This episode of Pure Sex Radio is taken from our Grace-Based Recovery webinar training which outlines the 9 key principles in the Grace-Based Recovery book. This fourth principle helps one understand the value and necessity of authentic community; that a recovery group is where they belong and are welcomed. Learn how to create a "belonging" recovery environment.For more information about the book and the webinar series, visit GraceBasedRecovery.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guiest: Anne Kerr (TrueNorthFP.org) and Troy Haas (HopeQuestGroup.org) Church and ministry leaders acknowledge that issues surrounding sexuality are of key importance in our world today. But many still do not know how to address these issues from a solid biblical perspective, and with grace. The Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit is a leading training resources for such leaders. This episode gives insight on this training event from two of the key sponsors. For more info about the Summit, visit SexualIntegrityLeaders.com. Use coupon code puresex to register for only $99! (Regular rate is $179)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This episode of Pure Sex Radio is taken from our Grace-Based Recovery webinar training which outlines the 9 key principles in the Grace-Based Recovery book. This third principle helps one understand the necessity of brining their story into the light of community. For more information about the book and the webinar series, visit GraceBasedRecovery.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Often we do not fully understand the impact of our parent's brokenness in our lives growing up. Such brokenness can manifest in rejection. How do we recover from the wounds of rejection? This episode gives you a practical picture of what healing from rejection wounds might look like. We hope it blesses you and brings you hope to recover from any rejection you have experienced. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Gigi Hopkins This is Part 2 of our conversation with Wives Care Coordinator Gigi Hopkins to answer specific questions from wives struggling through the healing journey from betrayal. We don't pretend to have all the answers, but we trust this episode will be helpful and hopeful to wives at any stage in their healing process.  Get info about the Wives Care Online Groups at WivesCare.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) When men fail (stumble or relapse) in recovery, what happened? And why does it matter to unpack what happens in a recovery stumble? This episode peels back the layers of failure to gain insights that might help you respond better to future similar temptations. We have LOTS of experience in this area, so we hope our conversation will be useful to you.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This episode of Pure Sex Radio is taken from our Grace-Based Recovery webinar training which outlines the 9 key principles in the Grace-Based Recovery book. This second principle helps one understand the power of God's grace as the foundation for overcoming any addiction. For more information about the book and the webinar series, visit GraceBasedRecovery.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Gigi Hopkins Many wives reach out to us for help to navigate through the pain of sexual betrayal. They come with lots of questions. In this episode we address some of the specific questions wives have asked us recently. We don't pretend to have all the answers, but we trust this episode will be helpful and hopeful to wives at any stage in their healing process.Get info about the Wives Care Basics Webinar at WivesCare.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) There is so much lying and deception in the world, especially among those who have developed an addiction. But why do we lie? And how does knowing this help us embrace the truth? This episode dissects lying in hopes that you will see possible patterns of deception in your own life and how you can become a "pathological truth teller." Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This episode of Pure Sex Radio is taken from our Grace-Based Recovery webinar training which outlines the 9 key principles in the Grace-Based Recovery book. This first principle helps one understand the importance of a safe environment; that healing requires an environment where trust is mutually valued. For more information about the book and the webinar series, visit GraceBasedRecovery.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: David Kyle Foster (PurePassion.us) Is there a standard for truth when it comes to dealing with issues of sexual brokenness? Is God's Word really true -- and good? Does God's Spirit still move today and touch broken lives? David Kyle Foster joins us in this episode to share his story and offer wisdom and insights from his 30+ years in full-time ministry to sexually broken people. Find hope, encouragement, and healing through this message of truth and grace. Order Sexual Healing Book at http://purepassion.us/shop/store.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) For men who admit to a sexual struggle, the journey toward greater integrity requires intentional steps in the right direction. This episode is a collection of many key insights and action steps to help men gain traction and momentum in their pursuit of godly character. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Your brain controls your body. Duh, right? But do we understand all the ways that the wiring of the brain affects and strengthens habits or behaviors? In this episode Jonathan and Stephen unpack excellent brain research from Dr. Norman Doidge to give you insight into how your brain works and how you can change unwanted patterns.  Learn more about Dr. Doidge at http://www.normandoidge.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: John Fort It doesn't take much research to conclude that our American society is sexually confused. And parents, as the shapers of the next generation, are struggling to know how to address sexuality with their children. In this episode we will learn from John Fort, author of the Parenting for Purity online course, about how parents can help their kids navigate the sexual revolution with truth and confidence. Learn more about the Pure Parenting Basics online course at https://www.purelifeacademy.org/courses/pure-parenting-basics. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: MJ Denis (Crossroads-Counseling.net) When a woman faces sexual betrayal from her partner it is an overwhelming trauma. What choices does she have in response? And why would a woman choose to stay? In this episode we hear from MJ Denis, a counselor with experience in dealing with relational trauma and how to heal from it. Download Show Notes at http://why-women-stay.puresexradio.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Every man can grow in emotional maturity. But such growth does not occur organically, or without effort. It takes focus, and it matters what you focus on. This episode offers a 7-day challenge for men who want to take seriously their emotional growth. For a PDF download of the 7-Day Proclamation, go to http://7day-challenge.puresexradio.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Hundreds of men over the past 10 years have attended our Gateway to Freedom workshop. These weekend intensives help men unpack their stories and deal with their deepest wounds and sexual strongholds. Many men discover amazing insights into their emotional stuntedness. This episode reveals some of those insights and how to mature emotionally. To sign up for the next Emotional Training for Men webinar, visit https://www.puresexradio.com/webinars.html.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Jonathan Daugherty has over 15 years in vocational ministry to men struggling with sexual brokenness issues. This episode is a recording of a Q&A session with Jonathan for men in Atlanta. Listen in as he covers topics like masturbation, temptation, sex in marriage, parenting, and more.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

What are the key characteristics of a man of integrity? This episode is taken from a talk that Jonathan gave to a group of men in Atlanta earlier this year. Gain hope and insight for living every day in God's design.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: MJ Denis (Crossroads-Counseling.net) When a couple faces the difficulty of sexual betrayal, what choices do they have for moving forward? Many couples feel they only have two options: stay or go. What about a third option? This 2-part program explores the option of therapeutic separation, with advice and insight from MJ Denis, a highly qualified counselor with experience in this field. Download shows notes for this interview at http://Therapeutic-Separation.PureSexRadio.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: MJ Denis (Crossroads-Counseling.net) When a couple faces the difficulty of sexual betrayal, what choices do they have for moving forward? Many couples feel they only have two options: stay or go. What about a third option? This 2-part program explores the option of therapeutic separation, with advice and insight from MJ Denis, a highly qualified counselor with experience in this field. Download shows notes for this interview at http://Therapeutic-Separation.PureSexRadio.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Jessica McDaniel (AustinStoneCounseling.org) Can confession be a vital practice in building intimacy in marriage? Or is confession just something that must be done to "put the past behind you" and move on? In this episode we have our friend Jessica McDaniel back to help us unpack the benefits and practice of confession and disclosure in marriage. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Men, do you want to improve and grow as a man? If so, how do you do that? You must start by asking the right questions. This episode explores 9 key questions to help you "step up your game" as the man God called you to be. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Most of us get it that betrayal is wrong and hurtful. But do we understand that sexual betrayal in a marriage relationship is a traumatic experience? This episode unpacks the stories of many women who have experienced this trauma and how we can respond with grace and truth. For more help, visit WivesCare.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Jessica McDaniel (AustinStoneCounseling.org) There are a lot of resources available to couples where one spouse acts out sexually and the other experiences betrayal. But what happens when the betrayed spouse ends up cheating too? Our guest, Jessica McDaniel, has personal experience with this scenario. She also has experience as a licensed counselor. She brings insights to this topic with professional authority and personal compassion.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Fundamental to living a life of integrity and purpose is growing emotionally and spiritually. Ultimately, life boils down to one's connection with God. This episode unpacks what spiritual growth looks like and how it affects every area of life. If you want to grow in Christ, listen in for insights and inspiration. And give us your insights and tips @PureSexRadio or Facebook.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Eddie Capparucci We know that sexual addiction is real, but do we know why men abuse sex? Our guest, Eddie Capparucci, has lots of experience counseling men in this area. In this broadcast Eddie shares nine reasons why men might abuse sex and offers hope for breaking free. Learn more about Eddie and his resources at AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) This episode is a shotgun blast of ideas and insights to help you grow and mature. Stephen and Jonathan discuss the topics of love, aloneness, intimacy, personal uniqueness and value, disappointment, resentment, truth, and hope. Listen in to be challenged and encouraged in your journey toward greater integrity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Nick Stumbo was a senior pastor with a porn struggle. This is not an uncommon story, but not all pastors with such a struggle are willing to bring it into the light. But Nick did bring it into the light and worked through healing with his church. Now he is the executive director of Pure Desire and helps lead others into the light of truth and grace regarding God's design for sexuality. Hear his story and his insights for living in the light.  Learn more at http://www.PureDesire.org. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Kristen Jenson (ProtectYoungMinds.org) The world is awash in sex and pornography is affecting younger and younger children. How can parents address this issue even with their preschoolers and elementary aged children? Our guest, Kristen Jenson, has written an excellent book FOR children to understand the dangers of porn before they are traumatized by it. This episode is a review and explanation of the book, Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Jr. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Camille Cates The confusion and questions surrounding sexuality are at an all-time high in our society. And for teenagers this seems magnified. How can parents and churches help young people understand and live out God's design for sexuality? Our guest, Camille Cates, has over 20 years of experience in helping teens navigate these questions and think deeper about design, identity, accountability, and love. Learn more and find resources at HealingHearts.org/youth.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) When betrayal trauma hits and the burden of pain and disappointment gets heavy, how is a wife to respond? What might it look like to bear this burden with integrity and purpose? Could this be a "heavenly mission" that produces something good? In this episode we share 7 key principles to help you carry such burdens with wisdom and grace.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) When betrayal trauma hits and the burden of pain and disappointment gets heavy, how is a wife to respond? What might it look like to bear this burden with integrity and purpose? Could this be a "heavenly mission" that produces something good? This 2-part series unpacks what it looks like to carry a heavy burden in a way that honors God and transforms you.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Mark Shaw (TheAddictionConnection.org) What is the difference between biblical counseling and traditional psychological counseling methods? And why is it important to make a distinction? Today's guest, Mark Shaw, brings his years of experience and expertise to this interesting (and sometimes controversial) topic. May you gain insights for your life that can only be attributed to the Wonderful Counselor, Jesus Christ.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guests: Gigi Hopkins and Marie Good What advice might a hurting wife give to her husband that could benefit his recovery process? This broadcast brings insights and tips from two wives who have experienced betrayal and come out the other side with powerful and helpful insights for husbands. Learn more about our wives care ministry at WivesCare.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) What are the differences between addiction thinking and healthy thinking, and how can you move toward the healthier? This broadcast unpacks many of the common patterns of addiction thinking and how to overcome them. You don't have to continue down the spiral of unhealthy thoughts. There is hope for a changed mind! A good book to help: The Lies We Believe by Dr. Chris ThurmanSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) On average, we experience 20 disappointments every day. Disappointment -- those moments when expectations are not met -- is a part of life. But if disappointment is not managed well it can lead to all kinds of unhealthy anger and coping behaviors. This broadcast is meant to help you understand disappointment and how to better manage it. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Gina Kaye (GinaKaye.info) How can we engage the culture on the issue of pornography and its effects in ways that are helpful and non-combative? Today's guest is Gina Kaye, an educator and advocate promoting prevention, treatment, and recovery from addiction, trauma, and abuse. She will help us understand how to better navigate addressing porn in the culture.  Learn more about LCAP at LoneStarCO.org. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Do we have a "man" problem in our society? Maybe. There seems to be a lot of "boy thinking" that is derailing the maturing process of men. This broadcast looks at the difference between "boy thinking" and "man thinking" to help our male listeners know where they are on this continuum and how to pursue greater maturity.  Visit Stephen's Facebook page at http://Facebook.com/HopeCounselingSATX. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Jonathan has written a completely new edition of Grace-Based Recovery. This is a resource for recovery groups who want to understand and apply the grace of God to overcome any addictive pattern. This broadcast outlines the principle of grace and what the book will offer to those in recovery. Order the book and register for the next training webinar at GraceBasedRecovery.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Mandy Majors (NextTalk.org) The world can seem like a scary place for raising kids. There are so many influences that are drawing us away from God's Word and the truth of our sexual design. How can we respond with grace and truth? Our guest, Mandy Majors, helps us understand how to address these issues with our children with confidence and clarity. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Recovery and growth take work. There is no "easy" road to emotional maturity. Because this journey is difficult it can be hard to embrace. This episode explores some of the most common excuses we hear and why they will prevent the desired outcome of recovery. Listen in to gain insights to help you take positive, intentional steps toward greater maturity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) When men admit they are struggling with sexual sin and brokenness they are invited to enter recovery. But different men can have different reactions to this process. This episode we explore 3 kinds of men in this process and how the process of recovery and growth affects each of them. We hope you gain insight and encouragement to pursue integrity with purpose and perseverance.  If you're a man who wants a catalyst for your growth, go to http://GatewayMen.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Gigi Hopkins (WivesCare.com) Where can wives who have experienced betrayal by their husbands find hope and healing? In this episode we hear from our Wives Care Coordinator, Gigi Hopkins, and she shares more about the Online Care Groups and how they can benefit a wife seeking hope and healing. Learn more at http://WivesCare.com. Download song Faithful One at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHKA2gKu_1A.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) How do we as Christians deal with the secular idea that things or possesions brings us happiness? And what connection does this have to do with our integrity? In this episode Jonathan and Stephen share personally about this and give insights for how to live as people of peace and contentment -- learning to attach to people, not objects. Send us your insights on this topic at [email protected] or on Twitter @PureSexRadio. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guests: Steve & Jamie Wiechman (BreatheLifeToday.com) We have Steve and Jamie Wiechman back with us on this episode (and this time, I pronounce their name right!). Steve and Jamie have a wonderful ministry to church leader couples who need encouragement and refreshment in the craziness of serving others. This episode explores how Steve & Jamie help couples learn to Rest, Heal and Play together.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guests: Steve & Jamie Wiechman (BreatheLifeToday.com) We love to tell stories on PSR of redemption and hope! Steve and Jamie Wiechman have a wonderful, imperfect story of brokennes, confusion, healing, and transformation. God has taken them on a journey of tremendous growth and insights, and this episode shares their story.  Share your story with us at [email protected]. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Last episode we brought back the conversation about Emotional Training for Men and laid the groundwork for this important workbook. This episode we will unpack the specifics about the 7 weeks of emotional work we are inviting men to work on.  Download a FREE copy of Week 1 of the Emotional Training for Men workbook at http://etm-week1.puresexradio.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) After 15 years in ministry to sexually broken men we have learned this: every man needs emotional training. Too many assume that simply eliminating destructive and sinful behaviors will automatically produce an emotionally mature man. But it isn't that simple. Emotional and spiritual maturity takes work -- and time. This is a continuing conversation about the importance of emotional training for men and how to take your next step in that direction. Download a FREE copy of Week 1 of the Emotional Training for Men workbook at http://etm-week1.puresexradio.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Lynn Cherry (LynnMarieCherry.com) What does the journey to forgiveness look like for a wife who has faced sexual betrayal from her husband? This is not something for a wife to take lightly. Nor can a wife ignore forgiveness and expect to be truly personally healthy. This is why we have Lynn Cherry on the program today. She is a woman who has traveled this road personally and has such deep and gracious wisdom to offer other wives who are walking this same path. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guests: Mark & Beth Denison  We have back with us Mark and Beth Denison to share more about the insights they have gained from recovery and how they minister to other couples who have faced similar brokenness and pain. Learn more about Mark and Beth's ministry at http://www.TheresStillHope.org.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guests: Mark & Beth Denison (TheresStillHope.org) Mark was a pastor -- and a sex addict. He tried to "manage" his addiction while growing a ministry. But it didn't work. It all fell apart. This is the story of Mark and his wife Beth and the journey they went through to discover restoration and the joy of "living in the light" of truth and grace. May you be encouraged and inspired to live a life of greater integrity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) How often do you pause to pray? What does it look like to bring brokenness and questions and every part of life before the Creator? This episode will provide a model for prayer that we hope encourages listeners to point their hearts and minds heavenward. Send us your reflections on prayer on our Twitter feed @puresexradio.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Can there be a positive connection between grieving and a great marriage? We believe there is. This episode explores the journey of one man and the discoveries he made regarding this connection between grieving unhealthy patterns and the joy and peace of a healthier marriage.  For more resources to grow a great marriage, visit PureCommunity.org.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

