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The BTR.ORG Podcast - Betrayal Trauma Recovery

English, Personal health, 1 season, 363 episodes, 6 days, 7 hours, 52 minutes
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btr.org (https://www.btr.org) - btr.org has daily, online group and individual coaching sessions for victims of emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion. For women experiencing pain, chaos, and isolation due to their husband’s abuse: lying, gaslighting, manipulation, porn use, cheating, infidelity, emotional abuse, and narcissistic abuse. We recognize that labeling a woman as codependent is a form of victim blaming. Pornography addiction / sex addiction are a domestic abuse issue. Narcissistic abuse is not a communication issue. We help women who are in a relationship, separated, or divorced navigate to recover and heal by establishing safety through boundaries. If you suspect your husband is a narcissist, a pornography addict, or emotionally abusive, this podcast is for you. We care about your mental health. Every woman on our team has experienced abuse and betrayal trauma first hand. To learn more about Betrayal Trauma Recovery, visit BTR.ORG
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5 Ways To Spot Narcissistic Abuse – Rachel’s Story

Are you experiencing narcissistic abuse? It can be hard to spot. These 5 signs will help you know if you're a victim of narcissistic abuse.
10/22/202444 minutes, 49 seconds
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This is Why You’re Not Codependent – Felicia’s Story

Emotional & Psychological abuse victims "mimic" codependent traits: this is why you're not codependent. Read on to learn more.
10/8/202448 minutes, 58 seconds
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How Do I Know If My Husband Is Abusive? – Coach Jo’s Story

Have you wondered, "how do I know if my husband is abusive" See if you relate to Coach Jo's story.
10/1/202437 minutes, 11 seconds
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How to Start To Heal From Emotional Abuse – Penny’s Story

It's possible to heal from your husband's emotional abuse. See if you relate to Penny's story.
9/17/202434 minutes, 32 seconds
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My Husband Lied To Me: Call For D-Day Stories

"My husband lied to me," she repeated. If you've just discovered your husband lied to you for years, here's what you need to know.
9/12/20247 minutes, 33 seconds
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This is How Emotional Abuse Affects Your Body – Joyce’s Story

Here's Joyce's story of escaping emotional abuse with Anne's help. And how the emotional abuse affected her body.
8/6/202448 minutes, 13 seconds
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If your husband has betrayed you, you're not alone. Many women courageously share their stories. If you feel isolated, you might find solace in this woman's experience.
8/3/20241 hour, 12 minutes, 23 seconds
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When Your Husband Uses Spiritual Abuse – Coach Sharon’s Story

Coach Sharon is on the podcast discussing spiritual abuse. This subtle yet destructive behavior undermines a victim’s faith, self-worth, and autonomy, leading to long-term psychological and emotional distress.
7/23/202455 minutes, 26 seconds
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How To Recover From Betrayal Trauma – Lynea’s Story

Learn how Lynea recognized she was facing betrayal trauma. As her husband's behavior worsened, she sought help to recover from his betrayal.
7/2/202437 minutes, 4 seconds
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Did Complementarian Ideas Contribute To Emotional Abuse? – J.R.’s Story

Can complementarian ideas conceal emotional abuse? Join Anne and J.R. as they discuss her journey of overcoming her husband's infidelity, emotional, and spiritual abuse.
6/25/202454 minutes, 52 seconds
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Is My Husband Holding Me Back? – Sarah’s Story

Sarah kept asking herself, "Is my husband holding me back?? Sarah shares how she overcame obstacles to reach her goals.
6/18/202441 minutes, 3 seconds
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The Double Standards Confining Women In Fairy Tales

Fairy tales are often confining women with double standards. Join Anne and Jane Gillmore as they discuss how fairy tales often vilify women's anger, undermine their pursuit of financial independence, and set unrealistic expectations.
6/11/202435 minutes, 24 seconds
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5 Ways Fairy Tales Brainwashed Women Not To Recognize Abuse

Jane Gilmore explores misogyny and harmful messages in classic fairy tales that brainwash us into not recognizing abuse.
6/4/202428 minutes, 33 seconds
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I Want to Leave My Emotionally Abusive Husband

When you're ready to leave (or considering leaving) your emotionally abusive husband. You need support and practical advice. Karen DeArmond Gardner is back on the podcast.
5/28/202417 minutes, 2 seconds
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I Don’t Want A Divorce But I Don’t Know What Else To Do

If you don’t want a divorce, but you're seeking solutions due to your husband’s emotional and psychological abuse, here are some ideas to consider.
5/21/202422 minutes, 14 seconds
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Stages of Deliverance From Abuse: Emotional and Psychological

Find the stages of deliverance from abuse. Anne tells how she discovered how to be delivered and gain freedom from abuse.
5/14/20241 hour, 3 minutes, 43 seconds
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Is Forgiveness Helpful for Victims of Betrayal?

Forgiveness is a polarizing topic for victims of intimate betrayal. But can it provide relief & healing? Dr. Debi Silber is on the podcast.
5/7/202418 minutes
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Healing From Betrayal Trauma with Dr. Debi Silber

Healing from betrayal trauma is absolutely possible. Dr. Debi Silber discusses the five steps to healing and more on this episode.
4/30/202420 minutes, 57 seconds
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How Long Does It Take To Heal From Emotional Abuse?

Recovering from your husband's emotional abuse is a journey. There are strategies to speed healing. Here are 3 things to consider.
4/23/202423 minutes, 15 seconds
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Teaching Your Children Healthy Sexuality – The Best Resource

You can teach children healthy sexuality. Here are some quality resources to help make sure your kids are empowered to make healthy choices about sex when the time is right.
4/16/202419 minutes, 48 seconds
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How to Talk To Your Kids About Sex

The Sex Talk can be a good experience for both parents and children. Dina Alexander shares tips, myths, and how-to's.
4/9/202417 minutes, 24 seconds
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When His Sexual Fantasy Signals Abusive Control

When fantasizing is about control, it will be harmful to any relationship. Discover the effects of your husband's sexual fantasies and why they're hurting you.
4/2/202424 minutes, 11 seconds
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Should I Divorce My Husband for Emotional Abuse? Can I?

A victims shares how she grappled with religious traditions, logistics, to determine if she wanted to divorce her abusive husband, and if so how?
3/26/202423 minutes, 14 seconds
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My Husband Says I’m the Problem. Is He Right?

J.R. spent nearly a decade believing that she was the problem in the marriage. Learning about emotional abuse helped her establish safety boundaries.
3/19/202423 minutes, 59 seconds
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Sad News About A Beloved Member of Our Team

Remembering Coach Katherine We loved Katherine so much. Katherine was kind and fierce at the same time. All she wanted was to help deliver women from suffering and harm. She will be greatly missed. We LOVE you Katherine!
3/16/20241 minute, 8 seconds
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Where Can I Find Resources to Stop Human Trafficking?

Are you ready to help stop human trafficking? Melea Stephens from NCOSE shares how you can participate in advocacy without having to leave home.
3/12/202422 minutes, 34 seconds
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How to Set Boundaries In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship

If you're wondering how to set boundaries in an emotionally abusive relationship, you are NOT alone. Elizabeth continues her story.
3/5/202420 minutes, 34 seconds
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Is the Cycle of Abuse a Myth?

What if you could spot a hidden emotional abuse right away? Elizabeth courageously shares her story to help you identify the cycle of abuse.
2/27/202422 minutes, 17 seconds
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Here Are My Emotions in the Aftermath of Abuse

Excitement, fear, frustration, self-loathing - Vicki shares the torrent of emotions she's experienced in the aftermath of her abusive marriage.
2/20/202418 minutes, 9 seconds
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This is How You Know It’s Time to Leave

Vicki shares her courageous journey leaving an abusive marriage, including the challenges, interventions, and empowering choices that led her to safety.
2/13/202421 minutes, 52 seconds
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Walking Away After 30 Years of Narcissistic Abuse

Vicki shares the heartbreaking reality of what 30 years with a covert abuser is like for a family - a nightmare of manipulation, control, and silent suffering.
2/6/202418 minutes, 5 seconds
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New Meditations: Are You Ready to Start Healing?

This episode is Part 3 of the series on the new BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop.Part 1: Brand New Meditations for Victims of Betrayal & AbusePart 2: Find Peace & Calm With Our New BTR.ORG MeditationsPart 3: New Meditations: Are You Ready to Start Healing? (this episode) BTR.ORG Meditations: A Healing Modality for All Sammy, like many members of the BTR.ORG community, is a woman of faith. She shares: "I have typically shied away from meditation because I'm coming from a Christian base and I was afraid of new age-type meditations that I had only briefly heard about. So I kept scripture reading, prayer, and just my own meditation in communing with God, so to speak." Sammy, Member of the BTR.ORG Community All Belief Paradigms Are Welcome & Respected at BTR.ORG Sammy decided to try The BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop despite her reservations - and found immense healing and peace. Regardless of your ideology, please know that BTR.ORG resources, included the new Meditation Workshop, are designed with all belief paradigms in mind. BTR.ORG Is Here For You Listen to Sammy's experiences with the new BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop for more, and consider enrolling today. Full Transcript: Anne (00:01):Welcome to BTR.ORG. This is Anne. The last two episodes have been members of our community who are sharing their experience with The BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop.I wrote, recorded, and edited it specifically for women in this situation. It includes 13 meditations and they are all really amazing. They cover different topics, even though the beginning of all of the meditations is similar, it uses different words and has a different topic, and then it has a topic specific visualization about halfway through, and women are finding it to be really, really helpful. So I've invited Sammy, another member of our community to share her experience with the meditations today. Before you even listened to it one time, what were your expectations before and then the first time you listened to it, what was your experience? Being open to new healing modalities Sammy (02:21):My experience with meditation, I have typically shied away from it because I'm coming from a Christian base and I was afraid of, I don't know, new age for lack of a better definition type meditations that I had only briefly heard about, so I kept scripture reading, prayer, and just my own meditation in communing with God, so to speak. But I thought, well, no, I'm really open to this. I'll see what I think. Anne (02:52):Just out of curiosity, what made you open to it in the first place? Just that you trusted BTR or - Sammy (02:58):Oh, yes, yes. It was going to be safe and fine, and I always know that, say I started it and it was too triggering, for lack of a better word for me, I can just stop it, knowing that it was coming from a safe source. Using the Workbook with the Meditations Anne (03:14):Before you tried it, did you print out the workbook? Sammy (03:17):Yes, the whole deal. Anne (03:19):How did you feel about like, wait, this is a meditation. I didn't know it was a workbook. Or did it just seem like normal to you? Sammy (03:26):A little of both. I hadn't imagined meditations where you would stop and kind of journal at the same time. I thought I'm going to go with what they say to do and see where it leads. Anne (03:37):So you were just like, I'm all in. I'm just going to go for it. Alright, so this is an experiment for you. Talk about that first time you went through it. What did you think? "I wanted to get started right away." Sammy (03:46):It was in the middle of a day, which is unlike me. I normally would save this for either first thing in the morning or in a little less likely, but evening or bedtime. But I wanted to get started right away and I knew I had a limited amount of time, so I think it the BTR Group Sessions. It's been a lifesaver, and I went into a room where I kind of have a home alta...
1/30/202415 minutes, 52 seconds
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Find Peace & Calm With Our New BTR Meditations

