Welcome to Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! We are a ministry that is committed to equipping marriages, uniting families and igniting faith through Gods word, biblical foundations and practical tips. We are your hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale and we are so excited to have you here with us! Our hearts desire is to serve and help blended families flourish in Abundant Kingdom life. God did not create us to just get through life, but He created us to live life abundantly. He will complete the good work He began in your blended family, for nothing is impossible with God. (Luke 1:37)
Beginning to Blend: Building a Christ-Centered Blended Marriage and Family
Are you starting the journey of blending a family and striving to build a marriage that honors Christ? In this episode, Beginning to Blend: Building a Christ-Centered Blended Marriage and Family, Scott and Vanessa are joined by friends Stephen and Kate Srein, a newly blended family navigating the challenges of merging two families into one. From parenting styles, co-parenting dynamics, to building a foundation of trust and faith, Stephen and Kate share real and raw insights from their first year of marriage. Learn how to lay a solid foundation, trust God's timing, and embrace blended family challenges with joy. Whether you're in a blended family or preparing to start one, this episode is packed with biblical wisdom and practical tips to help you thrive. Tune in for honest conversations, uplifting encouragement, and tips on blending your family in a way that aligns with your faith.We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
10/21/2024 • 33 minutes, 32 seconds
Screen Time Tips: How to Navigate Screens & Technology in Blended Families
In this episode of the BKF podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss a challenging issue that impacts all blended families: understanding and managing screen time. With statistics showing kids spend up to 9 hours a day on screens, they explore practical solutions to create balanced and healthy media habits. They share their own family’s rules on screen time, discuss the dangers of excessive exposure, and offer strategies for parental controls. Tune in to learn how to build a media plan that encourages communication, family time, and healthier digital habits for your children.We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
10/14/2024 • 20 minutes, 52 seconds
How to Overcome Favoritism - Practical Tips to Improve Your Blended Family
In this episode of the BKF podcast, How to Overcome Favoritism - Practical Tips to Improve Your Blended Family, Scott and Vanessa discuss the challenging dynamics of favoritism within blended families. They discuss how favoritism can impact both biological and stepchildren, ways to identify signs of favoritism, and share strategies you can implement to help ensure every child feels valued. With real-life examples and expert advice, they explore how open communication, establishing clear boundaries, and intentionality can help build unity and avoid feelings of resentment. Whether you're a stepparent, biological parent, or both, this episode provides valuable insights on creating a cohesive and loving family environment for your blended family to thrive. We pray this episode is a blessing to you! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
10/7/2024 • 21 minutes, 53 seconds
When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage
In this episode of the BKF Podcast, When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage, Scott and Vanessa tackle a common issue faced by blended families: when one partner feels like their spouse is choosing their children over them. Learn how to set healthy boundaries, communicate openly, and maintain a strong marriage while raising a blended family. They also share practical tips for addressing challenges with adult children and offer insights into creating a family dynamic that honors both your marriage and your kids.Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
9/30/2024 • 18 minutes, 29 seconds
Navigating Legal Issues and Going Back to Court in Blended Families
In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Family podcast, Scott and Vanessa explore the complex legal challenges faced by blended families, including child custody modifications, visitation rights, co-parenting struggles and more. Whether you are going through or preparing for a legal dispute, this practical advice, rooted in both faith and professional guidance, can help you navigate these tough situations with grace.They also share insights from their book, Back to Court, co-authored with family law attorney Denny Brewer. This book provides step-by-step guidance on preparing for custody modifications and other legal processes, ensuring you’re spiritually and practically ready. Discover how to maintain peace, protect your family, and trust God's plan through every trial.Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
9/23/2024 • 16 minutes, 51 seconds
Marriage After Addiction: Blended Family Success with Eric Kennedy
In this powerful episode, we sit down with Eric Kennedy, author of Marriage After Addiction: Take Back Your Life Together. Eric shares his inspiring journey from battling addiction to finding faith, recovery, and building a blended family. Learn how he overcame addiction, rebuilt his life through faith, and now helps others navigate the challenges of addiction and recovery within their relationships. Eric’s testimony offers hope for those battling addiction or supporting loved ones through the journey. Tune in for insights on faith, healing, and blended family success!Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
9/16/2024 • 31 minutes, 34 seconds
How to Effectively Lead Your Blended Family with Dr. Jon Chasteen
In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott Martindale is joined by friend and special guest Dr. Jon Chasteen, Senior Pastor of Victory Church. Together, they discuss leadership and how to be a "Re-Leader" in your blended family. Learn how to navigate the complexities of trust, patience, and leadership when you’re tasked with fixing something you didn’t break. Discover biblical principles and practical advice that will help you build a strong, resilient family foundation to serve current and future generations.Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
9/9/2024 • 26 minutes, 35 seconds
How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families
Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Blended Family Podcast! On this episode, How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale dive deep into one of the biggest challenges in blended families: How to teach values to both biological and stepchildren. Are you struggling to integrate different backgrounds and traditions in your family? Don’t worry! We’ve got you covered with practical tips and real-life examples to help you build a strong, faith-centered foundation for your family. Tune in as we uncover how to incorporate biblical teachings into blended family life!Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
9/2/2024 • 21 minutes, 33 seconds
Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families with Pastor Wade Smith
In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families, Scott is joined by Pastor Wade Smith, the Executive Pastor at Victory Church, to discuss the critical role of community within the church. They dive deep into why small groups are essential for growth, especially in today's content-driven world, and how intentional relationships with godly friends can transform your spiritual journey. Whether you're a pastor, a church member or navigating blended life, this conversation will encourage you to take that next step in building a stronger community around you. Tune in for practical advice, personal stories, and a fresh perspective on why church isn't just a place to attend but a community to be part of.Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
8/26/2024 • 26 minutes, 25 seconds
How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families
Navigating life in a blended family comes with its own set of challenges, from connecting with children to overcoming the social stigma that often surrounds these unique family dynamics. In this powerful episode, How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families, we explore the keys to building strong, lasting bonds with your children while addressing the external pressures that can impact your blended family. Whether you’re a biological parent or a stepparent, this episode is packed with advice and actionable insights to help you successfully navigate blended family life. Join us as we uncover the path to a thriving, resilient blended family!We pray this episode blesses you today! Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
8/19/2024 • 18 minutes, 38 seconds
What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It
Welcome to the BKF Podcast! In this episode, What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It, Scott and Vanessa dive into the challenges of defining parental roles within blended families. Discover how to tackle role confusion between biological and stepparents, address inconsistencies across households, navigate loyalty conflicts that children may face and much more! Join us for an enlightening discussion that offers practical guidance and scriptural wisdom to help your blended family thrive.We pray this episode blesses you today! Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
8/12/2024 • 19 minutes, 20 seconds
Top 4 Co-Parenting Tips for Blended Families
Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Top 4 Co-parenting Tips for Blended Families. In this episode we welcome back Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) Ambassador Sidney Chaplin to discuss her top 4 tips for effective co-parenting in blended families. Sidney shares personal experiences relate to fostering healthy blended family communication, avoiding making kids choose between parents, and more! Whether you are new to blended family life or looking for ways to improve your co-parenting skills, this episode is packed with practical advice and encouragement. Don't miss out on these essential tips!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
8/5/2024 • 31 minutes, 28 seconds
Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment
In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment , Scott and Vanessa Martindale explain the vital role of discernment in co-parenting. Discover how the Holy Spirit guides us to make wise decisions, maintain healthy relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in blended families. Whether you're struggling with communication, dealing with manipulation, or seeking peace in your co-parenting journey, this episode offers practical advice and spiritual insights to help you navigate these challenges.We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
7/29/2024 • 21 minutes, 6 seconds
Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective
In this episode, Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective, Vanessa Martindale interviews Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) ambassador Sidney Chaplin. Enjoy this encouraging discussion about common toxic co-parenting behaviors and how to avoid them. Sidney shares her experiences and offers practical tips for maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship. From avoiding negative talk about the other parent to fostering open communication, this episode is packed with valuable advice for blended families.We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
7/22/2024 • 18 minutes, 35 seconds
Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective
Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective as Vanessa interviews Sidney Chaplin, a Blended Kingdom Teens ambassador, about healthy co-parenting from a teen’s perspective. Sidney shares her experiences and offers valuable advice for parents navigating co-parenting relationships. From setting boundaries to encouraging positive relationships with bonus parents, Sidney provides practical tips for creating a supportive environment for teenagers and children in blended families. Tune in for heartfelt stories and actionable strategies to improve your co-parenting journey.We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
7/15/2024 • 16 minutes, 34 seconds
Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist?
Join us on this episode, Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist, as Scott and Vanessa discuss the complexities co-parenting relationships can have with a narcissist in blended families. They also provide insights into understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and the impact it can have on co-parenting dynamics. They offer practical advice on setting boundaries, maintaining your mental health, and focusing on what’s best for your children. Learn about the importance of documentation, seeking legal counsel, and building a strong support system to help you through these tough situations.We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website
7/8/2024 • 20 minutes, 28 seconds
How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice
Welcome back to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! In this episode, How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice, we dive deep into the challenging world of co-parenting and discuss how to avoid toxic behaviors that can harm your blended family's dynamic. Join Scott and Vanessa as they share practical tips to help you navigate co-parenting with respect, communication, and love. Whether you are dealing with passive-aggressive communication, inflexibility, or attempts to undermine your authority, this week's episode provides valuable insights to help you create a healthier environment for your children and bonus children. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more expert advice on managing blended families!Be blessed in all you do!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website