A show about writing, reading, and getting (some) things done. Jessica Lahey writes the Parent-Teacher Conference column for the New York Times' Well Family and is the author of "The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Children Can Succeed." KJ Dell'Antonia is a columnist and contributing editor for the New York Times' Well Family. In their podcast, they talk about writing short form, long form and book length, give tips for pitching editors and agents and constantly revise how they tackle the ongoing challenge of keeping your butt in the chair for long enough to get the work done.
Flashback Friday: Episode 293, how to build a literary life with Zibby Owens.
Writers, if you're paying attention at all, you've heard from Zibby Owens in the past 2 years. She's the host of the Moms Don't Have Time to Read Podcast and the creator of Zibby Media, which at this point includes a magazine, a publishing house that's having a great month with, among other books, The Last Love Note, which KJ highly recommends and an LA-based bookstore. In 2022, Jess talked with Zibby about how she launched her literary life--and as that life gets bigger and bigger, we thought it was time to share her story again.
Ever want to know “how she did it”? This episode is our little version of How I Built This, in which we ask Zibby Owens—whose name you surely know by now—about how she turned a desire to be part of the world of books into a one-woman mi
24/11/2023 • 44 minutes 47 seconds
When Inner Dialogue Isn't "Telling" and When It Is in Memoir and Fiction
Hey writers—I’m in a funny phase of novel drafting right now where I’m really only doing the prewriting—which is an odd style of drafting wherein, for me, I basically write only dialogue and statements of movement and the very most important bits of inner dialogue. (As in, no one is opening car doors or setting down their coffee cups, and there are also no quotation marks, and they could be anywhere as far as setting is concerned.)
Writing this way keeps my eyes on the prize—basically it’s what do I need to know to really write this scene, which kind of tricks me into what does the reader really need to know. I’ll add some of the set dressing later, but I find that when I write this way, the end result is tighter and cleaner.
Here’s an example I found that ultimately became Chapter 3 of Playing the Witch Card. It’s actually pretty accurate:
Flair is desperately shutting door on what she’s done, locking up wildly as if she could lock it i
17/11/2023 • 39 minutes
383: How to Restart Your Work after an Unplanned Pause
Ok, we probably don’t feel as cheery as that little subtitle sounded after we’ve been away from a project for a while. Most of the things that yank us away from our work unexpectedly aren’t good things. (There must be exceptions?)
In my case, I got sick, and then I overdid and got sicker, and the result is a project I haven’t touched in a week. Which is SO not that bad or that long—sometimes things happen and it’s a month or more before we can get back into the work—but it made me think about what I do when I’m forced to stop and re-start.
Forgive yourself. Might you have been able to do better? Maybe. Would a real writer have managed to work through whatever it was? Maybe. And maybe, if you’d really had to, you would have. Or maybe not—sometimes even people with deadlines and editors and fans clamoring need to put their work aside for a while, because sometimes you just cannot. Or sometimes you do anyway, and maybe, as I once did, you
10/11/2023 • 16 minutes 31 seconds
382: How Sarina's Reading Journal Makes Her a Better Novelist: Episode 382
Hi. 🙋♀️ My name is Sarina, and I’m a bit obsessive about stationery products. I’m always on the lookout for a good excuse to buy new pens or a new notebook. But bear with me, because this one is 100% valid: every year I buy a new reading journal, and I use it well.
The journal itself is nothing special. It’s just a 200 page B5 (or composition book sized) notebook where I keep track of all the books I’ve read. (Or, in many cases, books I started and did not finish. I’m a big DNFer, because life is short and there are too many books to cover.)
At the front of the journal I keep a list of the gems—the books I want to recommend. Plus a long list of things I want to read.
But 99% of the pages are given over to my thoughts about the books themselves. Sometimes I only write two lines, and sometimes I cover two pages.
When I first began tracking my reading like this, three years ago, I wasn’t very precise about
27/10/2023 • 13 minutes 16 seconds
381: How to Find the Right Speaking Agent: Ep 381
Jess here, with detailed answers to the questions raised in the #AmWriting Facebook group about finding, contracting, and working with a speaking agent.
I have tried both going it alone and managing my own speaking career and working with an agent on an exclusive basis. Both paths can work, both require a big investment of time, and both have their own obstacles.
Keep the questions coming in the FB group or by email, and we will keep answering them!
My landing page at the American Program Bureau website
If the idea of being a book coach niggles at you every time you hear anything about our sponsor, Author Accelerator, I have good news: they’ve fully revised and updated both the fiction and non-fiction book coach certification program. With more than 100 hours of training, videos, case studies, and worksheets, Author Accelerator’s progra
20/10/2023 • 35 minutes 52 seconds
380: National Novel Planning Month (that should be a thing)
I’m a fan of NaNoWriMo—National Novel Writing Month, in which the plan is to write 50,000 words of a novel in November. It’s about 1666 words a day, a little more if you take off for Thanksgiving, and it’s do-able to get to 50K words. But realistically, most people’s result, even if they “win” isn’t a draft of a novel. It’s usually the rambling draft of the first half or two-thirds at best. Because even if your preferred method of writing is to “pants” (As opposed to plot), getting a novel draft to actually END is perhaps the most difficult part. Even the “murky middle” is easier to draft than those concluding scenes.
But NaNoWriMo can—and has, for many people—end in an actual draft that becomes a novel. There’s something about the energy of the month and the challenge of imposing those 1666 words on days that are already full of countless things that really works for many of us. The Chicken Sisters began (after yea
13/10/2023 • 22 minutes 3 seconds
379: A Million Little Pieces that can Make or Break a Speaking Engagement: Episode 279
Hello #AmWriters! Jess here. I have been getting a lot of messages via the #AmWriting Facebook group and email about details that can make or break a speaking engagement. I like having a podcast episode to point these people to, so here’s the podcast episode I wish I’d had before I received my first invitation to speak.
We talk negotiation, fees, contracts (while remembering that while I went to law school I remember precious little so this is not legal advice), problem-solving, bad hotels, great hotels, flights, and reimbursement. Plus a lot more.
As always, I hope this is useful to you, and happy speaking!
If the idea of being a book coach niggles at you every time you hear anything about our sponsor, Author Accelerator, I have good news: they’ve fully revised and updated both the fiction and non-fiction book coach certification program. With more than 100 hours of training, videos, case studies, and worksheets, Author Accelerator
06/10/2023 • 49 minutes 2 seconds
378: Six Seasons in One Episode: Cookbooks as Memoir with Gesine Bullock-Prado, Ep 378
I’ve been wanting to talk cookbook writing with Gesine Bullock-Prado for some time now, and was thrilled to get the chance to sit in her home and baking school in what was once Freegrace Tavern, built in 1794. Portraits of Freegrace and Jerusha hang in the entryway, overseeing (and judging?) all visitors to the house (pic below).
You can find Gesine at her website, where you will also find information about her baking school, Sugar Glider Kitchen. Warning: her classes sell out almost immediately, so you’d better sign up for her emails and have good reflexes.
Of course you can find My Vermont Table at all the usual places, but please choose your local independent bookseller if you can.
If your fall could use a little witchy reading fun, you should hop online or over to your favorite bookstore and order a
29/09/2023 • 46 minutes 5 seconds
377: Writing for Tweendom: Jamie Sumner on writing difficult topics and the glory of middle grade fiction
Jess here! Jamie Sumner and I talked over the summer about her middle grade books, mainly because I’m a fan. She does not shy away from difficult topics - substance use disorder, financial insecurity, physical disability, autism, and anxiety. She’s been on the show before (here’s her first interview) but I had to have her on to talk about her new book, Maid for It, out September 5, 2023.
Jamie’s website: https://jamie-sumner.com
#AmReading
Jamie: The Bandit Queens by Parini Shroff
<a href="https://taylorjenkinsreid
22/09/2023 • 55 minutes 11 seconds
376: Flinging a Fall Book out into the world
Sarina’s on the struggle bus.
Jess is back to non-fiction and killing it on TikTok.
KJ’s in book launch mode and also killing it on TikTok. Want to help share Playing the Witch Card with the world? Everything you need is here (and this is also something every author should do, every time).
Also, BUY MY BOOK. (This is KJ, can you tell?) You’ll like it. I promise. So will your mother, daughter, sister, partner and next door neighbor.
Bookshop.org Amazon Barnes&Noble <a href="https://www.stillnorthbook
15/09/2023 • 44 minutes 49 seconds
375: Reinvention Marketing: Selling Your Book for Years After Pub Day
Hi #AmWriters! Jess here to talk about what I’ve been up to this summer and hoping some of it proves helpful for you. That’s why we started this podcast years ago - to flatten the learning curve for other writers.
Here I am, almost a decade out from the publication of The Gift of Failure and I have this new book, The Addiction Inoculation, on a topic that can be scary to some people (substance use disorder! eeeek!) as you know, I’m always looking for ways to get books in the hands of new readers, get information into the heads of people who need to know it, and keep my speaking career afloat. This summer, I did a massive marketing re-invention because the speaking engagements that have been going particularly well are not about one book or the other, but both. I’ve been using The Gift of Failure as a Trojan Horse to get the Addiction Inocu
08/09/2023 • 35 minutes 41 seconds
374: From Idea to Execution: Building a Book
Hi all! Jess here! Welcome to a new season!
We are back with our usual #AmWriting content and I’m incredibly excited about this episode.
Seven years ago, I was speaking in the school library of a small elementary school in California - the entire event was a favor for a friend - and met a reader named Kirsten Jones. I love small events because I get to spend so much time talking with the audience members at the book signing. One of the last people to get her book signed was Kirsten, a former NCAA athlete and aspiring writer. She had this idea, she said, a Gift of Failure but for the parents of athletes. YES, I said. Write the book. We need this book. Please let me know how I can be of help to you so this book can be in the world.
Seven years later, here we are. Raising Empowered Athletes<
01/09/2023 • 1 hour 10 minutes 39 seconds
373: Never Carved in Stone: Letting Ideas Evolve
In our Idea Factory wrap-up, Jennie and I talk about the ways ideas need to change and evolve throughout the writing process—while you develop them and even in between drafts. Don’t let the idea take charge—the writer has to keep running the show.
Good news for memoir writers! Y’all probably know how much I love Jennie Nash’s Blueprint books. They really are the closest thing I’ve found to a guide for getting through draft after draft. I start with them, and I go back to them when I’m stuck. The Blueprints keep me on track and help me write the book I set out to write for the readers I hope to reach.
Her newest, Blueprint for a Memoir: How to Write a Memoir for the Marketplace is out now!
I think this Blueprint is Jennie’s best yet, with insights into story-telling that I’ll be using in all my work.
Get y
25/08/2023 • 30 minutes 13 seconds
372: Ideas and Nonfiction: Your Book Idea Contains Multitudes
That first non-fiction book may seem easy—it’s your THING, the thing you know—but you still have to hone it down. Is it advice, information, the story of how you learned what you know? Inspirational, confrontational, aspirational? And then comes the next book. And the next. And it still always comes back to the idea.
Good news for memoir writers! Y’all probably know how much I love Jennie Nash’s Blueprint books. They really are the closest thing I’ve found to a guide for getting through draft after draft. I start with them, and I go back to them when I’m stuck. The Blueprints keep me on track and help me write the book I set out to write for the readers I hope to reach.
Her newest, Blueprint for a Memoir: How to Write a Memoir for the Marketplace is out now!
I think this Blueprint is Jennie’s best yet, with insights into story-telling that I’ll be using in all my w
18/08/2023 • 37 minutes 21 seconds
371: When Good Ideas Go Bad (the most common mistakes writers make)
You’ve no doubt heard people say of non-fiction books “that should have been an article”. Not every idea can sustain an entire book or story. Many things that feel like ideas are really set-ups: what if there was a school for dragon riders? Yes, absolutely, cool, but the who and the what happens and the why do we care never go away. In this episode, we talk about turning the flicker of an idea into a full light bulb, and rescuing an idea that didn’t turn out to be quite enough.
Good news for memoir writers! Y’all probably know how much I love Jennie Nash’s Blueprint books. They really are the closest thing I’ve found to a guide for getting through draft after draft. I start with them, and I go back to them when I’m stuck. The Blueprints keep me on track and help me write the book I set out to write for the readers I hope to reach.
Her newest, Blueprint for a Memoir: How to Write a Memoir for the
11/08/2023 • 40 minutes 38 seconds
370: Memoirs for the Marketplace: A Blueprint for Success
Part two of the memoir conversation: yes you do need an idea for a memoir. Gotta narrow things down, figure out what you want to share and why and most of all, why anyone would want to read it. There’s a difference between a memoir, and a memoir that the market will embrace—and we tell you how to find it.
Good news for memoir writers! Y’all probably know how much I love Jennie Nash’s Blueprint books. They really are the closest thing I’ve found to a guide for getting through draft after draft. I start with them, and I go back to them when I’m stuck. The Blueprints keep me on track and help me write the book I set out to write for the readers I hope to reach.
Her newest, Blueprint for a Memoir: How to Write a Memoir for the Marketplace is out now!
I think this Blueprint is Jennie’s best yet, with insights into story-telling that I’ll be using in all my work.
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04/08/2023 • 48 minutes 50 seconds
369: You Are the Protagonist (memoirs need ideas too) with Rachael Herron
But wait, isn’t a memoir a book about my life? What do you mean, I need an idea?
We mean, you need an idea. Because your whole life is… really not book material. But one thematic chunk of it? One recurring event, one series of catastrophes, one relationship, one moment that changed everything?
Now you’re talking—and so are we, to the amazing Rachael Herron, host of the How Do You Write Podcast, author of Fast Draft Your Memoir and leader of a recurring, very hard to get into multi-week class of the same name. We talk about what does and doesn’t serve as memoir material and how to get from a vague glimmer of an idea to something that will carry you (and your reader) through chapter after chapter, and we quote a line from Cami Osmond: In memoir there’s the what and the so what.
Go where the sparkle
28/07/2023 • 44 minutes 39 seconds
368: How to Decide if Your Book Idea is Solid (or Solid Enough)
This is the third in our 2023 Summer Idea Factory series. Jennie Nash is back, and this time, she and I are talking about the process of testing out ideas, talking through them, and spending enough time with them to figure out if they’ll sustain you through an entire book—and if you want them to.
Good news for memoir writers! Y’all probably know how much I love Jennie Nash’s Blueprint books. They really are the closest thing I’ve found to a guide for getting through draft after draft. I start with them, and I go back to them when I’m stuck. The Blueprints keep me on track and help me write the book I set out to write for the readers I hope to reach.
Her newest, Blueprint for a Memoir: How to Write a Memoir for the Marketplace Is coming August 1, 2023. If you’re seeing this in July 2023, there’s a fantastic event available only to those who pre-order: a live—or recorded—deep dive in
21/07/2023 • 35 minutes 27 seconds
367: The Airport Game (or, how to come up with 8 ideas on a 3 hour long flight)
THIS IS MY FAVORITE THING EVER. Jennie Nash and I (KJ here) are talking ideas this summer: getting them, keeping them, taking them from baby spark idea to big-enough-to-hold-a draft idea. In this episode, I lay out my favorite technique for forcing myself to do two things: thing of something beyond the single spark I’m attached to at any given moment and take all of the sparks I can generate and push them harder until they get to a point where they might just stand on their own.
I hope you like it as much as I do. If you play the airport game, I’d love to hear about it! Just reply to this email and tell me how it went.
Good news for memoir writers! Y’all probably know how much I love Jennie Nash’s Blueprint books. They really are the closest thing I’ve found to a guide for getting through draft after draft. I start with them, and I go back to them when I’m stuck. The Blueprints keep me on track and help me write the book I set out to write for the readers I
14/07/2023 • 47 minutes 16 seconds
366: Welcome to the Idea Factory (Good Writing Comes Last, Part 2)
Writers, I have IDEAS. Usually a lot of them. 99% of them go nowhere. You can feel me bubbling over with ideas in every episode and even in the title of many episodes. There is so much I always want to say.
Like me, Jennie Nash is an idea cannon. So between us, we come up with a lot of plans. This is all to say that first: this episode, and the 7 “Idea Factory” episodes that follow, are the result of one such idea. At the beginning of this year, I (It’s KJ here) was deciding on what to do for what I hope will be my fourth novel, and Jennie and I got to talking, as we often do, about the difference between a “spark” and an actual, full on IDEA.
In this episode, we talk about what makes a full idea and why it’s so fantastic, in memoir, fiction and non-fiction, to have that idea in hand before you start writing a book—or why, when you hit a wall in drafting, the answer often involves going back and figuring out what that idea was in the first place.
It’s t
07/07/2023 • 39 minutes 34 seconds
365: How to Start a Novel (and keep going) Episode 365
I did a call with a writer this week who really is just getting started, with a few short stories finished and dreams of the future, and after we talked at probably unnecessary length about the fundamental truth that writing is hard and you have to actually DO it, not just think about it and plan for it, so annoying, she asked me how I start a new project*.
This episode is my answer, pretty much—because I’ve just done exactly that. My first outline document for the book I’m working on is dated 2/15; I opened a scrivener doc in March, there were 3 chapters in early April and I’m heading to the finish line on the first draft as I write (which would be quite fast for me so please do note that it’s a very very very first draft).
So I have just started. Here’s how.
And here are links to last year’s Blueprint for a Book series, in which Jennie Nash and I talked about all the stages of starting all the things:
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30/06/2023 • 24 minutes 24 seconds
Summer Reading for Writers (plus a #FlashbackFriday: Episode 269)
Two years ago, Jennie Nash and I (this is KJ) got into a debate about what was the best, most helpful book for a writer’s bookshelf. Almost instantly we realized that we couldn’t choose just one (although if we could, I suspect it’s Save the Cat Writes a Novel for me and Twyla Tharp’s The Creative Habit for Jennie, but even as I write that I’m having second thoughts in favor of Big Magic but I’m just SO ANNOYED with her right now because of the whole take-back-my-book thing) and, yeah.
Anyway. It’s summer reading time, and to my summer reading list I’ve added a few books about writing, starting with Rick Rubin’s The Creative Act: A Way of Being and, yes. Twyla Th
23/06/2023 • 30 minutes 50 seconds
364: Satire: writing just below "over-the-top" with Jane Roper Episode 364
The book is The Society of Shameand one of the many, many ways you can tell it’s satire is that it keeps making people who don’t get it mad. Satire is fiction, hopped up on humor and then amped up by all the things that seem like they couldn't quite happen and yet you know they might. (Another commonality of good satire? The most outrageous bits are often the ones that come straight from the headlines.
The author is Jane Roper, who is also the author of a memoir, Double Time: How I Survived–and Mostly Thrived–Through the First Three Years of Mothering Twins, another novel, Eden Lake, numerous personal essays and humor pieces, and a very eclectic Substack, Jane’s Calamity.
She MAY be the first
16/06/2023 • 41 minutes 31 seconds
363: How to Hate Your Work and Also Sell It-- at the same time. Episode 363
Howdy from KJ’s office, where I’m trapped because outside these doors, an angry child lies in wait, ready to tell me all I’ve done wrong as a parent over lo these many years. Good thing I had Jess and Sarina to keep me company while we talk about marketing, selling, navigating the socials, blurbing and asking for blurbs and reading blurbs and oh, still writing the whole time.
Links from the pod:
The Flying Pig
The Chain, Adrian McKinty
On Good Authority, Anna David
The Eragon series, Christopher Paolini
Good As Gold, Sarina Bowen
Jess’s daily videos
I’m not linking the dumb lounge
09/06/2023 • 38 minutes 21 seconds
362: Talking Fat Talk and Substack Success: Episode 362 with Virginia Sole-Smith
SO. Virginia’s Substack—here it is right here—which also features a podcast, went from 700 people to 4500 people to 28K subscribers. BEFORE her new book, Fat Talk, hit the NYT best-seller list. Wouldn’t you like to hear how?
We’ve got you covered. Replicating her success? Well, that’s never the way it works. But everything we learn helps.
Links from the pod:
FAT TALK: Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture
@v_solesmith on Instagram, Twitter and TikTok
The Eating Instinct: Food Culture, Body Image, and Guilt in America
#AmReading
Virginia: <a href="https://bookshop.org/a
02/06/2023 • 55 minutes 31 seconds
Flashback Friday: Episode 288 with Joni Cole
How do I find a writing group and what if they’re mean?
That’s a question we get asked a lot, and we always encourage writers to reach out in our Facebook group or boldly throw it out there anywhere else online that you hang out and see what happens. You don’t even have to trade pages to be a writing group. You look for the kind of support and camaraderie you need.
But if you’ve ever thought of hying yourself off to your local version of Grub Street or our local spot for in-person writer-ness, The Writer’s Center to find your people—or possibly starting an in-person writer-connection-thing of your own, then you’ll want to listen to my conversation with Joni Cole, founder of said Writer’s Center and the author of Toxic Feedback: Helping W
26/05/2023 • 1 hour 1 minute 11 seconds
361: Scrivener Tips: It's only taken Jess 361 episodes to deliver on her promise
Jess here. I know, I KNOW. I’ve been meaning to get to this for ages but who has time to just sit and watch videos about software? Not me. However, last week Sarina told me about some of her Scrivener tricks and I realized it’s time. I put my butt in the chair and scrolled through ALL of the Scrivener YouTube videos (for Mac) and searched on #scrivener #scrivenertips and a few other hashtags on TikTok, and I have to admit, I learned a lot. I’m no guru, but I’ve solved some problems I was having with the app. I hope my time spent learning this stuff can flatten your learning curve so you can get on with the words!
Links:
Scrivener
Scrivener on YouTube
Are you itching for a career change but strugg
19/05/2023 • 31 minutes 27 seconds
360: Summoning My Accountability Buddies: Because Sometimes Writers Need Deadlines, ep 360
Jess here. As I’ve mentioned in the past, I know how my brain works, which is to say it doesn’t, unless a hard and fast deadline looms large in my calendar. I’ve been known to tell my agent or editor to expect chapters on a given day, or I plan to have a completed book proposal to her by X date three weeks hence, but this spring, I’ve decided to call in my writer reinforcements.
I summoned KJ and Sarina to a study room in the Howe Library in Hanover, NH on a very rainy day in late April because I needed their help. I needed them to hold me to dates and words and pages, and without being prompted, they pulled out their planners and dutifully asked me what dates to circle in brightly colored ink.
I now have deadlines, and actual human beings to bug me about them, for various stages of my novel-in-progress, and I will not - can not - let them down.
This, dear listeners, is what accountability buddies are for.
Come along for the ride and, as a bo
12/05/2023 • 33 minutes 17 seconds
359: Dealing with Goal Fatigue What to Do When the Goals Aren't Getting You Anywhere, Ep. 359
Dana Bowman is the author How to Be Perfect Like Me and Bottled Up: A Mom’s Guide to Early Recovery. She was the 2016 recipient of the Kansas Notable Book Award, making her the only podcast guest to share that distinction with me. What else do we share? The experience of feeling a level of exhaustion with the goals we’ve set for ourselves and the need to find our way back into the work.
Links from the Pod
Clifton Strengths
The highly competitive Kansas Notable Book Award!
Jon Acuff
Becky Blades episode #347, Start More than You Can Finish: Redefining failure
05/05/2023 • 43 minutes 41 seconds
Flashback Friday: Jodi Kantor Chases the Truth
Jess here! This week, I’m coming to you from somewhere in Indiana, tired but happy. Getting out on the road and speaking to students, teachers, and communities is both exhausting and incredibly invigorating, and this week I got to speak to a classroom of student writers, kids who are just learning about the basics of researching, writing, and even podcasting. There’s nothing I love more.
When I’m in these classrooms, and especially when I’m talking to kids looking to change the world by writing for their school papers as they dream about breaking big stories like the Harvey Weinstein saga, I always recommend Jodi Kantor and Meghan Twohey’s essential text, Chasing the Truth: A Young Journalist’s Guide to Investigative Reporting.
Enjoy!
New York Times investigative
28/04/2023 • 41 minutes 35 seconds
358: Intoxication for Inspiration: Do drugs and alcohol unleash the muses? Episode 358
As a former member of the “write drunk, edit sober” club, I thought it might be interesting to look at the research on alcohol, weed, stimulants and their effect on creativity so we can figure out what’s working for us, what’s not, and weigh the pros and cons of intoxication for inspiration.
I cite a few studies in this episode and, for the #AmReading segment, share a few of my favorite books on the topic of writing and intoxication.
A fun article about the Delphic Oracle in the New York Times
Research Cited:
“Alcohol Benefits the Creative Process: being moderately intoxicated gets people to think ‘outside the box.’”
“Cannabis Use Does Not I
21/04/2023 • 36 minutes 4 seconds
357: The Anxious Writer: Turning fears into superpowers. Episode 357
Actually, there is no action without anxiety. We all feel it, and we’re all driven by it—and almost no one is completely at peace with it. Morra Aarons-Mele, author of The Anxious Achiever and Hiding in the Bathroom: How to Get Out There (When You’d Rather Stay Home), has been working for years to normalize those feelings and the spectrum on which they appear to bring mental health struggles out into the open and encourage people to rethink the relationship between their mental health and their success. We talk about harnessing every degree of anxiety and finding ways to keep going—and even go better—when things get hard.
LINKS FROM THE POD
The Anxious Achiever
Hiding in the Bathroom: How to Get Out There (When You’d Rather Stay Home)
The Anxious Achiever Podcast
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14/04/2023 • 39 minutes 59 seconds
356: Writerly Tech: the hardware, the software and the why. Episode 356
We’ll admit it. We like our writerly gear. We get a little rush from visiting our favorite Vermont stationery store together. (In fact, we just did this last week.) But in all seriousness, we spend a lot of time on this job, so it’s good to figure out what works for us.
Today Sarina takes us through her novel-writing tech stack. She covers hardware, software and the “why” behind the tools she chooses.
Links for some of Sarina’s tech:
Scrivener
Keychron K series Keyboard
Inexpensive ergonomic mouse
Campus binders with removable pages and extra paper
Remarkable 2
Otter.ai app
What
07/04/2023 • 18 minutes 35 seconds
355: In My Expert Opinion: Pitching, Prepping, and Nailing Interviews for TV and Radio
Becoming an expert takes years of work and many of you have asked how you can take that expertise out for a spin in the media. I don’t blame you. From the moment the my first Atlantic article, “Why Parents Need to Let Their Children Fail” went viral in 2013, I was eager to get on television and radio so I could talk about my work, stir up interest in my topics, and hopefully maximize my chances of selling a book on the topic. One decade and two books later, I still pitch producers all the time about a range of topics, and I’ve learned some things.
