In this last Sweeps episode we visit with James Taylor Jr., the LGBTQ+ artist behind the hit gay anthem Boy In A Dress, a song that was showcased on this show during the month of July. Taylor's "PRIDE" album, which he has been diligently crafting since 2019, is a testament to his commitment to celebrating queer history and icons. I hope you will enjoy this conversation.2024 Sweeps Period has ended.James Taylor Jr. Music with Social Media Linksand.....James on FacebookJames on InstagramJames on TikTokJames on YouTube

In the penultimate episode of this year's Sweeps Period I am joined by Sasha Korbut, an up and coming LGBTQ+ filmmaker, to discuss his short film Incomplete. Sasha contacted me after I left a comment on his YouTube channel speaking of how his film really touched my heart. I hope you enjoy this Interview.'Incomplete' on YouTubeSasha Korbut on Instagram

In today's episode, we speak with Dr. Gary Bucher, the Medical Director and Founder of the Anal Dysplasia Clinic Mid-West, a medical practice dedicated to the anal health of men and women with HPV-related anal disease.This episode contains important information that will save lives. Please take a few minutes to hear this very valuable show about anal screening. I also speak to how this has affected my life for the last 30 years. Learn from my mistakes. 

 To finish off this series about all things Dark Shadows, we are joined once again by Radical Ryan Hunter of The Radical Retro Rewind ?! Podcast. Ryan is very knowledgeable and passionate about retro things, and he is a dedicated Dark Shadows fan.We speak of:The Dark Shadows films (1970's & 2012)The 33 Dark Shadows paperback novelsThe Dark Shadows newspaper comicsThe Lara Parker Dark Shadows novelsThe Big Finish Audio DramasThe Dark Shadows comic booksThis concludes our 4-part series. Thank you for listening.Radical Retro Rewind ?! PodcastYouTube video of Ryan visiting Collinwood from the films

 Today, as we continue with Sweeps Period 2024, Renato Poliafito will be joining us to talk about his new baking book Dolci!. Additionally, Renato speaks about his interesting childhood bouncing between countries, his previous books, his bakeries, as well as his new pasta restaurant, which opens in just a month from now.A joyous celebration of Italian, American and Italian-American tastes and traditions, Dolci! is a compendium of molto delizioso baked goods from both sides of the Atlantic. Baker Renato Poliafito pays homage to pastries of the Old World and the New. Renato puts his own unique spin on the baking traditions of both countries with recipes of his own invention that are a mash-up of Italian flavors and American innovation. I hope you enjoy this unique episode.

As we continue with Sweeps Period 2024, I have a fascinating conversation with Michael Andor Brodeur, to discuss his new book Swole: The Making of Men and the Meaning of Muscle. Unbeknownst to me, Michael and I must have literally been circling around each other in Boston in the 1990's. We went to some of the same gyms, we went to the same nightclubs, we had common friends. And yet we did not know each other existed until this Interview. I thoroughly enjoyed myself as we reminisced about our childhoods and the vibrant gay life of Boston during that decade. Michael also traces our toys, cartoons and comics that started many of us young men thinking about guys with muscle. And we talk about the early days of Bodybuilding and how that shaped our lives. I think you will enjoy this topic. Michael on InstagramMichael on TikTokBookShop.orgBuy 'Swole' on BookShop.org

As Sweeps continues, today I have a story that is both heart-breaking and heartwarming. This is a story of survival and hope. Angel Finally Found His Wings is a book you will never forget. It was valorous of Ron to tell his story, and as he mentions, it took over a decade to put the words together to properly tell the terrifying circumstances that befell him. Please listen as he tells us about his journey and the book that has become the end result. Angel Finally Found His Wings on AMAZON

Welcome to Sweeps Period 2024. This year I have a series of fascinating INTERVIEWS for you, and we start off with an interesting conversation with Brett Edward Stout, an ex-Marine who has written a series of books about a gay ex-Marine. Sugar-Baby Bridge is the first in the series and it introduces the reader to Brad, a recently discharged Marine, who is trying the find his post-military identity after serving as a man who is used to acting on orders without question. When he meets his polar-opposite in Ron, his world-view takes an unexpected turn during an eventful adventure.Sugar-baby Bridge on AmazonBrett's Website

Well, it's the final push for the last votes to get An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast to be a Nominated Show for the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Awards. I'd love to have you show your appreciation for the podcast by taking 5 minutes to vote. The Nomination trophies I have are because you, my faithful listeners, vote me into the Finals. I thank you for your listenership and support all these years. Let's knock it out of the park for this year!In today's episode, the last before we start the 2024 Sweeps Period of shows, we discuss a very important topic, something that affects many of us as we age. Please give it a listen. It may affect your long-term health due to body fat accumulating around your organs, especially your liver and heart.Sweeps Period will start a week from today, on August 1st. There is a list of all the Sweeps shows on An Older Gay Guy Show Facebook Page. This is a public show and you don't have to belong to Facebook to view this page. I will put a link to it in the show notes below.If you like An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast, please consider taking 5 minutes and vote for this show for the Podcast Awards. It is no cost to you, and you can support this show by voting for it. The instructions for voting are as follows:1) Go to PodcastAwards dot com Podcast Awards2) Click the big blue box 'Nominations'3) Fill out the short registration (all your info is deleted the day after the awards)4) Go to the Nomination Page and scroll down to the LGBTQ category.5) Click on An Older Gay Guy Show6) Also go to the first category 'People's Choice' and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in this category as well.6) Lastly, SAVE your votes at the bottom of the page! Saving your votes is SO IMPORTANT !Thank you in advance! I very much appreciate it.Closing music by James Taylor Jr. 'Boy in a Dress'Boy In A DressJames Taylor Jr. MusicAn Older Gay Guy Show Facebook Page

In the 1970's, during my High School years, a couple of friends and I left a lame party and decided to drive to New York City, where none of us had been, on New Year's Day. This is that story and the unusual way we killed time on the road. If you like An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast, please consider taking 5 minutes and vote for this show for the Podcast Awards. It is no cost to you, and you can support this show by voting for it. The instructions for voting are as follows:1) Go to PodcastAwards dot com Podcast Awards2) Click the big blue box 'Nominations'3) Fill out the short registration (all your info is deleted the day after the awards)4) Go to the Nomination Page and scroll down to the LGBTQ category.5) Click on An Older Gay Guy Show6) Also go to the first category 'People's Choice' and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in this category as well.6) Lastly, SAVE your votes at the bottom of the page! Saving your votes is SO IMPORTANT !Thank you in advance! I very much appreciate it.Closing music by James Taylor Jr. 'Boy in a Dress'Boy In A DressJames Taylor Jr. Music

For the month of July, during the Nomination Period for the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Awards, all episodes will be true-life erotic STORYTIME episodes.These episodes are erotic in content. If you do not like hearing such stories, please do not listen to this episode.This show is one of the few that I was able to salvage from the Joey After Dark Podcast, and tells the tale of an encounter I had about 5 years ago with a number of the hottest jocks at my gym. This story takes place in the gym steam room. I think you will enjoy it. If you like An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast, please consider taking 5 minutes and vote for this show for the Podcast Awards. It is no cost to you, and you can support this show by voting for it. The instructions for voting are as follows:1) Go to PodcastAwards dot com Podcast Awards2) Click the big blue box 'Nominations'3) Fill out the short registration (all your info is deleted the day after the awards)4) Go to the Nomination Page and scroll down to the LGBTQ category.5) Click on An Older Gay Guy Show6) Also go to the first category 'People's Choice' and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in this category as well.6) Lastly, SAVE your votes at the bottom of the page! Saving your votes is SO IMPORTANT !Thank you in advance! I very much appreciate it.Closing music by James Taylor Jr. 'Boy in a Dress'Boy In A DressJames Taylor Jr. Music

It is that wonderful time of year when I get ready to roll out important and very entertaining episodes for what I refer to as my Annual Sweeps Period. I have some great shows planned for this year's celebration and all I ask is for you to take five minutes and go and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show podcast for the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Awards.During the month of July, the nomination phase goes on. This is the time that each year, you wonderful listeners and fans of the show can give a thank you back for the free content I offer to you each year. The nomination process is as follows:1) Go to PodcastAwards.com2) Click the big blue box 'Nominations'3) Fill out the short registration (all your info is deleted the day after the awards)4) Go to the Nomination Page and scroll down to the LGBTQ category.5) Click on An Older Gay Guy Show6) Lastly, SAVE your votes at the bottom of the page!Thank you in advance! I very much appreciate it.Boy In A DressJames Taylor Jr. Music

Summer is a wonderful season. Family gatherings, vacations, graduation parties, 4th of July....so many!  I know you have worked hard this past year in losing weight and you have looked forward (maybe with a bit of hesitation) to the sunny, warm weather that will allow you to finally take off your shirt.But sometimes navigating these parties, can be difficult. You desire to be proud of what you have accomplished and yet there is a growing desire to partake of the delightful food.I have a few suggestions. Thank you for coming by my show today!~Joey

Today we conclude our special 3-part series of all things Dark Shadows!  In this episode we discuss the much-improved, with higher production values, and a new younger cast; reboot of Dark Shadows with the 1991 Revival Series. This series only lasted one season, but during its run, it was able to condense the Barnabas origin story, including Victoria Winter's trip to 1795, into 12 cohesive and beautifully told episodes. If you want to start getting to know Dark Shadows, start with this 12 episode reboot. Then, if you like the story, then visit the Original Series, as discussed in the last two episodes of this podcast series. 

Today I present Part 2 of our fun 3-part nostalgic discussion of Dark Shadows. In this episode we conclude our memories of the Original 1966-1971 series with a laugh-filled show that we both enjoyed doing so much! I truly hope you enjoy this fun ride.Next Friday, in Part 3, we will talk about the amazing 1991 Revival Series of Dark Shadows.The Radical Retro Rewind PodcastThe Radical Retro Rewind YouTube Channel

Today we return to conclude the STORYTIME that I started a couple of weeks ago. After answering some questions that a listener had posed to me, we continue the Naked Hiking story right where we left off: the two Donovan brothers and I were merrily hiking through the woods of Vermont bareassed, heading for a private swimming hole with a waterfall that bordered the Solomon farm. I hope you enjoy the conclusion of this STORYTIME. 

I'm so excited to bring you this incredibly fun and funny 3-part series with Radical Ryan Hunter of the Radical Retro Rewind Podcast and YouTube channel.  In this series, we will cover all things Dark Shadows, from The Original Series to the 1991 re-boot and many, many more Dark Shadows memories will be discussed. I have waited literally years to be able to have this kind of discussion about my all-time favorite childhood show. Thank you for joining us!In Part 1, we have an overview of the original series, and then Ryan and I get into our favorite 'likes' and 'dislikes' from that 5 year show. Parts 2 & 3 will be coming out on June 9th and June 16th, respectively.Radical Retro Rewind Podcast latest episode: Radical Retro Rewind Podcast (also found on most podcast applications)Radical Retro Rewind YouTube videos: Radical Retro Rewind YouTube

This is a two-part STORYTIME about an adventurous Summer day that I spent with the Donovan brothers. These were two straight college jocks that had bright red hair and freckles. The brothers were in a previous episode I did called 'Don't Let Your Balls Touch Mine', and that episode is in my back catalogue. I hope you enjoy this two-part STORYTIME.

 I owe you a story. This is one that I had been saving for a rainy day, and here it is raining in Boston.This STORYTIME takes place in 1993, when I was 35 years old. It remains one of my favorite experiences in Provincetown, the gay resort town on the very tip of Cape Cod here in Massachusetts.I was convinced to do something dangerous that I would never do today. However, this was during my 'party phase' (a phase that lasted a good three decades!), and I threw caution to the wind (along with ALL MY CLOTHES), and had an unforgettable Summer night. I hope you enjoy this wonderful memory of days gone by.

This episode is a serious topic that I think is very timely.  I specifically do not mention what the topic is (I call it a Mystery Topic) because I want the maximum number of guys that I can draw in to hear this important subject. I would appreciate you taking the time to hear this episode. Thank you! ~Joey

In this episode we will talk about a subject that is often not discussed, but rather many older men suffer with in silence.The episode begins with 3 emails in our 'Listener Mail' segment. The last email you do not want to miss !Erectile Disfunction as it relates to older guys being able to get somewhat hard, but maybe not as hard as in our youth, and possibly not hard enough for sexual performance, is discussed.I speak about a Japanese study of men that cannot get fully erect, we review ED oral medications, and I then give my own experiences and what I think has benefitted me the most. We end with some additional facts that may help you make a decision about which method might be right for you. 

Today I have two different segments for your entertainment. The first is a controversial topic amongst die-hard sci-fi fans, but I think it's been a rumor floating around for decades and maybe we can put it to bed one final time. And the second is the newest segment I am adding to the show for my 9th season. It is listener/viewer mail that I think you will enjoy.If you wish to tell me a story or two about your life growing up that you feel will benefit our listeners, I would love to read it. You can send all correspondence to the mail address mentioned in the show.  Please indicate if it is for my eyes only, or if it is ok for me to share it on the show. Unfortunately not all mail can end up being read. Tell an interesting/fun/sexy story with some details that maybe are a bit erotic, and you have a great chance of your story being read in an episode. I hope you enjoy today's show ! My best to all of you. Big hugs.~Joey

In celebration of this show's 9th season kicking off, I bring you a new series that I will do periodically throughout the year. Reddit Stories, will be actual messages posted on a public forum about various subjects of interest. In this first episode, I offer 4 stories from Reddit readers, about gang showers; in school, at work, and in gym facilities. In future Reddit Stories episodes, I will comment on each one. I did not in this due to difficulty in talking.

 Sorry.....

Every year at this time I like to look back on the concluding year and determine what I did, or what happened, to advance me towards the goals I have in life. I dissect what I feel was important to the advancement of my goals, as well as what specifically did NOT work or what needs to change. With that decided, I then plan out some goals for 2024.This is the concluding episode of Season 8 of An Older Gay Guy Show. 

In this penultimate episode of Season 8, I have used AI to create an original, emotional telling of 'A Christmas Carol' by Charles Dickens.With some voice acting and sound effects, I read you this famous story, my favorite of all-time. Please listen while relaxing in the days leading up to Christmas. Listen on a quiet night, perhaps with a roaring fire or sitting beneath the lights of your Christmas tree. This story says something to all, not just those of a 'Christian faith', but to all of mankind that strive to be better and make amends to those who we perceive have done us wrong. A Merry Christmas to all......

In this episode, I offer some of my piano arrangements for your use in any gathering where you might want some background music. A bit about my style of arrangements: I very much like dissonant sounds. Dissonance refers to a lack of harmony. Dissonant music sometimes makes people feel a bit uneasy. Because of this feeling, dissonant music is often used to create tension in films. In the last 10 years or so, I have used dissonance in many of my arrangements because of the unique sound. Not everyone will be a fan of this music, but it is what I am currently working on and I thought I would share it.This album contains:The Christmas Song - pianoDo You Hear What I Hear - pianoAll Alone Am I - pianoI'll Be Home For Christmas - pianoTheme from Knots Landing TV Show - piano, strings and percussionSilent Night - pianoEmpty Chairs At Empty Tables (from Les Miserables) - piano and stringsTheme from Seattle TV Show - piano and stringsFrosty The Snowman - pianoI hope you enjoy the album. Happy Holidays !~Joey

In this serious episode I tell you two stories from my past that are extremely personal. I would not normally be this open, but I know of people who will be alone these holidays and I worry. Thankfully the thoughts I had during this time are far behind me, but I've never forgotten the things I learned during these very difficult days. I hope this helps someone.

In this episode, I give you an update of what happened at The Podcast Awards and talk about some upcoming future plans as always mentioned on An Older Gay Guy Show's Facebook Page.An Older Gay Guy Show Facebook PageAdditionally, I want to introduce you to one of my guilty pleasures, as well as discuss my current tv crush. 'Shameless' YouTube Clip #1'Shameless' YouTube Clip #2Please note: An Older Gay Guy Show is going on a brief hiatus to plan and record a 'stash' of shows that will allow the episodes to come out every Thursday, on schedule.  I will return with the first of the new shows on December 7th.

This is the final episode of my 2023 Sweeps Period and it is a STORYTIME that served as a working model for my book 'Northridge High Football Camp'. I wrote this story in 1992 and I copyrighted it in 1994. If you are a fan of the Jockstrap Stories podcast, you may recognize many of the characteristics of the main protagonist in this story that ended up being part of the character development of Vinnie Manta, the main protagonist in 'Northridge High Football Camp'. I also used some of the description when I created the character of Tony Marino. This story was part of a planned series called Campfire Stories. I will probably continue with that series in the future.Don't miss the FINAL LIVE Pride48 Streaming Weekend. This is it! No more!The weekend runs Friday evening, September 15th thru Sunday night, September 17th. An Older Gay Guy Show will be on Saturday the 16th 2:00 pm-3:00 pm Eastern Daylight Time.Erotic Stories, a Vintage TV Trivia Contest and more!  Please join us !!Link to Pride48:   Pride48

As we move towards the conclusion of Sweeps Period 2023, I offer up a double-STORYTIME episode. The title of this show is 'Nutball' and it tells two tales of youthful pastimes that often included drinking and toking. I describe two different ways that I played a torturous game for fun. The first story is titled 'Can You Sink the Ball or Sink My Balls?'The second tale is titled 'Thwapping My Nuts'I hope you enjoy these STORYTIMES.

2023 Sweeps continues with a re-edited episode about Jock Feet. I speak about my attraction to certain feet and also what isn't attractive and is too severe for my taste. A quite funny STORYTIME about an experience I had in Montreal about 20 years ago starts at 34:45. If you want to skip right to the story, feel free, but I really think the entire episode should be heard in order to fully understand how and where all of this feet stuff began.I hope you enjoy this episode !  And, thanks for listening. ~Joey

As we continue with Sweeps Period 2023, this STORYTIME episode is a re-edited show from a few years ago, about a hike that my dog and I went on to a local swimming hole in Western Massachusetts. We were quite surprised at what we found. This show has erotic content, so please be forewarned. 

In today’s episode, I bring back a re-edited show from the early years of An Older Gay Guy Show and I talk about how bodybuilders prepare for contests and my role as their prep guide. Along the way I will discuss the intense body shaving aspect of their contest preparation and the rigors of learning to flex properly. Towards the end of this episode I tell you a STORYTIME about two college-age guys that were flexing in the locker room of my gym when they thought no one else was around. I hope you enjoy this episode, which will be followed up with a Guys Flexing Part 2 as the final episode of this year’s Sweeps Period. In Part 2 of this series I will tell two more STORYTIMES about unusual things that happened when guys that wanted to do body prep had their body shaving end up going in an unexpected way. This is a funny and erotic episode that I will conclude the 2023 Sweeps Period with, and that will be on Monday, September 11th.VOTING CLOSES MONDAY NIGHT, JULY 31st !!!!If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 2023 People's Choice Podcast Awards. There is no cost to you and it would mean very much to me. Below are the instructions for voting.VOTING CLOSES MONDAY NIGHT, JULY 31st !!!!1-  Click the link below or go to PodcastAwards.com2- Select the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voting Now Open. Click here to vote'.3- Fill out the 'Sign Up to Nominate'. Fill out this short form that is used just to verify that you are a real person with your own email. All info you provide is deleted once the awards are concluded for this year. It also allows you to put your name in the pool of potential judges. You can accept or decline judging if you are selected. It is rare to be selected as a judge.4- Once you sign up, it will take you to 'Make Your Nominations' page. 5- Scroll down to the 'LGBTQ' category (it has the name Feast of Fools for the category) and use the drop down menu to select An Older Gay Guy Show.6- VERY IMPORTANT - SAVE YOUR NOMINATION AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE !! (The LGBTQ category will disappear once you save your vote)And that's it. Thank you for showing your gratitude as a fan by voting for the show !Click to Vote in the Podcast Awards

Sweeps Period 2023 continues with an informative, yet humorous look at the various pills used for Erectile Dysfunction. In addition to useful information, I tell a couple of stories about the first time I tried the pills. I have taken three kinds and each made a difference for me in what was achieved. I hope you enjoy the two STORYTIMES contained within.If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 2023 People's Choice Podcast Awards. There is no cost to you and it would mean very much to me. Below are the instructions for voting.1-  Click the link below or go to PodcastAwards.com2- Select the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voting Now Open. Click here to vote'.3- Fill out the 'Sign Up to Nominate'. Fill out this short form that is used just to verify that you are a real person with your own email. All info you provide is deleted once the awards are concluded for this year. It also allows you to put your name in the pool of potential judges. You can accept or decline judging if you are selected. It is rare to be selected as a judge.4- Once you sign up, it will take you to 'Make Your Nominations' page. 5- Scroll down to the 'LGBTQ' category (it has the name Feast of Fools for the category) and use the drop down menu to select An Older Gay Guy Show.6- VERY IMPORTANT - SAVE YOUR NOMINATION AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE !! (The LGBTQ category will disappear once you save your vote)And that's it. Thank you for showing your gratitude as a fan by voting for the show !Click for Podcast Awards

A favorite story from my younger days. This is one of those guy things that I don't think you would see today. But back in the late 70's, it really was a different world.  Sweeps Period 2023 continues with this STORYTIME.If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 2023 People's Choice Podcast Awards. There is no cost to you and it would mean very much to me. Below are the instructions for voting.1-  Click the link below or go to PodcastAwards.com2- Select the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voting Now Open. Click here to vote'.3- Fill out the 'Sign Up to Nominate'. Fill out this short form that is used just to verify that you are a real person with your own email. All info you provide is deleted once the awards are concluded for this year. It also allows you to put your name in the pool of potential judges. You can accept or decline judging if you are selected. It is rare to be selected as a judge.4- Once you sign up, it will take you to 'Make Your Nominations' page. 5- Scroll down to the 'LGBTQ' category (it has the name Feast of Fools for the category) and use the drop down menu to select An Older Gay Guy Show.6- VERY IMPORTANT - SAVE YOUR NOMINATION AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE !! (The LGBTQ category will disappear once you save your vote)And that's it. Thank you for showing your gratitude as a fan by voting for the show !Click for Podcast Awards

Sweeps Period continues with a two-story STORYTIME episode. This is a re-edited/recorded episode from many years ago. I hope you find these stories to be tantalizing and enjoyable. They were a memorable part of my younger life. If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 2023 People's Choice Podcast Awards. There is no cost to you and it would mean very much to me. Below are the instructions for voting.1-  Click the link below or go to PodcastAwards.com2- Select the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voting Now Open. Click here to vote'.3- Fill out the 'Sign Up to Nominate'. Fill out this short form that is used just to verify that you are a real person with your own email. All info you provide is deleted once the awards are concluded for this year. It also allows you to put your name in the pool of potential judges. You can accept or decline judging if you are selected. It is rare to be selected as a judge.4- Once you sign up, it will take you to 'Make Your Nominations' page. 5- Scroll down to the 'LGBTQ' category (it has the name Feast of Fools for the category) and use the drop down menu to select An Older Gay Guy Show.6- VERY IMPORTANT - SAVE YOUR NOMINATION AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE !! (The LGBTQ category will disappear once you save your vote)And that's it. Thank you for showing your gratitude as a fan by voting for the show !

Welcome to Sweeps Period 2023 !  In this first episode, I give you one of my favorite stories that took place when I was 16 years old. I found the memories of what happened in this story to be something that gave me fantasies for many years. Two college jocks lived in an apartment directly across from my boyfriend's apartment, and one particular night I wanted to entertain myself with a devious plot that only a horny 16 year-old could come up with. If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 2023 People's Choice Podcast Awards. There is no cost to you and it would mean very much to me. Below are the instructions for voting.1-  Click the link below or go to PodcastAwards.com2- Select the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voting Now Open. Click here to vote'.3- Fill out the 'Sign Up to Nominate'. Fill out this short form that is used just to verify that you are a real person with your own email. All info you provide is deleted once the awards are concluded for this year. It also allows you to put your name in the pool of potential judges. You can accept or decline judging if you are selected. It is rare to be selected as a judge.4- Once you sign up, it will take you to 'Make Your Nominations' page. 5- Scroll down to the 'LGBTQ' category (it has the name Feast of Fools for the category) and use the drop down menu to select An Older Gay Guy Show.6- VERY IMPORTANT - SAVE YOUR NOMINATION AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE !! (The LGBTQ category will disappear once you save your vote)And that's it. Thank you for showing your gratitude as a fan by voting for the show !Below is the link.Click this link:  Podcast Awards Voting  or go to PodcastAwards.com

In this last episode of the show before 'Sweeps Period 2023' !!, I give you a discussion (amongst myself) of several topics. - What to expect from this year's Sweeps Period- Is Box Dancing at clubs again in my future?- Why am I a bit like Blanche Devereaux ?- What was it like being General Manager of a gym, - Where was my prominent position at Provincetown's BIG TEA DANCE?- What is the story behind my shaving my head (I was a pioneer !)?- Early thoughts about my husband Paco and I buying our first house. This is a big deal. I've been in my apartment for 25 years! I thought I'd die here LOL. But, nope !- and a few jokes along the way to make you smile.SWEEPS PERIOD 2023 begins this Saturday, July 1st. It will be almost all STORYTIME episodes during this year's SWEEPS !Please SUBSCRIBE and join me !~Joey

Welcome! Today I have a STORYTIME episode with 3 true-life short stories about my time at The Boston Conservatory of Music.  These take place in the 1970's, and as you shall see, it was a VERY different time in the world. I think you will find these tales funny and a bit shocking! The 3 stories are titled:1.   The Asshole Conductor2.   The Dance Belt Adjustment3.   The Orgy Ring-LeaderThere is also a 4th STORYTIME about my second year at The Conservatory when I was a Musical Theater major. You will find this story almost unbelievable, and what happened would not only never be allowed today, but it would result in numerous lawsuits, and probably an indictment to the teacher.The link to An Older Gay Guy Show on YouTube can be found below.Link:  The Drama Teacher's Underwear

Here is a funny short story using a 1950's cautionary tale format. If you are of my generation, I think you will find this quite amusing. If you are younger, I think you will still get many of the references.As there are also visual innuendos, I am posting the link to the video.Fudge Packer videoAlso links to the 2 new videos on An Older Gay Guy Show's YouTube channel.7 Things I've Learned In My 65 YearsandJudgement video

A double episode of two short stories. The first is a funny experience I had just a few days ago while walking to the store, and the second part is a fascinating story about a real-life castle that was near my house when I was growing up. This residence was literally a full castle, with turrets, parapets and towers and as construction of the main castle was completed, the owner dug a moat, with plans to fill it with water and connect the working drawbridge. It was amazing, and I put some photos of the castle on 'An Older Gay Guy Show Facebook Page'.Here is the link:  An Older Gay Guy Show Facebook Page

I am about to turn 65 years of age in just a few days. A Senior Citizen! Who would have thought? In the last 5-10 years I have found myself getting increasing fear about many things in every day life.Is Social Media to blame? Or are my fears possibly irrational and don't actually pose a threat to me? See if you possibly have some of the same fears (I'll bet you have different ones). The next episode, coming out next week, will be 'Sleeping Bareassed - Part Two'.

This episode is the first in a two-part series about sleeping naked.  In this show I tell you two STORYTIMES about how I came to be someone that sleeps bareassed most of the time. At the conclusion, I go over 5 reasons why sleeping naked can be a healthier option.In part-two, next time, I will tell another STORYTIME about an eventful weekend I had up on Square Pond in Shapleigh, Maine in 1971. I hope you enjoy the shows!  ~Joey

In this episode, I bring some nutrition and health info to you that is very important for those of us over the age of 40. But, those of you under 40, listen up also, as this info can help you prepare for aging yourself.This show contains a lot of information: A discussion about Metabolic Syndrome (Pre-Diabetes), 5 signs that indicate you might be moving toward this condition, how to evaluate your own body fat and an introduction to the Mediterranean Diet. I hope you enjoy the show. 

In this episode, which is the 2nd of 2 'sex' episodes, I discuss 3 sexual topics and I include 2 STORYTIMES that I think you will find funny and a bit shocking.I mention in this show that I am planning a full separate episode about Masturbation for release on Memorial Day Weekend. Between now and then, I'd love some listener stories about Masturbation. They might be about interesting masturbation techniques that you have discovered, or funny stories or even masturbation fails, such as being interrupted, or spied upon or other disasters.I will not use your name or location. You can submit as many stories as you would like. Please send them to [email protected]. The deadline is May 13th.I hope you enjoy today's episode!

This is the first of two 'sex' episodes where we will talk about some facts regarding the care and health of your penis and testicles. Next week will be 'Manscaping, Masturbation, Dick Pumps and Sounding, with related content.I hope you enjoy this episode !  ~Joey

This is an odd episode, but I hope you will find it interesting and fun. First up is a short article that I have authored that touches upon some of the unique issues that are problems for the senior gay community and then I tell you 4 short stories about College Wrestlers and their competitions.I hope you enjoy the episode!  ~JoeyLink to  ChatGPT

 I am about to turn 65. Gone are the early days of my gay life and the methods that I used to find and meet potential dates or hook-ups. Almost a quarter of the way through the 21st century, new methods and dating philosophies have emerged. Guys my age are sometimes asking themselves if they should follow or still remain with past methods. 

The story of my attempt to become a star in Hollywood. (spoiler alert: I'm NOT a star! LOL) I hope you find this story amusing and interesting. At the conclusion of the show, I offer you a surprise. I hope you enjoy this episode.

A short update on what has been going on with my health and what the future holds for me with medical stuff.I also give you the plan for the next episode, a STORYTIME, due out the weekend of February 26th.Thanks so very much for those of you who have stayed listeners of my show. Your patience has been most appreciated.  Love you guys !

Here is a very short episode featuring my piano arrangement of 'Silent Night'. Enjoy the rest of your Holiday.

This is just a quick update on why I haven't put out any new shows for the past 3 weeks.Tomorrow, Christmas Day, I will put out two episodes. The first will just be a piano piece and the second will be a re-edited Christmas STORYTIME episode.

Happy Holidays everyone! I hope you are all doing well. In today's episode, I bring you a newly re-edited story from my old shows.  This is a story about a very fun and unusual New Year's Eve that I had when I was 29 years old. It is a tale of five of us guys that went up to a Winter chalet for partying and sports (mostly partying).  I used one small part of this true-life story in my gay erotic sports novel 'Northridge High Football Camp' that I did as an audiobook on the Jockstrap Stories podcast.Please note: I will be alone at home this Christmas and I am trying to set up something as an online social on Christmas Day itself, for anyone who might be alone and wanting some company. I will let you know more details as they firm up. 

In this conclusion to my 'I See Dead People' series, I answer questions that have been submitted to me from listeners.  Additionally, I tell a STORYTIME story about the most difficult, gross, and heart-breaking thing I ever had to do in the funeral business. I give a warning prior to starting this story, as it is not for the faint-of-heart. 

This will be a shorter episode and it is for your entertainment. I hope. This is going to be a few pieces of music that I have been working on writing the arrangements and I have recorded these songs from various groups.The first is a rendition of Hallelujah by Leonard Cohen, and this is my own arrangement performed by a choir.The second is an arrangement for the harp, played by me, and it is When You Wish Upon A Star from Disney.The third is a rendition of Scat Singing, a jazz method and this is a well-known tv theme song that I’m sure you will recognize. This is done by a small group.The 4th is a new arrangement I am working on of When I Was Seventeen, played by me on my baby grand piano.And the last piece is a version of Empty Chairs at Empty Tables, from Les Mis, performed by me again, on my baby grand. Please listen to the end of this show, as it is quite important.So please, relax, have a glass wine or other beverage of your choice, and I hope you enjoy it. 

A discussion about the history of Body Image.  From the 1970's through today, Body Image has been something that male and female, gay and straight have often dealt with through bombardment from TV, Films, Magazines, Porn and other media. I also address my own personal struggles with this. 

Today I had the most interesting experience in the gym's sauna. I ask you to give me your opinion if I was in fact being hit on by this ADONIS. It's quite an erotic story, and if you like my gay erotic stories, you will love this.Please send me your opinion answer to the question I ask towards the end of the episode. Send to:[email protected]

This episode is def rated R.  I tell a story about my time on Cape Cod as a Funeral Director and Embalmer when I was hanging out with the young 'townies'. We had a special pond.

This is a re-edited episode of my most popular show with new content added.  I hope you enjoy this conversation about Gym Showers and how they have changed over the years, as guys grew more modest.  Don't miss the STORYTIME in the middle of this episode. It is one of my favorite stories and telling it brought back so many wonderful memories. Be sure to hear it !The show concludes with my updated thoughts about locker rooms and showers.

I am pleased to present the conclusion of the 2-part Interview with Davey Wavey. In this episode we continue to talk about our thoughts on Gay Porn, and Davey tells us all about his porn company, Himeros.tvHimeros.tv Preview with Older GuysHimeros.tv Home Touring PageHimeros.tv Dick Special

A great Interview with YouTube Star and Gay Porn Producer & Director, Davey Wavey. This is a return visit with us from Davey, and in this Interview he and I discuss many topics related to Gay Porn production. In this extensive Two-Part Interview, we talk about our personal likes and dislikes in Gay Porn. He also gives us details about his very hot Gay Porn site, Himeros.tv. I know you will enjoy this fascinating discussion with Davey Wavey. Himeros.tv Preview with Older GuysHimeros.tv Home Touring Page

2022 Sweeps Period continues with an episode about sleep...or lack thereof. Most Americans do not get enough sleep and it is affecting health, both physical and mental. In reference to a magazine article I read a few years ago, I used the suggestions I mention in this episode as a way to successfully change my sleep habits by 80%. I hope you enjoy the information in this show. Thank you for joining me. The 2022 Sweeps Period has several episodes to go, so it will run into early October.

In this show, I want to continue the 'Your Personal Trainer' series with an episode about overeating and specifically, when we eat because of emotions; whether that is depression, celebration, or even boredom.Please note: If you feel you overeat regularly, it will eventually begin to affect your overall health. So please, consult a professional that deals with overeating and binging. Coming up next in the 'Your Personal Trainer' series will be 'Sauna for Longevity'. Look for that episode in late October.

A theme I have done before, but it deserves more attention. With many believing there exists a fracture in the Gay Community due to lack of physical socializing because so many bars and clubs have closed, it becomes more important that we watch out for each other. That includes the prevailing gay-to-gay bullying that has only increased with the advent of the internet. Let's pause for a few minutes to understand how this type of behavior is more prominent when we are with our friends and within our own  cliques. Can we stop behaviors that prey on weaker people within the community when we might think we are being funny and clever?

This is from the very first episode of An Older Gay Guy Show. I tell the story of my solo trip as an 11-year old to Salem, Massachusetts to visit what I had seen on Bewitched.

Starting out my 2022 Sweeps Period, this is a re-edited episode that is my absolute favorite from An Older Gay Guy Show. This took place in the early 1980's while I was working as a Funeral Director & Embalmer on Cape Cod. It is the most memorable and unique experience that I ever had in the Funeral industry. It is a story that I shall never forget, and I hope you get a laugh and that it touches your heart, as it did mine. Thank you to all my wonderful listeners for once again making me a Finalist in this year's People Choice Podcast Awards ! Hugs to all of you. ~Joey

This is a new segment that I am going to do every now and then. The news has such negative, depressing stories that sometimes I think we just need a break from it. Therefore this series will be uplifting stories with a slant towards tales with older adults. I hope that they give you the same warm feeling that they have given to me as I prepared this episode. Thank you so much for joining me today.This Sunday will be the reveal of the Finalist Slate for the 2022 Podcast Awards. Thank you to all who enjoyed the show enough this past year and took the time to vote for me. It really means more than I could explain in words.Sweeps Period 2022 will begin next week and air through the middle of September.

 LAST 2 DAYS TO VOTE for An Older Gay Guy Show for the 2022 People's Choice Podcast Awards !In today's episode I want to kick around some thoughts of how older gay people can find ways to socialize. Many of us senior LGBTQ+ people miss the gay bars and dance clubs where we could meet with our friends, and maybe meet that 'special' someone.If I make the Finals for this year's Podcast Awards, I have quite a line-up of episodes for you during my 'Sweeps Period', so make sure to vote so my Sweeps will be successful. If you enjoy this Podcast, please support me and VOTE for 'An Older Gay Guy Show' in the 2022 17th Annual People's Choice Podcast Awards:Please go to PodcastAwards.comClick on the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voting Now Open'Do the TEMPORARY Email Verification (they erase it)That will take you to the 'Make Your Nominations' pageI am in 2 categories. Use the Drop-down menu:The Adam Curry People's Choice Awards CategoryandFeast of Fools/Fun LGBTQ CategoryPlease vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in both categories.then VERY IMPORTANTLY:Click the SAVE NOMINATIONS box at the BOTTOM of the page !!!!!And most importantly, THANK YOU !

 This is a STORYTIME episode about an experience that I had in High School. I hope you find this story funny, as it is yet another example of the fact I don't always make wise decisions. Thank you to all that sent me messages about my Covid-19 and the loss of my beautiful cat, Pooh. I will respond to all. Please be patient.If you enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, please vote for the show in the Podcast Awards. Please go to PodcastAwards.comClick on the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voting Now Open'Do the TEMPORARY Email Verification (they erase it)That will take you to the 'Make Your Nominations' pageI am in 2 categories. Use the Drop-down menu:The Adam Curry People's Choice Awards CategoryandFeast of Fools/Fun LGBTQ CategoryPlease vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in both categories.then VERY IMPORTANTLY:Click the SAVE NOMINATIONS box at the BOTTOM of the page.And most importantly, THANK YOU !

Today I have an hour-long INTERVIEW episode for your listening pleasure. Joshua Senter is a Golden Globe Winner and Emmy Award-nominated writer. Josh was raised in the Ozark Mountains of Missouri where he was homeschooled on a cattle farm. He moved to LA in 1997 to pursue filmmaking and he began writing for the hit Showtime series The L Word.  Soon after, he joined the international phenomenon, Desperate Housewives. In addition to many more high-profile screen credits he is also an adjunct professor of TV Writing for the School of Cinematic Arts at USC. His sophomore novel Still The Night Call was released in 2022 and was named Kirkus Reviews “Best Indie Book.”Josh's InstagramJoshua Senter Website'Still the Night Call' on Amazon/Kindle

Well, happily I turned 64. And Paco is over his Covid-19. And I still remain negative. Yay me! LOL.       In this episode I wanted to begin to introduce to you my awesome gift to myself, although it was ordered in January 2021 ! 15 months of waiting are over. I hope you enjoy this pause between the more serious episodes. 

 Today I have Part 3, which is the conclusion of the series, with Susan Bratton, the intimacy expert. And boy, today’s show is chocked full of so many helpful suggestions that we as gay men, can really utilize.We take a deep dive into Erectile Dysfunction and Dick Pumps and Susan gives her opinions on such useful topics as Acoustic Wave Therapy, Testosterone Replacement Therapy, the Gains Wave, the Phoenix, and much more. And of course she does it with her charismatic, fun filled energy. Susan Bratton on InstagramBetter LoverRelationship Magic The Sexual Soulmate PactThe Whopper Dick PumpPumping Guide

This episode is Part 2 of the 3-Part Series with Susan Bratton, the Intimacy Expert. In this episode we take a deep dive into open relationships and other intimacy issues. Relationship MagicThe Sexual Soulmate PactBetter LoverSusan Bratton on Instagram

I have quite the treat for you today. I bring you an interview with my first female guest ever, and guys, she is such a joy to have on. She is knowledgeable about so many of the issues I have addressed on this show over the years, but not only does she know her stuff, she is also funny, entertaining and sexy as all hell. I adore her. Today is part 1 of a 3-part series with the amazing Susan Bratton, an Intimacy Expert. During this series we will talk about many types of relationships, the male sexual experience, penis enlargement and health, tips on having a successful dating life and so much more. Whether you enter Susan’s world through a sexual health problem you need to solve, intimacy skills you want to learn, or bedroom communication techniques to ignite your connection and pleasure, she offers a world of good to apply to your love life.Relationship MagicThe Sexual Soulmate PactBetter LoverSusan Bratton on Instagram 

In this concluding episode of the 3-part series, actor, author and musical creator David Pevsner discusses his time as a Mature Escort and tells us about his OnlyFans and how he uses it as an expression of his erotic images. David Pevsner WebsiteDamn Shame on Amazon and KindleDavid Pevsner on OnlyFansDavid Pevsner on TwitterDavid Pevsner on Twitter (erotic)David Pevsner on Instagram

Part 2 of the 3-part series with Actor, Musical Creator, Composer and Author,  David Pevsner. Damn Shame on Amazon & KindleDavid Pevsner Website

Today we start a new 3-part series with actor/author David Pevsner. Over the course of these 3 shows, David discusses his book 'Damn Shame', and talks in depth and quite honestly, about his amazing life. If you are in our age range (60's) this first episode will be a re-visit to your childhood. As the series goes along, David gets very candid about his struggles and successes in theater and his unique ways of making money during tough times. This is a fascinating series of episodes. 'Damn Shame' on Amazon & KindleDavid Pevsner Website

 The true story of the oddest, most bizarre person I have ever known in my life. 

A very important episode, that is dear to my heart. Valentine's Day has just passed, and so many LGBTQ+ people dread that holiday. This is a musing on those who search for love. 

 In this episode I tell you a STORYTIME about an adventure that I had with some High School friends that ended up boosting my self-esteem and confidence. Sometimes a bit scary, sometimes a bit funny, this is one of my favorite memories from my High School years. I hope you enjoy it.Check-out the AdamMale.com Sex Machines as mentioned in the commerical:AdamMale with Sex Machine page   Be sure to use the discount coupon code of AOGGS for a 50% savings on almost any one item, and that includes FREE U.S. Shipping !!

 This episode concludes the Gay Military Life series by Sgt. Ron.  I want to thank Ron so very much for sharing his fascinating life with us, both in this series, as well as his Gay Prison Guard stories.  If you have not had a chance to hear the Gay Prison Guard series, I invite you to listen to Ron's tales of the many years he worked in a penitentiary as a Prison Officer.  The series is available in my back catalogue. 'D. Pumps' on Joey After Dark as mentioned in the commerical.

Sgt. Ron's tales about his time in the military and living as a closeted gay man continue, picking up where Part 6 left off. If you have not had a chance the hear Part 6, please do so first, as this episode picks up from mid-story.The Gay Military Series concludes with Part 8 coming in just a couple of weeks. 

Another common hospital test is detailed in my story of my procedure earlier this week.  I know many people who have claustrophobia and fear of tight spaces might be hesitant to get this test, so as in my Colonoscopy episodes, I want to dispel some of the anxiety about MRIs. AdamMale.com's special deal for my listeners 50% off almost any one item. Free U.S. Shipping.Use the discount code of AOGGS at checkout to get your special savings!

 A short episode where I just needed to talk to you. 

In the conclusion of this two-part series, Artie talks about some of his tv show appearances on General Hospital, Modern Family, Pushing Daisies and more, and we continue our discussion about his Bad Boy YouTube series. This is a fun and funny episode and I know you will enjoy it.Podcast Awards: The 2021 People's Choice Podcast Awards will be telecast on Thursday, September 30th, International Podcast Day. The show will be on YouTube at 9:00 pm East Coast time and 6:00 pm West Coast time. An Older Gay Guy Show is nominated in the LGBTQ category. If you are available, please give it a watch. We need as many viewers as possible. The LGBTQ category will probably be 20-30 minutes into the show.  Wish me luck ! My huge gratitude to all who voted for me this year. Link to Podcast Awards:  https://www.podcastawards.com/Artie O'Daly and Co. (Bad Boy series) https://www.youtube.com/c/ArtieODalyCo

Continuing Sweeps Period, today I have a fun-filled episode about a subculture of the gay community that I have not discussed on the show before: Drag performers. And in this special episode my guest takes the discussion to new heights, by introducing his creation; Maxxie La Wow, the World's first Drag Super-Shero.This is a funny and educational episode about a topic that I freely admit to know nothing about. The following are the links to the IndieGoGo Fundraising Page, the Adventure Reel that will give you a first look at Maxxie La Wow and also Anthony's social media. The Indiegogo link:Direct link:  https://igg.me/at/maxxieMy shortcut:  www.maxxie.com/donateThe Adventure Reel:Direct link:  https://youtu.be/sR3fjJgtFsQMy shortcut:  www.maxxie.com/adventureSocial Media:Web Site: www.maxxie.comInstagram:  www.instagram.com/maxxielawowFacebook:  www.facebook.com/maxxielawow 

A brief overview of the primary diseases that we face as the LGBTQ+ community. Citing 3 highly regarded organizations, some basic warnings and suggestions are mentioned in this shorter episode.

In this full episode, I am continuing the I See Dead People series. In today's show, I tell 4 bizarre and humorous stories about my time as a Licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer:The Potomac River CrashThe PrisonerThe BlizzardThe Mausoleum In addition, I answer some common questions about the Funeral Business and I put to rest a couple of long-believed Old Wives Tales. I hope you enjoy these stories. A Part 4 will conclude this series with the most horror I encountered as a Funeral Worker, coming in November. 

Sweeps continues with another episode with Sgt. Ron, who tells us some tales from his time at Eglin Air Force Base. This is Part 6 of the series and will continue with Part 7 coming in September. Enjoy his storytelling. Link to 'Mystery Box of Sex Toys' from the Joey After Dark YouTube channel.  https://youtu.be/AaL8KyU-q0w 

In Part 2 of the ongoing 'Your Personal Trainer' series, I review your 'homework' from Part 1 and then we talk intensely about one food we need to eliminate, one food group we need to expand, and the beginning of exercise via a YouTube channel that is excellent (with a HOT AF host).The following link is to BarbarianBody's 5-minute home abdominal workout: (it may be clickable or you may have to copy and paste)https://youtu.be/kCbQz-XNcVE

Sweeps Period has begun! In this first episode, I have an awesome interview with a very busy Hollywood actor/writer/producer/director/editor. His name is Artie O'Daly and there is a good chance he has guest appeared on a tv show that you have seen. In this first of a two-part interview, Artie and I talk about his connection to Gilmore Girls (one of my all-time favorite shows) and he tells stories of his appearance on that show and how it came about that one of the Gilmore Girls stars appeared on Artie's hit TV series 'Bad Boy' (currently on YouTube). He is a fascinating guy and I know you will enjoy this two-part interview.Next up in Sweeps Period will be the second part of my 'Your Personal Trainer' series. We will talk more about food and also some basic exercises to get started with at home. Following that, will be another series of episodes with Sgt. Ron where he tells us more stories of his days as a gay man in the military.Sweeps Period is going to have some great shows. Subscribe so you don't miss an episode when it comes out. Thanks guys !  ~Joey

 I thought I'd give you a story of how my day went for my 2nd colonoscopy, the first I've had since 2009.If you wish to support An Older Gay Guy Show at no cost to you, please Vote for me in the 2021 Podcast Awards. Voting closes in just a few days, so if you wish to support me and vote for the podcast, please do it immediately. Here are the steps:1) Go to PodcastAwards.com2) Click on the Blue Box that says 'Click Here to Vote'3) Register (the podcast awards delete all info after the awards. This just shows them you are a real person)4) Vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in the LGBTQ category and also in The People's Choice category5) Then VERY IMPORTANTLY,  SAVE your votes at the bottom of the page.Thank you in advance. I very much appreciate it. andPlease join me this Saturday, July 24th at 11:00 am - 12 noon (Eastern U.S. time) for the launch of the Joey After Dark Podcast that will be part of the INTERACTIVE Pride48 LIVE Streaming Weekend. You can enjoy a couple of true-life erotic stories, some Vintage TV Trivia, and more. Go to Pride48.com and click on the Listen Live Player. Also, please join the chat room so we can converse during the show. Thanks everyone!

In today's episode, I am going to update you on several things.The New Joey After Dark Podcast and Joey After Dark YouTube ChannelPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/joey-after-dark-podcast/id1573409882YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW1EcoCf1DCOBb_-ArJMzAgAlso, my Eye Health, my Tongue Cancer check-up, the Pride48 Network LIVE Streaming Weekend and The Podcast Awards. Then in STORYTIME, I tell you a fun story about a real castle in my hometown. If you would like to support An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast (at no cost to you), please vote for me in the 2021 People's Choice Podcast Awards. Here is how to vote:1) Go to PodcastAwards.com2) Click on the Blue 'Click Here to Vote'3) Register (he erases all info after the awards)4) Vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in the following 2 categories:Vote for An Older Gay Guy Show (using the drop-down menu) in People's Choice Award CategoryVote for An Older Gay Guy Show (using the drop-down menu) in the LGBTQ Category5) VERY IMPORTANT ! SAVE YOUR VOTES AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE !!!!Thanks everyone ! ~Joey

After a short-hiatus, I return with an episode about making some much needed changes.

 I am joined by LGBTQ+ Actor, Writer, Producer, Director Jonathan Shuffield, creator of the web series Almost....Not Quite: Together Apart.  Originally a planned filmed sitcom-style show, in their freshman year, Jonathan and his talented troupe of actors have adapted their show for the modern pandemic. Covid-19's big connection software has allowed the production to use Zoom as their set, and the result is a fun testament of the unforgettable year of 2020. Please enjoy the interview.JOEY AFTER DARK YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW1EcoCf1DCOBb_-ArJMzAgAlmost...Not Quite: Together ApartFacebook: www.facebook.com/almostnotquite YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCN3d7ZqZbF9xm0S3ypYXG2Q Website: https://www.almostnotquite.net/ Instagram: @almostnq

This episode is the final installment of my 'Life-Enhancing Habits' series. This episode covers the remaining 7 suggestions to help you live a longer and more vibrant life. Don't miss my BIG announcement coming in a short message episode on Tuesday, June 1st !

Remember when we were kids and we would play a game of giving Cooties to our playmates ?  That is what I fear is looming outside my home. And I need to get over it.

As we slowly start putting society back together as we all get vaccinated for Covid-19, the Senior Gay Community is something we all need to think about and work at sustaining.  Many older gay men have been isolated during these past 13 months and are now rightfully feeling hesitant about re-joining social situations where crowds might soon be gathering. How will our older LGBTQ brothers and sisters still get together for much needed friendships and reunions, and what will be the lasting community be like?

We all are getting older, and maybe we are becoming our parents in our thoughts and habits. Are we as Gay Seniors just tired of the world of younger people? Are we starting to say the very things our parents would say that we swore we would never become? Are we starting to border on being that grouchy, bitter old man?

Today I am starting a new series that I'm calling Your Personal Trainer.  I often hear from guys that have basic workout and nutrition questions. I know hiring a Personal Trainer can be an expensive proposition, especially with the fees that will probably have to be charged by Trainers to compensate for all the lost work and income due to the Covid-19 Pandemic. So, with that in mind, I thought running this series can be beneficial to those that wish they could have a Personal Trainer to give them basic information and to do what Trainers do best; Motivate and Encourage you, as you go along. Obviously without having the option to work with you in person, it will limit how some of this training will have to be. But, I have faith that the information and me kicking your ass a bit will help you at least get started eating healthier and getting you to move! I will give you some basic at home exercises to do down the road a bit, and there will also be more advanced exercises that will have to be done in a gym, for those of you desiring these programs.So, no matter your experience, from absolute beginners (my favorite guys!) to the more advanced training, there will be something for everyone. I truly hope you enjoy these episodes and that you will participate so we all can get these Pandemic Pounds off so we can enjoy a beautiful, active Summer. My best to all of you!  ~Joey

My former client Matt Mercurio returns for the conclusion of his 2-Part Series. In this episode we talk a lot about the music of the 1970's-2000's and our love of gay club dancing. Some of the topics we discuss are: K-Tel Compilation Records, Napster, Casey Kasem's American Top 40 Countdown, Vinyl, Cassettes, CD's, MP3s, Taping Songs Off the Radio, Matt's Famous Chart Keeping since 1983, Apple Music, Flag Waving on the Dance Floor and much more!

This is part 1 of a 2-part series on 10 Habits that can help give you a heathy life as you age. In this first part, I give an overview, some necessary disclaimers and talk in depth about the first 3 Habits. The remaining 7 will be discussed in the final installment of this series, coming in a couple of weeks.The main content of this episode is from a draft that I had back from the first year of this show. It was never used. Due to it being done 6 years ago, the audio is not the best as I was working with my first microphone and studio set-up. I currently use my 3rd set-up for recording new episodes so there are big differences.      Thank you for listening !

In this Interview episode, I am joined by Actor/Writer/Producer Gian Carlo Durland, Independent Filmmaker. Gian Carlo currently has two film projects of interest to the older LGBTQ+ community. Please enjoy this lively discussion about his excellent film Ripples of Water, the difficulties of being over 40 in the gay community and Clutter Luck, his YouTube episodic 'Roadshow' parody.Here are Gian Carlo's links:https://ripplesofwater.com/Ripples of Water is currently available on Amazon Prime Video, iTunes and Apple TVClutter Luck  YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKB4YzA2Vt1D_-5peGuJqbwhttps://www.giancarlodurland.com/

This is Part 1 of a fun conversation that I had with Matt Mercurio, an ex-client and best friend of mine from 25 years ago. Matt was one of the first clients that I had when I moved my training business into Boston gay gyms.Matt discusses how we met and what it was like having me as his Personal Trainer. We are completely honest in this episode, and maybe I revealed more than I should have. But, I try to be as honest as possible with you guys, and this is an example of that !

This is an episode about Procrastination and Lack of Motivation. Often these things can be directly tied to lack of physical or mental energy to take on the task. How can we stay energetic? Well, Energy Builds Energy.

Sometimes when we get older, especially if we are single and alone, we ruminate on past embarrassing situations or errors that we have made. I wanted to explain my philosophy on how I look at past problems. I talk about how I grew up with a dying mother and how that shaped my life over all these years. I hope this might be some use to you. 

 This year's annual Valentine's Episode provides a quartet of stories of Valentine's Days past. Travel around the globe and hear of good and bad celebrations. 

In the conclusion of our 5-Part Series on Sgt. Ron's Gay Military Life Stories, he concludes with some intriguing tales of how far the U.S. Military used to go to 'weed out' any suspected (gasp!) HOMOSEXUALS !  He also tells us stories about Turkish Baths (saunas) and his encounters with other foreign soldiers.If you have not had a chance to hear them, be sure to check-out his 3-Part Gay Prison Guard Series in Season 4.There are still 2 more episodes coming out in the next 6 days to finish up this Season 5.

In Part 4 of our 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues his amazing story-telling and discusses his time in Turkey. This is a funny and fascinating tale, giving us insight into what it was like as a gay man in the Military in the 1980's and 1990's. 

In Part 3 of a 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues to tell us his tales of gay life in the United States Air Force.  In this episode, Sgt. Ron tells us of his life during his assignments in The Netherlands and Turkey.

LGBTQ author Ste7en (yes, the 7 is on purpose) joins me to discuss his brand-new memoir The Last Alias, a book discussing his very successful career as an Anime director, writer and producer. We talk about his cult-hit Ghost Stories and how that influenced his life. The Last Alias also dives into his previous 'straight' life and his discovery of multiple aspects of his personality that allowed Ste7en to live as his authentic self.

This is a somewhat humorous look at the aging process and ways that we can mitigate the craziness that we go through.

 In part 2 of this five-part series, Sgt. Ron tells us about his first experiences in gay life, and the interesting men that he met in his early days as a gay man.

 For today's episode, I have re-edited some recording that I did 4 years ago about how to focus your own search for Happiness. I hope you enjoy it.

One of the dangers of getting old is the possibility of losing friends and family and isolating yourself in desperation to try to avoid pain. This can deprive you of some wonderful years of your life. Others find the endless search for a life partner to be depressing and debilitating. It seems that no matter what you do, you find yourself alone. And being alone for any length of time, no matter who you are, will eventually lead to loneliness. Loneliness can be crippling.In this episode, I offer a few suggestions that might help you get started in breaking free from that solitude.

So once you have secured that first date with someone, does it often not go as planned? Did you like the guy but then you didn't receive a call/text for a second date?  Did you do something wrong? This episode talks about 5 important Rules that will help you make sure that he will want that second date with you !

In Part 2 of my 'I See Dead People' series, I thought it would be a good idea to tell you about what exactly happens when a body is embalmed.  As we age, we will encounter the need to make arrangements for funerals, as well as visit them as a friend or relative.  Should it fall on you to make the funeral arrangements, do you know what a loved one would really like for their final disposition? If you have no guidance by written wishes, you will need to make decisions that are difficult within a set amount of time to get all the arrangements in place. Embalm or Cremation? What does each really mean?I hope that this explanation will allow you to make a more informed decision. This episode is very graphic and deals with procedures done to the body.

Continuing Sweeps Period, this episode is Part-One of a Five-Part Series from Sgt. Ron, who we previously heard on the popular Gay Prison Guard Series. Here Ron takes us back to his Military experiences and tells tales about his life in a very personal way.  Of course we are intrigued and curious about gay life as an airman, and over the course of this Series, his stories will give the answers.

Sweeps Period 2020 starts off with a humorous and heart-felt conversation with Randy Slovacek about his extensive Broadway and Touring Company performance experience. We last visited with Randy when we discussed his popular LGBTQ Podcast and Blog, both titled The Randy Report. Now Randy tells us in a two-part series about how he got his start in Musical Theater and all about his many big-name musicals performed with some big-name Stars ! If you enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, please take a few minutes and vote for this show at PodcastAwards.com . Simply click on 'Click Me To Nominate My Favorite Podcasts', then register (I think you can make up a fictitious email, not sure), and then that will take you to the Podcast Page. Using the drop-down menus, vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in the People's Choice category and also the LGBTQ category. Then, please remember to SAVE your votes at the bottom of the page! Thank you to all who vote ! ~Joey

I've had a really tough few days. This is a tribute episode. The show concludes with my rendition of On My Own from Les Miserables in memory of my Nichols.

Lessons Learned. Regrets. Happiness. Future Plans. All as I am now 62 years old, the Soft Senior age. If you like An Older Gay Guy Show and want to show your support for the podcast, please go to PodcastAwards.com and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in the LGBTQ Category and the People's Choice Category. Then VERY IMPORTANT, Save Your Votes at the bottom of the page. The deadline is approaching, so please, consider voting for this show. THANK YOU !

In this second episode I remind you of what you should have done between these two episodes, and then move on to development of Minor Characters and Filler between your Milestones. We then talk about the voicing and appearance of your Characters and how to join all the scenes together so that you have a good continuous story and a world that you have created. I also talk about my general writing style and how it might help you. Thank you for joining me on this adventure!

This is an awesome INTERVIEW show with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report Blog and Podcast. The Randy Report was recently named one of the Top 13 LGBTQ+ Blogs You Need To Follow by PRNewswire and it has been recognized as a Top 50 LGBT Blog by Feedspot.com In this enjoyable conversation, Randy tells us about how The Randy Report came to be, and the many aspects that keep the Blog and Podcast at the forefront of LGBTQ news.

Have you ever dreamed of writing the Great American (or wherever) Novel? Have you ever read a book and was disappointed and said 'Hey I could have written that better'? Well, here is your chance. Most of us are still locked up in our homes and have done just about everything to occupy our time. This is the PERFECT time to try out your writing skills. This episode (and Part 2 coming in a couple weeks) discusses my own method for writing my gay sports novel 'Northridge High Football Camp' and it's sequel 'The Guys of Northridge'. I can't say how other authors have produced their work, but the method that I used I think is a very learnable technique. So why not give it a try? In this Part 1, I talk about the genre of your book, about establishing your main characters and creating milestone scenes to bring your characters toward the conclusion of your story.

Most of us are isolated in our homes, with more of the world joining in as the weeks pass. This is a stressful time for many. But we can only do so much. We can, and will, work to protect ourselves and others. But we will have a lot of time on our hands. Maybe we can not only find things to take our minds off the situation for a short while, but maybe we could even be creative and do some of the things that we have always 'talked about' doing. Let's explore our creativity and see if we can do productive things, maybe even leaving our mark on the world for future generations.

So many gay men have to deal with their boyfriend/partner/husband cheating on them. Sometimes it takes years to find out, and by then you might have gotten legally married, bought a house together, co-mingled bank accounts and/or adopted children together. When your lives are so entwined, the discovery of one of you cheating can be devastating to the other. Is monogamy realistic? Can you re-build trust after being lied to? Is a cheater always a cheater? In this episode I tell you a story from my own experience with a cheating boyfriend. I also read to you an email from a guy who is at wits end on what to do with his husband who may be cheating on him. I also asked a question of an online Gay Over 40 group, if they had been cheated on, were there tell-tale signs. I read you their responses. This is always a difficult subject and is the continuation of an ongoing discussion about gay relationships.

In this INTERVIEW episode, I am joined by LGBTQ blogger Larry Pfeil, co-founder of theOUTfront Blog. Larry is a few years younger than I am, but grew up with many of the same tv sitcoms that I watched in the 1960's and 70's (some first in rerun syndication), so I wanted to get together with him and talk about some of our favorites. In this episode we talk about Bewitched, The Brady Bunch, The Addams Family, Gilligan's Island and a couple of others. This is a relaxed conversation where we had more than a few laughs remembering both the good memories, as well as some of the cheesiness aspects of the shows. I think you will find it to be a lot of fun ! Please check out Larry's media at: Blog Site:  http://theoutfront.com/ Twitter:     @TheOUTFront

In this first Interview of Season 5, I talk to Hollywood LGBTQ Independent Filmmaker, Jason T. Gaffney. Jason talks about the current film that he has in release called 'Analysis Paralysis', a funny (and HOT) LGBTQ comedy. We talk about his mission, the process of making this film and the reception that it has had by the older gay community. Jason is an award-winning writer, actor, producer and director and you don't want to miss this awesome conversation we had about filmmaking. Jason's films in release include: The Perfect Wedding Russian Doll Analysis Paralysis In post-production: Out of Body In pre-production: A Dekkoo Original Series: Marriage of Inconvenience Web Series: Fame Dogs Additionally, he is the author of the 'California Comedy' series of LGBTQ romance novellas: Creating Clark A Match for Mike Fixing Frank Jason can be reached at: On Facebook: www.Facebook.com/JasonTGaffney On Twitter: Twitter.com/JasonTGaffney Web Site: www.JasonTGaffney.com Analysis Paralysis is currently available through: Dekkoo Web Channel (channel is available through Amazon Prime)- iTunes- Amazon- GooglePlay

In this final episode of the decade, I tell you about my experience in working at one of the Large Weight Loss Companies for a year. I talk about what the food is like, what the strategies are for getting (and keeping) clients on their program, and what you can expect when you walk through the front door. Additionally, I talk a bit more about my strategy for going out on New Year's Eve all alone, and I ask a Vintage TV Trivia Question about 'Designing Women'. Please join me !

Do the Holidays get you down? Is it because you haven't had much luck in finding a Boyfriend/Husband? Well, the Holidays can be an awesome time for new connections (romantic and the other....).  I talk about this subject, as well as a funny story about my first meeting with my husband Paco. Also, my own '11 Rules for Getting A Second Date' (or for impressing on the first one).

It is that stressful and angst-filled time of year; The Holidays. For many of us who grew up in difficult circumstances with families and friends who are not supportive of us, the thought of going to a family gathering or dinner can occupy our thoughts for weeks prior to the event. Sometimes we think it is better to avoid going to these celebrations just so we can stay away from the drama. In this opinion episode I tell you about how I plan my stressful socialization and how to have a winning attitude when coming face-to-face with anger and insult.

The conclusion of the 3-part interview series with Officer Ron, the Gay Prison Guard. In this episode, Officer Ron tells us a few tantalizing stories about the inmates, as well as how and why he chose to become a Corrections Officer. My thanks to Officer Ron for his candid stories about his experiences. Officer Ron will be back in 2020 for another 3-part series about his long Military career that preceded Corrections.

Sweeps Period continues with Part Two of my fascinating interview with Officer Ron Odion, a 20 year veteran of the New Mexico State Penitentiary. Officer Ron is a proud gay man, and his unique perspective will be of interest to all in the LGBTQ Community. In this second part, Officer Ron tells us about the sexual encounters he witnessed, how the inmates viewed homosexual acts, and the gang activity that was often sexually related.

Part One of a Two-Part Series on my experiences as a Funeral Director and Embalmer.  This is an insider's look into what happens when a person dies. One of the reasons I wanted to do this series is that I wanted to let you know what happens behind the scenes and ways that you could save money when you have to arrange a funeral. This episode will be of interest to many of you, as we are all aging. Sometimes we have to do things we don't want to do, especially if we have elderly family members, or even yourself with pre-arrangements. I wanted to make that easier for you and give you some tips that will give you information that will be useful under those circumstances. Plus, it's just fascinating stuff ! For those who get grossed out easily, embalming stuff will be in Part 2, so no worries about this episode.

Sweeps Period 2019 begins with a fascinating Interview Show with Officer Ron Odion, a retired, Gay Prison Guard who worked in a State Penitentiary in Santa Fe, New Mexico for 24 years. In a 3-part episode arc, Officer Ron gives us a glimpse into the true-life workings of a prison: the guards, the prisoners and the many facets of activities that make up the Correctional System. Officer Ron tells us of his experiences in the Training Academy and how he was treated, and tells us stories of what is was like to be a gay man in this testosterone-fueled climate. Don't miss this fascinating look at an institution that most of us (thankfully) will never see on our own.

We all want to be happy. Yet for many, happiness seems to be elusive. Should we change our locations? Change our jobs? Search out better partners? In this look at elusive happiness, maybe the road map has been left behind. ** If you like and enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, I respectfully ask you to go to PodcastAwards.com and vote for this show in the People's Choice, the Society-Culture and the LGBTQ podcast categories. Thank You ! ** - July 31st is the deadline ! 

Are you a Night Owl? Do you sleep unusual hours, tossing and turning? I discuss my own experience with being a 'Night Person', and how I am striving to correct that life-long habit. ** Please don't miss my LIVE Show this Saturday, June 22, 2019. There will be fun Vintage and Current TV Trivia where you can answer in a real-time Chat Room and the Main Topic will be 'Masturbation", Choking the Chicken, Beating Off, Spanking the Monkey, Fapping. We will discuss why you should masturbate and interesting listener stories of their masturbation. It will be loads of fun. (you can masturbate during the show LOL). Please join me LIVE from 3:00 pm- 4:00 pm Eastern US time. (12:00-1:00 pm West Coast). Tomorrow June 20, 2019 I will have a short (5 minutes or so) podcast telling you how to come to Pride48.com and join the FUN !!!  See you then !!!!! **

One of the oh so fun aspects of aging, are the changes to your toenails and fingernails. In this episode I discuss the various changes that can occur, their causes and potential treatments.  If you are 40+ this will apply to you, but if you are one of my younger listeners, please do check out this episode so you can do some preventative measures to reduce and/or delay the damage that can occur. If you were a fan of the 1990's British TV Show 'Ab/Fab' (Absolutely Fabulous), don't miss my pathetic impression of Edina!

I have a recorded version of my LIVE Valentine's Day Night Show, and I'm chopping it up to use for various upcoming episodes. In this episode: I tell you the story of my Worst Date EVER in 1981 on Valentine's Day itself.  This was when I was working as a Funeral Director and Embalmer, and that back-drop makes for a story that you won't soon forget! 'An Older Gay Guy Show' on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6aAcpBNXH5nZju92Tml91A

Many of us older gay guys are single, and as we age, we might lose contact with friends through relocation, illness, death, arguments; a host of reasons. And that can lead to isolation and eventual depression.  One of the ways that I have dealt with loneliness over the years, is that I learned how to travel by myself and enjoy the experiences many times more than if I had a traveling companion. Now traveling alone for some, is a very strange concept. Why would you want to be alone? Isn't the point of traveling to be able to enjoy the location, sights, dinners, memories etc. with someone else? Maybe. But what if you don't have a boyfriend/husband or friends that want to travel to some of the exotic places you always dreamed of going? Should you wait until you have a partner to travel with? (We aren't getting any younger!) Or, do we have to give up on ever going to those places? I want to tell you about a few of my experiences with circling the globe alone and the self-sufficiency I learned along the way.

I found some news today that made me think about regrets and lessons in life, and I want to share some thoughts with you. Please....don't miss my LIVE Interactive Show on Valentine's Day night, February 14, 2019. There will be LOTS of Vintage and Current TV Trivia, I will tell you an absolutely unforgettable story about a Valentine's Day date that I had, and there will be some time for questions and answers. An Older Gay Guy Show LIVE Interactive I HATE/LOVE VALENTINE'S DAY Show !!  There is info in the last few minutes of this episode. Please join me !!!!!

Don't you hate it when one of your closest friends, maybe even your BEST friend, gets into a relationship with a guy and suddenly you don't hear from him as often, or hang out with him as often? And then you find yourself being invited out with the new couple, and you become the dreaded '3rd wheel'. That sucks. Even worse, what if all your friends in your immediate social circle are in relationships and you are the only one left single? So when you go out, you are the.....11th wheel? 19th? How do you possibly navigate that?!?  Let's discuss ! Don't miss An Older Gay Guy Show LIVE Interactive Show, the 'I HATE/LOVE Valentine's Day Show' on Valentine's Day NIGHT, February 14, 2019 from 10:00 pm - 12 Midnight, Eastern Standard Time (7:00 - 9:00 pm West Coast, 12 noon - 2:00 pm on Friday in Australia) More info on the LIVE Show will be coming next week.

The first episode of Season 4 comes via an email I received from a very nice gentleman in Australia. It has prompted a discussion on why young gay guys are so unkind and mean. As always, this is based on my opinions and my experience. I hope it can prompt some thoughts. The Vintage TV Trivia Question of the week is a fun reflection on The Dick Van Dyke Show from the 1960's. I am looking for guests for this season. If you feel you have a story to tell that relates to the older gay community, please contact me and let me know you'd like to come on. It is a pre-recorded interview that can be edited, so please have no fears about doing the show. It will be fun and relaxing. Contact me via: [email protected]

My infamous annual episode about how to survive, and thrive, during Thanksgiving and the approaching Holiday Season. (This is from my 'Beginner Diet and Fitness Show' Podcast) I hope you enjoy ! Happy Thanksgiving! My best, - Joey

A busy episode where I talk about reaching my goal of 100 5-star ratings, the result of The Podcast Awards and give details and some funny moments of our trip to New York City as a celebration of my husband Paco's birthday weekend. (the promised episode about College Wrestlers will be next week).

This year's Sweeps Period concludes with the 2nd Part of my conversation with Kris Venezia about what is new in the areas of cosmetic work available for guys. This is not a suggestion or endorsement for you to run out and get cosmetic work, but for many older guys, especially those who have suffered from the effects of HIV and the powerful drugs that are taken to keep it at bay, this information is important. With some, it could even be life-saving, as the depression and isolation people often feel can take its toll on the psyche. In this second half, we discuss Cool Sculpting, Gastric Bypass and Hair Pieces (and those in Hollywood that wear them!) So sit back and enjoy this insider's look at the world of cosmetic work. ** This Sunday, September 30, 2018, is International Podcast Day and will be the announcement of the Winners of the 13th Annual People's Choice Podcast Awards. I am Nominated for 2 Podcast Awards: The LGBTQ Podcast Award and the Mature Podcast Award. Please tune-in LIVE on Sunday at 8:00 pm Eastern Time (5:00 pm Pacific Time) for the Announcement of the Winners. Go to PodcastAwards.com to view the Awards LIVE. Thanks !!! **

At the request of a listener from British Columbia, Canada regarding his self-doubt as he takes a new position running a sports team, we look at two self-esteem philosophies: The Peter Principle and Impostor Syndrome. Now while these theories can be viewed as a negative source of esteem, when coupled with a more applicable and positive method of coping with self-esteem that we talk about in the second half of today's episode, we can assess our self-doubt easier when looking at this subject from various points of view. The episode concludes with a basic tenant of success that we can all apply in times of indecision and uncertainty. A Vintage TV Trivia Question is posed at the start of the show and the answer is given in the concluding minutes of the podcast. Thanks so much for joining me today ! - Joey

This serious episode is the second half of my series on Depression that started with the episode 'Depression: Emotional Eating'. Today I tell you about the serious danger that I was in due to depression after my parent's deaths. I discuss how my depression first surfaced, plans I had made to take my own life and treatment that I sought out to deal with my issues of grief.  But most importantly, I talk about revelations I had during this process that allowed me to view the world in a different way, that ultimately has brought me to the better place I am in these last 20 years or so. This episode is my personal experiences and opinions. Do not view this as any kind of therapy or professional guidance. If you feel you are depressed or if you ever have suicidal thoughts, please seek out professional help. I have been able to overcome my grief and relationship issues only through professional therapy and prescribed medications. This show is only my personal opinions.

In today's Sweeps Period episode, I think everyone will find this fascinating. Kris Venezia (from 'The Almost Transition' episode) returns to discuss all the current treatments available for guys who wish to look their best as they age. Even if you have no interest in having Cosmetic Work done, I think you will find it very interesting. We talk about Kris' history of Cosmetic Work, we also discuss Fillers, Laser Hair and Spot Removal, Cool Sculpting, how to tell if you might need some Hairline Restoration, and we even touch upon Melania Trump and Ivanka Trump. This is Part One of a Two Part episode due to the length of the interview. Part Two of this show will air in three weeks. I will do two other episodes first, for those not interested in this subject. Enjoy! - Joey

An Interview Show with Mr. Providence Eagle 2017, Jay Menick. Jay gives us insight into the Leather Community, it's clubs, contests and history. If you have never been a participant in this side of the Gay Community, this episode will give you some surprises. Enjoy! Tomorrow, Thursday August 9th, I will release a NEW Story Episode called 'Blond Shaggy-Haired Surfer Boy - My First Crush' in which I tell you all about my summers on a lake up North as a tribute to my father. And....I describe my crush's body in vivid detail from the memory of a voyeuristic prepubescent (that's me!), and I also tell you of some future plans that my Husband Paco and I have made. Look for that episode to be on the air tomorrow at 6:00 pm EDT. Thanks !!!! - Joey

An exploration of the issues and obstacles that gay men face when coming out when older. A Vintage TV Trivia question is asked at the start of the show and the answer is given at the conclusion of the podcast. Please vote for me in the Podcast Awards! (I really want to win!) Listen back 5 episodes to the one called 'Podcast Awards, Please Help Me' for the details of how to vote. VOTING CLOSES ON TUESDAY, JULY 31st. So please don't wait ! Thank you so very much in advance for your considerations.

This is kind of an addendum to several of previous episodes: Monogamy vs. Open Relationships / Gay Dating / Cruising / Bromance with an Ex / etc. I'd like to hear your opinion on this episode. You can reach me at [email protected] regarding this, or any subject. Please vote for me for the 2018 PEOPLE'S CHOICE PODCAST AWARDS! Go to PodcastAwards.com, go to 'Listener Nominations Now Open', fill out the short form, them go to the Nominations page. I am nominated in 3 categories: The Adam Curry People's Choice Award, The LGBTQ Award and the Mature Award. Please vote for me in all 3 categories. You will find An Older Gay Guy Show in the drop-down menus. And..... THANK YOU !

This is the 1st of 2 parts on a discussion about whether Monogamy is right for your relationship, or if you both prefer an Open Relationship. A listener has shared his story with me and allowed me to share it with you. I also reference an article called, 'Open Relationships or Monogamy: How Gay Couples Can Decide What's Right For Them'. If you have a life story to tell that you feel will be beneficial to this conversation, please feel free to send it to me at: [email protected] I would only use your first initial if I read the email in a broadcast. Part 2 will be in a few weeks. Next week, there will be a different topic for the episode.

The final episode about my interesting life as a gay Personal Trainer. In Part 1, I talked about how I became a Trainer and my experiences training in the various Boston gyms. In this episode I tell you about building my own gym in the basement of my house and what is is like to train gay guys in this private setting and I tell you about 3 guys who turned into more than training clients. This is the juicy stuff.

Can gay men have a friendship/bromance with an ex easier than a straight couple? Are you friends with any of your exes? I examine an article by author Jeremy Helligar as a prequel to the episode coming up titled 'Monogamy vs. Open Relationships'. Don't miss the 'Golden Girls' Trivia Questions at the end of the podcast! There is a new video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel that shows my first (and maybe last?) experience with Waxing My Nose Hair! The video also contains a workout segment and a talk about my frustrations of an aging body. (for Feet Lovers, the last segment has me barefoot with my feet closest to the camera!)

A continuation of a topic I started in the most recent 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube video, titled 'Getting Over My Social Anxiety'. Do I fit into one of the 3 major categories of those who talk to strangers?? Can I be a 4th category? I humorous look at the pitfalls of not having social anxiety anymore.

I have lived a very interesting life as an out and proud Gay Personal Trainer. Along my 33 years (and counting) career I have encountered just about every possible kind of person and situation. In this first part of a two part series, I talk about how I started out and became a Personal Trainer that was known to be gay. I have worked at many gyms and fitness clubs over the years and my choices of my lifestyle created the life I truly wanted. In part two (next week) I will talk about when I built my own gym downstairs in my house to train clients and started going to people's houses for training sessions. Working exclusively on my own created some very humorous and erotic situations. After listening to this first part, make SURE you DON'T MISS part two, it will make you laugh and shock you with some of the intentions of my clients. (all names changed to protect the innocent.....and guilty!)

The first in a 'Random Thoughts' episode that discusses some of the crazy and unusual thoughts that infect my mind from time-to-time. In this show, I talk about a truly personal and intimate Valentine's Day gift I received. Also, an update on the YouTube Channels that are growing.

WARNING: If you are SENSITIVE regarding the topic of DEATH, or have had a particular trauma with the death of a loved one, PLEASE SKIP THIS EPISODE. Humor regarding death is within this show. But if you are curious about the Universe and are not bothered by discussing death in detail, please enjoy this trippy, intense, thought-provoking episode about the unknown. This is THE MOST BIZARRE episode I have ever done. Strap yourself down, get a glass of your favorite imbibement and go on this ethereal journey with me. It will be one that will make you laugh and send chills down your spine. Come on board!

My annual Christmas show. In this episode I tell you about some major plans I have for Christmas of 2018, and I'm starting the planning phases right after the New Year. I also re-run the two awesome stories about my sister's previous Christmas tradition that I am now changing a bit to make it my own. This is a joyful episode (with background music) that I hope will inspire you to plan your own tradition for next year. I also give the answers to last week's Trivia Questions and I give some long overdue shout-outs.  Look for my year-end episode next week. My best wishes to all of you around the globe, as you celebrate your own holidays. Joey

A brief episode featuring some Vintage TV Trivia questions. The answers will be given at the start of the Christmas Episode which will be out next week. If you want to challenge yourself and send me your answers prior, I will tell you if you are correct. You can email me at: [email protected] or the Facebook Page for An Older Gay Guy Show! One rule:  NO LOOKING UP ANSWERS! Anyone can Google the answers, but what fun is that? See if you can answer the questions on your own just from your memory of episodes of these AWESOME Vintage TV Shows !

Two unbelievable things happened to me this week, and unfortunately, they ending up being related. Sit back and listen to a couple of stories that have taught me a most important lesson in life. Learn from my mistakes, please!

Tired of endless dating and not finding the right one? Or, tired of not even getting any dates to see if they are the right one? I give you my part of my perspective on gay dating and finish with an important exercise that will give you insight into the potential reasons why you find it impossible to date a decent guy. I hope it gives you some things to think about!

I recently re-connected with my friend from high school, Bob. I reminisce about our teenage years and my 'seduction room'.

A bit controversial, I discuss the various labels used in the gay community and consider whether some are welcome and good, or are all of them restrictive and insulting? Let's think about it. 

Senior LGBT folks are often alone and scared. I discuss an upcoming personal visit I will be doing and talk about what we can all do to help those of us in need. We are all going to be there, sooner rather than later, and if we join together as an older gay community, we can take care of and visit our LGBT brothers and sisters to make sure no one is left to feel alone and abandoned. Please give this episode a listen, it can change not only the life of someone else, but it can change your own in so many wonderful ways!  Thank you.

Are you unhappy in life? Have you had problems meeting the right partner? Are you somewhat depressed and feel hopeless at times? I have been there. In this episode I discuss the philosophy that I have adopted that has turned my life around. This is not an answer for everyone. If you are constantly depressed or suicidal, please call an anonymous hotline right away. But for the majority of people who just go through life and basically feel down and alone, I relate how I changed my life for the better. Please, at least give it a listen. Hugs to you, Joey

I have the most embarrassing phobia that seems to attack me whenever the Universe is looking for a laugh. I hope you enjoy my story about my strange paranoia. I end Season 2 with a silly, hopefully fun, kinda stupid tale of a conversation between friends. Enjoy the remainder of your Summer, see you all in 3 weeks for the start of Season 3. PLEASE, SUBSCRIBE !!

Not sure if this was a good idea, but I purposely messed myself up a bit so I could have some fun. This won't be a regular thing, fear not. But I hope you get a laugh, or a nice memory from it. A more serious look at Our Identity will be on the YouTube Channel for this podcast. The Channel name is An Older Gay Guy Show.

My first 'buzzed' episode, as my husband Paco and I celebrated the first day of Summer out on our deck with some wine. LOL In this episode, Part-Two of a Three-Part Series, I discuss an article about the most common relationship mistakes that gay guys make. These factors might be some of the reasons for break-ups that we have all experienced. I also request YOUR input for Part-Three of the Series that will be coming later in the Summer.

Part One of a 3-part series about Gay Relationships and Break-Ups. In this first episode, I begin to tell you about my personal relationship experiences and then discuss an article called 'Gay and Can't Find a Partner?' that lists reasons why gay relationships might be doomed from the outset. Part Two will conclude my personal story and will discuss an article called 'Top 7 Common Relationship Mistakes Gay Men Make'. And in the newly planned Part Three, will be a discussion about listener's stories about break-ups and we will try to figure out how we move forward in our relationships in a healthy, satisfying way. (future episode- no date set)

A completely different episode of the podcast. If you are just discovering the podcast and haven't heard an episode yet, please listen to one of the other episodes and then come back to this one. This is a creepy story that I wrote many years ago. I hope you enjoy it! Also, An Older Gay Guy Show has a NEW VIDEO up! Please check out An Older Gay Guy Show on YouTube. https://youtu.be/hu3A5O1H_34 Thanks !

An Interview Show featuring one of my closest friends who has had an extraordinary life. Kris shares interesting details of his early days as he prepared for his transition into a woman. He tells of surprising circumstances that led to a life-long quest for acceptance and to find his place in the LGBTQ community. It's a fascinating listen, and I hope you enjoy this first interview episode of An Older Gay Guy Show.

A discussion about the importance of screening for colorectal cancer. If you are approaching age 50, it is imperative you have this important procedure. I had been petrified beyond belief about having a colonoscopy due to a previous test I had done more than 20 years ago. I discuss the early procedure as well as my personal experience with having a colonoscopy. I take you step-by-step through what happened, and I think if you have fear of this test (like so many do), please, please listen to this episode. It literally could save your life. Thank you!

A discussion about Neuropathy, a common problem that develops with Diabetes, Advanced HIV, Lyme Disease, Shingles and many other ailments. While there is no cure, we look at current treatments for pain relief and management of the condition. Anyone over the age of 40 should listen to this episode, as it is becoming more prevalent due to excessive body weight in more and more adults.

As we age, it is not uncommon to have growing fear and anxiety about the future. In many cases, these emotions are not only related to health and finances but also to a sense of losing your connection to the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, I tell you a bit more of my own history of fear and anxiety, and we look at an article that gives us '5 Ways to Overcome Fear and Anxiety'.

A Christmas Tale of a tradition started by my sister many years ago, that I tried to do another version of a few years ago. I hope you enjoy it. 

Part 1 of a two-part series on learning dietary self-control and proper etiquette as a host or guest of a Holiday Dinner or Party.

An important message about the Thanksgiving and Christmas Holidays, as well as all the religious celebrations around the world, inclusive of ALL religions. You are all important in this world.

Today I'm going to tell you one of the most unusual things that happened while I worked as a Funeral Director/Embalmer. I think you'll find this story entertaining and interesting. At the time, I couldn't believe it actually happened! Please join me for a unique mystery.

Have you ever felt that you are less attractive, less muscular than others? Have you felt that at your age all your chances at happiness have evaporated? I talk candidly about outward appearance and why sometimes the grass is actually greener on YOUR side of the fence.

As we age, we all have concern about who will care for us when we are old. This is a discussion about some of the unknown details that might shock you, and I quote some articles that may offer some assistance in this very important factor as we move into our Senior years.

Age is just a number, right? So maybe there are some dreams that we used to have when we were 'younger' that we kind of pushed back for someday in the future, or maybe we just gave up on those dreams altogether. But do we have to? We aren't dead (or at least in most cases, LOL), so......can we still make those dreams come true? I'm telling you about one of mine, how I'm going to do it, and I ask YOU to conjure up those forgotten dreams of your own. Maybe it isn't too late for any of us!

Us gays LOVE our pets! In this episode I tell you a tale of what I consider to be the best thing I have done in my life. I hope it inspires you, I hope it calls you to action, and I hope it prompts you to give your pet family an extra hug tonight!

My history with Gay Pride Parades started with the 3rd Pride Parade that Boston ever had, back in 1973. This year is my return to those celebrations and I wanted to tell my story of why I haven't been to a Pride event in many years, and the strange introduction I had to gay life all those years ago.

Have you ever wanted to join a Gym or Health Club but feel a bit intimidated, and since you are a beginner, you don't know what to even look for in a facility? Is it right for you? Will you feel out-of-place in that environment? In this episode, I explain the inner workings of a health club and give you advice on what to ask, what to look for, and what to avoid. I go into great detail to explain what to expect. This is important information for both Men AND Women and I guide you through the process so that you will feel more confident and comfortable in your search for a gym that meets your specific needs and is right for YOU.

I share a story that I didn't think I would ever talk tell on a podcast. But having just had a birthday, I decided that I needed to tell this tale, and explain why I feel like a free man now. This is not the typical episode of this show. But if you are a person who has struggled with the past, running a movie-like memory over and over again in your mind, this story might be of value to you. This is a VERY personal account (all names have been changed) of a difficult time in my life, when as a teenager, my parents died. I talk about the one person in my life, that I might describe as someone that I 'Hated' for 43 years.

Gay Bars are closing all over the country. Why? Is it the Internet? Drug use? Our older gay community is losing its structure. Let's discuss what Gay Bars and Gay Dance Clubs used to be, and what is happening now.

Changes in the body can suck! I discuss bodybuilding and how the body is viewed as we age, and ask you for your stories about how you feel in the process of aging. I hate being told that I cannot do something because I am 'too old'.  Have you encountered this? Is ageism inevitable??

Diastasis Recti and Body Fat. Learn about a common condition that most people do not know about, and how to evaluate the potential risk of excessive body fat. This is a good episode for both men and women to hear. A more serious episode, this will be the first in a series on Gay Health, that will have additional episodes periodically. More of these types of issues are discussed on my other Podcast: Life After 30 Podcast, available on iTunes and other Podcast Applications.

Looking for a boyfriend but can't seem to get past a first date? Why doesn't it work out?  We look at some situations and suggestions on how to attract the right people.