The AskTheMartins Podcast with Kenyon and Taccara
English, TV & Video, 5 seasons, 95 episodes, 3 days, 6 hours, 56 minutes
The AskTheMartins Podcast with Kenyon and Taccara
English, TV & Video, 5 seasons, 95 episodes, 3 days, 6 hours, 56 minutes
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Hey Ask The Martins Fam! As you all may know, the Ask The Martins podcast is on a season hiatus and new episodes will be returning to you in the Fall!
But we’re still sharing the message of healing and personal growth through our new podcast series, Unmasked! And as we get ready for our season finale of Umasked, we wanted to share the most talked-about episode with our AskTheMartins listeners.
In this episode, everything begins to shift for our main characters:
-Kenya is in therapy trying to become the best version of herself but her toxic ex that always pops up when she’s most vulnerable, comes knocking…
-Her father is pressuring her still about becoming a lawyer instead of following her dreams
-And Dr. KAM is getting fed up with having to become something he’s not for the sake of the ratings…
Now this episode is for MATURE audiences so be sure to have your headphones on or be alone when listening because things definitely get a little steamy.
And if you want to continue listening, be sure to go follow the Unmasked Scripted Podcast wherever you stream or grab the link in the show notes of this episode!
Join us at the Season Finale Wrap Party!
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The Podcast Website: https://unmasked.digital/
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4/25/2022 • 31 minutes, 4 seconds
MenTell Monday-Joel E. Gregory on Overcoming Fatherlessness and Why He Was Celibate Until Marriage
On this Episode of the Ask The Martins Podcast, We talk to our Pastor Joel E. Gregory on His journey to manhood.
Overcoming fatherlessness, how he paid off his wife's student loan debt, and what he required of himself before EVER inviting a woman into his space.
6/21/2021 • 59 minutes, 46 seconds
Relationship Q&A: My Husband's Gambling Addiction + Can a Woman Bring Up Exclusivity? + More!
Welcome to Special Episode of the AskTheMartins Podcast Where we are answering all your relationship questions!
Every Wednesday we are Live answering your Questions!
Be Kind
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Be Safe
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5/19/2021 • 52 minutes, 29 seconds
How Can He Love Me When He's Always Disappearing?! And Your Relationship Q&A
Tune in as we answer your Relationship Q&A and Join us Every Wednesday on YouTube at 7pm EST!
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5/12/2021 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 31 seconds
Season 4: Relationship Q & A with Kenyon and Taccara Martin
In This Episode of the Ask The Martins Podcast, we are taking all your relationship questions!
Questions like:
Is it a Red Flag if I Haven't Met His Family?
Is it normal to fall in and out of love with your spouse?
Should I date someone who is bad with money and $100K in Debt?
...And SO MUCH MORE!
Tune in and Listen to how we answer these and Don't Forget to Join us Every Weds at 7pm on YouTube LIVE for Relationship Q&A!
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4/28/2021 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 33 seconds
Season 4: Identity, Growth + Mentorship w/Paul Scanlon
If you enjoying learning from Paul Scanlon, he is offering 70% off his 3 hour online course called THE PROSPERITY OF THE SOUL! Visit https://www.paulscanlon.com/themartins to get yours today!
Welcome to a new series JUST FOR MEN!
While our audience is largely women, our engagement with men is rapidly growing and they're hungry for wisdon, leadership and guidance. As a response to that hunger, we have created our MenTell Series.
During this series, we will create a space for men to be open and vulnerable on key topics important to Men (and the women who love them). We will be addressing topics such as leadership, emotional maturity and growth, overcoming life's setbacks, etc.
This week we are bringing you Leadership and Communication's Expert, Paul Scanlon. Paul has trained and mentored people for over 30 years as a keynote speaker all over the world. After 3 decades in the not-for-profit sector, Paul has successfully transitioned and reinvented as an educator through both his LIVE and online Masterclass events in Communication, Leadership and Personal Development.
On This Episode, we talk about everything from White people being an ally to black lives, finding your identity, men and vulnerability, and transitioning from trauma to freedom...and SO MUCH MORE!
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4/21/2021 • 48 minutes, 56 seconds
Season 4: Help! I Feel Like I'm Failing In Marriage
On this episode of the Ask The Martins Podcast, we are answering a letter from a couple that we sort of fell in love with because they are having to overcome almost the SAME issues that Taccara and I did when we got married!
He was cheated on so he's fighting desperately to hold on his relationship while pushing her away at the same time.
She is recovering from abuse in her past that is causing her to walk through anxiety and fear that he will become who she is used to in her past.
Listen in as we help both understand their triggers and how treat them within the marriage.
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RELATIONSHIP RESOURCES:
Take Our Dating By Design Course!
https://askthemartins.com/dating
Want Help Strengthening Your Marriage? Get Our Covered Book For Couples! http://bit.ly/covered-book-for-couples
WHERE IS YOUR MARRIAGE THE STRONGEST? TAKE OUR MARRIAGE QUIZ! https://askthemartins.com/covered-quiz/
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3/17/2021 • 57 minutes, 52 seconds
Season 4: He Hides His Money But Spends All Mine! + More!
On this episode of the Ask The Martins Podcast, we are amswering TWO Letters!
The first letter is all about a woman who is married to a man who she recently found out has been hiding money. He spends all of hers and makes her feel like, because she makes more money, she should be carrying all the weight! Did she make a mistake marrying him?
The second question is all about blended families. A wife wants to know how to make a blended transition easier.
Have a specific question and need to talk? Schedule a quick 1-hr CHAT coaching session!
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Have a Relationship Question You Want Answered On Our Podcast?
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https://youtu.be/KmqzJQS1WyA
RELATIONSHIP RESOURCES:
Take Our Dating By Design Course!
https://askthemartins.com/dating
Want Help Strengthening Your Marriage? Get Our Covered Book For Couples! http://bit.ly/covered-book-for-couples
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3/10/2021 • 1 hour, 2 seconds
Season 4: My Ex Is Making Me Choose Between My Girlfriend + My Daughter
On this episode of the Ask The Martins Podcast, we're answering a letter from a distresssed father that wants to pursue a relationship with a woman he cares about, but his Ex is making it extremely difficult, putting the child in the center of their issues.
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Have a Relationship Question You Want Answered On Our Podcast?
Visit https://askthemartins.com/question
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RELATIONSHIP RESOURCES:
Take Our Dating By Design Course!
https://askthemartins.com/dating
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3/3/2021 • 39 minutes, 4 seconds
Season 4: I Didn't Know He Was Married! Should I Tell His Wife?!
Today with heartbreak of a young lady who didn't know the man she was dating was married. Her big question is "Do I tell the wife?"
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RELATIONSHIP RESOURCES:
Take Our Dating By Design Course!
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2/23/2021 • 43 minutes, 6 seconds
Season 4: He Would Be A Great Husband But He's Not Affectionate
In This Episode, we answer a question from a young lady stuck between what she wants and what she doesn't want all in the same person...
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Have a Relationship Question You Want Answered On Our Podcast?
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Take Our Dating By Design Course!
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2/17/2021 • 47 minutes, 15 seconds
Season 4: Is It Me Or Is My Girlfriend Insecure?!
On this episode of the AskTheMartins Podcdast, we are answering a letter from a young man who did the work of healing from his past so he can be ready for love. BUT his girlfriend doesn't seem to have done the SAME work. Now here insecurity is causing him to second-guess himself, making him feel like perhaps he's done something wrong!
On this episode of the AskTheMartins Podcdast, we are answering a letter from a young man who did the work of healing from his past so he can be ready for love. BUT his girlfriend doesn't seem to have done the SAME work. Now here insecurity is causing him to second-guess himself, making him feel like perhaps he's done something wrong!
Listen in as we answer this letter from a very REAL yet uncomfortable place.
Have a Relationship Question You Want Answered On Our Podcast?
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All Your Questions Answered About Soul-Ties and Toxic Relationships:
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RELATIONSHIP RESOURCES:
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2/3/2021 • 52 minutes, 37 seconds
Season 4 - Is It OK To Pursue The Man I'm Diggin' AND How Do I Exit A Toxic Relationship?
In this episode of the Ask The Martins Podcast, we are answering TWO letters from women in 2 completely different situations.
the First letter is from a woman dying to be in a relationship with a man who doesn't want a relationship with her and the second letter is from a woman dying to get out of hers.
Listen in as we give 2 very real and raw answers to these ladies.
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1/27/2021 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 6 seconds
Best of Ask The Martins! Dating With Kids Q&A
This Best Of Ask The Martins We are revisiting an episode where we answer dating Q&A when it comes to dating with kids.
Only one more episode to top off the Best of Ask The Martins! Be sure to leave us a review and let us know how you're enjoying it!
Send us your questions at AskTheMartins.com!
12/31/2020 • 1 hour, 20 seconds
Best of Ask The Martins! Why She'll Get Fed Up and You'll Never See It Coming
Welcome back to another Best of Ask The Martins Episode!!
Today, we revisit a letter from a man who sent us a DESPERATE DM begging us to help him save his relationship after she just up and decided to leave out of now where!
We're breaking down 7 of the main reasons why MOST women get fed up and how their men NEVER SEE IT COMING!
Have a relationship question you want answered? visit AskTheMartins.com!
12/30/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 38 seconds
The Best of AskTheMartins! How Do I Heal As A Broken Man
Welcome to the FINAL week of 2020! We are broadcasting all your favorite episodes of 2020 based on how many downloands each got this year!
This week, we are rewinding back to the letter when a gentleman asks, "How Do I Heal as a Broken Man!?"
This letter is dear to us because we don't often get letters from men who truly desire to help in this way and we could not pass up an opportunity to reach other men who may be experiencing this same hurt!
Have a relationship question you want answered in 2021? Visit us at AskTheMartins.com to submit a question OR schedule a chat coaching session with us!
12/29/2020 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 19 seconds
Season 3- I Love Her But I'm 'Bout Ready To Cheat!
On this episode of the AskTheMartins Podcast, we are answering a letter from a husband who says he's tempted to cheat!
Listen in as we give him some real advice on what it means to have the CHARACTER of a husband AND how to PROPERLY address this issue with his wife...BEFORE he does something he cannot come back from.
Watch This Episode On YouTube!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X8Hnrs8eApU
RELATIONSHIP RESOURCES:
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12/17/2020 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 43 seconds
Season 3- His FEMALE Best Friend Doesn't Respect Me!
On This Episode of the Ask The Martins Podcast, we are anwering a letter from a woman who says her husband's childhood best friend is wreaking HAVOC on their marriage because of lack of respect...
Did we mention his best friend is a WOMAN?!?
Tune in to see how we answer this delicate email and give them some actionable tips!
Have a Relationship Question You Want Answered? Visit us at AskTheMartins.com!
12/1/2020 • 33 minutes, 42 seconds
Season 3 - HELP! I Think I'm In An Abusive Relationship!
Welcome to another episode of the AskTheMartins Podcast!
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This week, we are addressing a wife who needs to be CERTAIN that She is indeed in an abusive marriage. Sometimes, it's hard to REALLY know because of the mix of emotions and behavior that abuse comes with. Especially if it's not physical.
Tune in as we answer this letter with LOVE and delicacy because it is NOT easy.
WATCH PREVIOUS EPISODES:
"I Love Him But He's Not the Same Man" and other relationship Q&A: https://youtu.be/WliDxUlNUBo
All Your Questions Answered About Soul-Ties and Toxic Relationships:
https://youtu.be/KmqzJQS1WyA
RELATIONSHIP RESOURCES:
Getting over a break-up or toxic relationship? Get The Soul-Ties Detox Book:http://bit.ly/soul-ties-detox-book
Want Help Strengthening Your Marriage? Get Our Covered Book For Couples! http://bit.ly/covered-book-for-couples
11/24/2020 • 57 minutes, 6 seconds
Season 3-I'm In Love With My Best Friend!
In this AskTheMartins Podcast Episode, we are answering a question from a young lady that is best friends with a man that she is business partners with and ACTS like she's married to, but she said they are JUST FRIENDS!
Listen in as we give some REAL advice on this answer other relationship questions!
RELATIONSHIP RESOURCES:
Getting over a break-up or toxic relationship? Get The Soul-Ties Detox Book: http://bit.ly/soul-ties-detox-book
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11/17/2020 • 58 minutes, 49 seconds
Season 3 - Husbands Take The Lead: The Covering and The Cross
BONUS EPISODE!
In this episode, we are rewinding back to our CoveredCon Marriage Retreat where we sat down with 4 Great Men:
Seth Studley of Anatomy of Marriage
Dr. Christopher Michael Jones
Minister Bernard Williams
and of course, Kenyon Martin
We allowed men to ask vulnerable and transparent questions and allowed other husbands to answer from a very open and honest place-WITHOUT Judgement!
Listen in to these awesome men drop so much knowedge on everything from Money to Infidelity to Intimacy!
If you have a relationship question you want answered, visit AskTheMartins.com OR send us a DM on Instagram @AskTheMartins.
11/9/2020 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 42 seconds
Season 3-I Love Him But He Doesn't Support Me!
In This Episode of the AskTheMartins Podcast, we answer a letter from a young lady who is engaged to a man that USED TO BE ambitious with goals and dreams. Now he's negative and criticizes her progress, while he stands still!
Listen in as we give some key advice on how to deal with this issue!
Have a relationship question you want answered? Visit AskTheMartins.com
Find us on Youtube and WATCH PREVIOUS EPISODES:
"I Love Him But He's Not the Same Man" and other relationship Q&A: https://youtu.be/WliDxUlNUBo
All Your Questions Answered About Soul-Ties and Toxic Relationships:
https://youtu.be/KmqzJQS1WyA
RELATIONSHIP RESOURCES:
Getting over a break-up or toxic relationship? Get The Soul-Ties Detox Book:
http://bit.ly/soul-ties-detox-book
Want Help Strengthening Your Marriage? Get Our Covered Book For Couples!
http://bit.ly/covered-book-for-couples
WHERE IS YOUR MARRIAGE THE STRONGEST? TAKE OUR MARRIAGE QUIZ!https://askthemartins.com/covered-quiz/
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11/4/2020 • 53 minutes, 27 seconds
Season 3-Help Me Prepare For Marriage!
On This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering several questions from our DMs about preparing for marriage!
Our Followers Asked Us Questions like:
What Does It Feel Like to Be Ready for Marriage?
What Should a Woman Be Doing to Prepare Herself?
And What Does a Man Who Wants to Be Married Look Like?!
Take a listen as we answer these questions and more!
Have a question you want answered send us a DM on Instagram @AskTheMartins OR send us a message on our website at AskTheMartins.com!
7/2/2020 • 40 minutes, 12 seconds
Long Distance Marriage And He's Living A Double Life
On This Episode of The Soul-Ties Podcast, we answer a letter from a wife that is seeking advice on her long distance marriage-he's living a double life and she doesn't know what to believe.
We then answer a question from a listener who asks, "Will a man REALLY Wait For Sex?"
Listen in on this episode and if you have a relationship question for us, visit AskTheMartins.com!
Book a Chat Coaching Call With Us! Go to Askthemartins.com/work-with-us
6/3/2020 • 49 minutes, 9 seconds
Season 3-Left Me For His Mistress, But Now He Wants Me Back!
On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a letter from a young lady who was abandoned by her husband, but he's now saying he wants her back! She has no idea what to do! Listen in as we give her advice AND answer some more of YOUR relationship questions!
Want private coaching with Kenyon and Taccara Martin? Visit AskTheMartins.com to schedule your chat or virtual video coaching appointment today!
5/22/2020 • 49 minutes, 59 seconds
The Accidental Rebound
This week on the Soul-Ties #podcast we answered a letter from a young lady who had been in a relationship with someone without realizing it was a rebound.
Once we dug a Little deeper into the situation, we realized that BOTH of of them had entered into this relationship without taking the time to heal and recover from the damages of their pasts!
Take a listen to the advice we give as we wal
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4/30/2020 • 45 minutes, 56 seconds
Season 3- Is it Cool to Be Friends With Your Ex's?!
We're BACK and we are hitting ya'll with an episode PACKED with your Relationship Questions! We're talking exes, sex, and so much more!
Join in the conversation!
Have a Relationship Question you Want Answered?! Visit AskTheMartins.com OR send us a DM @AskTheMartins Across All platforms!
4/14/2020 • 44 minutes, 49 seconds
Season 3-How Do We Move Forward After Infidelity?!
On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We are answering a simple letter from a young woman who asks how to move forward after infidelity.
People always talk about how easy it is to leave and walk away, but it's not always that simple.
Here, we give them the tools needed to BEGIN to move forward after the ultimate betrayal.
Tune in and see what advice we give her!
Have a relationship question you want answered? Send us a DM on instagram @AskTheMartins or visit us at AskTheMartins.com!
2/25/2020 • 26 minutes, 16 seconds
Season 3-Help!?! His Best Friend Is A Woman!
On This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We are giving you a peek into our podcast for marriages, Covered!
We are answering a letter from a wife who says her husband's childhood best friend is disrespecting her marriage, and her husband is doing NOTHING about it!
Listen in as we answer her main questions-
-Am I Crazy?!
-Can Friends of the Opposite Sex be friends without it leading to sex?!
-Should my husband listen to me or should I be more understanding!?
Have a relationship question you want answered? Visit AskTheMartins.com
2/13/2020 • 34 minutes, 1 second
Season 3-Dating With Kids All Your Questions Answered!
When should you introduce them to the kids?
What Types of conversations should we be having about kids?
What if they never let me meet their kids?!?
All these questions answered AND MORE from our audience about dating with children!
Do you have a question that you want answered? Send us a DM on Instagram or Facebook @AskTheMartins!
Visit us online AskTheMartins.com
11/13/2019 • 1 hour, 20 seconds
Season 3-My Wife & The Other Woman (My MOTHER)
Today we are answering 2 letters from people who are having issues with mothers disrspecting their relationships!
One couple is married, the other is single...and we provide 2 VERY different perspectives to both sides!
This is a GREAT ONE. Take a listen to see how we break this down and don't forget to leave us a review!
10/15/2019 • 38 minutes, 2 seconds
Season 3 - They Said I'd Be A FOOL To Let Him Go BUT....
On This Episode of The Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a letter from a young lady who is a worship leader and loves God and believed that the man in her life was a man of God. But as soon as he got her HOOKED, he changed. He love bombed her, swept her off her feet and then dropped her HARD...
She's tried to let him Go but her friends, family and the CHURCH believe she should pray through it...
Listen in as we give her some sobering advice about the CLEAR Narcissistic Traits that we see in her "Man of God"...
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9/25/2019 • 47 minutes, 53 seconds
Season 3 - Relationship Q&A
On This Week's Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We answered your questions LIVE On the Air!
Here are some of the questions we answered-
-I'd Love to hear your thoughts on celibacy and dating - how to do it well through all stages.
-How to Make Long Distance Relationships Work
-How do you now if a guy wants you versus just needing you?
-When after Separation should you try to love again?
-How do you leave a toxic relationship without worrying that the spouse will hurt themselves?
-How to know if he is just going slow or not fully interested in me?
And So Much More!
Tune in to our Rapid Fire Q&A Sessions With You!
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9/19/2019 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 11 seconds
Season 3 - KevOnStage and MrsKevOnStage Talk Celibacy, Marriage and Dream Building
We are Kicking off Season 3 of the Soul-Ties® Podcast with an Intimate conversation that we had with KevOnStage and his lovely wife, MrsKevOnStage.
While we started this conversation taking a trip down memory lane, we actually dive deeper into some HEAVY conversations on Celibacy while dating, dream building as a couple and how they weathered through the challenges of their marriage that could have broken them, but only made them stronger!
Tune in and let us know below what YOU Thought about this impactful conversation!
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9/12/2019 • 25 minutes, 47 seconds
Podcast Rewind! No Matter How Many Times He Hurts Me, I Keep Going Back
It's the LAST Podcast Rewind before we Kick Off Season 3 of the Soul-Ties Podcast and Ya'll...We saved the best for Last...
We answering a letter from a woman who continues to let a man break her heart...Ad some how, he's blamed her for HIS bad behavior...and she's been groomed to believe it.
Listen in as we help her understand WHY it's so hard to let go and what she needs to do to continue to move forward...
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8/27/2019 • 41 minutes, 25 seconds
Podcast Rewind - How Could He Move On Like I Never Existed?!?!
On This Episode of The Soul-Ties Podcast, We are doing ANOTHER Rewind where we are tackling a letter from a young lady who invested EVERYTHING into a relationship that she hoped was headed towards marriage...but after YEARS of building a life and buying a home with this man, he suddenly left her.
Listen in as we answer this tough question of HOW he could move SO QUICKLY, like she never existed!?!?
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8/7/2019 • 49 minutes, 11 seconds
Podcast Rewind! I Love Him But He's Not Ready
**AUDIO GETS BETTER AT 4-MIN MARK**
This is a Soul-Ties Summer Rewind of one of our most popular episodes! We answer 2 letters from women who are in love with Broken Men and are having a hard time accepting that they aren't ready AND that they can't love them through their brokenness...
Season 3 begins in September so make sure you are subscribed on iTunes, Spotify, Soundcloud OR Stitcher!
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7/31/2019 • 58 minutes, 48 seconds
Season 2 - If I Let Him Go, What Will Happen To Our Daughter?
On this Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a letter from a young woman who has been in an on and off relationship with her daughter's father.
He's woo'd, begged, pleaded, made promises and even threatened suicide to get her attention and get her back!
Listen in as we give her some very tough but necessary insight on WHY she's staying connected to him and the necessary steps she needs to take to let him go.
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7/16/2019 • 41 minutes, 4 seconds
Season 2-I Love Her But I Think I Should Call The Wedding Off!
We're answering another letter from a gentleman who THOUGHT he was engaged to the love of his life until she flipped the script and became extremely toxic and abusive.
Listen in as we help this brother answer a very tough question..."Should I Call Off My Wedding?"
7/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 28 seconds
Season 2-He Wants Me To Choose Between Him And My Family?!?
On today’s episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we answered a letter from a young lady that is conflicted because her boyfriend is forcing her to choose between him and her family and she doesn't know what to do.
We give her some good but HARD advice to take. Tune in and be sure to leave a review!
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6/27/2019 • 25 minutes, 52 seconds
Season 2-Every time We Fight He Cheats on Me!
On This Episode of the Soul-Ties® Podcast, we are answering a letter from a young lady who says her boyfriend admitted to cheating every time they get into a fight! She wants to know how this equates to him loving her!
Listen in as we help her understand and decode what this behavior is REALLY saying to her!
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6/11/2019 • 38 minutes, 58 seconds
Season 2-Why She'll Get Fed Up And You'll Never See It Coming PART 2
On Part 2 of "Why She'll Get Fed Up, and You'll Never See It Coming," Kenyon is breaking down how men can avoid a woman getting fed up and walking out before it's too late!
We couldn't leave you with problems without offering up solutions so this is gonna be GOOD!
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6/5/2019 • 54 minutes, 23 seconds
Season 2-Why She'll Get Fed Up, And You'll Never See It Coming (PART ONE)
On This Episode of The Soul-Ties Podcast, We answer a letter from a man who sent us a DESPERATE DM begging us to help him save his relationship after she just up and decided to leave out of now where!
On Part ONE, We're breaking down 7 of the main reasons why MOST women get fed up and how their men NEVER SEE IT COMING!
Stay Tuned for PART TWO Later this week!
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5/29/2019 • 1 hour, 20 seconds
Season 2-I Built Him From The Ground Up But He Treats Me Like Trash
On This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We Dive into Our DMs and answer 2 questions (one from a single person, and one from a married person) and they are FIRE!!!
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5/21/2019 • 37 minutes, 13 seconds
Season 2- Why Do I Keep Attracting All The Wrong People?!
On This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a question from a young lady who wants to know why she keeps ALL the wrong men that her city and church has to offer!
Listen in as Kenyon and Taccara break down how we can unintentionally attract the wrong people and what we should be paying attention to before we end up in the wrong relationships!
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5/7/2019 • 42 minutes, 33 seconds
Season 2-It's Over But God Told Me He Was The One!!
On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we answer a letter from a young lady who is struggling after breaking up with her child's father. She BELIEVED That God told her that this man was the one, but now that it's over, she's questioning her ability to actually HEAR God's voice.
Tune in and listen to how we help her understand why she feels the way she does and how to begin to move forward.
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4/8/2019 • 47 minutes, 10 seconds
Season 2- How Do I Heal As A Broken Man?
On This Episode of The Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a letter from a man who, after being the quintessential "Nice Guy," STILL had his heart broken by a woman he gave EVERYTHING to!
So he asked us how to go about healing AND Trusting again.
Kenyon drops some AMAZING gems here on:
-Men becoming the woman that a woman wants
-How men should heal after heartbreak
-And key things men need to do in order to develop themselves before entering into a NEW relationship.
Come on in and take a listen!
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4/2/2019 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 5 seconds
Season 2-He Won't Touch Me
On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We are answering a letter from a young lady who is dating a man that won't feed her in the love language she desires. She's tried EVERYTHING and he still refuses.
What Should She DO?!?!?
Listen in as we not only give HER advice, but also give some advice to the married people that may be dealing with this as well.
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3/26/2019 • 51 minutes, 42 seconds
Season 2-Soul-Ties Q&A! All Your Questions Answered
This Week On the Soul-Ties Podcast, We're Answering All Your Questions About SOUL-TIES!
-Why They're So Hard to Break
-Why Sexual Soul-Ties Impact Us So Much
-Why Doesn't Anyone Talk About MEN and Soul-Ties?!?
...And So Much More!
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3/13/2019 • 57 minutes, 35 seconds
Season 2 - Ask Us Anything About Dating! Dating Q&A
In This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We spend an entire hour answering your dating questions...And they are SOOOO Good!
Take a listen as we answer questions like:
"How soon is it to make your dating intentions known?"
"Why do Toxic People Speak My Love Language So Well?!"
...And SOO MANY MORE!!
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3/5/2019 • 59 minutes, 22 seconds
Season 2- I Told Myself I Would Let Him Go But...
In this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a letter from young lady who allowed a man back in her life from her past and he disappointed her...AGAIN.
She made a New Year's Resolution that she would let him go for good but she is ITCHING to go back and give him a piece of her mind and let him know how badly he hurt her again...Should she do it?
Listen in as we give her some sound advice on what to do, and how to move forward!
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2/25/2019 • 26 minutes, 33 seconds
Season 2- I'm Ready For Love
Welcome to Season 2 of the Soul-Ties Podcast! We are kicking it off in February and focusing on Love and Dating!
On This Episode, we are helping you make some Love & Dating Declarations to help you lay a better foundation for your future relationships!
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2/12/2019 • 59 minutes, 18 seconds
What Is Wrong With Me
In This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, We are answering a letter from a young lady that is trying to figure out why EVERY man she's dated in the last 2 years has left her?!?
We unpack some serious and gut-wrenching truths and you don't want to miss it.
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12/12/2018 • 28 minutes, 8 seconds
I Let Him Back In And Now I'm Hurt
On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we answer TWO letters. One from a young lady who is struggling with the idea of dating a man she KNOWS she is settling for. Another from a young lady who divorced her husband and, against her better judgement, let him back in.
Listen in as we answer these 2 letters.
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11/28/2018 • 45 minutes, 12 seconds
They're Expecting, But He's MY HUSBAND
On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we answer a letter from a young lady who is trying to decide if she should give her husband a chance after he had an affair that resulted in a child!
What would YOU DO?!?
Listen in as we help her understand her options and give her some guidance for what lies ahead.
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11/11/2018 • 45 minutes, 38 seconds
We're Divorced But He Left Me With An STD!
On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we answer a letter from a young woman who has just gone through a divorce but found out that she will NEVER be fully rid of him because of what he's left her with.
Listen in on how we help her begin to navigate the idea of dating, love and acceptance!
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11/6/2018 • 29 minutes, 38 seconds
Mama's Boy: He's Married To His Mama And I'm The Side-Chick
On This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a letter from a wife who says her husband is a mama's boy and she always comes second to her mother-in-law!
Listen in to how we answer this letter and give her some actionable steps to help heal her marriage!
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10/30/2018 • 45 minutes, 45 seconds
Breaking Soul Ties When Children Are Involved
This week on the Soul-Ties Podcast, we answer a SIMPLE question that's often complicated to navigate: How Do You Break Soul-Ties When Children Are Involved?
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9/13/2018 • 43 minutes, 41 seconds
It's Over But I Still Need Closure!
This week on the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering another explosive letter from our DMs where a woman, devastated after a break-up feels she can't move on until she gets closure!
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The Letter:
Dear Ken & Taccara,
I was referred to your podcast by one of my friends and I am hoping you can help me.
So My ex and I were together for a little over a year. We met online and it was long distance because he was Military. Even at a distance I felt the connection because I was there for him when he felt really alone at times. Over a few months we got to know each other pretty well because all we could do was—TALK. We talked about everything. our lives, our upbringing, and our pasts. I learned that he had a pretty tough childhood and he thought it would scare me away, but his honesty made me fall in love with him even more. The fact that he trusted me made me open to trusting him.
As soon as he got home from deployment, we finally saw each other and it was a done deal, we were together. He was great and took care of me and made me feel really special. We began to make plans together for the future. To me that didn't just mean knowing him, it was knowing his family, But he would never talk about his family. I mean, I introduced him to my family… everybody, my mom sisters…friends… That's normal right? So I thought he was being weird, but he insisted that his family was distant and they didn’t have a good relationship…AND he didn’t even have friends that were close enough to come visit…I know, I know that was a red flag… but still I loved him and I was planning my Life with him.
So One day I did it, I went through his phone when he was in the shower. I know it was wrong but I couldn’t help it. Part of me was just hoping he was sharing me to his family or a friend…even a military buddy…the other part of me was just looking for what's really going on.
I didn't see nothing about any family I thought I’d see…Oh I saw some family and I saw some friends BUT NOT WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR.
I saw different women asking him “when are you coming back?” OR “not sure if you’ll see this since you’re deployed but…then a naked pic” all these texts from different women… But then I saw a message from a little girl asking "daddy, what day do you come back again? “” and he told her February for her birthday… the same month he told me he was being deployed again… I'm sitting here planning my life with a man who I just found out has a whole family, fiancée, daughter, all of that.
Yall My world was shattered but I was praying that it was just a big mistake or big misunderstanding. I confronted him about it. He got so angry like I did it. He started throwing things and telling me that I was insecure and disrespectful. He told me I was needy, he felt sorry for me… He blamed me for him being with me... Like I made him do that.
After that He changed, he got cold. I had no idea who this man was. He wasn’t the same guy who I was messaging and texting. And I was torn into pieces! He moved out and I haven’t heard from him. My heart hurts from what he did to me… and this will sound dumb BUT I miss him… I need to know why he chose me…hell maybe why didn't he choose me…. idk
It’s been 8 months. I’ve tried searching for him online. I’ve tried calling people I knew he was deployed with (they won’t answer my calls) and I should've kept those numbers I saw… But I was too shook…. I honestly don’t even have enough information about who he really is.
I just keep searching for answers AND HIM because this just CAN’T be how it all ends. I know the relationship is over, but I can’t seem to move on until I get closure.
HELP
9/4/2018 • 43 minutes, 46 seconds
Left Behind-He Moved On Like I Never Existed
Tune in on This Episode Where We Answer This Explosive Letter Where the Listener Asks "How Could He Move On Like I Never Existed?!" The letter is posted below.
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Letter:
Dear Kenyon and Taccara Martin,
What do you do when your ex of SEVEN YEARS has a whole new life (with another woman) after only 4-months?! Please tell me cause that is where I am right NOW.
I thought we were in love. I just knew we would last forever. I thought we would end up married, eventually, but he’s always said he wanted to take his time on such a big commitment. SO, I accepted that and made a life with him in every other way. Meaning…we made plans for a future together, we saved money for a future together, we even bought a house for our future…TOGETHER. It got to the point where I just bought a ring to wear on my finger because we literally had everything else that most had in a marriage. And did I mention..WE WERE HAPPY?!?
Until last year.
Suddenly, we began fighting all the time. I began to feel like he didn’t like me or like he was always disgusted with me or disappointed with me. Over the past year it was like he went from being the man of my dreams to living in a nightmare on elm street. As time went on, he started staying out late. On some nights he didn’t even come home. One time I didn’t see him all weekend and I literally called the police to report him as a missing person. He wouldn’t answer my calls. I didn’t know what else to think other than something happened to him.
When he finally came home, he said he was staying at his mother’s house doing some “soul searching” and came to a tough decision…he didn’t want to be with me any more. He doesn’t love me like he used to. He made a mistake staying with me for so long. He even said he felt like I took some of his best years from him because I was so needy and it made him feel obligated to stay. None of these things are words you would say to a woman you said you’d marry. But he did.
It’s been 4 months since he walked out that door and, not only did he leave me with a mortgage and 2 dogs, he’s created an entire whole life with another woman. She’s friends with one of my co-workers on Facebook I found out that they live together, are planning a future together and are having a baby together. They seem so happy and I’m over here still spinning from it all.
How is it that he is able to move on so EASY after leaving me so broken and feeling betrayed?
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8/21/2018 • 51 minutes, 7 seconds
No Matter How Many Times He Hurts Me, I Keep Going Back
On this episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering a letter from a young woman who has been deeply hurt by someone, but she keeps going back. We've posted the letter below.
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Dear Ken and Taccara,
I am SOOO excited to have met ya’ll at woman evolve! You have no idea of how ON TIME this was…Thank you for your openness…
I picked up your detox box and book because I was hoping it would help. I know we talked a little there but I want to give some details.
I can honestly say that I keep going back to someone who hurts me over and over again.
He’s a "man of God" and, when we first started dating, he said I was everything he was looking for in a wife. And I have to admit that he had me right there at hello.
I jumped full-speed into preparing to be his wife and began to make all of the changes and compromises for US… .
We spent all of our time together, began making all sorts of plans for our future and EVERYONE of my friends that met him REALLY loved him. He was amazing.
About 5 months in, I started seeing some changes in the way he acted towards me. He stopped spending as much time with me, saying he’s gotten busy. It felt like I came at the end of whatever else he was focused on… an after thought or when he had spare time for me.
Every time I asked him if we were good, he would say "yeah" and that he loved me. But it was still off.
Ok.…I'm going to hurry this up… One morning, I think it was a Sunday somewhere around 3am I got a call. Not a text, not an amber alert an actual call.. I thought somebody had died…don't nobody in their right mind call like that unless they dead or in jail… But it wasn’t. It was a woman who said she’d seen my number in her man's phone and she was trying to figure out if this was what it FELT like... I asked her who her man was and sure enough, it was the same guy I'm dating. They had been together for 3 months.
So I confronted him about it… He didn't even try to hide it. He was up front and said that he was “talking” to this woman. But he wouldn't be if not for me… Like what?
He said that after a few months with me, he noticed things about me that weren’t exactly what he’d consider “wife material”…and this is After he called me his whole wife from Jump? When I asked him what he meant? He said I don’t support him enough. I don’t give him the attention he needs, and he wasn’t sure if I would ever change. And….because he questioned me, he was TEMPTED by other women.
I know this makes me sound stupid ya’ll, but I didn’t break up with him.
I tried harder to please him. I tried to be what he said I wasn't.
I really believed that I wasn’t doing enough.
It’s been 2 years and he’s still saying that I’m not doing enough AND during this time he’s cheated at least 2 more times. And each time, I get mad, say I’m done…leave . And then he finds his way back in either by guilting me or romancing me…both have their way of working. SOOO That’s why I purchased your book.
I'm ready for this CYCLE to be over. I'll start reading… but I wanted to get some of your insight too. Is there something wrong with me. Why can't I let go, or when I think I do…how does he keep making me feel like he did when we FIRST met! I love him. I admit it. But I don’t think he will ever give me what I deserve.
What do I do?!? I want to be free, but I keep going back
8/7/2018 • 44 minutes, 42 seconds
Being In Love With a Narcissist PART FOUR: How Do I Get Over Them?!?
In Part FOUR of our explosive series, we tackle how to get over a narcissist, while also answering some of the most common questions about these relationships.
Join us as we complete in the FINAL phase of this series and then get ready for August 2018, where we return to our NORMAL Format and answer some FIRE relationship questions!
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7/30/2018 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 23 seconds
Being In Love With A Narcissist, Part THREE: The Covert Narcissist
This is Part THREE of our Soul-Ties Podcast series, "Being in Love With a Narcissist."
what is a Narcissist? How to Identify their Key Traits? And How to Move Forward After Leaving them?
We are answering key questions and giving advice on insight on how YOU can guard your heart when you encounter these toxic people.
For more information on the Soul-Ties Detox OR to get your relationship questions answered, visit TheSoulTiesDetox.com
6/28/2018 • 46 minutes, 19 seconds
Being in Love With A Narcissist, Part TWO
This is Part TWO of our Soul-Ties Podcast series, "Being in Love With a Narcissist."
what is a Narcissist? How to Identify their Key Traits? And How to Move Forward After Leaving them?
We are answering key questions and giving advice on insight on how YOU can guard your heart when you encounter these toxic people.
For more information on the Soul-Ties Detox OR to get your relationship questions answered, visit TheSoulTiesDetox.com
6/25/2018 • 37 minutes, 45 seconds
Being in Love With a Narcissist Part ONE
On This Week's Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we begin a NEW Series where we are talking about loving a narcissist.
We are answering key questions and giving advice on insight on how YOU can guard your heart when you encounter these toxic people.
For more information on the Soul-Ties Detox OR to get your relationship questions answered, visit TheSoulTiesDetox.com
6/14/2018 • 40 minutes, 54 seconds
Should I Take Him Back?
On this episode, we are answering a simple, yet DEEP letter where a woman asks, if she should start DATING her Ex-HUSBAND again?!
Listen in as we help this listener identify what signs she should be looking for in her ex, as well as the steps SHE should be taking to protect her heart!
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6/4/2018 • 38 minutes, 9 seconds
Soul-Ties & Marriage: We Are Spilling the T.E.A!
This week we are answering a letter from a wife who asks, "Can Soul-Ties Be GOOD between Husband and a Wife?"
Take a listen as we talk about how Soul-Ties impact marriage as well as bring you the 3 main ingredients to cultivate healthy Soul-Ties between a couple.
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6/4/2018 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 58 seconds
Self - Abandonment For The Sake Of Your Relationship
He had an Affair that resulted in a child and she is done...BUT...He's now been diagnosed with a mental health issue that makes her feel guilty for even thinking about leaving...
The issues here seem clear and to the point. However, when Kenyon + Taccara examine the letter more closely, something more damning comes to light.
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5/15/2018 • 47 minutes, 26 seconds
Your Questions About Men Answered-Part TWO!
Last Week on the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering some of our most common questions to date about men. We went DEEP! So much so that we had to break this up into TWO episodes! This is Part Two! If you haven't checked out part one yet, visit http://thesoultiesdetox.com/relationship-qa-your-questions-about-men-answered-part-one/
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4/25/2018 • 22 minutes, 46 seconds
Your Questions About Men Answered Part ONE
This Week on the Soul-Ties Podcast, we are answering some of our most common questions to date about men. We went DEEP! So much so that we had to break this up into TWO episodes!
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4/16/2018 • 47 minutes, 24 seconds
Quality Time - Is Your Love Language Hurting You In Dating?
We are continuing with our Love Languages Series, "Is Your Love Language Hurting You In Dating?" Where we help you identify your Love Language, understand how it gives access to your vulnerabilities and leaves you more susceptible to hurt, and then, we you teach you how to protect your heart when dating!
This episode, we are tackling Quality Time!
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4/11/2018 • 53 minutes, 30 seconds
Words Of Affirmation - Is Your Love Language Hurting You In Dating?
We are continuing with our Love Languages Series, "Is Your Love Language Hurting You In Dating?" Where we help you identify your Love Language, understand how it gives access to your vulnerabilities and leaves you more susceptible to hurt, and then, we you teach you how to protect your heart when dating!
This episode, we are tackling Words of Affirmation!
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4/11/2018 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 2 seconds
Acts Of Service-Is Your Love Language Hurting You in Dating?
We are continuing with our Love Languages Series, "Is Your Love Language Hurting You In Dating?" Where we help you identify your Love Language, understand how it gives access to your vulnerabilities and leaves you more susceptible to hurt, and then how to protect your heart when dating!
Not sure how to find what your love language is? Go to TheSoulTiesDetox.com/lovelanguage for a direct link to learning your love language
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2/23/2018 • 46 minutes, 52 seconds
Physical Touch-Is Your Love Language Hurting You In Dating?
This week we continue with our dating series, "Is Your Love Language Hurting You In Dating?" Where we help you identify your Love Language, understand how it gives access to your vulnerabilities and leaves you more susceptible to hurt, and then how to protect your heart when dating!
Not sure how to find what your love language is? Go to TheSoulTiesDetox.com/lovelanguage for a direct link to learning your love language
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2/13/2018 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 32 seconds
Receiving Gifts-Is Your Love Language Hurting You in Dating?
Of course, we’ve had to help people understand their individual Love Language in an effort to help them foster healthy a marriage. However, when counseling individuals through a journey of healing, we take them through a process of self-discovery and personal growth that includes helping them see how their love language can be used to exploit their vulnerability, and how to protect their hearts when dating.
