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Discerning Parenting

English, Parenting, 1 season, 91 episodes, 1 day, 8 hours, 25 minutes
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Are there days you feel you’ve had it with the sleepless nights, the temper tantrums, the constant fatigue of trying to keep up with an active baby? Does it feel like you’re always working so hard as a parent, trying to do everything for your kids and family, and yet it never feels enough?We get it. You love your child more than anything, and yet parenting is also exhausting and challenging. Especially when you’re bombarded with criticism and pressure to be the perfect parent (which, spoiler alert, does not exist!).But what if you had experts who understand exactly what you’re going through help you navigate the everyday challenges of parenting your baby, toddler, or preschooler? What if they help you use scientific research to your advantage, so you become the calmer, happier, and more empowered parent you’ve always wanted to be?That's why we created "Discerning Parenting," the podcast that helps you cut through the noise and focus on what truly matters in your parenting journey.Join Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco, developmental and behavioral pediatrician, positive parenting coach, author, speaker, and mom, as she and our guest experts tackle your most pressing parenting concerns.From toddler discipline to helping kids learn to talk or to read, from starting solids and potty training to promoting social and emotional development, this podcast is jam-packed with valuable insights and practical tips specifically tailored for parents of kids age 5 and below.So join us and discover how you can use the combined power of science, knowing your child, and your own intuition in making the best parenting decisions for you and your family.
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090 - Navigating Cultural Differences in Parenting with Dr. James Grubman

Many parents may feel caught between cultures at some point. It may be with previous generations such as parenting conflicts with your own parents or in-laws. Or feeling caught between the "traditional" parenting methods we experienced and the gentle parenting we see on the internet and social media.Often, we don't realize how much cultural differences influence the way we see the world, that it's difficult to see any other way. In this second of two episodes with Dr. James Grubman, we dive into how cultural differences affect parenting. Dr. Jim Grubman is an internationally recognized consultant to families of wealth, family enterprises, and the wealth advisory industry. Dr. Grubman has been honored with the 2024 Lifetime Achievement Award by the Family Wealth Report and the 2024 Richard Beckhard Practice Awardfrom the Family Firm Institute. He is the author of the renowned book, Strangers in Paradise: How Families Adapt to Wealth Across Generations, and co-author of Wealth 3.0: The Future of Family Wealth Advising (with Dennis Jaffe and Kristin Keffeler) and Cross Cultures: How Global Families Navigate Change Across Generations (with DennisJaffe) along with multiple other publications. Dr. Grubman is a leader in The UHNW Institute, an industry think tank, and holds Fellow status in the Family Firm Institute and the Purposeful Planning Institute as well as membership in STEP, an international trusts-and-estates organization. His practice, Family Wealth Consulting, is based in Boston, Massachusetts, USA.Here's just some of what you'll discover in this episode:The three cultures based on research (Yes, there are three and not just two!)How these cultural differences can result in conflicts among generations (and other surprising sources of conflicts!), in various issues including parentingWhat we can do if we feel caught between culturesLearn more about Dr. James Grubman at https://jamesgrubman.com/⭐ Our book Learning by Heart: Teach Your Child to Read, Stress-Free is now on Amazon! Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Find out more about our on-demand courses to guide you through parenting challenges. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
10/8/202432 minutes, 34 seconds
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089 - Parenting the Next Generation in Family Business with Dr. James Grubman

If you have worries like..."My kids didn't struggle the way I struggled growing up. Won't they be spoiled?""Will my child have what it takes to handle future challenges?"...this episode is for you.In this first of two episodes with Dr. James Grubman, we dive into parenting the next generation in family business. Dr. Jim Grubman is an internationally recognized consultant to families of wealth, family enterprises, and the wealth advisory industry. Dr. Grubman has been honored with the 2024 Lifetime Achievement Award by the Family Wealth Report and the 2024 Richard Beckhard Practice Award from the Family Firm Institute. He is the author of the renowned book, Strangers in Paradise: How Families Adapt to Wealth Across Generations, and co-author of Wealth 3.0: The Future of Family Wealth Advising (with Dennis Jaffe and Kristin Keffeler) and Cross Cultures: How Global Families Navigate Change Across Generations (with Dennis Jaffe) along with multiple other publications. Dr. Grubman is a leader in The UHNW Institute, an industry think tank, and holds Fellow status in the Family Firm Institute and the Purposeful Planning Institute as well as membership in STEP, an international trusts-and-estates organization. His practice, Family Wealth Consulting, is based in Boston, Massachusetts, USA.Here's just some of what you'll discover in this episode:balancing the pressure of parenting the next generation and having the next generation measure up to the standards set by the previous generationsunique challenges of the second generation in family business, and how this can affect parentingthe key skills that parents need to build in the next generation in family business shattering a very common myth that often destroys the confidence and self-esteem of the second and third generations in family businessFind out more about Dr. Grubman at https://jamesgrubman.com/⭐ Our book Learning by Heart: Teach Your Child to Read, Stress-Free is now on Amazon! Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Find out more about our on-demand courses to guide you through parenting challenges. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
10/1/202429 minutes, 42 seconds
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088 - What If We Should Stop Teaching Our Kids To Do This?

In this episode, we explore a common piece of advice that many of us grew up hearing—a lesson we were told was essential for our success. It’s something we've likely been encouraged to teach our children, too. But after a recent eye-opening experience, I’m questioning whether this age-old wisdom is still relevant. Could it be that we've been teaching our kids the wrong thing? And if so, what could be a better approach? Tune in to discover what this "one thing" is and explore a new perspective on how we guide our children's development.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
9/10/202414 minutes, 27 seconds
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087 - When Frustrated or Overwhelmed, Ask This Question

In this episode, we dive into the everyday pressures that can make us feel overwhelmed, stressed, and stretched too thin. Whether it's a mounting workload, ongoing demands, or a disagreement at work or home, it's easy to let these tensions spill over into our interactions with our children. When frustration builds up, we might find ourselves losing our temper at the smallest misbehavior.But what if there was a way to pause and regain control before things escalate? Join us as we explore the one crucial question you can ask yourself in these challenging moments. This simple yet powerful question can change your perspective, helping you respond calmly and constructively, even when you feel pushed to your limits. Tune in to learn how this mindset shift can make all the difference in maintaining your composure and fostering a positive environment for you and your children.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
9/3/202411 minutes, 46 seconds
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086 - Talking with Your Child's Teacher

Do you find it challenging to communicate with your child's teacher, especially when it comes to sensitive matters or disagreements? You're not alone! In this episode, we demystify those crucial conversations and equip you with the tools to build a strong, collaborative relationship with your child's school. Tune in to learn how to take the stress out of communicating with your child's teachers and ensure a positive educational experience for your little one.This is the third of a series of episodes that we have with Teacher Roxanne Sevilla. About our Guest:Roxanne Veronica Sevilla is a committed educator with nine years of experience as a preschool teacher and now works as a learning support teacher at MGC New Life Christian Academy. She co-founded The Nook Learning and Play Hub, offering play-based learning for young children and a SPED playgroup for social skills development. A strong advocate for home-school partnerships and integrating biblical principles in teaching, Roxanne holds a degree in Special Education from Trinity University of Asia, where she was recently honored as an outstanding alumna. She is currently pursuing her master's in Special Education at De La Salle University.Follow The Nook Learning and Play Hub on Facebook and Instagram! ⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
8/27/202423 minutes, 1 second
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085 - What Your Preschool Child Needs to Know for Nursery and Kindergarten

Is your little one ready to take that big leap into nursery or kindergarten? In this episode, we break down the essential steps to ensure your child is prepared for this exciting new chapter. We understand that this transition can be a significant source of worry and stress for parents—questions like "How do I get my child ready for nursery?" or "What does my child need to be prepared for kindergarten?" are common concerns. That's why we've brought in the perfect expert, someone with the knowledge and experience to guide you through this important process. Tune in to gain valuable insights and practical tips that will help make this transition as smooth and stress-free as possible.About our Guest:Roxanne Veronica Sevilla is a committed educator with nine years of experience as a preschool teacher and now works as a learning support teacher at MGC New Life Christian Academy. She co-founded The Nook Learning and Play Hub, offering play-based learning for young children and a SPED playgroup for social skills development. A strong advocate for home-school partnerships and integrating biblical principles in teaching, Roxanne holds a degree in Special Education from Trinity University of Asia, where she was recently honored as an outstanding alumna. She is currently pursuing her master's in Special Education at De La Salle University.Follow The Nook Learning and Play Hub on Facebook and Instagram!Previous episodes mentioned in this podcast:084 - Helping Your Child Get Along with Other Kids in School062 - Why Kids Need to Move (and How To Get More Movement Into Their Day) with Dr. Rachel Pope060 - Preschool Readiness Without The Stress with Candy ChanHelp your child build the skills they need, in a fun and easy way - without exhausting you. Check out my course, Learning Through Play!⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
8/20/202424 minutes, 27 seconds
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084 - Helping Your Child Get Along with Other Kids in School

In today's episode, we dive into a topic that concerns many parents: helping children navigate social interactions at school. While some kids naturally make friends easily, others may find it more challenging—and that's perfectly okay. Every child, whether outgoing or shy, has the potential to connect with their peers. Making friends is a skill that can be learned and nurtured, not something that happens automatically.Join us as we discuss practical tips from Teacher Roxanne Sevilla, co-owner, co-founder, and program director of Nook Learning and Play Hub, on how to support your child in building friendships and making school a joyful experience. Whether your child is just starting or is already in school, this episode will offer valuable insights to help them thrive socially.About our Guest:Teacher Roxanne Sevilla is a licensed professional teacher with 8 years and counting in the academe teaching early years education. She majored in Special Education and is pursuing a master's degree in the same field. She is deeply passionate about fostering children's growth and creating a safe and supportive learning environment for young learners to develop their strengths and skills. Check out Nook Learning and Play Hub on Facebook to learn more about how Teacher Roxanne and her team can help you and your child!⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
8/13/202433 minutes, 56 seconds
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083 - Encouraging Independent Play

Welcome to today's episode of our podcast! We're tackling a topic that many parents are curious about: Independent Play. A listener recently asked, "What exactly is independent play? My toddler doesn't seem to engage in it. Does independent play mean my toddler has to play by themselves? And if so, for how long?" These are excellent questions, and they highlight a common concern among parents. Understanding independent play, how to encourage it, and how much time your child should spend playing independently can be a bit of a mystery. But don’t worry, you’re in the right place. Today, we'll dive deep into what independent play means, why it's important, and how you can foster it in your child. We'll explore the benefits of independent play for both you and your toddler, and provide some practical tips to make it a positive experience for everyone. Let's get started on this journey to nurturing your child's independence and creativity!Check out this previous episode from the Discerning Parenting Podcast:The Clingy Toddler: 5 Gentle Parenting Strategies to Encourage Independence⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
8/6/202411 minutes, 21 seconds
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082 - Three More Surprisingly Simple Ways to Boost Your Child's Brain Development (Plus a Bonus Tip)

If you're eager to find easy and effective methods to support your child's brain development, you've come to the right place. Today, we're continuing our enlightening discussion with three more simple yet powerful tips that you can implement immediately. These strategies are designed to seamlessly fit into your daily routine, making a significant impact on your child's cognitive growth. Plus, be sure to stay tuned until the end for a special bonus tip that will further boost your child's brain power. Let's dive in and explore these invaluable insights together!Previous episodes mentioned in this podcast:Screen Time Addiction In Children with Dr. Paul FilomenoIs increased screen time in young kids linked to developmental or language delays? Interview with Dr. Angel DyIf you have a baby or child below three, check out our book, Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps. You’ll get powerful, science-backed, and yet practical strategies to boost your baby’s language and brain development.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
7/30/20249 minutes, 6 seconds
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081 - Three Surprisingly Simple Ways to Boost Your Child's Brain Development

