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Bobo and Flex

English, Comedy, 1 season, 93 episodes, 3 days, 23 hours, 8 minutes
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It's your two faves bringing you the world's first cross-continental podcast. Bobo and Flex are on a quest to decolonize our minds, intersect our feminism, but most importantly, give us all the tools necessary to stay away problematic boys! Interested in advertising with the Bobo & Flex Show? Hit us up at [email protected]
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what is cheating?

in this week's episode, we dissect a fascinating dilemma that unpacks the bounds of interdimensional cheating! we discuss: what is it exactly that constitutes as cheating? how does monogamy culture affect this? and so much more!enjoy!!FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2/10/202154 minutes, 38 seconds
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what happens when we die?

in this very spirally episode, we talk about near-death experiences! we recount the experiences of 2 people who claimed to die and come back to life, and we dissect the extent to which those accounts are fictional constructs or accurate depictions of the path into the afterlife. We also discuss the role of aliens in our cosmos, and the Garbovoi healing numbers ... and their effect on humanity. enjoy!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
1/31/202149 minutes, 46 seconds
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meditation, trauma in the body & living in bad faith

Yaay new episode! This week's episode is very chit-chatty and all over the place. We talk briefly about meditation and the ways in which trauma lives in the body. And then we discuss all the various ways that we tend to live in bad faith and differentiate between actively living vs passively settling into life's circumstances. And, so much more!!enjoy!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
1/20/202147 minutes, 26 seconds
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ADHD, autism, mental health trends & the controversy of self-diagnosis

Let's talk about mental health!! In this episode, we unpack the realities of being neurodivergent and learning to live in a society that is inherently ableist. We talk about some of the ways that society is disabling and how that lives alongside the online trends of depression/anxiety. We also talk about the controversy of self-diagnosis and how culture, class, gender and race complicate the issue. So much to unpack!! enjoy!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
1/13/20211 hour, 6 minutes, 18 seconds
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is it ethical to lie to kids?

This week we’re discussing the ethics of lying to kids. When, if ever, is it ethical to lie to your kids? How do we protect children's innocence and nurture their imagination and sense of fantasy without shielding them from reality? We discuss the context and cultural nuances that come with truth vs lies. We dissect the consequences of growing up under illusions. AND; we get into the growing trend of millennials hating kids. enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
1/4/202144 minutes, 12 seconds
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wedding culture, moral responsibilities & the paradox of selfishness

We're back with a spicy and (very) divisive AITA. We discuss the age-old question "what do we *really* owe each other," and "what should we expect from each other?" We also discuss the toxicity of wedding culture and why romantic traditions carry so much weight. AND; we dissect why marriage has such a low success rate. enjoy!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12/29/20201 hour, 20 minutes, 36 seconds
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shrooms, drug culture and the wonders of the human mind

What a spiraly conversation! this week, we're diving into the experience of psychedelics and how it affects your perception of life and self. We also discuss the politics of drug culture and the stigma's attached to certain drugs. We then finish off with a spiralyyyy conversation about all the different ways our minds work - and how that's all affected by the relationship one has with their mind. enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12/14/202057 minutes, 34 seconds
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conflict resolution, processing emotions and romantic love

In this week's episode, we talk about everything from conflict resolution, processing emotions and whether or not romantic love is sustainable. We discuss the nuances of conflict compatibility, the various ways in which we all process and express our emotions, and whether or not heteronormative relationships are sustainable in a world where women are conditioned to hate men.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12/7/202057 minutes, 36 seconds
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what is the perfect religion?

this week, we continue answering your questions! We talk about what the perfect religion would like ... if that were even possible. We discuss how ambition intersects with compatibility. We get into whether or on adopting kids is morally superior to having kids ... and so much more!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
11/29/20201 hour, 5 minutes, 25 seconds
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Q&A: did eve really eat the apple?

this week's episode is so fun! we asked you to send us in your questions, and we answered them! we talk about our dream dinner guests, we unpack whether or not adam gaslit Eve, and we try to understand why people still settle for unfulfilling relationships and whether or not romance is actually sustainable.enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PODCAST:www.patreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCAST:open.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPY…nupPrompt=1&nd=1FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
11/24/202059 minutes, 19 seconds
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everything is a scam

WE'RE BACK!!! after a looooong hiatus - this week, we're talking politics, morality and the illusions of reality. We discuss whether or not there is such a thing as a *good* politician. We get into virtue signaling, woke culture and question the utility of pursuing political change.enjoy!!ALSO; we would LOVE if you could take this survey to help us learn more about you and the type of content you'd like to hear from us! link to the survey here: https://podcastsurvey.typeform.com/to/GptmSQ2AKEEP UP WITH US!FACEBOOKfacebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUPfacebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREONpatreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCASTopen.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPY…nupPrompt=1&nd=1FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAMinstagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREONpatreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTERtwitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNELyoutube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagramBobo: instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: instagram.com/flex.mamiTwitterBobo: twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
11/15/20201 hour, 12 minutes, 55 seconds
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bella thorne & white feminism

this week, we talk about white feminism! what is it, and how does it differ from intersectional feminism? was feminism as a whole, ever intended to liberate us? AND; we discuss Bella Thorne's white saviourism. enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREON:www.patreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCAST:open.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPY…nupPrompt=1&nd=1FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9/13/20201 hour, 3 minutes, 34 seconds
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sacrifice vs compromise

this week, we talk about everything! we talk about the relationship between beauty, mental health and capitalism. we interrogate; who's responsibility is it to protect our mental health? what do influencers and celebrities owe us? we also dive into a juicy AITA and unpack the idea of sacrificial love and where we should draw the line between sacrifice vs compromise.enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREONwww.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN OUR FACEBOOK GROUPwww.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexJOIN THE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUPwww.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREON/PODCASTwww.patreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCASTopen.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPY…nupPrompt=1&nd=1FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAMwww.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTERtwitter.com/boboandflexInstagramBobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTubeBobo: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitterBobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9/6/20201 hour, 20 minutes, 59 seconds
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make your statement and go

this week, WE SPIRALLL!!! we talk about ambition, success and the myth of permanent happiness. We also get into Plato's allegory and how it can help us understand each other's realities and help us have more productive conversations about race.enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREON:www.patreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCAST:open.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPY…nupPrompt=1&nd=1FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
8/30/20201 hour, 4 minutes, 14 seconds
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the aliens are coming

this week, WE ARE SPIRALLINGGGG!!!! we talk about aliens, indigo, crystal, starseed and rainbow children, the origins of humankind, the limitations of being in a 3-dimensional world ... and we figure out whether or not reality is real. hint: it's not!enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREON:www.patreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCAST:open.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPY…nupPrompt=1&nd=1FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
8/18/202053 minutes, 15 seconds
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people don't care

this week, we're diving into an extra long chaotic episode about wisdom teeth, the pressure to erode your health for the benefit of capitalism, as well as our argument for anarchy!! Enjoy!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:https://www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREON:www.patreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCAST:https://open.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPYfSWi6VDiPHD?go=1&utm_source=embed_v3&wmode=opaque&t=1690&fallback=getapp&signupPrompt=1&nd=1FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
8/10/20201 hour, 16 minutes, 42 seconds
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AITA for cleaning poop off my friend

This week we're diving into some moral dilemmas! we answer the questions: where do we draw the line between altruistic vs invasive? what does it mean to be a good friend? when, if ever, is it appropriate to give unsolicited advice? and, is honesty really the best policy?Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7/26/20201 hour, 11 minutes, 38 seconds
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Jada, Will, August & Predatory Behaviour

This week we're talking about the Jada, Will & August dilemma. We talk about the difference between a life partnership vs a romantic partnership. We unpack what it really means to commit and be loyal to someone. AND; most importantly we talk about sexual consent and how that intersects with class, privilege and power dynamics.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7/19/20201 hour, 5 minutes, 56 seconds
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what is the point of representation?

This week we're dissecting the recent popularization of black liberation. why are companies suddenly so interested in black representation? We discuss the futility of getting a 'seat at the table,' why being 'the first black' is not success, and we unpack the popular idea that the black experience is improving over time.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7/12/20201 hour, 3 minutes, 26 seconds
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are you morally obligated to love your family?

This week we're talking about family dynamics! We discuss the ethics surrounding familial love, we talk about the inability to escape childhood trauma, whether or not the nuclear family is an outdated format for raising kids, and so much more! enjoy :)JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7/5/202056 minutes, 48 seconds
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growing up in a black household

This week we're dissecting some AITA's, and talking about the very unique experience of being raised black ... but more specifically, being raised African. We talk about black parenting vs white parenting, and the exhaustion of being perceived as a strong black woman. Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6/28/202058 minutes, 24 seconds
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PLAYING REFLEX: is it unethical to own pets?

This week's episode was sooo funn!!!! we're playing our new REFLEX Expansion Pack, made by Flex in collaboration with Bobo :) we talked about everything from the ethics of animal agriculture, the moral significance of our thoughts, the paradox of moral obligations, AND SO MUCH MORE !BUY REFLEX:https://flexfactory.store/collections/everything-but-clothing/products/reflex-bobo-matjila-editionJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6/21/202059 minutes, 47 seconds
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why is cultural appropriation prioritized over black genocide?

This week we're extending our conversation about race! we talk about the personification of race, why cultural appropriation is prioritized over black lives, and we discuss whether liberation can or will ever be achieved! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6/14/20201 hour, 11 minutes, 49 seconds
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do you think black lives actually matter?

This week we're discussing all things activism! What does it mean to be an ally to Black Lives Matter, and black liberation movements as a whole? Is activism still valid even if it's performative? Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6/10/202058 minutes, 55 seconds
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how your friends impact your success

This week we're talking about success! Do we need successful friends in order to thrive? Are we really the sum of our friendships? What does it really mean to be successful under capitalism? Is success even a worthwhile pursuit? Enjoyyy!!! And let's continue the conversation on socials!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
5/31/20201 hour, 17 minutes, 40 seconds
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lana del rey, doja cat & antiblackness

This week we're digging into the drama surrounding Lana Del Rey & Doja Cat. We have an honest conversation about race, antiblackness and practical ways to navigate living in a white supremacist world and tackling racism head-on.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
5/25/20201 hour, 12 minutes, 43 seconds
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learning to give and receive love

This week we're talking all about love and vulnerability! Where do we learn to love? How do we undo our toxic ideas about love? and how can we become more vulnerable in our relationships! :)JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
5/18/20201 hour, 11 minutes, 37 seconds
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the pressure to be positive on social media

This week we're discussing social media, toxic positivity and the illusion of permanence and happiness. This is probably one of our more philosophical discussions, so if you're ready to spiral, let's goooooooo :)JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
5/11/202052 minutes, 24 seconds
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what does it mean to be rich in 2020?

This week we talked about class, clout, Caroline Calloway, privilege and how that all intersects with romance! What does class look like in 2020? is clout a more valuable currency than money? and how do we navigate financial dilemmas in our romantic relationships without making our relationships transactional? Enjoy!!!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
5/3/20201 hour, 8 minutes, 58 seconds
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what do we owe each other? moral and ethical dilemmas

This week we're discussing solitude and morality! Why do some people need more human interaction than others? What do we owe each other? kindness, compassion, or just basic human decency? And; how should we relate to each otherJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
4/26/20201 hour, 6 minutes, 23 seconds
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navigating cross-cultural dating and living with your partner

This week we're discussing some relationship dilemmas: how do you live with your partner without killing them? How do you navigate cross-cultural dating and how to set boundaries during corona. Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
4/20/20201 hour, 7 minutes, 15 seconds
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is depression ever an excuse for being a shitty friend?

This week we're all over the place! We have a chat about communicating our expectations and boundaries with our friends. Maintaining relationships with your depressed friends. And what relationships will look like after corona. Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
4/13/20201 hour, 9 minutes, 34 seconds
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is anger a useful tool for change?

This week we're playing a game of Reflex! We talk about the benefits and pitfalls of anger and sorrow, we talk about learning to deal with people's negative perceptions of us and we talk about why we will NOT be having moderators in our facebook group. Enjoy!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
4/5/20201 hour, 8 minutes, 46 seconds
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2020 is the year of realizing things

This week we're talking everything from corona, to race, to conspiracy theories. What does it really mean to be a good ally? how do we protect our mental health during quarantine season? what is corona here to teach us? JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/29/202055 minutes, 42 seconds
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lessons we learnt too late in life

This week we're playing Reflex! We talk about the lessons we've learnt throughout the years, adulting, the education system and we dissect what it really means to live a good life. Enjoy!BUY REFLEX THE CARD GAME HERE:https://flexfactory.store/collections/reflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/22/202052 minutes, 46 seconds
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corona virus: is this the beginning of the end?

This week we're talking about the coronavirus epidemic! why is everyone stockpiling toilet paper? What is corona here to teach us? Will capitalism survive the wrath of corona? SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/15/202051 minutes, 35 seconds
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is the law of attraction a delusion?

This week we're getting philosophical: we chat about the law of attraction and how it intersects with privilege. Do we give ourselves too much credit for our success? How much does the law of attraction play into our delusions about ourselves? And; is there a fundamental purpose and reason for human existence??? WHAT IS IT!!!!ENJOY SPIRALING!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/8/202051 minutes, 34 seconds
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is being pretty the ultimate privilege?

This week we're talking about pretty privilege! how is beauty affected by the white gaze? is beauty for leisure or survival? is it democratic or elitist? We talk about this and so much more. Enjoy -and don't forget to follow us on socials!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/1/202056 minutes, 55 seconds
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"self love culture" could be why you hate yourself

This week we're talking about self-love! Is it realistic?? can social media and self-love coexist? AND; is depression the new hourglass figure?? how do we learn to love ourselves when we've internalized depression as the coolest new personality trait?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2/16/202057 minutes, 38 seconds
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do abusers deserve forgiveness and grace?

TRIGGER WARNING! This week we're talking about abusive celebrities, complicated legacies and how to live alongside abusers - particularly when they're in close proximity to you.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2/9/202050 minutes
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introducing kinky sex to your vanilla partner

Today we're answering all your questions about sex! We talk about how to avoid performative sex, navigating sexual incompatibility and most importantly - how to give excellent head lol. And so much more! Listen now!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2/3/20201 hour, 8 minutes, 38 seconds
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so, how are we going to end racism?

In this week’s episode, we talk about RACE! Why is it so hard for POC and white people to understand each other? Should philanthropy always be virtuous? And is ending racism a worthwhile pursuit? Click to listen and let's continue the conversation on social media!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
1/26/20201 hour, 12 minutes, 23 seconds
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how do you get over someone you never dated

This week we're answering your questions about love and relationships: from getting over heartbreaks, the line between desperation vs assertiveness and attachment styles. SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
1/19/20201 hour, 8 minutes, 43 seconds
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incompatible love languages

This week we're talking about everything from love languages, self-awareness, astrology and whether we can ever escape being trash.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
1/12/20201 hour, 22 minutes, 48 seconds
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tanning vs blackfishing

This week we're talking about plastic surgery, body modification, self-love and the thin line between tanning culture and blackfishing.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12/29/201957 minutes, 55 seconds
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what is the point of feminism?

in this episode, we talk about beauty pageants, feminism and whether or not to persist in making the world a better place.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12/22/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 49 seconds
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reasons why you should cheat

yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the ethics of cheating, trust issues and letting go of resentment. Enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12/8/201937 minutes, 49 seconds
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how to break up with a friend

yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the difficulties of maintaining adult friendships, how to break up with your friends and how to navigate forgiveness without compromising yourselfSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
12/1/20191 hour, 6 minutes, 43 seconds
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the incel epidemic

Incels!! Why do they exist? why are men so entitled to women? and what is the relationship between capitalism, patriarchy and incels. SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
11/24/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 34 seconds
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Drake and the men who date teens

trigger warning: pedophilia and sexual assaultin this episode, we answer the question: in what ways has pedophilia been normalized? do the fashion and beauty industry sexualize children? in what ways does society encourage child sex abuse, and how can we all prevent it? Enjoyyy!!!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
11/17/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 49 seconds
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has he checked for your hymen yet?

This is a brand new format - a chit chat episode! We talk about everything from the scam of the healthcare industry, who built the pyramids, T.I and the normalization of pedophilia. Enjoy!!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
11/10/20191 hour, 4 minutes, 33 seconds
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Q&A is my white boyfriend fetishizing me?

This week we're answering all your love & relationship questions! are racial preferences racist? do all white men have racial fetishes and how do you get over trust issues?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
11/3/201958 minutes, 56 seconds
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what is the point of being a BETTER person?! ft. Mukundwa

OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE !!! we talked to Mukundwa about the pursuit of kindness, intelligence and self-development. what does it mean to be a good person? and is the pursuit more important than the destination? how do we navigate romance in a pool of men who don't participate in self-development? Enjoy !!!Follow Mukundwa:Mukundwa's IG: www.instagram.com/mukundwa_I Said What I Said Podcast: https://soundcloud.com/iswispodcastSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
10/27/20191 hour, 20 minutes, 17 seconds
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who is responsible for ending climate change?

In today's episode, we talk about climate anxiety, Greta Thunberg and the robot apocalypse. enjoyyyy :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
10/20/20191 hour, 4 minutes, 22 seconds
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are you ready to die?

Trigger Warning: Suicide - in this episode we talk all about death, suicide, after-lives and why humans fear death. enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
10/13/20191 hour, 3 minutes, 52 seconds
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Part 5: Toxic Relationships

this is episode 5 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about maintaining fulfilling relationships, apology languages AND how to fight well!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
10/6/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 34 seconds
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Part 4: How To Have The Best Sex

this is episode 4 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about the importance of facilitating your own nut, the pros and cons of sex and finding sexual confidence!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9/29/20191 hour, 10 minutes, 38 seconds
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Part 3: Transitioning from Situationship to Relationship

this is episode 3 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about situationships, male-female platonic friendships and what to do when you fall in love with your best friend :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9/22/201955 minutes, 46 seconds
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Part 2.5: Navigating First Date Anxiety

this is episode 2.5 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about first date conversations, anxiety and flourishing as an introvert :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9/15/201947 minutes, 47 seconds
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Part 2: First Dates For Dummies

this is episode 2 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about where to go on a first date, initiating conversations AND how to avoid situationships! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9/8/201953 minutes, 48 seconds
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Part 1: Dating for Dummies

this is episode 1 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about gaining confidence to start dating, enjoy romance and staying away from problematic white boys :)TW: Sexual AssaultSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9/1/20191 hour, 13 minutes, 24 seconds
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the problem with wokeness

what does it mean to be woke? why do we aspire for wokeness? how can we grow without attaching to dogma? We discuss all that and more !SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
8/25/20191 hour, 15 minutes, 20 seconds
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so you want to be non-monogamous?

what are open relationships? does anyone benefit from non-monogamy, and how can we stay ethical while navigating unconventional forms of love!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
8/18/20191 hour, 3 minutes, 55 seconds
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unrequited love and abusive relationships

a heated conversation on unrequited love and how to navigate those waters, and we discuss whether or not love and abuse can coexist.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
8/13/20191 hour, 9 minutes, 1 second
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dumb bitch decisions: i bailed him out of jail and he left me for another girl

Whew, this is a hilarious episode about all the dumb bitch decisions we keep making!! from wasting money to raw sex, we cover it all!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
8/4/20191 hour, 1 minute, 3 seconds
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manifesting your best life in a world with no free will

This week we're talking all about karma, free will and the law of attraction. How do you manifest your best life when you have no free will? If there's no free will, can you change your karma? Our most existential episode yet - enjoy!!!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7/28/201957 minutes, 37 seconds
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is moral superiority making you lonely?

This week we're talking about the loneliness epidemic! Is our loneliness self-induced? Are we misdiagnosing our loneliness? is the quest to be understood a catalyst for feelings of isolation? How does morality and ideologies affect our mental health?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7/21/201951 minutes, 20 seconds
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bonus episode – unpacking love island UK 2019

This week, Flex chats to avid Bobo and Flex listener and Love Island fanatic Anny Ma (@_annyma). At this point in time Bobo hadn't started watching the series so I had to sub in a very capable guest.This episode was filmed right around the time Michael recoupled with Joanna. So juicy. We discuss colourism, sexism, gaslighting and the horror of modern romance.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7/16/201958 minutes, 48 seconds
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how to live fully before the world ends

This week we're giving life hacks and practical tips on surviving (but also enjoying) life during the apocalypse :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BobydahBaduFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7/14/201958 minutes, 44 seconds
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girl code: can i sleep with your crush or nah?

This week we're chatting toxic friends, breakups and the merits or downfalls of girl code/objective morality!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7/7/20191 hour, 24 minutes, 42 seconds
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Mental Health, Therapy & Modern Day Happiness

SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6/30/201944 minutes, 35 seconds
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Breakups, Heartbreak & Platonic Exes

What are the benefits of heartbreak? How to survive a breakup, and why does love hurt so much??SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6/23/20191 hour, 2 minutes, 30 seconds
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Spirituality: Past Lives & The After Life, What is Reality & Are Humans Inherently Trash?

This episode will either drive you to an existential crisis, or lead you to enlightenment. hehe, have fun tho!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6/16/20191 hour, 7 minutes, 1 second
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Are You Racist?? Being Black in a White World, Who Gets To Be Black & White Guilt

In this episode, we literally ended racism. Thank you for listening! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6/9/201959 minutes, 9 seconds
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Body Image: Self-Loathing, Anti-Blackness, Body Positivity & Is Beauty for Everyone?

We talk about body neutrality, self-love and whether or not beauty is accessible to everyone!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6/2/20191 hour, 21 minutes, 59 seconds
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Answering Your Questions: Casual Sex, Virginity & Unrequited Love

We answer all your questions from finding body and sex confidence, losing your virginity, dealing with unrequited love!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
5/26/201935 minutes, 4 seconds
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Hookup Culture: Dating Etiquette, Soul Ties & Who Benefits?

Hookup culture!! Is it ruining us or liberating us? Are we (even) sexually liberated or have we deluded ourselves into thinking we are? Let’s dive into it!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
5/19/201957 minutes, 55 seconds
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Safe Spaces: Entitlement, Privilege & Is Equality a Worthwhile Pursuit?

Are safe spaces helping or harming us? what is the intent vs the impact? Can we do without, and how can we level up our activism so it's inclusive but nuanced!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
5/12/201946 minutes, 27 seconds
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BDSM, Sexual Fantasies, Race Play & The Orgasm Gap

OUR SPICIEST EPISODE YET!!!! We’re diving into kinky sex and BDSM!! What’s healthy, ‘normal’ and where do our sexual fantasies come from? Let us know your thoughts, chime in - we’d love to hear from you!TAKE THE BDSM TEST: www.bdsmtest.orgSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
5/5/20191 hour, 19 minutes, 19 seconds
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Self-Love, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Labour & Twitter Feminism

How do you know when to fight vs when to leave? Has twitter (and instagram tbh) ruined how we navigate our relationships, and what does it even mean to practice 'self-love' in this day?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
4/28/20191 hour, 15 minutes, 48 seconds
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Manifestation, Pursuing Your Dreams & Is Passion a Scam?

in this episode we're breaking down what it really takes to manifest your best life, and - is the idea of passion and purpose a scam?!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
4/21/201954 minutes, 34 seconds
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Cheating, Side Chicks, Secrets & Morality

We're diving into the topic of cheating! Is it really a dealbreaker? Do we need to destigmatize the role of side chicks? How do we let go of baggage from hurtful relationships and is infidelity and deceit really immoral?WATCH THE VIDEO VERSION OF THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE:https://youtu.be/-n0ZcM5qS5YSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
4/14/201951 minutes, 43 seconds
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The Truth Behind Being an Influencer, Instagram Toxicity & The Apocalypse

We're revealing the truth behind the lifestyle and career path of being an influencer, social media performativity and we unpack how social media is basically launching us into the apocalypse :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
4/7/201948 minutes, 13 seconds
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Dating: Red Flags & Pink Flags, Settling vs Compromising

Watch the full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTWRYIVsluA&t=1213sIn this episode, we're unpacking the subtle differences between red flags and pink flags. AND, we're dissecting where to draw the line between settling vs. compromising.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/31/201936 minutes, 14 seconds
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Mental Health, Toxic Activism, Friendship Boundaries & Depression

This week, we're talking *Mental Health*! Is depression the latest trend? Is activism toxic? And how can we create better boundaries in our friendships?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/24/201952 minutes, 19 seconds
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What Would Bobo & Flex Do? l Virginity, Trauma & Awkwardness

Yaay! Our new segment where we answer your questions and scenarios on love, sex, life and everything in between!DM us at @BoboAndFlex on IG or email us your dilemmas at [email protected] :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/21/201926 minutes, 17 seconds
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how is (toxic) feminism affecting your sex life?

This time we're talking about the orgasm gap, the intersection between our feminism and sex lives and we dissect the age-old 'spit or swallow' question. Also, trigger warning: Sexual TraumaLet us know your thoughts and let's continue the conversation! SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/17/201958 minutes, 26 seconds
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dating broke men is not sustainable

Bobo & Flex dissect the age-old question: WHO SHOULD PAY ON DATES? Is dating broke men sustainable and what is the least problematic, dating etiquette :)Let us know your thoughts and let's continue the conversation! SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/10/20191 hour, 12 minutes, 46 seconds
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Answering your questions about toxic friends, manifestation & dating white boys

Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!Instagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobomatjila_Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BobydahBaduFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
3/3/20191 hour, 26 minutes, 31 seconds
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Sex, Orgasms & Eating Ass

Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2/25/201958 minutes, 10 seconds
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Friendship + Social Media // Are You A Trash Friend?

Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2/18/201946 minutes, 12 seconds
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Cancel Culture + Rape Culture // Is R Kelly Really Cancelled

Thank you for tuning in!(please excuse the sound issues)Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2/10/201935 minutes, 9 seconds
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Dating Culture & Romance // Who Benefits From Romantic Love?

Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
1/29/201939 minutes, 34 seconds