Click here to get the details for The 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge   If you’re feeling exhausted by the idea of starting over, navigating the dating pool, or investing in relationships only to face uncertainty or pain, you’re not alone. In this episode, we explore how romantic setbacks can leave you questioning whether it’s worth it and offer practical insights on how to stay open to love without compromising your healing or peace of mind. Join me as we discuss strategies for overcoming emotional exhaustion, setting new relationship standards, and reigniting joy and vitality within yourself, regardless of relationship outcomes.

In this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive deep into the journey of healing after heartbreak. Whether you’re reeling from a recent breakup or still processing old wounds, this conversation offers insight into how to move through the pain and emerge even stronger. Shane Kohler explores the emotional process of letting go, the hidden growth opportunities within heartbreak, and the essential steps to build a more secure, empowered sense of self. You’ll learn how heartbreak can become a catalyst for profound personal transformation—pushing you to cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, security, and resilience. Shane also shares strategies to stop seeking external validation, so you can create space for authentic love to enter your life. Tune in for a heart-centered, compassionate dialogue designed to help you heal, grow, and step into the next chapter with confidence. If you’re ready to turn your pain into power, this episode is for you.

Click here to learn more about my 8-Week Inspired Love Program beginning on October 15th.    In this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, we’re diving deep into a topic that touches so many women on a personal level—healing the wounds created by the unhealthy masculine. Throughout history and personal experience, women have often been left carrying emotional scars from unhealthy masculine energy, whether it stems from family, romantic relationships, or societal conditioning. While there are countless good men out there, these unhealed wounds can keep you stuck in patterns of mistrust, fear, or disconnection, making it hard to recognize and be open to healthy male energy when you encounter it. But healing is possible. Join me as I guide you through a step-by-step exploration of how to begin healing these wounds. We’ll discuss how past experiences with unhealthy masculinity affect your current relationships, and I’ll share tools and insights on how to reclaim your sense of safety, trust, and worth. This is about stepping into a place of empowerment, where you’re able to recognize and attract the kind of love you truly deserve. Don’t miss this essential conversation—tune in and start your journey toward healing, wholeness, and conscious love.

Learn more about my Inspired Love 8 Week Process, beginning October 15th here.   In this episode we explore the attributes that define a woman who is deeply attuned to her personal growth, emotional intelligence, and authentic self-expression. Drawing from universal spiritual principles and  practical experience, we outline the key characteristics that enable a woman to cultivate meaningful connections and embody true love. From self-awareness and vulnerability to emotional resilience and compassion, we discuss how these traits not only enhance her relationship with others but also deepen her relationship with herself. Whether you’re single and seeking love or in a committed relationship, this episode serves as an empowering guide for women who want to elevate their consciousness and foster deeper, more fulfilling partnerships and men who are seeking a conscious partner. 

Click here to register for The Conscious Love Challenge beginning on October 2nd   Click here to join my 8-Week Inspired Love Intensive beginning October 15th    Let's dive deep into the essential qualities that define a conscious man. In this episode, we explore the attributes that empower men to build authentic connections, embrace vulnerability, and foster healthy relationships.  We're clearly defining the qualities that not only enhance personal growth but also contribute to more fulfilling partnerships. Whether you’re a man looking to bring forth your highest self or a woman seeking a conscious partner, this episode is packed with insights to inspire deeper connection and growth. Join in on this riveting discussion about what it means to truly embody conscious masculinity!

Click here to learn more about the 8-Week Inspired Love Program starting on October 15th.   In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional wounds that shape our need to be chosen in relationships. Whether it’s from childhood abandonment, rejection, or feeling unworthy, many of us carry unresolved pain that drives us to seek validation through being selected by a partner. This unconscious desire to be chosen often leads to unhealthy dynamics, where we sacrifice our needs or stay in unfulfilling relationships out of fear of rejection or being alone. We’ll explore how these early wounds, often tied to mother or father wounds, create a cycle of approval-seeking behavior. Instead of choosing relationships based on mutual respect, growth, and shared values, we end up prioritizing external validation. This need to be chosen reinforces the idea that love is something earned, rather than something we consciously choose and co-create. Through healing these core wounds and embracing self-worth, we can begin to reclaim our power in relationships. We’ll discuss how developing self-awareness and practicing self-love allows us to let go of the need for external approval and make intentional, conscious choices in love. By choosing from a place of wholeness and authenticity, we can attract healthier, more balanced relationships that nurture personal growth and connection.

Click here to learn more about my Inspired Love 8 Week Program beginning on October 15th   Most women say they want to experience a strong masculine presence from their man and most men say they want to experience the warm, gentle feminine presence from their woman, yet we struggle so much to receive this from each other.  In dating, many women feel that it's almost impossible to have men step up and bring the strength and security they seek from the masculine while men feel that women are too protective and guarded, limiting the warmth of the feminine. In our long term relationships this dynamic becomes even worse.  We get caught up in the doingness of life, the sexual polarity between us dies and resentment builds as we feel our deepest relational needs are not being met.  However, by simply understanding the core needs of the masculine and feminine and knowing how to meet them, we can inspired this presence from our partners and the people we date. Men become more masculine when their core masculine needs are being met and the same is true for women.  It's simply when this part of ourselves is not protected and validated that we lose touch with it and as we learn to do that for others, we invite them to do the same for us.           

Most of us want more from our lives and relationships.  We want to experience more magic, passion, and vitality.   And while we are craving for more, we are often living in a state of mind and body that feels jaded, heavy, disconnected and alone. The pain that we've experienced in the past paints a bleak picture of the future and while, on some level, we hope to have a life that reflects our dreams one day, filled with passionate love and deep connection, that vision often feels far away and we struggle to believe in it. Yet miracles are possible and everything can change in an instant but first, we must create the space in our lives to allow them in.  This episode tells you exactly how to do that.  Enjoy :) 

This episode invites you to explore the profound difference between love that is authentically expressed and the fear-based behaviors that often masquerade as love in relationships. We dive deep into what genuine love looks like—how it nurtures, heals, and strengthens the bonds between partners. Conversely, we examine the manipulative tactics and survival strategies that arise from fear and insecurity, leading to power struggles and disconnection. This episode is a journey toward understanding how to cultivate relationships based on true connection, trust, and mutual respect, moving beyond the patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of emotional turmoil. Tune in to discover how to transform your relationships by embracing the true nature of love. And thanks for listening. 

Click here to join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge Click here to apply for Private Coaching with Shane   If you've experienced patterns of unfulfilling love in your life, this episode will offer you some important insight.  When we are looking for love, we are often tuning into subtle cues that reflect our past pain.  Believe it or not, this is often what generates our attraction to people. Sometimes, we are not seeking fulfilling love but rather we are seeking someone with whom we can play out these past patterns, someone who will create in us the familiar feelings of loss or longing that we've known throughout our lives.  Unconsciously, we associate these feelings with love and when we meet someone who doesn't create these feelings in us, the resulting experience is a lack of attraction or interest. In this episode, I'm explaining the subconscious dynamics of how this operates and sharing practical steps you can take to heal this. Thanks for listening, lots of love, Shane 

Click here to join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge for FREE!    If you've been feeling like there aren't a lot of commitment-ready men out there, I hear you. Men crave connection and they want commitment just as much as women do but they have a very different process of getting there.  While women have often been encouraged to seek relationship and commitment from a very young age, men have often been encouraged to do the exact opposite and when they've expressed their sensitivity and need for love it's often been regarded as weakness and met with ridicule. Still, the raw need for connection lives within every man and when a woman can create a safe space for him to express this vulnerable need, he will often fall in love and commit to her for life. In this episode, I'm sharing how to do that. I hope you enjoy it, and thanks for listening.       

