In this episode we dig into life after the wedding festivities. Listen to us discuss inlaws, family dynamics, excitements, preparation and all things we hope marriage will look like 🥳 We had so much fun recording this as we are all in interesting and different phases currently. Dating, Married, Engaged, Single; all status which bring lived experiences and stories🤗 Enjoy! #weddings #marriage #coupletherapy #nigerianweddings otherside25pod #TOSO25

One thing about being on the other side of 25 (other side of 30)is you’re going to be attending weddings 💒 💃🏾 This episode is all about bridal parties and wedding prep including those 'wonderful' vendors We had so much fun recording this one! Enjoy!

We’re rounding up our friendship series by dedicating an episode to answering some of the common friendship dilemmas that appear in our 30’s. Listen in as we share our tips, thoughts and considerations when it comes to tackling situations like…navigating friendship in the workplace (what do you do when your work bestie becomes your boss?), seeing your friends settle when you think they deserve better and managing money when your friends want to splash the cash and you want to keep it dry and in the bank. Let us know what you think!

We’re back with part 2 in our friendship series. Friendships hit differently in our 30’s, and maintaining healthy friendships can be hard, but the benefits are sooo worth it. Listen in as we discuss how communication, setting boundaries and managing expectations can keep our friendships healthy.

This month we're talking about 'friendship', specifically navigating friendships that feel like they are coming to an end. When it comes to friends it can be difficult to let them go and sometimes even harder to take a breath and work on building a healthy relationship back-up again.   Whether it's a friend letting you down, outgrowing a friendship journey, or a friendship just fizzling out; join us we talk about our own personal experiences when it comes to working on friendship changes, break-ups and healing from a friendship coming to an end. Follow us on Twitter and instagram: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag TOSO25pod to join the convo

We’re back with a new season!! Expect more deep conversations about life for us on the other side of 25 (well 30 now…) This week we’re catching up and discussing life after the panoramic and transitioning to the “new normal”. Listen in as we discuss our growth and what we’ve learnt along the way. It’s been a journey! Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

This week we’re in conversation about relationships and expectations, admitting social media can influence this. It’s interesting hearing our thoughts and personal experiences as Tayo, Deborah and Cris are in different relationship stages. We also draw on our friendships and the role social media plays. You just have to listen to this and join the conversation. Follow us Twitter: @otherside25pod Instagram: @otherside25pod Email: [email protected]

We are big fans of The Red Table talk by Jada Pinkett Smith and it was only necessary we discussed our thoughts on the latest episode featuring Will Smith. So this week we’re discussing all things about boundaries, blurred lines, marriages, romantic relationships and celebrity culture. This was a real spicy one as we all hold different views and it was interesting to challenge one another in our thoughts. Listen in to hear our opinions on the conversations we’ve all been having online and most importantly how and when to be accountable in our everyday personal lives. We would love to hear from you! Reach out to us below to join our conversation! #Relationships #Marriage #LoveGoals #CoupleGoals #Relationship #BlackLove #Entanglement #Love #OpenMarriage #blackwomen Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Follow us on Instagram: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

We are back with a new season!! Expect more deep conversations about life for us on the other side of 25! This week we’re catching up and discussing all that’s been happening from the year that truly feels like a movie. From Reminiscing on our old & fave episodes from season 1 to discussing watching Skin documentary on Netflix and what we are doing to cope, we know how important it is to do things that bring us joy, hope and peace during this difficult time. We hope you are all taking care of yourselves and taking it one day at a time! Listen in and join our conversation! #NHS #SkinDocumentary #Netflix #Bleaching #Skinbleaching #SkinWhitening #BlackIsBeautiful #colourism #blackwomen Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Follow us on Instagram: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

It's been a while (nearly a year actually), but we didn't want to stay quiet at at time when hearing each others voices is all part of the comfort and self-care we're championing as 'the other side of 25'. This week we’re catching up, and talking through the rollercoaster that's been 2020; from Corona Virus to Racism; there's no doubt that so far 2020 has been a difficult one for us all. We know the importance of having a safe space where we can be ourselves, talk, laugh, de-stress, off-load and talk out emotions ''unapologetically” and that's exactly what we did this episode. Listen in and join our conversation! #selfcare #blacklivesmatter #blackwomen #policebrutality Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Also special shoutout to @blackmindsmatter.uk and @MilkHoneyBees Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

Last week the childhood classic Lion King was re-released with the Disney live action treatment AND we were gifted with the “gift album” from Queen, Bey! SO we have A LOT to talk about. Was the Lion King remake a roaring success or are we giving it a scar side-eye. Has Bey gifted us with the African sound? Are we feelin’ the album and the message? With Beyhive in the house, and a few non-Beyhivers, you know we’re going to be laying down our opinions and going IN. Listen in and join the conversation Follow us Twitter: @otherside25pod Email: [email protected]

So according to the seasons our favourite time of the year is here...SUMMER ☀ . The days are longer, the sun tries a bit harder to come out, there’s a bit less rain ☔ and there’s a few more motives to go out and have fun. So this week we’re discussing our plans for summer.. think picnics in the park, rooftop parties and securing a summer bae, and whilst we’re in planning mode we’re revisiting our 2019 goals reflecting on some of the things we’ve already learnt and how we are challenging ourselves for the second half of the year. Get ready for some honest conversation! Follow us Twitter: @otherside25pod Email: [email protected]

This week we’re in conversation with the amazing Dr Annabel Sowemimo, a sexual & reproductive health doctor, a writer and also the founder of “Decolonising Contraception”, a movement sparking necessary conversation around the colonial history of contraception; empowering women of colour accessing contraception and other sexual health services 🙌🏿 So with all this knowledge on sexual health in the studio we didn’t hold back! No question too silly or answer too obvious we wanted to understand what “sexual health” really means, and dispell some of the misconceptions, confusion and overall misunderstandings when it comes to STI’s, sexual health and well-being. Listen in and join the conversation, there’s too many gems being dropped in this episode to miss out. Follow us Twitter: @otherside25pod Email: [email protected] And stay up to date with Dr Annabel Sowemimo Twitter:@sosowemimo Decolonising contraception Twitter: @decolonisingcontr

Okay so we’re in our feelings this week....reflecting on the emotional pain that is “heartbreak” 💔 You might be thinking “why re-live it all” but at some point heartbreak from a friendship, relationship or even a “situation-ship” has been something we’ve all experienced. There’s no text book or guidelines on how to deal with it; but there is always the other side. Join us as we talk about our personal experiences, both being the heartbroken and the heartbreaker. We’re sharing our stories on how we “got over it”, what helped and what really did not! For anyone going through a relationship heartbreak, we’ve got you! Enjoy! #heartbreak #situationships #healing Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

It’s been a couple of weeks ladies and gents but following a short break TOSOS25 is back like it never left (we know y’all missed us 😜) Listen in on some of the fun adventures we’ve been on recently as we unapologetically continue to live our best lives on and off social media. We discuss personal new ventures, holiday blues, lessons learnt, the 2k19 wedding that will not be happening, as well as recent trending topics from Bey’s homecoming 😍, our new royal baby and our thoughts on Ayesha Curry’s Red Table Talk confession! Tune in, join the discussion and don’t forget to share folks 😁

This week we’re talking sisterhood! So of course we had to ask our sisters to join us as special guests! And they didn’t hold back. Who’s the better cook? Who was our first crush, who annoyed our parents the most and what quality’s do we like (or not like) about one another! Being on The Other Side of 25 💁🏾‍♀ we’ve recognised the value and importance of sisterhood; and we’re here to celebrate it! Listen in and join the conversation! Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo!

This week the other side of 25 discuss their thoughts on religion and explore how its terminology is becoming increasingly complex to define and practice in today’s society. Does religion still hold the same influence? Does being religious unite or divide our society? Are we all religious in some way or form? Is culture and religion a problem?! Join in as we navigate through our experiences and continue to give you our candid opinion on this sensitive, controversial and yet essential topic. As you know, we’ll probably touch on some things you already think but will never say. Happy listening! Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo!

This week we’re joined by Natalie and Melissa; the founders of “Black Girls Book Club”. The book club for Black women, and in their own words ”giving other Black women a safe space where they can be themselves, wholly and unapologetically”! Soooo obviously we’re down for that and wanted to know more about the book club, how it came to life, and bring them into a very topical conversation on passion projects, entrepreneurship and 9 to 5s. Is the term “side hustle” problematic? Why are people so vocal about having one (we know the ones on social media), what’s wrong with working for someone else and why are so many “millennial's” switching up their careers and being more than their “job”? Listen in and join the conversation! #bgbc #entreprenurialspirit #Money #sidehustles #blackspaces #books #blackwomen Follow black girls book club on Twitter: @bg_bookclub Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

Valentines is coming! So this week we’re talking about L-O-V-E 💜 Are we expecting flowers and chocolate, are we boo’d up, is it a day for all your loved ones or is the day just a commercial fad 🙅🏾‍♀ We did our research and get into the origins of Valentines, getting to know the original Mr. Valentine himself, the man who started the whole tradition; leading us to reflect on traditions when it comes to relationships. Cohabiting? Taking Hubby’s surname? Keeping your own name. Signing a pre-nup. How traditional are we really when it comes to love? Listen in and join the conversation! Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

This week we’re talking politics...and one topic in particular...BREXIT. We’re casting our minds back to 23.06.16 and discussing that all important Brexit vote, the campaigns, the propaganda, the speculations and the outcome that divided Britain. We all know the way the vote went, but the repercussions not so much, so join us and our special guest Johnson Situ (Labour Councillor from the Peckham ward in South East London) as The Other Side of 25 jump into politics; no question too silly and no comment too wild, we’re here finding out more on the divorce that’s been absorbing UK politics. Listen in and join the conversation, it’s a good one! #Brexit #labour #TheresaMay #AuntyTheresa #dividedBritain #politics #propaganda Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

One thing all five of us have in common is growing up in a Nigerian household; so this week we’re looking back on the discipline, culture and all the fun stuff in-between that’s shaped us today! (Please expect a lot of laughter)! It’s also our first episode of 2019, so it wouldnt be complete if we weren’t discussing what we’re leaving behind in 2018🤔👀 Listen in and join the conversation, it’s a good one! Happy new year! Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo. Thanks for listening!

This week the Other Side of 25 explore dating and get real personal about some of their best and worst experiences. Has the dating scene changed for the better? Is there a challenge finding good platforms to meet new people? Is meeting and forming a real connection with someone a thing of the past? How long is a brother gon’ stick around before he disappears on you like Casper or dies on the line? Listen in on this candid, juicy and humorous conversation.. Our stories may be more similar to yours than you think!

This week we’re talking about cosmetic surgery, beauty and even faux beards! With Snapchat filters, Instagram filters, contouring kits and permanent cosmetic surgery being the most accessible it’s ever been, we’re discussing our thoughts on this constant culture of body and face editing, and sharing our thoughts, our pros, cons and reservations. Is there a plate of “double standards” being served when it comes to men and their appearance?💁🏾‍♀️ Are lace-front beards🧔 for men a step too far; or is it the same as a weave or a wig? Listen in and join the conversation! Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

It’s October! Which means it’s Black History Month in the UK, and in this episode we’re embracing the month and sharing our thoughts on challenging questions, such as: Who owns blackness? Can all black people tell all stories? When does black appreciation become black appropriation? What is the meaning of ‘diaspora wars’’? Are terms like black excellence or black girl magic problematic? And 31 years since it was launched in the UK, we’re sharing what black history month means to us. Listen in and join the conversation. #blackhistorymonth #heavyheavy #blackexcellence #blackgirlmagic #diasporawars #struggleolympics #blackidentity #heritage #blackbritish Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

In this weeks episode we’re literally talking about life on the other side of 25, think weddings, bridal parties, changing friendships and ‘adulting’ whilst single! We’re answering questions such as “do brides have unrealistic expectations for their bridal party?”, “why are weddings the new turn up?” and “are women, single because of unrealistic deal-breakers?” 🤷🏾♀ Join us as we share our experiences and answer these juicy questions. Believe us, we’re not holding back with our opinions this week. Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #TOSO25pod to join the convo.

