Embody your femininity, enhance your sex-life and elevate your relationships with The Sensuality Academy podcast. Join Sensuality Coach, Sex Educator & Sensual Movement Practitioner, Eleanor Hadley, as she shares juicy gems from her own life and stories of clients' success along with tangible techniques to help you discover your sense of self-love, cultivate self-intimacy and boost your self-esteem. If you're craving to feel more sensual and more connected - with your body, your sexuality and with your partner - this is the show for you. I truly believe that by giving yourself permission to step in to your innate sensuality, you will develop a better relationship with yourself (and others), you will learn to love and appreciate your body (as it is right now) and that you'll have way better sex - who doesn't want that!? Throwing away the taboo and stigma that is usually associated with such themes, each episode Eleanor will dive in to topics centred around pleasure, sex, periods, mindset, feminism, movement, relationships, communication and of course - sensuality. Connect more deeply - with your mind, body and pleasure - with The Sensuality Academy podcast. Now, let's get sensual!
Sex isn't Dirty: Releasing Conditioned Sexual Shame
54 | It's important to go inwards and tune in to all the messages we tell ourselves about sex. It's even more important to understand further where these messages have stemmed from; this is how we question our conditioning. Often, these messages come from external factors such as society, our upbringing-- what our parents, teachers, or anyone else who has influenced us have told us. All of these things impact how we relate to ourselves. In this episode, I want to break down and explore common messages that we have possibly received growing up about sex, pleasure, and masturbation. I explain how they could be affecting us, conditioning us, and holding us back from experiencing deep pleasure.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•Exploring the messages that we received growing up
•Why you should be changing up your masturbation routine
•Rewiring what sex means to you
•The degrading messages we have received about liking sex
•How to start peeling back the layers of conditioning
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources -
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
10/31/2021 • 33 minutes, 11 seconds
BDSM 101 with Erin Kyna
53 | The world of BDSM is very raw, honest and there are alot of common misconceptions. When it comes to sexual expression, I believe it can be powerful and healing. Peeling back all those layers is never a sweet and vanilla experience though, it means we have to let go of any shame, conditioning, or judgment. If you're here, you're probably curious to know more a bit more about it, and you're in luck because today's guest is going to break down the BDSM 101 for us.
Erin Kyna is a trauma-informed sexuality healer and coach; it is her pleasure and honor to guide women worldwide to embody their inner goddess and their highest potential in all areas of life, including their sexual potential. In this episode, Erin and I spoke all about what BDSM actually is, the healing potential that it holds, how to get started exploring the world of BDSM and consensual kink, and so much more. I encourage you to tune into this episode with an open mind.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•What BDSM Stands for
•The difference in terminology
•Common misconceptions
•Power dynamics: dominant and submissive roles
•What we can learn from the BDSM Community
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources -
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Erin's Website: https://erinkyna.com/
Connect with Erin on IG: @erinkyna
FetLife is the Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community: https://fetlife.com/
10/24/2021 • 1 hour, 23 minutes, 20 seconds
The Magic of Human Design with Chrissy Roil
52 | When I had my first astrology reading, I was absolutely blown away-- It was the beginning of a spiritual and energetic self-discovery journey. Later on, I discovered Human Design, and things started to shift dramatically for me. Understanding your unique human design gives you insight into your life's purpose. It can improve the way you make decisions, how you show up in your personal/professional life, and guide you into living a more impactful life.
Today's Guest Chrissy Roil is a life design coach, igniting women to the Soulstress within. She really gets a kick out of seeing women walking this earth fully expressed, expansive and radiant AF. Guiding experiences of soul led and aligned embodiment, Chrissy reminds us where to look... within. She sparks women to stop looking outside of themselves and playing by the one size fits all rule book. She illuminates and ignites women to their soul's purpose through her signature process, pathway to purpose, weaving in the magic of human design and embodied soul guidance. In this episode, Chrissy will explain what human design is, the different energy types, and how understanding your unique spiritual blueprint can help you live your life by design instead of default.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•The different H.D energy types and what they mean
•Common limiting beliefs for each human design
•What is your authority?
•Energy Centres
•Understanding your spiritual blueprint
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources -
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Chrissy's Website: https://www.chrissyroil.com/
Connect with Chrissy on IG: @chrissyroil
10/17/2021 • 56 minutes, 38 seconds
Love, Lust & Limerence
51 | When we first fall in love, we have a biochemical reaction. There's an increase in dopamine, to the point we almost feel intoxicated. It's like drug addiction. We've all been there when we meet someone and suddenly feel starry-eyed and infatuated. We place that person on a pedestal, but this comes from a place of limerence. In this episode, I'll be diving into all things love, lust, and limerence. I'll be sharing all about why we experience limerence, how to recognise the signs, and how to tune into your body to understand these biochemical reactions so you can maintain healthy relationships with yourself and your lovers.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•What Limerence is
•Tuning in to your definition of 'love.
•Sign of being in 'limerence'
•Addictions, fantasies, and starry eyes
•Questions to ask yourself for lust and love awareness
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources -
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
9/26/2021 • 20 minutes, 50 seconds
Identity & Bisexuality with Anna Kochetkova
50 | Compulsory heterosexuality has been ingrained into us since we were born. Although more conversations around bisexuality and everything else outside of what society deems as 'normal' have recently begun to open up, much of our conditioning comes into play when we're even starting to question and allow ourselves to explore our sexuality.
Today's guest Anna is a Russian-born Australian author and a passionate bi-plus activist based in Sydney. Anna is the author of soon-to-be released book, Bi & Prejudice, which explores multi-sexual attraction, human diversity, and mental health. In this episode, we speak about the stereotypes often associated with bisexuality, the differences between how bi men and women are perceived, the endless labels and their importance, the rise in representation, and so much more.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•Anna's experience with coming out later in life
•The impact of representation
•Bisexuality & stereotypes
•Should we be identifying with labels?
•The conditioning received about differences in sexuality
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Bi & Prejudice IG: https://www.instagram.com/biandprejudice/
Buy the book: https://www.debutbooks.com.au/bookstore/p/bi-prejudice-by-anna-kochetkova
Disclosure documentary about trans representation in media: https://www.disclosurethemovie.com/about
9/19/2021 • 52 minutes, 15 seconds
F*** Consistency & Tune Into Your Cycle
49 | Far too often, as a result of capitalism, we measure our worth by output metrics. How much did you do today? What have you produced? What tangible things have you contributed to society? How much money have you made doing that? After spending most of my life absolutely beating myself up for being what I labeled as lazy and inconsistent and forever trying to be more productive. I'm proud to say that I no longer identify with being productive.
In this episode, we explore the fallacy of consistency. We've been conditioned to think that consistency is super important to living a good, productive life. I'll break down exactly why I no longer strive to be 'productive' and instead how to live more in tune with the phases of your cycle. I hope that all people who menstruate can learn more about their cycles to relax more into their natural rhythms.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•Why I don't believe in ''consistency.''
•The metrics I now measure my life by
•The 4 phases of the female menstrual cycle
•How the male and female hormonal changes are different
•How to tune into the magical messages that your body sends you each month
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources -
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Know Your Yoni: Natural Birth Control: https://www.eleanorhadley.com/podcast/18
Book: Invisible woman: https://www.booktopia.com.au/invisible-women
9/12/2021 • 22 minutes, 40 seconds
Why You Could Be Experiencing Pain During Sex with Leah Tassios
48 | If you're listening to this podcast, then chances are you have a vulva, or you have sex with people with vulvas. Unfortunately, for many people with vulvas, sex can tend to be more painful than pleasurable. One in three women will experience pain during sex, while up to 17% (one in ten women) will be diagnosed with a related condition called Vaginismus. Women's pain is notoriously undervalued in the medical field, and anything to do with women's sexual function is seen as unimportant.
Today's guest Leah Tassios experienced first-hand the incredibly isolating, confusing, and painful condition. After many referrals, specialist appointments, and awkward conversations, Leah was eventually diagnosed with secondary Vaginismus. After several months of struggling to navigate treatment options, Leah overcame her condition and once again enjoyed pain-free sex. She has now developed a mobile app designed to guide and support users through their own experience with Vaginismus. If you've experienced any unwanted pain during sex yourself or had a partner express that they've been in pain, this episode is essential listening.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•What is Vaginismus, and how to know if you have it
•The causes of Vaginismus
•What treatment options are available
•The correlation between PCOS, Endometriosis & Vaginismus
•The journey to recovery and more comfortable sex
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources -
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Vaginismus Article: https://thenewdaily.com.au/life/wellbeing/2021/07/03/vaginismus-womens-health/
Gina App Instagram: https://instagram.com/gina_app_?utm_medium=copy_link
GINA App: https://ginaapp.com/app
9/5/2021 • 37 minutes, 55 seconds
Disconnected After Sex? Try These Aftercare Tips
47 | Have you ever had really delicious sex only to feel disconnected, disappointed, or even just straight up disrespected afterward? Maybe your lover got up straight away, to leave or to do something else. Perhaps they rolled over and went to sleep without saying a word to you or just grabbed their phone and started scrolling. Any of those things sound familiar? If you've experienced these feelings or had a partner behave like this, you need aftercare.
Aftercare is the ways in which you continue the connection with one another post-sex to ensure that everyone feels respected. It is essentially any behavior that makes you feel respected, connected, and close with your lover. It's a way to soothe your nervous system after some intense sex or just some connection to come back down slowly coming back to real life. In this episode, I dive into all things aftercare. I share the do's, don'ts, and some ideas/top tips that came through from my IG community.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•What is aftercare
•The importance of aftercare
•Romance vs intimacy
•Post sex do's and don'ts
•The top aftercare tips from my community
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources -
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
How to Talk About Sex with Your: Partner https://www.eleanorhadley.com/podcast/27
The Ultimate Conversation Starter for Better Sex: https://www.eleanorhadley.com/podcast/15
8/29/2021 • 31 minutes, 27 seconds
Erotica, but Not as You Know It with Carly Pifer
46 | For many of us, especially those who identify as women or vulva owners, our arousal doesn't get sparked simply by the visual. It's the tease, the setup, the anticipation that gets us going to be intellectually stimulated. Enter erotica, but not as you know it. I'm so excited in this episode to introduce you to Carly Pifer, founder and editor in chief of Aurore. Aurore is a modern literary erotica site that shares real sex stories written by women and queer people. Aurore is designed to turn you on and help others get turned on through sharing true stories of people's sexual experiences.
Aurore is an inclusive feminist space for modern, relatable, and honest erotica. Carly works one-on-one with the writers to draw out their most intimate experiences through a cathartic, enlightening process that is so much fun to read. In this episode, we explore the fascinating origin story of Aurore, the difference between reading and watching porn, the importance of long-form erotica, the therapeutic benefit of writing your own stories, how reading other's experiences can enhance your own, and so much more.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•Origin Story of Aurore
•Reading real stories & questioning your conditioning
•How Aurore is different from visual porn
•Enhancing your own experience through Aurore
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on Instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources -
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Read Aurore: https://readaurore.com/
Aurore Eroitca IG @readaurore
8/22/2021 • 35 minutes, 14 seconds
Labiaplasty & Medical Misogyny with Jessica Pin
45 | Labiaplasty has been one of the fastest-growing medical procedures for about two decades now. Despite the abundance of surgeons performing this procedure, detailed clitoral anatomy has been missing from most medical textbooks. My guest today, Jessica Pin is an activist for the inclusion of detailed clitoral anatomy and medical literature and curriculum. Jessica has successfully convinced nine major medical textbooks to update their content and 11 more to consider updates. She has also published a cadaveric study with plastic surgeons, convinced OBGYNSs to publish a cadaveric study and effected changes in the OBGYN's board certification and residency curriculum in the States.
In today's episode, we explore the medical misogyny and the ambivalence of medical institutions regarding vulva anatomy, specifically, the absence of detailed clitoral anatomy in the medical literature. For anyone listening who may have been considering labiaplasty, I hope this episode provides you with a new perspective; this is not to convince you otherwise but rather to offer you insight.
If you, or anyone you know has had some shame or discomfort around their vulva. I highly recommend checking out my friends website: www.comfortableinmyskincom.au
In this episode, you'll learn:
•Jessica's story and what brought her into this type of work
•Why labiaplasty is one of the fastest growing procedures
•How removing parts of the labia can cause danger to your sexual function
•How Jessica has successfully convinced nine major medical textbooks to update their content and 11 more to consider updates.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links & Resources
•Join the Embodied Course waitlist here
•To work with me 1:1 head here
•Follow Jessica on instagram here
8/11/2021 • 56 minutes, 51 seconds
Bisexual or Bi-curious? Explore Your Desires with Skirt Club Founder Genevieve LeJeune
44 | "Sexual empowerment is not just about turning on your boyfriend with another girl. It's about doing what excites you."
In a society that perpetuates compulsory heterosexuality, many of us don't allow ourselves to question our sexuality, let alone even know where to start if we do feel we may not be 100% straight. In this episode, I'm honored to have someone who has been a pioneer in the sexuality space, specifically for bisexual and bicurious women, for over seven years. Genevieve LeJeune is the founder of Skirt Club; a safe, intimate, and luxurious community in which bisexual and bicurious women can explore their sexuality without the presence of men. Her worldwide events encourage women to put their desires first, and their signature play parties offer women a chance to discover their sexuality, away from the prying eyes of men.
In this episode, we explore:
•What the Skirt Club community is all about
•First time experiences for bisexual and bi-curious women
•Uncovering polarity
•How Skirt Club came about
•Being with a woman sexually for the first time
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Skirt Club: https://skirtclub.co.uk/about
7/19/2021 • 51 minutes, 2 seconds
Sara's Experience of EMBODIED
BONUS | In this special bonus episode of the podcast we hear from a past student of mine, Sara, about her experience with my 6-week online program, EMBODIED. Sara shares with us the profound impact that this course had on her relationship with herself, exploring her feminine side for the first time and discovering strength in softness. If you're interested to know what you can expect from joining EMBODIED, have a listen!
Through video lessons, curated exercises, workbooks and guided meditations, along with weekly live zoom sessions with me, we'll explore how to feel truly embodied from the inside out. Each week we'll dive in to a new topic to help you connect deeper with your self, your pleasure and your loved ones. We'll explore themes such as:
✨ Self-Enquiry and De-conditioning
✨ The energetics of Feminine & Masculine Polarity
✨ Menstrual Cycle Awareness
✨ Self-Intimacy & Self-Pleasure
✨ S3x & Orga$m
✨ Relationships & Communication
Enrolments for EMBODIED are open now! Head to thesensualityacademy.com/embodied
7/14/2021 • 27 minutes, 21 seconds
5 Ways to Start Receiving & Drop Into Your Femininity
43 | How good are you at receiving? Allowing and becoming receptive is a natural feminine quality, yet our society's masculine blueprint has conditioned us to forget this part of our nature. Women, in particular, can find it really hard to receive, accept and ask for help. If you identify with the energy of the feminine at your core, living your life in the fast lane is a surefire way to burn yourself out quickly and easily.
In this episode, I want to discuss the five ways in which you can start to lean into your femininity more and allow receptivity into your life. I invite you to learn all about why you need to stop resisting and start allowing and why you should stop giving so much and start receiving.
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
In this episode, you'll learn:
•'Keeping score' & why this habit needs to stop
•Realising your worth
•Setting Boundaries
•Sensitivity & receptivity
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Episode 11: How to Set & Maintain Boundaries
Episode 12: The Problem with Productivity
The Alex Wolf Podcast
7/11/2021 • 28 minutes, 42 seconds
Elaine's Experience of EMBODIED
BONUS | In this special bonus episode of the podcast we hear from a past student of mine, Elaine, about her experience with my 6-week online program, EMBODIED. Elaine opens up about the ways in which the practices she learnt in the course impacted her relationship with herself and her boyfriend, what she loved most about the course and so much more.
Through video lessons, curated exercises, workbooks and guided mediations, along with weekly live zoom sessions with me, we'll explore how to feel truly embodied from the inside out. Each week we'll dive in to a new topic to help you connect deeper with your self, your pleasure and your loved ones. We'll explore themes such as:
✨ Self-Enquiry and De-conditioning
✨ The energetics of Feminine & Masculine Polarity
✨ Menstrual Cycle Awareness
✨ Self-Intimacy & Self-Pleasure
✨ S3x & Orga$m
✨ Relationships & Communication
Enrolments for EMBODIED open next week & waitlist students will receive bonus content plus priority enrolment.
To get yourself on the waitlist, head to thesensualityacademy.com/embodied-waitlist - or simply find the link in the episode description and show notes.
7/7/2021 • 18 minutes, 20 seconds
Embodiment: Achieve Deep Intimacy, Presence and Connection
42 | As many of you know, this podcast and my work centre around feminine embodiment, but what does that really mean? Embodiment to me is a deep presence and sense of connection. So often, I think we are all so disconnected from our physical body that despite being conditioned to be hyper-fixated on the external appearance of our bodies, we tend to disconnect from our senses completely.
In my years as a coach, I've developed a framework that helps you achieve total feminine embodiment from the inside out. I've refined years of extensive study and research into easily understandable teachings designed to bring you awareness to where you are now, where you want to be, with tangible tools and techniques to help you get there. In this episode, We explore what it truly means to be embodied in your feminine as well as a deep dive into my signature Sensualista Framework, where I will guide you to harness your radiance and fully tap into your sensual power.
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
In this episode, you'll learn:
•Tuning into your feminine energy
•The three pillars of sensual embodiment
•The framework of my upcoming course Embodied
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Episode 4: Understanding Masculine & Feminine Energies
7/4/2021 • 17 minutes, 56 seconds
A Guide to Cervical Orgasms with Olivia Bryant
41| We love talking all about orgasms on this show, and this episode dives deep into the almighty, yet elusive, cervical orgasm. This mysterious orgasm can only be described as transcendental. But, how do you achieve it?
In this episode, I am joined by Olivia Bryant, founder of Self: Cervix. A global movement educating about the orgasmic potential of the cervix.
In this episode we explore:
•What cervical de-armouring is
•How to resensitize the cervix
•The link between your orgasms & your emotions
•The importance of boundary setting in self-pleasure
•How to access more orgasmic states
If you are wanting to really unlock your orgasmic potential, settle in and enjoy.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Book Pleasure Party with me here: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasureparty
Join the waitlist for EMBODIED: www.thesensualityacademy.com/embodied-waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to www.eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
To explore Self: Cervix courses: https://selfcervix.com
Follow Self: Cervix on instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/selfcervix/
6/28/2021 • 55 minutes, 43 seconds
Motherhood & Sensuality with Regan Figg
40 | Motherhood and sensuality. In today's very patriarchal society, many people are made to feel like the two don't go together. There is this steeped view that mothers cannot be sensual or sexual beings. Many parents, especially mothers, have reached out to me and shared about their struggle with finding space for sensuality, so I brought in a guest expert that can speak on my favorite topic through the lens of motherhood.
Regan Figg is a Pleasurepreneur and Feminine Embodiment Coach. She helps women deepen their connection with their bodies, know, live & succeed from their feminine essence and lead with pleasure - in business, in motherhood, in relationship. Through the pathway and practices of sensuality, Tao Tantric arts, NLP, embodiment, and yogic practices, Regan mentors women through her uniquely curated Pleasure Preneur Mastermind, online programs, and private 1:1 coaching packages. Regan is here to be her embodied, liberated, sovereign Goddess self and inspire others to be the same.
In our chat today, we explored how new mothers can tap back into sensuality with ease. The problem with the Madonna-whore dichotomy, finding time for pleasure practices, how to be more present with yourself and your children, and setting an example of an embodiment for your children. Today's episode is for all the parents out there, anyone aspiring to be a parent or just helpful for anybody who knows people who have kids; we love a little bit of empathy around here.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•The Influence the Madonna-whore complex has had on Mothers as sexual beings
•Reconnecting and fostering a relationship with your body and senses post-pregnancy
•Common belief systems that block mothers from accessing pleasure and the process of reframing these beliefs
•Following your pleasure and the positive impacts that can have on your children
•Tapping into your senses and learning to be present with your children
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Join the Embodied Course: Waitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Tune into the "Dive In with Regan Figg" podcast
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/38FMbmD6WqD93heBGxIx7Y
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/dive-in-with-regan-figg/id1545504522
Learn from & connect with Regan via her Instagram & Facebook pages;
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/regan_figg/
Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/TheReganFigg/?ref=bookmarks
6/21/2021 • 50 minutes, 49 seconds
Rewriting Sexual Narratives with Tamica Wilder
39 | *TW: Discussion of s*xual assault.
Consent, boundaries and conditioning - these are topics of sexuality that are rarely explored until it's absolutely necessary. But, they have the potential to be incredibly empowering. In this episode we are joined by author of newly release Wild Honey, Tamica Wilder in a candid discussion about how we can rewrite our own sexual narratives, what's missing from sex ed and the ways in which we can approach our own sexuality through a somatic lens.
Tamica Wilder AKA The Orgasmic Mama is a Melbourne-based somatic sex coach and multiqualified therapist with a deep passion for teaching humans to re-attune to the wisdom of our bodies, while giving full permission to shamelessly prioritise pleasure and play.
She believes that our current cultural narratives around sex, intimacy, pleasure and relationships need a damn good shake up! Never one to shy away from a challenge, Tamica is committed to leading the charge. Working with our sexuality, intimacy and the less mastered parts of our human nature can be a tricky and intricate piece of the personal development puzzle. Tamica brings more than 18 years of facilitation and group-work experience and guides with compassion, humour, gentleness, love and curiosity, in all that she does.
As a mother of two little critters, she is also well attuned to the importance of creating sex-positive families and helps parents build the confidence to have 'those chats' with their kids and other family members. Tamica's work will arm you with the tools you need to create lasting and meaningful change inside your intimate relationships, your somatic understanding and reminds you of all that's possible inside your full and authentic sexual expression.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources
Buy your copy of Wild Honey here: https://www.debutbooks.com.au/bookstore/p/wild-honey-by-tamica-wilder
Find Tamica on instagram @theorgasmicmama: https://instagram.com/theorgasmicmama
Join The Art of Seduction: Empowered Lap Dance Online Course Waitlist: http://thesensualityacademy.com/seduction
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
6/11/2021 • 45 minutes, 37 seconds
Mental Health, Toxic Positivity & Slowing Down
38| I'm back, baby! It's been a few months in between episodes because life got really life-y for a while there. Just like you, I'm very human and experience some downs amongst the ups. In this episode, I'm opening up about mental health, being gentle on yourself, slowing down and letting go of the toxic positivity that gets in the way of healing.
If you've also been through the mud lately, I see you. I hope this episode provides you with some solace to know that you're not alone, and that you're simply human.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources
Join The Art of Seduction: Empowered Lap Dance Online Course Waitlist: http://thesensualityacademy.com/seduction
Read my featured article in the Inspired Coach Magazine: https://www.beautifulyoucoachingacademy.com/inspired-coach-magazine-with-clare-desira/
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
6/8/2021 • 20 minutes, 56 seconds
Reclaiming your Sensuality with Sensual Movement
37| Discovering the power of sensual movement quite literally changed the course of my life and in this episode you'll learn how it can change yours too. From learning to appreciate your body to indulging in your pleasure, sensual movement is the ultimate way to connect with yourself.
In this episode we explore:
•The detrimental impacts of the traditional fitness industry
•How sensual movement can transform your self esteem
•Why I renamed my signature movement practice
•Cultural appropriation & yoga
•Introducing Sensualista Flow™️
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
2/28/2021 • 34 minutes, 43 seconds
Sex Drive 101: Decoding Desire
36| Continuing our mini series on sex drive and libidio, this week we're exploring desire - specifically the two distinct desire types that may be determining your appetite for sex. If you're feeling 'stuck' in your sex-life, this episode is for you.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•The two desire types
•How to recognise your predominant desire type
•How to communicate your desire
•Balancing out mismatched libidos
•How to increase desire
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources
Take the Pleasure Language Quiz: eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
Join my upcoming workshops at: eleanorhadley.com/events and join the waitlist for future workshops here: eleanorhadley.com/workshopwaitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
2/21/2021 • 15 minutes, 5 seconds
Sex Drive 101: All About Arousal
35| Some of the biggest concerns women tend to come to me with is a lack of desire, connection to their pleasure, struggles with sex drive and mismatched libido with their partners.
Often my clients tell me they feel like they're "broken", that they need fixing, that there's something wrong with them. They feel frustrated and despondent about their sexual desire - or lack thereof.
The knowledge I'm going to share with you today about arousal is going to change the way you view your libido forever.
You'll learn:
•The difference between desire and arousal
•The accelerators and brakes of your libido
•The two systems of arousal in your body
•How to increase your libido
•...and more!
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources
Take the Pleasure Language Quiz: eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
Join my upcoming workshops at: eleanorhadley.com/events and join the waitlist for future workshops here: eleanorhadley.com/workshopwaitlist
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Find Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski in my Library: https://www.eleanorhadley.com/library
Take the Sexual Temperament Questionnaire here: https://www.emilynagoski.com/come-as-you-are-worksheets
Buy Frenchie lube and other pleasure tools at my shop here: https://www.eleanorhadley.com/shop
2/14/2021 • 25 minutes, 47 seconds
Your Juiciest Valentine's Day Ever
34| We all know Valentine's Day has become somewhat of an over commodified holiday, so how can we bring more presence and intention to a day that is supposed to be all about love? Look no further than my juicy Valentine's Day Ritual. Perfect for singles and couples alike, in this episode I share:
•How to enhance connection with yourself or a lover
•Creating the ultimate environment for your Valentine's adventures
•Specific practices to help you open up to deep pleasure
•Intimacy enhancing tips
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources
Take the Pleasure Language Quiz: eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
Buy Sex Talk: eleanorhadley.com/products/sextalk
Listen to my playlists: https://open.spotify.com/user/1288874861
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
2/7/2021 • 25 minutes, 29 seconds
Welcome to Season 2: A Slow & Sensual Start to 2021
33| Let's start the year in a more intentional way, shall we? In the first episode of Season 2, we're exploring slow-living and how we can bring this philosophy to life in 2021. Rather than getting caught up in the popular new year rhetoric that insinuates you must have your whole year planned out to a tee and set a whole bunch of goals - let's consider a slower approach.
In this episode, you'll learn 7 ways to live a more slow, sensual and deeply intentional life.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources
Indulge your senses in my free 5-day Journey to Self-Love challenge. Sign up at eleanorhadley.com/journey
To work with me 1:1 head to eleanorhadley.com/work-with-me
Shop my favourites here: eleanorhadley.com/shop
1/31/2021 • 19 minutes, 26 seconds
Sex & Your Cycle with Vianney Leigh
32| Do you know how powerful your period really is? Not only does the menstrual cycle act as your fifth vital sign and indicator of health, but you can also tune in to it to help you achieve better sex.
On today's episode I'm chatting with menstrual cycle alignment expert, Vianney Leigh where we explore:
•The four phases/seasons of the cycle
•The 5 hormones involved in our cycle
•The difference between male and female hormonal systems
•Cycle as a marker of health
•How to optimise your cycle
•Best time in your cycle to have sex
•Healing cramps through sex
Vianney Leigh is a certified life & success coach, menstrual cycle alignment expert, and host of the Periods & Power Moves Podcast. Vianney is also the founder of Status Flow Collective - an education, empowerment, and coaching business that transforms and elevates your life through the power of your period. The brand's mission is to challenge and disrupt the status quo of menstrual cycles.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Connect with Vianney on instagram: http://instagram.com/statusflow.co/
Vianney's Programs:
Flow Zone Alchemy - https://statusflowco.lpages.co/flow-zone-alchemy/
Perfect Flow Formula - https://statusflowco.lpages.co/the-perfect-flow-action-guide/
Period Power Activism - https://statusflowco.lpages.co/cycle-activism-cheat-sheet/
Read The Fifth Vital Sign by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack: https://www.booktopia.kh4ffx.net/EkWXK
Episode 18: Know Your Yoni: An Intro to the Fertility Awareness Method
11/11/2020 • 51 minutes, 13 seconds
Dear Men: 6 Things Women Wish You Knew About Sex
31| Men - want to learn how to be a better lover? This is the episode for you. It's an unfortunate fact that many straight women have very unsatisfying sex-lives and difficulty with orgasm. But it doesn't have to be this way. The women in your life will thank you for listening to this episode.
We'll uncover exactly what it is that women wish men knew about sex and you'll leave with a deeper understanding of:
•The differences is arousal states between men and women
•What you need to do to make her feel safe enough to open to pleasure
•Pleasure anatomy
•The top things to avoid
•And so much moreThis podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
To join the upcoming masterclass, 'Men & Sex: Unlocking Her Pleasure', register your interest here: https://www.eleanorhadley.com/menandsex
Episodes mentioned:
Episode 10: Gourmet Sex VS Snack Sex
Episode 15: The Ultimate Conversation Starter for Better Sex
Episode 19: Polarity: Unlocking Your Most Delicious Sex
Episode 26: The 6 Keys to Sacred Sensual Sex
Episode 27: How to Talk About Sex with Your Partner
11/1/2020 • 41 minutes, 45 seconds
Self-Enquiry, Energy & Manifestation with Efia Sulter
30| Many of us are on a constant quest for self-improvement, but how do we do this from an embodied perspective? In this episode I'm joined by mindset coach, Efia Sulter to dive deeper into all things mindset and manifestation.
In this eye-opening chat, we explore:
•How to balance your masculine and feminine energies
•Reframing our so-called negative traits
•Making meditation less intimidating
•How to find all the answers you need within yourself
•Journalling for self-enquiry
•Efia's signature framework for manifestation
•And the importance of setting boundaries
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here (LINK) or over on instagram @eleanorhadley (LINK)
Links and Resources:
Efia Sulter is a mindset coach who is obsessed with helping millennial women squash their limiting beliefs and create empowering new stories so they can manifest the lives of their dreams.
You can connect with her on instagram @efiasulter_
Manifestation Course - effytalkslife.com/conscious-alchemy
Facebook community - Facebook.com/groups/thehighvibesoultribe
29| If you struggle to identify as a feminist or are sick of hearing masculinity being labelled as "toxic" - this episode is for you. As a self-proclaimed feminist who loves men, navigating the feminist movement can be akin a minefield, dogding forced gender roles, "man-hating" rhetoric, judgement and toxicity.
In this episode we're going to be exploring feminism and why I personally believe the movement needs to focus more on respecting femininity. We'll also be exploring masculinity and why it's actually not toxic, despite what we've been led to believe.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here: [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
The Sensuality Academy Podcast is edited and produced with thanks to Music Producer/Mixer, Matthew Hadley. You can find his work at www.matthewhadley.net
Links and Resources:
The Art of Seduction Waitlist: https://eleanorhadley.kartra.com/page/seduction
To book me for speaking engagements of workshops (in person or online), email [email protected]
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~
→ Sensualista 1:1 coaching: http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/
→ Book a chemistry call: https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemistry-call-schedule/
10/18/2020 • 32 minutes, 21 seconds
[BONUS] Pursuing Pleasure: The Art of Sensuality, Self Enquiry & Sexuality within the Divine Feminine Power
BONUS #1 | I'm so excited to be bringing you some special bonus episodes! I've been featured on some amazing podcasts and have recently chatted with some of the wonderful hosts and they've agreed to let me share our interviews with you here on The Sensuality Academy Podcast.
First up, we have an interview I did with Samantha Ruberto of Hello BeYOUtiful.
In this interview, we chat all about my best secrets to spice up your life and immerse yourself on a heightened sensual path. We chat about the importance of self love, the myths around female sexuality and how to set a mood - wherever you may be.
You can find the Hello BeYOUtiful Podcast here: https://hello-beyoutiful.simplecast.com/episodes/pursuing-pleasure-how-to-tap-into-your-sensual-side-the-art-of-self-inquiry-sexuality-divine-feminine-power-with-eleanor-hadley-g3QEcqgR
Follow @samantharuberto: https://www.instagram.com/samantharuberto/
Follow @hellobeyoutifulpodcast https://www.instagram.com/hellobeyoutifulpodcast/
10/16/2020 • 37 minutes, 57 seconds
Self-Massage for Sensual Embodiment
28| How often do you intentionally touch yourself with true self-honouring reverence? I'm betting it's not nearly enough.
In this episode I'm sharing one of my favourite ways to honour my body every single day, the practice that instantly connects you with your innate sensuality. It's powerful, potent and 100% free. This simple practice is easy to slip into your daily routine with no fuss and is incredibly effective at getting you in touch with yourself on a deeper, more intimate level.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley.
The Sensuality Academy Podcast is edited and produced with thanks to Music Producer/Mixer, Matthew Hadley. You can find his work at www.matthewhadley.net
Links and Resources:
Sensual playlist on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4vT9dZGaM0Sdstps4TwwBf?si=H6yUuChcT1KhplJFBsMGHQ
The Art of Seduction Waitlist: https://eleanorhadley.kartra.com/page/seduction
The Art of Sensual Movement Online Course: http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/theartofsensualmovement/
→ Use code PODCAST for 15% off
To book be for speaking engagements of workshops (in person or online), email [email protected]
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
10/12/2020 • 35 minutes, 7 seconds
How to Talk About Sex with Your Partner with Sexologist Mickie Woods
27| Do you struggle to communicate with your partner about what you do and don't like in the bedroom?
In this episode, sexologist Mickie Woods and I discuss how on earth to make talking about sex something that's more sexy than it is cringe, all about boundaries and how they can be liberating rather than claustrophobic, we explore the tendency for women to be people pleasers, the importance of self-exploration for deeper pleasure and what she calls a 'masturdate'.
Mickie Woods is a sexologist, writer, and entrepreneur. Over the years, her work has centred on the importance of authentic human connection and the power of self-awareness. Her latest endeavour Sex Talk, is a card game intended to facilitate healthy discussions on sex and help improve our most intimate relationships.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here (LINK) or over on instagram @eleanorhadley (LINK)
The Sensuality Academy Podcast is edited and produced with thanks to Music Producer/Mixer, Matthew Hadley. You can find his work at www.matthewhadley.net
Links and Resources:
Buy Sex Talk at www.sextalkgame.com
Follow Sex Talk on Instagram: @sextalkgame
Connect with Mickie: @quickieswithmickie and www.quickieswithmickie.com
Check out episode 15: The Ultimate Conversation Starter for Better Sex
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
10/6/2020 • 48 minutes, 47 seconds
The 6 Keys to Sacred Sensual Sex
26 | Want to have better, more connected sex? This episode is for you. Uplevel your sex-life by adding in some sensuality to enhance pleasure, intimacy and of course, orgasms.
We explore:
•What sensuality is and how it can make sex so much better
•Using the five senses in unique ways to enhance your sex-life
•6 practices you can try to encourage more connection
As a Sensuality Coach & Sex Educator, it's only natural that I love teaching all about Sacred, Sensual Sex. This episode is an introductory overview of my popular 2hr workshop of the same name - to book your online or in person workshop visit eleanorhadley.com/workwithme
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Check out episode 10: 'Gourmet Sex VS Snack Sex'
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~
→ Sensualista 1:1 coaching: http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/
→ Book a chemistry call: https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemistry-call-schedule/
9/27/2020 • 28 minutes, 5 seconds
WAP & Why Normalising Female Sexual Desire is an Intersectional Feminist Issue with Rhea Cartwright
25 | Love it or hate it, you can't deny the success of what my guest is now calling Cardi B's feminist anthem, WAP. So why did a song about women's sexual desire cause such a stir?
In this episode, I chat with Rhea Cartwright about sexual liberation, the male gaze, the fetishization of black women's bodies, faking orgasms, sex workers, the fascinating roots of animal print, unpacking our internalised biases, calling in allies and so much more.
Rhea is a London-based journalist and consultant. With an extensive background working in the beauty industry, she writes for publications such as Vogue, Refinery29 and PopSugar. In her multi-discipline career her aim is always to inspire, motivate, educate and empower.
If you're looking for a fresh perspective on this pop sensation, this interview will provide you with some incredible insights you may not have considered before. Enjoy!
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Read the article: https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/why-cardi-b-megan-wap-video-is-feminist-47715672
Connect with Rhea on instagram: @its_rhea
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~
→ Sensualista 1:1 coaching: http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/
→ Book a chemistry call: https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemistry-call-schedule/
9/20/2020 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 4 seconds
Bisexuality & Sexual Fluidity with Megan van de
24 | In this episode we're joined by Megan van de, talking all about bisexuality & sexual fluidity. We explore what bisexuality is (and isn't), the freedom in sexual and gender expression, how to be better allies, internalised biphobia, bisexual legitimacy, bi-curiousity, the spaciousness of bisexuality, mental health among bisexual folk, bi privilege, performative femininity - and so much more.
This is a really important episode to listen to, regardless of your sexuality, to learn more about something that is often left out of the conversation. If you're bisexual, questioning, have loved ones who are LGBTQIA+ or simply want to be a better ally, this is a powerful, gentle, eye-opening conversation.
Meg (she/her/they/them) is a Naarm/Melbourne-based, tough and tender, bisexual artist. They are the current VP of Melbourne Bisexual Network and one of the creators of the Big Bi+ Bonanza. They have particular interests in queerness, community, love and honesty, and they aim to always be curious and brave.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Learn more about the Big Bi+ Bonanza at www.standbius.com
Join Melbourne Bisexual Network at: http://melbournebisexualnetwork.com
Connect with Megan on instagram: @megan_van_de
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~
→ Sensualista 1:1 coaching: http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/
→ Book a chemistry call: https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemistry-call-schedule/
9/13/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 26 seconds
What the Number of People You've Had Sex With Means About You
23 | How many people have you had sex with? And does it matter?
This week on the podcast I'm talking all about what the term body count means, why we all need to be a lot less judgemental, the Madonna-Whore complex, prioritising your pleasure, having real conversations about sexual exploration and so much more.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~
→ Sensualista 1:1 coaching: http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/
→ Book a chemistry call: https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemistry-call-schedule/
Articles referenced:
https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-surprising-roots-of-the-word-slut
http://yeoja-mag.com/origin-word-slut/
https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-13333013
9/7/2020 • 44 minutes, 32 seconds
Eye Contact: The Ultimate Intimacy Booster
22 | Can something as simple as eye contact really uplevel all your relationships? You better believe it! From friendships to dating and sex, eye contact is the gamechanger you need to start exploring in your life right now!
In this episode I'm sharing all about the power of intentional eye contact & how you can use it to enhance all your relationships, build more trust and even experience even more orgasmic pleasure.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email at [email protected] or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~
→ Sensualista 1:1 coaching: http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/
→ Book a chemistry call: https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemistry-call-schedule/
8/27/2020 • 30 minutes, 50 seconds
Stop Being Polite & Assert Your Damn Boundaries
21 | This week I had someone assume that, because of my profession, that I would want to have sex with him. I'm serious. After asking you all on instagram what assumptions you were sick of men making about you - I was inspired to record this week's episode. I'm going to get real with you and share why you need to stop being polite and assert your damn boundaries, while sharing a couple recent examples from my own life where I said screw you to being polite.
Links & resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~
→ 1:1 coaching
→ Book a chemistry call
Thank you so much for listening to this episode of The Sensuality Academy Podcast!
8/19/2020 • 21 minutes, 25 seconds
Sensuality & Slow Living: A Match Made in Heaven
20 | In a fast-paced world where we're conditioned to constantly consume, juggle a million tasks and always be aiming to achieve more and more, going slow can seem counterintuitive.
In this episode we explore the concept of slow-living and infusing sensuality into our lives as a daily practice, not an afterthought.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~
→ Sensualista 1:1 coaching: http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/
→ Book a chemistry call: https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemi...
8/12/2020 • 19 minutes, 12 seconds
Polarity: Unlocking Your Most Delicious Sex
19| Are you a Ravisher or a Ravishee? Do you like to take, or be taken?
In this episode we're chatting all about polarity and sex and how powerful this principle can be in taking your sex life from ho hum to holy fuck.
Unravelling sex, gender and energy to explore how polarity shapes our sexual experiences, we discuss how to embody your core feminine or masculine energy and how BDSM has a lot to teach us.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
~ Other links / resources mentioned in episode ~
→ Sensualista 1:1 coaching
→ Book a chemistry call
8/5/2020 • 20 minutes, 43 seconds
Know Your Yoni: Natural Birth Control with Liz Burton
18| Getting in tune with our natural cycles is an incredible way for us to embody our femininity and become overall more sensual beings.
In this episode, I'm chatting with Liz Burton, menstrual cycle educator and creatress of Wild Womb Co all about the fertility awareness method. This is for all menstruators, whether you're actively trying to get pregnant or avoid pregnancy.
Our bodies are remarkable machines and in this episode you'll learn the basics of how to use this method to get more in touch with your cycle and your body, the different biomarkers of fertility, what's wrong with the pill, how knowing your cycle can lead to better sex and so much more.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources
Check out Tempdrop, the wearable basal body thermometer and receive 10% off here: https://wildwombco.com/affiliate-products/
To learn more about Liz's upcoming course, Empowered Cycles, head here: https://wildwombco.com/empowered-cycles/
You can find Liz online at @wild.womb.co
7/30/2020 • 46 minutes, 57 seconds
Intuition VS Fear & Why I Fled The State
17| In this week's episode, I'm sharing on a more personal note. I chat about my recent spontaneous decision to pack up all my belongings into my car and move interstate to avoid yet another round of lockdowns before the borders closed and how to tell the difference between intuition and fear.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources
BYRON BAY RETREAT
October 30th - November 3rd (Cup Weekend)
I'm now officially taking bookings for my upcoming retreat in the magical Byron Bay hinterland. Join me for an exclusive, intimate long weekend where we'll deep dive in to all things femininity, sensuality, sexuality, cycles, relationships and more. This is an opportunity to have a very well deserved break in a beautiful, relaxing location, with a group of likeminded sisters.
Here's a taste of what I have planned for us:
•5 days, 4 nights in a luxury Byron Bay villa
•Fresh, locally sourced, organic meals prepared by our personal chef
•Morning guided meditation sessions
•Daily Sensual Yoga™️ classes
•Workshops on femininity, sexuality & more
•Full Moon Release Ritual
•Plenty of time & space to relax in nature and unwind... and so much more!
Email me for Byron Bay retreat details!
7/15/2020 • 25 minutes, 46 seconds
Lessons from 'Normal People' aka How Not to Communicate
16| This episode is inspired by the painful-to-watch lack of communication skills exhibited in TV show 'Normal People'. Avoid utter relationship exhaustion by understanding your processing style, and that of those in your life. This is a total game changer that will uplevel your relationships & help you understand one another more deeply.
In this episode, you'll learn:
•What your processing style is
•The strengths & weaknesses of each style
•How to communicate effectively with people who have the opposite and the same style as you
•What to do to make communication simpler
•How to leverage your processing style
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. If you'd like to give BetterHelp a try, I'm happy to share that as a listener of The Sensuality Academy Podcast, you can receive 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/eleanor x
Links and Resources:
BYRON BAY RETREAT
October 30th - November 3rd (Cup Weekend)
I'm now officially taking bookings for my upcoming retreat in the magical Byron Bay hinterland. Join me for an exclusive, intimate long weekend where we'll deep dive in to all things femininity, sensuality, sexuality, cycles, relationships and more. This is an opportunity to have a very well deserved break in a beautiful, relaxing location, with a group of likeminded sisters.
Here's a taste of what I have planned for us:
•5 days, 4 nights in a luxury Byron Bay villa
•Fresh, locally sourced, organic meals prepared by our personal chef
•Morning guided meditation sessions
•Daily Sensual Yoga™️ classes
•Workshops on femininity, sexuality & more
•Full Moon Release Ritual
•Plenty of time & space to relax in nature and unwind... and so much more!
Email me for Byron Bay retreat details!
If you'd like to tap in to your 5 senses to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love - check out my free 5-day challenge, Journey to Self-Love at eleanorhadley.com/journey
→ Multiamory Podcast
→ Episode 7 | Know Your Needs (We're Not Mind-Readers)
→ Episode 9 | How To Avoid Fights & Miscommunication
7/9/2020 • 30 minutes, 12 seconds
The Ultimate Conversation Starter for Better Sex
15| How often do you have an intentional conversation about sex, before you have sex? I know, it feels like the most unsexy thing ever right? Total mood killer?
Well, it doesn't have to be.
In this episode I share:
•The 6 conversation starters for better sex
•What the acronym SHARED means
•How to talk about sex openly and naturally
•Making talking about sexual health fun
•How to ensure your boundaries and desires are met
•Getting real about your sexpectations
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
For information about 1:1 Sensualista Coaching:
http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/
To book a complimentary 30min Chemistry Call:
https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemistry-call-schedule/
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
6/24/2020 • 20 minutes, 5 seconds
Spiritual Bypassing & Sexuality
14 | If you're in the spiritual community, you'll be familiar with the concept of sex being a sacred act. But we're all human, right? And sometimes sex is just fun and light, not deep and serious.
Sure, we're sharing sexual energy but at what point does upholding this notion of 'protecting' our energy simply become another form of judgement? This is what I call Spiritual Slut-Shaming.
In this episode, I share:
•What Spiritual Slut-Shaming means and why it has to stop
•How to be sexual and spiritual
•Why Spiritual Slut-Shaming reinforces traditional, patriarchal & oppressive views
•The difference between, sex, love and attachment
•How to have great sex while honouring yourself
For information about 1:1 Sensualista Coaching:
http://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/coaching/
To book a complimentary 30min Chemistry Call:
https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/chemistry-call-schedule/
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me on email here or over on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
6/17/2020 • 26 minutes, 49 seconds
Is Self-Love Selfish?
13| In this episode we dive into all things self-love and whether or not it's actually selfish to practice self-love. If you're struggling with self-love, this episode will:
•Help you understand the importance of self-love
•Help you understand why you are wired to think self-love is selfish
•Teach you why you may have a fear self-love
•Provide you with some examples of self-love you may not have considered
•Remind you of the power of self-love
If you are struggling with self-love, this episode will help you better grasp just why it is so essential and in fact, the opposite of a selfish act. Tune in and start self-loving!
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
6/10/2020 • 21 minutes, 46 seconds
The Problem with Productivity
12 | Do you often feel an insane amount of pressure to be productive, to make the most of your time and prove to people that you've used your time wisely? I feel you.
Especially during quarantine times, you've likely been inundated with motivational quotes, wellbeing posts, and all those articles about the thousands of new exercise regimes, hobbies and side-hustles that you should be taking up now that you suddenly have all those extra time on your hands. And, if you're anything like me, you're feeling kind of overwhelmed or just down-right frustrated by it all. You are not alone.
In this episode, I am going to be talking about all about Productivity Pressure and why it has got to go.
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
5/26/2020 • 17 minutes, 42 seconds
How to Set & Maintain Boundaries
11 | Do you constantly feel like you're being taken advantage of, not respected, appreciated for your efforts or just plain misunderstood? This could be because you have poor boundaries - or, none at all.
You'll learn:
•The step-by-step process I take my clients through to set clear and meaningful boundaries
•The 8 different types of boundaries
•The difference between boundaries, rules and agreements.
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
5/14/2020 • 26 minutes, 40 seconds
Gourmet Sex VS Snack Sex
10 | Snacks are great, but they don't really compare to a deliciously nourishing, indulgent meal - right? Same goes for sex. In this episode I share all about the difference between what I call gourmet sex and snack sex & how you can make the most of both.
You'll learn:
•The ways in which we approach sex
•Why there is not right or wrong way to have sex
•My top three tips to having a more mindblowing sex life
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
5/8/2020 • 20 minutes, 50 seconds
How to Avoid Fights & Miscommunication
09 | Sick of getting unsolicited advice when you're just trying to vent? Do you feel like little fights often start because your partner (or friend, co-worker, family) just didn't respond how you wanted them to? Let's put an end to that.
In this episode you'll learn:
•The three goals of communication
•Why these will change the way you communicate forever
•How to avoid conflict & misunderstanding
•How to communicate what you want from the other person
Links and Resources:
Join the waitlist for the next round of my transformational program (also called) The Sensuality Academy - register here: https://theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/program-waitlist/
Get out of your head and into your body by joining my signature online course in The Art of Sensual Movement. Special offer to get 50% off until the end of April with the code HOME - https://www.eleanorhadley.com/tasm
If you'd like to tap in to your 5 senses to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love - check out my free 5-day challenge, Journey to Self-Love at eleanorhadley.com/journey
4/23/2020 • 14 minutes, 28 seconds
8 Ways to Feel More Sensual Every Day
08 | In this episode, I'm sharing eight of my favourite ways to infuse sensuality in to your life every single day. No long, fancy, time-consuming rituals and no need to carve out two hours every morning. Just simple, practical ways to bring more sensual awareness in to your life to help you feel more sensual every day!
Links & Resources:
Download your very own FREE guide '8 Ways to Feel More Sensual Every Day' - get it now: https://bit.ly/8WaysGuide
Get out of your head and into your body by joining my signature online course in The Art of Sensual Movement. Special offer to get 50% off until the end of April with the code HOME - https://www.eleanorhadley.com/tasm
You can find my playlists of Spotify here: http://bit.ly/eleanorspotify
To listen to my Yoga Nidra guided meditation, you can find it on Insight Timer here: https://bit.ly/YogaNidra_EH
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
4/17/2020 • 19 minutes, 51 seconds
Your Partner Isn't a Mindreader
07 | Learn how to communicate your needs more effectively to avoid conflict.
Are you self-isolating with others right now? Or perhaps you're isolating solo? Either way, communication is key now more than ever. In this episode, I share some top tips on managing your relationships in isolation, and, specifically, how to navigate communicating your needs with people to avoid conflict and not drive each other totally mad.
We explore:
•Where we learnt how to communicate
•The best ways to communicate your needs effectively
•Questions to ask yourself and others
•Assessing your expectations in communication
Links and Resources:
If you'd like to tap in to your 5 senses to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love - check out my free 5-day challenge, Journey to Self-Love at eleanorhadley.com/journey
To join the waitlist for the next round of my signature program The Sensuality Academy, head here: www.theacademy.eleanorhadley.com/program-waitlist/
4/15/2020 • 18 minutes, 28 seconds
Prioritising Pleasure in a Pandemic
06 | In this time of self-isolation and lockdowns, have you been concerned about your sex-life? Maybe you're single and have no idea when you'll have partnered sex again. Or perhaps you're housebound with a partner and you're concerned about keeping the flame alive.
In this episode, I talk about the importance of prioritising your pleasure now, even more so than normal. I'll share:
•Why it's normal to think about sex during crisis
•The stages of connection, intimacy and sex
•Practices for you to try at home to explore your pleasure potential
•Using pleasure as a stress reliever
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
Get out of your head and into your body by joining my signature online course in The Art of Sensual Movement. Special offer to get 50% off until the end of April with the code HOME https://www.eleanorhadley.com/tasm
Buy your own genuine crystal sex toys from my favourite Aussie business here: http://bit.ly/EH_YPP - you can use the code YONILOVE to receive $10 off your purchase.
3/30/2020 • 22 minutes, 41 seconds
Yoga Isn't For Women (but it can be)
05 | What? Yoga isn't for women!? I know it sounds crazy and the yogi purists may hate me for saying this - but, put down your pitchforks!
In this episode I share with you:
•The ancient lineage of yoga
•How and who it was really developed for
•The energy of traditional yoga
•Why I created a variation to serve women
•The way we can make yoga more feminine in energy
•Why I believe yoga needs a shake up
•How I developed Sensual Yoga™️
•The difference between Sensual Yoga™️ and Yin Yoga
Tune in to learn more, and perhaps be inspired to inject some feminine energy into your practice!
Links and Resources:
If you'd like to tap into your 5 senses to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love - check out my free 5-day challenge, Journey to Self-Love at https://www.eleanorhadley.com/journey
Get out of your head and into your body by joining my signature online course in The Art of Sensual Movement. Use the code PODCAST for 15%off - https://www.eleanorhadley.com/tasm
3/20/2020 • 21 minutes, 11 seconds
Understanding Masculine & Feminine Energies
04 | Have you ever heard the terminology of masculine and feminine energy and wondered what the hell it all means? In this episode, I'll be breaking down:
•Why I use these terms
•What they really mean
•Why they are *not* about your gender
•How this concept can help you understand and relate to yourself and your loved ones better
I'll be sharing with you ways to understand how you are showing up in the world, which energy is serving you, when is best to channel each and why you may be feeling burnt out or misaligned. It's all about your energy, baby!
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
3/20/2020 • 31 minutes, 38 seconds
What does Sensuality really mean?
03 | In this episode I share with you what Sensuality really means and why I believe it is so important for us to discover our sensual selves. I'll also share:
•The typical definitions of 'sensuality'
•My new and improved definition of sensuality
•The three expressions of sensuality
•The difference between sensuality and sexuality
•How to become more connected to and aware of our internal, external and interpersonal worlds
•How to drop more into your body, and out of your head
•How being more sensual will lead to better sex
Links and Resources:
If you'd like to tap in to your five senses to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love - check out my free 5-day challenge, Journey to Self-Love at eleanorhadley.com/journey
3/19/2020 • 22 minutes, 3 seconds
Who is Eleanor Hadley & What's a Sensuality Coach?
02 | In this episode I want to introduce myself to you, in case you have no idea who I am! I'll be sharing a bit about me and my story and how I came to be a Sensuality Coach and how I help people embody their most sensual selves. It's a pleasure to meet you!
Links and Resources:
Start your journey to explore your own personal pleasure language with my free quiz, including a bonus worksheet with journaling prompts to help you dive even deeper. Take the quiz now: www.eleanorhadley.com/pleasurelanguage
Get out of your head and into your body by joining my signature online course in The Art of Sensual Movement. Use the code PODCAST for 15%off - https://www.eleanorhadley.com/tasm
Learn more about my upcoming retreats here: https://eleanorhadley.com/retreats
3/18/2020 • 20 minutes, 54 seconds
Welcome to The Sensuality Academy Podcast
01 | Welcome to The Sensuality Academy podcast, where I share tangible techniques to help you embody your femininity, enhance your sex-life and elevate your relationships.
In this first introductory episode, I'll be sharing with you my intention for this podcast and what you can expect from me as your host!
If you're craving to feel more sensual and more connected - with your body, your sexuality and with your partner - this is the show for you.
This podcast is for YOU, so if you ever have any questions you'd like me to answer on the show, or topics you'd like me to cover - reach out to me at [email protected] or on instagram @eleanorhadley
Links and Resources:
If you'd like to tap into your 5 senses to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love - check out my free 5-day challenge, Journey to Self-Love at https://www.eleanorhadley.com/journey
Get out of your head and into your body by joining my signature online course in The Art of Sensual Movement. Use the code PODCAST for 15%off - https://www.eleanorhadley.com/tasm