Anonymous says she’s having problems with her step daughter, who’s her husband’s daughter, and doesn’t know what to do.  Anonymous says her step daughter has a bad attitude and is mean and rude towards her. Anonymous says her step daughter also goes around the neighbourhood lying to neighbours about her. Anonymous also adds that they have a 10 year age gap. Anonymous says she’s also confronted her husband about this but he doesn’t seem to be able to resolve the matter.  Anonymous says she doesn’t know what to do now as this situation is affecting her relationship with her husband, anonymous and her husband have two kids together. 

Anonymous says she’s been married for 18 years now and they have 3 kids with her husband and don’t want any more kids. Anonymous says after turning 40, she wants to get off the pill.  Anonymous says her and her partner have explored other birth control methods and the best one for them is for him to get a vasectomy but her partner is not keen and seems like he’s not interested in getting a vasectomy.  Anonymous says she doesn’t get why her husband  doesn’t want to get a vasectomy and wants a man’s perspective on whether she’s asking for too much.

Anonymous says she’s been in a relationship with the father of her child for 7 years and things were ok until earlier this year when she realised he was cheating on her.  Anonymous says when she confronted him about it he confessed that he was cheating and was in love with the other lady and he intended to keep seeing the other lady. Anonymous stuck around but eventually moved out of their place because of his affair.  Anonymous says they are now sort of back together and he’s treating her amazingly and their relationship is good, however, her partner still says he still wants to be with the other lady as well.

Anonymous says she has known her partner for about 12 years now, since her first year in varsity. Anonymous says after her partner’s aunt passed away, they took in the children and raised them till they moved out in 2019. Anonymous says she had a child with him in 2019 & 2020, but the first child unfortunately died two years ago due to illness.  Anonymous says they got married around 2019, however over a couple of years his behaviour changed. Anonymous says he started looking down on her, complaining about her weight and how she runs their household. Anonymous also describes how he goes out drinking and comes back home demanding sex from her, he has also cheated on anonymous but is not remorseful for any of his behaviour. Anonymous says she’s tried to complain to his family but they are not able to talk to him as he’s the breadwinner at home.  Anonymous says she’s had enough and doesn’t know what’s holding her back.

Anonymous says she’s been married to her husband for 6 years now. She says when they initially met he was married, they hooked up, but he disappeared and came back months later after breaking up with his wife.  Anonymous says they then dated and about 3 months into their relationship, she found out he was cheating, she forgave him and they moved on and got married.  Anonymous says last year while she was pregnant and visiting her child who lives with her parents, she tried to contact him but couldn’t reach him, she returned back to their place only to find the place trashed and an open condom wrapper in one of the rooms. Anonymous says her partner later confessed that he had come back home with some girls who drugged him and stole from them.  Anonymous says a similar incident has now taken place again,, she visited her family and he was busy with his shenanigans again.

Anonymous says she married her husband last year November and she gave birth to their child in August of this year.  Anonymous says she came into the relationship with one child, so did her husband,  and says less than a year into their relationship her partner wants a divorce. Anonymous says she’s taken aback by this as the father of her first child also broke up with her a month after she gave birth.  Anonymous is wondering what she’s doing that’s causing history to repeat itself. Anonymous adds that the current fight with her partner is based on how often her first daughter can visit their house, her husband wants the visits to be less frequent.  Anonymous also says there was a change in how they communicate and time spent together when they got married.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner since 2014 and they each came  into the relationship with a child. Anonymous says they started lobola proceedings in 2016, however he still needs to complete the process and they now have two kids together.  Anonymous says they then started working together at the same place for a few years and everything was fine until he started working somewhere else, far from home, and their relationship became more of a long distance relationship.  Anonymous says he found out that she was cheating on him with someone from work and when he confronted her about it, she explained that she was feeling lonely because she wasn’t seeing him as often as she used to.  Anonymous believes she’s cheated on him again and again and thinks she’s back it again right now. Anonymous says he was planning on completing the lobola this year but he’s now wondering if he should just let go of the relationship.

Anonymous says she’s in her early twenties and in a relationship with a man in his mid-thirties. She fell in love instantly and they started dating.  Anonymous says he found conversations on his phone that indicated that he was chatting with other ladies and she snapped and confronted him about this and it caused a rift between them.  Anonymous says he is now not even taking her calls and she wonders if she overreacted and wants him back in her life.

Anonymous says when she first her current partner, he made it clear that he had someone else. Anonymous says she was ok with this as long as he doesn’t treat her like “the other woman”.  Anonymous says there was then an incident while they were dating where she caught him red handed cheating, which led to her damaging his car, but they got back together after this incident.  Anonymous says he then came to her asking for money and she refused. Following that he pressed charges against her for damaging his car and she was arrested.  Anonymous says they didn’t chat for a while after this but they ended up getting back together and she fell pregnant. She says he was initially disinterested in their child but after a while he warmed up to the child.  Anonymous says despite them being together, the other girl he cheated on her with is still in the picture.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for 6 years and says their relationship is generally good but he feels like his partner is financially irresponsible.  Anonymous says his partner doesn’t budget properly and has accumulated a lot of debt. He says she also seems to be an impulse buyer.  Anonymous says he’s confronted her about this and he advised her to change her behaviour however she hasn’t changed her spending habits.  Anonymous says he’s frustrated by this and feels like he’s not progressing in life because of this behaviour.

Anonymous says he has two partners and initially he dated both of them and they were not aware of this situation. Anonymous says he eventually married lady no.1 and after the marriage he confessed to the ladies that he was seeing both of them.  Anonymous says lady no.1 was initially resistant to the idea of being in a polygamous relationship but accepted it. Anonymous says he is now in a polygamous relationship and has bought homes for both his partners and has kids with both of them.  Anonymous says the issue he has now is that the partners get upset with him when he visits the other and he’s not sure how to navigate that.

Anonymous says she was in a relationship for 6 years with her ex until they broke up two years ago and they have a child together.  Anonymous says they’ve been co-parenting well during that time however anonymous says a week ago, her daughter shared that she’d been spending time with her new mommy while visiting her dad. Anonymous says she was confused by this as she wasn’t told by her ex that he’s in a relationship now and that his new partner has access to their daughter.  Anonymous says she hasn’t been introduced to her ex’s new partner and feels like she’s being disrespected in this situation. Anonymous says she also has a partner but that partner hasn’t met her daughter out of respect. Anonymous says she’s not sure if she’s overreacting or whether she should speak to ex about this.

Anonymous says she started dating her current partner after meeting him at her child’s school and adds that he has a good relationship with her child.  Anonymous says they went on with their relationship and she fell pregnant unintentionally as they were relying on the “pull-out” method. Anonymous says she terminated her pregnancy because she felt like they were not financially prepared at the time.  Anonymous says they met around the Covid period, and he he wasn’t working at the time and was available for her. He’s back at work now and anonymous says she feels like he’s not making time for her and has said to her that he’s just currently really hectic.  Anonymous says she has no reason to suspect that he’s cheating and just feels like their relationship is stagnant. She loves him and doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she’s been dating her current partner for the last year and says the relationship has been good for the most part.  Anonymous says her partner told her he was being evicted from his place and was cagy about the information when he needed to move, but anonymous later realised that he actually used to live with someone at that place and the lease was under that partners name, hence he needed to leave.  Anonymous says she overlooked this and they continued with their relationship, anonymous even allowed him to move in with her and her kids while he finds a place.  Anonymous says during the time he lived with her he was not contributing in the household. He has now moved out to his own place but anonymous says he visits a lot and still doesn’t contribute to the household.  Anonymous says she also caught him speaking on the phone with another lady and suspects that he might be cheating but he says that’s not the case.

Anonymous says he’s been dating his partner for 9 months and says they keep getting into conflicts and he doesn’t understand why this keeps happening.  Anonymous says his partner is slightly older than him in her thirties and he’s in his twenties, anonymous adds that she has a child. Anonymous says one of the things is that he’s an indoors kind of person and she likes to go out, which has created tension between them.  Anonymous says he once caught her cheating on him and she lied about it. Anonymous says he’s not sure if she’s present in the relationship and wants to be in it or not. 

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 5 years now and they have a child together. Anonymous says the relationship was great however she realised about two years ago that he had been cheating on her throughout their relationship. Anonymous says she confronted him about this, he apologised and they moved on with their relationship.  Anonymous says she then found out that he was cheating again, and they separated but later got back together.  Anonymous says fast forward to this year, she met a new guy and says he treats her well and they’ve built something. Anonymous says her partner found out that she has someone new and she told her partner that she wants to break up with him because she doesn’t trust him anymore.  Anonymous says she wants to leave her partner but he doesn’t want to break up with her and says he’s stopped cheating. Anonymous is not sure if he really does love her after all he’s done to her.

Anonymous says her relationship with guy no.1 lasted about 6 months. Anonymous says she has a son and because of this she gave the guy ground rules to say they’d be spending time outside and he could never sleep over. Anonymous says these limitations seem to have caused tension in their relationship and they eventually broke things off.  Anonymous says her most recent relationship, guy no.2, is someone she dated 10 years ago and they got back together. Anonymous says she feels like the guy doesn’t give her much attention, especially when they are spending time together, and when she brings this up, he doesn’t respond positively to her.  Anonymous says she is not sure if maybe she is the problem in these relationships.

Anonymous says he’s dating his current girlfriend for a second time, after initially dating for a year and breaking up.  Anonymous says they’ve now been dating for several years and their relationship is fine however the problem is his girlfriend’s mother.  He says recently his girlfriend and her mother asked him to come pick them up and while he was driving with them in the car, they overheard him talking to a friend about colleagues that are taking advantage of him, but misunderstood and thought that he was talking about them. That created a rift, with the mother saying they don’t need him and suggesting that they are not his charity case. Anonymous says the mother told him not to contact them and now anonymous and his girlfriend are not on speaking terms.  Anonymous says when they got back together he was told that his girlfriend has someone and he’s just friend.

Anonymous says she’s in her mid thirties and has three kids from three different men. Anonymous says the first child was as a result of being young. She was in love with the second guy but he didn’t love her, and then with the third guy she didn’t love him but fell pregnant by accident with his child and she tried to develop something with him but it didn’t work. Anonymous says she’s now in the talking stage with a fourth guy, who’s dating someone else, and says he’s in love with her and she likes him too but she doesn’t want anything too deep with him, and has explained to him that she’s ok being a sidekick.  Anonymous wonders if she’s selling herself short with this request.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner since high school, however, in their matric year he impregnated another girl, she also fell pregnant around the same time and they continued with their relationship.  Anonymous says they’ve been together for 24 years now but he did have an affair with another woman for about 2 years 10 years ago, but they’ve since moved on from that. Anonymous says they had agreed they would not have more kids, however, he has now changed his mind and as a result of family pressure, he wants to have another child, but she’s not interested.  Anonymous says she doesn’t want another child as she feels like she doesn’t have the capacity to raise another child. Anonymous says this has now caused a rift in their relationship and she’s not sure if she’s being selfish for not wanting to have another child.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner since November last year and says the relationship was fine until her partner introduced her to his family.  Anonymous says her partner lives with his family and says the mother of his child is always there with his family. Anonymous says she brought up that she’s not comfortable with how often his ex visits but that only ended up causing a rift between her and his family and led to tension within their relationship.  Anonymous says they also have other issues in their relationship, however she feels like he never wants to address any conflicts they run into in their relationship. Anonymous says he tends to go quiet and she’s always the one to reach out to him to try and resolve the conflict.  Anonymous is not sure if she should remain in this relationship and wonders if she might be the problem.

Anonymous says she’s been dating her partner for 10 months and he is a radio presenter. Anonymous says she’s noticed a pattern in their relationship, she says overtime they have a relationship quarrel he takes it to air on his show, even tough he refuses to discuss those things with her when she brings them up.  Anonymous says another issue is that he is not earning much and says she’s tried to motivate him to make career moves that would lead him to doing better financially, however, anonymous says he doesn’t really take her advice and has gone on air speaking about partners that try to control you.  Anonymous doesn’t know how to feel about all this.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 12 years and says she was a side chick for the first two years of their relationship. Anonymous says while in the relationship she had a one night stand and fell pregnant.  Anonymous says her partner found out that the child wasn’t his, something he wasn’t happy about but decided to remain in a relationship with anonymous because he loved her. Anonymous says years later they now have two children together.  Anonymous says her partner has been emotionally abusive towards her over the years. She adds that he lost his job at some point and stopped supporting her and the children.  Anonymous says over the last year he started cheating on her and despite having money now, he is not supporting the children. Anonymous is not sure how to move forward.

Anonymous says she met a guy last year while she was in a relationship and that guy was also in a relationship. Anonymous says they wanted to break up with their partners but she made him delay his break as his partner at the time was pregnant and she advised that he wait until she gives birth.  Anonymous says they kept their relationship a secret until his parents caught her with him. Anonymous says he’s still kind of with the baby mama, who lives with him and his parents, and says she’s not sure if he’s fooling her.  Anonymous says he tends to not communicate when he’s not with her and says when he is with her, the mother of his child is always calling needing things from him. Anonymous says she’s not sure if she should hold on and wait on him to commit fully to her or just move on.

Anonymous says she met guy on a dating app three years ago and they ended up meeting up. Anonymous says she wasn’t attracted to some of his physical attributes when they first met and therefore didn’t continue anything with him.  Anonymous says now, 3 years later, he reached out to her asking her to assist him in planning his mother’s birthday party, anonymous says they met up and even ended up having sex despite him being uncircumcised, something she has a problem with.  It’s been 3 weeks since they reconnected and she even met his family. He now wants to marry her in the next two months but anonymous doesn’t know if she should marry him, especially because she’s not physically attracted to him and he’s still uncircumcised. She wonders if she can change his look.

Anonymous says her and her partner have been together for the last few years but she says last year he started changing his behaviour towards her and anonymous says he eventually told her that he was uncomfortable living with her as his family were not happy with that and they were scared he might impregnate her which would mean he would have 4 children with 4 different women out of wedlock.    Anonymous says she moved out but went back after he called her saying he misses her. Anonymous says their relationship wasn’t great after she moved back and he confessed that he had fallen out of love with her.    Anonymous says she moved out after this but he called again saying he misses her. Anonymous says they were meant to meet up but he didn't show up and he ghosted her. Anonymous says she then heard from his sister who revealed that he announced to the family that he's marrying another woman.    Anonymous says a few weeks after hearing about the engagement he reached out to her and they met and he told her that he wants to be in a polygamous relationship, something anonymous didn’t show a keen interest in. Anonymous says he has now said to her that he doesn’t want his fiancé anymore and wants to be with her, he’s still together Anonymous is confused by all this. 

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for about a year and a half now and things have been good, however they got into a serious fight in the last few months and things became really sour but they resolved the issue.  Anonymous says since then she’s noticed that his behaviour is on and off and she never knows which version of him she’s going to get.  Anonymous says she wonders if she can carry on with him like that, she says she loves him and is scared of losing him as he’s her first really serious relationship. 

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for about 8 years now and they moved in together a year into their relationship. Anonymous says they couldn’t agree on buying property but she eventually bought a place in 2021 and they live together there.  Anonymous says she gave birth to their child this year and they are now married but she feels like she’s carrying all the weight in the relationship in various aspects. Anonymous says he’s not there for her and their family in the way that she expected.

Anonymous  has a child and has been with her partner for about 3 years now and things have been good. The problem is that the guy wants to have a child with anonymous but anonymous says she’s not ready to have another child, especially out of wedlock.  Anonymous says he then tried to hire a surrogate for them but which persuaded her to try and have a baby with him, however they were not able to conceive, something that frustrated her partner and he needed up getting married to someone else.  He now wants to be with her and engage in a polygamous marriage but she’s not interested.

Anonymous says she broke with her ex after finding out that he had been cheating on her with multiple women. Anonymous says she realised months after they broke up that she was pregnant, however she miscarried but never told him about this. Anonymous is wondering if she should tell him about this.  Anonymous says another situation is that she’s in a relationship with a married man. Anonymous says they did break up at some point with this guy as she realised they don’t have a bright future together, however, they got back together a couple of months ago. Anonymous says she’s not sure if she wants to carry on with the guy, as she’s uncomfortable in the relationship, but she doesn’t know how to break up with him. 

Anonymous says he’s been dating his partner since the beginning of this year and things have become weird since her birthday.  Anonymous says when it was his birthday she didn’t do much for him but on her birthday she expected him to take her out but he couldn’t because of his finances, which led to her going out with friends and not communicating with him while she’s out and about.  Anonymous says she’s very financially demanding and doesn’t he doesn’t understand her behaviour, especially because they’ve only been dating for 6 months. Anonymous adds that she’s a bully and he’s struggling to date her but he loves her.

Anonymous says he met his current partner, lady no.2, in 2021 while he was dating lady no.1 whom he had impregnated but their relationship was tanking because he felt disrespected by lady no.1 who eventually started dating someone else.  Anonymous says problems started happening in his relationship with lady no.2 because she had STIs and it was left unexplained where they were coming from. Anonymous says he eventually went through her phone and found dodgy messages between his partner and other guys.  Anonymous says they took a break from having sex because of all of this and during that he started having a sexual affair with someone else on the side, his partner found out, but they dealt with it and continued with their relationship.  Anonymous says he has since found other texts between her and another guy, he adds that he’s currently going through a loss and she’s not even there for her. Anonymous says this situation reminds him of his previous relationship and he’s not sure if he should move on.

Anonymous says she met an older guy a while back and she fell deep in love with him. Anonymous says last year she found him with another lady at his place, however she forgave him for this and they continued dating.  Anonymous says she moved closer to him to be with him and he even got her a job, however, Anonymous says things have faded between them and he doesn’t really talk to her anymore.  Anonymous says she’s hurt by this and wants to move on but she’s struggling to deal with her feelings for him and doesn’t want to let him go because despite his behaviour, she’s in love with him. Anonymous wants to know how to get over her feelings.

Anonymous says she’s been dating her current partner for just under two years now. She says everything was cool in the beginning of the relationship however as things went by he became verbally abusive and they would get into a lot of fights. Anonymous says after a recent fight she confronted him about his behaviour he defended his behaviour and said that anonymous is over sensitive and if she can’t handle his behaviour, she’ll have to leave him. Anonymous is not sure if she is being sensitive or if he’s just bad for her and she should just leave.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 7 years and they have two children together.  Anonymous says they took their kids to the clinic this morning and while there she asked her partner to fix their child’s pants and he didn’t like this  saying that he didn’t like that she asked him in front of another man as this made him feel small.  Anonymous says he added that she’s always making him feel small in front of other people. Anonymous says she understands that he’s going through a lot as he’s unemployed and going through some financial issues with his family, however, she’s not sure how to deal with this.

Anonymous says she’s been dating her partner for the last 6 years and says she came into the relationship with one child and they have one child together.  Anonymous says finances are an issue in their relationship as she does everything in the house despite him earning much more than her.   Anonymous says she also feels lonely in her relationship because he’s distant and sometimes doesn’t even sleep in their bed and they haven’t had sex in 2 years.  Anonymous says she’s HIV positive and feels like he might be staying with her because he feels sorry for her because of her status.  Anonymous doesn’t know if she should stay in the relationship.

Anonymous says after 3 years of being with her partner she ended up cheating on him because of his lack of communication, he even disappeared for about 3 months. Anonymous says they ended up breaking up because she cheated on him, however, they’ve now gotten back together years later but anonymous says they seem to be struggling to build their new relationship because he’s struggling to trust her after what she did in their previous relationship.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for 8 years and says he recently found out that his partner has been cheating on him with a guy that he knows for about 5 months.  Anonymous says they are still trying to work on their relationship after this but he’s struggling to move on as he feels like she’s lying to him about the reasons why she cheated on him.  Anonymous says her excuse for cheating on him is that the guy was offering her a job and she was just using him to get a job - a job she still doesn’t have.  Anonymous is struggling to believe this and doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she’s been with her boyfriend for almost 10 years and after finding out that he cheated on her multiple times she started cheating on him and has been having that affair for about a year. Anonymous says after testing for HIV with her side they started having unprotected sex. Anonymous says she isn’t on any pregnancy prevention methods because after 10 years with her partner she never fell pregnant, however, she is now pregnant and says based on when she slept with her side, she believes he’s the father of the baby. She’s told her side about the pregnancy but doesn’t know how to go about telling her partner.

Anonymous says she’s been dating her current partner for two years on and off. Anonymous says the guy is rich and when he wanted to marry her after two weeks of knowing her she was suspicious and suspected that he was trying to do this for witchcraft related reasons, so she held back a bit on their relationship and said no to the marriage proposal but months later they continued with a more casual relationship. Anonymous says they eventually got serious in their relationship but she found out that he married someone else while they were still more casual. Anonymous says she’s continued to date him for a year knowing that he’s married and says she’s willing to become a second wife but she’s not sure if that’s the right thing to do on her part.

Anonymous says before he met his current girlfriend he had had his heart broken and had decided that he would never fall deeply for anyone. Anonymous says despite this he slowly fell in love with his partner who he met in 2021. Anonymous says he found her partner with one child and a year into their relationship he made a request that they have a child together. Anonymous says his partner was not ready for financial reasons and when they both finally had work they decided to try and anonymous’ partner did fall pregnant but she ended up aborting the baby despite him being against that. Anonymous says after all this he met someone new and impregnated that lady. Anonymous says he initially kept this child a secret from his partner but ended up telling his partner about the child. Anonymous says this has affected their relationship and he now suspects that his partner is cheating on him.

Anonymous says she hasn’t had a relationship with her father for about 15 years and recently she asked him for help and he couldn’t help her which triggered her and her trauma. Anonymous says this has highlighted how she struggles to deal with men and doesn’t know how to relationship with men, especially the father of her child because of her childhood trauma. Anonymous says she wants to learn how to love herself and be able to love fully in relationships.

Anonymous says he’s been in a relationship for 4 years and he says they have two kids with his partner. Anonymous says he liked a different lady before meeting his partner but that lady friend zoned him and he moved on. Anonymous says that lady then came back into his life while he was already with his current partner and he had a bit of an affair with the lady. Anonymous says the affair ended when his wife fell pregnant but his partner later found the messages between him and this lady. Anonymous says they got passed this with his partner but as time went by his partner got very angry and always lashing out at him. Anonymous says they went through a few things after this, emotionally and financially, which strained the relationship, anonymous even had an affair with someone else. Anonymous has now broken up with his partner, but is not sure if he should get her back. 

Anonymous says she’s been in a relationship with a man for a year, she’s 56 and he’s 59, she has two kids and he has 5 kids. Anonymous says she makes more money than the guy and he’s constantly spending her money on him and his grown up kids. Anonymous says she feels like he’s using her because she’s financially more capable. She’s loves him but isn’t sure if he loves her in the same way.

Anonymous says says he dated girl no.1 from 2017 to 2021, he then started dating girl no.2 in 2022 and things faded between them earlier this year, they are still together but they are not really on good terms. Anonymous says he’s now back to having a relationship with girl no.1, however girl no.1 is now in the process of being “lobolad” by another man who she now has a baby with. Anonymous says they are still carrying on with their affair with girl no.1, he’s not sure if he should remain in this situationship with girl no.1.

Anonymous says he’s married with 3 kids and is currently dating 3 different women and has been with them for a few years now. Anonymous says they all support him financially and they know he’s married. Anonymous says he’s tired because this puts him on a very hectic schedule of handling all 4 of his partners and he doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she met her partner in September last year and they moved in together in January of this year, and got married in February. Anonymous says everything has been fine however she feels like her husband is lazy, she basis this on the fact that he keeps quitting his jobs and doesn’t give any valid reasons. Anonymous says this puts a huge financial burden on her. Anonymous says she’s calling today because he has once again quit his job, she doesn’t know what to do because he’s generally a good husband in all other departments.

Anonymous says she got married to her now ex husband in 2019 despite him finding out that she had cheated on him in the early stages of their long distance relationship. Anonymous says just before they got married her partner cheated on her and impregnated another lady. They continued their relationship and got married. Anonymous says this time last year she found out he was cheating on her again and broke up with him. Anonymous says she started a new relationship with someone else but ended it and got back together with him, however he still cheated again and they’ve gone their separate ways. Anonymous says he continues to reach out to her and she also tends to stalk him on social media. Anonymous says she’s now started talking to him about getting back together again, however he’s in a relationship with someone else and has promised anonymous that he’ll leave the other woman for her. Anonymous says she feels like this happened because she cheated at the beginning of their relationship. They are still married.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 16 years and they now have 3 kids together. Anonymous says he did start lobola proceedings before they moved in together however the process wasn’t completed because he focused on buying a home for them in their village. Anonymous says he’s since tried to complete the process of lobola but says his partner’s family has been postponing having a meeting with his family. Anonymous says a few months ago his mother passed away and his partner didn’t come and she didn’t even send his kids to come and bury their grandmother. Anonymous says his partner then suddenly moved out of their home and moved to her parent’s house with the kids. Anonymous says her partner’s mother then told him that her partner is sick but they shared very little information with him. Anonymous says he managed to get his kids to come back home so they can go to school and 2 weeks ago she came back to their house unannounced. Anonymous says she’s still not sharing information about why she was gone. Anonymous is note sure if the relationship is worth salvaging.

Anonymous says she feels like she’s constantly getting cheated on in relationships. She says she keeps giving her all in her relationships but her partners always cheat on her. Anonymous has also shared about being abused in one of her relationships and adds that her partners also leave her for women who are more economically successful than her.

Anonymous says she’s had a long friendship with guy no.1 and over the years they’ve hooked up a few times but they are mostly just friends and anonymous is not interesting in dating guy no.1. Anonymous says in 2020 she started things with guy no.2 and they were living  together during the pandemic and their relationship was going well and she eventually moved in with guy no.2 because she was waiting for her own place. Anonymous says things got shaky with guy no.2 in 2021 because of her relationship with guy no.1 and they spent most of that year trying to rebuild their relationship. Anonymous says later that year she found out that guy no.2 had been dating another person for two years while they were together. Anonymous says they tried to work on their relationship but they ended up breaking up. Anonymous says they rekindled things in 2023 but she realised he was still cheating on her with other women. Anonymous says she's wondering if she should remain in this relationship.

Anonymous says she’s been married to her husband for the last two years and all has been well however a few days ago she was able to see messages on his computer of him chatting to another lady. Anonymous says she confronted the lady and this lady then told anonymous about the relationship she has with anonymous’ husband. It turns out he’s been dating this lady since last September, to a point where this lady even fell pregnant. Anonymous says this all happened while she was pregnant with their now newborn baby. Anonymous is not sure what to do about this.

Anonymous says he was married to his ex for 8 years. When they came into the relationship she had two children and he had one child. Anonymous says he became and ill and his wife couldn’t handle it and asked for a divorce while he was in hospital. Anonymous says his ex then went on her own but her son, who was also ill at the time, stayed with anonymous. Anonymous says a couple of years after his ex wife’s disappearance, her son is now thriving and she has come back in the picture wanting to have a relationship with him. Anonymous says his step-son doesn’t want anything to do with his mother,   despite anonymous encouraging him to do so, anonymous doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she’s in her early 30s with a 5 year-old son. Anonymous says she’s trying to get back into the dating game but says she thinks she struggles with getting in touch with her feminine side in relationships and instead she’s very masculine and wonders if she’s not giving men the chance to be a “man” in the relationship. Anonymous says she suspects she’s this way as a result of her being sexually abused when she was 6 years old.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 10 years and says her mom never approved of their relationship from the beginning. Anonymous says they’ve had a child for the last 3 years and her family has still not changed their attitude towards her partner. Anonymous says she moved out of home because of the tension her relationship was causing at home and found her own place, however, she says her moving out of home changed the dynamics in her relationship and shortly after  she moved, her partner broke things off with her saying he needed time by himself and to heal from everything that’s happened. Anonymous says her now ex says he still loves her and she sees him everyday when he comes to see their child. Anonymous says she doesn’t know if she should keep pursuing something with him.

Anonymous is married with 4 children and she’s been with her partner since high school 20 years ago. Anonymous says in the beginning years of their relationship, anonymous’ partner cheated on her and she wanted to leave but he convinced her that he was serious about her by completing the lobola and finalising their marriage. Anonymous says the issue now is that her husband lost his job and as he was struggling to find his feet they consulted with a traditional healer who told anonymous and her husband that the lady anonymous’ husband had an affair with affected has put some sort of spell on him that won’t allow him to become financially successful.

Anonymous says she dated a certain lady, lady no.1, back in 2011 and they never actually broke up, their relationship just faded. Anonymous says they recently reconnected and lady no.1 told anonymous that she’s currently married but she’s frustrated in her marriage and wants to have a relationship with anonymous. Anonymous says they then started dating but along the way anonymous says she had to find her own girlfriend because lady no.1 is married and not giving anonymous all the attention she needs. Anonymous says she told lady no.1 that she now has a girlfriend and lady no.1 is not happy with this. Anonymous says lady no.1 has asked anonymous to break up with her girlfriend, but lady no.1 refuses to divorce her wife. Anonymous says things have gotten sour between them and she doesn't know what to do.

Anonymous says she has 3 kids with three different guys. She says things are ok with the father of her first child as they were together at a young age. Anonymous says she broke up with the father of her second child after he cheated on her after she fell pregnant. Anonymous then moved on and had a third child, she says things were initially fine with the father of her third child but they’ve now broken up because of his cheating ways and the way he treated her second born child.

Anonymous says he got divorced in 2021 and after about a year and half last year he started dating again. He says things were fine but her partner started behaving in a weird manner, not taking his calls and avoiding him. Anonymous says they now live together but earlier this year she started ignoring him more and wasn’t as responsive to his calls and messages. Anonymous says she then complained about him sending her ‘check-in messages’ and asked him to stop. Anonymous says he started spying on her phone and found out that she was in fact chatting with three other men. Anonymous says she seems to have dodgy dealings with these guys and she’s also currently having an affair with one of them.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner since around 2017 and says this past Good Friday he visited her place and after she left for work he stayed behind, and wanted to surprise her by cleaning her place. Anonymous says as he was doing that he found ARVs hidden in a shoe box. Anonymous says about two months have gone by and he hasn’t gotten the courage to speak to her about this.

Anonymous says his marriage is ending and his wife has separated from him. Anonymous says he has anger issues and that’s led to him being emotionally and physically abusive. Anonymous adds that over the years they’ve both cheated on each other, their families don’t get along and he even had a child with someone outside of his marriage. Anonymous says it’s a messy situation as their kids also don’t live with him or his wife. Anonymous wants to put his family together but he doesn’t know how to repair the situation.

Anonymous says him and his partner live very different lives, while he’s outgoing, she’s prefers to be at home and doesn’t go out much. Anonymous says often when he’s on his outings he’s found himself cheating on her with women he meets while there. Anonymous says he feels like they both want to change each other so they can be more similar. Anonymous says he loves his partner and wants to be with her but their differences are   limiting to their relationship.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for the last 7 years and they live close to each other. Anonymous says over the years they have had their issues and they have hurt each other in various ways and they’ve both acknowledged these. Anonymous says she’s frustrated by her partner who always accuses her of not having regard for him, something she feels like he’s exaggerating. Anonymous shares an example of him doing this by getting upset at her for not giving him attention even when she’s really busy. Anonymous says this keeps happening despite the fact that they are generally always in communication and it’s draining her.

Anonymous says she was in a “situationship” with a guy when she fell pregnant early in the situationship. Anonymous says the guy found the timeline of her pregnancy suspicious which caused turmoil between them, leading to the guy wanting DNA tests. Anonymous has now had the child and the guy wasn’t involved in helping her with the child. Anonymous says the guy consulted spiritually and they told him that it’s happening because he rejected the child. They haven’t done the DNA test yet, anonymous says he keeps postponing. Anonymous says they are now back together but she’s not sure if she should remain in the relationship.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 3 years and things were fine in the beginning but she says he actually started becoming a burden on her after he lost his job and moved in with her. Anonymous says she asked him to leave because he was a burden and initially refused but eventually left without telling her. Anonymous says they got back together after 7 months and she says the finances are still an issue to this day. Anonymous says he was supposed to visit her recently but they ended up fighting because anonymous told him that it’s ok for him to come but she wouldn’t have money for him to use to return home. Anonymous says her partner went cold on her and later explained that he feels like she is always complaining every time he visits.