What might happen if we learned to talk with our kids about sexuality and their feelings rather than just trying to prevent or stop dangerous or damaging sexual behaviors? Our guest on this episode is John Fort, our Director of Training. He is the creator of the soon-to-launch Parenting for Purity online course. Discover why the relational approach is far more effective than the control approach.​Watch for Parenting for Purity at PureLifeAcademy.org.  Get alerted when the course goes live. Email [email protected] to request being notified.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: David Zailer Many Christians have a negative view toward 12-step programs because they think it is only a rigid system of behavior modification. But could there be room for grace in the 12-step process? David Zailer of Operation Integrity is with us on this episode to share his experience and insights on this issue. Learn more about David and his ministry at OperationIntegrity.org. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Last year (2017) we aired a 2-part broadcast on The Moment of Awakening (Nov 25 & Dec 2). This was one man's story of awakening and the insights he gained. This episode is the last of another 2-part series on this same man's second awakening -- with more, deeper insights. We hope this gives you a flavor of what the journey of a life of integrity can look like, and inspires you to keep pressing on... Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guests: Gigi Hopkins and Ronnie West There can be many different reactions to the issue of boundaries for a wife trying to navigate the healing journey after betrayal by her husband. This episode we have back with us Gigi Hopkins and Ronnie West to help better understand boundaries from a framework of personal dignity and responsibility. To learn more about our Wives Care ministry, visit WivesCare.com.  Previous Boundaries for Wives episode: http://mp3.puresexradio.com/shows/psr20180203.mp3Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Last year (2017) we aired a 2-part broadcast on The Moment of Awakening (Nov 25 & Dec 2). This was one man's story of awakening and the insights he gained. This episode is the first of another 2-part series on this same man's second awakening -- with more, deeper insights. We hope this gives you a flavor of what the journey of a life of integrity can look like, and inspires you to keep pressing on... Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Research is beginning to emerge that is showing how people are building a type of "relationship" with their technology. What impact might this have on our ability to connect with real people and even understand what healthy human relationships look like? Jonathan and Stephen dive into this topic and offer insights into how to manage technology in healthier ways.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Jay Stringer (jay-stringer.com) If you struggle with unwanted sexual behaviors have you ever examined your lustful fantasies to understand your brokenness? And what can such discovery mean for recovery and wholeness? Our guest on this episode is Jay Stringer, a licensed counselor and researcher who has conducted research that reveals significant predictors of porn use. Listen in to gain insights into your own heart. Learn more about Jay at jay-stringer.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Stephen and I (Jonathan) have been on this journey together of pursuing greater sexual integrity for nearly 20 years. And for the past 12 years we have been sharing our stories and insights with listeners from all over the world. In this broadcast we will try to answer this question: Why won't we go back to our old ways of lustful living? We hope our answers will inspire and encourage you in your personal pursuit of purity. For help starting (or continuing) your journey to greater purity, visit: http://7days.bebroken.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

We have David and Lyn Thomason back with us this week to share more about the process of restoration in their marriage and how they are using their story to help other marriages in crisis through Marriage Restored weekends. Be inspired and encouraged by this message of hope and healing for couples facing any crisis.​For marriage recovery, visit MarriageRestored.com, or call 1-877-844-2262.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

David and Lyn were high school sweethearts whose romance at first seemed like a fairy tale story. But after 25 years of many ups and downs in marriage, it seemed like the fairy tale was coming to an end due to deception, infidelity and broken promises. Can there be hope for a couple when the "romance" seems dead? Listen to David and Lyn's story to discover hope and insights for any broken relationship.​For marriage recovery, visit MarriageRestored.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Most men who have reached out to us for help have struggled to understand themselves on a deep level. What impact did their family of origin have? How did they cope with loneliness, anger, fear, confusion, and sexual desires? This episode helps unpack and examine the process that has led many men (and women) to express their lives through sexual brokenness. This is a hopeful and insightful message for anyone who struggles to understand their inner turmoil.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Many couples have suffered the devastation of infidelity; the breaking of trust through sexual betrayal. And many believe that such a betrayal must immediately and permanently end the relationship. But are there other responses? Let's learn together what is underneath infidelity and how we might respond in more thoughtful and redemptive ways.This episode is in response to a Esther Perel's Ted Talk on Rethinking Infidelity. Go to Ted.com to view the Talk.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Recently Jonathan Daugherty spoke at a men's conference on the problem of lust and how to overcome it. We want to share this talk with you. If you want to better understand this issue of lust and how to combat it successfully, this 2-part series will help educate and inspire you toward greater personal integrity. For help in overcoming lust, visit 40Days.Bebroken.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This was our #1 Top Downloaded Podcast of 2017. Originally aired August 26, 2017.  Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) We know that the main reason most people listen to this podcast is because we deal with the issue of sexual brokenness and how to pursue greater integrity. So, in this episode we are going to get back to some good practical ways to fight porn and pursue purity. Bondage Breaker by AndersonEmotionally Healthy Spirituality by ScazzeroSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Recently Jonathan Daugherty spoke at a men's conference on the problem of lust and how to overcome it. We want to share this talk with you. If you want to better understand this issue of lust and how to combat it successfully, this 2-part series will help educate and inspire you toward greater personal integrity.  For help in overcoming lust, visit 40Days.Bebroken.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This was our #2 Top Downloaded Podcast of 2017. Originally aired March 11, 2017.  Living a life of sexual integrity is a battle. Temptation is a reality of life -- it isn’t something any of us can escape. But how can we face this battle in a way that results in victory. Listen to this podcast if you want to be encouraged in your battle with temptation and pursuit of greater integrity. Download Part 2 of this podcast: http://mp3.puresexradio.com/shows/psr20170318.mp3Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) When people enter into recovery from addictive patterns the soon discover they have a long history of an "inner critic" who has been speaking lies to them. How is the person in recovery to respond to this voice and live instead from a place of truth and grace? This episode explores this inner critic and how you can silence the shame and live free and confident in your true identity in Christ.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This was our #3 Top Downloaded Podcast of 2017. Originally aired February 18, 2017.  We spend a lot of time in our lives being alone. But do we understand aloneness very well? What can we learn through aloneness? How can we better manage aloneness, especially considering that we are made by God for relationship? Listen to this podcast if you want to learn more about aloneness and how to live well with yourself through every season of life.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) It is always easier to criticize than to bless. But a marriage doesn't thrive and flourish by tearing each other down. This episode is a challenge to men to bless their wives. In it we offer practical insights for a husband to bless his wife.Get your PDF copy of 40 Blessings for a WifeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) This was our #4 Top Downloaded Podcast for 2017. Originally aired October 21, 2017.  What is trauma and how does it affect emotional and spiritual growth? This episode unpacks this complex issue of trauma and helps you understand what it is and how to respond to it. For even more on this topic, get the book Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You by Wilder and FriesenSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guests: Gigi Hopkins and Ronnie West When a wife has experienced the deep pain of betrayal by her husband it is challenging to gain stability for healing and recovery. Understanding what boundaries are and how to apply them are critical for her healing process. This episode we invite Gigi Hopkins and Ronnie West to share their experience and insight on helping wives establish healthy boundaries.​Get more help at WivesCare.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This was our #5 Top Downloaded Podcast for 2017. Originally aired June 24, 2017.  What do Christian Apologetics and sexuality have in common? More than you might imagine! This episode shares a segment of a webinar Jonathan gave for the Apologetics Academy on God's design and purpose for sexuality. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Understanding sexuality as a teenage boy is challenging. Life is changing fast during those years and temptations are swirling everywhere. How can a young man learn to mature into adulthood with integrity and confidence? In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen share insights to help parents help their sons.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

It's natural to parent defensively when it comes to issues of porn and sexual brokenness. And it's good to establish healthy boundaries and warn our children of the dangers of porn. But it's even better to go on the offensive to develop the key characteristics of a life of integrity and purpose. Our friend Dina Alexander shares her insights and the tools available for proactive parenting for sexual integrity. Visit EducateEmpowerKids.org for more resources.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) The New Year brings opportunity for learning new skills. This episode will teach you 3 emotional and spiritual skills that will transform your daily life and help you resist temptation to a much greater degree. Listen in to be inspired and equipped. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

We have Jerry Sinclair back with us for this episode. Jerry has nearly 24 years of personal experience in recovery from sexual addiction. He also has many years of experience in full-time ministry to sexually addicted men and their wives. This episode unpacks numerous keys to successful recovery and growth; confession, trust, forgiveness, dealing with temptation, support groups, and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Jerry Sinclair is somewhat of a pioneer in the world of sexual addiction recovery. This episode unpacks his story and the beginnings of his recovery all the way back in the early 90's. Gain insights and wisdom from this man who has been on this journey a long time.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Pornography has become "normal" in our culture, even something to laugh about and pass off as "no big deal." But is it really no big deal? We believe that porn influences its users dramatically, and its influence is rife with lies. This episode highlights some of the most common lies pornography teaches and how you can combat them.​If you struggle with porn, get help at 7Days.Bebroken.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Most men who become entangled in a sexual stronghold have been emotionally stunted along the way. When they begin their recovery journey they assume that changing behavior is all that is necessary for healing and growth. But proper behavior without emotional maturity doesn't equal wholeness as a man. This episode unpacks what emotional training for men looks like.​Download WEEK 1 of the Training GuideSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guests: Bill & Lisa Roitsch (PowerOfHisLove.com) We have Bill & Lisa Roitsch back on the program this time to share with us practical tips and tools for restoring marriages affected by sexual brokenness. So if you want to be encouraged and equipped for building a healthy and whole marriage, listen up!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

We have a special guest on the program today. Michael Leahy is the founder of Bravehearts, a faith-based mentoring ministry to men. We will hear Michael's story but also about an exciting 10-Day Virtual Summit with over 40 experts in the field of sexual addiction and recovery. Don't miss it! Register Now for the Breaking Free SummitSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guests: Bill & Lisa Roitsch (PowerofHisLove.com) Bill and Lisa probably shouldn't still be married to each other. But God is a God of redemption and reconciliation. Be encouraged and inspired by Bill and Lisa's story of healing and hope.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Transformation from sexual strongholds to sexual freedom and wholeness is very much like waking up from darkness into glorious light. But what does the process of awakening look like and feel like? This episode is Part 2 of exploring the moment of awakening and how to live in freedom and wholeness.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Transformation from sexual strongholds to sexual freedom and wholeness is very much like waking up from darkness into glorious light. But what does that moment of awakening look like and feel like? This episode explores the moment of awakening and how to live in freedom and wholeness.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Admitting you have a problem, even an addiction, is essential for healing and recovery. But what comes next in regards to restoration? In this episode we have back with us Troy Haas of HopeQuest to help us unpack the principles and process of restoration from sexual strongholds. Learn more about Troy and HopeQuest at HopeQuest.us.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

The recent #MeToo social media blitz has revealed once again just how much sexual brokenness and abuse exists in our world. We have our friend and ministry partner, Dr. Juli Slattery, with us to have a conversation in response to the issue of abuse and what good men can do about it.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Troy Haas has a story of brokenness and redemption. Raised in a home that left him confused and unprepared for life, he found comfort in medicating himself through drugs and sex. But God had a different plan for Troy. Be encouraged and inspired by Troy's story as you seek to embrace God's grace more fully in your own life. Learn more at HopeQuest.usSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Men, let's be honest. We are good at grumbling and complaining, especially in our marriages. So let's talk about this. Stephen and Jonathan get personal to help you understand how to transform from a self-centered complainer to a man who "loves your wife as Christ loves the church."Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Founding Father and patriot Samuel Adams said that change comes by “setting brushfires of freedom” in people’s minds. Jesus said in Luke 12:49, “I have come to bring fire on the earth and how I wish it were already kindled!” In this episode we have Daniel Weiss back with us to share about the courage it takes to equip the church with a biblical understanding and application of God's design and purpose for sexuality. Learn more at BrushfiresFoundation.org. SeedsofFire.orgPrayLoveHeal.orgSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Sometimes we like to just turn on the microphones and bring a whole lot of popcorn insights. This episode is full of helpful ideas to live according to God’s design and purpose for sexuality. Reach out and grab an insight in this episode.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Daniel Weiss is the founder and president of The Brushfires Foundation, a non-profit ministry that helps those impacted by sexual brokenness to discover, reclaim and live out their created identity in Christ. In this episode Daniel shares his story in hopes of encouraging and inspiring you to pursue purity and God’s calling on your life.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) What is trauma and how does it affect emotional and spiritual growth? This episode unpacks this complex issue of trauma and helps you understand what it is and how to respond to it.For even more on this topic, get the book Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You by Wilder and FriesenSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Kelly Newcom (BraveParenting.net) We are excited to have Kelly Newcom back on the program today. She has some wonderful insights for parents who want to know how to raise their children as responsible tech users. She shares 7 key characteristics to instill in kdis and teens so they are not afraid or controlled by technology.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Our Purity Mentoring program consists of 24 lessons that a mentor leads a mentee through in their pursuit of greater integrity. Our Purity Mentoring program director, Brian Waltmann, joins us in this episode to walk us through lessons 7-12. This is helpful info whether you are looking to be a mentor or want to be mentored.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Our guest today is Kelly Newcom, founder of Brave Parenting. She shares her personal story of what being a brave parent is all about in our culture today. Be inspired and encouraged by this brave mother.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

The process of healing for a wife who has been sexually betrayed by her husband is difficult and confusing. How can she find an anchor for her soul through such a storm. In this episode we hear from Gigi Hopkins, our Wives Care Manager, as she shares the insights and benefits of healthy detachment.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Anne Kerr from True North Freedom Project is back with us in this episode to share her insights for recovery and restoration. Be encouraged and inspired to fight (and win!) the battle for purity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Stephen and I had the great privilege of being invited by a group of alumni from our Gateway to Freedom workshop to celebrate their 1-year anniversary of attending the workshop. They have stuck together as a group and they shared their ups and downs over the previous year. May this episode encourage and inspire you in your own pursuit of purity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

This episode highlights the story of Anne Kerr, founder and CEO of TrueNorth Freedom Project in Atlanta. Be encouraged and inspired by her candor and insights into sexuality and God’s good design of it.  Learn more about True North Freedom Project at TrueNorthFP.org.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Hundreds of men have experienced our 3-day workshop, Gateway to Freedom. And many men have given us permission to share their insights with you on our podcast. This episode explores some of these insights, and one in particular might just change your life forever!​More info on GTF at GatewayMen.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Have you ever noticed that whenever you try to address any area of weakness in your life that you are met with the same enemy? Its name is resistance! This 2-part series will help you understand, identify, and overcome the resistance on your journey to greater integrity. Do the Work by Pressfield and GodinSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Have you ever noticed that whenever you try to address any area of weakness in your life that you are met with the same enemy? Its name is resistance! This 2-part series will help you understand, identify, and overcome the resistance on your journey to greater integrity.Do the Work by Pressfield and GodinSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) We know that the main reason most people listen to this podcast is because we deal with the issue of sexual brokenness and how to pursue greater integrity. So, in this episode we are going to get back to some good practical ways to fight porn and pursue purity.Bondage Breaker by AndersonEmotionally Healthy Spirituality by ScazzeroSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Stephen went to Thailand! And he just can’t help but share this experience with you. Who knows if this episode will help you grow in integrity, but it might inspire you to take risks and keep exploring life and the world around you.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) What’s the one thing that you can do that by doing it everything else will be easier? This is the question we tackle in this episode as it relates to living a life of greater integrity. A life of purity doesn’t have to be complicated if we will be focused on being focused.The One Thing​by Gary Keller and Jay PapasanSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Many people, especially men, find it hard to identify and understand their emotional self. How does one articulate feelings and why is it important to better understand them? This episode contains insights on understanding and expressing emotions in healthier ways.Emotionally Healthy Spiritualityby Peter ScazzeroSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

As a carryover from our previous program, we wanted to have Carter Featherston back to dive a little deeper into the practical applications of the insights he learned on his journey of recovery. You will be encouraged and motivated to live every day in greater integrity.Learn more at CarterFeatherston.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Carter Featherson is a man who knows what it is to be broken by sin and made whole again by the grace of God. In this episode, Carter shares his amazing story with us and encourages us with insights he has gained along his journey. Learn more at CarterFeatherston.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Any wife who has faced sexual betrayal from her husband is acquainted with trauma. But what exactly is trauma and how can one heal from its effects? In this episode we welcome our Wives Care Manager, Gigi Hopkins, to help us understand what trauma is and how a wife can find hope and healing in the midst of it.​Get more help at WivesCare.com.Click here for PDF Show NotesSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

We believe it is important to pass along what we learn to others in order to help them pass it along to even more. Thus, our Purity Mentoring program is all about training men to mentor other men in a life of daily purity. In this episode we hear from our Director of Training, Brian Waltmann, as he shares about the initial stages of mentoring and how you can apply these in your own life.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Would any parent today disagree that raising children in today’s world is extremely difficult? Especially when it comes to issues of sexuality! That is why we invited our very own director of Pure Community, John Fort, to address this issue. He has loads of experience in this field and lots of practical advice for parents.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

What do Christian Apologetics and sexuality have in common? More than you might imagine! This episode shares a segment of a webinar Jonathan gave for the Apologetics Academy on God's design and purpose for sexuality.  Download the PDF HandoutSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Special Guest: Dr. Juli Slattery (AuthenticIntimacy.com) We simply can’t get enough of Dr. Juli Slattery, so we needed to have her back again. In this episode, Juli unpacks for us what “sexual discipleship” is all about and how we can grow in our understanding and application of God’s design and purpose for sexuality.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Dr. Juli Slattery is the co-founder and president of Authentic Intimacy, a wonderful ministry for women desiring to live out God’s design for sexuality. In this episode, Juli will tell us her story and how she got into this vital ministry and why it matters in our culture today.​Visit AuthenticIntimacy.com for more...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

If you have failed repeatedly in sexual sin, is there hope for a life of freedom and contentment beyond such failures? YES! In this episode, we have Forest Benedict back to share with us specific, practical insights from his book, Life After Lust. Gain inspiration and insights from this episode for your own pursuit of sexual integrity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Forest Benedict is a licensed marriage and family therapist and sexual addiction treatment provider in Calfornia. He has a beautiful story of redemption and hope that we want to share with you. May you be encouraged and motivated by the freedom and joy that Forest found in Christ and recovery. Learn more about Forest at ForestBenedict.com.Get Forest's book at LifeAfterLust.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Sometimes we just turn on the microphones and pour out ideas and insights we have learned over the years. This episode is full of miscellaneous thoughts and ideas to help you live every day with integrity and purpose. Send us feedback and ideas at [email protected]. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounselng.com) Mother's Day is a great reminder of the sacrifices and investments our mom's made in our lives. We want to take this episode to speak blessings over all the moms out there -- may you feel celebrated and loved on this special day.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) The journey of restoring a marriage broken by a husband's sexual sin is not easy. Both husband and wife need healing. In this episode, a wife shares her words of blessing over her husband. May this move you deeply to consider your own journey of healing, and receive the encouragement of this brave woman's blessing.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

We are excited to have Tony Ingrassia back with us on the podcast. In this episode we have the privilege of hearing the insights and wisdom Tony has gained on his journey, and the ministry God has called him to. Visit PowerOfPurity.org to connect with Tony’s ministry and the great resources they offer to those desiring to overcome sexual strongholds.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

One of our core values is story. We love to hear stories of God’s redemptive power to take the broken pieces of our lives and rebuild us in ways that magnify His grace and goodness. Listen to this episode to hear Tony Ingrassia’s story and get inspired in your own pursuit of purity and purpose. Visit PowerofPurity.orgSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Sometimes you can find insights from one field of study that apply to another. Have you ever thought there is a connection between marketing and living a life of sexual integrity? Well, we hope this episode will help give you insights for changing your mind and moving forward on your journey toward greater integrity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Who are you? Really? Fundamental to the human experience is this innate knowledge that we are defined in some way beyond just the material. Our identity resides deep in our soul. But how do we uncover this identity? How do we know who we really are? Listen to this podcast if you want greater insight into understanding who you are and why it matters to living a life of integrity. TheForgottenWay.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

We have Ken Snyder back with us in this episode. He shares personal insights about community and accountability, grace, repentance, endurance, freedom, and more. Gain practical insights to move you closer to true recovery.Get Ken's book, Cross RoadSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

We believe that the first step to recovery and growth is sharing your story of brokenness. This is why we have invited Ken Snyder to share his amazing story of redemption. Listen to this podcast if you want to be inspired and encouraged in your personal pursuit of greater integrity. Get Ken's book, Cross RoadSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) In the same way that a military general would not expect to win a war by merely employing a single strategy, we too need to have a multi-layered battle plan and lots of weapons at our disposal to win our war against temptation. This program will help you fill up your arsenal and be better prepared to face temptation -- and win!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Living a life of sexual integrity is a battle. Temptation is a reality of life -- it isn’t something any of us can escape. But how can we face this battle in a way that results in victory. Listen to this podcast if you want to be encouraged in your battle with temptation and pursuit of greater integrity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Gateway to Freedom is our 3-day workshop for men who want to overcome any kind of sexual struggle or stronghold. We have helped over 1000 men find hope and freedom through this powerful program. Listen to this podcast if you want to be encouraged and challenged in your pursuit of greater integrity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) We all have blind spots, those attitudes or actions that are unhealthy but we remain unaware of them and their effects. How can we discover what our blind spots are? And then, what do we do about them? Listen to this podcast if you want to figure out your own blind spots and how to address them in a way that leads to health and wholeness. Get a copy of 5 Blind Spots by Stephen ArterburnSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) We spend a lot of time in our lives being alone. But do we understand aloneness very well? What can we learn through aloneness? How can we better manage aloneness, especially considering that we are made by God for relationship? Listen to this podcast if you want to learn more about aloneness and how to live well with yourself through every season of life.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

We are highlighting our Purity Mentor Training program; we want to give you a solid overview of what mentoring is and why it matters to living a life of sexual integrity. Our guest for this episode is Brian Waltmann, our Director of Training and co-creator of the Purity Mentoring program.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounselng.com) We all  have an identity, a way of describing and defining ourselves. But this definition doesn’t originate within us. There are voices that shape how we see ourselves.Then, from this identity we either eventually learn healthy connecting or unhealthy disconnecting. Listen to this podcast if you want to unravel the mystery of identity and how it shapes everything in life.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Have you ever wondered how your human “being” is made up? We are comprised of these intertwined and interconnected parts of body, soul, and spirit. And how does this mixture of parts work together? Listen to this podcast if you want to better respond to temptation and grow in integrity and peace.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Gateway to Freedom is our 3-day workshop that allows men to unpack their secret sexual strongholds in a safe environment where healing and transformation can take place. Many of these men allow us to share their insights and breakthroughs at the workshop with our podcast listeners. Listen to this podcast if you want to hear what it’s like to discover life-changing insights.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

When a wife discovers her husband’s sexual secrets, where can she go for help and healing? Are there safe environments for women to unpack their pain and find hope for the future? In this episode we share about a valuable resource we provide for wives who want to find solid ground for healing. Learn more about Wives Care GroupsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Everyone has experience with failure. And failure can be scary and confusing and debilitating. But does failure need to define who we really are? In this episode we will explore the dynamics of failure and how we can become immune to the shame that is often associated with it.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Hundreds of men have found healing and freedom from sexual strongholds through the Gateway to Freedom 3-day workshop. Many have shared their insights and breakthroughs with us, and even given permission to share those with others. This broadcast is a collection of some of these insights.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: August 27, 2016 Special Guest: Dustin Daniels (SevenPlaces.org) What does the journey from sexual brokenness to true wholeness and health look like? Dustin Daniels is a man who knows this journey well. He shares his story in this episode and highlights key insights for how to live a whole new life of sexual integrity and healthy relationships. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: August 20, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Hundreds of men have found healing and freedom from sexual strongholds through the Gateway to Freedom 3-day workshop. Many have shared their insights and breakthroughs with us, and even given permission to share those with others. This broadcast is a collection of some of these insights.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: August 13, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Why do some people never grow up? Are there areas in your own life where you remain stuck in immature thinking? This episode brings insight to this issue and practical ideas for overcoming immaturity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: August 6, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Are men just sexual animals, or is there more to men than that? We believe men have more layers to their being than sexuality. This episode explores some of the deeper longings of men and how to connect in relationships in healthy ways. If you are a man who wants to better understand how to grow as a man, or a woman who wants to better understand what makes your man tick, this episode can be helpful.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: July 30, 2016 Special Guest: Dina Alexander (EducateEmpowerKids.org) Every parent who cares about their children must face the realities of the sexualized culture we lives in. So, how do we help our kids manage their sexuality well in the world we live in? Dina Alexander is the founder and president of EducateEmpowerKids.org, and shares with us how to address sexuality with our kids in healthy, effective ways.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: July 23, 2016 Special Guest: Shannon Ethridge (ShannonEthridge.com) Many women are carrying hurt and wounds from sexual brokenness, whether it be someone else's brokenness that was poured into their lives or their own struggles with sexual heath. Our guest is Shannon Ethridge, a writer and speaker who knows how to help sexually broken women. Gain insights and practical tools for growing in sexual health and emotional balance.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: July 16, 2016 Special Guest: Jeff Fisher (PurityCoaching.com) Accountability is essential to living a life of sexual integrity, but it causes many men to cringe with fear. Our guest on this episode is Jeff Fisher, founder of PurityCoaching.com. He shares his story and provides courage for men to get into the right environments for healing and growth.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: July 9, 2016 Special Guest: Gina Kaye (GinaKaye.org) Many women (and men) are facing the sexual betrayal of their spouse, and don’t know what to do. Our guest this week is Gina Kaye, a woman who has personally walked the path of healing from sexual betrayal.  With humility and compassion, Gina provides great wisdom and practical tips for how to navigate through this difficult season.Listen to this podcast to hear Gina’s story and learn some next steps on your healing journey.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: July 2, 2016 Special Guest: Jarrod Miller Sr. (GodOverPorn.org) This week's program features Jarrod Miller Sr., the founder of GodOverPorn.org. He shares his powerful story of salvation from porn and how God led him to use his transformation to help others find freedom too.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: June 25, 2016 Special Guest: Jessica Harris (BeggarsDaughter.com) Porn has long been thought of as a "men's only" problem. But there are many women who also struggle with viewing pornography - even to the point of addiction. This week's guest, Jessica Harris, shares her person story of addiction to porn and how we can help women who are carrying this heavy secret. Helpful Resource: Sexual Sanity for WomenSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: June 18, 2016 Special Guest: Dr. John Foubert Dr. ​​John Foubert is an expert on the impact of pornography on individuals and culture. He is our guest this week, providing us with LOTS of information and insights on pornography, biology, relational impact, and unpacking what it all means. Learn more about John at JohnFoubert.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: June 11, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Healthy relationships do not happen magically. It takes a lot of work, and even the healthiest relationships can be improved. In fact, building healthy relationships is about the life-long pursuit of learning and growing together. This broadcast is full of tips to help you in that pursuit. Helpful Resource: 40 Days to Oneness To download the show notes, click here: https://drive.google.com/open?id=0By872l29bZxKbGFfQ3hUbW9iU0USupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: June 4, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) What impact does trust have on human development and relationship health? According to Stephen Cervantes, a LOT! This broadcast highlights the difference between environments of trust and non-trust. To access the notes for this program, click here: https://drive.google.com/open?id=0By872l29bZxKUlNjaW4zSHlFd0U.  For help finding a support group, visit Groups.Bebroken.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: May 28, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Does your family of origin even matter to living a life of sexual integrity? We believe so. Everyone got hurt and confused in childhood. Therefore, everyone needs to heal from childhood wounds and clarify childhood confusion. This broadcast gives insights and tips for both.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: May 21, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) We received a letter from a man who attended our Gateway to Freedom workshop. In it he shares how the experience was transformational and expresses his gratitude to Stephen and our ministry. This broadcast highlights insights he gained, the power of gratitude in recovery, and a BIG challenge.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: May 14, 2016 Practically everyone knows someone who is addicted to something. But few know how to really help their loved ones engage recovery in an effective way. This broadcast is a talk Jonathan gave to a group of men on how to best help those who are addicted to find freedom.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: May 7, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Hundreds of men have found healing and freedom from sexual strongholds through the Gateway to Freedom 3-day workshop. Many have shared their insights and breakthroughs with us, and even given permission to share them with others. This broadcast is a collection of some of these insights.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: April 30, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Every boy learns something about himself and what it means to be a man from his father. But all boys have broken fathers. So, what does this mean to the development of a boy into a man? And how can a boy's true identity of a beloved son of God be realized?Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: April 23, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) We have heard thousands of sexually addicted individuals make thousands of statements regarding their struggles with sexual brokenness. This broadcast is a highlight of many of the most common statements and our response to them. Our hope is to encourage recovery for all who listen.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: April 16, 2016 This was a talk that Jonathan gave at the Equip Conference in San Antonio on what sexuality is and how we can best manage it in the world in which we live. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: April 9, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) One of the first things we tell someone when they share their story of brokenness with us is that they are a man or woman of courage for doing so. It may not feel courageous to explore your brokenness and secrets, but this broadcast will hopefully give you a new perspective on strength and courage.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: April 2, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Most men who develop sexually addictive patterns are emotionally detached, meaning they don't understand how to process their feelings in healthy ways. This broadcast explores how men can dive deeper into understanding their emotional selves for the sake of healthier, happier relationships.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: March 26, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) There are many voices in the world trying to tell you who you are. How do you decipher the true from the false? And why does this matter when seeking to live a life of sexual integrity? Listen in to find answers.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: March 19, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) "Why didn't I learn this 30 years ago?" Why does change, real life transformation, take so long? And what is the greatest obstacle for men in this process? This broadcast looks at the physical, spiritual, and emotional makeup of men and why emotional growth is often so difficult.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: March 5, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) The bond between a son and his father cannot be overstated. But this bond is not perfect. What happens when a dad doesn't train up his son to manage his sexuality with integrity? And how can this brokenness be repaired? Click here to learn more about Father-Son AccountabilitySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: February 27, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Pornography is enticing, powerful, and mesmerizing. But why? What is it about pornography that causes so many men (and women) to engage in foolish (and sometimes dangerous) behaviors? This episode explores why porn is so​...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: February 20, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Why is it so important that men have friendships with other men? And why do so few men have such friends? This broadcast highlights the importance of male friendships and how to build them.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: February 13, 2016 Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) What happens to a wife when her husband uses porn? This broadcast explores some comments made by wives who learned their husbands are using porn. Gain insight and understanding into the heart of a hurting wife. Click here to learn more about our Wives Coaching ministrySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: February 6, 2016 We have Dan Wobschall back with us again this week. Last week Dan shared his story of addiction, and this week he will share with us his insights from his recovery journey. We hope this program helps inspire you take the critical steps necessary to live a new life of integrity and purpose.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Air Date: January 30, 2016 We believe there is tremendous power in the stories of ordinary people who have ventured to dare to enter recovery. Dan is such a man who dared. This broadcast is a sharing of his story of addiction and how he came to a place of brokenness and recovery. May you be inspired to share your story by hearing Dan's.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Many women ask us how they can know if their husband (or son, or father, or friend) is truly changing from their old sexually broken patterns. This broadcast will highlight what we know about recovery and how a loved one might know if true change is happening.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations