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[email protected]: @medbyfiotranscript (auto-generated, will have inaccuracies)Hi everyone. Welcome back to another episode of medic mornings. I'm your host Fiona and today I'm going to be talking basically about Gap year advice. So I'm currently 7 8 months into my car. So I feel like I have a good grasp of what exactly you got, your consists of, you know what I've done? German got your dad's been productive, what I would have done a little bit to change it but overall I'm just going to be talking about my experience and Avery just conversational matter because I know the my podcast have been very structured recently. You know how questions I've had guests over but I haven't really had much time to sit and reflect on my God. And this my podcast and I do whatever the fuck I want. So we're going to be doing that today. Without further Ado, let's get started. Okay, so results say that was when I kind of started knowing OSHA it, like I'm going to have to start planning my God. Because I was there was so many different things I wanted to do. Like, I want to try skydiving, I want to go make some new friends. I want to find new hobbies and I genuinely thought that I could, there was a whole year of me doing this. So I was like, the sky's the limit, you know. I can do whatever the fuck I want but now it's kind of like my mentality has shifted into a bit more mature and a bit more understanding that even though there's lots of time, you kind of have to prioritize because I felt that's my Gap year. Even though it has been very productive, there just simply wasn't enough time for everything, but like having an empty year sounds like a lot. But honestly there Enough time. So, what I did was I currently work a part-time job with Med entry, some of you might know, but I have been an ambassador for them. Since the summer of 2022, I believe ya the summer and they approached me and there were like, you've done great on your, your cat. We'd love to have you as an ambassador. And honestly, I was more than excited cuz I love my country. I love what they stand for, their programs are amazing. All the packages that I used, you know, not blaming other companies, I use, but they were by far the best that I have experienced personally, you know, there you got packages are amazing. If you want this Concord, you can just go on my website just a sneaky frog there. But yeah, Medici has been great as a company as, you know, as my boss They've been amazing. So I work part-time at Med entry as for right now I've done that since that summer and yeah it's been great. I got to earn money as well as you know, tutor people in Ukiah. And honestly what I was going to ask for. You know I'm getting paid and then why love? Which is like medical education and staying in touch with the medical admissions stuff. So I get to work with you do interviews and interview preparation for other people. But as of right now I'm just doing some you got stuff to prepare for the next admission season like personal statements as well. So I remember I was kind of going through people's personal statements. I've gotten love trading, to your key things to look out for a key things to not do in your personal statement. It's quite rigorous, an objective process. So I personally was very invested in that part as well. Yeah. That was that's most of my work that I've been partaking in and where most of my you like small income comes from. And my God. I'm also doing my driver's license test right now. So a lot of you know that I've been fully invested in the whole doing what you might not be doing in uni thing, you know. So and you need I probably would be stressed the fuck out and not have enough time to start to learn to drive and I'm on my third lesson right now, I'm on 66 7 hours in and I'm learning automatic. Automatic drivers don't know how to fucking drive but that's not my fucking fault cuz I just want to know how to drive. Like, I don't really care about the stick shift, or the manual or the gear stick or you need to know the clutch and everything or it's just too much are too clumsy for me or I can't be bothered. So I'm going to have to drive automatic. So I'm going to have a category B license at the end. And I'm planning on taking my driver's test in July, I believe ya July, and that's quite exciting. I love my driving instructor. I use passenger right now, like so yeah, if it's something you're interested in my my experience has been wholly, great butts. It's a bit like franchise so I'm not too sure. Aside from driver's testing, I was want to talk about my social media Journey. So social media was something that I really, really, really wanted to do for a long time. I don't know specifically what it was. I think I started my Tik-Tok in your 12, so I remember one takes out that I posted it. Caught 10K views the first to tell that I ever posted like, for serious reasons, was, you know, those medical application videos that are like here is where I'm applying and then put all your stats down and the cute video of you. I remember the song. It was visors, a cat and it was like and we both look Asian cuz you know how, you know how it looks like when you're drunk, you, you're like squinting apparently and that's what and we both look Asian. And then my friends are just laughing at me because I did get the song. I was like we both look Asian but you're actually Asian but it's making fun of Asians. So those on me I thought that was funny but going back to the actual topic it blew up. I think she likes 15 K views at a time 15K. Which I was insanely like shocked but I was oh my God, guys on Tik Tok famous, it's you know 15K which 15K is great but at the time I was like holy shit like this is a lot and I was getting, you know, it like a few hundred followers but not too much. And then I started doing another video, I believe on like a 4-stop and it was kind of productivity-based and I was kind of like, I might double into the Cenote, Tik-Tok, it was very easy to blow up and I found I found it relatively good at first, so I really like that. There was a bit of me. That was kind of like this is a lot of attention, but the other side of me was like, oh, I could actually use it for good, you know. I could actually like become one of those people who I looked up to so much I was like oh my God, that's Faith. Christina eliyahu. I just recently collabed with oh my God, she is so amazing. But I looked up to her so much and a few other Med YouTubers and a few other, like met instagrammers. I was like, holy shit, like they can do all. They're just showing that you can travel. We can have fun. You can have friends, and you can do all the stuff in medical school. And I'm like, I want to be like that. You know what, I want to show my journey and I've always been someone who's, you know, taking pictures and videos of everything. So that was me trying to diversify my portfolio in got beer. So I just wanted to try everything, you know, try everything, make a podcast are so YouTube channel starts at 6, outside and Instagram. And try all and see which ones are feasible to take into Medical School United, which ones are worth my time. And for, right now, that's Instagram and tiktok and my podcast, obviously, I'm taking my podcast to medical school. I don't think I'm going to do too much to my YouTube channel, but honestly, the YouTube channel was just where it got your memories and I really enjoyed that while it lasted. So, yeah, my camera is just sitting in the corner right now, but hopefully I'll have some use for that during my got your trip, which I'll talk about it more later. But yeah, my social media that Journey has been great. I feel like slowly progressing and I've slowly kind of gotten a better gist of what my contents should be. I hate the word in Spencer, like, no one, no one come up to me and call me one because that's just it. Printed me out, even though yeah, it just has me up, but I think that's my growth has been very organic, it's been great. And I've gotten a better understanding of, you know, of my, my followers, My listeners who I kind of want to portray and put myself there. As I thought I was about to see myself as a medical student, but honestly, I don't really mind that because if I am in medical students and that's going to be, you know, a lot of my life and I genuinely do. You love medicine in that. There's so much Beauty in healing people and I could just talk about it all day, honestly. So yeah, that's where my origin came from and how I really started my Instagram journey journey or whatever you want to call it. Okay, moving on to traveling. So I used to think like that. If you didn't travel, you are such a loser and I've changed a lot since then. So I'm going to say, I used to be so, so, so like far-fetched. I always tell people, you know, going to Australia for a freaking year during their Gap year. You know, people, people going to Latin America for 3 months. Actually, I saw lots of liked am doing that. But honestly, I was like, I want to be one of those people, you know, spending so much time, like going to South Africa to volunteer with children and like, Wildlife and everything. I just wanted to do that, you know, that pierced the time to go travel for a year and go work and you can get free accommodation of you, if you do a certain quota of like working every day. But honestly, I don't think that's really happened that much. I'm definitely planning some trips at the moment. So I have done Iceland with my family. I went for around 10 days to Iceland, it was so expensive. Like if you are on a budget, don't go Iceland. Yeah, I just want what I found me and it's been great. I feel like I have a better relationship with my family right now cuz you know we are understanding boundaries were respecting each other's space where respecting that each each of us have our own like timelines, and my mom's, and my dad's not to like overbearing, especially with Asian parents. I talked about this a lot, but sometimes Asian parents can be a Overbearing, but we were talking about this, the other night, how, my parents aren't really Asian parents, because a lot of the time, they don't even show up to parent conferences, they don't check our phones. They don't check like anything. They don't really put too much pressure on us academically. So I'm really grateful for the fact that my parents are understanding and your respectful and that sense. But yeah. To the point Iceland with great expensive, don't go there. If you're poor like me, like me personally but my family was fine with it. I also went back to Hong Kong, so I grew up in Hong Kong, and I live in Hong Kong, and I was born there and I did all my primary school and middle school in Hong Kong. So I went back there to visit my grandma primarily but I was also meeting my friends and honestly it was so great to meet up with everyone who I've grown up with with everyone who you know has seen a difference Tell me because I've matured so much emotionally and so has everyone else. So it's so great to see where everyone is on their little timeline. And honestly, it's like no time has passed. You know, when you see old friends of yours and it's so amazing to see how everyone's kind of matured at the same time, there's definitely people in my old school who I feel like our kind of, you know, talking in the emotional capacity for it. But overall, all my friends who I met, most of them are actually medical students. So, it's great to see how everyone's kind of struggling a little under Journey, but that's going to be me next year, so I can't really say anything. But yeah, it's been just so great meeting all my friends. Most of them are medical students and they're just talking about, you know, their Health Care System, how they get to do, like what flu jobs on each other and that was so insane to me like flu jobs on each other. I'd like a practical to ask and I was just so amazed. I was like, damn, I want to try that but it's in the UK. Probably would never happen. Yeah, it's just been so great. I really loved going back to Hong Kong, even though I probably wouldn't go back now cuz I couldn't be bothered to take another 13-hour, flight back to Hong Kong and there are no, really, no real ties, find me back to Hong Kong but since my family is all here and everyone I know is here. Yeah, possibly maybe one day, but not anytime soon. And this here I am so excited. I'm planning a gap year trip with two of my friends. We are going to France to Switzerland. After that, we're going to Croatia. We're going to Budapest. We're going to like everywhere that I haven't been so Europe. I've never really being except my son Which was last year. So I'm really excited to explore and do all the things that I got for your student should be there and you don't have fun with your friends, have fun and meet new people. Speaking of I let's talk about friendships, right friendships and got peers. It's tough to make friends honestly at the beginning. I was so stressed about, you know, I have to be making so many new friends, so many new friends cuz I don't like up here, right? And I'm going to like lose my Social, like my social skills, I'm going to become this loner and this person who just stays in the room all day and even though that's not that far from the truth. Even though that's not that far from the truth. I feel like, I've grown so much as an independent person, like much more than I have in the last 7 months than the last 7 years genuinely. And, I mean, that with my whole heart, like, I have grown so much matured and emotionally like invested in myself as an individual. You know, I used to get so much like social anxiety. I used to be so influenced by others that perceptions of myself, but starting the social media Journey, you know, starting this whole putting myself out there and naming myself and branding myself. As this person, I feel like it's been a lot of growth. And I really think that a guy fear is one of the best ways to grow in your Independence growing, your own skin and Put yourself outside of social standards and away from pressures of your peers pressures from your new Union varmints. There's definitely people who thrive in the environments, you know, people who I met, who are exactly the same. But also sometimes an Instagram I scroll through and I see some of my 64 and friends, and my high school friends that have changed completely. And it just made me think, like, their personality must have taken a hit, or maybe like a different approach. Because there's people who are genuinely, like, not true to themselves. And I feel like a lot of time you can lose your identity, and you need a lot. And even though that very well might possibly happen to me, I feel like I definitely have a better. What is it called? Locus of control enough. So we learned this in Psychology if you want to search that fine, but internal locus of control is when you feel like everything is within your control external, locus of control is when you're like, oh God, or like an external Factor, like, oh, it's because of, you know, the universe or The God or Gods will or God's plan not to shit on people because that's completely know what I'm trying to get at, but I feel like I have a better grasp of myself and what I personally, I'm able to attain an able to put within my reach and I don't know if that makes sense, but we're going to go with it. So yeah, that's what I was trying to say. Like Independence was a big thing for me and got here where I was just able to put myself in my own box and allow myself to navigate without the piers without peer pressure. Without parental pressure without anyone's personalities or anything. So I was just in my own opinions doing my own thing and it's been so great. So far, I thought meeting new people. I was on basically every social platform, you name. Like I've made so many Instagram friends through social media. Like I said, like I was just like, anyone want to make friends and I met so many people and so many people are just like, so kind and reaching out to me and just be like, hey, do you want to be friends and I just keep in touch with so many people. It's amazing. And I really appreciated and Being a part of everyone's though, medical Journey. But yes, so I met a lot of friends like a lot of pre-medical applicant friends who are on the same path as me and maybe I'll see you a few of them and Sheffield. Do you know that is kind of concerning my kind of scary. I'm really scared that people are going to be. Why do you look so different in person? that's what I like my biggest fear, but yeah, I really hope I live up to everyone's expectations, cuz on me, that's like, I'm just not used to it honestly but yeah, I'm making new friends and got beer has been great. I've made a couple friends actually cut a couple and my clothes Circle who I talk on the daily with. But overall I would say, my Independence has healed. I've definitely gotten a lot more confident in myself as a person and also as like just loving myself in general and I think my got here has been so beneficial in doing that. Finally, I just want to wrap this up by saying if you're considering taking a gap year, take the fucking Gap year. I always say that but I have never been more in love with myself than I am right now. I have never been more confident in my own skin that I have right now and there is not a single person who regrets are God. Genuinely like people will shit on that and be like, oh my gosh, you're just going to like waste a lot of time. You're just going to lose a lot of your academic knowledge and your academic abilities. And you know what, I kind of agree. I kind of agree that you will lose a research go. If you will lose a little bit of your knowledge, your a-level biology chemistry psychology in college, but that can be regained so easily the amount of skills that you learn on your Gap year or so invaluable. You know, you're personable skill, is your social skills. I would like Independence and having a scent of your own identity, that is an invaluable experience that you can really attained through a gap here instead of emerging into uni immediately. And I am the biggest advocate for it. I am the biggest I was say every where I'm going to be one of those. Oh my God. Are you about my Gap year? But it's just, it's just become part of my personality. I just one, I promise you. I didn't talk about my copier that much in person. I know a lot of my friends can advocate for that. I'm just saying like final notes, just if you're considering it take, take it, just take it, just take it. I love you. Have any questions. Feel free to DM me on Instagram. I'm always available. And yeah, I always check my request daily, pretty sure. So if you want to talk, I'm there and this has been such a great conversation, going to be quite easy to edit, to be honest cuz I haven't started that much especially since I'm going to conversation. So I don't really have to like trip over my words. I just think of them and if they come to me, they will. So yeah, it's been a great. Thank you for listening to this episode of medic morning. If you enjoyed it, please remember to like it on Spotify or apple music, wherever you're listening on and make sure to follow me on the mediocre doctor and medic mornings on Instagram. Where do lots of human has often and I will post a lot of units Snippets of each episode every week and yeah, see you next time. Bye bye.