We're chatting all things ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION with Melissa Hadley Barrett, a Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist from Western Australia who specializes in treating ED. We unpack the causes of ED, the many treatment options, and how to start working through any shame or embarrassment you or your partner may be experiencing. We also cover: How COMMON erectile dysfunction is and why you really don't need to feel ashamed Reasons why you may be experiencing ED What to say to a partner who's experiencing ED What's considered NORMAL when it comes to erections (frequency, duration etc.) How to access treatment for ED Lifestyle changes that may help your ED Things you can do IN THE MOMENT to help your erection (position changes etc.) The deal with penis pumps... because it turns out they're kinda cool Connect with Melissa: On her website On Instagram On TikTok Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Danielle Savory, a pleasure coach, is here to help us redefine wtf PLEASURE means and how to start prioritizing it. You deserve to be PLEASURED and SATISFIED both in the bedroom and beyond. Luckily Danielle is giving us all the necessary steps to make that a reality. We cover: What pleasure does to your brain Why we need to be prioritizing pleasure (HINT: it'll improve your life and help you achieve your goals) How to find your personal "why" for prioritizing pleasure How to prioritize pleasure even if you're super busy How to prioritize pleasure during sex The difference between pursuing pleasure vs pursuing happiness How to program your brain to look for the good How stress impacts your experience of pleasure and how to start stressing less Connect with Danielle: On her website On Instagram Listen to her podcast "It's My Pleasure" Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Did you know that dating can actually be JOYFUL? That you don't HAVE to be on the apps to meet people? We sure didn't. Thank the good lord for Lily Womble, creator of Date Brazen and author of "Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love." In this episode, Lily covers: Why the current state of dating sucks so much... it's not just you and there's real cognitive reasons why it feels so awful How to start centering IRL dating and get off the apps How to stop feeling behind and embrace your singleness A step-by-step plan to take your dating life from *bleh* to FULL OF JOY How to embrace the awkwardness and messiness of dating What the phrase "Thank You, More Please" means and how to start using it to create the life you want How to build a date that brings you joy Connect with Lily: On her website  Buy her book  Main Character Dating course  Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re talking all things GRIEF with our favorite therapists: Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT aka Shrink Chicks. We dive into what grief ACTUALLY is, how it shows up in our lives, and how tf to deal with it. We also cover: How to identify when you’re feeling grief The unexpected ways grief shows up in our lives Grieving when things don’t go the way you expected How control and expectations play into grief How resilience actually makes you cooler, braver and stronger  Why having a specific timeline for your life sets you up for failure The ways you’re probably invalidating your own grief and how to stop Additional ways to process grief Connect with Em & Jen: On their website Listen to their podcast Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we’re catching up by diving into our inbox and sharing some of our wildest emails. We’re also sharing some of our favorite sex facts that are pretty much guaranteed to make you feel good about yourself. We cover: The spicy (and unwanted) invitations we've received via email What research has to say about unsolicited dick pics Q+A: How to deal when you want to try something new in the bedroom and your partner DOES NOT aka managing rejecting We dive into the data to find out: Are people actually having that much sex? How many sexual partners is considered "normal"? How confident people actually feel in the bedroom? What's the deal with sex dreams? What are people doing with their pubes? Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Need a little guidance? Us too. That's why we turned to Aja Vines, an intuitive reader and guide who just GETS IT. She's sharing her best tips for living your most authentic, fulfilling life and if you're anything like us, it's EXACTLY what you've been needing to hear. We cover: What it ACTUALLY means to live an authentic life How to know what's authentic to YOU Steps you can take to build self-trust How to comfort yourself instead and STOP beating yourself up What to do when you're feeling behind in life What your intuition is and how to get in touch with it How to start using tarot/oracle cards A VERY SPECIAL INTUITIVE READING just for our Honeys The oracle deck Aja used for our reading is linked HERE!  Connect with Aja: On her website  On TikTok  Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

April Davis of Haus of Vagina, a sex and menstrual educator, is BACK to tell us everything we need to know (but definitely don’t) about vaginas, periods, and birth. We cover: Labiaplasty- what’s the deal, why people get them, what the potential side effects are, and questions to ask if you’re considering getting one What happens to your vagina after you give birth Postpartum sex and why it’s not as scary or bad as they say it will be Questions to ask your OB or gynecologist  The importance of caring for your pelvic floor How cycle syncing (aka living your life according to which part of the menstrual cycle you’re in) will help you fall in lovewith your period and life in general How to cycle sync if you have an IUD Rethinking the language we use when talking about sex and vaginas Connect with April: On her website On Instagram Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're starting off our new season by learning how to navigate change and life transitions with our bestie Victoria Albina, NP, MPH. Victoria is a coach who helps people overcome their codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing thinking and she's also our go-to whenever we're ready to feel SEEN, heard, and have our worlds absolutely rocked. In this episode, Victoria covers: The very primal reasons why change can be TERRIFYING Finding safety in yourself so you can be confident navigating change How to find your truth and also know when it's time for change Why your desire to keep other people happy gives you a false sense of safety What to do when the people in your life don't like, acknowledge, or support your changes Why it's not ~always~ a bad thing to care what others think How to stop fighting and let other people have their experience (spoiler: we don't have to control everything and maybe it isn't all that serious anyway)  Before the interview, we also chat about: Your sexy summer stories The changes we've been going through What you can expect from Honeydew Me this season Connect with Victoria: On her website FREE RESOURCES for Honeydew Me Listeners Listen to her podcast Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week, we’re learning how to breakup with ANYONE (yes, anyone) with Jamye Waxman, a sex therapist and author. We cover: The types of breakups we experience (friends, family, romantic partners) WHY breakups are so damn hard HOW to breakup with someone What to avoid when breaking up with someone What’s a “good enough reason” to breakup with someone How to start feeling better [Episode 122 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hey ya filthy sl*t... let's learn how to talk dirty. Dr. Tara is back on the pod with TONS of examples and expert advice. We chat about: How ANYONE can be good at dirty talk (even if you're awkward) Dynamic dirty talk 8 types of dirty talk and examples for each Directing vs narrating Beginner to intermediate examples Alternatives to "daddy" Our favorite words to refer to a penis [Episode 123 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about: What libido is and isn't The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire What a "normal" libido looks like Why low libido isn't inherently bad How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship Common libido myths What can negatively impact your libido [Episode 138 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we're pressing play ON PORN and learning all the ways it can make our sex lives hotter and our relationships better. Rachel Wright, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master's in clinical psychology joins us to chat about: How porn can BENEFIT your relationship Fun ways to incorporate porn into partnered sex Jealousy and porn: "why do they watch porn if they have me?!" and "what if my partner is jealous that I watch porn?" Is watching porn cheating? Feeling insecure about the type of porn you watch What to do if the type of porn your partner watches makes you uncomfy How much is TOO MUCH porn? [Episode 113 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Okay Honey, it’s time we talk about sex and antidepressants (but also anxiety, stress, and depression). Sex on drugs aint easy, which is why we’re talking with Dr. Jordan Rullo and getting ALL the tips on how to deal. We cover the basic science behind it all, changes in sex drive and sexual function, fight or flight during sex, and a whole lot more. In addition to actionable steps, we talk through mourning your sexual self, reframing your sexual experiences, and how to support a partner who is struggling with these changes. [Episode 96 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Michelle Hope, sexologist, activist and Director of Social Impact and Strategic Communications at SIECUS, joins us to talk post-Roe action items and resources. We discuss: What Roe v. Wade is, what happened, and how we actually got here The role of comprehensive sex education Resources for states that have lost access to abortion Getting involved in your community Resources: https://www.threeforfreedom.com/ [Watch on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re breaking down toxic masculinity and sex shame with Zachary Zane, author of "Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto". We cover: What toxic masculinity is and how it manifests How toxic masculinity impacts our sex lives and leads to sexual shame How sexual shame limits and negatively impacts us Zachary's personal experience with sexual shame and being bi Labels in life and social media What queerbaiting actually means [Episode 137 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are finally talkin' PURITY CULTURE and, perhaps more importantly, we're talkin' all about how to ditch that bitch. Erica Smith, the creator of Purity Culture Dropout TM, is here to share all the dirty deets. We chat about… What purity culture is How purity culture impacts our sex lives Concrete steps for quitting Concept of virginity & "body count" Post-sex guilt [Episode 83 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

THE Dr. Jennifer Lincoln is on the pod and ready to talk ALL things birth control. We chat about: Common myths and misconceptions (i.e. infertility, negative health impacts etc) Whether "hormone balancing" is legit and if "hormone imbalances" are the cause of all your issues WHY we tend to demonize birth control Types of birth control methods (hormonal vs non hormonal) Plan B: what it is, how to use it & when to use it What actually is an abortion and what are the types of abortions FREE RESOURCES  [Episode 108 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN… and by “this” we mean sex, hookups, dating, ALL OF IT. Cue Myisha Battle, a sex and dating coach who quite literally wrote the book on finding the fun in all of it. We decided to deep dive into hookups (obvs) and chatted about… Deciding what we want from sex Finding your sexual values How to find hookups (both on the apps and off) What’s the deal with “chemistry”? The benefits of hookups How to make hookups as fun as possible “I’m not that into you, but damn I wanna bang…” How to say what you’re into AND what you want in the moment Get Myisha's book HERE! [Episode 126 on Youtube] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re talking all things MASTURBATION with one of our favorite sex and pleasure educators, Luna Matatas. We cover: New positions to try How to make your hands feel JUST as good as a toy How to finger yourself What to do if you get nervous while *exploring* How often we should masturbate How to start fantasizing during solo play Dirty chat rooms How long a solo sesh should be Taking masturbation OUTSIDE the bedroom (legally) Connect with Luna: Website On Instagram [Episode 129 on Youtube] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

When did being NEEDY become a bad thing? We have NEEDS (a lot of 'em) and those needs deserve to be met whether they're in the bedroom or beyond it. That's why we're talking with Mara Glatzel, MSW an intuitive coach and author of the Book "Needy: How To Advocate For Your Needs and Claim Your Sovereignty". We chat about: What it ACTUALLY means to be needy Why we should ditch the "chill girl/person" mentality What happens when we neglect our needs How ignoring our needs impacts our sex lives How to figure out what you need AND how to ask for it Is there such a thing as TOO needy? What to do when your partner doesn't or can't meet your needs Giving up your role as a "mindreader" (aka when you think you always know what other people need) Get Mara's book HERE! [Episode 131 on Youtube] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about: What Power PDA is Critique and support for PDA What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want? Giving NO f*cks Who decided affection needed to be kept private? Should there be goal with PDA? How far is TOO far in public? How healthy displays of affection are GOOD How to start engaging in PDA if you're new to it [Episode 116 on Youtube] Connect with Dr. Tara On Instagram Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Alright Honey's, we're juuuussst about ready to send you into your summer of hook-ups but can't let you go without a little help and advice for our girl, Abigail Jensen. In this episode, we dive into girl chat about what makes for a PERFECT date. We chat about: How to practice being confident Key ingredients for setting up a great date Where to take your dates to ensure good vibes Questions we should be asking to get to know your date Common dating mistakes LTR dating tips Connect with Abigail Instagram Rat Girls Podcast Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get your hands nice and warmed up because we'll be puttin' them to WORK. This week we talk to Barbara Carrellas, erotic massage pro, about how to give and receive pleasure through massage. 🙌 Barbara holds nothing back when it comes to pleasure and this episode delivers tips, tricks, and erotic puppets??? We chat about: What makes a massage ✨erotic✨ The benefits of an erotic massage How to get present in the moment Best positions to give a massage Massage prep How to incorporate ALL our parts Connect with Barbara: On Instagram Website Urban Tantra Second Edition Paperback Transcendent Bodies: Erotic Awakening Massage For Trans And Gender Non-Conforming Bodies Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There is nothing more make-or-break than kissing chemistry, so as we head into our summer of hook-ups, let's refresh ourselves shall we?! This week, we chat with the one and only, Luna Matatas all about the art of lip-locking. In this episode, we cover: Mistakes we make while kissing How to practice your technique What cues to pick up on from a partner What to do with your lips How to french How to communicate with your partner about what you want more or less of Connect with Luna: On Instagram On TikTok Website Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dating casually never seemed so easy after this convo with Talia Koren. As the host of Dating Intentionally podcast, and a HIGHLY experienced casual dater, Talia knows a thing or two about putting yourself out there to get what you want and have fun while dating. In this episode, we cover: Getting clear on what you want out of dating Tapping into your own desirability Benefits of casually dating How to be selfish (in a GREAT way) Creating your roster Rules of Casual Dating Connect with Talia On Instagram On TikTok Dating Intentionally Podcast Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We believe that every last BIT of you deserves maximum pleasure so we brought back Dr. Tara to teach us a thing or two (or 12) about how to tease, play and talk dirty to ALL of our naughty bits. In this episode, we cover: Breast and Nipple play Nipple-gasms for ALL How to play with the booty cheeks How to relax during anal play What to do with the balls Dirty talk tips Connect with Dr. Tara On Instagram On TikTok Website ✨Dr. Tara's Course ✨ Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get ready to be BLOWN away this week as we cover the fundamentals of giving a Bl*wjob worthy of a standing (laying, sitting) O with Dr. Jenni Skyler. 👏 We also cover: How to feel safe and comfortable How to make a bl*wjob romantic How to ask your partner if they're in the mood Positions for both givers and receivers Finishing tips Connect with Dr. Jenni: On Instagram On YouTube Website Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Azaria is one magical (p*ssy) fairy and she shares her wisdom by dishing out some of the BEST, yummiest, most healing tips and tricks for masturbating with a vulva & vagina. She'll heal your soul, and help you reach your maximum O. We also cover: The definition of self-pleasure How to use your masturbation practice to heal How to build a sustainable self-care routine Ways to get creative with touch Dual sensory activation Connect with Azaria: On her website On Instagram Or listen to her podcast: Getting Intimate Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Annabelle Knight, a sex and relationship expert, is here to walk us through her top tips for oral sex on a vulva. We cover: How to initiate going down (or any type of intimate play) Non verbal pleasure cues to watch out for How to communicate what you want as the receiver Positions Specific ways to orally pleasure a vulva A method that reportedly helps people ✨finish✨in 3 minutes or less How to feel confident and sexy as the giver or receiver Connect with Annabelle: On her website On Instagram Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

YOUR VAGINA IS BEAUTIFUL and deserves to be taken care of. That's why we're diving into all things vaginal health with April Davis, from discharge, to pubes, and everything in between. April Davis is the creator of Haus of Vagina, a community that combines her extensive background in birth work and passion for sex education to empower vagina owners everywhere! In this episode, we cover: What to look out for when it comes to vaginal health The regular self checks we need to be doing Common signs of infection and when to call the doctor How to work through shame and embarrassment around vaginal health and going to the doctor How to advocate for yourself at the doctor Common things we do that negatively impact our vaginal health Trying new period products to find what works for YOUR body Whether pubic hair matters for maintaining your vaginal health Connect with April: On her website On Instagram Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we're rediscovering the power of the humble handjob with relationship and intimacy coach, Keeley Rankin, MA. We cover: WHY handjobs are worth including in your sexual toolkit Common mistakes we make when giving handjobs Ways to tease and seduce your partner Navigating the different parts of the penis Different movements to try How to play with the balls Cleaning up after someone cums The mental roadblocks that can get in the way of us feeling sexy and having fun Connect with Keeley: On Instagram  On her website Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ready to put those hands to WORK?! Ashley Manta, a sex and relationship coach, is here to teach us the art of pussy massage (aka fingering/hand sex). We cover: Why we’re ditching “finger banging” in favor of ✨pussy massage✨ Common mistakes people make when fingering The most pleasurable ways to touch a vulva or vagina The best positions for hand sex Getting involved as the receiver How to incorporate toys Why you might want to try adding in some butt stuff Connect with Ashley: On her website Access her courses On Instagram On her substance Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever wondered why people cheat? If it's possible for a relationship to TRULY heal after someone's strayed? Cue Rebecca Stone, LCSW, a therapist who specializes in helping couples recover after infidelity. In this episode, we cover: How Rebecca defines cheating & why it's SO important to define it within your relationship WHY people cheat The role attachment styles play in infidelity How to disclose to your partner that you cheated Whether recovery is possible and if "once a cheater, always a cheater" holds true The necessary ingredients for repairing your relationship post-infidelity  The stigma and shame that betrayed partners experience when they choose to stay Connect with Rebecca: On TikTok  On Instagram  At Brooklyn Somatic Therapy  Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Whether you're dating around, ready to find your person, or loving it up in the honeymoon phase, knowing how to navigate the highs and lows of a new relationship is pivotal. Catherine Drysdale, a sex and relationship coach, is here to help us understand what we tend to mess up, what we need to look out for, and how to make the most of a brand new relash. We cover: Common mistakes we make when starting a new relationship How to reframe the dating process so you can feel CONFIDENT and in control Why you SHOULD be asking the hard questions early on Why a smaller dating pool is actually a good thing Red and green flags to watch out for How to work through anxiety and insecurity while on a date Connect with Catherine: Access free resources on her website  Catherine's Relationship Compatibility Guide   Instagram  Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

HOT RELATIONSHIP TIP: fighting isn’t a bad thing… but you do need to learn how to fight fair. Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks are back and this time they’re sharing their expert tips on how to fight. We cover: Why fighting is actually a part of a healthy relationship How to fight fair How to regulate your emotions during a fight Scripts for expressing your feelings and apologizing What resentment can look like and how it manifests in our relationships The grief that comes along with committing to a long term relationship Connect with Em & Jen: On their website Listen to their podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This month we're all about RELATIONSHIPS and who better to start us off than Victoria Albina, NP, MPH? As a coach for codependent folks who want to stop feeling anxious and overwhelmed, Victoria is the perfect person to walk us through how to maintain the long term relationships we're in. We cover: What a healthy relationship looks like How codependent thinking and emotional outsourcing impact our relationships What happens when we rely on a partner for joy How to start assuming positive intent How consent and boundaries will help you prevent resentment How to approach a partner when starting a conversation Sponsors: Playdrop: use code DEWME to get 10% off at playdropmats.com Connect with Victoria: On her website FREE RESOURCES for Honeydew Me Listeners Listen to her podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Whether you're trying to keep things discreet or wanting a romp in the great outdoors, we've done the research and found all the tips, tricks, and positions you need to make it a pleasurable experience. Got a roommate you don't want to disturb? Trying to sneak in an orgasm while on a hike? No prob, because we cover: How to prepare for discreet sex Positions for discreet sex Public/outdoor sex trends Locations for outdoor sex (from beginner to more adventurous) Positions for outdoor sex Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Short on time? No worries, we're talking quickies with sex and relationship expert, Dr. Tara, and learning all the ways to start using quick sex sessions to our advantage. We cover: What a "quickie" actually is The benefits of quickies Types of quickies (there's probably more than you're thinking...) Positions for quickies The importance of incorporating "play" into your relationship Using quickies to try out something new Connect with Dr. Tara: On her website Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Calling all lazy lovers... this episode was made especially for you. We're looking for minimum effort and maximum pleasure, which is exactly why we're talking with Ginny Hogan, a stand-up comedian and author of the book "Sex for Lazy People: 50 Effortless Positions So You Can Do It Without Overdoing It." We cover: Why sex doesn't have to be high-energy or high-effort How to make sex as low effort or lazy as possible Positions for when you just want to chill Releasing the pressure aka letting sex be good without forcing it to be amazing Lazy masturbation tips Connect with Ginny: On her website On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we are getting into position to have the best sex ever, even when we're not feeling our best. It's hard to remember that we deserve pleasure when we're feeling hot, but especially when we're feeling VERY NOT. In this episode, we chat with Sarah Watson a certified sex therapist and sex educator about how to have great and pleasurable sex even when our insecurities are making an unwanted debut. We cover: How to approach sex when you're feeling insecure How to communicate your insecurities to a partner Asking for validation KNOWING that you deserve pleasurable sex Positions that'll help keep you focused on the present The importance of solo pleasure Connect with Sarah Watson: Simplesexeducation.com @Swsxtherapy on Instagram Flow Extreme podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If there’s one thing we’ve learned about having good sex, it’s that you need to be INTENTIONAL. So that’s what we’re doing for 2024, setting sexual intentions to get us closer to having the BEST DAMN SEX we can. In this episode, we’re chatting about: Our personal intentions for the new year and how we plan on implementing them (i.e. masturbation practices, embracing our buttholes etc.) Sexual resolutions/intentions submitted by YOU (our listeners) Advice for implementing your intentions based on EXPERT tips from previous episodes Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Here at Honeydew Me, we are first and foremost ✨simple bitches✨. So when we're connecting with our bodies, we're looking for simple, no bullshit tips. That's why we're talking with Usha Anandi, a holistic nutritionist, herbalist, yoga teacher and founder of Womben Wellness, WHO JUST GETS IT. We cover: Realistic practices for connecting with your body and your cycle (aka you don't have to overhaul your entire life) Why you should definitely give a fuck about connecting with your body Why rest is SO important and how to stop feeling guilty about it Ways to nourish and move your body while supporting your womb Where to start without getting overwhelmed Connect with Usha: On Womben Wellness On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We hope you're PSYCHED for this episode, because we sure as hell are. Jessica Alfaqih, a Psychedelic Sensual Empowerment Coach, is here to teach us the ins and outs of having psychedelic sex (both sober and with the help of some plant friends). We cover: What psychedelics are and how they impact your mind and body How psychedelics can be used to enhance your sexual experiences How to have the same psychedelic sex WITHOUT using psychedelics (aka sober) Where to start if you're a newbie Visualization techniques for getting into a psychedelic state Conditioning yourself to be kinder to yourself The importance of integration  CLICK HERE for a FREE workshop with Jessica on December 16th '23! Connect with Jessica: On her website On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This month at Honeydew Me we’re learning how to connect with our bodies and there’s no one better to start us off than THE Victoria Albina, NP, MPH. Victoria is a coach for codependent folks who want to stop feeling anxious, exhausted and overwhelmed... and, hawt damn, is she INCREDIBLE at it. In this episode, we cover: What it actually means to FEEL your feelings and HOW to do it WTF somatics means and why it’s so important  Sex and somatics Making friends with your body Getting present and dropping into your body Self awareness and self trust Connect with Victoria: On her website FREE RESOURCES for Honeydew Me Listeners Listen to her podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We pussed ourselves out there ALL MONTH LONG and now we're ready to share the dirty deets with YOU. From speed dating, to Hinge dates, to hot hookups, we're chatting through it all and sharing our biggest takeaways. We cover: What it's like to go to a speed dating event Navigating casual dating for the first time Hooking up with strangers Ending a fling  Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we're learning how to flirt and feel confident AF while we do it. Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach, is here to spill all his flirting secrets and give us the actionable tips we've been waiting for. We cover: A CLEAR definition of what flirting is The 4 main flirty styles and how to find your personal flirting style What we're getting WRONG when it comes to flirting What to do if you're shy or awkward Benjamin's flirting framework How to enhance your verbal flirting game Using your body to flirt Connect with Benjamin:  On Instagram On TikTok Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we're putting our sluttiest foot forward and pussing ourselves OUT THERE by learning how to be hot sluts. Lucky for us, Zachary Zane aka The Boyslut, is here to teach us how. Zach is a sex expert, advice columnist, and author who is here to help you embrace your inner slut. We cover: What it means to be a slut (it's empowering af) Finding your slutty confidence Zachary's journey to becoming a slut Slutty mantras to live by What if you want to be a slut but you also catch feelings? How to embrace your slutiness and feel into it ALL DAY LONG Connect with Zach: Buy his book "Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto" HERE! Visit his website HERE  Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ready to put your self OUT THERE? We thought so. Cue Amy and April, hosts of Shameless Sex Podcast and authors of the upcoming book "Shameless Sex: Choose Your Own Pleasure Path". We're unpacking HOW to puss yourself out there and get what you want both in the bedroom and beyond. We cover: What it means to put yourself out there and how to get started How to put yourself out there when you're single AND in a long term relationship Where to find people to date or just bang Pick up lines and initiating flirtatious conversations Navigating and accepting rejection Bringing back the spice to a long term relationship Small ways to put yourself out there throughout the day Connect with Amy & April: On their website Get their book HERE' Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This month at Honeydew Me, we're learning how to put ourselves out there or, as we like to say, how to PUSS ourselves out there. We're starting off with the juiciest lesson on foreplay and initiation with none other than Haylin Belay. Haylin is a sexual health educator, bodyworker, and pleasure witch who is ready to CHANGE YOUR DAMN LIFE. We cover: Expanding your definition of foreplay How to turn yourself ON Understanding the phases of sexual arousal and USING that to your advantage How to feel ENTITLED to your needs How to make communication feel ✨sexy✨ Low-stakes ways to initiate sex How to engage in foreplay ALL DAY Connect with Haylin: On her website Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever been curious about role-play? Wanted to explore your wild side? Lucky you, because we're closing out kink month by exploring pet play. Tyomi Morgan, a sexpert and intimacy coach, is BACK on Honeydew Me to break down one of her favorite kinky activities. We cover: What pet play (aka a type of animal role play) is and why it's a kink How Tyomi engages in pet play and her pet persona The dom/sub dynamic and what pet/handler relationships can look like Props and accessories Communication while role-playing Dealing with the awkward and WTF moments that can arise during role-play Connect with Tyomi: On her website On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode has us all tied up and we couldn't be more excited. Midori, a sex educator and coach, is here to share all her tips for bringing bondage and restraints into the bedroom. We cover: Midori's definition of BDSM (IT'S SO GOOD) Why being bound is so erotic How to get started in bondage Types of restraints (including household items, luxury restraints & more) Body parts to restrain and body parts to avoid Dominance and rope games Connect with Midori: On her website On Instagram  Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover: Sexual communication basics How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires Navigating shame around sexual interests How to control your own "yuck" so you don't shame a partner How to tell a partner you didn't like something you tried How to make these conversations more fun Connect with Stella: On her website Get her books Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's officially kink month at Honeydew Me and we're kicking things off with a SPICY lesson on how to be more dominant. We're joined by Eva Oh, a Professional Dominatrix with ALL the tips we've been waiting for. We cover: What makes a good domme both privately and professionally What gets in the way of us embracing our dominant sides Setting containers and boundaries How to build confidence How to work through shame and embarrassment when being dominant How to recover when you make a mistake or say something "stupid" in the bedroom What a session with Eva looks like Connect with Eva: On her website On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're closing out non-monogamy month with a BANG... or lots of banging. We went to a sex club as total newbies and now we're reporting back to tell you everything you need to know. We cover: Getting in, getting a tour, and first impressions All the rules and why we LOVED them The set up of the club What we saw and what we DID Major takeaways and tips for other first timers Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