This week we're talking about the rules of the new dating game and are joined for the first time by guests! Isaac from Only God Can Judge Me podcast (@onlygodcanjudgemepod) and JJ from the soon to be released Malespective podcast, are in the studio. Listen in as we talk about the rules of sliding into DM's, rejections, deal-breakers, dating tales, fails and lessons, double sided men and women being played!! Get comfortable and bring out the popcorn for this one, it's juicy! Follow us on twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #Otherside25pod to join the convo!

We’re back, and this week we’re talking “cancel culture”. What it is, what’s been trending as “cancelled”, and whether the cancel culture mindset is problematic. Join us as we discuss the brands, people, celebs and influencers who have been on the receiving end of this trend. #cancelled #cancelculture #socialmedia #blacktwitter #rolemodels #reactive #judgemental Follow us on Twitter: @Otherside25pod Use the hashtag #Otherside25pod to join the convo.

Welcome to episode 12, and this week we’re in “reflective” mode. We’re sharing our varied experiences when it comes to volunteering for charities, schemes abroad, volunteer work placements and our opinions on “voluntourism”. Join us as we discuss whether our intentions matched our output, what we learnt and most importantly whether we made a positive difference. it’s a good one!

This week we're discussing the much needed topic of "self care". Are you practicing self care? What are the things you're deliberately doing to keep your well-being in check? Listen in as we break down what self care means to us and have an open conversation on the things we're doing....should be doing....and want to be doing to take care of our mental, emotional, and physical health.

It's episode 10, and we're dedicating the whole episode to listeners questions we've received from our last 9 episodes. Join us as we revisit some of our favourite topics such as relationships, labels and feminism. In our typical style we’re reflecting on our own experience and tackling some juicy questions around: Diversity and inclusivity, managing money with your partner, paying etiquette on the first date, and cultural appropriation Listen in, it's a fun one!

Friends, who needs them? We’ve all heard about the drama, fallouts, breaks and the term fake friends + no new friends. Is the concept of friendships overrated? Are we accountable/responsible for our friends actions and love languages? How far is too far when it comes to friends? Join us in this week’s episode as we share our experiences on toxic friendships, expectations and male friendships.

Rounding up the month of May and we are discussing the effects Meghan Markle, Kayne's out burst and Childish Gambino's 'This is America' music video has had. Do they speak for our community and should we consider them role models? Join us, as we reflect on this!

Where are you from (I mean really from)? This week we’re kicking off with THAT question....join us as we discuss, unpack, challenge and explore the topic of identity and race. As usual, we draw from our personal experiences and we also tap into conversation about the UK Windrush scandal and colourism in the black community.

It’s been a while since our last episode, and this week, we jump right in! We start off with the Kardashians, but stick with us as we start to unravel the pros and cons of social media, and expose some of the topics, issues and behaviours that are impacting society today. Think influencers, peer pressure ,news reporting, young people and more. We touch on a spectrum of topics all falling under the umbrella of ‘social media’, but this is just a taster! Listen in and join the conversation as a part two is definitely in the works.

In this episode we are discussing romantic and platonic relationships with the opposite sex. Do you have a MCM/MCE?! Do we need to have boundaries in relationships and if yes how should we communicate these with our partners? Do all men cheat? Should we all settle since no one is perfect? We answer these questions whilst unravelling representations on social media and how these “ideals” sometimes shape and can often influence how people perceive you. We share those conversations African parents don’t hesitate to have with us as women once we hit 25... or even 21! Listen in and get a taste of The Other Side of 25's views and experiences on this fun topic!

It's the month of March, and we're out here celebrating International Women's day and our Mothers on Mothering Sunday. We're discussing the societal expectations of women, exchanging our views on feminism and dispelling those all too familiar female stereotypes. As always we draw from our early experiences to present day, listen in and get a taste of our views and experiences on this topical conversation.

With Marvel's Black Panther fresh in our minds, we're going IN this week. Listen in and join the conversation as we draw from our experiences and explore what seeing Wakanda on the big screen means to us. ⚠(warning)Please be ready for spoilers when you hit play!

This week we’re talking hair struggles, love and body image. Join us, as we reflect on society, media, childhood and candidly discuss the experiences that have shaped us!

It’s 2018, and we’re here with our first episode of ‘The Other Side of 25’! This week we’re discussing the things we’re leaving behind in 2017, the labels and stereotypes we’ve encountered and more!