Learn research-tested strategies for a happier, more meaningful life, drawing on the science of compassion, gratitude, mindfulness, and awe. Hosted by award-winning professor Dacher Keltner. Co-produced by PRX and UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center.
How Rituals Help Us Process Grief
We explore Día de los Muertos—Day of the Dead—as a ritual that nurtures community, imbues loss with meaning, and helps us process grief while also connecting through shared joy.Summary: We investigate how Día de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead, rituals strengthen family ties and cultural identity, and learn about its evolution from a 3,000 year old practice to a global celebration. We look at key elements like the ofrenda and explore how commercialization—like Mattel’s Day of the Dead Barbie—raises questions about balancing tradition with modern influences.Guest: Michelle Telléz is an Associate Professor in Mexican-American studies at Arizona State University.Learn more about Michelle: https://tinyurl.com/2ph3can7Guest: Mathew Sandoval, a.ka. "Dr. Muerte," an artist and Associate Professor at Arizona State University. He is a leading expert on Día de los Muertos.Learn more about Mathew: mathewsandoval.comTranscript coming soon.
10/24/2024 • 26 minutes, 56 seconds
Happiness Break: A Humming Technique To Calm Your Nerves, with Priyanka Gupta
Discover Humming Bee Breath (Bhramari Pranayama), a soothing breathing technique that uses gentle humming to promote relaxation and mental calm.It’s important to take a moment to pause and take a long, slow exhale as we navigate life. In our podcast series, "Breathe Away Anxiety," we explore ancient breathing techniques alongside cutting-edge research that reveals the powerful effects of slow, controlled breathing on our mental and physical well-being. We also share Happiness Break meditations to guide you through these science-backed methods, helping you reduce anxiety and cultivate calm in your everyday life.Summary: Priyanka Gupta guides us through Bhrmari Pranayama, also known as Humming Bee Breath. Regular practice of this calming technique has been shown to improve sleep, reduce anxiety, and support cardiovascular health.Transcript: https://tinyurl.com/549v3w62Time: 15 minutes, or as long as it feels right.How To Do This Practice:
Inhale slowly and deeply through your nose for 3-4 seconds.
Exhale for 6-8 seconds, making a gentle humming sound (like a buzzing bee) as you breathe out.
Adjust the timing of your inhale and exhale to find a rhythm that feels comfortable for you.
Continue the practice for as long as feels right, focusing on the sound and sensation of your breath.
Note: This version of Bhramari Pranayama, practiced without specific gestures (mudras), was studied by Dr. Gunjan Trivedi.Guest: Priyanka Gupta is a yoga and meditation instructor.Learn more about Priyanka:https://www.yogawithpriyanka.cahttps://www.youtube.com/yogawithpriyankahttps://www.instagram.com/yogawithpriyanka https://linktr.ee/yogawithpriyankaRelated Science of Happiness episodes:The Science of Humming (Bhramari Pranayama): https://tinyurl.com/549v3w62How Breathe Away Anxiety (Cyclic Sighing): https://tinyurl.com/4jyvkj4tHow To Tune Out The Noise: https://tinyurl.com/4hhekjuh Related Happiness Break episodes:A Breathing Technique To Help You Relax (Cyclic Sighing): https://tinyurl.com/3dtwyk44A Mindful Breath Meditation, With Dacher Keltner: https://tinyurl.com/mr9d22kr
10/17/2024 • 4 minutes, 21 seconds
The Science of Humming
Did you know humming can soothe your nervous system? We explore the stress-relieving power of Bhramari Pranayama, also known as humming bee breath, with marathon runner and activist Cal Calamia.Summary: Cal Calamia, the first nonbinary winner of the San Francisco Marathon, explores Bhramari Pranayama, an ancient yogic breathing technique that uses humming to promote relaxation. Dr. Gunjan Trivedi later explains how this "humming bee breath" enhances heart rate variability and why it’s key to managing stress. Part of our ongoing series, Breathe Away Anxiety: https://tinyurl.com/4jyvkj4tTime: 15 minutes, or as long as it feels right.How To Do This Practice:
Inhale slowly and deeply through your nose for 3-4 seconds.
Exhale for 6-8 seconds, making a gentle humming sound (like a buzzing bee) as you breathe out.
Adjust the timing of your inhale and exhale to find a rhythm that feels comfortable for you.
Continue the practice for as long as feels right, focusing on the sound and sensation of your breath.
Note: This version of Bhramari Pranayama, practiced without specific hand gestures (mudras), was studied by Dr. Gunjan Trivedi.Guest: Cal Calamia is an activist, teacher, poet, and the first nonbinary winner of the San Francisco marathon. Learn more about Cal: https://tinyurl.com/25ft296xGuest: Dr. Gunjan Trivedi is the cofounder of Society for Energy & Emotions at Wellness Space in Ahmedabad, India.Learn more about Dr. Trivedi and Wellness Space: https://tinyurl.com/r53x6x3xRead Dr. Trivedi's study about Bhramari Pranayama: https://tinyurl.com/2xnjk6ahRelated Science of Happiness episodes: How Breathe Away Anxiety (Cyclic Sighing): https://tinyurl.com/4jyvkj4tHow To Tune Out The Noise: https://tinyurl.com/4hhekjuh Related Happiness Break episodes: Happiness Break: A Breathing Technique To Help You Relax (Cyclic Sighing): https://tinyurl.com/3dtwyk44A Mindful Breath Meditation, With Dacher Keltner: https://tinyurl.com/mr9d22krTranscript: Coming soon.
10/10/2024 • 22 minutes, 30 seconds
Happiness Break: A Breathing Technique To Help You Relax (Cyclic Sighing)
Dr. David Spiegel guides you through cyclic sighing, a breathwork practice that helps reduce stress and anxiety. Summary: Dr. David Spiegel guides you through a simple yet powerful breathwork practice that can help reduce stress, anxiety, and boost overall well-being. Backed by Stanford research, this simple technique uses slow, controlled exhales to calm the nervous system and improve overall well-being.Transcript: https://tinyurl.com/3dtwyk44Time: 5 minutes
Prepare: Find a comfortable seated or standing position in a quiet environment. Relax your shoulders and jaw.
First Inhale: Inhale slowly and deeply through your nose. Start with your abdomen, allowing it to expand (diaphragmatic breathing) as you fill your lungs about halfway. Hold this breath briefly.
Second Inhale: Continue inhaling through your nose, now expanding your chest to completely fill your lungs. Hold this combined breath (abdomen and chest filled) for a moment.
Exhale: Exhale slowly and completely through your mouth. Make sure the exhale is gentle and lasts about twice as long as the combined inhales.
Repeat the Cycle: Repeat the inhale sequence for a total of 3 cycles (or as desired): Start with a diaphragmatic inhale through your nose, expanding your abdomen. Follow with a chest expansion inhale through your nose to fill your lungs completely. Hold briefly after each combined inhale. Exhale slowly and completely through your mouth, ensuring it's twice as long as the inhales.
Reflect and Relax: After completing the cycles, take a moment to observe how your body feels. Notice any sensations of relaxation, reduced tension, or a calmer state of mind.
Guest: Dr. David Spiegel is Willson Professor and Associate Chair of Psychiatry & Behavioral Sciences at Stanford University School of Medicine. He is also the co-founder of the clinically backed self-hypnosis app Reveri. Read Dr. Spiegel’s cyclic sighing study here: https://tinyurl.com/mrxbkyr2Related Science of Happiness episodes:Breathe Away Anxiety (Cyclic Sighing): https://tinyurl.com/3u7vsrr5How To Tune Out The Noise: https://tinyurl.com/4hhekjuh Related Happiness Break episodes:A Mindful Breath Meditation, With Dacher Keltner: https://tinyurl.com/mr9d22krFollow us on Instagram: @scienceofhappinesspod
10/3/2024 • 8 minutes, 38 seconds
How To Breathe Away Anxiety
It’s important to take a moment to pause and take a long, slow exhale as we navigate life. In our podcast series, "Breathe Away Anxiety," we explore ancient breathing techniques alongside cutting-edge research that reveals the powerful effects of slow, controlled breathing on our mental and physical well-being. We also share Happiness Break meditations to guide you through these science-backed methods, helping you reduce anxiety and cultivate calm in your everyday life.We explore cyclic sighing, a simple breathing technique that can help lift your mood and lower anxiety.Summary: Cyclic sighing is a breathing exercise that involves inhaling through your nose, filling your lungs, and then slowly exhaling through your mouth. The idea is to inhale briefly but deeply, and then exhale for longer. Research suggests that the slow exhale is what's most relaxing. We hear from pro-surfer Sarah Gerhardt about and Stanford scientist David Spiegel. Transcript: https://tinyurl.com/3u7vsrr5Time: 5 minutes
Prepare: Find a comfortable seated or standing position in a quiet environment. Relax your shoulders and jaw.
First Inhale: Inhale slowly and deeply through your nose. Start with your abdomen, allowing it to expand (diaphragmatic breathing) as you fill your lungs about halfway. Hold this breath briefly.
Second Inhale: Continue inhaling through your nose, now expanding your chest to completely fill your lungs. Hold this combined breath (abdomen and chest filled) for a moment.
Exhale: Exhale slowly and completely through your mouth. Make sure the exhale is gentle and lasts about twice as long as the combined inhales. Repeat the Cycle: Repeat the inhale sequence for a total of 3 cycles (or as desired): Start with a diaphragmatic inhale through your nose, expanding your abdomen. Follow with a chest expansion inhale through your nose to fill your lungs completely. Hold briefly after each combined inhale. Exhale slowly and completely through your mouth, ensuring it's twice as long as the inhales.
Reflect and Relax: After completing the cycles, take a moment to observe how your body feels. Notice any sensations of relaxation, reduced tension, or a calmer state of mind.
Guest: Sarah Gerhardt is a pro-surfer chemistry professor based out of Santa Cruz, California Guest: Dr. David Spiegel is Willson Professor and Associate Chair of Psychiatry & Behavioral Sciences at Stanford University School of Medicine. He is also the co-founder of the clinically backed self-hypnosis app Reveri. Read Dr. Spiegel’s cyclic sighing study here: https://tinyurl.com/mrxbkyr2Related Science of Happiness episodes:How To Tune Out The Noise: https://tinyurl.com/4hhekjuh Related Happiness Break episodes:A Mindful Breath Meditation, With Dacher Keltner: https://tinyurl.com/mr9d22kr
9/26/2024 • 23 minutes, 48 seconds
Happiness Break: The Healing Power of Your Own Touch, with Kristin Neff
Dr. Kristin Neff guides us in a self-compassionate touch exercise, and shares the many research-backed reasons to cultivate kindness towards oneself.Transcript: https://tinyurl.com/5xt3mz3hSummary: Dr. Kristin Neff guides us through various practices of self-compassionate touch, such as placing hands over the heart or cradling the face, to provide comfort and support. Research shows that self-compassion can improve mental and physical well-being and activates the parasympathetic nervous system, reducing stress. Guest: Dr. Kristin Neff is an associate professor in the University of Texas at Austin's department of educational psychology. She's also the co-author of 'Mindful Self-Compassion for Burnout,' which offers tools to help individuals heal and recharge from burnout.How To Do This Self-Compassionate Touch Practice: Take a moment to try these different touches and see which feels most supportive to you. Whenever you feel stressed or upset, or just need some extra support, use this compassionate touch to remind yourself that you’re here for you. Research shows the practice works best when practiced regularly.Duration: 20 seconds, practiced daily or as often as you can.Find a comfortable space. Sit or stand somewhere you feel relaxed and at ease. Try out these practices while thinking kind words to yourself, as though you were comforting a dear friend in distress.1. Touch Your Heart: Place both hands gently over the center of your chest, one on top of the other. Apply just enough pressure to feel connected, but not uncomfortable. Focus on the warmth of your touch. 2. Feel Your Strength: If it feels right, make a gentle fist with your left hand, symbolizing strength, and place it over your heart. Rest your right hand on top of the fist to combine the feeling of strength and love. 3. Cradle Your Face: Gently cup each of your cheeks with your hands, holding your face as you would a loved one in distress. Let the touch be soft and caring. 4. Support Your Core: Place both hands over your solar plexus, just below your ribcage, and imagine you're holding and supporting your core. This can be particularly comforting if you're feeling fear or deep emotions. 5. Give Yourself a Hug: Cross your arms, resting each hand on the opposite shoulder. Gently squeeze yourself, adjusting the pressure to feel comforting but not overwhelming.Related Science of Happiness episodes:
How to Feel Better About Yourself
Give Yourself A Break
If You Want to Be More Productive, Cut Yourself Some Slack
Related Happiness Break mediations:What to do When you're Struggling, With Spring Washam
9/19/2024 • 10 minutes, 7 seconds
How To Show Up For Yourself
We explore the science behind how self-compassionate touch can help us feel better about ourselves.Link to transcript: https://tinyurl.com/4nm5827fSummary: Brittany Luce, host of NPR's "It's Been A Minute," shares her experience with self-compassionate touch. She did it for 20 seconds, almost daily. to quiet her inner critic and foster self-compassion, especially during moments of stress or self-judgment. Researcher Eli Susman also shares the fascinating science behind this practice, and how despite being short and sweet —it may still be an effective way to cultivate self compassion -- especially if you find ways to make it a habit.How To Do This Self-Compassionate Touch Practice:Take a moment to try these different touches and see which feels most supportive to you. Whenever you feel stressed or upset, or just need some extra support, use this compassionate touch to remind yourself that you’re here for you. Research shows the practice works best when practiced regularly.Duration: 20 seconds, practiced daily or as often as you can.Find a comfortable space. Sit or stand somewhere you feel relaxed and at ease. Try out these micro practices while thinking kind words to yourself, as though you were comforting a dear friend in distress.1. Touch Your Heart: Place both hands gently over the center of your chest, one on top of the other. Apply just enough pressure to feel connected, but not uncomfortable. Focus on the warmth of your touch. 2. Feel Your Strength: If it feels right, make a gentle fist with your left hand, symbolizing strength, and place it over your heart. Rest your right hand on top of the fist to combine the feeling of strength and love. 3. Cradle Your Face: Gently cup each of your cheeks with your hands, holding your face as you would a loved one in distress. Let the touch be soft and caring. 4. Support Your Core: Place both hands over your solar plexus, just below your ribcage, and imagine you're holding and supporting your core. This can be particularly comforting if you're feeling fear or deep emotions. 5. Give Yourself a Hug: Cross your arms, resting each hand on the opposite shoulder. Gently squeeze yourself, adjusting the pressure to feel comforting but not overwhelming.Guest: Brittany Luse is an award-winning journalist, cultural critic. and host of the NPR podcast “It's Been a Minute.”Learn more about Luse: https://tinyurl.com/3bjt6v7mFollow Luse on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bmluseListen to the NPR podcast "It's Been A Minute": https://tinyurl.com/3uek8ey8Guest: Eli Susman is a researcher and Ph.D. Candidate in Psychology at UC BerkeleyRead Eli Susman's study on self-compassionate touch: https://tinyurl.com/2uh783z8Related Science of Happiness episodes:
How to Feel Better About Yourself
Give Yourself A Break
If You Want to Be More Productive, Cut Yourself Some Slack
Related Happiness Break mediations:What to do When you're Struggling, With Spring WashamTranscript coming soon.
9/12/2024 • 21 minutes, 51 seconds
Happiness Break: A Note to Self on Forgiveness, with Alex Elle (encore)
Letting go of our regrets can motivate us to improve and help us grow. Alex Elle, a certified breath work and writing coach, guides us through a meditation to forgive and accept ourselves.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/5dzrzm4zHow to Do This Practice:1. Take a deep breath. As you exhale, remember all you have done in the past that led you to come to be where you are today.2. Remember that you are allowed to forgive yourself and let it go. Give yourself permission to release any shame that you’re carrying. Forgive yourself.3. Think of the good things about yourself. Trust your worth and acknowledge that you are evolving. Remember, you are worthy of good things even when you think you are now.4. When you’re ready, you can bring your attention back to the present moment. Take a few deep breaths in through the nose, and out through the nose. Drop your shoulder and unclench your jaw.5. If you’d like to take this practice a step further, you can write your own letter of self forgiveness, it can start with “Dear self, I forgive you for …”Today’s Happiness Break host:Alex Elle is a certified breath work coach, author and restorative writing teacher. Her new book, How We Heal, will come out soon.
Learn more about Alex and her new book: https://www.alexelle.com/about
Follow Alex on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alex/
Follow Alex on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@easewithalexl
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How to Forgive Your Father: https://tinyurl.com/2p98e3cy
Nine Steps to Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/mwwhbrs6
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A Meditation for Seeking Forgiveness, With Shelly Tygielski: https://tinyurl.com/yynvm6av
Radical Acceptance, With Tara Brach: https://tinyurl.com/4k3f563m
Message us or leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod. E-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
9/5/2024 • 11 minutes, 12 seconds
Are You Following Your Inner Compass?
What if you had a magic wand and could better the world in any way? What would you do? We explore a practice shown to help you find your purpose and feel more motivated, resilient and fulfilled in life.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/bp7wv7ftEpisode SummaryWhat’s your greater purpose in life? It’s a tough question, especially if you’re feeling uncertain about your future. In this episode, our guest explores that very question—and gets handed a magic wand with the power to make the world a better place.How To Do The Magic Wand Practice
Set aside 15 minutes to reflect and write.
Think about the world you live in – your home, your community, and the world at large.
Imagine you’ve been given a magic wand, and you can change anything you want to change in the world. What would you want to be different? Why? Describe your ideal world in writing.
Now, reflect on what it would take to change the world in this way. Is there anything you can do to help move the world closer to this ideal? If so, explain how; if not, explain why not.
Guest: Selina Bilal is a UC Berkeley undergraduate student who is studying psychology, and a Fellow at Greater Good Science Center, where we produce The Science of HappinessExpert Guest: Kendall Cotton Bronk is a professor of psychology in the Division of Behavioral & Social Sciences at Claremont University.
Learn more about Bronk’s work: https://tinyurl.com/3s9sjp2d
Connect with Bronk: https://tinyurl.com/3p5cepy3
Science of Happiness Episodes like this one
How to Find Your Spark in Life: https://tinyurl.com/yc8j9a4u
What’s Your “Why” in Life? https://tinyurl.com/2vnaswpt
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A Meditation to Inspire a Sense of Purpose: https://tinyurl.com/54uuvh7z
Visualizing Your Purpose, With Dacher: https://tinyurl.com/3jvnv35y
Message us or leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod. E-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
8/29/2024 • 20 minutes, 45 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation on Becoming A Gift To Life
Our happiness is interconnected with the well-being of others, both people and the natural world. Step outside of you can, or imagine the outdoors from wherever you are now, and join us for a meditation that’ll help us be better stewards of the natural world.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/y3yfjsxaEpisode SummaryA meditation on how we can give back to the earth, led by indigenous activist, artist, and scholar Dr. Lyla June Johnston.How To Do This Practice
Sit and take four deep breaths to honor the four sacred directions.
Take a moment to stop, and step outside and see what life flourishes from.
Take notice of the little things – a bird bath that provides a safe place for the birds to drink and to bathe.
Think about how you can give a small gift to life., Maybe you could plant fruit or nut-bearing trees that could feed you,your neighbors, and the wildlife around you.
Following this meditation, think about ways that you can make this a reality. You could order a bird bath from your local feed store.
Think of the metaphor of the bird bath. A bird bath is a human creation. And it's a gift to birds. It doesn't benefit us at all. It truly is just a gift to a species outside of our own.
Reflect on how this is truly what human beings were born to do – born to be givers, stewards, and caretakers of the earth.
Guest Host: Dr. Lyla June Johnston is an indigenous activist, artist, and scholar from the Naaneesht'ezhi Taach'iinii clan of the Diné Nation.
For more on her work: https://www.lylajune.com/
Watch her TED talk: https://tinyurl.com/frbe5ya9
Follow her on instagram: https://tinyurl.com/bdfbf8yx
Follow her on X: https://tinyurl.com/4jj57n25
Follow her on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/3cskuh7x
Science of Happiness Episodes like this one
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How to Be in Harmony in Nature—Wherever You Are, With Yuria Celidwen: https://tinyurl.com/ynxeeb7a
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Feeling the Awe of Nature From Anywhere, With Dacher: https://tinyurl.com/y4mm4wu9
Message us or leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod. E-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness! Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
8/22/2024 • 9 minutes, 14 seconds
How To Let In New Perspectives
With the U.S. election swiftly approaching, the political divide can feel overwhelming. But what happens when we recognize the limits of our knowledge? Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/83a5wbkp Episode SummaryWhen we internally acknowledge the limits of our knowledge, we create space to engage with other points of view. Allowing new perspectives in can help us better assess arguments, and decrease hubris. We will hear from psychologists Tania Israel and Daryl Van Tongeren about embracing opinions different from our own.How To Do This PracticeReflect on an issue you feel strongly about. Ask yourself the following questions when listening to someone’s opinion that differs from your own:
How can other people help me to develop a broader or deeper understanding of this topic?
Whose story isn't being told here?
What's the perspective I'm not seeing?
Check in with yourself as you're reading the news, are you just saying, “I agree with that perspective” or are there moments in which you can say, “This challenges me.”
This episode was supported by a grant from the John Templeton Foundation, as part of our project on “Expanding Awareness of the Science of Intellectual Humility.” To learn more, go to ggsc.berkeley.edu/ih.Today’s guests: Our guest host today is Allison Briscoe-Smith, a psychologist and Senior Fellow at The Greater Good Science Center.Tania Israel is a psychology professor at UC Santa Barbara and author of the new book Facing the Fracture: How to Navigate the Challenges of Living in a Divided Nation.Daryl Van Tongeren is a psychology professor at Hope College and author of the book Humble: Free Yourself from the Traps of a Narcissistic World.
Learn more about Allison Briscoe-Smith: https://tinyurl.com/p3eexvkf
Take BerkeleyX: Bridging Differences by Allison Briscoe-Smith: https://tinyurl.com/58z9vmvb
Read Facing the Fracture: How to Navigate the Challenges of Living in a Divided Nation, by Tania Israel: https://tinyurl.com/yeyw7k6j
Read Humble: Free Yourself from the Traps of a Narcissistic World, by Daryl Van Tongeren: https://www.darylvantongeren.com/books
Science of Happiness Episodes like this one:A Way to Make Work More Meaningful: https://tinyurl.com/mtpay9jwThe Questions to Ask Yourself in an Argument: https://tinyurl.com/3uajhp4tWhen It’s Hard to Connect, Try Being Curious: https://tinyurl.com/nhzj52vcMaking Difficult Interactions More Respectful: https://tinyurl.com/bddafcrwHappiness Break Related Episodes:A Meditation For Connecting In Polarized Times, With Scott Shigeoka: https://tinyurl.com/y6e4vdsdDirect message us or leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod. You can also e-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness! Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
8/15/2024 • 23 minutes, 30 seconds
Happiness Break: Take a Break With Our Loving-Kindness Meditation
Loving-kindness meditation, or “metta,” has its roots in Buddhist traditions that date back thousands of years. Studies show it can help nourish your capacity to express love, feel more satisfied in life, and enhance brain areas involved in emotional processing and empathy. Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/5h3nfwjbEpisode SummaryDacher guides us in a meditation that has been practiced over thousands of years. Together, we will mentally extend goodwill, kindness, and warmth towards others and ourselves, in a series of mantras. How To Do This Practice
Find a comfortable position, you may lie down or be seated.
Bring your attention and awareness to the breath at the belly. Inhale and exhale, noticing sensations of breath.
Bring to mind someone who you really believe has your best interests in their heart.
Choose just one person and bring them to mind as though they were next to you.
Imagine them truly wishing for you to be happy and fulfilled. Imagine their smile. Feel their intention of goodness.
For a couple more breaths, really take in this wish for your happiness and joy from this person who cares for you.
Now letting go of the image of this person, relax into these sensations and feelings for just a couple breaths.
With this feeling of support and happiness, bring to mind someone who could really use some extra love.
Now repeat to yourself, “May you be safe. May you be happy. May you be healthy. May you live with ease.”
As you inhale, draw in this intention. And as you exhale, send it out.
Twice more—inhale, drawing in this intention. And then exhale, sending out.
Release the image of this person. And just notice the sensations in your own body.
Today’s Host: Dacher Keltner Science of Happiness episodes like this one:
24 Hours of Kindness: https://tinyurl.com/3dnye335
Being Kind Is Good for Your Health: https://tinyurl.com/2afe5v79
How to Love People You Don’t Like: https://tinyurl.com/5sj388yj
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Wrap Yourself in Kindness, With Jack Kornfield: https://tinyurl.com/3cd6xj23
How to Be Your Own Best Friend, with Kristin Neff: https://tinyurl.com/yc8emecm
Wishing Others Well, With Anushka Fernandopulle: https://tinyurl.com/3w2sn96m
This episode was supported by a grant from the John Templeton Foundation on "Spreading Love Through the Media".Tell us about your experiences practicing loving-kindness meditation! Direct message us or leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod. You can also e-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
8/8/2024 • 6 minutes, 7 seconds
Catch Yourself in a Dream (Encore)
Have you ever known you were dreaming while you were asleep? Our guests try practices to help induce lucid dreams, and we hear what they can teach us about consciousness.
8/1/2024 • 20 minutes, 53 seconds
Happiness Break: Pause to Look at the Sky, With Dacher (Encore)
Take a moment to appreciate the beauty and vastness of the sky. Dacher Keltner guides us through a practice of pausing to turn your gaze to the sky as a pathway to awe, creativity and wonder.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/yc5xfwp4Practice:
Go someplace where you feel safe and also have a nice view of the sky.
First, focus on your breathing. Take a few slow inhales and even slower exhales. As you breathe in and out, relax your shoulders, your hands, and your face.
On the next breath in, look up at the sky. Notice how vast it is.
Breathing naturally, notice everything you can about the sky. What colors are present? Are there any clouds? Do you see any gradation of light?
Expand your gaze to get the fullest view and sense of the sky that you can. Spend a few moments taking it in.
On the final deep breaths in and out, reflect on how doing this practice has made you feel.
Today’s Happiness Break host:Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.Check out Dacher’s most recent book, Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:Why we Should Look up at the Sky (Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/fn3bttw6Six Ways to Incorporate Awe into Your Daily Life: https://tinyurl.com/3j5hdtj7How to Choose a Type of Mindfulness Meditation: https://tinyurl.com/py6b729hHow Nature Can Make You Kinder, Happier, and More Creative: https://tinyurl.com/2fmpdpkjWhy is Nature so Good For Your Mental Health? https://tinyurl.com/23zavth3Tell us about your experiences with wildlife! Leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod. You can also e-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
7/25/2024 • 7 minutes, 3 seconds
The Healing Effects of Experiencing Wildlife
Safe encounters with wildlife can deepen our appreciation for nature, and for other people. Craig Foster of “My Octopus Teacher” shares his transformational experiences with the animals of the ocean.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/murmd98bEpisode SummaryVenturing into nature and experiencing wildlife can be transformative. Safe interactions with wildlife encourage us to be more in relation with nature, and each other. In this episode, we hear from Craig Foster of “My Octopus Teacher” and how his interactions with sea creatures have changed his life. We also hear from environmental researcher Liz Lev about the effect on our well-being that being in wild spaces provides.How To Do This Practice:The next time you want to explore the outdoors, find the “wildest” space you can think of. Explore the “wild spaces” in your neighborhood or city, and reflect on your experiences with wildlife. Today’s guests: Craig Foster is the director of My Octopus Teacher, and the co-founder of Sea Change Project. Liz Lev is an environmental researcher and research associate at Harder+Company who that specializes in the intersections of environmental and climate justice issues, mental health, and urban planning.
Learn more about Craig’s work:https://tinyurl.com/tyctr6fu
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Watch My Octopus Teacher: https://tinyurl.com/e87edt4b
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Learn more about Liz’s research: https://tinyurl.com/y2afdxpr
Read about Liz’s research on wild spaces: https://tinyurl.com/msjsz32t
Science of Happiness Episodes like this one:Experience Nature Wherever You Are, with Dacher (Encore): https://tinyurl.com/aj34s585How Exploring New Places Can Make You Feel Happier: https://tinyurl.com/4ufn2tpnWhy We Should Look up at the Sky: https://tinyurl.com/mpn9vj2tHow Birdsong Can Help Your Mental Health: https://tinyurl.com/3tey4rb5Happiness Break Related Episodes:Feeling the Awe of Nature From Anywhere, With Dacher: https://tinyurl.com/y4mm4wu9How to Ground Yourself: https://tinyurl.com/2wv69kwsTell us about your experiences with wildlife! Direct message us or leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod. You can also e-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
7/18/2024 • 24 minutes, 55 seconds
Happiness Break: Experience Nature Wherever You Are, with Dacher (Encore)
Just a few moments of tuning into nature can make you feel more inspired, connected, and less lonely. Let us guide you through a five-minute noticing nature practice — you don't even have to leave your neighborhood.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/aj34s585How to Do This Practice:
Find somewhere where you can focus on the natural environment, like your backyard.
Take a few slow, deep breaths. Close your eyes or soften your gaze.
Notice your belly and chest rise and fall as you breathe. Note the physical sensations of your breath.
If you closed your eyes, open them. Let your breath fall into its natural rhythm.
Look around you and let your eyes wander slowly through your surroundings: the plants, animals, and bugs.
Let yourself be curious about anything that catches your eye and moves you. Rest your awareness there. Pause to appreciate it, and let it hold your attention for a few moments.
Turn your awareness to your emotions. How are you feeling? When something you see evokes an emotion, take a mental photo of it. What about it captivated you? What did it make you feel?
Write that down in just a few words or sentences, or make a mental note of it. Let your gaze wander again whenever you’re ready, repeating these steps.
Today’s Happiness Break host:Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the GGSC and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.If you enjoyed this Happiness Break, you may also like these Happiness Breaks:Feeling the Awe of Nature From Anywhere, With Dacher: https://tinyurl.com/y4mm4wu9How to Ground Yourself: https://tinyurl.com/2wv69kwsCheck out these episodes of The Science of Happiness Walk Outside with Inside Out’s Pete Docter: https://tinyurl.com/23vpuj8jWhy We Should Look up at the Sky: https://tinyurl.com/mpn9vj2tHow Birdsong Can Help Your Mental Health: https://tinyurl.com/3tey4rb5Tell us about your nature experience! Direct message us or leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod. You can also e-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
7/11/2024 • 2 minutes, 56 seconds
How Exploring New Places Can Make You Feel Happier
Exploring novel places and having diverse experiences is important to our well-being and can make us feel happier. This week, Ike Sriskandarajah, a producer for This American Life, takes us with him as he explores new parts of New York City.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/seystc6cEpisode summary: Shaking yourself out of your normal routine can be hard–but studies show it’s worth it. Creating space for variety, novelty, and awe in our lives is essential for our well-being. Exploring new and diverse environments in our daily life can lead to better stress resilience and can make us feel better. In this episode, investigative journalist Ike Sriskandarajah, shares his experience exploring new places with his family in New York City. Then, we hear from Aaron Heller, a neuroscientist and assistant professor at the University of Miami's Department of Psychology, who studies how exposure to novel places can make us happier. Practice: Break out of your usual daily routine–take a route to work you have never taken before, or visit a park you’ve never gone to. Explore a place you have never been to.Today’s guests: Ike Sriskandarajah is an investigative journalist and Producer at This American Life.Aaron Heller is a neuroscientist and assistant professor at the University of Miami's Department of Psychology.
Learn more about Ike’s work: https://tinyurl.com/4auuk7pd
Learn about Ike’s work at Reveal: https://tinyurl.com/serhuyt5
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Learn more about Aaron’s research: https://tinyurl.com/yxrpm944
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Science of Happiness Episodes like this one
How Awe Brings Us Together: https://tinyurl.com/bddavvbv
Can You Find Wonder in the Ordinary? https://tinyurl.com/4j8h4dzk
Happiness Break Related Episodes
Feeling the Awe of Nature From Anywhere, With Dacher: https://tinyurl.com/y4mm4wu9
Feeling the Awe of Nature From Anywhere, With Dacher https://tinyurl.com/y4mm4wu9
Tell us about your experience exploring new places! Leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod, or e-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
7/4/2024 • 20 minutes, 55 seconds
Happiness Break: How to Ground Yourself in Nature, with Yuria Celidwen (Encore)
Connect to yourself and the land you stand on in under 10 minutes with this grounding practice led by Indigenous scholar Dr. Yuria Celidwen.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/3at8hrsuHow to Do This Practice:
If possible, go outside and find some natural ground, like grass or dirt. If you're wearing shoes or socks, take them off and place the soles of your feet directly on the ground.
Bring your attention to the earth beneath you. Allow it to hold you, paying attention to how it feels — soft, firm, reliable. Imagine you're starting to grow roots from the tip of your toes, digging deep into the earth.
Visualize energy and wellness flowing through your roots to your toes, into the soles of your feet, your thighs and knees, then base of the spine and upwards into your chest, expanding the whole center of your chest. Take a full, deep breath and contemplate the openness you feel in your chest.
