All sentient beings are searching for peace and happiness in their lives but we seem to run into issues and sufferings all the time. Buddha taught us how to navigate through life by showing us what life is. Welcome to Dhamma talks.
EP. 111 The Four Great Events
When the Buddha was still a young prince he encountered four events when he and his servant ventured out of the palace. These four events shaped his way of thinking and changed the course of history.
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6/21/2024 • 42 minutes, 13 seconds
EP. 110 The Process of Cleansing Our Mind
Why do we want to cleanse our own mind? What is wrong with it? There must be reasons why we do anything. Let’s find out.
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5/11/2024 • 38 minutes, 34 seconds
EP 109 Shame of Wrong
Shame of wrong is a quality of wholesome mind. So what are the wrong mind and how do we stay away from it?
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3/26/2024 • 33 minutes, 27 seconds
EP. 108 BIG “I” BIG SUFFERING, SMALL “I” SMALL SUFFERING, NO “I” NO SUFFERING
How much you suffer, how often you have problems in your life mostly depends on how much you cling to the idea of your self “I”.
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3/9/2024 • 31 minutes, 48 seconds
EP. 107 The Four Stages of Sufferings
Sufferings cannot arise without proper conditions/ingredients, the faculties or the sources. What are those required ingredients?
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2/17/2024 • 40 minutes, 44 seconds
EP. 106 Become a shade
(Also now on YouTube through channel Sothy Tim) Become a shade means to offer refuge to the fellow travelers from the hot sun. How do you become a shade? First, you have to be cool within yourself. Find out how in this episode.
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1/26/2024 • 56 minutes, 48 seconds
EP. 105 New Year New You
How is your year as we are approaching the end of another year? Has your practice brought you more lightness and peace? Have you made progress in your study about yourself, the inner you? Share you thoughts and ideas or questions as we wrap up 2023.
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12/30/2023 • 57 minutes, 41 seconds
EP. 104 Commit to liberation
In order for one to commit himself/herself to liberation from the cycle of Dukkha/sufferings, one must understand or know what Dukkha/suffering is. The study of Dhamma is a must and is the only way.
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12/4/2023 • 59 minutes, 41 seconds
EP. 103. Keep on practicing
The mind is not not easy to tame but as long as we can see the benefits of a tamed mind we must keep on practicing because we know it is the only way out of the cycle of suffering.
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11/21/2023 • 57 minutes, 36 seconds
EP. 102 Our mind - a water simile
Our original mind is like a bucket of pure clear water. What we put in it is what we are mistakenly identified ourself with.
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11/4/2023 • 59 minutes, 59 seconds
EP. 101 What are we looking for?
What are we looking for in order to have a happy life in a relationship? What are the conditions?
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10/29/2023 • 59 minutes, 33 seconds
EP. 100 Who do you love? Who do you hate?
We love people we hate people. A loved one becomes the ex-one. The ex becomes someone’s else love. So what is this “person” we love or hate?
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10/16/2023 • 59 minutes, 33 seconds
EP. 99 Our Mind streams
The ultimate streaming is our mind. Blinded by the speed of the mind, we develop the self “I” as a doer. The ignorant doer goes to do selfish things for itself.
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10/9/2023 • 59 minutes, 51 seconds
EP. 98 We are the trigger
By looking within, we need to realize that we are also the trigger to the world.
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9/29/2023 • 59 minutes, 44 seconds
EP. 97 You cannot make your mind angry or happy
Your mind has its own way of functioning, it is its nature. Find out what it is.
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9/4/2023 • 59 minutes, 40 seconds
EP. 96 I have sinned …
Our mind is the source of our sins. Unwholesome mind leads to sinful speech and action.
8/13/2023 • 59 minutes, 52 seconds
EP. 95 Solution to life’s problems
It’s just the matter of time when we run into problems in life, it’s inevitable. How one handles the situation determine the quality of one’s life. If you are stressed, sad, upset, anxious, nervous, scared, angry, irritated, you have not figured out the solution to your problems. Right solution gives you happiness, peace of mind. Would you like to find out?
7/30/2023 • 56 minutes, 47 seconds
EP. 94 The Four Characteristics of a person.
From Angkuttarak Nikaya number 42, the Buddha talked about the Four Characteristics of a person, worthy and unworthy.
7/16/2023 • 59 minutes, 1 second
EP. 93 Formula for happy life journey
Life is a journey as people say. With the right formula life can be a lot less stressful and more joyful.
6/25/2023 • 59 minutes, 43 seconds
EP. 92 Paying respect vs taking refuge
What is the difference between paying respect and taking refuge in the Triple Gems? There are misconceptions in what taking refuge means.
6/11/2023 • 55 minutes, 40 seconds
EP. 91. The little thing is a big thing
All fires starts with a little spark. All big problems start with little problems. Put out the spark is a lot easier than put out the big fire. Learn to catch the spark.
5/27/2023 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 14 seconds
EP. 90. Conquer yourself
A man who conquer a thousand battles is not still as powerful as the man(or woman) who can conquer himself/herself. This phrase is explained here in this episode.
5/7/2023 • 59 minutes, 33 seconds
EP. 89 The Discovery
The Buddha discovered the Truth. From the Truth He taught the Dhamma. What is the Truth He discovered?
4/23/2023 • 59 minutes, 45 seconds
EP. 88. Know the creator
All feelings and emotions happen inside us. Who or what creates these feelings? We normally think that our feelings arise due to the different factors outside our body, due to what we see or hear. Does that mean those things and people are the creator of our feelings?
4/10/2023 • 59 minutes, 50 seconds
EP. 87. Breaking old habit
Is old habit difficult to break? It depends on your mind set. Is your emotions difficult to change? It depends on your will. But if you know for sure that the change will make a better you or get you into a better life situation, would you do it?
3/19/2023 • 59 minutes, 57 seconds
EP. Clear your mind
When your mind is full of stuff you feel heavy, especially stuff of negative feelings and emotions. Learn to clear this mind, learn to clean that mind and you will feel much better.
3/13/2023 • 59 minutes, 39 seconds
EP. 85 Mind Faculties
This episode goes a little deeper into the fifty two mind faculties, the ingredients, the formula, some samples of how mind arises.
3/6/2023 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 21 seconds
EP. 84 Evil arises from unwholesome minds.
Evil/bad deeds arise from unwholesome minds, unwholesome thoughts, unwholesome actions. How do you handle these unwholesome feelings?
2/20/2023 • 59 minutes, 50 seconds
EP. 83 Your are not happy because . . .
You have issues in you life, in your work, in your families, in your relationship, your mind is heavy, full of negative thoughts, feelings, and emotions. You feel heavy like having dark clouds on your head, heavy weights on your shoulders. This is telling you that you don’t understand your own mind and you are letting your mind control you.
1/13/2023 • 58 minutes, 51 seconds
EP. How to deal with difficult people?
We all have to deal with difficult people, difficult situation all the time. How do we manage this problem?
12/21/2022 • 59 minutes, 39 seconds
EP. 81 Let’s put down the ego.
You are only one thought away from happiness if you put down your ego.
12/18/2022 • 59 minutes, 29 seconds
EP. 80. Praying in Buddhism
Many people pray at the temples, at the altars, to the Buddha’s statue. Is that what the Buddha taught?
11/10/2022 • 57 minutes, 29 seconds
EP. 79. How to cope with grief
Grief is a part of life we all encounter from time to time. It is important to understand how this pain arises.
11/3/2022 • 54 minutes
EP. 78. Guarding your fort
The King(your mind) wants to have peace in his kingdom but the king is always disturbed. Where are the guards?
10/31/2022 • 58 minutes, 44 seconds
EP. 77 Awareness / Sati
Being aware of oneself’s mental activities (having Sati) is the crucial first part of learning about ourselves. Let’s talk about how to become aware of our own thoughts and emotions.
10/21/2022 • 56 minutes, 37 seconds
EP. 76 Let’s practice the right way
You have studied the Dhamma, you have studied the Sutra, yet you still have issues in life. Where has the learning gone?
9/29/2022 • 59 minutes, 22 seconds
EP. 75 Mind objects
Mind objects are products of our mind. These objects are the emotions, the feelings we experience and mistakenly identify ourselves with.
9/20/2022 • 57 minutes, 25 seconds
EP. 74 I am not happy or my mind is not happy.
So it’s the question for you and your mind, which one is it?
8/27/2022 • 57 minutes, 48 seconds
EP. 73 Dana / Offering
The Buddha encourages Dana or offering/giving. What is the best Dana one can give to oneself and people around them?
8/12/2022 • 59 minutes, 40 seconds
EP. 72. The conceptual “I”
The conceptual “I” arises flawlessly with the rise of the five senses. Understanding this concept is the opening to the ultimate you.
8/1/2022 • 59 minutes, 54 seconds
EP. 71 Bringing Dhamma to your life
Practicing anything must benefit you. The same goes with practicing the Dhamma. This episode shows you how to bring the Dhamma to your everyday activities so you can have a beautiful life.
7/9/2022 • 59 minutes, 47 seconds
EP. 70 Your life is your karma
Kamma/karma is action. Your action makes your life, good, bad, sad, angry, stressed, depressed, … What you make is yours. Choose the right one.
6/13/2022 • 57 minutes, 41 seconds
EP. 69 Mind arises and falls away
Our mind rises and falls away nonstop like waterfalls, it never stops. New mind arises and passes away consecutively, not a single old mind sticks around but because it happens so fast it seems like there is just one mind. You never touch a stream twice, be it water stream or mind stream.
5/9/2022 • 59 minutes, 45 seconds
EP. 68 Storm of life
Just as a storm cannot prevail against a rocky Mountain, so Mara can never overpower the man who lives meditating on impurities.
5/1/2022 • 59 minutes, 46 seconds
EP. 67 The Journey Within
A journey begins with the first step and the longest journey is the journey within which requires no step. You are already there.
4/12/2022 • 57 minutes, 58 seconds
EP. 66 Senses functions
This episode explains about the functions of our six senses, how they work, interact, and generate the mind. Please feel free to leave comments.
3/27/2022 • 59 minutes, 54 seconds
EP. 65 Life Episodes
We go through many episodes in our life. How we handle the different episodes we encounter dictates how we live our life.
3/13/2022 • 58 minutes, 28 seconds
EP. 64 How does your mind begin.
Your mind only exists in the present moment, so are you.
3/6/2022 • 1 hour, 49 seconds
EP. Samsara
What is Samsara? How did we get caught in it?
2/20/2022 • 59 minutes, 34 seconds
EP. 62. Rambling today
Nothing specific today, a little bit here a little bit there. Comments if you like.
2/16/2022 • 58 minutes, 44 seconds
EP. 61 Cultivate your mind
Cultivate your land cultivate your mind. It is an effort we all need to make.
1/30/2022 • 52 minutes, 58 seconds
EP. 60. You have stories
We all have stories and those stories run inside our head. Watch the stories.
1/15/2022 • 56 minutes, 31 seconds
EP. 59 The “I” is suffering
Who is suffering? Find out who or what is suffering.
1/3/2022 • 57 minutes, 4 seconds
EP. 58. Seeds of Suffering
Where does our suffering come from? What or who creates it?
12/21/2021 • 56 minutes, 15 seconds
EP. 57 Can’t let go of hate
Why you can’t let go of that dislike, hateful feeling about someone?
12/13/2021 • 57 minutes, 42 seconds
EP. 56 Because you think it’s normal.
Because people only know that suffering is part of life they think that it is normal.
12/2/2021 • 1 hour, 43 seconds
EP. 55 How to learn from suffering
Once you understand what suffering is you can learn to detach from it.
11/18/2021 • 58 minutes, 49 seconds
EP. 54 Conventional vs Ultimate truth
This episode takes you deeper into the teaching to see what the ultimate truth is that the Buddha taught.
11/6/2021 • 57 minutes, 53 seconds
EP. 53. Clinging
Clinging or holding on to things is the root cause of insecurity, anxiety, stress that can proliferate into many unwholesome thoughts.
11/2/2021 • 57 minutes, 20 seconds
EP. 52 The secret is hidden in plain sight.
The secret of life is right in front of you.
10/17/2021 • 2 hours, 14 minutes, 16 seconds
EP. 51. Acceptance
Acceptance is hard to do for most people when tragedies happen, when they are a victim of something in the past.
10/8/2021 • 58 minutes, 4 seconds
EP. 50 Cultivate wisdom.
Wisdom (Pranha in Pali) is one component in the Eight Fold Noble Path. How do you cultivate this wisdom/pranha?
9/25/2021 • 56 minutes, 46 seconds
EP. 49. Mindfulness?
Human mind, animal mind. What is mindfulness?
9/11/2021 • 55 minutes, 58 seconds
EP. 48 Stressful young life.
How does stress start in our life? From teenagers to young adults, stress builds up. Know where stress come from.
9/6/2021 • 57 minutes, 26 seconds
EP. 47 The Six Worlds
What are the six worlds that make your mind?
8/28/2021 • 55 minutes, 4 seconds
EP. 46. Nirvana/Nibanna
The definition of the word Nirvana/Nibanna.
8/15/2021 • 55 minutes, 7 seconds
EP. 45 The Treasure in You
What you are searching for is already inside of you.
7/25/2021 • 57 minutes, 46 seconds
EP. 44 Dhamma and You
All Dhamma has the mind as the subject. (Buddha)
7/5/2021 • 57 minutes, 15 seconds
EP. 43 Self Realization
Self realization is about realizing our own mind, how it works. The mind is what keeps us in Samsara, understanding it is liberation. Free…
6/24/2021 • 55 minutes, 31 seconds
EP. 42. Aware of your own thoughts.
What is awareness? And what is the difference between awareness and mindfulness?
5/29/2021 • 55 minutes, 49 seconds
EP. 41 Talk about opinions.
Opinion and criticisms, mental activities that lead to problems.
5/17/2021 • 50 minutes, 50 seconds
EP. 40 Answer to why Buddha’s Teachings.
Buddha asked the monk’s: monks, if Brahmins or lay people ask why you study with the Tathagatta, what benefits do you get from the Teachings? What would you tell them?
5/2/2021 • 53 minutes, 9 seconds
EP. 39. Peers pressure
Our new generation, from teenagers to young adults, is facing tremendous pressure from society and it creates a lot of stress and anxiety. How does one handle it?
4/30/2021 • 54 minutes, 5 seconds
EP. 38 Raising a family
Needless to say, raising a family is a very challenging responsibility and every little guidance helps. This episode is my little two cents guidance.
4/19/2021 • 52 minutes, 3 seconds
EP. 37 Money cannot eliminate suffering.
Money can help fix the necessity of life but money cannot buy true peace and happiness of life. The only way to cure the mental suffering is to understand what our mind is.
4/10/2021 • 52 minutes
EP. 36 Compassion is the language of the heart
How do you cultivate compassion for yourself and others? How do you forgive someone?
3/27/2021 • 52 minutes, 33 seconds
EP. 35 Applying Buddhism in every day life.
How can Buddhism benefit your life? This is the key, the bridge that takes you to the other side of your emotional (ego) mind.
3/8/2021 • 46 minutes, 47 seconds
EP. 34 What worries you?
Fear and worry destroy our happiness. What is fear? Why are we worried?
3/1/2021 • 50 minutes, 37 seconds
EP. 33 Why you are not happy?
What troubles you? Understand what that is and you can be happier.
2/7/2021 • 50 minutes, 10 seconds
EP. 32 Non-Self
When there is self there is death to self. Non-self is deathless but don’t just take my words for it, investigate it for yourself.
1/25/2021 • 49 minutes, 4 seconds
EP. 31 The emotional “I”
Understanding the “I” that creates your emotion. What is that “I”?
12/21/2020 • 45 minutes, 12 seconds
EP. 30 Mind seeds/faculties
Our mind sprouts from different kinds of seed that generate different kinds of feelings. Understanding how those seeds grow are crucial to our peace of mind.
10/30/2020 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 14 seconds
EP. 29 Our two minds (Part 2) - Reload
Continuing from part 1, episode 28, this talk is about our emotional mind, our part of the mind that runs the world.
10/3/2020 • 47 minutes, 41 seconds
EP. 28 Our two minds.
We all have two minds operating together seamlessly like one. I am breaking it down here for you so see how the two works together. This another way of looking at our mind.
9/21/2020 • 47 minutes, 19 seconds
EP. 27. How to develop love and compassion for people who hate you.
People have harmed you, people have hurt you, how can you have love or compassion for them?
4/11/2020 • 43 minutes, 55 seconds
EP. 26 Your mind is infected.
The infected mind is happy, mad, sad, upset, angry, . . . Disinfect your mind.
3/20/2020 • 38 minutes, 4 seconds
EP. 25. I want to calm my mind.
I can’t have peace of mind, I have tried meditations but it only helps temporarily. How can I control my mind?
1/6/2020 • 49 minutes, 6 seconds
EP. 24 Desires and attachments.
Desire leads to suffering. What about good desires? Desire to do good. Do you need to have desire to do good? How do desires and attachments work?
8/18/2019 • 50 minutes, 37 seconds
EP. 23. Depression
Depression has many sources. Will try to cover some.
7/7/2019 • 43 minutes, 45 seconds
EP. 22. Dealing with Anger
Anger anger goes away, do not come back any other days.
7/4/2019 • 47 minutes, 57 seconds
EP. 21. Comparing and judging
Comparing and judging are the activities of the human mind. We must keep watch of this activity.
6/19/2019 • 33 minutes, 6 seconds
EP. 20. Sufferings in relationship
Many have suffered broken relationships, have problems with immediate family members or spouse that is totally avoidable.
5/26/2019 • 45 minutes, 7 seconds
EP. 19. Self Worth
How we value ourselves is very important for most of us. When not knowing, we value ourselves with the wrong conceptions and it causes sufferings.
5/19/2019 • 47 minutes, 22 seconds
EP. 18. Total Surrender
Surrender to the truth, to life, and live it mindfully.
5/6/2019 • 44 minutes, 9 seconds
EP. 17. Going Beyond
What does it mean “going beyond” or transcend the mind?
5/3/2019 • 40 minutes, 31 seconds
EP. 16. Self Identification
The idea of self creates separation, me vs you, my country vs your country, my people vs your people, my belief vs your belief.
4/25/2019 • 31 minutes, 22 seconds
EP. 15. Life up to this moment.
How are you all doing? How is life up to this moment? Any thing changes or wish it changes?
4/23/2019 • 47 minutes, 34 seconds
EP. 14. I don’t have time for this yet.
I like the idea of the Teachings but I am too busy. I kind of know that all I have to do is be good. These are some of the comments people have. As long as you maintain this attitude, your life situations cannot get better because you will still always be under the control of your own ego mind.
4/6/2019 • 48 minutes, 26 seconds
EP. 13. Uniqueness in Buddhism.
What is different in Buddhism from other religions? The teachings of selflessness , non-self is the key to eradicate ego. This key opens the door to the kingdom of heaven within.
3/23/2019 • 35 minutes, 49 seconds
EP. 12. Memories and Ego mind.
Based on memories, our mind works unconsciously and go through the emotions of life. Thus, there is no peace of mind.
3/16/2019 • 55 minutes, 19 seconds
EP. 11. Who am I?
Wrapping up the core teachings of the Buddha.
3/10/2019 • 42 minutes, 19 seconds
EP. 10. The Eightfold Noble Path
The path to liberation. Peace and happiness at last.
3/8/2019 • 49 minutes, 52 seconds
EP. 9. Dependent Origination - Patticcasamupatti.
Patticcasamupatti is Buddha’s discovery when he reached enlightenment. This is the uniqueness of Buddha’s Teachings.
3/4/2019 • 51 minutes, 23 seconds
EP. 8. Consciousness and rebirth.
From our deepest level of consciousness to rebirth and the wheel of Samsara according to karmic energy.
2/26/2019 • 54 minutes, 7 seconds
EP. 7. The Third Noble Truth - the end of sufferings.
The Cessation of Sufferings (Nirvana). How does one reach the end of sufferings.
2/23/2019 • 55 minutes, 13 seconds
EP. 6. (Continue) The Second Noble Truth.
We continue the talk regarding the root of sufferings and the root of the root of sufferings.
2/21/2019 • 53 minutes, 58 seconds
Special Day - Meakha Bochear
Today, the full moon day of the third month in Buddhist calendar, Buddhists celebrate the anniversary of Buddha’s announcement of his Parinirvanna.
2/20/2019 • 19 minutes, 42 seconds
EP. 6. The Second Noble Truth. Root of sufferings was.
Root of sufferings is the thinking mind. We are going to find out what the mind is.
2/17/2019 • 53 minutes, 16 seconds
EP. 5. The First Noble Truth of the mind.
What are the sufferings of the mind. The different levels of the mind. The core teachings is in the Abhidhamma. The change in us.
2/15/2019 • 45 minutes, 32 seconds
EP. 4. The Three Principles of Buddha’s Teachings.
The Three Principles of Buddha’s Teachings are Impermanence, Sufferings, and Non-Self (Anicca, Dukha, Anatta).
2/13/2019 • 23 minutes, 32 seconds
EP. 3. The First Noble Truth of form/body.
The First Noble Truth/ Suffering is divided into two parts, body (form) and mind. This episode talks about the body.
2/11/2019 • 47 minutes, 58 seconds
Overview of Buddha’s Teachings.
General description of what the Four Noble Truths is as well as the Eight Folds Noble Path. What is the truth?
2/9/2019 • 31 minutes, 40 seconds
A short intro to Buddha’s Teachings.
A short description of what Buddha’s Teachings is.