Sit back, relax, and let’s talk pitching, prepping your topic, and securing media spots on television and radio so you can become one of those go-to experts producers seek out over and over again.
If you love a good writing retreat—especially one that comes with good solid coaching and the chance to m
31/03/2023 • 38 minutes 49 seconds
354: Good Writing Comes Last: the form and function of a solid book outline, episode 354
Jess here, because I hate outlining. Hate it. It sounds boring and feels like an assignment, writing stripped of all flow and joy. I asked KJ and Sarina to help me with this problematic mindset, because my novel in progress clearly needs a solid outline and yet every time I go back to work on it, I feel irritated, frustrated and blocked.
Thank goodness for my accountability buddies, because they came through for me in this episode. In fact, the moment we logged off the Zoom call, I got back to work, refreshed, refocused, and engaged in the process of storytelling.
Resources
Jennie Nash and Author Accelerator
Save the Cat Writes a Novel
#AmReading
Jess: I’ve been watching <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B8NT
24/03/2023 • 37 minutes 28 seconds
Sensitivity Reader Reboot: looking your topic from all the angles, with Jordan Shapiro and Jazz
Recently, someone on Twitter asked if sensitivity readers are still a resource writers utilize and where to find them. Yes indeed, sensitivity readers are still a great resource, and since we interviewed Jordan Shapiro and a sensitivity reader he worked with on his book, Father Figure: How to Be a Feminist Dad. I hope you enjoy this re-airing of episode 266 the #AmWriting podcast.
Hey all, Jess here. When I agreed to read and blurb Jordan Shapiro’s new book, Father Figure: How to Be a Feminist Dad, I was struck by the attention he paid to inclusivity and the language he used to describe it. When I mentioned it to him, he told me he’d used a sensitivity reader named Jazz to ensure he got the language right.
Sensitivity readers are becoming more of a norm in publishing. Jodi Picoult has tweeted about how much she depends on hers to get her descripti
17/03/2023 • 47 minutes 23 seconds
353: Unraveling Nonfiction Research and Writing: Episode 353 with Peggy Orenstein
This week, Jess and KJ talk to journalist, author, and lifelong knitter Peggy Orenstein about research, nonfiction writing, expertise, and examining the unexamined in ordinary life. Peggy’s newest book is , Unraveling: What I Learned About Life While Shearing Sheep, Dyeing Wool, and Making the World’s Ugliest Sweater.
Peggy’s TED Talk: What Young Women Believe About Their Own Sexual Pleasure
Why Fish Don’t Exist, by Lulu Miller
Etymology of the term “woolgathering”
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10/03/2023 • 41 minutes 34 seconds
352: How to Write a Novel in Three Months, Sarina-Style (Episode 352)
Hey all! Today Sarina brings you a fun but tricky topic: how to write a novel in three months.
Should you do it? Maybe. It depends on the book. Not every book can or should be written in 90 days.
But if you’re game to try, Sarina gives you:
4 things you need to know about the book before you start
5 tips for writing scenes more quickly
3 things to try when you’re stuck
Links from the Pod
The Astronaut and The Star, Jen Comfort
2k to 10k: Writing Faster, Writing Better, and Writing More of What You Love, Rachel Aaron
Otter.ai
Becca Syme’s Quitcast and her book Dear Writer, You Need to Quit.
If you love a good writing retreat—especially on
03/03/2023 • 30 minutes 13 seconds
351: A Workbook for Your Story: Episode 351 with Adrienne Young and Isabel Ibañez
True confession time: Sarina and I have always wanted to make something like this. I’m talking about The Storyteller’s Workbook, which is a gorgeous combination of structural writing guide and writing bullet journal created by Isabel Ibañez, the author of Woven in Moonlight and Written in Starlight, a fantasy YA series that’s a hit with TikTok and Time Magazine both as well as a designer whose work you’ve seen while drooling in the paper sections of stores like Anthropologie and Adrienne Young, the New York Times and international bestselling author of the Sky and Sea duology and the Fable series whose first “adult book”, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/1183/978059
24/02/2023 • 42 minutes 24 seconds
350: Writing Three Books Without Typing a Word: Episode 350 with Leslie Hooton
As Leslie Hooton told me, “Some writers have a stroke of luck, I had a stroke at birth,” which left her paralyzed on one side of her body. Thanks to Dragon dictation (not sponsored, we’re just fans!), she’s learned to train her Dragon and “penned” three novels including her most recent release, After Everyone Else. As Jess hosts this episode, we delve into plenty of tangents on dictation, deleted text fragments, inspiration, and the wisdom of Wendell Berry.
It may be that when we no longer know what to do
we have come to our real work,
and that when we no longer know which way to go
we have come to our real journey.
- Excerpt from “The Real Work” by Wendell Berry
#AmReading
Leslie: <a href="h
17/02/2023 • 36 minutes 21 seconds
349: How to Write (More than just) Erotica: Episode 349 with Rachel Kramer Bussel
STOP. Do not think to yourself, well, I don’t want to write Erotica—why is this podcast/book for me? This conversation, and the book, How to Write Erotica, that inspires it, goes far beyond any pre-imagined specifics you have about writing scenes, stories and books focused on which bit of bodily anatomy goes where—because to write good erotica, you have to come back to the heart of writing any story (fiction, memoir, what-have-you: why this story, why this character, why now? Guest Rachel Kramer Bussel knows what makes good story, and this conversation is applicable to any writing that appeals to our senses (as all writing should) and challenges our ability to tell our truths (ditto).
Links from the Pod
Starr**cker Magazine on Twitter
Take Me There anthology
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10/02/2023 • 48 minutes 57 seconds
348: Are You Ready to Pitch? The Answer is in Your Query. Episode 348 with Julie Artz
Your query letter—or your jacket copy—KNOWS. It knows if you’ve got a whole story in there, if there’s an arc of change, if there are stakes, if there’s a why now and a why this and a why her/him.
You just have to be willing to listen. Julie Artz, query coach extraordinaire, and KJ talk about mistakes writers make in our queries—and more importantly, the problems queries can reveal about our stories.
DOWNLOAD JULIE’s 5 STEP QUERY LETTER AUDIT!
Julie's 5 Step Query Audit
Links from the Pod
Podcast: The Shit No One Tells You About Writing
Blog: Jet Reid’s The Query Shark
Podcast: Queries Qualms and Quirks
Previous episodes:
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03/02/2023 • 48 minutes 4 seconds
347: Start More than You Can Finish: Redefining failure with Becky Blades in Episode 347
Okay, some us (hand up here) start ALL THE THINGS. But some of us don’t like to start what we don’t think we will finish (and even those of us who start a lot sometimes beat ourselves up for that).
But if you don’t start stuff you cannot finish stuff. So: here’s Becky Blades, author of Start More than You Can Finish (which—and this is a big deal—was recommended by the Next Big Idea Book Club — and you can listen to five ideas from the book by clicking that link) on why we should… start. More than we can finish. And HOW. And also, how to learn to love not finishing what we start.
Links from the pod:
Becky and her daughter in McSweeney’s: A GUI
27/01/2023 • 1 hour 1 minute 31 seconds
346: Thousand Miles to a First Novel: Episode 346 with Kristen Mei Chase
On this week’s episode, Jess and KJ talk to Kristen Mei Chase, an OG mommy blogger, journalist, former professor, podcaster, CEO of the Cool Mom Picks Network, and now, novelist. Her book, Thousand Miles to Graceland comes out on January 24, 2002, and we discuss the long road to publication for her (very personal) story.
#AmReading
Kristen: Celeste Ng’s Everything I Never Told You
KJ: Charmaine Wilkerson’s Black Cake
Jess: Reading has been all disappointment recently so she names no names, but she remains optimistic and just started The House in the Pines by Ana Reyes.
<a href="https://www.doylestownbo
20/01/2023 • 44 minutes 14 seconds
Flashback Friday -- Episode 71: Building relationships with booksellers with Mary Laura Philpott
Hello #AmWriters! Someone in the #AmWriting Facebook group asked about the best ways to connect and build relationships with bookstores, so we decided to revisit this older episode with bestselling author and Emmy-winning television host Mary Laura Philpott. Drawing on her many years working at Parnassus Books and launching her own books into the world, we talk about the benefits of working with your local bookseller in time for publication day.
Got a writer-dilemma we could help with? Wanna come on the pod and talk it through? Hey, there’s a goal! Whatever you’re trying to do, maybe we can help you find the action items to get you there. Email us—[email protected]—and let’s talk.
HEY NOVELISTS—Did you finish NaNoWriMo? Would you like to know what
13/01/2023 • 47 minutes 44 seconds
345: When it comes to goals, boring is good. Episode 345: Goals--or not--for 2023
A few assorted 2023 goals that I have no doubt I can achieve:
Finish this box of Wheat Thins
Take down holiday decorations before July.
Read … some books.
Let the dogs in.
Hey, look at that. Already I can check off #1. Jess, Sarina and I just aren’t feeling the goals this year. Oh, we have them. But they’re mostly “do that again” or “yeah, stick with that” kinda things. . I’m gonna write another book. Jess is going to promote her speaking and work on her fiction. Sarina is going to write… four books. I think. Don’t hold her to that, it’s just what I remember. More than me, anyway, but happily it’s not a competition.
And then we have dreams for the ways all of that will be received, which we know aren’t goals because they’re out of our control. We’ve figured out that part—good goals have action items, are achievable and can be checked off. You either wrote a bo
06/01/2023 • 36 minutes 21 seconds
344: 2022 in the Rear View Mirror: Episode 344
We make a point of setting goals every year—and, even more importantly, actually looking back to see whether we achieved them, and why. We’ve talked a lot in past years about the importance of setting the right kind of goals (you can get a short PDF on goal-setting and a worksheet below)—by which we mean goals you can control. You can’t sell your book to a publisher—that’s not a goal within your control. Get an agent, make a best-seller list, same. But you can finish the book, get help with the query, revise, edit, spend X time, write X words, write the proposal—without anyone else having to make a choice that fulfills your dreams.
Goal Setting Pdf
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30/12/2022 • 43 minutes 26 seconds
Flashback Friday -- Episode 251 How to give your fun read a solid, poke-in-the-gut point with Anna North
My motto for 2023 is “good writing comes last” but it might as well be “story first”, which is why we’re re-sharing this interview with Anna North, author of three novels, most recently Outlawed—the January 2021 Reese’s Book Club pick. Outlawed has a powerful theme and message and what we call, in the interview, a “poke-in-the-gut point”—but it also has, first and foremost, a can’t-put-it-down story. We recorded this in January 2021, and it deserves a listen any time.
Bummed that there’s not a fresh episode this week? We’ve got you! Hang tight until Tuesday for a bonus episode: NaNoNowWhat. If you finished NaNoWriMo—of have a draft desperately in need of completion or revision—this is the episode for you.
KJ talks to a group of Author Accelerator <stron
23/12/2022 • 47 minutes 46 seconds
343: Friends Don't Let Friends Write Books Without Hooks. Episode 343
Hooks, tropes, high concept. Comps. The publishing world tosses those phrases around like juggling balls, and I for one (as usual it’s KJ here) had a hard time understanding them for ages, especially the idea of a hook.
But now I get it. A hook, in short, is the thing that gets someone—agent, editor, reader, movie-goer, etc—to say, following a one or two sentence description of the book: SOLD. Fiction, non-fiction: same deal.
So a hook COULD be high-concept. (What if a kid wished to be Big? What if you woke up and discovered your whole life was a TV show with you as the unwitting star?). It could also be a mix-and-match situation with a pair of comps or a single comp (Cujo, but a cat).
Or it can steal from something high concept: The Princess Diaries, but with the Japanese royal family (Tokyo Ever After). Groundhog Day, but in Brooklyn with a girl in the ‘80’s whose dad is now sick (This Time Tomorrow).
Sometimes the hook is right there in t
16/12/2022 • 48 minutes 16 seconds
342: It Turns Out What I Really Want to Write About is... Episode 342, from memoir to marketable, with Emily Grosvenor
Sometimes you have to start with a memoir (that you never publish) to figure out who you are and where you’re going. Today’s guest has a nice impressive bio—but 8 years ago, she was just a writer staring at a screen and working on, as many of us do when we first start, a memoir.
Emily Grosvenor is the editor of Oregon Home magazine, Willamette Week’s design publication Nester. She’s also written for The Atlantic, Salon, Good Housekeeping, and others.
But ALSO like so many of us, she started as a generalist, freelancing from the familiar “write what you know” place. New place, children, parenthood, cooking, trying to navigate finding adult life or living with a partner? Write about it.
But a funny thing happened on the way to that memoir: She realized she didn’t want to keep living in that space. And when the memoir didn’t sell, Emily found the opportunity to
09/12/2022 • 52 minutes 29 seconds
341: Talking TikTok (and Reels too): Episode 341 on Video content--the Why, the How To, and is it Worth the Time Suck?
Hey #AmWriters! Jess here. I recorded a bunch of videos to answer all of your questions about creating video for book marketing but in the end, I figured an entire episode needed to happen in order to really get into the topic.
I started creating daily videos based on the content in The Addiction Inoculation because I wanted to the information out there, and if it sold some books or rustled up some speaking invitations, great. At the time I’m writing these show notes, I’m 63 videos deep, and yes, it’s a massive time suck. It takes a lot of work, and a lot of patience through plenty of mistakes but the experience has been a net gain for me overall in terms of education and exposure.
I hope this flattens the learning curve for you, and please report back in the #AmWriting Facebook group if you have anything to add or advice to offer!
Links
The #AmWriting Facebook Group
02/12/2022 • 36 minutes 2 seconds
340: How to Tell Someone Else's Story: Episode 340 with Allison Gilbert
Pain by Elsie Robinson
Imagine discovering that one of the highest paid, most well known journalists in the world, whose voice dominated the Hearst media empire for more than 30 years, who wrote something like 9,000 published articles…
has basically disappeared from living memory.
That’s the story of Julia Scheer and Allison Gilbert’s biography: Listen World: How the Intrepid Elsie Robinson Became America’s Most-Read Woman. The story of this podcast is how Allison came to enlist Julia and finish the project, which came from the discovery of one of Robinson’s poems (and please note this was not a woman who was best known for her poems) in her mother’s papers thirty years ago.
We talk about Elsie—whose writing secrets and mantras sound like things you could hear any day on the podcast—as well as the process of defining the project, finding a co-writer and shifting your own work, and even your o
25/11/2022 • 48 minutes 39 seconds
339: Lit Mags, Grants and Residencies: a best-we-can how-to for an always changing but more approachable than we imagine world. Episode 339 with Patrice Gopo
Ever feel like some things are just outside your ken? I’m that way with literary magazines. And I’ve never found the right retreat or residency, or applied for a grant, and I know sometimes it’s just that I don’t think I belong in that world.
But worlds don’t usually just reach out and drag you in. That’s a fave theme of ours around here—you can’t be published unless you write something, etc. If you want to be part of a literary world you have to find it and start looking around for a door.
This podcast is ALL about finding doors. And knocking, and however you want to extend the metaphor—and it was great. As I’ve said before, you can tell a practical podcast by the number of links that end up in there, and there are a ton of useful links below.
And let me add to all of it my favorite old school book on a similar topic, Making A Literary Life from Carolyn See. I hope this talk with Patrice inspires
18/11/2022 • 52 minutes 5 seconds
338: The 30-Day Revision: Episode 338 How KJ Revised a Novel in 30 Days/189 Hours and approximately 72 Chocolate-Covered Peeps
Many of you have heard me (this is obviously KJ) whine about my revision in process. Well, I’m here to report that it’s done, and successfully. Below is a full description of the process, and in the episode you’ll hear me talking about it with Jennie Nash. I detail everything except the Peeps that fueled me, and I decided it was wrong to leave them out.
So, in addition to a lot of butt-in-chair time and a surprising number of hours spend really just staring the at screen, I should own that I also ate a lot of Halloween peeps and most of a bag of fun-sized $100,000 bars. And I would have eaten the whole bag but someone else beat me too it, and they owe me big.
Here it is in writing, THE LONG VERSION: How to do a substantial novel revision in 30 days
The Overview
I had a long, rambling, completed draft of a book with a solid plot and decent thematic/internal story. The magic system was unclear and the romance undeveloped, and I h
11/11/2022 • 51 minutes 20 seconds
337: Publishing's Secret Side-Door: Episode 337 Writing Object Lessons and Books-for-series with Maria Teresa Hart
Sometimes your first book is a gateway. For me—KJ—it was Reading with Babies, Toddlers and Twos, a book I wrote in 2006 with Susan Straub. Susan was the expert and I was a rising writer with a lesser expertise riding on her coattails. We pitched the book before I had many bylines at all—but adding the words “is the author of the forthcoming book…” to my pitches opened a lot of doors. The book itself was shorter and much differently formatted than standard non-fiction.
Many writers get started this way, with gift books, guides and other non-fiction books that follow existing formats or fit into existing series. (The fiction version would be work-for-hire chapter books or books within a fandom—and we’d love to talk about that if you have guest ideas.)
Maria Teresa Hart is a writer and editor who works most often in food and travel, with a series of impressive bylines that range from the New York Times and The
04/11/2022 • 37 minutes 57 seconds
336: Why You Should Do NaNoWriMo (and how to make the most of it) 336
I (KJ here) adore Nanowrimo. Tell me it’s impossible to write a whole novel in a month, especially a month with Thanksgiving in it, and I will set out to prove you wrong. My first novel, The Chicken Sisters started as a NaNo project, as did Playing the Witch Card (which is probably coming out in Fall 2023).
I… cannot NaNo this year (yes it’s a verb), because my next set of revisions, with an accompanying deadline, will be heading my way in the last week of October. But Jess can and will!
So I offered Jess my favorite advice on a successful NaNoWritMo—the KJ version, at least. Here’s how I approached last year’s NaNoWriMo, and it worked pretty well in the end:
My first novel clocks in at around 107K, my current WIP draft is at 99K. I favor long, convoluted sentences. I like to express things in sets of three—reasons the character is reacting as she is, emotions that are bombarding her, the ways her body responds— or even five: lists, smells, tastes, memo
28/10/2022 • 41 minutes 5 seconds
How Butter Makes Everything (Including Books) Better: Writing Can't-Stop-Won't-Stop Fiction with Theodora Taylor (Flashback Friday)
Listeners, we’re sharing this interview again because if you’re not already subscribed to Theodora’s substack, you should be. We sent you a taste of it this morning on top of this episode. We adored talking to TT, as we like to call her around here—but now that she’s revved up her Substack, every single time we’re texting back and forth about its brilliance. “Butter” has joined our official #AmWriting lexicon.
So, enjoy a favorite that you might have missed when it originally rolled out over the holidays last year.
Notes on the Pod: Who doesn’t want a craft book that’s fun to read and will help you plan your fiction (or memoir), write that fiction, revise that fiction and then sell that fiction? This week we talked to Theodora Taylor, author of more than 50 novels and one brilliant book about writing that made Sarina and I (KJ) go SQUEEEE and then text back and forth frantically for a couple of
21/10/2022 • 44 minutes 2 seconds
335: How to Work with Small Presses and Literary Magazines—Episode 335 with Terena Bell
Listeners, you KNOW we got granular with this one because there are just plain so many links!
Terena Elizabeth Bell has been writing all her life. Her first short story was published in a literary magazine when she was in college—almost thirty years ago, and she’s published many since and won multiple awards. She’s also written for more than 100 publications, including The Atlantic, The Guardian, Boston Globe, Smithsonian, Playboy, MysteryTribune, and Santa Monica Review. Platform-o-rama, right?
But she could NOT find a publisher for her debut novel or debut short story collection. As she puts it: It wasn't for want of trying. Her novel was turned down by 64 agents.
That novel, RECURSION, and Terena’s short story collection, Tell Me What You See were both purchased within two weeks once Terena decided to turn to the small presses associated with the lit mags she’d been a part of for so long.
We talk about the glories AND probl
14/10/2022 • 52 minutes 4 seconds
335: How Productive Writers get it done (by listening Flashback Friday with Laura Vanderkam) (Replay of Episode 116)
If you’ve listened to any of us for any time at all you know we love Laura Vanderkam, author of I Know How She Does It and 168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think. People often attribute to KJ a piece of advice she learned from Laura: People are a good use of time. We think of Laura every time we start to call ourselves “too busy” and then remember that much of what fills our time is a choice, and if we want to do it, we’ll find a way to get it done.
One glorious result—we’re all much better at saying “yes” to the things that are important to us and “no” to the things that would get in their way.
Because we always benefit from a re-read of Laura’s books, we’re bringing this earlier interview out and sharing it again.
Laura also has a new book out: <a href="https://lauravanderkam.com/books/tranquility-by-tuesday/?utm_source=Just+A+Minute+
07/10/2022 • 44 minutes 2 seconds
334: Using tropes and genres like a pro: Ep 334 with Alexis Hall
Alexis Hall describes himself as a genrequeer writer of kissing books. You may know him as the author of Boyfriend Material and Rosalyn Palmer Takes the Cake, both of which we’ve talked about here. But like recent guest Emily Henry and so many others, those successes were far from his first rodeo. Head to his website, quicunquevult.com, to see the evidence. (Why is it called that? You’ll have to listen to find out.) Alexis has written, and still writes, everything from paranormal and fantasy to billionaire romance to rom-com, with the recent addition of genre mystery and historical fiction.
We talk tropes, dialogue and leaning into the the thing you do best then revising for the rest. (And we did it all with a kitten climbing around on my desk, adding to both the joy and the challenge.)
Sarina and I (this is, as
30/09/2022 • 36 minutes 26 seconds
Which Kind of Writer Are You? Flashback Friday with Gretchen Rubin (Replay Episode 107)
Kids, this interview with Gretchen Rubin is just too good not to share again. Find more about Gretchen, and sign up for her always interesting newsletter, here. Want to know which tendency you are? Take the quiz here. And which tendency would you attribute to your hosts? Answers coming soon… (or maybe in the episode…)
Don’t forget that Author Accelerator is your one-stop for getting a coach on board to help you with your work, no matter where you are in the drafting game. Need a pro? Click here. And if you’ve considered becoming a book coach, here’s your link: Click here.
Writers
23/09/2022 • 46 minutes 52 seconds
333: Very Serious About Fun Reads Ep 333 with Emily Henry
THIS EPISODE. “Overnight success” Emily Henry reminds us that she’s not—she published three sad-and-serious YA novels before she embraced her real calling and wrote the book she craved—Beach Read, which she says “I never expected to send to anyone.”
This discussion was so true to our hearts (KJ writing, Sarina co-signing). It’s hard to for some of us to give ourselves permission to write fun books in a world where “things we like” and especially “things women like” are often dismissed as less worthy. Sarina reminded us of this George Michael quote—when asked when he was going to “write serious music” his response was “You don’t understand. I’m very serious about pop music.” And KJ immediately demanded that everyone read This Is Not a Book About Benedict Cumberbatch which is, instead, a book about exactly what we just said. That you should read. Immediately. We’ll wait.<b
16/09/2022 • 34 minutes 49 seconds
332: How to Plan for Fall When You Don't EVEN Know... Episode 332
WHOA heading into fall like
Photo by Gareth Harrison on Unsplash
Hope you’re feeling the fall mojo more than we are. Struggling here, which is a bummer because usually fall is the season that gives when it comes to forward momentum. We, a subset of three, can’t tell if this is a mood that’s overtaken us all, or if it’s life stage specific when you have kids leaving the house, or if it’s just that that the weird weather is taking its toll.
A suggestion, if you too are grasping at momentum straws? Change it up. Have a ridiculous adventure. Sarina and I (KJ here as always) teamed up with another friend and some assorted partners and went… to the Hilton Garden Inn to hear their “house band”.
Because when you tell me the Hilton Garden Inn has a house band, I say, bring it on. It fully lived up to the promise of the phrase. The band was a couple of talen
09/09/2022 • 37 minutes 21 seconds
331: How to Go From Planning a Book to Writing One: Blueprint for a Book Step 10
It’s time to put this baby to work.
What now?
You’ll just have to listen.
This is the last episode in the 10-part Blueprint for a Book Series. Start with Step 1, do the work (we’ll give you an assignment every week), and in 10 weeks, you’ll have a solid foundation for a first draft or revision of your project that will help you push through to “the end”. It’s not too late to go back to the beginning and blueprint your book! Find details on the challenge HERE.
YOUR ASSIGNMENT
Fiction and Narrative Memoir:
Revise everything! Go back through all the steps and make them as solid as you can. Try think about your reader, the logic of your plot, and the emotional arc of the story.
If you are doing the Summer 2022 challenge, you
02/09/2022 • 53 minutes 18 seconds
330: But Does this Book Work? Blueprint for a Book Step 9
If you’re not excited to dive in, something’s wrong.
You’ve got a why, a point, an audience. You’ve thought market, found a way to drive your book forward. Found the one or two sentences that describe every chapter or scene and made yourself consider why those chapters or scenes belong and now—you should feel ready to write.
But are you?
Sometimes we fool ourselves. We think we’ve got all the pieces, but we’ve glossed over the fact that two chapters in our TOC are really about the same thing or the reason the villain took the ship hostage is … because she was feeling grumpy? Today we talk about hunting for those weak spots (when really you just want to run right past them with your eyes averted, and oh yeah we get that).
This is the ninth episode in the 10-part Blueprint for a Book Series. Start with Step 1, do the work (we’ll give you an assignment every
26/08/2022 • 1 hour 58 seconds
329: One Outline to Rule Them All (Even if You Hate Outlining): Blueprint for a Book Step 8
Writing is, sadly, not like reading.
Plenty of writers, including all of us on this episode, write a few hundred thousand words before we figure that out. Because in some ways, writing words about characters you’ve invented is easy. They go for coffee! They banter! And writing words about your non-fiction topic of choice, or the hike you took in the Sierra Nevadas—same same.
It’s writing the right words, in the right order, that’s the challenge.
DAMN IT.
In this episode, we introduce our favorite not-an-outline-if-you-hate-outlining but yeah ok let’s talk about that tool: the Inside Outline for fiction and the Outcome Outline for nonfiction. Long detailed outlines not for you? You’re golden—this demands the fewest possible words describing every scene or event that drives the reader through the book (Hello, Step 7, how we missed you).
Love a long detailed outline? Get ready to boil that down to its essence before you build it
19/08/2022 • 48 minutes 54 seconds
328: How to Drive that Narrative Forward: Blueprint for a Book Step 7
People don’t behave logically, but they are illogical in logical ways.
