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English, Cultural, 1 season, 79 episodes, 1 day, 10 hours, 8 minutes
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Hello my name is Karla & restoring healthy mindsets is my thing. A BIG thank you to my loyal community who have inspired me to create this podcast. I want to create this safe space for us women to have a REAL conversation on what it means to be a woman. A lot of us have forgotten our inner power, because of factors that are out of our control. Since I am a relationship coach & a certified image consultant; I will be focusing on marriage, romantic relationships, and high value women mindset.
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If He Provides - ALWAYS Have An Exit Strategy

In today's video, we're diving deep into a topic that's crucial for women considering the traditional route of being the primary provider for their family: the importance of having an exit strategy. It's about planning for the future, safeguarding your family's financial wellbeing, and ensuring personal fulfillment and security.
10/16/202412 minutes, 42 seconds
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3 conversations you need to have before you legally commit - create a strong family unit FIRST

In today's Monday flow, Karla talks about the 3 topics you MUST discuss with your partner before you get married. Miss one of these, or stray away from your agreed upon stance for each topic and your relationship WILL suffer. These topics were well discussed in the book "101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged" which you can find on Amazon!
10/14/202412 minutes, 43 seconds
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Does He Make You Feel Confused? Babe, he's playing you...

Find out if you are getting played... no one likes to feel confused, lost, or frustrated while dating so it is time to play smart and identify the green and red flags before you spend months or years with someone who has no clue what they are looking for. As Karla Elia would say- you are single until you're married.
10/9/20248 minutes, 21 seconds
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Identify if he is playing you - Signs You Can Trust Him ✅

In this Monday's flow, Karla dives into the steps you should take to determine if a prospect is trustworthy. While there are conversations you can have and actions you can take to discern an authentic partner and protect yourself, dating always means taking a risk. Make wise choices and that risk has a good chance of being your biggest blessing 🌷
10/7/202422 minutes, 31 seconds
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Break Generational Curses - Rebrand Your Life

Karla Elia speaks about the dirty, ugly, and hardships in relationships. She gives you a debrief on how you can overcome these challenges if you are facing any of them currently. It's time to rebrand your life.
10/2/202421 minutes, 9 seconds
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Men Don’t Speak in Family Meetings - Has Media Pushed You To Believe Men Are Stupid?

In this Monday flow Karla discusses how Latinas are portrayed in the media and how these pervasive stereotypes have lasting impact on relationships. While the media can be influential, it doesn't have to dictate your story 🌷
9/30/202414 minutes, 50 seconds
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Good Men STILL Exist- It Only Takes ONE Man To Create Change

It's no secret Karla loves generous, purposeful, good men. On today's Wednesday wisdom she showed gratitude towards her "vanilla man" who made it possible for her to create a sensational online community. Reminding us to ALWAYS show appreciation to the men who DESERVE affirmation.
9/25/20249 minutes, 31 seconds
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I MARRIED VANILLA MAN - Why I Couldn't Marry Within My Culture

In today's Monday flow, Karla discusses the difficulties she had with dating within her culture. As a Latina woman, she made the ultimate sacrifice and married outside of her culture to break the generational curses she's been made so painfully aware of.
9/23/202415 minutes, 46 seconds
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If You Struggle Making Girl Friendships - HERE'S WHY

Karla Elia discusses the importance of letting go of resentment toward women.
9/18/202414 minutes, 8 seconds
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From Podcast Guests To Viral Creators - How I Turn Everything I Touch Into Gold

In this Monday's Flow, Karla reveals the secret to turning everything you touch into gold (hint: it revolves around serving your community) 🌷 Watch all your the energy, love and money that you put into others come right back to you.
9/16/202410 minutes, 3 seconds
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It's time to LET GO of your "BossBabe Era" - Step Into Ease

Today Karla Elia discusses the dark truth about women stepping out of work to pursue harmony within the home. Why do women experience a 2-year recovery phase to accept their new lifestyle? Find Out Today.
9/11/202414 minutes, 2 seconds
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Consequences of The 50/50 Rule - Don’t Do It

In this Monday's flow, Karla unpacks why 50/50 doesn't work for the woman OR the man in a relationship and how to move away from it before it's too late. She encourages you to set up systems now to accomplish balance within your relationship 🤍
9/9/202411 minutes, 37 seconds
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STOP Being a Hidden Pick-Me: Use The Alix Earl Formula

Just because you have a BIG MORAL COMPASS doesn't mean you can't be "THAT GIRL" . Subscribe, like, and stay tuned! 👑✨
9/4/20249 minutes, 7 seconds
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This is why you feel stuck & lost.

On Today's episode, Karla challenges the limiting belief of "dreams don't pay bills". Your dreams are deeply connected to your heart, but why is it that we have a hard time trusting our dreams? Find out more.
8/28/202410 minutes, 25 seconds
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Tell Him You Like Him Then DO NOTHING.

In this Monday's flow, Karla redefines the common expression "I don't chase, I attract" to include some necessary action by the you as a woman. She discusses the importance of being yourself in turn developing the confidence to attract quality men and approach those that interest you. 🤍
8/26/202411 minutes, 9 seconds
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Reacting to my NBC interview - Mainstream Media Gets it WRONG

An anti-feminist? A gold digger? Why is the mainstream media so PRESSED about how women decide to live their lives? NBC Article: https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/dating-c...
8/21/202410 minutes, 44 seconds
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My Experience Going On the Whatever Pod - How To Be Persuasive

Karla Elia talks about her experience being on The Whatever podcast, and takeaway messages. If you want to learn how to speak to people's hearts to change their minds this episode is for you.
8/19/202418 minutes, 29 seconds
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Your Relationship Needs Social Media Boundaries

In today's flow, Karla breaks down how you should respond to your husband/partner getting attempts from other women. She lays out a systems for responding to both your partner and the women to help you both protect your marriage and your peace. This advice comes from personal experience - so of course she starts with a storytime 👀
8/12/202415 minutes, 37 seconds
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Watch Your Man Give You EVERYTHING

Karla Elia challenges previous negative programming around the idea of being submissive.
8/7/202412 minutes, 51 seconds
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You Don't Need To Tell Him EVERYTHING - You Sound CRAZY

On today's Monday Flow Karla talks about why treating your lover as your best friend damages your relationship.
8/5/202414 minutes, 17 seconds
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Get Vulnerability From Him

Karla Elia shares her secret on how she mastered effective communication in her relationship.
7/31/202415 minutes, 26 seconds
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Get Everything You Desire by MASTERING THIS.

In this video Karla spills the tea on the power of effective communication in relationships 👀 Learn not just what to say, but how and when to say it for maximum impact. A life of abundance is at your fingertips 🤍
7/29/202421 minutes, 18 seconds
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What They Aren't Telling You About The Education System

Who were the philosophers who established the public education system in the US? Why did they choose this model? How does economics depend on education? Find the answers today's Wednesday Wisdom w Karla Elia.
7/24/202442 minutes, 26 seconds
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It Took Me 3 years to Detox.

This might be an uncomfy convo to have.. but Karla is not holding back! In this Monday's Flow, she unpacks the toxicity that education systems bring by fostering limiting beliefs in young minds. Karla emphasizes the importance of looking within, tapping into one's unique skills and purpose, to navigate a path that's not only profitable but deeply fulfilling.
7/22/202413 minutes, 21 seconds
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Wednesday Wisdom: What It Takes To BE High Value.

Karla Elia breaks down the real definition of High Value. Do you have what it takes? Find out on the show.
7/17/202452 minutes, 44 seconds
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What it takes to be a High Value Woman.

Join Karla's flow on how we are all capable of becoming High Value Women with the choices we make and deliberate effort to shape our own identities and relationships. As always, personal development and growth are at the forefront Karla's conversations. If you're ready to look inward and do the work, let's get started ✨ Visit www.karliaelia.com to apply for the in person Mastermind or for 1:1 coaching services with Karla.
7/15/202412 minutes, 55 seconds
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Relationship Expert Says Choose a Purposeful Partner

In this Wednesday Wisdom, we will be discovering the importance of choosing a purposeful partner. Subscribe, like, and stay tuned! 👑✨ Karla Kollection Merch: karlakollection.com
7/10/202456 minutes, 48 seconds
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Why Successful Women Struggle with Love.

Hi ladies! In this lesson, Karla dives into why successful businesswomen may find themselves struggling with love. While it can be challenging, a shift in perspective can show you what traits you should really be looking for in a partner. Here to help you discover the power of vulnerability and find your balance ♥️ Subscribe, like, and stay tuned! 👑✨ Karla Kollection Merch: karlakollection.com
7/8/202412 minutes, 12 seconds
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The Purpose of Being Chosen

2024 is about MASTERY. To master your craft you need to make a CHOICE to either serve the self or fulfill your calling.
7/3/202452 minutes, 3 seconds
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The Law of Attraction is a CHEAP COPY of the Law of Love

The Karla Elia Show: Learn how embracing the Law of Love can lead to a more fulfilling and abundant life. We always hear about the law of attraction but never THE REAL DEAL; The Law of Love. When you operate from a place of service for others instead of servicing the self you will find that you can attain prosperity. Tune in on Wednesdays for Wednesday Wisdom where I will be diving deeper into these concepts using Scripture. Some of the content from this episode was inspired by @thequeenpath !
7/1/202416 minutes, 34 seconds
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Girlfriend vs Wife Privileges: Be Wife Material

Being his wife is not the same as being a girlfriend. If marriage is the goal you need to be wife material. You become wife material by respecting, valuing, and using self-control. Our motto here is "STANDARDS ABOVE FEELINGS". keywords: relationships, relationship advice, wife material, wifey, wife, girlfriend, girlfriend privileges, dating, dating advice, self-respect, standards, high standards, boundaries, women, woman, advice for women
6/24/20248 minutes, 40 seconds
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Dating vs Girlfriend Privileges- Get Him to Pursue You

Let him pursue you by respecting your standards. I will show you how. A good man loves it when a woman knows her worth. How can you show someone you know your worth? You protect your essence aka you make him work for it. This advice is specifically for ladies who are dating for marriage. Keywords: dating, dating for marriage, dating advice, relationships, boundaries, standards, rotational dating, women, girls, woman, girl, dating tips, girlfriend privileges, girlfriend
6/19/20248 minutes, 9 seconds
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Are You A Chaotic Chloe? FIND OUT.

Tap into your full potential by avoiding a Chaotic Chloe. Or from becoming a Chaotic Chloe yourself. In today's episode, I will be describing a specific archetype who does not feel worthy of and therefore ruins other people's peace. Use this episode to find out if you're a Chaotic Chloe. Key words: self-development, self-growth, relationship advice, relationships, self-love, self-discovery, psychology, women, advice for women, self-help.
6/17/202410 minutes, 13 seconds
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How To Manifest The Man Of Your Dreams: Date Like It's Your Job

If you are done with dating low-class/low-effort men this video is for you. Good men are everywhere- you NEED the abundance mindset. We will be discussing the importance of rotational dating and why you should always have options. You are single until you're NOT. Keywords: relationships, relationship advice, rotational dating, dating, dating apps, manifest, manifestation, mindset, women, advice for women, femininity, high-value woman, high-value women All of you know I believe in true love, but also strategy. You need to view dating as if it's your job and "perform" well. You are building your business, and if you want your business to be the best... well you need the best partner by your side.
6/15/20247 minutes, 24 seconds
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How I Manifested The Man Of My Dreams - DO THIS TODAY

How to REALLY manifest your dream partner. I did this and it works... Stick around for Part 2. If you are ready to start dating for marriage this is for you. We are not professional girlfriends, we are wife-material women on this side of YouTube. Let me show you how you can manifest your dream partner by creating your List of 3's.
6/14/20247 minutes, 7 seconds
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Becoming HER: How to Reinvent Yourself

Let's talk about how you can reinvent yourself and truly step into your femininity. This episode should set the tone for what's to come!
6/13/202417 minutes, 14 seconds
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My Experience on the Whatever Pod- How to Be Persuasive

Karla Elia talks about her experience being on The Whatever podcast, and takeaway messages. If you want to learn how to speak to people's hearts to change their minds this episode is for you. Subscribe, like, and stay tuned! 👑✨ Karla Kollection Merch: karlakollection.com
4/3/202418 minutes, 29 seconds
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Your Relationships Needs Social Media Boundaries - Haters DMed My HUSBAND?!

In today's flow, Karla breaks down how you should respond to your husband/partner getting attempts from other women. She lays out a systems for responding to both your partner and the women to help you both protect your marriage and your peace. This advice comes from personal experience - so of course she starts with a storytime 👀 Karla Kollection Merch: karlakollection.com
4/1/202415 minutes, 37 seconds
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Being Submissive Made Life Easy?!

What does being submissive even mean? Find out on todays Wednesday Wisdom .
3/27/202412 minutes, 39 seconds
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Why You Can't Make Decisions - The Princess State is Toxic

On Today's episode, Karla challenges the limiting belief of "dreams don't pay bills". Group Coaching: https://www.karlaelia.com/ Karla Kollection: https://karlakollection.com/
3/26/202410 minutes, 25 seconds
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Should Your Man Be Your BFF?

On today's Monday Flow Karla talks about why treating your lover as your best friend damages your relationship. Karla Kollection Merch: https://karlakollection.com/
3/25/202414 minutes, 17 seconds
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Women Are FINALLY Waking UP- Date For Purpose

On today's Friday Special, Karla Elia discusses the new wave of feminism, traditional gender roles, her experience getting interviewed by NBC and so much more.
3/22/202410 minutes, 44 seconds
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Speak To His Heart - Get Everything

Speaking to the mind is NOT the same as speaking to the HEART.
3/20/202415 minutes, 26 seconds
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Get Everything You Desire From Him

On Todays Monday Flow Karla discusses the importance of effective communication.
3/19/202421 minutes, 18 seconds
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"Free Education" in Exchange for Your Free Will

Welcome to History Class w Karla. On Todays Wednesday Wisdom Karla shares with you her experience joining her school's Speech and Debate Team. Karla Kollection: https://www.karlaelia.com/karlakollection 1:1 Mentorship: https://www.karlaelia.com/coaching RIse Above Course: https://www.karlaelia.com/masterclass-1
3/13/202442 minutes, 26 seconds
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Public Education Damaged Me

On Todays Monday Flow Karla opened up about the limiting beliefs she needed to let go of to see success in her life. Karla walks you through how these limiting beliefs were a crop from undergoing public school education. 1:1 Mentorship: https://www.karlaelia.com/mastermind Karla Kollection Merch: https://karlakollection.com/ Rise Above Course: https://www.karlaelia.com/masterclass-1
3/11/202413 minutes, 21 seconds
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Is High Value Pick-Me?

On Today's Wednesday Wisdom Karla speaks on the TRUE meaning of the term "high value". She also breaks down Proverbs 31 scripture to identify the woman God has called you to be. 1:1 Mentorship: https://www.karlaelia.com/coaching In-Person Group Coaching: https://www.karlaelia.com/mastermind Proverbs 31 Woman Course: https://www.karlaelia.com/masterclass-1 Karla Kollection: https://karlakollection.com/
3/6/202452 minutes, 44 seconds
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What it Takes To Be High Value

On Today's Monday Flow Karla Elia talks about the mindset that is required to be a high-value woman. Mentorship w Karla Elia: https://www.karlaelia.com/coaching In-Person Group Coaching: https://www.karlaelia.com/mastermind Proverbs 31 Woman Course: https://www.karlaelia.com/masterclass-1 Karla Kollection: https://karlakollection.com/
3/4/202412 minutes, 55 seconds
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Date for Purpose

On Today's Wednesday Wisdom with Karla Elia, she dives into the importance of dating for a common purpose. 1:1 Mentorship: https://www.karlaelia.com/coaching Karla Kollection Merch: https://karlakollection.com/
2/28/202456 minutes, 48 seconds
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Why Successful Women Struggle w Love

On today's Monday Flow with Karla Elia, she will be divining into the struggles of successful women when it comes to love. Karla also shares her own limiting beliefs and her journey while overcoming them. 1:1 Mentorship: https://www.karlaelia.com/coaching In-Person Group Coaching: https://www.karlaelia.com/mastermind Karla Kollection Merch: https://karlakollection.com/
2/26/202412 minutes, 12 seconds
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The Purpose of Being Chosen

Welcome to Wisdom With Karla. In this segment, we will be diving deeper into the concepts we cover on Monday Flow. Discover if you have been chosen to carry out a specific mission from God. Ladies, it's time to RISE. 1:1 Mentorship https://www.karlaelia.com/coaching In-Person Group Coaching https://www.karlaelia.com/mastermind
2/19/202452 minutes, 3 seconds
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The Law of Attraction vs Law of Love

We are officially BACK! Happy 2024! In today's episode we will be diving into the difference between the law of attracting & the law of love. Find out how the law of attraction is a cheap copy of the law of love. 1:1 Mentorship https://www.karlaelia.com/coaching In-Person Group Coaching https://www.karlaelia.com/mastermind
2/19/202416 minutes, 34 seconds
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War. Propaganda. Division.

Let’s be real with ft.@albinaaliyeva70
10/24/20231 hour, 11 minutes, 23 seconds
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Understanding Money [email protected]

Healing your relationship with money.
10/16/202342 minutes, 20 seconds
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You Are Being Watched ft.albinaaliyeva70

Discover in how many ways you are being watched, programmed, and monitored. Albina Aliyeva and I dive deep into the book 1984 by George Orwell.
9/4/20231 hour, 50 seconds
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Sprinkle Sprinkle✨ (ft.@nadeenhui)

@nadeenhui & I speak on behind the scenes of healthy relationships. How your standards protect you from low quality experiences, & our thoughts on the sprinkle sprinkle queen.
8/27/202347 minutes, 10 seconds
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From Princess Programming to The Queen Path ft. @solelectra

In this podcast episode we discuss the dangers of social media and the grip it has on todays young women. Discover what it means to be a victim of princess programming & how you can avoid it.
8/13/202341 minutes, 29 seconds
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Attachment Styles ft. @cybele.pov

What are attachment styles? How can you identify your own? Are you compatible with other attachment styles? Find out in todays episode as Cybele (relationship coach) does a deep dive on these attachment styles.
7/16/202357 minutes, 17 seconds
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Business Owner to Stay at Home Mom [email protected]

In today's episode, we get to dive into the life of @lex.delarosa as she tells us her experience from being a business owner and later deciding to be a SAHM. This topic is one of my favorites, I hope you enjoy it.
6/4/202350 minutes, 46 seconds
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Don’t Marry For Love, Instead Choose Your Standards ft. marshanadahlia

In this episode we dove I to what we mean by choose your standards first & THEN choose your man. We explain what it means to be in a marred relationship, & how it’s not always about unconditional love.
5/14/202355 minutes, 46 seconds
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The Dangers of Stay At Home Girlfriend Mentality ft. @levelupwithalex

Hello, my name is Karla, and restoring healthy mindsets is my thing. In today's podcast episode, the lovely Alexandria (@levelupwithalex) who is a mindset coach, entrepreneur, and influencer. She opens up about being lost in the materialistic world and how she combated that through self-development. Alexandria speaks on the dangers of being a stay-at-home girlfriend, age gap relationships, and the lack of accountability in women today. Take a listen.
5/8/202343 minutes, 43 seconds
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Don’t Get Mad Get Paid ft.@manifestelle

In todays episode we have an amazing guest named Elle (@manifestelle). She dives into the secrets of being a desirable woman & how instead of getting mad, we should be getting paid . Excited for all of you to give it a listen .
4/23/202353 minutes, 3 seconds
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The Angel Effect w @kimperetzz

Hello my name is Karla & restoring healthy mindsets is my thing. In todays episode we have Kim Peretz explaining the angel effect & manifestation . She walks us through her healing journey through practicing manifestation.
4/16/20231 hour, 1 minute, 57 seconds
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The Importance of Friendships ft. @beautybyallii7_

Hello my name is Karla & restoring healthy mindsets is my thing. On todays episode we discuss friendships, boundaries, & decedent. We dive into how we choose our friends, break ups, & more .
4/9/202357 minutes, 9 seconds
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Self-Love Through Modesty @itseloseguera

Hello, my name is Karla, and restoring healthy mindsets is my thing. In today's podcast episode, we will explore self-love through modesty. Our guest speaker Itsel will teach us about fabrics, personal style, and building our dream wardrobe.
4/2/202345 minutes, 8 seconds
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You Are the Occasion ft. @imofficialmaria

On today's episode, we have a lovely guest who is all about being the main event. She shares her journey about what it means to practice self-love by getting dolled up. If you want to listen to the ad free version please click on link to subscribe to the podcast. https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/karla-elia/subscribe  
3/12/202352 minutes, 6 seconds
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Choosing Yourself Even When You’re Busy ft Marisela

Today I have a special guest who wears MANY hats . Marisela talks about her story on being a young mother, business owner, & finding her worth. Marisela shares some tips on how we can choose ourselves & practice self love even when it seems like we don’t have time.
2/26/202349 minutes, 34 seconds
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Valentines Day Special Ft. Beauty by Alli

Hello my name is Karla & restoring healthy mindsets is my thing. Today I have a lovely gal joining us to talk about self-love, BOYS, dates, & the pretty girl movement. Alli is a model, influencer, & a business owner who loves to empower women.
2/12/20231 hour, 8 minutes, 28 seconds
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Selfishness vs Self-Love

Hello, my name is Karla and restoring healthy mindsets is my thing. On today's podcast, we speak on selfishness, and why it can get misinterpreted as self-love. A lot of the time we think that choosing ourselves first is the best choice to make. This is HALF TRUE, in life sometimes we need to choose others for the collective goal. I also mention brining in guests on the podcast to chat, let me know if you would like to see that! 
1/30/202321 minutes, 11 seconds
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Season 2 is HERE!

ALL THE VOTES SAID self love. So this season is all on self love. In this episode we discuss self acceptance to achieve a balance to self love. If you would like to purchase my journal please click on my linktree bio. You will find my journals on amazon! 
1/22/202318 minutes, 13 seconds
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High Value Women in Marriage

Let's talk about MARRIAGE. Being a high value woman in a marriage is NOT easy because being married is NOT easy. I touch base on some topics a lot of people look over, and I am so excited to hear what you all think. I am so grateful for all of you always. 
1/15/202320 minutes, 35 seconds
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2023 is YOURS!

Hello my name is Karla & restoring healthy mindsets is my thing. In todays episode we will be discussing some barriers we have placed on ourselves and how we will be able to get out of those sticky habits. The book I recommend to listen to or purchase is called The Almanack of Naval Ravikant by Eric Jorgenson. It is truly a MUST read for great insight on habits, mindset, and peace. Happy New Year! 
1/8/202311 minutes, 42 seconds
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High Value Women in Relationships

Hello my name is Karla & restoring healthy mindsets is my thing. Today on Becoming Her we will be discussing 3 habits we need to practice while being in a relationship. #1 RESPECT your own boundaries. #2 DON'T Mother your man. #3 REPRESENT your man appropriately. On another note, we must remember that high value women date to marry. If we are not ready for marriage, don't start dating. PLEASE.      
1/8/202319 minutes, 55 seconds
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Becoming HER (Trailer)

10/23/202234 seconds