Understanding polarity is a profound conversation that gives us insight into attraction, sexuality, intimacy, and how relationships can develop in healthy ways and also toxic ways. The polarity of masculine and feminine energy is at the core of how we relate with each other, it drives our attractions, it informs our highest actions and also our lowest impulses.  I hope you enjoy this episode and that it helps you understand how to attract the ideal partnership you're seeking, deepen the intimacy in your existing relationship, and foster the highest good for all your relationships.  

Click here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love   Feminine power is an uncomfortable thing in our world.  Women are afraid to use it because of the intense backlash they get when they do and men are afraid to experience it because it shines a light on their unconscious insecurities.  Yet, conscious love can only be experienced in a relationship where the feminine power is expressed and honored by both partners.  This means there is healing that needs to happen for both men and women.    This episode will reveal the journey to healing for all people and show women how to embody more of their feminine power and men to heal in the presence of it. 

Click here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love   Connection is a fundamental human need and we are in a crisis of it!  Most of us struggle to feel deeply connected and most of our relationships are surface level and don't meet our deepest needs.  In dating, we struggle to bridge the gap and feel genuinely connected to the people we date and many of us in long term relationships feel completely disconnected from our partners.  We struggle to feel seen, heard, understood and truly known by the people we love most, by the people we need to be most connected to. This episode will give you clear guidance on how to bridge the gap and make deeper connections in the dating world and beyond.

Join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge here!    Book your free discovery call for Inspired Love here.   Struggling with anxious attachment?  We've got you covered.     I had the pleasure of interviewing the amazing Laura Bifolchi as she shares her journey of healing anxious attachment and attracting secure love with a wonderful man who is all in!    From a life of compromising boundaries, people pleasing, and worrying about being chosen by someone, to maintaining high standards, clear communication, firm boundaries and calling forth secure love from a man who completely chooses her, Laura's story is truly incredible.   She is a real example of what happens when we develop a secure attachment style and start honoring our worth in relationships.  I hope you are as touched by her story as I was.    Happy listening! 

Book Your Discovery Call for Inspired Love here.   What is a conscious relationship and what makes it different from any other relationship?   Today is Fatima and I's four year wedding anniversary, going on 8 years together, and we've learned a lot about this topic through our various adventures and challenges!  In this episode, I'm sharing our story of creating and sustaining the conscious love we have today.  The good, the bad and the ugly!  Whether you are single or in a relationship, your journey to conscious love starts right now!  There is never a time when you are not creating it and this episode is going to give you the clearest representation of that journey that I've ever recorded. I had a lot of fun putting this one together and I hope you can share some laughs and some feels as you hear the story. Much Love <3  Shane 

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love    Most of us don't realize how much power we actually have to move a relationship in the direction we want it to go!    When a relationship isn't meeting our needs, many of us are likely to play manipulative games, withhold love, fawn and pander, some of us even going so far as to lie, cheat, or end the relationship altogether simply because we don't know how to communicate in a way that will motivate our partner to step up for us.    Whether you're getting to know someone new or with your partner of many years, if you're not practicing clear, direct, and powerful communication with them, you're inviting resentment, disconnection, and a lack of intimacy to grow between you.    By using simple communication tools we can open up a new world of connection in the relationships that mean the most to us or the new relationships we're building and in this episode, I'm sharing how to approach these conversations in a way that leads to the results we all crave from our love lives.   This is a powerful conversation about creating true depth and intimacy with those we love or those we hope to love in the near future.  Enjoy :)   

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love    Do you want the man you're dating to plan better dates and show more initiative to move the relationship forward?  Would you like men on dating apps to take action and ask you out or follow up more often?  Would you like to get approached more in the real world, make connections at the gym or at your favorite coffee shop?    If you're looking for a simple way to motivate men to take action with you, this episode has the answer.    Whether you’re wanting more urgency for people to get off the apps and meet in person, you want to get approached more ”in the wild” or you want the person you’re with to be more invested in planning and executing exciting things for you to do together, this episode is sharing all the secrets to what makes a man take action and have him be excited about doing so.

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love  What makes the difference between good sex and Great sex?  This episode is all about that.  I've found, in my many years doing relationship and intimacy work, that most people, both single and in long term relationships are missing out on so much in their sex lives.  Single people often feel disillusioned by their sexual experiences, feeling they are short lived and many times not even that good to begin with while married couples often experience a dwindling of their sex lives the longer they are together, ranging from non-existent, to boring and unfulfilling.  In this episode, I'm sharing the secrets to a deeply fulfilling sex life that fulfills your deepest fantasies and meets your most heartfelt emotional needs.  I hope you enjoy it and thanks for listening!  

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love    Every so often I like to include a magical story of transformation and conscious love on the show, this is one of those episodes.   In this week's episode, I interview Stephanie Menezes, a friend and graduate of The Inspired Love Program as she shares her journey to the conscious partnership she's created with her incredible man, Patrick.     Speaking into all of the ups and downs along the way, she highlights important lessons she learned, steps she took, and changes she made in her life to prepare for and attract the conscious love she's always wanted.  She shares about how the program influenced her journey and everything she needed to bring herself into alignment and have the love she now enjoys today.    I hope you enjoy her heartwarming story as much as I enjoyed the interview and if you're looking for some insight that you can apply in your own life, I think you'll find it here.  

Book your free intro call for The Inspired Love Program here.   Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App   Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here.     So many of us feel stuck in a perpetual cycle of casual relationships, temporarily getting excited when something real seems to show up only to be let down when we realize it's yet another short term thing that wasn't built to last.  Others of us have gone so long without being excited about anything that we doubt the reality that we could ever find what we're looking for.   If you feel stuck, exhausted, defeated or hopeless and feel that the occasional casual fling is the most you can expect, this episode is for you. I'm breaking down the journey to long term love and showing you how to bridge the gap in ways you may not have considered, so you can get back you passion and inspiration and feel that you are truly on your way to the love you've always wanted.  

Book your free intro call for The Inspired Love Program here.   Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App   Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here.  Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order.      Trying to find out someone's true feelings for you can be one of the most frustrating and anxiety inducing experiences you'll ever go through.  And I know men can often be particularly mysterious in terms of sharing how they feel.    But it doesn't have to be so hard!    With just a little courage and creativity, you can actually get really clear answers to all of your questions in a very short amount of time and in this episode, I'm sharing exactly how to do that.   I'm walking you through the exact questions and conversations you need to have within the first few dates together that will give you clarity on where you stand, what real potential there is, and how to move forward.   If you're wondering, "Is it time to walk?"  This episode has the answer!   Enjoy! 

Book your free intro call for The Inspired Love Program here.   Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App   Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here.  Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order.      Love addiction is extremely common and pervasive.    While addictions like drugs or alcohol are often clearly seen as destructive and people are encouraged to quit or not engage in the first place, the same cannot be said for love addiction.  We are often encouraged to fuel our love addiction and societal pressure from friends and family can often exacerbate the issue.   Furthermore, because of how common it is and it's perceived normalcy, there's virtually no help in diagnosing it and very little support available for those who suffer from it.    Despite that, millions of us have such a destructive relationship with love and dating that it literally ruins our lives and at a minimum, it steals our peace and stresses us out while limiting the true connections we're able to make.   In this episode, Shane breaks down the phenomenon of love addiction in exquisite detail while showing you how to diagnose yourself and giving you practical steps to heal if you feel this is you.   

Book your intro call for The Inspired Love Program here.   Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App   Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here.  Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order.    In this captivating episode of the Conscious Love Show, Shane Kohler shines a spotlight on the six pervasive lies that have ensnared our understanding of love.   With warmth and insight, he navigates through the misconceptions that often lead us astray in our pursuit of meaningful connections. One by one, Shane tackles the common myths that sabotage our love lives, fearlessly dismantling these illusions, inviting listeners to challenge their deeply ingrained beliefs about love.   Through intimate conversations and empowering revelations, Shane offers a roadmap for liberation from these cultural shackles, empowering us to embrace love in its truest, most authentic form. 

