Have you ever asked yourself the question, ”Why is dating so hard?” Have you felt frustrated, confused, or overwhelmed trying to navigate dating and relationships? Well you are not alone! Looking For The Middle is a podcast where you can find helpful, Christ-honoring, easy-to-follow advice about dating, singleness, relationships, and everything in between. There is a lot out there about the theology of dating and how to date in a way that honors the Lord.... and that is great! We’re going to talk about that plenty too, but we’re also going to talk about the practical stuff too. How to flirt. How to tell if they’re interested. What to expect on a 1st date. ....and so much more! Our ultimate goal is to help you navigate dating well as a Christian, and we can’t wait to walk alongside you in your own dating journey!
CouchCast: Denominations… How Different Is Too Different?
Denominations can cause a lot of confusion when it comes to dating sometimes! There’s a lot of overlap, but there’s a lot of differences too and discerning which are ok and which aren’t can be tricky. We’re walking through our thought processes when it comes to this and you get to come along for the ride!
3/10/2023 • 18 minutes, 1 second
CouchCast: The Fine Line Between Being Clingy and Getting Clarity When You're Texting
This was such a great question with a really detailed backstory so you'll have to click on through and listen to get all the info! We look at several aspects of this from a general standpoint as well as specific to this situation. Is it clingy to initiate contact twice in a row? How do you know if he's ghosting you or if it's just a miscommunication? And at the end of the day... what do you have to lose?
2/19/2021 • 12 minutes, 32 seconds
Top 5 CouchCast Rewind: What Does a Godly Relationship Look Like?
Here we are... Your #1 most downloaded CouchCast! And what a great one to have be at the top! This is a question we should all be continually asking ourselves and comparing our relationships to Scripture and seeking after a Godly relationship from the start.
We're taking a quick look at what a Godly relationship looks like today. This is a really broad topic and could get really deep, but we're just pulling out a few major categories and talking about what it means to have a Godly relationship in those specific areas. Communication, Conflict, Community...
2/12/2021 • 15 minutes, 11 seconds
Top 5 CouchCast Rewind: Can Your Standards be Too High?
We're almost to the end of our countdown which means we're almost to season 6!!
Have you ever been told you're too picky? Have you ever wondered if it's true? Today, we're talking about the standards that you should hold high and the ones that it might be ok to let go of... were they ever really standards or were they just preferences that got a little out of control? Find out!
2/10/2021 • 16 minutes, 55 seconds
Top 5 CouchCast Rewind: How to Let a Guy Know You're Interested
Here we are... #3 in our Top 5 CouchCast Rewind. This is by far the most asked question we get! It can be tough figuring out how to let a guy know you're interested without becoming the pursuer. In today's CouchCast, we went directly to the experts and asked one of our guy friends the best way to really communicate this to them. We also talk about some of our go to flirting techniques so there's that too! ;)
2/5/2021 • 12 minutes, 17 seconds
Top 5 CouchCast Rewind: How to Spot Red Flags When Things Are Going Well
Up next in our Top 5 CouchCast Rewind is #4... How to Spot Red Flags When Things Are Going Well.
Sometimes, when things are going really well with this new guy you're seeing, you can overlook things or have blindspots about him because you want it to work out so badly. It's natural! We all do this to some degree. But, then we find ourselves getting hurt the same ways over and over. So, today we're taking a look at how to avoid this common frustration!
2/3/2021 • 17 minutes, 53 seconds
Top 5 CouchCast Rewind: I've Never Dated, What Do I Do Now?
We're counting down the days to season 6 and while we do, we're revisiting our top 5 most popular CouchCast episodes. We have almost 85 of them! These are questions we still get a lot too so hopefully this will help everyone get the answers they need without having to wait too! :)
1/29/2021 • 13 minutes, 46 seconds
CouchCast: Can Your Standards Be Too High?
Have you ever been told you're too picky? Have you ever wondered if it's true? Today, we're talking about the standards that you should hold high and the ones that it might be ok to let go of... were they ever really standards or were they just preferences that got a little out of control? Find out!
8/28/2020 • 16 minutes, 55 seconds
Bonus: Get to Know Your Hosts!
We get a lot of questions about our personal lives, hobbies, interests...random stuff! So, we wanted to take a few minutes and answer some of them and let you get to know us a little bet better! We did an 'All About Us' episode before we officially launched way back in 2018, but here's an updated 2020 version :)
1/27/2020 • 46 minutes, 8 seconds
Favorite Things Month - Things We Use Everyday
We had a request for a 'Day in the Life' episode, but we couldn't figure out how to make that interesting with just audio haha... so, we are talking about the things in our lives we can't go a day without! Close enough, right?? :)
8/23/2019 • 15 minutes, 19 seconds
Summer Series - Q&A #3
3 Down, 2 to go... Keep the questions coming! We're talking today about how to tell the difference between nerves and red flags in a new relationship and also what pursuit really looks like to a Christian woman.
7/17/2019 • 21 minutes, 1 second
Roundtable Discussion on Modern Christian Dating & Relationships
Hey Everyone! We are really excited *shocker* to be in Duluth, GA this Friday for a roundtable discussion about dating in the 21st century as a Christian. If you're local, feel free to join us! You can email us for the details.
1/14/2019 • 4 minutes, 6 seconds
Sneak Peek - New Episode Tomorrow!
9/11/2018 • 31 seconds
Teaser Trailer #2 - What We Wish Was Different
Full episode releases this Wednesday! 9/5/18.
9/1/2018 • 47 seconds
Teaser Trailer - What We Wish Was Different
Full episode will be released next week. 9/5/18.
8/29/2018 • 1 minute, 27 seconds
All About Us!
**Official Season 1 Launch 9/5/18** Come get to know us a little better! This episode is nothing but us rambling on about our lives and hobbies so that you can feel like we're old friends sitting in a coffeeshop catching up on life... because that's probably where we are and what we're doing right now!