Jai The Gentleman posted this reel about dating trans men and the part that got the most commentary was when I said “f*ck people not parts”.  As much as I know this applies to dating people of trans experience, I think the rest of Black gay culture still can use the memo. This is how Jai The Gentleman learned about the fetishization of men in Black gay culture, and what the culture must do about it. ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com

This epsiode Jai The Gentleman does a deep dive into the dating pool: why can't we find a man. Team DBGM gets emails, DMs, mentions/tags from listeners wondering why the dating pool hasn't yielded a relationship. Jai is going through some similar woes, but has finally uncovered that it might not be the dating pool; it's actuall him. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎹Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com

This episode Jai The Gentleman dives deep into a challenge a lot of Black gay men (and people) in the dating pool deal with: why can't he just do what I want him to? Jai unpacks how a celebration for a friend's new job turned into an internal dialogue that, he says, has held him back from a relationship. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎹Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com

In this episode, Jai The Gentleman discusses a recent break-up he went through. The topic came up on a previous episode of Dear Black Gay Men where Jai talked through sexual incompatibility. Today, Jai goes a little deeper on some lessons that he uncovered after a couple months distance. The big question is, should Jai go back. Screenshot this episode, share it to your IG and let us know what you think. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎹Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman

Judge me later, but I was at a sex club the other week. Guy walks up to me and said the weirdest things in an effort to avoid saying what he actually wanted to share. New uploads Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Thursdays on YouTube: youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman