist is nice but the issue of betrayal or trauma isn’t being addressed.  You run out of time in your sessions A lot happens in between sessions which can feel like progress is stunted.  It takes way too long to get somewhere in therapy or coaching. In fact, if the average couple needs around 15-30 sessions that works out to about 4-8 months if nothing big happens in between sessions.  And then there are the individual needs that will often require more time. That’s why we host monthly workshops.  You can join us in person here in Tulsa, OK, or online via zoom from anywhere in the world, and you’ll even have access to a pre-recorded version as well as the master classes and small group meetings. This workshop provides you with actionable steps you can take immediately to see huge changes in your relationship AND in how you feel. It’s the jump start you need.  We take what would be months of therapy or coaching, pull out the most useful and important parts, and deliver it to you in 2.5 days. It is truly transformative. But don’t take my word for it, at the end of this episode you will have the opportunity to hear from a couple who came to one of the workshops.  You can also see some here>>> These workshops allow you to get what you need without the frustration of lost time and resources. They are private and no one has to share anything with the group to see results if you don’t want to.  Although we find that many couples love that they can make new and supportive friends if they want to. Check it out at healingbrokentrust.com Also download "21 Things the Unfaithful Want to Tell You But Don't Know How to Say" Here>>>

Erik Rasmussen shares with Brad Robinson how he found hope after discovering his wife's infidelity. Erik shares what those early days were like and what he did that created the transformation he was looking for.  Get the 21 Things the Unfaithful Want to Tell You But Don't Know How to Say free download here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/21-things-the-unfaithful-want-to-tell-you Attend a 3 day Healing Broken Trust couple's workshop register here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Listen to the free podcast here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast Already participated in our workshop? Consider 1-on-1 help here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/coaching  

This episode sheds light on what your spouse was thinking about you and your relationship during their affair.  Did they love you?  Did they love the affair partner?  Could they have loved you both?   Enroll in our 3 day workshop here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop  

Dan and Lynn are participants in the Healing Broken Trust program and they talk about their experience healing after infidelity.  A memorable moment in the conversation was when Lynn talked about how people comment on how others are noticing the changes in them.  Join the HBT program at healingbrokentrustworkshop.com

From feeling hopeless and defeated to a completely new and fresh take on the relationship.  Cody and Chaisley attended our healing broken trust workshop and now they have something to share with you about what they discovered.  Learn more at healingbrokentrust.com