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Date with Cents

English, Cultural, 1 season, 95 episodes, 2 days, 22 hours, 48 minutes
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Welcome to Date with Cents™! The only podcast for high-achieving women of faith who want to date for marriage and/or legacy building. I am your host, TorahCents, and I’m here to help you transform your love life from the inside out. Tune in for practical tips, tools, and advice on how to become a magnet for high-quality men and custom design a love life that serves you at the highest level.
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3 Ways to Have Fun Dating App Convos that Lead to Dates

Send us a Text Message.If you easily lose interest in online dating due to boring, dry conversations, it’s not because the men are dull or the app is full of low-quality, unserious users. The issue is that you haven’t mastered the art of creating enjoyable conversations.Before you delete your dating apps again, tune into this episode to learn three simple ways to have fun, engaging conversations that can lead to phone calls and dates—as soon as today.Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
7/18/202435 minutes, 53 seconds
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Dating During Chaos: How To Enjoy Dating When Life Is Hard

Send us a Text Message.When life gets tough, many women shy away from dating. They believe it’s not the “right time” and that they should wait until things improve.However, dating during challenging times is a valuable life skill that you can learn. Once you master it, you’ll be amazed at how much the benefits of dating can enhance your life and make things easier.Tune in to this episode to discover the secret to dating when life gets hard, why it’s one of the best things you can do for yourself, and practical ways to date when your life feels chaotic.Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
7/11/20241 hour, 6 minutes, 25 seconds
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Lessons Learned After Leaving My Husband

Send us a Text Message.Women of Faith are conditioned to believe that their value is found in marriage and being a wife. Which is why single men feel comfortable shaming us for also being single.  It’s why we feel inadequate when we are pushing 30 or 40 and still don’t have “the ring”And it’s also why we choose to stay in toxic, unhealthy marriages that don’t serve us, just to save face.In 2021, I made the tough decision to leave my husband…despite the societal and religious pressure to stay and “make it work”. Tune into this episode, to hear my personal journey of confronting my fears, reclaiming my personal identity and learning many transformative lessons along the way. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
7/4/20241 hour, 29 minutes, 31 seconds
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When You Put In Too Much Effort

Send us a Text Message.If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you. You’re the woman who is always making timeYou’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support,You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going.You’re the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves.Join me in this episode to hear the difference between “putting in too much effort” and putting in the right kind of effort for delicious dating results.   Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
6/27/202439 minutes, 42 seconds
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When You Don't Wanna Look Desperate or Thirsty

Send us a Text Message.Most women of faith worry about appearing desperate or thirsty while dating. It’s because we don’t wanna turn men off. We don’t wanna be taken advantage ofAnd we don’t want our feelings hurt. The problem is, this state of worry is causing us to attract the wrong men and sabotage our opportunities for a real, meaningful connection. Tune in to this episode to learn the root reasons behind why we are so terrified of looking “thirsty”...and how to move away from this fear to finally have meaningful relationships with men. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
6/20/202440 minutes, 25 seconds
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Setting Relationship Goals for Delicious Dating Results

Send us a Text Message.If you want to win in life, you should always have goals set that you want to accomplish. If you want to win in love, you should always have goals set that you want to accomplish. High-achieving women of faith are known to set goals for their lives (education, career, finances etc…)But when it comes to love, we “wait and see” what happens. And this is why we’re losing in the modern dating world. Listen in as I share what it means to set goals for love…and practical ways to set relationship goals that will turn your dating dreams into a reality.Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
6/13/202430 minutes, 36 seconds
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Setting Intentions For Delicious Dating Results

Send us a Text Message.As High achieving women of faith…we love to say we are “Dating with a purpose”But most of us still aren’t getting the results we want while dating. We aren’t getting approached by the men we like. We aren’t having the conversations we want to haveAnd we aren’t going on the types of dates we desire. And that is because we aren’t dating with intention. Tune into this episode to learn what it truly means to be purposeful while dating and how to set small intentions that lead to huge dating results. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
6/6/202441 minutes, 10 seconds
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DWC REWIND: Prayed, Waited, and Pissed

Send us a Text Message.“How come it’s the ones who engage in premarital sex that are getting married and yet we who have been sticking to our principles, trying to do things God’s way and praying for years are still waiting (and getting older by the day?)”I’m always seeing variations of this question in online communities where women of faith reside. What these women don’t realize is that beneath the surface of this question there is entitlement, false superiority and a misinterpretation of what it means to be celibate. I hopped on the mic to rant about this question and to give some perspective on what the Bible really reveals to us when it comes to love, sex and marriage. Here’s what you’ll discover: The truth about why “good girls” who keep their legs closed aren’t getting marriedHow “Biblical Marriage” is highly overrated and why no woman truly wants it. The danger of fantasizing the Bible and romanticizing marriageWhy women of faith need to stop waiting for their “Boaz”What it looks like to choose to abstain from sex from a position of powerFEATURED ON THE SHOWHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/30/202417 minutes, 55 seconds
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Positioning Skills You Need to Command Attention & Get Approached by Quality Men

Send us a Text Message.If you’re not being approached by quality men in person..It’s because you’re not properly positioned. This is why you can show up to all the events or places that quality men hang out at…And still not be approached.Tune into this episode to learn 3 Non-negotiable skills you need to learn if you want to be approached by quality men anywhere and everywhere you go. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
5/23/202431 minutes, 39 seconds
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DWC Rewind: No Church Girl Left Behind

Send us a Text Message.Women of faith are being gaslit by mainstream religion. They deeply desire love, sex and marriage…but are often programmed to bury these desires to appear “godly” and not “desperate”They are single and unsatisfied in their 30s, 40s and 50s…but being told to “commit to The Lord” more and the right man will find them. They are being taught to keep their legs closed…but not receiving any practical guidance on how to meet men and date them for marriage. The good news is that this era is slowly ending. There’s an awakening happening…and there’s a new movement being led by women of faith who are leaving behind the shackles of “religious relationship theology” and finding freedom by finally taking responsibility for their love lives. In today’s episode, I go in depth about how mainstream religion has set women of faith up to lose with love. I also share how the average “church girl” can begin creating a new reality where love is abundant, quality men are plentiful and dating is a fulfilling adventure. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 3 Most Common (but wrong) strategies women of faith use to attract quality menThe uncomfortable truth behind the phrase “HOES Winning” that many church girls don’t want to accept. Why leaving your “church” might be the best thing for your love life in 2023How black women are the biggest casualty of religious relationship theology. Real clients sharing real stories of what happened when they stopped waiting for love to happen for them. FEATURED ON THE SHOWHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/16/202427 minutes, 17 seconds
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How To Start Dating Deliciously In 24 Hours

Send us a Text Message.If you are dating…and it feels like a chore…this episode will change the game for you. Dating only feels like a chore when you’re not getting what you want. Tune into this episode to start getting what you want while dating…as soon as today. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
5/9/202419 minutes, 19 seconds
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Creating Powerful First Date Conversations

This episode is for you if you’re often confused on how to respond to men or what to say next..It’s also for you if you’re having drawn out conversations that feel boring .Or if they always fizzle out and you're consistently confused as to why nothing ever pans out. Tune into this episode if you want to create powerful first date conversations with men that lead to second dates or that lead to relationships. ….even if you tend to overthink and struggle with what to say next. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/2/202425 minutes, 7 seconds
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Why You Meet Men, But Don't Go On Dates

If you are meeting men, you should automatically be going out on dates. It doesn’t matter if you meet men in person or online.  It only takes one conversation to put a date on the schedule. If you’re not going on dates, listen to this week’s episode to learn more about why you are talking to men through text and over the phone…but it is a struggle for you to go on dates. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
4/25/202416 minutes, 50 seconds
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Honoring Your Desires to Attract Men Who Please You

One of my best tips for attracting quality men who please you is to Honor your desires. It sounds so simple, but most High-achieving Women of Faith ain’t doing it. And the biggest culprit for why is “good girl” conditioning. Listen to this week’s episode to learn my method to start prioritizing your wants, needs and boundaries so that you create more satisfying dating experiences and attract men who want to meet your needs. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
4/18/202427 minutes, 9 seconds
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When You Attract Men Who Want To Go 50/50

Yes. There are high-earning, professional women who are still attracting men who want to go 50/50. If this sounds like you, it’s probably because you are in “good girl” mode. Listen to this week’s episode to learn how being the “good girl” leads to men wanting to go dutch and have you pay for dates. You also learn 3 practical steps to break this pattern so that you can start attracting generous men who are excited about investing in you. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
4/11/202436 minutes, 2 seconds
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Decline What Doesn't Align To Attract Compatible Men

It’s crucial that you curate your dating experiences by turning down interactions and connections that don’t align with your desires. Attracting quality men who are compatible with you becomes easier when you learn to do this: Decline what doesn’t align with you…ASAP. Tune into this episode to learn more about the real reason why you’re not attracting quality men, how “good girl” conditioning keeps you tolerating what you don’t want……and what you can do to start attracting quality men who are compatible with you. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
4/4/202425 minutes, 55 seconds
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Ask Me Anything About Dating Deliciously

You have questions…I have answers.Tune into this episode for a rapid fire Q&A session where I answer some of the most common questions I receive as a dating coach (and a few of the wildest lol). I also share some interesting, wild dating stories of my own to help answer a few of these questions. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
3/28/20241 hour, 4 minutes, 55 seconds
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Why Waiting For Men To Lead Doesn't Work

Most Women of Faith play “damsel in distress” and wait for men to lead…And that’s why they don’t get what they want while dating.It’s also why men don’t show up for them…leaving them annoyed and frustrated. Tune into this episode to learn why your love life suffers when you wait for men to lead…and what you should be doing instead as a woman who desires to be well-pleased while dating. Mentioned during the show: Teaching Men How to Win With YouInterested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
3/21/202426 minutes, 11 seconds
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Falling In Love As A Dating Strategy

One of the most helpful things you can do while dating is to embrace the concept of “Falling in love.” Falling in love can lead to you attracting the best men and creating the best connections with them…if done correctly. Listen in this week to hear why you should drop your guard and how you can use “Falling in Love as a dating strategy for a more delicious dating experience that leads to marriage. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
3/14/202421 minutes, 37 seconds
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3 Core Beliefs You Need For Men To Invest In You

It doesn’t matter the strategies, tips and tricks you try to implement…you will not get what you desire with men if your core beliefs are not in alignment with what you want This episode is key if you feel scared, guilty or gold-digger-ish when it comes to asking for what you want…Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
3/14/202455 minutes, 19 seconds
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3 Boundaries You Need For Men To Show Up For You

If you haven’t created boundaries for your desires…then you will have a difficult time inspiring men to show up and fulfill them for you. This episode will break down the 3 types of boundaries you will need to protect and prioritize your desires so that men meet your needs while dating.  Join The Well-Pleased Woman Workshop - Join the workshop at the Special price of $197 before the price increases. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
3/7/20241 hour, 11 minutes, 10 seconds
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Mistakes That Attract Men Who Won't Invest In You

If men aren’t investing in you…it’s not because you’re too old, or too plus-sized or need to “heal” or in the wrong zip code…I’m more than sure you’re making simple mistakes when you’re interacting with men that you don’t even notice. Listen to this episode if you want to discover what mistakes you’re making that attract men who don’t invest in you…and repel quality men who would.Join The Well-Pleased Woman Workshop - Join the workshop at the Special price of $197 before the price increases. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
2/29/202454 minutes, 18 seconds
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Giving Men Consent To Pursue You

One of the easiest ways to connect with quality men in public is to give them CONSENT. Listen to this episode if you want to learn why going outside and looking pretty is not enough to get approached…AND how you can begin getting approached by quality men as early as this week. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
2/22/202424 minutes, 7 seconds
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How To Inspire Men To Invest In You

I’m excited to announce a brand new workshop!This episode is for you if you want to learn how to: Confidently ask for what you want while dating…and graciously receive Abundantly receive thoughtful gestures, acts of service, new experiences, emotional support and even material gifts from men.  Enhance your overall lifestyle by having men add value to your everyday life.Join The Well-Pleased Woman Workshop - Join the workshop at the Early Bird Valentine’s Day Special price of $97 (investment increases to $197 by Feb 17th)Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
2/15/20241 hour, 11 minutes, 38 seconds
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The Well-Pleased Woman Workshop

I’m excited to announce a brand new workshop!This episode is for you if you want to learn how to: Confidently ask for what you want while dating…and graciously receive Abundantly receive thoughtful gestures, acts of service, new experiences, emotional support and even material gifts from men.  Enhance your overall lifestyle by having men add value to your everyday life.Join The Well-Pleased Woman Workshop - Join the workshop at the Early Bird Valentine’s Day Special price of $97 (investment increases to $197 by Feb 17th)Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
2/12/202411 minutes, 47 seconds
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The Key To Getting Approached This Week

Not getting approached by quality men? Here’s what you can do to get approached as soon as this week. Listen to this episode if you want to learn what it takes to enjoy frequent attention from quality men and always get asked out on dates. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
2/8/202432 minutes, 18 seconds
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How To Become A High In-Demand Woman

When you’re a woman who is High In-Demand when you have a consistent flow of dating prospects, a variety of quality men who are excited about dating you, and plenty of options to choose your life partner from. Listen to this episode if you want to learn what it takes to be a woman in High DemandInterested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world……AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
2/1/20241 hour, 12 minutes, 58 seconds
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Creating A Lifestyle That Attracts Quality Men

This episode is for you if…A. You are going on dates…but they are not with men you’re excited about. ORB. You aren’t going out on dates at all because men are not approaching you or asking you on dates. Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
1/25/20241 hour, 3 minutes, 52 seconds
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More Exciting News About C2C 3.0

I am excited to announce even more new updates to C2C 3.0!This episode is going to give you a breakdown of all the brand new program extras that will support you in the transformation you desire! Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
1/19/202412 minutes
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The Delicious Dating Framework: 3 Skills You Need to Date Deliciously in 2024

I’m teaching this brand new framework in the C2C program so that my clients are creating enjoyable dating experiences, dating yummy men and becoming better women in the process. This episode is going to give you a tiny taste of what they will be learning.Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
1/18/20241 hour, 16 minutes, 21 seconds
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Having More Power While Dating In 2024

When you don’t have power, your love life is stagnant…or non-existent. This episode is going to be very important if you desire to create a love life that you are excited about on your own terms.Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
1/11/202439 minutes, 53 seconds
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When You're Not Excited About The Men You Date

If you’re attracting men…but you’re not excited about them…this episode is for you. Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
12/29/20231 hour, 7 minutes, 51 seconds
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C2C 3.0 - Everything You Need to Know

We are making big changes with C2C in 2024 and you can listen to this episode to learn all you need to know and how you will benefit.Interested in joining C2C? Book an Enrollment Call with me HERE to learn more about working with us to help you build a rotation of 2-3 quality men who provide, protect and pursue you for a serious commitment...OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 
12/29/202344 minutes, 22 seconds
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Dating Deliciously With Power, Pleasure, and Permission with Kimberly Bulgin

Dating can be a delicious and satisfying experience for Women of Faith. As soon as we give ourselves permission to explore our desires……prioritize our pleasure …and take responsibility for the power we have to create our own love lives.Join me for this episode, as I have a mind-blowing conversation with Pastor Kimberly Bulgin (Cuff-link from Dec 2021 Cohort) about how she created a love life filled with joy, excitement and fulfillment……all without having to give up her booty, boundaries or beliefs. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES:Work with me Live and in Person to design your new dating life - Lovergirl WeekendLearn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed 
11/23/20232 hours, 13 minutes, 49 seconds
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Real Life Examples To Shift Into Dating Deliciously

You can go from dusty dating…to dating deliciously quicker than you think. It’s as simple as making small, intentional choices that lead to big results. If you want examples on how to do this (and be inspired at the same time).Join me for this episode, as I share real client stories and the actions they took to finally start enjoying their dating journeys. You can take the same actions they took to see quick results. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES:Work with me Live and in Person to design your new dating life - Lovergirl WeekendLearn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed 
11/17/202356 minutes, 23 seconds
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When Your Dating Life Is Dry With No Prospects

If you want to date…BUT ……you have no prospects…men aren’t approaching you…you have no success with dating apps. Then this week’s episode is for you.Tune as I share practical ways you can implement ASAP to start seeing quick results in your love life. Implement these tips to shift from dead, dusty dating into dating deliciously.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES:Work with me Live and in Person to design your new dating life - Lovergirl WeekendLearn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Take a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed 
11/16/202342 minutes, 38 seconds
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Ice Cream Dates, Cheesecake Factory, and Dumb Ass Dating Discussions

I’m back after a long hiatus and I got a few things to say…Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES:Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopTake a self-paced 6 month journey to do the REAL foundational work to prepare for the love life you desire - FormationWork with me and my team for 12-weeks to improve the quality of men you attract and have a thriving love life that leads to marriage (or other desired commitment) - Curved 2 Cuffed 
11/9/202331 minutes, 4 seconds
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Mastering the Art of Gratitude for Delicious Dating

One of the most underrated skills to create a delicious dating experience is the practice of GRATITUDE around your love life. Most women tend to complain about men, dating and their love lives……and they have no idea that the more they complain about it..…the more their love lives will suffer. It’s not so much the “complaints” that kill their love lives……it’s the negatively focused thoughts and beliefs behind the complaints that puts the nail down on the coffin of their dating journey. Tune into this week’s episode as I drop some important nuggets that will reveal how the simple practice of gratitude can shift you from a dead, dusty dating life into delicious dating experiences that light your soul. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 🔥Why Most Women of Faith feel that modern dating is so frustrating. 🔥 How gratitude is key to enjoying a fun, fruitful and forward-moving dating experience.  🔥  Powerful and practical ways you can begin implementing gratitude in your love life to see immediate results. 🔥 The biggest roadblocks between you and expressing gratitude for a delicious love life. 🔥 Important questions to ask yourself that will allow you to enjoy the present moment while dating…and shift into a space of gratitude. FEATURED ON THE SHOWJoin me and my team for Our Next Open HouseEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
8/24/202358 minutes, 34 seconds
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Exercising Faith for Delicious Dating

In my experience, Women of Faith seem to struggle when it comes to having faith in their love lives. They have a strong desire for love and companionship…but oftentimes they have even stronger fears, doubts and limited beliefs. This causes them to lose hope and run out of steam to continue putting themselves out there to meet men and date. Tune into this week’s episode as I break down the huge role faith plays in our love lives and how to practically harness our faith to date confidently and deliciously. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 🔥Why Most Women of Faith are stuck, stagnant and spiritually unaligned in their love lives🔥 How your Faith and Spirituality are essential keys to having a thriving, aligned love life.  🔥  The big opportunities that Women of Faith are missing out on while dating🔥 My two-step process to begin making progress in your love life through increasing your level of faith (even if you’ve always been disappointed in the past)🔥 Powerful, overlooked ways to dramatically increase your faith and ability to have a delicious dating experience.There’s a LOT of women who hate dating…FEATURED ON THE SHOWEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
8/17/20231 hour, 1 minute, 32 seconds
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When Men Are The "Problem"

There’s a LOT of women who hate dating…And a LOT of them believe that men are the problem.They feel that men are the problem…because…They l men aren’t intentional…or honest about their intentionsThey also feel men don’t wanna commit or show up for them…or put in much effort to pursue etc…These women get so frustrated with men… that they wanna quit dating. Truth is…men are simply mirrors for our own internal drama…In this week’s episode, turn in as I share how the men we date reflect back to us our own fears, insecurities, desires, and traumas……And the power behind using them as mirrors to learn how to date deliciously and in alignment with our true desires. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 👉🏾 The real reasons most women blame men when they’re not enjoying the dating process. 👉🏾 How to shift your perspective to use men to help you improve your dating experiences on a regular basis. 👉🏾The power of dating as a Spiritual Practice and how to date so that you create a stronger connection with yourself…and to the men you desire to date. 👉🏾 Practical ways to begin dating in way that leads you to amazing, quality men who are vibrating on the same frequency. 👉🏾Real client stories of women who learned how to love their love lives while attracting deeply connected, thriving relationships with high-quality men who are deeply connected to themselves. FEATURED ON THE SHOWEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
8/10/202343 minutes, 57 seconds
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REWIND: Dating as a Spiritual Practice

When someone tells me that they’re a woman of faith, I can normally tell the level of her faith by the health of her love life. You can go to church regularly, pray, consistently read your bible and serve in ministry…BUT the truth of your spiritual walk is always revealed by the life you live daily…and that includes your love life.Listen in today to find out how to use dating as a spiritual practice to deepen your relationship with The Most High and ultimately with yourself.  You can grow an abundantly love life by growing your faith with practical spirituality. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 🔥 The real reason why dating is so draining and disappointing to you.🔥 Practical examples of how to date with more depth and meaning. 🔥 Why being obsessed with the future is a slap in the face to God. 🔥 How being more like God improves the quality of your love life and the men you date.🔥The spiritual benefits of building community with the opposite sexFEATURED ON THE SHOWEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
8/3/202333 minutes, 56 seconds
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Curating Delicious Dating Experiences with Intention and Agency with Nadine Dillon

If it’s been months or years, and you’re still not making progress in your love life…Or not even having fun and enjoying the process..I can almost promise you that there's a lack of responsibility in the mix. Meaning, you have not yet taken 100% ownership of your romantic actions and choices. Every kind of success in your life relies on your ability to make decisions, take action on them and hold yourself accountable through the process. Your love life success is no different…Nadine is an incredible example of what’s possible when you finally take true ownership for your love life (even after years of avoiding responsibility) Join me for today’s episode as Nadine (Cuff-link from September 2022 Cohort) shares how she carefully curated her delicious love life that supports her desires by being intentional, developing agency and doing the self-work.HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 🔥 How Nadine intentionally designed a delicious love life that centers her and her desires…after 10 years of being ghosted, overlooked and underappreciated. 🔥 The transformation Nadine went through to go from voluntarily friend-zoning herself…to being pursued by fine ass, high-quality men.🔥 The power of responsibility and how it leads to enjoying better dating experiences, attracting the men you want and having your desires fulfilled. 🔥 The sneaky ways self-abandonment can destroy your love life and how Nadine developed the audacity to put herself first while dating.🔥 How dating as a spiritual practice leads you to deeper connection to yourself and with the men you’re dating. FEATURED ON THE SHOWEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
7/27/20231 hour, 52 minutes, 43 seconds
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Why Dating Multiple Men Isn't Working For You

I love talking about how fun and fruitful it is to date multiple men at a time……and I love teaching high-achieving women of faith how to do it…and do it well. But every time I publicly talk about it…theres always women blurting out: “Omg that sounds exhausting”Or “I could never do that” Or “That doesn’t work for me”In today’s episode, I’m breaking down exactly why dating multiple men is a struggle for most women of faith and what it looks like to have a rotation of men and have a love life that serves you at the highest level. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 🔥The “quiet as it’s kept” reason why many men try to shame you for dating multiple men. 🔥The truth of why dating multiple men sounds and feels draining and exhausting🔥Simple (and sneaky) ways women of faith regularly overinvest in the men they’re dating🔥One question to ask yourself to discover if you’re “doing to much” when dating men🔥How to dramatically improve the level of effort men make in pursuing you.FEATURED ON THE SHOWEP #7: Five Questions To Ask Yourself To Avoid Overinvesting In A ManEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
6/15/202348 minutes, 39 seconds
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Dating Victoriously Over Obstacles and Excuses With Victoria Cloud Part 2

Everyone wants to have a thriving love life…BUT not everyone is committed to having it. That’s because creating a delicious dating life filled with fine ass quality men doesn’t just happen. It takes WORK. It takes letting go of all your excuses for why you can’t do it..…AND it takes for you to create daily opportunities to navigate your dating obstacles. Just ask VictoriaA single mother of two kids (under 2)With a Full-time job.As a Full-time student (with an additional internship)And Business ownerShe had all the excuses in the world……until she decided to let them all go to follow her desire for a thriving love life. Join me for today’s episode as Victoria (Cuff-link from February Cohort 2023 Cohort) tells all about how she dropped all her excuses to go from a disappointing love life to dating deliciously with multiple high quality men who show up for her AND her kids. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 👉🏾 How Victoria created an fun, exciting and playful love life after struggling with insecurities,  limited beliefs, and past trauma.👉🏾 Why Victoria was doing everything “right” while dating…but still having a dating experience that felt really wrong. 👉🏾 How being the “nice girl” destroyed Victoria’s love life and how she revived it by putting herself first. 👉🏾 What happened when Victoria gained the courage to ask men for what she desired and required them to show up for her. 👉🏾 The powerful way Victoria released her excuses, committed to her dating journey and transformed her love life from the inside out FEATURED ON THE SHOWGet your tickets for Hot Girl Summa on June 3rdEP #49 Fear, Perfectionism, and Hiding From The WorkEp #50 Dating Victory Over Obstacles and Excuses With Victoria Cloud Part 1Enroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
6/1/20231 hour, 25 minutes, 23 seconds
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Dating Victoriously Over Obstacles and Excuses With Victoria Cloud Part 1

“I’m doing everything right…but dating is still going horribly wrong.”A lot of High-achieving Women of Faith feel this way. They've always been the perfect girlfriend.They’ve always gone out of their way to show up for the men they’re dating. They even overinvest their time and energy just to prove how committed they are to growing the connection. But it still isn’t enough because the men never really matched their energy. Men don’t show up for them…they don’t add much value to their lives and they don’t pursue them for the commitment these women desire. Why are good women dealing with so many bad dating experiences??In this week’s episode, join me in an intimate C2C coaching call with Victoria Cloud (Cuff-link from February Cohort 2023 Cohort) as she reveals her fears, insecurities and struggles around creating a successful love life. Through this coaching session, I’ll be pulling back the curtain to show you in real time why so many women have a disappointing love life and practical ways to shift into dating that fulfills your desires. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 👉🏾 The truth behind you doing everything “right” …and why dating still feels very wrong. 👉🏾 Why you keep hearing that you’re “wife material”...but no one is trying to make you a wife. 👉🏾 Why nice girls finish last while dating and what you can do about it as a “nice girl”. 👉🏾 The truth of why men aren’t showing up for you and adding value to your life. 👉🏾 The problem with self-abandonment and why the men you desire may not desire you back. FEATURED ON THE SHOWGet your tickets for Hot Girl Summa on June 3rdEP #49 Fear, Perfectionism, and Hiding From The WorkEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/25/202338 minutes, 8 seconds
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When You Don't Have Time to Date

“I don’t have time to date” It’s one of the biggest lies High-Achieving Women of Faith tell themselves when their love lives are dry or non-existent. They have no idea it’s a lie tho…They really believe that because they are busy professionals, entrepreneurs, or high-ranking officials in their companies (who sometimes happen to also be single mothers)...…that it also means they don’t have the time to make their love lives a priority.“Busyness” isn’t the issue… something more sneaky…and more sinister is at play behind the scenes.  In this week’s episode, feel free to drop in to learn why you have more than enough time to date (no matter how busy you are) and the overlooked (yet powerful) ways to immediately create more time for romance, love and dating. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 👉🏾 The real reason most women blame their non-existent love lives on not having enough “time”. 👉🏾 How being a “good girl” drains your time and energy away from being able to create the time to have the love life you desire 👉🏾Sneaky ways High-Achieving Women of Faith are losing hours of time every week (when they could’ve been dating). 👉🏾 The power of vulnerability and how my clients use it to create more time and space in their lives to date. 👉🏾Behind the scenes look at how my busy clients went from “no time to date” to accepting regular dates from quality men. FEATURED ON THE SHOWJoin my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality MenEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/18/202338 minutes, 21 seconds
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Fake Spirituality and the Delusion of "Soul Ties"

The concept of “Soul ties” is one of the biggest lies ever told to women of faith. This lie caused us to have a lot of fear.We learned to fear sex instead of having responsibility around it..…AND fear our own emotions instead of developing the skill of properly processing In today’s episode, I’m helping you to drop the fear you may have been conditioned to have so you can have more freedom in your mind, body and soul (no ties lol).Listen in as I carefully explain why the “soul tie” teaching is false and unspiritual and what it looks like to live your life as a spiritual being. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 👉🏾 The delusion of “soul ties” and a spiritual and logical break-down of why they don’t exist.👉🏾 The truth about emotional attachment and how women of faith often confuse it for “soul ties”👉🏾How purity culture and “good girl” indoctrination is keeping us separate for God. 👉🏾 How every part of our life is spiritual and how to seize the opportunity to practice your spirituality. 👉🏾How your beliefs are holding you hostage and preventing you from living and loving your best life. FEATURED ON THE SHOWJoin my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality MenEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/11/202332 minutes, 11 seconds
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Fear, Perfectionism, and Hiding From The Work

I know a lot of high-achieving women of faith who want to attract better men and have better dating experiences. I also know that many of these women will struggle because they are slaves to their own perfectionism. They don’t wanna make mistakesThey don’t wanna be judgedThey don’t wanna feel painSo they hide, downplay their desires and continue suffering in the same cycles they’ve been stuck in year after year. In today’s episode, for the first time ever, I’m dropping a behind the scenes taste of a private coaching call with my C2C clients. Listen to me rant as I help them shift their minds,  overcome their self-sabotage and take real action towards the love life they wanna have. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 👉🏾 How perfectionism is doing you a disservice in your love life and killing your progress. 👉🏾 Several ways we “Hide” from men and the love life we truly desire. 👉🏾 How building a thriving business is similar to building a thriving love life.👉🏾 Small ways you may be abandoning yourself while dating and seeking love. 👉🏾 The truth about why you aren’t “where you should be” in your love life. FEATURED ON THE SHOWJoin my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality MenEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/4/202327 minutes, 35 seconds
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Doing the Work & Dating Deliciously (After Depression) with Cindy Naughton

“Why is dating at this age so complicated? Nothing in life is more stressful than dating after 35”This was a post I read from a fed up woman in my social media feed recently. Thing is…tons of women feel just like her. Dating isn’t wasn’t stressing them out tho.They’re stressed out because they haven’t accepted that creating a fun, fruitful and fulfilling dating life actually takes WORK. And most people simply don’t want to do the WORK to have it. Cindy is an amazing example of what it looks like to DO the work to have a deliciously dating life and enjoy yummy high-quality men in the process. Join me for today’s episode as Cindy (Cuff-link from February 2023 Cohort) shares how she did the work to go from stressed out and depressed about her love life…to feeling more youthful, energetic, relaxed and connected to herself (as well as more connected to men she’s dating)HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 🔥 How Cindy created a delicious dating life at the age of 48 (after years of low self-worth and stress around relationships)🔥 Why Cindy believed it was unrealistic to have an abundant love life and the steps she took to finally make it a reality for herself. 🔥 How Cindy overcame self-sabotage, self-consciousness and victimhood in order to have the desires of her heart when it came to friends, family and fine ass men. 🔥 Behind the scenes of how Cindy pushed past doubt and her fears to finally turn her dating dreams into a reality🔥 How Dating as a Spiritual Practice allowed Cindy to shift her entire experience from feeling abandoned and overlooked…to being desired and adored. FEATURED ON THE SHOWJoin my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality MenEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
4/27/20231 hour, 20 minutes, 14 seconds
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Creating Conversations That Inspire Commitment

I get a lot of complaints from women who struggle talking to men they’re dating. Their text and phone convos are either super boring…OR they fizzle out way too fast. They think they need to DO more things to fix it…like learn a new set of questions to spice things up..OR talk more on the phone so that the connection stays strong. You don’t have to DO more or talk more to have the types of conversations you desire……you simply need to BE different while having these conversations. In today’s episode, I’m gonna share how to BE a woman who creates fun, enjoyable, and deep conversations with men…that lead to more intimacy, trust…and commitment. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 👉🏾 How inauthenticity is killing your conversations and connections with men.👉🏾 The biggest mistakes women make during conversations with men that lead to them fizzling out fast. 👉🏾 The truth about “being intentional” and how you’re actually being aggressive and scary👉🏾Why it’s super important to know the “Why” behind the words you say with men👉🏾Practical ways to build trust, intimacy and rapport with your conversations with menFEATURED ON THE SHOWJoin my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality MenEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
4/20/202337 minutes, 33 seconds
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Delusions & Difficulties Around Attracting Quality Men

Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men. Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs. They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality men. Maybe it is…maybe it isn’t.In today’s episode, we’re gonna have a conversation about your ability to attract quality men. Together we’re gonna uncover whether you have a real issue attracting them or if it’s simply a delusion. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The real reason why you believe you aren’t able to attract high-quality menThe truth bomb I drop that is confusing at first, but provides true clarity on why you may or may have not been able to attract quality men. The bare bones explanation of what a quality man is and the traits they usually possess. Several professional “diagnoses” that may be contributing to why you find it hard to meet, attract and build romantic relationships with quality menExamples of practical actions my clients have taken (and you can too) to expand their capacity to attract quality men almost immediately FEATURED ON THE SHOWDate With Cents Episode #2: What is a Quality ManJoin my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality MenEnroll into the next cohort of my mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. Find out more about my self-guided program, Formation. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
4/13/202348 minutes, 47 seconds
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Deepening Your Conversations with Men for Deeper Connection

I know a huge pain point for so many women of faith is that they’re tired of things fizzling out between them and the men they’re dating.They’ll have great chemistry with a guy…go on a couple of dates…and as soon as they get emotionally invested…they either stop hearing from him……OR he pulls away and wants to be friends.They think the solution is to get more time on the phone with these men or to see them more during the week. They have this belief that if they talk more and spend more time together……that it would be harder for things to fizzle out…and easier for the relationship to progress and get stronger. So not true. No worries tho… I come bearing a solution. In today’s episode, I share a simple way to build deeper connections with men through your conversation so that you experience less “fizzling out” and more progress in your relationships with menHERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The one little mistake women make that leads to men easily pulling away within weeks (even if these men were excited about connecting at first). How small-talk is killing your relationships with men before they even get started. How you can build a strong, intimate connection with a man in just one day per week. The 7 types of conversational shares that intrigue quality men and inspire them to want to be more intentional about getting to know you. How to deepen your connections with men by improving your connections with family, friends and even co-workersFEATURED ON THE SHOWFind out more about my self-guided program, Formation. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyJoin my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality MenBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
4/6/202348 minutes, 58 seconds
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When Your Romantic Connections Keep Fizzling Out

If you’re going out on tons of dates with men you like…and your connections almost always fizzle out or never lead to anything……let me ask you this: Are you being open and vulnerable? After working with hundreds of clients, I've discovered that there is a direct connection between a man being inspired to pursue and a woman’s ability to be vulnerable. In today’s episode, find out dating never leads to anything for you, why it's super hard for you to open up and be vulnerable AND how you can step into the version of you that feels safe to open up and truly connect with men who respect, honor and love who you are.  HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The fundamental truth behind why your interactions with men always fizzle out in just a few days or weeks. Why most women of faith struggle with creating deeper relationships with men while dating (and how not to be stuck in this same cycle)All the ways the world makes it hard for women of faith to open up and truly express themselves. The real reason why Lori Harvey and Ciara are demonized and the repressive ripple effect it creates against women of faith. The easiest way to begin transforming the way you connect with men and the world, so that you can start living more of the life you love and dating the way you desire. Real examples of real women who changed their lives through learning how to open up and allow the world to see them for who they really are. FEATURED ON THE SHOWFind out more about my self-guided program, Formation. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
3/30/202356 minutes, 33 seconds
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When You're Being Emotionally Unavailable

Food for thought: Many times when you feel men aren’t emotionally available……it’s actually because YOU are the one who is being emotionally unavailable.And I say this with my whole chest because 99.9% of the time when women come to me and say: “Torah! How do I stop attracting men who are emotionally unavailable” I’m able to dig deeper and discover that these same women have difficulty being emotionally available…but have no idea they’re being this way.In today’s episode, I break down how so many women of faith are emotionally unavailable and how it’s destroying their dating lives. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How holding back your thoughts and feelings is ruining your relationships with quality men before they even get startedThe simple truth behind why men are not opening their heart to you or pursuing you for a more serious relationship.The scary stories most women of faith believe are preventing them from emotionally connecting with men. Deep impactful questions to ask yourself whenever you find yourself in a pattern of emotional unavailability.  ways men feel unsafe to commit and/or express themselves with the women they dateSimple ways to provide emotional safety to a man and make room for his emotions so that he feels safe to share his heart and life with you.FEATURED ON THE SHOWRegister for the Triple Threat Success Training this Saturday.  Learn the 3 Part Framework to Transform your Love Life in 90 Days.How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
3/23/202340 minutes, 55 seconds
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When Men Don't Feel Safe With You

“He just wants to hang out or keep things casual”“He doesn’t express how he really feels about me”“He doesn’t discuss plans for me in his life. He just goes with the flow” “He never wants to talk about his past or what’s bothering him”Many women might see this as an emotionally unavailable man…but I'm not so quick to jump to that conclusion. Based upon experience as a love coach…many of these men are emotionally available…but don’t yet feel safe with the women they’re dating. In today’s episode, I share how many women aren’t able to emotionally connect with men (and inspire them to commit) because they aren’t providing emotional safety.HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The truth behind why a man might be really interested in you…and still avoid pursuing you for a real relationshipHow my clients are attracting quality men who seriously pursue them for relationships…even though they claimed they wanted to “go with the flow”3 common (yet overlooked) ways men feel unsafe to commit and/or express themselves with the women they dateSimple ways to provide emotional safety to a man and make room for his emotions so that he feels safe to share his heart and life with you.My suggestions for how to interact with men without worry, anxiety, or fear that comes along with being attached to a future outcome. FEATURED ON THE SHOWDate With Cents Podcast Episode #3: High Connection/Low AttachmentHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
3/16/202347 minutes, 23 seconds
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Divorced and Dating Deliciously While Over 50 with Florence Druid

One of the biggest misconceptions I hear a lot as a love coach is that the older you get…the harder it is to date……and the harder it is to meet quality men. I’m here to say that it’s all lies. I don’t care if you’re in your 40s, 50s and even 60s.Florence is a great example of what it looks like to have a fun, fruitful, forward-moving dating experience…in your 50s. Join me for today’s episode as Florence (Cuff-link from April 2022 Cohort ) tells all about how she went from being divorced with no dating skills to creating an amazing love life filled with high-quality men (young and “old”)HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How Florence created a delicious dating life filled with high-quality men while over the age of 50. Florence’s journey from divorce (after 22 years of marriage)…to being surrounded by quality men who provide, protect and build for her. The huge role gratitude played when it comes to creating expansion and abundance in Florence’s love life. How Florence overcame religious, culture and social conditioning to date with more freedom and lots more fun.The one key Florence learned in order to have her desires regularly fulfilled while dating.  Behind the scenes of how Florence gained the courage to put herself out there and finally live and love on her own terms. FEATURED ON THE SHOWHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at www.curved2cuffed.com/applyMy Daily Clubhouse RoomBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
2/23/20231 hour, 7 minutes, 6 seconds
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From Tragic Dates to a Wedding Date with Faith Oribamise

There’s a lot of dating nonsense floating around about women who are 35+“You’re a leftover woman”“Men know something is wrong with you”“God might want you to be single”And what I hate the most is that so many single women are choosing to believe this. Faith was one who believed that since she was over 35 and didn’t meet her original timeline for marriage…that God might’ve been calling her to a life of singleness. That all changed during the pandemic when she decided to honor her desire for marriage and really put in the work to have it for herself. She was done being the wedding planner who planned everyone else’s wedding, but not her own. Join me for today’s episode as Faith (former client and C2C Success Coach) tells all about how she went from being overlooked by men to creating quality dating options that led to her choosing her husband. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How Faith created a delicious love life filled with high-quality men after the age of 35. How the pandemic became an eye-opening experience that led to Faith getting serious about making her love life a priority. Faith’s journey from being super single and waiting on God…..to married within a year. The one breakthrough Faith had that dramatically improved the quality of the men she attracted and the dating experiences she had. Behind the scenes of how Faith gained the confidence and tools to attract the man and marriage she desired. FEATURED ON THE SHOWHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at www.curved2cuffed.com/applyMy Daily Clubhouse RoomBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
1/26/20231 hour, 4 minutes, 54 seconds
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Dry Coochies, Dysfunction, and the Delusion Behind Dating “God’s Way"

Abstinence can be a period for self-love, personal growth and honor of one’s faith.But because so many women of faith are going on abstinent journeys AND they have no viable marriage options…it is becoming more of a period of dysfunction. See…women of faith are wanting sex, BUT they are also waiting for marriage. This is a problem because most women of faith aren’t creating love lives that lead to marriage. And because they aren’t creating marriage options for themselves…they’re going into their late 30s, 40s and 50s single and sexually unsatisfied…… and it results in psychological and physical consequences to their bodies. THIS is dysfunctional.In today’s episode, I break down how most women of faith are doing abstinence wrong, how to properly honor your sexual choice and how you can begin creating a juicy, love life that will lead you to the marriage you are waiting to have sex for.  HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The truth behind abstinence journey’s and why you don’t hear them mentioned in the Bible at all. Why I’m Pro-abstinent and how my clients learn to date successfully without having sex. What women who wait on sex need to learn in order to be successful with finding love.How being abstinent without romantic options leads to endless sexual starvationThe real reason why men don’t wanna date abstinent women. Why women who believe they are dating  “God’s way” are delusional. FEATURED ON THE SHOWLearn more about working with me in Formation HERE.How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyMy Daily Clubhouse Room.Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
1/12/202336 minutes, 13 seconds
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Dating Deliciously (Despite Culture) With Winnie Messa Tafempa

One of the biggest reasons why women don’t create yummy love lives for themselves is because they are afraid of what people will think of them if they do. They fear people will judge them for kissing men on the first dateThey fear people won’t approve of them dating multiple menThey fear being labeled “difficult” if they bluntly asked for what they wanted for men and said “NO” to all the things they don’t want. Winnie was one of these many women who had a dry and scarce love life because she feared what people of her culture and religion would think. She played small for years, accepted crumbs from me and waited for them to choose her for years. That all changed when she decided to choose herSELF first instead of pleasing everyone else as the neighborhood “good girl”. Join me for today’s episode as Winnie (former client and C2C Success Coach) tells all about how she dropped the “good girl” act to go from a dry and disastrous love life to dating deliciously with multiple yummy men.HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How Winnie created a blissful, exciting and spicy love life even when friends and family of her culture & religion didn’t approve. Winnie’s journey from a dry dating life to attracting high-quality men who love her for the women she is. How Winnie learned to confidently ask for what she wanted from men without fear or guilt. The backstory of how Winnie learned how to date multiple men after being nervous that people would see her as a “HOE”Why Winnie walked away from the pressures of being “Good Girl” to live an authentic life of freedom on her own terms.FEATURED ON THE SHOWHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at www.curved2cuffed.com/applyMy Daily Clubhouse RoomBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
1/5/20231 hour, 21 minutes, 18 seconds
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From No Dates to a Wedding Date With Marshae Brown

Imagine pushing 30, never been on a date, never even kissed a guy before..Annnddd…you’ve been waiting on God to send your husband, but he’s nowhere in sight.That was Marshae when we first met in 2017. A beautiful, outgoing high-achieving woman of faith who desired marriage, but was lost when it came to dating and interacting with me because all her life she  was taught to “wait on God” and the man would just appear. Until she met me of course. Join me for today’s episode as Marshae shares her journey of how she went from never dating at all..to being engaged and married in the same year. After 4 years of marriage and 2 babies later, she’s dropping gems on how she created an amazing love life before and after marriage.HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How Marshae went from being ashamed of desiring marriage to being confident about pursuing a healthy and exciting love life. What happened when  Marshae finally got the courage to shoot her shot at a long-time crush. The backstory behind how Marshae dated her husband and vetted him for exclusivity.How putting YOU first leads to a better experience whether you’re single or married. How working with Marshae inspired me to become a dating coach.FEATURED ON THE SHOWLovergirl Weekend Retreat Details - Early Bird Investment Pricing ends December 31st. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at www.curved2cuffed.com/apply . My Daily Clubhouse Room. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
12/29/20221 hour, 19 minutes, 54 seconds
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The Mis-Education of the "Good Girl"

We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before. We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports. We can even go to war if we want to. And  even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage……that keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do. And this directly impacts our ability to have deep, authentic dating experiences and abundant, expansive love lives. In today’s episode, I expose how Women of Faith have allowed the “Good Girl Complex” to keep them small in their love lives. We are trading our personal freedom to be slaves to our comfort zone and for people pleasing and male approval.  And it’s destroying the way we live and love because of fear and shame. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating. How Caresha (Young Miami) chose her own romantic path, but is still triggered by it.  The real reason why “good girls” police other women’s life choices concerning her body, sex and dating practices. The truth of how following male relationship gurus really condition you to stay under male domination and control.Why men will praise you for being “wife material”, but never try to make you their wife. FEATURED ON THE SHOWLovergirl Weekend Retreat Details - Early Bird Investment Pricing ends December 31st. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyMy Daily Clubhouse Room.Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
12/22/202249 minutes, 12 seconds
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The Not-So-Secret Life Of Love Coaches with Crystal Irom

Ever shot your shot with someone and scored big time??I feel this way about snagging Crystal Irom who is another dope ass love coach and a really good friend of mine. Almost 2 years ago, I slid in her DMs during the pandemic and since then we’ve grown a beautiful friendship that is filled with so much love, joy and a lot of respect for one another. Not only do I love her…but many of my clients do too. She’s my guest today on the podcast and we’re giving you a sneak peak of what we discuss when we have our regular girl chats. In today’s episode, be prepared to be a fly on the wall as we girl talk, share, and giggle about our backstories, personal lives, love coaching businesses, trending topics, pop culture and other random talking points. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The unusual way we met on Clubhouse and how I mistakenly thought she was a white woman for weeks. Both our takes on why so many  women are attracting emotionally unavailable men. My real time reaction of Derek Jaxn’s divorce announcement after Crystal drop the news mid-conversation. The anxiety I had over sending the wrong email to over 800 people and how it backfired in my favor. Why Crystal has the super power to be able to crank out 40+ Youtube videos in a single weekend.  FEATURED ON THE SHOWMy Daily Clubhouse Room. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
12/15/20221 hour, 57 minutes, 36 seconds
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No Church Girl Left Behind

Women of faith are being gaslit by mainstream religion. They deeply desire love, sex and marriage…but are often programmed to bury these desires to appear “godly” and not “desperate”They are single and unsatisfied in their 30s, 40s and 50s…but being told to “commit to The Lord” more and the right man will find them. They are being taught to keep their legs closed…but not receiving any practical guidance on how to meet men and date them for marriage. The good news is that this era is slowly ending. There’s an awakening happening…and there’s a new movement being led by women of faith who are leaving behind the shackles of “religious relationship theology” and finding freedom by finally taking responsibility for their love lives. In today’s episode, I go in depth about how mainstream religion has set women of faith up to lose with love. I also share how the average “church girl” can begin creating a new reality where love is abundant, quality men are plentiful and dating is a fulfilling adventure. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . 3 Most Common (but wrong) strategies women of faith use to attract quality menThe uncomfortable truth behind the phrase “HOES Winning” that many church girls don’t want to accept. Why leaving your “church” might be the best thing for your love life in 2023How black women are the biggest casualty of religious relationship theology. Real clients sharing real stories of what happened when they stopped waiting for love to happen for them. FEATURED ON THE SHOWMy Daily Clubhouse Room. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
12/8/202229 minutes, 23 seconds
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Falling In Love While Dating

One of the biggest fears women have while dating is “Falling in Love” with a man. So they act unbothered…they suppress their emotions and worst of all…ignore their desires. And although they are successful at not “falling in love”...they are also successful at damaging their love life. They have no idea that trying to avoid falling in love is also preventing them from ALSO having fun, fruitful and forward-moving dating experiences with men. In today’s episode, share why women SHOULD fall in love while dating…and they should fall in love all the time…with different men. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating. The truth behind why so many women are terrified of falling in love while dating. How being scared of “falling in love” is causing you to attract men who are emotionally unavailable The key to falling in love without being emotionally attached to the men you’re dating. The secret to falling in love with men without overinvestingFEATURED ON THE SHOWMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at https://www.curved2cuffed.com/applyBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
12/1/202224 minutes, 11 seconds
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Dating For Pleasure And With Purpose

For every time I urge women to have fun while dating..…there is always someone who is ready to reply “But Torah! I’m intentional. I’m dating with purpose.” What I find so fascinating is so many women believe they have to choose between pleasure and purpose. Newsflash!You can have experience BOTH while dating Queen...at the same timeYou don’t have to sacrifice fun to be intentional about dating the men you desire. In today’s episode, I reveal the problem with sacrificing pleasure and how you can have a yummy, delicious time with men while still being very purposeful towards a committed relationship. Here’s what you’ll discover: How vetting someone to see if they are husband material is not dating with intention. Why dating “with purpose” can be one of the biggest distractions to your own healing How to begin infusing joy and pleasure in all your dating experiences. What it looks like to have fun while dating and then being smart about it.How to take your desires and fuel what you want to create in your love life.FEATURED ON THE SHOWMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
10/20/202235 minutes, 25 seconds
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My 2 Cents On The Tia & Cory Divorce

One of our favorite Celebrity couples is calling it quits after 14 years of marriage. And a lot of us are struggling with the news. We’re asking questions like: “If they didn’t make it…what hope is there for me?”Or “I thought they were so happy…how could they divorce?”What if I told you that both of these questions are flawed and based in falsehood?What if I also told you that you don’t have to be disappointed and doubtful because their marriage didn’t last. In today’s episode, I share my perspective on the divorce, what you can learn from their marriage ending, and where to move your attention if you desire a beautiful, loving marriage. Here’s what you’ll discover: How focusing on making a marriage last is overrated (and what you should focus on instead). Why paying so much attention to Tia & Cory’s divorce is a distraction from what really matters. The truth behind the 30+ year marriages our grandparents had. How the average person self-abandons all in the name of marriage. How celebrities' marriages ending, have nothing to do with your opportunity for a healthy, long-standing marriage. FEATURED ON THE SHOWMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
10/13/202232 minutes, 10 seconds
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Dating Savage After Dating Setback with Shruti Agarwal

One of the biggest fears we have as women, while dating, is getting rejected by a man we really like. And some of the most painful rejection is getting ghosted by a man that we really could really see ourselves building a life with. Shruti was one of many women who became devastated after her dream man ghosted her out of nowhere. He was attractive, checked off all the boxes, and she felt a strong connection with him…and she was crushed that he would disappear from her life with no explanation. That all changed when she decided to choose herSELF before choosing a man. Join me for today’s episode as Shruti (Cuff-link from August 2022 Cohort) gives you a behind the scenes look at how she went from being desperate for marriage, depressed and crying over a man who ghosted her to becoming a fierce Queen who boldly asks for what she wants, lives how she wants, and dates WHO she wants. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How Shruti went from being adamant about dating one man at a time to dating multiple high-quality men who provide, protect and pursue her for marriage. The backstory behind how Shruti was able to quadruple her income and her options in men. How Shruti was able to recreate herself and design her dream love life despite having tons of insecurities about herself as a woman. The importance of embracing and loving past, painful versions of you who didn’t know any better.FEATURED ON THE SHOWEP #18: Plus-sized Dating with Rashanda BanksMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
9/22/20221 hour, 9 minutes, 38 seconds
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Finding Freedom while Dating With Kris J.

9/15/20221 hour, 20 minutes, 5 seconds
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Prayed, Waited, and Pissed

“How come it’s the ones who engage engage in premarital sex that are getting married and yet we who have been sticking to our principles, trying to do things God’s way and praying for years are still waiting (and getting older by the day?)”I’m always seeing variations of this question in online communities where women of faith reside. What these women don’t realize is that beneath the surface of this question there is entitlement, false superiority and a 2misinterpretation of what it means to be celibate. I hopped on the mic to rant about this question and to give some perspective on what the Bible really reveals to us when it comes to love, sex and marriage. Here’s what you’ll discover: The truth about why “good girls” who keep their legs closed aren’t getting marriedHow “Biblical Marriage” is highly overrated and why no woman truly wants it. The danger of fantasizing the Bible and romanticizing marriageWhy women of faith need to stop waiting for their “Boaz”What it looks like to choose to abstain from sex from a position of powerFEATURED ON THE SHOWMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
8/25/202219 minutes, 59 seconds
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Dating In Abundance Mode With Safiyyah Feaster

Most women are dating in scarcity mode. They are constantly drained, disappointed and finding it damn near impossible to meet attractive, high-quality men that they’re excited about.There are a few women who have cracked the code and learned to date in abundance mode. These women have no problem designing the love life they want and attracting the men they most desire. Safiyyah happens to be one of these women and she’s here to share what it looks like to have an abundant love life with an overflow of quality men, fun dates and enjoyable experiences. Join me for today’s episode as Safiyyah (Cuff-link from March 2022 Cohort) shares her personal journey of going from being stressed out with dating to creating a successful love life.HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How Safiyyah overcame her anger with men and dating so that she could finally enjoy her love life.A personal behind the scenes look of how Safiyyah built her confidence to ask for what she wants…instead of settling for what she thought she could get. The simple, practical ways to create an abundance of love and high-quality men in your life. Real, inspiring stories of how quality men invest in Safiyyah and show up to fulfill the desires of her heart.FEATURED ON THE SHOWEP #24: When Dating Multiple Men Feels Like FantasyMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
8/18/20221 hour, 21 minutes, 6 seconds
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When Dating Multiple High-Quality Men Sounds Like Fantasy

If you think it’s hard to find one quality man, let alone multiple quality men to date….If you are struggling cultivating your options in quality men that you are attracted to and excited about..And If you think dating several high-quality men who provide, protect and pursue you at once is a fantasy…Then it’s a good chance that you have a spiritual deficiency that is causing you to date in scarcity mode. And when you’re in scarcity mode…you will find it hard to create abundance with love and quality men. In today’s episode, I’m going to share exactly how to move from scarcity mode in your love life so that you can finally have an abundance of quality men to choose from (instead of waiting to be chosen). Dating plenty of the men you desire can be a reality for you. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: What it looks and feels like to date from a place of scarcity.  The 3 Spiritual Essentials for creating great abundance in your love life. Why your past experiences with men and dating is irrelevant to your future ability to create an abundant love life. How to be a good steward of your love life so that you increase your capacity to receive more love and attract more men. One of the most overlooked and underappreciated practices when it comes to dating.FEATURED ON THE SHOWEpisode #14​​ Radical Responsibility While DatingMy new program FORMATION.My Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
8/11/202230 minutes, 45 seconds
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When We Can't Wait To Get The Man

“When is it going to be my turn?”“When am I finally going to meet my husband?”“Why can’t I be married already?”These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone. They think…“Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..”“...It’s going to stop my disappointment, my loneliness, my exhaustion, my negative thoughts”“...And it’s going to make me feel more confident, secure, stable and loved. Little do they know that a man can’t do any of this for them.This is their responsibility. In today’s episode, I highlight how so many women give their power to create the love lives they desire over to men and how they can take their power back. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: How our core beliefs trick us into believing that we need men to feel better. The importance of accepting where you are now in order to receive the relationship you desire. How focusing on men is distracting you from having the man you desire. Why you need to slow down, if you want to speed up towards your desired love life. What it looks like to take responsibility for your journey towards marriage so you can create the love life you desire. Why your relationship will fall apart, even if you find the man of your dreams. FEATURED ON THE SHOWEpisode #19 - Dating as a Single Mother with Christina DavidMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. My new program FORMATION.How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
7/21/202223 minutes, 25 seconds
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When You're Easily Impressed By Men

f you find yourself often find yourself drained and disappointed with menOr that men keep leaving you feeling foolish and that he just wasted your time…It’s a good chance that you might be a woman who is easily impressed. Because an easily impressed woman almost always ends up somebody’s fool.In today’s episode, learn what it means to be an easily impressed woman, why it’s causing you so much suffering and how to break from this behavior if you are guilty of being easily impressed by the men you date. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: Why easily impressed women don’t operate in the realm of reality.How easily impressed women trick themselves into believing that basic actions by men mean more than what they are. 3 Major ways easily impressed women are also easily influenced.What to look for to determine if a man’s actions really mean what you think they mean. 3 ways to grow from being a woman who is easily impressed. FEATURED ON THE SHOW3 Ways Lady Entrepreneurs Can Attract High Quality Men w/ Joseph LopezEpisode #08 - 5 Questions to Ask Yourself to Avoid Overinvesting in a ManMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
7/14/202222 minutes, 7 seconds
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The Objectification Of Men

As women…we often complain that men objectify us for our bodies and sex.…because we want to be seen for more than our breasts, thighs and ass. We want to be valued for more than what’s between our legs. We want to be known and loved for WHO we are as women…and not for what our bodies can do for men. Well ironically…WE objectify men just as much as men objectify us. If not, MOREWe’re not objectifying them for sex tho…We objectify men for RELATIONSHIPSIn today’s episode, I share how so many women objectify men for relationships and how the objectification is preventing them from creating real connections with high-quality men. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: How most women objectify men for relationships and what it looks like. Why objectifying men is so problematicThe truth behind why so many of us objectify men without even thinking about it. The 3 major holes we try to fill when we objectify men. How to end your cycle of objectifying men so you can finally have healthy relationships with high-quality men FEATURED ON THE SHOWEpisode #04 Dating as a Spiritual PracticeMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. My new program FORMATION.How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
7/7/202227 minutes, 8 seconds
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When Dating Him Feels Like A Crack Addiction

Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him. We wanna hear from him daily We wanna see him all the time. And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away. Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction. Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lot of problems in our life…we still strongly desire him.  In this episode, I take time to coach a Queen who is addicted to dating a man who is tall, dark and dysfunctional…and we explore why this is a thing for her and what exactly she should do about it.  HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The lies we tell ourselves when we are addicted to men who are not good for us. The root causes of our addictions and why we stay stuck in the cycle. How feeling chemistry with a man can also be a sign of dysfunctional addiction. Why it’s not always easy for us  to be interested in other men who are able to offer us healthy forms of companionship. The truth about why we love to be controlled and dominated and why we confuse it with “Alpha” energy. How I lost my voice in my own marriage due to my own relationship addictionsFEATURED ON THE SHOWMy new program FORMATION.BOOK: Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll ChangeMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
6/23/202246 minutes, 9 seconds
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Dating As A Single Mother With Christina David

They say first comes love, then comes marriage…then comes the baby with the baby carriage. But what happens when the love leaves and the marriage is over and we are left alone with the baby?Is new love and marriage still on the table? It is for my very good friend Christina David She ended at the end of a hard divorce as a single mom with two young children and now she is enjoying dating multiple high-quality men with coins who absolutely adore her. Christina specializes in creating an amazing experience for men that magnetizes them and pulls them into her space. And in this episode she is killing any myths that single mothers gotta struggle to date or that they can’t attract high quality men who are up for the challenge of ready made families.   HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How Christina went from going through a devastating divorce to creating a fun, exciting and intentional dating life for herself. How Christina confidently and carefully involves her children in her love life.How to balance being a good mother and putting yourself out there to date. How important it is to build a strong support system to help you date as a single mom. What it looks like to be a single mom and dating high-quality men with coins.  Christina’s advice to single mom’s who are worried or concerned about dating. FEATURED ON THE SHOWThe Hot Girl Summa Virtual RetreatMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
6/16/202252 minutes, 8 seconds
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Plus-Sized Dating With Rashanda Banks

There’s so many dating gurus (men and women alike) who teach that plus-sized women are not desired by high-quality men for love and marriage. But is that really true tho?Hell nah!I have my former client and C2C Success Coach, Rashanda Banks here to share what dating as a plus-sized woman is really about when you know what you’re doing. Rashanda is the queen of building armies of men who provide, protect and build for women AND helping plus-sized women (like herself) step into their power to achieve this for themselves. In this episode, Rashanda and I have a discussion about how she has designed a fun, healing and magical love life that serves her to the highest capacity. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How Rashanda went from being insecure about her weight to being a confident Queen who attracts high-quality men anywhere and everywhere. How you can do everything “right” to get married and still get it “wrong”The simple key to inspiring men to emotionally and financially invest in you. How to have a “soft life” where men show up for you and treat you like precious cargo. The importance of setting boundaries for better dating experiences. Rashanda’s advice for how to finally begin walking in your worth as a plus-sized woman. FEATURED ON THE SHOWThe Hot Girl Summa Virtual RetreatMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
6/9/20221 hour, 6 minutes, 36 seconds
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Upgrading Your Online Dating Approach

“I’ve tried online dating before and it doesn’t work”I’ve probably heard this a trillion times over my career as a dating coachWhich is so funny because online dating works extremely well and it’s one of the easiest ways to meet high-quality men. Truth is…if online dating isn’t working for you, it’s a user error. Kind of like if you try to use an ice cream scoop as a hammer….…or attempt to eat spaghetti with a butter knife…or fill your little Honda Accord up with diesel fuel. In today’s special episode, I share a Clubhouse coaching session where I share a play by play on how to improve your approach to dating online…so that you can match with the best men and have the best kinds of experiences. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . THe importance of setting small intentions every time you log into a dating appHow easily overthinking will cause you to miss opportunities to connect with high-quality men. The real reason why your conversations are fizzling out on the app.The purpose of creating an emotional investment the moment a man sees your profile on the app. The real reason why your conversations are fizzling out on the app.How to inspire men to invest in the connection between you and them. FEATURED ON THE SHOWMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
6/2/202226 minutes, 6 seconds
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The Best Lessons I've Learned In Life

Over the past 35 years of my life, I have had so much success than I ever thought was possible for me. Was it drama-free? NopeWas there plenty of messiness? Hell yeah!And in spite of all the trauma, drama and messy…I live a beautiful life filled with love, joy, freedom and abundance. Even though it looks effortless…my life didn’t happen by chance. It’s a result of my dedication to develop, grow and evolve. In today’s special episode, I celebrate my 35th birthday by sharing the bests lessons i’ve learned in my life that has allowed me to navigate and survive poverty, sexual abuse, abandonment, teenage pregnancy, religious abuse… etc……so that I can thrive in my current life of peace, happiness, abundance, freedom, leisure and love. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . What I've been able to achieve in my 35 years of life and the life lessons I’ve learned to help me have what I desire. How I used brain science to help me become the woman I am today. How major failures in my life set me up for ultimate success.Why I feel peace, confident and secure whether I’m winning or “losing”. A snapshot of how disappointments in my friendships, business and marriage helped make me a better woman. FEATURED ON THE SHOWThe New Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell MaltzMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/26/202241 minutes, 40 seconds
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My Thoughts On Kevin Samuels

It’s confirmed…Popular Youtuber, Kevin Samuels, who is most infamous for his controversial dating advice geared towards women… is DeadWhether you loved him, hated him, or remained indifferent…you cannot deny that he had an impactful voice and was a huge influence in the modern dating world.And because of his impact, the internet has been flooded with rants, think pieces and petitions sharing their opinion of him and his work (before and after his death.)I’ve never participated, but in light of his recent passing, I finally feel an urge to share. In today’s episode, I finally share my thoughts and opinions about Kevin Samuels and his online platform.HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How I discovered Kevin Samuels and my first impression of his contentThe embarrassing truth behind how Kevin Samuesl really gained his fame. The real problem with Kevin Samuels (it’s deeper than you think)Why trying to cancel Kevin was a form of victim consciousness. What really needs to be addressed…now that he’s dead. FEATURED ON THE SHOWEpisode #14 Radical Responsibility While DatingMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/19/202245 minutes, 58 seconds
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Radical Responsibility While Dating

Most women don’t have powerful, healthy love lives. It’s not because they can’t or lack the ability.  It's not because of past trauma or hurt. It’s because they aren’t ready to be 100% responsible for their love lives. They still want to blame menThey still want to make excuses. They still want to stay in their comfort zonesReal power requires real responsibilityIt’s not your fault no one taught you how to have a healthy, fun love life, but it is your responsibility to have one. In today’s episode, I share what it looks like to have the power to create the love life that lights you up…and what it takes to get there. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . What is Radical Responsibility and how can we implement it while dating. How to finally stop playing the blame game and ditch excuses so you can have the love you desire. The big glaring reason why women can follow my work for years and still never have success with love. 3 Key things we experience once we decide to be radically responsible. How becoming radically responsible radically upgrades your love life. FEATURED ON THE SHOWEpisode #11 Becoming the “Sun” in Your Love Life Solar SystemMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/12/202230 minutes, 32 seconds
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Rant - Marriage Ain't Clout

That moment when a man hops into my comment section talkin’ bout” “You giving’ all this advice to women. Are YOU even married?”As if a man validates my expertise…As if marriage is a coaching certification…As if having a husband means having an amazing love life…AND I can teach others to do the same.Marriage is a relationship status…Not proof that I can help women transform their love lives. So today I hop on the mic to rant a little about why me being married isn’t why you should be taking me seriously as a love coach. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The underlying reason why men troll women about their relationship statuses. Why being married doesn’t qualify me to be a love/dating coach The real reasons why I am a credible expert when it comes to helping women find love. The truth behind women who get triggered by men who holler “Kevin Samuels” talking points. FEATURED ON THE SHOWMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
5/5/202227 minutes, 43 seconds
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Teaching Men How to Win With You

I want to invite you to come on a journey with me to the land of fulfilled desires. Here the women are satisfied, excited and extremely pleased by the men they are dating.These men show up ready to serve these women and putting big smiles on their faces.  Sounds unrealistic?Think again. It may sound far-fetched, but it’s easier than you think to live this kind of life and be loved in this kind of way. All you have to do is Teach Men How to Win with You In today’s episode, I share a perspective on why teaching men to win with you is so important if you want to have the best experiences with the best men. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . What does it mean to teach men to win with you and practical guidance on how to do this How to get the phone calls and dates that you want…when you want them. The key to communicating to men your desires AND your boundaries so that they show up for you. One of the biggest mistakes women make that causes them to lose out on fun dating experiences with men. 3 things you have to stop doing in order to be successfully pleased by men.FEATURED ON THE SHOWMy Daily Clubhouse Room. Subscribe here to get daily updates on when my next room opens. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
4/28/202246 minutes, 26 seconds
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Becoming the "Sun" in Your Love Life Solar System

4/14/202234 minutes, 59 seconds
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Dating Deeper While Dating Multiple Men

The way we date men is important. Especially when we’re dating multiple men at a time.We don’t date multiple men because it’s “cool”Or to have a one-up on menOr to distract ourselves from being so attached to the one man we really desire. It’s much deeper than that. In today’s episode, I get real with you about your dating practices while dating multiple men and I shed some light on why it’s deeper than you think. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . How we are conditioned to follow dating rules that don’t serve us. What it truly means to be in relationship with someoneHow most people are dating for transactions and not transformations.How dating multiple men is crucial for your personal growthAll the ways you benefit from dating multiple men deeplyFEATURED ON THE SHOWVickie High (Cuff-link from November Cohort 2021) shares her testimonial of being 58 years old and dating high-quality men. Episode #4: Dating is a Spiritual PracticeHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
4/7/202217 minutes, 3 seconds
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When You Want Men To Be More Consistent

Are you frustrated because the men you date aren’t being consistent? Because if a man truly is interested, he would reach out to us daily and take us out on a weekly date, Right???Maybe…or maybe not.In today’s episode, I share a new perspective on consistency and why we should change the way we expect men to show up while casually dating themHERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . What most women think consistency is  vs TRUE consistency Why women are easily fooled and confused by men who they feel are consistent.The truth behind why a man may only reach out once a week and still be a man of consistency.  Why daily communication with a man does not help move the relationship forward.How true consistency is principle focused, not pattern focused. FEATURED ON THE SHOWA High-Quality Man has a Mission. Mentioned in Episode #2 : What is a Quality Man?High Connection/ Low Attachment. Mentioned in Episode #3: How to Date Multiple Men Without Getting Too Attached to One of Them. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
3/31/202228 minutes, 38 seconds
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How To Show Up As A Quality Woman Who Attracts Quality Men

“There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.”That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work. The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality womenAND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men. Why?Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desireAnd that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together. It’s deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean. Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: What it really means to “work on yourself” while dating. The difference between a decent woman and a quality womanA quality woman’s biggest super power that helps her navigate dating. The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality menWhy it’s important to embrace “messiness” on your dating journeyFEATURED ON THE SHOWHow to Become a Triple Threat Success Woman (You can gain access to this free training by applying to Curved 2 Cuffed)How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
3/24/202230 minutes, 28 seconds
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Five Questions To Ask Yourself To Avoid Overinvesting In A Man

“How do I know whether I’m doing way too much with a man?” “How do I know whether I’m  giving too much of myself?”“How do I make sure I’m not overinvesting in a relationship that isn’t going anywhere?”These are all questions women ask when they are tired of giving their time, energy and hearts to men who didn’t earn it. I got some better questions for you to ask though…Tune in to this episode as I share 5 questions to ask yourself TODAY so that you give to men without ever giving pieces of yourself. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: Why performing “wife-duties” for a boyfriend can be in your best interest.The secret to investing in men and relationships without ever feeling taken advantage of. How to give freely to men in abundance so that you benefit too. The best way to make romantic decisions that are best for you in any dating scenario. FEATURED ON THE SHOWCoach Faith’s Engagement AnnouncementHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
3/17/202232 minutes, 46 seconds
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The Secret To Meeting High-Quality Men

I love to see women being cherished, supported, invested in, adored and well-loved by high-quality men.I hate that so many women find it incredibly hard to believe that there is an abundance of quality men for them to date. Thankfully, I know what it takes to make them a believer. I know the secret sauce to surround yourself with so many high-quality men that you won’t have room to receive all of them. Listen closely to this episode as I show you exactly how to start meeting and dating more high-quality men than you ever dreamed was possible.HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: The mistake most women make that makes it harder for them to meet and date high-quality menThe simple way your brain can help you spot quality men without you having to try. The secret to having an endless flow of high-quality men to choose fromThe woman you need to BE to start attracting high-quality men as soon as todayFEATURED ON THE SHOWCuffing Season Retreat Bundle Ep #3: What is a High-Quality ManHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
3/10/202225 minutes
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Launching Your H.O.E. Phase

Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY.All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend. And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effortThere’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with menListen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you, instead of settling for being chosen. Be prepared to reclaim your time!HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: My signature model for a premium dating experience for high-achieving women of faith.What it means to be a good H.O.E and how it puts you in a position of power.7 Practical guidelines that will help you vet men before you go exclusive with them.A unique approach to rotational dating that will lead you to date better men and have better dating experiences. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
3/3/202231 minutes, 41 seconds
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Dating Is A Spiritual Practice

When someone tells me that they’re a woman of faith, I can normally tell the level of her faith by the health of her love life. You can go to church regularly, pray, consistently read your bible and serve in ministry…BUT the truth of your spiritual walk is always revealed by the life you live daily…and that includes your love life.Listen in today to find out how to use dating as a spiritual practice to deepen your relationship with The Most High and ultimately with yourself.  You can grow an abundantly love life by growing your faith with practical spirituality. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: The real reason why dating is so draining and disappointing to you.Practical examples of how to date with more depth and meaning. Why being obsessed with the future is a slap in the face to God. How being more like God improves the quality of your love life and the men you date.The spiritual benefits of building community with the opposite sexHow you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
2/24/202229 minutes, 33 seconds
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High Connection / Low Attachment

You wanna date multiple men, but you keep falling for one at a time huh? If that’s the case, PUH-leaze join me for this episode as I share the perfect ideology for you to embody so you can have fun with an amazing man, and still have the capacity to frolic with others. What you’ll discover: What high connection/low-attachment is and why it’s so important to adopt while dating. The power behind having strong feelings for a man…and knowing how to not act on them. The danger behind daydreaming while casually dating men. The one question you need to ask yourself each time you want to invest time and energy into a man. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
2/14/202218 minutes, 39 seconds
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What Is A Quality Man?

There’s a difference between a decent man and a high-quality man. Did you know a man can be kind, consistent, “God-fearing”  and STILL not be a high-quality man?Join me for this episode as I break down what a high-quality man is and how to spot one from a mile away. Here’s what you’ll discover: Common misconceptions women have concerning what a  high-quality man looks like. 6 Key attributes to look for to spot a high-quality manWhy it matters that a man is intimately connected to other high-quality men. What it actually looks like for a man to show his “true colors”How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
2/14/202225 minutes, 34 seconds
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The Secrets To Transforming Your Love Life

Are you sick of how disappointing your love life is? Great! Because I’m sick of not seeing you winning! Whether you’re new at dating or totally drained with it, this is the perfect episode to learn how to get on the right track towards reaching your relationship goals. Here’s what you’ll discover: The real reasons behind stagnation in your love life. The mindset behind achieving your relationship goals no matter what. The truth behind why you can do all the right things and STILL get dating wrong.One of the biggest mistakes (even smart women) make, that leaves them feeling discouraged and disconnected during their dating journey. How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
2/14/202220 minutes, 48 seconds
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Date With Cents Trailer

Wondering why it’s so hard for you to secure a decent date or a relationship with a decent man? I got you!I’m TorahCents, the founder of Curved 2 Cuffed,  and I’m here to help you start attracting quality men and confidently date for the romantic partnership you desire as a high-achieving woman of faith. In this trailer I’ll share who I am and what you can expect from this podcast in upcoming episodes. What you’ll discover: Who I am and why listening to me is what you should be doing every week. Who this podcast is for and why it’s so different from other content usually put out for women of faith. What you can expect to learn. Be prepared to learn how to attract high-quality men everywhere you go, how to date multiple men for marriage and/or legacy  building and how to become a Triple Threat Success woman who can create the love life of her desires (no matter her relationship status)How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. P.S.  I’m giving away a free gift for a limited time. To snag it for yourself, go to iTunes, leave a review, and send a screenshot to [email protected] before March 1, 2022.Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed
2/3/202211 minutes, 59 seconds