Hello Lovers,  In this episode, we delve into the sticky situation of navigating family and friends who just can't seem to warm up to your significant other. With our guest Thato Ramepdi, we share our personal stories of when our families and friends have swiped left on our boo thangs! Visit our website: www.linktr.ee/wtrelationship  Follow Thato Ramepdi: https://linktr.ee/thatorampedi  Check out Thato’s Book: Grow with Malome: https://growwithmalome.com/ 

Hello Lovers,  In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of splitting finances equally in relationships and explore the dynamics, challenges & benefits of adopting a 50/50 approach. With our guest Mr. Zulu Gold, we discuss the importance of open communication, financial compatibility, and trust when it comes to managing finances as a couple. Whether you're currently in a relationship, considering one, or simply interested in understanding the dynamics of financial harmony, this episode offers valuable and funny insights. Visit our website: https://linktr.ee/wtrelationship 

Welcome back Lovers. In this episode, we delve into the topic of self-introspection and relationships. We all know that relationships require work, and one of the most important aspects of that work is taking a good hard look at ourselves. When we are able to understand our own motivations, triggers, and patterns of behavior, we can approach our relationships with a greater level of awareness and compassion. Basically, we're asking ourselves whether we are or have been a red flag in relationships. Visit the WTR Website: https://linktr.ee/wtrelationship Show some love to Lulo Rugs: https://www.instagram.com/lulorugs/

Hello Lovers,  Parenting in the 21st century can be challenging, complex, and expensive. In this episode, we are joined by our new Podcast Manager Emile where we explore the various and unique challenges that parents face in today's world while also reflecting on our desires to be potential parents.  Do what lovers do, like, rate, and share the podcast. 

Hello Lovers,  There has been a lot of noise in the "manosphere" about femininity and masculinity in relationships. There has been a lot of noise about friends dating their best friends' partners. We are addressing these concerns in this episode with extra special guest @zulugoku.  Be sure to show some love to the episode.  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii Guest: @zulugoku  Watch our Podcast here: https://www.youtube.com/@WhatTheRelationship 

Hello Lovers,  Welcome to another episode of What The Relationship. On today's episode, we're discussing the pressure men experience when it comes to modern-day dating with our extra special guest Makhubo The Chef Sbu.  Do what lovers do: Listen & Share the episode!  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngiiN Special Guest: @makhubo_thechef 

Hello Lovers,  What a year 2022 has been! Lots and lots of lessons have been learned, especially in the love department.  We reflect on our own love journeys with our favorite girl: Bokang!  Be sure to do what lovers do: like & rate the podcast!  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  Guest: @sheisbokang Watch our Podcast on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship Follow us on socials:  IG: @wtrelationship TikTok: What The Relationship

Hello Lovers,  Ever wondered why men just choose to be a problem in relationships? Whether it's being confusing with their time and effort or switching up their behaviors, we unpack this crisis with the spokesperson for men: Lwazi Mandonsela.  Be sure to do what lovers do: like & rate the podcast!  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  Guest: @umsindisiwesiko  Watch our Podcast on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/  Tik-Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wtrpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc 

Hello Lovers,  When you did you realize that your ex was toxic? That's the question we tackle in this episode with sharing our stories about our past relationships. A lot of healing happened, but also a lot of venting, lots and lots of venting.  Be sure to do what lovers do like and rate the podcast.  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii) Guest: @thee_jesseekah  Watch our Podcast on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship 

Hello Lovers,  Do you pay attention to clothing when dating someone? Does your partner's fashion sense impact the way you see your partner? Dress sense is important when you want to attract a new partner. What you wear can make a difference when someone is weighing up their attraction to you.  So how do clothes affect our relationships and dating style is what we're chatting about on this episode with the world's biggest hater: Lwandle Shamase.  Be sure to do what lovers do like and rate the podcast. Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  GUEST: @zulugoku  Want to watch our podcast? Catch us on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/ and Tik-Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wtrpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc 

Hello Lovers, We're back from our winter break. In the great words of RuPaul Charles: "If you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love someone else?" And in this episode, It's all about self-love, particularly our relationship with our bodies. We sat down with our extra special guest, the founder of Wild Thots: Sisipho Gcanga to chat about our past and present relationships with our own bodies.  Be sure to do what lovers do like and rate the podcast.  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  Guest: @sisipho_gcanga  Want to watch our Podcast? Catch us on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship  Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/  and Tik-Tok: @wtrelationship