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Click here to take your Conscious Relationship Readiness Quiz!   Delving into the complexities of love and attachment, Shane unpacks the underlying motivations behind the tendency to rush into relationships and offers practical strategies for cultivating mindful, intentional connections. In this episode, Shane explores the deep-seated fears and desires that drive us to seek validation and security in romantic partnerships. From the fear of loneliness to the longing for companionship, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the emotional dynamics at play in the rush to love. But beyond mere analysis, Shane also offers empowering tools and practices to help listeners break free from the cycle of rushing into relationships. By cultivating self-awareness, practicing self-love, and embracing the journey of self-discovery, Shane guides us toward a more conscious approach to love and dating. Whether you're navigating the complexities of dating or seeking to break free from patterns of rushing into relationships, this episode provides invaluable guidance and inspiration to support your journey toward more mindful, fulfilling connections.

To work with Shane, Apply Here.   To activate your free trial of the Aura App, click here.   Delving into the intricate world of hormones and neurochemistry, Shane unveils the fascinating factors that influence how men bond with women, shedding light on the mysteries of post-sex behavior. Through captivating discussions and insightful revelations, Shane explores the hormonal blueprint that governs male attraction and connection. From the role of oxytocin, the "bonding hormone," to the impact of vasopressin, dopamine and testosterone, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how these chemicals shape men's emotional responses and desire for intimacy. But beyond the science, Shane also delves into the emotional and psychological aspects that contribute to lasting connection. By examining the importance of communication, emotional vulnerability, and shared experiences, he offers practical insights on how to create a fulfilling and enduring bond with a partner. Whether you're navigating the complexities of dating, seeking to understand male behavior, or looking to enhance intimacy in your relationship, this episode provides invaluable guidance to empower both men and women to cultivate meaningful connections based on mutual understanding and respect.

To work with Shane, apply here.   Click here to register for the Attachment Workshop   Here is the link to the article mentioned in the episode: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-defines-beautiful-according-to-psychologists-5180378   Delving deep into the realms of human connection and attraction, Shane demystifies the complex interplay of biology, psychology, and personal preference that shape our perceptions of physical allure. Through engaging discussions and insightful revelations, Shane sheds light on the evolutionary roots of physical attraction and its role in forming initial connections. From the influence of hormones to the power of symmetry and facial features, listeners will gain a newfound understanding of the science behind what draws us to others. But beyond the surface level, Shane also delves into the deeper significance of physical attraction in the context of conscious love and meaningful relationships. Exploring how our perceptions of beauty are influenced by cultural norms and personal experiences, Shane offers a fresh perspective on how to navigate the complexities of attraction with mindfulness and authenticity. Whether you're curious about the science behind physical attraction or seeking insights to enhance your own relationships, this episode promises to illuminate the mysteries of love and attraction in a way that resonates deeply with the heart and mind.

Click here to apply for Inspired Love   Register for Attachment Workshop here.   In a world where vulnerability is often perceived as weakness, Shane invites listeners to embrace their insecure feelings with compassion and courage, transforming them into catalysts for growth and deeper connection. Through heartfelt storytelling and insightful teachings, Shane shares practical strategies and empowering insights on how to navigate feelings of insecurity with grace and resilience. From cultivating self-awareness and practicing self-love to fostering open communication and trust in relationships, Shane offers invaluable guidance on how to transform insecurity into an opportunity for personal and relational growth. Whether you're navigating the uncertainties of dating, struggling with self-doubt in a relationship, or seeking to deepen your connection with yourself and others, this episode provides the inspiration and tools you need to navigate the complexities of insecurity with wisdom and compassion.

To apply for Inspired Love, click here.    In this week's episode, Shane shares practical strategies and empowering insights on how to tap into the innate wisdom of your sexuality, reclaiming it as a sacred aspect of your being. Discover how cultivating a deeper connection with your sensuality can unlock a newfound sense of vitality, creativity, and self-expression. From exploring the importance of self-love and body acceptance to learning how to navigate intimacy and pleasure with authenticity and confidence, Shane offers invaluable guidance on how to liberate your sexuality from societal constraints and embrace it as a potent force for personal growth and empowerment. Whether you're seeking to deepen your connection with yourself, enhance intimacy in your relationships, or simply embrace a more vibrant and fully expressed life, this episode provides the inspiration and tools you need to embark on a journey of sexual awakening and self-discovery.

Follow Sarah on Instagram: @sarahbcoaching Learn more at www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com   In this illuminating episode as we delve into the profound realms of inner healing, nervous system regulation, and parts work with the insightful Sarah Baldwin. In this transformative conversation, Sarah shares her wisdom and expertise on how understanding our nervous system can lead to deep healing and transformation. Through compassionate discussions and practical insights, Sarah guides listeners on a journey of self-discovery, exploring the intricate connections between our nervous system responses, inner child wounds, and fragmented parts of ourselves. Discover how to cultivate awareness and compassion for the different aspects of your being, fostering integration and wholeness from within. From exploring the impact of early childhood experiences to learning practical techniques for nervous system regulation, Sarah offers invaluable guidance on how to navigate the inner landscape with grace and resilience. Join us as we uncover the transformative power of parts work and inner child healing in the journey toward conscious love and self-compassion.

Join the March 20th Polarity Workshop here     Join Shane Kohler on The Conscious Love Show for an empowering exploration into nurturing the best from men without slipping into the role of a mother. In this enlightening episode, Shane shares profound insights and practical strategies for fostering masculine growth, partnership, and harmony in relationships without compromising individual agency or authenticity. Drawing from his extensive experience as a relationship coach and spiritual guide, Shane dives deep into the dynamics of masculine energy, exploring the delicate balance between support and autonomy. Through heartfelt discussions and transformative teachings, he reveals the keys to nurturing men to reach their highest potential while honoring their innate strength and sovereignty. Whether you're seeking to deepen your connection with a male partner, enhance your communication skills, or simply understand the dynamics of masculine growth, this episode provides profound insights and practical tools to support your journey toward conscious love and partnership.

Apply for the Inspired Love Program:  Click Here   Polarity Workshop, click here to register.   In this deeply introspective exploration, Shane invites listeners to embrace the profound wisdom that arises from our wounds and challenges. Drawing from his own journey and spiritual teachings, Shane delves into the transformative power of embracing our wounds as gateways to deeper understanding, compassion, and growth. Through heartfelt storytelling and insightful reflections, he illuminates the path toward healing and wholeness, reminding us that our wounds are not flaws to be hidden but sacred openings for light to enter. Whether you're navigating personal challenges, seeking to heal past traumas, or simply exploring the depths of your own heart, this episode offers invaluable guidance and inspiration to support you on your path toward greater love, wholeness, and fulfillment. Tune in to The Conscious Love Show as Shane Kohler guides us on a journey of healing, transformation, and the profound realization that our wounds are not limitations but sacred portals to the light within.

Apply for Inspired Love here This week's episode is a thought-provoking exploration into the complexities of human instincts and their influence on our experiences in love and relationships. In this eye-opening episode, we unravel the intricacies of why our instincts can sometimes lead us astray in matters of the heart. In this episode, Shane deep dives into the roots of our instincts and how they often clash with the modern complexities of love and romance. From the allure of instant attraction to the pitfalls of toxic patterns, we examine how understanding and questioning our instincts can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Discover the importance of mindfulness, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence in navigating the complexities of modern love. Thanks for joining us and wishing you the greatest love <3 

To apply for Inspired Love, click here. This week, we explore the delicate art of relationship pacing, a vital element in building authentic attraction, profound connection, and lasting depth in romantic relationships. In this enlightening episode, we unravel the intricacies of pacing and its profound impact on the dynamics of love and intimacy. Shane shares insights and practical wisdom on how to navigate the journey of love with intentionality and grace. From setting boundaries to honoring individual needs and desires, we delve into the transformative power of pacing as a catalyst for cultivating trust, intimacy, and emotional resonance. As your relationship evolves, this episode offers invaluable guidance on how to navigate the ebbs and flows of love with authenticity and intention. Tune in to The Conscious Love Show and embark on a journey of conscious connection, profound attraction, and the transformative power of relationship pacing!

To apply for Inspired Love, click here.   In this illuminating episode, we uncover the secrets to cultivating abundance in all its forms and nurturing profound connections that resonate with the essence of our being. Through heartfelt discussions and inspiring anecdotes, we delve into the interconnectedness of love and abundance, exploring how fostering a sense of abundance within ourselves can ripple outward, enriching our relationships and experiences. Join us as we delve into the transformative power of abundance rituals, manifestation techniques, and self-love practices that empower us to embrace abundance as our birthright. Whether you're seeking to attract abundance in your career, relationships, or personal growth journey, this episode offers a roadmap to unlock the infinite possibilities of love and abundance. Thanks for listening and we're wishing you immense love and abundance in all aspects of your life! 

Apply for Inspired Love: Click Here   In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we explore the transformative power of acceptance. Join us as we unravel the intricacies of completing past cycles to pave the way for freedom and love in our lives. In today's episode, Shane guides us through a profound journey of acceptance, offering invaluable insights and practical strategies to embrace closure and release the burdens of the past. Through heartfelt conversations and personal anecdotes, he reveals the importance of acknowledging our past experiences, embracing them with compassion, and allowing ourselves to heal. Discover the liberating effects of acceptance as we break free from the shackles of resentment, guilt, and regret. From forgiveness rituals to self-reflection practices, we explore various tools and techniques to facilitate the process of acceptance and create space for love to flourish. Whether you're navigating past traumas, relationship conflicts, or simply seeking inner peace, this episode offers guidance to help you embark on a journey towards wholeness and fulfillment. Tune in to The Conscious Love Show and embark on a transformative odyssey of acceptance, closure, and the boundless possibilities of love!

Click here to register for Breath of Love on February 13th!    Hey friends, in this special episode, I have my wife on the show for the very first time where we share our story and she shares the intimate details of her journey and everything she went through to create the love we have today.  I really enjoyed this intimate and vulnerable conversation with my love and I know you will too.  Packed with deep insights, humor, lessons, and heartfelt moments, this is an episode you don't want to miss! 

Click here to register for the Breath of Love event!   In this week's episode we explore choosing the right partner, not in a way that applies to everyone, but in a way that applies to you personally.  This episode is a deep dive into exploring your own values, needs, and desires, in a relationship.  What are the things that are truly non-negotiable for you?  And what can you be flexible about?  The answers might surprise you!   Also, don't forget to register for our special Valentine's event Breath of Love!  Space is limited so register now at the link above <3  

In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we do a deep dive on how to choose the right partner.  Shane does a detailed exploration of how to identify true compatibility with someone, covering important red and green flags that reveal the character of a person. In this Part 1 of a 2 part episode, we focus more on the universal aspects of compatibility that apply to everyone.  In part two we'll look at compatibility in more of an individual sense and how to choose the partner that's right for you specifically. 

In this transformative episode of The Conscious Love Show, we delve deep into the profound realms of cultivating self-love and breaking free from self-destructive patterns that may hinder our personal growth. today, Shane shares invaluable insights on the importance of self-love as the foundation for building meaningful connections with others. Discover practical tips and empowering techniques to nurture a positive relationship with yourself and banish self-sabotaging behaviors. Through heartfelt conversations and personal stories, we explore the roots of self-destructive patterns, understanding their origins, and unlocking the keys to healing. Gain a fresh perspective on self-love as a dynamic force that empowers us to embrace our authentic selves. Whether you're on a quest for personal transformation or seeking ways to enhance your existing self-love practices, this episode provides a wealth of wisdom to guide you on your journey. Tune in, open your heart, and let the healing begin on The Conscious Love Show!

FREE TRIAL through Jan 12th!  Click Here:  InspiredLoveProgram.com   In this week's episode, join Shane as he explores the roots of attachment wounds and how they shape our emotional landscapes. Discover insightful strategies and therapeutic approaches to heal these wounds, fostering a path towards healthier connections and self-discovery. But that's not all – we also navigate the complex terrain of dealing with the wounds of others, especially in our romantic relationships, understanding and supporting those we care about through their healing process is a crucial aspect of fostering genuine connection and lasting love.  Through candid conversation and real-life stories, this episode provides a compass for listeners to navigate the often tumultuous waters of attachment wounds and gain valuable insights into fostering empathy, communication, and resilience as we collectively strive for healing and growth.

Start you free trial for The Inspired Love Program here:  http://inspiredloveprogram.com   Welcome to 2024!  In this first episode of the new year, join Shane as he explores the profound connection between living a fulfilling life and experiencing deep, conscious love. As we step into the new year, gain expert insights and practical tips to help you ignite passion in every aspect of your existence and attract the deep passionate love you've been seeking. Discover how to cultivate a mindset that sparks joy, meaningful connections, and a love for life that radiates throughout the year and makes you wildly attractive to the people you meet. It's time to elevate your consciousness and embrace a love-filled 2024!

Happy Holidays and so much love as we enter this New Year.  Thank you for being part of this community!  Your presence here is immensely appreciated, we are only here because of you.  Thank you for listening this year and we're looking forward to an exciting 2024!  Much love and many blessings <3  Shane 

Click Here to Get Started with Inspired Love   In this heartfelt episode of The Conscious Love Show, we usher in the holiday season with a special focus on the power of gratitude and intention. Join us as we explore a mindful approach to spending the holidays solo, steering away from the societal pressure to lament the absence of a partner. Instead, we invite you to embrace the present moment with gratitude for what you have, and to set clear intentions for the love you wish to cultivate in the upcoming year. Discover empowering practices that will shift your mindset, allowing you to celebrate your own company and find joy in the holiday season, regardless of relationship status. Whether you're navigating the holidays independently by choice or circumstance, this episode offers insights and practical tips to foster self-love, gratitude, and a conscious anticipation for the love that lies ahead in the new year. Tune in for a dose of inspiration that will empower you to enter the next chapter of your love journey with clarity and intention.

Click here to get started with Inspired Love   Im super excited to Introduce you to Rommy Wehle!  In this profound episode of The Conscious Love Show, I interview a dear friend and graduate of The Inspired Love Program as she shares the deep, real, and vulnerable story of how she went from being a twice divorced, single mom of four kids to creating amazing love both inside and out. Her story is profound and inspiring.  I hope you enjoy!   

Click here to get started with Inspired Love   Welcome! In this week's episode, we delve deep into the art of finding joy and fulfillment in the single life.  Join us as we uncover the three essential secrets to creating happiness while single and expose the four false idols we chase that lead to unnecessary unhappiness.

In this empowering installment, join Shane as we explore the transformative journey of discovering How to Become Attracted to Healthy, Secure, and Consistent Men After a Dramatic Dating History. Whether you've experienced heartbreak, inconsistency, or uncertainty in your romantic past, this episode is your guide to breaking old patterns and fostering a deep, conscious connection with partners who embody stability and emotional security. Tune in for expert advice, personal anecdotes, and actionable tips that will empower you to redefine your relationship choices and cultivate a love that is not only passionate but also grounded in health and security. Don't miss this essential episode on conscious love and the path to a fulfilling, lasting connection!

Grab your FREE TICKET to the Healthy Love Show here!   I am thrilled to extend a heartfelt invitation to The Healthy Love Show: How to Get Ready Emotionally, Physically, & Spiritually for Juicy, Connected Love, where I'll be joining a panel of over 30 esteemed experts for an enriching journey toward fostering deeper, more fulfilling relationships. Throughout the 5-day summit, you'll gain exclusive access to renowned experts in the field, including distinguished names like Ken Page and Alison Armstrong. These experts will offer invaluable insights and practical guidance to help you prepare emotionally, physically, and spiritually for deeper, more connected relationships.   Click here to grab your Free Ticket while they're still available.    Podcast Description:  In this week's episode of The Conscious Love Show, we embark on a journey into the power of presence in creating love. Join us as we delve into the transformative concept of "being where your feet are" — a powerful key to unlocking fulfillment in both life and love. Discover how focusing on the present moment and dealing with what's right in front of you versus getting entangled in factors beyond your control, can empower you on your quest for a meaningful relationship, increase your confidence, and make you more attractive. We share practical insights and mindfulness practices designed to ground you in the here and now, helping you build a foundation for authentic connections. If you're seeking love and ready to access your true worthiness and lovability, this episode is your guide to navigating the dating landscape with intention, mindfulness, and a renewed sense of self-empowerment.  Thanks for tuning in and I'm grateful to be a part of your journey! 

In this thought-provoking episode of the Conscious Love Show, delve into the profound exploration of "How the Things We Avoid Become the Ceiling on What's Possible for Us."  This episode unravels the intricate dynamics of our subconscious choices and the impact they have on our personal growth and fulfillment. Discover the hidden barriers that often arise from avoidance and learn how these unaddressed aspects of our lives can inadvertently set limits on our potential. In this episode, Shane shares real-life stories to shed light on the transformative power of confronting the uncomfortable and embracing vulnerability. Join the enlightening conversation as Shane guides you through practical strategies to identify and overcome the self-imposed ceilings that may be hindering your personal and relational evolution. Gain valuable insights into the psychology of avoidance, and unlock the doors to a more authentic, expansive, and conscious love. This episode promises to inspire, challenge, and empower you to break free from the constraints of the past, fostering a deeper connection with yourself and others. Tune in for an exploration of self-discovery and the limitless possibilities that await when we courageously confront the things we often shy away from.

In this week's episode, we embark on a journey of understanding the profound support that the universe offers us in our quest for conscious, loving relationships. Join us as we delve into the spiritual aspects of connection, trust, and surrender, and learn practical tools to tap into this boundless support. Discover how aligning with the universe's energy can lead to deeper, more fulfilling relationships and a profound sense of purpose. And how you are always supported in creating what you believe no matter how "good" or "bad" that belief might be. Tune in for an episode that will awaken your soul to the limitless possibilities that await in the realm of conscious love.  And as always, sending love to you wherever you are in your journey. 

In this powerful episode, we delve deep into the art of resilience and maintaining an open heart, even in the most challenging circumstances. Join us as we explore practical strategies, heart-centered practices, and inspiring stories that will empower you to navigate life's darkest moments with grace and love. Discover how to find light in the midst of darkness and cultivate a spirit that not only survives but thrives. Tune in for an episode that will touch your soul and leave you with a renewed sense of hope and possibility.  

How does one truly find love in this crazy world?   Many people have answered this question with different methods and strategies and if you've tried them, they've likely failed you time and again. Because this question isn't strategic, it's spiritual.   In this episode, I'm addressing this question from a spiritual perspective, honoring the truth of who we are and our true creative ability.  It's not for the feint of heart, but if you have an open mind, this episode might change your life forever...    

In this INTERVIEW with life coach Lindsey Marie Barber, she shares her take on men after years of working with them intimately. If you want the inside scoop on any of the topics below, then you won’t want to miss this … What do men really WANT? What are men hesitant about or fearful toward in relationships? The real reason why men GHOST! What challenges do men face in communicating? How are men just like women in their deepest DESIRES? How are the stories you tell about men blocking you from love? Why are we attracted to certain men and not others? How can we truly FORGIVE and why is this so important You can find Lindsey on her website and even book a free 30 min coaching session with her on www.lindseymariecoaching.com Or, check her out on Instagram @lindseymariecoaching

Wondering where all the good men are?  I have the answer.  After coaching women for the greater part of the last decade, I can't tell you how many times I've heard the phrase, "There are no good men out there!"  And yet, just last week I was at the wedding of a great man, who at 35 years old is committing his life to the woman of his dreams and they are building a home and family together.  So the fact remains that good men are out there, they just seem to be hard to find.  So where are they hiding? In this episode I'm telling all.  Are you ready to hear the answers?

We've all been there, devastated by the loss of someone we love and finding it impossible to see a future without them.  Some of us have been stuck in this for more than a decade and in truth, there are some people who never recover from it.  But others are able to move through it quite quickly and even come out better on the other side of it.  In truth there are two ways of going through this and while neither of them are particularly fun, one leads to a bright future with more love in it and the other leads to someday repeating the pattern all over again.  In this episode, I'm breaking down the healthy approach--how you can consciously let go of someone you once loved, heal from the loss, and become better than ever before.     

You are WORTHY! You are worthy of the juiciest life and love that you can imagine and then some! Today's episode is a reminder of that for you.  This episode is all about revealing the most critical prerequisite to manifesting your deepest, most heartfelt desires. You can have them. You deserve them. In this episode, let me show you how!  Enjoy <3 

What if you could feel completely at ease, comfortable, and safe inside your own body no matter what was going on around you? What if you had a way of showing up to all your life circumstances feeling confident in yourself, great about who you are, and optimistic about what is possible? That's what I'm offering in today's episode.  It's a practice I've been deeply working with for the last year that has completely changed my life.  This has allowed me to take on new levels of relationship, career, health, and family while easily managing my anxiety and feeling confident and optimistic throughout. This one is a life-changer and I am excited to share.    

Nobody likes change...  Is that the truth?  Or is it a limiting perception we've developed based on fear?  Things that change in our lives are always changing for the better but our limited perspectives don't always allow us to see that.  Often, we fear the very thing that is bringing us everything our heart's desire and we do everything we can to stop it from happening. In this episode, I 'll share how you can work with change to navigate the flows of life and allow them to bring you to everything you've been dreaming about.  

To answer some of my most asked questions, I'm doing a deep dive on what happens for men and why they suddenly seem to lose interest, disappear, and ghost without a word. Bringing back one of my most popular episodes from several months ago, we explore the process of a man's development to undo his toxic, non-committal programming and become ready for conscious love.  A must listen.  Enjoy <3     

The confusion stops HERE! Join me as I interview relationship and personal development coach, Ishmael Gomez III as we unveil clarity around the many things men say that confuse women!!! Ismael has a number of years of experience and between the two of us, and being men ourselves, we've heard and/or experienced it all.  You'll get a better understanding of why men DO and SAY the things that they do. This will help you to understand where your partner is really at in your relationship, what men are looking for when dating, what pushes guys away, how to know if he's REALLY into you and so much more...  Trust me, you won't want to miss this conversation!  <3 Shane

When is it time to have "the talk"?  How do you know where this relationship is going or when you will get there?  What is a realistic timeline to expect to move into deeper levels of commitment with someone and how do you know if this relationship is actually going there or not?  These are the questions I'm answering in today's podcast.  As we discuss the natural timeline along which a conscious relationship unfolds, you'll be able to identify which stage you are in if you're currently dating someone and know exactly what the next steps are for you.  If you're single and searching, you'll be able to create realistic expectations and navigate future relationships from a place of clarity, personal empowerment, and confidence. Having a clear picture of a realistic timeline, knowing what should be happening and when, will take all the guess work out of dating and let you know exactly where you stand with someone.  Enjoy :)    

We've all done it.  We meet someone, we like them, we get attached, we start dreaming, we start trying to make them ours, and we do all this before we even truly know if we want them or not.  When we struggle being alone and feel a scarcity around the potential for love, we respond to that by having unrealistic expectations for ourselves, others, and relationships as a whole.  This causes us to act out in desperate or unattractive ways and ultimately destroy the opportunities of love that do come into our lives while simultaneously limiting and the quality and quantity of love interests available to us. If you want to succeed in love, you have to stop doing this and in this podcast, I'm going to tel you how :)  Enjoy! 

Do you hate men?  Or if you're a man, do you hate women?   Your answer may be an immediate yes or no but in my experience, this conversation is much more nuanced than that just that immediate answer.  We've all had so many experiences with the opposite sex, beginning with our parents and continuing throughout all of our relationships in adolescence and adulthood.  And the truth is, whether you recognize it or not, you've probably built up some resistance and resentment against them and in the right situation, this can definitely manifest as hate. In this episode, I'm going to help you discover if you've been carrying any unconscious resistance toward the opposite sex, show you what that is creating in your life a a result, and help you understand the steps to heal so you can have a deep loving relationship with the partner of your dreams.  This is a good one ;) let's dive in!     

In today's episode, I'm breaking down the 3 types of men you will encounter in the dating world.  Of these 3, only one shows real potential for a conscious relationship while the other two will only lead to disappointment and frustration.  In this episode, I'm sharing who these guys are, why they are the way they are, and what to do when you meet one of them.  Enjoy!  

The term narcissist is something that we hear a lot and it is usually involving a great deal of pain.  The narcissist has become the boogeyman in the modern dating world and is often used as a catch all phrase to describe someone with inconsiderate, harmful, or abusive behavior but what is a narcissist really?  Where does narcissism come from?  And why is it so pervasive in our culture?  These are the questions this episode of the conscious love show seeks to offer.  Through this episode, you will gain a deeper understanding of what narcissism is, where it comes from, and how to deal with a narcissist without becoming disempowered by them.  I hope you enjoy this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show! 

Manifestation is not about what you do, it is about who you are. But in a world that is moving at a fast pace and constantly pressing us to move faster, most of us are so busy doing things that we're not even connected to who we are.  This makes love impossible. In today's episode, I'm breaking down the spiritual process to manifest love.  This process doesn't require dating apps or proving yourself to people who don't respect you.  It's simple, relatively easy, and your only opponent in this process will be your own fear.  Yet, people who have the courage to walk this path will experience an abundance and joy in life like something you've never known. Enjoy today's episode!     

The 3 Secrets to Manifesting Authentic Love | FREE WORKSHOP! This Saturday, 7/15 at 12 PM ET | Click Here to grab your Free Ticket now :)     This episode is about magic!  There is something truly magical that happens when you stop relating to others from a place of better than or less than and you begin to see yourself and everyone as equals.  I know this sounds incredibly simplistic and you probably think you already do this but I promise when you listen to this podcast, you will be surprised!  In this episode, I'm breaking down the way our egos maintain distance with others to keep us safe and how this is largely accomplished by placing yourself either above or below others in your own mind. And I'm also sharing how to break this insidious habit and what happens when you do!  Enjoy <3   Music Credit: Corporate Upbeat | Corporationby Alex-Productions | Music promoted by http://onsound.eu/  

When it comes to love, money, or anything else, there are really only two approaches to  getting what we want from life.  One is to try to take it through force or manipulation and the other is to give so much of yourself to life that life returns the energy you've invested tenfold.  Most people live in a force/manipulation model and, in this episode, I'm going to share why that is and where that ultimately leads.  When we step into giving ourselves fully and completely to life, we can receive everything that is meant for us and, in today's episode, I'm going to help you understand what that really looks like and how you can do that for yourself.    Music Credit: Corporate Upbeat | Corporationby Alex-Productions | Music promoted by http://onsound.eu/

The desire to love and be loved is one of the most universal human experiences and, at it's core, it is a very good thing.  But in our chaotic world, where so many of us struggle with worthiness, and we carry these heavy wounds from our past, this pure and beautiful desire has been distorted into a craving that reinforces our lack of worth and disconnects us from love rather than bringing us closer to it.  We imagine that the right person will make everything better but this is a trick of the ego and not true.  When we bring our wounding to relationships, those relationships can only reflect those wounds.  It's not really a relationship you seek, it is a feeling of being worthy, lovable, alive, and passionate and when you feel like this, love is never far away.  The goal is not to find someone to make you feel better, it is to learn to live fully alive and embodying a state of love.  In that state, everything you're looking for will find you. I hope you enjoy this profound and powerful episode.   

Whenever I have a client or a program graduate who is highly successful in their life and love, I always like to ask what it was that made the difference for them. I always want to find out, what was the actual shift that you needed to have to experience the results you've created?  And over the years, I've noticed a very clear pattern.  In fact, every single one of them give me some variation of the same answer and I know exactly what that answer is because it's the same thing that happened for me.  If it wasn't for this one shift in how I felt about myself, I never would have had my wife fall in love with me because I just wouldn't have been ready for a woman like her. Want to know what it is, or even better, has it happened for you yet?  Well I'm not gonna give it to you that easily but in this episode, I'm going to tell you exactly what that shift is and break down the detailed steps to creating this shift in yourself.   Music Credit: Corporate Upbeat | Corporationby Alex-Productions | Music promoted by http://onsound.eu/       

Trauma goes deeper than most people think.  Because even if you came from a good home and a good family, you were born into a traumatic world.  We've inherited a world of trauma, a world with a history steeped in war, conflict, and survival of the fittest and when we experienced this world as helpless, innocent children, it was deeply hurtful to us and we built big walls of protection around ourselves. Modern dating culture is a side effect of this generational trauma and what we experience in dating is the result of millions of traumatized people, most of them not even aware of their need for healing, desperately trying to feel better and feel more love while simultaneously being terrified of intimacy.  This is an impossible situation and it's lead to a divorce rate above 70% and millions struggling with self-worth and loneliness.      In this powerful episode, I share how to navigate this impossible situation.  I speak about being a beacon of light in a world of darkness and how you can embody love to such a powerful degree that you can inspire someone else to let their walls down, where an authentic connection can take place, and love can be born.  Enjoy!    Music Credit: Corporate Upbeat | Corporationby Alex-Productions | Music promoted by http://onsound.eu/

Have you ever felt that no matter how hard you try to improve your love life you still hit a wall?  Like no matter what you do or what you say or how hard you try, you are still going to get the same results and there's nothing you can do about it. This is the experience that many of my clients are feeling when they come to me and please know that I've been there and I know exactly what that feels like.  And in the many years I've been doing this work, I come back to it time and time again that anywhere we feel blocked or stuck, we are experiencing a past trauma that we are unable to move forward from, and it is limiting our future. Most people think if they just try a little harder or do it a little better or a little differently they can solve all of their problems but I promise you, this idea is a fallacy.  When we are blocked by traumas that are held in our body and subconscious mind, there is no amount of just trying harder or doing better that will solve it. We must go to the root of the problem and work with those painful elements that lie in the most vulnerable parts of our being, and that is where we will heal and transform. In this episode, I'm taking an in-depth look at what healing work looks like and why it's necessary. I'm pulling back the curtain on things that most people don't talk about and really looking at how our fears and traumas sabotage our dreams. This is a deeply transformational episode, and it was really fun to make so I hope you enjoy it!  More than that, I hope that you find a deep commitment to your own healing work, because that is where everything want to experience in life is waiting for you. Music Credit: Corporate Upbeat | Corporationby Alex-Productions | Music promoted by http://onsound.eu/

As a follow up to last week's episode, I wanted to speak into what actually works!  Last week I shared how not to chase a man, how to maintain proper power dynamics, and how to give him space to prove himself to you and while this was all SUPER important, I couldn't help but feel that something was missing.  I told you a lot about what NOT to do but not so much about what you should do. Truth is, it takes more than keeping a high standard.  A high standard with harsh/critical energy will make a man feel defeated and unworthy.  But a high standard with tenderness, warmth, and nurturing will make a man feel like superman, and if you want a man to fall in love, you want him to feel like superman with you.  In this episode, I complete the conversation by sharing the amazing energy that men ALWAYS respond to and by bringing this energy to him, you will have him responding to you!      

In today's episode we explore the one simple rule: Never Chase a Man.  Easier said than done of course, especially when men can be so avoidant and it would be so easy to just give a nudge in the right direction and get things moving.  Still, when you take the lead and start trying to push the relationship forward, you are causing him to lose attraction and never be able to see you as the women he wants a lifetime commitment with.  In this episode, I share how he needs to see you and think of you to be ready for real commitment and I guide you in the personal growth steps you need to take to be ready to receive the man who will pursue you like you always dreamed someone would.   

In this episode, I'm speaking into an idea that comes from A Course in Miracles: Projection Makes Perception In this one idea lies both our greatest strength and our greatest weakness.  This is the power we have to create a life unimagined!  To transcend our current reality and experience a life far beyond anything we previously thought was possible.  To create deep love, infinite abundance, immense joy, and the freedom to be and do what is truly in our hearts. This idea also contains our ability to never realize any of this--to maintain our current experience of life and repeat and recreate these experiences over and over again.  All of this is within your power and in this episode, I'm sharing how to direct your power to the places that will be most rewarding and most fulfilling in your life.    

In today's episode, we look at the principles of manifestation and what is required from us to truly manifest a loving partnership in our lives.  We look at why manifestation doesn't work and what prevents people from being able to access this power and explore the true process of manifestation and how to implement it in our lives.  I also share specific practices that you can use to move out of fear and into love which is the foundation for being able to manifest more love and loving experiences in your life.    

In this episode, we explore how the mindset of wanting what's best for the other person makes you most receptive, available, and attractive for love.  We discuss how to remain empowered while wanting the best for someone else and how that enables you to get what's best for you also.  Includes an interesting discussion about men being overly sexual in early stages of dating in the Q and A section.  

In this podcast episode, I'm addressing the #1 most commonly asked question I get from my listeners: "Where the hell did he go?"  Sometimes it's only after a first date and you never hear from him again.  Other times, after several weeks of great connection, he out of nowhere decides he's done and conveniently forgets to inform you of this.  You call, you text, and no answer.  He's gone.  A particularly frustrating one is after a session of passionate love making, you feel that you've really made a deep and lasting connection but the next day, he acts like it never happened or worse, doesn't act like anything because you never see him again. And those guys who have the audacity to call 3 months later and try to catch up like everything is good (eyeroll). Yes, there is no more infuriating and despicable male behavior than the way they disappear without a word, without even enough care to acknowledge the time you've spent.  I've heard your pain and your heart in your questions and in this episode I'm going to share some things that will help.  Why men do this, what causes them to do it, and what you can do about it.  Enjoy, and may the men in your life always call you back.   

I've been geeking out on this topic ever since my discussion with Liz last week and in this week's episode, I'm sharing some of my deepest insights on this topic and how we can leverage these energies within ourselves to become more attractive and magnetic, to find the right partner for us, and to heal everything that is unhealed within us.  I really enjoyed this episode and I know you will too.  Thanks for listening! 

In this very special session I have the opportunity to interview my dear friend, mentor, and coach Liz Haber-Zambrano.  Liz has been a part of my life for over a decade, she is a beautiful lady, full of insight and wisdom, and someone I am honored to have on the show.  In this episode, we have a very in depth discussion about what it means to embody a feminine essence and how that creates attraction with the Masculine.  We discuss the cultural and societal dynamics that impact this and we discuss the individual journey of healing and growing into authentic partnership.  This was a discussion I thoroughly enjoyed hosting and was even quite enlightening for me.  I know you'll enjoy it too!   

Most of us have been afraid to let someone know how we truly feel about them and we've acted out in all kinds of crazy ways because of this.  Playing hard to get, not calling or texting when we want to, sometimes we even encourage them to date someone else just to hide the fact that we really want them to date us.  And the reason for this is that we've associated authenticity with a loss of power.  We feel that to be honest with them is to lose a benefit in the relationship.  Today's episode is about undoing that.  It's about bringing authenticity and clear communication back to our love lives without diminishing our power.  If you want to know how to be clear and honest about your true feelings while creating mutual respect in the relationship and setting it up for long term success, this episode is for you!    

In today's episode, we explore 2 very important questions: 1. How do I know if there is real potential with someone I'm dating? 2. What happens in my relationship with them that destroys that potential or prevents the relationship from working out.  After receiving thousands of questions from my community, I realize that so many of them center around these two things.  I met someone and it was going so well, then it fell apart.  What the hell happened?  And in today's episode, I'm doing my best to answer that!  I'm covering how you know that someone you're dating isn't wasted time but actually someone worth investing in and what might happen as the relationship deepens to destroy what was once possible for you.  Thanks for listening, enjoy!  

You've had some pretty BAD relationships haven't you?  Liars, cheats, narcissists, the freaking worst!  But what if these "bad" experiences weren't as bad as you thought they were?  What if you invited this toxic person or this damaging relationship into your life to give you an opportunity to heal something?  We all have challenging experiences, especially in relationships!  But when we understand what these experiences are for and we learn how to find their benefit and extract the essential lessons from them, they elevate us to a new experience in our lives. They invite us into a new paradigm of who we can be and from that place, what we attract and what we're attracted to changes. This episode is sharing some of the most essential lessons about the journey to love.  Enjoy it and share it with a friend!   

This episode is a deep dive into all the nuance of having "The Talk". If you're wanting to know where this relationship is going, how they really feel about you, and what you can expect from them long term, this episode is like a cheat sheet for all of those questions.  We explore finding clarity on what to say and how to say it, being vulnerable and also empowered in your approach, regulating your own emotional experience of anything that might happen in the conversation, and healing any shame you have around your needs and wants in a relationship so you can feel deserving of the things you're asking for. This "talk" can be the most difficult part of navigating a new relationship so don't feel alone in this process.  Listen to this episode to get your mind and heart in the right place and be ready to create the connection you truly desire most.   

Ever been in a situationship?  Of course you have!  Contrary to popular opinion, these are not bad, wrong, or even a mistake.  They are highly relevant experiences in your journey to love that allow you to transform yourself within the context of relationship and come into a greater experience of personal worth and value. It's not about judging these relationships or yourself for being in them but truly understand what this relationship was for, the purpose it served in your life, and being able to recognize when it's run it's course and extract the value from it.  When you do this, every "situationship" you find yourself in will be short lived, incredibly valuable, and accelerate your journey toward the right person.  When you don't know how to do this, these relationships become highly destructive and crushing to your worth and value. I hope you enjoy this exciting discussion as we break down the situationship and how to use it to empower yourself and accelerate your growth.      

Want more people to find you sexy?  What to turn more heads when you walk into a room?  Want others to feel the desire to be closer to you and go deeper with you?  Want a promotion at work?  In this episode, we are exploring the single quality that can make all of these things possible.  This is the quality that all dating articles unanimously claim is the most attractive and the single most important thing for people to experience from you in dating.  To have long term respect and appreciation in a relationship, this quality cannot be missing.  And yes, even at work, this quality will get you a promotion, even over someone more qualified than you!   It's a relationship skill and a life skill and to learn what it is and how to access it more often (even all the time) check out this week's riveting new episode!   