Anonymous says she broke up with her partner of 3 years a year ago after she cheated on him. Anonymous says she was already pregnant with her partner’s child at the time of breaking up. Anonymous says she moved on from that relationship and continued to date the guy she had cheated with. Anonymous says this new partner now wants her to cut the father of her child out of their lives and says he wants to marry her and take in both her and the child as his own. Anonymous says on the other hand the father of her child wants to be with her and doesn’t have a problem with her. Anonymous adds that her current partner can’t really afford to raise her child, something the father of her child is cabable of doing.

Anonymous says she was in a relationship with a man who was younger than her and says when she lost her job he found a job and then changed on her and even broke up with her. Anonymous says after they broke up he downgraded his maintenance of their child, even moving the child from private school to public school. Anonymous says he now currently is not even making those reduced maintenance fees they had agreed to. Anonymous says she’s scared of going the legal route because she thinks he might threaten her and her child’s life.

Anonymous has a wife and two kids and met a woman in 2021 who intended to make his second wife. Anonymous says the woman agreed to become his second wife and things were fine she even met anonymous’ first wife. Anonymous says he made her a director in his company. Anonymous says they got married and had a child in 2023, but says his second wife changed after they got married and she was not even taking good care of her duties in the company. Anonymous says she then started accusing him of cheating, something he denies… Anonymous says she then started suggesting that he leaves his first wife, and anonymous refused. Anonymous says she did a few dodgy things at the company and then filed for a divorce, anonymous was ready to divorce but says she now wants to get back together. 

Anonymous has been married to her high school sweetheart for 3 years. Anonymous says things are weird because her partner has been cheating on her and has now impregnated another woman. Anonymous says she has a spiritual gift and it’s believed that when her partner cheats on her, her ancestors punish his family, to a point that her partner’s family believes that her partner’s mother died because anonymous’ ancestors were angry about the cheating. Anonymous says her partner’s family now dislikes her because of this. Anonymous says she loves her partner and doesn’t know if he should break up with him.

Anonymous recently rekindled things with a guy she used to be in a ‘situationship’ with after many years. They now both have kids and have come out of serious relationships. Anonymous says he’s a good guy and they have a good relationship however anonymous says he has said to her that he’s not interested in getting too serious and doesn’t want to get married.

Anonymous says she was at the Metro FM Music Awards this past weekend with her partner and they had a great time however after the Love Movement party on Sunday her partner went to another venue to party while anonymous stayed back at their accommodation. Anonymous says he only came back the next morning after 7am. Anonymous says as she was readying the car for them to return home, she found lipgloss in the car that doesn’t belong to her. Anonymous says his story explaining the lipgloss keeps changing, the last one he told her that he borrowed some other couple the car to use while they were out. Anonymous says he did cheat back in 2016 but has changed ever since then.

Anonymous has been married to his wife for 8 years now and they have two kids together. Anonymous says he’s currently dating 3 different ladies at work and two of them are now pregnant. Anonymous says none of these ladies know about each other, his wife also doesn’t know. Anonymous doesn’t know how to deal with this or how to reveal the truth to his partners.

Late last year anonymous started dating a guy that she’s known since 2014. Anonymous says 2 months after they started dating she fell pregnant. They spoke about the pregnancy and both decided they were not ready for a baby so she terminated the pregnancy. Anonymous says after the termination he went cold on her and when she visited him recently he was offish and said to her that he feels like she’s too much and loves sex a lot.

Anonymous is in her early 20s and is married to a guy who’s in his late 50s. Anonymous came into the marriage with two kids and they don’t have kids together. Anonymous says her problem is that she doesn’t feel free in the marriage. She says he doesn’t allow her to go out, have friends or visit her family. Anonymous says when she speaks to her family about this they don’t support her and say she just wants to be with younger boys and have fun. Anonymous says she got into the relationship because of the financial support she would receive but she’s now tired.

Anonymous has been on and off with her now husband for the last 18 years. They met when she was young and she fell pregnant straight out of high school. Anonymous says even when they started, he was older than her and was with another woman who he impregnated. Anonymous says their relationship has been quite bumpy throughout the 18 years and says the spark is completely gone in their marriage and she feels like they are just sticking together for the sake of their 3 kids. Anonymous wants to leave but doesn’t know how to go about.

Anonymous has a child with her high school sweetheart and they ended their relationship a few years ago after their relationship got toxic. Anonymous says her ex became distant after their break up and didn’t even support their child. Anonymous says he’s now back in their lives and does support their child but not enough as she says. Anonymous says she’s thinking of having another baby with him as she knows and would rather have his child. Anonymous says she’s single but she’s not sure if he’s single.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 4 years and says he feels like he’s been a good partner towards her and has supported her in many ways. Anonymous says the problem is that she has cheated on him multiple times and he’s forgiven her each time but he’s tired of this and doesn’t know what to do because he loves her deeply and doesn’t know how to let her go.

Anonymous has been with his now wife for 10 years and says she’s been a great partner and even helped him grow. Anonymous says he loves his wife but he  doesn’t quite enjoy their sex life and feels like she’s not coming to the party sexually. Anonymous says they’ve tried therapy but it hasn’t helped much and he has cheated on her with 6 different women and his wife has found out about these affairs. Anonymous doesn’t know what to do as he loves her but he isn’t satisfied in the bedroom .

Anonymous says her and her partner had a good relationship and her partner even promised to marry her, however when it was time, anonymous’ partner sent his friends as his representatives to her family and anonymous’ family chased them away because the friends were not serious. Anonymous came into the relationship with two kids and now has 1 child with this partner. Anonymous says recently her sister had to move in with them but his partner has issues with this. Anonymous adds that her partner is also not financially supportive in the household.

Anonymous’ previous partner past away 6 years ago after they’d been together for 20 years. Anonymous says she was having an affair with another man while her partner was still alive and their relationship with this man continued after her partner’s death. Anonymous says this man was with someone else when they met and has dated two people in the time that they’ve known each other, which is 14 years. Anonymous says she’s still with this man and doesn’t know if she should just let him go.

Anonymous to a new city 3 years ago and met a guy 3 years ago. Anonymous says they started having a relationship, however the guy was in a long distance relationship with some other person at the time. Anonymous says the guy’s attitude seems to have changed when he went back to school to upgrade his qualifications. Anonymous says he became distant and this pushed her  to eventually getting on a dating site as they weren’t really official. Anonymous says he found out that she was on dating sites and he now wants to end things and doesn’t even want to see her. Anonymous says he went quite on her for 3 months, after that he called her and they met up at his place…

Anonymous met her partner less than 2 years ago,  and she says everything was find but sometime late last year he started giving her less attention and she says sometimes she’ll even call him 30 times without him getting back to her. Anonymous says she also found out that he has a child with another woman, something he had lied to her about. Anonymous says her period is now late and he won’t even come with her to the hospital to do tests.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for a year and the relationship has been going well generally however she feels like things have gotten cold in the bedroom over the last few months as they don’t have sex as much as they used to. Anonymous says he’s also not the most adventurous in the bedroom and doesn’t like foreplay which is something she likes.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 2 years now and his situation at home is affecting their relationship. Anonymous says her partner lives with his siblings and their children and takes care of them as the sole breadwinner in the household. Anonymous says she feels like he is over extending himself in how he’s going about supporting his family and neglects helping and supporting her financially as his partner.

Anonymous comes from an abusive household and eventually left home and eventually started dating his current partner who supported him until he found his feet and even got a house. Anonymous then moved in with his partner and things were generally fine however they faced some financial troubles. Anonymous started having an affair with another woman who used to give anonymous money that he would give to his girlfriend, anonymous eventually confessed about this and they moved on from it. Anonymous then had some incidences with other women and says he needs help because he keeps sleeping around. 

Anonymous and his partner have been together for 5 years and they have a child together. Anonymous also notes that they have a 6 year age gap between them. Anonymous says during the course of their relationship they ran into some financial issues and even ended up separating when his partner moved to a different city. Anonymous says they eventually got back together but things haven’t been the same since then and anonymous says they are constantly in conflict and he feels like his partner won’t hear him out. Anonymous is also feeling a bit insecure because his partner once cheated on him. Anonymous is not sure if the relationship is still worth it.

Anonymous broke with with her ex last year, however, in recent times she started having a thing with her ex’s friend and says they both want to be with each other but the friend is scared of getting together with her and making it official publicly because of his friend who’s anonymous’ ex. Anonymous says they are still friends.

Anonymous was seeing a guy last year and they broke up because the guy wasn’t treating her well, this is guy no.1. Then anonymous got back with her ex, guy no.2, and she fell pregnant in the early days of getting back together. Anonymous says guy no.1 was then trying to get back together with her and she shared this information with guy no.2’s sister who told her brother that anonymous had some relations with guy no.1 who even had food delivered to her while she was pregnant. They broke up because guy no.2 now suspected that the baby might not even be his. Anonymous says guy no.1 still wants her back and thinks the baby might be his.

Anonymous says he’s cheated on his partner multiple times during the relationship, his partner would forgive him and they kept on being in a relationship. Anonymous says he realised that what he was doing was wrong and affecting his partner badly so he decided to stop but it was too late. Anonymous says his partner is now cheating on him with someone else and anonymous says he saw, via texts, that she is having a good time with a new guy that she’s been having an affair with, anonymous’ partner is now saying she’s done with him, but he’s saying he’s struggling to let her go and wants to know if he should fight for her.

Anonymous says her partner went away to go see his family on Saturday but didn’t come back until Sunday. Anonymous says he’s done this a few times so she told him not come back and he said fine but he did come back and she hasn’t spoken to him ever since. Anonymous says she left him at the house and blocked him on the phone. Anonymous says her partner is now blackmailing her, threatening to share incriminating information about her with her boss.  Anonymous is not sure what to do. Anonymous says he blames her for ruining her life.

Anonymous has been with her partner for two years and she recently found out that she’s pregnant, however, shortly after that anonymous’ partner lost his job and it brought strain on the relationship especially because they are expecting. Anonymous says things were fairly fine however when anonymous’ partner received his severance pay he started acting weird and they fought about his partying which led to him moving out and living with his parents. Anonymous says he now wants to break up and says he can’t be with her anymore. Anonymous is not sure whether she should fight for this relationship.

Anonymous broke up with her partner last year after she found texts on his phone that indicated that he might be gay as he was in a relationship with another guy and his WhatsApp was filled with flirty exchanges with other men. Anonymous broke up with him without confronting him about what she found in his texts. She says she’s still in love with him and doesn’t know if she made a mistake by breaking up with him.

Anonymous says her relationship was fine but she does sometimes go through some mental health issues that affect her mood. Her partner voiced that he struggles with her mood swings and anonymous says she took action to improve her behaviour and she thought everything was fine but it came up again and they broke up. Anonymous says she feels like she did improve and had one slip up but he’s not hearing her and says he doesn’t want to get back together with her. Anonymous doesn’t know if she should keep fighting for this relationship. Anonymous thinks he might still be hung up on his ex.

Anonymous and her previous partner have two kids together and broke up after 11 years last year because her partner cheated. Anonymous has since met someone else and they have been together for 6 months, the issue now is that her ex and father of her children says he doesn’t want anonymous’ new partner spending time with his kids and has raised safety issues.

Anonymous says she cheated on her boyfriend last year and confessed what she had done because she felt guilty. Anonymous says months later he seems to still not be over the fact that she cheated on him and even got angry that she was being friendly with their neighbour’s guests over the weekend. Anonymous says her partner did cheat on her multiple times before but had stopped in the recent years of their 5 year relationship. Anonymous doesn’t know how to convince him that she won’t do it again. 

Anonymous and her partner have been married for 11 years and she says she earns more than him which is the thing that has now recently caused issues in their relationship. Anonymous says she’s supported her partner for many years but now he’s not coming through for her in her time of need. Anonymous says she needed money to fix her car but her partner instead lied to her and used the money on his children from a previous relationship to pay for school supplies and school fees. Anonymous says he lied to her about not getting his bonus and getting half a salary. She feels like he’s using her.

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 9 months and at the beginning of their relationship her partner did mention that he had been in some toxic relationships prior to them getting together. Anonymous says he’s been a good partner but they had a big fight and things changed after that. Anonymous says her partner is now seemingly emotionally detached. Anonymous also says she’s seen texts on his phone which have revealed cozy relationships with other women. Anonymous also says she has never heard an “I love you” from him.

Anonymous is in a new relationship and she’s worried that her partner is over extending himself in supporting his family. Anonymous says he lives with his mom, sister and two of his sister’s kids. He takes care of all of them, including for school fees for his sister’s kids. Anonymous is worried that this is draining her partner and she’s worried if he’ll one day be able to take care of the family they might build together in future. Anonymous says they both feel like his family is taking advantage of him.

Anonymous says her and her partner are generally happy and she enjoys their time together. However, anonymous says they are always fighting, mostly because of his cheating. Anonymous says they’ve been 3 incidents in the last year, including one with the mother of his child who sometimes comes to his house during load shedding to get power & signal at his house. Anonymous says recently she has noticed suspicious behaviour with him another woman while they were out at one of his DJing gigs. Anonymous says she loves him but her problem is the cheating.

Anonymous met a man at work a few years ago and they started dating but anonymous soon found out that the man might have lied about being single and he is in fact married, something he denied multiple times but eventually found that he does have a wife. Anonymous met another guy in 2021 and the guy told anonymous that he senses that Muti was used on her by a previous partner and she needs to be cleansed. Anonymous wants to confront her ex about this and doesn’t know how to go about doing that.

Anonymous met a married guy last year at work and things took off between them and they even went on vacation together where they almost got caught. Things have been going well between anonymous and this guy, however yesterday his wife found their texts on his phone which is proof of the affair. Anonymous says she’s now caught deep feelings for the guy and she’s scared she’s going to lose him now that the wife has found out.

Anonymous is a mother of two daughters who are 14 and 8 years-old, they currently live with her boyfriend of 5 years. Anonymous says the issue started last year when her 14 year-old daughter moved in with them because her boyfriend wasn’t happy with her daughters dress code saying it’s inappropriate for young girl. Anonymous says this past Sunday her daughter confessed to her grandmother, anonymous’ mother, that anonymous’ boyfriend has asked her to show him her privates so he could see if she’s a virgin, anonymous’ daughter also says he’s forced to hug him which all made feel uncomfortable, anonymous’ partner says he wasn’t trying to make advances on her.

Anonymous has been dating his partner for 2 years now. They both came into the relationship with their own kids, anonymous has 1 and the partner has two kids. Anonymous says because he’s in love with her he decided to also support her kids but now there’s a problem in the relationship because anonymous’s partner feels like anonymous is prioritising his own child over her children. Anonymous says another issue is that his partner has been saying she’s pregnant for months now but the doctors say it’s not true.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 10 years and things got a little tricky between him and his partner which led to him having an affair with a friend of his. The affair was eventually ended by their respective partners but they’ve found a way back to each other. Anonymous doesn't know what to do as he loves them both.

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As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

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If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.  Call us  on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. 

With Naked and Somizi away, an unsuspecting listener called in to get help with their relationship problem but things got a little tricky when a different voice came on the air to help. Listen for the Good Friday Ask A Man madness. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. 

If your relationship  is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through.  Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous. 

Anonymous is struggling to choose between three men in her life. There's the old man, her agemate engineer, and her colleague that she met at a work function. He blocked her after a night of passion.

Anonymous loves her man, okay so he's not divorced from his wife but has that ever stopped anybody before? He lived with his wife in the apartment upstairs and when the wife moved out anonymous saw an opportunity to step in. They now have a 1year old baby.

Anonymous fears commitment. All was well in his previous relationship until his girlfriend fell pregnant then he fell out of love. He is currently seeing someone else and doesn't know how to break up with his woman.

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship. Her man came over for the weekend and she went through his phone while he slept. He is seeing more than 6 other women. She doesn't know how to handle this issue when she sees him later today.

Anonymous can't break up with her man because he's financially stable. He isn't perfect, yes he has slept with a couple of his colleagues and had a few pregnancy scares outside their relationship. Love is blind

Anonymous has been a human Yo-Yo in this situationship with a man that she met when she was doing first year at varsity. They went their separate ways after varsity, got married, cheated with each other while they were in those marriages. They have now found a way to reconnect. Is it worth it?

Anonymous is concerned that her man always talks about his ex

Anonymous feels let down by her Ben10. He's gone and impregnated another lady outside their relationship after claiming that he was trying to find himself in life

Anonymous is struggling to leave her boyfriend that has been bewitched by a family member. The last family member that was bewitched was his brother who unfortunately passed away. How many more signs does anonymous need to see in order for her to take advice from the medium and prophets that she has been consulting?

Anonymous is going through the most with the father of her child. He refuses to adhere to the parental plan issued by the family court. She finds him trying to distract the progress in her life. How does she make him see that the child's needs should come first

Anonymous is gambling with her love life. She has a new man in her life that she hasn't been intimate with, the man she refers to as her boyfriend is a man struggling with a gambling addiction. which man will she end up with?

Anonymous seems to be living a nightmare over and over again. Her previous man left her when she was pregnant, she met her new man while she was pregnant and they have been going at it for a couple of years now. She fell pregnant towards the end of last year and he left her too, she blames him for her miscarriage. 

Anonymous is meant to be in an arranged marriage organised by her uncle. Over half a decade has passed and this still has not been finalised. The agreement was that she would be his second wife but now he's gone and impregnated someone else, this is the ultimate betrayal for her.

Anonymous set deal-breakers for her man when they met. The biggest was infidelity, she told him that if he cheats she's going to leave. Anonymous' man is cheating with 3 other women but she's still there, she says she's confused. Their relationship isn't the best, their sex life sucks, their love life sucks

Everytime anonymous has an argument with his woman her ex texts him that he's going to win her back. He feels that he doesn't want to compete with her ex because he has more money than him. What must he do now because he loves her?

Anonymous feels disrespected by her husband's side chick calling her to demand money. Anonymous has also intercepted messages from her hubby to his mistress promising her money and lying to her about a joint account which they do not have. is this how marriage is meant to be?

Anonymous has been chatting to a potential man for 6 months, They has agreed to meet in Jan but there has been no effort from his side. Why is he too busy for her? Could he be married? Is he just a scammer? He told her that she needs to be patient, the meeting will eventually happen. What are your thoughts?

Anonymous has issues in his long distance marriage, his wife is all about the good life and she can't lower her standards now that anonymous is experiencing financial difficulties after covid. She wants a break from the marriage but he's still in love with her

Anonymous has been single for two years. He can't get over the woman he used to date for four years before that. He took care of all her and her child's financial needs. She cut ties with him completely but will pop-up like a "Jack In The Box" once in a while when she needs to finesse him for more money. 

Anonymous thinks his fiance' is cheating on him since he lost his job. She has a strange new male bestie that just popped up. They met at a pub and have been meeting up in secret ever since

Anonymous is in a financially abusive relationship. When he was a stay at home partner cooking,cleaning, ironing etc there was never any boyfriend allowance. Anonymous has now been driving an e-hailing taxi for his partner and he hasn't seen a cent since. 

Anonymous is in a situationship. Her man recently got married and it's left her in a state of confusion. She wasn't even aware that he was in another relationship. She's still in-love with him and she says if he wanted a second wife she's putting her hands up for the position

Anonymous feels neglected by her man who just received custody of his child. He has just asked her to cancel birthday plans she made for him because he has full custody of his child and that's where his time will be spent. Does she fully understand the emotional rollercoaster that her man is on at the moment?

Anonymous has accepted that her man is a babymaking machine, not only in their marriage but outside as well. Her issue is that her husband keeps her in the dark when he builds these relationships with his other kids. She feels disrespected and isolated by this, could he be hiding other children?

Anonymous has been with her man for over 13 years. His addiction to drugs let to their separation. Their time apart let to anonymous ending up as a side chick to a high profile man. She hasn't broken it off with the high profile guy but feels her ex is getting better so she's considering on going back

Anonymous has been in a relationship for over a year. The first 6 months were beautiful, since then it's been downhill. She's been chasing him for attention,love, affection etc

This is an Ask A Man first. Anonymous says his wife is filthy and it's starting to frustrate him. The house stays messy, her hygiene also leaves much to be desired. He is scared to bring visitors home because he knows it's always in a horrendous state. How much longer will he stay in this relationship?

Anonymous feels that he's losing his woman because he's not romantic enough. He doesn't make effort as much she would love him to. They don't go out often, he doesn't pay her compliments often. Does he deserve to be alone?

Anonymous is worried that her sexually charged man is going to cheat on her once he moves to the USA in May.

Anonymous still wants to pay lobola for his girlfriend even though things aren't as rosey as he'd like them to be. She moved into his house uninvited, she's abusive and controlling. Find out why anonymous called into ASK A Man today. Listen here

Anonymous is in the pits. Her marriage certificate should be torn into a thousand pieces because her husband unrepentantly cheats. Imagine your partner coming home with a "hicky" week in week out. She has also slept with a minimum of 3 men just so that she can forget about her painful marriage. She still loves him but can this marriage be saved?

Anonymous is going through the most. She married a man and then later on found out that he not only has one child that she knew about there are four more from four different women. They were married in community of property so she became liable to pay child maintenance for all these children. 

Anonymous is in a relationship but he missed his ex. The ex is also in a relationship and she just gave birth to her new man's child. Anonymous is still positive that she is the one for him, she's the one that got away and he wants her back.

Anonymous moved in with his girl and her child after two months of dating. He made it a norm to give the girlfriend's mother money too. Now that he's unemployed things have changed. 

Anonymous broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years 6 months ago, he can't let go. He visited a prophet and was told that the girl is into dark magic. This news hasn't convinced him to let go. He still wants her back

Anonymous has been married for 17 years. She's tired of going through her husband's phone only to find videos and nudes from sex workers.  The neglect is killing her self esteem because they are no longer as intimate as she would like.

Anonymous is a second time caller. She left her previous relationship and is now blessed with a man that wants to marry her after a month of dating. He also wants them to relocate to the US. That's right, no more load shedding.

Anonymous has dated a man for 20 years. This man has now made her his side chick. After their turbulent years together she's decided that she wants out but doesn't know how to tell him

Enough is enough, anonymous has chosen to keep her baby, she didn't terminate this one as she did with the previous one. Her ex now wants to be part of her son's life but on condition that they don't tell his family. He wants this child kept a secret.

After knowing his partner for over 15 years, married for 10 of them, anonymous's partner no longer engages with him intimately. She will sometimes touch herself in bed while he's sleeping right there next to her. What should he do?

Anonymous is dating a man that has decided to choose to "Pimp His Car" first before paying the remainder of her lobala as promised to her family. She thinks he might have cold feet or has found somebody else. If you feel a man no longer wants to make an honest woman of you should you force him into marriage?

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship. His girlfriend lives in a commune and is in a sexual situationship with a married man. He needs advice on how to handle the situation going forward.

Anonymous says he's polygamous the problem is that he only told his fiance a year and a half later when she fell pregnant with is child. He also has another girl on the side who he recently told that he's polygamous too. Can he make these relationships work or has he totally messed up?

Anonymous's family refuses to pay lobola for the woman that he loves, could the reason be that she was his side-chick while he was married?

There's a spiritual war in anonymous' household. Her husband could be conducting rituals on her without her permission. The final straw is when he brought a spiritual husband into the household. She wants to leave but doesn't have the financial backing

Anonymous hacked his woman's phone and found out that she's dating two other men. He still loves her because she completes him

Anonymous has been dating her man for 4 years. All was well until he started abusing drugs, is she able to assist him overcome his addicting?

Anonymous was planning on relocating with his wife overseas. The wife left first and once she settled she told him that it was over because she knew that he was cheating on hi, He's broken and wants his wife back

Anonymous is faced with a huge dilema on today's #AskAMan. She needs to choose between a man she's dating and a relationship with the father of her child.

Anonymous has been dating a married woman and he just can't let go. 

Anonymous claims to be in love with his pregnant fiance but he seems doubtful ever since finding chats on her phone where she communicates with her ex's and other men

Anonymous met his wife in the 90's, she recently filed for divorce because of his financial situation. Anonymous does miss his wife and wants her back

Another man down. Anonymous feels belittled by his wife, she occasionally tells him that he's not man enough

Anonymous is dating a serial cheater. She has seen things that a partner shouldn't see on his phone while he was sleeping. He's now back with the first woman she caught him cheating with. She says she still love him despite all his shenanigans. 

Anonymous has a 3 month old baby with a man she met on social media. They engaged in unprotected coitus the moment they met in person and conceived. the guy seems to be in and out of their relationship, he has paid damages to her family but that's it.

Anonymous knows that her man is seeing his ex behind her back but she simply can't let go because she's still in love with him

Today we deal with the World Cup of all relationships. Anonymous is a foreign national living in South Africa dating a man from Scotland and has a situationship with a man from Germany. She recently signed a contract to go work in the UK now she's confused on what to do going forward. Which man must she choose or should she just choose her career?

Anonymous has been dating her man for 8 months but hasn't ever been to his place. What could he possibly be hiding?

Anonymous is in a tricky situation, his woman of 3 months dumped him last night because she suspects that he's stalking her. Hear how it all went down

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 8 years. They have 2 beautiful children. The issues started recently when he impregnated another woman and wants to pay damages for that child when he hasn't paid lobola or damages for their 2 children

Anonymous has been a shoulder to cry on for her male friend for over 4 years. They tried to make it work as a relationship for the last 4 months but now he's ghosting her. He keeps blue ticking her messages and doesn't return her calls. What could this possibly mean 

Anonymous is struggling to move on after his divorce. His shoulder to cry on is giving him the cold shoulder. He hasn't been intimate with anybody since 2020

Anonymous just moved into his first apartment, he's excited for his new found freedom but there is a challenge, there's a lady in his complex that is endlessly offering herself. She cooks and cleans for him and wants to sleep with him but he's uncomfortable with that arrangement because he might not be able to bring other females to his place.

Anonymous has a problem of letting go of the father of her child, they still spend important holidays together, they sleep in each others omes from time to time. She has not been able to move on because she still loves him 

Anonymous is heartbroken, his woman left after miscarrying their child. He has no idea where she lives now but word on the street right now is that she has moved in with another man. If you would like to reach us for  ASK A MAN you can also send us a quick voicenote on 0608061685

We catch up with anonymous a month after he met a lady online. they had sex on the first date and he was unsure that this could be the one. We find out how things have been going for the last month

Anonymous is heartbroken, his wife left him after getting a promotion at work. She left and took everything from their marital home. How does he move foward from this?

Anonymous found a condom wrapper on her man's bed. He says he was lonely and asked another woman to come over. When anonymous was pregnant with their child he cheated and his excuse was "I was lonely because we stopped being intimate". Can anonymous' be trusted?

Anonymous is in a situationionship with three women, he loves number 1, he impregnated number 2, and number 3 is an older woman that has two children. Is he spoilt for choice or just messy?

Anonymous feels pressured into paying lobola for his girlfriend. Does he love her or not? 

Anonymous has been seeing a married man for two months. He insists that they make love in his marital home at times. She says this is the man that she prayed for.

After investigating her man over a couple of weeks, anonymous has concrete proof that her man is cheating. In fact, she called they other woman and moghel had something to say in return. Take a listen

Anonymous is dealing with a cheating husband that shows no remorse. She initially thought he had one mistress but going through his old phone she notices that there are numerous ladies that he entertains.

Anonymous is confused, her ex wants to get back into her life but he says he has a woman that he's being seeing. What does this mean for anonymous, must she consider being a side-chick?

Anonymous is thinking about reconciling with the father of her child. They broke up because he was a "mamasboy" but have things changed?

Anonymous is stuck between a rock and a hard place. Two men that she needs to choose from, she's a part-time Club Angel but nothing about her relationships is heavenly

Anonymous taken for granted for the past 6 years by her partner. She has now reached a point where she can't anymore. 

Anonymous suspects that her man is in love with his female friend. He hides their relationship from her, they are in constant communication, he refuses to cut ties with her. is she insecure or overreacting?

Anonymous has a soft spot for his ex.  He even turned down a reunion with another lover at Gay Pride this past weekend because there's only one man for him, "The One That Got away"

Anonymous feel his life is on a downward spiral, the worst seems to be happening to him at every corner. He's now losing the woman of his dreams. 

Anonymous's marriage is in tatters, her husband of 20 years paid lobola for another woman in secret, not only that but he's also impregnated a young woman from the same neighbourhood where anonymous lives. Is this what through thick and thin means in marital vows or should she leave?

Anonymous met a man online, he lied to her about his 'disability' which is more neurological than physical. Since then she feels this is not the relationship she signed up for but a part of her still wants to help him

Anonymous regrets the lady that he's dating, the only issue is that he allowed her to move into his place and now he's too afraid to ask her to leave.

Anonymous met a lady on a social media dating site, they slept together on the first day they met now he's worried that he could be catching feelings

Anonymous found nudes on her partner's phone, these nudes were sent by his colleague not once but on numerous occasions. 

Anonymous finds himself in a new relationship, the problem is that his ex is pregnant and there's a chance that the baby could be his

Anonymous is in a toxic cycle with the mother of his child. She was abusive towards him while they were together. His ex sometimes calls him for sex favours but he's now put his foot down and doesn't want to be used anymore.

Anonymous is literally fighting evil to be with her man. His ex has been performing witchcraft on her that has landed her in hospital, finding faeces on her car etc. She says she still loves him, he's the perfect man for her.

Anonymous met a man on social media two months ago, since then she has hacked his Facebook account found out that he's lied about his age and is hiding the fact that he has 3 other children, she only knew of one. She still drives a round trip of 636 km to go see him twice a month even though know she knows the truth. 

Anonymous has a man that is 10 years her senior and doesn't want to grow up. She feels his future plans are non-existent or she doesn't feel like he has her in his future thoughts

Has anonymous wasted the last 3 years of her life by dating a man that she regarded as a best friend? She took his virginity now he's starting to be a bit distant. He has also postponed their proposed lobola negotiation dates.

Anonymous feels neglected by her man, he's not fulfilling her sex quota for the week, their relationship is on and off and she feels he's very distant. Last time they made love he said he was seeing shadows in the bedroom

Anonymous has been fighting with her man's sister since they met. She feels abused and disrespected by her and it seems it will never stop. 

Anonymous is in a happy new relationship, the moment he posted his new love his ex came back into his life and told him that she is pregnant

Anonymous can't decide who she loves, she has two men in her life. Her current lover is loving,caring, soft and supportive. Her previous relationship was toxic, she admits that they were both toxic and abusive towards each other but she misses him and has been seeing him on the side

Anonymous is heart broken that his woman doesn't want to work on their relationship, she refuses to go for therapy and has stopped using her African concoction for an alleged curse placed on the relationship.

Anonymous is distraught that her man has impregnated another woman, she still loves him, is she ready to be an instant mom?

Anonymous doesn't believe in magic but she thinks it's normal for her man to disappear for two weeks almost every fortnight. No he wants a baby to prove his love to anonymous.

Anonymous has been struggling to keep a relationship. What could the problem be? All women seem to dump him or not come back for a second date.

Anonymous has been taken for a ride by his girlfriend of 10 years because he's illegally in South Africa. He suspects one of the children is possibly not his and can no longer deal with her infidelity.

Anonymous is second guessing herself after leaving an abusive relationship

Anonymous is in a real life Telanovela, her marriage is filled with everything from infidelity, a meddling mother in-law, witchcraft etc should she stay in this marriage?

Anonymous is in a terrible marriage, her man is heartless on another level. He will even bring up her past of a rape ordeal when they argue. is this a marriage she should remain in? Will they eventually work through their issues and live happily ever after?

Anonymous has two men in her life currently, she refers to one as her lucky charm and the other as the man she loves. Who would you choose? Take a listen

Anonymous has been through the most with her hubby, he is expecting a second child outside the marriage. His excuse is that she had children before they came together so she should find it easier to forgive.

Anonymous found suggestive texts between her man and a female friend, now the trust has been broken. He claims nothing happened but does she feel secure enough to trust him going forward?

Today we have an Ask A Man first where we reconnect with an anonymous caller that called us a month ago. We want to find out whether she has made a choice between the two men that she was seeing.

Anonymous finds redflags with every man she dates after her divorce. Has she completely healed since her marriage or has she become the big redflag?

Anonymous is 44 years young, she had been single and celibate for 3 years before meeting a man on social media. She feels that he's just swindling her for money because he is not what he claimed to be on his profile.

Anonymous is traumatised from a hijacking but this won't stop her from roaming the streets at night looking for love. The issue is that she's a single mom and her son is triggered every night that she doesn't come back home

Anonymous is broken, after agreeing sharing her man with another woman she's now fallen out of love with him, she's now a side-chick to another man while dating the father of her child.

Anonymous has been on a rollercoaster ride of a relationship for over 10 years. Since her man got employed he's been cheating and partying up a storm. Should she stay for the sake of the children?

Anonymous before proposing to his fiance' disclosed that he had been dating someone else before choosing to settle with her. She has then been emotionally distant, they only make love 3 times a year. Does she still love him or should he let go.

Anonymous is heart broken, her man cheated and impregnated a fellow churchgoer.

Anonymous feels neglected by her man that has chosen alcohol over her. When she visits his place she finds her clothes hidden in deep places. Is he back with his ex? Is there perhaps a new woman?

Anonymous is terrified of her ex, he says the abuse he has inflicted on her is nothing compared to what he's about to do if she doesn't take him back

Anonymous shares a child with his ex, the ex has informed him that she's given away their child to her aunt. Is this legally right?

Anonymous is in a toxic relationship but she can't leave because her man is "the best plumber" that she has encountered

Anonymous cheated on his girlfriend and made a baby while she worked out of town for two years. She's now back in town and wants to try make the relationship work but she says he must get rid of the child.

Anonymous is in a perfect relationship with the woman of his dreams. The problem is in the bedroom, she feels discomfort when they engage sexually, what could this be?

Anonymous has a bedroom issue, her man hasn't been able to make her reach climax in over 5 years. When her man is at work she's able to handle the situation herself

Anonymous feels that her toxic relationship has changed her into becoming a woman she doesn't want to be. Everytime she has problems in her relation she has another man that becomes her shoulder to cry on.

What do you do when you have 3 men to choose from in South Africa but your real true love lives in Germany? Take a listen to the decision that anonymous needs to make

Anonymous is divorced, the issue is he's still living with his ex wife until the sale of their marital home is finalised. He doesn't agree with her daily routine of talking to other men on the phone and leaving the house as she pleases

Anonymous is dating two married men, she's confused on which one to choose to settle down with

Anonymous has only dated older men in her entire life, she in her mid thirties now dating a man in his late sixties, this guy has now blocked her but she's still head over heels about him

Anonymous has separated from her estranged hubby, he left with her phone a couple of months ago after impersonating her via text to her ex man.

Anonza is tired of dating pastors because all they do is use her and discard of her

Has anonymous wasted 7 years of her life entertaining a man that could still be married to his wife? Take a listen

Anonymous is jealous that his ex is in a new relationship. The ex did come to his home and try give him sexual healing when he suffered from the flu recently, should he take this as a positive sign?

Anonymous was dumped by her varsity man when she fell pregnant. She then reconnected with her high school sweetheart, he promised to love her and raise the child like it was his own. A couple of years have gone by now her varsity man is back in the picture, he wants her sexually.

Anonymous is in love with two women. He's been dating the one over 20 years and the other just over 4 years. He suspects the second lady is cheating on him but she's the one that assists him financially when things aren't great for him. He loves them both. fFnd out what advice he seeks from the team today. Take a listen

Anonymous was married to a pastor, their marriage broke down after he impregnated someone from their church. She has since dated two other men during the period of the divorce being finalised but the relationships have both been turbulent.

Anonymous is tired of taking care of her married boyfriend financially, all was rosy until he lost his job. Should this be her burden to carry?

Anonymous is dating a foreign national. She's afraid to introduce him to her family because of fear of what they might say.

After a couple of traumatic relationships, anonymous is find it hard to regain her zest, she's struggling to find herself.

Anonymous is sexually frustrated. He's been patient with his wife for over 6 years but her libidi refuses to play ball. Is anonymous considering outsourcing sex from elsewhere?

Anonymous is in a love triangle, she loves her side guy but is too attached to babydaddy's family and her kids. Her man is emotionally abusive which is why she made a decision to have a guy on the side in the first place. How can she get herself out of this tight spot?

Anonymous is frustrated by his ex, unfortunately they share a child. She's not driven in life and has started using the child as a bargaining tool

Anonymous was happily married until her husband lost his job. She's now started dating her ex

Anonymous is pregnant, her man has been distant since their wedding. He parties days on end, doesn't contribute financially doesn't help around the house. Did anonymous rush too fast into marrying him?

Anonymous has a "babydaddy" that refuses to take care of the child financially and doesn't want to physically be in the child's life either. He has provided the courts with fraudulent papers so that he doesn't have to pay maintenance but she's aware that his business is making loads of money

Anonymous wants a seconds wife, he's messed things up with the first one but since his girlfriend is now pregnant things have to find a way to fix themselves

Anonymous isn't allowed to discipline his step child physically although his woman can. This has created a rift between the two

Anonymous has cheated on his woman numerous times, he has declared that he'll never cheat again because they now live in the same province

Anonymous is sleeping with a married woman, she has threatened to use "muti" on him if he dumps her. How does he get away from this toxic situation?

Anonymous is mad at her man for proposing marriage to her. She's been in two failed marriages and now her bae wants them to get married.

Anonymous is confused. Does she love the father of her child or her boyfriend of 11 months?

Anonymous is a man that isn't getting sex in his marriage. He's now thinking about cheating on his wife of 7 years

Anonymous was dumped 5 years ago by her husband because she couldn't bare children. The man had two children with another woman and now he's back to disturb anonymous's life. He wants her back

Anonymous is broken after finding nudes on her husbands phone. He's been distant since his business has started blossoming. She feels neglected

Anonymous has four children with her husband. She left their marital home after he wouldn't stop his philandering ways. The issue now is that he refuses to take care of their four children financially he also refuses to have a relationship with the children

Anonymous has future plans with his woman but she's in too much of a rush for marriage that she doesn't want to fix the little things that could lead to bigger cracks in future.

Anonymous has been married for 16 years, there's absolutely no intimacy in her marriage, she has caught her man chatting to other women on social media on numerous occasions. He says he's just flirting and nothing more.

Anonymous left her child with her mom months ago to pursue a relationship with her man. She started a business with her man too but her investments have since not matured. She works for him for free and he's started abusing her emotionally.

Anonymous is at an all time low. He has evidence that the woman he's being seeing for 6 months has been in a relationship for years. He's in love with her and can't let go, is he man enough to be the side guy?

Anonymous feels trapped in her marriage. She's known him for 3 years, they've been married for 3 years. 

Anonymous is heartbroken because her man is about to make a life changing  decision today. He is about to let her know if he's keeping her as a girlfriend or choosing the woman he's being seeing on the side for 6 months.

Anonymous is in love with two men, does she stick to her man of 8 years or try a new relationship with a high school sweetheart who she has been sleeping with for the last 3 months?

Detective Anonymous has all the proof she needs to get out of her relationship but she still loves her man. She has found messages from various women on his phone, She has found texts from his friends advising him to string her along until he finds the right woman but anonymous has chosen to stay.

Anonymous feels neglected by his woman, could she be seeking time alone after having miscarried two of their babies? There's a twist to the story, take a listen

Anonymous has a serious dilemma, her man needs a kidney and she could be a possible donor but she seems reluctant to literally give him the gift of life.

Anonymous feels conned, she had no idea that the man she has a baby with is married. Our special Father's Day guests Jerry Mofokeng And Sipho Mbele assist the team with advice.

Anonymous was allowed to take on a second wife but now wife number one has made a you turn on her decision. What could the reason be? Take a listen

Anonymous is conflicted. She's known her man for 17 years, married for 14 years and they have 3 children. She hasn't been happy in this marriage for quite some time but her husband is asking her to stay in the toxic marriage for the sake of the children.

Anonymous broke up with her man of two years via text. She feels guilty having broken up with him in that manner. What must happen now? Take a listen

Anonymous is struggling, her man is short changing her in the bedroom, he has lost confidence in the bedroom and can no longer satisfy her.

anonymous's relationship is on the rocks after she followed her calling. He man now finds her repulsive.

Anonymous is dating a "loanshark", some of his clients are female and this doesn't sit well with anonymous. He has loaned money to his ex as well at some point. Does this mean that he's cheating?

Anonymous is slowly falling for her brother in-law

Anonymous is in a relationship with a woman that has two children. Since he put a ring on it she's stopped being intimate with him. Should be stay or leave the relationship.

Anonymous refuses to let go of her cheating partner, she says this is the man she prayed for

Anonymous recently found out that her man has been seeing his ex for over four years. Do you want to know what red flags to look out for when you meet a new man? Listen to the team's first ever Ask A Man game show called "He Has A Partner"

Anonymous doesn't want her children to grow up without a father because she did. She doesn't want her children to experience the void she experienced when she was a child. Does this mean she needs to stay in this toxic mess with the father of her children?

Anonymous has nobody to turn to, her man is abusive towards her and her child, there is no love at home, no support, just neglect.

Anonymous is struggling to have a child with her lying cheating unsupportive husband.

Anonymous has stepped into her cousins shoes and home after her cousin passed on. Her family is totally against this but her and her cousin's husband have grown really fond of each other

Anonymous says the her marriage is on the rocks. She married a man whom she had a long distance relationship with at the time, it seems like he's never been the marriage type. Is there a way out of this mess?

Anonymous is caught up in a love triangle, she's in love with a man and a woman. She's willing to explore all avenues but are her partners game?

Anonymous sees his children children once a year, now his fiance' has threatened that he'll never see them again until he fulfills his promise of paying lobola for her 

Anonymous recently found out that two of his four children are not his, they are fathered by two different men. These are just two reasons that anonymous wants his best friend to compensate him for sleeping with his wife.

Is your man stingy? If you answer is yes, we think you have something in common with today's anonymous. Take a listen

Anonymous is a single mom with a 4 year old daughter, she's afraid that once she starts dating her daughter will be exposed to different men. How does she juggle living her life with being a great mother? 

Anonymous has been dating a semi-pro soccer player for 3 years, she is fed up with his inconsistent behavior. Friends have advised her to hang in there but how long do you stay in a relationship if you don't feel loved and respected?

Anonymous has been sending nudes to a married man for over two years, the married man wants to take care of all her financial needs in return for her to be exclusive only to him

Anonymous is heart broken, how does she explain to her children why their father is an absent father? Why their father doesn't love them?

Anonymous has two kids with his woman, when she was 8 months pregnant with the second child she blocked him and he hasn't spoken to her since. He suspects the second child might not be his. 

Anonymous has an 18 year old younger sister, she's just been impregnated by a married man. The married man would like this secret kept from his wife and family.

Anonymous is pregnant yet again from a man she's no longer in love with.

Anonymous is tired of being the breadwinner in her household. She feels that her man is lazy and not driven, he's taken advantage of the fact that she's been the one bringing home the bacon for the last 6 years.

Anonymous feels that she's too clingy in her relationship, could the reason be that the father of her child cheated on her while they were together? Does she have ''daddy issues?" the team will try get to the source of the issue. Take a listen

Anonymous feels that his woman doesn't love him enough, he keeps pouring into her cup so much that he now feels empty inside

Anonymous suspects that her unemployed man is using her for her money. Does this guy love her?

Anonymous is struggling with her blended family, her son doesn't seem to get along with her man

Anonymous has no issues today, she's chosen to date a married man so she knows where he is all the time. if he's not with her, he's at home with his wife

Anonymous (33yrs) has been dating his girlfriend (44yrs) for some time, his dilema is that he has just impregnated his gilrfriend's daughter (23yrs)

Anonymous has just been informed by the mother of his 3yr old daughter that he is not the father

Anonza doesn't want to be in a polygamous relationship but her man has other ideas. 

Anonymous has a fiance at home but is having an affair at work.

Anonymous is broken that her man has impregnated another woman

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship, his woman is now pregnant but he doesn't believe that it his child. Their agreement after they met on Facebook was, "No Children"

Anonymous wants to know why men take so long to commit. Why are they afraid of women that know what they want

Anonymous is livid after finding out that her husband has been initiating sexual intercourse with their children

Anonymous no longer loves the father of her child, she feels guilty leaving him now because he's unemployed

Anonymous has been having an affair with her father in-law, her first two children are the father in-law's, the husband doesn't know

Anonymous is stuck in a seriously tricky situation, he gave up rights to be in his child's life when he was younger but now that the child he shares with his wife has passed on he wants to relook his chances of the child he gave away 14 years ago.

Anonymous has a baby with a married man, she feels that he doesn't care for her the way that he should, it's not enough that he only takes good care of the child

At times all isn't what it may seem, anonymous claims that her man impregnated his side chick but the side chick refuses to give paternity results. There's a twist in the story, listen to this

Anonymous is dating a 49yr old woman, and he's in his early 30's, there are relationship challenges as far as his relationship with her children is concerned. Dingaan Khumalo is our celebrity guest in studio today

Anonymous has been with her man for 20 years, he hasn't taken a day off cheating. Her kids are encouraging her to leave but she isn't brave enough. @mondlimakhoba is our celebrity guest today.

Anonymous gets absolutely no help from her man at home,she cooks,she cleans, she takes care of the baby she does the washing 24/7/365. All she wants is just a little assistance in the household, her man is not willing to lift a finger. @ttmbha is our celebrity guest today

Anonymous met a man in Mpumalanga last month, she's now fallen heads over heels for this man because he's taken her on a trip to Polokwane. The challenge is, this man has a woman. @MphoPopps is our celebrity guest today

Anonymous impregnated his girlfriend, his wife isn't too happy about it. What bothers anonymous is that his wife reminds him about his so-called "mistake" daily. @Smegaforever is our studio guest

The team talks to a young man who went against his family wishes after his father's death and slept with his girlfriend while he was supposed to be mourning. @BrianTemba is our special guest in studio today

Anonymous has been with her man over 20 years, he has been unfaithful for a greater part of those years. Anonymous says she's tired, does she stay or finally let go of this situation

Anonymous needs to make a decision, guy number 1 or guy number 2. She's 35 years old and needs to settle with one of the two, @andilencube is our celebrity guest that will help the team assist anonymous in making the right decision.

Anonymous has been intimate with her colleague, this is because her man has denied her intimacy at home. Is this a good reason to cheat? @speedythegift is our celebrity guest in studio today

Anonymous has been with her cheating husband for years, he has had multiple  affairs, some have gone on for years with the same woman. Anonymous would like to know whether to stay in this marriage or not. @Howza_sa is our special guest today

Anonymous is hurt because of broken promises and lack of intimacy from her man. @HarrisonCrump is our special guest on today's segment, listen to the gems that he shares with anonymous.

Anonymous wants to know what the possible reasons for her man of four years not wanting wanting to commit to her. They still use condoms and he still hasn't introduced her to his family. @trevorgumbi is our special guest in studio today

Anonymous has babymama drama, girlfriend drama and new woman in the picture drama, basically, it's a mess. @Brenden_Praise is our special guest in studio today to assist the team in giving anonymous guidance

Anonymous is experiencing nice life problems, she is weighing options of which man to choose between the two that are in her life right now. Our guest @lindayende gives her firm advice

Anonymous wants to leave her husband just after a couple of years of marriage. Will her religion allow her to?

Anonymous has marital problems were his partner has issues with her mother in law.

Anonymous feels that her man has started withdrawing from their relationship after they engaged in coitus for the first time. Today the team in joined by @lupingcayisa who shares his views on this matter 

Anonymous wants to know whether or not she should take back the father of her two children, they had a rocky past and he's now back to try and rekindle their fading flame

Anonymous is tired of cheating on his wife, he hates the fact that every town that he works in he has a different woman. He admits that his heart is where his wife and kids are

Anonymous feels neglected by her partner of 9 months, they only engage in coitus once a month at a B&B. Is this the man for her?

Anonymous wishes to be in a stable relationship that will lead to marriage one day. Her man is an unstable, abusive and a liar but she loves him, is this the relationship that she should remain in?

Anonymous' man has no stable income but he keeps forcing her to have a child

Anonymous regrets keeping quiet about her abusive fiancé. She now wants to open a case as the guy was also not just emotionally abusing her but physically abusing her too.

Anonymous saw her man of 3 years getting married on television. She now wants to be upgraded to second wife. Will wife number 1 allow this?

Anonymous' 70yr old boyfriend refuses to make her his 3rd wife. She has been a side chick for over 11 years and she's now worried about inheritance when he dies.

Anonymous feels that since all men cheat, her cheating man deserves a second chance. 

Anonymous is in a perfect relationship but she's struggling to get her man to show her more affection and attention to her.

Barely two days after Valentines' Day, anonymous is tired of being the side chick, she wants to graduate to being the one and only woman in her man's life. She would like him to change for her and become a one woman man

Anonymous' wife is doing the most in these streets. She has apologised on cheating on anonymous but there has been no change in behaviour. The families keep pleading with anonymous to hang in there, everything will be okay. Should he stay?

Anonymous is sleeping with her late husband's twin brother. She thinks she's falling in love with him but the challenge is that he's married, the twin brother wants to make her a second wife, is this a good idea? Take a listen >

Anonymous feels financially abused by his woman that earns more than him

Anonymous wants to discuss why families feel entitled to choose partners for their sons. What's with the mother-in-Law drama?

Anonymous seems to have a higher sex drive than his woman lately, he wonders what the problem could be

Anonymous has noticed a couple of "redflags" in her relationship, she would like to know whether she's paranoid or not in feeling this way. Take a listen >>>>>

Anonymous wants to go back to his wife but doesn't know how to break it down to his girlfriend.

Anonymous is faced with a couple of challenges in her relationship, besides her man being an alcoholic, he has ex's constantly popping out the woodworks. She doesn't know whether to stay or leave because he's such a great guy.

Anonymous loves her man, he's everything that she ever wished for and more. The challenge is that he refuses to perform oral sex on her, could this be this is a deal-breaker?

Anonymous is finding it rather difficult being step-father to his woman's 8year old daughter.

Anonymous is in an emotional mess, his woman has left him on two occasions and he can't handle the roller coaster ride, he now feels suicidal.

Anonymous' man cooks, cleans and takes great care of her two kids. The only challenge she faces is that he's unemployed and doesn't seem like he wants a job any time soon. Take a listen

Anonymous has been seeing a man (mostly at a b&b) this man now wants to have a baby with her. She's confused whether this man really wants to make her his wife or not

Anonymous' man has tried blaming her for giving him an STi after his December away with his family. Is she wrong by blocking him and asking him to stay out of her life?

Anonymous' babydaddy has gone awol since the baby arrived. What can anonymous do to make sure that he plays his part as the father of the child

Anonymous is being ghosted by her man of 10 months, he says he has personal issues to deal with and hasn't been in contact with her for the last two months. Could she be the toxic partner that he's trying to avoid or is he just a coward not to tell her its over

Anonymous has an abusive man, she pressed charges against him the last time he abused her physically, the court date is close and now anonymous isn't sure that she would like to proceed with the charges.

Anonymous is raising four children on her own because her husband has decided to build a new home and move in with another woman. She is willing to have him take his mistress as a second wife only if she's introduced to the families and made official. She loves him and doesn't want to lose him

Anonymous is about to marry a woman he doesn't trust. Would you go ahead with a wedding if you suspected your partner for sleeping with a neighbour? He has gone through the lengths of asking the land lord if he can trust one of his neighbours around his fiancé

Anonymous feels that she can no loner stay in her marriage. It has been toxic from day one but since her step-child has started living with them it's gotten worse.

Anonymous is a gay man that has been in an abusive relationship for 9 years

The team is back to taking live calls in studio today. Anonymous hasn't been mentally okay ever since she caught her man having numerous affairs over the years. Her man has recently suggested that they have a baby because they are getting older, is this the right move?

It's 2022 and anonymous is tired of being a side chick, will this be the year that she gets a promoted to be the main woman in her situationship or not?

Anonymous VS the clingy wife

Anonymous is facing troubled waters, the mother of his children left him and the kids for another man, anonymous moved on and found a woman that loves him and his kids. anonymous's estranged wife now wants to be back in the picture.

Anonymous was dumped by her man because he wanted to pursue another woman, the grass wasn't greener on the other side now he's back. What would you do if you were in her situation?

Anonymous wants to play Russian Roulette with her life, she is aware that her cop hubby is cheating on her and she wants to start doing the same.

Anonymous wishes that her husband communicate better about his child that he has outside of their relationship. Does she have valid concerns or does she not like the child?

Anonymous is a young man in his late twenties, he is now concerned that his woman who is in her mid-forties wants to get married

Anonza makes more money than her man, with signs that lobola could be heading her way, she's starting to realise that this man has 3 children and that they could become a bigger financial burden on her than him

Why do some women not allow the kids to visit their fathers when their are no longer together or married. We discuss evil "babymammaz" in studio today.

Anonymous is dating a much younger man, she's afraid that his family will not accept her as the woman that he has chosen

After admitting to be a cheater, anonymous feels suffocated in his relationship because his woman hasn't entirely healed from it. He says she's insecure and follows him everywhere he goes. He isn't allowed to go see his family for Christmas because she doesn't trust he is going where he says he's going

Anonymous can't stop loving her boyfriend that has gone back to his woman and child

Bongeka from Cape Town wants the team to discuss financial disclosure in relationships