Can you discern when God has called you to be number two? Until we realize that our role is for God's glory and not our own, we'll never be able to find unspeakable joy in the reality that we must decrease, so that God increases.

We have to get to a place to where we stop listening to people's advice who don't have to deal with the outcome if we follow it. We must be cautious about who has access to your ear!

Can you identify when a failure isn't a part of the process, but it's a part of protection? This doesn't mean we need to work harder; nor is it adversity, it's clarity! This is God being clear about what is and isn't in His will for your life.

If you don't disciple your imagination, it will begin to filter everything through fear, threats and worst-case scenarios. This is no way for a Christ follower to live and thrive. We must get our anxiety under control so that it stops dictating our lives!

So many of us are engaged in historically inherited wars and we don't even know it! Generational cycles gain momentum by stories being left untold and scars that were covered by statements such as, "what goes on in this house stays in this house."

When we're emotionally exhausted, we tend to revert back to the version of ourselves from before Jesus called us. It's time we develop a pain plan, because your pain process sets protocols for those who are coming behind you.

In order to succeed in life, we must be able to identify which type of valley we are in. The anointing is forged in the valley!

Could it be possible that our lack of properly placing people is the role that we're playing in our own suffering?

There's some pain we don't have to experience if we would just take the wisdom!

Have you ever lost something before, only to realize it's right there in your face? Inattentional blindness is whenever you become so focused on one thing, that you miss the details right in front of you. This is one of the cancers responsible for relational breakdown.

The fastest way to waste your life is to live thinking you have more life left. You get one life and to waste time is to waste life!

It's critical that we remain healed, because brokenness blurs your vision and causes you to not be able to discern the true nature of people. How many times have we seen people in the improper light due to the fact that we got healed, but never stayed healed?

Some of us are fueled by feuds - we love to fight! It's possible that our harvest is being strangled by our obsession to fight. Sometimes fighting is necessary, but do we have the maturity to know when, where, how or even what to fight? Do we have the discernment to know that we shouldn't be fighting for free?

In life, many of us have taught ourselves to move on by sweeping our hardships under the rug. But if you keep sweeping things under the rug, it will eventually trip you up!

Before you overthink. Before you let anxiety at the mic in your soul. Before you allow what you see to talk you out of what you know, remember the times when God showed himself as the same God who delivered you back then!

It's your responsibility to do the work! Spiritual leaders can offer guidance; The Holy Spirit can comfort, convict and counsel us; but having consistency is up to you!

Biblical illiteracy is the artery of deception and when the heart is not filled with wisdom, deception is enthroned. It reigns over your choices!

We need discerning hearts and wisdom because when you've been shaped by ignorance, you can't trust your discernment because your perspective has been constructed by misinformation and the lack of right information. Both willful and involuntary wisdom lead to pain and that's too expensive!

The ultimate cheat code is to be in the presence of The Father!

Why should we seek to resolve conflict? It's our duty in Christ and an opportunity to look as much as we can like our Father.

Deliverance deals with the demons, wisdom deals with the damage. Enough with us allowing our hearts to be a practice field while they find themselves!

Cancel The Audition | Dr. J. T. Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone seeking to deepen their faith and understand the profound influence of spiritual leadership. Tune in for a conversation that promises to enrich your spiritual experience and offer valuable insights into the life of a pastor.

Once we grow with God, so should our relational obedience with Him, which makes it easier for us to give God our "yes" in all things.

Idolatry is a matter of the human heart; it is the human heart seeking something outside of its Creator to sustain it. Money does not change a person, but rather exposes the human heart.

The fight is fixed and the only way we lose is if we don't fight, so let the arrows fly!

Joy is not a destination you arrive at but it's a standard you must choose to believe. God is speaking to us about having joy in Him and in Him alone.

We have to stop worshipping at the altar of what other people think. If we don't unlearn that, what they say about us will be what we say about ourselves.

Whoever you pick and choose to do life with is a choice on the materials you will use to build your house.

Can you identify when your heart is catching a cold? With a natural cold you can lose your taste, but with a spiritual cold you can lose sensitivity to the things of God and His convictions! Believe it or not, it’s possible for us to not even know how contagious we are, which by default has us spreading strongholds.

Kingdom men don't just happen. They're first born again and then built. We know this to be true because when we look at David's life, he was anointed to be king over Israel in 1 Samuel 16, but he didn't become king until 2 Samuel 5 because he was being built.

Your ability to discern God’s will is married to the renewal, the health and the healing of your mind!

Once Satan gains access to your ear, he can then influence your mind, the gateway to your soul. What are you listening to on a regular basis?

Some people like the unhealed version of you better… what if the only thing y’all have in common is similar dopamine hits?

The pain of guilt may not be the result of what others have done, but rather what we have done leaving an imprint on our souls. We will only exemplify our freedom in Christ to the degree by which we are free in our souls.

If you have to lose yourself in order to secure that relationship, you may need change directions. Because you can't self-abandon your way into a healthy relationship.

A discernment deficiency will have you loyal to a counterfeit, but a discerning heart gives you the ability to see beyond presentation!