This episode is Part 3 of The BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop Series. Part 1: Brand New Meditations for Victims of Betrayal & AbusePart 2: Find Peace & Calm With Our New BTR Meditations (this episode)Part 3: New Meditations: Are You Ready to Start Healing? If you, like many victims of betrayal and abuse, are desperate for stillness and peace, there is a new resource available to you. Lily, a member of the BTR.ORG community, found peace in the tumult of trauma by utilizing the new BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop. Tune in and read the full transcript below for more. Chaos on the Outside, Peace on the Inside "With the chaos on the outside, I was able to find some peace and calm on the inside. And the meditations made that possible." Lily, Member of the BTR.ORG Community We understand how exhausting it is to face the trauma of betrayal and abuse. You deserve peace - and some victims find it in the stillness of trauma-informed meditation. Anne Blythe, founder of BTR.ORG, developed The BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop to offer you peace and healing regardless of what your circumstances may be. BTR.ORG Is Here For You Enroll in The BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop today - and experience the peace and calm that you have always deserved. Full Transcript: Anne (00:01):Welcome to BTR.ORG. This is Anne. Last week I interviewed Pat about her experience with the meditations that I've written. This week, I'm interviewing another member of our community, I'm gonna call her Lily. So she enrolled in The BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop and then she enrolled in The Meditation Workshop and she's gonna share her experience. Talk to me about how you felt progressively as you did the meditation the first time, the second time, the third time. Do you think that it benefited you to do the same meditation three times? "I was able to find some peace and calm on the inside" Lily (02:03):Yes. I do believe it was beneficial to do it more than once. When I was listening to it, I was also going through a rough week in my divorce process. I found it very grounding to review and do the visualization and then actually to have the same visualization. So while I was going through all the turmoil on the outside, in my circumstances, the meditation and the visualization and the process being the same actually provided some grounding for me to be able to kind of stay steady through it. With the chaos on the outside, I was able to find some peace and calm on the inside. And the meditations made that possible. "I was surprised at just how grounded I felt" I was surprised at just how grounded I felt when I came into this process. And I didn't know that I could get away because my situation is difficult. My husband, he, he went after my son when I got away. He's very destructive. This meditation, it helped me go, okay, no, I deserve this. I can do this, I can get through this. Anne (03:05):It helps you feel more calm? Lily (03:08):Yeah. 'cause my son has an anxiety disorder at this point, and so he feeds off of my anxiety. So what happened was when I was able to be calmer, I felt more grounded. He's less anxious. So that was really helpful. "I'm able to be far more present and more attentive" Anne (03:22):Did you find that after the meditations you were acting any different or thinking any different in ways that were like new to you that you didn't have to work to do or think about doing? That just came naturally? Lily (03:35):Yes, I'm able to be far more present and more attentive to my son and stay in the moment. After the meditation, my thoughts were a lot calmer. The rumination was much less. And as I did the meditation more than once, the ruminating got less and less. So it was a cumulative benefit of repeating the meditation. Using The Meditation Workbook Anne (04:01):A lot of women when they know there's a workbook, it's like, what? That's not meditation.
1/23/202413 minutes, 9 seconds
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Brand New Meditations For Betrayal & Abuse Victims

This episode is Part 1 of The BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop series.Part 1: Brand New Meditations For Victims of Abuse & Betrayal (this episode)Part 2: Find Peace & Calm With Our New BTR MeditationsPart 3: New Meditations: Are You Ready to Start Healing? If you've experienced abuse and betrayal, you know chaos and despair. You also know deep yearning for peace and healing - and that's why Anne Blythe, Founder of BTR.ORG created The BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop. Pat, a member of the BTR.ORG community, shares her insights after taking this workshop - tune in and read the full transcript below for more. Empowerment. Release. Safety. Pat uses powerful words to describe her experiences with The BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop. She was able to process her own trauma in new ways - while also developing a determination to teach her children how to identify and establish safety for themselves. BTR.ORG Is Here For You As you work toward safety and healing, know that we are here for you. Navigating betrayal trauma and emotional abuse is extremely difficult - even more so without a supportive community. BTR.ORG exists to support you on your healing journey. Enroll in The BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop today and begin to feel the peace and empowerment that you deserve. Full Transcript: Welcome to BTR.ORG. This is Anne. So over the years, I found that for me, meditation was the most healing activity that I could do. I found meditations on YouTube and other places, and I would meditate. In my head, I'd always have to change it up a little bit for my own specific situation because they've been so healing to me. I decided to write meditations for you, for us women in our situation. (01:58):So the meditations that I wrote and recorded and edited, they are for women who are currently experiencing or who have experienced emotional or psychological abuse. Whether you're married or divorced or separated, they're for you and I'm so excited to get these into your hands so that you can start using them to heal. If the meditations sound like something that you want to try for your healing, enroll in The Meditation Workshop. I've invited a member of our community, I'm going to call her Pat, and she has been through the meditations and she's going to share her experience. So Pat, what was your favorite thing about the meditations? Processing Safety Through Meditations Pat (02:44):I love the focus on safety, and I don't think quite honestly, we talk about safety enough in our culture with women. Also, I appreciated the process of walking the idea of safety in all aspects of my life and then having the opportunity to release it. I found myself during the time that I was listening to the meditations contemplating safety in my life. It really opened the door for me to process. I realized that I have not felt safe in my environment ever. especially with my ex-husband. but I see how it was a really slippery slope with being numb to safety in my immediate environment during my marriage because in my culture, safety wasn't the norm. It was very helpful. "I am feeling more empowered to help [my daughters] process safety in their own lives." Pat, Member of the BTR.ORG Community I have four daughters, three adult daughters, and I still have one minor at home. Because I didn't feel safe in my marriage, I protected them subconsciously from my ex-husband, and now I know why. Now I feel more empowered to really help them process safety in their own lives because they've been conditioned as well in the environment that they grew up in to not really process their safety. I noticed that they also are numb to experiences that risk their safety because they don't process it. Anne (04:38):So the meditation helped you be aware of how you weren't safe? Pat (04:43):Absolutely. Anne (04:45):The interesting thing about the meditation is it is not very specific. It's kind of general because we wanted women to...
1/16/202427 minutes, 27 seconds
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Male Entitlement to Women’s Bodies: The Ugly Truth

Rachel Moran is back taking a deep dive into male entitlement to women's bodies - and its severe ramifications, including homicide.
1/9/202423 minutes, 31 seconds
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“Consent” Is Harming Us – Here’s How

The term consent is dangerous. Rachel, founder of Space International, shares her expertise and offers hope in correct language that protects sexual autonomy.
1/2/202425 minutes, 3 seconds
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Everything You Need to Know About Gaslighting

Uncover the intricacies of gaslighting as Dr. Robin Stern and Anne explore emotional abuse, exposing manipulation tactics and offering insights for victims.
12/26/202323 minutes, 21 seconds
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I Think My Husband Is Gaslighting Me

Gaslighting expert, Dr. Robin Stern, shares her expertise on the podcast - including detailing the three types of gaslighters.
12/19/202323 minutes, 23 seconds
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I’m Pregnant and In Trauma – Help Me!

Join Anne and Paige as they discuss the importance of nutrition and therapeutic activities for pregnant women navigating betrayal trauma and abuse.
12/12/202319 minutes, 34 seconds
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Can Herbal Medicine Help Betrayal Trauma Symptoms?

Betrayal trauma and abuse victims seek healing and peace from the symptoms of betrayal trauma and abuse. Paige is discussing the benefits of herbal medicines.
12/5/202314 minutes, 17 seconds
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Is My Husband Enmeshed With His Mother?

Enmeshment is a concept that can be difficult to understand, especially in the context of betrayal trauma and abuse. Paige is discussing enmeshment.
11/28/202329 minutes, 12 seconds
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The Dangers of Armchair Pathology

What is "Armchair Pathology" and how is it harming betrayal trauma victims? Paige is on The BTR.ORG Podcast. Tune in to find out.
11/21/202328 minutes, 45 seconds
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Are You Ready to Experience Post-Traumatic Growth?

Simona studied post-traumatic growth in victims of betrayal trauma - her findings may surprise and inspire you on your journey to healing.
11/14/202329 minutes, 35 seconds
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My Husband Lies About Small Things – I’m Worried

Does your husband lie about small things? That behavior can be a HUGE red flag. Virginia is on the podcast with Anne, diving into psychological abuse.
11/7/202325 minutes, 45 seconds
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What You Need to Know About Emotional Abuse

Is your marriage just hard, as marriage can sometimes be? Or are you experiencing emotional abuse? Virginia is on the podcast with Anne.
10/31/202322 minutes, 12 seconds
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How To Say No, And When To Say Yes

Anne's daughter Penny is on the podcast, sharing her philosophy on how to say no and when to say yes.
10/24/202326 minutes, 22 seconds
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Is Porn Addiction the Real Problem in Your Marriage?

You thought you finally got to the truth when he disclosed porn use, but it's still bad. So what's the REAL problem in your marriage?
10/19/20230
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Can I Be a Peacemaker if My Husband is Abusive?

Creating peace in an abusive dynamic is often tasked to victims. Anne talks about strategies women can use in the short-term to experience respite from chaos.
10/17/202310 minutes, 35 seconds
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BTR is Pro-Safety (And Abusers HATE That)

BTR is pro-safety - and sometimes that means divorce. And abusers? They hate that. Anne is going over some negative reviews from abusive men. Tune in.
10/10/202320 minutes, 53 seconds
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If Something Feels Off, It Probably Is Off

Angela Craig and Tausha Haight were victims of abusive husbands. Anne sheds light on psychological and emotional abuse.
10/3/202324 minutes, 2 seconds
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Clergy, Court Professionals, Counselors: Help, Don’t Harm

Anne uses the Bible to share her feelings regarding how people in positions of authority should help ease the suffering victims of betrayal and abuse.
9/26/202333 minutes, 12 seconds
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Do I Have Betrayal Trauma? 26 Symptoms

Betrayal hurts. Use this list of 26 symptoms to help you determine if you have Betrayal Trauma - and learn your first steps toward healing & emotional safety.
9/21/20230
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3 Empowering Mantras For Abuse & Betrayal Victims

Ready to practice radical self-compassion? Dr. Stephanie Powell is back on the podcast sharing professional experience and empowering sentiments.
9/19/202326 minutes, 14 seconds
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What Sex Trafficking Really Looks Like

Are you a victim of sex trafficking? Dr. Stephanie Powell from NCOSE is on the BTR.ORG Podcast defining sex trafficking - listen now.
9/12/202321 minutes, 46 seconds
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3 Subtle Ways Misogyny Creeps Into Our Minds

Misogyny thrives in societies where it's allowed to be hidden and covert. And we all know that misogyny fuels abuse. Dr. Jessica Taylor is back on the podcast.
9/5/202326 minutes, 47 seconds
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Why is My Abusive Ex Fighting So Hard in Court?

Why do abusive men fight so hard in the family court systems? Especially when they were never really all that interested before? Dr. Jessica Taylor is back.
8/29/202320 minutes, 35 seconds
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How Do Abusers Gaslight Victims (& Advocates)?

Gaslighting can be obvious, gaslighting can be subtle. Dr. Jessica Taylor, author of Why Women Are Blamed For Everything is on the BTR.ORG Podcast.
8/22/202321 minutes, 18 seconds
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Why Do I Feel CRAZY in My Relationship?

Jane Gilmore is back, explaining how the media is doing a major disservice to abuse victims by misrepresenting what abuse often looks like.
8/15/202328 minutes, 33 seconds
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Is it My Fault That My Husband is Angry?

Jane Gilmore is back, explaining with logic and powerful stories & examples, why your husband's feelings and behavior are NOT your responsibility or your fault.
8/8/202319 minutes, 1 second
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How Do I Know if I’m Really Giving My Consent?

Jane Gilmore is on the podcast discussing sexual grooming and consent - and how you can know if your sexual experiences are truly consensual.
8/1/202319 minutes, 35 seconds
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Is My Husband Manipulating Me Into Having Sex?

Consent is more than giving or getting a yes. Jane Gilmore is back on the BTR.ORG podcast discussing consent and sexual coercion.
7/25/202319 minutes, 55 seconds
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I Said Yes to Sex, But Felt Dead Inside

Consent is NOT simply giving a "yes" - Jane Gilmore is on the podcast giving a crystal clear definition of consent to help you on your journey to safety.
7/18/202319 minutes, 21 seconds
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How Trauma Has Affected My Sexuality

Anne's crush on Indiana Jones may be revealing that trauma has affected her sexuality. She tells all in this short episode.
7/11/202313 minutes, 5 seconds
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Stop Telling Victims to Forgive Their Abuser!

Have you been counseled to forgive the abuser in your life? Learn why the concept of forgiveness can be harmful to victims.
7/4/202325 minutes, 3 seconds
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Faith Triumphs Over Satanic Ritual Sexual Abuse

TW: Anna M. Jonathan developed a new relationship with her Higher Power after surviving satanic ritual sex abuse as a child.
6/27/202323 minutes, 23 seconds
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Seeking Divorce Without Familial Support

Anna M. Jonathan sought safety from her abusive husband without familial support - if you're in a similar situation, learn more.
6/20/202328 minutes, 1 second
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Here’s the Truth About Reunification Camps

Reunification camps are traumatizing children and ruining lives. Tina Swithin is back on the BTR.ORG podcast shedding light on this lucrative, abusive industry.
6/13/202322 minutes, 23 seconds
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What You Need to Know About Reunification Therapy

Tina Swithin, author, blogger, and children's rights advocate, is on the podcast telling you what you need to know about reunification therapy.
6/6/202325 minutes, 36 seconds
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Is It Okay To Divorce If I’m Not Sure It’s Abuse?

You do not need definitive proof or physical violence to justify ending your marriage. Women can trust THEMSELVES on the journey to safety.
5/30/202324 minutes, 58 seconds
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When Your Husband Doesn’t Help With Housework

When your husband doesn't help with housework, takes a backseat to parenting, and controls the finances, you may be experiencing coercive control.
5/23/202327 minutes, 36 seconds
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When Your Husband Is A Narcissistic Abuser

When your partner is a narcissistic abuser, you need support and self-care to set boundaries and find the safety you need to experience peace.
5/18/20230
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How Does Psychological Abuse Affect You?

It's not JUST gaslighting and manipulation - it's a serious form of harm. So how does psychological abuse affect you? Christina's on the podcast.
5/16/202329 minutes, 38 seconds
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How To Help Your Teen Avoid Abusive Relationships

Teens can be victims of emotional abuse - and Lucy is on the podcast to share how she identifies red flags in potential dating partners. Tune in for more.
5/9/202327 minutes, 23 seconds
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What Does Post-Separation Abuse Look Like?

Post-Separation is all-too common. Laurel is on the podcast sharing her experience and answering the question: What Does Post-Separation Abuse Look Like?
5/2/202320 minutes, 56 seconds
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How Do Abusers Gaslight You? REAL LIFE Examples!

What does gaslighting actually look like in a marriage? Laurel's on the podcast this week - tune in for some real-life examples of gaslighting.
4/25/202329 minutes, 16 seconds
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Pornography Addiction Recovery Groups

Do pornography addiction recovery groups help abusive men stop harming women and children? Short answer - uh, no. Laurel is back on the BTR.ORG podcast.
4/18/202323 minutes, 46 seconds
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3 Ways to Know He’s Love Bombing You

Is your husband or boyfriend love bombing you? Laurel is on the podcast, discussing love bombing, also known as "grooming". Tune in!
4/11/202323 minutes, 41 seconds
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Why Do I Want To Fix My Abusive Husband?

When your husband is abusive, you may desperately want to fix his behavior to save your marriage; Dr. Natalie Jones is back on the podcast.
4/4/202320 minutes, 54 seconds
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My Husband Says He’s Not Attracted To Me

Narcissistic abusers pick on physical features. Dr. Natalie Jones is on the podcast sharing her expertise in narcissistic abuse in the BIPOC community.
3/28/202322 minutes, 10 seconds
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After Betrayal Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

Instead of asking, "Should I Stay or Should I Go", ask THESE questions, that can help you determine your husband's level of safety.
3/21/202322 minutes, 55 seconds
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Do’s & Don’ts When Confronting Your Abusive Husband

You've identified abuse - and confronting your husband may seem like the logical next step, but the truth is that he'll use your confrontation to harm you.
3/14/202327 minutes, 12 seconds
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How Do I Know If My Abusive Husband’s Changing?

Your husband says he wants to change and you believe him. Learn how to safely observe if he's truly changing or if it's just more grooming and gaslighting.
3/7/202323 minutes, 54 seconds
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Are You Married to a Covert Narcissist?

Covert narcissistic abuse is difficult to identify and even harder to escape - learn from Claire's journey and take steps to get yourself to safety.
2/28/202325 minutes, 14 seconds
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My Abusive Ex Keeps Texting Me – What Should I Do?

Do you get a pit in your stomach when your phone dings? Learn more about strategic communication as Anne interviews two fathers of victims.
2/21/202339 minutes, 11 seconds
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3 Ways to Help Your Abused Daughter

Is your daughter a victim of betrayal and abuse? Please be the parent that she deserves - learn more on the BTR.ORG podcast.
2/14/202325 minutes, 28 seconds
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3 Things Manipulative Men Say To Keep You Stuck

Trying to discern if you're being manipulated by your husband? An abuser emailed Anne - an her response may help you identify manipulation.
2/7/202320 minutes, 34 seconds
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Find Support For Emotional Abuse

If you're a victim of betrayal trauma and emotional abuse, you need support. Come find the community you deserve today.
1/31/202317 minutes, 30 seconds
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Patriarchy Harms Women: Here’s How

Have you been raised in a high-control religion, or other system that enables abuse? Learn about how patriarchy has harmed you and begin seeking safety.
1/24/202329 minutes, 26 seconds
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How Fundamentalism & Patriarchy Fuel Abuse

When women are treated as "less than," no matter how subtle the treatment may be, abuse thrives. Fundamentalist religious groups are notoriously misogynistic.
1/17/202329 minutes, 5 seconds
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Mind-Blowing Truth: Good Men Exist! 🤯

If you're wondering whether or not good men ACTUALLY exist, then you're in the right place. Gretchen Baskerville is back on the BTR.ORG podcast.
1/10/202325 minutes, 21 seconds
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A Glimpse Into Single Life Post-Divorce

Are you reluctant to pursue a life-saving divorce because of the harmful myths that inundate us regarding divorce and the single-life?
1/3/202324 minutes, 43 seconds
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Does “God Hate Divorce”?

Letting go of deeply ingrained, toxic religious teachings can be difficult - but BTR.ORG is here for you. Emily is on the podcast.
12/27/202234 minutes, 19 seconds
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I Think My Husband’s Lying To Me

Things aren't adding up... There's a feeling that something is "off"... and that blank stare on his face - is your husband lying to you? Emily's on the podcast
12/20/202225 minutes, 3 seconds
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Do I Tell My Husband He’s Abusing Me?

When you know it's abuse, should you tell your husband? Leslie is back on the BTR podcast and we're taking a deep dive into your next steps.
12/13/202225 minutes, 9 seconds
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The Truth About “Reactive Abuse”

"Reactive Abuse" isn't real - what IS real? Abusers pushing and pushing until victims reach their limit and respond with Protective Action.
12/6/202219 minutes, 57 seconds
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What Do Abuse Victims Look Like?

Abuse victims come in all shapes, sizes, religions, and economic demographics - Leslie is a successful doctor sharing her story.
11/29/202231 minutes, 25 seconds
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Did You Know This Is Sexual Abuse?

Image-Based Sexual Abuse, formerly known as "revenge porn" has affected many women in our community. Christen Price from NCOSE is back on the BTR.ORG podcast.
11/22/202221 minutes, 55 seconds
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This Is Why Porn Is Abuse

Christen Price from NCOSE is on the BTR.ORG Podcast, taking a deep dive into the topic of Image-Based Sexual Abuse. Learn more.
11/15/202227 minutes, 6 seconds
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The Secret to Healthy Marriage

Many victims of abuse want a healthy, loving relationship. Nora's sharing the ending of her story - which includes the 👉🏽 secret of healthy relationships 👈🏽
11/8/202226 minutes, 15 seconds
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When Your Husband Uses CSAM

👉🏽 Did your ex use Child Sex Abuse Material? Nora is sharing her story. Trauma for her ex's CSAM use has affected the whole family. Read more. 👈🏽
11/1/202228 minutes, 23 seconds
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This Is Why Your Husband Shows No Empathy 💔

💔 Is it autism? Addiction? Pornography? Mental illness? Or is it a choice to be abusive and devoid of empathy? Nora is on the podcast with Anne.
10/25/202222 minutes, 46 seconds
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Is Healthy Marriage a Myth?

Are you, like many women in our community, wondering if healthy marriage is a myth? Chandra's here to tell you about her own experience.
10/18/202226 minutes, 15 seconds
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Abusive Second Marriage? You’re Not Alone

Have you experienced an abusive second marriage? Chandra is on the BTR.ORG Podcast to share her own experiencing marrying an abuser a second time.
10/11/202224 minutes, 27 seconds
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Abandonment: What You Need to Know

Many women in the BTR.ORG community face the trauma of abandonment. Chandra is on the BTR.ORG podcast sharing her story.
10/4/202229 minutes, 20 seconds
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This is How Abusers Control the Narrative

When the abuser controls the narrative it's terrifying - we worry that no one will believe us. Sometimes we don't even believe ourselves.
9/27/202226 minutes, 49 seconds
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5 Red Flags You Need To Know

Ayla and Anne on the BTR.ORG podcast discussing the subtle (and not-so-subtle) red flags of abuse that you need to know TODAY.
9/20/202231 minutes, 53 seconds
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Am I Being Spiritually Abused?

Are you asking the question, "Am I Being Spiritually Abused?" This interview is for you. Anne and Abby take a deep dive into deliverance from spiritual abuse.
9/13/202235 minutes, 39 seconds
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Is Marriage Meant To Be This Hard?

When everyone tells women that marriage is supposed to be hard, it can be much more difficult for victims to seek safety.
9/6/202227 minutes, 42 seconds
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3 Attacks to Anticipate When Leaving Abuse

Are you just about ready to leave the abuser? Read up on 3 common attacks abusers employ to keep up the power-over dynamic.
8/30/202232 minutes, 29 seconds
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What Consent Actually Looks Like

Let's talk about what consent IS, and what consent is NOT. Elizabeth is on the podcast sharing her story publicly for the very first time.
8/23/202233 minutes, 29 seconds
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The Truth About Divorce

Organizations like Focus on the Family want you to believe that divorce is going to ruin everything. Let's learn the truth about divorce.
8/16/202223 minutes, 46 seconds
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Busting 3 Divorce Myths Now

Three pervasive divorce myths are harming victims. Let's bust those myths with Gretchen Baskerville, author of Life-Saving Divorce.
8/9/202228 minutes, 11 seconds
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You Deserve Safety. Now.

Identifying abuse is difficult for victims - seeking safety is the next step and BTR.ORG is here for you as you begin your journey to healing.
8/2/202222 minutes, 36 seconds
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Has Your Church Harmed You?

Have you sought help from clergy only to be blamed or counseled to stay in an abusive situation? You are not alone. Learn more here.
7/26/202220 minutes, 44 seconds
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Here’s The Truth About Couple’s Therapy

If you're considering couple's therapy as a way to save your marriage, then this is for you. Couple's therapy is notoriously harmful in an abuse scenario.
7/19/202223 minutes, 58 seconds
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Live In Reality (How To Heal)

Is healing from betrayal and abuse even possible? Yes! Andrea Hipps is back on the BTR podcast sharing how living in reality is key.
7/12/202218 minutes, 44 seconds
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Your New Life Post-Divorce

Divorce can feel daunting, but Andrea Hipps brings a fresh perspective - your new life is waiting for you! Andrea Hipps and Anne on the BTR Podcast.
7/5/202224 minutes, 40 seconds
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3 Ways They Blame Abuse Victims

Kate is back on the BTR podcast discussing victim blaming modalities with Anne. 3 Ways they blame abuse victims, including Stockholm syndrome & codependency.
6/28/202224 minutes, 32 seconds
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The Ways They Victim Blame You

Kate and Anne are on the podcast discussing victim blaming modalities. Take a deep dive with them into the ways abusers & enablers victim blame you.
6/21/202220 minutes, 5 seconds
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Shame Didn’t Make Him Do It

He may blame his porn use and other abusive behaviors on "shame", but Kate and Anne break it down on the BTR podcast. Shame didn't make him do it.
6/14/202222 minutes, 58 seconds
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The Sex Addiction Myth Exposed

Kate and Anne take a deep dive into the myth of sex addiction - and explain why every victim needs to understand the truth about the sex addiction model.
6/7/202218 minutes, 40 seconds
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3 Common Triggers For Victims

Too many victims experience horrible triggers when friends, families, and others say insensitive, harmful, and/or abusive things. Kate and Anne on the podcast.
5/31/202228 minutes, 24 seconds
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This Is Why They Say We’re Crazy

Calling women crazy is keeping abusive men in power. It's been working for centuries and it's still working now. Kate Moore is on the BTR podcast.
5/24/202221 minutes, 4 seconds
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Men Need to Stop Calling Us Crazy

When men call women crazy, there are serious ramifications. Kate Moore is on the BTR podcast sharing Elizabeth Packard's story.
5/17/202228 minutes, 14 seconds
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3 Ways Narcissists Groom Victims

Narcissistic abusers will do whatever they can develop and maintain a power-over dynamic. Learn the 3 ways that narcissistic abusers groom victims.
5/10/20220
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What Are BTR Group Sessions?

Many victims spend years, even decades, struggling to identify the abuse in their relationships. BTR Group Sessions can help you on your journey to healing.
5/3/202226 minutes, 54 seconds
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How To Set Boundaries Around Sex

Abusers condition victims to believe that setting sexual boundaries is selfish -but you deserve sexual and emotional safety. Sheila Gregoire on the BTR podcast.
4/26/202222 minutes, 50 seconds
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How To Make Sex Great For You!

Betrayal and abuse can make sex traumatizing. But great sex doesn't have to be permanently off the table. Sheila Gregoire is back on the BTR podcast.
4/19/202230 minutes, 44 seconds
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The Truth About “Porn Addiction”

Faith communities, therapists, and others treat porn use like an addiction issue. The reality is that abusive men often use porn.
4/12/202221 minutes, 36 seconds
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When Churches Harm Abuse Victims

Your faith community should be a place of respite and support. But too many victims find clergy ignorant, harmful, and tragically, abusive. Learn more.
4/5/202224 minutes, 53 seconds
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Should I Separate From My Husband?

The decision to separate can be daunting for victims of abuse. Lorelai joins Anne on the BTR podcast to discuss her own separation
3/29/202220 minutes, 6 seconds
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How Do I Know If It’s Abuse?

Abusers condition victims to struggle with discerning reality. If you're here, you are trying to figure out if you are being abused. We can help.
3/22/202226 minutes, 4 seconds
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How To Find Confidence Post-Abuse

If you're like other victims of abuse, then you may feel like you've lost your self-confidence. Learn how to begin finding it again.
3/15/202220 minutes, 40 seconds
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Parenting When Your Ex is Abusive

Parenting is hard enough, but when your ex is abusive? Navigating the world of parenting can feel downright overwhelming. Michelle Donnelly on the BTR podcast.
3/8/202219 minutes, 44 seconds
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Post-Separation Abuse: The Truth

If only abuse stopped after divorce... but abusers still seek power and control over victims. Learn the truth about post-separation abuse.
3/1/202223 minutes, 57 seconds
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Is Biblical Submission Abuse?

More and more women have described this term being used to perpetuate a pervasive type of abuse that all too often goes unnoticed. Perhaps one can ask, is the term 'biblical submission' synonymous with spiritual abuse?
2/22/202223 minutes, 53 seconds
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The Reality Of Spiritual Abuse

Spiritual abuse doesn't only affect religious women. Your beliefs about justice, hope, and karma may come crashing around you after spiritual abuse.
2/15/202221 minutes, 10 seconds
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3 Reasons to Learn About Abuse

Feel overwhelmed at the thought of learning more about abuse? Here are three reasons it's a good idea to begin delving into your abuse education.
2/8/202222 minutes, 43 seconds
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BTRG Is Your Safe Space: Join Us

Looking for a safe space to process your trauma and begin your journey to healing? Then BTRG is the place for you. Coach Christina on the BTR podcast.
2/1/202227 minutes, 36 seconds
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Misogyny in Faith Communities

Misogyny harms everyone: men, women, and children. Valerie Hudson and Anne Blythe take a deep dive into misogyny in faith communities.
1/25/202222 minutes, 20 seconds
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Loving Your Abuser: Three Myths

Have you been counseled to "love your enemies"? Take a deep dive into what this actually means with Valerie Hudson.
1/18/202225 minutes, 46 seconds
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The Truth About Forgiving Abuse

Everything we thought we knew about forgiveness blamed victims and enabled abuse. Valerie Hudson joins Anne on the BTR podcast.
1/11/202226 minutes, 57 seconds
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Justice For Pornhub Victims

Pornhub is abusive and exploitative. Is justice available to victims of sexual exploitation? Dani Pinter joins Anne on the free BTR Podcast.
1/4/202222 minutes, 7 seconds
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Heal The Trauma In your Body

The trauma from sexual coercion, betrayal, emotional abuse, and gaslighting can wreck havoc in your body. Coach Denalee shares how to begin finding healing.
12/28/202120 minutes, 6 seconds
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How To Heal The Chaos of Abuse

Healing from the chaos of abuse may feel impossible, but with the right tools, you can do it. Coach Denalee shares simple steps you can take to begin healing.
12/21/202121 minutes, 45 seconds
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The Abusive Scripts That Harm Us

What unconscious beliefs and scripts have been harming victims for centuries? Dr. Omar Minwalla takes a deep dive with Anne.
12/14/202122 minutes, 48 seconds
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Betrayal is Abuse, Here’s Why

Betrayal isn't a marriage issue - it's an abuse issue. Dr. Omar Minwalla joins Anne on the free BTR podcast to explain and empower.
12/7/202147 minutes, 30 seconds
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The Secret Sexual Basement

A deep dive into the truth about why sexual betrayal is an domestic abuse with Dr. Omar MInwall and Anne Blythe on the BTR podcast.
11/30/202137 minutes, 4 seconds
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How Does Infidelity Harm Victims?

Intimate betrayal can affect a victim and her children long after the abuser has left the picture. Learn more about the affects of infidelity.
11/23/202117 minutes, 57 seconds
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Trauma Victims Deserve THIS Love

Betrayal trauma and abuse can condition victims to believe that they are not worthy of love. Learn what kind of love YOU deserve.
11/16/202121 minutes, 56 seconds
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The Truth About Spiritual Abuse

Spiritual abuse is often more subtle and overlooked than we realize. Learn the truth about spiritual abuse and how to begin healing here.
11/9/202131 minutes, 8 seconds
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Is BTRG Right For Me?