Look up towards the sky and open your eyes, allowing all of your senses to awaken to the sounds, smells, colors, and life around you. Feel their presence.
Today’s Happiness Break host:Dr. Yuria Celidwen is an Indigenous studies, cultural psychology, and contemplative science scholar of Indigenous Nahua and Maya descent. She also works at the United Nations to advance the rights of Indigenous peoples and the Earth.Learn more about Dr. Celidwen’s work: https://www.yuriacelidwen.com/More resources from UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center:
Listen to Dr. Yuria Celidwen on The Science of Happiness episode about listening to your elders: https://tinyurl.com/yr2ydk43
Does Nature Make You More Mindful? https://tinyurl.com/4wcreu9z
Why You Need More Nature in Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/ye282e5d
Being Around Nature Helps You Love Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/57d5ntxm
How Modern Life Became Disconnected From Nature: https://tinyurl.com/yc6u73f9
Listen to The Science of Happiness episode featuring podcast host Krista Tippett, on Being Grounded in Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/8t7rr4yy
Tell us about your grounding practice experience! Direct message us or leave a comment on Instagram @scienceofhappinesspod. You can also e-mail us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
6/27/2024 • 10 minutes, 27 seconds
How To Unwind By Doing Mindful Yard Work
Everyday activities, such as cleaning and gardening, can be sources of joy and opportunities for mindfulness. This week, our guest shares his experience practicing mindful sweeping on the temple stairs in Kyoto, Japan with Shoukei Matsumoto, a Buddhist monk.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/3r6ju2whThe Science of Happiness is now Instagram, and we'd love for you to follow us! You can find us at @ScienceofHappinessPod. We're going to go behind the scenes of our episodes, and share how to do the practices we talk about on the show. The first 100 followers will be included in a raffle to win a signed copy of host Dacher Keltner's newest book, Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life.Episode summary:Many of us see yard work as a chore. But what if we shift our perspective and instead see it as an opportunity to practice mindfulness? This week on The Science of Happiness, our guest shares his experience of sweeping the steps of a Buddhist temple in Kyoto, Japan, and the mindfulness and mental processes involved in the practice. Then, we hear from Shoukei Matsumoto, a Buddhist monk and author, about the practice of cleaning as a form of mindfulness.Practice:The next time you’re tending to your garden, picking up trash on your sidewalk, watering the plants, or doing other chores, spend a few minutes practicing mindfulness by slowing down and really being present with the activity and your own body's movements while you do it. Today’s guests:Matt Heron is a Canadian who has been living and working in Japan for five years. Shoukei Matsumoto is a Buddhist monk and cleaning enthusiast in Kyoto, Japan. He is the author of “A Monk’s Guide to a Clean House and Mind,” which has been translated into 18 languages, including English
Follow Shoukei on instagram: https://tinyurl.com/4e2jk7xt
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Learn more about Interbeing: https://www.interbeing.co.jp/en
Read “A Monk’s Guide to a Clean House and Mind” : https://tinyurl.com/7u3zhvcz
More episodes like this one:How to Make Work More Satisfying: https://tinyurl.com/3fa925yfWhy We Should Seek Beauty in the Everyday Life: https://tinyurl.com/26dskv38Related Happiness Breaks (a short, guided practice by The Science of Happiness) Contemplating Our Interdependence With Nature, With Dekila Chungyalpa: https://tinyurl.com/erz2f5deHappiness Break: How to Be in Harmony in Nature—Wherever You Are, With Yuria Celidwen: https://tinyurl.com/ynxeeb7aTell us about your mindful gardening experiences! Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.This episode is sponsored by Tianren Culture, whose vision is “One Health, One Wellness.” Tianren Culture is a next-generation social platform that acts as a catalyst to foster positive global values and lifestyles.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
6/20/2024 • 23 minutes, 9 seconds
Happiness Break: How to Relax Your Body Through A Standing Meditation, With Sherry Zhang
Last week on The Science of Happiness, we discussed the scientifically proven health benefits of the ancient Chinese practice of qigong with Harvard psychologist Peter Wayne. This week, we practice a standing meditation, with qigong master Sherry Zhang. Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/3t5wdexeHow to Do This Practice:
Take a moment to stand upright with your feet together and take a few deep breaths.
Have your eyes looking forward.
Soften your knee.
Gently shift your weight onto your left leg and step your right foot aside.
Face your palms inward, with your fingers relaxed and pointing down.
With your chin slightly in, relax both shoulders, and tuck in your tailbone.
Ground your feet and relax your knees, armpits, and fingers.
Take a deep breath and exhale.
Spend a few moments focused on your natural breathing and relaxed body.
Now, bring your right foot back, so both feet are together.
Lengthen your spine.
Take a moment to observe how your body feels, until your breathing slows.
Next, bring your hands together and rub them together vigorously, creating heat in between your palms.
Now "wash" your face with your hands.
"Wash" the side of your ears, to the back of your ears, the back of your neck.
Now relax both hands at the front of your chest.
Repeat this practice for one to five minutes.
Today’s Happiness Break host:Sherry Zhang is the founder of Tai Chi Solutions and a Master Teacher of Qigong. She is faculty at Pacific College of Health and Sciences in New York City.
Learn more about Sherry’s work:https://www.taichisolution.org/
Follow Sherry on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taichisolution/
Follow Sherry on Twitter: https://twitter.com/taichisolution
Follow Sherry on Linked-In: https://tinyurl.com/ywca6nd5
Follow Sherry on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sherrytaichi/
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If you enjoyed this Happiness Break, you may also like these ones:Walk Your Way to Calm (Guided Meditation), with Dacher: https://tinyurl.com/4w37zwpyA Walking Meditation With Dan Harris of 10% Happier: https://tinyurl.com/4dv4ckzcCheck out these episodes of The Science of Happiness about movement-based practices: How Qigong Can Calm Your Mind and Body: https://tinyurl.com/2ywsck4eEpisode 5: Walk Outside with Inside Out’s Pete Docter: https://tinyurl.com/2nfc94zbWe love hearing from you! Tell us what movement based practice you’ve tried!Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Find us on Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/6s39rzusShare this Happiness Break!
6/13/2024 • 5 minutes, 44 seconds
How Qigong Can Calm Your Mind and Body
Studies show qigong can strengthen your body and mind, and reduce cortisol levels. We explore this Chinese meditative movement practice that dates back over 4,000 years.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/2ywsck4eEpisode summary: Finding calm in your day to day life can be stressful, especially in a world that seems to be moving at such a rapid pace. Your life can change in an instant– and it can be really difficult to get yourself on your feet again. On this episode of The Science of Happiness, Ace Boral, an Oakland-based chef, joins us to try Qigong. Ace talks about his health struggles over the past four years, and how incorporating Qigong into his life over the past few weeks has helped him find mental clarity, emotional balance, and confidence in himself. Then we hear from Harvard psychologist Peter Wayne who has practiced and studied the benefits of Xigong. Today’s guests: Ace Boral is an Oakland-based chef.Peter Wayne is an Associate Professor of Medicine, and serves as the Director for the Osher Center for Integrative Medicine, jointly based at Harvard Medical School and Brigham and Women’s Hospital.Learn more about Peter’s work: https://tinyurl.com/342xndnaMore episodes like this one:
Moving Through Space, with Dacher Keltner: https://tinyurl.com/3u844n4d
The Science of Synchronized Movement: https://tinyurl.com/n4bcrb5j
Tell us about your experiences with Qigong. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
6/6/2024 • 22 minutes, 37 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation on How To Be Your Best Self, with Justin Michael Williams
Here's a favorite of ours: visualize your best possible self and tap into your inherent enough-ness with this guided meditation by Justin Michael Williams.Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/ytakaaepHow to Do This Practice:
Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and visualize your ideal future self, the person of your dreams you’ve always wanted to be. Try noticing as many details as you can: What color are you wearing, how do you feel, what are you doing, is anyone with you?
Answer this question in your mind with 1-3 words: As you look at this future version of you, what energy do you need to cultivate more of in your life now, today, to become closer to being that person you see in your vision?
Breathe in deeply, and as you do imagine yourself breathing in that energy. As you exhale, imagine that energy spreading throughout your body and energy field.
Open your eyes. Remember, you have what you need to become that which you want to become. We are enough to start stepping into the life of our dreams.
Today’s Happiness Break host:Justin Michael Williams works at the intersection of social justice, mindfulness, and personal growth — with a touch of music that brings it all to life.
Learn More About Justin’s work: https://www.justinmichaelwilliams.com/
Listen to Justin’s debut album: https://www.justinmichaelwilliams.com/music
Order Justin’s book, Stay Woke: A Meditation Guide For the Rest of Us:https://tinyurl.com/2p8xu6hx
Follow Justin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/wejustwill
Follow Justin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustwill/
More episodes like this oneHow to Find Your Best Possible Selfhttps://tinyurl.com/6t3uws8dHappiness Break: Visualizing Your Best Self in Relationships, With Dacher Keltnerhttps://tinyurl.com/5cx6cd5zHappiness Break: Visualizing Your Purpose, With Dacherhttps://tinyurl.com/39apt7tbWe love hearing from you! Tell us what brings you feelings of awe. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Find us on Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/6s39rzusHelp us share Happiness Break!
5/30/2024 • 7 minutes, 47 seconds
Encore: Why We Need Friends With Shared Interests
She's the world's leading animal behaviorist and an autism advocacy leader. Guest Temple Grandin shares what kind of support systems led her to success, and we hear about how community, and lack thereof, affects our health and ability to succeed.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/y82vw4dv
Episode summary:Having strong relationships is vital to our well-being. We tend to be happier and healthier when we’re involved with community. Today’s guest is the world-famous scientist Temple Grandin. She was born with autism, which led her to be socially isolated from her peers. Join us on this episode of The Science of Happiness to hear about how Grandin credits her support networks for her success and making her into the person she is today. We’ll also look at the science behind the health repercussions of not having strong social networks. Feeling socially disconnected can lead to a higher risk of dementia, cardiovascular disease, cancer and more.
Today’s guests:Temple Grandin is a leading scientist, prominent author and speaker on autism and animal behaviors. Today, she teaches courses at Colorado State University. Her latest book is Visual Thinking: The Hidden Gifts of People Who Think in Pictures, Patterns, and Abstractions.Temple’s Website: https://www.templegrandin.comFollow Temple on Twitter: https://twitter.com/drtemplegrandin?lang=enCheck out Temple’s Latest Book: https://tinyurl.com/3tftxpckTegan Cruwyis is a clinical psychologist at The National Australian University who studies social connection and how loneliness and chronic isolation are literally toxic.Learn more about Cruwyis and her work: https://tinyurl.com/3etuvketFollow Cruwyis on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/yc5ujhajResources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Four Ways Social Support Makes You More Resilient https://tinyurl.com/34ntce8uWhat is Social Connection? https://tinyurl.com/nk8crbbzIs Social Connection the Best Path to Happiness? https://tinyurl.com/4wxc66tnWhy are We so Wired to Connect? https://tinyurl.com/uttppd3pTell us about your experiences with building social connections. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Help us share The Science of Happiness!Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aapTranscript to come.
5/23/2024 • 17 minutes, 20 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation on Cultivating Awe Through Colors
Experiencing awe can help us slow down and connect to the world around us. So how can we harness the power of this feeling? Host Dacher Keltner leads us in a colorful meditation to bring about awe. Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/3e9cyky5Practice:
Please find a space, either inside or outside, where you can take a moment and pause and look slowly at a scene in front of you.
Settle into a pattern of deep breathing and ease. Really focusing on how that pattern of inhalation and exhalation relaxes your body and slows your heart rate down.
Now cast your gaze over the space around you. Take in what you see in the scene in front of you.
You may shift your attention to colors present in the things around you or step back and get a sense of the scene in a more holistic way.
Notice the variations and differences in the various colors in your visual field.
What feelings do the colors evoke in you?
Now, gently close and then open your eyes and notice how you feel.
Today’s guests:Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.More episodes like this one:How Awe Brings Us Togetherhttps://tinyurl.com/bdhy4sj5How Music Evokes Awehttps://tinyurl.com/mpkww4j9Happiness Break: Awe for Others, With Dacherhttps://tinyurl.com/3ptwh66jFeeling the Awe of Nature from Anywhere, with Dacher Keltnerhttps://tinyurl.com/4r7rjaxfWe love hearing from you! Tell us what brings you feelings of awe. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.Find us on Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/6s39rzusHelp us share Happiness Break! Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts and share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aapRate us on Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/6s39rzus
5/16/2024 • 6 minutes, 21 seconds
How Birdsong Can Help Your Mental Health
Hearing birdsong can help us feel less anxious, recover from stress faster, and even reduce muscle tension ... but can it help us fall asleep? Drew Ackerman of Sleep With Me podcast listens to recordings of birdsongs to see if it'll help with insomnia.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/5n7sxjtb
Episode summary:
Drew Ackerman, aka Scooter of Sleep With Me Podcast, has always struggled to get to sleep. Even as an anxious kid, worries would keep his mind churning as the night wore on. For our show, he tried a science-backed practice for easing stress: listening to the twitter of birds. He discovered the recordings reminded him of easeful summer afternoons, transporting him to another time and place. The research bears this out: different sounds affect us in different ways. For many, birdsong lowers our body’s stress responses. And for Drew, that helped him get a little sleepier.
Practice:
Listen to a recording of birdsong that appeals to you.
Today’s guests:
Drew Ackerman You might know Drew as his alias, “Dearest Scooter,” the host of Sleep with Me podcast. Drew struggles with bedtime worries and has a history of insomnia himself, but he’s great at helping others sleep. Sleep with Me is one of the most listened-to sleep podcasts. On each episode, “Scooter” lulls listeners off to dreamland with meandering bedtime stories intended to lose your interest.
Listen to Sleep With Me Podcast: https://pod.link/sleep-with-me
Follow Drew on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/2p8nrhnp
Follow Drew on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearestscooter/
Follow Drew on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Sleepwithmepodcast/
Emil Stobbe is a post-doctoral fellow at the Max Planck Institute for Human Development in Germany.
Jesper Alvarsson is a professor of Psychology at Södertörn University in Sweden.
Eleanor Ratcliffe is a professor of Environmental Psychology at the University of Surrey in the UK.
More episodes like this one:
The Science of a Good Night's Sleep (Sleep Tips, With Drew Ackerman) - https://tinyurl.com/3wrwzrxy
Why You Should Snap Pictures of Nature (Appreciating The Outdoors, With Tejal Rao) - https://tinyurl.com/erwdvwrw
Related Happiness Breaks (a short, guided practice by The Science of Happiness)
Restore Through Silence, With Tricia Hersey - https://tinyurl.com/4h8ww8ub
Feeling the Awe of Nature from Anywhere, With Dacher Keltner - https://tinyurl.com/43v74ryn
Tell us what sounds relax you! You can even send us a recording, we’d love to hear it. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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5/9/2024 • 18 minutes, 33 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation on Pilina: Our Deep Interconnectedness, With Jo Qina'au
Pilina is an indigenous Hawaiian word, or concept, that describes our deep interconnectedness. Harvard Clinical Psychology Fellow Jo Qina'au guides us through a contemplation of our profound interrelationships.
Link to Episode Transcript: https://shorturl.at/npAM9
How to Do This Practice:
Pilina comes from the indigenous Hawaiian language and culture. Pilina means connection, or interconnectedness.
Settle into a comfortable position and observe your breath.
Visualize someone to whom you feel meaningfully connected and acknowledge the feeling of Pilina, or deep interconnectedness, between you two.
Reflect on what it is that connects you, what impact that connection has had on your life, and what it may have had on theirs.
Notice how it feels to acknowledge these things.
Repeat steps 2-4 with as many people as you wish.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Jo Qina’au is an indigenous Hawaiian meditation teacher and a Clinical Psychology Fellow at Harvard Medical School.
Learn more about Jo’s work: https://tinyurl.com/2wfcma5f
Follow Jo on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/3v8ubn6a
If you enjoyed this Happiness Break, you may also like these Happiness Breaks:
5 Minutes of Progressive Muscle Relaxation, With Jo Qina’au - https://tinyurl.com/4f3fd97f
Visualizing Your Best Self in Relationships, With Dacher Keltner - https://tinyurl.com/4dzpatx7
Check out these episodes of The Science of Happiness about connection:
How to Feel Less Lonely and More Connected - https://tinyurl.com/36t6urte
When It's Hard To Connect, Try Being Curious - https://tinyurl.com/3778r4h9
We love hearing from you! Tell us who you feel Pilina with, and what it means to you to reflect on it. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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We all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
5/2/2024 • 10 minutes, 9 seconds
Are You Remembering The Good Times?
Link to Transcript: https://tinyurl.com/2r63e6tn
Episode summary:
Whether it’s news notifications or work emails, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the stresses of our time every moment of every day. But what if there was something we could do to rekindle the greatest joys of our pasts? How might that shift how we feel in the present moment? Simply reflecting on happy memories has been shown in a lab to reduce stress, activate the reward center in our brain, and uplift our mood. This week, Palestinian-American poet and author Naomi Shihab Nye reminisces on happy memories from her youth and finds the practice soothes her and sparks joyfulness. We also hear from neuroscientist Mauricio Delgado about how the practice changes the way we think and feel, and which types of happy memories serve us best.
Practice:
For one week or more, spend 5-10 minutes each day writing in response to the following prompt:
Think about good memories you have from your past. Write a few paragraphs describing them and one event that you still remember to this date. Please provide as many details as possible, including who was there, so that another person reading what you wrote could understand how you felt at that time.
Today’s guests:
Naomi Shihab Nye is a Palestinian-American poet and author. Her new book of poetry, Grace Notes, will be available May 7.
Order Grace Notes: https://tinyurl.com/st3w6n8t
Check out Naomi’s children’s book about a child visiting her Palestinian grandmother, Sitti’s Secrets: https://tinyurl.com/5embjxuj
Follow Naomi on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/5hddcf8k
Mauricio Delgado is a psychology professor at Rutgers University who studies social and cognitive neuroscience.
Learn more about Mauricio’s work: https://tinyurl.com/4tt7bp2d
Follow Mauricio on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/27kvv6j7
More episodes like this one:
Why We Should Look Up at the Sky - https://tinyurl.com/4xs88sye
Why We Need Friends with Shared Interests - https://tinyurl.com/bdesh3he
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A Meditation to Connect to Your Roots, With Yuria Celidwen - https://tinyurl.com/3ae3w3z3
Where Did You Come From? Guided Writing, With Lyla June - https://tinyurl.com/ytypxn5t
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4/25/2024 • 19 minutes, 42 seconds
Happiness Break: A Walking Meditation with Dan Harris of 10% Happier
Happiness Break: April 18, 2024 A walking meditation led by 10% Happier Host Dan Harris
How to Do This Practice:
Begin walking.
Bring your awareness to the present moment, noticing sights and sounds around you. When your mind wanders to worries or other thoughts, gently bring yourself back to what you notice around you.
See if you can notice the sensations in your leg as you take each step.
Continue walking this way as long as you wish.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dan Harris the host of 10% Happier, a podcast about mindfulness and other practices and thoughts that can support our well-being.
Check out Dan’s podcast, 10% Happier: https://tinyurl.com/48cxcbjm\
Order his most recent book, Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics: A 10% Happier How-to Book: https://tinyurl.com/44cmjuvd
Follow Dan on Twitter: https://twitter.com/danbharris
Follow Dan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danharris/
If you enjoyed this Happiness Break, you may also like:
Moving Through Space, With Dacher Keltner - https://tinyurl.com/5n8dj5v6
Check out these episodes of The Science of Happiness about walking and mind-body awareness.
How To Do Good For The Environment (And Yourself) (Walking, With Diana Gameros) - https://tinyurl.com/3zfhhpus
How To Focus Under Pressure (Mindful Body Scan, With Amy Schneider) - https://tinyurl.com/5fkdre2v
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4/18/2024 • 7 minutes
How To Make Work More Satisfying
Finding ways to bend tasks toward your strengths and passions can make you happier, more productive and find more meaning in your life — no matter your job.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/4ky325rs
Episode summary:
When the poet and former professor Susan Glass first retired, she stacked her days with so many volunteer gigs and passion projects, she felt like she was working harder than ever before. Now, she wants to prioritize living a life of meaning and enjoyment. Susan tried a lab-tested practice called Job Crafting, where you take stock of the tasks that fill your day, how much time and energy they require, what really lights you up, and what changes you can make to better align your efforts at work (or in your free time) with your genuine strengths and passions. Then we hear from researcher Maria Tims about how Job Crafting doesn’t just benefit your own well-being and help to guard against burnout, it can also boost your whole team’s productivity and morale.
Practice:
Create a “before” sketch: List all your regular tasks, and note each one as low, medium, or high in terms of the time and energy you actually devote to them.
Reflect on and write down what motivates you, what your strengths are, and what you’re passionate about.
Create a more ideal (but still realistic) "after" diagram, shifting draining tasks from “high” to “low” or “medium” if possible, and boosting energizing and enjoyable tasks where you can.
Create an action plan: What are some concrete changes that are in your power to make? Are there places where you need to ask for the support of a colleague or supervisor to make a change?
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/job_crafting
Today’s guests:
Susan Glass is a retired English professor and visually impaired, Bay Area-based poet. She’s the author of the poetry book “The Wild Language of Deer.”
Read Susan’s book: https://pod.link/sleep-with-me
Learn more about Susan’s life and work: https://tinyurl.com/j3pcjn6r
Maria Tims is a professor of Management and Organization at the University of Amsterdam School of Business and Economics.
Learn more about her work: https://tinyurl.com/mtp7tpy3
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Make Life More Meaningful (The Science of Happiness Podcast) https://tinyurl.com/39pth57f
How to Be More Engaged at Work: https://tinyurl.com/2s3t5x2c
How Oxytocin Can Make Your Job More Meaningful: https://tinyurl.com/mrx8458h
Four Keys to a Healthy Workplace Hierarchy: https://tinyurl.com/788m6tme
More Resources for Improving the Job You Have:
HBR - What Job Crafting Looks Like: https://tinyurl.com/453yamac
LSE - Can workers really craft their own happiness in the job? https://tinyurl.com/yjavhda9
TED - The Power of Personalising Our Work: https://tinyurl.com/4cvznn8v
Tell us about your experiences finding meaning in your day-to-day tasks. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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4/11/2024 • 16 minutes, 22 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation To Move Through Anger, With Eve Ekman
Accepting difficult feelings like anger or irritation can help us keep our cool, feel better overall, and find calm on the other side.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/n6hm5yhz
How to Do This Practice:
Begin the practice by settling your mind and body. Notice your breath and any sensations that arise in your body,
Shift your attention away from your body, recalling an instance where you felt mildly irritated or frustrated. Give yourself a few moments to fully feel this emotion.
Notice any physical sensations that arise. Then, release that memory, refocusing your attention on the body.
Allow these sensations to shift and move, giving them the space to change and observing them with a sense of curiosity and kindness.
Consider shaking hands with the emotion the next time it arises in your daily life.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Eve Ekman is a contemplative social scientist and meditation teacher from San Francisco, California.
Learn more about Eve’s work: https://tinyurl.com/2vhuarh8
Find out about Eve’s Emotional trainings with Cultivating Emotional Balance: https://tinyurl.com/5n95m7yx
Explore Eve’s Project, The Atlas of Emotions: https://tinyurl.com/mt75ytm3
Follow Eve on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/3txahape
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Regulate Your Emotions Without Suppressing Them: https://tinyurl.com/4x29denx
What to Do When You Feel Stuck in Negative Emotions: https://tinyurl.com/mwczxfya
How to Turn Your Brain from Anger to Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/57upkcfa
How to Overcome Destructive Anger: https://tinyurl.com/49zu6whw
We love hearing from you! How do you manage your emotions? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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4/4/2024 • 7 minutes, 25 seconds
How To Talk To People You Disagree With
We learn techniques for working across the aisle without compromising our values from a Democratic politician in one of the most conservative states, Oklahoma.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/w2a9a42p
Episode summary:
Trying to have a conversation with someone who has an opposing view can be exhausting. This week, we explore what it means to have productive discussions when we disagree. Democratic Oklahoma State Senator Jo Anna Dossett recounts her experience bridging political divides with Republican senators in her state with active listening and self-compassion. Later, we hear from political science professor Lilliana Mason about the blurred line between personal and political identities, and how connecting with individuals on an emotional and social level can lead to more fruitful discussions than just focusing on facts.
Today’s guests:
Jo Anna Dossett is an Oklahoma State Senator.
Learn about Jo Anna Dossett: https://tinyurl.com/muxw7yvz
Follow Jo Anna Dossett on Twitter: https://twitter.com/dossett4ok
Follow Jo Anna Dossett on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/293n98fc
Follow Jo Anna Dossett on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/yc3mszhx
Lilliana Mason is a political science professor at Johns Hopkins University.
Learn about Lilliana Mason’s work: https://tinyurl.com/w2hy6fhk
Follow Lilliana Mason on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/29sumyxb
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Eight Keys to Bridging Our Differences: https://tinyurl.com/45ntehyp
Four Lessons From Mediators for Bridging Differences: https://tinyurl.com/bdhf68te
What Will It Take to Bridge Our Differences? https://tinyurl.com/3sua8uz5
Six Techniques to Help You Bridge Differences: https://tinyurl.com/ypsbycf4
15 Practices to Help Kids Bridge Differences: https://tinyurl.com/mvw4s649
More Resources on Bridging Differences
TIME - How Americans Can Tackle Political Division Together: https://tinyurl.com/3phj6y7j
APA - Healing the political divide: https://tinyurl.com/38kzvm5k
BBC - Crossing Divides: What the research tells us: https://tinyurl.com/yahmwdth
Stanford - How to Bridge Political Divides: https://tinyurl.com/yc7ha55p
Tell us about your experiences and struggles bridging differences. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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3/28/2024 • 17 minutes, 15 seconds
Happiness Break: Tap into the Joy that Surrounds You, With Anushka Fernandopulle
Beyond just feeling good, studies show experiencing other people's joy makes us more compassionate and satisfied with life.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/43e35j37
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable position to begin this practice, focusing on your breath.
Visualize a person or situation that brings you a sense of joy or happiness. It might be a child laughing, the success of a friend, or even a dog wagging its tail.
Connect with their joy and happiness, wishing them well.
Expand your focus to larger groups of people, like a team winning a match, wishing them well.
Consider repeating this practice when you want to connect your sense of happiness with others.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Anushka Fernandopulle is a Buddhist meditation teacher and leadership coach.
Learn More about Anushka: https://www.anushkaf.org/about/
Follow Anushka on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anushka_dharma/
Follow Anushka on Twitter: https://twitter.com/anushkaf
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Happiness Break: Wishing Others’ Well, With Anushka Fernandopulle: https://tinyurl.com/jrkewjs8
What Is Sympathetic Joy and How Can You Feel More of It? https://tinyurl.com/yuzmykct
How to Overcome Stress by Seeing Other People’s Joy: https://tinyurl.com/4csukyd5
Can Little Steps Lead to Big Joy? https://tinyurl.com/3e5yt3hp
Why Experiencing Joy and Pain in a Group Is So Powerful: https://tinyurl.com/3trjtzfm
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of appreciating others’ joy. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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3/21/2024 • 4 minutes, 55 seconds
Who’s Always There for You?
When we remember the times someone had our back, it changes the way we view ourselves and the world. Our guest explores what happens when trying a practice to feel more supported.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/mrpyr8a7
Episode summary:
Ever since he was a young child, José Valladares has spent his life caring for others and has taken pride in supporting his family and community, For our show, he tried a practice where he recalled people in his life who he can turn to during a difficult moment — the people who support him. As he wrote about their admirable qualities and specific instances where they helped him, José felt a renewed sense of gratitude and energy to persist forward in helping others. Later, we hear from psychologist Angela Rowe about how feeling supported can impact our relationships and sense of personal empowerment.
Practice:
Make a list of the people who offer you comfort or security.
Write down six positive qualities that are common to some or all of these people.
Next, recall and visualize a specific situation when you felt distressed or worried, and one of these people comforted and helped you.
Write a brief description of that situation and how you felt during it.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/feeling_supported
Today’s guests:
José Valladares is a software engineer in Utah originally from Honduras.
Angela Rowe is a psychology professor at the University of Bristol.
Learn more about Angela’s work: https://tinyurl.com/4nh752ad
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Happiness Break: Who Takes Care of You? With Dacher Keltner: https://tinyurl.com/bdezwwyd
How to Let Someone Love You (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/5xtzbzj2
Four Ways Social Support Makes You More Resilient: https://tinyurl.com/2p9zkjpj
Just One Thing: Feel the Support: https://tinyurl.com/yrfnmwfv
Friend or Family? https://tinyurl.com/msbs2kuh
More Resources on Feeling Supported
NYT Times - Are You Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? https://tinyurl.com/yes746sv
The Atlantic - The Trait That ‘Super Friends’ Have in Common: https://tinyurl.com/bdheumdh
BBC - Why friendship makes us healthier: https://tinyurl.com/3596n4u7
TED - How to ask for help -- and get a "yes": https://tinyurl.com/2ybrmt7m
Stanford - Asking for help is hard, but people want to help more than we realize, Stanford scholar says’: https://tinyurl.com/4n4hraj5'
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3/14/2024 • 16 minutes, 40 seconds
Happiness Break: Where Did You Come From? Guided Writing With Lyla June
Indigenous artist Lyla June leads a 5-minute freewriting exercise about our personal journeys. Autobiographical writing has been shown to help do better in relationships and feel more satisfied in life.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/3622n5s6
How to Do This Practice:
You will need writing utensils for this practice.
Find a comfortable place to start this writing practice, taking a few moments to ground yourself.
Write the prompt, “I come from a place where…”
For the next 5 minutes (or more), write whatever comes to mind, allowing your thoughts and ideas to flow freely, without judgment or filters. Trying keeping your pen to the paper the whole time.
Take some time afterward to read and reflect on what you wrote.
Consider repeating this exercise every few weeks or months to reflect on your past and prospective future.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Lyla June is an Indigenous artist and scholar from the Diné Nation.
Learn about Lyla June’s work: [https://www.lylajune.com/>\
Watch Lyla June’s videos: [https://tinyurl.com/bdhbwyru>\
Follow Lyla June on Twitter: [https://tinyurl.com/4pj565d6>\
Follow Lyla June on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/4pj565d6
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
The Power of Expressing Your Deepest Emotions (The Science of Happiness Podcast): [https://tinyurl.com/2uzh3r67>\
How to Journal Through Your Struggles: [https://tinyurl.com/yua6wkwd>\
How Journaling Can Help You in Hard Times: [https://tinyurl.com/3zv3hunw>\
How Creative Writing Can Increase Students’ Resilience: https://tinyurl.com/4xw8xuff
How was your experience with this freewriting exercise? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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3/7/2024 • 9 minutes, 27 seconds
Why Grownups Should Be Playful Too
Playfulness can improve your relationships, help you excel at work, and reduce stress. We explore a strategy shown to help you become more playful.
Link to episode transcript: http://tinyurl.com/b5xc78r3
Episode summary:
Patricia Mebrahtu used to have so much fun as a child. Now, as a medical assistant and mother of two young children, she found herself feeling burnt out and irritable. For our show, Patricia tried a practice to infuse more playfulness into her life. From singing karaoke with her family to playing in the rain, she tapped into her inner child. Through this practice, Patricia recognized the importance of taking time out for yourself, and that she can carve out opportunities to have fun and be playful, even as a busy adult. Later, we hear from psychologist René Proyer about the different types of playfulness, and how incorporating play can benefit our sense of wellbeing.
Practice:
Each day for a week, incorporate one playful activity into your routine – it can be anything you find enjoyable and playful.
Every evening, write about the experience, and how it made you feel in the present moment.
Today’s guests:
Patricia Mebrahtu is a mother and medical assistant in California.
René Proyer is a psychologist from the Martin-Luther University Halle-Wittenberg.
Learn about René’s work: http://tinyurl.com/4sa9vye9
Follow René on Twitter: http://tinyurl.com/3x5986u6
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Can We Play? http://tinyurl.com/prhv22rf
What Playfulness Can Do for Your Relationship: http://tinyurl.com/n9b3h7e4
Tuesday Tip: Play with Some Friends: http://tinyurl.com/mu837nwr
More Resources on Being Playful:
BBC - Playtime: Is it time we took 'play' more seriously? http://tinyurl.com/4jmx89vn
NYT - Why We All Need to Have More Fun: http://tinyurl.com/335z4bdu
Washington Post - Why it’s good for grown-ups to go play: http://tinyurl.com/5w8shen
TED - The Importance of PLAY in adulthood and childhood: http://tinyurl.com/4hsn9um4
How do you incorporate play into your life? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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2/29/2024 • 19 minutes, 29 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation on Playfulness, With Dacher Keltner
We all have a playful side, and research shows acting on it can help us when we need to move through challenging emotions, manage conflict, and be more creative.
Link to episode transcript: http://tinyurl.com/4bxtn9ek
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable position to begin the practice. Focus on breathing deeply.
Think back to a moment of play during your childhood. Recall specific details like your age, what you were doing and who you were with. As you remember, notice how the memory is affecting you in the present moment.
Next, focus on a recent memory of play – maybe with your partner, friends, or family. Fully recall the moment, again bringing to mind specific details. Notice how this memory makes you feel.
Take note of how reflecting on play has affected your breathing. Did it affect the tight areas in your body? How about the relaxed and open ones?
As you refocus your attention on your breath, make a commitment to add play into your busy schedule going forward.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
Check out Dacher’s most recent book, *Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: *<https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt\](https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt)
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
What Happens When We Play (The Science of Happiness Podcast): http://tinyurl.com/mrfm5pj5
Can We Play? http://tinyurl.com/prhv22rf
What Playfulness Can Do for Your Relationship: http://tinyurl.com/n9b3h7e4
For Black Children, Play Can Be Transformative: http://tinyurl.com/mwnfcu26
What memories of play came to your mind? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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2/22/2024 • 6 minutes, 38 seconds
Encore: How to Feel Less Pressed for Time
When we devote a little time to the other people in our life, we actually feel like we have more of it. Our guest tried a practice to regain control of his time and schedule
Link to episode transcript: http://tinyurl.com/mr3r6jfn
Episode summary:
Like many of us, our guest Bryant Terry felt like he never had enough time in his day. And while he was eager to reconnect with his family, his schedule was spiraling out of control. For our show, Bryant tried a practice proven to help you feel like you have more time, by specifically devoting some of your time to others. He set intentions to spend quality time with his children doing activities that they truly enjoy. By prioritizing those special moments with his family, Bryant felt more control over his schedule, recognizing that he has the power to make time for what truly matters to him. Later, we hear from professor Cassie Mogilner Holmes about why this practice works, and how being intentional with our time can reshape our relationship with it.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/gift_of_time
Practice
Think of a person whom you care about.
What might you be able to do for this person that entails nothing more than the giving of your time?
Plan a gift of time for this person and give it, whether it means doing something with them (in person or virtually).
Spend as much time as needed to do the favor well and do not take any shortcuts. You might even consider taking off your watch or putting your smartphone away.
Today’s guests:
Bryant Terry is an award winning chef, author and artist.
Learn about Bryant’s work: http://tinyurl.com/3wf3264h
Follow Bryant on Instagram: http://tinyurl.com/2w68z8bc
Learn about his imprint, 4 Color Books: http://tinyurl.com/yuhrsrp8
Cassie Mogilner Holmes is a professor of marketing and behavioral decision making at UCLA.
Learn about Cassie’s work: http://tinyurl.com/rb5r97s5
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Feel Like You Have More Time: http://tinyurl.com/p6ykm7y2
Ten Ways to Make Your Time Matter: http://tinyurl.com/34dvwnv4
Why You Never Seem to Have Enough Time: http://tinyurl.com/4t8vyhy3
Can Awe Buy You More Time and Happiness? http://tinyurl.com/m28d8wcx
How to Spend Your Time on What Matters Most: http://tinyurl.com/ycw527tj
More Resources on spending quality time with others:
BBC - How to feel more in control of your time: http://tinyurl.com/nhbt7btm
Stanford - Jennifer Aaker: How to Feel Like You Have More Time: http://tinyurl.com/n8cc6yfk
Harvard -You’ll Feel Less Rushed If You Give Time Away: http://tinyurl.com/yc86ymve
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2/15/2024 • 15 minutes, 43 seconds
Happiness Break: Wrap Yourself in Kindness, With Jack Kornfield
When we treat ourselves with kindness and gratitude, research shows we feel more motivated and less self-critical. Meditation teacher Jack Kornfield leads in a practice where we gently turn inward.
Link to episode transcript: http://tinyurl.com/yfbz28h2
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable position to begin the practice. Focus on taking deep breaths, relaxing your body.
As you recognize the different sensations in your body, consciously envelope yourself in kindness. Thank your body for providing and caring for you.
Redirect your loving kindness towards your heart and the varied emotions it carries.Thank your heart for all it does for you. Then, focus your kindness towards your mind and all the thoughts and worries it holds. Thank it for all that it does.
Next, turn towards your consciousness as a whole – your emotions, body, thoughts. Rest in a state of comfortable, loving-kindness.
When you’re ready, gently open your eyes and reconnect with the world around you.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Jack Kornfield is a meditation teacher and author who is one of the leading voices to share Buddhist teachings with a Western audiences.
Learn more about Jack’s work: http://tinyurl.com/2wfth7v2
Follow Jack on Instagram: http://tinyurl.com/3zs2bjvx
Follow Jack on Twitter: http://tinyurl.com/bd5r9k4a
Follow Jack on Facebook: http://tinyurl.com/mryr839y
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Take Our Self-Compassion Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/yysrf663
How to Bring Self-Compassion to Work with You: https://tinyurl.com/45zkrkam
The Five Myths of Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/2p88vass
How Gratitude Changes You and Your Brain: http://tinyurl.com/2f78cywf
Is Gratitude Good for Your Health? http://tinyurl.com/yc86ve9d
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of gratitude and self-compassion. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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2/8/2024 • 9 minutes, 7 seconds
What To Do When You Don’t Like The Way You Feel
Our guest tried a practice in Radical Acceptance, a Buddhist principle made popular by today's expert, psychologist Tara Brach.
Link to episode transcript: http://tinyurl.com/362m4n3b
Episode summary:
Sometimes, a setback in work or life can leave us feeling defeated and uninspired. Nadia Zafar is a neurobiology student who has been pursuing her PhD for the last 6 years. Recently, her lack of progress had her spiraling in thoughts of self-doubt and unworthiness. For our show, Nadia tried a practice rooted in radical acceptance, called RAIN. By actively recognizing emotions without judgment, investigating them further, and then nurturing those sensations, she started to approach her negative and anxious thoughts from a place of self-compassion instead of blame. Later, we speak with the creator of the RAIN practice, Tara Brach. She explains the elements of the practice that make it so effective, how approaching situations from a place of acceptance helps disrupt our reactive instincts — opening up more space for awareness and compassion for ourselves and others.
Practice:
When you come up against something challenging – you’re angry or frustrated or feeling any way about yourself, another person, or a situation – move through these steps. It might be helpful to sit somewhere you feel comfortable. Close your eyes for a few moments, and begin by taking a few deep, intentional breaths, to help settle the mind.
Recognize what’s happening. For example, “I am getting caught up in anger right now.”
Allow the emotion you recognize to be there: Accept that you are feeling the way you’re feeling. You may go a step further and forgive yourself for it, for example by saying to yourself, “Anger forgiven.”
Investigate what’s underneath whatever you’re feeling by directing a gentle curiosity towards it. For example, where there is anger, there is something we care deeply about.
Nurture: You might put your hand on your heart, remind yourself that many have struggled with the very thing you’re struggling with now, and send yourself a message of kindness and understanding.
Today’s guests:
Nadia Zafar is a 6th year neurobiology PhD student at the University of Toronto.
Tara Brach is a leading voice in the field of contemplative meditation practices.
Learn more about Tara and her work: https://www.tarabrach.com/
Read Tara’s book, Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha: http://tinyurl.com/4csarvmf
Follow Tara on Facebook: http://tinyurl.com/3arhy4uh
Follow Tara on Twitter: http://tinyurl.com/2drpvp6c
Follow Tara on Instagram: http://tinyurl.com/y743bkru
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Happiness Break: Radical Acceptance, With Tara Brach (The Science of Happiness Podcast): http://tinyurl.com/msf5ccde
Can Self-Awareness Help You Be More Empathic? http://tinyurl.com/5yh8z2s2
How Does Mindfulness Help Cultivate Self-Compassion? http://tinyurl.com/yuhwmja4
How to Bring Self-Compassion to Work with You: http://tinyurl.com/2a3mm6pf
Want to Change Your Life? Try Self-Compassion: http://tinyurl.com/2y2ryc6m
More Resources on Radical Acceptance:
Harvard - Greater self-acceptance improves emotional well-being: http://tinyurl.com/2ty58cbh
BBC - Why self-compassion – not self-esteem – leads to success: http://tinyurl.com/yj2zax8x
Ted - Dare to rewire your brain for self-compassion: http://tinyurl.com/yc2ru73p
Tell us about your experiences and struggles with accepting difficult situations. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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2/1/2024 • 18 minutes, 48 seconds
Happiness Break: Radical Acceptance, With Tara Brach
A meditation in meeting our most difficult emotions — like anger, disappointment, or fear — with mindfulness and gentle care.
Link to episode transcript: http://tinyurl.com/48jas955
How to Do This Practice:
When you come up against something challenging – you’re angry or frustrated or feeling any way about yourself, another person, or a situation, move through these steps. It might be helpful to sit somewhere you feel comfortable closing your eyes for a few moments, and begin by taking a few deep, intentional breaths, to help settle the mind.
Recognize what’s happening. For example, “I am getting caught up in anger right now.”
Allow the emotion you recognize to be there: Accept that you are feeling the way you’re feeling. You may go a step further and forgive yourself for it, for example by saying to yourself, “Anger forgiven.”
Investigate what’s underneath whatever you’re feeling by directing a gentle curiosity towards it. For example, where there is anger, there is something we care deeply about.
Nurture: Send yourself a message of kindness. You might put your hand on your heart, for example, and remind yourself that everyone experiences reactivity, and send yourself a message of kindness and understanding.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Tara Brach is a psychologist and leading voice in contemporary meditative practices and the author of numerous popular books on contemplative practice.
Read Tara’s seminal book, Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of the Buddha: http://tinyurl.com/4csarvmf
Learn more about Tara’s work: https://www.tarabrach.com/
Find classes taught by Dr. Neff: https://www.tarabrach.com/online-courses/
Follow Tara on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tarabrach/
Follow Tara on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tarabrach
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Go Through Life with Love in Your Heart, A Q&A with Tara Brach: http://tinyurl.com/2ne65wed
The Mindfulness Skill That Is Crucial for Stress: http://tinyurl.com/3xmnekw2
How Self-Compassion Beats Rumination: http://tinyurl.com/yc7phxsc
Want to Change Your Life? Try Self-Compassion: http://tinyurl.com/2y2ryc6m
Overcoming Objections to Self-Compassion: http://tinyurl.com/yc2wvusr
Self-Compassion Could Help You Be More Tolerant of Others: http://tinyurl.com/3kwrm88h
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience with the Light RAIN practice. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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1/25/2024 • 8 minutes, 32 seconds
How (And Why) To Find More Beauty in the Everyday
What happens when we intentionally look for beautiful things in our day-to-day lives? We explore a lab-tested practice shown to help you feel happier.
Link to Transcript: http://tinyurl.com/yretvrkp
Episode summary:
When was the last time you witnessed a beautiful moment? Maybe it was a striking sunset, a kind exchange between strangers, or a hearty laugh between two friends. Beautiful moments surround us, and research suggests that taking the time to admire them can actually benefit our health and happiness. For our show, restorative justice advocate Darnell Washington looked for 9 beautiful things each day and reflected on them. In doing so, he recognized how admiring different types of beauty from nature to the goodness of others, can have a powerful impact on his own humanity. Later, we hear from the psychologist who created the practice, René T. Proyer, about how making it a point to notice different kinds of beauty benefits our happiness and reduces depression.
Practice:
Every night for at least one week, set about 15 minutes before going to bed to think about nine beautiful things that happened during the day, 3 each in the following categories.
Write down three beautiful things in human behavior (morally, positively valued behavior, ie good deeds).
Write down three things you experienced as beautiful in nature and/or the environment.
Write down three beautiful things in general that you noticed during the day (referring to aesthetics, like art, music, architecture, etc).
Note why you found each of these nine things beautiful.
Today’s guests:
Darnell Washington is a formerly incarcerated restorative justice advocate from California.
Listen to Darnell’s Ted Talk: http://tinyurl.com/cujz79fk
René T. Proyer is a professor and researcher at Martin Luther University Halle-Wittenberg.
Learn about René’s work: http://tinyurl.com/4sa9vye9
Follow René on Twitter: http://tinyurl.com/3x5986u6
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Finding Beauty in the Everyday (The Science of Happiness Podcast): http://tinyurl.com/2w2ht55h
Why Seeing Beauty Matters, Even in the Midst of War: http://tinyurl.com/4zy436xk
How Nature Can Make You Kinder, Happier, and More Creative: http://tinyurl.com/d2vzpsaj
Finding Awe in the Ordinary: http://tinyurl.com/aavr2pkv
More Resources on Appreciating Beauty:
BBC - The neuroscience of beauty: What your brain finds beautiful – and how this shapes your thoughts: http://tinyurl.com/47s6zcre
TED - Nature. Beauty. Gratitude: http://tinyurl.com/upnrzthc
CNN - It’s the little things: Why animals, sunsets and coffee make us happy: http://tinyurl.com/yckephaf
We want to hear from you! What beautiful moment have you noticed recently? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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1/18/2024 • 18 minutes, 18 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation to Find Grounding in the New Year, With Spring Washam
Research shows feeling connected with nature can lower our stress response. This visualization meditation can help you feel at ease, no matter where you are.
Link to episode transcript: http://tinyurl.com/2k6pdh7n
How to Do This Practice:
It is encouraged to try this practice outdoors
Begin the practice by focusing on your breath, and relaxing your body, noticing how it feels supported, particularly by the earth.
Allow yourself to let go of anything you are mentally or emotionally carrying, visualizing it going into the earth, letting the ground continue to support you.
Draw on imagery from nature to cultivate feelings of strength and sturdiness to support you. For example, imagine that your own body is rooting into the earth to become as unshakable as a tree, imagine that you are as steady as a mountain, your breath is the breeze and your mind is as open and boundless as the sky.
End the practice by placing your hand on your heart, offering yourself kindness, well-being and joy.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Spring Washam is an author and meditation teacher based in Oakland, California.
Learn more about Spring’s work: http://tinyurl.com/3bbshnn7
Read Spring’s books here: http://tinyurl.com/4hkft4js
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Happiness Break: What To Do When You’re Struggling, With Spring Washam: http://tinyurl.com/mrx8t9st
What Happens When We Reconnect With Nature: http://tinyurl.com/553xwm47
Why Is Nature So Good for Your Mental Health? http://tinyurl.com/ycx9ns4p
How Nature Helps Us Heal: http://tinyurl.com/2p93682j
Why You Need More Nature in Your Life: http://tinyurl.com/28z27wb2
We love hearing from you! How do you connect with nature? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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1/11/2024 • 7 minutes, 41 seconds
How to Stick to Your Resolutions in 2024
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We explore how the science of behavior change can help us form new habits and be happier while doing it.Link to episode transcript: http://tinyurl.com/4e294mdt
Episode summary:
Many of us are heading into the new year with a resolution we want to live by — a new good habit we’d like to form. But actually sticking to those good habits isn’t always easy — one failure can have us losing the motivation to continue. For our show, we spoke with Cholpon Ramizova and Derick Gnonlonfoun, a couple who set out to create better food habits by cooking at home more and incorporating more vegetables into their meals. As they started to develop this new habit, the two realized that a mindful and kind attitude towards themselves was a key element to their success. Later, we hear from psychologists Katy Milkman and Kristin Neff, to learn about how failure can actually be beneficial when pursuing a goal, and how to cope with it.
Today’s guests:
Cholpon Ramizova and Derick Gnonlonfoun are a couple living in London.
Check out Derick’s artwork here: http://tinyurl.com/2kc9h478
Katy Milkman is a professor at The Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania and the Co-Director of The Behavior Change for Good Initiative.
Learn more about Katy and her work: http://tinyurl.com/4ypvmvhf
Find more information on the Behavior Change for Good Initiative: http://tinyurl.com/mr94wh6f
Follow Katy on Twitter: http://tinyurl.com/mr25etdp
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Make New Year’s Resolutions That Feel Good: http://tinyurl.com/3bvs8zb5
Make Self-Compassion One of Your New Year’s Resolutions: http://tinyurl.com/yc2t42nt
Tips for Keeping New Year’s Resolutions: http://tinyurl.com/y2pt9uz2
How to Learn From Your Failures: http://tinyurl.com/5h7uybux
More Resources on Forming Good Habits:
BBC - 4 simple, science-backed ways to build habits that stick: http://tinyurl.com/2p8dk6wt
Harvard -What Does It Really Take to Build a New Habit? http://tinyurl.com/ndrfybyb
Stanford - Building Habits: The Key to Lasting Behavior Change: http://tinyurl.com/4utw95sj
TED - The 1-minute secret to forming a new habit: http://tinyurl.com/mum8kzvj
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1/4/2024 • 17 minutes, 56 seconds
Happiness Break: Visualizing Your Best Self in Relationships, With Dacher Keltner
When we imagine our best possible selves in our relationships, we feel more motivated to achieve our goals and a greater sense of control over our lives. This week, Dacher leads a visualization exercise in preparation for the new year.
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Link to episode transcript: http://tinyurl.com/yj43srye
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place to begin the practice. Take deep breaths.
Focus on the person you are in a romantic relationship with, or a dear friend. Bring an image of them to mind, like how they look and their mannerisms.
Imagine your life in the future, and how you would like to be the best version of yourself in your relationship with them. Picture yourself interacting with them — what is happening? What are you doing and saying? What is the tone of the interaction?
Repeat this exercise by focusing on friendships and familial relationships. Take note of any common actions across all relationships that you would like to take. Set an intention about how you will interact within your relationships in the new year.
When you’re done, reground yourself in the present moment, focusing on the sensations in your body.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the UC, Berkeley.
Check out Dacher’s most recent book, Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Find Your Best Possible Self (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/265b34pj
How Thinking About the Future Makes Life More Meaningful: https://tinyurl.com/24mex4by
10 Pillars of a Strong Relationship:https://tinyurl.com/3zffc8x4
For the New Year, Try Imagining Your Best Possible Life: https://tinyurl.com/4carr6kv
We love hearing from you! How do you plan to be your best possible self in the new year? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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12/28/2023 • 7 minutes, 38 seconds
How Thinking About Your Ancestors Can Help You Thrive
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We explore how contemplating our heritage can make us feel more belonging, gratitude, and confidence in what we're capable of achieving.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/5djerhbj
Episode summary:
Oral historian Mi'Jan Celie Tho-Biaz knows the profound impact the past can have on the present. For our show, Mi’Jan tried a lab-tested writing practice that took the historical facts she knew about her own family further – by way of her imagination. She journaled about her great-great grandmother Emma, the last enslaved person in her family, and her late father, Njoroge , imagining what they might say to her today.We also hear from psychologist Susan Moore about how learning about your ancestors can help you feel a sense of self-knowledge, gratitude and belonging.
Practice:
Imagine an ancestor in your family lineage. It can be someone you have known or someone from centuries ago.
Spend the next 5-15 minutes writing about them. If you don’t know the details, imagine how their life would have been. Write down anything that comes to mind such as their way of life, their profession or what they looked like.
Next imagine what they would tell you if they were alive today. What specific insights, advice or feedback would they give you? Write down your reflections.
Today’s guests:
Mi'Jan Celie Tho-Biaz is an artist, documentarian and oral historian.
Learn more about Mi’Jan Celie Tho-Biaz’s work: http://tinyurl.com/5e8t9ha7
Follow Mi’Jan on Instagram: http://tinyurl.com/mr3yp3kz
Susan Moore is a psychology professor at the Swinburne University of Technology.
Follow Susan on Twitter:http://tinyurl.com/mr3vsr2k
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How Teens Today Are Different from Past Generations: http://tinyurl.com/y5ffwavr
Don’t Be So Quick to Stereotype Generations: http://tinyurl.com/mrxx7xfj
How Collective Trauma Can Hurt the Next Generation: http://tinyurl.com/2vunsm2z
Find Purpose by Connecting Across Generations: http://tinyurl.com/h4yyjesh
More Resources on Connecting with Ancestors:
NPR- 8 listeners share the powerful ways they keep in touch with their ancestors: http://tinyurl.com/48kjmenk
Harvard - How Family History Can Inspire Accountable Reparations and Foster Ancestral Healing: http://tinyurl.com/ta24x773
TED - How to be a good ancestor: http://tinyurl.com/54zvkzsv
How do you connect with your family history? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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12/21/2023 • 19 minutes, 1 second
Happiness Break: A Meditation for Seeking Forgiveness, With Shelly Tygielski
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When we practice forgiveness, studies show we can have healthier relationships, higher self-esteem, and less anxiety and depression.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/mt9uwad8
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place to begin the practice. Soften your gaze and take a few slow, deep breaths.
Imagine there is a light made of compassion, love and understanding all around you.
As the light comforts you, think of a person you would like to seek forgiveness from. Take note of any emotions that arise. Imagine sincerely apologizing to them.
Visualize a bridge connecting you and the individual. Know that while forgiveness is not always immediately accepted, you've taken the first step towards healing.
Turn your forgiveness towards yourself, breathing in love and compassion.
End this practice by reconnecting with your body and refocusing your gaze, remembering that the journey of forgiveness is ongoing.
.Today’s Happiness Break host:
Shelly Tygielski is a trauma-informed mindfulness teacher based in Florida.
To get Shelly Tygielski and Justin Michael Williams’ book How We Ended Racism: go to howweendedracism.com or your favorite book seller.
Learn more about Shelly’s work: https://tinyurl.com/26xkdnku
Follow Shelly on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/4k4bx3nn
Follow Shelly on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/bdfsb9pt
Follow Shelly on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/2edu2fzu
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Eight Keys to Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/2s4hbz3a
The New Science of Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/5f2c7sfb
How to Overcome Barriers to Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/22zteuyj
The Power of Forgiveness at Work: https://tinyurl.com/mrx5hzvh
How to Build a More Forgiving Community: https://tinyurl.com/5frja2h2
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience with forgiveness. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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12/14/2023 • 7 minutes, 31 seconds
When It's Hard To Connect, Try Being Curious
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When we're more curious, we are more likely to be happier and have stronger relationships. Try deepening your curiosity with these science-backed practices from author Scott Shigeoka.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/276u4yxu
Episode summary:
As a cardiologist and immigrant in the United States, Stephanie Hsiao has always placed an emphasis on advancing her skills in order to succeed. So when she received the diagnosis that her son was neurodiverse, Stephanie went immediately into action mode to help her son — but she felt like she was missing something. For our show, Stephanie tried a practice to cultivate “deep curiosity,” and found that a curious outlook helped her to check her assumptions about parenting and discover her son’s strengths and interests. Later, we hear from curiosity expert Scott Shigeoka about the difference between shallow and deep curiosity, and how it can help us forge stronger connections with others.
Practice:
Before engaging in curiosity: Slow down, focus on your breathing. Set an intention to focus on curiosity and maybe visualize yourself being curious.
While in conversation: Be open to being wrong, continuously check your assumptions, and actively turn towards those who are seeking your attention.
Going forward: Make commitments to yourself and with others to engage in difficult, but open-minded interactions.
Today’s guests:
Stephanie Hsiao is a mother and cardiologist based in San Francisco, California.
Scott Shigeoka is an author and storyteller who focuses on themes of curiosity and well-being.
Order Scott Shigeoka’s book Seek: How Curiosity can Transform Your Life and Save the World: https://tinyurl.com/4jrxbupj
Learn More About Scott’s work: https://tinyurl.com/y5xyxky7
Follow Scott on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/3acu6jhm
Follow Scott on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/3m3k3bm9
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Six Surprising Benefits of Curiosity: https://tinyurl.com/7kcr32su
How to Stay Open and Curious in Hard Conversations: https://tinyurl.com/y2f2e9ce
Why Curious People Have Better Relationships: https://tinyurl.com/2xw5y9yr
Does Curiosity Have a Dark Side? https://tinyurl.com/5n88wzyd
How Curiosity Can Help Us Overcome Disconnection: https://tinyurl.com/9kaas6nz
More Resources on Curiosity:
BBC - Curiosity: The neglected trait that drives success: https://tinyurl.com/38bubaak
Harvard - A Curious Mind: https://tinyurl.com/324hyzv4
TED - How Curiosity Will Save Us: https://tinyurl.com/muswe2y5
Tell us about your experience with being curious. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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This episode was supported by a grant from the John Templeton Foundation, as part of our project on "Expanding Awareness of the Science of Intellectual Humility." To learn more, go to https://tinyurl.com/2dj6hw29
12/7/2023 • 17 minutes, 31 seconds
Happiness Break: A Visualization to Connect With Your Heritage
Chef and author Bryant Terry leads us through a visualization to connect with our ancestors by appreciating our families' traditional foods.
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Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/yc6d69py
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place to start this practice, focusing on your breath.
Think of a meal or dish that is linked to your culture. Reflect on what it looks and tastes like, as well as when you would eat this dish.
Recall whoever would normally make this dish for you, and any stories that might have told you about it.
Refocusing your attention on the dish, consider all the different ingredients that went into it, tracing them back to where they came from.
Reflect on how generations of your family have been nourished from these sources, all leading up to you.
Complete the practice by grounding yourself in your body, and thanking your ancestors for what they have provided.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Bryant Terry is a meditator, chef and food justice activist based in San Francisco.
Learn about Bryant Terry: https://tinyurl.com/juvz7sb2
Read Bryant’s books: https://tinyurl.com/59nxrn8e
Follow Bryant on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/ycyb8dwc
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Happiness Break: A Meditation to Connect to Your Roots, with Yuria Celidwen (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/3mrd6247
Episode 81: Are You Listening to Your Elders? (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/2wjbjj3e
Do Rituals Help Us to Savor Food? https://tinyurl.com/52xpj7fn
Find Purpose by Connecting Across Generations: https://tinyurl.com/h4yyjesh
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your favorite cultural dish. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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11/30/2023 • 8 minutes, 50 seconds
Being Kind is Good for Your Health
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Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/255mcn3b
Episode summary:
This week, we’re focusing on doing good for others, and we’ve turned to someone who cheers people up for a living. Dana Merwin is a professional clown and performer based in San Francisco. For our show, she tried a practice where she performed three acts of kindness a day for the people in her life. She reflects on how simple, kind gestures can pave the way for deep and valuable connections, and that being kind to others ultimately makes us feel good as well. We also hear from psychologist David Cregg about how doing good things for others improves our sense of social connection, purpose in life, and can even help us live longer and healthier lives.
Practice:
Write down or think about three acts of kindness you could perform the next day.
Do three kind acts for people in your life.
At the end of the day, reflect on how these experiences make you feel.
Today’s guests:
Dana Merwin is a progressional clown and performer based in San Francisco.
Learn about Dana’s Work: https://tinyurl.com/bd6ew95a
Follow Dana on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/dspstzrk
David Cregg is a clinical psychologist at South Texas Veterans Health Care System whose research specializes in positive psychology.
Follow David on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/ajay6n6a
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Do You Underestimate the Impact of Being Kind? https://tinyurl.com/583hwar9
Just One Thing: Be Kind to Yourself by Being Kind to Others: https://tinyurl.com/4dsf7bn2
Do We Have an Instinctive Urge to Be Kind? https://tinyurl.com/y5fabnj3
Can Helping Others Help You Find Meaning in Life? https://tinyurl.com/yc4zhw9w
Three Strategies for Bringing More Kindness into Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/22cx7w9f
More Resources on Doing Good Things For Others:
BBC - What we do and don't know about kindness: https://tinyurl.com/na6jvr9e
Harvard: Lending a helping hand: https://tinyurl.com/yckf4759
UCL: 10 benefits of helping others: https://tinyurl.com/4wn5syhh
Mayo Health Clinic: The art of kindness: https://tinyurl.com/5ah5dahc
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11/23/2023 • 19 minutes, 29 seconds
Happiness Break: Feel more Gratitude, With Eve Ekman
Renew your sense of gratitude by remembering acts of kindness, with social scientist and meditation teacher Eve Ekman.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/kjkzpdk8
How to Do This Practice:
Begin the practice by focusing on your breath and settling your mind and body. Notice any physical sensations that arise.
Shift your attention away from your body, recalling a time in the last week where you received kindness. Think about the details of the event, and notice how you react to this kindness.
Next, focus on a recent experience where you extended kindness. As you relive this event in your mind, allow yourself to be filled with the feeling of kindness.
Reconnect with the physical sensations in your body, acknowledging that it is full of gratitude.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Eve Ekman is a contemplative social scientist and meditation teacher from San Francisco, California.
Learn more about Eve’s work: https://tinyurl.com/2vhuarh8
Find out about Eve’s Emotional trainings with Cultivating Emotional Balance: https://tinyurl.com/5n95m7yx
Explore Eve’s Project, The Atlas of Emotions: https://tinyurl.com/mt75ytm3
Follow Eve on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/3txahape
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How Gratitude Changes You and Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/2f78cywf
Tips for Keeping a Gratitude Journal: https://tinyurl.com/4uyu9pud
Why Gratitude Is Good: https://tinyurl.com/5n88p589
How Gratitude Motivates Us to Become Better People: https://tinyurl.com/3jzr7jfm
Three Surprising Ways That Gratitude Works at Work: https://tinyurl.com/4f5m9hde
We love hearing from you! How do you express gratitude? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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11/16/2023 • 8 minutes, 19 seconds
Encore: The Science of a Good Night's Sleep
This week we revisit our science-backed tips for a good night's sleep with sleep scientist Eti Ben Simon and host of the Sleep with Me podcast Drew Ackerman.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/2p8t47eh
Episode summary:
A good night’s sleep can be hard to come by, and beating yourself up over not sleeping enough will only make it worse. On this episode of The Science of Happiness, the host of Sleep With Me podcast Drew Ackerman joins us to try science-backed tips for finding your natural sleep rhythm. Drew, also known as “Dearest Scooter,” talks about his history with insomnia and sleep anxiety, sleep hygiene, and his philosophy on bringing more self-compassion into his approach to trying to fall asleep. Then we hear from sleep scientist Eti Ben Simon about how sleep affects your social life.
Practice:
Avoid alcohol and caffeine after 2 p.m. to unmask your true biological sleep needs.
Keep lights dim in the evening and limit access to LED lights after 9 p.m.
Go to sleep as soon as you feel tired (even if you're in the middle of something). This will help you figure out the earliest window it is physiologically possible for you to fall asleep.
Do not use an alarm clock to wake up.
Today’s guests:
Drew Ackerman is the host of one of the most listened-to sleep podcasts, Sleep with Me.
Listen to Sleep With Me Podcast: https://pod.link/sleep-with-me
Follow Drew on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/2p8nrhnp
Follow Drew on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearestscooter/
Follow Drew on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Sleepwithmepodcast/
Eti Ben Simon is a sleep scientist and postdoctoral fellow at UC Berkeley, where she works at Matthew Walkers’ Center for Human Sleep Science.
Learn more about Eti and her work: https://www.sleepingeti.com/
Follow Eti on Twitter: https://twitter.com/etoosh
Follow Eti on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/328aa5yr
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Four Surprising Ways to Get a Better Night’s Sleep: https://tinyurl.com/2p832bh5
How Mindfulness Improves Sleep: https://tinyurl.com/2p8rhkhj
Your Sleep Tonight Changes How You React to Stress Tomorrow: https://tinyurl.com/2p8zvbjz
More Resources for A Good Night’s Sleep:
Matthew Walker’s 11 Tips for Improving Sleep Quality: https://tinyurl.com/2kadu7va
TED - Sleeping with Science: https://tinyurl.com/23mmbdy3
Harvard Health - 8 Tips to Get a Good Night’s Sleep: https://tinyurl.com/2p8um9z7
BBC - Why Do We Sleep? https://tinyurl.com/2p8z9v2d
Tell us about your experiences and struggles with falling asleep. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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11/9/2023 • 19 minutes, 51 seconds
Happiness Break: Find Calm When You Can't Clear Your Mind, With Lama Rod Owens
Take a break from ruminating with Lama Rod Owens as he leads you in a meditation to cultivate a sky-like mind.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/5fn7sw7t
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable position to begin this practice.
Turn your attention to the rise and fall of your thoughts and feelings within your mind.
Imagine that your mind is a vast open sky and that your thoughts are like clouds passing through.
Recognize that these thoughts are just experiences that come and go, and that they do not constitute the whole sky or your whole being. Allow yourself to trust the bright openness of your mind, without worrying about it becoming stormy.
When you are ready, reground yourself in the present moment by noticing how your body, and how it is held by your seat.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Lama Rod Owens is a Buddhist teacher, author and activist passionate about creating engaging and inclusive healing spaces.
Learn about Lama Rod Owens’ work: https://tinyurl.com/wd2huac5
Read Lama Rod Owens’ latest book, The New Saints: From Broken Hearts to Spiritual Warriors: https://tinyurl.com/4pj8wb7x
Follow Lama Rod Owens on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/527378v9
Follow Lama Rod Owens on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/mwa2vwrh
Follow Lama Rod Owens on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/h33pyjye
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Four Ways to Calm Your Mind in Stressful Times: https://tinyurl.com/6apdf52p
How to Gain Freedom from Your Thoughts: https://tinyurl.com/hp8s5wv6
How to Focus a Wandering Mind: https://tinyurl.com/y7jhkewv
How to Enjoy Being Alone with Your Thoughts: https://tinyurl.com/3ej6acx6
We love hearing from you! Have you tried quieting your mind? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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11/2/2023 • 7 minutes, 5 seconds
The Science of Singing Along
For time immemorial, humans have connected deeply through singing with one another. We explore the science behind this, plus how group singing benefits other aspects of our health.
Link to Episode Transcript: https://tinyurl.com/bdzkmezu
Episode summary:
When was the last time you sang with another person? This week, we’re digging into the science of singing — and more specifically, the science of singing with others, with author Casper ter Kuile. Casper started hosting signing groups in his home as a way to feel connected to others and build a community after moving to a new city. He found that singing is a powerful mode of communication that’s entirely different from talking, by letting people have fun together before even learning what the other does for work. We also hear from psychologist Arla Good, about how group singing can act as a tool for social bonding through a mood-boosting oxytocin response.
Today’s guests:
Casper ter Kuile is an author and speaker who focuses on themes of community building, rituals and spirituality.
Read Casper’s book, The Power of Ritual: https://tinyurl.com/5653xymp
Learn about Casper’s latest project, The Nearness: https://tinyurl.com/yc76wjvj
Follow Casper on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/muueecw2
Follow Casper on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/mr2jsufk
Arla Good is a psychologist at Toronto Metropolitan University whose research specializes in the benefits of group singing on well-being.
Learn more about Arla and her work: https://tinyurl.com/3fxwsffs
Learn about Arla’s work with the SingWell Project: https://tinyurl.com/4acdhdc6
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How Music Helps Us Be More Creative: https://tinyurl.com/4mj6vs44
Four Ways Music Strengthens Social Bonds: https://tinyurl.com/y257y25p
How Music Bonds Us Together: https://tinyurl.com/np3z3cn
Five Ways Music Can Make You Healthier: https://tinyurl.com/4ckbtc2e
Where Music and Empathy Converge in the Brain: https://tinyurl.com/23tehxms
More Resources on Group Singing:
BBC -The world's most accessible stress reliever: https://tinyurl.com/37atkk78
Washington Post - Singing is good for you. Singing with others may be even better: https://tinyurl.com/mv3a525d
Oxford - Choir singing improves health, happiness – and is the perfect icebreaker: https://tinyurl.com/3z78634n
Ted - Choral Connections: The Surprising Benefits of Singing Together: https://tinyurl.com/y5yu236z
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10/26/2023 • 16 minutes, 53 seconds
A Meditation For Connecting In Polarized Times, With Scott Shigeoka
Having a curious approach to life can improve our mood, creativity and relationships. Scott Shigeoka leads a visualization exercise to help you approach someone you might disagree with with an open and curious mind.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/4dfsxr2x
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place to begin the practice, focusing on your breath.
Imagine that you are going to interact with a friend during a moment of conflict. Visualize the meeting, like the space around you and how you greet each other.
Picture yourself showing a curious and loving perspective. Take note of what you would say, the tone of your voice, your body language, and in particular the types of questions you ask to impact the conversation.
Pay attention to how you would feel if your friend was receiving your curiosity well, compared to if they weren’t.
Visualize yourself thanking your friend for their friendship and curiosity before leaving the meeting.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Scott Shigeoka is an author and storyteller who focuses on themes of curiosity and well-being.
Order Scott Shigeoka’s book Seek: How Curiosity can Transform Your Life and Save the World: https://tinyurl.com/4jrxbupj
Learn More About Scott’s work: https://tinyurl.com/y5xyxky7
Follow Scott on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/3acu6jhm
Follow Scott on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/3m3k3bm9
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Why Curious People Have Better Relationships: https://tinyurl.com/2xw5y9yr
How to Stay Open and Curious in Hard Conversations: https://tinyurl.com/y2f2e9ce
Six Surprising Benefits of Curiosity: https://tinyurl.com/7kcr32su
How Curiosity Can Help Us Overcome Disconnection: https://tinyurl.com/9kaas6nz
What Curiosity Looks Like in the Brain: https://tinyurl.com/22rj6nbh
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of handling a difficult interaction. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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10/19/2023 • 9 minutes, 6 seconds
How Holding Yourself Can Reduce Stress
Simple actions like consciously placing a hand on your heart or hugging yourself can lower your cortisol levels, heart rate, and help you feel less stressed. Our guest tries a practice in self-soothing touch.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/2zbykwh6
Episode summary:
While reading this, you might be fiddling with your fingers or have a hand resting on your face -– these are examples of self-touch. This week, we are examining the benefits of offering ourselves soothing touches with comedian Calvin Cato. Calvin leads a busy, stressful life. He tried the self-soothing touch practice as a way to better connect with himself. He found that physically caring for himself allowed him to reground his emotions and regulate his stress. To his surprise, the physical sensations also triggered fond childhood memories with his father. Later, we hear from self-compassion and mindfulness expert Aljoscha Dreisoerner about why we evolved to crave touch and how self-touch can be as effective as getting a hug from someone else.
Practice:
Find a comfortable position to begin the practice. What works for one person might not work for another. Here are some options you can choose from:
Place one or both hands on your heart or stomach.
Placing your right hand on your heart and the left on your belly while focusing on the rising and falling of the breath.
Stroke your arms or cheeks.
Place your right hand under your left arm, by the side of the heart. Place your left hand on the top of your right arm.
Try the practice you choose for at least twenty seconds. While doing the practice, focus on taking a few deep breaths, drawing attention to the pressure and warmth of your hands.
Repeat as many times as you would like.
Today’s guests:
Calvin Cato is a comedian and writer based in New York City.
Learn more about Calvin: https://tinyurl.com/3hcmcf8y
Read Calvin’s personal essay in Queendom: https://tinyurl.com/42u5h23w
Follow Calvin on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/2p5pkmkb
Follow Calvin on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/z5h47asz
Aljoscha Dreisoerner is a Post Doctorate at The University of Vienna interested in self-compassion and mindfulness.
Learn about Aljoscha’s work: https://tinyurl.com/bdfa48n7
Follow Aljoscha on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/94txhhrj
Follow Aljoscha on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/yc4wbmfh
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Why Physical Touch Matters for Your Well-Being: https://tinyurl.com/m2ea524m
Hands On Research: The Science of Touch: https://tinyurl.com/bdfbk36d
Four Ways Hugs Are Good for Your Health: https://tinyurl.com/3x39apr8
How Touch Shapes Emotion: https://tinyurl.com/3ukuut3b
More Resources on self soothing touch:
CBC - Self-soothing strategies to help break a chain of anxious thoughts quickly: https://tinyurl.com/3ksh2u6e
TED - Bonus: Self-soothing exercises with Dr. Kristin Neff: https://tinyurl.com/mvrwa596
Business Insider - It's possible to be literally starved for touch — here are the symptoms of the condition: https://tinyurl.com/bdc42rh7
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10/12/2023 • 16 minutes, 46 seconds
5 Minutes of Progressive Muscle Relaxation, With Jo Qina'au
When we mindfully tense and then release our muscles, our bodies are telling our brains to relax. Try this practice that's proven to help with depression, anxiety, and stress.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/477t6uhv
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable space to complete this practice, ideally lying down.
Soften your gaze and turn your attention towards your feet. When inhaling, tense your feet as much as you can for no more than 10 seconds. Then exhale and release your feet and toes, noticing the feelings of relaxation as you untense.
Repeat this process of tensing and releasing different parts of your body, working upwards from your legs to your torso, all the way to your upper body, arms and face. Remember to inhale when you are tensing your body, and exhale when you release.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Jo Qina’au is meditation guide and clinical psychology fellow from Harvard University.
Learn more about Jo Qina’au’s work: https://tinyurl.com/bdfyw3ar
Follow Jo on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/yc846waw
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Use Your Body to Relax Your Mind (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/mueeubr7
Five Ways Mindfulness Meditation Is Good for Your Health: https://tinyurl.com/3f79nsav
Why You Should Take a Relaxing Lunch Break: https://tinyurl.com/2p8axdba
Four Ways to Calm Your Mind in Stressful Times: https://tinyurl.com/6apdf52p
We love hearing from you! What was your experience like with this progressive muscle relaxation exercise? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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10/5/2023 • 11 minutes, 31 seconds
How To Use Your Body to Relax your Mind
Want to destress your mind? Start with your body. Progressive Muscle Relaxation is a practice where you methodically tense and release your muscles to help unwind. Studies show it can reduce anxiety, help you get better sleep and lower depression levels.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/y6stdy3b
Episode summary:
As a war correspondent and an Afghani refugee, Nelufar Hedayat is acutely aware of how stress feels in her body. For our show, Nelufar tried Progressive Muscle Relaxation: But what the practice’s title doesn’t mention is that you methodically tense your muscles, before releasing them.. At first, it triggered feelings of distress for her. But after recently being diagnosed with complex post-traumatic stress disorder, Nelufar was able to reframe her relationship to the exercise. By separating the sensation of tensing from stress, she completed the practice feeling empowered and euphoric. Later, we hear from psychologist Loren Toussaint about the importance of intentionally engaging our body’s relaxation response. We also learn how Progressive Muscle Relaxation compares to other well-known relaxation techniques, like deep breathing and visualization.
Practice:
Listen to next week’s Happiness Break on October 5th for a short guided version of this practice.
Try following these steps for Progressive Muscle Relaxation from Kaiser Permanente: https://tinyurl.com/4k668ehv
Today’s guests:
Nelufar Hedayat is an award-winning journalist and documentary filmmaker who has reported on numerous conflict zones. Her new podcast Ritually explores the role of wellness and spiritual practices in contemporary society.
Listen to Ritually: https://tinyurl.com/mtzvf2kp
Follow Nelufar on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/42ytnytw
Follow Nelufar on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/y6abuvtp
Follow Nelufar on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/mr2weemp
Loren Toussaint is a professor of psychology at Luther College in Decorah, Iowa.
Learn more about Loren and his work: https://tinyurl.com/4ea2jx9x
Follow Loren on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/mry2yb4s
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Four Ways to Calm Your Mind in Stressful Times: https://tinyurl.com/6apdf52p
How Resting More Can Boost Your Productivity: https://tinyurl.com/23h6rnvw
How a Body Scan Can Help With Strong Emotions: https://tinyurl.com/59tyjbhr
How Tuning In to Your Body Can Make You More Resilient: https://tinyurl.com/y2jhfmpe
Five Ways Mindfulness Meditation Is Good for Your Health: https://tinyurl.com/3f79nsav
More Resources for A Good Night’s Sleep
University of Toledo- Progressive Muscle Relaxation: https://tinyurl.com/2kadu7va
Mayo Clinic - Relaxation techniques: Try these steps to reduce stress: https://tinyurl.com/2tfrnnew
BBC - Can’t stop your brain racing at 3am? Try these suggestions from a GP: https://tinyurl.com/yvz45x5w
PTSD UK - How Progressive Muscle Relaxation can help people with PTSD: https://tinyurl.com/4b89auzw
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9/28/2023 • 19 minutes, 17 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation for Groundedness, With Diana Parra (English & Spanish)
Take a moment to ground yourself with this meditation that helps bring awareness to the relationship between ourselves and the earth beneath us.
También tenemos esta meditación en Español: está en nuestro podcast dondequiera que estés escuchando ahora mismo."
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/2p8vub46 (English)
https://tinyurl.com/muc82hj3 (Spanish)
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable position to start the practice, ensuring that your feet feel grounded.
Focus on your breath, and how the air moves from your chest out through your nose.
Notice how the bottoms of your feet are connected to the earth, and how your body is supported and sustained by the earth beneath you.
If any distractions arise, refocus your attention on your breathing and the points of contact between your body and the surface beneath you.
Complete this practice by expressing a sense of gratitude for the earth and our ability to reground ourselves within it.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Diana Parra is professor at Washington University in St. Louis, Missouri. She is also a registered mindfulness and yoga teacher who focuses on sharing these practices with the Latino immigrant community in St Louis.
Learn more about Diana Parra’s work: https://tinyurl.com/4acc7nsv
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Five Ways Mindfulness Meditation Is Good for Your Health: https://tinyurl.com/3f79nsav
Can Mindfulness Help When You’re Depressed? https://tinyurl.com/yc7heja3
Does Mindfulness Make You More Compassionate? https://tinyurl.com/4beawh8b
How to Practice Mindfulness Throughout Your Work Day: https://tinyurl.com/y8ftbcrz
How Mindfulness Improves Sleep: https://tinyurl.com/2tunpkjb
We love hearing from you! Did this practice help you feel more grounded? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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9/21/2023 • 8 minutes, 58 seconds
Happiness Break: Una meditación para enraizar, con Diana Parra (inglés y español)
Tómate un momento para conectarte con esta meditación que ayuda a tomar conciencia de la relación entre nosotros y la tierra.
Enlace a la transcripción: https://tinyurl.com/umu6wx33
We also have this meditation in Spanish — It's on our podcast feed wherever you're listening right now.
9/21/2023 • 9 minutes, 42 seconds
Making Difficult Interactions More Respectful
Dr. Omar Guzman reflects on how a practice to cultivate more respect shaped the way he interacts with his patients.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/2fwen962
Episode Summary:
As an ER doctor in an overworked healthcare system, Omar Guzman isn’t always able to build the relationships with patients the way he’d like to. For our show, Omar tried a practice called the 7 Elements of Respect. By contemplating his own motivations and biases, practicing deep listening and prioritizing relationship-building, Omar was able to develop a meaningful connection with a patient and was reminded of why he decided to pursue medicine. Later, we hear from Diane Johnson, the creator of this practice, to learn more about the multifaceted aspects of respect, and how developing empathic relationships can shape and strengthen our sense of community.
Practice:
Acknowledge the conflict and affirm your commitment to understanding and moving forward.
Ensure that you are staying honest and true to yourself.
Hear new perspectives by practicing deep listening.
Recognize the importance of emphatically interacting with others.
Let go of any pretenses or sense of ego by practicing humility.
Notice how these actions affect your internal motivations.
Practice building relationships and connections with others.
Today’s guests:
Omar Guzman is an ER doctor in Visalia, California.
Diane Johnson has a PhD in Organizational Behavior and is a consultant focused on leadership, change management and organizational development. She is the creator of the 7 Elements of Respect.
Learn more about Diane and her work: https://www.mmapeu.com/
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Four Ways to Help Your Coworkers Feel Respected: https://tinyurl.com/2p8uvhnb
How Do We Ensure That Students of Color Feel Respected?: https://tinyurl.com/5n8534ek
What Middle Schoolers Can Teach Us About Respect: https://tinyurl.com/4ua4va6s
Five Ways to Have More Constructive Disagreements: https://tinyurl.com/tt26uy84
More Resources on Cultivating Respect:
MIT - Creating a Culture of Respect: https://tinyurl.com/44kzr95s
NYT - How to Be More Empathetic: https://tinyurl.com/nf675dkk
BBC - Deep Listening: Finding common ground with opponents: https://tinyurl.com/yjby4zjx
How do you cultivate respect in your life? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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This episode was supported by a grant from the John Templeton Foundation, as part of our project on "Expanding Awareness of the Science of Intellectual Humility." To learn more, go to https://tinyurl.com/2dj6hw29
9/14/2023 • 17 minutes, 30 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation to Inspire a Sense of Purpose
Take a few minutes to reflect on someone who inspires you, and how you can embody the values you admire in them.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/4x2whvzb
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place to do this practice and settle into a relaxed pattern of breath.
Think of someone who’s character has moved and inspired you. Focus on a specific time when they did something that inspired you.
Notice the feelings that arise in your body when you reflect on that person’s moral beauty.
Reflect on why that aspect of moral beauty is so significant and meaningful to you.
Think of how you can strive to incorporate it into your own life.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
Check out Dacher’s most recent book, *Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: *<https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt\](https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt)
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Find Your Purpose in Life: https://tinyurl.com/28mjx65c
Living with a Purpose Changes Everything: https://tinyurl.com/yeyv2xhu
Seven Ways to Find Your Purpose in Life: https://tinyurl.com/4ekymbet
Five Ways to Foster Purpose in Adolescents: https://tinyurl.com/25e5bvv3
How Purpose Changes Across Your Lifetime: https://tinyurl.com/yhek7ktr
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9/7/2023 • 8 minutes, 37 seconds
Why Compassion Requires Vulnerability
Rapper Rexx Life Raj shared his deepest pain in his latest album, and discovered it was one big compassion practice for his fans dealing with their own grief.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/4xzncasd
Episode summary:
After losing both of his parents in the same year, Rapper Rexx Life Raj channeled his grief into his latest album. On tour, he found himself communing with fans who were struggling with grief of their own. For our show, Raj tried a meditation to cultivate more compassion, and discovered that his life was full of compassion practices – like connecting with his fans who were suffering. We also hear from researcher Hooria Jazaieri about the relationship between vulnerability and compassion, why compassion is so critical to our relationships, and the many ways we can cultivate more of it.
Practice:
Find a comfortable place and take a few moments to focus on your breath.
Think of a loved one. Allow the feelings of warmth and love to fill your heart. Wish those individuals well.
Think of a time when your loved one was suffering. Notice how your sensations shift. Sincerely wish that they may be free of suffering.
You can try this practice with different types of people in your life, including loved ones, friends, and even those you don’t get along with.
Learn more about the Compassion Meditation practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/compassion_meditation
Today’s guests:
Rexx Life Raj is a rapper and musician from the Bay area.
Listen to his latest album, The Blue Hour: https://tinyurl.com/3rpfv9r9
Listen to Raj Life Raj’s Music: https://www.rexxliferaj.com/
Follow Raj on Twitter: https://twitter.com/RexxLifeRaj
Follow Raj on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rexxliferaj/
Hooria Jazaieri is an Assistant Professor at Santa Clara University. Her research focuses on personal reputation and emotions like compassion and awe.
Learn more about Hooria and her work: https://tinyurl.com/2ndpkke9
Follow Hooria on Twitter: https://twitter.com/HooriaJazaieri
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Can Compassion Change the World: https://tinyurl.com/3ac2meyc
Does Mindfulness Make You More Compassionate? https://tinyurl.com/4beawh8b
When Empathy Hurts, Compassion Can Heal: https://tinyurl.com/yc4pyjcv
Compassionate Mind, Healthy Body: https://tinyurl.com/mruc6m95
Do Your Struggles Expand Your Compassion for Others? https://tinyurl.com/yc4pyjcv
More Resources on Compassion:
The Atlantic - What’s Missing From Empathy: https://tinyurl.com/4b6s2v3y
TED - Compassion and the true meaning of empathy: https://tinyurl.com/2kkhf3p5
Washington Post - Compassion fatigue hits not only professional caregivers. Other people get it, too: https://tinyurl.com/5325ewjt
Harvard - Connect with Empathy, But Lead with Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/5n8amcuh
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8/31/2023 • 17 minutes, 3 seconds
Happiness Break: Awe in Impermanence
Take a few minutes to develop your sense of awe for the circle of life in this meditation with Dacher Keltner.
LINK TO EPISODE TRANSCRIPT: https://tinyurl.com/2tv3whj2
All sentient beings are impermanent, and out of our reflections on this we find appreciation. We find poignancy. A little sadness, but also out of that sadness and poignancy, a sense of deep appreciation for the people we love.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place. Focus on taking a few deep breaths, relaxing your body from head to toe.
Think of an older relative who you are close to. Picture them in your mind.
Imagine how they entered the world years ago as a newborn.
Continue to imagine this individual growing up — through adolescence into adulthood, developing the qualities that you admire.
Now imagine them later in life, into seniority.
Reflect on the progression of the individual’s life, from the beginning to the final stages in this natural progression of the life cycle for humans.
Recognize that they'll pass or maybe they have passed, and that's part of this cycle
Take note of how you feel.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
Check out Dacher’s most recent book, *Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: *<https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt\](https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt)
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
What I Learned About Resilience in the Midst of Grief: https://tinyurl.com/2uw7uvxd
How to Face Grief in Yourself and Others: https://tinyurl.com/yckknp9r
Death and Gratitude: https://tinyurl.com/mwcn752j
How to Bring More Meaning to Dying: [https://tinyurl.com/vnbkwf52>\
Learning to Live in a World Without a Loved One: https://tinyurl.com/2v4avfvv
How do you find awe in impermanence? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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8/24/2023 • 8 minutes, 5 seconds
Why Humor Matters for Happiness
Humor can help us with stress, anxiety and feeling more connected to others. But is humor connected to mindfulness? And how can we find more of it?
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/2p9dkds7
Episode summary:
For Emmy- nominated comedian Josh Johnson, humor has always come naturally. But over time, Josh has found it difficult to reignite his passion for comedy outside of his career. For our show, Josh wrote down three funny things he experienced every day for a week. He noticed that funny moments often arise from a series of interconnected events, and that they aren’t always something we can prepare for. Instead, it’s the unexpected moments that often lead to a comedic sense of joy. Later, we hear from psychologist Sonja Heintz about the connection between various types of humor and mindfulness, and how engaging in mindful practices can spur more positive and benevolent types of humor.
Practice:
Take 10 minutes a day for at least a week to write down 3 of the funniest moments you experienced throughout the day.
Write down why you think these funny moments happened.
Remember to write down as much detail about the moment as possible. These funny moments do not have to be of major importance.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/three_funny_things
Today’s guests:
Josh Johnson is an Emmy-nominated comedian and writer for The Daily Show. This interview was recorded before the Writer’s Guild and Screen Actors’ Guild strikes began.
Learn more about Josh Johnson: https://www.joshjohnsoncomedy.com/
Follow Josh on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/33f4nkv2
Follow Josh on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/3txe78kf
Sonja Heintz is a psychologist at the University of Plymouth who specializes in positive psychology.
Learn more about Sonja and her work: https://tinyurl.com/mt4vs6cx
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Why Laughing Is Good for You (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/4z3snujy
How Laughter Brings Us Together: https://tinyurl.com/2cnapztk
Four Funny Ways Laughter Is Good for You: https://tinyurl.com/5x6d9jp3
How a Little Humor Can Improve Your Work Life: https://tinyurl.com/bdzz6thx
More Resources on Humor:
BBC - How comedy makes us better people: https://tinyurl.com/ytywxb94
Harvard - Humor, Laughter, and Those Aha Moments: https://tinyurl.com/ujjmzc75
Ted - The Superpower of Humour: https://tinyurl.com/53chw3nz
When Everything Is Heavy, a Touch of Humor Can Help: https://tinyurl.com/s6ydmyu4
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8/17/2023 • 17 minutes, 20 seconds
Happiness Break: Making Music With Your Body, With Keith Terry
Relieve stress, boost self-esteem, and increase focus through a simple body music practice. And do it with a friend to feel more compassion and a hit of oxytocin.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/yc8aer74
How to Do This Practice:
Try using these movements to create various rhythmic combinations with your body:
One: Clap your hands, slightly cupping with each clapping instead of hitting your full palms together.
Two: Tap your right hand to your left chest.
Three: Tap your left hand to tap your right chest.
Four: Tap your right thigh with your right hand.
Five: Tap your left thigh with your left hand. Then loop back to the top.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Keith Terry is a percussionist and body musician who uses a variety of surfaces to create interesting rhythms.
Learn more about Keith Terry: https://tinyurl.com/5av66v5f
Watch Keith Terry in action: https://tinyurl.com/299vuw4a
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
The Science of Synchronized Movement (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/mrys53k4
Five Ways Music Can Make You Healthier: https://tinyurl.com/4ckbtc2e
How Music Helps Us Be More Creative: https://tinyurl.com/4mj6vs44
Wired for Music: https://tinyurl.com/ye2xkjxz
Four Ways Music Strengthens Social Bonds: https://tinyurl.com/y257y25p
How was your experience creating body music? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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8/10/2023 • 7 minutes, 29 seconds
How Improv Makes You More Confident and Less Anxious
Just 20 minutes of improv theater can foster creativity and confidence, and help with anxiety, depression, and your ability to tolerate uncertainty.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/4t9rjj58
Episode summary:
Deema Altaher was never one for the spotlight. So when her husband signed them up for improv classes, she had no idea what to expect. And yet after one class, Deema was hooked. From active listening games to “yes, and” prompts, she found that improv exercises shifted the way she connected with other people, and eased her nerves as she navigated all the uncomfortable parts of starting a new job. She was also inspired to “say yes” to new life opportunities. In fact, an emerging science shows that improv can benefit many people in terms of fostering greater comfort with new situations, inspiring creativity, lifting your mood, and even easing anxiety and depression. Professor Peter Felsman is a social scientist and improviser himself who has tested this spontaneous style of theater in the lab. Felsman explains how improv might cause these improvements, and others, like lessening social anxiety in children.
Try Improv On Your Own:
11 Easy Improv Games for Beginners - https://tinyurl.com/24xrre2y
Today’s guests:
Deema Altaher is an engineer who recently moved back to the United States from the United Arab Emirates.
Peter Felsman is a professor of social work at Northern Michigan University who specializes in the intersection between mindfulness, psychology and the arts.
Learn more about Peter Felsman’s work: https://tinyurl.com/5h47wsxs
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Seven Ways to Cope with Uncertainty: https://tinyurl.com/4zh3m36e
Embracing Discomfort Can Help You Grow: https://tinyurl.com/5ftvvce3
The Power of Performance: https://tinyurl.com/3mc78yzb
What Mel Brooks Can Teach Us about “Group Flow”: https://tinyurl.com/2rxmrzhn
More Resources on Improv
NPR - The rules of improv can make you funnier. They can also make you more confident: https://tinyurl.com/2wvpk53j
Harvard Gazette - For more than just laughs: https://tinyurl.com/2zzxacpu
TED - How Improv Comedy Improves Mental Health: https://tinyurl.com/5a8vpt67
What helps you destress and cope with big changes? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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8/3/2023 • 18 minutes
Happiness Break: A Mindful Breath Meditation, with Dacher Keltner
Mindful breathing exercises are a simple, effective, and fast way to shift our mindset and improve physical and mental well-being when practiced regularly.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/mpt4rr5x
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable position to start the practice, maintain a good posture and close your eyes.
Take a deep breath in for a count of four. Hold that breath, feeling it in your lungs and body for another count of four. Push the air outwards, exhaling for a count of six.
Repeat this exercise as many times as you would like.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the UC, Berkeley.
Check out Dacher’s most recent book, Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
What Focusing on the Breath Does to Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/3u8h53pw
Is the Way You Breathe Making You Anxious?: https://tinyurl.com/mryr2jup
A Five-Minute Breathing Exercise for Anxiety and Mood: https://tinyurl.com/3ve66u2k
How Four Deep Breaths Can Help Kids Calm Down: https://tinyurl.com/5xr2sb99
What does mindful breathing do for you? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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7/27/2023 • 5 minutes, 41 seconds
How To Let Go Without Giving Up
War veteran and country music singer Sal Gonzalez tries the Taoist practice of Wu Wei to improve his relationship with anger.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/yavaw23d
Episode summary:
For Iraq war veteran Sal Gonzalez, relying on anger had become second nature — and while this emotion was beneficial for him on the battlefield, Sal found it difficult to manage his anger when readjusting to civilian life. For our show Sal tried a 5 step practice of Wu Wei. Rooted in the ancient Chinese philosophy of Taoism, Wu Wei is focused on setting strategic intentions and accepting difficult situations, rather than resisting them. After trying the practice, Sal reflected that he doesn’t have to give up anger entirely, rather, he can be more intentional about choosing when to use it. We later hear from Dr. Doris Chang, the clinical psychologist who developed a 5 step methodology of practicing Wu Wei, to learn more about the impact of acceptance and non-action.
Practice:
Articulate: Identify your goals and values in life.
Self-Assess: Take note of your role and the role of others within a particular situation in order to clearly outline your options.
Accept: Begin by recognizing any circumstances of your life that cannot be changed. Instead of resisting or trying to control the situation, try to accept the situation.
Action, non-action: Based on your evaluation of the situation, determine whether it is more beneficial to act, or choose not to act.
Allow: Give yourself the opportunity to move with the situation, recognizing that it is easier to flow with a situation than against it.
Today’s guests:
Sal Gonzalez is a country music singer and an Iraq war veteran who was wounded in combat.
Listen to Sal’s music: https://salgmusic.com/
Follow Sal on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/salgmusic/
Follow Sal on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/officialsalgmusic
Doris Chang is a clinical psychologist and professor at NYU. She developed a five step process of Wu Wei.
Learn more about Doris and her work: http://dorisfchang.com/about
Follow Doris on Twitter: https://twitter.com/dorisfchang/
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
What You Think About Your Emotions Matters: https://tinyurl.com/9akpm7u6
Just One Thing: Accept Difficulty: https://tinyurl.com/mrknbj8b
How to Deal with Feeling Bad About Your Feelings: https://tinyurl.com/2zf7njh4
How to Overcome Destructive Anger: https://tinyurl.com/49zu6whw
More Resources for A Good Night’s Sleep
Harvard Health - Go with the flow: engagement and concentration are key: https://tinyurl.com/bp66krnw
CNBC - A 2,000-year-old Chinese mindset can make you more successful—it ‘takes almost zero effort,’ says psychologist: https://tinyurl.com/mr3n4a8b
TED - Wuwei and Flow: https://tinyurl.com/3jmcjp68
Atlantic - How to Not Try: https://tinyurl.com/mr2nwufj
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7/20/2023 • 21 minutes, 33 seconds
Happiness Break: Moving Through Space, With Dacher Keltner
Moving meditations can help reduce stress and boost self-awareness. Improve your ability to sense your body in space with this 7-minute proprioception meditation.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/ynkdywbn
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place where you can move your arms freely. This practice can be completed sitting or standing. If you choose to stand, avoid locking your knees by bending them slightly.
Begin by taking deep breaths, drawing your attention to your body in the present moment.
Balance your posture by grounding evenly through your feet, leveling your pelvis, and straightening your back.
Focus your attention on your arms, starting from your shoulders down to your fingertips. Bring your palms to touch in front of your heart, inhale and lift them upwards to meet above your head. Exhale and bring them towards your heart.
Repeat this cycle 2-3 more times, focusing on noticing how your body moves through space.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the UC, Berkeley.
Check out Dacher’s most recent book, Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Finding Delight Through Your 5 Senses (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/3bszfww2
How to Gain Freedom from Your Thoughts: https://tinyurl.com/hp8s5wv6
10 Steps to Savoring the Good Things in Life: https://tinyurl.com/y9636sku
Why Physical Touch Matters for Your Well-Being: https://tinyurl.com/m2ea524m
How to Deal with Sensory Overload as a Sensitive Person: https://tinyurl.com/y7epvsmu
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7/13/2023 • 7 minutes, 7 seconds
Finding Delight Through Your 5 Senses
We enjoy the world through our five senses, so why don't we do more to heighten them? We explore the techniques and science of the senses with Gretchen Rubin.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/4s3wv9mv
Episode summary:
When Gretchen Rubin found out she was at greater risk of losing her eyesight, she started to recognize what she had been taking for granted and her appreciation for sight — and the rest of her senses — was reignited. Since then, Gretchen has been committed to discovering how our five senses shape and enhance our experiences of the world. Like how certain odors can trigger good memories and how our sense of touch stimulates the vagus nerve, which has a calming effect on our brains and bodies. We explore techniques to enhance each of our senses, and the science behind how they contribute to our well-being.
Today’s guest:
Gretchen Rubin is an acclaimed journalist and author.
Read Gretchen’s latest book book, Life in Five Senses: How Exploring the Senses Got Me Out of My Head and Into the World: https://gretchenrubin.com/books/life-in-five-senses/
Follow Gretchen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenrubin/
Follow Gretchen on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GretchenRubin
Follow Gretchen on Twitter: https://twitter.com/gretchenrubin
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Happiness Break: Finding Presence Through Your Senses, With Dacher Keltner (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/y63mphep
How to Gain Freedom from Your Thoughts: https://tinyurl.com/hp8s5wv6
10 Steps to Savoring the Good Things in Life: https://tinyurl.com/y9636sku
Why Physical Touch Matters for Your Well-Being: https://tinyurl.com/m2ea524m
How to Deal with Sensory Overload as a Sensitive Person: https://tinyurl.com/y7epvsmu
More Resources on Your 5 Senses:
Scientific American - Making Sense of the World, Several Senses at a Time: https://tinyurl.com/34djh4p4
BBC - Hacking our senses to boost learning power: https://tinyurl.com/y7e8f89c
TED - How your sense of smell helps you savor flavor: https://tinyurl.com/2yx5n5pm
Washington Post - Why music causes memories to flood back: https://tinyurl.com/2s47stkk
We want to hear from you! How does your favorite sense enhance your life? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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7/6/2023 • 16 minutes, 31 seconds
Happiness Break: What To Do When You're Struggling, With Spring Washam
Treating yourself with kindness reduces anxiety and improves coping skills. Spring Washam encourages us to be more self-compassionate through a short guided meditation.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/mrx8t9st
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable position and begin to focus on your breath.
This is a practice to use when you are struggling in some way. Allow your attention to turn toward your suffering and notice how you feel, and where those emotions are held in your body. Close your eyes and imagine that you are literally breathing in compassion and care for yourself.
Hold your left hand in your right, or place your hands on your heart, holding yourself with care.
Continue to direct compassionate energy to yourself using the mantra “May I care about this suffering. May I care about these difficulties.”
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Spring Washam is a meditation teacher whose practices draw on themes of loving-kindness, well-being and compassion.
Learn More About Spring’s work: https://www.springwasham.com/about/
Listen to Spring’s podcast, The Spirit Underground: https://tinyurl.com/y87mxrw2
Follow Spring on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/springwasham/?hl=en
Follow Spring on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/teacher.springwasham
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Feel Better About Yourself (The Science of Happiness Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/3jh5rheb
How to Bring Self-Compassion to Work with You: https://tinyurl.com/45zkrkam
The Five Myths of Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/2p88vass
How Self-Compassion Can Help You Through a Breakup: https://tinyurl.com/222scejz
Can Self-Compassion Overcome Procrastination? https://tinyurl.com/mrfmvyj
The Three Components of Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/mwa2zddp
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience practicing self compassion. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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6/29/2023 • 8 minutes, 46 seconds
How To Feel Better About Yourself
Self-compassion reduces our feelings of shame and self-doubt. We explore a practice to help quiet our inner critic with kindness.
Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/ytek6jxk
Episode summary:
What does your inner critic sound like? For René Brooks, it’s the adults who misunderstood her ADHD symptoms as a child, before she was diagnosed later in life. For our show, René tried a self-compassionate writing exercise that helped her re-examine how she treats herself in difficult situations. She highlights why self-compassion is so important for marginalized communities in particular, and how as a Black woman, she puts double the pressure on herself to achieve and has come to use shame and self-judgment to motivate herself. The practice helps her to disrupt that tendency by noticing the way she speaks to herself and learning to take a more compassionate tone, instead. Later, we hear from psychologist Serena Chen, who expands on how cultivating self-compassion can help us embrace our true selves, which can lead to greater life satisfaction, increased well-being and closer social relationships.
Practice:
Think of something that makes you feel guilty, ashamed or insecure.
Notice how you feel and write down your emotions.
Imagine someone who loves you unconditionally and write a letter to yourself from their perspective, using the tone they would use with you, and expressing acceptance and understanding. Acknowledge that no one is perfect and there are likely many people struggling with the very same thing you are.
In a compassionate way, ask yourself whether there are things that you could do to improve or better cope with this negative aspect. Focus on how constructive changes could make you feel happier, healthier, or more fulfilled, and avoid judging yourself.
Try to complete the practice on a weekly or monthly basis.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/self_compassionate_letter
Today’s guests:
René Brooks is the creator of the blog Black Girl, Lost Keys. She draws on her personal experiences to coach and assist adults with ADHD.
Visit René’s Blog: https://blackgirllostkeys.com/
Follow René on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/2p9caj5v
Follow René on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/3a96882u
Follow René on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blackgirllostkeys/
Serena Chen is the Chair of the Psychology department at UC Berkeley. Her research is focused on self-compassion, wellbeing and social interaction.
Learn more about Serena and her work: https://tinyurl.com/mry3vx3v
Follow Serena on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/3btm3jn8
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
The Five Myths of Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/4tfp7d73
Why Self-Compassion Trumps Self-Esteem: https://tinyurl.com/5a6phdx3
Why Is Self-Compassion So Hard for Some People? https://tinyurl.com/2x4v3r72
The Three Components of Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/mwa2zddp
Want to Change your Life? Try Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/2y2ryc6m
More Resources on Self-Compassion
Happiness Break: How to Be Your Own Best Friend, with Kristin Neff: https://tinyurl.com/3fj4yfrn
TED - Dare to rewire your brain for self-compassion: https://tinyurl.com/yc2ru73p
Harvard Health - The power of self-compassion: https://tinyurl.com/yc7usmx5
BBC - Why self-compassion – not self-esteem – leads to success: https://tinyurl.com/yj2zax8x
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6/22/2023 • 19 minutes, 28 seconds
Happiness Break: Wishing Others Well, With Anushka Fernandopulle
Cultivate a sense of compassion for yourself and others by trying a meditation rooted in loving kindness, called "Metta."
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place to start this meditation.
Start taking deep breaths, focusing your attention on what you feel around your heart and chest.
Turn your attention to someone who immediately brings a smile to your face. Try to sincerely wish that person well. Some phrases you can mention include, “May you be peaceful and happy. May you be strong and healthy. May you be safe from harm. May you live with ease.”
Think of someone you don’t know as well, and repeat step three. After that, you can try directing well wishes towards someone you struggle with, if you would like.
Slowly begin to shift your attention away from others and direct those well wishes towards yourself.
Complete this practice by sending out goodwill for everyone around you, including yourself, using the word “we.”
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Anushka Fernandopulle is a Buddhist meditation teacher and leadership coach.
Learn More about Anushka: https://www.anushkaf.org/about/
Follow Anushka on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anushka_dharma/
Follow Anushka on Twitter: https://twitter.com/anushkaf
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Greater Happiness in 5 Minutes a Day: https://tinyurl.com/2p896av4
Are You Getting Enough Positivity in Your Diet? https://tinyurl.com/59d56w5d
Feeling Connected Makes Us Kind: https://tinyurl.com/dbv86969
You Need More Than a Book to Learn Loving-Kindness: https://tinyurl.com/5aatw6hw
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of practicing loving-kindness. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
6/15/2023 • 8 minutes, 21 seconds
Where To Look For Joy
How can we feel more moments of joy? We explore the science of joy and how we can cultivate it in our everyday lives, with poet Ross Gay and psychologist Philip Watkins.
Episode summary:
Are joy and happiness the same thing? Can you feel joy even in moments of sorrow? This week, we’ve set out to explore the unique qualities of joy, why it's so beneficial for us to experience, and how we can find more of it. We first hear from Ross Gay, an award-winning poet and author who dedicated his last book to the topic of joy, and how we usually find it through closeness with others. Later, we hear from psychologist Philip Watkins about what sets joy apart from other emotions, whether joy can be produced or must be happened upon, and practical steps we can take to amplify joy within our own lives.
Today’s guests:
Ross Gay is an award-winning American poet and author. His latest book explores the complexities of joy and its connection to feelings like gratitude and sorrow.
Learn more about Ross: https://www.rossgay.net/about
Read Ross’ book, Inciting Joy: https://www.rossgay.net/inciting-joy
Follow Ross on Twitter: https://twitter.com/RossGay18
Philip Watkins is a psychology professor at Eastern Washington University. He conducts research on different aspects of well-being including gratitude, happiness and joy.
Learn more about Philip and his work: https://tinyurl.com/3zwested
Find Philip on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/philip.watkins.338/
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Overcome Stress by Seeing Other People’s Joy: https://tinyurl.com/4csukyd5
How to Awaken Joy in Kids: https://tinyurl.com/5xr3t9vf
What is Sympathetic Joy and How Can You Feel More of It? https://tinyurl.com/yuzmykct
Joy and Grace: https://tinyurl.com/yaxp48xd
Why Experiencing Joy and Pain in a Group is so Powerful: https://tinyurl.com/3trjtzfm
More Resources on Joy:
Harvard Business Review - Making Joy a Priority at Work: https://tinyurl.com/3z8mejum
Harvard Health - How can you find joy (or at least peace) during difficult times? https://tinyurl.com/2s35wffy
TED - Where joy hides and how to find it: https://tinyurl.com/3d2fbfbv
How do you define joy? When was the last time you felt it? We want to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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6/8/2023 • 15 minutes, 32 seconds
Happiness Break: Who Takes Care of You? With Dacher Keltner
When we feel cared for, our cortisol levels drop, we feel safe, and we handle stress better. Dacher leads a meditation to help us focus on the people who make us feel supported.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable position to start the practice. Focus on taking deep breaths.
Shift your attention to your body, relaxing your jaw, shoulders and face.
Begin to think about a friend who has supported you, or a friend who you feel grateful for.
Reflect on how they have supported you and how that makes you feel. Notice how those feelings manifest within your body.
Try shifting your attention to family members and/or mentors who have supported you in various ways.
Complete the practice by acknowledging the ways these individuals have contributed to your life.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the UC, Berkeley.
Check out Dacher’s most recent book, Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Just One Thing: Feel the Support: https://tinyurl.com/yrfnmwfv
Four Ways Social Support Makes You More Resilient: https://tinyurl.com/2p9zkjpj
Why Your Friends Are More Important Than You Think: https://tinyurl.com/mw2mr5p7
How Friends Help You Regulate Your Emotions: https://tinyurl.com/bdetmjt3
We love hearing from you! How do you feel supported by the people in your life? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
6/1/2023 • 9 minutes, 7 seconds
Feeling Overworked? Take a Fika Break (The Science of Happiness Podcast)
A short break does more than just fuel our bodies, it strengthens our minds. Our overworked guest tries the Swedish practice of 'Fika' – taking short coffee breaks throughout the work day.
Episode summary:
In the United States, we’re taught that it’s a good thing to work more, and work harder. But research shows that overworking isn’t just physically and mentally draining, it can also be deadly. One strategy to manage our work culture? Take more breaks. Our guest this week is Mike Heyliger, a music executive and self-described “workaholic.” He incorporated the Swedish tradition of fika – taking coffee and snack breaks throughout the day – into his own life, and found it not only helped him de-stress, it also shifted his mindset and enabled him to connect with others. Later, we look at the scientific benefits of taking microbreaks and hear from Anna Brones, co-author of Fika: The Art of the Swedish Coffee Break.
Practice:
Actively choose to take a break during your day. Typically, fika breaks happen twice. Once in the morning and once in the mid-afternoon.
Traditionally, fika breaks include a drink, like coffee, and a snack, but this is not required. Often, fika breaks are taken with others.
Today’s guests:
Mike Heyliger is a music executive and the creator of Detoxicity, a podcast on progressive masculinity.
Learn more about Mike’s Initiative, ‘Mindful Vinyl’: https://mindfulvinyl.org/about/
Listen to Mike’s Podcast, ‘Detoxicity’: https://tinyurl.com/vc72tjn2
Anna Brones is a Swedish-American writer and artist. She produces the newsletter and podcast, Creative Fuel. Anna is also the co-author of Fika: The Art of the Swedish Coffee Break.
Learn more about Anna and her work: https://www.annabrones.com/about
Listen to the Creative Fuel Podcast: https://www.creativefuelcollective.com/podcast
Read Anna’s book on Fika: https://tinyurl.com/yhdzaj2m
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Five Reasons to Take a Break from Screens: https://tinyurl.com/333tuvax
Why You Should Take More Time Off from Work: https://tinyurl.com/k5brkp46
Tuesday Tip: Take a Break: https://tinyurl.com/5986ste3
How to Avoid Burnout – or a Breakdown: https://tinyurl.com/bddw7cap
Why You Should Take a Relaxing Lunch Break: https://tinyurl.com/2p8axdba
More Resources on Fika:
NYT - In Sweden, the Fika Experience: https://tinyurl.com/54wpw8p5
Insider - A daily habit from Sweden could make you more productive at work: https://tinyurl.com/4exjydrr
TED - Forget the Pecking Order at Work: https://tinyurl.com/yk68dmzy
BBC - The Swedish tradition that can make you happier at work: https://tinyurl.com/yx28x2v8
Have you tried incorporating fika in your life? Tell us how it went. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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5/25/2023 • 15 minutes, 17 seconds
Belonging to the Earth, With Yuria Celidwen
Indigenous scholar Yuria Celidwen guides us in a meditation to strengthen our sense of belonging and connection to the earth.
This Happiness Break is part of our special series, Climate, Hope & Science. In it, we explore the intersection of environmental well-being and our own well-being, where taking care of ourselves and the planet are one in the same and feeling good is not only possible, it’s helpful. Listen to the rest of the series, which was released in our feed April 22–May 18, 2023.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable position wherever you are located.
Direct your attention to your feet and the surface below them. Try to cultivate a sense of belonging in that space under your feet.
Let your breath guide your attention back to your feet and upward to your heart and head.
Feel a sense of openness as you welcome the warmth of the sun into your heart.
Acknowledge the transformative power of the earth and your role within it.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dr. Yuria Celidwen is an Indigenous scholar whose work focuses on Indigenous contemplative traditions and advocating for the rights of Indigenous peoples and lands. She is a senior fellow at the Othering and Belonging Institute at UC Berkeley and has worked with numerous organizations including the United Nations.
Learn more about Yuria: https://www.yuriacelidwen.com/
Find out more about Yuria’s work at the Othering and Belonging Institute: https://belonging.berkeley.edu/yuria-celidwen
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How Nature Can Make You Kinder, Happier, and More Creative: https://tinyurl.com/d2vzpsaj
What Happens When We Reconnect With Nature: https://tinyurl.com/553xwm47
How to Protect Kids from Nature-Deficit Disorder: https://tinyurl.com/4usewuzj
How Nature Helps Us Heal: https://tinyurl.com/2p93682j
Why is Nature So Good for Your Mental Health? https://tinyurl.com/bdetmjt3
Five Ways to Develop “Ecoliteracy”: https://tinyurl.com/2zuj6smv
Green With Empathy: https://tinyurl.com/42rk4m2m
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience with this meditation. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
The Science of Happiness would like to extend a special thanks to *Eva Frye for their support of this series.*
5/18/2023 • 9 minutes, 49 seconds
How To Step into Harmony With Nature
Walking can increase our sense of connectedness with the earth and motivation to take climate action, which might be an important aspect of your well-being.
This is the third and final episode of our special series, Climate, Hope & Science. We explore the intersection of environmental well-being and our own well-being, where taking care of ourselves and the planet are one in the same and feeling good is not only possible, it’s helpful. We find the links between crisis, hope, happiness, and action.
Look for another climate-focused Happiness Break on May 18th.
Episode summary:
Musician and activist Diana Gameros tries leaving her car at home and walking instead of drive for three days. We hear what was challenging about her experience, and why in the end, she loved it. Incorporating small climate actions into our daily life can strengthen our relationship with the earth and inspire us to take better care of it. Later, climate scientist Patrick Gonzalez breaks down the actual climate impact of one person choosing not to drive for a day. (It’s more than you’d think.) Finally, we learn how to reimagine our relationship to the environment from Dr. Yuria Celidwen, an expert in Indigenous contemplative practices and sciences, and what we — and the planet — might gain from bridging Western and Indigenous worldviews.
Practice:
Avoid driving for one day out of the week. Instead, walk and take public transportation.
Try to avoid using your phone while getting around. Instead, observe the environment around you and how you engage with it. Notice as much as you can about your neighborhood. Pay attention to how you feel when you walk versus drive.
Think about how you can incorporate other small actions in your daily life to help the planet.
Today’s guests:
Diana Gameros is a musician and social activist. Her music is informed by themes like identity, language, culture and her experience as an immigrant.
Learn more about Diana: https://www.dianagameros.com/
Listen to Diana’s Music: https://open.spotify.com/album/0JdsjnFwzgkr0kPelaODF4
Follow Diana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianagameros/
Follow Diana on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dianagamerosmusic/
Patrick Gonzalez is a climate scientist and forest ecologist at UC Berkeley. His work inspired numerous policy changes focused on forestry protections around the world.
Learn more about Patrick and his work: http://www.patrickgonzalez.net/
Follow Patrick on Twitter: https://twitter.com/pgonzaleztweet?lang=en
Dr. Yuria Celidwen is an Indigenous scholar whose work focuses on Indigenous contemplative traditions and advocating for the rights of Indigenous peoples and lands.
Learn more about Yuria and her work: https://www.yuriacelidwen.com/
More Resources on Climate Action:
Greater Good Mag - Can We Have More Productive Conversations About Climate Change? https://tinyurl.com/5n95sva3
WHO - Cycling and walking can help reduce physical inactivity and air pollution, save lives and mitigate climate change: https://tinyurl.com/3kzhytf5
TED - When Mother Earth Speaks, You Best Listen: https://tinyurl.com/yzmhch34
Time Magazine - In the Face of Climate Change, We Must Act So That We Can Feel Hopeful—Not the Other Way Around: https://tinyurl.com/98bbspap
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5/11/2023 • 23 minutes, 51 seconds
Happiness Break: Contemplating our Interdependence with Nature, with Dekila Chungyalpa
Take ten minutes to renew your connection to the earth through this guided meditation on our interdependence with the ecosystem.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place to do this practice, relax into your body.
Wherever you are, start to acknowledge your surroundings, noticing the living and inanimate things around you.
Focus your attention on your breath, and how your breathing is interdependent on other life forms, and other life forms are dependent on your breath.
Contemplate the Earth’s compassion, and how it provides you with unconditional support.
Finish this practice by acknowledging your connection to the natural world.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dekila Chungyalpa is the founder and head of the Loka Initiative, which brings together faith leaders and culture keepers of indigenous traditions on environmental and climate issues.
Learn More About Dekila Chungyalpa’s work: https://centerhealthyminds.org/about/people/dekila-chungyalpa
Learn about the Loka Initiative: https://centerhealthyminds.org/programs/loka-initiative
Follow Dekila on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dchungyalpa/?hl=en
Follow Dekila on Twitter: https://twitter.com/dchungyalpa?lang=en
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
What Happens When We Reconnect With Nature: https://tinyurl.com/553xwm47
How Nature Helps Us Heal: https://tinyurl.com/2p93682j
Why Is Nature So Good for Your Mental Health? https://tinyurl.com/ycx9ns4p
How Nature Can Make You Kinder, Happier and More Creative: https://tinyurl.com/d2vzpsaj
How Being in Nature Can Spur Personal Growth: https://tinyurl.com/2p822nyj
How Modern Life Became Disconnected from Nature: https://tinyurl.com/bdzzy6pc
Being Around Nature Helps You Love Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/34m7tfre
We love hearing from you! How do you connect with nature? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
This Happiness Break is part of our special series, Climate, Hope & Science. In it, we explore the intersection of environmental well-being and our own well-being, where taking care of ourselves and the planet are one in the same and feeling good is not only possible, it’s helpful. We find the links between crisis, hope, happiness, and action.
Look for the third and final episode May 11. Plus, we’ll share another climate-focused Happiness Break on May 18.
5/4/2023 • 9 minutes, 45 seconds
How to Feel More Hopeful
How can we build a sense of hope when the future feels uncertain? Poet Tomás Morín tries a writing practice to make him feel more hopeful and motivated to work toward his goals.
This is the second episode of our special series, Climate, Hope & Science. We explore the intersection of environmental well-being and our own well-being, where taking care of ourselves and the planet are one in the same and feeling good is not only possible, it’s helpful. We find the links between crisis, hope, happiness, and action.
Look for the third and final episode May 11. Plus, we’ll share climate-focused Happiness Breaks next week and May 18.
Episode summary:
In the first episode of Climate, Hope & Science, we explored the power of hope with Rebecca Solnitt. Hope can help us cope with uncertainty and sustain action, even when we don’t know what will happen. But what can we do when hope feels far away? This week, we learn about a practice shown in a lab to increase hopefulness and happiness. Poet and professor Tomá Morín got his first taste of climate anxiety as a kid, when he learned about the hole in the ozone layer, and he still feels the panic over the state of the environment today. Will writing about a past hope that was fulfilled — like the global effort to heal the ozone layer — help him overcome despair and cultivate hope? We hear about Tomás’ experience. Then, the scientist behind the practice explains how she created it and why it works.
Editor’s Note: In this episode, Tomás mentions recycling as a way to care for the environment. But in the last few years, we’ve learned that most things we toss in the recycling bin are never made into something new. If you’d like to learn more, here are a few places to start:
https://tinyurl.com/3y9u2y5w
https://tinyurl.com/yckstwer
Today’s Practice:
Find a quiet space and grab paper and something to write with.
Write about something you're currently hopeful for when it comes to climate change. Describe it as if it’s happening now in as much detail as possible. Don’t worry about spelling and grammar.
Next, write about a past hope you’ve held in the past regarding the environment that's been fulfilled and that brings you a sense of gratitude to think about now. Describe what happened, the gratitude you felt, how you and others contributed to it, and what you learned from the experience. If you like, take these prompts one by one. Don’t worry about writing well, just write as much as you can.
Today’s guests:
Tomás Morin is a poet who won an American Poetry Review Honickman First Book Prize for his collection of poems A Larger Country. He’s currently a professor at Rice University.
Check out Tomás’ work: https://www.tomasqmorin.com/About
Read Tomás’ latest book: https://www.nebraskapress.unl.edu/nebraska/9781496226495/
Follow Tomas on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomasqmorin/
Charlotte Van Oyen-Witvliet is a clinical psychologist who teaches at Hope College in Holland, Michigan.
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How Hope Can Keep You Happier and Healthier: https://tinyurl.com/2n9k59xn
How Gratitude Can Help You Through Hard Times: https://tinyurl.com/3b66kh5n
How to Overcome “Apocalypse Fatigue” Around Climate Change: https://tinyurl.com/yc47ph38
What to do With Dread and Anxiety Around Climate Change: https://tinyurl.com/3766a6sj
Tell us about your experience finding hope for the environment. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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4/27/2023 • 21 minutes, 50 seconds
The Case for Hope
In the first episode in our series Climate, Hope and Science, we explore how embracing uncertainty enables us to move beyond climate anxiety and despair to hope and action, with author and activist Rebecca Solnit.
What does it take to be aware of what’s really happening, without falling into despair? How do we find hope? Do small, individual actions really matter? What happens to our minds and hearts when we connect with nature, and how can that actually protect the climate? We find the links between crisis, hope, happiness, and action.
Look for new episodes April 27 and March 11. Plus, we’ll share climate-focused Happiness Breaks in the weeks following those episodes.
Episode summary:
When you think about climate change, do you feel hope? On this episode of our special series, Climate, Hope and Science, we examine what it means to feel hopeful for the future of our planet. Renowned writer and activist Rebecca Solnit joins Dacher to share why she loves uncertainty, what gives her hope, and how hope empowers her. Later, we hear from climate scientist Patrick Gonzalez about why he believes climate hope is scientifically sound, and how much power we truly have to create meaningful change.
Today’s guests:
Rebecca Solnit is an award-winning author and activist whose works have explored numerous themes including technology, feminism, the environment and social change. Her latest book, which she co-edited, is It's Not Too Late: Changing the Climate Story from Despair to Possibility. https://www.nottoolateclimate.com/
Learn more about Rebecca: http://rebeccasolnit.net/biography/
Read Rebecca’s article “Ten ways to confront the climate crisis without loosing hope”: https://tinyurl.com/2p92e2h6
Follow Rebecca on Twitter: https://twitter.com/RebeccaSolnit
Follow Rebecca on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccasolnit/
Follow Rebecca on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.solnit
Patrick Gonzalez is a climate scientist and forest ecologist at UC Berkeley. His work inspired numerous policy changes focused on forestry protections around the world.
Learn more about Patrick and his work: http://www.patrickgonzalez.net/
Follow Patrick on Twitter: https://twitter.com/pgonzaleztweet?lang=en
Follow Patrick on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/mvn98ear
More Resources on Climate Hope:
Greater Good Mag - More Resources on Science Center https://tinyurl.com/ytna663b
University of Michigan - Climate crisis: 4 reasons for hope in 2023: https://tinyurl.com/5n7hhpu8
United Nations - 8 reasons not to give up hope - and take climate action: https://tinyurl.com/3wzrebyy
Australian Psychological Society - Coping with climate change distress: https://tinyurl.com/43jhkbjw
How do you feel when you think about climate change? Where do you derive hope? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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4/22/2023 • 22 minutes, 39 seconds
Happiness Break: Sketching Serenity with Chris Murchison
Happiness Break: Sketching Serenity with Chris Murchison
A guided drawing meditation to help you break out of stale thought patterns and maybe even enter a state of flow. No talent required.
How to Do This Practice:
Grab a piece of paper and something to draw with.
Find a comfortable place and start by taking some deep, mindful breaths
Take a few moments to take in your environment. What colors, shapes, and objects do you see?
Set a timer and for the next two minutes, draw something that caught your attention. Don’t worry about how it looks and try to stay in the moment.
Once time is up, spend a moment appreciating what you drew. Think about the impact of slowing down and doing something fun has had on your day.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Chris Murchison is a meditation teacher, artist and speaker. He currently works as an independent advisor for organizations interested in improving their work cultures.
Check out Chris’s GGSC profile: https://tinyurl.com/32htut6n
Learn more about Chris’s art and other work: https://chrismurchison.com/about
Follow Chris on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/4auxk3ur
Follow Chris on Twitter: https://twitter.com/murchisonchris?lang=en
Add Chris on LinkedIn: https://tinyurl.com/253x83ty
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Doing Something Creative Can Boost Your Well-Being: https://tinyurl.com/4pcwxhsf
What is Creative Mortification and How Can You Overcome It: https://tinyurl.com/583kswfw
Does Art Heal? https://tinyurl.com/3ttybzpm
Everyday Art: https://tinyurl.com/mstemcsf
7 Ways to Foster Creativity: https://tinyurl.com/ycn5majv
How to Combat America’s Creativity Crisis: https://tinyurl.com/yckzm8se
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
4/20/2023 • 9 minutes, 3 seconds
A 7-Day Stress Prescription
Is there such a thing as good stress? Our guest learns to welcome her stress by understanding how it can actually help her, plus tips and tricks to not feel too much of it.
Episode summary:
Like many of us, our guest Yana Leventon has dealt with a fair amount of stress in her life. But after living through the COVID-19 pandemic and grappling with the ongoing war in Ukraine (with relatives on both sides of the border) Yana’s stress levels reached a new high. This week’s episode is all about how we can reframe our relationship with stress. Yana spent one week trying a new practice each day. All 7 of the practices were aimed at managing different aspects of stress, from physically metabolizing her stress through exercise to visualization and breathing techniques. These exercises helped her regain a sense of clarity about what is truly not in her control, and agency over what is. She began to see stress as a normal and necessary part of life that can actually be beneficial in the right amount. Later, we hear from the psychologist who developed this stress management tool, Elissa Epel. She discusses the importance of developing a positive relationship with stress, and how we can use stress to feel a sense of empowerment.
Practice:
Day 1. Embrace Uncertainty: Releasing Embodied Stress
Day 2. Let Go of What You Can’t Control: Stress Inventory
Day 3. Find Excitement in Challenges: Stress Shield
Day 4. Metabolize Body Stress: Hormetic Stress
Day 5. Immerse Yourself in Nature: Sensory Absorption
Day 6. Experience Deep Rest: Breath for Restoration
Day 7. Create Bliss Bookends: Start and End Full of Joy
For more information on each of the daily practices, check out Elissa Epel’s book, The Stress Prescription.
Today’s guests:
Yana Leventon was a refugee in Austria and Italy before migrating to the United States from the former USSR when she was 10 years old.
Elissa Epel is a psychologist who specializes in stress, aging and well-being. She has developed self-care practices rooted in scientific research to improve how we cope with stress.
Learn more about Elisa and her work: https://www.elissaepel.com/
Read Elissa’s book, The Stress Prescription: https://tinyurl.com/yt66t3b3
Follow Elissa on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Dr_Epel
Follow Elissa on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TelomereEffect
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Transform Stress into Courage and Connection: https://tinyurl.com/n49fzhf7
Seven Ways to Have a Healthier Relationship With Stress: https://tinyurl.com/mr3yy6b5
Is Stress Making You Withdraw from People? https://tinyurl.com/4kkesr7s
Could Stress Help You Find Your Purpose in Life? https://tinyurl.com/2ssz7mck
The Surprising Benefits of Stress: https://tinyurl.com/3uynfkf2
More Resources on Managing Stress:
National Institute for Mental Health - I’m So Stressed Out! Fact Sheet: https://tinyurl.com/4hr3eawc
TED - How to make stress your friend: https://tinyurl.com/y5bsj3ks
Harvard Business Review - Turning Stress into an Asset: https://tinyurl.com/3fdzfx3v
Johns Hopkins - Sleepless Nights? Try Stress Relief Techniques: https://tinyurl.com/mw6jxbvz
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4/13/2023 • 19 minutes, 52 seconds
Happiness Break: Visualizing Your Purpose, with Dacher Keltner
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place to do this practice. Once you feel ready, relax your shoulders and close your eyes. Focus on your breathing, and take a few slow, deep breaths.
Think about the world around you. If you could change one thing in society, what would it be?
Imagine this ideal world. Visualize it manifesting before you. Notice what you see and how you feel in as much detail as possible.
Is there anything that you can do to make this a reality? It can be anything, no matter how small. Think of some manageable steps you can take to get a little closer to what you’ve imagined.
Return your focus to your breathing to close out this practice.
If you have the time, jot down your thoughts and goals.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
Check out Dacher’s most recent book, *Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: *<https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt](https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt)
Find the full practice at our Greater Good in Action website:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/magic_wand
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Find Purpose in Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/yc4dd5ff
Living with Purpose Changes Everything: https://tinyurl.com/m28uvsjn
The Purpose Challenge: https://tinyurl.com/53zykj8a
How Strong is Your Sense of Purpose in Life? https://tinyurl.com/2r3yr3hr
Purpose in Life Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/mrxys77h
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of finding purpose. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
4/6/2023 • 9 minutes, 2 seconds
Encore: 24 Hours of Kindness
Why should you be nice? Our guest explores how small, daily acts of kindness can produce meaningful life changes.
Episode summary:
When you’re kind to someone, the positive impact doesn’t stop with them. In fact, the effect of your kind action can ricochet back to you by improving your physical health and outlook on life. This week’s episode is all about how kindness has the power to strengthen our sense of self within a larger community. Our guest Aaron Harvey is an activist and UC Berkeley alumni who performed five random acts of kindness in one day. He found that practicing kindness allowed him to develop deeper relationships with those around him and shifted the way he views his role in society. Later, we hear from Oliver Scott Curry, the Research Director at Kindlab, to learn about why humans are evolutionarily designed to be kind and how practicing kindness can positively affect our physical and mental state of being.
How to Do This Practice:
Choose a day of the week to perform 5 random acts of kindness throughout that day.
These acts don’t have to be big or small or even for the same person. Just aim to perform a variety of acts of kindness. This could include helping a friend with a chore or providing a meal to a person in need.
After each act, write down what you did in at least one or two sentences and reflect on how it made you feel.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/random_acts_of_kindness
Today’s guests:
Aaron Harvey is a UC Berkeley Underground Scholar alumnus and activist. After facing the possibility of life in prison, Aaron successfully proved his innocence due to a lack of evidence.
Learn more about Berkeley Underground Scholars: https://undergroundscholars.berkeley.edu/
Oliver Scott Curry is the Research Director for Kindlab at kindness.org. He uses scientific research to better understand topics like kindness, human morality and cooperation.
Learn more about Oliver and his work: https://www.oliverscottcurry.com/
Learn more about Kindlab: https://kindness.org/kindlab
Follow Oliver on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Oliver_S_Curry
Follow Oliver on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/yc29nn62
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Random Acts of Kindness: https://tinyurl.com/jxafbdm4
How to Start a Kindness Revolution: https://tinyurl.com/3fr68t6v
Three Strategies for Bringing More Kindness into Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/22cx7w9f
How Kindness Fits Into a Happy Life: https://tinyurl.com/h8mspz37
How to Be a Kindness Role Model for Your Kids: https://tinyurl.com/3cjkp785
Where Does Kindness Come From? https://tinyurl.com/hkv94anp
Is There an Altruism Gene? https://tinyurl.com/5n8r7eh5
More Resources on Kindness
MasterClass - How to Be Kind to Yourself: 5 Ways to Practice Kindness: https://tinyurl.com/ycx7uysu
The New York Times - The Unexpected Power of Random Acts of Kindness: https://tinyurl.com/ycxxd7af
TED Talk - Mark Kelly: How one act of kindness a day can change your life: https://tinyurl.com/u2n3t3s
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3/30/2023 • 18 minutes, 34 seconds
Happiness Break: Embodying Resilience, with Prentis Hemphill
What if you could tap into your inherent resilience at any time? Prentis Hemphill guides a meditation to turn good memories into a state of resilience.
How to Do This Resilience Practice:
Find a position that is comfortable for you, whether that is sitting, laying down or even standing. Don’t feel pressured to remain still for this practice. If you feel like you need to move or make sounds to stay present, feel free to.
Think of something that brings you a sense of resilience.
While in this memory, what are you doing with your body? What does your body feel like?
Try to intensify those feelings. Notice how that feels in your body and in the experience of that memory.
Take yourself back to how the memory was at the beginning of this practice, at a lower intensity. Notice how you’re able to make that change.
Thinking about the day ahead or the day that you’ve had, ask yourself how much space do you want the day to take up in this moment?