Hello Lovers,  If you have been in a serious relationship and are thinking of ways of introducing your partner to your parents, have you ever considered that WHO you are dating might not live up to your parents' expectations? Have you ever spoken to your parents about your dating life? Have you realized that you might be an image of your parents in your relationships? I hope you get the hint, in this episode, we discuss our own dating experiences and parents with our extra special guest: Digital Content Queen Bokang.  Be sure to do what lovers do like, and rate the podcast.  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  Guest: @sheisbokang  Subscribe to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship  Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/ 

Hello Lovers,  Did you know that June is Men's Mental Health Month? Did you also know that men are less likely than women to seek help for depression, substance abuse, and stressful life events due to social norms?! We discuss about the real damaging impact it takes to be the Ultimate man with our extra special guest: Lwandle “The Ultimate” Shamase.  Be sure to do what lovers do, like & rate the podcast.  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Guest: @TheUltimate_ZA Subscribe to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/ 

Hello Lovers,  It's common to be attracted to other people, however, it becomes a problem when you're using those thoughts to escape the reality of your relationship. Even worse if you're taking steps towards actually doing it. In this episode, we chat about different scenarios we've been tempted and let's just say that this episode gets lit.  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Extra Special Guest: @silverback_domingos Do what lovers do and subscribe to & rate the podcast!  _____________________ Lovers, want your love story* to be featured? Send us an email at [email protected].  *Love stories will be anonymously read* 

Hi Lovers, After all of the hype from the Netflix Series, The Ultimatum, we reflect on the most shocking things from the show and dive into whether or not an ultimatum is necessary with our male perspective guest Kopano.  Do what lovers do, like & subscribe to the podcast.  Hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Guest: @mrkopano

It is our 50th EPISODE. FIFTY! We reflect on our life journeys from episode one till now and we are venting & reflecting on what happens when finding out that you're dating a person who is a walking red flag. 🚩    Hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii    Do What Lovers Do: Like, Subscribe & Leave a Rating! 

Hello Lovers 💜,  Everyone loves doing the deed. But when it comes to practicing it safely, well... that is another conversation which we are having with our eXXXtra special guest and super fan of the podcast: Lindo. In this episode, we chat about safe sex practices and also vent about a very very interesting STD story.  Do what lovers do: Like, Comment & Rate the episode!  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Guest: @lindo_king 

Hello Lovers,  We get it. Talking about money is the LEAST sexy thing to talk about whilst dating. But the truth is Money TALKS.  And when it comes to Mjolo, well, the dynamics can change when you start having real and honest conversations about goals, dreams, and who gonna pay for the bill? We chat about our money anxieties in relationships.  Do what lovers do: like, share & rate the episode. K. Thanks!  Co-hosts: @lunngii & @candice_chirwa 

Hey Lovers,  Gender Roles. We've heard a lot about them. But we wonder what role they play in our interpersonal relationships. In this episode we're joined by our very own Kevin Hart look alike (Mthobisi), to share the male perspective. It gets a bit tense.  Do what lovers do, like, comment & share the episode!  Co-hosts @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Extra Special Guest: Kevin Mthobisi Hart. 

Hey Lovers,  Ever thought about why sex is always seen as a taboo subject, especially in our relationships? Ever wondered why we can't talk openly about sex? And what's the tea about giving ratings In this episode, we're talking about ALL the GOOD things about sex and ALL the INTERESTING things about sex with our fave sexologist Tii.  Do what lovers do and like, subscribe & leave a rating.  Cohosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii Exxxtra special guest: @goddess_mbeketeli

This week we are joined by Ayanda. We talk about the building of a relationship. What are the tools needed? Money? Communication? Looks? A relationship is like building a boat and each person need to bring the right tools in order to set the sails for your voyage. Be sure to Subscribe, Comment & Share.

Valentines has come and gone... And we're just reflecting in this episode on a number of things. Firstly, what is the right gift to get a guy? What is the obsession with oversized teddy bears? What's the tea with Kanye? We unpack it all on this episode in our temporary virtual podcast home.  Be sure to do what lovers do: Subscribe, Comment & Share.  Hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii

Hello Lovers, You know you can find love in a bar, or an app and allegedly at speed dating. Joined by our OG WTR Host, Kayla, we reflect on our experience of going on a speed dating experience at a place in Fourways that's all about Bums. Please leave us your rating & review! 

Hello Lovers,  Nothing is better than sex, but this episode comes close. Get it? Comes.  In this episode, we get really deep and unpack how we've learned to define and understand sex in the 21st century. Joined by our extra special guest Mathabz aka Eddie who brings in the "male perspective." 

New Year, New Resolutions right? Welp, we are still kind of reflecting romantically on what lessons we've learned from 2021. And is it just us or is there some intense relationship agenda on a specific app? 

In This weeks Episode of WHAT THE RELATIONSHIP we welcome our guest DJ Jorontinah!  We'll be talking all things Nightlife and the Trials and Tribulations of mixing the beats and the Heartstrings!

Why do we never talk about impostor syndrome in dating? We will be navigating the ways that impostor syndrome can impact our personal relationships with our mental health guru Bradley Naicker.

Don’t Judge a Book by its cover. Or a comedian by the size of their microphone. Yes, Comedians. Comedians Deserve Love Too. On this episode, we chat with Phillip Dikotla (@phillipdikotla) on his recruitment process on finding Mjolo. He even gave Candice & Zanèl a Masterclass on conquering online dating.

We are chatting, ranting, venting about the state of online dating in South Africa with our EXTRA SPECIAL guest Lesego Thlabi.

So You Want to Find The One? On this episode we chat about our ideal partners and whether our expectations are realistic or not.

Relationships require us to look at ourselves and work to understand our past and how it shapes us today.  We often get caught up in what we WANT, need and expect from our partner, but often neglect to look within first. With Our Guest: Kayla! 

Well. Listen to us virtually throw hands on tackling these all these what if questions with our cool kid content creator Phil Shidi. Producers Note: We'd like to apologise for the quality of this episode in advance. We had a technical issue that we are now addressing. The Content of this Episode was just too LIT (and Shady) not to post!

Let’s talk facts. We don’t like being played but we also want to understand why people play.  In this episode, we chat with the master of playze - SamPlayze about Mjolo tactics & hookup culture.

Trigger Warnings: Black Girls who are over this pandemic.  In this ranting episode we reflect on how COVID-19 has had an impact on dating and love life.

When you keep your relationship private, it doesn’t mean that you never talk about it or share what’s going on in your love life. It doesn’t mean that you have to bottle anything in either. In this episode, we’re chatting about the art of keeping things private with intimate relationships with our extra special guest - Simon Chisala. @simon_chisala

Love is a crazy thing. Lust is an even crazier thing.  And thinking you like someone is the craziest thing of all. Because let's admit it, we do some crazy sh*t for the attention of our crush.  On this episode, we are joined by Fitness Trainer & Thick Thighs advocate Moagi and our new co-host Zanél to chat about the craziest thing they've done for Mjolo.

There's nothing shameful about being single. The longest relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself. In this episode of WTR, we chat about embracing Singlehood with Foyin (@foyin_og).

They say to never mix business with pleasure... and yet a business partnership can be similar to a romantic relationship. It makes sense that many Couples & Romantic Partners work together on a baby of a different kind; a Company! In this episode, we're tackling the Dynamics of managing Your Business Bag and Relationship Bag. With the Wonderful Go-Getter of Note Felicia Thobejane. 

How would your life change if it was easy to enjoy your choice of partner? Some people are in mixed-race or interracial – couples themselves and see aspects of their own lives reflected in a specific royal couple’s experience.

What’s your vibe? What’s your type? Tall, Dark and Handsome? How about Real, Genuine and Authentic with some ACTUAL DIVERSITY?  In this episode of What The Relationship, we’re chatting about the unrealistic expectations love reality shows create for all of its audience.

Well, we’re all familiar with masculinity in our lives. In our everyday lives we might ignore the implications of masculinity, but what happens when we miss out on the subtle signs of TOXIC masculinity depicted in men in a relationship? In this episode, we are joined by Media Owner, TEDx Speaker, Author, Presenter, Katlego Mabusela to rant & vent about Toxic Masculinity.

In the great words of Rupaul Charles, if you can’t love yourself how in the HELL are you going to love anybody else? On this episode of What The Relationship, we’re chatting about the impact mental health has in couple relationships.

The Patriarchy. We love to HATE it. But how do we navigate it in our relationships especially if our partners are upholders & gatekeepers of the Patriarchy? Bring your Feminist hats for this episode, we’re going to fight the Patriarchy.