Wondering if the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group (BTRG) is a good fit for your healing journey? Learn more about how BTRG can help you.
11/2/202124 minutes, 5 seconds
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You Are Not Your Husband’s Object

Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta's book, Married Sex, is traumatizing victims of sexual coercion and marital rape. Learn more.
10/28/202127 minutes, 34 seconds
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PornHub Is Simply Abuse Videos

Laila MIckelwait exposes PornHub for what it really is - a cesspool of abuse videos. Learn how you can help take it down today.
10/26/202130 minutes, 49 seconds
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Facing Your Divorce Fears

Face your fears about divorce and find the support you need from the BTR.ORG community. Anne discusses common fears and available support.
10/19/202132 minutes, 37 seconds
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Why Is God Ignoring Me?

Women of faith communities may feel abandoned by God when they experience abuse and betrayal. Support is necessary and BTR is here for you.
10/12/202128 minutes, 53 seconds
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Become Fearless, Free, and Uncontrollable

You deserve safety - become fearless, free, and uncontrollable as you seek support here in the BTR.ORG community. We love you. We believe you.
10/5/202128 minutes, 51 seconds
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3 Power Phrases You Need Today

Finding safety from abuse takes courage, determination, and incredible strength. You can choose now to stop complying with abuse.
9/28/202129 minutes, 42 seconds
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Help Prevent Human Trafficking

Anne Basham, human rights activist, joins Anne on the BTR podcast to teach listeners how to prevent human trafficking. Go to BTR.org for more.
9/21/202125 minutes, 31 seconds
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Human Trafficking & Abusive Men

A deep dive into the correlations between human trafficking, pornography, and domestic abuse. Anne Basham joins Anne on the BTR podcast.
9/14/202129 minutes, 36 seconds
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When He Uses The Kids To Hurt You

Victims can seek deliverance from the family court system, abusive clergy, and abusive partners even when these systems and individuals continue to harm them.
9/7/202132 minutes, 37 seconds
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The Manufactured Relational Tether

What is "The Manufactured Emotional Tether"? It's a tool abusers use to keep you stuck in an abusive situation, believing that there is no way out. Learn more.
8/31/202140 minutes, 48 seconds
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3 Signs of An Abusive Therapist

Have you felt uncomfortable, exploited, or abused by your therapist? Dee joins Anne to share her story of finding safety from her abusive therapist.
8/24/202142 minutes, 35 seconds
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What Is Brain Defense?

Kristen Jensen empowers children and teens to protect themselves from the dangers of the internet, including pornography, with the new curriculum: Brain Defense.
8/17/202124 minutes, 12 seconds
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How To Find Safety From Abuse

Leslie Vernick joins Anne to shed light on how victims of betrayal and abuse can seek safety and peace from abusive relationships. 3 steps you can take today.
8/10/202130 minutes, 45 seconds
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What Does God Say About Abuse?

Leslie Vernick shares the Biblical Christian view of abuse, betrayal, and healing.
8/3/202128 minutes, 9 seconds
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How To Support Betrayal Victims

To family and friends of the victims of betrayal and emotional abuse: learn how to support and validate them as they process their trauma. BTR can help.
7/27/202118 minutes, 32 seconds
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Betrayed? You Are Not Alone

Are you feeling isolated and alone in your feelings of fear, shame, anxiety, and depression? Betrayal Trauma Recovery is here for you. Don't suffer in silence.
7/20/202120 minutes, 27 seconds
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BTR Is Your Resource For Support

No matter where you are on your journey to healing, BTR is here for you. Read on to know how BTR can support you as you work toward the life that you deserve.
7/13/202124 minutes, 52 seconds
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Divorcing An Abuser 101

Are you ready to break the cycle of abuse in your life? Divorce may be the answer for you. Learn the basics of divorcing an abuser with Wendy Hernandez.
7/6/202121 minutes, 42 seconds
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Avoiding Chaos in the Courtroom

Experiencing abuse, lies, and betrayal can leave you feeling in a fog. It can feel overwhelming. May be you are thinking: Can I stay? Am I going to take the step toward separation? What about divorce? What is going to happen? Regardless of what ends up happening, you can takes steps to ensure safety, preparation, and peace in the process as much as possible. Emotional Abuse Can Escalate During Separation Wendy Hernandez, creator of Command the Courtroom, says that women in situations of emotional abuse can and should begin to prepare early for various possibilities that can happen along the journey. "Often times the emotional abuse is in the form of legal abuse, once the divorce has gotten started. It can turn into a scorched earth type of litigation that goes on not only for months, but years. It can be destructive. Whoever is going through this, must do what makes sense for them. It can be a balance." -Wendy Hernandez, Command the Courtroom What is Post-Separation Abuse? It is important to focus on safety in the midst of the trauma and chaos of litigation. It can be hard to heal when safety is not secured. Post-separation abuse can and does occur, as the abuse just changes forms. Legal draining, constant litigation, and using the kids as pawns as some of the ways post-separation abuse can manifest. Here are some helpful hints for preparing for Post-Separation Abuse: Documentation is KEY!Communicate only in writing. Keep communication centered on children.Consider using an app or program like Our Family Wizard or Custody X Change.Be sure to respond appropriately to communication regarding children. BTR Can Be There For You The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group is here for you. Join today and find a community of women who understand. You are not alone, no matter what.
6/29/202123 minutes, 42 seconds
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Will I Ever Trust Again?

Abused and betrayed women wonder if they will ever recover their desire and ability to have trusting relationships. Dr. Deb Silber offers insight and advice.
6/22/202117 minutes, 46 seconds
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From Betrayal To Breakthrough

How can betrayal victims begin thriving and finding themselves after betrayal? Dr. Debi Silber shares the five stages from betrayal to breakthrough.
6/15/202126 minutes, 31 seconds
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Porn Is Abuse: Here’s Why

When your husband participates in a secret sexual life, whether it's over the internet, with another person, or in his own thoughts, he is abusing you.
6/9/202118 minutes, 22 seconds
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The Truth About Betrayal Trauma

Knowing the truth about betrayal trauma is the first step to finding healing, peace, and hope. Betrayal trauma is the result of abuse. BTR can help. Read more.
6/1/202122 minutes, 48 seconds
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Clean Browsing Helps Your Kids

You are not powerless against pornography. Clean Browsing empowers mothers to protect their children from the harms of pornography. Learn more.
5/25/202118 minutes, 21 seconds
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I Saw Porn On My Husband’s Phone

You just found porn on your husband's device. Now what?
5/18/202128 minutes, 11 seconds
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3 Toxic Sex Myths That Harm Women

Sheila Gregoire, author of The Great Sex Rescue, deconstructs toxic sex myths to empower women in their journeys to safety.
5/11/202123 minutes
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Sexuality 101 For Betrayed Women

Abusive men condition women to view sexuality through a lens of pain, confusion, and fear. Sheila Gregoire guides victims to understand the truth about sex.
5/4/202124 minutes, 4 seconds
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Fighting A Narcissist For Custody

Wondering how to fight for your children as you divorce your narcissistic abuser? Tina Swithin shares powerful insights.
4/27/202126 minutes, 20 seconds
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3 Ways To Prepare To Divorce your Narcissist

It's never too early or too late to begin preparing to divorce your narcissistic abuser. Here are 3 tips from Tina Swithin to help you on your journey to healing.
4/20/202126 minutes, 5 seconds
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How Does Prayer Help Abuse Victims?

Do you feel afraid? Overwhelmed? Alone? Prayer can help you as you navigate your journey to healing.
4/13/202138 minutes, 55 seconds
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3 Values We Can Expect From Men

When you've only known abuse and betrayal, what can you really expect from men? Learn 3 values that you can expect, and what to do when men choose to abuse.
4/6/202134 minutes, 32 seconds
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My Husband Calls Me Abusive

Grounding yourself in truth and safety when your husband calls you abusive.
3/30/202133 minutes, 29 seconds
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Your Husband Is Devaluing You

Do you feel confused? Alone? Afraid? Your husband may be devaluing you. Learn more.
3/23/202130 minutes, 6 seconds
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Is Your Husband Grooming You?

He says he's changed. He's made serious promises. But how do you know it's real? Is your husband grooming you? Find out here.
3/16/202118 minutes, 41 seconds
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When Your Husband Is Clergy

Is your abuser also your spiritual or religious leader? Learn what you can do to keep yourself safe.
3/9/202122 minutes, 44 seconds
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You Can’t Fix Your Abuser

You can't cause, control, or cure the abuser: you can't fix your abuser. You can only set boundaries and seek safety for yourself. BTR can help.
3/2/202139 minutes, 49 seconds
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BTR.ORG Group Sessions Are For YOU!

Have you been ignored, dismissed, minimized, vilified, and torn down by those who should have helped you? BTR.ORG Group Sessions are for YOU!
2/23/202117 minutes, 30 seconds
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4 Behaviors of Pornography Users

Do you suspect that your partner is using porn? Have you discovered pornographic material on his phone or computer? These 4 tell-tale behaviors of pornography users will validate you and help you understand how his behavior is harming you. Tiffany Barnes join Anne Blythe on the free BTR podcast to share her insights and experience regarding the ways pornography users abuse women. Read the full transcript below and listen to the free BTR podcast for more. Pornography Users Gaslight Victims Gaslighting is a universal tool of abusers. By distorting the victim's reality, porn users can avoid accountability and shift blame onto the victim. Gaslighting is also known as crazy-making. When Tiffany would confront her abusive ex-partner about his pornography use, she was gaslit: He just tried to make me feel like I was being crazy, and I did. I questioned it a few times; am Icrazy? Is this just me being ultra-paranoid or something? Pornography Users Attempt To Normalize Their Porn Use Often, pornography users employ tactics to make their sexually depraved behaviors appear normal to avoid accountability and make the victim feel "prude", boring, or immature. Some of the ways that pornography users attempt to normalize porn are: "Hiding" pornographic material in plain sightCalling pornographic material "art"Saying things like, "Everyone does this"; "I'm a guy, that's what guys do"; or "No other woman would have issues about my porn use."Saying that they use pornography to help the marriage/relationship become strongerBlaming the victim by saying things like, "If you would have sex with me more, I wouldn't do this." Pornography is NOT a healthy and natural piece of human sexuality: it is abuse and exploitation. When victims can ground themselves in this truth, their partner's manipulation won't work any more. Pornography Users Dehumanize Their Partners Many women report being photographed, videotaped, or even live-streamed by their abusive partners. Women are sexually coerced, degraded, and physically harmed when phonography users demand sexual contact. Pornography itself is objectification: selling women's bodies for money. When men choose to view pornographic material, they are by default objectifying other human beings. This rarely stays compartmentalized. Pornography users dehumanize their partners by:Fantasizing about themAsking them to perform sexual acts that the victims are not comfortable withAsking victims to view pornography with themDemanding or guilting partners into having sexual contactFilming, photographing, or otherwise sharing sexual photos of victims, with or without consent Pornography Users Sexually Coerce Partners Any time a man has sexual contact with his partner without fully disclosing his sexual history, including pornography use, he is guilty of sexual coercion. Healthy sex is consensual. Women cannot give informed consent when men withhold key information about their own sexual behaviors. This is sexual coercion, a serious form of sexual abuse. If you think you are being sexually coerced by your partner, ask yourself: Have we ever had sexual contact when he had used phonography but hadn't told me? If the answer is yes, then you are a victim of sexual abuse. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xkPH4zkxJYw Betrayal Trauma Recovery Supports Victims of Pornography Users At BTR, we understand the confusion, fear, and devastation that women experience when their partner is using porn. That is why we created the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group: so that women can have access to multiple, live sessions every day. The BTRG gives women the opportunity to process trauma, ask questions, and share difficult feelings in a safe place. Join today. Full Transcript: Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery, this is Anne. I have some amazing news! We just surpassed 1 million downloads to the podcast, which I never everimagined would happen,
2/16/202127 minutes, 2 seconds
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Emancipate Yourself From Emotional Abuse

You deserve safety, authentic love, and healing. Emancipate yourself from abuse today.
2/9/202126 minutes, 6 seconds
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3 Ways To Process Trauma With Art

Art can help victims of emotional abuse and betrayal process their trauma.
2/2/202125 minutes, 16 seconds
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3 Ways Your Husband Is “Meatloafing” You

Does your abuser make big promises but refuse or "forget" to follow through? Learn about "meatloafing".
1/26/202123 minutes, 13 seconds
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I’m a Victim of Narcissistic Abuse, But They’re Calling ME Crazy

Narcissistic abusers & their flying monkeys (enablers) accuse victims of being overly sensitive, cruel, and crazy. BTR can help you find safety and peace.
1/19/202134 minutes, 3 seconds
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3 Ways Your Abuser is Grooming You (& How To Get To Safety)

Does he say he's changing, but you still feel unheard and confused? Learn how your abuser is grooming you and how to find safety.
1/12/202119 minutes, 42 seconds
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Immeasurable Pain: When Husbands Sexually Abuse Their Wives

When men sexually abuse their wives, they are causing immeasurable harm. Women can seek healing and justice.
1/5/202123 minutes, 38 seconds
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3 Roadblocks That Keep Victims of Abuse & Sexual Coercion Stuck

Why victims of abuse and sexual coercion are afraid to leave their abusers and resources to help them leave.
12/29/202033 minutes
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How To Protect Yourself From In-Law Abuse (Plus 12 Ways Enablers Harm Victims)

Are you a victim of in-law abuse? Learn more here.
12/22/202026 minutes, 21 seconds
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How Can I Start Implementing No Contact Today?

You CAN implement a no contact boundary, even if it feels impossible. Learn more here.
12/15/202029 minutes, 9 seconds
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3 Ironclad Steps To Safely Leave Your Abuser

Ready to leave your abusive partner? 3 must-know steps as you prepare to seek safety.
12/9/202035 minutes, 37 seconds
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3 Ways Healthy Womanhood Helps Victims Of Emotional Abuse

When victims of betrayal and abuse embrace healthy womanhood, they can begin the journey to healing.
12/1/202021 minutes, 10 seconds
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How Can Feminism Help Me Heal From Betrayal Trauma?

When victims of betrayal and abuse understand their worth as human beings, they can begin their journey to healing.
11/24/202022 minutes, 57 seconds
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Post-Traumatic Growth: Will I Ever Be Okay Again?

Victims of abuse and betrayal CAN heal and experience post-traumatic growth with safety and support.
11/17/202018 minutes, 3 seconds
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New Age Bypass Is Victim-Blaming

Victims of betrayal and abuse can learn to identify and reject New Age Bypass tactics as they begin healing. BTR can help.
11/10/202025 minutes, 18 seconds
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3 Tips To Protect You From Clergy Sexual Misconduct

No woman deserves to be victimized by the clergy she trusts. Dave Gemmel provides 3 tips to protect you today.
11/3/202022 minutes, 42 seconds
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The Truth About Clergy Sexual Misconduct

When clergy use their position of authority to take advantage of trust, they may be committing clergy sexual misconduct. Learn more.
10/27/202025 minutes, 1 second
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Dating After Betrayal: 3 Tips

Victims of betrayal and emotional abuse may be concerned about dating after an abusive relationship. Jessica Skybar offers empowering tips.
10/20/202022 minutes, 40 seconds
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“I Asked About Porn, & He Lied”

What to do when your husband lies to you about his pornography use.
10/13/202031 minutes, 41 seconds
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Lundy Bancroft: “You Are Crucial”

Lundy Bancroft shares how victims of abuse are betrayed by faith communities, court systems, and others. Women can triumph over trauma and regain their sense of self. BTR can help.
10/6/202023 minutes, 51 seconds
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Why Domestic Abuse is Child Abuse: Lundy Bancroft Tells All

Children are always affected by an abuser's behavior, even if they never see it. Victims are not powerless. Lundy Bancroft explains how mothers can protect and help their children process and heal from abuse.
9/29/202028 minutes, 3 seconds
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4 Things Emotional Abuse Victims Need to Know

Victims of emotional abuse are stronger, smarter, and more capable than their abusers want them to think. These 5 truths help women find strength and safety.
9/22/202017 minutes, 30 seconds
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7 Truths About Emotional Abuse

Myths about emotional abuse enable abusers to keep abusing victims. The 7 Powerful Truths About Emotional Abuse help victims find safety.
9/15/202018 minutes, 38 seconds
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Why Does Sex Hurt? (It’s Not What You Think)

Sexual abuse causes pelvic and sexual pain. Learn how to identify sexual abuse in your marriage and begin healing today.
9/8/202021 minutes, 51 seconds
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3 Tactics Emotional Abusers Use

When victims can identify abuse, they can make informed decisions about their safety and health. Learn 3 tactics abusers use, and why they are so powerful.
9/1/202036 minutes, 24 seconds
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You’re Not Crazy: Porn Is Abuse

Victims of abusive pornography users may wonder if they are overreacting, but they aren't: pornography use is abusive. Support, safety, and self-care can help women find healing.
8/25/202018 minutes, 36 seconds
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Is Porn A Public Health Crisis?

Pornography is a human rights issue, an abuse issue, and a public health crisis.
8/18/202021 minutes, 45 seconds
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Find Safety From Emotional Abuse

Victims of emotional abuse deserve safety: a guide to victims on seeking safety from an abusive relationship.
8/11/202027 minutes, 56 seconds
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Is Lying Emotionally Abusive?

Victims of emotional abuse say that lies and manipulation are one of the most damaging pieces of the abuse they endure.
8/4/202025 minutes, 44 seconds
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Is Emotional Abuse a Domestic Abuse Issue?

It's not "just emotional abuse": it's also domestic abuse and must be treated seriously.
7/28/202030 minutes, 24 seconds
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Covert Abuse? You’re In Danger

He may not hit you, yell at you, or seem like a mean, angry bully - but covert abuse is just as dangerous and harmful as physical battery. Learn more.
7/21/202041 minutes, 49 seconds
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BTRG Is Here For You

Many women have a difficult time finding the right support for betrayal trauma and emotional & psychological abuse. Nikki shares how BTR Group supports her when there's no support where she lives.
7/14/202028 minutes, 3 seconds
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Why Can’t I See Emotional Abuse?

Anne Blythe and Marni Bown, Shero and public speaker, talk about why so many women have difficulty recognizing the emotional and psychological abuse in their own relationships.
7/7/202036 minutes, 24 seconds
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Self-Care For Betrayal Victims

Betrayed women have a hard time learning to take care of themselves again. Trish White shares the 4 Essential Components of Great Self-Care for beginners.
6/16/202017 minutes, 11 seconds
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Self-Care & Betrayal Trauma

When a woman has been betrayed, self-care is the last thing on her mind, but it's the most important thing she can do for her own healing. Trish White explains why.
6/9/202023 minutes, 21 seconds
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5 Reasons You Should Attend a BTR Group Session

Finally learning that you aren't alone in your struggles is validating. Finding a support group and a coach that really gets your unique situation is priceless.
6/2/202019 minutes, 10 seconds
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‘Trauma Mama’ Empowers YOU!

Explaining the effects of emotional and psychological abuse to someone else is nearly impossible, especially when you're still trying to figure it out yourself! Anne Blythe presents Trauma Mama Husband Drama! Anne and Virginia talk about the process of writing the book and how it can help women get the help they need and heal.
5/26/202029 minutes, 42 seconds
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Healing Trauma From Hidden Abuse

Deep cuts, broken bones, broken hearts or hidden bruises, any of these can hurt again years after they've healed. Shannon Thomas talks about resurfacing trauma and what to do with it.
5/19/202021 minutes, 25 seconds
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The 6 Stages Of Healing

There are no physical bruises, scars, or blood, but the pain is real. Shannon Thomas talks about hidden abuses and the 6 Stages to Heal From Hidden Abuse.
5/12/202024 minutes, 9 seconds
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“Trauma Mama” Can Help You Today

Combined with beautiful illustrations by Cristalwolf Lobazul, Anne Blythe uses simple words and pictures to help explain the emotional and psychological abuse women experience as a result of their husband's pornography use.
5/5/20205 minutes, 41 seconds
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Divorcing An Emotional Abuser

Emotional abuse is abuse. Period. You can find safety and peace again after emotional abuse - learn more here.
4/28/202022 minutes, 51 seconds
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Preparing For Divorce While Hoping He Changes

Betrayal and abuse make preparing for divorce a necessity for victims. Even when you are hoping that he decides to change, educating yourself is key.
4/21/202039 minutes, 49 seconds
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How Do I Set Boundaries?

Feeling safe isn't just being free from physical harm, so what is it? Once you understand safety, you can set boundaries. What are boundaries? Anne Blythe introduces a simple, yet effective, way to think about boundaries that will leave you feeling like you can set boundaries so you can feel safe.
4/14/202028 minutes, 51 seconds
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3 Ways Abusers Can Work Toward A Healthy Marriage

Is a healthy marriage possible after emotional abuse? BTR believes it is. James is back with Anne to continue talking about how Center for Peace has given him hope and started him down the path.
4/7/202029 minutes, 14 seconds
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Center For Peace: 3 Steps Emotional Abusers Must Take To Change

3 important steps an abuser must take to change his ways and become safe.
4/1/202023 minutes, 22 seconds
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3 Boundaries You Can Set Today

3 helpful boundaries for women ready to find safety and healing after emotional abuse.
3/24/202020 minutes, 59 seconds
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4 Phrases That Enable Abuse

Abuse doesn't stop during a crisis, in fact, it escalates. BTR can help.
3/21/20204 minutes, 17 seconds
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3 Empowering Words For Victims

When emotional abuse leaves you feeling lost in the darkness, where do you turn for comfort and peace?
3/17/202030 minutes, 1 second
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Abusive Behaviors To Watch For During A Crisis

During a crisis, domestic abuse escalates. Women can minimize the effects of the abuse; BTR can help.
3/12/20207 minutes, 31 seconds
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Divorcing A Narcissist

What to expect when you are divorcing a narcissist.
3/10/202022 minutes, 14 seconds
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“My Clergy Betrayed Me”

When clergy turns on victims of narcissistic abuse, the secondary trauma can feel overwhelming. Hear June's story.
3/3/202025 minutes, 48 seconds
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Let’s Talk About Financial Abuse

Post-divorce abuse is real and devastating. BTR can help.
2/25/202034 minutes, 21 seconds
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Healing Without Closure

You may never receive an apology, the whole truth, or restitution. But you CAN find healing, no matter what your abuser chooses to do.
2/18/202015 minutes, 29 seconds
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Why Disclosures Are Harmful

Disclosures do not give victims the safety they deserve - even though it may seem like a good idea, usually victims are just more harmed. Learn why.
2/11/202037 minutes, 53 seconds
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How To Get Back To Yourself After Emotional Abuse

Victims of abuse and betrayal ask, "will I ever be myself again?" BTR can help women find safety and healing.
2/4/202022 minutes, 51 seconds
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“I Trusted The Lies”

Three ways women are traumatized by a partner's lies and betrayal.
1/28/202024 minutes, 14 seconds
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The Ugly Truth About Pornography

The pornography/sex trafficking industry is an insidious and dangerous reality for women.
1/21/202031 minutes, 53 seconds
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Can He Make Amends For Abuse?

Can abusers permanently change and make amends, becoming beacons of safety in their families?
1/14/202029 minutes, 14 seconds
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When Abusers Recognize Their Abuse

Can abusive men change? BTR believes they can.
1/7/202026 minutes, 23 seconds
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The Kill Zone: Kids & Porn

Victims of betrayal and abuse can teach their children the truth about pornography.
12/31/201921 minutes, 57 seconds
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When Abusers Use “Spiritual Bypass” To Fool You

Is he really in recovery? When abusers use spiritual bypass to circumvent true change.
12/24/201926 minutes, 11 seconds
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Spiritual Bypass Harms Victims

Victims of betrayal and abuse can choose 'healing' instead of 'coping'.
12/17/201923 minutes, 8 seconds
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5 Ways To Help The Child Of A Narcissist

Narcissistic fathers harm children, but victims can rise up and guide their children to safety and healing.
12/10/201930 minutes, 14 seconds
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How To Endure A Custody Battle With A Narcissist

3 must-know tips for victims preparing to divorce their narcissistic partner.
12/3/201930 minutes, 7 seconds
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Escaping The Fog Of Marital Rape

Victims of marital rape deserve safety and support.
11/26/201929 minutes, 11 seconds
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How To Survive A Narcissist When You Choose To Stay

When victims choose to stay with their narcissistic partner, how can they survive and thrive? BTR can help.
11/19/201917 minutes, 35 seconds
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5 Tips To Surviving The Holidays

5 Tips for victims of betrayal and abuse during the holiday season.
11/15/20192 minutes, 55 seconds
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How To Co Parent With a Narcissist

Dr. Ramani teaches you how to effective co parent when your ex-husband is a narcissist.
11/12/201921 minutes, 30 seconds
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Voicing The Agony of Trauma

Victims of abuse and betrayal begin their journey to healing when they find their voice.
11/5/201927 minutes, 34 seconds
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Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Learning about narcissistic abuse can help victims find safety and begin healing.
10/29/201923 minutes, 54 seconds
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Susan Powell’s Story: Betrayal & Murder

Important lessons about abuse and safety from Susan Powell's story.
10/22/201931 minutes, 24 seconds
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Call It Abuse, Save Lives

Victims of abuse and betrayal deserve to be validated, supported, and guided to safety. Call it abuse and you may save her life.
10/15/201924 minutes, 4 seconds
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Honor Code Office Trauma

Institutional abuse re-traumatizes victims; when victims find their voices and share their stories, healing can begin.
10/8/201926 minutes, 57 seconds
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Self-Care: Surviving Abuse

Self-care tips for victims of betrayal and abuse.
10/1/201920 minutes, 34 seconds
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Why Pornography Is More Than Sex

Pornography users commit three major sins: lust, greed, and dishonesty. Learn more.
9/24/201930 minutes, 8 seconds
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The Abuse Vortex

When victims become empowered through trauma and abuse education, they can find safety and begin healing.
9/18/201935 minutes, 57 seconds
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Pornography Is An Abuse Issue

Pornography is abusive: here's why.
9/10/201932 minutes, 10 seconds
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“I Destroyed Her 15 Years”

Can abusive men change?
9/3/201928 minutes, 26 seconds
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“I Realized I Was Being Abused!”

Victims can learn to identify and protect themselves from abuse. BTR can help.
8/28/201921 minutes, 21 seconds
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Benchmarks Vs. Boundaries

Boundaries are YOUR job, benchmarks are HIS job.
8/20/201924 minutes, 9 seconds
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What Is In-Home Separation And How Can It Help Me?

What does an in-home separation entail, and does it actually work? BTR can help.
8/14/201927 minutes, 9 seconds
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Betrayal Trauma Resources

3 essential resources for victims of betrayal and abuse.
8/6/201918 minutes, 54 seconds
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12-Step: What You Should Know

12 Step programs may be beneficial to victims of abuse and betrayal AFTER safety has been established.
7/31/201921 minutes, 56 seconds
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Weaponizing Codependency Language

Codependency language is a dangerous weapon in the hands of an abusive/unfaithful man.
7/24/201927 minutes, 48 seconds
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Is My Husband Grooming Me?

Grooming is a universal tool of abusers. Learn what it is, how to spot it, and how to find safety.
6/26/201921 minutes, 43 seconds
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Pornography: A Human Rights Issue

Pornography is a human rights issue. Learn more.
6/18/201935 minutes, 28 seconds
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Is Pornography A Feminist Issue?

Pornography is anti-woman and anti-feminist. Learn more.
6/12/201931 minutes, 24 seconds
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Protect Teens From Sexual Abuse

Empower teens to set boundaries to protect themselves from sexual coercion and abuse.
6/5/201931 minutes, 31 seconds
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End Sexual Exploitation

Pornography is sexual exploitation. Learn how you can join the fight for a porn-free world.
5/29/201917 minutes, 10 seconds
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Betrayal Trauma Checklist

What are your next steps to find safety and support after discovering betrayal? BTR can help.
5/21/201910 minutes, 13 seconds
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Is Pornography Sexual Coercion?

Sexual coercion takes on many forms, including the non-disclosure of secret sexual behaviors.
5/14/201932 minutes, 29 seconds
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They Blamed ME For The Abuse

Domestic abuse isn't only physical battering. Learn more.
4/30/201938 minutes, 44 seconds
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My Clergy Traumatized Me

Victims are often re-traumatized by religious leaders when they seek help for abuse and betrayal.
4/23/201929 minutes, 43 seconds
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Parenting Special Needs Children

Every victim of betrayal and abuse deserves support: especially mothers of special needs children. BTR can help.
4/16/201928 minutes, 24 seconds
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12-Step: What You Need To Know

12 Step programs teach self-improvement to women who actually need safety and validation.
4/9/201917 minutes, 35 seconds
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The Codependency Model Exposed

Betrayed women are not codependent, they are victims of abuse. BTR can help.
4/2/201931 minutes, 18 seconds
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Self-Care “How To”

When victims of betrayal and abuse practice simple forms of self-care, they can begin to find healing and peace. BTR can help.
3/26/201921 minutes, 59 seconds
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How To Recognize Victim Blaming

Victim-blaming is harmful and hurtful. BTR can help.
3/19/201934 minutes, 3 seconds
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Body Image Issues & Betrayal

Betrayal and abuse can cause severe body image issues in victims. Hope and healing are possible. BTR can help.
3/12/201924 minutes, 39 seconds
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How Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Saved My Life

After betrayal trauma, many women still feel unsafe, traumatized, and misunderstood. Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group can help empower women to heal and find hope. Our amazing clients share their testimonials of Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group and the services BTR provides.
3/5/201915 minutes, 46 seconds
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How To Handle Trauma Triggers

Triggers are a natural result of betrayal trauma. Learn how to use them to your benefit.
2/26/201915 minutes, 50 seconds
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Your Abusive Husband’s Therapist

Four necessary statements from your husband's therapist.
2/19/201931 minutes, 39 seconds
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Why Pornography Is Adultery

Porn use is adultery and abuse. BTR can help.
2/12/201910 minutes, 20 seconds
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Can Legitimate Anger Be Helpful?

Anger helps victims of betrayal and abuse identify abusive behavior and set boundaries.
2/5/201920 minutes, 50 seconds
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The Healing Power Of “Me-Too”

Saying "Me Too" can help victims begin the journey to healing. BTR can help.
1/29/201912 minutes, 17 seconds
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The Truth About Wife Rape

Join Anne as she interviews Wendy, survivor of marital rape. Listen to how this experience has impacted Wendy's life. Gain valuable information about wife rape and sexual assault within marriage. Learn why this is so damaging and harmful to victims.
1/22/201926 minutes, 16 seconds
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What About Recovery For Me?

Victims of betrayal and abuse CAN find healing, hope, and peace. BTR can help.
1/15/201915 minutes, 29 seconds
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Your CSAT Is Harming You

Betrayed women are not co-addicts: they are victims of trauma.
1/8/201941 minutes, 36 seconds
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Betrayal Hurts, But You CAN Heal

Betrayal trauma is devastating. Women CAN find healing and peace. BTR can help.
12/18/201812 minutes, 41 seconds
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How Friends & Family Can Help Abuse Victims

Family and friends can help or harm victims. Learn how to support victims of abuse.
12/11/201821 minutes, 29 seconds
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Connecting With Children After Betrayal Trauma

Betrayal trauma is overwhelming. Small steps can help mothers re-connect with their children.
12/4/201827 minutes, 45 seconds
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Transformation After Betrayal

Betrayal trauma doesn't have to ruin your life - you CAN heal and experience Post-Betrayal Transformation.
11/27/201824 minutes, 13 seconds
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What Is Clean Browsing?

Creating a porn-free environment is an absolute necessity for every family.
11/20/201818 minutes, 21 seconds
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Want a Porn-Free Home? Here’s How

Victims of betrayal trauma want porn-free homes. Here's how.
11/13/201832 minutes, 11 seconds
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What Are Women Saying About Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group?

Alone? Afraid? Join the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group today.
11/7/20188 minutes, 42 seconds
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Are Porn Users Abusive? Yes, Here’s Why.

It is a topic that is shrouded in controversy. Do porn users have abusive tendencies within relationships? Is there a link between porn use and abuse? What is the link between porn and aggression?
10/30/201820 minutes, 48 seconds
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Porn Use And Infidelity Are Abuse

Pornography use and affairs are abusive. Learn why.
10/16/201843 minutes, 14 seconds
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Are You A Victim of Narcissistic Abuse?

Narcissistic abuse is devastating. Learn to identify and heal from narcissistic abuse.
10/9/201821 minutes, 10 seconds
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Find Strength After Betrayal and Abuse

Women are strong, powerful, sacred, and resilient. BTR supports victims and help them rediscover their power.
10/2/201830 minutes, 52 seconds
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Dear Clergy: Stop Enabling Abuse

Victims of betrayal and abuse deserve support from clergy: not further traumatization when clergy enable abuse.
9/25/201828 minutes, 53 seconds
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When Couple’s Therapy Is Harmful

Couple's therapy can be harmful to victims of betrayal and emotional abuse.
9/18/201837 minutes, 53 seconds
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Betrayal Is Domestic Abuse

Intimate betrayal IS domestic abuse. BTR can help.
9/11/201847 minutes, 30 seconds
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Is My Husband Really in Recovery?

Wondering if your husband is in recovery? This will help.
9/4/201839 minutes, 49 seconds
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4 Must-Know Myths About Shame

Myths About The "Shame" Is Craze - How Actually To Stop The Harm Caused By Lies, Porn Use, Infidelity & Abuse. Why shame and attachment aren't the issues you need to concern yourself with.
8/28/201846 minutes, 11 seconds
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What Is Narcissistic Abuse And Why Is It So Damaging?

Narcissistic abuse is real and it is damaging. Read more about what narcissistic abuse is and why it so harmful to victims who experience it.
8/21/201821 minutes, 10 seconds
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“My Husband Betrayed Me With A Man”

When you've been betrayed, it hurts. But how does it feel when he betrays you with a man? One woman shares her story.
8/14/201824 minutes, 24 seconds
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Teaching Children Online Safety

Teaching children online safety is essential in today's world.
8/1/201812 minutes, 22 seconds
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How Do I Find My Voice?

Victims of abuse and betrayal are strong, valuable, and important. Finding your voice can help you heal.
7/24/201811 minutes, 3 seconds
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Institutional Sexual Abuse

Institutional sexual abuse is real and it's essential that individuals, organizations, and communities take steps to protect children.
7/17/201820 minutes, 13 seconds
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Heal The Trauma From Sexual Abuse

Healing the trauma from sexual abuse can be a difficult road, but it IS possible. Acceptance and self-compassion are key.
7/10/201827 minutes, 17 seconds
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Finding Inner Peace After Trauma

Ways to develop and cultivate inner peace during and after betrayal trauma and emotional abuse.
7/3/201816 minutes, 42 seconds
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How Can BTR Help Me?

Find out how you can grow stronger, progress in healing, and find hope after betrayal trauma with specialized recovery groups.
6/27/20187 minutes, 34 seconds
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Personal Empowerment & Healing

Self-Empowerment is essential is recovery from abuse. Learn about why and how to develop this as part of recovery.
6/19/201832 minutes, 22 seconds
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Intimate Deception: How To Heal

Learn why intimate deception is so hurtful and how to heal from the pain.
6/12/201839 minutes, 35 seconds
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If Your Husband Betrayed You With Men

Your husband is gay and you are devastated and blindsided. What do you do when you find out about your husband's secret gay life? Does watching gay porn mean your husband is gay? How to move forward after finding out your husband is gay?
6/5/201825 minutes, 17 seconds
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Hope & Healing From Abuse

Feeling discouraged? Remember to have faith, feel hope, and be proud of how far you have come.
5/29/20187 minutes, 41 seconds
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Boundaries With An Abusive Ex

Setting and holding healthy boundaries with your ex-husband can be difficult. Here are some ideas to help keep you safe.
5/22/201834 minutes, 3 seconds
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When They Say Forgive Your Abuser

Forgiveness is a personal decision that victims deserve to make on their own, without being pressured by others.
5/15/20186 minutes, 50 seconds
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Teaching Children About Porn

Victims of abuse and betrayal can use these tips to teach children about pornography and healthy sexuality.
5/9/201827 minutes, 45 seconds
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Betrayal Trauma Symptoms: Am I Crazy?

You are not crazy, you are suffering from betrayal trauma. BTR can help.
5/1/201822 minutes, 23 seconds
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Conquer Trauma With Art

Processing and expressing trauma from betrayal and abuse is difficult for victims. Art therapy can help.
5/1/201822 minutes, 20 seconds
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Betrayal & Your Porn Use

Betrayal Trauma can lead to uncharacteristic behaviors in victims: including fantasizing, pornography use, and emotional affairs. BTR can help.
4/24/201820 minutes, 37 seconds
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7 Dissociation Symptoms In Emotional Abuse Victims

Victims of betrayal and emotional abuse may use dissociation to cope with pain and fear. Know the symptoms and how to recover.
4/17/201824 minutes, 48 seconds
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How To Help Other Abuse Victims

Has BTR helped you? Help more women find BTR and begin their journeys to healing.
4/10/201823 minutes, 14 seconds
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Making The Decision To Divorce

Helpful tips for victims choosing to leave their abuser.
3/20/201828 minutes, 49 seconds
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Staying In Marriage Post-Betrayal

When women choose to stay in a marriage after emotional abuse and betrayal, support, self-care, and boundaries are essential for her safety.
3/13/201831 minutes, 16 seconds
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3 Reasons To Focus On Your Safety

Victims of abuse and betrayal seek safety in many ways: focusing on her own boundaries is the best way to find safety and healing.
3/6/201819 minutes, 3 seconds
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How To Rebuild Confidence In Your Marketable Skills

Many victims of emotional abuse and betrayal find themselves entering or re-entering the workforce. With support and empowerment, women can enjoy the process. BTR can help.
2/27/201824 minutes, 39 seconds
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40 Years Of Abuse And Trauma

Abuse and betrayal trauma can leave you feeling powerless, but you are not. Learn three things you can do today to begin finding safety.
2/20/201816 minutes, 19 seconds
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Will I Ever Be Okay?

Recovery from trauma and abuse can feel debilitating and hopeless at times. But you CAN do it. BTR can help.
1/9/201817 minutes, 41 seconds
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How To Teach Your Kids About Sex

Speaking with your children about the dangers of pornography is essential. Learn how to teach your kids about healthy boundaries and overall well-being when it comes to important matters of sexuality. This is an important topic for every parent.
12/19/201726 minutes, 28 seconds
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Self-Care Empowers You: Learn How

Victims of betrayal and emotional abuse wonder how to begin healing. Self-care is a great first step. BTR can help.
12/13/201719 minutes, 2 seconds
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Why 12 Step Harms Betrayal Victims

Finding empowering, empathetic, and knowledgable resources can be difficult for victims of betrayal and emotional abuse. BTR can help.
11/14/201717 minutes, 2 seconds
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Is My Husband Cheating?

Victims of emotional abuse and betrayal trauma can trust their intuition and begin healing from trauma. BTR can help.
10/25/201722 minutes, 48 seconds
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Rediscover Hope and Freedom After Betrayal Today

Is it possible to find hope and freedom when you have been betrayed and emotionally abused? Absolutely. BTR can help.
10/11/201717 minutes, 36 seconds
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Inoculate Kids From Porn Damage

Women want to protect their children from the damaging effects of pornography. BTR can help.
9/12/201719 minutes, 2 seconds
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Restoring Faith After Betrayal

When women of faith experience the effects of emotional abuse and betrayal trauma, they will often question their beliefs. This is normal, but difficult to process. BTR can help.
9/5/201735 minutes, 23 seconds
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4 Ways He’s Emotionally Abusive

Learn what emotional abuse looks like and how to find safety.
8/16/201717 minutes, 37 seconds
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My Porn-Addict Husband Won’t Stop

Women in betrayal trauma wonder why addiction treatment programs aren't working for their sexually addicted partners. BTR explains why.
8/8/201728 minutes, 50 seconds
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Healthy Sex After Betrayal?

Victims of betrayal trauma and emotional abuse wonder if they will ever enjoy sex again. Healing is possible; BTR can help.
7/26/201738 minutes, 18 seconds
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Establishing Sexual Safety

Victims of betrayal trauma and emotional abuse wonder how to navigate sexual intimacy after betrayal. BTR can help.
7/18/201735 minutes, 40 seconds
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3 Steps to Protect Our Children

Victims of emotional abuse can be effective parents in teaching their children how to set boundaries that will protect them from sexual abuse. BTR can help.
6/13/201717 minutes, 49 seconds
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Barbara Steffens on Victim Blaming

Dr. Barbara Steffens shares how to avoid treatment induced trauma.
5/23/201746 minutes, 39 seconds
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4 Ways He Gaslights You

Victims of gaslighting deserve safety: BTR can help.
4/11/201723 minutes, 12 seconds
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50 Things You Need To Know About Betrayal Trauma

New to Betrayal Trauma Recovery? Hearing unfamiliar terms? Here are 50 things you need to know about betrayal trauma and Betrayal Trauma Recovery.
4/4/20174 minutes, 30 seconds
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What Can BTRG Do For Me?

Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group offers support, community, and validation to victims of abuse.
1/17/201716 minutes, 47 seconds
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Protect Young Kids From Porn

A child exposed to pornography is a victim of sexual abuse. Learn how to protect children from exposure, and support traumatized children.
11/8/201613 minutes, 56 seconds
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Betrayal Trauma & Emotional Abuse

Emotional Abuse and Betrayal Trauma are real and serious: women deserve a voice and support.
9/6/201617 minutes, 30 seconds
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My Husband Lied To Me

One woman's story about discovering her husband's lies.
8/23/20165 minutes, 44 seconds
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My Abuser Says I’m “Controlling”

We can choose to face our fears and find peace along the way.
8/2/201628 minutes, 51 seconds
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7 Signs That You Are Being Abused

Recognizing abuse can help stop abuse.
7/26/201617 minutes, 30 seconds
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13 Signs Abusive Men Are Changing

Abusive men CAN change. Learn what real change looks like.
7/19/201622 minutes, 12 seconds
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When Your Partner Is Unfaithful

When a husband betrays our trust, we need boundaries. Boundaries give us safety and structure.
7/12/201620 minutes, 20 seconds
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How To Deal With Narcissism

Learning how to set boundaries to stay safe when your partner exhibits narcissistic traits.
7/4/201621 minutes, 10 seconds