What makes you want to turn the page? You know how it is with some books—you just can’t put them down. Fiction, sure, thrillers, mysteries, but that’s not all. Non-fiction books can be page-turners too, even when they don’t seen to have a story. What makes The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up work even for people who never actually tidy up? The page-turning, reader-driving illusion that somehow they will. The Five Love Languages? The drive to figure out—which one am I, and which one are you?
Narrative drive is a key element of success in everything from romance (sure, you know the ending, but how are they going to get together?) to memoir to, yes, successful how-to. Your reader should be constantly asking, and then what happened, which means you should be, too. And everything has to contribute to that drive, whether it’s a plot developme
12/08/2022 • 51 minutes 39 seconds
327: What's the Structure of Your Narrative? Blueprint for a Book Step 6
The structure of a book is only inevitable in hindsight.
Non-writers don’t usually notice structure unless it leaps out at them—reverse chronology, say, or an epistolary narrative. But structural choices loom huge for non-fiction writers and are no less important for memoir and fiction (although straight chronological is the white-shirt-and-blue-jeans of structure—relatable, easy to execute and nearly always appropriate). Will there be alternating timelines or POVs? A prologue? Who’s telling this story, and why, and how? When does it start and when does it end?
If you’ve done the exercises up until now, you know why you’re writing and who you’re writing for. You’ve thought about the market–where your readers are and what they want. You’ve drafted some back of the book copy in the hopes of reaching those readers–and to remind yourself of the promise you’re making to them. And you’ve thought about the change that propels readers through a book, which is
05/08/2022 • 48 minutes 48 seconds
326: There Must Be Change: Blueprint for a Book Step 5
I want to believe I can change. Show me how.
The “arc of change” is famous in fiction, and it’s much the same in memoir–but there’s a change and shift in non-fiction too. Change is what pulls the reader from the beginning to the end of every narrative book. Without the promise of change, your reader feels like they’re going nowhere, and they won’t come along for your ride.
In fiction and memoir, the change comes to the protagonist (and offers the reader the promise that they, too, are capable of change. In non-fiction, change may come to the narrator, to a real-life figure, or be offered to the reader, but it has to be there. It isn’t enough that the advice is sound or that a story is true. We still need to feel that journey from one way of being to another.
This is the fifth episode in the 10-part Blueprint for a Book Series. Start with <a href="https://amwriting.substack.com/p/322-find-your-why-bluepri
29/07/2022 • 47 minutes 21 seconds
325: Your Jacket Copy is Your Promise to the Reader: Blueprint for a Book Step 4
How do we make our ideal reader say Oh—THIS is the book for me?
In our first two episodes, we dug down into why we write and how to share that why with the reader. In the last episode, we hung a quick right and got really practical about that reader and how to reach her–in other words, we talked about the market and why it’s important to understand where your book will sit on the shelf if you want the right readers to find it.
In this episode, we’re going to talk about what happens when one of those potential readers picks your book up off that shelf–and turns it over. That means we’re talking jacket copy! You might have heard writing advice that basically says, quit daydreaming about what your cover will look like before you’ve written your book–but we’re not talking about the cover art. Jacket copy is important and drafting it now will help you find your story. It’s the promise you make to the reader–so the sooner you write it
22/07/2022 • 43 minutes 13 seconds
324: Who Will Read My Book? Know Your Market: Blueprint for a Book Step 3
In the first two Blueprint steps, we went high level, talking about your why and your point, and why those are key things to consider in writing the book you want to write–that will reach the readers you want to reach. In this episode, we get practical. Because while you need a why and a point to reach readers, you also need to know something about those readers–where they hang, what they’re looking for, and how you can become a part of it. In other words, it’s time to talk about the market.
This is the third episode in the 10-part Blueprint for a Book Series. Start with Step 1, do the work (we’ll give you an assignment every week), and in 10 weeks, you’ll have a solid foundation for a first draft or revision of your project that will help you push through to “the end”. For the details on the challenge, and to sign up for weekly encouragement, bonuses and the chance to win a blue
15/07/2022 • 45 minutes 11 seconds
323: What's Your Point? Blueprint for a Book Step 2
I’m writing this book because I want people to read it.
Step 2 in the Blueprint for a book challenge only sounds easy. In Step 1, we talked about your why. For Step 2, we invite you to find your point – which is what you want your reader to feel or know or do when they are done. It’s not the same thing! If you want to get all AP English on this, we’re talking about the theme. Or from the non-fiction perspective, maybe you want to consider this your thesis—but they really come down to the same thing. Every book is, at heart, an argument for something – for a belief, a way of life, a vision of the future, a way to solve a problem, a way to make a friend, a way to lose your soul. Finding your argument (and this is something you will probably revisit, hone and clarify along the way) will help you find your book.
This is the second episode in the 10-part Blueprint for a Book Series. <a href="https://amwriting.substack.com/p/322-find
08/07/2022 • 49 minutes 18 seconds
322: Find Your Why: Blueprint for a Book Step 1
We sit down to write because we have something to say.
It’s beginning!
This Episode marks the beginning of the 10-part Blueprint for a Book Series. Start here, do the work (we’ll give you an assignment every week)—and in 10 weeks, you’ll have a solid foundation for a first draft or revision of your project that will help you push through to “the end”. For the details on the challenge, and to sign up for weekly encouragement, bonuses, and the chance to win a blueprint critique, head to authoraccelerator.com/amwritingblueprintchallenge.
Start with why. That’s the title of one of Jennie Nash’s favorite books and TED talks: Simon Sinek’s Start with Why, and it’s what a good book coach will always bring you back to if you get ahead of yourself. Why are you writing this? Fiction
01/07/2022 • 45 minutes 26 seconds
321: 321 What Do You Want to Achieve this Year--and are you half-way there?
It’s the things-that-aren’t in the episode edition of your weekly #AmWriting email! First off, about 60 seconds in, I mention (this is KJ, it’s nearly always KJ) a podcast I like. But then I flake off to look up the name… and forget to ever mention it again.
It’s the Crappy Friends Podcast with Kristan Higgins and Joss Dey. And it’s FICTION GOLD. Every week, a couple of people write in with stories of awful friends and angsty dilemmas and towns that are too-small-for-the-both-of-us and there is a novel in every question and a whole lot of shadenfreudy entertainment in the answers provided by best friends Kristan and Joss. It’s a fun, I’m just here for the hang situation.
Want more? Sarina just texted me that she forgot to tell y’all her BIGGEST achievement so far this year: she writes first thing. I’m going to take credit for this one. I’m a big fan of eat-the-frog first (I exercise f
24/06/2022 • 46 minutes 6 seconds
320: 320: How to Create Your Own Market
This episode is for you if: you’re starting, re-starting or sparking a freelance career with a focus on something you’re passionate about OR you’ve ever thought the heck with this, I’m striking out on my own.
Sometimes the best way to find a publication that reaches the readers you want is to start one. That might mean starting a Substack or a podcast—hello out there, Burnt Toast, one of the best examples I can think of of doing exactly that.* Or it might mean doing something both a little bigger and a little more old school.
When Valerie Kathawala decided to write about her passion, wine, she had to start from scratch—as in, she took a job at a local wine store. She stocked shelves, studied labels and wrote the in-house wine magazine, which led to bylines at other small publications and built up from there. For her it was wine
17/06/2022 • 1 hour 3 minutes
319: But Everything is so SHINY: Episode 319, Coaching journalist Alison Myers on restarting a writing career.
It’s hard to start. It’s hard to finish. It’s hard to choose. Sometimes writers (especially those who have had to step back from a professional journalism job for family or other reasons) have all the ideas and in some sense, all the time to execute them, and the result isn’t wild productivity, but a frustrating spinning of wheels—because if everything is possible, how do you choose? What if you choose wrong? Everything looks like a shiny opportunity, but when you write the first few sentences, it turns out the shiny thing was just a gum wrapper.
It blows, and it can go on for a long time (and even forever)—because when you’re used to externally imposed topic and deadlines, it’s hard to shift into creating your own—and putting in the time you need to finish them and turn them into something real. KJ talks to former CBC national reporter and occasional freelancer Alison Myers about harnessing your strengths and the way you work best to get things done instead
10/06/2022 • 57 minutes 11 seconds
318: Yes You Can Write In More Than One Genre. Here's how: Episode 318 flips the shelves.
Oh yeah we’ve been there. Heck, we are there. Pigeonholed. Safe in our little bunker. Maybe just a tiny bit typecast. Jumping genres can be exciting, scary, nerve-wracking. But it can be done.
Everybody gravitates to one genre or another when we get started. Maybe nonfiction feels a little less threatening—or maybe it feels too hard and fiction is your starting place of choice. Maybe you’ve been writing rom-coms but are sure you have a thriller in you, or the other way around. Are you giving up everything you’ve learned, or everything you’ve gained if you’re published?
That would be no and maybe kinda but not necessarily in a bad way, in that order.
This week we’re tackling the question of genre-hopping, in part because Sarina’s going thriller, KJ’s tackling magical realism and Jess is drafting fiction, and in part because listener and thriller writer Aggie Thompson sent
03/06/2022 • 42 minutes 38 seconds
317: How Writing Middle Grade is Different, and How It's Not: Episode 317 with Jamie Sumner
I don’t think we’ve ever talked about middle grade on #AmWriting, which was why I was so delighted to talk to Jamie Sumner, author of Roll With It, One Kid’s Trash, Tune It Out and the forthcoming, literally any day now The Summer of June, which you should order for your kid’s beach bag right now. (And if you happen to be in Nashville, scroll down for a link to an event next week.)
Jamie and KJ talk about the mechanics of writing and pitching middle grade fiction, touch on the horrors of your first edit letter (and what you absolutely must not do when you get it) and then dive deep into what really makes this genre and its readers special—and it’s not what you think. Hard topics with hope, depth that’s distractible, and the limits of characters with temporarily limited agency who are all about
27/05/2022 • 50 minutes 51 seconds
316: Living with Writer Envy. Episode 316: We wanted to call this conquering it but we can't.
Some of us, which might be all of us, have spent a decent amount of time writhing in the throes of writer envy lately. Can’t IMAGINE what we’re talking about? Never opened Facebook to see news of yet another Netflix deal, or celebrated a friend’s fantastic New York Times review while just a little bit kind of secretly asking yourself where yours was? Well, bully for you. Go listen to another podcast this week.
Meanwhile, we’re owning all the envy—and if you think being successful in any way dials that green monster button down, think again. There’s always a higher bar to reach. What does help? Age, wisdom, beauty (ok I just threw that one in) and a couple of other ideas we put out there at the end of the episode. Come hang.
Links from the pod
Colleen Hoover The Bookworm Box Sulphur Springs
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20/05/2022 • 48 minutes 20 seconds
315: When Your Agent Doesn't Like Your Idea as Much as You Do: Episode 315 with Kristen Green
Jess here. On this week’s episode, I talk with New York Times bestselling author Kristen Green about her first book, Something Must Be Done About Prince Edward County: A Family, a Virginia Town, a Civil Rights Battle and her new book, The Devil’s Half-Acre: The Untold Story of How One Woman Liberated the South’s Most Notorious Slave Jail.
We go into the process of writing a research-intensive historical nonfiction book, particularly when that book requires the author to investigate and implicate her own family in the darker parts of the story.
We also discuss the birth of The Devil’s Half Acre, a tale that involves a lot of chal
13/05/2022 • 47 minutes 55 seconds
314: How to Write a Cozy Mystery (the rules are changing): Episode 314 with Mia Manansala
Shownotes up front—but scroll down, there’s an announcement!
Mia P. Manansala (she/her) is a writer and book coach from Chicago who loves books, baking, and bad-ass women. She uses humor (and murder) to explore aspects of the Filipino diaspora, queerness, and her millennial love for pop culture. She is the author of 2 books so far in the Tita Rosie’s Kitchen Mystery series: Arsenic and Adobo and Homicide and Halo-Halo.
I was excited to talk to Mia because I read my way through hundreds of cozies well into my early adulthood, and I thought I knew the genre pretty well—but in coming back to it recently, I could see that things have changed. Just like in romance, there’s far more of an effort to balance reality with the deeply unlikely yet also deeply satisfying elements of the genre that are the reasons we come: Protagonists we
06/05/2022 • 44 minutes 41 seconds
313: One Man's Quest to Find the Next Big Book Idea: Episode 313 with A.J. Jacobs
Jess here. A.J. Jacobs has long been my inspiration for both writing and writerly mentorship, so I was thrilled when his forthcoming book, The Puzzler: One Man’s Quest to Solve the Most Baffling Puzzles Ever, from Crosswords to Jigsaws to the Meaning of Life landed on my doorstep. I adore A.J.’s work and this book might be a new favorite. We talk about the book, yes, but we also discuss where the ideas come from, how to stay curious and the effect that curiosity has on the writing, and the work of crafting proposals that resemble the final book.
Links:
A.J. Jacobs: https://ajjacobs.com
Kevin Roose: https://www.kevinroose.com
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29/04/2022 • 57 minutes 54 seconds
312: Essays that start light, then hit hard: Episode 312 with Mary Laura Philpott
Fave return guest alert! We talked to Mary Laura Philpott in episode 71–#YouandYourBookstore, back when she was a Parnassus Books guru. And then in Episode 150: #NeverReady, when MLP (as we like to call her) launched her first book of essays, I Miss You When I Blink, into the world—and then again, for episode 163 #BookTourReality.
And now she’s back with a new book of essays: Bomb Shelter: Love, Time and other Explosives. (Read an excerpt here. And here. And then go order the book here.) The difference? Blink was, as MLP says, a book of essays that, together, became a memoir. Bomb Shelter is a memoir that took on the form of a book of essays—essays that went
22/04/2022 • 51 minutes 3 seconds
311: Where Should Your Energy Go NOW? Episode 311--everything evolves with Jess and KJ
Where should your energy go? KJ here, and in this episode Jess and I catch up on what’s worth it and what isn’t when it comes to travel, the importance of getting over any (non-pandemic-related) hesitation around taking the time for conferences and work events and also, in our usual digressive fashion, covers, paperback launches and boots.
Links from the Pod
Sana, a rehab in Stowe Vermont
For info on the Sana Scholarship Fund
Oliver Burkeman 4 Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals
Lessons in Chemistry, Bonnie Garmus
The Harvey Foundation
<a href="https://www.i
15/04/2022 • 42 minutes 51 seconds
310: Jodi Kantor Chases the Truth: Episode 310 is a Primer on Investigative Journalism
New York Times investigative journalists Jodi Kantor and Megan Twohey broke the story of Harvey Weinstein’s sexual assaults in 2017 and harassment and won a Pulitzer Prize for their efforts. Their book about the Weinstein investigation, She Said: Breaking the Sexual Harassment Story That Helped Ignite a Movement, came out in 2019 and the film version will be out this November
08/04/2022 • 38 minutes 5 seconds
309: Nonfiction Masterclass: Combining Narrative Structure, Lived Experience and Geopolitics in Episode 309 with Scott Carney and Jason Miklian.
Like all great stories, The Vortex: A True Story of History’s Deadliest Storm, an Unspeakable War, and Liberation was born out of writerly curiosity and a deceptively simple question: Why would India build a wall around Bangladesh?
I (Jess) spoke with co-authors Scott Carney and Jason Miklian about their collaboration and the work involved in answering this question.
I’ve known Scott for a while, as I became a fan of his work about a decade ago when I read The Red Market: On the Trail of the World’s Organ Brokers, Bone Thieves, Blood Farmers, and Child Traffickers and later became one of those crazy cold plunge people after reading his books, What Doesn’t Kill Us and <a href="https://w
01/04/2022 • 48 minutes 50 seconds
308: How to Love Writing What You Can Sell: Episode 308 with Seressia Glass
Urban fantasy. Paranormal romance. Historicals. Plus the occasional billionaire, and now a rom-com, complete with a cute graphic cover that tells you exactly who you’ll be rooting for and what to expect. What do all of these things have in common, besides being written by todays’ guest, Seressia Glass?
Two things. First, they’re all—as she says on her website— tales of overcoming the odds to achieve love and acceptance–universal desires for everyone no matter who or what they are.
Second? They’re all books readers want. Books, in other words, that will sell.
I heard Seressia say briefly on another podcast that she and her agent had strategized about exactly that. On the pod, we dive more deeply into the balance between writing what you love, and writing what people will read. We also talk about super-agent Jenny Bent (travel back in time to listen to her on <a h
25/03/2022 • 47 minutes 57 seconds
307: How to Be on Bookstagram Episode 307 with #bookmarkedbya
Abby Kincer is a reader and a bookstagrammer, a fun person, an enthusiastic consumer of bookish socks and t-shirts, a user of filters, a wearer of glasses, a possessor of many tote bags and—that’s what I know about her! Because her Instagram is bookstagram through and through, and that’s why she’s here. We asked Abby everything we ever wanted to know about bookstagramming, from how she got started to how she chooses books to how she prefers to interact with authors (kinda not much!).
Abby on:
Instagram: @bookmarkedbya
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/90454496-abby-kincer
#AmReading: (none for KJ)
Abby: The School for Good Mothers by Jessamine C
18/03/2022 • 46 minutes 6 seconds
306: Does Your Author Website Answer the Right Questions? Episode 306 with Anne Le Tissier
Crew, Anne Le Tissier is a listener with a question: What should I have on my website—and how can I get there without breaking the bank? She’s also the author of six traditionally published inspirational titles, some out of print, a speaker and the creator of a rather genius non-blog blog idea that I may just have to steal for myself. We critique her website and offer ideas for making it more professional without learning to code or spending big bucks—because there are some absolute must-haves, more than a few must-nots, and one important question to answer. Listen—and then go poke around on your own site!
Links from the Pod
AnneLeTissier.com
Authors Guild
Squarespace
Blogspot
11/03/2022 • 40 minutes 57 seconds
305: But what if my old boss is pissed? Episode 305: Workplace Memoir with Cate Doty
Y’all, it’s an uber-informative, down in the trenches episode about writing memoir when it feels like your topic is on the lighter side—but of course, no truly successful memoir ever stays on the surface. Cate Doty is the author of Mergers and Acquisitions: Or, Everything I Know About Love I Learned on the Wedding Pages. She is a writer and former editor at The New York Times, where she covered the news of food, weddings, business, New York, and more.
To write Mergers and Acquisitions, Cate had to look at what was in some ways an obvious story—I fell in love at the NYT while working on the Wedding pages!—to the real story of growing up in an iconic newsroom and learning about what makes relationships get as far as the wedding pages—and then get past that one day. She had to find ways to dig into her past, and to write about real people she still loves and respects (and a few she doesn’t). And she had to
04/03/2022 • 1 hour 3 seconds
304: Sometimes You Can't Go with the Flow: Hacking Writing Energies in Episode 304 with Jess and KJ
Here’s the deal: Jess and I (KJ here) have been rolling with different energies lately. She’s letting the spirit move her. Being inspired. Putting time into other creative projects and inviting that to feed her soul. I’m stepping over other projects, telling the spirit I’m not home right now and keeping the spotlight in one place.
In this episode, we talk about when you can—and can’t—go with the flow. How we handle it when other ideas beckon, but a deadline demands our attention. What we do between projects and why. And why KJ puts a meal plan on the fridge every week, while Jess asks “what do we feel like eating?”—but that does NOT mean Jess can’t make a plan and stick to it, or that KJ never follows the muse. (Although, re: dinner: I don’t CARE what you feel like eating. This is what we’re having.)
As always, if you’ve got a pressing writerly question you’d like us to answer or that you might be willing to work through on the
25/02/2022 • 49 minutes 25 seconds
303: Where Do You Get Your Ideas? Episode 303 with Sarina, Jess and KJ
Your first book, we’ve all found, is usually something you’ve been mulling for a while. You second might be the same—so the question, how do you get you ideas, seems both confusing—I don’t know—and unnecessary—I have lots. Nonfiction, essays—when we first get started we’re bursting at the seams. What to write next isn’t a problem—until it is. Or until you find yourself wanting to think about ideas differently—about what you want to write or say, but also how you’d like it to be received and by who.
In this episode, we talk ideas from scrawled capture (where and how) to evaluation and expansion. Do we wait for the time to be right for an idea, or run with it and hope for the best? Who do we turn to when we’re not certain what we have or what to do with it? And when do we decide to settle down with one for a few weeks or months or years, and why?
Links from the pod
Episode 299: <a href="https://amwr
18/02/2022 • 45 minutes 16 seconds
302: Writer De-Snobbification: Episode 302 with Katherine Center
Here’s Katherine Center, author of soon-to-be 9 bittersweet comic novels that have been described as “the best medicine for human souls,” on her relatively late-in life discover of romance novels: “I felt like I’d discovered chocolate cake after a lifetime of eating boneless skinless chicken breasts.”
We dig deep into the process of figuring out what you love in a book and how to find it in your own work, from analyzing other books to the importance of the reading journal, and then we get into the craft of writing books that satisfy the readerly urges you share, embracing unifying tropes, finding the compelling hook and how to ground a story that seems to big to be true by creating real characters with relatable problems in familiar settings. I took some serious notes here, people. I’m going to have to listen again!
#AmReading
Katherine Center</st
11/02/2022 • 41 minutes 16 seconds
301: Do Morning Pages Work? Episode 301: Is this, or is it not, the Artist's Way?
KJ here. Sarina wanted to try Morning Pages, the most famous ritual from Julia Cameron’s The Artist’s Way—a book that, tbh, has never, ever floated my boat, just as my resistance to morning pages—in my mind, a variation on journaling, which I have also never liked—has been strong.
But Sarina wanted to try it. So we did, she in a fairly systematic way and me in what I still have to concede was more than a little half-assed. And now, having recorded the podcast, and kinda-sorta-promised to try this again later, I write these show notes still unconvinced. I already do creative things. I don’t think I need to free up my creativity. Is there really anything WRONG with only wanting to do the thing if it makes a thing—something someone might read, in the case of writing, but in other arts as well? That’s how I am. I’ll knit a hat, but I’m not just gonna sit here and knit. I like to draw but I like to share what I drew. And there’s no better art than making beautiful
04/02/2022 • 36 minutes 39 seconds
300: ALWAYS WIPS Episode 300--Podcast #Goals, Translating Earnings, Talking $$ and Craft and Interview Skillz
300 is a lot of episodes, and we have recorded them. Things we’ve learned—the most famous guests aren’t necessarily the one that have the most to teach us—UNLESS you ask the right questions.
WOTY Recap: Jess: Evaluate KJ: Play Sarina: WIP
Links from the Pod
Everyday Calendar, by Simone Giertz (there is no link on MOMA, sorry!)
It was actually an opera singer who got stuck in the closet. Here’s a This American Life Opera about it. It’s a TOTALLY WORTH IT rabbit hole down which I am sending you.
“Hustle” episode: How to Get Work as a Freelancer
Bomb Shelter by Mary Laura Philpott
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28/01/2022 • 50 minutes 39 seconds
299: How to Sell Any Book to Any Publisher-- Episode 299: More Info Than You Ever Thought Possible with Multi-genre author and teacher extraordinaire Sue Shapiro
How, HOW has it taken us this long to bring you the amazing Sue Shapiro? Sue teaches what is unquestionably THE class on publishing personal essays—her motto is “Instant Gratification takes too long” and her students’ success record is astounding. She’s the author , co-author or editor of 16 books in genres ranging from memoir to middle-grade and including self-help and fiction. She’s a poet, an essayist and a teacher of such generosity and enthusiasm that I could probably just stop talking right now and let her go and you’d still end this podcast going man, I learned so much! Her latest book is The Book Bible: Sell Your Manuscript—No Matter What Genre—Without Going Broke or Insane, and there is no one more qualified to write it.
The Book Bible should be taught in the first session of every writing program or MFA. It’s a how-to on getting publishe
21/01/2022 • 49 minutes 39 seconds
298: How to Travel for Research (even before you sell the book)--Episode 298 with Sarah Stewart Taylor
“Just a little jaunt to Ireland to research my next book.” If that sounds like a dream to you, we asked Sarah Stewart Taylor—author of The Mountains Wild, A Distant Grave and the forthcoming The Drowning Sea, all set in Ireland and the somewhat-less-glamorous Long Island—to explain how she made that dream a reality, even before she sold the first of her books. We talk about why research travel matters, when and why Sarah chooses to use real neighborhoods or locations in her fiction, how she spends her time (hint—you have to suck it up and be a tourist) and why it’s so important to “get extra”.
#AmReading
Sarah: Matrix by Lauren Groff
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14/01/2022 • 53 minutes 38 seconds
297: How to Build a Platform in a Zillion (Not) Easy Steps: Episode 297, A coaching call with Alison Zak
Alison Zak has just been “jolted from being a writer to being an author” with the interest in her non-fiction book proposals—but with that interest came questions about… The dreaded platform problem!
That was the subject line of the reader email that caught our attention, and the problem is follows: you’ve got a great non-fiction proposal—but a relatively small existing “platform”. What is a platform, you ask? Well, it could be an offline community, a reputation, an academic or business space that you’re prominent in, or your reach as a professional writer in other’s spaces (i.e. the NYT, ESPN, McSweeney’s—but it’s more probably a question of online reach. As in, followers on email, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook or for a blog or podcast. Numbers are important, but intensity and engagement matter too, as do being an active part of the community you want to reach, even if it’s led by others. We talk building platform and how to explain the platform you have to
07/01/2022 • 39 minutes 38 seconds
296: [announcer yells] GOALS: Episode 296
Words of the Year from 2021/New words for 2022
Jess: 2021: Organize 2022: Evaluate
KJ: 2021: Flow 2022: Play
Sarina: 2021 Generous 2022: TBD
Links from the Pod:
Oh. What. Fun. by Chandler Baker
Jetpens
Scrivener
Hoopla
Libby/Overdrive
Last week y’all heard me—KJ—rave about the coaching certification I’m working towards with our sponsor Author Accelerator. I have learned so much—about my own work, and how to help others’ with theirs. I spent five year
31/12/2021 • 37 minutes 36 seconds
295: Heck of a Year: Episode 295 is 2021 in review
What did we notice evolving in the industry? What worked and what didn’t in our own writing lives? Here’s our take. We’d love to hear yours—check in via the #AmWriting Facebook group.
Links from the pod
Findaway Voices acquired by Spotify
Penguin Random House/Simon Schuster merger
Storytell acquired Audiobooks.com
The Other Black Girl by Zakiya Dalila Harris
Reading Apps like <a href="https:
24/12/2021 • 45 minutes 52 seconds
294: Butter Up Your Writing: Episode 294 Using Universal Fantasy to Write Better and Sell More with Theodora Taylor
Who doesn’t want a craft book that’s fun to read and will help you plan your fiction (or memoir), write that fiction, revise that fiction and then sell that fiction? This week we talked to Theodora Taylor, author of more than 50 novels and one brilliant book about writing that made Sarina and I (KJ) go SQUEEEE and then text back and forth frantically for a couple of hours. It’s all about the “Universal Fantasies” that give our story-loving brains the things we need when we read—and how to spot those in your own writing to help you tell people what you’re all about, use them in drafting and revising and just generally make sure they’re everywhere in everything you write—literary, commercial, genre, short stories, novellas—everything.
We read Harry Potter for Hogwarts fun and the hero’s journey—but we also are in it for the universal fantasies of “crushed underdog proves self to loathsome family” and “ordinary person turns out to be special” and “loyal friends
17/12/2021 • 41 minutes 55 seconds
293: How to Build a Literary Life: Episode 293 with Zibby Owens
Ever want to know “how she did it”? This episode is our little version of How I Built This, in which we ask Zibby Owens—whose name you surely know by now—about how she turned a desire to be part of the world of books into a one-woman mini book empire.
Zibby Owens is the host of Moms Don’t Have Time to Read, a daily podcast featuring interviews with authors that has over 900 episodes. She’s also a Bookstagrammer with 16K followers, the host of a second podcast—Moms Don’t Have Time to Have Sex—the editor of two anthologies, Moms Don’t Have Time To and Moms Don’t Have Time to Have Kids—KJ contributed to that last one—and now the CEO of Zibby Books, a new publishing home for fiction and memoir. She’s a regular contributor to Good Morning America, she’s been called “America’s Top Bookfluencer” and she has two books coming soon: Princess C
10/12/2021 • 44 minutes 45 seconds
292: A Busload of Books: Illustrator Robbi Behr and Writer Matthew Swanson Take Their Work and Their Family on the Road in Episode 292.
Can a marriage survive nearly a quarter century of co-writing? I (Jess) present exhibit A on the side of yes, absolutely: illustrator Robbi Behr and writer Matthew Swanson. Robbi and Matthew met in college, have been partners in life and publishing ever since, and they (along with their four kids) are about to embark on their greatest adventure yet.
Robbi and Matthew have written over seventy books, initially with their own publishing house, and now with Random House (Knopf). Matthew writes the text, and Robbi creates the illustrations for their delightful picture and middle grade books. One of their favorite parts of being author/illustrators, however, is the part where they get to meet kids and talk about their work and the creative process.
Next year, the whole family will board a refurbished school bus and travel across the country to speak at Title I schools in all fifty states, giving aw
03/12/2021 • 50 minutes 40 seconds
291: How Do You Write a Non-Fiction Book in less than a Year? Episode 291: Coaching Call with Emily Edlynn
Our guest on this episode has a problem—a good problem, yes. An enviable problem even. One that she herself is delighted to have: she’s sold a non-fiction book on proposal.
And now she has to write it. 60,000 words, researched, organized and ready for the editor while also fitting in her day job, raising 3 kids with her partner and all of the other curveballs life likes to throw you.
In this “coaching call” episode, Jess and I (it’s KJ writing, as it often is) help long-time listener Emily Edlynn figure out how much time to spend in what areas: book structure, research, interviewing, drafting, editing—and then how to set yourself up to allow for getting a major project like this completed on time. (We all know how KJ loves a good burn chart - check out episode 175: #HowtoUseaBurnChart). We talk about motivating yourself, strategies for staying on track or picki
26/11/2021 • 50 minutes 25 seconds
290: What Not to Do, Self-Pub Edition Episode 290 with Cate Frazier-Neely
Hi all! Jess here. I met performer and voice educator Cate Frazier-Neely through a mutual friend earlier this year, at a Sungazer concert. I was at the concert because my son is a massive fan of Sungazer bassist and YouTuber Adam Neely and Cate was there because she’s Adam Neely’s mom. When the topic of conversation turned away from my son’s hero worship of her son and toward writing and publishing (doesn’t it always?) she revealed she’d made ALL THE MISTAKES when self-publishing her first book, and, of course, I sensed an opportunity for an episode.
As this is a podcast all about flattening the learning curve for writers, I asked her to come on and tell us all the ugly details about publishing her book so we could learn from her m
19/11/2021 • 39 minutes 35 seconds
289: Why Can't I Finish My Novel? Episode 289: A Coaching Call with Ophir Lehavy
Why can’t I finish my novel?
KJ here, and when I saw that heartfelt cry in our Facebook Group, I knew we had to answer. Because finishing is hard, y’all. It’s harder than starting. It’s harder than showing up to the page. There comes a moment in so many projects when the wheels are spinning but the Matchbox car just isn’t going anywhere.
Ophir Lehavy is a coach herself, working with students to help them find ways to get their work done and feel more successful about it—so she knew the benefits of having someone else try to help you tease out the things that are getting in your way. There are many reasons for feeling stuck or stymied, but they often boil down to two things: feeling unable to take time away from other things, or being able to take the time—but not knowing what to do next.
We talk about both, and drill down hard on moving from one stage of a project to another, when the rhythm and g
12/11/2021 • 48 minutes 40 seconds
288: Non-Toxic Feedback: Building workshops and writing groups. Episode 288 with Joni Cole
How do I find a writing group and what if they’re mean?
That’s a question we get asked a lot, and we always encourage writers to reach out in our Facebook group or boldly throw it out there anywhere else online that you hang out and see what happens. You don’t even have to trade pages to be a writing group. You look for the kind of support and camaraderie you need.
But if you’ve ever thought of hying yourself off to your local version of Grub Street or our local spot for in-person writer-ness, The Writer’s Center to find your people—or possibly starting an in-person writer-connection-thing of your own, then you’ll want to listen to my conversation with Joni Cole, founder of said Writer’s Center and the author of Toxic Feedback: Helping Writ
05/11/2021 • 58 minutes 44 seconds
287: I Have This Idea...Structuring Non-fiction and Memoir: Episode 287 Coaching Call with Emily Henderson
The hardest part about writing a book is … all of it. Or, arguably, whichever part you’re doing. For our guest on this episode, listener Emily Henderson, it’s something like “I know what I want to write about, but I don’t know how.
Structuring memoir or non-fiction (or, for that matter, fiction) is hard, y’all. And I think it gets talked about less in many ways that other elements of craft. We have this illusion that you come up with an idea and then you write it and it’s the writing that’s hard. But taking that idea and even getting it into a writeable shape is also hard. Are you writing a how-to book? A chronological story? A series of essays? An exploration of a big idea through a smaller lens?
You may not know until you try. We talk about exploring all the iterations and then—ironically, since what Emily hopes to do is explore her “Covid project” of running every street in Santa Barbara—we helped Emily build a NaNoWriMo-style “projec
29/10/2021 • 45 minutes 22 seconds
286: Breaking into Television Writing: Episode 286 with Will Morey
Hello listeners! Jess here.
I had the chance to interview one of my former students, Will Morey, about his career as a writer. He has always been talented, and even way back when I knew him in high school English class (actually, since he was eight) he has dreamed of working in movies and television. We talk through his entire career, from a high school screenplay about vampires to working in professional theater, to helping create (and this was a new word for me) “Mockbusters,” or close-but-not-quite versions of big Hollywood blockbuster films, to working as a “Conform,” (another new word to me) to breaking through and writing animated features such as Spy Kids: Mission Critical and Dragons: Race to the Edge and Dragons: Rescue Riders. He’s currently querying literary agents for a nov
22/10/2021 • 40 minutes 8 seconds
285: When Agents Ask You to "Revise and Resubmit": Episode 285 with Mindy Carlson
Querying and submitting is a jungle, campers—and yet if it’s done right, it can not only work out happily in the end, but seem as if it were meant to be. “Meant to be” after a year of additional work, anyway.
Mindy Carlson has just signed a 2 book deal with Crooked Lane Books. The first, Her Dying Day, comes out June 7, 2022. I asked her to come on to talk about her road to publication--because she revised and resubmitted her novel not just once but twice before signing with her now agent. Said agent was one of her top choices and among the first she submitted to, but it was a long road to that happy ending. Mindy tells the whole story in this episode, in which we also talk revisions, when editors know what’s wrong—but not necessarily how to fix it, writing conferences, thriller plotting and more.
Links from the Pod
The Big Thrill (the online magazine of
15/10/2021 • 47 minutes 17 seconds
284: When Inner Dialogue Isn't "Telling" and When It Is in Memoir and Fiction: Episode 284 with Jess, KJ and Sarina
The whole “am I showing, or am I telling” inner debate can be tough in every part of a novel, memoir or nonfiction-with-elements-of-memoir draft. You don’t want to “tell” about the action. You don’t want to “tell” about the setting. And goodness knows you don’t want to “tell” what the character is feeling.
Except when you do. Sometimes a little telling, in the form of inner dialogue, is exactly what the reader needs to feel a part of the story, not just the happenings. Sarina, Jess and KJ are all in for a conversation about how to immerse a reader in emotions, reactions, fears, self-doubt and even self-deception.
Got an inner dialogue question you’re wrestling with? Try sharing it in our Facebook group—and for other burning questions, small and large, email us at [email protected]. We can’t respond to every email, but we might answer your question on an upcoming show—or even invite you
08/10/2021 • 37 minutes 21 seconds
283: Where Do You Get Your Ideas? Episode 283: Turning situations into books with Heather Chavez
Welcome to what I think we’ll designate as a fresh new season of #AmWriting! We are mixing it up a bit this fall. It’s KJ here, and I’ll be doing some great interviews on craft and getting the work done. Jess has some interviews up her sleeve as well, and Sarina will be joining us regularly for what I like to think of as “Masterclass” episodes on craft and process. We’ll also be doing some “coaching calls” with listeners who’ve written in with a burning question that one or more of of can help with—so if you’ve got something on your mind about your writing life, let us know at [email protected]. We can’t promise to answer every email, but if your question strikes us as something where we can helpfully weigh in, we’ll answer it—and we might just invite you to be a guest on the pod while we do.
BUT TODAY, enjoy my interview with Heather Chavez. Heather is the author of one amazing, fast-moving, can’t put it do
01/10/2021 • 39 minutes 34 seconds
282: Episode 282: 40 Years of Procrastination with Joy Imboden Overstreet
The author I’m interviewing today, Joy Imboden Overstreet, holds the distinction of having procrastinated on writing her first book longer than any previous #AmWriting guest—about 40 years. She is also the writer whose essay on her son’s unusual business venture enabled me, in my role as an editor at the NYT, to publish the paper’s first illustration of a personalized vibrator, and I will forever be grateful to her for that.
But wait, I hear you saying. Forty years? Forty? How did Joy manage to make it happen? Don’t worry—that’s exactly what we talk about in the episode. The backstory:
Back in 1975, Joy created a workshop program in the San Francisco Bay area on the her book’s topic: finding freedom from obsessing about food, weight and body size. When she sold the business to her partner to go to graduate school in public health in 1980, she fully intended to write a book based on her work, but—spoiler—things happened, and then more thi
24/09/2021 • 46 minutes 2 seconds
281: Episode 281: Writing with the Door Open (Stephen King May Be Wrong)
Stephen King says: Write with the door closed, rewrite with the door open. In this episode, we dare to ask if maybe that’s not always the case. Does having to put your idea into words and get it into another person’s head weaken it--or force you to make it strong?
Links from the pod:
The Idea: The Seven Elements of a Viable Story for Screen, Stage or Fiction by Erik Bork
Great Stories Don't Write Themselves: Criteria-Driven Strategies for More Effective Fiction by Larry Brooks
Libro.fm
#AmReading
KJ: The Bookshop of Second Chances by Jackie Fraser
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17/09/2021 • 41 minutes 35 seconds
280: Book Launching Fun with Jess
By popular request, it’s the 2021 The Addiction Inoculation Launch Story! Jess fills us in on the weirdness and craziness that was a mid-pandemic non-fiction book release. Her advice includes: don’t try to do too much, target your energy—and ask for help making choices when you don’t know what to do when. We talk balancing an outside and an inside publicist, working with local booksellers for signed copies and larger orders, the challenges of a world with far fewer speaking opportunities and just generally what went right and what could go better next time.
Links from the pod
Nicole Dewey
Media Mail via Paypal
#AmReading
Jess:
The Guncle by Ste
10/09/2021 • 42 minutes 29 seconds
279: Episode 279: Collaborating, Revising and Proposing--What We Did On Our Summer Vacations
Jess and Sarina are back! After a hard-working summer and an August of anxiety (don’t tell us you didn’t feel that too), we talk about how we got all the things done and all the things we have planned, with a fun diversion into how and where to end a chapter to create the illusion of a break while keeping the reader hooked. Plus, a summer reading review that will absolutely add to your #tbr.
Links:
Sarina’s new co-author, Lauren Blakely
Sarina’s latest best-seller: Waylaid
The Idea: The Seven Elements of a Viable Story for Screen, Stage or Fiction by Erik Bork. KJ thought she’d brought that book up on a Writer’s Bookshelf episode, but it turns out she didn’t—so it may turn up again in a future show.
#AmReading
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03/09/2021 • 42 minutes 23 seconds
278: Editing
For that moment when you’ve hit the finish line—and now you’re going back to the beginning and starting all over again in a different hat.
In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
This week, it’s Meander, Spiral, Explode: Design and Pattern in Narrative versus Blueprint for a Book.
In a new twist, you can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Find Episode 10 HERE.
And, for your looking-forward pleasure, here’s the
27/08/2021 • 26 minutes 15 seconds
277: Writer Comfort Reads
Sometimes you just need to spend a few hours with someone who really gets you—without actually having to talk to anyone.
In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
This week, it’s Bird by Bird versus Making a Literary Life. Writer comfort reads from authors who know how we feel and can express it so well.
In a new twist, you can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Find Episode 9 HERE.
And, for your looking-forward pleasure, here’s
20/08/2021 • 26 minutes 2 seconds
276: When You Don't Know Why You're Doing This
Sometimes you find yourself asking—over a draft, or a failed draft, or a sagging outline or just during a really long drive—why exactly you do this thing we do. This week, we turn to some favorites to help answer that question.
In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
This week, it’s Start with Why versus How to Write an Autobiographical Novel.
In a new twist, you can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Find Episode 8 HERE.
And,
13/08/2021 • 33 minutes 34 seconds
275: Writing While White (or otherwise part of the historically dominant paradigm)
Everybody, no matter what box we check or refuse to check on the census, sees life most easily from our own perspective while knowing there are many, many others. How do we write books that reflect the world we live in and all the people we live among—without claiming to speak about experiences we have not and cannot have?
In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
There’s no competition this week, because the books we found on this topic are all helpful, whether you’re a white writer working toward change or a writer who identifies in another way, ready to point your colleagues towards some books that will help them evolve—or a
06/08/2021 • 37 minutes 36 seconds
274: Getting Published
Sometimes you just want to make that thing happen.
In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
This week, it’s The Essential Guide to Getting Published versus 78 Reasons Why Your Book May Never Be Published and 14 Reasons Why It Just Might (which, KJ insists, is WAY more helpful than it sounds).
In a new twist, you can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Find Episode 6 HERE.
And, for your looking-forward pleasure, here’s the whole se
30/07/2021 • 22 minutes 15 seconds
273: #Writing Books for When You're Stuck
Sometimes writing is hard, y’all. Well, mostly it’s hard (and it’s a fun job and we enjoy it)—but sometimes you’re just really stuck and you don’t know why. You need help—and we’ve got books that offer it.
In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
This week, it’s The War of Art versus Dear Writer You Need to Quit.
In a new twist, you can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Find Episode 5 HERE.
And, for your looking-forward pleasur
23/07/2021 • 28 minutes 35 seconds
272: Sometimes Writers Need to Up Our Game
KJ and Jennie truly go head-to-head in this one, because KJ loves a book Jennie loathes. Can she talk her around?
In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
This week, we’re upping our games with The Practice versus The Bestseller Code.
In a new twist, you can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Find Episode 4 HERE.
And, for your looking-forward pleasure, here’s the whole series, dropping once weekly all through the summer of 2021.
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16/07/2021 • 27 minutes 36 seconds
271: #Productivity: Write More Better Faster Yes Please
Who doesn’t want to write more faster and better? And who doesn’t get stuck spinning the old wheels once in a while?
In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
This week, we take on Productivity with Deep Work versus From 2K to 10K.
In a new twist, you can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Find Episode 3 HERE.
And, for your looking-forward pleasure, here’s the whole series, dropping once weekly all through the summer of 2021.<br
09/07/2021 • 28 minutes 54 seconds
270: #Plotting Your Heart (and Book) Out
You CAN write a book without a plot (check out Anne Tyler’s Redhead By the Side of the Road if you doubt me, I swear to you that the most plotty thing that happens in it is the protagonist making a sandwich and yet you still want to keep reading). But if you’re not Anne Tyler (and I’m not), you ‘re going to need a nice plot arc to keep your pages turning—but not at the expense of your character’s emotional journey. How to get to both? How about a little help from a nice book?
In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
This week, it’s <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/1183/978
02/07/2021 • 31 minutes 49 seconds
269: Finding #Inspiration on the Writer's Bookshelf
Cage match! KJ’s favorite book on finding writerly inspiration versus Jennie Nash’s favorite of same. In our new summer series, The Working Bookshelf, KJ and guest host Jennie Nash pull their favorite writing books off the shelf and debate: which is better and why—until invariably, they get distracted and just start talking about the topic at hand. Funny, fresh and full of frank advice, when KJ and Jennie get going they’re hard to stop.
This week, it’s Big Magic versus The Creative Habit.
In a new twist, you can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Find Episode 1 HERE.
And, for your looking-forward pleasure, here’s the whole series, dropping once weekly all through the summer of 2021.
1. Inspiration
2. Plotting
3. Productivity
4.
02/07/2021 • 25 minutes 36 seconds
268: #SummerReading: Whose List Looks Like Your List?
Whose summer #TBR looks like yours?
Call it a game, a competition or just an excuse to talk about books: this week we’re doing something new. Each of us will share 6 summer reading recommendations—some we’ve read, some we’re stockpiling for when our own vacations arrive. Your job is to pick whose list looks most like yours—which of us would you let choose the books for YOUR next vacation? (Fellow fans of the Bookriot podcast, yes, this is absolutely blatant theft—ahem, homage. Love you Jeff and Rebecca!)
The Lists:
KJ
Who Is Maud Dixon? by Alexandra Andrews
Skye Falling by Mia McKenzie
Embassy Wife by Ka
18/06/2021 • 36 minutes 17 seconds
267: #Summer Writing Plans
Summer is… here? Nigh? Here and nigh? The sun is frequently shining, the end-of-year festivities are doing their kinda-post-pandemic-kinda-not thing and soon, if you’re a family type, you’ll have kids home for the duration—and if you’re not, the great outdoors will still be calling, making it harder to work than when you’re hunkered down during a snowstorm.
We talk summer writing goals and the challenges of meeting them, share summer podcast plans and get generally excited for changing it up and taking some breaks.
Jess shouts out the Spotify Deep Focus Playlist, and KJ vague-reviews a book that didn’t stick the landing. (If you’re dying of curiosity, send an email and we’ll share the title, but we decided long ago that we’re a podcast for literary love, not lit crit.)
#AmReading
Jess: The Soulmate Equation<
11/06/2021 • 40 minutes 43 seconds
266: #Sensitivity Readers with Jordan Shapiro and Jazz
Hey all, Jess here. When I agreed to read and blurb Jordan Shapiro’s new book, Father Figure: How to Be a Feminist Dad, I was struck by the attention he paid to inclusivity and the language he used to describe it. When I mentioned it to him, he told me he’d used a sensitivity reader named Jazz to ensure he got the language right.
Sensitivity readers are becoming more of a norm in publishing. Jodi Picoult has tweeted about how much she depends on hers to get her descriptions, language, and representation right in her books articles like this one in the Guardian and this one in Vulture are great primers on the topic.
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04/06/2021 • 45 minutes 33 seconds
265: Everybody Suffers, Not Everybody Can #Write About it with Stacy Kim
Stacy Kim is a freelance writer who’s beginning to see some real success in her career, with bylines in Real Simple, The Washington Post, Wired and more. We talked to her about getting started as a writer, finding her topic and her expertise, and learning that it’s not enough to have a story—you have to give the editor a reason to want you to share it, and the reader a reason to want to read it.
Links from the Pod: Sue Shapiro’s classes (highly recommended)
Stacy’s essays and other work:
Lighthouse Method in Real Simple
hoarding in WashPo
I found Korean culture sexist and stifling. Then my kid fell in love with K-pop:
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28/05/2021 • 44 minutes 15 seconds
264: Being #Edited (is a Very Good Thing)
We love being edited. We love editors. But truth: sometimes being edited is hard. Sometimes you need to interpret things differently, ask questions or push back. In this episode, we talk about how to do that, what makes a good editor and how to find one, how to be edited in your freelance work and—my favorite—why you can’t say your editor is wrong.
#AmReading
Jess: Turning Pointe: How a New Generation of Dancers Is Saving Ballet from Itself by Chloe Angyal
Punch Me Up to the Gods by Brian Broome
Sarina: Act Your Age, Eve Brown by Talia Hibbert
KJ: Malibu Rising by Taylor Jenkins
21/05/2021 • 43 minutes 25 seconds
263: No, Really, It's #Fiction: Writing novels that reflect (but differ dramatically from) your life with Emma Gannon
Emma Gannon is a best-selling author, a podcaster, a journalist, writer of fiction and non-fiction and just general woman-about-town, as known for her writing about the new world of work as she soon will be for her fiction. Her debut novel, Olive, centers on a journalist who loves her career and the many other things that fill her world, friends, fun, family—and is in the process of owning her sense that children won’t be one of those things. Emma, like her protagonist, is happily without spawn—and that’s what we’re talking about on the pod. No, not deciding whether to have kids, you know us better than that—but turning your personal life into fiction—advantages, disadvantages, and what comes next.
#AmReading
Emma: Animal by Lisa Taddeo
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14/05/2021 • 38 minutes 47 seconds
262: #Breaking into Food Writing and Redefining Success with Reem Kassis
Our guest today is a wildly successful food writer who’s fresh off an appearance on Fresh Air—and who never “should” have written a cookbook at all. (Read on for a recipe.) Here’s her bio, in her own words:
I grew up a Palestinian in Israel. I went to an American missionary school and by the grace of whatever gods were looking down on me and sheer grit, I came to UPenn for undergrad, where I struggled initially, but kept going until I graduated in the top of my class and went on straight to do my MBA at Wharton. From there, McKinsey, The London School of Economics, The World Economic Forum and, by any measure, a fast track, prestigious career. But I felt disillusioned when I realized I was following the herd and living someone else’s version of success, not mine. So I turned my back on the whole thing and decided to write a cookbook.
But she did (The Palestinian Table) and now she’s written another (The Arabesque Table). We tal
07/05/2021 • 44 minutes 20 seconds
261: Really #Funny, Real and Funny: Rom-Coms, plotting and finding characters with Mhairi McFarlane
Plotting and pantsing, loving your genre, voice, self-doubt… what didn’t we talk about with Mhairi McFarlane? And she has such a lovely Scottish accent to do it in, too. We know you’ll love this episode.
#AmReading
Mhairi: The Flatshare by Beth O’Leary (aka El Piso Para Dos in KJ’s Spanish version)
Sweet Sorrow by David Nicholls
Sarina: The Price You Pay for College by Ron Lieber (from episode Turning Data into #Narrative)
Re-reading Rock Chick by Kristen A
30/04/2021 • 40 minutes 39 seconds
260: #Writing Without Knowing Where You're Going with Kristin Van Ogtrop
Working on an essay collection? Dreaming of becoming a literary agent? We were all over the map with Kristin Van Ogtrop, agent at InkWell Management, author of the essay collection Did I Say That Out Loud: Midlife Indignities and How to Survive Them and former editor of Real Simple Magazine (which KJ mistakenly attributed to Conde Nast but is really part of the Time Inc. empire). Midlifers, essayists, job-hoppers—this is for you!
Mentioned on the pod
The Empty Glass by J.I. Baker
Nalini Singh, #AmWriting episode The Power of Writing as Play
The Neapolitan Quartet by Elena Ferrante
#AmReading
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23/04/2021 • 41 minutes 24 seconds
259: More Q, More A: Organizing research, handling would-be writer friends, finding great editors and writing classes and the kicker: How Do You Become Liz Gilbert?
We love answering your questions! If we missed yours, head over to the Facebook group or reply to this episode and we’ll try to get there next time.
Links from the pod: early episodes on How to Get an Agent, Planning your work, Keeping Organized, and Getting Unstuck
Semikolon sticky notes
Evernote
Best online writing classes: Rachael Herron, Better Faster Acad
16/04/2021 • 46 minutes 58 seconds
258: Writing While #Broken: Talking Depression, Anxiety and Writer's Block with Jenny Lawson
Writing is hard. In this episode, we talk imposter syndrome, editing, the right headspace for reading your own stuff, why you might need a “nice” agent, reading your work aloud to friends, recording audiobooks in the closet, being years late on a deadline, sending your editor proof of life and the deep inner conviction that people only buy your book because they feel sorry for you. #ohyeah.
#AmReading
Jess: Win by Harlan Coben
Jenny: Klara and the Sun by Kazuo Ishiguro
Hour of the Witch by Chris Bohjalian
Note: Bookriot Podcast
KJ: <a href="https://booksh
09/04/2021 • 38 minutes 34 seconds
257: Become a #Better Faster Stronger Writer with Becca Syme
Who wouldn’t want to write better and faster? I can’t even imagine. Our guest this week is Becca Syme, creator of the Better Faster Academy, author of Dear Writer You Need to Quit as well as other books in the Quit series and the author of the MatchBaker series of cozy mysteries (with such glorious titles as “Vangie Vale and the Murdered Macaron”). Her superpower is helping writers find what they do best—their strengths—and do more of that instead of worrying about trying to “fix” the things we aren’t naturally good at.
Links from the pod
The Clifton Strengths Test
The Ted Lasso blog post
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02/04/2021 • 42 minutes 28 seconds
256: Your Q's, A'd: Stealing ideas, asking for blurbs and the elusive "platform"
It’s part one of… who knows? As we answer questions from our email and our Facebook group (if you’re not part of that, jump in HERE). We answered questions about working with experts, talking about WIPS (nonfiction and fiction, both), sucking up to influencers, being told your platform sucks, Goodreads etiquette and the always popular can you make a living writing (yes, but not quickly or easily).
If your questions is still unanswered, no worries—we’ve got more in the queue for upcoming episodes. And feel free to ask us anything, via Facebook, by replying to this if you’ve received it as an email or by emailing TKPOD EMAIL LINK.