WTF is cuckolding? Why are people into it? Is it something I might be into? These are the questions we set out to answer when talking with Jen Meyer, a licensed therapist and sex educator who specializes in kink and consensual non-monogamy. In this episode, we cover: What cuckolding is and how it all works Why it's a turn-on The different roles in a cuckolding scene How shame and jealousy play into cuckolding Figuring out if cuckolding is for you How to navigate opening your relationship Connect with Jen: jenmeyertherapy.com Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Susan Bratton, THE intimacy expert to millions, is back and this time she's breaking down two of her favorite nonmonogamous activities... THREESOMES AND SEX PARTIES. Here's what you can expect: Susan sells us on threesomes and explains WHY she loves them Positions for threesomes What to do when you're feeling left out IT WILL BE CLUNKY... we cover how to work through that What it feels like to be double-penetrated Finding a third Why you NEED to be making "offers" and examples of how to do it Navigating sex parties Being a "good" slut Resources from the episode: betterlover.com ecstaticbirth.com Connect with Susan: susanbratton.com On Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

First up in our non-monogamy series we’re covering POLYAMORY… because WTF is it and would you ever be into it? That’s what we’re exploring in this episode with sex educator and therapist, Dr. Liz Powell. We cover: What polyamory is and what it isn’t (aka all the things we get wrong when we think about polyamory) Why we need to be examining the “relationship scripts” we’re given to figure out what we actually want What the BENEFITS of polyamory are What polyamorous relationships can look like How sex can work in polyamorous relationships Boundaries, rules and COMMUNICATION Connect with Dr. Liz: Their website Their Instagram Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

One last catch up and we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming. We cover what’s next for Honeydew Me, what we’ve been up to this summer, and reflect a little on the past (but like, in a fun way) 😘 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

For our last rewind of the summer, we’re revisiting turn ons with sex educator, Cassandra Corrado. We cover: How to figure out what turns you on How to ask for what you want Giving ✨constructive✨ criticism to a partner What to do when someone kills the mood When you accidentally say the wrong name Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s the last month of our Summer Rewind and we’re starting off by revisiting an audience favorite: SQUIRTING. Sex educator, Shea Alexander joins us to share the ins and outs of the elusive juices (lol sorry). We cover: What squirting ACTUALLY is How to do it G-Spot basics Clean up Talking with a partner about squirting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Another check in with Cass & Em cummin right atcha. We’re chatting through some of our most TRANSFORMATIVE sexual experiences and our major takeaways. If you’re looking for a little encouragement to take up space and get what you want in the bedroom, we’ve got you covered 😘 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week, we’re heading ✨down south✨ and revisiting cunnilingus with sex educator Luna Matatas. Whether you’re the giver or the receiver, this episode is overflowing with all the juicy tips you need to have a great time when eating out. We cover: Working through shame (aka how to stop worrying about how you look, taste, and smell) How to move your tongue How to incorporate fingers Positions How to engage as the receiver AND SO MUCH MORE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Summer can bring up ALL SORTS of insecurities when it comes to our bodies, so we're revisiting one of our favorite episodes with Brenna O'Malley. Brenna, a non-diet dietician, takes us on a deep dive of body neutrality and teaches us how to navigate the crunchy feelings that tend to arise when we start unpacking our relationships with our bodies. We cover: How to navigate vulnerable body image moments Whether or not affirmations work Brenna's top tip for fueling an amazing sex life Food in the context of dating Diet culture and diet talk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Craving a cozy convo with your besties? Us too. So press play and join us for a quickie 😘 We're talking sex, we're talking marriage, we're talking LIFE CHANGES, honey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Fingering is an art, that when done right, is *chef’s kiss*. That’s why we’re revisiting fingering with Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101 and a true va-genius. We cover: What fingering is and how to make it a MAIN COURSE Pleasure anatomy and technical basics How to touch the outside (aka the vulva) How to ✨enter✨ and what to do once you’re in Positions How to add in oral Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re gettin on all fours and revisiting a fan favorite… DOGGY STYLE. August McLaughlin of Girl Boner Radio joins us to share all the dirty deets. We cover: What doggy style is and its many variations Making the position work for YOU and YOUR BODY How to make doggy feel more intimate Finding the G spot during doggy Stroke tips and tricks What you can do as the receiver Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re diving HEAD first into fantasies with Gina Gutierrez, the Chief Creative Officer and Co-Founder of Dipsea (aka our fav audio erotica app)! We chat about: How to start incorporating fantasy into your sex life Navigating fantasies wile you’re in a relationship  What to do if fantasizing doesn’t come easily to you What to do when something you DON’T like pops into your fantasy (and why this happens) What people typically fantasize about (according to the data) Where our fantasies come from The tools and benefits we gain from fantasizing Our favorite Dipsea stories CLICK HERE for your 30 day FREE trial of Dipsea! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hey you dirty little slut… Dr. Liz Powell is BACK and this time they’re helping us break down degradation and humiliation play. We chat about: What degradation play is WHY degradation and humiliation can be turn ons How sex and shame are connected in our brains  Indicators that this type of play might be for YOU Boundaries and safe words Examples of how to engage in this type of play Aftercare and dealing with feelings of guilt/shame Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Our QUEEN, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, has returned, and this time she's breaking down the concept of "negative" or "bad" emotions. We chat about: Victoria's thoughts on "negative" emotions Allowing all emotions to be FELT  Being labeled as the emotions we allow ourselves to feel (sad, angry etc.) Wanting to more ✨elegantly✨ express your emotions Being taken seriously when you're upset Is there such a thing as "too emotional"? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re chatting with sex educator Danielle Bezalel and closing some BIG OL’ knowledge gaps (courtesy of the shitty sex ed we got growing up). We cover: If using vibrators makes it harder to orgasm without one How much masturbation is TOO MUCH How early people typically start masturbating and when to start talking about masturbation with kids  Emergency contraceptive 101 Can you take TOO MANY Plan B’s? Navigating porn use in a relationship Feeling in competition with porn If sex should EVER hurt and reasons why it does De-centering penetration in partnered sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about: What libido is and isn't The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire What a "normal" libido looks like Why low libido isn't inherently bad How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship Common libido myths What can negatively impact your libido Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re breaking down toxic masculinity and sex shame with Zachary Zane, author of “Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto”. We chat about: What toxic masculinity is and how it manifests How toxic masculinity impacts our sex lives and leads to sexual shame How sexual shame limits and negatively impacts us Zachary's personal experience with sexual shame and being bi Labels in life and social media What queerbaiting actually means Get Zachary's book HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re headed BACK to your backdoor and talking all things anal masturbation with Dr. Heather Bartos. We cover: WHY your butt is such an epicenter of pleasure (even when you don’t have a prostate) Prep and precautions Techniques for playing with your butt Internal and external methods  Positions Toys and other props to try Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever wondered what the most "flattering" positions are? What about the ideal hairdo for ✨down there✨? Us too, but it turns out that "flattering" sex might not be a worthwhile goal. That's why we're talking with sex educator and author of “Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life”, Elle Chase. Elle is here to help us unpack the oh-so complex relationship between sex and body image by chatting about... How body image impacts partnered and solo sex How to work through negative self talk/thoughts How to navigate sex after your body has gone through a change Whether sex should be "flattering" Accommodating insecurities and finding RELIEF What's the deal with body hair and how much should we care Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're diving head first (and balls deep) into some listener questions with Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, a magical human who specializes in helping people work through emotional outsourcing (AKA people pleasing, codependency etc.). In this episode we chat about: How to "manage" a partner's insecurities How to navigate boundaries in a relationship and what to do when you don't agree The difference between being "kind" and "nice" Being queer while in a hetero relationship The FOMO trap and how to get out of it How to stop comparing yourself to a partner's ex Why talking about our insecurities makes us COOL How to navigate lack of sexual desire and feeling like an outcast Check out Victoria's FREE meditations HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s time for a little gab sesh because we miss ya, we’ve learned some things, and we have some updates. This week, we’re talking about: Techniques for spicing up missionary position The Coital Alignment Technique (AKA the secret to missionary orgasms) Having sex on a yoga ball, in the ocean, and with a pillow (not at the same time) Dating and navigating “the apps” Period pain and endometriosis  A BIG OL’ UPDATE for Honeydew Me Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Our UNCENSORED QUEEN, Dr. Tara, is back and ready to answer all your spicy questions. We cover: Tips and ideas for high quality foreplay What NOT to say during sex How to redirect someone during sex WITHOUT hurting their feelings Mismatched libidos and what to do about it How to CONFIDENTLY initiate sex The 4 types of initiation styles and examples for each How to navigate erectile dysfunction What to do if your partner won't stop "jackhammering" Getting your partner to slow down How to start the pegging conversation Moving from scheduled sex to spontaneous sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

When did being NEEDY become a bad thing? We have NEEDS (a lot of 'em) and those needs deserve to be met whether they're in the bedroom or beyond it. That's why we're talking with Mara Glatzel, MSW an intuitive coach and author of the Book "Needy: How To Advocate For Your Needs and Claim Your Sovereignty". We chat about: What it ACTUALLY means to be needy Why we should ditch the "chill girl/person" mentality What happens when we neglect our needs How ignoring our needs impacts our sex lives How to figure out what you need AND how to ask for it Is there such a thing as TOO needy? What to do when your partner doesn't or can't meet your needs Giving up your role as a "mindreader" (aka when you think you always know what other people need) Get Mara's book HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The one and only Victoria Albina, NP, MPH is back and we're going DEEP (as always). We chat about: What gets in the way of us being PRESENT during sex Why we deny ourselves pleasure Blocks against receiving love and care Tools for nervous system regulation Mindfulness How to work towards presence after sexual trauma Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re talking all things MASTURBATION with one of our favorite sex and pleasure educators, Luna Matatas. We cover: New positions to try How to make your hands feel JUST as good as a toy How to finger yourself What to do if you get nervous while *exploring* How often we should masturbate How to start fantasizing during solo play Dirty chat rooms How long a solo sesh should be Taking masturbation OUTSIDE the bedroom (legally) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're diving (fist first) into FISTING with Dr. Liz Powell and you simply CANNOT miss this one. We chat about: What fisting is WHY it's worth trying out How to ease into fisting Prep... because there's a lot of prep HOW to fist a vagina or butt Fisting yourself Positions What to do once you're in there Pain free removal Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oh honey... have we got a treat for YOU! We have five of our favorite tips from past episodes that are sure to give you the sexiest, steamiest, most indulgent Valentine's day EVER. So sit back, relax, and get ready to chat about: How to sloooow things down and get sensual from EP. 72 with Ev'Yan Whitney French kissing from EP. 82 with Raquel Savage How to *sexily* take your clothes off and set the scene from EP. 44 with Ari Antwine Bringing food into the bedroom (get your chocolate sauce and frosting ready...) from EP. 86 with Shae Alexander A little surprise to end the day 😉 from EP. 57 with Dr. Evan Goldstein Sponsors: Let's Get Deep | Spice things up this Valentine's day with the game Let's Get Deep from the creators of What Do You Meme? and get 20% off with promo code DEWME at whatdoyoumeme.com/letsgetdeep. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN… and by “this” we mean sex, hookups, dating, ALL OF IT. Cue Myisha Battle, a sex and dating coach who quite literally wrote the book on finding the fun in all of it. We decided to deep dive into hookups (obvs) and chatted about… Deciding what we want from sex Finding your sexual values How to find hookups (both on the apps and off) What’s the deal with “chemistry”? The benefits of hookups How to make hookups as fun as possible “I’m not that into you, but damn I wanna bang…” How to say what you’re into AND what you want in the moment Get Myisha's book HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ready to understand what’s happenin hormonally in that beautiful body of yours? What about how to have AMAZING sex your entire life? Well get ready ‘cuz this week we’re talking menopause… HOLD ON DON’T GO ANYWHERE. This is CRITICAL info for anyone with a vagina and if you want to keep smushin’ puss til your six feet deep, you’re gonna want to listen in. So, buckle up and get ready to meet Dr. Shyama Mathews an OB/GYN and Menopause Specialist. We’re chatting about: What menopause actually is and why you need to care NOW What age we tend to go through menopause (think mid 40’s…) Symptoms of menopause and what it actually FEELS like What’s going on with your hormones Sex before, during and after menopause Ways to make your menopausal experience ✨better✨ If there’s anything you can do RIGHT NOW to prepare How we gaslight menopausal people and make the experience 1000x worse (and how to stop) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Victoria Albina, NP, MPH (you know, our favorite human who LITERALLY changes our lives every time she she speaks) is back and this time we’re breaking down ✨ATTACHMENT STYLES✨. We chat about… What attachment styles ARE and how we LEARN them Anxious vs avoidant vs secure attachment How our attachment style impacts our romantic relationships The ways that anxious and avoidant attachments SHOW UP in our lives What secure attachment looks and FEELS like Steps for moving towards secure attachment 💖FREE MEDITATIONS LINKED HERE💖 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hey ya filthy sl*t... let's learn how to talk dirty. Dr. Tara is back on the pod with TONS of examples and expert advice. We chat about... How ANYONE can be good at dirty talk (even if you're awkward) Dynamic dirty talk 8 types of dirty talk and examples for each Directing vs narrating Beginner to intermediate examples Alternatives to "daddy" Our favorite words to refer to a penis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week, we’re learning how to breakup with ANYONE (yes, anyone) with Jamye Waxman, a sex therapist and author. We cover: The types of breakups we experience (friends, family, romantic partners) WHY breakups are so damn hard HOW to breakup with someone What to avoid when breaking up with someone What’s a “good enough reason” to breakup with someone How to start feeling better Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're rounding out the year with some of our FAVORITE advice we've gotten in 2022. We've had INCREDIBLE guests, LIFE CHANGING tips, and whole lotta laughs so let's just dive right in and chat about... Blow jobs What to do when you’re working with a small mouth or tired jaw Making things work FOR YOU Why you don’t need to be healed to have sex or be worthy of PLEASURE When the sex is bad Leaving room for things to just BE BAD and not something you need to “work on” Ethereal orgasms Episodes mentioned: EP. 74 Blowjobs 101: How To Give The Best Performance of Your Life with Luna Matatas  EP. 97 Sex & Mental Health: Struggling with Arousal, Getting Your Needs Met, & Worthiness Wounds with Nicoletta Heidegger  EP. 101 What If The Sex Is Bad? With Kate Moyle Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're rounding out the year with some of our FAVORITE advice we've gotten in 2022. We've had INCREDIBLE guests, LIFE CHANGING tips, and whole lotta laughs so let's just dive right in and chat about... The POWER in being single De-centering romantic relationships Confidence and seduction How to feel sexy Thinking your "better" Letting yourself be WRONG Somehow it always comes back to COMMUNICATION Episodes mentioned: EP. 84 The Art of Seduction: How to Walk, Talk, & Touch Like A Bad Bitch with Danica Darling EP. 87 A Shame Free Guide To Living Your Best Single Life with Shani Silver EP. 115 You're Toxic, Now What? with Shrink Chicks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode we’re SITTING DOWN (lol) with Laydee Vee and Dee Black and getting a crash course in face sitting. We chat about: What face sitting is Who can be the sitter (HINT: it’s not just vulva owners) Four different face sitting positions How to get INTO the positions (and not feel awkward) What to do once you’re up there How to sit with CONFIDENCE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re talking with Anne Hodder-Shipp, an award winning sex educator and coach, about MODERN LOVE LANGUAGES and learning all the ways to love and be loved (because there’s like waaaay more than 5). We cover: What a love language is and WHY they matter The classic 5 love languages and their (very shitty) origin What Modern Love Languages are and how they help us EXPAND our understanding of love How to determine YOUR love language(s) Specific examples of how to give and receive love based on your language Why you DO NOT need to be in a romantic relationship to experience love Meeting your own love language needs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re feeling CHATTY, so let’s get into it. We’re talking: Labia and labia lumps “Innie vs. outie” labia Labiaplasties Edging during masturbation Letting someone spit in your mouth (and LOVING it) Sexual World Records (including longest masturbation sesh, farthest ejaculation and MORE) Craigslist Missed Connections  Some of our toxic little tendencies (and some of yours) Red Flag or Deal Breaker Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about: What Power PDA is Critique and support for PDA What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want? Giving NO f*cks Who decided affection needed to be kept private? Should there be goal with PDA? How far is TOO far in public? How healthy displays of affection are GOOD How to start engaging in PDA if you're new to it Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This interview CHANGED OUR LIVES and our relationships because it turns out… we might be a little toxic (yep, that means you too). So let’s talk about it with Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks. We’re unpacking and working through a whole lot, including: What it actually means to be “toxic” Common ways that we're toxic but might not realize it Anti-relational and dysfunctional behaviors Expecting your partner to KNOW what you need Feeling like your “better” at relationships than your partner What if your partner "shuts down" during fights or discussions Exit language during a fight and what to say instead Taking accountability aka “what part do I play in this?” When you secretly love feeling like the victim Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Here at Honeydew Me, we came to the realization that our friendships have DEEPLY impacted our sex lives... so let's talk about it. One of our absolute favorite humans, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, is back on the pod and we are DIVING into the relationship between friends and sex. We chat about... How friendship and sex are related Emotional outsourcing Intimacy in relationships Getting your friends' opinions: good or bad idea? Gossip vs well-intentioned sharing Is there such a thing as sharing TOO MUCH? When your partner doesn't want you sharing ✨intimate✨ details Do you need strong friendships to have strong relationships? Having sex WITH your friends How to find friends Check out the FREE resources Victoria created for us HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we're pressing play ON PORN and learning all the ways it can make our sex lives hotter and our relationships better. Rachel Wright, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master's in clinical psychology joins us to chat about: How porn can BENEFIT your relationship Fun ways to incorporate porn into partnered sex Jealousy and porn: "why do they watch porn if they have me?!" and "what if my partner is jealous that I watch porn?" Is watching porn cheating? Feeling insecure about the type of porn you watch What to do if the type of porn your partner watches makes you uncomfy How much is TOO MUCH porn? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Halloween is fast approaching and this year we are ON THEME. We're revisiting role play and diving even deeper with expert tips, personal stories, LOTS of research, and input from our lovely listeners. We chat about: What role play is Judging your fantasies and desires  Benefits of role play Working through embarrassment, nervousness, or shame Planning and set up Talking with your partner Specific scenarios Experts Featured: Kait Scalisi, @passionbykait Lala Loves, @lalasbedtimetales Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s time for INITIATION… but like the consensual, fun, sex kind. If you’ve ever wondered how to initiate sex, struggled with a fear of rejection, or are looking for long term initiation tips, this episode is for you! We chat with some of our favorite experts AND share our own struggles to bring you one hell of a guide… We cover: Obstacles to initiating sex Fear of rejection How to take the pressure of off initiation Fun, indirect ways to initiate sex Sexy and very direct ways to initiate sex Finding the right words Initiating while in a long term relationship Experts Featured: Jessie Fresh, Intimacy & Relationship Coach, @jessiefresh Lisa Welsh, Sex & Pleasure Educator, @inbedwithlisa Ari Antwine, Sexologist & Bisexuality Coach, @sensualle.education Vanessa and Xander Marin, Sex Therapist & Husband, @vanessamarintherapy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

DISCLAIMER: there is NO completely SAFE way to engage in choking/breath play, this episode will discuss safety measures, better practices, and consent, but is only an introduction. We encourage you to take part in further education alongside an expert BEFORE engaging in the practices discussed. Hope you’re ready for an episode that’ll ✨take your breath away✨. Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire are on the pod and talking all thinking breath play, including choking. We cover:  What breath play is (because it’s a lot more than you think) Precautions and safety  Finding your MOAN Breathing patterns How to *properly* engage in choking  Finding the right partner to engage in breath play with Face sitting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're getting ✨ballsy✨ and chatting all things testicle play with Jake Mossop, a Registered Nurse! We talk about: Why it's enjoyable to play with testicles Types of touch (pressure, squeezing etc.) The importance of lube When to include testicle play and how to combine with other types of play What tea bagging is Positioning Using your mouth Taint play Incorporating toys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Michelle Hope, sexologist, activist and Director of Social Impact and Strategic Communications at SIECUS, joins us to talk post-Roe action items and resources. We discuss: What Roe v. Wade is, what happened, and how we actually got here The role of comprehensive sex education Resources for states that have lost access to abortion Getting involved in your community Resources: Three For Freedom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

THE Dr. Jennifer Lincoln is on the pod and ready to talk ALL things birth control. We chat about: Common myths and misconceptions (i.e. infertility, negative health impacts etc) Whether "hormone balancing" is legit and if "hormone imbalances" are the cause of all your issues WHY we tend to demonize birth control Types of birth control methods (hormonal vs non hormonal) Plan B: what it is, how to use it & when to use it What actually is an abortion and what are the types of abortions REALLY COOL FREE RESOURCES like Bedsider and a very special little giveaway we're doing with them 👀 ✨GIVEAWAY INSTRUCTIONS✨ Bedsider gifted us a big 'ol box of swag, so obviously we're doing a giveaway. All you have to do is share THIS episode to your Instagram story (or grid) and TAG US (@honeydewmepodcast). Giveaway closes October 7th 2022. Can only ship within the US. Check out Bedsider HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Emma and Cass thought it high time to break out the video cameras and record something spicy. Now it’s time to share all the dirty deets and unpack how it went. We chat about: Planning for your sex tape (vibes, roleplay, positions etc.) Setting up your physical space (camera angles, lighting, background music etc.) Options for when you are NOT ready to record yourself What went wrong… Finding what feels authentic and pleasurable to YOU Alternatives to the “up close and personal” recording style Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lala, creator of Lala’s Bedtime Tales, is here to chat about all things AUDIO EROTICA. We discuss: What audio erotica is and what makes for GOOD audio erotica Why fans of ASMR are going to LOVE audio erotica Improving your dirty talk Using audio erotica alone and with a partner How to discuss audio erotica with a partner Benefits of listening to audio erotica Using audio erotica to explore your fantasies and different types of sex Finding ways to make safety and prep SEXY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Victoria Albina, NP, MPH is BACK and this time she’s answering YOUR questions about codependency, relationships, and sex. We discuss: Mismatched libidos Having your own back & showing up for your needs What to do if you’re partner isn’t following through People pleasing Understanding what your intuition is telling you Fear of being cheated on Supporting a partner with depression, while supporting yourself Trying to justify a partner’s toxic behavior The “why don’t we just break up then” come back during fights Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode we’re chatting with Lisa Welsh, a sex and pleasure educator who’s dedicated to helping you build self-worth and banish boring sex. We discuss: Lisa’s playful approach to sexuality What we’re doing that makes sex feel boring, subpar, or “meh” How to work through shame How to actually check in with yourself during sex Fun sex games to play in the bedroom Body mapping Having sex when you’re in a rush (aka a quickie) Is there such a thing as too silly or goofy when it comes to sex? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode we're chatting with Alicia Davon, a relationship and romance expert, about what it takes to build a successful relationship. We discuss: What a "successful" and "unsuccessful" relationship looks like (hint: success doesn't necessarily mean long term or headed towards marriage) How commitment is actually a type of freedom Working through commitment issues Romanticizing the messy parts of life and relationships Whether you can move from incompatibility to compatibility Relationship patterns and what YOUR pattern says about you How to do this work if your single A VERY special offer from Alicia to attend her upcoming course for FREE 👀 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Cat is BACK and so are her answers to your UNCENSORED questions. This time we’re getting even spicier and diving into foot fetishes, f*cking your ex, how to pleasure a smaller peen, and SO MUCH MORE. Cat walks us through the “what are we” conversation, the “I need you to get better at fingering” conundrum, and some sure fire ways to keep the heat in your long distance relationship. Tune in now for some hot takes, killer advice, and a very good time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What do you do if the sex is bad? Try and fix it? Let it work itself out? Or walk away and never look back? We’re exploring all these options (and more) with Psychosexual Therapist, Kate Moyle. She breaks down why sex can be bad (even if you really like the person you’re doing it with), how to start a conversation about it, and quick tips for in the moment corrections. We also unpack the shame that comes with “being bad in bed,” what to do if you think you’re the one that’s bad at sex, and how to deal with critical feedback.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

ONE HUNDRED EPISODES OF PURE UNADULTERATED PLEASURE... or at the very least, advice to help get you there. We have officially entered the triple digits which means it's high time we check in on the WILD (lol) sex lives of your hosts. We're chatting about our current obsession with dominance, including dirty talk, being told what to do, and letting our submissive sides shine. We also dive into period sex to discuss our thoughts, hold ups, and past experiences. Lastly, we're getting curious about threesomes and chatting about guidelines, positions, and whether we're diggity down to try one. Watch On YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

SURPRISE... we're sensitive AF (lol not a surprise at all). But how do you bang when you're such a sensitive B? Jessie Fresh, a Sexuality & Intimacy Coach, is ready to break it all down for us. We chat about triggers, sensory issues, setting yourself up for success, and using your sensitivity to your advantage. YES, you read that right, TO YOUR DAMN ADVANTAGE, because being sensitive is also a superpower. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we are reframing relationships AND jealousy with Dr. Joli Hamilton, a psychologist and sex educator who helps people custom build their relationships. We dive into the concept of “creative monogamy” and learn how to build a relationship based on our wants and needs, rather than “shoulds” and “have to’s”. We also explore jealousy and find ways to work with it, learn from it, and even GET OFF from it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we’re exploring the link between sex and mental health and OH HONEY… have we got some “aha” moments waiting for you! Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, is walking us through arousal, desire, worthiness, and giving us ALL the actionable tips and no BS advice we’ve been craving. We also tackle the concept of whether you need to be “whole” or “healed” in order to be in relationship or receive pleasure and you might be surprised by Nicoletta’s answer 👀  As if that wasn’t enough, we also discuss: Sex magic ADHD and sex Sex in sensory deprivation tanks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Okay Honey, it’s time we talk about sex and antidepressants (but also anxiety, stress, and depression). Sex on drugs aint easy, which is why we’re talking with Dr. Jordan Rullo and getting ALL the tips on how to deal. We cover the basic science behind it all, changes in sex drive and sexual function, fight or flight during sex, and a whole lot more. In addition to actionable steps, we talk through mourning your sexual self, reframing your sexual experiences, and how to support a partner who is struggling with these changes.  Sponsor: MICRODOSE | Go to Microdose.com and use code: DEWME to get free shipping & 30% off your first order. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Everyone’s heard of “The Honeymoon Phase,” but what comes after that? Do you CUM after that?! Irene Fehr, a sex and intimacy coach, is here to talk us through the many stages of sex in a long term relationship, including all the lulls, dips, and highs. We cover the death of sex, the roommate phase, how to keep it spicy, and the secret to having good sex ALL THE DAMN TIME. We also dive into mismatched libidos and how to support your relationship when you’re in a lull. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hope you’re ready for a LIFE CHANGING episode because you’re about to hit play on one. Victoria Albina (aka our new favorite human) is breaking down how codependence impacts us both inside the bedroom and out. We chat people pleasing, outsourcing validation, not being present and how ALL of that impacts the sex we’re having. And if you’re like “yeah that’s me… now what?” we also cover how to start working towards interdependence (NOT radical independence) including simple, accessible exercises to get you there.  ALSO, Victoria (the sweet angel that she is) is giving all of us a free gift, so click the link below to access some of her bomb ass meditations: https://victoriaalbina.com/honeydewme/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Let's TALK baby... about sex of course. Gigi Engle is here to give us the low down on everything sexual communication. Whether you've been faking O's or just need a little validation, we've got ya. We also cover how to tell a partner you DON'T like something, what to do if you or your partner can't seem to stay hard, and oh so much more. This episode is sure to give you the confidence boost you need to talk the talk before you walk the walk (and by walk we mean BANG). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Okay honeys... if you're anything like us you got a liiittle carried away when it came to the sex scenes of Bridgerton season 2. Don't get us wrong, we love season 1, but something about those PASSIONATE, CONNECTED moments just hits different. And now, WE WANT IT TOO! Cue Devi Ward Erickson, a Tantra expert who's here to give us all the tools we need to f*ck like a Bridgerton. From breathing techniques, to grounding, to touching, to eye contact we cover all the bases and learn how Tantra is both very accessible and practical. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Something’s burning and it’s NOT my asshole… it’s YOUR uncensored questions. You asked and Cat, the sex and pleasure educator behind UNGIRL, is here to answer. Whether it’s spicy cum questions or curiosities around circumcision, we’re ready to go BALLS DEEP! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever felt curious but absolutely TERRIFIED at the thought of mutual masturbation? Yeah, us too... but we DEWED it and now we're ready to tell you all about it. Emma details how she navigated mutual masturbation solo (she got creative and let's just say IT WORKED), while Cass walks through her experience masturbating with her partner right along side her. From insecurities and nervousness, to mind bowling orgasms and HUGE takeaways, we cover it all, folks. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dirty Lola is on the pod to give us the low down on all things sex toys. We chat about how to find your perfect toy, toys for penises, how to use a dildo, working through shame and so much more. Whether you’re lookin to boost your solo sesh or spice up your partnered play, we’ve got you covered.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tyomi Morgan is BACK and this time we're talkin' stroke (aka penetration with a penis or strap on). Penetrative sex CAN be just as pleasurable as all the other sex acts we know and love, it just takes a little practice. From speed, to rhythm, to depth, there is so much to know when it comes to stroke (and don't worry, we cover it all). We also learn how to move your hips, where to aim during penetration, and how to make yourself queef (you'll understand it once you listen lol). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You are single and you are SUFFICIENT and if anyone makes you feel otherwise they can F*CK OFF. Shani Silver (aka the coolest person you’ll ever meet) is on the pod today to talk all about how awesome single hood can and SHOULD be, despite what society tells us. Your life deserves to be about so much more than finding “the one” and Shani will walk you through how to start living like it. We also talk about working through shame, what to do if you have little or no experience (spoiler alert: you’re perfect and don’t need to do anything), and so much more, so buckle up and listen in. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hope your hungry... because this episode is a mouthful. We're talking food play with the one and only Shae Alexander and trust us when we say that there is so much more to food play than chocolate sauce and whipped cream (but don't worry, we cover that too). From food-gasms, to sexy food games, to yummy foreplay, this episode is sure to leave your tummy rumblin' ands your pussy quiverin'. Shae goes over some of the SEXIEST moves imaginable (real panty droppers if we do say so ourselves) and teaches us all how to embrace the damn mess. Watch on Youtube Connect with us: via TikTok or Instagram via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are coming in HOT with your complete guide to cum shots. We always ask the embarrassing questions, but now we’re ready to ruin our search histories and gather all the info you need to get cummed on (or cum on someone else). From positions, to dirty talk, to what to do as the receiver, we’ve got you covered the whole way through. We also share some of YOUR (our beloved listeners) thoughts on facials, alongside the advice of some of our favorite sex educators. Gear up and get ready to get wet, cuz you’re entering the splash zone baby.  Featured Sex Educators: Luna Matatas Susan Bratton Jordan D’Nelle Dr. Heather Bartos Watch on Youtube Connect with us: via TikTok or Instagram via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hey you sexy, seductive beast... it's time you hone in on your powers and start taking the world by storm. Danica Darling, a sex worker, exotic dancer, and lecturer, is here to help us do just that by teaching us the ins and outs of seduction. Whether it's a sexy walk, a powerful stance, or a mysterious gaze, this episode will give you detailed instructions on how to claim your confidence and make yourself irresistible. We also cover flirting, touching, and finding the balls to risk rejection. Watch on Youtube Connect with us: via TikTok or Instagram via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are finally talkin' PURITY CULTURE and, perhaps more importantly, we're talkin' all about how to ditch that bitch. Erica Smith, the creator of Purity Culture Dropout TM, is here to share all the dirty deets on what purity culture is, how it impacts our sex lives, and concrete steps for quitting. Whether it's the concept of virginity, your "body count", that gross/guilty feeling you get after sex, or the deep religious messaging you received as a child, purity culture has impacted the shit out of us and it's time to move the frick on to bigger and better things (orgasms... we mean orgasms). Watch on Youtube Connect with us: via TikTok or Instagram via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We all know the power of a good kiss, but when you add in tongues the stakes raise even higher. How do you start? What rhythm do you use? How much is too much tongue? What about saliva? These are all questions we answer with our expert guest Raquel Savage. Raquel is a sex therapist and sex worker who bridges her experience in each area to give INCREDIBLE sex advice and education. Tune in so you can give the best damn kisses around. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we're learning how to build our ideal sex lives from the bottom up. Alexa Bowditch (aka That Sex Chick) is walking us through the whole process, from start to finish (and yes, you will be finishing). From figuring out WHAT you want, to finding WHO you want, to keeping it spicy once you've got it all, we cover the whole shabang. You deserve the best, so why not start creating it for yourself?! Watch episodes on Youtube Connect with us: via TikTok or Instagram via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Alicia Sinclair, the founder and CEO of COTR, Inc (aka the parent company to B-vibe, Le WAND, and The Cowgirl) is here to give us ALL her best tips on butt plugs. From finding your PERFECT fit (whether that's textured, vibrating, thrusting, rimming or adorned with a tail), to inserting that sucker right in your behind, this episode is sure to hold your hand the whole way through. And if you're a little nervous, no need to worry because we also walk through common mishaps and how to expertly avoid them. Watch on Youtube Connect with us: via TikTok or Instagram via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ella Dawson, a sex and culture critic, is here to help us break down the stigma around doing it with herpes… because the thing is, you probably will. Over two thirds of the population is herpes positive (PSA: cold sores are herpes), but we aren’t talking about it, we rarely test for it (it isn’t included in a standard STI panel), and it can start to feel like a big, scary, faceless thing. We’re here to tell you that IT’S NOT A BIG DEAL, it’s totally manageable, and that everyone with a positive diagnosis can still have amazing sex. No matter who you are or what diagnosis you do or don't have, we highly recommend tuning in, learning up, and giving yourself ALL the well-deserved pleasure. Watch on Youtube Connect with us: via TikTok or Instagram via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

POV: You just got railed and aren't sure if you should just go about your day or cuddle or... Well, we've got answers and pretty much all of them are AFTERCARE. Aftercare might not sound like the sexiest thing, but trust us when we say it will CHANGE YOUR SEX LIFE. Violet C is here to share all the best tips and tricks for creating a bomb ass aftercare routine. Turns out, aftercare is RIDICULOUSLY important when it comes to building the pleasurable and satisfying sex life you deserve. And if you're someone who's thinking "but I don't want to seem too needy," we've got you covered because here at Honeydew Me we firmly believe that having needs is SUPER F*CKING COOL. So press play and get to lovin' on yourself. Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee  Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we're talking all about subbing (aka being the submissive) with Lina Dune of Ask A Sub. Whether you're looking to let go, find a new role play, or figure out if you're a brat in the bedroom, we've got all the answers comin your way. We also chat about praise kinks, dirty talk, sub toys and post coital dysphoria (aka the post sex blues). Go ahead and press play babe... that's an order ;) Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee  Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Buckle up honeys, we're hittin the road and the GPS is set to ORGASMS. Dr. Donna is here to give us all the tips and tricks we need to have AMAZING car sex. She breaks down positions, prep, solo sex, and even shares a few of her favorite sexy road trip games (and they are SOOOO much better than the license plate game...) We also chat about: Legality... there's some things to consider Location scouting Having sex ON your car Packing your car sex to go bag Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee  Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s time to give your sensitives a spa day and who better to lead us through than Therese Clark, the founder and CEO of Lady Suite. Turns out there’s a whole lot to know about vulva SKIN, including how to curate a routine that clears up the ingrowns, acne, random itches, and sweaty smells. Therese breaks down what we’re doing that’s attacking our skin barrier, while giving us alternatives to pamper the puss (or booty, or balls, or penis etc.) Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee  Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Luna Matatas is BACK and this time we're talkin slob knobbin (lol). We're covering all the best tips and tricks for kissing that dirty D and we promise your life will never be the same. You'll learn where to focus, how to move your tongue, deep throating and how to make the sexiest eye contact of your life. If you're ready to rethink BJs and give the best performance of your life, THIS is the episode for you. We also cover: Taint and ball play Positions Tips for when your jaw gets tired Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee  Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re back and this time we’re dewin sex toys. From vibrating butt plugs, to bathtub attachments, we’re giving you the intimate details of what worked, what didn’t, and what we’ll definitely be trying again. Whether you’re looking for the most sensual night of your life or a toy that’ll get you there in 30 seconds, we’ve got you babe. Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee  Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's time for a little SENSUAL seduction... but here's the thing, sensuality probably doesn't mean what you think it does. In this episode we're talking with sexuality doula, sex educator, and sensualist Ev'Yan Whitney and when we say that this is the kind of stuff that can change your life WE FREAKIN MEAN IT. Your solo sex sesh will never be the same after Ev'Yan walks us through how to tap into our sensuality; even while using sex toys. We also cover partnered play and how you can take steps towards creating an AMAZING sex life while watching Netflix on the couch (sounds too good to be true right?! It's not.) We also cover: WHY you should tap into your sensuality Concrete steps for connecting to your sensuality Slowing down (it's v important and Ev'Yan breaks it down SO WELL) Ev'Yan's new book  Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee  Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you aren’t playing with your nips, you better get ready to start because Dr. Heather Bartos is here and she has ALL the tips we never knew we needed. We start out with some normalization, because YOUR NIPS ARE NORMAL, before diving into all the very specific ways to start stimulating your lovely little lumps. From mouth stuff, to hand stuff, we’ve got ya covered and let’s just say a nipple orgasm could definitely be in your future.   We also chat about: How people of ALL genders can have nipple orgasms Incorporating lube, hot wax, and ice Combo moves (the ‘ol one, two; the ‘ol razzle dazzle) Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee  Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Think you’re “too emotional” for casual sex? That it can’t be empowering or that it’s just for men? Think again, because Lia Holmgren, a sex and relationship coach and author of the book “Hookup without Heartbreak” is here to give us all advice we need to have casual sex while feeling powerful as fuck. From finding the right partners, to advocating for your needs, to navigating the complicated feelings that can arise, Lia walks us through from start to finish… because YES, you will be finishing. Working through subconscious shame and messages Dealing with the “no” Clear communication (with examples) Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We would say this week is a time to review… but let’s be honest, we never actually got all the info we needed when it comes to our vulvas and vaginas (other than they’re “super complicated” *eye roll*). So, we brought on Janelle King an RN with a background in public health who has all the answers to ALL the questions we should have gotten answered YEARS AGO. We’re talkin smell, taste, look, bleached undies, pubic hair and everything else that has to do with that taco betwixt your legs. Gear up honey because in order to access your pleasure, you gotta know what you’re working with first. Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com OhMiBod | Get 10% off with code HONEYDEW10 at ohmibod.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re bringing back dry humping because let’s be honest… IT’S AWESOME and we never should have stopped. Samia Burton is here to give us the how-to, along with the WHY (aka the many benefits and uses). We cover what to wear, how to position yourself when to dry hump, and a whole lot more. We don’t love New Year’s Resolutions here at Honeydew Me, but we’re all for more dry humping in 2022.  Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s time to get handsy… or at least finger-y? Allison Moon, a sex educator and author of the book Girl Sex 101, is here to give us all the tips and tricks we need to become fingerbanging experts. We chat about technique, positions, strokes, misconceptions AND SO MUCH MORE. You can expect to get a good grasp on the basics, along with a few intermediate and advanced moves to really up your (or your partner’s) fingering game. We also chat about: Anatomy (you gotta know what you’re touching in order to touch it well) Incorporating oral What it feels like to finger someone Fingering for people with scrotums (aka muffing) Get Girl Sex 101 HERE! Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we’re redefining kink with Anne More, a Conscious Kink Coach, Somatic Sexologist, and all-around SUPERSTAR. Turns out you don't need a bunch of fancy toys or the confidence to act out a complicated scenario; Anne is here to give us all the deets on what we can do instead. You can expect ACCESSIBLE, APPROACHABLE, and SPICY ways to start exploring your kinky side. We cover a bunch of ways to get kinky (as always you can expect specific examples) AND spend some extra time diving into bondage and rope play.  We also chat about: Finding toys around the house (AKA "pervertibles") Alternatives to dom/sub dynamic Container setting Kink myths Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with Anne: yesannemore.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Who was gonna tell us that sucky PMS and period pain aren't NORMAL?! They may be common, but Berrion Berry, AKA your new period-loving bestie, is here to give us all the deets on why they aren't "just a part of having your period." Get ready for a crash course in all things menstruation, including the lifestyle changes that'll get you in "flow," a little anatomy lesson, and of course period sex. We also chat about: What IS normal Food and movement Period pain relief Resources from the episode: Free Grocery List Free Recipes from Berri's eBook Cervical Mucus Image Cervix Placement  Moody Girl Chocolate Semaine (plant-based period pain relief) use code BERRI20 Berri's period tea  Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Aurelia | Get 10% off with code DEWME at aureliabox.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with Berri: Berri's podcast Berri's IG Optimize Your Flo IG Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Susan Bratton is BACK and this time she's sharing her best tips for talking dirty. From VERY specific examples (Susan doesn't hold back and we love her for it), to easy to use formulas, this episode has EVERYTHING you need to start getting naughty with your words. Resources: Dirty Talk Book The Sexual Soulmate Pact Expand Her Orgasm Tonight Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Want more Susan? Us too... betterlover.com personallifemedia.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Here's what we're not gonna do... "should" on ourselves when it comes to sex. Your pleasure is LIMITLESS, so it's high time to stop limiting ourselves. Rae McDaniels, a therapist and gender coach who specializes in working with trans and non-binary folks, is here to give us all the juicy deets on how. From degendering sex acts, to finding pleasure in a body we want to change, this episode is FULL of shame-busting secrets for any and everyone.  We also chat about: Gender freedom, scripts, and deconstructing gender norms Sex toys for sexual affirmation Body neutrality Feminine and masculine energies... what's the real deal? Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Aurelia | Get 10% off with code DEWME at aureliabox.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We got kinky and we're ready to tell you ALL about it. From bed restraints, to impact play, to a lil hot wax, we dove headfirst into the world of kink. We cover what worked, what definitely didn't, and what we're dying to try again.  We cover: Blindfolds Handcuffs & bed restraints Wax play & temperature play Paddles Pain play Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Aurelia | Get 10% off with code DEWME at aureliabox.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

From lubrication to sensitivity, it turns out the food we eat has a HUGE impact on the kind of sex we’re having. Christine DeLozier, an acupuncturist, herbalist and author of the book Diet For Great Sex, is here to drop the delicious deets on how to eat for better sex. We cover all the foods you can start incorporating to increase your libido, up your arousal, and intensify your orgasms. We also dive into aphrodisiacs and how to utilize them for both IMMEDIATE and long-term results.  We also chat about: Hormone imbalance (testosterone, estrogen, stress, dopamine etc.) Blood flow Nerve pathways Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re adding some spice by adding in some…ice? Yep, you read that right, and believe us when we tell you that it is a POWERFUL tool to have in your sexual toolbox. Dr. Lanae St. John, a Sexologist and Educator, is here to drop all the chilly deets on how to use ice to enhance your pleasure. Then we’re putting Lanae’s tips to the test by adding in a little Emma & Cass Dew and giving you the full rundown of how using ice went for ya girls. Let’s just say the orgasms were PLENTIFUL 😏 We also chat about: Safety concerns Incorporating toys Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever heard of Erotic BlueprintsTM ? Turns out they’re the KEY to accessing your best sex life ever. Ally Jewel, an intimacy and Certified Erotic BlueprintTM Coach, is here to break down each of the five blueprints (The Energetic, The Sensual, The Sexual, The Kink, or The Shapeshifter) and as a result, get us all one (or a million) steps closer to having INCREDIBLE sex. It’s kinda like your astrological sign, so by the end of the episode, you’ll have clear actionable steps and a roadmap to YOUR personal pleasure town. We also chat about: Key turn-ons for each blueprint The "superpower" and "shadow" of each blueprint Sexual acts/experiences for each blueprint Take the Erotic BlueprintTM Quiz HERE!  Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Brenna O’Malley, a non-diet dietitian, is here to help us navigate the crunchy feelings that tend to arise when we start unpacking our relationships with our bodies. We take a deep dive into what it means to be body neutral, whether or not affirmations are total BS, and how to navigate the more vulnerable body image moments (like when you’re in the middle of having sex…) We finish off with Brenna’s top tip for fueling an amazing sex life and it’s VERY IMPORTANT, so be sure to stick around. We also cover: External and internal boundaries Food in the context of dating Diet culture Diet talk  Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Who's ready to eat some ass?! Not so sure? Yeah, us either. Luckily, Dr. Evan Goldstein is here to give us all a crash course on how to do it properly. We also cover anal fingering techniques, prostate massage, anal toys, and even butthole botox. From toots, to poop, to getting yourself prepped, there's a lot that goes into analingus (aka the fancy way to say eating ass) ... so press play and get ready for a deep dive into your behind.  Sponsor: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

All aboard honeys, we’re headed to imagination station. Kait Scalisi is here and we’re talking ROLE-PLAY. Whether you’re working through intimidation (aka the thought of role-play makes you v nervy) or you’re struggling to find a scenario that feels “authentic” to you, this episode has your back bb.  Sponsor: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's been a hell of a year here at Honeydew Me and we're in the mood for a little reflection. From butt stuff, to handies, to doin it doggy style, we're diving into some of the juiciest tips we've gotten over the past year. These are the GAME CHANGERS, the life-altering pieces of advice that we simply CANNOT live without. Oh and to top it all off, we've got a few super special surprises sprinkled throughout. Press play to start celebrating the Birthday Bitch herself, Honeydew Me!  Connect with us on: Instagram Youtube Submissions Email: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Cassandra Corrado is here to talk turn-ons and trust us when we tell you that this episode DELIVERS. From figuring out what flips your switch, to telling your partner they killed the mood, we’ve got ya covered. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Vanessa and Xander Marin (she's a psychotherapist and he's just a regular guy) join us to discuss sex in the context of long-term relationships. We talk about how to keep it spicy (spoiler: it won't always be and that's OKAY), how to navigate sex-related issues, and whether or not it's cool to schedule sex. It's basically the sex therapy session we've all been waiting for.  Sponsor: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

🎶 [WE'RE] ON THE EDGE OF... orgasms?! 🎶 That's right, the beautiful Lily Lemire is here to give us the lowdown on edging. Like, why THE HECK people even do it, what the benefits are, and how to edge without losing your O. This episode has all the answers, so hit play and get ready for some POWERFUL orgasms. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ready to be your wild, authentic self in the bedroom? We thought so. Jeneka Jool is here to give us all the tips and tools we need to have the uninhibited sex we freakin deserve. From working through cringe-worthy moments (aka letting one rip), to discovering who YOU are (a growler, a cryer, a screamer etc.), this episode is sure to get you one step closer to LETTING THE F*CK GO.  Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we're scissoring with the incredible Lisa Finn... well not actually, but we are getting all the juicy deets on how. We start out by busting through myths (spoiler alert: scissoring is very real) before jumping into the VERY SPECIFIC how-to's. From positioning to rhythm, to limbering up beforehand, we're taking you all the way from start to finish 💦 Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we’re going FULL SEND and talking sexting. From navigating nudes, to finding the words, to incorporating toys, we tried it all and are ready to share every dirty little detail. If oversharing and actionable tips are something your into, go ahead and press play, Honey 😉 Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hope you’re ready to WERK because in this episode we’re diving deep into the pelvic floor and learning how to (properly) flex our sex muscles. We’ve all heard of kegels, but turns out we probably aren’t doing them right and even if we are, they may not be the CORRECT exercise for your specific body. WILD! We know. Luckily MaryEllen Reider, Co-Director of Yarlap, a kegel exercise device company, is here to share all the info we didn’t even know we were missing. Spoiler Alert: We tried Yarlap and we LOVE it. If you want to try it too, use code DEWME for $35 off. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Take a seat Honey, because we’re going SWINGING. Bella and Jase are here to walk us through what an ethically non-monogamous relationship can actually look like, as well as the many benefits, necessary tools, and SPICY STORIES they’ve collected along their journey. Whether you’re strictly monogamous or ready to dip your toe into the world of swinging, this episode is sure to give you something to think about 😉 Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Resources from the episode: Use code DEWME for 10% off at 4ourplay.com 30 days free full membership to Kasidie.com: https://www.kasidie.com/?referredby=BellaAndJase 30 days free full membership to SDC.com: https://w3.sdc.com/v1/signup.php?ref=36062 List of swingers clubs in the US: https://www.youngswingers.me/club-listings.html Connect with Bella & Jase: 4OURPLAY Podcast Bella's Instagram Jase's Instagram 4OURPLAY Instagram 4OURPLAY TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you're ready for some MAJOR changes, then this episode is for you honey bunny. Layla London walks us through the steps she took to completely overhaul her sex life after a 3.5 year celibacy period. If you're feeling bored, uninspired, or just looking for a little more spice, Layla has you covered. So get ready for some sexy stories and actionable steps from a woman who's been there, done that, and is now a total pro. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We went in blind and came out wet. Yep, you guessed it, we tried shower sex and are ready to tell you every last detail. We cover what worked, what didn’t, and all the parts we hope to soon forget. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Have you ever tried to hide part of your body during sex? Or maybe you've gotten so wrapped up in how you look, that you forgot to focus on how you feel? Because honestly, SAME. Lucky for us, Ari Antwine is here to give us a step-by-step guide on how to feel sexy and confident during sex. This episode is a LIFE changer, so gear up honey, because these are tools you can start using TODAY (or tonight 😉)! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever wanted to take control in the bedroom, but had no idea how? This is the episode for you, Honey. Sir Ezra walks us through finding your authentic dom style (spoiler alert: you don’t have to be scary and stone cold), how to start exploring the dom/sub dynamic, and so much more. If you're a beginner to BDSM or looking for a refresh, you’re in the right place. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode we’re getting wet n’ wild with Dr. Tanya Bass and bringing you the low down on LUBE. We chat about the different types of lube, when and how to use them, and why it’s so damn important. Lube makes everything better, and HONEY, you deserve better. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode we’re making sweet sweet love… TO OURSELVES. Sex and pleasure educator Rachel Maine is here to walk us through the ultimate act of self-love, masturbation. We bust through shame, learn how to spice up our stale routines, and even find ways to include a partner. If you’ve got a v or you love someone who does, this episode is sure to change the game! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, pleasure educator Carly S. covers the logistics of the almighty 69. Whether your overwhelmed by all the moving parts, looking for a less vulnerable modification, or ready to spice it up even more, you’ll find your answers in this very honest guide! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

August McLaughlin walks us through the logistics of doing it doggy style, including positions, rhythm, and all those potentially embarrassing moments like queefing and slippage. Whether you’re looking to increase the intimacy or add a bit of spice, this episode is sure to help you up your doggy style game. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you’re ready for a rundown on all the things that men should have learned in sex ed, but didn’t, this is the episode for you. Kristopher Lovestone is a sex educator and author of the book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men. From lasting longer in bed, to prostate health, to grade a communication strategies, this episode has all of the “cock talk” you’ve been missing in your life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kink educator Mistress Kay walks us through how to start sticking stuff up HIS butt (or really anyone with a penis/prostate). We cover fingers, toys, and even pegging. After this episode, you’ll be fully equipped to knock on someone’s back door. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Usually, we’re all about adding spice, but this week we’re adding a little lightening to your sex life. Cue sex educator, Sunny Megatron; here to give us the ultimate rundown on all things electricity play. Not sure what that is? No prob, because as always we cover the basics before diving into the how to’s. Electricity play is a form of sensation play and can also be used in BDSM (but don’t worry, you don’t have to enjoy pain to reap the benefits.) In this episode, you’ll learn which toys are worth trying, how to start incorporating them into sexy time, and perhaps most importantly, how to have hands free, solo orgasms…Yep. You read that right. Resources from the episode: Use code SUNNY for 15% off at The Stockroom (aka go get your neon wand!) Connect with Sunny: sunnymegatron.com @sunnymegatron on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Gear up, Honey…you’re entering THE SPLASH ZONE. In this episode we’re going full force and talking about SQUIRTING. We chat with the lovely Shae Alexander, a sex educator and true expert on the elusive juices. She breaks down the basics (I.e. what the heck squirting even is), before diving into the logistics of how to squirt!Whether you’re a curious kitten or your ready to make you’re splashing debut, this is an episode you do not want to miss. We also talk about: The G-Spot The difference between squirting and orgasms Clean up Talking with your partner about squirting Connect with Shae: @shaeislove on Instagram Talk Sex Education with Shae on Youtube @talksexwithshae on Clubhouse shaedaily.com If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Buckle up, Honey, because you are in for a WILD RIDE. Intimacy expert Susan Bratton quite literally had us picking our jaws up off the floor, so when we say this episode is a game changer, we are not fucking kidding. We cover libido, desire, throat orgasms, cock worship, a salad dressing recipe and SO. MUCH. MORE. If you’re ready to revamp your sex life and GET HORNY, go ahead and hit that play button! We also talk about: The difference between libido, desire, and arousal How to care for your libido The Soulmate Embrace (this is our favorite part...) Susan's Resources: sexualsoulmatepact.com soulmateembrace.com threelicks.com betterlover.com Susan's Website: personallifemedia.com Connect with Susan: @susanbratton on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve talked A LOT about sex, but this week we’re doing something a little different and talking about how to find someone to have sex with... AKA dating. Francesca Hogi is a love coach with all the wisdom and advice we wish we had when we were 15, but hey, better late than never. We dive into mindset (spoiler alert it’s v important), red flags, how to know if someone is “the one,” and of course we couldn’t help but talk about our one true love, SEX. If you’re ready to have your world rocked and your dating life reinvigorated, you better hit play because this is a game changer Honey. We also talk about: Franny's Puke Test Dating during COVID How rejection isn't real Connect with Franny: @dearfranny on Instagram francescahogi.com Dear Franny Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

PSA: Blow jobs can be pleasurable for EVERYONE involved. Yep, you read that right, even the giver. WHO FRICKIN KNEW?! Lucky for us, sex and relationship coach Azaria Menezes is here to give us all a rundown on how to give a killer blow job and perhaps more importantly, how to enjoy doing it. We cover logistics (i.e. what to do when you're down there), how to add some spice, and SO MUCH MORE. Tune in for an episode that could just change you life (no promises, but like maybe!) We also talk about: BALLS How to feel into your body The power of "fuck YES" Connect with Azaria: azariamenezes.com @azaria.menezes on Instagram Getting Intimate Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode we take a trip down south with pleasure coach, Luna Matatas (aka going down, eating out, oral sex with a vulva, you get the idea). We start out by busting through ALL. THE. SHAME. Smell? Look? Taste? No worries here, honey, because Luna talks us through all of it. Then we dive head first into the logistics of eating out. You’re gonna learn the best tongue tricks, how to incorporate fingers, what positions you gotta start trying and so much more. Whether you’re the giver or the receiver, this episode is overflowing with all the juicy tips you need to have a great time when you or your partner heads downtown. Connect with Luna: lunamatatas.com @lunamatatas on Instagram Luna's Youtube Channel  If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're taking a deep dive into fetishes this week with Master Fetish Trainer Jet Setting Jasmine. As always, we cover the very basics, like what a fetish even is, before jumping into the big stuff like how to start engaging in your personal fetishes (spoiler alert: you definitely have one). We end the episode by narrowing in on impact play and covering the logistics of it from start to finish. Do NOT deprive yourself of this fun, funky, fetish filled episode! We also talk about: How SEXY consent can be What it's like to be a Master Fetish Trainer Common fetishes Connect with Jasmine: jsjlinks.com @jetsetjasmine on Instagram @jetsetjasmine on Twitter If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Welcome to the first episode of our new segment: Emma & Cass Dew where we take on a sexy subject, try it out, and tell you how it went. In this episode we take a deep dive into butt stuff, only this time, we're getting personal. We took on the mighty task of trying butt stuff for the first time and we're ready to tell you all about it. From anal beads, to butt plugs, to anal sex, we're getting brutally honest and very vulnerable. We're sharing the good, the bad, and the ugly, alongside our top tips for butt stuff beginners. And let's just say, we feel like whole new women... We also chat about: What we would have done differently The biggest "issues" we ran into Our major takeaways If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Pucker up, Honey, because this week’s episode is taking you to first base. Kissing. Our guest Kody Elsayed gives us a refresher on the basics before diving into the spicier side of locking lips. We cover how to use your tongue, what to do with your hands, and how to kiss places other than lips. From novice to expert, there’s a little something in this episode for everyone. We also talk about: How to initiate a kiss How to practice kissing without a partner What NOT to do Connect with Kody: @ohhkody on TikTok @ohhkody on Instagram BOY TALK Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

PSA: Hand jobs are still cool. In fact, they can change lives. Just ask Ashley Manta, an award winning sex and relationship coach who is said to give the Ferrari of hand jobs. Yep, you read that right, and she came on Honeydew Me to teach us all how to do the same. We cover the basics, like stroke and pressure, all the way up to more advanced positions and tricks that we can’t wait to try out. Tune in if you’re ready to put those hands to good use! We also talk about: What to do with the balls What to do when they...finish Lube and other necessary prep Connect with Ashley: ashleymanta.com @cannasexual on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Orgasms, what a gift. AMIRIGHT?! Here at Honeydew Me, we firmly believe that the more orgasms in your life, the better, so we brought on Nell Walker, an orgasm expert and pleasure coach whose life goal is to help every vulva owner GET OFF. Not only does Nell walk us through the basics of what an orgasm actually is, she also gives us the lowdown on how to optimize our sex lives for BIGGER, BETTER (and even MULTIPLE) orgasms. Count. Us. In.  We also talk about: Masturbation techniques Types of orgasms (nipples, butt etc) Connect with Nell: nellthepleasurecoach.com @nellthepleasurecoach on Instagram @nellthepleasurecoach on TikTok If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

TW: Sexual assault, rape, abuse Want to get to know yourself better? Turns out your sexual fantasies are a great way start. Dr. Joe Kort, psychotherapist and clinical sexologist, joins us to discuss what our sexual fantasies mean, where they might come from, and how incredibly NORMAL they are. If you think your fantasies are "weird" or "wrong", then this is the fun and funky episode for you because SPOILER ALERT... there's no room for shame in the fantasy game (but consent is always required). We also chat about: Common sexual fantasies What to do when you and your partner have mismatched fantasies How to start exploring your fantasies Connect with Dr. Joe Kort: joekort.com @drjoekort on TikTok @drjoekort on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hope you're ready to get a little fun and funky this week, because your hosts are bringing you that and so. much. more. We asked friends, strangers, and exes (yes…EXES) to give us their cringiest sex questions and then gave ourselves two options: answer OR drink. Spoiler alert…we did a lot of both. From queefing to shower sex to our most embarrassing attempts at role play, this episode covers it all. As per usual, we're very tipsy, extremely honest, and just doin the damn thing. If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Saddle up, Honey, because we're getting ready to ride! Tyomi Morgan, AKA Glamazon Tyomi, is a certified Sexologist, Pleasure Coach, and Cowgirl expert. We start off with the basics of being on top and how to become the confident rider you're destined to be. If this isn't your first rodeo, no worries, we also learn how to take this sex position to the next level and leave your partner (and yourself) *whimpering* for more. Despite the name, cowgirl position is for EVERYONE (including queer couples), so grab your partner and get ready to say "YEEEHAAWW." We also chat about: Becoming d!ck assassins Positions and strokes What about my butthole?! and other common concerns Resources: Sign up for the Cowgirl Workout HERE! Connect with Tyomi: @realglamazontyomi on Instagram glamerotica101.com If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dream big, Honey, because it turns out your dreams have a lot to tell you. Anne Hodder-Shipp is a sexuality and relationship educator who’s ready to help you change your life, by tapping into your dreams. We talk about what sex dreams really mean, how to start your own dream interpretation practice, and whether or not your “naughty” dreams say anything about the real you. We also talk about: Cheating dreams Nightmares Wet dreams Additional Resources: FREE Meditation to Work Through Nightmares from Anne's Teacher Kezia Vida Interactive Dream Journal Connect with Anne: annehoddershipp.com @theannehodder on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What if we said that YOUR ORGASMS are MAGIC?! Well, turns out they are. In this episode we talk with Ani Ferlise, a Spiritual and Self-Love coach who's here to remind us all that "home is in your bones." We explore the life changing power of sex magic and the rituals we can all start incorporating to find magic in the (seemingly) mundane. If you're ready to unleash your sexy powers and create the life you've been dreaming of, you've come to the right place! We also chat about: Ani's path to spirituality What it feels like to "come home" to your body Breath work The magic of the menstrual cycle Connect with Ani: @ani_ferlise on Instagram aniferlise.com Link to Ani's FREE Sex Magic Ebook  If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you INCREDIBLE at foreplay? A master of seduction? No? Us either… but not to worry, your sex life is about to get a major upgrade with the help of one Marla Renee Stewart. Marla is a sexologist, sex strategist, and pleasure activist with a special talent for communication and seduction. In this episode, we talk about discovering your seduction style, finding spicy ways to initiate sex (because let's be honest "wanna have sex" isn't cutting it anymore), and how to get out of that damn foreplay rut. Hope your ready to become the badass seductress you've always wanted to be, because this episode is your first step! We also talk about… How long foreplay should be Secret sexy code words Overcoming rejection Resources from the episode… Marla's Seduction Style Quiz Marla's Erotic Activity Bucket List Connect with Marla: velvetlips.com @1marlastewart on Instagram   If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

New Year, New You? We call BULLSH*T, because you're already amazing! The start of a new year does not mean you have to start a new diet, a new exercise plan, or any other new thing that promises you a "bikini body" by June (hint: if you have a body and a bikini, you already have one). This episode is for anyone who has ever set a New Year's resolution to change their body (your hosts sure have). Aubrey Wall, a Body Image and Confidence Coach, is here to walk us through cultivating a positive relationship with fitness and how to rework our resolutions for a truly healthy year.  We also talk about… Finding positive motivation How we use diets as our identities Skinny (diarrhea) teas Connect with Aubrey: @aubreywall on Instagram trainingforbodyacceptance.com Bodies in Motion Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you're ready to cozy up and *reconnect*, then this is the episode for you! We chat with Maggie Flood, a Chinese Medicine Doctor and Somatic Sex Educator with a knack for helping people release pain and shame. We walk through what it means to be disconnected from your body (hint: most of us are) and how to start the process of reconnecting. And don't worry...we bring it back to the basics, because let's be honest, this kind of stuff can get a little confusing. Connect with Maggie: sacral-spaces.com @sacral_spaces on Instagram Sacral Spaces with Maggie Flood Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices naYgALgrVkgn6fG7qJkQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get ready for a spicy episode, because this one is coming in HOT. Kimi Inch is a Professional Dominatrix, Kink Expert, and Somatic Healer who knows a thing or two about getting kinky. Lucky for us, she got back to the basics to give us a killer intro to kink. We talk about the life of a Dominatrix, how to know if you're kinky, and what to try first (see Kimi's "Kink Checklist" linked below). Don't be scared, it'll only hurt a little. We also talk about: Kimi's personal journey Finding your kink (Click Here for Kimi's "Kink Checklist") How to be more dominate The beauty of submission Connect with Kimi: kimiinch.com @kimiinch on Instagram @kimiinch on TikTok If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Summer Innanen is a badass body image coach who is ready to help you ACCEPT YOUR DAMN SELF. Summer talks us through ditching diet culture, shedding body shame, and creating a better relationship with that skin suit you're wearing. Get ready for some "aha" moments and actionable steps to start feeling comfortable in your body TODAY. We also talk about: Self-worth How family, friends, and media impact body image How loving your body doesn't have to be the goal Connect with Summer: Eat The Rules Podcast summerinnanen.com @summerinnanen on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sexting is the name of the game this week and who better to chat with than a real life sexting researcher! In this episode, Eva Bloom helps us get back to the basics by teaching us all how to find the right (dirty) words, take sexy nudes, and send naughty voice notes. And if that wasn't enough for ya, stay tuned after the interview for some hilarious sexting stories that YOU (our listeners) shared with us.  We also talk about: The benefits of sexting Consensual vs non-consensual sexting Sexting *optimization* Connect with Eva: What's My Body Doing on Youtube @whatsmybodydoing on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we chat with Molly Borman, Founder and CEO of Just Nips, a fake nipple company that wants you to look cold and feel hot. We talk all about Molly's creative process, how and when to wear them, and most importantly, how her grandma has managed to single handedly equip every valet in Florida with their very own pair of Nips. Not sure if you're confident enough to keep your headlights on? Tune in, because I bet we can convince you to give it a try! We also talk about: Confidence and sexual expression Just Nips and survivors of breast cancer How there's no such thing as too sexy Connect with Molly: justnipsforall.com @justnipsforall on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we go deep with Tristan Taormino, sex educator, feminist author, and anal pleasure expert! We talk all about anal play, what you can stick up there (as well as what you can't), and POOP, because let's be real… aren't we all a little nervous about what might come out when something goes in? Tune in if you're curious about "taking the back road" OR if you're ready to learn some new tricks for when you're there! We also talk about: Myths and misconceptions Positions for anal play Butt plugs Prep Connect with Tristan: @tristantaormino on Instagram tristantaormino.com Sex Out Loud Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dildos, vibrators, and anal beads… OH MY. In this episode we talk with Ashley Cobb, sex educator, sex blogger, and SEX TOY EXPERT. She's a total badass with all the info you've been waiting for. Want to find your *perfect* toy? We've got you covered! Curious about butt plugs? Get Ready! Want to know what electricity play is? YES YOU DO BITCH. Tune in if you're ready for a damn good time. We also talk about: Types of toys Using toys with a partner The WILDEST toys Ashley has seen Connect with Ashley: @sexwithashley on Instagram sexwithashley.com Hoe and Tell Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Despite how much we talk, your hosts are NOT communication pros, especially when it comes to sex. In this episode, we talk with Dr. Shannon Chavez, a Psychologist, Sex Therapist, and Sexual Health Expert who is ready to help you talk the damn talk. We explore all the sexual communication skills you need in order to have the fun, kinky, and consensual sex you DESERVE. Asking for what you want, exploring new "places," and working through those pesky fears will be a breeze after you've given this episode a listen. Okay, maybe not a *breeze*, but definitely easier! We also talk about: What sex therapy is What to do if you're uncomfortable talking about sex If there's such a thing as being too honest Mutual masturbation… (your hosts were blushing at this point) Connect with Dr. Chavez: drshannonchavez.com @drshannonchavez on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you want to have amazing sex, it's time you start giving it to YOURSELF. Cue Amy Weissfeld, a Somatic Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker, and freaking MASTURBATION COACH. Yes, you read that right, she's the coach you've been waiting for and she has all the tips to help you start a masturbation practice or take your current one to the next level. Tune in if you're ready to get to know yourself a whole lot better! We also talk about: A tool that'll help you MAXIMIZE pleasure The masturbation education you should have gotten Shame and how to bust through it What if I'm in a relationship? Connect with Amy: joyfulselflove.com If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Who's ready to turn in their damn homework? Because WE ARE HERE and ready to get a little WEIRD. At the end of every interview, we have a segment called Homework for Honeys, where our guests provide us with one actionable step that we can all take to start integrating what we talked about that day. Well, the due date has arrived and we're ready to talk all about our honey pots (Emma hates when I use food comparisons), our erotic gardens, and the struggle of self-love. Basically, tune in if you want to hear two twenty somethings talk about looking at their vulvas. We cover the following homework: EP. 2 Jordan D'Nelle, PA: Look at your vulva, like REALLY look at it. EP. 3 Dr. Nazanin Moali: Cultivate your erotic garden… AKA get to know your sexual self. EP. 4 Hannah Rachael: Compliment your HOT AS HELL self. EP. 5 Antuanette Gomez: Smoke some cannabis and check out your vulva AGAIN. If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Cannabis, crystals, and yoni steams: just a few of the MAGICAL topics we cover in this episode. Antuanette Gomez, a BADASS GODDESS, is the founder and CEO of Pleasure Peaks, a cannabis company dedicated to improving sexual health and promoting pleasure. We talk about all the ways cannabis can help you have better sex, feel good in your body, and help you connect to that divine, erotic energy you've been missing out on. If you're cannabis curious or simply wanting to dip your toe into alternative health and wellness, then this is your episode, my dear. Antuanette also hosts the Pleasure Talks podcast which we highly recommend if you enjoy this episode…and we're pretty damn sure you will. We also talk about: Maximizing pleasure Chronic pain and some possible solutions Lube, suppositories, and other ways to use cannabis CBD Yoni eggs and yoni steaming ***This episode should not be taken as medical advice. Please engage in practices at your own risk.*** TW: Mention of sexual assault at 29:18-29:28 & 34:45-34:54 Connect with Antuanette: pleasurepeaks.com @pleasure_peaks & @antuanetteg on Instagram Pleasure Talks Podcast ***Use code HONEYDEWME to get 20% off a YONI EGG on pleasurepeaks.com!*** If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You want to be on top? *cue America's Next Top Model music* Well this episode could be your first step to feeling confident and sexy as hell. Hannah Rachael, a boudoir and EMPOWERMENT photographer joins us to talk all about her work, the power of feeling sexy, and how to start embracing that beautiful body of yours. If self-love and feeling good in your body are something you struggle with (because your hosts sure do), this is a fun introduction to starting or continuing the work. ***While most of Hannah's clients are women, ANYONE can have a boudoir shoot and the tips in this episode apply to all, which Hannah talks about later in the episode!*** We also talk about: What boudoir/empowerment photography is Embracing your whole self and steps to start Kicking negative self-talk to the curb NUDES and DIY boudoir shoots TikTok censorship and why it SUCKS Connect with Hannah: Boudielove.com @hannah.rachael.photography on Instagram @hannah.rachael on TikTok If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Has stress become a major (you know what) block in your sex life? Us too... so trust us when we say you GOTTA check out this episode. Dr. Moali, a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and TRUE GEM, answers our questions about stress, sex, and how to get through the hard times (aka NOW). Tune in if you could use a little help navigating all the emotions, while still trying to keep things spicy. We also explore: Common relationship issues and their solutions Sexual dysfunction and what to do when it happens Sex drives and how they work Cultivating confidence in the bedroom TW: Mention of sexual assault at 46:49-47:13 Connect with Dr. Moali: sexologypodcast.com @sexologypodcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Need a little refresher on the basics of vaginas and vulvas? Let's be real, most of us do. Cue Jordan D'Nelle: physician assistant, sex educator, and host of the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast. A true EXPERT and a damn dream to talk to. Tune in to get the sex ed lesson you deserve, but never got. We also explore: All the parts and what they do: vaginas and vulvas edition Labia and misconceptions Juicy details (i.e. ejaculation, discharge, and lubrication) A little about libido How to prep for your yearly exam  Connect with Jordan: @jordandnelle jordandnelle.com Vagina's, Vulvas, and Vibrators Podcast If you love us, check out: honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Want to see if you like us? Here's your chance because we put it ALL out there. Emma's awkward phase? Check. Cass' high school journal entry? Check. Stories we've never told and definitely DO NOT WANT OUR FAMILIES TO HEAR? Check. We get OVERLY honest, a little deep, and spend the majority of the episode sharing embarrassing stories. If you're down for that, tune in. If you decide you love us, check out: honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Want to see if you're in the right place? Start here to learn what Honeydew Me is all about! Get to know us little better: Instagram: @honeydewmepodcast Website: honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices