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English, Social, 1 season, 62 episodes, 1 day, 10 hours, 8 minutes
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ඇයි? | Why? Pod ©️ A podcast about anything and everything that has to do with growing up Sri Lankan. Dropping episodes every Monday! Stay tuned. Much love, @AyiWhyPod
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ඇයි? | Why?: self awarenes

It’s the final episode of Season 2 and we took a look back at how far we have come. To wrap this season up, we talked about self awareness - specifically what it means to be self aware and why it’s important to be self aware. Since our personalities, actions, reactions, emotions, thoughts, values and beliefs say a lot about self awareness, we took a deep dive into our teenage years and read through our childhood journals to see how much self awareness we have developed since then. We of course got to chatting about developing our self awareness while navigating our Sri Lankan cultural expectations as well.  Tune in and let us know what you think. Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
1/25/202357 minutes, 57 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: lies our culture told us about love

Let’s be honest - we’ve been lied to about love. We went into a rabbit hole about why we have all of these different views as a culture about love or what love should be. Give us a listen and let us know what lies you’ve been told about love.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
12/12/202243 minutes, 8 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: types of trauma

We all go through frightening or stressful situations. We also process our traumas differently depending on the kind of traumas they are. Everybody’s experience is different. Learning about these differences actually bring us closer together as communities.   So, in this episode, we talked about different types of traumas.  We would love to hear your thoughts on the episode and if you would like us to dig deeper into a specific type.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast 
11/28/202231 minutes, 40 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: healthy relationships with parents

We’ll be the first ones to tell you that parent-child relationships are really hard (from children’s perspective). We’re mindful that not every parent is the same and everyone’s situation is different. Which makes our relationships with our parents very complicated. With these nuances in mind, this week, we got to talking about some of the ways to maintain and create healthy relationships with parents. Give us a listen and let us know your thoughts.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
11/8/202238 minutes, 8 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: simple pleasures, people who claim to be therapists and Sri Lankan cricket

ඇයි? | Why?: simple pleasures, people who claim to be therapists, and Sri Lankan cricket This week we rambled about a few topics. Sri Lankan cricket is a hot topic these days after the win the SL Cricket team won the Asia Cup 2022 so we couldn’t miss the chance to talk about it. We also talked about the simple pleasures of life and folks who claim to be therapists and give advice based on personal experiences.  We would love to know your thoughts on this. Give us a listen and send us a DM or join the convo in our IG stories. #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏  
10/3/202257 minutes, 2 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why? breadcrumbing

This week, we got to talking about breadcrumbing. Tune in to find out what it looks like in real life and also some ways in which you can process what happened after being breadcrumbed. It happens to all of us and we’re with you in solidarity.    #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #srilankanpodcast #podcast    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean
9/12/202231 minutes, 20 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why? important questions to ask while dating

This week we got to talking about important questions people should ask while dating. Don’t be shy, let us know in the comments below what an important question/topic for you is.    #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan   Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean
8/29/202240 minutes, 40 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why? growing up bilingual

Needless to say, that language connects us all. In this episode, we talk about some of the benefits we experienced from growing up bilingual. Make sure to listen all the way to the end for a big “aha” moment about expectations around language.    #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan   Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and Podbean
8/8/202236 minutes, 58 seconds
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ඇයි? Why? creating a safe space

What does it mean to create a safe space and what does it mean for you to be in a safe space, not just physically, but also mentally, spiritually, etc.? Why do we need safe spaces? Listen to us explore the answers to all of these questions in this week’s pod.   Have a different opinion? Want to add to what we shared?    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
7/18/202234 minutes, 40 seconds
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ඇයි? Why? Pod: Season II

Season II Ep 1 is LIVE!!   At ඇයි? Why? Pod we’re always asking the why behind everything. We took a long but much-needed break and we’re finally back. Thank you all for sticking around and listening to us.    Much love, Delakshi and Sumudu
7/4/202224 minutes, 55 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: we‘re 50 episodes old!!

ඇයි? | Why? Family! We made it to 50 episodes! If you're just joining us, welcome! If you've been by our side through the ups and downs of the past 50 episodes, THANK YOU! Thank you for listening, thank you for engaging in conversation with us and giving us ideas - thank you, for the support! We appreciate you and only hope that we continue to grow our community!   Much love, Sumudu and Delakshi!    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
11/15/20211 hour, 2 minutes, 22 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: double standards

SO much to say but so little time. We got vulnerable this time around, y’all! We talked about how we are the harshest critics of Sri Lankan/South Asian/Brown women. We give less grace to Sri Lankan/South Asian/Brown women vs other women, especially when it comes to wearing revealing clothing/being comfortable and confident in our bodies. Is it “culture”? Is it something else? Do we do it in the name of culture but it’s really something else? We had a few revelations while talking about this. Tune in and let us know your thoughts about this topic.    The overall message this week is to be kind first to yourself and then to others. :)    PSA: Our IG posts are a brief summary of what’s discussed in a pod episode. Please visit the link tree on our IG bio to find out how you can listen.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
11/1/202140 minutes, 16 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: long-distance relationships (LDRs)

Long-distance relationships aren’t any different from any other type of relationship in our opinion. We talked about some must-have qualities that help sustain an LDR as well as some tips on what might help make LDRs successful.    PSA: Our IG posts are a brief summary of what’s discussed in a pod episode. Please visit the link tree on our IG bio to find out how you can listen.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
10/18/202137 minutes, 35 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: introverts vs. extroverts vs. ambiverts

In this week’s episode, we spoke about characteristics of introverts, extroverts and ambiverts. Give this week’s episode a listen and let us know your thoughts. Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
10/11/202126 minutes, 20 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: some friendships last for a season

Hey, y’all! It’s been a minute. What better way to catch up than with a discussion about friendships? In this episode, we discussed friendships - specifically, why we sometimes outgrow friendships. Out of all the reasons we discussed, which one resonated with you the most?   Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
10/4/202136 minutes, 33 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: Monday blues and womanly expenses

In this ramble episode we got to talking about Monday blues and then how expensive it is to be women. Two random topics but that’s how ramble episodes go for us sometimes. Mondays have a bad rep thanks to it being the beginning of the work week for most folks. And being a woman these days is just expensive af. Give us a listen and share your thoughts.  p.s.: We didn't have enough time to get into all the things that end up in the expense bucket - we'll go deeper on another episode. Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
9/20/202136 minutes, 8 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: loneliness

This pandemic has been hard on everyone - we’re all experiencing collective trauma with all the lockdowns/isolation we’ve had to experience. It only seemed timely for us to talk about loneliness. Tune in to listen to us talk about dealing with loneliness. What are some ways you deal with loneliness?  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
9/6/202128 minutes, 8 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: miscommunications

It seemed that week after week every topic that we chose also revolved around another important topic - communication. So much can be said about communication, so, we thought we would switch it up and talk about why miscommunications happen. Of course, we couldn’t cover them all in a 30+ minute episode so let us know what other factors cause miscommunications.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
8/30/202144 minutes, 17 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: things we shouldn’t have to justify

Brace yourselves - we had to record today’s episode during a thunderstorm. While on vacation, we realized that having to justify sometimes the most mundane of life’s activities is a normal thing in our culture. So, we decided to talk about it. What have you had to justify or explain to someone even though you felt it wasn’t really needed?     Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
8/23/202136 minutes, 9 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: liking booty pics on IG and more

This week we got to talking about liking your ex’s pics on IG, having your ex on social media as a friend, your significant other liking people’s provocative pictures, and much more. Give this a listen and let us know how you feel about these burning questions in the comments.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
8/9/202134 minutes, 10 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: you should be proud of yourself

It’s our one-year anniversary!!!! We can’t believe it’s been a year since we started this podcast. We had no idea what we were signing up for but we are so so proud of ourselves for showing up!  Celebrate with us by sharing some things that you are proud of yourself for!  We love you all for listening and sharing your feedback. We have a long way to go and we couldn’t be here without you.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
7/26/202134 minutes, 31 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: people-pleasing

A lot of the topics that we’ve talked about in the past have touched on people-pleasing behaviors so we thought to dive into the topic a bit more. Whether you’re a people pleaser or know someone who is, you might end up getting something from this episode - so be sure to check it out and let us know your thoughts.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
7/19/202128 minutes, 52 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: procrastinating

Both of us are procrastinators - maybe y’all can relate. Sometimes it’s just hard to get everything done and then things add up and snowballs. This week’s episode is about what it’s like to live life as a procrastinator.    Are you someone who procrastinates or do you always check off everything on your to-do list? Got any tips for us? Let us know in the comments below.   Swipe over to see some tips we’ve found to be helpful.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
7/12/202131 minutes, 35 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: consent

In the last episode, we talked about giving and asking for permission when it comes to content. This week we decided to dive in and talk about consent. Consent is such a broad topic that with this episode, we decided to stick to the bare bones. Join the convo on our IG and let us know - how comfortable are you with saying “no”?  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
7/6/202125 minutes, 20 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: copying content is stealing content

This week we did a ramble on random TikTok trends and content creation. We hold people accountable when they steal physical objects, so why shouldn’t it apply to intellectual property? Join the conversation about this dilemma in this week’s episode. Be sure to share what your thoughts are either in the comments or DMs.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
6/24/202137 minutes, 48 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: 5 love languages

Why do we want to feel loved? Such a simple question that has a simple answer, right? As human beings, we’re all looking to feel loved and cared for. The 5 love languages are not a novel concept but we thought it would be nice to talk about their importance. If you didn’t know about them before, now you know. Don’t forget to tune in to listen and maybe give it a share.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
6/14/202134 minutes, 50 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: we should take a day off

Granted, taking a day off is a privilege. But, we sometimes don’t take a break even when our mind and body tells us that we need it - which eventually leads to burnout and other issues. Tune into this episode to listen to us talk about why taking off days or taking breaks are a necessity.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
6/7/202126 minutes, 39 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: people gossip

Gossiping is such a big part of Sri Lankan culture. Sometimes it can be useful but most times it feels pretty unnecessary and harmful. In this episode, we talk about both the negative and positive impacts of gossiping. Give this episode a listen and let us know how you feel about gossiping.   Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
5/25/202133 minutes, 58 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: invalidating statements

This week we decided to talk about invalidating statements that are commonly used in our culture. Give this week’s episode a listen and be sure to let us know statements that we missed.     Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
5/17/202136 minutes, 53 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: official ayiwhy ramble

Okay, we did something a little different in this ep. After talking about some heavy topics back to back, we thought to take a different route with this week’s episode. Tune in to listen to us talk about a bunch of things like thick eyebrows being aesthetically acceptable NOW, eating curry and using curry powder trending these days, cultural appropriation vs. appreciation, and a bunch more. Listen to the ep and join the conversation in the comments or in the DMs.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka 
5/10/202126 minutes, 17 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: breaking down the boundaries Part II

This week, we talked about what boundaries with friends and family look like. This is a hard one as we both struggled with how to set them up especially with our older generation. Give us a listen as we are wrapping up our two-part series of boundaries. Also, we spoke about our final thoughts on the Mrs. World pageant drama since the news hijacked the beginning of our last episode. 🥴 Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
5/4/202145 minutes, 1 second
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ඇයි? | Why?: breaking down the boundaries (part 1)

It seemed that week after week everything we’ve talked about so far warranted a discussion about boundaries. As always, we started with the basics. Tune in to listen to us talk about what boundaries and why they are important.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
4/23/202130 minutes, 40 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: signs that you're being drained by someone

We've all had that friend/coworker/family member/social group who's left us feeling drained for long periods of time. If you've never experienced it, well, aren't you lucky to have some mindful people around you?! Or maybe we've been the ones who drained the energy out of your friends. jk 🥴🤓😏Since Sumudu is back after recovering from COVID, we wanted to have a lighthearted convo about how to recognize when someone is draining your energy. Surely, we must have missed some signs -  feel free to let us know in the comments what your thoughts on this episode are.   Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
4/15/202134 minutes, 40 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: what a year in a pandemic taught us

This week, we were inspired by a special challenge we faced when trying to record the episode. Due to this pandemic, all of us have gone through so many trials and tribulations. We wanted to take some time to look back and appreciate all of the experiences that brought us together. Let us know what this past year has been like for you? Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast    
3/9/202121 minutes, 34 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: relationship red flags

We talked about relationship red flags this week. Relationships of any kind are complicated and in our culture, there are many red flags that we have made into green flags. Give us a listen and let us know which one resonated with you.   Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
3/1/202128 minutes, 39 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: mental wellness vs mental illness

In this episode, we stayed with the basics and talked about the similarities and differences between mental wellness vs mental illness. Tune in.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast  
2/16/202129 minutes, 15 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: gaslighting behaviors

This week we talked about gaslighting behaviors and signs of gaslighting in our community and relationships. Tune in to listen. If you're going through this, you're not alone. There's help. 💞 Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
2/9/202126 minutes, 49 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: 2021 intentions

In this episode, we discussed what it means for us to start a new year with intentions instead of resolutions - an effort to go easy on ourselves. In an ever-changing world where some things, like this pandemic that we are in, isn’t in our control, being intentional about our everyday choices can be something that we take on as a community. No pressure to be perfect or get things done by a deadline, just small steps towards getting started. 🤗   What do you want to be intentional about this year? 💕 Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
2/1/202124 minutes, 47 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: staying busy

Do you feel like you’re so busy and you don’t have time for anything? Do you feel like work is just piling up and you’re overwhelmed? OR are you using the word busy but mean to describe another feeling altogether? This week we talked about some of the reasoning behind being busy. Tune in!!  Also, this break thing really made us a bit rusty. Don’t mind the mmhhmms and the breaks. 😁😁 Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
1/25/202120 minutes, 30 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: stepping into 2021

Hi, Y'all! We're back!! We're excited to curiously but cautiously kick things off in this new year. Hope you join us.  What did the start to the new year feel like? Let us know in the comments below.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
1/18/20212 minutes, 4 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: adulthood

Is it just us or is adulthood not as fun as adults make it out to be? This week we resorted to a bit of a rant-y type of episode about adulthood and how absolutely unprepared we were about responsibilities and expectations. Let us know if you share the same sentiments as us? What would have prepared you for adulthood a bit better?  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
1/18/202132 minutes, 20 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: immigration 101 ft. @sashaluz4

As you can tell by the title, we’re talking about being immigrants. And to talk about it, we invited one of our dear friends, Sashin. Sashin is a blogger, traveler, and fellow immigrant. We talk about how we got here, what it was like to go to school, work, and much more. Give us a listen.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast #immigration101 #immigrant #immigrantlife #nopersonisillegal #buildbridgesnotwalls    
12/14/202035 minutes, 16 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: breakups

Have you ever been through a breakup? They’re absolutely horrible. Not everyone responds to breakups the same way and how we’ve been culturally taught to respond to them doesn't make it any easy on us. Listen to us talk about all things breakup-related this week.    What did we miss? Let us know.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast #breakupsandmakeups #brokenhearted #slbreakups 
12/7/202032 minutes, 20 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: rejection, revenge and in between

This week we talked about rejection. It's easy to tell someone that they ought to handle rejection better. But, why is it so hard to handle rejection? Is it okay to leak your ex's nudes or egg the car of the interviewer who didn't hire you because you felt rejected? Is there a good way to handle rejection? Let us know how you like this episode. Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
11/30/202028 minutes, 3 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: balancing self-confidence and insecurities

What makes you feel insecure or confident? Is it the way you look, talk, or present yourself? Listen to us talk about all things self-confidence in this episode.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast 
11/23/202027 minutes, 4 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: Monday ramble

Took a different route with this episode. Listen to us ramble about some of the shows, music, and influencers we love these days - both Sri Lankan and non-Sri Lankan.  We had so much fun doing this episode. Be sure to let us know if you have any ideas for rambles.   Check out our IG @ayiwhypod for some BTS.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏
11/16/202031 minutes, 43 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: is stress stressful?

As if our daily lives weren’t already overwhelming, now we have a pandemic to worry about. How do you deal with stress? How has it affected your mind, body, and soul?  Listen to this week’s episode to hear us discuss some ways we deal with stress.  Did we miss any important coping mechanisms or ways of dealing with stress? Be sure to let us know.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏
11/9/202033 minutes, 53 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: friendships last

One of the most challenging topics we’ve tackled thus far: friendships. What makes them good and last so long and what makes them so short-lived? Tune in to hear us talk all about friendships. Also, times are hard! Don’t forget to (safely) hug your friends and have a moment of gratitude with them. 🤗💕   Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
11/2/202030 minutes, 35 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: we throw period parties

The start of menstruation or period is celebrated in our culture. So, why does it become a stigma and taboo soon after? In this week’s episode, we talk about how something as natural as periods has become so controversial. Join us in normalizing the conversation.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #srilankanpodcast #slpodcast
10/26/202040 minutes, 28 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: the good, the bad and the ugly of social media.

In this episode, we talk about our journey with social media and pretty much our glow up. 😂😂 Believe us when we say we started from the bottom lol 😆 Tune in and be sure to let us know what resonated with you about this episode.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
10/19/202039 minutes, 30 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: do people bully?

This week we’re talking about a topic that’s very near and dear to us. At some point in our lives, we’ve all been bullied or have seen someone being bullied. Hope this episode makes you feel that you’re not alone. 🤗 💖    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 . #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast 
10/12/202031 minutes, 3 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: do people cheat?

This week we’re talking about everything to do with cheating. No, not the kind of cheating we do on exams, the kind that happens in relationships. 🙃 Tune in to hear us talk about the times we’ve been cheated on and whatnot. 😉   Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast 
10/5/202036 minutes, 18 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: mom’s reaction to tattoos and piercings

This week we’re talking about tattoos, piercings, and how we feel/felt about getting them.    Have you ever gotten in trouble for your tattoos or piercings?    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏   #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
9/28/202027 minutes, 2 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: become a pervert under people's pictures?

This week we talk about all the nastiness that follow after posting pictures online. We are baffled by some of the comments that were under pictures of well-known celebrities as we read through some of them.  Has this ever happened to you? Let us know in the comments below.  Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
9/21/202033 minutes, 44 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: no one asked for your advice

This week we are diving into the times we got advice that we never asked for. Can you say awkward? Tune into to hear us talk about some advice we got from fellow Lankans about haircuts, skincare, career plans, etc. Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean.  Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
9/14/202030 minutes, 20 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: break down the posh and godey code.

Tune in to hear us attempt to break down the godey and posh code in Sri Lankan culture. We're high key curious about why boots are considered posh in tropical Sri Lankan weather but a sarong is considered godey. 
9/7/202030 minutes, 2 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: can't we have a small wedding with 300 people?

Weddings are expensive and stressful. This week we are talking about Pinterest weddings, crazy wedding vendors, helicopter entrances and dowries.    
8/31/202037 minutes, 49 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: did we date in secret?

Tune in to hear us talk about what dating was like growing up. Do you have any wild dating stories about getting caught while dating in secret? Let us know in the comments.
8/24/202032 minutes, 35 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: is age married to expectations?

In this episode, we talk about the non-stop rush to meet cultural and societal expectations by a certain age. TBH we think age wants to ask for a divorce and we think society should accept that.
8/17/202026 minutes, 10 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: police my fashion?

In this episode, we talk about how clothing and fashion have helped us expressed ourselves.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
8/10/202029 minutes, 18 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: is language so important to us?

In this episode, we talk about how language has shaped our identities and what motivated us to do this podcast.    Find us: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, and Podbean. Send any questions/feedback to [email protected] or slide into our DMs 😏 #ayiwhypod #ඇයිwhypod #srilankan #podcast #srilanka  #lankanpodcast #slpodcast
8/3/202033 minutes, 39 seconds
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ඇයි? | Why?: Pod Intro

A podcast about anything and everything that has to do with growing up Sri Lankan.    
7/27/20209 minutes, 47 seconds