Welcome to another enriching episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast! Today, we're diving into a topic that's close to every parent's heart—boosting your child's brain development. Contrary to what you might think, you don't need elaborate methods or costly tools to give your child's cognitive abilities a significant boost. Over the course of this episode and the next, we'll be uncovering six remarkably simple yet highly effective strategies to support your child's mental growth. In today's session, we'll introduce the first three of these strategies. Stick around—you'll be amazed at how practical and achievable these tips are. Let's get started on this exciting journey to nurture and enhance your child's brainpower!If you have a baby or child below three, check out our book, Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps. You’ll get powerful, science-backed, and yet practical strategies to boost your baby’s language and brain development.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
7/23/202413 minutes, 29 seconds
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080 - 3 Myths On How Kids Learn That Are Stressing Parents Out

Welcome to today's episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast, where we delve into the fascinating world of childhood learning. Have you ever wondered if some of the most commonly held beliefs about how kids learn might actually be myths? Imagine if shifting your perspective could not only alleviate your stress and guilt but also enhance your child's learning journey. Today, we're set to bust three major myths about how kids learn. What you uncover in this episode might just surprise you and transform the way you support your child's education. So, get ready to rethink what you know and discover new insights into how children truly learn.The study mentioned in this episode:Spontaneous fMRI activity during resting wakefulness and sleepIf you have a baby or child below three, check out our book, Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps. You’ll get powerful, science-backed, and yet practical strategies to boost your baby’s language and brain development.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
7/16/202416 minutes, 58 seconds
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079 - What To Consider When Choosing An Educational System For Your Child with Drs. Jack Herrin and Janys Lim

Welcome to today's episode! We are diving into a topic that often sparks passionate debates, especially on social media: choosing the right educational system for your child. You’ve probably encountered many strong opinions—some advocating for Montessori, others for traditional schooling, and many more in between. This can make the decision feel overwhelming and highly charged.If you haven't already, we recommend listening to our previous episode on school readiness. Today’s discussion builds on that, featuring our special guests, developmental pediatricians Dr. Janys Lim and Dr. Jack Herrin. Both are not only experts in their field but also parents who have navigated these choices with their own children—Dr. Herrin’s kids are now in late high school and college, while Dr. Lim’s range from late elementary to high school. Alongside them, I’ll be sharing my perspective as a parent of a preschooler. Join us as we explore how to choose the right school for your child, offering a blend of foresight and hindsight from our diverse experiences.Help your kids make a smooth transition to school! Check out our online course, School Start Success!⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
7/9/202442 minutes, 33 seconds
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School Readiness with Drs. Jack Herrin and Janys Lim

Welcome to another episode of the Discerning Parenting podcast! I'm thrilled you're here with us today because we have a topic that resonates with so many parents: My child is ready for school, what can I do to prepare them?These are some of the most common questions I receive, and today, we have two exceptional guests to help us answer them. Joining us are Dr. Jack Herrin and Dr. Janice Lim, both esteemed developmental pediatricians and, importantly, parents themselves. If you've been following our podcast, you'll know how insightful their advice is.In this episode, we'll dive deep into understanding school readiness and practical steps you can take to ensure your child is prepared for this big milestone, whether it's preschool or kindergarten. Stay tuned for an engaging and informative discussion!⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
7/2/202430 minutes, 1 second
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077 - Choosing Your Child's First School

This episode is the second part of our series on schooling for toddlers and preschoolers. In our last episode, we discussed that there is no one-size-fits-all answer to the question, "When should I enroll my child in school?" We covered three critical factors to consider. If you haven't already, be sure to listen to that episode as well.Today, we're diving deeper into choosing the right program if you decide to enroll your child early in school. Join us as we explore the different types of early education programs, what to look for in a curriculum, and how to ensure the environment aligns with your child's needs and your family's values. Tune in to gain insights and tips that will help you make informed decisions for your child's educational journey.Check out these previous podcast episodes:Does My Toddler Need To Be Enrolled In School Or Is It Too Early? 3 Factors You Need To ConsiderHow Do Kids Learn to Read? with Teacher Tasha Mendoza, Reading Intervention Specialist⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
6/25/202411 minutes, 24 seconds
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076 - Does My Toddler Need To Be Enrolled In School Or Is It Too Early? 3 Factors You Need To Consider

Are you wondering when the best time is to enroll your toddler in school? Should you start them early, or could it be too soon? Join us as we explore this important question in depth. In this first episode of our two-part series, we discuss the factors to consider when deciding on the right time for your child's school enrollment. Don't miss this insightful discussion!⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
6/18/20249 minutes, 50 seconds
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075 - 3 Tips for Stress-Free School Vacations: How to Keep Kids Engaged Without Exhausting Yourself

As the school year wraps up and vacation time begins, many of us are feeling the pressure to plan activities, keep our kids entertained, and even start gearing up for the next school year. This busy season can quickly become overwhelming. In this episode, we'll discuss how to navigate the chaos, share tips for a fun and relaxing summer, and offer strategies to prepare for the upcoming school year without the stress. Tune in for a dose of summer sanity!🌞⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
6/11/202410 minutes, 14 seconds
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074 - Is it okay to let kids “just have fun”?

Welcome to the Discerning Parenting podcast! In today's episode, we dive into a classic parenting dilemma that's especially relevant as school vacations begin: Should we let our kids enjoy being kids, or should we focus on keeping them in learning mode? Whether you're tuning in during the summer or any other time of the year, this topic remains timeless and pertinent. Join us as we explore the triumphs and trials, the questions, and the quiet moments that shape our parenting journeys and our children's lives.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
6/4/20248 minutes, 15 seconds
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073 - Is your child ready for potty training? with Drs. Jack Herrin & Janys Lim

Is your child ready to be potty trained? Do we even need to wait for readiness, or can anyone really potty train at any time and have it over and done with in 30 days or less?In this episode, you’ll hear from trusted developmental pediatricians Dr. Janys Lim from Ontario, Canada, and Dr. Jack Herrin from Manila, Philippines. We'll tackle questions such as:Is there one right way to potty train (like many on the internet claim)?What influences when and how we potty train?What are the signs that your child is ready to be potty trained?What are signs that you may need to wait?After listening to this episode, you'll be able to remove a lot of the stress, guilt, and pressure around potty training!Want to potty train your child in a way that is relaxed and flexible, and does not induce guilt, frustration, or power struggles? Click here and check out our course Potty Training Playbook.Don't forget to follow our show and leave us a review, so the show can reach and help more parents!⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/28/202424 minutes, 41 seconds
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072 - Asking This One Question Will Change The Way You Deal with Toddler Tantrums

"You need to show who's boss!""You shouldn't say no to your child!""Ignore them!""Validate feelings!"You've probably heard A LOT of tantrum advice. What's a stressed parent to do?!Each time I ask moms what's their number one concern, it's always "tantrums" that come up. That’s why in this episode, we’ll talk about the ONE thing missing from a lot of the advice on the internet, and ONE question to ask when your child has a tantrum.Answering this ONE question will help us discern whether all the advice we're hearing makes sense.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: Why tantrum parenting is a lot more nuanced than a trendy Instagram Reel.Why “just keep calm” isn't working for you (and it's not your fault!).The ONE question that will change the way you look at tantrum parenting forever!Need Some Support During Those Crazy Toddler Years? Click HERE!⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/21/202418 minutes, 40 seconds
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From Sick Days to Play Days: 3 Pediatrician-Approved Natural, Homeopathic Strategies for Your Child’s Wellness with Dr. Mia Medina

"My child is sick almost every month.""We've had so many rounds of antibiotics.""My toddler brings home endless viruses from daycare."In this enlightening episode, we dive into an intriguing alternative remedy: homeopathy. During my residency training in pediatrics, I was fortunate to have incredible mentors who shaped my medical journey. One of those mentors, now practicing homeopathy, joins us today to discuss its potential benefits for children - Dr. Ma. Ysabel Lesaca-Medina, a pediatric oncologist, homeopathic pediatrician, and mom. As a podcast dedicated to parenting and child development, we explore how frequent illnesses impact a child's growth and development. Dr. Mia shares insights on how homeopathy can serve as a complementary approach to traditional medicine, potentially reducing the frequency of these common ailments.Tune in to learn about homeopathy's role in preventing illness and supporting your child's overall well-being. Whether you're a skeptical parent or someone curious about alternative remedies, this episode promises to offer valuable perspectives and practical advice.Learn more about Homeopathy:The School of Homeopathy Homeopathy JournalHomeopathy for MommiesMiranda Castro Shop (Gentle Healing Products That Work)Homeopathy for Mommies Ph⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/14/202423 minutes, 16 seconds
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070 - Is This The Right Time For My Toddler To Have A Pet Dog? with Jane Rosenblum

Are you considering a furry addition to your family? If your child's clamoring for a dog or showing love for furry friends, you're not alone. But when is it truly the right time, and how do you choose?In today's episode, we're joined by psychiatric nurse and dog trainer, Jane Rosenblum, for expert insights. Whether it's readiness, responsibility, or lifestyle fit, we'll cover all the essential factors to consider. And if you're a dog owner prepping for a new baby, check out our last episode for invaluable tips. Let's explore the journey of pets and children together! Meet our guest:Jane Rosenblum began her career as a registered nurse, specializing in psychiatric care and advocating for at-risk children within families. Recognizing a need for guidance on dog-child interactions, she transitioned to become a certified dog trainer in 2003. With a Bachelor of Science from San Francisco State University and a Certificate in Training & Counseling from the San Francisco SPCA Academy for Dog Trainers, she now offers vital support to families with young children and dogs. Leveraging her background in nursing, she provides expert advice and practical solutions for ensuring safe and harmonious relationships between pets and children.Check out Jane's Ebooks to help you navigate your baby and dog journey.Learn more about how Jane can help you.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/7/202439 minutes, 20 seconds
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069 - Have a Dog, Expecting a Baby: What You Need to Know with Jane Rosenblum

This episode delves into the delightful yet complex world of pets and parenthood. With a surge of inquiries from concerned parents about introducing a new baby into a household with pets, we turn to Jane Rosenblum, a seasoned authority on dogs, kids, and family dynamics.In the first installment of a two-part series, we focus on the crucial considerations for expectant parents and moms with young babies who share their homes with furry companions. Jane Rosenblum offers invaluable insights, addressing common concerns and providing practical tips to ensure a harmonious transition for both human and canine family members.So whether you're eagerly anticipating the pitter-patter of tiny feet alongside your loyal pup or seeking guidance on nurturing a bond between your child and furry friend, this episode promises a wealth of expert advice. Stay tuned till the end for a treasure trove of tips from Jane Rosenblum that will leave you feeling confident and prepared for the journey ahead.Meet our guest:Jane Rosenblum began her career as a registered nurse, specializing in psychiatric care and advocating for at-risk children within families. Recognizing a need for guidance on dog-child interactions, she transitioned to become a certified dog trainer in 2003. With a Bachelor of Science from San Francisco State University and a Certificate in Training & Counseling from the San Francisco SPCA Academy for Dog Trainers, she now offers vital support to families with young children and dogs. Leveraging her background in nursing, she provides expert advice and practical solutions for ensuring safe and harmonious relationships between pets and children.Check out Jane's Ebooks to help you navigate your baby and dog journey.Learn more about how Jane can help you.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/30/202427 minutes, 43 seconds
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068 - When To Worry About Toddler Aggression with Drs. Janys Lim and Jack Herrin

Do your toddler’s kicks or hits have you questioning if it’s more than just the "terrible two's"? One of the most common questions is “When should I worry about my toddler's aggressive behavior?” And if that's your question, we've got you covered today because I've invited two trusted developmental and behavioral pediatricians to join us.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH: •The single most common reason behind a lot of what we call "toddler aggression" (and it has nothing to do with your toddler wanting to hurt others!)•One vital thing parents can do to prevent and manage "aggressive behavior"•If you've been told, "You need to spank your child!" by someone who's seen your child hit or kick - you'll know why this backfires⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/23/202432 minutes, 52 seconds
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067 - How Can I Help My Baby Or Toddler Learn To Talk?

How can I help my baby or toddler learn to talk?As parents, we play a pivotal role in shaping our little one's linguistic journey, laying the foundation for their future communication abilities. Join us today as we explore five invaluable tips to effectively engage with your baby or toddler, boosting their language skills and enhancing their cognitive development.By implementing these strategies, you'll discover how simple interactions can become powerful tools for fostering your child's linguistic and cognitive growth. Stay tuned for a special bonus: insights into how these practices can also sharpen your child's thinking skills.⭐ If you have a baby or child below three, check out my book, Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps. You’ll get powerful, science-backed, and yet practical strategies to boost your baby’s language and brain development.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/16/202419 minutes, 59 seconds
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066 - The Clingy Toddler: 5 Gentle Parenting Strategies to Encourage Independence

In the second part of our series on managing the challenges of the clingy toddler phase, we'll discuss practical solutions to ease both parent and child through this demanding stage. Drawing from a listener's heartfelt question about the struggles of managing a clingy toddler, we explore the concern of leaving them with a babysitter for the first time.Expect expert advice on how to handle anxiety and its potential impact on a toddler's development and mental health when introducing new caregivers. You'll learn about five effective approaches tailored to nurturing independence in toddlers.Join us as we navigate the complexities of toddlerhood with compassion and understanding, offering actionable insights to help parents thrive during this challenging yet rewarding stage.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/9/202411 minutes, 39 seconds
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065 - The Clingy Toddler: Is it Normal and When to Worry

In this episode, we delve into a common concern shared by many parents: toddler clinginess. Our listener's question reflects the daily struggle of balancing parental responsibilities with the needs of a clingy toddler. From crying during restroom breaks to sleeping beside them at night, the challenges can be overwhelming. The impending need to leave the toddler with a babysitter raises concerns about potential anxiety triggers and impacts on their mental health and development.Join us as we explore whether such clinginess is within normal toddler behavior or if it signals something more. We discuss four key signs that may indicate underlying issues beyond typical attachment phases. Tune in next week for the follow-up episode where we'll talk about actionable strategies to address and navigate the complexities of parenting a clingy toddler. Whether you're a seasoned parent or facing these challenges for the first time, this episode offers insights and guidance to support you through this journey.Link mentioned in this episode:Potential Effects of the COVID-19 Pandemic on Children and Adolescents with Separation Anxiety Disorder⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/2/202412 minutes, 49 seconds
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064 - 5 Ways to Share Your Faith with Your Kids

Should we share our faith with our children in the first place? In today's episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast, we'll explore how the essence of faith permeates the everyday moments of parenthood. From bedtime stories that instill values to nature walks filled with gratitude, and even through the trials of epic tantrums, parents are already sharing their faith in subtle yet profound ways. Tune in as I share with you 5 strategies that you can do to share your faith with your kids. Discover the beauty of incorporating faith into the fabric of parenting and the impact it can have on our children's lives.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/26/202412 minutes, 9 seconds
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063 - Parent-Led Interventions and How They Can Help with Dr. Amy Kwok

In this episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast, we welcome Dr. Amy Kwok, CEO of Penguin Smart, to delve into the transformative power of parent-led interventions in fostering child communication skills. Dr. Amy, with her extensive background in medicine and public health, sheds light on how simple yet intentional practices within everyday routines can significantly impact a child's language development. Drawing from research and practical experience, we explore parents' pivotal role in shaping their children's communication abilities, emphasizing the importance of frequency and involvement over precision. Join the conversation as we debunk parenting guilt, provide actionable insights, and offer resources to empower parents on their discerning parenting path.Learn more about Penguin Smart, digital solutions for parent-centered speech intervention. Follow Penguin Smart on social media.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/19/202420 minutes, 47 seconds
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062 - Why Kids Need to Move (and How To Get More Movement Into Their Day) with Dr. Rachel Pope

Welcome to this week's episode of the Discerning Parenting podcast, where we delve into the crucial topic of why kids need to move and explore practical ways to incorporate more movement into their daily lives. As parents, it's a common concern to ensure our children are staying active and healthy, yet many of us face challenges in finding opportunities for them to move, whether it's due to limited space or busy schedules.Today, we're joined by a special guest who brings both personal and professional insights to the discussion. Dr. Rachel Pope, a doctor of physical therapy, a dedicated mother of four, and an avid runner, understands firsthand the importance of movement for children's development. She'll be sharing her expertise on why movement matters and offering valuable tips on how parents can encourage their kids to stay active, even amid busy routines and constrained environments.So, if you've ever wondered how to get your kids moving more or why it's so essential for their growth and well-being, you're in for a treat. Let's dive in with Dr. Rachel Pope and explore the transformative power of movement in parenting.About our Guest:Dr. Rachel Pope is a doctor of physical therapy (since 2006), and pregnancy & postpartum specialist, she has helped countless Moms get strong again so they can live their lives. As a Mom, Dr. Rachel knows how limited the time you have to yourself is. Some days it feels impossible to squeeze any more into a day. That's why she combined her experience and expertise to create the perfect mix of quick, yet impactful exercises for a fast return back to running. Learn about how Dr. Rachel can help you.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/13/202438 minutes, 45 seconds
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Parenting Emotionally Intense Kids with Anouk Briere-Godbout

In this episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast, you are in for an insightful discussion on understanding and supporting emotionally intense children. With us is a seasoned mom and expert in social work, Anouk Briere-Godbout, who herself is raising three emotionally intense kids. The episode promises a wealth of practical wisdom and firsthand experience. Anouk's journey as both a parent and a professional spans over 15 years, providing her with a unique blend of theoretical knowledge and real-world expertise. As a mom who intimately understands the challenges of nurturing emotionally intense children, she brings a compassionate and empathetic perspective to the table.Whether you're a parent grappling with the nuances of raising an emotionally intense child or simply curious about this topic, this episode provides invaluable wisdom and guidance. Join us as we embark on a journey to better understand and support these remarkable young individuals.About our guest:Anouk is a mom of three emotionally intense kids, who has a Master's in Social Work and has been supporting parents for 15 years (and that's how long she’s been a mom!). She now supports parents of emotionally intense kids for whom nothing in the “general parenting advice” seems to work so they feel confident in trying different things that fit their kids' needs better.Listen to Anouk's podcast, Parenting the Intensity.Find Anouk on social media - @parentingtheintensity⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/5/202445 minutes, 13 seconds
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Preschool Readiness Without The Stress with Candy Chan

Many parents worry when their three-year-olds aren't yet reading or writing, fearing they might be falling behind. Today's podcast episode will address these concerns by exploring early literacy milestones and expectations.Candy Chan, an Oxford Brain Story Certified educator, a Certified Emotional Intelligence Life Coach, and a Certified Health and Wellness Coach are joining today's conversation. With her wealth of knowledge, Candy sheds light on the intricacies of early childhood literacy, offering valuable insights and practical advice for parents navigating this crucial developmental stage.Whether you're a concerned parent seeking guidance or simply curious about early childhood education, this episode promises to be both informative and enlightening. Tune in to gain invaluable knowledge and empower your child's literacy development journey.About our guest: Candy Chan is an Oxford Brain Story Certified educator, Emotional Intelligence Life Coach, and Health and Wellness Coach. With over 11 years of experience teaching preschool and a background in Children's Ministry, she understands the crucial role of emotional intelligence in child development. Candy's journey, from Stanford alum with patents to founding Hoppity Learning, is driven by her belief in empowering parents and children alike. Through Hoppity Learning, she aims to nurture strong parent-child connections and equip families with emotional intelligence skills for a brighter future.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
2/27/202439 minutes, 21 seconds
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Parenting Guilt: The Result of Unethical Marketing? with Dr. Michelle Mazur

Have you ever come across a Facebook Ad promising to eliminate yelling in just 21 days, accompanied by a child's drawing depicting a mom as a monster? The pressure on parents to meet unrealistic standards is relentless, and it's time to confront the potentially harmful effects of unethical marketing on our mental health and parenting journey.Our special guest for this crucial conversation is Dr. Michelle Mazur, a messaging strategist, word wizard, and author with a PhD in communication. As the host of the Rebel Uprising podcast and co-host of "Duped: The Dark Side of Online Business," Dr. Michelle sheds light on the subtle manipulation tactics that contribute to parental guilt and stress. Join us as we discuss the impact of these marketing strategies on both parents and their children and explore ways to navigate the challenges of contemporary parenting in the digital age. If you've ever felt the weight of societal expectations as a parent, this episode is a must-listen.About our guest:Dr. Michelle Mazur is a visionary messaging strategist and word wizard behind the acclaimed "Make Marketing Suck Less" podcast and author of three influential books, including, "The 3 Word Rebellion: Create a One-of-a-Kind Message that Grows Your Business into a Movement." As the founder and CEO of Communication Rebel, Dr. Michelle specializes in empowering change-making business owners, entrepreneurs, and speakers to become thought leaders by harnessing the power of their unique message. Her innovative 3-Word Rebellion approach helps clients stand out and make a lasting impact in their industries, revolutionizing how they communicate and connect with their audience.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
2/20/202447 minutes, 18 seconds
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Love In The Chaos: Strategies For Keeping Your Marriage Intact Amid Parenthood with Robert and Sharla Snow

In this special Valentine's Day episode, we are treated to an insightful discussion with Dr. Robert and Sharla Snow, a dynamic husband-and-wife duo whose expertise in science, art, and the human experience has been dedicated to enriching marriages. With a combined passion for understanding the intricacies of relationships, they offer valuable insights on maintaining a strong and enduring bond amid the challenges of parenthood—a topic highly requested by their audience.Drawing from their extensive experience and unique blend of disciplines including neuroscience, neurolinguistic programming, and hypnotherapy, Dr. Robert and Sharla provide practical strategies for nurturing love amidst the chaos of raising children. About our guests:Dr. Robert and Sharla Snow are a husband and wife team with over 31 years of marriage experience. They blend neuroscience, NLP, and their personal journey to help couples unlock the secrets to a happy marriage. Robert holds a doctorate in Physical Therapy from USC, while Sharla is skilled in NLP, Hypnosis, and Time Line Therapy®. They also integrate Gottman Couples Therapy principles into their coaching. Their mission stems from their own struggles and triumphs, driving them to empower couples globally with tools for lasting love.Learn more about their approach and how they can help you!  Listen to their podcast, Master Your Marriage.Follow them on social media: @masteryourmarriage⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
2/13/202454 minutes, 7 seconds
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Renew Your Heart for a Fresh Start: Embracing HeartHealing®

Did you know that 66% of moms confess that parenthood is more challenging than they initially anticipated? As a parent, you're no stranger to the ceaseless juggle of caring for your children, balancing work commitments, tending to household chores, and tackling the never-ending to-do list. It's a constant struggle to carve out time for yourself amidst the demands of everyday life.If you've found yourself trapped in a cycle of perpetual giving, experiencing burnout, grappling with unexplained sadness, overwhelming exhaustion, or wrestling with feelings of anger and frustration, you're not alone. Join us in this episode as we explore a powerful method that can revolutionize your approach to parenting and provide you with the tools to address these challenges head-on. Discover practical strategies to break free from the pressures of unrealistic expectations and learn how to prioritize self-care, creating a more fulfilling and balanced life for both you and your family. It's time to reclaim your well-being and redefine your parenting journey.❤️ Find wholeness for yourself, so you can show up better for your family. Come on a HeartHealing® journey to heal the self-doubt, negativity, and worry that’s been holding you back from full parenting success.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
2/6/20249 minutes, 21 seconds
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Recovering From The Past Through HeartHealing (So You Can Become The Parent You Want To Be)

In this eye-opening episode of the Discerning Parenting podcast, Dr. Victoria delves into the heart of a common struggle for many parents - the battle against yelling and losing patience. With empathy born from personal experience, Dr. Victoria reflects on her journey, not as a parent initially but as an individual grappling with anger.Frustrated parents often find themselves caught in a cycle of promising to stay calm, only to succumb to the overwhelming surge of frustration. Join us as we explore the profound impact of past experiences on our present actions, even in ways we may not consciously recognize.Discover the transformative power of acknowledging and addressing the roots of anger, gaining invaluable insights that can reshape your approach to parenting and personal growth. Tune in to this episode for a candid and empowering conversation on breaking free from the chains of frustration and embracing the patient, discerning parent within.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
1/30/202417 minutes, 14 seconds
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Navigating The Struggle Of Feeling "Not Enough"

Picture this: the fatigue of a long day, the desire for a moment of escape, only to be bombarded by advertisements for parenting perfection. "Be the perfect parent," they say, but the pressure is suffocating.In this episode, we unravel the relentless pressure parents face in a world of idealized parenting standards and societal judgments. From social media perfection to unsolicited remarks during public meltdowns, we explore the common struggles that leave parents feeling they're not doing enough. Join us for a brief yet impactful discussion, offering insights on navigating this pervasive sense of inadequacy.Join our FREE masterclass for a deeper dive into overcoming "feeling not enough".  I'm inviting you to sign up for our free masterclass, Why You Don't Feel Enough, and How to Change It. Head over to discerningparenting. com/webinar to sign up. ⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
1/23/202413 minutes, 48 seconds
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Why Am I Feeling Overwhelmed? 3 Common Parenting Challenges After The Holidays

Are you feeling overwhelmed?In this episode, we explore the aftermath of the holiday season—a mix of joy, chaos, and the struggle to return to routine. Dr. Victoria Nolasco delves into the universal feelings of parental guilt and overwhelm that arise during this transition. Join us for a candid discussion on why parents crave a break and how to navigate these emotions without guilt. Short, insightful, and perfect for those seeking a post-holiday breather.Sign up for our mailing list so you'll be among the first to know when our FREE webinar, "Why You Don't Feel Enough And How To Change It" will be open for registration. ⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
1/16/202414 minutes, 54 seconds
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Why Promising to Keep Calm is Not the Way to Stop Yelling

How often have you pledged to yourself that today will be different, that you won't raise your voice or lose your temper? The grocery shopping, dinner preparation, and myriad other responsibilities seem to pile up, and it feels like the weight of the world rests on your shoulders.Join us as we explore the inevitable cycle of yelling, guilt, and promises to do better next time. Discover the underlying reasons behind the outbursts and explore practical strategies to foster a more serene and nurturing environment for you and your children. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode and gain valuable tools to transform your parenting journey. It's time to break free from the cycle and create a home filled with understanding, patience, and genuine connection.Sign up for our mailing list so you'll be among the first to know when our free webinar, "Why You Don't Feel Enough And How To Change It" will be open for registration.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
1/9/202414 minutes, 1 second
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3 Things To Stop Doing In 2024

In a season dominated by adding more to our already overflowing to-do lists, let's take a refreshing approach. Join us as we explore resolutions prioritizing freedom and space over additional tasks and goals.In this episode, we delve into creating space in our lives. As parents, our plates are already full, and it's time to consider what we can remove from our never-ending list of responsibilities. It's not about doing more; it's about cultivating space for peace, joy, and those spontaneous moments of connection that define the beauty of parenting.Tune in as we share insights, tips, and personal stories to inspire you to declutter your schedule and embrace a New Year's resolution that truly enhances your parenting experience. It's time to trade the chaos for calm and make room for the extraordinary moments that make parenthood so uniquely wonderful. We have an upcoming FREE webinar called, "Why You Don't Feel Enough And How To Change It." This webinar will delve into the hidden ways that feeling not enough can show up in our lives and relationships, including our relationships with our kids. And we'll also talk about what we can do about it. Sign up for our mailing list and be the first to know when we open for registration! ⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
1/2/202415 minutes, 22 seconds
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HeartHealing for More Calm and Joy in Parenting with Natasha Bray

In this episode, we are joined by the incredible Natasha Bray, founder of Heart Healing Therapy and the visionary teacher behind the School of Healing Mastery. I am beyond honored to have Natasha as a coach and mentor who has profoundly influenced my personal and parenting journey over the past two years.Join us as we break the silence, challenge norms, and discuss the essential conversations that contribute to not only our personal growth but also the well-being of our children. If you've ever felt the need for a safe space to explore topics beyond the surface, this episode with Natasha Bray is a must-listen. Prepare for an inspiring dialogue that aims to empower, heal, and elevate.About our Guest:Natasha Leigh Bray is the creator of HeartHealing®, Founder of the School of Healing Mastery, and a Multi-Award Winning Success Mastery Coach and pioneer in the business success and transformation industry. Discover what are Adverse Childhood Experiences, how they affect us, and how we can protect our kids. Sign up for my Free Masterclass.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
12/26/202335 minutes, 25 seconds
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Self-Care for Thriving Parents with Dr. Marga Zarraga

Picture this: you're juggling a never-ending to-do list, running on fumes, and wondering if a spare moment for yourself is possible. In this episode, we have the privilege of sitting down with Dr. Marga Zarraga, a Wellness Physician Coach, host of the public television health and wellness talk show Mindful Me and founder of the Triple R Method for Resilience. Dr. Marga brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the table, offering a fresh perspective on self-care for parents. Discover practical tips and strategies to sneak in self-care even when time seems scarce. Our goal is to provide you with insights that you can implement immediately, whether you're navigating the chaos of the holidays, embarking on a new year, or simply trying to find balance in the middle of a hectic month.Learn more about Dr. Marga's approach.Join Dr. Marga's health and wellness community, Lite Load, on Facebook!Get our free guide, Parenting Starter Kit, when you sign up for the Discerning Parenting Toolkit.⭐ Get our book The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Go from yelling, tears, and frustration to peace and positivity. Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your safe space to get the personalized support you need. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
12/19/202339 minutes, 18 seconds
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Worried about raising entitled kids?

In the hustle of the holiday season, join us on the Discerning Parenting podcast as we tackle a pressing concern: Are we raising entitled kids? Amidst the warnings from social media and parenting experts, we'll explore the reality versus perception of entitlement. Tune in for practical tips on fostering gratitude and responsibility in our children, and discover the one key element to prevent the entitlement mentality. A must-listen for parents navigating the challenges of raising well-rounded kids in today's world.These are the resources mentioned in this episode: Download the new guide on cultivating gratitude. This also includes a short story that you can share with your toddler or preschooler.Listen to this episode with children's book author, Kim T. S. "Helping Your Child Handle Big Feelings"Check out Kim's book series, "Feeling All My Feelings"⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
12/12/202313 minutes, 37 seconds
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Trauma and the Brain in Parenting with Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

"Did I traumatize my child when I shouted at her today?" "Am I spoiling my child by embracing gentle parenting and avoiding punishments?"In this podcast episode, we'll navigate the complexities of modern parenting and the transformative shift from traditional methods to more enlightened approaches. Our guest for this insightful conversation is none other than Dr. Maiysha Clairborne – an integrative physician, visionary, thought leader, consultant, and expert in neurolinguistic programming. Get ready for a thought-provoking exploration into the intersection of psychology, parenting, and the evolving landscape of family dynamics. Tune in and discover how understanding the intricacies of our own upbringing can empower us to create a positive impact on the next generation.Meet our guest:Dr. Maiysha Clairborne is a distinguished integrative medicine physician, acclaimed international speaker, author, and Master Hypnotherapist & Teacher of NLP and Hypnosis. With over two decades of expertise, she specializes in empowering individuals to transform their lives by mastering their mindset and communication. As a Mind ReMapping & Behavior Transformation Specialist, Dr. Clairborne guides her students and clients to eliminate fear, self-doubt, and negative emotions hindering their happiness, freedom, and peace of mind. Inspired by her own experience with burnout, she offers transformative trainings and programs globally, helping both women and men discover passion, purpose, and lasting peace of mind in every aspect of life.Listen to Dr. Maiysha's podcast, The Black Mind Garden: ReMap Your Mind & ReTrain Your Brain.Follow Dr. Maiysha on social media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/DrMaiysha/Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/DrMaiyshaX (formerly Twitter) - https://twitter.com/DrMaiysha⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
12/5/202342 minutes, 24 seconds
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“Ungrateful” Kids? 5 Ideas to Cultivate Gratitude

Picture this: a child defiantly throws a plate of spaghetti to the floor, exclaiming, "I don't want it!" As parents, we might find ourselves reminiscing about the days when we would have cherished such a simple pleasure. Or perhaps, envision a scenario where a child breaks a new toy within minutes of receiving it, leading us to question their gratitude and appreciation. Are they truly being ungrateful, or do they simply lack the understanding of how to treasure their possessions?In today's episode, we delve into the complex world of parenting when faced with seemingly ungrateful behavior from our children. Join us as we explore the reasons behind these actions and discover that, more often than not, things are not as straightforward as they appear. Tune in as we navigate the challenges of raising grateful and appreciative children, and gain valuable insights into fostering a deeper connection with our little ones. It's time to unravel the layers of parenting and discover the hidden dynamics that shape our children's expressions of gratitude on this episode of the Discerning Parenting podcast.⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
11/28/202312 minutes, 32 seconds
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Holidays with Kids: 5 Tips to Go from Behavior Challenges to Happy Celebrations with Dr. Marie Irene Ordanza

As we gear up for the festivities, every parent is wondering how to make this time more enjoyable, less stressful, and, most importantly, how to handle our kids' behavior. In this episode, join us as we dive into expert advice with Dr. Marie Irene Ordanza, a seasoned professional with extensive experience in managing children and their behavior.Discover practical tips and strategies that will not only make your holidays more fun but also create a sense of peace amidst the festive chaos. From handling meltdowns to fostering a positive holiday atmosphere, we'll explore it all. Get ready for an insightful conversation that will leave you better equipped to navigate the holiday season with ease.About our guest:Dr. Marie Irene Ordanza, a Bilingual Therapist fluent in both English and Tagalog, brings over three years of invaluable experience delivering client-centered care, early intervention, and behavior management services across community, telehealth, and home-based settings. Proficient in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) principles, she conducts thorough client assessments, trains staff, and designs individualized developmental and behavioral interventions to promote milestones and reduce challenging behaviors. Beyond her core competencies, she is passionate about parent coaching, pediatric feeding therapy, acceptance commitment therapy (ACT), and organizational behavior management (OBM), embodying a holistic approach to her work and a steadfast dedication to excellence in behavioral therapy.Follow Dr. Irene:Instagram - @micbordanzaFacebook - @Irene Ordanza⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
11/21/202325 minutes, 33 seconds
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Homeschooling the Waldorf Way with Dr. Catherine Read

Today, we're diving into the Waldorf method of schooling with a true expert—Dr. Catherine Read. A Ph.D. in developmental psychology, she not only brings academic insights but is also a mom who successfully homeschooled her two kids using the Waldorf approach. Join us as we explore the principles, impact, and personal experiences that make Waldorf homeschooling unique. If you're curious about alternative education or want firsthand wisdom, don't miss this insightful conversation with Dr. Catherine on Discerning Parenting! About our guest:Dr. Catherine Read, a renowned developmental psychologist and Waldorf education advocate with a Ph.D. from UCLA, serves as a Visiting Scientist at Rutgers University and an Associate at Ithaca College. As the editor of "Evolving Explanations of Development" (1997), her expertise shines. Beyond academia, Dr. Catherine homeschooled her daughters with the Waldorf curriculum, conducted workshops, and actively contributed to the Waldorf community. Her commitment to education and adherence to Rudolf Steiner's principles have left a lasting impact on developmental psychology and Waldorf education, inspiring educators and students alike.✅ Check out Dr. Catherine's book, "The Genius of Home: Teaching Your Children At Home With The Waldorf Curriculum".✅ Check out Dr. Catherine's website.⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
11/14/202348 minutes, 28 seconds
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Decoding Screen Time Addiction In Children with Dr. Paul Filomeno

"It's a tricky ground, but if we dig deeper into the technical side of things, so what's happening in the brains of these little kids, of these screen-engrossed kids, we can actually find that their brains have their circuitry similar to what occurs in the brains of adults addicted to substances like nicotine, alcohol, and cocaine." -Dr. Paul FilomenoIn this episode, we'll unravel the mysteries behind screen time addiction in children—a topic that resonates with countless parents, educators, and caregivers globally.As technology becomes an ever-present part of our lives, understanding its impact on our children is more crucial than ever. Dr. Filomeno brings his wealth of knowledge and experience to illuminate the effects of excessive screen time and provide practical insights to help navigate this intricate landscape.Get ready to explore the nuances of digital usage, learn about warning signs, and discover effective strategies to strike a healthy balance in a world where screens are omnipresent.About our guest:Dr. Paul Lawrence Filomeno, or Dr. Paulfi for short, is a board-certified pediatrician with a Master of Public Health degree. He is currently in his final year of training in Addiction Medicine at the UP-PGH. Armed with the knowledge and skills both from pediatrics and addiction medicine, Dr. Paulfi is passionate about pediatric and behavioral addictions, especially screen and gaming addiction in children. He has shared his expertise in several symposia, most recently with the PPS-Southern Tagalog Chapter and the Queen Sirikit National Institute of Child Health of Thailand. He completed his medical degree from the PLM-College of Medicine in 2013 and took up general pediatric training at the UP-PGH from 2015-2018. Aside from fellowship training, Dr. Paulfi spends most of his time with his family, especially as a hands-on dad to his 18-month-old daughter, Laureen.Follow Dr. Paul's advocacy page that's launching soon - https://www.facebook.com/adiksyonaryo If you wish to seek consultation and/or avail of the free services of PGH Addiction Medicine, you may contact them at +63 949 438 5188.⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
11/7/202346 minutes, 45 seconds
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Is increased screen time in young kids linked to developmental or language delays? Interview with Dr. Angel Dy

Parenting in the digital age comes with its fair share of challenges, and one of the most pressing concerns for parents today is managing screen time for their children. The constant barrage of advice and opinions can be overwhelming. On one hand, you'll hear experts advocating for strict limitations on screen time, while on the other, some suggest that early exposure to screens can boost a child's intelligence. So, how do you find the right balance?In this episode, we delve into the world of screen time and its impact on young children's development. We're fortunate to have Dr. Angel Dy, a medical doctor, early childhood development advocate, and founder of The Growing Brain Ph., who conducted extensive research on this very topic. Get insights firsthand from the study author herself!About Dr. Angel Dy:Dr. Angel Dy is a medical doctor and a passionate advocate for early childhood development with over a decade of experience. She holds degrees from the Ateneo School of Medicine and Public Health and completed postgraduate studies at the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine and the UC Davis Mind Institute. Dr. Dy is an Assistant Professor at the AT School of Medicine and Public Health and an Assistant Head of Mental Health Sciences flagship programs. She's a certified trainer for the "Zero to Three" Growing Brain curriculum and has published academic articles on topics like screen time's impact on child development. She is widely recognized in the parenting space as The Growing Brain PH.⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
10/31/202330 minutes, 28 seconds
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Understanding and Supporting Twice Exceptional Children with Julie Skolnick

Are you the parent of a gifted child whose brilliance is often overshadowed by their distractibility? Do you often find yourself perplexed by your child's potential, wondering why they don't always excel as you expect them to? You're not alone, and today's episode of the Discerning Parenting podcast is tailor-made for you.In this enlightening conversation, we have the privilege of hosting the author of the groundbreaking book, "Gifted and Distractible." Our guest, Julie Skolnick, is an expert in the field of child development and education and has dedicated her career to understanding the unique challenges faced by gifted children who struggle with maintaining focus and harnessing their exceptional abilities.Get to know Julie Skolnick:Julie F. Rosenbaum Skolnick, M.A., J.D., Founder of With Understanding Comes Calm, LLC, supports parents of gifted and distractible children, mentors 2e adults, and advises professionals. She has a strong background in sociology and actively serves the gifted and twice-exceptional community. Julie hosts Let’s Talk 2e! events and publishes "Gifted & Distractible." She's a parent of three twice exceptional children and finds comfort in her red standard poodle therapist, Tigger.Grab a Free 20-minute call with Julie - Julieskolnick.com/20minJulie's website - http://www.withunderstandingcomescalm.com/⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
10/24/202336 minutes, 15 seconds
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Visual Routine Charts: Why They Benefit Kids and How To Use Them

Do you ever find yourself wondering how to create a routine that truly works for your family? Are you concerned that imposing a strict routine might stifle your child's creativity and flexibility? If these questions resonate with you, you're not alone. In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the world of parenting routines and discover the delicate art of balancing structure with adaptability.Join us as we explore the benefits of structure in a child's life, from providing a sense of security to fostering healthy habits. Discover how routines can be a powerful tool in managing the chaos that often comes with parenting.Download the free guide “How to Create a Visual Routine Chart” from the Discerning Parenting Toolkit for instructions on how to create a chart that works for your own family!⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
10/17/202313 minutes, 19 seconds
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My two-year-old won't sit during meals!

It can be frustrating if you have a two-year-old who won't sit during meals. We know that mealtimes are an important time to connect with family during a busy day, and of course, we're all worried, is my two-year-old getting enough nutrition? And it's understandable that getting a two-year-old to sit down and stay seated can be a challenging task.That's exactly what we'll talk about in this episode.⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
10/10/202311 minutes, 40 seconds
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Helping Your Child Handle Big Feelings with Children's Book Author Kim T. S.

In this heartwarming and insightful episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast, we dive deep into a topic that resonates with parents everywhere: guiding our children through the rollercoaster of emotions.Do you ever find yourself wondering, "How do I help my child learn to regulate their emotions?" or "My child is struggling with big feelings, how do I help them with that?" If so, you're in for a treat! Our guest today is the wonderful children's book author and devoted mother, Kim T. S.Join us as we embark on a journey with Kim, who has crafted beautiful stories that not only captivate young readers but also provide valuable lessons on emotional regulation. Kim's books serve as powerful tools for parents and educators to engage with children and assist them in understanding and managing their emotions.About Kim T.S.: After her dad passed away in 2019, Kim decided to stay home to focus on raising her son, Kyle, who was 3 years old and struggling with anger. She started writing to help him understand that, while all feelings are okay, we can’t let them take over us. One of her best-selling books is called, "Feeling All My Feelings Book".  Learn more about Kim's published works.⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
10/3/202319 minutes, 34 seconds
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Why do toddlers throw toys instead of playing with them?

Has someone said that your toddler is bad or naughty because they threw a toy to the floor instead of playing with it? Or maybe someone is telling you that unless you punish your toddler, you'll be spoiling them. If you are wondering why your toddler loves to throw toys instead of playing with them, you're not alone. In this episode, we talk about this common behavior, why it happens, and what to do about it.Embrace your toddler's love for throwing toys and turn it into a fantastic learning opportunity with our FREE guide, "12 Learning Activities for Toddlers Who Like to Throw Toys."  Get it for FREE!Nurture your child's development with science-backed support! Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your one-stop hub for research-based, scientific parenting support.⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
9/26/20239 minutes, 27 seconds
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Language Stimulation for Toddlers

When should a child be talking? Should you worry if your child isn't talking yet? And what can you do to boost your child's language development? These are just some of the common questions I get about speech and language development. And if that's what you're wondering about, listen to this episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast where we'll talk about strategies to boost your toddler's language development.If you have a baby or child below three, the Toddler Talking book is for you. You'll get powerful, science-backed, and yet practical strategies to boost your baby's language and brain development.Nurture your child's development with science-backed support! Join the Discerning Parent's Club - your one-stop hub for research-based, scientific parenting support.⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
9/19/202314 minutes, 28 seconds
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Is it bad to use consequences to help kids learn?

Is it bad to use consequences to help kids learn? Parenting often feels like a delicate balancing act, and using consequences is a controversial topic. It's often hotly debated in parenting forums. On one side, there are some who say that we should never use any consequences that are administered by the parent.We should only allow natural consequences. On the other hand, there are those who insist that each time a child misbehaves, they should receive a consequence that's unpleasant to them. Otherwise, they will not learn the appropriate behavior. Now, our podcast aims to empower discerning parents like you with the knowledge and tools needed to navigate the challenges of parenting.So how do we have a balanced and effective approach? So that we build empathy, growth, and resilience in our kids.⭐ Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.⭐ You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.⭐ Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Introducing the Recharge Your Parenting 1:1 Coaching Program specifically for moms of kids age five and below. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
9/12/202317 minutes, 33 seconds
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Does praising a child make them conceited or spoiled?

In today's thought-provoking installment, we delve deep into a topic that has left many parents in a state of uncertainty: Does praising a child make them conceited or spoiled?We've all encountered those articles on the internet warning against over-praising, leaving parents puzzled about striking the right balance. The concern that praising a well-behaved child might inadvertently trigger misbehavior certainly adds another layer of complexity.But what about those who grew up with parents adhering to a more restrained approach, believing that silence was the ultimate indicator of success? In this episode, we unravel the psychology behind this perspective and explore whether this upbringing truly paves the path to effective parenting.So, whether you're a seasoned parent or someone just beginning the parenting journey, this episode promises to provide you with fresh perspectives and actionable takeaways. Tune in to the Discerning Parenting Podcast as we dissect the intricacies of praise in child-rearing and empower you to make informed decisions for your family. Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this FREE parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years.The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
9/5/202310 minutes, 47 seconds
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6 Keys to Better Mental Health for Parents with Psychiatrist Dr. Julie Arellano-Khullar

It's no secret that parenting is a journey filled with its fair share of joys, triumphs, and, of course, challenges. But what happens when those challenges start taking a toll on the mental health of parents? The effects ripple far beyond just the individuals themselves. In today's episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast, we are joined by my good friend of over 20 years, Dr. Julie Arellano-Khullar, and together we will uncover the keys to better mental health for us parents. Get to know Dr. Julie Arellano-Khullar:Dr. Julie is a former classmate from medical school at the University of the Philippines, where she earned degrees in both BS Psychology and Medicine. Having completed her psychiatry residency at Wayne State University, Detroit Medical Center, she's now a psychiatrist making cross-cultural strides, aiding parents in navigating mental health challenges. Beyond her medical prowess, she's an Earth advocate, artist, author, lifelong learner, and devoted mom. Check out Dr. Julie's book, "ANADI: A Book about Eternal Love for Moms and Kids of All Ages".  This beautifully written picture book reads like a melodic poem from start to finish, with each heartwarming page, inviting the reader to take a tender pause. Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this FREE parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years.The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
8/29/202326 minutes, 27 seconds
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Are you stuck in a negative parenting cycle?

Are you feeling trapped in a negative parenting cycle that seems impossible to break? If that's the case, know that you're not alone. Parenting can be challenging and sometimes we find ourselves stuck in patterns that can make us feel more tired or maybe less joyful or that can even make us feel guilty as parents.So, listen on, and that's what we'll talk about in this episode.Would you like more support through parent coaching or consultation? Parent coaching is an essential intervention when it comes to parenting challenges.Our parent coaching is based on the Triple P framework. It’s been proven to help parents feel happier, more confident, and less stressed. It helps children improve their behavior and be mentally healthy.Learn more about our coaching program and consultation.Get our NEW BOOK! The Discerning Parent's Guide to Toddler Behavior: From Power Struggles to Connection is now on Amazon. Click here to learn more about Dr. Victoria Nolasco's books.You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this FREE parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years.The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
8/22/202310 minutes, 53 seconds
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Breastfeeding Shaming: The Mom Shaming That No One Talks About

In this episode of the Discerning Parenting Podcast, we talk about the mom shaming that no one talks about. There's a lot of talk about mom-shaming on the internet. Someone will post something on Instagram, whether it's about screen time or feeding, or any topic actually. And there will be comments calling out that person saying that's mom shaming.Now, I don't know what the world's coming to that it feels like moms now get shamed for almost everything. They're shamed for staying home. For going to work, for working from home. They're shamed for giving screen time, for restricting screen time. They're shamed for feeding only healthy food, for feeding "junk food".There's one type of mom-shaming that happens just as often as the other types of mom-shaming. But I'm baffled about why no one talks about it. So, if you're breastfeeding, or planning to breastfeed, or you are supporting a breastfeeding mom, listen to this. Don't you want to take the guesswork out of parenting your new baby? Check out Hatch&Grow - a parent’s reliable companion as they learn to navigate this journey.Created by Pediatricians, Hatch&Grow provides you with up-to-date, evidence-based child-rearing and healthcare information, takes away the stress of guesswork for a parent, and, hopefully, brings back the joy of confidently raising a child.You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! You might be feeling the pressure of advice from others, or feeling guilty that your life is not like that of other parents.Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years.The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
8/15/202314 minutes, 45 seconds
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Breastfeeding: Tips, Journeys, and Thoughts with Drs. Nadine and Paul Zambrano

August is all about celebrating breastfeeding, and we're excited to share some heartwarming stories and invaluable tips in honor of breastfeeding month. Whether you're a new mom, currently breastfeeding, planning to breastfeed, or eagerly awaiting the arrival of your little one, this episode is tailor-made for you.But that's not all – we're breaking new ground this time! For the first time ever, we're thrilled to welcome a dad onto the show. Our previous episodes have been graced by the wisdom of experienced moms, but today, we're broadening the conversation. This dynamic duo, both accomplished doctors, brings a unique perspective. They're not only parents, but they're also experts in the fields of health and breastfeeding.Join us on the Discerning Parenting podcast as we celebrate the beauty of breastfeeding and uncover the incredible stories that shape our parenting journeys.Don't forget to check out these links mentioned in this episode:Navigate the birthing process with confidence when you grab our FREE Birth Plan. Breastfeeding series from the Lancet Journal mentioned by Dr. Paul Zambrano.You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! You might be feeling the pressure of advice from others, or feeling guilty that your life is not like that of other parents.Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years.The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
8/8/202348 minutes, 28 seconds
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Does “Reverse Psychology” Work?

Does reverse psychology work? Often we hear, "Oh, if there's something you don't want your child to do, the best way is to tell them that they should do it, because if you tell them to do it, then they're not going to do it."I've often heard this cheeky line in Instagram posts, well, they may be funny and they have thousands of likes, but are they true?  Here at the Discerning Parenting Podcast we also examine common things that we hear about parenting and look at them through the lens of science and child development.You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! You might be feeling the pressure of advice from others, or feeling guilty that your life is not like that of other parents.Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years.The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
8/1/20237 minutes, 4 seconds
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Should I Get My Child’s Permission Before Doing Something That Involves Them?

"Should I get my child's permission before doing something that involves them?"This is a controversial topic. In this podcast, we're talking about young kids, and for some people, the concept of asking permission from a young child sounds absolutely absurd. While other people will insist that you should never do anything unless your child agrees to it.No matter what the situation, and even starting from when the child is a baby, you should already always ask for their permission, let's say, before changing their diaper or before giving them a bath. Here at Discerning Parenting, we empower you with science-backed ideas and strategies to help you make better parenting decisions.And we tackle this controversial issue head-on in this episode. You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! You might be feeling the pressure of advice from others, or feeling guilty that your life is not like that of other parents.Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years.The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
7/25/202312 minutes, 11 seconds
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Discipline Without Yelling with Dr. Amy Webb

"I yelled at my kids again and I felt so guilty. I wish my kids could listen without me having to yell."These are among the most common parenting struggles I hear. I'm happy to have with us today Dr. Amy Webb, founder of Thoughtful Parent and a Ph.D. in human development and family science, and we'll talk about this huge question - How can we discipline our kids without yelling? After listening to this episode, don't forget to grab these wonderful resources:The  Discerning Parenting Toolkit includes quick guides and common questions such as handling tantrums and building language skills of toddlers.Get doable strategies to use even IF you're not the most patient person with Dr. Amy's FREE guide, Discipline Without Yelling. Visit Dr. Amy Webb's website - www.thoughtfulparent.com/ Get to know our guest,  Amy Webb, Ph.D.:Dr. Amy  Webb is a parenting writer who is passionate about bringing child development research into the lives of parents so they can use it to inform their decision-making. In her writing, she brings together her research background as well as real-life experience as a mom to two rambunctious boys. When she’s not reading (parenting books or mystery novels) she enjoys hiking, cooking, and watching her sons play hours and hours of baseball. You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! You might be feeling the pressure of advice from others, or feeling guilty that your life is not like that of other parents.Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library.Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years.The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
7/18/202314 minutes, 38 seconds
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How to Start Teaching Young Kids about Money with Dr. Marnie Prudencio

When do we start introducing kids to the concept of money? And if your child is asking for a lot of toys, how do we teach them that we limit our budget for toys while at the same time teaching them a healthy money mindset? Today we're lucky to have Dr. Marnie Moya Prudencio, a neurodevelopmental pediatrician, and author of How to Be a Money Smart Parent and Raise a Money Smart Kid.We'll talk about how to start teaching young kids about money so they grow up with a healthy money mindset and learn financial literacy. Don't forget to grab these wonderful resources:Learn to handle those big parenting moments with our  Discerning Parenting ToolkitGet Dr. Marnie's books: How to Be a Money Smart Parent and Raise a Money Smart Kid and The Best Investment Book.You can now become a Founding Member of the Discerning Parent’s Club! With the Discerning Parent’s Club, you’ll… have actual, doable science-backed strategies to deal with your day-to-day parenting challenges. trust yourself more as a parent. have a happier and stronger relationship with your child even in a world that misunderstands your child and your parenting. receive guidance through situations that you may now find difficult. If you’re worried about your child’s development or behavior, but you’re still waiting for a slot to see a specialist about it, or you’re looking to support at home the therapy that your child is receiving, the Discerning Parent’s Club will also provide you with intervention strategies that are really meant to be provided by parents at home, and that research has shown to provide a lasting transformation. Enrollment is open for only the next few days, so be sure to head over to discerningparenting.com/club and join us today.
7/11/202320 minutes, 35 seconds
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Parent Led Interventions: What Are They and How Can They Help?

If you're worried about your child's development or behavior, there's an easily accessible strategy that can help you starting today. No, this is not a magic pill. It is not a false claim, but it is backed by research and is an easily accessible strategy. Parent LED intervention, whether it's speech and language delay or developmental delay, or maybe your child has received a diagnosis such as autism or ADHD, listen to this episode where we dive more into evidence-based parent-led interventions and how they can help.Do you constantly question whether you’re doing the right thing for your child? Does your mama's heart panics when you see that Facebook ad that claims, “Tantrums cause irreversible damage to your child’s brain!”? Introducing the Discerning Parent’s Club – your one-stop hub for research-based, scientific parenting support. Whether you’re seeking strategies to address behavior challenges or you want to boost your child’s development, the Discerning Parent’s Club is here to provide you with the knowledge, tools, and community you need to support your child’s learning and development. The Discerning Parent’s Club will be open for enrollment from July 6-11 - with special bonuses for those who get an annual membership in the first 48 hours. So be sure to stay tuned and be one of our founding members! The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
7/4/202313 minutes, 59 seconds
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Navigate Parenting Challenges with Confidence, with the Discerning Parent's Club

From the joy of watching your baby's first steps to the challenges of navigating the school years and everything in between, parenting is an ever-evolving journey. That's why today I'm excited to announce that we're launching the Discerning Parent's Club. This will be a trusted resource by your side, guiding you through the maze of parenting challenges, and providing you with science-backed strategies tailored to your unique situation. This is your one-stop hub for research-based scientific parenting advice.Do you constantly question whether you’re doing the right thing for your child? Does your mama's heart panics when you see that Facebook ad that claims, “Tantrums cause irreversible damage to your child’s brain!”? Introducing the Discerning Parent’s Club – your one-stop hub for research-based, scientific parenting support. Whether you’re seeking strategies to address behavior challenges or you want to boost your child’s development, the Discerning Parent’s Club is here to provide you with the knowledge, tools, and community you need to support your child’s learning and development. The Discerning Parent’s Club will be open for enrollment from July 4-8 - with special bonuses for those who get an annual membership in the first 48 hours. So be sure to stay tuned and be one of our founding members! The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
6/27/202312 minutes, 57 seconds
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Are Timeouts Bad For Kids?

Have you received advice that if your child misbehaves, you should give your child a timeout? But the moment you scroll through Instagram or TikTok, you see an entire slew of experts telling you that timeouts are bad for kids. All this is adding to parental guilt because it feels like whatever we do, we're bound to get it wrong.Whether we do timeouts or not, there's somebody telling us that we're doing it wrong, and that's why in this episode I address this sticky issue: Are timeouts bad for kids?You might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! You might be feeling the pressure of advice from others, or feeling guilty that your life is not like that of other parents. Check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library. Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
6/20/202310 minutes, 26 seconds
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Why Won't My Baby Sleep?

You are exhausted because your baby won't sleep. Then you see all the advice that says you should ignore your baby's cries because if you ignore them long enough, they'll fall asleep. But your mama heart just can't leave your baby screaming and crying all alone in the crib. Then, you hear these voices telling you, "You are such a pushover. That baby has you wrapped around their little finger."  Or "Why are you letting your baby dictate your schedule and what you do?" Is all this criticism true? Is it your fault that your baby won't sleep? Are you breathing bad habits because you rock your baby to sleep? And what can you do so you don't spend the entire night rocking your baby so they don't wake up? We'll address these questions in this episode. Discover what works when it comes to sleep, and learn research-backed techniques for soothing your baby. Sleep, Your Baby, and You is a FREE MINI COURSE created by a trusted pediatrician, to help families with newborns find the answers to one of your most important needs right now: Sleep!Access the mini-course for FREE when you visit discerningparenting.com/sleepYou might have questions about how to handle tantrums. Or how to help your kids learn to talk, or get them started learning to read. But you don’t have hours to sift through all the competing online resources! You might be feeling the pressure of advice from others, or feeling guilty that your life is not like that of other parents. Then, check out our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library. Created by a pediatrician and developmental expert, this parenting toolkit includes 6 guides FULL of easy-to-read, practical, reliable tips and strategies for parenting in the first five years. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
6/13/20239 minutes, 12 seconds
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Parenting Twins: Joys, Challenges, and Insights - with Dr. Missy Wolfman

Are you wondering what it's like to be a parent of twins and if you have twins yourself, what are tips that can help us during those times when there are many demands on us as parents? Sometimes it can be hard to imagine what it's like to have twins because even managing one child or multiple children of different ages can already be a challenge. What about two kids at the same age, especially during the time that their babies and young toddlers? That's why I've invited Dr. Missy Wolfman, a clinical psychologist and founder of Empowerment Psychology, and a mom of twins to talk with us about this. Don't forget to check out these awesome resources:Empowermums by Dr. Missy Wolfman. Head over to her website, where you can get her FREE "Get Me More Time" 7-day challengeMy book "Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps"A free toolkit for handling those BIG parenting moments - Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource LibraryTransform your child's reading journey, and help them learn to read in a fun and stress-free way! Join the other parents using evidence-based, proven techniques to build their child's reading skills. Set your child up for reading success for years to come - without the power struggles.The Parent Teaches Reading Coaching Course is on a mission to help you teach your child to read the right way at the right time. Your child can enjoy learning and do better in school, and you'll also enjoy a healthier relationship with your child. To learn more, head over to momteachesreading.com/coaching. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
6/6/202318 minutes, 41 seconds
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Before You Enroll Your Child in a Reading Program, Listen to This

Have you been thinking of enrolling your child in a reading program? Or maybe there are advertisements for reading programs popping up on your Facebook feed, or maybe you're thinking you're worrying about whether your child is going to be ready for school, so you are looking for a program where you can enroll your child so that they will learn to read.How do you choose one that is right for your child? And why is it so important to choose the right ones? Are there any consequences if you choose the wrong reading program? We'll find out right here in this episode.We are joined once again by Teacher Tasha Mendoza, a Reading Intervention Specialist, as we talk about reading programs and how to choose the right one, and towards the end we'll also talk about how we can support you further in your journey of teaching your child to read.Click here and get your FREE guide: Prepare Your Child for ReadingThis is the last episode in the series, How to Teach Your Child to Read. If you haven't checked out our previous episodes, click the links below: How Do Kids Learn To Read?How do Reading Skills Develop? The Stages of Learning to ReadReading Readiness: What It Means and Why Is It ImportantTransform your child's reading journey, and help them learn to read in a fun and stress-free way! Join the other parents using evidence-based, proven techniques to build their child's reading skills. Set your child up for reading success for years to come - without the power struggles.The Parent Teaches Reading Coaching Course is on a mission to help you teach your child to read the right way at the right time. Your child can enjoy learning and do better in school, and you'll also enjoy a healthier relationship with your child. To learn more, head over to momteachesreading.com/coaching. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/30/202333 minutes
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The Importance of Building Reading Readiness with Teacher Tasha Mendoza

How do we help our kids be ready to learn to read? This is a question that people rarely ask. People almost never talk about reading readiness. But if you're having questions like "Should my child already be having reading lessons" or "I get frustrated when trying to teach my child to read",  then these are common questions and to help us answer this, we're going to talk about reading readiness in this podcast episode.I've invited Reading Intervention Specialist, Teacher Tasha Mendoza, to join me today. You don't want to miss this episode that can take away a lot of the stress and pressure around helping kids learn to read. Click here and get your FREE guide: Prepare Your Child for ReadingThis is the third of a series on How to Teach Your Child to Read, our first two episodes answer the questions "How do kids learn to read?" and "How do reading skills develop?" Be sure to listen to these episodes too.We have 1 more episode about helping kids learn to read, also featuring Teacher Tasha Mendoza. Make sure to follow the Discerning Parenting podcast, so you don't miss an episode!Transform your child's reading journey, and help them learn to read in a fun and stress-free way! Join the other parents using evidence-based, proven techniques to build their child's reading skills. Set your child up for reading success for years to come - without the power struggles.The Parent Teaches Reading Coaching Course is on a mission to help you teach your child to read the right way at the right time. Your child can enjoy learning and do better in school, and you'll also enjoy a healthier relationship with your child. To learn more, head over to momteachesreading.com/coaching. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/23/202327 minutes, 14 seconds
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How Do Reading Skills Develop? The Stages of Learning to Read with Reading Intervention Specialist Teacher Tasha Mendoza

Are you struggling to teach your child to read? Do you feel like you've tried everything but your child still can't seem to grasp it, and you're already feeling frustrated and you're wondering if you're failing?  As a parent, I wanted to know you are not failing. Instead, listen to this episode with Reading Intervention specialist teacher Tasha Mendoza.We'll discuss why waiting for the right time and approaching reading in the right way can make all the difference. We'll talk about common struggles and provide practical tips and strategies to help you and your child succeed. Don't miss out on this valuable advice. Tune into this episode. Click here and get your FREE guide: Prepare Your Child for ReadingWe have 2 more episodes about helping kids learn to read, also featuring Teacher Tasha Mendoza. Be sure to follow the Discerning Parenting podcast, so you don't miss an episode!Transform your child's reading journey, and help them learn to read in a fun and stress-free way! Join the other parents using evidence-based, proven techniques to build their child's reading skills. Set your child up for reading success for years to come - without the power struggles.The Parent Teaches Reading Coaching Course is on a mission to help you teach your child to read the right way at the right time. Your child can enjoy learning and do better in school, and you'll also enjoy a healthier relationship with your child. To learn more, head over to momteachesreading.com/coaching. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/20/202325 minutes, 58 seconds
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How Do Kids Learn to Read? with Teacher Tasha Mendoza, Reading Intervention Specialist

Are you worried about when and how your child will learn to read? Maybe you have a toddler or a three-year-old, and you wonder what you should be doing so your child is ready for reading.There’s also a lot of pressure about learning to read, especially when people compare one child with another. Maybe in one classroom there may be some kids who are already reading whole words, while others are barely starting to recognize letters of the alphabet. We’ll remove the stress and pressure around this, because in this episode, we'll explore the science behind how kids learn to read. We've invited Teacher Tasha Reyes-Mendoza, a reading intervention specialist with a master's degree in education as well as special training and 10+ years experience in evidence-based programs to help kids learn to read.You'll discover answers to questions such as:What's the real first step in learning to read? (It's not memorizing the alphabet!)Do you really need to wait for readiness? Or can you decide to teach a child to read anytime (like what many on the internet claim)?The single biggest reason why parents and kids are stressed about reading, and what to do about itand more!Click here and get your FREE guide: Prepare Your Child for ReadingWe have 3 more episodes about helping kids learn to read, also featuring Teacher Tasha Mendoza. Be sure to follow the Discerning Parenting podcast, so you don't miss an episode!Transform your child's reading journey, and help them learn to read in a fun and stress-free way! Join the other parents using evidence-based, proven techniques to build their child's reading skills. Set your child up for reading success for years to come - without the power struggles.The Parent Teaches Reading Coaching Course is on a mission to help you teach your child to read the right way at the right time. Your child can enjoy learning and do better in school, and you'll also enjoy a healthier relationship with your child. To learn more, head over to momteachesreading.com/coaching. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/16/202325 minutes, 36 seconds
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Finding Peace by Simplifying Home Systems with Marielle Melling

The sink is piled high with dishes.You can't see the living room sofa anymore because it's covered by dirty laundry.Toys are scattered all over the floor and you've tripped on a toy at some point.You're feeling stressed just looking at the clutter. I know what that feels like because I've never been a naturally organized person. That's why today, I'm happy to invite Marielle Melling, founder of Loving Life With Littles, to help us find more peace in motherhood by simplifying home systems.Marielle has a degree in health education. She is the author of Peace Amidst the Mayhem. She is passionate about simplifying parenting and helping others find more calm, confidence, and joy in their parenting journey. Since getting married, Marielle and her husband have moved eight times! She loves the opportunity to live in different places and make friends that live in various parts of the world. Marielle and her husband are the parents of five incredible kids.Be sure to grab hold of these wonderful resources:Marielle's FREE Simple Systems Starter Guide our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Librarymy book "Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps"Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/9/202318 minutes, 47 seconds
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6 Steps to Calmer and More Joyful Parenting - Part 2

At any one time, we're always bombarded with conflicting advice about parenting. On one hand, we hear things like, "Your child shouldn't hear the word no!" Or, "You shouldn't give any consequences!" On the other hand, we hear, "Unless you spank your kids, they'll grow up to be spoiled and naughty!"No wonder, as parents, it can feel like whatever we do, we're doing something wrong! This second part of this series on the Discerning Parenting Podcast is here to help you let go of the guilt and worry. Instead, you'll walk away with practical strategies you'll  be able to apply in navigating everyday parenting challenges.Head over to https://discerningparenting.com/free-guides/ and get our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library Check out also my book "Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps"Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/2/202312 minutes, 44 seconds
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6 Steps to Calmer and More Joyful Parenting - Part 1

How do I get my child to stop kicking or hitting? How can I get my child to stop whining? How do I get my kids to listen to me when I get them to do something?As a developmental and behavioral pediatrician, these are among the most common questions I get. In this 2-part series, you'll discover the 6 steps to calmer and more joyful parenting. Be sure to grab hold of these wonderful resources:our FREE Discerning Parenting Resource Librarymy book "Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps"Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
5/2/202310 minutes, 3 seconds
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What Should a 2-Year-Old Be Learning?

When we think of what a two-year-old should know, many parents worry about whether or not their kids have memorized the alphabet, or whether they can count up to 20. If this is stressing you out, I have good news for you. Academic skills like letters and numbers are not a priority for this age! In this episode, we talk about what 2-year-olds should be learning. We based this on the list of developmental milestones updated in 2022.Be sure to grab hold of these too:our FREE Discerning Parenting Resource Librarymy book "Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps"Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/25/202310 minutes, 18 seconds
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What Should My 18-Month-Old Be Able To Do?

Is my child's development on track?My 18-month-old can't say any words yet, not even mama. Is this normal?These are among the most common questions I get. If you have an 18-month-old, you may be wondering about this too. In this episode, we talk about what 18-month-old toddlers should be able to do. We based this on the 2022 updated developmental milestones.Be sure to grab hold of these too:our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library that includes a FREE guide to a week of language boosting activities for toddlers (that you can use over and over again for unlimited fun and learning)!my book "Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps"Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/25/202311 minutes, 36 seconds
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What Should a 3-Year-Old Know?

What should my three-year-old be able to do? As a developmental and behavioral pediatrician, this is one of the most common questions I get. You'll love this podcast episode, where we discover what skills we look for in three-year-old kids. This is based on the list of developmental milestones updated in 2022. Don't miss out on these awesome resources:our FREE Discerning Parenting Toolkit and Resource Library where you'll get a week of language boosting activities for toddlers, and more!my book "Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps"Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/25/202311 minutes, 30 seconds
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Breaking the Cycle of Adverse Childhood Experiences: Healing Intergenerational Trauma and Becoming a Better Parent

Adverse childhood experiences include experiences such as physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, neglect, household dysfunction, or violence. Children who experience ACEs may struggle with their emotions, cognitive development, behavior, and physical health. These effects can be long-lasting, and it's essential to recognize the impact of ACEs on us as parents and our children.To learn more about adverse childhood experiences, head over to https://discerningparenting.com/ace/ and access our free video about this.Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/18/202313 minutes, 35 seconds
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Mom Burnout: What It Is and What to Do with Dr. Missy Wolfman

"I'm exhausted. I feel completely burned out." "I haven't had a break in so long. I'm doing everything for my family. And with all that I'm doing, I still get criticized and it's never enough." "I am very, very tired. I don't know what to do or whom to talk to."I hear statements like these all the time from moms. That's why in this episode, we hear from Dr. Missy Wolfman, a clinical psychologist from Auckland, New Zealand,  founder of Empowermums, and mom of twins, to share with us about mom burnout.If you've felt exhausted, burned out, or resentful of all the work you have to do as a mom, you're not alone. Feeling tired or burned out also does NOT make you "weak", and it certainly does NOT make you any less of a parent. It does NOT mean you love your kids any less.Here's just some of what you'll discover in this powerful episode:The ONE thing moms had in the past, that we don't have anymore - that's contributing to mom burnoutA new definition of self-care, different from what we usually hear from the internet (it's not about spas and pedicures!)What to do if you're feeling signs of mom burnoutand more!While mom burnout is common, it doesn't have to be. Listen to this episode and let's get started in relieving parenting stress and burnout.That's why part of our mission in Discerning Parenting is to remove the misinformation that leads to mom guilt and stress, and adds to mom burnout by making parents believe they need to do all these things that aren't even founded on parenting science and child development!Links with resources to help you fight mom burnout:Empowermums by Dr. Missy Wolfman. Head over to her website, where you can get her FREE "Get Me More Time" 7-day challengeIt's time to get rid of all the parenting misinformation out there that's adding to your burnout. Instead, get our FREE Discerning Parenting Resource Library.Take care of your own mental health and prevent burnout, while at the same time taking care of what your child needs. Check out my coming seminar series Positive Parenting for Better Behavior and Mental Wellness.Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/11/202325 minutes, 29 seconds
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Is Your Child Ready for Kindergarten? With Elizabeth Manly of Discovery Play with Littles

How can I get my child ready for kindergarten?Should I be doing flash cards with my two-year-old?My three-year-old and I end up fighting when I try to get her to do worksheets!As a developmental and behavioral pediatrician, these are just some of the questions I often get. Many parents are worried that their kids might not have the skills they need to keep up in school.I talk about preschool readiness a lot. But before, I've always talked about this from the viewpoint of a developmental pediatrician. But in the end, who are the ones in the classrooms with the kids? It's the teachers! That's why today I'm thrilled to feature our special guest. Elizabeth Manly is a mom and a licensed teacher who's had years of experience teaching preschool to second grade. She's the founder of Discovery Play with Littles.Here's just some of what we talk about in this much-requested-for episode:How we're now expecting so much more from our kids as early as kindergarten, how this is affecting kids, and how to cope as parentsTWO common things that many people believe are good for kids, but are actually not helpful (and are stressing kids and parents out!)The ONE thing kids really need to learn before kindergarten - and it's not the alphabet!and more!Links mentioned in the episode and other helpful links:Discovery Play With LittlesSuper Kid Adventures - Mission: Perseverance by Elizabeth ManlyThe Discerning Parenting Resource Library, which includes a guide on preparing your child to learn to readToddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps by Dr. Victoria Ang-NolascoLearning Through Play by Dr. Victoria Ang-NolascoDon't forget to FOLLOW the show, so you don't miss any of our coming episodes!Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
4/4/202335 minutes, 14 seconds
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How to Get Back in Shape After Having a Baby with Dr. Rachel Pope

As busy moms, we really Don't. Have. Time. for an exercise routine! But at the back of our minds, we know that we need to stay healthy.This episode's guest is Dr. Rachel Pope, a doctor of physical therapy, runner, and mom of three. She specializes in helping moms get back into shape after having a baby. And this doesn't just mean in the first few months after giving birth! Even if your child is older, if you want to be fitter and healthier, you'll pick up great tips from this interview.Here's just some of what Dr. Rachel shares with us:3 health problems many moms experience after having a baby, that the right kind of exercise can help withhow even just a few minutes a day can help you feel better and healthierwhy there's no one-size fits all to getting back in shape (and why it may not be a good idea to simply follow any exercise video from Youtube!)Here are the links mentioned in the episode:Dr. Rachel Pope's website, where you can check out her step-by-step system designed to strengthen and heal the pelvic floor after giving birth, so you can get fit quickly and safelyFind joy and calm in parenting, with the resources at the Discerning Parenting site.Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/28/202316 minutes, 49 seconds
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Baby's First Solid Foods

"I'm about to start solid food for my baby - what food should I give?"There's a lot of stress and confusion about this."I'm trying to do baby-led weaning, but my baby kept gagging so I stopped. I fed my baby a puree. I feel so guilty. I'm a bad mom."And then these guilt-ridden moms receive advice like,"It's good if baby gags! Ignore your mom intuition!""You just didn't try hard enough!"Are these really proven statements?In this episode, I discuss with pediatrician (and mom of three!) Dr. Nadine Zambrano answers to questions like:How do we know baby is ready to start solids?How can we select foods that are right for baby?What's the single most important thing to remember when feeding baby? (that's not about the food you give!)Does baby really need to finish a set amount of food (like what many moms are told!)?If you enjoyed this episode, let us guide you step by step as you start solids. Find out more about our course Feeding Baby Right.Links mentioned in the episode:FREE guides in the Discerning Parenting Resource LibraryOn-demand video course: Feeding Baby RightBaby's First Year KitAnd while you're here, be sure to FOLLOW the Discerning Parenting podcast, so you don't miss an episode!Dr. Nadine Zambrano and Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco are co-founders of Hatch and Grow, Inc., which supports parents by taking the stress and guesswork out of parenting.Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/21/202319 minutes, 11 seconds
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Is Your Child Ready for Potty Training?

Is your child ready to be potty trained? Do we even need to wait for readiness, or can anyone really potty train at any time and have it over and done with in 30 days or less?Here, you’ll hear from trusted developmental pediatricians Dr. Janys Lim from Ontario, Canada, and Dr. Jack Herrin from Manila, Philippines. We'll tackle questions such as:Is there one right way to potty train (like many on the internet claim)?What influences when and how we potty train?What are the signs that your child is ready to be potty trained?What are signs that you may need to wait?After listening to this episode, you'll be able to remove a lot of the stress, guilt, and pressure around potty training!Want to potty train your child in a way that is relaxed and flexible, and does not induce guilt, frustration, or power struggles? Click here and check out our course Potty Training Playbook.Don't forget to follow our show and leave us a review, so the show can reach and help more parents!Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/14/202324 minutes, 7 seconds
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Toddler Aggression: When to Worry featuring Dr. Jack Herrin & Dr. Janys Lim

Do your toddler’s kicks or hits have you questioning if it’s more than just the "terrible two's"?One of the most common questions I get asked is “When should I worry about my toddler's aggressive behavior?”And if that's your question, we've got you covered today because I've invited two trusted developmental and behavioral pediatricians to join us.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH: The single most common reason behind a lot of what we call "toddler aggression" (and it has nothing to do with your toddler wanting to hurt others!)One vital thing parents can do to prevent and manage "aggressive behavior"If you've been told, "You need to spank your child!" by someone who's seen your child hit or kick - you'll know why this backfiresIf You’re Struggling with the Terrible Twos or a “Threenager” I’ve Got Just the Thing - Click HERE!If you’ve connected with this episode in some way, leave a review and share your biggest takeaway with me. And while you've got your phone out, make sure to follow me on Instagram @discerningparenting. I’d love to hear how Dr. Herrin and Dr. Lim’s advice has helped change your view of toddler aggression - send me a DM!Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/8/202323 minutes, 30 seconds
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Baby’s First Words: At What Age Should They Come?

Are you eagerly looking forward to the day your baby says those sweet first words?But when should the baby start talking? Should my baby already be having their first words? Should I be doing anything to make this happen faster?The pressure is real and we all feel it as parents. That’s why I’m here today, as a developmental and behavioral pediatrician, parent coach, and mom to bust some myths around our baby's first words.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: The key to recognizing the communication between you and your baby that’s already happening every single day.The scientific reason behind the adorable “babbling” and “raspberries”Why you may have greater success if you ditch all the things that the internet has been telling you to do. Instead, spend 10 minutes just being with your baby.Get a Head Start on Your Toddler’s Speech Success with the “Toddler Talking” Book HERE!If you’ve connected with this episode in some way, leave a review and share your biggest takeaway with me. And while you've got your phone out, make sure to follow me on Instagram @discerningparenting. Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/8/202314 minutes, 17 seconds
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Faced with Parenting Guilt, Criticism, or Unsolicited Advice?

Have you ever followed what you thought was good parenting and common sense, only to see later on an Instagram post saying it's wrong? And then felt worried or guilty about it?Every day, I hear questions from concerned parents who are lost in the noise just like you. From sleep schedules to baby-led weaning to programs that promise a potty-trained tot in just 3 days - I've met many moms who've felt like bad parents for not following something they've been told to do.So how do you know what advice is right for you and your family? It can be overwhelming to sift through all the conflicting information and figure out what will work best for you. That's where the Discerning Parenting podcast comes in. We'll help you make informed parenting decisions by providing you with research-backed insights, and by helping you use them in a way that fits your own unique situation and your child's needs. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: The criteria you should be looking for when deciding whether or not parenting advice you hear makes sense for you.How to fact-check any piece of advice, no matter the source.The absolute most important question you should be asking yourself when deciding to try a new parenting technique.If you’ve connected with this episode in some way, leave a review and share your biggest takeaway with me. And while you've got your phone out, make sure to follow me on Instagram @discerningparenting. Send me a DM with the worst bit of advice you’ve been given! I've also prepared a parenting resource library for you. You'll get a set of handy guides on toddler activities, handling tantrums, preparing your child for reading, and more! Head over to our website discerningparenting.com to get these guides for FREE. Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/8/202317 minutes, 46 seconds
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Asking This One Question Will Change How You Deal With Toddler Tantrums

"You need to show who's boss!""You shouldn't say no to your child!""Ignore them!""Validate feelings!"You've probably heard A LOT of tantrum advice. What's a stressed parent to do?!Each time I ask moms what's their number one concern, it's always "tantrums" that come up. That’s why in this episode, we’ll talk about the ONE thing that’s missing from a lot of the tantrum advice that’s on the internet, and ONE question to ask when your child has a tantrum.Answering this ONE question will help us discern whether all the advice we're hearing does make sense for us.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: Why tantrum parenting is a lot more nuanced than a trendy Instagram Reel.Why “just keep calm” isn't working for you (and it's not your fault!).The ONE question that will change the way you look at tantrum parenting forever!Need Some Support During Those Crazy Toddler Years? Click HERE!If you’ve connected with this episode in some way, leave a review and share your biggest takeaway with me. And while you've got your phone out, make sure to follow me on Instagram @DiscerningParenting. I’d also love to hear how it goes - send me a DM on how asking yourself the one question changes your perspective as well as the way you approach tantrums. Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/8/202318 minutes, 5 seconds
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Two-Year-Old Babbling but Not Yet Talking?

Do either of these situations sound familiar? Sometimes, I meet kids who are three or four and not yet talking. Often, the mom was already worried way before this. But everyone around her said, “Oh that’s okay, just wait and he’ll start talking before you know it.” Maybe she’ll hear a story about a kid who didn’t talk until he was four and is now very talkative. So the mom ends up feeling like she’s worried about nothing.On the other hand, I also encounter moms who are worried because their two-year-old doesn’t know the ABCs or can’t name flashcards yet. Maybe they feel a lot of pressure because of what they see on the internet about what lessons their toddlers should be having.That’s why in this episode, I’ll talk about what language skills most two-year-olds would have. And what to do if your two-year-old is babbling but not yet talking. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH: The ONE communication skill your toddler needs to develop at this age (and no, it has nothing to do with naming flash cards or reciting the alphabet!)The often-overlooked "hidden skills" when it comes to communication.What exactly you should be looking for to know that your toddler's development is on the right trackGet your FREE guide - A Week of Language-Boosting Activities for Toddlers.If you’ve connected with this episode in some way, leave a review and share your biggest takeaway with me. And while you've got your phone out, make sure to follow me on Instagram @DiscerningParenting. I’d also love to hear how it went when you do any of these tips with your toddler. Send me a DM on how it went! And let me know too if you have a topic you’d like me to cover in a coming episode.Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
3/8/202314 minutes, 42 seconds
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Welcome to the Discerning Parenting Podcast by Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco

Full Episodes launching weekly starting March 8th, 2023!!Are there days you feel you’ve had it with the sleepless nights, the temper tantrums, and the constant fatigue of trying to keep up with an active baby?Does it feel like you’re always working so hard as a parent, trying to do everything for your kids and family, and yet it never feels enough? We get it. You love your child more than anything, and yet parenting is also exhausting and challenging. Especially when you’re bombarded with criticism and pressure to be the perfect parent (which, spoiler alert, does not exist!).But what if you had experts who understand exactly what you’re going through help you navigate the everyday challenges of parenting your baby, toddler, or preschooler? What if they help you use scientific research to your advantage, so you become the calmer, happier, and more empowered parent you’ve always wanted to be?That's why we created "Discerning Parenting," the podcast that helps you cut through the noise and focus on what truly matters in your parenting journey.Join Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco, developmental and behavioral pediatrician, positive parenting coach, author, speaker, and mom, as she and our guest experts tackle your most pressing parenting concerns.From toddler discipline to helping kids learn to talk or to read, from starting solids and potty training to promoting social and emotional development, this podcast is jam-packed with valuable insights and practical tips specifically tailored for parents of kids aged 5 and below.So join us and discover how you can use the combined power of science, knowing your child, and your own intuition in making the best parenting decisions for you and your family. Have you been feeling alone in wanting to practice positive parenting? Or maybe people around you are criticizing your parenting, and it’s making you constantly question whether you’re doing it right? I’d like to invite you to join me for a 3-day live virtual training on Positive Parenting for Mental Health and Wellness. We'll talk about things like: Discipline strategies that don’t involve spanking, criticism, or threats How to help a child who gets easily frustrated, or a child who’s been labeled rude or uncooperative Building kids’ self-esteem and helping them make friends Protecting your child’s mental health And more You can get the entire series and replay access for only $9! To learn more, head over to discerningparenting.com/parenting. The Discerning Parenting Podcast is a free informational resource for parents. As a valued listener, you acknowledge that any information you get from this podcast is for your general guidance only, and ​​must never be considered a substitute for the advice provided by a doctor, therapist, or other qualified medical professionals who know your child specifically. Read our full disclaimer policy here.
2/15/20231 minute, 59 seconds