How do you know if you’re bisexual? Author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality, in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused. Whether you’re a vulva owner in a heterosexual partnership who wants to explore same sex fantasies, or a penis owner who has recently come out as gay but still has thoughts about the opposite sex, Jen helps us all understand why sexuality is about so much more than who you’re sleeping with. Because after all, your sexuality is less about the destination and more about the journey to get there.  In this episode, you’ll learn: Labels like bi or pan are for you to explore your identity, not to please others Communication is everything. Talk openly with your partner about desires and fantasies to strengthen intimacy Bisexuality isn’t one-size-fits-all: It’s a personal journey, and questioning your sexuality is part of it Show Notes: Try the LELO ENIGMA Wave Today! (Use code "EMILY20" at checkout for an additional 20% OFF any existing sales.) More Jen Winston: Instagram | Twitter (X)  | Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?” Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy. In this episode, you’ll learn: Tips on how to align your dates with your unique arousal style, whether it’s through touch, adventure, or conversation, to keep things fresh and fun Fun, creative date ideas—like role-playing as sexy strangers or planning a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market—that spark connection and curiosity How to break free from routine and create exciting, playful dates that build sexual tension and enhance intimacy Show Notes: Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code "EMILY"! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

It’s time to debunk the toxic myths around sex and age. Does sexual satisfaction drop off as you get older? Absolutely not! In fact, the data tells us the exact opposite is true. Today, anthropologist, bestselling author and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin and I lay out the facts, which is fitting: we’re both in our fifties!  If you’re not in your fifties yet, here’s what you can look forward to. It’s the decade many of us hit the reset button on our sexual desires. It’s the decade you start purely having sex for pleasure. And it’s the decade your confidence and communication get even better because you’ve honed your relationship (and career!) skills. Wednesday and I talk about why your fifties are so sexy, the signs of perimenopause and menopause and how to treat both, and our best advice for younger women. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why your 50s are a time for empowerment, confidence, and embracing your desires. Tips for navigating bodily changes and maintaining intimacy in midlife. Understanding the impact of menopause on your body and libido, and how to adapt for a fulfilling sex life.​ Show Notes: More Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | X | Website | Book Enter the Solaray giveaway now! Entries end on 10/21 at 11:59 PM PT and the winner will be chosen on 10/22. Follow @solarayvitamins and @sexwithemily on instagram Like our giveaway post on our Instagram Tag your friends in the comments – each tag gets you an entry, so go ahead and tag all your people! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Housewife turned billion-dollar co-founder Lisa Bilyeu is the picture of confidence: she’s got a thriving business, a partner she adores, and basically, is a literal boss. But she also overcame illness, insecurity, and massive relationship challenges to get where she is today. In her book Radical Confidence, Lisa shares the lessons that changed her life, and helped her become the hero of her own story. On today’s show, I ask her about keeping the sexual spark alive in a long term relationship, the “purgatory of the mundane,” and how to have a growth mindset with your partner. In this episode, you’ll learn: Radical confidence is built by taking action, even when you’re scared. How to escape the “purgatory of the mundane” by making small changes and stop waiting for the perfect moment. All about validating yourself—don’t rely on others for approval, celebrate your own wins. Show Notes: WIN FREE VIBRATORS! Bellesa and I are giving away *free toys* to everyone – sign up here: bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast More Lisa Bilyeu: Instagram | Youtube | Twitter | Book: Radical Confidence Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Try the LELO SORAYA WAVE today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY' at check out for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply) Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one.  How do you talk to your partner about sex? I teach you how to broach this conversation with compassion, and how to normalize sex talks in general. How about amping up your sex drive? There are hacks for that! Maybe you want to last longer in bed, get better at oral, or spice up your sex life. There’s a whole world of solutions for those, and I walk you through them. Whether it’s toys, technique, or just a good talk, this episode is all about finding answers, so you can have the pleasure you deserve. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to talk to your partner about sex or trying something new How to get better at oral How to spice up your sex life How to increase your sex drive How to last longer during sex Show Notes: WIN FREE VIBRATORS! Bellesa and I are giving away *free toys* to everyone – sign up here: bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code EMILY! Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE  Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Anal sex isn’t as taboo as it once was but many people are still too shy to explore it. Today, I’m talking with nationally renowned anal surgeon and expert Dr. Evan Goldstein, about all things anal. From how to clean up before backdoor play (did you know you can be too clean?), to tips to enhance pleasure and the wide variety of things to try while you’re back there, we’ve got you covered. Dr. Evan gives tips on how to relax, toys that can help, and which lubes are best for every act imaginable. We also break down lube shooters, how to minimize the risk of exposing yourself to STIs and what to consider whether you’re a top or a bottom. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why communication and preparation are key to a positive anal experience with your partner. Expert tips on easing into anal play without discomfort or pain. Safe and effective cleaning practices to maintain a healthy and pleasurable anal routine. Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Bellesa and I are giving away free vibrators to everyone! Join the free toy giveaway here: www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast This episode is brought to you by: Just Thrive (Visit justthrivehealth.com and use code “SEXWITHEMILY” at checkout for 20% off your order) Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

What’s your biggest fantasy? It might be watching your partner with someone else, group sex, or sex in a public place. All answers are welcome because there’s no shame in your fantasy game! In this episode, I discuss the psychology behind your fantasies, how to bring them up with a partner and why having a rich fantasy life is an important part of your overall sexual health. Then I reveal the top fantasies you shared with me on Instagram. I also answer your questions including, what to do if you fantasize about a best friend, how to be a third in a threesome, and explore latex, panty, and foot fetishes. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to embrace your sexual fantasies without shame—they’re healthy and common. Learn how to communicate your fantasies with your partner for deeper intimacy. The difference between Fantasies and Fetishes Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. This episode is brought to you by: VIIA (Visit Viiahemp.com and use code “EMILY” at checkout for 15% off your order) Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

How well do you know the vulva and vagina? In this episode, I’m joined by two guests to break down all things V. We’re talking about how to take care of your vulva, and so much more. My first guest is OB/GYN, author of the She-Ology book series, and an expert in all things women’s sexual health, Dr. Sherry Ross. She shares the benefits of getting to know your (or your partner’s) vulva, the relationship between insecurity and porn, solutions for painful sex, and of course, squirting. Next, we have Dr. Pablo Gonzalez, who specializes in obstetrics and gynecology for the last 10 years and is the pioneer in regenerative gynecology. We talk about the company V-health and how beneficial it is for all vulva owners. In this episode, you’ll learn: The impact of aging, hormonal changes, and lifestyle factors on vaginal wellness. How the V-Health serum can improve moisture and overall sexual pleasure. The importance of taking proactive steps for your sexual wellness Show Notes: More Dr. Sherry | Website | Instagram More Dr. Pablo Gonzalez | Website | V-Health Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure This episode is brought to you by: V-Health (Visit getvhealth.com and use code "EMILY20" for 20% off at checkout) Try Solaray her life Stages Today! Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" to get 15% off your entire order! Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Let’s manifest our dream partners and our best sex. Because listen: if our romantic lives aren’t aligned with the people we actually are, we have an opportunity to change that.  Today, I’ll tell you how I manifested my own partner, the specific steps used to get there, and why the science behind this practice works. I’ll also answer your questions about finding the one and how manifestation can apply to your everyday dating and sex dilemmas. In this episode, you’ll learn: What is manifestation How to manifest your ideal partner Key questions to deepen connections and understand compatibility when dating. Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure This episode is brought to you by: VIIA (Visit Viiahemp.com and use code "Emily" at checkout for 15% off your order) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Ahh, the honeymoon phase. You know that euphoric period of time at the beginning of a relationship where your partner seems perfect and you can’t keep your hands off one another? Fast forward a few months (or sometimes years) and that initial spark begins to fade and those feel-good chemicals start to wear off. What then? Today, I share why the honeymoon phase is so intoxicating, why our feelings change over time, and how to strengthen your relationship so that it survives the initial fading of happy hormones.  I answer your questions about what to do when your partner asks you to be in a threesome but it’s not your fantasy, how to communicate to your partner that their Instagram habits make you uncomfortable, and what to do when you feel like you have become more friends than lovers with your significant other. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to navigate conversations about spicing up your relationship Understanding boundaries around threesomes How to handle narcissistic tendencies in relationships Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure This episode is brought to you by: Promescent(Visit the link for 15% off, or go to promescent.com/emily) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

On today’s show, I answer your sex and relationship questions. I cover what to do if you’re questioning your sexuality while married with kids, how to initiate your first threesome, when (if ever) you should tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with, and ways to get more comfortable while giving oral sex. I also talk about what to do if the porn you watch makes you feel guilty, how to approach exploring a fetish without shame, what to do if you disagree with your partner about having another child and what it means when you cry after sex. In this episode, you’ll learn: How honest, heartfelt conversations about intimacy can reignite connection and strengthen emotional bonds with your partner. Techniques to overcome sexual conditioning and experience pleasure in new ways through mindfulness and open communication. The importance of exploring sexual fantasies with clear boundaries and how they can evolve as part of a healthy sexual journey. Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure This episode is brought to you by: LELO (Use code “SEXWITHEMILY” for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

In today’s episode, I’ve brought my Mom back on the show to dive into a range of topics from the hilarious to the profound. We reminisced about growing up as women in an ever-changing world, trying to date and have sex! Our conversation covered the early passionate days of relationships to the mundane, finding time for sex and reviving your libido. I also had some fun quizzing my mom on modern dating slang. Her take on each word made me laugh. I think you’ll love hearing about the many stages of sex from my mom's seasoned perspective. Exploring dating terms with my mom was a fantastic way to demystify modern relationships! I asked her about breadcrumbing, DTR, red flags, situationships, ghosting, pegging, and rizz, aka…charisma.   Learning points from the episode: The evolution of relationships from passion to domesticity. The impact of menopause on intimacy. The many layers of modern dating terms. Insights into maintaining a long-term relationship.   Tune into these articles:  I Asked My Mom 5 Things About Sex, Sexuality and Aging: Here’s What She Said 8 Most Common Sexual Struggles for Couples (& How to Solve Them)   This episode is brought to you by Solaray. If you're seeking a healthier cycle or mood support, you have to check out these products. For 15% off your entire order, go to: www.solaray.com/sexwithemily    SMARTSX: I'm thrilled to announce SmartSX, an exclusive membership that's revolutionizing the way you will approach sexual wellness. Last week, I kicked off this exciting journey, inviting you to join a community that's all about transforming your sex life. Whether you're looking to deepen connections or explore new kinks, SmartSX is your gateway to all things sexy and insightful. Embrace your pleasure potential with an open heart and mind. As a member, you'll embark on a journey to discover your unique desire style and boost your Sex IQ. You’ll gain invaluable tools for a healthier sex life through engaging discussions, expert guests, and direct interactions with me. Each month, we'll dive into themes based on my 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with 'Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.' CLICK HERE TO JOIN

So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, what to do if your partner’s penis is too big for anal, what to do if YOU like giving oral but your partner isn’t as down to receive, and how to enjoy casual dating. In this episode you’ll learn: How past negative experiences can impact your current reactions to physical affection, and discover strategies to rebuild a positive relationship with touch. Understand the importance of transparent dialogue with your partner about your needs and boundaries, and how to approach these conversations constructively. Explore the challenges of casual dating and the significance of self-awareness in identifying what type of relationship dynamic suits you best. Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com (link to specific show notes in WordPress)

Hey, pleasure seekers! I'm super excited about today's episode. I always encourage you to discuss sex with your friends, so I've invited Amy Friedlander, my CEO and brilliant friend, to join this conversation. We're both fed up with the pleasure gap, a topic The New York Times highlighted in a recent article,"The ‘Orgasm Gap Isn’t Going Away for Straight Women." Today, Amy and I will actively seek ways to bridge this gap. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. Together, we're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life. In this episode, you'll learn: Why the Orgasm Gap Persists: We'll unpack how inadequate sex education continues to widen this divide. The Dangers of Faking It: Discover why being authentic in expressing your sexual needs is essential for true pleasure. The Role of Media: We'll debunk harmful myths and foster a healthier dialogue around sex. Also, don't miss our discussions on whether sleeping apart can enhance your sex life and how Kegel trainers can lead to more intense orgasms. Tune into these articles: Does Sleeping Apart Help Your Sex Life? Kegel Trainers for Bigger, Badder Orgasms   💖 SMARTSX ANNOUNCEMENT 💖 Today, September 10th, 2024, we're thrilled to launch SmartSx, our membership platform where pleasure meets education. Join our community to transform your intimate life, whether you're deepening connections or exploring new kinks. SmartSx is your gateway to all things sexy and insightful. Embrace your pleasure potential with an open heart and mind. As a member, you'll embark on a journey to discover your unique desire style and boost your Sex IQ. You’ll also gain tools for a healthier sex life through engaging discussions, expert guests, and direct interactions with me. Each month will feature themes based on my 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with 'Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.' CLICK HERE TO JOIN

In this episode, Dr. Emily welcomes her friend and fellow Michigan native, Ophira from The AstroTwins, to discuss their new book, The Astrology Advantage, and their revolutionary I*AM system. This unique system or framework blends astrology with the Enneagram and Meyers Briggs to unlock insights into your personality-- your buttons, skills, passions, and life path. As a bonus, Ophi reads Emily's chart, revealing how the I*AM system shapes her career, sex, desire, and goals. They explore the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes, offering a fresh perspective on understanding yourself through astrology. Tune in to learn how astrology influences desire and sexuality and how to align with your authentic sexual self. Get your copy of The Astrology Advantage to dig deeper into your I*AM archetype! Ophi describes the I*AM System as “an astrological personality test” and “Atomic Habits meets The Wisdom of The Enneagram.” You need this book! I could not put it down. Purchase: The Astrology Advantage More about The AstroTwins What You'll Learn: The I*AM System Explained: Discover how the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes correlate with the 13 planets in astrology and your chart. Astrology Meets Enneagram: Learn how each IAM archetype connects with the 12 zodiac signs, offering a new lens to understand your personality, desires, and behavior. Sex, Shame, and Kink: Understand how your I*AM archetype influences your sexual expression and how to overcome shame or embrace kink through astrological insights. Body Confidence and Sexual Fulfillment: Explore how aligning with your archetype helps you feel more comfortable in your body as you pursue pleasure and intimacy. Sexual Authenticity: Learn how your sexual style—whether you're an Innovator, Authority, or Maven—affects how you engage with partners and express desire authentically. Also, SmartSx, my new membership, launches on September 10th. Please join me and this incredible community of open-minded pleasure-seekers! Here's a sneak peak of what you'll experience when you sign up: SmartSX is a community and app for individuals prioritizing pleasure and sexual well-being, helping members explore desires and create a fulfilling sex life. Great lovers are made, not born: Anyone can learn how to have the best sexual experiences of their lives. SmartSX members can directly interact with her and ask questions in the community. Inclusive membership: SmartSX caters to everyone—whether you're a beginner or experienced, single or partnered—focusing on understanding, giving, and receiving pleasure. Members will uncover their unique desire style, increase their Sex IQ, enhance sexual communication, and gain essential tools for a healthy sex life through discussions, special guests, and experts. Each month features a theme based on Dr. Emily's 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with Sexual Connection is a Skill Set. GET ON THE WAITLIST: CLICK HERE

Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and how can you break them? I asked you to tell me what negative dating patterns you’re trying to change, and you all delivered! On today’s show, I’m addressing your top dating problems so we can solve them together. Having sex too soon, trying to “fix” less-than-ideal partners, fear of asserting yourself, having misaligned expectations, the tendency to audition people for the role of life partner – we’re covering it all, so you can feel empowered with new partners and have an amazing time with existing partners. In this episode you’ll learn: How to Identify and Break Negative Dating Patterns The Importance of Assertiveness in Dating Strategies for Building Self-Confidence in Dating Show Notes: Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? Guide SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) Shopify.com/swe The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com/live.

Let's explore the world of sex parties! Are you curious if this scene is for you? This episode is your go-to guide for everything about sex parties. We'll cover the various types available, from kink-centric gatherings to more relaxed swinging events. I'll guide you through finding these parties, understanding the etiquette, and what to expect when you arrive. We'll discuss how to mingle effectively and, importantly, what to wear to blend in or stand out. So join me at this podcast, Sex Party!  Don't forget to join the waitlist for SmartSX, which launches on September 10th, 2024. This incredible membership will offer you access to exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Smart SX: join our waitlist!  FetLife Feeld #Open Kinky Rabbit Club Just Thrive (code BOGOSWE) Shop With Emily! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Show Notes: Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? Guide SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com/live.

Let’s be honest: there are certain myths about sex that are SO common, they seem like truth. Things like: what it means to be wet, what it means to be hard, and what it means if you use a vibrator a lot. But guess what? A ton of the things you and I have both heard about sex aren’t based on science - they’ve just been repeated a lot. So on today’s show, I’m debunking the top sex myths I see and hear, and giving you the actual facts.  What does it mean about your sexual ability if you’ve had a lot of partners - or conversely, hardly any? We talk about it. How about if you’re not getting wet during sex. Does that mean you’re not turned on? We discuss! Let’s say you use a vibrator a lot - can you get addicted to it? Or my favorite: does having an orgasm mean the sex was good? I tackle both of these. And finally, we face the truth about anal sex, because spoiler alert...it’s not just for gay men. In this episode you’ll learn:  About the wide range of orgasms people can experience and why each is unique. Why libido levels vary between individuals and how this impacts sexual relationships. How pornography can shape unrealistic expectations and affect real-life sexual experiences. Show Notes: Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? Guide SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want to try Promescent's Delay Spray or Arousal Gel? Visit Promescent.com/emily for 15% off your order! Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE  Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com/live.

Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us are ready to sex-periment right now. Justin shares fascinating sex research from the COVID era, the sex communication practices heterosexual individuals can learn from the LGBTQ+ community, and how to make casual sex better for women. (Spoiler alert: emphasize her pleasure.) We also unpack the Kinsey Scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular fantasy, and what our porn preferences reveal (and don’t reveal) about us. Finally, we talk about sex education as it’s practiced in The Netherlands, and give you some incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex (because it’s really important!). In this episode, you’ll learn: How to Improve Casual Sex Insights from the LGBTQ+ Community Tools for talking to your kids about sex Show Notes: More Justin Lehmiller : Website | Instagram | X Yes! No! Maybe? Guide Try the ENIGMA™ Cruise Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

On today’s show, I’m joined by psychological astrologer and returning guest Dr. Jennifer Freed. We answer your questions on how to spot a sensual lover, useful tools for addressing low libido, how to pursue a threesome or open relationship, how to easily create intimacy in a relationship, what your Zodiac signs say (or don’t say) about compatibility with your partner, what to do if your hookup buddy wants a relationship (but you don’t), and the mind-blowing effects of EMDR therapy. We also share our top methods to build erotic tension and why focusing too much on your partner’s desire can hold you back in the bedroom. As an added bonus, we walk through ways to reach your ‘power yes’ in sex, the effects of toxic masculinity, and how to communicate as an invitation—not a confrontation. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to identify and attract a sensual lover through astrology and self-awareness. Tools and techniques to address low libido and build erotic tension in your relationship. Practical advice on navigating open relationships, threesomes, and understanding compatibility through Zodiac signs. Show Notes: More Dr. Jennifer Freed: Website | Instagram Yes! No! Maybe? Guide EMDRIA.org: Resources for EMDR therapy SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Just like going to the gym improves your body, going to therapy improves your mind. And bonus: couple’s counseling can radically improve your relationship and your sex life. So why do some people absolutely refuse to go? On today’s show, I’m giving you the therapy low-down, so you can decide whether you should try it – or, if it’s the right call for you and your partner. I’m talking: signs it’s time to look for a therapist, pros and cons of solo therapy vs. couple’s counseling, whether sex therapy is right for you, what to expect from a typical therapy session, and how to find therapy that works for you – including budget-friendly options. Plus, I take your therapy-related questions on porn addiction, sexual trauma and what to do if you tried to improve your sex life with your partner…but they cheated anyway. In this episode, you’ll learn: The Importance of Addressing Sexual Trauma The Power of Open Communication in Relationships Seeking Professional Help is a Sign of Strength Show Notes: Yes! No! Maybe? Guide SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

If you build a sex room, they will come. That’s the idea behind the Netflix show “How to Build a Sex Room,” and on today’s episode I’ve got designer Melanie Rose here with me to discuss her real-life erotic renovations. From a rock n’ roll dungeon to a high-end sex spa, Melanie has all kinds of decor ideas you can steal: spanking benches, wall-mounted handcuffs, soundproofing wall art. All of these are client-approved sex innovations, but the show has a touching side too. You get to see all kinds of clients, from suburbanites to polycules, parents to long-distance couples, discuss their fantasies and sexual desires – some of them for the very first time. And you know I’m all about that. In this episode, you’ll learn: Insights into how Melanie Rose creates sex rooms that are both functional and sensual Practical advice on managing bodily fluids during sex How designing a personalized sex room can empower individuals and couples to explore their sexuality more freely Show Notes: More Melanie Rose: Netflix show | Instagram | Website | Pinterest Yes! No! Maybe? Guide SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for me?” But before you jump into the anal deep end with a partner, I’ve got a pro tip: try anal with yourself! Tune in for your solo anal play primer, and keep listening to hear me answer all your booty Q’s. In this episode, you’ll learn: Discover the positive reasons to explore anal play on your own, regardless of your anatomy. Learn the truth behind common anal myths and misconceptions. Get detailed tips on toys and insertion techniques, from beginner to advanced levels. Show Notes: Yes! No! Maybe? Guide Try the LELO SORAYA Beads Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Have you ever used FaceTime for sex? Maybe you’re traveling and want to stay connected to your partner. Maybe you’re dating and want to test the waters with someone virtually before having sex IRL. Or maybe the idea just turns you on! No matter the case, today’s episode is all about FaceTime sex and how to pull it off. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to get in the mood for FaceTime sex and tips to help yourself feel more comfortable on-screen Answers to listener questions, such as how to spice it up and how do you end a sexting session How to position your camera and what to actually say in the moment Show Notes: Try our FREE Guides Today! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Trust: it’s the glue of relationships, even the more casual ones. Can I trust that this person is safe? That they aren’t going to hurt me? Can I trust myself, that I’ll know how to navigate this situation? These are the questions we all ask ourselves, even if it’s subconscious. Our bodies and brains regularly scan for danger, but when you’re wearing rose-colored glasses, sometimes the red flags just look like flags. So on today’s show, I take your questions on trust and safety, because as we know, safety is the precursor to hot sex. So what happens when you’re having mind-blowing sex with a partner, but catch them chatting with sex workers online? What happens when you’ve been love-bombed, by someone who isn’t what they seem? Or maybe you’ve had past relationship trauma, and don’t trust new partners to take it slow with you? We get into all of it. Finally: do you trust yourself to facilitate a hookup? Do you trust that you can help a partner heal from sex-negative messaging? These are the questions I’m exploring today, and trust ME: by the end, you’ll walk away with some great tools for sticky situations. In this episode, you’ll learn: Being upfront and honest in a new relationship is very important Lowering your expectations for a one night stand or a situation-ship When someone tells you who they are, believe them Show Notes: Try our FREE Guides Today! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Breakups. They can be a painful experience. Trust me, I know. After spending time considering your partner to be such an important aspect of your life, losing them can be like a mini-death. If you have decided your relationship is over and are struggling to know what to do next, this episode is for you. I give my top tips for how to cope and answer all your questions. In this episode you’ll learn: How to cope with a breakup  Tips for giving better oral sex  Tools for communicating your needs Show Notes: SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Try the LELO Enigma Double Sonic Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.) Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Tune into this conversation with the incredible Dr. Josh Gonzalez, a board-certified urologist fellowship-trained in sexual medicine and specializing in the management of male and female sexual dysfunctions. Dr. Gonzalez has been featured in Vogue and is a medical contributor to Men’s Health and Cosmopolitan, among others. He is a sexual health expert who has built a following on TikTok and Instagram, where he uses social media to educate on sexual and reproductive health. He is also the co-founder of Popstar, a men’s supplement addressing semen health. I loved talking with Dr. Gonzalez. I can’t wait to share his incredible work with you. In this episode, you’ll learn: That 50 percent of infertility cases are related to male factor infertility. That’s half of the cases, but somehow, we default label infertility as a female issue. How oral contraceptive pills cause an elevation in a protein called sex hormone binding globulin in women. This is a protein you don't want large amounts of in your body, as it binds up all of your hormones. When the hormones are bound, they can't be effectively used. About the groundswell of men coming into Dr. Gonzalez’s office requesting vasectomies after the overturning of Roe v. Wade. How you can easily test your sperm with at-home collection kits. For not much money, you can freeze your sperm, too. Show Notes: More Dr. Josh Gonzalez: Instagram | Website | TikTok Try the Popstar Volume & Taste Supplement & Popstar Fertility for Men Today! Save 20% with code "EMILY" at popstarlabs.com/emily Try our FREE Guides Today! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

So you want sex on the daily, but as for your partner? Not really. Not to worry! Today’s hotline calls episode takes a look at mismatched sex drives, and what might actually be behind them. We’re also diving into penis size, pleasure, and communication. There are so many ways to enjoy a penis - but first, ya gotta talk about what you BOTH want. In this episode you’ll learn: How to make eye contact during sex What to do about sexsomnia (aka having sex in your sleep) How to talk to your partner about not having much sex experience Show Notes: Try our FREE Guides Today! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want to try Promescent's Delay Spray or Arousal Gel? Visit Promescent.com/emily for 15% off your order! Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Did you know that nipple sensations for vulva-owners ignite the same parts of the brain as clitoral stimulation? Today, we’re unlocking all of the overlooked erogenous zones including nipples. ALL genders can potentially have more pleasure and orgasms through nipple play—you just need the proper tips and tricks.   We hear from a masseuse who is exploring the reality of “happy endings” as well as a couple who’s interested in perfecting the “g-spot orgasm” and closing the orgasm gap. (I like to call it the “g-area”... Find out why!) In this episode you’ll learn: How to have a nipple orgasm Ways to help with the orgasm gap How to respond to a partner who you feel may not be sexually attracted to you  Show Notes: SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Try the LELO Enigma Double Sonic Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.) Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits. In this episode you’ll learn: How to find your fantasies and how to talk to your new partner about them  What to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it) Show Notes: Try our FREE Guides Today!  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order More Elle Chase: Website | Instagram Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

On today’s show, everyone’s looking for clarity in the sexual unknown, starting with: how can I tell if they’re into me? Whether it’s an office crush and you’re trying to figure out if they like you back, or you’re about to go on a date and worried you’ll be friend-zoned, I give you tips to put your best foot forward. How about if it’s a new sexual act, and you don’t know how you feel about it — or if you should even try it? I offer ways to figure out what YOU want…and not just what your lover wants. Finally, sexual evolutions in long-term relationships: what to do when you’re filled with old resentment? Is there a new conversation you could have with your partner? How about when you want to open up…but your nesting partner is scared of you having new lovers? We’re venturing into uncharted sex territory today, but don’t worry—we all come out on the other side, with fresh ways forward. In this episode you’ll learn:  Steps to getting back into dating How to talk to your partner about their kinks What to do when you want your relationship to be open, but your partner doesn't How to talk to your kids about Sex and Sexual Wellness Show Notes: Try our FREE Guides Today!  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

What does it mean exactly, when someone says they’re a voyeur? A sub? A cuckhold or an exhibitionist? Well folks, we are getting a kinky education today! On today’s episode, I’m walking you through your sexual fantasies to see where you land on the kink spectrum. I’m talking submission and domination, exhibitionism and voyeurism, even a little humiliation, if that’s your preferred kink flavor. But because kink is play, I’m also giving you some specific ideas for how to explore these fantasies IRL – and, bonus, I’m taking all of your kinky questions.  In this episode you’ll learn:  HERE HERE HERE Show Notes: SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE  Shopify.com/swe Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com/live.

In today’s throwback episode, I’m taking your Sex With Emily hotline calls and answering your questions. Remember, you can always call and leave a voicemail with your question at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). In this episode you’ll learn:  What to do if you can’t stop fantasizing about women (but you’re in a healthy relationship with a man) How to determine if birth control is tanking your sex drive How to communicate with a partner who won’t share their desires Show Notes: Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! Try our FREE Guides Today!  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Have you found yourself fascinated with what's masculine or feminine, especially in the bedroom? On today's episode, volleyball star, Gabby Reece, redefines the modern day versions of these roles and explains why it matters in her marriage. In this episode you’ll learn:  Gabby's definition of masculine & feminine in her marriage Why younger generations may not be having as much sex Which sex toys Gabby is into Show Notes: Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! More Gabby Reece | Instagram | Website | Podcast SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order. Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Ever dated a mind reader who just gets you? …Chances are, probably not. Unfortunately for us, deep connections need deep communication skills. I mean, how can your partner know your needs if you don’t tell them? I know it’s not easy, though, and that’s why today’s throwback is all about articulating what you need, sexually and otherwise. The result? Way healthier relationship dynamics and hotter sex. You’re welcome! In this episode you’ll learn: What to do if you want your child to grow up with more positive sex messaging than you had How to deal with an emotionally detached partner Why you have to communicate to get the kind of touch you need in bed Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Try the LELO DOT Travel Today!  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Volleyball legend and podcast host Gabby Reece takes the hot seat and reveals all her secrets to being a successful athlete, wife, parent and business owner with her famous surfer husband, Laird Hamilton. In this episode you’ll learn:  Sex rules to keep your man happy How to play farmer and flower to have a long lasting relationship Gabby Reece's biggest turn on, it's not what you think it might be Why being kind is better than being nice Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! More Gabby Reece | Instagram | Website | Podcast SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure This episode is brought to you by: Promescent (Visit the link for 15% off) Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure that your sex life follows suit. In this throwback episode, I’m sharing my steamiest ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom. If you’re ready for a Hot Girl Summer, this ep’s for you. In this episode you’ll learn:  How to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties Where to (safely) have sex in public How to navigate a friends with benefits situation Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Ever wondered how culture has molded your sexuality? My guest, Dr. Shefali Tsabury, dives deep into this topic on today’s throwback ep, revealing how societal norms have conditioned us to suppress our true desires, cheat ourselves, and live inauthentically. But here's the twist: radically authentic love and desire are within reach! All it takes is confronting the myths we've been fed and making a conscious choice to live freely. Ready to break free and embrace your true self? Tune in.  In this episode you’ll learn:  How to rethink marriage as a model for growth All about monogamy and why it’s the societal norm (and if it’s even natural…) How to replace societal conditioning with worthiness Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! Dr. Shefali: Instagram | Website Podcast: Parenting & You with Dr. Shefali SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Try the LELO SONA 2 TRAVEL today and get 25% when you use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout. Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

QUESTION: If you’re a parent or caregiver, should you talk to your child about masturbation? I say absolutely! Even if it feels like you’re navigating a minefield, and even if your own parents left you in the dark (because let’s face it, they probably did), I get it – finding the right words can be trickier than solving a Rubik’s Cube. That’s why today’s episode is your ultimate guide, packed with tools, scripts, and resources to help you tackle this touchy topic with confidence and maybe even a little humor. In a couple years, your kid will thank you! In this episode you’ll learn:  Why should you talk to your children, and teens specifically, about masturbation The truth behind masturbation myths  Specific verbiage to make these uncomfortable sex talks a little easier Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! The Communication Guide (And Other Guides) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) For a limited time, you can save 20% off sitewide at Justthrivehealth.com with promo code: SEXWITHEMILY The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Have you ever been so in love that you lost your mind? I totally get it, and so does today's guest, sex therapist, author, and host of the podcast Diagnonsense, Todd Baratz, who joined me to chat about all things relationship and why dating can be such a struggle today. In this episode you’ll learn:  How oral sex can make or break your relationship What to do when you date men who don't know how to connect emotionally Why we need to stop diagnosing everyone Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE  The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Did you know that the lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety and depression? How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Ever since the pandemic, many of us have been touch-starved, but now it’s time to feast. On today’s throwback show I’ll share how to satisfy your skin hunger and bring more touch and intimacy back into your life. In this episode you’ll learn: What questions to ask yourself to figure out if your relationship is where you want it to be How to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom How to get back into the dating scene Show Notes: Pleasure Planner + Other Guides SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017.  On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation! In this episode you’ll learn:  How society pressures vulva owners to become mothers Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly Show Notes: Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter Thread Ejaculate Responsibly SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Let's face it: sex isn't just a switch you can flip on and off. It's more like a whole playlist of tension, arousal, body exploration, playful antics, and steamy teamwork — there’s a lot more than just the main event. So, what do you do when you're ready to get it on, but your body keeps hitting snooze? In today’s show, I’ll show you my favorite tips and tricks and address even the most perplexing arousal questions.  In this episode you’ll learn: My special trick for giving oral sex with a gag reflex How to deal with vaginismus Why communication can fix (almost) every sex problem Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE  The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Imagine: You've got that special someone who makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The trust is there, the connection is solid. But sometimes the fire just fizzles out when it comes to sex. I get it. When the routine starts feeling a bit too...routine, it's time to switch things up and rediscover what really gets your engine revving (and sometimes, it’s not your partner!). On today’s throwback we're diving deep into the world of sexual attraction - what it is, how it's different from romantic love, and most importantly, how to use that knowledge to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Because at the end of the day, switching it up never hurt anybody.  In this episode you’ll learn: Why sexual attraction can feel so distinctly different than long-term love What to do when you and your partner are both submissive When you should hang onto your friend with benefits – and when to let them go Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Sex and Psychology SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) This episode is brought to you by: Promescent (Visit the link for 15% off) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

In today’s throwback show, I talk to the one and only Shaun T, host of the podcast “Trust and Believe,” a world renowned fitness trainer, and a professional dancer. Not to mention a wonderfully sex positive man, but, as you’ll learn in the episode it took a journey – I repeat, a JOURNEY – to get there. But hey, if he can do it, you can too. Trust me: if you’ve been looking for inspo to feel yourself in the bedroom, this convo is an absolute must.  In this episode you’ll learn:  How Shaun and his partner keep things interesting after 12 years and two kids Why you have to do the work to heal from trauma – and why it’s so rewarding Shaun’s genius sex and arousal hacks Show Notes: What’s Your Arousal Type? SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) This episode is brought to you by: Bathmate (Use code EMILY10 or visit the link for 10% off) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Let’s face it: casual sex often gets a bad rap. It’s thought of as just another swipe, a fleeting moment, a reflection of society’s current hookup culture, or something disposable. But hold up! It doesn't have to be that way. When you bring a little intention and mindfulness into the mix, casual sex can be the spark that reignites your erotic energy. In my opinion, the secret sauce is all about knowing yourself and being crystal clear about what you want from your casual encounters. This episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones. In this episode you’ll learn:  All the different types of casual sex out there How to know if casual sex is right for you (because it isn’t for everyone!)  When it’s best to turn down a potential partner Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! 7 Myths of Non Monogamy Friends With Benefits: A Guide SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) LOKI WAVE 2 The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today I had the pleasure of talking to the “Scientific Carrie Bradshaw”, a.k.a Amy Chan, the revolutionary mind behind Renew Breakup Bootcamp, to talk about all things relationship. We chat about how her heartbreak helped in creating Breakup Bootcamp, why being present during dates is hard but necessary, and why dating outside of your comfort zone might be the key to finding the one. If you’re sick of swiping left and tolerating toxicity, this one’s for you. In this episode you’ll learn:  How to measure your chemistry compass  Why it’s important to date that short person (even if they aren’t exactly your type!) How to spot the “green flags” in a relationship Show Notes: Attend Dating Bootcamp!  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Eager to transform your hottest sexual fantasy into reality? Then today’s throwback Ask Emily show is for you! I'll be taking calls about fantasies and offering concrete tips on how to actualize them. However, it's essential to recognize that this journey is a blend of creativity and strategy. You must embrace your sensual desires, visualize intensely passionate — and perhaps even forbidden — scenarios, and explore what genuinely excites you! Lucky for you, I’ve given you tips on how to do just that. Right this way for some sexy self-discovery… In this episode you’ll learn:  How to go about finding a “third” if your partner’s been hinting at cuckolding The 411 on play parties (and how to stay safe if you go to one!) What to do if you’ve been craving a sexual fantasy, but your imagination’s been letting you down Show Notes: The Yes, No, Maybe List Fetlife Feeld Coming Together by Celeste And Danielle #Open SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

It’s my favorite month of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s throwback show, I’m honoring the month of self-love and giving you a brief history of the celebration, the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys and lubes for bringing you pleasure this May and all year long. In this episode you’ll learn:  What to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator Why masturbation can help you have orgasms during sex with your partner Signs that you’re masturbating too much Show Notes: Mutual Masturbation Guide For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE  SEX WITH EMILY VESPER SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today, I continue my conversation with my friend, YouTube personality, public speaker, and author Matthew Hussey. We chat about his latest book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What, Matthew’s texting skills, and why it’s best to follow your path and not your feelings. And if you were wondering about the texting cliffhanger from Part 1, it’s answered in today’s show. Enjoy! In this episode you’ll learn:  Why “avoiders” can be more of a red flag in relationships than liars When to make things work and when it's not worth it Why speaking your truth is sexy Show Notes: Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1 Matthew’s New Book: Love Life LELO Tor 3 (Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

When it comes to sex, a lot of us find ourselves getting in our head about the way it “should” go down. “I should look a certain way.” “They should kiss me a certain way.” “We’ll both orgasm at the same time.” In other words, we expect things to be straight out of a movie… But here’s the real deal: you’re going to orgasm way easier – and more intensely – if you get out of your head, and into your body. So on today’s throwback show, I’m helping you have fully embodied sex using your senses. If you're not turned on or inspired to have sex, I’ve got sensory tools you can use to remove mental blocks and seduce yourself or your partner…and feel all the electric sensations leading up to the big O.   In this episode you’ll learn: Why you’re dissociating during sex and how to stop Ways to talk dirty without swearing How to bring back an MIA orgasm Show Notes: Come As You Are - Dr. Emily Nagoski Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide at checkout!) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Listen in on my conversation with my friend Matthew Hussey. You may know him as the inspirational YouTube personality, author, and public speaker who has revolutionized the world of dating advice with his amazing methods. We chat about emotional journeys, what Matthew has learned in his experience as a relationship coach, and ways to take charge of your love life. If you've been in a dating slump, this is the episode for you. In this episode you’ll learn:  How to take charge of your love life Why reflecting on your instincts is a game changer The value of valuing yourself first Show Notes: Matthew’s New Book: Love Life More Matthew Hussey: Website | Instagram | Youtube SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today, I continue my candid convo with my friend Falguni, answering all your hottest and most personal sex questions. From my experiences in threesomes to my favorite positions, no question goes unanswered. If you’ve ever wondered what the mile high club is like or how to tell your partner they could step up their sex game, tune in. Trust me, this is an episode you won’t wanna miss.   In this episode you’ll learn:  Why penetration alone might not always give you an orgasm    How to take control of your orgasm  Why communication is the most important part of your threesome Show Notes: SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure LELO DOT Travel (Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off) Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Happy 4/20! While direct research is still in development, there's no denying the potential benefits of cannabis for enhancing your sexual experiences. Researchers theorize that the plant can unlock a world of heightened eroticism, tranquil minds, and pain-free sex. On today’s show, I chat about ways cannabis might light up your sex life, my favorite products and delivery methods for the occasion (I’m a huge edible fan!), and how to figure out if cannabis is right for you.  In this episode you’ll learn:   How cannabis can affect sexual performance   How to decide if you should bring cannabis into the bedroom My fave product recommendations for 4/20 fun Show Notes: 6 Ways to Use Cannabis for Sex: A Guide The Journal of Cannabis Research Study SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY420 for 40% sitewide until 4/30/24) For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE   Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Buckle up: Today’s show is one you’ve all been waiting for…and spoiler alert, it’s all about me! I sat down with my good friend Falguni to flip the script and spill the tea on what sex with Emily is actually like (pun intended)! Tune in to hear me get up close and personal about my sexual journey, why I faked my orgasms until my 30s, and sex trends that I see making a comeback in the near future.  In this episode you’ll learn:   How I stopped having performative sex  How to push past the pleasure thieves for fulfilling sex  My go-to positions and products for the best orgasms Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

In today’s gut-busting episode I dive deep into the tango between your belly's bacteria and your sexual wellness. And who better to guide us through this intestinal intrigue than Tina Anderson, the gut guru and CEO of Just Thrive, the brand whose mission is to reboot your microbiome. Prepare to have your life changed as Tina spills the beans on how bacteria in your gut really calls the shots, influencing everything from your mood swings to your mojo.  Buckle up, lovers and health hackers, as we explore the steamy science that'll have you rethinking your next date night dinner.  In this episode you’ll learn: What low libido, keeping the spark alive, erectile challenges, and gut issues all have in common How hormones and the gut biome each affect each other in a bi-directional system Why the 3 pleasure thieves (stress, trauma, and shame) also impact our general health and wellness Show Notes: Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide at checkout!) Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

It’s 2024, and there’s no denying that everybody has sexual needs. However, it can be really difficult to articulate them and share them with your partner. On today’s throwback Ask Emily show, I’m here to help you take that vital next step and get your needs fulfilled. From those who’ve never had an orgasm before to those who just want to communicate with their partners better, I’ve got you!  Just remember: for every sex problem, there is a path forward.  In this episode you’ll learn: How to communicate your sexual needs (even if your partner shuts down sex convos) Techniques to give your partner a crazy orgasm What to do if your partner desires things you might not be sure about like swinging Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today I revisit my conversation with Dolly Josette, the PleasureMuse who turned the world of breathwork into the ultimate erotic adventure! Imagine unlocking a treasure chest of sensations and full-body orgasms you never knew you had with the work of meditation.. Dolly isn't just any guide on this journey; she's the Gandalf of sexual enlightenment, hailed by the high councils of Cosmopolitan and Hustler Magazines as a pioneering Sexological Bodyworker. But what truly sets her apart isn't the accolades; it's her magical ability to awaken the dormant erotic energy within women and couples, guiding them from numbness to dizzying heights of orgasmic bliss. So, if the idea of exploring the vast, uncharted territories of pleasure sounds good to you, Dolly Josette is ready to lead the way! In this episode you’ll learn:  How to hack your nervous system for better sex Why so many vulva owners are trained to numb from the waist down (and how to fix it!) How to become a great masturbator Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY420 for 40% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Mental health and sexual desire – do you have to choose between one or the other? It's a conundrum that's more common than you think, and it's a topic that's sure to get you thinking! Antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesavers for many, but they can also leave you feeling a little, well, deflated in the bedroom department. On the other hand, if your depression goes untreated, it can be tough to get in the mood. So, how do you navigate this predicament? Today, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of this struggle, and you'll hear from some of our listeners who've been there.  In this episode you’ll learn: How to understand the effects your mental health has on your sex drive Sexy strategies to manage the side effects of antidepressants Alternative treatments and lifestyle changes to maximize your pleasure Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness (36 Questions) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) LELO LILY 3 Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

It's commonly said that the brain is the most significant sexual organ in the human body. But is it possible to manipulate our brains to enhance happiness or even improve our sexual experiences? Dr. Daniel Amen, a psychiatrist and acclaimed author, has compiled the most extensive collection of brain scans globally. Through analyzing this data, he has uncovered intriguing insights: by adopting habits grounded in neuroscience, we can significantly enhance our mental well-being, elevate our mood, and indeed – enrich our sexual lives. Tune in now to discover how to take control of your mind and enjoy the benefits. In this episode you’ll learn:  The way stress hormones can interfere with our sexual hormones Techniques to shield yourself from mental "noise" The reasons why individuals who are happier generally enjoy longer lives, maintain healthier relationships, achieve greater success professionally, and experience more fulfilling sex lives Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! Order Dr. Daniel Amen's New Book, Raising Mentally Strong Kids SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Sexting: it’s basically the foreplay of the 21st century - a steamy, sultry way to turn up the heat without even being in the same room. But let's be real, sending a bunch of suggestive emojis out of the blue might leave your partner scratching their head. That's why you need to master the art of sexting, and I'm here to help you do just that. In this show, I'll give you the inside scoop on how to craft the perfect sext, from the right tone to the perfect use of emojis. With my pro tips, you'll be able to turn up the heat and leave your partner begging for more. So buckle up, because we're about to take your sexting game to a whole new level! In this episode you’ll learn:  How emotional intelligence influences your sexting skills How to manage your devices so messages don’t end up in the wrong place How to have good phone sex in a long distance relationship Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! Sexting Guide Yes, No, Maybe List SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) LELO Sona 2 Travel Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Looking to connect with your partner on a whole new level? Lucky for you, today’s episode with human connection specialist Mark Groves will give you the tools to do just that. Mark uses his emotional translation skills to give accessible relationship and wellness advice to others and shares his relatable ways to be your most authentic self. From discussing a Thanksgiving dinner that changed his life to examining past toxic behavior, Mark and I dive deep into ways to become wiser in love. Get ready to get vulnerable, today’s show gets DEEP! In this episode you’ll learn:  How to break free from codependent relationships Why reflecting on past experiences is the key to better relationships Why we should all be using the word “boner again Show Notes: Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE! Pre-order Mark’s new book: LIBERATED LOVE SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) LELO F1S V3 Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

WARNING, WARNING: Your climax has exited the premises. Ever wondered why achieving orgasm can feel effortless with one partner but challenging with another? Or why squirting might occur without reaching climax? On today's throwback episode of Hotline Calls, we're delving into the topic of orgasm and its hidden secrets. Tune in for an orgasmic time.  Got a burning question? Feel free to reach out and leave a voicemail anytime at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). In this episode you’ll learn:  The difference between squirting and orgasming How to orgasm for the first time, if you never have How to create masturbation routines that support the orgasms you deserve  Show Notes: Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE!  Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure OhMiBod Sphinx OhMiBod Foxy Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Weddings: They're like a beautiful blend of tradition and flowers, but let's be real – Is married sex worth all the hype? Let's face it, folks. Married sex often gets stuck in this rut of tired old cliches. But guess what? It doesn't have to be that way!  We're so over settling for dull or non-existent intimacy as we journey through life with our partners. So, buckle up because on today's show, I'm all about shaking things up to make sex with your spouse hot again. From crafting your own set of sex vows before you take that stroll down the aisle to pleasure planning with your long-time partner, we're rewriting the playbook on honeymoon passion. Oh, and we're diving into the cultural landscape of love, sex, and relationships because times are definitely changing! In this episode you’ll learn:  How to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage What it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s wedding How to bring back the spark…even when the spark was a little dim in the first place Show Notes: Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE!  Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE! Yes, No, Maybe Guide  Pleasure Planner  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 20% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today I’m joined by Liz Moody, the best-selling author and podcast host who shares insightful tips to help transform your life in all different aspects in her new book, 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success. We discuss her personal strategies for prioritizing wellness, ways to run your home like a CEO, and how to make your ideal Sex Bill of Rights. Tune in for so many amazing tips and tricks to upgrade your life! In this episode you’ll learn:  How planning your funeral helps you live a fulfilling present life Why it's important to run your home like you’re the CEO My new term "micro intimacy” and why that will be a game changer Show Notes: Check out Liz’ New Book HERE LELO F1S V3 (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Listen up, assholes! Relationships and sex dynamics can be pleasure-filled and intimate, and also complicated and messy. Today, Producer Erica and I are reading your AITA questions and letting you know if you’re being an asshole in your sex life and relationships. We answer questions like: AITA for wanting more sexual tension and intimacy in our relationship? AITA for re-evaluating a new relationship after they told me they have an STI? AITA for breaking up with my partner because they won’t go down on me? And more. In this episode you’ll learn:  How to communicate your sexual needs effectively with your partner What to do if your partner tells you they have an STI How to heighten sexual tension Show Notes: Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!) Episode: Hot Sex with STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today, I had a candid conversation with Chelsey Goodan, also known as the Teenage Girl Whisperer, about empowering teenage girls in today's society. Chelsey shares her insights from working with teenage girls for over a decade and discusses the challenges they face regarding sexuality, self-expression, and societal expectations. Join us as we explore the power of communication, empowerment, and authenticity in supporting teenage girls on their journey to self-discovery and empowerment. In this episode you’ll also learn:  Effective communication strategies The power of radical honesty and authenticity in building relationships How to break cycles of criticism, self-doubt, and judgment Show Notes: Chelsey’s Book: Underestimated SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Ever wondered if there's a way to spice things up in the bedroom AND reignite the spark between you and your partner? Well, today I'm about to help you crack the code of the 5 Love Languages and supercharge your relationship. I'll also tackle your burning questions like what to do when you and your partner speak different love languages (more common than you’d think), how to keep the love alive in a long-distance relationship, and sex hacks based on your unique love language combo. And if that wasn't enough, I also discuss some awkward situations like accidentally critiquing your partner's penis or navigating that awkward phase when you and your partner feel like the spark is gone. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: All about the 5 Love Languages How to keep the flame burning in a long-distance relationship How to best express your desires with your partner (even if your love languages are different!) Show Notes: Love Language Quiz Je Joue Mimi Soft Talk Dirty to Me w/ Joanna Angel SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Today I teamed up with the brilliant developmental psychologist and host of the Raising Good Humans podcast, Dr. Aliza Pressman, for a rollercoaster ride through the wild world of parenting, sexuality, and relationships. From decoding the mysteries of "the talk" with kids to unraveling the enigma of why millennials and Gen-Zers might be having sex less often, we left no stone unturned. Join us as we dive headfirst into understanding and embracing children's gender identities and sexual orientations, all while figuring on how to be the best humans we can be.  Get ready, because this episode isn't just about parenting—it's about living your best life and loving fiercely along the way! Show Notes: 5 Principles of Parenting OUT NOW! More Dr. Aliza Pressman: Website | Instagram  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensive understanding of BDSM because let's face it, who really knows what "BDSM" stands for anyway? Then, we'll explore the psychology behind power dynamics and the core desires behind kinky practices. And last but certainly not least, we'll serve up some tantalizing tips for bringing a bit of kink into your bedroom – whether you're flying solo or have a partner in crime. So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?), because we're about to embark on a journey into the wild and wonderful world of kink! In this episode, you’ll learn: What BDSM and Kink are really about  The psychology behind dom/sub dynamics How to fearlessly bring kink into the bedroom Show Notes: What NOT to Say to Your Partner When Talking About Sex How to Squirt (For Real) Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides LELO Tiani Duo We-Vibe Melt 5 BDSM Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life Tonight SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

In today's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with #1 NYT Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein. As a spiritual leader and motivational speaker, Gabby shares how you can manifest the sex life you want but through a practical, less woo, lens and how to work through sexual trauma and change your core beliefs around sex. We also get into Internal Family Systems therapy and how young women today speak about sex differently than our generation. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: How spirituality can enhance your sexuality How to boost your confidence (in and out of the bedroom) Tools for working through trauma See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: My appearance on the Dear Gabby podcast! More Gabby Bernstein: Website | Instagram Happy Days The Universe Has Your Back Self Help (coming 2/31/24) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

We all want to grow and become better versions of ourselves. And no where is that more true than our sex lives. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from.  In this episode, you’ll learn: How to find solid friends with benefits Masturbation techniques The anatomy of the vulva! See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: The Psychology of Your Kink How to Squirt (For Real) Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout) Playground Lube Je Joue Mimi Je Joue Hera Magic Wand Insertion Toys Dual Stimulation Toys #Open SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

It’s the season of love - self love! That’s right, this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got all of you singles covered. In today’s Best Of episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure. In this episode, you’ll learn: How often you should masturbate in a relationship How to try masturbation when you never have The magic of mutual masturbation See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: The Psychology of Your Kink How to Squirt (For Real) Your February Solo Sex Challenge LELO DOT (up to 50% off until the end of February, code EMILY10 for an additional 10% off) We-Vibe Touch Je Joue Mimi We-Vibe Rave We-Vibe Nova Pjur Water-Based Lube Aneros Prostate Massager SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before we walked down the aisle? Or how about: Am I the asshole for just feeling plain bored with our sex life? You’re not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I read your AITA questions and let you know if you’re approaching asshole territory. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: How to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma How to get clearer on your sexual desires About the experiences of sex workers See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Give a Prostate Massage 15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) Erika Lust porn Vice Series: Sex Before the Internet SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Orgasms are one of the most pleasure-filled parts of sex. But what’s actually happening in your body when you have one? Today, I’m breaking down the physiological process of different kinds of orgasms and explaining how to have them. I also reveal how to find your G-area and have a G-spot orgasm, what it means to have a dry orgasm, what squirting really is and how to do it. Plus, I get into your orgasm questions. In this episode, you’ll also learn: The anatomy of the clitoris, vulva, and penis so you can better stimulate them The many benefits of orgasms, for both your mental and physical health Tips for communicating with a partner if you no longer want jackhammer sex See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Give a Prostate Massage 15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts LELO Tiani Duo (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

I’m bringing you all into a LIVE conversation I had with renowned sex educator and researcher, Dr. Emily Nagoski, during a recent event in New York! After releasing her bestselling book on sex, Come As You Are, in 2015, Emily’s own sex life took a hit. Today, we discuss how she brought her sex life back from the dead, the Pleasure Thieves, and why it’s okay to stop sex once it’s already started. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to identify your sexual brakes and accelerators About the connection between wearing socks and having more orgasms How stress impacts your sex drive desire See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship) Magic Wand Micro Come Together, Dr. Emily Nagoski: Amazon | GoodReads | Bookshop More Dr. Emily Nagoski: Instagram | Website SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I’m here to make sure it’s your best one yet. First, I get into some common Valentine’s Day myths and things you should never do on the sexy holiday. After that, I’ll share some creative ways you should celebrate to ensure that your Valentine’s Day is hot, intimate and of course, sexy. Plus, I share some of my listeners’ favorite Valentine’s Day moments for some hot inspiration. In this episode, you’ll learn:  How to incorporate blindfolds into sexual play Which toys can be used during penetration How to cultivate sexual desire & intimacy See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship) How to Do the Kivin Method LELO Tiani Duo (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides Massage Candles Le Wand Crystal Glass Dildo Cozy Earth (code “SEXWITHEMILY” for 35% off) Magic Wand Masterclass (use link for 15% off the 1st year of an annual subscription) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

On today’s Best Of episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily Hotline. We get into: how to handle it when your partner wants to have sex with someone else and stay in your relationship, what it means when you fantasize about your ex, how soon is too soon to start dating someone new after a breakup, and ways to avoid ghosting. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to set intentions for new relationships How cannabis can improve your orgasms and intimacy How to guide a partner during oral sex See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship) How to Do the Kivin Method The Pleasure Planner & Other Guides VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from a mental pattern that’s blocking your pleasure, we all experience sexual roadblocks. Never fear: you can have a sex reset! On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m helping you ID the obstacles to your sexuality, from trauma to a repressive upbringing, to a disconnect with a partner. And one by one, I help you figure out solutions that open the door to self-exploration. In this episode, you’ll learn: What “spectatoring” during sex means, and how to overcome it Tips for sharing a sexual fantasy with a new partner How to navigate mismatched libidos in a long-term relationship See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: 10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean) Solaray (code 20STAGES for 20% off) We-Vibe Nova Shop Site Podcast: Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm? SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

To feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. So today, I’m taking some of my favorite Hotline calls on trust and how to repair it. What happens if your spouse cheated on you, and now sex feels sorta gross? What if you tell a new partner you love them, and they don’t reciprocate? Or how about being “too picky” of a dater - is it really because they’re all duds, or are there some underlying trust issues there? The bottom line is this: when we feel free, we feel sexy. And on today’s Best Of episode, I’m helping you radically reclaim your erotic freedom. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: How to move forward after infidelity, whether you were the cheater or the cheated on Tips for feeling comfortable with new partners What to do when it feels like the “spark” is gone See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: 10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean) Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout) Podcast: Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

I’m answering my listeners’ most personal sex and relationship questions LIVE today. Can you only orgasm with straight legs? I’ve got positions and recommendations to help you get there. Nervous that chastity play is giving your partner delayed ejaculation? I ease your worries and help you collaborate with your partner for mutually fulfilling sex. Plus, we get into other kinky calls like erotic lactation and anal sex. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to teach your body new ways to orgasm Common causes of vaginal pain About chastity play and penis cage safety Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Initiate Sex LELO Hugo 2 Remote (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Creative solutions for mismatched libidos What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship Tips for healthy sex conversations See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Initiate Sex Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide) Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Today I am bringing back LIVE Hotline Calls! Not only that, holistic psychologist, author, and my newest friend, Dr. Scott Lyons, joins me back on the show to help me answer your questions. From concerns about sexual compatibility to avoiding jackhammer sex, you will hear the change in these callers’ voices as we help them in real-time. In this episode, you’ll learn: Effective ways to tell your partner you want to explore sexually How to have sex talks with a partner who gets uncomfortable How to feel confident going into a date See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: Magic Wand Micro Dr. Scott Lyons: Instagram | Website The Embody Lab SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

Burnt out from dating? Do you feel like you’ll never meet “the one?” In today’s episode, celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman dispels common dating myths and suggests new dating pillars. Plus, she tells us which dating rules to follow (and which to disregard), the #1 expectation for men on dates with women, and how to make your online dating profile stand out. In this episode, you’ll also learn: How much chemistry really matters on a date Who should make the first move How to track your dates to be more strategic See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: 5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024 F the Fairy Tale, Damona Hoffman: Amazon | Barnes & Noble More Damona Hoffman: Instagram | TikTok | X (Twitter) | Website Dates & Mates Podcast: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Website DamonaHoffman.com/DateTracker SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

I dive into the psychology of foreplay and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips. I also talk about what to do if foreplay and overall sex with your partner has gotten a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself, what to do if your partner doesn’t want to explore new things, and how to handle a partner who won’t reciprocate foreplay. Plus, I answer your questions!In this episode, you’ll learn:How to set the mood for hotter, more intimate sexSpecific sex tips to seduce a partnerThe key differences between couples with ‘great’ vs. ‘bad’ sex livesSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024Podcast: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & ConversationFlavored LubesMassage CandlesArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?Podcast: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna AngelArticle: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful MasturbationYes, No, Maybe List & Other GuidesSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’m answering your top asked sex questions of 2023 and taking a trip through the hottest moments of the year. It’s the last episode of 2023, and there were definitely some standout episodes you all loved the most. So I’m playing some of the highlights, from my fascinating conversation with Esther Perel to my top Hand Play tips, before answering your top questions.In this episode, you’ll learn:What squirting really is and how to do itHow often the average couple has sexHow to have satisfying sex on SSRIsSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Have the Best NYE Kiss EverPodcast: Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther PerelMore Esther Perel: Website | Instagram | TwitterSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’m always encouraging you all to set goals for yourself in your sex life and relationships, and there’s arguably no better time than in the New Year. Today, Producer Erica and I review predictions for 2024 sex and relationship trends, make some of our own predictions, and suggest some New Year’s resolutions to make 2024 your sexiest year yet.In this episode you’ll learn:About the living apart, together movementWhat pleasure mapping is, and how to do itWhat percentage of successful couples schedule sexSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)Get to Know Your Body with “Vulva Mapping”LELO DotSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is it okay to get turned on thinking about my partner with someone else? How can we maintain intimacy amid financial stress? Is it possible to be a feminist and also want to be submissive in the bedroom? Should I be honest with my partner that I’ve never had penetrative sex before? You all ask the best questions, and I’m here to answer them in today’s juicy Hotline Call episode.In this episode, you’ll learn:How to create new fantasies, when you always have the same oneHow to watch porn creatively with a partnerHow to prioritize pleasure, even during your busiest weeksSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever2023 Shop With Emily Gift GuideLast-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & FriendsBathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide)Opening Up: Amazon | Barnes & NobleThe Ethical Slut: Amazon | Barnes & NobleOpen Deeply: Amazon | Barnes & NobleInsight TimerBreathe AppWhere Should We Begin? Card GameSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: Home | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Some sex and relationship advice is better than others. Today, Producer Erica and I review some of the most trending sex and relationship advice from TikTok this year, from “how to make them fall in love with you” and love bombing, to when you should sleep with someone or if the “bird test” will tell you whether you should stay with your partner or not. While reviewing all this advice, we’ll let you know if we agree or disagree.In this episode, you’ll learn:How to maintain sexual tension in long-term relationshipsHow to avoid “mothering” your partnerWhether it’s possible to make someone fall in love with youSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever2023 Shop With Emily Gift GuideHow to Use a Penis PumpLast-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & FriendsLELO Sona 2 Travel (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, we’re diving into a topic I know you all love: sex positions! Today, I’m answering your juiciest positions questions before breaking down the top 3 sex positions, giving you the pros and cons of each one and adaptations to make them even better. Sex positions are often the first things people ask me about when looking to spice up their sex lives - so I’m giving you some options!In this episode, you’ll learn:How to feel confident on topWhy pillows are the secret weapon to upleveling sex positionsPleasurable positions for curved penises and tilted uterusesSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever2023 Shop With Emily Gift GuideWhy You Should Try Anal (& How to Do it the Right Way) How to Use a Penis PumpJe Joue Gift Sets (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off)6 Ways to Upgrade 69We-Vibe RaveLELO Loki WaveSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s Hotline show, I take your calls about having sex talks like: How to relax into oral sex and give your partner tips to make you scream. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. And how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this Best Of episode, and see if your next sex talk is a little bit easier. In this episode, you’ll also learn:All about the Kivin MethodWhether age gaps really matter in relationshipsHow to share sex toys safelySee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever2023 Shop With Emily Gift GuideSexy Stocking Stuffers & How to Use ThemWhy You Should Try Anal (& How to Do it the Right Way) FirmTech (bundle the Tech Ring with a 1:1 consultation and save $230 with code EMILY)Best Of: Oral Sex Master ClassEverybody Loves OralMind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodSex With Emily Vesper Vibrating NecklaceSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Solo sex is an integral part of being sexually healthy. But how do you spice up your masturbation routine? And how do you get rid of shame surrounding solo sex? I get into all this and more in today’s Best Of episode, including: the health benefits of masturbation, common masturbation fantasies, and whether or not your vibrator is desensitizing your clitoris.In this episode, you’ll learn:How often the SWE community has solo sexHow to practice mindful masturbationHow to establish a healthy masturbation routineSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever2023 Shop With Emily Gift GuideHow to Find the G-SpotSexy Stocking Stuffers & How to Use ThemMorgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (45% off sitewide, code EMILY for an additional 15% off)Edging 101 & Other GuidesSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever felt like orgasming with a partner is like solving a Rubik's cube blindfolded? Well, you're not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I dive headfirst into this problem with a few tricks up our sleeves. Next on the agenda: how to tell your loving partner you want to be humiliated in the bedroom. I give you the tools to help your partner feel more comfortable with the idea. Then we discuss the ever growing debate: is masturbating with a cam girl considered cheating? Stick around to hear my two cents. And finally, we're talking about masturbating, even when you've got a willing partner on standby. We'll weigh the pros and cons, and why solo sex deserves just as much love as partnered sex.In this episode, you’ll learn:About core erotic desiresThe benefits of masturbation (by yourself and with a partner)How to communicate your fantasies to a partnerSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide6 Ways to Upgrade Your 69How to Find the G-SpotMagic Wand MicroSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From cheating to sexless marriages, we’re back with another juicy Am I the Asshole? episode. Today, Producer Erica and I let you know if you’re being an asshole in your sex life and relationships, answering questions like: AITA for wanting to leave my partner after he cheated, when I cheated first? Or AITA for not wanting my fiancé to talk about sex with my best friend? Tune in to find out and let me know what you think in my socials!In this episode, you’ll learn:Why you should practice new positions after a sex sessionHow to navigate mismatched libidosThe importance of establishing new goals for a relationship after infidelitySend us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever2023 Shop With Emily Gift GuideHow to Give a Sex Gift: 6 Tips to Consider6 Ways to Upgrade Your 69VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking all about fantasies. Specifically, the ones you, the Sex With Emily community, shared with me! From threesomes to cuckolding to CNC - consensual nonconsent, I break down each one and also answer your top fantasy questions. What if you have a hard time visualizing your desires? What if you’re nervous to try sex acts you’ve already done with previous partners? I get into all this and more.In this episode, you’ll learn:The psychology behind our top sexual fantasiesHow to accept your fantasies, even when they feel like the most shamefulSuccess stories from listeners who turned their fantasies into realitiesSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever2023 Shop With Emily Gift GuideHow to Give a Sex Gift: 6 Tips to ConsiderLELO Sona 2 Travel (code EMILY10 for an extra 10% off existing sales)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Holiday season is near, and the Sex With Emily 2023 Holiday Gift Guide is here! We’re all about giving and receiving here, particularly when it comes to the gift of pleasure. So how about gifting some pleasure into your loved ones’ lives (and your life!) this holiday season? Today, Producer Erica and I discuss our favorite, pleasure-filled gifts. Plus, we discuss: How do you know if someone is open to receiving a sex toy? And how do you gift one to them? Stay tuned.In today’s episode, you’ll learn:At what point in a relationship it's appropriate to gift someone a sex toyHow to introduce sex toys to a new partnerMy top gift recommendations for your loved onesHottest Gift Guide Ever: 2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays EverSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever2023 Shop With Emily Gift GuideThe Giftables Collection by Plus One (30% off orders over $50, 30% off sitewide on Cyber Monday)The Rose by PlusOneVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)Magic Wand MicroJe Joue Couples CollectionPlayground Mood MakerJe Joue MimiOSEA Essential Hydrating OilBrooklinen Super-Plush Bath TowelsBearaby Weighted BlanketContigo Stainless Steel Travel MugSex Toys for Penises by ArcwaveLELO LOKI Wave (code EMILY10 for an extra 10% off existing sales)Omala Skin Balm CandleHigherDose Red Light Face MaskMorgasm CBD Arousal GelSmart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

‘Tis the season… for more sex! Today, Producer Erica and I dive into the reasons why people have more or less sex over the holidays, how to maintain intimacy when you’re staying with relatives, and my top discreet toy recs. We also get into relationship dynamics over the holidays: Should you break up before or after? Should you bring them home to meet the parents? Should you hang out with your holiday hookup? And so much more.In today’s episode, you’ll learn:Why sex drives peak and decline over holiday breaksThe best places to have sex while home for the holidaysThings to notice in a partner while travelingSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays EverJe Joue Mimi, G-Spot Bullet Vibrator & MoreLELO Dot Clitoral VibratorWomanizer Premium 2 Suction ToySHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Hotline is ringing, and we’re answering! Producer Erica and I answer all your juicy questions, from discomfort around a partner’s sexual history to how to find a third for a threesome. We also discuss prioritizing solo sex during stressful times like divorce, as well as how to manage premature ejaculation when you’ve started foreplay outside the bedroom.In this episode, you’ll learn:How to send sexy texts with confidence, even if you’ve never sexted with your partner beforeSuggested steps before bringing someone else into the bedroomNavigating age differences in relationshipsSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays EverFeeld.co/Emily for 30 Days of Free Majestic MembershipPromescent.com/Emily for 15% off sitewidePodcast: Sex Party 101SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

One of the most important pillars of sexual intelligence is embodiment. Today’s guest knows a thing or two about connecting with your body for a better life and better sex. Bestselling author and wellness educator Lauren Roxburgh, also known as “the Body Whisperer,” teaches us how to listen to our bodies, simple exercises to reduce pain and heighten orgasms, how to work with changing hormones, and so much more.In today’s episode, you’ll learn:How to do a reverse kegelHow posture and gait can affect our sexual performanceAll about fascia – the “WiFi” of our bodies!See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Orgasm During MissionaryVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)Awaken the Power of Your Pelvic Floor - Join the Waitlist!Aligned Life Studio (code EMILY30 for 30% off your first subscription)More Lauren Roxburgh: Instagram | YouTube | WebsiteSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Confidence is something we all struggle with at times, particularly in our sex lives and relationships. From feeling insecure about our bodies, to not thinking we’re “good enough” in bed, messages from society, past partners, and our own shame can affect how we show up in the bedroom. In this Best Of episode, I’m giving you my top tips for boosting your sexual confidence. I also answer your questions like: how do you help a partner boost their confidence? How can you hack your brain to feel confident while naked? How can you fully let go in bed, so that you can experience maximum pleasure? And so much more.In this episode, you’ll learn:Specific exercises for building body acceptanceSexual communication tipsHow to explore sexually, even if you feel less experiencedSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:Triple Stimulation MasturbationHow to Orgasm During MissionaryFirmTech (code Emily20 for 20% off)FeeldSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I get asked all the time: what makes great sex? Well, today’s guests would argue that the best sex is shameless sex. Amy Baldwin and April Lampert, the dynamic duo behind the Shameless Sex podcast, join me today in answering all your juicy questions. From learning to identify what you really want in bed to how to take hot vulva pics and deciding whether an open relationship is right for you, Amy and April share their top tips for becoming a better lover.In this episode, you’ll learn:How to feel more present and embodied during sexWhat “shameless sex” really meansHow to improve your sex life with old and new partnersSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:Triple Stimulation MasturbationAges & Stages In Your Sex LifeBathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide)Magic WandWe-VibePodcast: Orgasms, Squirting & The Year of Anal LickingPre Order Shameless Sex: Choose Your Own Pleasure Path to Unlock the Sex Life You’ve Been Waiting ForShameless Sex Podcast: Spotify | Apple PodcastsShameless Sex Socials: Instagram | TikTok | YouTube | WebsiteSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: Home | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereSign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wondered if you’re the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory - and not the good kind. One listener hooked up with someone else while they were on a break, and now her partner says she can’t be trusted. Who’s the asshole here? Another listener wants to spice it up in the bedroom, but her husband with a kinky past sees her as a “delicate little angel.” Sounds like a case of the classic Madonna-Whore complex. What about when your partner won’t perform oral sex? Are you the asshole for craving it? We get into all this and more.In today’s episode, you’ll learn:The importance of identifying your sexual fantasiesHow to work through ultimatums in relationshipsWhy your sex life should evolve over timeSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.Show Notes:Ages & Stages In Your Sex LifeSoraya Beads from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)Flavored LubesYes No Maybe List & Other GuidesSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Does dating ever feel like a second job? You’re not alone. Today, Jordana Abraham and Jared Freid of the popular U Up? podcast share tips to hack your dating life so you can make genuine connections while enjoying the process. Known for reading between the lines and giving their listeners the straight-up advice they need (but may not always want to hear), Jordana and Jared help me answer all your questions, from what makes a great dating profile to how people’s definitions of “casual sex” can vary. They also help me answer your questions about hooking up with a friend, long-distance relationships, the “ick” and so much more.In this episode, you’ll learn:What to know before meeting up with a date in personHow to create a profile that sparks genuine conversationsHow to combat dating app fatigueSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Handle Performance Anxiety5 Ways to Pleasure a VulvaSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

([TW // mentions su*c*de] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through 47:00-48:00.) Do you (or your partner) start fights over nothing? Do stable relationships feel unsettling? Today, holistic psychologist, podcast host, and author Dr. Scott Lyons shows us how some of us may be more addicted to drama than we think. From attachment styles to toxic partners, Dr. Lyons explains how unresolved trauma can show up in ourselves and our relationships. We also talk about the desire to have rough sex, why makeup sex feels so good, how trauma lives in our bodies, and so much more.In this episode, you’ll learn:How to work through jealousy in relationshipsHow addiction to drama affects our sexual pleasureHow to identify and sit with uncomfortable emotionsSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Handle Performance Anxiety5 Ways to Pleasure a VulvaMagic Wand MicroSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here’s something wild: nearly half of people in monogamous relationships report they’ve had affairs, according to recent research. Half! And that’s just the people who admitted it. We can all agree that getting cheated on feels awful – as in, the literal worst. So why is it so common? In this Best Of episode, we’re talking trust and infidelity as we break down the reasons why people cheat, what to do if an affair has happened, and deciding whether to rebuild or break up and move on. Plus, I take your questions: how to restore your confidence after an affair, what to do if you suspect or just caught your partner cheating, and how to come back from online infidelity.In this episode, you’ll learn:The history & evolution of relationship structuresReasons people have affairsHow to rebuild trust after infidelitySee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:Ask Emily: I Can’t Always Get Hard For Sex, HelpVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)Tips for Better Communication & Other GuidesPodcast: Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther PerelPodcast: Turn Yourself On w/ Esther PerelSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re talking solo sex in the context of a relationship. In this Best Of episode, I’m addressing some of the most common questions I get on the subject, such as: “if I already have a partner, why masturbate?” and “if I masturbate in private, is it cheating?” We also discuss whether or not you should tell your partner if you masturbate, and touch briefly on porn addiction: starting with, is it real? Plus, I take your questions! How to set up your own “masturbation zone” when you live with a partner, whether it’s possible to have fantasy-free masturbation sessions, what to do if you can orgasm on your own but not with a partner, and much more. In this episode, you’ll learn:Why masturbation is important for your overall sexual wellnessThe truth about porn addictionHow to incorporate toys into solo and partnered sexSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Use Anal BeadsAsk Emily: I Can’t Always Get Hard For Sex, HelpJe Joue Amour, Duet & Vita (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’ve ever faked an orgasm, this episode’s for you. On today’s Hotline Calls show, Producer Erica and I answer your sex questions, starting with: how do you tell your partner you’ve been faking orgasms without breaking their heart? Next: is it normal to be dating for MONTHS without penetrative sex? Let’s find out, as well as how to talk about sex with a new partner before you've had it. Looking to explore anal play the right way, after years of uncomfortable attempts? Let’s do it. And finally, we dive into the world of bisexuality. Do you have to tell your partner that you’re bi? How do you incorporate your sexuality into your relationship? From communication tips to sex hacks, I’ve got you!See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Use Anal BeadsElevated Masturbation: Try a StrokerSoraya Beads from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)Pjur Original Silicone LubricantSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Missionary is a tried-and-true classic. It’s the position many of us think about when we think about sex… which is also why it gets a bad rap. Haters say it’s boring and vanilla, I say it’s an underrated favorite. In today’s Best Of episode, I’m helping you upgrade your missionary game from “meh” to “mind-blowing.” We'll debunk myths about missionary and dive into ways to spice it up, from subtle tweaks to full-blown transformations that’ll keep you (and your partner) coming! Struggling to reach the big O? I've got position hacks to enhance clitoral pleasure, especially for vulva owners who might not feel the stimulation they crave in typical missionary. Speaking of “typical” missionary… Who says missionary can't be kinky? I reveal some of the hottest ways to incorporate bondage, dirty talk, and even some BDSM elements to transform missionary into your new go-to position.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Master Pretzel PositionElevated Masturbation: Try a StrokerVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)Magic Wand Mini MassagerWe-Vibe ChorusMissionary Sex Position – New and ImprovedSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all experience sexual highs and lows, but what do you do if your “low” is a literal low libido? And your “high” might result in a penis injury? Let’s find out. On today’s Hotline Calls show, Producer Erica and I answer your sex questions. Starting with anal rimming: what if your partner has expressed interest in receiving… but feels conflicted about wanting it? Next up: chastity play - it is "Lock-Tober," after all! But could wearing a penis cage set you up for long-term injury? After that, sex that’s gone from vanilla to straight-up boring. When you’ve tried everything to fix it, what now? What does it mean if your body goes numb during oral sex? Finally, you’re fresh out of a long-term relationship, and your sex drive has completely evaporated. How do you get it back? I’ve got a few ideas.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Master Pretzel PositionSoraya Beads from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Awkward sex: it happens! People lose their erections. Oral sex gets ouchy. Orgasms are MIA. Don’t panic -- you’re in the judgment-free zone! I’m here to help you turn these moments into erotic opportunities. First, I give general mindset tips for sex before sharing your funniest awkward sex stories. Orgasmed so hard you farted? I call that a win. Next, I take your awkward sex questions. How do you play off queefing? What do you do when you’re nervous and keep losing your erection? How about getting too wet? If it makes you self-conscious or interferes with pleasure, how do you deal? If you’ve got a small mouth, and your partner has a large penis, where do you go from there? All this and so much more in this awkward sex recovery episode.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:Sign up for Sexts With Emily SMS & get my brand new Ultimate SEXTING Guide!Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)All Vulvas Are BeautifulSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’re in my Hotlines today, and Producer Erica and I are taking your calls! Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners. First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? Or should her partner have a deeper conversation with her about turn-ons? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards -- is it a medical condition or underlying shame? Finally, she just discovered her partner watches porn… and the subjects don’t look like her. How can she talk to him about it without judgment?See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Master Lotus PositionHow To Meditate, Masturbate, Manifest Like a ProMorgasm CBD Arousal LubricantPlayground LubeFeeld Dating AppSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects his sex drive is dwindling. She doesn’t want to cheat, but she also wants more sex…what now? Next, he wants sex for pleasure, she was raised to do it only for procreation. Is there any way to meet in the middle? A self-professed "pillow princess" writes in, is she the asshole for wanting to receive pleasure – but not give it? Finally, they’re in a dead bedroom of 10 years. “She’s repulsed by my touch” he writes, but is he really asserting himself to make healthy changes? You decide.Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Master Lotus PositionHow To Meditate, Masturbate, Manifest Like a ProVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Gummies Sample)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Orgasms are learned skills. So says bestselling author and sex expert Susan Bratton, who teaches couples and individuals to have more collaborative, orgasmic intercourse. Today, Susan and I answer your questions about being a better lover, erasing sexual shame, and, of course… having tons of orgasms. First: how do you help a partner who never orgasms during sex? Susan and I have ideas. Next, how do you train your G-spot for internal orgasms? We give you specific techniques to train your vaginal canal, and help make the area more engorged and responsive. How about Doggy Style – can the receiving partner orgasm more easily in this position? Susan talks through the Glissando Technique to help you out. We also talk through female ejaculatory pleasure and squirting, delayed ejaculation and much (much!) more.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:The Best Sex Toys According To Your Zodiac SignLow-Lift Pleasure Hacks: 5 Everyday Items That Elevate Your SexEnigma Wave from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)BetterLover.comMore Susan Bratton: Instagram | WebsiteSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So many of us follow a sex script that’s been handed to us. But is that script actually serving you? In this popular Best Of episode, I give you permission to let your favorite sexual behaviors lead the way, with tons of spicy ideas to play with. Sex isn’t just about P-in-V (penis in vagina) penetration. Yet, that’s what we often mean by “having sex.” Listen – penetration is great! But I have ideas for mutual masturbation, sensual massage, hand play, elevated oral and so much more. Play this episode, make a list of your favorites, then tailor your next sex session around your authentic desires.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:The Best Sex Toys According To Your Zodiac SignLow-Lift Pleasure Hacks: 5 Everyday Items That Elevate Your SexEnigma Wave from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)4 Ways to Close the Orgasm GapFirst Date, First Orgasm, First ThreesomeSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wondered how often happy couples have sex? Or the little-known key to sexual satisfaction? In today’s Sex In The News episode, I reveal new research that answers both of these questions and a surprising new finding on who says “I love you” first. First, my Producer, Erica, and I look at a study on sexual frequency and the number of times per month couples have sex. Is it this often for you? Next, we dig into research on men saying “I love you” -- do you agree with our takeaway? We then get into amazing new research on mutual masturbation and give you easy ways to try it. Finally, we explore a study on sleep health and sex. Turns out, an orgasm might be more effective than sleeping pills.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette5 Ways To Do It Doggy StylePromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Mutual Masturbation & Other GuidesSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What are your sexual fantasies? No matter how unique (or not) your fantasies are, they teach us something about our needs. On today’s Hotline Calls show, we’re exploring fantasies and partner dynamics so we can get our needs met shame-free. First, cuckolding: when a partner, typically male, asks their partner, typically female, to have sex with another man. What if your partner wants it… but you’re not so sure? Next, living with your ex -- if you’re still not over them, how do you successfully connect with others? Later, when you’ve got a unique kink or fetish, how do you talk about it with your partner, especially if they’re freaked out? Is there any way to get that need met? Finally, when a partner says they’re not sexually attracted anymore, how do you call it quits and find the sex you deserve?See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette5 Ways To Do It Doggy StyleSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to "Am I The Asshole?" for sex and relationships! New to Sex With Emily, we weigh in on your AITA questions. First up: their marriage is on the rocks, but he wants a threesome. Is she the asshole for shutting it down? Next, his partner says she’s in pain during sex. Is he the asshole for not believing her? After that, she’s not into anal…but her partner really wants it. Is she the asshole for refusing? Next: mom just revealed she’s in a 24-hour BDSM relationship with dad. Is their daughter the asshole for freaking out? I answer these questions and more today with my producer, Erica. Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:5 Hot, Consensual Ways to Practice VoyeurismVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Gummies Sample)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you and your partner sexually compatible? That’s the theme of today’s Hotline Calls show, as my Producer and I break down these couples' sex and relationship issues. First, when your partner isn’t pleasuring you as much as you’d like, does that mean they aren’t attracted? Or just nervous? Next, do you squirt during sex? It’s a goal for many, but what if it’s happening more than you’d like? How about sex drive discrepancy? When you’ve had more chemistry with past partners – and more sex – is your current partner not a fit? Or do you need to find a middle ground? Finally, what happens when your partner’s got a kink that weirds you out? We don’t yuck anyone’s yum here, but one caller needs advice on navigating brother-sister role play.Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:Oral Herpes? How to Keep Living Your Best Sex Life5 Hot, Consensual Ways to Practice VoyeurismPlaydrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Esther Perel is one of the most fascinating contemporary thinkers on sex and relationships. A psychotherapist and two-time bestselling author, she’s the host of the “Where Should We Begin?” podcast, which takes you inside the therapist’s office and lets you listen in on her sessions with clients. Esther is noticing some important changes in sex and relationships. Non-monogamy is becoming more common as a relationship model: why? And is it right for everyone? How about ”family-alization” – when couples start looking at each other like siblings or roommates, how do you bring the sexual spark back? Especially if you’ve never had it in the first place? Finally, how do we revive our sensual selves when we’re immersed in technology? Can we use it to turn each other on instead of numbing ourselves?See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:7 Signs of Sexual CompatibilityOral Herpes? How to Keep Living Your Best Sex LifeWhere Should We Begin? Podcast: Apple Podcasts | SpotifyWhere Should We Begin? Card GameMating in Captivity: BookshopThe State of Affairs: BookshopMore Esther Perel: Website | Instagram | TwitterSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSex With Emily: Home | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex toys have exploded in popularity in the past few years, but there’s one situation where they still tend to be forgotten: sex itself. Using a toy with a partner can feel intimidating. That’s why I’m devoting this episode to beginner-friendly toy play, with ideas for oral sex, intercourse, and even anal play. Listen, you don’t need all the bells and whistles to get a lot out of sex toys! So I kick things off with two essential toys and all the versatile ways you can use them: bullet vibrators and penis rings. Next, I talk you through three sex positions and how to use a toy in each one: missionary, spooning, and cowgirl/cowboy. Finally, I answer all your sex toy questions, including when it’s harder to climax after giving birth -- which toy and techniques can bring your O back? See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:5 Steps to Your Happiest, Healthiest Vagina7 Signs of Sexual CompatibilityMagic Wand Mini MassagerSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)Grand Bullet by Le WandWe-Vibe Tango XJe Joue MimiWe-Vibe Touch X Clitoral VibratorPjur Original Silicone LubricantWe-Vibe Pivot Cock RingScreaming O Two-O Double Pleasure RingHot Octopuss ATOM Plus Vibrating Cock RingWe-Vibe Chorus Wearable VibratorArticle: Top 6 Sex Positions to Use With a Sex ToySex With Emily: Home Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Low self-worth makes authentic sex impossible.” So says bestselling author Tara Schuster, who broke out with her runaway bestseller Buy Yourself The F*cking Lilies and released the life-affirming page-turner Glow In The F*cking Dark this year. On this episode, Tara opens up about hating her body, having sex exclusively in the dark, and how she rewired her brain to love herself (and her body). Tara and I also take your listener questions, where we discuss dating burnout, sexual triggers, and solo sex as self-care. When you’ve just gotten out of a toxic relationship, how can you feel more confident when you go out in public? When dating is one long string of disappointments, what gives? And finally, how do you have exploratory sex when you don’t have a partner?See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:How to Have Honeymoon Sex Forever5 Steps to Your Happiest, Healthiest VaginaGlow In the F*cking Dark, Tara Schuster: Bookshop | Amazon | Barnes & NobleGlow Getters Journal ClubMore Tara Schuster: Instagram | Twitter | WebsiteEMDRIAYes, No, Maybe List & Other GuidesSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSex With Emily: Home | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Sex With Emily Hotline is open! On this episode, I’m joined by my Producer, Erica, as we talk about disappearing erections, prostate massages, and so much more. First, what do you do when your partner has health issues that cause them to lose their erections? I give one caller ideas for how to work around this issue and thoughts on what might be causing it in the first place. Next, why don’t couples fantasize together more often? A couple calls in to share their sexual fantasies, and we give you inspo on how to do the same with your partner. When your partner wants a prostate massage, how do you pull it off? I tell you what to feel for, how to apply pressure and fun toys you can use. Finally, when your partner has never had an orgasm before, how can you help? And should you?Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:Is My Penis Normal?How to Have Honeymoon Sex ForeverTOR 3 from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)Dildos on Shop With EmilyProstate Toys on Shop With EmilyPlugs on Shop With EmilyThe only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Two of your most powerful sex accessories? Your hands. Hands set the tone of your sexual energy. For example, caressing their cheek while you make out versus pinning their hands down while you have sex. And while we talk a lot about what to do with our mouths or genitals on this show, today I’m focusing on a lost art: hand play. Specifically, how to finger, give a hand job, and use your hands with sexual intention. Today, my Producer, Erica, and I first share how to penetrate a vulva with your fingers. We give you tricks to stimulate the labia and clitoris, different forms of pressure and touch, and how to find the G-spot when you finger. Next, we give the penis some love with hand job techniques and upgrades like toy play and perineum stimulation. Finally, we discuss secondary erogenous zones and answer your hand play questions.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:Top 6 Sex Positions to Use With a Sex ToyIs My Penis Normal?6 Essential Sex Toy HacksMorgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)We-Vibe Pivot Cock RingDame Fin VibratorOhmibod Lovelife & Rev Finger MassagerLe Wand Grand Bullet VibratorThe only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure. When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance?See the full show notes at sexwithemily.comShow Notes:5 Libido-Boosting Aphrodisiacs to Try In and Out of the BedroomIs My Penis Normal?SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)System JO Flavored LubeSystem JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: Limited EditionSystem JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: NeapolitanPolysecure, Jessica Fern: Bookshop | AmazonOpening Up, Tristan Taormino: Amazon | Barnes & NobleOpen Deeply, Kate Loree: Bookshop | Amazon“The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory“Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” MultiamoryPolyamory in BLACK! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all experience performance anxiety in bed from time to time. We get in our heads, we worry we’re not hot / good / skilled enough, and sometimes we try to be people we’re not during sex. That’s why today’s episode is about identifying different types of performance anxiety, so that we can show up more confident and relaxed for sex. First I talk through O-blockers: common reasons your orgasm and overall pleasure hit a limit. Next I bring up popular “personas” people adopt in bed, like the cool girl/guy who’s down for whatever (even when you’re actually not) and the super dominant, in-charge lover (even when you’re actually more submissive). Finally, I give you strategies to increase your sexual confidence and take all of your sexual anxiety questions.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.comShow Notes:Prostate Play: The Comprehensive Guide5 Libido-Boosting Aphrodisiacs to Try In and Out of the BedroomVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is how an orgasm works. It’s a symphony of mind, nervous system, blood flow and muscle spasms, all syncing up to give you oh-so-wonderful sensations. But what if you’ve never had an orgasm before? Or what if you do experience them – but want them to be better? In today’s popular Best Of episode, I explain the science behind orgasms and how to make yours amazing. I tell you what to do if you’ve never had an orgasm before, give you tricks for elevating your orgasms, and even share a few unexpected erogenous zones where you can orgasm (nipplegasms, anyone?). I also take your orgasm questions including: when the sex is great, but you just can’t climax with your partner, what gives?See the full show notes at sexwithemily.comShow Notes:6 Essential Sex Toy HacksHow to Train Your VaginaSONA 2 Travel from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered! Today’s sexual concerns are especially relatable: I’m willing to bet you’ve experienced one of these yourself. Let’s start with orgasms. When you can only get off in one very specific position, how can you retrain your body and mind? I give you tips on switching up your technique. Next: coming out of a sexual dry spell, how do you learn to initiate again? I help you collaborate with your partner. When you’re always a top (the more dominant one during sex), how can you tell your partner that you’d like to bottom (be more submissive) occasionally? I walk you through that conversation. Finally, when your spouse has next to zero interest in sex, what now? I offer insights on changing your relationship patterns to experience mutual pleasure and compatibility.See the full show notes at sexwithemily.comShow Notes:8 Ways to Masturbate (Better) in the Shower6 Essential Sex Toy HacksDual Stimulation Toys on Shop With Emily (free shipping on orders over $69)Insertion Toys on Shop With Emily (free shipping on orders over $69)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

([TW: SA] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through: 21:25-22:00) Let’s talk friends with benefits. Somewhere between a relationship and a situationship, you’ve got FWBs... And in my view, they’re a completely valid relationship model. But let’s be honest: they’re not for everyone. Navigating the friendship part of an FWB can get murky, especially if you’re secretly hoping it will turn into a real relationship. So in this popular best-of episode, I first help you get clear on whether or not you’re a good candidate for an FWB set-up. Next, we talk about how to establish your terms going in, because trust me – before you have sex with your friends, your communication skills have to be on-point. Finally I answer all your FWB questions, including: when you’ve had the same FWB for years but crave more with them, should you speak up? Or move on to someone more committed? See the full show notes at sexwithemily.comShow Notes:10 Ways to Use Lube During Sex8 Ways to Masturbate (Better) in the ShowerVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Sleep Gummies Sample)Yes, No, Maybe List, Tips for Communication & Other GuidesWomaness (code EMILY for 20% off)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWant more? Sex With Emily: HomeLet’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up HereWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s time to debunk the toxic myths around sex and age. Does sexual satisfaction drop off as you get older? Absolutely not! In fact, the data tells us the exact opposite is true. Today, anthropologist, bestselling author and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin and I lay out the facts, which is fitting: we’re both in our fifties! If you’re not in your fifties yet, here’s what you can look forward to. It’s the decade many of us hit the reset button on our sexual desires. It’s the decade you start purely having sex for pleasure. And it’s the decade your confidence and communication get even better because you’ve honed your relationship (and career!) skills. Wednesday and I talk about why your fifties are so sexy, the signs of perimenopause and menopause and how to treat both, and our best advice for younger women.See the full Show Notes at sexwithemily.comShow Notes:The 6 Best Masturbation Toys10 Ways to Use Lube During SexPodcast: Dating Younger Men, Canceling Threesomes: Emily Tells AllThe Menopause Manifesto, Dr. Jen Gunter: Bookshop | Amazon@ABlackGirlsGuidetoMenopauseMenopocalypse, Amanda Thebe: Bookshop | AmazonWomaness (code EMILY for 20% off)SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)Sex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTokMore Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter | Website (wednesdaymartin.com) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open the relationship? What does it mean when they don’t finish during sex? In today’s Hotline Calls episode, I’m taking all your pressing sex questions. First, when you want to bring sex toys and lube into the bedroom, but your partner is firmly opposed…what now? I offer communication tips to help bring down defenses. Next, when you’re loving sex with your partner but they never orgasm, is that a cause for concern? I talk about delayed ejaculation and why it happens. We also get into non-monogamy: when you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open up the relationship? Or is a different, deeper conversation needed? Finally, when you’re happily hooking up, how do you keep casual sex from turning into serious relationships?Show Notes:The Boner Breakdown: All the Types of Erections You Can HaveThe 6 Best Masturbation ToysSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)Playground Lubes: Love Sesh | Date Night | Mini Escape | After HoursJe Joue MimiWe-Vibe TouchORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Bored in bed? It happens. Sexual boredom doesn’t necessarily mean there’s anything wrong with your relationship – but it is a cue that you’re ready for novelty. So save this episode because it’s an entire guide to spicing up your sex. First, I start with the when and where: how does the time of day affect your arousal? And where can you do it besides the bedroom? Next, we make your favorite sex positions more interesting and exciting with tweaks you can try right now. Finally, I give you beginner-friendly kink with sensory deprivation, temperature play and hurts-so-good pain play. Right this way to easy kink and tons of low-lift ways to play.Show Notes:6 Ways to Infuse Intimacy into Your WeeknightsThe Boner Breakdown: All the Types of Erections You Can HaveSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)SONA 2 Travel from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Sleep Gummies Sample)Je Joue Massage CandlesLe Wand Crystal WandLe Wand Stainless Steel HoopFirefly Glass DildoSystem JO Flavored LubesCurvy Girl Sex by Elle Chase: Bookshop | Amazon | Barnes & NobleORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSex With Emily: Home Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Your sleep affects your sex drive: we know this. The bottom line: if you know the right sleep hacks, you can have much better sex. In this fascinating Best Of episode with Dr. Michael Breus, we dive into the science of sleep and how to leverage it for sexual arousal. Starting with the four chronotypes, your body’s natural disposition to be awake or asleep, we help you figure out how to work with your body (not against it) for sexual arousal. We also discuss snoring – why it happens and how it affects your sexual connection. “I’ve saved more marriages as a sleep therapist than I ever would have as a marital therapist,” says Dr. Breus. In this episode, you’ll learn how to work with your unique circadian rhythm for better sex and communication.Show Notes:Flow With It: How to Have Period Sex6 Ways to Infuse Intimacy into Your WeeknightsSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)Hello Again Suppositories (code EMILY25 for 25% off)ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTokMatch App: Apple App Store | Google PlayChronoquiz.comMore Dr. Michael Breus: Website | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for me?” But before you jump into the anal deep end with a partner, I’ve got a pro tip: try anal with yourself! On today’s episode, I’m talking through all the positive reasons to explore anal with yourself, no matter what genitals you’ve got. I’m also busting common anal myths and giving you step-by-step tips for exploration based on your anatomy. I’m talking all things toys and insertion for beginners to advanced anal players. Tune in for your solo anal play primer, and keep listening to hear me answer all your booty Q’s.Show Notes:Flow With It: How to Have Period SexSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)b-Vibe Vibrating Jewel Plugb-vibe Anal Training KitAneros Mgx Syn Trident Prostate MassagerLELO Loki Wave Prostate Massager VibratorLumen LED Pleasure PlugPjur Original Silicone LubricantPjur Backdoor Relaxing Anal Glide LubricantArticle: Double The O, Double The Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple OrgasmsYes, No, Maybe List & Other GuidesPlaydrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTokMatch App: Apple App Store | Google PlayMorgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Solo sex (aka masturbation) is legitimate self-care. Better sleep, less stress, glowing skin, heightened immunity – and let’s not forget orgasms (not that I think you would). So on today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking all things solo sex and how to make it work for you. Feel embarrassed or ashamed about it? Or do you feel like you don’t know what you’re doing? I help you create a solo sex routine that matches your lifestyle and get you in the right (sexy) headspace for it. I also take your solo sex questions, including: when your partner asks you to masturbate in front of them, but you feel shy – how do you pull it off? And should you?Show Notes:How to Heat Up Your Temperature PlayVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Sleep Gummies Sample)ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTokPromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do your meals affect your sex drive? Are your hormones interfering with your pleasure? And real talk…does alcohol make it harder for you to orgasm? Dr. Will Cole hosts the podcast The Art of Being Well, and on today’s show, he explains the connection between what you eat and how you feel – both in and out of the bedroom. We discuss sex-supportive nutrients and how to fill your plate for better sex, the real deal on HRT and hormone fluctuation, shame-flammation, and so much more. If you’ve ever wondered how certain foods help or hurt your sex life, this one’s for you.  Show Notes:How to Heat Up Your Temperature PlayORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasurePromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Sex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTokEmily on The Art of Being Well Podcast: Website | Apple Podcasts | SpotifyGut Feelings by Dr. Will ColeMore Dr. Will Cole: Website | Telehealth Consult | Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to turn ons, we’ve all got our preferences. Maybe you love a deep, sexy voice. Maybe a wicked sense of humor. But there are five sexual arousal styles that apply to most people: you can think of them as the five love languages for sexual excitement. They are: conversation, visuals, touch, play or physical adventure. In this popular Best Of episode, I break down the five styles and how to identify your top one. I share tips for harnessing your arousal, with date ideas and behaviors to spark your sexual curiosity. I also help you understand the key difference between arousal and desire, and take your arousal questions, including: what do you do when medication is numbing your genitals? And when you’re more excited for solo sex than partnered sex – is that a problem?Show Notes:Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureArticle: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?Sex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

([TW // mentions SA, r*pe] If you would like to skip these portions of the episode, please skip through: 21:30-22:25, 51:30-52:05.)Porn gets a bad rap – for very understandable reasons. Today, I’m breaking down the reasons why with Dr. Wednesday Martin, and also playing devil’s advocate and giving you a new way to approach it. Can you learn legit sex skills from porn viewing? In this episode, I’m going through all the reasons porn might be triggering for some, so you know how to incorporate it into your relationship or your solo sex in a healthy way. Next, I give tips for how to watch it with a partner, and identify your personal turn-ons. Finally, I talk through edu-porn, audio erotica and other contemporary porn platforms that get you aroused…and sexually educated.Show Notes:6 Secrets to Have the Best Oral Sex of Your LifeLELO F1S V2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Study: Pornography does not cause violent sex crimesMake Love Not Porn (Cindy Gallop)Erika LustDr. Wednesday Martin on SWE: Dating Younger Men, Canceling Threesomes: Emily Tells All | It’s Open (Relationship) Season | Best of: Women, Lust & InfidelityWednesday Squirts for the First Time with Kenneth Play & WhitneyMore Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter | Website (wednesdaymartin.com) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever used FaceTime for sex? Maybe you’re traveling and want to stay connected to your partner. Maybe you’re dating and want to test the waters with someone virtually before having sex IRL. Or maybe the idea just turns you on! No matter the case, today’s episode is all about FaceTime sex and how to pull it off. First, I’m talking prep steps: literally, how do you get in the mood for FaceTime sex and help yourself feel comfortable on-screen? Next, how do you position your camera and what do you actually say in the moment? Finally, I take your questions on FaceTime sex, including: how to spice it up and how do you end a sexting session?Show Notes:Ask Emily: How Do I Get a Stronger Erection?6 Secrets to Have the Best Oral Sex of Your LifeORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizGQ Article: The Idol just gave us the worst sex scene in historySex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What feeling are you chasing in bed? No, I’m not talking about orgasm. I’m talking about an emotion, like feeling worshiped, praised, or unbelievably desirable. On the other hand, maybe it arouses you to feel degraded, objectified – even humiliated. On today’s show, I’m unpacking a kink that’s getting a ton of attention lately on social media: praise kink. It falls under the larger umbrella of core erotic desires, which we all have. I show you how to identify your core erotic desires and how to turn them into realities. I also get into your kinky questions, including: when you adore your fiancée, but fantasize about sex with your much kinkier ex, what now? And when your partner constantly gets hit on my other men, is it healthy to get turned on by it? All this and more in today's episode.Show Notes:Ask Emily: How Do I Get a Stronger Erection?Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)Yes! No! Maybe? ListArticle: How to Make a MessORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizSex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s talk teasing. Do you know how to build sexual tension? Maybe you’re dating and want to be a cute flirt. Or maybe you’re in a long term relationship and want to create a sexy vibe. No matter your situation, today’s episode teaches a lost art: the art of the tease. First, I talk focus and flirting: simple little hacks to put the spotlight on the other person with flavors of sexual play. Next, I talk body language: when to touch, when not to touch, and how to deploy a sexy sort of restraint – not desperation – to your interactions. Finally, I take your questions on confidence and seduction, including: how do you show interest on a date without coming on too strong?Show Notes:ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizSex With Emily: HomeMore Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’m introducing a new series today that you literally helped me create: Sexy Stories! You share your juiciest, most personal success stories with me, and I read them aloud on the show. Because sometimes the best way to learn about sex comes from other people and their experiences. First: parents who sent their kids away and tried pegging for the very first time. Hear how it went… from the husband’s perspective. Next, a married couple of 20 years have an unexpected night on the dance floor involving a chance meeting with a hot stranger – and then, their very first threesome. Finally, she orgasms for the first time during penetration, but you’ll never guess how she got there.If you have a Sexy Story you would like to share on the podcast, send it to [email protected] with “Sexy Story” in the subject line! Please only include information (such as names) that you are comfortable being read aloud on the podcast.Show Notes:How to Talk Like a Good Little SubORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizVIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free 2pc High Love THC Libido Gummy Sample Pack) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you take a classic sex position and make it kinky? On today’s show, I’m telling you exactly how. Inspired by the positions chapter in Smart Sex (out now at bookstores everywhere), I’m talking through two specific positions that bring the kink – and another classic that you can spice up with a little power play. First, I’m looking at Cowgirl/Cowboy and talking through its pros, cons, and evolutions to introduce kinky dynamics. Next, I’m talking Doggy Style (or as I like to call it: Rear Entry) and breaking down its inherent kink dynamics and ideas to make it even more exciting. Finally, we’re looking at Missionary, which I think we can all agree needs a kinky rebrand. I’ll give you ideas to make it more surprising and sexy.Show Notes:How to Talk Like a Good Little SubORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureMEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesTAKE THE SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizLELO Soraya Wave (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Remember Loveline? The call-in show hosted by Dr. Drew to get your love and dating questions answered? Well, it holds a special place in my heart because I used to co-host it! So today, in celebration of my career leading up to my new book Smart Sex (out today!), I’m inviting my dear friend Dr. Drew Pinsky onto Sex With Emily to help me answer your sex questions Loveline-style. First, what does it mean when you feel like your long-distance partner is following you to your next city? Next, a college guy wants to know: how do you find real connection amid hookup culture? Or what about moving on from a toxic sexual relationship: how do you claim your own desires, now that you’re single? All this and more with me and Dr. Drew.Show Notes:How to Make a Mess: Squirting, Face Ejaculation & Golden ShowersDouble the O, Double the Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple OrgasmsMEET ME ON TOUR! Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE FULL SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizPromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)More Dr. Drew: Website | Dr.Drew.tv | Twitter | InstagramOpening UpOpen Monogamy: A Guide to Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship AgreementThe Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual PossibilitiesOpen Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open RelationshipsCrazy on the Inside: A Memoir of Nobody SpecialPolysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non MonogamyThe Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting GoMore Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’re having sex, you’re going to come across the famous, the controversial, 69 sex position. Why not learn some pointers to make the whole thing more hot, and more comfortable? First, I share research with you that might motivate you to put 69 on regular rotation in your sex life. Next, I give you techniques for being an excellent oral giver, and strategies like mindful masturbation, to help you become a more relaxed and erotic receiver. Finally, I talk position tips like the Sideways 69 and the Power 69 for you to play with, and take all your pressing questions on 69ing and oral sex. Show Notes:How to Make a Mess: Squirting, Face Ejaculation & Golden ShowersDouble the O, Double the Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple OrgasmsSex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE FULL SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free 2pc High Love THC Libido Gummy Sample Pack)Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your 1st order)LELO SONA 2 Cruise (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)Episode: Best Of: Best Blowjob EverEpisode: Best Of: Oral Sex Master Class Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How did you discover who you were as a sexual being? Are you still figuring it out? Your desires, your sexual turn-ons, your overall attitude towards sex itself? Well, today, we’re doing something a little different: I’m answering all those questions and letting you in on my sexual journey. That’s right! I’ve got author, anthropologist, and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin on the show today as we turn the tables and let her ask me how my career as a sex educator got started, the first time I had legitimately good sex, and how my relationship with sex has evolved. I also share the backstory behind this podcast, why I was so curious to launch a career in sex education in the first place, and how it's all led up to my book, Smart Sex. Listen in… it’s a juicy one.Show Notes:Your Guide to Mutual MasturbationHow to Train Your VaginaSex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE FULL SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free: Amazon | Barnes & Noble | BookshopMore Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter | Website Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Good news: every vulva owner can learn how to squirt. But it does take practice, and on today’s Best Of show, I’ve got sex educator, author, and female ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl here to walk us through it. First, Deborah clarifies the connection between squirting and the G-spot, and just in case you have any doubts about the G-spot’s existence, Deborah tells you how to find yours in the mirror. Next, we clarify what female ejaculate is – hint, not pee – and how this fluid builds up in your body. We also talk about the difference between squirting and orgasm, and finally, we take your top questions on how to squirt with a partner. Yes: there are step-by-step tips! Because, as I always say, the wetter, the better.Show Notes:Your Guide to Mutual MasturbationHow to Train Your VaginaSex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE FULL SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% OFF & a bonus play rag worth $25)Female Ejaculation & The G-SpotMore Deborah Sundahl: Website Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Violet Benson started her now-famous Instagram account @DaddyIssues_ while working through issues of her own. On today’s podcast, she opens up about working through deep emotional struggles so she can create the sex life and relationships that truly work for her. No matter your background or life stage, I’m positive this conversation will liberate and inspire you to take the next step in your sex life. Violet, who hosts the popular podcast Almost Adulting, tells me about her decision to temporarily swear off penetrative sex, freezing her eggs, and how she quit playing games while dating. She also takes the Sex IQ quiz inspired by my upcoming book, Smart Sex! Listen to her results, then listen to both of us answer a listener question: when the sex is hot but they’ve got huge, emotional red flags, should you pursue them anyway?Show Notes:Sexy Summer Pack List: The Seven Essentials5 Reasons to Add Anal Play to Your Masturbation RoutineSex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE FULL SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to [email protected] and I’ll send you a link to take the quizSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)LELO LILY 3 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)More Violet Benson: @daddyissues_ | InstagramAlmost Adulting Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all have fears around sex, whether we’re aware of them or not. Maybe you’re worried someone’s not going to like your body, or that if you and your partner try something new, it’ll be awkward or weird. Maybe you’re worried you’ll never have sex with anyone ever again. I’m here to tell you this: your sexual anxieties are completely normal. Listen in as my callers and I work through theirs and develop actionable solutions to take the next step. When you’re a vulva owner, and something comes out when you orgasm, are you peeing or squirting? When preparing for a threesome, how can you get over the fear that your partner won't want sex with just you anymore? When the sex has fallen off entirely, how do you start initiating again? All this and more in today's sexual anxieties episode.Show Notes:Sexy Summer Pack List: The Seven Essentials4 Penis Problems and 4 Ways to Solve ThemSex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)VIIA Hemp Co’s Lowdose 2mg Delta 9 Microdosing Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free 2pc High Love THC Libido Gummy Sample Pack) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Author Elise Loehnen has thought a lot about women and desire. In her new book On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good, she breaks down the cultural forces that teach women to be desirable rather than desiring, and the shame attached to a woman wanting something: whether it’s sex, success, or a damn slice of pizza. Whether it’s lust, and the way we encourage women to police others' sexuality, or sloth, and the way women are encouraged to be their husbands' caregivers, these invisible expectations serve none of us. Instead, Elise talks about ways we can liberate ourselves in ways that improve our sex lives and beyond: how to balance masculine and feminine energies in relationships, how to shed sexual shame, and so much more. As Elise says, “Our bodies are portals; lust is the invitation to enter.”Please note that this episode includes discussions of sexual trauma. If you would like to skip these portions of the episode, please skip through: 19:35-25:13, 41:36-43:03.Show Notes:4 Penis Problems and 4 Ways to Solve ThemWhat’s a Sexual State of the Union & Why Should You Have One?Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Yarlap Kegel Exercise Kit & System (code EMILY for $35 off)On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good: Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Bookshop More Elise Loehnen: Podcast | Newsletter | Instagram | Website | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It can be difficult to meet new people and cultivate relationships, especially when looking for romantic partners. But don’t let that hold you back from trying: you might just need a new strategy. On today’s show, I take your calls on modern dating and how to solve the problems you’re running into. Let’s say you want to date an older woman but don’t have confidence in your communication - how do you improve your conversation game? When you’ve been single for years and fear rejection, how do you break out of romantic stagnation? Or what about breadcrumbing: when someone gives you just enough to keep you interested without outright ghosting you. How can you directly communicate without coming off as pushy? Finally, what are the signs of love bombing? One caller asks me if that’s what’s happening to her. Spoiler: yep.Show Notes:What’s a Sexual State of the Union & Why Should You Have One?Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your 1st order) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

All sexual fantasies have one thing in common: they trigger an arousal response inside our bodies, laced with erotic flavor. But how do you actualize your fantasy with a partner who’s wary of it? Even turned off by it? On today’s show, I’m taking your calls on this exact predicament. First up: when your partner wants you to drastically change your appearance for their pleasure, should you do it? Or when your partner wants to watch you with a third, how do you find that person? Next, if you’re not naturally dominant in bed, but your partner’s begging for it, how do you step into your power? I also get into urine fetishes (yep, like golden showers), how to introduce them to an otherwise vanilla sex life, and how to explore same-sex adventures in a hetero marriage.    Show Notes:Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)SmartMouthFetLifeKasidieFeeld Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You shouldn't have to be an Olympic gymnast to have sex. But let’s be honest – certain positions can be hard! So inspired by the Positions chapter in my new book Smart Sex, I’m bringing back this Best Of episode. You’ll hear quick tips to make ambitious moves easier and classic moves more exciting. First, I share the most-searched sex positions in the country: can you guess America’s favorite sex move? Next, we look at the much-hyped reverse cowgirl. I give suggestions to make it feel as good and sexy as it looks. As for oral: I talk you through the Kivin Method, which stimulates vulva owners' K-points, and how to make 69 more relaxing. Finally, don’t go to the emergency room from shower sex – just listen to my tips to keep it steamy AND stable.Show Notes:How to Talk Like a Dom for Better Sex: 6 Essential PhrasesMoms Deserve Pleasure Too: A Sexy Self-Care GuidePRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Article: How to Master These Awkward Sex PositionsI Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When resentment builds up in a relationship, it compromises our sexual connection. We feel taken for granted, unappreciated, and unseen. Most of all, we feel emotionally unsafe, which makes it impossible to let loose and feel free in bed. So on today’s show, I talk through a study that connects the dots between a quality sex life and regular expressions of gratitude. Next, I take your calls: when long standing issues with your partner inhibit your desire, how do you break through that impasse? When your partner says you’re not meeting their sexual standards, how much of that messaging do you take in? And when you crave words of affirmation, but they just can’t seem to give them, is it time for new therapy or to respectfully end the relationship?Show Notes:How to Talk Like a Dom for Better Sex: 6 Essential PhrasesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)VUSH We Come First Couples Connection Kit (Kit is 30% off, Save an additional 10% with the code EMILYWCF) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all need to mix it up sometimes. Has your masturbation routine gone stale? Is sex with your partner too predictable? With creativity and a little teasing, absolutely everyone can spice up their sex life – and I’m here to tell you how. First, we’ll talk about planning a "sex-cation" with low-lift ideas you can try right at home. Next, when you and your partner have already tried all the new things, what’s left? I advise one caller on sexual teasing and how denying your pleasure can heighten the intensity. We also discuss ways to make your solo sex more interesting and arousing, and how to have more fun with casual sex if your current routine – even with new people! – is leaving you bored.Show Notes:Ask Emily: What is a Penis Ring and Why Should I Use It?PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)LELO Tor 3 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)Article: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo SexArticle: The Best Masturbation Techniques to Try TonightQuinn Audio Erotica Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wondered if there’s more to your sexuality than you ever realized? Or relationship models that challenge everything you’re used to? Men’s Health and Cosmo sex columnist Zachary Zane has been there. As a self-proclaimed “boyslut,” he’s radically open about his journey as a bisexual, polyamorous man and tells all in his forthcoming book: BOYSLUT: A Memoir and Manifesto. He shares how he came to understand his attraction to all genders, his experience living in a polycule, why it’s healthy for all of us to get used to rejection, and how bisexuality for men is gaining more visibility. He also helps me answer your questions on exploring bisexuality while in a long-term relationship, how to respond if you’re in a hetero relationship and your partner tells you they’re bisexual, and how to find casual, no strings attached sex.Show Notes:Ask Emily: What is a Penis Ring and Why Should I Use It?The Sexiest Morning Routine EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto: Bookshop | AmazonMore Zachary Zane: Website | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Yes, it’s true: I’m talking with my own mother today about sex. A ton of you have asked me how I got into the sex education business in the first place: now, you get to hear from the person who raised me! First, my mom and I talk about her sexual journey, coming up in a time when open communication around sex wasn’t normalized and female pleasure wasn’t valued. She also helps me your questions on sex and relationships, like how to give a partner feedback when they’re doing something that turns you off, what to do if menopause is tanking your sex drive, how to negotiate with your partner when you’ve got different definitions of cheating, and how to approach a partner who does NOT want to spice up your sex life – but you’re dying for some variety. Show Notes:The Future of Sex TechThe Sexiest Morning Routine EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your 1st order)PenumaI Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.MagBreakthrough.com/SexWithEmily (code SexWithEmily10 for 10% off) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s often someone who initiates the sex, and someone who says “yes” or “no.” These roles can work long-term, but what happens when sexual initiations become a problem? When you’re always hearing no, or when you always say no? On today’s show, I'm talking about sexual initiations and how to make this moment a better experience for all. When you’re the initiator, but want your partner to do it more often, how do you talk to them about it? We’ll also get into spontaneous vs. responsive desire, and as someone with responsive desire, I’ll share my routine for getting turned on for sex. Finally, when you and your partner are so busy that no one’s initiating, what’s the conversation you need to have? I advise a caller in this exact situation.Show Notes:The Future of Sex TechThe Sexiest Morning Routine EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)SmartMouthVUSH I Come First - Self-Connection Kit (Kit is 50% off, Save an additional 10% with the code EMILYICF)I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.MagBreakthrough.com/SexWithEmily (code SexWithEmily10 for 10% off) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s holding you back from having good sex? Is it self-confidence? A problem with your partner? Are you under so much stress that it’s impossible to feel erotic and turned on? In today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking about the 6 most common roadblocks to sex and how to move past them. I’ll talk you through how to navigate each of them and also take your questions on personal sexual roadblocks. For example, if you’re coupled, is it cheating to get on OnlyFans? What do you do if you’re not always wet for sex? And finally, what's the best way to work with a partner who’s prone to jealousy? All this and more on our roadblocks show.Show Notes:How to Use a Vibe With a PartnerHigh Pleasure: A Guide to Cannabis & SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)LELO LILY 3 (code EMILY for 25% off sitewide) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s a new day in the world of cannabis and sex. So many of you have asked me for this show! While wide scale research is still thin, there are many encouraging signs that cannabis can help you unlock more sexual pleasure, whether it's erotic arousal, help with erections, less anxiety, or less pain. But I get it: cannabis isn’t legal everywhere! And it’s also not right for everyone. So on today’s mini show, I’ll be discussing the latest research on cannabis and sex, how to know if it's a good choice for you, delivery methods like edibles and drinkables, and vetted product recommendations for sexy times, both partnered and solo. Show Notes:High Pleasure: A Guide to Cannabis & SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love – THC Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 20% OFF sitewide) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s a common stereotype you’ve heard about sex? Maybe it’s that “guys just want one thing” or that “once you have kids, say goodbye to your sex life.” But not only are these stereotypes tiresome on a societal level, they actually hurt your sex life. Why? Because if you buy them, they limit your pleasure potential. So on today’s show, I reveal the top 3 sexual stereotypes penis owners and vulva owners told me they were tired of, and the new truths that are going to empower you in bed. I also give you quick communication hacks to help you get curious with any partner, whether they’re long-term or brand new, so that you can have the sex you actually want. Show Notes:How to Use a Vibe With a PartnerHigh Pleasure: A Guide to Cannabis & SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)Penuma.com/PodcastArticle: 3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Vulva OwnersArticle: 3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Penis Owners Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s a lot to be said for sex toys. For one, they stimulate nerve endings much deeper than hands alone can reach – and that’s true no matter what genitals you’ve got. But how do you incorporate toys into partnered sex? And which ones are right for your body to give you mind-blowing orgasms? On today’s episode, we’re talking all things sex toys so you can play in new and different ways. First, is it alright to always bring a vibe to partnered sex? One penis owner says “absolutely.” Speaking of penis owners, which toys are best for this crowd? I also talk about squirting with toys, how to change up your solo sex routine, and if there’s anything wrong if you can ONLY orgasm with a toy. Spoiler alert: nope! Show Notes:The Basics of Safe Sex Want Better Sex? Ask Your Partner These QuestionsSign up for Sexts With Emily SMS & get my brand new Ultimate SEXTING Guide!PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)CERĒ Spellbound Stimulator (code EMILY15 for 15% off sitewide)BellesaI Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever used a “Yes, No, Maybe” List for sex? It’s a menu of sex acts that prioritizes consent and communication among sexual partners. It’s one of my hands-down favorite tools to explore new ideas and spice up sex lives. But how do you actually use the list and turn your choices into realities? On today’s show, I reveal my NEW and IMPROVED "Yes, No, Maybe" List, and show you how to use it individually or with a partner. I share new ideas we added to the list, like orgasm denial, bondage, and electrostimulation, as well as success stories from folks who have filled it out. Plus, we’ll talk about what to do if your answers differ from your partner's, and how a real couple worked through that sticky situation together. Show Notes:The Basics of Safe Sex Want Better Sex? Ask Your Partner These QuestionsSign up for Sexts With Emily SMS & get my brand new Ultimate SEXTING Guide!PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Pleasure Planner, Tips for Communication & Other Guides Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you think about anal sex, what comes to mind? Does it make you feel turned on? Nervous? Like something you want to try or do more of, but you’re not sure about the best way to approach it? On today’s show, I help you get more comfortable with anal play by answering your top questions. How can you use foreplay and communication to relax into the experience? If you’ve tried anal play before but didn’t love it, what are some toys and techniques you can use to feel more pleasure? What’s the safest way to train with an anal toy, and can you hurt yourself by having too much anal? Bottoms up, because your anal education starts now.Show Notes:I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.Get to Know The Clitoris and How to Pleasure ItPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureLELO LOKI Wave 2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you give incredible, life-affirming oral sex to a vulva owner? While every body is different, I’m here to tell you that these are the techniques you absolutely need. First, we’ll talk the art of the tease. I explain how to use your tongue to intensify sensations and encourage arousal. I also get into everyone’s favorite: the Kivin Method. Next, I show you how to help facilitate a G-spot orgasm by answering your top questions. For example, when you’re 100% down to give oral but your partner doesn’t like receiving, what do you do? When you’re the vulva owner and want to squirt, how do you get there? Finally, I talk overcoming insecurities when you’re the receiver, and how to make giving oral more physically comfortable.Show Notes:I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.Get to Know the Clitoris (& How to Pleasure It)PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasurePromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I Go Down on a Vulva?Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)Podcast: Squirting Secrets w/ Deborah SundahlArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I *Actually* Start Squirting? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it mean to be sexually confident? In my opinion, it comes from a sense of security in who you are, what you bring to the table, and knowing that it’s OK to ask questions. It’s not having all the answers, because let’s be honest: sex would be boring if we knew everything already. But when your self-image takes a hit, how do you recover your sexual confidence and combat performance anxiety? I’m talking to callers with precisely that question. What do you do when your partner keeps talking about how hot strangers are, even when you told them it makes you uncomfortable? What happens when you’re not maintaining your erections, and it’s causing anxiety? How about when your partner is more sexual than ever – but not towards you? All this and more in today’s sexual confidence episode.Show Notes:3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Vulva Owners3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Penis OwnersPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasurePenuma.com/Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In my opinion, masturbation is one of the healthiest self-care practices out there. But so many of you tell me how ashamed you feel about masturbating! Especially since the only pop culture examples you saw growing up were cringey. That changes today, as I take your calls on masturbation, taking time to explore your body, and unlocking different kinds of orgasms during solo sex. I also discuss masturbation frequency, and if there’s such a thing as too much. Speaking of frequency: is it possible for vulva owners to have multiple orgasms during solo sex? Let’s find out. I’ll answer your questions on group masturbation parties, jealousy toward your partner’s vibrator, and what to do when your partner can only orgasm through masturbation.Show Notes:3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Vulva Owners3 Sexual Stereotypes to Stop Believing About Penis OwnersPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureEmily x Christina Aguilera: HelloPlayground.com/XtinaCERĒ Spellbound Stimulator & Reverie (code EMILY15 for 15% off sitewide)OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily (use this link to save $50)LELO TOR 3 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex is inherently vulnerable, which is partly why it’s so hot. But how do you take the extremely vulnerable – even awkward – step of telling a partner something sensitive? Maybe their breath is bad. Maybe you’re bored with the sex itself. Or maybe you're afraid to tell a partner you’ve fallen in love with them. On today’s episode, I’m helping listeners find the right words for these sensitive moments. What happens when you don’t feel anything during penetration? Or your partner’s afraid to tell you they have a small penis? How about when you’re into something kinky, tried it out virtually, and got caught? And finally, when you disagree on what makes good sex, is that a deal breaker? All this and more on today’s sexual feedback show. Show Notes:The 7 Secrets of Making OutHow to Have the Sexiest Spring EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSmartMouthPenuma.com/Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been to a sex party? Are you curious about what goes down in one, and if it’s something you’d like to explore? Are they held in dungeons? Upscale clubs? Someone’s house? There’s a lot more interest in sex parties lately, so on today’s episode, I’m talking sex parties 101. I’ll go over the various types of parties out there, how to find them and specific sex events you might be interested in, sex party etiquette, what you can expect when you walk in the door, how to interact with fellow attendees, and of course…what to wear. Show Notes:The 7 Secrets of Making OutHow to Have the Sexiest Spring EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureFetLifeFeeld#OpenKinky Rabbit ClubMorgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The vagina is a beautiful place. But from orgasms to vaginismus, do you know your way around a vagina and how to properly care for it? Whether you want to maximize a vulva owner’s pleasure or improve your own vaginal health, this episode is for you. We’ll start with the internal clitoral network: I’ll talk about how recent our scientific knowledge of the clitoris is. Later I'll discuss clitoral orgasms versus G-spot orgasms -- which one’s stronger, and what do they feel like? My listeners also bring me questions about vaginas and sex: is a clitoral piercing painful? Will it affect your sexual sensations? And when sex is painful, how can you reclaim your sexuality? All this and more on today’s vagina episode.Show Notes:Cuffing Szn Is Officially Over, Here’s Your Singles’ Survival Kit6 Ways to Improve Sleep for Better SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureArticle: Where is the Clitoris?Je Joue’s New Bullet Vibrators & Endometriosis Collection (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% OFF everything)Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily (use this link to save $50)This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Want to give 10/10 pleasure to a penis? Whether you’re giving or receiving oral sex to a penis, this episode is for you. From where to start as an absolute beginner, to upgrading your oral sex game, this is a comprehensive episode on the art of the blowjob. First, we’ll map the penis anatomy so you know what pleasure points you’re dealing with. Next, I’ll teach you techniques to build anticipation, tease, and make your oral sex that much more memorable: eye contact, how to use your hands, and the best lube for the job. We’ll also get into sensation play, testicle and perineum stimulation, and if swallowing or deep-throating is in the cards for you. (It’s totally OK if not.) Plus, I’ve got tips for dealing with anxiety when you’re the receiver. Don’t blow this episode off: your oral sex mastery starts now.  Show Notes:6 Ways to Improve Sleep for Better SexPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWhen it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic WandPodcast: Everybody Loves OralArticle: 6 Oral Sex Tips for Going Down on a VulvaArticle: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodArticle: How to Give a Better BlowjobPromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been into something so strongly, you couldn’t stop fantasizing about it? Maybe it’s getting spanked or tied up, to name a couple common turn-ons. Whatever your turn-on is, does it arouse you so much that you just have to make it a reality? Or are you apprehensive to take your fantasy IRL? On today’s episode, I’m taking your calls on kinks, fetishes, and everything in between. I’ll teach you how to introduce your fantasy to a partner, especially if you’re turned on by something very specific. From spandex to group sex, squirting to infantilization, I’ll help you understand the difference between a kink and a fetish, how to safely explore your options, and how to communicate your desires to a partner. All this and more on today’s turn-on show!Show Notes:Cuffing Szn Is Officially Over, Here’s Your Sexy Survival KitPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureOkay, What’s Really the Difference Between Kinks and Fetishes?Yes No Maybe List, Tips for Better Communication & Other GuidesFirmTech Rings (code EMILY20 for 20% off sitewide)FetLifeKasidieLELO SORAYA Wave (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s talk about porn, people. In my opinion, porn isn’t inherently good or bad – it’s your relationship to it that matters. Sexy media can be used for inspiration, education, even healthy arousal, but you can also become dependent on it for sexual stimulation and have a negative impact on you or your relationship in the process. So on today’s show, I’m taking your porn calls to help you find a healthy balance. She’s worried her boyfriend depends on porn for arousal and isn’t attracted to her anymore: what now? He’s married and wants to watch porn with his wife, how should he broach the subject? Finally, her father was a porn addict and she’s worried her boyfriend might be too – I give her communication tips to ease the anxiety. All this and more on today’s porn show!Show Notes:How Do I Prep For Sex?PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWhen it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic WandArticle: So, Where’s the Porn for Women?ScarleteenXConfessions.comThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’m getting more questions than ever about non-monogamous relationships, but is it right for you? Today I’m taking your calls about what it takes to navigate different kinds of relationships, and how our listeners' failures and success stories can help those considering opening up. When you’re long-distance, is an open arrangement actually ideal? Or is the relationship itself a distraction from the people right in front of you? When you’re married monogamously, but one of you starts flirting with someone else, is an open marriage the right move, or not so much? And when you’re in a heterosexual relationship, but want to explore your bisexuality, is bringing in a same-sex third a healthy fix? All this and more on today’s episode.Show Notes:How Do I Prep For Sex?PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureHow Do I Explore Bisexuality While in a Relationship?What Exactly is an “Open” Relationship? OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50Yes No Maybe List & Other GuidesPromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

While I believe orgasms are not the end goal of sex, who can blame themselves for wanting one? Whether you’re having partnered or solo sex, orgasms have incredible health benefits: boosted levels of estrogen and collagen, a huge dose of endorphins and oxytocin, better sleep and immunity. But namely? You want an orgasm because it feels good. That’s why on today’s show, I’m helping you reach climax. How can you still have numerous, deep orgasms? When you love anal play, but haven’t had an anal orgasm quite yet, how can you make it happen? And can all vulva-owners really have multiple orgasms? Find out all this and more on today’s orgasm show. Show Notes:Penis Issues & Innovations with Dr. KarpmanPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasurePromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s holding you back from your best sex? Are you worried you’ll be judged? Is emotional trauma rearing its ugly head? Or maybe you just want to have anal without hurting yourself! The truth is, we’ve all got a pleasure block or two, so on today’s show I’m taking your calls to move past them. When you’re recovering from an epic ghosting, how do you move on with your confidence intact? I offer tips for releasing the pain, and setting intentions for a future partner. When you’re nervous about neighbors hearing you have sex, how can you relax into your body? And finally, when your partner’s looks haven’t changed, but you’re suddenly wondering whether you’re attracted to them, is it really about their appearance? I’ll be unpacking these and many more roadblocks to the pleasure you deserve.Show Notes:Penis Issues & Innovations with Dr. KarpmanPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSmartMouthPenuma.com/PodcastEpisode: Does Size Matter? w/ Dr. Karpman Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Exploration is sexy. You don’t have to know everything about sex to be hot in bed, but if you’re curious? That’ll blow their mind. So let’s look at some less talked-about pleasure acts and how you can incorporate them into your sex life. From nipples to the labia, what unexplored erogenous zones and tools can enhance your orgasms? When your partner’s got a large penis, how do you explore anal without hurting yourself? Plus, how do you find friends and community when you’ve just entered the BDSM lifestyle? And how do you maximize your partner’s pleasure? All this and more on today’s pleasure points show.Show Notes:How to Have Great Sex During Perimenopause, Menopause and BeyondPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure#openFetLifeOdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50When it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic WandJe Joue (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% off)Playground Lube (code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)Kivin Method: 5 Sexy Positions to Try This Valentine’s Day Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Insecurities around our bodies can make sex and pleasure more difficult to enjoy, especially when it comes to our more intimate parts. And one body part I always get asked about is the penis, from people with penises and those sleeping with them. That’s why I’m bringing in board-certified urologist, Sex With Emily regular, and my friend, Dr. Edward Karpman to answer all your questions about the penis. We’ll answer questions from delayed ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, to yes, penis size. All this and more in today’s episode.Show Notes:Sex Toys for Penis Owners: A GuidePRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasurePenuma.com/PodcastMore Dr. Karpman: Healthy-Male.comThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here’s the truth about getting turned on. It’s a thousand times easier to feel sexual with others, if you’re already in the habit of getting sexual with yourself. But what does that look like? On today’s show, I’m talking sexy self-care practices that I recommend to everyone of every age, every gender, every relationship status. We’ll go over sensory engagement, breath work and solo sex techniques and toys, so you can keep your pilot light lit and feel erotic all the time. Plus, I take your questions: the difference between internal and external orgasms, arousal ideas for vulva-owners, how to approach sex with a new partner when you’ve been out of the game for a while, and much more.Show Notes:Sexy Positions to Try This Valentine’s Day5 Last-Minute, Ultra-Sexy Valentine’s IdeasPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureHigherDOSE Sauna BlanketBreathing App: Apple | Google PlayJe Joue: Vita | Amour | Duet (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% OFF)When it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic WandPromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)BellesaTryQuinnXConfessions.com&JaneThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s almost Valentine’s Day, but listen. Whether you’re a romantic or a cynic, there’s one thing we can all benefit from on this holiday. No, not more candy message hearts. I’m talking actual knowledge, on how to build sexual tension on Valentine’s Day and truly, any day. So on today’s episode, I’m talking sexts, scents, and sex toys to create an erotic vibe with your partner all day long. Next, I’ll be answering all your questions to create amazing Valentine’s Sex, including body-positive sex positions, how to have sex when one or both of you is tired, and how to lean into your sub side when you’ve been domming for decades.Show Notes:3 Things You Need To Know About Your Scent & Sexual AttractivenessPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureHiNote AppEye Of Love (code EMILY for 15% off sitewide)SmartMouthLELO SORAYA Wave (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Make Scheduling Sex Sexy?This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you dress for the occasion? And by “occasion,” I mean sex. Because wearing things that make you feel hot can make a huge difference. That’s what we’re talking about today: listening to your feelings, and dressing or undressing your way toward your sexual desires. In this Best Of episode, I’m talking leather, lingerie, and how to wear your sexual fantasies on your sleeve. Or your thigh highs. Next, we talk DDLG, or Daddy Dom Little Girl, a kink that might be exactly what you’re looking for…but only with the right boundaries. Finally, I get into green flags and red flags with your partner, and how to spot toxic traits before you’re in too deep.Show Notes:3 Things You Need To Know About Your Scent and Sexual AttractivenessPromescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureWhen it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic WandArticle: How to Start a DDLG DynamicArticle: The Truth About DDLG As Told by a LittleFleur Du Mal x Sex With Emily Bundle (code FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off 1st order)This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A stale sex life can cost us much more than our orgasms. When we stop physically connecting with our partners, we grow resentful, distrustful and uninvested in our relationship’s future. And while it’s common for sex with the same person to become monotonous over time, relationships need intimacy to survive. That’s why today’s show is all about spicing up your sex life. From a partner who doesn’t want to open up about their sexual preferences, to growing tired of the same old routine - I offer ideas from gamifying your sexual communication to taking penetration off the table. We’ll also hear plenty of real-life success stories of couples reviving their intimacy, which I know will inspire you to do the same. If it’s better sex that you and your partner want, there’s hope on the horizon. Show Notes:Sex Drive Boosting WorkoutsGifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50Yes No Maybe List, Mutual Masturbation Guide, & MoreLELO SONA 2 Cruise (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)Lube Shooter 4-Piece Set Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why are there so many hang ups around oral sex? For starters, many of us don’t know how to give it, or receive it. So how do we bring amazing, orgasm-inducing oral into our sex lives? Today’s episode is a great place to start. I answer your questions on oral upgrades, so you can blow more than just their mind – and get the pleasure you deserve. When you’re new to sex, how do you coach a partner to give you great oral? Or how about when you go down on your partner, but they refuse to kiss you afterwards – should you say something? And what if your penis-owning partner can’t finish…no matter how good your oral game is? I’ll also discuss how porn can distort what we think is good oral sex, so you can take what you need from the screen and leave the rest to your IRL abilities.Show Notes:Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023LELO TOR 2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)Podcast: Sex Toys for Penis OwnersArticle: Where is the Clitoris?Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever stumbled across a surprise fantasy? Something you didn’t realize turned you on…but here you are. It’s super hot, and now, you can’t stop thinking about it. Our sexual fantasies are here to help us understand ourselves better, so on today’s show I take your calls on sexual fantasies, what they mean, and how to turn them into a reality. First, she masturbates in the bathroom when she knows her neighbors are home, within earshot. He loves nipple play on his body and watching his wife do it to herself. They’re dabbling in prostate play, so I provide step-by-step instructions for finger stimulation. She’s afraid of rejection, but also fantasizes about it: how can she indulge this fantasy in a healthy way? All this and more on this revealing episode. Show Notes:Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023VUSH Destination: Play (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Destination: Play)Yes No Maybe List & Other GuidesEMDRIA Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all have personal demons. Whether it’s anxiety in your relationship, dissatisfaction in your sex life, or something hurtful from the past that’s infecting your present. But how do we heal so that our sex drive can thrive? That’s what today’s episode is all about. I talk to callers about their sexual mental blocks, and how to move past them for a more empowered future. When outside circumstances create stress for your family, how can you still prioritize intimacy? When one partner is inhibited in bed, how can they learn to relax, and find their authentic sexual voice? And when you’ve been through the death of a loved one, how can you make room for a new relationship while honoring their memory? All this and more on today’s show. Show Notes:Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Make Scheduling Sex Sexy?Yes No Maybe List & Other GuidesPodcast: Therapy: The Relationship Game-ChangerEMDRIAMore Dr. Amen: Instagram | TikTok | Twitter | WebsiteYour Brain Is Always Listening by Dr. Amen Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Real talk: penis problems are more common than you think. But don’t let shame stop you from healing - both inside and out. Today, we’re normalizing the experience of penis challenges, and providing tools to help mend your member. She wants to end a relationship because he can’t keep it up - are there other issues at play beyond sexual incompatibility? Can erection issues from a sex-related injury be reversed? I offer some science-backed treatments to check out. Another penis-owner can only orgasm through solo sex, are trust issues to blame? We talk through some exercises to help get to orgasming with a partner. I’ll cover all this and more in this episode.Show Notes:When It’s Time to Unplug, Plug In a Magic WandLELO Tor 2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Boston Scientific treatment options for EDPRP Injections (John Hopkins Medical)Podcast: Best Of: Power to the Penis w/ Dr. Edward KarpmanSKYN CondomsOne Condoms “Find My Fit”Pjur Woman Aqua LubricantThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Consuming your own ejaculate: a kink on the rise. Whether it comes from porn or curiosity, a ton of you have asked me about it in the last few years. But that’s not the only trending sex topic: from porn to mental health, these are some of the most frequently asked questions we get at Sex With Emily. First, is porn healthy or harmful? It’s all about your relationship to it. Next, anxiety and low self-worth can make it more difficult to get turned on with a partner. I offer strategies to one listener for restoring their self-love practice. Finally, eating your own semen: yay or nay? I explain why this is not only a totally normal question – but a totally acceptable practice.Show Notes:When It’s Time to Unplug, Plug In a Magic WandJe Joue Ami 3 Step Kegel Training Set (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% off)Article: The Ins And Outs of Ethical PornPodcast: Find Your Sexual Voice w/ Lake BellXConfessions.comTryQuinnThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Just how many pathways are there to your best orgasm? It’s more than you realize. Today’s episode is all about creative ways to climax, so you can unlock even more pleasure the next time you have sex. First: are breastgasms a thing? I explain to one caller how they work, and give her ideas for stimulating them and her other erogenous zones. Next, a couple calls in with a common problem: he finishes during penetrative sex, she doesn’t. I give them some orgasm gap hacks to solve it. Finally, why is it often easier to have a G-Spot orgasm with a toy, but not during sex? I give you tips for getting there with a partner and more tips to maximize your pleasure.Show Notes:When It’s Time to Unplug, Plug In a Magic WandUberlube “Good to Go” Travel Sets from Good Vibrations Woo More Play Coconut OilPjur’s Back Door LubeArticle: Where is the Clitoris?Article: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo SexThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever feel like your relationship is on cruise control? Do you continue to have the same conflicts, stale sex routine, or toxic dynamics and want to break the cycle and be with someone who’s actually a great fit? I’ll help you break out of all that. Today’s episode is designed to help you build better sex, dating and relationship habits. From incorporating kink and exploration into a relationship with someone who’s more reserved, to tips to work through jealousy in a relationship - we can all learn so much from this episode. I’ll also go over some exercises to build intimacy and share your top “green flags” when it comes to dating. All this and more on today’s show.Show Notes:Sexual Wellness Trends to Try in 2023VUSH Empress 2 (code SWE50 for 50% off)Tips for Better Communication & Other GuidesArticle: How to Have More Sensual SexArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I Tell a New Partner About My Fantasies?Article: What to Do When Your Partner Says ‘No’ to Trying New ThingsThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Your sexual needs are key to your sexual satisfaction and overall wellness. And when you’ve got a need that just can’t be met, I’m here for you. On today’s show, I give one caller who's never had an orgasm surefire masturbation tips to help her get there. Next, she’s 23 and loves her boyfriend, but he wants to move in together and she’s… not so sure. Psychologist and dear friend Dr. Jen Freed and I coach her on next steps. Another caller asked her partner to be more dominant in bed, and now he thinks they’re sexually incompatible. Finally, she needs more sexual experience – should she snag a friends with benefits? All this and more as we unpack your sexual needs and give you specific, sexy steps to achieve them.Show Notes:Sexual Wellness Trends to Try in 2023Odela Health (use this link for $50 off your 1st prescription)7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandPleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to your sexual style, have you ever thought about your voice? Do you moan? Slow things down? Pitch up or down an octave? Actor, writer and director Lake Bell is obsessed with the human voice. On today’s show, we’ll discuss her new audiobook Inside Voice, which explores this obsession, including the “sexy baby voice” phenomenon - which happens to be her least favorite choice for bedroom talk. We also discuss your takes on dating in your 40s, and why things often get better with age when it comes to the pursuit of romance. All this and more with my amazing guest, Lake Bell.Show Notes:Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?Lake Bell’s New Audiobook, Inside Voice: My Obsession with How We Sound: Audible | PushkinMore Lake Bell: Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As the year comes to an end, what are the biggest revelations you’ve had when it comes to pleasure? What is something new you’ve learned that has redefined your sex life - now and in the new year? To answer this, I turned to you - the Sex With Emily community - for a roundup of the best of the best. From oral secrets to solo sex, your sex language and your sex fantasies, these are some of my favorite moments from the episodes you listened to the most this year. Consider this your end of year send off, from Emily with love. Show Notes:Article: How to Write Your New Year’s Sex ResolutionsMagic WandBreathe AppPodcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, RevealedPodcast: Your Sex Language w/ Dr. Jen FreedPodcast: How to Relationship Better w/ John Kim a & Vanessa BennettPodcast: Best Blow Job EverPodcast: Orgasms with a Capital OPodcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun TPodcast: Therapy: The Relationship Game ChangerPodcast: Sex + Creativity w/ Liz Goldwyn Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you considering opening up your relationship? When and how did you decide to do so? And did moving away from monogamy change your perspective on sex and pleasure? Today, I’m taking your calls all about being in open relationships. First up: a group sex success story after a married couple learned to communicate their fantasies – always love hearing those. Next, they have a great sex life, but after a threesome gone wrong, she’s worried he’ll leave. How can she alleviate her anxiety and share her fears? Finally, we define compersion and discuss what to do when your partner wants a threesome… but you don’t. We get into all this and more on today’s hotline show. Show Notes:Article: The Podcast Eps + Articles You Loved in 2022PromescentArticle: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?SWE Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & More Guides Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?” Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy. Show Notes:Article: How to Train Your PenisVUSH (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Next Gen Vibes)Article: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?Podcast: What’s Your Arousal Type?The 36 Questions That Lead to LoveOhMiBod blueMotion Panty VibePodcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun TFleur Du Mal x SWE Bundle (FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off 1st order)Je Joue Luxury Massage Candle (Emily30 for 30% off all products) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alex Cooper, host and creator of “Call Her Daddy” knows a thing or two about the pursuit of a more fulfilling sex life. From transcendental oral to disastrous anal, she walks us through the good, the bad, and the funny when it comes to trying new sexual experiences. Alex also shares her mindful masturbation routine and what her partner does to make oral incredible (hint: vulva worship). All this and more in today’s fan favorite best of episode. Show Notes:Emily on Call Her Daddy: How to Have an Orgasm | 104- The Roadmap to his A**hole | 96- The Orgasm Gap & Forced Sex FantasiesArticle: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo SexArticle: Ask Emily: Oral Sex for BeginnersMore Alex Cooper: Instagram | TwitterCall Her Daddy: Website | Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mismatched sex drives: it’s one of the most common issues longterm relationships face. Frequently one partner has an insatiable appetite for sex, while the other treats sex more like a chore. But just because your libidos aren’t synced up now doesn’t mean they’ll be that way forever. On today’s Hotline show, I answer questions all about you and your partner’s differing sex drives and how to communicate your way to better alignment. From a caller who misses the drama and excitement their sex life once had, to another whose partner’s medication has caused his desire to be depleted - I’ll break down step by step how to broach this sensitive subject. Because if left unaddressed, issues around sex can be fatal to a relationship - and working through it will only make you and your partner stronger.Show Notes:Article: Best Sexy Stocking Stuffers 2022FirmTech Tech Ring (Emily20 for 20% off)Article: These Are the 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?Podcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve all heard of “body positivity” - the idea that we should celebrate the skin we’re in, rather than emphasize how we think others see us. But in practice, how really is your relationship with your body? Today’s show is all about giving our bodies the respect they deserve. I’m first joined by Bethany C Meyers, whose fitness company the be.come project aims to change our motivation behind working out. Bethany also shares why sex takes on a new, rich depth when we learn to connect with our movement on a daily basis. Afterwards, I’ll answer questions from listeners struggling to accept their own bodies. Because if we can’t learn to love our own bodies, how can we share them intimately with someone else?Show Notes:Article: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty, They Double As ArtArticle: Ask Emily: How Can I Be More Confident in the Bedroom?PromescentMore Bethany C. Meyers: Instagram | TwitterThe Become Project: Website | Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As we wind down the year, what are your pleasure goals? Do you want to explore your body? Incorporate a new pleasure ritual? Try out a new toy? Today on the show, I pull back the curtain on Sex With Emily and invite my team to share their pleasure goals and the toys to get there. From vibrators to arousal gels, they give their honest reviews on what to stuff your stockings with this holiday season. I’ll also break down the science behind them that makes them so effective. If you’re looking to create your own pleasure goals for the new year, these products are a great place to start.Show Notes:Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 HolidaysArticle: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty they Double as ArtBook: Court of ThornsGuide: The Pleasure Planner7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandGood VibrationsJe Joue (Emily30 for 30% off all products)OhMiBod bluMotion NEX1 Wearable Panty VibratorLelo Sona 2 CruiseB-Vibe TripletLelo Hugo Prostate MassagerPlayground Lube (SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)Promescent Female Arousal GelFleur Du Mal Sex With Emily Bundle (FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off all orders) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s the question married men often ask themselves: why is my marriage just OK? How do I get the spark back? And when did our sex life become so mediocre? Life coach and fellow podcaster Larry Hagner has not only worked through these issues himself, but has devoted his life to helping other men become better husbands and fathers. His project the Dad Edge was inspired by both his struggles in parenting and a lack of having a father during his own childhood. On today’s best-of show, Larry breaks down his four pillars of a good marriage (which absolutely includes sex), as well as how to talk to sons about sex, porn and masturbation.Show Notes:Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 HolidaysVush Destination: Play (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Destination: Play)More Larry Hagner: The Dad Edge | Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating - for most of us, it's a necessary evil. We fear rejection, don’t know where to look for our people, or simply feel it's a hopeless waste of time. But as my guests on today’s show can attest, the research behind dating may tell a different story. Today, I’m joined by Anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher and evolutionary biologist Dr. Justin Garcia of the Kinsey Institute. They pulled data from 5,000 American singles ages 18-89 as part of Match’s annual Singles in America survey, and the results are fascinating. People dating more consciously - hookup culture is dead, and singles are prioritizing things like political awareness rather than looks. We’ll unpack their findings and why today’s singles should be more optimistic than ever about finding their match.Show Notes:Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 HolidaysArticle: Cold Weather Date Ideas7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandSingles in America StudyMore Dr. Helen Fisher: WebsiteMore Dr. Justin Garcia: Kinsey Institute Bio | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you wish you knew about pleasure when you were in college? Maybe it's how to please yourself? Or the signs of sexual incompatibility? Or maybe you just need permission to break up? I answer your questions all about sex in college. From making casual hookups more stimulating, to embracing queerness in heteronormative spaces, to simply finding your people - I give the advice we all wish we could tell our younger selves. I also asked for your hottest college sex stories, and you absolutely understood the assignment. All this and more on today’s best of show.Show Notes:Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 HolidaysArticle: A Submissive’s Guide to Being DominantPromescent Delay Spray & Arousal GelArticle: Is Casual Sex Right For You?Article: 7 Books to Teach Your Kids About Queer Sex & Identity Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How’s your orgasm lately? Do you wish it was more intense? More frequent? More predictable with a partner? Orgasms don’t have to be a thing of mystery. And that’s why today's call in show is devoted to all things O. First up: she fears a loss of control while climaxing, which derails her arousal altogether. Can she relax and stay present? Next, he’s fit and athletic, with a girlfriend who loves sex. The problem? It takes him a long time to finish – maybe too long. Finally - when you’re with a partner who loves giving you oral, but it’s not exactly getting you off…what gives? I answer these questions and more from our brave live callers.Show Notes:Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 HolidaysPromescent Delay Spray & MoreArticle: I’ve Never Had An OrgasmArticle: Where is the Clitoris?Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful MasturbationArticle: How To Respond When Your Partner Can’t Stay HardThe Yes No Maybe List & Other SWE GuidesEpisode: More Sex, Less Pain with Heather Jeffcoat Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Getting the sex we want: it’s easier said than done. Sharing your needs with a partner can be difficult and awkward. But what if we feel undeserving of the gift of pleasure all together?On today’s best-of episode, I’ll answer your questions all about giving and receiving. From trouble with orgasms to insecurities around body parts - how we receive the gift of oral is often where mental blocks around sex begin - and end. Plus, we hear some giving success stories. Because improving our pleasure potential is all about communicating our needs - ask, and you shall receive.Show Notes:Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 HolidaysLELO HUGO (code ‘EMILY’ for 25% off all products)Article: The Kivin MethodArticle: How Do I Go Down on a Vulva?Article: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?Article: How Can I Be More Confident in the Bedroom? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mental health and sexual desire - do you really have to choose between one or the other? While antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesaving — all too often, they can deflate our sex drive. But conversely - it’s hard to get aroused if your depression goes untreated. Is there any way out of this predicament? On today’s show, I’ll discuss how to overcome this struggle that is more common than you think - as you’ll hear from some of our listeners. From alternative treatments to hacks around timing and dosage, I’ll help you keep pleasure in your life without compromising your mental health.Show Notes:Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 HolidaysArticle: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?Episode: What’s Your Arousal Type?The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness (36 Questions)Article: How Do I Have Good Sex During Menopause?Hormone Intelligence by Aviva Romm, MD Article: How Do I Deal with Anxiety During Sex?Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Make Scheduling Sex Sexy? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Infidelity - it’s one of the most painful emotional experiences out there. But once the pain heals, it can also create enormous opportunities for growth and self-reflection.In this episode, I’ll unpack infidelity and all the ways it can play out. It doesn’t always mean the end of a relationship. Sometimes, monogamy just isn’t the right fit. Other times, it means a couple needs to work on deepening intimacy and trust with one other. Whether you’ve been cheated on or you’re the cheater, I’ve got advice to help you work through it to create the love life you want. Show Notes:Article: Ask Emily: My Wife Cheated VUSH (code ‘EMILYBFCM’ for 60% off Empress 2 OR Big O Bundle)More Tom Goss: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Website Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all strive to be lifelong learners - as the world and people around us change, we need to adapt and evolve to keep up. And nowhere else is this more true than our sex lives. Our sexual intelligence can only reach its full potential if we’re open to nurturing its growth. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from. Show Notes:Article: The Different Kinds of Unconventional CouplesArticle: The Guide to a Successful Friends with Benefits RelationshipArticle: Ask Emily: How Do We Prepare for a Threesome?7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandPlaygroundJe Joue (use code ‘Emily30’ for 30% off)#Open Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Got hangups around oral sex? You’re not alone. While oral sex can provide abundant intimacy and pleasure, lots of us struggle with giving – and sometimes, receiving – it. Today, we’re getting out of our heads and communicating with our partners: two essential steps for mind-blowing oral sex. Love giving oral, but it’s not being reciprocated? Concerned about hygiene issues – either your own, or your partner’s? What if your partner takes a while to orgasm during oral, but your jaw gets tired along the way? From hangups to hygiene - I answer your questions so you can amp up your oral and enhance your pleasure.Show Notes:VUSH Destination: Play (code ‘SEXWITHEMILY’ for 40% off)Article: Ask Emily: Oral Sex for BeginnersArticle: How to Give a Better BlowjobArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?Article: Ask Emily: I Hate Giving My Partner Oral Sex Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Life is short, so why not add sex toys to your pleasure routine? Vulva owners seem to understand this, but today I’m talking toys for penises. Whether you have one or you want to please one, sex toys offer tons of benefits. Plus, toys are not just for solo play - they can enhance connection (and pleasure) with your partner. But it can be difficult to know what to look for, how to use them, and why you may need them at all. And that’s why on today’s episode, I’m myth-busting misconceptions and sharing my top products and tips for penile pleasure. From lasting harder and longer, to discovering those pleasure points a hand alone simply can’t reach - if there’s a penis in your life, I’ve got the toy for it.Show Notes:Je Joue Mio Vibrating Cock Ring (Emily30 for 30% off)Magic WandPlayground (SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)Aneros Helix TridentPromescent Delay SprayArticle: How Do I Buy My Boyfriend a Sex Toy?Hot Octopuss Pulse III Solo / DuoFleshlightTengaLELO HUGO (EMILY for 25% off all products)Fun Factory NOSWe-Vibe Verge Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

First comes love, then comes anal. Isn’t that how the song goes? On today’s best of show, we’re talking your sexual firsts: your first dating app, oral sex experience, anal play, and so much more. I help you face your fears so you can radically expand your pleasure potential. Up first: she’s 32 weeks pregnant and wants to keep her partner satisfied – but she’s never given him oral. Where to begin? He wants his wife to experience sex with another woman, so they can have their first threesome. But is she truly into the idea or just going along with it to please him? And last but not least - she’s got a play partner who wants to try anal, but has her reservations regarding pain and hygeine. How do you avoid a messy situation? We will unravel all this and more.Show Notes:7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandAsk Emily: How Do I Deal with Anxiety During Sex?6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful MasturbationHow to Make an Awesome Dating App ProfileAsk Emily: How Do I Attract a Healthy Relationship?How to Give a Better BlowjobAsk Emily: I Hate Giving My Partner Oral SexAsk Emily: How Do We Prepare for a Threesome?Ask Emily: How Do We Find Someone for a Threesome?Yes, No, Maybe List: Find New Ways to PlaySex With Emily GuidesHow to Explore Anal Sex8 Tips for the Best Anal EverEasing Into Anal (Everything But Insertion)The 7 Best Positions For Butt Sex Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sexual fantasies are not only normal, they’re a key component of your sexual health. But why are we attracted to certain fantasies? And is it normal to have certain fantasies, or no fantasies at all?On this episode, I reveal your top sex fantasies and why you have them. I also divulge your fantasy success stories and questions, from CNC to cuckolding. I give you tips for expanding your erotic imagination.Show Notes:7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandAsk Emily: How Do We Prepare for a Threesome?Your Guide to Consensual Non-ConsentAsk Emily: How to Become More Dominant In BedPegging 101: How to Try Strap-On SexThe Beginner’s Guide to Role-PlayThe 5 Best Ways to Have Sex OutsideHow Do I Explore Bisexuality While in a Relationship?What to Do When Your Partner Says ‘No’ to Trying New Things Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So what’s the hardest part about dating? Meeting people? Making conversation? Figuring out if there’s enough chemistry? How do you have dates that leave you happy, aligned and energized, rather than defeated and hopeless?On today’s best-of show, I’m here for your dating dilemmas. He’s new to dating, and nervous to talk to women – I give some talking points. She wants to have sex, but also wants it to be more than casual – I help refine her approach. He’s super honest about being polyamorous, but they think he needs to grow up – I coach him on how to find the right partners, while still being open. Because when it comes to dating, your people are out there – you just have to learn how to look. Show Notes:Higher Dose Infrared Sauna Blanket (use code EMILY 15% off sitewide**)Got A Sex or Relationship Question? Call me.Ask Emily: How Do I Attract a Healthy Relationship?How to Make an Awesome Dating App ProfileIs Casual Sex Right For You?What Exactly is an “Open” Relationship? **(excluding Full Size Saunas) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re all looking for better ways to have sex. But what if I told you the thing holding you back is your own beliefs around sex and sexuality? My guest today knows a thing or two about how to realize our own sexual well-being.Author, filmmaker, and founder of The Sex Ed, Liz is a sexual wellness connoisseur. In her new book Sex, Health & Consciousness, Liz explains how to build a sexual consciousness for a radically happier, healthier life. She’ll help me answer your questions on masturbation, shame, BDSM, and how to rewire the way we think about pleasure. Show Notes:7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandPre-Order Liz’s Book: Sex, Health, and ConsciousnessMore Liz Goldwyn: Website | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Got relationship drama? Don’t we all. On today’s Best of show, I’m helping you navigate choppy relationship waters, to get to the other side safely.First up: he just divorced, and jumped right into an ultra-serious relationship. Too soon? Next: when you’ve got a massive crush on your coworker, should you divorce your spouse and pursue your colleague instead? And if you’re not so into your partner’s bedroom style, can you teach them to be more dominant? All this and more on a particularly juicy Best Of show. Show Notes:Article: You and Your Partner Have Mismatched Sex DrivesArticle: What Your Attachment Style Says About Your Love LifePodcast: The Clit NotesXConfessions.comArticle: 7 New Ways to Use a Magic WandForia: Awaken Arousal Oil with CBDHot Octopuss Pulse III SoloHot Octopuss Pulse III DuoAneros Helix Trident Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you know me, you know that my dream is to have a bottle of lube on every nightstand. But why? Enhanced pleasure is one reason. And on this episode, I’ll give you several more. Think of this as your consumer reports on lube: I’m answering all of your lube inquiries, giving you the low-down on key ingredients, and helping you reach for the right lube at the right time. I’m also breaking down the science behind lube’s benefits, and walking you through the best options for every type of sexual occasion.  Show Notes:Article: How To Find The Best Lube For YouPlayground (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off first order)Uberlube “Good to Go” Travel Sets from Good Vibrations Woo More Play Coconut OilPjur’s Back Door LubeSliquid SilkSystem JoCoconuOhLaviniaForia CBD Intimacy OilGoLove CBD Intimate LubeFirst Response Pre-SeedGood Clean Love Biogenesis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to penis parts, do you know which ones are rich with nerve endings? Which areas need a gentle touch? And which can handle more force? On today’s Best of show, I’ll give you tips for penile pleasure from head to shaft, perineum to prostate.We also take your listener questions: when you’re in a long term relationship, who should initiate sex? If you’re not turned on by your partner of nearly a decade, what’s next? And when you’ve been masturbating for years, but discovered your entire family could hear you…how do you deal? We’ll cover all this and more. Show Notes:Playground (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off first order) 10 (Super Hot) Ways to Pleasure a Penis  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s the question everyone has asked themselves at least once. Should I break up with my partner? Relationship success depends on so many factors - communication, emotional intimacy, and of course - sexual connection. Figuring out which problems are worth solving and which ones are directing you to the exit sign can be confusing, exhausting and painful.So on today’s show, I take your questions - live - to figure out if you should make up or break up. Is bad sex worth leaving someone over? What about an age gap that puts both of you in much different life stages? Or how do you know if an affair has the potential to turn into something real? We learn so much from other people’s relationships. No matter where you are in your own, this will teach us all how to make better choices going forward. And if you want your questions answered on the next Hotline Call show, please reach out! You can leave messages online at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily or by calling 559-TALK-SEX (825-5739). Just leave your name, age, where you live and how you listen to the show! (You can always change your name or choose to remain anonymous.)Show Notes:Article: How to Have Sex When You're In a Full HouseUse code EMILY for 15% off Higher Dose at-home wellness productsEpisode: Manifest Your Partner (It Worked for Me)Yes No Maybe List Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So you want to try a new kink? Well, you’ve come to the right podcast. On today’s Best Of show, I answer your questions and help open your mind (and body) to all things kink and BDSM - from squirting to nipple-gasms.  Pushing ourselves outside our comfort zone can lead to enhanced intimacy and heightened pleasure. All you need are the right tools, compassionate communication, patience and plenty of lube.Show Notes:6 Kink Styles (& How To Explore Them)Tickets to Book Release Event with Jen FreedPlayground (get 15% off first order with code SEXWITHEMILY) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Quiet quitting: the act of leaving without leaving. At a job, it’s refusing to stay late, not seeking out extra projects, and only doing exactly what your role requires. Critics call it lack of inspiration or hustle – but proponents say it’s simply setting boundaries.But can quiet quitting apply to our relationships? I’ll explain the signs to look out for and how to initiate the hard conversations you may need to have with your partner. If we can put aside our inner people pleaser, we can avoid long term resentment and articulate our needs.Show Notes:Playground (get 15% off first order with code SEXWITHEMILY) Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s train our orgasm muscle: the pelvic floor. We all have one. And like our other muscles, strengthening it can yield physical benefits. In this case, a more explosive orgasm. On today’s show I put the spotlight on edging – a sex technique for more intense orgasms – and give you a slew of additional tips for maximizing your pleasure. Penis owners, do you use toys yet? Because I’ve got killer recommendations for you. People in relationships, ever been cheated on? I help one caller move through the process. Stuck in the friendzone? Through direct communication, we can all escape platonic purgatory.Show Notes:Tickets to Book Release Event with Jen FreedPlayground (get 15% off first order with code SEXWITHEMILY) How to Climax Harder and Faster Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you know if you’re bisexual? In honor of Bisexuality Visibility Day, author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes From a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality, in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused.Whether you’re a vulva owner in a heterosexual partnership who wants to explore same sex fantasies, or a penis owner who has recently come out as gay but still has thoughts about the opposite sex, Jen helps us all understand why sexuality is about so much more than who you’re sleeping with. Because after all, your sexuality is less about the destination and more about the journey to get there. Show Notes:Tickets to Book Release Event with Jen FreedJen Winston’s book Greedy: Notes From a Bisexual Who Wants Too MuchOpen by Rachel KrantzJen Winston on Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s manifest our dream partners and our best sex. Because listen: if our romantic lives aren’t aligned with the people we actually are, we have an opportunity to change that. Today, I’ll tell you how I manifested my own partner, the specific steps used to get there, and why the science behind this practice works. I’ll also answer your questions about finding the one and how manifestation can apply to your everyday dating and sex dilemmas. Show Notes:15 Types of Sexuality and Attraction To Help You Understand Your Desire StyleJoe Dispenza - Breaking the Habit of Being YourselfIntroducing Playground's chief sexologist Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you fake orgasms? Be honest. Whether we feel pressured to end the sexual experience, or simply don’t know how to orgasm with a partner, faking it is common for every gender and orientation. So on today’s episode, we discuss how to hold out for the real thing while also restoring your sex life. What do you do when it’s not just your orgasm that’s gone missing, but your entire sex life? Or how about when it's physical pain holding you back from having more pleasure? I’ll help callers with these questions and others as we embark on a mission to get you back to orgasming and back to a more pleasurable sex life.Show Notes:How Do I Tell My Partner I've Been Faking Orgasms? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s your sex language? We all have one. And once we’re fluent in the four types, we can expand our repertoire to more effectively please our partner – and advocate for what we want.In today’s episode, we will explore just that with psychologist and astrologer Jen Freed. Her forthcoming book “A Map to Your Soul: Using the Astrology of Fire, Earth, Air, and Water to Live Deeply and Fully” explains how these elements relate to the type of sex we want and how to create an erotic field with our partner. Dr. Freed offers a formula for alchemizing amazing sex by combining the principles of psychology and astrology, along with curious communication. Show Notes:Is Casual Sex Right For You?Pre-order A Map to Your SoulMore Jen Freed: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Website Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating as an adult is exhausting. While experience comes with age, actually applying that experience is easier said than done…even for professionals. With me today are two therapy professionals who also happen to be partners: John Kim and Vanessa Bennett. Their book “It’s Not Me, It’s You” offers an anecdotal road map of how to “relationship better,” from overcoming commitment issues, to fanning the sex flames, to breaking the blame cycle. John and Vanessa expertly dissect their own relationship to inspire us to create healthy bonds with the people we love. Listen to learn why “the one” is a myth, how to wean ourselves off codependency and how to replace obligatory sex with erotic collaboration.Show Notes:More John Kim: Instagram | Twitter | WebsiteMore Vanessa Bennett: Instagram | Website | PodcastPegging 101: How to try strap-on Sex Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To peg, or not to peg? That’s the question we’re going to push into today… and yes, pun intended. Pegging, which typically involves a penis owner being penetrated through the use of a strap-on dildo by a vulva owner, seems to be more popular than ever. But arguably more than other forms of pleasure, strap on sex challenges the way we think about masculinity, femininity and heteronormative pleasure. Role reversal and anal play require a great deal of trust, empathy and vulnerability. But if partners can work through these challenges, the payoff can be immense. And that’s why on today’s episode, I want to explore not just the steps partners should take to responsibly explore strap on intercourse, but also how the benefits can go way beyond the bedroom.Show Notes:Do’s and Dont’s of Anal SexHow to Find The Best Lube For YouSavage Love by Dan SavageBest Sex Toys for CouplesHarnesses and Anal-Safe Dildos from Good Vibrations Ask Emily: My Partner Is Friendly With Other Guys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How can you be bold in the bedroom? I’ve got the boldness queen herself, Jen Cohen of the “Habits & Hustle” podcast, to tell us how to design the life you actually want — including, of course, your sex life.Jen explains the 10% Target Mindset, the difference between what you want and what you need when it comes to sexual partners, how to build better intimacy habits, and how to normalize failure so that you take more risks. That’s where boldness comes in: to identify what you want, and be brave enough to work for it.Show Notes:Jen Cohen TED TalkFalling Forward by Jen CohenWebsiteInstagram“Habits & Hustle” podcastEmbodied is the New Sexy: 5 Benefits of Living A Radically Embodied Life Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have a sexually fluid relationship? As in, you and your partner discuss bisexuality openly…either yours, theirs, or both? What about having multiple partners? Or trying a threesome together? Are these possibilities you’d consider, or are you like: NO THANK U, NEXT! Well on today’s best-of show, I’ve got two individuals who can tell you exactly what it’s like to be in a successful, alternative relationship. First you’ll hear from actor/model Nico Tortorella on navigating bisexuality, how sex changed once they got sober, and what it’s like for them to fall for someone outside of their primary partnership. Next, you’ll hear from MMA fighter, fellow podcaster and Aussie fan fave Jason Ellis on how he and his fiance (now wife) conduct a radically open relationship, why he’s thrilled for another man to give her sexual pleasure, and his best recommendations for your first threesome. Come for the open minds, stay for the sex tips. Show Notes:Where is the Clitoris?The Love Bomb w/ Nico TortorellaThe Jason Ellis Show Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Casual sex gets a bad rap. We associate it with hookup culture, with disposability, with mindless Tinder swipes. But it doesn’t have to be that way: when approached with an intentional, conscious mindset, casual sex can be exactly what you need to feel erotic and energized again. The key? Knowing yourself – and knowing precisely what you want to get out of your casual sex experience. On today’s show, I parse out all the different types of casual sex out there, and offer some research that may surprise you. Next, I discuss how you know if casual sex is right for you, and when it’s best to say, “no thank you.” Finally, I coach you on how to make your casual sex encounters fulfilling, with maturity, self-awareness, and of course – an orgasm or two. Or ten. Show Notes:7 Myths of Non MonogamyFriends With Benefits: A Guide Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s holding you back in bed? We’ve all got our pain points: body image, not being able to tell your partner what you want, feeling embarrassed to make noise or express yourself. But I asked you how you overcame sexual insecurities, and you came back with SOLID advice. So on today’s show, along with my advice, we’re spreading the sexual confidence gospel using tips from the Sex With Emily community.First, we get into body image: how to hack your brain to feel more comfortable in your skin. Next, I talk about my favorite subject: communicating with your partner, to create a culture of sex positivity. Finally, I’ve got a particularly juicy tip to help you let go in bed and express yourself without inhibition — to hear it, just take a listen to this episode.Show Notes:Ask Emily: My Partner Watches Porn a LIttle Too EnthusiasticallyFeeldFet LifeFirst Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you build a sex room, they will come. That’s the idea behind the new Netflix show “How to Build a Sex Room,” and on today’s episode I’ve got designer Melanie Rose here with me to discuss her real-life erotic renovations.From a rock n’ roll dungeon to a high-end sex spa, Melanie has all kinds of decor ideas you can steal: spanking benches, wall-mounted handcuffs, soundproofing wall art. All of these are client-approved sex innovations, but the show has a touching side too. You get to see all kinds of clients, from suburbanites to polycules, parents to long-distance couples, discuss their fantasies and sexual desires – some of them for the very first time. And you know I’m all about that. Show Notes:For More Melanie Rose: Netflix show | Instagram | Website | Pinterest Where is The Clitoris?Liberator Throw Blanket Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s get sexually adventurous, people. On today’s hotline calls show, you’re bringing the novelty, and I am one hundred percent here for it. Jumping right in: can you use the same sex toy with multiple partners? Let’s find out. If you’re in your 20s and hooking up with a much older woman, is that ok? Or what if you’re all about female empowerment, except you ARE a female, and you DO want to be choked and spanked in bed? Finally: there’s a first time for everything, so should you tell a partner that you’ve never had penetration before? Or what if you’re married, and ready to experience your first open relationship – except your spouse isn’t on-board? All this and more on a particularly juicy hotline calls show.Show Notes:Shop Page Vesper Vibrator NecklaceBellesaSex, Porn & (Erika) Lust No Shame, Just Sex w/ Erin Tillman Opening Up by Tristan TaorminoThe Ethical SlutOpen Deeply It’s Open (Relationship) Season w/ Dr. Wednesday MartinOrgasms & Oral (No Penetration Required)First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Gotta love relationship advice delivered in a thick New York accent. I’ve got Adam Ferrara on the show today, and we’re healing your emotional triggers so you can have thriving interpersonal connections. Capiche? Adam and I talk meditation and breathwork for anxiety, the difference between responding and reacting to your partner, how to cultivate a felt sense of your emotions, and the difference between worry and responsibility. As a self-described co-dependent, Catholic Italian, Adam is as real as it gets about getting vulnerable and doing self-work, so you can experience better love, sex, and communication. We also help a caller in her 20s get more selfish in the bedroom – because when it comes to sex, selfishness can be a real virtue. Show Notes:More Adam Ferrara: Youtube Comedy Special | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s talk about non-monogamy! In the nearly two decades since I’ve been doing the show, I’ve never gotten so much interest in this topic as I am right now. Which is why I’m joined today by cultural anthropologist Dr. Wednesday Martin, who in addition to researching non-monogamy for her books and articles, has first-hand experience opening up her own marriage. On today’s episode, Wednesday reveals what modern sex research shows about female sexuality and long-term, monogamous relationships: a woman’s desire typically wanes between year 1 to 4. In addition, Wednesday and I discuss the difference between non-monogamy, swinging and polyamory, how to go about finding a partner outside of your primary relationship, how to set rules, and the surprising ways opening up improved her own partnership. Show Notes:More Wednesday Martin: Website | Instagram | Twitter | YoutubeUntrue by Wednesday Martin7 Myths of Non-MonogamyFeeldOpening Up by Tristan TaorminoOpen Monogamy: A Guide to Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship Agreement by Tammy NelsonThe Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual PossibilitiesOpen Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open RelationshipsCrazy on the Inside: A Memoir of Nobody SpecialPolysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non MonogamyThe Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting GoMore Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever tried anal play? Anal sex? Because if not, here’s my question to you…what’s holding you back?For most folks, the answer is fear. We’re scared it will hurt, scared that we don’t know what we’re doing, scared we’ll feel ashamed if we just so happen to love it. That’s why I’ve got two of the anal pleasure experts on the show today, to help demystify and destigmatize anal play, and help you open up yet another pathway to pleasure. Dr. Evan Goldstein and Alicia Sinclair talk to me about anal orgasms (not a myth), the importance of anal training, how to prepare hygienically, and how to strengthen the mind-booty connection for a successful, erotic anal experience. Show Notes:Anal Play: A Beginner's Guide OR Prostate Play 101More Evan Goldstein: Website | Instagram | Bespoke Surgical | Future MethodMore B-vibe: Website | Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’ve never talked about your sex life with your partner before, there’s a good chance they’ll push back. Why? Because most of us go into fight or flight mode when talking about sex: it’s not normalized in our culture, we get defensive, we feel like we’re being criticized. But never fear – you can create a culture of sex communication in your relationship, one talk at a time. Be the change, is what I’m saying.On today’s hotline show, I take your calls about having a sex talk. Like: telling your wife you want her to massage your prostate. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. How to relax into oral and give your partner tips to make you scream, and how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this episode, and see if your next sex talk isn’t a little bit easier. Show Notes:Embodied is The New Sexy: 5 Benefits of Living a Radically Embodied Life A+ Oral Sex for VulvasEverybody Loves OralAsk Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex? Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and how can you break them?I asked you to tell me what negative dating patterns you’re trying to change, and you all delivered! On today’s show, I’m addressing your top dating problems so we can solve them together. Having sex too soon, trying to “fix” less-than-ideal partners, fear of asserting yourself, having misaligned expectations, the tendency to audition people for the role of life partner – we’re covering it all, so you can feel empowered with new partners and have an amazing time with existing partners. Show Notes:Ask Emily: Tips for French Kissing Am I Dating a Narcissist? w/ Dr RamaniHow to Not Die Alone w/ Logan UryOrgasms and Oral (No Penetration Required) More About EMDR Therapy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to sex, why was the world set up so that vulva owners are the ones in charge of preventing a pregnancy? That’s the central question of a Twitter thread that went viral in 2018, and on today’s show I’ve got Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the author of that thread – and a forthcoming book, Ejaculate Responsibly – here to talk about it. I’m also joined by anthropologist, author, and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin, to unpack this fascinating topic. In a post-Roe world, Gabrielle is calling for a wholesale shift in the way we think about pregnancy prevention: namely, by inviting penis owners and their bodies into the conversation. On today’s show, we talk condoms and sexual pleasure, how society pressures vulva owners to become mothers, how to talk to young men about ejaculating responsibly, why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies, and why Gabrielle – mother of six and a Mormon – is passionate about arguing that women’s lives matter, and so does their pleasure. One more thing: Can pre-ejaculate, or pre-cum, cause unwanted pregnancy? Pre-ejaculate actually does NOT contain sperm. However, any sperm remaining in the urethra from a previous ejaculation may be carried out with pre-cum which would have a chance of causing a pregnancy.The solution? Urinate before having sex to flush out any leftover sperm, and, as always, wear a condom!For more information, visit Teen Health Source.Show Notes:More Gabrielle Blair: Instagram | Twitter | Website Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter ThreadMore information about her forthcoming book: Ejaculate ResponsiblyMore Dr Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter  | Website The Secret to Better Sex? Talking About It Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Anxiety, depression and low self-worth all block our sexual pleasure. But on a more fundamental level, they block us from showing up in the world the way we’d like: as confident, happy, sexy people. That’s why I invited my own therapist, Dr. Anadel Barbour, to talk to us through healing those intrusive thoughts. If you’re ready, your internal work starts today. On this best-of episode, Dr. Barbour and I discuss EMDR therapy, the four foundations of mindfulness, how to physically move through trauma, healing shame, and how to know if you’re in constant fight or flight. We also touch on sex and pain, and mindfulness in and out of the bedroom. If you’ve ever considered therapy but are on the fence about it, I hope this episode gives you some encouragement – because healing emotional wounds can truly transform your sex life.Show Notes:More Dr Anadel Barbour: Website | Instagram | Twitter Sex In Sobriety by Dr Anadel BarbourMore About EMDR TherapyOvercoming 4 Common Sex Fears Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ah, weddings. So ceremonial. So floral. After two years of postponements and cancellations, IRL weddings are back – but are all those newlyweds talking about their sex life? They probably should be! Married sex is full of tired, toxic cliches that I’m personally ready to bust. We don’t have to settle for absent or boring sex as we grow old together. So on today’s episode, I’m making the case for writing your sex vows before you walk down the aisle, helping you recreate honeymoon sex if you’ve been married for ages, and giving you a lay of the land culturally-speaking on how we’re thinking about sex and relationships now. Plus, I take your questions: how to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage, what it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s weddings and how to bring back the spark…when the spark was a little dim in the first place. Show Notes:Ask Emily: Tips for French Kissing The Yes No Maybe ListThe Pleasure PlannerHingeBumbleFeeld#OpenFetLifeSkirt Club  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What cultural or religious programming do you have around sex? Even if you didn’t grow up in a church, sexual shame is – in so many ways – the air we breathe. But here’s the reality: you didn’t put those thoughts there. Someone else did. And on today’s show with guest Erin Tillman, we’re calling out those judgmental messages, and choosing the sex messaging that actually serves us. The result? A radically more authentic, more liberated sex life.As an inclusive dating coach, Erin is no stranger to shame – and she’s heard it all from her clients. Whether it was that one rude thing a partner said that haunted you for years, or a parent that told you masturbation was dirty, shame love to hide in the shadows…and hold you back in the bedroom. So on today’s show, Erin and I talk about how we healed our own sexual shame, dropped performative sex, and got comfortable with the word “no.” You’ll also learn the difference between “no” and “not yet” when it comes to dating, how to make good choices on dating apps, and how to flip your internal shame script.Show Notes:More Erin Tillman Website | Twitter | InstagramYes No Maybe List Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s a good time to expand our definition of sex. At the end of the day, sex is play for adults: it’s where we collaborate with another person, creating a momentary world of pleasure and eroticism with them. But so often, we assume that sex equals penetration, and here’s the problem with that: not everyone orgasms during penetration. Not everyone feels erotic during penetration! So let’s make sex more interesting and exploratory, shall we?On today’s show, I’m talking up all the different types of non-penetrative sex – like mutual masturbation, sensual massage, toys, hand stuff – to help you break out of a conventional sex script, and have sex that’s more tailored to your personality and desires. Because you never have to take penetration off the table entirely…but what would happen if you took it off the table for a little while? (Hint: probably more orgasms.) Show Notes:Prostate Play 101Want to Try a Sex Cleanse? Penis Problems, Solved Shop with Emily4 Ways to Close The Orgasm GapFirst Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How much do you know about your partner’s sexual language? Or your own sexual language? In this best of episode, sex educator, author and licensed therapist Jamye Waxman is here to talk about core erotic blueprints, sexual accelerators and brakes, and the sixth love language: space and freedom. Jamye and I talk through the communication skills you need to help your sexual connection thrive, because if resentment is the relationship killer…curiosity is the relationship healer. So in this show, you’ll learn how to turn your communication style from critical to curious, as you and your partner learn who you both are as erotic beings. Show Notes:For More Jamye Waxman: Website | Instagram | Twitter | FacebookThe Secrets to Better Sex? Talk About ItMore About Your Erotic BlueprintCome As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jenny Mollen is the author of City of Likes, a fictional comedy about mommy influencer culture and the intensity of female friendships – especially when one of them is a narcissist. Are they obsessed with each other? Do they want to have sex with each other? And what do you do when someone’s perfectly-curated facade finally cracks? Jenny and I met years ago, and I know you’ll love her just as much as I do. Besides being a bestselling author, she’s also an actor, host of the hilarious “Third Wheel with Jenny Mollen” podcast, a mom, and wife to actor Jason Biggs. On this episode, she talks about the personal experiences with social media that inspired her book, why she wants to see a sex therapist, and helps me answer your sex and relationship questions. For example, if you’re in a relationship, is it ok to comment on someone else’s Instagram telling them how attractive they are? Jenny and I give it to you straight. Show Notes:For More Jenny Mollen: Podcast | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | WebsiteHer New Book: City of LikesOvercoming 4 Common Sex FearsAm I Dating a Narcissist? W/ Dr Ramani  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s my strong belief that pleasure is the antidote to fear, now and always. But when it comes to sex, we really can be our own worst enemies: what if my new partner sees me naked, and decides to jet? What if I try out some dirty talk, and my partner laughs at me? What if I approach someone cute…and they say ‘no thank you’?Fear can be crippling to our sex drive – but it can also be digested and processed. To do that, we can check the facts, we can remember that most things aren’t personal, and we can talk about our fears out loud. (Meditation helps too!) So on today’s best of episode, I’m talking to you all about YOUR sex fears: period sex, sharing a fetish with a new partner, old traumas, fear that you’ll never get over an ex, and much more to help you live YOUR most free, sexually healthy life.Show Notes:The Secret to Better Sex? Talking About It Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Shaun T is host of the podcast “Trust and Believe,” a world renowned fitness trainer, and a professional dancer. Not to mention a wonderfully sex positive man, but it was a journey – I repeat, a JOURNEY – to get there.On today’s show, Shaun T gives me his genius sex and arousal hacks, how he and his partner keep things interesting after 12 years and two kids, plus…his favorite kink. He also opens up about surviving childhood sexual assault, how he came to understand and accept his sexuality, and the trauma work he did to get to where he is today. Trust me: if you need an instant pick-me-up around your sex, sexuality, or your body, this is *the* conversation for you. Show Notes:More Shaun T: Podcast | Instagram | Website | Twitter | YoutubeWhat’s Your Arousal Type?These Are the Five Arousal Styles. Which One Are You? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Despite their reputation as magical, mysterious events, orgasms are way more accessible than most of us realize, once we understand the science behind them. (And OK yeah, I admit – they’re pretty magical.)As everyone’s favorite muscle spasm, the orgasm is a series of contractions from your pelvic floor muscles, which all of us have, and all of us can strengthen. But what else sets you up for orgasmic success? What if you can experience one alone, but not with a partner? What if you can orgasm in your sleep, but not in waking life? And what if you want to experience different kinds of orgasm (like anal) or, want multiples? I say: be greedy with your orgasm and listen to this best of episode, where we answer all these O questions and more.   Show Notes:6 Kink Styles (& How to Explore Them) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you need to get in the mood for sex? Have a lively conversation? Be touched in a suggestive way? Put on something sexy…or, have your partner get dressed up for you?Today’s episode is all about arousal styles, and today, I’ll be looking at five. The science of sexual arousal is ever-evolving, but on this show I’m looking at some of the most common ways people get turned on (through conversation, visuals, touch, play or physical adventure), helping you ID what your style is, and what behaviors you can do in the moment to get it going. Kind of like love languages, but for sex. I’m also talking about the difference between arousal and desire, and, taking your questions! How to have sex when you’re stressed, anti-depressants numbing out your vulva, and if it’s OK to be more excited for masturbation than partnered sex. Show Notes:There Are 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?Sex Up Your Love LanguageTell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner The Yes No Maybe ListYou’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 1You’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 2 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s one of the most common questions I get: how do I initiate sex the right way?Listen: there’s no one “right” way to initiate sex. But I’ll be honest, it might take a little warm up period to get everyone ready and on the same page. That’s because sex is just as much a head game as a body one, so in this episode, we’re helping you calm your nerves before initiation, recover from failed initiations, and walk into each sexual encounter with more confidence. At the end of the day, we all crave intimacy, and we all want to please our partners – and by the end of this episode, I think you’ll feel much more clear on how to arouse your partner.  Show Notes:6 Ways to Upgrade Your 69She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it mean exactly, when someone says they’re a voyeur? A sub? A cuckhold or an exhibitionist? It’s part 2 of our “You’re Kinkier Than You Think” series…and folks, we are getting a kinky education. On today’s episode, I’m walking you through your sexual fantasies to see where you land on the kink spectrum. I’m talking submission and domination, exhibitionism and voyeurism, even a little humiliation, if that’s your preferred kink flavor. But because kink is play, I’m also giving you some specific ideas for how to explore these fantasies IRL – and, bonus, I’m taking all of your kinky questions. Show Notes:Ask Emily: Kink and BDSM Ideas6 Kink Styles (& How to Explore Them) You’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 1Coming Together w/ Celeste & DanielleEmily’s Shop Page How to Dom with Your Text Messages Kink & Casual Sex Justin LehmillerThe Communication Guide  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What would the world be like if we didn’t have shame about sex? Can you imagine how different your life would be, if you were told that sexual pleasure was healthy? If you were given the memo early on that masturbation was legit self-care, and that sex itself was joyful and good for you, rather than a one-way ticket to STI’s and unwanted pregnancy?  Today’s best-of show is all about being the change we want to see in the world: becoming people who are conversant and comfortable discussing sex, because this is how we evolve people. Plus, I take your calls! Why using toys during sex is the literal best, what the hell a “lube shooter” is, and how to lovingly - persuasively - ask your partner for more oral. Show Notes:6 Hottest Masturbation MovesRelax, It’s Just Anal w/ Dr. Hernando Chaves Seducing The Booty w/ Alicia Sinclair Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you hear the words “BDSM” and “kink,” what comes to mind? Leather? Whips? The truth is, all of us are a little kinky – you may just not have realized it yet. That’s why today’s episode is part 1 of a two-part BDSM and kink education series, where I help demystify this world and give you fun, safe options for exploring. Dungeons optional. First, we’re defining our terms and getting a grasp on kink and BDSM – including, what the hell “BDSM” actually means. Next, we’re taking a look at core desires to help you identify yours, and talking about the psychology of power and play. Finally, I’m giving you some entry-level ways to bring kink to the bedroom, whether you’re coupled or single…and, answering all of your kinky questions. Show Notes:6 Kink Styles (& How to Explore Them)Ask Emily: Kink and BDSM IdeasComing Together w/ Celeste and DanielleThe Yes No Maybe List 5 Easy Steps to Start ExploringThe Communication Guide Kink & Casual w/ Justin Lehmiller5 BDSM Games to Spice Up Your Sex Life TonightBDSM: A Beginner’s Guide to KinkYou’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 2 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Whether it’s erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation or a slight penis curve, it’s common to have penis questions – especially when they’re affecting your sex life. But where do you go for answers? You come right here, to this informative convo between me and urologist Dr. Edward Karpman, as well as Jeff Abraham of Promescent.  On this best-of show, we’re talking to you all about penis shockwave therapy, what to do when you can get erect (but aren’t climaxing), what to do when you take ED meds (but aren’t getting hard), and much more. Plus, I take your intimacy questions! How to get out of your head during sex, how to reduce anxiety in the run-up to intercourse, and how to effectively work with your penis as you get older.  Show Notes:Missionary Sex Position - New and ImprovedFor more Dr. Karpman: Website | InstagramFor more information about Promescent: Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’re a parent or caregiver, should you talk to your child about masturbation? Yes. You absolutely should, even if it’s awkward, even if your own parents didn’t talk about it with you. (And let’s be real: they probably didn’t.) But I get it – finding the words can be hard, especially for such a touchy subject. That’s why today’s episode is devoted entirely to giving you tools, scripts and resources to help you.First, I give you the big why: Why should you talk to your children, and teens specifically, about masturbation? I’ll give you several science-backed reasons why it’s wise to do so. Next, we’ll do some masturbation myth-busting, to help alleviate any concerns, on their part or yours, that it’s harmful or unhealthy. Great news: it’s not! And finally, I’ll walk you through how to have this conversation, with specific verbiage you can use to help put yourself and your child at ease. Don’t worry caregivers: I got you, and in this episode I’ll also answer your questions about teens and sex. Should you talk to your teen about ethical porn? What should you do if a teen daughter starts asking about sex toys? All this and more on today’s show. Show Notes:Sex Positive Families: Website | InstagramDr Lanae St John: Book | On Sex with EmilyShafia Zaloom: Book | On Sex with EmilyCory Silverberg: WebsiteWhat should I teach my high school-aged teen about sex and sexuality?Masturbation Pro Tips (Part 1)Masturbation Pro Tips (Part 2)The Communication Guide Big MouthSex Education Good Vibrations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On any given day, how do you talk about sex? Do you bone? Screw? Make love? According to my guest Amanda Montell, author of Wordslut, Cultish, and host of the podcast “Sounds Like a Cult,” the words we use to discuss sex reveals our attitudes about sex as a whole – even shaping the way we show up in the bedroom.   In this fascinating best of episode, Amanda and I talk about sex slang and body part euphemisms, like the fact that we frequently cute-ify female genitals to make them less threatening. But before you go, “oh this is thinky academic stuff,” know this: practically-speaking, your sex life WILL improve as your communication improves. Listen in, as Amanda and I play with language to get the sex we want. For More Amanda Montell:Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English LanguageSounds Like a Cult Podcast | Cultish: The Language of FanaticismWebsite | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How exactly does masturbation help a sexual partnership? Let me count the ways…It’s Part 2 of our Masturbation Pro Tips series, and in today’s episode, we’re talking solo sex in the context of a relationship. I’m addressing some of the most common questions I get on the subject, such as: “if I already have a partner, why masturbate?” and: “if I masturbate in private, is it cheating?” We also discuss whether or not you should tell your partner if you masturbate, and touch briefly on porn addiction: starting with, is it real? Plus, I take your questions! How to set up your own “masturbation zone” when you live with a partner, whether it’s possible to have fantasy-free masturbation sessions, what to do if you can orgasm on your own but not with a partner, and much more. Show Notes:How to Find the Best Lube for YouMasturbation Pro Tips (Part 1) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Missionary gets a bad rap. I’ve seen it called the “comfy sweater” of sex – and can we talk about the name? Not sexy. Almost…anti-sexy. But despite its label, I don’t think that’s why missionary is considered vanilla or boring. It’s simply the default position, the one a lot of us fall into automatically – making it easier for us to tune out, phone it in, and miss out on any potential eroticism. So on today’s episode, we’re going to make missionary more exploratory, as I address some of your common complaints. Such as: how do we make it more exciting? I’ll tell you all the reasons I love missionary, and give you technique tips to make it more surprising and fun. Next, vulva owners: are you having a hard time reaching orgasm in missionary? Of course you are: it’s not the prime position for clitoral stimulation, so I’ll offer position hacks that make it more pleasurable. Finally, is it possible to be kinky during missionary? Oh yeah: from bondage to dirty talk, we can leverage all that eye contact to turn it into the hot experience you crave.  Show Notes: Missionary Sex Position - New and ImprovedThe “Bottom” Line On Anal w/ Dr Evan Goldstein Pillo by DamePosition Breakdown: Doggy Style Vs Cat PositionMagic Wand Mini Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Housewife turned billion-dollar co-founder Lisa Bilyeu is the picture of confidence: she’s got a thriving business, a partner she adores, and basically, is a literal boss. But she also overcame illness, insecurity, and massive relationship challenges to get where she is today.In her new book Radical Confidence, Lisa shares the lessons that changed her life, and helped her become the hero of her own story. On today’s show, I ask her about keeping the sexual spark alive in a longterm relationship, the “purgatory of the mundane,” and how to have a growth mindset with your partner.Show Notes:More: Radical ConfidenceMore Lisa: Instagram How to Find The Best Lube for You Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So listen: is sex addiction real? We’ve all heard stories of infidelity followed by explanations of sex addiction as the reason for the behavior. But the truth is, just because someone cheats doesn’t mean they’re a sex addict. According to therapist Marnie Breecker from the Center for Relational Healing, sex addiction is indeed real: it’s an intimacy disorder with both emotional and physiological symptoms. On this best of show, Marnie and I talk about the common and compulsive behaviors of sex addiction, the deep human need for love and connection, affordable treatment options, love addiction, a how-to on IMAGO therapy (a great tool for communication) and healing steps for couples. Show Notes:More Marnie: Website | Instagram Sex Addicts Anonymous Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Did you know that masturbation helps you sleep better? Tones your pelvic floor? And – surprise – boosts your immunity? But let’s be honest: these aren’t exactly the main reasons people masturbate. You masturbate because it’s pleasurable, but as the OG form of self-care, masturbation delivers all kinds of benefits, physically and psychologically. That’s why today’s show kicks off a two-part masturbation series, and later in the month, we’ll look at how masturbation benefits a partnership. On today’s episode however, it’s all about YOU: common masturbation fantasies, how to mix up a stale masturbation routine, how to make your solo sex more erotic, and how to practice mindful masturbation. Plus, I take your questions! Can a vibrator desensitize your clitoris? All this and more on Part 1 of our Masturbation Pro Tips Series. Show Notes:Squirting Secrets w/ Deborah SundhalThe Sex with Emily Shop page Our Edging Guide Our Yes No Maybe List  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s a misconception out there, that once women become moms, their sexiest years are OVER. But as my guest Dana Myers explains, that’s nonsense – and as a mom, she can prove it.Dana is the founder of sex and beauty brand Booty Parlor, but she’s also a wife and mother to two children. On today’s throwback show, she shares secrets from her book “The Mommy Mojo Makeover” to help women rediscover their sensual self-confidence, fall back in love with their bodies, and masturbate for self-care. We also talk about resentment in a relationship (and how to fix it), and why mothers deserve a sense of sexual entitlement. Yes moms: you deserve sexual pleasure! If you want more of it – or know a mom who might – this is a can’t miss conversation. For More Dana B Myers:Booty Parlor | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube | FacebookTry Dana’s pheromone fragrance & use code DANA15 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a million times: communication is a lubrication. But today I’ve got the receipts: previous callers who took my communication advice called back, to give us a status report!On today’s best of show, I’m letting you listen in on my callers’ sex lives after they took the brave but vulnerable step of talking to their partners. We’ve got a longtime married couple, with a husband who wants more kink in bed; a success story of treating vaginal pain; a newlywed who brought BACK the spark with his man after incorporating role play, and a mom who never had any sex guidance growing up…and is now doing things radically different with her teen daughter. All of them are living proof that better sex starts with communication, so listen now, get inspired, and let their sex-cess motivate you to have a sex talk of your own.Show Notes:Emily’s Shop PageThe Yes No Maybe List Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Audio porn is one of the most brilliant sex tech innovations of the past few years. It’s immersive, discreet, and super intimate – you literally feel like you’re in the room with people who are having sex. Plus…it’s a great way to ratchet up your own dirty talk or your masturbation routine. So on today’s best of episode, I’m sharing my conversation with Caroline Spiegel, creator of Quinn: an audio erotica app that was one of the first to market. We talk about audio porn and solo sex, how to use audio erotica with a partner, and a special bonus! Caroline and I listen to some audio erotica together, including a guided masturbation clip. Plus, we take your questions like, enjoying porn as a blind individual, how to embrace a naturally sexy voice, and – wild card – can you really be allergic to semen? Find out on today’s show.More Try Quinn:Website | Apple App Store | Android App Store | Instagram | TwitterShow Notes:How Do I Explore Bisexuality While In a Relationship?The Yes No Maybe List  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Just like going to the gym improves your body, going to therapy improves your mind. And bonus: couple’s counseling can radically improve your relationship and your sex life. So why do some people absolutely refuse to go?On today’s show, I’m giving you the therapy low-down, so you can decide whether you should try it – or, if it’s the right call for you and your partner. I’m talking: signs it’s time to look for a therapist, pros and cons of solo therapy vs. couple’s counseling, whether sex therapy is right for you, what to expect from a typical therapy session, and how to find therapy that works for you – including budget-friendly options. Plus, I take your therapy-related questions on porn addiction, sexual trauma and what to do if you tried to improve your sex life with your partner…but they cheated anyway. Show Notes:Ask Emily: My Wife CheatedAmerican Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and TherapistsBook: The Body Keeps The Score Book: Maybe You Should Talk to Someone Maximize Your Orgasm w/ Dolly JosetteAsk Emily How Do You Get Your Partner to Go to Therapy Book: So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had SexBook: She Comes FirstTherapy for Black GirlsTherapy for LatinXEMDRIA Best of: Coming Together w/ Celeste and Danielle   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you’re desperate to fix your sex life with your partner, what do you do? (You call me, of course.) Maybe the sex started hot, but got real boring. Or maybe you and your crush are finally hooking up…but the sex is meh, and it’s a huge letdown. What now?On today’s Best Of hotline show, I’m sharing some of my favorite listener questions and letting you listen in as we talk through solutions. We’ve got sex-stonewalling partners. Compersion vs. cuckholding. A self-described “lazy lover.” Bisexuality, plus a squirting tutorial. Trust me, if you’ve got the right communication skills, you can talk through anything: and on this episode, I help you make those sex talks way less gnarly. Show Notes:Our Yes No Maybe List Emily’s Shop Page The Magic WandThe Womanizer Boston Scientific New Low T Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to sex, a lot of us have a movie in our head about the way it “should” go down. I should look a certain way. They should kiss me a certain way. We should have epic orgasms. In other words, picture perfect...But here’s the real real: you’re going to orgasm way easier – and more intensely – if you can get out of your head, and into your body. So on today’s show, I’m helping you have fully embodied sex using your five senses. Together we can remove the mental blocks from orgasm. If you're not turned on or inspired to have sex, these are sensory tools you can use to seduce yourself or your partner…and feel all the electric sensations leading up to the big O.  Plus, I take your questions: how to talk dirty without swearing, how to bring back an MIA orgasm, how to stop disassociating during sex and much more.Show Notes:Ask Emily: How Do I Partner I’ve Been Faking OrgasmsThe Fin by DamePodcast: Where Did My Orgasm Go?Our Communication Guide Talk Dirty to Me w/ Joanna Angel Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To create our hottest, most fulfilling sex life, there’s one critical thing we need – and no, it’s not flavored lube. We need boundaries, and the ability to express them to others.But what is a “boundary,” exactly? As a buzzword and an emerging concept, boundaries can improve every relationship, sexual or otherwise. So on today’s best-of show, sex therapist, author and my dear friend Dr. Jennifer Freed and I help you figure out what your boundaries are, how to set them with others (and follow through), and how to NOT let people steamroll over your values…especially when you’re a people pleaser.  For more Dr Jennifer Freed:Website | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you actually want to feel during sex? On today’s best-of episode, my friends Celeste Hirshman & Danielle Harel, co-authors of Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility, help reveal your core desires – your personal, psychological motivation for having sex, and how to get that feeling in the moment.Celeste, Danielle and I talk about how sex can be a medicine for old wounds we felt growing up: whether you want to feel powerful, special, even degraded in bed – it all goes back to our personal history, and what we’re looking for when we have sex. We also talk about creating your hottest sexual movie, how to perform sexual breathing, and why – if you want sex to last in a long-term relationship – you really have to do this core desire work. It’s a can’t miss episode of sexual wisdom, whether you’re single, partnered, or simply want to know what gets you hot.For more Celeste, Danielle & Somatica Institute:Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube | FacebookJoin the Fall 2022 Somatica Sex & Relationship Coach TrainingTo Find a Coach Near You  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here’s something wild: nearly half of people in monogamous relationships report they’ve had affairs, according to recent research. Half! And that’s just the people who admitted it.  We can all agree that getting cheated on feels awful – as in, the literal worst. So why is it so common? In this episode, we’re talking trust and infidelity as we break down the reasons why people cheat, what to do if an affair has happened, and deciding whether to rebuild or break up and move on. Plus, I take your questions on trust and infidelity: how to restore your confidence after an affair, what to do if you suspect or just caught your partner cheating, and how to come back from online infidelity. Show Notes:Ask Emily: How Do I Tell My Partner I Don’t Like Something? The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & ConversationFor More Information on EMDR TherapyTips for Better Communication Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So you’re ready to date. Fantastic! But are you feeling a little rusty on flirting? Making the first move? And, real talk: how’s your dating app profile? Today’s show is your dating primer 101, so you can walk into every date knowing exactly what you want: whether it’s a long-term partner, or a just-for-the-night hookup. I’m talking how to meet people, how to make sexy conversations, how to take your best dating app pics, and what people are looking for when they’re on a date. Plus, I take your questions! How to feel more confident saying “yes” to dates, how to express your intentions around sex, when to bring sex toys into the bedroom and much more. Show Notes:15 Types of Sexuality and Attraction to Help You Understand Your Desire StyleFriends with Benefits: A GuideEsther Perel’s Game: So Where Should We Begin?We’re Not Really Strangers GameThe Gottman Institute’s GameThe Magic WandEmily’s Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to relationships across the board – from sex, to work, to friendships – do you actually know what impression you’re having on others? Especially when you first meet someone? In this best of show, I’m throwing it back to my conversation with fellow podcaster Jordan Harbinger, who gets real on social behaviors and the power of body language. Jordan and I talk about the difference between authenticity and hustling, confidence while dating, and the shocking power of nonverbal communication. He coaches us on developing open, positive body postures, and helps all of us walk into a room with charisma and curiosity. For More Jordan HarbingerWebsite | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Youtube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is there a vulva owner in your life you’d love to treat? By giving them the best oral sex of their life? You’ve come to the right place. Whether or not you’re with someone currently, or simply want to brush up on your oral skills for the future, it’s never a bad time to sharpen your pleasure techniques. After the blow job episode I did earlier this month I promised that you’d get an oral sex show specifically for vulvas – and it’s here.In today’s episode, I’m talking you through everything you need to know to deliver A+ oral sex, specifically for vulvas. I’m teaching how to tease, how to use your tongue, how to perform the Kivin method, and how to stimulate the famous G-spot. Plus, I take your questions!  What to do if you desperately want oral but your partner isn’t too keen on giving. How to let go of potential insecurities and truly enjoy receiving. What to do when your hygiene concerns are getting in the way of pleasure, How to reduce discomfort while giving. Plus, how to give your partner pointers on what you like and tips for a squirting experience.Show Notes:The Most Common Problems for VulvasMind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodEmily’s Shop PageAsk Emily: How Do I Go Down On a Vulva?The Vulva Gallery Squirting Secrets w/ Deborah SundahlAsk Emily: How Do I *Actually* Start Squirting? Tips for Better Communication GuideThe Yes No Maybe List Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Breakups completely, fundamentally suck – full stop. Especially if you’re still connected to the person: you still live together, you share friends, or…you can’t stop fantasizing about them sexually. And that’s because breakups function exactly like withdrawal: this other person was a drug of sorts, and now, you can’t get your hit. But breakups also teach us a lot about ourselves, especially if that person was annoyingly awesome in bed. So in this episode, we’re looking at the psychology of breakups, empowering ways to cope and move on, and most importantly, how to keep nurturing your sexuality while you heal. Plus, I take your questions! How to move on from a hookup partner who’s not ready for a relationship, what it means when you’re sexting with an ex, how to do the friendship custody battle after a breakup, and how to break up when you know it’s the right thing to do…but you’re terrified to do it. Show Notes:7 Steps to Breakup Recovery PodcastMore About EMDR TherapyThe Yes No Maybe List  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you are someone who had substandard sex ed as a young person (all of us?), you are going to love this throwback episode with Gil Ozeri, comedian, actor, and writer for the very popular show “Big Mouth”. Growing up with adults who avoided the sex talk like the plague, Gil discusses the shame that can result...shame a lot of us still carry. That’s why “Big Mouth” (now in Season 5 on Netflix) takes the awkward experience of adolescence, demystifies it, and helps all of us get the answers we wish we’d gotten back then — while being super funny. If you’ve got a young person in your life, this episode is a must-listen. Gil and I take a dive into our own hormonal teen years, how to make sex ed more relatable, and tips for post-baby sex…because why not? I also take your questions: how to give a better blowjob, how to make FaceTime sex hot, and how to get your sexual connection back after the spark has died.For More Gil Ozeri:Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube | TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I am joined by Violet Benson, host of the new podcast Almost Adulting and creator of the wildly popular Instagram account  @DaddyIssues_. Over the last couple of years, Violet has become well known for her irreverent relationship and dating advice. In this interview, Violet reveals why she has stopped dating (for now), what exactly a “pick me girl” is and how attraction is not always dependent on good looks. And because this is a sex show after all, Violet shared some tips for avoiding potentially embarrassing moments in the bedroom. This is a good one!For More Violet:Almost Adulting PodcastMeme Instagram | Personal Instagram | Podcast InstagramTwitter | Facebook | Youtube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re talking about blow jobs. It’s an oral sex masterclass, and you’re invited.On today’s episode, I’m sharing everything you need to know about oral sex on a penis.Also, I take your blow job questions: where to start as a beginner, how to enjoy receiving, what to know when pleasuring an uncircumcised penis and what to do if you’re struggling to swallow. Don’t blow off this episode. Together, we can bring your oral sex game to the next level. Show Notes:Everybody Loves Oral6 Oral Sex Tips for Going Down On a Vulva Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodHow to Give A Better BJ Skyn Condoms Emily’s Shop PageBreathe App Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A great sext is all about anticipation…kind of like foreplay: And as the 21st century way to talk dirty, sexting — when executed well — can be super hot. Sexting is an art form, and in this show, I give you pro tips for perfecting yours. Because let’s face it: randomly sending a bunch of squirting emojis might not be as sexy as it is confusing, for the person on the other side. As with everything in life, good sexting comes down to emotional intelligence, so let’s talk shop. This episode is designed to help you send your best sext, and excite the person receiving your message. Plus, I take your questions! How to start flirting online, how to manage your devices so your messages don’t accidentally end up in the wrong place and how to have good phone sex in a long distance relationship. Finally, the Sex With Emily community has delivered, and I’m sharing YOUR hottest sexts.Show Notes:Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna AngelSignal MessengerWhat’s app Amorus AppWe-Vibe Toys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let the pulsations begin, because today’s episode is a love letter to your orgasm – and all the ways we can dose your body with pleasure. First, we’re helping you understand, anatomically, just what the hell is going on with the big O. And for my never-had-an-orgasm friends we’re going to give you techniques to help you get there. Finally, we’re offering tricks to elevate your orgasm, with everything from easy hacks to long-term rituals, to achieve the deep pleasure you crave. Plus we take all your orgasm questions! What to do when you can’t orgasm with your partner, how to break the habit of faking orgasms, how to bring back an orgasm that’s suddenly disappeared, and how to achieve the holy grail of multiple O’s. Show Notes:Shop w/ Emily The WomanizerWe-Vibe ToysDame ProductsThe Edging Guide Je Joue Kegel Ball SetBiohack Your Orgasm w/ Alisa VittiBellesa Try Quinn Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you cut out for friends with benefits? If you crave regular sex, but don’t have capacity for a full-on relationship, an FWB arrangement could be just what the doctor ordered. But there’s a lot you should know before diving in!For some, FWB’s can be a super satisfying way to get your needs met, without the commitment of a traditional partnership. However, just because it’s not “traditional” doesn’t mean there aren’t rules of engagement, boundaries, and lots of communication. In this episode, I help you self-assess to figure out if you’re a good candidate for FWB, explain how FWB’s are qualitatively different from casual sex and hook-ups, and hacks to live your best FWB life. Show Notes:The Communication Guide The Yes No Maybe List  He’s Just Not That Into You: The No Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sexual wisdom (like all wisdom) is self-awareness plus lived experience. But I hear from people in their 20s all the time who are shockingly self-aware – they just haven’t stacked enough life experience to know how to navigate sex as it applies to them. So maybe that’s you, or maybe you're not in your 20s…but feel like you missed out on some sexual basics. If that’s you, gather ‘round, because this best-of episode is devoted to all the killer advice I wish I’d been given in my 20s. Whether it’s figuring out what your turn-ons are, what to do when a partner constantly cheats, or how to try anal (one word: lube), I’m answering all of your ground zero sex questions today. We get into all of that, plus how to approach your first threesome, how to seek out couple’s therapy (yes: you can do it in your 20s!), and how to communicate your deepest desires in the bedroom.Show Notes:The Communication Guide The Yes No Maybe ListComing Together by Celeste and DaniellePjur Anal Lube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’ve probably heard that the brain is the largest sex organ in your body. But can you really hack your brain for happiness? Or better sex? Psychiatrist and bestselling author Dr. Daniel Amen has amassed the world’s largest database of brain scans, and studies that information to reveal something fascinating: using neuroscience-based habits, we have the power to radically improve our mental health, our mood, and yes – our sex lives. Dr. Amen’s latest book is You, Happier, and on this episode, he reveals the lies of happiness, the stress hormones impeding your sex hormones, how to focus on micro-moments of happiness, and strategies for protecting yourself from the “noise” in your head. He also explains why happy people tend to live longer, have better relationships, be more successful in their careers…and, let’s face it, have way hotter sex. Listen now, to learn how to master your mind, and reap the rewards. More Dr. Daniel AmenTo Order You, Happier Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TiktokAmen ClinicsDiscover Your Brain Type30 Day Happiness Challenge Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s talk sexual tension and seduction, people. Maybe you’re single, and trying to brush up on your flirting skills. Or perhaps you’re in a long-term relationship, and frustrated that you don’t entice each other like you used to. Either way, I’m going to teach you how to build (or rebuild) sexual tension.At its core, seduction itself is about creating sexual tension, and to pull that off, we need a few things at our disposal, like confidence and radical presence. It’s a sexy sort of restraint, where your behavior is suggestive (not explicit), and your vibe is patient (not desperate). So today’s episode is all about sharpening our skills in the sexy and suggestive department. Plus, I take your questions, like how to make the first move, how to turn sexual banter into actual sex, and much, much more. Show Notes:Chemistry, Attraction & Connection w/ Matthew HusseyHow to Be a Master Dater w/ Matthew Hussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits.  Plus, we take your questions! How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it), what to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross, how to talk about your kink to a new partner and much more. For More Elle Chase: Website | Twitter | Instagram | FacebookElle’s Naughty Coloring Book | Curvy Girl Sex by Elle Chase | Elle’s Fantasy Course Show Notes:Tell Me What You Want by Justin LehmillerCome As You Are by Emily NagoskiThe Yes No Maybe List  We Vibe Toys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you keep running into the same relationship (or sex) problems over and over again, what’s the one common denominator? Brace yourself…because it’s you. You’re the thing that carries over from partnership to partnership, which is why Gary Bishop, author of the crazy bestseller “Unfu*k Yourself” decided to write a new book – a tough love spin on self-help. It’s called “Love Unfu*ked: Getting Your Relationship Sh!t Together,” and I invited him to chat with me about it.In this interview, Gary and I talk about how to become aware of our destructive relationship habits, and concrete ways to manage them. He tells me the one simple change he made with his current partner that transformed their relationship, and we go deep on feeling threatened: the fight or flight response that inhibits emotional intimacy, not to mention our best sex. But we also talk about the hopeful side of radical self-awareness, and the opportunity in front of us, when we step outside of ourselves, look at our patterns, and change them – to create room for the pleasurable connections we all want. For More Information About Gary Bishop:Website | Twitter | Instagram Love Unfu*ked Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today’s show is all about exploring sexual attraction; what it means and how does it fit into romantic love. By the end of today’s episode, you’ll better understand how and why YOU may feel sexually attracted to another person and how that can sometimes be distinct from feelings associated with long-term love. Plus, I take your questions! What to do when you’re straight, but kinda wanna hook up in a non-straight way, what to do when you and your partner are both submissive (and both crave dominance), how to bring back the spark, and when you should hang onto a friend with quality benefits – and, when to let them go. Show Notes:Sex, Drugs and The Side Effects of Birth Control w/ Ricki Lake & Abby EpsteinFor More Studies From Justin Lehmiller Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s talk anal play! If you’re a booty newbie, where do you begin? What feel-good nerve endings are you looking for? Should you start alone, or with a partner? And how the hell do you go shopping for butt plugs? Listen: if you’ve got backdoor questions, my guests Dr. Charlie Glickman and Dr. Hernando Chaves have answers. Today’s best-of episode is THE anal 101 primer, and if you’re not butt-curious now…you will be, in less than an hour. Listen up for tips to stimulate the prostate (AKA the male G-spot), how to prepare hygienically,  finger techniques for prostate massage, and how anal play can add so much crazy pleasure to your sex life, no matter your gender. Show Notes:Dr Charlie Glickman | WebsiteHernando Chaves | Instagram | TwitterAnerosSkyn Condoms Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you kickstart sexual arousal? Would you believe me if I told you that sometimes, the best ways to get turned on have nothing to do with sex itself? When you take the focus off the bedroom, and turn your focus toward adventure – the kind that gets your heart-pumping, your adrenaline going, and your anticipation building – a cool thing happens in your brain. You’re excited, and that excitement spills over from the activity into…sex. Pretty nifty, right?So on today’s show, we’re going to trust, touch, and titillate our way towards arousal, with bonding hacks you can use on your next date whether it is with a long term partner or someone new. Plus, I take your questions! Ways to feel confident and sexual again after a breakup, how to have kinky sex with a partner who says they aren’t interested, how to decide if you should wait to develop a relationship with a super busy person or cut em’ loose, how to take sexy pictures with each other, and how to communicate your needs efficiently outside the bedroom so that you can reignate the spark when you’re back inside.Show Notes:Serena Kerrigan’s Let’s Fucking DateEsther Perel’s Where Should We Begin?  Come As You Are by Emily NagoskiThe Yes No Maybe List Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As much as we’d like sex to be seamlessly hot all the time, sometimes…it gets a little awkward. Too much teeth during a blowjob. An erection that won’t last. Someone farts! It happens - and when it does, it can seriously derail the mood.But does it have to? I’m of the opinion that if we know how to respond during moments like these – with compassion, collaboration, and sometimes a sense of humor – an erotic moment doesn’t have to come to an abrupt halt. So on today’s show, I’m taking the point of view of someone who didn’t “do” the awkward thing, they witnessed it. And by the end, you’ll know how to hold space, how to handle situations like these, and not shame the person on the other side – so you can keep the party going, and continue having fantastic sex. Show Notes:What It Really Means When You Can’t Stay HardThe Vulva Gallery  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nothing makes me happier than people taking pleasure into their own hands, so my team and I have assembled the 10 MOST popular articles on SexWithEmily.com and we are dedicating this episode to the things our listeners most want to hear. Spoiler alert: you all love porn. And giving pleasure.I see what you’re interested in, I see what you’re curious about – so I consider today’s show scripted by you. It’s a deep dive into our most read articles; whether it’s preparing for a threesome, mastering awkward sex positions, or learning how to squirt. So buckle up, because this is quite the content-filled episode. Alright, let’s dive in! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you hear the phrase “self-care,” what comes to mind? Bubble baths? Booking a massage? Those things are all lovely (I’d argue essential), but I’ve got one more thing to add to your self-care routine, and I’m going to make a case for it: solo sex, AKA masturbation. If you’re a regular listener to this show, you know how much of a solo sex advocate I am. But we’re going to go a little deeper into this topic, because there’s still a lot of shame associated with masturbation: fear of getting caught, embarrassment about our noises and facial expressions, confusion around toys and which ones are best. That’s why today’s show is your Solo Sex 101, where we create a solo sex routine that works for you, get into all the ways solo sex nourishes your mental health, and how to get into the right headspace for it. Plus, I take your questions! When masturbation feels depressing, how do you learn to love it? Or when you’re asked to masturbate in front of your partner, but feel self-conscious about it, what do you do? I tackle these questions and so many more, on our solo sextravaganza. Show Notes:Dr Emily’s Shop PageDame Fin Je Joue MimiMore on Information on EMDR Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s cut right to the chase: doggy style is hot-looking, but is it hot-feeling? I can’t tell you how many questions I get about this position, mostly from people who are confused…wondering if they’re doing it wrong. You’re not! You may just need to tweak it a bit, to make it work for your body. So on today’s show, I give you my favorite doggy style hacks, because let’s be honest — no one wants a broken penis. Let’s avoid the ER, and give you the hot doggy style sex you deserve.Plus, I take your questions! Is polyamory more natural than monogamy? What should you do if you catch feelings for your friend-with-benefits? Is it really cheating if you have a no-sex kink session with an old flame? And finally — body dysmorphia of the vulva. Do you have it? Friends: let me help you love it! Don’t buy the hype, by which I mean false standards. I tell you exactly how to make your vulva a MUCH-deserved object of your affection.Show Notes:Skyn Condoms Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here in the 21st century, we’re fascinated by something that was invented in the 7th century: tantra, and more specifically, tantric sex. But it’s also one of the most misunderstood practices around, starting with: it’s not just about sex! Tantra is an entire world of spirituality, intimacy, breathwork and presence, which is precisely why I have Barbara Carellas, founder of Urban Tantra, on the show with me today. A pioneer in the world of tantric healing practices, Barbara gives us the real deal on these sacred techniques – and shows us how we can use them in the modern world, for full body pleasure, higher states of consciousness, and a radically deeper connection with your partner. Plus, I take your questions! How do you stay in the present moment during sex, and not disassociate while it’s happening – or, get so nervous that you block all the pleasure? I’ve got some thoughts on that.For More Information on Barbara:Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube | FacebookShow Notes:Emily’s Shop Page Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to sex in longterm relationships, why do they start hot, then go lukewarm? Why does our eroticism go dormant, once the newness of a relationship wears off? And what are some specific strategies for bringing back the heat we desperately long for? It’s part 2 in our Best Of special on taking your sex life from stale to sexy, and I can’t wait to let you listen in on my conversations with John Wineland and Esther Perel, and a bit of wisdom from Tom Bilyeu.John is a relationship coach specializing in polarity and embodiment, and for this show, I’ve selected his most potent advice on hot sex. According to John, getting in touch with our masculine and feminine energies – regardless of gender – has the power to transform the way we show up in bed. Next, I talk to Esther Perel, well recognized couples therapist, author and fellow podcaster, who explains how a couple’s sex life loses its passion. Our partners become reliable and safe, which is great for a relationship, but according to Esther…not always great for sex. So how do we revive the mystery, the risk, and a sense of adventure with our partners? Listen for the sensual techniques she uses to help couples get back in touch with their hungry side. Finally, Impact Theory’s Tom Bilyeu dishes on desire – and why attraction for other people is not death for a relationship. Show Notes:John Wineland | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | YoutubeEsther Perel | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | YoutubeTom Bilyeu | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s the #1 question I get as a sex educator: “our sex life is stale, how do we make it hot again?” For long-term couples, this issue is so common it’s almost a cliche. “Once you’re married, say goodbye to your sex life! Haha!” Except, it’s not funny, right? It’s actually pretty painful, once the new relationship energy wears off, and we no longer have that magical chemical cocktail running through our veins. That’s why I am so pleased to be doing a two-part, Best Of special on this precise topic, kicking things off with sex educator Ian Kerner, author of the iconic book “She Comes First” and his latest, “So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex?” I’m also sharing advice from Drs. John and Julie Gottman of the Gottman Institute, who have led some of the most comprehensive studies on successful couples, and the key ingredients of their success. (Which includes a great sex life, of course.) I’m pulling out the best-of-the-best of their advice and techniques, so you can try them yourself, and create your own “arousal runway” to bring excitement back into your relationship and the bedroom. Show Notes:Ian Kerner | Website | Twitter | BooksThe Gottman Institute | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Squirting during sex: how, exactly, does it happen? Which body part controls it? And what the hell is it made out of? For vulva owners, squirting is a thing of mystery - but it doesn’t need to be. In this special Best Of episode, I’m giving you my tips and firsthand experience with squirting as well as highlights of my conversation with sex educator Deborah Sundahl, who teaches us exactly how to squirt -- and I mean, step by step.For example: did you know, vulva owners, that you have a prostate? That’s the g-spot, despite headlines you see every few months questioning its very existence. Also: did you know that clitoral orgasms and g-spot orgasms are two different things? Finally, with time and practice, did you know that EVERY vulva owner can squirt? It’s not magic -- it’s anatomy! Plus, I take your questions on squirting, from how to start, best positions to do it, and how to communicate to your partner what you want them to do. Show Notes:Deborah Sundahl: Website | BookFascinator Throw Ejaculation blanket Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve all heard of red flags in relationships, but let’s be honest: sometimes, they can be terribly hard to spot. Especially when you really want a relationship to work, or, if the other person is super hot. (Am I right?) That’s why I’m bringing you a special episode today, focused on all things red flags -- and green flags -- with my two favorite voices on the matter, psychologist and author Dr. Ramani, and YouTube’s (and probably the world’s) favorite dating coach, Matthew Hussey. Dr. Ramani and I take a deep dive on narcissism, and talk through things like love bombing, devaluation, and the different types of narcissists out there -- as well as the personality types who tend to fall for them. And if you’re thinking, “I wouldn’t possibly fall for that nonsense,” think again! These folks are master manipulators, and at their core, deeply insecure. Next, Matthew Hussey walks us through our own less-than-ideal tendencies, such as: why we keep going for aloof and unavailable people, how we repeat painful patterns from our childhood, and how we ignore someone’s inconvenient truth. But Matthew also tells us what to look for when we’re dating someone new, such as curiosity, equal investment, and consistency with words and actions. If you’re dating right now, listen to this episode -- twice. Show Notes:Dr Remani: Website | Instagram | Twitter | YoutubeMatthew Hussey: Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Anything worth having takes time, whether that’s a better sex life, a deeper relationship, or an awesome relationship with your body. But staying consistent is hard: we get bored, we get rebellious, we want to cut corners. We’re human, after all! That’s why, if we want to meet goals - ANY goal - we have to create rituals. And the key to sticking with them? Identifying your “why.”So on today’s Best Of show, I’m talking to Max Lugavere, host of The Genius Life podcast, and Jennifer Cohen, host of Habits and Hustle, to give us the lowdown on sexy self improvement. Max gives me the scoop on food addiction (and its similarities to porn addiction), how daily sunlight improves our health, and how processed food short circuits our satiety signals. Jennifer tells me the three habits successful people all have in common, how to get your partner on-board for working out, and the correlation between exercise and sex drive. Get out your grocery lists and gratitude journals, because after this episode, you’ll be totally inspired to start small habits for big self-growth. Show Notes:Max Lugavere | Website | Instagram | Facebook | YoutubeJen Cohen  | Website | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

2021, we hardly knew ya. Just kidding, we totally did, and we’ve got the FaceTime sex to prove it. All year long, we’ve been saving up the very best moments of Sex With Emily, so you can walk into 2022 more sex-wise than ever. From squirting to sex dreams, Nikki Glaser to Esther Perel, we’re doing a hot flashback of YOUR most talked-about episodes. On this show, we’ve banked the top pieces of sex wisdom from hands-down incredible guests. Discover your dating style, locate the g-spot once and for all, and build your sexual confidence with some of the smartest (and funniest) voices out there. Before you create your New Year’s resolution list, be sure to listen to this one – because I guarantee you, their advice will elevate your 2022. Show Notes:So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex by Ian KernerTo Find Your ChronotypeFemale Ejaculation & The G Spot by Deborah Sundahl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Where do men get their earliest messages about sex and intimacy? Why do they talk about banging / pounding / hitting it (like they’re at a construction site), and how does this conditioning affect your sex life – no matter your gender? Peggy Ornstein is the author of several iconic books on teens and sex, but on today’s fan favorite episode, she joins me to talk about Boys & Sex: a fascinating account of young men as they navigate hookups, porn and relationships, as told by the boys she interviewed. In this episode, you’ll learn how even in the shadow of #MeToo, boys are still confused about having mutually fulfilling sex, while still being a “man.” Listen - when it comes to masculinity, Peggy is an expert. She explains why she doesn’t love the term “toxic masculinity.” She recognizes that men get a confusing message: be dominant, but don’t be too aggressive. Reporting from the front lines of bro culture, Peggy reveals the sex conundrum that men so often find themselves in, and ways we can all evolve to have relationships that are more interesting, more erotic, and more emotionally intelligent. For More Information on Peggy Orenstein:Website | Instagram | TwitterBoys & SexGirls & Sex Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To get our needs met, we first have to be able to articulate our needs – and be brave enough to share them out loud. But it’s easier said than done! We get worried about what the other person will say, or we don’t have the words to express what we want, so we bury those longings and wait for a better time. Then before we know it, years have passed, and that better time never arrived. We’re sexually frustrated and resentful, because we never had the sex talk that was crucial to our happiness…until now. On this show, we’re leaning into discomfort, so we can come out on the other side sexually satisfied. In other words: we’re learning how to have a sex talk! Even when it’s just with yourself. How do you cultivate positive self-talk, when everyone around you affirms your hotness - but your brain just doesn’t buy it? Or how about when one of you wants to have sex every day, and the other doesn’t: how do you communicate your way through mismatched desires? Finally, let’s get into improving the quality of your sex life with a partner: when the sex itself has become rote, routine, or just plain boring, how do you revive it? The first step is an open conversation, and on this episode, I’m giving you scripts and tools so you can get over those fears, and get into mutually satisfying pleasure. Show Notes:The Sex with Emily Yes No Maybe List Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Women cheat for emotional connection, men cheat for sex.” “Men are horn dogs, women are frigid.” Heard any of this before? Did you know these are factually untrue? In this fan favorite episode, cultural anthropologist and bestselling author Wednesday Martin joins me to talk about female sexuality research findings, now that more females are entering the field of sex research. Believe me when I say: her revelations will change your life.Wednesday’s book Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free was a major conversation starter. Today, we’re more open to alternative relationship models, and a huge part of that is because of Wednesday. In this conversation, she debunks the lies we’ve been told for decades about female sexuality, including: men just want to spread their seed, while women want to protect their precious eggs. Wrong! Turns out, monogamy is pretty rough on female desire. How about this one: women cheat because they crave emotional care. Nope! Sometimes, women just want sex with someone new. Finally, how did these lies get started in the first place? Wednesday walks us through the faulty science that got us here, and how accurate measures of female desire are radically changing the way we understand sex – for all genders. For More Information About Wednesday Martin:Website | Instagram | TwitterUntrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust and Infidelity is Wrong Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to the wide world of alternative relationship models. Opening up, threesomes, and swinging are increasingly becoming more mainstream, so naturally, we’ve got questions. Some of us do better with monogamy, but some of us thrive with a little variety - and no matter where we land on the spectrum of relationships and sex, we can always gain vocabulary to explore our desires, and act on our pleasure.So on today’s show, I take your questions on open relationships and we get into it. First, we tackle open relationships when we’re already partnered. How do you establish the ground rules? What do you do when your partner has a date but you don’t, and you feel that jealousy coming on? Next, threesomes and swinging: how do you practice safe sex in a group sex situation? Finally: when you’re the third party, what’s the best way to talk to the partner of your partner? In this case, and truly all others, the key is becoming a grade A communicator – because if there’s one thing you can count on in an alternative relationship, it’s lots and lots of talking. Show Notes:Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may think of her as divorce attorney to the stars, and Laura Wasser is certainly that. But Laura is also a sharp thinker on marriage and communication, and is here to tell us what every couple needs to know before saying "I do." She says that couples who have the prenup conversation are actually more likely to stay together than those who don't, and that money is an even bigger conversational taboo than sex. She also tells us what it's like repping actor clients vs. musician clients, why we're seeing a celebrity-led trend of "gentle separations," and how social media has changed the game for divorce cases.Plus, I take your divorce questions! When is it time to say "I don't," and get the hell out? Or how about if you're single, and have a tendency to hook up with older, separated men -- are they just your type? Or...are there some deeper conversations you need to be having, with them, and with yourself? Let's talk dating as a divorcee: when is it OK to tell the kids you've met someone new? And finally, after being married for so long, how do you tell the difference between love and lust, when you're back on the scene? All this and more, on today's divorce show. For More Information on Laura wasser:Website | InstagramIt’s Over Easy: Website | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In order to feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. And that’s the funny thing about trust: once it’s broken, it has a way of quietly shutting us down, so that our relationships aren’t as deep, our curiosity is blocked, and even our self-sex takes a hit. But there IS hope: trust can be healed. Neuroplasticity is a beautiful thing, and if we compassionately work on ourselves (possibly with a partner), we feel worlds better - more secure, and definitely more sexy.So on today’s Ask Emily show, I take some of my favorite calls on trust, and how to repair it. What happens if your spouse cheated on you, to the point where sex feels sorta gross now? Or how about if you were the cheater, and your sex life just isn’t the same? (Two words: couples therapy.) How about this one: you’re in a partnership, and things are basically fine - but the spark has completely worn off, and you don’t know how to talk about it? Or, what if you tell a new partner you love them, they don’t reciprocate, and THEN the sex takes a nosedive? In both cases, I’ve got answers. Finally, when you’re “too picky” of a dater, is it really because they’re all duds? Or, are there some underlying trust issues there, that are keeping your sexuality safe, cool, and totally dormant? The bottom line is this: when we feel free, we feel sexy. And on today’s episode, we’re helping you radically reclaim your erotic freedom.Show Notes:Ian Kerner’s book - So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. Our Yes No Maybe List Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sheila Kelley is a moment, a mantra, and the founder of S-Factor: a feminine movement practice that offers classes in strip, pole dance, and erotic dance. “We live from the armpits up, and get trapped away from our bodies,” Sheila says. So her passion is to free people through movement, so they can return to their bodies, and have more energy to move towards what they want. This is a gem-filled conversation that you’re going to want to pause several times, so you can take in Sheila’s explosive wisdom...and apply it immediately to your daily life.Plus, I take your questions! We’re all venturing into brave new worlds today, and need advice. What to do when you’re dating as a grown woman, with kids in their 20s - but the men you’re matching with are young adults too? Is that a problem? We discuss. Next: is it possible to get “orgasm addicted” to porn? I talk you through it. And finally, beginnings and endings: how do you begin your anal sex journey? How do you end a marriage as you knew it? As Sheila says, it’s all an incremental journey of self-investment and growth -- and by the end of this episode, you’ll have done a bit of both.Find more about Sheila Kelley here:Twitter @theSheilaKelleyInstagram: @SheilaKelleySsfactor.comInstagram @s.factorTwitter @skelleysfactor Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So you’ve got a sex fantasy...and you’re ready for it to become reality. That’s great! But let me be the first to tell you: this process is part art, part science. The art? That’s your erotic self. Closing your eyes, imagining hot -- possibly taboo -- scenarios, and taking the time to discover what turns you on. But the science? That’s where we have to get tactical and think with our heads -- as well as our loins.On today’s Ask Emily show, I take your calls on fantasy and give you practical advice on how to fulfill them. Let’s say your partner has been hinting at a cuckold scenario: how do you go about finding a “third,” and how do you manage expectations for all involved? We get into it. What if you don’t have any fantasies, but you want some? Is there a way to get more creative? Yeahhh there is. Right this way for some sexy self-discovery.Show Notes:FetLifeFeeld #Open Ok Cupid Yea No Maybe ListBook: Coming Together by Celeste And Danielle Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I like to think of Lewis Howes and Lisa Bilyeu as leaders in the self-awareness world, especially when it comes to relationships. Both Lewis and Lisa are incredibly successful: she went from housewife to cofounder of a billion-dollar business, he went from picked last for dodgeball to pro athlete, New York Times bestselling author and uber successful podcaster. But here’s the thing: success is empty if you don’t learn to like yourself, and both are intimately familiar with that truth. On today’s Best Of episode, I’m pairing these two voices to bring you the most powerful advice on self-love and fulfilling relationships. We hear from Lisa, who tells the story of radically changing her role in her relationship, and Lewis, who tells the story of radically hustling for respect (and getting it) -- only to realize he needed to learn how to respect himself. In this show, you’ll learn how to ask your partner for exactly what you need, how to break the habit of “testing” partners, how to identify the masks you wear for the world, and why sex transforms after you’ve taken the time to understand who you are - and love yourself, no hustle required. Find Lewis Howes here:LewisHowes.comInstagram @lewishowesTwitter @lewishowesTikTok @lewishowesFind Lisa Bilyeu here:lisabilyeu.comInstagram @lisabilyeu Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s frustrating but true: sex isn’t a button that we can automatically turn on and off. In fact, “sex” is a catch-all term for arousal, body exploration, play, and erotic collaboration—not simply penetration. So what do you do when you want to get naughty, but your body isn’t on-board? On today’s Ask Emily show, we’re taking a look at the body’s response to sex, and figuring out what to do when it shuts down. Say you’ve got a gag reflex around oral: does that mean no blowjobs? Nah - I’ve got a trick for that. How about vaginismus, when the vulva clenches so tightly at penetration, that sex is super painful? I’ve got advice! Finally, let’s talk about your partners: is it kosher to use old toys with a new lover? How do you broach the subject? And when you’re newly married, but the sex has serious problems, where do you turn? At the root of good sex is good communication, and on today’s episode, we challenge everyone to articulate their needs, and listen to their partners.Show Notes:Clean your toys with UveeSan Diego Sexual MedicineDr. Sherry's She-ology DilatorsSystem Jo Lubricants Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Before we’re experts at anything, we’re all humble beginners. And whether we’re learning how to date, learning how to talk about sex, or learning how to pleasure a partner, it can all seem pretty intimidating — enough to make us second-guess ourselves. “Do they just like me as a friend?” “Am I weird for wanting more lovers?” “Will I teach my child the right things about sex?”On today’s Ask Emily show, everyone’s looking for clarity in the sexual unknown, starting with: how can I tell if they’re into me? Whether it’s an office crush and you’re trying to figure out if they like you back, or you’re about to go on a date and worried you’ll be friend-zoned, I give you tips to put your best foot forward. How about if it’s a new sexual act, and you don’t know how you feel about it — or if you should even try it? I offer ways to figure out what YOU want…and not just what your lover wants. Finally, sexual evolutions in long-term relationships: what to do when you’re filled with old resentment? Is there a new conversation you could have with your partner? How about when you want to open up…but your nesting partner is scared of you having new lovers? We’re venturing into uncharted sex territory today, but don’t worry—we all come out on the other side, with fresh ways forward. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Everyone is talking about breathwork these days. But for PleasureMuse Dolly Josette, breath opens an entire world of erotic sensation -- and it’s a world you (yes, you) already possess. So if full-body orgasms sound like fun, you’ll love this conversation, because guess what? Dolly shows us how to visit that pleasure-filled world, all on our own.Dolly’s been recognized as one of today’s most innovative Sexological Bodyworkers by Cosmopolitan and Hustler Magazines, but more importantly, she helps women and couples navigate their sexual evolution, wake up from numbness, and live more orgasmic lives. In this episode, we cover a ton of ground, including how to hack your nervous system for better sex, how to become a great masturbator, what exactly *is* somatic sex therapy, and why so many people, especially vulva-owners, are trained to numb from the waist down. (Spoiler alert: her clients definitely aren’t numb anymore.) Find Dolly online:pleasuremuse.comLearn about orgasm vs. climaxGet Dolly's 25-minute Vulva Hug Meditation - use code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% offInstagram @pleasuremuseShow Notes:Find certified sexological bodyworkers in your area at sexologicalbodyworkers.org Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Trust: it’s the glue of relationships, even the more casual ones. Can I trust that this person is safe? That they aren’t going to hurt me? Can I trust myself, that I’ll know how to navigate this situation? These are the questions we all ask ourselves, even if it’s subconscious. Our bodies and brains regularly scan for danger, but when you’re wearing rose-colored glasses, sometimes the red flags just look like flags.So on today’s Ask Emily show, I take your questions on trust and safety, because as we know, safety is the precursor to hot sex. So what happens when you’re having mind-blowing sex with a partner, but catch them chatting with sex workers online? What happens when you’ve been love-bombed, by someone who isn’t what they seem? Or maybe you’ve had past relationship trauma, and don’t trust new partners to take it slow with you? We get into all of it. Finally: do you trust yourself to facilitate a hookup? Do you trust that you can help a partner heal from sex-negative messaging? These are the questions I’m exploring today, and trust ME: by the end, you’ll walk away with some great tools for sticky situations.  Show Notes:Episode: First Date First Orgasm First ThreesomeFind out about EMDR therapy at EMDRIA.orgBook: For Yourself By Lonnie Barbach  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’ve heard this one before: the sexiest quality in the world is confidence. And that’s true...but...it’s not always easy to muster. Confidence is an inside job, but here’s the good news. Once you generate it on your own terms, life - and sex - gets a whole lot easier.So on today’s Ask Emily show, I’m joined by my dear friend and former co-host Menace from The Woody Show, as we talk confidence, jealousy, Pete Davidson, and self-image. What happens when you adore your partner, but can’t stop thinking about their high body count? Or want to have hot phone sex, but don’t know where to start? We talk through both. How about when you feel too short to find a great partner, or don’t know how to be dominant in bed? We help you think through both. Finally: discovering your partner’s can of delay spray. Our listener wonders whether he’s sleeping with someone else; we think it’s time for open communication.Find Menace here:What's New PodcastThe Woody ShowDiego Hot SauceInstagramTwitterShow Notes:Try my free Yes, No, Maybe ListWe-Vibe Moxie, Bond (Cock Ring) and TouchEpisode: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna AngelPromescent: Better In Bed Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you hear the words “pelvic floor,” what comes to mind? A visit to the OB-GYN, maybe? The truth is, the pelvic floor is a hidden superstar of sexual pleasure, for vulva AND penis owners. We all have a pelvic floor, but the problem is, we don’t always know how to take care of it. That changes today because you’re about to hear from the pelvic floor expert herself, Dr. Patricia Wallace.In this episode I talk to Dr. Wallace about “living your best life in your best body,” and how focusing on the pelvic floor can unlock our feel-good potential. We discuss the intricacies of orgasm because guess what? When you strengthen the pelvic floor, your orgasm contractions get more intense, and tiny muscles you didn’t even know you had amplified your pleasure. We can also heal pain and prolapse through pelvic floor rehab, and vulva owners will find a lot of relief hearing Dr. Wallace's thoughts on aging and hormones. Turns out, you can nurture your hormonal health well into menopause, without scary side effects! Leave it to a doctor to put our minds (and our vulvas, and our penises) at ease.Find out more about Dr. Wallace here:pelvichealthwellness.comFacebookInstagramFind out more about Emsella treatments here:bodybybtl.comFacebookInstagramTwitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex is play, but certain sex positions feel more like work, right? Whether it’s reverse cowgirl or 69, you might feel a bit awkward...you don’t exactly know what you’re doing...you’re trying not to throw your back out. But that doesn’t mean you have to keep doing the same, safe positions over and over again!That’s why today’s show is all about helping you experiment, and making the most challenging positions feel smooth and easy -- no physics degree required. Learn how to make reverse cowgirl less confusing and more sexy, how to execute the Kivin Method on a vulva owner, how to 69 without feeling like you’re multitasking, and how to have steamy, sexy shower sex without breaking anything. Plus: we reveal the most-searched sex positions by U.S. state! Pennsylvanians love their oral, and those Texans are pretty dexterous, y’all.Show Notes:Episode: The “Bottom” Line On Anal w/ Dr. Evan GoldsteinTry our free Pleasure PlannerEpisode: Sex Goals For The WinArticle: How to Master These Awkward Sex PositionsArticle: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodJe Joue Mimi Ditto Anal Plug Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s be honest: there are certain myths about sex that are SO common, they seem like truth. Things like: what it means to be wet, what it means to be hard, and what it means if you use a vibrator a lot. But guess what? A ton of the things you and I have both heard about sex aren’t based on science - they’ve just been repeated a lot. So on today’s show, I’m debunking the top sex myths I see and hear, and giving you the actual facts.Click Here to Subscribe.What does it mean about your sexual ability if you’ve had a lot of partners - or conversely, hardly any? We talk about it. How about if you’re not getting wet during sex. Does that mean you’re not turned on? We discuss! Let’s say you use a vibrator a lot - can you get addicted to it? Or my favorite: does having an orgasm mean the sex was good? I tackle both of these. And finally, we face the truth about anal sex, because spoiler alert...it’s not just for gay men.For more information about or to purchase the products mentioned in this podcast, click below:Dame: Practice Your PleasurePromescent: Better In BedShow Notes:Episode: Lube It Or Leave ItEpisode: Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Lehmiller Episode: Seducing the Booty w/ Alicia SinclairB-Vibe: Anal Training Kit & Education Set Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who can read your mind, anticipate your needs 24/7, and fulfill them perfectly? Yeah...me neither. The truth is, deep relationships require deep communication skills, and the most important skill is this: being able to articulate what you need, sexually and otherwise. The result? Way healthier relationship dynamics.Click Here to Subscribe.So on today’s Ask Emily show, I give you communication tools to put in your back pocket, so you can improve your relationship one talk at a time. How about when you’re tired of hookups and want a relationship with real depth? Or maybe, you want more than one relationship? I talk you through ways to approach both.What about when your partner is emotionally detached, or you want your child to grow up with more positive sex messaging than you had? We get into it. Finally, we talk through getting the kind of touch you need in bed because let’s face it - sometimes pain is fun, and sometimes it’s just painful. With the right communication, you can find just the right sweet spot.For more information about or to purchase the products mentioned in this podcast, click below:Foria: Premium CBD ProductsDame: Practice Your PleasureShow Notes:System Jo LubricantsPjur - Sensitive Lube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know Gwyneth Paltrow: actor, CEO of goop, bestselling cookbook author, and cultural conversation starter. But now, Gwyneth’s got a new show on Netflix called “Sex, Love & Goop,” where she hopes to spark another conversation: how couples can save their sex lives, through touch, communication, and giving themselves permission to talk about sex in the first place.Click Here to Subscribe.In this show, I talk to Gwyneth about the healing modalities you see in the series, like sexological bodywork and vulva mapping, as well as the women who crave a different dynamic with their husbands. Gwyneth also tells me how she prioritizes her pleasure, why goop created a beautiful, “sculpture-like” vibrator, why she believes menopause needs to be rebranded, and how nutrition healed her hormones after Covid quarantine. Gwyneth’s accomplished a lot in this life - now, she wants to conquer a taboo, by making sex talks more mainstream. And on my show, that’s exactly what I like to hear.For more information about Gwyneth Paltrow, click below:goop.comFacebookInstagramTwitterFor more information about or to purchase the products mentioned in this podcast, click below:WomanessWe-Vibe BondGood Vibrations: Your Trusted Source For Quality Toys And AccessoriesMagic Wand: The World's Best Selling Massage Wand  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from a mental pattern that’s blocking your pleasure, we all experience sexual roadblocks. Never fear: you can have a sex reset! On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m helping you ID the obstacles to your sexuality, from trauma, to a repressive upbringing, to a disconnect with your partner. And one by one, I help you figure out solutions that open the door to self-exploration.Click Here to Subscribe.What do you do when you’re “spectator-ing” yourself during sex, and battling against mental chatter? Or you’ve got a religious past, that makes sex a bit triggering for you? In both cases, I provide mindfulness techniques that help you quiet the mind, and feel into your pleasure. What about when it’s a block with your partner, when you’re just not on the same page about your desires? I’ve got ideas to normalize sex talks, and help you communicate your needs. How about when you crave a certain type of power dynamic, but aren’t sure how to explore it? I give you ideas for approaching it safely and consensually, with a play partner. This episode is all about self-exploration, and helping you reclaim your full sex potential.For more information about or to purchase the products mentioned in this podcast, click below:Je Joue Mio Vibrating Cock RingSystem Jo LubricantsShow NotesWe-Vibe NovaInstagram: The Holistic Psychologist Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To lots of folks, “foreplay” is shorthand for...hand stuff. But foreplay - or outercourse, as I call it - is actually way more about emotional intelligence, than anything having to do with your fingers. On today’s show, I dive into the psychology of foreplay and intimacy, a fascinating study on the difference between a good’ and ‘bad’ sex life, and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips.Click Here to Subscribe.We also talk about what to do if foreplay and overall sex with your partner has gotten a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself, what to do if your partner isn’t so keen on exploring new things, and how to handle a partner who won’t reciprocate foreplay...after you give them all sorts of pre-game love. Plus, I answer your questions! I share what to do if you find yourself fantasizing about a past crush (while in a committed relationship), and give tips for how to have an orgasm… for the first time.For more information about or to purchase the products mentioned in this podcast, click below:Foria: Premium CBD ProductsMagic Wand: The World's Best Selling Massage WandWe-Vibe BondShow Notes:Episode: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & ConversationEpisode: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna AngelArticle: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?Download my Yes No Maybe ListSystem Jo LubricantsArticle: 6 Tips For Being A Better KisserForia Sex Oil We-Vibe Bond and Moxie b-Vibe Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There are wants, and then, there are needs -- sexual needs, to be precise. On today’s Ask Emily show, everyone has that one need that they’re longing to satisfy...they just don’t know how to do it. Good news: the sex expert has arrived, and I’m here to help you take that vital next step.Click Here to Subscribe.If you’ve never had an orgasm before, but desperately want to, I’ve got some ideas for that. Or if you want a hotter sex life, but your partner shuts down around sex convos, I’ve got communication tips. How about when you want to give your partner a crazy orgasm, but don’t know the right techniques? Yep, we talk about great ones. And finally, if your partner desires sexual experiences like swinging, but you aren’t sure, what in the world do you do? Answer: you listen to this episode! Because I promise, for every sex problem, there is a path forward.  For more information about or to purchase the products mentioned in this podcast, click below:Good Vibrations: Your Trusted Source For Quality Toys And AccessoriesSystem Jo Lubricants Show Notes:Bellesa The Netflix of PornArticle: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful MasturbationEpisode: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & ConversationEpisode: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel Audio Erotica: Dipsea and QuinnBook: Curvy Girl SexThe LiberatorJe Joue Mio Vibrating Cock RingSportsheets b-Vibe: Premium anal play products for next-level butt-gasms Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top five sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one.How do you talk to your partner about sex? I teach you how to broach this conversation with compassion, and how to normalize sex talks in general. How about amping up your sex drive? There are hacks for that! Maybe you want to last longer in bed, get better at oral, or spice up your sex life. There’s a whole world of solutions for those, and I walk you through them. Whether it’s toys, technique, or just a good talk, this episode is all about finding answers, so you can have the pleasure you deserve.For more information about or to purchase the products mentioned in this podcast, click below:We-VibePromescent: Better In BedWomanessShow Notes:System Jo LubricantsJe Joue Mio Vibrating Cock RingGuide: Three Ts of CommunicationGuide: Edging Yes No Maybe ListArticle: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodBook: She Comes FirstEpisode: Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian KernerEpisode: Seducing the Booty w/ Alicia Sinclair Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s the holy grail of sexual connection -- a quality oral sesh. Or...is it? On this best of mashup episode, I’m sharing some top shelf advice on how to up your oral game: both giving, and receiving.Sometimes, hot oral comes down to technique, like the Kivin Method: we talk about why this is so delicious for vulva owners, and how you can execute it. But other times, good oral is more about lip service - no, not that kind, the communication kind. How do you ask for more oral from a partner who’s hesitant? How do you ask for LESS from a partner who’s a little too enthusiastic? And man oh man, what about when you desperately want to give - but your partner has some blocks around it? We get into all of it, alongside my guest Sadie Allison: sexologist, relationship expert and author, who has some A+ hacks to make your next oral sesh super sexy.For more Sadie Allison, click below:Website: www.TickleKitty.comTwitterFacebookShow Notes:Article: Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here’s a secret. The #1 obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing: communication. It’s not a cliche - it’s a skill, and on today’s Ask Emily show, we’re talking our way to better sex. So let’s bravely face the awkwardness, with communication hacks for even the most nerve-wracking of convos.Clamming up during sex talks? I’ve got a confidence-building solution for that. How about giving tough feedback, like asking for better handjobs, or addressing a funky smell? We get into it! Finally, we tackle tough topics like telling a friend you have feelings for them, whether or not to open a relationship, and if you should stay in a partnership if the sex is just OK. Communication is lubrication, but you know what? It’s also liberating, and by the end of this episode, you’ll be feeling a lot freer.Show Notes:Yes, No, Maybe ListEpisode: Hot Sex with STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

No one goes to relationship school, so Dr. John & Julie Gottman created the Gottman Institute to find out what makes relationships work. As today’s guests (and partners for over 30 years), the Gottmans talk about their iconic research, including the myth of compatibility, the four behaviors that tank a relationship, and what is UP with pheromones and attraction. Yep: we’re talking t-shirt smell test.We’re also taking a research-based approach to conflict, and finding out how curiosity and conversation can help you navigate it. Finally, we discuss the Gottmans’ book Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love and take your Instagram questions about vulnerability, attraction, and how to stay sexually connected -- even when you’re exhausted.For more information about Drs John and Julie Gottman, visit: gottman.comShow Notes:Book: For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality by Lonnie BarbachApp: Gottman Card DecksFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/askemily. For more sexy fun, including blogs, photos, videos or to stream this show, visit sexwithemily.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Comedians are paid to be funny, but on today’s throwback show, four of my four guests are getting real about sex - while, of course, being hilarious. Dean McDermott talks chemistry, porn versus Fleshlights, and how he and wife Tori Spelling keep things sexy with five (five!) kids. Nicky Paris is trying to bring down his walls around intimacy, and avoid having his head pushed down for oral. I applaud both.Margaret Cho deems herself a lifelong submissive, and talks about the contours of sexuality and BDSM, all while being bisexual and radically open to different ages. Finally, Adam Ferrara joins me to discuss negative self-talk, effective tools he uses in his marriage, and helps me answer your calls on everything from sexual compatibility to bedroom communication. Come for the laughs, stay for the sex.For more information about Dean McDermott, visit: Instagram TwitterFor more information about Nicky Paris, visit: Facebook Instagram TwitterFor more information about Margaret Cho, visit: Website Facebook Instagram TwitterFor more information about Adam Ferrara, click below: Website Facebook Instagram Twitter For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, it’s all about finding answers to your trickiest questions and unleashing your full pleasure potential. How do you orgasm when you don’t know how? Or have sex for the first time, when you’re a virgin? How do you ease into an open relationship or threesome? How do you find balance in your masturbation routine?Whether you’re too dry (and it’s puzzling your partner), or too wet (and it’s puzzling both of you) I help you figure out solutions to overcome your biggest sexual challenges.Show Notes: We-Vibe Rave Je Joue Uma  Bellesa The Netflix of Porn Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation Audio Erotica: Dipsea and Quinn Book: The Body Knows The Score Episode: It’s All In Your Head w/ Dr. Anadel Barbour WomanessFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Most of us think of arousal and desire as spontaneous, even a little mysterious. But on today’s show, I’m joined by the incredible Pamela Madsen, founder of Back to the Body, and sex & intimacy coach Court Vox, who myth-bust that assumption entirely. When you’re ready to go from erotically numb to erotically alive, they know exactly how to get the sexual energy going again. In this episode, they talk about low libido (and its likely culprit: high boredom), how to create a new relationship with your body, and how the right touch can unleash both deep desire...and deep healing.Pamela and Court also talk to us about their retreats (two words: pleasure demos), plus: we answer your questions! We talk to you about how to feel more confident in the bedroom, whether it’s ok to pleasure a partner when you yourself never orgasm, and how to have your best curvy girl sex.For more information about Pamela Madsen, MS, CSB, visit: http://backtothebody.orgFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Attention: the orgasm has left the building. What does it mean when you can orgasm with one partner, but not another? Or when you can squirt, but not climax? How do we create those delicious sensations, without getting too up in our head about it?On today’s Hotline Calls show, we’re talking all about orgasm and how to unlock it. I answer your questions on how to orgasm for the first time (at any age), what to do when you’re unable to orgasm with a new partner, how overall health affects your ability to climax, and how to create masturbation routines that support the orgasms you deserve. Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).Show Notes:Je Joue Mimi SoftEpisode: Best Of: Sexually Fit w/ Mind Pumpb-Vibe: Premium anal play products for next-level butt-gasms.Episode: Seducing The Booty w/ Alicia SinclairDame Pom is great for exploration. Eva for a couples toy We-Vibe Nova II for internal and external pleasure Pjur Lube For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us are ready to sex-periment right now. Justin shares fascinating sex research from the COVID era, the sex communication practices heterosexual individuals can learn from the LGBTQ+ community, and how to make casual sex better for women. (Spoiler alert: emphasize her pleasure.)We also unpack the Kinsey Scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular fantasy, and what our porn preferences reveal (and don’t reveal) about us. Finally, we talk about sex education as it’s practiced in The Netherlands, and give you some incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex (because it’s really important!).For more information about Dr. Justin Lehmiller, click below: Website Facebook Instagram TwitterFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So you want sex on the daily, but as for your partner? Not really. Not to worry! Today’s hotline calls episode takes a look at mismatched sex drives, and what might actually be behind them. We’re also diving into penis size, pleasure, and communication. There are so many ways to enjoy a penis - but first, ya gotta talk about what you BOTH want.We’re also tackling a case of sexsomnia (aka having sex in your sleep), and how to make eye contact during sex (when you’re awake). If you’d like to ask me a question, you can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).Show Notes:Episode: First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome Find an EMDR therapist: EMDRIA.orgFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback show, I’m joined by Sal, Adam, and Justin from the Mind Pump health and wellness show. We discuss how your mindset can get you into the best shape, common misconceptions about fitness training and testosterone, ways to naturally boost your libido, and the difference between self-image and body image. Plus, we explore how your physical health impacts your sex life, and the guys dive into the fascinating relationship between libido and physical activity. Trust me when I say the bedroom and the weight room are more connected than you think! I also answer your questions about how to confidently have sex on top, what it means if you feel physically “off” after masturbating and why we should send some love to an often-overlooked erogenous zone. For more Mind Pump, visit: mindpumpfree.com New Book The Resistance Training Revolution: The No-Cardio Way to Burn Fat and Age-Proof Your Body―in Only 60 Minutes a Week YouTube Instagram Facebook TwitterFor more information about or to purchase the products mentioned in this podcast, click below: Promescent: Better In Bed Magic Wand: The World's Best Selling Massage WandFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Esther Perel is one of the most fascinating thinkers today on issues of desire, sex, and relationships. As an author and psychotherapist, she helps therapy patients (and the general public) understand the complexities of love and desire with provocative questions. How do you turn yourself on? How do you balance your need for safety and security, and on the other hand, your need for adventure and novelty? Can you want what you already have? As the author of the iconic “Mating In Captivity” and another bestseller, “The State of Affairs,” Esther is reshaping society’s views of sexuality and eroticism -- and arguably, healing them.In today’s episode, we talk about the difference between sexual and emotional needs, how you can calibrate your expectations of marriage, and why people in happy relationships still cheat. We also discuss her new game “Where Should We Begin,” answer a listener’s question about how to handle anxiety in relationships, and her number one piece of advice for having better sex.For more Esther Perel, visit estherperel.comShow Notes:The Pleasure PlannerFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you remember the sex you had in college? Or maybe you’re just now embarking on this exciting adventure and have no idea what to expect? While college is an *amazing* time for independence and exploration, it also comes with uncharted territory and first-time sexual dilemmas. Today, I’m breaking down everything you need to know about sex in college. I’m sharing what I wish I knew before my first year and some of YOUR hottest college hookup stories.Plus I answer your questions about how to make one night stands more pleasurable, how to know if it’s time to break up with your long term partner for new sexual experiences, what to do if your asexual identity or virginity makes it harder for you to connect with potential partners and how to find partners who value more than just casual hookups. I also talk to certified health coach Katrina Wright about how she has transcended during her time at college into a healthier relationship with herself and her romantic partners.Show Notes:Magic WandSystem Jo LubricantsSex Tips I Wish I knew In My 20s Ask Emily: How Do I Get More Comfortable w/ Dirty TalkJe Joue Mimi SoftDame - EvaFor more information about Katrina Wright, visit: thesculptyou.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you curious about anal play, but don’t know where to get started? It’s Anal August, so we’ve invited certified sex educator and B-Vibe CEO Alicia Sinclair on the show to break down all things booty. In today’s episode, we talk about how to experiment with beginner butt play, avoiding common anal mistakes, progressing your anal play (from analingus to penetration), and the best products for anal training and butt orgasms—yup, they’re real.Plus, we answer your questions about the best ways to prep and unwind after engaging in any sort of butt stuff, how to actually find your prostate, how to let go of shame and replace it with glorious anal pleasure.Show Notes:Woo More PlayArticle: Anal Massage: Master the Best Anal Foreplay TechniquesOHNUT Pjur LubeAnerosAlicia's last appearance on Sex w/ Emily: Snug Plugs, Butt Hugs, & b-Vibes with Alicia SinclairFor more information about Alicia Sinclair, visit: bvibe.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How has culture shaped your sexuality? According to my guest Dr. Shefali Tsabury, culture has conditioned us to suppress, cheat, and lie to ourselves. But radically authentic love and desire IS possible if we’re willing to confront common myths and make the conscious decision to live free.In this fascinating conversation, Dr. Shefali talks about how to rethink marriage as a model for growth, whether monogamy is natural (or not), and how to replace societal conditioning with something more wild, interesting, and frankly pretty sexy: worthiness.For more information about Dr. Shefali, visit: DrShefali.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, what to do if your partner’s penis is too big for anal, what to do if YOU like giving oral but your partner isn’t as down to receive, and how to enjoy casual dating.If you’d like to ask me a question, you can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).Show Notes:O NutYes, No, Maybe Listb-Vibe - Anal KitFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you want a little more kink in your life, but aren’t sure how to get started? If so...you’ll definitely want to tune into my interview with professional dominatrix & kink expert, Mistress Justine Cross. We discuss the myths and basics of BDSM starting with what the hell it even means (bondage, discipline, domination, submission, and masochism). We show you how to begin exploring your kinks even if you are brand new to the game and we discuss some of the most common fantasies.We also answer your questions about: techniques for restraining your partner (fun!), the importance of communicating your fantasies, and how to explore dom/sub dynamics.For more information about Justine Cross, visit: losangelesdominatrix.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, I am answering all of your pressing calls from the Sex with Emily hotline! We get into some great topics like how to start enjoying receiving oral sex, ways to spice up your honeymoon sex without actual penetration, and what to do if you aren’t getting as wet as you used to during sex. Plus, new methods for giving oral sex to prevent discomfort and how to decide if it’s worth staying in your relationship after seven years (and three children).You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).Show Notes:Massage Candles at Good Vibrationsb-Vibe Beginner Anal Kit Fin by DameSystem Jo Lubricants Bellesa The Netflix of PornAudio Erotica: QuinnYes, No, Maybe ListFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s part two with one of the world’s most sought-after dating and relationship experts, Matthew Hussey. We continue the conversation and dive into how to build chemistry (and how that differs from connection), signs that someone is actually invested in you, ways to foster attraction without losing a sense of yourself, and the drawbacks of what Matthew calls ‘the one day wager.’We also discuss the importance of consistency in your actions and words, the difference between healthy romance and love bombing, common red flags (and why they so often get ignored), when you should first sleep with someone, and whether or not Matthew Hussey believes in ‘the one.’Missed part one of my interview with Matthew? Listen to it here.For more Matthew Hussey visit MHChallenge.com Matthew's 9 Texts YouTube Instagram TwitterFor more information about or to purchase the products mentioned in this podcast, click below: Foria: Premium CBD Products Magic Wand: The World's Best Selling Massage Wand b-Vibe: Premium anal play products for next-level butt-gasms. For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this show, I’m joined by relationship and life coach, author, and YouTube personality Matthew Hussey. We discuss whether or not “casual dating” actually exists, why rejection is actually a GOOD thing, how dating apps have changed the dating world (and how to actually meet people IRL), and the root cause of problematic dating patterns. Plus, Matthew shares his exclusive three layers of confidence and tools to build your self-esteem. After all, who doesn’t find confidence in hot AF?We also talk about how we can use relationships to learn about ourselves, why it's important to feel embodied while dating, how much you should invest in a potential partner, why falling in love quickly can be a red flag, and the importance of therapy and mentorship. P.S.Make sure you subscribe to hear Friday’s part two of this interview. Things get even juicier...For more Matthew Hussey visit matthewhussey.com howtogettheguy.com YouTube Instagram TwitterFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, I’m joined by psychological astrologer and returning guest Dr. Jennifer Freed. We answer your questions on how to spot a sensual lover, useful tools for addressing low libido, how to pursue a threesome or open relationship, how to easily create intimacy in a relationship, what your Zodiac signs say (or don’t say) about compatibility with your partner, what to do if your hookup buddy wants a relationship (but you don’t), and the mind-blowing effects of EMDR therapy.We also share our top methods to build erotic tension and why focusing too much on your partner’s desire can hold you back in the bedroom. As an added bonus, we walk through ways to reach your ‘power yes’ in sex, the effects of toxic masculinity, and how to communicate as an invitation—not a confrontation.Show Notes:Episode: Sex Up Your Love LanguageEMDRIA.org: Resources for EMDR therapy  Yes, No, Maybe ListFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever had sex with an ex? Or tried to be friends with your ex? On today’s show, I am joined by MY real-life ex-boyfriend and opening up about our past, including our favorite (sexual) memories. We discuss the evolution of our relationship from falling in love, to why we broke up (“the ass is always greener”). For the first time, we talk about what we both learned from the relationship and our regrets. We share practical advice for how to become friends with your ex based on our experience. Hint: you have to want the same thing.Plus, I answer your questions! I discuss ways to hook up and date someone new after a breakup, tools to initiate a difficult conversation, and how to heal insecurities and heartache after separating from your partner.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Everyone wants to feel loved. But what if there was a way to give love, that could also lead to hotter, more connected sex? On today’s show, I share how to crack the code on the 5 Love languages to amp up the connection in all of your important relationships. Plus, I answer your questions like: what to do if you have a different love language than your partner (which is more common than you think), how to show love in a long distance relationship and specific ways to express yourself sexually based on you and your partner’s love languages.Then I answer your questions about what to do if you accidentally give your partner feedback on his penis when he didn’t ask and what to do when you are no longer sexually attracted to your girlfriend.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.comShow Notes: More Information on The Love LanguagesJe Joue Mimi Soft  Bellesa Yes No Maybe List Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, I’m throwing it back to a question on everyone’s mind: how to have multiple orgasms. Yes, it is possible! I share in-depth tips for how you can prep your body and mind to make this goal a reality.Plus, I discuss how to make initiating sex an equal playing field while in a dom/sub relationship, ways to transition your sexting relationship into real life, what to do after getting caught having sex in public (by your parents!) and how to get your needs met when your partner is sexually selfish.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.comShow Notes:Magic Wand Womanizer Je Joue  Uma  Mimi Ami kegel set  Dame KipB-vibe Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s Best of episode, I’m explaining how to spot red flags when you’re dating someone new, healthy ways to address conflict, and actionable tips to amp up a low sex drive.I also take your calls about getting past jealousy in an open relationship, what to do when you want more sex than your partner, and how squirting can happen even without an orgasm. Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).Show Notes:Episode Bedroom Goals & Relationship Roles with Lisa BilyeuFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s Ask Emily show, I answer your sex and relationship questions. I cover what to do if you’re questioning your sexuality while married with kids, how to initiate your first threesome, when (if ever) you should tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with, and ways to get more comfortable while giving oral sex.I also talk about what to do if the porn you watch makes you feel guilty, how to approach exploring a fetish without shame, what to do if you disagree with your partner about having another child and what it means when you cry after sex.Show Notes:Yes No Maybe ListFetlife#OpenFeeld For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex with Emily hotline. Topics include: how to tell your partner you want more oral sex, what to do if you can’t get over the sex you had with your toxic ex, how to explore your bisexuality without unnecessary drama, the best ways to avoid negative thought patterns while dating and how to explore mutual masturbation and edging with a partner.Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback show, I’m discussing the ins and outs of a fantasy that has become a lot more popular: cuckolding or “hot wifery”. I share tips to bring up your fantasy with your partner, why people enjoy it, how you can navigate FFM and MMF threesomes, and what to consider before you dive into your next sexual fantasy.I also take your calls and answer questions like how to get over the jitters when you want to go to the strip club with your husband for the first time, and what to do when your partner has extreme separation anxiety when you leave town and why writing your own erotica can be incredibly hot (and even help with initiating sex).For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Confidence is everything. It affects the way we perceive ourselves, how we interact with others, and definitely shapes our sex life. On today’s show, I am joined by Serena Kerrigan, the ‘Queen of Confidence.’Serena talks about what she has learned from going on over 50 online dates with men during quarantine, how to make the post-pandemic “whoring twenties” fun, and her passion for masturbation. Plus, we answer your questions like how to feel confident after hooking up for the first time and how to feel sexy no matter what.Find Serena here:serenakerrigan.comInstagramFacebookTwitterFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wonder what happens behind the scenes of your favorite porn? Today I’m joined by adult film director Jacky St. James and performer Ana Foxxx. We discuss their hottest scenes, what it’s like being on set, what constitutes ‘ethical porn’ and whether porn actors fake their orgasms.Plus, Jacky walks me through her approach to creating an adult film and how porn has evolved over time. Ana shares what it’s like dating as a porn star, details from her dirty 30 birthday party, and how porn has shaped her sex life on and off-screen. We also answer your questions like: is porn scripted or spontaneous and is it normal to get jealous when your partner watches porn? Find Jacky St. James here:jackystjames.comInstagramTwitterFind Ana Foxxx here:OnlyFansInstagramTwitter Show Notes:Bellesa Erika LustFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily hotline. We get into how to handle it when your partner wants to have sex with someone else and stay in your relationship, what it means when you fantasize about your ex, how soon is too soon to start dating someone new after a breakup, and ways to avoid ghosting.Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). Can’t wait to hear from you! Show notes: Yes No Maybe ListPleasure PlannerEpisode: Squirting Secrets w/ Deborah SundahlEpisode: Am I Normal w/ Dr. Maria UlokoFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking about the #1, most-common fantasy: threesomes. I explore why threesomes can be hot and lay out some ground rules for making a threesome work. We talk about everything you should discuss with your partner before adding a third into the mix and the importance of aftercare (what happens after your threesome). I also share my personal threesome experiences, both the satisfying one and the one that didn’t go as planned. I describe what steps you can take to try and maximize everyone’s pleasure while indulging in this fantasy.Plus, I answer your questions about the hottest moves to try when penetration is off the table, what to do when you’ve gotten too involved with your neighbor’s 19-year-old son, and how to get the most out of masturbation using CBD, ethical porn, and fantasy.Show Notes:FetLifeFeeld#openFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Who is ready for a hotter, wetter summer? Today, I’m joined by squirting expert, author, and educator Deborah Sundahl, a pioneer in female ejaculation and G-spot (or g-area) anatomy. Deborah and I discuss the difference between squirting and having an orgasm, a step-by-step guide to tapping into your squirting potential, where the G-spot (aka female prostate) is located and how to find it, and the best sex position to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm.We answer your top questions about how to squirt and what ejaculate consists of, and the best ways to make sure you and your partner can relax and experience all the pleasure and release of a full-body orgasm.Find Deborah Sundahl here: https://deborahsundahl.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure your sex life follows suit. In this episode, I’m sharing ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom.I also answer your questions, like how to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties, where to (safely) have sex in public, how to navigate a friends-with-benefits relationship, and what to do with penis anxiety if your partner plays with a toy bigger than you.Show Notes: Yes No Maybe ListJe Joue Mimi Soft VibratorJe Joue G-Spot Bullet VibratorEmily’s Vesper Vibrating NecklaceJe Joue Mio Penis Ringb-VibeSystem Jo LubricantsForia: Premium CBD ProductsDame Hands-Free EvaDame Finger Vibe  Episode: Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex w/ Dr. Ian KernerBellesa Ethical PornFeeld DatingFetLife#OpenFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wonder if your penis/vulva/genitalia are normal? In this episode, I’m joined by urologist Dr. Maria Uloko who’s revolutionizing sexual healthcare. We get into why vulva-owners need testosterone, what happens when penis-owners masturbate too aggressively, how shame can interfere with getting the care you need, and how common it is to experience sexual dysfunction.I also answer your questions including when it’s time to date again after a toxic relationship, what to do when your partner’s porn preferences look nothing like you, how to be dominant in the bedroom and toy recs to amplify oral sex on a vulva. Show Notes:Bellesa - Ethical Porn Yes No Maybe ListJe Joue Uma G-Spot VibratorJe Joue G-Spot Bullet Vibrator Glass Dildos at Good VibrationsFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I’m taking more of your most pressing questions from the Sex With Emily hotline. We’re covering what to do if you can’t stop fantasizing about women (but you’re in a healthy relationship with a man), if your birth control is tanking your sex drive, why bisexual men are often shamed, how to bring back intimacy after a baby, and what to do if your partner won’t share their sexual desires.Inspired to ask for my opinion? Call and leave a voicemail with your question! You can reach me at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). Can’t wait to hear from you!For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, I am joined by activist, author, and queer commentator Jeffrey Marsh to discuss all things gender. Regardless of how you identify, Jeffrey’s radical self-acceptance will help you to gain a new perspective, have a different understanding of yourself and allow you to stop any negative self-talk. Jeffrey breaks down the difference between confidence self-acceptance, how fearlessly demanding respect from others frees you up to fully be yourself, and their experience as the first openly non-binary person on television.We share the basics of gender pronouns, the difference between being trans and non-binary, how gender differs from sexual orientation, and how parents can support their children regardless of their identity. We also dive into Jeffrey’s book How to Be You, what happens during meditation and self-care journeys, and why learning to ask for what you need is crucial for healthy relationships.For more information about Jeffrey Marsh (they/them), visit: http://jeffreymarsh.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s Best of episode, I am joined by renowned biological anthropologist and author of Anatomy of Love, Dr. Helen Fisher. We discuss whether love at first sight is possible, how our personality traits shape our attraction to others and the way our biology influences who we love.We dive into the parts of your brain responsible for your sex drive, romantic love, and deep attachment. Dr. Fisher also shares findings from studies she has done with Match to answer the question: why do you fall in love with one person rather than another? We also explore the best age to marry, why orgasms create connection, the importance of space in a relationship and why casual sex is not really so casual (hint: catching feelings is real). You can take Dr. Fisher’s personality test to learn about how your personality impacts who you love and how you bond.Take Dr. Fisher’s Personality Test here: https://theanatomyoflove.com/relationship-quizzes/helen-fishers-personality-test/For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I take calls from our Sex With Emily Hotline and we get into it! Your questions include: what to do if you masturbate but can’t orgasm during sex, the best ways to meet people and date when newly sober, and what happens when your partner’s sexual fantasy creates issues in your relationship. Plus, I review how to start having sex again after a dry spell and when it might be time to break up if you’re sexually incompatible.You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Show Notes:Yes, No, Maybe List https://sexwithemily.com/guides/Article: How To Have Sex in a Full House https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-have-sex-when-youre-in-a-full-house/Logan Ury Episode: https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-not-die-alone-w-logan-ury/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Social media is becoming the “third'' partner in so many of our relationships, but it’s not the threesome most of us are craving.Sure, it’s a great way to connect, but it can take a major toll on our sex lives. Today’s episode gets into the good, bad, and questionable impacts of social media. I answer your top questions like, what does it mean if my partner follows a bunch of Instagram models? If my partner is paying for Only Fans, does it count as cheating? And is it okay to check my partner's phone? (We surveyed our listeners and you might be surprised how many of you have snooped.)Also, how does all the endless scrolling affect your confidence? I offer advice on how to manage the relationship with your phone, so you can stop the “compare and despair” mindset and build stronger relationships with yourself and others.A special thanks to our interns, Maria and Erica, who helped produce this episode.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I’m joined by meditation teacher, speaker, and author Light Watkins to share how we can better practice mindfulness in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss how meditation can transform relationships, reduce stress, and allow you to be more present during all areas of your life—including sex.Plus, we’re sharing easy hacks to curate a meditation routine, how you can cultivate happiness and fulfillment, and why training your brain is important to your overall well-being. Light also shares the ways that sex is similar to meditation, the importance of following your intuition, how to foster true positive change, and the best ways to maintain a gratitude practice.For more information about Light Watkins, visit: https://www.lightwatkins.com/For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s the most wonderful time of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s show, I’m honoring a month of self-love by giving you a brief history of the celebration (no, I didn’t make it up), the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys for bringing you pleasure all year long.Plus, I’m answering your questions like what to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator, why masturbation may be your key to success if you keep orgasm blocking yourself in the bedroom, signs that you’re masturbating too much and how to get rid of religious shame surrounding masturbation. Show Notes:Mutual Masturbation Guide: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ The Psychology and Shame of Masturbation: https://sexwithemily.com/psychology-and-shame-of-masturbation/ Je Joue Mimi Clitoral Vibe, G-Spot Vibe, Bullet Vibe, & Mio Penis Ring: http://www.sexwithemily.com/jejoue Magic Wand: http://bit.ly/2UqVf38 Tenga Egg Masturbators: http://bit.ly/2hNwnDe Foria Lube: https://bit.ly/3rJFggP  For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit https://sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Nikki Glaser, comedian, and host of The Nikki Glaser Podcast. We discuss how to take oral sex to the next level, why a great orgasm can lead to an intense connection, and the power of tapping into a person’s “energy” on a date.Nikki also shares her go-to sex toys, favorite types of porn, experience with squirting, and personal journey with mental health and body acceptance. We also dive into the hidden pleasure of canceled plans, why feeling horny can be like being drunk, and why your flaws DON’T make you a bad person.Show Notes:Pat Allen - Getting To I DoKink.comBellesaFor more information about Nikki Glaser, visit: nikkiglaser.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’m joined by sexologist, relationships expert, body image specialist, and author of Playing Without a Partner Dr. Megan Stubbs. We dive into how to embrace every aspect of singlehood (hello, masturbation!) and why being single doesn’t have to be a layover, it can be your destination. We give tips for loving your body, ways to elevate your orgasm, and how to alleviate skin hunger when you aren’t in a relationship. Plus, we’re sharing tips for sending nudes, ways to create an optimal pre-date ritual, and ideas for being with a new partner.We also answer your questions about what to do if you feel insecure about the number of people you have slept with, how to increase emotional intimacy in the bedroom and what to do if you feel you’re in a “dry spell.”Show Notes:Yes No Maybe ListFor more information about Dr. Megan Stubbs, visit: sexologistmegan.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’m joined by board-certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman to talk about virtually every penis topic there is and explore how overcoming your penis challenges can boost your sex life. He even shares some cautionary tales about penis fractures when your partner is on top.We discuss the most common penis challenges (low testosterone, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction) and ways to work through them, how to get your brain on board when you’re dealing with performance anxiety, and how a penis implant actually works. Dr. Karpman also breaks down the pivotal role testosterone plays in your sex life, how his patients think about their penis size and the benefits and drawbacks of pills that treat erectile dysfunction.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I’m joined by the fabulous and entertaining hosts of The LadyGang; Keltie Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jac Vanek. We set intentions together and give recipes for feeling sexy after the pandemic, ways to give a killer bj (without it feeling like well, a job), and the different kinds of desire. Plus, I share the best ways to clean your sex toys, my most common listener questions, and what happens when TSA pulls your bag full of vibrators.I also answer your questions about alleviating pain during sex, how to let your partner know you have been faking your orgasms, and what’s actually happening when you squirt.Show Notes: UVee Home PlayStrokers Magic Wand System Jo Flavored LubeFor more information about LadyGang, visit: theladygang.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Anal sex isn’t as taboo as it once was but many people are still too shy to explore it. Today, I’m talking with nationally renowned anal surgeon and expert Dr. Evan Goldstein, about all things anal. From how to clean up before backdoor play (did you know you can be too clean?), to tips to enhance pleasure and the wide variety of things to try while you’re back there, we’ve got you covered.I also discuss how to address mismatched libidos in a relationship, tips Dr. Evan gives tips on how to relax, toys that can help, and which lubes are best for every act imaginable. We also break down lube shooters, how to minimize the risk of exposing yourself to STIs and what to consider whether you’re a top or a bottom. for getting ready for anal play, how feeling pressure to initiate and perform can affect the quality of your sex life, and the best ways to approach potential partners. For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s Best Of roundup, I break down attitudes about oral sex, the oral double standard, the evolutionary significance of oral sex, how to overcome vibrator intimidation, tips for alleviating delayed ejaculation, ways to combat sexual insecurities, and what to do when you’ve given up on having an orgasm (hint: don’t give up).I also discuss how to address mismatched libidos in a relationship, tips for getting ready for anal play, how feeling pressure to initiate and perform can affect the quality of your sex life, and the best ways to approach potential partners.Show notes:FAQ: How Can I Get Better at Oral Sex?6 Oral Sex Tips for Going Down on a VulvaMind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin MethodAsk Emily: I Hate Giving My Partner Oral SexFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Renowned clinical sex therapist and best-selling author, Ian Kerner Ph.D. joins me today to talk about sex scripts, why fantasies are important for a relationship, the dynamics of kink, porn as “homework” and how to get into a flow state during sex. Dr. Kerner is the author of the legendary book She Comes First, “the thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woman” and he just released a new book So, Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. We cover a lot in this interview including what has changed in his last 20+ years as a practicing sex therapist. Hint: erectile dysfunction in younger men is real.Dr. Kerner (“the man who made oral sex into an art form”) walks us through his latest book and explains how you can decode and rewrite your relationship’s sex script and bring your erotic self into the bedroom to transform your sex life. We discuss the importance of psychological arousal, what happens to your body during the honeymoon phase, when to challenge the monogamy script, what to do when there is a “desire discrepancy” in a relationship and so much more.“When it comes to sex and relationship problems, many of us are leading lives of quiet desperation. Sometimes you can be lying in bed next to someone and feel a million miles apart. Talking about sex and relationships is hard, but self-silencing can be even harder in the long run.” – Dr. KernerShow Notes:Ian's New Book: So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had SexGetting Cliterate w/ Dr. Ian KernerRosemary BassonEmily Nagoski, Ph.D.The Kinsey InstituteFor more information about Ian Kerner, visit: IanKerner.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happy 4/20! I’m joined by badass medicine woman, spiritual mentor, and rap priestess Lizzy Jeff to break down how cannabis can elevate your bedroom experiences. We discuss how to use THC and CBD for sex, the importance of getting high with intention, the necessity for healing sexual experiences, and why high sex is hot AF.We also share how to find the best strains and doses for users of all experience levels, the importance of quality cannabis, our OWN relationships to weed+sex, and how “sex magick” can transform your life. Plus, we answer your questions about whether or not marijuana can improve orgasms, cottonmouth (not fun for oral), and how to shift your energy out of your head and into your body.For more information about Lizzy Jeff, visit: lizzyjeff.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How well do you know the vulva and vagina? In this episode, I’m joined by four guests to break down all things V. We’re talking about how to take care of your vulva, the importance of strengthening your pelvic floor, WTF is up with menopause, and so much more. My first guest is OB/GYN, author of the She-Ology book series, and an expert in all things women’s sexual health, Dr. Sherry Ross. She shares the benefits of getting to know your (or your partner’s) vulva, the relationship between insecurity and porn, solutions for painful sex, and of course, squirting.Next, we have MaryEllen Reider, from Yarlap, who joins me to talk about the importance of the pelvic floor muscles. Did you know that stronger pelvic floor muscles can make stronger orgasms? It’s true! Finally, the founder of Tabu, Natalie Waltz, and her mother, Ouhoud Dabbas help me demystify menopause and discuss how masturbation can help increase your libido.For more information about Dr. Sherry, visit: drsherry.comFor more information about MaryEllen Reider & Yarlap, visit: yarlap.comFor more information about Natalie Waltz & Ouhoud Dabbas, visit: heytabu.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The brain is the largest and most important sex organ. So on today’s Best Of, I’m joined by one of the world experts on optimal brain performance, Jim Kwik. We talk about how to sharpen and focus your memory (no more forgetting your anniversary), specific steps to activate a healthy brain, and the best foods to give your brain a boost.You’ll be able to follow along as we walk through very specific, impactful, and easy to learn exercises you can use right away –– because a big, healthy brain is always sexy.For more on Jim Kwik visit jimkwik.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Fact: Your STI doesn’t make you ANY less sexy! In today's episode, I’m joined by the author of Strange Bedfellows and medical consultant, Dr. Ina Park who has made it her life's work to reduce the shame and stigma associated with sexually transmitted infections, AKA, STIs. Ina shares everything you need to know if you or someone you’re sleeping with is infected, how to reduce your risk of transmission, and when to disclose your status to a partner.We also discuss Ina’s #1 tip for STI prevention, what to know about how your personal grooming can impact transmission and a surprising discovery about The Bachelor’s casting process. Finally, we answer your questions about transmission through oral sex, when it’s possible to get intimate without a condom and why having an STI isn’t a death sentence for your relationships. Let’s ditch the shame and bring on the sex.For more information about Dr. Ina Park, visit: inapark.netFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After a year of social distancing, many of us have forgotten how to flirt and date IRL. The good news: with a little practice, you’ll be stronger and sexier than ever before. In this episode, I cover the lessons we’ve learned from a year of isolation and digital dating and I also take a look at what might be in store for us in the year ahead. I walk you through how to regain confidence, uplevel your flirting skills, and important questions to ask yourself before jumping back out there.I also answer questions about what to know when considering a “friend with benefits” arrangement, how to prepare for sex after a dry spell, getting back with an ex, and dating post-divorce.Show Notes:Love Language quizFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if the euphoric bliss from an orgasm was captured in other moments of your daily life? Whether you’re eating a meal or spending time outside, prioritizing sensuality helps you start to experience what today’s guests like to call “orgasmic living.” I’m joined by the creators of Afrosexology, Dalychia Saah and Rafaella Fiallo who join me to discuss the power of this life-changing concept. Their mission is to empower, educate and explore Black sexuality and self-improvement through sexual liberation.We discuss their journey into creating Afrosexology, the importance of embodiment, the power of centering pleasure and being intentional in the present moment. We also demystify different aspects of kink, polyamory, and compersion, so that you can see if any of these are things you’d want to add to your sex life. Plus, we answer your questions about prioritizing your pleasure as much as your partner’s and feeling more connected during and after sexual experiences.For more information about Dalychia Saah & Rafaella Fiallo , visit: afrosexology.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it a million times: there should be a bottle of lube (or more) on every nightstand. I mean, seriously just a few drops can transform your sex and amplify the amount of pleasure. But, it can be difficult to know what kind of lube is best suited for you and your needs.On today’s show, I break down the best lubes for masturbation, anal, penetrative, and oral sex. I share the results of our Better Sex Survey sponsored by Pjur Lube. I cover products that are safe for a vagina’s PH and some household items that are better kept in the kitchen than inside of you. I also discuss what your wetness really means, the transformation lube can have with discomfort during sex, how sex increases intimacy between you and your partner, and how penis size can change with an erection.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ahh, the honeymoon phase. You know that euphoric period of time at the beginning of a relationship where your partner seems perfect and you can’t keep your hands off one another? Fast forward a few months (or sometimes years) and that initial spark begins to fade and those feel-good chemicals start to wear off. What then? Today, I share why the honeymoon phase is so intoxicating, why our feelings change over time, and how to strengthen your relationship so that it survives the initial fading of happy hormones.I answer your questions about what to do when your partner asks you to be in a threesome but it’s not your fantasy, how to communicate to your partner that their Instagram habits make you uncomfortable, and what to do when you feel like you have become more friends than lovers with your significant other.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Logan Ury, the author of How to Not Die Alone and director of Relationship Science at Hinge, joins me to share her best tips for all things dating. Logan provides practical tips for avoiding dating blindspots, the drawbacks of unrealistic expectations, and algorithms to live by for finding a satisfying relationship.We discuss how ‘dealbreakers’ may be an excuse for avoiding connection, how attachment styles affect our dating outcomes, the paradox of choice in the dating world, and how to get out of the checklist mindset. She also breaks down the most common dating tendencies, shares strategies behind making the best decisions, explains why ‘the spark’ may be B.S., and even offers how-to advice for creating a powerful dating profile. Even if you’re not dating, you will learn techniques that will strengthen all your relationships.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex can get stale but today I focus on ways to keep it fresh. In this Best Of episode, I share some sex hacks that bring back spontaneity in easy and creative ways. I share new uses for pillows, ideas for games you can play anywhere, and tricks to make doggy-style even better.I answer your questions about how to know if you should end a long-distance relationship, why prostate orgasms feel so good, and what to do if your partner’s porn habits lead to problems in the bedroom.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What’s your biggest fantasy? It might be watching your partner with someone else, group sex, or sex in a public place. All answers are welcome because there’s no shame in your fantasy game! In this episode, I discuss the psychology behind your fantasies, how to bring them up with a partner and why having a rich fantasy life is an important part of your overall sexual health. Then I reveal the top fantasies you shared with me on Instagram.I also answer your questions including, what to do if you fantasize about a best friend, how to be a third in a threesome, and explore latex, panty, and foot fetishes.Show Notes:Podcast with Justin LehmillerDating apps: Craigslist, Feeld, OkCupid, FetLife, Adult Friend Finder, #Open Yes, No, Maybe ListTips For Better Communication Free GuideFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Quarantine has caused many of us to experience a “starvation diet” of physical touch and now it’s to feast. The lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety or depression, on today’s show I’ll share how you can find more touch and intimacy in your daily life.I also answer questions about how to get back out there and date while newly sober, how to bring the excitement back in a sexless relationship, and how to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom.Show Notes: Yes, No, Maybe listPleasure PlannerFrequently Asked Sex Questions WomanizerFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if being happy was a moral obligation, like voting and recycling? Would you take steps to be happier? Today, I’m joined by brain health expert, and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how our thinking patterns shape our lives in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss the ways stress affects your sexual performance, give tips to combat your automatic negative thoughts (ANTS), and discuss his new book Your Brain is Always Listening.We answer a question from a habitual cheater on how to break the cycle and discuss how Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) can get in the way of your orgasm. I also answer your Rapid Fire questions covering everything from tips for hotter shower sex to bring up your kink to a partner.Show notes:Find out which dragons you have here: KnowYourDragons.comOrder Dr. Amen’s latest book Your Brain Is Always Listening here: YourBrainIsAlwaysListening.comFor more information about Dr. Daniel Amen, visit: danielamenmd.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Your masturbation class is in session. In today’s episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure.I answer your questions about how to try masturbation when you never have, which sex toys to use, and the magic of mutual masturbation. I get into the tricky relationship between shame and fantasy and discuss how often you should masturbate in a relationship—it’s probably more than you think!For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this Sex With Emily best of, I’m joined by sex and intimacy coach John Wineland to discuss the driving force behind attraction, sexual connection, and desire. We discuss the polarity of masculine and feminine energy, what symbolic aspects of anal make it so hot, how to build attraction from the inside out, and give tools to enhance connection.We also get into your questions like why the urge to have an affair can be so strong, how to know if there is enough sexual chemistry to pursue a second date, and what to do to bring sex back into your long-term relationship.For more information about John Wineland, visit: johnwineland.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Setting boundaries within your relationships is not only necessary—it’s hot AF. In today’s episode, psychological astrologer, therapist, and sex educator Dr. Jennifer Freed joins me to discuss how to set and maintain healthy boundaries. We discuss the definition and different types of boundaries (including sexual and financial), what makes them important, how they affect our sex life, and why they might be difficult for some folks to create.We also dive into your email questions like how to avoid drama when you’re the third in a threesome relationship, how to let someone know you’re not into them without ghosting, if talking to escorts is considered cheating, and what to do if your partner is more interested in meeting their sexual desires than yours.For more information about Dr. Jennifer Freed, visit: jenniferfreed.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you remember your first time? It could be your first date, first threesome, first orgasm, or your first time experimenting with a new position. No matter what it is, any “first” experience can feel intimidating, but I’m here to help eliminate any fear that might be holding you back.I answer questions about how to navigate first-time experiences: having sex, getting on a dating app, performing oral sex, trying anal play, and other adventures. Whether it’s your first time or you want to expand your sexual repertoire, this episode will encourage you to try something new and sexy.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever want to know what really goes down in your girlfriend’s group chat? Today you’ll find out when I’m joined by Chelsea, Glynn, and Sade, the hosts of the popular much talked about Black Girls Texting. We explore sex dreams, what it’s like to have a threesome with your best friend, and the art of sending nudes.We answer questions and discuss cultural stereotypes, manscaping, pre-gaming sex, and the power of setting sexual intentions.For more information about Black Girls Texting (Chelsea, Glynn, Sade), visit: blackgirlstexting.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Breakups! They can be painful. Losing a partner can feel like a mini-death, especially if you’ve spent time planning a future together. In this episode, I give my top tips for how to cope with a breakup and reground yourself. If you are struggling to move on after a breakup, following even one of these steps will help you recover.I also answer your questions with tips for giving better oral sex, sexy gift recommendations for long-distance relationships, and communication tools for expressing your emotional and sexual needs.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wonder why you’re not having more sex? Well, wonder no more. This episode identifies the 6 most common roadblocks to sex. Whether you’re too stressed to get too turned on or too self-conscious to get naked, we all have barriers that hold us back from sex and pleasure. In this episode, I’m sharing specific tips so you can overcome the most common sexual barriers.I also answer your questions including what to do if your wetness level is inconsistent during sex, the relationship between OnlyFans and cheating, how to handle a jealous partner, and what to do if your partner has a fetish but lockdown has made it more challenging.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here’s the secret formula to better sex: prioritize it! In this episode, we’re talking all about sex success stories and how taking just one step can take your sex life from static to ecstatic. From finding closure with an ex to trying out swinging and finding it works and looking for sex after a life of not having any, each of these people has taken a big step towards changing their lives. Get inspired to create your own sex-cess story.I also answer questions about what to do if your boyfriend won’t communicate openly with you about your sex life, how to be more confident rocking the cowgirl position, and what to do if mismatched libidos are making you feel insecure in your relationship.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

V-Day is right around the corner! Whether you’re living your best single life or you have a special someone, I want to set you up to have a sexy, love-filled day. In this episode, I’m sharing some of my hot tips for creating the ideal date night—regardless of who it’s with. I cover everything from toy recommendations to thoughtful personal gifts you can give yourself or a loved one.I also answer questions about how to prep for anal sex, how to get back into dating in your 40s, and why wetness doesn’t always equal arousal.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The best sex of your life doesn’t happen by chance. If it did, we’d all be having it. In this episode, I share my own sex and dating intentions for the year and help you plan your own. I guide you through our new Pleasure planner with my teammate Amanda, and we explore how prioritizing your sex life will benefit your overall life. I also answer questions about confidence in the bedroom, STIs and condoms, and if it’s possible to repair a relationship after someone cheats. If you need some inspiration to create your own sex and love goals, download our free Pleasure Planner sexwithemily.com/downloadsFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’ve heard from a lot of my listeners that they struggle with talking dirty in the bedroom. Today I’m joined by porn star, author, exotic dancer, and dirty talk expert Joanna Angel to break down what to say, how to start if you’ve never tried it and how to crank your dirty talk up from dusty to undeniably filthy.I also answer questions about what to do when you’re ghosted after a first date, how to get more foreplay when your partner just wants to dive right into sex, and lots of Rapid Fire questions. If you’d like to ask me a question about sex or relationships, email me at [email protected] more information about Joanna Angel, visit: joannaangel.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, I’m throwing it back to one of my most favored episodes and giving you a crash course in all things anal, the not-so-surprising sex trend of the decade. I also give my some tips on going deeper into tantric sex, why it’s best not to share your sex number with your partner, and how Kegel exercises affect your penis. Plus, I discuss the age-old debate of love vs. lust, and how to know the difference.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know how I’m always recommending therapy to callers? Well, today I’m joined by my therapist, Dr. Anadel Barbour. She is a licensed EMDR, marriage and family therapist and she has a Ph.D. in human sexuality. We talk about coping with a partner’s anxiety, fantasizing about your ex, and how to deal when your partner leaves you for another woman.I answer your calls about finding a quality friend with benefits and what to do if porn is impacting your sex with a partner. We end with my new Rapid Fire Segment where I answer as many of your questions as possible. Did I answer yours? Tune in to find out. Don’t forget to send in your questions! Email me at [email protected] and follow me on Instagram @SexwithEmily.For more information about Dr. Anadel Barbour, visit: anadelbarbour.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve all felt the ache of jealousy creeping into our relationships—but where does it come from and how can you handle it so it doesn’t destroy your relationship? A little bit of jealousy is normal, but when it turns into anger and possessiveness, you have to learn to acknowledge and work with it. Today, I’m explaining how jealousy works, what you can learn from it, and how to deal with the insecurities so it doesn’t corrode your relationships.I’m also answering questions about how to help your partner out of their sexual shell, dating after divorce, how often you can have anal sex, and so much more.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I’m joined by the hosts of the Unwaxed podcast, Sophia and Sistine Stallone. Find out what really happens on the dating apps, how to spot red flags, and why a bad first kiss doesn’t have to be a deal-breaker. I encourage them to make time for masturbation and we discuss if watching porn is considered cheating.I take your calls and answer a bunch of your Instagram questions in our new Rapid Fire segment. I cover prostate play, adult virginity, partner toys, and what to do when your partner takes too long to orgasm.For more information about Sophia & Sistine Stallone, visit: Unwaxed PodcastFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, we’re talking about my second-favorite bedroom activity: sleep. I’m putting on my PJs, setting my phone to ‘Do Not Disturb’, and sitting down with sleep expert Dr. Michael Breus. He tells me how to figure out what kind of sleeper you are, what that says about your sex drive, and how you can take advantage of your body’s natural rhythm to optimize your day.We also take calls helping people figure out their sleep schedule, what medications work best for sleep, and best practices to deal with sleep apnea. After all, better sleep=better sex, so it’s something we should ALL prioritize.For more information about Dr. Michael Breus, visit: thesleepdoctor.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You don’t know what you don’t know, especially when it comes to sex. I get so many questions from my listeners in their 20s, so I thought it’d be fun to showcase some of their insightful questions in one podcast, specifically the ones I wish I knew at their age. Anal sex, cheating, miscommunication in the bedroom, pain during sex, moving past shame, advice for starting an open relationship, and so much more all in this episode!For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s no such thing as an “easy life” which is why it’s SO important to develop the right tools to help you handle everyday chaos. Today, I’m talking with Tal Rabinowitz who’s helping people around the world learn to find calm in their daily commotion with her company The DEN Meditation.She gives tips for beginners who’ve never tried calming their minds and shares how meditation can totally change your outlook on your relationship. We also talk about judgment, specifically how you can stop labeling everything as ‘bad’ or ‘good’ and simply let things be what they are. It’s 2021—and time to meditate, masturbate, and manifest for a better year.For more information about Tal Rabinowitz, visit: denanywhere.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s take off the metaphorical clothes and reveal our authentic selves, people. Today, we’re putting the spotlight on our deepest insecurities so we fully participate in loving ourselves. Whether you’re worried about your weight or your penis, the more we try to hide our fears, the bigger they get. To make it easier for you to share YOUR fears, my team gets real and lays it all out in the open. Turns out, a lot of us are fighting the same demons.We talk about our journeys with body image, weight, balding, period sex, and more. Then, I walk through how to work on each unique insecurity so you can learn to like (and maybe even love) those things about yourself.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

2020 might not have been our sexiest year, but today’s episode will set you up for 12 months of sex-cess. Let’s say goodbye to the year of breakups and endless “doomsterbating” and hello to courtship, communication, and more orgasms. Hear my sex and love predictions for 2021 and a step-by-step guide to plan a healthier year ahead. I break down how to create intentions that will work all year long. I love answering as many of your questions as possible, so let me know what you think about our new Rapid Fire segment. Let’s ring in this new year with a bang.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today we’re throwing it back to my interview with Nikki Boyer, host of the limited podcast series “Dying for Sex.” We’re talking about how you can explore and discover new pleasure even when things seem grim. She tells me how during times of uncertainty, a sexual awakening can do wonders for your self-esteem.While you can’t really go out and date right now, get inspired to open your mind to new sexual possibilities. Plus, I answer your questions about self-discovery, keeping a long-distance relationship alive, and using lube vs lotion.For more information about Nikki Boyer, visit: dyingforsexpodcast.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, comedian Adam Ferrara shares how to completely overhaul communication in a long-term relationship. He shares his coping strategies for ADD, why worry isn’t a “responsibility” and blows up the common belief around achievements making us happy (hint: it doesn’t).We also help a caller figure out how to talk to her boyfriend about their passionless sex life—with the right approach, it’s nearly always possible to bring back the magic.For more information about Adam Ferrara, visit: adamferrara.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Content Warning: This episode mentions abuse, rape, and murder.Tana Amen is the VP of Amen Clinics and New York Times best-selling author whose latest book “The Relentless Courage Of A Scared Child” explores how she overcame perfectionism, dating the wrong people, an eating disorder, and many incidences of childhood trauma. Tana shares how revealing her long-hidden secrets freed her up to be her authentic self.For more information about Tana Amen, visit: https://tanaamen.com/For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

‘Tis the season of giving but what if you don’t know how to receive? Receiving can be difficult for many, especially with gifts of oral pleasure. If you have trouble relaxing while someone goes down on you, you’re not alone. To help ease any “receiving anxiety,” I walk you through specific steps you can take to fully enjoy all the gifts coming down your chimney tonight.We also talk to a caller who is more experienced than her partner. Finally, we go over some of the best gifts that our callers have ever received. Surprisingly, they aren’t all pleasure related.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, I am joined by Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist and Professor of Psychology who’s on a mission to demystify and dismantle the toxic influence of narcissism on all of our lives.We talk about all things narcissism, including the telltale signs of a narcissistic personality, what to do if you suspect your partner may be one, and how to break the cycle if you keep finding yourself attracting individuals with this personality. Plus, she details manipulation tactics used by narcissists (including the infamous Jeffrey Epstein) and explains popular buzzwords like ‘love-bombing’ and ‘trauma bonding.’For more information about Dr. Ramani, visit: doctor-ramani.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I am joined by Alex Cooper from the Call Her Daddy podcast. Alex shares the details of her sexual journey from boring sex in high school to the evolved sex she’s having now. We explore what she’s learned from dating the wrong guys and compare notes about how hosting a podcast affects our lives.We also get into Alex’s masturbation routine, cheating, her disastrous first anal experience, and she gets specific on why her new partner is so good at giving oral.Check out Alex Cooper's podcast Call Her DaddyFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Looking for a great sex toy for the holidays? I got you.Whether you’re buying your first toy, looking to explore more erogenous zones (there are SOOO many) or want to know how to introduce a toy in the bedroom, this episode will help with the next step on your way to more pleasure.I get, it can be overwhelming, so hear my recommendations to make sure you find the vibe for you.Be sure you check out our 2020 gift guide at sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all know someone who’s cheated or we’ve cheated ourselves but why do we do it? Is it really about sex or are there other things at play? Therapist and psychological astrologer, Dr. Jennifer Freed, and I discuss the ways we experience betrayal and how to move past it.Listen to learn how to break the habit of dating the wrong people and avoiding those pesky attachment issues.Trigger warning: This episode references sexual abuse.For more information about Jen Freed, visit: jenniferfreed.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Who doesn’t love a success story? In today’s episode, a few return callers share the steps they took to take their sex life to the next level.If you want your partner to be more dominant, use toys with more ease or hear an efficient way to talk to your teen about sex, these SWE listeners made it happen.Since sexual desires are constantly changing, never stop communicating, exploring, and prioritizing pleasure.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You know how I always say “research is me-search”? My guest, psychiatrist and psychedelics expert Dr. Will Siu, shares how he reframed his religious upbringing, released anger and went even deeper with therapeutic psychedelics. Will also shares how to get past some common insecurities—like penis size.For more information about Will Siu, visit: WillSiuMD.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I made a MasterClass! I am so honored for the opportunity to partner with MasterClass on this career milestone. Go behind the scenes into how I created the class and funneled decades of my work into simple steps you can take today to release all the shame, communicate your needs, and prioritize your pleasure. We cover why your sex life gets better the more you talk about it, and I reveal my sexual superpowers. Watch my class now on MasterClass.com/emilymorseFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, I’m joined by the amazing Dr. Phil with a special appearance from his wife Robin McGraw. We talk about his new show That Animal Rescue Show, tips for dealing with isolation, and how his daytime television show is operating under social distancing limitations. Plus, together they give their advice on how to make relationships stronger based on their almost 50 years together!Before that, we’re talking all about breakups: when to know if it’s time to call it quits, how to move on from an ex, how you can overcome feelings of insecurity, and how to spot red flags. Plus, some quick lube tips for anyone looking to slip it in.For more information about Dr. Phil, visit: drphil.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Did you know that nipple sensations for vulva-owners ignite the same parts of the brain as clitoral stimulation? Today, we’re unlocking all of the overlooked erogenous zones including nipples. ALL genders can potentially have more pleasure and orgasms through nipple play—you just need the proper tips and tricks. We hear from a masseuse who is exploring the reality of “happy endings” as well as a couple who’s interested in perfecting the “g-spot orgasm” and closing the orgasm gap. (I like to call it the “g-area”... Find out why!)For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if I told you that the best sex of your life was on the other side of your fear? We all have them - fear of rejection, fear of asking for what you want, fear of commitment, and fear of being our authentic selves. Today, we discuss the most common roadblocks to more pleasure and how to let them go once and for all.I take calls and answer questions about taking too long to orgasm, period sex, sexual triggers, and performance anxiety in the bedroom. I help you recognize and release what’s holding you back.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, I’m sitting down with John Hill of Radio Andy & The Feels on SiriusXM. We’re covering everything from cuffing season, to taking a break from sex during quarantine, to the suggestive app: Slutbot! We also cover a variety from anal and oral tips, so you can take a break from the chaos by amping up your game in the bedroom.We also dive deep into listener questions, like “what do you do if your partner gets soft during sex?” or “what are the best positions to prevent slippage?” Finally, we talk about how to spot scammers on dating apps—because how else are we meeting people these days?Check out John Hill on  InstagramFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do stress, cheating, miscommunication, erectile dysfunction, and depression have in common? Well, for one thing, they all start in your brain. My guest today is psychiatrist and best selling author, Dr. Daniel Amen and he’s here to help you fall in love with your brain so you can stay healthy and make better choices in and outside the bedroom.Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner? Together, Dr. Amen and I explore where that temptation comes from and how you can tell the difference between the excitement of an affair and what benefits both you and your brain in the long run.For more information about Dr. Daniel Amen, visit: danielamenmd.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Content Warning: If you are triggered by stories of emotional abuse, this episode may not be for you.Real talk: relationships can be amazing! (That’s why so many of us get into them!) But with the wrong partner, relationships can also be harmful. Today, I’m joined by Marriage & Family therapist, Jamye Waxman. We talk about how to spot abusive behavior, what you should never put up within a relationship, and how to break the cycle of dating unhealthy people. If you think you might be in an abusive relationship, please know you’re not alone and that there are ways to find help. Reach out to your support network, make a plan, and call or chat with the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-787-3224.For more information about Jamye Waxman, visit: waxmansextherapy.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Did someone say “bonus Q+A Episode”? Oh, right. It was me! Today I’m taking audience calls, and I must say: you’ve been asking great questions lately. Like, what does it mean if your partner can’t orgasm during penetration? Will eating pineapple change the way you taste? And how to get over a cheating ex?I share some tips to help your partner squirt. Plus, I help a caller discover some new positions for plus-sized bodies. If you can’t seem to make sex comfortable for everyone involved, I’m here to review your many options. Remember: there are always ways to open up to even more pleasure.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Halloween’s cancelled this year but that doesn’t mean you can’t dress up. Today, I’m talking about lingerie, figuring out what outfits you like, how to talk about it with your partner and what happens when your plans for a sexy lingerie night go astray. The right outfit can completely transform sex and break up the monotony in long-term relationships. (Spoiler alert: it doesn’t have to be leather or lace!)Later on, we talk about the perks and pitfalls of daddy dom/little girl play, how to spot red flags before you get too involved and how love-bombers use affection to manipulate their partners.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Truth: this year has been HARD on relationships. Luckily, sex educator, author, licensed therapist, and my dear friend Jamye Waxman is here to help! For those struggling to connect right now, Jamye gives different methods for checking in with your partner, rekindling the magic, and keeping a relationship strong over time.Together we talk about the power of curiosity to avoid petty fights and harboring resentment as well as what to do if you and your partner are at different “speeds” sexually. We also take calls about how to healthily express your emotions and how to help your partner cope with sexual shame.For more information about Jamye Waxman, visit: waxmansextherapy.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

80% of American women will try birth control at some point in their lives. But what does the pill do over time? Ricki Lake and Abby Epstein are here to demystify the murky, confusing world of birth control and their new film The Business of Birth Control.We discuss the side effects of taking these medications and the information we should all have before deciding which one to use. Ricki also opens up about her newfound sex drive and how at age 52, she’s “feeling like a horny 16-year-old boy.” If you’ve ever had questions about birth control, hormones, and sex drive, this episode is for you.For more information about Abby Epstein and Ricki Lake, visit: www.thebusinessof.lifeFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I’m joined by cam girl, porn star, and actor Lily LaBeau from the YouTube series Cam_Girlfriend to share what she has learned about her body, her sexuality, and what she finds sexy. We also talk about how camming works, what’s off-limits, setting boundaries, and making a living in your underwear.Lily also shares how the sex industry has helped her discover new ways to find pleasure, her best stories from working with clients, and why she believes everyone can benefit from trying camming at least once.For more information about Lily LaBeau, visit: brandlabeau.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Finding love has always been hard work, but COVID has made it ten times more difficult. That’s why this episode is ALL about dating. From moving off the apps to dating post-breakup, to finding someone who meets your sexual desires, I go over the most common dating debacles.I also cover why it’s crucial that you know what you want in a partner—after all, how can you find love if you don’t know what you’re looking for? To make things easier, I share my top tips for breaking down the steps to finding clarity so that you can manifest your dream partner.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today’s episode is all about one of my favorite topics: masturbation. Specifically, we’re getting into “doomsturbating,” or masturbating in order to distract yourself when the world feels like just too much. But how much masturbating is too much? Like anything in life, there’s a limit—here’s how to know if you’ve reached yours.I’m also taking your calls and answering questions about breast sizes, how confidence and self-love can change your bedroom game, how to help your partner reach orgasm, and some super fun handjob tips and tricks. It’s one of the most underrated sex moves!For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, I’m talking with author, sociologist, and sexology royalty Carol Queen. Carol has been leading the charge for open, honest sex talk for over 40 years. We dive into the CDC’s new glory hole guidelines and Carol’s new favorite all-gender vibrators and much more.I also help a couple find the best sex position for their changing bodies, someone wanting to know where they can live out their public masturbation fantasy and a man who wants to make oral exciting again.For more information about Carol Queen, visit: goodvibes.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’re trying to focus on self-improvement these days, you’re not alone. In today’s episode, Violet Benson talks about how isolation helped her develop a newfound appreciation for self-love and confidence. Violet is also the founder of @DaddyIssues on Instagram and the host of the podcast, Too Tired To Be Crazy. Not only does she discuss her new favorite vibrator, but she also shares how she learned to stop dating toxic people, the new ways she loves her body, and reveals her secret hookup with Too Hot To Handle’s Francesca Fargo.I also break down some important relationship terms: what exactly is “love bombing” and how does it correlate with codependency in relationships? Plus, I help a caller with tips on how to initiate sex without feeling like you’re left rejected.For more information about Violet Benson, visit: instagram.com/violetbensonFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today on the show, we’ve got Shafia Zaloom, a health educator and author who develops curricula for sex education in schools across the country. Shafia and I discuss the most effective ways parents can teach their kids about sex to develop healthy sexuality and cultivate shame-free knowledge.Shafia also brings up specific words and strategies to use in helping children learn about sex, so that you can go into conversations about sex with an expert-level toolkit. We also get into how to teach consent and what we can do improve Sex Ed in schools. Spoiler: It starts with you!! The show ends with me taking calls and answering questions, like “what do you do if your partner hates oral?” or “how do you stop dating the wrong person?” No question is off-limits.For more information about Shafia Zaloom, visit: shafiazaloom.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s no mystery that things have been more stressful than usual these days. When life feels chaotic, our relationships and sex lives tend to suffer, and so it’s important to reset the mind and focus on the present. That’s why I’ve brought on my therapist Dr. Anadel Barbour to discuss the coping mechanisms and mindfulness techniques I use to reignite my best self.Dr. Barbour and I talk about EMDR therapy and its revolutionary healing power, specifically in the face of trauma. We also talk about the difference between your thoughts vs. the truth and how to eliminate overthinking in the bedroom. Stick around for the end of the episode, when Dr. Barbour leads us through a full body positivity scan because, let’s face it, loving a partner begins with loving yourself.For more information about Dr. Anadel Barbour, visit: anadelbarbour.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As many of you know, I’m obsessed with communication so it only makes sense that we look at word choice when talking about sex. In this epsiode, I meet with Amanda Montell, linguist and author of Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language, to explore the greater meaning, power, and historical importance of the words we chose to use. Plus, we delve into the origins of gendered slang like ‘vajayjay’ and offer positive alternatives to the current words in our sexual dictionary.In the second half of the episode, I take a few calls and answer questions on how to examine yourself after several failed relationships, increase enjoyment of oral sex, and have fun and safe sex in a noncommitted relationship.For more information about Amanda Montell, visit: amandamontell.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback show, I’m revisiting my 2018 interview with Elizabeth Kott & Stephanie Simbari from the That’s So Retrograde podcast. We talk about mindfulness, wellness & how it relates to your relationships both with yourself and a partner.We also get into what all this “retrograde” talk really means, how it affects your life and some alternative ways to work on yourselves because we’re never done improving. Plus, how your gut relates to sexual health and acts like a second brain.For more information on Elizabeth & Stephanie, click below: That’s So RetrogradeFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’ve heard me talk about the importance of a woman’s orgasm but you’re still wondering, ‘what about men?’ On today's show, I give tips and tricks for both genders on how to achieve their most powerful orgasm yet. Then, I share toys specifically for male pleasure.Stick around for the end of the show because I answer even more of your questions and calls. Including, tips for oral sex, the importance of loving your body and confidence even if you Plus, I speculate on the distinction between someone who is interested in dating vs keeping it platonic.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I’m talking with sex, kink, and relationship educator Sarah Sloane from the dating app #Open about the reality of cuckolding, dating effectively after divorce and reigniting the connection with your partner.I explore consent as one of the sexiest things you can practice in a relationship, how you can use it to enhance intimacy and why it’s the hottest sex move you haven’t tried (yet).For more information about Sarah Sloane, visit: hashtagopen.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I’m talking with certified sexuality coach Shani Hart about how to keep yourself satisfied while you take care of your partner. Shani also gives us her helpful oral sex philosophy, tips for using toys together and talks about the importance of representation in the sex industry.I also talk to psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed, who joins us with her monthly astro-sex forecast for each sign. We dive deep into what IS sexy, why it’s necessary to be with someone who brings out the best in you and non-negotiables when it comes to self worth and self pleasure.For more information about Shani Hart, visit: hartsdesires.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wonder what the world would be like if we all felt comfortable talking about sex? We’d have way more pleasure, less shame and much healthier relationships. Not to mention that talking about sex increases desire and leads to a more satisfying life all around.In today’s episode I also cover how to plan a sexy staycation. It’s possible even if you’re stuck at home! I advise the best way to bring toys into the bedroom, why you should consider a lube shooter and the best time to communicate your needs to a partner.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to relationships, it’s not unusual to get into unhealthy patterns—so I'm going to help you identify some of the warning signs you might be ignoring. Whether you’re dating a perfectionist or a partner who is emotionally unavailable, there are some red flags that will never turn green.I also address why words are just as important as actions, how to spot if someone is emotionally detached and you’ll learn when and how to communicate difficult feelings with the people we love most.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I bring you a special combination of guests, to give you a unique perspective on the porn industry. I talk to legendary porn star and sex educator Nina Hartley, sex addiction specialist Dr. Marnie Breecker and ethical porn director Erika Lust.Nina Hartley shares her insights on her decades long experience in the porn industry, her personal relationships and advice on figuring out what kind of relationships work for you. Then, Dr. Breecker and I take a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction. Dr. Breecker is a therapist who specializes in sex addiction and she has advice for people who are struggling to break free.I also talk with erotic filmaker Erika Lust about her mission to create ethically minded films for all genders. Erika has been writing and directing for years so she’s full of insights about intimacy both onscreen and off.For more information about Nina Hartley, visit nina.comFor more information about Dr. Marnie Breecker, visit marniebreecker.comFor more information about Erika Lust, visit erikalust.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today’s show is all about you and answering your questions. One couple wants to know how to prepare for a threesome, another wants their partner to experiment with cuckolding. However you want to explore an open relationship, I cover the topics everyone should think about before pulling the trigger.Also, how to overcome anxiety in the bedroom whether it’s you or your partner with the distracting thoughts. Take a deep breath and listen in.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wonder what to do about the sexual side effects of your antidepressants? It can be super frustrating to have an improved mood but a decreased libido. In this episode, I cover how to know if you’re experiencing unwanted side effects and what to do about them.Anyone else’s sex life taken a nose-dive in the past few months? Well, there could be a lot more going on than just mismatched sex drives. Starting with healthy communication can help you sort out those pesky resentments. I also dissect what we can learn (and not learn) from Cardi B’s WAP video featuring Megan Thee Stallion.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For months now, the most popular blog post on SexWithEmily.com has been “Is it normal (or safe) to eat your own ejaculate?” I’m excited to finally be answering that on today’s podcast. Join me and my callers as we explore the curiosity and appeal around this popular question.I advise a woman on how to overcome feeling insecure around her partner, because we all suffer from self-doubt from time to time, especially in the bedroom. I also tackle how porn can impact your relationship and ways to safely explore your fantasies.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Did you grow up with a loud family? So did today’s guest. Adam Ferrara is a comedian, actor and recovering loudmouth. He and I talk about how important it was for his marriage to learn to listen. We get into control issues and the work required to undo the damage caused by childhood trauma.Before that, I take a call from a young woman who has great sex when she’s tipsy but wants to find that same fun mentality without a drink. Another woman wants to know why she can squirt with one partner but not others. I also talk to Brooke from Pennsylvania who needs help getting comfortable receiving oral from her husband. All of these issues are more common than you’d think. Don’t miss the lively discussion with my team about what to do with your sex toys after a breakup!For more information about Adam Ferrara, visit: adamferrara.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Answering your questions about how to have more pleasure is my jam and this episode is no exception. Alongside my friend and sex educator Elle Chase, I cover sex without penetration, summer sex tips and mindfulness. Elle and I get right down to business taking a call from Mike in Arizona who wants to have a threesome (shock!) with his girlfriend, but wants to make sure he sets it up for success. Later, we answer your questions about sex positions for curvier people and what to expect after a hysterectomy.First off, though, is Dr. Jennifer Freed’s monthly astro-sex forecast! Jen is a renowned psychological astrologer who has been helping people realize and reach their potential for over thirty years. To go even deeper this month, Jen takes questions from the Sex With Emily team about the relationship between our moon and sun signs and what we can expect during the next full moon.For more information about Elle Chase, visit: ellechase.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alternative relationships are more popular than ever so today I’m talking to Miley Manliguis from #OPEN, a new dating app that’s designed for modern relationships - essentially, anything other than monogamy. Maile shares the intimate details about opening up her relationship with her husband after they had a child. She talks about juggling parenting and dating, her boundaries with her husband and how giving birth empowered her to embrace her sexuality more than she ever had. Maile’s an amazing woman. You’re going to love her perspective.I also talk to our content coordinator, Amanda, about her first experience being a unicorn (that’s slang for a third in a threesome). We get into how she felt going into it and what she learned about herself from the experience. Talk about getting to know your team on the job! Have you ever wondered how you’d feel going into a threesome? Amanda walks me every step of the way through her worries leading up to it and the things that helped her be present and have a fun, relaxed experience throughout.For more information about Maile Manliguis, visit: hashtagopen.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alternative August continues with everything you need to know to get into anal play. There’s so much more to anal than just penetration (although that can be fun too). I talk with Dr. Charlie Glickman about how to start exploring around back in easy, clean, painless ways.People ask me all the time about how to bring up anal with their partner. Later in the show, I talk a caller through each step of the conversation. Like I always say, communication is lubrication. Listen for my best advice on how to bring it up and talk it through. Then, I go over the dos and don’ts of anal with my friend Dr. Hernando Chaves. We go over beginner toys and bust popular myths. This episode is the ultimate beginner's guide to your backdoor. Enjoy!For more information about Dr. Hernando Chaves, visit:TwitterFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s Alternative August at Sex With Emily and that means I’m focusing on all the alternative ways to be in a “relationship.” Whether you’re open, polyamorous, swinging or you just need new ways to approach a relationship in a pandemic, Alt August is here for you. In this podcast I talk to my guests about their open relationships and how they navigate their boundaries, attraction, and transcend jealousy.First, in these interviews from 2017, I talk to actor and model Nico Tororella about his fluid sexuality and the open communication required in his relationships. Then I speak with my friend and colleague at SiriusXM, Australian radio host, professional skateboarder and MMA fighter Jason Ellis about his open relationship and how to put your partner first in a threesome. You’ll be surprised to hear how different Jason and Nico’s boundaries are, even in open relationships. Thinking about making your relationship a little more alternative? Listen to find out which ideas & boundaries feel right for you!For more information about Jason Ellis, visit:TwitterInstagramFor more on Nico Tortorella, visit:TwitterInstagramFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this podcast, I take a walk down memory lane with three incredible colleagues and co-hosts, Dr. Drew Pinsky, Anderson and Menace. We cover 15 years of sex questions and advice. We also talk about how screen time gets in the way of relationships and Menace opens up about overcoming his shyness and building his confidence.You don’t want to miss my chat with Dr. Drew Pinsky and his thoughts on relationships, attraction, and most importantly memories from some of our times together. COVID has been hard for us all and Dr. Drew opens up to me about some of his struggles during quarantine. We discuss our hopes for what lies ahead. Our conversations about sex and dating have shifted over the years but there’s still a long way to go before there’s a bottle of lube on every nightstand.For more information about our guests, check outAnderson:TwitterInstagramYouTubeFacebookandersoncowan.com Menace:TwitterInstagramWhat's New Podcast with MenaceDr. Drew:drdrew.comInstagramTwitterYouTubeFacebookDr. Drew PodcastDr. Drew After DarkFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hi, I’m Emily Morse and I used to fake orgasms. Once I understood why I was doing it, and how much more satisfying sex could be for me and my partner, I stopped. I want the same for you. In this episode, we hear from people who have been faking it and how to take back the power of your “O” by learning your body and how to ask for what you need.Later in the show, I take a call from a man trying to reignite the sexual passion with his wife after decades of marriage. Long-term intimacy is a challenge for so many of us but I’ve got solutions to get you and your partner feeling more connected and hot for each other once again.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve come a long way since Sex With Emily started 15 years ago, but there’s still more we could do to end shame around penis size. Just last year, our culture was bubbling with praise for Big Dick Energy. But does size really matter? In this 15th Anniversary Episode, Dr. Emily gives plenty of reasons why we should stop our fixation with large members.Also in this episode, Emily talks to Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, about reaching orgasm too quickly. Emily and Joanna Angel talk about the best sex positions to help you orgasm with a penis, whether that's yours or your partner's. We hear calls from Emily's early days as a podcaster and get her latest take on how to deal with size issues.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you think quarantine is difficult, imagine adding pregnancy to the equation. Are you thinking about conceiving or giving birth soon? This episode is for you. Emily talks to celebrity doula and maternity wellness expert Latham Thomas.Latham talks about improving your birth experience through pleasure, racism in the medical system and tips for empowering yourself through daily mindfulness. Emily also answers your questions about addiction to porn and how to talk to your partner about difficult topics in the bedroom.For more information about Latham Thomas, visit: mamaglow.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In celebration of 15 years of Sex With Emily we dove deep into the archives to bring you her best conversations about oral sex. Guests Bart Smith, Sydnee Steele and Sadie Allison cover all the oral bases: tips and tricks, oral as foreplay and the importance of getting to know your own body so you can be a better partner.We’ve all heard of Kama Sutra, but did you know about oral Kama Sutra? Listen for tips on how to use the ancient Indian philosophy to start having better oral sex. Then, stick around for some of the best calls with oral over the past decade, including one about tongue piercings. To lick or not to lick, that is the question!For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happy International Non-binary People's Day! In this episode, Emily talks to the charming non-binary actor Vico Ortiz about how they keep dating interesting during COVID. Vico’s gone to great lengths to keep themselves busy and satisfied while stuck at home so if you’re missing human connection, this one’s for you. They also discuss the difference between gender and sexuality, what to do if you get someone’s pronouns wrong and healthy ways to make time for yourself.Later in the show, Emily helps a caller find perspective on his long-term relationship. Are you wondering if it’s time to end things? Tune in to learn the communication tools you need to figure it out. Plus, how to find community if you’re dipping your toes into BDSM.For more information about Vico Ortiz, visit: www.imdb.me/vico-ortizFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s been 15 years of Sex With Emily and what better way to celebrate than to bring back Emily’s first podcast episode ever. In 15 years she’s covered everything from communication to masturbation, but in this very special episode we dive into uncharted territory - Sex With the host herself, Emily.Emily tells us how she got into podcasting, decided to talk about sex and we even get to hear the first episode she recorded 15 years ago. You’ll come for the sex, but stay for the stories and there’s plenty. She talks to her 3 guests about bikini waxing, polyamory and what it’s like to live a single girl’s life and have sex on her terms. You don’t want to miss this anniversary episode!For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Emily talks to Sex With Emily regular, psychological astrologer, Dr. Jennifer Freed, to give us her monthly Astro-Sex Forecast, so listen for your sign (and your partner’s too!). Emily and Jennifer also talk about mindfulness and the power of kissing. Too much or not enough tongue? It’s kissing 101!We’re learning a lot about the people we’re quarantined with, but what do you do when you learn your kids are having sex? Emily gives advice on how to talk to your teenager about sex without shaming them. Plus, what age is too old to have kids? One caller asks for advice about having a baby at age 61 when the pregnancy isn’t planned. We were at the edge of our seats wondering: will they or won’t they have a baby and how do you talk about it with your partner if you’re not ready?For more information about Jen Freed, visit:For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this Episode Emily kicks off Sexual Liberation Month. She sets the tone with provocative questions to get you thinking about your sexual freedom, confidence and what’s holding you back. Emily is here to help you live the life you want because what else are you doing right now except staying home and having sex? No partner required!Initiating sex can be overwhelming, especially if you’re quarantined with your partner. Emily gives tips on what to say when you want to get things going and even how to tell your lover you’re not in the mood. She also asks us to examine what our hang ups are when it comes to our own sexual liberation. Are you too caught up in your head about how you look? Ashamed of your “O” face? Do you get aroused too quickly and need to slow down? No matter what your situation, Emily’s got you covered so you can open up and communicate better with yourself and your partner.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this Mashup podcast, guest John Hill, host of The Feels on Radio Andy on SiriusXM, comes back to catch up with Emily about moving in with his boyfriend during COVID. They get into how John came out to his religious parents when he was younger. And of course, a convo with Emily wouldn’t be complete without mentioning taint stimulation at least once, right?In the second half of the show, Emily takes a call from a bi-curious man who’s wondering how to bring up those fantasies with his wife of 38 years. She also talks to callers about picking out the right vibrator, how size doesn’t really matter and shopping for toys with your partner.For more information about John Hill, visit:For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Emily always says there are so many different paths to pleasure. On this throwback podcast she helps you map out those paths with sexological bodyworker Dolly Josette! Dolly teaches you how to be in your body and really reconnect to your pleasure and sexual energy.They discuss what the heck vulva-mapping is and how can it help you and your partner work together to have the most pleasurable experiences possible by eliminating disconnected sex. Don’t just get off just to get through it. Learn about the build up, the teasing and finding the sweet spot. All this and more, including: embodied masturbation, cupping the vulva, and being empowered in your body whether you have a vulva or a penis! Find out why Dr. Emily’s vulva sighs when Dolly walks into a room and maybe after listening, yours will too!For more information about Dolly Josette, visit: https://www.pleasuremuse.com/For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Allie Haze is the coolest, most down-to-earth person ever, and she’s also a really hot bisexual porn star. When it comes to squirting, Allie gets into the internal orgasms (aka the G-spot) and how you need to get over your fears around what comes out of a woman during female ejaculation. Let’s be real, if you have a killer orgasm, who cares what happens?We also get into Allie’s background and hear about her transition from being a preacher’s wife to a porn star. Growing up, she realized she was more into women than men and as a bisexual porn star, Allie Haze has amazing sex tips for pleasuring everyone. She gives a very detailed description of how to go down on a woman and she literally goes deep into how to give a guy good oral.For more information about Allie Haze, visit: Instagram.com/itsalliehazeFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this Mashup of SiriusXM guests from this month, Dr. Emily addresses some of the most pressing issues today in relationships, men’s health and families.Emily’s first guest Erin Tillman, the “Dating Advice Girl” dives into the importance of a supportive partner in these hard times and raising your children with awareness, whether it's race, sex or otherwise! Adam Carolla, host of the Adam Carolla show joins Emily to talk about his new book “I’m Your Emotional Support Animal,” our laziness as a culture, broken families and our detached relationship to danger. Returning guest, Dr. Edward Karpman and Emily address all your men’s health questions and COVID copulation complications!For more information about Erin Tillman ‘The Dating Advice Girl’, visit: http://www.TheDatingAdviceGirl.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In honor of Pride month, we are throwing it back to last year’s Pride podcast about gender. Dr. Emily is joined by writer, producer and author Jacob Tobia to talk about their book Sissy: A Coming of Gender Story.They clarify the differences between gender, sex, and orientation and what it means to be gender neutral. Plus, the journey we go through to find our identity – because it’s not always easy. Tobia talks about the inspiration to live as our truest selves and feel sexy & confident – no matter what turns you on!For more information about Jacob Tobia, visit: https://jacobtobia.com/For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily and Dr. Drew do what they love most: taking listener calls! The two experts address common condom conundrums (how to stay hard!) and how to meet in the middle when it comes to mismatched libidos.Also, does your guy get his ideas of what sex should be like from watching too much porn and spending too much time masturbating? Are you stuck in a cycle of loving someone who has you in the friend zone, and if so, how do you move on? These specialists provide skillful responses to your most compelling questions and have a lot of fun while doing it. Join us!For more information about Dr. Drew, visit: https://drdrew.com/For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily helps callers figure out the best way to get past their coital conundrums and dating dilemmas.Struggling in the orgasm department with your beau? What are some great sex toy recs for a lesbian couple? Should you give your ex another shot? How do you spice up your long-term sex life? Emily and Anderson help callers get through these sex and dating issues and more. Plus, they discuss how some men watch so much porn, it’s causing penis problems!For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by astrologer, emotional education trainer and the author of “Use your Planets Wisely”, Dr. Jennifer Freed. They talk about trauma now and in our past, activism, and communicating lovingly in these difficult times.They also discuss how powerful sex can be as a stress reducer and as one of the best self-soothing tools you can use right now. Plus great advice for how to refocus on sex: turn off the news and get into bed!For more information about Jen Freed, visit:For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In honor of Pride month, on today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily is joined by host of the Disability After Dark podcast Andrew Gurza to talk about how to overcome insecurities and gain confidence in the bedroom, no matter what’s holding you back.They dive into what it means to be a “queer cripple,” and ways to make sex with disabilities as hot and pleasurable as possible. Plus, how to make oral sex and masturbation as comfortable as possible – including sex toys with disability in mind.For more information about Andrew Gurza, visit: https://www.andrewgurza.com/For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily is taking your calls and helping you get out of your heads and into your beds—with tips of course!Have you been having trouble climaxing with a partner? Wondering how to find people to play with now that you’ve reached your sexual peak? What’s the secret to balancing a family life with a hot sex life? Emily talks callers through their bedroom dilemmas, and provides a few “Do’s” and “Don’ts” to perfect your dating profile. So whether you need help climaxing, swiping, or getting started with solo play, this show has the info you need.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily gets personal and helps us understand why this quarantine has affected our overall sensual experiences.She gives you tips and tricks to dig deep into your 5 senses to make sex and masturbation the best experience of your life - taking advantage of this extra time at home!For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode, Dr. Emily talks about the shame around sexual expectations and she answers your questions about shame caused by a religious upbringing and past sexual partners.She also chats with the author of The Consent Guidebook, @DatingAdviceGrl Erin Tillman about shame around dating outside the heteronormative structure and meeting up during COVID, tips for dating in Quarantine, and consent during COVID.For more information about Erin Tillman ‘The Dating Advice Girl’, visit: http://www.TheDatingAdviceGirl.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Founder & CEO of The League Dating App, Amanda Bradford to talk about virtual dating and tips for upgrading your profile.The two talk about the ins and outs of online dating and what to say in your first message. Plus, advice on what to do when you’re quarantined away from your partner and you need creative date ideas, the mistakes people are making on the apps, and tips to communicate with matches on a deeper level.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is going to help you mix up your masturbation routine! Plus, she’s taking your sex and relationship questions.Among the topics are the history of Masturbation Month, sex toys, masturbation techniques, and new ways to explore yourself. Plus, the benefits of masturbation and why it’s such an important part of sexual health.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you a mash-up of some of the podcast’s best masturbation information! Because masturbation is sex with someone you love – yourself!Among the topics are how something such as Masturbation Month came to be, top tips on finding the right sex toy for you – from one of the top toy experts in the industry, and ways to switch up your self-love routines. Plus, why masturbation is such an important part of sexual health.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of Booty Parlor, Dana B. Myers to talk about love during quarantine and sexy ideas for Mother’s Day.The two talk about the ins and outs of planning novel sex and new bedroom experiences. Plus, advice on what to do if your kids need you 24/7 and you don’t know how to fit in “me time” - let alone sex with your partner! Other topics include dealing with partner resentments and challenges Mother’s are facing right now during this global pandemic.For more information about Dana B. Myers , visit: http://www.danabmyers.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Stephanie Keating from We-Vibe to talk about how you can add a little variety to your bedroom. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.The two talk about the ins and outs of app controlled sex toys – and why they’re a great pleasure investment. Plus, advice on what to do when you like a coworker, they like you back, but they’ve never had a same-sex relationship, how to be more romantic in the bedroom, and ways to find a partner that also wants to have a stay-at-home partner.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more on Stephanie Keating, visit https://www.we-vibe.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit http://www.sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Dr. Hernando Chaves to talk about sexual anxieties men have, and what to do about it! Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.The two discuss what to do when your penis isn’t performing how you want it to, and how to get on the same sex page as your partner, especially during quarantine. Then, Dr. Emily gives advice on different ways of looking at your partner’s foot fetish, what to do when you used to live a nudist lifestyle, but you have children now, and how to navigate finding a partner when you’re bisexual.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more on Hernando Chaves, visit http://www.drhernandochaves.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you some more sex in the news updates because information is the name of the game right now. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She gives you the lowdown on what researchers think being quarantined is going to do for higher or lower birth rates, affairs, if couples will make it through, and how stress is affecting other people’s sex lives. Plus, she gives advice on what to do when you started sleeping with your roommate and it was a big mistake and how to get back to a pain-free sex life after child birth.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by sex educator and writer Gigi Engle to talk about her book, All the F*cking Mistakes – and how you can feel comfortable being the amazing, sexual being you are! Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. They discuss ways to get past the shame and stigma around sex that society, friends, and family may have put on you, with awesome some sexting tips that will have you tingling in your fingertips. Plus, advice on what to do when your partner’s constant rejection is actually messing with your self-love moments, and if regaining trust is actually possible.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Gigi Engle, visit http://missgigiengle.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by certified dating coach and host of the “Dates & Mates” podcast Damona Hoffman to talk about dating in this new time we find ourselves in and how to do it right! They discuss where to start when it comes to dating online for the first time, how to keep a virtual relationship going once you’ve met someone you like, and ways to go deeper with your conversations, beyond the typical small talk. Plus, if you’re already in a relationship, how to “keep dating” when you can’t actually go out on dates.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Damona, visit http://damonahoffman.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you some sex in the news updates that may just help you in your home – and your bedroom – during quarantine. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.She gives some tips on how not to hate your partner since being cooped up together, whether or not video dating will become the new norm – and what to do if your partner isn’t into the steamier side of Facetime. Plus, some steps to take to improve your overall confidence after a breakup.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman and we are pertaining to all your penile needs – taking calls and giving you the hard facts – because most of us could use some penile focus.They discuss what may be causing your ED and what you can do about it, what the heck is a cock shocker, and how does it improve your sexual functioning, and a little insight on the foreskin debate. Plus, some of the most interesting things that have been requested in a urologist’s office.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Dr. Karpman, visit https://healthy-male.com/ For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by licensed therapist Vanessa Marin to talk about the different sex personality types and how you can use them to your advantage! They discuss what the most popular sex personality types are and what to do when you and your partner don’t match up, how body image affects men, women, and anyone in between – with some tools to gain confidence, and ways COVID-19 has been affecting relationships. Plus, how couples who lack compatibility can actually grow to be more compatible! Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Vanessa Marin, visit https://vmtherapy.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about how to have vacation sex… at home! Especially if upcoming travel had to be delayed, we still deserve those breaks. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She gives you some ways to turn your home and bedroom into a quaint little vacation spot – including ideas to keep your kids preoccupied! Plus, advice on what to do when Facetime isn’t your thing, but you have no choice but to date from home, and how to deal with quarantine taking your sex life from all the time to once in awhile.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by marriage and sex therapist Jamye Waxman to talk about how partners can connect better while quarantining at home. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. The two practice some exercises you can do with your partner to help you feel more present and grounded, as well as some ways to lessen your porn usage if it’s become a problem in your relationship. Then, Emily gives advice on going from a BDSM relationship into a vanilla one, and what to do when your partner’s orgasm threshold is putting a damper on your sex life.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Jamye Waxman, visit https://www.waxmansextherapy.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed to talk about your astro sex forecast – masturbation edition! Because we all have a lot of time on your hands right now, literally. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.They discuss the masturbation techniques to add to your repertoire based on your sign – either way, it’s new ways to explore yourself. Then, Dr. Emily gives advice on the right kinds of lube for “easier access,” where to find porn that has an actual storyline, and whether or not to end a relationship when you’re feeling uneasy.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Dr. Jen Freed, visit https://www.jenniferfreed.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of Back to the Body sensuous retreats Pamela Madsen to talk about the retreat that she actually went on! The two discuss how to have one way touch and not feel guilty about it, give a little lesson in practicing “outercourse,” and a few fun and sexy games to do at home that will definitely spice things up in the bedroom as well as feeling some untapped pleasure. Plus, Dr. Emily shares her own personal experience doing the retreat!Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more on Pamela Madsen, visit https://backtothebody.org/ For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of Love, Amy – a dating concierge service – Amy Nobile to talk about ways we can continue to date and connect – even while doing it virtually! They give their best tips for your dating profile – down to the specific types of photos to use, ways you can learn to flirt and banter (with a little bit of sexting tips), and why FaceTime dates are great during quarantine, but are also a wonderful idea to vet your potential dates once we can stop social distancing! Plus, the best questions to ask someone to get to know them better.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Amy Nobile, visit https://www.loveamy.co/ For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a sexy dose of love in the time of coronavirus. Right now, things are very uncertain, but what we are certain about is the people who love us – our friends, family, and partners – so she’s here to give you some peace of mind on how to use this time to your advantage. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.She breaks down why there’s no better time than the present to get some self-love exploration on – or connect with your partner, the reasons to have relationship check-ins – regardless of your relationship status, and ways to connect sexually even if you’re not in the same room.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by TV personality and host of the limited podcast series “Dying for Sex” Nikki Boyer – and they’re talking about how, even when things seem grim, it can actually spark a sexual awakening. Plus, the doc answers your sex & relationship questions.The two discuss why during times of uncertainty – a sexual awakening can do wonders for your self-esteem, and while you can’t really go out and date right now – hopefully some inspiration to open your mind to new sexual possibilities. Plus, Dr. Emily gives some advice on sex toys for penises that allow for easier clean up and tips to keep things spicy in a long-distance relationship.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow Nikki on all social @nikkiboyerFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by one of America’s leading psychiatrists Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how to keep our brains healthy and our relationships strong during this strange time of “sheltering in place.” The two give you a lesson in active listening – from talking to your kids to talking to your partner, ways to improve your executive functioning from home – your memory, motor skills, and everything that makes us go, and why the only organ where size matters is… the brain! Plus, some insight on why having some scheduled uninterrupted time with your family devoid of negativity or commands is vital to keeping happy.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Dr. Amen, visit https://danielamenmd.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a mash-up of interviews to give you some ways to de-stress, have more sex, and feel a little better mentally and physically. She wants all of you to have the tools to keep your mind strong so your body can stay strong.Among the discussions, why meditation can help you be a better partner and lover – in and out of the bedroom, how setting intentions for your sex life can help immensely when it comes to actually improving it, and ways being mindful and connecting to your senses can pull you out of your head and into your body to enjoy pleasure to the fullest.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about how to take off the rose colored glasses and see the signs of toxic relationships – as well as answering your sex & relationship questions. Especially with the current climate, you want to really think about the people in your life and if they are serving a purpose for you. She dissects the TV Show “You” and how people can easily fall for manipulation in relationships, a thoughtful convo on getting out of a bad situation romantically, and what to do when you and your partner’s love languages differ – and it’s making things pretty difficult. Plus, how penis owners can use the Magic Wand – and ways to use it with a partner.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Dr. Lanae St. John – a sex educator & intimacy coach – to talk about her new book READ ME: The Parental Primer on “The Talk” – to help all of you parents out there have the right terminology and knowledge to talk to your kids about sex, intimacy, and relationships.They discuss the 5 Building Blocks of Healthy Sexuality and how to properly talk about all five – especially when your kids are at different ages – in ways they can understand. This show give you all the tools and knowledge to be the best parent you can be when it comes to relationships and sex. Especially in a time like this, where the whole family may be staying home more – it might be a good time to start some of these conversations.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Dr. Lanae, visit https://www.themamasutra.net/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by master certified life coach Kara Loewentheil to talk about her podcast, Unf*ck Your Brain, and how women can be empowered without feeling completely anxious all the time.They discuss what thought work is and how it can help you have a better outlook on your mental health and how you see yourself, some healthier ways to connect our thoughts to our emotions, and how kink is actually a great way to practice thought work in the bedroom. Plus, why you can’t just say a new belief, you have to feel it to believe it.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Kara, visit https://unfuckyourbrain.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about “imposter syndrome,” what it is, and how that may be affecting your relationships. Plus, she answers your sex & relationship questions.She gives insight on why some of us feel we’re “imposters” when it comes to work, love, and friendship – when really, it’s just anxiety. Plus, advice on what to do when your partner has a touch of performance anxiety, how to bring up an open relationship to your partner, and whether or not there’s a magic sex number when it comes to frequency.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily, along with Anderson, is giving you the tips you need for your sexual debuts! That’s right, this show from the SWE Vault is all about having sex for the first time. The two try to squash any qualms you first-timers may have around sex – from technique to what to expect to how to do it safely. Plus, innovations on period sex and an explanation of how “manspreading” might actually help you in the dating game. Who knew?Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by NY Times best selling author and host of the Genius Life podcast Max Lugavere to talk about his new book, The Genius Life & becoming the better, healthier version of you.They discuss the hyper-palatability of food addiction and porn addiction – and how they’re somewhat similar, ways artificial light is affecting our health and our bedroom activities, why it’s important to get the D – vitamin D that is, and ways making small improvements in all areas of your life can translate to a better sex life.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow Max on all social @maxlugavereFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by psychological astrologer Dr. Jennifer Freed to give you your astro-sex forecast! Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. The two give a breakdown of what your sign might mean for your sex life and relationships – whether you believe or not, it’s always fun to have more ideas for sex. Plus, Emily gives tips on getting your partner to finish in your mouth, a little success story of having the sex talk in a canoe, and the age old penis size question – does it matter?Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Dr. Jen Freed, visit https://www.jenniferfreed.com/ For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by author and filmmaker Tiffany Shlain to talk about her book, 24/6: The Power of Unplugging One Day a Week, and why this is important – not just from electronics – but from work, relationships, and whatever other stresses life throws at you.They discuss how taking a break from technology for one day isn’t as hard as it seems, the benefits of truly unplugging and reconnecting with your partner and family, and tips on having your own “tech shabbat” whether you’re single, married, or have kids. Plus, with less time for tech, there’s more time for sex!Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Tiffany, visit http://www.tiffanyshlain.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by comedian Margaret Cho to talk about sexuality, BDSM, and they’re making it fun. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. The two discuss sexuality as a spectrum – and how you may have moments of feeling everywhere from a-romantic to bisexual, plus a small BDSM breakdown as to why pain can be pleasurable. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when your partner’s new smoking habit is a complete turn off, and when your partner won’t say they love you, whether it’s time to rethink the relationship.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow Margaret Cho on Instagram @margaret_choFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today's show, Dr. Emily is talking about what happens to your body when you run into an ex and a few reasons why people sext. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She reveals why running into an ex causes you to go into fight or flight mode, reasons why people sext – and it’s not just because they’re horny, and what to do when you’ve gotten out of a sexless marriage and you ready for your sexual awakening. Plus, how to handle it when your partner thinks masturbation is gross.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today's show, Dr. Emily is joined by Alice Vaughn & Yvette d'Entremont from “Two Girls, One Mic: The Porncast” to talk about the funnier sides of porn and the true entertainment aspects of it all. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.They talk about why porn can be great, when it’s too much, what you should be bringing into the bedroom, and what should stay on the screen, as well as the plot holes from porn parodies. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when Instagram is causing recurring problems in your relationship and how to get people to stop putting you on a pedestal when you’re dating.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Alice & Yvette, visit https://www.twogirlsonemic.com//For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by bestselling author and one of America’s leading psychiatrists Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about his book, The End of Mental Illness, why mental health needs to be rebranded as brain health – and how that change can alter how we see relationships. They discuss why looking more closely at the brain can severely help people get a better understanding into their own psyche and actual tools to heal, how trauma work like EMDR therapy can reprogram our brains to release or cope with said trauma, and ways that our neurohormones have a direct impact on our libidos and how we act in relationship. Plus, an exercise in killing your ANTS or automatic negative thoughts.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Dr. Daniel Amen, visit https://danielamenmd.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about orgasm denial – what that means, and how can you use it to focus on all your pleasure. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She discusses what orgasm denial is and how can you make it super hot, some workarounds to having sex in public to satisfy your partner’s kink, and how to make pegging more enjoyable for the receiving partner. Plus, how to help support and deal with a partner who has sexual trauma.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by writer and journalist Peggy Orenstein to talk about her new book, Boys & Sex and how we need to change the way we talk to and treat young men. They discuss why young boys and men feel like they’re so emotionally stunted, how “locker room” talk truly affects other people beyond the locker room, and why porn is causing an immense issue in developing healthy views on sex in young minds. Plus, how parents can be better emotional role models for their sons.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Peggy Orenstein, visit https://www.peggyorenstein.com/For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by friend and marriage and family therapist Jamye Waxman – and they’re giving advice and taking calls on all the sex and relationship things!They discuss ways to fix your sex life and rebuild appreciation for each other, why we’re in a connection crisis and what we can do about it, and how dating has changed since technology has advanced. Plus, some sex toy talk from someone at We-Vibe!Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more on Jamye Waxman, visit waxmansextherpay.comFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about women’s orgasms and the masturbation habits of Americans. Plus, she’s taking your sex and relationship questions.She discusses some of the latest research about women’s orgasms and some thoughts on it, how often Americans are masturbating – what they’re thinking about, and so much more, and whether sex addiction is real and if it’s over or under diagnosed. Plus, ways to keep things sexy when you’re trying to conceive.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about why your partner may be rejecting your sexual advances and how to get a better understanding around it. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.She discusses the dreaded sex rejection – how to make it sting a little less and hopefully place more understanding around it. Plus, she gives advice on ways to handle different stress responses when it comes to sex, how to give your partner more sexy surprises when your confidence is low, and what to do when your wife is no longer interested in nipple play.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a mash-up of all things V-Day!She goes over the origin story of Valentine’s Day, along with some stats and facts on the day, reads letters of lovers’ past, gives some examples on how to make the day special, and so much more! From gifts to why hotel sex is the best –– enjoy this mash-up and have a pleasure-filled day – and year – of love!Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by incredible food creator, Chef Amber Caudle to talk about the sensual sides of food – from cooking to eating – with a few ideas to use on V-Day or even all year round! They discuss how food can be truly healing for the mind, body, and soul, the sensual side of eating – especially since so many foods look like penises and vulvas, and why body acceptance from your head to your toes and everything in between helps you in and out of the bedroom. Plus, if you’re cooking for a hot date – what foods are a hell yes and what foods are a definite no-no.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow Amber on all social @chefamberLAFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by “the Angry Therapist” John Kim to talk about his book “I Used to be a Miserable F*ck” as well as the true way to “man up.” They discuss how you can go from being an angry, macho guy to an evolved version of yourself, what steps fathers – and parents in general – can take to become better role-models, and why being vulnerable can help you when it comes to maintaining your relationships. Plus, how working on your mind can help you be more attentive in the bedroom.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow John Kim on all social @theangrytherapistFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by author Courtenay Hameister to talk about her new book, Okay Fine Whatever, and how getting over your fears in and out of the bedroom can make for a profusely better life all around. Plus, she’s answering your sex and relationship questions. They discuss how someone who has an anxiety disorder went from being afraid of everything to going to sex parties, dating over 100 people, and went to a professional cuddler – as well as why it’s okay not to know what you like sexually – as long as you start taking steps to get there. Plus, advice on what to do when there’s a possible 4 way in your future, and whether or not online interactive porn is actually cheating.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow Courtenay on Twitter @wisenheimerFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the different sexual personality types and where people seem to be going for sexual health information – but probably shouldn’t be. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She goes over what might make you a giver, a decompressor, or an explorer when it comes to sex, how to come clean about dating your best friend’s soon to be ex-husband, and whether or not it’s worth it to teach someone better oral skills. Plus, whether or not to tell your girlfriend you’ve been having sexual dreams about men.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more info on the sex personality types from Vanessa Marin, click HERE.For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by sex educator, writer and contributor for the SWE site Isabella Frappier to talk about her sexual liberation work – as well as how to take charge of your own sexual destiny.They discuss what it means to have sexual sovereignty and whether everyone can achieve it, how you can partake in BDSM and still feel like your partner respects you, and why our sexual pasts don’t need to dictate our sexual futures. Plus, a little sex magic – what is it?!Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more info on Isabella, visit http://www.isabellafrappier.com/ For a discount on Isabella’s course or eBook, use code SEXWITHEMILYFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Margaret Rutherford to talk about her new book, Perfectly Hidden Depression and how it can affect your relationships – including the one with yourself. They discuss where the line is between perfectionism and using it to mask depression, how to recognize the signs you or a loved one might have perfectly hidden depression, and why people need to do their emotional work – because having emotions doesn’t make you weak.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFind more on Dr. Rutherford HERE.For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about how to manifest the sex life that you’ve been craving for 2020, and she taking your sex & relationship questions.She gives you a plan to get you and your partner on track for the sex life you deserve – only if you both have to commit, how to actually keep things going in the bedroom once you’ve gotten all the toys and outfits, and how to get past a traumatizing conclusion to a blowjob. Plus, what to do when you just can’t seem to make a relationship last longer than two years.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today's show, Dr. Emily is joined by her trusty team to give you all some Valentine’s Day gift and date ideas! You know, so you don’t have to do all the hard work yourself.They talk give some gift ideas from the romantic to the pleasurable – including a few you can make yourself, games for some “adult” play time, and date ideas that are more than just a dinner at an over-crowded restaurant sure to get your partner’s engine revved.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFollow Jamie on Twitter: @GarbagePailJameFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of The Sex Ed and host of The Sex Ed podcast Liz Goldwyn to talk about getting past sexual shame and stigmas. They discuss why teaching kids and teens about their bodies and masturbation early can help them have more self-esteem and safer sex lives and what the current sex and dating climate is like post #metoo. Plus, how do you get past the fact that your boyfriend has broken a masturbation boundary, and getting comfortable watching porn with your partner when you’re sober.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow Liz & The Sex Ed on social @thesexed @goldilocksgFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you better ways to give and receive compliments, plus she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.She gives you ways to give amazing compliments and receive them like a pro – because it isn’t always easy, thoughts on being multi-orgasmic as a penis owner, what the real deal with squirting is and whether anyone can do it. Plus, the best lube for those at different stages of life.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman and we’re taking your calls for all your penile needs. Plus, she answers your sex & relationship questions.The two discuss many a penile topic, including what to do when ED is haunting you in the bedroom, what is peyronie’s disease and how does a curved penis affect your sex life, and how do other medications affect your ability to stay hard. Plus, Dr. Emily gives advice on how to have casual sex without catching those gosh darn feelings, and you need help because you’re tempted to have an affair with the hot neighbor.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFind more about Dr. Karpman at https://healthy-male.com/For even sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by dating coach and co-host of the True Sex & Wild Love podcast Whitney Miller to talk about open relationships, plus they’re taking your calls.They give advice on navigating different types of relationships – and how to go about changing your boundaries, as well as how to cope and deal with jealousy in your relationships. Plus, what it’s like to go to an all female play party, and how to bring up the idea of threesomes to your partner without them getting upset.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow Whitney on all social @whitnloveFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about bondage – ways to break into it easily and do it right. Plus, she’s answering your sex and relationship questions. She gives you easy ways to tie your partner up without breaking the bank, how to be more dominant in the bedroom when you’ve never done that before, why you seem to attract emotionally unavailable people, and now that you’ve started talking about sex, how to properly bring up anal. Plus, tips to surprise your long-distance love.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by co-founder of the audio erotica site tryquinn.com Caroline Spiegel to talk about why listening to erotica can be such a turn on. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.They discuss how porn can be more than just visual, and why it may just be the type you’ve been looking for. Then, Emily gives advice on whether or not to disclose to your boyfriend that you had a threesome with a couple he knows, how to do deal with your wife’s claim she’s allergic to your semen, and how to bring up pegging again when the first time didn’t go down so well. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more info on Quinn, visit tryquinn.comFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by radio host, MMA fighter, and author Jason Ellis to talk about his book, Still Awesome – and how to make your sex and relationships awesome, too!The two discuss why it’s so important to embrace your sexuality, and why opening up about it will make you so much happier, ways to make an open relationship work – and what it’s actually like, not what you think it’s like, and why doing your work and going to therapy is vitally important in maintaining relationships with everyone around – including yourself.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow Jason on Instagram @wolfmateFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the benefits that CBD can have on your sex life, and she’s taking your sex and relationship questions. She talks about how so many of us have sexual anxiety, and how CBD might just be the solution you’ve been looking for, what to do when you’re a bisexual man and aren’t quite sure how to explain that to the women you date without being judged, and ways to make sex with your partner fun again after spending too much time down the porn rabbit hole. Plus, what to do when you need a deep connection to have sex, but online dating seems to be all about hooking up.  Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by world renowned psychic therapist and motivational speaker Vincent Genna to talk about how to really make sure you’re getting the most out of your relationships. The two discuss why we so often get in our own way when it comes to relationship happiness, why the saying “opposites attract” may not be entirely true, and why there’s no such thing as “soulmates,” but you can create a soul-mate relationship. Plus, how working through your childhood will help you with your adulthood.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Allison K – a fan and friend of the show – to talk about how to get your sex life back after having breast cancer.They discuss what it’s like to go through breast cancer – from diagnosis to treatment, things to ask and information to get from your doctors (because they don’t always tell you everything), and how to get back into your body and back into a pleasurable sex life. Plus, how to be supportive friends, family, and partners.  Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about one of her favorite things – the art of the tease! Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She gives a lesson on teasing – what it means, why it’s hot, and ways to do it up right, what to do when doggy-style is your partner’s go-to position, but it’s too detached for you, and whether or not you should tell your partner about your sexually fluid past. Happy New Year!Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback show from the SWE vault, Dr. Emily & Menace are talking about how to have the best sex and relationships possible in the new year – plus, they answer your questions.They share some secrets on making a relationship work and why compromise is the name of the game, recommendations on sex toys to use with a partner, and what to do when you’re dating someone with a crazy family. Plus, how to balance your sex life when you’ve got busy schedules and getting past jealousy after an infidelity. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of EatNakedLA Fernando Restrepo to talk about how to be healthier in your regular life for a healthier sex life. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. They discuss how having a healthier diet can actually help your bedroom performance, as well as which foods can make your appetite for sex even higher. Plus, advice on how to give directions in bed that also sound sexy and what to do when you have some qualms about your new partner’s kinks. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor more info on EatNakedLA, follow @eatnakedlaFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the love languages –because there are so many ways to give and receive.She talks about how figuring out each other’s love languages can immensely help make your relationship stronger, why it’s important for both people to make an effort in fixing a relationship, and how learning to love going down on each other can be one of the best steps you take in your sex life. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you a mash-up of holiday proportions – some of our favorite holiday shows wrapped into one for a very sexy time of year!She talks about why being single during the holidays can actually be a great thing, tips on warming up for some hot holiday sex, and some stats about holiday party hookups and sharing the household chores during the winter season. Happy Holidays!Follow Emilly on all social @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by host of the Too Tired to Be Crazy podcast and @daddyissues_ on Instagram Violet Benson to talk about mindsets, what makes great sex, and so much more. They talk about what it’s like to recognize when you’re feeling depressed and when you’re ACTUALLY depressed, why great, connected sex is all about letting go and not worrying about what you look or sound like, and how to stop self-sabotaging and getting in your own way.  Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFollow Violet Benson on all social @daddyissues_ @violetbensonFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about old fashioned dating rituals – what’s stuck & what’s changed. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She discusses trends from dating’s past, and whether it’s time to bring some of them back or if we’re better off, what to do when you’re newly single and are a bit apprehensive on random acts of oral, and how to handle things when you have an open relationship, but the secondary person wants you all to yourself.  Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you a Sex With Emily year in review! She’s doing a quick overview of the top guests, blogs, and moments from 2019.  She discusses the topics that all of you listeners were the most interested in over the year, what blogs helped get your sex lives on track, and the podcasts and guests you all couldn’t get enough of this year. Let’s hear it for 2019 and get off to a great start in 2020!  Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by musician Tom Goss to talk about opening up relationships and his new album that explains it all. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. The two discuss what it’s like to go from being monogamous and in love with one person, to being polyamorous and in love with 2 people and why cheating doesn’t necessarily mean the end of a relationship. Plus, Dr. Emily gives advice on what to do when your partner has a way higher sex drive than you, but won’t initiate, and where’s a guy to finish if you’re not keen on swallowing or spitting during a blowjob. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily Follow Tom on all social @tomgossmusic Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the benefits of phone sex – from upping your sexual confidence to creating your dictionary for dirty talk. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.She discusses the proper ways to navigate a phone sex or sexting conversation, how to help your partner find their confidence in being more dominant during foreplay, and ways to work on your relationship maturity.Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily and her team are helping you give the gift of pleasure this holiday season by going over some of their favorite sex toys!  They talk about some innovative gifts to get your partner, your best friend, or even yourself this year, some new sex tech that will teach you more about your orgasms than you ever thought possible, and what your sexual intentions are for the new year.  Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by entrepreneur and founder of Impact Theory Tom Bilyeu to talk about why a growth mindset is vital to achieving your goals – in your career and your relationships! The two discuss what “having a growth mindset” actually means – and how can you get your partner on board, how to limit your negative self-talk so you don’t limit your potential, and what you can do to make sure your connection lasts (hint: communication is key) – because relationships take work. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily Follow Tom on all social: @tombilyeuFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you all the specific sex hacks you need in order to have amazing multiple orgasms. Plus, she’s answering your sex, dating & relationship questions. She gives her sage advice on what it takes for both men & women to have multiple orgasms – either with a partner or alone, how to move past the constant fear of being “slut-shamed,” and how to leave a “ghoster” in the past and move on. Plus, easing a partner into using a strap-on.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by co-founder of Crave Ti Chang, & they’re talking about the creativity and design that goes into sex toys – plus, all the benefits of self-love – and Dr. Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. They discuss what exactly goes into the design of a sex toy – especially one as elegant & discreet as the Vesper Necklace, ways to get over the stigmas of masturbation, and using pleasure products. Plus, how to pose the idea of opening up your soon-to-be long distance relationship & what to do when your partner is adamantly against you having sex toys.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Ti Chang & Crave, click HERE. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is explaining the differences between physical vs. emotional attraction & whether or not both are needed to be in a relationship, & she’s answering your sex, dating & relationship questions. She talks about the likelihood of growing a physical attraction towards someone that you already have an emotional connection with, what to do when you feel like your body image doesn’t match your partner’s usual type, & the key distinctions between Erotica & pornography. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you a special Thanksgiving Holiday episode that’s all about strengthening your relationships through gratitude – in & outside the bedroom. She gives you a little lesson in partner appreciation & explains how often times it’s the little things that go a long way, why it is that we should all be extremely thankful for sex, & how to get through those awkward ‘relationship questions’ from family members that we all face each holiday season.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, joining Dr. Emily are long time friends & co-founders of the Somatica Institute, Celeste Hirshman & Danielle Harel & they’re talking about their new book Coming Together. The three of them discuss core desires – what are they, how to figure out your own, and how they’ll help your sex life, how to create your “Hottest Sexual Movie,” and ways to be more compatible with your partner. Plus, they give you a lesson on sexual breathing.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Celeste & Danielle, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the spillover effect of stress into your sex life. Plus, she’s taking your calls & answering your sex related questions. She breaks down why it’s important to separate your work life from your sex life, what to do when you’ve opened up your marriage but no longer feel sexually adequate enough for your wife, & how to confront your partner about a bag of never-before-seen sex toys.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by TV personality & icon Jerry Springer and they’re talking about his new show “Judge Jerry” on NBC. Plus, Dr. Emily is answering your sex & relationship questions.The two discuss what Judge Jerry is all about – human connection, relationships & (of course) entertainment, as well as Jerry’s angle on how to maintain a happy marriage. Plus, Dr. Emily gives advice on ways to up your oral sex game & what to do when you have feelings for someone other than your spouse. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor more information on Judge Jerry, click HERE. For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you part two of birth chart readings done by psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed & the two of them are helping callers navigate their sex & relationship lives.Dr. Emily & Dr. Jen are talking to listeners to help them with their sex & relationship journeys based off of the exact time, place & date they were born. Some of the advice includes finding the courage to take the next steps in a relationship, how to get needs met with different sex drives, & putting words into actions in the bedroom. If you enjoyed both part one & part two of the show, please email [email protected] & let us know! Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor more information on Dr. Jen Freed, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about emotional intelligence & how to spot if your date (or partner’s) is high or low. Plus, she answers your sex, dating and relationship questions. She tells us what emotional intelligence is & why it’s so important, what to do when your partner refuses to open up sex conversation due to religious beliefs, & how to cope when you miss being in a relationship. Plus, which first steps to take towards mutual masturbation. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is responding to your emails & giving her expert advice on all your sex, dating & relationship questions.She gives the low down on simultaneous orgasms & how common they are (if at all), what to do when your partner meets their needs online – but not IRL, & how to get over the fear of being replaced by your girlfriend’s sex toys. Plus, what chastity is & how far is "too far" for beginners.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, joining Dr. Emily is best-selling author & co-host of the Hush Money podcast Nicole Lapin & they’re talking about her new book, Becoming Super Woman: A Simple 12-Step Plan to Go from Burnout to Balance.They discuss ways to prevent burnout by finding a good balance for your work and home life, why you want to be “super woman” not SuperWoman, & the family, finance & fun plan – the 3 F’s that will help maintain a steady, level-headed lifestyle. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Nicole Lapin, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving all the tips & tricks you need in order to keep the spark alive in a long distance relationship, because sex & intimacy can prevail no matter the distance! Plus, she’s answering your questions. She shares all the LDR sex hacks such as sexting, FaceTime dates, even to controlling vibrator speeds overseas! Plus, how to recreate the elusive squirting experience you once had with your husband, & ways to overcome brainblocking during sex & relax in the bedroom. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking with her team about some of the greatest sex toys on the market that everyone can enjoy & how to use them to achieve the most pleasure possible.They discuss all types of new toys – from butt plugs to clitoral vibes, to different tasting lubes – & what they’re best used for, personal reviews & hacks that will improve your masturbating game, and guides on how to navigate your body by switching up your routine. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, actress, writer & activist Fran Drescher, aka “The Nanny,” is joining Dr. Emily & the two of them are talking about ways to live the most fruitful & healthy life possible. They chat about the importance of being a medical consumer – not just a patient, how to make a “clean” living, and why getting multiple doctor opinions might just save your life. Plus, they talk about sexual trauma and a few ways to heal so you can get back to a healthy sex life. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Fran Drescher, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a little history lesson all about the vibrator – as well as answering your sex related questions.She tells the tale of the vibrator origin story: where it all began & how they progressed to what they are today. Plus, she gives advice on how to get out of a messy cheating situation, what to do when your husband has an odor – and it ain’t pheromones, and going from monogamous to polyamorous after 52 years together.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, host of the All Out Show on SiriusXM Shade 45, Rude Jude is joining Dr. Emily & the two of them are diving deep into some recent wild sex stories. They talk about threesomes & what it’s like to have one with a partner vs. a unicorn (or even a sex worker), an up close & personal perspective on using toys for the first time, & how to give oral with the most enthusiasm possible. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Rude Jude, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by host of The Dad Edge Podcast Larry Hagner to talk about all things fatherhood, masculinity, and sex. The two discuss what the 5 Dimensions of fatherhood are and why it’s important when it comes to being a successful parent – which includes prioritizing your intimate relationship – because you’re not just parents, you’re lovers. Plus, how to be the best role model for your kids and ways to talk to them about sex and pleasure.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more info on Larry Hagner, click HERE. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a little exercise in mindfulness – because being present in your body helps you in the bedroom. Plus, she’s answering your questions.She discusses how breathing into your senses may be the key to better sex, what to do if you’re getting jealous in your open relationship, and how to get your partner to see why communication is a lubrication – and not a threat to your sex life. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback podcast from the SWE Vault, Dr. Emily is joined by Menace and they’re getting into everything oral sex – from oral etiquette to getting over insecurities – and she’s answering your questions. The two discuss the craziest places they’ve had oral, as well as the way social media is taking a toll on relationships (mind you, this was 3 years ago!). Plus, Emily gives advice on getting past the gag reflex, confusion on your partner’s oral reactions, and details on going from front to back (hint: don’t!).Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFollow Menace on all social: @menaceFor even more sex advice, tips, & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by sex tech expert & host of the Future of Sex podcast, Bryony Cole & they’re talking about sex tech & what the future may hold for anything involving pleasure. Also, Dr. Emily answers your sex related questions. The two of them discuss topics like VR porn — what the draw is to it & how to use it wisely, as well sex robots & their place in the human world. Plus, how to tell your partner they’re a little too rough during oral sex & why is it that vulvas get more love from vibrators than penises. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Bryony Cole, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to make the most out of all your sexual experiences — from penetration, oral, & everything in between!Emily chats about the orgasm gap with friend & CEO of Promescent, what to do if your partner starts to get a little too aggressive about having sex, & where to turn when you’re completely bored by all things sex. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by CEO of Wellex Inc. Shannon Shores & they’re talking about Same Day STD Testing, sexual health, and why it’s so important to get on top of it. Plus, Emily answers your questions. The two of them discuss ways to get all the information you need about STDs, how to get faster results & why the stigma around STIs needs to change. Also, ways that baby making can be sexy & different sex positions that don’t involve penetration.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Same Day STD Testing, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Dean McDermott & Nicky Paris from the new Daddy Issues podcast & they get into all types of sex talk from head pushing, to honeymoon phases, to boredom during sex — pretty much anything we’re willing to do to find our “match.” Plus, Emily answers your questions. She converses with callers about the dark side that social media brings to a relationship, how to return the favor to someone that has awakened you sexually, & all the beginner anal toys for you & your partner to play with together. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more info on Daddy Issues Podcast, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the importance of self care & why we must put ourselves first instead of the ones around us. Plus, she’s answering your sex related questions. She discusses why it’s so hard to develop new & healthier habits for ourselves, what to do when you feel “off” after masturbating but not after sex, & how to properly exercise your dating muscles. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is doing an email blitz — because answering your questions is what she does best! She gives advice on how to tell your partner that their technique is off without hurting their feelings, if you should move on or try again with a relationship that you’ve never fully committed to, & how to find your wife’s hot spot — aka, the clitoris! Plus, how to get your prostate needs met for solo pleasure play. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by movement coach & host of the Align Podcast, Aaron Alexander & they talk about how our daily physical work plays a role in how we get in touch with our bodies in & outside the bedroom.They discuss how the physical alignment of a body can shape a person’s mood, ways that vulnerability can be seen as a strength rather than a weakness, & how masturbating can lead to making better life decisions — or in other words, “post-nut clarity.”Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Aaron Alexander, click HERE.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is breaking down the very common power play fantasy Daddy Dom/Little Girl & she’s answering your sex related questions. She points you in the right direction of how to start a Daddy Dom/Little Girl dynamic, ways to orgasm with new partners, and what exactly the pubic mound is. Plus, how to get out of a long-term relationship rut.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by board certified OBGYN, medical director of VSPot Medi Spa, & author Dr. Carolyn Delucia to talk about the latest technological solutions for women’s health. The two of them talk about new, easy procedures that help women strengthen the pelvic floor & alleviate their pain, what vaginismus is, & her new book Ultimate Intimacy: The Revolutionary Science of Female Sexual Health. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more info on Dr. Carolyn Delucia, click HERE.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by leading meditation expert & founder of Ziva Meditation, Emily Fletcher to talk about her book “Stress Less, Accomplish More.” Plus, Emily answers your questions sent through [email protected]! They talk about using meditation as a means to replace stress with sex, how it doesn’t take an expert at meditation to feel the effects, and why angry make-up sex is so hot. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Emily Fletcher, Click Here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the different types of couples therapy & why every relationship can benefit from it no matter what stage they’re at. Plus she’s answering all your sex, dating & relationship questions. She talks about how couples therapy is actually like a personal trainer for your relationship & why everyone should go sooner rather than later, ways to include intimacy during casual sex, plus, callers join in on the subject of premature escalation while dating.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is focusing on all you penis owners out there & answering a variety of sex related questions from different perspectives all having to do with the male identity. She talks about helping your husband reach his sexual potential, what to expect from sex clubs, how to politely ask your wife to swallow & much more!Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed to read the birth charts of our callers in order to help guide them on their sex & relationship journey – & this is only part one, so be on the lookout for part two! Emily & Dr. Jen talk to listeners just like you to help them with their sexual journeys based off of the exact time, place & date they were born. Some of the advice given includes how to navigate new relationships, ways to masturbate better & body image.If you like the show, please let us know and we can have more call in shows like this. Email [email protected] or leave us a comment on iTunes or wherever you listen to the show!Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more info on Dr. Jennifer Freed, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is bringing you Summer highlights of sex in the news because what better way to welcome in the Fall season than reflecting on the hottest happenings of 2019? Plus, she’s answering all your sex, dating & relationship questions.She talks about all the heat this summer brought us – from accidental orgasms, summer penis, to non consensual choking – & if it was actually hot or not, how video chat is only ideal for first dates but never for sexual compatibility, & ways to find the common ground of sexual experiences with a partner. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback show, Emily & Producer Jamie are bringing you a plethora of pleasure! And to start it off, they get into breast play, as well as the benefits they reap for both the giver & the receiver. They also give their sexy tricks on the favorite toys they love, why all day masturbation seshes are nothing to be ashamed of, and recognizing relationship anxiety. Plus, the ups & downs of the male refractory period. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by adult filmmaker Erika Lust & they’re talking about finding porn that works for you & how to make it work for your partner, too. They discuss why having porn that depicts different stages of life can actually help mental health (& is actually really hot), what it’s like to create porn that’s also a documentary, & the pros & cons to VR porn videos. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more info on Erika Lust, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about sex acts & how they actually happen vs. what’s portrayed on the big screen, & she is giving you tips on how to make them worth while. Plus, she’s answering your questions. She shares hacks on car sex, shower sex – even sex on the beach – & how to make those all great experiences, ways both you & your partner can get back to intimacy after health issues, & what to do when a lifelong fetish gets in the way of your marriage. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex educator & dream-worker Anne Hodder-Shipp to talk about sex dreams, and they’re taking your calls & answering your questions. They discuss what sex dreams really mean & if there are any truths behind them, ways to talk to teens about sex education without blaming or shaming, & how to have more connected sex with woman-on-top. Plus, a g-spot & p-spot location tutorial! Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Anne Hodder-Shipp, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by founder and CEO of Back to the Body: Sensuous Retreats for Women, Pamela Madsen, to talk about all the ways women can unlock their sexual potential.They discuss why it might not be that your libido is low, but that your boredom is high, ways to figure out exactly what you like in the bedroom – and it isn’t your typical sexploration, and explain what the heck “muffining” means and how it can benefit you. Plus, a couple games you can play with your partner to take your sex life up a notch. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more info on Pamela Madsen click HERE. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about independence in a relationship & the importance of establishing those boundaries with a new partner — and as always, answering your sex, dating, & relationship questions.   She gives advice on what to do when you & your partner don’t see eye to eye on how much quality time to spend together, how to give a spectacular nipplegasm (because who doesn’t want that?), and how to unlock those masturbatory multiple orgasms during sex with a partner. Plus, a beginner’s breakdown to prostate play. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by radio host of the All Out Show on SiriusXM Shade 45 @onemorejude & they’re talking about communication and making sex better. Plus, Emily is answering your emails.They talk about how dating gets better as you get older but also how social media plays a big role in it, how to get over an embarrassing sex moment, & ways you and your partner can play around with positions to find the best angles for pleasure. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more info on Rude Jude, click HERE.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by leading fitness authority, entrepreneur, & host of the Habits & Hustle podcast, Jen Cohen, and they’re talking about how to get both the mind & the body on board towards living a healthier lifestyle.The two of them discuss how to create healthy habits & actually stick to them, what makes sex similar to exercise (the more we do it, the more we want it), and ways that working out with a partner can be motivational as well as enjoyable.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor more on Jen Cohen, click HERE.For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about the number one fantasy for men and women — that’s right, threesomes! And she is answering your questions. She breaks down all the boundaries, aftercare, & outcomes that must be discussed with your partner before adding a third, other ways to have sex when penetration is temporarily off the table, and what to do when your are constantly on the road looking for love but have no faith in dating apps. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is reunited with radio personality, friend, & former co-host Menace, & they’re going over some current Sex In The News. Plus, they’re answering your emails.They chat about the most annoying parts of sex that no one likes to talk about but most of us have been through, how Siri & other smart devices may be listening in on our sexual encounters, & what to do when your partner is hung up on your past.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more info on Menace, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by attorney, author, & Family Law Expert, Laura Wasser to talk about the difficulties of divorce & why it should be easier and how sex plays a role in it all.They discuss why finalizing a divorce is such a struggle, the main reasons why people separate and how it all comes down to communication, and what we should all know before walking down the aisle.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.comFor more information on Laura Wasser, click HERE Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is debunking the overall perception of porn & why using it as a rulebook for sex will cause more harm than good, plus she’s answering your calls & emails.She gives examples of how people have used porn as sex ed instead of entertainment, how to tell your wife (nicely) that you’d love to go down on her more but you can’t stand her lack of up-keep, & ways to get your boyfriend to be more expressive during sex because you can’t stand his silence.Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemilyFor even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by certified sex coach, clinic director of Natural Healing & Acupuncture, & author of the new book “Conceiving with Love” Denise Wiesner to share her holistic approach on all things you should & shouldn’t do while trying to have a baby. They give you tips on ways to have hot baby-making sex, how using Chinese medicine like herbs, acupuncture, & diet can help when trying to conceive, as well as natural & holistic hacks that heighten your senses & stimulate sex.  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: pjur, Zumio, Womanizer, SiriusXM, Emily’s Subscription Box. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Denise Wiesner, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex educator & creator of b-Vibe, Alicia Sinclair, and they’re talking about the beautiful butt and all it beholds!  They discuss why anal play is so misunderstood even though it can provide pleasure for everyone, b-Vibe’s Anal Training Kit that’s perfect for warming up your bum, and proper ass worship — because butt’s are more than just what’s on the inside. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Zumio, SiriusXM, pjur, Same Day STD Testing Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Alicia Sinclair & b-Vibe, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is discussing the traits that fit your specific “type” of person and why these characteristics tend to go overlooked – and she’s answering your calls. She talks about attracting either your opposite or another version of yourself when dating, ways to get your partner to improve their dirty talking skills during sex, and what it means to be asexual.  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Emily’s Subscription Box, We-Vibe Vector, Adam & Eve, SiriusXM, In Control Intensity  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show & in honor of Alternative August, Emily is bringing you a mash-up show all about anal sex: the trials, tribulations, pleasures, & ways to make it is as pleasant as possible.  She gives you first timer tricks & tips on what to do when your partner keeps pestering you for anal & she talks with a mixture of women from different backgrounds to share their stories & experiences with backdoor play. Plus, all the myths, overall attraction, & ways to warm yourself up to the idea of anything anal.   Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Muse, Veritas Farms, Magic Wand, SiriusXM, Promescent. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Violet Benson, creator of @daddyissues_ on Instagram, to talk about her new podcast "Too Tired to Be Crazy", as well as hookups, cancelling plans, toxic relationships, & so much more!  They talk about the fine line between confidence vs. cockiness & why it’s important to make the distinction, ways to keep intimacy alive if you’re not having sex, as well as what it’s like to have an Instagram persona. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Emily's Subscription Box, Woo More Play, We-Vibe Vector, SiriusXM, BTL Emsella.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Violet Benson, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is giving you sexy summer tips on how to properly have sex in the water and she’s answering your calls & emails. She gives advice on what to do when your body is too tense during sex to even orgasm, ways to know if ending a relationship is the right thing to do, & how to have sex when the kids are always around.  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: pjur, Manscaped, Same Day STD Testing, SiriusXM, Magic Wand.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by comedian Michael Yo & they’re talking about the difference between dating life & married life — specifically the relationships and the sex — and Emily is taking your calls & emails.  She gives advice on what to do when your partner brushes you off during a threesome, how to interpret the phrase “I don’t like labels” in the dating world, & the next steps to take when a hookup you’ve wanted for years didn’t quite meet up to your sexpectations. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: In Control Intensity, Muse, ThirdLove, SiriusXM, Womanizer.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Michael Yo, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex educator Zoe Ligon & the two of them cover topics from sexual mental health to chastity – even dildos! They discuss why it’s okay to take a break from dating, sex, or masturbation, ways to have fun exploring & getting into new kinks with your partner, as well as the latest & greatest sex tech news. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand, Veritas Farms, BTL Emsella, SiriusXM, Promescent. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Zoe Ligon, click HERE. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about new dating terms you may (or may not) have heard of & what they mean. Plus, she answers your calls and emails.  She gives advice on what to do when your partner decides to “officially” break up after taking a break, how to keep rim jobs sanitary – and pleasurable (of course), and ways to get your partner to actually stick to the sex schedule.    Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand, Same Day STD Testing, SiriusXM, Promescent  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about breakups – how to get through them, repair from them, and ways to move on. Plus, she is answering your emails.  She gives you the low-down on dildos & how to get the most pleasure out of a self-powered sex toy, what to do when you’re married, but you caught “the feels” for a coworker, and how to move forward when your partner has ulterior motives for wanting a threesome.  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: BTL Emsella, Apex, Woo Freshies, SiriusXM, Zumio. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily’s joined by Rayna Greenberg & Ashley Hesseltine from the Girls Gotta Eat podcast & they’re talking about efficient ways to date & how your sex life actually gets better as you get older. Plus, Emily takes your calls & emails. Emily gives advice on what it means to be a sexual person, perfect positions when you’re told you’re “too big,” & what to do when you’re bold in text & over the phone but extremely timid in person. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Womanizer, Adam & Eve, SiriusXM, We-Vibe.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Girls Gotta, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking to you about what actually happens to our bodies when we get aroused, and she is taking your calls.  She breaks down what monogamous relationships really are and what is considered cheating, what to do when you catch your pre-teen looking up porn on the internet, and the dos and don’ts for beginner BDSM play. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Cal Exotics, pjur, SiriusXM, Good Vibrations.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by acupuncturist and Master of Chinese Medicine, Christian Cristiano, to talk about energy, acupuncture & how it all can affect your sex life. Plus, she’s answering your emails.  Emily gives insight on how to take the amazing dynamic you share in the bedroom with your partner and apply it to other parts of the relationship, can the time of day have an effect on different types of orgasms, & what physical vs. romantic attraction means.  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Promescent, Away Luggage, SiriusXM, Muse, Veritas Farms.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Christian Cristiano, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Alex Cooper and Sofia Franklyn from the popular podcast Call Her Daddy & they talk about oral sex tips for all and why we all need to speak up a bit more in the bedroom. Plus, she’s taking your emails.  The three of them go over the “gluck gluck 9000” & “cooch gobbler combo,” – what they are and how to do them. Then, Emily gives advice on how to respect the faith of your overly religious partner and still remain sexual, what to do when you’re finishing too fast (as a woman), and how to stop thinking about your ex and focus on your current partner.  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Good Vibrations, Apex, Magic Wand, SiriusXM, Same Day STD Testing.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Call Her Daddy, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is revealing the common lies that people tell around sex – which we’re all guilty of telling at least one. Plus, she’s taking your calls. She discusses the lies men and women tell around sex – and why it’s better to just be honest. Then, she gives advice on what to do when you’ve tried to be sexually compatible, but it just doesn’t seem possible, tips on swallowing without gagging – with one you may not have heard, and how to love your body when you’ve got some asymmetrical anatomy going on. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We-Vibe, Adam & Eve, Muse, SiriusXM, Promescent Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s throwback show, Emily & Menace talk about why summer is the hottest season — and they’re not just talking about the weather. Plus, they answer your emails.  The two give ways to beat the heat in and out of the bedroom, as well as whether or not sunlight can make you more attractive. Then, they answer emails about how to find your confidence when striking up a flirty conversation, what you might expect from an age difference relationship, and how to stay faithful when a cheating opportunity presents itself. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Zumio, pjur, SiriusXM, BTL Emsella Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by best-selling author David Ewing Duncan to talk about this new book, Talking to Robots – and their breaking down the chapters about intimacy & sex! Plus, Emily answers your emails. The two discuss what the future may hold for sex & intimacy robots (imagine a hologram version of Emily in your bedroom?!). Then, Emily answers questions about what to do when you love going down on your partner, but they’re a little apprehensive, the age old sexual grooming question – to shave or not to shave, and your partner’s pushing for a threesome, but with a full house, it’s the last thing on your mind.  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Veritas Farms, Muse, SiriusXM, Womanizer Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For more on "Talking to Robots," click HERE. For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to have sex that aren’t penetration – because there is SO many ways to get it on between the sheets – and she’s taking your calls. She helps you get your confidence back after a long-distance love destroyed it, how to get your partner to pull the trigger when you want to peg them, and how to come clean to your wife about your love for crossdressing. Plus, tips on getting your confidence up when talking to women. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We-Vibe, SameDaySTD, SiriusXM, Magic Wand Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Jim McBride a.k.a. “Mr. Skin” to talk about his new book, Being Mr. Skin: 20 Years of Nip Slips, Cheek Peeks & Fast Forwarding to the Good Parts. Plus, she’s taking your emails.  The two discuss what it’s like to have a family & a very sexually open career – as well as keeping up with the times. Then, Emily gives advice on how far is too far when it comes to revealing your fantasies to your partner, how to go from best friends to lovers, and where exactly the prostate is and how to stroke it for your partner. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Apex, ThirdLove, Zumio, SiriusXM, Good Vibrations Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For more on Mr. Skin's book, click HERE. For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by internationally certified astrologer & psychotherapist Dr. Jennifer Freed to talk about her Sexual Wisdom course, as well as better ways to discuss relationships & sex with people of all ages.  They get to the root of what psychological astrology is and how can it help you understand your relationships, the importance of defining your values and where you learned your views on sex, and true embodiment – how to really be present in your body and feel all your senses. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: BTL, Good Vibrations, Cal Ex, SiriusXM, Woo Freshies Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For more on Dr. Jennifer Freed, click HERE. For even more sex advice, tips & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to amp up your dating profile because who wouldn’t like a little coaching in that department? Plus, she’s taking your calls.  She gives you a script for telling your partner – who you love and adore – that the sex could use some sprucing up, what to do when your ex has a hall pass and they choose you, and grooming tips to get past the pesky razor burn. Plus, how to reassure your partner when the toy you brought out during sex wasn’t well received. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Promescent, Veritas Farms, SiriusXM, Womanizer Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is giving you a myriad of vagina facts – and some might just surprise you. Plus, she’s answering your emails.  She reveals the right amount of time to take before trying to be friends with your ex again, what to do when doggystyle is getting a little too painful, and if having a BDSM session without sexual contact is still considered cheating. Plus, whether or not there’s a way out of the friend-zone. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand, pjur, Apex, We-Vibe, SiriusXM Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today's show, Emily is joined by friend, actress & writer Kirsten Vangsness and they're talking about sexual shame, how to deal with rejection, and why feminine energy is so powerful! Plus, she's answering your emails.  She talks about ways to learn how to be dominant when you’re usually submissive, how to get your partner interested in sex again when you’ve started finishing a little too early, and ways to get your brain on board for blowjobs. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Magic Wand, CalExotics, Uberlube, SiriusXM, Emily's Subscription Box Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more info on Kirsten Vangsness, click HERE Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is giving you the lowdown on lube in order to find your perfect match, and she’s taking your calls and emails. She talks about whether it’s proper progressive parenting to give your teen a sex toy, which anal sex positions are best for everyone to enjoy, and how to get yourself in the mood for sex when you’re too tired. Plus, ways to keep up with your multi-orgasmic partner. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Apex, Adam & Eve, SiriusXM, Woo Freshies, We-Vibe  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by board certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman to talk about the penis & how to be your healthiest self to have the sex life you deserve.  They discuss the most common penis challenges and ways to work through them, how to get your brain on board when you’re dealing with performance anxiety, and what a penis implant actually is & how it works – because your sex life does not have to end! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We-Vibe, pjur, Apex, SiriusXM, Veritas Farms  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Dr. Edward Karpman, click HERE Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by writer, producer and author Jacob Tobia to talk about their book Sissy: A Coming of Gender Story. They clarify the differences between gender, sex, and orientation and what it means to be gender neutral, as well as “gender-chill.” Plus, the journey we go through to find our identity – because it’s not always easy, and inspiration to live our lives and feel sexy & confident – no matter what turns you on! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Adam & Eve, pjur, Boston Scientific, SiriusXM, Veritas Farms.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more info on Jacob Tobia, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is giving you tips on how to successfully use a vibrator during sex, and she’s taking your calls. She shares her knowledge about female ejaculation (because you’re never too young or too old), what to do when your fiance excludes you from social events, and whether or not your should stay or go in a relationship that needs saving. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Woo Freshies, Womanizer, BTL Emsella, SiriusXM, Promescent. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is acting as your very own compass to keep you on the most pleasurable path possible – because sex is a journey – and she’s taking your emails. She gives you all the best beginner bondage tips, advice on what to do when you start developing feelings for your best friend after a (very hot) threesome, and why texts with the opposite sex might be a downfall in your marriage. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: BTL Emsella, Promescent, Good Vibrations, SiriusXM, Magic Wand. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by renowned sex researcher and educator Dr. Helen Fisher to talk about sex, the brain, and so much more. They talk about how hormones play a role in our attraction towards others, ways to efficiently date online – no matter what app you’re on, and why rejection is so difficult to cope with. Plus, believe it or not, millennials are actually doing something right with how they date and interact! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Boston Scientific, Good Vibrations, Magic Wand, SiriusXM, Woo Freshies.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Helen Fisher, click HERE.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.