PG 20 Content! Put seat Belts on your ears, this is going to be the ride of your life. On this episode of What The Relationship, we’re chatting about how to approach uncomfortable matters of the bedroom with your partner.

There is nothing harder than being madly in love with someone and not being able to see them every day. In this episode of What The Relationship, we chat about Long Distance Relationships. Whether you live in another province or your partner works a lot, finding success in a LDR can be hard.

Dear 2020, we’re breaking up with you. Thank you, but next. On this episode, We’re throwing it back to all the memories we’ve had in 2020 and the lessons we learnt from them. We laugh, we cry but we mostly laugh.

Open Relationships. Polyamory. Friends with Benefits? We don’t know. We’re figuring out what the tea on Open Relationships are about in this episode. Note: DSTV did not pay us for the promotion. But our DMs are always open.

Family ties are precious things. Family ties are treasured things. But what happens when your family don’t tie with your bae? On today’s episode of the What The Relationship, we are talking about relationships and family dynamics.

Feautring @thefabipinheiro Tlof Tlof. We've had our fair share of good and mind blowing experiences, but on today's episode of What The Relationship, we are reflecting on when Tlof Tlof got a bit too much!

For all the taboos that have been dismantled, period sex is still a big one. Yes, you read right - period sex. But fret not, we are here to talk about goin' with the flo in your relationships and we also teach Kayla a thing or two!

Break ups should be considered an extreme sport as they mess with your emotions. On today’s episode we chat about when is the right time to let go after a break up & we’re joined by DJ Beverage (@djbeveragebaby) who shares some conventional wisdom.

Real friends, how many of them would we say we could be very very intimate with? On today's episode of What The Relationship we are chatting about the dynamics of best friends and whether or not we would ever sleep with them. We are joined by the one and only Sam Playze (@bigbabysambruh)

They say money makes the world go round. But what does it do when it’s involved in relationships? In today’s episode of What The Relationship, we investigate the dynamics of Transactional Relationships

On today’s episode of What The Relationship, we chat about how we see effort in relationships and we relive the events of the 30th of September where something very interesting happened.

To Crush or not to Crush? To tell your crush that you’re feeling them or to wait? That is the question that we are unpacking in today’s episode to What The Relationship.

Girl Code. The Unwritten Rules of Friendships. The Commandments of Loyalty in Friendships. The Do’s and Dont’s that outline a good friendship. On today’s episode we explain the concept of Girl Code when it comes to Relationships.

This episode is a Public Service Announcement to Cheaters. You've been warned.  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa ; ntsako_mhlanga ; @kiki_dee33

For most, their wedding day is the happiest day of their life, but for others, it can be a disaster they’d rather forget. On today’s episode, we step into the future & think about what could be the worst thing to happen at our wedding.

Remember this song? Astrid and Martin Sitting in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G! First comes love, Then comes marriage, Then comes a baby in a golden carriage. That’s not all, then comes an episode talking about worst kissing experiences y’all.

To Tell or not to Tell? That is the question of today’s episode. We get into a deep debate about the audacity of Men in relationships & whether it’s okay to share information about relationships when cheating is happening.

There is nothing worse for someone who likes a person to be told they are “too good a friend” for something more to happen. This our dear listeners, means that you have been ‘friend zoned'. On today's episode, we are talking about being in the friend zone, and the dynamics of honesty, trust and communication in a relationship.

Hey Bootiful. We've got something to say. When it comes to text messaging, some of you like to ghost us with the mostest. And it really does hurt us. On today's episode, we are talking about the psychological impact that ghosting has in relationships.

Blue, Yellow, Pink, Purple, Brown, Orange. All the flags in your relationship that are okay, except for RED Flags. On today’s episode of What The Relationship, we examine different types of Red Flags in Relationships and kind of take a detour into recent events involving a damaged G-Wagon & Infidelity.

The dating world is a tricky business. But for every great date, you might have to endure five awful ones. Which can add up to some really, really awkward stories. But while bad dates can be a scary prospect, the best way to get over them is to share them. On today’s episode of What The Relationship, Candice, Kayla & Ntsako spill the tea on their worst date experience.

Welcome to the What The Relationship Podcast. The candles have been set. The vibe is just right. On today's episode, our hosts Candice, Kayla and Ntsako talk about The Love Languages in the 21st century.