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There's No Such Thing as Balance | Episode #52
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I dive into why the concept of balance is misleading and how it's holding you back. Inspired by a thought-provoking discussion during my book club's reading of "Regrets of the Dying," I share my insights on how striving for balance often leads to feelings of guilt and shame, especially for women.
7/31/2024 • 15 minutes, 4 seconds
The Problem with Asking 'What's Wrong with Me?' | Episode #51
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I get honest about how this question impacts us and how we can shift our focus from self-criticism to inspired action.
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6/28/2024 • 7 minutes, 9 seconds
Reflections on 'A Place of Refuge' | Episode #50
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I delve into the complexities of grief, address some uncomfortable truths, and share reflection questions to help you process your own experiences with loss.
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6/7/2024 • 18 minutes, 52 seconds
Finding Comfort in God's Vastness | Episode #49
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I delve into the profound concept of God's vastness and mercy amidst our human imperfections.
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3/30/2024 • 6 minutes, 52 seconds
Overnight Success and the Long Game of Personal Growth | Episode #48
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I explore the illusion of overnight success and the desire for shortcuts in personal development, and the impact that has.
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2/28/2024 • 10 minutes, 38 seconds
Navigating Life Transitions | Episode 47
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I get real about the challenge of life transitions, and share practical tips for you to navigate these life shifts with grace, so you have a newfound appreciation for your own God-given capacity.
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1/30/2024 • 13 minutes, 27 seconds
Hindsight 20/23: My 12 Biggest Lessons | Episode #46
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I share reflections from a year of journaling and pull out my 12 biggest lessons from 2023 as actionable insights you can apply in the new year.
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12/30/2023 • 25 minutes, 40 seconds
There's Still Hope | Episode #44
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I delve into the topic of despair — a feeling that grips many of us, yet we rarely discuss, and share why losing hope in God is the realest loss.
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11/28/2023 • 12 minutes, 30 seconds
Reflections on Dualities in a Time of Crisis | Episode #44
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I reflect on the existence of dualities in this world and how embracing these dualities is a sign of our humanity, especially during times of crisis.
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10/29/2023 • 7 minutes, 19 seconds
Why You Take No Personally | Episode 43
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I unpack the reality of what's going on when we take someone's no personally, and give you some useful questions to help you pause getting into a funk. DISCLAIMER: This is not referring to abusive situations or toxic relationships.
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9/5/2023 • 11 minutes, 25 seconds
Your Behaviour Isn't Your Identity | Episode 42
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I explain how your behaviour isn't your identity, and a truth that The Most High shares with us to illustrate this.
7/29/2023 • 10 minutes, 28 seconds
The Problem with Focusing on Your Past | Episode 41
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I interrupt the past-present loop and shine light on a truth many of us would rather not hear when it comes to focusing so much on our past experiences.
6/29/2023 • 12 minutes, 5 seconds
Your Feelings Are Valid And... | Episode 40
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I unpack the oft-quoted statement 'my feelings are valid', and explore the uncomfortable truths about the phrase.
4/28/2023 • 7 minutes, 59 seconds
Reflections on Atomic Habits | Episode 39
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I share my reflections, ah-has, and OMGs from reading Atomic Habits for our book club and one of the many wins I gained from the book.
3/26/2023 • 17 minutes, 45 seconds
Emotional Walls | Episode 38
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I get real about the reality of emotional walls, why we have them, and some ways we can start examining them and edge towards bringing them down.
1/27/2023 • 13 minutes, 14 seconds
Gems from Australia | Episode 37
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I share the key takeaways and gems I got to excavate and mine from eight incredible days in Australia in November 2022.
12/31/2022 • 12 minutes, 23 seconds
The Harms of Toxic Positivity | Episode 36
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I share the harms that can come from toxic positivity, and the number one thing we can do to live in a healthier positive space.
10/24/2022 • 17 minutes, 34 seconds
Waiting for Others to Make You Happy | Episode 35
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I dive deeper into our need for others to emotionally ‘feed’ us, and share two important questions you must ask yourself and be clear on first before ‘how’ not to do that.
9/26/2022 • 9 minutes, 15 seconds
Inner Child Work without Revisiting the Past | Episode 34
In the latest episode of LaYinka Speaks, I share some ways you can do that, so you benefit from inner child work and remain emotionally regulated.
8/29/2022 • 3 minutes, 15 seconds
Releasing vs Letting Go | Episode 33
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I share the difference between 'release' and 'let go' and how changing a single word can bring about a powerful shift.
7/28/2022 • 8 minutes, 41 seconds
Truths and Challenges of Being a People Pleaser | Episode 32
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I unpack the truths and challenges of people pleasing, so you can recognise if, how, and when you abandon yourself in order to feel loved.
6/28/2022 • 22 minutes, 28 seconds
Stay Afloat with Hope | Episode 31
The word hope has been coming up a lot for me lately, and has been helping me stay afloat. In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I share some reflections as I sit with the word hope.
5/26/2022 • 4 minutes, 43 seconds
Is Silence Really Golden | Episode 30
Is your silence really golden?
In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, I share the importance of not only speaking up and quitting self-denial, but also speaking with purpose to effect the changes that you want to see.
3/19/2022 • 7 minutes, 25 seconds
A Reality Of Healthy Relationships | Episode 29
Relationships make up a mahoosive part of our lives.
(Unless you live in a cave and never interact or connect with anyone. Ever.)
In this episode, I share a reality of our relationships that can be the difference that makes the difference in our experience of them.
2/24/2022 • 7 minutes, 42 seconds
The Saviour Complex | Episode 27
As someone who loves, loves, loves helping people, both personally and professionally, I’ve had to check myself.
In the latest episode of LaYinka Speaks, I open up about my own realisations about helping people, and I shed light on how this desire to help others may be a subconscious cry for help.
12/29/2021 • 6 minutes, 34 seconds
Seeking Validation and Permission | Episode 26
The approval of others. As someone who has struggled mahoosively with this, I know how it is and its impact when you exhaust all your efforts seeking it. Listen to this episode of LaYinka Speaks, where I get real about external validation and where seeking the approval of others stems from.
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