If you’re really exhausted wishing you could get a grip on your feelings and make decisions without being scared that you might make the wrong one, then this might be the podcast for you.
I was in India many moons ago, wishing I had the emotional strength and willpower to leave an unhealthy relationship. I remember being curled up in a ball, tears running off my face, and soaking the mattress where my face was mashed into.
I wished I had someone like me to help me understand why taking that step and getting out was so hard.
I was young, and I didn’t want to die miserably. But I was scared that I might make the wrong move.
I was emotionally strong. I was smart and had a successful journalism career. It made logical sense to leave. But I couldn’t get my mind and emotions to believe what my logic knew. That was because I didn’t understand how my past experiences affected my present feeling and decisions.
I had to learn the connection between my body and mind before I could change anything to get the kind of life and relationship I wanted.
✅ I studied psychology
✅ I learned about attachment styles
✅ I learned how my past experiences triggered emotions
✅ I learned how cultural and traditional beliefs influence our feelings and decisions
✅ I learned that empathy is the tool for emotional freedom
✅ I learned what they meant when they said, “set boundaries,” and it’s not what we think it means.
I made a conscious decision to work on becoming free of hurt, anger, and fear decades ago. I wanted to be detached from everything and everyone so that I could love unconditionally. That will make more sense as you listen to this podcast ( if you choose to subscribe ? ).
And I did exactly what I set out to do so many years ago.
I have never felt more in control of my life and free. And I will teach you everything I have learned here. So, if you want to free yourself from every time someone says or does something hurtful, join me on this journey. Of course, you are more than encouraged to invite your friends and family who may want to come along to free themselves too.
You can also follow me on TikTok, Instagram, Youtube, and Facebook. ?
What do I do?
Most people know what they want but don’t know how to get it. That’s because they don’t know who they are as yet. I dig deep and get to know them because everyone is different, and when I get to know them, I know how to help them to get what they want.
What do I call myself?
I am a Humanologist, which means that I study the science of why people act and think the way they do.
What makes my heart sing?
Nothing makes me happier than seeing hope in a person’s eyes after they realize they can be okay again after their heart has been broken.
Why
Nothing breaks my heart more than knowing someone feels alone, unwanted, or not good enough.
What do I lead people to?
I believe the bottom line of true happiness and success lies in how we feel about ourselves, how we feel in our relationships, and what legacy we want to leave for our children.
How To Heal Insecurities
Send us a textHealing, our insecurities, can go a very far away and helping our relationships to flourish. Insecurities can add a burden on the relationship and can lead to an inevitable end.This podcast covers how we could heal our insecurities which are linked to our attachment styles. This podcast will give you tips and exercises to do as well as explain why these work. Feel free to follow me across social media for everything related to being more aware of our attachment styles and healing them.Support the show
10/24/2024 • 23 minutes, 33 seconds
Narcissism and Avoidant Attachment Style
Send us a textIt can be confusing when you’re with someone who’s got to avoid attachment style and they’re acting like what we believe a narcissist would act like. This episode clears that up for us and helps us to embrace the person with an avoidant attachment style with compassion, and run as far away as we can from someone who’s got a narcissistic personality disorder.Support the show
10/22/2024 • 20 minutes, 3 seconds
Avoidant Attached Broke Up Suddenly
Send us a textThis is a common phenomenon that most people with an anxious attachment style will experience if they dated someone with an avoidant attachment style. That is of the Avoidant Attached person suddenly running away after a conflict or breaking up. It can be really confusing for their partner and this episode helps us to appreciate why they do it and what we can do. Support the show
9/23/2024 • 1 minute, 28 seconds
Avoidant Overwhelm With Texting. Why?
Send us a textThis episode helps you to appreciate why and Avoidant Attached person may feel overwhelmed with text messaging and what it means when they don’t respond right away. This episode also helps you to make some decisions through awareness and how to approach texting with an Avoidant Attached partner.Support the show
9/18/2024 • 13 minutes, 43 seconds
When TO reach Out After 3 Months Of No Contact
It’s tricky to know when to reach out to an avoidant attached partner. This episode. helps you to make that decision, but also talks about whites. Important to stay away and what happens in the minds of an avoidant attached partner as they’re taking space. It also helps you to appreciate what you can do in this time. Feel free to follow me across social media for more attachment styles or you can visit my website for articles. Feel free to send me your questions and share this episode if you found helpful. Support the show
9/11/2024 • 11 minutes, 25 seconds
WHY AVOIDANT ATTACHED CHEATS
Avoidance styles play significant role in shaping our behaviors and interactions in relationships. Individuals with an avoidant attachment style, may struggle with intimacy, emotional closeness, leading to challenges and maintaining healthy connections with their partners. One common issue that may arise as infidelity or cheating with Relationship.Understanding why someone with an avoidant attachment style may cheat requires a closer look at their underlying motivations and behaviors.This podcast aims to address that question. Support the Show.
7/15/2024 • 12 minutes, 48 seconds
7 REASONS AVOIDANT ATTACHED AVOID CONFLICTS
You’re probably trying to understand why it is your partner does not engage in conflict or worse, they walk away when a conflict begins. What can even be a little more confusing as when they return without discussing the problem at all; pretending like it never happened in the first place.This episode tries to bring about some awareness to what happens in the mind of those with an avoidant attachment style during times of conflict. It’s also aims to share some reasons for their actions.Support the Show.
6/27/2024 • 13 minutes, 2 seconds
The Human Behind The Avoidant
We’re all very interested in what happens in the mind of a person who’s got an avoidant attachment style. This podcast may be for you if you’re also one of the many, who is interested in knowing what is going on behind the walls.Support the Show.
6/4/2024 • 6 minutes, 49 seconds
BLACK CAT- GOLDEN RETRIEVER & ATTACHMENT STYLES
The goal is not to mimic the energy of a golden retriever or a black cat, but embrace our authentic self and build secure attachments that allow us to be vulnerable, connected, and truly seen in our relationships. If you’d like to know more about this, this is the podcast for you.Support the Show.
5/28/2024 • 8 minutes, 31 seconds
Does The Attraction Return - Avoidant Attachment
The question is does the attraction return after an avoidant ex partner leaves the relationship. And how long does it take for that attraction to return if it does.Remember, it’s also important to take into consideration of what the relationship was like and why it ended.Support the Show.
5/6/2024 • 7 minutes, 25 seconds
TAKE CONTROL IN HOW YOU DATE
Consistency is incredibly important when we’re trying to build a healthy foundation for a healthy relationship. However, the way we react and responded. The very beginning of dating will set the tone for what to expect in a relationship. If you are on the dating scene or you’re about to get on it this is the Podcast for you. You can also follow me on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn. Support the Show.
4/26/2024 • 16 minutes, 12 seconds
WHY AVOIDANT ATTACHED PERSON NEED SPACE AND WHAT YOU CAN DO TO HELP
You might be confused as to why your avoidant attached partner needs as much space or perhaps why they detach and disappear for days. This episode may shed some light and help you assist them. If you have an avoidant attachment style and it's kept you from forming meaningful lasting relationship, perhaps this episode will help you manage the fears of opening up to a partner. Love Annalisa Support the show
4/2/2024 • 16 minutes, 37 seconds
GHOSTING- Why They Do That
Ghosting is a phenomenon where one person abruptly cuts off all communication with another without any explanation or warning. This can leave the person being ghosted feeling confused, hurt, and rejected. The sudden disappearance of someone they thought they had a connection with can lead to feelings of abandonment and low self-worth. The lack of closure can also leave the person haunted by unanswered questions and doubts about themselves.Psychologically, ghosting can have a significant impact on a person's mental health. It can trigger feelings of anxiety, depression, and self-doubt, as they struggle to make sense of the sudden rejection. The lack of communication can lead to rumination and overthinking, as the person tries to understand what they did wrong or why they were not worthy of a simple explanation. This can erode their self-esteem and trust in others, making it difficult for them to form new relationships in the future.The emotional fallout from being ghosted can also manifest in physical symptoms such as insomnia, loss of appetite, and increased stress levels. The sense of betrayal and abandonment can linger long after the ghosting incident, affecting the person's ability to trust and open up to others. It can take time and effort to heal from the psychological damage caused by ghosting, as the person works through their feelings of rejection and learns to rebuild their self-esteem and sense of worth.Support the show
3/27/2024 • 13 minutes, 19 seconds
Secure and Anxious Attachment Styles
Relationships can be complex, especially when individuals with different attachment styles come together. The dynamic between someone with a secure attachment style and someone with an anxious attachment style can be both challenging and rewarding. Understanding and navigating this relationship dynamic is crucial for fostering a healthy and fulfilling partnership. In this episode, let's explore the unique dynamics, potential challenges, and strategies for building a strong and supportive relationship between individuals with secure and anxious attachment styles.Individuals with a secure attachment style typically have a positive view of themselves and their relationships. They are comfortable with intimacy, express their emotions openly, and trust their partners. They provide a sense of stability and security in relationships.Support the show
2/15/2024 • 12 minutes, 2 seconds
Impact of Unhealed Trauma Avoidant Attachment
Individuals with an avoidant attachment style often struggle with forming and maintaining close connections. If left unhealed, this attachment style can pose challenges when it comes to making future plans and can have a profound impact on the potential for a healthy relationship. In this episode, we will explore why those with avoidant attachment may find it difficult to make plans for the future, how it can affect relationships, and offer potential solutions.Avoidant attachment style is characterized by a fear of intimacy and a desire for independence. Individuals with this attachment style may have experienced emotional distance or neglect in their early relationships, leading them to develop self-reliance as a coping mechanism. As a result, they may struggle with the idea of making plans for the future that involve emotional investment and vulnerability.Support the show
2/12/2024 • 11 minutes, 22 seconds
The Repetition of Attracting Similar Partners - Change the Patter
Have you ever wondered why you seem to attract the same kind of partner repeatedly? It's a common phenomenon many individuals experience and often leaves us questioning our choices and the patterns we find ourselves in. This short podcast helps us to make some changes to these patterns. Support the show
11/14/2023 • 4 minutes, 3 seconds
AVOIDANT ATTACHED REVEAL TIMELINE
In the realm of relationships, understanding attachment styles can shed light on the complexities of human behavior. One such attachment style is avoidant attachment, where individuals hide their true selves during the initial stages of a relationship. This podcast explores why people with avoidant attachment styles exhibit this behavior and the timeline for them to reveal their authentic selves and emotions.Follow me on Instagram, Tiktok, LinkedIn, and Youtube for more on Understanding and Healing Attachment Style. Check out my Healing Attachment Styles Podcast - Healing Attachment Styles.Support the show
11/9/2023 • 8 minutes
Becoming securely attached insight
This is a small insight on the power of truly loving ourselves.Subscribe to receive updates on everything on attachment, styles and healing, yours, as well as daily insights like these short messages.Support the show
11/7/2023 • 2 minutes, 57 seconds
WHY AN AVOIDANT ATTACHED FEEL OBLIGATED IN RELATIONSHIP
Quick insight into why someone with an avoidant attachment style may feel like a relationship is an obligation.Subscribe for more insight into attachment stylesSupport the show
11/6/2023 • 1 minute, 26 seconds
PUSH AND PULL BETWEEN ANXIOUS AND AVOIDANT
This episode focuses on navigating the push and pull between anxious and avoidant attachment styles. Join me as we unravel the complexities of these relationships, examining the underlying causes that fuel these contrasting emotional patterns. We will uncover the hidden truths, shed light on the struggles, and ultimately discover the keys to finding harmony amidst the tension. Support the show
10/27/2023 • 10 minutes, 9 seconds
DATING SOMEONE WITH AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT STYLE
While it can be a challenge to date someone with an avoidant attachment style, understanding why they want to be with you, but are often afraid, can help us relax and not take responsibility for their actions. Support the show
10/20/2023 • 7 minutes, 55 seconds
🔒 The Value of Past Experiences
Subscriber-only episodeThis podcast episode is designed to support individuals in their journey of growth and healing from past experiences. It offers a variety of techniques and insights that can be helpful in this process. By sharing personal stories, the episode aims to create a sense of connection and empathy, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their struggles. The techniques discussed may include mindfulness practices, journaling exercises, and self-reflection prompts, which can assist in gaining a deeper understanding of oneself and the healing process. Through this episode, listeners can expect to gain new perspectives, find inspiration, and learn practical tools for healing and personal growth.Don't forget to follow me on Instagram for more
9/8/2023 • 22 minutes, 38 seconds
🔒 Energies and Boundaries
Subscriber-only episodeWe are diving deep into managing the energy and effort we give in relationships and setting healthy boundaries. Are you tired of feeling drained and overwhelmed by the demands of your relationships? Do you find it challenging to strike the right balance between giving and taking? Let’s talk about how to maintain your energy and set boundaries that promote harmony and well-being in your connections. Relationships are like delicate ecosystems, and it's crucial to find that sweet spot where both parties feel fulfilled and respected. This episode will provide practical strategies to identify and manage our energy reserves, ensuring we have enough to offer to those we care about without compromising our own well-being. Setting boundaries is not about building walls, but rather creating healthy spaces where our relationships can thrive. We'll also explore real-life scenarios and discuss effective communication techniques that empower us to express our needs while fostering understanding and growth within our relationships. So, whether you're struggling with boundaries or seeking to enhance your relationship dynamics, this is the episode for your healing.
8/23/2023 • 14 minutes, 27 seconds
🔒 What's good for me
Subscriber-only episodeJoin me on this podcast that delves deep into the transformative power of self-reflection and intentional living during times of emotional healing. We will explore the importance of taking a pause, exploring our inner selves, and consciously shaping the life we desire, and most importantly, after this program, we will know exactly what we want and how to achieve it.In a world that often prioritizes hustle and external achievements, it has become progressively essential to slow down, reassess, and connect with our emotional well-being, especially now that we have taken on the task of finally healing and living a life of liberation where we are in control of our path.Grab your notebook and pen and let's go! Best wishes. Annalisa
8/11/2023 • 12 minutes, 3 seconds
🔒 A New Chapter
Subscriber-only episodeWhen we start a healing journey, it's good to ask for support from others. They can help us in many ways, like giving us support and motivation. However, we need to appreciate who we can turn to.Starting a healing journey can be exciting but also tough. Having support from others can make a big difference. They can give us support and encouragement, and help us when things get difficult. That being said, we need to know how to ask for what we need, instead of taking advice that may not be in alignment with our wants and needs.It's also important to think about how they may feel when we start to change on our healing journey. Change can be hard for everyone, not just for us. Our loved ones might be used to the way things were, and our growth might disturb that. So, it is important to be compassionate and kind.By considering the feelings of others, we can talk to them openly and honestly. We can explain why we need to change and show them that it doesn't mean we don't care about them. We can tell them that we want to improve ourselves while still keeping our connection strong. This way, we can make sure our relationships stay healthy and strong.So, when we start a healing journey, asking for support can help us a lot. And, it's also important to be considerate of others' feelings. This way, we can all grow and change in a positive and caring way. And in this episode, we do the first thing that anyone does when they want success, find support to grow.Best of wishes on this path.
8/4/2023 • 11 minutes, 47 seconds
🔒 Healing Journey Introduction
Subscriber-only episodeLet's Go!What you'll get 👇🦋 Understanding the pain because awareness is key to letting go and healing. 🦋 Healing inner child wounds🦋 The techniques and strategies to move on and create the life you want🦋 Embracing a deeper understanding of self and getting introspection for growth, and self-compassion. 🦋 Learning to set boundaries.🦋 Building resilience and developing coping mechanisms 🦋 Nurturing the right relationships. 🦋 Cultivating a positive future. A new exercise will be available every week. What you'll need 👇A notebook to take notes 🦋A pen to take notes 💛A quiet space to take notes 😊