#AmReading
Jess: <a h
26/03/2021 • 39 minutes 31 seconds
255: Episode 255 The Power of Writing as Play with Nalini Singh
Nalini Singh is a romance writer. Or, she was a romance writer until she decided she wanted to write a thriller. Jess and Sarina had so much fun talking about genre hopping and writing the books that speak to you. There’s no requirement that we stay in our lanes, Nalini reminded us. We also took some time to lament our dearly missed in-person writers conferences and Nalini gushed about the joy of afternoon teas with her superfans.
Sarina often points to Nalani’s email newsletter as one of the best she’s read, so we are linking to it here and you should absolutely sign up. She offers bonus content and glances behind the scenes of her life as a writer in New Zealand.
Finally, Nalini reminds of the power of play in writing. She wrote her thrillers as exercises in play, something with no deadlines attached, and offers this sage advice:
“Don’t be afraid to write the book th
19/03/2021 • 35 minutes 11 seconds
254: Episode 254 How to Prep a NonFiction Launch the Jess Way
Jess’s new book, The Addiction Inoculation, launches April 6th, and we talk about all the things she’s done to set herself up for feeling like she’s done everything in her power to make this launch a good one. We discuss the differences between launching fiction and non-fiction, first book vs. second book, non-covid v. covid, when to hire a publicist, turning a book into a speaking career and (as always) more.
#AmReading
Sarina: Spoiler Alert by Olivia Dade
Jess: 1619 by James Horn (watching: Jamestown on Amazon Prime)
KJ: You’ll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey by Amber Ruffin and Lacey Lamar
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12/03/2021 • 40 minutes 17 seconds
253: From Breakout Article to Book: Writing about #Nothing and Everything with Olga Mecking
Today's guest, Olga Mecking, is a freelance journalist who’s enjoyed exactly the version of success many freelancers dream about. She went from publishing her own work on her blog to pitching outside publications, gradually reaching bigger and bigger audiences until her article The Case for Doing Nothing in the New York Times became a breakout success and led to a book contract for her new book Niksen: Embracing the Dutch Art of Doing Nothing.
I know you’ll enjoy this interview—we go deep into building a freelance career and the nuts and bolts of making that happen. We’re shaking things up a little this week, and I interviewed Olga solo, which made a nice break for me from the novel revisions I’m working on, or at least staring at, this week. One thing Olga and I talk about is what it was like to go from writing articles to writing an entire book—and part of the answer was, painful! But it’s still the dr
05/03/2021 • 41 minutes 25 seconds
252: How to Write a Post-Covid Romance with Alisha Rai
Alisha Rai writes fun, joyful contemporary romances about smart, mature people who still struggle to find love. And by mature, we don’t mean old—I mean, these characters make good choices and try to understand themselves and other people, but it’s still not easy.
We talk about those character choices, but before we dig in, we discuss Alisha’s decision to set her current book, First Comes Like, in a post-Covid world with special attention to what it’s going to be like as we emerge from a period of loneliness and loss—and still write a funny, entertaining, diverting romance.
#AmReading
KJ: First Comes Like by Alisha Rai
Sarina: Sweetheart by Sarah Mayberry
Alisha: <a href="https://bookshop.o
26/02/2021 • 30 minutes 4 seconds
251: How to give your fun read a solid, poke-in-the-gut point with Anna North
It’s a freewheeling conversation about writing fiction that tells a great story—and makes you think about the world beyond the story, with January Reese’s Book Club pick Anna North.
Links from the pod:
Anna’s essay on the writing of Outlawed
#AmReading
Anna: In the Distance by Hernan Diaz
How Much of These Hills Is Gold by C. Pam Zhang
Jess: First Comes Like by Alisha Rai http://www.alisharai.com/
KJ: <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/1183/9781101974414"
19/02/2021 • 47 minutes 48 seconds
250: Growing Thick Skin: Handling #Haters, Commenters and Bad Reviews
Does this ever get easier? That’s the question we’re often asked by newer writers in the process of putting themselves out there and worried about how their work will be received. We were unanimous—yes, it does, and you don’t have to spend five years reading every single comment on your writing (and parenting, and intelligence, and everything else) from New York Times readers to get to the point where you can manage even the reviews you most dread without letting them keep you up at night.
We talk types of bad reviews, strategies for coping with them and how to arm yourself for everything your pub date can bring.
#AmReading
KJ: Cobble Hill by Cecily Von Ziegesar
Eliza Starts a Rumor by Jane L. Rosen
Sarina:<
12/02/2021 • 44 minutes 42 seconds
249: Turning Data into #Narrative with Ron Lieber
In this episode, we go seriously pro, talking to Ron Lieber, the Your Money columnist for the New York Times and the author of The Price You Pay for College and The Opposite of Spoiled. Ron shares his system for writing information and data-packed chapters—or columns—while making them relatable and digestible. Pro tip: it starts with “strip-mining” the brains of the top five experts you can find—and, as Ron says, being in the business of asking uncomfortable questions. Other great moments—waterproof shower crayons and how to highlight a tweet without interrupting the reading of your audio-book.
Find all things Ron here.
#AmReading
Ron: Unacceptable: Priv
05/02/2021 • 47 minutes 11 seconds
248: Mental #Chatter with Ethan Kross: Harnessing the voices in our heads for good
Our guest today, Ethan Kross, is one of the world’s leading experts on controlling the conscious mind. His new book, Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters and How to Harness it, sits at that enviable intersection between academic and commercial nonfiction, and in a way that seems to be exactly where Ethan himself—who teaches in both the business school and the Psychology Department at the University of Michigan—sits, right there in the place where all kinds of things intersect, doing research into the ways our mysterious selves affect the ways we behave on the inside and on the outside.
We talked to Ethan about what we call “writer chatter”—those voices in our head that tell us we’re not good enough, smart enough, anything enough to write the things we want to write, and then we branched off into his experience transitioning from academic writing to writing for a wider audience and what his inn
29/01/2021 • 46 minutes 8 seconds
247: #Writing All Over the Map with Jacob Sager Weinstein
This week Jess talks to Jacob Sager Weinstein, a writer who has done just about everything. He started out with highbrow aspirations, as he learned his craft from none other than Toni Morrison and Joyce Carol Oates, and has worked as a journalist, screenwriter, comedy writer as well as a fiction and nonfiction author. In his travels from Princeton to HBO to the sewers of London (really!) Jacob has learned the art of the pivot as well as the secret to finding joy in just about every kind of writing project. His newest book is How to Remember Everything: Tips & Tricks to Becoming a Memory Master and Jess, the worst number rememberer on the planet, can attest that the memory tricks on pages 64-67 are brilliant and work beautifully.
Links from the pod
Jacob’s webpage
The Hyac
22/01/2021 • 44 minutes 39 seconds
246: Historical #Fiction the Only Way I Know How with Beverly Jenkins
Beverly Jenkins is best-selling, award-winning, and still having fun with all she does—in other words, all the things we writers aspire to when we sit down at the desk. But when she first got started, she “didn’t have a clue”—and that might have freed her to do exactly what she wanted to do.
We talk keeping history accurate but still making it entertaining, the joy of placing characters in a particular moment in time, bookshelf placement (“African American Literature”? “Men’s Health”?) and the pleasures of changing up your process for every new book.
Am Reading
Beverly: Shadows in Death by J.D. Robb
Battle Ground by Jim Butcher
Black Sun by Rebecca Roanhorse
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15/01/2021 • 47 minutes 37 seconds
245: #Pitching with Passion with Lisa Levenstein
Hey kids, we’re getting back to basics this week with a down-n-dirty episode on pitching, focused on opinion pages everywhere. We’re talking to Lisa Levenstein, an academic, historian and feminist (and the Director of the Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies Program and Associate Professor of History at the University of North Carolina Greensboro) with two books under her belt: A Movement Without Marches: African American Women and the Politics of Poverty in Postwar Philadelphia and They Didn’t See Us Coming: The Hidden History of Feminism in the Nineties. Lisa took that expertise and those books and turned them into a growing career writing passionate freelance pieces of a kind that really appeal to editors—blending current issues with her special historic perspective on women’s issues.
We talked about everything from subject li
08/01/2021 • 38 minutes 26 seconds
244: Setting Writer #Goals for 2021
Last year’s words: Abundance. Practice. Magic. This year? Generous, Organize, Flow. It’s only now, writing these shownotes, that I see a pretty pattern… which is more that one of us chooses words she wants to embody, one chooses words she wants to shape her actions and the other seems to be counting on the muse in what may be a dubious way. Who’s who? It might surprise you.
Welcome to our 2020 year in review/2021 goals episode. We’d love to hear your plans for the year—and how last year went. Come visit us on Facebook and share!
#AmReading / #AmListening
Jess: Come Out Come Out podcast
Scent of the Missing: Love and Partnership with a Search-And-Rescue Dog by Susa
01/01/2021 • 43 minutes 34 seconds
243: #Fact-based Fiction and Fiction from Facts with Mark Olshaker
A little #AmWriting behind the scenes: as we headed into this recording, Jess texted KJ:
Here’s the lowdown on Mark: I have been a fan of Mark Olshaker’s writing since I first encountered it in 1995. He may be best known for his work with former FBI Special Agent John Douglas, his writing partner since 1995, who pioneered the behavioral crimes unit at the FBI and inspired the Jack Crawford character in Silence of the Lambs. Together they have written many books including Mindhunter, about the role of behavioral profiling in catching violent criminals. His work with Douglas has landed him on the bestseller lists, but he has also written five novels and his nonfiction and documentary work covers subjects as wide-ranging emerging infectious disease, forensic emergency medicine, bioterror, the Lindburgh baby, and victims’ rights. He is also an Emmy-award winning filmmaker, as if that’s not enough AND, in a topic near and dear to my heart, he wrote, produced, and
25/12/2020 • 45 minutes 42 seconds
242: Finding All the Voices: Writing Reflective #Nonfiction with Julie Lythcott-Haims
Writing nonfiction outside the memoir space usually means finding sources and stories that are not your own. Narrative, self-help, history, economics, social sciences, nature—no matter what your topic, this form of writing requires reporting, just as many freelance assignments do. So where do you go when you’re looking for sources? Often, your own backyard—and for lots of us, that can mean we inadvertently only talk to people who share our perspective, and sometimes our privilege.
Nobody knows that better than Julie Lythcott-Haims. For all her books, and most particularly for her latest, Julie has made it a point to draw from sources that reflect the diversity of our larger national experience. We talked about finding those sources, owning the need to seek out specific points of view and how you know when you’ve got it right.
Links from the Pod
Ed
18/12/2020 • 45 minutes 21 seconds
241: Big #Booklaunch Day
Whew! This week, Sarina and KJ (that’s me writing as it usually is) both launched books—Sarina came out with Loverboy, second in KJ’d favorite Sarina series, The Company, while KJ FINALLY and after many many months got to see The Chicken Sisters come out into the world. Notice the different verbs there? That’s because our launches come from very different places, and we talk about that—as well as, of course, ALL the Reese Witherspoon Book Club backstory.
You can grab a copy of Loverboy in all kinds of ways:
🗝️ Audio https://geni.us/Audio-LB
🗝️ Amazon https://geni.us/Amazon-LB
🗝️ Apple https://geni.us/Apple-LB
🗝️ Kobo https://geni.us/Kobo-Lb
🗝️ Nook https://g
11/12/2020 • 53 minutes 14 seconds
240: #Editing for the Best Version of Your Vision with Tiffany Yates Martin
Who wouldn’t want a step-by-step process for revision? In her book Intuitive Editing, this week’s guest, developmental editor Tiffany Yates Martin, lays out an approach that will help keep you organized, although sadly there is no magic wand involved. We talked to her about the big picture questions she asks before diving into someone else’s work:
Is the main story question clear?
Do the characters drive the story?
Do we/the characters end up somewhere different than where we began?
Where does the momentum flag (because it will, somewhere) and why?
Then we deep dive into questions of finding objectivity in your own work, micro-suspense, suspense vs. tension, writing manuals and—most important of all—how important it is to know that all first drafts are terrible and revision is part of the work.
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04/12/2020 • 44 minutes 28 seconds
239: #Writer Gift Extravaganza
It’s the gifts episode! Here are the links you’re looking for:
KJ:
Redbubble ❄️ Stamp blocks ❄️ Stamp blanks and stencils ❄️ Frixion Pens ❄️ Leuchterm planner
Jess:
Planner cover ❄️ Jess’s favorite sticky tabs ❄️
Sarina:
Hedgehog Pencil Holder ❄️ <a href="https://www.officesupply.com/office-supplies/paper-pads/notebooks-pads-filler-paper/adhesive-note
27/11/2020 • 41 minutes
238: Turning #Romance on Its Head with Lyssa Kay Adams
Every writer craves that high concept idea that leads to the breakout book, or in this case breakout series. For Lyssa Kay Adams, it came from that joke women often make about wishing their male partners read romance—and a moment in 2016 when she “just wanted to live in a world full of men who get it.” She created The Bromance Book Club, about a group of men who read romance to understand their relationships and their partners. That became her first novel, quickly followed by Undercover Bromance and Crazy Stupid Bromance, and we three have read and loved them all. We talk indie v. trad, breaking out, building a series, writing diverse worlds and more.
Links from the Pod
<a href="https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a27255036/jason-rogers-olympics-fencing
20/11/2020 • 40 minutes 50 seconds
237: #Reporting from the Economic Trenches with Lauren Sandler
It’s a new #AmWriting episode!
There’s a style of creative nonfiction in which a gifted writer tells someone else’s story. The story of a house being built, or a life in the wilderness—or, in the case of Lauren Sandler, the story of a young single mother in search of housing during her first year of motherhood. Lauren’s subject—a smart, driven young woman caught up in the system because of her own history, and desperate for not just housing but an education, a career, and love and a life of her choosing—was unlikely to ever find a way to tell her own story without Lauren’s help.
“She chose me as much as I chose her,” says Lauren. We talk to Lauren about how that relationship was formed and how, although the act of observing something changes it, Lauren tried to let Camilla’s story unfold as though she weren’t there, even while her own daughter was demanding to know why they didn’t just let Camilla sleep on the couch. If you’re intereste
13/11/2020 • 44 minutes 3 seconds
236: #Shipping Your Creative Work with Seth Godin
We don’t have a lot of repeat guests, but Seth Godin can come on the podcast any time he wants. Seth is a fountain of wisdom about writing, pitching, selling, and building your audience, and his new book, The Practice: Shipping Creative Work, is a great addition to his (substantial) body of work.
Seth Godin is not only the master of the short pithy book of helpful advice, he’s the master of dishing out that advice straight from his brain to yours, as well. He does not have to stop and re-frame. He does not meander about his point. Not one bit. He’s a fountain of quick sentences that wallop you upside the head with their truth and clarity and demand to be written down. Here are just a few from this interview, which you won’t want to miss:
“Process saves us from the poverty of our intentions"
“There is never enough reassurance fro
06/11/2020 • 39 minutes 4 seconds
235: Writer #Tech We Love
Campers, this week we’re talking about a topic near and dear to all our hearts, but most particularly Sarina, whose productivity levels are epic and who is always looking for something that will help her ramp up. We talk hardware and software that makes the writing process easier, or at least more varied; handwriting-to-text, voice-to-text, AI, editing software, citation software and throw in a few other ideas for good measure. Links to everything we discuss are below.
Post-It App: Capture
Dragon Naturally Speaking
Otter
Rev.com
Whitelines
ProWritingAid
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30/10/2020 • 44 minutes 37 seconds
234: #Storybuilding with Jacob Wright from Dabble Writing Software
Have you ever, while banging out a document of any kind in Word or Pages or whatever, thought to yourself “Dang, this would be so much easier if ______.” Every writer has been there, but only a few rare souls actually go on to “I am going to make something that does that, darn it.”
Jacob Wright is that rare soul. Once upon a time, while drafting his own experiments in fiction, he pitched Scrivener on a mobile version, and when they declared themselves content with who and what they were, he set out to build it on his own—a simpler software specifically designed for story.
#AmReading
Jacob: Warbreaker by Brandon Sanderson
KJ: The Queen of the Night by Alexander Chee
Sarina: <a href="https://
23/10/2020 • 37 minutes 45 seconds
233: #TruthsAndMisdemeanors, Lacy Crawford on the gauntlet of legal & fact-checking
When I (Jess here) interviewed Lacy Crawford about her new memoir Notes on a Silencing, we discussed the complex and often contradictory goals of publishers’ legal departments and fact checkers at periodicals such as Condé Nast/Vanity Fair, where Lacy’s first serial excerpt was published. An article on nonfiction book fact checking (or the lack thereof) published in Esquire (by Emma Copley Eisenberg) made the rounds online in August, and many readers were surprised to discover that publishers don’t fact check the books they publish. In fact, a standard clause in nonfiction book contracts indemnifies t
16/10/2020 • 44 minutes 23 seconds
232: Smart, #Versatile and Writing all the Things with Morgan Jerkins
A book of essays. A memoir that’s truly a family history and an American history. And—soon—a novel. Morgan Jerkins talks starting a writing career as a millennial, the privileges necessary to survive (financially) in New York City while pursuing a writing career and fighting the urge to let other people decide whether to take your work seriously.
We cover so much ground in this interview, from #publishingpaidme to interviewing skills to figuring out how much of your self belongs in your work, that we barely even grazed the surface of how much Morgan’s current book, Wandering in Strange Lands: A Daughter of the Great Migration Reclaims Her Roots, taught her—and teaches the reader—about Black American history and how hidden it still remains from most of us of any heritage. If you enjoyed Isabel Wilkerson’s The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of Amer
09/10/2020 • 46 minutes 22 seconds
231: #FindYourReaders with Dara Kurtz
It’s an age-old question: how do you build a platform big enough so publishers take notice? This week we interview Dara Kurtz, author of one self-published book and one traditionally published book. She shares her considerable, deliberate efforts to build her online readership for her site, Crazy Perfect Life, and translate fans of her website and Facebook group content into purchasers for her second book, I am My Mother’s Daughter. Buckle up and dust off your spreadsheet skills, because this woman loves data.
You can find out more about Dara on her website and on her podcast, Thrive.
#AmReading
Dara: She’s re-reading her own book, which is helpful for doing media around publication, as w
02/10/2020 • 42 minutes 38 seconds
230: So You Wanna Be a #Bookcoach with Jennie Nash
It’s—a podcast episode! With Jennie Nash, so you already know you’re going to love it and I don’t need to say any more. Sarina and I had a great time talking nitty gritty book coaching details with Jennie from a different perspective—what if you want to BE a book coach?
But don’t worry if that’s not of interest—this episode will still inspire you to take a professional approach to your work, whatever it is, to think about money and value differently and find some changes that will help you wherever you are and whatever you’re working on.
As for book coaching—I (this is KJ) recently volunteered for the Women Fiction Writer’s Association’s fall pitch event, helping writers polish their 50 word pitches before they had a chance to pitch agents—and it was so much more satisfying than I thought it would be, for a lot of reasons. Helping people—yay. SO MUCH EASIER to see things in other people’s work than in your own, also true. And then there
25/09/2020 • 40 minutes 25 seconds
229: #Interviewing with NPR's Celeste Headlee
It’s a madcap, free-ranging episode where we go from figuring out how to get your important work done (and quit doom-scrolling through your phone) to embracing that same phone for its best use: nourishing conversations with the people you love and then launch into some fantastic tips for interviewing experts (or podcast guests!) that you won’t want to miss.
Links from the pod and the scoop on our guest: Celeste Headlee is an NPR journalist and the author of three books:
Do Nothing
We Need to Talk
Heard Mentality
Celeste talks about the danger of working from home with Mary Elizabeth Williams
18/09/2020 • 46 minutes 35 seconds
228: #Embedded with Jeff Selingo
Not everybody wants an author hanging around their office all day.
Our guest is a best-selling education writer Jeff Selingo, already an expert on college and higher education who took that one step further for his latest: Who Gets In and Why: A Year Inside College Admissions. Jeff managed to embed himself in three admissions offices to write this book, a feat that will boggle the mind of anyone familiar with the industry (and it is an industry, make no mistake).
We talk pitching and selling the book, lining up the admissions offices and then dancing the delicate dance of writing honestly about people and places that have opened themselves up to your critical gaze, finding students to become part of your story and balancing the stories you tell—plus all the minutia of getting those stories, from consent forms to pseudonyms to not changing
11/09/2020 • 44 minutes 49 seconds
227: The Joy of #Self-Promotion: promoting yourself and your work
It’s the topic every author seems to love to hate: self-promotion. Sharing our work on social media, pitching ourselves to podcasts and reaching out to friends and colleagues to ask them to boost us up in various ways can feel hard—but it shouldn’t. It’s part of the deal—and the people around you don’t mind. In fact, they want to know when you have a new book or article out, especially if you’re a regular and generous supporter of the good work the people around you are doing as well.
We talk about getting past the emotional hurdle here, and then we talk about the how best to get the job done—best practices for self-promotion and a lovely list of “Glamour Don’ts” for those who are worried about getting it wrong.
Links from the Podcast
sharelinkgenerator
#AmReading
Sarina: </str
04/09/2020 • 42 minutes 43 seconds
226: Writing #ownvoices while respecting others, with Lauren Ho
Lauren Ho is the author of the debut novel Last Tang Standing, which is getting HUGE buzz. It’s been called Bridget Jones meets Crazy Rich Asians, and it does deliver on that promise. Lauren is our very first guest to join us from Singapore, and it’s very late at night there but she managed to hold her own. We talk lawyers-turned-writers, selling a book from outside the US and UK, Goodreads reviews and the challenges and advantages of writing characters (not necessarily POV characters, but still voices that have a place in your story) from perspectives that aren’t your own.
#AmReading
Lauren:
Sex and Vanity by Kevin Kwan
A Good Family by A.H. Kim
<a href="https://book
28/08/2020 • 53 minutes 57 seconds
225: Get #ComfortablewithWeird How visualization and imagery help writers connect with readers, with Julie Berry
Our guest this week is children’s fiction and YA author Julie Berry, and here’s why: she gave a talk at a conference about visualizing and imagery that Sarina has “been thinking about for 7 years.” That should tell you how much gold there is in this episode—all kinds of useful stuff about how we use images and senses to spark our own creativity and build a connection with our readers in every genre. We think you’ll love it.
#AmReading
Julie: The Witch of Blackbird Pond by Elizabeth George Speare
Beauty by Robin McKinley
The Blue Sword by Robin McKinley
The Hero and the Crown by Robin McKinley
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21/08/2020 • 38 minutes 4 seconds
224: From Mr. Rogers to #RealityTVJournalism with Andy Dehnart
We’ve got a great interview for you today with a freelance journalist who does a different kind of work than any of us ever have—out in the field reporting on his favorite subject: reality adventure TV on trips rife with travel and danger and expense reports. I think you’ll love it.
We talk about finding your topic and making that topic, well, topical by looking for what’s happening within the world you’re covering that reflects what’s happening outside of it. We also discuss MFAs (he’s a fan), email (not so much) and how to keep from “opening your email and letting somebody else dictate what you do with your time.”
Links from the Podcast
fresh.ink
Longform on Twitter
#AmReading
Andy: <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/1183
14/08/2020 • 49 minutes 40 seconds
223: #MythBusting: We take a bunch of myths about writing and tear them all up and throw them away
Write every day. Don’t read fiction while you’re writing fiction. My way or the highway. In a burst of frustration, we’re reminding ourselves—and you—that there’s no one way to get this job done, and if your way is counter to what some of the greats might tell you (we’re looking at you, Stephen King, even though we love you), that doesn’t mean it won’t work.
A few links from the episode:
Minisode: #AmQuerying: How to write a fiction query letter that makes an agent ask for more
Becca Syme: https://betterfasteracademy.com/beccasyme/
Rachel Hawkins/Erin Sterling @LadyHawkins
Me, Writing Books: MAN, I hope this is not stupid!! Me, READING books/watching TV/consuming basically any media: THIS IS SO STUPI
07/08/2020 • 43 minutes 57 seconds
222: #HomagetoJane with Sonali Dev
Hey campers—I hate reading you all a canned intro to our authors every time, so I’m winging it with our guest, Sonali Dev. I’m a fan of hers, so I feel like I know all the things. She’s the author of four straight-up romances, but her last-book-but one is the start of a series written in homage to Jane Austen, as is her latest, both set among the members of a politically ambitious Indian family in California. Why Jane Austen? Because, as Sonali says, “those were the first books I read about women wanting things and getting them. Instead of ending up crazy or dead.”
We talk the pros and cons of writing from such revered material, whether readers are “looking for Lydia,” the need to make your heroine “likeable” (pro tip: the female Darcy is hard sledding) and supplying recipes for hungry readers.
Links from the pod:
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/sonali.dev
31/07/2020 • 43 minutes 12 seconds
221: #FeelingExposed in Memoir and Fiction
This week, Jess got a message from some family members who’d read the draft of her forthcoming book, The Addiction Innoculation. They had … thoughts.
Those thoughts turned out to be nothing drastic—but the emotional roller coaster Jess rode while waiting to hear more was a doozy, and got us all thinking about how much of ourselves is exposed when we write non-fiction with a memoir element, how real memoirists do it, and how often readers—especially those closest to you—read our fiction looking for hidden truths. It’s a fun conversation that also covers pool floats, parents, dream offices we probably wouldn’t use and more.
Links from the Podcast
Yard Pods
Don’t Kill the Birthday Girl by Sandra Beasley
<a href="https://bookshop.org/a/1183/978150
24/07/2020 • 43 minutes 54 seconds
220: #ComedicMemoir with Kari Lizer
Kari Lizer is best known for her work in television, as writer and co-executive producer of Will & Grace and the creator of The New Adventures of Old Christine. When her essays about parenting took the shape of a book, she found that her real life provided more than enough material for a comedic memoir. Aren’t You Forgetting Someone? has it all - chickens, Kate Middleton’s bangs, psychics, and the promise of happy endings.
#AmReading
Jess: Beach Read by Emily Henry
Sarina: The Worst Best Man by Mia Sosa
Kari: Olive, Again by Elizabeth Strout
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17/07/2020 • 34 minutes 15 seconds
219: Find Your Character's #WishSong with Susan Wiggs
We have trouble believing you haven’t already heard of our guest this week, Susan Wiggs, but just in case—she’s the author of many many novels, a multiple #1 New York Times bestseller and an overall amazing storyteller. Her current novel, The Lost and Found Bookshop, is on sale now and her most recent bestseller, The Oysterville Sewing Circle, is just out in paperback.
We talk crafting a story, starting from the emotional journey versus the physical plot, building a character, choosing a setting and our collective addiction to writing books, and Susan reveals that she does indeed read fiction while she’s writing fiction—and it’s a good thing, too, because her reading list is long indeed.
Links from the Pod
Writing the Blockbuster Novel by A
10/07/2020 • 43 minutes 51 seconds
218: The #Indie-TraditionalTradeoff
This episode springs from a question asked in the #AmWriting Facebook group (if you’re not in it, you should be): Sarina has talked about her decision to be independently published, but we’ve never heard from Jess and KJ about why they go the traditional route.
We discuss the three things you should think about when making the Indie/Traditional call, why you need to think hard about airport bookstores and finding the print ratio—and the good and bad reasons for making this choice.
#AmReading
Sarina: Boyfriend Material by Alexis Hall
KJ: The Exit Strategy by Lainey Cameron
Jess: <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/1183/9781250256430"
03/07/2020 • 44 minutes
217: #HowtoGetOnThatPodcast with Lauren Passell
You listen to podcasts. You love podcasts. (Perhaps we’re assuming here, but after all, we ARE a podcast.) And you’re a writer, with books or articles or ideas or other projects you want to get out into the world. Which just might mean you’ve imagined yourself as a guest on a podcast, sharing your work. (It’s the writer version of the sportscaster doing an imaginary play-by-play while a kid shoots hoops—we imagine ourselves being interviewed by our favorite podcasters.)
This week’s guest, Lauren Passell, can help with that. She loves podcasts (she even created a weekly email that’s essentially a love letter to the big, the small, the great and the weird in the podcast world: Podcast, the Newsletter). And she loves writers. And she loves connecting writers with podcasts, so much so that she’s turned it into her business: TINK Media, a PR company specializing in podcasts. We talk about creating a podcast-worthy story, fi
26/06/2020 • 48 minutes 51 seconds
216: #TheBiggestBluff with Maria Konnikova
This week we talk to Maria Konnikova about her new book, The Biggest Bluff: How I Learned to Pay Attention, Master Myself, and Win.
After a series of devastating health and financial setbacks, Konnikova, a former New Yorker staffer whose other books include Mastermind: How to Think Like Sherlock and The Confidence Game: Why We Fall for It…Every Timeset out to understand how luck, skill and human behavior contribute to the trajectory of our lives. Though she’d never played a hand of poker in her life, she convinced Poker Hall of Fame inductee Erik Seidel to become her coach. Konnikova quit her job at the New York
22/06/2020 • 44 minutes 41 seconds
215: #TheSocialBookLaunch
This week, the How to Launch a Book series continues with everyone’s favorite: book launching on social media.
Twitter. Instagram. Canva. PicMonkey. Crello. Pinterest. Linked In. Head blowing up yet? We talk about planning your launch social media, how to use social media and image-creating apps to share and promote and why you shouldn’t feel one bit like you’re talking about your book too much when you’re launching it into the world.
We also fall apart a bit, here and there, because these are falling apart times, and we feel it.
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KJ: Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens
Jess: The Secret History by Donna Tar
12/06/2020 • 46 minutes 37 seconds
214: Learning to Be #GenreFlexible with Catherine Newman
Why stick to any one genre? Our guest this week is Catherine Newman: memoirist, middle grade novelist, etiquette columnist and now the author of How to Be a Person: 65 Highly Useful, Super-Important Things to Learn Before You’re Grown-Up. While she’s at it, she writes a cooking blog, co-authored a book on crafts for kids and edits ChopChop, a kids cooking magazine. And she pens frequent funny essays for everything from O to the New York Times to the Cup of Jo website. In other words, she’s putting a pastiche of writing together and making it work with an insouciant disregard for any and all advice about self-branding or owning an niche or sticking to one topic or identity.
In fact, I’d argue that “insouciant disregard” might just BE her brand.
This episode also includes the immortal words “I’ve never had to kill anything during the podc
05/06/2020 • 52 minutes 39 seconds
213: Book Launching Fun with #GoodreadsAmazonBookBub
When your book launches, you want to meet your readers where they are: anywhere people are talking about—or better yet, buying—books. Of course we want to support our local Indies (that’s why the links here are all to Bookshop.org)—but if there are readers on Amazon, we’re going to be there too. This week, we’re talking about how to get yourself set up on Amazon, Goodreads and Bookbub—and why you absolutely should.
For more info, check out our past Writer Top Fives on setting up your Amazon, Goodreads and Bookbub pages. Usually, Top Fives and Minisodes go out to our supporters, but we’ve made these three available to everyone—because the info in them is so great, and maybe a l
29/05/2020 • 47 minutes 58 seconds
212: Don't Just Say #TheBookWasBetter
She might just have the perfect job. This week, Jess and I interview Abbe Wright, Senior Editor at ReadItForward.com and co-host of The Adaptables, a podcast that hashes over every detail of the movies and shows that are adapted from the books we love.
Links from the pod:
I wanted to break up. Then he got a tattoo of my name.
Read It Forward Podcast
The Adaptables
The Longform Podcast
Bookbento (Read It Forward’s Instagram)
Li
22/05/2020 • 42 minutes 31 seconds
211: #WriterGoals, Pandemic Version
Back in December 2019, we set #WriterGoals for 2020.
We had no idea. This week, we go back in and revisit—which goals still stand? Which do we have to let go, and which just don’t feel right any more? Was there any point in setting these goals in the first place?
In the end, we decide (not very cheerfully, it has to be admitted) that while our goals are necessarily changing, they’re always worth setting and revisiting. We’ll all be settling down to think differently about what we hope for in what’s left of 2020.
Are you revising your 2020 goals, or sticking to plan A? Head over to the #AmWriting Facebook group and tell us about it.
#AmReading
KJ: Undercover Bromance by Lyssa Kay Adams
The Body in t
15/05/2020 • 41 minutes 41 seconds
210: #DontOverthinkIt
Our guest today is Anne Bogel, most recently the author of Don’t Overthink It, which came out on March 3, 2020. Followers of this podcast who’ve taken my advice may have checked out her podcast, What Should I Read Next, where she talks books, reading and recommendations with guests—because I’m a huge fan. Anne is also the author of I’d Rather Be Reading and Reading People: How Seeing the World Through the Lens of Personality Changes Everything, the host of a second podcast, One Great Book and the blogger behind the Modern Mrs. Darcy.com.
We talk about genres, owning your expertise, finding your voice and launching a book in a global pa
08/05/2020 • 44 minutes 7 seconds
209: #StartYourWriterThing
This week, it’s Jess and I (KJ) talking to Olivia and Meghan from the Marginally podcast, which we love for its frank conversations about challenges and setbacks and day jobs and the struggle to keep your butt in the chair (sound familiar?).
We talked about finding your writing people, the joys of keeping that day job, and the things that grow from grabbing a friend and starting the thing you wish someone else would start.
#AmWriting
Meghan: Followers by Megan Angelo
The Glass Hotel by Emily St John Mandel
Olivia: Emma by Jane Austen (and all the movies)
Independence Square by A.D. Miller
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01/05/2020 • 54 minutes 21 seconds
208: How to Blend a #CozyThriller
Do mystery and thriller writers ever “pants” their stories? What’s it like to give a dark protagonist some elements of your own history? How much fun is it to fill a book with references to all of your favorite books ever?
We cover those things and more with author Peter Swanson, whose new book, Eight Perfect Murders, is a hybrid of psychological thriller and who-dunnit that all three of us loved. Also on the docket: we name our top three most terrifying children’s picture books.
FIND OUT MORE ABOUT OUR GUEST:
https://www.peter-swanson.com
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KJ: Bringing Down the Duke by Evie Dunmore
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24/04/2020 • 38 minutes 16 seconds
207: #ProfessionallyMarried—for life
Hey #AmWriting Listeners. It’s April 13, 2020, and this episode, like the last, is a throwback to a simpler time, when we left our homes without masks and took baristas and lattes and a whole lot of other things for granted. So it may feel jarring that we’re not discussing the current situation, but at the time there was little to discuss—and we wouldn’t have, anyway, because our guests, Greer Hendricks and Sarah Pekkanen, had so much fantastic advice to share about co-writing, writing suspense and just writing in general. They were a blast to talk to, and we hope they’re hard at work on a new thriller via Google docs.
If you’re hard at work on a project—or would like to be—our sponsor, Author Accelerator, has some free resources for this tough time, including a free ebook—The brilliantly titled Writer’s Guide to Agony and Defeat, writing resources for families and an upcoming webinar with creativity coach Jennifer Louden that’s just what every writer needs:
17/04/2020 • 42 minutes 38 seconds
206: #YouCanDoIt (even now)
Hey campers, KJ here. In this week’s episode, we talk to the brilliant Jessica Abel, a creativity coach extraordinaire, about how to get past whatever’s stopping you and develop a sustainable creative life. In so many ways, it’s a timely episode, and it WILL inspire you to get in there and get some work done.
But it may also inspire you to wonder what planet we are living on, as we lightly discuss such exotic activities as driving children to school and going to work. Sorry. That was Planet February, also known as the good old days. We were prerecording for some planned travel that—well, you know the drill. As we press go on this episode, life has changed for all of us—but in every other way, this call to creative action is completely timely. So take a break from the news and revel in it. It’s also a great time to check out our sponsor, Author Accelerator, where you’ll find a free seven-day writing challenge that can help you narrow in on the project you want
10/04/2020 • 44 minutes 3 seconds
205: How to Create #MarketingMojo
Hey writers—super-practical episode this week! Call it part two of the Sarina coaches KJ through her book launch series. This week, it’s the #MarketingMojo page—things you’ll need as you market your book no matter what the book is or when it launches. This is the road to creating things like back-of-the-book or flap copy, ad copy, social media post copy and more, for fiction and non-fiction both.
We go in deep in the podcast, but here’s a quick primer, starting with the easiest and building up to the biggest challenges. Sarina suggests creating a Google doc with the following:
Praise for the book/General praise for you and your work. Why? People buy things because of the emotions they’re expecting to feel. The praise you get from others—or the praise you’re hoping for, which is another way to approach this—is a shortcut to what emotions people have when reading your work.
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03/04/2020 • 46 minutes 56 seconds
204: ##HowtoGetPastWritersBlock(slowly)
Feeling a wee bit stuck? Struggling to get anything on the page? Well, we all are—and not only does this week’s guest know from writer’s block (her last book came out in 2004), but she gave a raging case of it to her protagonist in her new novel, which allowed her—and us—to really dig in deep into what happens when the words don’t come.
Join KJ and Sarina as we talk to Laura Zigman, author of Separation Anxiety (a perfect book for this moment, all about how we’re all, every single last one of us no matter how weird or obnoxious or even put-together-seeming, just doing the best we can with what we’ve got) about writing funny, the edge between humor and empathy, and how life can get in the way of publishing even when it seems like you’re on the right track.
#AmReading
Jess:
The Splendid and the Vile: A Saga of Churchill, Fami
27/03/2020 • 46 minutes 9 seconds
203: #HowtoWorkAnyway
Well, fellow writers, when we recorded this we were just at the beginning of it all. It’s safe to say things have already changed—all of us have families at home, we’re all shut down, with noisy houses full of people trying in various ways to work online.
We went from “trying to work anyway” through “I give up for a few days” and now we’re back to “trying to work anyway.” So this advice still applies—we’re setting small goals, giving ourselves schedules as best we can, and trying to strike that balance between cutting ourselves necessary slack and still trying to be who we want to be as writers.
It’s true that this keeps happening:
And when it does, we’re trying to find things we CAN do with absolutely zero attention span. Like share our friends’ books on Instagram. Or record a podcast about how crazy we feel. Which we will keep doing. So, same time, next week?
Now’s actually
20/03/2020 • 38 minutes 47 seconds
202: #WebsiteRevampHowto
Hey listeners! It’s been a mad mad mad week here (all of you in the future, check the date), and I bet there too. Result: there are no shownotes for this episode. We’re talking about
revamping my website to get it in gear for my forthcoming second book. Here’s the image we mention—the before—and for the after (which is still in progress), head over to my site and see what you think. Any questions, shoot me an email ([email protected] or reply to this.
13/03/2020 • 40 minutes 29 seconds
201: #Creatinga(Fictional)DysfunctionalFamily
And you thought our shelves full of self help books were just to manage our own issues! Nope, there’s another use for them. Our guest this week, Kathleen Smith, is a therapist and writer and the author of Everything Isn't Terrible, a helpful and humorous guide to shedding our anxious habits and building a more solid sense of self in our increasingly anxiety-inducing world. It’s very useful, and we’re valiantly attempting to tame our own anxieties—but that’s not (much of) what we talk about. Instead, we’re focused on what’s really important—and within our control: Creating believable, dysfunctional characters and then helping them to grow and change.
We talk about romance dynamics: the pursuer and the pursued, the over-functioner and the slacker—and how important it is that a couple be at a similar level of maturity (or, more likely, immaturity) to be beli
06/03/2020 • 40 minutes 15 seconds
200: #ShouldYouStartaPodcast
It’s our 200th episode! In all that time, we’ve never missed a week and never regretted our choice to spend 40 minutes (ish) together—and with you. We love doing the podcast, so this week we thought we’d answer a few podcast-y questions we get a lot: should you start a podcast? Can a podcast help promote a book? Is there gold in them thare podcast hills?
We talk about all that and more—but here’s one thing you won’t find in the episode, in part because it seems so obvious now that we never think about it. The smartest thing we did, when we decided we were going for this podcast thing, was this:
We made it about writing.
That was not, back in 2016, an obvious choice. Jess had just written a best-selling book on parenting. I was the editor of the New York Times’ parenting section. Sarina wasn’t on board yet, and it was just the two of us. The obvious thing to create would have been a podcast about family life.
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28/02/2020 • 39 minutes 59 seconds
199: #HowtoLovePromotingYourWork
Our guest today, Dan Blank, sure seems like a man who loves his work. On his own podcast, the Creative Shift, he’s a warm and engaged interviewer. In his emails, he’s genuine and engaged. Is he selling his book and his services as an advisor to authors developing their platform and launching their work into the world? Sure, but it never feels like he’s selling. It feels like he’s sharing.
Wouldn’t we all like to feel like that, and have our readers see us that way?
We were hoping Dan would share his magic sauce and we’d all go skipping off towards easy street down a rainbow path, but it turns out there’s some work involved here. So instead, we talked about process, from the way you manage your personal trolls to the way you manage your emails, and then we talked—buzzword alert—authenticity, and finding the things you genuinely want to share with the people who are a match for your work. (You can download Dan’s free guide, 5 Ways to Imme
21/02/2020 • 45 minutes 45 seconds
198: #RoomForTwoPrincesses
We’re interviewing Julie Lythcott-Haims this week and you won’t want to miss it, because 1) she wrote an amazing, best-selling book called How to Raise an Adult and then followed THAT up with a memoir, Real American, that the New York Times Book Review pretty much thought was amazing and is now drafting the sequel to Adult very much on her own terms; and 2) she could very easily have become Jess’s arch-nemesis, and vice versa.
If they had been totally different people.
If they had been less open, less willing to see possibility in a scary-sounding situation.
If they’d let fear and jealousy win. But they didn’t. So two writers with authority,
14/02/2020 • 56 minutes 26 seconds
197: #HowToWinAtPR
Marika Flatt is the founder of PR By the Book, an independent publicity firm dedicated to working with authors, publishers and books. Their tagline is “from author to influencer,” and we talk about that process—and how your goals as an author (sell books, get speaking gigs, sell earlier books, increase name recognition, even sell products or services) change how you might work with a publicist, and even whether you should work with a publicist at all.
And if your book is still very much a WIP, we’ve got you covered with what writers can do before our books are ready to start establishing the kind of backstory (I refuse to call it platform, because there’s so much more to it) that makes that writer-publicist teaming really work later in the game. Marika even has a DIY program for authors to help us figure these things out without a major investment.
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07/02/2020 • 48 minutes 55 seconds
196: #WhereDoestheTimeGo
It started with a question in the #AmWriting Facebook group: How do you get it all done?
And the answer was, of course—we don’t, no one does, we push things off until tomorrow or we put out fires all day and then frantically write until late in the evening or we drive our children around for hours while chastising ourselves for not making better choices.
But really, you all said. Really truly when do you write? And how d you put it first? And what do you do when you don’t or can’t? This is us, three full time writers and also parents (all of teenagers), talking about the push and pull of looking like you’re at home and available when you’re not, and how the awful truth is that sometimes you are, and how we control what we can and scream hopelessly into the void at what we can’t. (That’s just who we are.)
We realized we’re each good at some parts of this and not others, which means we can take a little inspiration.
30/01/2020 • 39 minutes 23 seconds
195: #FromPeopletoSciAmerican
How do you become a science writer? What if you didn’t even think you liked science as a kid? What if, instead of “serious journalism”, you spent the first half of your career covering celebrities and royals, even becoming the London Bureau Chief for People magazine?
Then you’re in perfect shape, at least if you’re our guest, Lydia Denworth. She tells us how she made that transition, going from People through Redbook to Scientific American using the dual powers of curiosity and ignorance (and more relevantly, the willingness to admit it). We also discuss getting grants for non-fiction research, pitching scientific topics and the literary aspect of science writing—and Friendship, which just happens to be both the topic and the title of Denworth’s latest book.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, did you love last week’s #WritersTopFive: Top 5 Ways to Win at Newsletter Subject Lines? Because I did (and <a href="https://view.fl
24/01/2020 • 52 minutes 4 seconds
194: #PutAPriceOnIt
Struggling to put a price on your time? Jess and Sarina (an economist and former trader on Wall Street) help your find that elusive number.
A listener asked Jess for advice on consulting fees, so in order to find an answer more satisfying than, “It depends,” Jess and Sarina get down to economic brass tacks. Sarina explains how publishers or anyone else who wants to hire you for your writing value your time, and how you can propose a figure that takes everything from opportunity costs to fungibles into account. In an attempt to make pricing your time less complicated and emotionally fraught, Jess offers a simple formula to nail down a number that represents your hourly worth.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, the #WritersTopFive that will be dropping into #AmWriting supporter inboxes on Monday, January 20, 2020 is ONE OF THE BEST YET: Top 5 Ways to Win at Newsletter Subject Lines. So sign up, support the
17/01/2020 • 41 minutes 41 seconds
193: #WriterDreamsComeTrue
She writes Emmy-winning television comedy, bestselling children’s books, plays, and sentences for the Scripps National Spelling Bee. Is there nothing Jill Twiss can’t do?
Musical theater actress and stand-up comic Jill Twiss dreamed of writing for television but did not know how to break in to the world of late-night comedy shows. The stars aligned when a few supportive women called some chits on her behalf, and lo, she landed a spot in the writing room of the Emmy-award winning show, Last Week Tonight with John Oliver. Her work on Last Week Tonight has earned her multiple Emmys, WGA and Peabody Awards, and led to a series of bestselling children’s books as well as the opportunity to write humorous “Can I have that word in a sentence, please?” hints for the Scripps National Spelling Bee.
This week, Jill and Jess talk about how Jill got her start in television, her love of Vice President Mike
10/01/2020 • 49 minutes 14 seconds
192: #HowtoBeaBookCoach
“Every writer,” book coach Jennie Nash tells us, “ thinks at some point that they just cannot do this. That’s just part of the process.” It’s not our favorite part—but it’s true, and getting past that stage and on with the job of finishing a book in any genre is the part of the process that many writers just can’t seem to conquer. But for some of us—like Jennie—helping other people get past that road block is a superpower. If that’s you (and you know if it is)—then we might just have a side hustle for you. In this episode, we talk to Author Accelerator’s Jennie Nash about the five things that make a good book coach, how she trains book coaches and her process for guiding a writer’s process—and why a good book coach must be paid.
Transcripts are having a holiday break—but the next #WritersTopFive is already scheduled for Monday, January 6, 2020: Top Five Ways to Find the Right Agent to Pitch. Thos
03/01/2020 • 47 minutes 5 seconds
191: #2020Goals
Whoa. Fellow writers, 2020 is upon us. And here at #AmWriting HQ, we love setting annual goals. We really do. We adore everything about it, from the anticipation and planning to the writing them in our handy dandy notebooks (although this year KJ got paralyzed by the need to make them pretty and ended up with temporary under a to-do list scribbles).
One reason we love it so much is that we feel good about our goals. Typically, we tend to reach them—and that isn’t because we’re super-people. It’s because we set the right kinds of goals. Things we can control, that are within our reach, that can me measured and revisited and that hold us up and support us in our work. And we also love words—which means we love choosing our word of the year. This year we’ve got three good ones. Listen in, and then share yours in our Facebook group.
If you’re working on goal setting and want to
27/12/2019 • 43 minutes 10 seconds
191: #2020Goals
Whoa. Fellow writers, 2020 is upon us. And here at #AmWriting HQ, we love setting annual goals. We really do. We adore everything about it, from the anticipation and planning to the writing them in our handy dandy notebooks (although this year KJ got paralyzed by the need to make them pretty and ended up with temporary under a to-do list scribbles).
One reason we love it so much is that we feel good about our goals. Typically, we tend to reach them—and that isn’t because we’re super-people. It’s because we set the right kinds of goals. Things we can control, that are within our reach, that can me measured and revisited and that hold us up and support us in our work. And we also love words—which means we love choosing our word of the year. This year we’ve got three good ones. Listen in, and then share yours in our Facebook group.
If you’re working on goal setting and want to
26/12/2019 • 43 minutes 10 seconds
190: #DeclaringGoalsMet*
We’re reviewing our 2019 goals. Did we gloriously achieve? Live up to our words of the year by focusing on the worthy? Check every box and climb ever mountain?
We did okay.
In some cases, we killed. In others, there were extenuating circumstances. Goals were revised, cast aside, postponed. All part of the process. To hear how we did, listen in—and be sure to share your bests and worsts from 2019 in the #AmWriting Facebook Group. Then, get ready for some #2020GoalSetting next week.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, a request. Can you work supporting the #AmWriting podcast into your end-of-year budget? The next Monday’s #WritersTopFive: Top Five Ways to Find the Right Agent to Pitch, will drop into inboxes Monday, January 6, 2020—just in time for a new year of pitching goals. Every weekly #WritersTopFive email features fast, fun, actionable advice from KJ, Jess, S
20/12/2019 • 40 minutes 54 seconds
189: #WhatWritersWant(thatmoneycanbuy)
We all know you can’t really buy the things we writers want: inspiration, the power to spend as much time writing our books as we do thinking about them—not to mention sales, agents and editors. But you CAN grab a few things that make the writerly journey more fun. In this episode, we talk about the joys of journals and the perfect markers, tech tools that qualify as investments and those that are a little less spendy and suggest a few gifts for your writer groups stockings—including custom socks.
Episode links follow—but first, a preview of the #WritersTopFive that will be dropping into #AmWriting supporter inboxes on Monday, December 16, 2019: Top 5 Things to Do to at the Start of a New Nonfiction Project. Remember, you can GIFT a supporter subscription! Or sign up to support us yourself.
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13/12/2019 • 43 minutes 16 seconds
188: #HowtoJudgeaBook(byits)Cover
Turns out you should judge a book by its cover, and readers do. Which means authors need to consider that (and not our own taste) when we think about our own covers. This week, we talk about the two things to consider whether you’re an indie working with cover artists or a trad with a publisher and an art department: reader expectations and those now-you-can’t-stop-seeing-the-flowers trends, and it turns into a bit of lesson in heading to the bookstore and making some cover judgments of your own.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, have you heard that we recorded our first #SupporterMinis this month? #SupporterMinis are short bursts of advice or inspiration (or maybe commiseration) to punctuate your writing week, which appear in the podcast feeds of our supporters. Supporters also get weekly #WritersTopFives like Top Five G
06/12/2019 • 47 minutes 7 seconds
187: #TheThankYouProjectProject
The infamous how-to meets self-help meets memoir-with-a-dash-of-stunt genre: it may be awkwardly named, but we love it.
This week’s guest didn’t realize she was laying the groundwork for her first book when she decided to write 50 thank you notes to the people, things and places that shaped her in honor of her 50th birthday—but of course she was When you can define a thing and the time frame and the reasons for doing it so clearly, what else can you do but inspire other people to do the same? But the road from I’m doing this thing to I’m publishing this book isn’t clear (although in this case it was lightning fast). This week, Nancy Davis Kho talks to us about what it took to make her book saleable, then write the damn thing and make it really really good.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, did you catch the #WritersTopFive that popped into your inbox Monday? (And if it didn’t, HELLO, you need to subscribe to our free weekl
29/11/2019 • 46 minutes 36 seconds
186: #TheJoyofHolidayRomCom
We wanted to talk holiday writing—as in, writing ABOUT holidays, not writing during the holidays. So we went strolling through the holly-bedecked halls of the Internet—because, #dominantculture, holiday books as they appear without a more specific web search means Christmas books and specifically, the 250 page equivalent of a bonbon of a Lifetime Christmas movie. We found Natalie Cox, author of the debut romcom Mutts and Mistletoe. And then we found that Natalie Cox is also Betsy Tobin, author of five other novels, co-owner of a bookshop in North London and just generally appearing to live an authorial dream life.
So of course we invited her on to talk about not just holiday writing, but switching genres, the real meaning of “debut” and whether or not owning a bookstore in London is as much fun as it sounds like it would be. Links from the episode (which was itself as much f
22/11/2019 • 49 minutes 58 seconds
185: #AudioExplosion
Here’s one way to learn how to write books that work in audio: narrate over 700 of them, like our guest this week, Tanya Eby. If that sounds a little daunting, listen in instead for the condensed version.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, we sent out our first supporter-only #MiniSupporter episode this week: #Prewriting. Those will be short and sporadic bursts of advice and inspiration from one of us, and thanks to the magic of Substack, supporters of #AmWriting will see those drop into a special feed in their podcast apps whenever we’ve got one ready. We’d love to add you to that list if you’re not already on it. Support the podcast you love, get bonus #MiniSupporter episodes AND get weekly #WriterTopFives with actionable advice you can use for just $7 a month.
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15/11/2019 • 34 minutes 12 seconds
184: #BeforeYouStartthatNonFictionProject
Every nonfiction book starts out as a glimmer of an idea. A topic. An area of interest or expertise. But you can’t just pitch a book about beekeeping, kids. You need to know a whole lot more. Is it a beekeeping memoir? A beekeeping how-to? A meditation about the relationship between bees and humanity?
In this episode, we dish about how to answer those questions, because—spoiler—that’s exactly how Jess, who just finished the draft of her second nonfiction book, has been spending her time. Well, not thinking about beekeeping, or at least, I don’t think so. She’s pretty cagey about what, exactly, she’s researching—but that’s a good thing, because this episode is about the first steps that lead to an eventual proposal and, ultimately a book, no matter what the topic.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, a preview of the #WritersTopFive that will be dropping into #AmWriting supporter inboxes on Monday, November 11, 2019:
08/11/2019 • 35 minutes 47 seconds
183: #FacebookforWriters
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Writers need a page, a profile and a whole lot of patience and persistence to even feel like we’re close to getting Facebook “right.”
The question first appeared, as these things do, in the #AmWriting Facebook group. A book is coming! I’m on Facebook (obviously), but do
03/11/2019 • 45 minutes 36 seconds
182: #WriteFlailRepeat
Novelist Abbi Waxman makes us laugh talking process and inspiration almost as much as we do when reading her books, with emphasis on using settings you know and love.
Our transcription assistant reports that this was “her favorite episode ever.” It’s definitely a contender—Abbi Waxman is funny and candid about the challenges of creating characters and worlds that are engrossingly real yet also comical—and about her next novel, the first one not fully set in her California ‘hood.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, you don’t want to miss the #WritersTopFive that will be dropping into #AmWriting supporter inboxes on Monday, October 28, 2019: Top 5 Goodreads Secrets for Authors. It’s a good one! If you haven’t yet plunked down a tiny chunk of cash to support the podcast, maybe now is the time. Support the podcast you love AND get weekly #WriterTopFives with actionable advice you can use for just $7 a
24/10/2019 • 46 minutes 5 seconds
181: #NaWhateverWriMo
Maybe you’re drafting a novel, maybe you’re not. Either way, we vote for seizing on the community energy generated by NaNo and getting some work done.
The magic of NaNoWriMo isn’t in the number of words or the length of time or even the month of November. It’s in the community seizing this time—when we could so easily heave a giant sigh and say oh, well, November, it’s practically December, might as well give up—and instead bestowing upon it this extra energy, turning it into a holiday of our very own. We’re all for writing a 50K word novel (and there’s much advice in this episode on prepping for just that) but we’re also in favor of creating your own National Whatever Write Month. Pick your poison, name your deadline and join us in taking back November.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, a preview of the #WritersTopFive that will be dropping into #AmWriting supporter inboxes on Monday, October 21, 2019: Top 5 Ways
18/10/2019 • 44 minutes 47 seconds
180: #CharacterEnneagramRabbitHole
Shortcut to finding our characters’ worst flaws and deepest fears? Yes, thank you.
All Sarina had to do was say “protagonist character analysis” and we were off. Enneagrams, for those who have never heard of them [raises hand high] are descriptions of character types intended for “journeys of self-discovery.” But when it comes to knowing more about your protagonist (and love interest and antagonist and their mother and all the people) they’re pure solid gold, especially if you go romping down the rabbit hole of reading what people in various types (there are 9, with a “wing” in one direction or another) think of themselves and their relationships.
Suddenly, you can think about how your character would play fantasy football, or interview for a job. But the best part is diving deep into how your character behaves at her/his/their very worst, and very best, along with what they most fear and what they believe they want. It’s like
11/10/2019 • 46 minutes 21 seconds
179: #ShouldWantCanAmWriting
Not writing what your inner parent says you “should” be writing? How to get over it.
Fellow writers, KJ here. I have gathered you here today to discuss the moment last week when I sat down on my bed, surveying a pile of literary fiction, some of which I liked and some of which I most emphatically did not, and asked myself, as I have many times on other topics—should I be writing something other than what I am writing? Should I be good at something other than that which I am good at? This week, I lay it out there: sometimes I feel ashamed that I don’t write something more … serious. Then Sarina slaps me around a little, and Jess declares that even writers of serious stuff (I give her that title) sometimes feel like they’re not using their time wisely.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, a preview of the #WritersTopFive that will be dropping into #AmWriting supporter inboxes on Monday, October 7, 2019: T
04/10/2019 • 43 minutes
178: #WriteFaster
More words, better words, in less time? Sometimes. In this episode, finding your own path to write faster.
If only we could write as fast as we type! You could set your clock by our book production, right? Not so. This week we’re exploring how to write faster with Sarina in the lead. Finding your own patterns, prewriting and avoiding that “stuck” feeling by finding tangible ways to explore your characters and book without doing battle with words dominate our conversation as we riff on ways to up our daily word counts without ending up with something that’s destined for the cutting room floor file.
Episode links and a transcript follow—but first, a preview of the #WritersTopFive that will be dropping into #AmWriting supporter inboxes on Monday, September 30, 2019: Top Five Reasons to Be on Instagram. Not joined that club yet? You’ll want to get on that. Support the podcast you love AND get weekly #W
27/09/2019 • 47 minutes 25 seconds
177: Episode 177 #AudioWriter
Joshilyn Jackson doesn't just write best-selling thrillers. She narrates them, too. Should we?
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20/09/2019 • 51 minutes 16 seconds
Episode 176 #FallProductivity
13/09/2019 • 47 minutes 55 seconds
175: #HowtoUseaBurnChart
The burn chart mindset, whole book project management, and a how-to for finding a progress tracker that works for you.
06/09/2019 • 41 minutes 19 seconds
174 #WhenIt'sReallyHard
Writing through chronic illness and other challenges, with Karen Locke Kolp.
30/08/2019 • 49 minutes 58 seconds
173 #LiteraryMagsandPopularAcademics
Funny thing—writers for popular pubs tend to see literary magazines as an unsurmountable challenge (I know I do) and vice versa. Danielle Ofri, though, straddles both worlds as the Editor-in-Chief of the Bellevue Literary Review and a regular contributor to the New York Times and Slate as well as journals like The Lancet and The New England Journal of Medicine, making her the perfect person to talk to about that crossover, as well as the crossover between a career with confidentiality at its core, and one where telling the whole truth is key.
#AmReading (Watching, Listening)
Danielle: Ragtime E.L. Doctorow and Little King, Salmon Rushdie's short story excerpt in the New Yorker from his book, Quichotte.
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23/08/2019 • 41 minutes 4 seconds
172: #BucketGoals
Big dreams, and how to achieve them. (Jess likes to be told she can do it. KJ prefers to be told she can't.)
#AmReading (and watching)
Other People's Houses, Abbi Waxman
Jess: The Butterfly Girl: A Novel, Rene Denfeld
A Discovery of Witches (book one of the All Souls Trilogy), Deborah Harkness
(and the miniseries)
#FaveIndieBookstore
Northshire Books, Manchester VT and Saratoga Springs
This episode was sponsored by Author Accelerator, the book coaching program that helps you get your work DONE. Visit <a href
16/08/2019 • 41 minutes 32 seconds
171: #WritingWithandAboutFaith
The risks and benefits of writing about religion in any genre, with author Phoebe Farag Mikhail.
Phoebe's publisher: Paraclete Press
A few other notes from the episode:
Phoebe's book: Putting Joy into Practice: Seven Ways to Lift Your Spirit from the Early Church https://paracletepress.com/collections/new-releases/products/putting-joy-into-practice
Phoebe's blog: Being in Community (beingincommunity.com)
Instagram & Twitter: @pkfarag
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/phoebefaragmikhailauthor/ andhttps://www.facebook.com/beingincommunity/
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09/08/2019 • 50 minutes 53 seconds
170: #YourFreelanceBusiness
Tracking your why, your how, your money and your time with Katherine Reynolds Lewis.
A few assorted links, comments and tools
Toggl time tracker
The 3Ps: Pay, Prestige and Personal Passion
Katherine's Excel Spreadsheet:
Katherine's Press Club slide show and her checklist for new clients.
#AmReading:
KJ: City of Girls: A Novel, Elizabeth Gilbert
Katherine: Middle School Matters: The 10 Key Skills Kids Need to Thrive in Middle School and Beyond - And How Parents Can Help, Phyllis Fagell
Code Like a Girl: Rad Tech Proje
02/08/2019 • 44 minutes 44 seconds
169: #SummerReading
Jess is going gangbusters on her summer writing, and KJ may be struggling, but they’re both plowing through some serious recs for your summer reading list from them and from members of the #AmWriting Facebook group.
#AmReading
KJ:
Rules for Visiting: A Novel, Jessica Francis Kane
Honestly We Meant Well: A Novel, Grant Ginder
What You Don't Know About Charlie Outlaw, Leah Stewart
The Gifted School: A Novel, Bruce Holsinger
City of Girls: A Novel, Elizabeth Gilbert
26/07/2019 • 46 minutes 52 seconds
168: #LuckFavorsTheBold
As the wheel of fortune spins, Jess gives us the blow by blow of this week’s celebrity endorsement - spoiler alert...it wasn’t entirely luck! When someone with 10 million followers on Instagram shares a pic of herself reading your book—things happen. And they happened for Jess. But there's a little secret history there. Sure, lightning struck, the stars aligned and everything fell together. But if Jess hadn't done the groundwork, it probably never would have happened.
#AmReading
Jess: Archaeology From Space: How the Future Shapes Our Past by Sarah Parcak, @indyfromspace www.sarahparcak.com
KJ: City of Girls, Elizabeth Glibert
#FaveIndieBookstore
The Vermont Bookstore in MIddlebury Vermont
19/07/2019 • 38 minutes 36 seconds
167: #ChangeAndRearrange
Book Coach Jennie Nash returns to tackle some effective strategies for revising; it can be a tortuous process, but it can also be where some of the fun happens!
Jennie mentioned Susan Bell's The Artful Edit: On the Practice of Editing Yourself.
#AmReading
KJ: Bowling Avenue, Ann Shayne
Jess: In Pain: A Bioethicist's Personal Struggle with Opioids, Travis Rieder and Red, White & Royal Blue Casey McQuiston
Jennie: Daisy Jones & the Six, Taylor Jenkins Reid
#FaveIndieBookstore
Chaucer's Book
12/07/2019 • 54 minutes 33 seconds
166: #SummerWriting
Tips for getting the work done when the season shifts around you.
05/07/2019 • 43 minutes 56 seconds
165: #Twitter#@*!Storm
Sometimes, the internet turns against you. What to do, what not to do, how to ride it out and remember--the loudest voices aren't necessarily the most numerous.
Over the course of our careers, both Jess and I have endured some PR storms. We share some of the gory details, but more importantly, advice from PR pros and from our experiences on how to handle it when you go a little bit viral in the worst way.
We heard from PR experts Ophir Lehavy and Carol Blymire. Ophir pointed us to a crisis control article, and Jess called out (in the good way) a couple of books that are useful when you're at the eye of the storm: Shame Nation: The Global Epidemic of Online Hate, from Sue Scheff and So You've Been Publicly Shamed, Jon Ronson.
#AmR
28/06/2019 • 39 minutes 50 seconds
164: #WhoIsThisHelping
Subscription services like Kindle Unlimited and Audible do make books—some books—cheaper for readers, but what do they do for authors—and what are readers missing? (with Sarina Bowen)
A few highlights from this episode:
If you take something expensive—good content—and you pay people reasonably to create it, it’s tough to make this work. What we're often seeing as consumers are loss leaders for big media. Amazon doesn't have to make money from Kindle Unlimited.
One you might not have heard of: Scribd. So far, it's reasonable for authors and for readers (although their "unlimited" may really mean "unlimited unless you're a superuser, in which case maybe not").
The takeaway for writers: limit yourself to Kindle Unlimited with great caution.
The takeaway for readers: Unlimited is still limited--to what's there and available. Relying on suggestions an
21/06/2019 • 49 minutes 39 seconds
163: #BookTourReality
Mary Laura Philpott tells all. It's glorious. It's embarrassing. Nobody told you you'd be sitting on a barstool in front of a crowd in a short skirt.
Mary Laura Philpott is the author of I Miss You When I Blink, a book with the most awesome subtitle ever: Essays. That's it. Here's a little something she wrote on subtitles and why we love to hate them, from LitHub.
We've been following her book launch (check back to Episode 150, #NeverReady) and now, her triumphant tour. Or maybe not so much and certainly not all the time.
Links to some of the fantastic Indies who hosted Mary Laura:
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14/06/2019 • 47 minutes 49 seconds
162: #HalfwaytoGoal
Remember those goals you set with Jess and KJ back in January? Neither did they, but they dug them out and sort out how the year’s going so far.
In Episode 140, we set our 2019 goals. (Listen here). Now, at 2019's halfway mark, it's time to check in on those--and we'd love to hear how you're doing on your goals in the #AmWriting Facebook group. Halfway here? More? En route? Revising the endgame? We get it all.
Jess, in particular, gets moving the goal posts--and in fact, the whole point of a check in is to consider doing just that. Goals aren't there to help you fail, they're there to help you move towards them--and if a goal is unreachable this year, it's time to set a goal you can achieve that moves you in the right direction. For Jess, that's a new, revised book deadline.
07/06/2019 • 51 minutes 14 seconds
161: #WritingAtMyNightmare
We welcome Shane Burcaw. You thought writing was hard? Try doing it with no muscles.
Shane Burcaw is the author of three books: Laughing at My Nightmare, the picture book Not So Different: What You Really Want to Ask About Having a Disability, and his new book, Strangers Assume My Girlfriend is My Nurse. Shane and his girlfriend, Hannah Aylward, host the YouTube channel, Squirmy and Grubs, with nearly 400k subscribers. Their YouTube channel reads: “Once upon a time, a boy with no muscles fell madly in love with a beautiful girl who had plenty of muscles to spare. The townsfolk gasped with horror at the sight of their disgusting interabled relationship, but they didn’t care.”
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31/05/2019 • 43 minutes 2 seconds
160: #10MonthsfromStarttoDeadline
Parkland author Dave Cullen on everything you ever wanted to know about pitching and writing a topical nonfiction book at top speed (and going broke doing it).
We talked to Dave Cullen, about writing Parkland: Birth of a Movement, in ten months while he was 3 years overdue on his current book.
"I'm just not gonna tell Gail," he said of his editor when he took the first assignment from Vanity Fair--but there was something going on with the Parkland students that grabbed him, and he--with the help of his agent, Betsy Lerner--grabbed it.
"I just had to."
He describes the process of writing the book, how the length, plan and due dates evolved--and how he almost went broke doing it.
#FaveIndieBookstore
Dave's #FaveIndieBookstore is <a href="htt
24/05/2019 • 40 minutes 30 seconds
159: #StoryGenius
Story expert Lisa Cron joins Jess and KJ to dig into the mechanics of a good book, including the difference between plot and story, and looking beyond “what happened” to “why did it happen”.
To talk to Lisa Cron is--unless you've already read Story Genius or Wired for Story--to possibly flip everything you thought you knew about story--fiction, nonfiction, short, long, whatever--onto its head.
Story, she points out, isn't plot. It isn't what happens, and then what happens next, and then what happens next. It's the why behind those happenings. It's not, well, a spaceship just landed on the green in front of the library, and I'll either a) rush towards it or b) head for my car.
It's WHY I do those things. It's not just what I do next, but what it is about me, now the main character in this rather stressful tale that may end with us all being the entrees on some giant interstellar menu, that makes me make the no doubt terrible choi
17/05/2019 • 39 minutes 41 seconds
158: #WhyStickers
Jess and KJ extemporize on the power of stickers - where the only thing that matters is getting into the work, and getting the words out. And some bonus advice to authors on what not to do.
Kj here, with a confession: I've been lying to myself
Letting myself off the hook.
Not keeping my butt in the chair and my head in the game.
I mean, sure, I had lots of excuses. I've been traveling or doing intense farm stuff since April 12. That's almost a month with--count them--only two days of being entirely home without travel or a major, all-day farm commitment. So okay then. Some of those days I called it. I knew I wouldn't get anything done on my next book, and I didn't.
Some of those days I had a reasonable plan. Open the file. Stay with the work. That's all.
But SOME days... some days I futzed around. I kept moving the needle. I let myself quit because "I'm really no
10/05/2019 • 44 minutes
157: #ExcitedAboutWords
Podcasting from Mom 2.0 Conference with podcaster, journalist and author, Nicole Blades. She tells us about the pros and cons of skipping an agent, using rejection as fuel, and the joys of the writer community.
Nicole Blades is a Podcaster (Hey, Sis! Podcast), Author of Have You Met Nora?, The Thunder Beneath Us, & Earth's Waters --and this is a glorious episode, recorded live and in person at Mom 2.0, in which we really capture the joy of writing, of finding your novel, of getting to do what we do.
We also get into Tall Poppies, the writer's sharing group (I'm not sure what to call it) started by <a href="https://tallpoppies.org/team/ann-
03/05/2019 • 41 minutes 26 seconds
156 #WhenFansPay
It's hard enough to start a subscriber email. But what if--like freelance writer Lyz Lenz, who has two books coming out in the next twelve months--you asked your fans to pay for it? It's so crazy, it might just work.
Hello from the Mom 2.0 conference, where Jess and I just did a panel on Launching a Speaking Career. More on that in an upcoming episode--but meanwhile, this one's a real thought-provoker. Most of us struggle with what's a good use of our time in our writing careers. We've talked a lot about the value of an email subscriber list when it comes to selling books and sharing your work--but what if the email is your work, or becomes a way to share your work?
Journalist Lyz Lenz uses Substack to share a largely subscriber-only email with a group of readers/fans whose financial support has helped to carry her through the ups and downs
26/04/2019 • 40 minutes 40 seconds
155: #GetUnstuck
Uber-Coach Jennifer Louden on finding your "enough" and letting it power you forward.
19/04/2019 • 43 minutes 6 seconds
154: #MathandDictationAreFun
Math storyteller [Steven Strogatz](http://www.stevenstrogatz.com/) makes both calculus and dictation seem approachable and fun. #notkidding
Jess, we learn, was told in an early math class not to give up her day job, and so she gave up on math—until she found [Steven Strogatz](http://www.stevenstrogatz.com/), whose writing puts a human, topical, understandable face on numbers from algebra to calculus, and glories in seeing “the math in everything”. If you’re the master of a topic that seems too narrow, academic or wonky for a larger audience, consider finding fresh ways into the subject—or “every way,” says Strogatz. If you can’t relate to one analogy, he’s ready with another, and it’s that willingness to try multiple ways to get his ideas across that’s made his work popular.
Strogatz is a teacher first, writer second (now you know why he and Jess bond)---and he uses dictation to find his way into a more natural voice in his writing in the simplest way possible: he holds his phone
12/04/2019 • 44 minutes 28 seconds
153: #GrammarGirl
Mignon Fogerty on Pet Peeves, riding a wave and what to do if you're a writer--and grammar still scares the bejabbers out of you.
Plenty of writers #fangirl on Mignon Fogerty, who took her own quest to make grammar rules easy and accessible and turned it into a mini-empire. In her case, the podcast came first, the books second--and what followed is a fun exploration of being creative around a subject and finding a way to make it your own.
A few links from the episode:
Peeve Wars Board Game
The Grammar Devotional: Daily Tips fo
05/04/2019 • 42 minutes 24 seconds
152: #ContinueHereforEmailLists
Part 2 continues with Sarina Bowen's guidance about what you should put in your email list, and how to market your email before, or after, you’re published.
29/03/2019 • 45 minutes 53 seconds
151: #StartHereforEmailLists
Sarina Bowen guides us through where and how to start up an email list, how to grow it and how to keep it healthy in the first part of a two parter on email lists.
22/03/2019 • 39 minutes 5 seconds
150: #NeverReady
Mary Laura Philpott on how to launch a book into the world, with a few regrets and ideas for do-overs.
15/03/2019 • 48 minutes 52 seconds
149: #PlagarismVersusJustWrong
Accusations of plagiarism and general bad behavior are everywhere in the writing world. Sarina Bowen joins the conversation about what plagiarism is and isn't and how to protect yourself (and keep from accidentally screwing up).
08/03/2019 • 37 minutes 15 seconds
148: #GreenEyedMonster
Omitting wan words to tighten your writing, and battling the inevitable arrival of professional jealousy.
01/03/2019 • 35 minutes 28 seconds
147: #GoodNewsandHowIGotThere
You heard it here first: KJ sold her novel. We talk about how the deal happened, why she took a pre-empt, and building a career.
22/02/2019 • 43 minutes 17 seconds
146: #AnthologyWriting
...in which Jess and KJ share tips about about answering calls for anthology submissions
15/02/2019 • 46 minutes 47 seconds
145: #DethroneThePhone
...in which Jess and KJ talk with computer science professor, and author, Cal Newport on the concept of digital minimalism and the benefits it can have on the writing process.
08/02/2019 • 46 minutes 51 seconds
144: #ReadingWhileWriting
...in which Jess and KJ tackle a classic writing question: can you read in your genre while you’re writing in it without absorbing other voices and ideas?
01/02/2019 • 47 minutes 42 seconds
143: #AlwaysBeHustling
…in which successful freelancer Kimberly Moran describes how she has created a home and work life that feeds her writing, and how she's always hustling to find new opportunities.
25/01/2019 • 50 minutes 51 seconds
142: #SixYearsOfWork
…in which Jess and KJ talk with award-winning biographer, Ruth Franklin, author of Shirley Jackson: A Rather Haunted Life, and find out what it takes to write an account of someone else’s life.
18/01/2019 • 50 minutes 16 seconds
141: #ItsTrueSoWriteIt
...in which Jess and KJ talk raw honest memoir with Janelle Hanchett, author of I'm Just Happy to Be Here. It's not easy to write memoir, or to put it out there, but as Janelle says, you're either going to tell the truth, or don't bother.
11/01/2019 • 43 minutes 13 seconds
1: 140: #2019Goals
...in which Jess and KJ open the new year with their goals and words for the upcoming year.
04/01/2019 • 44 minutes 58 seconds
139: #GoalReview
...in which Jess and KJ take stock of 2018 with a review of their goals and their words of the year.
28/12/2018 • 45 minutes 22 seconds
138: #WhatsYourGenre
...in which Jess and KJ weigh the many ambiguous definitions of fiction genres with Emily Tredowe, and her short-story path to novel writing.
22/12/2018 • 48 minutes 1 second
137: #SocialProofMatters
...in which Jess and KJ speak with author Sarina Bowen about how to get Amazon reviews and why you want them.
14/12/2018 • 44 minutes 21 seconds
136: #GiftShow!
…in which Jess and KJ are in the same place! And sharing all the perfect gift ideas for you and your writerly friends.
07/12/2018 • 37 minutes 31 seconds
135: #SteppingBack
…in which Jess and KJ are joined by book coach, and fan favorite, Jennie Nash to answer the question: What do you do when you wake up with 50,000 words of something? A guide for post-NaNoWriMo.
30/11/2018 • 51 minutes 13 seconds
134: #WritingAroundFamily
...in which Jess and KJ share tips about making space for writing even around the holidays, when family is seemingly everywhere. They tackle a listener's question about working with a book coach, and we finally hear more about KJ's novel and tentative title.
23/11/2018 • 43 minutes 16 seconds
133: #WorkingBackwards
...in which Jess and KJ speak with entrepreneur, author, and speaker, Seth Godin about how to market and promote your own writing by thinking about the end product.
16/11/2018 • 33 minutes 30 seconds
132 #ThePitchCameFirst
Jess and KJ interview Jennifer Miller and Jason Feifer, the married co-authors of Mr. Nice Guy, a book with the perfect elevator pitch: What if two columnists had sex every week, and then reviewed each other? Turns out there's a catch to a great "what if:" you still have to figure out who you're writing about, and why it matters.
09/11/2018 • 48 minutes 5 seconds
131: #RelentlesslyHelpful
…in which Jess (fighting thru a cold) and KJ highlight the opportunities panels present, and the importance of choosing your sponsorship carefully.
02/11/2018 • 45 minutes 12 seconds
130: #HorseKick
...in which Jess and KJ update us on how their respective projects are coming along, including Jess's research and KJ's public speaking, all as something NaNoWriMo this way comes.
26/10/2018 • 39 minutes 59 seconds
129: #Don'tGetBuzzed
...in which Jess and KJ are joined by actor, author, podcaster and science advocate Alan Alda to discuss reaching readers with good storytelling, and avoiding that moment when—buzz!—you've lost them.
19/10/2018 • 43 minutes 36 seconds
128: #PlanItOut
…in which Jess and KJ speak with author and podcaster Virginia Sole Smith, who somehow did everything “in order”, about how to plan everything.
12/10/2018 • 42 minutes 27 seconds
127: #AmBranding
...in which Jess and KJ ask Carol Blymire what the heck personal branding is, why you need one, and how you build it.
05/10/2018 • 32 minutes 32 seconds
126: #PubDay3
...in which Jess and KJ review KJ’s recent Pub Day marketing strategy, and what worked and what didn’t.
28/09/2018 • 43 minutes 23 seconds
125: #FindingAnAgent
...in which Jess and KJ welcome Laurie Abkemeier, agent extrodinaire, to discuss what you should do to get an agent, and what an agent can do for you.
21/09/2018 • 42 minutes 36 seconds
124: #NomDePlume
...in which Jess and KJ Sarina Bowen about the advantages and consequences of using a pseudonym, and an update on CockyGate.
14/09/2018 • 36 minutes 26 seconds
123: #ChasingTheAntelope
...in which Jess and KJ sit down with best-selling author Tim Grahl about how becoming a writer of any quality is not a sprint but a marathon.
07/09/2018 • 44 minutes 28 seconds
122: #PubDay2
...in which Jess and KJ discuss prepping for PubDay, all the pub feels, and that fall feeling of getting back to work.
31/08/2018 • 35 minutes 8 seconds
121: #ABillionsTimesNo
…in which Jess and KJ speak with _Billions_ producer and screenwriter Brian Koppleman about how you sometimes have to say no when you’d rather say yes.
24/08/2018 • 30 minutes 16 seconds
120: #IsolationIsForWimps
...in which Jess and KJ examine the jump from journalism to novels with Jo Piazza, and of course some tips for writing your novel.
18/08/2018 • 34 minutes
119: #BestSellers
...in which Jess and KJ, by popular request, speak again with USA Today Best Selling author Sarina Bowen about the nitty gritty of best seller lists.
10/08/2018 • 35 minutes 39 seconds
118: #BooksAboutWork
...in which Jess and KJ speak with Alysin Camerota about the shifting from writing TV news to writing a novel, finding time to write and the value of a good editor.
03/08/2018 • 38 minutes 56 seconds
117: #BookLaunchTimeline
...in which Jess and KJ tackle a bunch of listener questions about building a timeline to give your book the best chance for commercial success.
27/07/2018 • 46 minutes 58 seconds
116: #YouHaveTime
...in which Jess and KJ speak with author Laura Vanderkam about how to find time in even your busy schedule to write.
20/07/2018 • 40 minutes 4 seconds
115: #TellingStories
...in which Jess and KJ discuss the importance of stories in non-fiction, and absolve you for taking some time for yourself this summer.
13/07/2018 • 36 minutes 48 seconds
114: #AudioBooks
...in which Jess and KJ talk us through some of the ins and outs of recording your audiobook.
06/07/2018 • 38 minutes 26 seconds
113: #DestinyThief
...in which Jess and KJ chat with Pulitzer Prize winner Richard Russo in a bustling bookstore about writerly life, inspiration and the work.
29/06/2018 • 51 minutes 10 seconds
112: #KeepingOrganized
...in which Jess and KJ answer a question from the FB group about how to stay organized while writing a book, from research to emails to your physical workspace.
22/06/2018 • 37 minutes 30 seconds
111: #TheHeadshot
…in which Jess and KJ welcome Sharona Jacobs, a professional portrait photographer, to discuss the value of the headshot, and the logistics of getting yours.
15/06/2018 • 40 minutes 12 seconds
110: #CockyGate
...in which Jess and KJ are again joined by Sarina Bowen with a case study from the romance fiction world about the difference between copyright and trademark.
08/06/2018 • 32 minutes 48 seconds
109: #SedarisSerendipity
…in which Jess and KJ speak with bests-selling author and superstar essayist David Sedaris about letting people help you.
01/06/2018 • 32 minutes 42 seconds
108: #GoalReview
...in which Jess and KJ review the goals they set themselves in January, and how are their words of the year holding up?
25/05/2018 • 42 minutes 23 seconds
107: #FourTendencies
...in which Jess and KJ chat with Gretchen Rubin about hacking your work routine and your writing using the four tendencies.
18/05/2018 • 44 minutes 18 seconds
106: #FirstTimerMistakes
…in which Jess and KJ are again joined by book coach Jennie Nash, this time to discuss the three most common pitfalls made by new novelists.
11/05/2018 • 40 minutes 4 seconds
105: #ConferenceGoing
…in which Jess and KJ share tips about getting the most out of a conference from craft to marketing.
04/05/2018 • 38 minutes 19 seconds
104: #TheFullProposal
...in which Jess is finally able to talk about her new book deal and unpacks the arduous task of writing a full proposal! And KJ finds the internet distracting.
27/04/2018 • 39 minutes 9 seconds
103: #DeepWork
...in which Jess and KJ share new inspiration and tips for digging in, muscling through those times when the writing gets hard.
20/04/2018 • 41 minutes 15 seconds
102: #HomelessPieces
...in which Jess and KJ consider your options when your piece loses its publisher, or never had one at all. Also, Jess on poor deadline choices, and KJ weighs publicists, promotions and limits.
13/04/2018 • 44 minutes 57 seconds
101: #SerialWriting
...in which Jess and KJ are again joined by Sarina Bowen as she details the particular particulars an author faces when she decides to write serially.
06/04/2018 • 42 minutes 15 seconds
100: #DrivingTwoCars
...in which Jess and KJ shift gears and mix metaphors in an effort to breakdown how they move from one project to another, and bring the required skills with them...and celebrate 100 episodes.
30/03/2018 • 49 minutes 47 seconds
99: #ImposterSyndrome
...in which Jess and KJ confront the voices in their heads second guessing their work, and have some tips on how you can do the same.
23/03/2018 • 40 minutes 35 seconds
98: #Checklists
...in which Jess and KJ, inspired by Celeste Headlee, discuss some of the things you should do before you send off that final draft.
16/03/2018 • 38 minutes 40 seconds
97: #TheLongJourney
...in which Jess and KJ welcome columnist turned novelist Anna Quindlen and chat with her about the long road a writer must take when traveling from non-ficton to fiction.
09/03/2018 • 50 minutes 16 seconds
96: #GettingCoached
...in which Jess and KJ are in uncharted waters with their fiction projects, so KJ hires someone to help navigate. Also, dealing with rejections through work and occasionally food.
02/03/2018 • 36 minutes 40 seconds
95: #PitchingandPromotion
...in which Jess and KJ discuss the advantages of face-time (IRL not the app) when pitching an idea, and things to do to promote your book.
23/02/2018 • 36 minutes 30 seconds
94: #SelfPromotionForIntroverts
...in which Jess and KJ chat with Morra Aarons-Mele about getting over your fear of asking for favors and managing your network to help market your work.
16/02/2018 • 54 minutes 9 seconds
93: #BooksNotYogurt
...in which Jess and KJ are spoiled for choice, but what happens when too many pitches are accepted? And they remind us to consider the long tail of book sales.
09/02/2018 • 41 minutes 25 seconds
92: #HowToBeABadass
...in which Jess and KJ talk about sticking to your guns, even as a new author, with Jennifer Weiner.
02/02/2018 • 49 minutes 35 seconds
91: #Co-WritinginHollywood
...in which Jess and KJ speak with fellow writers and podcasters Liz Craft and Sarah Fain about writing for screens both big and little, and how it works writing with someone else.
26/01/2018 • 36 minutes 11 seconds
90: #NotJustStuntJournalism
...in which Jess and KJ speak with journalist AJ Jacobs. He discusses his version of immersion journalism and how he might be related to you.
19/01/2018 • 40 minutes 33 seconds
89: #StructureIsGood
...in which Jess and KJ get back to the basics add structure to their writing lives. Now that you’ve got your goals set for the year, how do you stay on track. Jess learns to keep better records and KJ has rec for a useful app.
12/01/2018 • 39 minutes 43 seconds
88: #OrganicStory
…in which Jess and KJ are joined by Sarina Bowen as they speak with novelist Kristan Higgins about how she got her start, learned to grapple with the work of writing, and managed to successfully transition from one genre to another.
05/01/2018 • 42 minutes 1 second
87: #ReadySetGoals3
...in which Jess and KJ share their words of the year, as well as their goals for 2018.
29/12/2017 • 31 minutes 12 seconds
86: #GoalReview
...in which Jess and KJ...wait for it...review their goals and their words of the year for 2017 (see episode 34). Might be worth reviewing yours.
22/12/2017 • 36 minutes 14 seconds
85: #BookCoach
...in which Jess and KJ talk with book coach Jennie Nash. How a book coach supports writers, and how to find one for yourself.
15/12/2017 • 48 minutes 7 seconds
84: #WritersGifts 2
…in which Jess and KJ, eventually, share their (and listener) ideas about the perfect items for your gift list or for the writer in your life.
08/12/2017 • 42 minutes 47 seconds
83: #NaNoWriMoWrap
...in which Jess and KJ close out National Novel Writing Month, find out how they fared, and what they dropped from their routines to make time to write all their extra words.
01/12/2017 • 40 minutes 5 seconds
82: #ATouchofthePoet
...in which Jess and KJ discuss with their guest, poet Lauren Halderman, how one gets started in poetry...and keeps it going. And is it really like writing code?
24/11/2017 • 43 minutes 27 seconds
81: #AcademicPress
….in which Jess and KJ speak with Devorah Heitner about the nature of academic presses, and her...unique experience as she shepherded her first book to print.
Academic presses, prices and audience, speaking career - building an audience; and her ...unique experience in publishing.
17/11/2017 • 52 minutes 25 seconds
80: #NaNoWriMo3
….in which Jess and KJ update us on their word counts after week 1 of NaNoWriMo. Jess gets lots done in the airport and KJ comes clean about the voices in her head.
10/11/2017 • 33 minutes 41 seconds
79: #NaNoWriMo2
…in which Jess and KJ are psyched for the beginning of November, discuss final prep like clearing the decks and the dining room table. And if you’re not doing NaNoWriMo, make November a “make your goal” month!
03/11/2017 • 34 minutes 7 seconds
78: #NaNonFiWriMo
...in which Jess and KJ share tips about surviving (and succeeding) NaNoWriMo whether your writing fiction or non.
27/10/2017 • 40 minutes 6 seconds
77: #GhostWriting
...in which Jess and KJ welcome Meg Lukens Noonan, who walks us through some of the ins and outs of the ghost writing business; she also tells the tale of her own book.
PRODUCER'S NOTE: Sorry folks, I mistakenly uploaded last week's episode! Download this episode again to listen to this week's episode.
20/10/2017 • 41 minutes 35 seconds
76: #FaceTime
...in which Jess and KJ laud the value of meeting and learning from your colleagues. KJ updates us on progress with her edits, and Jess needed a change of scenery.
13/10/2017 • 40 minutes 20 seconds
75: #NovelPreparations
...in which Jess and KJ grill superstar guest Sarina Bowen about what you need before you sit down to write your novel next month.
06/10/2017 • 44 minutes 15 seconds
74: #ListenerQuestions 2
...in which Jess and KJ open the mailbag and answer your questions, like how do you know when you’re finished with research? And how to do all this with a day job?
29/09/2017 • 43 minutes 41 seconds
73: #OpenYourMouth
...in which author/illustrator Katherine Roy tutors Jess and KJ on the process of pitching and selling an illustrated book; and the power of talking to people about your project.
22/09/2017 • 40 minutes 33 seconds
72: #NaNoWriMoPrep
...in which Jess and KJ begin putting their affairs in order ahead of National Novel Writing Month. Jess is finishing up her sample chapter and KJ doesn’t know what her next project is.
15/09/2017 • 36 minutes 37 seconds
71: #YouAndYourBookstore
...in which Jess and KJ chat with Mary Laura Philpott about the advantages of cultivating a relationship with your local bookseller, before you even have a book!
08/09/2017 • 45 minutes 47 seconds
70: #Fresh Fall Starts
...in which Jess and KJ celebrate the third new year of the year with a cathartic re-org and prep for the last productive time of year before the holidays.
01/09/2017 • 35 minutes 44 seconds
69: #FromAtoBook
...in which Jess and KJ chat with Catherine Pearlman about the entire process from creating a platform, to finding an agent, to writing the proposal, and building an audience.
25/08/2017 • 36 minutes 36 seconds
68: #HireAPublicist
...in which Jess and KJ weigh whether it may be time for you to hire a publicist, whether you might just need an assistant and other solutions.
18/08/2017 • 45 minutes 6 seconds
67: #MysteryWriting
…in which Jess and KJ speak with mystery writer Sarah Stuart Taylor about what make a good mystery, and the dangers of passwords and four-year olds.
11/08/2017 • 39 minutes 15 seconds
66: #CrunchedForTime
…in which Jess and KJ touch base briefly about moving the needles on a couple of projects, while feeling a little pinched by too many others.
04/08/2017 • 29 minutes 48 seconds
65: #SummerWriting
...in which Jess, KJ and Sarina compare notes about addressing notes, the perils of “summer brain,” and what makes for a productive writing environment.
28/07/2017 • 42 minutes 4 seconds
64: #PubDay
...in which guest host Sarina Bowen joins KJ to discuss how to celebrate the day your writing goes public. From panicking to practicalities, how to spend your day of jubilation.
21/07/2017 • 32 minutes 8 seconds
63: #Priorities
...in which Jess and KJ discuss how best to make hay whilst the sun shines, and the importance of balancing work with leisure and sleep.
14/07/2017 • 43 minutes 32 seconds
62: #WhatIsADraft
...in which Jess and KJ dig into the nuances and vagaries of knowing when a draft is finished enough to submit. KJ’s having trouble settling into the summer and Jess has a new research org tip.
07/07/2017 • 33 minutes 39 seconds
61: #AcademicStuff
...in which Jess and KJ welcome author Tim Lahey and discuss the traps and tricks of jumping from the annals of academic literature to the popular press.
30/06/2017 • 41 minutes 32 seconds
60:#CheckingIn
...in which Jess and KJ take stock; everything from the daily word goal, daily routine v. summer hours and their words of the year is under the microscope. Also some tips on staying on top of your growing mountain of research.
23/06/2017 • 36 minutes 9 seconds
59: #BeginnersFiction
...in which Jess and KJ share their anxieties about writing outside their comfort zone...fiction! Also tips on how to survive a writers group.
16/06/2017 • 36 minutes 49 seconds
58: #ChangingSeasons
...in which Jess and KJ celebrate the arrival of summer by changing up their work schedules. And it’s a good time to take stock of your writing goals.
09/06/2017 • 39 minutes 43 seconds
57: #WritingIsHard
...in which Jess and KJ compare notes about when your writing takes you in unexpected directions; they also have tips on writing and submitting for anthologies.
01/06/2017 • 40 minutes 24 seconds
56: #TravelWriting
...in which Jess and KJ sit down with travel writer Heather Greenwood Davis; Davis offers tips about getting started in this field, and shares her experiences about her year traveling with her family.
26/05/2017 • 37 minutes 4 seconds
55: #HumorWriting
...in which Jess and KJ sit down with award-winning humor writer Wendi Aarons and dig in to her career and her craft. Tips on becoming a humor writer, selling that funny stuff, and rules of the comedy road.
19/05/2017 • 39 minutes 16 seconds
54: #ListenerQuestions
...in which Jess and KJ field listener questions; like how and whether to move forward in the face of rejection? How to become a blog contributor? How do you construct a social media strategy?
15/05/2017 • 41 minutes 46 seconds
53: #BookProposals
...in which Jess and KJ walk us through the devils in the details of a book proposal, KJ turns in her manuscript and finds herself adrift, and Jess gamifies her writing with stickers.
05/05/2017 • 41 minutes 34 seconds
52: #WritingAdvice
...in which Jess and KJ digest really good bits of writing advice from other writers (like King and Vonnegut) and editors; they also argue the merits of semicolons and other punctuation.
28/04/2017 • 42 minutes 56 seconds
51: #BeingAnonymous
...in which Jess and KJ consider when you can or when you should use a nom de plume or no nom at all. They also debate the pros and cons of anonymizing your sources.
21/04/2017 • 32 minutes 39 seconds
50: #WriteMore
...in which Jess and KJ compare notes about time management tools and share parts of the job they’re tiring of; Jess rethinks speaking agents and KJ contemplates strategies for writing away from home.
14/04/2017 • 34 minutes 50 seconds
49: #BooksForWriters
...in which Jess and KJ recommend many and sundry books to get you or the aspiring writer in your life excited about writing, some inspiring, some practical.
07/04/2017 • 40 minutes 12 seconds
48: #StickWithIt
...in which Jess and KJ confess to not playing hooky as much as it might sound. KJ updates us on her Burn Chart and her looming May 1st deadline, and Jess shares some tools for working with editors. Also the dangers of cooking with wine, and where do dogs come from?
31/03/2017 • 41 minutes 15 seconds
47: #SpeakingCircuit 2
...in which Jess and KJ have more tips on fostering a speaking career. Jess explains the true purpose of the green M&M contract rider, and shares many other things she’s learned on the Speaking Circuit...the hard way.
24/03/2017 • 39 minutes 15 seconds
46: #GiveItARest
...in which Jess and KJ grapple with the challenge of not getting things done, and that’s OK! KJ’s on a media diet as her manuscript deadline looms, and Jess is repurposing work and taking naps.
17/03/2017 • 44 minutes 16 seconds
45: #FamilyMemoir
..in which Jess and KJ talk with Meghan Walbert about Foster Parent Diary, her column about foster parenting from the New York Times. They discuss the many perils that come with writing about real people, especially your family, like how to share without over-sharing, how to write about your kids and the need for editors who have your back.
10/03/2017 • 43 minutes 20 seconds
44: #GetTheFacts
...in which Jess and KJ emphasize the importance of good research. They explains the many facets of conducting primary research, from hiring a pollster to interviewing a source; otherwise read everything you can and keep your research straight (see episode 7)!
03/03/2017 • 43 minutes 52 seconds
43: #SpeakingCircuit
...in which Jess and KJ talk through turning a writing career into a speaking career. Jess has tips on how much to charge, how and who to pitch and other ways to jump-start your speaking career. And KJ updates us on her book progress, including that famous burn chart.
25/02/2017 • 41 minutes 38 seconds
42: #ThinkLikeAPirate
...in which Jess and KJ welcome Sarina Bowen back to the show to discuss piracy, and what writers can do about it. Sarina makes fighting back easy, offers up some helpful courses of action, and Jess and KJ talk about their reading this week..
17/02/2017 • 43 minutes 14 seconds
41: #VoiceofAuthority
...in which Jess and KJ talk about that ephemeral thing, the craft of writing with authority. Tips on keeping out the wishy-washy and examples of good voices.
10/02/2017 • 37 minutes 26 seconds
40: #GettingItDone (Write More)
...in which Jess is grappling with painters in the house, and getting out to get it done. Meanwhile KJ updates us on her burn chart and extols the virtues of a treadmill desk.
03/02/2017 • 31 minutes 40 seconds
39: #WriterTaxes
...in which Jess and KJ discuss tax strategies to help you put 2016 to bed and make the whole process go easier next year. Jess shares tips from a tax accountant about how to keep your financial house in order throughout the year.
27/01/2017 • 35 minutes 50 seconds
39: #WriterTaxes
...in which Jess and KJ discuss tax strategies to help you put 2016 to bed and make the whole process go easier next year. Jess shares tips from a tax accountant about how to keep your financial house in order throughout the year.
27/01/2017 • 35 minutes 50 seconds
38: #WriterFinances
..in which Jess and KJ get frank with the financial side of writing; When do you give up your day job? How much can you/should you get paid? Plus, updates on community building efforts and KJ walks us through her burn chart.
20/01/2017 • 45 minutes 6 seconds
37: #OrganizedWriter 2
...in which Jess and KJ wrap up their discussion on organizational tools. KJ advocates building your schedule in blocks, and Jess shares the joy of spreadsheets.
13/01/2017 • 37 minutes 56 seconds
36: #OrganizedWriter 1
...in which Jess and KJ begin a deep dive into keeping your many projects organized. It all starts with comprehensive back-up SOPs, but they also have suggestions on keeping track of everything from emails to to paper files to social media. Plus, the trouble with raising goats.
06/01/2017 • 38 minutes 54 seconds
35: #ReadySetGoals 2
...in which Jess and KJ use the guidelines they set out last episode to create their own goals for 2017. KJ sets her word of the year and Jess has a book pick for finding new strategies.
29/12/2016 • 35 minutes 30 seconds
34: #ReadySetGoals
...in which Jess and KJ take aim at setting goals. What should you think about as you set those goals and what strategies can you use to achieve them. KJ also suggests assigning a personal Word of the the Year.
23/12/2016 • 26 minutes 40 seconds
33: #SnowDaysandHolidays
...in which Jess and KJ share some ideas for getting down to work when everyone else is taking days off. KJ suggests setting a definite (if abbreviated schedule) and keep a low profile, while Jess reserves certain tasks for snow days. Plus book recs for your holiday shopping list.
16/12/2016 • 39 minutes 42 seconds
32: #WriterGifts, 'Tis the Season to Write
...in which Jess and KJ offer some gift ideas for the writer in your life, or to suggest as gifts for yourself. Jess confesses a need for hard deadlines, and KJ implores you to make time to write despite the flurry of the season.
09/12/2016 • 35 minutes 46 seconds
31: #WriteWhatYouKnow, Your Experience Is Valuable
...in which Jess and KJ explain how writing what you know makes for engaging prose. KJ reviews her holiday writing goals, while Jess gives herself a pep talk, “stop thinking about it and do it!”
02/12/2016 • 32 minutes 12 seconds
30: #NosyFamilies, Talking About Your Work
...in which Jess and KJ discuss strategies about talking (or dodging talk) about your work. KJ tells of her trials when breaking into the biz, and Jess grapples with that demoralizing “what’s next?” question that comes after your first book.
25/11/2016 • 39 minutes 36 seconds
29: #WhenToQuit, Get Your Butt Outta the Chair
...in which Jess and KJ put on brave faces and and take on the sunk costs fallacy as they hash out ways to identify when it’s actually best to walk away from a project. The benefits of re-reading and a look at how KJ’s getting on with MailChimp.
18/11/2016 • 33 minutes 52 seconds
28: #OpEd, Own Your Expertise
...in which Jess and KJ have recommendations on how to write and pitch your op-ed or essay piece. KJ has another chapter from her email list saga, and of course their weekly reading recs.
11/11/2016 • 44 minutes
27: #WriterFriends
...in which Jess and KJ answer a listener email about their friendship, their professional relationship, and about making and keeping writer friends.
04/11/2016 • 34 minutes 17 seconds
26: #UniTasking, Is that a Thing?
...in which Jess and KJ offer up some tips on how to stay on one task. Jess updates us on her “2,000 words a day” project, and KJ on her audience building.
28/10/2016 • 38 minutes 15 seconds
25: #ReadingTheComments, the Good the Bad and the Ugly
...in which Jess and KJ consider whether and how to respond to readers, both in life and online, who have "comments." KJ breaks down the types of readers who respond, and Jess has a story about developing a thicker skin.
21/10/2016 • 32 minutes 55 seconds
24: #AskAnAgent, A Sit-Down with Jenny Bent
...in which Jess and KJ pick the brains of Agent Jenny Bent, of The Bent Agency, about finding the right agent and getting her attention. They also discuss what you need before you start sending out queries.
14/10/2016 • 38 minutes 33 seconds
23: #FirstWords, How to Start the Day
...in which Jess and KJ discuss various strategies for picking up the thread of of the previous day’s writing, and KJ has some tips on building your audience with carrots.
07/10/2016 • 35 minutes 3 seconds
22: #OfficeWoes, Making Do with Little or No Office Space
...in which Jess and KJ offer tips for the “officially” challenged for organizing writing projects, KJ’s updates us on her adventures in audience building, and Jess sets a goal of 2,000 words a day.
30/09/2016 • 32 minutes 50 seconds
21: #BuildingAnAudience (Pretty Much What it Sounds Like)
...in which Jess and KJ answer a listener’s question about “Capturing the Wild Idea,” and KJ explains the finer points of “permission marketing.”
23/09/2016 • 35 minutes 42 seconds
20: #AmBlogging, Should I Start a Blog?
...in which Jess and KJ talk blogging, KJ tries bullet journaling and Jess needs help keeping her butt in the chair on the road (even her Mom is helping).
15/09/2016 • 35 minutes 50 seconds
19: #AgentSecrets, Finding and Getting an Agent
...in which Jess and KJ have a few tips for finding the right agent and crafting your query; also KJ goes off the grid to get some work done and Jess recommends sleep.
09/09/2016 • 35 minutes 9 seconds
18: #WorkingMess, Harnessing the Energy of Spontaneity
...in which Jess and KJ allow themselves to work messy. KJ picks up the pieces of a frustrating week, and Jess rushes to meet a 36-hour deadline.
02/09/2016 • 32 minutes 7 seconds
17a: #OwItHurts, Taking Care of the Body While Flexing the Mind
***This is an updated episode. Sorry about the mis-fire, folks!***
...in which Jess and KJ consider how to keep your muscles from waning as you wax poetic with pen and paper. KJ recommends getting messy with your creativity and Jess speaks to a physical trainer about staying limber in the chair.
25/08/2016 • 21 minutes
16: #FreshFallStart, Vacation Was Nice Now Back to Work
...in which Jess and KJ get ready to go back to school. Jess works on her dialogue with Aaron Sorkin and KJ recommends using the weekend to easy the little tensions of the week.
17/08/2016 • 34 minutes 38 seconds
15: #BeforeTheBook, Things You Can Do to Ensure the Success of Your Work
...in which Jess and KJ discuss identifying, building and engaging an audience that enjoys your work.
11/08/2016 • 29 minutes 39 seconds
14: #ItTakesTwo, How to Write with a Partner
...in which romance novelist Sarina Bowen returns to speak with Jess and KJ about writing with a partner from establishing a workflow, to hashing out an agreement.
03/08/2016 • 30 minutes 38 seconds
13: #HowItsDone, A Step By Step for Self-Publishing
...in which Jess and KJ speak with romance novelist Sarina Bowen about self publishing, everything from choosing a pseudonym to marketing the finished product.
27/07/2016 • 41 minutes 28 seconds
12: #MistakesWereMade, The Quest for Truth and Perfection
...in which Jess and KJ examine the spectrum of mistakes that writers can make, and they argue the merits of listening to an audiobook versus reading the book.
20/07/2016 • 35 minutes 14 seconds
11: #AmDissecting, Adding Structure to Creativity
...in which KJ works on her Moth story and her book, Jess starts a project with her son, and your assignment - take something apart.
22/06/2016 • 31 minutes
10: #WriteNow, Feed Your Writing, with Reading, Bouncy Balls and Silence
...in which KJ abandons her To-Do List, Jess commits to writing 1,000 words a day on her vacation; and the virtues of busying the body to free the mind.
15/06/2016 • 34 minutes 51 seconds
9: #ActuallyTypingWords, Stay in the Chair and Write Now!
...in which Jess grapples with a perennial issue, KJ warns about using friends as writing fodder, and is it always a bad idea to procrastinate?
08/06/2016 • 34 minutes 42 seconds
8: #DeadofExposure, Should You Write for Free and Great Long Reads
...in which Jess's heart acts up and KJ worries about the atrophy of certain writing muscles, and inspiration striking at the wrong time.
01/06/2016 • 36 minutes 35 seconds
7: #AmResearching, Keep Those Notes Organized, and Remember When...
...in which KJ and Jess talk about how they organize their research and wax nostalgic about their first successful pitches. #amwriting #ampitching #amprocrastinating
20/05/2016 • 30 minutes 49 seconds
6: #AmRecommending, Tech Tools (High and Low) and A Special Contest
...in which Jess reminds us that word counts are not suggestions and KJ warns of the perils of the Butterfly Effect.
13/05/2016 • 40 minutes 46 seconds
5: #AmConferencing, Writing it Down and Making Connections
...in which Jess and KJ go into the closet (excuse the squeaky door) and discuss the values of the writers conference, and the dangers of writing in your head. #amwriting #ampitching #amprocrastinating
06/05/2016 • 28 minutes 44 seconds
4: #AmInterviewing, The Art of the Interview and Ignoring the Inbox
…in which KJ shares her love of sheep and Jess offers some sensible sources for inspiration. #amwriting #ampitching #amprocrastinating #aminterviewing
30/04/2016 • 35 minutes 37 seconds
3: #AmOverwhelmed, Killing Other People’s Darlings and Timing Pitches
…in which KJ struggles with killing other people’s darlings and Jess waxes rhapsodic about audiobooks. #amwriting #ampitching #amprocrastinating
23/04/2016 • 31 minutes 10 seconds
2: #AmPitching, Good Strategies and Unexpected Hurdles
...in which events conspire to put KJ behind on her assignments and Jess cancels plans for building a sauna. #AmPitching #AmProcrastinating #AmWriting
13/04/2016 • 28 minutes 58 seconds
1: #AmProcrastinating, with Frankensock and Poop
...in which Jess discusses the allure of cow manure and KJ shows off her knitting prowess.