Take this journey with us! We are going to spend 5-days/podcast episodes walking you through each of the 5 Love Languages® to help you understand how they give access to your vulnerabilities, how they can leave you more susceptible to hurt and how to protect your heart when dating!
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2/5/2018 • 41 minutes, 48 seconds
He Left Me At The Alter, Should I Take Him Back?!?
On This Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we answer 2 more explosive letters from women who have been left and abandoned by people who swore to love them until death.
The first, a wife whose husband simply decided he no longer wanted to be married. The second, a blushing bride whose fiance called their wedding off the day before the wedding. Both feeling irreparably shattered and equally confused because now BOTH of their "exes" want them back!
Listen in as we give some HARD advice to these 2 ladies!
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1/29/2018 • 50 minutes, 16 seconds
Soul - Tied! He KEEPS Hurting Me So Why Can't I Let Go?!?!
This letter broke our hearts a bit. A young lady wrote us after being hurt SEVERAL times by the father of her child. She knows he's bad for her. She understands she MUST move on...but she is not sure how....
This is a classic case of Soul-Ties and while we knew our book would absolutely help her, we first wanted to help her face some very real truths about her current situation.
Take a listen and don't forget to Subscribe and leave us a rating on iTunes to help us spread the message of HEALING!
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1/22/2018 • 43 minutes, 5 seconds
She Bought a Wedding Dress, But He Hasn't Proposed: How to Tell if He's REALLY Ready to be a Husband
In this episode, we answer a young lady's email where she is asking if she's operating in Faith or out of Foolishness?
He's expressed his desire to marry her but he's moving too slow...So she bought a dress and has begun to subtly plan her wedding without knowing if or when he will propose.
Listen in as we answer this very hard question but also give you 6-Signs a Man is Ready to Be a Husband...TO YOU!
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1/15/2018 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 22 seconds
God Told Him I'm His Wife, But He's Taking Too Long!
On this Episode of the Soul-Ties Podcast, we read a letter from a young lady who has been told by a gentleman that God confirmed to him that she was supposed to be his wife. So she's waiting... on His timing and His readiness.
So she wants to know how to "wait" when she believes already knows the end result...How we advised her was probably not what she was looking for, but it was NEEDED!
Listen in and don't forget to Subscribe and leave a review! We'd love to hear from you!
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1/2/2018 • 34 minutes, 55 seconds
When Hanging On Leaves You Hanging-
This week on the Soul-Ties Podcast we answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend broke up with her, because he wasn't ready for commitment, only to end up ENGAGED to someone else...Now...they are back together and she has no idea where their relationship is going.
Listen in as we give her some key advice on what to do next...Visit us at the SoulTiesDetox.com for more great resources to help you break the Cycle of Toxic Relationships!
12/12/2017 • 40 minutes, 44 seconds
Dating with Kids: I Love Him BUT He Doesn't Like My Kids!
In this Soul-Cast, we address the letter of a young lady with 3 children who is dating a man who doesn't seem to like her children! We will give you tips on what NOT to do when dating with kids as well as give you the TOP signs that someone is good to you but may not be good for your children! Subscribe and leave us a comment!
12/5/2017 • 53 minutes, 2 seconds
Soul - Ties Podcast - 006 - Help! Jesus Stole My Man!
Marriage alone is a sensitive enough subject!
When speaking with couples where faith is as much a part of their vocational status as it is their marital status, there is an extra layer of sensitivity due to people's convictions.
Listen in as Kenyon & Taccara answers 2 letters from 2 women married to ministers that are suffering while feeling like it is THEIR duty come last to his ministry and ministerial duties...
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11/1/2017 • 55 minutes, 14 seconds
Soul - Ties Podcast - 005 - I'm In Love With Him, But He's Not Ready
We are back with 2 explosive letters that we've received from our viewer audience and BOTH ladies are in love with men who have been hurt by their past and are not yet ready for a relationship.
What should they do?
Listen in as Ken & Taccara help these 2 ladies understand what men in these situations truly need and face some hard truths about their dilemmas.
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10/23/2017 • 1 hour, 58 seconds
Soul - Ties Podcast - 004 - How To Encourage Your Man When Hes Struggling
"My Husband lost his job... I'm trying to support him but he keeps rejecting it, what am I doing wrong?"
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10/16/2017 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 42 seconds
Soul - Ties Podcast - 003 Co - Parenting With A Narcissist
Shared and Co-parenting is HARD, especially in the beginning after the fall out of the break-up or divorce. Native to the environment of shared parenting is the continuous presence of two adults at odds with each other. There is a mental and emotional defensive mode that is turned on, while trying to accommodate the shared child(ren)'s need for both parents. In addition there is residual hurt, anger, resentment and the need for healing that must also be addressed. All of that is wrapped in an anxiety equivalent to the feeling of walking into a lion's cage every time you're around the Ex. This anxiety gets even worse when the animal in the cage is a Narcissist.
In this episode of the Soul Cast Podcast, we give our listeners 5 Simple (kind of) Rules for Managing the Relationship with their Narcissist Ex as a Co-Parent.
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10/11/2017 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 42 seconds
Soul - Ties Podcast Episode 002-The Accidental Side Chick
What would YOU do if you discovered that you were the accidental side chick?
You've been dating a wonderful man for months, maybe years and, even though he's busy and works a lot, he takes such good care of you. He's a private person so he doesn't have social media accounts and, even though he's tired from working so hard, he makes it a point to stop by to see you after work to ensure you know he's thinking about you....Then, one Sunday morning, you are scrolling Facebook and see "congratulations" on a beautiful wedding picture. Since you and your man have been talking about getting married some day, you can't help but get excited by simply looking at someone else's "Big Day."
But then...you notice that the groom in this picture looks scarily familiar. He looks like your man....so you scroll through the comments just to see if there is a different name written in the tags...But no...that's when it hits you...like a ton of bricks. You've just discovered that you're the "Accidental Side Chick"...
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10/2/2017 • 40 minutes, 5 seconds
Soul Ties Podcast Episode 001-Infidelity
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9/21/2017 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 44 seconds