Did you know you're a 4 dimensional being?  It sounds weird when we say it like that but the truth is we all occupy 4 dimensions of experience at all times: Body, Mind, Emotion, and Spirit. The problem is, to a large degree, we are not present to these different dimensions of our experience.  We instead experience ourselves as an isolated body, having complex thoughts and emotions, with little real connection to anything spiritual (as much of a nice idea as it might be) and this is the source of all of our suffering.  We don't know ourselves as we truly are and we don't have access to the fullness of ourselves. My work over the years has been to have people gain more access and balance within these different realms of our experience and as we do, we experience more freedom, confidence, aliveness, and personal power.  The ability to create or manifest the life you are seeking will come from knowing yourself more fully and having more access to the deepest aspects of yourself.  In this episode, I break down this process in incredible detail and I know you're going to love it!    

Did you know that throughout the day we transition through many different brainwave states?  From sleeping, to waking, to working, to relaxing, all of these activities require different levels of brain activity.  The sad truth is that most of us live in a consistent state of fight or flight (survival) throughout most of our waking hours and this activates stress hormones in the body which cause us to act out in irrational ways and bring our worst to every day situations.  In love and dating, being in a state of fight or flight will have catastrophic results!  And that's whether you're in a committed relationship or just getting to know someone.   In this episode, we explore the different brainstates and how to maintain a regulated system that feels great in your body and allows your most beautiful qualities to shine through with no filter.  

In this week's episode we are exploring the maximum manifestation of love we are able to experience in our human lives: The Holy Relationship.  Most human relationships are what Shane refers to as ego-entanglements, which are basically manipulative arrangements made through the ego to have it's perceived needs met.  These are castles made of sand that eventually wash into the sea because they aren't founded in anything real.  The Holy Relationship is a representation of true love.  In this episode, we learn what that relationship is and understand the process of growing into it.   

The most important decision you will ever make is not the person you will marry, the career you choose, where you live, or how you spend your time.  It is a decision that literally defines every aspect of your life and determines the quality of your life and love in every aspect.  Want to know what that decision is?  Well this week's episode is an in depth exploration into that question.  Strap in, because this one is a big one! 

This episode is a deep dive into the lessons of love and the journey through them.  Each experience we have, positive or negative, is shaping us for the love and partnership we are seeking.  On the journey, our role is to consciously go through each experience and learn the lessons as they are presented and as we do this, we are accelerated towards love.  This conversation is a personal favorite and one of the most important to creating a conscious relationship.   

In this special interview, I have my dear friend and colleague Michael Desanti joining me for a conversation where we dive into the psyche of men and why they do and don't commit. Michael is a men's success coach and has worked with thousands of men around the world.  He is the co-founder of The Vital Guide, Author of the book New Man Emerging, and creator of the Find Your Tribe program.  It was such a pleasure having him on the show and I so enjoyed our discussion.  I hope you'll appreciate this interview and the wisdom he shares about a man's journey to become ready for commitment.  Order his book New Man Emerging on Amazon and learn more abut his work at www.thevitalguide.com    

In this episode, we explore how our past experience shapes our thoughts, feelings, and the way in which we see ourselves. This then determines what we believe is possible for us, what we are willing to go for in life, and where we hold back.  The possibilities for your future are only as big as your belief in yourself is and that belief comes out of your identity, which was shaped by your past.  Join us for a riveting discussion on how past experience determines the possibilities for our future and how we can release our limiting identity to make space for a life and love that we formerly did not even think was possible. 

For those who want to start the year off right!  We're looking at what leads to love and what doesn't.  What are the thoughts, feelings, and approaches that streamline love coming in to your life and what is it that slows you down or makes you miss it all together?  How can you maximize your possibility this year to live in love and invite in all the amazing experiences and opportunities that come with it?  That's what this episode is all about!  Enjoy

In this week's episode, we discuss the process of setting intentions from a grounded, connected, and spiritual place so that they have the highest likelihood of coming true.  We talk about how to relate to our intentions and how they help us grow and for those who are seeking love, we discuss how to position yourself so that your intention for love is likely to come true in 2023.  We also have a great discussion about overcoming anxious attachment in the Q and A section.   

For anyone who's struggling to find the right person, especially during the holidays...   In this episode, we explore what to do when hitting a wall in dating.  Instead of continuing to force what's not working, how do we redirect?  Where do we put our energy and focus?  And how can we be confident that love is on its way to us without constantly trying to meet someone new?  This is a powerful lesson around managing your own energy and raising you vibe without getting off track for the love you're dreaming about.  

In this episode, we explore the importance of vulnerability in healing and attracting love.  We learn what vulnerability is, what it is not, and how it shapes the way we see ourselves and relationships.  We see how it is essential to our healing and vital to creating love.   

In this episode, we explore how the mindset of wanting what's best for the other person makes you most receptive, available, and attractive for love.  We discuss how to remain empowered while wanting the best for someone else and how that enables you to get what's best for you also.  Includes an interesting discussion about men being overly sexual in early stages of dating in the Q and A section.  

In this episode, we explore how belief systems form in early life and then perpetuate themselves throughout our lives.  We see how many if not all of what we "choose" is less of a choice and more of a reaction to our beliefs.  We see that these reactions take us away from love and everything we want in life and how if this cycle is not interrupted, we will isolate ourselves from love.  We also work with some amazing questions in the Q & A portion.  Enjoy! 

In this episode, we explore the dilemma of needing to escape our bad feelings and run toward good ones.  We discover why this dilemma is so disempowering, how it perpetuates the experience of unworthiness, and how to regain our power while caught in this trap.  We also explore themes like what makes someone really want you and how to protect yourself from manipulation. 

In this episode I bring my friend and fellow coach, Emily DeBouver, in for a fascinating conversation about healing your relationship to men.   In this episode, Emily shares about growing up with an abusive father and how that shaped the way she saw men, the journey she had to go through to heal from this, plus so many fascinating insights and tools that she uses to serve her clients.   I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed my conversation with Emily.  Connect with her on IG: @em.debouver and TikTok: @em.debouver   

In this episode, we explore what confidence is, why it's important, how to create more of it, and how it relates to attractiveness.  What's great about this episode is we explore all the things that make up attraction that are not superficial and actually have way more power to create magnetism in dating.  Also includes an interesting discussion about attraction and masculine & feminine energy in the Q and A section.

In this episode, we explore the two ways we can process information, through our conscious, physical mind and through our intuition, we understand the purpose and place of both, and uncover how to rely more on intuition in the places where it really matters.   We also go into an in-depth discussion on narcissism and healing through narcissistic abuse during the Q and A portion. I hope you enjoy this value-packed episode!      

In this episode, we explore the simple yet profound principle of becoming really clear about the reality of a situation and then dealing with it on that basis only, rather than allowing our future projections or fantasies to color the picture.  We also explore how to create clarity in the early stages of dating when you don't know where you stand and how to prevent our past trauma from limiting our future. 

In this episode, we explore trust as a prerequisite to creating love.  It is through learning to trust that we are able to release everything that doesn't serve us and accelerate our way toward love.  It is our lack of trust and all the ways we overcompensate for it that get in our way and derail our journey.  

In this episode, we explore the true process of bringing love into your life.  What does it mean to manifest love or anything for that matter?  Can we really do it and if so, how?  All of that explored in this episode plus major pitfalls that disrupt our manifestations! 

Exploring how we present ourselves as "high value" in the dating world and how doing so will attract the quality of relationship that we are looking for. 

In this episode, we explore how shame is formed early in life, how it takes shape throughout our life, and the impact this has on our relationships.  We explore how to work with it to experience more authenticity and confidence in who we are, which ultimately leads to more success in our love lives.    

In this episode, we explore how to navigate the difficult emotional experiences in dating in a way that leaves us feeling empowered, positive about who we are, and optimistic about the future--being aware of the fear when it arises and learning to release it and have it be replaced by love.  To the degree that we can do this, we grow toward love and invite more of it into our lives.