The survival tactics that you've learned in your "now," won't serve you to thrive when God gives you your "next."

Knowledge is applied information but wisdom is the ability to identify misinformation. You don't have to learn everything through experience, some things you can learn through wisdom.

In life, sometimes you must make a conscious decision to modify the level of access someone has to you. It doesn't mean that you no longer love them, but for the sake of your health, happiness or purpose, you must reposition them.

Anything outside of God that we worship and find identity in is an idol. God doesn’t do threesomes, He won’t be intimate with us and our idols at the same time!

We're so quick to say our cut off game is strong, but why isn't it that strong when it comes to cutting off that rudeness or any sin that offends God? It's a contradiction and this message is designed to help us cut off the branches in our life that are unfruitful.

Often times we sabotage the good things that God wants to provide for our lives due to the feeling of unworthiness. We must unlearn the idea that we do not deserve the blessings of God as we learn how to embrace happiness.

In Matthew 23, Jesus was criticizing the Pharisees when He said, "everything they do is done for people to see." They love attention, they love views and they love going viral. That's the infection - viral infection! And the danger is when we are a people who love attention, we'll mismanage pastures.

What God wants you to go through and what you choose to go through are not the same! Being offended is a choice, not a requirement.

Being hard on yourself and calling it perfectionism is really self manipulation, because the fruit of that behavior is anxiety, overthinking, stress, burnout, and depression. Those aren't fruits of the Spirit and the gift God has given you never requires your peace of mind!

While your hands aren't stronger than Pharaoh's, God's are. God is waiting for you to put it down, so He can pick it up.

Avoidance is a survival skill that is learned in an unsafe environment. When brought into a safe environment, the new space then starts to look like the one God brought us out of. There are five ways to change your behavior, but in order to do that, we must first address the fact that we are avoiding something.

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence and evidence is for the purpose of being persuaded. This is why so many people are disenchanted with Christianity because we claim to have this evidence, but with the way we treat people, it's not evident. Our love for God and His people should be evident, not mysterious.

There are a lot of things we can get wrong, but the two most important things we should get right are God's will for our lives and our eternal placement!

Most of us when we hear the word "naked," we think of the human body, whether male or female, being uncovered, stripped, indecent exposure; void of the appropriate covering. This seems to be an adequate estimation; however, there is a spiritual correlation that must be considered when we ask the question: "Why are you naked?"

An apology isn’t enough. What you deserve is changed behavior! Let's unpack the many questions we have regarding broken trust and how it can be recovered.

God is raising up a generation of kingdom men who will take their rightful position, in Jesus name! Featuring Jerry Flowers, Issac Curry, Will Jackson, Ezekiel Azonwu and Gabriel McKnight.

We have placed a period where God wants to place His comma. He is The Author and Finisher of our faith, but is it possible that you've given the pen to something or someone else in your life? It's time to fire whoever owns the pen!

Your process of dealing with conflict in your relationships could be why you haven't experienced the needed healing in your life. It's critical that we know the difference between an apology and accountability. An apology must be connected to curiosity and changed behavior.

It's the nature of a fire to go out and if the enemy can't take you out, he will wear you out! So how do we prevent spiritual burnout?

It's going to be hard to make destiny decisions when you haven't made a peace treaty with your past!

Nobody welcomes storms, and yet, whether we welcome them or not, they show up. Since we can be assured that storms will come, wouldn’t it be wise for us to prepare?

It’s possible that our mind is so crowded with worry, so crowded with fear, and so crowded with lies, that a word from God has to stand in the long line of our overthinking.

Every follower of Jesus needs community, but it must be one that's healthy and on fire for the things of God! Authentic Christian fellowship comes with heat, which is necessary in order to melt the frostbite of our struggles.

Many of us sabotage and walk away from potentially thriving relationships simply because we've never seen what it looks like up close to choose love without forcing love. While there are others who walk away from relationships because that's how we've been taught to cope with conflict.

At the end of the day, we have this choice when it comes to overcoming the lies of insecurity: choose what you believe, affirm what you believe and unlearn what you have believed.

Let us be people that experience what biblical love truly looks like, so that once we enter into relationships we do not repeat what should've been repaired.

Everything changes when Godly men are in position!

Before the start of Jesus' earthly ministry, He was first affirmed by The Father. We must be people who meditate on the thoughts of God, rather than the opinions of man.

You can't keep the lungs of your walk with Jesus cancer-free if you don't have spiritual insight on how to identify secondhand smoke.

Passion without vulnerability, empathy, commitment and honor is simply infatuation. The words, "I love you," will not be enough to sustain a relationship or marriage. Love is an action that must be lived out, not just spoken.

The role of The Holy Spirit was never to spark your faith. He was purposed to engulf your faith because proximity determines temperature. Let it burn!

The quality of your heart and the health of your soul affects too many people for you to ignore when the limp remains.

Perhaps God is not holding you back. What if this isn't punishment or the devil but rather a season where God is trying to give your faith some flames?

You weren't made to bleed for the rest of your life. In order for us to be all that God has called for us to be, there are some necessary adjustments that need to be made in our lives.

Last year was the last year that I didn't steward the currency of my time well. You know how much money is in your bank account, but you don't know how much time is left on your clock. The greatest contributor to our spiritual laziness is we think we have more time!

For some, it takes a certain dispensation of time for us to truly see what needs to end in our lives. Time will tell!

It isn't time that's setting you back, but rather when we fail to put our trust in God’s timing. Time isn't our biggest hinderance when it comes to time-management, It's our inability to discern time wasters!

Sometimes pain and purpose are married, which means you can't birth anything without pain. What if God is trying to see if He can trust you with that disappointment?

The enemy waits for the right time to get us to fall for his traps and temptation but God always sends warnings when we're being sneaky and on our way to a trap. Notice the timing!

The enemy wants to get us at the wrong tables, feeding on entrees from the wrong place with the ultimate goal being for us to waste our time. It's critical that we know that Jesus came to overturn every table that would cause for us to miss our appointment!

One of the first ordinances of the Kingdom for earth revolved around timing. "Let there be light... greater lights by day and lesser lights by night." God is saying there is a time for the sun to shine and there's a time for the moon to shine. If this is true then one of the warfare strategies of the enemy is to get us to waste time.

It is unfortunate that in many religious gatherings, many have come to expect a "Yes" from God, but what do you do when God says, "no?" God wants us to know His voice so that we conform to His character, not the culture.

Satan comes only to steal, kill and destroy, but Jesus came so that we would have life and have it more abundantly! How can we live the abundant life if we keep engaging in the self sabotaging behavior Jesus died to save us from?

It's going to be hard to walk in your calling, if you can't hear the voice of The One Who is calling you.

The enemy operates with a demonic math equation. He wants to add voices ➕ to subtract clarity ➖, so he can multiply confusion ✖️, causing division between your will and The Holy Spirit ➗, which equals = uncertainty!

It's dangerous when you're trying to give birth when the wrong voice is in your ear. Even Jesus, The King Of Glory, was intentional with who was around Him during moments of vulnerability.

One of the worst types of illnesses that you can receive is a projection infection, which causes for you to believe a narrative that was authored by someone else's wounds.

Don't stay stuck — get up, pick up your pallet and walk! We have to be willing to go through this process in order to no longer be rooted in our sin.

Are you truly healed, or are you simply isolated from all of your past triggers? Often times, we heal just enough to be able to identify our trauma, but not to the degree to be rid of the pain the trauma has caused in our lives.

The greatest threat to your life and relationships is unwanted people in private places where they don't belong. You can't control the voices that try to influence you externally, but you can for those you invite into in your bedroom.

It's possible for you to lose yourself when the relationship or a season ends. DON'T LOSE YOU!

We are the bride of Christ. One of the last postures Jesus had before His crucifixion was on His knees washing His bride’s feet. He was in a proposal position.

Often times we stay subscribed to things out of comfort, convenience, familiarity or even fear. If we truly desire growth, we must first understand that new growth cannot happen unless you're willing to cut what is no longer beneficial to you.

If we don't understand the significance of grace, we'll fail to grasp the authority we have to war in the spirit, and most importantly that we are heirs of the Father.

When you've grown up in a combat zone, warfare becomes familiar to such a degree that peace causes skepticism. In the same way, normalized dysfunction has conditioned us to the point where we have confused what happiness truly is. It isn't until our eyes have been opened that we're able to see hazardous roads have become our normal.

This message addresses the need for us to be able to identify bad theology and false teaching. Eloquent speech and charisma mixed with heresy has deceived many, so in order to avoid deception we must be students of truth!

What do you do when God says the answer is no? There's so much teaching about when God is saying yes, but what about the under teaching when God is saying this is not yours, this is not your door, this is not your season or this is not your time? This word is designed to help us identify a no from God.

Your healing matters. Whatever is not dealt with in this season, will show up in the front row of your emotions in the next season.

We're lost in a forest of regrets, what if's, and where am I's, but Jesus says, "unless you become like little children!" Who you were before all of this was the original form of who God called you to be. If we can get back to this place of nakedness, we will be free from shame.

How many of us are mislabeling patterns as "compatibility" or our "personality"? The shadow of every problem is a pattern, and we're bound to repeat what we cannot see as broken. Mistakes hurt you, but patterns break you!

The enemy attempts to deceive us through discussion to ultimately affect the sobriety of our decisions, therefore we must be able to hear from God personally. This can seem difficult at times, not because God isn't speaking, but due to the lies that have already been spoken to us first which are suffocating our ability to decipher truth from lies.

It can become all too convenient for us to blame the enemy for us being chronically distracted. Often times, distractions are simply ways for us to cope with the hard things which we would rather not address in the moment.

God is not obligated to support or endorse what He has not confirmed. Confirmation flows from The Word of God and for what He has cosmically created for us to occupy!

As Christians, we should never apologize for having boundaries. Boundaries are the investment we make to ensure that toxicity doesn’t vandalize our peace.

If you do not know the voice of God in devotion, you will not know the voice of God in direction.

What happens when the void outweighs your values? When God creates a void, it's for development not punishment.

We must be aware of our own self-sabotaging routines that are eclipsing what God desires to do in our lives.

How can you love your neighbor as yourself, if you don't even love yourself?

There's somewhere that God is wanting to send you, but you don't get to determine His mode of transportation. When your storm is on schedule, it's vital that you marry your purpose, but remember to date the process!

Rejection is a wound and a spirit that can be passed down and if we don't deal with our fear of rejection, we are bound to mishandle our purpose.

What God desired for this amazing series to do, is for it to put our witness in the gym and rid us of false advertisement. If you claim to be a lover of Jesus, then you should be able to extend that love to your neighbor.

Exhaustion, many times, is tied to us not knowing what isn't our problem to fix. Heartbreak is imminent when you’re trying to cure what only an encounter with Jesus can heal.

People that are hard to deal with are the perfect training facility to strengthen the heart of a Christian. In order to be an effective witness for Christ, we must be people of love and maturity.

The enemy has waged an assault against your thoughts, because if he can have an impact on what you're thinking, he can seize control of your peace.

The agenda of sexual perversion is to produce darkness within the soul, which then becomes normalized by culture. Yes who The Son has set free is free indeed, but to truly experience transformation we must undergo a soul renewal and possess biblical strategies to win the war with lust.

How we steward our current wounds will affect how we see tomorrow. Ultimately, our goal should be to turn our wounds into wisdom, rather than paranoia. I pray that this session will be an investment into your soul care, because the health of your heart and condition of your soul affects too many people.

Lust and love look just alike until it’s time to sacrifice, to hold no record of wrongs or to be inconvenienced. Believe it or not, your spiritual growth is directly tied to winning the war against lust and protecting your spirit.

What if the most dangerous person in a narcissistic relationship is the person who is holding up the mirror?

The heart is limited on displaying The Father's love when it hasn't been healed from father wounds.

Anybody out there plagued by thinking the worst case scenario? Yeah I’ve been there, the treadmill of negative thinking will exhaust you by keeping you in the same place. Same fear, same anxiety, same perspective!

You cannot hold a record of wrong against anyone and display the love of Jesus towards them at the same time. This is going to be problematic for those of us who like to keep receipts!

If we don't know how to heal from the kiss of Judas, we'll allow that betrayal to hand us paranoia and chronic suspicion!

When you embrace a belief that feeds a pattern in your life which keeps you repeating unhealthy and unhelpful cycles, you enable heart hustles.

The DNA of an authentic follower of Jesus os not found in how well we preach, sing during praise & worship or speak in tongues, but in how well we love and treat one another.

If we closely examine our lives, many of us will discover that our thinking is one of the main culprits for our suffering and joylessness. God has an incredible plan for your life, but it's possible for us to think ourselves out of experiencing it.

The only way we can be influential in changing the current state of our families is by returning to God's original purpose for the family.

Scars are real. Betrayal is real. The pain of unfulfilled expectations is real. Abandonment is real. Being alone is real. Disappointments are real; but no scar can keep us from the Will of God.

The longer we stay in a crippled place the more we will see ourselves at the level of our scars. Until living a life of purpose becomes more important to us than sulking in our sorrows, fulfilling our own personal passions and private agendas, we will forever make unwise choices that keep us in a place of recovery.

Don't Wake Love Before It's Time | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

We delved into the story of the woman with an infirmity for 18 years in Luke 13:10-17. Like the woman, the enemy wants us to keep looking down on our troubles and dirt so that we become numb to the power of the Gospel. As we continue to bring ourselves to Church and the community of Christ, Jesus sees us, calls us and looses us. Our worship, prayer and devotion set things straight in our life and our legacy.

It's critical that we gain the necessary wisdom and discernment to ensure that yesterday will no longer rob our today and tomorrow.

If you want to experience joy, peace, and a love no greater than Jesus laying down His life for us, then you have to give him full custody.

Rushing can be the doorway that leads you into needing another 4 years of therapy. It's our obsession with instant that's strangling our discernment which causes us to go a speed that we can't avoid traps.

Crucial to our emotional, social, intellectual and spiritual health is the quality of our relationships. It's critical that we deal with the trap of toxic relationships if we strive to improve the quality of our lives.

The devil does not always look like a roaring lion. Sometimes he presents himself as cute and harmless, just like a fox. A fox is anything that would cause our relationship with Jesus to dwindle. Don't overlook the small things because it's these things that can do the most damage to our spiritual growth and development.

We must come to the realization that the closure we think we need may never happen. Sometimes desiring closure leads to prolonged grief. God doesn't just order our stops, He also orders our severing.

A changed world starts with kingdom men being in position in the home. God is raising up more kingdom men in the earth who will do what it takes to not only see change but to be the change. It does come at a cost though.

The devil does not always look like a roaring lion. Sometimes he presents himself as cute and harmless, just like a fox. A fox is anything that would cause our relationship with Jesus to dwindle. Don't overlook the small things because it's these things that can do the most damage to our spiritual growth and development.

Many times the fear of failure is worse than failure itself. We must redefine what we consider as failure and understand that God has not given us the spirit of fear.

You can't guard your heart with all diligence and not be aware of your trigger. To lack discernment of your trigger is to place yourself unknowingly in environments that are triggering. If you can trace it, you can unlearn it.

The acronym for the word trap is Tricks Right At Pivots. This series is designed to get us to move with freedom and to move with discernment while in transition from here to there.

Many times we ask God for an increase, for a bigger platform, for our 'next' but if we can be honest, we don't know how to steward our next. This message is designed to help us understand why God blesses us and how to steward the blessing when He sends it.

I Didn't Ask For This | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Your life moves in the direction of your most dominant thought, because as a man thinketh so is he. What is required for us to be able to be positioned to receive our next, is a higher level of focus.

There's something on the inside of you that hell wants and the Kingdom needs but you can't birth it without rain - without testing. If you want fruit, a breakthrough, or growth, you're going to need to enjoy the rain!

It’s possible that our mind is so crowded with worry, so crowded with fear, and so crowded with lies, that a word from God has to stand in the long line of our overthinking

It's hard to see what God is doing in your life when you keep looking at everyone's life. I can't be planted in my purpose, my business, my assignment, my calling - I can't be planted in my business and in their business at the same time because planted seeds don't lurk. Mind your business!

Roots of stability helps you endure the wind of adversity so you can experience the fruit of your resilience. To quit is to forfeit the promise, to forfeit your due season. Stay right there!

Sometimes the mind needs time to accept what The Spirit already knows

Your routine is either the elevator to your spiritual growth, or the undertaker for your spiritual growth. A changed life begins when you change something you do daily and repeat it again tomorrow. Nothing changes if nothing changes!

You're Not Invited | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

The best gift we could offer back to God is a heart of obedience and gratitude. You want more influence, God wants more intimacy. You want more opportunities, God wants more devotion. You want more income, God wants more gratitude!

Whether we believe it or not, there is power in purity and great significance in modesty. This teaching is for all those who want to be educated, equipped and empowered to live and to glorify God.

Cuffing Season is amongst us. How will we navigate through this season that has three of the most celebrated holidays, and we’re still single? We’ve waited for Pastor Flowers to bless the dear future wifey podcast and he came to shake things up on an episode titled, “No Cuffing Season.”

We must be what others are to become. Our children, our males, and other females must be able to look at us, inspect our attitudes, our lifestyle, inspect our dress, our choices, inspect our speech, inspect our relationships and see us model Godliness in a way that makes Christ visible and irresistible. When we refuse to change, we are bound to fail.

Waiting on God can be difficult because we want what we want when we want it, but have you considered why God has you hidden?

One of the most amazing gifts that God has given us, which is designed to be shared with husband and wife, is sex. Sex is a God design and a God idea, however whatever God gives, the enemy tries to influence man to pervert it. Mankind perverts God designs for a living, and the enemy has been using our perverse hearts to trap us in cycles and addictions. This conversation is a must have for the church, not for the purpose of condemning, but rather educating us on God's original kingdom agenda for sex and why His way is the best way.

One of the most amazing gifts that God has given us, which is designed to be shared with husband and wife, is sex. Sex is a God design and a God idea, however whatever God gives, the enemy tries to influence man to pervert it. Mankind perverts God designs for a living, and the enemy has been using our perverse hearts to trap us in cycles and addictions. This conversation is a must have for the church, not for the purpose of condemning, but rather educating us on God's original kingdom agenda for sex and why His way is the best way.

Dysfunction attempts to make you repeat what broke you! We had to double team hell on today and expose the cancer of intimacy which is ”dysfunction,” because dysfunction is the breeding ground for trauma.

Many times givers get hurt because they keep planting their heart in the garden of people who don't water things 🤯 and takers never get tired of taking and then wonder why they never experience the overflow.

It takes a King to make a king. In Jesus name, more Kingdom men will rise up and bring forth revival in the earth. Your obedience and surrender, sir, will have generational momentum.

Any woman who desires marriage is saying God, send me someone I can help. Being a wife is not all about posting cute pictures and looking like a power couple when in public but rather it's more about being his helper and helping him expand what he already has.

One of the greatest tragedies of marriage, is to spend years together, and still not know each other. 🥴

So now you’re in a recovery season because of who you entertained in the last season…. 😒 nah we’re going to be kingdom this time, we’re going to operate with wisdom this time. No more marriages on life support, and no more heartbreaks due to wrong picks! The question you should ask before you say I do is, could I become one with that?

Can you identify when you’re NOT READY? 🤔 I’m not ready for a relationship, I’m not ready for a larger platform, I’m not ready to be vulnerable, can you identify the not ready?

Could one of the contributing factors of your stress be because our spirit has gone unprotected and that's manifesting in your body and emotions? To not protect your spirit is to invite spiritual graffiti into your life. How many more times will you allow people to mark on you?

Being able to identify what God's hand is on, versus what's not His will for your life is MASSIVE. The ultimate goal in life and of this message is to get our Free Will and God's Preferred Will to color coordinate.

How Do You Use The Same Heart That Was Broken, To Love Again?

Anger is a matter of the heart that can be destructive if it is unrighteous anger.

Being able to identify what God's hand is on, versus what's not His will for your life is MASSIVE. The ultimate goal in life and of this message is to get our Free Will and God's Preferred Will to color coordinate.

True healing happens from the inside out. Jesus informs us to first, cleanse the inside of the cup. Could one contributing factor to why we keep experiencing headache and heartache be because we can't discern dirty cups?

Anger is never a primary emotion. Could it be that you're angry because you're stressed?

Maybe the answer to the problem, is knowing this is not your problem

Many times when people treat you harshly, it has very little to do with you and a lot do do with something going on in them. The question is, how do you deal with a difficult person who is connected to your promotion?

Stress declares war on what you believe, sometimes stress is not us under a constant attack, but rather us under a constant thought.

Sometimes boundaries sound like this: NO. This message is designed to help us understand that saying no is actually biblical and that we shouldn't feel selfish for stewarding the physical, intellectual, emotional, recreational, and spiritual parts of ourselves.

When temptation knocks, curiosity answers. If you and I are content doing what God assigned for us to do, then we won't be curious to answer the door when temptation knocks.

What's The Worst That Could Happen | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Complaining is a curse because it stands in opposition to the will and Word of God. This message is designed to help us give thanks and see the good in all things.

The irony of temptation is that it promises to help you escape a current discomfort, only to sell you to another slave master.

It's possible to lose you, while with them!

Mixed living produces a mixed harvest and a mixed harvest gives birth to confusion! Could it be possible that the reason we feel stuck is because we're swimming in the swamp of lukewarm living?

Everyone has a weakness and everyone is faced with temptation. This message is designed to help us exit from those difficult situations so that we don't give in to our desires.

Why Are You So Hard On Yourself | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

This messaged is designed to help us understand that time is our most valuable asset and that we don't have as much as we think. Let's make a righteous resolve today to stop wasting it.

It Had To Happen | Destiny Decisions | Part 9 | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Being A Man Is A Decision | Destiny Decisions | Part 8 | Jerry Flowers, Issac Curry & Ezekiel Azonwu by Jerry Flowers Ministries

The Problem Is In The Pattern | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Marriage does not heal toxicity. There are some things that must be uprooted in singleness and there are also some things that should be cultivated in marriage to create two whole and healthy people that will ultimately affect the world positively.

I Have Not Given You The Spirit Of Fear | Destiny Decisions | Part 6 | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

What's Not Handled In Singleness, Will Affect Your Togetherness PART 2 | Therapy Thursday by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Today is Resurrection Sunday and it is one of the few Sunday's out of the year where many people who do not regularly give God time come to Church. Jesus wants our commitment. He wants us every day of the week and not just on Sunday or on Easter, Christmas and Mother's Day. So the question is, What About Next Sunday?

Let Me Help You | Destiny Decisions | Part 5 | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

What's Not Handled In Singleness, Will Affect Your Togetherness by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Now That I Have Your Attention | Destiny Decisions | Part 4 | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

We Argue Too Much | Therapy Thursday | Issac Curry by Jerry Flowers Ministries

When God Says No | Destiny Decisions | Part 3 | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

I've Got Control Issues (Part 2) | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Making Peace With Your Past | Destiny Decisions | Part 2 | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Decisions create conditions. Sow a decision, reap a condition. This series is designed to help us make better decisions that are favorable for our destiny.

Ouch That Hurt Me| Therapy Thursday | Issac Curry by Jerry Flowers Ministries

It's possible for us to study the scriptures, love God and still have a distorted view of who He is. This message is designed to help us see that maybe we learned it the wrong way, and to also help us unlearn unhealthy patterns and relearn healthy patterns.

It's Not That Tomorrow Hands Us Anxiety, It's The Need To Control It That Does

I Can't Heal It If You Hide It | King Encounters | Part 8 | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

The Disappointment Room| Therapy Thursday | Issac Curry by Jerry Flowers Ministries

God is looking for loyal, committed people who refuse to live an average Christian lifestyle.

Why Are You So Angry? | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Why haven’t we been taught how to steward pain? Pain is inevitable, but misery is optional.

How To Ruin A Relationship | Issac Curry | Therapy Thursday by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Happiness is temporary and fleeting, but joy is eternal and can only be found in our King, Jesus.

What do you do when the battle chooses you?

Trauma has robbed our ability to dream.

Some things don't break off your life until Jesus comes and hands it an eviction notice! Demons tremble and they flee at the mention of His name!

What happened where Nicodemus went from giving us side piece vibes and coming to Jesus at night in John 3, to where he's in broad daylight with Jesus body in John 19? 🤔

There are certain biblical principles that we are limited in executing, until we are healed on the inside!

Once a man or woman encounters Jesus for real, it's going to change them. So what in the world is going on to where we have so many people who claim they've had an encounter with Him, but it's not followed up by a metamorphosis?

This is not stress, this is you being stretched. The reason it feels like stress is due to the battle of the wills!

You can be physically fit, but spiritually out of shape

When A Man Loves You | Cuffing Season Vol 2 | (Part 15) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

insecurity is designed to get you to downplay, what God wants to display

Could it be that the reason you feel so empty is because God has literally emptied everything out of your life that we were using to replace Him 😭

Who dropped you?

Are you patient enough for love?

We Need To Talk | Cuffing Season Vol 2 | (Part 10) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

It’s hard to grieve over someone who’s still alive, like you eulogized the relationship, but the person is not in the cemetery!

Sex clouds judgment, and when judgement is clouded discernment is crippled, you’re not crazy because you want to be filled the same way you pour, it’s just that love gives, but lust takes!

To be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace! could our marriage be dying because we're so carnal?

What if the problem is due to what you refer to as “Your Type”? Then enemy traffics in sending pain, gift wrapped as your preference

I'm Addicted To Relationships | Cuffing Season Vol 2 | (Part 5) | Issac Curry by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Kings Still Exist 2| Cuffing Season Vol 2 | (Part 4) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

So many times we speak of the rewarding of God but under preach the warnings of God, but it's taking heed to the warnings that positions us for the rewarding!

Can You See The Good In That Which Is Unfinished?

Fake happiness is the worst type of sadness

I want you to RESPOND out of what you represent, versus REACT out of how you feel.

Can you see my dirt, without viewing me as dirty?

The most dangerous lie is the one we believe as truth!

When you can't identify that which has expired you risk consuming spoiled things!

Kings Still Exist | Kingdom Vibes Only | (Part 8) | Jerry Flowers With Special Guest by Jerry Flowers Ministries

What if you’re fighting so hard to be SEEN that you’re blindfolded to the reality that God is training you for your SCENE?

To Be Great In The Kingdom, You Must Be A Servant - Jesus

The Home Is The Epicenter Of A Generation

Midwives aren't afraid to do the dirty work

I'm Having Withdrawals | Kingdom Vibes Only | (Part 3) Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

We're called to be governors, not commoners

The blessing comes in the form of keys!

When you don't know your purpose you'll make everyone your purpose

Now You're Speaking My Language | Discernment | (Finale) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Discerning Spirits II | Discernment | (Part 13) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Discerning Spirits | Discernment | (Part 11) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Can He Hear? | Discernment | (Part 11) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

This Doesn't Mean Quit | Discernment | (Part 10) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Ever thought you heard God but due to what you encountered along the way you’re starting to question if you heard wrong?

Pretending prolongs you from receiving what’s yours! Your blessings arrive at your authentic address, not the one you pretend to be at!

How Did You Know? Q &A | Discernment | | Jerry & Tanisha Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Something Ain't Right | Discernment | (Part 8) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

There is a difference between an Assumption and an Unction

You have oil for YOUR assignment, not theirs!

The Heart Needs To Be Trained

Biblical friendship takes grave clothes off you!

Gratitude Enhances Discernment

Clouded Judgement | Discernment | (Part 3) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

I Need Discernment | Discernment | (Part 2) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Sometimes what you want more of, and what God wants more of are not the same!!!

e want to give you five keys to enhance your discernment

When God Takes His Time | Pressure | (Part 12) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

The Trap Of Comparison (Stop Comparing) by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Let me help you with your wifely duties!!!

Why Am I Like This? (Self Love Is A Kingdom Principle) | Pressure | (Part 11) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

What Are You Running From?

Can I Trust Her With This | Pressure | (Part 9) | Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

can you resist the urge to respond to that comment/person

What if I told you that loyalty and faithfulness must be taught

Every decision is pregnant with potential to give birth to a season

What are you looking the GRAPES or the GIANTS?

that can be such a triggering question Can’t it? It’s almost as if people actually equate my relationship status as a reflection of my worth! This pressure has caused so many of us to make unhealthy relational choices, and I promise you, many married people have sacrificed their mental health on the altar of appearance!

anybody out there that battles with people pleasing? Have you attached your value and influence to a like 👍🏾? Or do you question how significant you are because of a dislike 👎🏾? We believe this message will serve you greatly.

Procrastination is the graveyard of unexperienced blessings, that have been eulogized by our excuses!

Are you being stressed, or being stretched?

What Has Your Heart

Before God next levels you, you always separates you, I wonder have you been mislabeling your separated season as a lonely season, you’re not being punished but developed, God placed you in a season of heart rehab for the purpose of revelation and so that people will no longer be able to identify you by your wound! ⠀

Heart Rehab | "That Was Manipulation" | Part 14 by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Resurrection Sunday | "The God Factor" | by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Heart Rehab | "Normal Is Overrated" | Part 13 by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Could it be possible that we are dealing with the unfinished business of our ancestors

It's Possible To Have An Appetite Trained By Toxicity

A discernment deficiency will have us being loyal to a counterfeit

Evolution is tied to elimination

What do you do when you miss former things

The weapon the enemy is using on the world changer is the weapon of childhood trauma!

I Need Heart Rehab

What do you do when God says no?

The fear of failure will impregnate you will procrastination, which will cause for you to give birth to no results

I need you to keep that same energy

You have questions. we have some answers

Spiritual Decay Happens One Compromise At A Time

ANYBODY OUT THERE STRUGGLE WITH OVERTHINKING? I’m talking about creating mental scenarios and then actually begin to feel some type of way because of your thoughts? Or what about restless nights because you can’t turn your mind off? Or better yet, what about have you ever projected your thought bubbles 💭 on people?

What haven't you shaken off and where did you leave your peace!

God help me to choose what you have chosen!

I'm just convinced you can't love Jesus and then treat people like trash

Have you ever been called out, oh but what do you do when God calls you out?

You can't change the world while listening to the wrong voices

Entry blessings require Exit sacrifices

What do you do when it appears heaven messed up your order?

When is the last time your soul went to the doctor?

When is the last time your soul went to the doctor?

What warfare are you engaged in, in the dark?

Reaped harvest is reserved only for the consistent

Maybe it's not a fireplace but a meeting place.

The good I want to do that I don't do, but the evil I don't want to do This I keep on doing, Has anyone ever been there?

If we keep preparing HER, but haven't addressed the unprepared HIM, we risk having a generation of women waiting for a man that doesn't exist

Who trained you how to love

IS THIS THE ONE? DID I MARRY THE WRONG ONE? WILL I EVER FIND THE ONE? DID I MISS THE ONE? Ever ask any of these questions?

Can you identify what makes your soul fruitful or have you only selected things that have made you barren

Which one have you thrown overboard, your Jonah or your cargo?

We can't change the world without first having changing men!

I don't think we really understand how powerful it is when Heaven favors a thing

it's possible to learn how to function in dysfunction

ALL OF US WILL EXPERIENCE PAIN, 🤕 The goal however is to make sure that pain will only be a visitor, never a tenant!

could the problem be what we like?

If the married Jerry could go back and have a conversation with the single Jerry, what would I say?

A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keeps going and suffers for it

A male is a state of birth, being a man is a matter of choice

One of the ways hell interferes with our becoming process is by the return of an EX!

Do you remember having that child like confidence?

Look again that's not a period, it's a comma, don't bury me yet!!!!

One of the worst places you can live is in your feelings!

Purpose aligns you with purpose partners

Have you ever asked the question what is my purpose? If so we believe this message will serve you well

The cure for loneliness is not company, lets unpack some causes of loneliness and how to overcome it

f I never go through this, I will never get to that!

Love is the fingerprint of the Christ follower

Maybe what we thought was love really wasn't

What we are experiencing today is an honor deficiency

The conversation on lust continues, not just preaching against it but providing strategies to be free from it

War On Lust | World War Me | (Part 4) Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

The fine print of insecurity is "You're Not Enough"

t's Dangerous when the Leader is insecure

Your life moves in the direction of your most dominant thoughts!!!

Have you been telling God I Need Space?

t's an unaddressed issues but it's plaguing the way so many see Jesus and the church, we must address church hurt!

You are The Bride Of Christ!!!

You Can't Say Standard, Without Saying Stand, What Are You Standing For?

The enemy will send you pain gift wrapped as your preferences

Sometimes the entanglement is within.

One of the massive undetected weapons of hell is the weapon of comparison!

Oh how Heaven needs and how hell fears when a man worships.

God I would expect this if I was outside of your will, by why this storm when I'm following you?

Maybe the reason our struggle is so difficult is because it’s a historical battle or in another words a familiar spirit!

FAMILIAR SPIRITS!! There’s a reason why it’s been such a struggle to break this, maybe you’re try to cure a spiritual attack with natural remedies

A distraction is not when you can't focus but rather a mismanagement of your focus

There is a struggling that exist between our cravings and our callings

This is not God punishing you, This is Him Inducing you!

My Evil Twin | Try Me | (Part 16) Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

We Had To Break Up | Try Me | (Part 15) Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

You are a trauma breaker!!!

There is a certain healing that only comes through confess

Maybe one of the goals of the enemy is to get us so wounded from entertaining wolves and gold diggers, that we no longer have the heart capacity to trust or love because we unknowingly gave it to a wolf 🐺

Graduation Never Feels Like Graduation When It's Kingdom

What's in the carry on of your heart!

Are You Sure You Want To Get Married | Try Me | (Part 9) Jerry Flowers by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Have you ever struggled with writing that book, signing that song , uploading that content, or applying for that position due to your inner critic talking you out of trying?

What do you do when God doesn't stop, it but allows it

When you walk around malnourished and exhausted you risk exchanging your birthright for some stew!

I know I’m not the only one who has noticed that there is a famine of Kingdom men, enough with content informing her to be holy, pure, godly, pray, or wait to be found... WHAT ABOUT THE FINDER?

We talked about Try Trust, we talked about Try Patient, tonight let’s talk about Try Kingdom Language!!!

This Is The Continuation Of Our Try Me Series "Can You Please Hurry Up"

We Just Started A Brand New Sermon Series #TryMe