In this episode of The Todd V Show, Todd tackles the question of whether "game" is sexist, reinforces traditional gender stereotypes, or is appropriate in today's society. He explores the biological basis for gender differences, addresses common criticisms, and encourages listeners to form their opinions through real-world experiences rather than media narratives.Chapters:00:00 - Listener question02:00 - Mother nature's thoughts on game...07:30 - Does game work in today's world?13:45 - My response to critics of game...20:30 - Get real.Join me on a bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd explores the advantages of going out solo versus relying on a wingman. He shares his personal experiences and offers practical advice on how going out alone can build character, improve social skills, and accelerate learning in game.Chapters:00:00 - Introduction: Going Out Solo  00:26 - Learning Game Solo  01:40 - Preference for Solo Game  03:05 - Solo Game vs. Wingman  04:38 - Wingman Dependency Issues  06:12 - Wingman Limitations in Groups  08:25 - Solo Game: Character Building  10:18 - Approaching Girls Alone  12:05 - Group Dynamics in Night Game  14:45 - Cataloging Attractive Girls in Clubs  17:35 - Best Solo Approach Scenarios  19:55 - Handling Groups and Isolation  23:10 - Warm-Up Sets in Clubs  26:00 - Drinking in Game  28:50 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety  31:45 - Benefits of Night Game  35:30 - Conclusion: Going Solo Builds Character Join me on a bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching

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Todays episode is about "pickup lines" -- exactly what to say to women. In particular, this is your chance to be a "fly on the wall" during a segment of one of my exclusive mentorship program calls. We do these kind of in-depth calls twice weekly, and if you were in the mentorship program during the call, you could ask your own follow up questions at any point.Timestamps0:00 – Introduction1:45 –  Pickup Lines explained4:05 – The best way to tease6:15 – Subtlety…9:00 – The right frame in getting her to qualify9:50 – “You and I would not get along.”13:00 – Disqualifying sex?And we currently have a discount on the mentorship program for a very limited time. You can see that at https://toddvmentoring.com

In this episode Todd interviews his most experienced coach, James, who gives some unique insights on opening, getting solid numbers, and how to communicate as a high-value man.Timestamps pendingTo take get coaching with James go to: https://toddvdating.com/coachingAnd to take advantage of the sale on the Mentorship Program go to:  https://toddvmentoring.com

In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons.Notes0:00 – Introduction0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges3:26 – Game Skills and Online Dating4:23 – The Role of Value in Dating5:20 – Pre-Date Preparation and Its Importance5:53 – Handling the Date Itself6:41 – Improving Dating Interactions7:09 – Creating Tension in Interaction8:42 – Handling Physical Escalation10:16 – Key Concept: Tension and Value13:04 – Final Notes on Chemistry and Rejection14:04 – Additional Context for Sam’s Situation17:01 – Understanding Rejections and Rationalizations18:28 – Common Issues and Final Advice20:25 – Closing Thoughts21:18 – Outro and Call for QuestionsJoin me on a Bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd shares insights from a recent coaching experience in Europe, discussing the importance of making the game fun, reducing outcome dependence, and techniques to handle frustration and approach anxiety. He also provides updates on his upcoming boot camps and practical strategies for improving game dynamics.Notes00:00 - Intro00:30 - Motivation for Today's Episode01:00 - Private Coaching Experience in Europe02:00 - Client's Frustration and Pressure03:00 - Importance of Making Game Fun04:00 - Boot Camp Schedule Update05:30 - What is a Boot Camp?07:00 - Upcoming Cities for Boot Camps08:00 - How to Make Game Fun09:00 - The Irony of Making Game Fun10:00 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety11:00 - Handling Rejection and Blowouts12:30 - Ego and Self-Esteem in Game14:00 - The Upward and Downward Spiral15:00 - Taking Breaks and Resetting16:30 - Changing Your Focus to Reduce Frustration18:00 - Silly Openers to Reduce Outcome Dependence19:30 - Examples of Silly Openers21:00 - Using Cocky Openers22:30 - Examples of Cocky Openers24:00 - Advanced Techniques: Leaving Your Phone at Home25:30 - Changing Your Focus: Small Wins27:00 - Approach Anxiety and Small Wins28:30 - Using a Timer for Approaches30:00 - Gamifying the Approach Process31:30 - Pumping State to Improve Mood33:00 - Examples of Pumping State Techniques34:30 - Combining Pumping State and Reducing Outcome Dependence36:00 - Approach All: Talking to Everyone37:30 - Conclusion: Embrace the Game39:00 - Final Thoughts and Boot Camp InformationJoin me on a Bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

In this episode, I chat with three Online Dating Fast Track students as well as their two coaches, Kaitlin and Atlas. Notes00:00 - Intro01:50 - Coaches Background05:00 - Online archetype and narrative 16:30 - Being high-value online21:00 - Achieving abundance25:30 - Improving your messaging game27:00 - Paradigm shift31:30 - Todd's game insights40:00 - Physical escalation on dates46:50 - How to respond to every text50:20 - Answering deep questions over text51:30 - Maximize the lifespan of a casual relationship58:00 - "It just happened."1:01:00 - Nexting1:04:00 - Wrap up Experience the Online Dating Fast Track for yourself:https://toddvdating.com/odft/Check out my comprehensive online dating course:https://toddoda.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

In this episode, I break down the psychology of those who "score" in life versus those who don't, using soccer as an example.Notes00:00 - Intro01:40 - The archetype of guys who do well with women04:45 - Playing to win Vs. Playing to look good11:55 - Being PREPARED to succeed.16:25 - Do not feel sorry for yourself.Check out my comprehensive online dating course:https://toddoda.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

00:00 - What is Bootcamp?01:40 - Student's experience prior to studying game03:55 - His massive game improvement09:05 - Most challenging bootcamp moment11:50 - His post-bootcamp experience15:30 - How he met his girlfriend19:00 - His advice to others on their journey in game21:20 - Being INTENTIONAL about gameIf you'd like to join me in person, my coaching schedule is at: https://toddvdating.com/coaching/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle YouTube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

00:00 - State transference04:45 - How to kiss her (at the right time)06:30 - Bootcamp story16:30 - How to transfer sexuality to the girl20:00 - AMOG situationsCheck out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy, and highly effective:https://verbalgameacademy.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle YouTube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

In this episode, Todd discusses the challenges faced by Asian men in the Western dating scene. He touches on how to leverage stereotypes and overcome cultural biases to get the results you want in game.Notes02:15 - Do Asian men have a harder time in the dating world?08:00 - What about results in game?13:50 - What about guys of other backgrounds?16:00 - Assimilation.We have a PACKED bootcamp schedule coming up in cities around the world. Click the link below to grow your game exponentially with me out in the field:https://toddvdating.com/coaching/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

In this episode, I discuss a shift in approach for non-sexual dates, emphasizing the importance of creating a dynamic where the woman is chasing the man. I also address challenges such as avoiding over-validation, managing physical escalation, and navigating logistics to increase the likelihood of securing a second date. Finally, I emphasize the need for a strategic mindset, particularly when dealing with more conservative or inexperienced women.Notes02:30 - Balancing validation with avoiding flakiness. 15:10 - Navigating "non-sex dates"We have a PACKED bootcamp schedule coming up in cities around the world. Click the link below to grow your game exponentially with me out in the field.https://toddvdating.com/coaching/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

Notes00:00 - How are hot girls different from others?02:50 - The biggest mistake guys make around hot girls04:20 - Irreverent.08:45 - Don't do this...13:30 - How hot girls live their lives16:40 - Show social proof20:40 - What type of dates should you bring hot girls on?26:30 - Don't put yourself in this frame... Check out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy and highly effective:https://verbalgameacademy.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

In my 20+ years as a dating coach, I've seen a TON of mistakes made in online dating. In this episode, I examine the 3 most common mistakes and how to fix them. Apply these chnages so you can get matches with girls you ACTUALLY want to date. Notes00:00 - What are the 3 most common online dating mistakes?00:50 - Do looks matter?04:15 - Stop doing this in your bio.06:05 - Showing vs. Telling 08:00 - Messaging10:45 - Focus on THIS13:10 - Getting her from app to date18:10 - The most efficient online dating strategyWatch this video to learn how to optimize your fashion:(https://youtu.be/KGG-qoi0w0s?si=LMS6LjqQNRqjxKfv)Check out my comprehensive online dating course:https://toddoda.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating