This week Stephen sits down with Matt and Audrey to talk about all things commitment (including some questions about their own relationship!)  Topics include: Why people fear commitment Why choosing your partner feels so high stakes What makes sharing your life feel harder in 2024 Why we hold back emotionally Deciding if your standards are too high or too low How to know if you're compatible What flaws should you accept in a partner Whether you’re sick of superficial situationships or want to learn how to grow closer in your relationship, this is for you! ►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Watch my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed at → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Why is it that we seem to be attracted to certain people who only give us scraps of attention? It often happens when we tell ourselves that someone is so rare and desirable that they’re worth holding on to even if they don’t want the same things as us. In today’s episode, I’ll show you the trap that many people end up falling into, plus one key quality that results in more commitment. Whether you’re sick of superficial situationships or want to learn how to grow closer in your relationship, this is for you! ►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed at → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you ever been with someone you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all their friends that they just “weren’t made” for a relationship . . . only to one day announce they’re in a serious relationship or even getting married? When this happens, we think, “What did the person they committed to do that I didn’t?!” What makes someone suddenly decide to commit? In this week’s video, I not only dive into the answer to this question, but I also give you 4 practical pieces of psychology you can use to influence someone’s desire to commit to you. ----- ►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed at . . . http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Matt went live on Instagram and YouTube and answered YOUR questions! We talk about male role models, knowing if someone is willing to truly commit, and whether to leave to door open for your ex to come back. >>> Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid "Relationship Limbo". Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed at ... http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com >>> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com.com  >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Matt and Audrey answer a question from a listener in an exclusive "situationship" with someone she truly connects with, but who still doesn't want to fully commit and call it a relationship. We discuss how to interpret their behavior, what to do to protect yourself from future pain, and what your options are now that you've invested 2 years in someone who is still holding back. >>> Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid "Relationship Limbo". Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed at ... http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com >>> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you struggled to find people who actually want commitment? Do you feel like you’re always trying to persuade someone why a relationship is a good thing?   Dating can feel harder than ever in 2024. In today’s episode, I explain why so many people are anxious about commitment, give 3 different mindsets on commitment that can totally change someone’s perspective on it, and show what makes someone want commitment with YOU. (Spoiler alert: persuading has nothing to do with it!)   >>> Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid "Relationship Limbo" Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed at ... http:// www.LoveLifeTraining.com >>> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com  >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// www.DatingWithResults.com

There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s nothing bigger, is there?” That’s often true in attraction too. So many people are looking for the huge epiphany, instead of the subtle-yet-powerful changes to their behavior that can skyrocket their results. As you'll learn in this episode, making a deeper connection doesn't have to be complicated. Try one of these 5 simple steps on your next date! ►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed at . . . http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Esther Perel returns for part two of our chat on all things modern dating and sexual communication in relationships.  In this episode, Matt and Esther discuss: The realities of the biological clock (and how to date accordingly) How to find a romantic partner for your age The concept of "soulmates" and what matters in relationships Having the right expectations  The challenge of modern masculinity, jealousy, and sexual judgment Conversations that improve your sex life  How to stoke desire in a relationship --- Esther is a New York Times Bestselling author who books "Mating In Captivity" and "The State Of Affairs" have had a profound impact on our understanding of modern relationships. Get a copy of Esther's brand new course "The Desire Bundle" ▼ Connect with Esther ▼ Blog → https://www.estherperel.com YouTube → ‪@estherperel‬ Instagram →  @estherperelofficial Facebook → @esther.perel ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/ Facebook → @coachmatthewhussey Instagram → @thematthewhussey Twitter → @matthewhussey

Have you ever found yourself in the “casual zone” with someone you’re dating . . . and it seems impossible to escape it? When it started, you were fine with them saying, “Let’s see how it goes,” but you soon found yourself stuck in limbo with all your friends asking if you were in a relationship . . . While there are many positive reasons to take things slow when dating someone, there are 4 specific scenarios where “just seeing where something goes” can lead to heartbreak.   In today’s episode, I walk you through each situation so you can figure out where you stand and move things forward. The sooner you watch this, the faster you’ll know if a relationship actually has potential. ►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Register Now for my FREE Masterclass, From Casual to Committed at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .   You go on a date with someone and hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, you're seeing each other all the time. You text them daily, make plans for the future, and every time their name pops up on your phone, you feel a surge of happiness and excitement.   That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, you feel a shift. They grow more and more distant, and at first you're not sure whether you're imagining it or whether they really are pulling away. You double down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive them further away until eventually they call it a day and stops messaging altogether.   If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you.   But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes.   In today’s episode, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI for Free at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Facebook → @coachmatthewhussey Instagram → @thematthewhussey Twitter → @matthewhussey

In this episode, we're joined by world renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel! Esther is a New York Times Bestselling author who books "Mating In Captivity" and "The State Of Affairs" have had a profound impact on our understanding of modern relationships. In this conversation, Matt and Esther talk about how to create desire in relationships, getting connected to your sexuality (even if you haven't in a long time), improving your communication around intimacy and sex with a partner, and practical advice for finding real attraction and love in modern dating. Get a copy of Esther's brand new course "The Desire Bundle" ▼ Connect with Esther ▼ Blog → https://www.estherperel.com YouTube → ‪@estherperel‬ Instagram →  @estherperelofficial Facebook → @esther.perel ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/ Facebook → @coachmatthewhussey Instagram → @thematthewhussey Twitter → @matthewhussey

“Were we even on the same date?” I’ve heard this more times than I can count when people feel frustrated that their date didn’t ask them many questions . . . or in some cases, any questions at all.   In today’s episode, I respond to a viral tiktok on this topic and talk about how to tell the difference between someone who’s self-absorbed vs. someone who is just oblivious but really is interested in learning more about you. I also give you two sample scripts you can use when you want to bring up the issue in a high-value and low-pressure way.    ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

It’s strange how we often feel more comfortable with the idea of going on a date with a stranger than talking on the phone.  But isn’t it a good idea? Shouldn’t we test how they are on the phone before we meet in person? In this clip, we answer a question from someone who feels that men get scared off when she suggests a phone call, and give some practical tips for how to build more comfort before the first date.   ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

What are some practical ways we can deal with the grief we'll face in our lives? How do we stay present and not get lost in the painful stories and traumas of the past? And how do we get over guilt and regret? I shared a clip from my talk with Grief Expert David Kessler earlier this week, and I wanted to share a part two because I know how powerful this work will be for anyone in my audience suffering from loss and dealing with heartache.  ►► Order Your Copy of David Kessler’s Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief on Amazon at. . . https://tinyurl.com/5wr8ja2a   ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you ever suffered a loss you’ve never really moved on from? It could be someone you loved. It could be a failure, or the loss of a life you thought you would have. It could be trauma that goes back to childhood.    The good news is, you can heal. I had the enormous privilege of hosting world-renowned grief expert David Kessler at my Retreat in Florida this year. In this week’s epsiode, you’ll hear his profound advice for what it really takes to move on and truly heal from our biggest losses. ►► Order Your Copy of David Kessler’s Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief at. . . → http://www.GriefBook.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward. I really wanted to make this episode because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together. And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com  

Do you find some relationships and situations in life that just drain you? Maybe there are people you're investing energy into in your dating life that make you feel burnt out, frustrated, and make you want to withdraw entirely. So if you want to spend your time in a happier, freer, more productive way that leaves you uplifted, this episode is for you. Matt gives 7 key insights from the book "Protect Your Peace" by Trent Shelton that will change your mindset and stop you surrounding yourself with toxic people that add to your stress in life. ►► Answers Tailored to You, In Real Time, When You Need Them Most. Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free at . . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Why does dating feel so difficult today? It can often seem like it’s a competition to see who can be more “aloof,” who can care less, who can try the least. And when you put in actual effort, it can feel like it even turns people off!    Everyone seems to be looking for someone “rare and special,” but there’s a right way and a wrong way to approach this. In today’s episode, I explore the #1 way to approach dating, advice for texting, and small-but-effective ways to move things forward. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

What can you do when you feel like you're getting excuses and feel they're pulling away in their texts? If you don't want to play games, here's a simple way you can be honest, vulnerable, but still keep your standards when you respond. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

How do you know is someone is ready for a relationship? What if they use phrases in their dating app like "If the right person came along, I'd be open to a relationship", or "I want to see how things go"? In this episode, Matt, Audrey and Stephen discuss how certain you need to be of someone's intentions in the early dating stages and how you should decide who to invest in so you don't waste your time with the wrong person. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

Today, Matthew and Audrey sit down for an enlightening conversation with Kimberly Snyder, author of “The Hidden Power of The Five Hearts”.   Kimberly is a New York Times Bestseller and Holistic Wellness Coach who offers practical intelligence on how to deeply connect to your hearts power, enabling you to feel more centered, think clearer, and find emotional balance. Kimberly also shares her powerful tools on how to overcome overthinking and to tap into your deepest confidence, flow and ability to attract meaningful relationships.    Topics include how to:    Get Out Of A Rut And Tap Into Your Intuition Stop Settling And Feeling Unworthy Love Become More Emotionally Resilient Overcome Fear, Anxiety and Burnout Feel More Internally Fulfilled And Empowered Step Into A State Of Flow   >> Get your copy of “The Hidden Power Of The Five Hearts”   >>> Follow Kimberly @_kimberlysnyder and @soulunabyks

Ever found yourself sitting with your friends trying to "decode" what someone's texts mean, especially when they seem to be giving the bare minimum? And should you respond with the same aloof behavior?    Today’s video will give you some simple techniques for clear communication, show you how to model the behavior you want to see, and give you the confidence to set your standards so you're not waiting around for someone to put in more effort.  ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com  

It’s very easy to avoid having certain conversations in life. And one of the more dangerous forms of avoidance is assuming we’re exclusive when it’s unclear in early dating. So when should you have The Conversation? And what are some of the pitfalls that lead to people being “in limbo” and never really getting the commitment they want? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk about 3 common mistakes in the early dating stage and how to get clearer about where you really stand.  --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

Ever felt like you had chemistry and were falling for someone, and then they seem to start texting less, stop scheduling dates, and seem to be fading out? What does this mean? And more importantly, should you have "the conversation" to see where you stand? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk to a caller who felt the guy she was seeing wasn't interested anymore after he went on vacation. They discuss how to respond and what some the reasons might be behind this behavior. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

Ever been dating someone who suddenly goes cold when they go on a trip out of town? What happened? And how should you respond to this behavior? Today’s episode is all about what happens when we invest too soon, and how someone’s “radio silence” can trigger our insecurity. I even provide two text messages you can send: one for if they reach back out to you when they’re back in town, and one for when they don’t. BTW, don’t miss our HUGE announcement in this one (it’s right after Audrey’s cheeky cameo). ;) You’ll be one of the first people in the world to try this thing out . . . it’s crazy! ►► 17 Years of Love Life Coaching Experience in Your Pocket Whenever You Need It. Get on the Early Bird List for Matthew AI Now at. . . → http://www.AskMHFirst.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

When your heart gets broken, it can be as painful as any physical trauma. You can't eat. The world seems dark. Your every thought is tinged with a feeling of loss and hopelessness. But there are STILL choices.  And the ones you make now will decide whether you stay feeling broken and defeated, or whether you heal and come back feeling stronger, more confident, and ready to love again. Here's how to get on the right path back to YOU . . . --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

When you've been betrayed or hurt by someone, you can often ask yourself, "How did I miss the red flags?". And in this reaction you may end up blaming yourself. Especially if you feel like there's a recurring pattern in the people you've chosen to date so far. So what is the role of our own responsibility when we date people who hurt us? And how do we practice self-forgiveness and compassion for ourselves so we don't get caught in a trap of endlessly beating ourselves up for someone else's bad behavior? In this episode Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss the role of self-compassion vs. accountability, dealing with betrayal, and how to move on from heartbreak the right way. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

“I’m always the person they date right before they find the person they marry . . .” Sound familiar? It can be shocking to find out that someone who always held out on commitment suddenly decides they want marriage and children . . . but only after you break up. At that point, you might be thinking: “Oh, so they were able to change . . . they just didn’t want to change with me.” So how can you recover from this feeling of not being chosen? In today’s episode, I share 3 things you MUST know when you find yourself in this situation and can’t move on. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Are you tired of people not putting in any effort? I get it, this can be extremely frustrating, especially if you consistently come across people like this. If you’re wondering what you could do to make someone try harder in early dating, I have a powerful concept to share with you that relates to maintaining attraction. Plus, you'll learn how to apply this concept with three powerful messages you can send to communicate your standards in a playful yet effective way that will encourage them to actually pursue you. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

The first time you experience heartbreak is a shattering experience. It's a new pain, it feels like your entire world falls apart, and you don't know if you'll ever feel better. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to shift your perspective on your heartbreak, the mindset that helps your recover, and how to stop seeing this person as your only path to happiness. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Do you have the heartbreaking feeling that you lost “The One”? Maybe you’re haunted by a mistake you made, or something you said, or just a feeling that you could have done something differently to save the relationship. Here’s the good news: There is a path out of this pain. In today’s episode, I’ll show you 5 ways you can recover after (what you feel was) a love life mistake. Whether you’re mentally beating yourself up or just can’t seem to move on, I’ll show you how to feel better instantly, and what you can do when you see that person again. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair. When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?” You feel amazing. Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind. He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you. He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family . . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . . It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet. Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks. And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely. You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real. If this sounds familiar, then this video is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship.  In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious behavior in relationships, how to become more aware of your triggers, and simple ways to get more emotional control and calm your anxiety.  ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com

Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?”   The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that moment . . . but what actually happens when you decide not to put yourself out there anymore (when deep down, you still want to find love)?    In today’s episode, I share 5 ways you can get back into dating that won’t lead to burnout. You’ll see how to maintain your peace while also giving yourself permission to take small (or even big) swings in love.   ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com    

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself? Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment. Of course, in a world where people are constantly trying to curate and filter their lives, it’s no wonder most of us find it scary to try something where validation isn’t guaranteed. And while it might not be possible to feel completely immune to the fear of rejection, there are things you can do to move beyond that paralyzing anxiety. In today’s episode, I’m going to give you three secrets to changing your relationship with rejection . . . --- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

What do you do if you meet someone who makes you feel accepted, safe, happy, and you truly connect...but they're already in a relationship? And even worse, they may tell you that they are unhappy in their marriage and want to spend time more with you. Should you give them an ultimatum? Or should you walk away? Matthew and Audrey answer a listener facing this exact dilemma right now, explain why this happens, and break down what the best options are in this difficult situation.  ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Are you someone who dreads big social gatherings? Or you want to hide under the covers at the thought of being seen in a crowd, meeting new people, or going on a first date?  In this episode, Matt talks about his own early experience with being a "shy kid", the psychology behind social anxiety (and what makes it worse), and some powerful mindset shifts that can put us in state of relaxed confidence. ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Striking up Conversation Can Be Intimidating. Get 9 Effortless Ways to Create Conversation That Feel Natural and Simple at. . . → https://WhatToSayNext.com

When your ex moves on quickly, it can feel like a gut punch. It leaves you questioning everything – the relationship, your self-worth, and the life you two built together. If you’re going through this, know you’re not alone. This episode dives deep into understanding those tough emotions and, most importantly, helps you reclaim your power and confidence as you move forward. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

Do you often give into your worst impulses? Feel like you’ve lost control and don’t know how you’ll reach your goals if you keep failing like this? It’s ok. You’re human. There are ways we can work with our psychology to manage these impulses and not let our bad habits defeat us. In this episode, Matt talks about one of the single biggest keys to picking yourself back up and getting what you want when you feel like you keep letting yourself down.     ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons). So how can you get out of this cycle? In today’s new episode, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again. ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

What happens when someone is great on a date, but they’re terrible at communication in between? They don’t reach out, they’re unresponsive, and it makes you feel like they’re not really invested. In this clip, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk about how to create your own culture in dating, leading with your behaviour, and how to reach out while keeping your self-respect.  --- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

Have you ever been there? You meet someone online, the connection sparks, and attraction starts to grow with every conversation. But then, when you meet in person, something‘s off. Maybe their height isn‘t quite what the pictures showed, or their photos were way outdated. And even though you try to push past it, the initial spark is gone. And now you feel stuck . . . You know you‘re not interested, but the thought of letting them down fills you with fear and anxiety.  If this sounds familiar, you won‘t want to miss this episode. Audrey and Matt discuss how to navigate this situation if you‘re a people pleaser or struggle with guilt when delivering bad news.  -- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

What is a relationship with a narcissist really like?    If you’re an empathetic person, it can make you feel crazy: You doubt yourself constantly. You’re always second-guessing. Your boundaries and sense of self are slowly broken down by emotional manipulation and gaslighting.   Whether you’re still feeling the wounds from a past narcissistic relationship, or are trying to figure out if you’re in a relationship with a narcissist right now, today’s episode is your next step. I walk you through the 7 signs you're dating a narcissist and show you how to spot these traits faster in your next relationship. ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

What if you’ve been dating someone with whom you feel a truly unique and natural connection, but they have a fatal flaw that means a relationship is impossible? There is a real danger to the feeling that this person is irreplaceable, when you tell yourself “I can’t find this connection with anyone else”.  If we never make space for something new, never let go, and always hold onto hope of what might have been, we can get stuck on an old relationship forever. So if you’re ready to truly move on and get over “the one that got away”, this video will help you move forward with confidence and certainty. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// http://www.DatingWithResults.com/

Theresa says, “I feel like I’m his lowest priority”. Even though the guy she’s dating long-distance says all the right things, he is constantly busy and now she feels like an obligation to him rather than someone he’s excited to see. “He doesn’t want to lose me”, she says, “but he doesn’t want to try either”. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to handle this on-the-fence situation, when someone says they want to see you but isn’t able or truly willing to fulfil your needs, and whether you should date someone who is too busy to make you their priority right now.   -- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup and don’t know how to move on. Either way, this is the first aid you need right now.   In today’s episode, I explain the #1 thing that defines our reality during a breakup, and show how the obsession we might feel during a breakup can have its roots in the early days of dating someone. And if you’re on the fence about getting back with your ex, the 3 steps I share today can help you make that decision. --- ►► Striking up Conversation Can Be Intimidating. Get 9 Effortless Ways to Create Conversation That Feel Natural and Simple at. . . → https://WhatToSayNext.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her. Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…” She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him. But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?) The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love. In this week’s rewind episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them...   >> Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com >> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// http://www.DatingWithResults.com/

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“How and when should I have the conversation that I want marriage and kids?” Good question! And definitely a tricky subject for most people. We are told to be honest about what we want, but we also worry about scaring someone off if we bring it up too soon. In today’s episode, I give you 6 practical steps to help you determine if someone shares your goals and timeline, figure out exactly what you want (and come up with a plan for each possibility), and approach these conversations in a natural and confident way. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Do you find yourself always falling for a guy too fast? You go on a few dates, maybe you end up sleeping with him, and then… you’re totally hooked.  Suddenly, he’s the #1 topic of conversation with you and your friends. You find yourself constantly wanting to text him. You sit at home wondering what he’s up to. You’re tempted to rush things forward. Wait. Stop. Relax. There’s nothing wrong with being a romantic, but you have to be so careful here to make the right decisions going forward. If you find your heart always investing in a guy when your head tells you to calm down, here’s the secret to taking back your power...   >> Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com >> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// http://www.DatingWithResults.com/

When you've made progress getting over someone, then they send you a text, how should you react? Or maybe they still like your instagram posts, respond to your stories, or you see glimpses of their life with a new partner and it triggers you... In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to deal with triggers that derail your progress and what to do when you're trying to move on for good and want to TRULY get over your ex.  >>> Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   >>> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com   >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com 

Do you get obsessed too quickly in the early days of dating? This is often dangerous because it places WAY too much of our happiness in trying to attract and keep someone (even when we don’t really know them yet).    Thankfully, this kind of “anxious dating” is something you can actually solve. In today’s episode, I dive into where this obsession comes from, and give you 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly and self-sabotaging in early dating. >>> Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com >>> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening.  At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this... Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...   >> Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com >> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// http://www.DatingWithResults.com/

When is the best time to ask the person you’re dating if they’re still dating other people? Is there a “sweet spot” during the dating process to have the exclusivity conversation?  In today’s podcast, you’ll learn how to balance emotional intuition with practical strategy . . . plus avoid emotional manipulators and love bombers in the process. You’ll also learn how important connection is (and when feeling it in the early days of dating can lead you down the wrong path, especially when chemistry is valued over compatibility). This episode will give you tools and mindsets to navigate the early days of dating with confidence! ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com 

In today’s new episode, an incredible member of my Club 320 inner circle asked 3 beautifully vulnerable questions (and gave me permission to share them with you). From a painful childhood to a 10-year relationship with a narcissist, she wanted to figure out how to release shame, heal, and find her true self.    No matter what your story is, you don’t have to carry this baggage forever. After listening to Cara’s story, you might start to look at your life, your history, and your future differently. ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com 

Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we're afraid we will "make waves" in the relationship. We come from a place of fear and anxiety. "What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?" we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer. But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on. If this is you, this episode is for you. >> Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com** >> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// http://www.DatingWithResults.com/

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Have you ever wondered how you can move on from someone you never dated? Perhaps you’ve been pining for them for months (or even years) . . . hoping they’ll finally notice you and see your value.    This great question is one of 7 I answer in today’s new episode, based on the comments you left me last week. I also dig into topics like:   • What’s the best way to start a long-distance relationship? • What’s your dating advice for people over 40? • Why did they change their mind about being ready for a relationship?   Don’t miss these, and once you’re done, be sure to send an email to [email protected] with a question you’d like me to answer next time! ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Do you ignore red flags? Do you feel like you give too much in your relationships? Do you brush things under the carpet when someone violates your boundaries?  If so, this week’s video is specifically for you… The richness and depth of a true connection can only come from giving other people the chance to reciprocate your warmth, kindness, and giving nature… Because while it might feel selfless or nurturing to pour into others without receiving in return – it can actually backfire, weaken your connection, and make you feel resentful. I promise that if you find the courage to be honest, you’ll find more satisfaction, fulfillment, and happiness in your relationships. --- ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

The concept of "love languages" has been incredibly popular in recent years. But is there really only 5 ways to give and receive love? And how useful is the idea of love languages when trying to find a compatible partner for a relationship? Join Matt, Stephen and Audrey for an explanation of the science around love languages, criticisms and challenges of the theory, and how you can apply them when dating.  ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

"How can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest?" This is just one question out of 10 that I answer in today's rapid-fire Q&A episode, which also includes answers to:  "What Dating Advice Would You Give to Your 16-Year-Old Self?"  "When Did You Last Cry?"  "How Can I Get Over the Shame of Having Stayed Too Long in a Relationship?"  "Is It Worth Reaching Back Out to an Ex Who May Have Changed?" ... and much more. It was super fun to read and answer all your questions. Be sure to leave me a comment with any questions you might have for part 2!   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com  

If you’ve ever wondered, “do they actually like me?" then you don’t want to miss this episode… How do you know if someone genuinely has eyes for you, or if they're just like that with everyone they meet?  Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on. You need to know when you have the green light. You need to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters. In this clip then, I'll show you the 7 obvious signs someone REALLY likes you... ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you ever gotten intimate with someone who seemed to show ALL the signs of wanting more with you, only for them to go cold afterwards? Why does this happen? And is there anything you can do to protect yourself from this happening again? In this episode, Matt and Audrey discuss why men can disappear after sex, how to judge whether to sleep with someone or not, and how not to get seduced by the wrong people.  ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Is love enough to keep a relationship going? You may have asked yourself this question when you’ve faced a difficult breakup. In today’s episode, I go deep on this question, and talk about 7 compatibility tests that can help determine whether your relationship will last. These are some of the most underrated qualities in a partner, and after watching, you’ll never look at compatibility the same way again . . . ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Perhaps you've felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date…  Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most ... Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego. Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this week's episode, you'll learn how to make that happen. >> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com >> Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com

We answered YOUR dating questions! Join me and my wife Audrey as we dive into fears of cheating, red flags on dating apps, confusing post-break up texts and more!  ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com   ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

When we’re stuck in a situationship with someone who doesn’t know what they want, it’s incredibly frustrating. As soon as we like someone and hear the words “I’m not ready for a relationship right now,” it feels like we’re suddenly back to square one!    If you’re tired of not knowing where you stand, you’ve come to the right place. In this episode, I share 5 signs that can reveal if someone is ready for a relationship, plus a key question you can ask yourself and use anytime you feel stuck or confused.   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com   ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday.  Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

Have you been with someone who wants attention, connection, spends time with you...but they'll never commit? And when you ask them why they keep in touch they say something like "I just can't let you go". If you've been in this situation, listen to this message. It's ESSENTIAL listening to help you take back your life and make the most important decision you could make right now. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

Have you ever felt like you lost "The One" because of bad timing? They moved country, they weren't ready to commit, or they hadn't matured enough yet?  It's common to tell ourselves this is a case of "right person, wrong time". But that can make the pain of loss even worse. We despair that we've lost a great love and it's down to pure bad luck.  If you're struggling to get over someone like this, make sure to listen to this episode. Matt and Audrey talk about the myth of "right person wrong time" and the essential mindsets that can bring you back to confidence and optimism about moving on and finding love again. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com   ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

Most people want to avoid players in dating . . . yet why do so many end up in relationships (or situationships) with them? Sadly, it’s all too common to get seduced into a roller coaster romance where we feel amazing chemistry but never know where we stand with someone. Today I’m giving you the best advice I’ve given on this topic through 7 clips that will help you avoid players and find the right person. If you’re ready to rewire your brain and start attracting someone who says “yes” to a relationship, this is for you. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in the wrong people.   It can be hard to read someone’s intentions in the early stages. I can’t make you a foolproof lie detector, and I can’t guarantee you’ll never be ghosted again, but I can make you a competent “detector of intentions” so you have the best possible chance of investing your time into people who are serious about a relationship with you. --- ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign Up Now For My Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships.com → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Matthew sits down to talk with Sabrina Zohar (sabrina.zohar) on unrealistic expectations in dating, healing old wounds, setting boundaries, choosing a happy relationship, and how insecurities affect who we date. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►►Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

So you just realized you actually like someone?  Hold up a second . . .   When we fall for someone in the early stages of dating, it’s very easy to drop our standards and lose sight of our boundaries. We check our texts constantly. We cancel other plans for them. We agree to live on their schedule.    This situation is especially dangerous for people who have a more anxious attachment style and tend to respond to relationship uncertainty by bending over backwards to keep someone happy.   In today’s new episode, I explore how different attachment styles respond in this situation, and how you can attract a healthy relationship where your standards and boundaries won’t be trampled. ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign Up Now For My Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships.com → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Get My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s nothing bigger, is there?”  That’s often true in attraction too.    So many people are looking for the huge epiphany, instead of the subtle-yet-powerful changes to their behavior that can skyrocket their results.  As you’ll hear in this episode, turning someone’s head doesn’t have to be complicated. --- ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com  

Over the past week, so many of you have expressed how much Angela’s story in my new book, Love Life, touched you deeply (in the chapter titled “Have Hard Conversations”). So this week I thought I’d share the actual interview with her from my Live Retreat. I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Our looks, our age, our past, even the fact that we have kids—the fear of rejection for who we are can stop us before we get started. Angela’s story is one of the most impactful I’ve heard on confidence and insecurity, and I think you’ll love hearing it in her own words. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About My Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Labels sometimes take longer to come than the feelings themselves, and our fear of getting hurt can make us all reluctant to be vulnerable and express what we feel.  As a result, so many people come to me asking . . . “Are we living in a time when people just don’t want to commit anymore?” “How do you know if someone is ready?”   These two questions pop up A LOT, and that got me thinking about my own thoughts on the subject . . .   In this rewind episode, I give you 11 specific signs to look for to determine if someone is serious about you. --- ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Today Matt sits down with Lisa Bilyeu, author of Radical Confidence, to talk about how to escape our toxic cycles in relationships, overcoming low self-esteem, communicating with your partner (even when you have different love languages), attracting the right person, and how to figure out who is right for you. ►► Follow Lisa @LisaBilyeu ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement we can inadvertently end up on a path we don’t want to be on… In this clip I answer a question from someone who didn’t want to repeat the last 2 years of her life, which she spent in a ‘friends with benefits’ situation.   ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

You’ve been on a date or two with someone and things are going pretty well. Then suddenly they ask you, “Wanna come over to my place and watch a movie tonight?” Is it too soon? What if you like this person but you feel it’s moving a little too fast? In today’s video, I share 5 things you need to know before you “Netflix and chill” if you want more than just a casual hookup. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com 

We may not realise it, but many of us subconsciously hide from real love because it forces us to be honest and show who we really are. And when we get threatened, we either go cold, hide, or lash out with passive aggression.  If you've struggled with emotional unavailability or always choosing the wrong people, this might be why... ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

My brother and I sit down to talk about why I wrote my new book "Love Life", how dating has changed in the last 10 years, choosing the right person, and how to break toxic cycles in relationships.  ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com 

Friends...it's finally happening :) ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

I’ve been asked this question several times a week for the last 10+ years. You may feel SO ready to share your life with someone . . . only to have had dates that fizzled out or incompatible relationships . . . or perhaps you’ve remained single with no such person on the horizon. It can even begin to feel like that’s the way it will always be.   If you’re working through feelings of longing, loneliness, or sadness—or just want to feel more excited about dating—in today’s new episode, I share 3 tools that will help you effectively manage those difficult emotions, and give you real hope for the future. ► Want to Make 2024 The Year You Find Love? Join My Free Virtual Event Find Your Person on May 4. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?! You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think: Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination? I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . . Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by. So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are? In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

We are often told to "trust our instincts" in love and relationships. But sometimes our first reaction can be unhealthy, impulsive, or come from bad patterns we have learned that cause us to self-sabotage. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to question your instincts and make the right decision when you have an emotional reaction or become anxious in dating. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Matt and Audrey had the pleasure this week of sitting down with Mark Groves, author of the new book "Liberated Love" and host of the Mark Groves podcast. In this episode, we discuss anxious vs. avoidant attachment styles in love, how to overcome co-dependency, getting back together after a break up, and the crucial importance of TRUE honesty and facing reality in having fulfilling relationships. ►► Follow Mark on Instagram createtthelove ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

You know those moments where you look back and think, “I wish I’d known then what I know now”? Well, in today’s new episode, I share the 7 things I wish I knew back when I was dating. Hopefully you can learn from my mistakes in my 20s and 30s to save yourself extra time (and heartache)!   If you’ve ever found yourself giving more than the other person in your relationship, felt heartbroken that someone doesn’t like you back, or chased the wrong person, you can’t miss this! ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you ever felt jealous about your ex’s previous partners? In the age of social media, it’s easier than ever to see our partner’s history and compare ourselves to our ex’s history. In this episode, we talk about the problem of this “retroactive jealousy”, how it affects us psychologically, and how to let go of it.   ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Many people think they need to wait to feel confident. Or they believe it's a special gift you're born with. Or they believe it's something that only comes after you achieve a certain goal.  Matt and Audrey sit down to explain why none of those are true. You can actually feel confident right now - and it starts with changing what part of your life you focus on. ►► Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Pre-Order Your Copy of Love Life Before April 23 to Enter the Love Life Giveaway. Learn More At. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Matt and Audrey sit down to discuss the problem of settling for someone else's lack of commitment simply because you can't let them go, how to set boundaries, and what is required of us to choose the right person. ►► Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Pre-Order Your Copy of Love Life Before April 23 to Enter the Love Life Giveaway. Learn More At. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com 

A bad date—where we know we won’t see the person again—can be frustrating since it wastes our time. But what’s even MORE frustrating? An amazing date with someone who just disappears after seeing us only once or twice. It leaves us wondering: “What happened?? I thought we had real chemistry!” In this episode, I explain exactly why someone pulls away after a first date… (and how you can tell the difference between someone who’s a keeper vs. someone who’s just telling you what you want to hear.)  ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com 

In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.   Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.) ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Ever felt like you're scared of expressing your honest feelings when dating or in a relationship? It can often feel scary to put ourselves on the line. Or to open up. Or to even admit to ourselves that we want to find love.  In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down to talk about why we act aloof in dating, fear of rejection, how we put up barriers that stop us truly connecting, and how to be honest about what we really want in love. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Join a Community of People Learning to Transform Their Impact with People, Their Happiness in Life and Their Love for Themselves. Subscribe to my Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at. . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

Long-distance relationships are a tough gig. You miss each other. You feel like a separate part of their life at times. And you don’t always know when you’ll be together again. So . . . is it worth it? Well, it depends. Long-distance relationships are tough, but there are warning signs that can help tell you if it’s likely to work long-term. In fact, there’s one thing someone can SAY to you that basically guarantees a long-distance relationship won’t last, and I share it in this episode. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Join a Community of People Learning to Transform Their Impact with People, Their Happiness in Life and Their Love for Themselves. Subscribe to my Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at. . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com

Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff? In today’s video, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one. You’ll learn how to:   • Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them. • Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity. • Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship you’re actually in. You’ll want to bookmark this video and rewatch it before any date.   ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay of my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . → The Love Life Reset REPLAY

Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding! In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down with their wonderful wedding planners Lynden Lane to discuss what makes the perfect wedding, how to budget for a big event, and how to create the greatest memories with as little stress as possible. --- ►► Connect with Lynden Lane @lyndenlane ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com Thank You to Our Wedding Vendors! Design & Production: @lyndenlane Photography: @sarahfalugo.co Video: @giuliocantarella_wedding Florals: @keithjlaverty Paper Goods: @cecilespaperco Venue: @dimoradellebalze Rentals: @theark_ & @theonicollection Stylist: @nextlevelwardrobe Hair Stylist: @tonipellegrinoartandscience Dress: @pronovias DJ: @redshoela

People ask me a lot, “How did you meet your wife?” Well, it wasn’t just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert like me could use to be in exactly the right place to meet Audrey when I did. I believe anyone can apply this advice in their dating lives to find love. So if you want to maximize your chances of meeting (and attracting) someone amazing, the 3 practical steps I mention in this episode could lead you to your person . . . possibly without you ever having to swipe right! ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Ready to Get Off The Sidelines and Back Into Dating? Catch the Replay of The Love Life Reset at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com

If you’ve been in the early dating stages with someone, you may have noticed after a few weeks when you get one of those “uh-oh” moments. Maybe they didn't call when they said they would. Or they're a little ignorant about something that’s important to you. Or appeared to take something you did for granted. It might not be terrible behavior, but you know it’s behavior you don’t want to be a pattern for the rest of your relationship. So how do you handle the conversation without letting your emotions get the better of you? I.e. without reacting in a way that would hurt rather than help the relationship... In this week’s episode, I’m going to give 3 steps of exactly how to handle this difficult conversation, so that you can handle it in a productive way when it happens. This is how you make them want to be a better person for you... ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay of my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . → The Love Life Reset REPLAY

What does it mean to truly accept every part of yourself? How do we let go of beating ourselves up for our mistakes and flaws and embrace who we are? There are so many things that can knock us off our path, make us feel shame, and cause us to feel unloveable. In this episode, Matthew explains how to build the foundations of self-compassion and stop basing our worth on the wrong things. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay to my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . → The Love Life Reset REPLAY 

Have you fallen for someone who just can’t give you the same affection back? Emotionally unavailable people are the relationship version of junk food. You know it’s bad . . . but your addiction keeps you going back for more. This is nothing more than a formula for heartbreak. In today’s new episode, I dive into the psychology behind why we’re attracted to emotionally unavailable people, and why just because something’s scarce (such as someone’s attention) doesn’t mean it’s valuable. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Join My FREE Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

Do you ignore red flags? Do you feel like you give too much in your relationships? Do you brush things under the carpet when someone violates your boundaries? If so, this week’s episode is specifically for you… The richness and depth of a true connection can only come from giving other people the chance to reciprocate your warmth, kindness, and giving nature… Because, while it might feel selfless or nurturing to pour into others without receiving in return – it can actually backfire, weaken your connection, and make you feel resentful. I promise that if you find the courage to be honest, you’ll find more satisfaction, fulfillment, and happiness in your relationships. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating? Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset Reserve Your Spot Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

Matthew and Audrey sit down to talk about love lessons learned from the Netflix show "One Day". Topics include the danger of holding out for someone who remains a fantasy, how the love stories we tell can be intoxicating but also dangerous, and why we need to chase the right things in life. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating? Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset Reserve Your Spot Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

Have you ever dated someone who seems really into you . . . only for you to find yourself in a dead-end situationship where you just want to scream, “What are we?!” every time you’re together? Turns out there is a solution for this (and you don’t need to be a mind reader). In today’s episode, I’ll show you some simple ways you can find out what your future would look like with someone—even early on in dating. Be sure to watch now to learn how you can tell the difference between someone who will continue to string you along and someone who’s good relationship material. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Ready to Get Off the Sidelines and Back into Dating? Join my Free Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset Reserve Your Spot Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

People think going on a date with someone is simple. You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah blah blah. Gulp down a few drinks. Maybe a kiss. End of story. Well... that’s not bad. But do you really want to be just the “not bad” person in their head? Wouldn’t you rather they go home in a romantic haze, unable to take their mind off this new, unendingly fascinating person who they just pray will answer their texts the next day? Thought so. If you really want them to miss you after only 24 hours, don’t leave the first encounter without throwing in a few of these techniques... --- ►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset... Sign Up Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com  ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down for a conversation with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast. We cover why men don’t open up, the inner beliefs that affect our romantic relationships, healing our wounds, self-love, and how to be truly fulfilled.  ►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset... Sign Up Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com  ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Follow Rob Dial: Instagram: @Robdialjr Podcast: The Mindset Mentor  

There’s a mistake nearly all of us make in early dating . . . and it’s something we don’t even realize we’re doing. When we get nervous, we naturally slip into one of two masks as a way to protect ourselves against rejection. In today’s new episode, I’ll show you how one simple change can not only hugely increase the connection you feel with someone, but also take the pressure out of early dating. Don’t miss it! ►► Jumpstart Your Dating Life with My FREE Virtual Event, Love Life Reset... Sign Up Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early-stage dating... If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere… And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing differently to change that… This video is for you. (It also contains a very special guest who hasn’t been seen in a long time, but is demanded on a daily basis. You’re welcome.) Can’t wait to hear what you think.   ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com    

Not long ago, I decided to do something II nearly NEVER do. My inner child was screaming at me to do anything else - but I decided to quiet that voice and go for it anyway. Here’s what I learned from getting out of my comfort zone, doing something I was afraid of, and quieting my inner emotional resistance. ►► Access My Happiness After heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at. . . → http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Why does the end of a passionate short-term romance sometimes feel more devastating than a longer-term relationship? It’s because short-term romances are like fireworks—explosive and exciting—only to fizzle out soon after. We get addicted to the feeling of intensity they give us, and feel empty when they disappear. In today’s episode, I’ll show you the best way to move on from a short-term romance and stop obsessing over “the person who got away.” ►► Access My Happiness After heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at. . . → http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

It’s so annoying. You finally decide you like someone. You tell your friends how excited you are. You even allow yourself to imagine them as “future life partner” material. And then suddenly...they start fading out. They stops calling… They become colder in conversation… They don’t step up and commit… It’s like the universe knows when you’ve met an amazing person, and decides to dangle them just out of reach. Whyyyyy? In this week’s episode, I reveal the top 5 reasons why they disappear so you never have to wonder why someone pulls away again... ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com

How do you know if you’re in a narcissistic relationship? And how do toxic relationships with your parents affect your dating life today? In this episode, Matthew sits down with world expect Dr. Ramani Durvasula to talk about her new book “It’s Not You”, narcissistic patterns, and how to protect yourself from unacceptable behaviour in relationships. Follow Dr. Ramani:  Instagram: @Doctorramani YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani ►► Get Dr. Ramani’s book “It’s Not You” → https://rb.gy/5pyj7t ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Are you held back from your dreams by fear and self-doubt?  Join Matt for a conversation with Jamie Kern Lima all about her new book “Worthy” and the topic of self-doubt, eliminating self-sabotage and how to get real confidence. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Follow Jamie on IG → @jamiekernlima

Nothing leaves you feeling more alone than heartbreak. You feel lost, afraid, and sometimes you also feel deeply unworthy. The worst part is wondering if you’ll ever feel happy again. But there is a way to heal, and it starts with first understanding what the source of your pain actually is. In today’s new episode, I share a way you can rewire your brain . . . not to ignore your grief, but to see it with fresh eyes and start to mend your broken heart. ►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . . → http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times.  And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted.  What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back? It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of anger or upset subsides, and we are left with this sinking feeling that somehow we’ve just messed it all up.  If you can relate to being the kind of person whose emotions and anxieties can be easily triggered in a relationship, this epsidoe is really going to help you. Let’s take back control over those emotions and put you back in the driver’s seat. And let’s learn to use our moments of friction to make our relationships even more beautiful. ---   ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com

 Have you ever tried to keep someone’s attraction by “playing the game”? Maybe you’ve been tempted to respond less to texts, or try to hide the fact you like someone, or followed dating advice that tells you to act aloof and indifferent. In today’s episode, I want to get to the truth about “playing hard-to-get” and what really happens when you try to win attraction by playing games . . . ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?  The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.  I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of.  But in today’s episode, I cover the “what to say” part—specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you. --- ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . .→ http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

I recently went through an experience that felt a lot like a break up. And today I want to talk about it.  If you've been through something like this, you'll learn one of the biggest insights that changes the entire meaning you take away from the experience of "getting dumped" ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . . → http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

Do you know why heartbreak hits us as hard as it does? In today’s episode, I found the answer in an interview with the world-leading expert on grief, David Kessler. It turns out, a lot of us are carrying around “unattended grief” that affects us in ways we don’t even realize. We often don’t give ourselves the space to fully feel what we need to in order to break free. This new episode is an important one. Even I wasn’t prepared for what I’d feel during the conversation, so I hope you’ll join me and watch it (and let me know your thoughts afterward!) ►► Access My Happiness After Heartbreak Series for FREE by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now. . . → http://www.HeartbreakSeries.com

Matt, Stephen, and Audrey talk about how to handle a sudden break-up that knocks you sideways and shakes your confidence. How do you get over someone when you felt like you were fully invested in a future with them? And should you cut all contact when they try to reach out and stay friends? ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ---   Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Follow Audrey: @theaudreyhussey

We asked you about what behaviours and patterns have caused the most pain in your love life. And you answered!  In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk on the topic of jealousy in a relationship, insecurity about our looks, and getting over people who don't choose you. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey Follow Audrey: @theaudreyhussey

It’s normal to want to put our best selves forward on a first date . . . but sometimes this makes us hide who we really are. And that’s a shame, because someone may not see the real version of us—the one they’d want to see again and again. So how do you create authentic attraction early on? What are the things you could do that would make someone excited for a second date with you? In today’s new episode, I share 3 natural ways to get and keep someone’s interest on a first date and beyond. 

Do you feel like everything has changed in the dating scene? Is it making you feel like you have to settle because so many people no longer want commitment? In this clip, Matthew talks about what it's like when we go through difficult experiences and come back onto the dating scene, what happens as we get older and are looking for a relationship, and how you can approach finding love with a new perspective. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

We all have made mistakes in our past. And some of those we've made in relationships can not only be the most painful, but being honest about the, can effect how future partners see us. So how do you know if someone has grown and changed after a past mistake? And when should you share those with someone you're dating (especially if it's something egregious like cheating).  Matt and Audrey sit down in this episode to talk about moving past mistakes and whether you can trust someone who has cheated in the past. --- ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

You may not know this, but you probably have an unconscious dating mindset. We all do. It might be learned from our parents, an early relationship, or any other kind of formative childhood experience, but it affects so much of our behavior when we meet someone we like. In today’s new video, I’m going to share 3 of the most dangerous dating mindsets to avoid, and one powerful mindset that will let you enjoy the process while naturally attracting the person you really want. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

We often learn our attachment style very early in life. And it can go on to affect all of our romantic relationships. But how? And to what extent should we excuse people's behaviour because of their attachment style? In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, what they mean, and how we can our awareness of them use to navigate relationships. --- ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com   ►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums Reserve Your Spot to my Virtual Event for FREE... → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

How often do you look at yourself and feel great in what you wear? Does your wardrobe fill you with dread or make you feel joy? In this episode, my wife Audrey and I had an amazing conversation with fashion expert Cassandra Sethi. We talked about how to find clothing that makes you feel confident in your own skin, which items are worth spending money on (and which aren't), and how to put together a wardrobe with outfits that best suit your own personal style. --- Connect with Cassandra Blog → https://nextlevelwardrobe.com Insta → https://www.instagram.com/nextlevelwardrobe --- ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums Reserve Your Spot to my Virtual Event for FREE... → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

It’s a dating mystery: Why would someone invest in dating you and then walk away? They take you on a romantic trip, buy you an amazing gift, or tell you they’re falling for you . . . right before breaking up with you? What were they thinking?! In today’s new episode, I share the reasons why someone might lead you on, and how you can use it as fuel to get over them faster and find your person. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

So this wasn’t the video we’d planned to release this week . . .  But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn’t wait to talk about it. The video this week is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better.   Your coach,   Matthew x   P.S. Which revelation surprised you the most? I look forward to reading your thoughts as we continue this discussion . . . which has already become one of my favorites.     ►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums. . . Reserve Your Spot to My Virtual Event For FREE at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

In this brand new episode, I sit down with my wife Audrey to talk about why people fear commitment and whether people are less inclined towards marriage in 2024. With the prevalence of dating apps it can feel like we have more options than ever, but people feel it's even more difficult to find their ideal partner. We discuss what has changed in modern dating, reasons for optimism when it comes to commitment, how you can influence someone's view on what commitment means, and how to improve your communication to have a healthy relationship. ►► Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums. . . Reserve Your Spot to My Virtual Event For FREE at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Have you ever been stuck in “relationship limbo”? If you have, you know how much it sucks . . . But how can you find the people who are actually ready for commitment, and increase the odds of them wanting it with YOU? The truth is, there are actually people who—like you—are working on themselves and looking for a true relationship. In today’s new video, I’ll show you how to avoid the time-wasters and game-players . . . and I’ll also reveal the #1 trait that makes someone want to get serious. Be sure to listen to the whole thing (and watch the full video and hear about a brand-new free training happening this month that you won’t want to miss!) ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

You can set your watch to it. They flake or break up with you . . . you spend weeks — in fact, months — hurting and getting over them, and just as you realize you no longer think about them all the time and begin to feel happy again, you get the text.   “Hey, how you doing?”   Does this sound familiar? I suspect it does . . .   So what is this phenomenon? Why do they always come back? What does it mean? And more importantly, what do you SAY when they do?   In today’s episode, I talk about 5 possible reasons why they come back. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Want to find love in 2024? Now is the time when everyone is making New Year’s resolutions. It’s fun and I love that feeling of optimism before January begins. But we also know how hard it is to break old habits and patterns—and end up feeling a sense of failure and frustration if we don’t reach our goals . . . In today’s new video, I share with you the #1 resolution you should focus on this year to move toward a successful love life. ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com  

Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them? Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s episode) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you. Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs. We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?” Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode. ►► Try My Love Life VIP Coaching. To Learn More and join the exclusive club → Go to JoinLoveLife.com

What’s the best way to think strategically about finding love in the coming year? In this episode I had a chance to speak with the excellent Ali Abdaal who offers practical insights on productivity and simple habits you can adopt to improve your live and maximize your chances of finding your partner. Grab a copy of Ali’s awesome book “Feel Good Productivity” - available now!  >>> Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training at. http://www.DatingWithResults.com

If you’re dealing with loss, sickness, or loneliness, this time of year can serve to magnify whatever you’re going through.    So in this weekend’s new episode, I wanted to do something a little different . . . While this message is for anyone who needs a boost during the holidays, it’s especially for those in the middle of a “complicated Christmas.”   And today I want you to know that you’re not alone.    Listen to this message and please do drop me a comment after you watch. I’d love for us all to feel more connected and help people know that others understand what they’re going through right now.   Happy holidays, Matthew

You know those tricky early dates? You go for drinks. Maybe a walk. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy a similar taste in movies. Then texting. Then maybe a kiss. Uh-oh, now you actually like them. Crap. I mean, great! Now what? If you want to know how to keep the attraction well after the first date, so you can finally stop overthinking and show your best self, this is the episode for you . . . --- ►► Try My Love Life VIP Coaching. To Learn More and join the exclusive club → Go to JoinLoveLife.com

Here’s a common problem I hear, You feel ready for a relationship. You’ve worked hard to improve yourself and you have high standards for the person you want to be with long-term . . . but no one you date meets your standards. I know it can be so frustrating—but this feeling can lead to some dangerous mindsets that get in our way of finding love . . . often without us even realizing it. So in today’s episode, I’ll show you 3 powerful mindset shifts that will help you attract the right person faster so you can avoid self-sabotage and burnout as you search for the love you’re looking for. Excited for you to hear this one. Matthew x --- ►► Navigate the Modern Dating Landscape, Avoid 'Situationships', and Find the Beautiful & Lasting Relationship You Want at. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you ever had someone come into your life, dazzle you with their initial investment and attention, only to disappear as fast as they came? This phenomenon has been nicknamed “Love Bombing,” and it can be very painful, especially when you were led to believe it was going somewhere. You may be asking yourself why someone would do this. In this week’s rewind episode I’ll show you… My hope is that this episode will not only give you a sense of closure, but also help you to move past the heartache you are feeling right now if this has happened to you. I also show you how to avoid it in the future. ►► Try My Love Life VIP Coaching for FREE. To Learn More and Ask Me Your Question… → JoinLoveLife.com

How do you know if someone’s really over their ex?   Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also haven’t 100% gotten over the heartbreak of their last relationship. Of course, the first questions you ask yourself are: “Is this a huge red flag? Does it mean they are emotionally unavailable? Should I walk away?”   This is a really important topic in today’s episode, and my answer to this probably isn’t what you’d expect.    Give it a watch to find out the signs you can look out for to discern whether someone is truly a bad bet or if they have real potential.     

Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with someone is? Should you let them know you’d like to go on a date with them? And what about after the date. . . Should you let them know you’d like to see them again if you felt the date went well but they're not being proactive about setting up another one? Where is the line between showing someone you like them, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested? It can be tricky. But I want to make it simple. You may have heard me say, “Invest in those who invest in you.” But that could leave you wondering to yourself: “Fine Matthew, but so often that means I’m doing nothing because no one is investing in me! And doesn’t someone need to take the first step to invest something if anything is ever going to happen?” It’s a valid point. I’ll show you exactly how to solve this at the end of the episode, so make sure you listen all the way through. --- ►► Claim Your FREE TICKET to This World Premiere Event by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at. . . → http://www.LoveMythsMovie.com

It’s not always easy to tell the difference between friendliness, playful affection, and genuine romantic feelings. In today’s episode, I dive into the psychology of attraction to share 31 subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that can reveal someone’s intentions. Whether you’re flirting with someone you’ve just met, or wondering if the person you’ve been dating for a while wants to be more serious, this compliation will help you decode how they really feel! ►► Claim Your FREE TICKET to This World Premiere Event by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at. . . → http://www.LoveMythsMovie.com

Life is too short to put off our happiness until we reach certain milestones. It's great to make finding a relationship a goal, but the journey to getting there from being single doesn't have to be an arduous and unpleasant one. Too many people don't realise how much joy and happiness they can find when they are single and haven't met the right person yet. In this episode, I'll show you some simple ways to actually enjoy your single life and meet your needs when you're still looking for love. --- ►► Learn the 3 Secrets to Get Excited About Love Again. Tap Below to Download Your FREE Guide… → http://www.3SecretsToLove.com

What’s the best way to go from casual to committed when you’re dating someone?   There are two important things to remember here:   • Our standards are a HUGE influence on someone’s decision to commit. • We’re more likely to drop our standards when we really like someone.   So how do you show your standards in a confident way (without seeming demanding or needy)?   In today’s episode, I share the best advice I’ve given on this topic through the years to raise your value in their eyes and build lasting attraction. Don’t miss it! ►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man? What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out? If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, my new video is essential watching today . . .  Let me know what you think.   ►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Some very exciting news to share today . . .    I made a movie!   And it’s not just any film . . . it’s a romantic comedy special that will transform your love life while you watch it.   We’ve gathered the very best moments from my last live tour to create The Love Myths: a 90-minute movie that’s been years in the making, and we’ve now set a date for its exclusive premiere and live Q&A next month.   This is an event you can’t miss, and in today’s video, I give you all the details on how you can join me. ►► Claim Your FREE TICKET to This World Premiere Event by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at . . . → http://www.LoveMythsMovie.com

One thing no one ever warns you about happy relationships is just how many awkward conversations they can require you to have. And despite all the big ones of politics, religion and family – I find one topic almost no one wants to talk about is money. Who should pay on a date? Should you be honest with your partner how much money (or debt) you have? How do you handle it when one of you earns significantly higher income in a relationship than the other? These are all hugely important, and yet most people bury their heads in the sand and hope these issues will magically work themselves out if you’re truly in love (pro tip: they won’t). So in this week’s video, I sat down with my good friend Ramit Sethi, bestselling author and CEO of "I Will Teach You To Be Rich," to learn exactly how to have these difficult conversations so you can feel happy and secure about money in your relationship. I’ve never talked about this before, so I can’t wait to hear your comments on this one... Appearance by RAMIT SETHI Ramit Sethi iwillteachyoutoberich.com @ramit   ►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

When you're texting with someone you like, do you struggle to know what to say next? Or maybe it feels like you're in a texting rut, and keep having the same conversations… Today's episode  is a mini toolkit for these exact situations, with 17 high-value texting suggestions that restart attraction, lead to a date, or just bring you more emotional connection. Use these practical messages to inspire better communication in any dating situation! >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you ever been so frustrated by someone's mixed signals that you just decided to finally confront them and ask where you stand? It’s a scary moment. You feel like you’ve thrown your heart into the air, and you’re hoping they'll run to catch it instead of letting it fall and splat on the ground and make a huge mess. (I know, not the loveliest metaphor I’ve ever written…) And then… They reply. You hear their words. Read their text message: “Hey, I think you’re amazing and have such a great time with you. I really hope we can make things work and I’ll think about what you said.” Huh? If you’ve ever had an answer like this, in today’s video I’ll tell you exactly what this ambiguous language means so that you know how to confidently respond to their message... --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training at. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you ever felt like you had to walk on eggshells in a relationship? Or had a partner who criticized you or made you feel bad when you were succeeding? It’s often easier to see a toxic relationship from the outside than when you’re in the thick of it. Sometimes it can even be hard to tell the difference between something that can be worked on and a major red flag.   For today’s new video, I’ve gathered 12 of my most important pieces of advice over the years on how to spot a toxic relationship, set standards, and ultimately find the love you’re looking for so you don’t end up in a relationship that damages your self-confidence. --  ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training at. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

There's some really interesting psychology about compliments: not all of them have the same effect.  You can give generic compliments, or you can give compliments that create real attraction and connection between the two of you. One of these compliments works for when you first message someone on an app... The 2nd one is great for when you are meeting someone in person... The 3rd one is for someone you already know and want to build more attraction with. This episode is super practical. Take a few minutes to listen, then make it a mission to use one of these compliments today. --- >>> Get 5 More Compliments That Build Serious Attraction. Tap Below to Download Your Free Guide... → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.” It may be because they are sick of getting their heart broken. It may be that they are exhausted from going on dates that don’t go anywhere, or online conversations that never even get to the point of a date in the first place. It could be the frustration of never meeting people they have true chemistry with, or when they finally do, discovering that they aren’t looking for a relationship. If you feel any of these things, I made this for you. ---   Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training at. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

“How can I stop addictive thoughts about someone who’s wrong for me?” When we really like someone but know there are signs of problems, we’ll often overvalue them for their charisma and charm . . . and set ourselves up for massive future heartbreak.  If you find yourself getting fixated on someone too quickly—trying to make them fit into a relationship based on who they could be—then watch this week’s episode (taken from my Live Retreat) to figure out when someone is truly worthy of your investment. --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

 It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself. When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea that you’re just not a likable person. It becomes a self-perpetuating cycle: “I don’t like myself, so why should anyone else like me?” Then we feel lonely, beat ourselves up, feel like a failure, and like ourselves even less than before. We retreat more and more into our shells and lose that “spark” that makes us attractive to someone else as a potential partner. This is exhausting. It’s unfair. And it doesn’t do justice to who you really are on the inside and everything you have to give to the world. It’s an overwhelming step to think about how to suddenly become supremely confident. So let’s do something more modest today. In this episode, I want to share a small thing you can start doing today to get back your self-esteem and begin to reclaim your core confidence... --- ►► Deep down, you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MatthewHusseyRetreat.com

It’s easy to ignore red flags when we’re falling for someone. But our heart pays the price.    When you’re really attracted to someone, you can talk yourself out of acting on your concerns. You may pursue someone who doesn’t want a relationship in the hope of changing them, or prioritize someone else’s needs over your own because of your feelings of admiration.    For today’s episode, I’ve gathered some of my best advice over the years on spotting and acting on red flags . . . so you can move on faster and avoid the pain of heartbreak with someone who just isn’t ready. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Discover the 3 Secrets to Taking Control in Your Love Life. Go Here to Get Your Free Guide → http://www.3LoveHabits.com  

We often tell people they should be open in relationships. But what does it mean to be "open"? And can vulnerability become over-sharing, or is it always healthy? In this episode clip, Matt and Steve talk about the art of opening up to your partner and how to communicate vulnerability the right way. --- Follow Matt: http://bit.ly/MatthewHusseyIG Follow Stephen: http://bit.ly/StephenHusseyIG --- Learn 5 Techniques To Get Someone To Open Up To You. Go to GetHimToTalk.com

Do you find yourself always chasing the same type of people in dating?    It can be incredibly frustrating when you get caught in familiar toxic patterns. You want to throw your hands up and say, “How did this happen again?”   If you want to break this pattern, today’s new video of my conversation with author and entrepreneur Marie Forleo is a must-watch. Don’t miss it! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Discover the 3 Secrets to Taking Control in Your Love Life. Go Here to Get Your Free Guide → http://www.3LoveHabits.com  

 It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn?  Join us as we talk about the kind of romance that matters in relationships and holds them together long-term.  --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Do you still feel under pressure to find love? Are people making you fearful that it's too late and you're not young enough to attract the partner you deserve? In this conversation, Matt talks to the incredible Marie Forleo (@MarieForleo) about her own path to finding love, how we may need to change our blueprint to find the right person for us, and what it takes to be truly fulfilled in a long-term relationship and break our old patterns.  --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Pre-Order Your Copy of my new book "LOVE LIFE" & Join My Exclusive Launch Group Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com This is the biggest news I’ve revealed in a LONG time, and I’m beyond excited to share it with you. It’s about something I’ve been tirelessly working on in the background for the last 4 years . . . In many ways, it’s been the most difficult and personal project of my life. I’ve had to keep it to myself for what feels like forever now, but I can finally share it with you, and I do exactly that in this episode.

It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn?  Join us as we talk about the kind of romance that matters in relationships and holds them together long-term.  --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Breakups make us feel lonely, kill our motivation, and leave us scared we’ll never find life beyond this pain. But if you’re in a rut now, it doesn’t mean this is the end. If you feel stuck in heartbreak—or just need some encouragement to pick yourself up—don’t miss today’s new video. I’ll show you how to stop this breakup from defining who you are, and give you the first step to getting the confidence you need to start again. --- Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Many of us feel the pressure in life to be "normal". Especially in love where we may want to sand off our edges for dating apps and appear like everyone else. But I'm here to tell you... It's ok to be weird. In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. Or maybe it's the secret to your creativity, your productivity, or what makes you charismatic. If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic. So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Whether we’re sensitive about our looks, our age, or even the fact that we have kids, the fear of rejection can sometimes stop us before we get started.   Angela’s story in this week’s episode is one of the most impactful I’ve heard on this subject. I’m so excited for you to see it. If you want to feel more confident in dating (and in life!) you can’t miss this one! --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Should I leave or try to fix this relationship? Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another.   Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship.   With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time.   Today’s clip could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

What’s the secret formula for flirting? It’s one thing we all know is important in getting attraction, but rarely are we shown how to actually do it. The truth is, there isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to flirting that works for everyone. But there are things you can do to subtly add flirtatious chemistry into any conversation and make it feel completely natural. In today’s new compilation episode, I’ve gathered my best flirting advice from over the years, giving you a total of 19 flirty ideas that can help spark chemistry on your next date . . . or get you to date #1 in the first place! --- Get The Exact Text Messages That Lead Somewhere Real. Learn More About The Momentum Texts at. . . → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

Many of us have a preferred way that we tend to feel loved in a relationship. These are known as "love languages": physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, and acts of service. In this episode, Matt and Stephen talk about whether it matters if you and your partner have different love languages and how you can navigate these differences in a relationship. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---   ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Get ready to put yourself in the shoes of some of the incredible women who attended our last Retreat, and hear the stories of how they’ve been able to find reserves of strength, resilience, and hope they didn’t even know they had. Plus, you can see the dedication of my team, the absolute blast we have, and the deep work and lightbulb moments that happen throughout the event. It’s my wish that as you listen to this episode (and make sure to go watch on YouTube as well to see the Retreat live in action!) it will be like a mini Retreat for you today—inspiring you to take on the rest of your week. ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com

I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this clip, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Betrayal. Anger. Heartbreak. These emotions are normal in the wake of a breakup. But often, especially if we feel we’ve been mistreated by the person we broke up with, anger lingers long after it’s productive. We become captive to this toxic emotion, unable to move on and get over what happened, rendering closure impossible.   So how can we truly heal from this type of pain? In today's new episode, we'll discuss how. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Have you ever worried that being in a relationship makes it harder to achieve your goals? It's a common worry that people have: "I won't be able to juggle all the things I want to do in life and also devote myself to someone". If you've struggled with this dilemma before (or dated people who have), then this clip is for you. Matthew and Stephen talk about the benefits of being single vs. a relationship and how to reframe your lens to be able to make either work for you. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in Just 6 Days Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Does your life need to be “figured out” before you find “The One”? This is the sort of advice married people LOVE to give: “Once you get your life together and you’re totally fulfilled and happy, the right person will come along.” It sounds good. But is it true? In today's episode, I’ll give you the truth about what you need to do when looking for love so you can find the right person for you without needing to be perfect! --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

There are many qualities that help keep a long-term relationship. When people typically think of things that matter in a relationship, they often list traits or things they like in an ideal partner: sexual chemistry, a sense of humor, intelligence, and kindness. But there are also essential qualities that pertain to how we actually relate to the person in front of us on a day-to-day level. In this clip, Matthew and Stephen explain one of the most underrated things you need that keeps a relationship working even when things get tough.  --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in Just 6 Days Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

When you get excited about someone, it's easy to get caught in the trap of obsessive thinking. You try to move too quickly. You check your phone constantly waiting for their texts. You worry they might lose their attention at any moment. When this happens, you can easily end up self-sabotaging, lowering your value, and pushing someone away. So if you want to keep your confidence and maintain attraction throughout the dating process, use these 3 keys to avoid moving too quickly in early dating. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in Just 6 Days Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

"I should be over them by now...but what if they were 'The One'?" "Will I ever love someone that way again?" It's normal to go through feelings of panic and regret when someone breaks up with us whom we love and admire. Or when we look back on the good qualities they have and worry if they were the ONLY person who can make us happy. But this kind of thinking can be a trap for many reasons. In this clip, Matt explains an unexpected way of looking at the situation after a breakup that can help to heal your heartbreak. --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days Find Out More At. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

Over the past 15 years, I've coached so many high-achieving individuals who seemingly have it all, but for whom finding love is a massive struggle. What's holding them back? FEAR. They fear that opening themselves up and facing rejection could shatter the identity they've built as a confident and accomplished person. To me, this is shame, as it is clear their ego is getting in the way of being happy.

In today’s new episode, I talk with author and radio host Tanya Rad, who shares what she did to get what she wanted in dating and how she found her current boyfriend in the process. Her honesty is refreshing, and whether you’re in a relationship or not, I think you’ll learn something new about setting standards (and going easy on yourself when things don’t go as planned!) Moreover, her insights will help you weed out the people who are just looking for something casual so you can find the right person faster. --- Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training at. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Do you find yourself always measuring your life against other people you know? Or are you worried about whether you have achieved enough, made enough money, or got the right partner by a certain age? If so, you know what it's like to be stuck in the "comparison trap". While it can be useful to have goals to keep us motivated, we have to remember we are often comparing ourselves to people with completely different lives and experiences than us. In this clip, Matt explains his own struggles with comparison and how to keep your happiness and get perspective so you're not always focusing on other people's journey.

When someone we hoped we would be with forever breaks up with us, the pain of heartbreak that follows can be akin to torture. Most of us have been there before, and we all know it can take all the strength we possess to adapt to this new reality . . . but what about when, in addition to this pain, we have to watch as our ex moves on with someone else? Today's new episode will give you a new approach that will show you how to rebuild step-by-step so you can feel confident in your ability to fall in love again. --- ►► Become The Most Powerful Version of Yourself in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

What are some of the ways to know if you're in the right relationship? Are there ways you can stress test to see if it has long-term potential? In this clip, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about 2 of the most important questions you can ask to better understand the health of your relationship and see if you and your partner have a positive dynamic. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days Find Out More At. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between dating anxiety and your needs not being met.   If you know your insecurity can lead your thoughts down irrational pathways, how can you figure out if something you’re stressing about is a real concern? For instance, if you had the most amazing date last weekend but they haven’t texted you for a few days, should you be worried? And most importantly of all, how do you get more investment from someone if you’re feeling this way? Instead of feeling insecure and waiting for someone to come to you and meet your unspoken needs, listen to this week’s episode and break free from the self-doubt and anxiety cycle. --- ►► Unlock the 67 Counterintuitive Text Messages That Create Real Momentum in Your Love Life. . . → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

Do you find yourself with enormous checklists for your romantic partner? Are you often paralysed by a list of standards that no-one can live up to? In this clip, Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson talk about what matters most when choosing a partner and the long-term qualities we often undervalue. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days Find Out More At. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

The question Audrey and I answer in this week’s new episode is an important one, because it happens to people All. The. Time! We’re all familiar with obvious red flags, but some red flags feel so good, they’re easy to miss . . . you know, like when someone is saying the most romantic things, wanting to spend all of their time with us, and making plans for the future . . . In that scenario, it can be a little trickier to discern someone who’s pretending to be interested from someone who’s truly invested (though perhaps a little over-excited). --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training at. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

When you have to find love after heartbreak, it can shatter your world. You are in a world you never thought you would be in, and life can feel very different than you planned for it to be. In this clip, Matt and the team look at an important reframe to change your mindset and get excitement for finding love back when you feel like you've faced a setback. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days Find Out More At. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Are you one of those people who “loves the chase” in dating? You meet someone, you find them attractive, maybe even go on a date, and you start to become MORE obsessed when they show you less attention, less affection, or when they play hot and cold. Or worse, when someone shows you kindness and loyalty, and treats you with the kind of affection you so crave deep down, it pushes you further away from them. What is going on here?! In this week’s new episode, I reveal the truth about why we fall so hard for people who give us crumbs of attention, and show you a simple mindset shift that will help you find a passionate and loving relationship. --- ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days Find Out More At. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Find yourself stuck with endless texting on dating apps? How much contact should you make before an in-person date? It's always tricky knowing when to upgrade your conversation in modern dating. In this clip, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey look at how to go from texting to phone call, and elegant ways you can do it. --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → SayThisToHim.com

How do you tell the difference between someone who is avoidant, and someone who just takes things slowly? Are you tired of someone who waste your time, only to say they don't want anything serious once you're already emotionally invested? In this brand new episode, you'll learn the 3 most important strategies to protect your heart and make sure you're investing in the right person. ►► Unlock the 67 Texts That Get You Off Your Phone & Into A Real Relationship Go to . . .  → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

What do you do if you fall for someone too fast? Or you find yourself waiting by the phone for their next text? If this happens to you frequently, it can be a sign of bigger issues to do with (a) your confidence, or (b) your perception of someone you're attracted to. In this clip, Matt and the team discuss how to avoid this trap and invest in a way that makes sure you protect yourself when you fall in love. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Become a Love Life Member for FREE! Claim Your 2 Week Free Trial at. . . . → http://www.JoinLoveLife.com

What's your most repeated dating mistake?  Sometimes it takes looking back in our past relationships to notice the patterns that have reoccurred several times, or choices we've made over and over again.   Following on from last week's episode, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey are BACK for part two, where we respond to YOUR dating struggles and look at ways you can break your negative patterns for good.   --- Come and join me on my LIVE Retreat for 6 magical days from October 9th-15th working on your deep inner confidence, life goals, relationships, and overcoming your biggest negative beliefs. Go to MHRetreat.com to claim your spot and join us in Florida!

Can you relate to this . . .  You’ve been dating someone for months and see them once or twice a week. You’ve gotten into a pretty good rhythm, but at the same time, things aren’t really moving forward either. You’re wondering: “Do they like me? I feel like they do, and yet, I don’t know whether this is going anywhere . . .”   In this week’s brand-new episode, I give you 3 specific things to look for when you want to know if someone’s serious (or headed in that direction). --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Ever dated someone who is afraid of commitment? There are many reasons a person can prefer to be unattached, or even fear getting into relationships. It can be a fear of changing who they are, or losing something they value, or feeling like they're compromising. In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew talk about what it means if a guy doesn't want to commit because he's scared of someone else changing him. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Come and join me on my LIVE Retreat for 6 magical days from October 9th-15th working on your deep inner confidence, life goals, relationships, and overcoming your biggest negative beliefs. Go to MHRetreat.com to claim your spot and join us in Florida!

Have you noticed a recurring pattern in your dating life? Or have you maybe repeated certain mistakes in relationships that you can't seem to stop doing? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey respond to YOUR replies on your repeated dating struggles and talk about how you can break these patterns and stop being caught in the same cycles. --- Come and join me on my LIVE Retreat for 6 magical days from October 9th-15th working on your deep inner confidence, life goals, relationships, and overcoming your biggest negative beliefs. Go to MHRetreat.com to claim your spot and join us in Florida!

Dating doesn’t feel magical and fun when nothing seems to be going our way.    Sometimes it feels as though love and attention come easy to everybody else, meanwhile, for us, dating feels like a string of painful rejections or endless cycles of feeling used and overlooked.    The reality is that some people simply have an easier time in dating than others. So if you are someone who doesn’t identify with getting a lot of attention or having much luck, how can you combat the insidious feeling of panic that it simply won’t happen for you?   If you relate to this, today’s new episode will provide a much-needed boost. It will help you overcome the pain of frequent rejection and reframe the situation you’re in so you can feel hopeful again. — Come and join me on my Live Retreat for 6 magical days from October 9th-15th working on your deep inner confidence, life goals, relationships, and overcoming negative beliefs. Go to MHRetreat.com to get your spot!   

We've all heard the cliche of why it's more intoxicating to date a "bad boy", but why do people so often pursue people who put them on an emotional rollercoaster? And why do we often assume people are more worth having when they make things more difficult? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about various aspects of the bad boy and look at some mindset shifts that can help us choose someone who is actually healthy for a long-term relationship. --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Today I'm joined by the fantastic and insightful Emily Morse. Emily is a sex therapist, author and media personality and host of the 'Sex With Emily' podcast. In this conversation we discuss: How to improve your sex life by understanding your own body Being confident enough to feel sexy in your own skin Talking about sex with your partners to have a fulfilling sex life Getting rid of shame around sex and exploring your sexuality  --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Sex can either be a massive turning point for a new relationship, or a gateway to more anxiety and pressure . . . This is because even though we may want to, it can feel hard to ask for more from the person we’re sleeping with when we’re afraid we’ll scare them away. But what if I told you there’s a high-value way to approach this situation—one that can pave the way for a more meaningful connection? Don’t miss this week’s brand-new episode to learn the three ways you can approach these conversations. --- ►► Tired of Casual Dating & Texting That Goes Nowhere? These Text Messages Create Actual Progress in Your Love Life. . . → http://www.MomentumTexts.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

 Does the pursuit of a “soulmate” hold you back from finding love? In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew look at what happens when we get caught in the obsession of trying to find “The One” and how best to decide what you’re looking for in the right relationship. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  ►► Become a Love Life Member for FREE! Claim Your 2 Week Free Trial at. . . . → http://www.JoinLoveLife.com

When is the appropriate time to ask where a relationship is going? If you’ve been seeing someone for a month and are sleeping together . . . can you ask then? Should you wait four months to make sure you don’t come on too strong? Or maybe you should wait for THEM to ask you? And if they don’t bring it up . . . is that a bad sign? The truth is, we often don’t feel like we can ask because we’re afraid of the answer. In today’s episode, I share three perspectives that can shift your mindset when it comes to discussing the future of your relationship, so you can finally break free from fear and build a relationship guided by open communication and shared values. --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

We often feel like attraction is not a choice in dating. But the decision of who we choose for a life partner is 100% a decision, and it requires us to deeply understand what we value and what qualities will make us happy long-term. In this episode, Matt and the JAMS team discuss how to think about your "type" in dating, the mistakes we make in choosing certain partners, and how to escape toxic cycles in our dating life. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Become a Love Life Member for FREE! Claim Your 2 Week Free Trial at. . . . → http://www.JoinLoveLife.com

"What if you're so afraid of rocking the boat with someone you REALLY like that you forget to uphold your biggest standards?" It's such a common story: we fall for someone, find ourselves thinking we can't live without them, and compromise on everything in the hopes of making them happy.  Today, Matthew explains how to deal with this scarcity mindset and keep your confidence and self-worth even when you're afraid your standards might cause you to lose someone... --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

How do you really know if you're dating "The One"? Do you just know when it's right, or are there signs this person is the perfect partner for you? In this episode, you'll learn 5 of the most important questions you must answer before you decide on long-term commitment. > Become a Love Life Member for FREE Claim Your 2 Week Free Trial at www.JoinLoveLife.com

When you fall for someone, it's all-too-easy to misinterpret signs of their affection or presence as signs of them wanting a future commitment. But unfortunately, there are all kinds of reasons someone might keep you close even if they don't want something serious. In this clip, Matt and the JAMS crew discuss how to protect yourself and be aware when your situation doesn't have a future. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . . But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected. Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our needs can be ignored with no repercussions . . .   In today’s new episode, you’ll learn the best way to increase attraction and investment in a way that doesn’t diminish your value or make you feel like a nuisance simply for stating your needs. --- ►► Finally Start Believing in Your Own Worth. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

It's hard enough dealing with a toxic relationship, but it's even worse if you don't have a strong sense of boundaries to put up when you see behaviour you shouldn't tolerate. In this clip, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson discuss how to implement self-care to protect yourself when you have the tendency to sacrifice your needs for others. Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

I'm super excited to share this excellent conversation I had with podcaster Candice Horbacz, host of "Chatting With Candice". In this episode, we talk about: - Finding the relationship that works for YOU - The journey of trust and opening up to your partner - Understand the truth about men and their feelings - Overcoming jealousy in a relationship There's tons of great takeaways and Candice has some really powerful insights from her own past and experience. I can't wait for you to check it out! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away? It feels awful. You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special. I’ve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in today’s new episode, I’ll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging the relationship (or help you move on to find the RIGHT person for you). ►► Get The Text Messages That Lead Your Love Life in a New Direction Learn More About The Momentum Texts at. . . → http://www.MomentumTexts.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Have you ever felt like the moment you show you really like someone, they start to lose interest? It can make you feel like you ALWAYS have to play games or be "hard-to-get" in order to keep their attention. But is this really true? In this episode, Matthew and Stephen explain the reasons this can happen and what it really means if someone backs off when you decide you like them. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

We've all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we'll lose all our "power," but if we show too little, they may not even realize we're interested. In today's brand-new episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person. • FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist" - http://www.9texts.com • FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You" -> http://www.SayThisToHim.com

We all know flirting is an essential part of attraction, but how do you actually do it? In this clip, Matthew and Stephen talk about some of the subtle, practical ways you can go from casual conversation to flirtation on a first date. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Have you found yourself checking up on an ex on social media after a break up? Maybe you even found yourself jealous upon finding out they were doing well, or found someone else, or had a success that you don't get to be a part of. In this solo episode, Matt discusses what it means when we overly focus on our ex's life after a break up and how we can get over comparing ourselves to our previous partners. If you want to value yourself and know what really gives you your worth, make sure you hear this message. Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Have you ever stayed with someone in spite of them saying they weren't interested in something serious? Perhaps you'd hoped that with enough time, they'd see your value, realize what you have together is special, and decide to get into a relationship in spite of their fears . . . We've all heard of situations where someone did just need a bit of time to change their mind about commitment, so how can we tell a dead-end situation from one that actually has potential? Don't miss this week's brand-new episode to find out!    >> Become a Love Life Club Member & Finally Master Your Love Life. Claim Your 2-Week Free Trial at http://www.JoinLoveLife.com

Sometimes you have to let someone go because of the pain they bring to your life. But what if they seem to improve their behaviour with their next partner?! It can be incredibly frustrating to see an ex who appears to be fixing their issues that previously drove you crazy now the relationship is over. You have an envy for their new partner who seems to be getting the best side of them. How do you get over your feeling of resentment? And how do you stop worrying that his bad behaviour was somehow YOUR fault? In this clip, Matt and Stephen discuss how to move on from the past and be free of resentment for your old relationship. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Ever struggled with a failure you weren’t sure how to recover from? Want to live an adventurous, inspired, and happier life?   In this episode, I’m joined for a hugely thought-provoking conversation with Christopher Robbins, founder of Soul Degree.   We talk about:  Getting over failure and how our identity can trap us How negative self-talk stops us being present The importance of connection + preventing male loneliness Overcoming fear of vulnerability  ---- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

When it comes to the traits we want in a partner, “emotionally unavailable” is never on the list. So why do so many of us end up dating not just one emotionally unavailable person, but a series of them? When someone feels slightly out of reach, our instinct is often to chase them down and make them ours . . . but this is often an unwinnable bet, where we risk losing not only our hearts, but also our time.   In today’s new episode, I get to the heart of what goes on when we keep finding ourselves getting stuck on emotionally unavailable people, and how we can break the pattern and find someone who’s ready for a relationship. --- ►► Get The Text Messages That Lead Your Love Life in a New Direction. Learn More About The Momentum Texts → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

You might see you're friends in relationships and wonder: "why haven't I found someone yet?". It's tempting in these moments to self-criticise or wonder if there's something wrong with us. But in this episode, Matt and Stephen explain why you shouldn't expect your path to love to be the same as everyone else around you... Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

In today's episode, I had the absolute pleasure of interviewing actress, entrepreneur, and screenwriter Martha Higareda. She is a beautiful soul and a wealth of knowledge of life and love. In this conversation we cover: - How To Recover From Heartbreak and Narcissistic Relationships - Spotting Toxic Behaviour In Dating - Healing your wounds and your inner child - How To Stop Idealizing In Relationships I'm so excited to share this conversation with you and know you'll get tons out of it! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Today’s interview with Matthew McConaughey is instantly one of my most popular interviews of the last 10 years.   Thank you so much if you listened, subscribed, and shared this episode with your friends and family . . . you’re the reason this is reaching so many people right now.   One thing that’s surprised people the most is how relatable this entire interview is, and just how vulnerable he gets about what made the difference when it came to overcoming his fears and finding love.   He says some seriously profound things. By sharing this episode with your friends and family, we can get them to more people who need them. Thanks again for being part of this really fun and amazing moment with me. P.S. Want To Join McConaughey, me, Tony Robbins, and more on April 24th? This live virtual event is FREE to join and coming up soon… it’s already become a global movement so if you don’t have a seat yet, click below to get yours now! To save your free seat before it's too late, head over to www.MHLivin.com

A recent dating study showed that many people have what is known as a "backburner relationship". And many people date today while also still being in touch with exes or former sexual partners. Is this trend dangerous for building a relationship? And what does it cost us in the long-run if we have a "backup person" who we keep contact with? --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out.   When you’re in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerless—holding on to someone who’s not giving you what you need. So how can you break this cycle once and for all? Don’t miss today’s brand-new episode! --- ►► Join the Challenge & Improve Your Confidence with Me. Reserve Your Spot for FREE by Signing Up at. . . → http://www.MHChallenge.com

Have you ever had an insecurity, a jealousy, or something that hurt you or made you feel threatened, but you didn’t know the right way to bring it up?   Of course you have. We all have. Maybe you’re feeling that right now. It can be terrifying, can’t it? We are told vulnerability is good, but we know it can hurt the relationship if we repeatedly express our fears and insecurities.  But being vulnerable can actually create a deeper bond with someone, as well as reveal if they’re the right person for you in the first place.   The important thing is that we talk about it in the right way, as Matt and Stephen explain in this episode... --- Join the 30-Day Confidence Challenge! Go to MHChallenge.com and sign up now! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

We asked YOU this week how not having confidence affects your love life, and you answered! It's only when we really ask ourselves this question that we can see all the small ways that lack of self-esteem or negative self-talk can be causing us play it safe, self-sabotage, or just live with unnecessary anxiety. In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson dive into the roots of confidence and what we can do to rewire ourselves for a more positive self-image in approaching our relationships. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Have you fallen for a guy who says he’s “confused”? He really likes you and spends time with you, but isn’t sure if he’s ready for a real commitment yet? If you’ve experienced this, you will know that this type of hedging can leave you INCREDIBLY confused. You feel you have something special with him, yet he’s still holding back. You know you can’t live in limbo forever, but you also can’t let go. When you’re in this situation and you really like someone, their excuse can almost become a romantic challenge as you try to figure out how you can still be together in spite of any obstacles. In today’s video, I show you how to navigate this confusing situation and take back control of the situation. ►► Join the Challenge & Improve Your Confidence with Me. Reserve Your Spot for FREE by Signing Up at. . . → http://www.MHChallenge.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

It's easy to find yourself comparing your attractiveness to others in dating. We compare our looks, our job, our body, our wealth...and we can easily feel like we don't match up. But people don't fall in love with characteristics. And comparison will always leave us with more anxiety and self-sabotage than learning to love what we have. In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the problem of comparison and what really makes someone fall for you. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

When you’re looking for a partner to have a family with, the pressure of the timeline imposed on you by your biological clock can make the whole process overwhelming. (Not to mention, when you’re fearful that time is running out, you can end up making bad dating choices.) In this episode, Matthew talks to two experts on fertility: Dr. Serena H. Chen, a fertility doctor, and Dr. Ioana Baiu, a surgeon who’s gone through the egg-freezing process, as we dive deep into the benefits and challenges of family planning, to find out ways you can get your power back when it comes to deciding on when to have children, how to consciously date when you know you want a family, and how to maximize your reproductive options. --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to rewire our brains and resume normal life once we’re free.   At this point, it can be unbelievably hard to trust other people again. Logically, we may understand that not everyone’s like our ex . . . but emotionally, we see danger at every turn.   But there is a way we can heal—so we can move on and learn to trust ourselves again. And in today’s episode, I share 3 mindsets that can help you do just that. -- ►► Begin to Truly Trust Yourself & Believe in Your Own Worth. Learn more About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat. . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

In today's clip, my brother Stephen and I talk about one of the biggest ingredients that keeps attraction going in the early dating stage (can you guess what it is?) Check it out! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Today I wanted to share a great conversation with special guest Justin Baldoni. He is an actor, a filmmaker, a writer, a speaker, and someone who caught my attention for the work that he was doing to help men, in becoming more vulnerable, in relating differently to their masculinity.  In this episode, we discuss:  Why men are more sensitive than you think  Getting over our trauma  Dealing with conflict  Understanding masculine vs. feminine energy  Getting closure after a relationship  --- Follow Justin on Instagram @JustinBaldoni You can also grab Justin's book "Boys Will Be Human" - buy your copy here

We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just don’t seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum. Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, there’s a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And it’s the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long after the date has ended . . . If you’d like to learn what this ingredient is and how you can add it to your next date, don’t miss today's brand-new episode. --- ►► Become a Love Life Member & Finally Master Your Love Life. Claim Your 2 Week Free Trial at . . . → http://www.JoinLoveLife.com

Back in ye olden times, the fear that a partner might be cheating was enough to keep someone up at night. But in recent years, we’ve added a new layer of anxiety to the mix: “micro-cheating,” a.k.a. “back burner relationships.”   In fact, when Psychology Today recently polled people who are in a relationship, 56% revealed they had a back burner person: someone they’re in contact with who could be an option if their current relationship doesn’t go the distance.   That’s not to say that everyone realizes what they’re doing. Many feel it’s harmless—that they’re just being friendly and keeping in touch with a friend. Today’s episode will give you a simple test to figure out if you’re in a back burner relationship, and provide you with the mindset you need to give your current one its best shot. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over, and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement, we can inadvertently end up on a path we don’t want to be on… In this new episode, I answer a question from someone who didn’t want to repeat the last 2 years of her life, which she spent in a ‘friends with benefits’ situation.  --- ►► Unlock My Best Solution For Your Current Dating Situation → http://www.YourDatingSolution.com

Did you know that men and women respond differently to breakups? My brother Stephen and I talked about recent research that showed differences in how men and women process emotional pain, how long they take to recover from heartbreak, and how likely they are to want to get back together. Of course, we are all individuals, and our response will also be determined by our own personality and experiences, but it's always interesting to see these general patterns of male and female behaviour and whether they conform with our stereotypes. What do you think? Have you noticed any of these differences in your own relationships? --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Heal Your Heart & Move on Strong From Your Breakup. Get Your FREE Training → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com

This week, our special guest is New York Times Bestseller, entrepreneur, and host of the "School of Greatness" podcast, Lewis Howes! Lewis joins Matt for an in-depth discussion about all things love and relationships. In this episode we cover: - What makes men decide to commit long-term and stop chasing - Why just finding the right person "on paper" isn't enough - How to find your mission (and why it matters) - How to turn fears and insecurity into confidence - Questions to ask early on in dating - The importance of FREEDOM, PEACE, and CLARITY in your relationships and healing your pain - ... And MUCH more! --- You can order Lewis's new book "The Greatness Mindset" here. Get your copy today!

Does your dating life feel like you’re living in the extremes . . . where you’re either super-attracted to someone who treats you poorly, or you feel safe and loved in a situation where the chemistry’s lacking?   In this week’s new episode, I share 5 ways you can expand your dating pool without sacrificing what’s most important to you. -- ►► Get the Exact Text Messages That Lead Somewhere Real. Learn More About The Momentum Texts → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

We’ve all experienced this relentless form of self-torture . . .   Whether your breakup was two days or two decades ago, you find yourself looking back and wondering how things could’ve turned out had you acted differently. Had you known then what you know today.   Pretty soon, you’re living in the timeline where you didn’t “ruin everything” with that person . . . ultimately punishing yourself over a parallel universe you’ve created in your mind. In this clip, my brother Stephen and I answer the question, “Is it possible to ‘blow it’ with the right person?” and share how you can turn self-loathing into a better relationship with yourself (and your future partner). --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey   --- If you want to spend 3 days with me creating the conditions for your own happiness, then my next Virtual Retreat of 2023 is coming up fast! Head to MHVirtualRetreat.com to book your complimentary call with my Retreat Specialists who are on hand to hear your story (Special offer! $100 off the price if you get your spot booked before March 12th)

We asked you what your biggest fears for the future were, and you answered! No matter how confident we feel, we all have worries about what lies ahead. The future is unknown. And many of us can’t help but occasionally let our biggest anxieties and worries about where our life is going get the better of us. It could be about your career, your relationships, or anything that keeps you up at night. In this new episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about what it takes to either overcome these fears, or at least how to not let them paralyze or overwhelm you. --- If you want to spend 3 days with me creating the conditions for your own happiness, then my next Virtual Retreat of 2023 is coming up fast! Head to MHVirtualRetreat.com to book your complimentary call with my Retreat Specialists who are on hand to hear your story (Special offer! $100 off the price if you get your spot booked before March 12th!)

Listening to our gut when something’s off can save us a lot of time and stress when we’re dating . . . but what if we can’t tell the difference between when our gut is warning us and when our anxiety is trying to sabotage us? What if the red flags we think we’re seeing are actually our fears in disguise?   If you have a tendency toward anxiety, this second-guessing can make the early days of dating extra stressful, because you may have a hard time separating an important concern from your ever-vigilant anxiety.   If you’ve ever wondered, “Is it me or is it them?” you can’t miss today’s episode, in which I share five ways to tell if it’s a major concern or your anxiety talking. --- ►► Stop Doubting Yourself & Start Believing In Your Own Worth Learn More About The Virtual Retreat → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

I don’t like it when I hear people say, “You need to be happy first before you find a relationship.” It’s not that the sentiment is a bad one, but saying to someone who is facing challenges in life that they need to be happy before they can be with someone seems highly unproductive to me. As if it’s not hard enough being alone when we want to find a partner . . . we now also have to achieve this elusive feeling of happiness before we do?! I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to be happy before you find a relationship . . . You just need to be “happy enough.” --- If you want to spend 3 days with me creating the conditions for your own happiness, then my next Virtual Retreat of 2023 is coming up fast! Head to MHVirtualRetreat.com to book your complimentary call with my Retreat Specialists who are on hand to hear your story (Special offer! $100 off the price if you get your spot booked before March 12th!)

Today we have a special guest: “accidental” entrepreneur and online marketing expert Amy Porterfield!    Matt and Amy discuss: How to lead yourself (and think like an owner) Steps to build self-trust Choosing a career that fits your desired lifestyle Learning to find your 10% edge Finding the business you can start NOW Making time for building your dreams (and the power of "slow success") And MUCH more!   

In today’s new episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal. ►► Invest in Yourself & Finally Believe in Your Own Worth. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from them ;) You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message they send is like sweet honey for your brain. “Damn”, you think, “I’m an addict.” And then you fire a cute message back. And you wait...and wait… “Why aren't they replying?” you want to scream to your friend on the couch next to you. But she’s too busy with her phone to notice. You try to shift focus, but you obsessively check for a text every 30 seconds. Sound familiar? We’ve all had this agony of “anxious waiting” with someone we like. It’s distracting, it’s unattractive, and it drains you of your peace of mind every minute you sit in limbo. If you’re sick of waiting for his text and want to finally take back your power, listen to this... --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Today, Matt answers a question from a listener who feels she is independent, successful, and ambitious, but is only meeting guys who fit a more "beta" male stereotype (who take the backseat in a relationship), rather than the driven "alpha" guys she would like to meet.  Matt talks about some practical strategies to meet the right kind of person for you, and how to think about the qualities that you value and seek out in a relationship.   ---  Do You Have a Question About Your Love Life? Join Love.Life and send it to me at. . . AskMH.com

When everybody seems to have found “their person,” it can make us feel so behind and deeply afraid. This is the very moment we fall prey to saying “yes” to the wrong person, just to put an end to the feeling that we won’t find anyone and will miss our chance at having an amazing relationship.   But choosing temporary comfort is a short game, and as we shrink our view of the world, we lose sight of just how much abundance is waiting for us. In reality, those who are successful in love play the long game—one where they trust they deserve more than a relationship that is inherently not meeting their needs, or simply not right for them.   In today’s new episode, I not only show you how to identify someone who’s wrong for you, but I also share how to take that leap to start fresh and set your love life on the right path. (And make sure you stay until the end to hear my special announcement so you can take action in your love life this week!)   --- Get Real Results in your Love Life This Year... Reserve Your FREE Spot on My Live Virtual Event → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships. But as it happens, life doesn’t care about the straight-line trajectory we've planned for ourselves. It will capriciously take a person from us at a time we weren’t prepared for. It will injure us when we need to be active. It will rob us of our finances in a bad business deal we thought was a sure thing. It will take away a relationship we thought would last forever. And when these things inevitably happen, it can feel like we’re grieving the loss of some future that’s now no longer available to us . . . But life is cyclical and doesn’t trend in just one direction. This is why it is imperative for us to take our focus off of where we feel we “ought to be” and make peace with life as it is today. Because the truth is, there’s always time to reinvent ourselves, meet somebody new, or fix something broken in our lives. And it is our job to cherish and learn from the wisdom gained from our past experiences instead of wishing things had gone a different way. --- Get Real Results in your Love Life This Year... Reserve Your FREE Spot on My Live Virtual Event → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Today I’m thrilled to share this conversation with the excellent Jay Shetty. We talk about everything from learning to love your own company, living without comparison, dealing with insecurities, how to find the right relationship, doing the deep work on self-understanding, and much much more! Jay is a New York Times Bestselling Author, host of the “On Purpose” podcast, a storyteller and a former monk. Check out Jay’s new book: 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go  --- Get Real Results in your Love Life This Year... Reserve Your FREE Spot on My Live Virtual Event → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Whether you’re getting over a fresh breakup or are still having a hard time moving on from a past one, I hope today’s episode will give you what you need to finally feel like yourself again. --- Get Real Results in your Love Life This Year... Reserve Your FREE Spot on My Live Virtual Event → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Find it annoying when your partner doesn't open up and share with you? Then check out this short clip where I show you the simple but amazing power of "pre-framing" to get more of the behavior you want them (or anyone!) to show.  --- >> ​Learn The 5 Heartfelt Techniques That Help Men Open Up To You. Go to MatthewHussey.co/GetHimToTalk

We asked YOU for your biggest fears in dating and you gave us answers! In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about the common fears in early dating that hold us back, make us insecure, and cause us to self-sabotage. We give some practical tips on how to break through these limiting beliefs and feel your best when dating and meeting new people. --- Download our free guide on how to get out of a dating rut. Go to 3SecretsToLove.com! --- Register for my FREE live training "Dating with Results". Go to DatingWithResults.com

Have you ever felt like a magnet for avoidants or wondered if commitment-phobic people are all that’s left in the dating pool?   It’s as if you can’t even get anything off the ground, because consistent communication is never in the cards with the people you’re dating. And when you’re dating someone where everything’s falling into place EXCEPT for the fact that they’re avoidant, it can be tempting to rationalize any reason to stay.   But why do we do this, and why does this situation make us want to hold on so tightly to a person who’s not giving us what we need? Today’s new episode will help you reconnect with your value so you can approach these kinds of situations with a clear head and a sense of worthiness. After all, the faster you say “no” to the wrong person, the sooner you can say “yes” to the right one. --- ►► Get The Exact Text Messages That Lead Somewhere Real. Learn More About The Momentum Tests . . . → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

A huge number of relationships that end, should end. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But how do we know if ‘ours’ should have ended. We leave with a giant question mark: “Did I just lose the person I was supposed to be with?” ⠀ That lack of closure is a horrible feeling that eats away at us. We don’t always get perfect closure. But there is a way of being proactive about getting peace of mind if you feel like you have someone who is worth fighting for. ⠀ It’s through a simple conversation, and I tell you how to have it in this video. ⠀ And here’s the good news - whatever happens, you and I are going to move into this next chapter of our lives stronger. (Massive thanks to @rayna.greenberg, @ashhess and the @girlsgottaeatpodcast for making this conversation possible!)

We all like to think that love transcends all other issues, especially that of money.    But our BELIEFS about money say a lot about what we value, our fears, and dictate the way we choose to live every day.   Do you believe in saving every penny? Would you stay in a fancy hotel on a vacation? How would you feel if your partner bought themselves an expensive car without talking to you first?   In this episode, Matt is joined by money expert Ramit Sethi (host of the hit podcast “I Will Teach You To Be Rich”) to discuss how money affects our relationships and how we can have a healthier partnership when we have better communication and control around the topic of our finances. --- Join my Virtual Retreat before January 31st and get $200 off your ticket + some amazing limited time bonuses! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and book your spot today!

Have you experienced a situation where in spite of having dated someone for a short time, it took you weeks (sometimes even months) to start to feel like you’re over them? And have you found it’s EXACTLY at that moment—the moment you decide to move on with your life—that they suddenly pop back up like clockwork? Even though you know better, they somehow draw you back in with the hope that this time, things will be different. This week’s new video will allow you to finally rid yourself of the hold this person has over you, so you can begin to sculpt your life the way you want it. And don’t miss the “value exercise” I share at the end. I know you’ll get a lot out of it! --- ►► Start Truly Believing in Your Own Worth. Learn More About the Virtual Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Shoutout to one of my favorite human beings @edmylett for giving me the honor of being a guest on his show. Love you brother. I urge all of you to listen to the end of this, because I believe in my soul that the punchline is one of the most important lessons I’ve ever stumbled upon for my love life, my family life, my business, my friendships...MY LIFE. And if you want to make the trash cans of every part of your life shine, then apply for my retreat now while you have that feeling. Don’t wait. My retreat is where we do the real work of transforming EVERYTHING in your life from the ground up. I literally believe this program is one of the greatest gifts you could ever give yourself in your life. It’s that important. --- The Virtual Retreat is officially back this June 2-4! And there's a special "Early Bird" offer available until the end of January. This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action. To learn more, simply head to MHVirtualRetreat.com , where you can choose a time to speak with one of my trusted Retreat Specialists who are on hand to answer any questions you may have.

This is something a little different for you today. I wanted to share a beautiful conversation I had with my good friend Humble the Poet, where we talk about how to love yourself, set boundaries, and build healthier habits around love and attraction.   In this new episode, we go deep. It touches upon some incredibly important truths relating to how to get back in touch with ourselves (and what makes us happy), so we can make better choices in a partner.   I found his words incredibly heartwarming and uplifting, and I hope you’ll feel the same way. Matt x --- ►► Unlock My Secrets for Captivating Anyone in the First 5 Minutes. For FREE Access, Go to. . . → http://www.First5Guide.com

Do you find yourself watching from the sidelines as other people you know go after and get the very things you most desire? Whether it’s love, an amazing job, or a high-value social circle of genuine, supportive friends . . . perhaps you feel envy watching other people work a room better than you—feeling like you can’t tell interesting stories, you’re not charismatic, or you aren’t someone strangers feel drawn to. Most people don’t realize that this phenomenon is not down to personality—it’s impact, which is a skill that can be learned. Whether it’s knowing how to tell a good story at a work event or standing out on a date, learning how to make an impact is one of the most important investments you can make in your life . . . because it can change nearly every aspect of it. If this speaks to you, then don’t miss today’s new episode, a mini masterclass on how to have true impact in every area of your life! ---   ►► Unlock My Secrets for Captivating Anyone in the First 5 Minutes. For FREE Access, Go to. . . → http://www.First5Guide.com

One of the most special moments in life is when we feel seen and in turn see somebody else for who they genuinely are. But this level of DEEP connection requires vulnerability. Truly opening up, being vulnerable and allowing someone to see us at our very core can be terrifying. It’s especially terrifying if we’ve opened ourselves up and been hurt in the process. We all have those negative reference points from our past. Maybe it was the way we were brought up, something that happened at school or the way we were treated in a past relationship. We experience pain and as a result our guard goes up. And although we may think that we’re avoiding pain, refusing to get vulnerable comes with its own pain. The pain of stagnation. The pain of avoidance. The pain of knowing that on some level we’re not opening ourselves up to the possibility of a deep connection, an amazing relationship or simply the opportunities that would allow us to create our best lives. So, I challenge you to make today the day you change that. --- The Virtual Retreat is officially back this June 2-4! And there's a special "Early Bird" offer available until the end of January. This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action. To learn more, simply head to MHVirtualRetreat.com , where you can choose a time to speak with one of my trusted Retreat Specialists who are on hand to answer any questions you may have.

We asked YOU what is the #1 piece of love advice you'd give yourself in your 20s, and boy did we get some good answers :) Join Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson as they discuss their biggest lessons from their 20's and look at how much they are following through on today. --- The Virtual Retreat is officially back this June 2-4! And there's a special "Early Bird" offer available until the end of January. This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action. To learn more, simply head to MHVirtualRetreat.com , where you can choose a time to speak with one of my trusted Retreat Specialists who are on hand to answer any questions you may have. --- Stuck in a "situationship" with someone who won't commit? Go to LeaveLimbo.com and download our free guide to finally Define The Relationship and get the commitment you deserve.

Have you ever been a victim of the most painful kind of ghosting . . . where you’re haunted by the fact that you never got closure with someone? It’s the sort of thing that can consume your thoughts as you obsessively look over the final exchange you had with the person and enlist your friends to help you dissect it, hoping they can spot a clue you might have missed. The reality is that this need for clarity and closure is a bid for control in a situation where you have none. Not only that, but every time you allow your thoughts to head in that direction, it’s another scratch at a wound that wants so badly to heal. In today’s brand-new episode, I give you the tools you need to move on for good from this kind of ghosting, including a text message you can send . . . not to get closure from them but to give yourself the closure you need. ►► Unlock My Best Dating Solution for Your Current Dating Situation Take the Quiz for Free at. . . . → http://www.YourDatingSolution.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

I truly loved this conversation my friend @lindseystirling . So often in life we’re told how important it is to love ourselves without any explanation of what that actually means or how to practically apply that advice. If you’ve ever found yourself struggling with this concept, one practical tool is to recognize how we love other really important people in our lives. Our parents, children, siblings, nieces, nephews, old friends . . . our love for them doesn't have anything to do with whether they have a good day or a bad day today. We love them because they’re ours, even though they can sometimes be difficult or don't always realize their potential. And that’s how we have to start viewing ourselves. We don’t need to find all of these amazing things about ourselves to start valuing ourselves more. We love ourselves because we’re ours. WE are the ones responsible for looking after us. Love yourself like it's your job; because it IS. --- Download your free guide on how to get back into dating after heartbreak. Go to 3SecretsToLove.com and get your copy.

Why is it we become “too nice” with someone we like? It can feel like there is a before/after switch, where we decide we’re attracted to someone, feel the butterflies in our stomach, and can’t help but tighten up and struggle to express our real selves. And often, this can result in us being too accommodating, or giving polite-yet-boring responses, or in trying too hard to be liked instead of allowing natural chemistry and flirtation to happen. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we become “too nice", what we can do to be more of who we really are, and how to show our most attractive self in dating. --- Download our free guide on simple texts you can send to spark attraction. Go to 9Texts.com to get your copy. --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

Happy New Year, Friend! Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the New Year's resolutions people make, and I'm curious how you're feeling about yours today. After indulging during the holidays, we often place our hopes in the hands of our future selves, determined that this will be the year everything changes. Of course, having goals is a good thing, but the biggest challenge with New Year's resolutions is how quickly they can buckle under the weight of our expectations. But it doesn't need to be that complicated. Whether you're stressed about the fact that the "you" who woke up today feels just like the "you" who woke up yesterday ... or you just want to ensure your love life goals actually happen this year, this brand-new episode is going to help you get into the right mindset for 2023. You've got this! --- * Take Action & Create a New Trajectory Toward Your Dream Life. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat at: http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak?   In this clip, I share an important message about how you choose to set healthy boundaries in a relationship when you've been burnt in the past. Check it out and make sure you don't let your demons define your relationship dynamics going forward.   Here for you,   Matthew x   --- Download my free guide and give your love life a kickstart today.  ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Can you have a relationship that starts great - but becomes sexually boring? Can it happen with someone you're truly meant to be with? It's always a hard moment if you're with someone who ticks many of your boxes, but one crucial aspect of the relationship isn't working. So how much should you work to get the spark back? Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss why the spark fades, how to get more honest with your partner about your intimate needs, and strategies to inject sexual excitement into your relationship again. --- Download our free guide on simple texts you can send to spark attraction. Go to 9Texts.com to get your copy. --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

As we roll into the New Year, it seems like as good a time as any to talk about our standards. We think of a new year as being a time where we reset our standards, don’t we? And yet, have you ever worried that you’re being too picky? And have you ever wondered if this “pickiness” is the thing that’s stopping you from finding a relationship? I was on stage when a woman stood up and asked: “Matthew, should I listen to my mum and lower my standards?” It’s a hard thing trying to figure out if the reasons you are rejecting people are valid, or if they represent an “unreasonable” standard that you need to let go of. I hope this provides a little clarity... Happy Holidays again, friend. I’m thinking of you more than ever right now. --- ►► Discover the Text Messages That Get You Off Your Phone and Into a REAL Relationship… → http://MomentumTexts.com

In this week's rewind episode, I take a question from Khalani on why, in modern day dating, many people are hesitant to jump into a relationship. We also discuss how she can be more trusting when meeting men who are looking for more than a casual fling. Enjoy! ►► FREE download: “9 Texts You Can Send To Get More Attraction” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “Why Men Disappear” → http://www.WhyHesGone.com

Casual relationships and hook-ups are more common than ever. Some even talk about a "hook-up culture".  But even though we have more choice than ever, there are sometimes consequences we never anticipate. Society says we shouldn’t have stigma around hooking up and casually dating - and that's a good thing - but it can also be painful if we aren't honest about what we really want. We always have to ask the question: is this serving us? Am I feeling respected or am I doing something because it's simply easy right now? Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss the good and bad of casual fun, what you need to think about beforehand, and how to we make sure we don't hurt other people (or ourselves) in the process. --- Download our free guide on "How To Move On After Heartbreak" at MoveOnStrong.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me. She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me. In this episode, I tell the full story . . . You’re going to want to listen to the full story, because it highlights how so many people get hurt because they follow 95% of my advice, but ignore one of the most crucial things I say. Think of it this way: you can have all the right ingredients to bake a cake, but if you forget to add baking powder, the cake isn’t going to rise. In this video, you’re going to learn what the baking powder of dating is. Without it, your relationship will not rise, which explains what happened to this woman I met in the coffee shop. Check it out, and don’t forget to leave me a comment when you get there. Matt x --- ►►Join me for LIVE coaching on your biggest dating questions! Go to ASKMH.com and sign up for your free 14-day trial of my exclusive VIP Love Life Club!  --- ►► Learn How to Break Out of the Casual Phase. Get Access to Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.GetTheFreeTraining.com    

Do you know what really makes relationships fall apart? I do.  Having now coached for over 10 years on the topic of dating, I’ve seen the worst behaviors over and over again.  And if we don’t work on eliminating these toxic relationship habits, it doesn’t matter how attractive we are: we’ll always find a way to self-sabotage and drive our partner away. I don’t know about you, but a lifetime of painful arguments and emotional mind games isn’t something I ever want to settle for in love. So here are 6 relationship-killing behaviors to avoid at all costs if you want to keep an amazing guy... --- Download my free guide and give your love life a kickstart today.  ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

 Ever been betrayed by someone you love? How about having an ex start dating your best friend after putting you through a toxic relationship? It can be especially painful when you feel like someone has changed for the better...but only for their new partner AFTER you've already experienced the worst of them! In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew discuss how to let go of your resentment, make peace with and forgive the past, and how to stop worrying about what a toxic ex does after you've cut them out of your life. --- Download our free guide on "How To Move On After Heartbreak" at MoveOnStrong.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

“Why am I still single?!?” If you’ve asked yourself this question long enough, you might be starting to feel like finding love is simply a matter of luck. And sometimes that’s true. But most of the time, we may not realize that the way we’ve set up our everyday life and habits can inadvertently make it harder to find “the one.” If you’re struggling to figure out why you’re still single, in this week’s video, I give you 5 honest reasons why, plus some quick changes you can make to attract the right relationship faster. Leave me a comment and let me know which reason resonated the most with you. --- ►► Tired of Texting Going Nowhere? Unlock Your FREE Training At. . . . → http://www.WhatToTextNext.com

For a long time I thought it was crazy how many women asked me to talk about this topic. But now, I realize the reason is obvious: In 2022, more of us are doing long-distance relationships than ever. You meet a great guy on Instagram who doesn’t live in the same country... You start dating the perfect man in your city, only to find out he’s been offered a new job 1000 miles away… And suddenly, you find yourself having “Skype dates”, and you now spend half your work day sending silly photos to each other on Whatsapp. You feel like you’re falling in love with this guy – but can it actually work long term?? Should you follow your heart and go for it, or should you listen to your head and call it quits? What’s the answer? These are big questions, so I decided this it was time to be super honest about long-distance and my thoughts on it. --- Here’s what you really need to know... ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

You might feel like you’re seeing all your friends in couples, and you wonder why it hasn’t happened to you yet.   Although we can’t control the exact moment we’ll meet “the one”, there are things we can do that make it MUCH more likely we’ll find a great relationship by having the right habits and mindset.   So in this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss 5 reasons you’re still single and what you can do TODAY to maximize your chances of getting the partner you desire. --- Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today!  ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com   --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]   --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

I’m curious if you can relate to this . . .   You know you have a lot to offer someone, but you can’t seem to get out of the cycle of dating the wrong people—bouncing from one emotionally unavailable guy to the next.   What you may not notice is that—without even realizing it—you’ve likely conditioned yourself to attract those types of guys. While a casual fling with someone like that may feel harmless, you may be surprised to learn just how much it can shift the way you approach dating.   In today’s brand-new episode, I unpack the dangers of settling for casual relationships and how they can rewire your mindset in a way that has a lasting effect on your love life. Then, most importantly, I share how you can get out of that crazy loop and actually see the potential that’s waiting for you.   --- >> FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist" → http://www.9texts.com >> FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You" → http://www.SayThisToHim.com >> Unlock 67 Text Messages That Put You in Control & Move Your Life Forward + 4 Special Bonuses → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

Breakups are hard. Really hard. Especially if you didn’t do the breaking up. You’re left with questions about your own self-worth. You punish yourself for your deficiencies. You retrace the steps of the relationship like a detective on a mission to find out where you screwed up. And so we meet Roy, the subject of our clip today. Now you know Roy’s story. What can he do to wake from this fever dream? Let’s find out. Please share this episode someone who needs to hear this message. P.S. And if you want a free guide to accompany this episode—one that can help you finally move on from someone and recover—head to MoveOnStrong.com

Do you have a relationship that you are unwilling to lose, but that causes you daily resentment and frustration? Where you feel like you are giving, but not getting much in return? In this solo episode, Matt explains how to take a step back and reassess a toxic or difficult relationship we want to keep in our lives, whether it’s reasonable to expect someone to change, and what we can do to protect ourselves if we are going to endure relationships that drain our energy. --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]    --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey ---   FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist" >> http://www.9texts.com FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You" >> http://www.SayThisToHim.com

“Let’s just take it day by day.”  “We may not be ‘official,’ but I basically act like your boyfriend. Aren’t actions enough for you?”  “I like you too much to be with you . . .” Any of these sound familiar? Trying to decode the excuses guys give for the reason why they don’t want an exclusive relationship can get incredibly confusing. How is it that you can have great communication with a guy in nearly every area . . . yet when it comes to talking about the relationship, you feel like you’re speaking different languages? For today’s brand-new episode, I asked you to send me the “most confusing thing a guy’s ever said to you,” and you didn’t disappoint.  From classic excuses to creative new ones, you’ll learn how to figure out whether what he’s saying is actually a red flag indicating that he’s just looking for something casual with you, or whether it’s safe to proceed. Together we’ll walk through 9 of the top excuses so you know how to spot them in the future and avoid unnecessary pain. ---   >> HOLIDAY SPECIAL! Unlock 67 Text Messages That Put You in Control & Move Your Life Forward + 4 Special Bonuses → http://www.MomentumTexts.com >> FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist" → http://www.9texts.com >> FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You" → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

You're on a date with someone. You're both sharing stories.  He tells you that he plays the guitar. You notice that he seems really proud when he tells you about playing his first gig. Then without missing a moment, you start enthusiastically telling him about your friend who's also in a band, is the best guitarist you've ever seen, and has just released and album. Suddenly, his eyes narrow and he seems emotionally checked out, maybe even less interested. Why? What happened? In this episode with my brother Stephen, I'm going to reveal a simple flirting mistake that is all too easily made, and why it's can be such a turnoff to guys in dating. --- >>> Want to learn more about the psychology of attraction in dating? Download a free chapter of our bestselling program at GetTheFreeChapter.com

There may be few more controversial and divisive topics than that of watching porn in relationships.  For some, it’s cheating. For others, it’s a useful way to balance out differences in sexual appetites. For others still, it can be a fun thing for couples to share and explore sexually together. So in this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson get together to discuss healthy vs unhealthy attitudes to porn, how to communicate your boundaries around porn in a relationship, and what to do when it becomes something that drives you apart.   ---   Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey ---   FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist" >> http://www.9texts.com FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You" >> http://www.SayThisToHim.com

In the early days of dating, figuring out if someone is actually open to a relationship is key. But what does it mean when you ask them whether they're interested in a committed relationship and they respond, "I could be open to that. . . with the right person"? This sentence can make us feel safe to dive in, but do we really know whether they're truly looking for a relationship. . . or just telling us what we want to hear? In today's episode, I give you three things to look for in those early days to limit the guesswork and know if things are actually progressing toward real commitment. --- FREE download: "9 Texts No Man Can Resist" >> http://www.9texts.com FREE download: "5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You" >> http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Compliments are like gifts. In fact, they’re even better, because the right compliment can be something the receiver never forgets. When in a relationship, most people don’t give enough compliments, despite them being so powerful in creating connection and making people feel loved. So here are 3 compliments men love to hear that can get you started! --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com  

Have you ever had a guy say things that give you completely mixed messages? Or you've heard a phrase several times and are left scratching your head wondering what it actually means?   You're not alone.   In this episode we asked YOU for your best examples of confusing phrases you've heard from guys and got together to crack the code once and for all!   --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

You felt like the date couldn’t have gone better. They told you they had the best time, and as soon as you got home, you started counting down the minutes until you could see them again . . .  Except you never got that second date. Why would someone disappear after saying they had a really great time? Today’s episode reveals the #1 reason why this happens, and what you can do about it. I’ll give you a hint: chemistry is the key factor that turns a first date into a second one—and in this new video, I show you 7 simple ways to create incredible chemistry on a date. These tips are the difference between someone thinking, “Well, that was nice,” and someone telling themselves, “I must see this person again!” Whether you’re headed out on a first date tonight or just want reignite attraction with someone you’ve already been out with, this video is for you. (And if you’ve ever wondered what to text someone after a date to leave them wanting more, don’t miss tip #7.) --- Download "The Momentum Texts" >> MomentumTexts.com 

Back in ye olden times, the fear that a partner might be cheating was enough to keep someone up at night. But in recent years, we’ve added a new layer of anxiety to the mix: “micro-cheating,” a.k.a. “back burner relationships.”   In fact, when Psychology Today recently polled people who are in a relationship, 56% revealed they had a back burner person: someone they’re in contact with who could be an option if their current relationship doesn’t go the distance.   That’s not to say that everyone realizes what they’re doing. Many feel it’s harmless—that they’re just being friendly and keeping in touch with a friend. Today’s clip will give you a simple test to figure out if you’re in a back burner relationship, and provide you with the mindset you need to give your current one its best shot. --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Why are toxic relationships so hard to leave? One reason is because you hold onto the small good moments and fail to acknowledge the extent of the bad.  And when we feel sympathy for someone, this also makes us doubt ourselves. We think "Maybe I'm wrong?", "Maybe I'm being too harsh on this person?", "Maybe it's actually ok?"  In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about how to get the courage to let go of a narcissistic or toxic relationship and feel certain in your decision when you keep doubting yourself. --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

Have you ever created an entire relationship in your head before going on a date with someone? Perhaps you’ve been texting with them for weeks and have already deduced they could be “The One,” or maybe you live for the two minutes of conversation you have with them before spin class. And in order to fan the flames of your excitement, you turn into a social media detective, where their posts and information become “compatibility clues” that either build up or tear down the relationship you’ve created in your mind . . .   Unfortunately, living in our heads in this way can turn into obsessing, and render us incapable of feeling excited about anything other than seeing or hearing from that person. In other words, they occupy a space in our minds they’ve not yet earned! In this week’s new video, I share with you the mindsets that can both help and hurt you in dating, as well as the best way to determine if you and this person could really work out. --- LAST CHANCE to join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com

People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them.  In this clip, Matt and Stephen explain why this happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warning signs appear. . . --- ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] ---  Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

In a previous episode, we talked about the struggles dating can pose when women are thinking about their desire for children and their biological clock, and all the associated anxieties that can come with it.  And we had some incredible and thoughtful responses to what is rightfully a very difficult and emotional topic to discuss (but also an essential one). In this episode, we take the conversation further and look at the disparity between men and women in future planning, why freezing your eggs and planning fertility can be its own enormous challenge, and how to think about making decisions about the future you want when you haven't met the right person yet. --- Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today!  ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] ---  Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

It’s Halloween time, and for the occasion, in today’s video I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting.  If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (which doesn’t feel good, don’t get me wrong) you can usually assume they just weren’t feeling the chemistry . . .   But what does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time?  In this brand-new episode, I give you three reasons why someone might do this, what you should do when it happens, and the strange reason why they may choose to ghost but leave the door open. You can’t miss this topic! ►► Protect Your Time & Energy. Move On Strong in Your Love Life. Unlock Your FREE Video Training at . . . → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com

Ever notice how you completely fall apart when you try to speak to that guy you’re really attracted to? It’s like with your best friends you can be effortlessly funny, talkative, and smart, then suddenly you’re talking to this guy and your brain turns to mush. Then begins the negative self-talk: “I’m not pretty enough,” “I have nothing interesting to say,” “He’s not going to like me.” It’s like you instantly lose all of your game. You go into “impress” mode. You over-analyze everything you say. You get in your head. Instead of just having fun in the moment, you start playing it cautious, like you’re in a game of chess and the stakes are life and death. If you want to finally stop putting guys on a pedestal and instill new empowering beliefs that will make you bring your best to the table (no matter who you’re talking to) listen to this clip before you do anything else... --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

What do you do when you're not attracted to men who want you, and the men you ARE attracted to are unwilling to commit? In life, as we get older, we can find the dating world changing around us. We want different things, we're not as young and carefree as we were in our twenties, and we feel like we want something serious in this phase of our life. In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson go deep on the dilemma of attracting the wrong people when you want to get serious, how to get excited to date again after facing painful life events, and what to do if you're facing the possibility of never finding the love you're looking for. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

Do you feel like your brain is wired wrong because despite your better judgment, you’re only attracted to the bad boys or the players? You know . . . you love the idea of a great, stable guy who treats you right, but somehow you’ve become so accustomed to the highs and lows of roller-coaster relationships that you can’t imagine feeling chemistry with such a man. At this point, you may be asking yourself if it’s possible to feel a spark with someone who isn’t always playing games with you . . . In this episode, I’ll give you 3 ways to create real attraction with the right kind of guy . . . because glorifying unavailable people is a recipe for heartbreak, so instead, we can start learning to enjoy healthy attention and find a loving partner. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com

The technique I give in this clip shows us how to feel connected to the things we have to do in our day so that we don’t become list-checking zombies with no real joy in our lives. You can use it to be ultra-productive AND happy at the same time.  This technique has become an indispensable part of my daily practice. Perhaps it will for you too. --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com

There are certain types of romantic partners who present themselves as having amazing qualities: deep, thoughtful, self-aware, spiritually evolved…   But, can these qualities be just another form of seduction that hides ego and selfishness? What if someone is good at appearing have all the right character traits, but then you find out yourself feeling neglected or hurt when you’re in a relationship with them?   Matt, Steve, Audrey and Jameson talk about how you can get fooled by first impressions, and what to look for to know if someone is actually going to have the traits of a great partner.   ---   Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

What can you do when you’re sick of the excuses and deep down want to see them more? Well, you can listen to this brand new Matt Monday, in which I’ll share with you how to avoid the most common mistake in this scenario and finally see some progress. --- Get the Exact Scripts to Communicate Confidently in Dating. Unlock a Chapter from How to Talk to Men for FREE → http://www.GetTheFreeChapter.com  

I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-watch for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this clip, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away. I’m here for you. P.S. This video may be the greatest gift you can give a friend or family member who is experiencing this kind of pain right now. Who could you send this to to help them get through the day? --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com

Do you want marriage and kids? Feel like you have a sense of urgency because of your biological clock? It’s common for our desires for the future to bring up all kinds of anxieties in dating. Especially when we are torn between “playing it cool”, or being honest and up front about what we want (which could scare someone away!) In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson dive into the thorny topic of how to handle dating and honest communication when you feel hyper aware of your biological clock and want to make plans for the future. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

Wondering why the guy you’re seeing doesn’t seem to respect you? You might be surprised by the reason . . . If your tendency is toward anxiety, you’ll go to great lengths just to restore the peace and get things “back to normal” as quickly as possible. This often includes the compulsion to say “sorry” even when something’s not your fault. The danger with this is that when we make it clear to someone that we’ll do anything to avoid difficult conversations, it becomes easy for them to take us for granted . . . If any of this sounds familiar, you will not want to miss the 3 tips I share in today’s episode. Not only will you learn how to honor your own needs and boundaries, but you’ll also raise your value in the process. What’s more, you’ll do so by actually living your life rather than simply existing in a state of perpetual people pleasing and anxiety. --- Break Your Negative Patterns & Build Unstoppable Confidence. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

If you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn't feel like it's quite going your way, this clip is going to help make sense of things. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com

There are 2 kinds of men that can be dangerous to fall for: (1) the guy who is a “project”, (2) the bad boy. It’s common that we date similar types throughout our romantic life. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we look for these characters over and over again and how we can break free from chasing people who are wrong for us. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same room? When you’re together, life couldn’t be better. You have off-the-charts chemistry, they’re totally focused on you, and your connection feels genuine. The catch? When you’re apart, you feel invisible as communication slows to a crawl and often drops off completely. As a result of these mixed signals, you’re essentially living in two completely different realities, and you’d do anything to get some clarity. You might even ask yourself: “Should I try to invest in this relationship even more to show how serious I am? Or would it be better to mirror their behavior and go cold?” In today’s episode, I walk you through what you must absolutely NOT DO in this hot and cold scenario . . . plus I give you two very specific text messages that can (finally!) get you out of this frustrating situation. --- Unlock 67 Text Messages That Put You in Control & Move Your Life Forward. . . → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

Yeah, I said it. Have you ever been in love with someone who doesn't share your feelings You live in hope that one day they'll light up your phone with a text that says how much they can't live without you. Or, you fantasize that  they'll leave their partner and run back into your arms. They'll say what a fool they've been and how much they need you by their side. It's romantic, right? Nope. And this kind of "perpetual hope" can be so dangerous for your relationships that I feel I have to say something to anyone out there still waiting for a crush to change their mind. Before you give your heart to someone who doesn't deserve it today, listen to this episode. It could save years of your life. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. Download my FREE guide >> Go to MoveOnStrong.com

“Would you call yourself a people pleaser? Tell us how it shows up in your life…” And you answered! Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to look at your top responses to how you fall into the trap of people pleasing and the problems this causes in our lives. Do you say “yes” to things you don’t really want to do? Feel like you’re always giving emotional energy with nothing in return? Do you feel you have to avoid being your honest self in order to keep the peace and make everyone around you happy? If you’ve been here, you’re not alone. Listen to how you can find a balance between showing up for people you love without giving up your own happiness and sense of self. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them? Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s video) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you. Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs. We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?” Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode. --- To Unlock Your FREE Video Training, Go to . . . → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com

Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship? Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more? It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling. I know because I’ve felt it. It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia. We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently. And this feeling isn’t limited to situations that have ended. Sometimes we are still seeing someone but we have this crippling anxiety over having irreversibly damaged the relationship. We feel we’ve created a perception of ourselves in that person’s eyes that we can’t now undo. If for any of these reasons you are currently torturing yourself, this video will be life-saving for you today. Trust me when I say it is essential watching. In this classic clip, I break down for you why you don’t need to be wallowing in pain, and why, despite everything that destructive voice inside is saying, you actually have reason to feel good today. Please also share this with someone you know who may be beating herself up right now. Life’s too short for any of us to suffer needlessly. I’m with you, friend. You’re loved. --- My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

How do you know if a guy has stopped trying, or if your anxious attachment-type fears are making you panic for no reason? In today's episode, Matt, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey talk about what to do when someone you're dating changes their level of affection and gives mixed signals, but says they want to be with you. If you tend to overthink and find yourself worrying your partner might have changed their view on the relationship, make sure to listen to this one! --- My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

If you struggle to feel confident because you don’t like the way you look, make listening to this episode the top priority of your day today (and be sure to stay until the end for a special bonus!) I promise you won’t regret it. Your coach, Matthew x --- My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

You decided it’s time to break up. And now you’re single again. But for some reason you don’t feel at peace. You’re still haunted by that eternal question: Did I make a HUGE mistake? Even if it was YOU who decided to call off a relationship, at some point you’re always going to get that horrible feeling inside of you that questions your decision to dump someone. Your friends and family say it’s for the best. But maybe they don’t really know. Plus, there was that one friend who advised you to give things another try with this guy and now you’re even more lost and confused! In this clip, I’m going to show you an easy way to tell whether you made the right choice, and personally guide you out of this anxiety and indecision with simple but powerful change in mindset, so that you feel confident in your feelings and can let a relationship go in peace. Believe me, I know myself how easy it is to get stuck in this place for months only to come out of it and wonder why you wasted so much of your precious time worrying. --- My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

What do you do if you’re dating a Narcissist? It’s one thing to recognise the signs: questioning your sanity, feeling devalued, never having your needs account for. But what about when you FINALLY decide you have to leave? That can be the hardest part. A narcissist can make you feel guilty. They can make you feel like you’re being impulsive, unfair, or even outright cruel for abandoning them. Taking the decision to get your life back can mean unwinding years of entanglement, but it’s the first step to real freedom, a clear mind, and a better life. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson explain how you can overcome your doubts and get out of a toxic relationship once and for all. --- My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

I’ve carefully designed these 7 steps to address the stages you’ll go through—in the exact order they’re likely to arrive. And while we all know this process can take an enormous amount of time to put into action, I hope these steps will serve as a compass that will keep you pointed toward your strength (in spite of any distractions the narcissist may try to throw your way). I also hope this video provides you with strength, acceptance, peace, and progress as you finally move on with your life and remember what it feels like to be free from the coercive control of the narcissist in your life. P.S. Even if you’re not in this situation, learning these principles in advance may save you a lot of time and grief down the road. And if you are going through this right now? Please know you’re not alone. I’m right here with you. --- Create Your Next Chapter with Unstoppable Confidence. Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and join our transformational Virtual Retreat program in November! Get your spot TODAY!

There's a huge difference between settling FOR something in life and settling ON something. When we "settle for" something, it's often the result of us lowering our standards. We accommodate bad behavior and accept less than what we truly desire because we don't think we're worthy of it. We think "this might be as good as it's going to get" whether in our love life, family, or career. But when we "settle on" something, we take control of it.  At this point, we're deciding that at the very least, this relationship or situation has the potential to meet enough of our criteria for true happiness.  We choose it and actively commit to making it great. What happens next is that we feel connected to it, and as a result, we enjoy the process of sculpting it (even if it's not perfect at first). In this clip taken from my latest Virtual Retreat, I explain why I'm a big believer in this concept and how it can change your relationship with life. And if you want to spend 3 days of immersive coaching with me, then I'd love for you to join me for the final Virtual Retreat of the year happening November 11-13. Here we'll get to work together to help you decide where in life you're "settling for" less than you truly want and where you want to "settle on" sculpting the best version of yourself, your relationships, your career, and your confidence. Just head over to MHVirtualRetreat.com to learn more. #DontSettleForLess

When a relationship ends, or someone stops calling after several dates, do you need to know why? What does it mean to get “closure” in dating? As humans we put a lot of emphasis on how things end. We want answers: “Was it the way I dressed? Is it something about my body? Or something I did that turned you off? Was it too desperate?!” But what answers are we looking for? And how much brutally honest truth do we really want to hear? Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson try to figure out whether closure is overrated, what explanation we’re owed when someone leaves, and how we can move on from rejection when it happens. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- Download our free guide at MoveOnStrong.com

Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition? The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there. I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of. But in today’s video, I cover the “what to say” part—specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you. --- Get my best solution to your current love life issue. To get started, go to: http://www.YourDatingSolution.com

We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships. But as it happens, life doesn’t care about the straight-line trajectory we've planned for ourselves. But life is cyclical and doesn’t trend in just one direction. This is why it is imperative for us to take our focus off of where we feel we “ought to be” and make peace with life as it is today. It is our job to cherish and learn from the wisdom gained from our past experiences instead of wishing things had gone a different way. None of this is easy, but it is possible. In this video I explain how. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Spot at MHVirtualRetreat.com and join us in November to start your personal transformation and get the confidence and life you deserve. --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

It's easy when we like someone to feel like we have to make excuses for their avoidant behaviour. Sometimes they may have genuine psychological issues that need to be resolved. But how much should you wait in limbo if the person you're dating still hasn't figured themselves out? Should their issues with their previous ex be an excuse to not move forward? And what can you do about it? Matt, Jameson, Stephen and Audrey sit down to talk about dating a celebrity, being a "challenge", valuing yourself, and much more! --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- >> Download our free guide at MoveOnStrong.com

Who pays on a first date? Six years ago, I made a controversial video tackling this very subject, and it went viral. Millions of people watched and reposted it (wikiHow even used it as the definitive video answer to the question) . . . It was so popular that it went viral AGAIN earlier this year when someone posted it under the title “Man Humbles a Room Full of Women.” So this week, I decided to make a reaction video to my own video. --- Get My Best Solution to Your Current Love Life Issue. To Get Started, Go to → http://www.YourDatingSolution.com

In the early stages of dating someone we like and feel excited about, everyone is worried about coming across too keen and blowing it. This is a very human experience felt by men and women alike. And it is that very emotion that will have us mute our needs and desires as we go into overdrive to impress the other person. But as we know, people like what they value, and communicating our standards early on is a key part of attraction we often overlook. Expressing your needs in early dating can seem daunting, and in this conversation with my friend Lisa Bilyeu on her channel Women of Impact, we talk about how we can get brave and do exactly that. If you want to know how to have the conversation about getting exclusive with the person you're seeing, I've created a brand-new free guide centered around how to define the relationship. It includes a script you can make your own and a comprehensive step-by-step guide that breaks down exactly how to ask for the things you want in a high-value way. You can get it at LeaveLimbo.com . . . it's totally free and I can't wait to hear what you think. 

We asked men "what is the brutally honest truth about why you get scared of committing to someone?", and boy do we have some answers for you! Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about whether they agree with the reasons men give for avoiding commitment, what makes some men want to stay single, and what we can do to influence it. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- >> Download our free guide at MoveOnStrong.com

Does it sometimes feel like men are afraid of commitment? You could be dating someone for a few months—and have a ton of chemistry and a great emotional connection—and yet, like clockwork, you hit a wall the moment the relationship gets to a stage where it feels like it should be progressing to the next level. Just when you start to feel that this could be something real, he puts his guard up and isn’t ready to commit. Situations like these can be unbelievably painful, and they can leave you feeling crazy as you analyze the situation to death, wondering if you’re somehow not good enough. Well, in this brand-new episode, I’ll share with you 3 of the main reasons why a lot of men are afraid of commitment and what you can do to turn things around by circumventing those fears. --- ►► Get the Script to Go from Casual to Committed. Unlock Your FREE Video Training → http://www.GetTheFreeTraining.com

Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they're showing you? One minute they want to see you, and the next, you feel them pulling away... What's up with that? When someone you like disappears and then reappears, it's easy to drive yourself crazy trying to work out the BEST way to get their attention again. You think, "Do I ignore them to teach them a lesson? Do I play it cool and pretend it was no big deal? Or do I show them I'm hurt that they disappeared?" In this clip, I share with you an exact text message you can send them that will demonstrate your standards in a really attractive way. If you want more of these texts, head over to WhatToTextNext.com, where you can download my FREE guide that gives you my 'Relationship Reframe Text' and helps you move from casual text exchanges to real emotional connection.

One of the unchanging truths about love is that even though it's beautiful when we find it, there's always a chance we can lose it. But how do we move on from an old chapter when it's over? How do you develop the right mindset to get back in the game when you've faced a major setback? Matt and the team sit down to discuss starting over and why it can be both a painful and beautiful experience. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- ►► Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship" - Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now. ►► Dowload our guide to get back in the dating game at 3SecretsToLove.com

I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . . A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, they’re seeing each other all the time. He’s texting her daily, making plans with her for the future, and every time his name pops up on her phone, she feels a surge of happiness and excitement. That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, she feels a shift. He grows more and more distant, and at first she’s not sure whether she’s imagining it or whether he really is pulling away. She doubles down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive him further away until eventually he calls it a day and stops messaging altogether. If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you. But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes. In today’s episode, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it. --- Discover How to Heal Your Heart & Regain Your Confidence. Access Your FREE Training ... → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

It's easy to feel like our struggles, or past, our pain, is holding us back in life. And I'm not here to pretend it's easy to deal with those burdens we carry with us. But they don't have to define you. In fact, if you choose, you can make them the start of a completely different story that gives you more power than you could possibly imagine. So today, here is a personal message on what it takes to create light even in the darkest moments... --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. --- Follow us on Insta @thematthewhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Do you have a dating type? Have your previous relationships always been with a similar person, in terms of looks, personality or behavioural dynamics? It's easy for us to look at the past and tell ourselves, "This is who I am. This is who I like." And it can affect how we date now simply because of what we're used to. But is it helpful to lock ourselves in on a single kind of person? Or should our tastes be more flexible when finding love? Matt and the team talk about the topic of dating types and how to choose your compass when looking for the right person so that you focus on what really matters in love. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]   ---   Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey   ---   Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship" - Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now.

On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?! You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think: Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination? I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . . Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by. So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are? In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app. --- Join our VIP club! Come and start your membership and get access to weekly webinars with me and my team and amazing guest speakers (+ masterclasses and MUCH more) - Go to ASKMH.com to join now! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today! ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

You wouldn’t believe how many people read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say: “Yeah, Matt… I get it. But there’s this one guy that I really like…” And because they’re so head-over-heels for this man, all of the advice goes out of the window. In this episode, I’m about to reveal 2 simple words that will tell you everything you need to know about men and how to get the love you really deserve… --- Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship" - Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Today Matt and the team answer a listener who asks what she can do about fear of abandonment. When you're scared of someone else leaving, it can make you bail at the first sign of an argument or problem. You make assumptions and think the worst any time you have a negative moment. If you've struggled with the insecurity of worrying someone else will leave, this episode will give you some tools and mindsets to help feel more secure and clear about your worth and be comfortable in your relationship again. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “Top 5 Reasons Why Men Disappear” → WhyHesGone.com ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward. I really wanted to make this because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together. And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today! ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

You may have at some point said to yourself: “I know a guy who acts really charming and friendly, but I have no idea if he actually LIKES me!” It’s annoying, right? Especially if the guy is a naturally charismatic guy anyway. How do you know if he has eyes for you, or if he’s just like that with every woman he meets? Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line for someone could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on. You want to know when you have the green light. You want to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters. So in this clip, I’m going to show you the 7 obvious signs a guy REALLY likes you. It’s easy to miss these classic behaviors that show his interest, but trust me: men are much more predictable than you may think... --- Download our brand new guide on "How To Define The Relationship": Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th!

If you truly feel like you had a once-in-a-lifetime connection, it can feel like you'll never get over a past relationship. Sometimes we can still idealize a relationship from years ago because we feel like we'll never replace that person. And then we get locked in a story: "I can never move on from this because that's the strongest chemistry I'll ever have". In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about how to change the story you tell yourself, what it takes to finally move on (and the importance of being sober about the person's flaws), and how to rethink the past so you don't get trapped in it. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “Top 5 Reasons Why Men Disappear” → WhyHesGone.com

Over the years, have you found yourself repeatedly attracting: . . . people who appear to be emotionally unavailable? . . . selfish people who don’t respect you in both friendships and romantic relationships? . . . maybe even narcissists? Have you ever wondered why you seem to be a magnet for these kinds of toxic people? If any of this rings true, and you want to break this cycle, then this episode is for you. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Download my free guides and give your love life a kickstart today! ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

When it comes to attraction, it's not enough to just have visual chemistry. Deep attraction - that keeps someone interested well beyond a few weeks - requires 4 different stages you need to progress through. In this video I explain the 4 stages in a live coaching call and show how you should decide when to invest more or less in a budding relationship. --- Download our BRAND NEW guide on "How To Define The Relationship". Go to LeaveLimbo.com and get your FREE copy now. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey

Commitment in 2022 can mean many different things. Typically it means a decision to either be exclusive, or commit to a future together, and a decision to take yourself off the dating market entirely. But many of us can get into situations where WE DON’T EVEN KNOW if we’re in a committed partnership or not. We never know where we stand because we make assumptions and forget to define the relationship. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about some of the most common mistakes people make when it comes to going from dating to relationship and then discuss the conversation you SHOULD be having if you want real commitment. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- ►► NEW FREE guide: "How To Define The Relationship" → LeaveLimbo.com ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Have you ever been with a guy you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all his friends that he just “wasn’t made” for a relationship . . . only to one day announce he’s in a serious relationship or even getting married? When this happens, we think, “What did the woman he committed to do that I didn’t?!” What makes a man suddenly decide to commit? In this week’s video, I not only dive into the answer to this question, but I also give you 4 practical pieces of psychology you can use to influence someone’s desire to commit to you. P.S. I can’t overstate how excited I am about the new gift at the end of this episode. I’ve been working on it for a while now and it will show you how you can define the relationship when you don’t know where you stand. I’m asked about this situation all the time, and this is the best practical tool I could come up with to help anyone in that situation. --- Learn the 3 Practical Steps to Get Someone to Commit. Download My BRAND NEW Guide, for FREE. . . → www.LeaveLimbo.com

Just because we've accepted it's over, it doesn't mean we've truly moved on. We can still obssess, think about past times, and romanticize someone in a way that stops us ever moving forward. If you're stuck right now, don't miss this message and take your power back! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

We all like to think a great relationship is just about finding the right person. But it's not. It's also about how you communicate with that person. It's about the inner thoughts you share. The way you divide tasks. How you both share your worries. The time you schedule you together. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to talk through a recent New York Times article by Catherine Pearson that made the case for 7 essential check-in questions to ask your partner. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate: “I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. I can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with me that I haven’t found something lasting yet . . .” This mindset is dangerous. Why? Because our anxiety about being single can lead us to make some really poor and damaging choices. It can turn our dating life into a game of musical chairs, where we scramble to find ANY “chair” for fear of being the only one left standing when the music stops. And as if the uncertainty wasn’t bad enough, it’s usually joined by its friends: shame and comparison. We often spend so much time dealing with these feelings that we forget to even make space for the behaviors that would actually move us closer to what we want. That’s why we need a shortcut, and today’s episode is just that. I share with you 7 mindsets that will take the anxiety out of being single. If applied, each of them has the potential to make a dramatic difference in your love life. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel like a rare antidote we’ve stumbled across that will take us out of being single and into the relationship we so badly want. The issue is, in the process of doing this, we rob ourselves of the ability to enjoy the experience—too stuck in our heads to be in the moment. We also run the risk of self-sabotaging as we try to see danger where there isn’t any. In this clip, I share an easy and grounding phrase you can use RIGHT NOW to calm yourself down if you find yourself in this situation. P.S. What’s been your experience when you’ve found yourself in this situation? I’d love to hear your story - email at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

It's normal for us to date someone with a different attachment style from our own. But how do we know if someone is compatible with us longterm? And are there certain behaviours that tell us the relationship is ultimately doomed? In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, how we can communicate with someone who shows a behaviour that makes us unsure about them, and if your partner can ever change. --- Join Matt's FREE 2-hour "Dating With Results" live training at DatingWithResults.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself? Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment. Of course, in a world where people are constantly trying to curate and filter their lives, it’s no wonder most of us find it scary to try something where validation isn’t guaranteed. And while it might not be possible to feel completely immune to the fear of rejection, there are things you can do to move beyond that paralyzing anxiety. In today’s episode, I’m going to give you three secrets to changing your relationship with rejection . . . --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th. --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

If you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, check this episode out because I’ll tell you what to do. May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams. I don’t want to spend more time giving energy to these terms and phenomena that aren’t what you want in the first place, I’d rather give time to finding people who are serious in your life. If you want to stop over analysing things that don’t matter, and start actually pursuing things that could matter, I have 3 habits for you that you can take on in your love life to start creating real results. Go to 3LoveHabits.com to get your free guide. Let’s start making progress and stop wasting time. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Sometimes you're dating someone who gives you mixed signals. You feel you have amazing chemistry and he pays you lots of attention in person, but in between your dates it's like he's disappeared. Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk about what this could mean and how you can respond when there's a mismatch so you don't get stuck in limbo. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress. I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you. I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to the point that leaving the relationship is the only option. Understanding this model may just save your self-respect, sanity, and happiness. And once you know how it works, red flags will be much easier to spot. This is an episode you’ll also want to return to anytime you’re stuck in that fog of fear and confusion and want to feel a sense of clarity . . . so you can stop second-guessing your choices and move on with confidence. P.S. I’d love to hear your comments on this. What’s a “dark pairing” you’ve experienced that made life really difficult? Email us at [email protected] --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th. --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the comfort of keeping you around. If you're stuck in this trap, listen to this NOW . . . --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

You may have been dating a guy that seemed promising, until he said that ONE thing, or you saw ONE behaviour, and it totally turned you off.  Or you've been together for 6 months, and your attraction has now turned to repulsion. This is "the ick", and in this episode, Matt, Stephen, and Audrey sit down to look at how this strange phenomenon occurs and what it says about attraction. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together —the ones that cause people to reach out to me in SOS mode—including: • When to have sex with someone you’re dating. • How to have the conversation about sex before you sleep together (and as a bonus, I even provide a sample script you can adapt). • How to handle rejection and ghosting. I promise you won’t have to worry about “losing your power” ever again, because you’ll be OK no matter the outcome. Your coach, Matthew x --- Confused About Why Men Disappear? Download my FREE guide to find the top 5 answers→ http://www.WhyHesGone.com --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th.

If you've ever expressed your needs to someone, or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you, and you were made to feel crazy, this video is for you. It's a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don't even know if what we are saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting . . .  That's why I'm so excited for you to see this - it's going to show you how to get your personal power back and make sense of the situation. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

“Where can I meet quality men?” I’ve probably been asked this question every day for the last 15 years. Between endless swiping on apps and being in the same friendship circles, many people struggle to even meet people they feel attracted to. But is there actually an untapped magical place teeming with single guys? Should you go to a Tough Mudder to find your (slightly-dirt-stained) person? In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of these questions and reveal how you can dramatically increase your chances of meeting someone amazing without having to venture too far out of your comfort zone. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th. --- ►► Take my FREE Love Life Quiz → http://www.HowToGetTheGuy.com

What’s the #1 sexiest thing a woman can do on a first date? Play footsie under the table? Wear a low-cut V-neck sweater? Whisper, “Hey handsome” in his ear when he gives you a hug? Nope. While those things won’t by any means hurt your chances, what really makes a guy want you depends on how you make him feel in your company. He needs to feel intrigued. He needs to feel attractive. He needs to feel a sense of fun . . .  This week, I’m going to teach you 5 killer lines you can say to any guy to fill him with great emotions and get him dying to see you again . . .  --- Confused About Why Men Disappear? Download my FREE guide to find the top 5 answers→ WhyHesGone.com --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Early Bird Discount ($200 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com - Offer ends July 6th.

Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you predicted? In this episode, Matt talks about how you can overcome your fear of choosing the wrong person and build self-trust. --- Design Your North Star With Men & Be Confident in Every Decision. Claim Your Early Bird Discount for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in hindsight. But there are ways to appropriately respond to red flags in early dating (if you can spot them), and in this episode, I show you one way to “crack the code” . . . That is, of course, to always have a North Star. This week, I walk through what, exactly, a North Star is, why it’s so important to have in order to be successful in dating, and how to choose one . . . --- Design Your North Star With Men & Be Confident in Every Decision. Claim Your Early Bird Discount for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Follow Matt on Insta: @thematthewhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you... --- Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities and the answers were pretty amazing. If you want a real eye-opening window into male fears and his psychology in dating, you're going to love this.  ---  Join our Love Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today.  ---  Follow Matt @thematthewhussey  Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey  ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]  ---  ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com 

So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn't wait to talk about it. I asked men about their specific insecurities when it comes to early dating. And what we got back was more vulnerable and real than anyone expected. Not only that, but the women's responses to the men's candid comments were beautiful. The incredible responses also brought up some themes, which I decided to take closer look at in this episode. These include: - Men's top insecurities, including how they feel insecure about being insecure - Helpful ways to validate our partner if they feel insecure - How to manage our feelings when the insecurity we see in someone else reminds us of our own insecurities. This episode is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better. Your coach, Matt --- Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. --- Follow us on Insta @thematthewhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence back today. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our Love.Life Club and become a VIP member where you'll get access to live coaching sessions and our community of thousands of amazing women. Go to ASKMH.com and sign up today. --- Follow Matt on Instagram @thematthewhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with? Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, standards, and mindsets that can make finding love harder. --- Download your FREE guide at 9Texts.com  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as you so desperately want to stand out from the crowd. The truth is, we all want so badly to be unforgettable on a date . . . but actually making that happen can feel tricky. In the pursuit of “making someone like us,” we may give in to the knee-jerk reaction of trying to impress them, or worse . . . people please. Even though we told ourselves we’d be chill and genuine, we suddenly find ourselves working our most spectacular moments into conversation, hoping they’ll see us for the treasure we are. Or we get so nervous that our walls go up and we lose all warmth and become sarcastic and cutting instead. These performances will often have us showcasing the more insecure sides of ourselves, taking the focus away from the purpose of being on that date in the first place: connection. But luckily, truly connecting—and making yourself memorable—is much simpler than that. --- Get My Secrets to Mastering the First 5 Minutes of Any Situation. Download Your FREE Guide Now. . . → http://www.First5Guide.com

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this video, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this... Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person... --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!” But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively get turned off by a woman’s success, income, or assertiveness? In this episode, Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about how this happens, what it means for our dating lives, and the dating dynamics between men and women. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out? This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live with SO much unnecessary anxiety and it holds us back from opportunities. In this clip, Matt explains how to defeat imposter syndrome with a simple mindset reframe. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship. There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry. Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences. In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the difference between these mindsets and what they mean for a potential relationship. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions. Whether we were with them for a short period of time or in a long, committed relationship, these feelings are universal. They can come in the form of raw heartbreak, the feeling that we’ve lost control over our happiness, a paralyzing fear that they might move on, an overwhelming desperation to get them back, or simply the pain of missing someone who used to be a constant in our life. The trouble is, when heartbreak, control, fear, desperation, or pain are at the wheel, the desire to make ourselves feel better becomes insatiable and this will in turn start to dictate how we conduct ourselves. The solution? Setting yourself a goal. Perhaps you’ve heard of the “No Contact Rule” but don’t know exactly what it entails, or maybe it sounds a little too counterintuitive for how you feel right now, especially if you’re holding out hope that you could still get back together . . . Well, I’m here to tell you that’s not the case, and in this episode, I distill the best I’ve learned about breakups and the "No Contact Rule" into everything you need to know on the topic, including what you can say at different stages. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Has this ever happened to you? You’re on a first date... and... He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry… But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth). If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say: “I’d really like to see you again.” In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again)... (You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating...) It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this video is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them… and yet, they still aren’t doing it. I’m excited to read your thoughts in the comments. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment? In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was struggling with this exact dilemma. If you’re sick of sitting in the “waiting room” and hoping for something to change, make sure you listen to this message. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness. But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person? Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their life or reserved just for you. At some point, they might’ve even shared a generic line with you like, “I’m so rubbish with my phone,” or “I’m really bad at replying to people!” But is this really true? In this week’s video, I not only answer these questions, but I dig into a really common mistake people make in this area. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible? Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing. Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bond. In this episode, Matt explains what it takes to avoid codependency and have the kind of healthy partnership that means you both flourish, instead of creating a scenario where you are excusing toxic behaviour. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again. In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media. Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere. Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media. Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your night out with your friends. In this week’s brand-new episode, Matt dives into the psychology behind his actions to reveal exactly what it means when someone likes your social posts (but doesn’t reach out in any other way) . . . . . . and most importantly, what you should do about it. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person.   And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem…   Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life. ---  Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com ---  Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out. Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.) --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com

If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship. Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!) --- Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live "Dating With Results" virtual event on April 19th here → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

"How do I let go of someone I absolutely adore?" What if you met the "right person at the wrong time?" Many people have been through the feeling of someone breaking up with them because of a specific obstacle. It makes us think, if only that wasn't an issue, we would be perfect. If you've struggled to move on from someone who seemed perfect for you, join Matt for this solo episode to learn how to finally let go and get over the one who got away. --- Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live Training Here → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live Training Here → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair. When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?” You feel amazing. Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind. He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you. He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family. . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . . It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet. Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks. And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely. You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real. If this sounds familiar, then this episode is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]      

Sick of being asked "why are you still single?" Tired of society deciding people are more successful just because they are in a relationship? Me too.  Here's why you should never judge anyone or yourself by their relationship status, and what really matters when thinking about your current stage of life. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you? Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't? This is called microdosing.  And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term. In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest questions about microdosing and give practical ways to prevent getting fixated on the wrong person. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently? Whether it’s due to: • A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier • A family member you could’ve created more distance with • A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted. But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today. And if you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this message. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start... ---  Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join me in-person for the return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new love life advice for you every weekend. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier. We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this. We tell ourselves that once we finally find a partner, secure a better job, or lose weight, life will be good and we will finally be happy. But even when we achieve some of those goals, the “happiness goalposts” appear to move a little further down the field. We can even forget that we have certain things in our lives now that 10 years ago we would’ve said were THE things that needed to happen in order for us to be happy. In this brand-new episode taken from last week’s Virtual Retreat, I share two words that changed my outlook on this completely. They become my compass whenever life throws something difficult my way. With this simple shift, you can give yourself permission to start your life from where you are right now . . . --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com

In this killer clip with Matt and Ed Mylett, you'll learn: • The #1 question you should ask yourself before you sleep together • Why you should never decide to sleep with someone just because you’re afraid someone else will beat you to it • What a GOOD reason to jump into bed with someone looks like • How to gauge someone’s intentions • Why owning your actions is sexy --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com  

Matt gives some psychological and practical tips on irresistible traits that boost your attraction both in the long-term and courtship stages of dating. --- Download our free "5 Compliments" guide at SayThisToHim.com  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our own thoughts about what keeps desire early on in a relationship.  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com

In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation. The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relationship? But is this the right way to think about looking for a romantic partner? We want high standards, but what things (if any) should we settle on in a relationship?  In this episode, Matthew talks about how to practically look for love in the modern world and what it takes to build a lasting healthy relationship.  --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: When to be picky vs. when to be open-minded when falling in love How true commitment changes your view of relationships The things that really matter when choosing a partner The cognitive bias that keeps you with the wrong person --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy? Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in REAL LIFE? Here are 7 elegant and simple ways to have a guy approach you (without feeling like you're doing all the work)... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

So...Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet!  And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious with you? Matt explains that 11 behaviours to look for that tell you he's thinking about a long-term relationship and doesn't have one foot out of the door... --- Come join our special "Commitment Masterclass" with Matthew on February 23rd! - a 2-hour deep dive for our Love.Life members on what really takes you from casual to committed - book your spot at AskMH.com (and get a free trial to our VIP club!) 

Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone. Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in your social circle, or at a party. You want to flirt. You want to get him to notice you. T hen at the crucial moment, you shrink. “H--hey”, you say, trying to play it cool. You make small talk. Chit-chat about everyday stuff, but nothing that ever amounts to flirting. And you realize: I can’t do this. I’m too much of an introvert. If you’ve ever used this excuse before, then get ready. Because I have 3 techniques today that are going to change your dating life forever. You’re an introvert? Guess what, so am I. Now you’ll find out why that can be your greatest superpower... -- Come be a part of our FREE "Dating With Results" virtual event on February 8th. Learn 4 secrets to end casual dating traps, and the authentic path to a real, committed relationship. Go to DatingWithResults.com and register today!  --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone* Instead of focusing on short-term attention, focus on these in the long-term and you won't find yourself playing games to keep someone interested.  --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

Does "The One" exist? Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts. There may not be one quick formula for knowing if someone is right for a long-lasting relationship, but here are four questions that you should definitely ask yourself before you dive in deeper... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---    Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected]

It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations. This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk: - How men and women think about casual sex in 2022 - What needs are met by casual sex (and what can cause it to become destructive) - How the desire for casual sex can conflict with a desire for real connection --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] 

Matt and Stephen talk about an email from a listener who feels like he dates women who self-sabotage the relationship with their insecurity.  We discuss what really kills attraction, who is at fault when someone gets insecure, and what it means to feel safe to bring up your fears and vulnerability in a relationship. Also, someone changed Jameson's Netflix username to "Lord Fart"... --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

What makes a guy hooked on you from Day 1? In this episode, Matt shows you how to communicate in a way that makes him feel special, brings out the most attractive sides of your personality, and show your attraction from a place of confidence. These tools will help you remain high value in his eyes and if done right will even make you irreplaceable. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships...   --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

"When I decide I really like someone, they suddenly lose interest?" Has this ever happened to you? Join Matt and Stephen as they explain the psychology behind someone backing off after you reveal your feelings and what types of people typically show this behaviour. --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (HOLIDAY SPECIAL OFFER – book your spot in December and get a $100 discount off the full price + 3 special bonuses!) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

It's all too common in modern dating to label someone a "narcissist". But what are the actual signs you're dating a narcissist vs. just dating a flawed person? What behaviours should you look for in the early dating stage?  Join Matt and Stephen as they discuss all things narcissism and how to heal after a relationship with someone who damages your self-esteem... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

A recent article asked: "Is Your Partner The Most Annoying Person In The World?" Matt and Steve look at this question and discuss: - Top most annoying habits in relationships - The mindset shift that increases our love with our partner - What really destroys relationships ---  Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey  

Matt and Steve discuss the why people love bomb, cat dating apps, and whether you should date someone based on ONE big common interest... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

It's RED FLAG season! The dating world is crazy for red flags, so we decided to sit down and talk through some of the internet's favourite red flag memes and see which ones we agree vs. disagree with! Also, we talk about our biggest AMBER FLAGS - behaviours that make you cautious even if they aren't deal-breakers... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey  

Matt and Steve talk about: - Breakups and how long it takes to move on - Getting over heartbreak: men vs. women  - The Metaverse and what it means for dating: will it make it easier to meet "The One" or kill physical intimacy? --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Your old pals Matt and Stephen talk about: - Whether you should have regrets - What kind of mistakes we regret the most - Getting over your screw ups - Online vs. Real life (and which causes more divorce!) --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: - Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game - How to escape the trap of comparison - The value vs. the danger of talking about your insecurities (and why many men struggle with this) - How to be attractive without needing to be perfect -- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before November 30th and get over 30% off the full price! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship. We discuss: Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo? Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like an Ex’s Photo?  What counts as micro-cheating? Do you have to be over someone before you can date? The importance of loyalty The difference between values and standards --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about why so many men are now accused of being "simps". We discuss: - What ACTUALLY makes a guy a "simp" - How we should feel about men who do it - What causes unhealthy fandom and hero worship --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com  

Matt and Steve talk about how ghosting happens, and why we all can not only be victims of it, but also unknowing perpetrators... *SPOILER alert for The Sixth Sense (I mean, it's over 20 years old, but ya know...here's your warning).  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com  

Matt and Steve sit down to talk: Where trauma and bad beliefs come from The effect of trauma on romantic relationships Getting over pain and changing emotional associations Boomer, Gen Z, Millenials + the failure of empathy --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- Don’t waste time & energy. Find love Faster: Download Your Free Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com  

It's one thing to leave the wrong person, but some people worry: "What if he becomes the RIGHT person for someone else? What if he changes and fixes his flaws and I missed out on the "better" version of him? Matt and Steve talk about where this fear comes from and why it can be so dangerous to live worrying about someone's future potential. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

Some recent research claimed that over 50% of people in committed partnerships have a "backburner relationship". In this episode Matt and Steve talk about: - What defines a backburner relationship? - Why in 2021 has this grown in modern dating culture? - What is the cost of having a backburner relationship? --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us your thoughts at [email protected] --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.  

Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him? Instead of being in a fun, flirtatious situation with someone who’s trying to get to know more about you, you find yourself sitting patiently while someone unloads all of their problems onto you. You’re not alone. But there is a way out. In this brand-new clip from a small live show, I show you how to escape the “therapist trap” with a guy so that you can keep building the attraction and tension that lead to a second date. Matthew x P.S. If you’d like the chance to ask me a live question—and join what is essentially a gym for your psychology, your emotions, and your confidence—consider this your personal invitation to sign up for a 14-day trial to my Love.Life Club at AskMH.com. I hope to see you there!

Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

Matt did a big, scary, difficult challenge. It was humbling. It was brutal. And it taught him a lot about friendship, confidence and doing things that scare you... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

Get on the first to know list for Impact & secure your spot on my Art of Speaking Masterclass → http://www.GetImpactFirst.com --- I’m about to share a recent public moment that bothered me . . .    While watching a video clip from my recent appearance on the Pretty Intense podcast with Danica Patrick—an experience I thoroughly enjoyed—I couldn’t help but notice something: I kept saying a particular word. And not just once or twice. Over the course of just a couple minutes, I couldn’t even keep my total in the single digits. As someone who’s spent an entire career in public speaking and content creation, the more I said this word, the more the demons in my mind went into “media frenzy press conference mode.” Prepare yourself: This is an honest reenactment of how embarrassment plays out in our heads. I hope this gives you a laugh and also helps you realize that you can take something like this and use it to turn a mortifying moment into an opportunity for growth.

Matt and Steve talk about:  - Sex Life (again!) - The fantasy of choosing between two different partners - The danger of wanting to heal someone else's trauma --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

Matt and Steve sit down to discuss: - Why we stay in relationships longer than we should - When we should quit the wrong relationship - The inspiring and tragic legacy of Anthony Bourdain --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.    

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about what's necessary to be a mature adult, male worries about penis size, and insecurities about ex's... -- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

Transform Your Confidence With Me Over 30 Days Claim Your FREE Spot on The Confidence Challenge → http://www.MHChallenge.com --- When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak? In this episode, I share 8 rules you’ll want to write on sticky notes and keep handy whenever you need a reminder. As always, I’d love it if you left me a comment letting me know your thoughts - email [email protected]  Here for you, Matthew x P.S. There’s still time to sign up for my 30-Day Confidence Challenge on July 21. These 30 days of massive momentum will set you up for an amazing end to 2021. It only takes 10 seconds to sign up at mhchallenge.com 

The year is half over already...what?? Join us to sit down and chat about: Where love is in 2021 The state of dating apps Body image and confidence Being selective about WHO we want to attract How the pandemic has changed desires for a relationship -- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

►► You are not alone. Join my membership FREE → http://www.AskMH.com --- In this clip, I’m asked what my “why” is—what motivates me to keep doing what I do. And my answer often comes as a surprise: to help people feel less alone... --- Follow me for more love advice on Instagram @thematthewhussey

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about YOUR responses to "what are your top 2 non-negotiables in a relationship?" Find out which ones we agree and disagree with! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24th-26th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and claim your spot to spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]

Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff? In today’s episode, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one. You’ll learn how to:   • Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them • Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity • Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship you’re actually in. You’ll want to bookmark this one and relisten to it before any date. --- Protect Your Energy and Build a Real Relationship. Download Your FREE Chapter of How To Talk To Men→ http://www.GetTheFreeChapter.com

Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.” But what if you feel like your best isn’t good enough? Or you’re afraid your worst will be “too much” for someone? In this situation, it can be tempting to overcorrect—to go overboard in your efforts to impress someone until they finally discover what you’re “really like.” In this week’s new episode, I’ll teach you how to shift from looking at yourself through a lens of self-judgment, self-loathing, and self-hatred, and instead view yourself from a place of self-compassion, self-love, and self-empowerment. --- Create a Beautiful Relationship With Yourself & Unlock Your Core Confidence... Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat https://MHVirtualRetreat.com

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about ONE quality we've come to find essential in relationships. We look at your answers to the question as well and give our responses! --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.   --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]

There’s an ongoing debate when it comes to meeting “The One.” Which camp do you fall into? 1) Is it all about meeting the right person—someone amazing who will remove any lingering doubts and inspire you to get serious? 2) Or is it less about “The One” and more about “The Timing”—meeting a compatible person at the right time in your life? This week, I get to the heart of the issue with 7 tips that may change your perspective on dating and relationships. --- Break Out of the Fast Food Dating Culture & Create Something Real. Get Your Free Training at http://howtogetexclusive.com

Matt and Steve sit down for a live session to talk about YOUR answers to advice you would give yourself from 10 years ago on dating, love and relationships!  --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time.   Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me!   Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot.

What will your dating life look like in the second half of 2021? As worldwide restrictions started to ease, news outlets declared that the post-lockdown world would likely give birth to a “new Roaring ‘20s”—a bacchanalian frenzy the likes of which our generation has never seen. While it’s true that some will embrace this openness with abandon, new studies are revealing something unexpected: many people are interested in finding a serious relationship as a result of the pandemic, because this past year has made them aware of the traits they value most in a partner. This particular moment is critical, because many people are likely to “panic buy” their way into a relationship—throwing themselves into the first nice person they meet as soon as the “gates open.” Thankfully, there’s a simple step you can take before a first date that will ensure you’re meeting people who are a better fit. In this episode, you’ll learn how to find a committed partner who will be excited to redefine the “new Roaring ‘20s” with you (whether or not they can dance the Charleston). Here for you, Matthew x P.S. Which trait is #1 on your list? Let me know in the YouTube comments on my channel!   

Amplify your confidence with me & Charlotte Tilbury. Register now for your FREE, live Masterclass on June 9th. Go to http://www.MHandCT.com We’re told all our lives that confidence is the key to everything from our careers to our love lives, but few things can feel more nebulous or fleeting. Even when we finally achieve the things we thought would give us confidence, it often slips just a little more out of reach. Life becomes a chase of “I’ll finally feel confident when . . .” and that “when” rarely materializes. In today’s episode, I’ll show you how to craft a confidence that’s unique to you: one that doesn’t rely on the achievement of some external goal, and one deeply rooted in who you ALREADY are. P.S. Be sure to listen all the way to the end to discover the secret project I’ve been working on and how you can be a part of it. This one’s HUGE. I’ve never done anything like it, and it won’t cost you a thing. 

Perhaps you’ve felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date . . . Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most . . . Or getting laid off from the job you thought you’d retire from . . . Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego. Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide. The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this episode, you’ll learn how to make that happen. (Plus I’ll also share an embarrassing story of a lesson I learned whilst recording in Beverly Hills 10 years ago . . .) P.S. Our final Virtual Retreat of the year is coming up September 24-26. The feedback from our last Virtual Retreat has been nothing short of amazing. And this month only, we're offering an incredible $100 discount and throwing in three priceless bonuses with your ticket. Don't wait, head to https://MHVirtualRetreat.com and claim your May special offer.

What do you think is the most overrated thing in relationships? We look at your top answers and decide if we agree or disagree! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]    

Learn The Simple Text Response to Regain Momentum in Your Relationship. Get Your Free Training Video at WhatToTextNext.com --- It’s happened to the best of us. The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?” Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out. Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around. If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s episode is a must-listen. I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation. The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now. Be sure to let me know which one you try first! You can email the show at [email protected] -- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships...

"What does he mean when he texts THIS?" In today's episode, Matt and Steve sit down live to discuss YOUR most confusing texts and what they really mean! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]

What do you do when you're dating someone, but you're worried they don't appreciate the effort you make? And will they step up their standards when you move in together, or are they going to stay the same forever? Join Matt and Stephen to talk all about standards! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! 

When you work on making yourself more attractive, does your dating pool narrow? Are there simply less people who will live up to your standards? Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about standards, self-growth, and choosing people for the right reasons. --- --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24th-26th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]!   

Is it possible to mess it up with the right person? Can you miss your chance if you make the wrong move?  When you make a mistake, the worst feeling in the world is, "what if I had done things differently?" We talk about how to get over your past failures in love and the mindset that will stop you living in regret.  --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]!       

It's always a question: How fast should you move when it comes to intimacy?  The answer: it depends on what your goals are...  Matt and Steve talk about the value of inside vs. outdoor dates early on in a relationship, how to find out what their intentions are, and what kind of "progress" really matters in dating.  --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! 

Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we’re afraid we will “make waves” in the relationship. We come from a place of fear and anxiety. “What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?” we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer. But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on. If this is you, this episode is for you. P.S. Early bird tickets for the second and final Virtual Retreat of the year (September 24-26) are only available until the end of the month. These tickets are at a deep discount and have some really special extras thrown in. Don’t miss your chance → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

What if you're with the "perfect" partner, they treat you wonderfully, but they're always putting off wanting kids? In this episode, Matt and Steve talk about how to do what's really right for you, and dealing with the fight between your head and your heart. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! 

Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here) -- Today Matt and Steve sit down to answer a listener who ask whether her partner can become more affectionate. Can you change someone's love language? Plus Matt goes on a rant about how to talk about your past heartbreaks with a new partner... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]! 

 Learn More About the Life-Changing Virtual Retreat + Lock in Your Early Bird Discount Now (Ends April 30) . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com ---​ Do you feel you’re holding yourself back in life? Do you avoid taking risks with people you’re attracted to? Do you find yourself shying away from new things in life, new experiences, new possibilities? Are there things you’ve been talking about doing in your career or life that always seem to stay on the horizon and never actually happen? It’s tough when life makes it hard for us to achieve things we want to achieve, but it’s far worse when we know that WE are the ones holding us back. It could be through fear of rejection, failure, not feeling worthy, or simply being terrified of the unknown. And we’ll find all sorts of logical and rational excuses for why we can’t do something now, why it’s not the right time, or why we’re not capable or ready. But the truth is, we can waste our entire lives holding ourselves back from the life we could have and becoming the person we want to be. And that can happen in the blink of an eye. We wake up one day and realize that all that time we thought we had is gone. This episode will save you from that fate . . .

"Get serious about people who treat you as serious.   Some people advise taking a chance on the unknown. Others think that’s crazy. I don’t think it is.   What is undeniably crazy though is taking a chance with your heart on someone you already know isn’t bothered about giving you theirs."   --- Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets . . .  http://www.3SecretsToLove.com​  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Empathy is a powerful emotion.  It can be a tool: allowing you to put yourself in someone's shoes, understand their struggle, and emotionally connect to their suffering. But when it comes to letting go of a toxic relationship, this can also be a danger if we prioritise empathy over our long-term well-being. Join Matt and Steve to chat about leaving toxic partners, deciding on when to compromise in love, and of course, bubble baths... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives. It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description more than the issues this video deals with. I’ve done my best, but I know it won’t be perfect. It’s not meant to be. I just want to begin the conversation in our community. I look forward to learning more from all of you as I go. Women of my community, I did not create this episode for you to do anything. It’s a message we men need to hear. I hope you’ll help me share it with more of my brothers, because the change has to come from us. And I’d love for you to join me in the comments to share your experiences and further educate us. We have your back here, and we love you. Matthew x

Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets . . .  http://www.3SecretsToLove.com​  --- There are 2 types of people from our past—distant or recent—that cause us pain in the present. And chances are, if you can’t seem to move on from someone, they fall into one of these 2 categories... The good news is that this episode will show you a neat trick you can do right now that will change the way you think about this person forever. And when you do it, you’ll instantly feel at peace in a way you don’t right now. Hope you’re having a beautiful weekend, friend. As always, I’m in your corner.

We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run: Kindness  Respect Clear and compassionate communication But there are also other little skills that make a big difference. Things that our partner may not even be able to vocalize, but that deep down in their subconscious they are eternally grateful for and that keep the relationship working and make us No.1 in their books.  Cultivate these skills and your name will be on its way to becoming an ill-judged impulsive tattoo on someone’s bicep in no time... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Someone once told Steve a secret to happiness he's never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.” “Why two?” “You need one so that you can look ahead and know something exciting is on the horizon. And you need to a second so that you don’t get depressed when the first one ends.” In this episode we talk about: - The benefits of "positive anticipation" for your happiness - Why purpose really matters - Whether you should keep chocolate in the fridge --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]!  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey  

Heal your heart and move on strong from your breakup. Tap Below to Watch Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com​ --- I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this brand-new episode is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this episode, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away. I’m here for you. P.S. This message may be the greatest gift you can give a friend or family member who is experiencing this kind of pain right now. Who could you send this to to help them get through the day? --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com​ ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com​ ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect with Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.howtogettheguy.com/blog/​ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey​ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewh...​ Twitter → https://twitter.com/matthewhussey

People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them.  Here we explain why it happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warnings signs appear... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]!  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Create Your Uniquely Extraordinary Life. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com​  Whether you’ve been following my work for 5 days or 5 years, this is one you can’t miss. It’s one of the most fundamental concepts I’ve ever taught, and it is the key to: - Increasing your confidence - Expanding your life - Being irreplaceable to the person you want - Being able to handle any part of your life going wrong This is where my dating advice meets my deeper advice for how to live an extraordinary life. Don’t listen to this episode for dating tips. Listen to level up your entire life. Every week, I help millions of people create the love life they’ve always wanted. But I don’t want the state of your life and your happiness to ever be dependent on the status of your love life. T he great irony is that it’s when your happiness no longer depends on the status of your love life that your love life finally has a chance to click. Enjoy this episode. It’s a big one. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at [email protected]!  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Today's Episode: Are Dating Apps Underrated? A new study suggests that people using dating apps could be MORE likely to want a serious relationship. Is it true? And what do we think about the common criticisms of dating apps? --- Don't forget: you can email the show at [email protected]!  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  

Do you get more done when you're single or in a relationship? This turns out to be a topic that has a lot of STRONG opinions. Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about: How to approach being a "builder" when you're in a relationship Choosing the right partner for your needs Connection vs. compatibility How to not get distracted when you're single --- Don't forget: you can email the show at [email protected]!  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- P.S. Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships...

►► Learn How to Break Out of the Casual Phase. Get Access to Your FREE Training . . . → http://www.GetTheFreeTraining.com​ OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me. She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me. In this week’s new episode, I tell the full story . . . and it highlights how so many people get hurt because they follow 95% of my advice, but ignore one of the most crucial things I say. Think of it this way: you can have all the right ingredients to bake a cake, but if you forget to add baking powder, the cake isn’t going to rise. In this episode, you’re going to learn what the baking powder of dating is. Without it, your relationship will not rise, which explains what happened to this woman I met in the coffee shop. Check it out, and don’t forget to email us a comment at [email protected] when you get there. Happy weekend, friend! P.S. I’m giving away a free video module of one of my favorite programs, Attraction to Commitment, at the end of this video. If you’re sick of guys wanting to see you casually, and are ready for a real relationship with someone who’s willing to commit, this is for you. Get your copy of the full program by entering your email here.   

It's ok to be weird... In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic. So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU! --- P.S. Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey

Want to hear something that drives me a little crazy? It’s when people say: “You need to be happy first, before you find a relationship.” In my brand spanking new video, I call BS on this idea (please be aware there is no actual spanking). Come on over and I’ll tell you why all the annoying people telling you this are wrong. P.S. We’re one month out from my next Virtual Retreat, March 19-21! This could be your last chance to make it happen. The first one back in October was a huge success, and I’ve been working with my team for months to make this one even better. It includes 3 days of immersion coaching to work on new habits, new purpose in your life, leveling up in every area, and becoming the most confident and in control version of yourself you’ve ever been. This is NOT a love life program—it’s a complete life makeover, inside and out. If you don’t have your ticket yet, there’s still time. To book a call with one of my Specialists to discuss your goals this year and whether the Virtual Retreat is right for you, click HERE → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com​

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it.  Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? Join us to find out and email us your thoughts at [email protected]  --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey

Whether you’re single or seeing someone on a day like Valentine's Day, here are 9 romantic surprises you can do for anyone in your life to make them go weak in the knees for you. They are subtle . . . They are unexpected . . . And they will make someone fall even harder for you than they already are (because why wouldn’t they be already . . . you’re adorable, aren’t you? Aren’t you! Sorry.) Check ‘em out, friend.  Free download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com​ Free download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

►► Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com --- Join Matt and Steve for a chat on vulnerability, when to reveal yourself in a relationship, and what counts as over-sharing... --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey

Learn 5 Techniques to Help Him Open Up to You. Get Access to Your FREE Training... → http://www.GetHimToTalk.com​   Happy February! :-) I just made this episode for you.  Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man? What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out? If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, here is your essential listening for today... Let me know what you think! -- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Hey listeners!  Join Matt and I for a chat today on: Why we get attached too quickly (even after only one date) The biggest key to avoiding disappointment Why Eminem was wrong  If you want to get in touch, email us at [email protected] --- Follow Matt Instagram - @thematthewhussey Twitter - @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen Instagram - @stephenhhussey Twitter - @stephenhhussey

Join Me on a Bigger Journey & Get Results in Your Love Life. Try My VIP Coaching Experience for Free... → http://www.AskMH.com​ Quiz for you... What do the following 3 things all have in common?: - Getting nervous on a date - Getting upset that someone isn’t texting you back - Not being able to get over a breakup Can you guess? The answer is in this episode, let’s see if you got it right... You’re going to witness a moment  taken from a live, exclusive webinar I held for my Love.Life members that wasn’t open to the public. There was an exchange that happened that is going to change the way you deal with dating disappointments forever. If you find it hard to recover from the rejection and the sadness of someone not calling after a date, or sex, or from it simply not panning out with someone you were seeing, this is a game changer... Sending you love, friend!

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Today Matt and Steve sit down for a little chat. We talk:  - Keeping on track with 2021 goals - Why you don't need to be "100% happy" to attract a great relationship - How to decide what really matters in your to-do list - 3 things you need to work on to have an extraordinary love life

Discover How to Love Your Life Every Day. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat... http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com Are you a list maker? I am. It’s how I get things done. But doesn’t life sometimes just feel like an endless “To-Do List”? We wake up, make a list, do what we can on that list, and before we know it, there’s another day, gone. And, if we’re not careful, we get to the end of every day feeling like our confidence has been eroded because we didn’t even get to half of the list. I don’t want my life to be one long box-ticking exercise, do you? If you want to feel like you’re truly LIVING, not just ticking boxes, check out this episode. The technique I give in this episode shows us how to feel connected to the things we have to do in our day so that we don’t become list-checking zombies with no real joy in our lives. I know once you learn this, it will become an indispensable part of your daily practice. I look forward to your feedback. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Ever wanted to be a better public speaker? Wish you could feel confident and charismatic when you walk into a room? In this episode, Matt and I sit down to discuss: - Why you can *still* have massive impact as an introvert - How to get rid of your bad conversation habits - The secret to overcoming shyness - How to answer difficult questions under pressure (and look good doing it!) --- If you're serious about upgrading your people skills, transforming your confidence, and learning the secrets of unstoppable charisma, go to GetImpactNow.com to get your copy of our bestselling IMPACT program! (Doors close Saturday 23rd January at midnight Pacific Time).     

 I’m guessing you don’t just follow my work for love life advice... Unless you discovered my content yesterday, you will have realized by now that the communication skills I teach have massive practical application for your business relationships, your ability to network, your ability to persuade, to captivate, and to navigate challenging conversations in every part of life. I’ve not just used these skills in my own love life. They have been the fundamental people skills I have used to create every opportunity I’ve ever had and get to where I am today. And I know that in 2021 you have goals outside of your love life that are deeply important to you. I want to help you achieve them. This episode is going to show you 7 techniques I use time and time again to make an impact on whoever I’m speaking to and create new opportunities in my life.  I also have a value-packed surprise at the end for you (also free!). See you there! --- ►► Discover My Personal Secrets for Impact & Success. Tap Below to Watch Your FREE Training... → http://www.SecretImpactVideo.com 

Heyyyy, It's a chat episode! We sit down to talk about: - How to identify addictive behaviours - Avoiding red flags vs. not being affected by past relationships - How to figure out your goals - Crunchy vs. smooth peanut butter  It's all here - come join and let us know your thoughts at [email protected] ---  Follow Matt - @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen - @stephenhhussey

Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted. What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back? It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of angry or upset subsides, and we are left with this sinking feeling that somehow we’ve just messed it all up. If you can relate to being the kind of person whose emotions and anxieties can be easily triggered in a relationship, this episode is really going to help you. My aim with this video is not to guarantee you never get anxious again (would you even believe me if I said that was possible?!). My aim is to ensure that even in those moments where your fears and anxieties become inflamed, you have a way of calming them, and approaching your partner in a way that brings you closer together, rather than hurting the relationship. Let’s take back control over those emotions and put you back in the driver’s seat. And let’s learn to use our moments of friction to make our relationships even more beautiful. Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey

Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her. Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…” She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him. But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?) The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love. In this episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them.. --- Follow Matt Instagram - @thematthewhussey Twitter - @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen Instagram - @stephenhhussey Twitter - @stephenhhussey ---  

Maybe you began this year with visions of finally creating the love life you always dreamed about. You told yourself: “This is the year I’m going to meet my person.” But then 2020 happened, and it made dating even more complicated, more exhausting, and more futile than it seemed to be already. And now you sit here, at the end of another year, with this feeling in the pit of your stomach. A feeling of frustration, resentment, and even panic. “I’ve lost an entire year of progress in my love life because of this pandemic.” In this episode, I’m going to give you a blueprint for what to do to still move your love life forward, even while this marathon we’re on continues. Time is too precious to waste. There are so many ways to still move forward. You just need the right plan... We in this community aren’t just survivors, we are adapters. So let’s do what we do best and make this situation work for us.  Love you, friend. --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey

If you find yourself currently in a long-distance relationship – or “situationship” – then I made this for you, my loyal friend. In it, I give you the 4 questions you should ask to figure out if it’s all worth it. Because let’s face it, long-distance relationships are HARD. WORK. T hey require dedication, commitment, loyalty, and a real vision for the future. Do you ever find yourself worrying if yours has what it takes? Or wondering if the person you are giving all of this mental and emotional energy to from afar is actually serious and will pay off in the end, instead of wasting your precious time? You can also check out this episode to see my “baby” brother Harry say some deeply hurtful things to me. Enjoy. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

It's finally happened... Matt and I are back in the same room, together at last! And we're taking YOUR questions. In this special Q&A episode, we talk: How to communicate when you have different expectations from a guy you're dating Matt's #1 secret to overcoming your deep insecurities and avoid comparing yourself to other attractive people Books to build your happiness How to keep motivation when you lose focus Is Los Angeles overrated?  Hope you enjoy, and let us know your thoughts and feedback at [email protected] --- Follow Matt Insta - @thematthewhussey Twitter - @matthewhussey ---- Follow Stephen Insta - @stephenhhussey Twitter - @stephenhhussey

I wanted to step outside of the dating conversation for this week’s new episode. Relationship or no relationship, the quality of our lives is the quality of our emotions. And many of us feel plagued by our emotions. Whether it’s depression, anxiety, sadness, shame, guilt, fear… we can find ourselves living in a constant state of suffering. If you can relate to this, please listen to this before you do anything else today... I’ve had moments in my life where I was scared I’d never feel better, especially if there was a certain negative emotion that I kept returning to no matter what I tried. It can make us feel hopeless, like we’ll never be happy no matter what we do. If you feel stuck in a place like this, please take a few minutes to hear what I have to say in this podcast. It’s not some magic pill, it’s a real approach that will relieve the tension you feel inside right now. Don’t lose hope. We’ve got this. I promise you. I love you, friend. --- ►► We’re in This Together. Try My Love.Life VIP Coaching and Community for FREE... → http://AskMH.com

Transform Your Life and Claim Your Happiness NOW. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat… http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com --- I get SO many questions about standards in early-stage dating every week... How do you set standards? How do you know if your standards are too high, too low, or are scaring people away? How do you communicate your standards in a kind and honest way? What if all of my standards are fulfilled by someone except one important one? To answer some of these questions, this week I take a real woman’s story and give 3 practical techniques for solving it that I think you’re going to find really valuable. If you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn’t feel like it’s quite going your way, this episode is going to help you make sense of things… Also, we are finishing this year with a bang. As you know, I just released my brand new program The Momentum Texts (thank you to all of you who got your copy, and for the incredible early feedback). Well, to add one more surprise, at the end of this new episode I announce something many of you have been waiting for in the last few weeks. I’ll see you there to tell you about it.

Get your copy of Matt's brand new program, out TODAY!  "The Momentum Texts: 67 Counter-Intuitive Texts That Lead To REAL Relationships" Click here to download > > > MomentumTexts.com (Grab your copy before midnight on Saturday November 21st PT and you'll also get our free audio coaching bonus!) --- In this episode, I'm going to give you a sneak peek behind the curtain of our new program and share 3 key text messages for different stages of a relationships to create intrigue, sexual tension, assert your standards, and keep the conversation going!  --- Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Follow Matt @thematthewhussey        

I’ll keep this short, because I really want you to just get to the new episode and start listening. This is one of the coolest and most informative episodes I’ve ever made about how to create and sustain attraction in early dating... I talk about the 5 texting mistakes that kill attraction, and how to avoid them. If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early stage dating... If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere… And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing differently to change that… This episode is for you. Can’t wait to hear what you think. --- P.S. Get on the early-bird list for my brand new program at MomentumTexts.com This is my BRAND NEW texting program that's the price of two cups of coffee (one cup if it's somewhere fancy!) Can't wait for you to dig in and learn all the secrets of keeping attraction through texting and connecting through your messages. Go check it out!

Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with a guy is? Should you let him know you’d like to go on a date with him? And what about after the date… Should you let him know you’d like to see him again if you felt the date went well but he’s not being proactive about setting up another one? Where is the line between showing a guy you like him, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested? It can be tricky. But I want to make it simple. You may have heard me say, “Invest in those who invest in you.” But that could leave you wondering to yourself: “Fine Matthew, but so often that means I’m doing nothing because no one is investing in me! And doesn’t someone need to take the first step to invest something if anything is ever going to happen?” It’s a valid point. I’ll show you exactly how to solve this at the end of this episode, so make sure you listen all the way through! -- ►► Discover 7 Signs He’s Ready to Invest in You. Tap Below for Your FREE Guide… → http://www.DoesHeLikeYou.com

Lockdown is back (for some of us). And if there ever was a year for online dating, 2020 is the biggest opportunity there will ever be to do it.  In this episode, we talk: – What makes you stand out in a dating profile - Annoying turn-offs to avoid - Why you STILL shouldn't want to try to compete with everyone else --- Follow Stephen: Facebook - @stephenhusseywrites Twitter - @stephenhhussey Instagram - @stephenhhussey

Is there a spooky presence lurking around you? Do you have a “ghost” in your love life? Are you the victim of a “haunting”? Is there a “zombie,” back from the dating-dead, knocking at your door all of a sudden? Are you like me and had to look up at least two of these three 2020 dating terms that have been created by twenty-something writers at magazine websites? I made a Halloween-themed episode about these – apparently new – dating phenomena. I tell you practically what you should do about each of them, and, most importantly, I simplify this whole convoluted, ridiculous mess. Basically, if you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, this episode will tell you what to do. May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams...;) ►► Don’t Waste Time & Energy. Find Love Faster: Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Love Habits... → http://www.3LoveHabits.com

Are you seeing someone who won’t commit but who doesn’t let you move on either? You’re about to hear a phone call between me and a young lady who had this issue and wanted to know what was going on in his mind. If you check out the video on my YouTube Channel also get to see me portrayed as a detective getting to the bottom of the case… In this episode, you’ll learn about the psychology of someone who won’t commit, and what you should be doing about it if you find yourself in this situation. Stay safe out there, my pickles. --- ►► Is He Ready to Commit to You? This Conversation Will Help You Know for Sure. Tap Below for Your FREE Training… → http://www.HowToGetExclusive.com

I’ll keep this short so you can go straight to listening to this episode. It’s not just essential listening if you’re single right now… It’s essential listening in the context of the year we’ve just had and how to navigate being single in it. Life is precious. Let’s not waste it. P.S. Please share this with any and all the single people you care about in your life. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. At the end, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this... Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person... -- Claim Your Spot on The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat. Let’s Hit Reset on This Year, Together... → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

In his book Zero To One, the venture capitalist and entrepreneur Peter Thiel famously says: “Competition is for losers”. Whether you are running a business, deciding what to do with your life, looking for a relationship – if you worry about what everyone else is doing, you’ll end up chasing the wrong thing. The only way to escape competition, and feel deeply confident to your soul, is to have your own unique monopoly. You don’t need to win at everything to get a great relationship – you only need to build your unique monopoly in a way that makes you irreplaceable for the right person...  ---   Send your emails to [email protected]   ---   Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey   ---   Join us for our life-changing 3-day virtual retreat MHVirtualRetreat.com

Does he REALLY like you? You may be asking yourself this question right now. Sometimes people ask themselves this question because they want to know whether to make a move in the first place... Other times they ask it because they want to know whether the person they are spending time with really cares or is just wasting their time. This episode is going to help. I give you 7 surprising and unexpected signs that someone genuinely likes you. Watch it now and see how many of the 7 things he’s doing with you... Don’t forget to leave us a comment at [email protected]!  --- Get the 5 Compliments That Build Deep Attraction. Tap Below to Download Your FREE Guide... → http://SayThisToHim.com

I’m a big believer these days in the power of no. What we decide to say “no” to in relationships is often as important what we say yes to. And I’ve seen thousands of women saying yes to all the wrong things, like men who say “I’m not sure about us,” for whom they wait months and years in the self-torturing hope he’ll change his mind. I even had a woman recently say to me, “He says he’s trying to choose between me and another woman. Should I wait for an answer? Or should I move on?” Seriously? Wait for an answer? Screw that. It’s time to say no to being undervalued forever. One of my favourite quotes says: “If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured the world will not raise your price.” So if you’re still hanging on that “one guy,” I need, need, need you to hear this. It may just be the biggest wake-up call you’ll ever get... ►► Deep down, you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just a few days with me → our first ever ONLINE RETREAT! Claim your spot today for October - http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

Ever found yourself in a situation where the person you are with is doing something that affects you negatively, only they don’t see it as a big deal? They tell you they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong, and that you should be OK with it. That’s what happened to the woman whose story I tell in this episode. Her boyfriend was regularly texting a female friend he’d made only recently. Every time she got upset about it, he told her she was being unnecessarily controlling and jealous and that he wasn’t doing anything wrong. In today’s podcast, you’ll see exactly what I think she should do about this situation... I always think one of the hardest things in a relationship is trying to figure out where we are overreacting and where we are justified. It can be maddening. If you’re wondering whether what someone is doing around you should be a deal-breaker, this will help you figure it out once and for all. Always in your corner. P.S. The first-ever Live Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat is just around the corner. People from all over the world are signing up to join us October 16th - 18th, not just because they have always wanted to take my Retreat, but because it’s a fraction of the cost of my live Retreat (and with none of the travel and time off work!). There may never be a better time to join the Retreat than this. Go here to book an appointment with one of my team and find out more: http://www.mhvirtualretreat.com.

Answering YOUR questions on topics including: - what to do when a guy is acting flakey - creating a "flirtatious energy" (and how to do it) - how to be less insecure in a relationship _________________________ Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you he wants a break? You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to him? In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to. If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, I',m going to give you the only response you’ll ever need...  ►► Handle Heartbreak in a Strong, High-Value Way. Download your free guide... → http://www.MoveOnStrong.com  --- Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Do you ever worry that the chemistry will fizzle in your relationship? Or does it seem as though the butterflies have already flown away? Don’t worry. This episode contains a game plan to save you... --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey  

Have you been gaslighted before? Is it happening to you right now? If you’re not sure what “Gaslighting” means… It’s when someone manipulates you by psychological means into doubting your own sanity. Over time, this can have a dramatic effect on our self-esteem as we slowly begin to doubt ourselves until we no longer trust our own instincts. It’s nasty.   f you’ve ever expressed your needs to someone or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you and you were made to feel crazy, this message is for you. It’s a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don’t even know if what we are saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting… that’s why I’m so excited for you to listen to this episode. It’s going to bring you a sense of peace and calm again... I’ve got your back, friend. ►► Deep down, you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MatthewHusseyRetreat.com

Question: What’s the #1 secret to powerful, seductive flirting? For some people, that’s a silly question. “Flirting is simple,” they’ll say. “It’s just something you do when you like someone.” And yet, in my 10 years of learning about attraction, I’ve seen so many make the same mistakes. They try to talk to that cute guy at the party, the conversation fizzles out, and they’re left scratching their heads wondering, “Am I being too keen? Too aggressive? Am I just boring?” But I understand. Knowing what men/women want when it comes to flirting can feel massively confusing. In fact, I’ve never seen flirting skills broken down in a useful way – so today I’m going to reveal the ultimate flirting formula. (Trust me, you won’t want to miss this). It's time to finally make this confusing topic clear... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Download the FREE flirting chapter at GetTheFreeChapter.com

Maybe you’ve always been afraid of rejection. Maybe there was a specific moment in your past where you experienced a devastating rejection that has left you fearing getting hurt again ever since. The problem with the fear of rejection is that it still hurts even when we are not getting rejected. I was taught by my boxing trainer, Martin Snow, that the worst punch you get is the one you never actually get hit with. It’s the one you think about and fear in your mind. That means that even without literally being rejected, we experience the pain by imagining it over and over again. On top of that, we beat ourselves up for all the things we are missing out on as a result of our fear: potential partners, opportunities, experiences, adventures, and most importantly – our full potential. Fear of rejection is one of the most human things in the world. We all experience it. But how can we learn to manage it, live with it, and even occasionally, overcome it? I know you’ve been dealt some really unfair situations. I know that sometimes it feels like we can’t take anymore pain. But life is short... I’m with you, friend. -- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.co

You watch the cliché rom-coms and sitcoms. They tell you to be witty, urbane, “sassy”, sophisticated. And that’s what everyone wants to portray on their profile on Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, Grab-a-mate, Blah-bar (Ok, I made up those last two up). What hardly anyone does in conversation pay an actual memorable compliment. And this doesn’t just for for online dating. It’s also lacking in many flesh-and-blood conversations. Both men and women defer to trying to look impressive (through their career, fancy degree, social status) instead of making a real connection. One reason we avoid being genuine in our compliments is because we’re scared to put ourselves on the line. And yet, there is this weird phenomenon: we tend to like people who actually see something special about us. If you agree and want some practical advice on being memorable in other people's eyes, listen to this episode... --- Learn the 5 compliments that everyone loves to hear. Download the free guide at SayThisToHim.com --- Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey    

Ah yeeeeah, it’s that time, friend… a brand new spicy epsiode for you. This one is about compliments, and there’s some really interesting psychology in it about the compliments you can give to a person to create deep attraction between the two of you. One of them works for when you first message someone on an app… The 2nd one is great for when you are meeting someone in person… The 3rd one is for someone you already know and want to build more attraction with. This episode is super practical. Take a few minutes to watch it, then use one of these compliments today. If you’re not going to use one of them, you’re not allowed to listen to it. OK? Don’t listen to this episode then NOT use one of them, because I’LL KNOW. ;) Hope you’re having a great day, you beautiful human. ►► Get 5 More Compliments That Build Serious Attraction. Tap Below to Download Your Free Guide... → http://www.SayThisToHim.com ▼

If you've ever worried about having the "awkward" conversation, answering the booty call text, or speaking out for your needs, this is for you!  It's time to start being ok with being weird... --- Email us at [email protected] --- Follow Stephen: Twitter - @stephenhhussey Instagram - @stephenhhussey Facebook - @stephenhusseywrites

I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.” It may be because they are sick of getting their heart broken. It may be that they are exhausted from going on dates that don’t go anywhere, or online conversations that never even get to the point of a date in the first place. It could be the frustration of never meeting people they have true chemistry with, or when they finally do, discovering that they aren’t looking for a relationship. If you feel any of these things, I made this for you. If you feel you’re close to giving up on this area of your life, I have no righteous ground to take in telling you you’re wrong. I completely understand it. It is unbelievably frustrating, especially when you want nothing more than to just get on with sharing your life with that special person instead of more time passing without them in it. You’re not weak or crazy for feeling the way you do, so give yourself a break. But before you give up, just do me one favor – listen to this podcast today. ►► If you're ready to do something truly special this year and transform your life over 3 magical days, join me for our first ever LIVE Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com  

It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself. When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea that you’re just not a likeable person. It becomes a self-perpetuating cycle: “I don’t like myself, so why should anyone else like me?” Then we feel lonely, beat ourselves up, feel like a failure, and like ourselves even less than before. We retreat more and more into our shell and lose that “spark” that makes us attractive to someone else as a potential partner This is exhausting. It’s unfair. And it doesn’t do justice to who you really are on the inside and everything you have to give to the world. It’s an overwhelming step to think about how to suddenly become supremely confident. So let’s do something more modest today. In this episode, I want to share a small thing you can start doing today to get back your self-esteem and begin to reclaim your core confidence... ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life...GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MatthewHusseyRetreat.com

Are you hurting? Is that hurt leading to overthinking? Rumination? A downward spiral of negative self-talk? Do you feel trapped inside your own head, desperate for some relief, and anxious for the time to come when you will finally feel better? If so, this is required listening. To do something special for my Love.Life members, I invited the one and only Guy Winch (@GuyWinch) on for a special hour to help people overcome pain and hurt. Guy Winch is one of the world’s foremost experts on dealing with heartbreak and “emotional first-aid.” This episode is a special moment taken from that hour where Guy talks about how to deal with moments of terrible pain in a productive and healthy way. As Rainer Maria Rilke said: “No feeling is final.” If you’re hurting right now, it’s going to get better. I promise. One step at a time. -- ►► Ready to join our members area and hear the full conversation (plus more LIVE coaching from Matt?) - go to AskMH.com to join our VIP community today!

We respond to YOUR emails all about the topic of Love Bombing.  Including: Why we get sucked in by love bombing What "red flags" to look for early on How to be (healthily skeptical) before diving into romance How to move on after heartbreak If you're ready to deep dive into your love life and want to see Matt answer real love questions on our live webinars, join our Love.Life VIP Members club at AskMH.com -- Follow Matt: Twitter - @matthewhussey Instagram - @thematthewhussey -- Follow Stephen:  Instagram - @stephenhhussey Twitter - @stephenhhussey

I talk a lot about letting go of the wrong person. But how do you know if someone is the wrong person? What are the red flags? How can you tell if someone is serious or just stringing you along so that you don’t waste your time? This episode solves that problem for you. In this podcast, I add a distinction that I’ve never said before and I don’t think you will have ever thought about… Let me know what you think once you’ve heard it, friend. Much love. P.S. For all the sh*t you’re going through right now that others don’t know about, I love you and I’m with you. --- Follow Matthew: Twitter - @matthewhussey Instagram - @thematthewhussey --- Follow Stephen:  Twitter - @stephenhhussey Instagram - @stephenhhussey --- Email the show at [email protected]! --- Download the FREE chapter of our How To Talk To Men program at GetTheFreeChapter.com 

You have to help me. I believe there isn’t a woman (person) alive who doesn’t need to hear this message at least once in her lifetime. I know, that’s a bold statement. But when you see it, you’ll know why. My work is about more than dating. It’s about time. Time = Life. And this podcast is designed to save your precious time. It's all about what “it’s complicated” really means. If you’re in a situation with a man that gives you far less than you want or deserve, this is the most important thing you could do with your time today. And I rarely ask this, but please do more than listen to this. Share it with every woman you know. I have spent over a decade working with women in their love lives. I’d go as far as to say no one has been witness to more women throwing away their precious time on the wrong situations than me. My No.1 objective is for this episode to help you get brave enough to say “enough is enough” in your own life. My 2nd objective is for you to help me save the lives of other women – your friends, your sisters, your mum, your daughters… anyone you care about. People don’t always have the wake up call on their own. Sometimes they need our help. No more wasting time. I know it’s hard, but I’m with you. I’m in your corner, always. __________ Follow Matt: Insta – @thematthewhussey Twitter – @matthewhussey Follow Stephen: Insta – @stephenhhussey Twitter - @stephenhhussey __________ ►► Relationships Don’t Have to Be Complicated. Learn 3 Simple Secrets to Get the Love You Deserve. Tap Below for Your FREE Guide... → http://www.3SecretsToLove.com

"Too many people in the single world waste time and emotion pursuing TERRIBLE leads.   They date men and women who don’t invest in them, they spend hours waiting for texts back only to get one-word answers, and they chase intimacy from people who only want attention/sex/validation...   I don’t have a dog in this fight. Being in a relationship can be incredible. But being single is also AMAZING and gets taken for granted way more often...."   --- Follow Steve: Twitter - @stephenhhussey Instagram - @stephenhhussey Facebook - @stephenhusseywrites --- Want to build the self-worth and confidence that makes you TRULY fall in love with your life? Click here to reserve your spot on our next LIVE retreat program!

I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had. If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food. It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me....  Blog → http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/blog/ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Twitter → https://twitter.com/matthewhussey Instagram (Matt) → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/?hl=en Instagram (Steve) → https://www.instagram.com/stephenhhussey/?hl=en

Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship? Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more? It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling. I know because I’ve felt it. It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia. We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently. And this feeling isn’t limited to situations that have ended. Sometimes we are still seeing someone but we have this crippling anxiety over having irreversibly damaged the relationship. We feel we’ve created a perception of ourselves in that person’s eyes that we can’t now undo. If for any of these reasons you are currently torturing yourself, this episode will be life-saving for you today. Trust me when I say it is essential. I break down for you why you don’t need to be wallowing in pain, and why, despite everything that destructive voice inside is saying, you actually have reason to feel good today. Please also share this with someone you know who may be beating herself up right now. Life’s too short for any of us to suffer needlessly. I’m with you, friend. You’re loved.  *** (Start transforming your confidence from wherever you are TODAY! Get the At-Home Retreat program at MHRetreatAtHome.com)

I can’t tell you how many people I’ve coached who can’t let go of the past. Women who are still hating themselves for dating the wrong guy for so many years. Women who feel they’ve wasted their career so far. Women who still let an old family trauma affect their mood every... single... day. I know these things are hard. Believe me, I’m not pretending these are small problems. But if you want to know how to break free, let go of your baggage, and feel 100% more empowered, please, please make sure you hear this message. I’m going to share a mind-blowing story that will show how you can turn even the worst tragedies into a beautiful future...  --- Deep down, you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 5 short days with me → http://www.MatthewHusseyRetreat.com - Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey - Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Have you ever had someone come into your life, dazzle you with their initial investment and attention, only to disappear as fast as they came? This phenomenon has been nicknamed “Love Bombing,” and it can be very painful, especially when you were led to believe it was going somewhere.  You may be asking yourself why someone would do this. In this week’s episode I’ll show you… My hope is that this will not only give you a sense of closure, but also help you to move past the heartache you are feeling right now if this has happened to you. I also show you how to avoid it in the future.  Here for you, friend. Matthew x --- Join my exclusive members community at AskMH.com!  Email us YOUR love bombing story at [email protected]  

Are the most attractive people always the most confident? Is insecurity always an attraction-killer, or is it more important to own your flaws? In today's episode Matt gives his take on the topic of insecurity and reveals the difference between flawed vs. being weak.   --- Ready to transform your confidence and get the relationship you deserve? Get your copy of the At-Home Retreat at MHRetreatAtHome.com Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey    

There are many dangerous qualities of a toxic person, but the worst one of all may be their deceptiveness. They can be so subtle in their manipulation, you may not even realize what they’re doing to you, until you’re in too deep and they’ve completely eroded your confidence. I want you to have the awareness to SEE this behaviour for what it is and give you the strength to walk away so you never have to worry about those people again. In today’s podcast, I take you through the 5 signs you’re dating a toxic person so you know exactly what to watch out for… >>> Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey >>> Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Download the FREE confidence training at GetCoreConfidence.com  

What keeps relationships together? And what tears them apart? I've always been obsessed with looking at patterns of those in happy couples. Today, we share some research into a single behaviour that can make all the difference... Let us know your thoughts. Send us an email at [email protected]!  >>> Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey >>> Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey Transform your core confidence...download the free training at GetCoreConfidence.com

Have you ever been hurt badly by someone in love? Those wounds can stay with us a long time. They can stop us from taking chances again in love. They can make us afraid of getting close to someone again… Afraid of being vulnerable again… Afraid of letting someone in… Because if the result of letting our guard down and choosing to love someone is that we give up all of our power, then why bother, right? Sure, we may be giving up the special experience of being in love, but at least we don’t have to experience those dreadful lows. If you can relate to this, today’s episode is for you. You’ll hear me doing a live demonstration with someone who is going through exactly this issue. And what I tell her may be exactly the words you need to hear right now. This isn’t isn’t a pep talk. It’s a rational, practical strategy for how to navigate your love life after someone has hurt you, or broken your heart or your trust (or all 3). ►► Be Brave and Invest in Love Again. To Learn How, Download Your FREE Guide… → http://www.3SecretsToLove.com 

Has this ever happened to you? You’re on a first date... and... He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry… But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth). If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that makes him reach across the table and say: “I’d really like to see you again.” In this podcast, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again)... You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating... It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this podcast is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them… and yet, they still aren’t doing it.  >>> Follow Matt @thematthewhussey >>> Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Download the flirting sample of How To Talk To Men at GetTheFreeChapter.com  

I’ve been thinking about one of the biggest dangers of personal growth these last couple of weeks. The danger is this: we learn a crucially important, life-changing lesson, and then forget all about it and move on with our lives. Any one of us could fall into that trap this year. Like me, you’ve probably had some realizations about your life during this difficult time. Epiphanies about changes you want to make, or simple truths that you want to take forward even once things return to “normal.” But the integration of these lessons and truths into our lives going forward is no guarantee. In fact, for most people, it’s much more likely that nothing will change. Think of that, we were just forced into a giant reset, the likes of which we may never have again in our lifetimes. And yet, most people will go back to living the same lives they were before once the daily stresses, invites, and activities return. We simply cannot let this happen. So what can we do? Well, the first step is consciously taking stock of what those lessons are, and codifying them so we don’t forget them. In this week’s episode I reveal 6 of the unexpected lessons I’ve learned in the last 3 months... Come see if any of mine are the same as yours. And, in the process, write down what yours are. I can’t say this enough: do not move on from this moment in time without bottling the lessons and taking them with you, or all of this pain and struggle will have been for nothing. ►► Claim Growth and Happiness that LASTS. Learn More about The At-Home Retreat… → http://www.MHRetreatAtHome.com Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

“How do you avoid negative self-talk after a breakup? My ex was extremely critical and I want him out of my head.” I say “we,” because I’m not alone in this one. I’m joined by a very special friend of mine, Jeannie Mai (@thejeanniemai)– Emmy Award-winning co-host of “The Real,” and host of the podcast “Listen Hunnay.” Jeannie is wonderfully entertaining to listen to, and has a first rate mind on these things, as you’ll her from the podcast. And, what makes this “extra” special is that it's taken from a 90-minute interview I did just for my Love.Life members, so you’ll get a taste of what goes on behind the curtain of my private membership. If you are struggling with negative self-talk, this podcast is literally a precise prescription for what to do next. It’s 7 minutes of listening that will make your life better today, I promise. P.S. If you find this video as valuable as I know you will, and would like to watch the full 90-minute interview, you can access it right now with a free 14-day trial to our Love.Life Membership. Claim your trial at http://www.AskMH.com.

Why is it SO hard to leave, even when we know we are with the wrong person?  How can we get the courage to follow what our brain and heart are screaming at us and leave?  It's not easy, and there's a psychological bias that makes it even harder.  In this episode, I share 3 techniques to re-wire your brain so that you finally have the strength to follow your heart and make the right choice. --- Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Follow Matt @thematthewhussey  Email us your story and comments at [email protected] Download the FREE guide on "Dating After Heartbreak" at 3SecretsToLove.com

A mere 2 weeks ago it would have been hard to conceive of a world that was about to heat up considerably beyond the tension and emotion already experienced in 2020. Then came the murder of George Floyd. Since then, I, living in Los Angeles, have watched the United States – and beyond – reach a boiling point on race issues. It’s a dark time, and yet it also feels like a time where real change could be possible. I find myself asking of what service I can possibly be. Another weekend rolls around, my weekly video spot awaits my thoughts, and I have no clever words chambered. It doesn’t feel like the week for a love life video. And yet it does feel like a week where I want to be with you, my community, more than ever. I ask politely that you not confuse that with my having any answers. All I have is me, letting the Black members of my community know what I have always felt – that I consider you my sisters and brothers, and that I, Matthew Hussey, stand with you, always. The fact that Black lives “mattering” is even an idea that needs support in the year 2020 is an astonishing prospect. But to all the Black members of this community, let the bloody obvious be stated here and now: My team and I love you, and you matter to us. To brighter days. For anyone interested I have included a list below of organizations I have chosen to support with donations this week. **In addition, when we first posted the new YouTube video this morning, I had it demonetized out of respect so as not to profit from this video. However many of you pointed out in the comments that it would be better to have ads turned on and have the revenue go to the cause. I love the idea, so I have, and 100% of the proceeds from this week's YouTube video will also be donated to the causes below. 1 - My Brother’s Keeper Alliance https://www.obama.org/mbka/ 2 - Center for Policing Equity https://policingequity.org 3 - Equal Justice Initiative https://eji.org 4 - NAACP https://www.naacp.org 5 - The Girls Opportunity Alliance Fund https://www.obama.org/girlsopportunityalliance/

Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ►► Want Support to Navigate This Strange Time? Ask Me Your Burning Love Life Question Now… → http://www.AskMH.com  This episode is an honest look at what the near future of dating could look like for you if you’re single right now. Even as parts of the world open up again, a vaccine appears to be at least 8-12 months away. That means that for about another year, there will be some significant implications for our dating lives. Is it safe to go out on dates in the coming months? When should you meet up with someone you’ve been talking to? How do you deal with awkward moments like the first hello where you would normally hug each other? Is there an elegant way to communicate what level of contact you are comfortable with? These are all questions I answer in this episode. At the beginning of COVID-19, I made a video outlining the immediate impact of this virus on our love lives. Consider this a round 2, but this time with a focus on the future of dating. A kind of “State of Our Unions” address for 2020, if you will. I’d love to know your thoughts in the comments, and please share with anyone who is anxious or concerned with the future of their dating life. There is reason for hope, my friend. As ever, I’m thinking of you as we go through this together. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com  

Follow Matthew at @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen at @stephenhhussey --- 90% of people are making a mistake in the way they connect with other people without even realizing it. See, ever since I was 13 and first picked up my Dad’s copy of the Dale Carnegie’s How To Win Friends And Influence People, I was fascinated with figuring what it is that allows certain people able to influence, attract, and be charismatic in the presence of others. Over years of being on TV and radio, running a company with over 30 full-time staff, and speaking to audiences of thousands of people, I’ve learned some really important distinctions that make people certain people immediately compelling. I’ve also learned some major things people get wrong that must be avoided at all costs if you ever want to win people over… (more on that in the video) So here it is, my #1 secret to getting people hooked in the first 60 seconds… ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

I’ve lost count of what week of social distancing we’re in. But I do know that if you’ve been living with someone since quarantine started then you’ve had your ups and downs. We need space in our relationship for desire to thrive. But how do you create space with someone who is always there? If absence makes the heart grow fonder, how do you stay exciting to your partner if you're never absent? In today's episode, we talk about some simple, practical ways to approach this situation and avoid making the mistakes that are hurting good relationships... This isn’t just about getting space, it’s about bringing back the moments of magic, and romance, and love. Even if you’re not living with someone right now, you can use these ideas to make sure your long-distance situation stays vibrant and alive. Your situation may be different, but the psychology is the same. Thinking of you, friend. Matt ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

From Stephen (@stephenhhussey) People spend a lot of time asking the question: “How to do I get my partner to open up?” But they rarely think about the ways in which they regularly punish their partner whenever they want to reveal their beating vulnerable heart. The problem with just saying to someone, “you should open up more”, is that it’s a frustratingly vague request.  I’ve noticed that a huge amount of my emotional openness depends on feeling like I have the right environment to be free to express what’s really going on inside. So if you want your partner, family, or friends to open up emotionally, here are 4 worries that are probably going through their minds that need to be dealt with first...  

“WTF? Do not use this.” This is a comment I received last week. It was in response to a flirty little text that I suggested you use with the guy who is on your mind right now. In fact, this text really seemed to divide people. Someone even said it could result in “catastrophe.” And this comment had likes. A lot of them. W. T. F. So, despite the fact that I was going to move on to a different topic this week, my director Jameson Jordan politely (feistily) asked (demanded) that I respond to these comments. And I never say no to Jameson when he gets feisty. So, here is that response... You might be a little surprised by my response, because if you felt like the texts I suggested were a little dangerous, it might reveal a bigger, deeper, more important red flag at play. I hope you enjoy it. And if you don’t, please don’t leave any more comments that make Jameson make me do more work. I’m tired, and I’m in my pajamas. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Hey :) In today’s podcast, I’m bringing you some practical advice on how to flirt at a distance. Some “Quarantexts,” if you will. Ahem. Think of them as little bits of irresistible charm that you can send to the guy who is on your mind right now. These texts are designed to bring a smile to his face (and yours), as well as kick off a playful dynamic so you can develop (or strengthen) your bond – even when you’re not physically together. Just because we’re stuck inside it doesn’t mean we can’t flirt, whether it’s with someone we’ve been seeing for months or someone we just met. In fact, we must flirt – none of our romantic situations will survive without it. Thinking of you, friend. P.S. Stay to the end of the clip to get a whole list of cheeky texts you can use to keep the attraction going. #8 is my personal favorite – adorable and sexy at the same time. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

There’s a ridiculously simple principle Matt talks about in his seminars. So simple it seems kind of silly. Naïve even. But it’s actually great. It goes like this: “Make it a rule only to like people who like you back. If you can do that, you’ll never go wrong.” Sounds tough, I know.  After all, attraction isn’t a simple choice right? Many of us feel we have no control over who we become attracted to, which can often lead to that great generator of humanity’s worst misery and best poetry: Unrequited love. Unrequited love is when we fall hard in love with someone who don’t love us back. It’s the painful kind of obsession that keeps you awake at night, and sees you spending hours at your laptop obsessively scouring your crush’s Facebook profile praying that they don’t change their status to “in a relationship”, or that makes your stomach convulse at the thought of catching them kissing another person. If you've ever fallen hard for someone who doesn't return your feelings, here 5 reasons this happens and what you can do to get your life back...

Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from him ;) You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message he sends is like sweet honey for your brain. “Damn”, you think, “I’m an addict.” And then you fire a cute message back. And you wait...and wait… “Why isn’t he replying?” you want to scream to your friend on the couch next to you. But she’s too busy with her phone to notice. You try to shift focus, but you obsessively check for a text every 30 seconds. Sound familiar? We’ve all had this agony of “anxious waiting” with someone we like. It’s distracting, it’s unattractive, and it drains you of your peace of mind every minute you sit in limbo. If you’re sick of waiting for his text and want to finally take back your power, listen to this... --- Apply for our next retreat program at matthewhusseyretreat.com Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey 

One big myth I've heard from thousands of women is, "I'm only attracted to the guys who are BAD for me".  People tell ourselves the lie that there are either: (a) Boring, safe, dependable nice guys (b) Exciting, sexy assholes who will treat you badly In this episode, we blow apart this myth and show why UNIQUE PAIRINGS are the ultimate secret to attraction, and what you MUST look for in the guy you choose for a long-term relationship. Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Another week in isolation... This crisis is really putting a magnifying glass on my (alarmingly natural) gift for hibernation, as well as my capacity for eating chocolate. How about you? It’s also exposing a lot of cracks in relationships – both those under the same roof and the long-distance ones – as they strain under the weight of this “new normal.” Just this morning, I had the pleasure of working with a woman who is in my live coaching group, and she confided that she was having an issue with her boyfriend. Like many, she found herself in a long-distance relationship all of a sudden, as she and her guy self-isolate about 30 minutes from each other in their separate homes. I said to her, “That must be tough. Are you speaking every day?” Her answer revealed more than I anticipated... It quickly became clear to me that her needs were being ignored, and that she was ignoring a conversation she needed to have. Something I’m worried too many people are doing right now. If you’re in a similar situation, where you’re feeling scared to ask for what you need, then you need to hear this episode. Thinking of you. Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Get the FREE video training at TheBravestYou.com

A couple of episodes ago we asked you: What are the moments that made you fall in love in the past? We call these moments micro-attractions. Yes, you can find someone sexy. You can like the same movies. But it's those little behaviours that totally fly under-the-radar that make us say, "Holy crap! I've never met anyone like this before!" So, Steve dived into the inbox and looked at YOUR stories of the moments that made you fall head over heels and discuss what this tells us about long-term attraction.  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey   

Well hello there from isolation. Guess what? we made a new podcast for you. It’s about how to be a more interesting and engaging person in any interaction with someone through 5 quick principles you can instantly apply. And since most of us are having long-distance conversations with everyone right now, the ability to talk effectively has become utterly essential. These techniques will show you how to take your talking to another level. And I know they work because I live by them. They are relevant whether you’re in the same room with someone, sending voice notes to a new guy, or connecting with a love interest over the phone as we all social distance. (They also apply to business, so you get two for one in today’s episode.) Can’t wait to see what you think. If you want the free training I mention in the episode so that you can have MASSIVE impact in the First 5 Minutes of Any Interaction, click here to download your copy → http://www.First5Guide.com

What is the secret that makes a man look into a woman’s eyes and think, “She is the one for me?” It isn’t her looks. It isn’t her masters degree in literature. It isn’t the fact that she had the same favorite pizza place in the city (though that helped…). No, the reason he fell hard for this woman was because of something no one talks about… Maybe it’s happened to you before: You knew you kind of liked a guy, but then he did one special move that made your heart do a triple back flip – now you are crazy about him. How does this happen?? It’s not about fancy tricks, it’s about understanding this secret of deep, lasting attraction... Get Matt's free confidence training at GetCoreConfidence.com 

I don’t know about you, but I’m already exhausted by the avalanche of motivational quotes online right now. Advice everywhere. Everyone talking. It’s kind of numbing. Realistically, we’re not exactly focused on how to live our “best” life right now. We’re trying to keep ourselves and our families safe, salvage a few of our regular routines, and keep ourselves from devolving into a Netflix and Oreos spiral. Well, at least I am. And just like you probably do, I fluctuate between being OK and feeling intense melancholy about the situation. (I’m also sick of being taunted by home workout videos I’m not actually doing.) Anyway. If you can relate to any of this, I made this episode for you. I certainly haven’t got this all figured out. And you probably haven’t either. But I think there are some very manageable ways we can feel a little better right now, and release the pressure of the unrealistic expectations many of us are putting on ourselves in what is already a very difficult time. I explain them in this podcast. One day at a time, friends. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect with Me… Blog → https://www.howtogettheguy.com/blog/ Matt's Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Matt's Twitter → https://twitter.com/matthewhussey Stephen's Twitter → https://twitter.com/stephenhhussey

Time for a coronavirus Q&A! Today we're doing something a little different.  We promised we'd read out some listener emails, so it's time to dive into the mailbox and hear about YOUR experiences dating in the time of corona!  Topics include: being alone during a break up, how to love being single, and moving love forward when you can't leave the house.  Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey Download the FREE video training at GetCoreConfidence.com  

What a week... It’s a time of mixed emotions. Anxiety. Stress. Fear. Uncertainty. Boredom. Resentment about losing the year we thought we were going to have in 2020. This crisis is impacting people all over the world to varying degrees. And with how rapidly it is evolving, I have wanted to hold off on wading in with my opinions until I really felt I had something to say. Alongside all manner of life-related issues people are asking me about, they are, of course, eager to hear my answers to their love life questions during this time: How can I date during this time of social distancing? Should I move in with my ex so that I’m not alone in this time? How do I keep my (now) long-distance relationship alive? How can I handle living with someone I’ve never spent this much time with prior to isolating with them? How will I get through this if I feel totally alone? Whether you’re single and looking to meet someone special, or dating someone you can’t physically be with right now, or even if you’re in the middle of healing post-breakup… there is a silver lining I talk about in today’s special message... Please share this episode with anyone you know who needs it. And more than ever, I want to stress that I am here for you. We are a team. And we will get through this together. I love you, and I’m thinking of you. Email us all about your coronavirus story at [email protected] ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

“Is there anything I can do to rekindle the relationship with my ex?” It’s one of the biggest questions we have after a breakup. And if you’re finding yourself losing sleep at night, replaying conversations and events, wondering if there was anything you could have said or done to keep the relationship… then this episode is for you. It’s an example of a conversation you can have that will empower you to either rekindle your relationship with your ex… or get the closure you want so you can move on. P.S. I had the best time with Ashley ( and Rayna on the Girls Gotta Eat Podcast! Tap here to subscribe on iTunes! Follow the @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. - Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey - Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Download the free guide to dating after heartbreak at 3SecretsToLove.com!     

What can we do when crisis hits? How should we change our goals, our routines, our emotional response when our lives get shaken by unpredictable problems? As we face the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, Matt had a powerful conversation with renowned entrepreneur, speaker and author Ed Mylett (@EdMylett) to talk about what this means for us and how we can be a for for good in this crisis. In this episode we cover: What health routines Ed is using to keep fit while remaining indoors Better questions you can ask yourself to reframe moments of crisis How to do good when others are panicking (even if it's just for one person) What lessons we can learn from losing our usual comforts How to use this moment to set yourself up for a better future Follow Ed's podcast "The Ed Mylett Show" on iTunes.  Download Matt's free training at GetCoreConfidence.com Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey  

Ever been hurt or betrayed?   Maybe someone broke your trust, cheated, or took your love for granted...   If so, I’m really sorry. The pain that can come from heartbreak is unlike anything else. It’s sickening. But, there is something even more heartbreaking than heartbreak itself: Allowing the ghosts of the past to trick you into giving up on your next great love story.   If you’re finding it hard to open yourself up to love again… If you are spending your life avoiding rejection right now instead of going after what you really want…   If being vulnerable and letting your guard down scares you to death…   This new video is for you. It’s natural to want to protect your heart…   But if constantly playing defense is preventing you from meeting the REAL love of your life, you’ll never get to see just how much happiness your future still has in store for you. Come on. We’ve got this, you and I.   Let’s be courageous together. No more holding yourself back.   Let’s live!   If you KNOW it's time to finally transform your confidence and get the love you deserve, go to MatthewHusseyRetreat.com

Pull up a seat. It’s time we had an honest talk about men. When looking for love, I believe there’s no better way to start than by deeply understanding what drives the opposite sex. It teaches you not only the psychology of attraction, but also, how to avoid the wrong people who are driven by their worst instincts and toxic behavior. So in this episode, I sat down for a juicy conversation with my good friend Lewis Howes @lewishowes, host of the School Of Greatness podcast, to discuss the truth about masculinity, why certain men become “eternal bachelors”, and what this means for you as a woman in the dating scene. If you want to know how to spot which guys to date when it comes to finding commitment, you need to hear this… - Download my free guide: “5 Compliments Men Love To Hear” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com - Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey - Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Email the show at [email protected]      

Last episode we talked about how to respond to a flakey guy using “Bliss Point” text messages - which combines being salty and sweet to make someone WANT to pursue you and live up to your standards.  Except… Some of the more angry responses said things like: “Matt, why would I even think about being sweet to a guy who flakes on a date?? He should be chasing me already, and if not, I have a right to be angry when I text back…” To tell you the truth, I’m really glad these comments came up (and I kind of expected it). In this week’s podcast, we explain why this response relates to a huge mistake 99% of people make in dating. Make sure you don’t fall into this common trap... Email the show at [email protected] Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey, or Stephen @stephenhhussey on Twitter and Instagram!   

Most women are used to being told things like: “You need to make him work for it”, “You need to have standards”, “You need to respect yourself” But how do you actually do it? For example, if he sends you a flakey text on the night of a date, how should you respond to get him chasing again (whilst showing you have self-respect)? In this episode, we're going to give you 3 killer texts that show your standards, put you back in control, and double his attraction for you. Download the free guide at 9texts.com  

What is the limbo between being in a relationship and also not being in one? Recently it has been called a “situationship”: the moment when you’re in something more than a friendship but less than a relationship. There are obvious reasons one would choose this not-quite-a-relationship state of affairs for themselves. It’s flexible. It doesn’t ask you to give up huge chunks of your time. It lets both of you decide to get together only when you need temporary intimacy, or casual sex, or just a person to hang out with at the weekend. All well and good…in theory. The hard part is keeping things that way... Here are the 4 questions that tell you when it's time to leave your situationship and find the right person for you!  - Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey. - Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey. - Email the show at [email protected] 

Let's talk about masculinity. In 2020, there is still such a gap of understanding between men and women that deeply affects our romantic relationships and prevents us expressing our love fully and honestly. In this episode Matt explains: - How men struggle with vulnerability vs. expectations of "being a man" - Why men are afraid to be honest about their fears and inner feelings - What men AND women can do to make men feel safer expressing their honest emotions --- Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey, and Stephen @stephenhhussey on Instagram and Twitter.  Email the show with your thoughts at [email protected] Download the 5 Techniques To Get Him To Open Up at GetHimToTalk.com      

There's no easy way to talk about infidelity. It's a painful, difficult topic that evokes a strong emotional reaction. But it's also one that so many people face that I wanted to bring you one of the wisest voices out there on this topic: relationship expert, psychotherapist, and bestselling author Esther Perel! (@estherperelofficial)   Listen as we talk about why even happy people can be driven to cheat, what to do about it, and whether there is ever a path to recovering a relationship after infidelity.      Email your thoughts at [email protected]! 

When you fall in love, it's way too easy to start trying to fit someone into your world, even if their behaviour compromises your deepest values. You start to go off track, for weeks, months, years, until you're left asking, "How did I get here?"    If you've ignored the red flags for too long. Stop. Pause. Make a decision that NOW is the time to get back on track and listen to this message...

You might be the kind of person who is funny, joyful, and amazing to be around when you’re in a great mood. But what about when things get tough? Or stressful? Or when there’s conflict and problems? It’s time to ask the really important question that defines so many relationships: “how are you at your worst??” Listen to the episode to find out why this is one of the most defining parts of yourself you can ever work on to improve your love life... Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey, and Stephen @stephenhhussey  

*NEW SERIES* Could it be true? After 3+ years off the air…is our podcast ‘Love Life With Matthew Hussey’ really back?? YES. And what’s really exciting is that this time around I am joined by my brother, and co-writer of the New York Times bestselling Get The Guy book, Stephen Hussey! (@stephenhhussey) In fact, he’s going to be introducing each episode as we go on this new podcast adventure together. Exciting times! So whatever you’re doing right now, you don’t even need to stop it. Just fire up episode 1 in your car, or while you’re doing chores around the house, and let us know what you think! Today we talk about: Why The Wrong Guys ALWAYS Approach You. If you’ve wondered how to get the attention of the guy you really want instead of the ones you don’t, this episode for you! Send us your thoughts and feedback via email to [email protected] Enjoy!   Matthew x

  After you break up with your ex (unless you flee to another state or get an entirely new group of friends) chances are good you’ll run into him again. So let’s get you prepared for this inevitability. I’ll be honest – there’s no way it won’t be awkward, but if you get yourself in the right state of mind, it will be a lot less awkward. I’ll even give you a line to say to your ex that will immediately break the tension and make you both laugh. Think of this episode like a mini-survival guide; Use my advice and you may even leave the interaction feeling better about your breakup, and yourself, than before.

Ok… let’s answer this age-old question once and for all: Do men prefer women who are “hard to get,” or do they just want a woman who will take control and be the aggressor? The answer is – drumroll please – NEITHER! In this episode, I explain what “Men live for the ‘Maybe’” means, and tell you how you can attract the guy you’re interested in and challenge him to pursue you. In other words, you get to do the choosing, while he does the chasing. Hey, looks like the answer to that age-old question isn’t “neither,” but “BOTH,” after all. ;)

You love him. You want to be with only him. But he wants to keep his options open. He knows how much it hurts you that he can’t give you the commitment you want, so why does he stay in touch and keep stringing you along? The reason is simple. What you need to do about it, well, that’s the hard part. In today’s LOVE Life, I take a call from a young woman named Julia who’s in this painful situation. I explain what’s going on in his head and tell her how to respond. If you, too, have ever found yourself holding onto hope that a man will give you more because he’s not kind enough to let you go, don’t miss this episode.

Today’s caller has a really interesting question: She knows for certain that she wants to marry a man who’s Jewish, but she just “accidentally” had a great date with a man who isn’t. What should she do? We all have our dating deal breakers, religion-based or not, so this is an issue most everyone can relate to. I break down this tricky situation and, together, we’ll weigh the pros and cons of enjoying the now vs. cutting things off quickly before anyone gets hurt. 

You may be surprised by my message today. After all, I’m the first person to encourage you to be ambitious.  But I want to warn you of the danger of trying to be good at too many things or, at least, the tendency to label yourself as an expert in too many areas. I give you a real example from my own life, and share a brilliant quote from the infamous Jameson (who you may know from my YouTube videos) that will inspire you to stay focused on your passion.

Is it wise to date a guy who just got out of a relationship? How can you know if he’s actually ready to get serious with you now or if he’s still too hurt from the past? Actually, I can’t answer that for you… but HE can. Grab a pen, because in today’s episode, I’m going to give you 3 questions you can ask Mr. Recently Single to uncover his true feelings about his breakup and reveal what’s in store for you if you get involved with him now. I also give you an important warning and my #1 tip for protecting your heart while his heals.

  We all have insecurities about qualities we don’t have. Sometimes, gaining confidence is simply a matter of appreciating the other amazing qualities we do have. But today I want to share an even BIGGER secret to overcoming feelings of inadequacy about the things you want most, but lack. It begins with a simple mindset, and only takes one belief to become a reality. Before you tell yourself you can’t do something or put a negative label on yourself, please listen to this episode. It’s never too late…

Our caller, Karen, has a crush on her friend. She thinks there’s a chance he likes her too, but he’s very shy. Is there a way she can test the waters without risking too much, she wonders? Absolutely! In today’s LOVE Life, I’m going to give her – and you – my #1 strategy to take a friend from a familiar context to a flirty one (aka an actual date) without ever risking rejection. Before you know it, you’ll be on the road to romance, with the Friend Zone in your rear view mirror.

Recently, I picked up an iconic book for the first time that you likely read in your youth. (You’ll have to listen to this episode to find out what it is.) In this book, and the actions of its famous main character, I uncovered one of the most important life lessons that I also teach in my live seminars. I want to share it with you today because it’s a quick illustration of exactly what to do when you’re feeling low, abandoned or depressed… and gives you the secret recipe for overcoming weakness any time you feel it taking over. So grab a glass of wine and join our own (5-minute) mini book club for two!

See that handsome guy over there across the bar? He actually wants to approach you. But he’s way too terrified of being rejected to take a shot in the dark. He needs the right signals from you to make his move. In today’s episode of LOVE Life, I’m sharing 3 tips you can use tonight that make you instantly more approachable, along with a fascinating little fact about men that will literally change the way you look at them forever. Intrigued? Have a listen… But be warned, you may have to start turning the men away!

I’m going to let you in on a secret: Men desperately want to feel like real men. Even though we proudly use “product” in our hair and aren’t ashamed to cry at Pixar films, there’s still a part of us that loves it when our masculinity is validated by the women in our lives. So today I’m handing you 3 shockingly simple compliments you can give to your guy that will make him feel amazing around you. Say them cheekily, say them sweetly, it doesn’t matter – as long as you say them – and watch as he swells with pride and affection for you. (Yes, we really are that simple sometimes.)

It’s only natural to feel a little jealous of the “other woman” in your man’s life. But if your relationship is worth it, you can deal with a close female friend. However, the key is NOT his expecting you to just “get over it” – he’s got to meet you half way and be part of the solution. In today’s episode, I explain how you can adjust your attitude toward the situation, plus reveal the two, non-negotiable things you need from your partner to protect your ego – and your relationship.

  We all understand by now what “Late-Night Booty Call Guy” wants from you. But today we’re looking at a species with a different, much more confusing motive: “Man Who Just Wants to Cuddle.” What is really going on here? Does he want a girlfriend, or just a warm body to keep him company? I take a call from a brave woman named Nicky who admits she’s in this baffling situation with a man she really likes, and I give her advice on how to confront him and find out what he’s really after. Because if he literally wants to “Netflix and Chill,” that’s wasting her time when she could be out there finding someone who wants to cuddle… but only after the kind of intimacy that happens in a real relationship.

In today’s episode I take a question from a listener named Ashley, who believes that she’s doing all the right things to meet men, but can’t seem to understand why guys aren’t approaching her or asking her out. The bad news? She actually does need to make more of an effort than she realizes. The amazing news? She is actually only one millimeter off from meeting more men than she could possibly know what to do with! It only takes a tiny adjustment in what she’s (and probably you’re) doing right now. I explain exactly how to make this shift and even give you the cutest phrase you can use on a guy you like – stolen right from my own real-life story!

As a business owner who oversees a large team, I’m always striving to improve my skills as a manager. But, let’s face it: even when I’m in “boss mode,” I never really take my “relationship coach” hat off. So, the other day, when I was utilizing a management technique designed to give constructive criticism to staff while still inspiring them to do their best, it occurred to me – this technique would work wonders with a romantic partner, too! In today’s episode of LOVE Life, I’m going to share this simple, two-step technique that will help you communicate better with your man when you want to let him know you’re unhappy with his behavior– and get better results, every time.

I’m never too proud to use a personal anecdote to illustrate my point, even when the experience was a near-disaster. So, if for no other reason than you’re curious to hear the story of my failed TV show and the moment that a nasty contestant tried to tear my credibility to shreds in front of a live studio audience, you should check out this episode. But you should stay for my advice, because I’m going to use my own example to show you how to step into your personal power and control any tense situation without taking on anyone else’s negative energy. It’s my ultimate secret to having impact, and I’m sharing it with you today.  

Our caller, Halima, is worried. She’s got a huge crush on a guy at work. And while that situation brings all of its usual complications – what if she makes her feelings known and gets rejected…and then it’s awkward in the lunchroom? What if they end up dating but it doesn’t work out, and then he’s ‘the guy at work that dumped her?’ – she’s got an even bigger concern: She wants a relationship but is concerned he’s just after a ‘hook up.’ In today’s LOVE Life, I break down the situation, help her figure out how to read his signals, and decide whether it’s worth her putting in the “work” to make it happen (pun intended) ;).

Confession: I don’t really care much for Valentine’s Day. But it is upon us, and the sappy engagement ring television commercials and greeting card stores won’t let us forget it. So no matter how you feel about the holiday – romantic and hopeful, jaded and cynical or, like me, just plain indifferent – let’s take this opportunity to learn three simple things that will instantly improve your love life today. Oh, and we might as well eat some chocolate while we’re at it.   

  I made a colossal mistake the other day on national television. Want to hear the embarrassing story? I’ll tell you in this episode. Not just because I’ve gotten good at laughing at myself for moments like this (though I have – and that’s one of the lessons here), but because it will teach you 3 crucial things to spare you from hurt next time you make a mistake. (Which you will. Because you’re human.) And how do you deal when other people think you’re a screw-up? I give you one amazing piece of advice on how to prove them wrong. 

There are few things in life that hurt worse than loving someone who doesn’t love you back. It can make you question your own value: If someone I hold in such high esteem doesn’t think I’m worthy of a relationship with him, then something must really be wrong with me. In today’s LOVE Life, I’ll help you understand why this isn’t true, and we’ll take a look at some of the real reasons why it didn’t work out. I’ll also give you my best advice on what to do while your heart is healing and how to know for sure when the right person for you comes along.

Contrary to popular belief, arguments themselves aren’t what damage relationships; it’s the amount of time that we take to recover after an argument. But no matter how compatible you are with your partner, disagreements are inevitable. So today, I’m going to teach you my secret weapon to end an argument as quickly as possible using six powerful words. When you say these, you’ll immediately switch from being adversaries to teammates and get right into solving the problem…so you can shift your focus from fighting to the fun part: making up.

You broke up with him…and broke his heart. But time has passed, and now he wants to try to be friends. You miss hanging out and having a laugh with him, so what’s the harm? After all, you’re totally over those romantic feelings. The problem is, he isn’t. Is this “friendship” a good idea? What if he has ulterior motives to try to get back together? That’s what our caller, Tyrie, wants to know in today’s episode of LOVE Life. Whether you’ve been on one side of this relationship or the other, I know you’ll relate to the “friends with an ex” dilemma too, so be sure to listen in for my advice on how to handle this situation with honesty and compassion so no one reopens the wounds of the past.

  We all do it: Make To-Do lists a mile long and then tell ourselves we’ve had a productive day if we’ve checked off a bunch of “stuff” before our head hits the pillow. But is that really the measure of a significant life? In today’s episode I argue that working hard doesn’t necessarily equal growing, and accomplishing tasks doesn’t necessarily equal real accomplishment. I offer a different way to look at your “to-dos” and suggest a series of questions you can ask yourself to ensure you’re getting the balance and sustainable success that brings true meaning to your day – and your life.   

Stop everything and listen to this episode right now. In it, I’m going to give you a quick tip that will get you immediate results with that nagging “to-do” you’ve been putting off forever. (You know which one I’m talking about.) Overwhelm has stood in your way of accomplishing something important for way too long, and today we’re going to “break the seal” and just start the damn thing. OK? OK! Hit “play” and let’s go…

So you’ve got strong feelings for a guy… He’s funny, he’s handsome, he’s kind, but there’s just one tiny problem: he just so happens to be your good friend’s ex-boyfriend. What do you do? Is it possible to date him and NOT screw up your friendship forever? In today’s episode, we look at the two issues at the core of this tricky dilemma, and I give you the only solution that could possibly make the situation work. I even hand you a script you can use to talk it out with your BFF that might just get her on board with the idea so you can actually have it both ways. (You’re welcome.)

Should you be ashamed of The Booty Call? If you’re just having fun, and you’re really ok with a casual fling, then I say, go for it. The problem is, there’s often more going on behind this so-called “arrangement” – feelings, expectations, unexpressed hopes…and emotional issues that run very deep. Who’s to blame when the balance of power goes awry? And what should you do if you decide you want more? We unravel this sticky entanglement in today’s LOVE Life, and I help you decide if your Booty Call really makes you happy, or if you should hang up on him for good.

As someone who gives love advice for a living, I’ve heard it all. Or so I thought… until I got this insane email question from a listener. Now let me clarify that the question is gross not in a raunchy way (although there is a sexual component to it; nothing too scandalous)… but because of the self-centered, transactional nature of the relationship it depicts. At this point you’ll probably tune in because I’ve piqued your curiosity, but I encourage you to listen because there’s a lesson we can all learn here about – if nothing else – what NOT to do in a healthy relationship.

Ok, here’s the formula to calculate the time it should take to get over your breakup: Grab a pen. I’ll wait…OK, now add the number of months you were together, and divide it by the number of fights you had about getting married and then… Come on, you know as well as I do that there’s no magic number when it comes to grieving the loss of your ex. But there IS a secret to lessening the pain and moving on to an exciting new beginning. In today’s episode, I tell you how.

“Be yourself.” To most people, this means, “you’re perfect, just as you are.” (Or, at worst, it’s considered a harmless cliché.)  But I believe this is awful advice, and in today’s LOVE Life I’m going to tell you why.  By the end of my rant – ahem, by the end of this episode – you’ll discover the mindset that will actually allow you to stretch beyond the “you” you always have been, and to grow, achieve, and become the absolute best version of “yourself.”

“There’s so much PASSION with this new guy I’m dating! We can’t keep our hands off of each other!” “I just want a job I can feel PASSIONATE about…” People throw around the “P” word every day, and it certainly sounds like something to strive for. After all, you should feel strongly about the important things in life, right? Well, in this episode of LOVE Life, I share my opinion on the topic of passion. It’s slightly controversial, but I think you’ll agree with me when you understand my reasoning behind it. So let everyone else chase the “sugar rush” of passion. Meanwhile, you can pursue something worthwhile that actually lasts.

Ok, you’ve got a million things to do today, and you’re not going to rest until you get it all done. So you work and you grind and you keep checking off your list until…you just hit a wall. You’re out of energy, you’re out of motivation, your list is still a mile long and – wait – what? It’s only 11am? We’ve all had days like this, and when they happen, we either a) just give up or b) try to “push on through” to get it all done, at which point we… just give up. Well today’s message is a must-listen, because I’ve got a totally counter-intuitive mind hack that’s going to help you squeeze much more productivity out of a less-than-motivated day. You’ll be shocked to learn what it is. Hint: You may even get to knock off with a cocktail at 4pm.

“Can you make it to my birthday tonight,” asks your friend who’s planned an annoyingly hipster “drinks thing” in a totally inconvenient neighborhood, starting at 11pm on a rainy Friday night when you’re exhausted and all you want to do is go home and binge on Netflix in your PJs. Do you say “yes” to spare her feelings…and bail later? Or be honest up front and risk disappointing her? What about when your boss asks if you can complete that big project by Monday? Do you agree even though you doubt you’ll have the time or the resources to follow through? In today’s episode of LOVE Life, we’re talking about why your word is the most important thing you have, and why the people who count on you will respect you more when you say the difficult thing first rather than let them down later.

I strongly believe we all have the power to create incredible lives. I even designed a 5-day Retreat process that helps thousands of women around the world, twice a year, do it in a radical way. So why am I, of all people, warning you against “following your dreams?” In today’s episode, I explain why motivational speeches and Instagram quotes actually set you up for failure. But don’t despair – I also share the real path to getting what you want most in life. It may not be dreamy, but it works.

Oh, hey, you left something on the table there… it’s ALL OF THE MONEY YOU’RE WASTING by not negotiating for the things you want! I know, it can be intimidating to ask for a discount or a raise, but a confident person knows her worth and speaks up to get what she deserves. Which is why I’m sharing with you today my 3 Insider Tips to Negotiate Like a Pro. I’ll even give you an opening line you can use with anyone to start the conversation off on the right foot, while still making sure YOU walk away on the winning end of the deal. 

Grab a pen and paper, because I’ve got a (fun) little assignment for you today! I’m going to give you a tip that you can use today that will transform the most important relationships in your life, year-round. You’ll be surprised to learn how simple this tiny, yet powerful, action is to implement, and how much it will mean to the people you care about.

You know me by now. So you know that once in a while I just can’t hold back. I have to rant. And today, my friend, you’re going to hear it. We’re talking about holiday travel. Specifically, airline travel. But I’m not going to do that overdone schtick about airplane food or security lines. I’ve got something original to complain about. But you also know that behind my rants I always have a deeper message to share with you. So buckle up and listen in: I’ve got a challenge that will make not only your holiday travel easier, but your whole life more enjoyable as well. 

In today’s LOVE Life, I take a question from a caller named Crystal who wants to know why she’s 28 and can’t seem to find long-term love. I catch her off guard with a few unexpected questions, but before long I get to the root of what’s really going on.  I reveal the one essential element that makes men see a woman as more than a friend, and share how to create it even in the trickiest circumstances. If you’re interested in a serious relationship, don’t miss this episode.

Meeting your boyfriend’s family for the first time can feel like a lot of pressure… especially when he saves your introduction for a big holiday get-together. What should you say? How should you act? Should you bring a gift and, if so, what??? First of all: breathe. You’ve got this. I’m going to take you through my simple, 3-step survival guide that will tell you exactly what to do. I’ll also share a secret that will take all of the pressure off. Hint: You actually don’t have to worry about impressing his family after all. 

We’ve all done it: Stressed ourselves out before a trip by making epic to-do lists, cramming our suitcase full of the books we think we “should” read while we’re away, and all other manner of sucking the fun out of traveling. Well have I got a TO-DO list for you, and it’s packed with 5 tips to actually make your next trip more enjoyable. Consider this your upgrade to first class relaxation! 

Just trust me when I say this: You need to tune in to this episode of LOVE Life. I’m sharing with you an email I received from a woman who has a rather, how shall I put it… unusual obstacle to finding love, specifically in December. When I first read it I thought, well this is insane. But then I realized: This is her excuse. This is the story she tells herself that keeps her from putting herself “out there” and meeting men. So what’s YOUR excuse? We’re going to talk about this obstacle today and I’ll give you a challenge to overcome yours for good.

Most people don’t realize it, but there’s actually more to being a good dinner guest than remembering to bring a nice bottle of wine. Sure, your hosts want to entertain you, but you’ve also been invited because they find you entertaining. In today’s episode, I’ve got 5 quick tips that will help you to bring your best self to the table (pun intended) and add value to the evening. Warning: May result in massive popularity and an increasingly busy social calendar well beyond the holiday season.

Is it really possible to “have it all?” And if so, what does it take to get “it” so we can finally be happy? Everyone – from your best friend to your work colleague to the latest self-help “guru” – seems to have a different opinion on the matter. Well, in today’s LOVE Life, I argue that we’re actually all asking the wrong question. I’ll explain how to identify exactly what you DO want and why happiness (and balance) is a lot easier to achieve than you may think.

It’s kind of ridiculous, when you think about it, just how much time and energy we waste stressing over how to make the perfect first move. What would happen if we just dropped the pretense and showed a little interest, for God’s sake? In today’s episode, I’m taking you back to basics with the simplest – and CUTEST – flirtation that will immediately get a guy’s attention. It’s brilliant because it puts the power in your hands to make the first move, but it’s so irresistible that, suddenly, he’ll be the one chasing you. 

If you dream of kissing someone special at midnight this New Year’s Eve, but you don’t have anyone in your life right now, it’s actually not too late. I’ve got a challenge for you… well, it’s going to require you to get out of your PJs and away from that cozy fireplace but I promise you it’s worth it because… it’s going to get you meeting all kinds of exciting new men. Who knows, one of them might just be Mr. Right of 2017! To help you make this happen, I’ve got a special free gift just for you, but you’ve got to listen all the way to the end to find out how to get it…

You’ve had your eye on Jeff from accounting all year, but you’ve never had the guts to let him know. Now your office Christmas party is here. You’re all dressed up, the cocktails are flowing and, suddenly, anything is possible. You’re feeling flirty, but you don’t want to say the wrong thing or you risk work being very awkward on Monday morning. Look, there’s Jeff right now! What do you say? Well you’re in luck… In this episode of LOVE Life I’m giving you 3 original, adorable, and completely risk-free flirting tips that will break the ice and transform you – in any guy’s eyes – from work colleague to total catch.

The holidays can be a magical time of new romance and quality time spent with family… But attempting to combine the two? Now that can get stressful. So is there a way to invite the guy you’re dating over to your house for an eggnog without making things seem too serious and freaking him out? Actually, yes. It’s quite simple, and in this episode I’ll give you a word-for-word script you can use that takes all the pressure off and makes him want to meet you under the mistletoe…even if it means meeting your mom, too.

“How thoughtful of you! I love it!” There’s nothing better than hearing those words when you hand a present to someone you care about. But what makes someone a thoughtful gift giver? It’s not an innate quality; it’s a skill that can be learned. In today’s episode, I’m going to share my secret action plan to help you gather clues about the memorable (not expensive) things that will delight your loved ones. Listen up and you’ll be ready – at the holidays, and year-round – to gift them something great.

How do you keep a guy’s interest when you really like him? Do you make him wait for a kiss until after the first date? Hold off on intimacy for as long as possible to show him you’re “not that kind of girl?” Some women think so… until they have a moment of weakness (aka attraction), and break their game of “hard to get.” Then they panic – will he still want me now? In today’s LOVELife, I’ll tell you exactly what I think of playing “Hard to Get,” explain the danger of creating a rule that’s not reality, and give you a script you can use to pump the breaks and reclaim your standard for intimacy while still building attraction.

There’s been a lot of talk about who should pick up the check on a date (my video on this topic went viral recently with over 18 million views!). Many people seem to think the rules of paying in the “courtship phase” are pretty black-and-white. But what about when you’ve been seeing someone for a while and money matters get more complicated than who’s grabbing the movie popcorn? In today’s LOVELife, I go beyond the basics of “who pays for a date” to discuss how to handle it when your partner has more disposable income than you. I’ll show you how to contribute the best way you can to the activities you share, while also gracefully allowing him to treat you, so you can keep the balance of the relationship in tact. 

It’s no secret that if you want to meet Mr. Right, you have to actually get off your couch. But it can be hard to leave the comfort of home (and Netflix) when you’re uncertain about the situation (What’s the party going to be like? What if I get there and none of my friends show up? Will any guys actually talk to me?). In today’s episode, I share with you a magical, 5-word phrase my friend, famous fashion stylist, and fellow secret introvert Louise Roe told me that changed my ability to motivate myself forever. Say these words to yourself and you’ll open your world up to meeting all kinds of great new guys (starting with opening up your front door!).

Breakups would be a lot easier if feelings were black-and-white. But it’s the shades of grey – we really did love each other, maybe we could have made it work if we shared the same goals – that make them so painful. And make it so difficult for you to trust your decision. Today I take a call from a listener named Tika who just ended a serious relationship after four years and wants to know if she’s done the right thing. I help her sort through her feelings and give her an exercise to use when she’s feeling tempted to go back to the “safety” of what’s familiar. If you’re going through a breakup, this one tip is something you can use right away to instantly boost your confidence in your decision to move on to something better.

Listen up, “Type A” ladies – this one’s for you! If you find yourself so intensely driven to achieve your goals that there’s no time for much else, trust me and take the next 5 minutes to listen to today’s episode. I’m sharing with you my life lessons from years of obsessively focusing on reaching the next milestone in my career. You may be surprised at what I discovered after attaining a certain level of success. I’ll tell you what really buys you freedom, and the truth about what makes you rich. It’s not what you think, and it’ll free you up to actually enjoy your life in the process.

You’re really into this new guy you’re seeing, but as much as you’d like to take things to the next level, he hasn’t even mentioned commitment. So like the smart Get the Guy student you are ;), you keep your options open and continue to go out with other guys. Now you have a dilemma: Do you tell Mr. Maybe-Right you’re dating other men? And, if so, how will that impact your budding relationship? In today’s episode, I show you how to handle yourself in a graceful way that doesn’t use the situation as an ultimatum, yet still shows him how much you’re in demand.

Do you feel entitled to the things you’ve “earned” in your career – title, status, salary, perks – because of how much time you’ve put in to your job? What about the attention, affection and devotion you get in romantic relationships – do you deserve this treatment for “sticking it out” with your partner?  If you think this way, I’ve got a major wake up call for you today. This may be a bit different from my usual LOVELife advice, but I strongly recommend you tune in, because I’m going to teach you the one secret to make sure no one else ever “steals your spot” and how to become indispensable in every relationship.

Getting a new relationship off the ground can be tough. Pacing is everything, and if one person emotionally gets ahead of the other too quickly, it can cause major problems. In today’s episode, I take a call from a woman named Tiffany who’s not sure how to regain her footing in a relationship after her self-professed “clingy” behavior caused her guy to suggest they see other people. I show her how to make her happiness a priority, which could end up restoring the balance in her current relationship… or lead to a new relationship with a man who’s even better for her.

Imagine this: You’re casually dating a guy you really like. He makes plans with you on a Monday for the following weekend, and says he’s looking forward to seeing you, and then… SILENCE. Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday…no phone calls, no texts, nothing. What does this mean? Is he still into you or has he completely forgotten about you in the meantime? What should you do? Should you call or text HIM? Or would that seem desperate? This is what our caller, Anna, wants to know. I talk her through this tricky situation, lend her some insight about what’s going on in her guy’s mind and give her some surprising advice. If you know a man who disappears in between dates, don’t miss this episode of LOVELife. 

There’s a common misconception that, in order to achieve big things, you need to “stay hungry.” But is that really the truth? Is the key to living an ambitious life never being satisfied with what you have? I challenge that belief in today’s episode of LOVE Life, and reveal what I think is the one (counter-intuitive) attitude that actually fuels ambition and leads to real achievement. It certainly has proven true in my life, and I’ll explain how it will work in yours. Hint: It allows you to be happy NOW, rather than waiting for the moment when you reach that big goal.  

We’ve all been there. You send a fairly benign text, and the other person texts you back something like “Hmmm….OK.” What does THAT mean? It seems like they misread your tone. Are they annoyed with you now? Mad, even? So you text back, “What’s up with you?” And then they text back, “What’s up with YOU???????” Before you know it, you’re in a Negative Text-Tone Spiral. Well, I’ve got the simple solution to break this frustrating cycle, and it’s going to save you HOURS of time and emotional anguish. So put down your phone and listen to this episode now…

It’s inevitable: Everyone argues with his or her partner from time to time. But we have to be careful; Often, the people we love the most are the ones we end up hurting the most with our words. In today’s episode of LOVE Life, I’m giving you my 3 rules to fight fair in an argument to protect your relationship from the irreversible damage caused by the top 3 miscommunication mistakes. (#1 might surprise you!)  

In our last episode (“Quieting the Voice in Your Head [Part 1]”), we discussed how your inner voice directs your thoughts and feelings and, when allowed to run rampant, can distract you from relaxing and enjoying your life. In today’s episode – Part 2 – I’m going to share with you the secret to quieting the voice in your head. It may be something you’ve heard before, but I’m going to demystify it and give you the simple steps to put it into practice. By learning how to focus on the present, you’ll be a much happier person – starting now.

Do you hear that? It’s the voice in your head… reminding you of your to-do list, nagging at you about your insecurities, analyzing that confusing text you got from your guy last night. This voice is normal, but it can cause problems if it becomes too loud and drowns out your ability to relax. In this episode of LOVE Life – Part 1 of 2 – I’ll hand you one strategy to separate yourself from your inner voice, and give you a challenge that will set you up to learn the ultimate solution in Part 2.

I’ve got a bit of a different message for you today. It’s a lesson I learned from – of all places – my local hipster coffee shop. No matter what your career, from billionaire business owner to bartender, you’re going to want to hear the tip I have for you. It’s all about creating loyalty with small, simple actions we can do every day.

A dead-end career…A lackluster love life…It can feel impossible to stay motivated when more than one important area of your life isn’t going your way. So how do you climb out of a life funk when you’re completely overwhelmed by where to begin? It’s easier than you think (hint: you can start seeing results as soon as TONIGHT) and I’ll show you exactly how to do it in this episode of LOVE Life.  

Do you ever feel judged by the people in your life for the decisions you make or your desire to try new things? Ever wish you could just do what you want without worrying about what other people think? Well, you can, and I’m going to show you how. First, it starts with an internal mindset shift. Then, there are two external reactions I’ll teach you that will instantly disarm those “judge-y” friends and possibly even win them over to your side. Either way you’ll be free to do what you want, and they’ll be left without a leg to stand on. 

If you don’t have a clear vision for what you want in life and an action plan to achieve it, it’s easy to become overwhelmed, or worse, completely paralyzed. Fear of the unknown, fear of the path being tough, fear of making a mistake…these can all hold you back from a fulfilling life of all of the wonderful things you deserve. The good news is, there’s only ONE thing you need to do to take control of your life and begin to get clarity: Just. Start. Taking. Action. I explain how in today’s episode of LOVE Life.   

Do you ever feel judged by the people in your life for the decisions you make or your desire to try new things? Ever wish you could just do what you want without worrying about what other people think? Well, you can, and I’m going to show you how. First, it starts with an internal mindset shift. Then, there are two external reactions I’ll teach you that will instantly disarm those “judge-y” friends and possibly even win them over to your side. Either way you’ll be free to do what you want, and they’ll be left without a leg to stand on. 

Why does it seem so difficult meet people as an adult? When you’re in a new city, job, or situation, it can feel embarrassing to try to make new friends. Well, guess what? We all feel this way, and yet most people do want to enjoy a great social life with fun and interesting people. So it’s time drop the shame. I’ve got 4 tips to help you connect with new people and strike up friendships. Before you know it, you’ll be out on the town with your new crew!