Daniel Limantara is the CEO and Founder of Neo Historia Indonesia, a dynamic platform dedicated to revitalizing the way history is taught and appreciated. With a strong passion for making historical knowledge accessible and engaging, Daniel led his team to create content that resonates with a wide audience, effectively blending educational rigor with modern storytelling techniques. Daniel’s commitment to education and history not only enlightens but also inspires a new generation to dig deeper into their heritage. Timestamp:00.00 — Can you easily identify the different types of Chinese people? Discussing the diversity of Chinese Southeast Asian and the Chinese language06:22 — Did your parents teach you Hokkien/Teochew?11:19 — How is the writing system of Hokkien, Teochew and the other dialects? What's your Chinese name?14:12 — What generation Chinese Indonesian are you? Cina Totok vs. Cina Peranakan17:18 — How did we get here? Brief history of Chinese in Indonesia28:25  — "Balik sana ke Cina!"32:39 — Racial segregation between Chinese Indonesians and Non-Chinese-Indonesians.36:43 — Chinese Indonesians are also racist towards each other.38:33 — Chinese Indonesian Stereotypes46:51 – Unpacking Chinese Indonesian generational traumaContinue to VIP:50:15 — 1998 and the most harmful stereotype about Chinese Indonesians55:22 — Where are we (Chinese-Indonesian) are trying to go? Did your parents allow you to hangout with non-Chindos?01:01:35 — Can Chinese-Indonesian talk about politics? Discussing Chinese-Indonesian in politics and the after effects of Jaman Orba on Chinese Indonesians.01:11:58 — Who is responsible for progressing the racial tolerance in Indonesia? What should we do to progress towards inclusivity in Indonesia?01:23:58  — The myth of cultural incompatibility theory

Pandji Pragiwaksono is a father of 2, and a daddy to 283 million Indonesians. Sometimes he does standup comedy. Timestamps: 00.45 — Were you allowed to cry as a child? What was growing up with divorced parents like? Was your father present? Was he a good husband?10:30 — Is your mom/dad a good person?13.33 — Sponsorship (JalinTraksi)16:00 — Would you rather have a rich & absent parent, or a poor present parent? Pandji reflecting on being a shit dad24:18 — How did your parent fuck up with you, and fucked you up? Unpacking generational trauma we inherited from our parents29:55 — Why are you an angry person? Discussing mental health36:30 — Daddy issues and sugar-babies. How did being fatherless affect Indah growing up?45:44 — What did you continue and unlearn from your parents? Why did Indah's mom not get married? Why did Pandji's parents never remarry?56:15 — Pandji's biggest fearContinue on VIP:01.00.13 — Do you like being a dad? Why are you so hard on yourself?01:10:55 — Did you want to be a dad? Why is Indah so adamant about adopting?01.17.36 — Analyzing the Fatherlessness Epidemic in Indonesia & Deconstructing The Role of a Father01:32:55 — Have you ever met men that resented having kids? Did your dad hug you? What's your love language?01.47.30 —Solution to Fatherlessness, Abortion & Women’s Role in Fatherlessness

Grace Tahir has worked in the healthcare industry for 20+ years. She is one of the directors of Mayapada Hospitals, and a co-founder of digital media company, Everest Media. She loves reading books and is a mom of three. Watch the full episode (with no ads) on NOICE for just Rp. 15K that will go towards supporting this show and everybody on the TIGS team. NOICE is available on mobile device app, or web browser. Accepted payment methods include GoPay QRIS & Virtual Accounts for your convenience. Link to TIGS on NOICE: https://open.noice.id/catalog/dc1dfd5... Timestamps: 0:10 — Did you want to become a mom? Did you have good parents? What was 1 bad and 1 good thing your parents did with you? 09:09 — Parents apologizing to their children, forgiving our parents for being toxic/abusive, what is the difference between toxic parents and abusive parents, “Anak Durhaka” 17:41 — Who takes care of your parents now that you have a family of your own? How do siblings decide who takes care of the parents? Living with parents after marriage, juggling career, family & parents 22:40 — Why do people put their parents in retirement homes, are we obligated to take care of our parents? Pragmatic alternatives to sending your parents to a retirement home. Do all parents deserve to be taken care of? 37:00 — “I am not your friend, I am your parent.” Navigating our relationship with our parents as adults, and how to make our kids actually want to spend time with us. Loving our parents vs. Liking our parents, Honoring our parents vs. Obeying our parents. 56:53 — Orang tua durhaka, child free movement, IVF, surrogacy

Maureen Kartika is a Beauty & Lifestyle content creator. Through her content, Maureen strives to represent people with disabilities in the beauty industry and promoting a message of inclusivity. She is dedicated to raising awareness about disabilities and contributing to the vision of an inclusive Indonesia where everyone can thrive. This episode is sponsored by Bhoelan, Indonesia's first adaptive wear line for people with physical disabilities and limited mobility. Available on Shopee. Indah is wearing the 'SARAH' blouse. Get it here: https://shopee.co.id/Bhoelan-SARAH-Ke... Timestamps: 0:00 — When is it okay to ask disabled people about their disabilities? How do we go about asking those questions? 12:10 — "Orang Disabilitas vs. Orang Difabel," "Cacat," and handling generational gaps between elders and educational gaps between genuinely uninformed people 18:44 — Where do disabled people hangout? Braille for blind & hard-of-sight people, elevators, allegations of special treatment & the soft bigotry of low expectations 38:47 — Sekolah Luar Biasa, diversity hiring & admissions, early exposure and bridging dialogues between disabled and non-disabled people 57:06 — Disability in professional settings & job recruitment, diversity quotas, envisioning a discrimination-free hiring system 01:15:04 — Pasung & family hiding disabled members 01:24:25 — Fashion & Beauty for disabled people 01:39:12 — Partying, Dating, Marriage & Sex for disabled people

Ario Bayu is an Indonesian actor, model and producer. He is known for his versatile performances across film, television, and stage. Ario moved to New Zealand at a young age, where he completed his studies before returning to Indonesia to pursue a career in acting. Ario gained widespread recognition for his performances in various works including the Netflix series 'Gadis Kretek,' and the biopic Soekarno. Beyond films, Ario has also worked on stage productions and television series, contributing to his reputation as one of the leading actors of his generation in Indonesia. Timestamps (Skip to 30:20 if you'd like to continue the full version on NOICE): 00:00 — Growing up in New Zealand, ethnic background, being the black sheep of the family, being dark skinned, Indonesian entertainment on the international stage 39:51 — The pretentiousness of art, and what's hard about catering to an Indonesian market 49:18 — Diversity in Indonesian entertainment, the role of media and entertainment in pushing for social progress 01:04:22 — Gadis Kretek & morality in films 01:10:00 — Bantering about being bye-lingual

This is part 2 of Indah sitting down with a pastor asking him all of your most curious questions that you're too afraid to ask a pastor yourself.  Timestamps:  0:00 — Why is masturbation a sin? Is it still sinful even if you masturbate to your married partner? Are there sinful ways of having sex with your spouse? Mandi bersih setelah c0li  7:10 — Can the sins of premarital sex be erased? 10:43 — Is marriage obligatory? Must women submit to their husbands? Is misogyny & sexism part of Christianity? 15:02 — Why do pastors always exaggerate about premarital sex? What is the significance of sex in Christianity? 18:09 — Do Christians hate Muslims? Can a Muslim enter a church and attend mass with a hijab on? 20:02 — Chindo Kristen pegang dupa untuk sembayang ke nenek moyang 23:08 — Why is it taboo for families to be of different religions? 25:55 — Why do you believe in God? 31:45 — Religious hypocrites, touting moral superiority; If you do good due to fear of God, then are you really good? 36:23 — What do you think happens in the afterlife? 38:08 — Can we blame God? 42:46 — Will non-Christians go to hell? 48:18 — Will Indah go to hell?

Bet none of you were expecting an episode where you'd see Indah sitting face to face with a pastor huh? Neither were we. In this episode, Indah asks all of your most curious questions that you're too afraid to ask a pastor. Special thanks to all the people that submitted their questions through Indah's IG Story question box! Oh, and be sure to check out Part 2 of this episode! Timestamps: 0:00 — How Indah use to hate religious people? Why did you become a pastor? What made you believe in God?  21:31 — What assumptions do people have about you? 24:53 — What do you hate about being a pastor? 27:48 —What is the process of becoming a pastor? 30:16 — Why is it okay for you to convert others, but when we do it, it's a sin? 36:34 — Are all religions really just the same? 41:38 — Growing religious apathy, the difference between being religious and being spiritual 47:35 — Baptism, holy water & that time Indah was in Gospel choir 52:00 — Zodiac & tarot from a Christian point of view 54:06 — Christian extremists in Indonesia & LGBTQIA in Christianity  01:00:00 — Alcohol, smoking, masturbation, sin as a social construct & is marriage obligatory?

Sit down, grab a drink & some popcorn for this one, because you're definitely going to be here for a while. We're getting uncomfortably deep, and up close & personal like you've never seen before on this show. Join Indah, Kenji, Mandy and Shanika as they unload and unpack a sh*t ton of parental trauma. Timestamps: 00:53 — Eating oranges for prosperity + ASMR Moment 2:25 — T-Word, H-Word; "Bule" is a derogatory; Is "Ang-Moh" offensive; Rac!st Chindo Parents 13:08 — Mandy dating non-Chindos; How growing up poor shaped Kenji and Indah's moms respectively; Kindness as an investment 18:23 — Analyzing Indah's mom's elitism; Wise words from Mandy's dad & Kenji's college friend 25:33 — Chindo Parents & Generational Trauma; Lack of gratitude in Shanika & Indah's homes; Dealing with unrealistic & overly-high expectations from parents 33:08 — Kenji being raised by a single mom; Shanika's shattered home; Dealing with antiquated gender norms and roles within the Chindo culture 38:43 — Boomers in denial; What our parents watch on YouTube; More on dealing with high expectations from parents 51:07 — Parents diminishing our hard work and efforts, Chindo family gatherings; Fame vs. Fortune 01:02:44 — Chinese medicine; Different generational attitude towards happiness 01:07:35 — Abuse in Chindo households; First memory of our parents 01:09:31 — Chindos are racist towards other Chindos; More about Chindo parents & their tendencies 01:26:26 — Mandy being an indigo & remembering being in the womb; Chinese zodiac & Feng Shui 01:36:29 — Only dating/marrying Chindo; Choosing our battles in dating; Our parents projecting their insecurities onto us 01:45:45 — Closing

This video is sponsored by Lactacyd Fem, the #1 Feminine wash brand with 75 years of expertise in the Feminine Hygiene industry. In today's episode, Peter and Indah talk about vaginas with teeth, how the term "hermaphrodite" came to be associated with intersex people, papuans using leech oil as viagra, and other myths, legends, and urban folktakes surrounding our genitals. Timestamps: 0:00 — Bantering; Does Indah look older than Peter? Why Indah hates her face, and comparing Western vs. Eastern beauty standards 4:47 — Intro + Sponsorship Message 7:51 — Where the video actually starts 8:33 — Vagina Dentata 9:50 — Papuans using leech oil as viagra 13:22 — Hermaphrodites and why they're associated with intersex people 18:25 — Cultural myths

This video is sponsored by Lactacyd Fem, the #1 Feminine wash brand with 75 years of expertise in the Feminine Hygiene industry. In today's episode, we're telling you everything you need to know surrounding *the given topic*; what to do, what not to do, what to expect, and towards the end we’re also gonna be responding to some of Indah's followers on their reasons why they like or dislike s#xual activities during that time of the month. Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro, Sponsor Message, Disclaimers 3:36 — It's okay to enjoy or not enjoy period sex 6:54 — The coolest benefit of having period sex (period sex/masturbation (besides the towel and shower) 14:48 — Period Sex, Endometriosis & Pelvic Inflammatory Disease 20:42 — Reading followers' responses on why they like/dislike period sex 23:04 — Is period blood actually dirty? 25:49 — Don't go down on her before and after her period!!! 30:15 — Period Sex Fetish & Fingering on her per!od 34:19 — Objectively fair reason as to why you should be more cautious of having period sex Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Tuesday & Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

This video is sponsored by Lactacyd Fem and in collaboration with them on their International Women's Day Campaign, "Skin Speaks, We Listen." And look who's back again on the show you guys! In this episode, join Katie and Indah as they discuss about working moms, stay-at-home-moms, and single moms. Can a woman have both career and motherhood? How come no one ever says anything when it's men choosing their careers over their families? What does "neglecting" a child REALLY mean? Is there beef between SAH moms and Working Moms? Also hear a little bit of what it was like for Indah growing up with a single mom, and Katie with a stay-at-home mom — this conversation to be continued in greater depth some other time because we just know you're going to be asking for more. Timestamps coming soon

Continuing off of Part 1 Timestamps: 00:00 — Hijab; What does the hijab mean to you; When & why did you start covering up; Is the turban a hijab; Exploring fashion as a Muslima 15:00 — Child-Free; Why we don't want kids; Why some of us shouldn't be having kids at all to begin with 32:36 — LGBTQIA; Qatar FIFA World Cup; Being gay can be a sin, but be chill about it, or we're going to have a problem Legal Disclaimer (Text): We are protected under Law Article 28 and Article 28E paragraph (3) of the 1945 Constitution of the Republic of Indonesia which gives us “the right to freedom of association, assembly and expression.” The following content is meant to be an honest reckoning & reflection of the personal lived experiences by the parties involved. Any views or opinions represented in this podcast episode, unless stated otherwise, are personal and belong solely to the party that expressed them. These personal views & opinions do not represent those of other people, institutions & organizations, and are not intended to malign any religion, ethnic group, organization, or individual. Berdasarkan pada Undang-Undang Pasal 28 dan Pasal 28E ayat (3) Undang-Undang Dasar Negara Republik Indonesia Tahun 1945, kami memiliki “hak atas kebebasan berserikat, berkumpul, dan berekspresi.” Konten berikut dimaksudkan untuk menjadi perhitungan & refleksi jujur dari pengalaman hidup pribadi oleh pihak-pihak yang terlibat. Setiap pandangan atau pendapat yang diwakili dalam episode podcast ini, kecuali dinyatakan lain, bersifat pribadi dan hanya dimiliki oleh pihak yang menyatakannya. Pandangan dan pendapat pribadi ini tidak mewakili pandangan & pendapat orang lain, institusi & organisasi, dan tidak dimaksudkan untuk memfitnah agama, kelompok etnis, organisasi, atau individu apa pun. Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Tuesdays and Thursdays 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

Watch Part 2 for more. Timestamps: 0:00 — Banter 3:02 — Intro, Getting To Know Us, Our Books, Academic Backgrounds, Etc. 7:25 — Does Indah Regret Moving Back To Indonesia; Is Gita Ever Returning; Do International Indonesians Have An Obligation To Come Home & Give Back To The Community; Performative Patriotism & National Pride 15:40 — On Religion: Religion in the Household; Ideology & Interpretation, What's Your Relationship With Islam Now Like; Agnosticism, Atheism & Religious Narcissism 43:21 — On Feminism: First Example of Feminism; Is Islam A Misogynistic Religion; What Does Islam Teach You About Feminism; Educating Women & Girls in Islam 54:03 — Hijab Legal Disclaimer (Text): We are protected under Law Article 28 and Article 28E paragraph (3) of the 1945 Constitution of the Republic of Indonesia which gives us “the right to freedom of association, assembly and expression.” The following content is meant to be an honest reckoning & reflection of the personal lived experiences by the parties involved. Any views or opinions represented in this podcast episode, unless stated otherwise, are personal and belong solely to the party that expressed them. These personal views & opinions do not represent those of other people, institutions & organizations, and are not intended to malign any religion, ethnic group, organization, or individual. Berdasarkan pada Undang-Undang Pasal 28 dan Pasal 28E ayat (3) Undang-Undang Dasar Negara Republik Indonesia Tahun 1945, kami memiliki “hak atas kebebasan berserikat, berkumpul, dan berekspresi.” Konten berikut dimaksudkan untuk menjadi perhitungan & refleksi jujur dari pengalaman hidup pribadi oleh pihak-pihak yang terlibat. Setiap pandangan atau pendapat yang diwakili dalam episode podcast ini, kecuali dinyatakan lain, bersifat pribadi dan hanya dimiliki oleh pihak yang menyatakannya. Pandangan dan pendapat pribadi ini tidak mewakili pandangan & pendapat orang lain, institusi & organisasi, dan tidak dimaksudkan untuk memfitnah agama, kelompok etnis, organisasi, atau individu apa pun. Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Tuesdays and Thursdays 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

This video is sponsored by Lactacyd Fem, the #1 Feminine wash brand with 75 years of expertise in the Feminine Hygiene industry. Y'all ain't even ready for the debaucheries you're about to hear in this episode. Join Indah and Peter (mostly Indah) as they share all of their spiciest, funniest, and most painful hookup horror stories. Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro + Sponsorship Message 3:21 — Start 5:35 — [TW] Story 1 12:16 — Jengkol 16:13 — Story 2 & The Times When Indah *Was* The Horror 20:32 — Story 3 & Eating Ass 27:01 – Story 4 & Booty Call Injuries 29:40 — S#x Toy Horror Story + Follow Up 33:53 — Story 5 & How Indah Burnt Her A$$ Cheeks 35:43 — Story 6 41:50 — The Worst (Story 7) 44:29 — Story 8 & Pron Add!ction 52:53 — Story 9 Follow Peter Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/petergo.ce Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Tuesday & Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

This episode was supposed to go up exactly on Tuesday, February 14 but we were experiencing technical difficulties due to poor internet connection, so we're really sorry about that! But hey, it's still Valentines week, so at least we're not that late! Anyways, Peter and I decided to make a fun little get-to-know-us style episode where we answer questions from 'Can We Talk' cards, romance edition cause, duh, Valentines. Get Can We Talk cards here: https://www.instagram.com/canwetalk.co Timestamps: 0:00 — Indah singing lol 01:21 — Intro 02:40 — Current Relationship Statuses; How long has Indah been single & Does Indah have commitment issues? 9:08 — "What did your past relationship teach you about you?" 20:00 — "What is your standard reason for explaining why you are not in a relationship?" 23:40 — Long Distance Relationships; Can anybody do it? 32:01 — "What do you do when you are waiting for a relationship?" 34:06 — "Would you choose friendship over relationship?" 37:28 — Indah's red flag she watches out for in men 38:27 – "When you get married, in what ways would you want your marriage to be different from your parents?" 43:20 — "Do you think people can meet their true loves online?" 44:35 — "What kind of toxic relationship have you ever seen or experienced?" 53:30 — "How do you know when you love someone?" 57:45 — "What can you tolerate and not tolerate in a relationship?" 01:02:05 — What can you tolerate that most other people can't? 01:07:37 — "What is your idea of a perfect date?" Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

Indah went on the r/feminism community on Reddit and asked "what is a common misconception men that tend to have regarding the topic of r*pe and s**ual a**ault?" In this episode, Indah selects the top 3 responses and provide rebuttals to each of them. Indah also recaps about a conversation she had with a male friend of hers about this topic where she was able to change his mind. This episode is strictly for educational purposes and aims to raise awareness regarding sexual violence towards women, as well as equip listeners with an arsenal of FACTUAL proven-by data arguments & statistics, against common talking points from 'the other side.' Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro & Disclaimers 2:45 — My Reddit Post 8:05 — "Choose Better" 11:32 — Coercion 16:57 — Safety & Prevention 18:39 — A conversation about r*pe and s**ual a**ault with my male friend Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

This episode is sponsored by Lactacyd Fem, the #1 Feminine wash brand with 75 years of expertise in the Feminine Hygiene industry. P*rn is often many people’s first source of sexual education, as a result it creates unrealistic expectations of what 'intimacy' should look and feel like, despite it all being staged. In this episode, laugh and scream along with Indah and Peter as they debunk a lot of the misconceptions and inaccuracies found in the adult entertainment industry, as well as spill for y'all the REAL tea on things like sq*irting, c*mming, length vs. girth, how to REALLY tell when she's reached O-city, and how to ACTUALLY make him feel good when riding on top. What were some of Indah and Peter's own internalized misconceptions and unrealistic expectations as a result of their pornographic consumptions, and how the hell did a booty-call leave Indah with first-degree burns? Also really sorry that there are no more-specific timestamps, it's because Indah and Peter kind of went all over the place, and a lot of different things all at the same time that it's pretty hard to divide & categorize. Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro, Bantering with Peter 3:46 — Sponsorship Message 5:38 — Here's where it starts Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

There are groomers, and then there are people that exhibit romantic and sexual behaviors and tendencies of being a groomer, and unfortunately for all of us the line separating the two grow incrementally thinner and thinner by the day. Is age really just a number? Are men actually biologically hard-wired to go after younger women, and women to go after older men? On this episode, join Indah & Izzy as they debunk some misconceptions and misunderstandings, provide rebuttals to common sexist/generally-creepy talking-points, and overall just have a free-flow open-ended discussion surrounding this topic. Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro 3:41 — Definition of Grooming, Adult Grooming vs. Child Grooming 12:20 — Is age really just a number? What's the youngest we'd go for? 22:01 — The biology argument 30:03 — Andrew Tate & The Manosphere 36:35 — Can you be attracted to "younger" or "older" people? 54:33 — White Knight Syndrome & Purity Fetishes Join the Izzy Fanclub: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/izzermcglizzer TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@izzermcglizzer Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

Thank you to the sponsor of this episode, Gthings! How old were you when you first started exploring your body? Did you know that science has proven that it's normal to start playing with yourself even as young as 2 years old? In this episode, Indah (and Peter, occasionally) talks about the art and science of flicking the bean, beating your meat, whichever phrase you want to use for... you know what. We'll also talk about all the ways you should and should not be pleasuring yourself, as well as advice for my younger listeners of both sexes who are just starting to explore their bodies, and their partner’s bodies, for the first time. Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro + Sponsor Message 2:43 — How you should, and shouldn't, play with yourself 18:54 — Advice for first timers buying toys and touching yourself 25:30 — How much is too much; Health Benefits; No-F@p Movement 33:23 — When is a good & normal age to start? 36:03 — Yes, even toddlers do it Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

This video is sponsored by Lactacyd, the #1 feminine wash brand with 75 years of expertise in the feminine hygiene industry. In this episode, Indah shares with you all of her personally trialed and tested tips on how to get ready before ~doing the nasty~ with your partner, or hooking up with a booty call for the first time, as well as the post-nasty aftercare I know all of y'all be skipping out on, but shouldn't! Remember, sex is just as much for them as much as it is for you — you want a good time, but you should also want them to have a good time, and obviously, leave a good, memorable impression.    Timestamps:  0:00 — Intro & Sponsorship Message  01:26 — Start of the video   Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on  on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok.    PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

It's the new year but we still be on the same bullshit here on this show lmfao. Anyways, here's something more fun and lighthearted to welcome the new year, it's literally just me sharing with y'all my personal new year's resolutions, and then reacting to some of yours that were submitted in my Instagram Story poll I posted earlier in this month. Enjoy!  Timestamps:  04:12 — My New Year's Resolutions + Spoiler on Indah's New Business!  12:45 — Reacting To Your New Year's Resolutions Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and every episode on this show to ensure that none of you miss out.

Did you know that both Ovisa & Lunar's mom nearly died giving birth? And that number 437 on my list of reasons to never get pregnant is that your vagina can legitimately fall out after giving birth? Swollen nipples, stretch marks, torn vaginas, postpartum depression and the probability of your child becoming a psychopathic serial killer makes pregnancy and motherhood in general sound extremely daunting, but surely there must be some positives to spawning offsprings into this world? Also, what kind of a mother do you think Indah and Lunar would be one day, if/when they have kids? Tune into this episode for another sisterly talk of the realities of motherhood, as well as future aspirations of raising children. Mix-Language Episode (English + Bahasa Indonesia) Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro, Baby Blues, Postpartum Depression, Resenting Motherhood 3:13 — First-Time-Daddy Depression 6:19 — Being A Creative Working Mom & How Much Of Ourselves We Have To Sacrifice To Become Parents 9:35 — Breastfeeding, Stretch Marks, Gaining Weight, Loose Skin, Vaginas Falling Out 14:35 — C-Section vs. Vaginal Delivery, Torn Vaginas, Lunar's Mom's 32 Hour Labor, Vaginal Vacuums 24:34 — It's Okay To Ask For Help, Moms 35:02 — Are There Any Positives To Motherhood? 36:27 — Playgrounds & Expensive Toys 40:59 — Only Child vs. Having Siblings 45:46 — Adopting Our Mother's Personalities While Pregnant & Are Pregnancy Cravings Just Myths 49:28 — What Type of Mom Indah & Lunar Would Be, Tech Gadgets & Social Media For Children 54:37 — Closing Join the Ovisa Fanclub: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/withovisa Join the Lunar Fanclub: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/papalune_ Full episodes of The Indah G Show are available every Thursday 6:00 PM WIB (Indonesia) time on on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcast. Episode clips are also available on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok. PSA for all of our deaf & hard-of-hearing viewers & listeners all over the world, our full episodes on YouTube come with automatic English closed captions that have been reviewed and revised by our team to ensure accuracy. For those of our local Indonesian audience in need of Indonesian translations, you can find Bahasa Indonesia closed captions on the episode clips of this episode uploaded on YouTube, Instagram & TikTok, which we will be sure to post a lot of from each and e

Can you believe I went to high school with Indonesia's most fabulous lesbian singer-songwriter? How fierce is that! In this episode, we'll be sitting down with Kai as we walk down memory lane of our time back in High School, discuss her journey of navigating life and career as a gay Chinese-Indonesian woman, the trials and tribulations of coming out, not only to herself, but especially to her friends and family, and of course, Indonesian politics surrounding LGBTQIA. Timestamps: 01:23 — Intro, Catching Up On The Last 7 years 07:15 — Reflecting Back on Being Gay in High School 17:10 — Reconciling with Self, Falling In Love With Your Best Friend & Lavender Marriages 26:15 — Coming Out To Parents & Grandparents 31:50 — Indonesia's Actually So Queer 33:26 — Sacrifice, Internalized Homophobia, Hierarchy of Acceptance of LGTBQIA in IDN 48:50 — Being A Gay Catholic Chinese Indonesian Woman, What Did You Have To Give Up, Moving To Bali 01:03:53 — Queer Dating & Sex  01:16:53 — Closing Intro Song: Where Love Goes Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/id/album/where-love-goes-single/1518663066 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/6e0TEaeQcwhS8ktu5q0AYX?si=-H12ofrGQNerMg2zTlnHjg Join the Kai Mata Fanclub: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaimatamusic

In this episode, join Indah, Katie & Shanika in discussing all things pertaining dating & relationship bare minimums from the perspective of these 3 painfully-straight females. Timestamps: 01:51 — Intro, Shanika's New Life As A Single Woman, Is Chivalry Dead? 8:51 — Feminism & Hookup Culture Has Made Bare Minimums A Lot Harder? 16:45 — Our Bare Minimums 25:58 — Splitting The Bill As A Modern Bare Minimum 48:06 — How Family, Personal Experience & Trauma Shape Our Bare Minimums and Love Languages 56:43 — Red Flags & Toxic Bare Minimums 01:08:53 — Green Flags & Going Above & Beyond

Do you know what's the difference between a preference and a type? What about the difference between a kink and a fetish? In this episode we'll be going over all of that, the science and psychology behind fetishes, as well as hear Indah & Peter talk about their own preferences, types, kinks & fetishes. Timestamps: 02:18 — Preferences vs. Types 05:31— Kinks vs. Fetishes 06:45 — The Psychology of Fetishes & Feet Fetishes 14:17 — Other Popular Fetishes 20:15 — More On Kinks 25:40 — Talking About Our Preferences, Types, Kinks & Fetishes featuring Peter

Time to sit down for some sisterly talks with Indah & Lunar. How did two young women that have both been raised by single moms grow up to perceive motherhood & marriage? Has modern feminism gone too far in promoting the #girlboss trope that it now has come to the extent of undermining and undervaluing mothers women that genuinely want to take care of the home and raise kids? In this episode we talk about the struggles of living up to the modern feminist expectation of being hyper-independent and defying patriarchal traditions, and is it offensive to call a woman a "housewife?" You're gonna want some snacks, pour some wine, and maybe grab some tissues for this one... Also, sorry for the half-ass timestamps, we went so all over the place and talked so much it's honestly hard to even distinguish the start and end of one topic in the first place, but trust me, that's the fun! Timestamps: 02:02 — Intro, Reflecting On Our Own Mothers, Healing Our Inner Child 21:15 — Is It Anti-Feminist To Be A Mother/Wife? 40:25 — General Part 1 01:00:13 — General Part 2 01:11:14 — Talking more about housewives, I guess