Once you’re ready, move from that comfortable position. See if you can take this experience with you throughout your day.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Prentis Hemphill is the founder of the Embodiment Institute, and a writer and therapist who prioritizes the body in their approach to healing.
Learn More About the Embodiment Institute: https://www.theembodimentinstitute.org/about
Check out Prentis’ website: https://prentishemphill.com
Follow Prentis on Twitter: https://twitter.com/prentishemphill
Follow Prentis on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/4d99f4xs
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Hardwire Resilience into Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/26mff6hf
Four Ways Social Support Makes You More Resilient: https://tinyurl.com/34ntce8u
Evidence Mounts that Mindfulness Breeds Resilience: https://tinyurl.com/2u6k6mkh
Mindfulness and Resilience to Stress at Work: https://tinyurl.com/yrujmwxs
Three Ways to Boost Your Resiliency as a Parent: https://tinyurl.com/w6f3w3ak
How Tuning into Your Body can Make You More Resilient: https://tinyurl.com/yv5yzper
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3/23/2023 • 9 minutes, 19 seconds
One Way to Make Work More Meaningful
We all overestimate how much we know. Our guest tries a practice in slowing down to ask more questions, and finds it leads to higher quality connections.
Episode summary:
What happens when we pause and open up to ideas that we didn’t think of ourselves? This episode is about intellectual humility, the ability to surrender to the idea that we might not have all the information or may not be right. Our guest is Kelly Corrigan, a best-selling author and host of PBS talk show Tell Me More and podcast Kelly Corrigan Wonders. Her teams look to her for direction, but she wanted to see what would happen if she paused more to ask them questions, and found it totally changed her approach to both her work and family life. We also explore science around the subtle ways we react differently to people we disagree with, and how intellectual humility can change that.
Try this practice: Cultivate Intellectual Humility
If you can, write out your answers.
When you encounter information or an opinion that contradicts your opinion or worldview, ask yourself questions like these:
Why do you disagree?
Are you making any assumptions? Might those assumptions be wrong?
How did you come to your opinion?
Think about the scenario from the perspective of a person who disagrees with you. Try to imagine how they came to believe what they believe:
What information might they be basing their opinion off of?
What values do you think they’re weighing in how they think about this topic?
Can you imagine how they came to hold those values?
3. Tap into your intellectual humility:
Identify places where, before, you didn’t acknowledge the limitations of what you know
Now that you’ve worked to see this issue from another person’s point of view, do you see more value in their perspective?
Today’s guests:
Kelly Corrigan is the author of five books. She’s also the host for PBS’s longform interview show, Tell Me More and Kelly Corrigan Wonders*.*
Check out Kelly’s website: https://www.kellycorrigan.com
Follow Kelly on Twitter: https://twitter.com/corrigankelly
Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellycorrigan/
Mark Leary is a psychologist and emeritus professor at Duke University.
Learn more about Mark and his work: https://sites.duke.edu/leary/
Check out Mark’s research on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/p8ayz8dn
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
What Does Intellectual Humility Look Like? https://tinyurl.com/5n949h69
Five Reasons Intellectual Humility is Good for You: https://tinyurl.com/2ce3jrmc
Intellectual Humility Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/574k99fs
Three Reasons for Leaders to Cultivate Intellectual Humility: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ecda6
How to Know if You’re Actually Humble: https://tinyurl.com/y8js44v
More Resources on Intellectual Humility
Vox - Intellectual humility: The importance of knowing you might be wrong: https://tinyurl.com/2cryd336
Financial Times - Why Intellectual Humility Matters: https://tinyurl.com/5n84hsh7
Psych Central - How Humility Strengthens Your Relationship: https://tinyurl.com/2fj9a4wh
University of Notre Dame - To Make Better Decisions, Get More Comfortable Saying “I Don’t Know” https://tinyurl.com/3npysxh8
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This episode was supported by a grant from the John Templeton Foundation, as part of our project on "Expanding Awareness of the Science of Intellectual Humility." For more on the project, go to www.ggsc.berkeley.edu/IH.
3/16/2023 • 18 minutes, 55 seconds
Happiness Break: Pause to Look at the Sky, with Dacher Keltner
Take a moment to appreciate the beauty and vastness of the sky. Dacher Keltner guides us through a practice of pausing to turn your gaze to the sky as a pathway to awe, creativity and wonder.
Practice:
Go someplace where you feel safe and also have a nice view of the sky.
First, focus on your breathing. Take a few slow inhales and even slower exhales. As you breathe in and out, relax your shoulders, your hands, and your face.
On the next breath in, look up at the sky. Notice how vast it is.
Breathing naturally, notice everything you can about the sky. What colors are present? Are there any clouds? Do you see any gradation of light?
Expand your gaze to get the fullest view and sense of the sky that you can. Spend a few moments taking it in.
On the final deep breaths in and out, reflect on how doing this practice has made you feel.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
Check out Dacher’s most recent book, Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/4j4hcvyt
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Why we Should Look up at the Sky (Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/fn3bttw6
Six Ways to Incorporate Awe into Your Daily Life: https://tinyurl.com/3j5hdtj7
How to Choose a Type of Mindfulness Meditation: https://tinyurl.com/py6b729h
How Nature Can Make You Kinder, Happier, and More Creative: https://tinyurl.com/2fmpdpkj
Why is Nature so Good For Your Mental Health? https://tinyurl.com/23zavth3
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of looking up. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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3/9/2023 • 7 minutes, 32 seconds
Why We Need Friends with Shared Interests
Episode summary:
Having strong relationships is vital to our well-being. We tend to be happier and healthier when we’re involved with community. Today’s guest is the world-famous scientist Temple Grandin. She was born with autism, which led her to be socially isolated from her peers. Join us on this episode of The Science of Happiness to hear about how Grandin credits her support networks for her success and making her into the person she is today. We’ll also look at the science behind the health repercussions of not having strong social networks.
Today’s guests:
Temple Grandin is a leading animal behaviorist, prominent author and speaker on autism and animal behaviors. Today, she teaches courses at Colorado State University. Her latest book is Visual Thinking: The Hidden Gifts of People Who Think in Pictures, Patterns, and Abstractions.
Temple’s Website: https://www.templegrandin.com
Follow Temple on Twitter: https://twitter.com/drtemplegrandin?lang=en
Check out Temple’s Latest Book: https://tinyurl.com/3tftxpck
Tegan Cruwyis is a clinical psychologist at The National Australian University who studies social connection and how loneliness and chronic isolation are literally toxic.
Learn more about Cruwyis and her work: https://tinyurl.com/3etuvket
Follow Cruwyis on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/yc5ujhaj
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Four Ways Social Support Makes You More Resilient https://tinyurl.com/34ntce8u
What is Social Connection? https://tinyurl.com/nk8crbbz
Is Social Connection the Best Path to Happiness? https://tinyurl.com/4wxc66tn
Why are We so Wired to Connect? https://tinyurl.com/uttppd3p
More Resources for Improving Social Connections
Emotional Wellness Checklist https://tinyurl.com/4wxc66tn
How to Strengthen Social Relationships https://tinyurl.com/5fdv8ra9
The Science of Social Connection https://tinyurl.com/3tftxpck
Tell us about your experiences with building social connections. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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3/2/2023 • 16 minutes, 24 seconds
Happiness Break: Being Present from Head to Toe, with Spring Washam
Try this body-scan meditation to ground your mind in the present moment and in your body, guided by Spring Washam.
How to do this practice:
Find a comfortable seat where you can relax your body.
Beginning with the top of your head, relax any sense of tension, one body part at a time.
Slowly scan down to your face, neck, upper arms, hands, feeling their presence.
You might want to place your hands on your belly to feel your breath and let go.
End by placing your hand on your heart and offer your body some kindness.
Today’s Happiness Break Host:
Spring Washam has been a devoted Buddhist practitioner in both the Theravada and Tibetan schools of Buddhism for more than 25 years. She is a founding teacher of The East Bay Meditation Center and has spent more than a decade studying Shamanic indigenous healing practices. She is also the author of the forthcoming book, The Spirit of Harriet Tubman: Awakening from the Underground.
Learn more about Spring and her book: https://www.springwasham.com/
Follow Spring on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/springwasham/
Check out Spring’s YouTube channel: https://tinyurl.com/22njyd29
More Resources from the Greater Good Science Center:
Six Minutes to Connect with Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/2337f85e
How a Body Scan Can Help with Strong Emotions: https://tinyurl.com/58wfsvnd
Krista Tippett on Being Grounded in Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/59pkp324
Turning Into Your Body Can Make You More Resilient: https://tinyurl.com/5av68v62
Your Anxiety Might Be Coming From Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/dwb9vvue
What Self-Compassion Feels Like in Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/2p9rdepk
Seven Ways to Have a Healthier Relationship with Stress: https://tinyurl.com/m6mbv2np
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of embodiment meditation. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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2/23/2023 • 10 minutes, 53 seconds
Why We Need Reminders of Connectedness
How can we feel more connected to our loved ones, even when they're not around? Our guest tries a practice shown to make us feel less lonely and more socially connected.
Episode summary:
Mónica Guzmán describes herself as a raging extrovert, but she still feels less connected to others than she’d like to. Working from home, she often finds herself alone, or worse — feeling alone because she’s still in work mode when her family is around. She tried a Reminders of Connectedness practice by making subtle changes to the interior of her home – like decorating with more family photos and rearranging the living room – and found that these seemingly small changes made a big difference in how she felt throughout her day. We also hear from clinical psychologist Tegan Cruwys about the powerful influence our sense of connectedness can have on our mental health.
Practice: Reminders of Connectedness
Look around your home, office, or classroom and notice what things around you remind you of being connected to others – words, photographs, memorabilia.
As you move through your day, keep an eye out for things that evoke a feeling of connection. See where you can use them to add more reminders of connection to your space by adding them in or replacing existing objects.
Finally, consider how the furniture is arranged. Are chairs facing toward or away from each other? Find any changes you can make to common spaces so that they’re more conducive to spontaneous interactions.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/reminders_of_connectedness
Today’s guests:
Mónica Guzmán is Senior Fellow for Public Practice at Braver Angels, a nonprofit working to depolarize America, founder and CEO of Reclaim Curiosity, an organization working to build a more curious world. She’s also the author of I Never Thought Of It That Way: How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times.
You can check out the book here: https://boook.link/I-Never-Thought-of-It-That-Way
Visit Mónica’s website:https://www.moniguzman.com/
Follow Mónica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moniguzman/?hl=en
Follow Mónica on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/3k4pn4c4
Follow Mónica on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moniguzman
Tegan Cruwys is a professor and clinical psychologist at Australian National University.
Learn more about Tegan and her work: https://tinyurl.com/ykepk5r4
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
11 Things to Do When You Feel Lonely: https://tinyurl.com/b8m86fhy
What the Longest Happiness Study Reveals About Finding Fulfillment: https://tinyurl.com/2s3b59fn
What Psychedelics Can Teach Us About Human Connection: https://tinyurl.com/5buyydw7
Skills You Need for Happier Relationships with Family: https://tinyurl.com/weeusepn
More Resources
The Atlantic - What Makes Us Happy: https://tinyurl.com/2nxpbhsd
NYT - I Love You But I Don’t Want To Sleep With You: https://tinyurl.com/tjnxbdtt
Scientific American - Why We Are Wired To Connect: https://tinyurl.com/59u4ffua
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2/16/2023 • 14 minutes, 56 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation for When Others are Suffering, with Anushka Fernandopulle
Seeing others suffering is painful. Learn to practice both compassion and self-soothing in this guided meditation led by Anushka Fernandopulle.
How to Do This Practice:
Find somewhere peaceful, sit down and get comfortable. Once you’re ready, gently close your eyes.
Start taking deep breaths and relax your body. Part by part, release tension in different areas of your body.
Think of someone or a group of people you know or have heard of who may be having a hard time. Bring to mind an image of them.
Connect with whatever it is they are struggling with. Mentally, make some wishes of compassion for them. For example, “May you be free from pain.” Or, “I am here with you.”
You can also use this practice to focus on your own pain. To do this, call to mind your struggles and give yourself the same compassion you gave others.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Anushka Fernandopulle is a meditation teacher who trained in Buddhist meditation for over 30 years. After studying Buddhism at Harvard, she spent four years in full-time meditation training in the U.S., India, and Sri Lanka
Check out Anushka’s upcoming meditation retreats https://www.anushkaf.org
Follow Anushka on Instagram https://tinyurl.com/ytn3vvhz
Follow Anushka on Twitter https://tinyurl.com/485vj8xn
Check out Anushka’s Dharma Talks https://tinyurl.com/ydacvamn
Find another version of the Compassion Meditation practice at our Greater Good in Action website:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/compassion_meditation
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
What is compassion? https://tinyurl.com/2s3ztcpt
Take Our Self-Compassion Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/yysrf663
Try Dr. Neff’s Fierce Self-Compassion Break: https://tinyurl.com/yk9yzh9u
How to Bring Self-Compassion to Work with You: https://tinyurl.com/45zkrkam
The Five Myths of Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/2p88vass
Read Dr. Neff’s interview about Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/286njtje
How Self-Compassion Can Help You Through a Breakup: https://tinyurl.com/222scejz
Can Self-Compassion Overcome Procrastination? https://tinyurl.com/mrfmvyj
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of compassion meditation. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
2/9/2023 • 8 minutes, 55 seconds
How Music Evokes Awe
Why do some songs send chills down your spine or give you goosebumps? We explore the science of how music induces awe — and how that affects our well-being.
Episode summary:
In the last episode of our awe series, Dacher explores the mysteries of how music inspires awe and can transport us to another space and time with sound alchemist Laura Inserra. Later, we hear from the scientist who showed how awe-inspiring songs change the way we think and feel.
This is the last episode in our special series The Science of Awe. Check out the last four releases in our feed for Happiness Breaks that will help guide you to experience more awe in your life, and episodes of The Science of Happiness about the other profound ways that awe affects — and more places to find it.
Our host, Dacher Keltner, has a new book out about awe. It’s called Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life. Learn more here: https://tinyurl.com/3uzk8m5r
Today’s guests:
Laura Inserra is an instrumentalist, composer, producer, and a teacher who works with music to help people tap into a sense of awe.
Follow Laura on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laura_inserra/
Follow Laura on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/laurainserra
Check out Laura’s website: https://www.laurainserra.com
Qihao Ji is an assistant professor of Communication at Marist College
Learn more about Ji and his work: https://www.marist.edu/communication-arts/faculty/qihao-ji
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How Music Bonds us Together: https://tinyurl.com/5x5xxnmz
Where Music and Empathy Converge in the Brain https://tinyurl.com/84sep62v
How Many Emotions Can Music Make You Feel: https://tinyurl.com/8pxud5bt
More Resources About Awe and Music
Bluefield Daily Telegraph - Music: A sense of Awe and Admiration: https://tinyurl.com/5eyc4ehw
NYT - How a Bit of Awe Can Improve Your Health: https://tinyurl.com/4zdzcusk
Yamaha Music - The Science of Awe (And Why It Matters): https://tinyurl.com/4njv9mpb
Tell us about your experiences with music awe. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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2/2/2023 • 20 minutes, 18 seconds
Happiness Break: Feeling the Awe of Nature from Anywhere, with Dacher Keltner
Host Dacher Keltner leads us through an exercise in feeling the serenity and wonder that nature brings us, no matter where we are.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a spot where you can sit and rest comfortably. Once you’re ready, close your eyes.
Begin breathing slowly and deeply. Focus on your breath and unclench your muscles from head to toe.
Think of a place in nature that is sacred or significant to you. What do you hear? What do you see? Try to create as clear of an image as you can in your mind.
Notice what feelings arise as you think of this place; what feelings do you associate with it?
Contemplate how this place has become a part of who you are; how it lives in your mind and how you can conjure up the feeling of it within yourself.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
His new book is Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life.
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Secrets of the Vagus Nerve: https://tinyurl.com/yzuxtuzp
Why We Should Look Up at the Sky (Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/fn3bttw6
What’s the Most Common Sense of Awe? https://tinyurl.com/2p842t8r
Happiness Break: How to Ground Yourself: https://tinyurl.com/289ph9cz
Happiness Break: Experience Nature Wherever You Are: https://tinyurl.com/yv46xrr4
Why You Should Snap Pictures of Nature: https://tinyurl.com/5fp7bhk6
Could Your Life Be More Awesome? Take our Awe Quiz https://tinyurl.com/2p8mz57f
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of awe in nature. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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1/26/2023 • 7 minutes, 3 seconds
Why We Should Look Up at the Sky
When did you last take a moment to really look up at the sky? Shifting our gaze upward is linked to more creativity, capacity to focus—and it's a gateway to awe.
Episode summary:
Natalie didn’t spend much time finding shapes in the clouds as a small kid. And when she got older, looking up was even worse for her. Natalie spent time in jail, where she spent most of her days indoors under harsh lights. Today, she’s a student at a prestigious university. She tried a practice in looking up for our show. When we look up, our brain gets better at being playful, creative, and thinking critically. We also tend to see vast and beautiful things above our heads, like a canopy of leaves, branches and singing birds, or a starry night sky. Often, looking up is all we need to do to find moments of awe in our day-to-day lives. And that’s a wonderful thing, because feeling awe changes how our brains work in a way that’s really good for us.
This is the second episode of The Science of Happiness in a three-part series called The Science of Awe. If you’d like to learn more about awe, our host, Dacher Keltner, has a new book out about it. It’s called Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life. Learn more here: <https://tinyurl.com/3uzk8m5r \](https://tinyurl.com/3uzk8m5r)
Practice: Look Up
Over the course of a week or so, make it a point to look up in several different locations and at different times of the day and night. Be sure everywhere you choose is a safe place to do so, and of course, never look into the sun.
Each time before you look up, take a moment first to notice how you feel, and then take a few deep, intentional breaths to help you get grounded into the present moment.
Look up and let your eyes wander, noticing what inspires awe. If nothing does, that’s ok! This practice might help you cultivate awe more often, but it’s best to go into it each time with no expectations. Spend at least a few minutes looking up if it’s comfortable to do so, or as long as you like.
When you’re done, take another moment to notice how you feel now.
Today’s guests:
Natalie is a student at UC Berkeley and also works with the UC Berkeley's Underground Scholars Program, which creates pathways for formerly incarcerated people to study at universities. We're not sharing Natalie's last name to protect her privacy.
Michiel van Elk is a professor at Leiden University in The Netherlands.
Learn more about van Elk and his work: https://tinyurl.com/4kc5tycc
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How Nature Can Make You Kinder, Happier, and More Creative: https://tinyurl.com/yepuxd27
Six Ways to Incorporate Awe Into Your Daily Life: https://tinyurl.com/3emucdez
How the Science of Awe Shaped Pixar’s “Soul:” https://tinyurl.com/37z43vrz
How a Sense of Awe Can Inspire Us to Confront Threats to Humanity: https://tinyurl.com/3k6xprau
More Resources About Awe
KQED - Dacher Keltner on Finding Awe: https://tinyurl.com/575v6rvf
The Atlantic - The Quiet Profundity of Everyday Awe: https://tinyurl.com/yz623mff
NYT - How a Bit of Awe Can Improve Your Health: https://tinyurl.com/4zdzcusk
Sierra Club - The Science of Awe: https://tinyurl.com/3pfn23t7
Tell us about your experiences of awe. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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1/19/2023 • 20 minutes, 6 seconds
Happiness Break: Awe for Others, with Dacher Keltner
The communities we create are one of the most awe-inspiring parts of our lives. Host Dacher Keltner guides us in a meditation on awe and togetherness in this week’s Happiness Break.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable, safe, place where you can close your eyes and relax. Notice your breathing and begin to take deep, intentional breaths.
Think about a community you are a part of – work, recreation, spiritual, any group you’re a part of. Cultivate a sense in your mind of being with that community.
Reflect for a few minutes on the faces of the people in this community; bring them into your mind’s eye and notice the details of their eyes, smiles, perhaps even their tones of voice or the sounds of their laughter.
Think about this remarkable quality of communities: That all of these separate individuals create one hole.
Think about how each person contributes to this community to create that whole.
Contemplate how everyone in this community is connected, and how they’re mutually influencing each other.
Think about what value unites all these people share, what they have in common.
Imagine yourself within this network of connected individuals. Cultivate a sense of what connects you with them, think of them as threads of mutual influence. It doesn’t all have to be good; tension is a part of being a community, too.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of the Greater Good Science Center’s award-winning podcast, The Science of Happiness and is a co-instructor of the GGSC’s popular online course of the same name. He's also the founding director of the Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
His new book is Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life.
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Why Do We Feel Awe? https://tinyurl.com/3xms3dm2
How Awe Brings People Together: https://tinyurl.com/2p8m2tyk
Eight Reasons Why Awe Makes Your Life Better: https://tinyurl.com/2p8ccav2
Six Ways to Incorporate Awe Into Your Daily Life: https://tinyurl.com/3emucdez
How Music Bonds Us Together: https://tinyurl.com/329scmf6
Can a Sense of Awe Improve Our Arguments? https://tinyurl.com/pb2eh8c6
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience contemplating your communities. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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1/12/2023 • 8 minutes, 42 seconds
How Awe Brings Us Together
Feeling awe changes your brain. In our first episode in a series about the science awe, we explore how awe can make you a better friend, partner, and community member.
Episode summary:
When Mirna Valerio tried out hiking for the first time as a young kid, she discovered something she didn’t expect: Being outdoors seemed to bring strangers closer to one another. It was like it somehow fastracked forming meaningful relationships. Today we know that the feeling of awe nature often inspires has something to do with this. Awe is the feeling you get when in the presence of something vast and incomprehensible. When we feel it, our sense of self shrinks – in a good way – and we get better at connecting with others. Today on The Science of Happiness, we explore what it’s like when awe helps us create communities, and the science behind how it works.
This episode is part of special series we’re doing on Awe. In the weeks ahead, we’ll share Happiness Breaks to help you contemplate what’s awe-inspiring in your life and explore more dimensions of awe in the stories and science we share on this podcast.
Our host, Dacher Keltner, has a new book out about awe. It’s called Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life. Learn more here: https://tinyurl.com/3uzk8m5r
Practice: Awe Narrative
Think back to a time when you felt a sense of awe; when you were around something vast and incomprehensible. It could be something physically vast, like a mountain range or beautiful valley, or psychological, like a brilliant idea or inspiring person.
Describe the experience in writing in as much detail as possible. Don’t worry about spelling or grammar, just get down as much about the experience as you can.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/awe_narrative
Today’s guests:
Mirna Valerio is an ultra-marathon athlete and author known for her body-positive presence on social media.
Follow Mirna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themirnavator/?hl=en
Follow Mirna on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheMirnavator
Follow Mirna on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMirnavator/
Yang Bai is a professor at Peking University in China.
Learn more about Bai and her work: https://en.gsm.pku.edu.cn/faculty/ybai/
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Six Ways to Incorporate Awe Into Your Daily Life: https://tinyurl.com/3emucdez
How the Science of Awe Shaped Pixar’s “Soul:” https://tinyurl.com/37z43vrz
How a Sense of Awe Can Inspire Us to Confront Threats to Humanity: https://tinyurl.com/3k6xprau
More Resources About Awe
The Atlantic - The Quiet Profundity of Everyday Awe: https://tinyurl.com/yz623mff
NYT - How a Bit of Awe Can Improve Your Health: https://tinyurl.com/4zdzcusk
Sierra Club - The Science of Awe: https://tinyurl.com/3pfn23t7
Tell us about your experiences of awe. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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1/5/2023 • 19 minutes, 33 seconds
Happiness Break: An Affirmation Practice for the New Year, with Chris Murchison
This New Year, affirm the wonderful qualities you already possess with this meditative writing practice called "I Am."
How to Do This Practice:
Take a moment to sit still and take a few deep breaths, and notice how you’re feeling right now.
Open your eyes, and on a sheet of paper, write “I am ____,” and then fill in that blank.
Set a timer for 1 minute, and repeat step 2 until the time is up.
Take a moment to observe what you’ve written. Where did you begin? Where did you end? What can you glean about how you’re showing up today, from what you’ve written? Look for patterns.
Take a few more mindful breaths. Consider how what you’ve just written might influence what you’ve just written and the rest of your day.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Chris Murchison is an artist and meditation teacher.
Check out Chris’s website: https://chrismurchison.com/
Follow Chris on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrismarcellmurchison/
Follow Chris on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chris.m.murchison
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Be a Remarkable Boss During Lockdown (by Chris Murchison): https://tinyurl.com/yypps3aw
Can Self-Awareness Help You Be More Empathic? https://tinyurl.com/eefds36s
Do You Have a True Self? https://tinyurl.com/3xasurwp
Ten Habits of Highly Creative People https://tinyurl.com/yt83udz6
Make Self-Compassion One of Your New Year’s Resolutions https://tinyurl.com/ymn6m5pp
The Dark Side of Self-Help: https://tinyurl.com/4jajdfum
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experiences with self-insight or self-affirmations. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
Find us on Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
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12/29/2022 • 8 minutes, 40 seconds
How to Make Life More Meaningful
Chris Sharma is one of the greatest rock climbers of all time, and he's taking on some of the biggest challenges in life: becoming a parent and starting his own business. Chris tries a practice shown to help us craft our own path and purpose in life.
Episode summary:
Chris Sharma spent his youth traveling the globe and becoming one of the greatest rock climbers of all time. His passion for climbing has filled his life with purpose, but now in middle age, he wants to also focus on other sources of meaning in life that are just as important to him. Chris joins us after trying a practice in life crafting — where you get clear on your values, imagine what your ideal life would look like, and make a plan to get closer to that vision. Later in the show, we hear from Michael Steger, a psychologist and director of the Center for Meaning and Purpose at Colorado State University, about the surprising places in our lives we can find meaning, and the different roads we can take towards living a more meaningful life.
Try the Life Crafting Practice:
Identify your deepest values and passions — what’s most important to you.
Reflect on your ideal future: Write a paragraph envisioning how you’d like your social life or your career path to turn out if you had no constraints.
Write down how you’ll attain those goals. Prioritize them, and write “if, then” plans for how you’ll overcome obstacles you’re likely to encounter.
Make a public commitment. Tell your community about your goals.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/life_crafting
Today’s guests:
Chris Sharma is an elite rock climber known for traveling the world to find the most beautiful and challenging places to rock climb.
His new show The Climb premieres on HBO on January 12. Check out the trailer here: https://tinyurl.com/suz35w8y
Follow Chris on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chris_sharma/
Check out his website: http://www.chrissharma.com/
Michael Steger is a professor of psychology at Colorado State University, where he is the director of the Center for Meaning and Purpose.
Learn more about Steger’s work: http://www.michaelfsteger.com/
Follow Steger on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/yc79d6mb
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Michael Steger: Why We Search for Meaning: https://tinyurl.com/2s469242
Here’s How to Find Meaning in Your Midlife Crisis: https://tinyurl.com/4kpcnr9c
What Our Photos Say About Us (Podcast): https://tinyurl.com/y56wvj42
Purpose in Life Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/yz4ztenp
Living with a Purpose Changes Everything: https://tinyurl.com/d3ea7afa
More On Meaning and Purpose:
The Atlantic - The Meaning of Life Is Surprisingly Simple: https://tinyurl.com/2yfucadj
Pew - Where Americans Find Meaning in Life: https://tinyurl.com/nek5j6tk
Scientific American - To Feel Meaningful Is To Feel Immortal: https://tinyurl.com/yuhe99m9
NPR - What's Your Purpose? https://tinyurl.com/465aknec
Harvard Business Review: What Is the Purpose of Your Purpose? https://tinyurl.com/43pjrc6j
Tell us about how you find meaning in your life. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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12/22/2022 • 18 minutes, 59 seconds
Happiness Break: Finding Presence Through Your Senses, with Dacher Keltner
Sight, smell, touch, sound, and taste: all of our five senses provide unique pathways to presence and happiness. We spend a few minutes being mindful of each one.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place where you feel safe. Close your eyes or soften your gaze. Take a few deep breths, noticing the sensation of the air as it moves through your nose, into your lungs, and back out again.
Sound: For a few breaths, pay attention to the sounds around you. Notice where they are in space.
Touch: Put one hand on top of the other. Notice the sensations you feel in your hand as your fingers’ knuckles touch the other, like temperature and texture.. Shift your attention to your cheeks, noticing temperature and the feel of the air.
Taste: Now, pay attention to the taste you are experiencing on your tongue. There may be no taste or the taste of saliva.
Smell: Move your focus to the smell around you as you take a breath. See how many odors you can identify.
**Sight: Finally, focus your gaze on a point eight inches in front of you for a few seconds and see what colors, forms, light, and shadow you notice there.
Take a few more deep breaths here and notice if any of your senses feel heightened.
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Listen to our Happiness Break on body scan meditation: https://tinyurl.com/bd6x8ba5
How to Focus Under Pressure (podcast) https://tinyurl.com/mxpd6mtd
Coming to Our Senses: https://tinyurl.com/3d4jkprr
Hands-On Research: The Science of Touch: https://tinyurl.com/y79vpbre
10 Steps to Savoring the Good Things in Life: https://tinyurl.com/2zwb5y8v
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience with the five senses meditation. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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12/15/2022 • 7 minutes, 42 seconds
The Science of Synchronized Movement
Moving in sync with someone else — even a total stranger — can change how you feel about them, and how you act, without you realizing it.
Episode summary:
When was the last time you moved in sync with someone else? Dancing, exercising, even just walking in step — for some, it comes easily, for others, it’s a challenge. But can moving to the same beat make all of us kinder to one another? This week, our guest Chris Duffy steps out of his comfort zone to try a practice in Body Music, rhythmically making sounds just by tapping your body, with body percussionist Keith Terry. Later, we learn how tapping in sync with someone else tricks you into thinking you have more in common with them, and can make you more inclined to help them.
Practice:
To start, stand up. Clap your hands together in front of your chest, then tap your left palm to your right chest, then right hand to your left chest. Repeat at a steady cadence.
Next, cap your hands together in front of your chest, then tap your left hand to your right chest, then right hand to your left chest, the right hand to top of your right thigh, then left hand to left thigh. Repeat at a steady cadence.
You can add on by tapping your right hand to your right buttocks and left hand to left buttocks after you finish tapping both thighs in step 2. Repeat (including all of step 2) at a steady cadence.
To add even more complexity, stomp each foot one at a time after completing all of step 3. Repeat at a steady cadence.
Check out a video of body percussionist Keith Terry performing this practice (and try it with a friend!):
https://tinyurl.com/mwffv447
Today’s guests:
Chris Duffy is a comedian, writer, and host of the TED podcast How to Be A Better Human.
Listen to Chris’s podcast, How to Be a Better Human: https://tinyurl.com/bdey9pm5
Follow Chris on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrisiduffy/
Follow Chris on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/christopheriduffy
Check out Chris’s comedy: https://chrisduffycomedy.com/videos
Keith Terry is a body percussionist and creator of the Body Music practice Chris tried today.
Learn more about Keith’s work: https://crosspulse.com/keith-terry/
Check out one of Keith’s original compositions: https://tinyurl.com/ybhweyux
Piercarlo Valdesolo is a psychologist and Chair of Psychological Science at Claremont McKenna College in California.
Learn more about Piercarolo’s work: http://www.valdesolo.com/
Check out the Moral Emotions and Trust Lab: http://www.valdesolo.com/meat-lab
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How Music Bonds Us Together https://tinyurl.com/329scmf6
To Resolve Conflicts, Get Up and Move https://tinyurl.com/bdf6zswn
Five Ways Music Can Make You a Better Person https://tinyurl.com/mwa22r8m
How to Train the Compassionate Brain https://tinyurl.com/32nbuh94
More Resources on Synchronized Movement
PRX - Body Music with Keith Terry https://tinyurl.com/2p8tz5j3
Scientific American - Moving in Sync Creates Surprising Social Bonds among People https://tinyurl.com/3y3ahfa3
Oxford University - Let’s dance: synchronised movement helps us tolerate pain and foster friendship https://tinyurl.com/c8tvrmdx
Science Daily - Social Synchronicity https://tinyurl.com/4mzvahe
Tell us about your experiences and struggles with body music or moving in sync. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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12/8/2022 • 17 minutes, 54 seconds
Happiness Break: Tune Into Your Body, with Radha Agrawal
Happiness isn't only in your head — your body is important, too. This week, Radha Agrawal leads us in a short Japanese calisthenics practice called Radio Taiso.
Check out Radha Agrawal’s video guide to this practice: https://dose.daybreaker.com/videos/microdose-oxytocin-healthy-spine
Today’s Happiness Break guide:
Radha Agrawal is Japanese-Indian author and a founder of Daybreaker, a company that throws sober dance parties at sunrise all around the world.
Learn more about Daybreaker: https://www.daybreaker.com/
The Science of Happiness listeners get 100% off their first month of Daybreaker’s Dose, using code GGSC at check out: http://dose.daybreaker.com?code=ggsc
Follow Radha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/love.radha/
Follow Radha on Twitter: https://twitter.com/radhatwin
Learn more about Radha and her book, Belong: https://belongbook.com/
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Moving Your Body Is Like a Tune-Up for Your Mind: https://tinyurl.com/2f64na8b
Five Surprising Ways Exercise Changes Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/4pbx3rua
How Tuning In to Your Body Can Make You More Resilient: https://tinyurl.com/328scfjj
Four Ways Dancing Makes You Happier: https://tinyurl.com/yxp6mxdw
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of trying radio calisthenics. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
12/1/2022 • 7 minutes, 57 seconds
How to Practice Gratitude When You're Not Feeling Thankful
One way to feel more thankful for things is to imagine life without them. Our guest tries a practice for seeing the bright side, even when you feel down.
Episode summary:
We know that gratitude is good for us. But what can we do when we’re struggling to actually feel thankful? Our guest this week is author and podcast producer Stephanie Foo. Foo built a network of close friends around her in California, where she grew up. As a survivor of child abuse and Complex PTSD, her friends in California became her chosen family. And since she’s moved to New York City, she finds herself often pining for the Golden State and the people she loves there. This week, Foo tries a practice in mental subtraction, which gratitude researcher Ernst Bohlmeijer describes as an antidote to taking things for granted. Imagining her life if she didn’t live in New York helps Foo tap into gratitude even in the depths of winter – when she misses California the most. She even discovers her particular skill in getting the benefits of this practice by leaning into one of her PTSD symptoms. Later in the show, Ernst Bohlmeijer breaks down how keeping a gratitude practice can alter the emotions you’re likely to experience in a given day, and maybe even change you as a person.
Practice:
Take a moment to think about a positive event in your life. It could be a career or educational achievement or a special trip you took.
Imagine yourself back in the time of this event. Think about the circumstances that made it possible. Ponder on the ways in which this event may never have happened and write them down. For example, if you hadn’t learned about a certain job opening at the right moment.
Imagine what your life would be like now if you had not experienced this positive event and all the fruits that came from it.
Remind yourself that this positive event did happen and reflect upon the benefits it has brought you. Allow yourself to feel grateful that things happened as they did.
Find the full Mental Subtraction of Positive Events practice at our Greater Good in Action website: https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/mental_subtraction_positive_events
Today’s guests:
Stephanie Foo is a radio producer and author of the book What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma.
Learn more about Stephanie and her book: https://www.stephaniefoo.me/
Follow Stephanie on Twitter: https://twitter.com/imontheradio
Follow Stephanie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/foofoofoo/
Follow Stephanie on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/yx6pwdnf
Ernst Bohlmeijer is a psychology professor who studies gratitude at the University of Twente in The Netherlands.
Learn more about Ernst and his work: https://tinyurl.com/2p92p6vn
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Four Great Gratitude Strategies: https://tinyurl.com/2p9buvkd
Tips for Keeping a Gratitude Journal: https://tinyurl.com/3jdbe52u
How to Increase the Love in Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/3k4ayj4n
Why Cynicism Can Hold You Back: https://tinyurl.com/bd4ussjt
More Resources for Mental Subtraction of Positive Events:
New York Times - Five Ways to Exercise Your Thankfulness Muscles: https://tinyurl.com/t29ukucc
NPR - A.J. Jacobs: How Can We Thank Those We Take for Granted?: https://tinyurl.com/56x48u99
TED - Your 5-day gratitude challenge: 5 exercises to increase your gratefulness: https://tinyurl.com/mt8j3x65
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11/24/2022 • 16 minutes, 41 seconds
Happiness Break: 5 Minutes of Gratitude, with Dacher Keltner
Not sure how to start practicing gratitude? Psychologist Dacher Keltner guides you through a practice that can help you see the good things in your life that you might otherwise overlook.
How to Do This Practice:
Sit or lay down somewhere comfortable. You may close your eyes if you wish, and take a slow, deep breath in to ground into the present moment. Then, scan your body from head to toe, noticing how you’re feeling in this moment. Let worries and plans clear from your mind.
Start by thinking about all the things that make your life comfortable: Clean water on tap, light at the flip of a switch, a roof over your head to protect you from the weather, warmth, and comfort when it gets windy, rainy, or cold.
Let your mind wander to all the millions of people who have worked hard to make your life more comfortable: Those who plant and harvest the food you eat, who bring it to markets, people who ensure the water we drink is clean, delivery drivers, teachers, all the people who create art and music and books and films and all the things that can bring us so much meaning, and so on.
Think about the acquaintances who bring richness to your life, like a colleague, neighbor, or someone you often see at the gym or a coffee shop.
Take a moment to think about what you’re really grateful for today, right now.
Notice how you’re feeling now, compared to when you started, and then start to bring movement back to your body, wiggling fingers and toes, maybe slowly standing up.
If you have the time, spend a few minutes journaling about what you thought about.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of The Science of Happiness podcast and is a co-instructor of the Greater Good Science Center’s popular online course of the same name. He's also a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley.
This practice was created by Dr. Kathy Kemper, who's the director of the Center for Integrative Health and Wellness at the Ohio State University. Learn more about some of her work here: https://mind-bodyhealth.osu.edu/
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Try GGSC’s online Gratitude Journal, Thnx4: https://tinyurl.com/2s4e4bx6
Take our Gratitude Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/yhbz6cwv
Four Great Gratitude Strategies: https://tinyurl.com/2muyff64
Is Gratitude Good for You?: https://tinyurl.com/ycknm2ru
Three Surprising Ways Gratitude Works at Work: https://tinyurl.com/yc2c8y4n
How Gratitude Motivates Us to Become Better People: https://tinyurl.com/5n6ejpdy
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience with practicing gratitude. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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11/17/2022 • 7 minutes, 54 seconds
The Emerging Science of ASMR (Encore)
There are millions of YouTube videos with people crinkling bubble wrap or whispering about folding laundry. Our guest talks about why autonomous sensory meridian response (ASMR) makes her, and many others, feel more calm and happy.
Episode summary:
Melinda still remembers the tingling feeling she felt when she first listened to the close-up sound of someone drawing on a TV show at the age of ten. She learned later that the subtle sounds that create soothing sensations for her are called autonomous sensory meridian response, or ASMR. Now, she creates ASMR experiences on her YouTube channel and through her live production company, Whisperlodge — from delicately handling a plastic package to gently stroking a microphone with a makeup brush. In today's show, Melinda demystifies the world of ASMR and how it brings both calm and delight to her and her participants. Later, we hear about the emerging science behind ASMR from Dr. Giulia Poerio, who studies it in her lab at the University of Essex. As it turns out, those tingles might actually benefit our mental health.
Today’s Science of Happiness Guests:
Melinda Lauw, is the co-creator of Whisperlodge, an immersive ASMR theater experience.
Check out some ASMR videos from Whisperlodge's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/Whisperlodge
Learn more about Whisperlodge: https://whisperlodge.nyc/
Follow Melinda on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melinda.lauw/
Follow Melinda on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melindalauw
Giulia Poerio is a psychology professor at the University of Essex who studies the effects of ASMR on the mind and body.
Learn more about her work: https://www.essex.ac.uk/people/poeri14804/giulia-poerio
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Listen to our Happiness Break on silence: https://tinyurl.com/2hny7pcd
Just One Thing: Pay Attention!: https://tinyurl.com/cm2xb86j
What Music Looks Like in the Brain: https://tinyurl.com/2k9t3sjz
Does Your Voice Reveal More Emotion Than Your Face?: https://tinyurl.com/ympr4brk
More Resources for ASMR:
TED - The brain science (and benefits) of ASMR: https://tinyurl.com/y8a89xv3
Vox - ASMR, explained: why millions of people are watching YouTube videos of someone whispering: https://tinyurl.com/4j4kn7dh
New York Times - How A.S.M.R. Became a Sensation: https://tinyurl.com/2jke45k5
NPR - Some People Get 'Brain Tingles' From These Slime Videos. What's Behind The Feeling?: https://tinyurl.com/2p8p4u7d
National Geographic - ASMR or not? Unpicking the science behind a sensory phenomenon: https://tinyurl.com/yvnvuzk5
Tell us your thoughts about ASMR. Do you get tingly sensations? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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11/10/2022 • 18 minutes, 23 seconds
Happiness Break: Making Space for You, with Alex Elle
Consider what you want to make space for in your life in this 6-minute contemplation guided by Alex Elle.
How to Do This Practice:
Take a few deep breaths. File up your belly on each inhale. Drop your shoulder and soften your body on each exhale.
Say these eight phrases to yourself, or your own variation of it. Consider which resonates with you the most:
a. “In the presence of fear, I will make space for courage.”
b. “In the presence of self-doubt, I will make space for self-belief.”
c. “In the presence of hurriedness, I will make space for slowing down.”
d. “In the presence of overwhelm, I will make space for rest.”
e. “In the presence of overthinking, I will make space for letting go.”
f. “In the presence of chaos, I will make space for inner peace.”
g. “In the presence of confusion, I will make space for clarity.”
h. “In the presence of pain, I will make space for self-compassion.”
Bring your attention to the line from this meditation that resonates with you the most. Think about all the ways you wish to make space so you can bloom into the best version of yourself.
Write it down, perhaps on a sticky note, and keep it somewhere you can see it.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Alex Elle is a breathwork coach, author and restorative writing teacher. Her new book, How We Heal, will be published this November. Keep an eye on our Instagram page, @greatergoodmag for a chance to win a copy.
Learn more about Alex and her new book: https://www.alexelle.com/about
Follow Alex on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alex/
Follow Alex on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@easewithalexl
Follow Alex on Twitter: https://twitter.com/alex__elle
Follow Alex on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AlexElleFB
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Listen to another Happiness Break podcast hosted by Alex: A Note to Self on Forgiveness
Being Kinder to Yourself: https://tinyurl.com/yxu64duk
Can Self-Awareness Help You Be More Empathic?: https://tinyurl.com/bjue72bn
How to Bring Self-Compassion to Work with You: https://tinyurl.com/2xn4f3pk
Can Self-Compassion Overcome Procrastination?: https://tinyurl.com/ytvxmp5d
Does Self-Compassion Make You Selfish?: https://tinyurl.com/528h6h6x
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of making space for yourself. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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11/3/2022 • 6 minutes, 1 second
Happiness Break: Restore Through Silence, with Tricia Hersey
When was the last time you spent a moment savoring silence? Tricia Hersey, aka The Nap Bishop, guides us through an appreciation of silence and its restorative powers.
Scientists have found that spending just two minutes in silence can lower your blood pressure and heart rate, even when compared to listening to slow, relaxing music.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a quiet place to rest. Set a two-minute timer and put it aside.
Close your eyes and soften your face. Allow yourself to listen to the silence and rest your body.
At the end of the two minutes, slowly open your eyes and notice how you feel in your body. Or, continue resting in silence for as long as you need.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Tricia Hersey is an activist, organizer, and founder of The Nap Ministry. She is also the author of a new book, Rest is Resistance: A Manifesto. Order it here: https://tinyurl.com/5bkk6txk
Learn more about Tricia and her work: https://thenapministry.com/
Follow Tricia on Instagram: [https://www.instagram.com/thenapministry/\](http:// https://www.instagram.com/thenapministry/)
Follow Tricia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Thenapministry/
Follow Tricia on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenapministry
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Avoid Burnout—or a Breakdown: https://tinyurl.com/5h4nrahy
What Is Black Fatigue, and How Can We Protect Employees from It?: https://tinyurl.com/yzcujre7
Quiet Justice: https://tinyurl.com/yc78fknk
More resources on the science of silence:
TIME - How Listening to Silence Changes Our Brains: https://tinyurl.com/4brpst8b
Healthline - 8 Physical and Mental Health Benefits of Silence, Plus How to Get More of It: https://tinyurl.com/5d84mxen
New Scientist - The power of quiet: The mental and physical health benefits of silence: https://tinyurl.com/2wn82wkr
PsychCentral - The Hidden Benefits of Silence: https://tinyurl.com/2p9fkc36
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of holding silence. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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10/20/2022 • 9 minutes, 43 seconds
How to Focus Under Pressure
Jeopardy! champion Amy Schneider tries a body scan meditation to sharpen her focus and calm her nerves as she prepares for the Tournament of Champions.
Episode summary:
Amy Schneider is the most successful woman to ever compete on Jeopardy!. Part of her winning strategy was to shut down all her mental chatter and completely focus on the competition. But when the cameras are off, she struggles to find the same calm. For today’s show, Amy tries a body scan practice to connect with her body and quiet her busy mind. Later we hear from Jonathan Greenberg, a Harvard psychology professor. He explains how mindfulness can make us better problem solvers, and how that can benefit our emotional health, too.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a quiet place where you feel safe and comfortable. You can be standing, sitting, or lying down.
Close your eyes, and take a few deep, long breaths.
Move your attention through your body slowly, part by part, starting with your feet. Focus on your feet, then your calves, knees, and so on, until you get to the top of your head. Without judgment, notice what sensations you can identify in each part of the body.
When your mind wanders, gently and with self-kindness, guide your attention back to the part of the body you’re focusing on in the present moment.
Find the full Body Scan Meditation practice at our Greater Good in Action website: https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/body_scan_meditation
Today’s guests:
Amy Schneider is the most successful woman to compete on the quiz show Jeopardy! and won 40 consecutive games.
Follow Amy on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Jeopardamy
Follow Amy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeopardamy/
Follow Amy on Facebook: https://tinyurl.com/5b4dyezy
Jonathan Greenberg is a psychology professor in Harvard University’s Clinical and Translational Science Center. His research focuses on the role of mindfulness and relaxation.
Learn more about Jonathan’s research: https://tinyurl.com/yn7j73au
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Try a body scan meditation guided by host Dacher Keltner, on Happiness Break: https://tinyurl.com/bd6x8ba5
Where to Find Wisdom in the Body: https://tinyurl.com/yctxtkzt
Compassionate Mind, Healthy Body: https://tinyurl.com/5n79ary9
Moving Your Body Is Like a Tune-Up for Your Mind: https://tinyurl.com/2f64na8b
Your Anxiety Might Be Coming From Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/4j9ynwr9
More resources on body scan meditation:
NPR - A Crash Course in Body Scan Meditation: https://tinyurl.com/mu24fx7p
Harvard Health - You can practice mindfulness in as little as 15 minutes a day: https://tinyurl.com/4aex7738
10% Happier - Change Your Posture, Change Your Mood: https://tinyurl.com/4crydjs6
Time - This Quick Meditation Helps You Let Go of Stress and Sleep: https://tinyurl.com/4mzpu2zr
Tell us about how you feel after trying the body-scan meditation. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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10/13/2022 • 18 minutes, 47 seconds
Happiness Break: How to Awaken Joy, with Spring Washam
Cultivate more joy in your life with this practice led by meditation teacher and author Spring Washam.
How to Do This Practice:
Think about an area of your life that brings you joy, it could be anything.
Imagine yourself experiencing that moment of happiness. Feel the smiles, the peace and laughter.
As you reflect on the moment, say to yourself, “may my joy and my happiness increase.”
Next, practice “sympathetic joy.” To do this, think about someone you know having a great experience.
As you think of them in their joy, say to them in your mind, “May your joy and happiness increase.” Or you can also say, “I'm happy for your happiness. May your happiness continue.”
Remember that happiness is infinite. Being joyful for others is a way to increase your joy.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Spring Washam, is a meditation teacher based in Oakland, California. She is also the author of the forthcoming book, The Spirit of Harriet Tubman: Awakening from the Underground.
Learn more about Spring and her new book: https://www.springwasham.com/
Follow Spring on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/springwasham/
Follow Spring on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/teacher.springwasham/
Follow Spring on Twitter: https://twitter.com/springwasham
Check out Spring’s YouTube channel: https://tinyurl.com/22njyd29
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Overcome Stress by Seeing Other People’s Joy: https://tinyurl.com/3cn22wcb
How Your Life Is Shaped by the Emotions You Want to Feel: https://tinyurl.com/54ff3b4k
Moments of Love and Connection May Help You Live Longer: https://tinyurl.com/328scfjj
Can You Be Too Happy?: https://tinyurl.com/4jswnf94
Why Other People’s Good News Could Be Good for You: https://tinyurl.com/4d8dxsw5
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience of cultivating joy. Email us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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10/6/2022 • 10 minutes, 42 seconds
Why Listen to the Other Side?
These days, it's hard to imagine befriending people with different politics than your own. But these two men did it using a tried and true practice.
Episode summary:
When a graphic work of art depicting two men having sex was hung up in a busy hallway on a community college campus, it stirred up a huge controversy. Some students wanted it taken down, while others opposed the idea of censoring art. Instead of retreating to their respective echo chambers, two students who disagreed had a public debate. It was so successful, they actually went on to create a discourse club on campus. We learn the tactics that helped them navigate a divisive topic with their civility and differing values intact. Later, we hear from psychologist Cynthia Wang on how taking someone else’s perspective can bring people of different backgrounds together and disrupt stereotyping.
Practice:
Think of someone whom you might be at odds with — perhaps they have different political beliefs, or they’re not part of your ethnic or religious group, or they have arguments with you.
Take a moment to imagine yourself as this person, seeing the world through their eyes. Recall a moment you shared with this person and think how you, as this person, experience that shared situation. What does the world look like from their point of view?
Try to imagine how it feels to be them as vividly as possible. Ask yourself questions such as, what emotions are they experiencing? How might that feel in their body? How might their feelings in the situation differ from yours?
If you’re in a debate with this person, try taking their side and formulate an argument on their behalf. You might understand more nuances about their views.
If you have the time, you can even try to imagine a day in your life as this person.
Find the bridging differences playbook in our Greater Good in Action website: https://ggsc.berkeley.edu/what_we_do/major_initiatives/bridging_differences
Today’s guests:
Mark Urista is a professor of communication at Linn-Benton Community College in Oregon.
Anthony Lusardi and Steven Olson are former students at Linn-Benton Community College.
Learn more about LBCC Civil Discourse Club: https://tinyurl.com/5becxpba
Follow the LBCC Civil Discourse Club on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LBCCCivilDiscourse/
Dr. Cynthia Wang is the clinical psychology professor at Northwestern University. She’s also the executive director of the Dispute Resolution Research Center at the Kellogg School of Management.
Learn more about Cynthia and her work: https://tinyurl.com/56kebcvw
Follow Cynthia on Twitter: https://twitter.com/cynthiascwang
Resources for bridging differences from The Greater Good Science Center:
Learn more about the Bridging Differences Initiative: https://tinyurl.com/5n6j5e3t
Eight Keys to Bridging Our Differences: https://tinyurl.com/ywaay6ux
What Will It Take to Bridge Our Differences? https://tinyurl.com/yjvvt622
How to Get Some Emotional Distance in an Argument: https://tinyurl.com/342r4sjz
More resources on bridging differences:
TED - Bridging Cultural Differences(playlist): https://tinyurl.com/racj5edf
NPR - Why We Fight: The Psychology Of Political Differences: https://tinyurl.com/52rxnxwj
Tell us about your experiences of bridging differences by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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This episode is supported by Arthur Vining Davis Foundations, as part of the Greater Good Science Center’s Bridging Differences initiative. To learn more about the Bridging Differences initiative, please visit: https://ggsc.berkeley.edu/what_we_do/major_initiatives/bridging_differences
9/29/2022 • 16 minutes, 48 seconds
Happiness Break: Six Minutes to Connect with Your Body, with Dacher Keltner
Dedicating a little time to tune into your body fortifies you to better handle the stresses of daily life.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a quiet place where you feel safe and comfortable.You can be standing, sitting, or lying down. Make sure that you feel relaxed.
Close your eyes, and take a few deep, long breaths.
Move your attention through your body slowly, part by part. Focus on your feet, then your calves, knees, and so on, until you get to the top of your head. Without judgment, notice what sensations you can identify in each part of the body.
When your mind wanders, gently and with self-kindness, guide your attention back to the part of the body you’re focusing on in the present moment.
Find the full Body Scan Meditation practice at our Greater Good in Action website: https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/body_scan_meditation
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Listen to a Science of Happiness episode on the body scan meditation with Daniel Wu: https://tinyurl.com/hn6vhx4b
How a Body Scan Can Help With Strong Emotions: https://tinyurl.com/57sdek76
How Tuning In to Your Body Can Make You More Resilient: https://tinyurl.com/328scfjj
What Self-Compassion Feels Like in Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/426hfnjj
Compassionate Mind, Healthy Body: https://tinyurl.com/5n79ary9
Your Anxiety Might Be Coming From Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/4j9ynwr9
Why Yoga Is Good for Your Body and Brain, According to Science: https://tinyurl.com/ynja9f22
We love hearing from you! Tell us about your experience with the body scan meditation. Email us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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9/22/2022 • 7 minutes, 5 seconds
Nine Steps to Forgiveness
How do you forgive someone while still holding them accountable? What if that person is yourself? This week, our guest tries a practice in forgiving herself and someone else.
Episode summary:
Anoosha Syed appreciates her name now, but as a kid, she struggled with feeling different from everyone else. She had friends call her “Annie” and even dyed her hair blonde in an effort to look less Pakistani. Anoosha joins us after trying a practice in forgiveness. Anoosha explores the complexities of forgiving someone who’s in a position of power and privilege and should know better, like the teacher who always mispronounced her name. Then, Anoosha took the practice a step further and directed it inward. She shares what it was like to forgive her younger self for not being as proud of her culture as she is today. Later, we hear from psychologist Dr. Lydia Woodyatt about the power of self-compassion and affirming our important values to release us from destructive self-blame while still holding ourselves accountable when we need to.
Practice:
Make sure you know how you feel about what is going on and be able to articulate it. Then, tell someone you can trust about your experience.
Tell yourself you will feel better because of this forgiveness. Forgiveness is for you, not for others.
Remember, forgiveness does not necessarily mean reconciling with the person who upsets you or condoning the behavior.
Recognize that your primary pain comes from hurt feelings, thoughts, and physical discomfort you are experiencing now, not from the thing that offended or hurt in the past.
Practice stress management to soothe yourself when you're feeling overwhelmed. Try things like mindful breathing or going for a walk.
Remind yourself that you cannot expect others to act in the way you think they should, but it’s ok to hope that they do.
Find another way to achieve the positive outcome you had hoped for in the first place.
Instead of focusing on your hurt feelings, look for the bright side of things. Focus on what’s going well for you.
Change the way you look at your past so you remind yourself of your heroic choice to forgive..
Find the Nine Steps to Forgiveness Practice at our Greater Good in Action website: https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/nine_steps_to_forgiveness
Today’s guests:
Anoosha Syed is a Pakistani-Canadian freelance illustrator and author of the children's book, That is Not My Name.
Learn more about Anoosha and her works: http://www.anooshasyed.com/
Follow Anoosha on
Twitter: https://twitter.com/foxville_art
Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/3pahbn7x
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/anooshasyed
Dr. Lydia Woodyatt is an associate professor in Psychology at Flinders University in Australia. She studies wellbeing, justice, emotions, and motivation.
Learn more about Lydia and her works: https://tinyurl.com/mrs974by
Follow Lydia on Twitter: https://twitter.com/LydiaWoodyatt
Resources for forgiveness from The Greater Good Science Center:
Listen to an episode of Happiness Break on Self-forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/3d7sevfs
Eight Keys to Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/5n82yjkf
Is a Grudge Keeping You Up at Night?: https://tinyurl.com/yc7pkdyk
More resources on forgiveness:
TED - How (and why) to forgive: https://tinyurl.com/mu2zep4f
Harvard Health - The Power of Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/2p9fden3
10% Happier - Writing a Forgiveness letter: https://tinyurl.com/mr5y624x
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9/15/2022 • 18 minutes, 35 seconds
Happiness Break: A Note to Self on Forgiveness, with Alex Elle
Letting go of our regrets can motivate us to improve and help us grow. Alex Elle, a certified breathwork and writing coach, guides us through a meditation to forgive and accept ourselves.
How to Do This Practice:
Take a deep breath. As you exhale, remember all you have done in the past that led you to come to be where you are today.
Remember that you are allowed to forgive yourself and let it go. Give yourself permission to release any shame that you’re carrying. Forgive yourself.
Think of the good things about yourself. Trust your worth and acknowledge that you are evolving. Remember, you are worthy of good things even when you think you are now.
When you're ready, you can bring your attention back to the present moment. Take a few deep breaths in through the nose, and out through the nose. Drop your shoulder and unclench your jaw.
If you'd like to take this practice a step further, you can write your own letter of self forgiveness, it can start with “Dear self, I forgive you for …”
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Alex Elle is a certified breathwork coach, author and restorative writing teacher. Her new book, How We Heal, will come out soon.
Learn more about Alex and her new book: https://www.alexelle.com/about
Follow Alex on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alex/
Follow Alex on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@easewithalexl
Follow Alex on Twitter: https://twitter.com/alex__elle
Follow Alex on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AlexElleFB
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Listen to a Science of Happiness episode on self-compassion: https://tinyurl.com/2hundtmc
How to Grow from Your Regrets: https://tinyurl.com/ys8239k2
Just One Thing: Forgive Yourself: https://tinyurl.com/5ybny4xx
Forgive Yourself, Save Your Relationship: https://tinyurl.com/49by7ma6
The Healthy Way to Forgive Yourself: https://tinyurl.com/4p3e9eha
How to Let Go of an Old Regret: https://tinyurl.com/4mryyyfy
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9/8/2022 • 11 minutes, 11 seconds
When Rumination Is a Good Thing
When's the last time you made a good memory — intentionally? Our guest tries a practice in cultivating positive experiences and taking time to savor them.
Episode summary:
Life doesn't always hand us good times, but we can benefit as much or more when we create our own happy memories and take time to appreciate them. This week on The Science of Happiness, our guest tries a practice to intentionally create good experiences and reflect on them. Deandrea Farlow is a member of the Bay Area Freedom Collective, a re-entry home where formerly incarcerated people can find community and connections. Deandrea brings us into his experience with this practice, and shares what it’s like to find strength through the hardest times as well as positive events, like the ones he created for our show. Psychologist Meg Speer explains how ruminating on good times can actually change the way we respond to stress. .
Practice: Creating and Recalling Positive Events
1. Do an activity that you enjoy doing alone.
2. With a friend, do something that you enjoy doing with others.
3. Do something that you consider personally important and meaningful.
4. Then take a step back and really think about these three events. Write about how they make you feel. Talk about it with a friend, or just really think about it.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/creating_and_recalling_positive_events
Today’s guests:
Deandrea Farlow is a member of the Bay Area Freedom Collective, a home by and for formerly incarcerated people, which provides resources and support for their re-entry.
To learn more about Bay Area Freedom House: https://www.collectivefreedom.org/
or: https://www.facebook.com/bayareafreedom/
To financially support the Bay Area Freedom Collective: https://givedirect.org/freedomcollective/
Meg Speer is a postdoctoral researcher in the SCAN lab at Columbia University. She studies how autobiographical memories and positive thoughts affect our brain function.
Learn more about Meg and her work: https://tinyurl.com/yf39acwk
Follow Meg on Twitter: https://twitter.com/mspeer3
Follow Meg on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/9cn3tmbh
Resources for Recalling Positive Event:
TED —There’s an art to happy memories — you can make more by experiencing more “first”s: https://tinyurl.com/2p8sdsy7
Hidden Brain (NPR) — Nostalgia Isn't Just A Fixation On The Past - It Can Be About The Future, Too: https://tinyurl.com/5d8dej3a
Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Five Ways Nostalgia Can Improve Your Well-Being: https://tinyurl.com/veeraw6u
Listen to our episode, “How to Make Time for Happiness” https://tinyurl.com/yhf39awt
Listen to our last episode featuring the Bay Area Freedom Collective, “How to Feel Less Lonely and More Connected” https://tinyurl.com/4d6dm9zp
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9/1/2022 • 21 minutes, 48 seconds
Happiness Break: A Meditation to Connect to Your Roots, with Yuria Celidwen
When was the last time you thought about your ancestors? This guided meditation by indigenous scholar Yuria Celidwen will help you connect to your heritage and reap the potent benefits of remembering your roots.
How to Do This Practice:
Bring your attention to the center of your chest, allow the chest to open, and relax.
Notice an open space in your chest when you breathe in. Pause before exhaling, resting your awareness in the space between breaths, then breathe out. Contemplate the pause that connects the constant flow between openings and returning.
In that pause, contemplate your lineage. Think about the origin stories of your elders, their own elders, and their own elders, moving back in time.
Think about those elders and the lands that touched their feet. Imagine bringing that land into the center of your chest, into the pause between breaths.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dr. Yuria Celidwen is an Indigenous scholar of Nahua and Maya descent. She also works at the United Nations to advance the rights of Indigenous peoples and environmental sustainability.
Learn more about Dr. Celidwen: https://www.yuriacelidwen.com/
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Listen to Dr. Yuria Celidwen on The Science of Happiness episode about listening to your elders: https://tinyurl.com/ykn8euhc
Try the grounding practice led by Dr. Yuria Celidwen from Happiness Break: https://tinyurl.com/24kdurc4
Why Telling Our Own Story Is So Powerful for Black Americans: https://tinyurl.com/2nvcxpam
We love hearing from you! Tell us how connecting to your ancestors made you feel. Email us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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8/25/2022 • 10 minutes, 43 seconds
Riding The Waves of Anxiety
Comedian Aparna Nancherla has always struggled with anxiety — can a new technique help her cope?
Episode summary:
Comedian Aparna Nancherla has always struggled with anxiety. Starting a new task at work, writing her book, talking to a baby — you name it, she worries about it. And while she’s built a career in stand-up comedy making light of her struggles, she still suffers. Aparna joins us to share what it’s like to try a new technique to cope with her anxiety. She tries to see her anxiety through a new lens, and actually lean into it. We also hear from psychologist and anxiety expert Dr. Tracy Dennis-Tiwary about this radical new approach to understanding anxiety and coping with it by understanding it not just as a crucial part of being human, but as a strength unto itself.
Practice:
Ask yourself: what am I feeling anxious about? What do I want to happen? Take a few minutes to write out your answer.
Next, ask yourself: Is there something I can do right now to get closer to the outcome I described in question 1? If the answer is yes, go to part A. If the answer is no, go to part B.
A. Remind yourself: My body is preparing me to do what I need to do. I will be better at what I need to do because of these feelings. Then, do whatever it is you identified in question 2. If you still feel anxious and there’s nothing more you can do right now, go to part B.
B. Sometimes there are circumstances in our life that make us feel nervous or scared, and there’s nothing we can do in the moment to change our situation. When that’s the case for you, try a mindfulness practice to ground yourself in the present moment. Here are a few you can try:
Noticing Nature
Walking Meditation
Mindful Breathing
Body Scan Meditation
Savoring Walk
Today’s guests:
Aparna Nancherla is a comedian, writer, and actress in New York City whose stand-up often focuses on her experience living with depression and anxiety.
Check out more videos from Aparna: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KR_pr8Pdh84
Follow Aparna on Twitter: https://twitter.com/aparnapkin
Follow Aparna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aparnapkin/
Tracy Dennis-Tiwary is an anxiety researcher and psychology professor at Hunter College. She just published a new book, Future Tense: Why Anxiety is Good For You.
Learn more about Tracy and her book: https://www.drtracyphd.com/future-tense
Follow Tracy on Twitter: https://twitter.com/tracyadennis
Follow Tracy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.tracyphd/
Resources for Surfing Anxiety
TED - How to Cope with Anxiety: https://tinyurl.com/copeanxiety
Harvard Health - Anxiety: What it is, What to do: https://tinyurl.com/anxietyhowto
10% Happier - How a Buddhist Monk Deals with Anxiety: https://tinyurl.com/2wpa9pz2
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
How to Turn Bad Anxiety into Good Anxiety: https://tinyurl.com/goodanxiety
Can We Help Young Brains Fight Off Anxiety: https://tinyurl.com/HelpBrains
How to Be Yourself When You Have Social Anxiety: https://tinyurl.com/Socialanxious
Tell us about your experiences with anxiety by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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8/18/2022 • 21 minutes, 40 seconds
Happiness Break: Walk Your Way to Calm, with Dacher Keltner
A few slow, mindful paces can lower your cortisol and make you more at ease. Psychologist Dacher Keltner guides you through this Walking Meditation.
How to Do This Practice:
Find a relatively peaceful space that allows you to walk back and forth for 10-15 paces, where you won’t be disturbed or observed.
Begin to walk forward slowly, lifting one foot first, then placing it gently on the floor or ground ahead of you, heel first. Notice your weight shift as you lift your back heel, then the whole foot, and then place it down heel first in front of your first foot. Walk 10-15 paces this way, then reverse directions.
As you walk, try to focus your attention on one or more sensations that you would normally take for granted, like your breath, the movement of your feet and legs, or how the pressure on the bottom of each foot shifts throughout each step.
If you notice your mind wandering, simply bring it back to noticing those sensations, without judgment.
Repeat this practice as often as you’d like, ideally for at least 10 minutes twice a week.
Find the full Walking Meditation practice at our Greater Good in Action website:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/walking_meditation
More resources from UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center:
How to Cultivate Awe With a Walking Meditation: https://tinyurl.com/yckz7hu8
How to Choose a Type of Mindfulness Meditation: https://tinyurl.com/2u6rfzhb
Can Meditation Help You with Depression? https://tinyurl.com/3ny8jjhj
A Walk in the Park: https://tinyurl.com/58v6d9k2
Why You Should Take a Relaxing Lunch Break: https://tinyurl.com/8kckdhmx
How Resting More Can Boost Your Productivity: https://tinyurl.com/2p97yfff
Four Tips for Sticking to a Meditation Practice: https://tinyurl.com/5b22pynt
Tell us how this walking meditation made you feel by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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8/11/2022 • 6 minutes, 6 seconds
36 Questions to Spark Intimacy
What if you could fall in love, or forge deep connections in just 45 minutes? Our guests try out 36 questions with their partners to see if they can strengthen their connection.
Episode summary:
There are 36 questions that have been shown over and over again in lab studies to help people fall in love or form fast connections. In this week’s episode, we bring back Kristen Meinzer and Jolenta Greenberg of By the Book podcast*.* They recruit their husbands to ask and answer these questions and then fill us in on the surprising ways they helped each of their relationships. Later, we hear from psychologists Arthur and Elaine Aron, the married duo who co-created the 36 questions this practice is based on. They explain the principles behind the questions, so you can come up with your own conversation starters to foster closeness with anyone — family, friends, or your partner.
Practice:
36 Questions for Increasing Closeness
Identify someone with whom you’d like to become closer. Find a time when you both have about 45 minutes to meet in person.
Take 15 minutes answering the questions in Set I below. Each person should answer every question, but alternate who answers first. If you don’t finish the set in 15 minutes, move on to Set II.
Repeat the steps above for sets II and III.
Find the 36 questions at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/36_questions_for_increasing_closeness
Today’s guests:
Kristen Meinzer is a pop culture commentator, Royals expert, and co-host of By the Book podcast. She also co-hosts the new podcast Romance Road Test.
Jolenta Greenberg is a comedian, pop culture commentator, and aslo co-hosts of By the Book and Romance Road Test.
Listen to Romance Road Test: https://tinyurl.com/mr298rwr
Listen to By the Book: https://pod.link/1217948628
Arthur and Elaine Aron are two of the leading psychologists studying the psychology of love and close relationships, and they are a married couple. The Arons created the original 36 questions this practice is based on.
Resources For Increasing Closeness:
The New York Times, Smarter Living - How to Be a Better Friend: https://tinyurl.com/3bpn2bvr
NBC News - How to build emotional intimacy with your partner: https://tinyurl.com/bdz84apz
Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel - Twice Married, To Each Other: https://tinyurl.com/mt4r7zw
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Take our Compassionate Love Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/bdfuucw3
36 Questions That Can Help Kids Make Friends: https://tinyurl.com/2bc42vvt
Moments of Love and Connection May Help You Live Longer: https://tinyurl.com/2s3h58yw
Tell us about your experience asking and answering these 36 questions by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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8/4/2022 • 18 minutes, 8 seconds
Happiness Break: How to Ground Yourself, with Yuria Celidwen
Connect to yourself and the land you stand on in under 10 minutes with this grounding practice led by Indigenous scholar Dr. Yuria Celidwen.
How to Do This Practice:
If possible, go outside and find some natural ground, like grass or dirt. If you're wearing shoes or socks, take them off and place the soles of your feet directly on the ground.
Bring your attention to the earth beneath you. Allow it to hold you, paying attention to how it feels — soft, firm, reliable. Imagine you're starting to grow roots from the tip of your toes, digging deep into the earth.
Visualize energy and wellness flowing through your roots to your toes, into the soles of your feet, your thighs and knees, then base of the spine and upwards into your chest, expanding the whole center of your chest. Take a full, deep breath and contemplate the openness you feel in your chest.
Look up towards the sky and open your eyes, allowing all of your senses to awaken to the sounds, smells, colors, and life around you. Feel their presence.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Dr. Yuria Celidwen is an Indigenous studies, cultural psychology, and contemplative science scholar of Indigenous Nahua and Maya descent. She also works at the United Nations to advance the rights of Indigenous peoples and the Earth.
Learn more about Dr. Celidwen’s work: https://www.yuriacelidwen.com/
More resources from UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center:
Listen to Dr. Yuria Celidwen on The Science of Happiness episode about listening to your elders: https://tinyurl.com/yr2ydk43
Does Nature Make You More Mindful? https://tinyurl.com/4wcreu9z
Why You Need More Nature in Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/ye282e5d
Being Around Nature Helps You Love Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/57d5ntxm
How Modern Life Became Disconnected From Nature: https://tinyurl.com/yc6u73f9
Listen to The Science of Happiness episode featuring podcast host Krista Tippett, on Being Grounded in Your Body: https://tinyurl.com/8t7rr4yy
Tell us how connecting to the earth beneath you made you feel by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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7/28/2022 • 10 minutes, 27 seconds
How to Feel Less Lonely and More Connected
When we feel more connected, we're kinder and care more for others. After 21 years of being incarcerated, our guest Simon Liu, of Bay Area Freedom House Collective, tries a practice that helps him remember the profound connections he's made both inside and out of prison // throughout his life.
Episode summary:
When’s the last time you felt a deep connection with someone, and then really reflected on your connections? This week on The Science of Happiness, our guest tries a writing practice to feel more connected to those close to him. Simon Liu is the co-founder of the Bay Area Freedom Collective, a home where other formerly incarcerated people can find community and connections. Simon talks about the importance of the social connections he made while in prison, and outside. Psychologist David Cwir explains how finding and building connections not only supports our emotional well-being, but can also change our bodies.
Practice:
Feeling Connected
Think of a time when you felt a strong bond with someone in your life. Choose a specific experience where you felt especially close and connected to them. Spend a few minutes writing about what happened during the experience. In particular, consider how the experience made you feel close and connected to the other person.
Today’s guests:
Simon Liu co-founded the Bay Area Freedom Collective, a home by and for formerly incarcerated people, which provides resources and support for their re-entry. Simon is also a software engineer.
To learn more about Bay Area Freedom House: https://www.collectivefreedom.org/
or: https://www.facebook.com/bayareafreedom/
To financially support the Bay Area Freedom Collective: https://tinyurl.com/2p93j8x8
David Cwir is an associate professor of psychology at Briercrest College and Seminary. His research has looked at how moments of social connection with strangers can positively affect our bodies and minds.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/feeling_connected
We’d love for you to try out this practice and share how it went for you. Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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Resources for Feeling Connected:
Harvard Health — Easy daily ways to feel more connected: https://tinyurl.com/5jxykfhb
NPR — 4 tips to stay connected when your friends live far away: https://tinyurl.com/2p82en68
The New York Times — Need to Dust Off Your Social Skills? (featuring Dacher): https://tinyurl.com/yckwkmku
How to Start Over (The Atlantic) — The Misgivings of Friend-Making: https://tinyurl.com/2ysn7zd2
Invisibilia — Therapy, With Friends:https://tinyurl.com/yvmkkbrs
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Feeling Connected Makes Us Kind: https://tinyurl.com/f5xd27ue
Is Social Connection the Best Path to Happiness? https://tinyurl.com/2v9e9c9n
Why You Click With Certain People: https://tinyurl.com/2p8w38rw
Why Are We So Wired to Connect? https://tinyurl.com/bddukrxx
Listen to our episode, “Who Makes You Feel Connected?” https://tinyurl.com/4pmj775a
Listen to our episode, “What Are Your Strongest Reminders of Connection?” https://tinyurl.com/sbs6waha
7/21/2022 • 20 minutes, 43 seconds
Happiness Break: Experience Nature Wherever You Are, with Dacher Keltner
Just a few moments of tuning into nature can make you feel more inspired, connected, and less lonely. Let us guide you through a five-minute noticing nature practice — you don't even have to leave the city.
How to Do This Practice:
Pause and take notice of the natural elements around you, like trees, clouds, leaves, moving water, animals, bugs and butterflies, etc. Take a moment to allow yourself to truly experience the nature around you, and notice what emotions this evokes.
When you encounter something that moves you in some way, take a mental photo of it. In a few words or sentences, jot down a brief description of what caught your attention and how it made you feel.
Try to repeat this every day for at least two weeks.
Remember: The key is your experience with what you are noticing—how nature makes you feel.
Find the full Noticing Nature practice at our Greater Good in Action website: https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/noticing_nature
More resources from UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center:
Four Ways Nature Can Protect Your Well-Being During a Pandemic: https://tinyurl.com/98t8p7r5
What Happens When We Reconnect With Nature: https://tinyurl.com/4jef7r82
How Nature Can Make You Kinder, Happier, and More Creative: https://tinyurl.com/2s95n6ps
Six Ways Nature Helps Children Learn: https://tinyurl.com/5t2tnv3p
Why Is Nature So Good For Your Mental Health? https://tinyurl.com/nj7kpn28
How Nature Helps Us Heal: https://tinyurl.com/2kea52n9
Listen to The Science of Happiness episode featuring NYT restaurant critic Tejal Rao trying the Noticing Nature practice: https://tinyurl.com/yckkte9w
Tell us about your experiences noticing nature by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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7/14/2022 • 7 minutes, 5 seconds
How to Make Better Decisions (Encore)
Can practicing mindfulness make us wiser? Judge Jeremy Fogel explores how being present in the moment helps him keep a clear mind and stay connected to his true values.
Episode summary:
What do you think it takes to become wiser, more compassionate, and more open-minded? This week on The Science of Happiness, we bring you one of our most popular episodes. Former district judge Jeremy Fogel shares his insights on how being present can help us make more mindful decisions. He recounts how, after experiencing stress as a judge, his wife suggested he try an 8-week Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction course. After taking the course, Jeremy felt more connected to himself and his surroundings, and decided to make mindfulness a part of his everyday life. The changes Jeremy made had profound impacts on his work as a judge. We also hear from Dr. Shauna Shapiro, a clinical psychologist and professor at Santa Clara University, about how mindfulness affects our moral reasoning.
Practice:
Mindful Breathing
Find a comfortable, seated position and invite your body to relax.
Tune in to the sensations it experiences — the touch, the connection with the floor or the chair. Do your best to relax any areas of tightness or tension.
Listen to the natural rhythm of your breath, in and out, without trying to control it. Notice where you feel your breath in your body. It might be in your abdomen, chest, throat, or nostrils. See if you can feel the sensations of breath, one breath at a time.
As you do this, you may start thinking about other things. Try to notice that your mind has wandered, and say “thinking” or “wandering” in your head softly. Then gently redirect your attention right back to the breathing. Stay here for 5-7 minutes.
Finally, notice your whole body seated here once more. Let yourself relax even more deeply, and thank yourself for doing this practice today.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/mindful_breathing
Today’s guests:
Jeremy Fogel is a former district judge in Northern California. Today he’s the executive director of the Judicial Institute at UC Berkeley and is at the forefront of a movement to bring mindfulness practices into the work of judges.
Learn more about Judge Fogel’s work: https://tinyurl.com/5yw2fwpp
Shauna Shapiro is a professor at Santa Clara University and the author of Good Morning, I Love You, a book on how to cultivate mindfulness and self-compassion.
Listen to Dr. Shapiro’s TED talk on the power of mindfulness: drshaunashapiro.com/videos/
Resources for Mindful Decision-Making
Harvard Health - Can Mindfulness Change Your Brain? https://tinyurl.com/yzj98cts
NPR’s Life Kit - Faced With A Tough Decision? The Key To Choosing May Be Your Mindset: https://tinyurl.com/2ywhzp6m
The Atlantic - Mindfulness Hurts. That’s Why It Works: https://tinyurl.com/2y2k2wdm
The New York Times - How to Be More Mindful at Work: https://tinyurl.com/mcfd7cze
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Take our Mindfulness Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/yc4747jx
Five Ways Mindfulness Meditation is Good for Your Health: https://tinyurl.com/2fhd3mhb
Three Ways Mindfulness Can Make You Less Biased: https://tinyurl.com/3wm69zvc
The Mindfulness Skill That is Crucial for Stress: https://tinyurl.com/38dxzhfc
Can Mindfulness Improve Decision Making? https://tinyurl.com/b67ae6ck
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7/7/2022 • 18 minutes, 17 seconds
Happiness Break: 36 Questions to Feel Connected, with Dacher Keltner
Having close bonds with others is one of the most important things to our happiness. Host Dacher Keltner walks you through a practice you can do with someone else to create new bonds or strengthen old ones. Plus, hear some of his answers to these questions alongside his wife, Molly.
How to Do the 36 Questions for Increasing Closeness Practice:
Take a few deep breaths, and notice how you feel.
Identify someone with whom you’d like to become closer. Find a time where you both have about 45 minutes
Take 15 minutes answering the questions in Set I below. Each person should answer each question, but alternate who answers first. If you don’t finish the set in 15 minutes, move on to Set II.
Repeat the steps above for sets II and III.
Here’s a sample of the questions:
Set I
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
Set II
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
17. What is your most treasured memory?
18. What is your most terrible memory?
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
20. What does friendship mean to you?
Set III
25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling…”
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”
28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
Find the full 36 Questions for Increasing Closeness practice at our Greater Good in Action website: https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/36_questions_for_increasing_closeness
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Can You Cultivate a More Secure Attachment Style? https://tinyurl.com/2p8ue7n6
Moments of Love and Connection May Help You Live Longer: https://tinyurl.com/3nyfbwwh
Listen to our Science of Happiness episode about this practice: https://pod.link/1340505607/episode/f2ca309e37d261b86223bb52eab3ab08
36 Questions to Help Kids Make Friends: https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/36_questions_to_help_kids_make_friends
Today’s host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of The Science of Happiness podcast and a co-instructor of GGSC’s course by the same name. He’s also the founding director of The Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at UC Berkeley.
Tell us about your experience asking these 36 questions by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
6/30/2022 • 8 minutes, 10 seconds
How to Say "Sorry" Like You Mean It
Apologies are key to successful relationships. But are you doing them right?
Episode summary:
We all have moments when we say or do something we later regret. Then the time comes to make an apology. But a halfhearted “I’m sorry” rarely gets the job done. On this episode of The Science of Happiness, public defender Sam Dugan joins us for a second time to try science-backed tips for making an effective apology. First, she takes a moment to cultivate mindfulness through a mindful breathing practice. Next, Sam invites us in as she apologizes to her husband Nate. Sam reflects on how she took out her stress on Nate, what led her to lash out, and the importance of making a true, heartfelt apology — as opposed to the mindless ones many of us make on a near-daily basis. Then we hear from Sana Rizvi, a professor at the University of New Brunswick, about the science of how mindfulness can make us more apologetic.
Practice:
Mindful Breathing
Invite your body to relax into a comfortable position.
Tune into the rhythm of your breath, and pay attention as you breathe in through your nose, hold your breath, and exhale through your mouth.
Repeat as many times as you’d like.
Making an Effective Apology
Acknowledge the offense by showing that you recognize who was responsible, who was harmed, and the nature of the offense.
If helpful, provide an explanation, especially to convey that it was not intentional and that it will not happen again.
Express remorse.
Make amends. When considering how to best make amends, be sure to ask the offended person what would mean the most to them.
Learn more about this practice at Greater Good In Action:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/mindful_breathing
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/making_an_effective_apology
Today’s guests:
Sam Dugan is a public defender in Salt Lake City, Utah. She and her husband Nate have three dogs, and they were on the show last year to try the Three Funny Things practice.
Listen to Sam and Nate on Why Love Needs Laughter: https://tinyurl.com/5s45ps2v
Sana Rizvi is a professor in Organizational Behavior and Human Resource Management at the University of New Brunswick, in Canada.
Learn more about Dr. Rizvi’s work: https://tinyurl.com/4kzs4n4w
Resources for Making an Effective Apology
Hidden Brain - The Power of Apologies: https://tinyurl.com/bdze6yzz
The Verywell Mind Podcast - A Science-Backed Strategy for Making an Effective Apology: https://tinyurl.com/2j6ar3x8
The Atlantic - The Art and Science of Apologizing: https://tinyurl.com/38j2re9d
The New York Times - No, You Don’t Have to Stop Apologizing: https://tinyurl.com/3zwns9n3
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Can Mindfulness Make You Better at Apologizing? https://tinyurl.com/bdes29w5
The Three Parts of an Effective Apology: https://tinyurl.com/3p273tym
A Better Way to Apologize: https://tinyurl.com/34hp2re5
Should You Ask Your Children to Apologize? https://tinyurl.com/4vcrktju
Eight Keys to Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/3x7v8rj7
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6/23/2022 • 17 minutes, 27 seconds
Happiness Break: How To Be Your Best Self, with Justin Michael Williams
Visualize your best possible self and tap into your inherent enough-ness with this guided meditation by Justin Michael Williams.
How to Do This Practice:
Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths and visualize your ideal future self, the person of your dreams you’ve always wanted to be. Try noticing as many details as you can: What color are you wearing, how do you feel, what are you doing, is anyone with you?
Answer this question in your mind with 1-3 words: As you look at this future version of you, what energy do you need to cultivate more of in your life now, today, to become closer to being that person you see in your vision?
Breathe in deeply, and as you do imagine yourself breathing in that energy. As you exhale, imagine that energy spreading throughout your body and energy field.
Open your eyes. Remember, you have what you need to become that which you want to become. We are enough to start stepping into the life of our dreams.
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Justin Michael Williams works at the intersection of social justice, mindfulness, and personal growth — with a touch of music that brings it all to life.
Learn More About Justin’s work: https://www.justinmichaelwilliams.com/
Listen to Justin’s debut album: https://www.justinmichaelwilliams.com/music
Order Justin’s book, Stay Woke: A Meditation Guide For the Rest of Us: https://tinyurl.com/2p8xu6hx
Follow Justin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/wejustwill
Follow Justin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustwill/
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Take our Purpose in Life Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/3uh8jjdv
Try Imagining Your Best Possible Life: https://tinyurl.com/bdekum2v
What to Do When You Never Feel Good Enough: https://tinyurl.com/kpy9b44t
How Strong is Your Sense of Purpose in Life? https://tinyurl.com/2p9h7rm5
How Thinking About the Future Makes Life More Meaningful: https://tinyurl.com/2p83y2n5
Listen to The Science of Happiness episode featuring comedian Margaret Cho visualizing her best possible self: https://tinyurl.com/s2s7rdpn
Tell us about your experience visualizing your best possible self by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
Find us on Amazon Music: https://tinyurl.com/28hcdfsd
Find behind-the-scenes material behind this podcast on Pocket, Mozilla’s save-for-later and content discovery app: https://getpocket.com/collections/how-to-access-your-best-possible-self-start-with-your-imagination
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6/16/2022 • 8 minutes, 52 seconds
The Questions to Ask Yourself in an Argument
Our guest explores how reminding yourself that you don't know everything can have a profound impact on your relationships, and our society.
Episode summary:
Jinho “Piper” Ferreira is a playwright, a rapper, and a former deputy sheriff. His band Flipsyde toured the world, but Jinho wanted to make real change to end police violence against his community – so he became a deputy sheriff himself. He was on the force for eight years before resigning in 2019. Jinho joins us today after trying a practice in cultivating intellectual humility. It asks us to consider how our memories and understanding of the world might be fallible, so we might not have all the answers. When Jinho tapped into the practice during a disagreement with a bandmate, he was able to navigate the conflict and come to a resolution.
Check out Jinho’s band, Flipsyde: https://flipsyde.com/
Try this practice: Cultivate Intellectual Humility
If you can, write out your answers.
When you encounter information or an opinion that contradicts your opinion or worldview, ask yourself these questions:
Why do you disagree?
Are you making any assumptions about the other person and the source of their opinion?
Might those assumptions be wrong?
What about your own opinion, how did you come to believe it?
Do you really have all of the information?
Now think about the scenario from the perspective of a person who disagrees with you. Try to imagine how they came to believe what they believe.
What information might they be basing their opinion off of?
What values do you think they’re weighing in how they think about this topic?
Can you imagine how they came to hold those values?
If you find yourself getting stuck, imagine yourself as a third person weighing in with an opinion that’s different from both of yours. Try to generate an entirely new perspective. Can you think of another way to understand this issue?
3. Tap into your intellectual humility:
Identify places where, before, you weren’t acknowledging the limitations of what you know about the issue. Can you find any?
Now that you’ve worked to see this issue from another person’s point of view, do you see more value in their perspective than you were able to see before?
What other ways do you engage with viewpoints that challenge your own? Do you notice any patterns?
Today’s guests:
Jinho “Piper” Ferreira is a rapper in the Band Flipsyde, a former deputy sheriff, and playwright.
Follow Jinho on Twitter: https://twitter.com/pipedreamzent?lang=en
Listen to the episode of Snap Judgment podcast about Jinho’s story: https://snapjudgment.org/episode/jinhos-journey/
Elizabeth Krumrei-Mancuso is a professor of psychology at Pepperdine University who studies intellectual humility.
Learn more about Dr. Krumrei-Mancuso and her work: https://tinyurl.com/2t6aaa5f
Check out Dr. Krumrei-Mancuso’s article on intellectual humility: https://tinyurl.com/526m8b93
More resources about Intellectual Humility:
Intellectual humility: the importance of knowing you might be wrong: https://tinyurl.com/m2ct29m7
Five Reasons Why Intellectual Humility Is Good for You: https://tinyurl.com/4dnx5vu4
The Benefits of Admitting When You Don’t Know: https://tinyurl.com/4frk84k8
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This episode was supported by a grant from the John Templeton Foundation, as part of our project on "Expanding Awareness of the Science of Intellectual Humility." For more on the project, go to www.ggsc.berkeley.edu/IH.
6/9/2022 • 13 minutes, 43 seconds
Happiness Break: How to Be Your Own Best Friend, with Kristen Neff
Take 10 minutes to be guided through a practice of meaningful self-kindness: A self-compassion break with Kristin Neff.
How to Do This Practice:
Think of a situation in your life that is difficult and is causing you stress. For this practice, especially if you are new to it, it's better to choose something that is moderately difficult in your life, rather than overwhelming.
Call the situation to mind and get in touch with what happened or what you think might happen.
Now say to yourself, “This is a moment of suffering.” This acknowledgment is a form of mindfulness—of noticing what is going on for you emotionally in the present moment, without judging that experience as good or bad. You can also say to yourself, “This hurts” or “This is stress.” Use whatever statement feels most natural to you.
Next, say to yourself, “Suffering is a part of life.” This is a recognition of your common humanity with others—that all people have trying experiences, and these experiences give you something in common with the rest of humanity rather than mark you as abnormal or deficient. Other options for this statement include “Other people feel this way,” “I’m not alone,” or “We all struggle in our lives.”
Now, put your hands over your heart, feel the warmth of your hands and the gentle touch on your chest, and say, “May I be kind to myself.” You can also consider whether there is another specific phrase that would speak to you in that particular situation. Some examples: “May I give myself the compassion that I need,” “May I accept myself as I am,” “May I learn to accept myself as I am,” “May I forgive myself,” “May I be strong,” and “May I be patient.”
Today’s Happiness Break host:
Kristin Neff is the creator of this practice and a professor of psychology at The University of Texas, Austin. She is a pioneer in the study of self-compassion and the author of the book, Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive.
Order Dr. Neff’s book: https://tinyurl.com/yaubmy7v
Learn More About Dr. Neff’s work: https://self-compassion.org/
Find classes taught by Dr. Neff; https://tinyurl.com/4kf52x8c
Follow Dr. Neff on Twitter: https://twitter.com/self_compassion\
Follow Dr. Neff on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neffselfcompassion/
Find the full Self-Compassion Break practice at our Greater Good in Action website:
https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/self_compassion_break
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Take Our Self-Compassion Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/yysrf663
Try Dr. Neff’s Fierce Self-Compassion Break: https://tinyurl.com/yk9yzh9u\
How to Bring Self-Compassion to Work with You: https://tinyurl.com/45zkrkam
The Five Myths of Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/2p88vass\
Read Dr. Neff’s interview about Self-Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/286njtje
How Self-Compassion Can Help You Through a Breakup: https://tinyurl.com/222scejz
Can Self-Compassion Overcome Procrastination? https://tinyurl.com/mrfmvyj
Can Self-Compassion Help Trans Teens Thrive? https://tinyurl.com/4xs7nxre
Tell us about your experiences and struggles with self-compassion and this practice emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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6/2/2022 • 9 minutes, 10 seconds
Catch Yourself in a Dream
Have you ever known you're dreaming while you're asleep? Our guests try practices to help induce lucid dreams, and we hear what they can teach us about consciousness.
Episode summary:
How do you know you’re awake? Are you sure? Practicing lucid dreaming means taking a step back to question your very consciousness — throughout your day, and even when you’re asleep. It’s no wonder lucid dreaming is associated with mindfulness. In this episode, journalists Marylee Williams and Michaeleen Doucleff try a practice to induce lucid dreaming, and researcher Benjamin Baird explains what lucid dreaming is teaching scientists about consciousness, plus how it might benefit our well-being. Lucid dreaming appears to help foster creativity and can boost your mood when you wake up.
Try Lucid Dreaming
There are a few different ways to induce lucid dreams. All of them take time and practice. Find a brief summary below and more information at this link: https://tinyurl.com/2m86pw7p
(i) Reality Testing (RT), a technique that involves checking your environment several times a day to see whether or not you’re dreaming;
(iii) MILD, a technique that involves waking up after five hours of sleep and then developing the intention to remember that you are dreaming before returning to sleep, by repeating the phrase ‘The next time I’m dreaming, I will remember that I’m dreaming;’ you also imagine yourself in a lucid dream;
(iv) SSILD, a technique that involves waking up after five hours of sleep and then repeatedly focusing your attention on visual, auditory, and physical sensations for 20 seconds each before returning to sleep; this technique is similar to mindfulness meditation but involved repeatedly shifting your focus;
More Resources:
Lucid Dreaming FAQ by The Lucidity Institute: https://tinyurl.com/2m86pw7p
Lucid Dreaming at TEDx: https://tinyurl.com/ywkymhs2
Learn about the cognitive neuroscience of lucid dreaming from today’s expert Benjamin Baird: https://tinyurl.com/mr3anzer
More sleep resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Why Your Brain Needs to Dream: https://tinyurl.com/yc3makhp
The Influence of Dreams: https://tinyurl.com/p6cfh8n4
How Mindfulness Improves Sleep: https://tinyurl.com/39tk85m9
Your Sleep Tonight Changes How You React to Stress Tomorrow: https://tinyurl.com/2p8zvbjz
Dear Christine: Why Can’t I Sleep? https://tinyurl.com/yb88a5z6
Today’s guests:
Michaeleen Doucleff f is a science reporter for NPR and author of the book Hunt, Gather, Parent.
Check out her reporting: https://tinyurl.com/5de2kyt7
Read her book: https://michaeleendoucleff.com/
Follow Michaeleen on Twitter: https://twitter.com/FoodieScience
Mary Lee Williams is an editor and producer on a morning news show in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Check out her website: http://www.maryleewill.com/about
Follow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/marylee_will
Benjamin Baird is a Research Assistant Professor at The University of Texas at Austin, where he focuses on consciousness, including lucid dreaming.
Check out Dr. Baird’s website: https://www.benjaminbaird.org/
Tell us about your experiences and struggles with lucid dreams by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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5/26/2022 • 19 minutes, 56 seconds
Happiness Break: A 10-Minute Guided Practice, with Dacher Keltner
We guide you through a reflection of three things you're grateful for today. This practice is shown to boost happiness, connection, and motivation while reducing stress. Happiness Break is a new series by The Science of Happiness.
How to Do this Three Good Things practice:
Take a few deep breaths, and notice how you feel.
Think back on your day. Start from when you woke up, and mentally trace your steps forward in time.
What was the most beautiful, amazing, or interesting thing you saw all day? How did it make you feel? Take a moment to feel grateful for it. Think what had to happen so you could see that thing today, and let yourself appreciate those things.
Keep reflecting on your day. What’s the best sound you heard all day? How did it make you feel? Take a moment to feel grateful for that, and think about how you came to hear that thing today.
Look back over your day again: What’s the best thing that happened all day? It could be anything. Sit with your gratitude for that thing. What caused that thing to happen? Take a moment to appreciate all the factors that led to this good thing happening today.
Notice how you feel now.
Find the full Three Goods Things practice at our Greater Good in Action website: https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/three-good-things
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Take our Gratitude Quiz: https://tinyurl.com/yc3dc53c
Why Gratitude is Good: https://tinyurl.com/fr4r2xyw
Tips for Keeping a Gratitude Journal: https://tinyurl.com/6khs9k28
Can Gratitude Help You Live More Sustainably? https://tinyurl.com/bdfws2e5
Four Great Gratitude Strategies: https://tinyurl.com/2s4h6z3f
How Gratitude Helps Your Friendships Grow: https://tinyurl.com/yc55bvw8
Cultivate more gratitude for the people you love with the Mental Subtraction of Relationships practice https://tinyurl.com/mthra2jd
How Gratitude Can Help You Through Hard Times: https://tinyurl.com/m9jz5atd
Today’s host:
Dacher Keltner is the host of The Science of Happiness podcast and a co-instructor of UC Berkeley’s course by the same name. He’s also the founding director of The Greater Good Science Center and a professor of psychology at UC Berkeley.
Tell us about your experiences trying this version of the Three Good Things practice by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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5/19/2022 • 9 minutes, 49 seconds
The Science of a Good Night's Sleep
Do you struggle with sleep? This week Drew Ackerman of Sleep with Me podcast tries tips for a good night's sleep, and we explore why it's so important to our well-being.
Episode summary:
A good night’s sleep can be hard to come by, and beating yourself up over not sleeping enough will only make it worse. On this episode of The Science of Happiness, the host of Sleep With Me podcast Drew Ackerman joins us to try science-backed tips for finding your natural sleep rhythm. Drew, also known as “Dearest Scooter,” talks about his history with insomnia and sleep anxiety, sleep hygiene, and his philosophy on bringing more self-compassion into his approach to trying to fall asleep. Then we hear from sleep scientist Eti Ben Simon about how sleep affects your social life.
Practice:
Here are four tips to help you sleep from Dr. Eti Ben Simon.
Avoid alcohol and caffeine after 2 p.m. to unmask your true biological sleep needs.
Keep lights dim in the evening and limit access to LED lights after 9 p.m.
Go to sleep as soon as you feel tired (even if you're in the middle of something). This will help you figure out the earliest window it is physiologically possible for you to fall asleep.
Do not use an alarm clock to wake up.
Try a version of this practice with the sleep tips in this article by expert Eti Ben Simon:
https://tinyurl.com/2nesff8t
Today’s guests:
Drew Ackerman You might know Drew as his alias, “Dearest Scooter*,”* the host of Sleep with Me podcast. Drew struggles with bedtime worries and has a history of insomnia himself, but he’s great at helping others sleep. Sleep with Me is one of the most listened-to sleep podcasts. On each episode, “Scooter” lulls listeners off to dreamland with meandering bedtime stories intended to lose your interest.
Listen to Sleep With Me Podcast: https://pod.link/sleep-with-me
Follow Drew on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/2p8nrhnp
Follow Drew on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearestscooter/
Follow Drew on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Sleepwithmepodcast/
Eti Ben Simon is a sleep scientist and postdoctoral fellow at UC Berkeley, where she works at Matthew Walkers’ Center for Human Sleep Science.
Learn more about Eti and her work: https://www.sleepingeti.com/
Follow Eti on Twitter: https://twitter.com/etoosh
Follow Eti on Google Scholar: https://tinyurl.com/328aa5yr
Resources for A Good Night’s Sleep
Psychology Today - What’s Your Sleep Type? Two forces that dictate our sleep, by Eti Ben Simon: https://tinyurl.com/2nesff8t
Matthew Walker’s 11 Tips for Improving Sleep Quality: https://tinyurl.com/2kadu7va
TED - Sleeping with Science: https://tinyurl.com/23mmbdy3
Harvard Health - 8 Tips to Get a Good Night’s Sleep: https://tinyurl.com/2p8um9z7
BBC - Why Do We Sleep? https://tinyurl.com/2p8z9v2d
More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Four Surprising Ways to Get a Better Night’s Sleep: https://tinyurl.com/2p832bh5
How Mindfulness Improves Sleep: https://tinyurl.com/2p8rhkhj
Your Sleep Tonight Changes How You React to Stress Tomorrow: https://tinyurl.com/2p8zvbjz
Tell us about your experiences and struggles with falling asleep by emailing us at [email protected] or using the hashtag #happinesspod.
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5/12/2022 • 20 minutes, 53 seconds
BONUS: The Science of Happiness at Work
What would make you happier at work? Featuring some of our happiness guinea pigs, we share the latest insights and research on well-being and happiness in the workplace.
10/11/2018 • 57 minutes, 28 seconds
The Science of Happiness Trailer
What does it take to live a happier life? Learn research-tested strategies that you can put into practice today. Hosted by award-winning psychologist Dacher Keltner. Co-produced by PRX and UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center.